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SnooPets7004/r/askMRP05/03/23 03:53 PM
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My opinion is that TRT is both godsent and cheating. The more it is needed the more effect it will have. It's got some downsides, like everything. Ozempic is also cheating and a godsent for some as well. Do yourself a favor and stop being concerned about getting a community consensus on your opinion. Be your own man and make your own opinion. Community consensus is something women do.
/r/askMRP29/07/25 10:30 AM
17

Unless that woman is your mother, you don't "open up" to her.
/r/askMRP19/06/25 05:34 PM
9

Understand the question; unfortunately, you are looking at it incorrectly. It doesn't matter what she likes or doesn't like. It matters what you like and want. If you want to lift and get stronger, which is a valid thing to do, then do it. Either she fits into your life in a way you want her to, or she is gone. Having said that, I doubt you are going to be very healthy or ultimately happy without physical fitness/strength training but do you and live with the outcome of that decision. Don't live…
/r/askMRP14/05/25 01:21 PM
11

That by itself wouldn't mean much, but if there is more like not sleeping with you, etc, then possibly. Anything more going on?
/r/askMRP09/04/25 11:25 AM
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When is the last time a conversation did anything to correct a problem? Best outcome is you look like you are a female, who handle things with conversation. Best thing to do (male way of handling things) is to back off until she starts putting in the effort you want. If she is into you, she make the effort. Running your mouth will only make you look weak.
/r/askMRP08/01/25 09:48 AM
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The second option isn't an option. Play this forward, and say you confront her about it. She is going to deny anything happened, which she has already set up plausible deniability. I'm assuming no one but her and the dude know the truth. What explanation would possibly assure you that nothing happened? You're left with either ignore/accept her unfaithful behavior or break it off. Regardless of that, u/HornsOfApathy is right. This is a symptom of your problem, fix your shit.
/r/askMRP26/12/24 01:21 PM
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Well, good you aren't legally married. I'm not sure what your boys have to do with their mother, who has plenty of excuses you are making for her. The bottom line here is that her actions indicate someone without an interest level that keeps them loyal, so imo you don't owe her loyalty either. You aren't legally married, so what would you want to change? You will be pissed about being betrayed, not sure what getting over being pissed will serve you. My opinion, support your boys and their mother…
/r/askMRP30/11/24 01:36 AM
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Agreed, leave go do something. You aren't a prisoner in your own home. Leave your phone at home or turn it off.
/r/askMRP20/11/24 03:38 AM
1

It's minor though, sounds like you are headed in the right direction. I seem to get better results overall with playfulness at least now.
/r/askMRP06/11/24 12:39 PM
9

Thought about this a little more, as a minor change you need to get a little more playful. Instead of "babe I prefer this way today" could come off kind of needy, maybe something like "Get that fine ass over her girl, you know what I want". Just a thought, I don't think it matters as much as STFU, lifting, making a dent in the world.
/r/askMRP06/11/24 12:23 PM
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You did fine, just try to ignore the mini shit tests. It seems like it's her testing to see if this new you is real, or if she can bait you back into old habits. This isn't a bug, it's a feature. Continue to STFU.
/r/askMRP06/11/24 10:28 AM
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Most of these fuckers are gay.. 😂😂😂😂
/r/askMRP04/09/24 10:39 PM
7

This situation seems like we are trying to counsel a woman who is being abused. The point you are missing is that you do not value yourself enough to say this statement "I will not be abused, no matter what". She knows this and takes advantage of it when she is feeling a certain way. All these people who "can't control their rage" and "are just misunderstood" never seem to attack the police or hit them when they are called. The reason is that they don't have permission to abuse the police, but y…
/r/askMRP06/08/24 12:37 AM
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Your last sentence is concerning, and probably most of the problem. The other thing is that you are not doing a great job of STFU. You don't say "If you don't correct yourself I'm leaving", you get in your vehicle and leave. This has nothing to do with her, this has to do with you will not be in an abusive situation. Being in an abusive situation is saying "I'm here for you no matter what you do". The reason for this "temper tantrum" is not your problem. Here is what I would do in order: STFU, y…
/r/askMRP01/08/24 10:46 AM
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I can't say I know exactly what is happening here, no one does not even you or her. But it seems to me from what you describe that she gets the dare I say "privilege" of acting however she wants during that time of the month (I'm assuming) and that's ok because someone told her that her feelings matter more than reality—standard princess behavior. My personal trainer once told me, "If you marry a princess you can expect princess behavior" and he is right (mostly referring to his wife who was par…
/r/askMRP01/08/24 02:06 AM
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I'd like to rephrase your title, which should help you realize what you are saying. "My wife is reading smut and getting horny then gets freaky with me. How do I screw this up?"
/r/askMRP25/06/24 12:22 PM
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Probably my extreme sensitivity to stupid people. Wish I could just get a BJ.
/r/askMRP02/06/24 05:30 PM
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Who gives a shit, my question is still my question which /OP hasn't answered.
/r/askMRP02/06/24 02:44 PM
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Same age as you guys, 50m and 40f. I'm not fully appreciating what you are saying here. What's the boundary she is crossing? Regarding your post, it seems like it's going out too much and over-communicating with girlfriends? That it?
/r/askMRP01/06/24 10:15 PM
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Well, you married a woman and this is what they do after having a child. My daughter literally does this sort of thing for my grandchildren all the time. The more hormones she has, the more she will do this irrational stuff to protect the child when there is nothing to need protecting from. My daughter calls me all the time when my son in law doesn't confirm her strange worries as if I'm somehow going to confirm them. Stupid shit like "omg, do you think that cotton candy he ate has red dye no 5 …
/r/askMRP29/05/24 01:10 PM
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I don't know of anything you can read. One hard thing to realize is no one gives a shit what you feel. This is true of your wife and everyone else in the world. Interalize this. It is both the gift and the curse of being a man. Everyone gives a shit about what you DO, but never about what you feel (regardless of what they say). Just make sure that your feelings don't get a vote in what you do, and know what you need to do that isn't based on your feelings. Your childhood problems? That's a feeli…
/r/askMRP20/04/24 07:59 PM
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Hard to know, because we don't know you or her. Hard to say it's a frame problem, but I will say that her behavior is testing. It sounds, and again I don't know, like she is getting tired of you. The only way she can get tired of you is she is either seeing and/or communicating too much with you. I suspect the latter, as people your age can't seem to get the mobile phone out of their hands for 2 minutes. So figure out how to be unavailable a little more, hard to have those re-connections if you …
/r/askMRP20/04/24 07:23 PM
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Keep working, what your grandfather and great-grandfather would have done is a good start. Being nice to your wife and listening when she has things to say is good; going to her for permission or validation is woman/child behavior, will not get what you want in the male-female relationship long term. I had to counsel my colleague about this last week. Where he lives there is a homeless problem, and he saw someone on at his front door on camera. They all panicked and starting making plans to move…
/r/askMRP20/04/24 06:39 PM
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Get your T checked as well dude, super easy and if it's the low edge of normal TRT is a great option. Just because it's in the reference range doesn't mean good, just means average.
/r/askMRP20/04/24 06:13 PM
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You still got a lot of work to do. You should not have any contracts about anything on social media, especially if you are trying to make money or some kind of brand. Don't ask permission; it's up to her to bring shit to you that she wants you to change, not for you to anticipate (living in her frame).
/r/askMRP20/04/24 06:10 PM
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I think your question is what is the difference between a boundary and an expectation? Seems to me an expectation is a squishier version of a boundary. Maybe that's why we always see the word boundary.
/r/askMRP29/03/24 02:32 AM
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This is the correct thing to DO at this point, which is all the matter. Disappear, you don't need to be around and you can figure out what you want to do later, don't make a rush decision. As they say, stay plan is same as the go plan
/r/askMRP14/03/24 05:23 PM
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You and me both. Your wife may come around or she may not. Don't embarass her. The big deal here isn't if you go elsewhere or not. That's not it. Understand that for whatever reason, she isn't as interested as you. Who gives a shit why. It's up to you to get your wants met, not her. You may want it to be her, but it's not available. This is your desire, not hers. There is a reason it's considered, in other cultures, the correct thing for a man to go to a brothel (as men have done for 1000s of ye…
/r/askMRP10/03/24 05:15 PM
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It won't make any difference if it comes to a divorce, assuming the /OP is in any no-fault divorce state. That will be what it's going to be. No matter what happens, OP compromises his morals.
/r/askMRP10/03/24 05:12 PM
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You got a common problem, but the problem isn't her; it's you. She gets first crack at your libido, not sole custody. Sounds like you think you are trapped, you aren't, you have trapped yourself. First of all get used to the idea that this is a trap of your own making. If you want to be with this woman, and it sounds like you do, why would this be a question? You say you are in shape, good-looking and get minimal sex at home. You shouldn't have a problem either hiring a pro for fun or getting so…
/r/askMRP10/03/24 02:07 PM
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Agreed, you have bigger issues. Fucking fight!!
/r/askMRP09/03/24 06:04 PM
1

This may be the most useful thread I have ever seen in the sub....
/r/askMRP06/02/24 08:42 PM
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I think overall, there is no reason any man should be sharing a location with his LTR. Doesn't matter how it's going, don't do that shit.
/r/askMRP15/12/23 11:51 AM
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The question is a little too basic which is why it was confusing. You're asking about "how do I handle a wife that has the same priorities as a man". Our grandfather's would not have asked this question, so I get it. The answer is that you don't handle your wife's priorities, you have influence (directly proportional to how attractive you are to her) but not control. The first thing I would say is without a doubt, you are spending way too much time around her. Find a hobby or something that take…
/r/askMRP10/12/23 01:16 PM
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Advice for what? Forget her, you can only control you. What do you want you aren't getting? Don't tell me "I want her to.." I dunno her or you, but a chick with an overinflated sense of masculine worth is the norm not the exception...
/r/askMRP10/12/23 12:32 PM
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Doesn't sound like you like your wife at all and think you can do better? Not sure why this is a question or what advice you are looking for. Who gives a shit what she says and does, you are asking the question here.
/r/askMRP10/12/23 12:14 PM
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No idea, wasn't going to ask.
/r/askMRP19/03/23 09:17 PM
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Only highlighting what I know, which is very little.
/r/askMRP05/03/23 11:50 PM
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Are you seriously coming into a men’s group acting like a woman? Let me TL;DR “it is impossible for me to lose weight, get stronger or make more money”. Get the f*** out of here with that bullshit. It’s not impossible, you just don’t want to do the work. Losing weight and getting stronger is possible until you are dead, making more money you will do the second you decide to get off your ass. Your laziness is causing it and it shows in your post, get up and do some fucking work and be patient wit…
/r/askMRP18/02/23 11:55 AM
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Exactly!
/r/askMRP27/01/23 01:15 PM
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Understood why you would think that, but why are you “battling” with a woman? Physically we are stronger. In manipulation they are stronger. She wants to be able to manipulate you and then get away with anything while still getting your attention. The currency is your attention. So if you go in that straight line, argue with her, feel bad as she manipulates you to, then give her attention you are reenforcing that bad behavior. Remove yourself as men have done for 1000s of years before us; this i…
/r/askMRP26/01/23 01:25 PM
1

I don’t have woman problems anymore with this sort of thing. So yes, you are attacking her comfort, that’s why you act normal when you get back. She wants a hug, she gets one. I don’t bring it up, and if she apologizes I just say “for what”? Then, she lists the way she was not respectful. Again, all of this I get without being baited into an argument. This is a more detailed way of STFU.
/r/askMRP26/01/23 01:20 PM
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Sounds like you did ok, I mean ok that you didn’t apologize for trying to help like simps would. That is progress. So the boundary is, “if you need my help, you will speak to me in a respectful manner.” If that’s correct, it is a completely reasonable boundary. However, here is the main problem, you have to be willing to die on this hill. Are you? If not, read no further. So first off, try not to help with woman problems over the phone. Makes it harder to communicate especially for women, and yo…
/r/askMRP26/01/23 12:31 AM
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Go back and re-read what you wrote, this time pay particular attention to how you do everything based on emotions. This is why she isn’t attracted to you, doing things for emotions is the domain of the female not the domain of the male. I’m older than most of you on here (49), but I was conditioned feminine like most of you by a well-meaning mother (my father died in an accident). I was taught “listen to your heart”; and it was reinforced by all kinds of old rock songs and advice from females. R…
/r/askMRP29/11/22 12:25 PM
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Long story to be sure. But to answer your question: once a month, plus she has small dissolvable tablet for the evening to up the levels she takes and immediately goes to sleep. She has been doing it for about 14 months, she got a full-time job less than 4 months after starting; dunno that I care if it “fixes” it are not, she is making $50k a year that more than covers the cost of treatment. SSRIs (and side effects) are gone, Benzodiazepines and Opioids, and Adderall are all gone. No real side e…
/r/askMRP03/11/22 06:58 PM
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Read “you should have better shit to do that video chat every night”. Go find something to do and don’t tell her about it, even if you are sitting in your place on video games. This woman in the center of your life, and dislikes you for it.
/r/askMRP02/11/22 02:55 PM
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I’m with my wife right now while she is getting a ketamine infusion. Went from too depressed to get off the couch, to working full-time in just a few months. That stuff doesn’t ease you out of depression, it’s a rocket out of depression if it works for you.
/r/askMRP02/11/22 02:51 PM
2

er…. what?
/r/askMRP28/09/22 12:30 PM
9

I raised an alpha, and I am not the alpha he is. He is 17, about a dumb as a bucket of rocks in some ways, but very smart in others. What makes him an alpha is that he really doesn’t give a shit at all if girls like him or not. He doesn’t react to their emotional manipulations in the least and at the same time had these girls asking him to come “get his birthday present”. I think he got some from 3 of them, 2 of them have “boyfriends” all trying to lock him down. Refers to himself in 3rd person,…
/r/askMRP26/09/22 11:19 AM
2

As a man in almost in my 50’s (I’ll hit the big 50 in next June), I can tell you that looking back on 20+ years ago, you don’t have any idea of what is going to happen in 20 years. Here are a few thoughts from a gray beard for your new challenge. Most people I graduated high school with are still around for better or worse. People that have died off are from two things: not taking care of themselves (surprising the number of heart attacks, some fatal) or accidents/other unnatural causes. The big…
/r/askMRP15/09/22 10:06 AM
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Uh, WTF, dude. Do you actually think there is an advantage to not blowing this up? If so, I’d love to hear how that benefits you.
/r/askMRP02/08/22 12:10 AM
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https://journey.cloud
/r/askMRP27/07/22 10:57 PM
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I journal daily on a app called journey, I can attach pictures and stuff there as well. It’s cross platform and you can put a pin on it, so that’s why. My handwriting sucks to the point that I can’t read it and I can type almost as fast I can think (which is not fast in any case). It’s the first thing I do every morning.
/r/askMRP27/07/22 10:47 PM
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First of all, take responsibility that you have allowed this behavior to take place for some time now, I don’t know how long but you have allowed and encouraged it. As such, you aren’t going to change it overnight and she also knows that are you unlikely to do anything at all about your complaints that she would probably rightly complain to her girlfriends as “my man BITCHES” at me. Point is to take responsibility for what you have done, and decide how you want to undo it. Then STFU. Your words …
/r/askMRP15/07/22 08:33 PM
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Just how many different ways can you be in denial. I’m been watching your story for some time, reminds me of my first marriage. In my part of the world there is a saying “the person wouldn’t piss on me if I was on fire”. Basically it’s a way of saying that person doesn’t give a shit about you. Seriously, what does she have to do to make you see she doesn’t give a shit about you?
/r/askMRP13/07/22 12:52 AM
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I don’t know that you have a problem that needs to be addressed, which is why you have rightly STFU. Example: My daughter (19) lives on her own pretty close to the house. She has this boyfriend, who I actually like, but the dude is straight up beta energy. He’s been around for about 6 months I guess. He is also 19, so not a ton of experience by either of them here. So this weekend, Friday night she stayed the night with a girlfriend of her’s and said “I haven’t seen her in a while”, Saturday nig…
/r/askMRP10/07/22 01:22 PM
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Seems to be you don’t like her very much and her working less would make little if any difference. Do you really want a bunch of internet strangers telling you what to do with your life/wife?
/r/askMRP08/07/22 05:26 PM
1

Only you can answer that. For me, it’s worth it but a legally binding contract with her is not unless you intend on having children. Even then, probably not.
/r/askMRP23/06/22 10:54 AM
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It’s got to be said, that sometimes it isn’t going to work out, regardless of your frame, fitness or financials. Becoming RP aware and knowing what you want out of life, she just may not be the person anymore. Own it, embrace it, and move on; or at least don’t come complaining to a bunch of pseudo-random people on the internet.
/r/askMRP19/06/22 01:11 PM
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There was a show on Netflix called Peaky Blinders that I sometimes watch. There was a scene in there where one of the characters said to her husband, not quoting but something like “there is a lot of temptation around, so I am here to keep your stomach full and your balls empty”. You have to ask if she is doing those things correctly, the reason you wait is because you want to see if she will continue to do those things.
/r/askMRP06/06/22 03:19 PM
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Hell of a novel you wrote there, I do see one huge flaw in your logic: you aren’t going to do anything. The point of dread is that you will met your needs, damn the consequences. If a casual insomniac rp-aware guy can figure this out, I promise you she knows. You can’t fake it and make it with dread imho. This is where your Christian background isn’t helping you (I’m Christian as well). The notion of a man getting all his intimacy from his spouse at her discretion is in itself a desire killer. T…
/r/askMRP30/05/22 07:31 AM
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You shouldn’t be talking about anything about Red Pill or the contradiction at all. Also, don’t try touching her. Keep your hands to yourself and find something else to do besides sitting on the couch in the evenings. Think removing yourself from the house if at all possible (gym, coffee shop, library, etc). Be stoic as much as possible. It seems to me, and I honestly don’t try to analyze female behavior too much, that she is pissed you are changing the rules, which you are. Don’t talk about it,…
/r/askMRP29/05/22 01:31 PM
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So, just in general, if I have a problem with any organization, I’m going to speak with the person in charge… A better question is why didn’t he speak with you about any issues with your family?
/r/askMRP26/05/22 10:36 PM
2

I have been teaching my son a lot of RP stuff. It does work, and the little shit has girls dropping off brownies for him when he's at work. It wasn't too difficult and he took to it well, just a little instruction goes a long way at 16 (now 17). Love the kid, but let's just say he's not university material, but still has 3-4 girls chasing him at all times. From the opposite perspective, these boys that try to date my daughter (18) are a fucking mess. Immediately beta-bitch themselves, call and t…
/r/askMRP26/05/22 07:26 PM
2

Still talking about her, she isn't anything you can control, you can't change her. However, you have complete autonomy to change whatever you want to change about this whole situation, life in general, finances, etc. So first realize this situation you have found yourself in is 100% your fault and 100% only you to change it. So pick what you are going to do for the household, make sure it's known, and write that shit down. This is basic leadership is to make sure everyone knows who is doing what…
/r/askMRP26/05/22 06:19 PM
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To expand on what others said, some of it was shit tests, some of it was just logistics. Because of the butt hurt, you won’t be able to tell the difference. Working at home isn’t your friend here, you need to be less available, going to the gym in the morning would be my first action. Yes, not giving the obligatory morning bye smooch was a butt hurt reaction to a perceived slight (i.e. you are in her frame). Lead the situation and get some of the logistics done nightly. Check on if the bags are …
/r/askMRP26/05/22 11:05 AM
2

Maybe you need more of a life than just hanging out with you wife. If you had that, you would have more to do besides waiting on her decision to or to not have sex with you.
/r/askMRP28/04/22 12:47 AM
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Other than what he just said, you are in the wrong sub.
/r/askMRP15/04/22 02:06 AM
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I had something similar with my wife's sister-in-law. I wasn't against any threeway or anything but wasn't about to hide shit from my wife. I told my wife to never leave me alone with that woman again. Find out later, she cheated on my brother-in-law 4 or 5 times that we know of. You probably are right, but not your problem, your wife's friend, not yours. It makes sense though, my wife sister-in-law kept comparing herself with my wife as we talked, so hypergamy on display. T
/r/askMRP11/03/22 01:08 AM
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You’re awkward around women, which is probably why you married a women that didn’t really like you to begin with. I don’t understand the idea that you can’t talk with women with your son and need a babysitter before you can go out. Couple of simple things. just fucking talk to people. Take your son to get an ice cream (or whatever) and talk to some of the other people there. Just ask “what flavor did you get and how it is”. You don’t care what the answer is, you put words out of your mouth and t…
/r/askMRP04/03/22 02:56 PM
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I have a story, short one about some people I know. Don’t know if it relates, but seems to without full context of your situation. Guy I know (not a friend mind you) couldn’t afford his apartment, so he found a small house next to his dads place so that his kids could go see their grandfather whenever they wanted. She came along as the obedient wife, but this kids had nothing but grandpa anymore since there was no other children to play with it by grandpas house. I believe they had 3 with 2 in s…
/r/askMRP15/02/22 01:44 PM
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What he said, remember this is what "I would do", and I am not you. You have got to take responsibility for yourself, but men don't let anyone treat them like that. So man up.
/r/askMRP14/02/22 03:27 PM
2

If you are not going to drop her outright, which I suspect it's what you should do. What I would do now: - Fucking disappear, go to the gym or to a coffeeshop, spend as little time around her as possible, when she asks why STFU. Just say, "I'm busy". - The second she shows disrespect, leave again. - Do not engage in conversation, if she breaks up with you, find a buddy's house to stay at and plan your next move.
/r/askMRP14/02/22 02:46 PM
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Don't skip over the most important part, does she quit her job and do other destructive shit besides break up with you? PMDD is not an excuse for her behavior, if it's a problem for her, she needs to work out it, not you. You are using that to try to excuse her unacceptable behavior, stop it.
/r/askMRP14/02/22 02:14 PM
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He advice you have here is solid, but I’m going to look at this a different way. This is 100% your fault, unless: She quits her job every month before her period time? Does she break it off with her friends every month before period time just to get them back afterwards? The point here is she does it because it’s perfectly ok, and she knows you will come back. You have already lost.
/r/askMRP14/02/22 12:24 PM
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Your pissed at her, and letting that emotion make decisions for you. Kind of a bitch thing to do, although I have done it myself. What should you be doing?
/r/askMRP01/02/22 03:10 AM
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