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Okay so your purpose (which you haven’t articulated) is obsolete, but you’re expending energy on three ministries, a side business, and a job. Massive waste of time.
/r/RPChristians02/08/19 12:02 PM
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I have trouble believing you were ever a Chad. And the painfully obvious reason you “have no clue” how to make God the centre of your life is because you lack PURPOSE. Daily prayer is great but remember it’s a passive enterprise. What are you doing with your daily activities ? Your father is at work till now, and so should you be.
/r/RPChristians02/08/19 02:11 AM
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It’s not a shit test. She lost attraction. She’s disgusted at the thought of having to spend a weekend with you trying to get sex from her. Tell her to go by herself and you need to start gaming other women.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 03:57 AM
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Excellent analogy, I’ll remember this
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 10:22 PM
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I like it, but you didn’t describe why the king the is the king.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 10:21 PM
-1

It’s great posts like this that make my scrolling on Reddit all worth it!!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/19 05:04 AM
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Your comment has validity because subjectivity and objectivity always co-exist, and as such it’s impossible for Rollo, or anyone, to write a purely objective post. However your comment is also invalid because it suggests the article doesn’t make sense, whereas the critical part of your response proved you understood it. Rollo, like in most of his work, simply exaggerates the importance of the objective viewpoint that’s woefully missing in modern discourse.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 02:53 PM
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Not necessarily true. Make her run her mouth during the date and she will become super comfortable with you (as long as you keep your mouth shut) and then kino and escalate.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 08:21 PM
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I could have told you your cheater girlfriend was going to leave you from a mile away. Not because she’s a cheater, but because you were acting like a little bitch and putting way too much pressure on her. No singular comment from any of us will help you .If you really care to solve your problems, you need to read the sidebar and start lifting..
/r/askMRP19/07/19 05:57 PM
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I took a girl for coffee last week and we ended up making out in a couch in the upstairs loft. I thought to myself “Why the eff have I been wasting money in bars all this time?” Coffee is perfectly fine, but my advice is Escalate. I escalated (a combination of kenoing and negging) very early on and she was receptive, so I persisted and she granted more and more leeway until eventually I was kissing her neck and tasting her lips.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:03 AM
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No footage of the civil war...
/r/askTRP19/07/19 12:46 AM
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Congratulations you are in the right place. Start reading, lifting and STFU. We look forward to reading about your progress. Welcome to the first day of the rest of your life!
/r/askMRP17/07/19 05:52 PM
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Strictly speaking you are correct. At a fundamental level TRP is about sexual optimization because for the majority of life “becoming the best version of yourself” was consistent with procreating. “Be fruitful and multiply” is still the motto for most of the animal kingdom. But with humanity a ‘transcendental reason’ emerged from the primacy of procreating: to conquer, to create, “to subdue the earth” as expressed in Genesis. This ‘transcendental reason’ is what TRP identifies as our purpose and…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:38 PM
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TRP is not about optimizing sexual strategy and it’s this faulty interpretation that prevents you from reconciling it with religion. TRP is first and foremost about becoming the best version of yourself (with sexual optimization being a secondary effect.) Becoming a better version of yourself resonates deeply with the major religion’s ultimate purpose for man: to deify, become enlightened, become Christ-like.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:45 PM
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Polarize her. Say something controversial. Purposely upset her. These are negs and part of push-pulling. They make you more interesting.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 03:02 AM
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The reason no one’s answering your question is because it shows us you lack the desire to change your life. You haven’t done the bare minimum for us to help. You need a better question.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/19 02:50 AM
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No need to differentiate between a strong ego and humility, they’re the same thing. An ego thats impervious to other people’s words and actions is humility itself. If someone is bad-mouthing you to your face, and your strong ego ignores this person, that is perceived as humility. Humility is not weak, its strong.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 04:55 PM
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Everyone has an ego, it’s a part of your mental firmware: Id, Ego, Superego. So just “having an ego” is not a bad thing. What’s bad is when that ego is sensitive to the words and actions of other people. A healthy and strong ego is impervious to other people’s words and actions and is therefore a necessary part to stoicism.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 02:44 PM
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NoFap
/r/askTRP14/07/19 01:42 AM
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That question can only be answered when you really start the RP journey. Somewhere along the line you will figure this woman out exactly and then you’ll know the answer. You’re only asking because you want to know if the RP will change her. The RP will change you. You either want to become a better man or you don’t.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 05:15 PM
2

Then some sort of Hinduism or Buddhism might supply you with what you’re looking for.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:32 AM
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Do you consider God likely to exist or not? If so, the monotheistic religions fit well with TRP. These religions changed history and ushered in the scientific age. There’s a lot of history, culture and spirituality to garner from them.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 02:56 AM
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Yes Jesus is the ultimate alpha. He even said “I am the Alpha.” 😉 This is an amazing sermon on Red Pill Jesus by an atheist: Red Pill Jesus
/r/askTRP13/07/19 02:42 AM
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You obviously haven’t heard of red pill Christians
/r/askTRP13/07/19 02:38 AM
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The only thing fat on you is THAT ASS
/r/askTRP10/07/19 05:17 PM
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Yes a decent question. I find myself in this situation a lot. Sometimes when the awkwardness comes I use it as the opportunity to ask for the number. It’s almost always too soon and I get rejected. Sometimes when the awkwardness comes I just walk away like you did. Not because I’m scared of the awkwardness but because my internal clock is telling me the interaction is over. Some girls I approach there is no awkwardness throughout the entire interaction and I can organically ask and receive her n…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:44 AM
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Writing is sophisticated thinking. If you don’t write stuff down what does that tell you about your thinking? Start cold approaching and stop procrastinating by posting on Reddit telling us how scared you are to approach. It’s not harder for you than anyone of us. I journal my cold approaches. PM if you wanna chat.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:26 AM
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I find it interesting the scriptures say Joseph was attractive in “form and appearance.” Form meaning his inner frame, and appearance his physical looks.
/r/RPChristians10/07/19 03:02 AM
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Spinning plates shouldn’t include drama at all. I haven’t had an argument with any of my plates since I started spinning a few years ago. Even the ones that fall off when I don’t commit, they still love and respect me. Sorry buddy you’re making excuses for not going out there and getting the job done.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 02:55 AM
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Your original post said “you’d love to spin plates” and now you’re saying “I don’t love to spin plates.” Make up your mind.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 12:51 PM
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I agree, his diagnosis is simple: learn game☝🏽
/r/askTRP09/07/19 05:03 AM
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☝🏽
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:12 AM
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If you love to spin-plates then why don’t you go past the first dates? My assumption is you aren’t too pleased with their looks. My suggestion is to start gaming girls you are attracted too immediately. Cold approach the ones you find hot. Make the effort because eventually you’ll get better, gain confidence, and start closing and spinning plates. You got to cold approach. Stop letting your ethnic background and height distract you. Girls don’t give a shit about that. You’re better than you real…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:10 AM
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Haha, there you are teasing her, and when you get teased back, you couldn’t take it. Her attraction to you dropped big-time buddy.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 03:56 PM
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Wasn’t there something better you could have done than watch a show on your phone?!
/r/askTRP06/07/19 04:09 AM
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A lagging indicator is a factor that changes only after the market has begun following a pattern or trend. For example, if you became extremely successful overnight, it would take the ladies a few weeks, months or years to realize it.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 01:02 AM
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Time and patience. Keep working. I’m with you. You’re getting looks from them now - that’s a start. Girls are a lagging indicator. We’ll get there 😉
/r/askTRP05/07/19 06:59 PM
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I was on the fence too, but now I only go indirect. This is because I realized that indirect game IS direct to a woman. Your body language in front of her tells her everything, even if the words out of your mouth don’t. She finds this far more exciting. It also has the effect of making a woman with a perceived higher SMV than you interested in you. If a woman perceives you as a lower SMV than her and the first words out of your mouth is “You’re hot” it only confirms her perception of you and it …
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:26 PM
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Women communicate covertly and indirectly, so when you approach a woman WITHOUT telling her she’s hot, you are speaking her language. She loves it. But when you open your stupid mouth and say she’s hot you are speaking like a man, overtly and directly, and she hates it.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 03:25 PM
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She likes you but she’s uncertain because you’re a little bitch taking her phone calls and FaceTimes for no good reason.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:23 PM
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The RP can teach women a lot about men’s psychology. But it’s very rarely touched upon. I guess we got to clean up our own mess first.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:10 PM
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She liked you (women don’t stare at men they’re not interested in) and you didn’t have the game to secure her (you said so yourself.) Congrats on approaching her and asking for her number tho. But you need to learn the techniques: negs, push pull etc. Implement them immediately on opening her. Put in the reps and good luck!
/r/askTRP26/06/19 03:47 AM
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Only to people who haven’t learned and accepted women’s evolutionary psychology does the RP seem degrading. But in fact, RP is about understanding a woman’s deepest desires and fulfilling them for her. It’s like, love.
/r/askMRP26/06/19 03:02 AM
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Its obvious you have no purpose: the essential element from which all RP dynamics flows. So no you haven’t the read the sidebar, obviously. Write out on a piece of paper what you want and why you want it. It sure isn’t that service business you’re running.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:45 AM
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I agree, their menial affairs are boring to listen to. But TRP tells me women need to talk and be listened to in order to self regulate. So I FORCE MYSELF to listen, like the same way I force myself to read a book, or force myself to go to the gym. I even make mental notes in my head about her drama so I can remember a name or an incident, or whatever, and bring it up, thereby proving I am indeed listening (she gets more attracted.) How do you become a better listener? Force yourself.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 09:17 PM
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Now you ask them on dates and escalate.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 04:44 AM
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A healthy happy woman laughs at a neg because she knows you’re playfully teasing her and she might even tease you back. An unhappy insecure woman will take a neg seriously and get upset. Negs are good indicators of a woman’s mental state. I’ve stopped seeing women all together because of the way they responded to negs. It tells me all I need to know. As a caveat to all that, recognize a comfort test when you see one...
/r/askTRP22/06/19 04:20 PM
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This is an essay I wrote about my thoughts on the matter: Unconscious Christians
/r/RPChristians21/06/19 03:30 PM
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You obviously don’t know the answer to this two-part question: what do you want, and why do you want it? Write it out, edit it, and get back to us. This is your purpose by the way.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 10:50 PM
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Yes by virtue of his awareness and his actions a RP man can sidestep a midlife crisis.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 12:54 PM
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Those are shit-tests and should be dealt with in the same manner: A&M or ignore.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 03:04 AM
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Based on your comment, they do exist, just not in the wild.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 02:48 AM
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You have to acknowledge the guys. As much as the girl. You have to immediately introduce and shake their hands. The guys will disarm and trust you. You neg and tease the girl so everyone gets the hint. But still maintain plausible deniability. Your eye contact with the girl should speak volumes to her. Best of luck next time!
/r/askTRP16/06/19 12:52 AM
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I’m sorry, but your post reveals you to be a needy little bitch, so there’s absolutely no surprise in the way she’s acting. The ball is in your court.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 02:46 PM
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Here’s a specific: Google shit and read. Don’t know how a car works? Google it. Don’t know how to make your money work for you? Google it. Use YouTube too. You just need the initiative to give a fuck and do things you currently suck at. But at least you started the journey, you’ll get better. Enjoy the process.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 10:54 PM
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The RPChristians sub often publishes better content than the other RP subs. Good job.
/r/RPChristians11/06/19 10:47 PM
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I think you do have a point. I hang out with an ex solely to face her personality as her tests are so strong. And yes, the sex. But it’s dangerous, I see why they say stay away.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 02:33 AM
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This person is being sarcastic, don’t listen
/r/askTRP08/06/19 01:02 PM
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Soft next her. She’ll come clean about whatever it is.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 12:22 AM
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Yes, do you know how many women have put their hand on my chest in mid-conversation and patted around to see how large it is? And my chest isn’t even that large!
/r/askTRP07/06/19 02:58 AM
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Unfortunately this is a puerile understanding of the God of monotheism. This perspective of God lacks the Greek philosophical grounding that enabled countless religious geniuses throughout the centuries to revolutionize the world and introduce the Scientific Revolution. Galileo, Copernicus, Newton - whatever - the list goes on forever. Do you think any of those guys believed the nonsense you posted that came out of Carlin’s mouth? It’s an unsophisticated understanding of monotheism.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 02:30 AM
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You’re the leader, she’ll follow you. But do you want that?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 02:18 AM
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In one example you mean the self deprecation and in the other example (passing the shit-test) you don’t - two different things buddy.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 03:57 PM
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The same rules apply to his mom: amused mastery, A&A, STFU.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 12:51 AM
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She likes you but needs time to get over the emotions. This is an easy fix. Date other girls and wait for her to get over it and she’ll get back to you. But you have to soft next her man, really do it, and really date other girls.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:17 PM
1

Thank you for a very enlightening post.
/r/RPChristians17/05/19 03:33 AM
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Who gives a shit? You could have looked like a stud. You totally missed that opp.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 03:32 AM
1

Start spinning other plates immediately
/r/askTRP13/05/19 01:16 AM
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The reason is clear in what you wrote. You fell into her frame. You wanted the relationship more than her. I can only imagine all the beta behavior you left out. Don’t doubt what I’m saying. It’s very clear in what you wrote. Obvious actually. Shake it off and on to the next one!
/r/askTRP13/05/19 01:01 AM
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Your wife may or may not be a narcissist. You’ll only know for sure once you digest the red pill. So keep going and you can figure it out when you get there. You have a long way to go, we all do, but if you don’t give up you will progress everyday. By the way your response “Oh now you want my attention after withdrawing yours” was a beta answer as it shows her actions affect you. You should smile at her knowingly and say, “If you missed me, my door is always open for you.”
/r/askMRP09/05/19 06:36 PM
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Fapping is immense cognitive-sexual dissonance that results in a massive waste of creative energy flushed down the toilet. Amazing that it took the Red Pill to convince me what the Catholic church couldn’t.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:42 PM
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DGAF. Learn to polarize people.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 12:50 AM
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Calls women “some bitch” and “dumb whore” but he won’t have sex before marriage because he respects his God. I’m so proud to be a Christian 🙄
/r/RPChristians07/05/19 03:23 AM
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And just because it’s “opportunistic” love, that doesn’t mean it’s not real love. It’s precisely a woman’s opportunistic love that has propelled humanity towards better chances of survival. So from a historical, evolutionary and historical perspective, it’s a very important love - so don’t smash it 😉
/r/askTRP05/05/19 07:34 PM
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And just because it’s “opportunistic” love, that doesn’t mean it’s not real love. It’s precisely a woman’s opportunistic love that has propelled humanity towards better chances of survival. So from a historical, evolutionary and historical perspective, it’s a very important love - so don’t smash it 😉
/r/askTRP05/05/19 07:34 PM
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A woman may love her man opportunistically, but she’ll love her child unconditionally. So she does understand “true” love. Does that make you feel better? Or are you looking for the love your mom gave you from some random woman? “When we were children we acted as children, now that we’re grown we’ve set aside childish things.”
/r/askTRP05/05/19 07:31 PM
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Stop asking what the emoji means. The fact that you keep asking just proves how into her frame you are. You are literally expending energy into an stupid emoji. Go and game other girls.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:28 PM
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Women are not aware of opportunistic love. For them it’s romantic love. They can’t distinguish the difference. However, a man’s resources isn’t enough to induce opportunistic love in her, he has to have alpha characterisrics as well.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:25 PM
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It definitely works for me. And I fucking love it. There is logic behind NoFap too, regarding the psychological act of masturbation and the physical-chemical dynamics of it. It ups my game with women and I feel like a stud. Try it brother, it’s part of the game!
/r/askTRP03/05/19 04:43 AM
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You’re not under any Christian moral imperative to reveal something that happened before her. Honesty does not necessarily equate to full disclosure. Joseph wanted to divorce Mary in quiet - and not broadcast the whole story as he could have. Those are two different things, and full disclosure is never recommended anyway as it dissolves mystery - a key component in attraction.
/r/RPChristians03/05/19 04:34 AM
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I was bored reading your post, so I can only imagine how your plates feel. Stop fucking talking. They don’t care about your movie theories. I’m a filmmaker and I don’t even talk about that shite. The only thing coming out of your mouth should be penetrating questions.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 06:42 PM
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It’s reversible, but I doubt you have the balls to do what it takes to get her. You’ll have to NEXT her with complete dedication on your part meaning no contact, finding your purpose, lifting, spinning plates for months and years building meaningful relationships and experiences with dozens of chicks. Only after you have done this will you be able get her. And at that point you won’t even want her anymore. I told you you don’t have the balls.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 04:10 AM
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It’s really not that hard to figure out, but you certainly seem to be having problems doing so.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 06:40 PM
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Spinning plates doesn’t preclude having sons.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:39 AM
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Yes but he still thinks spinning plates is the ideal RP life. He explains this in his article “As Good As It Gets”
/r/askTRP01/05/19 03:13 AM
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If you’re asking that question you have a lot to learn...
/r/askTRP01/05/19 03:11 AM
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Gossiping reinforces social connections. When men hunted - women stayed home and in order to make sure society was running smoothly they had to continually keep up to date on everyone by “gossiping.” This is also why women talk more than men. So it’s not so much a bitter thing, or a way to gain power, as it is to be up-to-date with the community. If a woman needs help because of an abusive husband, it’s gossiping that will likely end up saving her. Once I realized the evolutionary benefit of gos…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:57 AM
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You don’t have to make a decision now. So relax yourself. You can make a decision any time you want. But your purpose should be more important to you than any decision about a woman. PS Rollo thinks the ideal RP life is to spin plates.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:41 AM
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So serious sheesh. OP made a great point. Why you got to split hairs? Many of you would make great Islamic fundamentalists. 👍🏽
/r/RPChristians29/04/19 04:23 AM
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Theoretically you could be beta for her on your own terms because as a red pilled man you know that women sometimes do crave beta behavior. Being beta at the right moments, is Rollo’s suggestion after all. I wouldn’t ever give in tho. Fuck that. Lol. Be beta - but on your terms!
/r/askTRP23/04/19 04:12 AM
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I’d be happy to talk to you. I love this shit. Don’t you know that you “must lose yourself in order to find yourself?” You lost yourself for a second when you swallowed the pill and when you regain equilibrium the path will be clear. This could be sooner than you think. You just have a few readjustments to make and I’m sure I could identify them for you. Holler
/r/askTRP23/04/19 03:37 AM
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You broke frame. You should have made fun of the Betas. Instead you asked her “Can I trust you?”
/r/askTRP22/04/19 12:45 AM
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Not every alpha is a provider. An alpha Could be a provider, doesn’t mean he Is a provider. Women are primarily attracted to a man’s Ability to generate money, not whether he has money.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 12:32 AM
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Life has been fighting death for billions of years, passing on its ‘genes’ to the next generation. Humans are doing the same thing, but on the forefront of evolution also passing along knowledge, wisdom and power. Rumour has it that because of the accumulative efforts of evolution, we (life) will one day (millions of years from now?) permanently subdue death. “Death where is your victory? Death where is your sting?” I like to think I’m contributing to that vast effort.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 09:51 PM
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You’re not kinoing
/r/askTRP19/04/19 02:30 PM
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You’re both gay.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 01:33 AM
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What is your PURPOSE?! Write out and answer this two-part question: What do I want and why do I want it?
/r/askTRP17/04/19 10:47 PM
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Agree and amplify! Make light of the situation. “What? Aw you missed me. It’s okay I’m here now.” Hug. “I blocked you? My finger must have slipped and pressed block by mistake. I’m sorry.” “An assassin is hunting me down, I had to get off the grid!” Use your responses as deflections and get out. Don’t hang around to be questioned by her. If you have to talk to her, control the conversation by continually asking her questions.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 04:18 AM
2

That’s exactly why NoFap works. It proves this man has access to lots of sex and is therefore high value.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 03:05 PM
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Good: “I was taking my time because I wanted to write the perfect message to the perfect girl.” Better: (nonchalantly) “I was busy.”
/r/askTRP13/04/19 05:20 AM
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A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 03:37 AM
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I think his question is why marry a Christian? It’s a good question.
/r/RPChristians12/04/19 03:04 AM
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She’s hitting the wall, and you’re not even peaking. But you know that cause you’re “red pill”, right?
/r/askMRP11/04/19 09:07 PM
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Its just practice. That’s all. Practice engaging women on the trivial conversations they like. Eventually you’ll get better and be able to quickly hone in on their superficial level. But I think the question you’re really asking is, “Are these types of conversations all I can expect from women?” The answer is Yes. What you do with that info is your decision. I spin plates because I don’t care to engage any woman on her trivial conversations on a daily basis. I was on a date last night and the wo…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 12:56 AM
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The RP is revealing to you the type of woman you married...
/r/askMRP06/04/19 01:28 PM
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GAY
/r/RPChristians03/04/19 04:09 AM
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Your question stems from not understanding the nature of the Logos. Everything was made in, with and through the Logos. This is basic Christian theology. Christ is the Logos, the Creator. This means that your imaginary tribe and their human souls, society and culture was made through the Logos (Christ.) The result is that even if they haven’t heard of Jesus, the Logos is nevertheless imprinted on them by virtue of being created by it. Nothing escapes Christ, who subjects everything to Himself.
/r/RPChristians02/04/19 05:08 PM
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You post shows you don’t understand character archetypes and how they’re transmitted through stories.
/r/askMRP02/04/19 05:02 PM
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She feels the exact same way as June 21. Stop looking for excuses. I know you think because she’s texting you ‘quality’ texts that she might like you - she doesn’t. Not even close. Again, not an opinion, but a fact. This is a textbook story brother, I’m sorry.
/r/RPChristians02/04/19 03:33 AM
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I guess when guys are in the friendzone they really are blind? This girl does Not like you. That’s not my opinion, that’s a fact based on human nature. Want me to prove it? Ask her to meet you. She won’t. And I don’t blame her, you’re not intriguing, not mysterious and basically puppy chow. I’m sorry that you even have to ask us if she likes you. It shows how clueless you are and how much you need to learn. You are so deep in her frame you’re a puppet. But you could change it. This girl Could li…
/r/RPChristians02/04/19 03:23 AM
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I know it’s hard, but the good thing is you have the roadmap now. Follow it diligently, you will see the results, and it will be worth it. One day you’ll get even hotter girls than the one you’re with now and wonder why you were so uptight about her
/r/RPChristians29/03/19 09:34 PM
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The first girl I ever opened after I swallowed the RP was in front of three of my friends. I got rejected in seconds. My friends all had a good laugh. As the day went on, I perceived they had all gained a measure of respect for me. Even though I failed, their estimation of me raised. In other words, you’re worrying about nothing.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 01:18 PM
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She’s lost attraction to you because you’re acting weak, it’s as simple as that. You’re scared of losing her. You’re begging, pleading and crying. Do you know how much attraction she lost in you because of that? You’re in the right sub, but you need to do a ton of work here. The best advice was already given to you (break up with her and date around, and trust that she’ll come back) but you’re too weak and scared to do that. Unless you dramatically change your behavior, this relationship will de…
/r/RPChristians29/03/19 03:36 AM
2

Despite the stats you yourself quoted, you’ll never be convinced that even red pill men prioritize appearances will you?
/r/RedPillWives29/03/19 12:05 AM
4

You’re deluding yourself by thinking she didn’t monkey branch because of hypergamy. You need to take a hard look in the mirror. There’s a lot to learn here for you. But once you do the work and show up on campus with a hotter girl - all will be right with the world.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:38 PM
2

Rollooooo
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 12:41 AM
7

I have female friends and I enjoy their company plus the social proof they give me. I resort to doing a lot of listening with them because that makes me a better friend. They generally don’t go out of their way to introduce me to women but I don’t depend on people to introduce me to women anyway. They find it amusing when I open another girl and they never cock block. When these female friends talk relationships with me they actively corroborate what I know about game. So it’s a win win all arou…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:39 AM
1

Genuflecting is a physical manifestation of putting her on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:10 PM
3

Not only does it get easier, but you can also find a younger more beautiful wife who will outdo even your first wife. Don’t you remember Job?! 😉Read the sidebar and start working on yourself today. The pain you feel is your ego processing your shortcomings that led your wife to divorce you. As you work on yourself your shortcomings will become more obvious to you, and you won’t let them jeopardize your subsequent new beautiful wife. Hang in there.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 07:25 PM
1

Let me know it goes, it’s an interesting scenario
/r/askTRP17/03/19 07:29 AM
1

She’s demoted to plate. Why LTR someone who issues such large shit tests? The alternative is it’s not a shit test and she really does want to break up with you and there you go - plate. Getting back into a LTR with you should require massive demonstrations of repentance from her. But even so, I wouldn’t want to be with someone like that. NEXT!
/r/askTRP16/03/19 04:58 AM
4

“Not even in Israel have I found such faith” says The Lord. In other words don’t limit yourself to the Church. Just like you were blue pilled in the Church, a lot of Christian women are heavily feminized. Christ’s fold knows no bounds.
/r/RPChristians14/03/19 05:24 PM
1

Social structures have an effect, but they’re obviously less important than biological structures. It’s not a black and white answer, so stop looking for one.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:58 AM
1

No it isn’t, it’s standardizes women, making them easier to manipulate. Set up your game.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:56 AM
2

If a girl reaches out to you, she probably wants to see you. You can still game her, but be aware her interest is low for whatever reason. So you have your work cut out for you.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 08:47 PM
4

Yes pretty much.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 08:05 PM
2

My question to you is - if you could get unlimited access to unlimited women - would you?
/r/askTRP10/03/19 02:49 AM
1

Quick takeaway: you missed a bunch of shit tests and opportunities to A&A and you DEERef like crazy. Keep it up and get better.
/r/RPChristians10/03/19 02:27 AM
2

When a girl reaches out to you, it’s most likely because she wants to see you. However you fucked up by calling her. Your response to her should have been equal or less to her initial message. If I were you I would not message her at all until you hear from her again. Then when she messages INVITE HER OUT
/r/askTRP08/03/19 08:30 PM
3

Sheesh you’re hamstering. She confirmed the date. You need to STFU and go on the date with her. Make sure you STFU on the date too.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 08:26 PM
4

By far your biggest mistake was being an open book, telling her dangerous stuff about your past that make you the man you are today, and appearing vulnerable, as if any of that creates attraction. It was doing the opposite my brother. MYSTERY creates attraction. Next time keep your mouth shut and ask her question after question after question. Women talk, men listen. I went on a first date a few weeks back where the woman ran her mouth for an hour straight. I of course encouraged her to do so wi…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:28 PM
1

If history is littered with dead gods then movies on Thor would be colossal failures. Thor and other dead gods are alive because of their symbolism, as is evidenced by our enjoyment of them on the big screen. You seem to think symbolism doesn’t have truth or value. Only reality does. I would challenge those assumptions.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 06:33 PM
1

When will you guys accept AWALT and stop thinking Christian girls are different? This girl would obviously bone you if you handle her ASD correctly. Why are you hamstering about why she was kinoing and teasing you? Because AWALT. She doesn’t care about your convictions. If you don’t escalate to sex, she will eventually view you as beta and ghost you. Yes, I know everyone in this sub thinks premarital sex is a sin. But the real sin is to be beta. And no one in this sub has ever been able to artic…
/r/RPChristians07/03/19 06:25 PM
1

“Do you have a girlfriend?” “I have three.” starts making out
/r/askTRP07/03/19 01:33 PM
2

You underestimate primitive culture’s intelligence. If you can’t see religion in symbolic terms then it’s bound to look naive. Kant, Bacon, Newton, Copernicus and Galileo were all “religious” and understood the symbolism of their religion. Pick up one of their books and ask yourself how primitive they were. But your post makes it clear that you don’t have much use for symbolic and archetypical truths, your holy grail is hard science. It’s a common trope, but I find it ironic that unbelievers wil…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:28 PM
10

My guess is the initiation went well. She was probably flattered and attracted. But your date proposal got awkward. You messed up when you changed the locked in date to try and accommodate her. That’s when you lost frame. Great job on opening her tho and I think you still have a chance with that girl. My advice is next time don’t give the girl the choice where to go. Just invite her on a date and you take her where you want to go on the night.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:55 AM
1

Because it’s the only weapon they have man. She’s too much trouble, move on.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 04:14 AM
2

Why are you on this sub? Your post and questions sound like you DGAF about the red pill. I come on this sub for good content, not to read your simp shite. You don’t belong here.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 12:51 PM
1

If it helps, remember you won’t peak at your SMV for another decade...
/r/askTRP01/03/19 01:30 AM
7

I think it was Rollo who said women reserve the right to change their minds. A woman ghosting a high value man shouldn’t even be a blip on his radar. But it affected you so much that you retreated to mgtow, so that should tell you everything you need to know. I got flaked on for a date last night 😉 it’s part of the game. Let’s keep working to be better men!
/r/RPChristians28/02/19 02:19 PM
3

You are being too logical with your wife. You’re seeking assurance from your wife. You’re putting your wife on a pedestal. These things are glaringly obvious in your posts. You’re on the right forum, but you’ve got a lot to learn and a lot to change. It’s almost as if you’re the wife. You might want to pull your Bible out and read some of David’s stories and start acting like him.
/r/RPChristians26/02/19 10:37 PM
3

How has nobody mentioned Corey Wayne?!?! 😁
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:26 AM
1

I saw he had some beef with Rollo - that was interesting
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:26 AM
0

Take her on a date to a different place than where you met, with two other places lined up for afterwards. Do not start with heavy flirting. You have to start from scratch on the date and build her comfort, but make sure you escalate. At the end of the night invite her over for a “night-cap.”
/r/askTRP25/02/19 01:14 AM
1

There’s no difference between the two, that’s St O’Neil’s point.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:44 PM
0

Why is this so hard to understand? She’s not yours, it’s just your turn.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:46 PM
6

Congrats on opening 20 women. Think if you do that five more times. Or twenty more times. Don’t delude yourself by the double edged sword of inflating girls egos, because even if that’s true it’s of no consequence to you. The important truth you learned is that you’re not coming off as a high enough commodity to attract most of the women you opened. But you did massively well by engaging in the game. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:14 AM
15

The first chapter of the Rational Male is called Oneitis for a reason...
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/19 08:50 PM
1

Hypergamy is not sinful, it’s a useful biological filter that creates better human beings worthy of reflecting God’s glory.
/r/RPChristians17/02/19 07:09 PM
1

Act like you don’t want any of them.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 05:02 PM
1

Games wouldn’t be necessary if humans weren’t polygamous and women weren’t hypergamous. I think this is what you’re missing. You think you live in a monogamous world where women aren’t hypergamous. Thus why the need for games? Sorry buddy, “you best start believing in ghost stories, you’re in one!”
/r/RPChristians17/02/19 03:24 PM
1

A smart funny comeback is better, and if you can’t think of anything witty - STFU
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:41 PM
1

You asked 😂😂but these guys are no joke 😂😂
/r/askTRP15/02/19 06:09 AM
1

Seeing the bigger picture is key, I like that.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 06:03 AM
1

Write.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 06:00 AM
1

Concentrate on keeping your feet grounded, literally. Don’t move your feet while talking to her, so your body is centered. Open your chest to her - literally - and pretend you can feel the energy flowing from your chest to her. She will feel it and if she likes you she will get closer to the energy flowing from your chest - like a cat. Don’t make a lot of statements, just ask questions. After she answers, keep a long pause and stare at her, with your chest open to her always. Keeping your chest …
/r/askTRP12/02/19 01:41 AM
7

“I’d find another girl to do it for me.”
/r/askMRP10/02/19 06:14 PM
3

I’m not married, but it definitely instills dread in some women. It’s put them on their back foot. Was I not sexy enough? He’s saving it for someone else? If a woman won’t blow me before sex, then after sex if I haven’t come, she’ll blow me! I don’t know why men won’t use this technique. Your orgasm is your trump card - use it!
/r/askMRP31/01/19 04:33 PM
1

Hit the nail on the head with this diagnosis. The OP is obsessive with guilt and shame after PMO. He even admits that the guilt manifests itself physically. I’m afraid you have to confront those guilty feelings and even Fap to confront them. Guilt is not from God.
/r/RPChristians30/01/19 04:10 AM
2

And this is precisely the problem with Christian dating... and I don’t know what the solution is...because worldly dating WORKS
/r/RPChristians19/01/19 12:44 AM
5

God bless brother! You will make a difference.
/r/RPChristians13/01/19 04:55 AM
2

Thank you for an excellent article.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/19 03:51 AM
1

No I didn’t, because I didn’t approach her. I knew that girl for ages and she had Never shown me any interest until that very moment. So I just made a mental note of it and I know I’ll see her again.
/r/RPChristians04/01/19 08:43 PM
2

I used to, but not anymore. For instance I was toying with these two girls on NYE and they were loving it. But then finally they decided to leave and one of them splashed their drink on me (cause I was messing with them.) I laughed and as they walked away (I didn’t chase) my friend approached me and was like, “How can you deal with that rejection?” And literally as he said that to me I saw another girl who was watching the whole interaction giving me eyes. I could tell she liked my confidence in…
/r/RPChristians04/01/19 01:06 AM
1

I think it’s more accurate to say I accepted that it’s my expectation causing the anger and therefore totally within my control. This has helped me when I open a woman and she rejects me. I’ve learned to love rejections now because of how quickly I can get over it, compared to in the past. When I’m rejected I simply change my expectation from “wanting to shag her” to “hey this is fun and I’m learning!” Side note: not taking rejection seriously is very attractive to the woman, or even to other wo…
/r/RPChristians02/01/19 03:08 AM
6

Anger is produced when your expectations aren’t met. Nothing more, nothing less. It’s that simple. When I realized this, it changed everything for me. When anger kicks in, just change your expectation. For instance if I can’t fall asleep at night I get upset because I was expecting to sleep. I change my expectation. Okay I’m awake, so now I’m going to walk around the neighborhood and listen to this blog I love. I end up enjoying the stars, the neighborhood sounds, and the peace of being by mysel…
/r/RPChristians02/01/19 01:36 AM
4

If you don’t understand why men love video games, you don’t understand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 06:21 PM
1

You could have totally gotten with her if you weren’t “taken aback” at what she said and used her statement in a humorous way: “yes I do sleep with ugly girls, and if we slept together you’d be on the bottom of that list.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 01:10 AM
1

You said it yourself: betas mateguard, alphas disregard. Listen to the red pill tenants. Resist the urge to have the conversation. And when she’s on the dance floor in Cancun she’ll be obsessed about who you’re with.
/r/RPChristians31/12/18 11:13 PM
2

Catholic in the house. It’s hard for me to reconcile RP with our scholastic morality on sex. We’re talking mortal sins here, that’s rough stuff. But RP works and Middle Age theology doesn’t. I should probably read Rahners work on sex if he’s done any...#JMJ
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 07:13 PM
1

Id be interested in you expanding on that, especially the sexual ethics
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 07:09 PM
2

And this is why RedPill is great even for Christianity. Great analysis of Christian sexual problems
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 06:55 AM
1

How the EF do I read the sidebar on these things? I’m on my phone...
/r/askMRP20/12/18 10:38 PM
1

Obviously you’re right but we ll never convert the secular if they catch a sniff of religion. We have to be as “cunning as snakes.”
/r/RPChristians19/12/18 09:54 PM
1

Nice article. It sounded secular when it started and then half way through became Christian. Maybe decide if it’s secular or Christian (both could work) and make that apparent in the beginning? But yea nice article!
/r/RPChristians18/12/18 10:52 PM
1

Interesting theory. I think like this but it’s not mainstream.
/r/askMRP14/12/18 03:29 PM
1

I’m sure he’s on to something but I don’t see any examples in your posts and yes i read that link you shared also. Will have to review myself. Later!
/r/RPChristians14/12/18 01:19 PM
1

I’d love to see examples!
/r/RPChristians14/12/18 12:21 PM
4

You already know you’re not supposed to see her. You’re only posting on here to look for permission to do so. Don’t do it. Move on brother. Sorry for being frank.
/r/RPChristians13/12/18 02:51 PM
1

Awesome experiment, thanks!!!
/r/RPChristians11/12/18 08:15 PM
3

Finally someone being honest. Amen brother 🙏🏽
/r/RPChristians11/12/18 03:08 AM
2

Where is premarital sex a sin in the Bible?
/r/RPChristians05/12/18 02:13 AM
1

You acted naturally and organically by having sex with her. You now want to deny this natural sexual relation because of the hardness of your dogma. You risk obfuscating and confusing this relationship because of it. Signed a loving Catholic who’s been there and understands.
/r/RPChristians03/12/18 07:16 PM
4

You’ve woken up. That’s the first step that many never take. You should be proud. It will only get better from here. Standing face to face your mom was brave. That was a first step. Take another step. And then another. It gets easier. Keep an eye on the relationship with the 30 year old. You still have your whole life ahead of you and won’t hit your prime for another 15 years. Which basically means you’ve woken up at a perfect time. You’re going to be fine. Congratulations. I realize I haven’t g…
/r/RPChristians28/11/18 05:44 AM
7

Wow, this quote finally makes sense to me: “women should remain silent in the churches.”
/r/RPChristians25/11/18 09:30 PM
0

I. Don’t. Know. What. To. Say.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 03:55 AM
2

You might enjoy this, an excellent piece about Red Pill Jesus by any atheist no less: https://youtu.be/1grpsTxbJ3Y
/r/RPChristians22/11/18 07:06 PM
5

Pretty good all around. The only paragraph that lost my interest was the one where you quoted Psalms 37 and Proverbs 3. Not sure why, but I think there wasn’t a lot of positive action I could take from it. When you talk about foreign wives, you might want to include other parts of the world (Russia and Latin America) as not everyone will be into Asians. Another thing is I have a pet peeve whenever a Christian says a verse must be “taken in context.” I think this bothers me because very rarely do…
/r/RPChristians21/11/18 02:26 AM
1

You’ve outlined a litany of blue pill symptoms. You need to swallow that red pill, digest it, and move forward. You can possibly win her back, but you won’t convince her by your words, only your actions. If she wants to break up - then date around and find someone more beautiful than her. She’ll come running back. But yea man, you need to swallow that red pill ASAP. 💊
/r/RPChristians18/11/18 02:48 PM
1

I used to be like you. Racked with guilt and torn between my sexual urges and ‘living for God.’ I felt fractured, weak, confused, sinful, and yet, I wasn’t living a life of sin! I took a hard look at my life. I was a grown man debilitated by my conscience and had accumulated no understanding or real relationships with women. Is this what a Christian is? I started to “sin” and sleep with women and actively face my guilt. Over time I started to gain an understanding of women. Women began to apprec…
/r/RPChristians14/11/18 12:26 PM
2

It’s all the same buddy. Women are women, Christian or atheist.
/r/RPChristians14/11/18 02:04 AM
-2

I date to plate.
/r/RPChristians14/11/18 01:57 AM
-5

Yea but I don’t judge her, her husband is a soy boy and her hypergamy is screaming at her! What’s the poor woman to do, even if she is seeking God’s will, it’s hard to fight biology.
/r/RPChristians14/11/18 01:57 AM
1

It’s common. This woman Instagrams me every day dying to hook up with me and I see her at Church every Sunday with her husband and kids. Hypergamy is real and the Church is gynocentric anyway. I’m Christian, but I could care less if the girls I date are Christian.
/r/RPChristians14/11/18 01:46 AM
16

Excellence is not an act, it’s a habit. Keep it up even at home brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/18 05:07 PM
1

As much as men don’t want to believe what you’re saying, you’re exactly right.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 05:32 PM
8

Hang in there. I think it’s fine to lose some. My only advice is this: it sounds like you need to be a little more lighthearted, humorous, bemused mastery with her shit-tests. When she says You Don’t Love Me grab her and hug her and say in a funny voice, “How could I not love you???” Love is playful, even when she’s shit testing. Good luck brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 04:57 AM
1

Jah Rastafari
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/18 05:05 AM
3

Epic
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/18 05:02 AM
1

You made him feel guilty because you thought he would propose to you, and even worse, he felt guilty for not proposing. Nothing RP about this relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/18 01:29 PM
3

A red pill woman knows that direct communication is the language of men. You rationalizing an excuse not to tell him directly shows you have a lot to learn about men.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/18 02:38 AM
3

You found TRP so you’re in the driver seat. Study the principles online and apply them in real life and the results will speak for themselves. You can still save your marriage if you want to, and by the looks of it, turn it into anything you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/18 03:16 PM
4

There are clues that your man isn’t red pill and that may be the issue.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/18 07:36 PM
1

Your man is a classic beta male stuck in a blue pill mindset. Most men are like this. This is why you’ve lost attraction for him. He’s probably clueless to what you’re feeling and thinking. Frankly, I’d give him a book called The Rational Male and tell him to google search Red Pill philosophy. You can marry him, but your body won’t be able to lie to him, and a future conflict is unavoidable. Your relationship will only work if he swallows the red pill. Good luck!!!
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/18 02:13 AM
2

If setting the table is such a small thing to ask, why are you asking him to do it? Is it simply to see if he will comply with you?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/18 02:31 PM
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