If their self worth is linked to their perception of how women see them that is their own problem. Their own problem with how they are deriving self worth honestly.
I agree with the begining but the middle got vague and confusing. I think due to women beconing more independent economically they then demanded more in courting efforts from men and lookswise to the point that men couldn't quite keep up.
Around a similar number usually or within 2-3 points. Women tend to be able to date upward though and men downward. SES matches, Yes, research suggests that people tend to date and marry within their own social class, or at least those with similar socioeconomic backgrounds, though inter-class relationships are not uncommon. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8179854/#:~:text=In%20light%20of%20the%20powerful,outside%20the%20context%20of%20marriage.
Well this kind of ignores that most people go for looks and SES matches and assumes people only go for as hot as they can get. So that's clearly problematic since it's not true.
Men have standards as well it's not all about men being sheerly desperate and willing to go with anyone. Most men would not date an ugly woman for example. So not men do not "just want to be loved". Men want compatibility like women want.
Thing Is I don't really have minimums I just tend to go for taller guys in general lol. If I had to say I'd say 5'10. Max 6ft 2 Prefer fitter guys as well and I don't mind chubby as long as theyre fit. I do prefer less fat though.
Before I delete my account I just want to do a rq question. What is the logic behind a guy in a discord group demanding I prove I'm real and threatening to ban me if I don't but at same time refusing to tell me how I prove how I'm real?
But seriously, if you ever get the chance to try Viagra, I highly recommend it I'm a female 😂😘 Appreciate the conversation, it was really nice talking to you! Awww thanks
So it wasn't the lack of porn that was causing erection issues? In my case, my body got so used to a specific kind of stimulation Wdym? Are you sure you don't have like testosterone issues? It is pretty common to have erection issues with T issues
I feel like if I was dating a guy and before I slept with him he asked if he could get a nude video of me that I'd be very sus of that. Like why of just me alone bro 🤔😂
Don't you think you should be screening for this waaaay before even getting to the bedroom instead of randomly springing it on them then ditching them if they refuse?
Why not just use the vibrator instead of having sex with me? Your dick doesn't vibrate? She just wants to try things lol But I’m not mad or sad or anything You are. But tbh I would of said no if I was in her position I don't want guys having recordings of me naked lol. Sex is more acceptable because atleast then the guys in it but if it's just me nude, no.
She wants to bring vibrators to use while I fuck her Is that bad? I think it hurt your feelings that she said no but maybe you can ask again. Or ask what about it she dislikes. Like what were you gonna do with the recording exactly??
The guy doesn't know what he's doing and is cringe that's what went wrong 😂 The part where he said she's too beautiful for dates is where he fucked up majorly
less likely to be interested in a man approaching her and are at least as likely to be emotionally fucked as any man. False and false Guess what I'm a woman bro
I'm saying you can't live an emotionally healthy life with just casual relationships, though. Why? You are making a lot of bold claims with no evidence. 🤦♀️
I mean who are you to say that seeing it as objectifying or for fun is wrong? Some people just like casual sex lol. This just seems like you are trying to project your own opinion onto the rest of us.
Women aren't really going to en masse suddenly persue men. I have learnt persuing men is not a good thing to do so I won't be doing it. It never ends well. The guy is either not interested or emotionally fucked.
The fact that these women cannot identify an abuser is wild, i can spot an abuser That doesn't mean they deserve to be abused though. Clearly abusive men and women need psychiatric help to stop doing it.
I met my bf on POF some 7 years ago before it has the swipe feature I swear. I got messaged by a lot of men like hundreds and tried to reply to most I thought were cute but I guess I got bored of and ghosted the rest lol. I went on a few dates before meeting my bf with other guys. Thought my bf was cute and I liked that he was a gaurd so I replied to him. We messaged for about 3 months on the app then texting before we met. I also went on a cruise overseas in that time lol.
Yeah even on POF any guy can msg a female, the males just have a set number of women they can message each day or something. But on Tinder only guys that actually match with a woman can msg her or unless he pays $, then he can get past that yea yikes
Well I actually met my boyfriend on plenty of fish app but that's not swiping based I swear. That's what I liked about it. Though if I ever became single again I'd probably just go on Tinder lool. Since it's easier to find more attractive guys on there.
I'd get him into football and jujitsu and other sports and swimming, nice fade haircut, preschool, help him study and with assignments and homework and dressing. He should probably get a girlfriend pretty early like 16.
I think now what's happening is men are going red pill and black pill as a cop3 for being lonely and single tbh, or in a relationship and whipped (red pill).
most bad boys have fake self-confidence, which is what makes them toxic. I don't think fake self confidence is what makes them toxic. I think just being abusive does tbh
He outlined the "Loverboy method" in his online course about recruiting women into sex work. Part of the strategy is benevolent sexism. See that's the problem with Tate, he's trying to exploit women.
Wdym by "ego maniac" you aren't using examples or being discriptive enough. Some men genuinely just have an avoidant style of attachment. What I'd define as avoidant style of attachment is, not requiring much affection, not requiring much sex, not requiring much intimacy, not requiring spending much time with you. Some men are just like this likely due to affects of how they were raised by their parents/early abuse. My partner is like this. He shows me affection and spends time with me to meet M…
Honestly just don't fuck them that early in, wait a few dates or more. Get to know them more first so you know its more about knowing them and not about lust as much.
You can be masculine without being a cringe lord like Tate lmfao. I don't know if RP realize this but a lot of women just see Tate and his ilk as stupid and cringe, same as the stuff he says lol.
Unnattractive is too vague of a term anyway tbh. Basically it's just that the men haven't been able to meet some standards women have set for them that they may not even necessarily be aware of.
Dating isn't really a more important category. You can't die from failing to find a partner for example. But a woman can die from pregnancy and childbirth. It's just a fact that women have things much harder than men. Some incelesque men just are extremely jealous that women have dating easier.
Lets be real, if incels really wanted to have kids they could use a surrogate though they'd have to have a lot of money. But apparently so many incels are loaded so it should really be no issue for them lol. But it seems dangerous to assume that so long as it is women's free choice, any amount of male inceldom will have no consequences. Consequences of inceldom isn't really our problem tbh.
Well society will still function it will just be that more men will not be breeding but eventually only the good genetics will be left due to natural selection tbh
We’ve had guys here say they’ve been bullied or victimised because woman don’t want to go out with them. I call BS on this I'd want to know why and how TBH
Sorry if they aren't providing support back they're just using you. Don't let yourself be used by someone because you have feelings for them. Being only friends is not being a pet lol wat.
Cold approaching is creepy because they didn't ask for or want that. I think it's only acceptable if you ask for their insta and that's it but if you tried to hit on them straight away it's creepy tbh.
Ok so loads of horny men competing for you so what? 😂 Also most of this is only really true if you are an attractive women. Men are disgusted by women that are overweight and ugly.
My free time I mostly spend on debating, my aquarium and aquascaping, art, nails, hiking, hanging with friends, eating out with my partner, study and gaming
I wouldn't approach a guy myself. That never works out 😂 I prefer something casual for first date like a mall or a park. Something short where I can get away fast if I'm bored or uncomfortable. Have made the mistake of inviting men to my house on first dates which I realized invited sexual attention and was a bad idea in general. I would never go home to a guys place on first date again because too risky.
do you feel that any of his rights are in any way hindered in a similar fashion to your example? That's more like extortion. I'd say he should have a right to waive parental rights in the period abortions allowed. bodily integrity in other words… That's bodily autonomy but yes I'm against conscription
Well what if she went there unconscious? Like whoknows the circumstances really and if she didn't give consent they don't have permission to do anything even if the babys life is in danger.
women get to demand more from men, and they either have to step up or die. Um no men don't die. They simply don't get to breed. Don't know where you got "die" from lol.
I'm saying pregnancy is violating the woman if she doesn't want to be pregnant, and so are other medical people if they touch her without permission or do non-consented to procedures on her.
women simply start off bringing more value just by being women. Well yes that's why women find most men unnattractive. It's definitely possible. It's already happening in Japan and South Korea.
I feel like it's heading toward 40% that will be left out might go higher though. So even with reasonable behavioral adaptation by men, the kinds of high pairing rates seen in the past are just unnatural for women? Just unnatural in nature pretty much really
Female selectivity was suppressed because females were treated like property to be traded and used in arranged marriages to benifit the family. She didn't have much choice over the actual male suitors. It's still pretty common in countries controlled by patriarchy ie muslim with arranged marriages that the women are forced to be married and essentially raped over and over the whole marriage. Very very common.
Well if they don't want to be violated by someone else it should be their right to have an abortion. But in some states its not allowed or has strange restrictions. So already that's forcing the woman to be violated by the fetus then during birth she will get violated again during delivery if they use fingers and instruments to deliver. They're literally constantly sticking their fingers in the woman's vagina to see how dialated she is. It's pretty bad dude.
Women are now able to demand more than they ever have from men and if men can't adapt they will simply be left out. It's nothing to do with behaviour so much. Just expectations men now have to meet.
Lmao my partners literally never used a condom with me. Please 🤦♀️ It's basically impossible to get men to use condoms unless it's in casual sex basically.
5 inch by 5 inch lol I used the pieces in my tank https://preview.redd.it/fbx3cd7j0toe1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=efc7326d4cc330e8264311d3c7313d511d4e5d7e
Yes and a guy bullied me on it for a few months till I left then he lured me back by saying he would stop. He didn't lol. Then I got some sorta weird crush on the guy idfk 😂
cold approach worked, wouldnt everyone be doing it? No then ask yourself this. have you ever heard of a couple who met through cold approach? No are you ok with being a approached by a charity asking you to donate money? No would you ever befreind a guy from a charity just cause you gave him some change? No do you see yourself calling up the guy from the charity to talk about life? No Wtf?
The unfortunate truth is that most men can’t compete with the attraction women feel for the top-tier guys Hot guys are hot yes but it's better to actually date for a relationship on your own tier because better personality likely. The hotter they are they kinda get weirdly entitled tbh. Trust me. Love trumps all this. I think you are hurt by rejection but you need to overcome this.
they want to fuck people they care about Wanting to fucks even worse, u dont even know each other yet really lol. but I will stand up for guys here and say you can’t blame them for thinking your an easy fuck if your gonna do that on a first date. Nah that particular guy was just pornsick and wanted me to seduce him lol.
Mmm see the thing is I could get really hot muscly men with big cocks to fuck but the benifits don't really outweigh the risks. It's almost impossible to screen for if they will be good at sex and at this point its like why even bother then. Especially because I'm very particular with what I like. Had 1 bad experience where I didn't screen the guy at all to see if we were sexually compatible and the sex sucked bad. He also wasn't my type lookswise. If I can't gaurantee the sex would be good I'd …
Men who struggle on the dating market won’t be missed by women for casual relationships. And the more money women make the less they’ll be missed as betabuxers to settle with. This is just rage bait for red pillers. Tell me how its not lol
In their minds, your role is to be a provider, pay for stuff and entertain them. You as a human being don't matter to them that much, you're just a means to an end This is psychopathic. Are you a psychopath? This isn't a relationship.
There are more attractive personality traits yes but it is actually very hard virtually impossible for people to change them. So telling men to work on their personality isn't realistic. Some things like insecurities can be worked on yes but actual personality traits can't really be changed.
I think when it comes down to it having a possitive atitude is going to matter the most or you are going to screw up getting someone because the negative attitude will seep into your dating life.
Did he give you head first at least? Nope 😂🤔 You think it is weird to want to have PIV sex but not weird to go down on a guy on the first date? It's weird to want PIV on first few dates yes.
Weird expectations men get from porn. Like I dated this guy, we had two dates and I thought things were fine right. I mean gave him head on first date even. Turns out he was expecting me to jump on his cock and fuck him. I guess from watching too much porn he thought I was meant to seduce him or some shit? No idea wtf this guy expected lol. Men are mentally fucked from porn these days I swear. 🤔
Umm thats not what you said bro!!! https://preview.redd.it/2aixs9l0snne1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=db9a3f1a9e016d3a350f639ae4b8ee0077f3e01d
Yeah true maybe haha. I don't really watch porn but I go to nsfw pages on reddit and I ended up liking young ripped guys with big dicks so I guess it's affected me too lol
Haha that too, men get to see hyperstimulus more often than is normal like huuuge butts, huuuuge breasts. So they might not be able to even get turned on by normal ones anymore.
They are more careful but it is more to do with socioeconomic status. The poorer you are or general SES status and education level, even in rich countries the more likely you will have unwanted pregnancy and pregnancy in wedlock.
Ah man what are you doing to yourself. Your self medicating with alcohol fr. See a psychiatrist and get antidepressants or antipsychotics they will be better for you ⚘
When I was single I never got approached but maybe I didn't really put myself in situations to get approached anyway like bars or nightclubs idk I'm past that 😂
Arg my coworkers try to have the most cringy conversations with me I'm like cringing inside. Guy I hardly know talking about how for his height he's perfectly porportioned, guys like 5ft 3. Man idc why u telling me this 😒😂
He suggested that we stop speaking until I moved cities to be closer, Sorry but fuck this guy. I'd of been done with him at that point. This man's mentally unstable run.
I think men would feel slightly better about online dating if the apps displayed the amount of times their profile is being shown to women Lol that would just make them more depressed
