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Oh I'm not talking about PPD. I'm talking about the whole of western society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:16 PM
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Sp many threads asking about double standards lately. All of them can be answered by a simple formula that I cane up with years ago. Men bad. Women good. When men do X. X is bad because men bad. When women do X, X is less bad, or even good because women good. That's all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:50 PM
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My whole response to you was nuked for "circlejerking" even though it echos the same sentiments as many other responses that remain up. I can only assume its because I included some factual information that some of the mods here did not like. Like the part about non reciprocal abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:14 PM
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Thinking back on one of my past relationships. My ex would often lash out in public whenever I would say or do something to embarrass her. Intentionally or not. Just a little clip round the back of the head, they were never particularly hard or painful but I definitely felt them and looking back, imagine the stark difference with which people would have viewed the situation if she had embarrassed me and I'd clipped her around the back of the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:31 PM
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Yeah that's why I'm reading through it because the part I read specifically stated IPV which stands for intimate partner violence. It makes no sense for lesbians to be experiencing intimate partner violence at the hands of men. Lesbians don't have sexual or romantic relationships with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:00 PM
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Hmm. I'm going to.download and read through the actual PDF from the CDC, because 2 accounts of their data directly conflict. One says 67.4 report exclusively female perpetrators and the other says 67.4 exclusively male perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:41 PM
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I don't want to sound like a doomer, but I honestly don't know how we go about opening people's eyes to the double standard. As it isn't a double standard of convenience, it's one of intentional discomfort. Posts like yours are definitely the first step though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:23 PM
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Thats a nice bit of cherry picked data from the CDC. But we are talking about domestic violence within relationships. Here is what the CDC says about that. The CDC has stated that 43.8% of lesbian women reported experiencing physical violence, stalking, or rape by their partners. The study notes that, out of those 43.8%, two thirds (67.4%) reported exclusively female perpetrators
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:20 PM
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Hopefully posts like yours can bring some awareness and be the first step along the road to changing our culture somewhat. As doubtful as that is. People don't like uncomfortable truths, so they try to handwave away facts that they don't like. Women are the more casually violent sex in relationships. Now I know this is going to be highly controversial to I will preface this by saying that by "more" I mean more frequently, not that they do more damage. It's why western society likes to focus on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:01 PM
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This is an interesting point. I'd imagine they probably don't. Does anybody else remember those colourful charity wristbands that were all the rage for a while? When I think back to my school days, almost everybody I knew to be a bully wore anti bullying wristbands with pride. It might be easy to just write it off as virtue signalling, and that might have something to do with it. But I think if anyone genuinely asked those kids if they thought of themselves as bullies, they would say no. And if …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:56 PM
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Hopefully posts like yours can bring some awareness and ve the first step along the road to changing our culture somewhat. As doubtful as that is. People don't like uncomfortable truths, so they try to handwoven away facts that they don't like. Women are the more casually violent sex in relationships. Now I know this is going to be highly controversial to I will predict this by saying that by "more" I mean more frequently, not that they do more damage. It's why western society likes to focus on …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:51 PM
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My point is that many things that women here claim to have no knowledge or awareness of, such as who they are attracted to, is NOT a part of the subconscious. It is very much conscious. I'm not claiming women are slaves to their subconscious desires. I'm saying women are claiming that to mask their very real conscious desires. Claiming "I am attracted to B" when the truth is "I am attracted to A which is mutually exclusive with B" has nothing to do with the subconscious or anything like that. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:02 PM
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I don't agree with that. I think the general consensus is that good looking men can get away with being assholes more, and for longer. Not that average or below average guys can't be bad people. I do agree that some guys on here are absolutely clueless and generally that comes from a lack of experience. For example lumping guys that have tattoos in with "bad boys". Just embarrassing stuff that shouldn't be taken seriously. I think its generally a case of what you can get away with. Good looking …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:50 PM
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Because we’re expected to take y’all at your words. If people tend to say what makes them look good then apply that rhetoric across the board. Men aren't using their subconscious and their lack of awareness about it to remove accountability from themselves. The amount of comments I see from women here saying stuff like. "We aren't intentionally lying, we sometimes just aren't aware of our own subconscious desires and thoughts." is ridiculous. While I don't agree with the redpill sentiment of "wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:39 PM
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Very true. That leaves us with a question doesn't it? Are women lying about, or at the very least hyperbolising the way their chosen men treat them? Or is there a specific subset of top tier men that the majority of women are attracted to? Top tier men that say, don't have to show women basic human decency in order to get what they want out of them. Dating is after all, a game of supply and demand. Top tier men are in high demand and short supply, it would logically make sense that women are wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:26 PM
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It really doesn't. The vast, VAST majority of men actually treat women better than they treat men. I.e. treating them better than the average human being. The fact that women are almost exclusively dating men that treat them poorly to the extent that "we just want to be treated as human beings" is a regular complaint is extremely telling of what women value in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:44 AM
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Don't forget shower and get a haircut. Shower. Haircut. Treat women like people. It's that simple!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:34 AM
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No because the patriarchy is a conspiracy theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:23 PM
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If people took it at face value, places like PPD, TRP etc wouldn't exist. Everybody knows people like to virtue signal, especially on the Internet where you can't fact check an anonymous username. It's what makes places like PPD useful imo. Because even through all the virtue signalling most people on here include little snippets of truth in their posts. You just have to pay attention so that you are able to spot them. In fact, I'd even go a step further that the only person people are trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:31 PM
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Haha. Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:58 AM
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Same, though I wouldn't even use the term bad boy. It's more nuances than that. What women like is men with the ability and means to be destructive. Not in a self destructive way, but in the sense that he can be destructive to the people around him. Assertive, dangerous men. These men aren't necessarily bad, but these traits can and sometomes do result in negative outcomes for society and the women themselves. I always think of it like a school scenario. Think back to your own school days. Who d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:26 AM
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You don't understand women. Women get off on the feeling that their life is in your hands. Especially during sex. That if you wanted to, you have the power to, and could end her at any moment. Women are disgusted by men who don't have the power or the means to hurt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:15 AM
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Not a strawman. I see it on here all the time. I just saw it again today which is what made me feel the urge to post this. I'm actually sympathetic to aspects of the "women like bad boys" argument. But a lot of guys on PPD are clueless and it shows with their infantile ideas of what makes somebody good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:12 AM
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Some guys on here need to get a grip. Every time I stop by PPD I see somebody complaining that women only go for bad boys, and then when asked what they mean by bad boy they give some ridiculous example like a guy that has tattoos. Wtf? Stop it, you're killing your credibility with this stupid shit. Having tattoos has absolutely nothing to do with being a good or bad person. It's an aesthetic choice, nothing more. This not only makes people not take you seriously, it also gives them an out to no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:55 AM
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A lot of women just block upvote women that disagree with men on here. The content of the post is irrelevant. As a guy I have posted stuff on here critical of men, got maybe 3 or 4 upvotes, had a woman type "^ this" under my post and get upwards of 30 upvotes. On the flipside they also block downvote posts critical of women, no matter if its a man or woman doing the criticising. There was a post here the other week where a female user made a post where she made about 100 criticisms of men, and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:30 AM
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Benzo?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:32 AM
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Fun fact. MMA boyfriend actually didn't lose that fight. He got hurt early but turned things around and stopped the other guy. She actually fought the same night and lost her fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:39 AM
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This place seems to have gotten even more mentally ill since I've been gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:35 AM
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Yeah, no. It doesnt work like that unfortunately. I thought the same back when I first started posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:33 PM
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Pretty obvious why, even though you are correct. Demographic that tends not to orgasm during sex is women. Women also tend to put the burden of making her orgasm on men. Your post is essentially telling them that they need to take responsibility for not reaching climax instead of blaming their sex partner, or expecting the man to just "get it" and know what she likes inherently. In short, you asked women to have some accountability. Always results in downvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:05 AM
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The best is when they ask for a source. You provide one, they immediately dismiss it and say "That's from (insert publication here), I'm not reading that." Then they ask for a credible source. You provide 3 more sources all saying the same thing. They say "no, not those, I said credible sources." Then you ask what they mean by credible. Turns out it just means one that they agree with politically or ideologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:23 PM
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It's easier for people to believe that the world is somehow just, and that it is just according to their own specific worldview. Obviously it's fallacious, but it's more comforting than the reality that good things happen to bad people and vice versa. Could also be that people just don't think their positions through and their desire to hurt the feelings of whoever they are disagreeing with overrides basic logic. For example women telling incels they are alone and always will be because they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:46 PM
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Nah I just assumed because usually the "I am the one true leftist" type posts come from tankies, and you have expressed anti capitalist views on here before. Tankie, anarchist, Either way, dumb as a doorknob.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:46 PM
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They are all offshoots of left wing thought and come out of leftist movements. The left encompasses more than your tankie groups dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:02 PM
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One of the threads on the main page got me thinking. Anybody else notice how left wing rhetoric often relies on people not taking it at face value? They say one thing that sounds very controversial on the surface, recieve appropriate backlash, then claim X thing doesn't literally mean X thing, it means Y. Then when you ask why they don't just say Y then, they never have a good answer, or they call you names and double down on X. Examples are; Kill all men- "Doesnt literally mean we want to kill …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:52 PM
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If you ever doubted it check out the weirdo running defense for said pedo and domestic abiser in my replies. I also linked the comment where the dude admitted everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:54 PM
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No you're wrong once again. He was absolutely a wolf in sheep's clothing. Whether he continued beating women and raping children AFTER finding feminism is irrelevant. The fact is many men don't need to find a religion or dogma to tell them doing that stuff is wrong. Many male feminists have dark shit like that in their past, and identifying as a protector of women is their way of atoning for what they have done to women in the past. I'm assuming you're a triggered male feminist who claims to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:50 PM
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That isnt true. I said many people become male feminists because they have skeletons in their closet. Stop goal post moving because you were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:39 PM
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My bad. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ac3brv/comment/ed4ztps/ Like that? Anyway you see the comment? I wasn't lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:36 PM
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So was I. And not only was I there, I saved the post where he admitted all of it. Unlike you I actually have the receipts because for some reason whenever I mention it some weird pedo sympathiser like yourself decides to lie about it. So, want me to link the post amd we can go over exactly what was said and why you are lying about me reframing it? Out of interest though, what makes you want to run defense for child rapists and domestic abusers? You feel some kind of kindred spiritship with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:46 PM
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A few years ago UK women voted baldness as the number one unattractive trait in men, so it checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:37 PM
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What am I regrading exactly? Are you pedo mod on his new account or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:22 PM
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It's actually kind of unnerving how many far leftist ideologue reddit mods have been unveiled as nonces.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:02 PM
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He sure did. What's crazy is the amount of women here at the time that continued to defend him and other mods who went to bat for him and used the "no witch hunting" rule to threaten to ban people who brought it up in arguments with or about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:47 PM
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Any man who throws other men under the bus and throws himself at the feet of women is sus. Male feminists come in one of two flavours, the gullible guys who eat up everything he's told about how the world is patriarchal and how wome are treated so much worse than men, and buys into the licentiate he is unfairly privileged, and the much more nefarious wolf in sheep's clothing types. Usually those are the guys that have skeletons in their closet. Including the ultra blue pilled male feminist mod t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:41 PM
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This doesn't shock me at all. In fact, on the whole gendered name making women treat him better thing, it brings to mind when it was found that female teachers were grading girls higher than boys for the exact same work. For the experiment, the people doing the study submitted a bunch of identical exams, that were worded differently but should have all received the exact same grades. They put girls names on some of them and put boys names on others. What they found was that when female teachers …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:29 PM
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The sisterhood is real. It reminds me of when it was found that female teachers were grading girls higher than boys for the exact same work. For the experiment, the people doing the study submitted a bunch of identical exams, that were worded differently but should have all received the exact same grades. They put girls names on some of them and put boys names on others. What they found was that when female teachers graded the exams, the ones signed with female names received higher marks than t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:24 PM
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Exactly. And they say men are the ones with a dual mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:52 PM
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There's a reason dudes used to pretend to be girls on WoW all the time back in the day. Help on raids, showered with free high level gifts in game. The benefits were insane. Competency is expected as a man, and a lack of it will cause derision, whereas a lack of competency as a woman sets of men's protection instincts and a desire to be useful to her. Feminists try to twist this as a lack of respect for women and an assumption of incompetence when there is assumed competence for men. But like I …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:49 PM
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There was that study a while back that showed women mistake special treatment for regular olf equality. They are so used to being treated especially well just for being women that they mistake equal treatment to what a man would receive as hostility and discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:39 PM
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Women are forgiving of Chad when he cheats. They don't forgive all men. Just because she takes Chad back when he steps out on her, doesn't mean she'll take you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:27 PM
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Chad always gets forgiveness. It's one of the many perks of being Chad. Billy beta doesn't even get forgiven for forgetting to take the garbage out, let alone cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:25 PM
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It's also funny that this is always framed as something men do to women. The last I remember, there was a study done about the amount of people by gender who had experienced sexual assault. When they included coercion to have sex within a relationship as a form of SA, men were equally or even slightly more likely to have been sexually assaulted than women were.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:48 PM
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The thing is, what women now describe as "toxic masculinity" is actually just masculinity. And it's masculinity (not confidence in and of itself, that's simply a part of masculinity) that women are attracted to. They are quite literally biologically predisposed to find it attractive. Masculinity leads men to be confident, dominant, unafraid to not go with the flow, DGAF attitude, slightly dangerous. All of these traits are highly alluring to women. It's why in a room of ten men. Women will ignor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:45 PM
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Not sure. I'm a man. Any time I disagree with woman on reddit I get called some variation of incel/virgin/loser. I've been posting on PPD on and off for the past 5 years, most of that time I was in a relationship. As of recently in in a relationship again. I have never experienced a time on here where I haven't been called those things or seen other men been called those things. So it rings hollow to claim it has ever been taboo, and a post where people virtue signal that it's wrong and people s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:49 PM
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Imagine being shocked that a supremacy group has double standards for people who don't fall within what their supremacy group advocates for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:35 PM
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It is. Unfortunately a lot of people who live in the real world don't live in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:33 PM
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Reddit has no bearing on wider society. Its essentially a bubble. An echo chamber. And its also full of people that love to virtue signal how great a person they are. I wonder how many people on here have stood on a hypothetical soapbox about how virgin shaming is wrong, and then gone on to call people an incel because they said something they didn't like. If Reddit was indicative of reality, Kamala Harris would have won the US election, in a landslide that broke all records.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:27 PM
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Only thing I disagree with is that it allowed people to virgin shame men again. This never went out of fashion or became taboo. It's always happened and always will. It just changed the verbiage from virgin/loser/creep (anything that signals a man's undesirability to women) to incel. It just made it easier by creating an all encompassing term. There has never been any push back against virgin shaming men like there has been with slut shaming women. Because people don't care about men's plights a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:07 PM
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Wish no more then. You aren't right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:51 PM
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Again. I don't need to. That isn't how the burden of proof works. You made a claim, other people are free to believe you're wrong if you fail to provide proof, or even just evidence of said claim. You calling something a conspiracy doesn't make it so, you calling something far right or fascism doesn't make it so. And since you refuse to define any of the terms you are throwing around, I am free to believe you don't understand them and your claims or wrong, or even outright lies. In fact, your de…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:34 PM
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I don't need to disprove your statement, It doesn't work like that. You made the claim and you're the one that would need to prove that claim. First I would need a definition of far right and a bunch of examples of the conspiracies people had that were proven wrong, with said proof that they were in fact wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:22 PM
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I can't stand TikTok but it really is a treasure trove of women telling on themselves. Half the videos on there are attractive women talking about how Chad mistreated them or said really out of pocket things after they matched on dating apps, but they still went on to fuck and/or date them. The best one I saw recently was some blonde that said dude she matched witch's first message to her was "I want to shit in your mouth tonight". Instead of immediately blocking, she messages back and asked why…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:20 PM
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I don't think you are stupid. I think you are an NPC that calls everything you don't like fascism because that's what everybody seems to do these days. Especially if you are calling conservatives in the anglosphere fascists. You can be intelligent and not know what fascism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:08 PM
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Somehow I highly doubt you were correct and I doubt even moreso that you could correctly explain to me what fascism is without consulting a dictionary for a basic bitch definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:47 AM
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This is because victimhood has become a social currency. If we stopped living in a world where being a victim got you things in life, if western society stopped being a victimocracy, then this would all cease.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:38 AM
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Deus vult!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:46 PM
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I would assume so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:31 PM
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I don't know. Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:33 PM
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Almost all of them do it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:52 PM
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Huh. Maybe just take it down a notch then. Women tend to like rough piv, but your dick doesn't have hard sharp parts like your fingers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:18 PM
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They love it in my experience. How are your hands? Do you have long nails or short stubby fingers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:14 PM
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Triggered by American use of "Could care less". It's the opposite of what you actually mean!!! Amd yea I know the first response to this will be "I could care less", and yes it will trigger me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:08 PM
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Probably meant as a joke but actually true. It's been shown that parents are quicker to comfort crying baby girls than they are to comfort crying baby boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:01 PM
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This is a LARP, but a funny one to be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:49 PM
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That's basically all celebrities though. They all vote blue no matter who because there's too much dirt on them, and they will be ruined if they don't. Of course, many are true believers anyway because they're in that bubble. Between Hollywood casting couch shit, Diddy's freak offs and Eastern Island, a lot of these degenerates would be fucked if they didn't do what their handlers tell them to do at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:44 PM
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You are vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:36 PM
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Right. So which is more hypocritical. People who enjoy music despite them not agreeing with the political messaging it contains. Or women who claim to be feminists who will laugh at 50% of women should they be unfortunate enough to be a victim of rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:30 PM
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I believe the term you used was "I will laugh" and she agreed. True feminists with women's best interests at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:25 PM
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No I'm referring to you agreeing with that other poster who said she would laugh at women who voted for Trump if they get sexually assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:13 PM
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Who are the real hypocrites? Women who voted republican who sing along to song lyrics, or self identified feminists who are salivating at the thought of women who voted wrong being raped like you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:04 PM
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She is literally one of the people you are talking about. She doesn't care. She is also gloating about citizens who voted for Trump being deported. She's salivating at the thought of women who voted for Trump being raped. Providing proof to her means nothing, she doesn't consider anybody that voted "wrong" to be people anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:57 PM
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Reminds of when Obama said he used to pretend to be a Marxist in college in order to get laid with the wannabe revolutionist chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:44 PM
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Laughing at rape to own the chuds. Sincerely, the good guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:23 PM
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Functions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:36 PM
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When you post about how communism is a failed system that doesn't work and don't receive triple digit downvotes. Even reddit is healing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:32 PM
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Tribes is probably most fitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:30 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:29 PM
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Hey men, you're fucking trash. Your very nature is to be nothing but trash and we hate you. I'd tell you to be better but I know it's futile because you are TRASH. Oh yeah, do me a favour and vote for my team by the way. Wtf? Why did men vote for the other team?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:59 PM
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They've been laughing at them though? I will concede though, it may be a punishment to the leftist numales in the poly/cuck community that they were sometimes sleeping with. Left wing men will be the ones being punished for right leaning men's actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:11 PM
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I'm sure they could get laid, but we are talking blue haired (or bald) overweight women with a bunch of tattoos and nose rings, always the nose rings. Really these women taking themselves off the market is not a punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:02 PM
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Have you seen them? It's "voluntary" and If you ask most men their terms are entirely acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:56 PM
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They aren't the same gender so I don't think it applies. From what I remember it's mostly women that vote based on looks, so it primarily affects male candidates. If the dems had put forward a hotter younger dude against Trump we may have seen even more women turn out for them. Let's say they ran the Rock, I know he's too muscular to be everybody's cup of tea but I don't think even hardcore Trumpers would deny he's better looking than a near 80 year old. I'm from the UK and even though he looks …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:04 PM
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r/thathappened I'm sure they also screamed "This is MAGA country again" Before she admonished them and recieved a standing ovation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:56 PM
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Leftists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:52 PM
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He didn't need to be drop dead gorgeous. He just needed to be better looking than his opposition. It's been well known for years that looks influence elections.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:50 PM
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"Genuinely" There's your mistake. Nobody sets up a camera and films themself having meltdown if they are being authentic. It is entirely performative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:37 PM
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This goes the other way as well. The most ardent socialists and pro equity people become hardcore meritocrats when it comes to dating. People are hypocrites and attune their values to whatever benefits them. Nothing will ever change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:34 PM
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"Too many" Latino people see themselves as white-adjacent? What do you mean by this? Racism is clearly alive and well. When you are in a racism competition and your competition is a leftist. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:31 PM
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I don't think they think about Native Americans at all except when they can use them to virtue signal. Like when Ben and Jerry's tweeted that everybody needs to give "stolen" indigenous land back. And they were quickly called out by the Nulhegan Band of the Coosuk Abenaki Nation, because Ben N Jerry's HQ is built on their tribe's land. They and ebery other leftists went deathly quiet about indigenous land over night.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:06 PM
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Yeah they are too small a percentage for leftists to rage about. Latino men are the minority demographic that in their eyes swayed the election.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:57 PM
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Mainstream political subs are full of leftist "anti racists" calling Hispanic and Latino men all kinds of racial slurs. Assumptions that ALL of them are illegal (despite "no human being is illegal") and LARPing about how they are going to call ICE and get them deported. Also they have joined dthe "white-adjacent" club alongside Asians. So inclusive. Much tolerant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:47 PM
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You're half right. Most Trump supporters voted on things that actually affect the working class and blue collar workers. The economy, gas and grocery prices, that sort of thing. The leftist voter base seem to think they have their priorities wrong, that they should vote for things the working class care far less about. The ability to kill unborn children, foreign wars, and identity politics. Anybody who doesn't think that their focus on identity politics, their constant demonisation of white peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:43 PM
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Yes, but the difference is the left hasn't intentionally alienated women for years. And far less leftists are blaming women for Trump being elected, the ones that have been are blaming their whiteness, not them being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:28 PM
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Yup. Even the well meaning people were like "we need to be nicer to men... until after the election." The left will keep hemorrhaging male voters until they recognise that men are people too and not just ticks on a voting ballot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:20 PM
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A huge thing that the Democrats will have to reckon with going forward is their almost complete alienation of men. When your voter base so outwardly and proudly hates men, (not to mention white people, straight people etc), it should not come as a shock when men don't vote for you. When there is nothing but a sea of anti male propaganda from he government, media and institutions, no shit men are going to become disillusioned with you. To be fair the Dems did realise this and tried to reach acros…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:11 PM
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It's even better when you realise they always have been that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:52 PM
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Yeah. Us being so vitriolic and hateful and turning most young men away from out cause is proof that our cause is needed! I'm sure doubling down will fix everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:51 PM
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Have you seen the women saying they are going full 4B? Let's just say their terms are acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:15 PM
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I kind of agree with this. Kamala could have been anyone. The issue is the party's message, and perhaps even more important than the party itself, the messages and ideologies of the supporters of the party. When you so outwardly hate men, you can't be surprised when men don't vote for you. Even the cringey "white dudes for Kamala" campaign had to shit on men while trying to attract them to their side. Like "finally a place where us white men can gather and for once we aren't even wearing KKK uni…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:53 PM
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Leftist freakout compliation channels are going to be eating well for the next few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:00 PM
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Holy based
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:48 PM
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Yeah. Saying they are no longer going to be having untold amounts of unprotected sex with strangers is not the flex American women seem to think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:39 PM
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Hey now, Kamala had Dick Cheney and the white supremacist Richard Spencer!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:20 PM
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He's literally me!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:17 PM
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You'd fit in well with most friend groups in the UK. The more we like you the worse we treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:10 PM
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Reddit nerds? Outside? Does not compute.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:55 PM
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Not to mention all the "anti-racists" now openly calling Latinos racial slurs on r/politics Shouldn't be a surprise though, anybody who has seen how white leftists treat black guys who aren't Dems knew this is how they would react.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:50 PM
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Because women arent a monolith. Yes, and that's why your assertion cannot be true. But I cant even get guys here to generally agree with women who express when a guy shows creepy behaviour That's precisely BECAUSE it's subjective. They simply disagree with you on what is and isn't creepy behaviour. Even if you were to ask only women you wouldn't be able to achieve a consensus. For your assertion to be true that guys just want to be able to get away with being creepy, there would have to be a con…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:45 PM
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The coastal elites are fucking degenerates confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:19 PM
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Yeah I know. You missed the joke. Every subreddit that theoretically should have nothing to do with politics became extentions of the Dems' campaign and anybody who even questioned it was unceremoniously kicked out by unhinged mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:17 PM
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"What the fuck has all this anti Trump stuff got to do.with comics?" r/comics jannies- "comics?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:13 PM
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If women are receptive to some guys for doing X behaviour and call other guys creeps for doing it, then it isn't the behaviour that's creepy. Don't get me wrong, some behaviour are objectively creepy, but for the most part it's subjective. Most cases are things that are toeing the line between creepy and acceptable, and it depends on the man doing it regarding which side of the line it falls on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:00 PM
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Lucky Number Slevin
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:26 PM
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I also prefer when you guys go mask off. It's going to result in many more losses in the polls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:43 PM
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Women: I am not a sex object. Also women: men did a thing I don't approve of, I'll show them. I'm going to deny them the use of my holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:42 PM
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I didn't vote for Trump. I'm not even American. But you keep on with proving my point repeatedly. We've gone from "Trump supporters are too stupid to know what they are voting for" to "Trump supporters are either too stupid to know what they are voting for, or they're evil." Lmao. The sheer hubris.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:33 PM
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Just like the people screaming and having breakdowns that they conveniently filmed for TikTok, it is entirely performative. The whole purpose is to signal that they aren't one of the bad people that voted wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:23 PM
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Leftoids try to reply without proving my point challenge. Impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:13 PM
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Comparing people that voted Republican with flat earthers isn't helping with the image of leftists being elitists that think Republicans are too dumb to know what they're voting for. Why does everybody replying to me make my point for me? Are you guys even trying?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:09 PM
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We disagree on what is and isn't a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:05 PM
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You didn't need to literally say it. This is the mindset of the left all over reddit. Shit, every other reply you have received from your fellow leftists is basically what I posted, despite me deliberately trying to be hyperbolic. So to answer your question, yes, leftists are absolutely elitist and it's something they need to curtail if they ever want to get working class and blue collar workers back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:04 PM
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The left on mainstream reddit literally think Trump is going to start rounding up women, minorities and the LGBT community and putting them in execution camps. The right does not have a monopoly on stupid people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:50 PM
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Lol. During covid lockdowns thots went stir crazy after not having sex for about 2 weeks. Social media was full of women crying that they hadn't had a dick appointment in forever (forever being about 11 days).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:48 PM
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"Petunia! The uneducated poors are acting out again. They are voting against their best interests according to me. Don't they understand that we, their betters, know what's best for them?" Yeah, absolutely no idea why people would call this mindset elitist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:46 PM
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It's a meaningless distinction. If modern day "liberals" are opposed to liberalism, Americans need to find a different term for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:41 PM
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You are unironocally doing the thing lmao. I just want to shake the stupid poors. They don't understand what they're voting for. They should listen to me damnit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:27 PM
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You are an extreme leftist and you prove my point perfectly. You call the Dems center right like the Junts because they are not leftist enough for YOU. And of course you cite comrade Bernie as an actual leftist. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:19 PM
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I'm not American so we have a different understanding of the terms. Liberals aren't even on the left. Liberals believe in liberalism and in American terms are closer to libertarians. The dems are in no way liberal. They are leftists. They just aren't leftisr enough for more extreme leftists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:09 PM
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This mindset is all over mainstream reddit. And then in the same breath they go on to lament that the Dems failed to sufficiently appeal to the rich. I can only conclude they are living in whatever the opposite of reality is. The dems pretty much ONLY appealed to the rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:02 PM
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"Haha, imagine voting on issues like the economy and grocery and gas prices. You sound poor." Leftoids still don't understand that this kind of elitism is exactly why they lost the working class, the very people they claim to (but clearly don't) champion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:51 PM
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There was a time when people thought professional wrestling was real.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:48 PM
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Look for long enough and you always notice that whatever the "chuds" are accused of, it's either barely existent or not there at all. If the leftist subreddits had an issue with racism, they would have banned themselves long ago. Right now the mainstream politics sub is filled with comments of people throwing out racial slurs towards Hispanics and Latinos because they voted wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:35 PM
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Censorship creating ideological echo chambers. Redditors forget silencing people from participating on your website doesn't cause them to stop existing. They still go out and vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:29 PM
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People who can't even define woman are now having full blown fits about how women's rights are going to be taken away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:27 PM
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Did you respond to the right person? Wtf you on about blud?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:44 PM
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But what if the baby is a threat to "our democracy™"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:57 PM
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Why stop there? Why not make post birth abortions legal as well? Hear me out comrade, imagine a woman gives birth to a son (gross already, but it gets worse girlfriend) he grows up, and when he gets to voting age, it turns out he is a Conservative! Yuck! Late stage abortions would solve this. We could take out any dissenters to out society of love, tolerance and peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:53 PM
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Symptom of people reducing everything down to a black and white issue. Acting like something that is actually quite comically and nuanced is simple and you need to have the exact same views on it as me or you are a nazi/incel/insert other slur. Also a matter of people talking past each other. For pro choices it's a matter of women's bodily autonomy and they view pro lifers as cartoon villains that vote against abortions because they want to remove women's rights. For pro lifers it's a matter of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:39 PM
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Every time I see a mosandrist or misandric subreddot get banned, it's because they said something against the T part of LGBT. It's never for the misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:07 PM
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Becoming respectable, dignified young women that don't dress provocatively or act like thots to own the chuds. I see this as an absolute win.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:42 PM
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Misandry became commonplace here when FDS was privated/banned and they all migrated here. It was pretty commonplace even before that but that's when it really exploded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:37 PM
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conservatives are easier to exist around. Yeah no shit. Leftists have a constantly tightening purity spiral that you have to keep pace with or be abandoned by the group. If you agree with leftists on 14 issues but disagree with them on 1 then not only are you not a true leftist, you are a far right chud fascist and go fuck yourself. The right has no such issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:34 PM
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"You're a lesbian? You just haven't had the right dick yet." "You're straight? You just haven't had the right pussy yet" Lesbian misandrists unironocally giving the same energy as the men they have hated for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:28 PM
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"Because of the election I am no longer going to have casual sex with strangers on the regular" Based
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:11 PM
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Oh of course. As long as the dems keep demonising men they are closing themselves off to a significant demographic of voters. They won't learn though, they just double down ebery time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:13 AM
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To be fair they infantilise everybody that votes for the right to an extent. "The uneducated poors don't understand what is best for them. They should listen to their betters, us, about who they should vote for."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:49 AM
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Male feminists are either Simpson using the 'sneaky fucker" mating strategy. Or they are actual wolves in sheep's clothing trying to hide in plain sight, because they are a fanger to women and have skeletons in their closet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:34 AM
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Women won't last. Remember covid during lockdowns? Thots were going stir crazy because they hadn't had their dick appointment in 2 weeks. Single guys are used to going months without sex. We'll see who caves first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:26 AM
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I think this is pretty common. I've seen a ton of couples that are together for years and years, no marriage, no kids. They split, get with other people and woman gets pregant to the new guy within months and they are married after about a year. I guess when you know its the one, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:23 AM
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Every time I see some white knight on a mainstream sub calling men incels for normal takes, and check their profile, it's always the exact same stuff. Just comment after comment on "rateme" type subs calling barely legal age women beautiful, gorgeous, sexy, baby etc. Male "allies" spend all day gooning to pictures of women on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:14 PM
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Aaaah, it's ancient history now. Appreciate it though, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:15 PM
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Kids are allowed but parents have to take them home by 9pm so you can all "get your freak on".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:17 PM
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You could set up a Diddy style house of horrors. Bulk purchase baby oil. Stack up the boxes from floor to ceiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:12 PM
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Kind of a lame question. Nobody is going to vote for a candidate they hate if their options are "good life" if they don't vote for him and "marginally improved good life" if they do. A better question is an either/or scenario such as "would you vote for a candidate you dislike if he could provide the ability for you to have your dream life" vs voting for somebody you like but will run your country into the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:53 PM
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Can confirm. My ex cut her waist length hair to a bob about a month before she told me (on my birthday no less) that she was emotionally cheating on me with a married dude. She then ran off to be the married dude's side piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:48 PM
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Women would just want the top 5-10% of the remaining smaller number of men. You'd still have to be among the best of the bunch to be in with a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:15 PM
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I would assume it does yeah. Men notoriously won't go and see a doctor even if they are on death's door. And trying to get them to is like pulling teeth. That also makes sense though. Men who are more neurotic and complain about being ill instead of silently suffering are accused of having "man flu" and TikTok has shown us how men showing any sign of illness, weakness, or anything that makes him look marginally less masculine even if only for an instant is added to the list of "icks".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:05 PM
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I don't think those things are mutually exclusive. I've seen plenty of women comment on the Internet saying they don't approach precisely because every time they have done so it worked out poorly for them and they felt humiliated. That the guys always shoot her down harshly. That means the guys they approach are vastly out of their league. Woman approaches a few super hot guys. Gets brutally rejected. Rejection hurts. Woman vows to stop approaching to prevent further hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:53 PM
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Quality of life is still the biggest indicator of life expectancy. Loneliness factors into QoL so it makes sense. Women across the board show higher levels of neuroticism than men and yet, on average, women live longer in every culture on the globe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:48 PM
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I've long since stopped believing that women are simply naive in these situations. They don't just accept free drink after free drink thinking the guy is only being kind. It's like when the dude asks her to come back to his, and then she is shocked when he attempts to make a move on her. No way she thought he actually just wanted to show her his lego collection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:07 AM
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Probably many bordering on most. The male fantasy in romcoms is that the woman finally sees how great and kind and caring the geeky beta orbiter is and ends up with him over the douchey jock Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:02 AM
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Its something you just have to get used to and put up with. I'm no threat to women, never have been and never will be. Women still cross the street to avoid me when we just happen to be going the same way when I'm on my way home. People are rightfully protective of kids, but I do think western society has taken it a bit far. There have been multiple stories of dads out and about with their young kids having the police called on them because some random bystanders assumed he was a kidnapper.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:52 AM
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Pass. Smoking is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:45 AM
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There already is no patriarchy. It's a conspiracy theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:32 AM
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Yeah it's completely normal. It's only recently I've seen people complain about it, and only on reddit, never in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:52 AM
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It amazes me that there are moral busybodies that complain when people saying "my wife". I've seen it a bunch lately on other subreddits. "Oh so what, do you think you own her?" If the dude called his wife by her name nobody reading would know who he was talking about. And why don't these people ever complain about people saying "my mum" "my sister" "my uncle"? It"s almost like we all say "my" when we talk about peoples relations to US.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:36 AM
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Nope. Caring about how their partner compares to others is something women care about. Men couldn't care less. If I'm attracted to her why would I care if anybody else is or isn't? In fact, if she isn't constantly being hit on or in flirtatious situations with other dudes I call that a bonus. I would prefer other me to not find her attractive and not be trying to poach her. When women rock up to a party with their man, they want him to turn heads, to make other women in the room jealous. When a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:51 PM
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Listing all of those Japanese games is kind of pointless, because nobody said there's a lack of straight female characters in games. They said there's a lack of straight female protagonists. Persona and Ys, female characters in those JRPGs are NPCs, and they are RPGs anyway, which means player choice is involved. You make a good point about Bayonetta. I do recall her being straight because I remember progressive twitter threw a shit fit about it. Maybe you can't go as far as to say Lara Croft us…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:37 PM
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Oh I completely agree with you on that. Voting with your wallet will course correct the industry, in time. The ideologues that have infested every level of the the gaming industry will fight it every step of the way, but eventually the investors will want to stop hemorrhaging money. My disagreement with you isn't ideological or trying to dismiss the plethora of great RPGs out there. My point is, even if you can make an albino Polynesian with ginger hair in an RPG, that doesn't mean there isn't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:21 PM
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Most of these modern games starring canonical lesbians are made by progressives with a deliberate mission statement to avert the "male gaze" so if your implication is they make these women lesbians to titilate men I'm going to have to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:10 PM
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Basically every first party Sony title has a female protagonist these days. Usually having replaced the previous male lead. Elly in TLOU (replaced Joel) and she's a lesbian. Aloy in the Horizon games (Lesbian) Atsu in Ghost of Yotei (replaced Jin Sakai) *not out yet so jury is out on Lesbian status but highly likely being a Sony title Tomb Raider reboots (Lara was straight in the original trilogy but was made lesbian in the side content of the reboot trilogy) Max in Life is Strange. Lesbian. Ken…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:05 PM
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I just replied to you elsewhere. It isn't cherry picking. The key word here being canonically. RPGs are a genre defined by player choice. If a Polynesian gamer complained that there is a lack of Polynesian protagonists in games, listing RPGs as examples of games with those types of protagonists would be a cop out, as you, the player can create anybody you like. And it wouldn't change that there aren't really any games with Polynesian protagonists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:47 PM
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Why would it be disingenuous? If his hypothesis is that there's a lack of canonically straight female protagonists (which is a sound hypothesis, as it's true), then it makes no sense to include RPGs. Where the protagonist is neither canonocally straight, or even canonically female.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:43 PM
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Any insult loses it's sting when people are called it for even the smallest transgressions, or even nothing at all. Being called a misogynist by a PPD woman doesn't mean anything, beyond that you disagreed with her. Being called an incel might upset an actual incel, maybe. But for the most part it doesn't mean anything anymore. It means whatever any given woman wants it to mean in the exact instant she calls you it. I got called incel on here a bunch whilst in the midst of a 6 year long relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:27 PM
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He said not counting RPGs. I think he means female protagonists that are canonically straight, not ones where you can choose who you romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:20 PM
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It's made by progressives, so small bordering on none existent. Making the women feminine is a risk too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:16 PM
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Tomb Raider got a reboot and while she doesn't have any romantic partners in the games they gave her a girlfriend in the side comics. So nope, Lara Croft has joined the LGBT community along with every other modern female game protagonist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:12 PM
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None. Especially in first party Sony titles. Every protagonist these days is a lesbian, and they always keep that information for the 2nd game when people are already somewhat invested. At best you can play RPGs where you have a bunch of men and women to choose to date, but canonically straight female protagonists are rare with a capital R.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:11 PM
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I know the pair of cucks from Good Mythical Morning. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:08 PM
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"Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat" - Hillary Clinton "Women though saved through the noble sacrifice of men, were in the equally hard position of having to see the ship go down" - An unnamed suffragette who gave an interview to the New York Times about the Titanic sinking. To feminists, men aren't even the primary victims of their own deaths. Women are. Even when men die to protect women, women are most affected. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:52 PM
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Karen is great! So much more well spoken (or written in this case) than I am though. She actually used to post on PPD years and years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:29 PM
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But again, where's the equality? Why are feminists not concerned about making up 50% of oil rigs workers? Deep sea fishermen? Loggers? Trash collectors? Long haul drivers? Sewage divers? Oh right, it doesn't matter if men are over represented in all the grimy, dirty, dangerous jobs that nobody wants to do. But God forbid they get paid more than the average hairdresser or babysitter because that's like, literally misogyny and oppression or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:40 PM
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I agree in that I don't think Feminism and misandry are the same thing, but I do think misandry is baked into feminism at it's core and has been for a long time. I remember reading an article on a feminist site years ago protesting the gap between women's and men's workplace injuries and deaths closing. And the crazy part is, women's workplace deaths weren't increasing, men's were just decreasing. And it was made out to be a huge issue for women. Less men dying at work should be celebrated, inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:46 PM
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I would say they infantilise women, rather than dehumanise them. Feminists (ironically) treat women as objects, who go through life with the world and men acting upon them, rather than as agents who act upon the world. Removing women's agency allows them to hide from the consequences of their own actions and shirk any kind of accountability. And it is entirely intentional, a feature of feminism rather than a bug. It is logical when you remember feminism uses a Marxian framework where there alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:03 PM
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Good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:54 PM
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My issue is, feminism is uniquely appealing to misandrists in a way that say, egalitarianism isn't, for obvious reasons. I don't think it's fair to say misandrists are masquerading as feminists, as there isn't much of a distinction to begin with. Look at the majority of feminist literature, it is steeped in misandry and has been from the start. And as you said, its interesting how no women or self described feminists call out the misandry within their own movement. Yet they all crawl out of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:42 PM
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What is the noble cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:34 PM
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You're replying to a woman though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:16 PM
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A subset of women are there just for validation. I've started talking to women on apps who have said they're just looking for followers on Instagram. And another I thought I was clicking with said she wasn't looking for a relationship, she just wanted a partner to shoot some onlyfans scenes with. Instant next.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:17 PM
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Ohhh yeah. My bad, I totally agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:12 PM
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Not sure about dating apps, but singles meet ups this is the mindset for sure. You always see women online complaining about going to singles events and there being no men there. And it's obvious why there are no men there. Any man that needs to go to a singles event is not a man the women there will be interested in. The men they want don't need to attend them, and the men that would need to attend them know better than to go to their own metaphorical public execution.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:11 PM
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Who is being censored? "I won't date you if you sleep around and are in debt" is not censorship? Or is there a new definition i'm not aware of?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:57 PM
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Yup. This is how they rationalise their fabled "creep detector" which is actually pretty ingenious on their part. They have successfully managed to mask their disgust for unattractive and/or socially awkward men as a danger detector, so they get to both brutally reject and insult men they find gross, and receive empathy and pity for it at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:23 PM
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What exactly is dangerous about "You should be financially responsible and not be promiscuous"? Ahhhh, so men can only have women approved preferences and standards? Thanks for the memo, but we decide what we find attractive, not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:17 PM
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Because for men sex IS the reward. For women sex is the means that they use to get to the reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:10 PM
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FDS used to advocate for sleeping with their ex while making the new guy they're dating wait for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:08 PM
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So what? Are men just not supoosed to vet their potential partners now? Is there a single preference that men are allowed to have? Men are either shamed for their preferences by saying they're insecure, overly judgemental, not a real man etc, or we are told having standards is harmful to women. Imagine if I said it's damaging to men that women want a financially responsible guy who can hold down a job, I would get laughed out of the room, and rightly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:59 PM
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Mensrights is misogyny? Pretty low bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:04 PM
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They are entertaining to scroll through every now and again. Most redditors of every stripe seem to be absolutely unhinged. I'd be fine with casual misandry subs if casual misogyny subs were also allowed on reddit, but they aren't. It's all one way traffic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:55 AM
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r/boysarequirky
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:25 AM
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This is true in my experience. Used to he part of a mixed gender friend group. Three girls were in the group. One of them I got on really well with, same sense of humour, same likes dislikes. One I got on with but didn't really trust as she was one of those people that gossip constantly the moment somebody left the room. The third one I kind of had an adversarial relationship with. We were polar opposites. She was ultra left wing, ultra feminist, and I often pushed back against her insane conclu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:19 AM
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That isn't a glass ceiling though. Half your country won't vote for one of the two political parties no matter who they put forward. That doesn't mean that Reps or Dems have a glass ceiling preventing them from being elected. And trust me, being from a country that has had 3 female prime ministers, they are no better at governing than men are. Almost every politician is incompetent, duplicitous, hypocritical and corrupt, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:11 AM
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They are? Hard to tell from the drawing, but itnlooks like both the nerdy boy and the merdy girl are looking over at the couple resentfully. Doesn't look like she's looking at the nerdy guy. If she is it's a bad drawing, if she isn't then the meme is actually based in truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:44 PM
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That's cool. Not trying to convince you to date a gamer. It's a hobby the dame as any other. Gaming is fun, can be educational, challenging, its been shown to slow the effect sof things like alzheimers and helps with things like hand eye coordination into old age. And all a hobby needs to be worthwhile is entertaining for the person or people engaging with it. It needs to utility beyond that. Anything can be addictive if you do it enough. You can't convince me that women who binge watch series o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:46 PM
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Is arguing on reddit a hobby for you? If yes, how is it useful and how does it benefit your life? If no why are you here? Besides, why is entertainment for entertainment's sake not useful to the person?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:29 PM
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Useful to whom? Why does a hobby need to have a use beyond gratification for the person engaging with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:12 PM
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In my experience women don't say scrolling through social media is a hobby (though it is, as they do somfor fun) but their equivalent to gaming is sitting and binge watching whole series on Netflix and other streaming apps. They will sit and watch TV for hours on end, but complain when a guy does the same thing with gaming. And it always boils down to "you could be using this time to do something productive." Guys aren't allowed downtime to distress and chill out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:01 PM
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I don't think BG3 was ruined by wokeness. Love the game. My post was about the devs being weirdos. https://archive.vn/kTaMW
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:07 PM
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The BG3 devs also complained that most people playing the game were making "generic" straight white cisgendered men in the character creator. Imagine that! They screech on and on about how representation matters and people need to see themselves reflected in the game. Then when their primary audience of nerdy white guys create themselves in game, they cry "no, not like that!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:30 PM
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And even worse. Once they infiltrated say, gaming, tabletop gaming, LARPing, and general nerddom. They are now trying to gatekeep the original fanbase out. This is why you gatekeep your hobbies. If you don't, the people you let in will eventually change it for the worse and then gatekeep YOU out when you notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:27 PM
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PPD women- Ewww no women don't find muscles attractive. Whoever told you that was lying. Q4W- If your son was struggling in dating, what advice would you give him? PPD women- Work out and build muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:10 PM
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Huh. I could have sworn it meant involuntarily celibate. The more you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:43 AM
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Incel apparently means whatever the fuck any given woman wants it to mean in the specific instant she calls you it. I.e. The word is completely meaningless at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:22 AM
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Do you think Conservative sources are less trustworthy than leftist ones? You realise the largest voter base for left wing political groups are single or divorced women right? You think left leaning "studies" just come up with single women being the happiest group out of nowhere? Or do you think they might just have a vested interest in keeping their largest demographic of voters in tact?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:52 PM
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Back when I started posting on PPD 5 or so years back, the blue pill advice was "Dating is easy. If you are normal and a good person then people will want to be with you and you won't need help. Regular platitudes work. If they don't work for you, you aren't normal and you probably aren't a good person. You're a defective loser that deserves to be lonely."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:55 AM
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That isn't even slut shaming. That's just male sexuality shaming. Even a man who is a virgin's sexuality is seen as disgusting and corruptive. It's just more boys are gross throw rocks at them BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:28 PM
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Fantastic post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:57 AM
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Yup. Never seen a woman call a guy a fuckboy that hasn't slept with said fuckboy. Fuckboy just means "I slept with you and you didn't commit, how dare you!".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:53 AM
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Nah. Men pedestalize young women. Women pedestalize all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:45 AM
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Its a film about alpha windowing. Some old "happily" married woman with grandkids spends her last days reminiscing about a fling she had with Chad when she was young and hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:19 PM
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What got him in trouble was her making a false accusation BECAUSE she found him creepy. Which the person I responded to said would never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:55 PM
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No one is sending you there for looking creepy. https://www.ibtimes.sg/pennsylvania-woman-lied-about-man-attempting-rape-kidnap-her-because-he-looked-creepy-gets-him-74660
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:54 AM
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How do you have a consensual and peaceful transfer of the means of production? What happens when you can't convince people to give up their hard earned shit for people they will never know or care about? Your only option then is violence. How would you use legal means to take people's stuff away from them? A democratic vote? Let's say I buy a cake and cut it into 10 slices. You and 9 others all want a slice. I say I didn't buy it for you, I bought it for me. You say we put it to a vote and you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:41 AM
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Agree with this so much. Most people that lack confidence and social skills as adults, were bullied while still developing. Whether that be at school, college, both. They were never given the chance to socialise with people besides others like themself. Outside if mental illness and other mental or physical conditions people may have. Bullying and ostracism are the biggest reasons for people being socially inept as adults. People think you can just fake confidence or it grows in a vacuum. The tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:02 AM
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This thread has incredible mean girl energy considering it's coming from a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:53 AM
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Rare but it does happen. Be this guy, where you didn't even say hi. Just happened to live in the same neighbourhood as a woman that thought he looked creepy. She made false allegations about him raping her and attempted kidnapping. She even used an injury she received courtesy of her dementia ridden grandmother as evidence of his assault. He spent 31 days in prison based on nothing more than her word. https://www.ibtimes.sg/pennsylvania-woman-lied-about-man-attempting-rape-kidnap-her-because-he-…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:45 AM
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Huh. I've always had more attention from random women when I'm in a relationship than when I'm single. Even when I am single but I hang with one of my female friends it makes a difference. I'm not really hot either, just average looking I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:35 AM
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I think it depends on how many girls you're with. One or two and you will be more attractive to women than you would be alone. Once you get to being with a whole group though, then yeah, it's assumed you're the gay friend. You don't often see straight guys with predominantly or entirely female friend groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:26 AM
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Only guy in a gaggle of girls. Almost certainly other women thought you were the gay tag along.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:19 AM
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Yeah. The go to I see aimed at pro life women from leftists is "I hope you get raped, then you'll see how important abortion is. You'll be begging for one then." Absolutely vile behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:43 PM
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They always were. Some are just going mask off lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:03 PM
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Also hello again! I just came across you in PCM too. Commented in your thread. Small world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:42 PM
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Same obviously. I'm saying it makes sense to be prejudiced against communists and pedophiles. It does not make sense to be prejudiced against men or a specific race of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:21 PM
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It's a choice to act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:14 PM
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Those are choices. Being born a certain race or biological sex is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:13 PM
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I have. They are fine with fully gay men because they aren't in their dating pool. They are even fine with bisexual men as long as they too, stay out of their dating pool. But the moment they find out a guy they are dating or interested in is bi, particularly if he has bottomed for other men. Then it becomes "I just can't see him as masculine anymore." There isn't anything bigoted about sexual preference, obviously. But the reason why women reject bisexual men is steeped in bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:55 PM
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This is true. I was watching one of those street interview channels on YT. This one was in London, which is basically the San Francisco of the UK in terms of progressivism. They were going around asking young couples their gender identity, and sexual orientation. Not even kidding, basically every single white woman said they were non-binary, and many gave neo pronouns, claimed to be bisexual or just the very non descript "queer" etc. All of them were dating tall, attractive white guys. When the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:25 AM
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Only in a victimocracy. Unfortunately that is exactly what the anglosphere is right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:47 PM
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There's a reason 'Stormfront or SJW?' is a thing. Dehumanisation is not solely an actor of the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:00 PM
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Yeah. You're talking about the bigotry of low expectations. Then there's the bigotry, outright racism and slurs directed towards "minorities" that don't vote correctly. The open bigotry towards groups they deem to be "oppressors" or privileged etc. The bigotry on the left takes many forms, but it is most certainly there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:34 PM
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The very idea of bigotry is inherently subjective. The idea is that it's an unreasonable distrust or disdain for a certain group, or groups. Unreasonable is going to be different for each person. It's essentially an opinion. If a certain group is inherently more likely to mug others, and this is scientifically proven, it's still going to come down to people's opinions on whether your distrust of said group is reasonable or not. This is the basis for many IRL cases that happen right now in the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:44 PM
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I think it's about equal between men and women. Women ARE more prone to social contagion. So whatever the political or social doctrine of the time is, women are far more likely to conform to said doctrine. The social contagion thing is interesting, because I think it leads to women being bigoted in socially acceptable, or even encouraged ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:04 PM
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Right. But just because that isn't what people mean by bigotry doesn't make it NOT bigotry. That's the point. Many of the people you are talking about, the "I'm a woman on the left so of COURSE I can't be bigoted" types. Are, in fact, bigoted. Socially approved or encouraged bigotry is still bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:55 PM
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They also do this with fat women. It's become a meme, but that's because there's truth in it. For all the women all over the Internet praising Lizzo as a queen and saying she's gorgeous etc. Tell those same women that they look like Lizzo and they do NOT take it as a compliment. This is why virtue signalling is not proof of virtue. It's entirely superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:51 PM
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It’s EXTREMELY taboo now to be bigoted racially in any way. This is highly dependant on who you are and who the target of your racial bigotry is. The idea that any significant percentage of young western female would be “bigoted” and risk their reputation is laughable. The only girls who are brave enough to have non-media approved opinions You say this like media approved opinions aren't or cannot be themselves bigoted. Which many are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:28 PM
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No. I'm just saying the left is every bit as bigoted as the right is. Its only the targets of their bigotry that is different. The left is more weasle-y with their bigotry by arguing that they are "punching up" and other such nonsense. Or by arguing that you CAN'T be bigoted to certain groups, which is highly convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:15 PM
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You think there's no bigotry on the left? Lol. Lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:08 PM
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The bluest women espouse the deepest red pills all the time on here. Then immediately deny it and attempt to gaslight you even as you repeat their own words back to them. It's actually fascinating and deserves to be studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:56 PM
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How is it whenever I see a woman on PPF say something like this. No other women come and call you names? Yet when I say > easy women who give off whore turn me off immensely. I wanna get married I get about a dozen replies from the misunderstanding gang calling me insecure and an incel loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:02 PM
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Every study ever done on the topic shows there is zero correlation with violent video games and real life violence and crime though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:56 PM
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Yup. Halo effect for handsome guys. Devil horns effect for ugly guys. This is not surprising in the least. People assign positive qualities to people they find attractive and negative qualities to people they find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:50 PM
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NTA. Now if you had subdued your SISTER after she went on a murder spree then that'd be a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:08 AM
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"The male gaze dehumanises women". Lmao. Without the "male gaze" we wouldn't be here as a species. We have evolved to find the opposite sex attractive, shocking I know. You don't have to like it, but it's a feature of humanity, not a bug.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:07 AM
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Fair enough. As for myself, I don't want a virgin. I just don't want a promiscuous woman. I find promiscuity in general gross. Not just promiscuous women. I find promiscuous men to be disgusting as well. The difference is, I'm not trying to build a life and have have a relationship and possibly have kids with a man. I only ever receive push back and insults for saying I find promiscuous women off-putting however. Nobody bats an eye when I say manwhores are gross, which is interesting. I wish you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:58 AM
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I meant in the sense that it doesn't make men who still wouldn't be getting laid any happier. Women select the same few percentages of guys for hookups. So the logic that everybody would be happier if society destigmatised women sleeping around is false. Promiscuous women might be happier, that's about it. As for finding a guy that doesn't care about N count. It's never gonna be a sure thing right? Lots of men that care lie and say they don't because they don't want to lose their opportunity to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:49 AM
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Well, yeah of course it applies to men too. Promiscuity is bad across the board. If you read through PPD for long enough you'll see most women don't want to date a high N man either. The only difference is, other women don't get their knickers in a twist and call them insecure losers for it. They just reserve the namecalling for when men say THEY want a low N partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:10 AM
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For relationships? Sure. Most men care about it. For hookups and STRs he doesn't. With women he has no intention of committing to it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:07 AM
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"If men stopped shaming women about N count. We would be able to have more casual sex and more men would be able to get validation and it would make everybody a lot happier." Just saw words to this affect in one of the main threads. Lmao. No it would not make "everybody" happier. Chad having even more casual sex than he already is, does nothing for all the other men. Certainly not the men who care about N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:57 AM
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And a little place called PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:41 AM
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Constantly...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:02 AM
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You shouldn't want to simp. You're better than that. Simps are a scourge in this earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:02 AM
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Lmao. Sounds like she just wanted somebody to weed her garden for her without her needing to pay a professional to do it. Doing it under the guise of a date is pretty clever and sneaky. The guy should suggest a 2nd date at his house as he needs his laundry doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 08:38 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:59 AM
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If it's about sunk cost I get it, but for me, I specifically pick coffee dates and walks specifically because they filter out certain types of women. It's better to know about incompatibility as early as possible imo. I let them know what we'll be doing and where we'll be going beforehand. If they express disappointment, or cancel. Oh well, it probably wasn't going to work out and it was resolved before any feelings were hurt or before I get the chance to start liking her. If it happens on the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:58 AM
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Are some people really getting upset about women "banning" or leaving low effort dates? This is a net positive imo. If a girl leaves because I took her for coffee or on a walking date around the park, all the better. Those are exactly the kind of women I'm attempting to filter out by choosing those kinds of dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:30 AM
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It's a case by case basis imo. Some women I've been on dates with have said they admire me for not having Instagram or twitter or Facebook and they would do the same if it wasn't essential (they weren't addicted). Then I've had others think it's weird and say stuff like "why wouldn't you want to update people on your life unless you have something to hide?" I'm like "calm down fed, most people I know wouldn't give a shit about my day to day goings on and I'm not so self important to assume they …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:48 PM
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It CAN happen sure. Anything theoretically COULD happen. Does it happen? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:28 AM
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Reddit is contrarian central. As usual. Exceptions are not the norm. And this isn't even an exception. It's completely made up by women to virtue signal on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:23 AM
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Again. I'm not saying it has never happened in the history of human beings existing on the planet. I'm saying this is not close to being the norm, and I'm seeing people pretend it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:19 AM
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There's always going to be the occasional outlier. I'm seeing people talk like girls acted like benevolent angels at school and defended, took care of/looked after the unpopular geek boys after they got bullied. This is simply not even close to being true. Ask any guy who used to be that unpopular kid at school. Girls were either complicit in the bullying, or acted like these guys didn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:09 AM
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The only guys I can recall that had primarily or entirely female friends were gay and still quite popular. Certainly not the geeks that got bullied.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:09 AM
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Ask any nerdy bullied ostracised guy how girls at school treated him. I'm sure many guys here would be happy to confirm. I can guarantee you, 95% of the answers, if not more will be almost identical. Women treated them one of two ways. Either they also bullied them, or they pretended they didn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:47 AM
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Women on PPD will flip flop on every single topic discussed here. Only 2 things are important for them. Saying whatever they need to to win whatever specific argument they are having at the time, and looking as virtuous as possible while doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:43 AM
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Where the hell did this this new fangled fairytale that girls befriended and looked after the loner nerdy bullied guys at school come from? I see people inventing completely fictitious events every day on PPD, but this has to be the most egregious one I've seen yet. At school and college, the only people that treated unpopular geeky guys worse than the popular boys that bullied them, were the girls, who also bullied them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:37 AM
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Another Brit here and can confirm. The only people at school who were meaner to loner nerdy boys than the popular guys that bullied and ostracised them, were the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:26 AM
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Yeah, exactly this. Popular girls bullied the loner nerdy guys just as much as the popular guys did. The geekier girls didn't get involved at all. PPD women make up something ludicrous that goes against basic reality and almost everybody's lived experience daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:59 AM
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My friend is having to navigate something like this at his work at the moment. One of his coworkers is repeatedly flirting with him and trying to get him to make a move on her. Problem is, he doesn't find her attractive in the slightest. He just tries to a void her when possible and when he can't he keeps to conversation to a minimum. I think guys do the same thing women do in this situation. Dofference being that women have to be way more obvious about their interest than a man does to receive …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:06 PM
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https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-017-1018-1
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:02 PM
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First time being cheated on you mean? Yeah it was. I'm aware of the things that changed within the relationship that lead to it happening too, so I'm making sure to avoid those things going forward. Stuff like going long distance for work, her finding a new friend group in a new city, who encouraged her to start having a party lifestyle and meeting new guys. Never doing long distance again that’s for sure, even temporarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:50 PM
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Well. Just read that people who were cheated on in their last relationship are 2.5x more likely to get cheated on in their next relationship. Guess I'm fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:41 PM
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Again. Depends on the setting. The good looking guy will have more success at the house party, sure. There the musician is just another guy. The band member will have more success at one of his gigs. His status there infinitely outstrips the good looking guy. So I disagree. A good looking guy won't ALWAYS outcompete a guy with higher status. It's contextual. And to be clear, I am by no means underestimating the value of looks. I think the one thing black pillers are correct about is that your lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:51 PM
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This is why I said setting is important. Those musicians would not have had been getting laid like tile if they had been out busking in the street. And yeah, I never said the talent itself is what is attractive, hence why being good at gaming doesn't raise your status. It is simply one of many ways you can raise your status, depending on the thing you show competence in and the setting. I don’t like status because it’s seeming hard to define and even harder to actually work on. If you instead fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:59 AM
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Depends on the setting. I'd say the most universal way is through competence or talent. I've seen penniless, average looking musicians captivate the room in bars and clubs with their playing/singing and being crowded by women after the show. It's also important to note that you must be competent at something which women find to be worthwhile or otherwise useful. Being competent at League of Legends isn't going to help no matter how good you are. Of course, looks and wealth can also be used to ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:53 AM
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Truthpill is status > looks > wealth > game
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:09 AM
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It's only thug maxxing if you get a face tat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:29 AM
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Big Thomas Hobbes fan I take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:09 AM
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You know whether someone is trustworthy after some time has passed, but people immediately rate based on what they are attracted to. They are willing to overlook the lack of trustworthiness (and bad behavior) to a huge degree if they are attracted to you. Kind of disagree. Again, people don't overlook a lack of trustworthiness if you are attractive, the exception being if they already know you and are already aware that aren't trustworthy. If you are attractive people will assume that you are wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:41 AM
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Yeah, I'm adding to your message. Your two points aren't separate. They are linked. You said women either don't consider you attractive OR they don't consider you trustworthy enough. I'm saying that one stems from the other. If you are attractive enough, women (and men) will project trustworthiness onto you whether you are or aren't. If you are ugly you have to prove said trustworthiness, but even if you do it doesn't mean a woman will be intimate with you. Trustworthy ugly men are often put in …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:15 AM
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Being trustworthy plays into being attractive. Halo effect is a thing. People project positive qualities onto people they find attractive, and assign negative qualities to people they find physically unappealing. This thread would be more useful if you'd just said "if you aren't attractive you have to work harder to get women to be intimate with you." But then, everybody already knows that which makes it kind of pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:06 AM
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"Believe women" always had the implication "believe all women". That was the point. Not including all in the original statement was just an easy out so they could still feign some obtuseness. It was very carefully worded. Which is also why it was believe women and not believe victims. Which became obvious why it was specifically called that when a lot of the big names that started the movement and prominent figureheads were outed as being abusers themselves. Like Asia Argento, among others. One …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:51 AM
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Be careful with these common sense takes. They aren't popular round these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:02 PM
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PPD women try not to defend false rape accusers challenge. Impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:44 PM
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Of course I think every single accusation should be investigated thoroughly. Every accusation taken completely seriously. That is not the same thing as believe women or believe all women. That is more, investigate but verify. Believe women leads to shit like this https://www.ibtimes.sg/pennsylvania-woman-lied-about-man-attempting-rape-kidnap-her-because-he-looked-creepy-gets-him-74660 Where an woman accused a guy of rape and kidnapping because she thought he looked creepy. He was sent to jail fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:29 PM
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Rough estimate that is "believe all women is sound logic" and 'only 2% of rape accusations are false accusers" which is using the EXACT same data that you use to say rape is under prosecuted. The exact same shitty investigating. It's laughable and completely devoid of logic. If rapes are being under prosecuted due to shitty investigating then false accusations are absolutely also being under prosecuted due to the exact same shitty investigating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:15 PM
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This is a deliberate tactic they use. Around 2 or 3% of all rape accusations result in there being a false accusations proven. Around 5% of rape convictions result in there being a conviction and an actual rape proven. Over 90% of cases are thrown out by the police or the courts due to a lack of evidence. Feminists will always mention how rape is under prosecuted, and they use the 5% statistic as their evidence for that. But then they turn around and use the statistics of convicted false accuser…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:05 PM
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Even calling it a wage gap is disingenuous. It's an earnings gap. Paying people differently for the exact same work is illegal. Men take different, higher paying jobs, take more overtime, less leave etc. No shit on average they earn more on aggregate than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:55 PM
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This logic doesn't fly. Only like 5% of rape accusations result in an actual conviction. That leaves over 90% of cases that are thrown out due to a lack of evidence. So are we assuming that every single false accuser gets caught and almost no actual rapists get caught? Are all of those cases that are thrown out rapists that got away with it? None of them are false accusers that got away with it? Saying only 2% of cases are false accusations is just as absurd as saying only the 5% that result in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:45 PM
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My most downvoted PPD post back in the day was in a thread about this topic. I said women who come forward with allegations should be taken seriously and it should be looked into but they shouldn't be automatically believed. Not sure which side of the debate I pissed off. Maybe both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:35 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:42 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:34 AM
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General rule of thumb. If you aren't Chad don't sex talk until you have actually met in person and felt the vibes. Unless you are catfishing with a male model profile pic (or you actually are just that hot) making things sexual through text is generally a good way to turn her off and shut down the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:55 PM
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Every so often I see a comment or a YT short or something of a woman describing what happened the few times she decided to cold approach a man she was attracted to. They all seem to go along the same lines, "I'm never approaching a guy again, the last time I thought a guy was cute and asked him out he told me to go play in traffic/jump off a cliff/self delete. It was so traumatic! From now on I'm just waiting for guys to approach me." Assuming the stories they tell are actually true, it makes me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:47 PM
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Avoid dating leftist women and you will more than cut the chance of dating a mentally ill headcase. And before the downvotes come pouring in from people that think I'm just dunking on the left, no. Its actually a thing, over 50% of leftist women aged 18-29 have been formally diagnosed with a mental disorder. https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/over-50-percent-white-liberal-women-under-30-mental-health-condition
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:29 PM
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It never replaced anything. Virgin shaming men has always been a thing. It just used to exist alongside slut shaming women. Women successfully campaigned to have slut shaming be outcast by western gynocentric society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:24 PM
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Gotta love Internet badasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:14 PM
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Some of it is probably manipulation, some are likely just simps that say that to every remotely attractive girl in the hopes of some crumbs of attention. Others are likely fuckboys that have discovered it's something that works. Love bombing in general works, it's a tried and tested technique among cults, and political parties the world over.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:36 AM
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Toxic men = drama. Women need a near constant feed of drama and excitement in order to maintain enthusiasm for a guy. Doesn't matter if the drama is good or bad, she wants to feel like the lead in a movie or romance novel. The problem with good boys is, they aren't exciting, and actively discourage drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:23 AM
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The best part is you could prepeat their own story back to them word for word and say "this is what women do" and they would deny it and call you an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:53 PM
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What debate? First you fail to read a link properly, then you put words into my mouth. Again. Where did I say most men are asshiles that mistreat women? Where did that come up in any of our back and forth? Until you respond to the things I actually say there is absolutely no room to talk about winning or losing debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:38 PM
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Yup. Same with approaching. Cold approach vs the slow "friends first" approach. If you are the kind of guy that has to ask for advice on how/which way to approach women, then unfortunately, the answer is likely to be neither for you. Both are acceptable if you are attractive Neither are acceptable if you are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:56 PM
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I don't think we disagree, at least not entirely. Of course being hot is the trump card. If you are hot it doesn't matter if you are nice or not. What I'm saying (and what the data shows is) if a man finds 2 women equally attractive, he will choose the one who is nicer. When a woman finds 2 men equally attractive, she will choose the man who is less nice. Less agreeable, more socially domineering, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:43 PM
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Are you okay? Where the hell did I say most men are assholes that mistreat women? Are you having hallucinations? You taking your meds?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:23 PM
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They really pulled off the dating version of going from "It's not happening" to "It's happening and it's a good thing."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:11 PM
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Mental gymnastics is hardwired into women. They are able to hold two completely contradicting and untenable viewpoints simultaneously with no logical disconnect. It's how they rationalise dating assholes and rejecting nice guys for "not really being nice". It's how they can claim dating isn't easier for women because most women get no attention from men while also claiming that all women get sexually harassed constantly every day of their lives from the age of 11. It's how they claim they only w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:00 PM
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What you or I think of men has nothing to do with it. It's been found that that men who do not display "benevolent sexism" but rather treat women equally to their fellow man, are perceived by women to be more sexist, less supportive of female professionals, less of a good father and husband and more likely to perpetuate domestic violence. Ratings of men with low benevolent sexism are considered equal to men with a high amount of hostile sexism. The implication is this, that most people have the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:52 PM
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Also, the tall rich handsome nerd (he watches a mainstream Marvel movie occasionally).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:44 AM
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When men treat women the same way they treat other men, women think the guy is being hostile, sexist and degrading. Women really don't want men to treat them the way they treat other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:41 AM
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Also, and this is something no woman would ever admit but is readily evident to everybody on the face of the planet. A part of masculinity that women find attractive requires men to kind of be assholes to lower value men. It's not just about a man being able to dominate her, it's even more important for a man to have the capacity to dominate (and if needed, enact violence upon) other men. This is why bullies are successful with women and bullying victims aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:26 PM
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I mean... why else do you think they post here? They found one of the only socially approved ways to bully people as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:20 PM
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This is false. Men absolutely DO care about how nice women are. Looks absolutely play a factor but all the date we have on this concludes that men like niceness over the opposite and women prefer a lack of niceness. Men care about niceness in a partner inversely with women. While niceness puts women off, men actually prefer nice women. https://www.newsweek.com/study-finds-men-nice-women-not-other-way-around-261269 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/263424760_Why_Do_Men_Prefer_Nice_Women_Ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:17 PM
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This. Women would sooner forgive cruelty than a moment of weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:45 PM
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In the UK there was an epidemic of female prison guards all sleeping with, starting relationships with, and getting pregnant to male felons. To the point where some male prisons had to sack most of their female prison officers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:40 PM
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Sometimes you learn the hard way. My ex got fat during our relationship. She lost most of the weight again and changed her hair and fashion sense. Started wearing more low cut tops etc. It wasn't for me though. Turns out she was on the hunt for a new branch to swing to and she wanted to impress whoever the new guy was going to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:59 PM
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I've seen more women defend proven false accusers than I have men defending proven rapists tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:41 PM
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Women on PPD told me that grinding with guys in the club and having simulated sex via dry humping is not sexual. Nor is it cheating or a breach of trust if you do so with a guy that isn't your partner. Everything can be redefined so long as the result is women always come out on top and are unable to do anything wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:42 PM
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This isn't strictly true. It holds for MOST in groups, but there are 2 notable exceptions. Men have an outgroup bias when it comes to biological sex. And white leftists are the only group that have an outgroup bias in regards to race.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:41 PM
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Oh women are extremely empathetic... to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:38 PM
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This. When I told PPD about my ex cheating on me seemingly out of the blue and running off to be the side chick of a married man, PPD women told me it was my fault. They said if they were her and they were still my gf after 5 years and not my fiancé or wife they would have done the same thing. Truly the empathetic sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:36 PM
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Not really. Its using the same standards for women as OP is using for men. It brings the hypocrites out of the woodwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:20 PM
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It sure is. And I agreed its unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:07 PM
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The vast majority of this sub is just people going "noooooo how dare you hold my gender to the standards I hold your gender to."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:03 PM
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Have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:03 PM
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Sure and let's also agree that it's not ethical to go to a club as a woman in a relationship either. And in a club it isn't just looking, it's being hit on, getting drinks bought for you, dancing, grinding. All while being inebriated. The question for a non single woman should be, why are you at a place which is about being drunk and flirtatious with the opposite sex? Any woman who puts herself in this position simply doesn't respect her partner, and on the same token, don't use the "I just like…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:58 PM
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Most women that post here are AWFLs (affluent white female leftists) which means they are mostly unbearable and are just here to bully and make fun of people they see as being intrinsically beneath them. The power inequality comes from the braindead jannies also mostly being made up of AWFLs and their simps, who will defend them to the end. Which is why you get warned for corcle Jenkins and they don't, its why any thread that makes them look anything less than perfect gets closed fairly quickly,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:40 PM
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People on the left particularly are increasingly unable to distinguish between reality and fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:29 PM
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Yes. Most social issues discussed on PPD including this one can be boiled down to one simple sentence. Women want equal and special at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:07 AM
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Did you see the one that went to a gig with her bf, sat in her bf's shoulders, and held up a sign saying the rapper (forget who it was) was her hall pass and essentially begged him to pick her to fuck after the show? Hypergamy is undefeated and guys with zero self respect will always remain winless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:39 PM
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This. The amount of women they complain about boring men with no personality, yet all have the exact same copyoasta personality and interests, and can't keep a conversation going for more than 5 seconds, let alone start one, is insane. You go on a date with a person for you to each try to get to know each other. Not for him to try to keep your goldfish brain entertained.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:33 PM
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Glad you added the second paragraph. I was going to say, the type of approach is never inappropriate, only the man doing it is. Both cold approaching and warm approaching are fine if you are attractive. Both are wrong if you aren't. To copy/paste one of my older comments. Cold approach as an attractive man- "I met this really cute guy at the gym/train station/wherever, we just got talking and really hit it off. We're going on a date next week." Cold approach as an unattractive man- "Ewww this we…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:24 PM
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Average men, not women. But as for your links the middle one doesn't work. Bit for the top and bottom links I would agree they are all average women. Top link is women on the upper end of average and bottom link the women are on the lower end of average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:15 PM
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Collectivising men for a good reasons is wrong! You can only lump all men together when you are blaming then for bad things. For example "Men are so awful that women en masse choose the bear. Men should do better" is a good example of collectivising men. It doesnt matter if the man you are lecturing didnt do any of the bad things, guilt by association is the way to go! "Men built society and keep it running smoothly." Is a bad example. And you should always call it out that the men saying this d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:56 PM
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Its pointless to ask this question to women. Your idea of normal and their idea of normal are so far apart you may as well be speaking different languages. So women will always answer yes to this, because what they picture in their head as a normal man, is worlds apart from what you picture in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:46 PM
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That's exactly why it's obvious to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:36 PM
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That's just virtue signalling though and can be safely discarded. You're not wrong, women are aware of why unattractive nice guys struggle, and they do lie about the reason. But you just explained why. Women don't want to ve seen as mean which might be the case if they were truthful. They still aren't being hypocrites in their own heads though. They think it should be obvious to everyone that they mean nice hot guys and not just any man who is nice, because again. Some unnattractive guys may be …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:36 PM
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Are you male or female?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:28 PM
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You are thinking like a man. To a woman, man = highly attractive man. Men who aren't attractive don't even register, that's the point. They are faceless NPCs in a crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:22 PM
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Definitely sounds like a man raised by a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:13 PM
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One thing that nice guys continually fail to understand, and keep being frustrated by their inability to understand. Women are NOT lying when they say that they want nice men. Even though they ignore nice guys like yourselves and keep going out with assholes, bullies and narcissists. Here's the thing, what they mean is, they want the men they are already attracted to, to be nice and treat them well. You may be nice, and you may treat her better than any guy ever has, but you do not meet her stan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:12 PM
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There is no real difference between a cold or a warm approach in reality. It all depends on how attractive you are. Both are acceptable or neither are, depending on the man doing them. Cold approach as an attractive man- "I met this really cute guy at the gym/train station/wherever, we just got talking and really hit it off. We're going on a date next week." Cold approach as an unattractive man- "Ewww this weirdo just came up to me straight out of the blue and tried hitting on me. It was really …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:04 PM
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One thing that nice guys continually fail to understand, and keep being frustrated by their inability to understand. Women are NOT lying when they say that they want nice men. Even though they ignore nice guys like yourselves and keep going out with assholes, bullies and narcissists. Here's the thing, what they mean is, they want the men they are already attracted to, to be nice and treat them well. You may be nice, and you may treat her better than any guy ever has, but you do not meet her stan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:54 PM
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You might be too masculine for girls your age. How old are you? I ask because young women tend to be into more feminine, "pretty men" like K pop guys and Harry Styles and the like. Women tend to srard finding more masculine features attractive as they get older. A lot of women say they find things like body and facial hair attractive but they found it gross when they were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:58 PM
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Yeah, I had to stop seeing a girl after out 2nd date semi recently because she couldn't stop taking selfies and checking out her insta comments under her pics every 30 seconds Nice girl, but way too self obsessed and seemed more interested in her phone than our date. She seemed genuinely surprised I didn't want to see her again and was expecting a date 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:09 PM
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At the end of the day, your woman is going to get hit on. If she's anywhere even remotely average looking or above, she's going to get hit on fairly regularly. You likely aren't even aware of the vast majority of the times it happens. She gets hit on in person while she's out and about, she gets guys hitting on her in her DMs, she has people hitting on her more than you will ever know. One thing I've learned throughout my relationships and the relationships of my friends and people i am close to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:17 PM
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I don't remember saying I take any life lessons from them no. I do take lessons from being cheated on by multiple women throughout my adult life however.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:35 PM
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Everybody likes to think they've found a unicorn. Relationships wouldn't work if you weren't able to convince yourself the one you've found is different from the rest. I've seen enough of those street interviews where they ask couples if they would cheat if they were given a one time guilt free pass, and the bf says no and that he's planning on marrying her. But the gf immediately says she'd take it. The look on the guys faces, its always a mixture of disbelief and heartbreak, but they try to ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:28 PM
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Well that's the paradox of the female fantasy. They want to tame the bad boy, only to lose interest should they ever succeed in taming him. Once he's tamed he's boring like the other guys, so she will find another bad boy to last after.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:09 PM
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But only to her. If the hot jerk was nice to everyone she wouldn't find him interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:26 PM
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Expand this to botox and every kind of plastic surgery as well. Never understood what the appeal is with plastic American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:47 PM
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Yeesh. Whatever floats your boat my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:44 PM
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Would YOU approach any of the women here? Women on PPD =/= normal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:31 PM
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Nah I'm correct here. In fact, every time you usually bring up how personality is super duper important, it's within the context of attractiveness. So it's fair to say that I'm highly skeptical that this is the first time it wasn't about that. And when your best examples are celebrities that don't even make the point you want it to, well... let's just say you aren't off to the best start.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:20 AM
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False.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:06 AM
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Then your original post makes no sense. People who "deny the personality pill" only do so in regards to it being a primary factor in sexual success. Nobody thinks personality is unimportant full stop. People just disagree that its more I portent than looks, status, wealth etc in the context of being sexially attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:04 AM
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Its not a good example. Sure people make fun of Drake for a number of reasons, but he can still sleep with any woman he wants to on any given night he chooses. His "bad" personality is in no way a hinderence to his sexual success, because he is a mega rich, mega famous celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:46 AM
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I think people that use celebrities as examples that relate to every day normal people are silly. "Looks and height don't matter! Danny Devito is barely 5 foot tall and ugly as hell and he's a total womaniser!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:41 AM
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Which unfortunately, was entirely expected. The vast majority ignore anything that doesn't support the status quo of men bad, women good. PPD women are the ones that told me it was my fault that my gf of 5 years cheated on me with a married man out of rhe blue. So I'm well aware if their fabled empathy and kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:29 PM
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Women here desperately want us all to believe we live in a patriarchy that exists to benefit men and doesn't take even women's legitimate accusations seriously. When in reality, our society is so heavily invested in protecting women, that men are pre-emptively punished based on a woman's word alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:31 PM
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I wouldn't hold my breath either. Every response under this post has been from a man. Women's silence about stuff like this speaks volumes. Yet every day we see some version of "why care about being called creepy? It doesn't affect anything" or "False allegations don't really happen, men are scared about stuff that they will never have to experience."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:23 PM
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And also attack her own grandmother and accuse you of being the one that did it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:55 AM
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Holy fuck, anybody else hear about the woman who made false accusations and got a guy put in prison for over 30 days just because she thought he looked creepy? And the best part is, the guy didn't even know her. Imagine, literally being put in jail because a woman found you so ugly your mere existence made her uncomfortable. https://www.ibtimes.sg/pennsylvania-woman-lied-about-man-attempting-rape-kidnap-her-because-he-looked-creepy-gets-him-74660 The societal power women hold is insane and extre…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:51 AM
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Every sitcom is like that, whether it's about black or white people. Husband is a lazy fat idiot who is constantly checked by his younger, smarter, attractive wife. I don't know how people come out of watching them with the conclusion that they hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:54 PM
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Probably because a lot of the men that people claim hate women, actually don't. They are hurt and frustrated and lash out at women because they want nothing more than to be with them and accepted by them but can't for whatever reason. True hate is when you want to distance yourself from them entirely, like radfems for example. Who have proposed things like reducing the population of men by 90%, curfews for men to be allowed in public, engage in political lesbianism despite being straight because…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:21 PM
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It's almost like you should disregard the entirety of what people on PPD say. They do not have your vest interest at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:31 PM
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I tend to just smile and nod when a guy lies about his height to me, because more than once a dude has tried to fight me when I said he was shorter than what he was saying. It's not worth the hassle. I'm not trying to be a tough guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:49 AM
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Unless you have a tape measure on hand its not all that easy to tell a 5'10 guy from a 5'11 guy from a 6' one. Lots of guys round up their height to 6' because they know it's a minimum requirement for enough women. Many guys do it out of plain insecurity too. I'm a man who's just under 6'3 and I get loads of dudes insisting I must be 6'5 or 6'6 because they are 6' when they clearly are quite a way under that. Of course, they aren't trying to sleep with me so it isn't quite the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:40 AM
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If she's a feminist she definitely doesn't like me for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:14 AM
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I'm pretty sure that's why in self reported studies, that sexual assault goes from primarily female victims, to roughly equal when they include coercion within a relationship as one of the options.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:12 AM
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I'm seeing "rape by deception" come up in a couple of threads of late. A guy lying about his height or dick size, or his income is now a rapist if his true height or net worth is a dealbreaker for the woman and she wouldn't have slept with him if she knew the truth. Well congratulations. Women have just stumbled upon the reason why they shouldn't lie about their N count when asked. And they better hope to god the guy doesn't find the truth if you do lie. Turns out, lying about your N count makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:07 AM
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You got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:02 AM
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As a man from a country where under the law men cannot be raped by women, but I can be accused of it at the drop of a hat. I have no doubt I understand consent far more than the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:57 AM
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PPD women- "N count doesn't matter, you're insecure. She isn't comparing you to anybody else." Also PPD women-
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:55 AM
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Yes. Sometimes you are just exhausted, or just not in the mood. I've learned that it ALWAYS causes problems though so I try not to. My ex would literally become borderline depressive if I turned her down for any reason, and would make it uncomfortable to be around her until I caved. In fact, most of my exes reacted like this. Women don't take rejection well, even temporary rejection. They arent used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:52 AM
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No it doesn't. It depends on the man and whether he decides he retracts his consent upon seeing her without makeup. You said it yourself at the end of your post. Even if the makeup is minimal and she looks basically the same but with less blemishes or whatever. If those blemishes mean the guy wouldn't have slept with her, congrats. Rape. If a woman lies about her N count and her true number is a dealbreaker for the guy. Rape. If a woman states she only dates men who are 6 foot and taller, and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:46 AM
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Cool. So by the same logic all men can now claim they have been raped by women who wear makeup. I would not have consented if I knew what she really looked like. She lied about her appearance, rape by deception. What fun playing games around the issue of consent is, people really should lay in the beds that they made after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:33 AM
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Why are women so rude on OLD Because they can be. If things don't work out with you they have 100s of other guys in their DMs waiting in the wings. You are putting your best foot forward because this might be the only person on OLD you will get a response from in months. For her you are one face in a sea of people who are trying to get to know her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:58 PM
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I’ve never met a ANYONE that complains about capitalism that isn't a complete loser Ftfy I used to think people exaggerated about reddit being commie central. But my lord were they right. There's a reason this place is called REDdit. Every single subreddit no matter what its about. Gaming, knitting, relationships, sports, there is always a bunch of people crying and blaming capitalism for all of the world's ills.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:49 PM
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Nah you should definitely listen to this guy. Bro has it all figured out. If only HE was in charge then we would be well on our way to whatever Utopia he has pictured in his head, true equity is just a few more million corpses away, for real this time!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:36 PM
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Sure. I never said Just world was unique to Blue Pill. I was disputing your point that the 'just world' hypothesis was not a part of the BP world view or BP arguments on here back in the day, when it absolutely was. It was the foundation of them in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:23 PM
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That's exactly what just world fallacy is though. All bullying uses some form of just world fallacy to justify itself. "People get what they deserve" is the core principle for all of it. If you are good you will have good outcomes in life, if you have bad outcomes in life that must mean its because YOU are bad, so therefore anything negative that happens to you is deserved. Balance is restored, the world is just. I'm not saying just world fallacy is unique to the Blue Pill, only that it was a ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:11 PM
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Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:43 AM
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I don't know if the definitions of RP and BP have changed so much as the people that post here don't really ascribe to them anymore. This sub stopped being RP vs BP years ago and became more men vs women. This is due to people from a slew of banned subs migrating here. All the incels came here, MRAs came here, the FDS people and the TERFs/Radfems migrated here etc. Moderation is too heavy handed and very unevenly applied but that's also likely why the sub has survived all the admin purges that c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:21 AM
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Capitalism doesn't "tell" anyone to trust anyone or anything wtf. It's simply the private ownership of the means of production, and property. If I make something and somebody else wants it, I am freely able to allow that person to have it in exchange for money, that's what capitalism is. The voluntary exchange of products or labour for resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:07 AM
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That sounds like a totally normal and not at all bigoted sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:43 AM
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Here's your issue. You can't use logic to persuade somebody their belief is wrong, when that person didn't use logic to come to that belief to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:35 AM
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Yup. Similar to the similar TikTok trend where people were going around asking women "do we (as a society) need men?" and almost all of them say no. Men are useless, they do more bad than good, men are toxic etc. Then they mirrored it with them going around asking guys "do we need women?" and every guy was like yes, of course we need women. Women make life fun, make life worth living. Women complete us. Women are nice to look at. The complete opposite of what women said about men. We (people in …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:15 AM
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This drives me nuts. Women here absolutely refuse to engage in hypotheticals. Partly why I don't understand why there are so many Q4W posts on PPD. You will never get a straight answer so why people continue with the struggle session is beyond me. If you HAD to pick between this bad thing and that bad thing, which would you choose? Women- Ermmmmmm, akshually I don't like either of those, so I will choose this good thing I just made up. That isn't an option. I'm saying if you HAD to choose betwee…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:00 AM
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My goodness. There isn't one issue on this planet that Reddit won't find a way to blame capitalism for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:51 AM
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They almost always happen in India too, for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:02 PM
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Male privilege and benefitting from the conspiracy that is patriarchy are basically original sin in those places.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:07 PM
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Well yeah, I don't have any sympathy for the ones that get angry at all men for the actions of a few, or just because nobody paid attention to them when they were fat. And no I didn't hang out with them, they treated me like crap when I was a geek. I hung out with the nice girls who were quiet, and personally I found those girls prettier anyway. Less makeup and no bad attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:06 PM
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I don't know why a lot of guys on the Internet are getting angry or upset by the 'man or bear' question. I think the whole thing is hilarious. It's exposing to normies to how unhinged and divorced from reality many people are. It's also shown me how it isn't just PPD women that don't understand how analogies work, it seems to be a lot of women in general. Someone on twitter said "10 people die from cyanide poisoning each year, 3000 from alcohol poisoning. Ill take the glass of cyanide every time…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:04 PM
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I'm a guy but I think it depends on how the guys treated them beforehand. Not paying attention to fat chicks is one thing, but being rude or mean and then being attracted and hitting on them when they lose weight would be insulting. I can kind of relate because although I was never fat, growing up I was very nerdy looking, and my head hadn't grown into my ears yet. I had a big glow up around 17 or so and a bunch of the mean girls from my school and college all of a sudden wanted to hang out and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:46 PM
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When will this strawman die? I've been posting here for years and I've never once seen anybody here advocate for women to be forced to date men they arent attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:52 PM
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Yeah this happens. When I went on holiday to New Zealand with my now ex (was my gf at the time) all the pics on my phone from it are of the places we went and the cool things we saw. All the pictures she took are of her standing in front of the cool things, or her roping me into the pictures as well so we are both covering up the cool things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:27 PM
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Fair enough. Most of the answers you are getting so far aren't answering your question anyway. They are saying what they think men would ask, not what they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:24 PM
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Half the Q4W posts in this sub should be questions for men. If you want to know what men would ask why not just ask men? Ohhhhh, because what you actually want is for the PPD kweens to strawman men with the goal of dunking on them. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:17 PM
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They arent trying to help the lonely guys out in the first place. They try to help the sex workers make a quick buck. You ever notice most AWFLs are against men using sex workers or watching them, or paying for them, but they are all incredibly pro sex work? Same disconnect. Women using sex to make money = good. Men actually paying those sex workers = bad and makes him undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:45 PM
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Never said they aren't. They both absolutely have close set eyes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:01 PM
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Ryan Reynolds and Ryan Gosling overcame having close set eyes by becoming mega rich, famous heartthrobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:57 PM
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PPD women (to hear them tell it) are all amazing 10/10 queens with low body counts (but body count doesn't matter!) Who is dating or married Chad and have the most perfect lives, and use their spare time to come on PPD to mock incels. Nevermind that one of the biggest crossover subs with PPD used to be FemaleDatingStrategy, where the average poster certainly did NOT fit the above description.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:56 PM
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This guy gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:22 PM
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That's a part of it. Also filters, makeup, and a ton more practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:16 PM
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The real reason men suck at taking pictures of themselves. They just don't do it much. I'm not on dating apps but I've taken maybe 3 selfies in my entire life. Always at somebody else's request. If you go through my or any of my male friends picture galleries on our phones it's full of memes and funny images from the Internet. All the women I've ever been with, all my friends partners and exes, their galleries are full to the brim of selfies. They take 20 to 30 pictures of the same smile in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:40 AM
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This goes for women in a bunch of different movie genres tbh. Video games too. Action/martial arts flicks, where a 5'3 120 pound chick beats the shit out of 10-12 grown ass men every other scene. The latest Predator movie, where the main girl single handedly hunts down and kills a Predator down then beats it one on one with no guns or modern weaponry, when in the Schwarzenneger original it took out a whole platoon of commandos with all the latest tech and arsenal of weapons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:41 PM
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"You can't just say feminists hate men, there are different kinds of feminism and we all believe different things." Radfems/TERFs - "Men are the problem." Lib/Intersectional fems- "Straight, cis, white men are the problem."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:28 PM
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Your assumptions are well founded. You are way less likely to get a call back if your recruiter is a woman and you aren't one. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0165176519303428
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:16 PM
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Well thats the point isn't it? If the KKK had a syndicated television show where they yelled racial slurs for an hour do you think the majority of say, white people would be in here defending or minimalising it? Probably not, yet that's the majority of the comments in here. The problem OP has isn't The View itself. Its that our society has become so toxic and misandric that shows like The View are able to air the views that they do with no real pushback, and actively garners defense and deflecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:14 PM
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Welcome to PPD women. This is 100% of their posts here. Belittling comments, ad homenims, concern trolling, and dismissive sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:56 PM
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A lot of those videos are set up by the "rescuers." They are the ones that ensure the animals are in such bad shape to begin with. Especially a lot of the ones that take place in Malaysia and other Asian countries. Many if the channels have been outed by Internet sleuths.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:55 AM
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People think it's cute in America too. Nobody has an issue with Chris Hemsworth or Chris Evans having to endure extremely unhealthy dieting regimes and workout schedules for months to prepare for a single 30 seconds long topless scene in some mainstream movie. They just salivate over the results. Usually while scrolling through social media liking every post about body positivity for obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:00 AM
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People are far too gullible these days. Keep being fed YT videos by the algorithm that are these fake animal rescue type shit. "I noticed this cute baby bunny was following me home. It must have lost it's mother so I adopted it and hand raised it. Little did I know what I was in for. That little bunny turned into the giant you see today woman poses with a Flemish giant" All the comments are like "You are an angel put on this earth" "This little bunny was so lucky to have found you" "It's like it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:49 AM
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Smart and acts like a smartass is bad. Dumb but acts like a smartass is even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:49 PM
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Not at all too much. I find your defense of this vile actually. Friendship is not a one way street that solely benefits women. Nobody is holding them hostage. But knowing they have feelings for you and hiding the fact that you are USING them to take you to your dick appointment is not allowing them to make their own decision on whether they want to keep being your errand boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:48 AM
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None. I don't do the casual sex thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:42 AM
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It has nothing to do with women thinking men enjoy it. Women are the ones who enjoy and are turned on by it. I am painfully vanilla compared to every single woman I've ever been with. I'm over the moon with regular foreplay and sex, getting to look at her and see her body. Every woman I have ever been with has been into some sort of submission/degradation/pain fetish. The most vanilla women I've been with were into spanking, choking, hair pulling and very rough sex at the very minimum. Then on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:01 AM
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It never ceases to amaze me. Women truly do have a superpower. How they can take a scenario, where women are willingly using mens feelings for them to extract favours and resources for their own benefit, to go and engage in something they know would kill these men inside if they knew, and turn the women into a victim. Truly amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:19 AM
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You could say the same about the women. They knew these guys had feelings for them, if they didn't, they would have been honest and said "drive me to my dick appointment" instead of lying about who they were going to see. So these women were well aware of what the orbiters were hoping for, and kept them around because they were useful, paid for things and drove them around like a personal chauffeur. Also, you can be a genuine friend to somebody that you have romantic feelings for, it isn't nefar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:02 AM
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I don't know what they told other people. I just know what my friend told me and what some of the girls themselves said about the guys. They were regular orbiters. Plying the girls with favours and niceties and friendship in the hopes that they would eventually see what great guys they were and fall for them. I doubt any of them would have willingly drove them to my friend's apartment if they were aware they were taking them to have NSA sex with a hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:11 PM
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Could you elaborate? Which guys? The orbiters? I didnt know them personally. I only knew my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:59 PM
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Yeah, I used to hang out with a guy I would unironically describe as a Chad. (past tense since our mutual friend group ditched him after he slept with my best friends' gf at the time). He used to have girls go over to his place. Some of these girls would have their beta orbiter who they told they were going to see a friend, drive them there, have him fuck them, then have the beta orbiters come pick them back up afterwards. Callous. This kind of shit is why I tell guys not to simp for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:12 PM
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Because they DO care. They just don't specifically care about him having a high N count on its own, because that in turn is something they don't want to be judged on and they don't want to be a hypocrite about it. However, if he acquired his N count in an unconventional way, like seeing 15 sex workers, or he is bi and 7 or 8 of his sexual partners were other men, then all of a sudden we start having a problem. His N count also matters if it's too low. People saying peoples sexual history doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:57 PM
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Seeing a few posts about dating inequality and how it can/cannot be fixed. What do people actually mean by equality in dating? It seems to me people are talking about equity but calling it equality, which people do all the time outside of dating too. Everybody has the same opportunity to go out and try to find a partner, what people will never have is equal outcomes. If you are ugly and have bad social skills, you can ask 1000 women out and be lucky to not get verbally abused for the attempt, le…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:40 PM
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With my ex, it wasn't because she had already found the answer. She just wanted to vent for venting's sake. It was more important for her that I listened because it showed (to her) that I cared. To me it went against every single instinct as a partner. I wanted whatever was happening to cause her distress or grief to stop ASAP, so offering solutions was my way of showing I cared. But feelings don't care about what is logical, offering solutions frustrated her and made her upset. What I actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:47 PM
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Okay. Bunch of weird assumptions, inaccuracies and outright lies here so not sure how much it's worth responding to a bad faith OP like yourself, I'll give it a shot but this will be my last reply. That feminists hate men, of course. My agenda is to prove that feminists hate men, yet I've claimed no such thing. Simply that your study is worthless for proving the opposite. A study conducted by the KKK where they claim that racism isn't real and they don't hate black people would be worthless for …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:12 PM
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What agenda am I pushing? You can't read but evidently you are a psychic. I have made zero claims in this thread. Simply stated that a "study" which is just people self reporting that they are good and definitely not bad, is not something I read and am able to take at face value. Just as for instance, I'm sure YOU wouldn't be very agreeable to accepting a study wherein a bunch of incels claimed that they aren't bitter and hateful towards women, and their evidence for this was that they claimed i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:37 PM
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"I can't read" Way to tell on yourself. Fwminists self reporting that feminists are not misandric (because misandry no real) is like citing a study conducted by a cigarette company that claims cigarettes are actually good for you and prevent cancer, instead of increasing the risk. Theres no incentive to believe it because they have every incentive to make themselves look good regardless of what the truth is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:16 PM
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"We have conducted an internal investigation and cleared ourselves of any wrongdoing." Lol Lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:47 AM
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Hear this a lot but ime it doesn't tend to play out all that much. Ask a room full of women what they rate themselves and every other woman in the room and you will get a chorus of "10" echoed back at you. Ask a room full of men and there will be mixed answers, low ratings and hurt feelings. I'm aware the replies to this will be "This isn't because women are delusional it's because we have social nause and know not to hurt people's feelings to their faces" but you see this play out online as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:20 AM
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Not one bit. Natural >>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:05 AM
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Unpopular post with hypocrites incoming. If sex and intimate relationships aren't a need, and lonely men should just accept their lot in life and go without. Then the women that say this should stop arguing that access to abortion should be legal and/or a human right. The fuck it should. Sex isn't a need right? If you don't want to get pregnant then just don't have sex. It's as easy as that. And the thing is, in this scenario women would STILL have it better than those lonely men. Because women …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:12 PM
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You missed the point. You aren't different from a regular cuck just because you're being cucked by a woman instead of a man. Your defense of your girl being able to cheat on you with another girl is "it's hot". Well guess what, regular cucks also find it hot when their girl gets railed by a dude too. There's no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:57 PM
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Wrong. Admiting that you would enjoy being cucked by a woman isn't the flex you think it is. Regular cucks get turned on too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:41 PM
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There are other jobs than the hard dirty, dangerous ones nobody wants to do. They will just take easier, lower paying work that doesn't keep society running without a hitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:30 PM
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Does this go for abortion too then? Sex isn't a need right? So if you don't want to get pregnant just don't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:29 PM
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I used to think they didn't understand this. It isn't. Turns out they just don't care, or think women or the other 20% of men will be able to pick up the slack. They aren't joking when they say men couod disappear and women's lives wouldn't get worse one bit, and wouod actually improve for most. They just aren't intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:27 PM
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I would say for the vast majority of all men throughout history, "no" is true here. However, I think if you look back through history, various sultans, kings and such were an example of unshackled male sexuality. Multiple wives, concubines and other lovers at their beck and call. I think we generally recognise however, that unshackled male sexuality is bad for women, the majority of men, and more importantly, bad for society which is why we have always suppressed it. We USED to recognise that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:16 PM
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I don't even watch straight porn but how does this make any sense? Is the pornstar his gf? Is he imagining another man railing his gf? IYou even mention that guys who watch b/g self insert and imagine tbemself being the man having sex with the woman, which is the exact opposite of cuckoldry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:04 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:01 PM
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Swinging=/=Open relationships. Swinging is purely a sex thing, and usually a group sex thing at that, you don't have just the husband or just the wife going out to swinger parties to get laid. They both go along and enjoy other people. Opening up the relationship is when one or either partner is allowed to go out and casually date other people. And sometimes it isn't even a thing that both partners are allowed to do under the agreement. I've seen and read about many such cases where it's just a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:59 PM
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He should have seen that coming. There's a reason it's usually the woman that wants to open up the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:16 PM
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First I'm riled up, now I'm concerned about plebbit karma. I'm sensing a lot of projection here. Simping is awful, but simping for another grown man might be even worse. Again, calm down buddy, you're gonna do yourself a mischief.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:33 PM
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Why are you so angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:31 PM
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Calm down internet stranger, it's called a sense of humour.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:28 PM
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Calm down. Teacher is a big boy with his own downvotes be doesn't need a knight in simping armor. Nobody is riled up. I was poking fun about how people feel the need to tell everybody else how they don't care about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:25 PM
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Stalking? This is the first time I've ever responded to you. Make words have meanings again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:21 PM
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But you aren't 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:19 PM
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Uh huhhhhhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:18 PM
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Downvotes already? Tut tut. Sensitive, aren't we? I just find it amusing when people feel the need to tell everybody how much they DON'T care about a topic is all. Just a little bit egotistical is what I'm saying. But then again your entire losting history is "look how much I fuck guys, I fuck soooo much, believe me yet guys?" so egotistical is on brand at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:16 PM
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Because that isn't a feminine woman. But all women still want to feel feminine in a relationship. Which means any man she is with would have to be infinitely MORE driven and more of a go getter than she is. What men want from a woman is somebody that brings him peace, both figuratively and literally. A woman who is constantly pushing him to push himself further is not that. Men and women are both guilty of solipsism and becoming the things that they want in a partner. This is why there are so ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:08 PM
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Why do you feel people here would care enough to hear that you don't care about it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:03 PM
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Doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:31 AM
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It's probably because attractive women in the anglosphere live an easier life than any demographic in human history. Kind of like how people assume trust fund babies have no life skills, whether its true or not. As for assuming hot guys are rich, that's probably not a terrible assumption (assuming by rich we are talking above average wealth and not 1%er type stuff) because it's well documented attractive people are given opportunities to get ahead in life that unattractive people aren't. Even se…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:27 AM
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Women project positive qualities to people they find attractive. So they will think of a highly attractive man as also being strong, kind selfless, and most importantly for this discussion, competent. It's a feedback loop. Women find competence in men attractive, so they find hot men to be competent which in turn makes them even more attractive. Men do this to an extent too, it's a feature of the halo effect, but men don't lie to themselves as much. They will admit to liking a woman in spite of …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:16 AM
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This shouldn't be surprising for anybody who has read any of the studies showing unattractive people cheat more than attractive people do. Looks are genetic as well and looks are a factor in how likely a man or woman is to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:03 PM
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Ressit so they definitely think anti if you're being downvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:56 PM
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Yup. This applies to everything as well, not just clothes. Random guy can be putting on a whole comedy routine and the woman he is trying to impress just doesn't want to hear it, and couldn't care less. 6'3 chiselled guy can have the personality of a rock and be talking about the most mundane, brain numbing shit and girls will be hanging off his every word. Giggling at every lame thing regardless of whether it's a joke or not, and nervously adjusting their appearance the whole time to try to cat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:29 PM
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Holds true for my ex. Cut her hair from waist length to a bob, got a nose ring and a couple of tattoos. All of which she knew I thought were unattractive. 6 months later, she admitted to emotionally cheating on me with a married guy. So I tend to believe that people make drastic changes to their appearance before divorces and breakups.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:53 PM
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In that case I agree. Women would survive. Society (at least the society we are accustomed to in the west/anglosphere) would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:18 PM
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I found the formula for all this stuff years ago. Man bad. So man wanting or doing X is also bad. Woman good. So woman wanting or doing X is less bad, or even good. Apply this to anything, exchange X for whatever you can think of and you will still find this to always hold true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:12 PM
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Women would last a lot longer than six months. They would last until the society that men had built and automated to do everything men currently do stops working. Whether by it breaking or just shitting down due to age or natural causes. Even then women would still survive for a while. They would just regress to a very primitive society. With obscene levels of inequality where people are mandated to do certain hard labour like hunting because barely anybody would want to do those things of their…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:04 PM
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You don't even have to be married. Interest in me from women goes way up when I'm in a relationship and they become aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:44 AM
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My long term gf of 5 years left me to be the side chick of a married man. Taken men have always been more attractive to women. Preselection is a thing. And there have been studies showing women find pictures of the exact same man MORE attractive when he is pictured in close proximity to a girlfriend or wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:40 AM
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People collecting shoes they don't wear is weirder than collecting stamps. At least stamps have different pictures on them. Way cheaper than sneakers too. A shoe that you don't wear and just put on a shelf to look at is nothing more than a money sink and taking up house space.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:10 PM
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Lol. I got a mod message telling me not to block someone a few months back. Whats funny is a, actual mod here does (or used to) have me blocked. So jannies can go fuck themselves. I don't play this rules for thee, not for me BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:56 PM
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They want you to stop having a sexual desire or motive that pertains to them. They don't want the benefits that you having a sexual desire or motive towards women to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:47 AM
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If you don't like playing a skewed game then you might be laying off dating for more than a while. The whole thing is skewed. Not just fitness. You gotta be making good money just to have a chance with broke women. If you're looking for an even playing field then trying to date women is going to be a lesson in frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:01 PM
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Cool. I don't think your responses and absurd topic switches are in good faith either. So let's just stop. You don't have to keep replying. Sorry you are pressed about me bringing up a topic you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:45 AM
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I wasn't wrong though. People do pull the "I can't breathe" thing. Just because some people who said it died doesn't mean the tons of other people who say it to try to get out of trouble don't exist. It doesn't mean they are telling the truth either. It's amazing how people believe criminals at their word lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:42 AM
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I literally never shat on anyone. I said women's similar reactions are interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:37 AM
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So all people who are hysterical are innocent? What are you getting at here? A lot of your replies to me don't make any sense. Help me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:34 AM
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Again, this isn't relevant though. I still don't know why you keep bringing it up. I said lots of people pull the "I can't breathe" card when they can and aren't in any danger, because they know people will be outraged precisely because of what happened to other people in the past. Your reaction was to say "he died, he wasn't "pulling" anything." I never was talking about anybody who died to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:32 AM
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Sure. And lots of criminals now imitate it because they hope It will cause societal uproar if the footage gets out. I'm still not sure what the point of your response was, because I wasn't talking about Garner either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:26 AM
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Some sure. What's your point? I said in another response that it might be a generational thing..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:24 AM
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Okay. Not sure what the point of this comment is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:22 AM
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Nice. Straight to insults. No shit they post the most dramatic ones. They do for the men's arrests too. The difference is the men react in a bunch of different ways, women all react almost identically and go to the same well over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:18 AM
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I'm not talking about George Floyd. You think he's the only criminal who said they can't breathe while being arrested?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:15 AM
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Yeah I think you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:13 AM
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I said in another reply, but men being arrested seem to have much more varied responses to being arrested. What is interesting about watching women being arrested isn't just how they react, its how similarly they react. They almost all go to the exact same well, in the same order. First arrogance, and confidence that the officers can't touch them, then crying and sobbing and pleading, then rage and screaming and kicking, then trying to make a scene and crying assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:13 AM
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It's nuts. They all have almost identical reactions. Like they're reading from the same script.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:35 PM
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Men's reactions to being arrested seem to be fsr more varied, and much less predictable. Some comply completely with everything, others go straight to violence the second the police walk up to them, some try to run, some have their phone out and start filming the police back, and yes. Some try to pull the "I can't breathe" thing too. Whats interesting about the women's arrests is how similar they all are. They all exhibit the exact same behaviours, in the same order, it's like they're all readin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:34 PM
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I also imagine older women getting in trouble with the law, repeat offenders and such have been through the sing and dance enough times to know not to act up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:25 PM
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We aren't talking about hardened career criminals. These are generally women arrested for drunk driving, hitting their boyfriend, that kind of thing. Sure they probably have issues which is why they act out, but male criminals generally aren't screaming that they're being raped when they are put in handcuffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:19 PM
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Yeah and it sent me down a rabbit hole of watching the videos. I noticed the pattern that ots mostly young women that act like this though, late teens to mid 20s. Wonder if it's a generational thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:16 PM
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Fallen down a rabbit hole of watching police body cam footage. Women's behaviour and reactions to being arrested is fascinating. How quickly they go from arrogant and thinking they can't be touched, to sobbing and trying to use pity and men's protective nature to get out of trouble, to pure rage to quickly becoming deranged and screaming for help from bystanders, accusing the officers of sexual assault because they need to touch her in order to physically restrain her. Telling them that they hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:11 PM
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Fallen down a rabbit hole of watching police body cam footage. Women's behaviour and reactions to being arrested is fascinating. How quickly they go from arrogant and thinking they can't be touched, to sobbing and trying to use pity and men's protective nature to get out of trouble, to pure rage to quickly becoming deranged and screaming for help from bystanders, accusing the officers of sexual assault because they need to touch her in order to physically restrain her. Telling them that they hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:08 PM
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Both of those people are highly unlikely to exist. A woman with 25 bodies is not likely to have been exclusively with saints, nor is even likely to be mentally stable herself. A woman who has been with 5 guys and all of them being stalkers and criminals is only slightly more likely, but again, women who exclusively date those types of guy generally have something going wrong mentally themselves. Why you'd take either is the real question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:00 PM
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Who is looking for a "mommy" though? Women interpreting "I want a feminine woman because I'm dating with a mind towards hopefully finding my future wife and mother of my children" as "ewww weird men with a mother fetish" is not only uncharitable, but also delusional and hypocritical. Given daddy issues make up like 90% of modern women's attractions and kinks. Women want to date men who are tied to their traditional gender role and have an abundance of masculine traits and behaviours, while also …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:01 PM
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This take coming from the demographic of people who's main kink is to call their partner "daddy" is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:41 PM
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Absolute shocker that straight men want women who have feminine qualities I know. Why do women want men who are able to protect them? Are they planning on being attacked?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:33 PM
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Because a lot of women genuinely feel like they have been wronged or victimised when an ugly man dares to exist within her vicinity. I've told this story before on here, but one time I was hanging out with my ex and a bunch of her friends, we had sat down at a table in the bar and were just hanging out. A guy came over and asked to borrow a spare chair from our table so he could go and sit with his own friend group. He was clearly socially awkward, anxious, stuttered over his words and blinked a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:03 PM
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Yup. The halo effect is universally true and has been documented as something both men and women engage in. Both men and women treat good looking people better than unattractive people, and it's not restricted to just the opposite gender either, this even holds true for their own. Men treat good looking men better and women treat good looking women better. I think the main difference here is that men are generally more honest about it. Men admit they will put up with shitty behaviour from hot ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:32 PM
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I said "by trying to paint ugly or socially awkward men as dangerous or creepy". The two are separate. Though you can't deny creepy has always carried connotations of danger, unease, and deviance when used against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:21 PM
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Women have every right to have an ick at any men they choose for whatever reason they choose. The issue is them masking that ick reflex as a danger detector, and the problems it causes is twofold. Firstly, by trying to paint ugly or socially awkward men as dangerous or creepy or otherwise nefarious, it harms these men's already low status and prospects, not only in dating, but also in every day life. If you fit the profile, or behaviour of the type of man that women are always calling creepy, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:05 PM
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Couldn't have said it better myself. She just knows the awkward bumbling loser is a raging misogynist but the fuckboy who has slept with half the town is secretly hiding a heart of gold. Their creep detector isn't broken, it just isn't a creep detector and never was. Women lie about this constantly. It's a visceral ick response to low status, ugly, socially inept or otherwise low value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:01 PM
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Just don't compete for a woman. It isn't worth it. SHE invariably isn't worth it either. Also, ironically enough, if 2 men are vying for her attention, a woman is always drawn to the guy that cares less, so by taking yourself out of the equation and not caring you are more likely to end up with her anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:55 PM
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If only or mostly women laugh at the shit you say/do, you aren't funny. Just good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:33 PM
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Kudos for using a Wayne's World line IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:28 PM
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It was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:18 AM
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Just change the sub name to BluePillNoDebate already.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:15 AM
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You don't think a blanket ban on talking about how looks are in any way related to dating is an overcorrection though?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:14 PM
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Yes. I think far more than 80% of people believe looks are relevant when discussing sgender and dating dynamics if I'm being honest. And that isn't incel content either, it's basic ficking reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:07 PM
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Looks being relevant to inter-gender dating dynamics never has been black pill. It's literally just basic reality. Black pill is look are the ONLY thing that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:59 PM
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The admins might be putting more pressure on to ban these kinds of topics, but I think the jannies as a group are part of the issue. Back in the day when I first started lurking here, and eventually posting, the moderation team was comprised of a mixed bag of people, men and women, blue and red pill. There were always more blue pill women mods, but there were always other people to balance it out. These days almost the entire jannie squad is comprised of blue pill women, and the only exceptions …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:48 PM
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So when are we changing the sub name to BluePillNoDebate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:44 PM
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You are free to explain why he is a grifter. If ai call somebody a word with a very clear meaning, I can usually articulate why I believe it to be the case. For example, I could give many reasons as to why say, Vaush is a grifter, because I actually understand what the term means.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:40 PM
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The leftoids and commies, grifter just means "anybody I disagree with politically"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:34 PM
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It's honestly fucking nuts and feels like the jannies are on a power trip, which is par for the course on reddit. PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to r/TheBluePill and r/TheRedPill But also, let's ban anything that is remotely against Blue Pill, gynocentrism, or anti feminist. I've never even visited AllPillDevate and heard it's a bit of a cesspit, but what is the point of being on a subreddit about gender dynamics when 80% o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:33 PM
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This is what happens when you deliberately select for an all female/simp mod team.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:22 PM
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It's kind of insane how simce blue pilled rhetoric has been proven to not hold up to reality, PPD has slowly been enforcing more rules to uphold blue pill thinking. "No more talk about how looks affect dating prosepcts". Really jannies? Basic reality is incel content and against the rules now? Changing the sub name to BluePillNoDebate when?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:20 PM
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Yeah. No woman who has truly been into me has ever made me wait to sleep with her, even if they weren't particularly promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:14 PM
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Compelling argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:46 PM
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It's both. If you are already past the point where you have talked about it and she says "No, I don't want us to sleep together yet, I want to wait because we really have something special and I don't want to spoil it" it's absolutely a betrayal to find out she's still spreading her legs for other guys on the side. If what you have is special or important why hasn't she broken off any dalliances on the side? The betrayal is the lie about how I portent you are to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:44 PM
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"Look, the one time I slept with a guy on the first date, he called me a slut. So if I don't want to be called a slut, I have to wait. In the meantime, you have a FWB and you have fun with him and it doesn't matter what he thinks of you because after all he's no better no worse and he's not the guy whose opinion you care about. Doesn't that make sense?" Nope. Sorry lady, but if I'm the guy "dating" you and you are making me wait, this is straight up betrayal. While I am taking you out and wining…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:26 PM
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Same old. Boys are defective girls bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:28 AM
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My sister has for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:56 AM
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Its a reddit thing man. I've seen capitalism being blamed for just about everything on this weird website.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:55 AM
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I remember her in more 90s shit tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:54 PM
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That just means more N count threads and discussion in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:09 PM
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Haha that reminds me of one time I got detention in history class. For having my bag on the table. My bag was in the table because I was taking my history book out of it. Pretty sure that teacher had it out for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:05 PM
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I don't really see people in terms of hot. Most beautiful was Liv Tyler.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:02 PM
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You get used to it. You can put forth a very strong argument for why you believe something, include sources that strengthen your argument and just get replies calling you an incel regardless. You aren't trying to convince them though, you'll never be able to. It's for the benefit of rational people reading or lurking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:33 PM
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While it doesn't strengthen RP arguments on it's own, it certainly doesn't help theor own position and it causes people to not take them seriously going forward. I guess the argument I made above and the reply I got fir into this quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:29 PM
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I don't follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:21 PM
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"Women don't think special treatment as equality lmao" They actually do though, a master's thesis written by Amy Yeung in 2012 sought to examine people's perceptions of hostile and benevolent sexism. It found that men who did not display "benevolent sexism" but rather treated women equally, were perceived to be more sexist, less supportive of female professionals, less of a good father and husband and more likely to perpetuate domestic violence. Ratings of men with low benevolent sexism were con…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:18 PM
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"I do think this is semi intentional. I think the redpill buisness men have a vested interest in preventing guys from finding success or ascending. Almost like saying certain political parties that run on promising to help marginalised people move up in the world, when they require those people to be marginalised in order to have a voting base But that obviously would never happen...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:29 PM
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You are assuming "shower and get a haircut" is genuine advice and not just a throwaway comment to get them to shut up about their frustrations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:25 PM
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Sure. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/8226295_Gender_Differences_in_Automatic_In-Group_Bias_Why_Do_Women_Like_Women_More_Than_Men_Like_Men https://www.purdue.edu/uns/html4ever/2004/041213.Goodwin.gender.html https://www.centreformalepsychology.com/male-psychology-magazine-listings/male-identity-an-island-no-man-wants-to-visit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:04 PM
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The birds and the beasts, The boy who cried wolf, and The north wind and the sun are my favourites.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:51 PM
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Only a Sith deals in absolutes That statement is itself an absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:42 PM
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Yes let's go back to people strawmanning the nice guy position.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:41 PM
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Betting doesn't stop the moment you settle with someone. My ex displayed very few red flags for over 5 years and then emotionally cheated and ran off the be the side piece of some married twitch streamer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:37 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/17bkd6r/men_heres_the_hard_truth/ Looks like it's finally been removed now but it was up for ages despite being obvious bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:35 PM
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Yes. A lot of posts here lately are just to rile people up. Like the post the other day about how ugly men should just accept they will never find love and should blame their parents for bad genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:32 PM
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Yes, she does. That was literally her first comment in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:09 AM
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Not to mention like 80% of the posts on there are creative writing pieces. It does make me laugh when the people deciding who's an asshole or not are completely nihilistic, amoral, misanthropes. "AITA for telling my pitbull off after ot ravaged my daughter and put her in the hospital?" Every answer- "Yes YTA. Your dog did nothing wrong and no wonder it acts like that with an owner like you that tells it off. They aren't violent by nature it's learned behaviour from idiots like you! Also, it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:03 AM
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It is. I'm not an incel. Just an average guy who has had relationships and can get dates here and there. I experience women looking away in the street as well, I experience women crossing the road to avoid me when we just happen to be going to the same way. Funnily enough this all stops when you're in a relationship due to preselection. Women are highly neurotic compared to men, which means they are more alert to potential danger or even just uncomfortable social situations. They have a higher l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:54 AM
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That's not an incel trait. Thays just a regular man on the 80% that the vast majority of women aren't attracted to trait. It's like hiw you avoid eye contact with the teacher when you don't want them to call your bake to answer a question. Or how you avoid eye contact with the drug addict trying to start small talk with passers by so he can ask for change.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:29 AM
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Yes. Men and women find each other more attractive after hugging. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/343444543_Seeing_What_You_Want_to_See_Sexual_Activation_Makes_Potential_Partners_Seem_More_Appealing_and_Romantically_Interested
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:22 AM
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It's about 40% of men and 80% of women that have reproduced historically, but yeah you are correct. Women selecting for the top men hasn't negatively affected the human race too much thuse far. In fact the human population is constantly expanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:17 AM
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Aragon (The Lord of the Rings) Oh Dae Su (Oldboy) Dr Ian Malcolm (Jurassic Park - 1st film only) Mark Corrigan (Peep Show) Hawkeye (The Last of the Mohicans)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:18 PM
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We are friends now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:29 PM
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Can't name a top 5 because its always in flux for me, but I have to give a shout out to Kingdom Come: Deliverance. Probably the most immersive rpg I've ever played.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:12 PM
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No. "Wage gap" is an earnings gap It is illegal to pay two people different wages for the exact same work. Men earn more than women when taken as an overall aggregate because they take higher paying jobs, work more overtime, take less time off etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:52 PM
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Commies BTFO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:29 PM
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I wouldn't say most, but it's definitely something I'm seeing more and more as time goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:26 PM
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Haha, thanks for the concern but I'm not frustrated because I want to date the furthest gone PPD women or because I take anything they say seriously. I'm frustrated because I come here to engage in debate and it's impossible to have a rational debate with people who comfortably hold two completely untenable positions simultaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:22 PM
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8 in looks 5 in money 2 in personality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:03 PM
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The issue isn't that "flirting doesn't always mean I'm trying to escalate" The issue is that men on PPD are constantly being told by the women here that cold approaching is bad and you shouldn't approach a woman under any circumstance UNLESS she flirts or gives other IOIs. But also don't try to escalate even if she does flirt because she's just flirting to have fun, fuck the fact that she's deliberately toying with your emotions. I know the copy and paste response will be "just don't be autistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:51 PM
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Its just hard to believe that people could be so utterly lacking self awareness. Men, don't approach women unless we give you blatant indicators of interest. It's creepy! But also, if I do give you blatant indicators of interest it doesn't mean I want you to reciprocate or take that as me actually being interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:44 PM
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"Lol, just because I flirt with people I have zero interest in doesn't mean I'm leading them on." Do people just have no self awareness anymore or are we being trolled?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:35 PM
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Haircut, yes. Chasing 21 year old girls, you're around the age that 21 year old women like. So probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:26 PM
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Yes. Stop thinking women mean moral when they say they want "good men" or good personalities. They mean exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:24 PM
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The bad guy in a story she's writing looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:17 PM
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Yes. A paternity test is like a prenup in that sense. Talk about it early, if she refuses or takes offense and won't budge or even try see it from your loint of view, she ain't the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:56 PM
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Because you give them boyfriend treatment while they recieve preferential treatment without having to reciprocate any of your effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:46 PM
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You could say that for most of the topics here. Men and women tend to have fundamental disagreements about certain things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:44 PM
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Yes. Exactly. When somebody is telling you what is best for them but framing it as what's best for you, those people do not have your best interests at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:26 PM
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Same thing applies. You can stop tryong to poke for hypocrisy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:23 PM
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Sure. They are capable of defining which parts of masculinity are good for them, but telling men which parts of masculinity is good and bad for men is some BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:22 PM
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I was more talking about on PPD specifically, but sure. Obviously it applies to within relationships and in real life in general too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:20 PM
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1 rule for men. Do not take advice from women on what it means to be a man. Do not acquiesce to women defining what manhood is, either positive or negative. So many debates on POD involve women defining what the male experience is, and what parts of it should/shouldn't matter to men. Do not let them dictate to you what your experience is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:16 PM
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Everything moves in waves on PPD. Early on in the week there was a wave of talks about creeps and creep shaming. Then yesterday it was all about nice guys. Today it's about paternity tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:41 PM
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You aren't aware of this poster are you lol? His entire post history is "I fuck." I'm here for it though, balances out the 3000 "I don't fuck" posters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:02 PM
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Germany is bad at a lot of things. They are pretty much the ground zero.of terrible ideologies. Nazism, Marxism, Postmodernism, Protestantism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:37 AM
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Tankie empathy moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:24 AM
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Humans are conditioned to get tired when they see signs of aggression?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:00 AM
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I like how some people on here post and then reply to their own shit and converse with themself and people just ignore it or act like its completely normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:00 AM
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Onlyfans. There's even a theory that these "red pill" podcasts are actually just schemes to signal boost and advertise these women's onlyfans accounts. This is because this was exactly what the popular twitter account "Onlyfans girls posting their Ls" was.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:48 PM
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Trolls. Never read Three Billy Goats Gruff as a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:40 PM
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Don't feed creatures that live under bridges.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:38 PM
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This weekend? Volkanovski will beat Makhachev
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:19 PM
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Lmao. That explains so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:15 PM
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Is that the "my coochie pink but my booty hole brown" lady?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:13 PM
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Hamas are on record as saying the end goal is total genocide, and a holy war.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:38 PM
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Human beings are a social species. We are designed to want to seek out a long term partner to have kids with, grow old together and make each other happy. Sex is a part of a relationship of course but it's just one part and people are unfulfilled by not being able to participate. It negatively affects the mental health of people who aren't able to partake, the exact same way being excluded from social groups and not having any friends does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:33 PM
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Wait. Before I answer. Do you know why women want to be in relationships with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:28 PM
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Holy fuck. I'm not trying to be mean but are you dense? Are you completely aromatic and asexual? Do you not know why the vast majority of human beings want to be a in a mutual loving, romantically fulfilling relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:24 PM
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Facetious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:16 PM
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There's more to it than just wanting pussy lmao They know. They aren't being naiive, they are being deceitful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:59 PM
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Guys don't say "pussy" though. Only these morons trying to strawman them say they want to be rewarded with pussy. The men they are strawmanning usually say they would like to have a mutually loving relationship, not that they deserve one, or have earned one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:57 PM
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Easy. People that support them are anti western society, anti white people. Eben though they are usually western and white themselves. They are anti fascism but if the fascists are brown then they consider them to be the good guys. I've seen people call what Hamas are doing decolonisation, which is scary when you remember they also want to decolonise the west. Then there are the duplicitous ones that support Hamas' acts of terrorism but when you call them out on it say they are only pro Palestin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:50 PM
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Yeah, I didn't wish her ill or anything. I'm just not down to be in a situation where my gf has incestuous friendships and she maintains regular contact with people where there is obvious mutual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:43 PM
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Yes. Talked about it on here before but one girl I was dating casually admitted she played netball with her mixed gender friend group, and that she'd slept with all if her guy friends at various points.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:41 PM
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The classic. Ketchup, mustard, fried onion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:58 PM
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Haha you figured me out genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:57 PM
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I've tried to be the adult so many times. Its the straw the broke the camel's back. I'm done.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:46 PM
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I'm not naming them explicitly so it isn't witch hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:44 PM
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I'm just going tonstsrt responding to a certain somebody with "woooooosh" from now on. No matter how hard I try, I'm convinced at this point they don't have the mental faculty to be able to follow simple logic along from point a to b. No offense to any other neurodivergent people here, I'm not talking abiut those sorts of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:40 PM
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Lmao. You took out the part of the post that explains why I care, then ask why I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:32 PM
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I do wish when people would quote me and create a thread about one of my comments, they had the decency to understand what the comment is actually saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:17 PM
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Oh hey. I'm vent 2. Do you realise that my "vent" is not about women dating assholes right? Its about people like YOU who see men who are frustrated by that and use mental gymnastics to argue that their frustration and the way they express it makes these men WORSE than the assholes and bullies and deserve to be unhappy because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:15 PM
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Dude is in the friendzone. He gives her the boyfriend treatment and she occasionally flirts with him to keep it up because he's useful. But when push comes to shove, she's always going to end up with guys she's actually interested in. She's vile and he's a simp that needs to grow up and kick her to the curb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:02 PM
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Like I said. Somebody would have to be a real piece of shit to...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:21 PM
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You have to be a real piece of shit to see say, a bullying victim, be frustrated by women dating the guy that bullied him and others like him. Wondering why women who claim to like food men date bullies while he who has always tried to be morally upstanding, can't get a date to save his life. Then use that guy's frustration as some kind of proof that he's actually a worse person than the dude that made his life a living hell. The use that to justify why he deserves to be unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:07 PM
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Apparently you aren't allowed to block people anymore? I blocked a guy a few weeks back who was blatantly being both bad faith and deliberately antagonistic. A jannie messaged and told me not to block people on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:21 PM
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in hopes "u hate wimmin" is enough to get people on their side The thing is, it usually is enough. They do it because it's tried and tested. It works.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:18 PM
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I agree, you can only change yourself and maybe a few select people you are close to who truly value what you think and have to say about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:03 PM
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Both women and men treat men worse than they treat women. Women have an in-group bias when it comes to biological sex and men have an out-group bias. So while you aren't wrong, women also need to stop being assholes to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:56 PM
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It isn’t so much that they are a lie, and if they are they aren't maliciously so. Its that what women mean by "good" is not the same as what men mean by good. Men mean morally upstanding, kind to everybody as a default unless given a reason not to be. Nice if you will. Women tend to mean exciting, interesting, fun to he around. Kindness is secondary if on the list at all, and when it is it only extends to her caring about the guy being kind to her and the people she cares about/aren't invisible …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:27 PM
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This. So many women are used to being treated preferentially by both men and other women that when they are treated or talked to the same way as a man would be, they mistake it for misogyny, mistreatment and even abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:23 PM
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Hurrr durrr Only if they identify as such /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:19 PM
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Just the once. With the woman who I dedicated 5 years of my life to, only for her to emotionally cheat on me and eventually leave me to be the side chick of a married guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:07 PM
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PPD women and not understanding analogies is a classic combo. It's like salt and pepper.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:40 PM
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Usually venting about not being able to find a gf. Annoyance at being told by girls they want good men and seeing women date guys who they don't think are good. Of course the disconnect is the difference between what men and women think id meant by "good". Men think women mean moral, when women mean exciting, not boring more often than not. I think a big issue (because you see this all the time on PPD too) is women's do not like how men vent. It can be harsh, blunt, brusque. It comes across as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:36 PM
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While that's true. Most other cases don't come with the person being frustrated about it being demonised, made fun of, or incessantly mocked and derided. Nice guys are told they are entitled creeps, that feel they "deserve" access to women's bodies because they follow basic societal etiquette.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:39 PM
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There's a few. In shape but doesn't judge me for being overweight. Good listener but doesn't make me do emotional labor
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:47 PM
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Right after "Good listener as well. Now I know If I'm being charitable that means a whole lot more than the guy having to do "emotional labor", but you can most guarantee it's included and he would be expected to listen to her daily grievances.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:56 AM
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"Men bring nothing to the table anymore!" Then you look on OLD profiles and see what women want for a guy to be "contributing something" Tall Handsome Intelligent Outgoing Athletic Outdoorsy Laid-back Able to take charge Honest Physically strong Mentally strong Kind Funny Hardworking Ambitious Sensitive Romantic Good listener Doesn't make me do emotional labour Same political beliefs as me Wants a family Doesn't smoke Doesnt drink Short hair Muscular/In good shape Nice car Earns minimum of 100k …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:47 AM
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CMV posts are shit. A lot of the time jannies turn a thread into a cmv when the OP never intended it to be one, the rules on this sub are too limited to be able to have real debates about concepts. A lot of the time people want to make a statement and have people debate that statement, but the jannies change it to a CMV when the thread creator never wanted their view to be attempted to be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:29 PM
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Consistently desired = sexually successful = successful. It's shorthand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:01 PM
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Nah. Simps are a blight on this earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:34 PM
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Ever hear the adage about playing chess with a pigeon?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:09 PM
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Well, we have had 2. So by my count we are 1 away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:57 PM
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I dunno about the breakdown between gender lines. But ideology is absolutely an indicator of mental illness. Its been found that the ideological/political left has consistently found to have higher rates of mental illness, and it gets worse the further left people are. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/unique-everybody-else/202103/personality-traits-mental-illness-and-ideology%3famp https://www.researchgate.net/publication/341609819_Mental_Illness_and_the_Left
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:22 PM
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Yeah. If you haven't seen it. Yamamoto's chest piece is a complete work of art. Just beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:21 PM
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Check out Matt Heafy's full body tats. They're awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:14 PM
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Matt heafy has some great Japanese style tattoos. ! https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fpreview.redd.it%2Fv47pnwu6gre91.jpg%3Fwidth%3D640%26crop%3Dsmart%26auto%3Dwebp%26s%3D2e4ac2c7197eb07cdc3e30bb81e53b036b50b416 !<
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:06 PM
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You are correct I misspoke. I should have aid both me a nd women a re both biased in favour of women. Not that they think they are more intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:56 PM
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Yes. Essentially. I watched an interview with a group of behavioural scientists who talked about these kinds of studies. Basically anything that results in findings that show men to be better or more capable than women in any way are shunned and internally shot down because the fear is they couod result in real world harm. Both men and women react negatively to studies that show men in a more positive light than women, or more capable etc. Whereas both women and men react positively to studies t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:53 PM
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Lol "No I don't want to be your FWB" "I am open to short [term]" SHE WONT BE A FWB but she's fine being a fling. Yet she's sick of "fuckboy games". She doesn't know what she wants and is her own worst enemy. She's literally inviting fuckboys while saying she doesn't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:41 PM
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Interesting. When evaluating research that's about arguing whether males or females are more intelligent, both men and women expect men to say men are more intelligent and women to say women are more intelligent. In truth, both men and women think women are more intelligent. Women are wonderful. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/362069361_Reactions_to_research_on_sex_differences_Effect_of_sex_favoured_researcher_sex_and_importance_of_sex-difference_domain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:34 PM
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Mem who like larger breasts don't disqualify women with smaller boobs than their ideal. You will never in a million 7ears say "Dont even message unless you are a D cup" like women do with the "You have to be 6 feet to get on this ride" stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:06 PM
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Nothing is ever just "right wing" or conservative anymore either. There's the left, and the far/alt right and that's it, according to reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:02 PM
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It obviously depends on the woman, but I've seen so many women say they like dad bods and when asked to give an example, they say somebody like Jason Momoa. A dad bod is something like Bert Kreischer. A guy who has the build of someone that used to be in shape but has gone to seed. Like bulky arms and neck but a chubby belly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:23 PM
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It's generally a response to women going "Haha you can't get laid, neckbeard, I can" no? Like "Big deal you can get laid, guys will fuck anything it doesn't mean you're special or even desirable." It comes from women being unable to frame an argument beyond denying men they don't like the use of their holes while claiming other men want to use their holes. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:06 PM
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Every generation thinks it invented everything. Forget sex, every generation thinks they have mastered politics, economics, socionomics. They think they can "fix" society and correct where every previous generation was mistaken. Every generation thinks they are the ones that will bring about utopia. Basically the young and dumb are also smug and self righteous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:45 PM
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It really doesn't. Confidence doesn't grow in a vacuum, it's based on positive affirmations and results. A guy who is happy approaching despite never having any semblance of success is either severely neurodivergent to the point where he is unable to comprehend what's going wrong, or he's totally delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:59 PM
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Tbf I see a lot of guys here with that mindset as well. So many dudes here think "after 1000 rejections you stop caring and it makes approaching easier, because you aren't invested in the outcome anymore." It's like, nah. A guy who is 0-1000 is going a to be a mental wreck with his confidence truly shattered in every respect. To be anything else at that point is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:52 PM
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I think it's like... because it's their idea, they get to have the illusion of control That sounds a lot like they're huffing copium. It reminds me of all the prog men writing articles in the mid 2010s about why women should be allowed to open up the relationship on their end. The point of them was to promote allowing women in relationships to sleep around, but most of them were the house husbands trying and failing to rationalise why it's a good thing despite it making them so unhappy. They all…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:37 PM
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Same. There are a bunch of fetishes I don't get (like foot stuff, feet really gross me out) but being a cuck has to be the top of the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:32 PM
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Male empowerment is about how to better yourself. How to improve and become great. The hero's story. Female empowerment is you are perfect exactly as you are, and it's the world's job to recognise that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:11 PM
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I personally think they are bait for a certain specific poster who will take it at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:52 PM
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But nobody gets angry, I'm just confused as to what the purpose behind these posts are. Who are they supposed to make angry? Actual incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:47 PM
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"Bro I only slayed 5 times this week. Didn't fuck at all on Tuesday or Thursday. And one of them was a double dip! So it was only 4 women. God damn I hate being an incel." I can't tell if these kinds of posts are legit mental patients or a seriously weird attempt to humble brag.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:44 PM
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Then you might be a sex addict. "I get sex once a week" and calling yourself a semi incel, trying to compare your experience to people who are completely starved of any kind of intimacy. Again, respectfully sir, get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:40 PM
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Semi inceldom is not sleeping with 3 different women in the span of a month. Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:37 PM
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Ask her for even a single example of it. Then bask in the silence afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:28 PM
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5 examples please. Not asking much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:40 PM
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Amount of DV =/= severity of DV. Nobody would ever argue against the fact that men can do more damage to a woman than a woman can to another woman, or a man for that matter. The higher amount of DV in lesbian relationships, as well as women being the primary abusers in non reciprocal DV situations, tells us about who is more likely to be abusive, not who's abuse is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:34 PM
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The strawman is that no man has ever said that a woman expecting a partner to have basic hygiene is hypergamy. You will argue it happens all the time, so I'm going to politely ask you to show me 5 examples of this from PPD. Shouldn't be hard, since this happens constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:29 PM
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Women are actually the primary abusers in straight relationships where there is non reciprocal domestic violence as well, so I don't think it's the lack of fear due to lesser strength. Most relationships with DV are ones where the violence is reciprocal, as in both people in the relationship both abuse and are abused. But in relationships where only one partner abuses the other, women make up the majority of the people that are the abuser in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:15 PM
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True, but they don't use it as an excuse for lesbians committing domestic violence. Their argument is that lesbians don't commit the DV at all. They say the dad beating them IS the DV within lesbian relationships. They deny that the lesbians are committing any of the DV themselves. Their argument is that lesbians have the highest rates of DV because more lesbians are the victims of DV, but none of them are the perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:23 AM
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I love the mental gymnastics misandrists employ around lesbian relationships. They have higher rates of domestic violence because both partners are the victim! Of men! That isn't what domestic violence within a relationship entails but try again. If I get assaulted in the street I can't then say I suffered violence within a relationship therefore it's domestic violence. Or they will say its because their dad best them before they moved out, which is domestic violence but it still wouldnt count t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:47 AM
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Makes me wonder when I'm walking home and I see women ahead of me cross the street to avoid me. I wonder what's going through their head. I imagine some neurotic concoction of fear and distrust. I wonder how many women cross the street and get home safe and think "phew, got away this time" when they were never in the ightest bit of danger to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:28 AM
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Whenever I see a girl describe herself as curvy or busty on OLD, it almost exclusively means fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:15 AM
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I love half the shit written on reddit that people for some reason take seriously. "I met my now ex, Tobias, on a markedly cold, morning 4 years ago. It was October the 24th and there was a slight chill in the air" It's like nah not a single person on planet earth describes things that actually happened in their life like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:58 PM
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It is. People don't remember and describe real experiences they actually lived through purple prose.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:45 PM
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Yeah. I have never used the fact that I paid for everything as a tool for blackmail during or after a date. Or to pressure her in a "I scratched your back now you scratched mine" way. I think it being socially expected negates it being nice in a way. I'd be more than happy to pay even if it wasn't socially expected, I think most guys still would, but the fact that I'm expected to kind of removes the aspect of kindness. I'd be happy for women to pay or go dutch if they are worried about it being …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:23 PM
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Carrying resentment from your last relationship into a new one is always going to be a bad look. Going as far as talking about him in her dating profile is laughable. New guy is just going to be bait to make the ex jealous and if he would take her back, she would run to him in an instant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:03 PM
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Flying halfway across the planet is time travelling. I had a birthday 2 days in a row doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:54 PM
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Seemed like an extremely tame, reasonable thread by TwoX standards (which it still is, most of everything posted on that sub is pure insanity) until I got to the part about paying for dates. "Men don't pay for dates to be nice, they are always looking for something in return, it's so predatory". But also, if you don't pay for everything you are guaranteed to not be getting a second date. True, we don't pay for everything to be nice. We also don't pay for everything to get leverage over you after…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:53 PM
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Funnily enough I only use my right for that. Feels wrong in ol' lefty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:40 PM
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Did you get a haircut though?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:38 PM
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TFW left handed. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:37 PM
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Overall I think the logic is sound. You have to get comfortable talking with women who you aren't interested in before you can get comfortable talking to women that you are interested in. It will never be exactly the same because there will always be more nerves and pressure when you are invested in an outcome, but it definitely will help.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:09 PM
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Unattractive men being interested in a woman are one of two things. Invisible or an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:01 PM
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Ehhhh. I have a sister, it never really helped with talking to other girls. I get what you mean though. It's similar in the sense that you don't see your sister in the same light as the girls you'd like to date, just as you don't with the tomboy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:59 PM
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According to you there are only two genders. Women and strawmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:48 PM
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I think a lot of guys need a tomboy friend at school. I (somewhat) got over my crippling fear of talking to girls by hanging out with girls who were "one of the guys" so to speak. Now that nobody goes anywhere and spend all their time on the Internet though, AI might be a more realistic option.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:46 PM
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The thing you have to realise is women will never be blunt as a first option. Women in general always want to be seen as virtuous. She is never going to outright say "all the men around me are beneath me". She is going to say she can't find a date. It's like when women say they want a guy "exactly like you". She means a guy who is hot that is as nice to her as you are, but actually saying that would be callous. So she says she wants somebody exactly like you, but not you because you are like a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:30 PM
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"Cant find a date" for a woman means can't find somebody she likes. Not that nobody is interested in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:17 PM
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It only seems to matter in North America and the UK to dome extent. In places where people measure height by cm. Women don't have such a huge preference differential. They still prefer taller men and there is less preference for each height category as it drops, but it is in line with average distribution. In NA and the UK where height is measured in feet, there is a gigantic drop off when height goes under the 6'0 mark. Even though there is essentially no difference between a man who is 6 feet …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:04 PM
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Probably hardly ever. Since guys smiling is negatively correlated woth women finding them attractive. Men who smile less are consistently found more attractive than guys that smile more often. https://www.nbcnews.com/healthmain/want-catch-ladys-eye-dont-smile-study-says-1c6437381
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:46 PM
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Resting bitch face I'd imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:42 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_rife/video/7276532725459209515?lang=en Its like trying to pick out the male voices when he gets laughs. There aren't any.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:39 PM
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YouTube keeps sending me shorts of a stand up comic called Matt Rife. He's not very funny and all he talks about is sex. He is basically a super chad. Extremely good looking and because of this he has built up a fanbase that is almost entirely female. Under almost all of his IG posts or on his YT and other social media the comments is just full of horny women talking about his appearance and what they'd like him to do to them. Zero modesty or shame and all very lecherous. Anyway. Turns out Matt …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:10 PM
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Taking lengthy breaks from here is a must. I've been posting on and off for 5 years but never for more than a month or so at a time. I'll have one month on 3 or 4 months off type of deal. Sometimes I take a full year off. You see what this place does to people who post here all day every day. .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:59 PM
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Yes. But eben more pathetic because theyir long term goal is to white Knight and simp enough to be noticed among all the other John's and eventually be the he's boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:31 PM
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They are talking about the disparity in the comments. The hot guy shows affection and all the comments are gooey and talking about how he's a keeper and how they would melt in his presence. The balding guy shows affection and all the comments are either about how she can do better, or how his shows of affection are signs of abuse and controlling behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:44 PM
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I hate people who use Fahrenheit. It literally makes no sense why freezing wouldn't be at 0°
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:17 PM
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Oh boy. You really don't have even a shred of self awareness do you? Here is a quote from you in this very comment section. As the saying goes: if you met an asshole, you met an asshole. If everyone’s an asshole, you’re the asshole. Now here is you, again. You know, it’s always funny, because when I was in school, I thought everyone was educated as I was. I just assumed even a little kids know how to write an argument: Perhaps I am way more educated than I think I am. Perhaps, Lilith, if everybo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:13 PM
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Lack of evidence for WHAT Lilith? This is exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:06 PM
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The irony is that you are guilty of everything you are complaining about in the post. You don't read what people write, and respond to your own made up arguments or what you wished they wrote. You're even doing it in your replies to other people under this very post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:02 PM
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The irony in this post is too much 4 me fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:59 PM
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Yes. Most 'Nice Guy' frustration doesn't come from "Why do women date men who are assholes to them" It often means "Why do women claim to like nice guys but date bullies who are assholes to ME".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:09 PM
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Good luck changing what's hardwired in to people. One of the first things we are taught as children is "dont judge a book by it's cover" and almost every single one of us go on to ignore it for the rest of our lives. The people who taught us to not judge on appearance don't even believe it because they do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:32 AM
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Devil horns effect in play for ugly people. It sucks but its human nature. Attractive guy pulls his woman close and kisses her forehead- "I love a man that takes charge" Ugly guy does the exact same thing- "Girl you gotta get away from this creep. This is controlling behaviour and it is not okay."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:24 AM
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Definitely social media. Nobody is going to walk up to a couple in real life and go "you can do so much better girl! Your boyfriend looks like a nonce and you're so pretty!" Before social media people didn't feel the need to be the main character and document every part of their existence for the internet to see. I would never date a social media influencer for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:15 AM
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Because it's bougie. No substance but still expensive. Caviar is small and there's nothing to it but it's expensive as hell because it's "high class". Some women will order the most frivolous, expensive shit as a shit test just to see if the guy will start sweating. This is why the coffee date is a hot topic right now. Coffee date weeds out this kind of shit right off the bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:38 AM
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Yeah they aren't forever alone because they have no suitors. Its because they won't go near their male equivalents with a 10 foot pole. A bunch of the old femcel subs went private because they were being inundated by incels asking them out on dates. Incels saw them and thought "Wow they're the female versions of US, we should date each other!" And the femcels were like "nawww, we forever alone because we look like Harvey Weinstien in a dress, but we're still holding out for Brad Pitt."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:00 PM
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Strawman check- Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:28 PM
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Just a reminder. Loneliness comes in many forms. And the inability to have any kind of romantic relationships does actually qualify as loneliness. Strawmanning people saying that as blue balls is a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:18 PM
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This is another strawman. You are not psychic. A man saying I am lonely and I want intimacy is not necessarily saying "touch my dick now". This is a comprehension problem on your end. You attack what you wish people were saying, instead of the things they actually say. Which is why you are completely unable to ever admit you are wrong. Ever. You are responding to arguments in your own head, not what you see written on the webpage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:12 PM
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No I am parodying the comments of actual PPD women. Don't read too much into it big guy. It is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:09 PM
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I too have a balding 4'11 Indian friend with bad teeth that puts any Chad to shame. He has a 100% success rate when he cold approaches! Isn't living in reality and not at all a figment of our imaginations great?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:56 PM
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You do know there is a difference between "I am lonely I can't get any intimacy, I just want to love someone and have them love me back" And "I am lonely because I can't have no strings attached sex with a consistent rotation of supermodels." Yes? Oh who am I kidding of course you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:54 PM
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It isn't your bad looks or becaise you're poor. That 8 year old is 4 foot nothing and only has a few coins in his piggy bank. You are unsuccessful bevaise of your pErSOnALitY.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:48 PM
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You talk about one of the resident nutcases and the others come crawling out of the woodwork to see whats up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:36 PM
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Lmao. There has been a grand total of one and it's obviously a LARP account. I'm fairly certain I even know who's LARP account it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:32 PM
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But you aren't going anywhere. You're just switching back to your main account.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:24 PM
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Same. He has the exact same posting style as another one of our resident trolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:17 PM
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I have to apologise to PPD women. Everytime I have seen some woman posting about "I have no empathy for men who talk about loneliness but all they really care about is being able to have casual sex with attractive women without having to put in any effort." I have simply rolled my eyes and thought "not this strawman again." I can no longer say this. After 5 years or so of posting and lurking here, I have finally found one. A man who said the only way to not be a loser is to be sleeping with attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:10 PM
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Matching consistently with 10s for hookups with no effort on his part lmao. I've seen women say all men on PPD cry about not being able to have casual sex with supermodels on tap, but this is the first time I've e er actually seen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:53 PM
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It's that 6th sense women have built in to them from birth. You know, the creep detector. Women can tell you're an awful person just from how you look. They know the weird nerd with the greasy hair posts misogyny on reddit while the chilled jock is a total sweetheart. This is why you never see women in abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:42 PM
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Yeah man. Good luck with that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:33 PM
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On order to explain why Chad isn't winning. You are going to have to explain to us what you think winning is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:27 PM
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I understand it fine. It isn't rocket science. The same reason shirt or bald guys rage against women who want tall guys with full heads of hair, is the same reason fat women rage against men wanting thin women, or sluts rage against men wanting women with secual restraint. People don't like others having standards that exclude them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:23 PM
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Someone posted a Chad's dating app info yesterday. Dude had like 180 matches, resulting in 4 or 5 relationships and over 60 hookups. If your metric for success is "doing better than women" then even Chadimus Maximus, lord of all Chads is always going to be a loser to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:07 PM
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I'm used to it I guess. I noticed from around the age of 15 that women would cross the street when I was walking behind them. Eben though I just happened to be going the same way. I noticed at college when I would hold the door open behind me after going through if I saw somebody coming behind. Men would give me the silent head nod of appreciation. Or "thanks mate" whole women would scowl or give a look of disdain. Then due to preselection all of this goes away when you are in a relationship. Ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:02 PM
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Expecting consistency from women who say every woman is a 10 and a queen and 80% of men are disgusting below average trolls. Then turn around and say men are delusional and think too highly of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:46 PM
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Yes. The problem with blue pill platitudes is their purpose isn't to help people asking for it. Their purpose is to stop people asking for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:37 PM
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"Good personality" in the context of sex/dating doesn't actually mean kind person who takes care of kittens and feeds his grandma chicken soup. Idk why people still bullshit about this. Because a certain demographic of people have an almost otherworldly desire to be seen as virtuous. "If you are struggling with dating it's because you're a bad person. Good people do not struggle. That's why I don't struggle, you see."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:31 PM
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Totally not the inner thoughts of every megalomaniacial villain throughout history
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:17 PM
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It's like if a billionaire's son made a post saying that it's not being poor that's holding you back from being successful in life, but not being hard working enough LMAO I like that there is so little actual blue pill content here these days that people are only now discovering what Blue Pill actually is. Just world fallacy. Blue pill world view is that normal, nice, average people don't struggle with dating because regular platitudes work. If they don't work for you, then you are defective, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:16 PM
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It's an blue pill posts. The imfirdt actual blue pill rhetoric I've seen here in years. This is what this sub used to be before it became misandrists vs incels. It used to he red pill talking points debating blue pill platitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:09 PM
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Yeah I agree the lying part is weird. They are FWBs yet both of them are acting like they are in a relationship. She's lying because I assume she doesn't want to ruin things with him, he is getting protective and possessive over a woman he (judging from the comments) refuses to be exclusive with. Weird vibes all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:57 PM
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Nothingburger. They aren't in a relationship. It's a FWB situation. Guy should not be getting envious of her sleeping with another dude in the past unless they become exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:51 PM
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Or congratu-fuckin'-lations in a heavy New York accent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:49 PM
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OP has been deleted so I can't judge but everybody knows the score woth r/relationships Men bad women good. Its as mainstream and blue pilled as gender relations get. OP- "My man hit me is this abuse?" Every comment- "Yes this is awful leave him immediately this is disgusting I am so sorry this happened to you." OP- "My woman hit me is this abuse?" Every comment- "Well why did she hit you, I'm sure it wasn't for no reason. What did you do? I feel like we need to hear her side of the story."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:46 PM
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I'm an atheist and can't stand militant atheists. Especially since most of them dunk on religion but they too are religious. They have just replaced the sky daddy with big government or their ideology. Plus most argumentative atheists only have the guys to go after Christianity. When I saw the skeptic community start going to bat for Islam and defending any religion that isn't Christian I lost all respect for them. Not at all shocked that a decade later the skeptic community turned into communis…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:30 PM
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OK yeah thats odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:56 PM
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22.78% of men aged 18-24 reporting having had 3 sexual partners vs 0.49% for women This is just more of what we already know. Women are sharing the same guys, whether they know it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:54 PM
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You are discussing it now. Nobody is stopping you making a thread about it either. As for me I don't even know what it is, so that would be why I haven't talked about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:47 PM
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Its called concern trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:06 PM
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Why do you think sexuality is an aesthetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:05 PM
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"Men fuck lots of sluts, therefore men love sluts! Stop trying to convince us otherwise. The statistics show the truth! But also Women fucking bad boys and bad boys statistically having more sex partners than kind altruistic men doesn't prove women love bad boys. Correlation doesn't equal causation!" Gotta love PPD. If people here didn't have double standards they wouldn't have standards at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:42 AM
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So no. Hypocrisy for the win. I was waiting for the hamster to rear it's head. If you didn't have double standards you wouldn't have any at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:40 AM
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Well, have your views changed? Do women like bad boys now or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:36 AM
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Because I'm not gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:33 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/m4hji2/comment/gqukfu8/ Every post of yours in this thread is "women fucking more bad boys doesn't mean women love bad boys. Correlation doesn't equal causation!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:31 AM
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The slew of downvotes tells me the braindead leftoids have found my equality of opportunity good, generational collective revenge bad posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:46 AM
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1.Toby Everybody else sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:42 AM
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Blue pilled rhetoric and reality don't belong in the same sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:38 AM
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Holy shit. Actual genuine blue pill rhetoric making a return on PPD? There's a thread right now attempting to explain that your looks and lack of status and wealth aren't what holds people back. Its just your personality duh! This is the first genuine blue pilled OP I've seen in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:35 PM
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Those are the female version of the dumbasses saying “I don't love sluts, but I just fuck them”. In both cases, it's low quality You're aware this was YOUR argument no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:26 PM
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I saw one "new ick unlocked" video where it was just her husband playing with their daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:13 PM
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How is it NOT disenfranchising people? Telling people "no, higher education is closed off to you even though you surpassed the qualification standards because your ancestors had it good in the past" is straight up discrimination based on race, or sex. Educational institutions support AA because they support everything collectivist. They are lost at this point. I know they want to correct disenfranchisement. I'm not saying their goal is wrong, I'm saying their solution is wrong. It will breed mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:10 PM
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Holy fuck, imagine disenfranchising people and telling them its a good thing and that they shouldn't feel resentment over it. No. Discriminating against people now to make up for other discrimination is supporting the original discrimination. Discriminating against people who didn't DO the discriminating by the way. You correct discrimination by levelling the playing field for everybody going forward. Everybody deserves the same opportunity, not the same outcome. It isn't correction, it's reveng…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:00 PM
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Preaching to the choir. I just want to see the hamster do it's thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:50 PM
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Cool. How does that change the argument though? How does discriminating against a group of people to make up for the discrimination against another group of people solve the issue of discrimination? You are just fueling future resentment of the people you are discriminating against now, then others will have to he discriminated against to make up for their discrimination. And it goes on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:48 PM
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Its weird that your argument is "men fuck sluts therefore men love sluts" But when applied to bad boys your argument was "just because all women try out and fuck bad boys doesn't mean women love bad boys." Pick a damn hand already.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:47 PM
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Probably because you don't correct for past discrimination with more discrimination. Just like you don't solve racism with more racism. If your goal is to end the cycle, you don't keep the cycle going.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:44 PM
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Just a reminder: Guys who truly find sluts to be disgusting never give hoes a second of their time. Hey look it's me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:26 PM
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Oh no you've caught the ire of the local tankie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:21 PM
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Not at all. I'm not a woman either btw. I'm just explaining what women mean by creep since many guys here don't seem to get it. We automatically assume women are talking about actually bad, dangerous men when they talk about creeps because that's what WE find creepy. They aren't. They are talking about losers who give them the ick. Why do you think Chad can go up to women and touch them and say lewd things and they laugh? While the balding incel with no friends can ask the time and be thought of…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:17 PM
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You are expecting coherence from people that think Pewdiepie is a fascist. But people in NY proudly flying swastika flags and chanting "Gas the Jews " aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:59 PM
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Poorest for the fiscal lefoids. Least white, cisgendered, straight or male for the social leftoids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:54 PM
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I saw a leftist on PCM attempt to address this. His argument was essentially "I don't care that they disagree with my lifestyle because I value human lives over petty disagreements." Everybody responded with things like "Cool, but they don't." And "What about raping women and murdering infants is pro human life?" Or they just memed him by saying things like "I support murderers of homosexuals because I value human life" He had no answers and ducked out of his own thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:51 PM
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It does sound too nuts to be true, but people's delusions run deep, especially in cases where its to convince themselves they aren't a bad person. I see it all the time with people who claim to be vegetarians because they don't like cruelty to animals but they eat fish or chicken. I'm like "You're not a vegetarian you literally eat the flesh of animals" And they say stuff like "Fish aren't the same they don't have feelings."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:06 PM
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Of course its TwoX lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:49 PM
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This can't be real surely? I've seen women on PPD try to argue that grinding with random dudes in clubs isn't sexual but not that fucking another guy isn't cheating if he wears a rubber.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:46 PM
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You'll notice I never mentioned looks. Social nous is a large part of women finding a man attractive. But this is largely irrelevant as it doesn't change the overall point. Women are not lying when they say they don't like cold approaching as a concept, but as with most everything else, it isn't the behaviour they don't like so much as most of the men doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:20 PM
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Again. Women do not register your cold approach as a cold approach if she is attracted to you. Woman "Do not cold approach women, it's inappropriate, we have shit to do just let us get on with our day harassment free." Okay how did you meet your boyfriend? "We just got talking at the gym". Just got talking eh? Who came over and said something first? "He did." So he cold approached you? "NO!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:00 PM
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You are looking at it from a male perspective. Bare in mind women find 80% of men unattractive. The men who are matching with your catfish experiment that you see as "decent." Women are matching with those same guys and going "ewww why do all these hideous ghouls think they're worth my time?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:45 PM
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Correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:42 PM
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Hamas or Western white women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:41 PM
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I'm enjoying all the Western white women tacitly or blatantly approving of hamas and saying moronic shit like "this is what decolonisation looks like" I saw a video of some dumb Australian woman who said she knew the Aboriginals were coming for them too and when they do she will accept her fate because she deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:37 PM
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Is Density the fat version of Destiny?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:28 PM
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Yeah you'll do just fine with white trend hopping gen Z girls. Wishing you luck bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:26 PM
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People who are actually disgusted by sluts don't want to be around them and avoid them. Hey look this is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:24 PM
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Its current year bro. Just identify as Korean. Mental illness is trendy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:21 PM
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Women will say they need therapy because their man wiped his hands with one of the display napkins instead of one of the plain ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:19 PM
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Is he Korean? If so then yes. All gen Z girls will likely be down bad for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:10 PM
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It's one of those things where your view changes depending on the point of view you're looking at it from. Guys who are extremely unsuccessful with women are going to call BS because they know damn well they get refused because they are ugly. They think that women would be down all the time if the guy is hot enough. Relatively successful men are able to see the truth in it. Anybody who has been in relationships with women knows that a lot of the time it doesn't come down to how sexy she finds yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:02 PM
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Well depends. If you are the 6'5 Abercrombie model and she won't have sex with you it's almost certainly because she hasn't shaved down there or she's on her period and she's scared it will gross you out. But then the refusal only goes so far as you having to convince her you aren't grossed out. Then she's good to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:55 PM
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Haha. Spot on. It was an unironic comment just like this that inspired my rant. Literally right down to the weaponised incompetence part.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:51 PM
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Regular people adopting the language of psychological and medical fields has been terrible for the human race. Everybody now has "trauma" or "PTSD". Usually from shit everybody on the planet has had to deal with at some point. It's nauseating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:42 PM
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Now you're getting there. Not any man though. Attractive man that does something she doesn't like = asshole. Unattractive man who does something she doesn't like = creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:40 PM
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Ehhh, I think you are reading too much into it. I don't think it's malicious its just hiw a strange dude gets his rocks off. We have been socially conditioned to believe that not doing anything "productive" is a bad thing so of course he views chilling out and playing videogames as bad habits. He wants a trad wife that stays home but he has to do everything for her, instead of just the being a bread winner part.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:30 PM
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That's not a feeder. That's just a dude who wants to be told what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:26 PM
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Thirsty dudes and simps will be the downfall of western civilisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:57 PM
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I'm over 6'2 and I don't get this at all. I think it starts to look weird when guys have really short limbs but you only start seeing weird physiques when guys are like 5'4 and below. The average height guys and even most guys at like 5'6 look fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:36 PM
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The admins are coming for you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:32 PM
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Chris chan is a woman you bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:29 PM
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Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:03 PM
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Wtf? Nobody said anything about being arrested, calm down. Women who find men creepy usually just gut it out and then tell their friends later about the weird guy who made her feel wary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:00 PM
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Gramsci was right No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:56 PM
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Women aren't saying that. Creep doesn't mean "men who are a danger to women" in womanspeak. It means awkward loser guys who have bad social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:55 PM
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Since it's apparently creep week, and it seems a lot of men still haven't gotten the memo. I'm seeing a lot of "wow you think 2 or 3 our of every 5 men are creeps but statistics say only between 5 and 10% of men rape or beat women." Here's a PSA for those people. When women talk about creeps, they are NOT talking about men who are actually a danger to women, in fact those men are specifically not creepy. They are usually experts in manipulation and making women feel comfortable around them. When…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:53 PM
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I think you are being trolled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:38 PM
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Yes. I've seen both men and women get away with all sorts because they're attractive. My friend served as the only guy on jury duty and all the other jurors were women. A dude had beaten the shit out of an old man with an iron bar. The defendant had been trying to steal the old guy's car and when the car's owner tried to stop him from stealing it, the defendant put him in a coma. The women all declared him innocent because they all thought he was really hot. My friend was outvoted even though he…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:05 PM
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What if he is? It's irrelevant though. That isn't why he's a player. He's a player because he's hot. There are chill guys who are fun to be around who are ugly too. These guys generally aren't forming soft harems with a rotation of women all sleeping with him. There are also guys who are not chill and fun to be around, but they sure are hot, and they are players too. Personality is at most a minor factor in being a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:56 PM
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It isn't rocket science. Women like hot men. They don't like ugly men. Both ugly men and hot men can be rapists. If it was all about safety then the safe ugly men would also get laid and shared around. Safe ugly men don't fuck. Both the safe and the dangerous hot men fuck. It's about being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:47 PM
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It isn't their ideal arrangement. People are saying they prefer being in a soft harem of a successful, highly attractive man than being in a committed loyal relationship with a broke ugly loser. Of course, they would PREFER to have Chad all to themselves, but they will take sharing him over many other scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:39 PM
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Haha. My girlfriend of 5 years left me to be the side hoe of a married Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:35 PM
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Oh my bad. I thought you were just talking about kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:55 PM
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This is not a new thing whatsoever. Our ancestral gene pool is comprised of almost double the female dna than it is male dna. Whatever you want to call it, af/bb, 80/20 etc. Women have been either unknowingly or willingly sharing the top percentage of men since our species was in it's infancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:08 PM
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Only women and weird leftist soy infused men think cats are better than dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:03 PM
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You realise N counts can also indicate that a person's sexual values are incompatible with yours yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:59 PM
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It hasn't. A lot of people here pretend they are redpill but are actually black pilled. Black pill guys probably outnumber red pill guys at this point on here despite the sub originally meant to be red pill debating blue pill. Now there are few actual red pillers and no real blue pillers left. Now PPD is men of various pills vs women and their simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:15 AM
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The "lie" and "be bisexual" are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:10 PM
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There aren't any. Feminism works on the Marxian concept of oppressed vs oppressor. Without men being the evil villains and oppressors there is nothing to liberate women from.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:18 PM
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Yeah she's the kind of "fact checker" to deboonk that Hillary destroyed her laptop with a hammer because in actual fact she had an assistant do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:10 PM
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I got dumped and told by my long term partner that she was cheating on me with a married man on my birthday. I got you beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:07 PM
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Its exactly what you said here. People are speaking from the limited view they get from their own bubbles. Lonely, socially awkward guys who have almost entirely male hobbies and friends groups. These guys who are virgins and their entire friend groups are virgins are going to assume that this is a common occurance for young men. Popular guys and women, with mixed sex friend groups, are getting into relationships and seeing their peers have no issue doing the same. They are telling the group of …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:56 PM
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When I was at secindary school/ 6th form college scene kids were all the rage. Bright colours, weird dyed hair and they all listened to My Chemical Romance, Fall Out Boy and Panic at the Disco.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:28 PM
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She will never understand the sheer hubris of saying Someone who makes my needs a priority while I'm taking care of the rest of life's chaos. Sure. It's totally reasonable to want a guy who has his own shit going on, his own work, household duties separate from your own, social life to deal with, and also not only does, but actively wants to put you and your wants and needs above his own. To take care of all your shit on top of his own. And you can bet, if he ever needs to vent or complain about…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:47 PM
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That's because everything that either advocates for men or is in any way frustrated by women's behaviour gets lumped into "the manisphere". It doesn't matter that many of the groups within the manosphere are at odds with one another and have world views antithetical to one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:18 PM
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Sure I guess. It's not really a gift when you take my card to buy me a shirt with when we are out shopping. Its just encouraging me to buy myself something. Then later she'd be like "wear that shirt I got you".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:24 PM
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I must be a -1 then, because whenever my ex bought me a gift she did so using my own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:13 PM
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Halo effect. This goes both ways, men do this with women too. Men do this with men, and women do this with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:27 PM
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Reminds me of that jubilee video where women rate guys 1 to 5 on attractiveness. First they lined them purely on looks. They asked the guys when the last time they cried was, the guy they ranked 2nd most attractive said recently because his lifelong best friend died recently and he wasnt over it. Then it made him tear up again thinking about it. All of the women were very performative sympathetic. All went over and hugged him and said "awwww" like he was a puppy. Then in the next round they put …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:07 PM
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We're on reddit so I'm sure capitalism is somehow at fault for this also.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:02 PM
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Doesn't matter. Women like arrogance. They mistake it for confidence and abundance mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:53 PM
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It is a mystery how I've managed to attract so many women in my life considering I strongly dislike almost everything about myself Huh I also adore myself and think I'm better than everyone. There's your answer bud
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:44 PM
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Had this happen to me at school. I assumed it was a prank. Guess I'll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:35 PM
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"The Patriarchy" is a conspiracy theory and never existed. Certainly doesn't exist today. It's essentially sin in a prominent non theist religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:37 PM
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"It's so freely available" Woman spotted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:50 PM
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Sex positivity is exactly like body positivity. In that it's just for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:48 PM
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I got a mod message saying don't block people on PPD the other day. Wtf? Nah Jannie you are not going to tell me that I have to put up with insufferable bad faith people. You don't get to tell me how I curate my own feed. Get back to sweeping the floor. Mods don't even follow their own rules here anyway. I was blocked by a jannie on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:25 AM
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It means female PPD user's brain are rotted by TikTok. Male users brains aren't because we don't know wtf this even means.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:42 AM
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I do enjoy how it's always the people who reeee at people referring to biological women as females that call men males. I asssume they probably think it's going to trigger men the way people saying females triggers them. But men literally do not care. Normal people do not read misogyny or misandry into basic biological descriptors.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:35 AM
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Agreed. The primary purpose of marriage is and always has been the success of a couple's offspring. It was never about ensuring men's nor women's happiness. Though that is a noble goal and a very welcome bonus if it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:17 PM
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It's funny because it isn't even needed. All the mainstream gaming subs are incredibly left leaning and already ban dissenting political opinions. This "safe space" is protecting them from nothing the mainstream gaming subs don't already protect them from.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:26 PM
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Who mentioned sex? Why is sex what women's brains go to every single time? No sympathy for guys who complain about not being able to partake in casual sex. But guys who would just like to have a normal, mutually caring relationship and struggle. Yeah I have all the sympathy in the world for them. "Most guys can and do" does not mean I can't give anshit about the few that can't and don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:14 PM
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There are tons of subreddits I'm shocked exist. And their explanations are usually hilarious. r/SocialistGaming "A safe space for any and all anti-capitalists who want to discuss games in an environment free of toxic, right wing attitudes. We discuss games from a far-left perspective while waiting for the inevitable fall of capitalism."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:15 PM
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Men- I also would like to partake in normal human behavior and have a partner who I care for and she for me. PPD women- You aren't entitled to women's bodies you fucking incel creep!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:11 PM
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Beep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:09 PM
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OK I gave you a chance to come at me in good faith. Goodbye child. On to the list you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:37 PM
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Nobody here is wondering why women don't date men they are unattracted to. People are picking apart some of their BS rationalisations for doing so. Either try again in good faith next time or learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:33 PM
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Absolutely there are, which is why the above mindset is just a cover for bad decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:29 PM
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Haha. Whatever helps you sleep at night my brother in Christ. I do just fine with women. I was genuinely wishing you luck, and your response was to attempt to insult me. Says all I need to know about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:28 PM
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Then I repeat. Good luck to you. You're gonna need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:37 PM
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Who said anything about ignoring sexual attraction? If there are no women you're attracted to that aren't hoes then that's on you. Good luck turning one into a loyal housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:30 PM
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All I can say is good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:17 PM
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Maybe. It does seem like dignity us at an all time low and self serving is at an all time high. I think cheating just isn't in some people though. You are either naturally inclined to have the capacity to cheat or you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:16 PM
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If they absolutely had to pick, they would rather be cheated on by a hot rich guy than be with a loyal broke uggo too, so that doesn't mean much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:14 PM
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Cantaloupe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:12 PM
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If there were no repercussions or we lived in a society that didn't consider it wrong then the term cheating would he meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:10 PM
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"All men would cheat if they could. That's why I choose the men who can and do cheat on me because at least they're rich and hot." Word that rhymes with hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:06 PM
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Of course they can. It benefits them to pretend they don't. My best friend was literally just left for the "he's just a friend" that was making advances in her for the whole relationship but she couldn't block his number or stop hanging out with him because "weve been friends since school, he's like a brother." It usually isn't a dick pick, but so many girls will have all their male friends pull the "I'm here if you want to talk" routine immediately after a break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:37 PM
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There might be some truth to that, it's definitely true for the men. There's a slim bottleneck where only a few men get all the attention from women on OLD, so of course they aren't going to be looking for anything long term. They can just pick a new woman to hook up with whenever they are in the mood with a few swipes and/or DMs. The guys that must resort to using OLD to try to find a relationship are generally not the kind of guys women want to be with. Most have failed at finding a partner th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:26 PM
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The guys on dating apps that women are actually interested in aren't looking for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:20 PM
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Let me know when all of western media starts subverting entertainment to protect men's egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:34 PM
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Women don't care about being judged by their looks as much as men do? Is this why all of Hollywood, gaming, comics, commercials etc is all about body positivity for women 24/7 and intentionally uglifies all its female characters to "subvert toxic beauty standards" while keeping all the male characters as muscular, super attractive hunks that have to become extremely unhealthy just to shoot top less scenes. Women handle being judged on appearance well? Are you sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:27 PM
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Yup. Radfems hate all men, no matter what colour, shape or political affiliation they come in. Many are political lesbians and have taken measures to keep male interaction to an absolute minimum in their lives. Libfems are the ones who rage against gender norms but uphold them because it's what they are sexually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:20 PM
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Even if it does reach 50/50, it won't be something for men to look forward to. Women do not share their wealth with the men in their lives. They keep it for themselves, and they share it with their kids if they have any. Women being equal or primary breadwinners is not good news for men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:16 PM
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Yeah I don't think most men are trash either, hence the quotation marks. And yes a lot of women's dating woes are self imposed, but you also can't negotiate attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:58 PM
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Attractive women say dating is hard for them because they have to filter out the legions of "trash" that aren't worth their time. "High value" men are rare, the supply doesn't meet the demand. So dating is hard for attractive women sure, just in entirely different ways than it is hard for the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:06 PM
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Her money, her choice. As long as I am allowed to spend whatever I want on things that I enjoy that add no benefit to my or her life too. Generally that's never been the case in any of my relationships in the past though. My money has always been "our money" so I can't spend money on stupid shit but her money is her money so she can do whatever she likes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:36 PM
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Men accrue wealth in order to provide for a woman and their future children. Women accrue wealth to be independent of men. Any man who's ever been in a relationship knows this. Your money is "our money". Her money is her money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:21 AM
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Yup. Treat her like a celebrity and she'll treat you like a fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:07 AM
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Can't argue with any of that. Agreed on all points.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:20 PM
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That's true. Which is why I neither understand nor advocate for men here to be asking for women's permission to approach or thoughts on the ethicality of approaching women. Regardless of the answers or "advice" given to them, the options remain the same. Either shoot their shot and risk rejection or even wrath, or remain alone. Sitting around and waiting for love to fall into your lap only works in the movies. Asking permission from people who at best, don't have your best interest at heart, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:09 PM
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The "friends first" thing works the exact same way cold approaching does. If she thinks you are attractive she will think the best of you and project positive intentions onto you, she will assume the friendship to be true and assume stronger feelings developed naturally for you both. If she doesn't find you attractive she will project nefarious intentions onto you and believe you only pretended to be her friend to manipulate her and get into her pants. Both cold approaching and playing the long …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:56 PM
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Men lie sure, but they usually lie up, what's surprising here is that a guy is trying to mental gymnastic a way to lowr his N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:54 AM
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He didn't film himself. She filmed him playing with their kid and said it gave her a new ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:46 AM
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What are you even talking about? A cold approach is any approach a man makes when he doesn't previously know the woman. That's it. It doesn't have to be a place where it isn't normal for a man to approach. Going up to a woman at a bar or a nightclub is still a cold approach. And no, that isn't the inkwell's definition. I got that from reading what women here write about cold approaches. They don't like them, full stop. Except that isn't how it works in reality. The cold approach isn't what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:45 AM
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What? No. Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:22 AM
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Wtf does contribute equally to "the mental load" mean? It sounds like she doesn't even register men as human beings. Like men's brains are just in a state if non function by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:17 AM
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That's the point. Women aren't lying when they say they don't like the idea of being cold approached. The thing is, if she finds you attractive she won't even register your cold approach as a cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:13 AM
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That's because there is no "right place" to approach. There isn't even a "right way" to approach. There is only the matter of whether you are the right guy or not. If she finds you attractive, any place, any time is acceptable to approach her. If she doesn't, there will never be a correct place or way to approach her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:12 AM
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Women don't even register "cold approaches" as a cold approach if they are attracted to you. Then it becomes "we just got talking and hit it off".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:09 AM
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I don't really understand why guys here ask women their opinion on approaching. It's like they are asking for permission to approach girls irl. You don't need the permission of random women on the Internet who do not and never will care about you or your success or happiness. If you follow the rules PPD women set out for men then you will certainly die alone, unhappy and regretful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:07 AM
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I never said you tried to villainise him. I said you painted her as some sort of victim. Your implication was that she essentially lived her life for him, on his terms and put aside her own happiness for his. We aren't all oblivious. The phrase "he wanted her barefoot and pregnant" carries implications that you're aware of even if you aren't willing to assert them. You didn't accidentally use that loaded term. Essentially the picture that you were painting was that it was all give on her part an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:49 AM
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Because it paints the woman in the situation at least partially at fault. Come on, you've been on PPD long enough to know how this goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:36 AM
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It's amazing how women's "speculation" always manages to paint a woman in any given situation as some completely innocent victim. "Barefoot and pregnant" What next? I suppose he also had her slaving away in the kitchen all day while he went out and lived his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:33 AM
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Sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:02 AM
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Those "new ick unlocked" videos are toxic as fuck. Literally anything a man does these days is a turn off or gross. I saw one today saying "healthy masculinity" was an ick and the video they used to demonstrate it was her husband playing with their daughter. These women are trash. Makes me wonder if the husbands know what their wices are putting on TikTok or IG or whatever shitty app they're using. I've seen everything in these ick videos from getting cancer to swimming to avoid drowning. These …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:00 AM
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In my experience PPD women all claim they outearn their husband/partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:56 AM
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I think Atlas changed her mind once in her own CMV, begrudgingly and only partially but still. It has happened. Once. Sorta.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:31 PM
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2 big examples from PPD. Its more like of the made up scenario aligns with people's political or social beliefs they will think it's true and if it doesn't they will think it's a lie. First one was a radfem on TwoX talking about how every man in her life had been awful to her. She had been raped in her school bathroom by a guy and went to the staff room to inform the teachers, only to overhear a bunch of her male teachers talking about how they wanted to fuck her. How this is just one of many si…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:22 PM
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People will accept obvious creating excercises as truth if they espouse the world view they believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:48 AM
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They incite visceral reactions because they're potentially damaging to your reputation whether or not they're true This is why "creep" is a go-to insult aimed at men by women. It not only implies all the usual stuff women insult men for 'turns women off', makes them 'feel uneasy' etc, but it also tarnishes his reputation with everybody else in the vicinity that happens to hear the insult. Ostracisation is a key part of insults. Children engage in this as early as preschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:13 AM
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Who comes to a debate forum, can't handle debating You'd be surprised how many people come here to intentionally avoid debate. They aren't all women either. Just in the last week or so, I've had 2 instances that stood out. First, someone responded to one of my posts essentially saying "Why are you talking about fender relations why do you even care? Just do stuff or don't." When I responded that its literally the point of the sub, and why did they care enough to ask me why I care, they ducked ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:39 AM
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If they've "got their shit together" so to speak but are still invisible to women then they're almost certainly lacking status. None of that other stuff matters if you aren't even registering on women's radars. Status is what makes men stand out, otherwise you're just another faceless NPC getting lost in the crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:26 AM
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How are you defining successful here? Monetarily? Good job? Own place?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:51 AM
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It isn't a wage gap it's an earnings gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:42 AM
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It's a biased definition because "benevolent sexism" is a feminist concept to begin with. Normal people would call it chivalry or people doing nice things for women. Feminists framed it as benevolent sexism and say its because people view women as less capable and weak and it is therefore another form of sexism AGIANST women. When in reality its sexism in favour of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:14 PM
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To make a sub like that work you would need to have non feminists as mods. Which they would be completely unwilling to have. The way it is now they only accept questions that presuppose that their world view is correct. So "What are the worst things about patriarchy?" Would be allowed because the question already puts forward that patriarchy both exists and is bad as facts. Whereas "What is the evidence that we live in a patriarchy?" Would be immediately shut down and the creator banned because …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:23 PM
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Moved here cause the janniecels both suck and blow at the same time. It depends on what wins the argument. Women here will constantly say that they dress up and put makeup on for the validation of other women or for themselves. The argument conveniently switches up when they need to argue about "harmful" beauty standards then all of a sudden its because they are imposed upon them by men. They will claim they only shave their legs and pits because men expect it and having to do so is oppressive. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:52 PM
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Yes I agree. This is why you get far more men at the fringes of society. Criminals, culture leaders, people that live completely off the grid etc. Women following the herd isn't all positive though, women are far more likely to follow whatever the prevailing social narrative of the time is, and that social narrative isn't always a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:41 PM
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Agreed! Fantastic band.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:29 PM
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Mate you lived in the Chaz. Jog on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:27 PM
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This is true of both men and women. Attractive people are treated better than unattractive people across the board. This is part of my point though. Men are far less likely to "go with the herd" and follow social norms. This is why less men keep up with traditional beauty standards, which leads to things like more sexless males, more incels etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:25 PM
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Hey you explained my own joke to me. Now you're just flexing that Seattle intellect. No fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:23 PM
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we're just fundamentally better people Remember folks, these are the losers that call you a fascist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:22 PM
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Seattle is where people tried to make the CHAZ yeah? Immediately turned into a lawless shithole where multiple people were being shot and killed every day. They couldn't even do some simple gardening. So smart, much elite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:18 PM
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I mean, that's before my time too but music was undeniably better back then. Now we have people mumbling over a shit drum beat with lyrics like "my coochie pink but my bootyhole brown"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:15 PM
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Lol. If there's one thing I'm sure of it isn't Republican women that are part of the body positivity movement. I agree there are more fat people in red states, the statistics back that up, but that correlates moreso with poverty than anything else. Calling poor people losers though. How delightfully elitist of you. Guess they don't call you coastal elites for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:12 PM
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Of course nobody is becoming fat because of it. People are STAYING fat because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:09 PM
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You are a man. Thats why social shaming works on you. You didn't have a body positivity movement at your back trying to browbeat women into finding you and people like you attractive. Fat men will have other men telling them to stop being a lazy POS, put the work in and to get into shape. Fat women have other fat women telling them they are beautiful queens, and that losing weight is fatphobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:06 PM
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Its normal to be nervous on a date. It's essentially an interview. Doesnt matter how much experience you acquire. If the outcome of a thing is important to you then you will get nervous. I get it man it sucks, I don't have a disorder but I do have some social anxiety and a crippling shyness that is very hard to get over. What's positive is you have identified what is your stumbling block, only then can you start work on how to get past it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:58 PM
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It depends on what wins the argument. Women here will constantly say that they dress up and put makeup on for the validation of other women or for themselves. The argument conveniently switches up when they need to argue about "harmful" beauty standards then all of a sudden its because they are imposed upon them by men. They will claim they only shave their legs and outs because men expect it and having to do so is oppressive. Plus women are more prone to social contagion than men are. They are …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:30 PM
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A lot of shit that men do around the house isn't even considered housework even though it is. Taking out the trash, mowing the grass in the garden/s. Any DIY that needs doing around the house. These are almost universally done by the man in the house. Women tend to do more of the menial tasks, while men do more physically demanding housework. Women don't do more housework. They just tend to do different housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:26 PM
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I'm in the UK too, my mum is 5'4 and most girls I see are a fair bit taller than she is. My ex is 5'2 so she was significantly shorter than most women I see. I don't think 5'6 is what I would call a tall girl, seems average to me. My sister just under 5'8 and she gets called tall quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:18 PM
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5'6 is around average height for a woman where I'm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:55 PM
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I haven't played it yet, but I'm looking forward to it. Its on the ever growing backlog for now. In still catching up on games that came out in 2019 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:33 PM
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Diablo 4?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:26 PM
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No it isn't a new trend. Young women in every generation like feminine "progressive men" and switch and start liking more traditionally masculine men as they get older. KPop guys are just this generation's version of the feminine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:23 PM
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I have a friend who lost his virginity at 27. Your friend's issue is telling girls he's just met hes sexually inexperienced. My buddy used to make the same mistake. He finally learned from it and got laid and went on to have a lengthy relationship with the girl that he didn't tell he was a virgin to. Getting your foot in the door is the hard part, if you're friend is talking to girls on nights out he's passing that test. From there the only thing you can do is say things to put them off, which s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:15 PM
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Dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:32 AM
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Wrong. Women undervalue the power their youth has. Most women think they will be able to command the same value, attract the same caliber of man at 35 after they have built up their career and fulfilled their desires in their "party phase" that they can at 22 when they are more beautiful than they will ever be again. They undervalue their youth and overvalue everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:17 AM
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Women- "Women are not a hivemind!" Other woman- "I know. I'm a woman and I disagree with everything most of you say daily" Women- "Nice try LARPer"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:43 PM
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Thus, while a degree may not be proof of intelligence the absence of one usually confirms lack of intelligence. This is literally one of the most retarded takes I've seen on here. Proof indeed having a degree isn’t indicative of intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:40 PM
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People who shouldn't be respected in any capacity online but somehow are, are a dime a dozen. Look at Hassan Piker, dude is an actual brainlet who could be out-debated by an average intelligence 11 year old. Yet he makes millions of dollars from people even dumber people than him who wait on his every word with baited breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:07 PM
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Tell you what, I'll give my pearls a big old hug and you keep telling on yourself. Then everybody's happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:17 PM
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It's funny. The last time I was called a pearl clutcher on PPD was when I expressed concern that a self admitted child rapist was a moderator here telling us all that we were less moral people than him. Seems calling people pearl clutcher is for those that like telling on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:07 PM
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The Internet? Terrifying? Not at all. I think there are a lot of slimeballs who constantly let their true colours slip, but I'm not intimidated. It's words on a screen bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:00 PM
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Pearl clutching is someone who makes a public show of outrage about something most normal people don't consider a big deal. Of course, most normal people would consider a person castrating someone and destroying their genitals to be a big deal. So it says more about him than it does about the guy he's calling a pearl clutcher.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:53 PM
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She's definitely lived a full and interesting life. Wonder how it must feel knowing that quite a few of the most revered love songs of all time were written about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:24 PM
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Bill Weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:44 PM
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This is the most passive aggressive brag I've ever seen. If you're going to say you have a big dick just come out and say it. Everybody has a big dick on the Internet so join the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:43 PM
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So did Clapton. Kind of the risk you take when you're dating drunken coked up rockstars with hoards of women lining up to sleep with them at every show.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:41 PM
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Looks like a Chad Bill Gates.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:34 PM
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Yeah I just can't think of anyone else who has had two of the most famous musicians to ever live write so many songs about them. Harrison wrote Something, I Needed You, If I Needed Someone and a bunch of others about her. Clapton wrote Layla, Bell Bottom Blues, and Wonderful Tonight about her. For Clapton those 3 songs alone would probably all make his top 5 ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:31 PM
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The story of Patti Boyd is one of the strangest and most fascinating out there. Some of the best love songs of all time were written about and for her. She was George Harrison from the Beatles' wife and he wrote "Something" about her. A song Frank Sinatra called the greatest love song ever written. Eric Clapton, famed guitarist and George Harrison's best friend also fell in love with her when he used to hang at their house and write music together. He wrote "Layla" about her which is about falli…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:21 PM
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All breeds of feminism are the same at their core. Radfems- men are the problem Libfems- Cis, white men are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:56 PM
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Yeah I know. Men cheat more at every age range except for like 18-29 iirc. That's why it's odd to see every infidelity subreddit being over represented by women. It's worth noting that a lot of people in infidelity spaces are those who accessories to cheating, not necessarily the adulterer themself. It stands to reason that if more men are cheating then more women are going to be accessories to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:52 AM
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I just realised now that reads like a backhanded compliment but it wasn't supposed to be lol. I respect the shitposting too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:49 AM
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Yeah but sometimes when you aren't trolling you have some decent points so its always worth throwing something out there with you to see what you get back. Usually it will be sex jokes but there's the occasional gem in there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:38 AM
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It's more that men cheat knowing it's wrong. They don't care and do it anyway. Women are more neurotic so when they cheat or become an accessory to cheating, they seek out like-minded people to assure them that they're doing nothing wrong. That's like 90% of the posts on these adultery and infidelity subs. It's just women telling each other that they aren't the bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:34 AM
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Told you all. i get downvoted for it every time but go on any infidelity subreddit and you'll see the ratio is like 80-20 in favour of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:28 AM
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Channel was called Van life with Divine/Divinity or something like that. I blocked the channel after watching because all these van life videos are psyops.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:24 AM
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Lmao. YouTube algorithm decided I need to start considering van life. Like any psyop, they think to convince people to own nothing and be happy by promoting the lifestyle with hot women who spend half the video wearing nothing but a bikini while driving around or walking her dogs.. The best part was after going on a big spiel about how hard but rewarding the lifestyle is, she introduced her "road buddy" Chuck. Chuck basically follows her around in his own van. Does all the man stuff for her like…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:21 AM
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unlike women Delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:07 AM
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To be fair, the only people who think women liking tall men is shallow are short men. Just like the only people who think men liking thinner women is shallow are fat chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:15 AM
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You used that word. The R word. Responsibilities. Putting either that or accountability into a Q4W ensures that you aren't going to get any real answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:14 AM
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It still confuses me when people with "misandrist" in their flair downvote you when you refer to them as a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:58 PM
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You know its bad when blue haired literal cuck Destiny is mogging you in front of your own audience. Edit- As an aside, I genuinely thought Rollo Tomassi was a band. Edit edit- They are a band! I was sure I wasn't just making that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:49 PM
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I think the misandrists are giving themselves a little too much credit for maintaining basic human hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:22 PM
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Yeah my ex played more video games than I do. The one who gave me the ultimatum was my first real girlfriend, she was still pretty immature and we were still in our late teens at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:46 PM
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Yup. I'd never ask her to drop her hobbies no matter how little interest I had in them, so I'd expect the same in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:41 PM
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Since I've been presented with this ultimatum in the past and chose the vidya games. No. I wouldn't. Any woman I'd want to be with long term wouldn't want me to have to make that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:34 PM
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I'm not "pressed". I saw women talking about how they put in equal or greater effort than men on dates and decided I'd like to counter it since it's indisputably not true. Why do you care enough to respond to an opinion with 'why do you care?"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:31 PM
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If they don't want us they can't complain. Let me introduce you to the discourse around A.I girlfriends, artificial wombs, and of course passport bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:23 PM
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Looks more like Ben Shapiro than his own sister does. I don't see how you can be attracted to her without being attracted to him. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:22 PM
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Yeah why come to a debate sub about gender relations to talk about gender relations. Just do stuff. Or don't. Great input.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:17 PM
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I'll have to go back through my post history to find them but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:15 PM
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Who knows. I always get pushback from women here when I say I don't even like having sex if a family pet is in the room. They always say I'm a prude and its completely normal to masturbate or even fuck with the cat or dog laying right next to you on the same bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:08 PM
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Some women really think putting on makeup and doing their hair is putting in equal effort to a man's role regarding a date. Ignoring the fact that for any other argument on PPD besides this one it's always "women put on makeup for themselves, it isn't for the male gaze." so women would be putting the same amount of effort into their appearance anyway, date or no date. Men still have to put effort into their appearance before a date. They are also expected to approach, plan, invite the woman, arr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:44 PM
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Yup. My go-to first date is to invite a girl for coffee or tea and then go for a walk in a public park afterwards. Usually in the middle of the day between lunch and dinner time. Between those two activities alone you can pick up a lot of compatability cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:52 PM
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Nothing is wrong with them. They're cheap so they filter out women just looking for a free meal or who are just looking out for wealth indicators. If anybody is telling you there's something wrong with them it tells you more about them than you. "It's cheap"- Yeah so? If we're having a first date we are basically strangers. I have no obligation to wine and dine you. "It's low effort"- It's more effort than whatever woman I've invited out put in. She spent time and money to look good. Big deal so…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:41 PM
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Anything the jannies deem at any given time. Enjoy the lack of clarity. Its a feature not a bug.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:18 PM
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The beneficiaries are supposed to he children. Men and women benefit too, but that is a byproduct and not the primary goal of marriage as an institution. There are no similarities to prostitution unless you boil the outcomes down to such a simplistic point that you could argue everything women do makes them prostitutes. Which obviously isn't the case. It was socially discouraged WITH consequences. That's how you discourage people from doing anything. You discourage people from breaking laws with…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:13 PM
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after a lifetime of situations hips Lmao. What a meme. After spending her entire 20s riding the cock carousel, she hit her 30s and decided to give a guy she admits she wasnt attracted to a chance, made him wait months for sex. He gave up and moved on. Proof is right there in the pudding. Won't stop PPD women claiming women make you wait when they're REAAAAAALLLY into you and that they only make you wait because they don't want to ruin things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:08 PM
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If its debatable then debate it. I can assure you there's infinitely more evidence that suggest the nuclear family is for the good of children than anything you can find comparing it to slavery or subjugation of women or prostitution. A sin is a manmade concept. A man has all sorts of ways to get sex outside of marriage. It was socially discouraged for the good of society, not because men are unable to get it. And evidently it WAS for the good if society when men get sex outside of marriage all …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:02 PM
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No. It isn't. Marriage isn't an exchange where a man trades labour and resources for sex. Men can get sex without marriage. Traditional marriage, cohabitation and the nuclear family is and always has been for the benefit of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:43 PM
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Game being the be all and end all in dating. That everything you devote time to in life should be in pursuit of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:37 PM
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Having sex with your partner in order to have children or just for mutual pleasure is not sex work though. Unless the husband is directly giving his wife money return for sleeping with him it's explicitly not sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:37 PM
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I sell my body to my employer every day for 8 to 12 hours. By this one simple measure everybody woth a job is a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:31 PM
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It absolutely is. Status > Looks > Wealth >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Game (Sorry RPers but game doesn't mean shit without the other stuff)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:57 PM
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Yes. The good thing for most men is that status is relative. You are never going to be able to compete with world famous celebrities or athletes, but you don't need to. As long as you have decent status when compared with your peers you should do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:30 PM
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Yes, because they have wealth (relative to their age group) but without any status. This is why guys like that can't get laid to save their life but broke local musicians still have groupies after every show. Wealth alone allows you to buy sexual intimacy with a woman, which very few men are ever going to be content with. Status will have women wanting to be sexually intimate with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:27 PM
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Too many men here confuse status with wealth. They can and often do align but they are not the same thing. Status leads to genuine sexual attraction. Wealth does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:12 PM
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Sort of. Status leads to genuine attraction. Money doesn't. That's the difference. A lot of guys conflate status with money, or assume you can't get money without the status. You can be a broke as fuck musician but if you play your sappy love songs to a crowd full of women and have them all eating from the palm of your hand then you can guarantee the majority of those women will want to fuck you by the end of the set. That is status.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:07 PM
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Ignoring the minefield of what is considered "high quality" here. I'd say everybody cares but lower quality people have had to learn to be able to compromise on their ideals a lot more. If you are a short, fat, balding man with an average income but you are holding out for Margo Robbie then everybody is going to let you know how delusional and unreasonable you are. Its natural that your standards are going to drop even if Margo Robbie remains your ideal. However if you are a tall, in shape, high…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:01 PM
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Couple of things. Men are judged for having sex. Not sure where this lie that men get universally praised for banging a bunch of women came from but I've never seen it happen in real life. Also, it isn't women's sexuality that is considered obscene. Its literally the opposite. Women are seen as pure and become less pure every time a dirty disgusting male touches her. The penis corrupts. This is not even just propagated by men. Women, despite complaining about the results of this worldview, show …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:40 PM
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Dude is a well known woman beater that still has legions of women who would give anything just to be with him for one night. I'd say he's pretty successful in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:56 PM
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Most men aren't having casual sex to begin with. Between men that can't get sex outside of commitment and guys that aren't into casual sex there's a significant bunch of men for whom an average 2 partners a year is astronomical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:24 PM
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It's because their brain develops earlier than men's do. People confuse this with the idea that women become "adult" earlier, and therefore more mature. Maturity has nothing to do with brain development however. There are mature children and there are childish adults with brains that are far more developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:14 PM
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Neither. N count just being plain too high is disgusting but it isn't the only factor. How she got her N count (even if it's relatively low) is still pretty important. A girl that boned 3 guys at once definitely has different values and attitudes towards sex than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:08 PM
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Cheating always sucks. Its always a bad thing and the person cheating is always a piece of shit, regardless of the gender. I agree with RPers that the reasons men and women cheat TEND to be different, but that doesn't excuse it one bit. Neither sex's reasons are better than the other's.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:06 PM
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You absolutely do. When you're getting invited to Brian Singer's naked pool parties for boys aged 15 and under. You know its going to be a fucked up life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:40 AM
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What about when all the steroid use turns her clit into a small dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:38 AM
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He won't care. Actors and people in Hollyweird are an odd bunch. Cuckoldry would be one of the least weird things to learn a Hollywood actor is into.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:35 AM
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Don't we all buddy. Don't we all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:54 PM
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Someone's trying to make up for their daily karma loss I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:31 PM
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It's odd. The various infidelity subreddits all seem to be majority women as well. Maybe because men cheat knowing that it's wrong while women are more likely to look for kindred spirits to tell them that what they are doing is okay or justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:35 PM
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Polite way of saying ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:20 AM
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Its just a woman solidarity thing. It isn't limited to just their friends. You see it all the time on YT shorts. Women are asked to rate themselves out of 10. They all say 10. Then they are asked to rate a bunch of other women. They say 10 for every single one. Then they are asked to rate a guy and they will say 4. They don't actually mean any of it, they're just being nice to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:15 AM
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To be clear. Cope isn't against PPD rules. Accusing people of cope is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:30 AM
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If everybody gets into shape and becomes happy with how they look, they lose their audience. Its no different than a political party that claims to be fighting poverty whilst keeping people in poverty. So those people keep voting for them cycle after cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:26 AM
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Not a woman or a short guy, but the ones I've heard most are "I can't feel feminine if I'm bigger than the man" and "I don't feel protected like I do when I'm with a big guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:23 AM
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Thanks. It destroyed me at the time but now I see it as a lesson learned. Won't do long distance again. I still cherish the 5 years we were together and have a lot of amazing memories from it. We visited New Zealand (the country of her birth) together which is still the best thing I've ever done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:42 PM
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It wasn't the only factor. But my ex and I went long distance after she got a new job and had to move to a new city for it. She made new friends in the new city, started going out drinking and partying more and more with them instead of staying in and face timing me or hanging out some other way like we had done at the start. Her new friends had no emotional connection to me whatsoever, they didn't know me so of course they didn't care one bit for me. They encouraged her to start dating and flir…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:28 PM
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Kind of difficult to describe. They're all slightly different. Depends on how big her mouth is, how big her teeth are in comparison. Lots of stuff. I think overall it's the suction sensation I'm not too fond of. And teeth. Some girls are really bad at keeping their teeth out of it, some guys like girls using their teeth, but I'm definitely not one of them. I'd definitely recommend having one if you get the opportunity. Just that for me the actual pleasure comes from a woman wanting to do that wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:16 PM
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Not really? They just don't feel that good in comparison to actual sex. Even masturbation feels better. The high comes from a woman wanting to put your dick in her mouth. The actual sensation is always pretty meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:04 PM
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That's the case for everything, not just tattoos. Attractive people make traits more attractive. Unattractive people make those same traits less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:01 PM
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This may be controversial but they are honestly overrated. Inb4 "You've just never had a really good one bro you just be getting women who suck at giving head".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:59 PM
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It sure does. Killed my relationship. Well, it was one of a few factors but definitely a huge part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:23 PM
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Lol. Exactly like the MGTOW guys who are like "I'm done with women and relationships. Did you hear me? I SAID I'M DONE. Anyone want to convince me I'm making a mistake and to give women another shot? Anyone? Just one will do. Please?" And women are just like "lol bye".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:19 PM
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These threads always presuppose that bottom rung men are on par with bottom rung women. They aren't. Super attractive women experience dating and interest from the opposite sex in a way no man can comprehend. Average women experience dating the same as top tier men do. The ugliest and most maladjusted women have dating lives comparable to the average man. No women experience dating the same way bottom of the barrel men do. There are no women in their league. Top tier women and bottom tier men ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:08 PM
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Try years. PPD is an endless cycle of the same topics being repeated over and over for all time. People were saying that stuff when I first started lurking here years ago before I even started posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:00 PM
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Yes. And why is that? Who benefits from replacing the family unit with incentives to stay single from the state? I'm sure it couldn't have anything to do with the fact that the largest demographic who vote for the democrats/your own country's left wing political party are single and/or divorced women. Who vote for them at almost double the percentage that married women do. Every other quadrant of voters, including married women, tend to majority vote republican. The party that is pro marriage an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:28 PM
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No issues with paying for the first date myself. Then again, first date always has to be cheap for that very reason. Go for a coffee date or a walk in the park or something. It weeds out gold diggers, women looking for a free meal and a host of other shit that people complain about here all the time. Outside of wanting to flex your wealth, I've never seen a reason to take a girl to a big fancy restaurant on a first date anyway. Especially since I want to actively select against women who are wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:42 PM
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Yeah, because people have been sold a lie that they deserve to be (and should be) happy at all times. That just isn't ever going to happen. The point of marriage has always been to provide the best quality of upbringing for children, but these days people only think about what's best for themselves in the short term. Whether its women complaining about how much housework he does or men complaining about dead bedrooms. Back in the day people put up with that shit for the benefit of their offsprin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:35 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:20 PM
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No. Butt stuff squicks me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:10 PM
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No. Never used lube or anything as a replacement. Never needed to. Lube is mostly an American thing anyway. Never known anybody who uses it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:07 PM
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If she has a dick then [redacted by progressive reddit admins]
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:04 PM
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These posts are a dime a dozen and are always hilarious. Why is it always women who post on misandrist subs, women who are extra careful when dealing with men. Always on the lookout for the most minor of red flags, why is it they always manage to have sexual encounters with the minescule percentage of men that will do the wildest things like spit on them on a first date? Its completely nuts and I find it hilarious. Women selecting for awful men and then complaining about men being awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:03 PM
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Marriage isn't about your or even her happiness, it never has been. Marriage is an institution designed for the benefit of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:54 PM
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Dude fucking spat on her lmao. You know how comfortable you need to be around someone you're sleeping with for the first time to have to confidence to spit on them? Either he's the biggest autist in the world or he gets laid like tile and this shit usually works with the women he hooks up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:51 PM
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No doubt he still counts her and added her to his notch count though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:47 PM
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there won't be a second time She's a TwoX poster. Guy keeps collecting wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:37 PM
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This comes from a lack of understanding from men. When women say they care about a man's personality. They don't mean they are attracted to good moral people. Bullies are the most sexually successful men throughout school, higher education and beyond, their personality is what directly leads to their sexual success, but it sure as shit isn't that they are good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:46 PM
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All of this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:36 PM
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his date were very beautiful (she is) Press X to doubt. I've seen the people that tend to be involved in polyamory, and they look like stereotypical reddit mods. Though that does lead me to a question. Do the people they are dating even know? Like, it seems mentioning "I have a partner at home but we are open" would be a pretty important thing to mention to a date who may be strictly monogamous, no? I wonder if many of these people even mention the fact that they're in an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:12 PM
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