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| 5 | Realistically, how much power do you have to make yourself more attractive (or, less ugly)?It's hard to give you advice, since it's an easy answer with one big road block. Taking Cooches advice I skimmed through your posts to get a better feel about you. RPW is a good place to look at the dating world with the eyes of a grounded adult. And the truth is, that not a lot of woman in todays world actually understand the mindset of men. Your questions hint that you're looking at the world with the eyes of a teenager. Men don't care if you ware makeup. Do basic grooming, don't dress like a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/16 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Want to take the next step in being the best RPW I can be - but first I need some advice with my current relationship.I have learnt a lot from this and my aim is to only LTR someone really worth while that I respect and not 'date around'. I am much happier being single and alone than settling for someone who isn't compatible with me. Just by this sentence alone, I'd suggest you to next the guy. It'd do you more good to pick a guy with better qualities, than stick around this one. As soon as she wanted kids and marriage and he didn't (totally reasonable after 5 years), they broke up. Do you want kids? Sometimes,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/15 10:16 PM |
| 5 | Attracting menI approve of everything you said! :3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/15 04:56 AM |
| 4 | [FR] To Have Self Esteem, Do Esteemable ThingsRPW tranquilizes the hamster I hope PETA doesn't get the wrong idea! XD | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/15 05:53 PM |
| 1 | The metamorphosis of our pregnancy plans.Primary interest on TRP happens to focus on simply obtaining sex because that's what most of the users are interested in (at least initially). You're right. This bias made me think that there is no advice for picking a good female partner. I stand corrected. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/15 12:20 AM |
| 1 | The metamorphosis of our pregnancy plans.Well MGTOW and RP don't exactly give tips on how to pick good women beyond sex. Ah Sexual Revolution, how I laugh and cry at the though of you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/15 12:00 AM |
| 6 | The metamorphosis of our pregnancy plans.I still stand by this. You can always set expectations for your woman if she wants to stay at home longer. You want home cooked meals? You want a clean house? You want her to be frugal? You're free to negotiate this if you're going to be pulling extra hours. Actually, you're free to demand it. I think the RP men would advise you to hold frame for the frugal part. She can't have everything. She will have to sacrifice something. And she should get used to it, because babies aren't cheap. Either sh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/15 11:53 PM |
| 8 | The metamorphosis of our pregnancy plans.I absolute refuse to support another capable adult for more than a year. Hot dayum, that feminist brainwashing is strong! Look, congrats! You're going to be a father. But, guess what? A child is not a puppy dog. Do you really think you'll be able to work and take care of a baby/toddler at the same time? Biologically, you're designed to be a problem solver! An efficient problem solver, but bad multitasker. Do you think the child will just sit there and let you focus on your job? Highly unlikely. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/15 10:46 PM |
| 6 | How to Conduct Myself in a Lady-Like MannerI'm no pro and I use these things for normal interactions. Some of the vids I'll link you are somewhat business oriented, but they work in all sorts of social interactions. I don't think you can change the situation per se, but helping yourself build a better "poker face" is useful in many ways(make sure your poker face is a kind and gentle expression). Keep it Professional You're lucky in the fact that you only have to work with this woman. Do not try and make friends with her. I'd say keep you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/15 08:55 PM |
| 5 | Things not to do this Christmas season."actually kill you" or "literally kill themselves" Not sure if potential trigger warning or micro-aggression! щ(ಥДಥщ) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/15 09:15 AM |
| 8 | Boyfriend doesn't want to get married until he's older, I don't want to waste too much time...My boyfriend pursued a relationship with me with the intent that I be his girlfriend. Girlfriend. Not potential wife. "Men orbit by throwing out commitment, without voicing they're really doing it to get sex (even lying to themselves)" Men will date you, have a committed relationship with you, not cheat on you and still not want to marry you. But he says he doesn't plan on marriage anytime soon. Too vague. Is he taking about marriage in general or marriage with you? I'm not asking (or suggesting… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/15 09:01 AM |
| 6 | How do I compliment my man?It took me a bit to get used to too. My SO actually told me that I don't compliment him enough. So I had to work on it more actively. You probably have times when you stare at your man and think that he's handsome or hot. Don't just think it, say it out loud. I tend to compliment body language as well. If my SO does something "manly" I'd point it out to him. He gets happy and I get him doing more "manly" gestures that I find hot on a more regular basis. win/win for the both of us :P | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/15 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Is it normal to feel embarrassed by your significant other? How much should I ignore those feelings?Welcome fellow geek/nerdling! Points fingers and blames you for everything trolololol * Nah, I can't help but go into empathy land tho. I think your reaction is biological. Certain beta qualities just make a woman not attracted to a man, no matter how well they get along otherwise. Heard of the "friend zone"? A very similar power dynamic. Embarrassment is a reaction you get for several different reasons. Biological, like I mentioned above and social. It seems to me that you have friends outside … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/15 12:01 AM |
| 3 | Married women, what was your husband's proposal like?We discussed marriage from the beginning of our relationship. We are extremely long distance, so when we traveled to see each other it was to see how compatible we were living together. When I was in America we went to buy the ring together. We found a ring we liked that came with a set (necklace, earrings, wristband, ring). The whole thing costed about 500$. Which is still a ton considering he was still in college at that time. He took the ring and kept it with him for the next week or two. And… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/15 06:25 PM |
| 4 | Oneitis over someone at workCan confirm. This works like a charm. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/15 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Need a lot of general relationship advice. Throw the RPW book at me now because I definitely need it.Haha, I don't think I qualify to be a therapist! But, I'm glad I could be of some help. I had gone through similar experiences a few years back, so I know what being a validation seeking mess looks like. :P You and C seem to be getting along fine. She might just be comfortable with that amount of exchange too. If you're dealing with an introvert, small talk might not be what she responds to. Perhaps you could ask her about her hobbies to see if she opens up. Introverts tend to go for hobbies tha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/15 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Need a lot of general relationship advice. Throw the RPW book at me now because I definitely need it.I'm new so you can take my advice with a grain of salt. :) But a sneaking part of me worries that I'm not forbidden fruit anymore, and that was a lot of the draw. The chase...and now that I'm committed the interest is waning. Then I think I'm just convincing myself of things to feel less guilty. There is a chance you're grasping so hard to make up for the past. That you're coming off as "clingy", it's not attractive and might be the reason for his low stamina. I also have a worry that so much of… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/15 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Tampon tax: an immoral anachronism or feminist histrionics?Oh, I thought tampons were too phalic and a sign of opression!?! D: You know, things like... this tweet...? "The Tampon is a MALE invention designed to OPPRESS women into RAPING themselves and spending their hard-earned money." I don't think the tax is a big deal, tho. Nor do I think "morality" has anything to do with it either. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/15 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Should we break up?I did not give the best years of my life to someone else. I am a better version of myself now than when I was 17. Sorry, but literally looks aren't everything and even they were, I'm very attractive now and regularly get mistaken for 19-20. I've gotten as young as 13 which is odd, but whatever. Coming from someone who is worried about "wasting time" and hitting "the wall"? At 25 no less... Also, I come from a big family; I am very in shape and have all the indicators of fertility that men find s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/15 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Simple QuestionsNot married yet, but engaged. We discussed marriage and divorce in detail before he proposed. In our world there is no such thing as a "No fault divorce". We reject the concept fully. Cheating would be a reason for divorce, but neither of us are the type. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/15 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Closing the distance - need some level-headed thinkingI was thinking the same thing about her constant need for the "spark". It's just a chemical reaction girl. Not the universe telling you he's the one. lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/15 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Should we break up?I'm getting mixed feelings about what you're saying. I have a basic understanding of what your boyfriend wants or doesn't want in the long run. But, your wants and needs are confusing. So, prior to meeting this man you didn't want kids and you were working on becoming pretty self sufficient as well. In what point in time did you start worrying about "the wall"? Before or after you started dating him? And while I'm all for wanting to improve and be a better partner. You have to first invest in th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/15 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Desperate for help to show my boyfriend I care about him and respect him.Thanks for the read! :) I was a teen in my first relationship, pretty green around the ears. Despite the fact that I read a book about dating that closely mirrors the philosophy of the RPW and took it to heart. You know, more about improving your inner character rather than focusing on outer looks(not that it's not important). My first relationship was a long-distance relationship, just like the one I'm in now(I enjoy playing games, so there's where I meet men I can relate to the most). We were … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/15 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Desperate for help to show my boyfriend I care about him and respect him.Been lurking here for a little bit and saw your post. Made an account just to add in my 5 cents. I might as well be projecting and I realize I won't ever know or understand your situation fully. With that being said, I think this relationship will hurt you in the long run. This boy you're dating is nothing more than a boy. He isn't close to being a man and sounds like he's not ready to start being one anytime soon. What I understand about men is that if they really WANT to do something they will… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/15 09:10 PM |
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