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Really.... it's 4 steps
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 05:36 PM
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Literalism means a lot to you, and you need your own platform to expand upon this topic. Being buried here where no one can see it is a shame.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 02:52 PM
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This would be a good purple pill debate topic.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 02:33 PM
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All objects stay in perpetual motion unless acted upon by a force. What does this have to do with the topic?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 02:26 PM
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AWALT is actually a defensive tool not offensive. It's meant to protect against the extreme verbosity of an opponent trying to disarm one by stating exceptions.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 02:25 PM
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One thing I did learn in science is that the most fundamental truths (i.e laws) can be expressed in the most simple of terms. For example Newton's laws of motion. Each is a one-liner. The depth of knowledge to apply these one-liner laws requires a degree in engineering, which is the full-blown explanation and captures the nuances.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 02:16 PM
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I have no problem with that. My daughters bully outclassed her physically, so back up was needed. She's big enough know to lay the bitch down.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 12:42 PM
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I would do; 1)enjoyable company, 2) sex, 3) maintained household/food, 4)off-spring, and 5) child-care.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 12:38 PM
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Brave Captain ....your not on the RedPill Women forum now.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 12:35 PM
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This is a different era then. My daughter was being harassed on her school bus by much older girl a few years ago. Both the daycare lady and I contacted the parents of this kid to escalate our concerns over the matter, which resolved the matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 12:19 PM
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A hypergamous woman is intrinsically materialistic, self centered and opportunistic, and would fail to understand male virtues of loyalty, sacrifice, honor. These same male virtues lead to a weakness of oneitis, as well, but that is just what we do.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 10:42 AM
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My woman has cancer and recently just went major surgery, chemo and radiation. Cancer is not something she did to me, it's something that happened to us as a team. I'm not abandoning my team and mission because of some outside adversary attacking us.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 10:35 AM
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Did your parents go and give her parents some shit for bullying you at least?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 02:49 PM
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A few weeks after the NYE incident, he casually said, out of the blue, that he would be open to talking about me getting a Dom. That he still wants to try and likes it, but if it's not enough, I can look elsewhere. Seriously. Really, really bad. Wow willing to cuck himself for you is the ultimate beta one-it-is, no wonder you have no respect for him. Since you are already leading the relationship, it probably wouldn't hurt to ease him into RP (better MRP) under the guise of being a better Dom.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 01:09 PM
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red pill wives.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 01:13 AM
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National organization of women (NOW) and state (Usa) bar associations also actively collude to stop and delay modernization of family law. There is simply to much money to be made by depriving fathers of their kids. Also state agencies also profit from this injustice as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/17 11:57 PM
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Yes... I have heard a variant of this before. "Testosterone poisoning" was a phrase my mother in law used once in a discussion that I forgot the context of; however, she adamantly believed it having first hand evidence as the mother of 4 boys.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/17 08:01 PM
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One very sad and oppressed group are fathers alienated from their kids... feminist don't give a flying FUCK about fathers
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/17 07:18 PM
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If Islam is a supposed option, then why are the feminist types in the Usa seemingly embracing it?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/17 09:15 AM
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Didn't think about that but both would be interesting, as there is difference between RP presented on TRP (generally single) and MRP (supposedly harder mode).
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 03:06 PM
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I'll have to edit my original statement now...
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/17 03:00 PM
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What is a typical RPW to you?
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 02:33 PM
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FFM with mother? Don't root through the garbage of their life.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/17 10:20 AM
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She was into you 💕
/r/askMRP28/03/17 02:11 AM
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You're mad at someone else so you yell at your wife, who is also looking to vent her emotions because of the pain in her back. Now you at least understand how stupid all of that is, but she never will or care to learn why. This is why the you are the emotionally stoic "rock or the oak", whichever metaphor you like, as men at least have the capacity of for self-reflection. At least if you are going to be a weak emotional slob, do it for something more meaningful.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/17 03:24 PM
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Observation #3 tends to agree with other posts I have read about voter breakdown by gender/marital status in the recent USA election. Married female voters favored the conservative candidate as did most men, while single females were more inclined to the female liberal candidate. I never saw a martial status breakdown of the feminist marches on Washington but I just can't imagine to many happily married women wearing gynecologicaly correct pussy hats
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 07:41 PM
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lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 06:50 AM
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Some reasons may be 1) alpha widowhood, 2) most guys don't have enough game to keep these types of women satisfied
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 12:27 AM
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You will find this interesting: http://www.returnofkings.com/71288/pimping-techniques-from-the-1930s-have-become-required-in-modern-relationships
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 11:54 PM
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Indeed, that is why on TRM the advice to not root through the trash is given, and time may be better spent on a new relationship rather than salvaging a poor one.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 10:24 PM
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True respect for women is to understand them as they are ... not as your intellectually false social constructs would have them. Feminism has freed us from such untruths... join the parade of progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 12:17 PM
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This is not an ideology, but rather it's just observations about the human condition from a guy trained in behaviorism. He is not advocating the discussed behavior merely recounting human behavior as it's actually occurring and happening now in the real world around us. Turn off your tv and put down your romance porn books and look at the world around you. Men are not being trained to follow RP, RP is merely telling men the reality of the world they are experiencing. You want honest emotions and…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 11:37 AM
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If his name is on the birth certificate.....
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 07:58 PM
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Going to timeout in a corner is a SupperNanny move for poor behavior. Him in his room is not really a timeout location. Women always put children first especially very young children. If they perceive the kids are attacked and that means anyones parenting other than their own, they will defend them rightly or wrongly. How this defense (justified or not) is handled by her and you needs to be determined by discussions upfront and proper leadership bearing (i.e non-emotional or angry, but assertive…
/r/askMRP24/03/17 12:54 PM
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Why is this a sad view to you? Turn off the Disney channel and look at the world around you. What is your world view about relationships to replace this?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/17 12:20 PM
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Everyone has to fight for their place in this world. You have boundaries and enforced them anytime anyplace. The fact it has not happened for a few months is proof of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 01:00 PM
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From the full blog posting: This is what her Id knows. On some level of consciousness it knows she is choosing a life in which she can either submit herself and entrust her life, body and soul to the long term security of a deserving man (one who rates a full to two steps above her own self-impression), or she will resign herself to her own ‘independence’ and self-reliance with respect to long term security in a life with a man who doesn’t “deserve her” and who she will never submit herself to. …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 12:33 PM
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How timely Rollo has a post about suppression of RP knowledge by the feminine imperative, which is what this whole post and comments are about. Interesting.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 10:12 AM
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Granted she is a sophisticated hooker, but she does have great girl game. She is not that beautiful even with the augmentation, but she is very fit and feminine in appearance and seemingly charming even if it has a hollow look to it. Very telling is that in all her photos she is isolated and apart from her companions. Photos of Women who love their man almost always are leaning into his space and touching. She has game, but has used it for opportunistic materialism instead of finding love.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 09:48 AM
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Why are so many of the guys who know what they are doing having issue with it? This is the teaching moment that is lost on me. I don't have any issues with verbally explaining ideas and setting expectations. Actions not words is the MRP motto, but a teacher can't always teach that way with out verbal communication. I learned a lot from my father, but if someone had actually said what I learned from him (i.e RP insights), then it would have made even more sense. As it was growing up under BP femi…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 04:37 PM
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Indeed. All of these red-fonted flaired guys seem to hate this post. All of the ideas in this post have been espoused here-in this reddit before or could be read about in TRM.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 12:42 PM
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upvoted
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 12:40 PM
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Never get married unless they understand Marriage 2.0 and intergender dynamics.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 12:36 PM
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someone hacked your account?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 10:22 AM
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In a different post you claimed to have familiarity with "Saving a Low Sex Marriage" and being familiar with dread levels, but have never heard of "AWALT"? AWALT is a defense mechanism used by men to thwart female emotional manipulation tactics. This is standard fare.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 01:23 PM
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Unsolicited attention from a woman formerly sexually close to him is dread. Women are not dumb, the wife knows why another woman would want him back, but he knows why he left in the first place. With time the ugliness of past relationships can be forgotten and glossed over and replaced with some happy memories. Tempting to think you can do better this time with her is only stroking your ego.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 09:51 AM
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"My current wife sees and says "WTF"" I agree with your wife on this! I got one of these types of calls also. Don't jeopardize your current situation for thrown out trash.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/17 08:25 PM
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Game is amoral.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/17 01:32 PM
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I like these accounts too. Game is amoral.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/17 01:29 PM
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One other tell is her appearance of muscularity (if she is lean) and having some muscular definition. With age the estrogen levels decrease which means less fat is stored in the skin. Young skin has fat deposits, which make it soft and smooth. Lean older women lack these fat levels in the skin, so they have a muscular appearance like a man.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 01:49 AM
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Yes, dread game is a strategy for guys (alpha to beta types) to obtain sex within the marriage. Depending on how your wife views the husband will depend on the level of dread that is applied. Leaving or threatening to leave is a level of dread an alpha or similar, as perceived by the wife, would not have to do, while it may the only recourse for afc bb types. For a post wall woman that is into her bb guy only for cash and prizes, then nuclear level dread is a reasonable option.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 10:36 AM
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Have you ever read or perused the married RP reddit or read Blue Pill Professors book, saving a low sex marriage? From your post it seems that you skipped directly to dread level, nuclear fck me or fck you, without giving her options through lessor forms of dread to come back around to you. This is good advice for men, but how is this advancing female strategy?
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 10:25 AM
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It's more like rp is making you realize how weak you are. Nothing in what you wrote is mrp at all. She doesn't want to make you pissed, probably because in the past when she did ask you felt slighted and moody, because you were a crappy leader. Well maybe that was the case, but if you really are rp now, then moving forward don't ask her for permission to do anything, just do what needs to be done. You will be more helpful from your perspective by being proactive instead of reactive to her. she's…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 11:54 AM
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I'll bite. So RP as to take a woman from another rp guy, then how did you let it go beta on you to the point of losing her ? My guess is that you were just her bb branch swing to begin with who's turn is up. what lead up to her wanting a divorce from you?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 11:18 AM
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Some of the red pill stuff seems manipulative at times but I had nothing to lose, so I went and checked it out and I found some stuff I could use Being in a relationship were you give and give but get nothing in return is the ultimate in you being manipulated. If you were getting P*ssy, then I could see putting a woman on a pedestal, but you are not getting her best qualities at all. Take her off the pedestal..now.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 04:23 PM
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Epiphany phase "virgins" LOL! Massive Red Flag
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 12:23 PM
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MERP is only a term I have read on the Blue Pill forum. I have never read anyone here on MRP or TRP use that term before.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 12:09 PM
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In the military this is called reconnaissance by fire. Shoot at a suspected location of the enemy and if they shoot back then you found them out.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/17 03:03 PM
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Much of the time she is away from the house. The children were basically raised by our daycare lady (primarily) and myself when I got home from work. She would come home much later at night. It was an odd role reversal of sorts. When she came home she wanted to take over the caring role, but was to tired to do so effectively. Her only goal was to relax after work, which conflicts with the demands of children needing structure, supervision, and nurturing. This has been a major issue in our relati…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 12:58 PM
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Your banker friend sounds like my wife's story, except she came from poverty. Her chasing money meant that another woman basically raised our children. I can see her imprint on my kids in some of their behavior and ideals. We really didn't vet her on the basis of her value system (not that I have fault with it), which is a warning I would have for other before going down this path.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 01:16 PM
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fantastic post
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/17 11:11 PM
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f-trp is real. It's like a one person hate show. I posted, " support free speech" and then got banned!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/17 08:48 PM
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Last year I called my favorite steakhouse for a reservation, but they ran out of steak.. I thought he was teasing me. I asked him if he knew that today was steak and bj day, so how can you run out of steak?
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 02:24 PM
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"because I thought that /r/marriedredpill was about creating a happy and strong marriage by virtue of being a strong happy alpha male?" Strong happy family alphas DO enable strong happy marriages, BUT pedestalizing "awful" women just undermines all of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/17 05:42 PM
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reading since last week? then you know the answer to your question
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/17 04:57 PM
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other than butt hurt because the sisterhood was dissed what point do you have?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/17 04:00 PM
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the beta bitch squealed to his shrew who in turn, because sisterherd, ratted out your non conformance with the feminine imperative to your "wife". THAT embarrassed your woman, so you got shunned. Don't bring her next time to Vegas if she won't put out. Not much fun in sin city being celibate....
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/17 03:55 PM
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Only oven mitts for the gyn0centric BP biotches... you know who you are
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/17 02:49 PM
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A HuffPro article...pushing the misandrist fempowerment narrative is never going to leave men blameless LOL!
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 02:21 PM
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especially with tennis shoes
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/17 08:26 PM
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The only safe choice for future men will be to have children through surrogacy. Men who can't afford surrogacy will have to Ltr a woman or be poor enough that divorce is not an issue. The poor guy approach would have to be a true alpha cad weaving his way in and out of the matriarchy impregnating women for his offspring, in much the same way animal mating occurs. This approach would only work for a few percentage of men. LTR guys will have to take steps to lesson their risk of their future hyper…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/17 07:27 PM
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Indeed your status in her eyes is all feelz, which are temporal. I've had my wife hate me one day and I'm the king the next day. Always maintain frame. chicks are emotional creatures, so if you keep a positive leadership frame, then for them to go against your frame makes them the bad person. They don't like to take responsibility, to be the bad person, or to apologize, so you keeping frame gives them a way out. Their emotional tricks run deep and hard, but are easily countered using RP.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 12:32 PM
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she walked you down the primrose path into her frame totally....
/r/askTRP10/03/17 08:57 PM
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Wow, that article was so steeped in solipsism and feminine primacy it was hard to read. Feminism and student loan debts are the only thing saving these lads from being BB. I thought it was sad that a mom puts the sisterhood before her own sons. The article did mention some interesting points: the guys were expecting the wife to be an earner (to share in the provisioning burden of performance), and they were willing to share the domestic burden around the house. It is apparent that the shunned la…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 05:31 PM
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You are probably being catfished by your wife
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/17 01:27 PM
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Why does everyone think Red Pill is just some sort of Trad-con, 1950's BS? I see RP as a masculine reaction to feminism and it's excesses. Men have fared better under 1st/2nd wave feminism probably more so than women, if your are RP aware.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 03:46 PM
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If you are too skinny, they will bemoan the lack of an ass. That's why when you lean out you have to do squats/dead/lunges to build up the glute muscles. Squat butt, high and tight, is noticeable and better than no ass or a fat ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 03:05 PM
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I’m rocking what I call the ‘Edelman’ where it’s tight on the side and long enough to style on top. Never heard of an Edelman. The current style for guys is the undercut, which is what you described. Short almost buzzed sides and much longer hair on top. These are throwback do's to the 1920-1940's. If you have seen "Fury" with Brad Pit, he's the tank commander rocking the undercut, and the other crewmen have other styles of it. It really showcases the masculine angular face.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 03:01 PM
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I am very skeptical of anything a woman. let alone AJ, during a divorce says with regards to character of a spouse. It's all tactics to procure more resources and to get child custody in her favor. As of now, Brad has managed to come out looking good and a ruling may be in his favor. Even his near miss show-cased the plight of many past and current alienated fathers having to deal with evil misandrist family courts.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 02:57 PM
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LOL!.. the income discrepancy between mates in not an issue. It's just more money for the family - that's all. My wife pulls in more cash, so I have more to spend... it's great! Being a man is not determined by your W-2 (earnings statement), but by your intrinsic qualities. The manosphere talks a lot about the burden of performance, but the provisioning aspect of that in this FI world is such that it's now shared. Thanks feminism!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 01:57 PM
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female supremacism is the mark of an apex civilization-as the boys on TRP say - just enjoy the decline
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/17 02:06 PM
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MM lifted... I never knew that.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 01:41 PM
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At airports or traveling, I usually go to McDs or B-King and get their salads (no dressing). Low-cal, protein, and calories are provided on the menu.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/17 03:21 PM
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Reproductive success is not an RP praxeology benchmark for being a successful man. As drty_pr stated in a reply, "If they are pussies who simply knock the wife up because she wants to breed, yet don't possess the skills to lead the family, they are not alphas. If a man doesn't have the backbone to stand up to his wife and say he isn't having anymore kids, he is not an alpha. He is a lapdog who does what mama says."
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 01:56 PM
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interesting
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 01:52 PM
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You don't know much about RP praxeology. I would suggest The Rationale Male as a good starting point. .
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 01:32 PM
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ummm.... this is married RP and many of us are fathers. Criticizing TRP should be done on their forum. Also your analogy has doesn't translate well into human species behavior. Our evolved social structures allow for Betas and less to have children- that is why patriarchal civilizations based around marriage are the most successful.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 01:09 PM
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The smart one put their knife in a sheath so they don't hit trapped into the Federal slave system known as child support for a kid they never wanted to have.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 01:03 PM
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Dude's a troll. I think he's a virtue signaling male feminist that can't deal with women that want to add value to a relationship. He's invested in feminism (the bad kind), so now that it won't work here, he is mad.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 06:33 PM
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"The secret is that men, even red pill men, can find the same value in relationships that we do. The trick though is showing them that it can be a worthwhile experience by creating a positive environment that they want to be in." Ah... the essence of female game to use value to secure commitment. .
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 04:46 PM
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Being unleashed is better. No longer do you need to be judged as a "real man" simply by qualifying to women's needs. Unleashing has forced women to share the burden of performance, which a smart trp guy would recognize as a means to mitigate marriage risks if that is the path he wants to follow. This link to the Rationale Male is probably a discussion you would find interesting. https://therationalmale.com/2017/02/28/false-equivalencies/#comment-191104
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 03:36 AM
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Do you come from a culture with 50+ years of feminism changing the martial contract between the sexes? From your reply, I would suspect not.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 08:44 PM
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Yes that is due to feminism. Feminism has released men, at least partially, from the traditional burden of performance of protecting/provisioning a family. If there is no sexual, financial or social benefit from marriage, then why carry that burden. Marriage was formally a compromise between male/female sexual imperatives, but with that constraint gone then open hypergamy is now unleashed and the male sexual imperative is equally unleashed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 06:24 PM
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Indeed. A guy without RP knowledge going up against open hypergamy espoused by the feminine imperative, misandrist family laws, and misandrist Duluth model DV laws is like taking a knife to a gun-fight.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 05:43 PM
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That is one thing I hate about chic-speak is that men are dragged into it. I was reading a book about raising girls and the feminist author had to justify female behavior with repeated lines like .. and boys too or boys are this too. When I read a book about girls I don't care about boys in this context. I had to ditch the book
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 03:25 PM
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I have no sympathy at all for the boy on the couch. He knew where and what his "wife" was doing, when he gets off the couch to be a man, then I'll give a damn about him.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 04:14 PM
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Slow clap...
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 01:31 PM
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I am guessing but I think you are a male feminist with some issues.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 01:23 PM
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Look up some of the working with women topics on TRP. Those entries are geared towards guys working with women, but they do illustrate intra-gender dynamics to avoid.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 06:35 PM
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LOL! My wife must have read that article, as she tried this a few years ago. Honestly it didn't really do much for me that really improved over the basic act. It did for a good joke everytime we checked out at a store that had altoids near the register.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 03:04 AM
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upvoted this. set boundaries
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/17 10:50 AM
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Let's do it
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/17 10:14 PM
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I had to nuke my minecraft world to focus on RP. However, as I recall, you can make obsidian from pouring water on lava.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/17 02:17 PM
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I'm with you brother. I would take the money and I have even asked for money. If it's only an introduction date or a few dates into a relationship she means nothing to me, so paying for her company is ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 03:49 AM
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I've never paid a woman for sex (other than dating and marriage...). It's intriguing, so if I was single again I definitely would do it. If I'm going to pay either way, then I may as well get a professional.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 01:27 PM
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My wife did the same thing for visa and professional reasons by keeping her maiden name. Her professional life she has her maiden name but in the rest of her life it's my family name. I don't interact with her on a professional basis, so I don't care what she calls herself at work. In my life with her I expected her to take my family name.
/r/askMRP23/02/17 10:35 AM
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Never let a woman project an emotion onto you or try to define your emotional state for you. That will only put you into her frame. Just STFU for this type of frame attack. You're the man you leave if you want and stay if you want no explanation needed.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/17 02:09 AM
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You can hardly be in a "committed relationship" if she is being hypergamous.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:13 PM
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You would think this was common sense, but moms place their priority on babies then husbands. It's just the hierarchy of love/caring (men>women>kids), so no reason to be upset about female nature. Once the kid is in safe place (asleep) and she is nearby to monitor the kid, then she will be ready.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/17 02:54 PM
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10'd... LOL!
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 01:57 PM
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You can leave the house just take you kid with you that is what baby seats and carriages are made for. Initiate after the kid goes to sleep and kino her before that. When the kid is safe and asleep she will be at peace.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/17 11:36 AM
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Poor bastard, he got the girlfriend experience and now he has to come back to typical women.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 11:21 AM
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-How is she not a rp woman? She is not increasing her PIV N count and vetting men even though she does not have any relationship intentions in meeting all these men she feels it's hard not to see. Others may argue that any "physical" act increases the N count, but is there really the same emotional bonding over these other "physical acts"?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 12:37 PM
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Now that you are not using such misleading vocabulary, as you were before, your position makes sense now. What is your opinion about this post on redpill women> https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/5v0vou/of_ego_and_choice/
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 12:19 PM
1

Yes... I took kids and wife on Disney cruise. Look on line for a typical list of the cruise activities. If not on line then it will be in your cabin. Lots of activities each day (besides the pool) that you will need to plan on attending. Some activities need to be paid for in advance like snorkeling or day trips on a port of call. There are kid activities that are supervised, so you will have a chance for intimacy with the wife.
/r/askMRP19/02/17 10:23 AM
3

Oh... you're just plating him.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/17 11:35 PM
2

your main interest was the physical stuff, but you don't do physical stuff to get a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/17 10:57 PM
1

How much does he know about TRP, as in reading the reddit and knowledge of n-count and AF/BB ideas?
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 01:28 PM
2

How old are the kids and do you have divorce $ set aside?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 05:24 PM
1

The line from (single) TRP Chad to MRP Vet is misleading. Being a single TRP guy doesn't guarantee you are an ideal MRP champ. The stories of PUAs that get married and are revealed to be unable to cope with RP on "hard-mode" would mean that becoming beta in marriage is a possibility not included on this chart.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 01:29 PM
2

Yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 04:09 AM
3

then you'll like March 14th.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 04:06 AM
1

Didn't read the 50 SoG book or any rom-com genre books. My observation was only about the appeal of the 50 SoG movie. I don't see the dominance appeal of this movie at all, so the fact that he caved and went less alpha due to her influence must have some odd feminine imperative appeal.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 09:14 PM
10

He's not really an alpha male, because she beat him at his game and actually got him into her frame. Woman attracted to man and then changes him to her liking... .feminist win of sorts. Also there is the fact that his "dominance" was just revealed to be a manifestation of his own insecurity... another feminist trope win. Don't watch the sex in the movies, watch the emotional interaction from an RP lens.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 06:42 PM
2

Enlighten us Wizard of wall street- someone who is here to kick a guy when he is down.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 05:01 PM
1

Just go to hardware store and buy clothes line rope in whatever is her favorite color. Grey is so boring. There are lots of tutorials on-line about crafting rope lingerie with appropriate tie-down points. Get 50 feet or so and you're all set.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 04:19 PM
1

Exactly this!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 02:22 PM
2

A lot to read into this post, but I do take it you are still unplugging and not fully realizing MRP. Male leadership should be positive and towards a mission that is positive. Your attitude towards V-day may very well change with time once you are leading the relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 01:42 PM
1

But that really is the best gift anyway. My girls and I made the woman a photo collage. Time leading the girls and a gift for the wife. Double bonus
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 01:36 PM
1

Not verbally.. .more of a look like where is my card this morning, which I ignored. The girls and I made her a sappy collage of family pics and decoupaged it, so it's still drying in the basement. She loves that stuff, so it's all part of my kino barrage.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 09:09 PM
3

You're right... changing covert to overt
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 09:04 PM
4

March 14th is Steak and BJ Day. Last year my favorite steakhouse ran out of steak on that day, so I cancelled my reservation. Yes, it is a steak based overt contract that the guy ends up paying for anyway, but a lot more fun then V-day.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 08:36 PM
1

If she is high value, then why all the calluses?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 06:52 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2vykau/a_guide_for_beginners_to_mrp/ Read this
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 02:12 PM
-1

How does fapping hurt your "best friend"... did you get carpal tunnel?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 01:36 PM
1

NO
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 01:33 PM
1

Don't equate alpha with hotheaded, in reality they're opposites. Measured response is what alphas do and Military, almost six figs, fucked and married a single mom who was about to hit the textbook definition of the wall, SAHM and she was able to get a baby out of you for that little cherry on top. and Jesus. You fell out of the BB tree and hit every branch on the way down. spot on. Hot headed equals passive aggressive NICE GUY BB.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/17 11:36 PM
1

You're trying to shame a guy about casual sex in a post about a woman's casual sex life.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 06:32 PM
2

value and feelings are not the same thing. Having a woman that makes you feel happy to see at the end of the day is a woman of value.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/17 04:46 PM
2

I would like to read TFA's opinion about this. My opinion is that marriage can be good but a man has to be in it for himself. Women can provide value in companionship, sex, domestic skills, and motherhood.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/17 01:40 PM
6

It's not fucking trump it's your own weakness. Feminism is just a disguised form of soft and sometimes hard misandry that has duped too many good women into following it. If she intrinsically hates you for being male, then she is of no use to you at all, and is a toxic female. Not Tolerating any "ism" based upon hatred and bigotry should be a hard boundary in your relationship. The organizers of the toxic womens march were in fact 1000% worse than trumps arrogance and blowhard p*ssy grabbing com…
/r/askMRP12/02/17 01:39 PM
1

Also the most overweight. Is there a correlation between body fat percentage and skills or empathy? Not on topic at all just curious, as I don't trust skinny or fit nurses.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/17 10:46 AM
15

Societal shaming of men for their biological imperative just to satisfy female hypergamy is one of the main reasons TRP was created.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 10:39 AM
1

I did something similar. I always told my kids that if you let others get under your skin and react to it, then they simply will not stop picking at your weakness. In RP sense this would be to maintain stoic frame, but I didn't know that a few years ago. I told my girls that if you let them know they got to you, then it won't stop. If they cant' get to you then they won't pick on you, as you won't be any fun. My youngest is an expert at this.
/r/askMRP10/02/17 02:40 PM
0

No...she is spot on considering the environment you created.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 02:20 PM
1

read the ask mrp link, so its a different story then I first thought. total shit test. Just ignore it, as her jealousy is not your concern. she is reacting like this is some type of unintended dread, which is interesting. I'm sure she is hearing through the office female gossip line a lot of shit, but that's her problem. If you have skills then you can AM her with this a lot, as it's really just ridiculous.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 11:20 AM
1

You need to go to trP and ask the gaming guys there how to avoid bpd chicks stalking you and ensure there are no work place reprecussions.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 10:52 AM
2

The closer you get to the truth the more shrill the squeals and the more vulgar the p*ssy hats.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 02:42 PM
1

slow clap
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 02:17 PM
1

Read those only a few times... it wasn't locker room enough for me to believe it was real. Dodged a bullet.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/17 08:04 PM
1

LOL! He should have read the TRM piece on invasion of male-spaces.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/17 08:03 PM
1

Of course he has not. He doesn't realize that most family courts have outdated sexist laws and sexist judges that will just find a way to give it to a guy just on principle. One of my friends was in a similar situation and the judge still made him pay a token amount to satisfy his sexism. On a positive note the fact that she is employed at a substantially higher level of pay does give him some divorce protection if he plays it right. More significantly is the shared parenting issue. If she works…
/r/askMRP08/02/17 04:01 PM
1

Duh... of course she is.
/r/askMRP08/02/17 01:46 PM
4

that was the biggest BP tell in the whole post. This only shows he is not ready to do this in his frame at all.
/r/askMRP08/02/17 01:44 PM
1

I'm doing this for me. Now she wants the four of us to go together to a resort for winter break. Just No! Separation is just a prelude to divorce... you need to be planning for that outcome- nothing else.
/r/askMRP08/02/17 01:43 PM
1

Just live together or date exclusively. Don't jump back into marriage to quickly just after you got out of one. She is selling her self hard to You. If you live together, she may not be able to keep up the façade for long.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/17 10:50 AM
1

Honey mustard or GTFO!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/17 10:42 AM
4

Seeing a single woman interact with someone else's child in a good-mothering way is one of the most potent instant RMV-boosters I've ever experienced! This is true.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 08:51 PM
3

My daughters do this type of stuff all the time. I usually just smirk, identify their behavior type, shaming, manipulation...and then give them pointers on how to be better at it for the future. They look at me in total disbelief but still don't drop the charade even though called on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 06:33 PM
1

So the MIL is in charge of her family... what does that have to do with you? Someone has to be a leader- the question is will it be you in your family unit? It's already a given fact that any woman will contest frame as a Sh*t test, which is nothing new. You at least have the gift of seeing her battle plan. Study her family dynamics to gain insight. If you get together as a group, you can actually talk about something that you want to talk about with the group or pull out the FIL. Let the chicks…
/r/askMRP07/02/17 01:24 PM
1

Ah yes... all the gynocentric pronouns, which clearly indicate that OP is afraid of or already has sunk into her frame.
/r/askMRP07/02/17 01:18 PM
1

Respect is conditional for the individual of course depending on your perceptions of them; however, a "popular stance" implies that disrespect is a common theme towards women as a collective at MRP, which I don't agree with. Unkind truths are revealed here, but that is not disrespect towards women- it's just the truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 03:49 PM
2

I respect women, I know that isn't a popular stance, but they're human. Really guy. Who on this forum doesn't respect women?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 01:24 PM
1

Nice summation of the MRP ideals.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/17 12:44 PM
1

Penis shaped oven mittens, if she is a blue pill chick or if she is a feminist a foam vagina hat and a sandwich making cookbook. If she is a real woman of quality that is not a feminist but feminine then you should just go with what your impression of her tells you to get. For example my wife hates real flowers, chocolate, and stuffed animals, so I don't get those. She is very sentimental and silly, so a simple hand made card made by me and the girls delivered at dinner is a winner.
/r/askMRP03/02/17 01:38 PM
4

@husband of the decade: pssst.... (whispers in ear); don't use the "D" word. I did like reading this, as others mentioned, as it is a different perspective on RP dogma. What I did find interesting was the extent to which the ladies actually can control the relationship tempo. Most guys will fall into a praying mantis like one-it-is mode in a relationship, so for a SO to lose that level of power she must really try hard to be a b*tch.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 02:22 PM
12

Arguably a man's RMV declines the minute he gets over-committed to a relationship to the point where commitment is merely taken for granted (i.e. married). From a man's POV one way to re-establish RMV is to shake up commitment being taken for granted. That's a dreaded topic in this forum, so I wont' go there, but I do see how your thread can explain this in a different way. Preferably, probably for both involved, if the SO takes the initiative to re-establish his RMV along the lines of Laure Doy…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 02:11 PM
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His "wife" is not a validation of his life or of any man's life. If you honor your fallen friend and hold him in esteem that is all that matters.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/17 09:38 PM
1

Yep, it was like being that guy in Basic Training that shows up with toe nail polish
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/17 08:52 PM
3

Not Indian or in an arranged marriage but do casually follow Indian MRA sites as they sometimes cross post international fathers rights issues. The point being that you are asking about cross cultural issues; however, the idyllic docile Indian woman of your stereotypes may not exist. We may have more in common than you think. Just saying keep your eyes open.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/17 01:37 PM
1

Not sure where you live, but Us states have widely varying alimony and parental sharing (assumed 50/50) laws. This needs to be part of any long term planning on your part as economically feasible.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/17 11:19 AM
5

Well played Sir. No DEER'ing, no drama, no blue pill discussion about her mommy, just action. Boundaries were reinforced with the MIL and spouse with ZFG. This is something a lower value man would do at his peril.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/17 12:58 PM
3

don't back pedal now brother. I am down with you 100%
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/17 12:44 PM
1

Nothing wrong with saying an obvious 9 is attractive. That is overt male communication. By stating the rest of your response, "but it doesn't matter whether I am attracted to her or not, because what counts is character." you basically communicated in female sub-com language that you would f*ck her. DEER'ing is not always taken literally by women, as they listen/hear the female sub-com of emotions/feelings to arrive at what they think is true based upon projection or feelings... which in this ca…
/r/askMRP27/01/17 03:17 PM
5

Indeed, a lot guys when I was younger only wanted to marry the Playboy centerfold model. This reminds me of my father who told me that I needed to marry a woman with more than looks. Yes, she is attractive, but can she cook and will she be a good mother for my grand-kids he would ask me.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 02:29 PM
2

the whole anti trump post inauguration spectacle was just pointless. Protesting a projection of their fears, which are based upon their own hetrophobia, misandric, anti white bigotry. I didn't watch any of it except for U tube highlights. Not all women were down with this spectacle and the Msm portrayal of that is highly misleading. It would have been meaningful, if they marched for something substantive like family law reform, shared parenting rights, dv law reforms.
/r/askMRP26/01/17 07:10 PM
2

yes it can be all to easy to feel the warm embrace of blue side calling out to you
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 04:25 PM
3

I feel sad after reading your stories about not seeing your fathers. As a dad I would feel devastated if I couldn't see or be with my little girls. I'm in groups that advocate for an end to parental alienation of a parent from their kids, and the stories of the parents are just mind blowing that such injustice is allowed to happen. Reading stories from the kids point of view is just overwhelming and proof that social changes need to be made.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 03:40 PM
1

You don't like my pun
/r/askMRP26/01/17 02:42 AM
-1

Nice.. a covert Captain Sava-beta
/r/askMRP25/01/17 08:16 PM
2

It would have been great if as per the dictionary definition of feminism they advocated for true equality and addressed issues of parental alienation and shared parenting
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 02:42 AM
3

It's unattractive if the behavior is overtly masculine as to be competing with the guy like another guy would for dominance.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 07:21 PM
3

25 years old is then just a far off age at which you think you will be more mature and old enough for marriage, and from the information you have provided I would have to agree.
/r/RedPillWives22/01/17 02:07 PM
5

why are you both so hooked on some magical age 26 (you) and 30ish (him)? Other factors such as fertility, education completion, job training completion and have a secure job are more significant. My own daughters, unprompted by me, have expressed a desire for marriage and children at a younger age 22. Mainly because her parents (sO and me) got married so late in life that as her father I am as old as some of her friends grandparents.
/r/RedPillWives22/01/17 01:16 PM
1

LOL!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/17 12:31 PM
1

she wants to separate over a flag? why are you afraid of your wife? Is it at least a cool flag? what is post karma?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/17 01:07 AM
1

Almost no remorse as she had already rationalized it as my fault for ignoring her. Not a keeper. No kids then get unhitched for sure. Kids, then take some time to get unhitched safely.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 08:20 PM
2

Indeed, there was one woman I only worked with remotely over the phone, but her normal voice was so low and sexy. I always imagined I was talking to Jessica Rabbit.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 06:18 PM
2

How do you know he's TRP aware or just a being a guy?
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 08:17 PM
2

She has a fear you're judging her, women hate that, if you acknowledge it, it becomes real. This indeed. I set up a separate bank account for some of my direct deposit, and the first reaction was that I didn't trust her, blah, blah, blah... and a couple doesn't do this.... and something else I don't remember. She was mad, but I will do with my money what I want. Don't DEER under any circumstances. Yes, I set up my account and simply stated that, as it's a fact, several times very calmly and reas…
/r/askMRP19/01/17 05:06 PM
1

All those things you are supposed to do by the feminine primary social order are to make you her better beta and subvert your masculine imperative. Male and female goals do overlap when there is a goal of having a child raising family, but a man should never lose himself in the blue pill fantasy or coast because they think they have it made.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 08:42 AM
2

From the cited blog, "The infamous Wall a woman reaches (or slams into as the case may be) is somewhat of an ambiguous term that was actually coined by catty women long before the manosphere came into existence. It used to be a relatively less combative term that women used for one another in an effort to disqualify a sexual competitor. A woman implying another woman had “hit the wall” was marginally more polite than calling her a slut, but the latent purpose is still the same – disqualifying a …
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 05:56 PM
2

This has always been the issue with ladies reading RP which is generally male-centric advice.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 01:47 PM
1

You kept frame for yourself and presented a role model for the other guys. A typical FI meme squashed so her mind was blown... now it's time to re-build her gently into your frame.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 11:16 AM
7

Another "Nice-guy" that has found himself.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 12:26 PM
10

Ironically your post is very passive aggressive. Your friend is simply filling the leadership/power vacuum that you created.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 11:51 AM
1

If you lift enough the natural boost in T keeps it hard...no blue pill needed.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 06:56 PM
2

You might find this link interesting, as it describes your issue about not understanding the difference between male/female communication modes. https://therationalmale.com/2017/01/04/alpha-beta-communication-modes/
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 02:05 PM
2

My daughter asked me what leadership meant once, because I went to a leadership class. After a not so brief speech about people, schedules, trust, etc... she got bored, and said I didn't know. This quote is the best leadership explanation I could find. Trust in this case means integrity and competence.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 07:02 PM
2

Leadership is getting results in a way that inspires trust (from SC Jr)
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 06:08 PM
2

My group is very small. I came late, so our group left. I stood alone to continue the information awareness campaign. Met lots of people receptive and some hostile. The worst was a female officer, who scoffed at the idea of fathers rights, and I know she wanted to run me off, if she could have found a reason other than her hatred. Another male officer approached me later, and said he was in a similar situation confronted with blackmail over this "loving wife" threatening to alienate him from his…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 01:37 PM
2

This why (i.e blue pill devaluation of marriage) I have joined the fathers rights movement, which is a group advocating for equality in parenting, changes in child custody laws, and enforcement of fathers rights to see their own kids. Equal parenting is opposed by NOW and other feminist... wonder why? Currently being a divorced father puts you at a huge financial risk and risk of prison. Being a father should not be a pathway to prison or financial ruin at the hands of the feminist state. The TF…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 11:36 AM
0

LOL! Cabin boy..
/r/askMRP10/01/17 07:21 PM
2

You don't tame or dominate a woman -- she gives herself to you on her own. You need to be that guy that she wants to be that way with. That is the first adjustment you need to make in thinking.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 06:20 PM
8

pride in "women power" that's called female chauvinism or misandry. You did not vet very well, but now are at least recovering from your mess. Feminism (the normal 1st wave part anyway) and RPW are easily reconcilable. Just because there are inherent differences between the genders doesn't justify unequal representation before the law, in opportunity, or wages.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 05:03 PM
5

Also there is the concern about getting the feminist State involved in your life.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 03:12 PM
3

this a good post, which I had a few months ago. It's all in the timing.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/17 10:50 AM
1

I'm not getting this at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/17 10:16 PM
1

Exactly.... she'll either get wet or be wetted.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 09:21 PM
1

What do you think about the whole wetness indicator? Don't over-think this. Actions(sex) not words (whining about wetness).
/r/askMRP06/01/17 07:47 PM
2

Muay Thai rocks. It's a combat sport, so get some quality gloves and shin guards and a mouth guard.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 10:33 AM
3

Are you married?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/17 07:28 PM
2

Awesome... good read
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/17 01:25 PM
1

I anticipated some whiteknighting and blue pill bleeding from the anus from some of the purple pilled manginas who frequent this site so I deliberately left out the last two paragraphs. So here is the final part of the post. To all the haters, please go and change your tampon. didn't follow this. Is this post complete or more to come?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/17 11:37 AM
1

I have been called out by select "women" for the door opening. I just don't do it for them anymore, but other ladies I do.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/17 10:27 AM
4

abundance mentality is lacking here. there are plenty of cool women that are not violent and actually are loving and caring.
/r/askMRP03/01/17 11:31 AM
2

For the young ladies, at what age were you allowed to start dating? How involved were your parents in vetting/meeting your dates?
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 12:39 AM
2

I have a few friends that married women with other mens kids. the biggest issues are the womens kids interfering in the relationship and not accepting the dude as a family authority figure. the woman sides with her kids (of course) and the guy is left out.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 12:24 AM
3

what are tradcon values?
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/17 04:41 PM
4

You became your own mental point of origin by removing the shackles of the feminine imperative and quit pedestalizing p*ssy. Awesome post.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 02:43 AM
2

For a cross post there is a banner page saying to go away..LOL! I don't go into BP unless they cross post, so it may be possible to post if you go into BP if you don't access the sub via a cross post.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 02:01 AM
2

I've seen your work when TBP cross links to MRP. They no longer allow us to comment on TBP during their cross posts. I have never trolled before, so I don't get the ban.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/16 10:14 PM
3

TBP says they don't tolerate hate speech, but honestly they have just internalized misogyny issues and open misandry. There is no greater evil than the righteous.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/16 10:11 PM
3

It's a rite of passage to becoming MRP flaired....
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/16 04:50 PM
2

Definitely keep the U-tube to <10 minutes and have lots of graphics and pics. Good lighting is a must if you are going to be on-screen talking.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 10:41 PM
1

I did not know this, but in joint property jurisdiction there is a concept known as marital debt. Wow another reason to add to the list of reasons to avoid marriage... There is no concept known as LTR debt (as long as you don't have a joint account or have any authorized users), so in an LTR you are safer.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 02:29 AM
1

I don't get this bit about her opening up a card that you will both be responsible for. If her name is on the card, then it's her debt and not yours. If she opens an account with your name but without your consent, wouldn't that be identity theft? My ex-wife did this too. A few years ago I would get calls from collection agencies looking for me to pay bills that were in my name. She lived about 2,000 miles away from me at the time, so I was clearly being taken advantage of. I said that the debt …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/16 10:24 PM
1

Of course it's a sign of respect.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/16 09:16 PM
2

AWALT is timeless...
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/16 09:09 PM
3

Honestly, the reason you shouldn't have sex too early isn't lack of commitment. To be honest, by giving it later you are playing the game on easy mode, but if you're good at the game, then it doesn't matter. The reason you should wait is vetting. Women can't think straight after sex and a bond is created. Things that are deal breakers before sex, if they came up after, are more likely to be tolerated. That's why you should wait, so that you can choose right, not because of commitment, frankly, i…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 09:40 PM
2

LOL! Called you out as pussy twice...but you're still alive. At least you are not in a 100+ comment thread being a bitch about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/16 10:22 PM
1

This does sound like a female version of dread
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 02:35 PM
1

Wiki quote; Myofascial release (or MFR) is a soft tissue therapy for the treatment of skeletal muscle immobility and pain. This alternative medicine therapy aims to relax contracted muscles, improve blood and lymphatic circulation, and stimulate the stretch reflex in muscles. Had to look this up, as I have never heard of this, but I have always stayed active. Guys in my combat sports class have this condition from not doing enough range of motion activities or a variety of exercises instead of j…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/16 11:00 AM
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A couple gems (I don't suggest staying there for any length of time, it's the internets version of a harpy nagging wife) I get burned out reading all of the hate over there... it's depressing.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 02:29 PM
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touché!!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 11:22 AM
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the other side is just an echo chamber of hypocrites posing as the righteous. It's a way to vent their internalized misogyny and a cover for their open misandry.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 10:58 AM
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Do you read Married RP (i.e MRP)? That is RP for married guys - nothing like TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/16 03:07 PM
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Now I understand the power of STFU'ing....LOL!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/16 12:44 AM
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Ahh... this explains the frequency and timing of trolling.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/16 11:07 AM
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Your duty as a father is to protect your kids. Despite her issues, she is still the kids mother, so keep that in consideration for their feelings towards her. The sex offender is nothing to you and a real threat to your kids. Don't waste your time "clearing the air" with STBX and the sex offender. The only thing you'll hear in that conversation will be total BS excuses and massive hamstering on an epic scale. Let her yell, curse, and carry on all she wants and just look at like a foolish brat or…
/r/askMRP17/12/16 11:49 AM
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Exactly, if you love and understand your SO the most mundane of things is a gift that shows you care and just get her.
/r/askMRP16/12/16 02:59 AM
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I bought my SO a xmas apron and stove mittens last year. Buy her a gift that comes from your heart, whether it's filled with love or less than love, that you can live with, without regret.
/r/askMRP15/12/16 11:43 AM
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The biggest indicator that you are actually succeeding at RP is the feeling of total freedom to leave. If you're not feeling that freedom, then you haven't cultivated abundance (and therefore, the felt certainty of options) in your life for yourself. RP doesn't mean not wanting it to work out; RP means being able to laugh it off if it doesn't. This is a rite of passage from Blue pill putz to being a family alpha.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 11:21 AM
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LOL! Fighter pilots and bomber pilots and nuke are bad-ass though
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 11:16 AM
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Yes.. I have heard this called the leveling effect. Women form cliques in which everyone is equal or at the same level. It's like a crab bucket though with trying to enforce equality in the group through shaming and fear of loss of social acceptance in the group.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 01:26 AM
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Has she proposed to you yet??
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 06:44 PM
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Up-voted for brutal truths
/r/askMRP13/12/16 11:12 PM
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Yeah this. Your wife is already all over this shit. So if you do anything to exploit this, it will be very transparent. From what was written you are already getting massive amounts of benefit from it now. What better social proof than her BFF's desire for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/16 10:52 PM
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Wow getting a shit test over IM (i.e. You're never gonna change right?) from an ex-whatever is a bit much. She is cyber stalking you via FB. The hypergamy is strong in this one. Abandoning you when you are down, then trying to reconnect when you are more out and about, and she lost her job, so she needs a new provider. If you are enough of an PUA, then get her only as a plate. If you don't want to try to plate her, then tell her to "stay in contact on FB", STFU if any other IMs, and leave it at …
/r/askMRP13/12/16 05:28 PM
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You invite them over, as he is your friend. The wife/her money issues can be resolved in the long-term; this is not a emotional issue like an affair or something. The two ladies don't have to talk to each other and can hang out in separate parts of the house if they want.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 03:59 PM
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Hyperbole that's all. Everytime I hear hard mode I have to smile. It's like a horse, once you learn how to ride it's easy, and just keep your hands on the reins. Any skill set takes some time to learn, but this is a more natural skill set that you have to give yourself permission to learn. Guys in my office complain about there 1X-month sex or no BJs. These are the same guys that are mildly horrified when I mention anything with an RP viewpoint.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 03:09 AM
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Hard mode like a bear with a foot caught in a bear trap.
/r/askMRP12/12/16 08:50 PM
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Masculine leadership has a timeless quality about it. It can not and should not be pinned to any era. It's the 21st century and the changes wrought by feminism are here to stay. Many of these are actually positive benefits to men. It's only the evil 3rd wave misandry that hurts men and women with divorce rape and parental alienation (bad...).
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/16 05:46 PM
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Your wife reads your post, so of course you are going to say this..LOL!
/r/askMRP12/12/16 11:18 AM
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Her "exes" and a single mom? You didn't read RP soon enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/16 09:19 PM
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My thought about this is that she is showing her hand of wanting other guys without realizing it. Hypergamy is cruel, but if it's well financed then it's profitable.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/16 09:13 PM
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Blue pill professor has a book "Saving a low-sex marriage" that explains dread in more detail. Anthol Kay also puts out advice for saving a low-sex marriage for another perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 06:13 PM
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Gyms that train real fighters are the best if you are getting into a combat sport. I'm in one and it's like being in the army again- really awesome. Fighting is the ultimate in physical conditioning. The excitement, physical exertion, and intensity during fighting take a toll quickly on the body. Keep training and you'll get more endurance. Do 1-minute rounds and work up from there.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/16 12:18 PM
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Trickle truth has finally told the complete story. He failed the burden of performance and hypergamy sealed his fate.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 01:13 AM
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Are you dumping the guy in the other thread for this unfunny guy?
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 12:44 PM
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This is probably a very primal urge to best an opponent, but actually pretty dumb, when the prize is not worth winning. A cheating whore is not worthy of your time and attention yet alone worth fighting over.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/16 12:37 PM
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I'm not seeing how her seeking your validation makes you beta unless you are complimenting her with a covert contract in mind or only to her demanding specifications. Her comments and validation attempts are a perfect segue way into kino on your terms.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/16 11:53 AM
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Hanukkah is minor Jewish holiday celebrating the victory of the Maccabean revolt against the Greeks.
/r/askMRP09/12/16 07:03 PM
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STFU'ing on an IM means to not respond to or continuing texting It's obvious you are in her frame. Don't go to the party if you don't want to- end of conversation. Not going out of spite is weak though, and just a lame as going as her lap-dog.
/r/askMRP09/12/16 11:55 AM
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TRP is non-denominational
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 04:03 AM
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You must be dyslexic, as I wrote Happy life, happy wife. If you follow RP, then you know that it's about making yourself your own mental point of origin and living an awesome life. If you create a happy frame, then others that are in it will also be happy under your leadership. Happy life, happy wife is the total opposite of happy wife, (supposedly) happy life of a BP simp. The simp prioritizes the wife first thinking if she is happy, then he might get some happy time in return.
/r/askMRP09/12/16 04:02 AM
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TRP is amoral
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 03:47 AM
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Stealing is rude, and investing in yourself monetarily, timewise and spiritually is apparently very much needed. Your Blue pill friends must have a copy surely.
/r/askMRP07/12/16 06:05 PM
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Read no more mister nice guy from the side-bar. Make sure to buy a copy at full price.
/r/askMRP07/12/16 05:24 PM
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You clearly have not read the side-bar or the MRP site. Not one post says to be rude or an assh*le. You seem to have a lot of preconceived notions about this MRP or maybe it's a troll attempt to set frame...? One thing is clear you are a wanker that needs to read the sidebar material. Being your own man and assertive is not being a assh*le that is only what the weak believe.
/r/askMRP07/12/16 05:06 PM
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I am not really in a position to start being unpleasant to my wife in order to improve my marriage. How is this advocated in MRP? Happy life; happy wife. Be a leader. Leadership is positive and uplifting. I've given up trying to initiate sex because she won't. It's like a ballroom dance. The guy leads and the partner dances along in-step. She may not want to dance with you because you are not attractive as a dance partner (i.e no leadership and lack of physical attraction).
/r/askMRP07/12/16 04:00 PM
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Not sure if you are a troll or just an AWALT. In either case, the problem with women reading male-spaces is not that they find out their SO's are reading it, but that they don't understand it. The lack of understanding arises from solipsism. Because a woman has not experienced life as a man, with male biological impulses, then due to her self-centeredness, then those male experiences are not valid. Another issue is with females adapting male RP ideals/attitudes. Females are not males, so adaptin…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 10:36 AM
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My rite of passage as a man was graduation from boot camp when I was 17. Expert badges earned on both the rifle range and grenade range. Going from a boy to a man can only occur, when a boy is accepted by other men as a peer.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 04:05 PM
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So she invested her time in a seedling that supposedly grew into an high value oak. How is this her not doing exceptionally well in the game of life? You said her other options, at the time, now pale in comparison to you, so once again how did she lose out in the game of hypergamy? I'm not seeing the point of this post other than you bragging about how lucky your SO is to be with such a rising star like yourself. Part of MRP is deciding whether or not SO adds value to your life. Do you want to k…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 02:34 PM
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"Wasted her best on me", so you are saying you are not a prize worthy of her spending time with, in which case I would agree with this statement.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 11:23 AM
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If you took her here, then you are a validation seeking beta and doomed. If you left your stuff on, and she invaded your privacy and read your post, then you can get a job at the State dept. handling emails for the secretary of state. Closing your account upon discovery would have been weak, IMO. Honestly, who really cares if she read your shit or not. She might have better ammo for a shit test now, so you'll just have to be even more on your toes. Also don't write a post based upon the fact the…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 03:06 PM
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upvoted- because I like amoral options.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 02:42 PM
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This insightful; suppression is not a plan but a reaction to a weak blue pill males sexual strategy approach. Suppression is just a woman following her hypergamous instinct in the face of male weakness and lack of leadership.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 02:32 PM
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I would pay the price of admission just to annoy the films detractors. The flick is not a Rollo or POOk RP film, but it does address how gynocentrism negatively impact men.
/r/askMRP05/12/16 12:37 AM
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She is not in your frame. If she was in your frame, then she would have apologized for trashing your card. Her values with regard to sentimental items are not the same as yours, Okay people are different, but once she know your values this would have been an easy apology for her ego to make, if she was in your frame. If you acted really overly mad/emotional, then that may have triggered her as well. You need to set boundaries but off the handle emotionalism just gets the hamster spinning madly. …
/r/askMRP04/12/16 12:39 PM
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In order to enjoy sex you need to be attracted to your partner, and attraction both is physical and emotional. Gender differences may vary on how much of each component is necessary. For men it may be easier to compartmentalize the emotional aspects to enjoy the physical. When both physical attraction and emotional connection are working together, with a woman you love, then it's why sex is called making love. You can have this too. However, being a "staunch" feminist means at some level you sim…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 12:18 PM
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Yeah he's a pussy then. Try, "I pronounce you Man and wife". Trad-con all the way. Also "honor and obey".
/r/askMRP03/12/16 08:55 PM
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She's a unicorn and he's just the supreme alpha. It's not marriage that is the killer; it's also having kids that also clamps the claws of the FI state on you.
/r/askMRP03/12/16 08:53 PM
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Always check a chicks Reddit account and Facebook posting as part of your plating or marriage vetting process. If she is a Blue Pill subscriber or gets notifications/likes from 3rd wave feminist facebook pages, then just keep her as a plate or next her.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 12:34 PM
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Stonglifts... everyday is leg day
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 12:40 AM
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She left you, so why do you even care who she is with? Get out of her frame. Don't judge yourself against another man that your wife chose. Judge yourself against the man you aspire to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 03:57 AM
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she was asking advice on how to change another person-- not on how to change herself. MRP is about building men not building stepford husbands. If she posted the same thing on RPwives, they undoubtedly would have given her the same advice about not trying to change someone else, but without all of the type of drama you are perpetuating.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 01:52 PM
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It's quite clear from her posts that she only wants to keep this beta guy around, because they have a business together that she apparently built up and is afraid to lose. Because of her business she wants to make him a better beta for herself, so she can tolerate him, while keeping her business intact. Not being a risk taker, she won't do what a man would do and get divorced and earn more money. Her mission in life is her business and family second that is why she won't post on redpill wives, b…
/r/askMRP27/11/16 02:21 AM
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Thanks StoneI for sparing us from lengthy solipsism prose. My own wife is not as bad as some posters. I have women at work that are trying to make me their "work-husband", by unloading orbiter like-BS on me. I don't play that game with them either. MRP doesn't want to be your "internet-husband".
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 01:24 AM
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Look you really need to go to Red Pill wives for advice. Ask them about topping from the bottom, so you can learn how to do it better. Might want to change your sceen-name as you said you didn't like them man-trappers.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 12:57 AM
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Virtual male spaces are deemed much worse than the physical. Online communities such as PUA, Return of Kings, The Rational Male, and The Red Pill are considered a monstrosity. Females only want the sperm of ‘naturals’, men that, ‘just get it’ and always have, not a man who had to learn it. The thought of an artificial alpha learning to emulate the natural alpha is disgusting. In the female’s mind, if this man were to succeed in passing undetected, she would spend 9 months gestating the inferior …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/16 11:58 PM
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LOL! At least most of us (not me...always) use proper spelling and grammar. Proofreading is the first sign of breaking out of the matrix.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/16 09:59 PM
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So why do we keep them around?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/16 12:52 PM
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So staying temporarily celibate will make you look even more like a knight in shining armor there for your kids. My divorce was all done without her even showing up at the hearing. I had the cheapo $500 dollar divorce, so I didn't get any advice other than to not say an F*ing word in court to the judge other than "yes" or "no" or in other words no victim puking on the judge or gloating.
/r/askMRP23/11/16 07:40 PM
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Yes it has. Women are risk adverse micro managers in need of the occasional oak for support. Females are typically cat-fighting, so don't engage in female social matrix issues. Be above all of that nonsense, and you'll be seen as a loyal resource.
/r/askMRP23/11/16 07:33 PM
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yeah, truth has a way of always rising to the top eventually.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 11:19 AM
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good points.... sex is not the ultimate goal of all of this. Good sex will happen as a result of good frame and leadership attitude.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/16 09:35 PM
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Giving advice to a guy third person through his "wife" is just asinine. MRP is for building men, per our mission statement, not about enabling controlling bitches. Anyone who gives advice to her about manipulating or changing him is another fool falling into her frame. We can only give advice to a poster about themselves. I don't have any issue giving advice to women about changing herself, but this particular OP has not even requested this type of advice, which is telling. What good advice coul…
/r/askMRP20/11/16 12:12 PM
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Indeed. This is the new troll tactic deep cover infiltration and gradual erosion.
/r/askMRP20/11/16 12:00 PM
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Today Nov 19, is International Men's Day. Make him a card for International Men's Day and then just drop down and give him a BJ
/r/askMRP19/11/16 11:07 PM
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Honestly, if you really have read RPWives for a year, then you already know what they would tell you. I even know what they would write. Your very domineering attitude and condition have been discussed in at least 3 or 4 posts, and it's a very common compliant. I have not read their side-bar but it's probably in there. I'm going for troll, as your writing style is just to overt to be a female.
/r/askMRP19/11/16 09:36 PM
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Well first off you really need advice from women on the Red Pill wives reddit- not advice from men, if you indeed are not a troll.
/r/askMRP19/11/16 08:35 PM
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sex
/r/askMRP19/11/16 08:12 PM
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LOL! Married 16 years. I have a happy life, so I have a happy wife! But the article was not about my life or the women in it. It was about women as a statistically surveyed collective and not individual anecdotal accounts such as mine.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/16 05:08 PM
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Of course it could be a factor. If we speculate women now had the financial resource to act upon their unhappiness by divorcing. No-fault and equal economic opportunity could mean that unhappy women had means to express that state of mind by divorcing at will. Actually from the OPs article, women are unhappy as a natural state, so married or not may not be relevant at all. Unhappy in marriage so leaving in droves and now unhappy in the present day to a larger degree with less marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/16 05:36 PM
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Only doing this for 1.5 months. You have been actively trying to change for 1.5 months, but your SO is not actively trying to change. She is only responding to you. This is a difference, as SO is only following your lead. There will be a time-lag between in acceptance/belief in this is the way it is now.
/r/askMRP18/11/16 11:03 AM
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You keep saying she raised his children. Fathers also raise our (ie wife) children too. I do pay a daycare lady for when we are at work, and she does raise our children expecting compensation for services. She cost 175 a week.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/16 10:30 AM
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But that, again, isn't an interest in making me happy so much as it's an interest in not losing something that makes her happy. Truth brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 07:43 PM
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Most of the discussion is at RT's blog, which is in the above link. Also there is a greater depth to the article which expands on the excerpt provided here.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 03:18 PM
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Hey Emma-Emly Don't forget to add feminazi-preaching
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 01:48 PM
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With any crime, such as murder/robbery, the fact that a crime was committed is not in question, but rather who-did-it. With sexual relations, on the other hand, the parties involved are known, but the question is was a crime committed. From the information presented there is no way to determine if a crime was committed or not. However, the opening sentence does presume a crime, "... claiming rape because she was gangraped by two men..." by using circular logic. You either seduce (i.e. consent gi…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 08:08 PM
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Is your wife having an affair with her sisters boyfriend?
/r/askMRP16/11/16 02:53 PM
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I shit you not, I could hear her pussy slam shut. Bang! Within a minute of my bitch fest starting she looks up at me and tells me enough, she doesn't want to hear about my shit anymore. She went from happy, content wife, to angry bitch in less than 60 seconds. In this case I deserved it and it was a great reminder to never lose frame. A serious display of low value on my part. This is a good example of how women follow your lead - the vessel you make for them. If the leader is mad/shitty, then s…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 03:06 PM
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I'd add, don't make long term decisions on short term emotions. This is good. The past advice and still relevant was to give MRP time to work. For long-term marriages, a rule-of-thumb was 1-Month per year of marriage. This way you didn't good flying off the handle and do something stupid. Give yourself time to grasp MRP and the wife a chance to follow.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/16 07:03 PM
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Is this a troll post?
/r/askMRP13/11/16 06:18 PM
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Indeed
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/16 03:59 PM
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*This is all about you becoming a man who can live like he's single. * LOL! When I taught myself cooking a few years ago and got very good at it. My wife was a little put out that I didn't need her for this and that I could survive on my own. Just last night she remarked with a little jealousy that my chicken was better than her preparations.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 04:44 PM
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This.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 12:18 PM
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My understanding of the terms is: "in the kitty" = orbiter and "plating" =f*cking. From what I have read the OP is not plating anyone, as I will take his word that he is faithful to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 12:18 PM
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I like this. Doing your own cooking is a great way to get control of your diet. Depending on your nutrition approach you can select menus with ingredients to maximize your macro nutrient goals. I do a paleo like diet, so high protein and veggies are big for me. If you are into science, then really understanding baking, beyond just dumbly following a recipe, is actually very fascinating. Knowing the chemical nature of ingredients and how the order of their mixing and degree of mixing impact the q…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 12:02 PM
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It is a lesson in open-hypergamy in operation, AWALTness, and solipsism, which is amusing.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 01:48 PM
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Ditto this. I guess I judged my father unfairly and harshly also by a BP/FI lens and found him lacking. It's only now that I see he was trad con/RP guy. Didn't have one-it-is, but just old school loyalty. He told me when I was older he wished had not married my mom. I just listened, as I knew why. He was always level-headed and in-charge. He was over-weight, but in that day that's what the old guys did as a sign of success. I was there with him when he was on his death bed on life-support. He to…
/r/askMRP10/11/16 05:39 PM
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No statistically valid set of data just my limited pool of associates. I must live in a bubble of folks that are independently minded and not ruled by media puppet masters.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/16 10:40 AM
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At worst Trump will merely delay the inevitable apex matriarchal state and subsequent decline. The media, as shown by all of the long newscaster and pundits faces, is anti-Trump, and they have already begun to "spin" a negative picture of the majority that supported Trump. Who will continue to still listen/watch them, if they are being insulted is hard to say, but they will lay bare their bias. How much the media will continue to be an influence after a loss of integrity is the real factor, as t…
/r/RedPillWives09/11/16 07:45 PM
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My post could have been made on it's own. From my survey of voters I know, Trump was inclusive of more than just white men/women.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 06:14 PM
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It's so racist and sexist to assume that only white men liked Trump. He had in-roads into other communities and to females. However, unlike the past elections these other communities and women of these communities were just not inspired to vote at all. Hillary as a potential presidential glass ceiling breaker must be limited to a middle class white women phenomena.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 06:06 PM
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The media was against him. It was not only white men and women that supported Trump. There is a large amount of non-white men and women that are for him, but also maybe more non-plussed by either candidate so they did not participate at all. Policies and character do transcend sex and race for those that do want to participate in civic duty of voting. Edited for clarity!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 02:16 PM
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This reminds me of a statement from General Sherman speaking about the War Between the States; a hard war but an easy peace.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 06:47 PM
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AWALT- she overplayed the divorce threat to the point of filing for divorce and a false accusation. Once she realized the gravity of the situation, no BB, involvement of outsiders, probably no social support for her "decisions", being a single mom, etc. etc., now she is too proud to back down and trying to manipulate you into making that easy for her. The false accusation is a telling mark of dark character and a huge red-flag of danger for you. You skirted the issue, but lots of guys get hammer…
/r/askMRP08/11/16 06:39 PM
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From what I have read this is the safest route. You must show the court that you have the kids best interest in heart and mind by being a stable parent.
/r/askMRP08/11/16 06:23 PM
1

RPwomen seems to be going a bit more BP with the less strict mods. RPwives seem to be the same as before. MRP Dr Suess cover was awesome!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 05:27 PM
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RPWomen or RPWives leaking?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 05:20 PM
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Not all guys end up here via deadbedrooms sub or looking for more sex. The RP praxology is out in the internet and a little more curiosity reveals the manosphere. MGTOW tubes and MRA tubes are out there as conduits to RP. I read a one word response to a question asked by a female about what the sex could do to be more attractive to men, and a commenter responded with a single word "hypergamy". I had to look it up, which led to Rollo's writings whose commenters mentioned TRP. From TRP, I found RP…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 07:35 PM
1

divorce is not a failure. It's merely a choice like marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 11:35 AM
1

"good RP man" as used in the FAQ actually refers to a good captain. You don't necessarily have to be RP (TRP/MRP...) to be a good captain. You should read Red Pill Wives as well for more context of the female adaptations of RP
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/16 11:06 PM
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Marriage grants by default paternity to the spouse (who hopefully is also the bio-father...). Paternity establishes rights over minors to act legally on their behalf. However, I have never once been questioned or had to show actual legal proof of marriage (hence paternity) and never did my wife (bio-mom) need to show a birth certificate that she was the mom. I would speculate that if a couple simply acted married and recognized each other as parents, then they could pass it off. The ability to m…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/16 10:37 PM
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LOL! Yes she probably would be divorced quickly
/r/askMRP06/11/16 12:01 AM
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Captain, if you are gonna post in an RP forum you should have at least read the side-bar material of one of them.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/16 11:50 PM
1

I missed this catfights on MRP
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/16 12:23 PM
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yeah... her panic is from her fear/revulsion of having to be with him when she really doesn't want to touch him at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/16 01:46 AM
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the linked essay is about alpha females provisioning for beta males. Rollos blog goes further than this post into a discussion about alpha or betaness of provisioning. The Essay shows women provisioning as Alpha all the way though their use of "alpha" is not clear.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/16 11:46 PM
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Yes that article was interesting, but not on context with the posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/16 08:43 PM
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This lifestyle (but maybe with kids) may be a prevalent in the future as a male response to open hypergamy.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 11:06 AM
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How far would you go for keeping your babies?
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 10:53 AM
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LOL!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 11:45 PM
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Go for a titty-f#ck. You'll be poking her in the face, so you can see her reaction. If nothing else you'll have a target to shoot for that'll make it more fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 05:14 PM
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Don't read Wiki. Look up Rollo's blog, The Rationale Male. Yes, RP is a bit harsh depending on the motivations of the presenter of the material. The MGTOW guys really seem to obsess on the wall, which I never could understand if they are going their own way (away from women), then why would they care.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 01:10 PM
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If you are going off like a cannon and angry, then what do you expect her to be like? Anger is contagious and a mom loves her kids more than she loves you (hierarchy of love man>woman>child), so when you are getting bent out of shape at the kids, she is getting angry at you. This is not a quick fix. This is a long-term frame readjustment on your part to be the oak even when under duress.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 08:37 PM
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I had to stop reading after calling the baby an asshole. Babies cry it's what they do that's how they communicate. For a grown-up to cry about that is just ridiculous. Make yourself a checklist of reasons a baby will cry and resolve the issue: 1) hungry 2) wet (diaper) 3) cold/hot 4) Scared 5) Proximity- babies know somehow when you are not in-range to protect them. Move the high-seat/playpen closer to you to provide masculine security. 6) teething (not much to do here) teething toy There are pr…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 01:16 PM
1

Your flair is awesome...Just lift bra!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 01:47 AM
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Yeah... I watched episodes 1- 3 with the SO last night. Called out the AFC as a weak p*ssy and his "wife" as self-centered whore to make it simple and avoid discussing about fight club (i.e. MRP). Made for good indirect passive dread, as I explained to her what was happening on the show in terms of gender dynamics and how it would happen in a typical reality, which was not intended to but effectively was an third-party way of covertly communicating about us.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 06:20 PM
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Westworld is awesome by the way! I have to send the kids out when watching it. A more interesting HBO series is "Divorce". This is a show about feminine primacy in entertainment and current culture, as it's just divorce porn for women. For RP guys, it's a good test of how much BP BS you can spot, and how many preparing for divorce mistakes one AFC can make.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 05:25 PM
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She thinks she is failing as a wife in being supportive of your career efforts (which provisions her), and as a condition of being able to support you in your provisioning of her, which is in her self-interest, she wants you to be more vulnerable to her. Everything is about her and her being stuck inside her own frame. Granted not all women are hostess types, like the lady she is envious of, but at the same time if she is not a drag on your career either that is at least acceptable. She is venti…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 12:57 PM
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The other thing is that for a guy right out of boot camp, this speech would not even register as chest pounding in the least.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/16 02:37 PM
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RPW vetting for long term success, as you are wanting do to, instead of Open Hypergamy (n-count unconcerned and serial monogamy) short term sexual success is the same advice I would give my daughters.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/16 12:37 PM
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For his son to challenge his place is just out of line, especially since his wife is being so terrible.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/16 03:16 PM
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Have you tracked her occasional pimple to her period induced hormone changes? My wife gets may get a pimple just before her period. It's really kind of funny, but it's a sign to get on it.
/r/askMRP28/10/16 07:29 PM
1

AD&D = Advanced Dungeons and Dragons.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/16 03:20 PM
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Fantastic story capturing the essence of the burden of performance, hypergamy, and FI entitlement
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/16 10:31 AM
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Yeah you definitely live up to your screen name, but rather than get bogged down in your frame, I will accept this as a challenge to step up and reach our more.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/16 12:42 PM
1

What is post Karma?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 02:05 PM
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Well apparently not many have read the link to the blog, which has a second half about fathers. That something else in the "something else" blog is actually what RPW is trying to accomplish not on a generational timeframe or scale but as RP self-improvement of the individual woman.
/r/RedPillWives24/10/16 08:59 PM
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You're probably a man and you think like a man. No. This year she realised she can fuck other men and then get ex husband to fuck her to have a free babysitter. Insightful.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 12:44 PM
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Nor does it make you stronger either....so what is your point that will help OP?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 12:42 PM
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LOL! They didn't count because.....
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 12:40 PM
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this 100%. .
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 09:18 PM
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You wanted a divorce a year ago for a reason.... is that reason still valid? Most likely it is valid, and the recent bed romps have not changed that at all. She has been with other men (and more than she will admit to...) and wants you back. Sure it's flattering and all. Hypergamy has decided you are the best, but she had a turn and now it's over. Your goal now should be to find a way to de-escalate your sexual relationship and keep her as a friend without benefits for the sake of your child. Wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 09:13 PM
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You must not have read the Rollo T. blog posting about not rooting through the garbage (i.e. don't take an ex-back now matter what). Being separated makes her an ex, as you don't need legal divorce to end a relationship. She is AWALT so she is hypergamous. The money issue should make that really obvious, which is why you have your disgusting feeling. Talk to a lawyer about a trust. A trust may be able to let you control your company, but keep it out of the marriage and hence a spoil of divorce f…
/r/askMRP23/10/16 02:49 AM
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Getting a divorce itself is not the risk... it's the aftermath of a divorce that is the issue. Having the feminine imperative misandrist state now involved in your post-divorce life that is the real risk. The gov't is now involved in ruining your finances and family life with paternal custody issues and possible alienation from your kids. Also divorce can lead to incarceration, financial ruin, suicide, and loss of driver's license. I don't care about divorce itself... what will be will be. It's …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/16 10:42 PM
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Been there did that. Yes variety is better and with women that want to please you, it's just awesome.
/r/askMRP22/10/16 08:39 PM
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without a doubt!
/r/askMRP22/10/16 08:32 PM
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If you live in a fem-centric identity, then it would be seen as escapism from that self-centered point of view, but if you saw it from the oppressed point of view, then it would be freedom.
/r/RedPillWives22/10/16 06:58 PM
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Reference to spite was with regards to the continuation of a conversation that was essentially in her frame and you DEER'ing. Instead of an in-your-face, defensive explanation about why you went and will go, just STFU and do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 04:18 PM
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Guy.. when an emotional fire is burning don't pour gasoline on it. It sounds like you were doing this out of spite or a shit test of your own. Teasing her emotional rollercoaster with this kind of talk is fine (not that's what you did on purpose), but you do the initial plunge and loops, and you have to end the ride safely.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:52 PM
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It's excitement about procuring security enforced by the power of the FI State.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 09:21 PM
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You were fortunate to have found this praxology before it got to be a total trainwreck. Just looked at your profile. What is post karma?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 01:15 PM
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well played. Your original on-the-spot comments were good... if you keep harping on it will look like you are moralizing to her and she will see through your attempt at being covert.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 01:03 AM
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Your papers will still be in your CV... no matter what name is used. It's not like they are tossed into a black hole.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 12:43 AM
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It's almost like BP's spouse read his book and is now beating him at his own game. The fridges (not one but two) were handled the best way she knew how within her skill-set (charge it!). She is sexing him up and backing down from some confrontation. What step of dread is she on?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 12:02 AM
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Thanks for the PC-free explanation. You must have a medical background.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/16 06:32 PM
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I don't really get you, as your vocabulary is confusing. You say you are femme, but posting in butch MRP instead of feminine (Redpill wives). You say if your butch you would man up but also say you're the dominant one. Your usage of femme is that in appearance and demeanor or just appearance? It would help me understand you if I had a clear understanding of what butch, femme, dominant, mean to you. As I see it now, your just like a straight wife that doesn't get enough dominance/leadership from …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/16 12:39 AM
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slow-clap....
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 10:51 PM
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BP- just remember men's concept of love romantic and noble while the female's is opportunistic solipsism. Give up the one-it-is. Keep in mind the Meatloaf song - "I will do anything for love, but I won't do that". When I was in the grip of the FI matrix.. .I always wondered what "that" was. Now that I'm free (or getting more free...), I know what "that" is for me. You need to figure out what "that" is for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 01:40 PM
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.... I would not allow my kids to speak to my woman like that (i.e F-bomb). There is a hierarchy that must be maintained.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 12:41 PM
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Did marriage flip a switch? A single guys ability to walk without any type of divorce rape is a form of dread. Once the she got the security and the old saying familiarity breeds contempt, she wore him down like a pair of cheap brakes, and he crashed. Don't get on the horse if you don't know how to ride.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 10:02 AM
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Succeeding with MRP due to RP knowledge. Relying on money is old-school books. My wife makes more than me. When she is feeling insecure, sure I got the same shit BP did (i.e make more $$$..blah, blah, blah), but when she is secure again (no pressure). BP can solve his shit, if he takes over finances and gets them resolved, so she feels secure again. Hopefully she didn't nuke them too much. If her high-paying job is in peril, then he can't fix that, and he will be pressured to shoulder more of th…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 01:29 AM
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How do you figure that, if she was spending the money? Why should he give up his dream job to pay her bills? I am not seeing what you are getting at.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/16 11:29 PM
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Exactly
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/16 10:21 PM
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One reason I would advise MRP guys to never have a SAHM mom is high loss due to divorce rape from alimony and child support payments (if you are unfortunate enough to not live in a 50/50 state ). So if she is low-income or SAHM then encourage her to earn more, so when you do leave her you won't be hit hard (again assuming you are smart enough to be in a 50/50 state). Now let's be paranoid and look at your situation, since it might be that your "wife" has taken this advice. Now that you are earni…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/16 10:15 PM
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If your telling her came of as a confession then you are totally in her frame. Next time just tell her without any guilt or remorse. So you went to a strip club - big deal.
/r/askMRP15/10/16 09:31 PM
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She made covert contracts with herself, and now that you are not honoring her covert contracts, she is mad at you for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/16 03:45 PM
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You obviously don't spend much time in this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/16 03:37 PM
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Oh... sniffing around for Alpha seed then. Props to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/16 07:19 PM
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6 year prior to marriage, so she has had time to friend-zone him or beta-size him.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/16 07:17 PM
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AWALT? Maybe it's just the guy isn't a visceral tingle inducer, you were with.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 06:43 PM
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Hypergamy doesn't care
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/16 04:16 PM
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Guy... really she is hit with a terrible disease and you are only thinking of your nut. Massive comfort test failure. Yeah, my SO has these also. For her it impacts the mucus membranes drying out eyes, making for sore joints, and suppressing the female sexual response of getting wet. There's KY or other lubricants for vaginal dryness. When she has these issues and still wants to FU, then you know you're MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 02:11 AM
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Wow... alimony more than child support payments. I guess the SO is the biggest kid in the house. good plan on the house equity. I did the same thing during my divorce. Future money was worth more to me than current equity (which is not liquid anyway). Did the SO know her payment would be 3,000 a month and the house? Maybe in her mind you're worth more than that to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 02:02 AM
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F'ing funny! I would add to the inventory: TRM, Book of Pook, and Saving a Low Sex Marriage as +1 Wisdom and charisma modifiers
/r/askMRP12/10/16 06:58 PM
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D&D?!! Haven't done that since high-school. Had to quit when I went to college though. Hot chicks playing D&D? I don't know about that, at least in my day. Do you play it old-school in a meeting of 3-8 people, with dice, and the books? It's actually a very social game.
/r/askMRP12/10/16 03:17 PM
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Is utility all there is for you? That's just female opportunism and self-centeredness. Expecting more than that would make her a male. Female surrendering is one way of achieving this and feminism is another way. A guy has to make his way known by action, setting boundaries, and verbalizing expectations.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 10:34 AM
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Close any joint bank accounts and/or credit cards. Get a new lock for the door and dress up like a clown for when she get home.
/r/askMRP11/10/16 11:07 PM
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* I didn't sleep around or make any risky decisions that might further complicate my life. At 27, I met just the man for me. He saw me as highly educated, relatively fit, feminine and hardworking, with low baggage in comparison to others in the age bracket he was dating at 30. * You knowingly or not were following RPW advice, as I understand it. Being RPW you out-competed your peers and became a winner in the relationship marketplace.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/16 12:21 PM
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For some females they have to concentrate to have an orgasm unlike guys that have to concentrate to delay it. That focus takes work and time that she may not want to do all the time being lazy and all. Having sex is still enjoyable for her due to intimacy and instinct. Not all females are PiV orgasmically capable. One way to overcome this is to have her finger herself during sex. That way you can use your hands to hold her down or brace while pounding her, and she can reach down to finger hersel…
/r/askMRP08/10/16 10:54 PM
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Look up The Fathers Rights Movement on Facebook and then tell me how many lazy guys are there. Because of sexist attitudes (guys are lazy, they didn't carry the kid for 9 months, their girlfriends will be taking care of the kids.....) fathers get the short end of the stick in court. This has been changing, but in many USA states it's stil a costly fight. I'm glad you say you will fight for your kids, but don't slam guys that got fucked over by the family court/divorce lawyer complex.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/16 04:31 PM
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those tits are my toys I like my toys to be spongy like a firm loaf of fresh bread. A silicone bag is for grip strength training. I had a girl that had the bags, and I couldn't squeeze them without her complaining it hurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/16 04:11 PM
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Yeah... low-value. Keeping low-value around is putting her on a pedestal again- maybe a lower and less ornate one.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/16 12:21 PM
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Is that what they call it now?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/16 07:31 PM
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Sounds like a little of both.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/16 06:59 PM
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Why is she bossing you around in the first place? That is a loss of frame in itself, despite tossing in "for the kids or family" afterwards. Don't you have stuff to do around the house or at least a division of chores?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/16 04:01 PM
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I repressed my femininity and thought open relationships and sexual "experimentation" could be fulfilling. How does a young lady fall into this type of mindset: Social media or college atmosphere? Making the political personal, means you have to suppress aspects of your innate being for some fleeting intellectual ideal. I'm glad that you have found RPW and yourself again.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/16 01:35 PM
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LOL! Just don't say look a "clown", at least under these conditions of duress.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/16 01:09 PM
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This is a great answer
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/16 09:39 PM
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My wife is menopausal but not a bitch, so this has nothing to do with that. Menopause is another wall of sorts for insecurities. Her being physically abusive should be a very firm boundary for you, but instead you are going on about the word bitch. You let her set the frame of you being abusive, and once you stepped inside of that she went off on you even more. Just be the oak around her and continue to interact with her as if nothing happened. Being butt-hurt by her will only pull you into her …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/16 05:17 PM
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After reading all of your other comment responses, I am not clear if you want advice for females in general or for your current relationship. Are you basically asking how can you get your current boyfriend to marry you or do want some kind of vetting criteria for the next guy you are with? I have daughters about 10 years younger than you, and I can foresee this being their situation as well. Men have been freed from the burden of performance by feminism (marriage is one of the burdens), so any y…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/16 12:39 PM
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A few things here need to be discussed. TRP is for males, and the advice is for males. Marriage is not for the average guy, because it's a scam. The VAWA, the Duluth model, no 50/50 custody after divorce, going to jail for non-payment of child support (modern day debtors prison), becoming a wage slave to the state under the shackles of child support. Actually being a sperm donor is the real risk to men's freedom. No one said a female shouldn't get married. There are plenty of wimpy BP "men" out …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/16 09:54 PM
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Ah yes... no logical explanation, but an emotional appeal to feelz. Thanks-Rollo!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/16 02:00 AM
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LOL! That were the $XX,000 of his money went to!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/16 05:19 PM
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his contributions have been substantially more helpful to a multitude of men when compared to yours. Indeed.
/r/askMRP29/09/16 01:05 PM
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Unless you're on steroids there is very little muscle covering the upper rib cage near the armpits. If you are cutting flab, then I would expect to see ribs. Look at pics of natural dudes that lift and you see ribs, which is normal You need to get a realistic body image and not look at the muscle mags in the super-market/store. Those guys are on T. Before RP, I made a massive cut and was nearing 6-pack abs. The wife threw a fit and insults of anorexia, your starving yourself..... blah, blah, bla…
/r/askMRP28/09/16 07:19 PM
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A question was asked about bringing sons into RP praxeology, but I have daughters. Most of RP may come intuitively or instinctively to them, but countering the excesses or negative impacts of open hypergamy may not in this culture. How is it to best explain these dynamics and to what extent? My goal as a father is to be out for their best interest as females and to provide advice pertinent to their sex. I read the RPW sites to try to understand how RP is enacted by the ladies, but I am looking f…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/16 10:37 AM
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Stop fapping to porn.. honestly
/r/askMRP27/09/16 06:21 PM
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Asking for references is a standard SJW tactic to establish their frame and control of a topic/discussion. They just want the monkey to dance for them.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 02:37 PM
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Of course getting her back to work is a good idea. If this really does go bad, then she will need an income to be able to support herself or else you will be paying a lot for her support. You have to support your kids either way that's a given.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/16 09:38 PM
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Okay here is an angle on this. Instead of being concerned about me policing, you should be taking care of your marriage as a man in a masculine manner and stop being her girlfriend talking about boyfriends. You are being friend-zoned within your marriage and you don't see the slippery slope you are on because you are falling so fast. If you really want to see how open she is to making your sex life exciting why not suggest getting another woman for yourself. See how that goes over with her and t…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/16 08:18 PM
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wow dude, you are totally in her frame or flaps, if that is convincing you to become a cuck. Do yourself a favor, just get divorced now, while you have your self-respect or what's left of it. You must be a troll
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/16 07:55 PM
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Insightful.
/r/askMRP23/09/16 05:23 PM
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Dude go watch Blue Pill Professors U-tubes to learn something if you are to lazy to read the books
/r/askMRP22/09/16 07:14 PM
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Where the MassHoles live
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 10:25 PM
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Case Law Example: More than five years after he had voluntarily acknowledged paternity, a man underwent DNA tests which determined that he was not the child's father. He then brought this action to vacate the paternity judgment. The court held that he was still liable to support the child because of the "compelling public interest in the finality of paternity judgments," the clear intent of G.L. c.209C, sec. 11 to limit the ability of a man who voluntarily acknowledges paternity to then challeng…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 08:23 PM
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The real question is what will Bill do now? Marriage is a presumption of paternity, which means if there is a divorce, guess who is still on the hook for child support.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 06:53 PM
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This will be an interesting divorce. Time will tell if BP will be treated poorly by family courts and become a celebrity victim of parental alienation. Sole custody is sought by AJ and accusations of drug use being tossed around.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 03:41 PM
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With out Brad P, she's just another girl
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 10:00 AM
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You need to re-evaluate your girl score. How can an insecure jealous woman score a 9 on personality? Sounds like you have a bad case of oneitis emotionally and also in terms of your business needs.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 09:50 AM
1

What's misogynist about RP? Telling guys to lift, to be leaders, be confident, to have self-respect, and to meet people is just to improve men's quality of life; all of this improves relationships and creates a positive mental point of origin. That is not founded upon putting anyone else down but simply about raising yourself up and being better. Get rid of your BP thoughts and FI induced self-loathing. .
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/16 10:15 AM
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the closest I got to trying to unplug someone was to recommend against marriage and to read the Rationale Male book and blog site. Just left it at that. Guy will be coming back from his honeymoon in a week. I didn't think I would stop him from getting married but at least show him a tool to keep it in his favor. I ask guys about their married lives all the time, and the guys I thought had it together are just BP wimps in reality. No BJs, sex 1-month, and/or hen-pecked. Honestly even before I fou…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/16 06:25 PM
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She crossed a boundary with you by raising her hand toward you and being disrespectful. She is blaming you for her failures. She is weak enough in character to fall for the ugly part of feminism. She didn't come back to you to make it work, her father did, which means maybe she doesn't want to change or admit to her poor behavior. Do not be a macho white knight in shinning armor to "save" her from herself only for you to later fall on your own sword of foolish pride. If she is changing now into …
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/16 12:27 PM
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I needed the RP for the first wife... just to avoid her, and RP to properly lead my second wife. But yes I would have gotten re-married.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/16 01:35 AM
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On the other hand, women wishing to forestall motherhood – a characterization which used to imply a woman’s entrance into adulthood – are never characterized as “extending their childhood.” Women who opt to delay marriage can always fall back on the unacceptability of ‘most men these days’ to excuse their own extension, or they are “focusing on their career.” Women can never be cast in any way other than Strong and Independent®. In fact, this is the first, default presumption we make about a nev…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 01:31 PM
1

Props to yuz guyz for setting this up.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 01:50 PM
1

I'm still very curios as to why you made these choices. Do you have a strong father figure in your life?
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 12:51 PM
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How did you get this far away from being normal to be come a tattooed, short-haired, sex-positive feminist? None of the girls in my daughters age range would consider being labeled a feminist a positive thing.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 12:51 AM
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No.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/16 03:05 PM
2

you didn't read about oneitis or abundance mentality apparently.... Why on earth did you apologize for yelling at her in the car? That was just pathetic, and she jumped on it like a CC-rider.
/r/askMRP09/09/16 04:59 PM
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My kids slept in the same room with us until they were 12 years old. As babies they would sleep between us, which was great for when the wife breastfeed them. I never once made a bottle at night. For intimacy, we just put pillows up on the bedside so they wouldn't roll out, and we went to the second bed in our bedroom. When the kids were older they moved to the second bed but stayed in our room. At 12, and after finding the RP, I decided it was time for them to move to their own room. Got a lot …
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 02:15 AM
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upvote
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/16 02:00 AM
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Other divorce rape mitigation strategies: 1) No SAHM 2) Only marry a woman that makes as much or MORE than you. Cash and prizes may flow your way. 3) Move to a 50/50 shared parenting state, if you can. 50/50 removes the middle woman and state from your life, because you are directly supporting your kids. Why pay that gov't and an ex-wife to do what you can do better and you also then have control over how your money is spent to raise your kids. Also you have more time to spend with them.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/16 07:49 PM
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Happy life, happy wife. Slow clap...
/r/askMRP08/09/16 06:35 PM
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Hypergamy's a bitch if the bitch is hypergamous.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/16 06:15 PM
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Upvote this. Action is needed to change, and you don't need to explain why you changed. The one shit-test is "you have changed...yada yada yada....", is best handled by letting the change speak for itself.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/16 12:53 PM
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My Husband Let Me Take a Year Off From Our Marriage — Here's What Happened This title is unbelievable. If she unilaterally decided to take a year off the marriage, then the husband didn't "let" her do anything. She did the dirty acts and she is responsible for them. The blame-shifting is typically female.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/16 06:19 PM
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If he assumed it was a proposition....... or disappointed when he finds out it wasn't.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 12:39 PM
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Her saying that you are playing games is an overt acknowledgement that she is aware of your change in demeanor from being in her frame as her loyal BP boy to being your own man. Giving birth is a painful process.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/16 10:15 AM
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Hence the question, which still remains unanswered.
/r/MGTOW06/09/16 09:49 AM
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Phyllis Schlafly was also a member of the group, Leading Women for Shared Parenting, which is an interesting group of women (and men) advocating for changes in family law (USA).
/r/RedPillWives06/09/16 09:48 AM
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Like what? Bing sucks and the other ISP are not much better.
/r/MGTOW06/09/16 12:00 AM
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Yes. I did notice the unusual female representation in the google labor day banner. FI definitely at work... hopefully they are training them to actually perform these jobs
/r/MGTOW05/09/16 11:59 PM
1

Muay Thai kicks ass. It's a great combat sport. Watch the Lion Fight promotions on AXS tv to see some first class Muay Thai bouts.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/16 11:54 PM
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throwing all your sperm in one egg basket... LOL! Upvoted just for this.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/16 11:51 PM
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In your LTR are you two living together or both living with parents? How prevalent is RP in the teenage age bracket? Personally I would have killed to know then what I know now.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/16 12:07 PM
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This is the married and LTR sub, so if you are in one of those, then then this is a better fit than TRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/16 11:48 AM
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Not sure if I understand your situation. It sounds like you two are still in a frame struggle. Her taking your blanket was a bitchy call for attention from you, or it could be a contemptuous lack of respect. Putting her in her place for being bad is not a loss of frame. Why would she feel she doesn't have security from you? Your offering that statement about security almost sounded like an apology for you not being fully invested in her frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/16 11:30 AM
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Great job if the only critic is you being to lazy to lift.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/16 02:45 AM
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If you have to ask her if she will consent to a "you can't say no day", then that seems to go against the MRP axiom of action not words. I just assume that everyday is my day and if she wants she can come with me or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/16 02:35 AM
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*ALERT: Do NOT wake up Saturday morning and try to shove a John Holmes dildo up her ass and bust a nut on her face. You will have ruined the trust forever. * LOL!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/16 02:30 AM
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But she would not let go of him, for the longest time. It just went on and on in her head. She would cry to me about how she couldn’t figure out why she wasn’t important enough to fight for…in other words, why wasn’t she important enough for Douchebag to dump his wife (and likely get divorce raped) to be with her. So many times I should have just kicked her to the curb. Geez. I sat there and endured her screwed up moods, her “bad days” where she would call me at work and scream at me for fucking…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 01:50 PM
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hmmmm.. You were apparently getting opinions from TRP and not RPW or MRP. Part of the opinion on TRP about the age range may heavily reflect several factors such as virginity, not being on the CC (N-count), and body fat %.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 12:53 PM
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Make hypergamy work for you. That's like some deep martial arts saying there.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/16 01:10 PM
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I became skeptical of feminism in college. I used to read the commie and feminist journals out of curiosity. I read one feminist article that stated that the ultimate feminist irony was lesbians objectifying females. This journal may have been written by lesbian feminists. I didn't know that much about feminist theology, but I knew that I could not respect any philosophy that was not honest with itself about it's own nature. To deny your inherent nature (i.e. a lesbian enjoying the beauty of wom…
/r/RedPillWives01/09/16 01:35 AM
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The first goal of any institution is to preserve itself. Self preservation comes from obtaining funding to pay the upper management salaries. Just follow the money to find the root of any problem or solution.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 03:05 PM
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There is no such thing as toxic masculinity - that is a FI blue pill ruse.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 01:28 PM
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Why would anyone want to be called a feminist if they support parental alienation?
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 01:14 AM
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Fifteen billion years for hydrogen to completely defy the inexorable edict of entropy to self organize into thinking people. Interesting. I don't think entropy was defied, I believe work was done to overcome it. The only way highly ordered reactions (life) may be able to be created without work may be if we actually increase entropy through our destructive habits.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 01:05 AM
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yeah but how good is the sex? Actions not words!
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 12:55 AM
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It's these types of gender roles that feminism did free men from being constrained into. Her SO not being able to fulfill these roles may be seen as a liability but if the OP can also perform these roles then taking care of her family is possible.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 08:28 PM
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He's afraid of you, but maybe not anymore. You do realize that if he doesn't go, then he will lose face with the family, which will also reflect poorly on you. He was driven away from one social function in front of the family by physical violence, and if he doesn't show up, then implicitly everyone will only assume more of something similarly controlling has occurred.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 02:07 PM
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The bed height is also an important criterion. A good height for feet on the floor doggy style, and for her on her back with her head hanging over the side.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 04:42 PM
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Exactly.... you don't have to do all the repairs yourself. Subcontract them out if needed, but still assume responsibility for their completion.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 01:28 AM
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You were lost, but now you are found. Improve yourself and the rest will follow. You can't fight strawmen out of the past, so just let that shit go. Kicking yourself or blaming others for past weakness is not the path forward. MRP is about being the oak, the captain. Whatever you want to call it, it's about being a leader. Masculinity is essentially leadership, and leadership is always positive.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 01:10 PM
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Feminism has freed men from the burden of performance, so many of them are taking advantage of it. Men no longer have to be fathers, soldiers, or providers, so why do it unless you want to. It's not shunning society it's simply making a new one free from traditional gynocentrism (1950's) and modern gynocentrism (i.e. feminist worldview).
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/16 11:02 AM
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This sounds horribly BP that you must be a troll...
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 08:03 PM
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This tells me you got into an argument with her, stepped right into her frame and did not stick to your priorities because you wanted to "win" the argument This topic deserves it's own post. Winning an insignificant ego battle but losing the overall war.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 06:46 PM
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To your points of clarification; Yes, NAWALT. I am advocating for my own girls to get married, because these it is in their favor in terms of security and quality of parental investment by a man for my grandchildren.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/16 12:52 PM
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This is probably the only benefit to being married as a man is the guarantee of being recognized as the father of the wife's baby. That guarantee is also a risk if the woman is a slut though. Many countries make paternity testing difficult to obtain. To make marriage viable; 1) 50/50 shared parenting if divorced. 2) Violation of court orders criminal vs civil penalties 3) Prosecution of false abuse claims 4) Exclusion from child support if paternity is not proven by DNA testing.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/16 12:04 AM
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Honestly, family law, divorce-rape, and parental alienation of kids from fathers by horrible mothers is why TRP advocates against marriage. Look up any website on Fathers Rights or Parental Alienation to see the truth about sexism in family courts and in our society in general against fathers. Marriage will never be an attractive proposition to men under such dehumanizing conditions.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 11:56 PM
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Comparing yourself to mediocrity is not challenging enough of a goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/16 10:50 AM
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From reading this it seems she facilitated your transition into leadership, as she was topping from the bottom to mold you. You got what you wanted (sex, food....) without having to put in the effort into yourself. Are you what you want to be or what she wants?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/16 02:14 PM
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Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. Also to further elaborate on the age of the OP, and the relative SMV of men and women of this age range. Per Rollo's SMV curve, a 32 year old dude should be near maximum SMV (assuming he has his shit together), while a female is well beneath him. OP is no longer in sellers market but a buyers market, and he should take advantage of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 02:44 PM
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why any 32M would marry a post-wall CC 37F. WHAT THE FUCK.... At 32 you should be high SMV, so why settle?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 01:21 PM
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this
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 12:40 PM
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F'ing Kevin...LOL!!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 08:24 PM
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"She remarried, my stepdad would often say things that were rude and not things you say to little girls; I came to resent him, which developed into a deep hatred for each other and a lot of fighting. I made a vow to avoid anything he stood for. I spent five years like that- it's not until reading through this subreddit that I recognize that I don't hate "Red Pill" thinking, I just hate him." What does this mean and what would he say? Just typical not liking the step-parent friction?
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 08:10 PM
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The guy is already down, so don't make it harder by telling him about RP. If you explain hypergamy to him and how his wife thinks now that she can or will make 6 figures makes her more of a catch to other guys so she is willing to try again with other men, then it will only drive him to do more stupid stuff. It's amazing reading some of these comments how the systemic misandry of the Duluth model has been internalized.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/16 12:07 PM
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LOL! A low-mileage Corolla over a BMW with high mileage and dents.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/16 11:40 AM
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Her khaki stretch pants got comments in high school. This is 2016, try yoga pants and bright lighting.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 05:35 PM
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LOL! topless making out not leading to sex- sounds like you're in high school! No advice from me on how to be sneaky, but a smart woman has probably already did the social media search on you too.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/16 05:31 PM
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I told this to my wife as well; I may not see you, but I will see my girls. She had a look of jealousy on her face.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/16 12:55 PM
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Exactly. Go read any Fathers Rights or Parental Alienation Syndrome (PSA) or Leading Women for Shared Parenting websites for some real life horror stories.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/16 12:38 PM
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Preach brother. What is said during happiness will not be the same thing said or done under a time of hypergamous bitchiness. Don't forget the opportunistic, materialistic, and self-centeredness of females. She will be looking to stick it to you, for money, for property, and because the world revolves around her solipsism, she will think she is the best parent for the kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/16 12:31 PM
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Societal legal and cultural constraints (BP condition and RP thoughts) limit amorality. Amoral attitude conflicts with ability to operate amorally, especially if you are not too rich to buy your way out or not poor enough that they can stick you with support payments. For example having a kid (in marriage or not) puts a man at a huge risk of alienation from his kids and at the will of a court to determine how much of your $$ you have to pay the mother for support if you don't have shared parenti…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 12:33 PM
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You missed the last line where it says it's not women vs. men, but everyone out for themselves. The current FI rules make women being out for themselves more advantageous than in the past, at least with respect to AF without any repercussions. However, as men are divorced raped, alienated from their kids, and are bitch slapped with open hypergamy that might all change.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 06:19 PM
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I don't think many of the readers here understand what parental alimentation means to the father, kids, and how the social and judicial system screw over fathers. I urge you to join a local fathers rights group to share you story and participate to get changes. Legal changes are 10 years too late for you but help out your kids and other guys to avoid your situation. Self-help books that I have seen don't cover PA, but they do cover a similar situation. Your situation is emotionally very similar …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 10:02 AM
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Marriage takes you from being a man and transform you into a male nest slave. Read the book "Anatomy of Female Power" where this Trad con trap is revealed more.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 02:17 AM
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If there is a financial or custody incentive for an angry wife in a divorce proceeding to gain more $ or custody then there is a motive to make false accusations. It has been shown in UK and Israeli studies that this is true. Often accusers face no criminal nor civil implications if their allegations are proven false. Think about that when you consider that fathers who are down on their luck may not be able to make a court ordered support payment. They can be imprisoned and be funneled into the …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 04:17 PM
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Often for women, genital, physical arousal precedes the psychological experience of desire,” Diamond says I understand this to mean she, the dead starfish, needs foreplay before becoming psychologically aroused (i.e desire). She uses the term physical arousal for women but just arousal for men (ie erection). Men feel desire before getting an erection (assuming no Viagra involved...).
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/16 01:26 PM
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*Fill that void gentlemen, stop wasting your precious time with the feeling of regret that I know creeps into your mind at night, during rides to work, and while you are alone. That isn’t how life should be lived. You do not need your wife, your house, your kids, your money, your car – you need you. * This.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 12:14 PM
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This is probably the most compelling reason for no females in front line units or at least all female units. Sane men don't want to be in combat for any duration but have no other option short of self inflicted wounds. A female on the other hand can get pregnant, as a way out. A pregnant female past her second trimester would definitely make her unfit for front-line duty.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 01:39 AM
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It's common knowledge that women are better shots on the rifle range. No standards being lowered. She may have a harder time carrying all the gear to a position if not MechINF, but once there she will do her duty. In the IDF they have all female units. Not proven in battle to my knowledge, but that will remove any BP chivalry inherent in a mixed gender unit.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/16 09:19 PM
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Not denying physical differences at all. Modern war is fought with machines and firearms... not swords and armour.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/16 06:20 PM
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Me too. Tied all my gear, except my webgear and weapon on the M113 and drove around everywhere. A few dismounted patrols at night.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/16 06:12 PM
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Equality means sharing the burden of performance with men. Part of that burden is national defense, and it's about time this last hurdle was removed. Not all infantry carry packs and march everywhere they go. A modern army has a significant portion of it's infantry in some type of armored personal carriers. You just tie down your pack on the APC and ride into battle.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/16 03:04 PM
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You'll have to give us an SA FR.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 02:23 PM
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That's right.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 02:20 PM
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Yes indeed. Single with no kids is safer than having the government involved in your relationship. Next being married with no kids is risky. The next risk is to have kids, and the most risky is married with kids. The state enforced father to prison pipeline or state owned slave is not worth the risk. Perhaps in future post we will learn that a woman can test her male prospects betaness by asking if they want kids and/or to be married with kids. Marriage with kids will only resume when marriage r…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/16 06:28 PM
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Education adds no value to sexual attractiveness at all. I would agree it adds to relationship value only if you want some protection/risk mitigation in case of divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/16 10:32 AM
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Being upset and scolding improper behavior or actions is not an issue, it is what a leader does. However a leader should not totally lose their shit and turn into a fuming harpy bitch. Part of why you got overly mad was you realized your weakness in not correcting the subordinates behavior that lead up to this because you were scared of them. Your overcompensation in correcting it afterwards was to soothe your ego about not being a good leader. If you take a turn into bitchiness, then you need t…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/16 01:42 AM
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No shit... it seems like every weekend. The walls are left undefended.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/16 01:24 AM
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You lift, but have you read the sidebar or any RP ideas?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/16 01:21 AM
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Yes... "her" rules. If he follows her rules you'll be a cuck in no time.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/16 01:20 AM
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thanks you called out my weak post that did not explain in more detail to what was being addressed. I was addressing this statement from the OP,"IF you have become the alpha captain, the unshakable oak, and you have turned the marriage around, implemented MRP the full distance for a year+ and you have created a good, strong, fun-loving red pill marriage... and she is still a harpy bitch" She may be a harpy Bitch because captains level of leadership is not what she needs to be fulfilled. Using th…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/16 06:17 PM
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But let's face it, he moved out of the house, which may mean in the eyes of a court he doesn't want/deserve custody, and he has a violent streak. His throwing stuff around in his passive/aggressive bitchy tantrums will be used against him as a restraining order and used for loss of custody with limited visitation most likely. If he divorces, then he will still be her obedient slave by enforced by the power of the state/courts.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/16 01:28 PM
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If you read RPWives, then you will see a series of posts there about the different dominance needs (levels) in women. AWALT is a spectrum and guys are a spectrum too. If you have a mismatch in a woman's dominance needs vs a guy's natural level of dominance there will be issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 08:56 PM
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Interesting, what country are you in? Call the police in the USA and hang-up, they might just call back or come out anyway to your house.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 04:46 PM
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Yes, definitely read "Divorce, done right" post.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 04:42 PM
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Well first of all you are already in unconditional surrender mode for the duration of this relationship, so that is not a new strategy for you at all now is it? Was the divorce or separation mentioned at all? Asking you to leave the house presumably to come back, is one issue separation /divorce is another. If divorce was her motive, then leaving the house was a huge mistake that you need to recover from. Has she filed for divorce? Part of your plan needs to be how to mitigate the impact of divo…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 02:35 PM
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Look up Dalrocks website. He goes a lot into how trad-cons are harping on guys to man up and marry the sluts. He has a lot of articles on trad-cons trying to suppress men's imperatives. Another interesting read on MGTOW sites is "The Anatomy of Female Power", which describes the traditional conservative provider role of men dating throughout history merely as "male-nest slaves" to the female imperative. IMHO TRP is not a retrograde movement back to the 1950's male nest slave or becoming a new ag…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/16 10:47 AM
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"We share custody" and "My kids will be all right". Glad to read this. Never stop being a protective and loving father.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/16 11:48 AM
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My advice to my daughters is to expect and enjoy the accomplishments of first wave feminism, but to reject entirely the label feminist. My hope is for my girls to be accomplished and happily married giving me grandchildren, but I don't see the latter happening by alignment with contemporary feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/16 11:34 AM
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Feminist demanding equality in the workplace, yet denying fathers equal rights in the domestic home-front with regards to shared parenting is just astounding female chauvinism and sexist. The sexist presumption of a female being a better parent and for a father to have to prove his worthiness as something other than a paycheck is not making a good case for feminist as being seen as supporting true equality. Divorced fathers alienated from their children suffer great emotional distress and this i…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/16 11:27 AM
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A better TL/DR is needed, as I wasn't going to read this until I saw the comment saying it was beautifully written. Also, it would be helpful to explain what codependency means. I am trying to recall, but weren't you involved with such a woman, so why you advocating keeping these women in a man's life?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/16 10:57 AM
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Yes, the jargon does translate into traditional conservatives and weird feminist
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/16 12:42 PM
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1-RM is just an ego thing.. and not worth any risk of injury.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/16 12:37 PM
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TRP is disliked by both sides of the spectrum (trad cons and weird fem's), but who GAF what they think anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/16 12:40 PM
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I'm getting a man-crush on you...
/r/askMRP25/06/16 04:56 PM
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Yeah, butthurt = poor leadership. Actually a lack of leadership and just being a disappointed follower. Validation seeking is just another sign of followership and not being a leader.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 10:26 AM
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You read all the side-bar and this site. The one main message is go slow and don't jump dread steps. Your current bodysize/fat is not relevant to what you should be doing. If you want sex, you have to kino/game her and be her lover. Honestly though I have to agree with Stonepimpletilist that you are just a beta-bux now. You should have an exit plan of your own about how to still be a parent to your kids while establishing your own life.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/16 11:40 PM
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She declared you are going to marriage counseling. She wants to go to Disney. What do you want to do? Tell her you are not going to Disney.... period. If she wants to go, then she goes by herself... OI. One way to lead is to stop being a follower Build your Dojo, follow your passions.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 02:00 PM
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You made rookie mistakes - don't do them again. Just be careful about unleashing any repressed vindictive anger about your horrible past BP behavior and mannerisms toward the SO. Just let that shit go and re-channel it into lifting. You can't change the wimpy past and your future self needs to be the oak - the oak is not an asshole.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 01:27 AM
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*They get high and mighty about “marriage equality” and how it’s unfair for a man to tell his wife “fuck you or fuck me” while denying that by denying a sexual partner said sex that she is effectively saying “If I can’t have sex, neither can you!” * Blue pill hypocrisy - golden stuff. Also about the manipulation criticism .... what is a shit test other than a verbal manipulative tactic that comes naturally to a harpy. Good stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 01:03 AM
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He got full custody, but the cheater still gets to see the kids in his house and on weekends. This doesn't seem like parental alienation (PA), which is using kids as weapons of revenge. If anything he protected himself from PA by getting her to agree to the custody arrangement. If left to family courts to make ruling, then the outcomes could have been wildly different. This is another key point, cheater agreed to conditions, because the dude in frame in control, and he was the alpha she wanted a…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/16 12:38 PM
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Hopefully he has a throw-away account and comes back to us....
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/16 12:27 PM
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Solid frame and dedication to your mission to resist the crying supplications of a female.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/16 12:26 PM
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Thanks for stepping in and policing the tone to minimize male issues by saying that we have issues too.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/16 04:06 PM
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Do men who leave their wives because of weight issues, tend to punish them further by limiting their exposure to their kids? I really don't know about that at all....? To address your question - No. My comment about AWALT was about you; however, the rest about 50/50 was a general comment for the guys. I would hope that the man you are married to (and yourself) are of better character than to weaponize children as instruments of revenge for a divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 04:23 PM
2

You mean test to see if a Doctor know how to perform CPR?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 01:08 PM
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Why would she assume she would get custody of the kids? That's inherently sexist, but AWALT for self-centered, materialistic, opportunistic women. 50/50 shared parenting and fair family courts. This is the only divorce risk mitigation for fathers who want to remain so after a divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 12:50 PM
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You don't deserve a name like DarkTriad. With that name I was expecting a much better field report.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/16 03:47 PM
1

You need to read Rollo's "the talk" blog ASAP!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/16 03:13 PM
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Wait a minute, she has a kid too? Is it his? This just got even worse.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/16 03:09 PM
1

What is your spouse like now? You said no issues, because you were in her frame, but as you have read TRP/MRP women don't always tolerate that without issues. She may have a low dominance need and low dominance qualities, which kept you compatible or you two may have gotten along as a MRP-ish couple without even having realized it. The point being is don't go to fast or think you have to do everything. I almost alienated my wife that way, but got it back together. You'll find a nice sweet spot o…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/16 07:45 PM
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We bed-shared as babies (wife breastfed). Later bedroom shared until I kicked the girls out at 12 years old. There is always a way!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/16 07:31 PM
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My wife had a C-section and cerclage, both of which are surgeries. Sex was had, as I recall, about 6-8 weeks afterwards. 18 months???
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/16 05:53 PM
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This whole post is about the man qualifying to the woman to be viewed as alpha. Making a woman's life better is a noble goal, when done in the way The Family Alpha recommends to do it. Be the masculine man for your own self actualization- not for her. If she is still around or you still want her around, then she can benefit from you, but her benefit is not the motivating goal. Yes, having sex and even porn-star sex is great, but that's still the cart before the horse again.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 11:06 AM
1

The brainwash makes today's man think he is actually responsible for his bitches happiness and that she is some kind of authority. Been there use to do that. This is really the mental turning point in for a blue pill conditioned guy. If a guy has strong frame and confident, then she will be happy, because she is around him. AM and AA are also part of this arsenal, because you don't argue you are happy, confident, and assured. None of these are negative emotions like arguing brings out, but they …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 12:38 PM
1

You should make a bullet point list of how to get such wonderful service, so it can be added to the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 09:48 AM
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Honestly, just quite going to church if you don't want to hear such ridiculous stuff. Edit to add this: 17 June is Fatherless Day. A day for everyone to support reforms in family court law and support your brothers wanting to be in the lives of their kids and the kids that are victims of sexist laws.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/16 11:49 PM
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You need to read Dalrocks blog. He is a religious RP guy that is always writing about religion and how it's being feminized. He also mentions BP straight laced guys being AF/BB used by religious females. In none of his writings have I seen anything about how hindbrain SMV factors (attraction, money, fitness...) are trumped by religiosity.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/16 02:05 AM
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The bill paying thing you mentioned is the dynamic in my family. I have not taken over the bills yet. I know any night she is paying the bills that I am not getting laid, and now I know why. It does stress her out and she must be resentful of me for not doing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 09:15 PM
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Not being paid for emotional labor well that must be the hidden reason why there is a gender wage gap.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 09:11 PM
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Guy, it won't get any better once she has commitment from you. Count swallowing the RP before you were dumb enough to marry as a huge blessing. You can answer your own question about nawalt vs awalt just by re-reading your post... it's obvious she is not a unicorn. You are just a beta orbitor she is settling for and hating you for her lack of options. The stress of having to marry is causing her to overeat and be bitchy. Hope she studies abroad, which I am sure she is also secretly hoping for to…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 08:57 PM
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Maybe that's why they are creating a married subR of their own in order to have some more realistic RP content. Maybe they need to have more stringent mods to weed out trolls.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 04:45 PM
1

are you saying this guy was trying to own his own shit? If so it was from a very Blue pill perspective of asking the wife for a goal. If he was MRP, he would have realized himself what was needed and did it. Asking the wife is lacking in leadership and almost a covert contract... I do this and you'll be happy. MRP point of view would be that the guy would be a self-starter and just do what needed to be done.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 10:37 AM
1

By his mom's words he can make more in the capital compared to your hometown. Is that difference in salary worth these troubles? Also other questions that were not addressed how far apart is the capital and hometown?
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/16 07:13 PM
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1- Unless you belong in an extremely lucky 0.1% minority, after 6-7 years of marriage, and especially if you've had your kids, your wife probably has almost zero interest in fucking you. I stopped reading your post after reading this sentence, because it's just ridiculous. I was never in a dead-bedroom situation in my marriage, and being a MRP reader/practitioner the sex has only gotten better. Women are drawn to masculinity like men are drawn to femininity, you have fallen off somewhere and a h…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 12:57 PM
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My wife gets me food or a drink all the time. I do stuff for her too. No one has ever said anything rude or a given a condescending look to her before, but we are not around ugly people either. Other people in unhappy relationships are sometimes eager to attack the happiness of others or to use you as a round-a-bout weapon in their shit-tests or fights with their spouse.
/r/RedPillWives29/05/16 08:00 PM
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Props brother for keeping it together for the kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 01:35 PM
2

Very timely post for me. I decided to start Stronglifts a few weeks ago. Adonis Golden Ratio was taking me 1.5 hrs in gym Final Phase, so I wanted a more intense/shorter workout. I started Stronglifts as an experienced lifter, but the weights for the last few weeks have not been challenging at all. Just focusing meticulously on form instead, which actually has been a great refresher. I have been tempted, like today, to skip ahead and lift heavy rather than plod along. Reading this Henry R. story…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 06:10 PM
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I agree with the last sentence totally. Loss of children is a terrible emotional impact to men Living in your car.... a man has to pay for his children's support but not excessively or unsustainably. Reform in family court is needed, not in-fighting.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 01:34 PM
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Upvoted.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 01:26 PM
1

Avoiding marriage may prevent alimony and loss of assets. If children are involved, married or LTR, you are at tremendous risk for parental alienation. Limited contact with your kids is a huge emotional burden. Until real equality in parental custody is achieved, I would avoid having children. Planning for a negative outcome is odd, but true equality in family courts would mitigate this often unspoken risk to men.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 01:23 PM
3

women hid it better, but are now proud of Open hypergamy.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 01:15 PM
1

Yeah that's right - alpha widowing your own woman... I managed to catch myself in time.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 01:12 PM
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What is heternormalcy that they can't' talk about it? Is she really saying these women really want to be dominated but can't express that desire due to feminist intellectual beliefs contradicting their hindbrain desires? This is why I can't read stuff written by or for women... to much doublespeak and just having to get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 02:05 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/4ep0xh/relationship_dynamics_part_one_updated_expanded/
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 04:00 PM
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On the RPWives reddit they have a post about female dominance thresholds and needs. That might be helpful in understanding what she will respond to. Some women need a lot and some less.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 10:17 AM
4

If you're into IF then read Brad Pilon's e-book Eat Stop Eat. It's a great read about intermittent eating strategies and the background medical facts behind it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 10:31 AM
2

Congrats!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 12:55 AM
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upvoted, because the truth will set you free...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 12:54 AM
1

What about single guys that are not MGTOW, LTR, or have enough game to be PUA?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 12:48 AM
1

Women can be selfish; she came so it's over. Some women just don't appreciate tantric sex skills. It's a blow to their ego or else they have to concentrate too much to "O" that they are tired and can't do it again.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 01:27 PM
2

What is a program girl?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 12:16 PM
1

Seems odd that you would be asking us what you want. My wife shopping list was determined from my negative experiences with my first wife. She was not college educated, overweight, low income job, infertile, overly attached to her mom (blaming me for separating them...), and a messy housekeeper. That's what I got for being emeshed in the FI matrix. After my divorce, I looked for and found a woman that was good with kids, grad-school educated, makes her own money, a good cook, tidy in the house, …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 01:57 AM
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The other risk in either marriage or LTR is parental alienation from your children. Depending on your local laws, you might not have shared parenting rights. Some USA states are finally starting to enact laws that recognize the value of a father is equal to that of a mother. Loss of contact with your kids and the impact on them is my real fear in divorce-rape. Paying out money or losing 1/2 your stuff pales in comparison to loss of contact with your kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 03:15 PM
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"... all men beat their families..." , I understand the point you are making, but I reject this opinion. It's like saying all men are rapist.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 01:25 PM
2

Like you I kinda of stumbled into this MRP reddit, and it has been enlightening. My situation was not nearly as bad as most of these posters, but I knew I could always do better. I was getting average lays regularly, but not to the girlfriend experience level of the past. I realized I was getting complacent and weak. I stick around here to learn from these guys, and you probably should too.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/16 05:29 PM
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Yeah they were trying to sell some Sh*t. It's sad really that anyone could come up with such a story, because it must reflect their own experiences that they can not come to terms with.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/16 01:37 AM
1

So was the OP a troll or not? This kind of slippage always seems to happen on the weekends....
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/16 12:42 PM
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Wow... downvoted for speaking the truth. Shit-tests are forms of emotional manipulation and manipulation is abusive. Parental alienation is a crime against children and the alienated parent.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 10:57 PM
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Digging a grave or sawing off a ball-and-chain? Read more about how emotional manipulation (i.e shit-testing, sex denial) and parental alienation by the feminist/divorce industry lead men to suicide rates at a 100 to 400% higher rate than women.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 11:44 AM
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Exactly. That's the same advice my father gave to me; Money is not worth happiness. He even offered to pay for my divorce! I politely rejected his offer as what I had to pay out in the divorce was nothing that I was afraid to lose or could not easily replace. I didn't have any kids, as she would not do what it took to give me kids, so it was not as complicated.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 11:39 AM
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Withholding sex and harpiness and shit-testing are just forms of emotional manipulation and violence. Now added to all of that their is parental alienation using kids as emotional arrows. Only a pathetic woman uses children as weapons.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 11:26 AM
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when did he say he cheated? He threatened to get a GF, SO lacking the will to fight for her man just bolted out of the house once she got a good story so she wouldn't look bad. Granted he may not of lead her well, but she could have done a better job too.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 02:25 AM
1

What does MRP lost it way mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 01:06 AM
1

LOL!! almost up to WiMPs standards
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 05:05 PM
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Sitting down and reading a list of RP truths is not effective. You teach her by the example that you set by being a masculine father with a RP family. you have to live the lifestyle as an everyday unspoken example. As a dad, you are the model for the type of man your daughter will want to be with. Your wife or SO actions and deference to you are also part of the everyday example set by living RP. If you want to provide media examples, then there are female centric RP sub-reddits that can provide…
/r/askTRP12/05/16 10:34 AM
2

Have you tried inviting friends over to your messy house instead of going out? If she has any self-respect, then to have her peer group see the house as a mess might be motivating.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 03:31 PM
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Upvoted... to save the youth What if you are not married but have kids? Can you still be taken to "family" court?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 02:39 PM
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Honestly who cares about the opinions of TRP or RPW/RPWives posters about MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 12:50 PM
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Just marry a woman that makes same or more money than you. Become active in Fathers Rights movement to ensure shared parenting for divorced fathers and work to ensure the VAWA is interpreted to avoid the sexist assumption that the male is the perpetrator.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 12:48 PM
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Are the authors in the manosphere or was this conceived independently outside of it? Still fascinationg... gotta read this book, after BPPs.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 10:30 PM
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Wow... she threw out all the classic female manipulation techniques: 1) Bitchy tone for covert disapproval 2) Pulling in an "expert" (i.e the father figure) as a consultant' 3) Your actions are insulting family (i.e beta father) 4) Constant nagging 5) Silent treatment 6) Didn't say, but I know you didn't get a BJ that night. Withdrawl of sex
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/16 09:44 AM
1

At least your wife's friends are not so plugged in to be beta-biotch male-feminists "fighting the patriarchy!".
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/16 03:01 PM
2

Where is Cad?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 07:24 PM
1

Are you one of the those self-deprecating white privilege guys? Bill Maher did a great New Rules sketch about white guilt.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 05:50 PM
2

Insightful edits.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 05:42 PM
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NGAF =/= I don't love my wife. It means I love my wife as a man she respects, but I'm not seeking her constant validation like a little child.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 01:29 PM
1

Most likely as you grow in MRP your perfect day may not involve your wife much at all...except at night.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 01:16 PM
1

Why did you delete your list of opinions?
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/16 10:16 AM
1

Interesting in this list of what mythical "teenage girls" believe that you have left out and what remains has a subtle anti-RP tone. Well done!
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 07:43 PM
5

This is a great post on the transitions from unplugging to assimilating the married RP ideas. At first you might be faking "alpha" or just a raging A-hole, but to be able to wield emotional intelligence with confidence is when it's no longer faking it, it's the start of actual being it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/16 01:48 AM
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Great post CJ; This henpecking list must be published in Cosmo or some place in the femosphere, because I have lived through it before, especially since taking the married RP. Your actions for each step are spot on.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 07:12 PM
1

Sound like my wife. The more experienced guys will have to help with this. My wife always tries to tell me what my emotional state is too, and I have learned it's a no-win trap. Just ignore any attempt to let her frame your emotional state; it's just her solipsistic opinion and projection. Do not DEER and fall into her frame trap. You describing all of your obstacles is DEER-ing. After that happens STFU, do not DEER, and leave if you want to. Denial of time and attention has to been done in an e…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 03:03 PM
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Okay ... I skipped the part you recommended. My take away from what you are saying or maybe what I think you should be saying is adapt a true MRP attitude- oak, OI, and be attractive. Don't be a BP a**hole. What you think is regression to BP is really just finally letting go of the anger phase and being a more charismatic leader.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 10:41 AM
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Yeah a troll post.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 12:35 AM
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I'm married, but single friend of mine said that common law in USA was done away with in my state to make way for gay marriage. The reasoning being you're common law married so you don't need a civil marriage was an excuse for not allowing gay marriage. Remove common law marriage and the only option is then civil marriage. Not sure what other rights or penalties entail from living together now.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 11:59 AM
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why do you have such a disparaging attitude about being an MRA? Why feel bad about going to a conference? Why do you think a woman or marriage will improve the quality of your life?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 10:26 AM
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They are just venting stress and anxiety in a negative manner by picking a fight. Fighting just builds up more stress in her, especially if a nasty row ensues, so it's really a little self-defeating.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 10:19 AM
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Shouldn't you be off-line attending to your duties?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/16 01:39 PM
2

This reads like a BP shaming meme of "real men" don't leave. This in particular makes me doubt your frame. "I had more to say, but I'm gonna to spend some time with my wife. Later"
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/16 12:18 PM
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Going with the parking theme: I always park in the back of the parking lot of the gym or store. I would rather spend time walking then looking, and it's easier to leave from the back of the lot with less traffic and pedestrians. The wife does the same thing now.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/16 11:12 PM
1

Go visit her family. Keeping family ties intact is important for a social security network. Family has to take care of each other, and if you have kids they need to know their extended family. Do not go any longer than YOU want to or if you are stuck there, then plan activities away from the family to alone with you lady. It's apparent from you post that extended family visits are putting a major stress on your relationship with your SO. If you feel trapped, you have to take action to change tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 10:43 AM
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truth-brother
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/16 10:09 AM
1

trigger warning: oneitis. The key word is everytime. If you were really close to your SO heart, then you can read your SO's emotional state to tell genuine tears from fake ones. Sometimes crying happens when they are not happy with you, as a manipulation ploy. Those crocodile tears are the chains shackling the Nice Guys. Read NNMNG and WISNIFG.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/16 10:24 AM
1

That reminds me.... I got your book and still need to read it. The wife saw it on our Kindle account, which prompted me to get my own account, but it was great unintended passive dread. No shit or comfort test came from it.. just good sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/16 10:50 PM
1

Great blog post. Guys in the future may have several sobering choices for marriage or LTR: 1) CC rider with kid(s) 2) Wall banger career woman with cats-looking for BB 3) Low SMW
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 10:09 AM
2

He is definitely expressing remorse, and it seems legit. But, he had an obvious credibility problem right now. Those conciliatory words are not coming from my loving partner. They're coming from the jackass who thought MRP was a solution to all our his "problems" Mister QBall37 why in the hell are you expressing remorse for any MRP action? Why do you feel the need to be remorseful puppy for lifting (you are doing that right?), dressing better, reading the internet, and doing better at your job? …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 09:50 AM
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Clearly not in USA. Your kid might be arrested, believe it or not, and at the very least suspended for a few days.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/16 11:45 AM
1

Rome was founded by a much smaller tribe of men looking for women for wives... just imagine an army of 30 Million.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/16 01:53 AM
1

upvoted
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/16 11:23 AM
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How many times have you seen a situation where the woman works making more $ than the guy. Also with working women the primary care-taker is often daycare, so neither parent really has a greater claim on the care-taker role. What do those outcomes look like?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/16 11:49 PM
1

Can't wait for this. TFA and BPP are my role models, but you're my back up plan
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/16 11:41 PM
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Good point. Prior to MRP, for me it was "I wuv U" all the time... now it's rationed severely. After sex is usually the time its gets dispensed now. I'm remembering the 48 hour rule.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 12:34 PM
2

"validation whore" Good one.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 12:28 PM
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It looks like RedPillWives is becoming the female MRP, and the new mods at RPWomen are making it into a female TRP. I read those to see AWALT in action.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 01:57 PM
1

LOL! As long as I get to show off the delts I'm good with it!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 07:19 PM
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Add another bullet to the Don't be Unattractive List: *item 1 Don't be an A-hole. I failed at wearing wifebeaters around the house, but they do show off he delts and biceps.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 12:45 PM
2

I'm not even gonna all read the comments that came before mine, because I know what everyone is going to say and it's all true. If you think you're a pussy, then it's true. What are you going to do about it?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 10:59 PM
0

pathologizing in passing value judgment on another person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 10:55 PM
1

yeah .. any mods left?
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 08:14 PM
2

What's wrong -his realizing the truth about hypergamy or her hypergamy?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 01:17 PM
2

Upvoted this. You just proved DREAD works. If she is only this way now in response to your improvements, then, yes, her attitude/sexual availability to you has always been conditional. She is not your mom... she is just a companion/business partner that is with you for the ride. You have just experienced hypergamy in action. Now the question for you is she better than the 3-some offers you have been getting?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 01:16 PM
1

Read the sidebar and lift brah
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 07:02 PM
1

"read about.." Don't let other create your reality.... Find yourself and be free
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 10:43 AM
2

•I will hold her hand anytime anywhere. Other couples are separating, I try to keep it fresh and romantic like when we were teenagers. That's awesome! I always hold hands or have SO on my arm. If not the wife, then the girls.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 12:11 PM
2

Hostile insults in your last post and now violent statements in this posting. Are these just examples of your misandric belief system and why you are projecting these about MRP?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 10:32 AM
2

I'm glad you have finally seen the light about rape being wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 01:37 AM
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A quorum of cherry-picked fools hardly makes a conjecture true. I can not get my head around your belief that rape is acceptable in marriage- it's not, and your stated opinion that a rapist is necessarily a male.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/16 09:15 PM
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Projection of your ideas onto others doesn't make them real nor make them facts. If you really have read this forum, then you would know that most are married and in LTRs--- unlike yourself. Why would a husband want to rape his wife... it's inconceivable.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/16 07:21 PM
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Married red-pill does not promote rape. This idea is one of your own creation from being immersed in the fem-primacy view of male sexuality as inherently evil. Learn to accept yourself and free your mind. Who wants to abuse or manipulate women on this forum? We live in the 21st century of equality and freedom for men from the burden of performance (if you want it). Quite living in the past and embrace the future.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/16 06:56 PM
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Rape advocacy is not part of this forum. You need to learn to be tolerant of sexual diversity and learn to think outside of socially conditioned blue pill norms. I do like your flair. Admitting you're a troll is honest --respect.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/16 12:23 PM
3

Another way to look at the article is to learn how to yank her chain and give her some drama and then be her Oak. Just saying have some fun and amusement with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/16 04:04 PM
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thanks for the tone policing... Of course women that chose to go into STEM fields are adequate to good at it. What is the point of choosing a career that you do poorly in?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/16 03:59 PM
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If you were doxxed, then why not use your real name? Just curious. Also can you sue your former job for wrongful termination?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 08:29 PM
1

But such eloquence in whining lacking in my terse communications.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 06:26 PM
2

Yeah.. I would get married again too even after learning about RP. Having a woman around is fun. Just have to vet list of candidates and chose the best one. Living together is another option short of marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 12:35 PM
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Upvoted. This isn't whining... it's a warning....
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 12:31 PM
1

taking IDGAF to an extreme is apathy-not leadership
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 06:54 PM
0

LOL!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 06:51 PM
1

I read this a lot in RP sites, but women can build value just like men. Also beauty is only as important as you want it to be as far as value and a uterus is only necessary if you want kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 12:32 PM
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And why are idiot questions and cringy FRs anything that MRP needs to DEER to other subs about? It's about taking care of the MRP constituency at whatever phase they are at in their life.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 09:45 PM
3

LOL! This reminds me of the idiom: people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 10:40 AM
1

I don't get what you are saying.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 02:21 AM
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Anger....reject it now or it will rule your life Awesome post...! Anger is still being in someone else's frame, which is why you must move on. Anger is situationally appropriate, but as a default stance, it is not good leadership bearing for the head of the family.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 01:43 PM
3

Look that's why BPP and others have suggested not taking drastic action immediately after unplugging. Give it a year to see how this all shakes out. Stay or leave as a conscious choice as in what's in your best interest as a man.... not in knee-jerk reaction to the anger phase.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 01:34 PM
2

Indeed.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 08:26 PM
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Upvoted this before BPP's fan club arrives to down-vote.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 05:31 PM
2

Women only take from RP what benefits them- not what benefits you as a man. It's not their imperative to aid you but themselves. One imperative that is now on the table as an MRP is re-engaging the male imperative of diversity (i.e multiple women) or in other words divorce. Revoking commitment is the male option and that is a direct threat to the female imperative of seeking commitment either Alpha or Beta.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 12:34 PM
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Exactly, the PUAs don't know MRP has it harder than they do. I don't read outside of RPW or MRP on Reddit, but apparently RPW thinks we are wimps and TRP thinks were chumps for getting/staying married. Everyone else can fuck right off. <-- that sums it all up for me too!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 10:29 PM
1

The marriage did not make the cut... while some may not agree, I consider that a success story. The whole burden of performance go only go on for so long if the prize for that performance is not worth a damn to win. That's why TRP and MGTOW don't advocate marriage, but MRP is here to make the best of it- if you think it's worth it. If you judge it to be unworthy, then you are a success as a man for making it your own way.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 10:26 PM
3

Excellent post! I lurk on RPW, because it's fun to watch/read the AWALT in action and to know that not all women are unmarriagable. I would disagree that everyone here is a broken dude, but more likely just men that need to learn skills, as BPP has stated many times. No one is born a natural anything; everyone must be taught skill and that it's normal to use them. MRP is an example of men getting it done. It's a really positive place to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 06:52 PM
1

Exactly!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 06:25 PM
1

You really see these types of "open minded" guys? There not really a men at all, but closet "nice-guys" who are emeshed in the need for female validation. Seeking validation to the point of compromising your masculinity to support open cuckolding is just the lowest point for a man to be in. OP did you read No More Mister Nice GuY? Also any talk of a open marriage is just another sign that she is or will start cheating on you.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/16 01:19 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/16 01:12 PM
2

Did I have the same experience prior to marriage with my SO going bat-shit crazy and abusive? .... NO. A woman prior to marriage would be gleefully planning for the future together and looking to make you happy. Apparently her looking towards a future with you is making her unhappy and scared.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/16 01:10 PM
2

Instead of guilt do you really mean you regret the fact that you only get carousel-like sex (i.e BJ, anal, Ass to Mouth?) when she is drunk, but really want similar non-starfish performance when she is sober and truly desires you?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 11:36 AM
1

I do the Adonis Golden Ratio (AGR) program- emphasis on upper body work, Incline bench (DB), DB OH press, Rows, and various shoulder raised. Less legwork, but encompasses squats, lunges, and bent-knee deadlift (hammy workout).
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 02:21 AM
2

It's a valid point about being weak and then trying to be accepted once you are strong (i.e RP aware and got game). The same phenomena goes with a promotion from within a group of peers to being the new boss of your peers. Some will follow and some will be detractors. But as the new boss you can always fire the detractors and hire a replacement. Same idea with marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 09:16 PM
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1-RM max goals are great, but not the only goal that can come from a gym workout. Think about body-building and body shaping - in particular getting a V-taper. No one outside us gym rats appreciate what a 1-RM max means, and I bet your SO doesn't care either. Everyone does notice a nice V-taper and squat-butt!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 07:55 PM
0

Ever hear of the burden of performance? Just do all that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 01:56 PM
1

LOL! Hey your brigade friends are loving your post. I upvoted this.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 01:54 PM
0

That's why there is a possibility of divorce. Be the man - either with a wife or without.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 11:31 AM
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LOL! If that was the case then it would be front page of mainstream media. MRP is about yourself first, and the wife second. She is just gets the benefit of being in your halo.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 01:00 AM
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Wow! that article was not very fair to the RPW. I read here all the time, and I couldn't tell if anyone was an MRA or not. "They" hate MRAs, so lumping RPW in with them is a sub-com to shape their readers opinions about what RPW. Hopefully, some will come here and find out about the real RPW instead of being "informed" by this propaganda piece.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/16 01:40 PM
1

If you have read the book "1982 1984" they would never terminate a traitor until he came around to support the state. Once he converted to the state approved thinking, he was done for. Or in MRP terms, until you are fully out of the matrix, don't end anything. Wait until she you are high value in her eyes until deciding to pull the plug. However, having the mentality that you can and are willing to do so, is part of the IDGAF'ness needed to lead. Just don't act on it out when in a position of we…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 02:01 PM
2

It's not where you were, but rather where you are going now that matters. Some of us have links to our older BP selves in the form of wives and marriages. If you don't have this burden of performance, then you are truly a free man. Don't look back at the plantation... just keep heading towards freedom.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 01:43 PM
2

That poor bastard in the last 30 minutes chained to a smoking (cigaretttee...) fat chick thinking he's screwed. She was going to get a gym membership, maybe to get a revenge-bod? To bad he doesn't know about this site.....
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/16 10:29 AM
2

had to upvote this
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/16 07:09 PM
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Why did this get so many upvotes?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/16 01:54 PM
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It's the V-taper. A slender waist and muscled up torso presents a very powerfully masculine presence.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/16 07:38 PM
1

LOL!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/16 07:05 PM
1

are you kidding?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 08:38 PM
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she made a mistake. Who doesn't make mistakes? Hypergamy makes no mistakes. Instinct has judged them unworthy of procreation and a failure at their burden of performance, and if they want to believe that they will never leave her frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/16 11:00 AM
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Buy him a copy of BPPs' book. I got it on my Kindle, which led to some inadvertent dread. Knowing MRP theory helped me to leverage this. Wife bought me a Kindle, but my account was under her name. All of my books show up on the Wifes and girls kindle accounts. I only realized that once I saw her name on the kindle account. I'm not that tech-savy, so I deleted the MRP sidebar books and had her set up my own Kindle account. Had to buy BPPs book again, but well worth it. SO didn't read the book, bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 02:38 PM
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direct conversation means womanly tricks aren't working anymore This is a good sign.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 12:22 AM
2

Exactly it's a marathon... not a sprint. Build up through action and the shift will be natural and "her" idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 03:44 PM
2

Hey brother... you will be a man either in a good marriage with a good wife or a single man with a good life. Don't waste your time/$$ doubling down on a poor deal.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 03:15 AM
1

Thanks for this... I was feeling some vomity equalism BP sympathy for this guy's lack of leadership of his wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 09:29 PM
4

Okay.. I need to know the significance of manganese, iron, and silicon.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 09:24 PM
3

upvoted, 1) turn lights off. 2) morning wood...just saying that its up anyway
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 08:45 PM
2

LOL! I was thinking the same thing that his moobs are bigger than hers. Also he has bigger ear-rings.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 08:37 PM
1

awesome
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 08:33 PM
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Work the kino. When walking together with my girls and my wife, I offer my arm and wait to see who puts their arm into mine first.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 03:26 PM
1

Life is good... three days ago my score was 7. Yesterday my score was 1. This MRP shit works! Just saying... don't be a blue-pill wimp or an asshole in starting out MRP, and your score will go down too!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/16 03:00 PM
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you are not done.... so you had to give her some electrolytes and a massage?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 07:10 PM
2

NO 3 is more $$$ Quality vs quantity
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 01:23 PM
2

Hey brother welcome!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 09:54 PM
2

You can be hurt or injured or post op, just don't be a whiner about it or use it as an excuse. With my kids it's like if you are too sick for school then you are to sick to be playing.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 11:01 AM
1

I've been doing this type of dominant kiss... not everyday or at the same time to keep it unpredictable and fresh. It's been a tremendous frame-builder in establishing a playful rule over the SO.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/16 02:06 PM
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Definitely do whatever PT is prescribed for recovery and follow the Dr's orders about lifting. Most Dr's don't lift, so they don't understand, but there is no point in delaying your healing any longer than needed. Iron down time sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/16 11:43 PM
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The program is laid out for you: •raise your SMV •enforce your boundaries •learn to pass shit tests •build your frame to be strong enough to weather her attacks Yep, there are no shortcuts. It's understanding the material and implementing it. Also realizing that like anything there will be mistakes made in over or under implementation. It's like a guided missle there may be some wild course corrections along the way, but they get more refined and eventually hit the target.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/16 11:44 AM
1

Yeah... my SO tells me the same shit. A bit of a different spin on "doing your own thing" like she tells me "... you always want to be alone". When you are breaking away they notice it quickly. If she wants you, then she will have to fight for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 07:49 PM
1

I never heard or Reddit until I learned about the manosphere. I started out oddly enough because of an article "about where have all the good men gone?". I was concerned about my two girls finding husbands. The good men trope, led me to MGTOW articles (sandman) and the other guy in the mask. MGTOW lead to Karen S. Her stuff is interesting. There was a comment from a young female about what women could stop doing make men come back or care about them. Someone gave a one word answer- Hypergamy. Se…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/16 06:57 PM
1

I read a few of the mentioned sites. RM occasionally mentions MRP, but I have never seen it anywhere else. RPW doesn't even have a link in their list of RP sites. They show TRP, but not MRP, which always seemed strange to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 10:10 PM
1

He was one of 4 guys in the linked article on Alphaness
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 08:57 PM
1

His story is basically of walking blindly into a divorce ambush. You Mods have give us the "rest of the story" (Paul Harvey style) about the failure to lead his family and either a) avoid this entirely or b) prepare for the eventual family dissolution of terms favorable to all.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 08:56 PM
1

Great, I'm glad to see more guys coming here before they reached the rock-bottom of the dead bedroom. I found MRP in a similar manner and have not looked back. This resonated with me; Now? I have had the most frank month of communication with my wife in the history of our marriage. Good grief that’s liberating. My SO had a few of these too. Now that she feels more secure with me as demonstrated by deed. She told me very frankly that she had lost confidence with my past self. Those words didn't f…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 02:09 PM
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Steve is the most alpha to me. edit In the golden age of Poon, he chose to be chaste. Not what I would do, but I'm not Steve. He also volunteered for the military to fight. USA doesn't have a draft, so this again was his choice to be a warrior. He is living is creed in action. His wife was loyal to him for a reason.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 02:06 AM
1

I upvoted this as these types of stories need to be told.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/16 01:35 PM
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Welll what was the plan? What did you do to protect yourself?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 12:58 AM
2

Life's to short to be Capt Sava hoe. Never been in your situation, but to me a 911 call is the same as a divorce papers. She is using the FI state's white knights to smack you around. This is just a female version of domestic abuse. You kept your cool and showed the cops that you were not at fault, but still being the sexist state we live in you had to leave the house.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 02:05 PM
2

Lol! My wife is an MD but she is still a woman. Biology trumps all.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 02:14 AM
1

I don't think you understand Keno very well
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 11:32 AM
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Go for the tactile sensation and sound.. not for pain. Cup your hand and touch lightly or just go for a grope.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 11:31 AM
2

She's feeling a lot of competition with the ex-wife. Does she see that as a form of passive dread...even if unintended on your part?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 11:27 AM
0

surely
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 11:20 AM
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Now, after TRP and MRP, not only do I know the reason, I don't care about the reason, and I can make her laugh and go get me something to drink and STILL get the uppy-downy. Flair congrats!! and that nearly made me short-circuit my computer with coffee
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/16 04:47 PM
0

Wow... I'm like the 4th person you told to "chill" or made some other accusation about. Vinegarbubblegum seems to be an aptly sour screen-name
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/16 01:51 PM
1

"any form of criticism = hater"... that's an extrapolation. I suggested sending in constructive criticism via red line strike outs and comments instead of just a gross generalization of the writing style.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/16 11:47 PM
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Don't be a hater... send him your revisions in Red Line strike out or in comment bubbles.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/16 05:39 PM
1

Exactly, sound's like an Alpha cuck situation
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/16 05:16 PM
2

I agree with you Tim. One of the best bits of MRP wisdom put out by the sages here was to maintain your place and do chores around it like you're single. Don't ask for anyone's permission, but just do what you know needs to be done. Action not words.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/16 11:47 AM
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Nature abhors a leadership vacuum, even to the point of a child filling the role.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/16 11:58 AM
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Wow, Marriage 2.0 not a good deal for guys. I'm old school, so I'm in for the ride, and my SO is not from USA. The other tact is to marry a woman who brings in her own money and assets.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/16 01:28 AM
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Your path will be easier then.... if she is like my SO. I've actually done more to sabotage myself than roadblocks from her. My SO didn't use the word dominant, as I don't think she could ever by so overt to state that. Reviewing all of her past shit-test, and protest with MRP glasses that was what she was covertly wanting, but I just didn't get it either. Now, just taking baby steps. On the RPW site the ladies there came up with a dominance scheme for categorizing the degree of male dominance/f…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/16 08:00 PM
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Your SO reads a website about lifting, being a leader, owning your own shit... what's the problem with that? SO may find a reason for why things are changing, but if those changes are good and implemented smoothly, SO will go along with your actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/16 11:07 AM
1

How come this is not a sticky-note post?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 04:11 PM
1

SJW tone policing or just some lingering blue pill vs redpill conflicts? Embracing your masculinity is not misogyny
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 10:55 AM
2

He's pulling Latina's ... my favorite. Now I am forced to agree that MRP is Red Pill on hard mode. Being the prize to only one woman, when this dude is platting Latinas... that's hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 01:02 AM
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I upvoted... No blood ties, then cut ties.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 12:10 AM
2

A reformed CC rider can get a "fresh start", so can a reformed beta. Do you want that start with her or another woman. The question is saving such a marriage just an ego exercise?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 01:14 PM
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The point is not to dislike women, because they are what they are. Sure the FI is out of control, but knowing RP let's you see the code. Seeing the code you can make the system work for you or at least not screw you as much. This "gift" is not a burden but a blessing. Knowing the code you can predict some outcomes and make that work to your advantage.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 06:54 PM
1

Pretty much anything involving Adam Sandler is an example of this. LOL! I liked the movie, "Blended" pre-RP, but now, post-RP, I can see the FI matrix all over that movie.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 06:51 PM
2

Her brother is probably more afraid of his sister than you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 02:59 PM
2

Thanks Brother!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 02:17 PM
2

How is being separated advantageous over being divorced? You two seem to be sharing custody, which seems odd to me. You essentially have a divorce in all but name. Being so Beta (in the past ), I am really surprised about this type of set up.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 03:18 PM
1

I read the "Family Alpha" blog too.. great stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/16 09:35 PM
3

The ladies between 30% and 22% looked really nice. Too low a BF and the toned feminine softness to the skin is lost. As females age the lower estrogen levels may lead to a more masculine fat deposition pattern, and if they are lean, then they can look more muscular, which is a sign of old age in women.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 02:16 AM
1

there's a lot to be said for giving an honest opinion. My girls now that mom will sugar coat something, but that I'll give them an honest answer. If it sucks, then it sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/16 10:46 PM
0

You have the same low standards that my wife has... no drugs and not pregnant. Those are my lowest expectations for them... set higher goals for your kids- healthy body fat levels, aerobic conditioning, physical strength, good grades, religious education, social life, and smart use of social media.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/16 01:06 PM
4

You can delegate tasks, but you can't delegate competence in performing a task.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/16 12:10 PM
1

Not perfect but definitely improving. Getting the kids rooms ready is part of my action plan for re-structuring our family. Sex has always been 1-3X a week, but obviously very late at night and quietly.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 02:07 AM
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Studies?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 02:00 PM
2

Well depending on your culture... getting the kids out of the bedroom is another challenge. Believe it or not.. .my two kids still sleep in our room (separate bed). But yes the difficulty with watching kids, diapers, and feeding is over-rated for BP sympathy. I just made a checklist for all of the possible reasons a baby could cry, and went down the list until she stopped -not rocket science. Kids have a proximity anxiety at times, so just keeping the babies close is soothing to them.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 03:06 AM
1

This doesn't sound like a divorce rape story like the MGTOW guys are always harping on... or is it? You'll have to change your flair now.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 12:29 AM
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Sounds like she will be an Alpha-widow now.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 09:44 PM
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If you are divorcing her, then why do you care about her sex-life at all? Give her some pointers so your kids are not exposed to anything unseemly.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 05:57 PM
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Yes... I've only been MRP for about two months. I do feel sorry for those guys. Maybe among the ill-will they will hear enough about the message to turn their own lives around. Kind like the Christians being persecuted by the Romans.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/16 07:39 PM
1

Detailed post... good stuff. For my needs the budgeting methods/software was priceless info.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/16 02:21 PM
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You are not the bio-dad, so why are you busting ass for some other mans child? The wife should be busting ass for own child.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/16 03:01 AM
1

You have to know yourself and know your spouse to be successful in the sexual market place
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 08:17 PM
1

.... No.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 02:41 PM
1

agree on the Smv valuation
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 02:29 PM
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I think your some oneitis is at play. The fantasy of saving the marriage and getting back together is a blue pill pipe-dream that you should know is not true. You didn't win against chad... Chad simply nexted your "wife". She is scared and is crawling back to you, but being smarter she is being manipulative about it. If you take her back, then you will always be seen as weak in her eyes. Your kids have already seen enough ugly hypergamy. With partial custody, then that will spare them from furth…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 02:08 AM
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Reading comments in the link about the mens' statements through an MRP lens was equally as telling about how little some men and women really understand the nature of the opposite gender.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/16 10:03 PM
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I've been implementing many RP attributes into my behavior while I've been gone especially in my dealings with her. It makes sense that she would resent that and either want me to change my ways or leave the relationship. Point of clarification: Implementing RP incorrectly or to abruptly might push her away, but RP will actually increase her attraction toward you. Semper FI is the Marine motto that applies only to your band of brothers-in-arms not to hyergamous women who are not worthy of you. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/16 11:24 AM
1

Who makes up these brigades, because they must have no life at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 02:09 PM
3

Does the "beard-hate" correspond with her cycle? I read somewhere about male BO - a strong male characteristic which was rated as attractive or unattractive by women depending on their cycle. It may be that a man's facial hair being an overt male characteristics compared to a clean shaven man is more appealing depending on the time in the cycle as well. All the science aside, it's your face to do with as you want to. My SO hates my mustache. When she rags on it, I just tell her the ladies at the…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 04:56 PM
1

When I first found this sub reddit, the first few post all had advice to start weight lifting.... that's when I knew I was in the right place. I do the Adonis Golden Ratio, which is a body building program to build up specific muscles to enhance the masculine body-shape. It's not just lifting heavy for the hormone effects discussed here, but building up the muscles that enhances the V-taper.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 01:42 PM
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this one in 3 years
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 11:50 PM
2

Great post. This should be in the side-bar. Understand or learn what type of wife you have --wife with the emotionally healthy definition of value or a "wife" that is an anxious/narcissistic bitch. What she is, for better or worse, will not stop you from becoming more positive and masculine, but will help to decipher her attitudes and behavior to better respond to comfort and shit test. .
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 02:04 PM
1

LOL! Edit: OP has 2 years study here (assuming RP) and then post this?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 03:20 PM
1

Essentially the OP must earn the trust and respect of the family and that will take time and smarter application of lessons learned.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 03:16 PM
2

Yes... I went there once out of curiosity. It was just a reactionary and uninspiring place lacking in any constructive of helpful purpose, and whose sole purpose was just to malign others trying to be of service. Be original and create your own damn stuff; don't be a hater on others more successful than you.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/16 07:56 PM
1

Really guy? Necessary?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/16 07:35 PM
1

Cool... this is my first time being down-voted!!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 07:41 PM
0

Don't those BP guys have a f*cking home of their own. I've seen their site, and there is little constructive or helpful. It is all about tearing down RP. Why don't they have actual BP content that is meaningful about their own praxeology.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 07:36 PM
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After 10 years of togetherness, she doesn't know you well enough to not be threatened by a bunch of internet postings. If you two were 3-months into a relationship then this might be a shocker, but not after 10 years. Honestly what grown woman doesn't know that men enjoy and want to have sex with women? That doesn't bode well as a sign of your future married sex life with her. RP is a powerful tool for awakening the male imperative that has been buried by the feminine imperative. Make sure you k…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 01:39 PM
3

Ja Ja Ja!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 01:24 PM
1

Second that... to lead the family you have to know their psychology and covert communication. Identifying shit and comfort test is key to choosing an appropriate leadership direction.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 01:18 PM
1

Do they sell T-shirts?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 07:21 PM
2

Congrats on RP! Yeah listen to these guys, all good stuff. If you don't know how to lift or have a training plan, then get trainer at the gym or research one on the internet program.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 07:19 PM
0

I would venture the demoting was and has been self-appointed. My only advice was to suggest counseling the "baby-sitter" on how to be a more effective parent to his kids instead of trying to get some.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 01:30 AM
2

Right on! If you're freed up, then go for an upgrade.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 12:59 AM
2

Interesting... very covert attempt by the wife to tell you to show her more respect in front of the kids. That covert communication failed to register. She then switched to overt communication to directly state the problem, and issued a threat of no sex if her request was not responded to in a way that at least addressed her concern. If this was a comfort test, then you passed because you offered her support with the kids, but it was also a opportunity to teach her how to be a better parent. It'…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 10:49 AM
2

A big nasty 'feminism' appeared and changed the game, but because we can't combine to talk about problems too well, took us a generation or two to figure out that we had better get together and start talking.* This really struck me as profound. One or two generations of re-equilibration of society, and we are still changing. I'm sure as it gets more well known it will be attacked, but by that point the attacks will just vindicate the truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 07:17 PM
1

Buy him some grey ties...
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 01:21 PM
2

I have a 10 year-old daughter. I am raising her to value herself and her integrity. I want her to know that she doesn't have to compromise herself "for love." I hope that she will be strong enough to wait to have sex until she is 100% ready--no caving in because some boy says the "right words." (I guess you can say that we're inoculating her against PUA.) I expect my girls will marry younger than their mom (my wife) did; hopefully around 22-24 yrs old (I want to see my grand-kids). I don't have …
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/16 09:54 PM
3

Trying to get my head around this. How do I explain to my daughters how she is degraded or damaged, so they don't go down this path?
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/16 01:49 PM
2

this is a quality post...
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 10:45 AM
1

Has this film been funded fully and when is it due out?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 12:37 PM
2

Are you kidding? Being in a fighting unit and having a higher purpose is Alpha all the way
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/16 01:33 AM
2

you might wanna adopt the mindset, that whatever happened pre unplugging doesn't matter. You can't do anything about it because you've only first begun getting the tools now, and besides your pre red pill personality have often been your own worst enemy. Good advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 08:06 PM
2

consensual sex is not rape
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 04:58 PM
3

That guy is totally rocking the workout and diet. Low fat levels, good muscle mass, building up mass strategically to enhance the V-taper, plus a pre-contest carb cycling/hydration will give you the body in the final pic. The pre-pic may have been an average day look with no special contest-like diet. The post pic is real, but probably not an average everyday look due to carb cycling/hydration. Probably ex-military or para-military. In my gym, I'm old enough to be the father of 3/4 of the kids t…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/15 03:30 AM
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Have you tried coming home earlier, so there is time to do it before the hamster gets tired? Engineering controls may be the answer. People do get crabby and lethargic the next day with no sleep. If you lift on little sleep, then see how ineffective your workouts are.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 01:21 AM
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Details please: Obviously everyone knows you are a couple, so why is a pic of you two together an issue? Doesn't everyone know you live together?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 01:07 AM
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Well, this is way more hurtful than helpful. Have to own that you don't talk to her like that anymore. Those are beta comments. That's what I thought the minute I said it. Actions not words. Can't say what I'm not but show it. comfort vs shit tests, even one written by me. Get it together Gotta get this down, to correctly interpret the hamster. I think my SO is vacillating between the two, due to my confusing to her alpha and aggressive beta moments.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 04:54 PM
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Shit I have owned: Reading the side-bar material and other blogs instead of wasting time on the internet surfing. Working out regularly - doing the Adonis Golden Ratio program. Can't wait for the new years crowd to clear the gym, so they stop interfering with my super-sets. Painting the house room by room- really a lot of fun. Shit I need to own: My SO keeps pointing to 12 year old pictures of us on the fridge when we first met, and says where is this guy? This is the SO's favorite tactic when I…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 01:10 PM
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It's OK to be a girl and it is A fucking OK to enjoy dance and ballet over playing football with the boys There are to many instances in media and in feminist thinking that make it not OK to be feminine and female. It always has to be comparable to the boys or what the boys are doing. My girls used to watch a TV-show called Bella and the Bulldogs, where the lead character is a female quarterback that gave up cheerleading to "be one of the boys". What's wrong with being a girl? It's like they are…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/15 06:34 PM
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Sick for a week, but were you so disabled from a cold that you couldn't do any chores? She thought you were milking the cold to get out of responsibilities. What is more concerning is her attitude of going nuclear to call you on what she thought was your malingering and then your son attacking you as well. Caving into your wife to ask her what needed to be done, if you already knew what needed to be done was weak and passive/aggressive, and it put you in her frame
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/15 02:32 AM
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Not a joke; this is a gender reversal of a real-life event that happened between a beta pastor and his "wife". Reading this from a man's POV (him breaking plates), my first thought was the plates were just a veiled threat that the hammer would be used on her next if there was no compliance. It's just in-direct physical intimidation. If a relationship has reached the point of violence or displaced violence, then that relationship as a loving and mutually respectful relationship is over. Violence …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/15 02:13 AM
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Read the sidebar material, and BBP's vids are great! You need to read still to get the level of detail and time thinking about a topic that is not afforded in a 10 min video. The books always have more richness than the movies..
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/15 12:41 AM
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From a RP viewpoint a man's SMV is primarily success/dominance based with some appearance basis as well (the ratio may depend on the which of the dualistic approaches a female is taking at the time); however woman's SMV is determined by primarily by physical attractiveness (which is a measure of genetic healthiness and lifestyle) and not success.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/15 09:42 PM
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Where is all of this hatred you and the other posters are writing about? I just don't see it here in MRP or in RPW.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 08:14 PM
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Are you a Blue Pill forum regular?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 07:37 PM
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Read this book, "Anatomy of female power" to better understand what fodder, lies, and social contract mean with respect to this topic.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/15 02:52 PM
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Insightful. Mine actually had a Dr's excuse for no sex... a cervical cerclage. No pussy, but no oral or handjob either due to contractions. I bought it hook line and sinker.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 01:01 PM
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Have you changed your screen name, so she can't read your post? If she is that insecure to be cyber stalking you, then post some BS posts to get her going. That will make the burden of her nagging and comfort testing more fun and amusing for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 08:20 AM
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There is a married red pill forum (MRP) that is for us guys that are married. Yeah, I know..... I know, but if you already are married, then the MRP forum is a must read/follow. MRP takes the TRP principles as needed to sustain and make marriage 2.0 bearable For some lame reason it is not listed on the Red Pill Network links.
/r/ThankTRP22/12/15 05:09 PM
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LOL! Always hide the presents in plain sight Maybe this was a test or a covert communication for him to step up his present buying game. See I got you this and that, and she is covertly expecting similar levels of gifts. Edit: On second thought she was probably just too lazy/tired to hide the presents. When he looked at them instead of taking blame for her laziness and lack of planning, it was just easier to be a shrew. That brings up the other point that she felt it was OKAY to be a shrew to hi…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/15 11:11 AM
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Still reading NMMNG and MRP.. haven't gotten to MMSLP. I don't see this forum as insulting... the tone is more like being taught by a drill-sergeant.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 08:53 PM
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Why are you here? This is Married Red Pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 05:21 PM
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Yes. Men give commitment to women and the terms of that commitment in our cultural are traditionally defined as a name change. Don't compromise standards by pedestalizing pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 01:04 PM
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Yes to this too. Immigration concerns and paperwork being muddled by a name change can be detrimental to getting citizenship. My wife kept her matriarchal name until citizenship was obtained, and then got it changed.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 12:55 PM
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Yes that was my approach as well. However it is cultural as well, but in our culture taking your name is the norm. Of note, Hispanic cultures don't use hyphens but simply keep the matriarchal name as a 3rd or 4th name.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 12:51 PM
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Have to hook up a generator to that spinning hamster wheel and power the house!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 11:52 AM
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Jack Jones
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 02:54 AM
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"Like it or not - hyper promiscuity in women is generally indicative of instability - emotional or otherwise. Any man who ties his children's and his own future to a woman who is incapable of monogamy for the bait and switch promise of potentially being able to get his cake and eat it too is a dope falling for a ruse. " Yes, it is a total con game for a chick to branch swing overtly... optimized hypergamey. Cuckoldry/open marriage is a fool's game.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 11:11 AM
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Great stuff! 1. Asked the wife what she wanted. She said she wanted nothing but for me to be happy, so a Teddy and an apron are on order. 2. Hope chest for oldest daughter- as a reminder of marriage and not the CC Yolo lifestyle. Also used to store future needed gifts. 3. Youngest girl- craft paints and canvas.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 01:01 PM
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I sense you don't read MRP very often?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 01:05 AM
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"Her: (we should do things my way) Me: One of the main things I did wrong before was listen to you." This is a classic... I got the same from my SO!! AWALT
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 12:25 AM
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those types of feelz vocalized in front of innocent children honestly are nothing but child abuse...
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 12:22 AM
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Say it brother! This is my current state right now, except for moments of weakness trying to get pay-back for being passive. It's not right, as it was my choice to do so in the past, for whatever lame BP reason. Some RP confidence with BP remorse/anger taken out on my SO is just poor leadership. My SO is unhappy with me, but maybe not so strangely though, my SO is also following my lead, indirectly, of getting our house cleaned and decluttered. SO wants stoic leadership and the Oak.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 07:15 PM
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Don't you get some type of halo effect from being around such high value dudes? Maybe not apparent at the moment the girls are IOI to others, but once they are gone you must at least benefit from association.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/15 10:36 PM
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Only once 15 years ago, but possibly again after 15-months (1-month per year of marriage for MRP turn-around).
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/15 05:02 PM
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Daaamnnn! She's a keeper!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/15 04:50 PM
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Yeah... I wasn't RP at the time of my first divorce 15 years ago... but she WILL try to come back for sure if your shit is tight.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 08:28 PM
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I read elsewhere in MRP that if you have to leave then do so as an Alpha and not out of Beta weakness. Some of the newly awakened Betas are getting a bit of courage, but using it to flee, thinking it's Alpha, instead of fighting for the marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 08:46 PM
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excellent read... the 5 C's
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/15 10:11 PM
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Keeping this short: Shit I need to own: Family finances, more initiation of family activities, taking my girls to the gym, and father/daughter dates Shit I am owning: After reading NMMNG I realize that my communication/behavior style was passive/aggressive. Passive Beta, but when it was all to much very aggressive in emotional expression and pouting behavior. Not being a drunk Captain and modifying my leadership persona and verbal communication, I am owing. Fewer just bitchy rants and more even …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 07:47 PM
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If you go to the gym, then go with a plan. Don't be the deer in the headlights guy with half-assed New Years resolutions that is clueless and walking around. Hire a trainer to show you how to use the weights and machines, if you don't know how to lift with good form.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 02:31 PM
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"the holistic cure, is exactly what even femosphere authors are tacitly advocating." Not sure what this means? Femosphere authors are advocating Red Pill and/or dread tactics to be used by men? Anyway, despite my ignorance, another great blog entry.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 11:33 PM
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Will this result in an influx of the fat cat guys moving to NY? This is a great way for NY to raise income tax revenue from all of their new citizens!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/15 05:26 PM
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Is she trying to drive you away or trying to make you be the one to file for divorce? If you wait for her to file, but she does go out with other guys using her own money where does that leave you?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/15 11:07 AM
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Hey now...! "let me sit in this chair while my house is a disaster, my kids go unattended and under engaged" This sounds like my household and SO!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/15 10:45 AM
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Thank for this!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/15 03:23 PM
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Wow... this sounds like my wife! We both have advanced degrees, but she makes about 2X my income. After reading RP material, this topic has been on my mind, especially as they would say on Married RP that I have been a drunk captain.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 12:51 AM
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Wisdom comes with age and experience. I am glad there are some grey beards here. Inexperienced guys just blindly repeating slogans or dogma is not helpful. I like the RP stuff, but the MRP is my Reddit home, because we are the braves one running the gamut of Marriage 2.0.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/15 07:32 PM
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It's easy to separate some of the shine from the shit just from the sidebar material and other postings. Time for captains of this ship to repel boarders!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 08:00 PM
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Ah yes... for the captain to carry on like a bitch is poor leadership. You're still the prof.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 07:54 PM
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So the take home message is don't lose frame or if you do lose it do it purposefully for a high level dread event and not for some spontaneous unplanned event? Still learning here.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 12:35 PM
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Yeah, what's up with that? Are women and maginas posting here too?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 12:29 PM
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Dude... I haven't read enough side-bar material yet, the separation card was already played on me. Keep posting for insights to us all. I'll have to write my post later
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 01:50 PM
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That post on the grief period was really helpful to me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 06:29 PM
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"When we next, we do it out of Alpha Strength, not out of Beta Weakness" Thanks for this wisdom, you just saved my marriage!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/15 01:43 PM
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Exactly... after taking the red-pill it's so painfully obvious to even the newly pilled that CB a game-less Omega chump
/r/MGTOW09/11/15 01:37 AM
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New to MRP, still got to read the side-bar, but this is interesting seeing the responses to the statement made by the OP's girls (i.e. if she makes a mistake in our relationship that I wont' forgive her). This is a common theme on exercise sites, which have nothing to do with relationships, that a spouse will get insecure about when the guy gets jacked/ripped. People are resistant to changing their pigeon-holed impressions of people and also project their insecurities.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 10:40 AM
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