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No no no, it's what they wish they could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:34 AM
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I rather work a shitty job and use my brains to go to school to get a better job than waste my youth and years on some dweeb who gets a red pill bug up his ass and decides to throw me out when I'm 47 cause he thinks his baby gym gainz entitle him to a 19 yo from tinder. My brain can re-train, I can't re-grow 19 year old tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:32 AM
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The most submissive thing in the world is a man in a hierarchical structure. But beyond that some men just crave a strong daddy to tell them what to do. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:52 PM
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TL;DR version: OP doesn't have any self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:46 PM
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Yay! Another CoT fan in the wild!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:07 AM
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Why should we consider ourselves average when men fall all over themselves for our favor?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:00 AM
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A small bag containing 3 teeth, a ball of moss, some acorns, 12 feathers, and fist full of hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:28 PM
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Why does it make you insecure? I've only been to one Bachelorette party with a male stripper; the dude was very buff, oily, and gay. 🤷‍♀️ The spiciest thing he did was gyrate and simulate thrusting as he danced.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:25 PM
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Thank you! for a while they kept bringing up George fucking Clooney as the ultimate Chad, and it's like, that dude hasn't been relevant for 30 years!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:10 PM
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Yes, that's generally how the mating dance works.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:05 AM
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That 'male perspective' kinda just makes dudes sound whiny and dramatic tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:07 AM
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It's not a woman thing, its a human thing. The friction is usually because the statistical data does not reflect the anecdotal experience. No one likes being told X is unlikely to happen despite living with/surviving/witnessing/experiencing X. Even if there is no anecdotal experience, pain points/fear constructs exist in our psyches, and numbers/data has a poor track record for assuaging a triggered amygdala. Go ahead and try to mitigate an RP man's fear of paternity fraud with statistics, tell …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:27 PM
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Some women will, some women won't. 🤷‍♀️ There really is no other way to answer this kind of question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:38 AM
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what would be so bad All of it. All of it would be bad. Eggs are scarce and sperms is cheap; our discrimination is built in, and probably for good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:47 AM
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I'm asking what is the incentive for women to broaden their consideration pool?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:45 AM
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Ew, why would I do that? How would lusting after average chumps make my life better in any discernible way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:19 AM
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I'd be so angry if my husband bought me a $500 bracelet, what an utter waste of $$$$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:27 PM
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I'd delete myself if I was in any sort of situation where I was given an allowance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:08 PM
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The thrust of your point is insecurity tho.... And now shes made herself sexually incompatible with any man who isn't into those kinks or cannot fulfill them. 4 billion men in the world, this is isn't really a problem for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:56 PM
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>Yes. Why wouldn't she want to be with an amazing high status sexy looking man....? Because he doesn't do it for her. Pretty simple, really. >What parts of society and culture would dissuade a young woman from wanting to avoid having an experience with a millionaire athlete? what? >Yes she will compare every man she is with after to that man. ahh, the nugget of your issue with all of this. >Also if that man exposes her to sexual kinks she didn't have, those will always be embedded in her sexuali…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:34 PM
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ok, so some sports million chad DMs a young woman; again, so what? Do you think this young woman's brain is going to leak out of her head and she's going to fall on his dick? A lifetime of society, culture, values, and preferences have fuck all to do with anything so long as Chad dick shows up in her DMs, then by golly she just can't help herself? "its actively choosing men for sex and relationships which will forever be apart of that womens history and part of her sexual development." Ok so our…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:52 PM
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Trying to explain adult female sexual autonomy and western dating dynamics is like trying to explain Hungarian poetry to a chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:41 PM
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>For example they could be DM'd by a football player on a 2.1 million NIL contract through a mutual acquaintance. And this player could do this to a new girl every week. ok, so what? Is there some sort of script you think women are supposed to follow in this scenario? Charismatic and sexually appealing men exist in this world, mere exposure isn't going to sully the maidens, they don't need chaperones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:57 PM
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No, I'm sure they would have found them alright, they were just average college dudes. But again, why is their input needed? its a fling. "mom, dad, this is Tyler. I met him in bio 211, he's my lab partner. I find him pretty dull, but he makes me laugh sometimes and he looks decent enough so we're going to occasionally dry hump and sext for two weeks until we mutually lose interest. Do I have your blessing to give him an awkward handy after our study session?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:34 PM
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Ew, why would they know any of that info? My parents never worried I'd shack up with a bad guy, they had confidence that they raised me with certain values and a healthy self esteem. They weren't wrong, I never did get entangled with bad guys/dusties/abusers/chuds/etc. Boyfriends only met my family when it was serious, because they're the final vetting before any further steps are taken. It wouldn't make sense to have good ol' mom and dad meet the guy I hooked up with for 2 weeks that one summer…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:17 PM
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Idk, that seems a bit much? But I'm of the belief that dates/outings/etc. are more meaningful when they're unexpected. If it has a cadence it's not something to look forward to, it's become just another chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:15 AM
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Did/do you reserve anything specifically for him? ew, what a weird thought process. It makes him feel special, desired and validated. why are men like this? It can make him feel left out and not desired. too bad, so sad. But to her husband, it can feel like she had all her wild/experimental fun already, getting it out of her system with other men. sounds like a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:57 PM
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I'm a type 5, idk or give a fuck about anyone else, just leave me to my books.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:53 AM
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How old were you when you had your first kiss? idk, 14? 6 months later the kid came out as gay. 😂 First relationships? Casual sex? first relationship was 15, first casual experience was 17. How many relationships/partners have you had? 4 relationships, 3 sex partners, 2 'real' relationships involving cohabitation, 1.5 causal flings. What's the longest you've gone single/sexless? celibate for 1 year (bf was in deployed overseas), however from since I started dating to marriage I've cumulatively o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:05 PM
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It's shame and embarrassment that I let myself open up to someone so cheap and unworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:18 PM
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I'm not a girl's girl. If a woman is talking some dumb shit I'm going to call her out, I don't care if she shat out a kid. Anything less than unconditional go-girlisms are heavily down voted over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:35 AM
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I'm about to get banned from mommit, I can feel it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:27 AM
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It's so much easier when the pdfs just freely announce themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:55 AM
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So.... how much does she weigh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:41 AM
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In terms of active fantasy, it follows after he's made me feel sexual with his active interest. I more often than imagine a dude as an unappealing grunting monkey, like I wonder if he looks stupid when he orgasms or I bet he looks silly while he's pumping
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 06:25 PM
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Face card, vibe, and my willingness to be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:48 PM
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Well I'm in the US and its a giant fucking pain in the ass. I'd have to go to the DMV, the social security office, the passport office, and the court house (on a separate date from the receiving the marriage license). Then I'd have to visit the bank, call the credit card company, call the health insurance company, call the utilities in my name, and then contact my cell phone company. I would also need to contact the IRS, and the local voter registration office. This is not even including any dir…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:47 PM
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I kept my name, because I couldn't be assed to go to several different govt offices on a week day when I had limited PTO. 20ish years later our child has my husband's last name and I still have my own. To this day, nobody has had any fucks to give. I don't think people realize changing your name requires active effort, and if you already have a professional identity with your birth name there's an extra layer of bullshit involved. If it was easy for me to just check a box at the registrars offic…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:28 PM
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When I was younger I could acknowledge a good looking older guy, but there was no way in hell I'd be attracted to him, or want anything to do with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:09 PM
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I know gender dysphoria and mommy issues are hard, but I don't think we're the audience for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:34 PM
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More therapy, less pontificating on the internet please.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:26 PM
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I'm going to hold your hand when I say this, but people lie when there's a financial incentive to do so. You, my good friend, are a mark if you believe Tate's claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:49 AM
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I would ask advice from whomever has expertise in what I'm questioning, like, that just seems like common sense. Asking for advice is not choosing one person over the other, what a strange hierarchy you've set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:39 AM
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How many of you would attribute some of your dating troubles to the amount of overweight and obese people in your pool? Assuming you're not into that, of course. Additionally, would you say the amount of big backs contributes towards a negative view of your preferred gender? I live in a fitness bubble, but whenever I venture outside it I'm always dismayed by how many guts and fupas I see in the general public.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:31 PM
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But I have seen them reject studies because "people lie".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:38 PM
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Nauseous. It makes me feel physically ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:35 PM
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Not really, but I place myself in their orbit and make it very easy for them to escalate. Fortune favors the bold as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 07:05 PM
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I wish my husband had a job like that, instead he goes into an office and is a grumpy asshole when he gets home everyday. We've been trying (unsuccessfully) to get him a low stress WFH 'email job' like mine, but no luck in this job market. I'd love to have him around for lunch time quickies, naps, and someone to fuck around with when work is slow. Instead, he has to get up, get dressed, board a train, and to do 'email work' in an office just so the corpos can justify their high rise rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:32 PM
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so what? fuck, 'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:08 PM
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That's fine, nobody cares, just move to the beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:52 PM
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People who don't dance (or like to dance) are off-putting and unattractive; lowkey, I think there is something wrong with them. Exceptions made for the physically disabled, bed bound, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:45 PM
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Ah yes, the horrible environment of Chicago, IL. It's ok to say you're scared of city folk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:52 PM
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Bro, wtf are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:39 PM
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I don't really feel lonely, I have my BFF, my mom, and my husband. But I don't have anyone to talk about sci-fi novels, and that does make me feel kind of alone. No one I'm close with gives two fucks about stomatopods in space (Children of Strife), or the psycho-linguistic implications of an alien species that doesn't know how to lie (Embassytown). All the book clubs near me are just irl extensions of booktok and mostly read romantasy slop. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:56 AM
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Last night my husband got REALLY angry that a homeless guy walked into me and didn't apologize. By my estimation, the homeless guy wasn't even on planet earth so I couldn't fault him for not seeing me, but my husband took great offense and wanted to fight the guy. Anyhoo I was annoyed that my husband was all aggro about the homeless dude instead of ignoring him and whatever offense he caused. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:34 AM
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Like, there's stuff in the film that riffs on and jokes about Mario characters, tropes, game levels, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:57 AM
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Probably not? It's mostly a family movie and then fanservice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:56 AM
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Good! More coherent than the first one, lots of Easter eggs for fans of Nintendo properties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:11 AM
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Just left the Super Mario movie with my family, now we're at a pizza parlor and I'm waiting for the pizza while my husband and son play arcade games. Later, after kiddo has gone to bed, husband and I will bang it out and then fall asleep in each others arms. Life is good when you're not a bricked up misanthrope shit posting about sexbots. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:55 PM
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And nothing of value was lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:10 PM
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"Women should not be taken seriously and there is a reason for it" proof: OP's sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:37 PM
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I bet you thought you were really clever with this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:31 AM
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Your flair says red pill, and crying about divorce (and the subsequent "divorce rape") is kind of a key feature of your little He-Man Woman Haters Club.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:26 PM
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If it's not a big deal, why do y'all cry so much about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:20 PM
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"Fiancee"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:02 PM
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NPCs, you're all NPCs. The last time I was visually drawn to a man he looked like an anorexic background character from Interview with the Vampire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:15 PM
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There's nothing to deflect. I think what I think, and if you find that disagreeable well, ok. 🤷‍♀️ I don't really feel compelled to change my opinion. If you think I'm wrong I can live with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:14 PM
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I don't really care. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:05 PM
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Just cause I think someone is a little fucked in the head doesn't mean I can't be friends with them and support their harmless fuckery. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:03 PM
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Oh, its more so a nod to my Red Pill Moment; realizing a man full of lust is truly indiscriminate. Its a weakness I see in men, but its not something worth getting upset about. and not to get it twisted, its the hypocrisy of cis straight men that bothers me, not whom or where they place their dicks. All the crowing and boasting about loving pussy, getting pussy, being a pussy slayer, whatever, but then on the DL hitting up the trans folks. Jut fucking own it, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:14 PM
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no I'm saying its not problem, as I've accepted that most men have no discrimination when it comes to their dickfeels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:00 PM
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1.) Nope. 2.) Sure, I've already accepted men will stick their dicks into anything. I know 3 people that have fully transitioned; 2 MtF and 1 FtM, as well as a handful of "gender non conforming" folks. Politically I'm an ally, but personally these people are a fucking mess and I don't need their drama in my life. Plus they just don't look good; they didn't hit the attraction markers for their assigned gender at birth, so they turn tail and tried on the other gender but they still don't pass. My …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 03:51 PM
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Men aren't lonely enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:59 PM
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I believe everyone deserves to not get treated like shit in their chosen interpersonal relationship(s). Male, female, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:28 PM
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Because people want to sleep with them. Parties provide a space for flirty/convivial interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:55 AM
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Don't be a creep, and it won't be a problem. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:38 AM
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Parties. House parties, after parties, halloween parties, dinner parties, housewarming parties, birthday parties, cookouts, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:57 AM
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Who was the target audience? Normies who are more concerned with taxes, the MCU, dentist appointments, their kid's soccer game, how to pay for the new water heater, etc. People like my mother, who watched this doc and learned about a whole new side of the internet that isn't just sharing recipes and cute cat pictures on facebook. I've previously tried explaining my fears to her about my son coming across this nonsense, but she had no frame of reference and still assumed the biggest danger for yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:23 PM
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Most porn is romantic as hell The genres of facial abuse, painal, "struggle hugs", vore, bestiality, blackmail, and non-con beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:14 PM
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Too many men walking around here with poorly disguised domme fetishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:08 PM
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Just doing my part for the patriarchy ma'am. 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:39 PM
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Well we're at 21 years now so by my estimates its going pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:24 PM
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Sounds like my husband and I. I spoil him monetarily, he spoils me with time/compliments/validation. It works out great when you're both receiving what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:34 AM
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Sure if he's sexy and treats me well, why not? I don't need his money, I have plenty of my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:11 AM
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I mean yeah, I'd agree with this, at least personally. After a month of straight fucking I eloped with my husband when he had -$87 in his bank account. He is absolutely 'That Guy' for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:12 AM
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If I treated my ex to expensive or thoughtful dates and dinner, then my current gf isnt entitled to those things. Ive “changed now” and dont want to taken advantage of out my comfort zone…. You see how stupid that sounded?? Not really, that sounds perfectly logically and I would commend the dude for learning from that experience and setting a financial boundary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:06 PM
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There is at least one user on here that has claimed (several times in different threads) he would be happy receiving the bare minimum so long as her previous boyfriends also received the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:02 PM
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>the backstabbing, the gossip, the two-facedness, 😂😂 as if whole ass governments haven't been taken down by men engaging in this very same behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:51 PM
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Accountability to what or whom? Beyond themselves and their offspring, what is this "accountability" supposed to do or achieve?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:17 PM
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Well I mean, maybe stop fucking up and then things won't always be men's fault. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:11 PM
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Underwear with cheek coverage bunches up/irritates me, and hormonal vag discharge is why I refuse to go commando. Seamless thongs feel like nothing at all. What you're missing is that other people have different thresholds for fabric sensation; it's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:35 AM
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🤷‍♀️ no lies were told.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:28 PM
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His joie de vivre and ability to turn any situation into a joke, and as a corollary, his ability to make me laugh even when I'm in the depths of self pity. He's never once asked me to be anything other than who I am, and he's never underestimated or taken for granted my intellect and perspective. I admire his instinctive knowledge of how to read a room and dazzle everybody. He may be the odd man out, but he somehow manages to disarm and befriend everyone. He knows who he is, and expects authenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:22 PM
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Cool. And I know 6 women who married their age-cohort college boyfriends after graduation. I also know a muscular and bald 43 year old man dating a 23 year old single mom of 2. Anecdotes are fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:27 PM
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Yes, I resonate with this a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:16 AM
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Because in 2026, Jane is making an incredibly stupid economic decision and people love gossiping about other people's stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:19 AM
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So the whole 'butter face' pejorative cooked up by men was a fever dream?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:05 AM
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What in the autism..... No, I don't think attraction works that way for most women (or men, for that matter). I have zero comprehension of men's height and weights, all I can tell is if a man is taller than me and bigger than me (fat vs. muscle). Vibe, body composition, and facial attractiveness always supersede plain height and weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:54 AM
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Single Mother's need to understand how valuable men truly are and realize you are no longer the prize for once. He is. That's when I started laughing, cause I realized this is the unhinged screed of a larper or a pick me drowning in the Flavor Aid. I'm sorry that single mom got married before you, but I promise you'll be picked one day!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 02:13 AM
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I think of two women I know, a high school friend and my aunt. My high school friend is single and childless, but she devoted her adult years to becoming an excellent circus performer, and now she performs with cirque du soleil and has no interest in men, babies, or domesticity. I long suspect she's asexual and I think she might be on the spectrum, but by all accounts, she's thriving and killing it. My aunt is rich. She has fuck you money and she's also single and childless. Well, she's sort of …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:31 AM
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My brother is 5'8" like my dad, nice blue eyes on a southern Italian phenotype. He lives in San Diego, works for EA, always had girlfriends but now he's married to a nice Asian lady name....Emily? As far as I gathered, he's never had any problems with women; he's just a chill, smart, and funny dude. Builds his own guitars, likes sports cars, met his wife at a work event. My bro is a handsome normie, and thus he's had normie relationships with pretty normie women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:48 PM
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He was there (Spanish class study partner), and I was bored+curious. It wasn't very great. I felt anoyed and like I wasted my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 01:23 AM
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Show us on the doll where FeMiNisM touched you. Its ok, you're in a safe space.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:25 PM
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A cute skinny guy with long hair in an alt metal band; must like weed, cats, pro wrestling, and socialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:46 PM
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I don't? I've never encountered this, but I'm sure there are woman who have. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:02 PM
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I imagine people in...idk...bumfuck Mississippi or who-gives-a-fuck South Dakota probably don't have nearly as many medical facilities/hospitals/research universities/etc. as people in metro areas that have something of a tax and knowledge base. I live in Chicago, I sure as shit don't want to deal with an ectopic pregnancy in Arkansas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:58 PM
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Men aren't lonely enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:42 PM
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The hot guy I slept with is the guy I married. I wasn't about to waste my time fucking around with a bunch of average ass dudes when I could just lock in on what I wanted and go the distance with him. Am the most attractive woman ever? No, but I knew then as I know now that I can and should shoot higher than an unremarkable 5/10 NPC that was too chicken shit to talk to girls in high school and college. I don't know or care how other women operate, but I can say for my social strata, the women me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:32 AM
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<image> I'm sure you're all happy to know my Mount Rushmore of goon has been updated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:53 PM
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I'll take the heartless corpo over shacking up with some dude posting incest pedo shit on reddit. Fucking yikes dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 04:49 AM
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I always snicker to myself when older men brag about snagging a "prime" 18-21 year old; how much does she weigh Kevin? How many kids does she have? It's never, ever, EVER a Stacy or a baddie, or even a virgin Becky, but oh will they cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:19 AM
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nigga I don't know you, I'm not going to talk about my thoughts regarding the latest scifi novel I read, my fantasy booking for the royal rumble, or the latest combo I learned in ballet class. But I will talk about kids and other people, because that's at least generic mutual ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:15 PM
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No, money for drugs, wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:23 AM
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N count of 3 but sure; friend's wider social circle friend's house party frat party drug deal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:05 AM
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The thing is, I don't care. If someone wants my advice I'll offer it, but I won't go out of my way to give advice to people who don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:08 AM
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I don't, and I never said I did. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:43 AM
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I don't think I've ever had a dry streak as you've defined it, but I was celibate for a year in college by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:15 AM
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Neat. One time, I had a guy buy all my textbooks for a semester, and then I ghosted him. That was also around the time I had my ex pay for my apartment for a year while I flirted with my now husband. It's a shame I dropped out of the game so early.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:44 PM
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My one regret was not scamming enough dudes out of their cash when I was younger. Who cares about being a hoe, $$$$$ is where it's at.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:10 PM
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Or he could be a better husband if he wants a better wife, but we all know men don't know how to take responsibility for anything regarding their marriages or personal lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:20 PM
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OK. 🤷‍♀️ I'm one of those women who snapped back into shape after having my kid, but I also had the privilege of a fitness oriented lifestyle before I became pregnant, as well as my husband being a SAHD for the first few months of kiddo's life. The thing is, I already knew how to lose weight and get fit, and my husband shared the caretaking role with me, which gave me some time to myself. The average woman is like, 175lbs, she was already fat to begin with. Chances are she knows fuck all about n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:11 PM
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Who teaches you this Friends, family, religion, mass media, society and how? Living in it, cultural osmosis. Is this a real question?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:01 PM
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What does a nurse "warning a woman that her spouse might leave her" even look like? Have you never met a chatty nurse? There's a whole god damn realm of intra female socialization that men are never privy to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:14 PM
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Women's unchecked insecurity usually leads to her ending up alone. Men's unchecked insecurities usually leads to him ending up alone, but can also include violence. If you don't want men's insecure to be called toxic, then maybe stop responding with violence when they're triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:51 PM
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My dad sending my mom back to school is probably one of the best things that happened to our family; financially, emotionally, etc. But my parents loved each other and were mature adults who tackled her education as a team. They understood the role swap and the time constraints, and everyone stepped up because this was the goal of everything; come to America, get a degree, get a job, live in prosperity and peace. And it worked. 30 years of a happy marriage, an educated and employed wife, an educ…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:42 PM
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When I met gigachad, I knew I was going to fuck him, but only after I married him. However many years later he's still a pretty good lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:22 PM
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2026, men still ain't beating the allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:08 PM
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Well so far several women are contradicting your 1 source (that conveniently agrees with you), so go ahead and square that circle, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:31 PM
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Or maybe, women are diverse and have contradicting opinions. Wild, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:19 PM
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It means: * I'm gassy * I don't feel like it * I just met you, slow the fuck down * I'm on my period * I have shit to do later * I haven't shaved * you're effectively a stranger, and I don't like to live dangerously * I don't have your STI results * its late and I want to go to bed * the logistics of having sex exceed my patience for engaging in the act * my gut says "NO."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:17 PM
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This guy is a break up or 2 away from posting shitty joker lone wolf memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:29 PM
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Neat. I hope you screenshot it. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:18 PM
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Idk, seeth? Cry more? Get over himself? Try to passport bro his lost youth and get fleeced by a 22 year old single mom in Colombia? Take your pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:15 PM
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Cause her current partner was probably too busy crying about his virginity on the internet instead of partying with her during her freshman year. The early bird gets the worm. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:08 PM
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Porn. He's getting these ideas from porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:57 PM
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OK, well, good for him. Doesn't mean I have to approve, I'm just not into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:16 AM
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My husband would be intrigued, but I'm not into tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:10 AM
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Writing, music, aquariums, model kits, Frisbee golf, plants/gardening, minimal equipment sports (i.e. swimming, basketball, running, etc), sketching/painting, improv/theater, standard console gaming, photography, chess, cooking, the entire human experience beyond western male coded hobbies. Note, these are all hobbies of dudes I know irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:07 AM
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Well, right now I have a blister on my heel so I guess my shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:50 AM
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The wonderful wide world of anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:47 AM
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aggro-coded combat sports collectibles extreme sports fishing/hunting cars Anything with expensive and impractical equipment crypto nonsense social media presence/influencer sports betting Anything within the realm of "mall ninja"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:51 AM
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I've never had a short-term fling, but off-the-chart physical chemistry and super hotness was a requirement for marrying my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:53 AM
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It's ok to admit you want Chad for yourself, you don't need to offload your anxiety about that onto women. We're just out here living our lives man, we didn't sign up to be the 'middlemen' for your psychosexual melodrama.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:03 AM
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all these benefits will go away if you do not serve country by having kids with good intelligent STEM major men who follow societal I love a good systemic threat from the chronically dry-dicked. Weren't y'all supposed to kick off a beta uprising a few years ago? Whatever happened to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:45 PM
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usually give more of a daddy or taking care of you vibe 🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:26 PM
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No, I just don't understand why a young woman would sacrifice raw physical attraction and youthful energy just so she can bounce on some old dudes half limp cock while trying to ignore his receding hairline. But then again I didn't grow up molested, poor, or with daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:09 PM
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and men desiring a child. Well if the shoe fits....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:08 PM
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A man's prime is typically age 28-45 buddy, that's cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:12 PM
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And by 35 a man's sperm is loaded up with defecting DNA. We all degrade as we age, but stating a mans prime is 28-45 is peak comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:08 PM
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A man's prime is typically age 28-45. Male pattern baldness, erectile dysfunction, and cratering testosterones levels would like a word with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:38 PM
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Sad that he thinks so little of her personhood that his highest hope is that she serves so other man. Nothing about helping her achieve her dreams/hopes/goals, no, his highest hope is that she just slots in to some other man's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:18 PM
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As opposed to recognizing her intellect or talents and investing in them so she has more tools at her disposable beyond "pretty" and "young". Good dads see their daughters as something more than vessels or some other man's seed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:15 PM
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That her father thinks so little of her intellect/talents that his highest hope is for her to be a subservient broodmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:53 PM
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How sad for your daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:00 PM
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1.) I don't want my butthole on the internet 2.) nothing about being a content creator seems interesting or worth the effort 3.) I am a barely contained misandrist, absolutely not the kind of person to cater to men's desires for money 4.) I already have a well paying job
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:03 PM
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Much to my delight (and I guess my husband's annoyance) he exceeds my cleanliness/chore/ cooking standards. If anything, I'm the bum in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:56 PM
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that's a whole lot of words for "....and my dick is still dry :("
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:10 PM
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The difference is the interplay of those two nervous systems, and then the mans contains the woman - shes protected. That sounds like a whole lot of woo woo bro science and not a lot fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:44 PM
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you can either learn the dance or complain about having no one to dance with. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:16 PM
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I don't have an input besides my previous flair that got me banned: PUBLIC CASTRATION IS A GOOD IDEA.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:51 PM
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But men also get criticized when they do show emotion. Because generally the emotions they do show are extreme, dramatic, violent, or aggressive. When I was younger, a guy I was chatting with thought 'sharing his emotions' involved describing his violent suicidal ideation, his violent fantasies on how he was going to "fuck up" his dad, and dumping a lifetime of emotional trauma, PTSD, and child abuse on my lap. Me, an 18 year old girl who just wanted to party and drink a few wine coolers. Of cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:02 PM
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I mean, I suppose, all my relationships prior to my husband I just kind of fell into them. I was pursued, but I wasn't very excited about those men or those relationships, they were mostly there to just pass the time and entertain me. However, I pursued my husband, or at least I placed myself in his orbit to be noticed. He never courted me, but I made myself very accessible and open to him. According to my husband, he knew I was a sure bet because I would get dressed up, go to his house, buy dru…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:51 AM
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That's a whole lot of words for what amounts to pedo-apologia.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:43 AM
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What? If someone has a goal of getting married, and they do so, doesn't that mean they are, in fact, marriage material?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:15 AM
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I was violently proud of my submission. It made me feel alive, bound to something greater. We breathed as one, our hearts beat as one. Another man gave the orders, but it didn’t matter — we were one body, one will. His voice could have been mine. Nightmare fuel. I just want to be treated as an autonomous human being. I take no joy or pride in subsuming my will to another, it all feels very disgusting on a primal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:23 PM
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I appreciate this and look forward to your part 2, but my brother in Christ, PARAGRAPHS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:41 PM
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When I met my husband, I was buying drugs from him at a party. I have several tattoos and piercings, at one point had colorful hair, lots of male friends, few girlfriends, and the first two years of our relationship were a drunken coked out blur. And yet, my N count is 3 (including him) and we've been married for 5 billion years. I don't think I'm particularly rare (wild child to suburban mom is a trope for a reason), but I do think RP men are EXTREMELY risk averse and cock block themselves more…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:16 AM
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Personally, no. If he's not hip to a lil bit of anarcho-communism, I'm not interested. But my social sphere is full of socialist, filthy commies, and over-educated college liberals; all married or have "life partners". I would have to go out of my way (and my geographical location) to find a conservative leaning man, and I have zero desire to interact with those kinds of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:08 PM
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yes but what is the "crime" of the single mother? I'm sure you have loads of statistics about this, that, and the other, so what is she personally at fault for that requires a condemnation? Spell it out for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:56 PM
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ok but you don't have to do any of that; you don't have to coddle, you don't have to denigrate, you could just like, mind your own business. For a dude who claims he doesn't date single moms, you seem weirdly preoccupied with their moral judgement. I don't see the need for the distinction between single moms and widows, it seems entire arbitrary and a flimsy excuse to to talk shit about a subculture of women. If they're not of your dating radar, then why the offense at their existence? Nothing p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:40 PM
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They should be. Why? What would that accomplish?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:04 PM
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I love how kids, the actual complicated part of single parenthood, are completely glossed over in your grace towards widows. Single mom haterade was never about avoiding the responsibility of being a parental figure for a child that's not yours, if it was, then widows with kids would be disqualified instead of receiving your arbitrary grace. It was always about moralizing and punishing single mothers, always.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:41 AM
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You know its possible to acknowledge the merits of Set A while still preferring Set B, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:28 PM
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Can either one play an instrument and command a crowd? If so, that's the one I pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:47 PM
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????🤷‍♀️??? Why would I care about that? I'm old enough to separate the human from their contribution, so long as the human is not so completely vile it poisons appreciation for their contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:26 AM
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Well then pay for it and ask the lady how she got thru it, there's your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:54 PM
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How are people falling for this very obvious marketing campaign?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:38 PM
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Nope. But my social media is also curated to things I like (sci-fi novels, live music, cats, birds, fitness, community events, art, etc). I find social media tiring, so I don't put a lot of investment in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 01:19 AM
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It makes me wonder if we live in different worlds sometimes. Well, yes. The aesthetics of nightclub girls in Miami versus college students in Minnesota wildly differ, but the club girls in Miami have wider visibility to men via OF, Instagram, tiktok, etc, which influences their perception of our aesthetics and make up habits. There is also the socioeconomic stratification (hood rats with their spider lashes versus subtle bougie lash lifts) and regional variance of makeup habits (Utah pagent girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:48 AM
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I'm a Tutsi Like from the Hutus Vs. Tutsis?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:33 PM
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This quotes reminds me of the time I was riding the L in Chicago, and at the back of the train there was a bunch of working class dudes smoking joints and and having a laugh. I remember thinking I would have loved to have joined them, but there I was in my Aritzia business casual looking like a smug suburbanite, and realizing there was no way in this universe I would have been able to wander back there and been like, '"yo can I get a hit, I got a some THC gummies in my purse I can trade." But my…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:09 PM
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Against my will, I am a heterosexual woman. Despite my low level antipathy to men at large, there is a small cohort I am attracted to. It is there that I found a husband, but if that cohort didn't exist or was inaccessible to me, then I'd be happy to embrace cats and spinsterhood. The body of 'A Man' is not attractive. The body of a man I'm drawn to/interested in/vibing with is very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:23 PM
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Sure. Back in the day I messed around with a dude who was chill and convenient but I couldn't fathom dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:25 PM
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I smell fetish bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:02 PM
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oh, yeah probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:13 PM
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misogyny what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:11 PM
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So are you saying that comments on social media aren't written by real people on the other side of the screen? Not OP but yes, I'd wager ~30% of them are bots. Are the women thirsting over big dicks on social media just bots created to make men feel insecure? Also yes; insecure men are easily grifted/radicalized men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:00 PM
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I'm a biracial woman living in Chicago, most people clock me as "some sort of Puerto Rician". Before I left for my run this morning, I realized I should probably start carrying around more robust ID than just my license, like my passport and birth certificate in case I get hassled by ICE. So that's life in 2025, awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:33 PM
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Is “holiday dick” and “boyfriend dick” actual terminology that women use No. or am I just mindbroken by the internet? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:51 PM
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posts on a forum gets upset when people reply It seems you're still 0/10 for logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:03 PM
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The red pill man doth protest too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:33 PM
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Wants casual sex with non promiscuous women... the math ain't mathin' on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:09 PM
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Funny you should say that, I'm from an Afro-caribe and old world Italian family, so men expressing themselves and feeling comfortable with song/dance/etc. is just like...whatever, a normal part of male sociability. Like, growing up my parents were always singing and dancing around the house. They would go out dancing on the weekends. My mom would take me to carnivals and shit. In my household dancing was about fun, joy, community, just you know, being a human. But these dudes, they view the worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:55 PM
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You know there are different clubs right? And different types of dancing takes place at these night clubs? The last night club I went to was goth/industrial, prior to that was a salsa/bachata night club. There was dancing, but I'm pretty sure its nothing like what your imagination is conjuring up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:08 PM
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ew, what a porn brained comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:47 PM
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Isn’t there a world of difference between being at a beach where someone may approach you, vs somewhere like perhaps Le Bain where explicit mingling is part of the deal? No. Men will approach: on the beach, at the store, in a waiting room, in a parking lot, at a school, at church, in the emergency room, at a funeral, behind the 7/11 while you're throwing up, at a wedding, at the DMV, etc. MEN. WILL. APPROACH. So a night club is no different, its just a dark room with shitty liquor and louder mus…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:45 PM
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I did not consent to being a part of your cuckold fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:25 PM
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If my husband went to the strip club for mac n cheese I'd think that was hilarious, and I'd definitely want him to bring me home some.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:58 PM
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I like dancing. My girlfriends like dancing. Our spouses do not. When time and schedules allow, we will get together for dinner and then go out to a bar, lounge, or night club. We will proceed to gossip, flatter each other, drink silly expensive drinks, dance, laugh a lot, ignore/mock men trying to approach us, more gossip, more dancing, and then call it a night when the lights come on. We'll go home to our families, our husbands will kiss us and ask if we had a good time, we relate some gossip …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:56 PM
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This, coming from a self-proclaimed red pill man, when one of the core tenets of RP is to cry about women dating for compatibility instead of attraction. The incoherence is amazing. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:50 AM
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Why would I date someone I deem unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:22 AM
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Why am I interacting with a guy that has a decade+ criminal record?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:18 AM
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I don't know what to tell you, I don't live around or associate with people who resort to violence when they get triggered. I've said some wack ass shit in my life; the first, last, and only time someone physically retaliated was when a girl pulled my hair in 4th grade. Ofhand then there was that other time I got mouthy with a doorman and he pushed me, so my 304 friend got the dudes she was fucking on the football team to rough him up a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:48 AM
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I'm a PTO attending, community volunteering, married mom of one that lives in UMC Americana. FOX News et. al. would jizz themselves reporting on my status as a victim of violent crime. I'd probably get $500k+ if a gofundme was started on my behalf. In my world, nice PTO moms don't get slapped around for causing a scene, but the police are at our beck and call if we feel threatened by an "urban youth".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:34 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:18 AM
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I've had to work overtime You were compensated, yes? So what exactly is the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:19 PM
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Things I don't care about: male icks Potato Face Man's death And for what it's worth, my husband cracked open a celebratory beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:24 PM
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I told my husband that. On one hand they had a "successful" test run with the Trump "assassination" attempt, but on the other hand they are a bunch of back biting dumbfucks and we do have enough crackpot who would do something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:04 PM
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Eh, nah. I almost got shot during a school shooting, so I'm showing the same amount of sympathy he would have shown my black ass. None.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:51 PM
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...oh well. tots and pears.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:25 PM
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$40k is nice, but you gotta take ovary stimulating medication which can make you fat, and if you're eggs aren't selected then you got fat for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:16 PM
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I financially contribute about 70% to my relationship because I have a higher income. Beyond that acknowledgement I have zero fucks to give about who pays for what and in what percentages. I've always known I'd pay more because I earn more. I didn't realize I was supposed to be bothered by this until I started participating on PPD. As of today I'm still not bothered by this, its just money for fuck's sake. I've always felt equal to my husband, and I'm not sure why or how I'd change that opinion.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:12 PM
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Dad was an aviation electrical engineer, mom was a teacher. Dad is dead, mom is retired but sometimes does tutoring at the library.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:24 PM
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She is what she is, you gonna simp or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:16 PM
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I'm a gym rat and I see dozens of women monthly in the gym Sounds like you got a selective bias going on. The "average woman" is 5'4" and weighs 171 lbs. In the US, about a quarter of them go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:04 PM
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less than 5%of men simp over them. citation needed. Here you go, an average young woman, go ahead and simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:51 PM
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No , I meant as in irl. yes, IRL these are the type of women dudes are simping over. Also this is like me showing a fat , short , balding guy and saying look . She's closer to average than your headcanon waifu.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:28 PM
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No , I meant as in irl. Yes, as am I. Also this is like me showing a fat , short , balding guy and saying look . She's closer to average than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:25 PM
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Just look at the women most men will talk with and care about. OF girls, IG baddies, tiktok thots, single moms, strippers, and party girls. Let me know when most dudes "talk with and care about" women like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:19 PM
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actively cherish being with them citation needed. So the question why do an avg women don't like the below 80% of men . Eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:07 PM
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oh look, another truth teller to stand on high and let us know how the world really works. Back of the line pal, you got about 2 millennia and countless prophets, grifters, confidence men, visionaries and gurus trying to sell us how thing should work according to them. those who tell the truth are hated. Jesus would like his martyrdom back, please and thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:20 PM
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Who are all these people y'all are keeping in prison, if not this guy? Low level offenders bearing the brunt of 30+ year old 'tough on crime' policies. Now the prisons are full, but instead of commuting sentences for the low level offenders, we turn out violent offenders with some wack-ass work release programs or cashless bonds simply because we don't have room for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:15 PM
2

So what are those specific things?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:55 PM
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Great. May that kind of relationship never find me. Sounds claustrophobic and isolating. Remember, he bought her from a homeless shelter in South America specifically because she can't do better than him. (his words, not mine)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:27 PM
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You wouldn't need to replace a man because you picked him properly and he cares about you. That sure is a lot of wishing and hoping to stake a livelihood on. Its my life, no one will care about it more than me, so I'm going to make sure its supported via the tried and true method of exchanging mental labor for monetary resources. Also you don't know if your power in the job marketplace will grow or if you will be replaced by AI so it is not a safe bet as you make it sound. It sure is a safer bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:22 PM
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However, I can just as easily replace a boss with my work ethic and brains if I don't like the terms of our agreement, but I am unable to easily replace a man with my aging body and diminished child rearing capabilities if I don't like the terms of our agreement. Why should I expose myself to a less optimal arrangement where my negotiating power (youthful body, fecundity) weakens with time, versus an arrangement where my negotiating power can grow with time (work ethic, knowledge, networking, et…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:49 PM
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Yes? This is a weird question. In my life I've known and befriended various kinds of sex workers, and I'm just an average wife + mom living in Americana. Hell, my last neighbor was a 60+ year old escort that got into the business cause she was bored with retirement. She looked good for her age and had a small roster of elderly gentlemen she was servicing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:45 PM
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🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:23 PM
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There's something to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:30 PM
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Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:18 PM
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But why my little post partum Pilates channel when there are TERABYTES OF PORN available a mere incognito tab away? I have my demographic, and they're reflected in my stats, the gooners showed up on their own accord. I'm not asking "Why men only see me for my body?", I'm asking why are they gooning to a channel not meant for them, not catered to them, and not advertised to them. Nothing about my channel, videos or marketing imply goon content, and yet there they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:40 PM
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In the intervening years, I've finally started my YouTube Pilates channel (mostly as cross promotion for my home studio). I've achieved modest sucess with my intended demographic (working women/new moms aged 18-34), but the secondary demographic has always bothered me; gooners. The entire internet has terabytes of free porn, there's OF, IG thirst traps, even girls offering their wares (cheaply!) right here on reddit. And yet, my highest engagement segments feature shots of my feet or ass, and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:20 PM
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Ah yes, if the 23 year old obese single mom working the day shift at Applebee's wants him, then clearly he's a superior man desired by women far and wide. It just pains us to know that Kaitlyn hooked her claws into him between rounds of buy-2-get-1 hot wings and watered down long island iced teas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:51 AM
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But the men I'm interested in are interested in women like me, so nobody is being forced into solitude. In all my life, I've never looked at men and thought, "My god, the ones I want don't want me back!" Idk how to explain, maybe it's because I don't earnestly desire a man until he's expressed desire for me first. If Chad McStud only wants 20 year olds, cool, have at it dude. As far as I'm concerned Chad McStud is an npc, and until he expresses interest in me, he shall remain an npc. I think som…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:29 AM
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This is just a thought terminating cliche. "I'm not interested in men who do x" "That's because you can't get men who do x" Like...no, I'm not interested in those guys, but y'alls utter insistence that we are is baffling. It's like you need us to be pinning for guys who do x for your worldview to remain congruent. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:40 AM
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Funny your should mention your parents, my dad was 60 and my mom was 30 when I was born. But she was also a grown ass woman that traveled, had a career, and an education prior to their marriage. In all my life I never detected a wiff of predation from my dad; they bonded over a love of education, so he was always in awe of my mom's intellect and ambition. I'm sure her youth and his resources didn't hurt, but their lynch pin was something more than that. I consider my parents one of the vanishing…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:15 AM
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I think it's partially, mostly an ego driven perspective. Like, an avg. 35+ yeat old dude levels up, hooks up with a 23 year old, since Younger Is Better in his mind, he is now HVM. Now that he's a HVM, most women should want him, and if we don't want him, then we're just jealous/bitter/resentful/lesbians/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:06 AM
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the girl is mid and can’t compete with the more attractive girls her own age It reminds me of passport bros boasting about how their SEA waifu is better than western women, when she's actually just a chubby 27 year old single mom from Singapore. I think those dudes really like the optic (a "younger chick" or "an Asian wife") despite the reality being fairly mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:57 AM
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What I never understood about this conclusion is why men think there is intrasexual competition. It's like there's this foregone conclusion that older women want these men that lust after 20something year-olds. There are so many men in this world; not all of them are into youth for youths' sake or any argument along those lines. I've experienced intrasex competition; when I was a young woman, it was with other young women, and it was about the young men we knew. Now, as an old hag, I can recogni…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:21 AM
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Yes. I'm coming at this situation as a wrestling fan, and my feelings on the matter is that Raja has to be a real dumbfuck to get worked into a shoot. If he can't figure out kayfabe, then he has no business being in the ring with people who know wtf the business is all about. Thousands of people engage in the art of 'wrasslin' across the globe. Some of them have been concussed to hell and back, and yet very few have completely lost the plot and engaged in actual violence in the ring. Raja Jackso…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:49 PM
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I'd say this a pretty common experience for women across the globe. I grew up in pitch perfect suburban Americana, and I still experienced grown ass men leering and touching my barely pubescent body.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:55 PM
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Y tho? My husband likes cooking, I don't. My husband is pretty good at it, and I'm average at best. Why should I cook when he's much better at it and enjoys doing it? How exactly are gender roles supposed to help in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:30 AM
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🤷‍♀️ no lies were told.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:40 PM
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Alright well, be on your merry way then. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:32 PM
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source: youtube videos about "the fall of the Roman Empire", Sargon of Akkad podcasts, and Jordan Peterson mouthfarts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:26 PM
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romanticized sunk cost fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:52 PM
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And yet he was sued for rape....kinda sounds like something that would happen to a predator. But hey, keep carrying water for a guy with a rape allegation on his name. Its definitely on brand for you RP types.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:13 PM
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Ah yes, the last bastion of ego defense for lonely men; a high IQ. You may be a neurotic KHHV, but at least you're the smartest one, right? That thought alone should keep you warm and happy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:01 PM
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I'm not sure what there is to seethe about, washed up predator had to payout for a rape lawsuit and got fired from his job. If anything, that calls for rejoicing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:54 PM
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So a much older male celebrity lost his job after he settled a rape lawsuit filed by his "ex-g/f". Nowhere could I find her age, but I did read they dated for 2 years. So if she's 20, that means they got together when she was 18? What exactly are we supposed to be taking away from this? Cause all I see is a washed-up predator finally getting his comeuppance. Not exactly a sparkling endorsement of age gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:42 AM
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Eesh, really scraping the bottom of the barrel with that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:17 PM
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The first guy got to fuck a cute college girl and then go on and have a happy family with her, the 2nd guy cockblocked himself and was ghosted after that Walmart 'date'. Make of that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:29 PM
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phew, he really did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:04 PM
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you know boomers are in their 70's right? Millennials are in their 40's and have dealt with a ratfuck economy since 2008. The dual income requirement has been in play since I was a child. if you're going to try and appeal to "old = lame", at least get your generalizations correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:54 PM
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I take dance classes at the rec center, write poetry, read scifi novels, build DIY house kits, gamer, and sometimes teach Pilates at the rec center (also assist with his husband's fishkeeping). Not to mention encouraging my kid's hobbies/sports/interests. I don't think these things make me interesting per say, but they contribute to living A Life, even with typical adult responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:38 PM
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We have a 10 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:45 PM
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I'd say my husband but that feels like cheating. For reference he's a musician that has comedian friends, so our nights out revolve around live music/comedy clubs. In his day to day life he's a gamer, reads graphic novels, builds dioramas, and is an avid fresh water aquarium hobbyist. I find all of these things quite interesting about him, and after 20 years + a 10 year old kid we're still vibing and having fun together. In terms of division of labor and daily drudgery, it still exists, but time…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:40 PM
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A stable, committed, responsible husband is not mutually exclusive for being a fun and interesting person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:27 PM
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Being with them is anti-fun. That's it, not much deeper than that. Anecdote time: when I was getting to know my husband, we lived in rural farming community/college town. There was nothing to do besides go to Walmart at 2am, or binge drink in corn fields. However going to Walmart at 2am with him was fun. He was funny, and would do spontaneous/silly things in the store. Being around him, I was always laughing and saying "omg staaahhhhp". He was always ready for something, anything, and if there w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:24 PM
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I've always assumed the guys I'm interested in have more options, so...it's fine? I've never thought otherwise? If we clique and vibe, great; if not, oh well, I hope he finds someone better suited to him. Life goes on. There's always another man if I'm open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:24 PM
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Marriage has absolutely no benefit for men and we don't want to lose half our stuff when you get bored, cheat and we get a divorce. Not to pick on you specifically, but I always found this argument absurd and ridiculous, statistically none of you have any "stuff" worth taking. And thats not even how property division works. Like, what is Kaitlyn really gonna take? Your consumer debt, underwater mortgage, and crypto losses?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:12 PM
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I don't think a "good man" that is "emotionally intact" would string along his girlfriend. I don't think it's "good men" that are opposed to marriage, it's just men who don't want to get married for whatever reason. "Good men" that want marriage are already there, or are in track with their current LTR. They don't need convincing by anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:57 PM
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Do you have a learning disability?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:26 PM
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men of 2025; still doing the most to make sure their insecurities are some poor woman's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:38 PM
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he's hot, makes me laugh, and makes me feel safe: hook up. he's hot, makes me laugh, makes me feel safe, and we're compatible: relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:21 PM
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I mean...myself for example. I've been clocked as Puerto Rician/Dominican, Middle Eastern, Greek, Eritrean, and Filipino. I am none of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:16 PM
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huh! I don't know why we never thought of that. I'll actually suggest that to him when he gets home. God knows the builder owner doesn't want the health dept. involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:10 PM
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Not on his floor, he'd have to go up or down a floor to avoid the phantom pooper.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:06 PM
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yes, this is my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:03 PM
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corporate conundrum: my husband works in an office downtown, and one of his coworkers is a very, very, VERY obese and smelly man. For the past 7-8 months (correlating with when the obese man was hired) my husband has encountered, idk, free form fecal matter in the bathroom. Like, poop smeared on stall walls. Poop smeared on toiler paper dispenser. Poop smeared on faucet handles. poop somehow in the soap dispenser. We both assume the culprit is the very very very obese man (I've watched enough 60…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:00 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:18 PM
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idk, depends on who's the one introducing choking to the sex act.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:01 PM
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...what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:44 PM
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Yes, men are pornsick dengenerates that are incapable of separating reality from fantasy, what else is new?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:32 PM
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Not OP but no. Friends are people I jib jab and gossip with, but I'm not calling my friends to support me through XYZ crisis, they don't have the bandwidth of level of intimacy required to accomplish the task.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:27 PM
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tsk tsk, so salty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:16 PM
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What exactly is he performing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:28 PM
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What’s the same argument rich people use: ‘Money does not make you happy.’ ok? but after a certain point that is true though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:11 PM
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idk, per my husband when he was a fuckboy he was at his most depressed/suicidal. All he wanted was a relationship but girls kept pumping/dumping him and then locking down someone else afterwards. He felt like a loser, used, and like there was something wrong with him because girls didn't want to commit. This feeling definitely contributed to him proposing super early in our relationship. Now that he's doing the husband/dad thing he feels so much better about himself, like he has worth and someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:54 PM
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aww baby's first heartbreak.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:24 PM
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These are the standards I had when I was 20.... when I got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:21 PM
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Ancient hag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:56 AM
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...what? If I'm rare, why would I be insecure? And why are 'interesting situations' associated with dating around?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:21 AM
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Sure, he has lethal face card and I'm attracted to the twink build.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:29 PM
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5'8"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:23 PM
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For my cohort? Yes. But I can't speak to other SES/ethnic/cultural/regional enclaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:20 PM
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Apparently, I'm supposed to care very much about height. I'm also supposed to care very much about the income gap with my husband (I earn 3X his salary ) I'm supposed to care so much that I should have cheated and left him by now that fact that I haven't done so means I'm "fat" and "low value", or alternately, a "unicorn" and "high value" myself and my cohorts (middle class+, college educated, employed, stable and happy childhood, lifetime N count of 1-3) are apparently the rarest fucking things…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:30 PM
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Buying. Men who have the internal rationalization of buying sex are the same sort of men who have the internal rationalization of a rapist. I said what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:20 PM
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I think us INTP weirdos are over represented on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:16 PM
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When I was a teenager I wanted to marry Trent Reznor. Then I became an adult and realized that is a terrible idea, and completely unfeasible. However the traits that enamored me to him (immaterial and physical) can just as easily be found in the genpop, so I went out and found myself a man that embodies everything that I admired about Mr. Reznor. No settling, just growing up and realizing the practicalities of life out pace the fantasies of girlhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:15 PM
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Well I mean, I was diagnosed about 6 years ago. We had our son tested, and throughout the diagnostic process I started recognizing shit that resonated with my life/childhood (eye contact, stimming, delayed speech, atypical movements, preferred solitude, touch averse, social difficulties, etc). I started piecing things together and then worked with diagnostics team to get to the bottom of it. Back in the 90's I was just considered a weird/high strung but smart kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:03 PM
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...what? Every dude I've loved has been between 5'8"-5'10", slim to healthy build, and broke. However the unifying trait between all of them was charisma, low neuroticism, and musically talented.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:19 PM
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My dad was old as fuck when I was conceived (60), however he was very active and healthy until cancer took him out in his late 80's. Subsequently I have a bit of the sperg and I largely attribute that to my dad's ancient sperm. However I wonder how far that goes, as my son also has a bit of the sperg, but he was conceived when I was 30 and his father was 31.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:09 PM
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When he was a teenager, he learned how to play guitar. He is moderately introspective and translated his sadboy feelz into lyrics. He joined a band with his closest friends, and they played a few gigs in basements and house parties. He developed confidence and charisma playing in front of a crowd. He developed a fashion sense and paid attention to hygiene and style. He went to college and immediately joined several social groups. He made more friends and threw parties. He worked in restaurants a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:05 AM
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that is a very fit man ngl, that dude's physique is aggressively mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:07 PM
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My type is twinks; when I was chubby and when I was fit, I've always been drawn to twinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:05 PM
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...why would I do that? I have my opinion, and it has fuckall to do with blue haired type.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:42 AM
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What's it like living in a fat area? Do you become acclimated to it? Does your perception of 'fat' shift upwards?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:45 AM
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🤷‍♀️ I like my twinks smug and brooding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:18 AM
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Eh, 6/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:06 AM
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And I'm sure "sugar daddy" along with screaming "daddy" or "papi" in bed also implies literal incest as well. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck... Did you get your "yass king" DM from some blue haired monster yet? My brother in christ, what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:04 AM
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I dunno man "daddy", especially the way you framed it, its skirting very close to icky pedo shit. I'm not into it, but for those of you that are, well...we see you. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:59 PM
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username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:51 PM
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We essentially want to play the "daddy" that you also fuck. Call it creepy. Call it whatever you want. But this is what makes our dicks hard. So men are secretly incest addled pedos? and they say women are the misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:27 PM
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When the news broke about that, I definitely had a good chuckle to myself about possibly being one of the few women allowed to vote as a filthy lefty socialist scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:03 PM
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The last time this topic was brought up here, so many dudes came crawling out of the woodwork to let us know that we're all meant for the streets, we don't TRULY love our husbands, and they would NEVER wife-up women like us because we're not adequately submissive/too independent/too eager to divorce/etc. Like, alright king, go off, but maybe y'all should focus on getting a date first before you pontificate about the virtues of marriage based name changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:59 PM
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I didn't take my husband's last name, mostly cause I'm lazy and didn't want to take a day off work to go to a bunch of government offices. But also, my legal first name and my husband's last name are only different by a letter, so I'd be going around with a ridiculous name like Roberta Roberto. Oh, and at the time I believed I was the last of my "lineage", so it felt important for me hold on to that (in the intervening years my brother did end up getting married, so that rationalization ended up…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:43 PM
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👀 the drama I miss out one when I try to spend time in the meatspace.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:09 PM
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Do you remember the person who was having a mental breakdown on PPD? Apparently, he's still not well. I mean...that's at least a quarterly occurrence here, gotta be more specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:38 PM
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Y tho? She made bank for a summer and paid a good bit towards her student loans, doesn't have her butthole on the internet, and now she's stepping into a new phase of her life with her fiancé. Sounds like a win-win to me. Sorry you're so buttmad about another person's success.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:46 PM
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Funny you should mention that, I actually did tell my niece to sell molly/shrooms instead ass on OF when she was a broke college student. I'm happy to say I was her first customer. Now she's paralegal and is going to marry her fiancé this fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:22 PM
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Well so far the consequences are a loving wife and child, a nice house in a nice area, a brief stint touring with his band, and now legal employment as a music teacher. Of all the people I know who currently are or were in 'the game', only one got picked up to be an informant cause he started messing around with quantity and cartel shit. If your operation is low key and your customers are privileged, it's really no different than just another side hustle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:56 PM
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Weed, molly, and shrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:32 PM
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He sold me drugs at a frat party.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:44 PM
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The first lyrics are from Rick Ross, and the 2nd lyrics are from XXXTentacion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:51 AM
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I don't think about them at all, why would/should I? The men who matter, make the moves that matter. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:10 PM
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Pretty simple really, I don't want to get beaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:50 PM
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Don't know, don't care; still not fucking around with a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:37 PM
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Men come to us, therefore discernment is our part to play if a man harms us (especially if we know or date him), 99% of the public (and a good majority of law enforcement) will blame us for "picking wrong" life is long but fertility is short; we can't waste too much time fucking around with strangers trying to establish baseline commonalities if we want to go on and procreate with a degree of stability. I don't know you from Steve, the guy that has the bones of 5 tinder dates in his basement. Is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:33 PM
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Sure, but I never once had to suck dick to pay the bills/keep the peace/appease a man. I think my cynicism is a fair trade off in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:20 PM
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No, I just said they have a expectation of 'something'. Given that we're talking about hetero men, that 'something' usually breaks down into sexual access and intimacy. Some people are fine with that transaction, I find it distasteful. I don't consider myself for sale, which is why I've always avoided men that earn more than me. They (men who earn more than me) don't all think that way, but it seems to be an integral part of male sociosexuality so I'm safe in assuming most higher earning men, if…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:45 PM
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What don't you get? The power differential between $100k and $200k is the cage. The gilding of that cage is the $100k whos making 200k(suppose you make 100k) , who's gonna pay for most of the dates while you pay occasionally No man has ever, ever paid more and not expected something in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:28 PM
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It makes your life so much easier Wrong. A gilded cage is still a cage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:21 PM
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I mean...that kinda sounds like personal grievance rather than a fully realized ideological concept to rail against.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:33 PM
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guilty pleasure: I really like skinnytok. Its like early 2000's tumblr pro-ana culture without the performative self loathing. Just the facts 'mam, none of this wishy washy performative language about "body inclusivity" or "health and wellness".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:56 PM
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Because OP needs it to be a masculine role or else he has nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:18 PM
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Bro...what are you talking about? I feel like you're speaking as someone that's never actually had to manage people or deadlines, which is ironic for someone trying to insinuate women's inferiority at a task they themselves have probably never done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:59 PM
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"Can we get that done by next week?"- most women can't do this ....what? literally any person in a people management system has the skill of setting an expectation and a deadline. Teachers, managers, HR; all facets of a people management system, mostly employed by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:07 PM
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I've always wanted Pocahontas hair, but that's a bit drastic of a style change. If I do go through with it I'll probably get something close to my real hair type (3C curls), but a bit looser and longer (essentially what I look like when I get out of the shower, before it shrinks).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:47 AM
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Yes, it's pretty molesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:11 AM
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I look pretty good for a hag, but I'm having trouble giving in to the grey hair. Honestly, I just want to wear wigs, but my husband is emphatically against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:10 AM
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There was never a plan, just vibes. Luckily I vibed my way into a pretty good life with my husband and kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:22 AM
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That's good to hear, all your write-ups just sound so lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:44 AM
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I'm not asking if you know like minded people, I'm asking if you have friends, people who care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:36 AM
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Big ol' nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:33 AM
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17, although I had been messing around since I was 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:32 AM
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Guy, do you have any friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:30 AM
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No dating apps, just general observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:32 PM
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Men really be doing the most to make sure they don't have sex. Y'all cry so much about loneliness, and then you still act a fool. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:46 PM
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Soo...nothing? Cause I'm ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:08 PM
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My brother in Christ, I think you're having a manic episode.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:43 PM
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We need to bring back shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:49 PM
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Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:23 PM
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Yes please. My husband and I have wildly different sleep habits/hygiene, but I have a medical condition that requires heavy, uninterrupted sleep to be managed. I'm a light sleeper that wakes up to the slightest noise, whereas my husband is an insomniac that snores and jerks around in his sleep. As a result I'm constantly waking up several times a night from him walking into the bedroom, coughing, shifting, snoring, etc. So my medical condition is worsened by the low quality sleep I get. When/if …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:23 PM
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My god, you sound suffocating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:08 PM
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Meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:28 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:42 PM
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Pretty good mother's day so far; boychild wrote me a poem, stuffed my face with ratchet chinese food, watching wwe Backlash with the husband, and then afterwards I'm going to work on my DIY miniature house kit while I listen to my scifi novel and everyone leaves me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:20 PM
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Is your mom into that sort of chick lit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:58 AM
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Kinda; they were already pretty big from figure skating, but now they're crazy defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:35 AM
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I graduated to intermediate ballet, now I can finally learn en pointe at the ripe old age of hag. I'm proud of me. 🥹🧚‍♀️🩰
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:15 AM
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What? I literally just said we take rainchecks with each other if the mood strikes but the moment doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:06 PM
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I'd ask him if he had a head injury because this man has never willing traveled in his entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:58 PM
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cats, traveling, art, auntie energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:37 PM
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Barring the SA when I was 14, I've never been in a situation where I had to say "no" to sex. If I'm in a sexual environment, its because I wanted to be there. Because of what happened what I was younger, I took great pains to avoid being in secluded situations with men. My husband has a much more promiscuous past than me, so by sheer statistics he's encountered more situations where he had to firmly verbalize 'NO' to an aggressive woman. Within our marriage we've never said 'no' to each other, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:05 PM
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How to introduce a dead bedroom, step 1: placing sex acts on the madonna/whore spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:24 PM
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Well first of all congrats, but also, most people just won't value the same things we do. We can intellectually know something is hard to accomplish but...just not really care one way or another. Like, I recently graduated to intermediate ballet, no one IRL gives or fuck or has congratulated me. I know the work I put into it, but my husband, son, mother, BFF, etc. just see that I've moved on to the next class, so it doesn't mean anything to them. idk, it is what it is. If you're proud of yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:53 PM
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But like...why should they give a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:42 PM
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I came here because I was curious, saw some insane takes so I stuck around for the lulz, now 9ish years later I'm an old hag collecting data so I have better tools to help my soon-to-be-pre-teen son navigate his adolescence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:34 PM
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Great ape Vegeta, no contest. Mr. Satan was a punk bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:21 PM
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Yes. I grew up in the Americana, Norman Rockwell Midwest. Everyone is a Methodist or a Lutheran (and a few Catholics scattered about). Most families are still in tact. If you're middleclass+ you went to college, met your first or second serious LTR and married them shortly after you graduated. You moved to the Big City as a cute young couple, partied, made friends, made memories, then got knocked up and moved back to the suburbs. Repeat the cycle for another generation. I currently live in a ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:56 PM
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God damn, just how sour were those grapes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:38 PM
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idk, 35%? I think there is a base of 20% of dudes who just won't have mutual romantic relationships. This includes the severely disabled, unlucky, and uninterested. The extra 15% are dudes who meet a baseline (employed, pro-social, average looks, etc.) but are fucked in the head; anxious, neurotic, porn-sick, depressed, low self esteem, addictions, rage issues, etc. These dudes may luck into a relationship because they met the baseline plus a bit of 'right time, right place' magic, but all their…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:07 PM
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I'm not in to bulky bodies and even I can see the body on the left is more attractive. He looks more...Relaxed? Real? Healthy? Strong? crackpot theory: Despite what the bros say, the body on the right is tailored for the male gaze. There's too much artifice (which is generally the purview of women), and not enough functionality which I think triggers something tingly for women. Low body fat and vanity muscles doesn't read as "strength" to us, its pure ornamentation, but only in the ways that app…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:06 PM
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You heard it hear folks, a "British female dating and relationship coach" said a thing, and her proclamation is now 1000% true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:49 PM
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Really living up to that username.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:45 PM
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Its not a matter of niceness, its the category itself; commercial gym. The amount of people who attend a commercial gym and view it as a place open to casual sex partners is still a vanishingly small slice of the general population. You even said it your self; "EVERYBODY has a different subjective experience". My gym is a community rec center, I also work there part time. Our clientele is the local community, so we serve everyone from retirees, working parents, stay at home parents, kids, teenag…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:39 PM
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How does one go about doing this? Its right up my alley but it seems kind of expensive and impractical?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:17 PM
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So you've observed transgressive behaviors in a niche space, and then extrapolated those behaviors to the wider populace as proof that you know "The Truth" of people? Riiiight, Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:07 PM
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I've read this several times and I still have no idea wtf OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:31 PM
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Ok but this thread, right here, is anyone excusing older women for sleeping with young men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:59 PM
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when an older women dates a younger guy it's fine Did anyone in this thread say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:50 PM
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Depends on my mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:42 AM
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A little bit of column A, a little bit of column B.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:52 PM
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I don't know about meanness, but I'd say most women already have pre-existing social groups from childhood that comprise of besties, sisters, cousins, etc. If there is to be a new addition to that group, then that person has to be vetted and judged by every other member of the group. Its a lot of work that can easily upset the balance of a female social matrix. I know personally I have a tough time adding new members to my small social matrix because one of the costs of a social matrix is emotio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:32 PM
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Yesterday I decided I should try to befriend my ballet instructor. Our kids attend the same school and know each other, she works at the school and knows my son, we superficially have some things in common, and she's a warm, sweet, funny lady. As class was winding down I was working up the courage to ask her if she'd like to have a friend date/play date with her family and mine, but then she offhandedly mentioned going to church and I instantly got the ick. However I am an adult, and I realize I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:38 PM
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I mean.... look at them. Gooners, fascists, Tater Tots, NEETS; if they're not soft bellied door dash drivers "stacking cash" and "building an empire" 🙄, then they're gymcels that have crafted an entire personality from Arthur Schopenhauer's hate-wanking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:24 PM
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Found the fatty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:48 AM
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ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:13 PM
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Vincent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:08 PM
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I had a dream I tried to interview Dana White about our shared rare medical condition, but his wife was making it very difficult for me and kept running interference. Any of you folks into dream interpretation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:07 PM
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Does it matter? This whole hub bub is about due process. The is he or isn't he narrative is just that, a narrative to distract us. Or do you not think we're entitled to due process?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:52 PM
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van cleef jewelry I don't know what that is, so I googled it. That shit looks tacky as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:45 PM
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its undeniable ....you know photoshop exists, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:43 PM
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* Never go more than 1-2 weeks without some sort intimate touch (yes, even during the post partum period; an HJ or a massage can go a long way towards maintaining a connection). * Make sure 80% of your waking hours with them involve mirth, laughter, contentedness, and/or good vibes. It makes up for 20% of the time when you're shitheads to each other. * Think of yourselves as teammates rather than subordinates or adversaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:13 PM
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My 20th wedding anniversary was Sunday. We celebrated by watching WrestleMania night 2 and gorging our selves on left over Mediterranean food. 10/10 anniversary celebration.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:01 PM
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I don't understand this need to prove people are secretly lying about their preferences. Like...what drives this desire to uncover the "Truth", which just so happens to line up with some pre-conceived notions. Is it really so hard to just take people at their word? How exhausting it must be, to go through life assuming everyone is a secret liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:41 PM
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"So what's a bussy like?"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:18 PM
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Age: hag Preferred age of men: hag, +/- 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:20 AM
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Only so far, and only for certain things. Was he an abuser in the past? Yes that matters. Did he previously date blonde and bubbly but is now dating brunette and serious? No, that doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:19 PM
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I literally said skinny and sinewy; 'sinew' being the visible muscle and tendons of his body, but no bulk or size. This man is a good example, he looks like the sort of dude I'd find in the Pilates classes I teach. <image> >Do you know feel like since you put so much work into your physique, you deserve a man who puts an equal amount of effort into his? This doesn't make any sense to me at all. I work out for me, to be healthy, fit, and attractive. But I don't think I deserve a man who does X si…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:05 PM
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.....riiight, cause that's what's coming across when you post baity, contrarian replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:15 AM
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Woman: disagrees You: liar! Why are you even here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:08 AM
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I don't even know how or why I would be worried about that. If i'm attracted to a man, and he treats me the way I want, what do I care about who or what came before me? It's remarkable how many inconsequential things make some men insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:00 AM
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Well, hello number 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:23 PM
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Skinny, sinewy. Like some Willem Dafoe looking dude in a Pilates class. The amount of work I put into my body doesn't influence my expectations, but I do have a baseline of No Fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:04 PM
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Oh he doesn't work under the Trump admin, he's the ambassador FROM the country TO the USA and the rest of the world. Either way, the man is STRESSED.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:39 PM
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In December my uncle was promoted to the Ambassador of ______, a tiny Caribbean country arbitrarily on Trump's shit list. Ever since Trump's executive order spree, he's lost about 20 lbs and aged 10 years. He's been traveling across the world trying to shore up int'l support and boost tourism. Unfortunately this island relied heavily on the US tourism industry. I hate living in interesting times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:51 PM
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Wormwood is coming. ??? What does absinthe have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:24 PM
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college just an indoctrination camp. Like Charlie kirk says please tell me you're self aware enough to catch that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:05 PM
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no amount of interrogating women will ever make you feel secure about your dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:53 PM
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I've dated UMC blonde hair + blue eyed All American jocks, a Mexican ex-gang member that got his life together in the military, and a skinny, pale, long brown haired touring musician from blue collar roots. The only thing they all have in common is an appreciations of the arts (music, lyrics, sketching, etc) and a natural inclination towards charisma, gregariousness, showmanship, high sociability, and low neuroticism. I suppose physically, the tallest was 5'10" and none of them were fat. If I we…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:49 PM
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*Reads about the SAVE act* Hm, glad I was too lazy to change my last name when I got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:56 PM
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There was an OG redpill lady on PPD that has been beating this drum for years. She clocked the phenomena about 5-8 years ago, but unfortunately I think she's been permabanned (?) for being a little too based on the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:09 PM
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Its like when a college freshman from a Republican family takes philosophy 101 and discovers Ayn Rand; just an insufferable cunt spewing gibberish, high on his imagined place in the social hierarchy after everyone has "gone Galt".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:36 PM
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oh god, not another DaRk EnLiGhTNmEnT jagoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:21 PM
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If 2 broke college kid falling in love while they split a nachos bel grande is low class, then so be it I guess. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:14 PM
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On our first date I paid for my husband's Taco Bell value meal. On our second date I bought the weed. I don't really remember our 3rd date because we were already enmeshed by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:06 PM
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None, really. I was a precocious child that read A LOT, and my parents encouraged my curiosity. Despite being "trad catholics", they valued education above all else so they were pretty frank about sex, hormones, puberty, etc. There was a moral frame work to not fuck up my life with an unintended pregnancy, but my parents stayed out of my business. I've never been inclined towards religion, and I've always been a bit of a loner, so I never really jived with any sort of shame framework beyond my o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:05 AM
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Obesity really is out on control though. As I've stated before, I live in an ultra liberal UMC blue bubble, full of fit yoga moms and athletic soccer dads. Recently the family and I went to township just outside of city limits to visit a pet store. Literally everybody in the store, besides us, was obese. Eventually we exited the store and I really looked around the shopping plaza we were standing in, and again, we were the only non-obese people there. God damn. From our neighborhood to the towns…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:46 PM
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Yes and no; its a pithy statement, but I'm using it in terms of legal autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:46 PM
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Children don't have rights. What you're advocating for, is a state of being that has no legal rights. Legal and financial protections are only at the discretion and benevolence of the person responsible for you. We have a long history of human relations to see how this plays out when the Responsible Party (i.e. the married male) is neither responsible, sober, clear headed, or mature enough for the responsibility. So why should a capable woman be a "kid forever" to a man rife with moral and physi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:39 PM
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No, I find the concept "get to be a kid forever" revolting within this particular context.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:59 PM
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You get to be a kid forever basically ngl, reading that made my stomach turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:21 PM
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I am not completely sure what's bad about having a divorce but probably there is a reason to be so afraid of it. Its a bunch of thousandaires utterly CONVINCED they'll be on the hook for lifetime alimony while their ex-wife sluts it up, or some such nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:03 PM
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omg, y'all are so fucking dramatic. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:17 PM
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Why tho? It's just one anon's perspective. The world is big and tardigrades exist, no use getting in your feels about one person's shitty take.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:28 PM
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with our bodies designed to fit together perfectly. That's awfully convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:35 PM
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Eh, nah. If all else is equal, women still tip the scale with aesthetics. I'm straight as they come, but if I were forced to kiss a stranger I'd choose a woman. At least I'd have a slightly greater chance of encountering someone who is soft and smells nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:20 PM
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I feel like women aren’t as attracted to men as men are to women. Why would we be?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:09 PM
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They really want women to bear the original sin: choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:11 PM
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Is that what your grandparents were like? yes. Or do you truly believe that's what the average persons life was like? The average poor person, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:02 PM
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This was in the 50s and 60's, most of those people are still living today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:49 PM
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Its pretty simple really, you put your opinion on the internet, therefore I felt the need to let you know I think its crap. Its a debate sub. If you don't want people to respond with what they think then I don't know why you're here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:47 PM
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Caption: "Emergency Gooning kit I made, just in case I need to goon immediately anywhere I am. laptop and charger, pictures of goonsluts, tons of lube, fleshlight, earphones, and 6 terbytes worth of private goon material collection!" picture is of the various items listed in the gooning kit. Photo had 2K upvotes and was posted to the gooning subreddit that had 900K subscribers. At first I thought you were trying real hard to play dumb, but I'm starting to suspect its not an act.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:41 PM
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So DV, poverty, illiteracy, too many children, dysfunction, alcoholism, and an early death?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:26 PM
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<image> Look at this Übermensch, just brimming with sobriety and heroic ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:24 PM
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Your ignorance of a trend does not negate its existence, but said trend sure does contradict your 'man good, woman bad' solo jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:07 PM
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Real men aren’t hedonists. And yet goon caves exist. Hmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:09 PM
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Is that really a prime, or just the best employee? It should be noted this particular OP bought his SO from a homeless shelter in South America.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:00 PM
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Low key and cheap. I've had a first dates at a 24 hour diner, Lincoln Park Zoo (free), Applebee's, a dive bar, an indie wrestling show at the Elk's lodge, and picking up Subway sandwiches + hiking at a local forest preserve. If I'm chatting with a guy and into him, I don't care what we're doing or how much it costs, I'm just excited cause I'm spending time with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:47 PM
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When I was a waitress at a sports pub this is the standard attitude we had to have, especially with our regulars. We would absolutely put our arms around them, give them a hug, or sit and chat with them for a bit. I was interested in precisely 0% of my customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:15 PM
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Example of what? That gif is for mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:56 PM
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::Japanese waitress doing her job:: passport bros: look, proof of what genuine visceral attraction looks like!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:49 PM
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"Ask a man to describe the ideal woman, and watch him describe a slave."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:56 PM
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Drown them in mustard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:00 PM
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Yeah, I'd say he's better than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:33 PM
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That's a type of humiliation and psychological torment that women can never comprehend. 🙄 so dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:41 PM
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You kept a $500 scarf from a man you weren’t interested in? ....of course? He was a whole ass stranger, I have zero reason to be kind and considerate about his fuckup. That’s unkind and inexcusable Oh well. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:23 AM
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The apathy came before the playing. The Sims 4 binging was my clue that shits gone sideways in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:33 PM
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Because it doesn't exist! EA is going to run Sims 4 into the ground and supposedly release Project Rene which they've been quiet about, but I suspect its a multiplayer always online mobile cross platform crap, probably full of microtransactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:09 PM
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I've been playing a lot of Sims 4 lately, that generally means my mental health is shit and I'm burnt the fuck out. I'm so tired, the apathy has settled into my bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:47 PM
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No, I used to when we were younger but he'd get weird about it so I stopped. Although he tells me every time someone hits on him and then we have a laugh about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:15 PM
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My money pays for everything important (bills, housing, food, insurance, retirement, etc), my husband's money pays for entertainment and socializing. He earns about a third of my salary; Its been that way for 20 years, I don't see it changing any time soon. I went back to work at 8 weeks postpartum, although I wanted to go back at 6 weeks PP. My husband stayed home and raised kiddo until he was about 6, then we swapped (he went to work, I transitioned to working from home). In my perfect world I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:11 PM
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This happened to me a few years ago (replace hobby class with train ride). I kept the gift and still use it today (Burberry infinity scarf), however I made a point to avoid that train on the off chance of ever running into him again. I was very creeped out and anxious for months afterwards. I've dealt with stalkers before so any untoward kindness from strangers sets off alarm bells for me. I was also annoyed that I had to change my schedule around just to avoid this dude who took it upon himself…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:53 PM
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mom- 30, dad -60
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:59 PM
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This Valentine's Day my husband is getting a root canal (after being sick with the flu all week) and boychild told me he has a crush on the resident horse girl of his classroom (he didn't say as much, I just know her and she's the horse girl). Husband thinks we'll still be able to have some V-day action after the root canal. Bruh, I'm not sure he's gaging the pain scale correctly. 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:58 PM
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So if morbidly obese men think they're 10s does that mean they're 10s? Are they getting treated like 10s? Do they have the ability to sleep with 8-10 women without paying them? If you're a man who is overweight, you're just a far disgusting slob who deserves to be alone. Too bad, so sad. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:32 PM
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Those "fat chicks" you're referring to think they're 10s. ...so what? If they're getting what they want, who are we to tell them they're not 10s? The market has spoken.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:51 PM
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There's no evidence that men like fat women. purplish possum would like a word with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:41 PM
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They've had success in the past and see no reason to change it up any time soon. For what its worth I see way more gym bro + fat chick parings than y'all think is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:39 PM
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what do you think of a man Imma stop you there and say I don't think about him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:25 PM
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Blasphemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:30 PM
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I'm working on _____brand assets, and now I want some fucking flan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:28 PM
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I've been married for 20 years, and for 20 years we've had separate finances. I cover bigger expenses and utilities since I have the bigger paycheck, and my husband covers smaller expenses and entertainment since he earns a third of what I do. We each pay for our own miscellany (i.e. clothing, video games, snacks, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:16 PM
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Unconditional love is something that we as men give or offer, to women Oh please, it's unconditional until she talks back, gets fat, or stops fucking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:22 PM
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Porn categories =/= love
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:15 PM
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Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:07 PM
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A celebrity look alike? According to the hygienist, "a cross between Sade and old school Hilary Banks".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:03 PM
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Imagine having children with this man and having to explain this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:53 PM
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ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:49 PM
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Yesterday at the dentist the hygienist and I were making small talk about celebrity lookalikes. She said she didn't really have one, asides from Consuela the housekeeper from Family Guy. And deadass, she was a spitting image of that character. Kinda rough for an early 30's woman, but she's a married 'dog mom' so at leas she found a pot to her lid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:47 PM
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Nope. I have zero reason, desire, or opportunity to engage with conservative men (socially, professionally, communally, etc.) I've carefully crafted my blue bubble, and some man sure as shit isn't going to pop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:25 PM
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I lost 10lbs and it all came from my tits. What a fucking ripoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:11 PM
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Corporate influence You're going to have to explain it a bit further than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:47 PM
2

I mean....simps gonna simp. Wholeass art forms have been based on some dude simping for some completely uninterested lady. The tech has changed, the impulse has not. And barring some wild cataclysmic change in the future, I don't see the impulse subsiding any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:25 PM
3

wah wah wah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:14 PM
2

Yes, welcome to the clown show.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:12 PM
1

He had a deer in headlights, "oh shit" look and was quietly stammering that he didn't mean it like that and he didn't know how old she was (all the girls were wearing their school uniform) This went down on a semi crowded train, so there was an audience for this whole thing. He scuttled off at the next stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:58 PM
1

More like a cranky old lady, but similar vibes. She was definitely a hater cat, perpetually disappointed in us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:39 PM
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The leader of the group had zero chill, it was amazing to witness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:33 PM
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We're doing cats? alright, here's my gremlin (RIP). <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:28 PM
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I found it telling that the guy didn't try talking to any of the loud or boisterous girls, he zero'd in on the quiet one who's body language (relative to her friends) showed a lack of confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:18 PM
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Well shit, I'm just going to repost this from the old thread. Yesterday I observed a group of VERY LOUD Af. Amer. teen girls berate and shame an older guy (looked to be in his 40's) who was trying to talk to the quiet girl of the group. "SIR DO YOU KNOW HOW OLD SHE IS?! SHE IS 15 AND YOU ARE A NASTY PEDOPHILE" "YOU A NASTY MOTHERFUCKER" "SOMEBODY NEEDS TO BEAT YOUR ASS" God bless gen z.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:02 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:00 PM
1

Yesterday I observed a group of VERY LOUD Af. Amer. teen girls berate and shame an older guy (looked to be in his 40's) who was trying to talk to the quiet girl of the group. "SIR DO YOU KNOW HOW OLD SHE IS?! SHE IS 15 AND YOU ARE A NASTY PEDOPHILE" "YOU A NASTY MOTHERFUCKER" "SOMEBODY NEEDS TO BEAT YOU ASS" God bless gen z.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:56 PM
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Yesterday I observed a group of VERY LOUD Af. Amer teen girls berate and shame an older guy (looked to be in his 40's) who was trying to talk to the quiet mousy girl of the group. "SIR DO YOU KNOW HOW OLD SHE IS?! SHE IS 15 AND YOU ARE A NASTY PEDOPHILE" " God bless gen z.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:54 PM
1

Soup for dinner. I say yes, my husband say "your eating disorder is leaking". The soup in question is steak and potato with some oyster crackers. So who is correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:18 PM
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Probably steak and some spicy potato salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:06 PM
1

Yes, but I wouldn't call it beta behavior, more so feminine behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:42 PM
2

its kinda...plain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:34 PM
1

It's like I'm being told I'm not 'femme'-ing good enough. idk, I take particular care in my look, so if my husband bought me an outfit for his birthday its like he's signaling that he doesn't value or observe all the work I put into looking good for him on a 24/7 basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:37 PM
2

I'd prefer to be complimented on my intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:29 PM
1

I'd be deeply insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:27 PM
2

A very underrated film!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:56 PM
2

His action or inaction wouldn't have any bearing on 2nd date eligibility. For what its worth I'd find the mother annoying. Why are you taking your kid to get ice cream knowing you don't have money? And if you do have money, why are you agreeing to 3 scoops instead telling the kid they can only have 1 or 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:49 PM
1

....I mean, I'm down for some ritualist sex on the alter with a pale and bony twink of my choosing, but sacrifice to satan is just a bit extra.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:57 AM
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Why is he attractive Because he has a beautiful and delicate bone structure paired with a lithe, slightly muscled body. 🥵🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:51 AM
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Welp, so far they tried that today and didn't get anywhere, school wouldn't even open the door for them, but they did get to stand around outside in 5 degree weather for a few hours so uh....great success?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:38 AM
2

Damn, you didn't have to do him like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:20 PM
1

God I love my blue bubble. Just got an email from my kid's school talking about how we're a sanctuary city thats committed to protecting the rights of all students, and how the school is working with various agencies to make sure our migrant (and otherwise marginalized) students still receive support and education during these 'turbulent' times. Is it expensive to live here? Yes, but so so so worth it. And to think, my husband wanted to move to Indiana. I told him I'd get lynched if we did, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:16 PM
1

French toast.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:03 PM
2

Alex Jones should have become pro wrestling manager instead of a conspiracytard with an internet show. He has a background in body building, he's bombastic, theatrical, and knows how to work gimmick. Hell, he could have even done an America First conspiracytard gimmick, God knows it's been done before. Instead, he went to a weird sex party at Bohemian Grove and then proceeded to lose his god damn mind and ruin a few lives along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:08 PM
2

I guess if the only cheese option was like...a sweet cheese or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:45 PM
1

Her name is Caitlyn. Her grandmother is a hoarder, her dad votes trump, and she has a pet parrot that she's made her entire personality because its so qUiRkY. She's REALLY into romantasy and booktok drama, she also has a middling etsy page where she sells healing stone jewelry, and she's a Sims 4 supper modder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:41 PM
1

Better than the last guy I guess...but his lack of lips are concerning. subjective 6/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:34 PM
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Sorry, nothing about this man is appealing to me. I'd say he's subjectively a 3/10, but I know he's probably attractive to a larger swath of women so....idk. He ain't doing it for me tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:32 PM
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This was 11 months after I popped out my kid. WHHYYYY is it so hard to get back there?!?!?!?! oh yeah, cause I'm not burning an extra 800 calories a day just producing milk. If science could just replicate the metabolic conditions for lactation (without having to lactate) I'd be golden (and very rich).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:22 PM
1

Right. He's all puffy in the face when he's jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:49 PM
1

Bro I sweat like a hog with moderate exertion (regardless of ambient temp), damn right I'm wearing just a sports bra and yoga pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:47 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:26 PM
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I laugh, cause there's an ice skating party on Sunday that I have to sit out....or will I?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:16 PM
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I don't care for this sprained ankle bullshit. I'm so used to taking care of my husband and his bum-ass knee, having the tables turned is weird and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:10 PM
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Dating apps existed a decade ago, and girls putting out (or not) has exist since the advent of BC. 'Playing hard to get' has been a thing since, idk, The Canterbury Tales or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:16 AM
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I'm not claiming to be a 10 or anything, but that's how my husband and I got together. 🤷‍♀️ As far as I gather, it's a pretty solid strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:01 AM
1

no u.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:14 PM
1

And look at that, by replying to my message your wish came true!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:00 PM
1

He is 3 months of cutting away from looking insane. It takes years to build that much muscle mass. Congrats to him, but he's still pretty mid in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:52 PM
1

Yeah, he's pudgy and kinda bleh to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:46 PM
1

I'm grateful that live in the deepest blue bubble in Chicago, and everyone in my community is vociferously anti-trump. My mom, at 74 years old, is a hardcore socialist that thirsts for Hasan.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:12 PM
1

MY husband and I have the same middle name. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:09 PM
1

Running injury. I wasn't properly warmed up, and I ramped up my speed too fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:21 PM
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Damn, got peroneal tendonitis in my right ankle. Dr. wants me to rest as much as possible for 6 weeks. Bro, how am I supposed to do that and not get fat? I exercise so I can eat!!!! Welp, I guess its time to start up on my orthorexia bullshit again. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:58 PM
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Why does seemingly every quirky girl space turn into the Sad Fat Girl's Club for Low Achievers? I know the way I think isn't quite normative for my gender, but when I try to engage with supposedly likeminded women, I'm just confronted with a bunch of...idk...femcels that don't know how to pay taxes and hate exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:50 PM
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Its a League of Legends thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:38 PM
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He's pretty cute, I could see myself vibing with him. 7.5/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:24 PM
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No, I don't think it will happen (EO will get challenged and stuck in the courts), but it just goes to show were not working with the best and the brightest here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:24 PM
2

Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:19 PM
3

Is anyone dating someone outside of their culture a passport bro now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:17 PM
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I guess according to Trump's EO in 30 days I'll no longer be a citizen (how far back does it go?) So thats cool. My Dad came to America as a small child fleeing Italian fascism. He fought in WW2, went to school on the GI bill, became an electrical engineer, worked at NASA and Jet Propulsion labs. Started a few businesses and made a shit ton on money on the stock market in the 80's and 90's. Met my mom overseas, married her, brought her here, married her again (they had a foreign marriage license…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:06 PM
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It's like a composite of every married couple in my neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:49 PM
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I...have no idea what to say to that. I've been with a handful of men and ''dick size was never a quality I thought to judge. Almost every man is average, and thats good enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:50 PM
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Nope, thats not something thats ever crossed my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:46 PM
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?? and ?? I didn't know I was supposed to care about height until I joined reddit. All the men I've been with were between 5'8" and 5'10". I know fuck all about penis sizes, but I realized my husband's is thick and I like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:44 PM
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facial aesthetic physique (thinner the better) penis size height
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:37 PM
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idk, I think signing over your autonomy would be even more suffocating. Independence is hard, but so so so worth it when you can look some chump in the eye and tell him to piss off, cause you don't need his shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:34 PM
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I hate making decisions for myself and I hate thinking. Why tho? Doesn't it feel good to know you're in charge of your life and that its up to you to make the best of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:27 PM
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He leads in his wheelhouse, I lead in mine; then we meet in the middle and continue living our lives. I don't know why everyone tries to make it more complicated than it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:20 PM
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Why do you wait to have sex? Religious reasons? Bad past experiences? Something else? The only 100% effective BC is abstinence. I need to vet a man for future-dad-vibes before his penis goes anywhere near my vagina. Does abortion exist? Sure. Is it a financially/emotionally/mentally easy thing to deal with? Not really. Getting knocked up by some fly-by-night fuckboy is a living nightmare, I rather save myself all that heartache and just hold off until I have a clear vision of the dude, his famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:06 PM
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You know, they're one and the same really, just a bit of a pallet swap when you get down to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:19 PM
1

Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:54 PM
1

It is boring and stupid, but I can take an 2 hour lunch and have unlimited PTO I'd say the banality is a fair price to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:51 PM
2

Getting the child a haircut, and then dragging him with me to visit an old neighbor thats holding on to an x-mas package for him. Maybe a run on Sunday? OT for a project I just don't feel like doing during normal work hours. And if time allows, finish up Metaphor: ReFantazio.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:46 PM
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I mean yeah, I do earn an absurd amount of money to fiddle around in excel and sweet talk various teams to prioritize my clients. But hey, this is what the market says my labor is worth, and who am I to say otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:41 PM
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I love being the neutral party stuck between 2 factions in a corporate politicking war. 😖 Both sides have good processes, and both sides wants me to vouch for their methods. In a meeting with the bigwigs I agreed with my boss about the efficacy of particular procedure, but I can't help but feel like I betrayed my friend on the "opposing" team, as we spent the previous day bitching about said procedure. In my defense, I didn't know the full details until my boss laid it out. Bro, I just want to v…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:28 PM
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Old folks dating drama gets wild sometimes Yeah my mom currently has 3 boyfriends that take her out to wine and dine her, but she never lets them stay the night. This, coming from a very prim catholic woman that was faithfully married to my dad for 30 years before he passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:20 PM
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I'm not a fan of the BoPo movement, but you're gonna have to explain how loving yourself is "toxic by nature".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:24 PM
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I'm sure he'll make some chubby woman in Missouri named Kaitlyn very happy. But its a hard no for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:03 PM
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What qualifies as a rich woman? I grew up UMC and I've mostly maintained that lifestyle/income, but I'm not like, buying Bugattis. I've always been interested in beautiful but broke musicians, so much so I married one when he had -$87 in his bank account on our wedding day. I'm not any more busy than most corpo drones that WFH. Sometimes I pull overtime, but I'm salaried and have a pretty flexible schedule. As long as my clients are happy and I meet my deliverables, my time is to do as I please.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:43 AM
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🤷‍♀️ ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:24 PM
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True, I REALLY like how they wrote his character, it felt very...hmm...realistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:18 PM
1

Yes to cybergoth clubs, I don't really watch too many films (don't have the time), and try as I might, I just can't get into anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:14 PM
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Close, my teen years were the early 2000's.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:13 PM
1

...but why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:12 PM
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But like, why would I do that? This is "subjective 10s" not a list of mild attractive but largely forgettable dads I see at my kid's soccer games.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:08 PM
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I mean sure, he's cute, but in a very Generic Handsome Man kind way. Which is fine, I just have a thing for sickly Victorian youths hellbent on transhumanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:04 PM
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I just wish I actually liked his music. 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:01 PM
1

For me its his angular features.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:59 PM
1

Yes, I'm a geriatric millennial.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:56 PM
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As far as I gather no, I currently smell like Midnight Amber Glow courtesy of Bath and Body Works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:55 PM
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I saw this somewhere else, I thought it would be fun over here; judge me by my subjective 10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:51 PM
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Me; because he is a boy, and a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:31 PM
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Until they become old, get fat, or stop having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:06 PM
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9, but he'll be 10 by the time camp starts up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:21 PM
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Summer camp schedule for boychild: * digital animation * D&D for beginners * Vex IQ/robotics (the unofficial pathway to the highly competitive middle school robotics club) * fantasy quest LARP My husband said I put together the Middle School Nerd starter pack for our son. Hmph, well excuse me for organizing a camp schedule that reflects boychild's interests. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:14 PM
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No one who agrees with the "rule" interprets it the way you do. You would be mistaken. Without naming names and getting banned for a witch hunt, we've had several male posters on PPD argue for the rule as presented by OP. One of them has stated, several times, that he hired a private investigator to make sure his SO never gave "more" to previous relationships than she gives to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:34 AM
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Yup. But I knew him in a friendly context for at least a year preceding that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:33 PM
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I married my husband after dating him for a month, and 20 years later, after every thing we've gone through, I would still choose him. I'm also incredibly grateful that we grew together with clear hearts and minds, and that there has never been any abuse or infidelity within our marriage. Luck brought us together, but we both worked hard to make sure our marriage was something worth supporting and protecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:23 PM
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This is why we watch anything on TLC or A&E, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:28 PM
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I'm back on My 600lbs life binge watch fatspo bullshit. So far I've had a protein shake, egg, coffee, and PB on toast. Little less than 1k cals left for the day cause I'm forcing myself to take a rest day for muh shin splints. Nothing quite like gawking at bodyhorror and someone else's misery to really keep you in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:21 PM
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sonic the hedgehog idk, I fear that path leads towards ruin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:54 PM
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I think it the last time I cried was about 2.5 years ago when I was in the hospital for a kidney infection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:49 PM
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My company has co-CEOs and we're thiving, we just bought out two competitiors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:11 PM
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If there is a significant decision to be made, and you disagree with each other, who gets the final say? Whoever cares the most and/or whoever has the expertise to execute the decision. You don't just both magically wake up from bed at the same time and perfectly in sync proclaim the same decision. No, we just hash out who has more skin in the game and leave the rest up to them. It's not rocket science fam, its called ✨compromise and teamwork.✨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:31 PM
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I'm so thankful that whatever insecurity my husband has, never manifested as neuroticism and anxiety about his masculinity. Praise be, a dude thats comfortable just being a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:36 PM
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No, I never actually saw myself as a relationship kind of person. I never fantasized about being married, etc. etc. AS a child I assumed I'd be a single cat lady as an adult. But dudes asked, they entertained me, so I never really saw a reason to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:09 PM
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I have no idea, probably? I'm reasonably attractive and can be charismatic, but I might be too deadpan for certain types of women and I suppose height might be an issue (my dad and brother are 5'9", but did alright for themselves).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:00 PM
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Not really. Everyone is disappointing in some way, and I think dating would have just inflamed my low level misanthropy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:55 PM
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Gin and Tonic, but only 2 and then water the rest of the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:54 PM
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Fuck no. My dad was an Old Man (I was conceived when he was 60), so I'm sure for all sorts of Freudian reasons I'm very put off by the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:52 PM
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That man's acanthosis nigricans is out of control. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:49 PM
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Since I started dating at 15, all the way up to my current age (40), I've never been single for more than 2 weeks, AMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:48 PM
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Jesus, I remember filling that out when I was in high school. Anyway, current score is 25. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:38 PM
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How dare you describe my college dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:29 PM
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Sort of, but my feed is littered with relationship and parenting subreddits so I scroll and think, Jesus fuck how are so many people in dysfunctional and abusive relationships?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:58 PM
2

I live in Chicago, there is no field. Just a crowded lakefront, city streets, indoor tracks, and treadmills. I've considered street running, but as of now its snowy, wet, and cold. Maybe when it warms up a bit I'll venture out into the neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:56 PM
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At some point during the past month I unlocked Running, and now thats all I want to do. I've been lifting weights and doing Pilates/yoga for 15+ years, I've paid little mind to cardio except for long walks and a few HIIT sessions here and there. I think for 2025 I'm going to be A Runner. I don't have any firm goals on mind beyond being That Bitch with the bouncy ponytail, killing it on the treadmill. Boychild is in his school's running club, maybe we'll do a 5K together in April. I think for sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:34 PM
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“My classmates in HS were dating men in their late 20s/early 30s." Bro, what? At my high school the girls were dating their classmates. I do remember that at a winter formal a girl from the poor/shitty side of town brought her 21 year old boyfriend and it caused a small scandal. She was definitely mocked and bullied about it afterwards. I only know 1 other girl who dated older guys, and she was in foster care cause her family kept raping her. 🤷‍♀️ Everyone else was banging it out with their clas…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:21 PM
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What fucked up thing is going on there? Well she was raped at 14 and had a child from that, unfortunately said child was a preemie and died in infancy. I suppose that sort of thing would alter your thoughts on motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:53 PM
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OoOoOoOhHhH NoOoO
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 08:20 PM
1

I just watched a deep dive on Ash Trevino (the inmate hopper), and I feel like this woman embodies literally every complaint TRP has about the MoDeRn WoMaN. Huh, I guess I get it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:39 PM
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Women don't get to intentionally have children and then complain about how hard it is on their body because they had children and be mad at men about that, they knew what they were signing up for lol r/Mommit would like a word. I've never come across a bigger collection of women moaning about their self inflected "misery".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:20 PM
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I guess I'm hornier? But on the flip side my period is erratic and can last for 2.5 weeks. I've also found I'm more prone to cyclical melancholy, acne, and my sleep has gone to shit. Like I'll wake up one morning and just feel unbearably sad and not know why, but I'll check my period app and remember oh yeah, I'm at X point in my cycle, so no, my life isn't a domestic horror-show. Its kinda like a 2nd puberty, make of that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:41 PM
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None. But for what its worth, all my life I've felt relatively unaffected by my hormones. Its only now, in what I suspect is perimenopause, do I notice behavioral/emotional differences tied to my cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:26 PM
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She looks like a very nice woman who works at a small town bank and still attends church. She's waiting for a man of god, has 7-10 close cousins/friends, and looks after her sister's children in the mean time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:22 PM
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😬
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:52 PM
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<image> Hm, gender swap me looks like he has a youtube channel teaching people how to play classical guitar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:38 PM
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Going against nature, eh? That's exciting, I'll be sure to let my husband know we're living life on the edge according to the likes of Jordan Peterson and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:09 PM
1

That actually sounds like a good idea, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:20 PM
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Should I go to the gym today? Conditions: less than 3 hours of sleep slightly hungover everyone and their mother is at the gym today gym closes at 3pm I feel like if I went, I would be wasting my time and possibly injure myself on account of being low energy/hungover/sleep deprived. But dang, I just started a new cardio routine and I'm excited to keep going. Maybe I'll just fast today, binge on jrpgs, and get back to it tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:23 PM
1

Somehow that makes everything worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 03:43 PM
1

Queens stay winning. 💅👸
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:53 PM
2

pro tip: you'll never be anyone's best for anything ever, so its best to come to terms with that now. We're all very average, and thats ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:36 PM
1

wtf is an electric mop?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:31 PM
1

Yes, and he had a distractingly large bulge for some reason. Either way....still a shrug. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:49 PM
1

🤷‍♀️ Good for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:40 PM
8

I guess I wouldn't be surprised, he was a major slut when we met. Said child would be a young adult by now so I wouldn't be too upset, presuming they came to us for connection/closure rather than hand outs. I know my husband would be very upset though, there's a history of that sort of thing happening in his family so he would have a lot of complexes/identity crises/generational trauma to work through. Ultimately I wouldn't be happy or upset, just weary and waiting for the other shoe to drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:30 PM
1

This time its literally ripping your heart out of your chest. Sorry if thats a spoiler.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:31 PM
2

Yes I'm referring to my son, as he is a boy....and a child. If I had a daughter I would also refer to her as such, as she would be a girl....and a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:29 PM
1

....what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:25 PM
1

Pretty good! If you're familiar with Atlus and a fan of their type of game play and aesthetic, then you'll like Metaphor. The MC is more good natured/cheerful than the MC of P3 (personally I found him a bit emo).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:24 PM
1

Boo, had to skip out on a x-mas party this past weekend because boychild has a sus cough, however on the plus side I got to save money/calories and I'm half way through Metaphor: ReFantazio.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:09 PM
1

Yeh, Raw + Smackdown every week, all "Premium Live Events", not so much NXT tho. We used to watch NXT pretty consistently until AEW came on the scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:23 PM
2

? yes, I am a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:49 PM
2

Husband wants to start a wrestling podcast with me, the catch is that I'd be hussied-up so we could hook a thirsty audience (most wrestling podcasts are dudes talking to dudes). Enh, the problem is, I feel like the podcast world is SATURATED at this point. Additionally, I have zero charisma and I'm not much of a talker. He monologues, I respond with affirmative utterances. Rarely do I have the energy or room to speak at length. I know my stuff, I just rather write a treatise about Shelton Benjam…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:42 PM
1

I'm pretty sure it is. Hoteps are uh...something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:12 PM
1

Going through my photos, and I found this gem: Free food and find a husband! Courtesy of when the Hoteps posted up outside of my work building.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:09 PM
1

NYE resolution: Stay hot continue vibin' read more scifi novels
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:37 PM
1

Attend church more regularly. Ew, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:07 PM
1

Yeah gamer girls don't exist Bro its 2024, its time to put this nonsense to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:06 PM
10

From now on I'm just going to quote myself whenever this topic comes up; "What you all fail to consider when you ask us this question for the 8th time this month, is that to get the point of a relationship, all of our conditions have to be met first. By that point, we're happy with the amount and kind of effort he is putting in. Ergo, whatever he did before for other women is immaterial to the conditions of our current happiness with him, so long as he continues to satisfy our conditions. Some m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:22 PM
1

Shrug my shoulders and redirect her pent up energy into a living room dance party. Then I'd check the Nextdoor app to see if anyone else noticed a drone sighting at X park. Depending on the results I'd either forget about it or bring up what other people had to say with my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:45 PM
1

It takes a special kind of cruelty to schedule a 2 hour webinar with cameras on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:03 PM
-2

Hail Satan!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:58 PM
18

Nothing; you couldn't pay me to care about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:56 PM
7

Lol my husband has a communication degree, I have an English degree, we met at a frat party his house hosted. He toured with his band after college, and now post-covid he works as a music tutor. Despite a worthless degree and low earning power he still managed to land a 'long term mate'. Funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:06 PM
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I am so embarrassingly down bad for Viktor from Arcane. I really do have a visual type (sickly, thin, pale, angular, great hair).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:14 PM
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lol, no. Getting a worthwhile dude to commit isn't hard, and if I have to LARP as Suzie homemaker just to snag some guy who can't wipe his own ass, then y'all can miss me with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:47 PM
17

Pure, unrelenting, merciless mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:25 PM
2

It always requires conscious effort, but after X amount of time and exposure you begin to adapt to each other's preferences so eventually it doesn't feel so cumbersome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:15 PM
2

I think of it more like mental freedom, or, not having to consider someone else when you think about, well, anything. Like, I don't want to go grocery shopping, and I'm happy to eat Saltines and peanut butter for dinner. But I know my partner likes eating real food so I have to grocery shop with his preferences in mind. Or, I like road trips but my partner doesn't, so I plan vacations involving air fare instead of driving somewhere 16 hours away. I like watching cheesy Korean dramas, but I'll sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:56 PM
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Every fat woman knows she's fat. There is no reality check, she's not blissfully existing in western society unaware of her size. Since her first Barbie, her first Disney film, her first exposure to western mass media, the first snicker behind her back, the woman knows she's fat. Her resolve and dedication to change is wholly up to her; if she doesn't think its worth it, or doesn't have the space for it, then thats it. No amount of haranguing, shaming, or "brutal honesty" is going to change anyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:04 PM
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1.) There is nothing to be gained by insulting someone about their looks. 2.) "If you don't have anything nice to say, its better not to say anything at all."-every sweet grandma, ever. 3.) I don't find obese bodies attractive. But I can look at an obese friend and pin point something about her that is attractive to my perception; Style, makeup, hair, nails, etc. Because of points one and two, I'll gloss over the obese body (which as a woman raised in western society, she already knows is unattr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:12 PM
7

When I married my husband he had -$87 in his account. At no point in my life have I ever cared about how much a dude makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:51 PM
3

Nothing changes. Go ahead and try living with a woman scorned. Let me know how that works out for you on the peace and domesticity front.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:25 PM
1

Used to, about 3 years ago we moved to the north side.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:37 AM
1

2.5k is about 1.55 miles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:35 AM
2

I teach pilates part-time on the weekends, so it's nice to have a seemingly endless amount of studios to freelance at.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:33 AM
1

Where I live there are at least 30+ fitness options within 5 sq. miles. Budget chains, private clubs, high end chains, sooooo many pilates/yoga/barre/spin studios, a brand new rec center, and the YMCA. It's nice living in a fitness bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:18 AM
1

Nope, they are the definition of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:20 PM
0

No troll, just truth. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:19 PM
0

These guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:15 PM
-1

After moving from college to the city, I've only noticed two good looking men amongst the gen-pop over the past 15 years. High standards or slim pickings?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:48 PM
1

I just wanted to explode diet cokes with mentos with THE BOIZZZZ Lol, for me it was 'Operation Wang Chung', which involved super soaker drive-bys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:07 PM
1

Jeez...its high school all over again. Here I am with 91 masc. and 90 fem, "undifferentiated".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:55 PM
1

Same, I got 91 masc, 90 fem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:51 PM
1

Femboy, as long as he's skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:48 PM
2

I dont know why, but I laughed so hard at this picture. Like tears in my eyes, out of breath, tension release kinda laughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:58 PM
3

<image> Yeah, that pretty much lines up with how I feel about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:01 PM
6

Never. I actually don't feel all that feminine or masculine, but I present as extremely feminine, and that seems to be good enough for the men I've dated. I don't mind performing femininity to get along in this world, so it's not something I'm anxious about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:54 AM
6

emulating the same warm caring loving and compassionate unconditional love their mother showed them in life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:20 PM
1

I had a good relationship with my father, but he had zero input or opinion on who I dated. He trusted I had a good head on my shoulders, so he felt no need to meddle. My parents left dating up to me, which worked out in everyone's favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:05 AM
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I'm sorry, what? Anecdotally, I live in Chicago with my musician husband (formerly touring, now a tutor). I'm a marketing director and I believe he did the dishes tonight. Idk why you find women living with a man they love to be such a derisive concept; I'd ask who hurt you but it's a meme question at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:37 AM
2

Self preservation is brainless? Interesting take.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:24 AM
3

Too many 'poisoned m&ms', take it up with your brethren if you don't like the generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:21 AM
2

My question is why a woman who is 7.5 is wasting her life and becoming more musculine in modern workplace which creates testosterone and ages you rapidly? Because a man is not a plan. Everyone on this planet has to earn their keep, some rather do it with their brains than on their backs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:15 AM
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Strange men in close proximity to vulnerable kids and stressed out/overworked/distracted mothers. Hmmm what could possibly go wrong.....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:03 AM
1

I'll compromise and sacrifice for a relationship that meets all my requirements, OP did not describe that relationship. To wit, if standards aren't met, then there is no relationship. What OP described is not standards met, I don't know why this is incomprehensible for you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:45 PM
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What you all fail to consider when you ask us this question for the 8th time this month, is that to get the point of a relationship, all of our conditions have to be met first. By that point, we're happy with the amount and kind of effort he is putting in. Ergo, whatever he did before for other women is immaterial to the conditions of our current happiness with him, so long as he continues to satisfy our conditions. Some men are willing to have relationships with people that don't satisfy their …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:43 AM
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Why should men always make first moves? Because there's 4 billion of y'all, if you don't make a move then someone with more skin in the game will.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:24 PM
1

Went ice skating yesterday, it felt good to be back on the ice (competition skater from 4-11, and then showcase skater until 17 years old). However, I was once again reminded that I've always been a very athletic person, or at least I've always taken to athletics easily. There was a short window where I could have done something with this skill, but everyone in my life told me it's better to exploit my mind rather than my body to make a career. I suppose they were right, but sometimes I can't he…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 06:27 AM
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Stretch marks are a gamble (my mom was wrecked, I had none), but pre-pregnancy fitness and a controlled diet (especially during breastfeeding, which is like free weight loss if you do it right) are force multipliers for getting back to 'normal'. I was so so so scared I'd end up with that floppy mom belly since my mom had it, but it never happened to me. Was it genetics or fitness? Idk, but I'll always argue it's better to go into pregnancy with a fit muscular body than to try and start from scra…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:55 AM
1

And every woman in my social circle post pictures of theirs pets, crafts, gardens, fancy food, artsy photos of nature or traintracks, or whatever. Anecdote versus anecdote; why is your's more valid than mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:28 AM
2

Get super fit beforehand, you at least give yourself a better chance at "bouncing back". 10 years out, I think the biggest change for me was that I went up a shoe size.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:23 AM
11

Oh boy, you sure got us this time. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:15 AM
-4

Ok cool. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:32 PM
1

No; I care about my men and their troubles, I have zero fucks to give about other men and their supposed problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:02 PM
4

I recently found out my relatives have been (snidely) calling me bougie behind my back. You know what, I ain't even mad. Its true, and I've been that way ever since I was a prissy little girl. 💅💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:25 PM
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the main harm to women is the loss of simping and betabuxes Sooo...nothing of value was lost then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:41 PM
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hot pockets! Of course I heard that as the jingle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:35 PM
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Because its a dumbfuck concept thats been beaten to death already. Threatening to withhold something nobody wants amounts to little more than a tantrum. Unwanted men satisfying themselves artificially doesn't mean anything to people who can already get their needs met in the meatspace. Like...congrats you got yourself a Joi? But the rest of us will be over here doing meatpsace things like fucking, dating, marrying, having kids, having fun, growing old together, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:31 PM
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LV Men: If you don't want us we'll just get AI girlfriends. Everyone else:
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:18 PM
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OP: "I've never been invited to a birthday party" also OP: "I got a 1580 on the SAT when I was 11 years old and only knew math from my middle school algebra I and geometry classes. Again, no it's not impressive, and this type of delusional thinking is the problem with female socialization." 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:50 PM
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Casual and accessible, my kid will be in tow and the guests are from silicon valley. I'm leaning towards Au Cheval; kinda trendy, but has items my kid will recognize and eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:37 PM
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Ravenswood, but I'm leaning towards keeping it in the loop cause I think (?) thats where my guests are staying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:13 PM
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Really? I had the impression there were a lot of PPDers from Philly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:58 PM
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I live in Chicago, but I have no idea where to take an out-of-town guest for lunch on Sunday. I don't go anywhere, and I'm paralyzed with choice. Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:55 PM
1

Fair enough, at least you're reading something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:35 PM
1

Fair enough, at least you're reading something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:35 PM
1

why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:31 PM
2

Just finished Children of Ruin, about a quarter way through Project Hail Mary, about to start Children of Memory, and then when I'm done with Project Hail Mary I'm going to try to get back into Seveneves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:31 PM
3

God damn I love scifi novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:01 PM
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8.5, does that make me Stacy-lite or high tier Becky?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:10 PM
3

Nope, no one is asking that creepy ass question besides you, but if you must know, 25,451,897 mystery dicks. In fact in 2012 and 2013 I won the Guinness world record for most amount of mystery dicks fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:40 PM
3

I'm not arguing that everyone can achieve this, but I will take issue when people men claim no one can achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:03 PM
28

Ahh yes, the ever evolving goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:47 PM
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anecdata is the best data. I married my husband at 20. Had our kid at 30, and transitioned to permanently working from home. Still ascended the corp ladder, now I'm 40 and weighing if I want to stay at the director level or make the hop to VP. Husband has a career in music, and with that lots of flexibility. Kiddo is happy and healthy, good student, lots of friends, and a decent soccer player. We're homeowners in a nice middle class+ neighborhood, paid off our student loans, and we own our cars.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:41 PM
19

Right. Like that demo is me, and damn near all my peer. We're not rare, we just don't make waves and quietly live our lives 'having it all'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:11 PM
1

Bro, this is the 2nd time I've had drinks this year (the last time was 4th of July). Frankly I don't really like alcohol, but I was gifted a bottle of Ponche Kuba from my aunt, and I fucking love Ponche Kuba.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:09 PM
1

I had 4 drinks on Saturday, and ate a massive burger yesterday. I feel the need to 'cleanse' myself today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:51 PM
2

I think I'm going to fast today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:46 PM
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All I would think is 'Neat'. I don't know why aligning with me on politics would make me question his sexuality? like....what? Quite frankly I'm more likely to assume a dude is a closeted if he's all up Trump's asshole and identifies with the bro-sphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:24 PM
2

I agree with you. I never understood why there was so much kvetching about this topic, as at least anecdotally, myself and the women in my life have manage to acquire all of 'it'. But I will say there is a scaffolding of support and privilege baked in; likeminded partners who deliver on their share of the domestic load, and family friendly work place policies. If the partner lacks, or has rigid ideas about who should carry out the domestic load, then that woman is going to be stretched thin. Lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:16 PM
1

Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:01 PM
0

Gimpgirl! I miss that bald, anorexic Russian cuckquean.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:06 PM
1

When I was a pairs figure skater, my partner was a nebbish, judgemental, homeschooled nerd with a massive Christian superiority complex. I low-key hated him, but we had good choreography together. At least at my rink, partners didn't date each other, precisely because we spent so much time together our relationships developed like siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:02 PM
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Some men have kids with trash women Too bad, so sad; maybe he should have vetted better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:48 PM
1

ew. I know 3 people that have died from reckless driving (2 at fault, the 3rd was a victim). Reckless driving is some dumbfuck low IQ bullshit, and I will forever sneer at assholes that needlessly put other people at danger just so they can feel cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:33 PM
1

No, that seems silly and like a waste of money. I'd trust him, but I'd be curious as to why girlie is tagging along on a guys trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:23 PM
2

I think my son is finally old enough (and weird enough) to enjoy Homestar runner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:27 PM
1

I think dating coaches (and life coaches, health coaches, etc.) are a scam, so it speaks to a sort of gullibility I find unattractive. I also greatly value autodidacticism as a life virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:29 PM
3

🥵 hot AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:20 PM
1

Do you get the ick/lose interest? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:16 PM
2

So what does he have to say about the matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:19 PM
5

Do men understand how much they cockblock themselves? Like, truly understand? For all their complaining about little to no sex, you'd think they'd be conscious of, and working towards, negating the behaviors that turn people off from having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:13 PM
5

I guess Adam? I'm a introvert, if I was paired with another introvert we'd probably just rot in our house together.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:06 PM
5

yes, I'd say radio overplay but also coinciding with the rise of meme culture, so the 'hate' amplified by becoming a meme to hate Nickleback. A self reinforcing cycle if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:48 PM
5

Yes, what a weird question to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:07 AM
10

Extremely off putting. My first date with my husband was at taco bell, and I kept badgering him that we should order from the value menu.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:12 PM
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Yes, a good friend of mine. She had her first child in high school, then her parents watched kiddo while she went to school and became a nurse. Along the way she met her current husband and they had her 2nd kiddo like..12ish years later. Seemingly happily married, just living life and doing the family thing for our age cohort.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:10 PM
5

hello from another urban Midwest bubble!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:06 PM
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If I'm with him, that means I already approve of the treatment he's giving me, and I have zero concept or care about previous women. Frankly, I'd be relieved if he was cheap with me, it means he's learned financial restraint and has grown past the childish desire to impress with his wallet. ETA: regarding the streamers, the same applies so long as he's not engaging in that behavior while with me, because then we're getting into cheating/boundary crossing behavior. If he did it in the past but no…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:47 PM
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And don't forget the guys in Borneo who fucked a shaved baboon in a wig for years until the baboon was rescued.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:53 PM
1

More so hallways, bathroom, kitchen, and living room. The last time she was at our house she had to side shuffle through the hallway to avoid knocking shit off the walls. She was unfortunately gotten bigger since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:04 PM
2

We have very narrow hallways, a small bathroom, and a cramped kitchen. I noticed at the last party she had trouble moving through the house (i.e. had to sideways shuffle through the hallways, wheezing going up the stairs, etc.) and she's only gotten fatter since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:53 PM
1

less hate, more mockery. Being Peter Thiel's personal adrenochrome boytoy is a lifelong L he can't escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:49 PM
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🤷‍♀️Maybe, I don't dislike her, and as far as I know she doesn't dislike me or my husband. However it is factual that she's gotten a lot bigger in the 20 years I've known her, and our house is just not accommodating for someone at her dimensions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:39 PM
3

Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:31 PM
4

I know its altered, but god damn I hate pudgy fat fuck faces like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:31 PM
1

No, but our hallways are narrow, the bathroom is small, and our kitchen + living room gets crowded easily. Its fine for a family of 3 slim sized humans, but she's gotten big enough that she'd have to side shuffle down a hallway to avoid knocking shit off the walls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:22 PM
4

Mean girl hot take: my husband's BFF and his wife declined an invite to our Halloween party. My husband was pretty bummed and wondered if there was some bad blood between them, as they didn't offer a reason for not attending (previously if they declined invites they'd tell us it was because a work conflict, as the BFF works in live music). I know they don't owe us a reason, but I low key suspect its cause the wife has gotten too fat for our house (we live in a very old Queen Anne style house, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:56 PM
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If a man is attracted to a woman & she reciprocates. He will love her forever & unconditionally. Those are your words. "If women make a guy a good deal & dont become beached whales"-condition for a man's love "The only thing a guy wants is SOME of your prime & SOME of your mid 20s."-condition for a man's love "not be like the millenial girls who have hoed their life away & are now fat & old. THAT is not a fair deal & they dont deserve our love."-you, literally spelling out the conditional terms …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:34 PM
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Women can do whatever they want & we are expected to take them on after they are used up? You're the one claiming men love unconditionally, and then immediately following up with conditions. I don't think you know what 'unconditionally' means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:09 PM
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My sexually history prior to my husband was pretty tame. When I met him I implied I had slept with more people and done far more crazy things in bed. I wanted to give the impression I was a fun cool party girl (cause thats the type he was into), and not at all a nerd trying to re-invent herself. In any case he figured out the truth relatively quickly, but he wasn't mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:41 PM
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you are 1000% correct, and your comment needs way more upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:23 PM
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I find sex to be kind of a boring topic (not to be confused with a boring experience), or maybe I'm just a smidge on the asexual spectrum. I started having sex at 17, and I was largely unimpressed by the discourse surrounding it all. I got together with my husband at 20 and did all sorts of crazy stuff with him, but it was always at his behest. For 20 years I've had sex at a minimum, 2 times a week (not include the 6 week post partum period). So thats roughly 2100+ instances of full PIV sex (mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:36 PM
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🤷‍♀️ ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:57 PM
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Handsome and faithful, I don't need some dude's money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:16 PM
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Tell that to all the dry wall/closet doors/etc. with fist holes in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:21 PM
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My husband was a SAHD during kiddo's early years and it was fucking amazing. He was happy, I was happy, and kiddo was happy. Now I'm stuck at home, he's miserable and commuting, and kiddo is still happy, but the dynamic has definitely shifted in our household (there is a miasma of tradcon-ism lurking in the shadows, I don't care for it). I go stir crazy and my husband is tired all the time. If we could flip roles we'd do so in an instant, but alas, our jobs/the economy necessitate where we are f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:48 PM
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Boooo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:18 AM
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I am!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:18 AM
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Why is that man suffocating that child to the right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:07 AM
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Is it problematic that I take advantage of an illness to extensively fast? Yes. Is it more important to be skinny queen? Also yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:43 AM
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I see this happening in offices with a dominant youth culture and frequent happy hours. My first corpo job was a funnel for new graduates, so lots of hooking up and eventually a wedding or 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:31 AM
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This is disgusting, y'all are disgusting people, and you absolutely need to be kink shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:15 AM
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Reading this as I sit in a locker room prepping before I go teach a packed Pilates class full of nip/tucked mommies and professional hot girls, but sure, we don't put effort our appearances. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:58 PM
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I'm having a delicious breakfast thats making me very happy, and I just wanted someone to know. Guava and sweet cheese empanada, with a side of passion fruit mousse on top of full fat Greek yogurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:20 PM
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Nope. Maybe he should have thought about that before marrying a woman not into 3somes anymore. tough titties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:18 PM
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There are dozens of us!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:41 PM
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Life is short, why would I do that to myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:58 PM
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I need some more emotional connection out of her. Honestly, I don't think she's interested in that. The mature and clear minded move is to state what you want, so the ball is in her court if she wants to engage with you on that level. Is there a way I can make her chase me more (emotionally)? Not really. Its the year of our lord 2024, if she wanted to, she would.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:55 PM
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Jesus Christ, "Okay go find another guy" or "Go talk to your other guys" just a screams insecure, petulant, and butthurt. Acknowledging other guys at all already tells me everything I need to know about your sate of mind, your sense of self, and your complete lack of belief in your own ability. And more importantly, it shows I'm not desperate as I'm telling her to go Its doing the exact opposite; its transmitting inept weakness and admitting you don't have what it takes to capture her attention.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:39 PM
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My brother in christ, women gamers are neither rare nor special, and women gamers in relationships with male gamers is so fucking common it's passe. Good damn, like 15 years ago I witnessed a legit wedding (with an officiant and everything) between a man and woman in WoW.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:13 AM
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Meanwhile, I'm helping my husband grind BG3 while he helps me with D4.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:57 PM
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RAGE. My mother lives in a 4 flat apartment complex. She's a quiet, polite woman, and keeps to herself. Yesterday one of her downstairs neighbors (MAGA tards) accosted her while she was getting the mail. They called her a "Haitian rat" thats "ruining our country" and told her to "go back to her shithole". Totally unprompted, she was always on good terms with them, or at least she thought. 1.) she's not Haitian 2.) she is from the Caribbean (has a thick accent), and her country is also dealing wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:59 PM
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"🤷‍♀️" followed up with, "you can probably just order them off Amazon".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:21 PM
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Many successful men tend to stay with their partners who were with them before they achieved their success. MacKenzie Scott (formerly Bezos) would like a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:16 PM
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Or he's pimping her out to get by; but sure, sure, its just two kids in love right? them against the world and all that. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:56 PM
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It's functionally like chapstick, but for nipples.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:12 PM
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Are you Gimpgirl's husband? If so, did you sell her to the Russian army yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:10 PM
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No, because I'm not a neurotic mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:29 PM
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People on this sub should stop talking as if a paternity test were a fidelity test, Except the men here wield it as such, so if the shoe fits, wear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:21 PM
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No, you see they keep the fantasy alive by believing they'll be able to cycle through fresh 20 year old's when the latest one ages out. Leo does it, so why can't they!?!?1
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:46 PM
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I really wish we had a gif of the whole interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:43 PM
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ok? and I live in a VERY woke, liberal UMC neighborhood in Chicago and I'd have to actively search for overweight and out of shape men who mostly congregate in lower SES neighborhoods on the south and west side. Additionally, the suburbs are full of conservative/Trump supporting obese men. All of this to say, using our general surroundings to extrapolate judgements against demographics of people is a fool's errand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:41 PM
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"dumped a load", "304", "ghosted", "busted face and stank like Newport's", "seemed willing". None of those phrases describe having good, mutually desired sex with a mutually desired partner. To me, they convey an overriding sense of disgust and disposability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:55 PM
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Sometimes it's just cleaning out the pipes but doesn't that seem rather short sighted? If you dump a fuck into trashpig just to clear out the pipes, but now that trashpig is pregnant with your child, like.....was it really worth it? And don't say BC exists, god knows there's enough people on this planet that probably shouldn't be here despite the prevalence and wide scale access to BC. I just feel like men's claim that sex = love is grossly disingenuous when cum-dumps and trashpigs are a known c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:46 PM
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Because it be like that sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:37 PM
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I understand the argument or variety, what I find funny is the exaltation of sex/desire/lust into damn near religiosity...but then turn around and have casual sex with people that disgust them. There's a dissonance there that makes it hard for me to take men's words seriously. If you (general you) feel love with sex, then why are you fucking a trashpig you can barely tolerate? Where is the "love" in that interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:24 PM
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Men: passionate sex and physical connection are how we feel and express our purest form of love; without reciprocation we feel like an intangible part of us is broken and rejected. Also men: So I dumped a load in a 304 I picked from Tinder. I ghosted her afterwards cause she had a busted face and stank like Newport's, but whatever, at least she seemed willing. 🤔 make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:02 PM
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Not me spreadsheets and color coded binders to plan all of my vacations 6-12 months in advance. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:14 AM
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Curious, how old do you think these women are? Woman A Woman B
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:33 PM
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Ah yes, my poor life choice to *checks notes* be nice to the weird kid. Fuck me for saying hello to him at the bus stop, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:18 PM
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Your body; titty meat, sparse body hair, wide hips, short trunk, narrow shoulders, low muscle tone. I had a roommate with that condition and his body resembles yours. However you do have a sizable schlong, so you got that going for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:39 PM
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On the flip side, I recently discovered I'm actually 5'2", not 5'3".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:21 PM
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1.) lose some weight/gain some muscle 2.) look into genetic testing regarding klinefelter syndrome 3.) Nothing about how you describe yourself conveys fun; above all else, young women want to have fun and they'll be drawn to dudes who can give them those experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:57 PM
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where he admitted he and his friends used to take drunk or drugged women to run trains on. How these happen is usually one guy of group will find a woman willing to have sex, bring her back to their place where everyone is waiting, and then convince her to have sex with all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:48 PM
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There actually was a movie (and novel) about the case, aptly called Women Talking).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:21 PM
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"These nighttime attacks were denied or dismissed by colony elders until finally it was revealed that a group of men from the colony were spraying an animal anesthetic into their victims' houses to render them unconscious." "In the morning we couldn't get up because we were half anaesthetized," he recalls. "We couldn't move… We didn't know what happened, but we knew something had happened. "And it wasn't just once - they were here twice those men." "While the whole family was drugged and incapac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:16 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:13 PM
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Are we talking about IRL or celebrity? In terms of celebrity; I was OBSESSED with Brand Renfro (RIP) when I was a pre-teen, and then Trent Reznor when I was a teenager. As of 2024 the Trent Reznor obsession has not abated. IRL all my crushes turned into my boyfriends, but the most consequential and passionate crush was my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:43 PM
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Reminds me of that case in South America of an Amish (or Amish adjacent) society wherein a rotating group of men from the community would drug the women and girls of the commune with bovine tranquilizer and then go on rape sprees throughout the night. This went on for years, fathers teaching sons, hundreds of rapes, it only came to light when the women started talking amongst themselves and piecing together what was happening to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:33 AM
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UMC-ish; college educated, home ownership, international vacations, stock market investments beyond retirement funds, private education, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:47 AM
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Why would a man rape, which every man can? Idk, maybe you could ask the third of your brethren who would do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:41 AM
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Pedantry isn't as clever as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:01 PM
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Yes, but I'm surrounded by lifelong marriages, to the point that I don't intimately know any divorced people. Parents, grandparents, in-laws, half siblings, cousins, aunts and uncles, peers, etc. We're not particularly religious or conservative, just a bunch of lazy catholics in the Midwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:00 PM
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Yes, welcome to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:20 PM
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Children of Time Anathem The Passion of New Eve Grapes of Wrath The Story of Avis
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:04 PM
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If it wasn't for my heterosexuality and libido I would have already cloistered myself away in some sort of asexual witchy coven. As it stands, the only males I trust are my father (deceased, but a good man), my husband (has my dad's energy and vibe) and my son (he's still a child). The rest of y'all can kick rocks and fuck coconuts for all I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:41 PM
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Fam this is reddit, we're gonna need a TL;DR.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:24 PM
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Y'all weren't here for gimpgirl, she was the GOAT.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:45 PM
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how embarrassing, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:41 PM
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I hope that kid has an amazing mom like I do to make up for it Same. At least I know the grandparents are looking out for him; after the ex-wife/mom drops him off on Friday afternoon, about a half hour later grandma and grandpa show up and the boy (I think he's 4) heads out to their car with his little backpack and stuffed animals in tow. 🥺 They return on Sunday night and mom picks him up early Monday morning. Whereas dad stumbles in and out of the house all weekend drunk as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:58 PM
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Sorry, you're not going to be able to equivocate fucking around on reddit with neglectful parenting and alcoholism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:50 PM
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I mean look in the mirror? What? I'm not the one with partial custody, an alcohol problem, and neglecting my child. Hell yeah I'm going to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:41 PM
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Oh god....its true. He already started up with the crypto BS when he found out my husband is into computers. Fuuuuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:37 PM
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Maybe if he wasn't a drunk who neglected his kid during their weekend visitation I'd be a bit more sympathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:35 PM
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Our new neighbor is a divorced dad with part time custody (and a lowkey alcohol problem) trying to be a fuck boy. He's trying to befriend my husband by talking about his tinder dates (or lack thereof), but my husband wants nothing to do with him. He's about 33 or 35, mildly overweight, stable job (welder), has his kid on the weekends but usually grandma swoops in and takes care of the boy because he usually Hungover. He's so....mid. I don't know anything about his divorce, but its like I can alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:24 PM
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I believe the concept began in the 1980's, but it was 1996 that it got a big push of federal funding/programing, and then again in 2000. I started high school in 1998, so the Elder Millennials were test cases for the whole concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:38 PM
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Midwestern, biracial, grew up nominally religious, daughter of Catholic immigrants. My peer group were "The Good Girls" who got straight A's, ran for student council, babysat, nominal Lutherans or Methodists, never broke curfew, and had chaste relationships with their generically Christian boyfriends. None of us went to church, but our generation was ground zero for Abstinence Only Education reforms. Plus our community was under siege by the Young Life cult evangelical Christian organization. Go…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:23 PM
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I think the definition is 4 or more people shot/killed. The NIU event was 5 killed, 20-something injured.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:54 PM
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Its interesting how the human brain processes different kinds of trauma. I was sexually assaulted when I was 14. Some Law and Order SVU, courtroom drama type shit. My trauma response was that I become completely unhinged. Wailing, screaming, tantrums, unalive attempts, deep depression, self injury, eating disorder, involuntarily stay at a psych hospital, you name it. I still have visceral feelings about the matter. But then I witness a mass shooting and I feel...nothing. Just a blankness where I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:43 PM
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😺 Dogs are needy and smell bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:14 PM
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No, its nothing intense, just this weird disorientation. I was in that lecture hall and I saw some shit, but I don't feel anything about it. I didn't feel anything then, I was remarkable calm and on auto pilot. I suspect I disassociated the entire event just to get through it, literally. Immediately afterwards life just...went on as usual. I returned to work after 3 days, eventually moved, made a career, had a kid, and here I am 16 yeas later. Its just strange, I have my memories and the facts, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:11 PM
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at my uni, you don't spend 4 years in the dorms. 1 year is mandatory for incoming freshmen, then everyone gets off campus apartments after that. scrunchies/hair ties on the door handle meant privacy/do not enter/we be fucking in here. but also, we hardly spent time in dorms to begin with. We were either at class, a job, a club, or out partying somewhere. Older students who couldn't/wouldn't get apartments were given 2-4 bedroom suites that had private bedrooms and 1-2 bathrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:41 PM
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Has anyone here been a part of, or witnessed a mass shooting? I have, the NORTHERN ILLINOIS UNIVERSITY Valentine's Day mass shooting in 2008. I'd say I generally forget about it in my day to day life....but whenever there's a new mass shooting I remember and I just feel...weird. Is this PTSD? Somewhere out there is CNN footage of an attempted interview with me and I am just complete shellshocked, unable to form complete sentences or say anything useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:35 PM
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Preach this shit from the Heavens, this comment needs its own post. 👏👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:43 PM
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They've been killing each other longer than I've been alive, and I suspect they will go on killing each other long after I'm dead. So I just don't really care. If that makes me a genocide apologist oh well, I've been called worse. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:02 PM
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All those words and only 1 comma. wew lad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:08 PM
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A fat dude passport bro-ing across the world (and directly paying for at least ~75% of them), and then dispassionately telling PPD of his exploits (when nobody asked) just seems like a very....small existence. The last time you were living your best life, did you feel the need to hop onto PPD and tell everyone? Wouldn't PPD be the furthest thing from your mind if you were having the Time of Your Life? He can do what he wants, and I can think its weird and sad. My feelings on the matter can be su…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:48 PM
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Sounds like the guy is having the time of his life Not really. It all sounds very deflated and cynical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:43 PM
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Because he lives a depressing life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:12 PM
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Yeh, as long as its not skinny fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:04 PM
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Niche max. The archetype that has a stranglehold on my sexuality is a 5'6" 130lbs goth daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:47 PM
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well yeah, men don't wanna hear about my poetry books either I am not a man, but I am interested in your poetry books.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:18 PM
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Most recent book I read was a biography of Abe Lincoln, try talking about that to a female it will put them right to sleep. Yeah cause that shit is boring as fuck. Talk scifi with me at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:17 PM
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mature than any woman I have ever dated. Met at a bar (she had a fake). 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:11 PM
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I dont understand, did her SO bring her a cut-out of her favorite kpop star? If so, good for her I guess. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:07 PM
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Nah, my mom is my biggest supporter, she absolutely has blind spots regarding my behavior, and will ALWAYS take my side in any argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:54 PM
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Who is more miserable? 1.) new moms with an unsupportive partner 2.) menopausal women after 15+ years with an unsupportive partner 3.) inkwells/forever alone/unwanted men 4.) your average r/TwoXChromosomes poster
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:46 PM
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If he's not a lawyer, I'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:55 AM
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somehow that all sounds worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:41 PM
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ur life is fulfilled because ur following ur biological purpose of spreading ur seed. But isn't the whole sperm donation process anon? In which case, you have no idea if yours was selected...so functionally this is just more complicated masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:33 PM
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Meanwhile my husband was a huge slut whilst unironically wearing DBZ t-shirts and displaying his DBZ action figures in his apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:58 PM
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Honestly I wish more public schools did guitar or piano lessons though. These orchestra instruments rarely ever stick around in these kids lives. Funny you should bring that up, cause the info letter from the orchestra teacher made a specific point that kids who have experience with string instruments when they're young have an easier time transitioning to guitar or bass when they're a bit older.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:51 PM
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Viola or trumpet? Boychild has the option of joining band or orchestra, but he can't decided between either instrument. Even though I'm a former marching band kid (flute), I vote viola, because trumpets are fucking loud and jazz sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:43 PM
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Because this suggests status signals, and/or stereotyping. Yes, niche-max. I'm into musicians with long hair wearing masc. jewelry. These two guys project a style/niche/status that attracts me, whereas this guy projects a style/niche/status that actively turns me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:41 PM
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The last time there was a purge, maybe a year or two ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:13 PM
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" We coulda been living in trees eating mangoes with our titties out, but instead we gotta deal with credit scores and taxes." I think about this quote at least once a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:49 PM
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That was the consensus from PPD, men and women doing the rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:12 PM
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We already had the face/body reveal thread, and of the women who participated they were all in the 6-8 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:01 PM
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idk. 🤷‍♀️ I don't consider myself any more or less sexual than an average, healthy, 40 year old woman. Sex matters in the sense that if I'm not having it with my husband, then something is wrong in our marriage. I consider sex/physical intimacy the barometer for our connection and the health of our relationship. If I wasn't in a relationship, I probably wouldn't think about sex except once or twice a month (ovulation). How comfortable are you being sexual? I'm not sure what you mean by this. I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:50 PM
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Same. I'm thrilled with the idea of thrifting, upcycling, $5 pack of t-shirts, homemade shit, discounts, sales, coupons, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:59 PM
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I'm very anti-spending money on jewelry, its such a stupid waste of resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:53 PM
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I've never had make up sex, it literally doesn't make sense to me. If we have a disagreement, then that shit needs to be hashed out with words/a resolution reached before my vagina will respond to anything. I suspect my husband thinks in those terms, but I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:51 PM
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I'd be swooning if he found a nice necklace on the ground and cleaned it up, and I'd share in his pride over not spending money at the store.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:44 PM
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Every man I've been attracted to started with the face. The body is secondary, and as long as it fits loose parameters (skinny, sinewy, symmetrical) then it only serves to support the face. I've never seen a male body and felt spontaneous lust. Lust is a response to a familiar man that fits my parameters expressing desire for me. If he fits my physical parameters but does not express desire or me, then I feel no lust for him. I've never felt sexual desire for a stranger. Fashion and style influe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:34 PM
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I don't want to I don't need to In all my years of life, I've only encountered 2 men worth approaching; the first one was gay and I married the 2nd one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:53 PM
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God damn do these nerds like to write a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:43 PM
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Most of my husband's closest friends are women, and God bless them, they help carry the load of his emotional labor. I don't think our marriage would have made it this far if I had to be everything to him. We had a good thing going with his ex before me, she listened to his nonsense but I got to sleep with him, unfortunately she moved to Florida to pursue her dream of becoming a pet psychic but became a magatard instead. Now his latest bff is a 6ft. lesbian in the military, I like her a lot and …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:41 PM
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I'm sorry you have a bad relationship with your father.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:58 PM
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i saw a republican woman i know talking about him her and all her friends were talking about how he prob likes getting fucked in the ass This is why we call them weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:57 PM
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who said anything about crying? I did say I would cry if my dad was on stage being venerated, because you know, its my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:47 PM
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A son from a tight knit, loving family moved to tears and proud of his father accepting the VP nom = degeneracy. Interesting perspective you have there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:39 PM
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Like I failed as a mother. ETA: I've put a lot of time/effort/work/love into providing my son with the building blocks for self esteem, self love, resiliency, and a sense of responsibility (to himself and his future). If that all ended up being for naught, if he still gravitated toward incel circles and mindsets, I would feel devastated. That world is void of happiness, and all I want is for him to be authentically happy in whatever manner he chooses (barring obviously illegal things).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:25 PM
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Been watching the DNC, and the hopium feels good man. Gus Walz stanning for his dad had me in near tears. I think because Tim Walz reminds me so much of my own father (decent, kind, helpful, accepting, hard working midwestern dad), and I would stan the fuck out of him (blubbery tears and all) if he was on that stage. I'm happy that the Democrats are reclaiming/reframing patriotism, family values, freedom, and normalcy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:24 PM
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Hot, but its gotta be authentic and congruent you your personal style.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:38 PM
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When it comes to skin conditions, why does google have to give you the worst case scenario? Just trying to figure out if I have a spider bite on my arm, google is giving me end stage necrotic brown recluse bite eating away at some poor man's face. Earlier this year I tried googling a rash on my back, instead I got medical text book images of extreme psoriasis taking over an elderly woman's body. wtf google, can we scale back the body horror a bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:33 PM
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So, women, is it 80%, 20% or 0.2% Personal attraction I'd say about .000243%. However acknowledgement of attractive traits is probably, I dunno, 5-10% depending on location.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:35 PM
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I can't speak for other women, but I imagine a dadbod alludes to a 'relaxed' and 'realistic' sort of lifestyle. The sort of guy who doesn't mind cutting loose and having a few beers, an impromptu trip to the ice cream store, sharing a pizza with his girl on he couch, comfortable at a potluck or dinner with the folks, etc. A guy that isn't a slave to clean eating and aesthetics. Has anyone ever seen a 6-pack dude at a potluck when he's in a cut? It's the saddest thing ever, and his behaviors are …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:57 PM
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Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:47 PM
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I hadn't come across this news story yet, but I feel bad that I already connected the dots.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:50 PM
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What I don't get is why she wants to talk about work so badly. Lady, nobody gives a fuck about your spreadsheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:40 PM
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My Officially an Old Hag birthday is on Saturday, and in the months leading up to it my friends/family kept pestering me about what I'm going to do (suggestions I've heard; 3 day cruise, big dinner with 16 people, night out at a bar + comedy show, house party, concert, weekend at the lake house) Last week I finally decided on lunch at a ramen place with kiddo + husband, afterwards get myself a passion fruit chiffon cake, and then play Diablo 4 with husband to close out the night. Quiet and borin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:17 PM
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1 is a giant red flag and automatic disqualifier. Dudes who don't have any female friends almost always have weird/cringey ideas about women, or come from gender segregated cultures and all the baggage than entails (nonsense sky dad religions, goatfuck cultural beliefs, etc). 6 would give me pause, because I think hetero dudes need at least one masculine friend. Easier to accomplish with another dude, but if the masc. energy is fulfilled by a particularly butch lesbian/NB person, then I think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:49 PM
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Ok, so what's the problem then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:46 PM
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...? No, I don't? The best dates I've been on have always involved authenticity. Thats the whole point of passing a vibe check. Why waste a few hours of my time with some dude that thinks he has to sell himself to me. That seems pointless, when I could instead spend a few hours laughing, having fun, and exploring intimacy with a guy thats vibes with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:26 PM
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But why are you gonig on dates with people who don't pass the vibe check?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:16 PM
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My first my memory of groping was when I was 11 years old, standing in a crowded line at an amusement park (6 Flags Over Great America). I was with my older cousins waiting to get on a ride, and we were all smooshed into a herding pen. My cousins were in front of me, I was behind them, when I felt adult male hands grab my ass and pinch my chest. I yelped, turned around, but all I could see was a sea of anonymous people. No one else had noticed what happened. I told my cousins that someone was bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:21 PM
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With a broom held by someone else to pull back the flaps. Some shit I wish I could un-know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:02 PM
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Come on, what about gimpgirl? She was my favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:59 PM
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Bruh, its just called natural hair. Maybe 'loose curls' if you want to get super specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:57 PM
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😂😂😂 this is some straight bitch-ass nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:42 PM
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My desired outcome was to have sex with a compatible, attractive man on a continual basis within the confines of monogamy. Marriage/children were ancillary, and only introduced by said man at his behest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:37 PM
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I don't understand how or why I'd feel pride about a relationship? Its just a mutual arrangement with mutual attraction to spend sexual and non-sexual time together. Where does pride fit into this? If you're asking if I'm embarrassed by any previous relationships, then no, they were all perfect fine dudes we just didn't work out for one reason or another. But I'm not ashamed of anyone I dated, and I'm glad to know they've all moved on and got married, had kids, etc. What a strange question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:20 PM
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On August 5th, in the year of our lord 2024, OP learns about groupies, and he is scandalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:54 PM
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Well, after she left the military she met the man of her dreams at the gym (big, jacked, black, bodybuilder), married him, moved to the suburbs, and now they host weird sex parties when the kids are away. I'm happy for her, she got what she wanted all along; suburban normalcy with a side of freaky.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:23 AM
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??? I have that everyday for breakfast, as long as you keep it within serving sizes you're looking at most 390 calories. And if you halve then cheese then its like, 335 calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:25 PM
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have slept with Elon Musk Not even, I'm pretty sure more than half of those kids were done via in vitro.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:08 PM
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Yeah, thats the big moral quandary; what do we do with 30% of the electorate that are irredeemable dumb fucks? As we've seen, they refuse education and openness to change, but they are wholly accepting of grift from bad faith actors. It feels icky, but perhaps the only way forward is to grift and scam them on to the path of sanity. If they won't help themselves, and we can't disenfranchise them, then perhaps we have to use proven tools that work; panic, fear, paranoia, grift, and scam. But what …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:35 PM
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"The internet is not a big truck. It's a series of tubes....."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:14 PM
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Its weird how norovirus absolutely wiped out kiddo and my husband, but I've just had a shitty ass fever for 3 days straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:54 PM
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I’ve read far too many stories of people calling these people’s bluffs only to end up dead because of it. Don’t be stupid. Yeah, I had a coworker who pulled the whole, "lets take it outside buddy" schtick. He landed one sucker punch and the other dude stumbled backwards, fell over, and smacked his head on a parking block. dead. My coworker ended up going to prison for manslaughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:47 PM
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When my husband and I started dating, he was frequently the target of Af_______ Am______ bullies; he a scrawny white guy, me a pretty mixed girl. There was a lot of verbal harassment centered around "taking one of the good ones". But my husband never let it get under his skin, he'd always diffuse the situation with mockery, humor, and wit. He'd clown on the dude, enough so that the bros would start laughing, and the aggressor would either double down (and get called out by his bros), or, start l…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:32 PM
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Did I get my son circumcised? No. Do I care about male circumcision? Also no. Should it be banned? Probably, but thats a fight for the men to take on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:27 PM
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I can look at a guy and judge if he's hot enough to fuck. But it takes a few conversations/rapport/camaraderie to determine if he's worth the effort. Guys just seem to look at women (or men, if they swing that way), assess their fuckability, and then no further inquiries required. In the year of our lord 2024, I don't understand why y'all are still so buttmad/confused that heterosexual women dont have male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:37 PM
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I mean sure, but damn if it isn't difficult if your surrounding community isn't on the same page. Despite living on a street with lots of young families, I never see kids just fucking around outside. As much as I'd like to tell kiddo to just go outside and play, there are no kids to play with. And its not that these kids are cooped inside with the vidya (although I'm sure they exist somewhere) they are just at XYZ sport/camp/class/club, etc. So, we go with the tide, and kiddo is also enrolled in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:15 PM
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Ew no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:34 PM
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He better not be calling Woods an idiot, that is an educated black man, and a bit of freak. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:32 PM
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If you're truly curious, 39.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:28 AM
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Old hag/elder millennial.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:18 AM
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The other day I walked in on my husband using rubbing alcohol as an aftershave. I made a face, so he asked if he should be using aftershave. I shrugged and said sure, so he stocks up on 3 bottles of Aqua Velva. Bless him, he's trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:42 AM
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Every time I come across some weird/abusive/horrific relationship, 8 times out of 10 there's an age gap dynamic involved. Where there's smoke, there's fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:47 PM
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We're friendly, but she keeps to herself which I'm fine with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:23 PM
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I've concluded my upstairs neighbor (25/F, black, petite gym bunny) has a type; foreign gym bro. They've ranged from 5'7" to 6ft+, gym body (muscular build but not super cut), and very thick accents from somewhere else. First guy I met was middle eastern, then there was a British guy, then an Australian dude, a Mexican(?) dude, and now the latest guy is some sort of Eastern European. I've nicknamed him Gregor, and based on how much our walls shake when he visits, Gregor has mad dick game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:56 PM
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idk, he looks like a typical kid riding his bike around my neighborhood. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:45 PM
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An average looking white kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:39 PM
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Because bigger pads are bulky as fuck/uncomfortable, and when the flow starts to taper you don't need all that extra protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:15 PM
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Its funny cause his son Luke has a "small" build, pretty boy face, and took after his mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:48 PM
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Ladies, get you a man that will take the day off work just to build you a new PC and then fuck you on your lunch break.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:44 PM
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Wow, I've been to an unknown amount of concerts. Granted I'm married to a former touring musician and roadie. For about 3-4 years my husband and I would go to these cheap as fuck concerts at The Rave in Milwaukee, and when we'd walk out the promoters would hand us tickets to another concert the following weekend. So every weekend we'd travel up to Milwaukee for some shitty band and then get tickets to see some other shitty bands, ad infinitum. My last concert was in 2022, however I'm hoping to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:59 PM
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No one. I can usually tell going into the act if I'm going to reach an O. My husband's performance is always steady, but my likelihood of an orgasm is tethered to my hormones. Really good, easy and intense ones are tied to ovulation and my period, however hard to reach, weak, and non existent orgasms are tied to the opposite ends of my cycle. We've had plenty of practice, and there have been times when my husband has tried his damnedest but I'm either in the luteal or follicular phase so it just…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:43 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:07 AM
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Oh I just replied with 'lol'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:03 AM
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A woman my husband and I are loosely acquainted with DM'd me and said my husband was in her DM's. She sent me screenshots, it was just my husband asking her if she'd like to join the Jackbox game he was hosting that night. I don't know what she thinks she was trying to do, but that ain't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:54 AM
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Jesus Christ, working over time at a call desk ,70% of these questions are google-able. Do people not just...google everything first before they decide they have to call a human being as a last minute solution? Am I the strange one for doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:39 AM
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Men do what women respond to. Why are men so weak and spineless?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:28 AM
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Oh I wasn't going to get into the miniatures/tabletop game, more so the novels and maybe video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:47 PM
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Should I get into warhammer40k? Or is the fandom full of alt right retards, inc*ls, and fascists? I need some deep, world building lore to get into, but not at the expense of rubbing elbows with people who don't understand satire/think Trump should be god emperor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:25 PM
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Ok, but that doesn't discount that fact that they shouldn't be in relationships or procreating because they're a bunch of dumbfucks. Dumbfucks beget dumbfucks, its truly a tragedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:14 PM
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No. Hated it back then, hate the nostalgia revival now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:05 PM
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These types always have a passel of dumbfuck kids they started cranking out at like, 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:03 PM
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😂😂 the best is when they fight it out in the comments, or even better, the SO posts their own version of the events.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:48 PM
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Thats a charitable view. More often than not when I check the user profile its like, the 8th time over the course of 2 years that they've come to reddit with some fucked up nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:46 PM
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hot take: if your partner does something egregious against you (abuse, theft, rape, cheating, etc.) and your first impulse is to come to reddit to outsource your response, you're a dumbfuck who should never be in a relationship. "Hi reddit, my (22/f) unemployed husband (47/m) took $3000 out of our account and spent it on escorts. When I confronted him about it he screamed at me, hit me, and threatened me with a knife. Later that night he held me down and had sex with me when I told him I didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:35 PM
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I always thought caffeine dependency was a joke, but now that I've had to drop caffeine from my diet I'm fucking dying from exhaustion. bro, what the hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:18 PM
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Before I came along my husband was fuckzoned in college, and it made him pretty depressed. All he wanted was love and a steady girlfriend, but every girl he hooked up with was flaky and allergic to commitment. He felt pretty bad about himself, like he wasn't good enough to date a girl but was instead relegated to community dick that girls used to make their boyfriends angry/jealous/etc. I suspect thats why he was SO into the idea of commitment and marriage with me, he finally felt chosen rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:21 PM
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I'd reluctantly pick Andrew because he sounds like he's low energy. Everything else is fine, but low energy is a yellow flag for me. Dan has a baby momma and 'walks around like hard man', which is ridiculous and cringey. Jason doesn't have a pretty face and the micopenis is unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:42 PM
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If I see two attractive guys in front of me, I'm gonna be drawn to the one with the most beautiful face and simpatico vibe. No lie, I never knew I was supposed to care about height until I joined reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:07 AM
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I'm pulling OT tonight until 10pm, what's going in the PPD insane asylum?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:44 AM
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hmph, you will be judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:08 PM
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Tissue thin shaved roast beef thats been braised in a garlicky au jus for 3ish hours, tucked inside of a 6"-8" inch hoagie bun, dipped in that same au jus, and then topped with either sliced sweet peppers and/or hot pepper giardiniera mix, and maybe a sprinkle of mozzarella on top. And in true Chicago fashion, you can get all that with an Italian sausage stuffed inside it as well. I prefer mine with hot giardiniera and American cheese because I'm a heathen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:03 PM
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God damn I love Italian beef sandwiches. Asides from family and friends, this is why I'll never leave Chicago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:46 PM
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My dad is a box of ashes on my mom's mantlepiece, so uh...that would be weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:05 PM
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Yes I'll make him some food like I usually do; my husband is hangry when he gets off work, so if I make it a point to not make him food then he knows I'm acting out of spite which will just amplify the argument x 10. I'm usually the one that calms down first anyways, so I have no desire to prolong a morning argument into the evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:01 PM
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Tell that to my husband who agonizes over the placement of his figurines, the geometry of artwork on our walls, how much RGB lighting is needed for his collectables case, what color pottery goes well with what types of plants, whether or end tables need to match the couch or the coffee table, etc. etc. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:47 PM
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I rate him 'eh'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:01 PM
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....her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:30 PM
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Paul, hands down. I can deal with short, poor, mid politics, introverted, and a bit of a slob. All the others are I-rather-die-single hard NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:47 PM
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Ah, there's that goalpost shift. I should have put a bet on how long that would show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:38 PM
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How? You've proved nothing beyond your ability to lazily google articles to poorly fit your narrative. The stated premise was "feminist are not telling men to do X" and your counter proof was a singular woman saying men should do X. Did this woman claim to be a feminist per her article? No. Did this woman state her premise was based on the principles of feminism per her article? No. Did this woman invoke feminism within her article to support her premise? No. So....again, how does your click bai…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:16 PM
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Strawmanning? Thats rich, coming from the person that chose the first google result article from an unknown author with no known statements regarding feminist or feminism within the article or from the author themselves. Like, do better if you're going play these games.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:44 PM
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I concur, this is a well written comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:01 PM
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I didn't know we elected Jessica Johnson, Medium writer with 93 followers and 3 credits to her name, as the spokesperson for Feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:49 PM
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Except cuckoldry is based on deception. Words do have definitions you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:39 PM
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Its remarkable how much time and effort my colleagues and I put into these advertising campaigns, only to have consumers doomscroll at night while some reality TV trash plays in the background. I'm balls deep in two automakers summer sales events, as well as a brand revamp for a casual dining chain. NOTHING MEANS ANYTHING. EVERYTHING MEANS NOTHING. WE'RE ALL GONNA DIE IN THE END.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:06 PM
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My 20's were mostly a drug and alcohol filled blur, but I did get serious about my health, mental health, and fitness, I learned how to excel as a corpo stooge, I got serious about my financial future, and I learned way too much about rental laws/renters rights for the state of Illinois. My one regret is that I didn't hop on the youtube/IG fitness influencer bandwagon before it blew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:16 PM
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Sure. I think its funny/cute in way; she's young, pretty, and employed, why not sample what the world has to offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:34 PM
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A cute mid 20's women lives in the loft above our house. In all the years we've lived here (3ish) she's had about 4 or 5 boyfriends...or at least dudes she's fucking around with. Anyway, her latest beau has been visiting for the past few days and it finally clicked that the occasional subtly shaking of our furniture, pictures on the wall, plants, etc, means she be fucking. Right now as I'm typing this my monitor, desk, computer chair, etc. are swaying back and forth to their rhythm. 🤭🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:19 PM
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You mean all those years I went out to nightclubs dancing with friends I could have been railing baking soda coke and having mediocre-to-forgettable sex with some over cologned chump dumb enough to buy bottle service? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:13 AM
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I think underneath the pop stardom and celebrity Ariana is a theater nerd at heart. And I suspect Ethan Slater gets her on that level. I think RP are too quick to dismiss the ability to understand a particular woman so she falls all over herself for you, in favor of broad, yet bland appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:42 PM
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I'm watching the 2019 Cats movie. Jellicle cats. Lets fucking go.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:16 PM
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Given what I saw last night, that dude seems pretty average so again, why all the tears?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:51 PM
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This type of guy can pull any type of girl lol. So why are the crying about 6ft-6 in.-6 fig. Aryan gigachad, roided out the ass with a jaw that could cut diamonds? I'm being hyperbolic, but my point remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:41 PM
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My husband is 5'8", his BFF is 5'10". At one point all the dudes lined up for a photo and there was no variability in their heights (except for the 6ft+ gay dude who towered over them).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:21 PM
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I went to a roof top party last night and 99% of the dudes there were between 5'8"-5'10". They all had wives, girlfriends, or a date. The only guy to grace above 6ft is gay, and he brought his 5'9" boyfriend with him. What I found really funny is how all the dudes looked like clones of each other, or maybe brothers. White, slim build, medium facial hair, shaggy to long brown hair, tattoos/piercings, vaguely alt aesthetic. Whereas the wives/gfs were all over the place; petite wholesome blonde, 5'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:12 PM
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The closer you resemble these men, the more likely I am to pay attention to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:52 PM
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....what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:01 PM
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I don't appreciate being forced into mutual follows just because I recognized a dude from high school on Threads. Bruh, I just wanted to say hello, and ask if you're the guy I'm thinking of. No need to follow me, I never post anything. But now now I have to follow you and have your nonsense all up in my algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:43 PM
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Family lunch with MIL, and then rooftop party with friends afterwards. Truthfully I don't want to do anything, its been a no good, very bad week.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:22 PM
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I dated a gang member in high school, he was a sweetheart and very romantic, he just wanted to protect his neighborhood from drugs. Then his house got shot at while I was visiting and I decided welp, that's enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:35 PM
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"Eighth-Grade Student Murdered by Her Abusive Boyfriend, 21, Hours Before Middle-School Graduation" 👀 so about those age gap relationships some men are so fond of defending...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:16 PM
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Sometimes I pop into AskMrp (married red pill) and just marvel at all these dudes anxiously dissecting, discussing, fretting, analyzing, and more or less circle jerking neurotically over their married sex lives. Their play by plays of mundane interactions with their wives, fretting over how much and what kind of dread they should employ, dissecting beats of silence and how much is too much, reaching out for solidarity and advice only to be told by fellow members to STFU and stop being a f*ggot. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:58 PM
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Like a drug addict or alcoholic with a family, its just another form of enabling. Usually fattycakes is hella abusive (emotionally, verbally) to their family members and SOs. Plus boiling frog syndrome; at some point fattycakes wasn't so fat, just American fat. Ergo they get their SO when they were just American fat, but time + inertia + beaten down emotionally from all the abuse leads to the SO enabling fattycakes to their current predicament. Not to mention straight up fetishists exists. I rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:31 PM
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OW MAH LEG!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:22 PM
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yeah, the only way I see this working as a day to day style is if I do it in the dry ass winter. Humidity slowly transforms into the a longer, slightly less poofy triangle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:19 PM
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natural state dry: just below ear lobes natural state wet: bottom of neck/top of shoulders straightened: upper boob/just above nipples
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:17 PM
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Over the span on decade I grew out my 3C processed hair, and didn't touch it beyond cutting off dead bits and fried ends. Yesterday I finally straightened my hair (flat iron) and its so long and heavy, there's just too much of it. All my life I wanted 'princess hair' now I have it and I'm kinda over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:15 PM
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Ew, the smell. Although I guess after a while you become nose blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:09 PM
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Cool; glad we're on the same page about post partum weight loss, and thank her for the effort. When I was pregnant/post partum there's nothing I disliked more than people pushing crappy, fatty food on me because of their shitty beliefs and superstitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:08 PM
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Dudes who go on steroids just for pussy are such a fucking joke, omg. I hope you enjoy having to supplement Test. for the rest of your life (plus future heart and liver problems) just so you can maybe smash some mid chicks now. 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:02 PM
1

Because the beach is just standing on the rim of the world's largest toilet. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:56 PM
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Oh I've been happily married for almost 20 years, but I was also content being single. I think they call it demisexual? Frankly as a little girl I never envision marriage/family/kids, I thought I was going to be a single working lady just dating around, but life had other plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:20 PM
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Nope. After a bit of experimentation in college I concluded I am very heterosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:22 PM
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Single or taken, I don't view men as potential partners. When I was single, men were NPCs. I saw potential when I met a guy through friends, we vibed, I was attracted to him, and most importantly, I knew he was into me as well. Only then would I begin considering him as a possible boyfriend. In a relationship the whole premise is a non-starter. Men are NPCs; it takes a lot of familiarity, camaraderie, exposure, mutual attraction, and vetting to move a singular man out of the NPC pool. ETA: I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:09 PM
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It's funny, I lied my ass off about being promiscuous because I wanted to fit in with the cool party crowd. My BFF was a confirmed megaho, I partied, drank, did drugs, went to frats/clubs, dressed provocatively, did provocative things (danced on tables, flashed people, made out with girls for attention, strip poker, etc), spring break in cancun, worked at a strip club, piercings, tattoos, you get the idea. And yet, my N count is only 3 and I've been married since I was 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:28 AM
2

Damn, I was sure I'd gained weight on my vacation (Caribbean home cooking), but nope, I weigh exactly the same as the day I left. Hurray for muscle mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:25 PM
4

I'd see like, 27 of those guys on a Tuesday afternoon in Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:18 PM
1

Yes, when I was 8, by a girl in my classroom. I was trying to defend another girl from her bullying and she turned her anger on me instead. Looking back now I realized that girl was most likely being abused at home as violence was always her go to response during arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:54 PM
3

If you like SciFi, Children of Time by Adrian Tchaikovsky
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:51 PM
5

Nah, he totally bought her from a homeless shelter in South America.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:30 PM
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🤷‍♀️ I married my drug dealer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:13 PM
5

Underrated comment that will probably get removed. You speak facts tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:12 PM
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My mom is a cute little dark Caribbean granny, my son is very white (passing?). Whenever they go out together people address her as if she's his nanny. 🫠 Conversely, when I was 18 I was a nanny for a very white, pale, blonde, blue eyed 8 year old boy. When we were out together some dude was hitting on me and asked me if he was my son. why are people so dumb? (its a rhetorical question).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:49 PM
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Nope. We were quite child free until our 'oops', but we decided we were in a place in our lives that we could handle it/parenthood would be fulfilling. He asked if I wanted more and I said hell-the-fuck-no and he agreed. lol and no I was his 50-something partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:47 PM
2

Sort of. My dad has 3 kids from his previous marriage (wife passed away), but they were young adults when I was born so I was essentially raised as an only child. My husband is an only child though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:21 PM
2

Yes, one and done, had kiddo when I was 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:07 PM
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I'm biracial, UMC, deeply atheistic, come from a white collar/professional family. He's Hispanic, working class, deeply Catholic, military family. While we dated I was college bound and he went to Iraq. His mother/sisters not so subtly hinted that college was a waste of time and I should focus on getting pregnant ASAP while he's on leave. Thats not at all what I envisioned for myself or my future. My parents liked him, thought he was a respectable dude, but made a point to not interfere in my da…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:58 PM
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I did want to marry him, but after the engagement the reality of marrying into his family/culture became readily apparent. I wouldn't have fit into his world, I was already clashing with his mother and sisters. You don't just marry a person, you also marry their family and where they come from. He was a great guy, but he needed someone who understood and could blend into his world. I wasn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:18 PM
6

First guy to propose I dated for 2ish years, 2nd guy, my husband, I dated for a month. We eloped when I was 20 ( he was 21).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:29 AM
1

Back from vacation, already tired and stressed out again. You'd think during the entire week I was away my husband would have gone grocery shopping or something to that effect. Nope. He lived of off doordash and leftovers, so I got to come home to an empty fridge. 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:20 AM
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N count of 3 (unless you count mouth/hand stuff, then 6), 2 proposed, 1 I married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:15 AM
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Dating till marriage is a process of elimination, I don't understand why this is controversial or unrealistic. All my exes were cool dudes and I wish them well, and I'm sure I would have had a fine marriage with a few of them. But we never reached that point so it's moot to weigh what they did or did not have compared to my husband, nor is it worth considering how my life would have turned out with them because life didn't go that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:08 AM
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Really, you know a woman in her 40's who decided to blow up her marriage because she though it was better and more fulfilling to be a side ho. Riiiiight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:57 PM
5

My husband and I were decidedly childfree until an 'oops' when I was 30. As far as he was concerned, prior to kiddo we were sexy best friends on an adventure together. He already had his ho phase, so when he met me he wanted substance, a teammate, a wife, and essentially somebody to feel at home with. Contrary to the RP thirst mongers, some dudes get tired of the pussy carousel and they want to grow old with their best friend that they get to fuck. Kids may or may not enter the picture, but the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:53 PM
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Woman, 39 1.) 19, about half of these contacts are work related. 2.) 5; my husband, my MIL, my mother, and my BFF. I belong to 5 discords, 4 of them fandom related and the other is my husband's gaming group. I never participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:31 PM
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never claimed it was unimportant, but dudes crying about their dry dicks will always be pathetic. ok. I supposed that would mean something to me if I cared about "biological relevance". sucks for Vivica Fox I guess. sure I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:05 PM
2

The human race would cease to exist without this drive you dismiss as trivial. Ok. It's abundantly clear from the plummeting birth rate that you girl bosses are incapable of picking up the slack. Already married and had my kid so....🤷‍♀️ Go look at Vivica Fox today and see your future. God I feel like I am in the Christmas Carol. Why? Does it involve getting tips on her skin care routine?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:19 PM
9

Same; I got to hang out with my family all day, got really into cooking, explored our local parks, etc. Covid really bonded us together despite the rest of the works falling apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:35 PM
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I just don't know why finding fulfillment through other pathways other than a long-term relationship aren't talked about as much in male-centered circles. Because at the heart of it all, these other pathways don't include them putting their penis into a woman. That's the only thing that matters to these sort of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:23 PM
23

Nope. I've always been an LTR gal, the thought of a semi-anon man touching me intimately makes me feel queasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:21 PM
5

Modern society is an obesogenic environment. the path of lease resistance is the most popular one regardless of gender Asides from vanity and health, there isn't much external pressure to lose weight men's opinion on these matters is largely useless, as they've shown us they will still fuck/date/marry regardless of weight
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:31 PM
1

I see why women like him He is popular with the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:00 PM
1

professional wrestling is just buff soap opera True, but it still has a sizable male audience (about 60%) so he can reasonably expect to talk to a dude about wrestling and they'll have a working understanding of it. At least enough to reminisce about The Attitude Era in which every guy seems to have a core memory attached to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:58 PM
1

He made the comment because he had to kick a newish guy out of his Discord gaming group for being too political (of the conspiracy theory kind), and then noticed the gender ratio of the group heavily favored women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:53 PM
1

Well the circles we run in, no one is into sportsball so its its just not a topic worth investing in. However on the rare chance my husband encounters a sportsball dude, he'll just state why he's not into it (because of the baseball strike in 94-95) and most dudes seem to understand, or at least not push any further. The closest he'll get in terms of sportsball common ground would be UFC or professional wrestling (despite neither of them having anything to do with sportsball).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:50 PM
1

Well, he doesn't want to actively befriend these people, so it doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:40 PM
2

A lot of men i know talk about football constantly. Thats 1000% the last thing he would ever want to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:31 PM
1

What awesomeness does your husband be talking about thats better than laughing at joe roe or politics going to shit? He's more into people and relationship kind stuff. He likes talking about people and their feelings, empathizing, offering advice, etc. Kinda like the gay BFF trope, except he's not gay. What video games is he playing chilling with gamer girls, but not any guys? He prefers relaxed party co-op games like BG3, Jack box, Among us, Fall Guys, Friday the 13th, etc. Anything with party …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:29 PM
2

Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:00 PM
1

Both of them are only 10 years old ಠ_ಠ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:57 PM
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Last night my husband told me lately he finds it incredibly difficult to make friends with men, as they mostly "talk about some dumbfuck shit they heard on Joe Rogan" are rabidly political, or are high strung and boring. Whereas he finds it easier to befriend women as they are more likely to just wanna chill, joke around, and play video games. I see where he's coming from, something seems to have infected men in the past decade where they can't just like...be chill. There is this undercurrent of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:41 PM
1

We ended up using a deal we came across; 4 parks in 4 day or something to that effect, and it slashed the price significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:39 PM
1

The big 4; Magic Kingdom, Epcot, Hollywood Studios, and Animal Kingdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:33 PM
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yes? I consider myself pretty average, went last year for 4 days with my husband, kid, and MIL, came out to around$1200 including Disney fastpass, flight, and Airbnb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:23 PM
1

17, I have a hazy memory of it as I'm pretty sure I was drunk all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:57 PM
2

Ones who take care of themselves and look very hot still... are the slimmest of slim minority. Yeah, if you live in like, Poor n' Uglyville, OH.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:51 PM
1

👀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:25 PM
1

Music for Chameleons is such a god damn bop, the fretless bass is just perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:13 PM
3

One could only hope. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:05 PM
4

Because its amazing when it works. For the pas 20 year I've had the pleasure of hanging out with my best friend everyday, having sex whenever we want, goofing off, going out on the town, making meals together, laughing over old jokes, crying together, teaming up to solve problems, sharing our hearts with each other, and just living our lives as a united front. Now we have a kid and everything in our world is much sweeter. The negatives you outline aren't correlated with marriage, more so pregnan…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:17 PM
25

women reject Chad: The audacity and entitlement! Women accept Chad: The audacity and entitlement! Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:02 PM
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what the fuck are you on about ? I feel like this should replace "Question what you believe" on the sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:01 PM
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1.) No, we're just the audience for it so we have more to say about it. 2.) you'd be surprised about what some men don't know about the domestic sphere. 3.) By its very strictures, male children are usually shunted away from 'woman's work'. 4.) again, see the audience. Most men aren't going to think too hard about the reality of tradwives, as far as they're concerned its right and natural, and they'd like one for themselves. The people who take issue, specifically women, take issue because the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:39 PM
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motherhood and femininity isn't a grift. Never said it was. But monetizing a breezy, soft girl, carefree version of it is. motherhood and femininity are real, contrary to your belief about it. Again, never claimed otherwise. My child and functioning reproductive organs are a testament to that reality. sounds like you might be trauma responding What? motherhood and femininity aren't imaginary. See above.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:53 PM
1

Ew, I'm an adult, I know how to use words.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:49 PM
4

because men are soft hearted
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:34 PM
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You don't usually get to choose your boss. What? By its very nature of choosing your employment is choosing your boss. It doesn't even have to get that deep; if the interview team gives you bad vibes you just bow out and submit your application elsewhere. Ending an interview is a hell of a lot easier than getting a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:32 PM
5

One time I went to a strip club with my husband and he got to talking with a dancer. Somewhere along the way she mentioned that her dad molested her, and thats why she dances. A part of me likes to think she was just bad at her job, but truthfully, her molestation story probably got her more tips. 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:23 PM
5

Paul Bearer cares not for weaker people, just the power of the urn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:02 PM
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They key point is "advertised lifestyle" There are trad wives all over the god dam place, but we don't see them or hear from them because they are to busy doing all the work entailed with that lifestyle. Tits Mcgee with perfect make up and hair, wearing a pristine apron over a tasteful but flirty sundress while she kneads bread in a tiktok video with some text overlay about 'honoring the divine feminine' is 1000% far and away the opposite of an actual trad lifestyle. Its not pretty, its not coif…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:51 PM
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wew lad. Thats a whole lot of worrying about other people, when I really rather just be concerned with me and mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:30 PM
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1.) we know its a grift 2.) we also know the advertised lifestyle is not real 3.) for some of us our family or origin is rife with trad wives, and we have first hand account of what its really like on the ground floor (hint; its not great). 4.) we don't believe an imaginary lifestyle (as advertised in the internet) should be exalted and marketed towards impressionable people. 5.) I believe a majority if not all of the trad wife content is just fetish fodder with links to OF content if you prod d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:42 PM
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15, depending on if Monaco et. al count as countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:15 PM
5

A week until kiddo and I take off for NY. Husband is staying home because my female Caribbean relatives terrify him and he would be the sacrificial white bird of the season. Kiddo needs first hand experience of The Coven, so he also knows how to avoid them in the future. Mostly, I'm looking forward to not being responsible for feeding/entertaining myself and my child for at least a week. Those ladies may be crazy argumentative alcoholics, but god damn can they cook and party.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:10 PM
1

Sounds like my drop attacks. But mine are based on my inner ear mechanisms going haywire. Do you have any driving restrictions? I may have to deal with that in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:08 PM
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I appreciate the study, but I'm sad they had to create rat incels for the results. 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:55 AM
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Sooo.......nonsense then. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:51 PM
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Sounds fun, any more sports planned for them? Not any time soon. Just camps from the end of June to the beginning of August, and then soccer/gymnastics in the fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:24 PM
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