Swallowing_the_Rpill Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I don't know why I am afraid		Swallowing_the_Rpill	/r/askTRP	09/01/18 07:54 PM

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1	Tips on acceptance? ?? Ok, first have you been formally diagnosed, or did you self-diagnose? If you have been diagnosed, go to a psychologist. Period. Trust is irrelevant. If you don't match well with one psychologist, change to another one. Search for one with experience with your illness. Just fucking go. You are only hurting yourself and holding yourself back from potentially having a decent life, regardless of mental illness. Plenty of people with severe depression, schizophrenia, or bi-polar disorder, live rel…	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 05:39 PM
2	Tips on acceptance? I'm not saying you go there to get cured. I'm saying you should go there to learn how to live and deal with your mental illness. Professionals that deal with people with the same issues will give you way better advice than some internet bros that only know 3 sentences about your life and problems	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 05:13 PM
2	Tips on acceptance? If you have a legit mental illness you should discuss this with a professional counselor or psychiatrist.	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 05:02 PM
4	12 Rules for Life – An In-Depth Mini-Series (Part 1) Used as a pretext does not mean that the sole function of a concept like equality before the law is to neutralise history or any of the other values. Laws and rights are also based on interpretation. Freedom of expression is a basic tenet of liberalism, so the redacting of history is against the liberal ideal. It's not a liberal pursuit to neutralise history, but rather the rights given through liberal power structures allow for it to happen. Those two cases are aberrations, but I do appreciate …	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/19 07:31 PM
4	12 Rules for Life – An In-Depth Mini-Series (Part 1) That's a nice US centric analysis of equality. Of only there were other nations. Even in the US, race doesn't because of the 14th amendment? Wasn't there systemic racism until went into the 20th century (100 years later than the 14th amendment)? And please, enlighten me on how equality before the law neutralises history, that has to be an interesting read. It's almost as if you are some kind of basement bubble boy who doesn't understand that litteraly the exact opposite of what you say is true. …	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/19 06:43 PM
5	12 Rules for Life – An In-Depth Mini-Series (Part 1) Equality BEFORE THE LAW. Do you know how to read? That doesn't mean social equality or neutralisation of race, gender, culture or history which you argued above, or any type of hierarchy for that matter. It means that the law applies equally to everyone. Learn how to read it literally says it in your source. libertarianism is a subset of Liberalism.... That is only an American phenomenon because a dude in the 50s decided that the term liberalism was corrupted by the left so libertarianism was cl…	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/19 06:20 PM
5	12 Rules for Life – An In-Depth Mini-Series (Part 1) Individualism is inherently liberal No it isn't. Realists are individualist and so can critical theorists be. That's simply false. Individualism is not inherently liberal neither is liberalism inherently individualistic. liberalism liberates the individual from all non economic values Liberalism does not liberate the individual from non-economic variables, it doesn't even seek equality. Liberalism is inherently hierarchical and places huge importance on the state (which is in big part a reflecti…	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/19 05:45 PM
6	12 Rules for Life – An In-Depth Mini-Series (Part 1) Sweet summer child. You are Russian right? Surely you are aware that in the eastern parts of Russia, people are not Slavic but become more Asian the more east you go. You also probably know that Chechnya has a Muslim majority. Certainly some families related to the oligarchs in Russia have a very different family story than the proletariat majority of workers after the fall of the USSR. People from Moscow are different from Novosibirsk or Kabarovsk. I'm not nullifying those factors, I'm acknowle…	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/19 05:15 PM
2	12 Rules for Life – An In-Depth Mini-Series (Part 1) Political philosophy and international political theory is my career. Being Russian does not predispose you to not be liberal: there are communist Russians, feminists or realist or social constructivists. I am economically libertarian, politically leaning towards realism. I'm also Spanish, one of the most radically leftist nations in Europe. How does that match up with a libertarian realist? It doesn't, unless you are a propaganda puppet, which you might be I don't know nor care. I know plenty r…	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/19 03:34 PM
10	12 Rules for Life – An In-Depth Mini-Series (Part 1) I'm not liberal, neither in the economic nor in the socio-political sense. The differentiations that you make, between men not being equal is, by default, an individualist view, as the people that are Alpha or Beta are so through their behaviour and individual actions, which is why we have TRP teaching men how to act. Men are not equal, through right action they can become better. TRP would not exist if those differences were static and unchangeable. TRP exists to help men make that change. It i…	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/19 09:17 AM
13	12 Rules for Life – An In-Depth Mini-Series (Part 1) Most people can't really formulate "big questions about the system". If I gave you presidential power, you probably wouldn't be able to just solve the student debt problem (which btw is a monster Americans created because everything that's public is communism) or the corrupt institutions (which are...?), just like if a college kid who protests on the daily became president he wouldn't be able to change anything. Most people that criticize the system are oversimplifying it and lack the expertise …	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/19 08:05 AM
2	student at college, want a job, but some questions That's fine, you are here. Being a virgin is solved by fucking and you have come to the second-best place to get sex (the first being a brothel). So everything in your physique is on point except "I'm a scrawny ass bad posture motherfucker"? Those are the the easiest things to change. Hit the gym and constantly remind yourself of your posture (something like every time you go through a door, check your posture and straighten up). Your looks should not be a problem at all when searching for a j…	/r/askTRP	21/07/19 10:03 PM
11	Eye contact - How to change your instincts Active practice. Write it in your arm or do drills to ingrain it in your brain. Go shopping and make a conscious effort to talk to the clerks and look at them deep in the eyes. Overdo it, it's fine it's just practice. The way I dealt with it was working as a cashier in retail and making the conscious effort of looking at every customer in the eyes while working. That's 6-8 hour/day of eye contact and vocal tonality practice. If you are a student, get a summer job /part-time job at retail/custo…	/r/askTRP	21/07/19 09:51 PM
3	Solitude is killing me Take a seat and a cup of tea, this is long. Brother here is the first thing you need to do: relax. You have been alone up until now and, although it sucks, you are alive and fine and are trying your best to solve it. You could be on drugs or killed yourself, but you are fighting the good fight. Now, your therapists might be in part right. I know cuz I have gone to therapists and been told the same about my distorted reality. At the end they were kind of right and my perspective was wrong. Despit…	/r/askTRP	20/07/19 09:04 AM
1	What the Fuck am i doing ? My point is not that you are worthless. Good for you on your achievements so far. But the way you talk about people has an air of superiority. I get it, it helps, it shows high value, but it is not working for you because that's why you are here. Don't fuck girls you aren't attracted to. That is rejecting them, yes and that's fine. My point was the way you judge them and your childhood friends is not fitting to your place in the world right now. You simply don't have the social circle nor the se…	/r/askTRP	20/07/19 12:14 AM
4	What the Fuck am i doing ? My man is in university and says he doesn't shit where he eats...... This is what happens when people just read the sidebar and are given cookie cutter advice: they become stifled by these "rules" and miss chances. For one, where you live is irrelevant. If you can have female friends, you can fuck women. The only difference between the two is that your dick has been inside her, and nobody outside of you two should neither notice nor know that happened. So stop the excuses, you don't live in 1984…	/r/askTRP	19/07/19 07:46 AM
3	How do I respond in the most alpha way possible? I might be controversial here, but there is nothing inherently bad about having a couple not close friends in uni. Yeah they talked shit behind your back. Ok, now you know their nature and what you are dealing with but in an environment like uni, sometimes quantity is better than quality. They might invite you to parties, help you organize shit, or provide some light hearted company which does no harm. I don't know if the dudes were trying to be friendly in a teasing manner or being straight u…	/r/askTRP	02/07/19 12:16 PM
5	After a hang out I would write some sort of call back to the hang out (an inside joke, "it was fun", depends on the case) and then attempt to take her out again. I would not try to do it directly, give it a couple days before asking for another meet-up.	/r/askTRP	02/07/19 12:05 PM
3	Interest or simply fishing for attention Don't fuck around. Go for the date (don't call it date because she has a bf and will trigger alarms). Just out for drinks, treat it like any other date (escalate and try to close the deal). Don't let her just send you shit and not take it further. If at any point she resists completely to getting intimate (be it when trying to take her out, kissing...), well there you have your answer.	/r/askTRP	02/07/19 12:03 PM
2	Lifting Vs Career? I need help Focus on your career and don't lift if it is not safe. Try other forms of exercise that keep you fit and engaged but are not dangerous to your shoulder. Try stuff like bodyweight training, climbing, martial arts, sports like football, soccer, basketball.... Just try stuff see how it feels in your shoulder. There are other avenues to staying fit that don't involve lifting and are just as satisfying (maybe even more).	/r/askTRP	02/07/19 11:55 AM
7	Any practical readings on IOIs Essays... Jesus this sub sometimes disappoints me. Here's a nice little rule on IOIs: Imagine the most disgusting thing on earth. How would you react to it? Well anything contrary to that reaction is an IOI. She looks at you for more than half a second? Possible IOI. Does a double take? Definitely IOI. She talks with you more than extremely necessary? IOI. She touches you in whatever way, shape or form? IOI. Is she anywhere near your presence and it's not fazed by you being there? IOI. She avoid…	/r/askTRP	04/05/19 01:03 PM
2	Anxiaty whenever I leave my house Seek a therapist. If you wanna try solve it yourself, you will solve it through progressive exposure and desensitisation. Identify how long/which places you can go without feeling anxious and little by little expand it. A professional will help you more than us. And for fuck sake, can we have a thread that doesn't involve the "nofap will solve everything in life" nonsense?	/r/askTRP	03/05/19 07:04 PM
1	i cant reap the reward, why? (Long with TL:DR) It is. If you think that's gonna be best for you then go ahead! I don't know you I'm just a dude on the internet. Just make sure you don't lie to yourself.	/r/askTRP	21/04/19 08:17 PM
1	i cant reap the reward, why? (Long with TL:DR) Oh well you do you. Good luck!	/r/askTRP	21/04/19 08:06 PM
2	i cant reap the reward, why? (Long with TL:DR) It's good that you took the advice positively. Now 2 things about your plan. Don't ask or tell her what you wrote. That's you trying to evade rejection again by baby stepping it. Don't. You go out on a date, do as always, and at some point the thought will come: damn I should kiss her. You don't talk. You look at her in the eyes. Then at her lips. And you go for it. Plus, what you wrote puts you in a needy position and might actually hurt your chances. You are a man, you go for what you want. No…	/r/askTRP	21/04/19 07:27 PM
3	i cant reap the reward, why? (Long with TL:DR) TL;DR of the post: You are scared to pull the trigger. This is why many guys that are not "alpha" or in the best shape still get results: they go for what they want. Sometimes works, sometimes doesn't, but they try. My guess is you are not pulling the trigger because: A) you think you are going to get rejected. Solution: Get rejected. Really just aim to fuck it up, see how awkward it can get. Don't fear losing her. You know you have the attraction and if you tried you'd get it. Well just go ahea…	/r/askTRP	21/04/19 04:27 PM
1	A Method of Journaling: Increase Your Understanding and Know Thyself Outstanding post. Just bought a new journal. Maybe a bit late but I have a couple of not-too-important questions on details. First is on the sections Quotes and Principles: Only 3 pages over 2 years? Isn't that too limited? Or is that the point, so we make sure we only write the very best? I wonder if that would lead to not writing many interesting quotes/principles because of being excessively selective. Second: Do you write one entry per page or just continue as if each entry was a paragraph i…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/19 05:23 PM
1	How to convince a woman for one sided open marriage ? Why would you marry someone and risk your assets just to fuck other chicks on the side? Just don't marry at all and save the money from the wedding and the 50% chance of divorce and buy a nice car, house or a cool bike. Or gummy bears (that's still a better fucking use of that money).	/r/askTRP	04/04/19 02:28 PM
2	How do I find who I am in life? It might be a bit of a late answer but stop trying to "find yourself". Instead: BUILD YOURSELF. Don't try to find if you are funny, introverted, quirky... Think what do you want to be: masculine? Funny? Chill? Polarising?... No right or wrong here, just what kind of person you want to be. And then take steps towards that (what does your ideal man do? His hobbies? How does he interact with people?...) . There's no point in finding yourself especially if you are trying to change and improve. Choos…	/r/askTRP	04/04/19 02:21 PM
6	Please, I need help. I beg of you Damn if this is not a troll post, you have been dealt with quite shit cards huh? Intelligence cannot be increased/improved. So get that out of your mind. Test your IQ if you are so concerned about it, you might just be average but life has brought you down. Your memory fails you? Write shit down. C'mon this is not even a problem, stop complaining. To offset your low IQ, work harder than everyone else. Will power won't suffice, you need to develop habits. Create a daily timetable for yourself and…	/r/askTRP	18/04/18 10:31 AM
4	Society beginning to tackle the issue of male genital mutilation (aka circumcision) Loooooool that's all you can manage to say? That's up to the individual, many uncircumcised men don't either. Which again is irrelevant to having foreskin or not (as I explained before). I'm glad you proved that you actually can't defend your unfounded beliefs.Rekt. Go read a book.	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 04:24 PM
5	Society beginning to tackle the issue of male genital mutilation (aka circumcision) The "personal attack" was based on the behaviour you yourself admitted (not washing your hands), so it is not really a personal attack, rather a critique to your actions, not you as a person. Stop acting as a victim. This is because I seriously don't need to pretty much most of the time. There is no way foreskin need person would know.anything about this. Weak defence. All the arguments I made: sweat (you don't sweat in your junk and balls?? did that disappear with your foreskin?), isn't your pe…	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 03:48 PM
20	Society beginning to tackle the issue of male genital mutilation (aka circumcision) I can get a blowjob anywhere because I know how to clean myself. I can get my dick sucked on long road trips because I clean my dick. In both cases the blowjob I receive will be multiple times better than you because I'll have more sensitivity. Washing your hands after peeing is not because of the foreskin, females wash their hands as well. Your dick is stored in the dark, surrounded by fabric and probably sweating. Furthermore, there's a chance of drops going on the penis after peeing. You don'…	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 01:36 PM
12	Society beginning to tackle the issue of male genital mutilation (aka circumcision) Yeah but it isn’t completely taking away feeling from it You can live perfectly if you lose a finger, that doesn't make it debatable to cut people's fingers. And the cleanliness thing is at least a debatable thing and has some correct points. I have foreskin. My dick is probably cleaner than most people's faces/mouths/hands. People not knowing how to clean their junk is not an acceptable reason to cut babies. There’s nothing positive about FGM There's nothing positive in circumcision, whoever to…	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 01:26 PM
15	Society beginning to tackle the issue of male genital mutilation (aka circumcision) Conflating male circumcision with FGM is so outrageously moronic Why so? You are literally mutilating their genitalia.	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 11:12 AM
1	I don't know why I am afraid Don't worry I will do it! But I was curious about what drives that fear. Whatever happened to you mate, doesn't matter, just keep grinding. You will make it. Thanks	/r/askTRP	09/01/18 08:08 PM
–	I'm Todd Valentine... Ask Me Anything (AMA) Thanks for the AMA, been following you for a long time so thank you also for all the value! Do you think studying old school stuff such as cocky-funny, mistery method, which were more technical, is recommended? Or should we focus more on congruency (be yourself and approach) kind of pick up? Thank you again! You are the shit and man your son is a really lucky dude.	/r/seduction	06/12/17 09:21 PM
5	Vegan? Eat whatever the FUCK you want. It might affect your testosterone, but the science is not clear about it yet. Have regular tests if that's something that worries you. Also, you will need to eat a lot more quantity as vegan products tend to be less calorie and protein dense than meat. Finally, don't be the vegan that lectures the rest of us mortals. My FB is full of that shit telling me how imma die of cancer and I'm a bad human. Like I give a fuck, being in TRP im already Hitler by today's socie…	/r/askTRP	13/11/17 02:18 PM
5	The Red Pill Cheat Sheet It's hedonistic Hardly. Taking care of your health, controling your consumption of alcohol and drugs, not letting sex and pleasure rule your life are tenets of TRP that go completely against hedonism. I've read brave new world Great book, gives some perspective to what living in a utopia would be. But in terms of Alpha and Beta dynamics is completely different from what's discussed here. Alpha and Beta in Brave New World are genetically determined, in reality (as far as we know) these dynamics a…	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/17 10:29 AM
3	High School Student headed to College I'm aware it's either STEM, Med, or Math. No, it's not. That's what has been pushed here cuz those tend to lead to higher salaries. But now a lot of people are doing those such as Computer Science, so maybe by the time you finish, there is no longer demand for that sector (like it happened to architects some years ago) and you'll be in the same spot as the graduate in literature. Here is my suggestion: What kind of life do you want to have? Do you want to have a lot money or are you satisfied wi…	/r/askTRP	02/11/17 10:48 PM
2	Tips on incorporating red pill when I become a mother. Is there anything inherently undoable of what I said? People put their kids in sports and music all the time, they read to them all the time, my mother worked in the clothing industry and taught me how to match colours and how clothes should fit, many parents love their children and people use positive reinforcement on even dogs, which are less logical than children. Plus this is just general advice, the kid should be forced to try but not to stay so that he can stay on what he enjoys. Kids have…	/r/askTRP	17/10/17 06:14 AM
1	Did 4 approaches and lost motivation So what should an ugly guy do? Just stay home?	/r/askTRP	16/10/17 10:23 PM
2	Did 4 approaches and lost motivation because women themselves make the first move. That happens only when he is very attractive anyway. the whole community here is a bunch of ugly outcasts who give advices to other losers. And they do get laid. What do you recommend them? Should we just tell him "hey mate, just kill yourself, you ugly anyway"?. The solution is to put him out there to make him the best man he can be, even with his ugly face, and meet a girl that makes him happy. And it's been proven that an uggo can get a hottie, th…	/r/askTRP	16/10/17 09:50 PM
51	Tips on incorporating red pill when I become a mother. I would say love them, but don't be overprotective. He needs to fail, he needs to get hurt, he needs to see the world and not be protected from it. But never let him feel unloved. Avoid punishing him for things like being too loud, touching things... Telling him to not do it is fine, but punishing him will lead to a shy and fearful kid. Employ positive reinforcement of good behaviors, not punishment of bad behaviors. Teach him style/fashion early, it will make him more attractive later on, less …	/r/askTRP	16/10/17 09:42 PM
1	Did 4 approaches and lost motivation rejection is only your friend if you are ugly, then everything that you do will be considered creepy by women. Bullshit, if all the dudes in TRP were hot, there wouldn't be any need for the TRP. Maximize looks, own your shitface and pay your dues in the field.	/r/askTRP	16/10/17 09:08 PM
1	How to not need sex or a girl's approval emotionally? Interesting. Thank you!	/r/askTRP	14/10/17 10:58 AM
1	How to not need sex or a girl's approval emotionally? How do you do that? Honestly curious.	/r/askTRP	14/10/17 09:17 AM
1	How do you make friends? Ok check this out: https://redd.it/32xusd It has 4 parts, read them all. That will answer most of your questions. Ultimately, go do stuff that forces people to communicate with each other aka group hobbies and sports. Even if only 1 % of the people want to be your friends, you just need to meet 100 people to find that person (that's not statistically accurate but you get my point). Read that shit. Go out. Put yourself out there, no way around it.	/r/askTRP	08/10/17 05:40 PM
1	Where to begin? And how? Try it anyways. Wherever your problem socially is, it will be solved by increasing exposure and gaining experience socially.	/r/askTRP	08/10/17 10:39 AM
4	Where to begin? And how? So I could just send you to the sidebar, which is the correct answer, but Imma bother giving you some detail cuz I can relate. First, idgaf about your social life. Join a Gym. Follow a routine from /r/Fitness. Eat everyday at 300-500 calorie surplus. Can't eat that much? GOMAD. Second, your social life. Focus on stop being a social retard first, women will come later. You're in University? Good, join each and every single club/society/frat you have the slightest interest into. Did you play chess…	/r/askTRP	07/10/17 05:40 PM
2	How do i pick up women in college? How do u sexualize it? Touch them, strong sexual eye contact... in terms of meeting them and procedure to bed: meet in class or around campus, chat, invite right away for a coffee outside, escalate physically, strong eye contact, go for kiss. The bold steps are critical as they are the transitions from classmate to "friend" and from "friend" to sexual entity.	/r/askTRP	05/10/17 05:36 PM
6	Can a redpilled man be a leftist Well it is what I specialised into, won't give you my details though, I'm not stupid. shoot off your idiot mouth again? Oh I thought women were the ones who got emotional, you are in the wrong sub, go to xxchromosomes. It's not your money. Get your fucking hand out of my fucking pocket Aw be careful with the communist monster under your bed! Some serious arguments right here, good job! Stop! Imma pee! It's common in women your age, use pads. Would you like a list of my published works on the sub…	/r/askTRP	25/09/17 10:13 PM
7	Can a redpilled man be a leftist You mean like in Venezuela? Or did you mean Cuba? The world is not made up of the US and the countries CNN decides to tell you about. There are more countries out there, those are the ones I refer to. Use a map. Venezuela is not cool, neither is Cuba. What about Nazi Germany, Fascist Italy or Spain, Erdogan's Turkey? Are those cool? What's your point, that extremes are bad? Breaking news. Not really. Leftism demands thievery. All of leftism founders on the rock of "It's not your money, so stop s…	/r/askTRP	25/09/17 08:29 PM
28	Can a redpilled man be a leftist Maybe not so much in the US, but in other parts of the world the left has done a lot of good things to benefit society and improve living standards. Nowadays is hard to even define the Left or the Right, and both sides have quite a few retards on their sides. The left does have quite a few of them I agree. I don't see why your masculinity is dependent on your political ideology. It sounds like a dick size contest. Wasn't TRP a toolbox instead of an ideology, cult, echo chamber...	/r/askTRP	25/09/17 06:13 PM
3	Went to a party alone, went horribly wrong I went to a party yesterday too! I was pretty nervous about it but I did pretty well. Here's what I did: I went with my flatmate and started meeting people around the door. Doesn't matter if you go alone, many people go to parties alone or to meet their friends in. So just meet someone when they are in the door (meeting 1 person is way easier that breaking in a group) and then follow him to his group. He introduces you to it. Done, you got a group. Now you can relax and try to let everybody talk…	/r/askTRP	23/09/17 11:01 AM
2	Best posts to start with on TRP reddit? Use a computer, it's way too much stuff to read on your phone	/r/askTRP	21/09/17 07:29 PM
2	The Five Most Useful Resources for Learning Pickup It is not as blunt as the content you can find here, but IMO still very valuable.	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/17 12:47 PM
9	The Five Most Useful Resources for Learning Pickup I think the vulnerability part gets misinterpreted a lot. What he means by being vulnerable is to be able to let rejection happen, to be able to put yourself in front of the girl, risk rejection and be yourself at all costs. That makes you vulnerable to rejection. I think he actually says in some part of the book that he doesn't mean telling your problems to the girl.	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/17 12:46 PM
1	The Five Most Useful Resources for Learning Pickup Can you elaborate on that? I think it's one of the best books I've read on pick up.	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/17 06:06 AM
2	How to not give a fuck about others? Read the Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck by Mark Manson (the guy who wrote Models). Aside from that, comparing yourself to others is not inherently bad. It poses a challenge and puts fire under your ass to get things done. But if comparing yourself to others paralyzes you, then stop doing so. I know it sounds like shit advice, but hear me out. Set achievable goals for yourself and achieve them. Compare yourself to the you of yesterday. I could try to find holes in your reasoning, but it's in fac…	/r/askTRP	23/08/17 01:41 PM
3	Should I try to make something happen? Ok mate, let's do this. First of all: yep she liked you, or at least she didn't dislike you, which is all you need. Assume attraction (that means assume that she's told you she wants to suck your dick, and your job is just to make her feel safe about doing it), I know sometimes when people say these rules they sound weird/stupid, but these rules prevent things like your case from happening. You assume attraction until told otherwise, and move the interaction forward. Worst thing that can happen …	/r/askTRP	01/07/17 10:00 AM
4	Advice for autistics? I'm no expert on autism or anything, so I'm going to completely disregard it. Do you always open with: "Hi, you're cute. Want a number?"? If the answer is yes (or all your opens are that direct), then that's just way too direct. You are asking for way too much investment on her part from the get-go and she's bound to say no. I'd be surprised if you got any results at all to be honest. Either way, change your approach, try canned openers/lines if you feel that your autism is hindering you. But bo…	/r/askTRP	24/06/17 08:38 PM
2	Cold Approach Experience in the UK I have experience in the UK, more specifically London. It's perfectly doable and there is a very sizable pick up community there. In fact, the RSD Inner Circle in London is the biggest in the world. Move to a city and serve your time in the battlefield. No excuses, just approaches.	/r/askTRP	22/06/17 06:42 PM
16	Haven't cum since october-no positive changes Yeah, no morning wood is a huge red flag	/r/askTRP	13/05/17 02:16 PM
3	So my wife found my plate. One child but I know I can get full custody. You know you can get full custody? No child support? I'm curious, how comes? Normally women have the upper hand on this.	/r/askTRP	19/11/16 11:16 AM
1	Give me tips on teasing, kino and flirting in a high school setting. Search this on Reddit or Google it, it's a post in the seduction sub: DiCarlo Escalation Ladder: Concise and Emphasized You can look at the original, but this one will be just fine. That's for your kino, don't go too far tho, you are in High School so don't build a bad reputation, everything with mesure. Game is practice, that's all. You can read books on body language, or just plain "game" books ( Models by Mark Manson is pretty good, but just read everything in the sidebar). But practice beats…	/r/askTRP	19/11/16 01:03 AM
1	3 Questions following a recent party? Probably could of isolated but she was shy and with her friend all night Excuses. She was with her friends? So? Why do you think it's called isolate? Asking her to go on a date or what? Duh. C'mon man. 2. How can I tell if she likes me or what? I'm not very sure. Asking her out might work, but really, can't say. 3.Add her. Or go ask her out, that might work as well. Do you see a pattern here?	/r/askTRP	18/11/16 03:33 PM
2	How to approach third wheel "friend groups"? Pretty simple brother. Isolate her. How do you do that? You go up to her, say "hey let's grab a coffee/go wherever/lunch", if she asks about the other guys, make something up like they are busy or, if you want to be more direct, tell her you just want to go with her. She will normally say yes cuz you are already friends. If she doesn't want to be alone with you, she's not interested so time to move on, no need to block her out of your life or anything, just move on. Have fun with her alone. This…	/r/askTRP	18/11/16 03:08 PM
1	Seeking advice on a potential FB My man you are going a little too fast don't you think? Understandable because you just lost your V card but you need to relax. A week? That's not much, and it's actually good to let the thing build up a bit. Don't get needy or desperate, you got here with TRP don't fuck it up now with the most common mistake men make: being needy. Just let this build up, reduce contact with her until Monday and only text her on Monday just to confirm that it's happening (i.e logitics, basic TRP shit) but no "I'…	/r/askTRP	18/11/16 02:50 PM
1	LTR fake break up over text He's too Red Pill for The Red Pill	/r/askTRP	18/11/16 02:29 PM
10	Cuffing season, how to not fall for the trap You fucked her right? So whatever you are doing is working, so keep it up! Don't try to fix something that isn't broken. Don't mention anything about LTR (you actually don't even know if she wants to be in one with you), don't tell her shit. You are there for the fun, and she is too. Feel bad for her? Women can get multiple orgasms in a row and they might feel better than ours, don't feel bad, you are doing her a favor.	/r/askTRP	18/11/16 02:25 PM
2	GF wants to experience uni life and go casual. I'm hurt what to do? Oh no don't get me wrong! It's because of how they are that I love them even more!	/r/askTRP	17/11/16 01:52 PM
18	GF wants to experience uni life and go casual. I'm hurt what to do? Girls can be ruthless sometimes can't they? As the other guy said, she is not your GF anymore. Even if you tried and convinced her to stay exclusive wih you, I'm sure she would cheat on you eventually (probably in less than a month). But look on the bright side, she offered being casual (aka FWB/plate). Go ahead and do that, end this in good terms, go meet other girls and whenever you want to fuck, you know where to go.	/r/askTRP	17/11/16 10:08 AM
1	How to get motivated to learn a language? Then go to Germany and work there. Or even better, go to the German-speaking part of Switzerland (they'll pay much more, things are also more expensive, but you still win). They say the German is different than Germany so take that into consideeration. Why that instead of Russia? Because at the same time you learn the language you get more experience in your sector and a satisfying salary. If you are really interested in Russian, while you are in Germany /Switzerland start learning Russian. You …	/r/askTRP	17/11/16 10:00 AM
2	Im suddenly terrified of catching an STI, anyone else? Also you know shaving your pubes wont stop crabs right? Yep that was stupid, they can get on pretty much any surface. But hey, shaved your dick smells less and looks bigger so do it anyway hahaha	/r/askTRP	16/11/16 09:29 PM
1	Can't get these thoughts out of my head Abundance is not about how many side chicks or plates you got. It's a mentality. It's about knowing that at any moment, at the drop of a hat, you can get a new girl, equal or better than her. That makes you feel more secure about yourself and you will be able to be in a relationship without being needy. I am trying to build genuine confidence, but its fucking hard. Yep, that's why not everybody has it. It is built by proving yourself your own worth (by achieving, succeeding, overcoming difficult…	/r/askTRP	16/11/16 09:22 PM
2	Do you try to bang girls who are below your level? Every girl on this planet is below your level I got hard reading this. I might print it and put it on my wall, read it 3 times, and then do 3 extra sets of Deadlifts.	/r/askTRP	16/11/16 02:17 PM
1	Can't get these thoughts out of my head the thought pops into my brain so fucking often and causes me anxiety and insecurity I always felt like he was better with girls than me I think you already know what the problem is: you are not confident enough. I'm gonna take a guess and say that you "faked it till you made it" in the confidence sector. I don't wanna discourage you, I'm sure you made some progress, but seems like you don't fully believe that you are worthy of her (you probably have some oneitis too). This is not about whether …	/r/askTRP	16/11/16 02:14 PM
1	How to get motivated to learn a language? Necessity is the best motivator. Enjoyment is the next one. I speak fluently in three languages, all due to necessity (except my mother tongue), but also enjoyment. So I would say, move to a country where it is spoken to work during christmas/summer, or study a year abroad if you are in university and can afford it. If you can't, find media (Youtube, books, TV shows...) in that language that you love, and that will motivate you to learn. For example, a lot of people learn Japanese because they l…	/r/askTRP	16/11/16 01:51 PM
3	Nutrition and fitness are a big part of TRP. Would 3-4 eggs + a banana with a tablespoon of peanut butter + a cup of skim/almond milk be a good daily breakfast? It is not so much about the individual meals, but about your overall diet. Wanna lose weight? 200-500 caloric deficit and weight lifting+HIIT, that's all. If you wanna be even more specific, make sure you take at around 1g of protein per pound of bodyweight. You might want to look into intermmitent fasting. About that breakfast, some people would be worried about the cholesterol you get with 4 eggs everyday, but there are studies that argue that there is nothing to worry about, unless there is a…	/r/askTRP	16/11/16 01:40 PM
3	Im suddenly terrified of catching an STI, anyone else? I think you are excessively worried about it. Most girls don't have STDs. But if those that do worry you, as long as you use condoms and keep your junk trimmed/shaved, you are good to go. Anyways, there is not much else you can do unless you want to stop having sex (don't), so keep doing what you are doing and enjoy life, you are going to die anyway. Edit: stupid mistake	/r/askTRP	16/11/16 01:28 PM
1	Another Lie We Tell Men: "You Get Out What You Put In." Great explanation, I got it. It seems counterintuitive to love someone without giving validation, but I understand that not giving them validation encourages them to work harder for it? One last question: dread is the punishment, then what is the reward? Is validation a part of rewarding so it shouldn't be given for free, or the policy is no validation in any case and only use sex and time as reward? Thanks for the answers, is good to learn from the endorsed contributors.	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/16 05:42 PM
1	Another Lie We Tell Men: "You Get Out What You Put In." I see. So in a healthy relationship, a man is "expected" to love the woman (with all the accompanying things like support, validation...) Am I right? Then what is expected from the woman towards the man if it's not love? Obedience ( Captain/first mate)? Admiration?	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/16 01:52 PM
2	Another Lie We Tell Men: "You Get Out What You Put In." Men love women, women love children, children love puppies I never fully understood this rule. Can you give an example of this being applied in a relationship?	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/16 01:27 PM
4	How do you deal with people when you are easily targeted (personality, body type, etc) and made the butt of jokes? Then confront him, even if they are in their own conversation he is disrespecting you knowing you are there. Do something, men take action. Example: Bitch: "Lexus is a fat bastard, he can't even see his dick" You (aka not a bitch that feels disrespected for no reason but, instead, a male able to defend himself and make fun of others too): "Your mother/sister begs to differ, she also begged for my dick last night. She seems to beg a lot." insert smirk with strong eye contact, showing you are kind…	/r/askTRP	11/11/16 07:38 PM