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Why are you making a personal attack? Why does me calling people out for saying nasty stuff trigger you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:06 PM
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Exactly. So stop whining about empathy for short men. Not being able to get a date is nothing compared to ending up a single mom. Neglect begets neglect. Men can’t stand single moms, who are going through a much worse experience than short guys. Therefore, women should not feel sorry for short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:05 PM
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You can choose to not date single moms without degrading and blaming them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:04 PM
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Women don’t do that shit in alarming numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:19 AM
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No it does work. Men as whole don’t have sympathy for abuse victims or single moms. Which is objectively much worse and evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:09 AM
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I don’t see anything about single moms there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:09 AM
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I didn’t say men. I said MEN HERE. MEN OF PURPLE PILL DEBATE. MEN WHO FREQUENT THIS FORUM.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:34 AM
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So then you believe that the fathers role is useless because if a man is biologically inclined to have sex with many women, the average man cannot provide for nor spend time with the many children he can potentially create. This also means women should be polyandrous to provide for their kids and themselves. Think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:32 AM
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Getting ghosted is not the same thing as having your life blown out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:19 AM
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You have been consistently replying to everyone else the last 6 days. It isn’t as if you didn’t stop posting for 6 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:18 AM
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Also why have empathy for short guys when men say “you like it so you deserve it” when women experience abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:10 AM
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Good point! Women should continue to talk negatively about short guys because men say much more extreme and degrading things about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:10 AM
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So you are basically saying misandry. That you believe that men are unable to control themselves and are biologically inclined to be degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:09 AM
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So you don’t see anything wrong with saying “you reward your abusers for abusing you because you spread your legs for them. It’s your fault for not being a better judge of character and for being abused”. Very interesting. So please tell me why I am supposed to feel sorry for men who say that they can’t get a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:08 AM
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Ok well you broke them. I wonder why it took you 6 days to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:07 AM
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<image> Literally this is how they talk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:37 PM
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Since it appears this way to men it appears that me that men who are ghosted don’t really deserve any empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:18 PM
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So there. You don’t need to chime in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:07 PM
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Blaming abuse victims by claiming they enjoy abuse and aggression is hate and it’s disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:30 PM
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Neglect begets neglect. Men put down women who go through worse. Why feel sorry for those who are ghosted?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:30 PM
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Nope. It’s because you degrade women who went through much worse on your comment history.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:31 PM
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And you are dodging accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:25 PM
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Nobody is triggered, honey. You are in a post about what the worst thing that happened to you was. Considering that you describe the ghosting as “ghost me hard” and you sarcastically say “I think they’ll be perfect for each other”, you seem to be hurt. I’m merely pointing out that your pain is not much compared to the cruelty that you also participate in. Ghosting is not as bad as telling women they enjoy abuse and therefore deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:25 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/g63i1kszmb7f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e51b0a393d357ab195801d8fd8d87f2a353b5878 Here this guy is blaming women who are abuse victims for liking abuse. Remind me why we are supposed to feel sorry about ghosting?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:08 PM
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When you have this energy towards abuse victims, can you explain why we are supposed to feel sorry for men who go through something significantly less serious, like ghosting?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:32 PM
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Sounds like you’re dodging accountability after falsely accusing me of not wanting to spend 1 minute listening to Pearl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:22 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/wz0u7x5beb7f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=622eaa981a7cc08dbf299e960a54c1bb8d055a80 Here you are claiming I don’t want to spend even 1 minute listening to opinions I don’t like. I spent multiple minutes, much more than 1 minute, reading and quoting what Pearl said, as you advised. You not only dismiss what I said, but repeatedly try to end the conversation with a last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:20 PM
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I literally quoted her MULTIPLE TIMES after you claimed that I refuse to even spend 1 minute listening to a view I don’t like. You don’t like accountability. I listed many of her opinions that she voices and that she supports. I clearly spent more than 1 minute on opinions I don’t like. When I call them out and directly quote them with receipts, you immediately dismiss them. It seems to me that you are the one who doesn’t want to spend 1 minute on an opinion that you don’t like. Hence you immedi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:18 PM
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<image> Once again, I am proven correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:10 PM
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<image> And as I suspected, I was correct Blaming women for liking abuse. Then you have the audacity to expect sympathy about something dramatically less serious like ghosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:07 PM
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ANY TIME A WOMAN EXPERIENCES ABUSE, BECOMING A SINGLE MOM, ETC ETC. MEN DEGRADE THE FUCK OUT OF HER. They tell her that she chose to open her legs for a bad man. That she finds abusers hot. They she can just go on tinder and find a new man instantly. That she’s ran through damaged used goods who is ruined by Chad. They humiliate her. Then men expect us to coddle them and feel sorry for them over something insignificant like ghosting. Neglect begets neglect. Men hurt and degrade women over seriou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:05 PM
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No. The men here demolish, humiliate, and insult women over experiences like single motherhood and abuse. But then they expect to be coddled over being ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:57 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/jf5b9n9o9b7f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=432d779e62e1ca128474bd69834b19d58982b23a Here she is with Chad rage How is this supposed to open me to compassion for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:53 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/bt4xfpfa9b7f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8c3d936f439ccd15d9565cab3737dc205de0ad3f More of Pearl. This is what you support. She doesn’t believe men should marry non virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:51 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/siy4fs2y8b7f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=29bc3b89456b5337ad47214cb95ef9584f0b6e29 Here she is claiming women don’t like their friends, themselves, or men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:49 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/2o0g1w0u8b7f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6d85755a722ae5a292ce4fa0b6f5c538c2fac3ee Here she is curing men’s mental health problems
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:48 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/6of8cg0y4b7f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9eb05c6e7f872a36f0daf51ee93add5f38c113e4 Here she is blaming single moms for spreading their legs and using them as a to for extracting resources This is what you advocate for and support.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:30 PM
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So you were trying to be snarky and sarcastic. Got it. I listen to 1 minute clips of Pearl on her Twitter account. She believes women who aren’t virgins are ran through and make worthless wives yet she also mocks women who are virgins after a certain age by saying they are asexual or have problems. She also repeatedly says she’s against women’s right to vote. She also believes that women expire after like 25 and are worthless after a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:21 PM
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Stop trying to use euphemisms to dodge accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:34 PM
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Also men are hypergamous by nature. They want someone younger and more beautiful and slimmer than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:12 PM
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There you go. Even you don’t think it’s misogyny. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/misogyny It is a prejudice against women, which is misogyny. By definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:11 PM
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lol I go through their post histories. First of all, men here have a skewed definition of misogyny. Men here don’t think writing a big paragraph about how superficial and hypergamous is misogyny. But it is. Second of all, even if a handful of men are lonely gentle spirits (on PPD) a lot are awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:53 PM
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Was she a cold approach
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:57 AM
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What are the details?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:55 AM
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This is not that bad compared to becoming a single mom or experiencing abuse and having men tell you that you should have picked better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:54 AM
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so they weren’t even close friends and he was a new guy and you’re acting like this is the end times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:53 AM
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Either block her or start talking to her again
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:52 AM
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I thought Redditor men said that when men hit their 30’s they become Chad lites and can sleep around with women instead of becoming more humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:51 AM
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It sounds to me like you don’t find the women who like “can I kiss you” to be feminine or attractive and you’re trying to project that onto all women or onto feminists. Very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:20 PM
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I didn’t contradict myself. I said if a woman really likes you it will go up. If she didn’t like you, only then it will go down. But if she likes you, she will appreciate you. If she doesn’t like you, then there is no way to build the attraction up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:58 PM
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It isn’t binary but also if a woman drops attraction because you said “can I kiss you?” Then she doesn’t like you that much to begin with. If she did, she would have a higher attraction after that question. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:26 PM
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Can you explain what you meant by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:22 PM
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'Can I kiss you?' Thanks for proving my point. That's exactly the attraction-killing advice feminists push that creates incels. IF SOMEONE LOSES ATTRACTION TO YOU BECAUSE YOU SAID ‘CAN I KISS YOU?’ THEN THEY DIDNT LIKE YOU THAT MUCH TO BEGIN WITH
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:14 PM
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And you keep writing an essay about how you don’t understand social cues and chose to use Twitter posts about feminism for guidance on dating instead of taking accountability. And you can say “can I kiss you?” That is explicitly asking for consent and still making a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:14 PM
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Ad hominem personal attacks. You didn’t escalate because you didn’t want to. Also, there’s a difference between “escalate sexually” and “ask her out on a date”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:02 PM
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I am not a feminist. Stop with the ad hominem personal attacks. You chose to follow whatever you were reading online and use that as an excuse to not talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 06:56 PM
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Once again, it sounds like you want to blame your troubles with socializing onto “feminists” rather than working on it for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 05:46 PM
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Not really. You are trying to make excuses to avoid accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 05:39 PM
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And you are trying to do stage control and deflect accountability. You seem to confound cold approaching random strangers with getting to know someone over time and are experiencing anger over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 05:31 PM
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Judd because they can’t approach women doesn’t mean that they don’t envy abusers and wish that they could be one. Usually they view abusers as strong chads
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 03:11 PM
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Lmfao yes they are. They desperately wish they could be abusers but resent that they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 02:56 PM
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Zero accountability. Blaming the boogeyman of “feminists” for their hatred and poor treatment of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 02:47 PM
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I am not going to listen to 3-4 hours of a non virgin woman calling non virgin women ran through.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 02:46 PM
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Women work and pay taxes too. Even in the 1950’s they did
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 02:45 PM
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So now you agree that it’s abuse but believe it’s justified because feminists may do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 02:43 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/udehzvaso37f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e0d76940e69a3564dc96132d19191b1c7e2580d1 So then don’t claim these men are victims who maintain and provide for society. They aren’t. They are bad people who simply do not cheat due to a lack of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 02:23 PM
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Then by your logic, beta men aren’t victims, just men who didn’t have the option to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 02:06 PM
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Don’t change the topic to “feminists”. I am focusing on what you said. You claimed that everyone knows what abuse is. However, you don’t seem to be aware that you engage in verbal abuse yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 02:03 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/xcc66ph9j37f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0122ee2631fd21ad597e35b42fa061eef3ad5592 Also since you believe that men will cheat when given a chance, and therefore that a lack of options is the only thing stopping men from cheating, it doesn’t seem that the “beta” men are exactly victims or wholesome people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:53 PM
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And what a disgusting view of women and men. You believe men are degenerates incapable of loyalty and that women are obsessed with divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:50 PM
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<image> She is very vocal about not wanting women to vote. Friendly reminder that this is what you call a reality check. She also puts down women who are virgins above a certain age whilst also saying women who aren’t virgins are worthless. Funny how now she’s “bait” to you after you insisted that she’s a beacon of truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:49 PM
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So you agree that it’s verbal abuse. You engage in: Accusations Blame Gaslighting Condescension Degradation Criticism
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:47 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/jx1y3a8rh37f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e8dd0f05edf2d4d9e6a4d5b0a861c614db1e54c6 Friendly reminder that this is what you call a “reality check”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:44 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/au63s5gnh37f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=68a56d3a49cbc288fbe2b57544563bee80598986 Friendly reminder that this is what you advocate for and call a “reality check”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:43 PM
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<image> Friendly reminder that you don’t believe that women should have the right to vote. You told me she is a reality check right here. There you go. You don’t believe women should have the right to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:35 PM
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She doesn’t believe women should have the right to vote. https://preview.redd.it/02ehlef2f37f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=905fb6f2eb3b2e8828c9a624174978135af68978 Here she is saying women expire after 30 because 18-19 year old hookers are more expensive. She’s almost 29 and still unmarried. She’s made like 10 posts asking if women’s bodies are natural or not She believes that women have had sex by 16-20 years old and she claims that Charlie Kirk’s wife was sleeping with a bunch of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:32 PM
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First of all, you don’t have to be feminist to call out misogyny. It’s delusional to think that conservative women enjoy men who bash women. Second of all, these bitter men aren’t simply saying “I am bitter that the misogynist guy can ask out women even though I am too scared”. Nope. They say things like “women prefer bad boys to good men! Women like bad men and don’t like good men!” This is hateful because it portrays women as liking mistreatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:28 PM
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MEN CALL HER UNATTRACTIVE AND MASCULINE AND UGLY
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:12 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/jasv7yyeky6f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=303655e0351e172ac3847c3961d4989849668506 https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/what-is-verbal-abuse Condescension Criticism Degradation Blame Accusations Gaslighting Threats (no good man will want you!!!)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:12 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/daohzidfjy6f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5968f25c9895b85872f790fa44467ba7ffa39b0b https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/what-is-verbal-abuse Condescension, blame, and accusations against women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:06 PM
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Yes…..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:58 PM
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My friend. https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/what-is-verbal-abuse Condescension and blame are forms of verbal abuse towards women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:25 PM
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My friend. There is verbal abuse towards women in your profile. Do you realize it? Would you like me to point it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:22 PM
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I don’t just mean cursing my friend. https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/what-is-verbal-abuse I mean condescension, criticism, manipulation, blame, accusations, gaslighting, and circular arguments. This is how men speak daily here and yet they get mad when I say it’s verbal abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:20 PM
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I know Pearl Davis and for all the stuff she says she still is unmarried and men still regularly shit on her and say she’s too masculine and undesirable (aka ugly) and her ex was a guy who was famous for being angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:17 PM
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The average woman is 39 and 174 lbs and 5’4” <image> This is how ChatGPT depicted her I guarantee you that most women are not attractive enough for most men. Self proclaimed “average” guys don’t want this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:42 PM
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What a messed up and disgusting view of women. This is hate of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:39 PM
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Most women are not hiring strippers and for male escorts, their customer base is going to mostly consist of men. That said, I don’t think it’s right for women to hire escorts or strippers either. But it does happen with dramatically less frequency than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:14 PM
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Why do you depend solely on online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:00 PM
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Abuse is not just physical. It’s also verbal. And many of the men here are verbally abusive. When I call it out, they accuse me of being dramatic. Not everyone knows what abuse is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:51 PM
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A huge number of men here in PPD are verbally abusive, yet when I call this out, they mock me and say I am being over dramatic. So no. People do not know what abuse is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:50 PM
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Why would I want the father of my kids to talk online about how women expire at 30 and have to compete with younger women and are undesirable? I sure as hell wouldn’t want to have a daughter and for him to pressure and coerce her into jumping into a shitty marriage because “you’re getting old! Tick tock! No one is going to want you anymore!”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:49 PM
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<image> This is literally the front page at this moment. They hate women. “She’ll just walk away” “women use male hookers regularly at bachelorette parties”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:43 PM
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Love without sacrifice and hard work is mere emotional fondness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:08 AM
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No. Saying women will call you a weak beta bitch boy gentleman for asking “would you like to” is hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:07 AM
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As bad as the US economy is it still isn’t that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:07 AM
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<image> Please take your own advice ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:24 PM
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<image> This comment also applies to this ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:23 PM
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<image> I think you need to re read your own advice ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:23 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/5c9g7o213s6f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9d5b9a829cffe1fc5e628838a8e0bd4e7d206abb Tbh this is just hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:22 PM
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You literally described those women as “serfs” and the men as “simps”. It sounds like you want a “queen” and resent that exceptionally hot women have higher standards than average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:21 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/6wvwlftx1s6f1.png?width=1314&format=png&auto=webp&s=eec6a39d68500905333190aa0c66e21ecc2381db Post history checks out. Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:16 PM
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So you agree that there is a massive number of middle class women and men who date each other, but apparently these women are worthless because they are “serfs” and not “queens”. You also are caught up on a song from 2019 that fell out of popularity. And you made ad homenim personal attacks. Poverty ruins a child’s life. So not produce children in poverty. Middle class is the way to go. And up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:14 PM
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They call me verbatim a misandrist. Stop dismissing my lived experience. Examples of what men say about men is: Men believe women expire after 25, 30, or 35 (the age varies by man) Men get bored of sex with their mid wives (from the red beard passport bros influencer) Men are polygynous by nature and want to produce as many children as possible with as many women as possible. Men are not naturally monogamous nor loyal. Some men even feel that monogamy is abuse If a woman is a homemaker and her h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:12 PM
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🤦‍♀️ This is hate for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:07 PM
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Men here call me repeating what men say about men “misandrist” even though I literally repeat what men say about men. Meanwhile, they go on huge rants about how women are superficial and hypergamous bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 08:50 PM
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And you’re saying that saying to a woman “I’ll pick you up at 8 for pizza” is somehow sexist and diminutive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 08:41 PM
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Notice how you don’t deny what I said? It’s hate. Frustration and hate can coexist. They don’t exclude each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 08:40 PM
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No. It’s honesty and accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 08:39 PM
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The common theme here is that women are vapid, superficial, and cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:13 PM
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“Do you want to get pizza on Friday night at eight? I’ll pick you up if you are comfortable with that” is like 1/10 success rate. 90% You get stood up or ghosted. “Let’s hang out Friday. I’ll pick you up at 8 give me your address” is like 8/10 80% you actually get the date. Where exactly is this, and how is the first time treating her less equally? You aren’t asking about her preferences. One is a question, and the other is a set up date. As I’ve said paying for dates is an entitlement and expec…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:13 PM
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However trash is often heavy and it’s kind for the man, who is stronger, to take it out. Please tell me a detailed rendition of when you tried treating women like equals and it didn’t work out. Did you refuse to take out the trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:12 PM
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It isn’t your wealth if you earned it while married. It is shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:09 PM
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https://legal-info.lawyers.com/family-law/divorce/can-my-spouse-give-or-loan-marital-assets-to-family-or-friends-before-filing-for-divorce.html There's a concept in divorce law known as "dissipation of assets." In a nutshell, it means that one spouse has intentionally wasted or mishandled marital property, including transferring marital property to a third party, without the other spouse's agreement or consent. If it occurs, it can impact the outcome of a divorce. State laws vary as to what acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:08 PM
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Why are you marrying someone who isn’t working if you resent splitting assets with her? Early on say “I don’t want to support a housewife”. If later she insists on becoming one, have a set period of time before you divorce. It’s that simple. And if she wasn’t a housewife before and suddenly decided to be one then everything split would be stuff you earned and paid for together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:58 PM
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You have a post history my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:55 PM
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If you earn money while together then it’s shared. Take accountability. If you don’t want to share money that you earned while together, marry someone who has their own income and makes roughly what you make and arrange to split homemaking and finances evenly and constantly label who owns what so that in the event of a divorce you can quickly split everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:52 PM
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It isn’t your money. You earned it while you were together. You shared the money. If you don’t want to share the money, look for a woman who earns roughly what you earn and set up a 50/50 dynamic in both finances and housework and childcare and elder care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:50 PM
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This is what they don’t say out loud. They don’t want to share their assets in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:49 PM
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If you’re married, the money earned while you are together is shared. If this upsets you, then insist that she doesn’t become a homemaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:48 PM
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Sounds like you don’t think western women are family oriented. That is bashing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:46 PM
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You may not but it’s a pervasive narrative. I certainly think gender roles are stupid. I agree that women typically appreciate and require misogyny; I do not think that is natural or some virtue. Your definition of misogyny includes that women are “weak”. But women are weaker than men. Why do you consider it misogynistic to acknowledge that? Claiming loudly that women are weak and stupid is obviously not going to get you anywhere with ladies. However treating them as if they are weak and stupid …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:45 PM
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Interesting because I don’t claim gender roles are out dated so is not sure what the “gotcha” is. I think men have spectacularly failed at their gender role which is why women are breaking free and being independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:46 PM
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There are a great number of people and professions that do do very similar work, and even much more difficult and thankless work. I don't see you saying anything about them. Because they aren’t being sexually abused for money the way prostitutes are. There's something I notice here in the subreddit. A lot of people here have a lot of shame around sex. I'm not sure where they inherit that from. But I don't share it. And the people who do sex work don't share it either. You would be wise to listen…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:45 PM
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Don’t make things personal ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:44 PM
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Do you not understand that there is a spectrum of incomes and net worths between “broke” and “rich”? The fact that you refuse to acknowledge that “middle class” exists speaks volumes. Being broke is dangerous for a family. Being homeless and dealing with poverty is dangerous. But being middle class is not rich, but it’s also not broke. Most women just want middle class or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:43 PM
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Gross exaggeration and false claim. You weren’t breathing. You were claiming women want rich western men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:31 AM
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And I am called a misandrist for repeating what men say about men. You can also type the word shit here. It isn’t censored btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:59 AM
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You are being hateful to western women. You are pitting two groups of women against each other based on messed up prejudices and stereotypes and outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:58 AM
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Sounds misogynistic to me. Claiming women just want rich men. It’s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:57 AM
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You support them. You even say “quite a few” because you want to avoid saying “all”. If you believe that the passport bro movement is gender neutral and is about the generation, then you would say something like “women should also become passport sisters”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:47 AM
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Instead of saying women like to have an evil side you should have said “People like to have an evil side” But you didn’t. You believe women are evil but not men. It’s the “men are wonderful effect”. You even try to rationalize it. You argue that men don’t like wild women so therefore they are less evil. Baloney. Men are more into danger and are more violent. They are more evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:46 AM
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Well there you go. You whine about FDS then support a movement of men who loathe western women and say worse. This is called hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:44 AM
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Men are meaner Men do worse Men hate women at a greater magnitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:43 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJ0aXxto9H9/ Meanwhile men envy P Diddy and consider him a winner
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:43 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/DJ4k8POOTMb/ Meanwhile Posts like this explode
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:41 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKTafRCtnmK/ Man saying what I say about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:40 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKvyqipC2zl/ meanwhile the passport bro movement is exploding and men whine about how evil and ugly western women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:37 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKzVdS-uOmW/ Meanwhile this guy has an entire career making fun of single moms and sells t shirts and has two viral songs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:35 AM
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<image> No you very clearly said women have an evil side and enjoy men who let them be evil. Then you said “nuh uh I meant this about people not women”. Make your comment gender neutral then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:32 AM
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There literally is a search bar. It takes like 1 minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:30 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:29 AM
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My point is that men enjoy calling men who do anything for a woman simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:24 AM
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Government mental health program. In my state there is no women’s mental health unless it’s some local government agency project. It’s for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:22 AM
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There you go. You resent that women have “all these privileges”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:21 AM
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So then don’t whine when women “voice criticisms”‘of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:19 AM
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If that is the case why aren’t the women here walking around getting horny by the men here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:10 AM
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Working long hours to provide for your wife even if you are tired = love Taking care of your husband and kids even though you are tired = love Sticking with your wife even if she is fat and old = love Taking care
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:09 AM
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What is the gotcha here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:52 AM
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Just because they don’t talk about it doesn’t mean they don’t believe it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:52 AM
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No you’re justifying it by saying women do it. Men do it more. Meaner Harsher And with greater magnitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:51 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/cy0893oezl6f1.jpeg?width=1319&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4324e62ef18e3a8bd4531c25e7f060b0003d7af8 Key words: Same Caliber Of Women You believe women are lower quality now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:51 AM
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Men tell us. They literally tell us on here and in their spaces that there are women who they only find attractive enough for sex and dating but not marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:33 AM
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Love is a choice and a duty, not a feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:25 AM
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Would you like me to link you to where the guy says women are specifically attracted to meaner and more misogynistic men and the various men agreeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:25 AM
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<image> This is both expressing frustration and hate of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:24 AM
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Men call stepfathers simps just for existing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:22 AM
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It is autistic af to call socializing with women a pillar of the red pill and to analyze it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:22 AM
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Translation: I don’t want to pay for dates
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:21 AM
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They get approached but not all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:21 AM
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It literally is for both genders and mostly men use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:20 AM
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That’s because those men don’t see them as attractive enough to stay with long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:19 AM
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<image> Frustrated or not, this is true misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:18 AM
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No I am saying that women gave the men a chance. Men didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:17 AM
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So you ar saying its revenge
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:16 AM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/GXZrH2lvEN Again right swiped mean nothing from men. Here is a man admonishing women for swiping right too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:50 PM
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Except for men consistently want an above average woman and women just want their looksmatch. A 50 percentile woman wants a 50 percentile man. The 50 percentile man wants a 70 percentile woman though. Look at the response rates as women become less attractive and message their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:50 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/RcSPSHj40a And right swipes do not equate attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:47 PM
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In that exact same OKCupid study the bottom percent of men didn’t answer the bottom percent of women as frequently as the other way around. 66% of male messages went to the top 33% of females https://archive.is/ZJymw#selection-305.0-683.306
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:46 PM
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That is an extremely hateful thing to say. https://www.britannica.com/topic/misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:45 PM
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It is wrong and it’s hateful. You claim an entire gender is superficial and stupid. Meanwhile, what percent of women ages 18-85 have a BMI below 30, are between ages 18-25, and childless and single? I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:41 PM
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You literally say prostitutes need to do it as a “public service” and if they don’t then they are part of the selfish, hedonistic masses. Which is ironic because using a prostitute is selfish and hedonistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:37 PM
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Ok but most men don’t agree with you so stop claiming it isn’t common male belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:31 PM
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So your claim that men don’t get “free shit” but women do is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:31 PM
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Yes but I didn’t say you were autistic. I said the red pill is. It’s autistic to have a conversation with a woman and call it “game pillar”. https://neurolaunch.com/conversation-skills-autism/ Autistic people struggle with socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:30 PM
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I have only ever wanted men who put me on a pedestal. I cannot be attracted to a man who doesn’t put me on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:18 PM
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You should have made it gender neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:17 PM
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Claiming that women find most men unattractive and therefore invisible and have inflated standards for what is attractive is hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:17 PM
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So then men need to stop complaining that women like misogyny and instead talk about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:33 PM
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The man vs bear question was just a criticism of men, not misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:29 PM
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Why do I get called misandrist when I voice criticism of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:29 PM
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Do you not understand that men depend on the government too? Most homeless housing is for men and is paid for by the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:28 PM
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I don’t run with that story. Men believe women are attracted to misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:34 PM
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Tbh this sounds very autistic and I say that as someone who most likely is autistic myself. It sounds like extreme over thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:34 PM
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Except for you didn’t say “people”. You said “women”. And saying to lock your doors is not the same thing as saying “women enjoy bullying and being evil”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:57 PM
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I don’t know about every state. But in my state there is free and low cost mental health available from the government that men can access
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:56 PM
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Bro welfare is extreme poverty. People do not live comfortably in nice neighborhoods on welfare. Furthermore, men can get welfare too. Have you been to section 8 housing? Seen neighborhoods where most people are dependent on the government? They are hell. They are nightmares. A lucky few may get section 8 in the upper middle class community after competing in a lottery with a 1:5000 chance of winning. But most people do not get that at all. DEI wasn’t special treatment. It was to create equity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:50 PM
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Digging? I literally looked for a second. And it was misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:09 PM
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I repeat what the men here say about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:08 PM
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What social goods are men denied access to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:08 PM
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Talking to women is not “red pill”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:07 PM
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Bro it is extremely misogynistic to claim women’s ideal partner is a man who encourages and supports her in being evil and a bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:07 PM
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Women aren’t obligated to have sex with the disabled to make them feel better. Food, water, shelter, healthcare, and basic safety are human rights. Sex is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:04 PM
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Only attractive women get free shit. The rest are invisible to you, hence why you think it’s the norm for women to get free stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:03 PM
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<image> Here you go. I say the opposite. Most women are invisible to most men and most men think the average woman is an attractive 21 year old. This is because their perception is skewed. Whenever I say this, I get accused of misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:01 PM
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Multiple men were also defending the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:58 PM
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Cold approaching random women at the grocery store is not the only way you can approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:57 PM
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“The uniquely handsome guy will get approached therefore women are evil”. The “Chad” may occasionally get approached but he will not have the success he would have if he does the approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:56 PM
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Keeping your opinions private in real life doesn’t mean you don’t hold that opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:55 PM
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One can be unattractive and neurodivergent at the same time as being a misogynist. The two don’t negate each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:53 PM
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The red pill subreddit has a guide on manipulating a girlfriend into getting an abortion. It is very toxic manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:52 PM
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He claims to punish fat women by using them for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:50 PM
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When I say this is incel speak, the men here get deeply offended and say that the incel community is just misunderstood lonely men, and that I should call it misogyny. When I call it misogyny, men accuse me of being dramatic. He said women have an inferiority complex about not being men. That is misogyny through and through.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:49 PM
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So you agree that it’s misogyny but you’ve moved the goalposts because it’s from a year ago. It’s misogyny. And no, I don’t. You literally claim women have an inferiority complex about not being men. Misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:48 PM
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Because the men here do say the meanest things about women! And then they claim women like misogyny! But then they all claim to be lonely victims of “female behavior”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:46 PM
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Most of the men here are misogynists so why do they struggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:45 PM
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But the study also cites sex seeking behavior meaning that the guy who seeks sex more will get sex more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:44 PM
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You’re neglecting to point out: A) you seem to think men are victims because women may feel unsafe around men B) you claim women have an inferiority complex C) you say that women say dumb things then dismiss men as saying “you’re missing the point”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:44 AM
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<image> Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:42 AM
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Sounds like you cared enough to comment, which completely negates your claim that you don’t care. You just are sour grapes that I held you accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:27 AM
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You talk shit about women. You repeatedly talk about how you use fat women for casual sex because how dare they have the audacity to swipe left on you on Facebook dating when fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:26 AM
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<image> There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:25 AM
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Ok but that isn’t a virtue nor does it mean women are superficial bitches because they don’t prefer a guy who is disinterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:20 AM
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Then don’t comment if you don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:20 AM
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You proclaiming victory doesn’t make you a victor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:19 AM
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🤦‍♀️ so you believe that misogyny is a trait that is attractive to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:19 AM
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This is misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:48 AM
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You do realize that these are different people, right? And the guy wasn’t saying “misogyny doesn’t make a difference”. He was claiming women prefer misogynistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:47 AM
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Calling me “little man”’is a personal attack. Furthermore, it doesn’t. I explained that this is about averages and yet you want to insist that women are just out of shape and not exercising.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:46 AM
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My friend you complain about women a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:46 AM
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So don’t claim it’s somehow due to a lack of virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:45 AM
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Lmfao they are misogynists. Even you claim that women get free shit for complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:45 AM
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Bro do you want me to go through your post history and find many examples of misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:44 AM
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So you https://preview.redd.it/uxh6eg70ff6f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=279287b51121f2642119f4aeb59e699a8fbac228 It is relevant. It is why women work out less on average. You refuse to address it because you know the answer makes men look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:46 AM
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The moment you answer my original question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:57 AM
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Ding ding what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:56 AM
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Because it comes off as disinterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:34 AM
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So why do men here claim women are attracted to misogyny and that they only become irresistible to women once they hate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:34 AM
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So they would like attractive tall gentlemen even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:11 AM
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A lot of the guys here are and the red pill is inherently misogynistic in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:10 AM
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The neurotic and passive man DOESNT APPROACH. He doesn’t get women because he doesn’t make any moves. Not because women don’t find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:07 AM
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Why not? A happy marriage requires love and sacrifice. Feelings don’t change diapers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:06 AM
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you literally made a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:06 AM
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Yes an attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:34 AM
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Ah so you made a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:17 AM
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Sounds like you’re rationalizing violent video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:09 AM
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You said I care a lot because I put in a lot of effort. That isn’t some secret shameful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:08 AM
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“They can’t possibly be treating you THAT well”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:07 AM
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What a strange answer. There is nothing wrong with caring about someone who also cares about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:03 PM
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Bro I am fat and ugly and I never have a shortage of men who want to treat me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:03 PM
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Well duh if you just met he will still put in more effort if he has “raw animal attraction” vs if he finds you mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:02 PM
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I see what is being said honey. The man who puts in less effort cares less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:56 PM
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Many men are lining up to give princess treatment. Oh? Why should men get upset about it? So you admit that men only care about one sidedness when it comes to sex and romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:27 PM
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Yes. A man who puts more effort to please his wife/ girlfriend is a better boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:26 PM
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Nothing here is dishonest. Men want us to pick good men, then get mad when we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:25 PM
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Once again, you are just saying completely unrelated stuff. The unattractive man may still be a misogynist. Furthermore, the unattractive man just has to approach more women to find the women who want to sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:10 PM
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What a bizarre answer. Why are you expecting women to fall from the sky just passively sitting around and doing nothing? Why does asking women out put you on the defensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:43 PM
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A man with lots of partners is a degenerate. OP’s post proves that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:40 PM
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Approaching and asking out women. 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:39 PM
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That is a completely different topic than not dating someone who didn’t approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:35 PM
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Men enthusiastically lined up to see Bonnie Blue. For free. A man would not easily find 1000 women to stand in line to sleep with him for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:23 PM
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People with disabilities can have sex with people who want to have sex with them. It isn’t ableist to say they should see prostitutes. What is ableist is to say nobody would want to have sex with disabled people. And most prostitutes do not have a clientele consisting solely of disabled people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:22 PM
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Mam Just because they have sex doesn’t mean they are the pinnacle of ethics or winning at life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:20 PM
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Respectfully because you know there isn’t a good argument
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:20 PM
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This is delusional and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:17 PM
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If he is happy then why does it matter? Women tend to be one sided with housework and childcare. We don’t see men getting upset and seeking equity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:17 PM
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Ignoring someone who has not communicating with you is not treating them like losers and wankers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:16 PM
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They aren’t superior. They just are pursuing. Literally that’s it. If you want to have sex, seek dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:10 PM
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I agree too. Especially for men because women can easily find many willing partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:09 PM
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The women are being sexually exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:47 PM
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I didn’t say that. OP was lamenting that misogynists who have sexual sensation seeking behaviors can get laid. The guy who is sexual sensation seeking is going to seek that sensation. If you seek eventually you will find.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:40 PM
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The disabled man who sees a prostitute is not a good man. As is the disabled woman who sees one. The woman who pays for a male or female prostitute is not a good woman. The prostitute is a victim most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:39 PM
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Better than the guy who is resentful that he pays the bill during a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:38 PM
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More effort = better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:37 PM
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But men do. It outrages men for women to want princess treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:34 PM
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It is toxic behavior to be hyper sexual or aggressively sexual or too sexual too early. Just because people can be successful doesn’t mean that it is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:34 PM
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Do you agree women should ask for princess treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:03 PM
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No they don’t. Women are just more likely to date a man who pursues them over a man who has never talked to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:02 PM
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A) most people in this forum claim to be slim and fit B) it isn’t validation. You insisted it wasn’t an attack but the moderators agree that it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:15 PM
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Where did I say it’s better to be a psychopath? The neurotic person who doesn’t talk to anyone will not be as successful as the psychopath who talks to everyone. This isn’t attaching moral worth to these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:42 PM
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Where exactly am I giving a win to anyone? If you pursue, you will succeed at least part of the time. If you don’t, you won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:42 PM
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Because the original post highlights their success. I point out that this isn’t because women like bad men it’s because these men seek sex and pursue women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:41 PM
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Literally it’s a trope on this forum
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:40 PM
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so you’re mad that the guys who pursue get dates and those who don’t don’t. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:40 PM
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This is misogynistic and hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:37 PM
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So why is this some kind of “bad men get rewarded” situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:36 PM
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And the misogynist who isn’t overthinking will not neurotically stress
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:35 PM
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Rape isn’t always grabbing a woman and throwing her behind a bush and then running away. It’s also situations where consent is murky. https://www.britannica.com/topic/rape-crime Like going for someone super drunk. There are also assault and coercion which is even more murky than rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:32 PM
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Misogynist who asks out 100 women = more likely to get a date and sex Nice guy who asks out nobody because he is scared = much less likely to get a date and sex Misogynist who has a girlfriend = may not care about cheating and will pursue and ask out women even in a relationship = more sex partners Nice guy who has a girlfriend = will not pursue and ask out other women = less sex partners
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:30 PM
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If men pursue women, they will get dates. If men don’t pursue women then they won’t. This isn’t some kind of red pill revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:27 PM
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If the non misogynist below average man pursues no women, then he will most likely get no dates. This isn’t some kind of secret revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:27 PM
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But it’s also not a reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:26 PM
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Maybe the praise is the friends I made along the way. I am not praising them lmfao. I am pointing it out. Man asks out a bunch of woman = more likely to get dates and sex. Man talks to no women = unlikely to get dates and sex This isn’t rewards or praise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:24 PM
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Yes good point! They also are cheating which increases their n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:23 PM
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And they pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:21 PM
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So there you go. They pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:21 PM
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All I see are men telling women they don’t deserve to be treated well with princess treatment and that they should settle for guys who treat them like crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:18 PM
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So you agree that the guy who treats her very well and gives her princess treatment is equivalent to winning the lottery and is higher value as a person with better moral qualities and treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:17 PM
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Because literally the guy in this thread asked what the woman offers and that is what I said and you and him both said it isn’t enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:16 PM
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Mental gymnastics and not at all what I said. The guys seem to actively pursue women. When you try, you achieve. Meanwhile the “nice guys” of this forum who claim to not be a misogynist do not pursue women because they are afraid the woman will accuse them of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:14 PM
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So you agree that loving Princess treatment is the same as being a supportive and loving partner. Glad we are on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:13 PM
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What exactly is love and supportive versus princess treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:09 PM
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Did I talk about flashing money or being hot? I am talking about princess treatment. In the original post, the lady gets a spa day and a writing class. This is not flashing money. These are thoughtful gifts. It’s princess treatment. And men aren’t telling the woman who gets princess treatment to pick better men. They are telling women who pick “bad boys”. When a woman picks a nice man who spoils her, it triggers men for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:08 PM
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Sexual sensation seeking levels were high in this group. They seek sex so they are more likely to get it. They aren’t sitting around wringing their hands saying “oooh what if she falsely accuses me of rape because I said hi”. They are pursuing the women. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:06 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/s/le9TAKcuyl This is impoverished dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:02 PM
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So men resent giving princess treatment to a woman who loves and supports them. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:56 PM
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Mods check out. <image> And I explained one factor out of many on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:56 PM
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Being kind and loving and generous are MORAL QUALITIES, not physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:54 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/MjxmwZvlXJ Yes I am
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:54 PM
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What is a middle ground? Why wouldn’t I pick the guy who treats me better?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:53 PM
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A loving and supportive partner would also do loving and supportive things. Like princess treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:53 PM
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So go for a not hot woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:47 PM
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Moving the goalposts I see. I listed what women offer, and you decided to shift the focus to only what OP writes women offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:23 PM
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A loving and supportive partner. Whoops I forgot that isn’t good enough for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:19 PM
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Most men who use OF are predators by nature. It says most of the women who do OF are victims by default. There are always exceptions. Like the bop house girls who love their jobs and become multi millionaires and use their platform to build a career (like Camilla Arraujo who is now also a podcast host who interviews controversial figures). But for every bop house success story there are 10,000 women who make little to no money, have permanently damaged their reputation, and who are stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:15 PM
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Men: pick better men! Stop dating men who treat you poorly!!! Women just want assholes! 😡 Also men: no not like that!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:07 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/gjni3bfecb6f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7066fb752930499ee710b490e753847cb72a694d She didn’t describe “men” as gross. She described men who are gooners or pay for sex workers are gross. The female equivalent is not a prostitute. The female equivalent is a woman who is a gooner or pays for sec workers. And she is gross too. This isn’t an attack on “men”. It’s an attack on predators and gooners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:05 PM
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You changed the topic, and calling me “idiotic” is uncivil. It seems that you want to avoid the answer: Men don’t participate in childcare and cooking at the level that women do. It’s “women’s work”, even if women work full time. Women are tired and overwhelmed and don’t have as much time for the gym as their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:03 PM
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So why do you focus on women who are very hot and not women who are 34 and who may also be unattractive and struggling?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:43 PM
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It’s a simple question. Why can’t you answer it and try to change the topic? How often do men parent their children after a long day at work and do housework and cooking and cleaning so that their wives can go to the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:43 PM
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So you agree that you believe that it’s more virtuous to make fun of fat women. And I implore you to go on any fat woman’s social media and it’s like a sirens call asking men to berate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:42 PM
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It absolutely is. Men are their largest and most dominant market by far. Why do you call prostitutes gross, but not the men who have sex with them? https://preview.redd.it/913ikjra8b6f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=50bf49b840efe3ee82ccae223232dd4a636d29f6
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:41 PM
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<image> I don’t downvote. Stop trying to make personal attacks. Other people have downvoted you. Furthermore, sex work is prostitution. And men who pay prostitutes are not good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:39 PM
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Are you a very hot man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:38 PM
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Are you a very hot man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:38 PM
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But you believe it’s less bad. And there you go. Men bully more and at greater quantities But you believe it’s less bad because they tend to bully fat women who can lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:33 PM
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How often do men agree to parent their crying baby and cook a healthy dinner after a long day of work from 5 pm to 7 pm to allow their wife enough time to drive to the gym, work out, then drive home? 3 days a week? Or will she come home to a house that looks like a tornado went through it and a hungry family?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:27 PM
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At least fat people can exercise/diet and lose their weight. This is what you say. Clearly you believe it’s more justified because they can lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:23 PM
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Do you believe men like violent video games because they enjoy seeing their sexual rivals be eliminated? Or do you just hate women and want to make the disgusting claim that women enjoy watching attractive women suffer from violent crimes and go missing? https://creators.yahoo.com/lifestyle/story/psychologists-explain-why-people-love-true-crime-so-much-025820920.html Yahoo has a bunch of reasons why people, both men and women, like true crime. If you want, I can individually search up each artic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:22 PM
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Hardly. It can be. But it can also be well paid and have excellent working conditions. There are many worse jobs. The minority of lucky prostitutes does not represent the norm. Dating a man who has used prostitutes is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:15 PM
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So you agree that men are meaner but then decide that it’s less bad because they usually make fun of fat women and it’s their fault and they deserve it because they can lose weight. Got it. We agree men are meaner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:14 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ULx0UJyXUz So you agree that right here, you weren’t being genuine. Men who see prostitutes are much grosser than any prostitute. They can just jack off, but they lack the self discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:13 PM
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I separate it from other work because it is one of the most exploitative jobs. Stop trying to encourage women to date men who see sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:14 AM
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So you call her gross and view her as subhuman, then want to have sex with her for money and expect us women to be okay with a partner who does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:04 AM
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Sex work is work but it’s also exploitative work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:04 AM
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So a few exceptions makes it the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:03 AM
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Sex and ejaculation isn’t necessary to survive. Money is in our society because it obtains necessities like food, water, shelter, and transportation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:03 AM
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Why are you trying to change the subject? Different things can be gross at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:02 AM
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Some agree men are meaner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:55 PM
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Men are the ones who take more issue with dating prostitutes than soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:32 PM
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💀 💀 💀 😱 😱 😱 they sound degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:26 PM
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Weird question. Usually women who marry soldiers who have killed view them as doing good. Because they view the enemy as monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:25 PM
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Imagine comparing premarital sex to murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:22 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKpI5foRhQ7/ It’s giving this vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:18 PM
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img Ahem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:07 PM
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It doesn’t matter how fat they are. It doesn’t justify being nasty to them. Calling them diabeto, whales, disgusting, claiming they eat donuts all day, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:39 PM
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I don’t do hookups or FWB. It sounds like you’re dodging the question I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:34 PM
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It isn’t a double standard. The female equivalent of a man who uses prostitutes is a woman who uses prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:34 PM
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Considering the contempt men have for single mothers and step fathers, why does it upset you that women are cautious not to become one?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:12 PM
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Don’t make personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:24 AM
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I don’t put down sex workers. I put down the men who use sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:10 AM
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This is a bizarre way to try to advocate for the men who bully the plus sized park hoppers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:10 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/DKVMC2uxq6N/ Men insult stepfathers like no tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:46 AM
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Plus sized park hoppers social media page is the fountain of proof of male cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:45 AM
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Then sing praises for them. Write a few sentences about how great they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:43 AM
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As I said. And I said it again. Men bully more. Men are meaner. This is due to testosterone. Proof: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DDivKmLTKmX/ His pinned comment is that he wants to “cook shorties” aka humiliate them and put them down And he does And tens of thousands of men like his comments. One lady being sarcastic about height vs tens of thousands of men who find it alpha to “cook” shorties for defending Sephora models.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:39 AM
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SOCIETY VALUES CONSTRUCTION WORKERS MORE THAN THEY VALUE PROSTITUTES
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:37 AM
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First of all, I judge women who use prostitutes too. Second of all, viewing sex as a good or service is unhealthy. Third of all, why aren’t you singing praises for prostitutes about how great they are for humanity the same way you praise construction workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:56 AM
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Why are you asking for special treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:55 AM
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These are the attacks you made: I hate you You are a weasel You are a femcel All these violate the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:41 AM
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Stop acting surprised when you repeatedly violate the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:23 AM
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KHHV is from 4chan. You made like 5 personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:22 AM
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It isn’t an incel term. It’s a term from 4chan that originated before you were born. And that is life. It’s not hopeless to wait until you get older. Things happen on different timelines. I would understand your anxiety if you were over 30 but at 19 it’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:21 AM
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So why point out the sacrifice construction workers make, but not the sacrifice prostitutes make?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:20 AM
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Calling me a weasel also violates the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:19 AM
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Sir you just said that I am a “femcel” because I said it’s normal to not have any sexual experience at 21 then you said I am 19. Having a complex about being sexually inexperienced at a young age is not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:55 AM
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What kind of answer is that? You also admit that it isn’t socially stigmatized. In fact, you admit that construction work is socially respected. Meanwhile, you clearly view the prostitutes as less valuable because they aren’t construction workers. As does society. So construction workers aren’t just not having sex on the job. They are also more respected than prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:54 AM
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Sounds like you don’t like the accountability. It is warped to be having sex with someone and think “this is no different from working in a factory”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:52 AM
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I hate you Personal attacks violate the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:51 AM
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gets offended that I called him young. reacts by making a personal attack by calling me a “femcel” Personal attacks violate the rules. I tried giving you a message of hope (that you’re young) and you chose to retaliate and attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:51 AM
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My Shayla this is what I have been trying to say this whole time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:45 AM
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Most guys would only do that if they were desperate for $20, hence the exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:40 AM
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The equal is that I wouldn’t respect a woman who sees a male prostitute. Plus it’s interesting that you appear to dislike high n count women (as evidenced by the phrase “fucking the whole NBA team”) yet want us to celebrate you paying to fuck them. You don’t seem to respect the exact women you pay for. You seem to understand that something is wrong with them and that they are damaged in some way and yet you want to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:29 AM
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There is no virtue to signal. Would you marry a former prostitute who had 2,000 partners before you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:27 AM
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Yes most are my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:25 AM
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All sex work is exploitative by nature my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:24 AM
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So why do men complain about women having standards that are too high and claim to find most women attractive when they don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:23 AM
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As I explained in my original comment, men who see prostitutes see it as no different from buying something at the store. They have a warped view of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:21 AM
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Construction workers aren’t having sex with their clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:20 AM
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And you will continue to defend using prostitutes as if it’s a normal activity and women should choose to have relationships with the men who pay for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:13 AM
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https://www.unhcr.org/what-we-do/protect-human-rights/tackling-sexual-exploitation-abuse-and-harassment/defining-sexual The United Nations definition of sexual exploitation doesn’t mention lack of agency. Sexual exploitation means any actual or attempted abuse of a position of vulnerability, differential power, or trust, for sexual purposes, including, but not limited to, profiting monetarily, socially, or politically from the sexual exploitation of another. It includes but is not limited to exc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:58 PM
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Even if you try to call me an idiot in a roundabout way, you are calling me an idiot and being uncivil.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:57 PM
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Sexual exploitation means any actual or attempted abuse of a position of vulnerability, differential power, or trust, for sexual purposes, including, but not limited to, profiting monetarily, socially, or politically from the sexual exploitation of another. It includes but is not limited to exchanging money, employment, goods or services for sex. This includes transactional sex regardless of the legal status of sex work in the country. It also includes any situation where sex is coerced or deman…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:36 PM
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Why do you think exploitation involves a lack of agency? It’s a horrible argument. https://www.unhcr.org/what-we-do/protect-human-rights/tackling-sexual-exploitation-abuse-and-harassment/defining-sexual This is from the UNITED NATIONS. Sexual exploitation means any actual or attempted abuse of a position of vulnerability, differential power, or trust, for sexual purposes, including, but not limited to, profiting monetarily, socially, or politically from the sexual exploitation of another. It inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:36 PM
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Worse is that he is a degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:28 PM
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That still is an attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:28 PM
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Most OF creators do not make enough money to live off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:25 PM
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Lack of civility. Violates the rules to compare me to a barking chihuahua. You did nothing but make an attack. You gave no explanation of how it’s a “gotcha”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:19 PM
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It signifies that the guy is a degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:15 PM
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Would you marry a prostitute who has been with 2,000 other men before you? Also you’re 21. That’s extremely young. At 21 I was a KHHV. I didn’t even HUG a guy outside of platonic contexts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:15 PM
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Men demonize sex work because they view sex workers as degenerates. Women demonize sex work because they view the men as exploitative degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:13 PM
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Sex worker = victim John = predator and degenerate It’s that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:12 PM
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“It’s a grand conspiracy”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:12 PM
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Ah yes it’s a grand conspiracy and all the women are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:12 PM
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Would you marry a woman who has been with 2,000 men before you as a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:08 PM
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Where did I say they have no agency? The men are predators and degenerates. Also, would you marry a woman who was a prostitute who has slept with over 2,000 men before you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:02 PM
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Most of them are pretty miserable. And most OF models are also being exploited. This isn’t the “gotcha” that you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:02 PM
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This is such a bizarre answer. It is not unreasonable to say that a guy who compares sex to seeing the dentist or going to an accountant has a warped view of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:01 PM
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I also think the men who view prostitutes should be publicly ridiculed and humiliated as sexual predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:46 PM
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Warped view of sex: Viewing sex as the same thing as construction or factory work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:40 PM
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Would you marry a prostitute who has slept with over 2,000 men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:35 PM
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As I said in my original comment Men who see prostitutes view sex as the same thing as going to the store and buying a shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:35 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_trafficking_in_the_Netherlands Just because it’s legal doesn’t mean they don’t have a trafficking problem in the Netherlands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:33 PM
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And there you go. A warped view of sex. My comment was spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:27 PM
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Those men are sexual predators and sexual abusers. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:27 PM
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Why are you comparing sex with a bunch of people who enthusiastically consent to having sex with someone who doesn’t enthusiastically consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:03 PM
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The sex workers are regular girls/ civies. Them having shit life doesn’t make them less human.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:02 PM
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Why do you compare paying prostitutes to having a high body count? Having a bunch of casual sex implies that the partners consented to be there. Using a prostitute usually means the prostitute wouldn’t be there for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:58 PM
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This is a warped view of sex and sex work. Imagine thinking that clocking in at wal mart or being a construction worker is the same thing as walking around Figueroa street and endangering yourself for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:56 PM
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I am very vocal about not dating men who have used prostitutes. Men tell us we need to leave at the first red flag and mock us if we make a dating mistake that leads to hurt. However, with a red flag as massive and obvious as having used prostitutes, for some reason, this always inspires a number of men to get extremely defensive. Here are some main reasons I don’t date men who use prostitutes: Warped, bitter views of women and dating This is the biggest reason. A guy DM’ed me to try to change m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:55 PM
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A lot of men here blame feminism for their inability to provide for a woman who needs him for survival and resent that women may be more picky as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:25 AM
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Ranting about how superficial women are isn’t ever polite in tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:24 AM
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Spot on. This is a PPD man in the wild. I know agreeing with people gets me labeled as “circlejerking” here so I will leave it at that. I’ll be saving this post as an example of male nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:21 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKpI5foRhQ7/ The guy at the beginning of the video reminds me of a lot of men here. “A lot of you single moms are going to be cut off food stamps and you’re going to be a lot nicer. 😏”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:10 AM
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According to men it’s a disaster and they enjoy humiliating women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:33 PM
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Look how men treat women who take the moral high ground in the Middle East
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:33 PM
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Angry tone: upset about rejection when he was fat, claiming middle school girls reject boys for having galaxies and are stupid and superficial Rude: flexing about body count, making harsh and unfair claims about women Harsh: if you want me to sit and highlight all harsh language, I will I am aware of how men communicate. Due to testosterone, men tend to be brutal and vicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:31 PM
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As some guy here said about abortion rights and lack of attention on online dating: Neglect begets neglect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:55 PM
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Yes they do. As some man here said about how lack of interest on online dating means he doesn’t care about abortion rights: Neglect begets neglect Men bully us at a much greater frequency and magnitude so why should we care if they feel hurt when women do like 1/10th of the damage men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:55 PM
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Go on any fat woman’s social media page and you will see how I am right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:36 PM
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The point for me is that for every woman who does that, there are 10 men who either pump and dump unattractive women or just reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:35 PM
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TWO And that rules out most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:20 PM
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Literally this is what men tell us. That after a certain age, our age match won’t want us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:19 PM
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Rants about the wall. The average woman is 39. Men prefer women in their early 20’s and by 39, most women have hit the wall (to most men).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:48 PM
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https://keeper.ai/calc Most women aren’t thin or young enough for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:40 PM
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Making personal attacks I see lmfao. People do this when they have nothing less to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:40 PM
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Plus Sized Park Hoppers Instagram and TikTok has entered the chat. See how kind the men are there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:32 PM
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Lmfao a comment? It was an essay And you prove what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:31 PM
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And I am saying it happens much less frequently than men claim it does and that men are much nastier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:24 PM
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And men do it more and with more cruelty and frequency.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:23 PM
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https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/tirade Harsh Rude Angry tone Longer than expected Meets the criteria. I’m not sure what your body count has to with any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:23 PM
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And it won’t be at the extent of how men treat women online. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJseDFYOYtm/ Read the comments. Mostly men berating them. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJo6L7PuVv1/ Almost all the nasty comments are from men. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJQB0QIOTx4/ <image> For every woman that says something problematic, there are 10 men who say something meaner. These women literally just talk about fitting in rides and chairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:21 PM
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That absolutely is not a rage filled tirade. Here is an example of one. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:14 PM
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<image> It’s a joke about how the guy looks silly. See how she’s still with the guy? They were on vacation and she thought he looked funny with his head detached in the swimming pool while he danced and floated around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:05 PM
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My friend you sent me violent threats. You are not a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:04 PM
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First of all, I looked up the Ick on TikTok. This trend was from like 2 years ago. The most popular videos were: A) women who tease their boyfriends or husbands for looking silly. They don’t want to break up. They are just joking that he looks weird when his legs dangle when he swims or when he swings from side to side while biking. Most of these women are still with these men and love them despite joking around. B) women who want to not feel attached to a guy anymore and feel the “ick” as a way…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:01 PM
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The men who wanted royal women historically weren’t saints who deeply loved the women. They were opportunistic and wanted an in on the royal family. This is why Queen Elizabeth I never married. She knew that if she married, she would be making her husband the King of England and losing all her power. And becoming vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:43 PM
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Oh? Look at the Plus Sized Park Hopper profile. It’s almost entirely men putting these women down who don’t complain, whine, bully, etc. They just talk about if people can fit on rides or chairs. They don’t ask the parks to change anything. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKfy2wzuZt0/ This is just a fraction of the bullying they received. <image> The only nice comment is from a woman in this screenshot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:24 PM
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Because men don’t write a well thought out essay about how there aren’t enough women on dating apps. Instead, men write embittered rage filled rants about how women are hypergamous, egotistical, superficial, and rejecting men right and left for petty and ridiculous reasons while men are victims. They also write rage filled tirades about how if they make an acquaintanceship with a woman that they see in a social setting and then ask her out, the woman will falsely accuse them of rape or claim tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:18 PM
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Women are the same in less frequency and magnitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:12 PM
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I don’t see anything about her relationships and dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:12 PM
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Whenever I say the stuff you say, I get accused of misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:53 AM
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And yet men are more often than not incapable of considering the values outside of looks that women bring to the table. Men absolutely will not give a shit about how well read a fat woman or a 35 year old woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:52 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/pp3719hn8k5f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=615713252c6f49a440bc0c6226abef948d8e01f3 Men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:55 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/u/PracticalControl2179/s/uAjaPnlQjk One reel you say? I have a collection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:39 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKWEdL5JW1B/ This woman is a former OF woman. Her comments reflect male nature and hatred. <image> One guy posted a bunch of heart and fire emojis. The rest are shitting on her looks. Any woman that is even slightly controversial gets shit on by men. Nonstop. Repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:29 PM
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If the server ranked her a 4 she was likely a 6 or 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:22 PM
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Why didn’t you stay with her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:22 PM
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says I am biased against men claims men shit on men too which is also bad Also just browse any fat/ plus sizes instagram page. Or those street interviews where they interview drunk party girls. Tons and tons of men shitting on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:22 PM
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Why did you break up!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:36 PM
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Men are meaner and express it with greater magnitude and frequency
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:36 PM
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Fat women can still work out regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:35 PM
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It doesn’t sound like anyone really dated her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:31 PM
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Interesting answer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:28 PM
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But you didn’t marry them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:25 PM
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Women give unattractive men a chance all the time. An example is with age gap relationships. Women give a chance to older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:25 PM
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For every woman that makes fun of men there are like 10 men who put down women on Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:19 PM
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Wow how heroic you hated her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:18 PM
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Notice how you whistle a different tune and agree with the image I posted? As I say: Men believe they are deserving of much younger and more attractive women due to their hypergamous nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:17 PM
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So you believe only wanting to have sex with someone who takes you seriously and is committed to you is being a “whore”. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:16 PM
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Did you have sex with her with the intention of commitment or not? It’s a simple yes or no question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:15 PM
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So you used her for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:16 AM
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Can you tell the story?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:54 AM
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Beauty isn’t in the moment for men much of the time. Men constantly scrutinize how women look and are often offended by unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:54 AM
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Young slim attractive women don’t have plenty of options
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:04 AM
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Niceness is pretty much irrelevant to men unless they are with a woman who is already attractive, slim, and young.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 01:05 AM
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Considering that they thought the Wizard Liz was looksmatched with Landon they tend to grossly overestimate what men’s equals are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 01:04 AM
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It’s an exaggeration. A lot of 45 year old men believe that 25 year old conventionally attractive women are in their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 01:04 AM
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So you agree that men aren’t attracted to niceness but then lament that women have a threshold for attractiveness and don’t simply feel attracted to niceness. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:33 PM
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<image> I try telling men this and they get so mad but here is a man saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:54 PM
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So then make your comment gender neutral. Let’s see you make it gender neutral instead of targeting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:50 PM
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So then don’t claim women have higher standards than men. Maybe they just are on the spectrum for higher asexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:49 PM
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Susan Boyle has entered the chat. No one wants her and she’s nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:49 PM
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No she doesn’t. She gets called “mid” and mocked
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:34 PM
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Absolutely not how it works. Most women have been degraded like crazy by men for how they look and the 4/10 man will think he is better than the 5.5/10 woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:53 PM
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Do you not read what the men here say about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:46 PM
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Amen sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:46 PM
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Men don’t give women a chance. Women give men a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:45 PM
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Men don’t give women a chance. Women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:45 PM
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You posted that you would rather be with a woman you find extremely attractive who settled for you than with a woman who finds you extremely attractive that you settle for. Women give men a chance. Men don’t give women a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:44 PM
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MOST WOMEN WANT GOOD MEN. NOT BAD BOYS AND BULLYS. THIS IS WHERE YOU ARE WRONG. Being social and extroverted is NOT the same thing as being a bad boy bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:00 PM
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This is a blatant rule violation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:33 PM
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Oh yes every family has skeletons but there’s a massive difference between paternity fraud and dad being a high functioning alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:33 PM
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Maybe you just have unique close relationships. I know absolutely no one who this has happened to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:19 AM
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It doesn’t matter if it’s “privileged” or not. Under privileged women have even more of a duty to marry someone financially capable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:09 AM
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It isn’t my job to rescue and date them because I feel sorry for them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:09 AM
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Well there you go. Being on paternity leave is not SAHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:39 AM
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Lmfao now I am being called “right wing” after ages of men calling me leftist. 🤣 It doesn’t matter if the guy has had a bunch of challenges in life. I am not obligated to date him so that he can feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:39 AM
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I know people who grew up in poverty. They did these things: Joined the military Studied engineering, law, nursing, etc Now they are no longer in poverty Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:28 AM
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Bro I started working at 16 too. The men I date are over 30. If they haven’t picked a useful middle class degree by the time they are 30 or aren’t actively working towards one then they are not likely to achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:14 AM
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Maybe you should have worked considering that you call going on vacation once a year and buying a car once a decade “ultra luxury”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:04 AM
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My parents absolutely did those things because they were highly educated and worked incredibly hard. My mom became a SAHM at some point but she had a high earning career. Step 1: Pick a career: medicine, nursing, engineering, law, tech, accounting, or the higher paying blue collar jobs. Step 2: Work. 2 jobs if needed. Step 3: Profit. With 2 incomes you will easily surpass $200k a year. Don’t study a useless or low paying degree. Pick something that has a high income potential. Stick to it. Perse…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:00 AM
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Interesting that men view providing a good life for their wife and kids as a frivolous and unnecessary luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:43 AM
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If a $1-3k purse every 2-3 years is impossible to afford, then you are struggling. Why do you compare a YSL or LV ($1-3k) bag to a Birkin ($13k ish new and like $30k used)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:07 AM
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Vitriol as evidenced by your sarcastic remark about designer bags and claiming a good school has to be private. A lot of families are one paycheck from homelessness and that is not a model to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:06 AM
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men don’t tend to do those things. That is why they claim it’s easy and relish in the times they get to stay home. Women do. Which is why most stay at home moms are exhausted and overwhelmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:05 AM
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Because most men don’t have the biology to be good stay at home parents. They half ass it. The only times men talk about stay at home parenting is to moan about how easy it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:43 AM
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Nothing I described is sugar babying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:42 AM
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Interesting view of stay at home moms. I don’t view stay at home moms as useless financial drains. I actually view them as an asset and a value to the family, and the only reason I don’t want to be one is that I think men are ungrateful and greedy with their money by nature and don’t view money as shared and don’t appreciate the work a stay at home mom puts in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:24 AM
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Oh I agree that being a stay at home mom is dangerous and risky. That said, if a woman is a stay at home mom, she isn’t providing less than a husband who works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:14 AM
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I make good money and I have contempt for men who don’t bother trying to do the same. I am no genius and I am not claiming to make like $300k a year. But I can afford these things without children and with double my income we would be able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:11 AM
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Should a stay at home mom accept a man who is in poverty because she doesn’t make money?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:10 AM
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Can you elaborate? Do you think that what I described is the same thing as marrying an 8/10 21 year old virgin? If so, I have news for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:09 AM
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Interesting how men think this is a $1 TRILLION ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:08 AM
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Even if a woman isn’t from money, why should she marry someone who can’t afford a good life if she wants to be a stay at home mom? Why does providing a good life for your family inspire such outrage from men? It’s one thing if the guy becomes disabled or horrible life events happen and our quality of life goes down. But that is different from a guy who isn’t working hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:08 AM
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Why does this upset you? I think a family is struggling if spending $1000-3000 every 2-3 years is an impossible, out of the question expense that would put the family into unnecessary difficulty. I also didn’t mention private school, because there are good public schools for free but they happen to be in wealthy areas that are more expensive to live in. Why does providing a good life for your family inspire such vitriol?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:06 AM
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Why does this upset you? I think a family is struggling if spending $1000-3000 every 2-3 years is an impossible, out of the question expense that would put the family into unnecessary difficulty. I also didn’t mention private school, because there are good public schools for free but they happen to be in wealthy areas that are more expensive to live in. Why does providing a good life for your family inspire such vitriol?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:06 AM
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Why do men expect women to marry into a life of financial struggle? I want to be able to afford: A house A new car every 8-10 years A vacation to a nice place once a year A good emergency fund Occasional luxuries like a designer bag every couple years Good quality makeup, skincare, and clothes Decent furniture A sizable emergency fund A good school for any kids I have Be able to help my kids pay for college in some way Send my kids to things like sports, music, arts, etc Help my kids buy their f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:42 AM
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Extremely rarely. Me not being attracted to someone doesn’t mean I am viscerally disgusted by them. They have to look uniquely bad for me to be viscerally disgusted, and I would feel sorry for them for whatever problem they have that makes them look this way. I am keeping this separate from hygiene but am talking about looks only.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:52 AM
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https://archive.is/ZJymw It’s here. The women in the lowest ranks got less responses than the men in the lowest ranks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:58 PM
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Not per the OKCupid study which indicated that ugly men responded to women less than ugly women responded to ugly men. Furthermore, swiping right doesn’t mean you want to actually be in a relationship with that person. Men happily use women they find unattractive for casual sex. That isn’t virtuous or less picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:30 PM
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First of all, there’s a difference between ROMANCE novel and SMUT. A romance novel has no erotica. Sex may be hinted at or glossed over without detail. Smut is highly detailed sex scenes. Second of all, in SMUT, everything is all imagination. The woman isn’t watching other men. No one is being exploited in smut. Third of all, I hate smut because I believe it is training women to be into more kinky things, which is degrading by nature. Fourth of all, women do not consume literotica at the frequen…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:00 PM
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I don’t think men and women are equal. I think men are more degenerate in their habits than women due to testosterone, hence pornography problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:10 AM
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But where is the lie? Men now have porn and video games as their pastime
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:56 AM
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Where is the lie though?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:04 AM
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Me: men who use prostitutes have a messed up view of women Man: DM’s me about how I am wrong and proceeds to talk about how prostitutes are the only way men can ever experience 10’s and how he should have the right to sleep with 10’s the same way women get to experience Chads. Claims all women get to fuck chads. Me: point proven
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:59 PM
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<image> More men being men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:44 PM
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These men don’t take them seriously and don’t want marriage. <image> Here are men talking about 28 year old women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:39 PM
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People who are pro choice don’t view abortion as killing their kids. They view it as aborting a fetus. This literally falls under the category of “shares my values”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:25 PM
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Because you share the sentiment and don’t want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:24 PM
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These aren’t opinions that make me miserable, this is just male nature based on what men say about their desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:05 PM
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Multiple men. Multiple men have been saying it. If you would like me to make a collage of multiple men across multiple platforms talking about the wall and how women expire after 25 or 30, I can gladly do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:59 PM
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Except for the cats and sun comment is completely unrelated to anything at all, but the post I posted a screenshot of directly says women over 28 are “one day before expiration”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:59 PM
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Per men, women who are single at 30 are undesirable and will have a hard time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:10 AM
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Notice how you don’t disagree that women expire at 28?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:58 AM
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<image> Men believe women are repulsive after 28
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:08 AM
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Men call me a misandrist for saying men hate women, but this is literally what goes viral on Instagram right now. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:02 AM
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Interesting that you told me to dismiss “incel talk” yet literally participate in “incel talk” and claim that you cannot be black pilled because black pill is banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:01 PM
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I repeat what men say. For example, I didn’t say all men are rapists. But I do see numerous men saying that women should be open to dating a man who has been accused of rape as long as he says that he was falsely accused. Notice how you didn’t deny anything on my list? And any time I define “incel talk” as “incel talk”, men get offended and say that I am misrepresenting incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:00 PM
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And none of them looks at a guy who whines about how worthless and fat western women are and says “wow! What a great catch!”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:29 PM
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Calling out men for what they say about women and themselves isn’t “misandry”. I don’t call them rapists and creeps. I call out the things men say about themselves: Wanting a woman more attractive, slimmer, and younger than they are (hypergamy) Resenting their wives for aging Belief that seeing a prostitute is not a red flag Belief that being accused of rape is not a red flag as long as the guy says “I was falsely accused”. Resenting left swipes on tinder to the point that they want revenge Rese…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:28 PM
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I don’t identify as progressive. I am conservative. Bold of you to think conservative women are willing to put up with men who hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:21 PM
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Any time a man watches porn he is cheating though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:01 PM
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<image> Here’s another perfectly normal man who thought my Chat GPT generated image of the average woman was me, and he was angry that I didn’t message him back. What a kind spirited normal person. Women sure don’t appreciate a kind man like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:58 PM
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If young perfectly normal men, you mean the men here, then they aren’t exactly nice people. This is how the men here view their wives as their wives get old. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:51 PM
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First of all, a lot of women view Donald Trump as a hero who is saving the economy and the United States. Second of all, Gypsy Rose Lee had zero issues finding a husband and a baby daddy and a multitude of suitors even though she literally duped a guy into killing her mom. Men know this and STILL WANT HER. SHE CHEATED ON HER EX HUSBAND AND HE STILL LOVES HER AND WANTS HER BACK. Same with Kasey Anthony. Kasey has ZERO issues finding men even though she killed her own daughter and has a bizarre an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:51 PM
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What a disgusting way to speak about your wife, and a disgusting view of motherhood. Men don’t value motherhood. They view it as, and your exact words are doing “nothing with your life”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:48 PM
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With no issues? Imagine being this selfish. Most women have issues. Major issues. They suck it up for their husbands and boyfriends. Weight gain. Mood swings. Irregular periods. Acne. And yet you have men throwing tantrums about paying for the first couple dates. The audacity and selfishness of men. You want me to say sex isn’t a chore for women, yet you completely dismiss that birth control has side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:46 PM
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Because it is a favor. Birth control is inconvenient and uncomfortable for women. And having a kid carries a humongous stigma. An increase n count also reduces our value. And the fact that she is CHOOSING to risk her SMV and pregnancy means that a little token of appreciation, paying $40-50 for dinner at apple bees the first couple dates, is even more valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:20 AM
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Says who? You’re just making stuff up lol. Victims? Nah, this is crazy talk. Says the men here. I can dig up a thread if you would like me to. Sex can happen at any time? You’re acting as if sex just happens like a force of nature. Both parties, including the woman, have to agree to it. If she’s that worried about single motherhood then she should either get an IUD or shouldn’t have sex until marriage. End of. It can. Even if the woman feels ready, she can still be abandoned. The IUD can fail. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:15 AM
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Men humiliate the fuck out of women for “ignoring red flags” and staying with a guy who is toxic or misogynistic. Abusers constantly promise to change and apologize and when women believe them, men ridicule them for believing them. It’s best to just leave if a guy is toxic or misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:55 AM
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A lot of men claim to be victims when they don’t get sex on the first date. Also, sex can happen at any time in a relationship and a woman could become a single mom at any time. Paying for the first few dates is a token of appreciation. Furthermore, birth control is not very pleasant to take. Condoms are the male burden and are the easiest method yet numerous men throw tantrums about using condoms. Hormonal birth control has a lot of side effects and things like the diaphragm and female condom a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:52 AM
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Imagine thinking wanting followers and a card is gold digging Male nature in a nutshell 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:38 AM
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This isn’t gold digging. If he doesn’t give you what you want, you leave. That literally isn’t gold digging at all. And if you have to beg for a gift that you want that is degrading and humiliating. If he doesn’t give gifts at the level you consider appropriate, leave. Imagine taking offense to this. It’s common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:37 AM
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Because when an American woman gets pregnant, she gets shit maternity leave and shit benefits in the event of becoming a single mother. In Scandinavia it’s hardly a horrible sentence to be a single mom. Hence, when a woman risks single motherhood by going on a date in the USA, she’s risking her and her potential kid’s well being. Not in Scandinavia though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:36 AM
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Women literally ask men not to be degenerates, not be absentee fathers, and not cheat and men throw a tantrum about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:34 AM
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Notice how you don’t disagree with me? Imagine being a 55 year old woman with 3 kids that still need support and your husband having an affair and doing everything in his power to make you impoverished because you left him, and then him mocking you and saying “just go to college” after you devoted a huge portion of your entire life to him and your kids. This is male nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:32 AM
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Do you not realize that nurses get assaulted all the time? Especially in the ER and psych units? https://www.asrn.org/journal-advanced-practice-nursing/2828-violence-against-nurses-worse-than-ever-analysis-finds.html Two nurses are assaulted every hour, or 57 per day (57 divided by 24 is 2.4 an hour). Per this article: Indeed, the "leading occupations" for workplace violence in 2019, according to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, were nursing assistants, orderlies, psychiatric aides, and home…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:29 AM
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FDS is literally self preservation and not about gold digging at all. They literally say what the red pill says and repeat what men say about themselves and men get angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:24 AM
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Interesting how men just want the lower earner to become homeless after a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:23 AM
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In Northern Europe, women get a year of maternity leave and a bunch of social benefits that we don’t get in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:23 AM
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You don’t have to comply with tradition if you don’t want to. You can date someone who is cool with splitting the bill. Many women are. But they will tend to be left leaning feminist and not appreciate your comment that women have personal freedom at the expense of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:21 AM
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Men are mocking the wizard Liz for leaving her fiancée and calling her a single mom who deserved to get cheated on. This is all over Instagram and tiktok. Male nature in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:22 PM
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Okay, so if you're holding him accountable then I'm holding you accountable. Accept your actions and own up to them. I've already outlined some of your actions so don't ask me "what did I do", go back and read if you actually want to know. This part of the conversation is over. I didn’t do any wrong actions. You made up your own narrative to feel justified. It's not niche. It caters to a large amount of men who like bbws and ssbbws. 1% of the USA is still like 3 million people. 1% of men over 18…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:48 AM
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Whenever I say that these points of view are incel points of view, numerous men get defensive and insist that it isn’t incel mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:55 AM
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No it means most. Just as OP indicated most.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:46 AM
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Matters not. Same definition and it meant your screenshots were dumb, not you. This part of the discussion is over. It isn’t over. It was an attack. Stop dodging accountability. Yes, oh. Right here he was replying to someone else. And here you picked a fight with him, a person who was not talking to you. Hypocrite. I didn’t pick a fight. I held men accountable. I called out that it isn’t hating men to call out what men say online. It's not niche. It is absolutely niche. Woo plus caters to a tiny…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:44 AM
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I mean most men as evidenced by what men say here. I don’t pretend to be only talking about a small subset of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:15 AM
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Because he didn’t say “a small subset of women are gold digging whores”. He said “women are gold digging whores”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:10 AM
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He didn’t say “some women are gold diggers”. He very clearly says “women”. As in women’s a generalization. As in most women, if not all women are gold diggers to him. https://linguaholic.com/linguablog/a-hit-dog-will-holler/ Also nice subtle personal attack. It still is a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:52 PM
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Dumbass means dumb in a more vulgar way. More vulgar because it was an attack. You're a hypocrite because you picked a fight with the other guy when he said nothing to you. Oh? He specifically told me to take advice I never gave and you defended him saying that hating men who hate women is hating all men and that he said to ignore the hate. I interpret not defending your stance as conceding. You failed to defend it, and you did not provide any evidence against the contrary when I posted screensh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:41 PM
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It is absolutely hate to say women are gold digging whores and anyone who says otherwise is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:15 PM
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Except you didn’t just say dumb. You said “dumbass”. And you clearly said that you wanted to “shut me up”. Right here. You wanted to pick a fight, and shock me into humbleness. https://preview.redd.it/o4aooomj974f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=750a1abaa1cbda191c45b9be2d98382c8ee72f44 And yes, I wasn’t threatening you with a report. I made a report you violated the rules. You were uncivil and continue to be uncivil. You’re upset that I hold you accountable for the things you say and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:14 PM
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I said you called “my comments” dumbass which is a thinly veiled way to call me a dumbass. And if you aren’t defending the original comment that guy made, that it’s hating men to call out the men here, then what was the point of you chiming in? To try to pick a fight as evidenced by you calling “my words” dumbass and me a “chicken”. And I didn’t say you are mean spirited, bitter, nasty, and vengeful (despite calling me a “chicken” and saying my words are dumbass). I said OP said the men here are…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:17 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/snldi0h6u64f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bf70441a54f64f908697e1f802931b10e78f60c9 Maybe you didn’t say it, but that’s exactly who you were defending when you chimed in here and said this, calling me (oops! Not me, but my comments) dumbass. Furthermore, you’re admitting here that OP is right. The men here are nasty, mean spirited, bitter and vengeful monsters. You’re also admitting that you chimed in to pick a fight, not because you actually had anything to ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:48 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/tc67zsjbn64f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6708f79a32ff2c5899baed66b28a6ff577f003e8 Right here. Your initial claim is that she’s against men for calling out the hatred men spew to women on here. Furthermore, you focus their self care entirely upon their weight. You make no mention of their hair or nails or skin or style because those don’t matter to you outside of weight. Not everyone can afford gastric bypass surgery or is fat enough for it. And men whine and …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:11 PM
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This forum is proof of “men are wonderful” effect and it’s essentially just a circlejerk of men shitting on women and then accusing any woman who holds them accountable of misandry. And it isn’t uncivil. You claim that you don’t hate women and that the men here in this forum are all supreme gentlemen who don’t hate women. But then I spend like 3 minutes searching and each of the men here claiming men here are all amazing heroes who never say anything bad about women are all shitting on women and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:48 PM
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<image> “How dare you say I hate women I just think women don’t put any effort into relationships and are lazy. I didn’t use the world ‘all’ so it’s ok!!!! I just am making a huge sweeping generalization and then I get mad when women make sweeping generalizations about men”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:44 PM
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They have agency. But it’s clear that being a sex worker is work for the desperate. Also, it most likely is a credit card scam and not even an actual woman. I get “sugar daddies” on social media when I don’t even have my picture up. They aren’t actual sugar daddies, but scammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:36 PM
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Report me then, ya chicken. I'm waiting 💁🏾 I have reported you. The mods favor men though. 💁 You have before. You are a hypocrite. No, I don’t make personal attacks. Again for the 3rd time, I've worked on myself, those women haven't. The fact that they have not lost weight to better themselves and yet I've done much more than them speaks volumes. You can't gaslight me or shame me. I put in the work, they haven't. First of all, what if they also have a genetic disorder and it affects their weight…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:28 PM
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No. I didn’t dig through your post history. I made a 10 second search for certain terms and found it within seconds. It is absolutely women bashing. Introspection is crucial. We women see how men hate us and respond like OP does. Then the exact same men who bash us gaslight us and claim that these men aren’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:13 PM
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Yes there are a handful of celebrity men who aren’t 8/10 in looks but most are. It’s celebrity tier and you are accusing women of just wanting celebrities. It’s hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:12 PM
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If a 20 yo is sliding into your DM’s asking you to be her sugar baby, she is either a) desperate and willing to go after predators for money or b) a bot account run by men trying to lure other men on social media into paying fake women money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:11 PM
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You can't read for shit, wow. I said "dumbass comments". Are you a comment or are you a human? Choose one. It is still a personal attack. Take accountability. Calling my comments “dumbass” is an attack against me. It's easy to find many comments where you have broken the rules but most of us aren't whiny kids who run to their parents every 5 seconds. If you think it's against the rule, then report me instead of being a brat about it. You are a grown adult, at least act like it for one day. Excep…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:08 PM
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8/10 is CELEBRITY TIER it’s absolutely hateful to claim that women only want celebrity tier men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:53 PM
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You’re claiming that women only want celebrity tier men. Thats hate my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:50 PM
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First of all, incivility breaks the rules. Calling me a “dumbass” and saying you want to “shut me up” is uncivil. Second of all, you absolutely do hate women. Here is proof number 1. <image> The fact is that the reverse is true. You have a whole post complaining about how women don’t want you for not being attractive enough, then you whine that the women who want you aren’t attractive enough to you because they are “morbidly obese”. Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:48 PM
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Oh you didn’t say all women, you just said “WOMEN” so it’s totally justified and okay and not hateful at all! And no, I don’t think it’s on the rise. I think men who pay sugar babies are predators and sugar babies are diet prostitutes. Paying for the first few dates, however, is NOT PAYING A SUGAR BABY. Expecting a man to have a reasonably good job is NOT GOLD DIGGING. Men and accountability are like oil and water.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:45 PM
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<image> It’s amazing. The men here simply hate women. And that absolutely is hate and so is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:43 PM
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<image> sigh Even you’re guilty of bashing women. How can you claim that all men don’t do it when you are doing it here???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:42 PM
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She worked hard and supported him throughout Amazon. She wasn’t sitting around as a housewife while he built Amazon. She was a crucial part of helping the business grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:39 PM
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This is not a justification for the disgusting things that men say constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:29 PM
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Ok then say it since it is so blue collar hands in the dirt traditionally masculine job
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:23 PM
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<image> This doesn’t sound very loving to me. This is women hate. It’s hateful. No amount of loneliness and sadness will justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:22 PM
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<image> You can be a wonderful partner and still hate women my friend. People are complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:19 PM
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<image> This is hate my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:19 PM
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Not once have I told men to ignore them. 🤷‍♀️ sounds like you’re responding to the wrong person. However, I can post screenshots where you show a scathing hatred of women. Which reflects hypocrisy, because you claim that you’re a victim of women hating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:18 PM
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It absolutely is not. A lot of men go online and say disgusting things about women. OP is calling it out, and yet instead of introspection and critiquing the women hating festival that is the manosphere, you believe that it’s men’s god given right to bash women and that anyone who disagrees just hates men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:12 PM
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I agree but for the sake of debate, a lot of these men have a massive victim mentality and believe that they need justice for real and perceived rejections IRL and on dating apps. They believe they are getting justice and spreading a message of vengeful truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:11 PM
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And men need to accept this. They whine and whine and whine about how women aren’t body positive about short men yet they show ZERO empathy for a fat women. Even you degrade fat women by screeching “just eat less!” As if they don’t already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:05 PM
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And I said it doesn’t matter if the characteristic is immutable or not. Most American men are husky themselves. It’s hypocritical to expect women to be open minded about a man being short but then throw a tantrum about how she should eat less when she’s husky.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:04 PM
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It doesn’t matter what can or cannot be changed. You want women to be open minded to different body types then throw a tantrum when women ask you to be open minded back. It’s hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:52 AM
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It was saying that the 1% of scary and dangerous men are scary and dangerous enough that seeing a bear is less scary than the potential of being tortured
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:51 AM
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They don’t believe ALL MEN are bloodthirsty savages. That isn’t the point. The point is that the 1% chance that a man is a bloodthirsty savage scares them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:50 AM
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My friend. You are repeatedly threatening violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:46 AM
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Conservative women don’t appreciate men who hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:44 AM
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If it’s the guy who I think it is, he had a sex shirt on in one of his photos
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:09 PM
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Yes being unmarried makes a woman more desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:09 PM
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Most men aim for the top percentage of women. Young and slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:58 PM
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Usually these women have no problem finding a husband because they socialize with more men. However, that doesn’t mean that most men don’t hold them to extreme contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:58 PM
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No it isn’t. It’s saying that a man could potentially be more violent and sadistic than a feral animal. It doesn’t say all men are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:57 PM
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He claimed women get mad over trivial things. I brought up the man vs bear situation, which is a trivial thing that men got mad about. You got mad over a trivial thing. You are a man. You failed to provide an example of issues that actually are not trivial. You also failed to explain why the man vs bear thing is “heinous”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:56 PM
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No they don’t. Women are way more open minded to dating a guy who is unattractive but treats them well. I said that the looksmatch of a short man is a chubby woman and men got very very very angry here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:35 PM
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The implication is that she gets scared when she sees a man. Meanwhile we have a guy here advocating for the Iranian regime which opposes women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:52 PM
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And you can’t gaslight me into thinking you aren’t being over dramatic, playing victim, and looking for an excuse to belittle women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:51 PM
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From chat GPT Economic Advantages • Higher Average Pay: Men, on average, still earn more than women for similar roles in many countries, partly due to historical structures and ongoing gender pay gaps. • Leadership Representation: Men are disproportionately represented in top leadership roles in business, government, and other sectors. • Easier Access to Certain Jobs: In male-dominated fields like tech, construction, and finance, men may face fewer biases or stereotypes during hiring and promoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:50 PM
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So you basically repeat a bunch of sexist stuff and then claim women are playing victim for calling this out lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:49 PM
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He’s short. You want women to be open minded about body types when it comes to height but then you suddenly get nasty and whistle a different tune when it comes to heavyset women. The hypergamy and hypocrisy is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:48 PM
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Being settled for isn’t a compliment. We hear men repeat that daily here. Furthermore, Being preferred for STRs is better than not being preferred for anything. This is false. Being pumped and dumped is objectively worse than being single. Ending up a single mom subjects you to ridicule and men have extreme contempt for women who were used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:47 PM
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I don’t think there is any basis in reality in calling the man versus bear issue one of “the most heinous things imaginable”. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:46 PM
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<image> Since you claim women play victim over trivial issues here is a fresh response from your fellow man calling the man versus beating one of “the most heinous things imaginable” lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:44 PM
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Original comment; But many women are still playing victim to this day over trivial issues. Me: like the man versus bear issue? You: heh, next time I say the most heinous things imaginable about women I'll just gaslight you and brush it off as trivial Imagine thinking that the man versus bear thing is one of the most heinous things imaginable It’s not violent It’s not cruel It’s not nasty It was a simple thought exercise where women admitted that they were scared of men’s capacity for great viole…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:43 PM
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False. Men tend to be hypergamous in nature and resent that their looksmatch isn’t a hot 21 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:40 PM
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Men were prioritized for jobs and had a lot more freedom and independence than women for millennia and still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:39 PM
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Men had objective special advantages for many years and still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:39 PM
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I wonder why ugly men don’t want ugly women. Men constantly rant about hypergamy amongst women, yet the reality is that men are extremely hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:37 PM
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Kind of like when you blame women for your problems due to their “special advantages”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:36 PM
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Kind of like women didn’t want men to have special advantages, so they fought for equal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:35 PM
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First of all, men in their 30’s and 40’s want women who are 21. See attached. https://preview.redd.it/b7sdns9b5y3f1.png?width=600&format=png&auto=webp&s=74d7ab36bcd58b0580309563ff91ac5e2327796d Second of all, “STR” means short term relationship. Men who don’t find women attractive use them for “STR”s aka casual sex. This means the woman is only attractive enough to pump and dump and nothing more. This is not a virtue. In fact, it shows that men use women they don’t find attractive Third of all, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:35 PM
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This sounds like playing victim to me yet you claim women play victim. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:08 PM
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Fighting to improve your situation is not “blaming men for all your problems”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:07 PM
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It sounds very right. The average age is 37 for women. Most women are just too old for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:07 PM
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So don’t say “are you kidding me” when I say men prioritize looks way more than women. The average age for the average woman is 37. Most women are too old for men’s standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:02 PM
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No siree most women aren’t 18-25 with a BMI under 25
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:23 AM
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Respectfully India has a big rape problem from what I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:03 AM
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Then you find a husky female doctor who also makes like $300k+
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:34 AM
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What country is this and there is no excuse for hiring a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:34 AM
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Simplify your comment rather than making personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:31 AM
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No there was a guy here insisting that the guy was dating down in my example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:38 AM
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Your comment doesn’t make sense. A parole officer or cop is an enforcer of the law. Even though some people don’t like cops, a lot of people view it as a good respectable job. It is not the same thing as being a criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:37 AM
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https://keeper.ai/calc Tell me what percentage of women are thin, young (18-25) and conventionally attractive. And unmarried and childless. Not that many. Men want the top women. Men are hypergamous by nature. Those nice guys? Usually either: A) they aren’t actually nice and are like the guy here who believes Trump is going to punish women for their wrongdoing and that the Iranian government is right in the way they subjugate women yet he calls himself nice B) are the “guy who makes $50k a year …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:21 AM
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What a bizarre answer to the Iranian dictatorship. And yes but it also incentivizes single motherhood which makes men seethe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:37 AM
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A shit ton of women supported Trump too. Also, Trump wants to get rid of porn and pay women $5,000 per baby. This is anti red pill men. The “big beautiful bill” he wrote is supposed to help women and families. He also is a beacon of hope to the Iranian people who want him to overthrow their current anti women regime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:45 AM
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Most of them would leave unless they get paid or extorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:30 AM
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Sounds like hypergamy to me. Men always tend to overestimate their value and underestimate women’s value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:15 AM
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One point I want to argue is that a lot of men do not give a shit about red flags and in fact encourage women to date men with red flags. Examples include: 🚩 if a man has seen a prostitute This is a major red flag but men get so triggered whenever I say this. 🚩 if a man pays for only fans Men who pay for OF are walking red flags. It isn’t as bad as paying a prostitute but it’s still bad 🚩 if he says no to dates A guy said no to the woman he was dating for a 5th date. She asked him multiple times…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:53 PM
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First of all, Gypsy rose managed to get a husband who still simps for her even though she dumped him and a loving baby daddy, manipulated a guy into killing her mom, AND got a bunch of letters from men in person asking her out. Second of all, Jeremey Meeks has become a Christian and is a stepfather and has focused his energy on helping low income children of color not go to prison and live good lives and performing for the African American community on BET. He actively is trying to do good. His …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:48 PM
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So when you worked in a jail, you were walking around thinking “huh. These guys are macho chads!”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:42 PM
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Gypsy rose has a husband who simped for her and continues to simp for her, a baby daddy who takes her seriously as a life partner, got a guy to kill her abusive mom for her, and got a bunch of men writing her letters while she was in prison. Come on man, men don’t see immoral women as a red flag at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:41 PM
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The 5’8” State Farm Adjustor who makes $50k a year’s equal is the fat chick making $40k a year as a daycare teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:40 PM
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Diddy literally had to trap and extort all those women to stay with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:38 PM
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Kind of like how men, including you in your post history, played victim over the trivial man vs bear thought exercise?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:36 PM
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There are mass protests in Iran and Iran is going through a second revolution. Women are getting more rights and it’s a well known fact that people hate the regime there and are more progressive than other Islamic nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:34 PM
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<image> How men feel after saying “enjoy your cats” to some random lady on Facebook who says that women don’t expire after 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:24 PM
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The manosphere is literally men crying that they are the victim of women 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:18 PM
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Women were in a lot of shitty situations decades ago and needed to be liberated. Getting rights is not playing victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:14 PM
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Don’t ask out coworkers unless you’re 1000% sure that A) they will keep the dating secret until you’re married or engaged. Check what your HR rules are on dating a coworker. You don’t need to call HR and ask (I wouldn’t as it could flag you), but read the work manual. Some places don’t allow coworkers to date. B) they will not let feelings interfere with work and you won’t either. Let’s say she cheats on you and you have a messy breakup. 6 months later, she becomes your supervisor. Are you both …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:22 PM
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This instantly dismisses a whole group of people’s lived experiences. That’s not a counterargument, that’s just denial. I've personally seen and heard plenty of stories, some from friends, some from firsthand experience, where guys approached politely and still got hit with sarcasm, eye-rolls, or straight-up hostility. Sounds like they get to experience what the bottom 97% of women experience. Acting like it’s just men going after “Giga Stacys” and then crying about it? That’s such a lazy genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:14 PM
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I had no idea who he was lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:11 PM
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This did not happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:00 PM
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Men have numerous stories of women getting hostile when they say "hi" or "hey". To this point this was actually a meme on Facebook. No they don’t. Most likely they went after a hot Giga Stacy then got shocked that she was rude and applied it to the bottom 97% of women. Women are always saying every woman they know has a SA story. Women are always saying they are wary of men. Women say they can't tell the difference between good men and bad men. So it's better for them to be cautious and assume a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:59 PM
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When men get mean they go on social media and call women fat and ugly and expired
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:56 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/u/PracticalControl2179/s/dVDBLLjBN2 I am compiling a list. Biologically, men are meaner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:38 PM
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Meh. A) most women aren’t going to break down because a guy said “hi” B) so you agree it’s fear
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:32 PM
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But men especially enjoy doing it, harder, with more fury, more hostility, greater magnitude, and on a greater level. This is due to testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:31 PM
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SaMe LeVeL aS lIaM hEmSwOrTh Bro men prove me right every day. Men tend to grossly overestimate how good other men look and then grossly humble women. And something like 97% of women don’t look good to men. Most women aren’t young (18-25) and slim (not overweight or obese) and childless and unmarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:24 PM
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Men and accountability are like oil and water
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:11 PM
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It’s still cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:11 PM
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He’s literally blaming “western women” for men playing victim. He’s claiming men find victimhood inspiring and it’s women’s fault that men go online and right foul and bitter rants about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:10 PM
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Yes unfortunately men consider it the ultimate alpha move to humble a woman by making her a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:09 PM
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Whenever I say men take pride in mistreating women and envy abusers and baby daddies, I get accused of misandry. Yet here we are, with a man saying that men take pride in treating women poorly. I get accused of hating men for repeating what men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:09 PM
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Literally people who look like Liam Hemsworth or Austin Butler. Not some mediocre looking slimy guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:08 PM
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Males always prove hypergamy. https://preview.redd.it/7b96z9ahzp3f1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d3a02339c72375dcfe70ff96bf583277f55112b0 Only men would insist that this is moderately attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:06 PM
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It sounds like you described fear as evidenced by your elaborate rejection fantasy where the guy gets humiliated for respectfully saying “hi” or gets laughed at, ghosted, and called creepy just for showing interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:05 PM
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Male nature in a nutshell. Blaming the woman and avoiding holding the man accountable. “She deserves it because he’s famous” (she’s more famous) “He’s a Chad” (he clearly is not) “They are looksmatched” (they are not)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:48 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/efoolhi43o3f1.jpeg?width=768&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5f6e046aaa1e50dd3566f8216a7e4282537e9a2f This guy isn’t a chad but he cheated on her. She is a famous influencer and he is a famous gamer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:43 AM
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This reads as a total lack of accountability for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:12 AM
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They accuse her of “cackling” when she clearly is giggling and wasn’t expecting him to be buff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:11 AM
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She repeatedly says “I’m large” which means she’s insecure about her size and wants a bigger guy to make her feel less insecure. She even let him pick her up. Of course men get deeply offended and seethe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:09 AM
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Well there you go. Proving me right and violating the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:48 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/zf4wqzae2n3f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c1ab1324652085e55417a501c60b7fa990a6c526 Evidence here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:17 AM
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Men mock harder Harsher Meaner And with greater magnitude
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:09 AM
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First of all, a guy paying for your dates doesn’t mean you financially depend on him. It just means he is paying for dates. Financially dependent and paying for dates are completely different things. Second of all, most women expect most men to pay for the first few dates. This is why it’s a massive point of contention and outrage for men on this forum. If you’re a dating woman, most men, especially the men who take you seriously and are interested in you, will pay for dinner the first few times…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:08 PM
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You equate most or all men with Johns, which is misandrist by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:37 PM
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Plus, it is hateful to men to assume most of them are Johns. It’s hypocritical for you to classify most men as Johns and claim that hating Johns is hating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:24 PM
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No it isn’t. It is to you because you believe most men are Johns.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:14 PM
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It isn’t hatred of men to say that men who use sex workers are bad people. It seems to me that you seem to think that all or most men are Johns.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:11 PM
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“How dare she want a man to support her and not ignore her or be dismissive? Women should be seen and not heard!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:02 PM
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It isn’t misandry to say “it is hateful to women to accuse them of all being hypergamous”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:49 PM
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Imagine seeing sex as a service like going to McDonald’s and expecting women to have compassion over that lmfao. Being a John is exploitative by nature. Most sex workers are victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:47 PM
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And I can have an opinion on men who hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:46 PM
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It’s ok if a John is uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:22 AM
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So you’ve moved the goalposts from “these don’t have many views or likes” to “sure they do but it’s ragebait”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:36 AM
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Men hating women https://www.instagram.com/reel/DH6XVqPOPtT/ Thousands of comments agreeing including a guy with over 10,000 likes complaining that his girlfriend is boring and has nothing to offer but sex. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DFwYmddxJS-/ “How dare my girlfriend not be a virgin” https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKCk6tLRbvP/ Tens of thousands of likes on comments complaining about how shitty western and modern women are https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJ9oEDWpt8_/ “Older women hate young…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:40 AM
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Men hating women https://www.instagram.com/reel/DH6XVqPOPtT/ Thousands of comments agreeing including a guy with over 10,000 likes complaining that his girlfriend is boring and has nothing to offer but sex. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DFwYmddxJS-/ “How dare my girlfriend not be a virgin” https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKCk6tLRbvP/ Tens of thousands of likes on comments complaining about how shitty western and modern women are https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJ9oEDWpt8_/ “Older women hate young…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:40 AM
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Oh that’s cute, most men don’t care about women being exploited so I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:28 AM
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You talk about John comfort as if he isn’t being a John
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:27 AM
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Sounds like these women should choose better fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:16 AM
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No they don’t. Unattractive women are much less hypergamous than unattractive men. Unattractive women are more than happy with their looksmatch. Men don’t have these instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:16 AM
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I got this too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:47 AM
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This is the wrong reason to not have respect. I don’t have respect because these men are slimy and trashy and exploitative by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:46 AM
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“How dare these diet prostitutes try to make as much money as possible! They must be after our hearts and not our wallets! Old men deserve hot young women to sleep with them for free!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:45 AM
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This woman already has a lid. I am not sure why she’s panic reproducing. She should focus her re why and resources on her kid who is already born and alive instead of trying to bring a new kid into the world at age 47.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:57 AM
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Fat women, women over 30, women who have strange faces: None of these women get to be conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:49 PM
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I can make a collection for you too if you want of men saying even more degrading and hostile things rather than just making fun of height.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:05 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/rg4m9gb76c3f1.png?width=1400&format=png&auto=webp&s=ddac0494d5264409393e0dab779eb40fca9c83fc Sir she is a Stacy Of course Stacy will want Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:39 PM
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Unattractive men feel invisible because they don’t view unattractive women as good partners. They resent unattractive women for being too unattractive for their tastes and they resent that they can’t do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:37 PM
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a single ragebait post over me with like 5 comments from one serious post your post has a vague attack while mine has multiple personal attacks against women I can make another collage with more examples
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:36 PM
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That’s shaming them my friend. Most of us aren’t running around thinking about men’s heights.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:10 PM
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Women care for men. We just aren’t going to care about lack of sex. We prioritize things like men being safe and fed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:04 PM
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You’re claiming all or most women shame men for their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:03 PM
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Women don’t attack or put down men to the level and severity that men put down women. <image> This is an example of typical male behavior online.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:02 PM
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Yep this is how men treat the bottom 97% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:56 PM
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Sir I found comments of you shaming women. so I am correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:52 PM
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I thought you said you don’t shame women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:51 PM
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Sir you said you don’t shame women yet here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:50 PM
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Men constantly talk about how women hit the wall after a certain age and how women their age are unattractive. Women respond accordingly and then men feel victimized.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:42 PM
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Men have zero empathy and often resent their agematch and looksmatch. 24 year old men find 24 year old women unattractive and old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:41 PM
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If you shame women, don’t whine about getting revenge on them for not caring about male sexlessness. It’s not “demonizing men” to say “well men ridicule us for not being virgins so I am not going to have sex with you”. Also, Trump wants to give moms $5,000 per child. That isn’t exactly revenge on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:29 PM
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So when men put down women for having had sex because it’s a “stupid decision”, don’t whine when we don’t have sex and males are sexless as a result. Your rebuttal doesn’t work because there is nothing for men to avenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:20 PM
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Only attractive women get these benefits and privileges. The only reason why men don’t understand this is because unattractive women don’t exist to them. And there is no justification for male behavior. It is cruel. Cruelty begets indifference and neglect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:19 PM
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Some of the behaviors men find repulsive in women include not being married after 25, not being a virgin, or having rejected someone unattractive in the past. These are totally unfair things to despise and attack women over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:17 PM
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Except for it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:42 AM
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So what you talk about IRL doesn’t reflect what you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:53 AM
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I don’t talk about my pooping habits IRL (except maybe with my mom if I am sick or doctor) and yet everyone poops.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:42 AM
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I constantly say men think like this and get called a misandrist. Most men hate most women. You can be a man’s wife and he hates you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:40 AM
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Yes men have always been awake though that’s the thing. They have always resented women and have always believed most of us are old and expired and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:20 AM
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Men absolutely resent women who are not young and thin and beautiful and they degrade the fuck out of them. See: https://www.instagram.com/p/DJ4LAHfTjo7/ And see men degrading women in the comments who are older than 28. https://preview.redd.it/1cowejw2u73f1.jpeg?width=1946&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c5c632435e8dc1574775da1533d172791802eb08
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:03 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKAxBuItiBf/ Men argue it. Men like to think bashing women is a niche thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:58 PM
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Me: “most men hate most women” Men: 😡 how dare you say such a thing! This is misandry! Men when they talk to women online: say the most vile things. <image> We all have internet connection. We know you think we expire at 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:56 PM
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And yet women still chose not just men who are taller than themselves, but consistently select for men who are taller than average. These are only the women who men prefer: thin, young, and beautiful. Don’t long for a top woman then complain that she only wants top men And yet shoerter men struggle SIGNIFICANTLY more than the average man, specifically because women are far more selective about men's height than men are selective about women's weight. Because they only want young and thin and bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:41 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/DJ4LAHfTjo7/ Men insist that the red pill isn’t mainstream then shit like this goes viral regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:24 PM
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No, we don’t know. But it doesn’t make it an irrelevant argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:13 PM
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First of all, the vast majority of men are taller than the vast majority of women. It’s delusional af to act like a woman who is with a guy who is taller than her is somehow dating a man who is superior to her when basic biology is that most men are taller than most women. Even short men are taller than most women. For a woman to be severely limiting her options because she only wants a guy who is taller than her she would have to be like 5’8” and that is already like the 90th percentile for hei…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:50 PM
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Not in my zip code lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:41 PM
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It isn’t whataboutism. She provided a list of reasons for a dead bedroom. One of the reasons she listed was “gross habits”. You dismissed everything on her list and said it’s “mostly related to looks”. I stepped in and said that a lot of people do have gross habits, like failing to brush their teeth twice a day. I was supporting her point. That is not whataboutism. You engaged in whataboutism and changed the subject to women being obese. “Oh yeah? A lot of men don’t have good hygiene and that le…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:41 PM
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So you concede that it isn’t about looks but about hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:18 PM
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Why? Men don’t focus on women their age. Men always go for younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:18 PM
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I make like $140k a year and I am no genius. lol. You guys act like it’s an unattainable salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:01 PM
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https://keeper.ai/calc <image> Congratulations! You’re in the top 2.6% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:00 PM
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<image> Just existing unmarried and not being obese as a woman ages 18-25 puts her in the top 8% of women. https://keeper.ai/calc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:57 PM
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https://keeper.ai/calc I never see men doing this one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:57 PM
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<image> Only 8.6% of women are 18-25, not married, not obese (this doesn’t have a non overweight option, if you put non overweight it goes even lower). And this doesn’t count for single moms. https://keeper.ai/calc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:55 PM
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No it isn’t. A lot of men don’t brush their teeth twice a day or clean the toilet with a scrubber after they poop.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:52 PM
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It isn’t a small number. It’s a substantial number. It just isn’t something they loudly discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:29 AM
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It’s a trend. It’s a little sexy without being overly revealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:49 PM
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You don’t run across them IRL because they know their feelings are taboo and aren’t going to announce it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:57 PM
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I repeat what men say. If you aren’t an angry person, why do you beg ave with such aggression? And if you find what I say hateful towards men, tell men that they are being hateful towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:25 PM
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Making ad hominem personal attacks violates the rules. Furthermore, it’s not “hating men” to repeat what men say nor is it an attack. I am not obligated to be “open minded” to men who write scathing rants about “666” women and how women are all stupid and scheming and become worthless after 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:22 AM
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Exactly. So maybe you’re lying and your point is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:21 AM
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Exactly. So by your logic nothing you say is valid at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:17 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/lo4guw2ctu2f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ef233a47a4795ff9e6d2fcd1de11752008e55a1d This is the first ever comment reply I made to you. Not once did I say reddit is the real world. I did repeatedly say that the men here are real men with real points of views that they may not publicly announce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:17 AM
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The internet isn’t the real world so how do we know you aren’t lying and making this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:48 AM
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It doesn’t matter if it isn’t the real world. This forum is still filled with real men who hate women and who carry these feelings into their real lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:47 AM
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I didn’t say this is every single man on the planet. I simply say that men have a hypergamous nature. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:45 PM
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So you agree men are hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:44 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/98l9m44pdr2f1.png?width=600&format=png&auto=webp&s=eb1d1b83528951f3c87316bac58073a535a6303e What percentage of women are under 25 and thin? Women are reasonable with their preferences. Men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:43 PM
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<image> Because men are hypergamous by nature. Talk of hypergamy is male nature projected onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:58 PM
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But a guy in his 20’s will look better than a man in his 60’s almost all of the time. Furthermore, even if the average age gap isn’t large it doesn’t change what men wish they were doing. Being with young hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:47 PM
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Because the average woman is 39. The average man is like 37. By default, being young makes you ABOVE AVERAGE. Especially the women. Even elderly men want young women. They are the most desirable and sought after women. Even if they have a plain face, they are the top in looks in the general population. Men need to understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:20 PM
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Every date is a donation of her youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:13 PM
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Interesting that men don’t go on about body proportions and body fat percentage when it comes to talking about women with a high BMI. His looksmatch in that case would be an overweight, nearly obese woman who has nice proportions. Not a slim woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:12 PM
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I PM’ed it to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:11 PM
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<image> Only 8.8% of women are 26 or younger, single, and not obese. If you get rid of overweight it becomes even less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:10 PM
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<image> https://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/educational/lose_wt/BMI/bmicalc.htm His BMI is 29 30 is obese Male hypergamous nature in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:55 PM
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Sounds hypergamous to me. All men just want Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:47 PM
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So they have some casual sex with conventionally attractive men, and it makes you angry and you assume that because these men are conventionally attractive they are toxic and violent abusers unlike average men who are all supreme gentlemen saints.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:46 PM
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How do you know they are over 6feet?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:45 PM
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Lmfao 🤣 you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:45 PM
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Did I say that? NO. But he’s sitting there whining about how women just want Chad. Men just want Stacy. “Average woman” is code for “slim woman in her early 20’s”. This indicates that it’s only 8.8% of the female population. And that includes overweight women. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:43 PM
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Approach them IRL. The men here need to stop basing their views on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:40 PM
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What makes these men Chadly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:41 AM
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Would you date an obese elderly woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:40 AM
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The women who men get mad at are the men who call single moms ran through damaged goods who nobody wants and then shit on the stepfathers by calling them cucks. Furthermore, she lost several dates of time worth of her fleeting SMV. Her youth, beauty, and fertility. This is more precious than a date and the more it is lost the more angry and mean men get. Lastly, the woman shows that she is serious by giving him her SMV. Her youth, beauty, and fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:32 AM
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Except for at most jobs I am not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:14 AM
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It goes beyond a casual view of sex because they aren’t getting true consent. It is a degrading, humiliating, hateful view of sex and of women. Casual sex is not the same as getting a prostitute. Casual sex means both people are trying to enjoy themselves. Prostitution means only one person is trying to enjoy themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:31 PM
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You’re trying to bring in a completely different argument because you know I am right. You’re trying to change the topic to “is sex work work?” Because you know it is very different from any conventional job. I say it’s work, but it isn’t a regular job. It is generally abusive and humiliating and most sex workers are victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:30 PM
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This is what i was talking about, i said some men have negative attitude towards women with multiple partners and prostitutes but women extrapolate that to all men who simply just dont want to date such women. Yes, there are men who are super critical about or outright bully single mom, prostitutes etc but that is not most of the male population. How is this any different than a man believing all women only want to date tall and rich guys by looking at videos they found online of women talking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:28 PM
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Your situation is not your fault. I feel bad for you and for your situation. That said, dating someone who doesn’t drive in an area without efficient public transportation can be a big job, and people are not obligated to take on this job. Also, people are not obligated to date someone with severe mental health issues, even if those mental health issues aren’t their fault. You aren’t less of a man, and you shouldn’t feel shame. But you also have to understand that people may not want to date you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:22 PM
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<image> Here is proof of verbal abuse and violating the rules of the forum which is to be civil. Also it doesn’t exactly support what you’re trying to say. It’s just proving hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:11 PM
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By this logic one of the foundations of leftism is to hate and want to tear down white society and kill all white people because a couple of people said that? This isn’t a couple of people. This is a mass movement. Can you show me where on Wikipedia or encyclopedia Brittanica or another popular source wheee it says that leftism is about killing white people? Because you can’t. Your definition of incel is just the easily changeable website. https://www.britannica.com/topic/incel Encyclopedia Brit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:58 PM
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Except for you are not having sex at your job. This is why I also say to avoid men who see prostitutes. They tend to have a hard time differentiating between a regular job and a job where people have to have sex for money. They see sex as the same thing as another day at the office/ construction site/ restaurant/ insert regular job here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:51 PM
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https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/ridicule to make fun of You’re making fun of women by claiming it’s “comically ironic” that “women don’t want to cheat as soon as their male partner derives pleasure from it”. This means you believe women want to cheat. But as soon as the guy enjoys cuckolding, they don’t want to cheat anymore because they don’t enjoy men having pleasure. This is a disgusting and hateful view of women. Hence, it is making fun of them, and ridicule.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:50 PM
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I am not having intercourse with those people. I am not inserting or rubbing my genitals on them or expecting someone to suck on them. But as I said, men who see prostitutes tend to have this view of sex and women and are best avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:47 PM
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No, most men would only say "i wouldnt date her" but women will take it as calling her a whore and worthless and all that. Sure, there are some men who are gonna be very negative towards such professions but alot of women extrapolate that to every men who just wouldnt be comfortable dating a women who dont match their values. Lmfao. Men are notorious for bullying the fuck out of women who are single moms or who have had multiple partners. Exhibit A: https://youtu.be/8LV9oYFJ2YI This guy has an E…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:45 PM
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For every one prostitute who has a job she enjoys there are 10,000 who don’t. For every one prostitute who wouldn’t do anything else that pays enough if she could there are 10,000 who don’t feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:03 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/rsd5tu2w8f2f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cfb858c97a42007bab86724b1df5f8ee75bb9a72 Sure Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:55 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/jy6mo1n18f2f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=093ac879b1524cf48696268e255e4cdc20452368 Moving the goalposts from “all dates” to “first dates” I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:50 PM
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Yes you did. I repeatedly talked about it the first 2-3 dates and you insisted this is every date ever. You compared it to getting a hooker and said that paying for 2-3 dates is no different from getting a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:53 PM
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But she was likely the best you could get and you chose her over someone less attractive despite her personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:52 PM
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Yes I do. And I have a job. So don’t expect me to answer fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:51 PM
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Here is where you say it: So, just to sum up: the main difference between a hooker and her dating approach is that the hooker actually offers a guaranteed ROI and everything is laid out openly on the table instead of being a covert narcissistic transaction? Interesting. Not sure if that's the point you meant to make, but... interesting. My “dating approach” is to court and date with marriage on the mind. This is not what you get with a prostitute, yet only what a prostitute gives is considered a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:51 PM
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Where did I say ALL DATES??? I repeatedly make it clear that I mean the first few dates. You are intentionally conflating the two to match your agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:49 PM
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However you responded right away when I commented, indicating it did have an effect on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:48 PM
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Friendly reminder that I responded and you haven’t for 19 hours :) in case it slipped your mind :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:06 PM
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So why do you ridicule and our women down and tell them they don’t deserve good treatment? For what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:05 PM
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So you say “hot” means “not obese” then expand to include “under 30”. So you don’t just mean “not obese”. You mean “not obese and under 30”. The age qualifier sharply reduces the dating pool since the average woman is 39 years old in the USA. Not everyone is lucky enough to meet a soulmate under 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:05 PM
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Equal with equal. Something men claim to value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:04 PM
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Too shy for a nice lady though 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:03 PM
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Sure, but when men say they wouldnt date a former sex worker or someone who has had a lot of casual sex, all hell breaks lose and all of a sudden past dont matter. First of all, men don’t say “I wouldn’t date her” and move on with their lives. They say she’s a ran through used up whore who is worthless. If they just say “her values are too different from mine” no one would care. Second of all, none of these are in situations where consent is murky. Using a prostitute has murky consent. Why? Does…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:25 PM
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Even if she wasn’t attractive he likely picked the most attractive he could get and chose her over someone nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:50 PM
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They demand rights from men they are not attracted to. LMFAO 🤣 Human rights are not sexual attraction based!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:02 PM
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I don’t act like it’s just dudes who behave this way 👍 but we already have a multitude of men in this forum calling out women for this behavior and whenever you call out men for the same things, they get mad. They never use neutral gender pronouns to describe these things, and they tend to exclusively blame them on women. Therefore I do the same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:59 PM
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Yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:57 PM
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Men who are angry and resentful about paying for the first couple dates tend to have warped views of women and don’t like their date very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:57 PM
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I would divorce over that but I also know some people who let their house get like that. They aren’t super close friends or anything but I know about them (eg friends sister, someone’s ex roommate, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:56 PM
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Sounds like he picked a mean Stacy over a nice Beth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:55 PM
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There are guys who will let the dishes build up so bad that insects come into the house and mold grows. They aren’t bothered by this either. They don’t care. Interesting that you would think that not doing the dishes would work. Also, a nagging wife is a common trope that men constantly admonish women over. Men complain constantly about nagging and find it annoying. Yet you propose nagging as a solution to washing the dishes. A lot of men just dismiss the nagging as the woman being a bitch and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:56 AM
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Look. I appreciate that your heart is there and you are coming from a place of kindness but this will not shut down men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:47 AM
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It isn’t “good” or “bad” to break up with a guy and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:42 AM
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Women who do are still ridiculed. Even more so. How would you put them in their place?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:41 AM
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Why was that the only thing you fixated on? I listed multiple examples where the woman may not be hurt, and men still insult and degrade us even if we don’t feel bad after it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:23 AM
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We have a freaking weekly n count thread. Men ridicule us if we become a single mom. Men ridicule us and call us ran through if we have had too many partners. Men ridicule us and call us “chads leftovers” if we have sex with someone and get hurt. Men shame the fuck out of women who sleep with multiple men. So of course we refrain from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:47 AM
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Copied and pasted from my other comment: They also are in major red flags like: Don’t date men who use prostitutes: usually men who use prostitutes have an underlying hatred of women and have messed up views on sex and dating. Many men have insisted and insisted to me that I should ignore this red flag and that I am being superficial and judgmental for not wanting it. Don’t date men who refuse to pay for the first few dates: men insist and insist and get into huge debates about how women shouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:45 AM
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They also are in major red flags like: Don’t date men who use prostitutes: usually men who use prostitutes have an underlying hatred of women and have messed up views on sex and dating. Many men have insisted and insisted to me that I should ignore this red flag and that I am being superficial and judgmental for not wanting it. Don’t date men who refuse to pay for the first few dates: men insist and insist and get into huge debates about how women shouldn’t want a man to pay for the first few da…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:44 AM
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Because men here are fixated on isogamy and constantly admonish hypergamy . If they are fixated on isogamy, then they need to practice what they preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:25 AM
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WooPlus From a PLUS SIZE DATING APP SO YOU HAVE THE NICHE POPULATION AND YOU INSIST THIS IS THE NORM FOR MEN And a NEURODIVERGENT DATING APP THESE ARE NICHE POPULATIONS
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:28 AM
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What website is this? Is it fetlife? It isn’t Instagram It isn’t hinge It isn’t tinder It very clearly is fetlife and I never have been on fetlife before. But you clearly seem to think that gooners on fetlife truly are going to want eternal commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:49 AM
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I didn’t socially shame you at all. I said that men who view going on a date as the same thing as going down Figueroa street to pick up a hooker are hopeless cases. Even you admit that the entire reason men have a marriage, relationship, courting, or having a family is because men want sex and everything else is what they reluctantly do to get sex because they feel that they have no choice. Also, interesting that you accuse me of social shaming when you use derogatory language here. <image> Sarc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:47 AM
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And then whenever I say the men here are verbally abusive I get told I am wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:45 AM
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Perhaps you should have picked a different girlfriend instead of going for the young hottie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:42 AM
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So you’re saying that the only value that men see in dating, relationships, marriage, and potentially starting a family is sex. Which is why they go to prostitutes over actual dating. Interesting because I have been saying this about men for a long time yet whenever I say men view their wives as an avenue to sex and that having a family is something men reluctantly settle for just to get laid, but not something they actually want, I get called a misandrist. But you’re saying it right here. I sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:41 AM
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As I said: You believe taking a woman on a date is the same as going down Figueroa street to pick up a hooker. Filtering out people with this mindset by only dating men who pay for the first date is a wise decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:39 AM
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<image> I have high functioning autism too. Funny that you claim to be immune to social shaming yet enjoy using it as a “debate” tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:38 AM
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Yoooooo Here is your answer: She is not having sex with you You are getting to know her as a potential partner You are proving that you will be able and willing to support a family, even if it’s just for a short period of time It reflects a healthy view of women. Men who resent paying for dates view dating as prostitution, and are massive red flags. Again, as I said, IF YOU CANT DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN PAYING FOR APPLEBEES AND GOING TO FIGUEROA STREET TO PICK UP A HOOKER, THEN YOU ARE ALREADY A HO…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:37 AM
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Oh so now 1% 5% or 10% is common but when I say the red pill is common amongst men I get shot down for saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:46 PM
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<image> These are both exactly average per Chat GPT. She would be happy with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:46 PM
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Men say this all the time. However, I am pointing out that men have this issue and even more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:45 PM
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Oh yes: When a woman is abused, men blame her because they believe women find abuse hot and that abusive men are alpha. When a woman is a single mom, men believe she either was deeply attracted to a toxic man and it’s her fault for not picking a good boring man, or they believe she is a psycho bitch who selfishly destroyed her family and is keeping a loving father from his kids and extorting child support. If a woman is 30 and single they assume she gave her youth to hot Chadly toxic men and/ or…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:24 PM
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<image> Can you explain how this shows integrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:13 PM
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<image> Can you also explain how this isn’t concentrated delusional bitterness?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:12 PM
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<image> Can you explain how this isn’t concentrated, delusional bitterness?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:12 PM
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Andrew Tate is a singular example of red pill ideology and talking points. I never claimed most men agree with what he said. What I do claim is that most men have at least some red pill mentalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:05 PM
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the average age for the average man is 37. The average BMI for men is overweight. Furthermore if a man is 25, his age match is like 20 to 28. Not just younger women exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:00 PM
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You should also EXPECT GOOD TREATMENT. If they aren’t treating you well then you should leave. This is COMMON SENSE.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:57 PM
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You don’t have an alleged personal attack. These are ACTUAL personal attacks. You are being verbally abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:56 PM
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This is chock full of rule violations and personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:55 PM
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<image> And this isn’t bitter? Your entire post was extremely bitter. I merely mirrored your verbiage and tone. Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:02 PM
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Nothing here is personal. You’re projecting personal onto me. You said men would love if women had an ounce of the character, individualism, or integrity that men have. You started this discussion. I simply said NONE of this matters if the woman is not attractive. <image> Furthermore, the rules say no personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:01 PM
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It is mainstream. Most men have this point of view and most women understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:00 PM
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If women were to pursue bad men on accident then men would continue smugly sitting on their asses and insulting these women over and over again and even more harshly because they would resent that these women PURSUED these men. Men have been nonstop smugly sitting on their asses and insulting women for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:41 PM
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https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/mainstream a prevailing current or direction of activity or influence having, reflecting, or being compatible with the prevailing attitudes and values of a society or group Prevailing: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/prevailing https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/mainstream to make something start to be considered normal Something doesn’t have to be believed by the majority to be accepted as normal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:36 PM
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They only want hot young woman with an ounce of character and integrity. But if she isn’t a hot young woman, no amount of character or integrity is going to make her appealing to men. A hot young bitchy woman will always be more pleasing to men than an ugly old kind woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:30 PM
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Now you’ve moved the goalposts from “red pill ideas are not mainstream” to “this sub is the only portion of the internet where men are red pilled and these are the only men who hold red pill views and everyone else is irrelevant”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:09 PM
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Stringing a woman along and using her for sex is cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:08 PM
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If a woman falls for them, men accuse her of wanting a bad boy Chad. If men don’t extend sympathy to women I am not going to extend sympathy to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:56 PM
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If you think that going to Applebees with a woman you like is the same thing as going down a shady street and picking up a hooker then there is no way to change your mind. What I do know is that I want to avoid men who think this way. Men who are weird about paying for dates tend to view dating as a form of prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:56 PM
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It doesn’t have to represent all men. It’s a sizeable portion that we have to worry about and that aren’t publicly announcing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:53 PM
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Go on any post on Instagram or Facebook about divorce or single motherhood or a woman who is single after 30 and it’s overflowing with hate comments. It doesn’t need to be the majority view to be mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:50 PM
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Why tf would anyone want anything but GOOD treatment???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:04 PM
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Even single dads shit on single moms because they see their ex in the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:02 PM
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Neither are single mothers. The difference is that women don’t boldly and loudly insult single fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:57 PM
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So men like expert manipulators
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:56 PM
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Usually he isn’t thinking that way. Usually it’s more of a “well if she wants equality, then I am going to give that bitch equality 😡” type thing. If he was invested in equality he would be willing to cook and clean daily
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:54 PM
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But that was the comparison you made. Interesting that the things that men are cautious about are wildly less horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:33 PM
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So you asked me what good treatment means, then when I explain it to you, you change the topic to “well women should do these things”. Interesting reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:33 PM
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The suspicion part is accusing her of not being interested when one pays for the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:32 PM
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So you compare paying for Applebees or Chipotle to date rape lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:42 PM
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Ad homenim personal attack. I don’t identify as a feminist. Ironically enough, it’s delusional to hate feminists but then resent paying for dates. Feminists, especially LIBfeminists, are the ones who don’t want dates paid for. Conservative non feminist women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:41 PM
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Exactly. Suspicion that women are using you for dates is a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:40 PM
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Being a gentleman Being kind Apologizing if one makes a mistake Regularly conversing with her Taking her on nice dates Getting to know her family Discussing marriage and moving towards marriage in an appropriate timeline Helping with things as needed, like driving her to and from the airport or offering to fix something that needs to be fixed or stopping by with soup and tissues if she’s sick. Things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:40 PM
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<image> 440k likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:28 PM
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The guy was in his mid to late 40’s. He was not a young man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:20 PM
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Women tend to expect good treatment. For example, paying for the first few dates. Men throw a tantrum about this, but it reflects that he takes her more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:19 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/svv1gvv5x42f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=36ede51a70a2c339429a73f413c42cd8d07ce335 The quote is right here. What limits do you want to place on feminism? This means what rights do you want women to give up? Do you want the government to censor women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:12 PM
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Red pill talking points are mainstream. They aren’t just on corners of YouTube. They are all over social media, and regularly go viral. There’s a reason why Andrew Tate is a household name. Don’t immediately dismiss what men say about men because it makes them look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:07 PM
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Most men are though, and these same men admonish women for picking bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:05 PM
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Sounds like you don’t have a good answer as to what rights women are supposed to give up to make men feel better about online dating, and just want to make an excuse. And I don’t pay attention to who I am commenting to. If you don’t wish to answer, you don’t have to communicate. I am not obligated to avoid certain users who publicly post on a public forum. All you can choose to do is choose to not answer. And you know not responding sends the message that you don’t have a good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:04 PM
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Usually the women complaining about patriarchy are the same women who don’t mind splitting the bill. Delusional that you think that women who aren’t libfem and who lean conservative are more open to splitting the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:00 PM
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Why do you think a first date or two is “everything”? If a man doesn’t pay for first dates and is stingy about it, it reflects 2 things: Suspicion that women are using him for dates. This is a red flag and reflects a negative outlook of women He doesn’t like you very much: men pay for women they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:59 PM
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The implication is that the guy who pays likes you more. The guy who is stingy about a date is going to act like that throughout the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:56 PM
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What do men actually like? I know: Be young Be slim Be beautiful Anything and everything else comes second. I remember a guy here who used to consistently complain that women are all fat and disgusting and he uses then for casual sex and he even led one woman on to get a free vacation. Later, he met a slim woman on Facebook dating. He was willing to drive 3 hours to see her. Interestingly though, she continued to use facebook dating and chat with other men. When he confronted her, she said that …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:54 PM
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Yes can you elaborate what rights women are supposed to give up so that men don’t feel sad when they don’t get matches on tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:48 PM
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For every man who is blamed for picking a bad partner, there are 100 women who are ridiculed and berated by men for being a single mom (no one wants you! You are used goods!), victim of DV (Chad’s leftovers! Women find abuse alpha!), or not being able to find a husband by a certain age (expired! No one wants you anymore!)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:34 PM
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It isn’t a “clear dislike of men” to repeat what MEN SAY about themselves. And yes, I understand that you believe all these men are imaginary and fake because it’s the internet and none of them truly exist to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:23 PM
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That isn’t your argument though. Your argument is that because the internet is not the real world, anything bunches of men say is completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:42 AM
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<image> not wanting to make stupid decisions neglect Male nature in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:08 AM
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So don’t complain about how women are indifferent to sexlessness. Don’t play victim and whine when women say “so? Why do I care? Keep on living without getting laid”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:05 AM
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shames women for having had sex in stupid situations expects women to have sex on the first date if she ever did it in the past women refrain from having sex How dare women not care about male sexlessness!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:19 AM
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Maybe the woman thought she liked it and realized she doesn’t. Now the new man is whining about sexlessness and rejecting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:18 AM
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It isn’t a Pandora’s box or a gauge of how much she likes you. It’s a stupid decision to sleep with a guy on the first date and choosing to not make any more stupid decisions is a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:35 AM
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My friend you said that the moment a woman has had sex in the first date, if she makes any other guy wait, she isn’t attracted to him. This is the reason why women fear having casual sex and don’t care if men struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:13 AM
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It isn’t cap. <image> Here is his post. I have receipts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:29 AM
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OP. You have a post saying that if a woman has slept with someone on the first date before, you will only consider committing to her if she sleeps with you on the first date as well. This kind of comment is why women don’t care if men can’t get sex. If we ever have sex too soon or with the wrong person, men ridicule us, get bitter and jealous, and expect that Pandora’s box to be open for the rest of our lives. So tell me why we shouldn’t be stingy with sex and extremely careful and fearful about…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:25 AM
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Now you’re changing the topic because I proved to you that the average woman has been with 4 partners. You refuse to address why a guy who is 35 and wouldn’t want a woman who is 35 with an n count of 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:22 AM
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Username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:20 PM
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I understand but it doesn’t change male hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:03 PM
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Why isn’t his equal the woman with 4 partners? And it isn’t cap. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:02 PM
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You used it as a dismissive remark, and continue to do so. It is foolish to assume that out of the tens of thousands of men on this forum and that the hundreds of thousands of men on other forums and millions on other social media pages are all AI or not real. The majority are real men who really hold these views.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:41 PM
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It doesn’t matter what his personal thought process is. If he isn’t hot and he wants a hot woman, then he is hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:34 AM
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Agreeing to go out with someone is not the same thing as moving across the planet because you can’t stand your equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:34 AM
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If you don’t care, then don’t reply. You post “bait” all the time like this. https://preview.redd.it/m4abmt1fiv1f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=95c717fbe8d77eb80e2c05d2fb8f2d8d0bf28b8f You don’t see me proclaiming how much I don’t care on your posts. It’s uncivil to announce it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:33 AM
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By unsuccessful you mean only getting women they find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:32 AM
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Why is it that the 35 year old woman has a high body count? The average woman has had 4 partners. Why isn’t his equal a woman who has had 4 partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:31 AM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:05 AM
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I have a problem with men calling me a misandrist when I say they don’t want their looks/ age/ SMV match and are hypergamous by nature. I don’t have a problem with men because water is wet and men have been hypergamous since the beginning of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:56 AM
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It’s the fact that men want women seething in jealousy and would rather travel abroad than be with their looks/ age/ SMV match.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:55 AM
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ChatGPT
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:54 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/mxm6wyldmu1f1.jpeg?width=1164&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b80f8934202605a3e79d3837249ab38c0ae32095 And yet I get called misandrist for saying this is how men think. This is literally what a man is saying about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:33 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/o1cxgpd1mu1f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=663af23062b8084468a9f98910f9442d0efa8806 Friendly reminder that this guy on the passport bros subreddit was posting in glory hole subreddits. I saved the proof but he deleted it. These are the guys having temper tantrums about western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:31 AM
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She’s 5’4” and 170 per AI. although my body gallery and life experience indicates that 5’4” and 170 doesn’t look like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:16 AM
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No but I want a relationship with a man. And even you admit the only thing controlling “most men” is a lack of options, not virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:14 AM
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It isn’t effective at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:11 AM
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Except for he literally says “more attractive” is what a qualifies a woman to have a relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:48 PM
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That’s dumb most of us here are used to gooners and don’t feel unease at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:47 PM
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This forum is a “men bashing women forum” and any time you call them out they get angry and accuse you of misandry or radical feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:44 PM
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Why would you publicly want to announce your gooner habits on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:35 PM
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previous 15-20 years of life Bro more like 7 years from 18-25 when men value them. If a woman lived to 100, only 7% of her life is desirable to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:32 PM
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Most. Most means you avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:06 PM
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No I said being a coomer and getting ED = bad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:05 PM
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I didn’t say “all men”. But I do mean men in general. Enough to make me weary of casual sex and short term involvements and to avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:38 PM
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This is how a lot of men think and we have no way of knowing who does and doesn’t think this way because they won’t say it out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:33 PM
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Why do you make a personal attack? And what exactly is there to cherry pick? I spend 2 seconds on this forum and find posts and comments like this constantly. Men don’t respect the women they hook up with. Men view them as unattractive and inferior. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:51 PM
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So that’s a complete change of topic from your original post. Why didn’t you say “save sex for marriage” instead of saying “be upfront and have solid boundaries”???? Those are completely different scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:46 PM
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So you agree that your post is wrong. That it takes more than just being up front.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:45 PM
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None. <image> This is how men think of women who they hookup with. They find them too unattractive for a relationship and hold them to contempt. They don’t view these women as human. This is just a single example of what I hear men say about women. If he wants hookups or casual from me, then I know, based on what men say, that he doesn’t find me very attractive. It is a massive turn off and even offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:43 PM
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She didn’t mention pain and fatigue. And for a lot of women, it is painful and tiring, and when she communicates that and provides instructions, it looks like your response is to whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:41 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/c7lihgmvrq1f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=304b26bc567993ee572b466ff4c936e1f9314cc9 No this is how you responded to someone saying they like oral for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:37 PM
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Well if you clearly spell out that he has porn addiction and this caused it, then it’s his fault for being a coomer and degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:35 PM
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She said that she wants oral for a long time and you said the juice isn’t worth the squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:30 PM
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Ok then why whine about doing oral for a long time if you value effort so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:30 PM
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“Please do x y z to make me pleased” “OK PILLOW PRINCESS YOURE JUST LAYING THERE YOU LAZY WOMAN. THE JUICE ISNT WORTH THE SQUEEZE” “Why don’t women tell us instructions on how to please them 😞?”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:29 PM
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“Why do women ignore red flags and not be accountable for picking bad men?” “Omg you’re so dramatic it’s just an offensive t shirt how can you say this is a red flag?”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:27 PM
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A man who claims that he was falsely accused of rape - What if it really was false? Here’s the thing I said over and over again when I last posted this thread: We don’t know if it really was false or not. All we know is that he was accused and he claims it was a false accusation. Almost every guy who gets accused of rape will say it was a false accusation. A man who frequents prostitutes - He could have a high sex drive and not enough access to normal intimacy. How is this bad? Can we similarly …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:26 PM
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If he is willing to pay for a woman he finds to be above an 8, then why would I want to be with him if he finds me to be a 7 or less? Men pay for the first few dates with women they actually really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:09 PM
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No, I like men who are serious about me and take me seriously and view me as an 8 or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:08 PM
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How is that an alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:13 AM
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No she described how it is not always logistically possible and it can cause discomfort and pain and you’re sitting here dismissing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:50 AM
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So she should only have a history of dating ugly losers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:48 AM
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Spell out what exactly warrants such a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:47 AM
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Matters of fact aren't beliefs. If a guy is being abusive yet still getting laid then he's clearly an alpha. To men he is. Also Diddy didn’t have enthusiastic consent. He manipulated, bullied, and coerced What you're not getting is that being alpha is not the same thing as being good. Being alpha is simply being desirable to women. If I think women on average are fucking stupid in dating then me calling a guy an alpha is not a compliment. He wasn’t desirable. He has to use coercion and force. Pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:39 AM
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😤 This emoji summarized
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:37 AM
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I get accused of circlejerking any time I agree with someone but I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:57 AM
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Me: I only continue to date men who pay for the first few dates because it reflects that they take me seriously and are invested Men: 😡”how dare you say such a thing. You are an escort. You are a gold digger and just want to use men for Applebees and Starbucks! Misandrist!” Also men: <image> This post got over a thousand likes on Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:45 AM
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<image> This is viral on Instagram. I get called “misandrist” when I say many men envy abusers and believe the abuser is an alpha. But here is a MAN saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:37 AM
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Interesting that you last commented that I am not worth responding to then immediately made a second response. Be accountable for what you say. And the bottom line is that he has a sexually charged shirt on and was soliciting women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:01 AM
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You deleted it because you realized you were wrong. If I am “not worth responding to” then why don’t you hold yourself accountable to your word and not respond? Immediately after responding to this comment, you made another comment response. If you don’t wish to discuss things with me, you are free to not respond. Now you’re admitting that you said it isn’t a big deal. Well dating someone who wears a shirt like that is a bad decision. Very interesting that you dismiss what is a bad decision then…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:00 AM
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Yes I called him fat and old looking and deducted that he didn’t want a fat old looking woman since that is no man’s type. I am saying “I told you so” to the men who assumed he was being rejected because women didn’t want to give a nice guy a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:47 AM
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You deleted the comment. But you said the sweatshirt isn’t a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:47 AM
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Yes because no one knew what his profile has until someone on TikTok held him accountable. Now we have facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:46 AM
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Kind of like defending a guy who wears a shirt that says “sit on my face”. It’s obviously a bad decision to date him, but men gaslight us and tell us it’s a good decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:58 AM
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Interesting that you admonish women who make bad decisions yet heavily imply that dating a guy wearing a “sit on my face” shirt is making a good decision and he’s just a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:58 AM
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So TikTok came through and the reddit viral 2 million swipes guy was wearing a “sit on my face” shirt and asking women to sit on his face. <image> He was not a supreme gentleman. He had problems and was likely soliciting sex very rudely. Men never are accountable. Constantly playing victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:51 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/lldo1uln9n1f1.jpeg?width=1088&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8edf965efad7db6e10b6c63b1a0956c448b71179 sit on my face strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:49 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/sxfduzrj9n1f1.jpeg?width=1088&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8cdd54110d610f2f467d359f34d1d8dd9aa19704 TikTok came through. He was asking women to sit on his face and wore a shirt like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:49 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/sbbuje6h9n1f1.jpeg?width=1088&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0acc16d922bf3f8a64278033874dd7f06cc39376 TikTok evidence. He was asking women to sit on his face and wearing a shirt like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:48 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/x8o86ptd9n1f1.jpeg?width=1088&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8d8d0142aad0989400d826a1d84048edf99a4e75 TikTok came through. He was wearing a shirt like this and asking women to sit on his face. Men and accountability are like oil and water.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:48 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/9braim2a9n1f1.jpeg?width=1088&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=db8170a3369fb09b1789e3256682bfd78eaf2a0c He had a shirt like this on his profile and told women to sit on his face. Men and accountability are like oil and water.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:47 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/9a3pxmh69n1f1.jpeg?width=1088&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=705afc238899c58732926c1689d4bf5a562a5aca He had a picture with a hoodie like this on his profile and asked women to sit on his face. Men are always dodging accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:47 AM
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Yeah the motive is that they find women repulsive after a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:29 AM
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Just because “Chad” may want to pump and dump her and compliment her in the process doesn’t mean he wants to marry her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:37 PM
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Just because they are willing to compliment The women to get casual sex doesn’t mean they actually want these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:37 PM
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Just because men are willing to use these women for casual sex and pump and dump them and be flattering in the process doesn’t mean they actually find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:36 PM
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Men think women expire in their 30’s and at best are indifferent to them, at worst use them as placeholders. This is what men say about women. Men especially resent going for their looksmatch/ agematch after a certain age and would rather do sugar dating or passport bro to satisfy their hypergamous nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:33 PM
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False. No one fixates on women in their prime the way men fixate on women in their prime and all other women are either invisible or despised by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:31 PM
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Because women don’t post this sort of stuff with the magnitude and frequency that men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:33 PM
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I don’t answer disrespectful questions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 05:39 PM
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<image> Male nature in a nutshell. Whenever I say men think this way, I get accused of bashing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 05:06 PM
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Misogyny with a heavy emphasis on dating and sex. And it is my primary concern on a forum about dating and sex. A lot of the men here don’t identify themselves as misogynists and don’t claim to hate women, but then turn around and rant about 666 and hypergamy and how women’s liberation ruined dating for men. Furthermore, while it’s not an academic paper, Wikipedia is a reliable source to get a broad overview on a topic. <image> Lastly, I am not sure why you continue commenting after you told me …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:50 PM
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Weak attempt at trying to get a rebuttal in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:48 PM
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Sounds degenerate to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:48 PM
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I didn’t say they are facts though. I repeatedly say that these are the opinions of a large portion of men. The only FACT here is that a LOT of men hold these views and hate women. Mic drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:47 PM
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Men don’t approach because they are picky and don’t want to go for their age match or looksmatch. Especially men ages 40-44, they resent women ages 40-44 and consider them to be post wall old hags who are “ran through” and resent that many may be single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:46 PM
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<image> First of all, the rules of the forum say “be civil, no personal attacks”. You telling me “fuck offffff” is uncivil, and accusing me of being a “misandrist” is a personal attack. Second of all, the original post of this comment thread, in case you forgot (because it seems that you are deliberately changing the topic) is the term “incel” Source: https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/KhZ7ZVLOoV As a quick recap, because it seems that you are deliberately ignoring it, a guy got offe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:45 PM
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Wikipedia is pretty reliable for a BROAD OVERVIEW of pop culture subjects. Each page has sources and you can read through the sources to determine if you find them acceptable or not. Here are some pages saying Wikipedia is more or less reliable: https://opentext.ku.edu/becredible/chapter/wikipedia/ https://theconversation.com/students-are-told-not-to-use-wikipedia-for-research-but-its-a-trustworthy-source-168834 Unreliable information is removed pretty quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:38 PM
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<image> I highlighted it for someone else. However, as you can see, their ideology is heavily focused on dating, looks, and women and “black pill” and “red pill” beliefs. This is why the term used is “inCEL” and not “misogynist”. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:35 PM
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That is the foundation of the incel belief system. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:34 PM
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Because their rage filled opinions on women are based on sex and dating and getting laid. They started it. They believe that men aren’t getting the sex they deserve because women are too feminist, spoiled, or bad. That is the foundation of the incel philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:31 PM
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And your point is moot. You heavily insinuated over and over and over again that the person was wearing revealing clothes then suddenly changed the goalposts to “well what if they were wearing something revealing”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:30 PM
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It isn’t criticizing them. Men tell us we are repulsive after 25 or 30. They tell us that western women are all gross and fat They call us “mid”’and say makeup is deception and tricking them into finding us more beautiful than we actually are. They tear apart how we look, and I simply repeat what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:22 AM
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You didn’t list anything. You aren’t sharing resources with these women nor are you committing to them. The ONLY thing you offer is a “chance” to be in your harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:10 AM
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First of all, this is a minuscule amount of the population. Second of all, if the article says they are avoidant and not approaching, then that isn’t female pickiness. They just aren’t approaching. Third of all, why aren’t these avoidant men approaching old fat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:09 AM
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Sure like diddy did with Cassie. He expected her to be a sex slave in exchange and do all sorts of terrible stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:06 AM
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You repeatedly say “this isn’t the real world” but these are real people and their real beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:06 AM
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How is it shitting on men to say that women in their 20’s are the hottest???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:05 AM
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We literally had a guy posting here that he wants America to be like Iran. They aren’t peaceful people. If you want your movement to be looked at as a movement of peace: Stop blaming and accusing women of your problems by saying they have evaporated your motivation through “women’s liberation”. It very clearly displays a deep hatred for women. Speak out against the men who say hateful shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:34 AM
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The average age for women is 39 and men is 37. This means that if you’re only going after women in their 20’s, you’re going after the hottest women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:31 AM
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But you didn’t list 5 tangible things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:31 AM
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I didn’t say I get to dictate it. I said if something is being revealed then it makes a modicum of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:31 AM
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https://www.newsweek.com/number-virgins-america-hits-record-high-2022266 For men it’s 10 percent and women is 7 percent Furthermore, even if what you said is true, it shows those men were picky about who they would have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:30 AM
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It is very relevant because if they are showing off a body part, then it’s semi rational to fantasize about it whereas if they are not, it is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:17 AM
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It’s not celebrated. It’s women telling men to stop being so nasty because we would rather be alone than with a guy who has bullying and anger issues and rants about hypergamy and 666. And women are less superficial than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:14 AM
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I am not trying to make you feel bad. I am trying to see how a chance is worth risking pregnancy and STD’s with a stranger who cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:12 AM
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But you aren’t giving anything to them so what are they getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:55 AM
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No it doesn’t. It literally means men who hate women and follow the blackpill. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel A lot of men enjoy ridiculing women, especially for their age and appearance. When women call them out, men get butthurt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:50 AM
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Can you list 5 high value benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:46 AM
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So you’re saying it’s high value to be a degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:06 AM
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Bro they aren’t loyal if they are cheating and throwing diddy parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:03 AM
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They don’t get you at all. You talk about how you want to rotate through them and not commit to them. And you don’t specify what you offer. So what exactly are they getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:03 AM
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When I say “incel” is not dependent on sexual experience, but on a hatred of women, I get incel men getting offended and saying it’s all about virginity. Then you come in and say women who have had sex and children are “femcels”. Very interesting. First of all, 18 and no sexual experience is extremely normal for both boys and girls. I remember saying this before about an age like 21 or 22 and a BUNCH of men getting incredibly angry and even sending me threats. But being inexperienced at a young …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:25 AM
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Notice how when men become rich they have affairs at best and at worst throw Diddy parties? Male nature in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:06 AM
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Can you list 5 benefits they get from having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:04 AM
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So if they were dressed provocatively, why didn’t you specify it in your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:22 PM
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Most of the time these men have serious problems like not doing their fair share of housework or pornography issues. Nice and good natured people can still have these serious issues. Meanwhile a woman gains weight after pregnancy or aging and her husband finds her disgusting and repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:05 PM
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It most likely would be no because men are hypergamous by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:01 PM
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But would he have chosen a woman 20 years older than him? It’s a simple yes or no question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:58 PM
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Looking at the chest of a man or woman who is revealing their chest is not the same as looking at someone fully clothed who you glanced at across the street, like in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:48 PM
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I never said it was confusing. I repeatedly say men are hypergamous and find their looks and agematches unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:39 PM
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As I said before, like 50 times: Men are hypergamous by nature. Men don’t find their age matches attractive. Many men believe women expire at 25, 30, 35, or 40 even if they are the same age or older. Men pursue younger women because that is what they want. When a woman has no options, she will agree to being with the older guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:39 PM
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But he’s exceptional. Not the rule. Most of the time men don’t like older women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:04 PM
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Would you be with a woman who is 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:03 PM
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Yes. It absolutely is. Especially if you don’t see them naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:03 PM
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Well obviously it depends on location. Someone in Saudi Arabia is going to fantasize about ankles. This is why o spelled out earlier and multiple times that it depends on the culture and what is considered normal fashion for your location. This is logical and reasonable. It also demonstrates critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:02 PM
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<image> Average American man and woman per ChatGPT I don’t know why they put random numbers on the bottom. That said, this is what the average American looks like and these are looks matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:00 PM
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Men call us ran through and worthless if we have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:59 PM
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Would your dad choose your mom if she was the one who was 20 years older? What if they were the same age?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:56 PM
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It isn’t a true statement. It’s your opinion. You repeatedly claimed to be a victim of women not explaining why. When I explain why, you get dismissive and defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:00 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/xim661szoe1f1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=610538fa0621424d82d87e8c1f4030ce13bf306b This is very detailed and elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:59 PM
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Eh, if we were to make a case of who generally dates much older people it would overwhelmingly be women. Eh, this is because men are hypergamous by nature and aren’t attracted to their looksmatch. Men pursue much younger women. As i am referring to the original comment that states that wrinkles are gross to a vast majority of younger women when in reality women value experience much more than men. Women value a man who is experienced and like 5 years older than them. Not a man who is 10+ years o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:05 PM
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It doesn’t matter how superficial and invalid you believe it is. Most people will agree with me, whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:04 PM
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You’re moving the topic. You asked why it’s creepy. I explained why. You didn’t like my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:03 PM
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It is valid. You’re over complicating things because you don’t like that someone called it creepy. Is she dressed super sexy? Is she making eyes at you? Is she in a porno? If not it’s weird to imagine her naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:51 PM
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When women date older, they mean a 25 year old woman with a 30 year old man. They don’t mean an 18 year old with a guy in his 30’s. Unless they are a rare exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:42 PM
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I answered it. It isn’t your business because it was an inappropriate, disrespectful question. You also refused to explain what exactly provoked you to ask such a thing. None of your business is an answer. None of your business is a complete sentence. None of your business is also not disrespectful or rude. I choose not to answer. It’s not your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:41 PM
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Countless men have porn brain rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:40 PM
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It doesn’t matter if they aren’t seeking that attention. It still provokes attention. But if they are wearing culturally common , climate appropriate clothes, isn’t going to provoke people to lust to wear most things And it reflects a porn brain because it is not natural to have elaborate detailed sexual fantasies (yes, imagining what someone looks like naked and getting horny is elaborate and detailed) over a complete stranger who has not provoked that attention. Usually this happens due to por…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:40 PM
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They were visualizing your ass, your thighs, your shoulders, your chest, and your face. They were getting turned on from imagining doing sexual things with you. And yes, this is highly detailed and elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:38 PM
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THAT DOESNT MEAN ITS ABOUT CONSENT. IT IS ABOUT HOW ONE IS RANDOMLY LOOKING AT STRANGERS WHO ARENT DOING ANYTHING SEXUAL AND LUSTING AFTER THEM IN GREAT DETAIL. ITS WEIRD BECAUSE THOSE STRANGERS ARENT SEEKING THAT ATTENTION. NOT BECAUSE THEY DONT CONSENT, BUT BECAUSE THEY HAVE DONE NOTHING TO PROVOKE THOSE THOUGHTS BUT EXIST If they were wearing booty shorts, thinking about sex with them would make sense. If they were posting thirst traps, thinking about sex with them would make sense. If they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:33 PM
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You’re doing a bunch of mental gymnastics. This isn’t about consent. I said that repeatedly. And mutual sexual attraction isn’t based on having elaborate detailed sexual fantasies about each other. You can think “she’s pretty with a nice smile”’without imagining the Kama Sutra.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:14 PM
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But what does whether they are a stranger have anything to do with whether it's creepy or not? Having sexual fantasies about other people you just met is normal behavior; it's what drives people to flirt with each other at the bar or have casual flings. Men have them. Women have them. Many people report being sexually attracted to celebrities for example. Usually people have casual flings AFTER mutual sexual attraction has been established. And mutual sexual attraction isn’t standing there and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:53 PM
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