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| 20 | Being a SAHM is idiotic for both the partners.It cracks me up that people immediately jump to "oh noooooossss divorce" instead of the obvious problem. Unless you are independently wealthy and the working father loses his job: you're all fucked. Bills? Health insurance? Your wife won't have been paying into social security. So you're fucked in retirement too. Everyone ignores the actual practical shit of being in a relationship or marriage because everyone here is mentally speed running failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 01:03 PM |
| 6 | Feminists will pick and choose whenever they see men as a colletive.Uh again it's rare I just see necrophilia here... Like it's as common as dv or something. That's a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 06:37 PM |
| 11 | Feminists will pick and choose whenever they see men as a colletive.Wait why did you slip necrophilia in there casually? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 02:54 PM |
| 9 | If your bf/husband died how would you react? How would it impact your life and how long would you wait before moving on?You could delete the entire first paragraph of your post because you clearly don't actually care about the emotional impact just how long women would wait to date and have sex after their partners passed away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 02:02 PM |
| 12 | If your bf/husband died how would you react? How would it impact your life and how long would you wait before moving on?Why write the extra fluff in the post when this is the only thing you care about because it clearly isn't the emotional impact of losing your partner isn't actually something you care about. But 4 years and 26 days for dating. Making a FetLife account at the funeral reception/s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship?If he was unable to work due to disability, absolutely. If he were and requested to be a SAHH, I would not. Shit my friend won't even let his wife be a SAHM to two children. He's throwing her out the door to work. Though I will say I understand the urge to come home sit down after work, prop my feet up and read the paper while my wife makes me dinner like he does (minus the paper). I have a lifestyle to which I am accustomed. I won't drop it. Which is great considering my partner would crawl out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 08:21 PM |
| – | The leading cause of death for pregnant women in the US is unintentional drug overdose, not intimate partner homicide.I dunno this ain't the gotcha you think it is. The study is reinforcing homicide as a risk factor often overlooked by obstetricians. Focusing on the patient holistically. When I fill out my paperwork at my current PCP they ask about adequate access to housing and food and questions I had never seen on annual forms, including domestic violence. They ask questions about my life in visits I have never been asked. This study is literally a direct indictment of your way of thinking that many OB's hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Do you get offended if a guy you deem unattractive hits on you/asks you out?Hey you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. I respect the attempt. Unless the dude is acting creepy about it or gets aggressive. It's no big deal. I may get annoyed if I'm busy. My partner does like to tease me though because it happens when people don't realize we're together. Which is also annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.I dunno the only way I'd date a dude my dad's age when I was in my early 20s is if he was rich and bought me stuff and took me on trips and gave me lots money. It's just sex work. You're just providing the girlfriend experience making an old guy feel virile. Like at the end it wouldn't be a break up or getting dumped, it would be losing a client. 🤷 I guess the bonus is by then you will have networked and you can find another client. Or just go back to your normal life with a Dior saddle bag and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Every single man in the world will gladly "spoil” a woman - if she is "that girl" to himI did mention in my edit my SAHM friend does nice things for me that she can manage, home cooked meals and fresh picked flowers from her garden. We have been in situations when I have not wanted to impose but my partner has stopped me and said let them do this for you, it is their way of repaying you in the only way they can. My friend had a terrible year, his dad died, his two cats died. We were some of the few that attended his father's viewing. I paid for his cats treatment, then euthanasia, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Every single man in the world will gladly "spoil” a woman - if she is "that girl" to himI've always been in friend groups where there are people who pull in more than others by orders of magnitude. Could we not also say this is disparity is common in a dating scenario? Men typically have more money. Men here want to date younger women. An income discrepancy is inevitable. Wanting to go dutch seems ridiculous. Like if you're broke baby just say so. *Edit: as a note despite one of my friends being a SAHM with no income she makes me salmon dinners with homemade cucumber kimchi, steaks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Every single man in the world will gladly "spoil” a woman - if she is "that girl" to himI as a rule pay for my friends food? None of my female friends make as much as me so it's not a big deal to cover dinner, drinks, movies, snacks, and stuff like that. I also prefer to drive so yes. I also drive. My car is newer and I don't have ADHD so I'm a better driver. My one friend who lives down the street is a SAHM so she cooks dinner and invites me over but when she's stressed or sick I'll offer to order dinner for the family (I am also longtime friends with her husband). They are on a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 02:53 PM |
| – | Men who were abused as children are treated like broken goodsYeah it's called CPTSD. My dad and his 5 siblings all got it. They all dealt with it differently. My brother and I are the only ones who got that inherited legacy. All my cousins dodged it by having cowed mother's or a dad who cried drunk about being afraid of becoming his dad in a McDonald's drive through while his 16 year old daughter drove him. Getting beat doesn't make you special. My brother got anger issues and a coke issue. I got hypervigilance and trust issues. Shit sucks but at least it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 01:14 AM |
| 8 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?It's not being down voted that's deeply traumatic. That's like a duh. It's a pretty innocent question, what do you like about your partner? Basic. You get lovely heartwarming answers usually. Seeing people appreciate people and love one another nowadays is a nice change of pace. You're the one comparing it to wealthy people flaunting their wealth in front of the poor. So you went full nonsensical hyperbole my dude. Not me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 04:10 AM |
| 16 | Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands?Look my dad's been divorced 4 times (he has terrible taste in women). He doesn't get mad when other people get married and he's invited. He puts on a suit and goes to celebrate the happy couple. Meanwhile some people could just simply not click on a post not read the comments and just not reply if the mere mention of someone... Liking their partner is so deeply traumatic for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?Like... What? What game is there for men to be off of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 05:20 AM |
| 6 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?I have a higher sex drive than my partner. But I don't ever want him to expect sex as a given just because we're on vacation. Or staying in a hotel. Or ever. I don't want it to be like sex is a punch card. I want it to be because we both genuinely want each other. I am also very gogogo on vacations to a point he needs a break from how much walking and stuff I end up doing. Sometimes he just wants to sit in a coffee shop and read while I go out exploring by myself. Sometimes he just needs to pass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 03:26 PM |
| – | What do women think of this other woman's opinion?I think for online personalities: negative engagement is still engagement. Dude proves the point by stitching her. Are most men ugly? No, of course not. I can't speak to their personality, intelligence, capacity for empathy, or if they go down on you ie stuff that matters. But ugly? Genetic elimination? Icky take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 10:58 PM |
| 0 | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore.If you're unemployed for a while in your 20s having multiple women take care of you: you're (or were) a hobosexual. I don't make the rules. I really hate the looks number thing or considering a person not being of worth because just because someone looks a certain way doesn't mean they're a catch. There are lots of nice looking people but I know so many women in the dating stage going to sports games they absolutely loathe. No I don't want to sit through something that long and that boring. Go w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 03:20 AM |
| 8 | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore.Sorry autocorrect *hobosexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 11:51 PM |
| 8 | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore.This is what I don't get. He's doing well in his career but was effectively a hobosexual in the recent past? He can't get women "at his level" then doesn't that mean he's not at the level he or his friend thinks. Primal sex? Maybe for him but is this actually the opinion of the women. He just seems like the friend in the group people haven't realized they need to drop yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Men leaving for younger women is naturalBut why should we expect a reward from society? I don't. I already get actively scorned for refusing to get married. Neither my partner nor I are big on marriage. We're also choosing to not have kids. More scorn. If you want a cookie from society for being in a relationship I just think that's sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 08:58 PM |
| 21 | Men leaving for younger women is naturalUh I know I'm not a man but I don't feel I need a reward for staying with my partner. Getting to be with him is the reward. Maybe I'm just weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 02:57 PM |
| – | It's time to Unban Looks PostsFalse equivalency dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 05:09 PM |
| – | It's time to Unban Looks PostsI love how some people equate ugly people fucking to cannibalism. There's no followup, it's just genuinely funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 02:45 PM |
| – | It's time to Unban Looks PostsThat do be a trailer park thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 02:42 PM |
| – | It's time to Unban Looks PostsDoes it not count as fucking unless your partner has the face of someone demanding millions of dollars for an ad campaign? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 02:41 PM |
| – | It's time to Unban Looks PostsSee. Never been to a trailer park. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 02:40 PM |
| – | It's time to Unban Looks PostsI love how we pretend the ugly don't absolutely fuck. Some of you have never been to a trailer park and it shows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemyou just filled in the gaps, damn. everything you stated about me, sentence by sentence, are all false. more interestingly is from what did you arrive at those conclusions? I dont believe in those biases, my failure modes dont include inability to socialy connect, and i dont assume others are living charmed lives. I'm actually predicating my arguments on the opposite. Or, go with me here: introspection is your blindspot, your failure mode. My only consistent statement has been effort. That's it.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemYou are not wrong under certain conditions but “But I managed” is exactly where we diverge. You did not earn that ability. I put effort into it. Do you think other people under the same conditions you went through (excluding the initial conditions you were dealt with) have the ability to “manage”? If they consider it a priority. Yes. Also where did you get that ability to “manage” ? You realize you did nothing to have that ability in same way you did not choose your gender. You did not choose an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemNo it's just a shit analogy because nothing actually correlates. 5 cars? How did I get them in the first place? Was I born owning 5 cars? Did I work and earn enough money to pay for a friend at the friend store, presumably I did the same for the first 5? Or did I develop as a human being, overcome obstacles in my life, genuinely care about others, and put effort into making and nurturing friendships? Like a normal person. Again all you're saying I have special friendship is magic my little pony … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemLots of men are. But it's not the same as it was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 02:29 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemBeing blunt your analogy is kinda shit. Or I dunno maybe I'm just rolling in friends because I was just born with my little pony magic. Or like I said: I nurtured my friendships. Ended some that I came to find toxic. Etc. If you can't make a friend. Have an intimate long standing friendship. Communicate with friends or value them.... What the hell makes people think they'd be able to start and maintain a romantic relationship????? I do think men and women are socialized differently as children. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 02:49 AM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemI think you're being a little overly vague. A woman may not feel appreciated by her husband. She may not feel valued as a homemaker or at work. In all aspects of life these things are possible. In terms of friends, those are relationships you choose and nurture. Can you not feel valued, seen, appreciated, or understood by friends? Sure. But if that's the case you should in theory talk to them about it. If they're assholes about it, find new friends. You should feel those things and if not you sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 10:29 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemOf course everyone does. But I notice men here don't regard friendships, with other men as fulfilling that goal of feeling seen and valued. I have felt I had value by being a good friend since I was a kid. I felt appreciated and understood. I don't think it's that all these men complaining here don't have anything of value other than being wanted. They just don't put weight or value into being perceived as a good friend etc. You have to give a shit about a person's opinion and their own value to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 03:02 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemThat's the entire tragedy of the modern man. Wanting to feel seen and valued by others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Does it Get Better for Women Over 35?If I were single: It would be because I was a widow. That would be some pretty heavy shit. Much like someone who is divorced it's a lot of emotional baggage. I honestly would be pretty broken even though externally I would have my stuff together financially and otherwise. I probably would not deal well with casual sex because it could never be as good as it is with him. I'd always be disappointed. Knowing this I wouldn't be able in good conscious to date. Probably just travel, hang out with frie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.If I invite friends out I cover the bill. I make more money than them but quite a bit so it just makes sense. I think it's good practice to go dutch in the early stages of dating just to avoid men feeling owed something for it. Now my partner and I have division of expenses, but he paid for me during dating. He was a master of check sniping. All that being said: most of you are broke. I completely understand being broke sucks, I too was once a poor. But if you're broke baby just say so. Don't ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 09:28 PM |
| 2 | How women can find men that prioritize connection above sexI was smitten with my partner the day I met him. We met through mutuals, I lived far away. We talked constantly often daily for two years. I didn't think he was romantically interested in me because a friend insisted he was interested in her. We got drunk and I kissed him at a party and told him I liked him. I told him he was my boyfriend a week later. Here we are all these years later. The problem is getting to know a guy before you approach with romantic intent. We spent two years getting to k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Men shouldn't approach women unless the woman has "genuine desire" for the man.Isn't this the guy who smashes his bones and says women aren't attractive? Am I supposed to take anything this dude says seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 02:32 PM |
| – | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?OPs premise was broken on the directionality of change being one way from the jump. OP chose to list only one method of conflict women complain about: avoidance. Then chose to voice another complaint that men aren't emotional enough. Ignoring no avoidance isn't the only conflict method that's an issue. We all know there are other ways men deal with conflict. We all know it's not that men aren't emotional enough: it's that they are very emotional they just don't consider anger an emotion. Men her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?I'm saying there's a tie between how men process conflict and how they express emotions which I assume is a pretty obvious straight line. I'm not even going to put this on OP with men preaching stoicism, it's not just them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?That's a different increasingly hyperbolic question. I gave an answer. Don't be disingenuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?Uh I think you might be off on that number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?Are you going to argue watching a father lashing out in anger may not contribute to a child's socialization??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 02:15 PM |
| 6 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?Are you going to argue societally there isn't pressure on boys and men to not express their emotions in a "feminine"way while we see all this preaching about stoicism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?It's two points and applicable to processing conflict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?Because it is a way many men process conflict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 02:06 PM |
| 0 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?But men don't always withdraw. That's not the only negative way men deal with conflict. Additionally OP mentions men not being emotionally expressive enough, which men are very emotional, they just don't acknowledge anger as an emotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?"tolerate male style of conflict processing" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?"tolerate male conflict processing", ugly truth is this is often a component. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?"tolerate male style of conflict processing" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 01:01 PM |
| 11 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?So I guess I offer traditional masculine strengths. Confidence, ambition, emotional stability, and provision. So, if I'm checking these boxes... Is it really a one way directional shift? No. My partner and I rarely argue because we're very much aligned on things. When we disagree, we talk it out. Sometimes we give each other space before we talk it out. My brother and his girlfriend got into an argument and punched a hole in the wall. I for one have never done that. Nor has my partner. But I kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 04:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenThe sheer volume of people on an app specifically looking to maybe potentially interact with you is higher than say: a grocery store or bar. Even if you're not swiping daily and not always hitting the limit. You're just playing a numbers game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 09:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenThis makes sense. I could say I've had more meals delivered via door dash if I just popped onto my phone daily than if I cooked or went out to eat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 02:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenIt's tinder so likes don't translate into anything but the real problem is: ratio of men to women. Ratio of real women to fake accounts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 01:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenThe math ain't mathing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 04:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenWhich one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 11:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenIn the US? Or did you change your country to the Philippines? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Common dating advice straight up doesn’t work for the average guy struggling with datingI think the problem is "just be yourself" doesn't consider the possibility they suck. So the next step is: be a better man. So then you get into okay define what that is? Are you basing this on some social media influencer you think is super cool? The type of man your ideal woman wants? You know the answer is be a better man. But what is that? And why do women seem to often know what being a better woman is accurately? As for the advice? I get it applies to men in relationships. But like I'd giv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 10:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenBut being real: how's that swiping on tinder going? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 10:04 PM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.You can't be manipulated into doing something you don't want to via sex unless you allow yourself to be. You're just treating men like they're 5 years old incapable of passing the marshmallow test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 06:54 PM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.If a man allows himself to be manipulated because of his sexual urges that's on him. For 1. Choosing to be with someone who would do that and 2. Not having better self control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 03:40 PM |
| 6 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.But how would they know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Heterosexual women almost always want the dominant, masculine man.Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Vague language is necessary for women’s world viewIt's almost like things in this world are nuanced, contextual, and often not able to be summarized in near packaged sentences because often people don't agree on a core premise something is based off of. Or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 08:29 PM |
| 7 | The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop.Trust and believe in reality hairlessness from everywhere below your lower eyelashes you would literally never want. We even dermaplane now! I personally don't like armpit hair on anyone. It doesn't need to be shaved to the skin, just buzz buzz. I find it off-putting to apply deodorant like it's hair gel. But my partner doesn't because he's not comfortable with it. Your soulmate wouldn't reject you over hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 05:25 AM |
| 1 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.As a bi person myself, nah it's not equal to being racist. Mostly because: people won't know you're bi until proven so. We experience far less discrimination especially since most of us do end up in heterosexual relationships because there's just a larger dating pool there. I think most women aren't having casual sex at all, at least that's what statistics point to. But people have a right to not wanna fuck bi men, I prefer bi men but everyone is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.The only man I've ever known to straight up tell me he's involved in that movement is a coworker whose wife left him after their children both became adults. It seems like she had decided to hang on until they were both out of the house before filing, and had this in mind long before filing without ever telling him. He desperately scrambled to save the marriage. Only to.ask I change his beneficiaried to his children and tell me he advised his son to never marry. MGTOW seems overwhelmingly reacti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How much do/can a woman who says they hate men or complain about men as a whole or say they’re anti “man” actually like or care about their male friendsI don't think very much. I'm cautious of men I don't know, moreso than women I don't know. But I couldn't imagine saying I hate men or complaining as if there is something fundamentally wrong with their gender because it might hurt their feelings. I'm not going to say "don't worry, you're one of the good ones". They don't bitch about women collectively in front of me. I wouldn't be friends with someone who did. I can know the statistics. I can know common attitudes. But I'd never be anti man bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 03:18 PM |
| 18 | The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop.After my friends double mastectomy we were trying to figure out if since she no longer has nipples but the most fantastic reconstructive surgery, like all transferred fat, no implants, can she go topless like on a beach? The male nipple is culturally not sexualized at all so just bottoms are the default for men. Men's fashion has suffered from the Beau Brummell effect we seem to be unable to shake. There's a professional uniform for men but a woman's business professional and casual is so diffic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 03:09 PM |
| 2 | No, people don't hate feminine men because of "misogyny" or a broad hatred of femininityWomen are in no way like children. It's patriarchy and misogyny. Sorry. Historically women and children were both considered property of their parents. Until of course a woman was married at which point she was the property of her husband. Women were actively excluded from certain roles: by men because those roles and rights to make men feel strong and important. Femininity is deemed as lesser than masculinity because it makes men feel powerful and important. That's it. What you're referring to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 04:49 PM |
| 4 | Why straight women attracted to women much more than straight men to men?I figured I might be a closeted bisexual. I got a lap dance from a stripper and sploosh. Definitely needed to change after. So confirmed. I think a bunch of us are kinda queers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 05:50 AM |
| 8 | Heterosexual women almost always want the dominant, masculine man.I'm a clear minority I guess. The imbalance in the kink community makes it really weird for us. Also really weird the most masculine dudes are the biggest subs. Like a dude with gorgeous hair, perfect stubble, and a six pass asking to legitimately drink my piss. He also wanted my socks, to hold his key, and way more. It was crazy to me he never really told his girlfriends, he tried to "ease" them into it by suggesting something tame but they were hard nos so he just stopped. My cousin's boyfrien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 08:27 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?Taking the lords name in vain now are we? Exodus please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 08:12 PM |
| 2 | "If monogamy didn’t exist in society, wouldn’t most women end up pairing only with the most attractive men, creating a large underclass of men with no hope of dating prospects" what do you think?Problems with cults of personality based on the founder just wanting dominion over others (and is a complete amoral pervert) amirite? Like the enormous houses are arguably the least weird thing about the Oneida community. Ineffectiveness of the pullout method? Never heard of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 07:39 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?We collectively thank you for your unequivocal support for access to abortion and gender affirming care 💅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 04:46 PM |
| 6 | "If monogamy didn’t exist in society, wouldn’t most women end up pairing only with the most attractive men, creating a large underclass of men with no hope of dating prospects" what do you think?I think back to hippy communes, era of free love, where women collectively cared for children, cooked, cleaned, etc. while men sat around doing drugs and philosophizing. Patriarchy. Is it still patriarchal? Are men going to rape and kill you if you reject them? I think your question leaves out a lot of factors so you can go down some crazy rabbit holes. You've completely forgotten the most important parts of monogamy: legal and monetary changes. Think about everything that goes into inheritance,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 04:22 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?It's a bad faith question and you know it's a bad faith question. You went full mask off. There isn't a point. It's like the kid who shit in the sandbox demanding you play with them. No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 02:52 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?Lmao you’re sorely mistaken if you think I’m afraid to say I’m a Christian nationalist. I absolutely am, I think it’s produced the greatest societies in the world. Yes now that you've been clocked, you're not afraid to say it. But you're still afraid to fill in the blank. A what? A h i t Christian nationalist. Care to buy a vowel? Or solve? You are absolutely afraid to say it because if you weren't you'd say it from the jump and say all my beliefs are informed by this core ideology. Because all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 09:28 PM |
| – | What if men and women halted all support for each other?Never gave a dichotomy. There can be people that don’t have children, I’m just saying as a societal prescription we should advocate for families (in part due to birth rates, in part due to the other reason I mentioned). Nah you did. Because if you genuinely wanted to "advocate for families" you'd advocate for Medicare for all, maternity leave, a living minimum wage, affordable housing, affordable childcare, tax restructuring, you know: basic shit that would be advocating for families. Things tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 03:57 AM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?I'm assuming you mean drone strike because Obama freaking loved drone strikes. But I'm capable of being critical of all politicians regardless of party affiliation. It's called not being a lemming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 11:09 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?You do know that "sovereign citizen" isn't a real thing right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 11:02 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?I didn't just list the USA's allies. I included the US. Obviously it's not an exhaustive list. But I've decided to stop doing work for men so you figure it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:54 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?I mean you can if you'd like I guess? Not sure what that has to do with anything but you do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?I'm sure the 5 minutes you spent was extensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:37 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?Targeting white Christians is hate speech bitch. ttargeting South Koreans and Japanese is just revealing. Google what hate speech is my dude. But also are you just trying to get banned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:34 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?All countries have xenophobic people. Not all countries have xenophobic policies. You're asking a bad faith question and you know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:32 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?Calling a country xenophobic isn't engaging in hate speech. It's calling a spade a spade. Being xenophobic is typically an indication of racism tho. I'm not trying to convince anyone that babies are bad. Just having them isn't virtuous. It's just a thing you can choose to do with your life (well some people can't but... We'll table that). Immigration addresses immediate problems that frankly the US doesn't have time to wait around for people to opt to have a bunch of white children that can add … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:26 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?Nope. I am white as hell but I am agnostic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:11 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?Firstly, you’re missing my point which was that we need to establish relationships based off of virtues, duties, and responsibilities instead of blind materialism. If we put forth that as a societal expectation, I don’t see how it doesn’t logically follow that marriages will be founded on virtue, and so children will follow those virtues. It's really a false dichotomy to say it's either blind materialism or idealized marriage and children as the virtuous other path. Plenty of ways to live ethica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:20 PM |
| 2 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?Most people have children thinking they'll be good parents, just like most people who get married think they won't end up divorced. Unfortunately people grossly overestimate their ability to maintain a healthy marriage and raise children properly. In my country, the government is trying to push existing citizens to have more children, there literally is a grand conspiracy that drives xenophobia. It's called the great replacement theory. Everything a potential thing a non existent human that will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 02:27 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:21 AM |
| 2 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?I do live in a xenophobic country. That does want me to reproduce. But you can't divorce if you're never married. I don't believe in marriage unless you have children or for financial reasons. Otherwise separate assets etc. We're happy so we'll stick together over a decade now ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 02:19 AM |
| 3 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?I don't really get how building a family with a legacy is virtuous, unless you specifically adopt or foster or forgo children to make societal contributions via money or skills. Having biological children is pure selfishness. Which is actually fine: you get to make choices based on your wants so long as you accept your kid may end up permanently estranged from you, etc. I love my partner very much. I am so happy our lives allowed us to meet and we can be together. But if he ever passed away I wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 09:10 PM |
| 2 | What's One Thing you Like About the Opposite SexThey're not constantly apologizing for things that aren't their fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 07:14 PM |
| 1 | People say “demisexual” when they’re really describing the normal sexuality of a typical femaleI personally don't like the word and don't use it as a descriptor for myself. That being said it was coined within the asexual community. So it's not for me. I've had friends nudge me point at someone and jokingly say: there's your type. And they're not wrong. But I'm just like yes: they are attractive. But I don't immediately think about having sex with someone. I've initially thought someone was attractive and then after talking to them for 15 minutes anything I initially thought goes away. Bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:07 PM |
| 1 | When is a woman too picky or superficial?So I am a firm believer of you like what you like and you get to decide who you wanna date. That being said do I give my friends over shit? Absolutely. I had coworker say she just isn't attracted to Asians, so I started pulling up pics of Henry Golding, Rowoon, Tony Leung, and my kill shot: Manny Jancinto. And she was like... Yeah okay fine. I'm like you can't say you're not attracted to an entire race of people that's insane. I have a preference for black hair, it doesn't mean I think Alexander… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Women do not deserve betterI'm sorry but where did I try to talk down on tubal ligation? I know very well they are the "equivalent" to vasectomies yet I would never suggest a woman get one unless she absolutely know she wants to be sterile and to talk to her doctor because of complications that can occur. You literally ask me why I was talking about tubal ligations. I responded. I would certainly hope you wouldn't talk to a random woman about getting one. It'd be very odd to talk to some woman you weren't in a committed r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Women do not deserve betterAlso, why do you need to talk about tubal ligation? We're talking about vasectomies and how people, especially women, are uninformed and push the idea that they are easily reversible? Even some feminists think boys should get vasectomies and reverse it when they are "ready" and over 18yo... I'm sorry but that is an automatic sterilization of these boys. A tubal ligation is essentially the female equivalent of a vasectomy. Typically couples choose between one or the other. But I know that it's te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Women do not deserve betterPoor dudes pushed into potentially runining their ability to have kids. Yk tons of men also advocate for circumcision and say it's better that way despite the proof it's not, purely because of indoctrination. Men's issues and suffering will never be taken seriously Uh one of them got it despite his wife not wanting him to because he didn't want more than one kid. The other two have actual healthy relationships with their wives and had a talk and are pretty chill about it. Both have two kids now … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 10:51 PM |
| 5 | Women do not deserve betterNonono my beliefs are merely a modest proposal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 10:24 PM |
| 4 | Women do not deserve betterIf that makes you feel better I am happy to help you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 10:22 PM |
| 8 | Women do not deserve betterI cry daily for the Walton children as those Walmart employees leech off of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 10:18 PM |
| 8 | Women do not deserve betterMay I propose a cabin in the woods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 10:16 PM |
| 4 | Women do not deserve betterA vasectomy is a simple in office procedure and covered by insurance, sources: friends who got them and a doctor who performed them in his office until he retired. You are correct reversal is not covered by insurance. But neither is tubal ligation reversal. Which is a more intensive procedure (not in office) and it's reversal is even less effective and has a higher likelihood of complications. A tubal ligation is not an in office procedure and it's recovery time is longer. It's probably importan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Women do not deserve betterIf that makes you feel better about yourself then I am happy to help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Women do not deserve betterSo a lot of what you're saying is kind of are kinda bullshit talking points. Do we love to joke about pockets? Yes. But that's not the point. But you kinda just strawmanded that to hell and back. One thing that our government needs to fund research on and the FDA needs to review in terms of existing products is getting different types of male birth control on the market. It's an underfunded area and it needs to be made available. Obviously a vasectomy is possible and reversible, but an option th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Women do not deserve betterPlease proceed to read all previous posts. There is no warfare: but class warfare. Human rights are the focus a rising tide raises all ships. If you'd like to have the argument feel free to create a sock puppet account to have the conversation where someone is making that argument in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 08:45 PM |
| 0 | Women do not deserve betterGoogle it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 07:46 PM |
| 14 | Women do not deserve betterAs a woman who isn't old enough to have been voting for 50 years, but has been since I turned 18, I haven't seen a single piece of legislation I could vote on that would oppress only men. Just crush us all. There is no warfare but class warfare. The sooner you wake up to that the sooner you get that solidarity y'all claim to want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Women do not deserve betterHave you not been paying attention to the dumpster fire? This is human rights. Don't be myopic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Women do not deserve betterYou're just spamming bandwagon fallacy my dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Women do not deserve betterIt's darwinian evolution no? Survival of the fittest or themost adaptable. We are not adapting and hence we are the parts of society that deserve to go the way of the dodo. No. You're operating under the false premise here that: people agree with your poor interpretation of evolutionary biology. I am agreeing with you. Men like me desver nothing and you aren't obliged to make me feel even temporarily better. You're not agreeing with me because I didn't say that in the first place. If that's your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 05:28 PM |
| 15 | Women do not deserve betterThat's a gross oversimplification for voting statistics. Because women and men being broken down by age, socioeconomic, racial, and educational lines all vote differently and are more likely to vote or not, and be or not be educated on what they are even voting on. I live in the dumpster fire so uh yeah ngl y'all practically look like a utopia comparatively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 05:16 PM |
| 34 | Women do not deserve betterLoneliness epidemic? Being left behind? Lack of solidarity? Violence against them? High risk jobs? If we look at these things and say okay why are men experiencing these things disproportionately? You're not going to like the answer. The most obvious is income inequality, removal of human rights, lack of access to healthcare, education, etc. You can say yes but that's not specific to men. But a rising tide raises all ships. So now is it that men are doing poorly and there needs to be urgent reso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Why some view husband material as a form of settlingI wouldn't. But I'm also not going to pretend to be 100% accurate at sussing out the bullshit. I am pretty good at knowing when someone is a bad choice. But what if a guy is crazy and tries choking me or something. My friend tried to go down on a guy on the second date and he said he respected her too much. I was like oh dump him. She did not. He ghosted her on her birthday then dumped her the next day. He was still hung up on his ex. My partner had a string of friends with benefits prior to me.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Why some view husband material as a form of settlingI'm not the marrying kind but my long term partner is not someone I settled for. I didn't want to sleep with him before shit was established because well... If you do I have heard a lot of guys kinda don't take you seriously. But as soon as we were established bam. Maybe it's just my social circle but men have always attempted to date me once they get to know me and aren't just doing a drive-by and noticing my boobs. If a guy wasn't "husband material". You get what you get and that's it. No blow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.Talking shit? You yourself said you use your man as a meat shield. It's not wrong to say you're up shit's creek if fate calls his bluff with someone he can't handle. I think you have me confused with another poster. My partner is just my partner. Not a meat shield. Get mad if you want (and this is where y'all always do) but you absolutely have no hope of refuting the basic fact that you avoid physical risk and outsource it to your man as if we still live in the Stone Age. You literally confessed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.Not really. Profit for women is ego validation. As long as he doesn't break her boundaries the dating scene is all exploitation fun for her. Men provide 100% of the investment up front and nowadays get very little in return even if they succeed. I am not with my partner for who validation. I love him. I love being around him. But I understand a man complimenting me or showing initial interest does nothing for my ego. It's because I know it's not genuine. He wants something. It does nothing for m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.This thread started with calling women lazy, then using a job application analogy. Ignoring there is an entire function within a company just to source for open positions and that their selection and hire costs money, takes time, and requires like min three departments coordinating to get to the offer letter part. Which is why I think OP has never been involved in or understands the hiring process. As someone who is regularly, I think there are many parallels, but it's not a perfect analogy. Say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.There is no symmetry. I love and support my partner and come at shit from a realistic perspective. You're just talking shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.I mean realistically candidates are just firing away their resume like a machine gun. You updated just your resume. The hiring manager, recruiter, and HR made sure the job posting was greenlit. Then went through everyone's machine gun resume blast. And orchestrate all steps to get an interview. As an aside one time we were considering a dude for an interview. Afterwards when the manager was explaining the background check he'd have to go through dude said upfront he had committed a computer crim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.So you agree. You're 40. Elderly people are fucking; people just don't want to admit it so we all just kinda pretend not to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.That's your decision? It's your choice to care about how overall society perceives you. Try having higher self esteem and lower esteem for everyone else. Honestly I try not to be perceived by society at all and only put on costumes/masks in certain situations to be perceived how I want. I have a work mask and costume for example I use the most. It accomplished what I need. Mostly I care what like maybe 10 people max think of me and everyone else can piss off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 11:46 AM |
| 0 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.Hey man you do you. I don't know if it's equivalent to being 40 unemployed living with your mom and her boyfriend or being on workers comp for a "back injury". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.If you think most women suck why pursue them? And why complain about it? Why complain something you don't even want doesn't want you? Drink the fukitol and just shush. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.You're the one choosing to devalue women in the same way idiots who buy McDonald's choose to devalue those that provide them with their mcnuggets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.Eh I feel like matching your partner along the way can be really good too. My partner has always spurred me on to be better. I was broke as shit working two jobs and in college full time when I met my partner who was broke as shit delivering pizza when he was in college. But if you come in guns blazing setting rules for your potential partner instead of being up front. Like if you can't afford a dinner date and wanna do coffee or ice cream in the park just say you're broke baby. Don't act like y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.https://www.clearancejobs.com/security-clearance-faqs#what-is-a-security-clearance-1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.No one meets all of the qualifications. There's this woman who literally has an Excel spreadsheet for dating she sells and it's broken down by core values, flag colors, and a points system. Like a woman can have basic values, criteria etc. but think you cut people off too much while talking and it just gives her a negative impression that sticks. There's listable criteria but dating and especially prolonged dating is such a long list that's constantly evolving. So yeah, it's not like a video gam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.The difference is that a relationship is something I want. A job is just something I'm required to have to live, lol. I don't think I'm less worthy because I'm single but I'm certainly less happy. Call me crazy but I put needs above wants. I was single for awhile because I had pretty strict qualifications. I didn't really struggle with it though but I have a tight social circle and then lots of satellite friends. So I was always with people doing something. When can I start 😎 Put your clearance … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.Yeah, but maybe it's because I do not tie my worth to work at all helps me not care about job rejections. Every time I get an interview I get a callback for at least another round, maybe I just don't care. And this is exactly how people should approach dating. Your worth is not tied to how attractive you are, how many people you've slept with, or if you're in a relationship. That's pretty good! My short one would be November 1st right after Halloween, I came into the office and it was completely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.My friend says something all the time I love: "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take, but Christ aim". You gotta aim. I have had lots of employees and some friends ask how can they progress in their career. For employees it's easy, get more certs or frankly go to the private actual sector where there aren't stringent years of experience rules in place. For some friends I have to say I'm not in your industry so I cannot give accurate advice here. I can tell you what I did generally, but I can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.So you'd have to make the interview first. You'd have to meet the experience, degree, certification, and skill set requirements before you ever got the interview. So while you may be a good interview you may be rejected before you ever get there. When I'm in a panel I am literally just there to vibe check for most positions unless they're in one of my departments. Generally I ask what's the silliest task you've ever done at your current or previous job? It gives you a good look at a person's per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.I am speaking to my workplace experience. We do have 220k jobs. I wouldn't boil a human being to a dollar amount. But there are women appealing to men in a way a 220k job would be appealing to an applicant. I can see where it is coming from and there are parallels between job search and companion search. What I disagree with is that the screening, interviewing, hiring, etc takes effort, ie women can't be lazy. The only difference between a men vs womens here is; the man applies or here is expres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.I wouldn't get pissy. I completely understand and that's reasonable. Why date someone you're not attracted to? Why date someone with a gambling addiction? But I do agree that women aren't a monolith and there are a lot of women who want things in a partner I personally do not. I wouldn't want a man who wanted me to be a SAHM. I wouldn't want a religious man. I wouldn't want a man who smokes or vapes. Etc. like everyone wants to be attracted to their partners. But will not agree on who is attract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.I mean the biggest problem is most people just are suck candidates. Like instead apply to a job you're actually qualified for, get better qualifications, or be unemployed. These are your options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 03:12 PM |
| 0 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.Honestly most companies don't even bother with that. Just having zero job openings makes people think you're dead in the water. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.No one in my company has ever posted a ghost job. Companies do this to seem like they're growing when they're not. But dating sites absolutely create fake profiles for women because their ratios are so overwhelmingly unbalanced. I'd rather stab myself in the eyeballs than go on a date with an asshole for free drinks. Money is a resource you can make more of: time is not. Your attention would have to be worth something to do anything for someone's ego. I 100% hired my friend for a remote job he w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 06:17 AM |
| 25 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.So I don't know if you're familiar with recruiting at all in a job setting but depending on what and where you're posting you can get thousands of completely unqualified applicants. If you're a government contractor it gets even more stringent. You can be very explicit: this job requires a CISSP and a TS/SCI with FSP. And you'll literally have non US citizens applying. Or say they are they don't have an FSP "But I can get one" no sir you cannot because there is a 1-2 year backlog and we're hirin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 05:04 AM |
| 1 | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?This is why they gotta trim. Just some light buzz with a guard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Nobody cares about men’s problems.Uh I have friends. That I listen to, support, have fun with, and some of them are even men. Lots of people care about men's problems the issue is societally we have moved away from well... Having friends. People like to yap about how things were better in the 50s with some stepford wife, but what we're missing is the bridge clubs. Bowling leagues. Block parties. Things our grandparents did while married and having kids that gave them a sense of community outside of immediate family and work. It'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 05:30 AM |
| 2 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionI understand why this is debated endlessly but it's stupid. We all know a girl in our lives whose: mother father, siblings, grandparents, uncles and aunts would all hit the roof if she brought home a 32 year old man as her boyfriend. We also know there are a bunch of men who fantasize about dating the younger attractive women who wouldn't look their way when they were younger themselves now that they have money. We know there are girls who understand this guy is a walking wallet at their age but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Are fully straight women who don't watch lesbian porn minority?I'm not completely straight, seeing Jennifer Tilly in a gold suit in liar liar as a child probably should have been the tip off. I don't think most people are completely straight. I just think men are more closeted about it because of toxic masculinity: see secret grindr accounts held by "straight" men. Y'all have an orgasm button in your ass so do with that what you will. Women being kinda gay is a turn on for a lot of men so it's seen as more acceptable. Additionally emotional and physical int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.You also keep missing the point: act like a normal human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 05:56 PM |
| 0 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.Did you survey women? Most women will say no. Again that's life. If a woman has headphones in: is because she doesn't want to talk. To anyone. Read the room. Social events are fair game, which is why: get friend. Go out and experience life. You can be polite and respectful. Most men aren't. They don't take no for an answer, or do and call you an ugly bitch if you say no. It's like men with these kind of complaints don't know how to comport themselves anymore. Brass tacs, even if I'm completely o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 01:54 PM |
| -1 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.Again see all previous comments. My methodology is solid. Again it's just fear and laziness holding people back. You're going to get a lot of no's. That's just life, if your ego can't handle that dwell under a bridge I guess. You can bitch about that or getting no bitches on OLD. Either way some men just want to complain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 03:59 AM |
| -1 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.Dude I don't like cold approaches where some guys like hey I noticed you blah blah blah. But when people just treat me like a human being and can just like maintain a pleasant normal conversation a bitch might. Get friends. Except you're going to hear "not interested". Someone not wanting to fuck you doesn't determine your worth or value. But having no friends makes me wonder: are you really that unlikeable? Maybe that's why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.Please review the earlier portion where I say: have friends. Like damn you expect a girl to want to spend multiple days a week and sleep over with you and you don't have a friend you can go to a concert with? I spent most of a wedding I was a guest at talking to a random deeply autistic dude mostly about his hyper fixation: pinball. Like it's cool how passionate about it he was. Because having something interesting about you and saying yeah I'll go to this random person's wedding with you is how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 11:10 PM |
| -5 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.Where's that bike ride stick in the spoke meme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 11:03 PM |
| 0 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.I mean I'm not going to lie I play videogames but I also sew, and read, but the secret is I am the friend that's down to clown. Bowling, laser tag, arcade, mini golf, hike, swimming, escape rooms, board games, conventions, concerts, travel to a random ass country, road trip to some weird ass attraction, strip club, roller rink, painting, fuck I went to magic the gathering night... I pretty much say yes to everything. Like just because you saw a meme that says all women do it like phone, eat hot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 10:59 PM |
| -1 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.This is a bit unfair. Lots of guys have outdoor hobbies. How many guys are into fishing and hunting? The real issue is their hobbies aren't popular with single women. How many young single men? How often are they realistically doing this? Is that their only hobby? Like I said: try a new one if all your hobbies are isolationist. You might find you like them. You can't isolate yourself in a forest then complain you don't meet anyone. It's not unfair: it's reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.Or go with me here: having friends you see in person and hobbies that don't involve being in the house improve your life in general. Your mental and physical health improves, you are in more social situations, and you meet new people. All this makes a person simultaneously more desirable and puts them in a situation to meet women. No one is sayIng do pottery exclusively to pick up women. Pick something you have an interest in or do a trial session. You might really like it. Again: improved socia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Why are women like this?I answered, you just don't like the answer. Which is why you resort to being intellectually dishonest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Why are women like this?Cool fallicious argument. At least you're consistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?I personally wouldn't use that word. I was not speaking to my behavior: but to others choice to use certain words as insults. If I'm going to insult someone I like it precise. Persona mapping, you know. Now would others use that insult? Absolutely they do all the time (then start a go fund me when they get fired but I digress). Is it generic? Yes. But the idea is to hit someone where it hurts, and usually within your own morality. Some people have zero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?Obviously not. What an odd thing to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 03:11 AM |
| 9 | Is it true autistic guys have less success because women care more what their friends think than vice versa?I think it just depends on your flavor of autism? I met a guy who was a guest at a wedding and I spent a lot of the time talking to him. He was sitting with one friend looking bored and since I didn't know anyone but my partner I figured hell let's say hello to this dude. His hyper fixation was pinball. Playing them, repairing them, knowing the history of every machine. He was bright bubbly and passionate. But he would pause and give me a chance to speak or ask questions. That may seem like a we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 03:10 AM |
| 5 | "Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real?For some people yes. I was really really afraid of men in my teens and early 20s and because of my upbringing, unwilling to admit I was bisexual even to myself. If I had the confidence I do now and was younger and single I would have likely been more involved in the kink scene and had a few submissives to play with. Because of the disparity in the field I would have been able to have pretty much anyone I wanted. So for me personally, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 02:52 AM |
| 0 | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?It's an easy hitbox. Plain and simple. It's not that people even care about your level of actual sexual activity: they just know it will sting. Same reason men call women slags, fat, fatherless, etc. It's because it's an insult you can throw out that will hurt the person's pride. It's because it's important to the man. Not because virginity is a terrible thing. If your intention is to hurt someone you hit what's important to them not you. Oftentimes people give away their soft underbelly on acci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Why are women like this?so you have no issue with neckbeard men right? I have an issue with people deciding what others deserve as a romantic partner. That's not for you or I to decide. can you be more mature than to drop to this childish "you're so mad bro!" or "oh you're malding". i am not mad or upset. this woman is and my question is why don't question give her constructive criticism or attempt to help rather than feed her ego which clearly isn't working in her favor? Can you drop the hyperbole a fallicious argumen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Why are women like this?So you're doing a thing where you're deciding how people should be paired up based on their appearance "levels". Which is fundamentally kinda not how the world works. You're indignant she wants something you feel she doesn't deserve. As for over 30, you specifically went to an over 30 sub. Women in their 20s will have a different take since the likelihood of their date having a kid they don't mention until the 5th date is lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Why are women like this?Did she say she wanted a model? Or are you being hyperbolic? A coworker used to joke about being over 30 and dating is like going to the dump and finding the least disgusting broken thing. Apparently hell. But we also worked in a notoriously bad area for dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Why are women like this?Regardless of how you look: you're allowed to not be attracted to someone. I may roll my eyes and think god you need to go out and see what actual people look like. But they're still allowed. If a friend lamented this to me I would probably say it sucks, I went through something similar, then realized hey I'm bisexual and women are just generally more attractive than men. Ever consider you're kinda queer? Or like oh god is it one of those ones that doesn't bother to trim their nose hairs or shav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 06:00 PM |
| 0 | When women say they don't want dating to be transactional, they mean they don't want it to be that way for women onlySo this is pretty specific to OLD, these questions. It's the lowest effort method of looking for a partner and chances are people asking for gym and dick picks are either looking for a hook up or even more likely... Not even women. I think it's pretty reasonable if someone is looking for serious relationship and is completely in the dark about you to ask what do you do for a living, currently and if that's not where your ultimate goal is: what is it. If someone is settled and happy with their pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 05:49 PM |
| 1 | The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards.I'm just in a relationship man. Like oh no sorry man. Relationship. Lived together for 10 years. Sometimes women aren't approaching because they are already locked in on a dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategyNah you're just assigning your own strict personal definition as if it's universal. Which it is not. I am not a poor and therefore can afford things. Like dinner and drinks. So it's not arrogance. It's just an accurate description of my situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 12:54 AM |
| -2 | Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategyNope. Courting is basically an old timey phrase when marriage was a transaction between two men. It later became a synonym for what we now would consider dating. It now is most commonly used by Mormons where there are highly strict rules on what is allowable during this phase. Oftentimes the pairings are flat out or borderline arranged. For the non Mormon population there is casual dating and exclusive dating ie boyfriend girlfriend. This may be done with the intent of marriage or zero intent. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 05:13 PM |
| -4 | Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategyIf you're Mormon. Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 04:21 PM |
| – | Women can potentially destroy good menI mean in the fake scenario you've created where a perfect man is beaten down by a harpy, sure. Realistically people are more complicated, life is more complicated than that. Our lives ebb and flow and sometimes we're giving our partners 80% when they're at 20%. But sometimes, you're both at 20%. People struggle to pay rent with both partners working. People's parents' health takes a nose dive and they become responsible. People get laid off. People get promotions. Car accidents. Pregnancies. Me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 04:17 AM |
| 3 | To many women, male attention is low value.Maybe it's because women have been the target demographic of marketing for a number of industries for so long but we're aware of it. Cars, cigarettes, video games, ass wipes, deodorant, etc. It's all for men. Though the marketing geniuses are tapping into new previously insufficiently exploited demos, ie men. Your contributions to shareholder value in appearance based goods and services is appreciated. You don't even know that your opinion is one fed to you born not out of logic but by creating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 08:34 PM |
| 8 | Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare.Dude the way I got my fallopian tubes removed was by getting it piggybacked onto removing a cantaloupe sized fibroid sitting on top of my uterus. I had been asking for a bisalph for YEARS and because of my age and not having had children everyone said no. That was the only way. My doctor has recommended I get a reduction and they would support it with my insurance but I am too scared of the surgery recovery. It's brutal for a reduction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare.Adding? My friend that's the current process. Where have you been? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:01 PM |
| 8 | Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare.In the US you can get a breast reduction medically covered FYSA. The significant back pain documentation and treatment in your medical records can help substantiate it. The reason a lot of people can't get them covered is because when they say oh I got a reduction what they actually got was a lift which also technically includes reduction but won't be medically covered. Kinda in the way gastric bypass is covered but the skin removal is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 03:59 PM |
| 2 | To many women, male attention is low value.Well yes... That's why men should go to therapy: to fix their own problems instead of whining and making it everyone else's. Or take shrooms with a spirit guide. Pick one. I do come from a position of having really good insurance tho so like maybe the shrooms will be more cost effective for others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 03:50 PM |
| 3 | To many women, male attention is low value.You're already programmed consumer. The anger and rejection you feel is profitable to those that acknowledge and encourage it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 03:47 PM |
| 5 | To many women, male attention is low value.Sometimes reading posts here I feel like the mom in the babadook where the kid is in the back of the car just screaming and she yells "why can't you just be normal!?". Except instead of it being a metaphor for unprocessed grief it's like just a bunch of men... Who could also probably have benefitted from therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 03:49 AM |
| 0 | Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men?So first off you use like in your post title but then immediately veer into attraction and relationships. That's your issue. You don't believe women don't like you: you don't believe they're sexually attracted to you. Kind of misleading. To be honest as a woman I am not surprised. And I am one of those women who do feel lucky to have the partner I do because I don't see many men that are like him in general. I wouldn't say he's a paragon or some kind but he has qualities many men just... Don't. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 05:26 PM |
| 3 | I think men’s desired # of kids is higher than women’s desired # of kidsIn a sense you're kinda spot on. Periods suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 03:03 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on shy, no-experience men?Honestly that's straight cougar bait right there. Older women are going to absolutely pounce on that if they smell blood in the water. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 05:41 AM |
| 1 | When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously.There's a movie, I forget it but a man hooks up with his ex-wife who is there too whilst cheating on his much younger, fitter, prettier girlfriend. He complains about how acquainted he is with knowing everything that goes into how his girlfriend looks and he hates it. I like big man titties but I don't like hearing about protein powder, not being able to do things because of diets and exercise, and essentially all the restrictions just to maintain a certain temporary physique that won't really l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 01:48 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personalityProceeds to list rich women who go through men like tissues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling)It doesn't have: medical dental, and vision insurance. 401k match. A reliable salary. And statistics show most women on it make like nothing. The highest earners have existing fan bases from pre established entertainment careers. It doesn't make financial sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Women complain about men lacking commitment, yet society allows women to always have one foot out the door while putting all the risk on men if they do commitPls honor previous statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Women are denied the gift of failureI can't with the typing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Women are denied the gift of failureFrom what I could parse due to spelling, an algorithm feed to you by all forms of Internet entertainment would certainly indicate I am not thinking men are born in 1925. If they were they would have more friends if they were born in 1925 as now with young men multiple self reports during studies and surveys show men to have few or no close friends. Men care more deeply about gender roles than women because they actually care more about how other men perceive them than women. Women are enrolling … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Women complain about men lacking commitment, yet society allows women to always have one foot out the door while putting all the risk on men if they do commitI am factually accurate in the historical context marriage existed which is why you have to keep backpedaling. And yes the groom historically was always in a better situation by virtue of just being a man. You could just stop being wrong and honor your prior statement by not responding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 04:22 PM |
| 5 | Women complain about men lacking commitment, yet society allows women to always have one foot out the door while putting all the risk on men if they do commitMarriage has been a social and economic proposition for men for centuries for peasants as well. Farmers with only daughters needed son in laws. Blacksmiths needed apprentices etc. These agreements often were sealed by the trade of daughters for financial gain of some kind via labor or the removal of the burden of a mouth to feed. Again crack a history book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Women are denied the gift of failureNo most women here say men need to recognize women as people, stop trying to enforce traditional gender roles, make actual friends, get off algorithms, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Women complain about men lacking commitment, yet society allows women to always have one foot out the door while putting all the risk on men if they do commitProjection isn't cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Women are denied the gift of failureI think that's an overly broad claim with no evidence based on your personal negative feelings but you're stating it as fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:11 PM |
| 6 | Women complain about men lacking commitment, yet society allows women to always have one foot out the door while putting all the risk on men if they do commitNah. Marriage was created for economic and legal deals, between men. Since women were property of their father's until they became property of their husbands. Assume historically nothing was ever done exclusively for the benefit of women, if they did benefit it was only because men benefitted more. Until way down the line in the women's rights movement. The purpose of marriage now is still primarily: legal, religious, and economic but as women are no longer property the agreement is between a wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:05 PM |
| 12 | Women complain about men lacking commitment, yet society allows women to always have one foot out the door while putting all the risk on men if they do commitLame dodge. Most states are no fault. You're so focused on your personal morality and imposing it on others you're ignoring the most basic thing: marriage and children are economic propositions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 09:48 AM |
| 9 | Women complain about men lacking commitment, yet society allows women to always have one foot out the door while putting all the risk on men if they do commitWomen like that absolutely do exist. It's just a small percentage, not as small as women who actually receive alimony but that doesn't stop men here from bitching about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Women are denied the gift of failureIt's not that his friends and family didn't accept me. I was just too afraid to try. I have an awesome relationship with his brother, I love our nieces, I try to stop him from fighting too much with his mom about politics, neither of us like his sperm donor but some of his family are great. I get along great with all of his friends and especially their wives and girlfriends. I used to be painfully shy but I had to really work hard to get over it. I consistently talked to him while we were broken… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 09:00 AM |
| 2 | In a societal level, no one is going to grant you freedom from oppressive structures and roles. If you want clemency, fight for it.How we live our lives now shows children choices they have in the future. But technically no the possibility to be who I am now did not always exist. It took generations of women to get here. Gender roles are a social construct and vary based on religion, religion, etc. Gender roles are meant to compel people to behave in a way that the powers that be want. And absolutely calling bullshit people of the same gender don't enforce gender roles because I have gotten shit from men and women about not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Women are denied the gift of failureCool imaginary scenarios dude. Humans (yes including women) can learn from their mistakes in dating if they have some semblance of introspection and the desire to grow and change. Being real my partner dumped me. After a year and a half together. It sucked but he was right for doing it. I didn't take our relationship seriously because he was my first boyfriend and whose first relationship works out? Plus he initially said he wanted a kid later in life and I never did so I avoided things like mee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:11 AM |
| 5 | Women complain about men lacking commitment, yet society allows women to always have one foot out the door while putting all the risk on men if they do commitYet you'd have a problem with a SAHM with no work history for 16 years getting alimony. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:54 AM |
| 2 | In a societal level, no one is going to grant you freedom from oppressive structures and roles. If you want clemency, fight for it.As someone who voluntarily got their fallopian tubes removed to never have even the slightest chance of getting pregnant I honestly don't know what the fuck you're talking about. Changing gender roles starts with you. Individually. Most women have historically become mothers, it's still considered a default for our gender. I opted out. A friend is a SAHD to his daughter while his wife works at NASA. Men have an abundance of ways to not participate in bullshit antiquated gender roles, reject stoi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:50 AM |
| 6 | In a societal level, no one is going to grant you freedom from oppressive structures and roles. If you want clemency, fight for it.Forms of birth control, including vasectomies can fail. Children aren't a punishment for fucking. Exactly as previous poster said: removing foreign organism from body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:36 AM |
| 24 | Women complain about men lacking commitment, yet society allows women to always have one foot out the door while putting all the risk on men if they do commitOh no women are allowed to do everything men have always been able to do! What is the world coming to. Not all states have common law marriage, I live in one that does not, a man who has fewer assets could also materially benefit from this as well so again: oh no women can do what men have been able to forever. Pretty obvious but there is no such thing as biological gender, only biological sex. And there aren't even two biological sexes so don't even try to start with me. Your post is tl;dr how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 08:56 PM |
| 5 | As a woman, women's intuition is vastly overratedI don't inherently think women have amazing intuition about men. That being said Isaac Asimov wrote a short story called feminine intuition which basically explains it as just as a synthesis of small pieces of information and an understanding of psychology.It allows them to come to a conclusion that seems somewhat mystical but it's not. Which is why I say highly calibrated hypervigilant people typically have the best intuition. They spent their childhood analyzing subtle tone, face expressions, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 01:55 PM |
| 2 | As a woman, women's intuition is vastly overratedSame. Give me a person who is hypervigilant due to child abuse and they're like a heat seeking missile for typically imperceptible changes and characteristics that indicate danger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Our culture promotes consent and mindfulness more than ever in history, yet people fuck less than everIt wasn't that people were having more sex it's just that people were doing a rape and calling it sex. Like I think this is fairly evident? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 08:03 AM |
| 1 | If women cant admit needing protection, how can their opinions be trusted on whats good for a countryChuck Palahniuk wrote a book that I think you'll find very illuminating on this subject. Don't just watch the movie. It misses a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One?If I could stay exactly as I am... so I look the same? Does reality warp it's perception of lookism, sexism, etc around me exclusively? I am confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 10:28 PM |
| 3 | The patriarchal agenda: setting up men and women up to fail and be unhappy.But pre prescribed gender roles don't bring what is needed to the relationship. Most homes are dual income. Both parties are working. Many have children. So both parties are making bread but the hourly wage, physical demand, flexibility, days of the week working and commute time likely vary. Which is one of the many reasons why traditional gender roles are garbage. Secondly: protector of the home is not an actual role. My partner doesn't do jack shit to protect my home. Realistically our biggest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 06:47 PM |
| 3 | The patriarchal agenda: setting up men and women up to fail and be unhappy.I mean many religions are inherently patriarchal. Patriarchy is established in their texts. Traditional roles can work but aren't necessary and in the event they do "work" one or both parties aren't necessarily happy with the role placed on them. What we have now requires communication and compromise in terms of household roles and responsibilities that people are famously terrible at and would prefer to just default to I would like some prescribed role that seemingly benefits me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 05:52 PM |
| 3 | The patriarchal agenda: setting up men and women up to fail and be unhappy.If someone is not applying for a job because they like the one they have you can't really get mad at them for not applying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 05:15 PM |
| 3 | The patriarchal agenda: setting up men and women up to fail and be unhappy.Patriarchy is an essential element of conservatism, at least American conservatism. There are also religious and ethnic elements as well. But it's not as if there aren't those who ascribe to liberal ideology who are also patriarchal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 05:14 PM |
| 2 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.All my female friends have great relationships. They were selective and spent years with their partners before marriage. They made darn sure they were compatible and able to work together and compromise before making it legal. Out of my relatives I've been to a ton of 25 year anniversaries over the past 5 years. Out of my coworkers, I haven't heard anyone complain about their wives or husbands boomer style. Did gave a guy whose wife died and that was really sad. Christmas eve too. Our controller… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 07:45 PM |
| 12 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.People do but they're in you know... healthy committed relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:38 PM |
| 2 | "Women are happier single compared to men" is a case of extremely dishonest framingI saw a show with a mid 30s Japanese office worker. She had a routine of a steam bath after work, and would prepare an elaborate meal for after. She'd even pre chill her beer glass before she left for work. It looked not only luxurious but also romantic. It was just her. No man. But still romantic. I love my partner but when he goes on a business trip I do enjoy the quiet and ability to make a ton of plans to see friends and do things just for myself rather than factoring him into my schedule. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:46 PM |
| – | For many women, dating and relationships are basically a business where they try to make as much profit as possible.Consider your algorithm is feeding you what you want you want to see. Most young women I know either fall into the dutch camp or have a boyfriend that does full on princess treatment because they did a trade school speed run and make good money to not really care about Ulta sprees, chocolate covered strawberries just because, and nice dinners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:18 PM |
| – | For many women, dating and relationships are basically a business where they try to make as much profit as possible.Historically it was on men to ask women out and pay for dates. It was so engrained in culture that a special dance was created in highschool where girls explicitly had to deviate from the norm and ask a boy. Again I have heard far more men like so many and even more here complain about buying dinner and "getting nothing in return". With women's earning power though things have drastically changed and I know women explicitly want to go dutch so their date can't hold it over their head to get some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Women associating the male loneliness epidemic with violence is just a smoke screen, and tactic use to shame men back into adhering to traditional masculinity.That's statistics too. Stress from work increases risk too. That's not fantasy. It's an increase yes: but not as risky as trying to leave a relationship. Period. Men are already doing that. I'm just pointing out how women will react to that negatively. I don't need friends, because I don't need external validation unlike some people. According to statistics: men typically have few friendships if any at all and rarely ones that are emotionally intimate. You do need friends and if you think you do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 04:34 AM |
| 5 | Women associating the male loneliness epidemic with violence is just a smoke screen, and tactic use to shame men back into adhering to traditional masculinity.Or a husband who takes his anger out of his wives due to stress from work. Or a controlling husband. There are holes here. You guys just like demonizing men for being single or non traditional. It's statistics. Not your fantasy scenarios. Statistics. Addiction increases the risk. A woman's pregnancy increase the risk. This isn't you spinning a narrative. These are just statistics on what increases the risk of ipv. Women say that's gay, or say men are emotionally attracted to men. You're just mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 09:15 PM |
| 6 | Women associating the male loneliness epidemic with violence is just a smoke screen, and tactic use to shame men back into adhering to traditional masculinity.Because it is BS and just a smoke screen. Since again those women already know husbands and boyfriends are more likely to harm women. But yet they are not pushing this narrative toward men in relationships. I wonder. 🤔 You're missing something really key here. When do husbands and boyfriends become the most dangerous to their partners? Oh yeah when they try to leave. Come on dude at least try to make a point not full of holes. They are afraid that sex robots will ruin the sex market. I for one c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 08:05 PM |
| 6 | Women associating the male loneliness epidemic with violence is just a smoke screen, and tactic use to shame men back into adhering to traditional masculinity.Speak for yourself. My monster fucker dreams could be reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 07:56 PM |
| 1 | We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPDReal shit: the non ADHD partner gets stuck with a disproportionate amount of work. Remember to pay bills? They could never. How long do they leave wet towels in the washer... when was last Saturday? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 05:19 AM |
| 2 | For many women, dating and relationships are basically a business where they try to make as much profit as possible.Never heard of I have to pay for a date what's the point of being with a man. Have heard plenty of men bitch about paying for dates and not getting sex or some kind of physical intimacy after like a bowl of pasta is currency for sex. So not sure what the hell in it for the love you're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?Gen x is a conservative voting block because they follow the previously long held trend of people becoming more conservative as they age, gen x is 44 to 60 right now. Whereas millennials specifically buck that trend and gen z gets even weirder because women skew far more left and men far more right it's extremely polarized. I also didn't even touch the overton window or conservative men explicitly not putting political affiliations on dating app profiles or even wanting who they voted for discus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?You're just saying physical attraction matters with extra steps. Men didn't get radically uglier from the dating years from gen x to millennials. Politics are a major factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?Because based on their values they're more likely to do both anyways? Just because a group of people doing something they're already more inclined to do doesn't combat... Anything? Especially considering the lower rates of marriage and births. The question was why did men become suddenly undesirable. What you said does not combat that but rather enforces why politics are a factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 03:04 AM |
| 9 | Why do women date men at all?First person I met who knew who park chan-wook was. Like good movie taste is important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 04:21 AM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?Two things, one: people figured out politics are linked to morality and ethnics and it's hard to be with someone that has ones incompatible with yours. Men seem more likely to overlook this than women. Two: men went mask off online. It used to be you'd meet a person at college or a party or through a friend. You'd talk about movies or TV shows or whatever you had in common. Now you're online seeing men with awful takes, getting harassment and dick pics (things men irl wouldn't be brave enough to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 08:53 PM |
| – | Men’s Dating Struggles Dont Get Taken As Seriously Because Many People Are Simply Uncomfortable With Criticism of WomenShocker I didn't enumerate all the ways in one paragraph. Go logical fallacy someone else please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 02:34 PM |
| – | Men’s Dating Struggles Dont Get Taken As Seriously Because Many People Are Simply Uncomfortable With Criticism of WomenMarriage has always historically been more important for women. I said what I said. You can dance around and throw out a bunch of logical fallacies but it doesn't change what I said and it's accuracy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 06:00 AM |
| – | Men’s Dating Struggles Dont Get Taken As Seriously Because Many People Are Simply Uncomfortable With Criticism of WomenMarriage has always historically been more important for women due to laws restricting a number of what we now consider a basic right, like property ownership for example. Access to education, good paying jobs, etc. Only now have we entered a time when restrictions have been removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 04:53 AM |
| – | Men’s Dating Struggles Dont Get Taken As Seriously Because Many People Are Simply Uncomfortable With Criticism of WomenAll proceeding human history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 10:02 PM |
| – | Men’s Dating Struggles Dont Get Taken As Seriously Because Many People Are Simply Uncomfortable With Criticism of WomenI think you're confused. Women didn't used to have the choice to not get married. And later when they did society bullied them into it. And they were indoctrinated to marry whomever was around and a "good provider". So no. It's not an illusion. But it does make men uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Men’s Dating Struggles Dont Get Taken As Seriously Because Many People Are Simply Uncomfortable With Criticism of WomenCriticizing women is practically the internet's favorite past time aside from gooning. Same with real life. We can't make any life choice or live any kind of choice without being criticized for it. We're sluts if we have sex and prudes if we don't. We're wrong for putting too much into our careers but also not contributing enough to the household for making less and focusing on taking care of children. We're wrong for divorcing and not leaving. Anything a woman does is always subject to criticis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 03:10 PM |
| 1 | How should woman notice that they date all the same men?You know how statistics work right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:52 AM |
| 2 | How should woman notice that they date all the same men?Yeah that's not an accurate or even good study. Sorry ppd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 09:56 PM |
| 5 | How should woman notice that they date all the same men?That's not how I hate works. That's not how any of this works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 07:53 PM |
| 5 | How should woman notice that they date all the same men?If women aren't attracted to 80% of men why are you assuming the 20% are all the same men? You're not allowing for variance of preference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a bi man?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not care about consent?I've considered. Still seems like it's for someone else. I also don't feel compelled to address it because it's so out of pocket for this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not care about consent?Eh disagree. The idea someone is going to purposely make their life really fucking hard and make people think they should literally die isn't a trendy choice for teens. It's important people in general understand biological sex and gender are not the same thing. That's pretty basic factual information people need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do women not care about consent?Eh disagree, they'll encounter it in the real world, potentially internally, and on the internet. But for safety reasons they should be given factual information. Because I really don't think kids should be getting their sex ed off pornhub and I don't think religions groups should have a say in what is taught in public schools. I didn't learn about it in sex ed, weirdly enough but in 11th grade we watched a documentary on intersex people many of whom had had surgeries on their genitals as childr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do women not care about consent?That's actually not the majority opposition however. Most religious groups who are heavily involved politically object to comprehensive sexual education that includes things like condoms and other forms of birth control and disease prevention items. They want an abstinence only program. A newly added issue is any mention of non straight sex as well because homosexuality is treated like a monster in the closet (pun intended) if you can't see it, it's not there, hide under the covers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not care about consent?I had sexual education in elementary school, middle school, and highschool. Elementary school primarily focused on puberty which many of us were already experiencing or would soon. Additionally it focused on the negative real world impact of teenage pregnancy. When I got my period at 12 I was not surprised or scared and knew what to do. Middle school focused on health and pregnancy prevention. So I knew about STI infections and how they were transmitted. Highschool was more explicit about STIs, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do women not care about consent?Sexual education funding and what is permissible to be discussed is consistently under attack in the US by various political organizations. Please feel free to duckduckgo it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Why do women not care about consent?I believe you responded to the wrong person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 03:21 PM |
| 0 | Why do women not care about consent?You're still using polarization which is kinda my point about the importance and existence of nuance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 03:19 PM |
| 31 | Why do women not care about consent?Both. It sucks we live in a time where they're trying to nuke sexual education in schools because consent is something kids need to learn about. Consent isn't straightforward like people say, for men or women. Couples can struggle with implied consent, obviously sex under the influence is an issue, it goes on and on situations where a person feels socially trapped. I think consent is so often male focused because the overwhelming majority of violent registered sex offenders are men so that draws… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 06:20 AM |
| 4 | Women either can't tell the difference between good men and bad men or men are just being paranoid/irrational about approaching women. Can't have it both ways.I am a woman. I personally am not. Less interaction means less wasted time, less danger, and greater peace. So uh thank you men. Also again: no one wants to touch class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 04:46 PM |
| 6 | Women either can't tell the difference between good men and bad men or men are just being paranoid/irrational about approaching women. Can't have it both ways.So when the not all women are a monolith thing comes up I always wonder why people never take class into account. If you're raised in a trailer park where two doors down there is a meth lab vs a middle class white suburbanite who goes to a four year college and lives in campus housing, these two young women will have vastly different experiences. They're exposed to different levels of criminality, social expectations, what is considered an attainable future, what is considered acceptable behavio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Would you prefer if men put as much effort into their looks as women, or if women put as little as men?A healthier version on 1, basically a slightly modified version of how I maintain myself. I don't like men with underarm hair at a minimum, my personal ick. The hair is an unpleasant texture and deodorant doesn't apply correctly so they end up smelling. It's just like applying hair gel to their pit hair, it doesn't really touch the skin. I prefer no body hair honestly but that's just a feel thing and less of a smell and cleanliness issue. I like men in eye makeup and a moisturizing lip product. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 05:48 PM |
| 5 | We live in a world where women think their farts don't stinkNo we know they in fact do. Also that men will pay money for them. Go figure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 06:18 AM |
| 1 | The manosphere will gloat about men having traits that they themselves don’t even possess.Kay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 03:57 AM |
| 1 | The manosphere will gloat about men having traits that they themselves don’t even possess.No I did. My response still stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 02:42 AM |
| 1 | The manosphere will gloat about men having traits that they themselves don’t even possess.This is about the systemic issue of modern women in general often having a common trait according to some men of lacking in accountability. What you have described is a person of any gender doing something wrong: physical violence is something not gender exclusive and that most people do not in general want to take accountability for it because it results in extremely negative consequences and or are of the mindset it's acceptable hence why they did it in the first place. The conversation is abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 01:22 AM |
| – | The manosphere will gloat about men having traits that they themselves don’t even possess.I don't think Whoopi Goldberg is necessarily the font of reality or wisdom on anything. At this point you're just making things up. Domestic abusers and just physically violent people regardless of gender aren't known for their excellent sense of accountability in general. So in summation your example is shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 11:14 PM |
| – | The manosphere will gloat about men having traits that they themselves don’t even possess.Is this actually quantifiable or just your opinion? And is that accountability prison? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 10:41 PM |
| – | The manosphere will gloat about men having traits that they themselves don’t even possess.But it isn't a women specific issue and so doesn't really answer the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 09:03 PM |
| – | The manosphere will gloat about men having traits that they themselves don’t even possess.So it's not gendered. That leaves me very confused still since it isn't about women, it's just people trying to justify their shitty behavior. I admit I don't surround myself with people who hit other people, I was around a lot of domestic violence and child abuse when I was younger so as an adult I have a zero tolerance for any kind of violence... But even then I question you knowing plenty of people who resort to that level of extreme violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 07:50 PM |
| 0 | The manosphere will gloat about men having traits that they themselves don’t even possess.This is always my question. I genuinely want to know but I think it would only be their personal experience with women and or potentially fictional women they have read about online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 08:43 AM |
| 1 | The world needs more Sigma males, men who are completely ultra self-sufficient and don’t rely on validation from anyoneI just checked... And it's already happened and not in a fraternity/sorority way 🥲 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 12:23 AM |
| 6 | Would you cheat for $10 million dollars; let your bf/husband cheat for $10 million; or neither.100%. You get out there and cheat on me RIGHT NOW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 10:58 PM |
| 2 | The world needs more Sigma males, men who are completely ultra self-sufficient and don’t rely on validation from anyoneIt's not hierarchy so much as general human interaction. Like who are Scorpios most compatible with romantically, is mercury in retrograde and how does that impact you. Stuff like that. I do get that like the whole Greek letter masculinity thing was popularized by using a captive wolf study the author of which has had to provide clarity on because people took it the wrong way. But I think wolves are like cool predatory animals which is why boys like them and used the study to create like their o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 10:55 PM |
| – | The world needs more Sigma males, men who are completely ultra self-sufficient and don’t rely on validation from anyoneIf someone says "I'm totally a Gemini" which is a term used to describe someone as expressive, intellectually curious, and adaptable does that nullify the description? Like it's a cute little tag I get it. Common identifiers create a sense of bonding and community which is why I'm not anti zodiac or Greek letter masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 10:42 PM |
| 8 | Men are constantly told to change, be better, take women's needs into account in everything. Yet, if men dare to suggest that women do someting wrong and should change, it's just their "nature" to act that way.So if they are told these things apparently most men suck at listening judging by the number of men that do this shit and way worse. Like I frequently rode the train to work and never once felt the need to shove my hand up anyone's dress so maybe it's just that I didn't need to be told? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 10:37 PM |
| 1 | The world needs more Sigma males, men who are completely ultra self-sufficient and don’t rely on validation from anyoneI don't think they've done studies on made up Greek letter personalities but I think it's definitely made up for the boys. Like we're so close to Σ on cups and shirts like ♈︎. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 09:58 PM |
| – | The world needs more Sigma males, men who are completely ultra self-sufficient and don’t rely on validation from anyoneSigma, alpha, beta, and omega are all Greek letters. And it's totally a boy thing. Like I think boys are embarrassed to be into the zodiac so they made up like the Greek letter thing which is why I think it's cute. Like it gives boys a way to relate to one another and express what they think of themselves to other boys. That's what makes it so cutesy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 08:51 PM |
| – | The world needs more Sigma males, men who are completely ultra self-sufficient and don’t rely on validation from anyoneCivilization/society structure: Three corporations in a trenchcoat. But little Greek letters are literally just zodiac signs. You make up a bunch of traits and say I am such a Virgo! Or I am totally a sigma. It's the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 08:14 PM |
| – | The world needs more Sigma males, men who are completely ultra self-sufficient and don’t rely on validation from anyoneIt's the first thing I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 08:12 PM |
| – | The world needs more Sigma males, men who are completely ultra self-sufficient and don’t rely on validation from anyoneYeah like I said I think the little Greek letter thing is cute because it's like zodiac for boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:53 PM |
| -1 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeI mean you'll definitely vote to take away people's rights which is why I personally don't fuck with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:39 PM |
| – | The world needs more Sigma males, men who are completely ultra self-sufficient and don’t rely on validation from anyonePeople ascribing a collection of vague traits to an identifier that people can say "omg that's so me!". It's literally just men creating a different zodiac. I'm sure if you asked a libra they'd say it's real too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:38 PM |
| – | The world needs more Sigma males, men who are completely ultra self-sufficient and don’t rely on validation from anyoneI think it's cute it's like zodiac signs. Like new astrology go off. But I think there should be more omega males. Mmmmm breedable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 03:32 PM |
| -3 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeI'm very much in a just go be red pill and rot kinda mindset. If you don't see the value in equality I'm not sure I'd want you at the party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 02:30 PM |
| 7 | for people that were late bloomers in dating, is it normal or just common to have envy/resentment towards people who got to date and have relationships before they did or just people who got to date, have relationships around the typical societal norm of when people have their first relationship?I personally don't have any envy or resentment about dating early because I didn't see a single relationship worth even having. The guys my friends dated were tragic and all of them make fun of their highschool and early college boyfriends now. I couldn't think of a single guy in my highschool that I'd have wanted to go on a singular date with. I do regret not having kinky sex as a young adult though. Just to see how far I could push it. But I was afraid of men and that I would get into a bad si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Women don't view sex the same way men do (referring to previous post).That whole thing was debunked which is why it's not available anymore. If a premise is too overly simplistic and has no controls it doesn't actually say anything. And we're not talking mathematical average but if we did men would still be lower. They put in less effort and grooming is a huge part of attractiveness: see neck beard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Women don't view sex the same way men do (referring to previous post).Sounds like the guys who think they're average are actually unattractive (maybe unattractive is the average?) and believe they deserve more than they put in work for out of sheer entitlement in all aspects of life. But especially dating. If the average man is treated like shit by everyone, maybe the average man is shit but he can't smell his own filth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Bi sexual men/women are way easier to date.Disrespectfully: bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Bi sexual men/women are way easier to date.Ah yeah the bi people cheat stereotype. That old chestnut. I get red pill dudes are absolutely terrified of being cheated on because it destroys their tenuous confidence but anyone can cheat. You can 100% mitigate that risk though by never being in a relationship though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | “Acting nice” and making friends is the only way for a guy to get laid or a relationship in literally almost any contextI think you need a primer on how humans work. Friendship have mutual effort, friendship have natural ebb and flow, friendship have fun, friendship have shared interest, friendship have shared history. Etc. Like all this shit is very basic and the fact you can't grasp it is well... Exhausting. You're an exhausting person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 02:33 AM |
| 1 | “Acting nice” and making friends is the only way for a guy to get laid or a relationship in literally almost any contextAs someone who puts a lot of effort into their existing relationships and subsequently have long lasting fulfilling ones, I got a pretty good grasp on what every social scientist backs up. Relationships need continuous nurturing. If you don't they'll suck. You gotta stop proving my points dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | “Acting nice” and making friends is the only way for a guy to get laid or a relationship in literally almost any contextThere are no areas in life where you will initially be more successful with high degrees of empathy. It only helps for keeping existing healthy relationships, which in theory shouldn’t require effort. That's just dead wrong. Like both accounts but it's shocking as hell you think existing healthy relationships shouldn't require effort. Maybe not therapy of humans a basic guide would be more appropriate. That doesn’t necessarily make me an improvement or less optimal than others It makes you less … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 12:28 AM |
| 1 | “Acting nice” and making friends is the only way for a guy to get laid or a relationship in literally almost any contextI am generally successful with people Except in areas where it matters but okay Believe it or not, men have a bunch of issues in common with each other that tend to be different than the issues that women have in common with each other You have a fundamental deficit from most of the human population. Whether you have other issues in common isn't relevant, yours explicitly are the result of a deficit the vast majority of the human population do not suffer from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 11:33 PM |
| 1 | “Acting nice” and making friends is the only way for a guy to get laid or a relationship in literally almost any contextASPS and the like aren't terribly common. Not being successful with people in general kinda just makes you a comfy cog. You'd have to go to a specialist who deals with your issues, which do exist because they perform a different kind of therapy, not talk therapy which is kind of what you are using reddit for in this post honestly. Except your sneaking your personal failings by as if they span a gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 08:45 PM |
| 1 | “Acting nice” and making friends is the only way for a guy to get laid or a relationship in literally almost any contextSo psychopathy isn't a real diagnosis. Worth seeing someone. But knowing your family history why would you apply your own world view and problems onto men in general? You have a neurodivergence most men don't. So applying your issues to the general population makes zero logical sense. All that said if you have an issue that you cannot get what you want out of life due to a condition, seek therapy. May seem like bullshit but your current approach clearly isn't working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 07:09 PM |
| 1 | “Acting nice” and making friends is the only way for a guy to get laid or a relationship in literally almost any contextMy excessive comfort with isolation, lack of interest in others, natural annoyance I feel towards people, preference for hobbies I’m actually interested in, habit of never keeping my connections with literally anyone, and low social battery? This sounds like a deeply unappealing type of person for anyone. This seems more the root of the entire issue you addressed as if it's an endemic problem. I’ve seen what isolation does to old people if they go for decades. They go crazy. Yes and the #1 thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 06:37 PM |
| 1 | “Acting nice” and making friends is the only way for a guy to get laid or a relationship in literally almost any contextQuestion, and I can't believe this is an actual question I have to ask: why can't dudes just be genuinely nice and have genuine friends? Why can't they hang out, do activities, and go on outings for the sake of like enjoying their company and I dunno meet someone along the way? This sub is so weird in that men literally don't seem to have friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Women are having bad experience in dating because of their own choicesSo I think the issue here is that you're assuming that generally men and women value the opposite sexes attention, especially sexual interest in them, equally. But they don't. Women tend to value it much less. An attractive man wanting to have sex with you can be nice but probably not really. Men will fuck a cantaloupe. Consider the source. The roi for casual sex isn't high. Women have bad experiences dating because a lot of men just flat out hate women, but they like the feeling of sex and subs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 08:16 PM |
| – | Why do so many women say their low sex drive in marriage was due to lack of emotional attunement & burden of household chores, yet immediately start enjoying CASUAL SEX after divorce with men they share no emotional connection or household chores with?So I feel like when my parents got divorced their social lives both benefited from 50/50 custody. They went from balancing parenthood and a larger house to only having their kids half the week and for my mom, a smaller apartment to maintain since she moved out of the house. So realistically imagine going from kids in the house seven days a week to 3-4. A lot of women generally end up with their spouse qualifying as a dependent. Cook, clean, shop, organize, majority child care, all while also wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Do you know what makes a good gf /wife?It depends on the person now doesn't it? My partner absolutely wouldn't seriously date a woman whose primary aspiration was stay at home mother. So I am a good match. But for a man who wants a 1950s marriage an aspiring SAHM would be perfect. So you need to align with future goals and lifestyles. That's step 1. If you don't do this it makes everything harder. Then there are the overall things; how you deal with conflict, are you considerate of things that are important to your partner, etc. It's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 02:42 PM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.Just don't man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 01:08 PM |
| 1 | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.It's a bad study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 09:02 PM |
| 2 | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.Honestly may you're kinda just describing slow deep fucking. I don't think the cervix is it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 08:39 PM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.I get that but have multiple woman asked for it. Like explicitly and repeatedly. Because I don't know a single woman who has ever brought it up. And I've caught some weird ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 08:10 PM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.Because you can always trust Google. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 08:08 PM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.I said flat out: I have never met a single woman who has said yes I like being poked in the cervix. Not one. I have talked to size queens who express why, girth is important to them more often but length typically is appreciated on a position based type thing. Longer means certain positions just hit better but others like the mating press aren't preferred because of the depth of penetration. The vagina lengthens based on arousal but it has a max length. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 07:55 PM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.So they're explicitly asking you to hit their cervix and not suck on their clit? These multiple women whose vagina length is variable depending on arousal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 07:51 PM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.A man on women's sexual pleasure: trust me bro Clit yes. Cervix no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 07:24 PM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.Dude who enjoys being punched in the cervix? Legitimately because I have never met her. Please for the love of God never go near a cervix. Pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 05:24 PM |
| 8 | Men need to stop being logicalSo your entire previous comment isn't accurate. Cool cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 07:02 PM |
| 7 | Men need to stop being logicalI swear you're saying we don't do risk calculations but most men here say we do too many. Trying to convince us to not work, have kids, trust men, etc. pick one! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Men are dumb and vote against their economic interest for some perceived macho reasonTo understand the whole picture you need to hit all three parts: and say the quiet part out loud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 06:42 PM |
| 3 | We Need More Reserved, Scolding WomenIt's more there is no silent majority, only a very loud minority. That being said I can't think of a podcast that does appeal to millions from varied walks of life. All have their overwhelming demo, insert age and gender, typically the content as time progresses becomes more honed to appeal to that demo. Preaching to the choir as it were. That's what right wing content is overwhelmingly. Secondary it's pipeline content to nudge people into full-blown right wing content where the algorithm helps … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 06:39 PM |
| 6 | We Need More Reserved, Scolding WomenI don't think it's accurate to say right-wing content is very popular, it's viewed. It's heavily pushed by algorithms, about to be more so, and hate watched. Is it genuinely popular among some demographics? Yes. But women are generally not the target audience. They had to create an entirely separate pipeline, tradwives, the entice women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 01:49 PM |
| 0 | Men are dumb and vote against their economic interest for some perceived macho reasonOhhhhhhh I'm sorry unfortunately that's not the correct answer. We thank you for playing but the answer was actually white christian patriarchal ethnostate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Why it's not "paranoia" when men worry about being taken advantage of financiallySo my partner has done things at certain points in our relationship men here would absolutely have a stroke over. I think the biggest thing for him though is: he wasn't broke. He wasn't hard up for money so if I wasn't contributing to rent or the mortgage 50/50, or at all it wasn't a big deal. The person with more to lose will typically be more invested in getting a prenup though, regardless of gender. But I think if someone is so incredibly paranoid about it it's hard to have a good relationshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 11:39 PM |
| 2 | The Manosphere doesn't care about men's issues Vol III: Trump's military policeJust assume all roads lead to killing poor people and you'll be right 99% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | The Manosphere doesn't care about men's issues Vol III: Trump's military policeIs English not your first language? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 12:10 AM |
| 0 | The Manosphere doesn't care about men's issues Vol III: Trump's military policeWhy would the government want to send people they classify as undesirable to probable death? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 12:03 AM |
| 4 | The Manosphere doesn't care about men's issues Vol III: Trump's military policeObjectively? No. Do you know a linguist can be a combat rated position? Do think a really good translator needs stringent deadlift requirements? Realistically warfare is very different from what it used to be. Currently this is all just macho posturing to hide something more nefarious. Never ever believe the initial reason given. This move allows them to remove career military and screw them out of benefits. It allows them to deplete our service so that if a conflict occurs a draft where they wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 02:25 PM |
| 5 | The Manosphere doesn't care about men's issues Vol III: Trump's military policeYou're misreading, these standards are waived: in the event of the draft specifically. Realistically the administration announced they met their recruiting numbers earlier this year while omitting they dropped the target number. Any conflict would trigger a draft at which point standards go out the window. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 05:46 AM |
| 7 | The Manosphere doesn't care about men's issues Vol III: Trump's military policeTo be fair a lot of people don't fully understand the implications of these decisions. I certainly didn't and only do now because my partner was in the military during OIF and in a combat rated position, one you wouldn't necessarily even think is a combat rated position, and he explained it to me. They're essentially making it so the draft will pretty much auto trigger if we get into any serious conflict. And it seems unlikely the administration will conduct the draft as it was previously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 04:11 AM |
| 30 | The Manosphere doesn't care about men's issues Vol III: Trump's military policeYeah my partner was talking about this. He was in the Navy. In addition to the physical fitness standards they changed things like shaving chits which disproportionately impacts black men. The physical fitness standards change will impact older men who have been riding a desk for 14 years and get little physical activity. By the end of the conversation I've concluded I'd like to formally apologize to the men here for saying the draft would not be enacted. They'll bounce people from the military … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 09:59 PM |
| 10 | If women don’t dress provocatively for men, what do they do it for?I have this dress with a print on it from an artist I love. Its got a fair amount of cleavage, but to me my boobs are just there. They're kinda big and even if I wear a crew neck tshirt you can still see they're obviously big. So do I sometimes wear 3xl hoodies? Yes. But I don't necessarily feel my best in them. I love fashion and art. So I try to do elaborate makeup and hairstyles when I can. Are they styles men like? Oftentimes nope, but I like them. Like I like my cleavagey dress. Do complime… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 07:06 PM |
| – | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.Its the guy putting a stick in his bicycle wheel meme. They want to have the relationship arrangement they want and they don't want their partner to be able to break up with them if they don't agree to it. That's it. That's the real issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 03:46 PM |
| 1 | It IS society's fault that many neurodivergent men are unable to find a partnerSo you know better that your flavor of autism is not someone else's. And that asking a person a question isn't out of the realm of possibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Current cultural/gender war is partly a fight over who multi-million dollar companies should pander toGender war and culture war is to distract us from class war. That's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 06:59 PM |
| 1 | did all of your partners grow on you?I don't know at what number date you're having sex with prospective partners but I feel a bit like stating the obvious here: you'll either grow to like the person more or less. Or find out you have incompatible lifestyles or values or whatever. But yes. Someone will "grow on you" or you'll realize they're a waste of time and energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | It IS society's fault that many neurodivergent men are unable to find a partnerHe said many have come back drunk later. Which is actually the perfect time to ask because lack of filter. Also let's not treat neurodivergent people like they're not capable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 01:47 PM |
| -3 | Q4W: Would you rather be the king's mistress or a peasant's wife?Aqua Tofana is the only way. Ahem, I mean woman owned and operated small business. I've always had a passion for community and entrepreneurship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 05:25 PM |
| 2 | It IS society's fault that many neurodivergent men are unable to find a partnerProbably? So you've never asked hey why did you ghost me or treat me differently after your friends talked to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 03:24 PM |
| 0 | It IS society's fault that many neurodivergent men are unable to find a partnerFill in the blank. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 01:08 PM |
| 1 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.The entire crux of every man who has argued the exactly same thing is: "I don't want my girlfriend to be able to break up with me if I don't." That's it. Not that it takes god like power to not buy an engagement ring. Also: no that's not what the MGTOW was originally about or what it's about now. I don't know if you're just confidently misinformed or lying. Either way gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 01:07 PM |
| 9 | It IS society's fault that many neurodivergent men are unable to find a partnerIts not because neurodivergence is a wide spectrum and people fall in different places and some are very adept at masking. So what is OP leaving out? My friends don't like you because: fill in the blank. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 05:36 AM |
| 1 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.Men are notorious for being stupid as fuck when they think with their dick or have their rational faculties addled by emotions that were injected into them by women, especially when they think they're in love and just want to please the woman. This you? You're literally saying women inject men with emotions? like some kind of fucking neurotoxin. Men do have control over buying a damn engagement ring and proposing like holy crap. This doesn't require godlike powers to not do. My issue is every si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 05:29 AM |
| 7 | It IS society's fault that many neurodivergent men are unable to find a partnerOP has stated he doesn't advertise he's ND. So what exactly are they saying to ward off these multiple women? He doesn't make eye contact? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 04:34 AM |
| 10 | It IS society's fault that many neurodivergent men are unable to find a partnerBut if their friend group finds out who you are and warns them off you have to have some kind of reputation. I feel like you're leaving something out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 02:59 AM |
| 2 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.You're taking away personal responsibility and autonomy when you say things are injected into men. A man doesn't have to be "red pilled" to make rational financially sound decisions. I am completely shocked you'd imply men are by default stupid and prone to make bad decisions. I knew I needed to take certain steps to ensure my quality of life. Complete the necessary education to secure a high paying job. Never marry or give a man children, be up front and honest with him on this. Choose a man wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Can you “love” and “lust” after the same person?This is an obvious yes for me. I have been with my partner for over a decade. He regularly has to tell me "I am not a piece of meat" (he's only half joking). He's agreed to wear a Catholic priest cassock and I am so hype I'm salivating. But if he ever says "bad boys" my nipples will be completely soft and vagina as dry as the Sahara. Stop that shit. As for height I personally don't care. I think if you get off Internet brainrot you'll find while most women will prefer a tall dude but they won't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 05:46 PM |
| 3 | What do you think is the biggest hurdle toward empathy for men?I think the largest part is I can't understand their lived experience so often the best I can do is sympathy. I have a friend whose father just died. He lost his mother to breast cancer three years prior, his parents had him when they were much older so he's lost his parents at such a young age now. I don't understand what that feels like. He knows I helped provide end of life care for my grandmother who was like a mother to me and my great aunt. So he has talked more to me about his experience … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 05:24 PM |
| 6 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.It's no different than a woman being pressured into having an abortion It's very very different. Marriage is a big expensive party with a legal contract that can be voided at anytime by either party. You're the height of dishonest. If a man is pressured to propose by his partner but he does not want to marry he is under no obligation to propose. He can simply: not. Will he lose his partner? Highly likely but this is a positive thing because there's a massive goal and value misalignment there. Yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 08:21 PM |
| 4 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.Breaking up especially with a long-term GF after 3-5+ years isn't a consequence-free decision, either. That can hurt women, too. Yes obviously. But do you know what's worse? Going through with a marriage you know has a high likelihood of failure and worse potentially dragging kids into it. Breakups hurt but getting hurt is a part of life. Obviously, no matter what you do, you're fated to choose, and doing nothing and rotting alone is also a choice - I'm just wary of easy answers. Just do X. Ofte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 05:10 PM |
| 9 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.And that's a bad decision on their part! Don't make bad decisions then blame and resent your wife! You're asking for misery and or divorce. It's their choice and their fault. People need to take accountability for the choices they make in life. Its disgusting we're infantilizing men like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 04:35 PM |
| 7 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.No. If during any point in a relationship one party is not okay with the other person's behavior it's on them to communicate it. If they don't: that's on them. If it's a deal breaker: it's on them to end things. Do I think stressing about napkin colors is silly? Sure. Do I think spending that much on one day is silly? Sure. But it's not my life. And if they and their fiance want to do the damn things it's not my business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 04:29 PM |
| 14 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.This is such a word salad. Either date someone, agree on values, future plans, and go through with it. Or don't. Its that simple. Who gives a fuck if your longtime girlfriend you're considering marrying calls you an incel? This is just the reddest flag telling you to end things immediately. Go find someone else. I told my partner straight up. I will never have children and am not interested in marriage when we first started dating. He did want a child and only thought marriage was applicable whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 04:23 PM |
| 11 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.Because it's usually what the woman wants, and the men are trying to make the women happy. And I will say it again: the fact a man would do this is beyond stupid. Will he do this throughout the entire marriage? Agree to things he's not okay with, things that don't align with his values just to make his wife "happy"? No. Of course not. The fact that this is getting ignored by you just doesn't make any logical sense. My only conclusion is you're desperate to remove all autonomy from men. They are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 04:10 PM |
| 13 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.Again: men have a clear indicator by literally seeing the wedding planning. They are overwhelmingly the partner to propose: thus initiating the contract. How are they NOT the ultimate arbiter of their fate? You're just getting mad at women for acting a way that a man voluntarily opted into and oftentimes spends five figures to go through. I am absolutely mind blown you think men are somehow not entirely responsible for following through with their choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 03:57 PM |
| 20 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.a lot of men out their go through with a marriage because it's what their woman wants, and they want her to be happy. This is a beyond stupid reason to get married. Especially since it is literally a government sanctioned contract. You don't get married to make someone happy. Its a legally binding partnership. But they don't realize that they're digging their own grave once the woman realizes what is on the other side of that. Again this is their own fault if this is truly the case. Imagine gett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 03:39 PM |
| 26 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.So I'm not a huge proponent of marriage (I'll never do it myself), unless you plan on having children because then the various legal protections and mechanisms benefit them so it should be non-negotiable. But you're really removing any autonomy from men. They have the option to not propose or call off an engagement. They don't need to proceed with something that doesn't align with their values and if they do that's their own fault. You're acting as though men have no say or can't foresee that ce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Men contribute very little to their kids life besides the economic contributions.I think if you're looking at boomers and older Gen x, sure. But millennial fathers are spending more time with their children than any prior generation. I fundamentally disagree with OPs position. Realistically I grew up with a mixed bag of shitty boomer parents around me. I truly believe it's just endemic of their generation. Frequently divorced, often looking for. New spouse and neglecting their children to do so while struggling to blend a family. Not to mention untreated mental illness, a cu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Men contribute very little to their kids life besides the economic contributions.So I may be an outlier here in certain respects but very common in others. My parents divorced when I was younger and they split 50/50 custody. My dad was very involved in my brother and I's life, less so when he remarried because he just worked all the time, and after my brother decided to live with my mom full-time... But this man took me prom dress shopping. He had pizza movie night every other Friday because he got us every other weekend and sat through the weird indie movies when it was my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 04:52 PM |
| – | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyNo... Because in order to buy the cheap house you need a down payment. Which means you need a job that allows you to meet basic living expenses and save. Then you need a reliable car. Then you need car insurance, maintenance, etc. Then you of course need healthcare. So, no. No you cannot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyYoung. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?None of this changes religious values are a key determining factor for many people. Like come-on. Don't lie. I do just find the Mormon points funny tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?Dude you get extra Mormon points if you convert someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyIt can seem that way. Especially when you're young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyI would encourage you to call 988 if you are in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyI just let people believe what they want about that one, I don't need to be right or debate it. I've been told I'm going to hell more than once, it's a shrug moment for me. Whether I do or do not is immaterial to me. But they absolutely being a c*nt and going against their own scripture by doing it so fuck em. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyIn my experience you can only argue the opposite. What I mean is if someone of the Christian faith argues Christianity is proven by various scientific phenomenon it's a very easy counter. No it can't because it is literally not designed to be. Your god wants you to take it on faith. The whole point is that you cannot definitively prove it. I personally do not care about being right or not. I concede I cannot truly know. But I do know that what is around me matters to me. My friends matter, my fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyI don't presume to know anything and I find talking to people with a faith based religion your kind of tact doesn't really register. Since they take things purely on faith you can talk science until you are blue in the face but at the end of the day you don't agree on a core premise. But I think we can all appreciate small joys in life and try to focus on that when we feel like life isn't worth living because of something like sexlessness which is highly likely to be temporary. Emotional distres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who believes women are not unreasonably picky: What kind of experiment do you think would produce solid, empirical results?Limited sample size? Only responding to you and how you approach people and dating? This is in no way scientific and cannot produce empirical results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.I'm not disagreeing? It needs to be an effort we all participate in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.It is social conditioning to a large extent. You think homophobia and biphobia wasn't something taught and culturally pervasive? The thing about Grindr is it's informed by my experience with men in the LGBTQ+ community. It sucks seeing friends breakup due to pretty much infidelity options on tap. I know that their ex is shitty for cheating but dang. That being said in my personal life if someone makes a gross statement I'm going to call them out on it and try to have a conversation. But honestly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 03:15 PM |
| 1 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.I've already said it's bullshit? I've already said it's patriarchy negatively affecting men. I've already agreed homophobia is at play. I don't know if you just want to desperately be victimized at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyVirginity may seem like the end of the world right now but it won't be forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyEh by virtue of you having access to Reddit and the bandwidth to complain about women I'd say your life isn't actually miserable but I understand you feel that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:22 PM |
| 1 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.Not dating or sleeping with someone based on perceived promiscuity is a secondary decision made after you are sexually attracted to someone. Yes. What you are talking about is a common excuse made by women to disguise the fact that they find male homosexuality sexually repugnant Repugnant or fear of being cheated on by someone of the opposite gender is typically what I hear. Like I said I prefer bi men, but there's a similar phenomena in the lesbian community that bi women are PNG for some women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyI do hope you will speak with someone on this, if you are in the US please dial 988. That being said I believe that if this is all there is than this is all that matters, I do not believe in an afterlife. I used to tell myself there is still pierogi I haven't tried and that was just good enough to get me to the next day. I basically trained myself to find joy and beauty in the mundane. Ghibli films are great for this. Carry-on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:17 PM |
| 6 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyMost do require a legitimate visa. And in the US it's not even unaffordable to buy a house for most but just to afford rent on a studio apartment with a roommate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:13 PM |
| 7 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyMany can get by working part-time or a minimum wage job and have it be completely sufficient. This is not possible in the US where I live unless someone else like a parent is subsidizing your literal existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 01:40 PM |
| 5 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyUltimately by feeding and educating children you create a better world for yourself. Less crime, younger individuals able to provide services and elder care as you age, etc. it's an overall benefit to you. You pay taxes for lots of stupid shit. But feeding kids is not one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.Nope. Just facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:32 AM |
| 0 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.Not really when a large part of why women aren't sexually attracted to bi men is because of the assumed promiscuity. Bi women have a similar issue when they're dating women. Are some women upholding patriarchy and homophobia? Of course. That's a no shit thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 12:56 AM |
| 6 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.So I'm bi and my preference is bisexual men. The sex is just well more fun. They're open to a lot of things straight men aren't. And it's honestly a tingle moment when a guy is confidently bi. The issue is honestly: Grindr. Cheating is so easy for gay and bi men. You want to talk about women having casual sex on easy mode? We don't have shit on gay and bi men. Pretty much all my gay friends relationships ended due to the discovery of an active Grindr profile. Not kidding. But, and I cannot stres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?Oh absolutely not, I actually don't even believe in it for myself. My partner and I have been together over a decade, no plans to ever marry. I'm not religious. I think marriage is reserved for only people planning to have children for the children's legal position and protection. Otherwise why get the government involved? Why commingle finances? Like I said if you wanna date or cohabitate you do you. But it doesn't change that a lot of this post doesn't apply to you given your age and history. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?Absolutely not if you're still interested in dating, you should try to do what makes you happy. But I think in the context of the thread many things don't apply to you. For example the premise that men have things women want that would make them good husbands, no longer applies to you since you've already been divorced. This is complicated because you are no longer a young man who has good husband qualities but an older man who demonstrably has bad husband qualities. I know of lots of divorced a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?Well yes, but this is a post to women on dating men. Divorce instantly makes someone less attractive, short of kids it's pretty much the ultimate baggage. It's just the way it is. No one wants to date or married someone divorced. If anyone lists qualities they want in a partner they will never list: divorced. Having money and a reliable car are great. But people can have that and no failed marriage. Its not a one or the other thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?Kay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 07:33 AM |
| 0 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?Exactly what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 01:01 AM |
| 0 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?So this is more due to the fact your social circle has decreased drastically, your age bracket is pretty paired, and dating a divorced guy in his 40s is pretty meh. Especially if he has kids. So comparing dating when you didn't have an ex-wife to two decades later is kinda a bad comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?Hey man you do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 11:37 PM |
| 0 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?You're still dating in your 30s and 40s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 11:36 PM |
| 10 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?I'm going to put forth an idea, if someone is extroverted and willing to put themselves out there, doesn't it stand to reason they'll have more dates and relationships? They'll have more life experiences overall? Could it be that more introverted men who marry later in life only do so because they feel a greater push to get out there and date because they see the clock running out? And that it has less to do with attraction changing and more to do with the men simply being visible and willing to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?Kay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?Nah. I just call it like I see it. I really don't understand how I can be that clear there's nuance and someone responds with "actually you just admitted there's only two". I'll correct someone every time. I get I hit a nerve with you. You can absolutely explain how you came to the wrong conclusion, please by all means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?I call em like I see em. Me calling out a false dichotomy in the first post then you immediately following up trying to qualify it as one again is like damn dude. Like distilling nuance down to a point that someone did not make but you claim they did is exactly the line of thinking I called out. Hit dogs holler. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?A spectrum inherently means: there aren't two types. Not to mention since women aren't a hive mind what we qualify as husband material will be completely different. While a Mormon woman or conservative Christian woman will only accept someone in their religion or committed to converting, there are plenty of women who don't want that at all and immediately disqualify men with those qualities. You're trying to shoehorn in a false dichotomy simply because it's easier to not have to process nuance. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 04:24 PM |
| 12 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?Nah. My partner was exciting to date, had amazing life stories. Was an Air Force brat. Went into the Navy. Spoke multiple languages. Got combat deployed. Lived in another country. All the shenanigans that happen during that. He'd drink and party with us. Lots of women in our circle were into him. But he also was and is the best dude. Like will help you move across the country kinda dude. Empathetic, supportive, compassionate, like everything anyone would want in a husband or father. I think ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsSo to be clear: some forever alone virgins aren't abusers simply because they don't have the opportunity. As for abusive men being in relationships there's a whole defined process: love bomb, trapping the victim financially, through children etc. Most people don't know what they're getting into. The ones that have heard rumors? The community usually props the abuser up, their victim is a liar or the abuser knows to target someone for whom abuse is just a part of what they perceive as love, usual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 03:22 PM |
| 1 | The ability to find FWBs, not relationships, is the measure of how sexually attractive a man is.He's a 5'11" short king. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doSo you know the amount of time, effort, and money that goes into black women's hair yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doStill disagree I'm half convinced the entire Margot Robbie is mid thing was a psyop to ratchet up men having unrealistic expectations of looks in their partners by the beauty industries to sell more shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doWhat are you selling? Fucking optivia like some Mormon wife? Or are you just like a cashier? Holyshit man I didn't even get into the politics, policing, cost, and maintenance of black women's hair. Like just shot yourself on the foot so damn hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doIt again comes down to men just want it more. That's it. Its not that it's harder it's that if you want something you have to put in the effort. I'm contending only that OP is wrong about men putting more effort into their appearance, that there is a higher bar. But there isn't. Long hair, shaving your body hair being a cultural norm, and the multi billion dollar industries with primarily women as customers that focus on increasing attractiveness begs to differ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 10:42 PM |
| 0 | Men have it harder in dating than women doI specifically chose to focus on things people are born with or develop that are perfectly normal: but do not fit the beauty standard. So acne, body hair, skin tone, etc. and lots of people have acne. The skincare industry wouldn't be so booming if they didn't. Just starface patches everywhere I look. Women have more extensive grooming requirements. For example long hair for women is associated with femininity and beauty. Meanwhile some guys just go around with a buzz cut. Your haircare ain't sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doNot even close to true. Men will get turned down left and right if they come looking like that. It would be nice but that isn't reality at all. Men have to look the part and do all the initiating. They will defiantly do that even for the women that aren't all that in the looks department. If that were true I wouldn't see so many ugly men who don't even shave their neck in relationships. I won't deny that the impetus is still primarily on men to initiate a conversation or express attraction but I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doClassic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doMy point is: hitting the attractiveness scale for women costs more money and is more time consuming, it's harder. Men can have fucked up eyebrows, a bad fade, armpit hair, cheap I'll fitting clothes, boxer briefs with holes in them, all that and still rate as attractive. Meanwhile if we go out without our legs shaved it's ugly and somehow unhygienic. Spare me. I mainly focused on things people were born with or that required product, time, and attention when I listed things off. It's why I didn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doStellar argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doI maxed at 25 for stats on obesity. And didn't include children because... Gross. And not all men are attracted to big boobs? That's obvious? Just like all women aren't attracted to tall men. Weird how that works. I am also not allowed to have TikTok installed on my phone due to my job tho. But you're clearly somewhere in the Internet rabbit hole that's divorced from reality. You keep moving the goal post on the body thing. I also think you just have unrealistic body standards in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doYeah but many guys love blondes so it wouldn't make anything difficult. You just personally don't like it but its heavily desired in our society. Especially if you live in the u.s. Whether you avoided the sun or not it still wouldn't make dating hard in the least. These are just your own personal dislikes. Which is fine of course. Its specifically my brows and lashes that come with my hair that are the problem as I pointed out. Dark think lashes are a beauty standard so are shaped defined brows.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doNope. Beauty standards are absolutely not propagated exclusively by women. It's propagated by anyone looking to make money. Like I said billion dollar industry. Also any guy calling an actress famous for her beauty mid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doAh yes the eternal conundrum, men simultaneously built society but everything in society is women's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 09:01 PM |
| -1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doBased on "eye tracking" even in younger crowds where pregnancies have little impact, girls are more likely to be obese than boys, and CDC data backs that up as well. Nope actually boys and young men are more likely to be obese. According to multiple sources. Including the CDC. Like I said pregnancy is a bitch. But men also die from more obesity related diseases too. So it gets y'all at every age I guess. Again... been married, I absolutely know what is important in my observations of beauty, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Men have it harder in dating than women doThey are plenty of en that would be into women that are pale and blonde. I know. I'm not single. I just personally don't like blonde hair and having to avoid the sun like the plague. Acne is an issue for sure but many makeups exist that can cover up any without much issue. So these aren't concerns that cant be taken card of. I have clear skin, I know about skincare (like actually), but I know lots of people for who it's been a struggle since puberty. Hormonal acne hit a lot of my friends really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doOkay you're just divorced from reality cool cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 08:30 PM |
| 0 | Men have it harder in dating than women doThis doesn't negate anything I have said. Billions of dollars across multiple industries targeting women's looks. Men just are finally having to deal with being really evaluated on their looks like women always have and they hate it. Welcome to the club! Attractive people have the halo effect in every industry. News to no one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Men have it harder in dating than women doDon't worry I don't feel bad. I have clear skin, thanks to actually knowing about skincare that fits my individual needs and I dye my hair red just because I like it better than blonde. Being pale just sucks for the inconvenience. Constantly avoiding the sun and stuff. But I have a partner. I feel pretty. I'm good. But I won't stand for bad skincare advice. That shits just evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 08:13 PM |
| 0 | Men have it harder in dating than women doYes because madmen were of course know for being all uh women. Marketing to female insecurity was invented by men. Literally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doYes the multi billion dollar industries that thrive on female insecurity about their appearance can simply not compete with the Supercuts and boat shoe industry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 07:58 PM |
| 5 | Men have it harder in dating than women doSo problem with that NIH statistic is that it includes women who have given birth and post menopausal women. This messes up your body pretty severely and impacts your ability to lose weight. Like realistically you're not looking to date a 50 year old mother of two with a skin apron from her two pregnancies. Men don't have a life event like pregnancy that so fundamentally alters their body. But based on eye tracking the first thing men look at is: the face. Before the boobs, hips, belly, it's the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory.Again please Google all positions they're all laid out. I could link you the let me google that for you but I don't even have the energy for the snark. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory.Dude I don't have energy to get into gerrymandering and overrepresentation of conservatives in state legislation and how that impacts state by state abortion laws. I don't need to get into doctors being afraid to perform procedures due to someone disagreeing with the medical necessity of a life-saving procedure. Again: Google Marlena Stell if you want a peek. Like honestly if you're curious why, don't ask me. Google it. Its established. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 05:58 PM |
| 6 | Men have it harder in dating than women doSorry for being born extremely pale and blonde? I'm not thrilled about it either. I am always covered in sunscreen. If acne were abnormal there wouldn't be so many skincare subs and so many products to address individual needs. Its all trial and error. I'm sorry you have misplaced confidence in a subject you know nothing about. The fact you talk about spas like it's a real casual thing just shows how out of your depth you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory.Sir, third trimester abortions make up 1.1% of all abortions. Do you think women carry a pregnancy for 21+ weeks for funsies then go lol nah. 92% are 13 weeks or less. Don't be obtuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 05:43 PM |
| 11 | Men have it harder in dating than women doAcne can be treated with salicylic acid which is ridiculously cheap, hyperpigmentation can be treated by kojic acid/hydroquinone also really cheap and these issues aren’t limited to one gender if anything I see more men with acne than women. So no. That is patently false. Ask any dermatologist if salicylic acid is the acne cure-all. They will laugh in your face. Hormonal acne women experience is something very different. Your years of research didn't pay off. Who’s asking you to have curly hair?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory.So it's always above 50% but the number can spike drastically based on say: in cases of rape or incest. Or when the life of the mother is in danger (this also taps into religious text as this is in the Torah where it is explicitly approved of). Typically people find the first and second trimester more palatable without connecting the dots that a third trimester abortion overwhelmingly occurs because something is wrong with the fetus or the birth will very adversely impact the mother. Strict anti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 05:22 PM |
| -5 | Men have it harder in dating than women doSo 1. If you want it more of course you are going to put in more effort. This is an obvious thing. Being attractive is not only a shit to of effort: it's expensive. You have hormonal acne? Birth control or androgen blockers. You have persistent acne: accutane, at which point you go through dry gross skin. You have scars or hyper pigmentation: tret if you can get it and for most $90 a tube. And that's just clear skin and we're not taking on insurance or not. Then we have moisturizers, toner, exfo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.Wrong. Thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.I mean like I said: wrong thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.Yeah like same. Embryo. Liquid nitrogen tank. Also: not the right thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.Oh bro they don't explain in vitro fertilization in junior high biology. So I know a lot of people are like they freeze "eggs", but married couples will often freeze fertilized eggs: embryos. Hope this helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 04:26 AM |
| 0 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.Nah man my cousin has some embryos in a liquid nitrogen tank somewhere round town. But I think you're in the wrong thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 04:09 AM |
| 2 | The ability to find FWBs, not relationships, is the measure of how sexually attractive a man is.I know many women who begin a FWB in the hopes of it becomes a relationship is the thing. I caught some strays because my partner had multiple fwbs shortly before we got together. They mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 04:03 AM |
| 0 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.Yeah it's heart disease. Why you posting stats that prove it's heart disease then say it's not? Its odd. But anyway, OP was talking about creepy behavior. I think the issue is because there's thought to be no threat of danger behind it that it doesn't qualify, which it definitely does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 03:49 AM |
| 6 | It's probably a good idea to implement programs specifically to lift up boys and men.Unfortunately it starts with: don't be born poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 03:41 AM |
| -1 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.Nah man it's heart disease. Second is cancer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.Its heart disease bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 03:29 AM |
| 4 | Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory.To be fair centrists aren't even centrists, thanks Overton window. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory.Now do an age breakdown of the 40%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 09:44 AM |
| 5 | Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory.Not in the US. More than 50% are pro legalization in all or most cases. That percentage can vary 10%+ based on phrasing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 09:43 AM |
| 1 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsOn no she doesn't do all the cleaning and it doesn't eliminate daily while downs from us. Laundry still needs to be done, cooking, dishes, grocery shopping, etc. I also find most people are absolutely filthy. I have things steam cleaned and my baseboards done for example. Then add kids on top. Oof. There's a reason I work and don't do that shit: it's easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 04:06 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsWhich is? Because realistically most people cannot afford lawn service and housekeeping so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:02 AM |
| 2 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsYes I understand not everyone can afford this but it is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 11:36 PM |
| 0 | People hate male insecurities for two reasons.But that's men's choice to accept insecurity and date it. That's their choice, that they don't have to make. They could choose better but I listed two reasons why someone would be fine with insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 03:30 PM |
| 8 | People hate male insecurities for two reasons.Everyone has insecurities, but I've seen people with really big ones do awful shit to others to feel better about themselves. This isn't gendered. I won't be friends with someone who you can tell us ragingly insecure 10 minutes into meeting them, why would I be attracted to them? I guess the only reason someone would be is because they want the satisfaction of fixing them and creating some kind of codependency or they just flat out want someone easy to control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 11:35 AM |
| 10 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsI pay a guy to cut my lawn it's like $50 a month. I pay someone to clean and organize my house, she sets her price at $20 an hour. Both my partner and I work and honestly neither of us want to do chores. So we try to minimize what we can by just paying for it. Honestly it's not trivial. Its so fucking time consuming and annoying we decided to throw money at it to never have to deal with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?Its not. Moralizing: it's ick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?Ick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Most men have more to loose from socialismOkay that is NOT something I hear. Literally ever. I hear about income inequality, how unaffordable everything is, how the minimum wage is not a living wage, but never how great it is living on a single income. This is from EVERYONE single men and women, cohabitating couples, and married couples. Why? Because our current state is: neo feudalism and it sucks. Now do I enjoy rights my grandmother did not have? Absolutely. Do I enjoy the lack of social pressure my grandmother and mother had to subm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 08:28 PM |
| – | The Truth About FeminismEh just sounds like someone trying to convince women to behave and think how they want them to. Pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Most men have more to loose from socialismSo you think it's better to... Be bound together out of the necessity of neo feudalism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Most men have more to loose from socialismOkay so we're going to need your reading comprehension because that's not what women are saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Most men have more to loose from socialismWhat's the name of the post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Most men have more to loose from socialismI mean that's not my position. I have some really good friends though, my besties are women but I have male friends too. I legit feel sad for people who have no friends or even just really close friends. I think people can get too obsessed with having a partner to validate them they skip building meaningful friendships. So when they're single or get dumped they feel completely hollow. I don't know what women here said a boyfriend or husband is 100x better than a friend but damn. No. Never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 03:20 AM |
| 5 | Most men have more to loose from socialismI was not this crazy hardup when I was single. I hung out with friends and had my emotional needs met. I always beat this drum but do y'all just not have friends? Like intimate friendships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?Okay but that just means guy who does the bare minimum and is like vagina please. This is understood. The other one just gives the ick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 02:54 AM |
| 5 | Most men have more to loose from socialismDid you ever consider maybe people want other people's lives to be better too? Not like government assigned gf's but like healthcare? A living wage. Just because someone's life is peachy doesn't mean they inherently want others to suffer... Why would you think that they would? That's... Is that how you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 02:43 AM |
| 10 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?I swear y'all are usually the phrase "bad boys" tooday to give me the ick so hard I don't make it to the plane tomorrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 11:15 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?For me it's really hard because the definition of blue pill and red pill varies from person to person. There is no actual true consensus. I mean there is married red pill for crying out loud. But the thing that always got me with the red pill is that it's inherently a lie from it's very existence. Its adherents are not Neo. You do not know the truth only a select few know. You are fighting no system. You are simply chasing your true desire. It's accepting a truth about yourself, not society or w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Through technology we have enabled women to prioritize short term dating hence why they are choosing men who would traditionally wouldn't be a good choice for marriageSo I guess my question is what classifies as a "bad boy" because all I can think of is some 1980s dude riding a motorcycle your dad doesn't really like. Whereas I think, and I could be wrong, men mean fuck boy but don't want to use those words. But also only a small subset of women are living like this so what I said: still stands. 100% disagree on knowing if someone is marriage material. Shit so many women have get out moments after moving in with their boyfriends they think they'll end up marr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:48 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?I guess I have two initial questions, are you happy now? And are you getting bitches now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:41 PM |
| 8 | Through technology we have enabled women to prioritize short term dating hence why they are choosing men who would traditionally wouldn't be a good choice for marriageAren't women just behaving like men now that they have the privilege? But also I disagree with the premise. Women are trying to find out if someone is worth an LTR and since people like about themselves on such a grand scale (surprise I actually have a whole ass child) it's difficult to parse through. Also please stop using the term "bad boys" it's so cringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Female teachers are largely responsible for systematic misandry in the educational system.There is a substitute shortage unfortunately. Teachers don't have a lot of flexibility to even take sick days so granting the required drills days seems like a bit of a hurdle. I really just think pay is the way to go. There are many shortages occurring in necessary fields typically due to low pay plus high burnout. Nursing, teaching, mental health services, primary care physicians (you get more money if you specialize), etc but it's becoming such a problem and will only get worse. But everyone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Female teachers are largely responsible for systematic misandry in the educational system.How would they work around the required drills? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Female teachers are largely responsible for systematic misandry in the educational system.I assume we're not talking about Bisphenol A... So not sure what bpa pollution you're referring to is. Boys would typically be 19 as opposed to 18. And it gives them a year to close the gap in terms of critical development by delaying a year. For example my friends son was evaluated prior to entering kindergarten. They recommend based on his development he be in the "young 5's" program. He gets an extra year of schooling and will graduate a year later than traditionally. They are now concerned f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 12:59 AM |
| -2 | Female teachers are largely responsible for systematic misandry in the educational system.So Richard Reeves has an interesting proposal and that is redshirting all boys as a policy. This means starting boys a year later in kindergarten than girls to close the achievement gap. He also advocates for more male teachers however I feel like until the low pay is addressed that it's not likely. What's interesting is primary school educators have historically been majority women. But the education gap has only been identified recently, as children are on college preparatory curriculums and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Women, when you say an “unattractive” woman is attractive — do you actually mean it?Dude it's highly subjective for men and women. With women they're acknowledging that attractiveness is subjective, but also if you don't have anything nice to say... I won't say it. Men in a group will defer to what they know is conventional even if they are dyed in the wool chubby chasers because they don't want the judgement from other men. For me men are more likely to lie about what they are attracted to when around other men whereas women will tell other women to pluck their unibrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Women, when you say an “unattractive” woman is attractive — do you actually mean it?This is the truth the way and the light. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 08:52 PM |
| 30 | Why are modern women against the idea of submitting to their man, but all for the idea of submitting to their boss?I don't submit to my boss. I choose to work instead of "submitting to my man" because: I collect a paycheck, get health insurance, 401k, and contribute to social security and Medicare taxes. But most importantly: the money is mine. I don't have to ask to make purchases or get an allowance like an adult child. Also divorce isn't kind to a woman with no education, work history, etc. I have set work days and times. I am not a 24/7 365 on call servant, which is effectively what you are if you don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 08:45 PM |
| 8 | Men arent fighting a war we are just fighting back against MisandrySo you admit women are not calling for men to be killed. Your issue is a theoretical draft. Quick question, who put in place the draft? Who excluded women from combat positions? Just out of curiosity. Also no. 97% of all college grants are not women only. I don't know if you're purposely lying there or just misreading something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Do you resent being "at the mercy of your employer?" Or serving a "corporate overlord?"And that's lovely your aunt told you about them. But you aren't from some great dynasty. You're just some guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:26 AM |
| 10 | Do you resent being "at the mercy of your employer?" Or serving a "corporate overlord?"I feel like it's strange when people talk about legacy as if they're someone from an important dynasty. Your great grandchildren won't even know anything about you. Most average people just end up planted in the ground where family doesn't even bother to leave flowers. I think in terms of career it depends on what it is and what you did in it. A researcher who improves quality of life for millions of people leaves a legacy but the father of Brayden and Brynlee doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Women, are you consciously aware you treat attractive men differently?Dude I know how much those magic the gathering cards cost. They can afford deodorant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:15 AM |
| 1 | What advice do you give to the younger generation of your gender when it comes to dating the opposite genderYes yes yes same with my partner. Still love. I have vastly different advice based on LTR status. Like #1. Before you get pissed off at him ask yourself: is this the hill I want to die on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 02:09 PM |
| 0 | What advice do you give to the younger generation of your gender when it comes to dating the opposite genderYes yes my partner says the same thing when I'm on the couch in a giant sweater playing videogames. But that's love, not attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 01:00 PM |
| 2 | What advice do you give to the younger generation of your gender when it comes to dating the opposite genderYou'll note I said skip OLD. A friend was on a second date before he told her he had a five year old, so he hid his child from her. Then when a guy asked her if she'd mourn him if he died she said I don't really know you so, no. He flipped out on her. Berated her and she just said okay please never talk to me again. But I find friends of friends safest. Mixing friend groups is the easiest way to meet someone. Go as your friends plus one to their event etc. just say yes to going random places. Ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | What advice do you give to the younger generation of your gender when it comes to dating the opposite genderFor the plot I mean free trips and stuff. I don't mean dating some 45 year old divorced dad. That's not a good drinking story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 08:05 PM |
| 10 | What advice do you give to the younger generation of your gender when it comes to dating the opposite genderIn no particular order. Never send nudes. No matter how much you like him they can always be used against you maybe not even by him but they could end up in the wrong hands. If he's a decent guy he won't ever even ask for them. Have fun date around don't commit too early. Primarily focus on friendships with women. Moving in with your boyfriend in your early 20s sounds fun until all you do is fight about bills. Leading into that: don't fall for the sunk cost fallacy. Leave if it's not working how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Dinner is not "the bare minimum" because in current year, every girl has slept with at least one guy without the need for itHere here. It's why I won't marry my partner. He wasn't a virgin. And it's why I won't give him children. No marriage means no children. Sluts don't get a bloodline. I do love his slutty ass though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 02:19 PM |
| 3 | The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the worldI appreciate the concern. Short of my partner (of over a decade) getting a traumatic brain injury I trust him. That being said I won't have children and I won't ever get married so fortunately my belief system and what I want out of life protects me even if he does get a TBI. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 02:12 PM |
| 0 | Women bully each other into hypergamyHonestly I am not sure. If someone is exposed to a lot online content that gives this kind of impression then could they genuinely believe this is how women talk? I mean it's not as if the poster is in women's private spaces to actually know. But either way it's not accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Women bully each other into hypergamyI am not sure. I have never heard a woman say any of these things in my entire life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Women bully each other into hypergamyBut would you concede it's a pretty reasonable question if he has a restraining order? A divorce? You know a serious red flag? Wouldn't you want your friends to care enough to ask the same questions if they had concerns? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 04:16 PM |
| 1 | The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the worldI'd think that's a pragmatic response? We have to deal with the unfortunate reality of our world. I think you're the one here focused on getting a gatcha or putting points in the board. I know this is a debate sub but it's not like people are at two opposing podiums. I often ask questions to better understand where a person is coming from. My partner often says if you're going to talk to someone about something you need to agree on a core premise, otherwise it's pointless. I don't think we agree… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 03:58 PM |
| 1 | The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the worldNope. Just genuinely curious. I appreciate his position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 02:01 PM |
| -1 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sNot in my experience. All the husbands of SAHMs I know can't wait until their kids are old enough for her to at least get a part time job. Extra income is nice to have. But everyone bitches about their job. My partner hates that he keeps bringing up issues and then 6 months later when it inevitably happens they ask him how do they fix it and he says well I had a solution 6 months ago per this email but let me just solve it by COB now that everything is melting down. Or that his counterpart talke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 10:44 PM |
| 5 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sOkay in all seriousness though I hard passed on motherhood and being a SAHM because it seemed miserable as hell. I work an office job and regret nothing. I log off and you know what I do? Whatever I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the worldThe commenter I was responding to discussed gender neutrality and roles we're supposed to perform in society. Painting one's nails is not a form of gender expression. It's just wanting colourful nails. It's an activity that was gendered. Doing an activity or wearing something that was arbitrarily gendered and society reacting negatively is due to the expectation we perform our gender a certain way, our gender role. I was clarifying with the commenter. Your comment is unnecessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 10:09 PM |
| 3 | The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the worldJust checking. Sometimes people think neutrality is inherently masculine activities. Rock on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 04:27 PM |
| 13 | The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the worldFor me it is informed by my life experience so I don't view my bias as inexplicable. I have been sexually assaulted by multiple men. So I am more wary of men. This means taking precautions like only sitting next to women in the metro. And getting up if a man asks me to move my bag to sit next to me. I have been sexually harassed by multiple men. So I avoid them to be perfectly honest. I find in the workplace they aren't often cooperative or refuse to accept my words that their ask has been depri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 04:22 PM |
| 3 | The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the worldI mean yes. But serious question how do you feel about boys engaging in traditionally feminine things. Like mom painting her nails and her son asking if he can have his nails painted orange. Or wanting an Elsa costume because his hyper fixation movie is Frozen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | a man’s prime ends before a woman’s doesI honestly don't know that the scientific community has broached this subject. Things to definitely invest our money in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:31 PM |
| 2 | a man’s prime ends before a woman’s doesLesbian manicures are a whole thing. I am going by a mix of the parent comment which calls out women specifically but I also feels it applies to men. If someone awkward and clunky on the dancefloor or just refuse to dance it shows a lack of how to move their bodies and if they refuse all together a lack of confidence. I'm bi so I do tend to cover the spectrum. I also think it helps to level set the expectations are largely the same. Then a subsequent response on BMI, which if you're not attracte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | a man’s prime ends before a woman’s doesI didn't say we were flamingos. I said it's a good indicator of it they can fuck good. Not that they will. I know a guy who is 5'3", is amazing on a stripper pole, lives in his car, and fucks big titty goth girls. Life is diverse and weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 01:31 PM |
| 1 | a man’s prime ends before a woman’s doesFor anyone planning to have sex with a woman the nails need to be clean, filed, clipped short (at least the index and middle if you wear gel or acrylic), and have well maintained cuticles. Put those fingers to use. Come on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t more men use sex workers if their main goal is simply sex?I have never known of any job that pays the efforts you put in so I am genuinely curious what industry you work in. I am just saying my approach and many women I know is different? Basically there's a mini checklist first it varies but like: am I attracted to you? How old are you? Do you want children? Do you have children? Have you been divorced? Do you have a criminal record? What is your education/vocational training? Are you religious? What is your political affiliation? Then once the base c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 07:08 AM |
| 3 | a man’s prime ends before a woman’s doesIt means you know how to move your body, especially your pelvis. This is key. Like so key. We get it you want someone who meets your aesthetic preferences and that is cool. But dancing is a damn good indicator. That and how their nails look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 06:58 AM |
| – | a man’s prime ends before a woman’s doesYes and that is why dancing is a good indicator of if someone is a good fuck. I have no guarantee a gym rat is not going to not do oral and just lay there and want cowgirl or reverse cowgirl every time. That being said some weight behind a mating press is *chefs kiss". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t more men use sex workers if their main goal is simply sex?It feels very strange that some men seem to look at women and evaluate their ROI (dates ie money the investment return is sex). I understand that you'd like that initial investment to pay dividends overtime. Is this why so many men who aren't well positioned in life think they want they do about themselves? Because they are expecting women to invest in them (albeit much more long-term)? I often hear men wanting who support their "building" or something to this non specific effect. Generally the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 06:44 AM |
| – | a man’s prime ends before a woman’s doesRespectfully this doesn't not mean they will not starfish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 06:32 AM |
| 6 | Wow, older women really are full of baggageI am deeply confused why men think baggage is exclusive to women. I know a guy who got dumped by a Mormon girl in highschool because he wasn't Mormon and he made his entire life about opposing the Mormon church. And I am not being hyperbolic here because he: moved to salt lake City Utah, protested outside their churches, and is now in seminary school to become an evangelical pastor. All this because a girl in high school dumped him. His wife doesn't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 06:33 PM |
| 0 | A relationship between a man and a woman cannot be equal. The woman holds all the powerIf this is how you view women, relationships, and this is the strat you are setting yourself up for failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:15 PM |
| 8 | Wow, older women really are full of baggageNot enough liquor in the world could get me through that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Women, are you consciously aware you treat attractive men differently?Yes I do tend to treat well groomed people who smell nice better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Do you think preaching about normal well-adjusted people can be dismissive of women's issues?I think if you said that for many subjects it could be true. Now for human interactions and understanding dynamics, absolutely not. I think it's really important to remember studies of human behavior are often inherently flawed. If they're survey based, if they're only located in one geographic location, if they only have a small sample size. If they're limited to a dating app. Unfortunately the value of reading somehow rarely included understanding studies and how to interpret statistics. Many … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t more men use sex workers if their main goal is simply sex?So I don't know how you personally feel about it but I've seen many comments from men who certain things are weakness and just simping. So I guess I am just wondering what earning it looks like to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?I said what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?Pulling numbers that have no basis in reality makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?No. We are not Ben Shapiroing this shit. We are not "let's just say for the sake of argument"ing anything. We are not going to say let us have a serious debate about numbers I made up. No. I won't participate on that level of idiocy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?I won't answer a question that fundamentally misrepresents what I said. That is a trap. That is a dishonest question. As I said: I don't agree the small percentage of men women are attracted to are the same men. Hence me taking issue with your use of "the top 10%". Because this is literally what my initial comment already addressed. Many men are under the misconception that the "top" 10 or 20 percent get all the women. They believe the "top" men are rich, tall, fit, etc. Problem is what they are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Men are the prize.You're not referring to common sense. You're upset at the disagreement with your worldview. Your opinion is not common sense, it's based on your feelings. You can't argue common sense based on personal feelings and celebrity relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Men are the prize.Why do these men care? They're not going to date those women, thus problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?Nono. "Top" why top. Stop misrepresenting. Just answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 05:08 PM |
| 9 | Men are the prize.You're simultaneously saying men are the "prize" but then talk about them as if they're simpletons incapable of making good decisions for themselves. How is that a prize? Viewing people as prizes to be won isn't particularly healthy. I'm all for self esteem but why would you try to date someone it seems you fundamentally don't respect or even seem to like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 08:50 AM |
| 13 | Men are the prize.So why don't men just not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 08:31 AM |
| 13 | Men are the prize.Who makes them feel this way? What are the hoops? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 07:33 AM |
| 12 | Men are the prize.How are men being manipulated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 07:23 AM |
| 0 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?Why edit out "top 10%"? If the meaning is the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?I never said I agreed women like only the top 10% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 06:40 AM |
| 3 | Women using antidepressants more often than men doesn't mean they secretly want to be tradwives.Yes it is. Pro-birth is pro women for starters. Its not. Giving women the choice to have birth or not is pro woman pushing towards only one option is not. Providing parental leave is pro woman. Access to healthcare. Lots of things. But pro natalism is not pro woman, and so you don't purposely create a strawman neither is anti natalism. There's a reason so many conservative men want women to have more babies, but it's for pretty insidious reasons. Great replacement theory etc. And before you say … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Women using antidepressants more often than men doesn't mean they secretly want to be tradwives.IFS is: pro birth. Pro traditional marriage. This is in no way "gyno centric". But if you don't want to follow the money and think critically by all means be my guest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 05:52 PM |
| 19 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?I agree that most women are only attracted to a small percentage of men. I just disagree it's the same men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Why are you on this subreddit?I find it interesting especially since Gen Z men are leaning conservative politically. I think the gender wars are kinda a distraction from income inequality because it's an easy tactic to blast culture wars rather than address people can't afford rent let alone a home. I like to poke around people's brains and see why they think the way they do, especially since every insult is an admission so I wait for someone to betray themselves. I've always been quiet in real life and just listen to people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:13 PM |
| 5 | Women using antidepressants more often than men doesn't mean they secretly want to be tradwives.People really gotta check their "statistics" source matters. Method matters. How participants are selected matters. Etc. Its very frustrating because I see statistics bastardized here so often and I just cannot. I won't deny that while I am not married I have a gorgeous partner and he makes my life more joyful, I am still on antidepressants, a mood stabilizer, and anti anxiety medication. I have a genetically inherited illness and bad anxiety from a not great childhood. It doesn't mean I'd sudde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 03:13 PM |
| 6 | Women using antidepressants more often than men doesn't mean they secretly want to be tradwives.Eh there are studies that cite unmarried childless women as the happiest. A direct contradiction. Also I struggle to take a man who divorced the mother of his child and wife of 27 year's for a much younger research assistant on his word about the felicitations of marriage and children. Also published by the IFS, a conservative think tank (look at the sources cited at the bottom of your article), which is a source cited so you really have to question the validity since a primary part of the Ameri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 01:46 PM |
| 4 | Modern Western women are just digging thier own gravesI'm sure into a very prosperous blobfish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Modern Western women are just digging thier own gravesSo pick a different golden period and reconcile you'll be worm food soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 06:12 AM |
| 4 | Modern Western women are just digging thier own gravesI said what I said. You're like slavery! What a golden era! I'm not surprised. But in a way it makes me really glad humans are so fragile and die so the subsequent generations can piss on their graves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 06:06 AM |
| 4 | Modern Western women are just digging thier own graves1800s to 1950s is the wests golden period? I'm just going to assume you do know the 13th amendment was ratified in 1865... So you're counting golden period as: slavery, civil war, Jim crowe era south, WWll... I can keep going but oh boy my guy. You're really saying the quiet part out loud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Modern Western women are just digging thier own gravesDidn't you hear you're the last plane out of nam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Males should be told to dress betterI view curation of personal style as a part of someone. Taste is something someone has. So it is a part of you. Now if you want genetically determined features you had absolutely nothing to do with being praised I guess that's your prerogative. Now if you want compliments on intelligence, humor, or perspective those will be rarer in general because it requires a more in depth conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 10:35 PM |
| 4 | Males should be told to dress betterNo. Men should be encouraged to dress better so they can stop complaining no one compliments them! I love when men wear florals and aren't afraid of patterns or know what bold colors suit them so I always give compliments. Statement shoes. Being confident enough to accessorize. Come on guys stop complaining start putting together fits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Women would like to meet a guy who didn't see them as romantic prospect first, but will get annoyed if he isn't hot enoughNow what kind of pics are they asking for sir? Is it one of her smiling in a turtleneck? Cuz I don't think so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 05:56 PM |
| 0 | Shifting preferences is the root cause of bitterness and trpWhat kind of women are you hanging out with that are attracted to felons!? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 05:39 PM |
| – | Could it be that women like "aggression" which is aimed to support their protection and not aimed towards them?My partner is a pacifist, he's a vegan for christ sakes. But he's a big guy with intimidating eyebrows. So he deters creepers by just existing near me. I think aggression is kind of unnecessary? Most men won't mess with you if you're with a man, any man, he doesn't even have to look like a mob enforcer. I also feel like there's this survival instinct in me that screams in your ear even when his aggression isn't aimed at you: if he can do that to someone else he can do it to you. Which is probabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Women are the choosers, Men are the committerTwo people choose to be with one another and both parties can choose to commit to one another or not. This isn't hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themI buy most of my clothes online which are usually shown on a size 2 or 4 model. It arrives and I find out it doesn't exactly fit me quite the same. The dress has way more cleavage than expected, the skirt cups my butt where it didn't on the model. You run into the issue where if you order a size up its too large on the waist and or shoulders. I'm willing to tailor higher end pieces but a dress that's only $100 it's kinda not worth it. One of my favorite dresses has a print from an artist I reall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 04:44 PM |
| – | Were the guys who hurt you the most actually hot?Eh I think you're basing your beauty standard on something that's enhanced and filtered. Plus I think people find it psychologically gratifying to call people ugly especially when they feel that way themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:10 PM |
| – | Truth is, lnceIs are probably the last hopeless romanticsHow can you be a hopeless romantic if you fundamentally hate women? The math ain't mathing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | What is bare minimum behavior for women in a relationships?Hey the more you know... I guess my main point is like... Consider one another? Put in effort? Be a source of comfort? Like generically because like omg there are so many factors in what would be considered the bare minimum in a relationship. But I think we can agree they're identical between genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 05:27 AM |
| – | What is bare minimum behavior for women in a relationships?Already did a test. We good. Its not pure agar agar, its teaspoons added to primarily water. It thickens it similar to a vegan jello or Panna Cotta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 05:19 AM |
| – | What is bare minimum behavior for women in a relationships?I'm a monster fucker with a slight medical kink and I like butt stuff? But yes 100% it will melt. It's just water, pectin, and agar agar. Safety is key. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 05:15 AM |
| – | What is bare minimum behavior for women in a relationships?This is why you're married my dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 05:11 AM |
| – | What is bare minimum behavior for women in a relationships?My asshole obviously. Because who doesn't want a man in nitrile gloves popping alien eggs into their butt? But in all seriousness my friend is an EMT and told me they'd kill me if I used silicone ones. So you can make them and they just melt in your body and my other friend whose a pastry chef helped me make them and she cracked the code that if you're going to use a gelatin alternative: agar agar mixing it with pectin as well gives it more stability. Don't want it breaking during entry right? B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 05:09 AM |
| – | What is bare minimum behavior for women in a relationships?That's still too complex to answer due to variable circumstances and I'm making agar agar eggs for my partner to shove into me tomorrow after he comes home from his business trip so I know a lot about relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you?I try to have some empathy because I know a lot of them went through a bitter divorce and are looking for guidance in their moments of weakness, and unfortunately the algorithm feeds them these guru's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you?Never said SF? Not even in the top 15 riches counties. Loudoun county. Arlington county. Fairfax county. Falls Church county. All metro accessible. All top 15. Get good. Also not everyone has annoying ugly friends, are you speaking from personal experience. You should like your friends bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you?I mean I made a guy delete his comment because he fell into the every insult is an admission trap. So he got something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you?Dude I thought we agreed SF was a wasteland. Just because you got divorced/dumped doesn't mean everyone else will dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you?Nono you've convinced me I'm special. The rules just don't apply to me or anyone I know. The universe revolves around me. Thank you for making me understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you?Oh god no SF is a wasteland. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you?I am actively dating someone who makes over 200k I don't know what to tell you man. So I guess the rules don't apply to me. Or the men and women I know in the richest counties in the country. Yay me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you?Again with the trust me bro. Most women aren't aiming there. But it's not as hard as people are making it out to be. Literally the most challenging part is geography. That's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:04 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you?Again: geography. Realistically if you live in Missouri your odds of running into a 200k man is more challenging where in Loudoun county you just gotta throw a rock. The dating market is a lie because unfortunately dating isn't widgets. It just makes men feel better. Nuance is scary so people make shit up to be less scared. You're not even giving anecdotes btw you're just making statements with no supporting evidence, it's just trust me bro. But if you're bay area does that mean you're not upper… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 12:56 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you?Honestly nah? Like 200k depending on where you live could get you upper class or just flat middle class, looking at you San Francisco. But there's a range of dudes who make that much and career wise but the men in my circle are in tech. Like I'm cute but by no means a dime. Neither are the wives and girlfriends of the men in the $200k club. You have 1. The career woman with the fat butt (look I am just going on observation here but it's a unifying trait). Or 2. The SAHM whose status as one is a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you?Only because their geographic location and not socializing in certain circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you?Already done! Get good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you?Nah because you can just date someone you really like who makes over 200k. Like why settle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 10:13 PM |
| – | How should average men pursue casual sex according to women?Note how option 1. Is crossed off. You still have two options. Pick one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 05:16 PM |
| – | How should average men pursue casual sex according to women?Look who cares god didn't put an orgasm button up your butt for you to not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 02:54 PM |
| 4 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.The problem is if your initial filter is incredibly harsh, then you aren't going to find anything close to what you want. To take your dress example, you are assuming that even after all your filters, there will be the perfect dress. That is an assumption. Typically, you pick the best option not the perfect option. By lowering the looks standard and judging the other standards first, you leave yourself more open to the possibility of finding a 100% compatible personality man, with 80% of your pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 06:05 AM |
| 1 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.If you are cutting out a massive proportion of men with your looks requirement, then you are selecting largely for looks. Any additional filters won’t really matter past that. No. Literally no. I know this is a weird example but I am looking to buy a pink formal dress. I go to a site that has formal dresses I use a filter for color. But I also want it to be floor length, second filter. I don't like halters, asymmetrical shoulders or strapless dresses, third filter. This leaves me with still a ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 04:24 AM |
| 2 | How should average men pursue casual sex according to women?1. Embrace your bisexuality Accept some people are going to have an easier time getting sex with you and don't be a weirdo about it. Whine about it on the Internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 04:05 AM |
| 0 | How should average men pursue casual sex according to women?Okay see you picked #3 and you're committed. You picked one. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 04:03 AM |
| 1 | How should average men pursue casual sex according to women?Nah. How to deal in 3 easy options: Embrace your bisexuality Accept some people are going to have an easier time getting sex with you and don't be a weirdo about it. Whine about it on the Internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 12:08 AM |
| 2 | How should average men pursue casual sex according to women?I never said straight men should hit up Grindr did I? OP never even specified straight men. You did. That's a you issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 11:18 PM |
| 2 | How should average men pursue casual sex according to women?Stop with your bisexual erasure. It does illustrate that while there are more options for women, they're not options we would necessarily be attracted to. Or are we going to pretend guys here are all zeros on the Kinsey scale? I'm bisexual and find myself more attracted to women. But men are easier to connect with initially because everyone is assumed straight until proven otherwise and I am incredibly femme and lesbian dating apps and sites are full of straight men or straight women looking to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Do women see a male lack of strive as a moral failure?I'm American so it's possible I have a different perspective but most people are one bad day away from homelessness. One car accident can completely financially destroy someone. The average American's retirement? Savings? Abysmal. No good tends to come from that. In terms of the village burning I referenced, I don't assume the man will be in a relationship and disappoint a woman; I assume he will never be in a relationship and be incredibly upset about it if you couldn't glean that. I assume thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 09:04 PM |
| 9 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.To be fair some men have red flags in their photos. Also you can want someone who is hot and has excellent taste in movies and a great sense of humor. Caring about looks isn't shallow but only caring about looks probably is. Attraction is complex for everyone though. You can be the ripest juiciest peach but some people just don't like peaches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 04:25 PM |
| 2 | How should average men pursue casual sex according to women?Download Grindr. There is a man a stones throw from you who will definitely perform oral sex on you available tonight. Is he of questionable looks? Potentially married with children? Old? Sure. But congratulations you have the equivalent experience women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Do women see a male lack of strive as a moral failure?I don't see deciding you'd like to meet your survival needs and nothing more as a moral failing for single men. I wouldn't want to date it but that's just because they don't fit into my lifestyle. That being said there's a proverb: "A child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth". While men aren't children it begs the question what happens to people who choose to not be a part of the village but must interact with it's inhabitants everyday and see the lives they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 04:01 PM |
| 1 | There is a huge problem of women never admitting fault when they are criticized the same way they criticize men.I think we can all agree dismissing anecdotal evidence is something everyone here does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 04:10 PM |
| 2 | I don’t think a women needs a expensive wedding ring even for $500I think you're operating on a flawed premise to start. Spending money doesn't equal love. But that's not anyone's contention. Good financial security allows love to persist and flourish. But you're positioning yourself like you have offended me (you didn't) and that I said love is transactional (I didn't). I said 1. Love is not enough 2. Marriage is a legal contract nothing more 3. Marriage should only be undertaken when it is financially a good choice for both parties. Getting her a ring she lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 08:20 PM |
| 3 | I don’t think a women needs a expensive wedding ring even for $500Don't worry I am not offended. You just seem to really really not want to address the elephant in the room and it looks like I am the one who is perpetually offending you. Money. You won't acknowledge finance's impact on life, relationships, or at all, except to I guess patronize Walmart for 50 years without regard for inflation. I stand by what I said, and only what I said: love is not enough. And love doesn't negate the fact money is also involved in your relationship. You seem to want to avoi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 03:44 PM |
| 5 | I don’t think a women needs a expensive wedding ring even for $500I see your math: but it's dumb math because like I said: she'll have a sentimental attachment to what you proposed with. End of story. You should be financially well off enough where a $500 ring is nbd. In lifetime relationships love is quite literally not enough, not even "authentic love", if it were so many damn people wouldn't get divorced. Finances is one of the top reasons cited for divorce. Like I said: get your finances in order before you get married until it is financially beneficial to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 05:54 AM |
| 6 | I don’t think a women needs a expensive wedding ring even for $500I don't believe in marriage for myself but I do wear a sterling silver ring on my left ring finger when I go out, just to level set with the world. That being said for the marriage minded: a ring should bare minimum last her until she's in her rocking chair next to yours when you're old together. And no don't justify it with you'll get her a bigger rock later because it will never mean as much as what you actually proposed with. So a $20 ring from Walmart won't cut it. There are plenty of reason… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 04:36 AM |
| 1 | How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism?Literally no? They agreed to two kids and her being a SAHM before they even got engaged. He signed up for that shit. My point is and if you read literally any parent comment, trades are great, but not the golden ticket people make them out to be nowadays. Typically you need external help to literally survive, food, shelter, etc, while going through the program. A lot of younger people live with their parents and even start in highschool programs if they have a better idea of what they want to do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 09:51 PM |
| 2 | How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism?It will take years before they're both in school. Years of running negative isn't possible. And again: trade school and apprenticeships don't adjust to your childrens needs. Its like you have no concept of reality. You could look at it as she fucked herself by someone who can't provide better. It all depends on how you look at it. But again men here love to mention they don't care about a woman's education or earning power until reality hits them like truck. You want support from your partner? Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 06:16 PM |
| 2 | How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism?They're not in school. And it's not a short term cost. Also trades don't work around your schedule, especially apprenticeships. I don't think you get parenting or how expensive childcare is. He also has a degree whereas she only has: a trade certificate that limits her income to be far lower than his. Because not all trades are equally profitable. Men here complain women don't want to be traditional women and say they don't care about a woman's education until it actually comes to brass tacks. F… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism?Cost of childcare, gas and car maintenance would cause them to have less money if she got a job, not more. So can she get a job? Yes. Should she get a job? Only if they want their household income to go down. Children are expensive it turns out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 04:13 PM |
| 0 | How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism?This exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 04:06 PM |
| 4 | How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism?Talked recently with my friends (they're married, two kids, she's a SAHM). Dude hates his job and isn't sure what to do. Despite having a 4 year degree he still has a blue collar job. He asked me if it would be dumb to just go the trade route and I said it wasn't a bad idea. Later I was talking alone with the wife and she expressed while it does pay well, it only pays well eventually and realistically their family can't financially afford the time it takes to finish an apprenticeship and get rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 01:52 PM |
| 2 | As a person with daddy issues, I feel kinda offended by the daddy issues stereotype in women.I think it just depends what's right for everyone. I really enjoyed just hanging out with my friends in my early 20s, going to clubs and concerts and throwing stupid parties. I never had relationship drama like my friends did and none of them are with those people anymore anyway. No big deal not rushing dating. Being single is fun too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 11:30 PM |
| 2 | As a person with daddy issues, I feel kinda offended by the daddy issues stereotype in women.I got parental issues. Both of them were wildly inconsistent. One day dad's going to every dress shop to find my prom dress even though I know he's miserable, another day he's hitting me and screaming and spitting in my face. My mom would do arts and crafts with me one day, another day she'd throw glass figurines at me so they shattered at my feel or on the wall next to me and tried to breakdown my door. Mixed bag. I wasn't even a bad kid. No drinking. No underaged sex. No staying out late. No s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 04:46 PM |
| 21 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?Simplest answer: children. My cousin was adamant her boyfriend propose because she wanted her older father to walk her down the aisle and for him to meet his grandchildren before he dies. He's gotten prostate cancer and then skin cancer multiple times so his lifespan is questionable. Any woman I have known that has had the when are you proposing talk has always had children in mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 04:34 PM |
| 8 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itNonono. No buzz words. You can do better. You did create a paradox. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 02:30 AM |
| – | If women "hit a wall" then why should we bother with marriage?Looking at statistics it doesn't seem too terribly common. I think you're safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 02:29 AM |
| 1 | The issue with the whole dating advice world online: dating is treated as a series of hacks and decision treesLiterally yes. People go there just for the bread. I don't know man I'm American I can't defend my trash panda people because I am one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 08:44 PM |
| 2 | The issue with the whole dating advice world online: dating is treated as a series of hacks and decision treesI stand by some hacks. Like taking a woman to Texas Roadhouse because women love that bread and she'll positively associate you with bread. Secondly it's a test because if she orders her steak well done you can ask her politely yet firmly to leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 06:25 PM |
| 1 | If women "hit a wall" then why should we bother with marriage?Yes but HIV is a factually provable disease. You're literally just making up stories of what you assume theoretical women say. They're stories. A median age of marriage doesn't't negate marriages at a younger age are more likely to end in divorce dude. At this point I have to conclude you can't interpret statistics, not just in a meaningful way but like at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 06:18 PM |
| 5 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itNo one goes into a marriage expecting to be cheated on so it's like some kind of paradox. So no one is a whore until they are so (mostly) by your definition lots of people unknowingly marry future whores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 06:10 PM |
| 1 | If women "hit a wall" then why should we bother with marriage?As a woman who does woman talk aka the unvarnished truth: naw. You're creating fictional scenarios with fictional people saying a fictional script you wrote to support your narrative. Your HIV statement illustrates nothing? I can point to specific instances where you are poorly interpreting data because you're not factoring in nuance. You did not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Women give bad advice because their advice comes from a point of privileged ignoranceI don't know where you live but in the US your dating pool is going to vary from Omaha to NYC. But hey man find love wherever the wind takes you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 04:42 PM |
| 6 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itBut you do realize anyone of any attractiveness level can cheat right? Like you're not a cheater right up until the moment you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Men choose to have half their stuff taken in divorceLook my dad's been married and divorced four times. I would say a certified divorce professional. Everytime he paid for it. Yes I rag on him about his terrible taste in women constantly, but thankfully they've all been age appropriate and actually single mothers except for my mother his first wife. My dad can get a date in line at a bank. Literally has happened. Home Depot. In line at Disney World. The man has that boomer rizz I guess. Fortunately he has declined all age inappropriate women. Don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itWhat's a whore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 04:21 PM |
| 5 | Women give bad advice because their advice comes from a point of privileged ignoranceIsn't that just not aligning with preferences in your geographic location? Also can we not pretend Coachella is at all an accessible or common experience? Like so expensive, no place to pee, loud, dirty, did I mention so expensive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 04:18 PM |
| – | If women "hit a wall" then why should we bother with marriage?So thing is I have never heard a woman call her partner average. A jerk yes. A godsend yes. Ultimately we all vary from moment to moment. Our partners see us at our best and worst. I personally don't believe in marriage because I find them expensive and unromantic. I like waking up everyday and choosing my partner. I'm bound to him by nothing but love. We even keep our finances separate. I don't need him, I want him. Everyday. As for marriage it doesn't factor in cohabitating and there's more to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 04:09 PM |
| – | If women "hit a wall" then why should we bother with marriage?I think it's sadder than that. They want to feel they are attractive and matter. But instead of getting plastic surgery, developing an ED, and learning to apply makeup they formed a cult. Both are messed up and the real code is: fuck external validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 03:58 PM |
| – | If women "hit a wall" then why should we bother with marriage?It's not a slip. I realistically simp hard for my partner. He's exceptional to me. My friend who has great wisdom frequently says if your relationship isn't based on mutual simping why are you even married? And rp/bp men seem to desperately want women even women they're not interested in to be attracted to them. They essentially want the same sexual interest women receive from women to themselves and if they don't they feel like failures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 03:44 PM |
| 2 | The idea of marriage and family is dead for womenMarriage isn't what it used to be and people forget that millennials are the first generation for it to be completely optional and to an extent disadvantageous. Gen Z is feeling the effect of the change and there's a clear divide on it. Traditional marriage was the exchange of property (woman) between two men (father to husband). It sounds gross but where is the lie? Then we move into marriage as a woman securing future survival. Men providing or doing the primary providing while the wife bears … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 03:32 PM |
| 26 | The idea of marriage and family is dead for womenI get paid for the work I do. Seems like a better deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:50 PM |
| – | If women "hit a wall" then why should we bother with marriage?I'm attracted to my aging partner despite him having exactly zero tentacles. Why do I need to be attracted to anyone but my partner? Why do women need to be attracted to the average man? Would any woman describe her partner as an average man? Would a man want that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:27 PM |
| – | If women "hit a wall" then why should we bother with marriage?If that's the reward I feel like the answer to your question is: women shouldn't bother with marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notQuote was only in reference to specific topic: as evidenced by all subsequent sentences reference preferences in partners. Please stay on topic. If you would like to discuss other specific issues please feel free to make a separate posts. Because I'm also the worst type of person to consult on preferences because it's a running joke with my partner saying I'll be the first person to contract space AIDS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notPlease see other comment. Intellectually dishonest. Pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notWoah woah woah we're talking criticism of preferences here and you immediately jump to men can be victims of rape which I am not disputing. You're creating a straw man here and you know it. Stop it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notSending good juju he gets the job! It's a whole new level of stress though. Definitely put a cramp in our vacationing style. But I do tend to see weak men as needing submissive wives. So fragile they can't at least talk things through, compromise, or occasionally concede their wives suggestion or way of handling things is better on not "traditionally feminine" wheelhouse type things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notI see your point and fair. I was coming from the point everyone had sufficiently covered that OP is using their personal opinion as fact in terms of what is "natural". But you are correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notUnprotected sex leads to higher rates of STD's. You're so intellectually dishonest I can no longer engage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notLol I'm trying to be vague? You're treating billions of people like a monolith. You're trying to be vague because you're at every turn intellectually dishonest. Women In which country? What's the economy there? What are the education opportunities for women there? What pressures are exerted culturally or religiously. It goes on and on and on. And regardless that's not the argument or the question but you're trying to steer it there on purpose. Tsk tsk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notYes it's OP is being disingenuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notWhich is exactly what bigots who try to demonize homosexuality do, mentally link horrible things to it. Obvious and very old trick. Adult incestuous relationships that result in children lead to birth defects. Not to mention that's really really cherry picking since a lot of incestuous relationships also involve sexual abuse and pedophilia and do not always involve an adult at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:47 PM |
| – | Where do you draw the line between “being used” and “just a breakup”?Lying? I guess lying about intentions would be it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notSome don't. You're asking a bad question. Boo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notNot all dominant sex involves collars and whips, choking, hair pulling, slapping, etc. All count. Its not like men have to have a whole toy box here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notDon't conflate a normal sexual attraction to acts harmful against children. That's sick and wrong. Two men who love each other hurts no one except bigoted people's feelings. Incest and pedophilia hurt children. Full stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notI am by no means a dominatrix but my partner is C-suite. He did not want a submissive wifey. He explicitly did not want that and dumped a woman over her dreams of a white picket fence. Men that have been attracted to me beyond first take, I am visually hyper feminine so my personality doesn't match, are usually more submissive dudes because if they like my personality then they like a dominant woman. So anecdotal as well but my partner is pretty anti SAHM because he thinks they're boring and all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notYou can think that all you want but men are more than willing to talk in detail about vanilla sex, even dominant sex in front of each other so why the taboo on submissive sex? Because: judgement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notAgain millennials are the literal first generation with full choice (and potentially the last due to legal and economic changes) in the US. Other countries are still behind in terms of women's rights so looking globally is a moot point. Men won't be honest and to some extent don't realize the preference. All those jokes about the wife wearing the pants in the family... What do you think that is? You're using your personal opinion as fact. You literally called it deviant. Sorry. Its not something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notThere's a reason why men who are sexually submissive are not open about it because of judgement. They are absolutely not telling their bros. Especially if they're into pegging and things like that. Now women there are statistically way fewer dominant women than men currently. It's why it's basically unicorn hunting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are not"Quite popular in the right circles" is key. So are femme boys. People are more willing and have the space to be more honest about their sexual desires which I think is great, even if it's niche. As for men's preferences being more varied I just don't think you know enough women because oh boy. It gets wild. We just don't talk about it in front of men because we know the judgement will be off the chain. Always has been. Shit I couldn't even date someone not white without nasty commentary. My bro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 04:23 PM |
| 4 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notI think the root problem is how accurate are those "biological studies" or were they just confirmation bias. Because the first generation of women truly able to make the choice of having children: are increasingly choosing to not have them to a point economists are panicking. Kinda weird right? But you get to decide what a deviant preference is? See what did I say about how men will judge other men's preferences? Based on my experience men choose women's temperament based on their emotional need… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 03:16 PM |
| 8 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notJust wait until a man says he wants a dominant woman. See how that goes over, not just with women but men especially. What you're missing is that both men and women also react to each other's preferences in really negative ways as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 02:40 PM |
| -1 | The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happyNah but the crazy kinds of logical leaps you have to make to say women care less about the men in their families than women they don't know so you can feel like a victim is wild. I get you're desperate to be victimized here but at least try to make it semi grounded in reality. Like you have lots of options, capitalism, patriarchy, oligarchy, etc. pick a better victim narrative for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 05:16 PM |
| 1 | The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happyWhat an odd thing to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 03:47 AM |
| 2 | The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happyI think of it as more "traditional" marriage I guess? For women in the past marriage was an economic proposition. Realistically for women in other countries where the US dollar is very strong a foreign man's mid salary from a western country can support her and her relatives. She can provide a comfortable life for her parents, cousins, and children if she has them so she's making the best choice for her. So long as the man is honoring these financial obligations and treating her well I don't rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 04:30 PM |
| 1 | If society doesn't owe men wives, men don't owe society our labour, taxes and bloodIf you are unhappy you are not given a human you don't have to work or pay taxes, now there may be repercussions for that like failing to survive but it's certainly an option you can choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Having kids has no benefits to womenNah. My friends have great husbands and fathers and they dated for awhile, cohabitated prior to marriage, chose carefully, and waited to have children with him. You don't "get got" if you wait. You don't "get got" if you make sure he demonstrates good husband and father traits prior to marriage. I know this is a crazy concept: but there are awesome guys out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 05:40 PM |
| 6 | Having kids has no benefits to womenHard disagree and I'm a freaking childfree woman. I have friends who are SAHMs and working mothers and they would have their children all over again. They love being mothers. They accept it's hard. They even experience disproportionate labor. But they found a life that works for them that brings them joy. And you know what: their husbands are supportive and loving and don't view caring for their children as a chore because gasp they love their children too. Now I'm not saying I also don't have a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Ironically, progressive women are still obsessed with status in menIf you don't define what you mean by "lower class" you're engaging in a bad faith debate. You're just giving yourself ways to weasel out of counter arguments. Please provide what you are defining as "low class". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Women can't be victims of the male gaze, and also don't care about male validation at same time.I want my partner to think I am attractive and I don't want other men to look at men ever. So like to borrow a phrase and use it in a completely wrong way: not all men? Also like green eyeshadow is for the girls and the gays. What I'm saying is, it's not a binary thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Women can't be victims of the male gaze, and also don't care about male validation at same time.I thought men hit the gym to impress other men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?The packaging makes a difference. I actually love blue hair but I don't want to deal with the maintenance, damage, and stained towels, sheets, pillow cases and clothes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 03:32 PM |
| 3 | If knowing your own attractiveness was like having a spider-sense, women generally have it way more finely tuned than men , and a lot of men don’t have it at all.Its not a must have everything, just a check a few boxes and you're good. Being thin gets you extra points because it's associated with virtues in people's minds like self-control, etc. whether it's true or not. I do think you're being WAY harsh on yourself. You do have full lips not filler ones but natural ones, doe eyes, a flatter nose bridge (see attractive), beautiful skin, long healthy looking hair, and a nice jawline. I would say if someone says you're not beautiful I would call 100% bulls… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 03:05 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAdded benefit of lipo (gotta harvest the fat from somewhere) and it can remedy the dreaded violin hips. A butt can be built but an hourglass cannot. A lot of fitness influencers who haven't had a bbl have to pose very specifically and wear certain leggings and bikinis to look like they have an hourglass figure. It's why you won't see pictures of them just straight on or they edit their photos and videos to get that coke bottle shape that is either pure genetics or surgery. But then people clock … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 07:08 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOh no doubt and the cake is all natural because she has the thick thighs to match. BDH, a gorgeous ass in a land of bbl's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 06:41 AM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThey're both conventionally attractive people with accents? They aren't my brand of hot though. Everyone has their own thing. Manny Jacinto's fine ass got me through the acolyte and I would like Salma Hayek to sit on my face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 06:33 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADBDH is a baddie but like... <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 06:24 AM |
| 6 | If knowing your own attractiveness was like having a spider-sense, women generally have it way more finely tuned than men , and a lot of men don’t have it at all.Just compare yourself to the beauty standard. Is your face symmetrical? Is your nose small? Are your eyes large? Are your teeth nice? Do you have clear skin? Are your lips full? Do you have high cheekbones? Do you have a feminine jawline? Are you thin with tits? I think people confuse attractiveness with being well groomed for women. You look clean, smell nice, your hair is coifed, your makeup is applied expertly, your outfit is stylish and flattering, etc. all these things are appreciated by me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?I never understood why they're so against tattoos. It shows she's into commitment and potentially to something she'll realize she should have chosen something different 2 years after the fact but it's too expensive to have removed. So what I'm saying is perfect for an underwhelming dude with a fear of abandonment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 04:33 AM |
| 12 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?I have a theory, and it's more than just sex. I'm a leftist but I am very feminine presenting. Majority of the time dresses and skirts. No tattoos. No vivid hair color. No piercings aside from ears. Make-up on point. But a bunch of conservative guys have wanted to date me when I was single (and not, hoping my partner and I will breakup). Its more they hate certain liberal women who don't conform to their idea of attractiveness. Because if you're not there to be eye candy, why do you exist? I gen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Most Passport bros leave the country because they can’t get any women in the U.S and try to take advantage of the American dollar being worth more over thereI think if they'd like to move to a country and find a woman they can financially benefit and are kind, respectful, and loving to her that doesn't seem like a bad thing. It removes a potential time bomb from the US and benefits a woman who is financially disadvantaged. So long as he's not controlling and abusive and good to her and her family I say bon voyage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesSo I feel like if this is targeted at the US audience it's kind of all built on false premises. We don't even have free market capitalism and truthfully never have. The government has always had its thumb on the scale too hard and it's only gotten worse. Secondly attractiveness is subjective for men and women. I know a lot of men will fight to the death that it's objective and for that person they essentially consider their personal tastes objective but other men will disagree with you so it's d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a man who has full custody of his kids?No. I'm childfree. I wouldn't even date a man with adult children. But there are lots of women with children and custody from partial to full who would definitely do a blended family situation. I think the people who will answer no are women who don't have children but want their own with no step kids in the mix, which is pretty darn traditional, or women who just don't want kids period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 05:46 PM |
| 1 | You Can’t "Prove" the Red Pill And That’s Not a FlawIt's currently iteration I think you're confusing confidence with narcissism, lack of accountability, with a dash of dehumanizing others. These are not the same thing. The red pill is not "simply" what you described. What you described is a lie by omission. You omitted all the harmful philosophy contained therein and only mentioned things any halfway decent therapist would tell someone. Social interaction good. Isolation bad. Focus on challenging yourself generally good, but in what areas specif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 04:33 PM |
| 2 | You Can’t "Prove" the Red Pill And That’s Not a FlawI'd ask a different question: how does this (red pill ideology) serve you? Because based on the core need that the red pill belief system serves its devotees: it provides the idea of safety via prevention of emotional harm. It enforces the idea there is something fundamentally wrong with the world, not you, and if there is something wrong with you it's nothing chicken breast and a gym membership can't solve. What it does in actuality is alienate yourself from people. It's an ideology that the va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 03:51 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah. My partner got one for me unexpectedly. I told him I was going to wait at least a year before I considered buying one, maybe wait for like a special edition or something. He knows I like handheld consoles though and we played Mario kart together so I guess our household got two. I think I need to buy a new everyday purse though now because it doesn't fit nicely in like my switch lite did. I definitely feel like if you got money to burn sure but if not don't sweat it and wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?Nor do I. Short of someone who is intellectually challenged or a child no one would think or claim that's realistic, enjoyable, or possible. That being said most men have some level of insecurity it's just the culture. Boys and girls are fed completely incorrect and laughable things about sex they bully and talk shit about then scarily carry it into adulthood. There are men out here, actual adult men, believing women get "loose" due to number of sexual partners without questioning what that mean… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t women desire men as much as vice versa?Well we live together and interact with each other's families and friends. When you're a couple you have couples friends, couples events, and couples activities. We are at our core an alliance, a powerful endlessly supportive one, no holds barred. We are each other's number ones. No one is above him and no one is above me and everyone in our lives understands that. There are certain interests that he and I share that my friends don't. We initially connected over park chan-wook movies and smt noc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 11:17 PM |
| 2 | How many of you have ever mocked a guy based on dick size or know a woman who has?I had a friend in highschool who mocked her ex. But then got back together with him. A friend of a friend repeatedly mocked his own dick size in front of us which leads to believe he doesn't even actually have a small dick. I haven't personally but in my understand it's low hanging fruit that will often hit a mans insecurity, but I prefer you are a disappointment to your father. I feel like the accuracy is higher if you're firing blind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t women desire men as much as vice versa?I am in a relationship but being completely blunt: I literally do all of these things with my platonic girlfriends too, sometimes in a more fulfilling way. The activities aren't necessarily more fun with my partner. My partner doesn't like most horror movies, he can't stand gore, extended torture, or any extreme violence. So I have a friend I regularly go to the movies with and watch movies at her house to hang out with her cats because we both enjoy them a lot. I watch lots of movies with my pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?There are also people who hate sucking dick and find it disgusting and lets be real it can get painful. Also if a dude deathgrips it can feel like a chore. But I definitely think it's literally a first date question. Not even kidding. If you really want it though: go full domme. Those adorable subby fuckers will consider you sitting on their face a reward. You just can't be squeamish about pegging tho. Which: don't knock it till you try it. My friend who's dated a way more diverse pool says "whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 01:30 AM |
| 1 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?Depends I guess? Some women can get themselves off real quick while others may prefer their partner to stimulate them. Positions matter what's most effective and there are like so many toys. I feel like people need to talk more about their own particular anatomy because it's crazy how much people vary. I have a super hooded clit so that's its own thing, my friend has nipples where if you touch them wrong it makes her feel like throwing up, everyone is different which is I think why women talk, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 05:42 AM |
| 1 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?I stopped reading at tiktok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 05:11 AM |
| 1 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?And that's great, but statistically: most women find it difficult or can't orgasm from PIV alone. That's just how it is. Nothing to do with a dudes anatomy. Realistically our clits are tiny dicks but with even more nerve endings. You can be inside a woman and also stimulate her clit and you can both get off together but if it has to be just you dick at that point that's a you problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 05:10 AM |
| 1 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?Well I guess that's your fault for having a bad default assumption. Like what a boring fucking conversation that would be. And generally you handle it like an adult. Like have sexy fun show time first. But hey people can break up for whatever reason. Including if a guy doesn't do oral. It's whatever works for people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 04:56 AM |
| 1 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?It's 4-6" past the opening of the vagina, problem is realistically an overwhelming majority of women find it difficult or can't even orgasm from penetration alone. It's all about the clit. I don't know why men can't accept their fingers and mouths are more effective than their dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 04:46 AM |
| 1 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?Talking about dicks does not equate to bragging about dick size. Reading comprehension my dude. Getting hurt during sex isn't really a brag it's like an oh shit hope you heal up. Some men just don't even attempt and it's deffo way more talked about than size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 04:39 AM |
| 1 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?You are aware it's not like there's an orgasm button at the end of the tunnel right? It can fucking hurt if you get hit in the cervix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?What a weird thing to say. But for real women lust for a guy who knows when to shut up and suck on our clit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?I get this is a trauma thing for you, your ex was shitty therefore all women must be shitty. It's super weird your ex had her friends join in on body shaming you. They sound psychotic. Like it's bizarre honestly. Now mad shit and shaming pops off when men don't go down but expect women to. When I say my friends and I talk about our partners dicks its like my one friend isn't a fan of anal but her husband likes to catch and pitch. So I am like hey I get it he's above average and honestly that's d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 04:20 AM |
| 1 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?As a person with a vagina it lengthens bout 7 inches max when aroused but feeling "full and stretched out" is definitely not a thing for me personally but it is for my friend whose a lesbian who likes it's when their girlfriend fists them. But girlfriend has like tiny hands to be fair. Like her ring size is a 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 04:12 AM |
| 1 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?I mean in my circle of friends never happens not when we were in our 20s and not in our 30s. But how often he goes down and his skills in that department, frequently. Also preferences on period sex stuff like that. I don't know who these women are but they sound boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 04:07 AM |
| 2 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?The human vagina only gets so long my friend. But if you truly think this remember some people end up in the ER with tearing and fissures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:08 PM |
| 4 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?We had a party once and made an alcoholic beverage called "cervix punch". It was made because our friend's ex-boyfriend did it frequently and it was painful. Just like our hangovers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:06 PM |
| -2 | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?I mean we're having it right now. You may not be satisfied with the answers but if you're wanting to be fed what you want to hear, you're not interested in a conversation to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 03:58 PM |
| -2 | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?It's body shaming and wrong. But if you're looking to hit a guy in his soft under belly it's an easily identifiable hitbox. The odds are high it's an insecurity whether it's perfectly average or not due to unrealistic standards perpetuated by porn etc. Men care more about dick size than women as they often base apart of their worth on sexual prowess and their ability to use it to impress other men. But do me and my girlfriends talk about our male partners penis size? Sure. Our lesbian friends di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 03:29 PM |
| – | I Think It’s Okay To Reject A Girl Based On Her Weight.Well duh? How is this a debate? You can reject anyone for any reason. Now there is obviously a psychology and societal influence on what we find attractive, it's not innate, there has been throughout human history. And I guess that's something you could debate? But not the right to reject someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 08:07 PM |
| – | Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young womenOh god when it's your parents friends 🤢🤢🤢🤢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Research on women's aversion to bisexual menDid I say that? It ultimately boils down to who the "elbow" is, much like in a ffm threesome. And much like in a ffm threesome shit tends to work better if the FF and mm are both bi regardless. But considering this whole post is about bi men.... I don't really get where your hostility is coming from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Research on women's aversion to bisexual menUm he got a dick and mouth still don't he? The whole point of a threesome is everyone's involved. Where exactly is your imagination. It's called a dude being the elbow. Boyfriend can be sandwiched, getting fucked in the ass by a dude while you ride him or he goes down on you. You riding him while he blows the other dude. Like again: where is your imagination? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 05:58 PM |
| 0 | Research on women's aversion to bisexual menWhy are you assuming a man is fucking a girl here? It's MMF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Single men are bitter. I wonder why?My dating advice is the exact same for everyone. In the past month how many times have you went out socially? Do you even have friends? How many invites to weddings, functions, Happy hours, etc did you turn down? What are your hobbies and if you have a single one why aren't you in a group for that hobby. Socialize. Socialize all the fucking time. Throw yourself into social situations. If people avoid you ask someone you trust to be brutally honest: what is wrong with you? Chances are you have th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Single men are bitter. I wonder why?Y'all know we can see what ya post on other forums right? So we can know gender and age. From you. You told on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Women are far more socially brutal than men areSticking to the point. Not indulging emotional tangents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Women are far more socially brutal than men areI do not think women are more socially brutal than men. I think it's a person by person thing that's not gender locked like most things in life 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 04:14 AM |
| 2 | The red pill men on youtube have 30 and 40 YEAR OLD WOMEN terrified of aging. Can we please normalize older women being just as beautiful as the 20 something year oldsUh I think that's what redpill dudes on YouTube want? But as a 34 year old with zero procedures I can say: nah. There has always been societal pressure to remain young and beautiful on women. Women for a very long time were taught they needed to secure a husband young and be shapely and beautiful to attract a husband. Redpill dudes on YouTube are just kinda trying to use an old outdated playbook like it's still relevant. Granted beauty standards have finally started impacting men, but that's onl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Women are far more socially brutal than men areThat's not what the conversation is about. But it is something you're feeling some type of way about and are venting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Women are far more socially brutal than men areWas that ever said? Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Women are far more socially brutal than men areNope it's how you feel. No basis in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Women are far more socially brutal than men areYou're making an emotional argument. Can't argue with your emotions. You feel how you feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 02:09 PM |
| – | Women are far more socially brutal than men areYou said it's a power thing and women just enjoy bullying. But lie more I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 01:00 AM |
| – | Women are far more socially brutal than men areIt is about power, it has nothing to do with safety. I know this, i have o served this very much in detail. That cap isnt goingnto fly with me. Yeah because you wanna play victim. I did not. I dont think you read the post completely before replying. I did. Ya didn't address it. Yeah AFTER the evidence came out in court. Before that people had already sided with her and so did the media. There were plenty of people who didn't and plenty of outlets that didn't. Unfortunately people can't grasp the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Almost half of the women having a plan B and the 80/20 rule are the legit reasons for a guy to have self-esteem issues and women shouldn't complain about it as they are the reason behind it.I mean if someone fundamentally feels unlovable then that is a therapy issue, probably thank your parents. In therapy you would probably delve into why your self esteem hinges entirely on a romantic partner. Then you'd also probably address the practical reasons you might not have succeeded. Do you have friends? Do you socialize? Do you pursue interests. Chances are you're going to uncover it's not that you're unlovable, you just don't have a healthy robust life or good mental state which makes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Women are far more socially brutal than men areYeah because if you didn't it means women are at risk and you don't want to acknowledge that. Open your eyes. People are bullies sometimes. But I think it's kinda bullshit to think women just wait for perfectly normal guys to bully. Unless it's some kind of fetish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Women are far more socially brutal than men areIt rarely has to do with safety. Its just womem exervising their power. It's not, you are literally just saying it's not because you want to be mad. I didnt say it was gender locked. But ignored that fact completely. What would you say the johnny depp situation was? That was a modern publich lynching. He came out fine after the American trial. Their biggest issue is they're both drug users who can't help fuck up their own lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Women are far more socially brutal than men areI think the key here is men are more than willing to exclude and carry out attacks on men too. This isn't gender locked. The difference is the motivation behind it. Women do it because they often literally are not safe or they feel unsafe. You can't really openly admit to men's actual physical brutality against other men then ignore it as a factor. The difference with men is that it's often to eliminate competition. Or you know they can also be creeped out and feel unsafe too. Then there is of c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:32 PM |
| 1 | What do you have against men who have android phones instead of iPhones?I think it's just a running gag at this point, about the color of texts. I have android. Who isn't using an encrypted messenger anyways tho? My brother made a joke about it when he was dating but he's an apple boi and a Linux admin. So he's very serious about his IT. So I wouldn't even say it's a gender locked thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:09 PM |
| 1 | The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse?I usually had two part-time jobs and a full course load during college/my late teens and early 20s. I genuinely didn't have time to date. Once I dropped down to only one job during college I did end up having a serious relationship but it was only after we were friends with a lot of flirtation for 2 years because again: couldn't really even have a relationship while burning that hard. It was really hard to even see my friends and honestly I would rather have friends than be that serial monogamis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo dude you're absolutely right men and women don't handle trauma the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen committing the vast majority of crimes. Men being more likely to abuse drugs. Men more likely to commit suicide. You're right definitely handle trauma differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadInto the meat grinder they go! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.I mean that only works if young men will tolerate a woman bringing "nothing" to the table. It's their choice to accept that, so it's the young men's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 03:00 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot really. It's men just not knowing how to do like basic human shit because old school masculinity kinda fucked them up and we're in the middle of a transition so it's extra confusing for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 02:00 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEh I think it's more men having to like do more than show up with a job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:42 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 05:41 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNor will it ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 04:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen are the new women. Go with me here, 6' is the new 36-24-36. Basing all your worth and value on if you're in a relationship. Redpill blogs are just Cosmo magazine. Shits super weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 04:12 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMacaroni and cheese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 04:05 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Love and romance is dead by the time people are in their 30sIf I had a dollar for every woman who looks back at her first boyfriend and says: "wtf was I thinking" I would be richer than Bezos. But seriously like every statistic to the contrary of what you said my dude. I don't know if people are hung up on their highschool girlfriends or what but it's odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.See above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Please see everything I have already said above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Because it's a personal issue. Not a men's issue. Period. Loneliness isn't just fixed by sex or a girlfriend, it's friends and family that can all help alleviate it. But y'all don't care about that because it's not loneliness: it's sex and romantic relationships. But it's hard to assert victim status there, people not liking you, so you use a more generic term loneliness, to evoke pity. People are strange when you're a stranger. Faces look ugly when you're alone. Women seem wicked when you're un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.And we have come full circle. Women not wanting to fuck or date men is not a "men's issue". For all the reasons I have said above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Male loneliness I'm just gunna assume you never actually read the original post and decided to go on a rant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Well that's a lie. All you've tried to do is muddy the waters and use every logical fallacy and the kitchen sink. You can't even stick to the topic at hand because you have no point. Go back and read the OP. Fuck just read the title if that's too much for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Taking photos for OLD just feels lame and pathetic for a dude...At a coworkers wedding we all helped one of the directors who just broke up with his long term girlfriend take pics for tinder. It was actually really fun. I guess it ended up being a weird team building exercise? But getting additional traits from a picture is just a good idea. Like had a friend swipe right on a guy because he had a sphinx cat in a pic. She asked if the cat was his, found out: yes and the cat had a pretty clever name. They went out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 04:01 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSee this is why it rules being into thicc men. I get to truly enjoy the decline. 😎 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Okay so you can't identify rhetorical questions. Check. But again. This entire thread is about men not getting the relationships or sex they want, which is not a men's issue in that you cannot legislate to change it unless you want to get into so dark shit. This thread is not about literally anything else you have brought up to obfuscate that. You're being intellectually dishonest. Because you want to complain and claim to be a victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Men being 75% of suicide victims, homeless people, 80% of murder victims, 80% of substance abuse victims, that men fail in school at every single level more than women, and that men die earlier than women and die more of almost literally every single disease and cancer in the book compared to women, is also a systemic issue. So you do know what actual men's issues are? And you understand that they are systemic? Granted I highly doubt you'd accept the actual reasons for these problems but still y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Yes guys not getting tinder matches is equivalent to hate crimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Honestly the fact people need the entire population to hear them winge about their dating problems instead of being normal and talking to their friends like normal people is depressing as shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Contact your local congressional rep for government assigned gf. Be the change you hope to see in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 08:29 AM |
| 1 | For me to agree that virginity does not matter is to agree the past 8 years of my life have been for nothingI didn't think anyone would actually utter that sentence. I mean I guess kudos for the honesty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 10:49 PM |
| 1 | For me to agree that virginity does not matter is to agree the past 8 years of my life have been for nothingMost people that wait until marriage do it for religious reasons where divorce is heavily frowned upon and they have been indoctrinated from an early age to do something which is now considered abnormal. I think anyone making a choice for their relationship out of insecurity should reconsider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | "Progressive" women falling short?Let's be real the vast majority of weddings are just really expensive parties. Where some gets offended the photographer you spent 5k on didn't include them in a group shot. Don't get me wrong I love an open bar but that's really the only awesome thing going down at a wedding. How many women are wearing bring white wedding dresses and reading their Bible? They're getting a party bus and going to vineyards for their bachelorette and day drinking while kayaking. Or doing a spa day and shit. Don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | For me to agree that virginity does not matter is to agree the past 8 years of my life have been for nothingI'm saying it's bad values to prioritize virginity out of insecurity to ensure your future lover cannot ever compare you to anyone rather than trusting in their love and desire for you. I'm saying it's bad values to assume someones future spouse will think of another person rather than the person they're communicating their life to just because they've fucked someone else. But I understand it's an overwhelming fear for you. But it's naive to completely forget, or rather ignore that just because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 10:20 PM |
| 1 | For me to agree that virginity does not matter is to agree the past 8 years of my life have been for nothingAnd the point you've been making against yourself is what would destroy you even more. Your one and only you've waited forever for cheating on you because they feel they've missed out or even just wonder what something else may be like. It's not a matter of strength so much as having good values in terms of a relationship. My partner is not his sexual past. We're together now. That's what matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 06:14 PM |
| 1 | For me to agree that virginity does not matter is to agree the past 8 years of my life have been for nothingWe may differ there. I don’t deny feeling special for being with someone for long periods of time. But I would definitely feel even more special being the only one. In terms of timing? I mean you could say the same thing about anything. You say you have been with your partner for a decade, he is likely not the only person you could have loved for a decade or longer. There could even be someone better out there for you that you haven’t met. But I did not select a partner with virginity criteria, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.For a month of not being bothered by straight dudes you're giving women a vacation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | For me to agree that virginity does not matter is to agree the past 8 years of my life have been for nothingI wouldn't feel special because I was the only one someone had sex with. I would feel like it was all just timing. Because realistically if it wasn't me, it would be someone else on a different day in a different place. You're not waiting for the one you're waiting for someone at some point who meets criteria. This is the opposite of special. I've been in a relationship with my partner for upwards of a decade. Realistically the love we have, the time, care and dedication we have for one another … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 02:47 PM |
| 0 | For me to agree that virginity does not matter is to agree the past 8 years of my life have been for nothingDo you think the person is robbed of their ability to feel special to their partner because they aren't their first? Do you think they still can't feel they're the best sexual partner for their more experienced significant other? I'm saying the feelings you want to inspire in your future someone aren't exclusive to those abstaining from sex until marriage. But I think making a "sacrifice" no one asked you to in the hopes they'll value it very much is a very very bad idea. It's a lot to put on so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | For me to agree that virginity does not matter is to agree the past 8 years of my life have been for nothingWhat if someone with a body count of 1 who was still with their initial partner said it didn't matter? What if the initial partner had a double digit body count? You choosing to not have sex outside of marriage can never be for nothing, regardless of the decisions of others. It's a choice you made with intention. How you feel about it later doesn't change your reasoning now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 01:52 PM |
| 0 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?Concern. There were always girls in highschool and college dating much older guys. The commonality was they did not end well and almost always included some form of abuse. I have a 15 and 14 year old niece who are careening towards adulthood and no one would be happy if they showed up at 18 with a guy a decade plus older. Now everyone can say the consenting adults thing and legally: sure, but you never want to see someone in a relationship that's doomed before it starts and a party with bad inte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Specifically in what way are women supposed to express the empathy you desire? In what way can we serve you? In what way can we random women be held accountable for your validation, because clearly men are exempt from this equation of solution as they are not required to practice "empathy" to each other? And again specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Again the problem being women won't voluntarily fuck some men. That isn't a "men's issue". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.It's cute you acting like some men don't lose their absolute shit upon polite rejection. Because you know: the gross sense of entitlement some men have. Their insistence they are owed a chance. Or oh pretending that men don't trash each other for lack of sexual history. When in theory men should be a source of comfort and companionship to each other through friendship. You know, helping each other with loneliness. At the end of the day you can't force anyone to like you. Relationships are a two … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 09:58 PM |
| 19 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.The men's issue in question being that women won't voluntarily fuck them? What are we supposed to do government mandated gf? Charity sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Even so, the advice given to men is terrible. It's really hard to give advice on: my wife is too fat. People typically don't lose weight for others. So it's more of a: that sucks dude. Again, those perceptions aren't reliable. This sounds vaguely gaslightey but okay And there are many, many factors that can affect this. Regardless they've identified an incompatibility That's not a rational take on the OP. We just shouldn't send men on a fool's errand. How is men are being lied to poor men not th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Probably because the reasons for lack of desire for sex are different. Casual browse through r/deadbedrooms will tell you that. For men lack of attraction due to weight gain seems to hit a lot. For women it's resenting their husbands for usually a litany of reasons usually involving laziness in some other aspects of their partnership, mental health issues, childbirth/children. What's most interesting is the adoption of the HL and LL identifiers. They've identified there is a fundamental mismatch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Are we going to pretend deadbedrooms only affect men? Please disabuse yourself of that by visiting r/deadbedrooms. I think the chores thing is missing the point. It's not about the chores, it's about wives feeling like bang maids. Tired bang maids. It's low effort bad sex so what is even the point. It's feeling like a warm real doll. If you'd like more info like I said get some firsthand accounts from women in r/deadbedrooms there are a lot of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou have to admit: it's fitting. "Faces look ugly When you're alone" "Women seem wicked When you're unwanted" "When you're strange" I like the Johnny Hollow version tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat's this subs theme song? My vote is people are strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | The recent trend of women using "therapeutic language" to insult and stigmatize menI am hollerin at the "his face triggers my fight or flight mode". I'll take things that have never happened in real life for $500 Alex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 04:06 PM |
| 0 | Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship…I do. All the time. Twitter ain't real life. Again open communication doesn't mean anyone gets what they want. You fundamentally don't understand what the thing you're complaining about is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship…First mistake: using Twitter as a basis for reality. But seriously that's not open communication. If a husband wants more sex and expresses this it doesn't mean the resolution will ever actually be more sex. Please see r/deadbedrooms where men and women both experience this issue. Tons of reasons and gasp: more than one reason can result in less sex in a relationship. Open communication doesn't actually mean positive resolution. Sometimes the resolution can be separation. It's not a matter of "a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 12:39 AM |
| 7 | If young women liked younger men, there wouldnt be older men pursuing younger women.Yes right women aren't into guys with a lower body fat percentage, easy muscle gain due to higher testosterone, all their hair, no ex-wife, or step kids. We hate that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Approaching = always creepy? Depends on who says it.I have literally never shamed a guy who approached me to his face. It's too dangerous to do. Guy who started waiting for me on the train platform and getting on my car to sit next to me to talk, I was polite and guarded, mostly one word answers, attempts to use headphones and mentioned I was going home to my boyfriend multiple times. Guy who approached me in grocery store; had headphones in said I needed to hurry up and get to work for my shift. Guy at library, was definitely put off by him talk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How many of you would reject this guy because he is redpilled?As a woman who once actually was that age and not some dude pontificating, naw. Has job. In college. Is not some old dude with kids. Not going to deny hot, everyone wants to date someone good looking and why men fault women for that despite wanting it themselves is hilarious. The hypocrisy is stunning. However realistically based on the absolute uggos my friends dated it is lower down on priority than men think. The bad boy thing is like Jesus so lame. Like God what even is that? He wears a leat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Why do even women with high libidos prefer monogamy or sex with just one partner?Because: We like good sex where we actually orgasm? A hit it and quit it won't put in the time or effort to give you multiple orgasms before they even penetrate anything. Less chance of STDs. More opportunities to try the weird stuff with someone you know is safe. Emotional connection heightens everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 04:42 PM |
| – | CMV: Asking for a paternity test is not an accusation of cheating, and women who think like that are red flagsI wonder what the reaction would be if a dude asked for a paternity test and the response was: "yeah sure but fuck I should have gotten an abortion rather than have your child shouldn't I?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 01:49 PM |
| 2 | CMV : A lot of very attractive girls I’ve noticed just have very one dimensional tall tattooed bearded boyfriendsI am shocked this delightfully wholesome take exists here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do you desire college educated men?Again: equity. Or stock. My brother gets that stock. Bought his house cash after a sale rather than take out a jumbo mortgage. My partner keeps wanting to slumlord and chill but I think it's unethical. Just gunna sit on that pile of equity payout like smaug. Like I said get you a man you can actually spend time with. Not one who works nights and weekends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do you desire college educated men?If you need a side hustle get a better main hustle is my motto. Get equity, company sells, ????, profit. I just actually want to spend time with my partner not deal with him working all the time when we don't have hip problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 07:55 PM |
| 5 | Why do you desire college educated men?And how is this exactly advocating that dudes without college degrees are a good pick? Sounds miserable. My dad's 63 and dying to retire to spend more time with the grandkids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Why do you desire college educated men?But like my partner could afford to do that now and he's not even 40? Not that we have grandkids. I'd want to retire and enjoy that time traveling with him not watching him be broken down. Doesn't help one of my employees just died of cancer at 71 last week. Waiting on his death certificate to process everything. Lot of good working did him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Why do you desire college educated men?College educated or skilled trade, but only certain trades. I'd miss my man if he was always working OT, weekends, and holidays. I did worry about trade school guys because they would be threatened by my higher income potential and education. I briefly saw a bartender while in college and he was extremely insecure about where I was going despite being 5 years younger than him, it was pretty clear I would eclipse him. The insecurity is annoying. It wasn't even as if he made bad money or anything … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 07:35 PM |
| 5 | Why do you desire college educated men?He's 70 and still working? Yikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 07:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslyMost men can't afford a surrogate, most people can't and artificial wombs that can carry a human to term don't exist. Plus men realistically don't want that single parent life. It will be the greatest barrier if they ever do become a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever seen a handsome and successful man struggling with his romantic/sexual relationships? And why?Shut in. Shut in. Shut in. That's the reason. That's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t get to have male spacesOk rando. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRegressive in what way? It's not as if I'm some trad wife who doesn't have her own money who has to ask to spend or gets an allowance like a child. It's not as if I don't contribute to the household. If a man will be cheap and controlling on a date he'll be cheap and controlling in a relationship. Women should always offer and expect to go dutch on a date, but never go on a date with a man who insists before even meeting you go dutch. That's a block and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHyperbole isn't a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe underlying reason people get hostile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn yet another meeting that could have been an email. Partner texted me to ask what time worked best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLet. Gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean there are men out there who are better looking, make more money, are smarter, more charming, more well traveled, funnier, have more friends are just better in every single way than other men. There's no balance or equal footing. It's gotta be a lot if someone compares themselves to others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadClearly he thinks I do. It's very nice that after all these years he hasn't gotten lazy or taken me for granted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo I get it. There are men out there like my partner who would crush men who quibble over trivial things like a bug and I know it. Either way it's threatening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo we have a home but we just have high pressure jobs so we like to just change the scenery and go about for better weather and events and such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLiking massages? Nice meals and drinks? Not wanting to be poor? Being with a partner who values me and knows I have back pain from carrying around my enormous tits? Oh no the horror. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWho said I treat him like a wallet? I make more than most men anyways. He just makes more than triple what most people make and treats me well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow is me having a generous partner toxic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSorry boo happily taken. But you might keep it in mind for all the women who are/would be jealous of my partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDid you find your cheapie unicorn then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPartner booked a couples massage. Has been treating me to drinks and meals and we've been working out of resorts for two weeks. I love not being poor and having a generous man. Men out here crying over paying for pasta on the first date. I cannot imagine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh no corporations won't let people do whatever users want on the corpo platform. Are people honestly shocked by this? Indignant about this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:21 PM |
| 2 | I feel like the red pill teaches the right things for the wrong reasonsWhat passes for redpill teachings these days has diverged from the original messaging and been infiltrated by a lot of trad values. Instead of enjoying the decline there's a fuckton of blatant hatred. Granted in RP there was always some level of dehumanization of women but it was more passive if that makes sense. I'm never going to argue with people being healthier, more well read, happier in their careers, etc but if the only motivation is to get pussy I feel it will always create a void inside… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Most guys hate plastic surgery and make up on women. Most guys would never get plastic surgery and do makeup to impress or compete with other guys. So why do women do it for other women?Men love makeup and plastic surgery on women. They just don't want to know about it, just see the end result.they want women to be beautiful, naturally and polished, with no effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 01:09 PM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?Self perception is all that matters for self esteem. You're focusing too much on external perception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 06:28 PM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?I think you can work on how much you let impact you. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. You can understand that attractiveness is only important to you because you feel it prevents you from getting what you want. You can understand that with effort, learning studying techniques that work for you etc you don't have to be dumb as fuck. To have proper self esteem you gotta put in some work. It's not this something you're born with. You get to decide what you value. You get to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Straight (or bisexual women in straight relationships), how common is it for you to lie to your male partners to spare their ego? Is it a good thing?Of course because no one on PPD can fathom a good relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Straight (or bisexual women in straight relationships), how common is it for you to lie to your male partners to spare their ego? Is it a good thing?Of course I give him gifts. He is adorable and I want to spoil him. And you get good sex if you communicate and take feedback. Which we both do. So it's a fun time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?Of course they do since self-esteem deals with self perception which directly ties into insecurity and confidence. Your perception can reject the external feedback and eliminate it from how you perceive your own value. Of course everyone will have moments of self doubt but they can be reconciled without causing significant damage to our sense of self. People can tell you how pretty and nicely shaped you are your whole adult, a creepily pre adult, life but if you place no value in this except as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?You're just describing unearned confidence and being insecure. External forces have no place in self-esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?Self-esteem shouldn't be at all derived from others and self-esteem shouldn't be based on something as fleeting as physical appearance. Men are very sensitive. Being called out in my experience doesn't work super well. If you acknowledge their attraction it means you care. And every man but my partner is beneath me, and therefore beneath my notice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 02:12 PM |
| -2 | "A lot of men are not desirable." Do you agree or disagree? Why or why not?I know lots of short ugly married men who earn jack shit. If someone is single the answer is almost always: lack of exposure to the opposite sex. Increase exposure, increase odds. Now if that's not the problem then the answer is: that person is truly unpleasant but doesn't realize it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?And that's on me to communicate them truthfully. The male friends I have made myself have never given uncomfortable compliments. It's weirdly my partners friends who became my friends where it's the problem. I don't want to offend them and I don't want to put my partner in a position where he has to tell his friend to potentially damage his friendship. This is generally why I started wearing 3XL stuff. Thanks to Billie Eilish people think its a fashion thing. Generally when someone laments not g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 01:54 PM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?I prefer no complaints from men on my physical appearance, even my dude friends. Now from women? Bathe me in compliments. I have never felt prettier when I was in Japan and two employees were talking about how cute I was and how pretty my eye makeup was to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 01:25 PM |
| -1 | "A lot of men are not desirable." Do you agree or disagree? Why or why not?Can't disagree. The most interesting point is men insisting women need men as protectors. It's always amusing when you ask them from what would they be protecting the women from? The answer is other men, which is why they never want to actually answer that question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 01:21 PM |
| 1 | "A lot of men are not desirable." Do you agree or disagree? Why or why not?You're kind of missing the point, desirable as an entire person. Lack of emotional intelligence and maturity will make you not relationship material. And the post addresses needed a man if you wanted a house back in the day, clearly meaning marriage. No one said we don't like to fuck on occasion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 01:18 PM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?It depends if the relationship is in a bad place then outside compliments can mean a lot to people. Reinforcement that it isn't them as it were. It's best to just not compliment a taken lady. Even, nice dress, usually translates to wow your tits look amazing in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Straight (or bisexual women in straight relationships), how common is it for you to lie to your male partners to spare their ego? Is it a good thing?I don't about sex. This is how you get bad sex. I don't want bad sex. If anything I'm overly blunt. "Reverse cowgirl sucks for me because of how curved your dick is, it just hits the wrong spots. I don't want to do it.", "You're going too deep and I'm going to hit you with my legs if you go too far to knock you back if you keep doing it." I do about gifts though. He loves giving me gifts and he prides himself on getting me very good gifts. Sometimes I have to react unauthentically to make him ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:09 PM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?My partner and our friend and I were at an event recently and a guy full-on ignored them to interact with me, giving me a gift and clasping my hand directly in front of them. He did it the next day too. So twice. I was like wow the confidence on this dude but also the audacity. My partner was right there. I was with two men. He was taller, more built, and more physically imposing than both of them so I don't think he cared. I have closets full of beautiful boutique clothes but I've started dress… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever felt that by not having children you are non fulfilling your biological duty?To some extent I don't even believe that believing reproduction is the sole purpose for existence even aligns with nihilism. I would consider you a natalist. Not a nihilist. Your impulse is to create, not destroy, your belief is to propagate and that is the meaning which is not the absence of meaning. I don't believe life has any particular inherent meaning, not even reproduction, only the one you choose to assign to it for yourself. You can believe what you want and your "nihilism" is likely a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever felt that by not having children you are non fulfilling your biological duty?I'm here for a good time not a long time. Eat the good food. Drink the good booze. See the world. Fuck the man I love. Spend time with friends. Nihilism is for losers. All my homies love ethical hedonism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | The average man is shamed when he has standards. How to make someone understand that this is not cool?So the point of 6 is that gender roles created by men to treat women as property still exist. So again: insecurity and treating women like not people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 12:59 AM |
| 1 | The average man is shamed when he has standards. How to make someone understand that this is not cool?Disgust comes from a place. Social pariahs are made by enforcing certain things in a social construct. Making things undesirable is to benefit a certain group of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 12:49 AM |
| 1 | The average man is shamed when he has standards. How to make someone understand that this is not cool?Well jack the ripper was never caught but violence against women regardless often stems from feelings of insecurity from men. That and the need to control or possess. So far the only things you've put forth are: insecurity and treating women as less than human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 12:38 AM |
| 1 | The average man is shamed when he has standards. How to make someone understand that this is not cool?So you are saying 6 is a convoluted way of saying social pressure or internalized social pressure? But you bring up shame which is interesting because it's linked to: insecurity. You couldn't live with your own failure, where did that bring you? Back to insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | The average man is shamed when he has standards. How to make someone understand that this is not cool?Okay so problem, only 4 actually addresses my actual question. I don't need justification on why people can care, I want to know why they do. 4 indicates fear of being cheated on, an insecurity you may not be enough if you will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 06:28 PM |
| 1 | The average man is shamed when he has standards. How to make someone understand that this is not cool?I guess my question is, you date a woman, no STDs, she even has completely clean paps so she has no HPV even. She really likes you. Does it matter if she's slept with 1 or 15 people? If it does matter why does it matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider dating someone overweight or obese?Setting aside bmi is a terrible indicator since it classifies super muscular people as obese.. Absolutely. I'm attracted to certain weight distributions and shapes that honestly aren't attainable for most people under or at a generic weight. My partner has legs like tree trunks. They are so thick and sturdy, they're genetic not from leg day, and he has broad shoulders. He has the physicality of a fictional character. I don't see men built like him often. With women I like incredibly pear shaped … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAmen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 09:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.It's a fucked up world we live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 09:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.Casual arm touches are acceptable in public so are mildly seductive ones. I can't very well go about groping licking my partners thighs in public. As much as I would like to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.What is wrong with people? Sorry you had to go through that. That's fucked up. Call those bitches out for sexual assault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBro that's the only way I go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's about the only thing I enjoy about gym bros. Some of them do have that diminished gluteal syndrome but sometimes the ass is fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you got a bad relationship I feel bad for you son I got 99 problems but a shit relationship ain't one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean not your cup o' tea but in my experience: it's gym bros. Don't be mad your brethren want some light cbt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWord. But my partner is a king. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot what simping means bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have massive tits and a huge ass. What you think? I don't have distain for fit guys, they're just not my type. I do love a sub though. It's just very common for gym bros to be hardcore subs. Nothing wrong with wanting a strap on in the ass. It's cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you're not a simp for your significant I feel bad for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI thought we all knew men have an empathy deficit for women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's called nurture bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCooperative in fucking their assholes and stepping on their dicks. Seriously it's always the fit dudes that want it. I don't get it but goddamn do they want it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:18 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.Gimme them thick tree trunk thighs. That's the problem. All these chicken legged motherfuckers out there. How am I supposed to be attracted to a man with thin thighs? My partner proudly proclaims it's a family trait his lesbian aunt shares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be with a man who raises kids that aren't his? Or one the has kids he doesn't raise?I mean my parents divorced and had 50/50 custody. Neither of my step father's "raised me" they just existed in proximity to me. Occasionally more current stepdad would take me to the gun range to shoot. But otherwise my brother and I had not much to do with them. Both had children of their own from previous marriages but had less custody of them and never fought for more. My former stepmother did a lot more "raising" since my dad worked so much in terms of feeding, had some but not much situatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.All benefits and hopes and expectations. But hey the power of self delusion right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.Proximity to money, hopes of marriage and citizenship, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.Because they couldn't possibly have other reasons... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.I know what you're saying and what you're unwilling to acknowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.Sounds like it still costs but also like you're saying they get nothing from the sex.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.Well that's why it's cheap. You're paying with your citizenship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.Uh huh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.Any place with a liquor license that has fresh mint to muddle isn't generally selling for cheap. Like I said if you wanna pay for sex: get a pro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.No dude you said coffee and walking until the legs are open so that's not what you're saying. Someone wise once said: "Baby if you're broke just say so." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHighschool me was all about the subcultures but egl was my scene. Still gyaru is fire. Hyper femme glory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHonestly go for it. Pam is a queen and gyaru should have never died. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.Predators and weirdos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 12:19 AM |
| 2 | If women are happier when single. Why do they push for commitment?All women are complaining about fuck bois and single motherhood or some women? Women interested in motherhood or not? Honestly I really do think most women push for commitment because of children and social expectations. Realistically if my partner were to pass away I honestly wouldn't feel very motivated to be in a relationship ever again. My partner is special, I never wanted any man the way I wanted him when we met before or since. It doesn't seem worthwhile to be with another person ever aga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.Again purity isn't something you use, it's a liability that attracts predators and weirdos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.And people acting as if their conclusions aren't informed by personal experiences is disingenuous and laughable. And I did speak generally as well but you ignored that, wonder why? In reality being perceived as being pure and innocent isn't a privilege, it's a weakness. Period. There really isn't any getting around it. "Choosing" purity isn't really a thing. Men are seen as sexually motivated which based on this sub is absolutely true, and you yourself define purity as little to no sex, so by yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.Being considered pure and innocent isn't a privilege. It makes you a target and a fetish. Being attractive to a certain kind of despicable man isn't a privilege. It's disheartening speaking from personal experience. I had sex for the first time with a person who regarded my status as frankly concerning and a bit off putting. Men engaging in lots of sex are lauded and inspire envy in other men. Whereas a man who dedicates himself to one woman is whipped a simp or a loser. Same thing with men who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t get to have male spacesI love when internet randos insist they can know the man I live with and have been with for 10+ years better than me. Oh and my male friends too. No one is asking to play with you. Be gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:23 PM |
| – | Bluepill is mostly right on relationships, Redpill is mostly right on dating and meeting new peopleClassy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 03:17 PM |
| – | Bluepill is mostly right on relationships, Redpill is mostly right on dating and meeting new peopleCite your source. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: What are your thoughts on childfree women and infertile women?What country? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 08:59 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: What are your thoughts on childfree women and infertile women?What's your language and culture? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | How has your ex partner's life turned out compared to your own?I think you could do family annihilation for Florida too. Todt family anyone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Woman Claims It’s Hard To Get Sex, Is That True?Eh my coworker is currently using the apps. Guys her age absolutely ghost but they also act suspicious and typically ghost after she asks them if they're married. A huge number of people on the apps are looking for affairs but lie about it. The dudes she has hooked up with are all 7-10 years younger than her and only matched with her because they lied about their age because if they hadn't they would have been filtered out. Things haven't gone well though because they've been possessive despite … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:46 PM |
| 6 | How has your ex partner's life turned out compared to your own?What no oxy addiction from back pain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersAnd this is why you keep your own income stream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:26 PM |
| 6 | How has your ex partner's life turned out compared to your own?Ahhh I wasn't sure if that was a euphemism based on the states you mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:20 PM |
| – | Dear women, what makes a man "boring"?It's more like there's a tipping point. My partner and I have enough in common but he also has interests that are super technical that makes my eyes glaze over. But I don't consider it boring, it's really cute he has something he's so passionate about. He also is really knowledgeable about the military because he was in the Navy and pretty knowledgeable about philosophy and geopolitics. It may not be my cup of tea but I know that he doesn't share my deep love of horror movies, historical costumi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:17 PM |
| 9 | How has your ex partner's life turned out compared to your own?Is white people things meth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:01 PM |
| 12 | How has your ex partner's life turned out compared to your own?My ex flew me out to see him so we could talk. He asked if we could try again. Needless to say I came out ahead because he's stuck with me now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Why marriage is deadHalf of first time marriages? For which generation? Are we counting that more people are cohabitating and not marrying? The statistics are actually super ambiguous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Why marriage is deadYeah I don't understand why people keep insisting on lying about this kind of thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?Because a. She got knocked up b. She's poor c. Religious d. Any or all of the above combination | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a mute guy?It sounds like your anxiety is your biggest hurdle. I don't see how you can have any improvement in any aspect of your life until your anxiety is addressed. I highly recommend Klonopin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a mute guy?Are you on medication for your anxiety? Something like Klonopin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a mute guy?Have the professionals who diagnosed you been treating you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a mute guy?Are they situations with women you're attracted to? Or are you also selectively mute with men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Would you date a mute guy?So can you never speak or only in certain situations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a mute guy?Why are you mute? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 12:59 AM |
| 8 | Are single fathers attractive to women?No one wants to be a stepmom. It's just something you begrudgingly accept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is?Well now that's two lies. Because he's not insecure about his height: it's a shit test. I'm confrontational as shit so I'd probably say he's lying and start a fight. I also hate the idea of dating someone a full foot taller than me. So it's a no from me. I couldn't even kiss him on my tippy toes. I expect men under 6' to fudge their height by 1-2" but I've never ever seen someone subtract 6" from their height. Tbh though in my brief OLD stint I absolutely did not put my best pictures and I over … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be oneGrasp at straws harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be oneSince you can't read: Just look at any modern romance media, it's the same trope every time — woman meets a bad boy who realizes the err of his ways and is reformed into the perfect partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be oneThat's not what we're talking about? Read the parent comment next time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be oneSo. So many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 12:22 AM |
| 1 | I may get a lot of hate for it but I legitimately think in the older ages most men look better than womenAnd I can tell you're overly invested in this. It's all bought. 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 12:21 AM |
| 1 | I may get a lot of hate for it but I legitimately think in the older ages most men look better than womenWith what? Pregnancy do make you pack on the lbs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 12:21 AM |
| 1 | I may get a lot of hate for it but I legitimately think in the older ages most men look better than womenThey dehydrate prior to shirtless scenes to make muscles pop. There's also makeup contouring involved. But men's testosterone begins dropping in their 30s. They're definitely on TRT especially the men approaching social security age. But none of its natural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 08:22 PM |
| 2 | I may get a lot of hate for it but I legitimately think in the older ages most men look better than womenJust like Kylie Jenner's inflated lips was just skillfully applied lip liner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 08:19 PM |
| 1 | I may get a lot of hate for it but I legitimately think in the older ages most men look better than womenBrad Pitt in Troy? Fight club? Tom Cruise is 61, his testosterone has dropped like a rock and yet? Anyone who tells you no is selling something. Funny how no one denies the face work though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 06:36 PM |
| 3 | I may get a lot of hate for it but I legitimately think in the older ages most men look better than womenYeah that's what they say to avoid that they're taking roids. But they are. Especially as they age and muscle mass is harder to maintain and build. They are. It's one of Hollywood's worst kept secrets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:39 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid being 'boring' to ladies?It all depends on the person. If a guys passions were sports and cars I would be bored as fuck. This however might really rev up a different lady. You're not going to find one viable strat. Being socially active is great. Having lots of friends and going out will at least make you not seem boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:37 PM |
| 3 | I may get a lot of hate for it but I legitimately think in the older ages most men look better than womenGiven how quickly these actors are required to change their physiques for roles it's impossible for them to not be on steroids for periods in their careers. Again they also have frequent treatments and mini procedures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:15 PM |
| 14 | Nobody owes anyone sex, but it’s a reasonable expectation if there’s commitmentI admit if I were in a dead bedroom situation I would really really struggle. I have hypersexuality which my partner knew before he entered into a relationship with me. I try very hard to not aggressively initiate as much as I used to because I realized it made him feel bad. It was all the time. And I know I can be a lot. He jokes about getting be a girl to play with but I am hyper fixated on sex with him specifically. The thing people never consider about dead bedrooms though is the state of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:13 PM |
| 21 | Nobody owes anyone sex, but it’s a reasonable expectation if there’s commitmentGoddamn King. You dropped your crown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 04:59 PM |
| 2 | I may get a lot of hate for it but I legitimately think in the older ages most men look better than womenPeople always forget most women in these studies have gone through at least one pregnancy. And those things wreck your body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 04:52 PM |
| 4 | I may get a lot of hate for it but I legitimately think in the older ages most men look better than womenPlastic surgery and roids is why they look the way they do. They've both also likely had hair transplants to lower their rising hairlines. Not to mention expensive Lazer treatments, filler, and potentially mini facelifts. Nutritionists on staff and personal trainers. They're rich and their looks are of vital importance to their careers. Spending millions to look slightly better is completely standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 04:43 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to meet women?I'm not saying I liked being approached. I even say I rejected every single guy. If my ear buds are in I don't want to be approached. That's the clear fuck off sign. As for exit strategy: you leave. Be gone if they say be gone. Not hard. Coming across as creepy takes some active work. Now the guy who found me frequently on the train and sat/stood next to me regularly and tried to talk to me despite the fact my time leaving the office varied and there were 8 different cars? Creepy. How did he fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 01:01 AM |
| 7 | Why do you think so many women are sexually attracted to K-pop male stars ?Y'all haven't seen J-Hope in his military uniform. Get you a man who can do both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 12:52 AM |
| – | How are men supposed to meet women?Again: not brain surgery. Someplace public. Someplace social. I've been approached at school, bars, clubs, grocery store, work, library, on the bus, on the train, at a convention, etc. Did I say no? Yes but at no point did I fear for my safety, at worst I was annoyed. If you can't figure out where to meet women that's just a... A lack of fundamentally understanding how people and the word works. And honestly what more likely is guys who can't figure it out have: zero, few, and or all male friend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to meet women?I've been approached by guys at bars and clubs. Gave a guy my number based solely on the fact he was dressed as Ash from Army of Darkness. Was some halfway to Halloween event. I've been to parties in my 30s I don't know what you're talking about. Activity venues pick a hobby and go to an event that revolves around that. I'm just astounded people can't figure out how to interact with other humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 05:49 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to meet women?And yet all the men I know in relationships beg to differ. It just seems certain men who can't figure out basic shit like : how to socialize or have friends are the ones who are fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 04:55 PM |
| – | How are men supposed to meet women?Bars, clubs, venues for activities (gym is generally a bad idea tho), parties, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 04:54 PM |
| – | How are men supposed to meet women?Duh that's why I'm saying don't be a fake friend. And again false premise women don't think acquaintances are being fake friends they think men who present themselves as genuine friends are sidling. Remove acquaintances from the equation completely. And not always. I had a friend who was empirically physically attractive. As my male friend said "he was a fucking god 100% would". I just didn't like his personality in a romantic context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 04:52 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to meet women?Gin and tonics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 04:48 PM |
| – | How are men supposed to meet women?Depends. If you spend the time trashing her ex or current boyfriend and emphasizing what good friends you are, building emotional intimacy my sidling radar is going off. If you hang out once or twice every month in a group setting it's not an issue. There are no hard and fast rules here. Sometimes expressing your interest early actually is best, especially if a few people are interested and sitting on their hands until they think it's a lock. My partner and I were "friends" for like two years be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 03:07 PM |
| – | How are men supposed to meet women?If you're in Vegas you get g&t's so long as you're playing. Pretty dope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 02:44 PM |
| – | How are men supposed to meet women?It's a sausage fest. Like your odds are shit. You're better off playing blackjack in a casino. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 02:42 PM |
| – | How are men supposed to meet women?No one is saying don't approach acquaintances. Literally no one. In fact acquaintances and friends of friends are some of the best ways to meet someone. Trying to initiate a romance with someone you were interested in from the start but tried to weasel your way in is what women don't like. Women frequently point out the statistically for OLD, that it's overwhelmingly men. No one is saying OLD is great for men, except men. Approach women in safe public spaces that are appropriate. This isn't brai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it?Honestly I was so depressed post breakup and the death of my grandmother I didn't notice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh I haven't been in a relationship consistently since I was 17. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 06:53 PM |
| 8 | Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it?Since I was sexually active? 4 months. Masturbation is fun. The biggest issue was dealing with the breakup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor mine I wanted to order a bunch of Lebanese food and play supermassive games with my partner. I was very happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPaying off my student loan debt and progressing in my career saved me. In a big way it saved my relationship. I no longer experienced the feelings of being crushed by debt or feeling like I wasn't enough. I was actually able to pursue things that made me happy. Just saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Where do you all go for dates? What is the general cost?For my partner and I's first date we went to one of those gastro pubs. He bought me mac and cheese and a coke. I don't like appetizers because then I'm not hungry for the entree. Afterwards we walked around and talked but it got late and he needed to prepare for his roommates post birthday brunch the next day so I actually went grocery shopping with him. I thought it was cute how he was going to make brunch for her, her boyfriend, and her friends the next morning. Our dates now tend to be pricey… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Should they teach young people to take relationships more seriously, in high school?He states it was a moment but not the motivation for writing the book. But also his brother in law knocked up a 17 year old which is pretty fucking gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 03:07 PM |
| 3 | How does fitness culture affect dating and relationships?I think it depends where you live and which circles you travel in. You'll get a different view if you're in the Midwest vs San Francisco. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Should they teach young people to take relationships more seriously, in high school?Dude impregnated a 17 year old? Gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Should they teach young people to take relationships more seriously, in high school?https://youtu.be/4u-xX4w8pZo Your god says hello. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Should they teach young people to take relationships more seriously, in high school?I think an increase in school social workers. And health classes that teach children about more than just abstinence like dealing with mental illness would probably help. But children are always going to be dealing with developing brains and everything that comes with it. They're not always going to make the best decisions or be focused on their futures. These things rightfully take time to figure out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Should they teach young people to take relationships more seriously, in high school?Children have poor impulse control. Their brains are still cooking. https://www.inverse.com/article/35834-teen-breakups-leading-cause-of-suicide | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Should they teach young people to take relationships more seriously, in high school?Verbatim from him this isn't true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Should they teach young people to take relationships more seriously, in high school?Nah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:14 PM |
| 8 | Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic?To be fair you don't know what a C cup looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic?Not really. https://www.instagram.com/p/CueB7VIAS58/?igshid=MmU2YjMzNjRlOQ== | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:07 PM |
| 12 | Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic?This actually isn't how cup sizes work and most people have no idea what a DD breast size means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Should they teach young people to take relationships more seriously, in high school?I've got a worse one. Brothers close friend and coworker has to start paying bills at his house. His dad got laid off from his software development job he had forever. They get into an argument and my brothers friend calls his dad a loser and a failure. Brothers friend finds dad the next morning with a plastic bag on his head hanging from the basement rafters. Cuts him down and tries to give him CPR, but realistically his dad has been dead for hours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Should they teach young people to take relationships more seriously, in high school?Imagine how his father felt. Again children aren't going to make good decisions about relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:31 PM |
| 4 | Should they teach young people to take relationships more seriously, in high school?My neighbors son in highschool hung himself because his high school girlfriend broke up with him. His dad had to cut him down. When we say these kids brains aren't developed: it's not a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Should they teach young people to take relationships more seriously, in high school?Highschools aren't out there giving kids divorce statistics either, mostly just trying to not have one of their students get pregnant. Teaching children to take relationships seriously to encourage early marriage is what families like the Duggars do. Religious cults and stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?The world has simply made former gender roles obsolete. With progress and technology they don't serve anyone. In the past women were heavily pushed to marry and have children in early adulthood, now such a thing is considered a stupid idea due to increased likelihood of divorce for young couples and young peoples inability to support themselves, let alone a child. Women can now seek education and pursue a variety of careers. Survival is no longer tied to marriage. Men failing to secure a partner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?Oh pugs can't breathe and their life is agony. We bred them to be that way because haha cute. And it's a toilet brush, not a toothbrush, and he's my cousin's husband. He did this prior to marriage though and had to go to therapy and couples therapy and can't have a smartphone anymore or his own bank account because his parents and my cousin are afraid he'll fall back into old habits again. The average man no longer conforms to past gender norms. Sometimes because it's not economically possible o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?I think it's been pretty clearly established things have changed. The next time you see a pug just remember that's what we made from a wolf. The next time you think men are guardians and women nurturers just remember my cousins husband paid a findomme money he earned delivering linens to tell him to sodomize himself with a toilet brush. The handle. Not the bristle part. It's a brave new world out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?It's not so much culture as it is again restrictive gender norms that are fundamentally outdated. I find a lot of performative male gender indicators a turnoff. It just feels fake and like a dudes trying to puff himself up. Be the soft boi who plays video games for at least 2 hours after working a job you hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?What you're kind of getting at is a love language called acts of service but if the act is exclusively restricted to a gender norm to affirm someone's feeling of self it isn't necessarily selfless. I helped my grandma cook because I loved spending time with my grandma and she was born in the 30s and well you can guess what role was available to my grandma: wife, mother, homemaker. She was allowed to get a job eventually in the 1980s though. It's not quite funny so much as sad when I think about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 01:32 AM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to date and/or marry men they have no attraction to or affection towards simply because it's "the norm" or because they love the idea of being in a relationship moreso than actually being in a relationship?So like 1. People aren't as closeted as they used to have to be 2. Half of your shit? All of their shit. Not your shit. 3. People generally are really conflicted 4. This has happened with gay men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?My dad has reached fuck it mode with work. He's a couple years from retirement and he's done. Plus he's got grandkids now so he has new priorities. He's gotta like have tea parties with my niece and keep my brother from strangling my nephew (not really my brother just clearly has a fave). Men just want to feel needed. And I think with women are raised to be tasked. I was helping my grandmother make holiday dinners since I was in elementary school. So things work out differently. Labor is inheren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 09:44 PM |
| 0 | How common is it for women to date and/or marry men they have no attraction to or affection towards simply because it's "the norm" or because they love the idea of being in a relationship moreso than actually being in a relationship?The post... The replies... I'm just saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 09:01 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to date and/or marry men they have no attraction to or affection towards simply because it's "the norm" or because they love the idea of being in a relationship moreso than actually being in a relationship?No it kinda sounds like a fixation. A very rare scenario to fixate on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 08:43 PM |
| 1 | If you enter a Karate class first time wearing a Gi and a black belt, knowing what it means is disrespectful because you didn't earn it. why is it normal that women get married wearing a white dress?Why does OP ignore all the historical takes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 08:39 PM |
| 2 | If you enter a Karate class first time wearing a Gi and a black belt, knowing what it means is disrespectful because you didn't earn it. why is it normal that women get married wearing a white dress?This is the historical fashion take I showed up for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 08:33 PM |
| 5 | How common is it for women to date and/or marry men they have no attraction to or affection towards simply because it's "the norm" or because they love the idea of being in a relationship moreso than actually being in a relationship?What's with this late in life lesbian fixation thing going on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?My dad's smashed multiple fingers and toes, got a metal shred in his eye (running joke that he was wearing his safety glasses: on top of his head), has almost been crushed to death multiple times, fell off a machine and was temporarily paralyzed from the waist down, and had me hold a fire extinguisher on him while he was arc welding something once. Also running joke my dad is Tony Stark. But I think any young guy would look at his job and be like fuck this. It's why I roll my eyes whenever men h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe GSS data also throws the pew data into question which isn't just on sex but relationships. And does still again indicate a mixture of causes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 07:22 PM |
| 8 | The women at sex parties are better looking than menHi! Bi lady here. It's the same in the kink community, where there is no restrictions on being single. Less cargo shorts though and more black jeans and button ups but yeah the women are generally significantly more attractive and put more effort into themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAgain I think you're missing the key stat of the original article where there's only a 1% variance between men and women who haven't had sex in the past year. And again IF is only addressing the GSS data not the Pew data which it basically throws out but you cited as if it were significant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBoth the initial article, which talks about the overstatement of the sexual gap and the IF article cite more the more recent GSS survey. And again in the initial article it cites that 20% of men and 19% of women under 35 reported not having sex in the past year. Numbers that are very close. But now looking back on your very first comment I am not sure you read the initial article I posted. The IF article addresses the dating gap as being more like 10% per the GSS survey and dismisses the validit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's in the article? And again it's not age gaps getting larger, or even that they are close to 10+ years. I have literally never said that. My own is 5 and again were I surveyed he would not be. it's just a cut off and the fact the higher end of the ages included in the study often include marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSure Jan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe GSS data? Plus the pandemic? Rise of isolation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo the problem is, setting aside the value of average being a good indicator, that study is from 2014, 9 years ago. Things have uh changed since then. At the time the article was published the data was pretty relevant since it was in 2015. But yes same sex relationships would remove two women from the pool for every relationship. Not to mention the jokes about lesbians moving in together after the second date, the u-haul lesbian as it is dubbed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo an unintentional lie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo average isn't a great indicator of actual age differences. Some possibilities: https://ifstudies.org/blog/theres-no-huge-gender-gap-in-being-single-among-young-adults | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt it can be defined however one choses to be? what is actually being measured? What credibility does one feeling have in a objective matter. Sure Jan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah someone already predicted dudes would say women lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWeird you zoom right in on spinning plates rather than a guy seeing one girl who hasn't had they boyfriend girlfriend conversation yet. I'm not suggesting the men not included in the study are significantly older, just above the cutoff. For example I would be included in the demographics of this study but my partner would not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | You are, as a human, not owed anythingI think you're putting too much stock into a small reddit group most people openly mock. Also boohoo people who don't hate themselves and want equality. Such infection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOr do men not classify themselves as in a relationship while a woman does? Or is the sample size not large enough? Or are they dating men just over the age cutoff for the study? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:53 PM |
| 1 | You are, as a human, not owed anythingNo it's not. They're written off as loones. You don't want to pay for beef Wellington don't. Who cares. You either get dates or you don't. Whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:51 PM |
| 1 | You are, as a human, not owed anythingThen why is everyone always complaining? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFair. But I like how it touches on a number of issues including the decline in friendship as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGuess women aren't having that much sex: https://www.salon.com/2022/11/06/why-are-so-many-young-people-are-having-less-and-fewer-friendships/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?My dad works in a factory. His hands are grey because the oil is trapped under layers of callous. His hands feel like sand paper. My dad actually likes what he does. He is also always remodeling his and everyone's house, fixing things for people, repairing cars, etc. I always say my dad can fix anything even if it's not broken. He likes being the go to guy, it gives him purpose. I told my dad I was having surgery and I would be on the first floor of my home for a few weeks before I was allowed t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:02 PM |
| 1 | You are, as a human, not owed anythingIf it's pretty obvious isn't it easy to avoid? And if it happens correct me if I am wrong the worst that happens is a guy pays for dinner and doesn't get a second date or sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 02:44 PM |
| 0 | "just be skinny" doesn't workIs this just men being mad there are fat girls out there with pretty faces cleaning up? And they're within a normal BMI but don't get play so they're trying to do this weird creation of a societal norm that actually doesn't exist. Because the words butter face exist for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?Personally not a fan. Mostly because growing up I saw the physical toll the "manly" jobs took on the men around me. They're completely ground down in their mid 40s. Also the resentment they carry for jobs that are considered more prestigious and where higher education is required. The "male essence" leaves out the torn rotator cuffs and spinal disc degeneration. I personally love IT nerds. If I need someone to fix my fence I'll throw money at someone. I don't want to see my partner break apart h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 01:56 AM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**It's a conversation without girth.ets put it that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 11:15 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**0 value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 10:25 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Suggested flair: Christ pilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 08:19 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Ah so there is no value in this interaction. We fundamentally do not agree on a core premise. Your foundation from which you approach all things in life is Christianity, whatever interpretation of the scriptures you choose. Regardless I do not accept that premise and so there is no point. Next time just say up front there is only one correct way to live and if you don't you aren't fulfilling God's purpose so people can just ignore you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Everyone wants to be physically attracted to their partner. Ruin lies in store for anyone who chooses solely on that alone though. As I've said your definition is not consistent and seems only to insult or elevate. Alpha good. Beta bad. That's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 08:10 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**But am I right? And if you're feeling abused by an online interaction: log off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 08:07 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Am I right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 07:54 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**People have different criteria for why they choose people for marriage and friends. My friend wanted to be a SAHM with two children. She was up front while dating she wanted this and any guy who wasn't onboard didn't last. She married a guy who was okay with this but compromised that once they were both in school she needed to get at least a part time job. It used to be when her parents both retired but they've found that they will be traveling so much they aren't reliable childcare. My other fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 07:53 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Enjoy you everyone should want the life I want pill. Which usually means Christianity pilled but who knows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 06:36 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Again entirely sincere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Wait what are we doing? Hiring people? Selecting friends? Partners? Might we have different criteria for these things? Might we not say I like Bob because he's supportive and we have a lot on common so we are friends rather than Bobs a 7 on the friendship scale or bobs a beta on the friendship scale? Nuance man. Learn it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 06:04 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Enjoy believing such a thing exists 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Could the greater male variability hypothesis be the reason women are having more success than men in college?No I said developmental and abnormal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Could the greater male variability hypothesis be the reason women are having more success than men in college?Intro to psych was earlier but like 2015 for later classes. Gotta pump that GPA with blow off classes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Could the greater male variability hypothesis be the reason women are having more success than men in college?No one in the class was. The professors weren't either. The only time I was in a class where everyone hated someone was because it was the "um actually" dude that just annoyed the shit out of the whole class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 05:07 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**If you don't want children it's a loss. Which clearly you do. And that's cool for you it's just weird you think everyone else has to because you do. People want different things. My friend would be unhappy in my life and I would be unhappy in hers but individually we are happy and thriving in our own. You keep going on with that beta shit though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 05:05 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**I don't rack and stack people either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Women Assume The Worst Whenever A Man Leaves A Friendship After RejectionNail on the head with criticizing other male friends. It's like why do you hate William? You guys have been friends longer and he's a cool dude. But just mad like actively mean shit talking. They're trying to make sure you don't go for anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Could the greater male variability hypothesis be the reason women are having more success than men in college?My high school got a state grant and they got all the equipment for circuit training. So we learned to use equipment safely. Gym wasn't about competing it was about physical activity. After school sports where you tried out and made the team were about competing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Could the greater male variability hypothesis be the reason women are having more success than men in college?Zero of my psych classes were like this. Not 101. Not developmental. Not abnormal. We covered Jung, the Milgram experiment, schizophrenia, never how terrible men are. We had people drop because of bad test scores but not because of male persecution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 04:05 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Are you so limited in your thinking people can only be one of two things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**I help people who need support and especially children who need love and support whose parents are inept and selfish. Whether it's helping with math homework or giving them time to have fun and be carefree. It's so funny how the definition of words get to change based on where you need to shoehorn it in. It's almost as if the words you use have no meaning at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 03:40 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**I am being entirely sincere. I again evaluate people holistically. I don't use words or concepts grifters made up because they know people don't want to think for themselves and despise nuance and prefer easy neat boxes and classifications. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 03:27 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**I don't find having children to be selfless. It is ultimately the most selfish thing a person can do. Instead of dedicating resources and time to helping those here right now you produce another one solely because you want to. No child asks to be born. It is of a person's own selfish desire. You could say yes but they are selflessly giving themselves to other person, but again it's a choice they made. I've also heard parents say some really fucked up shit about why they have children like securi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 03:22 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Cool strawman. But I don't find things like alpha or beta to be helpful and prefer to evaluate people holistically before coming to a conclusion. I think men like the concept of alpha or beta because it either gives them something easy to aspire to or easy to obtain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**You're welcome! I think it's wonderful when people can live the life they choose rather than what others would dictate for them. Of course this is not always financially or romantically possible for many people. I count myself as extremely lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 03:04 PM |
| 0 | Is it harder for a man or a woman to be considered attractive?If men are aiming to appeal to the female gaze they wouldn't dress the way they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**So the richest people are the most successful, therefore the most alpha? No. They are they richest. Hahahahhahahahahahajahah do you hear the fucking reality you're denying? Ugly woman starts making money and picks up the "ambitious" pizza delivery guy??? Hahhaha it really doesn't get any better, tbh Nah I was in school and broke as fuck when we started dating. He had just finished an internship. I don't know why you would think I was making mad money as a full-time college student. You define su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 01:15 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**"You disagree with me therefore you must me ugly" See like I said: stupid point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?I can say I have never been mesmerized by a man's overwhelming manliness. But I am feral. Men now are not brave or hunters or anything like that. They're Steve from IT. Some are predatory but that's like a rapist. I think with harems the things people forget is no one actually ever wanted to be in them for the dude. Proximity to power/wealth and a life of comfort. Never the dude. People fall for toxic people because people who are manipulative are really good at manipulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Women Assume The Worst Whenever A Man Leaves A Friendship After RejectionI think you're forgetting something. Men react when you reject them, and tell on themselves in the confession. "I've always liked you, from the moment I first saw you." "I've wasted all this time!" "So you can go back to your fucking ex!? You dumb bitch." Etc. It's often not assumption. It's based off of what men say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?Sometimes I think men want to be a heroine in a romance novel. Walking down the street where a woman is struck by his quiet beauty. It's a bit funny. It reminds me of all the romance novels where the woman is described as being as common as possible so women can see themselves in her. Is the equivalent harem anime? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 03:19 AM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**There was no coherent or good argument. A stupid thought doesn't deserve a response of considerable effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 10:16 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Living your life how you want is success. The people who should be having children are the people who want them. Unless you think people should lead lives they don't want to check boxes others would foist upon them. I make the money. The income I require can support myself in my lifestyle: I earn. When my partner and I met we were both in school, he was a pizza delivery guy. I needed a partner who had ambition to match my own. I don't want to pull dead weight with me. But if someone chooses that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?I don't pay attention to fake Internet points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why?Acquaintances work best. Mutual friends. Or at a social event that establishes mutual interest. Not in the frozen food section. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 06:24 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**No they just have to make a good coherent point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 06:23 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Many years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why?Acquaintances. Don't pretend to have like some deep friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why?Because I have a man and when I didn't I was not interested in randos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 05:46 PM |
| 0 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**I can't take anyone seriously who uses mate in reference to human relationships. Unless it's like in a British way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**I'm out here living my best life. My philosophy is informed by reality and success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 05:44 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**To be fair she's 5'1" so short asf. So he still towers over her. Everyone does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**You can't tell? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:26 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Can't be stuck in something that doesn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:25 PM |
| 2 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Oh so now we're breaking it out into pieces of the body? Beta hairline? Alpha hands? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:25 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Which he classifies as what kids? "ALPHA MALE!" Thats right kids! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?All I just read was blah blah blah women property/why don't women like me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:54 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Did I mention he's bald too? And that she's a gorgeous petite blonde? She really liked that he also studied the monkeys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:53 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Nope. But the definition while often having some commonalities seems to vary. But like seriously friends with an actual primatologist growing up her hero was Jane Goodall. Thinks the alpha male thing is bullshit. But she also married a guy who is 5'7" so clearly she's insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:33 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**That poor people have more children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:31 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**You've clearly never been to a trailer park. Kyle has 7 kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:25 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**So I have noticed they can't. Because men struggle between their ideal self which won't necessarily succeed with women and men who do succeed and the difference between them. Because you can be a guy who gets laid left and right but be no leader and have no ambition. You can get shit on all day by a middle manager and go home and see your tinder hookup hours later. Because men can't quite decide what an alpha even is. Which is why OP gave his own definition. It's pseudoscience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:24 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**And then comes the fucking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:19 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**And I understand this, my point is these categorizations were made up by idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why?If they're approaching me with romantic intent and have no interest in friendship: yes. Shoot your shot and fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:17 PM |
| 2 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**And bonobo moneys are lead by female monkeys and resolve conflict via sex. Also Macaques are baby rapists. I have a friend who is a primatologist. Human "alphas" are made up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:15 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Explain trailer parks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:09 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Yes and went on to define it and comment on the difference between a healthy and non healthy alpha. He's absolutely appealing to the concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**I didn't say it. The internet made that up. Problem is there are men who do very well with women that don't check the boxes the internet has laid out for them. Men are so different I would say they defy classification. And everyone should be swimming. Better for your joints. And low testosterone can happen to lots of men for lots of reasons. Health problems aren't fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 06:38 AM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**The scientific method tests hypothesis using data. You can't "test" a definition or concept like that and nobody said anything about scientific method. Cool so it's all made up nonsense then. No, just because other greek letters exist doesn't mean anyone is obligated to create or use categories of traits named after them. Of course if "everyone was an alpha male" it would be a pretty useless concept. And yet the internet brain trusts did create the beta male, the omega male, and the sigma male a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 06:32 AM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Throughout human evolution, the traits of an "alpha" male have often been associated with leadership, confidence, and strength. However, it's essential to differentiate between a healthy alpha male and one who exhibits domineering or aggressive behavior. You sure about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 06:29 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipFeelings are tangible dude. And words can absolutely change how someone perceives a situation or the world. Not you though. That's clearly a wasted effort. But like I have great friends. Love them to death. Will continue to help when they ask. Because friendship is magic. My friend just pinged me a cool video game he thought was up my alley so I'm going to go download that on my steam deck ✌️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:46 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipYeah like grief. Or like time spent helping a person deal with emotions. Also like latin is just the root of a word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:37 AM |
| 3 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**They do not. But okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:28 AM |
| 2 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**And some things are a collection of beliefs or practices mistakenly regarded as being based on scientific method. Like the alpha thing. And most of the arguments are about feminism are just men saying feminism is something it isn't or like not understanding waves and shit. I'm not angry about anything. Just being honest. If there's an "alpha" there's a "beta" etc. You can't all be alphas. Just like you couldn't all be royals or knights or merchants or farmers or paupers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:27 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipI worked for the company and submitted him and only him for the position. He had no competition. He got the job. Also when I say lend money I mean give money. My dad told me if I loan money I should never expect or accept it's return. Also: Tangible is from Latin tangere, "to touch," and it simply means something that can be touched or felt, though it can be used in metaphorical senses: tangible assets have a value that can be precisely measured, and tangible grief can be clearly sensed by an on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:23 AM |
| 2 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Do they need a definition? A rake? A lothario? A jock? A hunk? A Chad? An alpha? Seems the word can be applied to any many of any stature, build, or attitude; so long as he's successful with women. Men classify eachother because they wish to dominate other men and understand themselves in a hierarchy. If you're on the bottom you have to like lift and watch your macros and you too can be the top of the hierarchy, whatever we're calling it this decade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:17 AM |
| 2 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**I mean some zoos only have two wolves. Although that one at that one zoo did murder the other wolf so 1... I guess. But like opposable thumbs? Ability to use tools? Speech? More complex brains? The internet? Air planes? Sporks? Swedish massage? Wage slavery? We're not wolves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:00 AM |
| 14 | Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why?If someone doesn't want to be my friend that is okay. But don't pretend to be my friend in the hopes I'll fuck you at some point and if that is your goal be up front about it so you can be dead to me sooner rather than later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:57 AM |
| 3 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**It's not though. Because the definitions aren't consistent because it's a concept someone made up online after reading something about wolves, and then people added onto it and took parts away. Then they created other types thanks to the fucking Greek alphabet so now you can be the cooler sigma male some dude just made up after jacking off to hentai who has no friends. It creates an easy classification to glorify and put down other men. Men just found another way to create and trap each other in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:47 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipOk but what tangible help you do? Had my friend apply for a job that got him a 15k bump with better cheaper insurance and work from home. Pushed him to buy a house with his inheritance. He got in under 3% it is now 6-7%. Loan money when needed. Dropped off meds and groceries when one got COVID. Helped one with a tax issue. Talked with them about life challenges; mom dying, diabetes 1 onset, trouble with girlfriends, how to propose, Etc. What tangible thing you do for them?? See above. What good … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:42 AM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Not really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:38 AM |
| 2 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Beauty standards for women have changed over time. In the past they were based on physical health and weath specific to that region. The US is interesting because it's a mixing pot but also it's media is influential world wide and influences other countries. As previous beauty standards are diminished and changed men seem to get more and more angry, that they don't cater to their personal preferences. As for men, men only ever do anything to impress other men. Men are again angry that the kind o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 12:56 AM |
| 3 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Right only captive wolves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 12:48 AM |
| 4 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**I think there are dick measuring contests among men, and they vary based on group, but I don't particularly think it has much of an impact on women. Men live to impress other men. Even their pursuit of women is often just to impress other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 11:44 PM |
| 8 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**Not the word, the concept. It's basically just pseudo science bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 11:16 PM |
| 1 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**So then why does the wealthier man simply not eat the poorer man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 11:15 PM |
| 13 | **Why Women Desire a Healthy Alpha Male**So it's made up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Should men who haven't managed to find love until their 30s remain single?Oh totally mutant babies only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 09:50 PM |
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