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To be fair, my initial replies were pretty positive. Even the women response. I think you took it the wrong way. It’s cool though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:58 AM
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I will certainly try. I’m sure you love all this attention the way you keep responding. We all know the men that have seen you in real life avoid your fatass like the plague
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:55 AM
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Stay fat, fat fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:52 AM
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Ok fatty, whatever makes you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:51 AM
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Nobody is obsessed with you. I asked a question and you accused me of jealousy. Please just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:49 AM
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Is calling your taste in men feminine insulting? Wasn’t supposed to be, you took it wrong. Then threw a jealousy thing like I want to fuck you or some shit. That’s absolutely disgusting, btw. I would never fuck a fat bitch from the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:47 AM
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Nobody insulted you until you called me jealous. Then I just connected the dots and realized you’re fat. It’s not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:43 AM
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I DO NOT WANT TO FUCK YOU AND NEVER WILL AND NEVER DID!!!! LET ME MAKE THIS CLEAR!!!! I THINK YOUR PROB FAT AND DONT WANT TO CONTINUE THIS, PLEASE STOP
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:42 AM
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Nobody is jealous here, I asked a question. I’m engaged to the woman of my life, I asked a simple question and you went right for the throat. I returned the favor by calling you fat. I DO NOT WANT TO FUCK YOU AND NEVER WILL AND NEVER DID!!!! LET ME MAKE THIS CLEAR!!!! I THINK YOUR PROB FAT AND DONT WANT TO CONTINUE THIS, PLEASE STOP
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:41 AM
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Yeah this is def an alt. She immediately went to jealousy too when I was simply asking some questions on her own question/comment. Now I get the same irrational accusational cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:38 AM
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Oh nice! You’re back from your alt. Welcome back, land whale
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:34 AM
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Sorry we found you out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:33 AM
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I’m surprised this white knight alt cares enough to respond, especially if it wasn’t true in the first place. Seems like a massive cope
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:30 AM
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Nope, I checked. Even when I ask, she goes silent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:25 AM
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She never said that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:15 AM
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Yes, but she’s fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:12 AM
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I’d bet my net worth she’s a ham planet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:08 AM
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Tell that to her, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:02 AM
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Because she’s fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:01 AM
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Are you fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:00 AM
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From me? lol, I’m just an anonymous internet stranger starting conversation and providing discourse. Go fuck or be with you want by all means (including and def not me). I couldn’t care less. Sorry for my “jealousy” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:47 AM
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So like a woman, but not quite?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:41 AM
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Normally I’m against dating apps, but for college kids—use them, just don’t take it seriously. These are your fuck buddies… nothing more, even if you have to pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:39 AM
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What’s your type?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:37 AM
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Oh I thought it was some cosplay or something. Weird that you have an alleged medical need for it, but don’t pretend you’re a scary demon unironically because some ancient folks didn’t like the smell either and associated it with shit less credible than horoscopes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:56 AM
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2008 is old news and just a drop in the bucket. Panama Papers and the lack of prosecution is a far better and more direct example. Even the slaps on the wrist they gave the more “known” players was a pretty obvious facade.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:53 AM
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You found out your dad is browsing your internet activity! Proud of you!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:50 AM
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I took it as a compliment when I wasn’t even invited to 10 year. They knew I wasn’t going to that shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:48 AM
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Is sulfur associated with demons? I guess that makes sense given my too much knowledge of the Bible and Catholic school education. All my real life dealings of it are “this shit smells like baby poop” and mostly in Florida on vacation trying to drink their tap water, so it’s hard to take serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:46 AM
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I kind of feel the same way as the person above you. I think it just comes off as trolling because men are often starved of attention that many might actually enjoy being hit on. Reminds me of the meme I can’t find right now of women saying the same things as men and how most would actually enjoy it. HOWEVER… let’s be real—this woman isn’t really doing this in a genuine way. And yes, doing this at a gym of all places with this being your ulterior motive is pretty fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:01 PM
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It in fact does NOT say “regardless of sexual experience.” But you know what? I’m tired of going in circles with you and at this point it’s probably just a defense mechanism for you to not accept this, so I’ll tap out. I hope you feel better about it all, and your version of things brings you peace. Sorry that the meme hurt you, but sounds like you got it under control. Have a nice night!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:40 AM
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Second paragraph: “Incel describes someone, usually a male, who is frustrated by their lack of sexual experiences.” How many times do we need to come to this conclusion before you can just accept this? I get it, the meme hurts. You can shift the reality for yourself to cope, but the objective facts just aren't there. I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:31 AM
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Sigh… just as I suspected. Second paragraph: “Incel describes someone, usually a male, who is frustrated by their lack of sexual experiences.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:28 AM
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None of those articles state that the meaning changed or that it no longer means “no sex”. They just add associated traits or stereotypes that sometimes go hand-in-hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:18 AM
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CNN—please link the definition they provided Encyclopedia—read the first sentence of the article (that I also copy/pasted here) Pop culture—everyone knows the celibate thing is the root cause, hence the origin of the word, connotation, this meme, the popularity of this meme, Urban Dictionary, and just common sense Wikipedia—read the first sentence of the article You—fantasy world because your feelings were hurt by a meme
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:16 AM
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All of those definitions (except your own) include the sex thing, as I already pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:13 AM
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Well you live in a fantasy world (that you're probably just now making up for this specific argument because the meme hurt your feelings). Incel still means involuntary celibate to vast majority, the extra stuff are just symptoms and associations. The meme wouldn't exist and wouldn't be getting so much traction if this wasn't the case. It will always have this connotation simply due to the structure of the word. I suggest if you want to call someone a misogynist, just call them that, not the the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:11 AM
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Yet every definition, including the ones you link, mention sex first. "YOU TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY!" This is gaslighting and deflecting 101, as you have yet to legitimately challenge a single thing I've said. I'm STILL waiting for an answer to this--If I am having sex everyday and otherwise misogynistic, am I an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:58 AM
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Nobody has mentioned virginity here. It's entire origin, premise, and literal construction of the word is about inability to have sex. You can keep throwing other stuff that's associated with it, but that doesn't change the definition. I'm sorry you don't like it and these meme hits home, that's just something I can't change for you. Take accountability or at least stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:46 PM
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I never said I didn’t like it. Not even my meme, just shared it because I thought it was funny. Just because you don’t like the meme and how it brings up a harsh truth, doesn’t mean you can just completely change how the word is used either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:39 PM
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Post the cnn link then and let’s see the rest of the context. Though CNN is a laughable “source”…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:38 PM
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Sigh… first line: men who identify as being unable to have romantic or sexual relationships. There is a sex component. Meme holds up. Why is this so hard for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:36 PM
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Lmfao, CNN just lost a defamation suit and widely considered heavily biased and spreading misinformation. Even liberals laugh at their integrity, if you watch that infamous Colbert clip where his own audience laughs at the thought CNN is credible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:20 PM
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Ah yes, CNN… the bastion of the English language and subculture. You can keep handpicking all these word salads and associations people attach to the meaning, but at its core it still means “involuntary celibate” and everything else is a byproduct of that. And I will contend that’s probably why it’s become an insult in the first place… but if the lack of sex wasn’t a component or that part “changed”… why use that word at all? Just say misogynist or whatever else. You’re still bringing sex into i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:18 PM
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It’s already pretty well argued below. By your own source of Wikipedia: “a term associated with a mostly online subculture of men who define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, and who may blame, objectify and denigrate women and girls as a result.” Key word is “may.” Still defines it as involuntarily celebrate first, and the sometimes associated byproducts of misogyny and whatever else word salad you try to deflect with. It never changed. If I do get …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:12 PM
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Nothing has changed. The first line is still about not getting laid. The misogyny part is an afterthought because it’s often a byproduct. And that always existed too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:34 PM
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This doesn’t change anything I said, nor does it change the definition. Incel still means involuntary celibate. Sure, sometimes these incels partake in the word salad you copy/pasted above. Sometimes not though. Doesn’t change the definition. What if I do get laid and partake in misogyny, misanthropy, whatever this “new definition” is? Am I an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:24 PM
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IME, 95% of guys would agree with what I said. Even the ones here. Not to say it’s just the feeling of getting our dick wet. There’s other components, like relationship/love, family/pro-creation, whatever. Self-worth is just pretty low on the totem pole of motivations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:17 PM
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who may Key words here. It’s not mutually exclusive from not getting laid, and quite literally says it just might go hand-in-hand. The definition never changed. The fact is says “may” also suggests that it’s not even a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:14 PM
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It’s not that deep—we just like the feeling. I suppose some self-value is derived from our ability to lay pipe, but it’s far from the main goal lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:11 PM
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I’ve never actually been called an incel. Just thought the meme was funny. I do quite well with women tbh, and I even sarcastically tell everyone I’m a virgin just for the lol’s I get. Even Wikipedia defines it as “a term associated with a mostly online subculture of men who define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, and who may blame, objectify and denigrate women and girls as a result.” There’s some history of the term and how it’s associated with mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:09 PM
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Men don’t determine other men’s value on their ability to get laid. Perhaps sometimes men determine a woman’s value on his willingness to fuck her in some situations, but it’s far less sinister and direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:02 PM
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Says another woman. This really comes off as “I don’t like how you countered the insult we throw at you, so we’re going to change the definition even though the definition is literally in the word itself.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:58 PM
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Nah, I want to see him throw down. Call Dana White and Joe Rogan, let’s get this sanctioned in the octagon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:55 PM
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Look guys, we found her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:48 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/19ob7mfa4sfe1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=64e44449b3096132047cbaa7e2f267737039be0a
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:37 PM
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It’s actually very peaceful and liberating. I used to have family obligations and a lot of friends, but there was a lot of drama and passive aggressiveness that I didn’t enjoy. Now I get to do whatever I want. There are times I feel lonely, but I found short term things that fill that hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:03 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/pj72gy82hrce1.jpeg?width=1078&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=31a247dcacb9f7241e07f759739fd4c89a514b6c Don’t have tiktok, but what she shared about it makes it sound even more hilarious. The fact the guy is cheating (or trying to) and the woman is actively stalking him? Sounds like a great example that encapsulates every single relationship and male loneliness lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:16 PM
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The type on the right have always existed, they just may have been closeted. As someone who grew up in an area where that look is the norm, it’s often the ones projecting the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:45 AM
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Just general incompetence. There are plenty of viral videos of them mishandling situations. Sometimes this only detriments themselves/other police, other times it’s them shooting unarmed civilians posing no threat. In my experience, most also have a chip on their shoulder and get carried away. Yelling, threats, escalating/pursuing trivial matters that in now way help society, but completely fuck over the individual. I actually just watched a video in which one arrested a guy for “loitering” beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:31 AM
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Whatever makes you feel better, cupcake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:19 AM
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Low-T behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:55 AM
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Roll of the dice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:48 AM
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Would you rather get pulled over by a female cop, or encounter a bear in the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:44 AM
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I think teen me would think I was ok. They’d be disappointed that I kind of “sold out” working for a major corp, but pretty proud that it pays well and we jumped like 2-3 socioeconomic classes. And thus, we can afford to travel places we always wanted to go. I also have some of the same hobbies and can throw a lot of money/time at them. Definitely wouldn’t be happy that I’m back in the same city we grew up in… but I was able to live elsewhere for a bit on my way back here (which wasn’t entirely …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:08 PM
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Looks like I’m already snowed in for the foreseeable future. Freezing rain all night left a sheet of ice, now it’s regular snow all day and 16” expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:37 AM
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You can talk to her about it, but it might not won’t go well. Important to be calm and not come off as insecure. Just tell her you feel you disrespected and uncomfortable with her hugging other guys and talking with them late at night. If she defends it, tell her it’s not what you expect in relationship and end it if need be. It’s probably better in the long run, even if she’s not already cheating (she very well could be). I had a girl like this once. It was when I was younger and more immature.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:33 AM
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Not even that short (5’11”), but I’m prob taking the height. $5k ain’t shit, I make that in 2.5 weeks. Would have to add another zero or two for me to even consider the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:31 AM
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lmao yes it’s men’s fault when a mother murders her child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:03 AM
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These same woman choose to be with a bear in the woods. They’re not rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:02 AM
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Some might argue that’s why the world is going to shit because women are taking over jobs. By the way, who invented the smartphone or computer you’re using to type this? Let’s get even more modern—OpenAI, Starlink, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:58 AM
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“These days”? Men have always committed more crime, participated in reckless behavior, and used destructive vices throughout all of history. However, they’ve also built, wrote, and invented nearly everything. Testosterone is a helluva thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:53 AM
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Men like to help and "provide"... even it's just guidance and knowledge. Nobody is truly seeking validation from anonymous internet strangers (though the updoots can be satisfying). If a woman says some shit that's wrong or coming from a uninformed place, I think we feel the need to let them know for their own good/understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:13 AM
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I once dated a woman like this. We had sex on hiking trails, in my car, my office, her office, her parents' basement when they had us over for dinner, and even once sucked me off in a movie theater. She didn't drink at all or do drugs. She was actually otherwise kind of a "good girl" PhD candidate in STEM. I wonder if she does/did that with any of her new BFs. Def not the dude she immediately started seeing after me. It was an LDR and the guy was a massive nerd--competes in Yugi-oh/Magic card ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:30 AM
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Mortgage--$1,200/month
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:44 PM
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I think they'd be surprised that most Chads don't even live the life they're imagining. Unless they're top 1% in looks and also have money/status/fame, girls aren't exactly throwing themselves at them. A top 20% guy is still kind of picked apart for minor flaws and might have only a few girls lusting over him. A top 20% woman can have a dozen or more guys wrapped around her finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:07 PM
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As a runner myself, it’s so boring. I need to have goals associated with it or some sort of regime, otherwise I just don’t do it. I sign up for a 5k or 10k fun/charity run every few months, and do the associated training programs leading up to them. Couch to 5k is great, and I often just do that 3-4x a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:32 PM
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Not really lacking in either, but height seems to be more noticeable and appreciated, so I'd go with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:12 PM
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I'm not sure anyone would use the word "villain", but I get what you're saying. I think the point of the story is that neither one really is by the end. You're led to believe that Tom is the "good guy" being in love, and then feeling sorry for him that Summer ultimately rejects him, thus making her the "bad guy" and marrying someone else. However, in the end you realize Tom was overly hung up and didn't realize the love was dying. And Summer ultimately redeems herself by simply telling him she d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 03:46 PM
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Hot take--but donuts are terrible. I guess they're not bad tasting--just very boring as they're usually just bread and sugar. For the sake of the argument, I'll pretend I love donuts. Doesn't have an effect on my decision for a second date. Why would I be mad? Between this and pay debates, there's a lot of resource guarding in this sub. Is everyone a broke hobo? If I'm that hungry, I'll just get something later. I'd rather see my date happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:30 AM
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Bubbly and friendly. She comes off as extroverted, but I think she's a closeted introvert like me, because she definitely needs time to "recharge" and away from people. I'm pretty laidback and chill when, even when I am in moods I feel like socializing, so I think we ultimately compliment each other well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:24 AM
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I have to see my doctor once a year in order to get an insurance discount, which is pretty significant—nearly -50% monthly premiums. Often times I see his NP instead, because they mostly just check vitals and basic stuff. I’m very healthy, so it’s kind of pointless outside of that, but sometimes the real doc can help with minor stuff. For example, he got me on adderall when I was struggling in grad school. Also prescribed me propecia when I started noticing hair loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:50 PM
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I mean, I think it's a goal of all men to have options, regardless of pill. So RP isn't "claiming" as their own. It definitely is a standard rule/goal though, and kind of the nature of "spinning plates", "unicorns don't exist", etc. concepts. Getting there is the hard part, and yeah there's a lot of people who can't/don't who gravitate towards RP. Especially online, because real chads and successful RPers aren't bragging about it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:23 PM
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I think option 1 is RP, while option 2 is more like Black Pill (or leading to it). It's a cardinal RP rule to have options and not get hung up on 1 woman. The only thing slightly different is MAYBE the pay thing, but I don't think that's really specified either way with RP. In fact, they also preach financial security, so I could see how paying can demonstrate that. Personally, I don't give a fuck about paying and it has nothing to do with gender dynamics. Often times it's just easier to have on…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:46 PM
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To be fair, context is important. I only did it to girls who would text me first and thought COULD be interested in me. Thanks to my glow-up and attending a large school, this was apparently a lot. I just laugh about it now because not long before that, I was often too shy and nervous to even hold hands. I actually had one girl end things because we were moving too slow and I was making moves, which is probably why I suddenly became so brazen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:37 PM
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Idk, I think they liked the forwardness and confidence. Maybe it's just high school girls being dumb/horny though. Probably couldn't pull that off now with older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:48 PM
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I had a glow-up in high school and it turned me into a man-whore by my junior and senior years. I was kind of a loner before that, but I did well in sports by my sophomore year that I was suddenly popular. Dated a little bit, but I was inexperienced and kind of a pussy that it turned women off. I started to just be as forward as possible. There were a lot of text conversations that went like this: Her: Hey whats up? Me: Nothing much, listening to music at home. You? Her: Same, bored. Me: You sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:25 PM
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The comedian Daniel Sloss has a hilarious and very insightful bit about this. It's in his special "Jigsaw" which is on Netflix. It's basically the entire second half of the whole thing. It changed my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:06 PM
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What do you consider a fulfilling youth? Mine was probably amongst the worst in many ways, though I did have some fulfilling outlets which helped. It all ultimately kind of motivated me to do well later in life, which I thoroughly enjoy now. It's actually kind of blissful not really looking back with rose colored lens like so many people do and hating their current life in comparison. All that being said, I will admit I do have some lingering issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:38 PM
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Agreed. Like half of her posts are about her struggles with IBS. Nobody wants to hear about your tummy aches and diarrhea. Even her fitness "job" is a joke, so it's kind of funny to hear her complain about money. She shills a $10/month "service" of just sending PDF workout routines, along with a fitness cookbook. She has no formal credentials for fitness, nutrition, or health, so instead she just tells stories about "I used to weigh/lift x, now it's y, and this is how it changed my life.... buy …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:59 PM
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Kind of agree, that's just the reason she gave. Perhaps there could be more, but nothing I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:50 PM
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Lol that's a good way to describe her life. There's some other stuff about her I left out that involves similar ups and downs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:43 PM
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Interested about what you guys think of one of my friends... We actually used to date. It didn't work out or last long, but we remained friends. She was a good girl type--straight A's, went to church, sang in the choir, didn't drink, parents are schoolteachers... so it was shocking to see her suddenly spiral. Dropped out of college and moved in with her sister. Worked shitty retail job and developed a coke addiction. Hit rock bottom, but cleaned up seemingly overnight using fitness as an outlet.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:36 PM
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I don't think she cheated, unless you count emotional cheating. And the fact there was another guy actually made me get over it faster. If she wants him more than me, not really much I can do. To be fair, I was going through a lot at the time too. I guess her only mess up was not realizing my struggle was temporary. I've never really blamed her for it though or hated her. In some ways, it was the best thing to ever happen to me, and I'm closer to being thankful for it. Not sure why she feels tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:41 PM
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My ex is so weird. She holds this massive grudge against me and talks shit, even 5+ years after the breakup. She was the one who dumped me (on my birthday), and it was for another guy. It sucked, and I said some mildly nasty stuff as it went down, but nothing too crazy given the circumstance. I got over it, and we haven't talked since. Mostly her doing--she blocked me on everything. It didn't play out too well for her I guess. New guy left her 2 months later (our relationship was 3 years). She s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:17 PM
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Maybe. Two of her ex's left her for blondes that I guess are more conventionally attractive. Although I wouldn't call her average--I actually find her way more attractive than both, but that probably has more to do with my weird standards/type. I could also believe the psycho thing. Her friendliness and bubbly-ness is so extreme that it could def be fake. It also doesn't help that she has some "pick me" and "not like other girls" vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:30 PM
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I was previously just assuming she sucks in bed or something lol. But that could very well be possible. She did delete all her social media right after that, and stayed dark for over a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:19 PM
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Idk, she was in a serious relationship through college. Not sure why they broke up, but he quickly got with a new girl and engaged. Almost the same thing happened with the next guy. I think both tore her up though, because she went a long time without seeing guys between them. Her hints to me were a little forward and seemed to invite me to expand on it, but it's kind of hard to do that in our [very professional] office. Lots of other people around, and there is the risk of being wrong, which wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:17 PM
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It's actually been about 4-5 years since she started working here, and she's always been like this. She had a very serious boyfriend through college. Not sure why they broke up, but he quickly got with another gal and engaged. Dated this other guy for awhile but almost the same thing happened. I guess I kind of have a crush on her, but I don't really think about it much due to the "shit where I eat" thing. Obviously I've taken an interest in thinking about all this though lol. I assume my feelin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:02 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:36 PM
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Gal at work is always making self-deprecating jokes about being single. She does date, but nothing seems to last despite the fact she seems pretty traditional about wanting to get married, have kids, etc. She's objectively attractive, kind of in an unconventional sense, but I think most guys would still give her at least a 7/10. College educated, great corporate job, very friendly and outgoing. I wonder what the catch is? I have a pretty firm rule about not dating coworkers, but I'm tempted to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:16 PM
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Yeah, I love working on days when most people take off. I work in a support type role, but also have general operational duties. Having to help people distracts me from those so when everyone's off and not needing my assistance, I get more done. Sometimes I'll even work on holidays or weekends despite not getting paid for it as I'm salaried.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:05 PM
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Maybe I'm just from a conservative/traditional area, but it's still very much expected bride's parents pay. If they're unable to, others chip in... including the groom's parents. As backwards as it is, the reality is that weddings are just as much about the guests as the bride and groom, so parents are willing to help for their own experience. It's not uncommon for the bride and groom to kind of just "go through the motions" of the day. I get what you're saying though. Personally, if it's up to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:01 PM
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Maybe I'm just from a conservative/traditional area, but it's still very much expected bride's parents pay. If they're unable to, others chip in... including the groom's parents. As backwards as it is, the reality is that weddings are just as much about the guests as the bride and groom, so parents are willing to help for their own experience. It's not uncommon for the bride and groom to kind of just "go through the motions" of the day. I get what you're saying though. Personally, if it's up to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:01 PM
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True, but also with traditions, the people sending out the invites (bride and groom) often aren't the ones paying for it. Usually bride's parents, no? People tend to be less frugal when they're using someone else's money. Personally, I want a very small wedding (for reasons beyond cost), but if I were want a big one and make it a party--I would HAVE to invite coworkers and casual acquaintances lol. I only have a handful of friends and only a dozen or so family members. And to be honest, I see an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:21 PM
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Eh, some people treat it as a party and "more the merrier" type thing, so I've never been surprised to get an invite from coworkers or casual acquaintances. I have been shocked being asked to be a groomsman a couple times. One was an old military buddy. We were close while serving, but eventually stationed elsewhere before getting out and living hundreds of miles away. Loosely kept in touch, but hadn't seen each other in years. The other was my college roommate. We still live close, but his now-…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:46 PM
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I’m not monstrously sized, but definitely well above average in length and girth, so this is a common problem women have with me. Even if they can “get it all”, it usually means I’m getting some teeth. Not to mention (and prob most importantly), it’s getting stimulated in a way that’s not ideal. The head is the most sensitive part, while the lower areas can handle and enjoy a little bit more. It isn’t productive to have the head hitting the harder parts of the pallet in the back of the throat an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:59 AM
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Killing someone might influence a market, but it’s the opposite of free. Anti-libertarians are so weird with all their attempts at “gotcha!” moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:57 PM
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Lmfao killing people isn’t part of the “free market”. The core Libertarian belief is that people have the right to life, liberty, and their property.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:34 PM
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r/Consoom
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:55 PM
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It’s weird how they directly blame him for everything and anything UHC did/does. Do just a tiny bit of research on him—he was an accountant who just climbed the corporate ladder, and much of his career wasn’t even in health insurance. He was never an adjuster denying claims or actuary directly setting policies related to it. Do people know how corporations work? CEO’s, especially ones for huge companies like this, are basically just figure heads. They’re the face/image of the company and handle …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:58 PM
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I'm both sides of the fence on this. I've been with a woman passionately in love with me to the point she felt the need "guard" me. Her ways of going about this, similar to this gal, were not always rational or fair... but love can make you do crazy things. Not to mention she was young and inexperienced like this woman seems to be. The main problem here is how she's going about it--it shouldn't interfere with your relationship with the man (like getting mad at him and fighting) as it sends the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:45 PM
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Well a lot of the people who delved into it were legitimate posers that didn't really have an identity to begin with, and were thus just trying too hard. I mean, they'd go as far as changing the way they talk and other cringey stuff. I can understand why some might frown at that. I think you'd be ok to dress how you want, even downtown as long as you stay true to yourself. Hell, there's certainly blue collar types here and people that visit/migrate from farmland. I'd probably get some weird look…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:42 PM
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It's a thing in the Chicago suburbs, even before you hit farmland areas lol. I grew up in one of the higher end areas that probably didn't have a single farm within 30+ miles, but there was a pretty big group that liked to pretend. I felt like there was a lot of weird gatekeeping though, and the "leaders" were the ones that had family or a parcel of land out in farm country where they could go do their bonfires and hunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:14 PM
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There’s this post going viral right now about a 24 year old moderately attractive woman going viral because she’s never had a BF. Haven’t watched the tiktok, though everyone on X is speculating she prob has a high body count. However, I can believe if she’s truly just inexperienced. Kind of reminds me of my GF’s sister. Never had a boyfriend or even kissed a boy, and she’s 23. She’s very attractive—even did a beauty pageant last year and placed. I think the problem is just some social stuff. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:25 PM
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Probably close to 80% too. It was actually a major bonding moment during our first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:57 PM
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Asians
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:10 AM
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No, never. I don’t knock polygamy or cuckholding or whatever lifestyle you want to call it… whatever makes you happy. It doesn’t for me though, and I’d never be able to tolerate it. And not even from a sanctity standpoint. I just have a primal/instinctual aversion to it in my own intimacy, that I could never trust or reciprocate love back to a partner like that. The money thing is a non-factor. I don’t need to the be the provider or breadwinner in a relationship, and having one that can at least…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:21 PM
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This might be the worst take I've ever seen on this sub. Let's look at this from a science perspective. Like it or not, humans are just animals--we're not sent by God or have some purpose other than continuity of species. Thus, intimacy and reproducing is a core need and in our inherent nature. Can't exactly do that with platonic friends and thus it's not really fulfilling those needs. I could see an argument of how having friends can lead to a larger network and provide validation to potential …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:14 PM
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What exactly is the argument here? OP is arguing that people should own a business so they don’t have to work a 9 to 5. You still do and have to devote additional time to managing the rentals. Not to mention you either have to have a huge sum of money to buy a rental, or incur a huge amount of debt which incurs a lot of risk and interest expenses. You could go “low and slow” by investing smaller amounts periodically into a diversified fund like VOO/VTI and average annual 10% gains. Really no man…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:08 PM
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Yep, most businesses fail. Many people go into it for all the wrong reasons too. I mean hell, OP is saying the primary motivation is so you can have more personal time (LOL). There’s a post on some of my hobby group subreddits nearly everyday about starting a business related to it looking for ideas simply because they enjoy the hobby. Lots of housewives do it too because they’re bored and gives them IG clout. Not saying these results can’t be possible… but they’re not focusing on the most impor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:39 AM
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Take your pick. A strong argument can be made for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:45 PM
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If you think being deported and mainstream media saying “predator” is the equivalent of what male sexual assaulted go through… oh man, I have some bad news for you. Not that they don’t deserve it, but it’s an entire different world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:42 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:04 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/13f119i1a94e1.jpeg?width=1201&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a75af0b86b507eb75900beebbe77dd1e7b283f63 Usually the smarter a person is, the more they realize how little they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:31 PM
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I never realized this was a thing for the longest time. In the military, we always said "female type" when referring to a specific woman, as we went by last names and obviously the vast majority are males. It was just an easy way to identify people. Not really a condescending thing though, so not sure why people get offended by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:07 PM
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I silently forgave mine. It became kind of obvious he only bullied me specifically out of jealousy and his own sense of inadequacy. He suffered right away once we started adulthood. I was pretty successful and ran into him once. He acted like we were old friends. Maybe that was his way of apologizing? Idk, but he was clearly humbled. And because I was now military trained, he certainly didn’t try to fuck with me anymore. Ended up becoming a cop after failing college and another few endeavors. Pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:52 AM
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My bully died.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:24 AM
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Successful (attractive) red pill guys don’t talk about it. Theres nothing to discuss, and they’re probably busy living out its principles—working out, advancing their career, fucking women, etc. Not lurking on the internet. I discovered the subreddit in college and leaned into it hard. Pretty successful, especially in my upper class years when I was in great shape, held a leadership position on campus, internship/job lined up, etc. Steady rotation of “plates” but I wasn’t online talking about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:58 PM
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Guy approached me at the grocery store today, seemingly just wanting to talk. He asked about my shoes and carried on a conversation. He was a little awkward, even outside the fact that he was approaching strangers in a grocery store. However, he was friendly, so I entertained it despite being mildly annoyed. I later saw him doing the same thing with other people in the store. He was definitely younger than me—probably late teens or early 20’s, which makes me wonder if this is a generation thing?…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:54 PM
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All because a girl claimed that? What if it was an infidelity situation? Ie. She only came forward when her BF found out? And what if she actually did admit to lying about it later? Or some other exonerating evidence came out? How would you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:44 AM
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And that’s why those stats are so flawed. If you think prosecuting for SA is rare, proving and prosecuting for falsifying a report are 100x more difficult. Most just go unfounded, so it’s actually not 95%-98% chance he did do it. Hell, even if there’s evidence she’s lying, it’s rarely pursued. Basically takes a flat out confession from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:32 AM
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Women lie about SA all the time. Especially to cover up infidelity. Even the [extremely flawed] statistic that says 2%-5% of claims are false still isn’t “slim to none.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:22 AM
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Mine happened by chance probably. I remember her first day and her department head introduced us. I thought she was objectively attractive, but hey it’s work, professional environment, I didn’t think much of it. It wasn’t until we talked more in passing we realized we had a lot in common. She dropped hints about hanging out, I obliged despite still having a “don’t shit where you eat” mentality. One thing led to the next, and now we’re engaged. I guess you’re kind of right, that it’s not really s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:38 AM
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a) Sports. Mostly playing/participating over following professional teams (I prob lack a little bit there, but I do at least pay attention to my local ones). The ones I do participate in are male dominated though, particularly golf and training Muay Thai. b) Does cooking count? Mostly grilling/smoking and other masculine avenues though. Certainly not baking or making salads. Otherwise, musical instrument? Just guitar though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:49 PM
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This is near the top of my requirements in my ideal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:43 PM
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Might have added one too many chromosomes, if you get what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:20 PM
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The Less I Know the Better. Prob a boring/basic choice, but it’s just so groovy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:15 PM
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Huh, adding a y? Just like men’s chromosomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:13 PM
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Some of us used to play pickleball during our lunch break which was fun, but they closed the nearby courts. We need to arrange something like that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:02 PM
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God I hate going into the office. I’m hybrid wfh only having to go in twice a week, but there’s no point. Nobody interacts anyways, so just wasting time and money on the commute. Not to mention the person next to me constantly open mouth chews her food so loudly. Today it’s baby carrots.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:56 PM
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I think it’s morally wrong to bother people in their own home. Especially stepping on their property uninvited to have to do it, for something they probably don’t need and didn’t seek out themselves. As I said, most people inherently avoid conflict and might be adverse to saying no in an adequate way… not to mention sales tactics can be very pushy and make it harder. There’s a reason I hung up the sign—many wouldn’t take no for an answer and I even had them threaten me before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:01 PM
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Decent take, but I wouldn’t suggest door-to-door sales. You’re encroaching people in the peace their home and trying to entice them into something they didn’t seek out in the first place. Sure, there’s some skill set to be gained there, but the tactics can quickly become predatory. Morally speaking, I could never do it. Not to mention it’s often illegal. Many jurisdictions require a permit to solicit, yet many companies don’t bother because police have more important things to enforce. I also ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:17 PM
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I used to love FDS before it got banned or left or whatever happened. And believe it or not, some of it was actually informative. I mean, don’t get me wrong… 95% was a cesspool of delusional fatties. However, there was some occasionally some good takes and things I learned about women’s perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:23 AM
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Idk, I kind of like it. Not that I’m actually pro Palestine or pro Israel. I just want them both to turn each other into glass parking lots.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:10 PM
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Niccolo Machiavelli or Sun Tzu?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:39 PM
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500 Days of Summer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:06 AM
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Yeah, most people recommend 15%. I just avoided lifetstyle inflation over my last few raises and that also includes a generous employer match for my retirement. I’ll prob knock it down eventually, but best to do as much as possible upfront so compound interest can do its thing. Especially for retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:18 AM
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I don’t look at it as contributing to society, rather achieving my own success. Hell, I’d gladly watch the world burn. I’d just look for another opportunity to get ahead and/or benefit. My wages aren’t stagnant—I get a standard 5% raise every year and earn a promotion on average every 3-4 years that nets at least another 15%. Asset prices are going up. So buy assets. I own a home that’s doubled in value in the 6 years since I bought. I’ll rent it out when I upgrade next year. I also throw 30% of…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:28 PM
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I mean, I’m purple pill. I don’t really believe in hard theory about alpha/beta existence either. Hell, there’s valid argument that it doesn’t even exist in the nonhuman animal kingdom. It’s just kind of vernacular here, and I’m more so saying that there is a metaphorical hierarchy of men’s value and worth to women. Especially here if she truly would procreate with x guy but not y guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:50 PM
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Maybe he’s your version of “alpha”? It’s not always a black and white or objective thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:36 PM
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I honestly don’t know. Or if he even knows either. The guy simps for her and is a huge pushover, so yeah, definitely just does whatever she wants. Their marriage made more sense when it happened. She’s attractive, but not overly so... like a 7. Early in her career at the time, basically entry level corporate marketing. Clearly had/has emotional issues, doesn’t help that she can also be a snobby bitch. He’s tall and had his glow up professionally graduating school and got a big boy job. A few yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:33 PM
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Yeah it makes me wonder what her end game is. Even though she does well in her career, she’s not the brightest. Especially when it comes to this stuff, if not evident by the fact she stayed friends with her ex and friend he left her for. But I have another funny story that shows that, which also aligns with our presumptions: She did date another guy between the first two. Almost a full year. He got screwed out of his college program and was going through some shit. She saw him as a loser for it,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:17 PM
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One of my female friends always wanted kids. Or at least did with her ex’s. Them? Not so much… or at least with her. Basically got alpha widowed by 2 different guys. Kind of in brutal ways… first guy left her after 5 years for one of her friends. She actually forgave them and stayed friends with both, though they’d talk shit on her. I think she was just lonely and had hopes they’d realize it was a mistake. Didn’t happen, they married and had kids. Next guy she dated longterm was this super rich …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:00 PM
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Would.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:37 PM
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Girl I’ve been dating a few weeks now and I were talking about how we don’t have FB, IG, or any real identifiable social media. For me, I just didn’t really use it. I like to keep things private, and I don’t really care to look at other’s life highlights. However, she deleted hers after a previous longterm BF left her for another woman. He hid it, but she found out via social media and made an embarrassing scene posting about it. Thought it was a red flag at first, but it was years ago and clear…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:50 PM
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I've found that most women put in basically no effort. I have theories on why. I mean, a lot of it is simply they don't have to and there is no pressure, like you said. And some of it is just ignorance of their own sexuality/enjoyment due to being ingrained with modesty from a very early age. Some try to break free of that and "explore"... but those stories never end up being about any meaningful self-discovery. It's almost always something like just sleeping with more guys and/or breaking her p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:03 PM
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There’s a debate on right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:47 AM
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I guess the more I think about it, it kind of depends on the situation and how much you trust them. I’d probably be ok with it with my current crush, as long as it wasn’t an ex, separate rooms, and they hadn’t hooked up before or something. I have no reason to trust my ex though lol. She cheated both on me and with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:44 AM
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Toxic ex had a guy move in with her a month or two ago. She reached out to me tonight for the first time since, so I called her out on messaging me while she’s living with another guy. She claims he’s gay, but I’m not buying it. Not that I would go back to her regardless of this situation… but it does bring up an interesting topic: How would you feel if a potential partner had an opposite sex gay roommate?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:36 AM
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Username is a joke—I’ve never actually experienced one… giving or receiving. Though maybe I should suggest it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:50 PM
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FWB just gave me the code word/phrase. I’m getting laid tonight boys!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:46 PM
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“I’m not looking for a relationship right now, but I would consider FWB.” She’s already proved you can’t trust her and she’s not relationship material. Might be able to salvage a lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:28 PM
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I think all politicians should fear for their lives for similar reasons. Trump might be far more brash with his rhetoric, but both sides toe the line. I don’t condone violence, but it doesn’t surprise me people would resort to that when they consider roughly half their constituents enemies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:07 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/5syglls6iwod1.jpeg?width=1240&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=12cb0b6d8b4c2dcdf6d9b6a2169e957f44473789
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:30 AM
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Golden retriever. Comes from a hunting line, so he’s extremely smart but still has the derpy characteristics of a golden.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:47 AM
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I have the coolest dog ever. This is not a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:30 AM
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I'm definitely a boobs over ass guy, but size is mostly irrelevant. Shape is everything, and typically the smaller ones don't sag as much, so I actually kind of prefer them over larger ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:36 PM
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With fall approaching, are joggers still ok to wear? I know baggy is back in style and it’s kind of what I grew up with (more like low rise bootcut), but once joggers evolved to just being a tailored cut with cuffs at the ankle, I just find them far more practical and comfortable. Don’t care too much about what other people think, just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:10 PM
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I’ve witnessed and even been directly involved with multiple false accusations. Many actually are born in hot temper or intense situations. Both of the ones I’ve experienced first hand involved infidelity, the accuser getting caught, and then making up the lie in the moment it was discovered by their partner. Sure, it takes calculated measures to pursue it further and there was some of that, but it quickly dwindled as time went on. Both of the incidents went unfounded, and there was no outcry fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:09 PM
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I wouldn’t be surprised if they get to the point that they believe their own lie. Otherwise, they probably still find a way to justify it in their own head. “He still deserved it because of xyz…”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:02 PM
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My boss is very short (~5'4") but makes up for it by being in tip top shape. He's jacked and extremely low BF%--seriously looks better than most UFC guys cutting weight. His wife is beautiful and obviously he's successful professionally. However, I think his short man complex gets in the way just as much. He's passive as a boss and in just normal social interactions. He self-deprecates a lot even at work, which is unnecessary because I and the rest of his subordinates are always professional and…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:04 PM
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Oh ok, since it never happened to this one person on the internet (allegedly), it must just never happen. Sorry, I take back what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:30 PM
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Are you guys fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:21 PM
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It’s not just hookups. Lots of women unknowingly get played in their “situationships” or short term flings as a result of hookup culture (which isn’t even the point of this, so idk why I’m entertaining this “not like other girls” take). You may have went in with the right intentions and LTR mindset, but that doesn’t mean the guy did. Once you figure that out and end it, it’s pretty easy to say that guy wasn’t marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:21 PM
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The only reason why the husband material thing is controversial is because the guy is making insinuations that she has been dicked down by one night stands or had other NSA encounters before. I guess I *kind of* get it from the male perspective, but once you get old enough, this is nearly every woman who's at least moderately attractive. And most men too (or at least should have done it at least once). I don't necessarily condone it, but a lot can be learned from it. And I'd rather have my wife …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:33 PM
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We must bring back the warrior training of Sparta to stimulate masculinity in the world, that is how we move forward my soyboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:08 PM
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My fiancé would fuck my mom up lol. My mom is in pretty good shape for her age and bigger, but my fiancé holds advanced belts in various martial arts, including BJJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:35 PM
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How do so many women have jobs? Most don’t even have the attention span to sit through a movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:34 AM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:14 PM
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I’m hoping so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:12 PM
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Remindme! 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:09 PM
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I standby my original statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:08 PM
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I’m too old, please explain pop smoke
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:04 PM
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Future single mother vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:02 PM
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I graduated in 2013 when we were still experiencing the effects of the 2008 recession. Sure, stocks and real estate bubbles popped immediately, but unemployment came later and stuck around a very long time. Every employer justified hiring freezes “bEcAuSe ThE eCoNoMy” even though everything else was recovering. I’d argue it still went on up until the 2020 labor shortages. I ended up joining the military and “hid out” for 4 years. Fortunately landed something lucrative after that, and I have been…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:06 AM
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Thought my student loans got forgiven, but turns out just a change of servicer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:32 PM
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Also fellow Army. They just put it in the registry/database. So just don’t murder anyone, or at least clean up your DNA if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:17 AM
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I’ve always tried to be a good person, but I’ve learned that people tend to gaslight others that they are bad in order to “justify” wronging them. There’s really no convincing them, so I just embrace the villain role in their lives. Direct revenge can have backlash, but passive things work well. Hell, it motivates me and is a big reason for a lot of my success.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:07 AM
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Outside of the criminal DNA registry, I think there are laws that prevent them from sharing data that connects you to your specific DNA data. And if you’re truly worried about being implicated in a crime you may commit, authorities have very easy ways to legally get your DNA without your consent. I guess they still have to connect it to you somehow in order to know to gather it, but personally I don’t ever really plan on murdering anyone or anything like that. I was in the military, so the regis…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:00 AM
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What happened
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:18 PM
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Why don't you ask her? She is your mother after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:48 PM
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It's less about age gap and more about lifestyle/maturity gap. I'd be concerned with it because 18 year olds are pretty dumb and inexperienced. Probably doesn't even know what she wants in a man, or life in general. If you want to just get your dick wet, that might be ok. Now if it was the same gap but she was 25 and you were 34? Perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:46 PM
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Gals, is participating in hobbies homosexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:40 PM
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Possibly. She used to suck me off in the cart while we waited on at tee boxes. Even snuck out in the woods one time and hit her from behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:32 PM
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Golf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:27 PM
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Lol I moved on quick. Kind of hard to at least not take notice when I see her while we're both participating at the hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:20 PM
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Ex girlfriend is just starting to get into one of my main hobbies. What does she mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:11 PM
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This is smart. I’ve dated both sides of the spectrum—women who are exactly alike and women polar opposite. Pros and cons of each, so it’s best to find a happy medium. Even better if your partner compliments your own characteristics. For example, I’m pretty introverted and quiet, while my fiancé is bubbly and very extroverted (at least on the surface—I think she’s actually an introvert who happens to be social when she wants/needs to be… but that’s another story). She gets me out more often than …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:53 PM
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lol yeah not my meme. I’d prob add “and don’t be fat”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:36 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/3voopl5l02gd1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9ef86ff33f69dfb53a97a3e697f28fc749289a19
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:25 PM
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I was praying for Vivek lol. It was hilarious when someone made a joke about him building a 7/11 at the White House and all the wokeys went nuts, only for Vivek himself to double down on the joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:49 PM
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Fighting doesn’t really have a place in modern society and hasn’t in hundreds, if not thousands of years. Sure, there can be value in the subtle physical intimidation, but if you go far too far on the spectrum of that, you’re just an unhinged meathead loser. I mean, who do you think has higher SMV—a successful lawyer or a semi-pro MMA fighter? Sure, the lawyer might back down a fight at the bar, but he’s a lot higher value in the sexual marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:50 PM
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Too short reminds me of the mini skirt fad in the early 2000’s. Too far past the knees looks even more old fashioned though. Right above the knees is ideal. The sundress look has been real popular in Chicago this summer, and it drives me wild walking home from work downtown and seeing all the young professional women wearing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:49 PM
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Don’t. They blocked you for a reason, even if trivial or immaturely. It has never gone well when I reached out through other means. However, when I just ignored it and went full con contact, they almost always eventually reach out to me and even unblock me. Especially true with ex’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:35 AM
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While I agree with this somewhat, it’s important to know when to practice humility and show respect. I see this as a huge problem amongst younger folks nowadays, though I also recognize it happened growing up too. The kids who were too edgy and shit disturbers, they didn’t make it far in careers if they started at all. Some still live at home and work their high school retail/food service they had as teens. I’m watching my distant cousin currently go through it. He disrespected me once at a fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:29 AM
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This sounds like a delusional fantasy of an overweight neckbeard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:36 PM
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Yeah in hindsight I actually feel stupid for not ending things right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:01 AM
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Eh, RP isn’t really adamant on those. Plenty of “money doesn’t matter” posts on the sub. Political opinion is also entirely irrelevant, though I think you might be conflating that with more traditional gender dynamics? Either way, that’s also not heavily preached. RP preaches mostly how to interact with females (shit tests, negging, etc). Money, being in shape, clothes, and politics might help, but there’s no hard line or standard. Sure, they probably wouldn’t marry or even date you exclusively,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:31 AM
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What kind of woman are you then? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:15 AM
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These were fine cuts, like $40+ a pop. Typically these types are meant to be enjoyed for their inherent quality—overcooking them and using sauce ruins the natural flavor. You don’t have to have an exquisite pallet to enjoy them. I sure as hell don’t. Hell, for cheap cuts from the local grocery store, I’ll cook them a bit longer and throw some A1 on. You ought to try one sometime. You can ease into it, like go to a steakhouse (doesn’t have to be too fancy), order a decent cut (NY strip, filet mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:08 AM
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All the more reason to ghost her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:55 PM
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This was bright yellow Heinz she was dipping the already cooked steak into. Not really the same idea, though I guess it’s slightly better than ketchup…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:26 PM
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Normally I laugh off superficial and trivial “standards”, but I’m starting to believe there’s validity to them. For example, I grilled up steaks on one of the early dates with my now-ex. Some expensive ribeyes from a local butcher, yet she wanted hers well-done and dipped it in mustard. Honestly, I could probably forgive medium-well and some A1… but well-done and mustard? That’s like toddler food. I should’ve asked if she wanted me to feed it to her while making airplane noises. She ended up bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:21 PM
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Agreed. I’m assuming she’s trying to reach out to me, and this is her only avenue because I have her number blocked and no social media. They did really like her and always welcomed her, so that’s probably why she thinks it would be ok. Even to this day (several years after the breakup) they occasionally ask about her and what happened with us. She was/is very mature and accomplished on the surface… but dating wise she was a mess. I got over it quick and haven’t looked back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:53 PM
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Ex girlfriend has been reaching out to my family the past few days. Fortunately they ignored her, but I am slightly curious what she wants. She dumped me years ago and there was some unnecessary drama with it. Entirely my fault, but I was embarrassed/frustrated and burned the bridge, blocked her, etc. I did look her up on social media this morning. She looks really good and seems to be doing well. I don’t think I could ever have romantic feelings for her again though, and definitely can’t trust …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:23 PM
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I’m aware, and she did even start seeing a guy a few months back. I actually wasn’t jealous or anything like that. We talked about him and she shared pictures. He was very good looking and I was happy for her. He ended up being kind of weird and immature though, so she broke it off after a couple months. We talked a lot about that too, and our flirting kicked into overdrive after that. I’m sure I’ll ask her out eventually. If I miss my chance, oh well. I don’t believe in fate, but I do think thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:19 PM
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There's this girl at work who I have a massive crush on. The feelings are definitely reciprocal, as she doesn't really hide it... she has even subtly asked me out. I initially ignored the feelings because "don't shit where you eat" and other potential issues, but it wouldn't be a problem at all. We work on completely different sides of the business and don't really interact professionally at all. She also seems very mature and wouldn't bring drama to work. The company is also small and casual en…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:07 PM
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She used to be a prosecutor and was pretty hypocritical/shady in that position. Billed herself as a progressive, but pursued low level drug convictions and death penalty cases despite claiming to be against it. She also refused to investigate or do anything about police misconduct in her jurisdiction on several instances. There’s other things and she got absolutely massacred in debates by fellow democrats when she tried to get the presidential candidacy for 2020. She really had no chance, and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:38 PM
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Yeah, it definitely can be. I was chasing this girl in college. I typically do well with women, but the other guy she was chasing was definitely better looking. He wasn’t really giving her a chance and using her. When I pointed this out to her, she tried to pigeonhole me as one of those fake “nice guys” and even sent me a meme related to it. I then pointed out I never said I was a nice guy or try to be one. She was speechless. She eventually convinced him to go exclusive and burned the bridge wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:30 PM
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And yet you still are without realizing it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:28 PM
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lmao thank you for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:29 PM
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Sigmund Freud and several other renowned psychologists would have a word or two on this one lol. There’s a lot of “benefits” of not having social skills, especially if you’re excusing it with a medical illness and thus minimizing the social consequences. You can inhibit social and societal expectations to say and do what you want. Don’t feel like doing your homework because you want play? Sorry teacher, I have autism and got distracted. Don’t want to talk to Dave in accounting? Tell him to piss …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:58 PM
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If it’s truly a spectrum, then technically everyone is on it. That could be the actual case, but clearly those “not as far along” on said spectrum are able to overcome their difficulties as well. I think the real problem lies in the fact that people treat it like a medical diagnosis of ‘you have it or you don’t’ mentality, which contradicts what you just said. And that’s when it can be used to excuse irrational behavior in a blanket sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:52 PM
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I think the problem isn’t necessarily lacking social skills, rather the ability to obtain them. I think the more severe/“real” cases, there’s a cognitive inability to do so. Other cases, people are just unwilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:43 PM
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Lacking social skills doesn’t automatically mean autism though. I mean, what if it’s just a sheltered upbringing and they develop later? Did they cure their autism? I think you hit the nail on the head that it’s become a thing people just associate and group weirdos together because it’s easy. The fact it’s medical related though sometimes gives people an “excuse” to be weird though it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:33 PM
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I feel like autism is the new ADHD. Don’t get me wrong, I think both exist… but I think both are waaaaayyy over diagnosed and probably not accurately. For ADHD, I feel like it’s just an excuse to tell bad parents for their type A personality kid, as they’ll probably just doctor shop if they tell them the truth. Same idea for autism, it just gives people an excuse to be weird and not sorry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:23 PM
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Eh, none of us really friend zoned or rejected each other intentionally. We just never made a move. I never really felt bad about it until it was confirmed, and even then only because of her manipulation. I could several dozen stories about the shit she'd do, but using my friend to get to me and later trying to get me drunk and cheat on my GF highlight it pretty well. Hell, telling me now is probably another manipulation thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:54 PM
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This is refreshing to hear, so thanks for that. And you may be right about the safety/back pocket thing. Or possibly even trying to branch swing... I mentioned this in another reply, but she also complained about her husband to me. He's not a complete deadbeat and seems to love her a lot, just not very successful and "boring" (her words). I almost wonder if her admitting the crush thing now is another tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:52 PM
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My rant is more about how I kind of feel different about her now, in a bad way. Crushing on me all those years under the guise of friendship, especially when I had the off/on feelings for her. Some of the toxicity was pretty bad too, such as telling me about her sex life and hating on the girls I dated. And now after all these years she admits it after she's married? Part of me wonders if this is another ploy to get me to make a move. Her husband isn't a complete deadbeat, but she's definitely t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:42 PM
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I met this girl, let's call her Becky, in 9th grade. She dated my best friend, but she would talk to me often. Becky hinted about how she may have been using him to get to me, as I was pretty shy and nervous around girls. I ignored it, but kept up with Becky's friendship even after my best friend and her broke up after only a couple weeks. I have to admit--I did have feelings for Becky several times over the next several years, but they were off and on and probably the result of loneliness and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:28 PM
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Yeah I know, you just seemed curious about circumstances of it, so I shared mine. Maybe it was just about him specifically though, so sorry for cutting in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:10 PM
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My cousin's kid already knows his multiplication tables, and he starts Kindergarten in the fall. Part of that is probably his helicopter parents and grandparents, but it's still impressive. I don't even think I knew how to add or subtract until being taught it in 1st grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:47 PM
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I graduated college at 26. Was in the military 18-22.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:43 PM
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Similar experience. She proudly told me her body count was 40+ (I forgot the exact number, but she knew/tracked it). She wasn’t too bad about criticizing me and comparing previous partners directly, but it very much felt like she did it in her head the entire relationship. She actually had some “tradwife” values and wanted to settle down, and I was actually willing at the time too, so it got pretty serious. Then we had this weird, minor misunderstanding one night. The ironic part was that earlie…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:27 PM
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I’ll DM you a pic of mine next to a ruler to prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:18 PM
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It goes beyond just nepotism. People forget sports are just a business. The controversy of the nepotism alone is creating a buzz and will sell tickets/create watchers to see if he can earn it. Not to mention the fact it is one of the GOAT’s sons and the brand/image appeal of them playing on the same team. Even if he ends up flopping, it’s going to make the team and the family’s ventures A LOT of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:55 PM
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I think a big part of why many companies struggle is because there are outside hires over internal promotions. Who do you think is going to be a better fit for management? Someone who’s been working for the company for years, or someone that’s simply good at resumé building and interviewing? Sure, sometimes outside perspective and certain skill sets can help. However, with the amount of bullshit that occurs in the hiring process now makes it rarely play out like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:53 AM
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The only reason why is because said patriarchy isn’t a problem in these countries. They already have “developed” or “progressed” (if you can call it that in this sense) enough that women are considered equals or even above men… which is ultimately causing the low birth rates. They’re busy working and managing life on their own without men and thus children. I can’t speak for Italy, but in Korea there has been a push for more traditional dynamics, which I suppose is where the discussions come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:28 AM
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Always reminds me of the Breaking Bad finale.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:14 PM
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Old school paramore always goes hard
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:56 AM
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I moved the summer before starting high school. No friends my first two years (so had severe social anxiety), but focused hard on school and sports. So much so, that it got me a lot of attention the last two years. Didn’t translate into a lot of friends though, as groups were mostly established by then. I just dated instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:04 AM
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Yes. Doesn’t mean I’m signing an overpriced “bougie” apartment lease. Buy some stocks that are down or something, and take some equity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:31 AM
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Just a very low bar goal. Even if it’s “bougie”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:28 AM
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Fantasizing about renting is why Gen z is fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:24 AM
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I hope that works out for you. T
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:20 AM
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Such a stupid question. Put on something decent and just tell him “come fuck me”. If he doesn’t, you’re dating someone putting from the rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:19 AM
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Just become the boomer. Or what the right boomer did (because I know many boomers who didn’t). VTI/VOO and chill. If you want a little bit more returns, you’re a tiny bit late on APPL, but there’s still time to get in for the inevitable $200+ in August.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:16 AM
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Hypothetically, if he turned his life around since and was successful now, would you still see him as that loser for how he used to be or knowing that he’s capable of? Not that that applies to my situation entirely… neither of us were losers, but I could see some grudges being held for past behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:01 AM
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Do people just forget their ex’s, or do you still think about them? For me, it depends. There’s definitely a few I have forgotten about and actively try to. With others, I think about them a lot. Not that I’m not over them, and also not necessarily in a bad or good way (or maybe both actually?). Been thinking about one particular lately. Mostly about our fond memories together, but also some of the fallout and unresolved shit. Definitely don’t want her back and definitely don’t want to reach out…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:01 PM
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Well there’s your problem. Can’t get your foot in the door if you’re not even knocking. Dating apps are worthless unless you just want experience or are high SMV who just wants sex. Most people on them are there for a reason (lots of issues), and the apps seem to manipulate the few quality women on there enough that they’re not worth pursuing either. Asking someone out irl is obviously harder, especially finding opportune times… gotta get out and involved more to increase your odds. Sometime wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:38 PM
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Do you ask women out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:24 PM
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Prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:37 AM
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I’m not familiar with community, but as a former RP myself… it could be a good thing. A couple weeks ago I saw some wild takes on this sub on what a purple pill person was. I won’t get into the nonsense, but I’m only purple now because RP doesn’t really have an endgame. If you get down to its roots—unicorns don’t exist, don’t get married, no kids, etc… just spin plates until you die. But even that was heavily debated until the community kind of had an existential crisis and had to take a step ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:34 AM
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I’m not familiar with community, but as a former RP myself… it could be a good thing. A couple weeks ago I saw some wild takes on this sub on what a purple pill person was. I won’t get into the nonsense, but I’m only purple now because RP doesn’t really have an endgame. If you get down to its roots—unicorns don’t exist, don’t get married, no kids, etc… just spin plates until you die. But even that was heavily debated until the community kind of had an existential crisis and had to take a step ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:34 AM
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There’s only 2 rules when it comes to dating/romance, that solve every single problem you can think of. Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive. If you follow these rules, you can easily have a man that worships you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:25 AM
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Are you following you the two rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:21 AM
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Watched this rom-com on Prime today. The movie kind of sucked and didn’t really make sense, but wow did it make me depressed. Those sorts of movies used to make happy and hopeful about love when I was younger. Now I’m far more cynical. Not to mention I’ve experienced love, and a big theme of the movie was music. Particularly music that my ex and I enjoyed together.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:45 PM
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Same thing here. There were no hints or anything like other comments suggested. She just randomly told me “we changed, I want to be single” and other vague generic crap. She was Facebook official with the new dude two weeks later.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 08:47 AM
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I’ve been told I’m a nice guy (in the genuine sense, not the cringey stereotype). Personally, I’d say I’m more average, and perhaps my laidback personality steers judgement farther away from the other end of the spectrum. I have noticed that [some] women who were initially attracted to me will lose interest or put a guard up, but those types of women tend to be superficial and not my type anyways. Additionally, I had a falling out once with a woman who shared some Tumblr meme with me about the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:05 PM
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Yeah, that’s been my [limited] experience. But just because they aren’t prosecuted/convicted, I can’t imagine it would look good in divorce court. If I was OP’s attorney, I’d make sure to bring it up.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/22 05:44 PM
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Isn’t adultery considered a crime according to UCMJ? Her and Jody both being military as well is certainly not going to help them. Lawyer up immediately.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/22 11:43 AM
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Um what? I never said or implied being royalty or a billionaire comes with problems. I’m saying being successful at anything in life requires either of the three of the OP mentioned: extreme risk, hard work, or luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:33 AM
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Is this not just life though? You can say the same thing about making money. Or even dating as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:58 PM
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Yeah, I know. I learned this lesson the hard way. Situation ended up blowing up. But that’s another story.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 07:15 PM
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Almost the same exact thing happened to me. Ex ghosted me out of nowhere shortly after breakup. I find out she began dating another guy and was claiming to be “in love” with him all over social media after only seeing him a few days. I was already over her and thought “Ha already in love huh?” And just laughed it off and carried on with life. I kid you not, she texted me two weeks later and said she wanted to meet up and talk “because she couldn’t stop thinking about me.” Our breakup was somewha…
/r/askTRP27/10/19 12:07 PM
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Waaaay too many lines and you were trying too hard. Act more careless next time. Honestly, you should be careless about it. If she doesn’t agree, have the mentality “Ok guess I’ll call over another plate and fuck her.” Even if there isn’t another plate, fake it until you make it. Something similar happened to me recently, except I was able to get her over. When we were arranging the date, she made it clear no hook-ups and she wouldn’t come to my place yet. I laughed it off and said things like “…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:28 PM
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Yes it can work, but it’s not sustainable. It just opens up the door for onenitus. Even if you are making it your mission to just fuck as many as possible, you’re bound to find a “unicorn” (or that’s at least what you’ll think). You’ll probably LTR her (or not), you’ll get complacent, and she’ll branch swing—AWALT. Think of it this way, if your goal is to get women, and then you get them... what else is there to do? If you don’t get complacent at least on an unconscious level, maybe you stay mot…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:41 PM
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Idk if any 10s exist outside of subjectivity, but I’d say she’s was at least top 5%. She finished high in our statewide beauty pageant and went on to be an NFL cheerleader. How did I pull that off? Yes my SMV was sky high at the time. I met her through mutual friends I went to high school with. They were back home for summer from college. I was on leave from the military. So the rest is just good timing and luck. As for the specifics, I was home for like a month because I acquired so much leave.…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:44 AM
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I got plenty involving begging for LTR to continue, but nothing exciting. So this is my best one: Matched some girl on Tinder in college who went to another school ~45 min away. I knew the distance didn’t make it practical or worthwhile, so just hit on her while I was drunk or bored. Eventually got her number and we got closer. I had some outside drama go on that I discussed with her and actually maintained frame for. I think it turned her on, because she begged me to come visit her. A week late…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 02:01 AM
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Get out of the house. If you can’t move anytime soon, just spend less time there. Do things that are productive, like working out or studying or gaming women. Not only is this beneficial for yourself, it will also keep your mind off of them. When you do see them, ignore them. If they press you or insult you, condescendingly ask them “Why do say stupid shit like that?” Most of the time, people will get flustered and eventually say something like “Chill out it was just a joke.” And that’s usually …
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:02 PM
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I went a little later than most, as I served in the military out of high school. The age gap and me wanting to finish ASAP kind of forced me into a monk mode. I still banged chicks from Tinder and went to bars every now and then, but mostly focused on my studies and leadership position on campus. It was somewhat brutal, but worth it. Graduated in 3 years and landed a nice job.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 05:18 AM
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I agree. Last girl I dated was probably the worst about this. 0 accountability, always playing victim, and never apologizing or owning up to her shit. It was mentality exhausting. Accountability is a very good thing. It obviously increases self-awareness and leads to improvement. My boss actually complimented me on in during my evaluation this year. That being said, don’t take it too far. Know when you fuck up, but also when you don’t and someone is just shifting blame on you.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 07:06 PM
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Accountant here. I would definitely diversify this money. Here’s what I would do: -Max out a 401k and Roth IRA the next 5 years. I forgot the exact numbers, but it’s like $20k for 401k and $5k for Roth. Keep the future year’s contributions in a low yield savings account, and make the max contribution in full ASAP after 1/1 each year. -Pay off my mortgage. If you don’t have one, go buy a house. Try to be modest, but also don’t skimp. You “earned” this after all. Note: this is also assuming you do…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 11:00 PM
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There are many intangible advantages to living alone And being financially independent, as others have pointed out. Not to mention, good luck getting laid in your parents basement. I mean, you’re still very young and I don’t know about social norms in your area, but you’re still at the age in mine that it is acceptable. However, you will soon be at a huge disadvantage once you get into your 20s. I have a friend in his mid 20s who lives with his parents and we roast him all the time. He makes the…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:25 PM
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I was in college at the time, going into my third year. I picked up a summer class, another extra one for the fall semester, another during “J term” between semesters, and loaded up in the spring... all in order to graduate that year. Worked out 5 days a week. I’m former military, so did a similar exercises. Which was basically all HIIT training that cut my BF% to single digits. I’ve never been a big guy or been able to throw up a bunch of weight, so I just go for the cut look. When I wasn’t doi…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:27 AM
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I think the “anger phase” gets a lot of people to regress. Speaking from personal experience, to be honest. I had a plate who seemed different. I mean, obviously AWALT, but we connected on a personal level and she didn’t seem as basic/materialistic as most chicks. As you can probably already tell, I caught onenitus. However, I still applied other principles and spun her for awhile. As you can probably guess, she eventually branch swung. Or at least as much as a plate could do. And focused all he…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:57 PM
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So are you against going out with coworkers at all, or just against the idea of flirting with her cousin/friends/other women while she’s present like the commenter suggested?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:06 AM
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Will do. Seems like the most realistic, non-drastic advice here. I’ll fill you in with updates, if you’re interested. Event is tomorrow.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:04 AM
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It’s during work hours and we both plan on going in that day and leaving early. I can’t really fake being too busy with work, because we’re in the same department and she knows what’s on my plate. Even if I left some work on the table, if it is important enough to be time sensitive that day, my boss would likely volunteer to do it in my absence. I honestly can’t think of anything specific to that situation anyways though. The only option now to flake would be faking a personal emergency and not …
/r/askTRP10/04/19 12:57 PM
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Not sure what you mean. Red pill theory is sexual strategy. I have blue pill tendencies at work, but they don’t really relate to my boss or work itself. I am blue pill towards women coworkers, because you shouldn’t shit where you eat. If they think I’m beta pussy, then good. That being said, I’m not orbiting them and whatnot. Just pleasant greetings and keeping it professional. As far as my work life, I bust ass. Show my boss respect. Own mistakes and learn from them. This might not come off as …
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:46 PM
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Women care less than you think. It’s more about confidence and frame they go after. It actually kind of pisses me off, because I struggled with a “skinny fat” body for awhile. I never saw it as a major problem because I could still get laid by HB7s. However, I wasn’t really happy with myself and it didn’t give me the confidence with the top tier of women I really wanted. Go on your date and try to fuck her. If you fail, now you have motivation to shred your moobs. If you succeed, congrats you ha…
/r/askTRP29/03/19 11:44 AM
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I wish I knew... cant find a doctor who will do it. I work a high profile type job, and many women have tried to lock me down. Along with some hell relationships through law school and my early career, I made the decision to never have kids or marry. Told this to my GP, who actually related and recommended me a few specialty doctors. Went and saw a couple, and they refused because I don’t already have kids and I’m “too young” (I’m 28). GP even made some phone calls and no dice.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 11:25 AM
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Oh trust me, I’ve had my fair share of drama. I just try to keep it separate from work. One chick threatened to get me fired from my job. She was ultimately unsuccessful, but it escalated to the point I had to get my attorney involved. My attorney demanded that I don’t talk to her ever again, and gave some pretty humorous situations... like “I don’t give a fuck if she shows up to your house naked with a friend, no piece of ass is worth this shit she’s already putting you through.” As funny as it…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 05:51 PM
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Wake up early and lift first thing. It’s going to suck for the first couple of weeks, but you will get used to it fairly quickly. Your work performance may suffer at first as well, but eventually it will actually improve. Just make sure to incorporate a decent amount of time for “cool down” and static stretching after you lift and before you go into work. Depending just how physically demanding your job is, you may want to stretch after work too. I’ve heard good things about yoga being beneficia…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 03:08 PM
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At work, I am a total beta (at least when I’m interacting with women coworkers/clients). This is done intentionally because I’d rather them think I’m a pussy than dealing with drama and losing my job. I think it works, as I’ve never had to deal with women that were too interested. There has been a few that have pushed me, but I was able to shut it down. Nothing too bad, but maybe my story can help on how to handle. One was an intern. We both were in LTRs, but she would always try to flirt. My GF…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:19 PM
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I lost count after I hit double digits, but it’s not a ridiculous number... 25-30 range if I had to guess.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 01:03 PM
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You’re making general assumptions, with probably some confirmation bias. The data doesn’t lie that you are, in fact, slightly above average height. Why the fuck does it even matter? The average height of a woman is like 5’4”. You really think an extra 2-3 inches over them is going to matter or even be noticed? I could see if you were closer to 5’4” and run into a lot of women who are taller than you on a regular basis, but I already know this is not the case. I’m 5’11” and it’s extremely rare th…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:42 PM
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I’ve never heard of someone being insecure about their height at 5’10”. You’re taller than average in a global scale, and just average (at-worst) if you live in the US. I know men much shorter than you that have 0 problems picking up women.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 02:25 PM
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I have a BSN along with some grad school work towards PA. Professional health refers to requiring a license to practice. Kind of common knowledge in the medical world... Trying to access academic articles and link on mobile is difficult and not practical at this part of my day. A simple google search would do you wonders. It’s ironic that my credibility is in question for “lacking sources” but I’m literally telling you how to find them. Yet you have 0 sources and your info seems like a dumbed do…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 07:40 PM
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Lmfao I have a professional health degree. I, admittedly, don’t have a whole lot of specialized experience in neurochemistry and psychiatry, but MY education included such coursework and I deal with mental health on a daily basis. Your first part is partially true, at best. And even the parts you did get somewhat “right” are dumbed down to the point they’re essentially wrong. So how about YOU shut the fuck up for the sake of our education.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 05:53 PM
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I personally think autism is becoming the new ADHD. I think both are real, but also pretty rare and over/misdiagnosed. It’s easier (and more profitable) for doctors to tell parents their kid has ADHD than to tell them their kid has Type A personality and they have poor parenting skills. Throw in some weirdness too, and it’s autism. I understand where the doctors are coming from to some extent. But you are correct, the label should not be used/embraced. It seems like an excuse and something to hi…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 11:48 AM
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I naturally have a round face, but it goes away when I lower my body fat. Unfortunately, it’s hard for me to maintain mass because of this, so I’m not exactly fucking models. However, I’m still well above average and have been with a few 8s and 9s. 7s are my norm and I prefer them anyways to the dimes who are usually high-maintenance, superficial, and dumb as fuck.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 04:11 PM
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Less emphasis on planning. And you can absolutely make a move at random, just don’t be autist or awkward about it. And I think you are/were waay past just kissing with this girl. Kiss is just a starting point to touching and fucking. If the kiss goes well, I think you should absolutely escalate to those that very night.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:56 PM
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We were all virgins at one point man. Sure, you might be overthinking it, but we’re telling you (from experience) not to. We got over that hump, and aren’t going to feel sorry for you if you can’t or refuse to. Easier said than done I know, but go work out or do something else whenever you start thinking about it. Set your game plan and be done with it until the night of. Hell, if anything you should be excited and look forward to this. Either way, you’re going to get closure out of it. Either g…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:12 PM
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You’re thinking about it too much. I meant to include that in my original comment. Even as I read your post, I read maybe the first half and skimmed the rest. No chick, even an LTD or wife, should warrant this much of your time and thoughts. I did see your questions towards the end “Why am I such a pussy?”... because you’re thinking about it too much. Even now. Like I originally said, what’s the worst that can happen? She thinks your a beta cuck and turns you down? That’s better than her thinkin…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 02:19 PM
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Not serious considered, but I have thought about. I can relate to what you’re saying and was just thinking about it the other day. I wake up groggy and not in the mood to work out. I’ll get ready for work, drinking water and maybe some caffeine. Usually after being at work an hour or two, I suddenly feel completely “awake”, energized, and want to hit the gym. Make all these plans and goals for the gym after work. However, by the time I get off I’m usually mentality exhausted and just want to go …
/r/askTRP13/01/19 01:54 PM
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Like the other commenter said, just fucking do it man. You really don’t have much to lose. Girls will get more turned off by not making move a lot more than having to reject a move they thought was too fast. The thing that stuck out to me, was the Netflix with her multiple times. When I was in college, that “Netflix n Chill” meme was at its height. So if a girl came over to watch Netflix, I pretty much took it as a sign they wanted to hook up, so I always made moves. Still do actually. Only one …
/r/askTRP13/01/19 01:45 PM
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I wouldn’t say obsessed by any means. And it’s not taken into consideration due to jealousy or “being loose”. I just think it says a lot about a women’s personality if she’s been with a lot of different men. And also puts me a greater risk of STDs. And it’s not like we’re looking for nothing but virgins here. At least for me, less than 10 is acceptable.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 01:27 AM
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Ha didn’t even try it. We went straight to bed and I left it with her. She told me later it was good. Sex was good with her though. Still prob in my top 5 ever. Not sure if it was worth the STD scare, but hey it worked out.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:31 AM
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Pretty similar actually. Matched with a girl on Tinder while visiting friend’s college ~45 min away. We met up and had sex that night at her place. Agreed it was just a physical thing, but we talked somewhat regularly the next couple weeks. Random Thursday night, she says to come over and bring her cheesecake. I was horny/bored, said fuck it, picked up cheesecake, and drove out there. It was close to midnight by the time I got there and she was already in bed. We immediately kissed and touched h…
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:13 AM
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I may have gotten lucky, but nowadays it seems like that's the only way. However, there are ways to improve your luck. I'll tell you the two most important things I did: Have someone important look at your resume. I have an uncle who is the COO of Fortune 500 company. He added some things that scratched my head at first, only for hiring managers to directly reference and praise them in interviews. Get your resume out there. Look on every posting possible--Monster, Indeed, Craigslist, etc. Do thi…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 12:35 PM
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Just went through a breakup and looking for a new fitness routine as I re-embrace TRP. My goals are mostly aesthetics, as well as just good health. For convenience and cost, I'd like to just use my work gym for now. Unfortunately, it doesn't include barbells but essentially everything else you can think of. This is probably a good thing, as my fitness level has plummeted and I feel like I'm just starting again. So it might be best to get back in the swing of things before jumping into big lifts …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 12:14 PM
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I feel your pain, my hair started receding when I was 16. I feel like I've coped/dealt with it well using several methods along the way. I'm not sure how bad yours is, so can't really give you specific advice, but I'll give you some things I did. -Rocked a buzz cut for several years that hid it well. -By 22 the recession got too bad, and I also had gained some weight. Both motivated me to work out religiously and eat well. Didn't pay attention to the hair for the first few months but when I did,…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 06:09 PM
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Everything in moderation. I work in health care and you wouldn't believe how many marathon running health nuts tend to have just as many problems as obese alcoholics. The healthiest people are the average ones who enjoy the occasional outlet. I could see the benefits of smoking if you have one every now and then to destress or wake up. However, 7-10/day is doing way more harm than good. Putting aside the inevitable short and long term physical effects, the mental addiction and constant compulsiv…
/r/askTRP22/07/15 10:36 PM
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While someone who talks a lot can be very likable, I encounter even more chatterboxes that I just find annoying. It's a risky strategy because even the most likable outgoing person steps on someone's toes. The only advantage of it is that it can yield more immediate results, but ultimately I think the mystique presence is more powerful. Plus you can use it to mask/overcome flaws. As Mark Twain said, "It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to open one’s mouth and remove all doub…
/r/askTRP22/07/15 06:41 PM
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At first it was the latter. I go to a somewhat small school, so crossed paths with quite a few people when I was taking my gen eds. As I got into my major studies, I saw a lot of the same people in my classes. I think a very important thing I've done is keeping my social life somewhat separate and having the mindset that school/classmates are more of a professional life. Every now and then I'll get drinks or go out with them, but I think limiting it avoids drama and damaging my professional repu…
/r/askTRP22/07/15 04:15 PM
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Can't speak for grad school, but I started undergrad at 22 after serving in the military. Busted ass and graduating next May after only three years. I had a similar strategy, speaking as little as possible. At first it was because I felt out of place and I spent my time busting ass at my work. It ended up working extremely well for me. No one thinks it's a big deal when the student sitting front row speaking just as much as the professor every class aces the test, but different story for the qui…
/r/askTRP21/07/15 07:19 PM
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