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I’ve got to watch this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:20 PM

Ive never had a lot of trouble from paycheck to paycheck but I am not a very “spendy” person. That being said, I wonder if some of the people living paycheck to paycheck have one of those jobs that pays the least amount they legally can. Then I would understand
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:01 PM

I experienced a small gain in height in my late teens, similar to your sister. It’s rare but it can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:29 AM
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It’s really interesting to me, I have noticed Gen Z is more skeptical of even quite relatively small age gaps. My younger friends and I have discussed 5-7 year age gaps for example, and they thought I was quite lenient/apathetic about it. I’m not even talking about relationships that are on the controversy level of say, 18 year olds with 30 year olds. I mean one where one person is like 24 and the other is 29. To be honest in Gen X and Millennial hey days it seemed like it was more acceptable. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:55 AM
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With those attributes, you could be on your way to being better than average perhaps but I doubt that you’d be in the very top percentage. Hell, I’m certainly not a top 10 percent woman, I probably never will be. Most people are average and can maybe improve themselves to be slightly to highly above average, but there are variations on the theme. There may still be a celling that for some reason they can’t individually move past. This is not me trying to be a doomer or anything, I do think self …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:32 AM
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Honestly 29 and 41, I wouldn’t even bat an eye It’s fairly normal for 40 somethings to date late 20s early 30s 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:49 AM
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Honestly I agree it’s like having a gigantic slimey worm in your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:33 PM
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Do you need to drive a manual? I honestly don’t know anyone that drives them, man or woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:32 PM
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Idk I don’t want something that’s really sensitive just dangling down and able to caught in stuff. Horror movie shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:31 PM

I mean like I said in my answer, high masking is very hard and it requires a lot of thought which is draining. It depends on how much you’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:22 PM

Thanks! Glad to help :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:40 PM

There are some more reasons to mask than dating. There are other factors like potential employment or socialising, and even potentially safety in some spaces. From my perspective, most autistic men and women I’ve met crave social lives, just perhaps less or in a different manner to the allistics. Even those I know who are on disability benefit or have little interest in dating (because some portion of the autistic community is asexual or graysexual) want at least one friend. I’ve also discovered…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:44 PM
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I thought a couple days ago OP said women should avoid relationships with men and that heterosexual relationships= abuse and being treated like an object. Now it’s “Gen Z men need to improve to be in a relationship”. Which is it? As quoted from a previous post: “Heterosexual relationships promote a power imbalance.” “Their testosterone guides their lust and encourages them to view women as fun bags for their own pleasure.” Isn’t this a cause for celebration then? That’s the supposed view so why …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:21 AM

That’s cool as, I wonder how he figured out how to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:12 AM

Honestly one of the reasons I only wanted relationships, if I get unexpectedly pregnant it’s not nearly as much of a disaster as it would be with a casual partner. It probably would be more likely not to happen but you never know. Birth control fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:40 AM

I think it’s normal for people’s beliefs to change over time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:38 AM

On the bussy bus
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:36 AM

That really does not exist where I live at all lol. Most things are open until 9pm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:31 AM
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The man’s pleasure doesn’t have to be centered in a heterosexual relationship. It’s not as if men themselves are physically incapable of performing oral sex or manual sex or other types of stimulation because they’re men. That’s not to mention, women also have a certain amount of testosterone, just not as much as men on average. Without it, some physical activity and building strength as well as having a sexual drive would be very difficult as a woman, for any woman, even one who is only interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:20 AM

So cute
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:05 PM

Interesting I’ve never heard of that as half Swedish but maybe it’s from another country in Scandinavia
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:04 PM

Oh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:04 PM

I know I’m not from America….lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:03 PM

Why does she spell kasper with k? I thought it was usually spelled with a c
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:29 AM

He was temp banned; 7 days
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:28 AM

He’s been temp banned
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:27 AM
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Hope everything goes well. Perhaps your daughter can find some counseling and other care if she needs that in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:39 AM
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I thought I was the goodest 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:30 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:29 AM

We have those, I think
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:04 AM

He’s probably just trying whatever he can
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 11:44 PM
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That’s pretty awesome. I used to play a lot of music but lost the habit after high school. Thinking of going back
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:37 AM
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Hey I’m pretty good, just haven’t felt like PPD for ages. Idk why. I lost my taste for it for like two months
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:48 AM
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I don’t know lol, it’s just a normal thing to do if you’re having mental health issues
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:02 AM
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Hey cool. Have you been playing a while?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:00 AM
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Ooooooh that’s super cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:00 AM
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Oof, feel that. Especially if you’re jet lagged and going through a million different time zones
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:56 AM
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Forced to penetrate is rape
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:22 AM
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Thank goodness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:40 AM
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No I don’t think they’re less masculine at all. About an equal amount of men and women seem to work desk jobs, I don’t really consider it to be a masculine or feminine work style. Most of my office jobs had both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:13 AM
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Honestly I want children and I’m not going to help the birth rate. That’s because I’m only really planning on having 2. The birth rate realistically is not going to be helped by people like me; it’ll only really go up a lot if most people have 4 children or more. I’m only having children because I want them. It’s likely going to be a drop in the bucket if it does anything at all, and having kids just for a failing birth rate is dubious to me too. You should have children because you love childre…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:17 AM

You will talk to me child and you WILL like it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:59 AM

I think part of why I don’t want to use it is also foundation will cover my freckles. And I don’t know how stupid make up looks with no foundation. I could understand that though, a lot of my family and friends who got used to it seem to think that way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:14 AM

Be yourself is so hard for people with autism. I never knew what people meant. Sometimes being yourself weirds people out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:10 AM

Oh alright
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:16 AM

I dunno if you’re new here that’s fairly common 😂. I’ve gotten downvoted for posting baked goods before or posts about food. But yes, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:35 AM

What happened to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:24 AM

I experienced the same thing when I was somewhat overweight (maybe not fat just chubby)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:10 AM

Yeah it’s mostly fine for us even if a bit inconvenient at certain times. I would probably only get two cars if I had a family tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:02 AM

5’8 is nuts, my partner is 5’8 and so are a lot of his friends/community cuz they’re Filipino. They’re not all doomed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:01 AM

Yeah cuz if you’re 5’9 and have a hot face it’s better than being a bit taller and normal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:50 AM

Honestly my anecdotal is I would turn down an ok looking 6’3 for a hot 5’7-5’8 🤷‍♀️and there’s no shortage of them lel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:49 AM

No, I ended up with a boy that got a butt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:58 AM

I’m in this situation too actually. My husband hates using public transport and walking, and I’m fine with both so I just do that to get around when I’m in a no car situation. I’ve been doing it since 2018. I don’t really want a second car because I’m cheap. If there’s no real pressing reason for me to get a second, I don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:53 AM

I wore some make up to my wedding, but I could only really stand my sister’s very light sunscreen make up on my face. I wonder if I’ll be a no make up lifer, or if that’s what I’ll end up doing. Tbh I just kind of hate the idea that I’m wearing it to make other people happy, so if I’m not wearing for myself idk how motivated I am to do it. I don’t give a fuck if people get offended by me not wearing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:48 AM

None lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:44 AM

I don’t want tattoos but I honestly don’t care about them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:43 AM
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I honestly don’t see a loving man as submissive. It says nothing about that tbh. My partner is emotionally comforting, maybe not to this extent but I get cuddled and comforted a lot. Also he does worry/think about me. For example we’re planning a trip this year, he wants to make sure we’re in safe areas for women, checks menus for my dietary restrictions, and thinks about things I want to do on the trip. I wouldn’t want to be extremely babied as I’m a person with an independent streak, but I lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:23 PM
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I mean it’s very varied, even with just with one man. My partner can do 15-20 mins if he wants which is a bit above average, sometimes it’s been longer cuz of meds. Sometimes it’s been 5-10 or even 2. It really depends on the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:57 AM
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Too long can be bad. Over an hour might be uncomfortable. At that point, I would either stop PIV and start stimulating her in other ways until you relax enough, work on your anxiety a bit more, or just give up after an hour. Men don’t have to have an orgasm during sex every single time, just like women. It’s much less common that they don’t have an orgasm, but it’s not impossible. I’ve been ok with 30 mins to 45 mins, but not over an hour. I’ve got an anxiety man on my hands too hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:51 AM

I like it because two guys. Bisexuality has also never really bothered me in men, so I’m pretty consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 10:53 AM
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I like long hair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:19 PM
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What? Cuck has nothing to do with being pregnant lol it’s a fetish. There are cuckqueans.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:17 PM

Hey mate chill, it’s ok. I saw the interaction you had, honestly everyone agreed that she was being unreasonable in her arguments. Don’t them get you down. People make silly arguments on here. Just take a deep breath, smile and be happy. You’re alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:09 AM

Hybrids are still pretty good. Good value for money
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:41 PM

Yeah there’s a point where it ceases to be centrism lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:40 PM

The thing is, many men can’t be promiscuous realistically. Or it’s extremely difficult to do. So this won’t help them. My partner was not promiscuous and I turn him down very rarely. Like maybe if I’m going to puke or I’m on the time of month. I think it’s more important that attraction and flirtation are present in a long term relationship. Many people forget that and they just turn into best friends who sleep in the same room.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:28 PM

How does he represent the middle at all??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:13 PM

It annoys me, lol I’m such a millennial
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:13 PM
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Congratulations!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:52 PM

Mine would be a mix of fluttershy and apple jack
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:03 PM

Hey!!!! Fancy seeing you here. How have you been?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:56 PM

Hey
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:53 PM
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I don’t mind any of the things mentioned as a solution. Especially porn. So many men in relationships use it anyway 🤷‍♀️ 90% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:04 AM

I honestly think lots of it has to do with the fact women and gay men share traditionally feminine interests. I’ve had plenty of genuine friendships with men who didn’t seem interested in me because I’m somewhat of a niche maxxer maybe? (Tomboy maxing) I find that some men for whatever reason don’t like my look probably because they’d prefer a trad feminine woman or are more trad masculine which is all good in my book. There’s still a fairly large tomboy fan club out there so no skin off my nose…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:07 AM

Sometimes I find it’s easier IRL when the guy is paired up already, which isn’t uncommon at my age anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:02 AM

Why not just go clearly with one type of woman or another if you don’t like the idea of non 50/50?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:00 AM

Taking it way too seriously. It’s just a jumper with a joking crude phrase on it. Like seriously you’ve never seen that before?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:51 AM

Women in American are a lot more traditionalist than women in other countries, they are working and making more than they ever did and want someone who pays for most stuff which is harder to find. This doesn’t happen as much in the euro sphere, Australia NZ etc as women don’t have as traditionalist of expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:36 AM

1-2. My period cramps have never been that bad, they’re usually only the first three days. It’s not debilitating at all, I’m not queasy, I often go a bit lighter on exercise but will still do so like normal. I’ve often described the last three-four days of my period as just feeling like I’m peeing myself lol I feel very lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:05 AM

How many of them could date men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:35 PM

Sure but I just wonder how many could do that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:11 PM

Ehhh I didn’t simp for him. In fact I was kind of over people here obnoxiously baiting the lonely guys by saying stuff like he has a better personality than him. The reason he doesn’t get mentioned I think is a couple things starting impeding on his simp status and the motive of his crime originally changed a lot. So he was dropped by some people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:01 PM

Awww
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:56 PM

The thing is that on a population level there are a lot more straight women than gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:56 PM
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I don’t think you can turn it on and off easily. I even find that difficult for my partner sometimes and I am a woman attracted to men. We shouldn’t denigrate people for having human feelings, I think it’s more important to talk about how you can control actions. A lot of people have hundreds of weird thoughts of things they’d never do. A person who dreams of strangling a bad boss once shouldn’t be treated as suspicious unless they act violently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:05 PM
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I’ve got to say I do not understand all the other comments. If there’s consent there’s consent. I won’t stick my nose in someone’s business if it’s a happy relationship 🤷‍♀️apparently this is a crazy fringe opinion lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:56 PM
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I’m not going to downvote this but I also hate it I don’t like victim blaming but I also think the great majority of men aren’t rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:29 AM
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My partner brings a pillow on our road trips lol It’s for neck pain but tbh I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:24 AM
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I heard someone say they got a warning for joking they’d like to bite a woman’s thigh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:22 AM
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I mean it’s happened before with things like one million moms
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:21 AM
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Blue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:19 AM

Eewwww
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:55 AM

I eat some candy like once a month. I really don’t see the problem with it as long as it’s not very frequent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:31 AM

It’s a little bit obnoxious when I don’t have a place to store the food. I can’t eat the American portions, I can only eat like a third
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:30 AM

<image> I guess this makes sense if he’s meant to get a nerd. I clicked double thumbs on liking board games and sci fi
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:54 PM

<image> I’m 30
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:38 PM

It’s the dark side of incel culture. We start to be suspicious of any guy without sexual experience even though most are not extremists
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:28 AM

Yep it’s annoying to be worried to bring up topics
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:27 AM

I don’t like wearing crop tops but miring those that do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:02 AM

I am too sometimes tbh. It seems like some rules are arbitrarily made or enforced
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:01 AM

I don’t necessarily always mind it, but I do mind how it’s often used in practice. I think people use it incorrectly to implicate men who honestly have very little societal or political power and call them patriarchs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:00 AM

Excuse me? I thought women could do no wrong and they deserve HTNs/Chads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:57 AM

Same tbh I love soft cookies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:18 PM

I hate the rule also 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:35 PM

Yeah it’s considered witch hunting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:28 PM

How would that be enforced?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:27 PM

Beautiful! Sometimes I miss tulips in the tropical savannah but there are also some hibiscus
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:04 PM

Don’t give what you’re not ok parting with forever
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 09:41 PM

Dont say that :( By the way, you have discord? My server would like to extend an invitation to you (it’s just a chill server with PPD daily people) but you don’t have DMs so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 09:22 PM

I don’t understand Americans tbh. Those cookies are too big
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:50 AM

I struggled a lot with social rules growing up as well. It’s a tangled web, and rife with inconsistency
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:49 AM

If I didn’t eat anything but chips I’d be doing a lot worse than that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:48 AM

I haven’t seen him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:22 AM

Sorry to hear this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:40 AM

Yeah. I went inactive on here for a bit for reasons (can message if you want to know).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:39 AM

Whaaaaaaat ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:25 AM

Hey how’s it going and have you been watching any interesting shows lately? Or just some good old sopranos reruns?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:20 AM

To be perfectly honest, I don’t know why there is such a divide between working or stay at home parents. It seems like a non issue to me. Just mind each other’s business and live how you want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:19 AM

Don’t worry I gotchu
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:12 AM

They’ll have to ban me 2 million times
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:12 AM

Yeah I agree. Board gaming is good and there are a lot of world wide groups
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:09 AM

Sometimes you just have to start socialising to crave it more if you haven’t for a while. But also, some people just like their own company fine too. It’s your desicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:09 AM

Plus you got it wrong. I wear ASICS netballer shoes https://www.asics.com/au/en-au/?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=187774687&gbraid=0AAAAADllcgHbvZfaJSlaS9_D19oAnzqUd&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIrdKniKfwjAMVkcVMAh0Gfy68EAAYASAAEgKR8_D_BwE
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:00 AM

BRUUUUUUUUHH
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:59 AM

Nah Europeans are pretty rad Source: me a European beetch 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:58 AM
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Exactly which is why it doesn’t make sense what the OP is arguing. Like it or not, this is not a westerner or American only subreddit and it never has been
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:27 AM
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That may be true that the red pill comes from western ideals, but cultural ideas can transfer to other communities. Where the red pill might have an American concept, this subreddit is also made up of thousands of non Americans who relate it to their own experiences and values. It’s like any ideology, we use it like a scarf. We tie it loosely, throw it around our neck, or tie it tight, depending on how we ourselves see fit to integrate the culture and ideological value. For one example, American…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:24 PM
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How are we meant to know the differences between culture and race and would there be realistically any difference between how it would be enforced if we said anything about it or not? Because culture and race often intersect or are related in certain ways. If someone went on a tirade about women in Burqas, I have a feeling someone here would mod that as it has both racial/cultural focused stereotypes. As I said earlier, the last demographic survey to my knowledge did not include a large amount o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:14 PM
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Why is talking about Muslims and Indians as ruining dating discourse or the red/black pill ok now? If someone said “black people are ruining dating” their post would be removed in 10 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:59 PM
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It’s not about the west, it’s about discussing the dynamics of the red pill. For some reason Leos has decided this subreddit is about the West and America arbitrarily. It’s just one in a long list of Americans that views their country as the main character. There’s nothing in the rules that says “only discuss the USA/western world”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:42 PM
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Exactly. Not all of us live in America, and we should be allowed to share our experiences equally
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:41 PM
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Excuse me how is this not race baiting? If I made a post like this, I have a feeling that it would be removed immediately. This isn’t an America or westerner only subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:40 PM

Ok so I wasn’t as much as US size 14 (now I’m size 6-8 American, roundabout) and I’m also 5’6, but I still honestly think that if especially if a woman had good fat distribution and a good face it wouldn’t matter a ton tbh. Maybe it could hurt her a bit. It’s over emphasised on here because this subreddit is particularly weight fixated/focused for women, but if they can get likes on Tinder then I’d say they could safely get approached; even some size 14 and a little above. Tbh I think PPD is in …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:47 AM

I’ve gotten approached but I generally think it was much more common for women my age to be approached than women in their early twenties. Due to social anxiety and OLD going up to someone and talking to them isn’t as normal anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:40 AM

What if; people used to do this to help out their friends before everyone became slaves to their screens and all dated online?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:39 AM

So if I am trying to help single friends they must be ugly lol? What if I’m just trying to do someone a solid?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:38 AM

What is too fat? I got approached/looked at when I was not as fit. I know that PPD is very much pro skinny girls but I don’t think that this always translates into real life tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:36 AM

Something something 19-21 bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:16 AM

I don’t really see what the big deal is. It’s not that difficult. You can also alternate paying full checks and splitting. We decide on the night I guess I’m the clear minority here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:14 AM

I mean I’m not male
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:13 AM

FBI OPEN UP
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:14 PM

Sounds like it was great
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:42 AM

That guy’s nose is fine imo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:37 AM

Nah def not, though I’m walking later. Great work!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:20 AM
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Honestly like 3-5 days a week. Sometimes every day. Do I have low standards compared to other women? I don’t know, perhaps. I’ve been pretty attracted to many guys outside the traditional “Chad” realm before (ie under 6’0, not muscular/lean, has imperfections, has glasses, looks “normal”). I’m not as attracted to them as I am to the favourite person I’m currently obsessing over. It’s a weak attraction comparison wise . Right now that’s my partner and has been for several years, might have been c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:31 AM

I find it extremely filling
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:56 AM

Omg this is such a boomer post
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:41 PM
2

I know plenty of guys that have never really been approached by women. And I’m not even talking about this typical base on PPD, I’m talking regular guys who have partners that I know IRL. For some of them, it was a mutual situation with both partners flirting (and women giving signals) or it was the man doing most of the work, but it’s rarely been the woman alone. This isn’t some fringe thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:44 AM
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I disagree. That’s not what I really consider an approach tbh. That’s more like socialising or maybe in the case of looking towards someone or sitting near them, it’s an IOI of sorts. Not to say that it’s bad, expanding your social network is always a good thing, but I don’t think that this is a traditional approach or would work the same for men. From my own perspective, as a woman, if a man did some of those things with me I’d think he just wanted to be friends with me, not ask me out. Startin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:27 AM

To be fair I don’t exactly think all women view sex this way either
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:09 PM

The Hillary emails thing is such old news at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:02 AM
2

What’s half ugly???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:16 AM
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Some were average, some were good looking. Don’t worry I don’t discount that if you are not like this it will make things even harder, but I think that would honestly be true for anyone in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:38 AM
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A good social network is great for kids starting out, you can meet so many people that way. Underrated especially for young people, that’s how some people meet their first bf/gf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:10 AM
2

Autistic boys/men can date or even have LTRs, I’ve seen it. It often just requires much more attention and more effort than the average. Also autistic men by and large aren’t misogynists. That’s a harmful stereotype. A lot of autistic men are the furthest from wanting to hurt people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:00 AM
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I am perhaps a bit concerned but honestly I’d be concerned for a daughter, too. The world isn’t as sociable and doesn’t have as many third spaces as it had when I was a kid. Here’s what I would do: Build an exercise habit. With my children, I plan to offer for them to go on regular walks and to play netball and other games with me, chase around the park, bike etc. OR offer to pay for sports team fees OR some fun at home/gym fitness. And make it a family thing. My family didn’t do this, they ofte…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:59 PM
2

I think it’s fine, I honestly think men/women can have any preference they want. The thing is that if it’s a rare thing they want, they should accept that they might face an uphill battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:41 PM
1

You probably just had strong feelings for her. That’s why it hurts you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:52 AM
3

Honestly comic aside nerds are the bestest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:34 AM
1

Flying is significantly safer than driving Your lifetime odds of dying in a car accident are 1 in 93 Your lifetime odds of dying in a plane crash are 1 in 9,821 Most people drive cars every day or a few times a week. Even if you don’t, buses and trains have similar morality rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:32 AM
1

What’s your bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:28 AM

Whilst I think it’s better to have more options than none, probably, I find the post’s argument interesting as I’ve noticed on this sub sex in relationships often isn’t considered a privilege. It’s considered a way women get men to be placated or shut up. I wonder if this argument is applied steadily across the board or only to casual sex availability.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:18 PM

I’m not afraid of men killing me to be honest, I just don’t really like the idea of unattached sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:38 PM

I think it’s closer to two. But I do think people have the right to complain because yeah, it sucks. I mean, I probably wouldn’t be able to stand being here if I thought men didn’t have the right to complain lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:49 AM
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I wonder though, if being highly promiscuous would change much for everyone. If there is a person who people don’t want to sleep with, making society more open to such arrangements unfortunately might not do much for that person. You can’t make people change their consent to or attraction to somebody, no matter how a society is structured.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:15 AM
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I don’t necessarily think this is true. Women might have had some lower standards, particularly for things like looks, but they would still have some. There were a lot of people in monogamous majority societies who didn’t pair off. For men especially, if you didn’t have the right qualities to be marriage material, it was a slim chance of it happening (because men were expected to provide). Lifelong virginity and late life virginity rates probably would’ve actually been higher in historical socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:01 AM

I said “where I can’t view them”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:55 AM

If someone said when I was around, I’d probably say something, but if women are using it online and in person where I can’t view them, I can’t do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:17 AM

Yeah for sure like if someone says that I can’t do anything really. I could obsessively go around and tell people to stop using it but I don’t know how effective this would be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:49 PM

I do think that if women are sensitive about being fat or have weight issues, then they should avoid those posts also to be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:44 PM

I agree. I also think the “energy” comments are kind of borderline shamy. I’m not sure why we can’t just use some other way to describe confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:35 PM

This comment is kind of ironic tbh, because you’re saying that someone shouldn’t think about their size or be insecure about it, and then you talk about dick size…..like do you not see that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:48 PM

I have never done this I’m not going to say some women don’t do it but I don’t think it’s “pretty common”. I’ve been a woman, socialised as a woman and had female friends for 30 years. I don’t remember a time where we discussed that, I really don’t. More often we discussed what celebrity is cute, what hair we thought was sexy etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:39 PM

I hate the term big dick energy, I think it’s stupid, but if other women use the term I can’t do anything about it. I can’t just force all women to stop saying it. I don’t have that power.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:34 PM

Hope you get a good rest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:35 PM

For me intelligence, humour and wits are tied for a pretty high place
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:34 PM

No no it’s actually the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:27 AM

2
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:18 AM

Some dancing like twerking can be pretty sexual in my opinion, almost as sexual as pole dancing. Some children also dance for exercise too which is why I used the example (albeit hopefully not twerking). So it’s the pole itself that bothers you? If it was pole dancing in a studio away from you on a scale of 1 to 10, how much would this bother you? I do think by the way that if your husband doesn’t agree to a pole in your house you shouldn’t get it as it’s a two yesses situation to modify your ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:01 AM

Yeah I think it’s not just what they say (very raw masculinity) for some people it would be about being traditional or showing softness in the appropriate moments, having certain values/characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:45 AM

To play devils advocate, a lot of dancing is considered sexual, but it can be a good work out. Would you be opposed to your wife/girlfriend dancing to work out if any part of it was or could be considered sexual? Say there’s no pole, but during the dance workout she shakes her butt once or twice or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:30 AM

You’ll likely get a hundred different answers also or a lot of “it depends” I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:26 AM

Who cares I don’t have much of an opinion tbh but the people talking to you weren’t saying “let’s have kids pole dance”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:23 AM

I have a partner who shit talks trump lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:19 AM

How come TRP doesn’t seem to have advice for the men who are hoping to have RPW trad wives? I assume that there are some out there. I just thought it really strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:17 AM

I’ve read married red pill. Omg it’s so nuts but it’s honestly entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:16 AM

I don’t take some women’s opinions seriously but that’s because I don’t think that person has good opinions. I’m not taking Just Pearly Thing’s opinions seriously. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:45 AM

What if she was just pole dancing for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:44 AM

You can make a bubble beard
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:27 AM
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I feel like people are really misunderstanding the “not a talker” thing. Do you mean you prefer shy women or you’re shy yourself and prefer someone that understands?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:19 AM
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This is actually a fair point. You need to have some boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:16 AM
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What if he just prefers introverted women? You took this and interpreted it the worst possible way. Some men think shy women are mysterious or alluring, that’s what they mean by not a talker, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:15 AM

I disagree heavily I don’t think reading necessarily makes people smarter or better, but it’s been established that reading is way better for our brains in terms of dopamine released and attention span than social media use. Particularly things like tik tok and instagram. Those platforms are seriously rotting people’s brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:28 AM

I’d suck it up if it was my best friend tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:23 AM

Wow this is beautiful Btw how’s life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:15 AM

Which is crazy. Guy is a good looking guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:01 PM

I don’t get the comments saying he’s not that hot. I do think tbh it’s more likely more attractive men wouldn’t have to fall back so much on providing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:46 PM

Favourite pastime?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:45 PM

Wow, how did you make them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:11 PM

Does God want you to have an open marriage lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:10 PM

Nah. 5’6
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:07 PM

SCHNOZZ
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:31 PM

They die
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:50 PM

If a man cheats on me it’s not #rawattraction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:45 PM

I mean we were in a relationship before though. I said we were LDRing. I mean that’s kind of…hoops? I don’t/didn’t do casual though. I think this is reasonable enough though, it’s just that I’m trying to explain to people the raw attraction guy isn’t just talking about attraction. Wanting attraction in your relationships or hook ups or whatever is fine and so understandable. That raw attraction guy says if a woman doesn’t want to have instant PIV the minute she sees someone, according to him, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:18 PM

I’m referring to the overall vibe in your post. Unsafe and safe here seems to be interchangeable for alpha and beta honestly. You also didn’t address my initial point that it’s not good to only or SOLELY consider this type of attraction in someone to be above every other attribute. A woman who sleeps instantly with an…I guess “unsafe guy” (if I can’t say criminal) might not be a very desirable or good woman to involve yourself with. Women who engage in behaviours like this also often have BPD. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:56 PM

Here’s the thing though. This guy says if a woman doesn’t want to rip off a man’s clothes the SECOND she sees him, she isn’t truly attracted to him. Which is a crazy position to have. I would argue that not every man even operates like that. I LDRed and made out with someone thirty minutes after I met them in person, but that’s not enough for the raw attraction guy because I saw him online and thought “sexy/hot” not “I will rip your clothes off in public when we meet”. LMFAO like…what?????
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:45 PM

Lol, thanks for this. I’m telling you, this is nuts. When I first saw my partner I blushed, thought he was hot and started fantasising, apparently this just isn’t enough for people on PPD because I didn’t want to “rip his clothes off the second I saw him”. We LDRed and made out the day we met, nope it’s still not enough, it wasn’t this magical fantasy attraction. I was even talking to a guy on here who says that’s not how HE even experiences sexual or romantic attraction. Like am I crazy or some…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:41 PM

Tbh a lot of these women who want dangerous men are not desirable partners. A lot of them would have a personality disorder for example BPD. I’m not saying men shouldn’t screen for people who have sparks for them, but hyper focusing on it while not considering anything else could also be to someone’s detriment. In a lot of your posts I’ve noticed you tend to make a weird dichotomy between “beta male” and criminal. There is much more range than these two options. It is possible to be super extro …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:24 PM

No If the way to fix birth rates is having absent fathers, birth rates can stay down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:16 PM

I’m a dirty social Democrat, and I have more family values in my pinky than he has in his entire body.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:15 PM

Pffffffftt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:37 PM

Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:35 PM

That sucks, hope you feel better soon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:35 PM

Yeah this is me. I’m super delulu, probably. Still can’t stop looking at my little heartthrob ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:34 PM

To be fair, if someone says this about their SO they’re probably not gonna say that other stuff Those sound like two different people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:32 PM

Sure everyone needs a little pressure! Just not too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:31 PM

Oh no are you ill?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:30 PM

What were you doing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:30 PM

I mean you can just keep practicing and honing your craft also. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:29 PM

Honestly I’m still on but I think moderating my use has been good for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:18 PM

🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:16 PM

Nah she didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:16 PM

The majority of authors are like 40-80 Just so you know. It’s not really ever been a young person’s game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:11 PM

I only had a dishwasher when I was living at home or my current house. I had years without one I feel your pain
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:02 PM
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No, not everyone gets divorced. In my family alone I know of 10 couples who have been together for more than 30 years. My grandparents died married. There are ways to reduce divorce risk, for example, don’t settle down too early or too late (don’t marry at 18, but not at 40 either). Get educated, have jobs, if you have kids plan for them and make sure you’re on the same page in terms of raising them. When you do all those things above, the likelihood you will divorce decreases significantly. Esp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:05 PM
5

I thought that you were complaining about OLD like a month ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:58 AM
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Here’s the thing though, you can find rants about men who don’t do a good share of childcare with SAHM wives too. I know when I used to be a regular contributor on r/marriage, there were dozens of posts about women staying at home, that had husbands that refused to do even small amounts of childcare. If someone wants to get out of doing these things they’ll use any excuse. Plenty of men/women who do most of the work in the relationship often use the excuse that they make the money to get out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:28 AM
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That’s awful
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:53 AM
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Date- I wouldn’t scold them or anything but it might be a bit unusual and I might not know how to react. Most of the time you reserve these things for later on. I would try my best to help but feel out of my depth. Relationship- Cuddle, make tea, spoil with food, watch favourite tv show or movie is my response. Also cancel any things that can be. I know the world might be harsher on him than my emotional reaction for unfair reasons so I’m a safe space.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:00 AM
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I don’t think that way when I see someone crying at all. I don’t get this perspective at all. If someone’s crying my first instinct is to attempt to soothe. Idk this is just alien to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:57 PM
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I think this is kind of harsh to be honest. Sometimes people go through down times or desperate times and they might be more weepy. Some men aren’t very hardened and have an incredible emotional range, so they’ll be more apt to shed a tear now and then. Do you hold women to this standard too? If not maybe you need to take a look at the notions you hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:56 PM
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If someone truly has no options then how could we test if they would be good, should they have a relationship? They have no options. It’s a catch 22. If they did have options, then we’d see how it plays out. Just for the record I think it’s unrealistic to say every single person who doesn’t have an option is a good person, but I also think it’s unrealistic to say they’re all bad people. Most people without options are just…people. They are varied.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:17 PM

Teachers were allowed to be a lot sassier when I was growing up. It’s partly the parents imo. Every parent nowadays thinks their kid is really special and all the rules should be bent for them, and children should never be given a time out etc. If the parents call the principal’s office every time they put a kid in their place they can’t keep the kids in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:50 PM

That sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:46 PM

I used to love Ginuwine (and still do). I was def too young to be listening to a lot of his songs though when they came out LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:18 AM

I’m old fashioned. I associate sex with love not hate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:17 AM
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With a woman. I know I’m in the minority but here’s my reasoning: Women require much more effort to get in bed than men and it’s much more likely that she has a romantic connection with him in my opinion. Also she can get pregnant. Can’t get a man pregnant. I would be upset regardless though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:05 AM

I’m joking. I don’t think he’s an incel at all, I’m just pretending to be one of those people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:16 PM

It’s so weird because you spend so long trying not to be pregnant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:58 AM

😳
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:45 AM

Australia is far away but our relationship with America is generally good
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:42 AM

If you want to be an incel, just find an Elon Musk costume
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:41 AM

A good partner for senior Stacy 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:46 AM

How old is elder Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:01 AM

Honestly I thought about it and I can’t imagine being a landlord. So many of them screwed my friends over I think so I keep thinking back to that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:45 PM

The big beautiful man community will be happy to have you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:21 AM

Look below at the comments I linked I’m not saying what you stated is never the case. It is sometimes but not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:59 AM

https://np.www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/qLSWQa1Be4 https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/IrCvrxFSQN Are these nice comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:12 AM

Dump truck 🛻
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:02 AM

You forgot Please get me some chocolate- “Please get me some chocolate”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:48 AM

That’s awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:04 AM

That looks really nice Have you heard of focaccia art? That’s pretty cool too <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:01 AM

I don’t know if this is weird or not, but I was a bit attracted to them and my crush intensified when they said they had a crush. Apparently being admired/desired does it for me (I think this is the case with lots of women)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:53 AM

Wait this is confusing to me. What if you generally have historically had crushes on people of a different background to you or who don’t look like you (referencing some stuff I can’t really explain very well on here lol). Then how do you determine if you’re looksmatched?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:49 AM

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/22290-gastroschisis Kind of hard for me to explain because I’m not a doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:09 AM

I thought tradwives don’t work? Not trying to be mean, being genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:46 AM

?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:40 AM

Ah yeah I remember hearing about that. I don’t get why she would be banned. She never said anything super untoward
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:01 AM

Yeah I do actually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:47 AM

Exactly some of us get busy. It was the weekend and I was hanging out with my friends all weekend like what the hell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:20 AM

Grasshopper or flamboyantly gay man. Nothing in between, nothing else!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:16 AM

Why does this fit so well though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:15 AM

That actually sounds so wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:14 AM

Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:14 AM

Uh oh I hope not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:14 AM

Honestly I think people just do that to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:13 AM

So true though. The skinniest girl I know currently was born with her stomach inside out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:10 AM

I look like my dad’s face when he was 30 right now, just a bit more feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:08 AM

More wisdom from Master Badger
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:07 AM

I mean it’s what they voted for….
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:06 AM

I always wondered this too apparently some people with migraines can’t see during it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:06 AM

I mean, I’m a millennial and I’ve defintely been trolled and swindled on the internet. Not financially but a lot of YouTubers turned out to be fakes and stuff. I think everyone is like that at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:05 AM

I knew what I wanted to be when I grew up, but it doesn’t make a lot of money lol so it’s a hobby for now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:04 AM

Thats actually brilliant
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:03 AM

You tried so hard but got so far In the end it doesn’t even matter 🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:32 AM

Damn. I’m really sorry about this. Don’t know what else to say
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:59 AM

What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:39 AM

Lol didn’t even know of such a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:07 AM

No lol. I’m not in the US remember
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:02 AM

Did everything get sorted with your daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:01 AM

Don’t want to give too many details; I’ll just say it’s admin, data and research. My wheelhouse
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:58 AM

If you speak softly it helps
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:53 AM

Hey. I’m doing fine. I made some German sauerkraut casserole that was pretty good a couple days ago. I got a job interview coming up in the next few weeks fingers crossed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:50 AM

Yeah they had such a narrow content base it was kind of bound to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:30 AM

I’m really sorry to hear about your friend Angmar. May she rest in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:17 AM

Play stupid games win stupid prizes 🏆 🤣/s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:40 AM

I also choose this user’s digested bumble date /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:30 AM

Older
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:02 AM

We’re close in age Leo! Only one year apart
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:40 AM

I know this happens, but I just don’t understand why women my age would want a high schooler. Any time I look at a high school boy, I see him as a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:38 AM

I know you’re probably not going to like this answer but the lowest possible percentage. I view 18 year olds as children. Yeah yeah, I know that they’re not “technically” kids, but a high schooler can be 18 years old. I’m not trying to be the next Cosby. I know the woman in the incident is close to my age, but I just can’t understand the mindset of people my age trying to get in the pants of high schoolers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:32 AM

Yeah the winners are always more obvious. It’s the second, third fourth or fifth places for bad or good that are more interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:20 AM

I know we can’t do it, but I think one for men would honestly be way more interesting in a way. There are a lot more guys for starters, and a lot more grey areas between them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:16 AM

Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:14 AM

I saw 👀 I guess the poll idea itself isn’t bad, but like, yeah, the negative sides could be considered witch-hunting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:48 AM

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:43 AM

Well that’s silly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:33 AM

<image> I’ve done some yogurt loaf with strawberries last night
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:31 AM

Ooh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:28 AM

It was hot lack actually
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:22 AM

I’m so special they put me in special classes for special girls ✨ Seriously though, I think guys like this too tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:15 AM

They’re so good. Oh and that’s one of the best pairings
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:10 AM

Yeeaaaahh surreeee /jk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:09 AM

I’m not being serious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:09 AM

That movie is so weird 😭how do the bee and the human have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:08 AM

CHAAAAAAAdddd That is all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:03 AM

D’ya like Jazz?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:00 AM

Yep 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:53 AM

<image> Who’s type?!????
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:52 AM

Yuyu
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:50 AM

I’m a diggity dawg 🐶
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:24 AM

Was she also 14? I think that very much sounds like what I believed birth control was like at that age
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:23 AM

Excuse me she’s not a giga Stacy she has one hair out of place and 2% too much nose /jokes, she is a cutie patootie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:31 AM

Yeah. I never really understood his arguments about that, I don’t get how someone choosing a fat or slightly overweight woman means you must do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:56 AM

He was the guy that got upset when men didn’t have the standards he wanted them to have lol. He believed that if other men had lower standards than him, it would socially pressure him to have the same standards or something and this made him upset. He was quite a character. He also was big on “the wall” rhetoric. One time he got really mad at the sylther seven guy because slyther said that he doesn’t mind slightly fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:47 AM

I wouldn’t be surprised they both whine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:15 AM

True. I do think some people would still say it’s too hard (to your message). I try to be honest that a good relationship will bring your happiness up, because I mean it does and people wouldn’t pursue them so much if they didn’t have benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:12 AM

I understand why people get upset with that answer, but there’s not really a good answer to “how do I be happy without a relationship when that’s all I want/need”. That’s the problem. I don’t want to make a promise to someone they’re going to be in a relationship or do the whole “you’re not in a relationship because you’re a shitty person who doesn’t take showers” routine. While you can try to get in a relationship your best there are no 100% guarantees. There’s just no good response honestly wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:57 AM

Picture five is awesome. That’s some stage make up skills
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:15 AM

Ok /s!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:11 AM

It should be an Olympic sport! Tim Tim can be in it even. We can make a PPD sponsorship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:58 AM

Oh yes….every day….I see men talking about the VERY COMMON OCCURRENCE of bald women. Every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:56 AM

YEEEEEEEEEESSSS!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:55 AM

Technically some women who are taller can be plus sized, especially if they’re around 6’0 because women’s clothing obviously is made for shorter women. I have a family friend like that, an Icelandic and Swedish woman. She’s very tall, probably hovers around 5’11 and she is not fat at all but has to buy larger sizes. I mean obviously most plus size women are chunky by percentage but it doesn’t always mean they are. Women’s clothes often aren’t also made for muscular women in mind. I’m a bit muscu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:47 AM

I think they’d make great natural fencing materials
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:41 AM

What? You gotta be kidding me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:41 AM

Bewbs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:41 AM

Excuse me, hello, I would like to apply for a pass to make humour about white people please. I think it would be excellent and very enriching /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:39 AM

She just looks tall
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:31 AM

I’m happy you got out of that situation. Hopefully living with your grandparents and aunts will be nicer for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:20 AM

You know what would really support your point? You should show auto some pictures of fatties at the buffet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:17 AM

I don’t ever really report people when they insult me only. I don’t give a fuck. But if they’re harassing other users I like or the younger people on here especially (idk I feel like mother bird) then I will. I guess I’m a natural white knight even though I’m not a dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:38 AM

Older people don’t like us as well 😂it’s the middle child of age groups
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:26 AM

Dude it’s not much better being a millennial everyone fucking hates you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:13 AM

He was bi
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:45 AM

That was funny when he said wumpy choos lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:44 AM

For sure. Lots of wholesome stuff in Friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:41 AM

Eeeeeeeeeeee so sweet 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:35 AM

Ah I thought something else happened, was just thinking poor guy can’t catch a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:18 AM

He looks like he’s 27
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:43 PM

Oh that’s alright
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:40 PM

Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:35 PM

You better believe it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:34 PM

What happened with YuYu
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:33 PM

You’ve got my vote
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:30 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:15 PM

https://vocaroo.com/13tjqeOlPqRN From popular demand that I noticed from yesterday’s AMA and in general from me…giving the people what they want with more animal stories! Sorry if it’s a bit quiet I have a day off and it’s early so I’m trying not to be too loud. u/saraimarsena your prompts were awesome I just thought I will give the content that I think is most desired from me! Maybe this can be another question though ❤️ EDIT: The noise is the washing machine because I was in the basement and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:19 PM

Yaaay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:53 PM

Thanks man I made it myself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:53 PM

Oh were you in Wisconsin visiting or did you grow up there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:50 PM

If post wall is 30, no. Statistically the most safe marriages from divorce are ones that occurred between 27-32, a first marriage, and one where each partner has had education. You need to keep in mind also that people often date a few years before they get married, so it’s not about desperation in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:47 PM

I’m sorry that you are sick Sarai. ✨ good vibes ✨ Also your voice is always so soothing ilyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:44 PM

I can’t believe how many times I’ve seen women in the main subreddit say “I’ve never seen that happen before” to genuinely normal everyday occurrences lol. Like they’ll say they’ve “never seen” a bad relationship before. I’m very pro relationships everyone knows that, but even I have seen this from time to time. Or they’ll say “I’ve never seen a woman marry for money before” or something that does happen sometimes. Drives me insane tbh. I also just get randomly sent aggressive comments for exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:40 PM

What is culvers? Nice to put a voice to the username
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:38 PM

Hey man. I probably have the weirdest stupidest accent on here and I’ve done two. No pressure though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:36 PM

Thanks man for the shout out! Love your accent once again
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:35 PM

I’m autistic. AMAs and voice reveals absolutely do not make someone autistic bro lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:29 PM
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I agree. One of my biggest disagreements with TRP is that masculinity is more important than looks. If it was, then musicians like Prince or characters like Edward from Twilight wouldn’t have people throwing real or imagined panties at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:32 PM
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Same. Ive only had crushes mostly on people under 6’ I recognise that I’m odd among white women though. I think I remember you saying you’re from the Philippines. I believe women of my background probably care at least sometimes because they’re larger in stature. Particularly my dad’s (Swedish) they have some of the tallest women in the world. From shortest to biggest sibling it’s me (5’6/168-169 cm), my second oldest sister (not that much taller than me, maybe a weak 5’7, 170-171 cm) and my old…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:26 PM
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Some women don’t care about height Some women care loads about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:10 PM

I think it’s good she was honest and upfront tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:39 PM

Omg I remember this LEAVE BRITNEY ALONEEEEE The sad part is, she actually had a really hard life but we all just thought this is a funny video. I don’t think it translated well with the message it was intending to send. My older sister born in the early 90s was much more of a Britney fan than I ever was. I didn’t like Britney, I liked Destiny’s Child. So many great girl power songs— Independent Women and Survivor. That would be my parent carpool request. Hence the Beyoncé fan girl phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:31 PM

There are more men statistically in the BBW loving community than there is for the reverse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:18 PM

I used to be a big Beyoncé fan when I was younger (like in my teen years). I watched some performances on video and there were people that fainted or had freak outs when she touched them. Men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:17 PM

Easy. I just open em like the Thorella I am. Even if it takes pain and sweat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:12 PM

Feminine. I was about to say “for a man” then lily got me again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:59 PM

Penuvais
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:56 PM

Lol that is a cute picture I’m still kind of feminine it’s just I have an equal mix of masculine traits. I’m defintely a lot less feminine than my mom, best friend, sisters etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:54 PM

For sure some guys really dig that. I think that some people that follow TRP are a little bit silly when they suggest no one is into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:23 PM

For me I think I’m very much in between the traits Every gender roles test I take makes me androgynous. I have some masculine things about me, I have some feminine things about me. I think the discourse on here, as a lot of TRP discourse suggests, gives a dichotomy for women of an extremely meek, delicate, homemaker who wears bows, has soft hair and is a virgin, OR a biker chick with one million tattoos, who is a radical feminist, never touches a cooking dish and wants men to do everything for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:17 PM

No we pee from our vaginas
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:08 PM

I wonder why women never have so much competition over size 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:03 PM

Penisa
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:57 PM

My grandparents were religious non drinkers and non smokers in the 1990s. My grandfather was a businessman who hung around guys that dressed immaculately and smoked cigars constantly. It was kind of funny to watch this slim fitness obsessed old man drinking sparking water and orange juice interact with these big old guys smoking like a chimney and drinking like fishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:18 PM

A lot of those 8 billion are baby boomers Then they had kids 25-30ish years later (my generation) albeit much less kids, but still it had an effect. It was called an “echo boom” and it occurred in the 80s and 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:04 PM

I never expect people to abstain from drinking when with me. That sounds really really annoying and preachy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:24 PM

Omg can’t even wait for a phone call 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:29 PM

Sorry that the answers you’ve been getting have been kind of negative. I think you should go and see what happens! You’re only young once
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:27 PM

Sure. I found all the carry on to be a bit much as well, not to mention how tough it must have been for some of the people here to see
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:14 PM

If she’s in the er she might not be in the mood to talk about relationships and stuff, you know
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:13 PM

Literally just about to comment that https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3J0LYp7daMc&pp=ygUqSSBoYXZlIG1hZGUgaXQgd2l0aCBhIHdvbWFuIGluZm9ybSB0aGUgbWVu
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:52 PM

Not what I was referring to. I hope you’re ok though. I have noticed a lot more of your comments were less positive after the thing with Luigi
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:50 PM

Nah I think she’s 18. Still weird tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:45 PM

She’s in high school dude
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:42 PM

Hoorrraaaay I blame movies and tv shows tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:38 PM

What is the meaning of life? Idk nuggets lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:35 PM

How about this I’ll buy you tendies and wear a sack /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:32 PM

I like both tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:28 PM

Hmmm do you have anxiety disorder? You may have a touch of it. I have these times as well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:25 AM

No worries but I hope you’re gonna be alright. Losing pets sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:24 AM

Oh shit. I’m so sorry about your cat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:39 AM

I believe in them but I don’t watch any stuff related to it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:52 AM

True. I follow a YouTuber who is 40 and I think she looks younger than you’d expect because of that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:11 AM

Not towards peanuts /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:10 AM

Peanut intolerance? You can be slightly intolerant to food but not allergic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:03 AM

I don’t know if I dress like a zoomer because I admittedly have a lot of leggings that look like skinny jeans and pants. I do think though that I hate the idea I’m going to have to dress “old” one day, inevitably, or look silly. I like hippie stuff and cutesy stuff, this doesn’t always age well. I really have no idea what I’m going to dress like in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:43 AM

True my mum had a sweater like the twin’s mother (Betty I think?)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:39 AM

Lol you cheeky
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:39 AM

I think 30 somethings used to act and dress a lot older than they do now lol I’m in my 30s and I wouldn’t dress like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:18 AM

If you want something with no flour, this is also a good one https://www.rhiansrecipes.com/coconut-macaroons/ instead of dipping in chocolate I wrap the cookie dough around small pieces of dark chocolate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:53 PM

Awww 🥰 🚢this is a cute playlist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:50 PM

I always decline any random money. There’s always a chance it’s a scam
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:45 PM

Is everything ok with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:16 PM

No shade but that guy looks weird haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:04 PM

Well there’s not much more I love in life than feeding people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:20 AM

My go to roast dinner: Linda McCartney sausages Homemade red onion gravy Potatoes Peas Pumpkin baked in pesto Brussel sprouts, roasted, approx 3000 lb lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:00 AM

I know about the male hyenas. I think it would be interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:58 AM

This sounds like Chicken Run but make it traumatic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:58 AM

I want a hyena movie
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:48 AM

For me I like the oven, cuz even if it takes a long time I don’t have to touch it One of my favourite cooking methods is “throw a bunch of shit in the oven”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:35 AM

You sautee them? I just chuck them in the oven
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:23 AM

This is interesting. I think some people don’t have immediate when they met chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:11 AM

Not very religious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:09 AM

Victorianeramaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:06 AM

They’re cute but aggressive so it’s hard to get close to them 😭they tried to bite me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:45 AM

I don’t even know what hydroxyzine is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:40 AM

Do you not tell people to stop bragging?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:33 AM

Apparently it’s called Muscovy Duck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:20 AM

Be careful out there, doesn’t look like there’s too much visibility
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:20 AM

<image> u/PrinceDuneReloaded rare quackers!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:18 AM

Yus that one. Btw I don’t think this is simping it’s a classic dating move
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:14 AM

I was just kidding I was pretending to be that guy that tells people to stop bragging
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:09 AM

STAHP BRAGGING
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:04 AM

You’re not a stalker if you do that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:13 AM

I think women are harder to date but only because of dating apps. If most of gen Z didn’t use dating apps and people would meet in person and get set up by their friends, I don’t think we’d have the same issues. This form of meeting someone has in the past had a much better success rate for men that aren’t exceptionally good looking than OLD. I don’t agree with all the discourse on “oh our grandfathers had a great deal” or “men never had to do anything in traditional times” because it was still …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:12 PM

Some babies are too sassy, but I love the ones that chirp at you when you talk to them. I don’t know if this is just me being bonded to a baby and delusional, but I could swear my sister’s baby was making babbles that sound like words. Like “hellrrooorooo” and “moooaaaumm”. Kind of cool. Wonder if that’s what she’s hearing and attempting to make sense of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:40 PM

Thanks haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:35 PM

I had two broken arms at one time when I was 12. I think I have sprained my ankle more than once though The vocaroo was so nice haha. It is an odd but fun experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:32 PM

Synesthesia. When I close my eyes and listen to music I see and assign colours to each note. Perfect pitch (although this is kind of useless as I haven’t played anything for ages) Hand eye coordination, good internal “metronome” (so I’m good at games that have a beat) I have a lot of talents for withstanding getting injured/hurt too well, which is not good, it’s a bad talent lol. I had tons of injuries and band aids on my leg growing up because I would just throw myself on things, walk backwards…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:10 PM

ABABABABA!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:54 PM
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I would say upper middle class at the time we met
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:12 AM
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So—disclaimer, have already met a man, many years ago. Here’s something you might find interesting and surprising perhaps: I was never interested in a man of my immediate class. There are a couple of good reasons for this. Families like mine (I’m old school not new school) tend to be very, very sheltered and honestly out of touch with reality. My family is more down to earth and much more conservative with money than some others I’ve known as well. We were all taught as children to basically tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:33 AM
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Also owns a mansion. Mario is just a simp plumber. It’s over /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:52 AM
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Oh no way I have these in my local Korean grocery The cucumber one is goooooood
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:47 AM
2

Putting this in my YouTube compilation of delicate dance cover crash outs! (Just joking)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:46 AM
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Why a everyone wanna fucka my brother Luigi huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:38 AM
2

Hey you avoidant energetic pumpkin spice latte k pop soloist!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:17 AM
2

Poetic situationship? Is this gonna be a mixtape of Cauliflower’s friend with her situationship guy that randomly bursts out into song LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:12 AM
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You think gay guys get BBLs? I never heard of that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:07 AM
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Hey cool. 😎 That’s ok, you did pretty good and tbh I’m not even sure what a good name for my overall theme in men is lol. Black haired exotic men who are indie/not meatheads? Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:59 AM
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Nice shirts for my partner, toys and baby supplies for my niece, then a gift card of some kind for my best friend who is on disability. Probably for a big box store or groceries. I don’t give a fuck about buying stuff for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:46 AM
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I mean isn’t it kind of unusual to get a BBL if you’re a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:38 AM
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Left. Ladies don’t start fights but they finish em 🥊
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:37 AM
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My psychoanalysis: You love the 1960s and also the 1990s sort of revival of that aesthetic You like being cozy and warm as opposed to being dressed up for a big occasion You like women that are extroverted You’re a bit hipster/indie You like cats Your favourite music is alternative rock You would enjoy Pulp Fiction, Trainspotting or Fight Club kind of aesthetics and stories You’re a middle child You probably work a desk job, job that involves a computer You like pizza and beer
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:06 AM
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A lot of this is kind of accurate. I like unplugged, however my other favourite is In Utero. They’re kind of equal. I haven’t watched Parks and Rec but yeah, I am a fan of Kim’s Convenience and The Office so it seems similar. I’m not a cat person actually
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 11:59 PM
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Found a home video of a drunken brawl I had with my family
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 11:33 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/uHNv3pLBWI Ooh ooh!!!! Psychoanalyse me!!! If you psychoanalyse me I’ll psychoanalyse you 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 11:31 PM
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Oh no not the “I love little girls” song 😂 the pedo battle cry. Who thought that was a good idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 11:20 PM
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Ahhhhh well ok. Makes sense. I know him from Kim’s Convenience. It’s set in Toronto actually
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:53 PM
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Your uncle? Really? Is your uncle Chinese?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:38 PM
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Agreed I have had this happen to me (what you described in your paragraph) and I am 30 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:24 PM
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Me too. Imagine being famous for being the “I touch myself” person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:22 PM
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I often amuse myself by trying to imagine a guy singing it to a woman. Tbh I think that it is kind of a double standard because people thought it was cute when she did but a guy singing the same lyrics would be seen as creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:21 PM
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If you haven’t watched the one about Enoch J’s POVs you have to. First time I watched it I couldn’t stop laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:19 PM
2

Dicks out 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:11 PM
2

My honest reaction to volcanically hot women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:09 PM
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Honestly being this upset seems like it would unnecessarily stress you out. Most men will accept it if you say “no thanks, have a nice day”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:07 PM
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Yeah I sure do. Love his videos
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:57 PM
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Yeah the second half is very true sometimes, but that’s just how I have always been. I posted it half for people’s reactions 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:54 PM
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I don’t mind lisps so much. I get stuttering sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:49 PM
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Agreed!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:48 PM
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Yeah he’s so funny. I love sad boys too they have me rolling
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:47 PM
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Sheila’s very very subjective 10s Simu Liu Young Roland Ozrabal with long hair Young Prince#/media/File%3APrince_1981.jpg) Jarvis Johnson (a very cool YouTuber) Sam Milby, he was in a movie I liked in 06, good looking Filipino This is kind of the closest to my partner I can get without doxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:33 PM
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Look on the bright side. Whatever you’re doing, it’s working. Have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:29 PM
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Similar thought here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:00 AM
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Uncomfortably laugh and make some weird face like an awkward autistic woman, then say no sorry but I don’t want to. Never talk about it again for his and my sakes. Somewhere in between?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:00 AM
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Jack and the Beanstalk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:52 AM
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Same reason they probably say “personality is the only thing that matters, take a shower”. Look I’m no black piller, I don’t believe personality is never a factor, but it’s kind of obnoxiously virtue signally to claim things other than personality never ever matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:57 PM
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Awwww. But I also think maybe people assign me water signs because I’m non confrontational and “with the flow”. That’s my own explanation anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:55 PM
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Yeah I guessed it because someone has been doing that here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:54 PM
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So….like 3 days out of a normal week for me lol? I love greens so much I could seriously eat a pound of them probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:51 PM
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Vegetable, florentine (spinach and ricotta) or pesto lasagna is not too bad I wouldn’t eat this everyday, but if you make it at home and have it with side salad it’s certainly better than a lot of take out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:47 PM
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Were you Chad fishing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:46 PM
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I’m old for this subreddit and there are aspects of aging I enjoy. I don’t experience as many emotional highs and lows. I don’t think everything is the end of the world. I have the wisdom to know better. I have higher self esteem and less neuroticism. I know how to keep toxic people particularly toxic friends from my life and don’t put up with BS anymore. I think I’m better off maybe than others because I’m a healthy “older” person. Part of the reason I think people complain is they want to not …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:35 PM
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Gemini is the correct one ✅ Funnily enough, Pisces is probably the most common one people guess, then Aquarius.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:26 PM
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Can you guess what my starsign is? 9 out of 10 people guess it wrong lmao and there are like 2 signs people think I am that I’m not. But I’ll reveal that after you guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:16 PM
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It’s not that long and 10,000 is a good amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:15 PM
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See usually I can’t tell you’re 18 but it’s times like this where I can 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:14 PM
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Tissany
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:37 PM
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It’s up to you. You have to strike them down with your PINGAs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:34 PM
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I’m team anti circumcised, not all PPD wahmen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:27 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XDXrP9HET2A&pp=ygUVam9obiBpIHdhbnQgYSBkaXZvcmNl Divorce…hehehehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:36 PM
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She’s not just skinny though she looks like she has an eating disorder If someone posted about how much they loved Grande’s before picture I wouldn’t care even though she’s very skinny because she’s healthy in that picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:34 PM
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Safe phrase: John I want a divorce!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:24 PM
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I don’t go for that fancy stuff. I have a cheap gym
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:00 PM
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Why would they not believe you? I see attractive people a lot too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:56 PM
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It is one. My American partner was pretty shocked by things like work culture. It’s a lot more laid back here than it is in other Anglo cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:46 PM
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Sport could be different from gym. Idk though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:43 PM
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Mine was almost empty. Was there at 7 so it might be different to like 4-6 pm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:42 PM
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Honestly the Australians are lazy stereotype might be true….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:41 PM
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How is everyone not a frozen icicle? I would die
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:38 PM
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I know 😂but I mean, more room in the gym for me. The rush the first two weeks is annoying AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:31 PM
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No more post resolution rush in my gym this morning. Yeeeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:28 PM
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ANTI BABY PILLS
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:23 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yyvnfHJ26aA Relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:13 PM
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Well I have autism and I was early diagnosed in the late 1990s so I grew up with a lot of different autistic boys and men. I’ve had mixed experiences overall. It wasn’t even really to do with dating/romance for most of the autistic boys. I found for a lot of them when I bluntly told them I wasn’t interested the good thing about them is they’re rule followers so most just leave you be, and respect it, it was honestly a lot better than experiences I had with NTs in that regard. It’s just that some…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:34 AM

This message is foreigner approved. Almost no American ie in laws and friends that I talk to is happy about like the situation with healthcare, university, insurance etc. I don’t understand why the blame is solely placed on them, it ought to be placed on these institutions instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:20 AM

Yeah well, I probably wouldn’t want to do first date sex either hypothetically
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:15 AM

It shouldn’t be a source of significant anxiety or constant stress. That’s a sign you’re not compatible. That’s the reason most people including men need to have a least a few standards for a partner (I’m not saying dozens upon dozens but some rules are good). If having a partner sounds stressful as a wgtow; all sincerity I promise, you’re probably doing the right thing. No one should get a partner if the premise sounds stressful to them. Protect your mental health and yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:11 AM

I mean I’m not saying you have to get a partner, if you don’t want to that’s fine but people typically trust them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:05 AM

There are some elections where like around 50% of the population turned up to vote lmao For example Gore vs Bush: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/2000_United_States_presidential_election that had a 54% turnout rate. Tons of people didn’t vote. 1996 was even worse, 48% didn’t vote. There’s a string of low turnout years from the mid-late 70s up until quite modern history. Might have been a combination of factors like less political involvement and Gen X tended to be more apathetic about social/pol…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:09 AM

I disagree with Mia that there’s no male loneliness. However I’m not a man so I don’t really know what’s best for them imv. I wouldn’t want to prescribe stuff for an experience I honestly know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:01 AM

Ooh you keep inspiring me Angmar! Making a mental note of this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:55 AM

Well it depends on the woman I guess. What’s her frame/height? Is she at a healthy weight? Thing is many women that size aren’t. I’m 5’6 so on the taller spectrum, there’s no way I could be a healthy size 0, I’d be a bag of bones. More women are healthier and have more vitality at size 4-8 because they have body fat that’s needed for bodily function. That’s more an example of a smaller, but healthy, woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:21 AM

How sweet. Guess you’ll need to get to know her more, hey.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:18 AM

I mean it could be a surgeried body, it could be a photoshop body. I don’t think all women automatically agree with these types of movements though. I don’t because they often state morbid obesity is ok when it isn’t. I’ll rail against too thin bodies and content promoting eating disorders as well, we need to be sensitive to that. HOWEVER, it doesn’t and shouldn’t mean that morbid obesity is alright. It is a serious health challenge and I’ve seen it up close with first degree relatives that have…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:17 AM

I suppose with any loss, they go on because they have to. But it seems an insurmountable challenge
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:14 AM

The Doritos I think have a lot of cheese powder on them, and corn is a bit of high energy food as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:12 AM

Boba teas even without sugar could be kind of rich. Having unsweetened black or green ice tea, from a large bottle from the store, may help you with your goals if you like cold tea drinks. I often keep unsweet tea in the fridge when it’s way too hot to drink regular tea. It also works out cheaper than buying from boba places so it’s good for your wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:10 AM

Cool! Will Smith is awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:15 AM

Exactly. That’s the reason there are so many “fattie women” on the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:12 AM

Yeeeeeee I think p fulga, another excellent PPD woman is a part of our mediator tribe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:11 AM

I mean maybe but it used to not be that way. It used to be youth commonly not voting. Youth voters traditionally were democrat majorities, especially when Zoomers were just kids and Millennials were mostly the young people. Michael Moore even made a movie dedicated to getting more college bound young people to vote in the mid-late 2000s because of this. I’m honestly not sure what would happen nowadays if all Americans voted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:00 AM

I am a consistent mediator girly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:56 AM

INFP
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:55 AM

True it is just unnecessary. Plus it doesn’t make any sense, logically if you think it’s not a big deal you would simply scroll past, not scold someone. They DO think it’s a big deal they just don’t want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:45 AM

I mean I don’t want to shame you but to avoid bloat basically avoid stuff you’re intolerant to, too much salt, oil, sugar, junk food or also in some cases overconsumption of fibre (though it’d have to be pretty severe like 3 heads of broccoli or something).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:42 AM

16 personalities? I always get the same thing; Mediator. AKA: Shakespeare’s personality 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:41 AM

You might like some stuff that’s not so intensely nerdy for example strategy board games
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:53 AM

We both watch cartoons lol, and sci fi and we both game (albeit I do this one less).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:43 AM

I met my partner because of a fandom we shared I mean it’s true some interests are a bit gender segregated. I wouldn’t tell someone to get a hobby just for dating alone, but it might help you to destress and find like minded friends to vent to if nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:26 AM

Yeah it’s the new daily Tbh I don’t know why they wrote it saying “looks and n count” as the first words. It’s kind of dumb tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:59 AM

At first I thought it was the looks and n count thread 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:31 AM

I don’t use sex workers but I’m under the impression most use condoms especially in places where it’s legal and regulated
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:34 AM

At the lobby this evening, Sir Quakerton the Third ducked the question. It would appear he let it roll like water over his back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:21 AM

Or Australian hours. I get some of the American hours but I miss some of the American hours. It’s after 6 for you but it’s after 10 am for me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:17 AM

Donald Duck would never be a lame duck president
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:01 AM

No greys anatomy allowed!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:36 PM

Indicator of interest I think
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:27 PM

Oftentimes their parents beat them. The grandparents beat the parents. Not that it makes it right and it’s stupid reasoning but that lends itself to normalcy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:21 PM

It’s easier to view women as victims of something because we as a society leave much more room for women to be vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:19 PM

To be honest, when it comes to solutions I wouldn’t want to send lonely men to a bloodbath but I’m not a man. I don’t want to speak too much on the behalf of men. I don’t know 100% what they would like to make them feel less lonely. Imo if I’m not within a group it’s my job to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:16 PM

Cup of tea, square of dark chocolate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:12 PM

Maybe kind of both with a lean towards face For me I don’t really have this strictly but I’ll e honest and say it’d be hard for me to “test” (and it’s too late anyways as I’m partnered). It’s very hard to find any men who are under 5’6, particularly in western countries where men are taller on average. I liked someone in HS who was around my adult height too, also 5’6-5’7. I think one difference between you and me maybe is you like to wear heels but I don’t enjoy them. I wonder if this leads me …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:09 PM

I don’t think being picky is a virtue and I don’t think being indiscriminate is a virtue tbh. I think people who have these traits can be virtuous people but I don’t think the behaviour itself makes them virtuous if you get what I mean. Both just kind of…are. Also as someone who was once inhibited, not because of religion but just because of my disorder and the fact that I’m shy, I don’t think it’s fair to automatically give men/partners all the credit in many of these cases. Many of us work on …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:23 AM

This is so cute 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:55 AM

Huh. I just checked and I don’t have any
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:42 AM

I think women look better not extremely skinny in general so I’ll go with left
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:36 AM

Couple people up top just told me that the baby is here actually so I feel a bit better knowing he is alright
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:31 AM

Well at least baby is here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:25 AM

Yaaay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:25 AM

I like some traditional identifiers of masculinity but a soft personality. I guess I like men who are kind of masculine presenting but men high in “alpha traits” or whatever people call them aren’t my jam. Just never have been. I can never relate when men on here say that all women like dark triad, I think dark triad (like TRUE dark triad, not a man who banters or who got into a fight in high school) is scary. I’ll say my sweet spot is 6-6.5 out of 10 masculinity. Enough to be kind of normative,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:21 AM

He’s having a baby atm, haven’t heard anything for a while. There was some complications
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:12 AM

Higher creativity, resourcefulness, mindfulness and planning. Some variations of neuroticism even intersect with intelligence (though it depends)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:11 AM

I have medium-high neuroticism. I’m quietly anxious (not really temperamental or irritate though) but I’m just really practiced at looking like I have my shit together lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:08 AM

u/sine120 Is everything ok now? You and your wife are in my thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:05 AM

I’m so Bingo coded lol. Probably the character I relate to most Nice. I use weighted blankets in summer because I find if my bed spread isn’t heavy enough it takes me like three times longer to get to sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:36 AM

Not always but I have a Bingo toy my best friend also that has autism made me and it has weighted blanket beads for when I get overwhelm (For those who don’t what Bingo means https://blueypedia.fandom.com/wiki/Bingo_Heeler)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:25 AM

Awww a vampire aubergine I vant your parmigiana!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:24 AM

Oh hmmm. I wonder how it would taste sans tomatoes. Maybe it’d still be good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:02 AM

No idea, there were a lot of songs with lyrics about jumping up to fit in your jeans in that era 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:56 AM

I’m assuming you enjoy the smooth tomatoes in chilli though right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:55 AM

Oh crap yeah belly chains I think Shakira wore those
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:04 AM

Well part of the reason people wore these sometimes is so they could show off their thongs ☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:03 AM

Yeah sadly got to agree here He still brings her up so much and it’s been years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:02 AM

What would be worse if we start seeing people’s asscracks and whale tails
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:56 AM

Excuse moi, you are telling me THIS isn’t the pinnacle of fashion??? <image> (I don’t even know what is on her tummy in the right side photo lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:50 AM

No i don’t currently
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:41 AM

Yeah I can be a bit sassy but I don’t have the natural ability others have
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:39 AM

I used to troll people online. I’m a bit embarrassed about it now because it’s so immature but I was like 9-14
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:39 AM

You know what, I can see that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:38 AM

What about your BF or closest friends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:38 AM

I mean you might disagree with me but I think it’s endearing when men are a bit boyish. Obviously I don’t speak for every woman though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:16 AM

QFA: In your relationship, with your friends, whatever: do you prefer being the sassy one with all the quips or the straight man who just laughs at everything? I like being more non sassy, but sometimes with a sassy little twist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:09 AM

I have that allergy specific sore throat where it’s clustering at the back of my mouth/front of throat but it’s not going away 😕 so it might be a cold but I have to wait to see. My neighbours have been cutting grass and shit and it makes me itchy and sneezy, but I’ve also been out a lot. This is worst part of having environmental allergies, it’s so hard to tell if I’m getting sick
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:05 AM

It’s not as bad as those things but it was still scary
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:43 PM

Because they assume it’s always a hot guy and never a woman settling a bunch or being unappealing for some reason Maybe it could be the first thing sometimes but I really doubt it every time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:59 PM

No chad just shits everywhere. The more Chad shits the higher his SMV until there’s a whirlstorm of vacuous poop flying around the universe and a black hole forming in his booty
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:58 PM

6.5-7.5 There’s a range because I vary between different seasons and if I’m busy or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:31 PM

Yeah I think the problem is the way people talk about it or describe their intentions with younger women some times. There is person here who I talk to who is a guy in his mid 30s with a mid 20s girlfriend. We were talking in the main, and he said something that got me thinking. He said he’s often able to handle people’s perceptions about it and subvert them because he shows genuine interest in his girlfriend as person and doesn’t talk about how many eggs she has left, how she looks like arm can…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:30 PM

Oh yeah for sure. 5-10 years, I would say there can be attraction there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:07 PM

Honestly when I’ve seen people on here defend it the rationale they give is often that they feel like they will have to resort to this themselves. And wait until they get older to date. I’m not sure how often guys IRL would believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:02 PM

Your last paragraph is why I think it’s so hilarious when people are like “That lucky 75 year old with a young woman! The good old days.” The cynical part of my mind is thinking she’s probably with the gardener or the pool boy who is closer to her age
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:55 AM
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It’s sad. Often people end up like because they had a broken home. It just reinforces to me that we need to find ways to mitigate and prevent the effects of broken homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:15 AM
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I don’t know if this is true. I think some women do this and we should be honest about it. I don’t think it’s all women, or even most, like TRP thinks. But I’m not very red pilled, I’m purple leaning to the blue side and even I have come across relationships like this in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:14 AM
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You know you’re completely valid in wanting an LTR where someone genuinely desires you and I truly believe this is the best thing for all parties involved. I hate the current “husband material” narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:12 AM
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Oh no I wasn’t around in the 80s. My dad introduced me this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:03 AM
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I want my MTV!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:23 AM
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If you spent 350k on dates then to be honest that’s your fault. I know plenty of guys who don’t have 350k to spare on dates, somehow they dated. If you are spending 350k that’s a you problem. No one put a gun to your head and made you spend thousands and thousands on dates. You could have chosen to take women out to reasonably priced dates, but you didn’t. Furthermore it might be because you wanted to date loads of women. If you’re dating casually for twenty years, of course going out constantly…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:21 AM

Thanks. I’m not sure how to answer this though lol. For me I guess I do feel appreciated and seen so I want to give that energy back naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:41 PM

Thanks hehe Come to the dark side 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:33 PM

No 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:33 PM

Yeah it is definitely both genders. There was a point of time in my life where my dad didn’t work as much and took more care of me. It was when he was self employed and my mother’s career was taking off a lot after I was 6-8 (I’m the youngest) and my other siblings were older…probably because we weren’t so time consuming more I guess. There was a decision made that he would take over more childcare for a while. Anyhow, when we were out I couldn’t believe the stuff some people would say. It was t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:25 PM

Not me bringing milk and cookies to my partner while he’s gaming 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:18 PM

Omg I remember he said his New Year’s resolution was to “acquire 19-21 female body” last year and he accidentally sounded like a murderer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:32 PM

I think it really hurts the chances of men learning skills with children and reaching their full potential in terms of nurturing skills as well. We wonder why men out with their kids are called “babysitters” well, maybe this is part of it. Too many men aren’t trusted with kids to the point where normal fathering is considered weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:30 PM
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Agreed. Sometimes it’s not about prudishness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:11 AM
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But they literally did that during history lmao. Many such written depictions and even images too. Sorry if it ruins history for you but it doesn’t change the fact we’ve been going down on each other since we were bonobos.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:08 AM
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You can eat someone out or go down on someone very easily without getting pregnant. Or you can mutually touch without getting pregnant. Also you could do butt stuff. Same sex sexual relations were very common in some periods of history, and that doesn’t get anyone pregnant. I also wouldn’t necessarily recommend pull out but it’s referenced in the Bible so there’s evidence people knew that getting sperm inside a woman got her pregnant when that verse was written, or at least they made some sort o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:44 AM

You are a good guy, and you are not evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:02 AM

My first car was a Mazda. It was reliable but the engine was a bit annoying when I wanted to speed up fast and go up hills. They’re not too complex though and inexpensive compared to other brands so all in all, a good first car. I have a Toyota now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:51 AM

I’m surprised I didn’t get covid from new years tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:49 AM

The only divorce ASMR I need https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XDXrP9HET2A&pp=ygUQaSB3YW50IGEgZGl2b3JjZQ%3D%3D
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:11 AM

Have you had stuffed avocados with salad before? Delicious. Sometimes I have a vegetarian version of “coronation chicken salad” which is basically mango chutney sauce over a protein. You can put any flavoured proteins or salads in the middle u/Ok-Coat7665 you might like to try this too if your aim is to eat more avocado, it’s a you’re healthy and fun too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:55 PM

I think on your first time it’s nice for it to be a girlfriend or boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:47 PM

Every time you say Jezebel it reminds me of this classic banger https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Y5ErvkbZ7GQ&pp=ygUMSmV6ZWJlbCBzYWRl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:38 PM

Looks Japanese
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:36 PM

I think that might have been the same guy. I remember him saying Eulen was a bad person because she is with a 5’11 man at 5’2 lmao and that she had to marry a 4’8-5’2 man instead. Ok lemme just call up the Danny Devito store…. The funny thing is my partner and I are relatively height matched at 5’6 + 5’8 but people here will ALSO say any woman with a man under 6’0 is settling or it’s impossible for them to be truly attracted to them. Like what am I meant to do? Cease to exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:32 PM

Tbh I have seen some people tell 5’0-5’2 women they had to date/marry a 4’10 man in order to “not be hypergamous” which is ridiculous. How many of those men exist? I’m 5’6 also, I can count on my hands the number of times I’ve seen men under 5’4-5’5 in public. It’s not that common. Even if I wanted to date a man significantly shorter than me it would be a very very hard task.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:18 PM

Attractive. A cultured gentleman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:16 PM

What kind of person are you if you butter potatoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:12 PM

I don’t think he’s wrong for this, he just caught feelings. I’ve caught feelings for friends three times! I’ve been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:33 PM

I honestly wonder if this is why some younger women don’t like men that are bald In a way, male pattern baldness signifies age as some men get it early but the majority that do it have it get it at 40-50
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:07 AM

I’m glad before I went on BC my periods were relatively normal. They were a bit painful, maybe heavy for two days but they were 28 day cycles and the rest was light. It seems like people love to dismiss period pain
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:53 AM

Ok well maybe he is manosphere then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:48 AM

SHUT UP WOMAN GET ON MY HORSE!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:44 AM

Yeah from what I heard it used to be a lot harder to get an endo diagnosis
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:42 AM

cue Kelly Clarkson piano Pssst hope she likes cowgirl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:40 AM

What lol I hated 2020
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:39 AM

I don’t know if it always means that. Sometimes parents just learn random slang and they have no idea what it means 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:38 AM

I would defintely welcome it! Might be more likely in 26, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:10 AM

What am I looking at 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:09 AM

Same thing happened with my sister. Not the faith thing, but she was put on birth control long before she actually had a partner because she’s got endo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:52 AM

It was more a stupid jokey way of me saying I want babies now lol. I’m not actually anti baby like a…political stance or something
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:47 AM

I would never do this because many women get pregnant using that method. It’s very easy to not count your cycle properly and it’s also common for women’s cycles to shift up or down a few days on some months. A variation of a few days is perfectly normal. I wouldn’t feel comfortable having sex when I want to prevent using this method at all. I think it’s “accuracy” is overstated. It’s either condoms, birth control, vasectomy or no PIV for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:34 AM

I’m on because I didn’t want babies yet I’m not taking birth control pills though, I’m on a contraceptive implant which I like a lot more. I will probably get it taken out this year when it’s due just to regulate my cycle again before TTC because I’m not so anti baby anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:30 AM

Wtf is this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:10 AM

Does it have a taste?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:09 AM

“It matches you based on astrology”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:39 AM

I mean I don’t necessarily agree with this, but how do you respond to critics who would argue every woman wants Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:36 AM

Yeah ok sounds good. I’m just curious do you put it in food, water or do you just take the powder?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:33 AM

He’s not my type
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:31 AM

Keep in mind, the efficacy of intaking collagen to produce more collagen still hasn’t been conclusively proven. If you want to spend some money on collagen products go ahead but don’t spend too much on it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:19 AM
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Sorry but, I really don’t think of men who provide some of the salary as “a provider”. That’s not what I’ve always thought a provider to mean. Usually when people say a “provider” then mean someone who can provide them a certain lifestyle financially and who makes most or all of the money. My partner and I make virtually identical salaries and we do our own version of division of labour at home (not 50/50 on every chore necessarily, I do 90% of cooking he’s 90% the cleaning, more based on hours/…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:54 AM
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It annoys me when people claim it shouldn’t be celebrated or it’s “just what women do/have to do” then in another breath ask why not all women will “just be trad wives?”. Are you for real right now lol? It’s so irritating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:35 AM
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I understand that men do a lot of the blue collar labour and I am very thankful for this but it would still be chaos if there was no female workforce. Much of the healthcare, aged care, disability care, childcare and education sector is female. If we didn’t have women working, there would basically be no nursing staff in most general hospitals. That alone would cause chaos. In my country one of the states is having days long nursing strikes for higher pay and the government after a few days begs…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:13 AM
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Most men are taller and stronger than most women regardless of whether they provide a lot of money for them or protect them. This isn’t traditional gender roles, that’s literally biological. I can’t even think of situation where my partner has had to really protect me from danger, because I live in a safe area in a safe country. But, even though I work out like ten times more than him and we’re almost the same height, he can easily beat me arm wrestling and stuff (believe me I’ve tried). How can…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:57 AM

Some people do and they need lots therapy to have sex again, or they would tense up too much to be able to have sex physically in some cases. For some people they become hyper sexual to deal with the SA. Some other people basically remain the same sex wise after a while. There are a lot of different ways people react to it, everyone processes it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:43 AM

Ooh a classic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:51 AM

Aw shucks young man! /jk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:51 AM

Maybe it’s just a variety here then, but it’s a lot less bitter than other cabbages. Hence the name “sugarloaf”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:20 AM

I’ve seen her do stuff like that as well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:00 AM

I mean all I’ve seen her talk about so far is her days and her partner. I get that some people don’t like it when users speak about their partner, but this alone doesn’t constitute trolling. Was there something she said or a comment she made that you believed to be trolling? Maybe I missed something, I dunno. Or I wasn’t awake at the right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:47 AM

Me too they were very similar. They both said bmi was made by a math dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:43 AM

What’s cookin?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:43 AM

Honestly there are probably thousands and thousands of men with his hair
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:30 AM

I’ve noticed that with A sometimes but not really excitementlow. She doesn’t come off as trolly to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:29 AM

Really? What evidence do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:24 AM

Haha thank you. I would buy you a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:24 AM

Yeah, like no woman would want to be talked about that way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:19 AM

Wat…it’s in the name 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:15 AM

Yeah looks like Virgo. Neat. We have interesting ones like there’s a constellation we call “the southern cross” because it looks like the stars on our flag. A lot of people used to use it to help navigate, by the direction of the cross
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:11 AM

You know which one? I think many of our constellations between the hemispheres are different
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:06 AM

“I don’t want to have sex with you that much and you’re not my ideal man. What do you mean you’re upset?”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:03 AM

No worries. You do anything special?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:53 PM

Yeah maybe but I think with rings on hands, it doesn’t look as bad because it’s more spread out. An ear is very small.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:53 PM

Kind of pretty but also maybe too much. It looks a bit cluttered. I think less piercings would be better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:41 PM

How are you? I won some money at the casino (small amount but still nice) stayed at the hotel there, then I met with my friend who has a birthday really soon after new years
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:29 PM

Ooh I like the mushrooms I like eating greens on New Year’s Day, it’s not really an Australian thing but I think it’s a cool tradition. I had some green sugarloaf cabbage yesterday with dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:21 PM

Sure but I more meant like it’s crazy that they want girls so tall. Netballers on average are like 180cm-189cm which is the top percentiles of women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:26 AM

My sister and I were taller than average for our age in the fifth-sixth grade which was why my family friend (a volunteer netball coach) wanted us to play so bad on the team lol. I was actually in goal keeper position a lot of the time, or I was in “the wings” which is basically a center position
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:20 AM

Yeah my height slowed around 10-12. I was 5’2-5’4 ish for a long time from 10-12 then I think I grew a tiny bit more gradually. Now I’m 168-169 cm or 5’6.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:18 AM

To be honest I don’t do New Year’s resolutions because I’ll forget them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:15 AM

Lol, fair. But I’ve always been kind of an early riser even as a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:02 AM

Oh crap I forgot about those. I better not go to the gym today, ty 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:53 AM

I always wanted to be taller lol! Even though I’m already 5’6 I think part of it is I wanted to be like my dad who is over 6’0 and I also dreamed of playing netball
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:09 AM

I wished a lot to grow up to be tall growing up; only because the height standards for adult female netball players are insane and you have to be like 5’10 at least to be considered for a non recreational league. Crazy thing is; it’s a female dominated sport
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:08 AM

Well it’s New York. They’re used to things being crowded
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:06 AM

Period sex is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:34 PM

The ones in Gold Coast are the best. It’s like Vegas up here. You can stay in them and see shows and stuff It was banned until the 90s I think
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:28 PM

To be honest I would assume a woman who hasn’t dated seriously until her mid to late 30s is too picky, ace or low libido or is a party girl I wouldn’t necessarily believe she’s above average. Successful women date and get married all the time, if you look at the stats marriage rates and children in wedlock rates among wealthier UMC and upper class people are much higher than those that have less wealth. In my circles being an unmarried or non partnered woman after 25-30 would be unusual. Most wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:21 PM

Thanks mate same to you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:18 PM

Sure does
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:18 PM

NYE was a success. We went to get some dinner, gelato after, I doubled my (very small admittedly) amount of money at blackjack because I was insanely lucky but I left in 20-25 mins cuz I didn’t want to push it. Then the casino even had fireworks happening above it, so I was able to watch them lazebones style in my pjs from my window. I usually can’t stay up very long but I managed to stay up until 12:30-1 so yaaaay. But I woke up and now I can hear sounds of puking from the room next to me lol. …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:12 PM

No I’m not a parent, just planning like I said. I actually wasn’t one of the people coat was talking about. I guess that’s somewhat true, I might speak in general terms if someone brings it up but there are a couple people here who like put their sexts up or talk about a night in detail. That’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:01 PM

Aww. My nerd and me is cute. We’re both nerds, are there videos of those couples too?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:56 PM

Yeah life is so random. People aren’t deserving or not stuff just happens
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:54 PM

Yus
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:53 PM

Fake ahhh stories about man tadpoles and all the people that will receive them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:51 PM

Coat? Equalsea?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:48 PM

I can attest to this, I sweat pretty heavily when I exercise and I need a heavy duty shower or I’ll still smell
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:47 PM

Sounds delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:43 PM

If bragging about having sex makes you a bad parent, billions of people would be bad parents Most parents were immature once or liked to talk about sex. We don’t come out of the womb being mature parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:41 PM

It’s 8:30 the next day here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:37 PM

What type of drink is it Hannah?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:36 PM

Same I ship too many people here 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:18 PM

Loopy and delirious
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:44 AM

It depends I think? They would probably be more likely to accept if it if it was a slight mismatch of what they wanted instead of a large mismatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:41 AM

My other favourite song of theirs is that Cheekah Bow Bow song because the cheeky lyrics and music video make me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:35 AM

I feel that. I looked a bit weird as a kid. I think aging has actually made my face more harmonious because I have a rounded face. When it became more oval with age I looked more normal. A lot of my features were kinda squished. Also lol, when I was 18 years old I was mistaken for a 12-14 year old on more than one occasion, which was very embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:33 AM

Boom boom boom boom I want you in my room 🎵 Fuck that’s a bop
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:28 AM

Sometimes I like old reality tv shows with shitty ratios and quality on YouTube cuz it reminds me of the good old days lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:09 AM

Yep I remember kids in school wearing dyed black product filled greasy hair pasted on their face and eyes. It was….something. Also some guys wore eyeliner which was kinda cool
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:51 AM

That sounds like it’d be crazy making. I’d be angry too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:42 AM

Huh was this in 2007? So emo I low key love these posts because of their whacky ass outfits lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:38 AM

It’s 5:30 pm and I’m ready to party 😎 Everybody wang Chung! (From the future)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:31 AM

Please don’t listen to some of the people here, they don’t understand your situation and they’re being assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:13 AM

2005 Eminem “Stan” vibes big time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:48 AM

I’ve seen some people say men being taller or stronger than women in most relationships is hypergamy. Which doesn’t make any sense because those things are mostly biological. They’re not cultural, it’s a part of sexual dimorphism. Like is it really hypergamy for me, a 5’6 woman to have interests that are the same height or taller? It’s hard to find men who just exist shorter than 5’5. I think hypergamy does exist for sure I just think maybe people are taking it too far from the original definiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:43 AM

I still feel bad for the guys though, even if it’s mostly not aimed at me Autistic men are probably actually a lot more safe, non toxic and non violent than some of the male population. Typically lots of them are rule followers and have a sense of justice. But they get such a bad rap in the media and online and it’s really unfair. Like people are obviously allowed to not date them, I don’t advocate for forcing people’s dating choices, but it’s sad as someone who knew a lot of men/boys with the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:50 AM

Same here except it’s a lot closer I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:47 AM

I mean it was put up I think about a year ago. It’s recurring
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:45 AM

Well they are not allowed on the main thread as much anymore, and I’m also not allowed to comment the link as per witch hunting rules, but you can find some of that discussion on the looks mega thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:39 AM

That guy looks like a bunch of 20 something men I’ve known
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:32 AM

How do you define a prude? I think a lot of people define it in a way that might possibly include some of the behaviour that comes natural to me 🤷‍♀️but it isn’t like I’m trying hard. For example I feel uncomfortable in extremely revealing clothing so I don’t wear it for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:29 AM

I work out and stuff and am not obese, however, I don’t know if everyone else on the sub believes that. There are a lot of people who post normal weight women pictures then insinuate that they aren’t very attractive. There is also a group claiming any woman who isn’t obese is above average. To be honest it’s quite confusing, so I’ll just do me to the best of my ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:26 AM

We were together and not engaged for 4-5 years…keep in mind, I was 20-21 when we started out so I actually said “I’m not ready to get engaged” until I was 24. Your situation might be different
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:46 AM

Wat 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:24 AM

All ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:24 AM

Cabbage is too yummy, I have to stop myself or I’ll do that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:23 AM

Of course it’s ok to choose what you want, even if I’m autistic. I won’t say people can’t go for the non autistic. What puts me off is when NT people on the sub act like all autistic people are mean, creepy or deserve to be alone, or they take glee in the idea that there could be pre natal screenings for autism. That’s happened on more than a few posts in the main sub about autism and it was very disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:18 AM

Haha, maybe. I should have a look at the greyhound shelter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:15 AM

If it’s me I’m not having problems we’re just figuring stuff out. It would be nice to give my niece a cousin
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:15 AM

I’m liberal but I don’t necessarily think everyone should be gay. The problem is that a lot of the drugs that suppress sexuality have terrible side effects. A lot of the time libido= good health
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:43 AM

People here are very big on gender roles for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:21 AM

Yee Some people think it’s funny. I kind of understand that I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:21 AM

I’d hate being gay, women are pickier
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:19 AM

What about Aussies? Ugly or cute?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:11 AM

It seems like you’re always talking about someone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:06 AM

Same with my peloton bike
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:50 AM

I mean I don’t think that exercising will solve everything but if a guy is quite obese then losing weight and toning up would probably be helpful at least in some way for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:17 AM
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It’s thought to be biologically ingrained because before modern times, women were pretty vulnerable. Heavily pregnant women and women with young children couldn’t easily run away or hide from a threat, so it made sense that we evolved to be biased towards women. There’s also a theory that we have a bias too because most people have a mother as a primary caregiver and the attachment figure. Most people are attached to their mothers and identify with them, and mothers are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:01 AM

Thanks, it did. We were all obsessed with the baby haha but I think it’s because the baby is very communicative and “talks” to you back 😃she’ll be a journalist, talk show host or PR strategist, guaranteed hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:46 PM

Yeah that’s important. You won’t get the time back when they’re gone. Treasure every second.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:42 PM

What number sims? I might be able to find a guide to help you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:41 PM

Yesterday I got cuddles from a baby, pepperkakor box and brownie pan We did Kris Kringle and to be honest, the older I get the more Christmas is about seeing relatives rather than getting gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:24 PM

Yeah I can imagine that My sister is a blonde and blondes are really rare in China so when she went there on tour people kept taking pictures of her. Even without her permission sometimes!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:01 PM

People in China loved me lmao. I’m so fair and have freckles. Everyone wanted to talk to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:53 PM

It’s an excuse I’ve known several people on the autism spectrum that have way better manners than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:48 PM

Yes it is Or, it’s Boxing Day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:37 PM

The GOATs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:12 PM

I mean yesterday at my Christmas party my fancy pants mum gave everyone champagne but I had some sort of alcohol free one with my sister who is postpartum (and not drinking very much)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:08 PM

Oh. My partner and I married near Christmas too We had the anniversary last week as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:00 PM

I got a baking pan for brownies/slices, he got this very Christmasy cologne set with spray and oil, Pino Silverstre
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:58 PM

It’s nice that it’s possible now for them to have families. I have a cousin who is in a lesbian marriage, with a young son and daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:51 PM

Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:47 PM

Awww
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:45 PM

My Christmas meal was actually pretty healthy. There were some treats but my family cooks a lot of fruit and veg.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:45 PM

Wow, your mother makes a lovely wreath
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:43 PM

I get -1 to -3 on some of my comments, even ones where it doesn’t make sense and I’m just saying “ok” or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:44 AM

I got my mum to buy me a whole pomegranate for a Christmas salad I’m making today 😂 Just call me SophisticatedSheila from now on 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:43 AM

Take care of yourself mate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:08 PM

Wow, what an advanced child 💁‍♀️ I think I could make like…Mac n cheese and jacket potatoes with beans at that age. Not bad but I was not a chef.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:03 PM

I’m *Australian to the party Arrrrgh I just looked at my photos and I have no pictures of my plates but I have pictures of like one single dish I made every year 😂why am I like this Would that be acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:56 PM

Looks like it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:53 PM

Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:53 PM

I’m an enemy you say
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:53 PM

Ah yes, biscoff. The must prehistoric of dishes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:44 PM

Why is everyone posting Christmas dinner I’m so confused? Is this from previous years or did everyone have it early lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:43 PM

What about ratatouille The whole point is the vegetable juices
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:42 PM

According to my sibling that lives in Malmö (we have an EU citizenship through our father) Scandinavian peeps start taking their clothes off to cool down when it’s like 10 degrees. They’re crazy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:18 PM

Oh that’s the city I know a lot less about lol My sister currently lives in Malmö Sweden and has for the last 10 years so I go to Scandinavia at least once every two-three years. Or at least I did make a concerted effort pre pandemic. What is Bergen known for other than rain?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:11 PM

Make the cat do a work out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:07 PM

Oslo?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:58 PM

You could have a PPD sham marriage /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:24 PM

Quit smoking! 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:23 AM

What’s the problem with meeting people at work if they’re not boss and employee? I get it being inappropriate if you’re someone’s boss, but I think it’s not really that bad if they’re the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:52 AM

I’m 30, 10 years younger than those women. I’d never pick fights with young 20 year old women, that’s insane behaviour. Maybe a “looking good ladies” or a nod to them nothing more 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:12 AM
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Do you believe the same about the decenter men movement as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:21 AM

You should change your title to clean woman 😩my executive dysfunctional brain wishes I could be this tidy and aesthetic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:59 PM

People gossiping about you too much and it makes you lash out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:57 PM

Omg this outfit is so 90s/2000s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:56 PM
1

I have my own job and I make a normal amount of income, but to be honest when you’re talking about people like me, it’s not really about income anymore, it’s about assets and investments. I don’t want to be extremely specific but I’ll say it has enough of an impact where I have an accountant because my taxes are too difficult for me to do by myself, and I’ll probably always need that. I also have people hired by my family to manage every part of my affairs, and I meet with them. My partner never…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:46 PM

You could try using sugar scrub
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:07 PM
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I’m upper class, he is middle class. Why? Well I always had an idea I might date outside of my inner circle (or try to) because idk I just think people “in it” often take flights of fancy and it’s a bit of a gilded cage kind of thing, I was concerned about starting a life with another person who was extremely sheltered. Also he was very, very cute, he has always been a good conversationalist and taught me lots of new facts about history, culture, language, etc, and we will just dump a lot of ran…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:31 PM
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Omg I’m an Uptown Girl 😂 I mean my family likes my husband, but otherwise it fits
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:04 AM

Muscly one is kind of bad ass
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:39 PM

Yeah. Once in Sweden and the other time in USA Sweden is extremely cold. USA was less cold but it was still inconvenient because it was hard for me to go on walks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:36 PM

I really, really like the second picture I think it’s awesome. I think the fourth picture maybe is a bit weaker because it’s cropped at the top and you’re not in the middle of the frame, same for the first you’re in some random place idk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:10 PM

Exactly. I think men generally enjoy not getting mugged lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:07 PM

What part of LA is this? To be honest, I kind of doubt a lot of men would want to live there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:04 PM

Ah ok. If it’s one feature that’s bothering you then I maybe understand it a bit more. It’s possible, sometimes that’s what people do first dates for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:46 PM

I got montezuma’s revenge once years ago travelling from Ecuador to London. There was even less I could do about it, because I got sick on the plane over to Spain and then was sick also in the airport bathroom. The one thing you can do I guess is in the airport make sure you’re close to the toliet. Stay socially distant from people if it’s possible, and on the plane let the staff know you’re sick. They might have medications to suppress it, bags, etc or you could possibly find those in a pharmac…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:34 PM

We don’t actually do BBQ we do roasts also. I know, it does seem stupid in a way 🤣 I guess one difference is my family is health conscious and it’s hot so we have lots of salads. I usually do a few cooked sides with veggies to lend some variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:21 PM

I mean I understand not pigging out at every party, but on Christmas Day I’m eating what I want 🤷‍♀️it’s only one day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:56 PM

Ive seen your eyes and body you are not a 1 lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:52 PM

Huh? Don’t you always say you’re worried about this happening to you? You can do it I guess, if you want to, just thought I’d point that out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:50 PM

I don’t know if he’s a loser per se but I could see why it could be a relationship problem. She’s still working and might be resentful. Also, one other issue I could see is maybe he’s not spending any quality time with her. If my partner is going to I guess essentially stay at home, I would be a little upset at him if he never bothered to make date night time, because he has so much extra time on his hands to spend with me. Even one night a week is better than nothing. EDIT to add: Also I’ve had…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:33 PM

Ehhhhh I’d be ok with my partner smoking it outside in the yard when it was legal. I think part of it though is because I know he has issues with pain that are only going to get worse with age. Not a lot is working. I’m hoping maybe someone will let him get a medical license for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:27 PM
2

Why is it rich dad poor dad I want Rich Mom Poor Mom!!!! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:48 PM
1

Honestly I think many women are more understanding about it now because it’s so hard to move out of home financially nowadays. Many women are in the exact same boat, including my best friend. She’ll likely never move out of her aging mother’s apartment even when mom passes because she has more severe autism than me and it’s harder for her to find suitable employment. Sometimes she can’t follow people’s instructions very well or do things fast enough so jobs won’t hire her. What disability she ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:39 PM
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Some people go into it expecting mind blowing sex? Hmmm that seems a bit unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:21 PM

I’m def not aggressive lol I can’t even imagine That is out of my normal realm of behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:24 PM

I haven’t had a cold for five or six months. Idk what’s going on with me. Strange that you got one in warmer weather. You want to reduce congestion to stop the illness faster, so get on the peppermint tea and broths, your unlicensed and very dubious PPD doctor orders it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:02 PM

Engarde!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:59 AM

Honestly I don’t cry a lot or get mad during my period. I experience slightly more anxiety than normal. I feel weird sometimes because I don’t think most women talk about feeling heightened anxiety during their period
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:58 AM

Yeah true. I honestly think for some people maybe it’s not about the money but they think about all the time and logistics that go into it. If you have children already, a wife/husband, some loans still to pay and other obligations, creating your own practice might sound like a chore. At the time my mother purchased her surgery with her friends, my dad was working a very flexible kind of job as a botany university professor. Because most professors do not do lectures all day, or they might do on…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:43 AM

Dirty sign language 👉👌
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:38 AM

The thing you have to keep in mind is that it’ll pay off at the end, but it will cost a lot in the beginning. My mum had a family doctor’s surgery she part owned with 4 colleagues from med school for 20-30 years. They had to get all their own equipment, chairs, desks etc. so needless to say it was expensive in the beginning and that was why she opened it with friends, not by herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:10 AM

I’ll be honest, I’m sure that some women care a great deal. If they didn’t, it wouldn’t be normalised to rip on or randomly joke about men who were short or even average. Some men care a great deal too (I mean we are talking about women mostly, but it’s a western cultural standard). And I have seen that younger women care a lot more and seem to expect men that are taller than what I thought was tall when I was growing up. We used to think 6’0 was pretty tall in my age group, but I think social m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:26 AM

I’m a c section baby but I’m honestly relieved because I was breech. If my mum gave natural birth to me I might have been dead lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:09 PM

Having wide hips doesn’t mean you won’t have a c section just FYI My mom and I both have very wide hips (we’re super pear shaped) and she had three c sections not because of them, but because we all went into the breech position and didn’t go into a safe position before birth. There are also other reasons for it. I’m seriously considering one for my birth plan because I have scoliosis, so there’s a chance epidural won’t work properly on me, and not only that, I recently found out (didn’t know th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:56 PM

Oooh yum
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:43 PM

No. Wow, he really got banned though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:39 PM

If you ever want a second pair of eyes, I’m always here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:33 PM

What happened, did you have an argument with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:27 PM
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Hell I worked in a nursing home and the women were fucking 😂 Honestly I think it is for them, because I noticed they usually get happy about it after ruminating over women having higher SVM/RVM
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:24 PM

Sure, it’s a bit more interesting than that. But tbh on here I’ve seen enough worshippers and people casually making prison rape jokes about the killer back and forth for a lifetime also. It’s hard for people to be civil on this topic and they’re not talking about the healthcare system they’re so hung up about his looks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:19 PM

I don’t understand who finds this stuff hot They should be experimented on in a lab lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:08 PM

Tbh I hope not. I feel like it will make the internet a dumpster fire
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:07 PM
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I mean, they were estranged. That probably explains why
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:55 AM
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Why do you believe that he has a good personality? We actually don’t know much about his personality If you are talking about how he shot a healthcare CEO, I understand why people do not like these companies but even being a martyr for a cause doesn’t prove a good personality. There are actually a lot of people heralded as heroes like this that have bad personalities or evidence of anti social tendencies. That’s where the term/concept of “anti hero” comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:52 AM
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You think it’s usually personality? I really disagree with that. I’ve known plenty of kind and gentle nerdy guys with hearts of gold that can’t get dates. Mostly through autism therapy growing up and board game meet ups. That’s not to say personality NEVER matters. It certainly does matter, especially in established relationships (after honeymoon phase ends). I prize men who are compassionate and consider others. But when you meet first meet someone, more of your energy is focused on sexual and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:29 AM
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They can never explain why people with good personalities will still fail I get that personality is important, I rate certain traits as very important but it doesn’t come up immediately, usually a bit later.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:20 AM
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I think part of it is that traditional masculinity and a lack of in group bias makes it really difficult for men to want to organise, or even admit that they have issues. Part of the reason women organise more in general and are more likely to be online activists etc. is that they’re not afraid of asking for things or saying treatment towards them needs to changed, is bad etc. This is part of how women are raised in our female gender roles. It’s ok for us to ask for things and to consider how we…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:54 AM

https://bespokesurgical.com/2020/03/09/oral-sex-in-america/ https://badgirlsbible.com/do-women-like-giving-blow-jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:29 PM

Love
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:16 AM

No because I listen to music and he doesn’t 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:15 AM

I love this it’s like a slam poem, or I could imagine it being announced like one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:01 AM

I know right It’s so strange. I don’t think I’m below average or anything, but honestly I wouldn’t want to cast a halo effect on myself because of this. That and privacy is why I’m very hesitant. If my ideas suck then…they suck! It doesn’t matter what I look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:40 AM

Yeah and the odds are lower for me I guess as there are much less Australian users and Australians generally aware of the subreddit, but I just like to be cautious online and protect privacy. Again, because Americans and Europeans make up the bulk, nothing would probably happen to me, but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:37 AM

Close. I think Bear and Zair, but it was a while ago so I’m not 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:35 AM

Cool cool. You can send me a message, but when you’re ready. And if I don’t reply and I’m online on the daily feel free to give me a little poke. Sometimes I’m forgetful with messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:32 AM

I can, but I’ll caution I’m not good at giving “blunt” advice or a strict rating. Some people want that, I would probably just give some general feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:13 AM

You can do face reveals in DMs for sure I’ve had someone do that with me, and an another person asked if I could look. You just have to make sure the other party knows you’ll DM them, they accept the invite, and you can go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:07 AM

I’ve seen users on here from the same area (Toronto) recognise each other before lol. I think one saw another. It’s not a guarantee by any means, but it is a possibility you’ll be recognised. That’s why I don’t share my face. I think if anyone is worried they’d be better off not doing it. I also like being mostly anon, and I don’t want people to judge my words by my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:04 AM

I’m not American but we go through a lot of milk (non dairy though). I eat porridge cooked in it, cereal or peanut butter and jelly sandwiches with a glass of milk for breakfast.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:39 AM

Vegetable soup with herbed dumplings Minestrone Split pea Ravioli and tomato
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:12 AM

They conflate anyone struggling to hateful groups
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:11 AM

People often argue that way when they believe that you can hoard empathy, or it’s their specific ideology that someone always has it worse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:03 AM

I hate having a unique name tho because it’s ethnic and Swedish, I sow terror and confusion wherever I go (or mostly when I order food/a drink).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:35 AM

Strip clubs are such a weird idea to me too If I was a man I’d watch porn at home instead 😂 (well I mean, I don’t like porn I like fiction, but more men than women like it realistically so if I was in a male body I’d enjoy it more…maybe.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:30 AM

Vibey? Lol what’s got you vibey? I’m not doing anything. I sort of hosted a dinner party yesterday except it was lunchtime. The people I invited had to cook for their family at dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:09 AM

For me, in my own personal experience, some of the women who were middle aged pulled me aside when I was a child and warned me point blank about equal roles in relationships. This is because some of them did fight for equality, they expected men to be on board and they weren’t. Some men were on board which is great, but for the women in the 2nd wave for which that wasn’t the case? Imagine how disappointing that would be. I wonder if this is being parroted throughout generations and becoming an i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:39 AM

Yeah I have had my run ins with some feminists in the past, albeit, they weren’t as open minded as feminists on this sub had to be. I can understand some frustrations some people may have with it, I have my own critique points, but the criticism of it on this subreddit is like…terribad? And I prefer to ignore it. All of it is ad hominem about how feminists are whores or any woman who works is too disagreeable to be wife material. I probably shouldn’t have expected much though, considering the th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:24 AM

You find equal sea that scary lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:14 AM

Nooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:11 AM

Well ok, I guess that maybe it’s a bit confusing because sometimes radical means like, radical changes. But then radical feminism as a term, often has an extremely specific meaning. I just think it’s important that we don’t lose sight of the fact in the new resurgence of radical feminism or older feminist thought that a lot of 2nd wave feminists were very ordinary and they led mostly ordinary lives. It wasn’t very practical for some people to live the lives of the most notorious examples from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:44 AM

Is that really the only second wave feminism that was going on that time? I’m sorry but I don’t think this is very accurate and it’s kind of misguided… My mother was a second wave feminist in the 70s/80s but she has never been what people in the modern world would call a radical feminist. She’s a lib feminist. She never believed in abolishing ties with men or anything like that. I mean she married a man and had kids with him. A radical feminist wouldn’t be about that life. But she did become a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:47 AM

I’m ok with cooking, love it actually, but I don’t like this idea of “having” to clean. I don’t clean a lot. I have sensory issues which prevent me from being able to do it quickly and without feeling like it’s a horrible punishment. I don’t like my feet/hands being wet (autism) so what happens when I clean is I often have to take several breaks to have freak out time for my wet extremities. I promise you it’s just not worth it for me to do a lot of cleaning. It’s going to take forever. I do som…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:51 PM

I don’t walk around at night alone lol. It’s a bad idea. I don’t even like my partner to do that, because I worry about his safety, although sometimes he insists. I’m not a big fan of nighttime in general, I stay inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:22 PM

My partner has honestly never had to protect me from anything. We’ve never lived in a shitty dodgy area 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:20 PM
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No I wouldn’t want to. I’m not even interested in casual sex, it’s mostly because there was no birth control and I would’ve been much more at risk of having seven unintended kids, especially considering my family has late fertility and late menopause, and there were several cases of women having babies into their late 40s in my family tree. I have occasional nightmares about having an accidental pregnancy at 45-48 lol (hopefully a vasectomy later on will prevent this). I want to be able to contr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:58 AM

Do you think you’re better at text flirting or in person? Text can be a minefield because there’s no context of seeing the other person haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:38 PM

Ah ok Now I’m 30 so I could technically join that group but idk if they would like my autistic hot takes 😂🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:23 PM

Choccy milk is galaxy tier 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:22 PM

When you’re 30 and acknowledged 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:20 PM

Ooooohhhh ok Maybe just say you’re looking forward to seeing her or something
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:18 PM

So wait I don’t understand did she say yes or did she not reply?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:12 PM

What are you saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:11 PM

I talk to my husband about my period because he doesn’t mind and we’re that close. He also does not insinuate that I’m crazy on my period, and genuinely wants to listen and learn, so that’s probably part of why I’m open with him lol. All he will say is “I’m sorry are you ok” not “you moody beotch”. I’m not gonna talk about periods to a random man. For one, I assume that they’ll grossed out by it, and secondly I don’t want just everyone to know me intimately like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:06 PM

It’s private stuff. It’s strange to enquire about Something similar would be asking an angry guy whether he was being testosterone poisoned (I don’t agree with this term just btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:02 PM

It’s from Saks which is a designer label I think
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:58 PM

I think 16 is too young for that. I agree with Eulen I’d say “read depraved fanfiction like me please 🙏”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:11 PM

Maybe this could be my kid 😂I’m not pregnant but I’m so close to trying for one depending on how next year goes. If I got accidentally pregnant right now I’d probably keep the baby 🤷‍♀️or it could be mine in 2042 But yeah too young for a lot of the Zoomers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:08 PM

Can confirm I got comprehensive sex Ed, had no unplanned pregantes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:50 PM

Yeah lol. It’s hard to do anything but parent (and maybe work) when you have 8-10 children. I would argue even most men don’t actually want that many. I talked to my partner and he said the most he could ever handle was 4. But he actually wants more like 1-3, that’s his uppermost limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:31 PM

To be honest some of the main subreddit men and women need to pick better I say that unironically. The guys are like “I had 10 relationships with women that had BPD. Why do I attract these women?!” and then the women do the same but substitute narcissism. I’m sorry, but no one should be taking gender relations or dating advice from flaming hot messes seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:45 AM

https://www.taste.com.au/recipes/collections/australian-recipes It’s not really like outback statehouse. It’s a lot more fresh and Mediterranean than anyone expects
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:38 AM

They come with free regurgitated bin digs and cigarette scented snuggles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:38 PM

I worked in disabled care years ago and this checks out for me. A lot of them are extremely vulnerable and naive, a dangerous combo. As a former carer this is why I say if my children or husband were disabled I would seriously consider being their carer instead of a hired carer. I know my partner is a man but they be creeping on everybody out there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:32 PM

I don’t use em 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:23 PM

Good luck 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:21 PM

I can’t do that, I’ll just fall everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:16 PM

It kind of annoys me cuz I’m supportive of LGBT but I think sometimes kids are cis and gender non conforming. That’s a thing, too. I was a tomboy. That doesn’t make me trans
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:13 PM

I can do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:11 PM

He lost his job because he can’t lay the pipe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:11 PM

You can send one to me but I don’t have it in me to be brutal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:06 PM

Nah. It’s December, fair game imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:57 PM

Good example of an Australian and American couple 🇦🇺❤️🇺🇸
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:52 PM

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=w4dYWhkSbTU&pp=ygUMQmluIGNoaWNrZW4g ‘Ave some Australian Bin Chookies, luv
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:36 PM

Imo that’s more of a black pill tinge than a red pill one If it was red pill, it’d be about how he has the right frame, or masculinity etc and looks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:23 PM

Yeah all that really doesn’t sound like you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:16 PM

Sometimes here people have been accused of “simping” for me because we were having a bloody conversation and I was making jokes I don’t think people here know what simping means. Some people think it means talking to a woman, or not being rude to her, which isn’t simping. If that definition of simping was true I simp for dozens and dozens of people. Being friendly isn’t simping lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:10 PM

Can you show me what a frumpy girl looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:05 PM

Yeah I don’t get how “the news” is a red pill thing? Yeah ok, I get the shooter fanfic rage but not that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:03 PM

Kewl
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:00 PM

Higher end of normal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:00 PM

I mean I’m actually 5’6 but yeah haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:54 PM

I hope these people never put me in jail 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:51 PM

Yeah and I know some people on here like Sarai prefer guys with bulk rather than a skinny guy with abs. So they might really like that type of guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:32 AM

Yeah I know, but many men in America are overweight even young men 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:31 AM

He’s got a better physique than a lot of average men imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:14 AM

Is she worried about things becoming awkward if it doesn’t work out? Might be why
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:13 AM

I agree. He wouldn’t be simped over but some people would see him as a martyr
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:03 AM

I thought he was a registered Republican? I don’t think that women would simp over him as much, but I think that maybe some people might have viewed him as a martyr if he was successful in killing Trump. There are still a lot of people out there who really really don’t like him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:02 AM

Thank you 🙏 livin the dream!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:20 AM

Hahaha Che Guevara died in the 60s. That’s Possum and Badger’s generation (ie hippies old enough to be my parents)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:15 AM

Hey 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:14 AM

I had some lemon yogurt, frozen blueberries, chia and protein cluster crunch things for breakfast. That was pretty good
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:08 AM

Ikr? Some south Asian guys are hot! Subreddit doesn’t seem to think so….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:04 AM

You have to make it a lifestyle choice You have to eat nothing but fast food, eat around the clock, and go out of your way to not be active. My dad was morbidly obese, that’s how it happened. But also; mental health. He had undiagnosed bipolar II until age 60 because he has a weird subtype where it’s mostly maniac.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:00 AM

Well the last stage in illness is often a fever. If it keeps going away and coming back, then it might be your body telling you you need rest. I’d recommend mostly lying down or sitting and napping for one-two days if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:53 AM

Sometimes I get that the day before I get sick
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:41 AM

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:59 PM

I think killing is wrong, unless in self defence. I don’t always think killing evil is evil, see: what I said about self defence Agnostic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:55 PM

I don’t fuck my friends. I don’t get why people on here don’t understand this. I don’t choose my friends based on whether I want to fuck them or not. I have a partner already and I fuck him, that’s the only person I need to be attracted to. I don’t need to improve the looks of my friends to fuck them lol. To be honest, this idea is kind of male brained. I think men believe they would choose female friends because they find them attractive, so they project it onto straight/bi women for some reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:41 PM

Or I could name him Bart I guess but that’s very Simpsons coded
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:58 AM

Funny how we have those feelings Wait I just remembered one other of the names on my male list- Barry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:40 AM

Yeah. For me I try not to take it too serious just a fun fantasy. I think more often of having a son that’s like his dad though tbh. I’m convinced weirdly that my first at least would be male.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:14 AM

Theo is cute. Little teddy bear 🧸
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:01 AM

I love quesadillas
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:57 AM

Trying to avoid this I see
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:56 AM

Me too actually I forgot my other favourite girl name. It’s Casey I guess maybe my hope is if I name them that they’ll be a bit rough and tumble like I am 😂it’d be fun to have another tomboy girl. But also I heard more gender neutral female names often subconsciously lead her to take more powerful positions later on. Boss babe (y).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:51 AM

Girl- Lillith, Bobbi Boy- Dale, Caden
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:43 AM

Ah ok, I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:19 AM

How come it never turns into more for you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:05 AM
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It’s the red pill ideology imo. They want sex, but the ideology is incredibly identified through what men want and the interests of men. Identifying your interests through the lens of women is seen as a fatal flaw, because it’s fundamentally male identified. Sex is also viewed in a guise of unlocking an achievement or becoming a better masculine figure, the woman is just sort of…there for the ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:36 AM
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It’s also funny because they want pliable happy women who cook and are agreeable/don’t start arguments. I mean, one way to do that is being good in bed 🤷‍♀️these people should see the pancake feasts I make for my partner after…something hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:31 AM
1

Wtf lololol do they think women have a man’s refractory period?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:30 AM
2

I mean I guess for me if you’re not talking to women a lot I’d want to know what tips you have. If it’s to watch a woman’s reactions, give enthusiastic foreplay and sex and make a seductive atmosphere then that will probably work on most women. But I’ve seen RP guys argue stuff like sex isn’t about female orgasm or it’s not about female pleasure etc. so imo listening to women more would probably help those guys. Speaking for myself, I don’t really understand the women who say they don’t care abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:21 AM

She comments a lot in the main subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:13 AM

I find it so annoying when people do that You’re not meant to bring non consenting parties into your kink. Do it at home
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:12 AM

Uhhhhhhhh wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:07 AM

A fetish for this guy Jk it’s poop Maybe the other is electric shocks? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:01 AM

You know any chorus lyrics
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:47 AM

I remember when it came out because I’m a Dino. In 2012-2016 I had some friends and family using tinder and other things and it wasn’t as crazy then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:39 AM

Do you have anxiety? This sounds like some trains of thought and paths that I go down. What career are you in right now? Do you enjoy it, and does it give you the right base for marriage/family life? If it does, stick it see where it goes maybe. If it doesn’t, work on your resume, find out your soft skills and put them in your job applications and resume (this helps you change career the most, it’s said). If you don’t own a home you’re not rooted (well I mean you’ve never talked about it) so I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:28 AM

🤢The fuck man hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:15 AM

We’re just a couple of beautiful dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:14 AM

Same. Sometimes I get “you should be a chef” 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:09 AM

Maybe he’s born with it 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:07 AM

Yeah I would have to agree with that because I saw it in real time and it was really just…unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:59 AM

It’s probably impossible Everyone makes luke I am your father jokes. My dad who is an OG science fiction guy and nerd, made jokes about how he is my father lol 😂 when I was 5, in the same voice darth Vader did, with my name. It was very cute, and the ending was spoiled for me like 20 years before I sat down and watched the thing. OH and when we were swimming under water he pretended to make Darth Vader noises and come towards me. Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:49 AM

Senor Education, Opiniones and Mr Dune Cuz they’re worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:44 AM

I saw that as well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:42 AM

Yeah I hope so too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:40 AM

Yeah he was going after some people, but tbh some people are rude towards him I really hope he’s ok some of his comments concern me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:38 AM

I don’t know if I have seen your face maybe just your eyes. But omg that’s so sad I hope it wasn’t because of that…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:53 PM

Thank you!’
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:47 PM

It’s so confusing omg
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:33 PM

Glad to hear I’m not the only one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:31 PM

Just kidding lol thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:31 PM

Well that’s indeed very confusing I’ve seen other people do that with ratings of individual users too. I don’t play that way. My ratings/taste might be contested sometimes, but it is always, always, consistent. I don’t change it unless I think the person improved
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:30 PM

Thank you. I would say but he lurks somewhere and witch hunting. He is red that’s all I will say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:28 PM

Yeah true that. Or they snap at you, or I’ve had people post my comments lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:27 PM

I think it’s very acceptable, I like nice tits I’m talking about the bird idiot /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:25 PM

You know that’s very true. I’m showing my differences here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:22 PM

Yeah I have had so many moments where I didn’t read a joke/sarcasm then I wrote three paragraphs ahhhhh 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:21 PM

Nah. I can’t because that’s witch hunting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:20 PM

No you don’t really. Yeah but you’re more socially advanced than I am I think. It confuses me more because I can’t figure out how I’m going right and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:19 PM

No it’s not you haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:15 PM

Run of the mill looking dude, average
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:15 PM

It’s ok lol. Just very confusing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:13 PM

I’m probably going to open a can of worms but does anyone else here have users that seem to like you half the time and dislike you half the time? There are a couple people here who give me huge mixed signals and honestly I wish they would just go 100% one way. I think it’s my autism, it is easier for me to understand if someone just 100% doesn’t like me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:11 PM

I’m not a fourth wave feminist, but sometimes women don’t need a man they just want one 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:10 PM

Kath and Kim https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GA5qdB1qAOk&pp=ygUMS2F0aCBhbmQga2lt My mum used to have a joke where she would tell us to “look at mouiiii” if we were being cross or she did it with our dogs too lol Russell Coight All Aussie Adventures https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=OEXi1QgmDAc&pp=ygUOUnVzZWxsIGNvaWdodCA%3D Russell Coight is kind of a spoof of Steve Irwin nature videos. This stuff reminds of the pit falls of like, camping in rural NT.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:05 PM

Congratulations! I don’t know much about it except that it’s retirement I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:11 AM

Grooming a kid is easy to do and they find ways to infiltrate areas like schools
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:11 AM

It was Serpens mercuilaris It is disgusting. Child sex offenders are actually a lot more prevalent than many would assume. Lots don’t get caught or have hundreds of victims. There’s been a couple of high profile cases in schools and churches in Australia like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:09 AM

Yeah I suppose so. I really think it’s only something that could be managed with a bunch of different distractions. Unfortunately, it’s just a difficult situation because you can’t force people to be in relationships/have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:44 AM

I remember in the good old days when Trump winning the presidency was a joke, and was on The Simpsons as a punchline
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:39 AM

Burnt I love food that’s a bit burnt cuz I’m a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:29 AM

It’s a nice thought, but it doesn’t solve the problem of not having a romantic partner It could take your mind off it for a couple hours
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:27 AM

I honestly think the very least likely is ThatsKappa because she’s a trad Christian that doesn’t believe in sex before marriage Most likely is Ainsley
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:05 AM

Did some canoeing this afternoon Making s’mores tonight in the woods.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:04 AM

I agree, it’s like t shirt, pants shorts that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:02 AM

Lol I go to bed at 9 sometimes 10 is more my usual though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:59 AM

Being happy is bad sarai!!!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:57 AM

Australians are also polite
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:40 AM

Me too, but I see stuff in the daily sometimes that says “women get smiled at”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:39 AM

I keep having flashbacks of stupid YouTube videos in my head then people think I’m laughing in their direction
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:39 AM

Helping them with bags Offering a seat on bus (in certain situations) I’ve got a question for the daily chat if people smile at you a lot when you approach them is that pretty privilege? I think people are divided on that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:51 AM
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Money isn’t really a turn on for me, but if someone was really bad at managing their money and just had no control over their life that would be a big turn off. I’ll be frank, I’m a lot more interested in how cute the guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:54 AM

I mean I really think for some people saving for LTRs is a good idea, particularly sensitive people who feel things during/because of sex like me, but I wouldn’t take it so far as marriage. BUT, I was a virgin later than the average person, and tbh I’ve always known I’m not asexual. I had sexual desires, I just chose not to pursue them when I was a teenager because I was worried about teen pregnancy. So I think it’s perfectly possible for people to know that they’re asexual or not before sex. Im…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:47 AM

Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:43 AM

That reminds me of this pick up line Jesus may not come a second time, but I will
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:42 AM

Then you call the line: “Dirty dirty nun services, have you been a bad boy?”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:21 AM

People go back and forth with who should approach. But I always wonder if there’s a word for mutual approach because I feel like I’ve seen people who just vibed and flirted and I can’t figure out who “approached” who
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:27 AM

Yeah, and the first two times I came to America, it was first New York City, which was only for two weeks, and a much longer time in Western Washington out Seattle way. So I went to two much more “liberal” areas first, making it stick out to me even more I guess compared to my own limited experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:19 AM

I’ve been to Utah, actually stayed there for a few weeks to a month. It was so weird. Australians are not really loud about religion, most of us see it as a personal thing that’s private. But literally everything there it seems has a reference to religion/god. I was staying in a dorm with my partner who studied there at the time (LDR) and I came across all those brochures in the halls advertising a class about how god wants you to be really rich or something. There’s good hiking there though! Ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:09 AM

Very festive!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:56 AM

I agree they’re so awesome I love them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:50 AM

Lmao I wouldn’t want to be on your bad side
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:49 AM

Ah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:49 AM

I thought you were American?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:47 AM

Brutal reality 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:45 AM

He just said he didn’t take it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:43 AM

Fuck man your handwriting MOGS mine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:36 AM

It’s kind of cool how squiggly it is though. I can never get my handwriting to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:34 AM

That bus is very Canadian
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:32 AM

Ok maybe it’s not actually that bad I guess it’s just I’ve seen much better for my advanced age <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:20 AM

I’ll throw my hat in the ring; mine is shit I didn’t have good fine motor skills until grade 5-6. Long into middle schooler territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:53 AM

Have you ever watched…the blue man group? 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:53 AM

I heard your voice, I love it, but it sucks people think southerners can’t be well educated
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:49 AM

Huh, that’s not the case here they can be anywhere. I understand why people don’t do it. I gamble maybe a few times a year. I’m not a heavy gambler.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:32 AM

Gambling laws: You can do it if you’re over 18 I guess. I think in the US it’s 21 years old, that’s not a thing here. Also you have to withdraw cash at ATMs before you go in. Apparently that doesn’t happen in American casinos. When I went to play 21 with my brother in law (he was visiting) and hubs, they told me that. No we don’t use wallabies we use gay ass Monopoly money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:25 AM

I’m kind of itching to go to the casino myself. Sorry about the mess around but candy canes are noice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:18 AM

I think I would cry for seven days and seven nights if I ever couldn’t eat bread again 😭 bakery sourdough bread is one of my favourite foods!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:57 AM

Thanks 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:51 AM

I think it’s nice most of the guys are ok with it Mr Sheila always (playfully) roasts me for sniffing the shirts he wore like a bloodhound lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:49 AM

My dad would love this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:46 AM

I’m the poor man’s kangaroo jack
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:08 AM

Thank you ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:08 AM

Ah ok Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:07 AM

Eat the booty like groceries?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:06 AM

Go Hannah! Is it cuz of the holidays? Less people attending?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:32 AM

Honestly me but gender swapped My partner is 130-135 IQ. I want smart bebe!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:23 AM

I don’t think anyone decides SMV, man or woman, but I just think people also have different preferences. I know that I disagree even with some women here about what celebrities are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:10 AM

Sexual market value
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:07 AM

I don’t know that one. Two girls one cup was pretty bad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:39 PM

To be fair, I don’t think I saw much of the lemon party one. I saw more of the blue waffle pictures, I was catching on to the tricks by then. I closed it very quickly when I realised what it was, then I got mad at those kids that told me to search it. They would always do it in the fucking LIBRARY too, in the computer lab!! What the hell???? 🤣 There were like 6 year olds in there. It got so bad that the school librarian actually put posters up saying “do not look up blue waffle” and “don’t look …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:27 PM

There’s nothing saying that, but some people don’t want to see porn like that and they might not know what bad dragon is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:17 PM

Kids at my school told me to look up lemon party and blue waffle Good times
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:52 PM

I mean I know what it is but can you imagine if someone thought that subreddit was about like, literal dragons? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:51 PM

Come here Think Day!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:38 PM

For me it’d be drinking because I don’t do that, and I would swap it for marijuana to be legal in Australia so my partner can use it for pain/anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:35 PM

If you’re on the cusp what does that mean? She defintely sort of might want to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:17 PM

I remember that song!!!!! Such a bop. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:11 PM
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I don’t know if you can just get someone to change their ways like that. It probably wouldn’t be the best relationship either. The woman would feel controlled and the man would feel stressed trying to control their behaviour. It just wouldn’t be a good situation. What’s best is to break up if he can’t handle her being like that, then date with more strict standards and vet for someone who does not have these behaviours, if it bothers him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:39 AM

I think there was some data indicating bisexual people, not even just women, mostly end up in heterosexual pairings/marriages https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2015/02/20/among-lgbt-americans-bisexuals-stand-out-when-it-comes-to-identity-acceptance/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:44 PM

I think it means top commenter. I think I get downvoted too much so I’m not one 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:39 PM

I’LL BE THERE IN 15 MINUTES
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:26 PM

Oh I very rarely do cooked breakfast. And it’s more likely to be pancakes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:23 PM

🤔I did that with fat pancakes but I have never done that with waffles. Interesting proposal 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:23 PM

Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:22 PM

Oooohh yum
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:22 PM

Exactly, that happened to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:19 PM
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