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9	The reason women claim they have a worse dating life is cause they dated a HVM even if for a short time Then on dating apps specifically, 15% of straight men report hooking up in a month compared to 3% of straight women. That doesn't make any sense at all. There are more men on dating apps than women, for starters. How can 15% of the men on an app (or surveyed) have had a hookup, and only 3% of the women, when the prior statement is true? I'll have to take a look at this article later.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 07:21 AM
5	Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate? I don't think this is a good Q for me to answer, but here goes: even when I was netting <$175k annually, I was still finding dates. Not a Chad or anything remotely like whatever dreamy guy y'all may imagine, I think my dating profile was just good in general, and I can communicate socially well enough. I'm not tall (5'9") and I'm also biracial (White/Asian) which absolutely does get penalized in some ways. Even when I started >$175k annually, I didn't flex when I was single. I dress pretty lame …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 02:32 AM
1	Men are superior to women when it comes to sports and lifting weights The only sport with objective measurements where women outpace men are ultramarathons, both running and swimming All the records are held by men by a significant margin. It's not even close (at least, in running) --- didn't google search swimming. Maybe the average woman participant is more prepared or more serious to their training, but when such a gap at the highest level exists, it makes me question the phrasing of your claim. ^100-mile record on one of the most challenging races has a 3 hour…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 05:21 PM
18	Why would FWB be upset for not getting exclusivity? She wants to play the field while having you all to herself. She's selfish. I know of people who have the same mentality, it's ridiculous, lol...	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 04:55 PM
3	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? $150k a year is not alot of money when you're living in Los Angeles or NYC If he is spending $150K a year, we are very much talking about net and not gross income. The equivalent salary for someone making that much net per year, in states such as California (with state income tax, no post/pre tax withholdings), would be grossing close to $240K per year. That is absolutely a lot of money in those areas, given that it's still certainly top 10%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 09:37 PM
2	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? Right, I see that. I'm just shocked at the fact that there's women in here bragging about being with unemployed men who don't make money. It's silly to me The OP's implication is that he is essentially retired. $150K/yr at 33, for the rest of his life is a lot of money. Especially when I think that would be net, but either way, he's clearly a multi-millionaire. He's also spending more than your partner makes a year.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 08:22 PM
2	Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than women They see me trollin' they hatin'	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 08:13 PM
–	Why are men here so obsessed with a woman’s past? Why are women so obsessed with a man's ____? Both genders have preferences (or better yet, people), even if you think it is ridiculous or unfair. Example: I think it's ridiculous that some short women (I think avg is 5'4") have height preferences, but you know what? That's okay, that's their business, not mine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 08:24 PM
2	Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partners Its not as hard as you think I would say that's a gross exaggeration. The % of the population that are doctors (according to a quick google search, without any validation) is .29%. Now take into account the proportion of this .29% that are: opposite gender (unless they want that), age range too wide, married, and so forth... That's an even lower pool to chase/compete for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 03:41 PM
1	CMV: Sugar dating is a perfectly viable and maybe even recommendable dating strategy for some men and women It's viable in the sense that: As the sugar daddy/momma (although rare), you can date someone far more attractive than you. Not just that, but they can play the role of listener/lover/and provide company to things that maybe you don't have anyone to go with, or trips you want someone to join you with. As the sugar baby, you can live beyond your means, as well as being spoiled/pampered. Resources that can help you in your life, or enhance it. It's not viable in the sense that: I think many men/wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 08:55 PM
1	Men dont actually care about a women being healthy I very rarely see women who look like they are sub 12% bodyfat range. I would say most seem to be around 15% - 20%, or so. Even the healthy lifting fitness instagram models are about that, on average. It makes me wonder what you really consider "fat" to be, or what you're seeing on your feed. I wouldn't even compare beauty standards in Korea to America... we all know how strict they are in general, in terms of image of there. One thing I have learned from many years of being active and working o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 08:41 PM
5	College men are increasingly shifting right, while college women are shifting left. Why do you think that is? I don't know about that engineering bit, but I can speak on the developer portion. I can't think of many, relevant companies that would pass up on a talented developer because they don't have a college degree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 03:01 AM
12	Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why? If we are talking about online dating (specifically): I think it's a bit unfair, because you are able to filter out on height & not weight or body-type. Apparently it's okay to shun height (which you have no control over), but not weight (which you probably have control over).	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 05:50 PM
1	Any study that shows that money doesn't affect dating like women claim nowadays? Personal anecdote, so don't treat it like gospel. A guy I know recently got a top tier job at a hedge fund, or something. Needless to say, ever since he updated his job on Hinge (I think this app), he's said he's gone from minimal matches to several. The pictures remained exactly the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 01:40 AM
1	The eastern reaction to Will Smith demonstrates how traditional masculinity is treated so differently in our modern society 1)Chris Rock is a comedian. Comedian standups are always expected to get personal most of the time at any awards show and/or event. Most people understand that and laugh it off, regardless of how personal they get. Rock tried to pre-phrase his poke at Jade with a "I love you Jade", or something along those lines. Intent is a big factor whenever considering any jab, for me personally. Last Vegas show I went to (Absinthe) some guy was getting butthurt that the comedian was poking fun at him. I'll …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 03:35 PM
1	Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women. in the same way a CV history of jumping multiple jobs is bad. I would use career as an analogy. I'm a job hopper. I typically jump every ~two years or so. I wouldn't be as successful as I am now career-wise if I stuck around at the same company for so many years. Most companies will never give you the raise you are looking for compared to a new employer sending you a much more lucrative offer. Case in point: best friend is a solid developer. Asked for a 30-35% raise because he was getting hit up…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 03:20 PM
2	What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds? Why would I need to make a point about something that’s legal it’s says opinions..I’m giving mines. Because you're responding to my comment? Why wouldn't you make a point if you're responding to my comment? It just gives me your desperate so your gonna play sugur daddy to a women you think actually loves you Why do you keep saying "you/your" in your comments? When did I or anyone in the link even mention anything about being a sugar daddy? When did I say anything about who I'm going after or dat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 04:30 PM
3	What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds? So you just inherently like women at a vulnerable stage of life where you could insert yourself as a man She's 25 years old in that link. I'm sorry, I didn't realize a 25 years old was totally incapable of being independent, or the ability to think for themselves, much less a mature relationship. why do y’all dumb yourself done just to be wit a thot half your age? It’s soulless and not really is hype as mfs tryna make it.it just becomes a man literally fathering a younger girl for sex..and when …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 03:40 PM
16	What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds? Some of those comments are so delusional. I feel like the one's saying "no one his age wanted him cause they see through him" are honestly coping to the max. The reality is much simpler: he finds younger women more attractive and have more to offer. Like, does anything seriously believe that nonsense? A younger woman has far more options than an older one (same for men, depending, but a lot more flexible).	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 06:55 AM
2	Most men don't care that they're not their girlfriend's "first choice", they're just happy to have sex and companionship The guys for whom it does matter tend to be narcissists who accept nothing less than being the most handsome, one-night-stand worthy guy a girl has ever been with. They would prefer to be the outright best than accept living in a world where compromise is the glue that holds most human relationships together, and as a result these men tend to be perpetually dissatisfied with their relationships, if they can even manage to get relationships at all. I already know I'm probably not the most attract…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 05:40 PM
16	Hinge experiment analysis. Are men on dating apps really as bad as what women describe? Statistics show that you're correct. I'm going off memory, so if someone disagrees, feel free to cite a source that says otherwise. -Asian men & Black women get least amount of interest overall in online dating -For men, White men are generally the most liked (they score very high with white AND Asian women) -For women, Asian women generally are the most liked	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 05:13 PM
3	Do men care about how much a woman makes in ltr? 31M --- No I do not care. Of course, it makes life easier if she makes a lot, but it does not matter to me in the long run as I'm not overly excessive in my purchases. I already make a lot as is, for the record. If she made more than me, I also wouldn't care. She doesn't need to make a lot of money, nor does she need to cook/clean/do house chores everyday. The only thing that matters to me is she contributes in some type of way to the best of her abilities, and puts forth effort. Lack of effort …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/21 04:14 PM
20	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? Increasing the money supply is inflation. Rising prices are a consequence of inflation. This is Econ101. Inflation is when the money supply gets inflated and debases the currency thereby requiring more of it to buy the same goods. Apparently you missed the obvious sarcasm, including the /s tag. And, the Dems are the ones pushing it all through at breakneck speed so, yeah, it's appropriate to lay the blame at their feet. You do realize QE boosting / interest rates being cut occurred during the Tr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 05:54 PM
25	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? All of this inflation is due to all of their spending in the past 8 months. Yeah, I'm sure the Fed government buying $4+ Trillions in bonds during COVID had nothing to do with inflation. Purchasing bonds and increasing the money supply had no effect on anything. It's all the Dem's faults. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 05:39 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Perfect according to 2nd chart is: 7 - 8.25 inches in length 6.25 - 6.5 inches in circumference Jeeze. I'm really doubting that, tbh. I don't think most women realize how big that is (mainly the circumference), unless most women are really size queens, and from what I've seen, most probably aren't. I'm considered "Satisfying" (C), and have never had any complaints from any woman, except for my angry 4'11" ex who implied I had a small penis a while after I dumped her (although you know, toxic/pet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 07:09 PM
3	Self proclaimed 4 (Is there a negative marking?), who is probably alot uglier than she thinks she is bc women overestimate their looks just bc of how much attention they get, wants 10/10, not even 9 Chad. This woman could probably bag a 6 or 7 Brad but no. Well, at least she acknowledges the fact she is possibly not as great as what she is aiming for. Some people can't even acknowledge their flaws/shortcomings vs. expectations in their potential partner, then act surprise when things never proceed any further past sex.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	22/10/21 09:53 PM
51	What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off? Those lip fillers or whatever they are called, that they inject. Looks kinda ridiculous most of the time...	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 02:11 PM
1	Spinning plates is not cheating Furthermore, there are quite a few studies showing that women are likely to have a "plan B" even in a committed relationship Have any particular one's you want to show? Not doubting you, or anything, as I feel very biased about this and would agree based on my own personal experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/21 05:17 PM
1	What are some consequences of the fact that men have a higher sexual drive on average in dating? Better looking men will pair up with less attractive women, or women they are not interested in beyond sex. Think most people already understand this now, except for younger or inexperienced girls (or low self-esteem) who often times don't have a backbone or correlate it with the guy as being interested in them. Also leads to a lot of women getting hurt. You know the story from friends. Guy plays the part of prince charming down pat, and then after sex he disappears (tbf, it could also mean he l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/21 04:59 PM
3	Do women think men are OK with being a safe option or a second thought? Genuinely, by how they treat you compared to how you think you should be treated and how they treated others in the past. Amen. Although I will note, people can change.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 06:28 PM
1	Is not being fat the best dating strategy for men? Taking care of yourself physically should generally be more attractive to either sex. You can't do anything about your height (well, you could...), but you can about your physique.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/21 09:00 PM
1	Is there an actually effective strategy to know if a woman has had casual relationships in the past? You ask in ways that don't come off as judgmental or rude, or hint that you are against it (as you indicated). From there, you just remember what they have answered and see if it lines up with what you learn about them over time. Sometimes they're more honest and upfront. Sometimes they're not, or they speak in roundabout ways (still dishonest).	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/21 02:44 AM
1	Does making one wait for sex actually help anyone? If yes, then how long? The issue men have is that they feel exploited when a woman makes one man wait but not the other. Absolutely true. But I think the important thing to take note of, is if that behavior has changed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/21 03:33 PM
1	Is it normal for men to cry...? How in the fuck do I stop drinking every god damn night... I cannot control my alcoholism... My father is you in the future. It's not the life you want to live. Everyone in my family hates & ignores him completely, because of what he is. But it wasn't like this originally. To get everyone to hate and not give a single care about you takes a lot of time, and awful actions. That is not a life you want to live my guy. You're only 24 so you have a lot of potential and room to fix your life. His alcoholism has lead him to a miserable & depressed lifestyle. We've tried to help many times, but…	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 02:18 PM
1	Plate of 7 months says she felt “used” But it kinda fucked with my head because as a human no one wants to do or make an another person feel like that. alright, so this seems like the most important piece out of all of this. You want to know if you're being a shitty dude, or if you've done nothing wrong. Well, on a morally respectable compass: Did you both say you only wanted to be FWBs? Did you tell her, "I want a relationship", but deep down knew you never wanted one with her? Or, were you honest and told her you only wanted to sma…	/r/askTRP	27/04/21 02:52 PM
2	38 year old "model" says that all the good men over the age of 35 are taken. From her description We can safely assume that a good man is her age or younger, tall, handsome and wealthy. During my 500 dates Found the problem! The problem, is her.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	01/03/21 03:31 PM
7	Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men) I read that subreddit a while back in the past. It honestly reminded me of TRP in a way, or even, a female incel subreddit. Maybe that was just because I looked at it for a day or so, though. Now here I am, checking that subreddit again to see if my opinion changes. Here are some top voted comments I found in like, 5 minutes: They want someone with no feelings, just a vagina and a pretty face. Me and my daughter were discussing the other day how men are by enlarge are responsible for women's p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/21 03:10 PM
1	Ghosters who come back, is it because they ran out of options or realized they made a mistake? the guys who do ghost me, dont know what they want. Guarantee you, the majority of them are thinking this: "I don't want to date her seriously, but I'm down to keep the option of smashing her on the table, if possible"	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/21 11:19 PM
20	Despite men and women being roughly equal in population, attractive men are seen as scarce, why is that? Height is a big factor for attraction in men, for a lot of women. How many times have you heard, "6 ft+", or seen it on a dating app? The reality is this: In the U.S. population, about 14.5% of all men are six feet or over. With this single trait, women eliminate the vast majority of men from their dating pool. Men don't tend to care about height, and if they do, most women are not abnormally tall as is (because most men prefer someone shorter, on average). Fact is, height is an attraction featu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/21 03:47 PM
159	Man is devastated after seeing videos of his fiancée having enthusiastic kinky sex with her ex that she won't do with him. Women shame him for feeling bad and suggest she was forced and didn't enjoy it. They then reminisce about the past kinky sex they totally didn't enjoy. She doesn't find you as attractive or masculine and she is with you despite the sex. You're a nice guy though, which her ex wasn't and even though she isn't sexually satisfied she feels safe and comfortable with you. You're a good person to settle for. Not hot, not arousing, but safe. this comment in that thread pretty much hit the nail on the head	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/12/20 04:14 PM
2	Can I repair my marriage after discovering my wife’s lying and past promiscuity? It’s more the lying than the body count that makes me feel hurt and fearful I'm not going to rag on you or spit advice since everyone else is already chiming in. Just wanted to say that I'm sorry about how things are going for you, and that I hope that after all this, life goes only uphill for you.	/r/askTRP	22/12/20 04:32 AM
5	A large percentage of men are attracted to women with cosmetically enhanced bodies I mean, it's a two way street. Not denying this at all that majority do find it attractive (although in person it might be a different story). But, do you think women are not attracted to men on PEDs? Hell, most people couldn't even tell signs of a PED/steroid user. It's not always just the Mr. Olympia size guys that are on gear. You can be relatively lean & shredded and on something. Eat clen and tren hard, as they say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/20 03:15 AM
6	Girlfriend is meeting an ex (that she had an affair with). she was a serial cheater during her whole marriage bruh if she can't be faithful in a marriage, why would she be faithful to you? One of the guys she would mess around with was her landlord at the time and they’ve stayed in contact since she moved out. bruh if she's still in contact with a guy she's was cheating on her husband with, why wouldn't she cheat on you with him? she was very determined that this guy was a very close friend and important to her life and will either be part of her life o…	/r/askTRP	15/12/20 06:34 AM
18	Young women are less likely to intend to use a condom with a more facially attractive male partner, and over 50% of non-virgin women report having intentionally employed a tactic (excluding other preventative birth control methods) to prevent/inhibit effective condom usage I'm not surprised by this study, but: Average age = 20 I know many of us at that age were a lot less... "responsible" than say, 30	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 09:02 PM
14	Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers? I mean, Shaq gave lots of credit & love to his step-dad. And also, on Zion: https://www.instagram.com/p/BVflEk3AEro/?igshid=iqga2hhn7yd4	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 04:06 PM
2	TikTok is the most narcissistic, bullshit social media platform yet /thread	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 05:55 PM
1	Girl posts snap grinding with her “friend” That's a big no from me dawg. You've been seeing her for a few months and she posts shit like that? You really think that's relationship material or something worth thinking about?	/r/askTRP	27/11/20 05:36 PM
29	Entitled princess with 5 kids,upset by ugly men messaging her. Only buff, hawt chads need to apply! Because she's delusional and all women are qUeEnS	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/11/20 12:40 AM
1	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man These cards: https://www.investopedia.com/thmb/S9BBvW-rcrSst7_yUpPflAwK85M=/1600x1200/filters:fill(auto,1)/2273200482_39647d9263_h-2404809d75ec4753b4f807a6d114f9e6.jpg/2273200482_39647d9263_h-2404809d75ec4753b4f807a6d114f9e6.jpg) As another user mentioned, basically for rich people. It's a thick card, feels really nice, and looks good. I've held a few from back in the day when I worked at a decent restaurant. Whenever you see one at a restaurant, it's always a big talking subject with other se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:07 PM
1	Woman Extradited From Australia To Face Charges In 2017 Fatal Hit-And-Run. Apparently she was a CIA "spy" https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/10924359/harry-dunn-killer-anne-sacoolas-cia-spy/ Apparently she was promoted after fleeing, within the CIA: https://theunionjournal.com/hit-and-run-fugitive-anne-sacoolas-is-promoted-to-new-job-at-cias-langley-hq-after-fleeing-uk/	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/10/20 08:04 PM
4	Woman Extradited From Australia To Face Charges In 2017 Fatal Hit-And-Run. Yeah, but the difference is, doesn't she work for the CIA? Good luck getting our government to do anything about that.	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/10/20 07:42 PM
2	Twitch streamer Alinity abused her cats on stream, on a Twitter thread ninja called her out. Because of this Alinity went private on Twitter, to access her account you must speak with Crownic (on the bottom). She abuses her cat and is trying to hide it by calling the people angry at her sexist At the end of the video she literally throws her cat off her desk over her chair. That's definitely not being a good pet owner...	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/07/20 11:09 PM
1	Need advice. I’ve been going through a rough patch in life Try: -Meetup events -Picking up a hobby of some sort that engages you with other people Meetup has a wide variety of things you can do to meet people. Latin Dancing. Bar crawls. Sport events. Outdoor stuff. etc. It's a good way to start meeting new people. You can find out who loves nightlife in some of those events as well.	/r/askTRP	04/02/20 04:08 PM
1	Need advice. I’ve been going through a rough patch in life You start off talking about friends but then tangent off to dating and shit. Am I the only one getting the vibe you really only want "friends" for the purpose of going out and meeting women? Do you really value your friends, dude?	/r/askTRP	04/02/20 03:56 PM
17	LTR hooked up with a much better looking Chad right before me. Doomed? I'm really glad I'm not the only one that saw that and couldn't believe he put that there. LOL	/r/askTRP	08/01/20 07:51 PM
1	I'm 27, single, and about to make $170k at a remote job. Where should I move in the US? It depends what you want. I feel like there's a lot of good spots you can live in, honestly, depending on what's most important to you (especially since you have a remote job). I would recommend checking out West Plano, Deep Ellum, Uptown, Carrollton, The Colony, Addison, and maybe even Frisco. Apartments should be no issue finding sub $1,500 costs. Even in the newer areas. Use an apartment locating service, they will get you a good deal, especially if there are new apartments. -Deep Ellum & Upt…	/r/askTRP	02/01/20 09:35 PM
3	Can I get some feedback on my tinder profile? Looks definitely aren't the problem. If you're not doing good online, it's cause: a) your pictures lack personality and/or are boring b) your text game is weak/comes across as needy or even desperate	/r/askTRP	29/12/19 07:49 PM
5	I'm 27, single, and about to make $170k at a remote job. Where should I move in the US? I lived in Houston my whole life, and I would pick Dallas over Houston.	/r/askTRP	27/12/19 03:50 PM
2	I'm 27, single, and about to make $170k at a remote job. Where should I move in the US? I would suggest Dallas-Fort Worth over Austin. Austin is getting overcrowded and everyone wants to move there. Traffic is shit (to be fair, traffic is shit in Dallas, but not if you live in one of the nice suburbs like Plano). And food is definitely better in cities like Houston / Dallas, compared to Austin. Austin is that city that's fun to get away to once in a while, but I wouldn't want to live there, to be honest.	/r/askTRP	27/12/19 03:50 PM
5	Dealing with being deformed (face) sounds like OP has a weird personality and turns people off by his mannerisms	/r/askTRP	22/12/19 05:44 PM
42	Holy fuck TRP got me laid yep	/r/askTRP	15/12/19 07:01 AM
5	A lot of trouble getting muscle Yeah, his lifts are pretty fcking impressive for a dude that is about 5'10" and around 147? lbs? The way he posts, he makes it sound like he's not even cut ("fat in his lower belly"). Have a hard time believing a guy that walks around with belly fat @ 147 lbs lifts as much as he does. His squat doesn't make any sense, either. Maybe his ROM for deadlift could be completely bullshit (LOL @ those dude's that pull insane numbers with sumo but only have to go up like 4 inches, I'm still jelly).	/r/askTRP	18/11/19 11:35 PM
1	So I just got ghosted twice row I honestly have no desire to have her in my friend list as I have no respect for people can even write "I am sorry, but today I can't go out with you". You're getting too worked up about a girl you probably don't care about. Unless I'm mistaken and you caught some feels?	/r/askTRP	25/09/19 06:49 PM
2	So I just got ghosted twice row Always make other plans or prepare to be flaked on with younger girls who aren't committed to you. No point in getting your feelings worked up. Shouldn't have unfriended or blocked her, makes you look like a butthurt dude (even though I get why you'd be annoyed). Should just talk to other girls and if plans with her faltered, have backup plans with them or to be productive/have a chill day planned knowing how flaky people are.	/r/askTRP	25/09/19 06:39 PM
1	When a woman dates down, is that Hypogamy? What do you guys think? I don't care either way, but just curious. you don't have to fake it, my dude. All this screams to me is you are feeling invalidated/maybe somehow personally insecure with the fact that a guy you perceive of "lesser" value scooped up your girl. So now you are questioning, "what could he possibly offer her that I couldn't?". Like I guess this is more of a case of "emotional" hypergamy for someone who upgrades to someone who can engage emotions better. Or maybe dating down …	/r/askTRP	24/09/19 04:04 PM
2	Last night I met a girl at a club who seemed really interested. We left together and I got Mexican food. When I was dropping her off she asked for my social media and then invited me to a different club the next night. Tonight when I showed up she was basically ignoring me the entire night. Tonight she wasn’t making any eye contact, I would have to initiate conversation with her every time we spoke. She would walk around to different parts of the club when I would approach her and basically she was acting way different. As we were walking outside I tried to speak to her and she sped up walking really fast out the door and to her friends. I caught up and still tried communicating with her, but she still didnt look at me but then would go on to have a full conversation with another d…	/r/askTRP	22/09/19 06:04 PM
3	Found sketchy conversations on LTRs phone I dated a girl on tinder in the past who did something somewhat similar. She was talking to some dude (apparently, engaged and in an open relationship) she matched with on Tinder around the same time we started to meet/date (in a similar way, as your current girl is to this dude. About our private life and stuff). He of course, was trying to get her to meet (and obviously bang). I didn't drop it when I found out and should have, even after I found out he was talking mad trash about me and she co…	/r/askTRP	16/09/19 04:33 PM
2	Found sketchy conversations on LTRs phone and now you're going to be wondering what her messages say, if she's deleting conversations, etc.	/r/askTRP	16/09/19 04:20 PM
2	Found sketchy conversations on LTRs phone Do you know if she was/is deleting messages? If there are more to any other guys? She appeared to be legitimately looking for an outside opinion about our relationship, but screening a potential candidate at the same time When do people talk to someone they find ugly/average about sexual/private matters, anyway--- especially when they're in a relationship? He was obviously trying to arrange a hookup with her, and to her credit she never agreed She doesn't get any credit. She knows what he wants,…	/r/askTRP	16/09/19 04:12 PM
2	Is this a genuine reason she’s cancelling or just another rejection? She's not that into you. She's literally spelled it out: she's basically rejecting you.	/r/askTRP	06/09/19 08:26 PM
1	LTR mentioning another guy in conversation really a branch swinging warning? maybe I'm reading this wrong because it's early and i need my coffee but: My ex	/r/askTRP	31/07/19 02:02 PM
4	LTR mentioning another guy in conversation really a branch swinging warning? why would you date her knowing this?	/r/askTRP	31/07/19 01:53 PM
1	Gf “catching up” with old ldr that ghosted her Brah, you need to drop her. Not telling you to act vindictive or anything, but just end it.	/r/askTRP	24/05/19 05:05 PM
2	I’m the Runt of my group and I hate it Brah, if you think it's 100% looks and money (and I'm not saying these don't help, it should be obvious), I got some bad news for you. If you have a shit personality, you're going turn people off. You also keep mentioning strength--- women don't give a fuck if you lift heavy. They care more about you looking strong than being strong.	/r/askTRP	20/05/19 03:02 AM
6	Found LTR on tinder Ghost. Seriously. You owe her nothing, and lashing out does nothing in the end. You already know she's on tinder. If I were you, I would document (screenshot, etc.) pictures of her being on tinder and such, that way if she tries to throw a shit storm at you that can impact your friends/social life in general, you'll have proof to casually show she was cheating on you. Don't message her, don't talk to her, just move on. Block and just disappear. You don't need to hear her bullshit excuses, or her…	/r/askTRP	15/05/19 05:05 PM
5	She told me she wanted some time to think, I first agreed, then watched a youtube vid and called her to end things. To think about what, exactly? What's the context?	/r/askTRP	25/04/19 05:39 PM
4	How to deal with knowledge that my ltr gets groped/grabbed at the club Anyway pretty much every night she goes out gets groped/ grabbed by random dudes and its fucking with my head. Is this normal behaviour at clubs? I have never been to a club before so I have no idea whats the norm there. No, it's not--- contrary to what people on here are saying/acting like here. It does happen once in a while, but to the same girl every night? No.	/r/askTRP	18/04/19 02:01 PM
2	Aren't a lot of the guys here just as bad as the thots they don't like? Well to start with, a lot of dudes here are salty about women due to some incident in their life--- whether it be a relationship turned cheating, women always rejecting them, or what not. You know, anger phase and all. Honestly, a lot of people have a hard time admitting the problem is with them, or in cases where they were cheated on and their world crushed, they simply have a hard time healing and moving on with their life in a proper manner. There's both good and bad advice on the TRP, and th…	/r/askTRP	07/04/19 01:33 AM
25	First Date: Girl Gave Out Number In Front Of Me Taking another man's number while she's on a date with you is blatant disrespect Women aren't stupid, she had to have known that entertaining that dude was outta pocket. 100% agreed and well written. My only hope from this is OP didn't pay the entire check.	/r/askTRP	19/03/19 03:05 PM
3	Got falsely accused of sexual assault/rape. How to proceed? (Part 3) Not sure if it is worth it to blow it up via news/media or on social media in general. Probably could end up slapping you on the face even though you were innocent. At this point, I don't know what you can do. My only advice would be to seek out legaladvice (like on the subreddit legaladvice), but you've already approached lawyers, so... perhaps posting on the subreddit to a wider audience will be more useful.	/r/askTRP	13/03/19 03:50 AM
2	For those who refused to marry their SO: how did you handle the marriage talk? I'm genuinely curious. Why a LTR for 10 years if you have no plans to ever get married or never have kids?	/r/askTRP	21/01/19 07:01 PM
3	Am I really THAT weak? I have no idea what my max squat is, but the most I can do is 5 sets of 5, with 225 lbs(!!!!), ass to grass. And the last set is a bit grueling. And I've been stuck here for a while. Max set of 5 I could do once recently was 231 lbs(105 kg). Weakling. Well have you tried... changing things? Add 5 lbs next week. Do 4 sets of 8 reps another week. Do Front Squats. Change it up a bit, don't do the same thing over and over and over again. I change my workout pattern regularly. When I lift, I routinel…	/r/askTRP	10/01/19 06:00 PM
5	I am about 5'9 and I am about 135 lbs with 8% bf. What's a good weight to get to for my height? Man, don't even worry about what weight you "should be". Everyone's frame is built differently, first of all. Secondly, the only thing you really should care about is how you're going to do a clean bulk. Monitor your appearance as you bulk up in weight, and start cutting if your bodyfat begins to go up too much. Track your progress and make changes as you are bulking/cutting to ensure you are not eating too much or too little. No adult man should ever weight below 160lbs This is shit advice. Som…	/r/askTRP	07/01/19 09:52 PM
2	Why are girls so flakey? What the fuck? Just a few last questions, why not shoot for the number as soon as possible after a couple of messages on tinder? Because I know I might be too busy that week, or because I might be talking to a lot of other women/just might be lazy or tired that I don't feel like it. Also, the fact that you match is a good sign. Asking for a number or to chill ASAP might come off as needy or pushy to some women and turn them off. Also, a girl asking for your social media or dropping her number without being ask…	/r/askTRP	03/01/19 04:40 PM
7	Why are girls so flakey? What the fuck? I just found it weird to call a girl and then not text her after, they just seem to lose interest if you don’t reply to them quickly? I wouldn't call her unless we had a meeting planned, sometime close, like perhaps, the following day. I'll elaborate more below. Some girls I’ve texted after very a lot of hours and they just don’t seem to respond anymore That's texting for you. It's generally why you don't want to go on massive texting sprees in the beginning. Of course, there are a few women out…	/r/askTRP	03/01/19 04:16 PM
10	Why are girls so flakey? What the fuck? Doesn’t calling show overinvestment? Nah. I'm just saying instead of trying to keep a text conversation with some online dating chick going for longer than a day, it's better to call once and make it feel more personal. Texting is very impersonal and can start off great and fade away. Terrible for dates planned several days later, with how flaky and impulsive people are these days. I honestly don’t really have the time to call a girl and be on the phone for an hour? Don't be on the phone for an …	/r/askTRP	03/01/19 03:56 PM
14	Why are girls so flakey? What the fuck? If you get a number call her. Don't leave it up to texting and messages.	/r/askTRP	03/01/19 03:51 PM
2	Girls on tinder called me the ugliest person they have ever seen and "so ugly that i would be afraid of him" You're not ugly. Not at all. Secondly, the fact you say you lack self confidence makes me imply the following: You posses awkward mannerisms You're lacking in regards to social interactions with females You got no game, and this in both in regards to in person and/or online Also, think from the perspective of women who swipe on your tinder profile. You shouldn't be making a fake profile, first of all... that serves no purpose. Anyways, the male to female ratio is favorable to women. Why should t…	/r/askTRP	07/11/18 06:59 PM
1	Why do most people find the Red Pill misogynistic or "morally reprehensible" ? Longterm TRP lurker here. Here are my thoughts: I think any longterm TRP poster/lurker can recognize that there are a lot of salty dudes who post on TRP. I'm talking, the kind of guys who hate on women any chance they can get--- whether it was because they were cheated on or because they fail with women and blame them for their own problems. The problem is, there attitude spills out to other communities. TRP is a public place to view discussion and spill out your own thoughts after all. Christ, …	/r/askTRP	06/11/18 04:02 PM
111	LTR Deleted our pics together. UPDATE: Shit just got spicy boys. She randomly texted me saying that after work she wants to stop by my place and say “hi”. Should I use this opportunity to end it with her? Tell her you can't because you got a date to get ready for tonight. Trololol	/r/askTRP	01/11/18 05:33 PM
5	This asshole is trying to take my girlfriend, how do I get rid of him? Why can't you? You can certainly plan for it to happen in a short amount of time, right? You shouldn't have to message a guy to "back off". It's never your job to enforce your girlfriend's behavior. Your girlfriend shouldn't be keeping contact with a notorious playboy who obviously wronged you in the past, when you have already basically laid it down you don't like it. Worst, she keeps saving his name under different names, which means she is very much aware she is doing something wrong and does…	/r/askTRP	18/08/18 04:29 PM
10	This asshole is trying to take my girlfriend, how do I get rid of him? This sounds fake, honestly. There's nothing that needs to be discussed here. Just dump her and move on. It's clear as day. She'll be all over him as soon as you breakup, if she isn't already. This shit will drag on until she finally does something (I mean, she kind of already has at this point even if not physically). He's tall to the point where looks don't even matter, probably has smooth game, and is a fighter. Nothing you can do to really compete with that-- but you shouldn't have to with yo…	/r/askTRP	18/08/18 04:23 PM
3	I have been rejected by more than 15 women this summer. What the fuck has happened to women that used to like straightforward men that had the balls to go and open a chat while others just prefer to talk online? I am inclined to believe that receiving so many DMs on instagram has made even women that are not that attractive have the self believe that they can have whatever men they want.. And if you are asking yourself right now "Well maybe you are ugly/Bad looking" As I said I have a lot of experience in the past.. You can check my instagram and see…	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/18 09:31 PM
2	Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude. I will add though, that this man is pushing 60 and married, and although I do see what he's doing as white knighting, I don't believe she'd go for him. This other dude, however... perhaps. Oh, sorry. I misread that bit. Mixed the other guy with this friend, up.	/r/askTRP	09/04/18 03:19 AM
16	Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude. Well here she is, running off to your supposed, "friend" the moment trouble brews, and here he is being a complete dick to his friend of 10 years and worshipping the girlfriend of said friend (or ex) instead. Dude is a complete douchebag and is the type of guy to trade friendship for pussy. He can say you were a dick all he wants for looking into her facebook, but it's evident where his intentions lie. He's no better, because a friend would have looked you in the eyes and told you how you fucked…	/r/askTRP	09/04/18 03:00 AM
1	How do I put myself to sleep quickly without fapping? see my response to the OC above	/r/askTRP	27/09/17 05:54 PM
1	How do I put myself to sleep quickly without fapping? Go study up on melatonin. The crap they sell you at stores is too much per pill, anyways.	/r/askTRP	27/09/17 05:54 PM
0	What's the point in approaching women if they are constantly approached by other men? You should be mixing up your lifts every week, after you get your feet planted in. You shouldn't be doing the same thing over and over and over again. You need to shock your body by changing certain variables (weight, rep scheme, rest, etc.). You can also do different exercises (i.e., dumbbell press instead of bench). Don't neglect certain exercises. For example, front squats are amazing for your body, and it's an exercise underutilized typically. Deadlifts are important and shouldn't be skipped…	/r/askTRP	26/09/16 12:27 AM
2	Best cities in the USA for bachelors, both old and young. Feel free to add to this very short list! Houston Nothing special, in my opinion. After going to LA I realized how dull Houston really is. I wish I had a good job over there so I could move from Houston to LA. I would do it in a heartbeat.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/16 10:04 PM
-6	I'm that SAP on the bus. I'm not subscribed to this subreddit but it keeps getting mentioned in posts and PM's. Thought I'd give it a try. You're 26 years old and you struggle to talk to a beautiful girl sitting next to you on a long bus ride? Wtf man... Start working out, dressing nicely, etc. Build some confidence if you struggle in the easiest scenario to talk to a chick. You were basically handed one of the easiest situations ever, and you failed horribly. Stop analyzing ever small detail and JUST GO FOR IT.	/r/seduction	27/05/12 06:05 AM