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So you don't hold any position on abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:52 AM
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Are you pro life btw?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:11 AM
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Exactly, either you make massive change to your current SMV with self improvement or you go to another country to resolve this. In some cases you may have to do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:08 AM
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Tend to think you are better served to seek international dating, you are 26 you have played this game it hasen't worked out. Why do you think anything would change or hope something to change. Seek it outside of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:03 AM
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Don't disagree, i just think women instinct is to emotionalize statements more frequently. Humans are definitely emotional beings, but men and women tend get to process logic and emotion differently. I tend to think based on science and beheavior studies women instinct to consider information from emotional standpoint first than use logic. Men tend to read or hear something their instinct it is to use logic then emotionalize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:57 AM
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I was much more liberal in my younger days, but never feminist ally. I was very much liberal in the sense believing class issues rather than gender or race issues. Believed the biggest issue in society was rich vs poor, treating inequality was best served by treating from an economic standpoint. Realized that feminism, identity politics, and wokism will always be preferred over class issues on the left. Just like the corporate elites would like it to be. I think i have become more socially conse…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:50 AM
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Okay i am kinda confused are you talikng about the title or the body. In the title he is talking about how man are shamed for having standard. Which is different; in general in society it is acceptable to shame men for having standard and are seen as misognist and hating women. His point it is having standard does not make him a bad person or misognist. That is the main point he is trying to get across.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:24 AM
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if you meet a great woman but she has a high bodycount you should put your feelings aside It is not a choice, it is like telling you should find a guy you don't find attractive. Be attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:11 AM
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The difference i notice he is talking about his personal experience, where he himself is being discussed. Different from general discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:05 AM
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Female and male brain have been studied at adolescent, where there is a difference in volume. Which lead to a slight variance in size of the hippocampus and agoylmedia. Developmental psychology has also studied behavioral differences between boys and girls. Anyway we are getting off topic, i cited a specific example PPD discussion being emotionalized, the point was not talk about differences between male and female.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:59 AM
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Men instinct is logic than emotion, Women instinct is emotion than logic. If you look at the profession men and women go into shows this, even in countries like Sweden other leading feminist countries. There is also a difference between female and male brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:59 AM
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I don’t see it, he is alluding to his personal life and other subreddits do not see how that stems from discussion of body count on PPD. Also his main point caring about a women body count does not make him a terrible or a misogynist. I read that a couple of times tbh, maybe you can explain to me how you came to your conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:49 AM
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Okay shouldn’t be hard for you link a thread then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:26 AM
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Monogamy is high standard for non traditional women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:23 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16b45mv/bullying_women_to_lower_their_standards/ Threads like this and posts that state “Men are telling women to lower their standard.” Stems from emotionalism. When men talk about women high standard, they are coming from a place of discussion and state how things are. That is logical discussion. Women emotionally interpret this “Men are telling women to lower their standards.” ​ We talk about body count a lot, but you don’t see men creating t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:19 AM
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It’s not that they don’t want it easy. They’d rather not waste their time with someone their other compatible. Men are just desperate and want any women to be with. Women are indirect, this is women game and communication. They are not like men to explicitly state their preferences. It also serves no purpose for women to be direct because they dont approach men or initiate things. They dress up and show up. Men should raise their expectations and then they’d have a better idea of their partner. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:01 AM
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Are women capable of debating without making things personal and emotional? Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:47 AM
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I use a tablet, because the biggest advantage is a sim card and internet connectivity. You can turn your phone into a mobile hotspot, but the connectivity is not ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:30 PM
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Don't You guys keep saying reproduction is a woman's choice. You know their body their choice. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16apm03/i_dont_blame_deadbeat_fathers_as_much_as_women/ So how isn't the responsibility not on the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:16 PM
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Your body, your choice remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:46 PM
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IDK, he used others negative emotions to fuel him. All humans motivation for change is either move away from pain or move toward pleasure. Moving away from pain is stronger motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:07 PM
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He used it as revenge, he was so petty that he would let them know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:59 PM
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I do not see the west collapsing, sure other countries might get ahead. But that is natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:56 PM
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Michael Jordan would look for articles and quotes that would hate on him, and he would use it as motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:46 PM
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Males never claim the lack of simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:44 PM
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Pretty sure you misunderstand others argument. Them bringing up the argument against medical abortions, it is show your lack of self awareness and how your argument against financial abortion mirrors pro life argument. It just reads as trying to have your cake and eat it too. Some of you are really hopeless and far lacking self awareness unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:42 PM
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It is true though, there tends to be lack of empathy for men because they are deemed to be privileged. But in reality this is skewed by by greater male variability. Also there is other biological and evolutionary reasons, but PPD believe it is junk science and science denier no point bring up those explanations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:02 PM
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Men empathy for women comes from being the stronger sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:41 PM
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How awful you were objectified like that king.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:09 PM
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6
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:48 AM
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Nah, here is my reasoning which i just replied to someone else. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/169yzyo/comment/jz6we2e/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:31 AM
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Men and women are different, relatively women tend to experience higher smv in their younger age, men tend to have higher SMV as they get older. Religion and traditionalism had system; Where women were encouraged to settle down early and they were deprived of exploring their sexual options at their peak of SMV, in exchange men were encouraged to suppress their options once they get older. We don’t live in that society anymore, your opinion that he is wrong and immoral is just your slanted women …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:27 AM
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What you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:59 AM
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You guys can be mad at him all you want, but you guys are in no position to shame him or think to be morally superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:43 AM
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You increase your carbs; another serving of oats and rice will not make much of a difference in spending. One more serving of protein powder. $100 a week on food is not a lot, if you are avoiding eating out and such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:41 PM
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Pro bodybuilders have sponsorship, but for most bodybuilders they eat boring. Chicken breast, rice, eggs, oats, vegetables, protein supplement, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:48 PM
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Nah you don't need paternity testing just avoid hoes and promiscuous women. Like most men throughout history has done.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:41 PM
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But I wouldn’t push back about dishes by the sink. Why do you think even if he did that, the issue would not be something else at that point? She would move the goalpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:18 PM
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And this is important: Telling a man something that doesn’t make sense to him once, or a million times, doesn’t make him “know” something. Right or wrong, he would never feel hurt if the same situation were reversed so he doesn’t think his wife SHOULD hurt. That is the thing though a lot of things a man does is thankless, things like waking up 5am in the morning to shovel the snows and clearing the snow off the car or any other labor work around the house. Man are expected to do these things, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:07 PM
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QFA: Why does mating(romantic partner) jealousy exist? I obviously i know the answer, but would like to hear your guys answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:21 AM
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Imagine admitting that all these millions of women dont want me, Say that is true, why should they feel shame for stating the truth? They would have more dignity for lying and being delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:30 AM
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Same and it is also very inefficient. Close to 10 tends to be optimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:16 AM
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Thanks for clarifying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:04 AM
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Women here have said this so many times though; ”compatible in bed.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:52 PM
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Clooney is a 9 because he is a A list celebrity though, he wouldn’t be a 9 if no one knew about him and random guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:50 PM

I'll answer for Mr. Possum, "A thicker version of Lizzo."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:11 AM
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Imo those who want kids they will have kids, because for them having kids is part of the life experience they want to have Those financial incentives will only help those who want kids to have kids earlier, but those people would have had done so at some point anyway. That is what most data suggests, it only speed up the process to have kids in their timeline, doesn't support evidence that they will have more or those that don't wan't kids would want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:43 AM
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Seems so, no point trying to incentive. The human race will be just fine without them. I want kids, I see as special experience that is greater than oneself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:39 AM
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Having kids is an emotional decision not a rational one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:15 AM
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You give them all that, they will still not wants kids. Reality is once all those needs are meet, their selfish interests will aim for more leisure and better conditions. Those condition comes at the cost of sharing resources and time with their offspring. It won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:06 AM
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So what is the problem? If that is what you want; you are not even at admitting you have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:10 PM
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Here is a test in case; i think if your face is really at the extreme it will be extremely hard. Especially since it will effect your confidence. https://attractivenesstest.com/blog/Statistics%20of%20the%20results
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:05 PM
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2/10 seem awfully low assessment is it possible you have BDD? Do you have a comp of a celebrity or athletes you look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:25 PM
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Give me your stats. Height? fitness? income? facial look?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:16 PM
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Although Canada, UK, and US are very similar from cultural standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:14 PM
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I have known people who were so focused on a scale number, thinking it was going to be ideal but didn't turn out that way. The healthier approach was a body composition of low body fat and muscle gain. Consider losing this scale number obsession, if your goal is to be healthy and beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:11 PM
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I completely believe you believe that due to the type of men you have dealt with. Reality? every article suggest one should avoid talking about their past sexual history, surveys admitting they have lied about their sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:01 AM
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That says a lot about and your partners, most guys do not enjoy their GF talking about getting fucked from behind. ‘The majority men and women avoid talking about their sexual history. This is not something you can disagree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:43 AM

If he was a LTR that is rare, most women avoid talking about their exes especially going into detail because indirectly they know this would be uncomfortable and off putting. ‘Most men will reject a women due to her sexual past at the backend or for LTR. Most guys do not care for casual sex, because it is low investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:27 AM

So with a romantic partner you go in detail about how you and your ex “had sex in a car for example,” “how you or him gave each oral” etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:10 AM

Do you freely talk in detail talk about past sexual experience with a current partner? Like in detail not “I dated”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:01 AM

But why do you think that is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:39 AM

They’re so fucking annoying and nobody but religious people and people who make being a virgin part of their personality even give a fuck irl Why do you think only those men care?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:26 AM
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Average men get lusted by below average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:37 PM
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Lizard brain cares about reproduction and paternity, lizard brain doesn’t see the utility of anal. No one gets pregnant from anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:32 PM
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No man, my male brain is acting on an ancient world and reproduction level. He doesn’t know better. 100 men who had anal is a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:28 AM
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My male brain telling me the latter, but i am going with the first option.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:20 AM
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The penis being shaped to scoop something also might be an evidence of men sharing women. Hold on how is the penis being shaped to scoop support this As I've said from species point of you, it doesn't really matter whether this particular man passes his genes or not. What does matter is the survival of the offspring and in this context having many people providing for kids is more beneficial. ​ The penis being shaped to scoop support evidence male competition to pass their gene, they cared to pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:46 AM
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Come from a Muslim family, my parents religious but never pushed it on me. I slowly stopped, i was too much of a trouble maker in school. My religion was the least of their concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:44 PM
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Is he really autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:38 PM
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Is he really autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:38 PM
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He posted his pictures so many times, not sure if he was hideous looking. But he looked odd. That is just the truth unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:35 PM
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Man caught his wife cheating Perfect example how cucked Reddit is. Woman: My husband didn’t do the dishes. Reddit: Divorce him ​ Man: Caught his wife cheating with another man. Reddit: Hold on a second have a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:58 PM
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You are the one who posted an argument and counter argument both presented by yourself. Clearly someone hurt you, who was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:35 PM
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Not being soft it is impossible scenario; kinda like saying the average men would dump his average girlfriend for a $1Billion. Yeah he likely will, sure there is also pie in the sky. Every women i have attracted have been at my level, men don't really attract a women with higher SMV. Why would a 10 women show interest on a 5 Men? A much more attractive men would show interest in a women below his level for sex which is a low investment on his part. Your scenario defies reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:26 PM
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Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:14 PM
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Lol shitting on the average men for a hypothetical and impossible scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:07 PM
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Only losers and men with no standard would deal with such women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:43 AM
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I think one can naturally have sympathy for someone who experience pain and suffering. But i also think it is important to have a dialogue about choices that could have prevented it, but no one wants to talk about that or hear about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:39 AM
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Isn't generally bloodwork recommended every 6 months? So every 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:27 AM
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nice women speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:11 AM
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Very rugged and older looking face despite his age during the show. Sounds like you don't know the character. Which is not a problem, surprising no one here has seen the show though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:11 AM
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Simon Baker definitely is much conventionally attractive, Dominic West like i mentioned wasn't old unless you consider early 30s to be old. I can't imagine his face being much different even in his 20s. He just has a very rugged looking face. Jimmy Mcnulty is very charismatic and endearing character on the wire, very popular among women audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:08 AM
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Who says they are? My point if they don't like the current game, play another game which is abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:55 PM
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agreed, my post is a miss i was hoping people here had actually seen the show. He is in early to mid 30s in the show, he doesn't have a young looking face. But his character and demeanor is much more youthful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:49 PM
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I think he always had that very older look to him. A lot of women audiences think he is extremely attractive. If you haven't seen the wire you would miss a lot of the contexts of his charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:42 PM
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Early 30s at the time of the show The Wire, considered one of the greatest tv shows ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:15 PM
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Rate this guy, Jimmy McNulty aka bushy top ​ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:23 PM
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Some maybe. I am just saying logically, it is a supply and demand. You either compete in the current game or play another game(international).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:12 PM
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Some maybe judgmental, but that doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:48 PM
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First of all i don't necessarily blame them or apply to all women, because from a young age a lot men shoot their shot wanting to have sex with them. This gets to their head that they can't differentiate that some men want them for just sex, they can't differentiate a men standard for sex and relationship. Men tend to have higher standard for relationship. Comparatively a much more attractive men will want to have sex with a woman who he views lower attractive than him, but doesn't mean he will …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:25 PM
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Why the double standard? Why not just self improve to get the women you actually want Or passport bro. You can get a much better looking women abroad. Like anything in life you either play the game, you don't, or you play another game. I think the issue tend to be women demanding high standard yet they themselves be underserving of such demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:52 PM
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Those male celebrities have status which women are attracted to, Taylor Swift status as an International musical singer does nothing for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:46 AM
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Bro what happen to your usual signature at the end of your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:06 AM
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I am definitely not dick about it, i have my preferences and standard for myself and who i chose to enter a relationship with. Doesn't mean i want to enforce my belief and standard on others that they should also view it that way. That responsibility sounds exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:56 AM
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I don't know i see a lot more blackpills lol. There is hardly discussions about AF/BB, hypergamy for example. When it comes to discussions about what women are attracted to the consensus tends to be looks, looks, and looks. While RP tend to argue looks, status, money, and social tend to be what women are attracted to like a pie chart.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:48 AM
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Evolutionary criteria isn’t a bad thing if guys do it? Both men and women can have their preferences/ criteria, it is completely fine. Mentioning women height and NT preferences was to counter the argument and point out the blind spot of those that view n count/sexual past as dehumanizing but can’t see how height and ND is also dehumanizing in that same sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:27 AM
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Personally casual or ONS has never appealed to me, I simply do not have the mental makeup to seek that. Always been LTR minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:06 AM
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No, it is inherent evolutionary repulsion. But that is beside the point, sounds like you see it as insecurity. Women also have height preference in men, preferring above average height in men. In fact they tend to have many more criteria. Below average men in height also love sex too, yet I doubt you would scold women for their preferences. So ND men too, they make it abundantly clear they also love sex on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:00 AM
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Just because you don’t find them attractive doesn’t mean you don’t see them as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:34 AM
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Why do women here keep telling men to lower their standard and they should not care about a women sexual past. How does one force themselves to not care and be attracted to these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:45 AM
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I already acknowledge that. But keep going with useless accusations. ​ Nature already provides the first draft of the world, but doesn't mean it is the final draft of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:50 PM
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This is a useless post to deny that truths exists, attempt to shutdown my argument.. For a long time humans believed in the blank slate, now we don't because there is enough evidence where we can pinpoint behaviors down to the specific DNA. My point is we know much more about humans behaviors and psychology, academia is infested with activism which is a detriment of learning and progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:36 PM
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It is quite funny to see how the religious right were against evolution, denying physical and structural evolution. Nowadays it is the left who deny evolution, they don't deny physical evolution but deny behavioral evolution. You can't believe in evolution with acknowledging behavioral, it makes no sense. It is like believing Giraffe have long necks but there is no behavioral associated with it. It makes no sense, academia do not disagree when it comes to behavioral evolution when it comes to an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:14 PM
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It just means they were selected to be part of the survey, not the other way around. If Pew Research called you randomly to take part in a survey, that would be a cold call. If you gave them your info and requested to be part of the survey that would be a warm call.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:34 AM
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I also worked with her, personally i never saw others touching waitress inappropriately. It was family restaurant/diner though. I am sure it happens, how frequently who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:16 AM
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No i don't feel guilty about it, i thought it was normal. We were going out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:00 AM
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Yes many times. In my defense she was asking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:57 AM
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I think there will be, politics has nothing to do with competency or ideas. Biden is president, because the political ecosystem and establishment rallied behind him. That dude has no idea what is going on most of the time. What a fuck up by Hilary Clinton losing to Trump, saw an analysis of her misstep her biggest mistake was not campaigning hard enough in swing states. She spent way too much time campaigning in states where she was going to win anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:58 AM
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What you think the margin of error is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:05 AM
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For something to be true, doesn't mean it has to apply to "all". Variability certainly exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:18 PM
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I think the most bizarre thing around here, is people denying generalities and patterns of human behaviors. Kinda like believing every human being is unique and special.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:57 PM
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It was almost 3 weeks before i turned 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:45 PM
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What is bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:30 PM
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The Coddling of the American Mind by Jonathan Haidt is one of the best books in recent years. Too many people are uncomfortable with any ideas or views that challenges them, any views that they disagree with is because the other side is evil or morally questionable characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:14 PM
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Not a women; but people like you and others simply don't understand PPD. It is not a place for advice it is for discussions and debate. Stop emotionalizing. PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex, relationship and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:08 PM
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Generally yes, doesn't mean it was exclusive. Doesn't mean men exclusively worked on the field, women exclusively did domestic duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:57 PM
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Potential to create a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:36 PM
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Are you dismissing the belief traditional relationship is one where where the man works to bring in the resources while women are primary responsible for domestic duties?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:26 PM
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Further evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:03 PM
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The irony claiming others not be adjusted, yet themselves making unhinge statements about others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:52 PM
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Everyone wears a mask and omit information.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:41 PM
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Need is irrelevant, the average white guy is pulling a much less attractive women though. Passport bros would rather date a much hotter women overseas than an average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:43 PM
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Says woke feminist. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:26 PM
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https://www.meetup.com/ Here is a website and there are other similar websites where people meet to socialize around hobbies or professional interests. I swear if i hear one of you dumbasses complain about how to meet people, there is literally no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:22 PM
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Not a women; i'll be brutally honest. She doesn't see the guy in the "friendzone" as a man, she sees him a asexual being not fuckable material.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:34 PM
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What is your goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:25 PM
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Thanks for proving my point, if your example is Blackpillers/incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:24 PM
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Reddit is liberal/leftist cesspool, they consider themselves to be morally superior and charitable than religious people. Yet every statistics show that religious people tend be much more charitable and involved in the community helping others. liberals are only generous with others people money and time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:06 PM
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This is not true. women state their preferences everyday, cricket no problem. Men state their preferences; it is body shaming, slut shaming, grooming, etc. This is a ridiculously shit take.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:39 PM
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Accepting things sometimes are one of the most difficult lessons in life unfortunately. You have no control over your height, what is the alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:51 PM
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valid points, but that says positive things about the child not the parents. I generally think life is very precious and worth living. But i have limited belief who should be able to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:40 PM
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You can be confident despite being short though, accept it and own it. You can't change your height, you can change what you drive your self worth though. " I am short, but i am charismatic, funny, confident, etc." The more insecure you are about your height, the bigger deal it becomes. Just to be clear everyone has insecurities, it is fine but managing it is very important. Like i said it is a hinderance, but a bigger deal if you allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:35 PM
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No hate, in fact i can respect child free women more than those women who have kids just to check a box.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:13 PM
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It is a hinderance, but like you said being insecure is a huge turn off. So the best thing is to own it, and compensate it with above average confidence, social skills, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:00 PM
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i think there are way too many selfish and irresponsible people, they shouldn't be having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:54 AM
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I think it is a good thing less people are having kids, in fact more shouldn't. There are way too many people that shouldn't be reproducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:36 AM
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They really don’t state anything that has not been widely been stated or accepted before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:35 PM
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TRP is absolutely correct telling men who don’t have a lot of their shit not together to work on self improvement and understand women together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:17 PM
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No just add your custom flair in that box where I currently have my custom flair. https://preview.redd.it/daj6pmvewbkb1.jpeg?width=825&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ee3e0f040f44840b33e8fa20252318eebccbdd1e
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:00 PM

Nope, see you can’t help yourself by trying to misrepresent others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:47 PM

Tattoos is lame and trashy, as they say you don’t put a bumper sticker on a Ferrari/Lamborghini, Bentley, etc. IMO tattoos is there to overcompensate for lack of real depth to a person character.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:42 PM

You missed the part about misrepresenting other views.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:34 PM

Most of the posts made by PPD women/ BP on daily chat is either emotionalized or misrepresents others viewpoints, rather than debating they would rather meekly circlejerk around an argument they conjured up themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:26 PM

Sounds like you emotionalized statements or statistics that was made about single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:10 PM

Irrelevant, they won’t be clapping your cheeks if they weren’t bringing anything to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:51 AM

Exactly, so many here can’t fucking tell the difference between empathy and sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:25 PM
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Baking or cooking? which one is less gay
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:54 AM
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low effort posts that is what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:19 AM
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There is really nothing to explain, if a women is using instagram to advertise herself, which is basically what OLD does. Rather than matching with her on OLD, one can straight go into her DM.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:01 AM

“Anyone that disagrees with me are shitty people, says me a shitty person.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:15 PM
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I do not know what you are talking about, you seem interested in misrepresenting others opinion and basically argue against others view you created in your tiny head. Not interested, have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:38 PM
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Why would you assume i am frustrated? I know what you are trying to do. Blame me for poorly constructed and biased opinion piece. He literally states it verbatim, read the first paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:26 PM
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Dancing monkey is the phenomenon, is that men generally do much more work than women in the initial process. They are not talking about being a dancing monkey regarding the same women. They are talking about going through the same dance in the dating process. Initiate, approach, plan, and also deal with women games, flakiness, etc. They are not saying every women behaviors are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:07 PM
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​ That you shouldn’t make arguments about about the dating process from the assumption that women are a monolithic, judgmental, lazy group who do not have an investment in the outcome. Funny when the OP basically makes the assumption women are always good, and men are bad. OP is saying dancing monkeys are boring men who are engaging with uninterested women. That no other explanation. The irony in all this is how unaware and judgemental you are and claim to be reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:56 PM
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haram
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:21 AM
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Brad Pitt, Leonardo DiCaprio and Johnny drop all looked way better when they were younger and had baby faces. Says you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:10 AM
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Most people defines things by their actions, not whatever you claimed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:58 PM
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So how do they become a passport bro without leaving the house and getting to an airport?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:19 PM
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I am always amazed by women bias, like they are incapable seeing anything objectively. If she said she didn't want date him, that is fine but the issue is this "Why are we playing this game, where we are supposed to volunteer ourselves for every single person: autistic, broke, short, now mute men want their turn." The issue is she talking for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:14 PM
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I don't get why they would say that, i am confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:25 PM
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She doesn't understand a lot of things, and misinformed about human history. This is the problem with BluePill. They think humans are some pure beings and every bad things is explained through human constructivism; jealousy, mate guarding, violence, infanticide, etc are all human constructivism. Good and evil is evolved in humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:10 PM

There is many purpose to it, you can use it to meet people with your hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:55 AM

There is a website called "meetup" look into it. Where like minded people meet. I have used for professional networking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:59 AM

Just curious how people would recommend I go about things. Meet more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:55 AM

You POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:37 AM
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The question was posed on social media, and given various social media platforms' limitations, we could only ask one question. Bearing that in mind, we chose to ask how long couples waited before getting engaged rather than married. Why? Because we felt that asking when a couple got married would have skewed the results as people wait considerably different amounts of time engaged before actually tying the knot – that’s for another poll! Whereas asking how long couples waited before getting enga…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:16 PM
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You assuming they meet around that age? Average age of women when married is 28; usually they are in relationship more than 3-5 years, and 5+ years is the most common. So….
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:53 PM
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it is not because of religion, it is due poverty. It is also practiced in similar poor Christian or Buddhism or wherever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:25 PM
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Get that sand off your vagina you will be alright, stop bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:02 PM
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Being in a marriage, where the mother can focus on family and their kids. Children early years has a huge effect on their development for the rest of their lives. Giving your kids the much needed warmth and security is one of the most selfless things you could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:43 PM
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Men get fuckzoned too, usually when a women doesn’t think he has a future that will give her long term security.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:57 PM
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Don’t feminist claims 75-90% of women have been sexually assaulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:42 PM
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A lot of the well known feminist in the media, are definitely in the pockets of corporations. Smart by them, keep the left focused on gender and political identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:39 PM
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The age gap discussions is illogical and it is just Ageism. There is good or bad dudes in the their 20s, 30s. 40s, etc. There is no data to prove an older men wanting to date a younger attractive women is likely to harm her, in fact the bigger the age gap the more likely a women files for divorce or cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:27 AM
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There are major cities, where a lot of those smaller cities is considered part of it. For example Tampa, there are so many smaller cities in that area it would be just easier to say Tampa.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:38 AM
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Most Americans are much more socially conservative than the typical leftist here on reddit, social media, and the media focuses on. Or the democrats cater too. I am not political, i don't like either parties. But imo democrats would do far better if they were not so far left socially. On the other hand Republicans would do much better if they were not so far right on economic and social programs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:48 AM
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No it doesn’t; root is the beginning; repressing sexuality and controlling is what comes after the root.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:45 PM
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That definitely doesn’t explain the root of why controlling women sexuality, that is the effect not the cause. You are skipping the root.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:17 PM
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It is widely accepted hypothesis. Virtually every culture across the world, even those that never were in contact all had this purity preference in women. It is rooted in biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:12 PM
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It is an evolutionary instinct, it was evolved in men to ensure paternity certainty. The consequences of selecting a women who is carrying an offspring is wasted time and resource for their imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:51 PM
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There was a time a guy saying he was going to watch barbie, was gay asf.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:41 PM
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I hate when there is a tap option for tips, when I am just there to pick up my food.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:38 PM
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How long is the flight?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:34 PM
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Sure those statements do happen, but they tend to be in the context of gender competency, wars, or such things. women across the internet do make generalizations about men nature, yet misandrist is not a thing and it will never be a thing because men do not care. Just like there will never be an equivalent of feminism. Not saying others will not counter the argument, but it comes from a place of discussion and debate, not an attack on them personally. Such some posters talk about misandry it ten…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:21 PM

The most popular example: Calling them out for wanting Stacy. They’re fall back on most guys not pursuing Stacy rather than acknowledging they themselves choose to pursue a specific type of women. Have you considered this is purely your imagination and not based on reality. Most people hardly share personal information or history. Come on majority of your post is meant to trigger people. Just a series of conclusion statements, while offering no premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:03 PM

You generalize the men here though, big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:34 PM

“men here say women are evil” I see such statements, but there is no evidence for any or the vast majority of the people don’t think that. The issue is you believe women are moral beings and your attraction is based on what is most moral. That is not the case, men attraction to women is not on the rule of morality. It is based on what looks the best. Another issue tend to be why most discussions go nowhere is because women see their identity through their gender. Men do not, this is why men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:28 PM
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Negotation I think this is what some guys hope dating was like, negotiated everything upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:59 AM
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What if they are also waiting 15 minutes before continuing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:37 AM
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Thanks for the tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:31 AM
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Didn't know that, it maybe something else. it was shocking, i didn't know where the sound was coming from initially. I didn't notice a facial change.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:28 AM
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I was kinda surprised, i thought people would be more patient with him knowing his condition. Seriously props to him for having a job and being an adult despite that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:23 AM
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I was at Publix earlier, the guy who was making the sandwich had Tourette syndrome. He was making this involuntary loud and frequent sounds, first time coming across anyone with Tourette. Some of the ingredients was not prepared so others were waiting, you could see others being annoyed by the sounds and i guess i was too unintentionally. Saw him a bit latter, he was visibly frustrated. Felt really bad for him. Must really suck when others are annoyed by you by something you have no control over…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:06 AM
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TBF if those guys are not in the peak at an earlier age, either they improve themselves to their peak or they decide to terminate themselves. What other alternative is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:53 AM
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Those guys don't care, i recall his bro Mike M was dating a pornstar. Not the type to care about his or the women reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:50 AM
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Is having a car going to help seeing each other more frequently? if not, i don't see how it would do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:32 AM
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Depends on what you measure success. Confidence, outgoing and charisma will always be more successful when it comes to casual dating. The best looking guy i knew was in college, he was a introvert just like you describe, was in a LTR. His girlfriend was okay looking, he was definitely the objectively better looking partner. I ultimately think charisma, outgoing, and confidence is more preferred.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:28 AM
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You have no control over others feeling. You don't need to feel bad and i wish you don't. You also don't owe anyone empathy or compassion if you don't have any to give. I made a general statement, there are men here who are struggling with neurological disorders and i believe this place is a terrible place for their mental health because this place could add unnecessary stress to their issues. I guess my parents taught me if you have nothing to give, you could always give empathy and compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:10 AM
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Maybe look for a suga momma. Get that bag king.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:35 AM
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How old are you and are you good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:31 AM
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Were you hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:22 AM
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Everyone needs compassion and empathy, this is a sad statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:09 AM
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Why did you respond to this guy? If this guy is actually struggling, this is not another time to be sociopath ridditor. You don't owe him compassion, but if you have nothing it is better not to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:06 AM
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I think if there is anyone that is struggling with mental health or looking for compassion this place PPD is probably one of the worst to be at. I would advice to remove yourself from this unhealthy place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:56 AM
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A lot of people here do have anti-social personality, like i said in my other post seek a support group. You seem to be having a hard time, don't take things here seriously or avoid this sub try seeking other subs i don't know maybe they would be better and can help if you need to talk to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:52 AM
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Reddit is not a place to come for help, I think you should seek family, friends, or support group. You will find much more compassion there, there is no compassion on this sub. There is no guarantee of results, you have to find a happy life for yourselves and women are cherry to a happy life you already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:39 AM
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Unfortunately they won't care, you are just FantasticScale3062 with no face or a human with emotion. This is how a lot of people on reddit see each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:28 AM
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Reddit is a terrible place to try to get help, most people here are sickos. For PPD women this post of yours is like porn to their life. Can i ask what is help looks like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:19 AM

Because it tends to have more conservative users. Not sure if you noticed Reddit is full of liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:20 AM

I disagree with the women there is something wrong with him, i don't know that. In my opinion that issue is scarcity mindset and he probably invested too much and had high anticipation. leading up to the date. We have a saying in sales, hopium is dangerous. Sometime sales reps think they have this appointment that they will make money and think the appointment is a sure thing. Sales doesn't happen or the appt gets cancelled, they feel devasted because they expected too much. His issue is not men…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:11 AM

The problem with the internet is that it incentivize craziness. Views, upvotes, retweet, likes, favs, etc all encourage people to be crazier to get more attention. It is absolutely unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:00 AM

I always get a kick out of when i see a video that it requires a bystander to intervene. You have this one lady in the video "shouting someone do something." And i am like lady, you are someone yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:57 PM

I get the sense you don't like FNF. Get your emotion and bias in check if this going to go anywhere. Why you think it was intentional. It is very likely his emotion got the better of him as he rolled the film. Here is the thing western society has freaking muddled gender identity and saying men and women are different it is fucking treason. You are making a huge assumption based one clip that this guy has mental issues, men can have moment of weakness. You don't know the person or anything about…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:41 PM

Fully agree, that he should not posted this. I guess our disagreement regarding that is that you think he intended to break down like that, while i think he overcame with emotion while filming. Like you said we self protect, i am with you. You can't show emotion, because frankly no one cares. Why do you think his friends would care? Women show vulnerability all the time, i have many female colleague who think i am their therapist. I mean i do not enjoy listening to them, but i am just a guy who …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:29 PM

Honestly a stupid take by him. "I don't know as I don't know anything about the person" Yet he concluded there is seriously wrong with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:09 PM

He was very disappointed, went through a lot to prepare, and got stood up. He got much more emotional as the video on, i don't think he intended to get that emotional. Moment of weakness. I don't think there is underlying issue, in fact there is a huge gap to lead to that conclusion. I don't think he should have posted this, because weakness is not accepted from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:06 PM

They are showing this to prevent men from thinking this is okay. Society tells men that women and men are the same, there is no gender, that men and women are the same, 50/50, all that Blue Pill bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:01 PM

BluePill-" game is manipulation and misogny"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:50 PM

agreed not that hard to be a comedian, millionaire, podcaster, and have a Netflix special. Do better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:43 PM

viral clip of lonely man revealed their true female nature You have to have your shit together all the time, this is why it is important to tell man they can't show any emotion or they going to be perceived weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:35 PM

I personally don't, i think that belief comes from a lack of anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:45 PM

6 and 10 most confident. 4 seems like the most obvious, but is actually wearing makeup. Hard to tell. I think 11 is the most attractive imo. btw i am considering any form of make, including mascara.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:28 PM

Genesis is considered a luxury cars, they are in line with BMW and Benz. The latter tend to have even more higher ends like AMG and M series which is more their sports and performance line. I personally think Genesis are awesome cars; they are really smart choices that combine style and durability.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:58 PM

The car is a Genesis, not sure on the watch. Watches are very hard to tell without clear look, because there are so many watches made in similar styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:49 PM

How do one get ran through by a sprinkler?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:01 PM

Someone may need to, a lot of dissuasions here tend to be focused on more Blackpill and their way of thinking. A lot of BluePill wants to focus on that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:20 PM

The mindset is to have as a HVM is to see women as an accessory to a life you already enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:13 PM
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Average people don't see themselves as mediocre, even if objectively they are. Just the same way some people are comfortable with being fat, they accept it. I don't necessarily believe it is their best, it is the standard they accept for themselves. Everyone is different, everyone in their mind has this aspiration of the life they want. Some value heavily on career some heavily on personal life, some balance. I think a lot of addictions or unhealthy lifestyles in life are symptoms of to deal wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:43 PM
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Jimmy McNulty?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:07 PM
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I thought it was agreed, women is a byproduct of your self improvements you do for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:54 PM
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School can be hard where we feel bad about ourselves if we don't match with others. Some of us are late bloomers. Unfortunately life is a one way road, where there is no detour or going back. if we keep dwell on the past more time will pass and we end up in the same cycle. Here are some books i think may help, maybe it will spark a new outlook on life. Try to avoid places that reinforce fatalism or pessimistic view. Have a vision of where you want to be in 5 years from; write it down of what cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:56 AM
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What if there is a second option a women that desires you but you don't find attractive, in that hypothetical scenario which is option is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:17 AM
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Well i guess you either provide support or weaken the OP argument. "Women have high standard, yet they themselves do not merit such standards." I think there is validity i have seen guys with high smv willing to fuck a women that is much lower than his SMV. She starts to think they are dating, well in reality she is just fuckzoned. Now she thinks she can get with such men but in reality not even in a million years that guy or men would give her relationship or date her. That is my opinion on thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:01 AM
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Have you considered they are discussing not complaining, this is the intended purpose of this place. To discuss and debate. This place is not self help or improvement place, this is a place to discuss and debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:37 AM
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It sounds like you have it tough, and i do think these are hindering you. Sometime we need to forgive our self and some of us mature at different rate, somethings in life are just out of control. You seem self aware, not a lot of people are imo. So kudos. Biggest thing i can tell you based on your description you don't come across as someone independent and someone they can rely on. forgot women for a second, are you happy with where you are or the person you are currently?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:14 AM
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"We hold these truths to be sacred & undeniable; that all men are created equal & independent, that from that equal creation they derive rights inherent & inalienable, among which are the preservation of life, & liberty, & Getting their dicks wet by Stacies, and the pursuit of happiness; ... I wonder why they changed it 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:38 AM
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I hope this doesn't come off as insensitive, what you think your flaws are?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:20 AM
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How do you think you could change that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:14 AM
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It maybe start thinking about international dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:57 AM
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To everyone that i have interacted with or may have been upset with some of posts; i don't know you or what you maybe going through, hope you don't take anything seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:48 AM
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You want a fresh material huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:06 AM

For women? I don't think so. Women tend to be much more lower body dominant, i am not aware of many calisthenics that build lower body.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:00 AM
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Try to explain why looks matter without Evo?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:45 AM
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I am trying to see all these people that claim evolutionary psychology is BS, how they can draw any conclusion that is not based on evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:10 PM
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That Is PseUdO ScIeNce.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:08 PM
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I understand that, it is individual. So nothing to do with with evolution?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:14 PM
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So you think clowns are hot, is that what you are telling me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:12 PM
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QFA: Why do society value so much on looks? looks has no utility and purpose. (To PPD women do not emotionalize this "Men wants us to have sex ugly guys")
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:06 PM
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All this shit is disingenuous. Just say you want to fuck hot guys, enough of trying to justify your choses that it was moral. Attraction has nothing to do with morality, guys are not justifying their choices that it was moral. They are saying she had a big ass or boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:59 PM
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lol you think you are any better person if people were to judge you based online?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:36 PM
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You can't say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:10 PM
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We talk about male loneliness and unhappiness, i guess my question why do you think that is not the default for men? I went to a conference, a lot of very successful men high 6 and 7 earners most of them were married. I talked to one individual, if they ever felt like they were never good enough despite their success? It seems a lot of them face this issue and when he has talked to others. Lots of drugs, women and lavish cars, etc. I guess to reach that level what else could make a man so determ…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:07 PM
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We are losing recipes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:29 PM
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Nah give me foods from countries with oppressed women any day of the week. Like i said women like those countries foods much more, and they are made by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:23 PM
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I prefer Stacy's mom personally. Stacy is just not the girl for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:40 PM
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Women tend to like their foods much more than men, and they are probably made by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:29 PM
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​ http://www.themillennialman.com/2018/06/sharing-household-chore-secret-happy-marriage/ This is a good analysis about household sharing, women do not consider a lot of things to be part of men household duty. Seems to be the key is sharing dishes duty, proving again it comes down to making her feel, rather than objective household shares.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:28 PM
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http://www.themillennialman.com/2018/06/sharing-household-chore-secret-happy-marriage/ This is a good analysis about household sharing, women do not consider a lot of things to be part of men household duty. Seems to be the key is sharing dishes duty, proving again it comes down to making her feel, rather than objective household shares.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:27 PM
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The better a country makes food, the more traditional and attractive women tend to be. Feminist countries don't know how to cook shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:23 PM

like i said you don't address your assumption that technology has only made men more stationary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:08 PM

What is up this idea that technology has only effected men, and that men are the only one more stationary. You think women are out and social leaving their home in abundence? If guys primary rejected technology and were outside, it will be just a total sausage fest like it is online and bars/clubs. I think i get the idea BP think any guy that is not having success it must because he is inside home playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:57 PM
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Unless they agreed upon an open relationship from the beginning, Using your principle it wasn't agreed there would be be sex every 1-2months.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:22 PM
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Your best option is to leave the relationship. You don't owe anyone a relationship if you don't feel she is fulfilling her part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:08 PM
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You don't pay them for the result, you pay them for their effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:15 PM
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Not all, i can agree with that. I know one thing academia is uncomfortable with gender differences and denialism in favor of wanting to believe that everyone is the same. The theory of blank slate has been disproven, yet it is making a comeback when it comes to genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:10 PM
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Stress, overeating, addiction, fear of failures, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:00 PM
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There is so much benefits to learning about evolution; it can be major benefit to dealing with addiction, happiness, and many other mental issues. Based on everything i have read on the relation, most of our unhappiness is caused by our brain still operating at a level that was designed for a time much difference than the modern one. Important to see it for what is, can help break our terrible patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:59 PM
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WTF is this wizardry?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:52 PM
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Again proving my point, there is other areas that can't be proven yet it is not treated as such. Not accepting it is not based on proven it is based on uncomfortable. This is going nowhere. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:49 PM
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Not really there is a huge denial of biology and gender differences in academia, which is primary leftist activist. The goal of it, is that men and women are the same. Even when studies have shown very young children; there is a general asymmetry between boys and girls of toys preference and play style. Other areas when gender is not in question, there is much less pushback and more acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:41 PM
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Proved my point. "It is pseudo science because i disagree because the other side is bad intentioned."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:30 PM
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People who call evolutionary psychology pseudo science are being disingenuous and it comes from activism rather than academia. They only call it when the context is gender differences. But when it comes to overeating and many more psychology, there is much more consensus on how it relates to our brain operating on an ancient world level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:54 PM
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Paternity certainty is the main reason. It is a evolutionary mechanism to avoid the possibility of investing another's man offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:47 PM
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"Doesn't understand logical argument, everything equal is meant to keep other variables the same."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:48 PM
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You made the analogy to CEO and experience. Preference for what? Sex? Sure why not. Short relationship, long relationship,fwb or something else? I can't judge someone if she's someone I would want to be with lmao, being the town bicycle isn't enough information. The thread is about marriage or LTR monogamous relationship, why would there be any confusion of the context i am talking about? Everything equal you would prefer a high n-count women over a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:08 PM
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I will never understand the over fixation over virgins. Most Virgins are shit at sex,and because they are from weird ultra Christian backgrounds,they have a lot of hangups about it. Its like making the guy with 0 experience that was hired yesterday CEO of the company. So in your mind, the town bicycle would be your preference? She has more experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:40 PM
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Not sure about that one, i think her leggings being so high tucking the fat gives the impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:02 PM
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They are moderate feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:23 PM

Yes a decade ago absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:24 PM

Imagine being this triggered over a celebrity. She is not mid, but she is also old to play Barbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:23 PM
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Labeling others anonymous person as incels does not make your argument stronger, it has been widely known about errors in sexual behaviors survey. It is a self survey, people lie. Self survey is a trust me bro argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:14 PM

Family oriented, financially and mentally stable, reliable, leader, not frugal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:50 PM
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The left do punish traditional views of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:35 PM
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I reject the belief of existence of patriarchy, those women were also daughters to men. Who pursued to protect and and ensure their daughters future. In modern time, most people are having sex before marriage. Men don't need to wait until marriage to get sex and also due to the usage of contraceptives. They don't need to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:54 PM
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From their POV it is good material to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:58 PM
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The left fights for this to end, while the right fights for people sticking to the script and otherwise punishing them. The left also fight for their script, and they punish those that deviate from it. You assume they don't because of your tribalistic narrow view.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:41 PM
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Because marriage is a validation for women, secure a man while they age and their SMV plummets. Marriage is for women, most men would be completely okay being in a monogamous relationship without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:18 AM
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So only incels believe women are much more promiscuous? Just about every guy does, the only people that does not is those feminist dorky men. Touch grass dude. Do you really think women consider guys that slept with when drunk? or for whatever reason, their perspective of body count is subjective and however they feel about the number.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:54 AM
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How are you in school?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:30 AM
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What you think women don't pursue? LMAO Both parties seek the arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:09 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1594c92/a_lot_of_women_especially_those_on_the_younger/ Basically this thread admitting AF/BB indirectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:38 PM
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Women call it fun/stable guy or that their priorities change as they get older. Is basically the concept of AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:19 PM
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Such is life. It is kinda like saying men don't care about physical looks and they don't like extremely hot women. Because mating/marriage data suggest that they mate with women who are look match. The only conclusion you can conclude about marriage is what people settle for or end up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:51 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:09 AM
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Marriage is not good evidence, it doesn't disprove hypergamy, it only proves what they can get. What you want in life and what you get is not the same. Most women get married in their late 20s, when the SMV go down. It doesn't disprove hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:07 AM
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My first day here, i kinda get why men emotionally down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:54 AM
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The research also acknowledges that willingly changing your personality is not easy. It is still difficult to do and takes a lot of work. However, people who are motivated to change are more likely to do so. I think that is the point it is difficult to change. I think you are drawing a conclusion that i have never expressed. Your results in life is your result. I consider myself extremely accountable, i always think what i can do better. In fact i scruff at the idea of luck or unlucky. When you …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:47 AM
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Don't see " I suck at dating because my parents stayed together” Second of all, he is not talking about himself. In his example he is comparing his two set of friends. This is so common on PPD, rather than try to understand other POV they just draw their own conclusion, attempting at some online victory and get a gotcha moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:24 AM
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How do you take accountability for things you didn't have control over like your parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:56 AM
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One upbringing has the most significant impact on ones life that is a scientific fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:53 AM
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You can be accountable and recognize some things are unequivocally out of your control like your parents. By the time you hit first grade, much of you is already set. https://www.livescience.com/8432-personality-set-life-1st-grade-study-suggests.html Edit: Getting downvoted, don't care about online points. Know you are weakling coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:12 AM
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Because people even lie to themselves or it didn't count. His dick was not hard, it was quick, drunk, it meant nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:31 AM

I am not a big gamer, but i have played mobile battle royal games, most of the time guys be simping as usual. i have not seen hostility.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:57 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:00 PM

I know they aren't serious That is the point, i have no reason to be serious unless the other person gives me a reason to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:56 PM
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I am asking if feminist believe that, not all women see themselves as feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:49 PM

My advice first date should be coffee, smoothie, drinks, etc. Invest the bare minimum on the first date. The more you invest the more attached you will become. If she doesn't reciprocate, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:46 PM

Do feminism believe women have been historically oppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:41 PM

There wouldn't be feminism or gender based movement, if it wasn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:35 PM

Of course it is, feminism is that society was created for the benefit of men and that it needs to be destroyed and altered.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:33 PM

feminist see men as an oppressor and enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:51 PM

Do you think men are walking in the dark without any care?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:51 PM
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I would argue it increases perception of risk, if one perceives that one is more open to being approached perceives it as less risky. While one who has his head buried in the smartphone or listening to music one would perceive it that person is unlikely would like to be approached. Sure is men today more risk averse probably, but there are other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:52 PM
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Not only cold approaching; but people are becoming less social and spending more time on screen. A lot of the focus is how men are the issue, there is definitely truth to that but it takes two to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:23 PM

I have seen a lot of threads about how the problem that men are not approaching as they did in the past. What people have not considering is that women are just not in public as much or when in public preoccupied with their phones or headphone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:15 PM
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I have lurking mostly, notice most of the threads created here are mostly by the same people. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:21 PM
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Also a lot of people in society struggle with mental health, i think a man with mental health face much bigger consequences when it comes to dating. If you are a women? many guys will put up with it because again pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:15 PM
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Same equivalent person he would not. Because no one is going to approach him or initiate interest in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:09 PM
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Yeah i know, just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:04 PM
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I am just saying if she was a man; everything else the same, no would give him any attention. Completely ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:00 PM
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It is amazing how many unremarkable women get attention from men, if she didn't have a pussy, i fail to see why would anyone be interested in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:46 PM
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Men feel sexual jealousy, women feel love jealousy. This is why when an affair is exposed. A man will ask if “she fucked him”, a women will “do you love her.” Men and women are different. You are asking a gendered question. A women doesn’t give a shit about past sexual experience, but she will feel jealous if he treated his past partners better.
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