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DiscussionStupidSexySisyphus/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:51 PM
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Americans are legitimately regarded. I'm an American and I've met enough of them to tell you this genuine reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:16 AM
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I'm a guy and that all applies to me too. I just don't want to have sex with anyone I don't have chemistry and connectivity with. Just not interested honestly otherwise. Admittedly, this has happened before rather quickly within like a day or two of talking, but I'm not the go to a bar and immediately have sex with someone type. Ultimately, my approach there is if I'm single and I connect with someone and like them? I'm down for sex if that's mutually consensual and comfortable. I'm not necessar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:58 AM
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Good God is this subreddit sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:01 PM
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All I'm saying is you give a shit more than women will. Are some women not going to be interested in you due to those factors? Maybe, but that's a sweeping need to touch grass generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:17 PM
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Oh my God. You guys fly out of the wood work and just get pissed that I'm not completely incapable of having any success with women. You can be average - the majority of short guys are also nowhere near as short as DeVito and are going to be more attractive too. I'm using DeVito as a pretty worst case scenario there, but the point is that he made it work for him. He didn't spend his entire life worrying about this shit and just focused on what he had strengths in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:14 PM
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Who has a disowned child because of the "woke mind virus"? Keep cucking yourselves with your insecurities and trash personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:35 AM
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Elon Musk is rich and famous. Who do you think the majority of women find more attractive? Danny DeVito. Why? He's not a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:31 AM
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Tom Cruise is 5'7" and Danny DeVito at 4'10" fucks too. 🤷‍♂️ What does Danny DeVito have going for him? It isn't looks and it isn't his height, but he has a great personality and everyone says he's great company and incredibly nice. Patton Oswalt is another example. Peter Dinklage is the rarity of super short men as he's obviously good looking. Jack Black is fat and I'm sure Kyle Gass isn't having many problems with women either. Surprisingly, Henry Rollins talks about his difficulties with wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:27 AM
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I always feel like my perspective is never going to be wanted as a 5'11" guy with a roughly 6 inch dick, but I have dated women who didn't care about my height and would have preferred my dick to be smaller. So you do what you will with that information, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:35 AM
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Is she cool, do I enjoy her company, do we get along well, is she nice to me, is she intelligent/not a complete moron, do we communicate well, and are we mutually attracted and interested in one another? If those are considered low standards, people are looking for shit that I'll never understand or want to understand. Given my standards, dating is still not the easiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:49 AM
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If OP is a fat fuck with absolutely zero social skills and looks and smells like a dude at an anime or magic the gathering convention? Yeah. He's oblivious and in total denial of reality too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:01 PM
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If you have absolutely zero pull? You do you. I don't have trouble like that in America finding women who actually WANT to have sex with me. I dunno how you guys are this bad with women. Shit. Women like sex too if they actually like you. If you have absolutely zero redeeming qualities though? You do you. The most ridiculous thing is y'all red pillers actually believe it's impossible not to just have sex with women because they like you. You don't have to spend a dime. I mean yeah, you're a twat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:17 PM
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What? Dude, I'm introverted as fuck, but even I can say hello to someone and ask them how their week was for 2 minutes. Nobody expects you to be a social debutant hosting a tea party for the queen of england.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:14 AM
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Cranking one out or flicking the bean to some person you're never going to interact with is fine. Doing such to people you do interact with or old media of an ex for example is something entirely different. If you're just masturbating for self pleasure do it as much as you want as far as I'm concerned if I'm dating someone. That's your body and your autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:50 AM
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Nietzsche really didn't cover this subject. Schopenhauer covered these subjects and his philosophy on the matter was the human condition is a tragedy for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:09 AM
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The point is the expectation implication of being paid for. It's the same mentality of requiring some form of payment to engage with a man, just like prostitutes Okay, Dennis Reynolds. Creepy AF dude. Just go to a state or country where prostitution is legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:09 PM
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So because some men don't have boundaries and any self-respect for themselves, we're going to turn this into a women are the problem narrative? Clearly, the problem is men in this example as they're the ones enabling it. "Well I just gotta accept that I have to put up with this to get that! That's just how women are! I want some pussy and I'll do anything for pussy because I'm pathetic!" If you think paying a bill after going to a restaurant is somehow analogous to prostitution? What the fuck is…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:13 AM
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You apparently lack any critical thought to apply this to an experience that a woman will also experience. Legitimately incel vibes, dude. Nobody owes you anything and you need to get rid of your entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:28 PM
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People are unfortunately competitive with one another and this has caused obvious problems throughout human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:09 AM
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Did I say it was the exact same thing? No. I said the fetishization is based on fantasy for the vast majority of people. Is there someone out there that will actually sleep with a serial killer? Sure. Would a lot of people actually go through with that? No. I'm reinforcing your statement of who cares and one should just assume that all of that is the vast majority of people who are attracted to someone like that is purely fantasy. If you write lyrics about murdering people and other violent subj…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:50 PM
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Those people are locked away in prison for the rest of their life. You realize the vast majority of this is fantasy, yes? Some women enjoy being slapped and choked from experience too. Do they want me or anyone else to actually put them into the hospital or kill them? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:00 PM
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Misandry is more popularly accepted and normalized, but misogyny is still rampant. Call both out. All people need to be held accountable and all people need to be held to a higher standard. If you're a man and another man is being a misogynist? Call him out. If you're a woman and another woman is being a misandrist? Call her out. Your own damn post is misogynist in nature though so that's just the pot calling the kettle black as you assume every single woman subscribes to that Worldview with you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:33 PM
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I would say there's a pretty stark difference between saying being depressive and bipolar, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:21 PM
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I do think women are biologically wired to desire these traits though I have said this from the very beginning. Need real world proof? Look how immediately unattracted women will become to you if men display any personal obstacles or shortcomings. Also you can only express so much emotions unlike women who get to go through the entire emotional gambit in a few hours. Anyway, toxic masculinity is absolutely 100% a cause of women too despite women not believing that, but we do always feel like we …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:04 PM
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Eh, I wouldn't say that has been my experience. Personally, I can't have sex with someone if there wasn't a connection elsewhere. I view sex more as just a means of connectivity than just an empty meaningless orgasm. Now that can just be a fun thing shared between two people and that's fine too, but yeah you still gotta have some glue there. Also? It's typically the women who are more sexual out of the gate in my experiences so there's that too... I actually make an attempt to date women and nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:55 PM
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I mean we all go through depression and difficult periods. That's a human emotion. I'm a man with depression and I openly talk about it. It sucks sure, but I still enjoy things here and there and I absolutely never want to take it out on other people (especially my s/o or friends who are presumably just trying to help me out the best they can too). I guess that's more of my issue as to how emotionally immature women can be at least in the majority of my experiences dating them. And yeah, that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:42 PM
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My personal gripe is how the same women that were excited to continue the connection/having sex with you can lose interest entirely in a few days. I think I keep winding up with BPD women who are ridiculously emotionally unstable, but I'm having a hard time at this stage in my life thinking that women actually want long-term relationships. I've developed the confirmation bias where I feel like the majority of women in actuality have no fucking idea what they want and it's becoming more difficult…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:58 PM
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Yep, I'm a guy and it's not gonna happen without some connectivity. I don't really care anymore if it's casual (dating is a nightmare anyway and Godspeed to you and having any success with it), but for sure I need a connection. If there's a spark? I'll give it a shot and I do my best to keep my expectations basically non-existent at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:13 PM
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We frequently come to the conclusion that women have no idea what they want when applied to dating. This is then reinforced by women stating that's the truth on top of it. I'd like to date a woman that can talk things out with me, but it seems to me that they're mostly piloted by emotions/brain chemicals above all else. Anyway - trying to figure out women is an unanswerable question just like our eternal questions of why are we here and does God exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:13 AM
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Oh, I'm 100% positive that it wasn't our only issue. She was just always looking for the flaws and incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:53 PM
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It's not a sweeping generalization, but it does happen. I'll completely acknowledge that man children happen, but I'm not phased by it. They exist yeah, but women can be slobs with a giant pile of dirty laundry on the floor and a sink full of dirty dishes too. Everyone can be a slob. I think women being incapable of being seen as human and flawed is what causes a lot of this in the first place. Everyone is flawed. Nobody is perfect, but women are pressured into being perfect since birth. The maj…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:47 AM
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Not the silverware, but yes my ex genuinely had a problem with it. She didn't like that I didn't have enough stuff. Lol. I like women. I do, but the things some women will fight with you about is absurd. Edit: Do women want men to be honest? I thought that was the point of this sub? Why are you mad? Do you think I'm just making this shit up? Why would I want to have an argument with my ex as to why I don't have enough crap? Do you think I started that argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:59 AM
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I'd say those are generalizations, but not inherently the case. I would say there's a lot more social pressure on men still to this day to have their independence particularly if they would like to date. Now granted from experience being able to do your own laundry, cook your own dinner, and live on your own doesn't give you much of an edge in that department. Regardless of that, I would say it's still generally expected. I have mostly felt that nobody wants a traditional relationship (neither d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:28 AM
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I completely agree, but I still think it's a double standard that the male is always expected to be more of the adult in the age of equality. Take living with your parents for example. The girl lives with her parents? Nobody cares. The guy? Total loser. So there's absolutely sexism in the mix here. Which of course then circles back to the "well everything is easier for men" and in some ways that's true, but that doesn't inherently mean the male will automatically receive a higher paying job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:57 AM
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Hey I'm no misogynist truly, but am I wrong? All I got was a troll attempt response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:28 AM
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I'm entirely self-sufficient with doing all of my laundry, cooking for myself, managing my own schedule, etc. Why do women still seem to resent that? Because it's simple and their lives are frequently speaking image based. I have like 5 shirts and 3 pairs of pants. I wash them yes, but I don't care. Do I need the silver and china utensils and cups? Fuck no and I don't even want them in the first place. I'd rather smelt all the silver, sell that, and just throw the china away. If a man doesn't pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:17 AM
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In reality they want a dog who pays for dinner. Just adore them, dont demand anything from them and give the most he can to them. I call it the toy poodle syndrome. Men do it too though, but yep it's a thing. Most people should just go get a fucking dog instead of trying to date people who all have imperfections and flaws. You also can't "fix" something if you have no idea what it is that's making you "undesirable" - women expect you to read their minds, but we can't do that. Simultaneously, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:04 AM
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Okay, Vincent Adultman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:46 PM
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It's like 4:30am where I am. You're in bed with your wife on your phone actively posting this? Okay sure...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:24 PM
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Do you make your hypothetical wife orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:55 AM
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What in the fuck is your tag? "High N count"... What's the N stand for? Go ahead and tell everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:47 AM
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Are you a virgin? I'm not trying to be rude, but are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:29 AM
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Astroturfing: the deceptive practice of presenting an orchestrated marketing or public relations campaign in the guise of unsolicited comments from members of the public. Women here and I (a man) are telling you that this "study" is bunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:09 AM
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Women have been getting unsolicited dick pics basically since the advent of the Internet as this guy is complaining this fucking much about ONE theoretical pussy pic being sent to him? Oh what, Reddit? You gotta click the fucking hyperlink, don't you? Maybe he's gay? Like that's fine and no shame, but I've never known a straight man to jump up on a soapbox and act like this over one singular hypothetical pussy photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:53 AM
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Nice astroturfing because you can't find the clitoris or can't drive to the local sex shop to buy a bullet vibrator, dude. Nobody is buying it. I'm certainly not. I'm a man. If I'm not buying it? Women absolutely aren't. Quit trying to sell it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:44 AM
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This subreddit is awful. The Men here continually post absurdly dumb stuff - it ranges from all women are complete gold diggers to apparently being postmodern gynecologists. You know who I'd like to hear the opinions of? Women. I'm tired of reading this shit because it's all ridiculous. I'll go to some MGTOW/red pill circle jerk subreddit if I wanna read this crap all the time. Give me a break. That's basically what it is, isn't it? Like the sub is supposed to be neutral, but that's what at leas…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:37 AM
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Why are the men so fucking weird on this subreddit? She can't orgasm from penetration alone? Find her clitoris. Buy a bullet vibrator. They're like $20. Just make the gesture. If she's only going to orgasm mechanically from the vibrator, that's fine. It's not that hard guys. No, you won't feel totally emasculated if your partner uses a small vibrator basically the size of your thumb on her clitoris while your penis is inside her. Don't worry. It won't make your average sized weenie look small by…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:37 AM
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Hmm, could it be everything? Even if you have people in your life, you're still probably gone all the time and unavailable because you have to make money and drive all the time everywhere for everything to slowly die in traffic. Maybe quickly die if you get into an accident. Maybe that's a blessing over the two choices. I'm mentally ill. I'll admit it. Am I oblivious to reality and what a hellscape this is? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:57 PM
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Danny DeVito fucks. Stop it already.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:18 PM
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Every fucking post in this sub lately has just been whiney redpilled incel men left and right. No wonder they can't meet the opposite sex - they're unbearable. I'm a man. You think I wanna hangout with these guys and be their friend? Fuck no. Do I really seem like I'm some ALPHA CHAD for having a current girlfriend? Not to anyone that isn't chronically online with incel brainrot. Fucking stop guys. Get a life. Get off the Internet. It gave you brain worms. Go get an exorcism, get brain surgery, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:09 AM
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Every fucking post in this sub lately has just been whiney redpilled incel left and right. No wonder they can't meet the opposite sex - they're unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:05 AM
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I'm leaving this sub because of all you red pilled dipshit men. I'm a man. You know what your real problem is? Nobody likes you because you're an asshole and probably torture to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:58 AM
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Shut up, OP. If you made this thread? You're not a truly kind wholesome guy. You're a dickhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:30 AM
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What the hell is your definition of "average men"? I have a girlfriend and she has her own job, her own car, and her own driver's license. She even buys me things. Get the fuck off the Internet. It's turning your brain into mashed potatoes. Maybe the hyper insecure small dick energy is the problem here, dude. Easier to blame your Inceldom on women than your lousy personality that's cockblocking you though, I guess. Just try not having such a giant chip on your shoulder and stop professionally vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:03 AM
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Dude, what are you saying? You're aware that most women are people not out there to ruthlessly exploit you and treat you as a commodification, yeah? Like you're treating women as if they're Capitalism. Lol. Really terminal online take there and you gotta get off the Internet for a few months. You need to 180 the view - most people don't suck, but obviously you still should go for good compatibility. You being a prickly misanthrope on that subject isn't going to help you with dating. It'll just m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:08 PM
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These threads are typically awful because it insinuates that men never even talk to the opposite sex about anything. If they talk to the opposite sex at all, it's all just terminally online takes. Incels vs femcels; both of which need to go roll around in a field and get off the fucking Internet. Literally just make a tinder account. Yes, you need to spend a little money for boosts and women also typically pay for the monthly subscription too. How do I know this? I met my current girlfriend off …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:00 PM
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Eh, not so much for me. I'm a Libertarian Socialist and it's pretty easy to mesh with most people. Most people agree that wage slavery is slavery and that obliterating the environment to make more money (a made up nonsense construct and machination made by resources from the environment) is insanity. It's the Marxist-Leninism stuff that really puts most people off including tons of Leftists as they don't want the Authoritarian one party state Capitalism thing either. Peter Kropotkin rules though…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:18 AM
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What is this post? I'm a conventionally attractive guy that's seeing someone. I want a relationship which I also conveyed to the girl that I met online before we started sleeping together. So here's the truth. Ready? Girlfriend/fiance/wife sex is always 1,000x better. Why? Because you both feel strongly about one another and get to snuggle together afterwards too. I also want to wake up next to the person that makes me feel like I matter too. The notion that men have no emotions and don't want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:15 AM
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If she's boujee as hell? We ain't gonna work. Not my type. I'm into the Capitalism is immoral and evil type of women personally. I'll still work of course and I'll treat them well via taking them on dates and all that, but yeah it's all just a made up nonsense monetary system anyway. If she's that materialistic and superficial, I just assume we're not anywhere near the same mental wavelength.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:56 AM
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You just ask them, man. I only manage to click with women who are into some degree of kink though. The last three women in a row who I've talked to about this stuff openly expressed it when asked. Talk to them. If they're into you, they generally openly tell you these things and flirt with you too as women also get horny and enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:15 AM
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The majority of women are pretty enthusiastic at giving head in my experiences (I do shave, groom and keep everything hygenic there - I do actually put effort into making my dick and balls appealing to put in someone's mouth), but there's a very small percentage of women that are into deepthroating which is understandable due to having a gag reflex. Some women are into you facefucking them though, but it's a very small percentage of women. Same applies to being into anal. 🤷‍♂️ That's FUN if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:06 AM
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It isn't, but it is dependent per vagina and clitoris along with how they're feeling and how into you they are. So, while the basics (rub the clit up and down or in a circular motion - also apply that to using your tongue) are simple theoretically, a lot of other stuff comes into play. Purely from a mechanical standpoint though? Yeah pretty simple. I've had two considerably more difficult to get off partners, but it isn't the norm. One would also get orgasms from basically everything which also …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:02 AM
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Yeah, I don't date sex maids. Ever. Literally it does nothing for me. My girlfriend enjoys being submissive, but she's still her own person with her own interests. She voluntarily wants to have sex with me, gets wet, and has orgasms. Like...if a guy truly believes the only way he'll get laid is just being employed and contributing literally fucking else? That says a lot about him being a lazy boring entitled dipshit that probably can't even wipe his own asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:56 AM
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This sub is ridiculous sometimes. I give male and female friends hugs. Please go outside and touch the grass, everyone. No, I don't want to fornicate with my male friends. Or dad that I also hug.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:16 AM
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Yeah, I don't know where this bias comes from. I recently got out of a 3 year monogamous relationship and now I'm starting to see another girl with the intent of that being another monogamous relationship. I pretty much always have wanted to date the person that I want to sleep with because I'm attracted to them (mentally and emotionally is another aspect of that attraction), but sure there's been some FWBs scenarios here and there like everyone else I'm sure. Did I still like those women and en…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:15 PM
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I'm not a Tankie. Authoritarian State Capitalism is also not Communism, but I'm a Libertarian Socialist/Anarcho-Syndicalist if you must know. Marxist-Leninism is crap. Marx is fine, but Lenin had obvious issues concerning he wouldn't even allow Peter Kropotkin's Anarcho-Communists to organize. Stalin and Mao? Yeah nothing needs to be said there. Xi? Once again, State Capitalism. Go read some of this stuff and learn about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:09 AM
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So because we're unga bunga Orangutan caveman anarchism, socialism and communism cannot exist? Weird how there's people that live in communities like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:12 AM
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There's SO MUCH nuance in that statement though that's just obliterated into dust by a bowling ball.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:23 PM
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Culturally, America is a huge problem for sure. Do I care if my partner has a thigh gap or how much money they have? No, I don't. Really what I care about is if I'm able to form a connection with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:11 PM
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The Zuck also makes a plain Ham sandwich seem interesting. That guy is boring as hell. He's rich and maybe intelligent, but I can't even begin to imagine how painfully uninteresting he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:40 AM
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What the fuck do you think the MAGA movement and Trump are? Let's just slap a Hitler or Mussolini last name on them to legitimize it. Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:08 AM
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Yeah, Americans dig having cheap even more exploitable labor from Central and South America, but they're still racist as shit. "That's just good economics" is how Americans play that card.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:41 PM
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MAGA is Neo-Nazis and Christo-Fascism, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:55 AM
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To the defense of Women, I don't think the Men are typically any better either. America is diseased. Look at all the societal rot everywhere and MAGA Fascist bullshit. This place is a dumpster fire and Americans actually democratically vote for Fascism along with all the completely banal narcissistic and sociopathic awful things they do from one day to the next. "Throw it away. Buy a new one. Fuck you, I got mine!" is basically the average American rallying cry. I don't want to live here and thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:40 AM
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Maybe a not totally normal guy doesn't want to date a not totally normal woman? What the hell do you define as "normal" here with those sweeping generalizations - a boring person? You're right and I'm really not into plain Jane, but I'm also an alternative person myself and plain Jane and I won't get along regardless. A woman that wants high earning mayonnaise is spicy CPA accountant man isn't going to like me anyway. Even if she's physically attracted to me, our personalities and Worldviews won…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:10 AM
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I agree with that. Men AND Women both gotta do more of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:38 AM
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Men are literally telling the women to stop being so superficial and look at the entire person. To embrace love. To embrace some flaws because we all have them and fuck up. Yeah there's some guys that just want sex, but so do women. There's a lot of guys that seek out love, actually want a girlfriend/wife (sex with a significant other that you love who loves you can't be beat), and are absolutely 100% just saying just give a person a shot if you think they might be alright vs they have to be 100…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:56 AM
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Yes and no. Lonely dude here. I would like more female friends and friends in general. We're the work work work drones and where can we go that's not weird? Talk to kids as a guy? Weird. Talk to random people as a guy? Weird. Anyway, I had a guy work on the attic the other day. Guess what? He has no friends either and he's lonely. I asked him if his work to life quality is very good with the trades which he stated is pretty abysmal and he's lonely too. Nice guy from what I could tell. So yeah sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:00 AM
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Thank you! I hope you do as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:51 PM
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I just use this to vent and get it all out mostly tbh. I'll admit I need therapy. I do. I'll surely delete this post in a bit too, but yeah I hear ya. With actually talking to women? That comes natural enough if I'm just not left hanging and that's where the anxiety and overthinking happens due to my BPD ex above all else. That'll go away, I hope, with therapy and actually having a better partner in the future but that's something I have to lay my cards on the table about and it's another one of…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:33 PM
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I look for about 75% compatibility. The rest you can make work. You want a little difference sometimes, but not a ton of it. Do we have to enjoy every single band together? No, but I'm willing to listen to their music and I bet I can find a song or two that I'll enjoy. If I know they're really into that band, I'll buy tickets and try to surprise them too. Things like that are what you should do. If you're an Atheist? You can date an Agnostic, but you probably can't date a Christian unless they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:25 PM
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Have you watched the documentary, "Century of the Self"? Edward Bernays was quite creative himself and that man was a literal demon spawn straight from the bowels of Hell. He's Hitler bad in my opinion. I also think money/finance is evil, but I'm a Leftist Absurdist! I play the stupid game obviously, but it's not people I associate with. Finance, sales, advertisement, marketing, landlords and cops especially? Hell no. Stay away from those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:22 PM
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I have no fucking idea, man. I wasn't actively seeking that person out and they hid their shit garbage behaviors for a while. They just came out. Obviously, if they made the impression that they were a huge mega bitch, I wouldn't have entered the relationship period or initially developed any attraction toward the person. "Why the fuck are they acting this way towards me" is all you're thinking in those moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:18 PM
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We dated the same person and you're describing it all to a fucking T. I really don't like knowing another woman exists out there that's effectively the same person because what a nightmare. I do frequently see women having more demands in a relationship than men in general, usually not to the extent of my ex or hopefully yours. but we'll never close that gap because women won't lower their standards and if men raise theirs they'll just be lonely My favorite was her insistence on me doing more fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:05 PM
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Shs wasn't conflict avoidant. I'm conflict avoidant. I also try to mince my words and filter. None of that either. She was just seemingly angry with everyone and everything which inevitably applied to me too. You're stupid enough to think people like that won't attack you, but of course they do eventually because their shit list never ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:58 PM
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He's the main reason I'll never date men in sales again. Sales people are professional sociopaths and bullshiters. Avoid marketing and advertisement too. Here's a quote from Bill Hicks that you'll enjoy: "By the way if anyone here is in advertising or marketing…kill yourself. It’s just a little thought; I’m just trying to plant seeds. Maybe one day they’ll take root – I don’t know. You try, you do what you can. (Kill yourself.) Seriously though, if you are, do. Aaah, no really. There’s no ration…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:54 PM
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I'm telling you the main problem is the accountability shit is all projectionism and never fucking equal, but all we can really do is just leave and walk out the door if women do that shit. You can't live with them. You can't have a lease with them. They're the antithesis of stability if they'll pull that shit. They blow up your entire life behaving like that. She had a meltdown over there not being enough ice cubes in the freezer, but it was plenty for her singular drink. Fucking insane bullshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:38 PM
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I'm getting a vasectomy. I have condoms in the interim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:34 PM
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Once a woman starts giving you shit just leave immediately, it won't get better and you will avoid getting bitter and angry like you seem now. Kinda hard when you have a fucking lease and live with someone, dude. Steamrolled right though that one with no nuance of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:28 PM
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Thank you and I appreciate that. It can certainly happen to all of us and people can keep the illusion going for quite a while. Worst of all, people resent you for trying to stick it out and fix things vs throw it all away and burn it. Meeting women is ridiculously difficult at 36 and while I'm not vehemently opposed to dating a woman with an older kid? Mmm... personally, I don't think I'm the greatest influence or necessarily want to undertake that additional responsibility. I didn't want kids.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:24 PM
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Yep. But if you start talking about that with a lot of women vs circle jerking barnum effect Pseudoscience nonsense like Astrology they also hate that. People in general really don't like people possessing any actual human intelligence and sentience. Yeah, I'm a flesh Gundam piloted by chemicals too, but I'm aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:10 PM
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Do you think I actually thought my ex was going to be that person? She kept up the appearance for a while and blamed me for her radical Jekyll and Hyde transformation. She started dropping the appearance 8 months to a year later and by year 3 she was just awful to me almost exclusively 100% of the time. I inevitably did just say fuck it too by that point because even sitting in a dark room by yourself is better than being abused all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:02 PM
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Because we're told via the femcels that even talking to women now is potentially grounds for harassment. Saying hello is grounds for harassment. We don't want to be perceived as creepy, desperate, icky, etc for just trying to talk to another person. I do all those things along with having financial independence and I can cook and clean. Effectively, I only feel that online dating is the only appropriate outlet really anymore because it seems like women just find us revolting even if we're conven…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:56 PM
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Lemme go live, laugh, lobotomize myself. Is that your advice? Turn myself into a stupid person via intentional brain damage? Hey, the roof is leaking. Let's ignore that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:45 PM
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There are ugly women out there that never get approached. It’s stupid how many guys seriously think all women have men wanting to date them. I take care of my body and appearance too. I'm not particularly ugly, but I'm supposed to be taking women significantly more overweight and unattractive than I am? That's not attractive to me and up to my standards. Fuck? Yes. A serious relationship? No, men have higher standards for that. And women are not men, many of us hate the idea of being used for se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:41 PM
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I do like women. Do you think I share my Reddit account with real people? I use this to voice my frustrations, but I'm fucking trying and asking her questions about herself and trying to find common ground. No, I'm not blowing up her phone and I can take the hint. If she can't text, has stuff going on, etc? She can communicate that vs just saying nothing. I'm just assuming she doesn't like me, but initially she did enough to give me her number. Someone better came along? That's my assumption, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:15 PM
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Next you'll tell me Feminism is about the ideal of actual equality as opposed to Women just emulating Men and adopting all the same terrible behaviors. Feminism isn't about equality. It's just being Men with female anatomy for most Women. I'd fucking love genuine Feminism and genuine equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:10 PM
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No, but that's the standards of the majority of men and that is problematic, but similarly women have neurotic insane standards. Load the dishwasher "wrong" is grounds for a woman losing interest and fighting with you. I'd fucking buy the groceries, cook, load the dishwasher, unload the dishwasher and pay 90% of the fucking bills and my ex had the audacity to chew my ass out over ridiculously stupid fucking bullshit like that. I fucking loaded them. I put them away. I scrubbed them clean by hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:53 PM
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And while low self-esteem men will be attracted to some women no matter what, the better and higher self-esteem men have standards and the better women do put in effort. Can you point me in the direction of the better women who put in effort? Where the hell are they? It's like finding a needle in a haystack.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:47 PM
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Okay. They can't fucking text me back and say, "Hey let's maybe try something next week when I'm not so busy"? Last week, they could type multiple paragraphs to me. Fully cognizant that people have lives and jobs, but having what I thought was a connection just disappeared into smoke would presumably be depressing for women too. Or not because there's probably another 50+ guys in her inbox and spin the wheel again. Or I just texted too much. Too little. Didn't do this. Didn't do that. I don't kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:37 PM
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Men need to walk away from online dating. It’s the only solution. Absolutely nobody is perfect. Relationships take work. Online dating has given women the false impression that 100% compatibility exists out there in my opinion. No, you have a limited pool of people on Earth that you'll connect with like this. And it's always work and ideally shared growth and development beyond that point. I'd like to find a life partner, but holy fucking shit is online dating toxic fucking cancer. Online dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:28 PM
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Personally, I only want to sleep with women that I'm actually interested in and connect with as people. Ideally? I'd like to just be in a relationship with someone that I'm sharing life and experiences with and click well with. Even if you do initially click well with women, I just feel like they flip a switch and effectively toss you to the curb without much to any explicable reason. It's just dehumanizing and demoralizing frankly. My assumption is you were one of X amount of guys and weren't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:19 PM
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I don't view women that way, but at this point I do feel like they view me as just a supporting character to their main character syndrome effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:11 PM
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Have you seen some of the guys that knock up women? I don't think this theory holds much water personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:09 PM
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Absolutely is. I don't dispute that, but the main problem is online dating and women having access to infinite matches which is effectively turning them into megalomaniac narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:05 PM
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Genuinely, I'm just trying to find a woman that I click with who doesn't treat me like a completely disposable commodity, but the normalized narcissism and sociopathy is dehumanizing as fuck. I don't care at this point about solely getting my dick wet, but I don't even feel like women make an effort to maintain a connection when you initially had one anymore. All I can assume is that they're just barreling through tons of guys, but I'm sad because I just feel like I'm tossed out for no reason co…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:02 PM
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There's absolutely truth in that, but frankly I have little to no idea how to meet women that aren't in some shape or form emotionally or verbally negligent/abusive. Everyone can be a jerk at times of course, but it's a pretty similar sentiment I guess that I'm echoing regarding how women have been treated by men. Cold and distant. Appear to be interested, but then just dip out and disappear. Lots of games. Lots of terrible conflict resolution skills. Quite literally scold you and somehow lose m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:52 PM
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What's more common? Emotional abuse or murder? I've had women emotionally abuse me to the point where I've self-harmed, but I've never laid a finger on anyone else or emotionally abused anyone like that. They'll metaphorically rip out your soul, shit on it, put a cigarette out on it, and tell you to go fuck yourself. You receive that from someone you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:55 PM
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Imagine if fecal flinging Barbarians obsessed with shiny new objects tried to form a civilized society (after killing all the indigenous people). America! Fuck yeah! 🇺🇲🦅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:11 AM
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so It's top 10% of men or bust? 20%. Here's an article by a woman. Men shouldn't bother period ever when women have developed this insanely inflated Ego online. I do ok with online dating, but I still hate it. I get matches, but most of the convos lead nowhere. So I presumably get tossed in the screening process. Casual sex can happen, but relationships? Eh. Barely ever. If I was some rich dumb jock with nice hair and an expensive car? Probably do pretty good with this crap. https://www.eviemaga…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:49 AM
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I’m relieved when I leave here and encounter the opposite type of men off screen. Thank baby Jesus. Makes me more appreciative of them, especially knowing they are perplexed by these mentalities too. To be fair, I complain about the bad women online (venting as an outlet), but actively avoid them offline. I don't hate women, but I'm absolutely tired of American culture (applies to Men too) and the borderline sociopathic commodification throw away culture we have. Americans are just largely disea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:39 AM
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Women have little to no patience, forgiveness and largely seem incapable of giving anyone the benefit of the doubt. And they're petty. Something happened 5 fucking years ago? They'll find a shovel and dig it up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:22 AM
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Tankie!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:17 AM
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Also they're an Asparagus and mercury was in Gatorade
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:12 AM
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Men don't have a choice. I literally cannot think of a single instance in all of the relationships that I've had with women where they didn't explode or lash out at me. You have no choice. They all do it. They're all in some way or shape emotionally abusive and a pain in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:57 AM
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I've also heard this from lesbians. Women will split ass hairs over everything and gaslight the shit out of you. "You need therapy" coming from someone that's bipolar ballistic every half hour and yells at you about how you're ruining their life because you don't share the same enthusiasm for a single band. Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:36 AM
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You see boomers stay together with pretty major incompatibility issues. You see Gen Z and Millennial women split ass hairs over minor incompatibility issues. My ex quite literally stated that not having the same fandom of a singular artist is an incompatible dealbreaker for her. There's plenty of bands that I like and I don't expect anyone to share the same enthusiasm for them. That's a dealbreaker?! It's fucking ridiculous. The worst offenders of this shit are women who are already incredibly s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:53 PM
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