| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 840 | You're really going to let what OTHER PEOPLE think of you matter more than what YOU think of you? | TechBroMoney | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 11:07 PM | |
| 20 | She doesn't owe you a response | TechBroMoney | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 05:27 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | I gave her my number!Do you think there is a lot of pressure? Usually I get something like "Hey" or "👋🏻". Nothing really exciting but a great indicator of interest. If there was none they'd never text | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 05:10 PM |
| – | I gave her my number!Your dataset is very small (mine is not much bigger though) Replied back is a useless metric. How many times did it lead to a successful date? | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 11:28 PM |
| – | I gave her my number!You and /u/Woujo are both downvoted because it's not a rookie mistake. I almost always give my number and would say get a text 3 out of 5 times. Indeed not always, but when I do, I know they're interested. It also shows that I'm casual. "Take my number, if you change your mind you can always delete it, but I'm sure you won't 😉". | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | What did I say that was wrong to lose the beans?It means that you're interested in her body, not in her. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 07:52 PM |
| – | What did I say that was wrong to lose the beans?Well there is your problem. Of course the boards don't interest you, but if the girl interest you, her interest should interest you. I used to date a girl who was super into horses. I don't care about horses in the slightest. I did find it interesting in how she got into it. What she likes about it. Whether she won competitions etc. You say you come across needy and creepy that's probably because you are being either one or both. When a girl is interested in you, she wants to know all about you.… | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 06:12 PM |
| – | The Best Advice For Getting WamenI couldn't imagine why anyone would spend their valuable time making an ironic post | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Date ideas for when it’s really hot?Get to see them without make-up Get to see their full bodies They get to see your body (assuming you work out and wow her) This is the way | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 05:04 PM |
| – | The Best Advice For Getting WamenYou're taking advice on how to date women, from a bunch of people who also can't date women. Followed by anyway here is my advice on how to date women... | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 04:58 PM |
| 3 | How to not freeze up in front of my (work) crush?If you want this girl to be your girlfriend I'd say be yourself as much as possible. If you're aiming for just sex, then you can adjust your personality to match what she likes. At the end of the day, if she is already into you that's because you've been doing you. Keep doing that | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 04:17 PM |
| 4 | Virgin"Get this whole virgin thing out of the way" is a bad attitude. If you really want to do that go find a sex worker and pay to lose it. If you want to have sex with a girl for fun without paying, go out and approach girls. Ask them on dates. Get coffee. Get rejected. Get in her bedroom. What do you mean exactly with "strike up that convo"? | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 05:18 AM |
| – | How to not freeze up in front of my (work) crush?It's easy to freeze when you're listening. It's easy to get people to talk about things they're interested in. You can say simple things like "how was your weekend" or "what are you doing after work" to get them to do the talking. The only must is that you must be genuine. I go out with one of my insanely attractive friends often and the amount of guys that approach her just to ask "what do you do for work" while they clearly don't care is crazy. Be genuine. Ask about them. If they talk and then… | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 05:16 AM |
| – | I'm gonna do itYou don't have to lie to yourself, if you get rejected you will care. Then, you'll realize that your life is still exactly the same. You still have everything you have before except a vague memory of getting rejected. Once you realize how insignificant rejection is... you'll do better the next time, and the next time, and the next time. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 05:08 AM |
| 8 | [Question] How do you open now?This is such a tough situation. Personally I've been going to the beach and bars (they're open where I am) so no one is wearing a mask. I think you can still ask a girl out when she is wearing a mask, if she has nice eyes or a friendly expression. Unfortunately, people some can look great with masks and look very unattractive without it. If you're a better person than I am maybe it doesn't matter so much. I recently got a waitresses' number and when I saw her without mask I immediately knew I wa… | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Not sure if this girl likes me or if shes trolling.Yeah from all this information and context you have given us we can definitely tell us if she likes you with 100% accuracy. An alternative approach is to man up and ask her. Or better, tell her you like her and you want to take her out. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 05:01 AM |
| – | S-Test from girl at club. Need helpYou can edit your comment and remove the "it keeps the blacks in check" but scrolling down a few lines will show another comment Do you think black girls offer value other than the pussy? You're obviously a troll and I hope you when you grow older, you realize that you gain nothing from saying things like this. I'm sure you think you're being edgy and funny but really, you're pathetic | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 11:16 PM |
| – | S-Test from girl at club. Need helpYeah buddy maybe chill on the racism... | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 10:51 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]It's likely one of two things: She's doing her job and being social She's into you Go back, tell her "hey you here too?" or something along the lines of your humor and then just ask her if she wants to get a drink sometime. Don't overthink it. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 10:12 PM |
| 4 | How hard is to get FWB?It's an honest answer that lots of guys here find hard to accept. By no means am I saying that if you're not attractive you can't find FWB. You'll just need to put in more work and have a little luck. Whereas if you're attractive, it's very easy. Ask any woman. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 08:48 PM |
| – | Opportunity presented. Opportunity lost.Not to burst your bubble but I think this may have a blessing in disguise. Having your mom stop so you can talk to a girl makes no sense unless you're both 14. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 07:51 PM |
| – | How hard is to get FWB?If you're attractive: easy If you're not: good luck | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | How to slide into a girls dms who you don't know?That approach does work if you're not unattractive | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Easiest way to get HER NUMBER !!!!!!!!!!!!I agree with giving her your number, I do this all the time too. That being said your post makes little sense. Alleviate all uncertainty. If you give her your number, there is still uncertainty whether she will text you Pre-write your number on a sticky note. Makes you look like a try-hard Be like [your name]. Is going to make you look narcissistic | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 06:25 PM |
| – | What did I say that was wrong to lose the beans?This is a terrible interaction. Grammar mistake "what are you up to" She's answering your question and you show 0 interest. What do you know about reading the boards? Ask her about that. Be interested. "Well there's a lot... Of better things to do than reading the boards." you're talking negatively about something she may be passionate about. At this point there is no going back She says she is not interested in just sex. You reply with a joke. However the conversation has gone terrible so far..… | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Women of Reddit, do you consider dating a guy who doesn’t make you feel protected (but doesn’t come across as harmful either - so neutral)? Why or why not?No but it answers the question of "do you consider dating a guy". That's a loser mindset. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 06:03 PM |
| – | Women of Reddit, do you consider dating a guy who doesn’t make you feel protected (but doesn’t come across as harmful either - so neutral)? Why or why not?Not a girl but this question screams insecurity and that's generally unattractive. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Keeping it stupid simple: 27MThis is great my friend. I always feel like when you ask a girl out when she is with her friends, there is an even bigger chance they'll say yes. More girls the better. Why? Because you're asking her out and not her friends. That will immediately make her feel more special. If you're hanging out with your friends and a cute girl comes up to you and asks you out, you appreciate it even more than if you were to be alone right? Boss move! | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 05:19 PM |
| 4 | You're really going to let what OTHER PEOPLE think of you matter more than what YOU think of you?I don't use opening lines I go with the environment and start a genuine conversation from there. If they are nice and engaged in the conversation I'll end with "why don't you give me your number and we can get [coffee/a drink] sometime?". Some examples: In a coffee shop a girl ordered a very complicated coffee (pumpkin latte macchiato spicy lemon voodoo whatever) and I said "I was going to order a plain black coffee but yours sounds much more exotic". She replied "It's really good you should try… | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 06:25 PM |
| – | You're really going to let what OTHER PEOPLE think of you matter more than what YOU think of you?That sucks to hear man. I think you should work on yourself before you approach women and I mean that in the nicest way. Here is what I would do in your situation: List the things you don't like about yourself List the things you do like about yourself When you go over the dislike list, look at each one and decide whether you can do something about it. If you can't do something about it (e.g. you dislike your height), strike it through. There is no point in feeling bad about things you can not c… | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 05:34 PM |
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