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DiscussionTechnical_Block1172/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 11:33 AM
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Young men, unless exceptionally hot or rich, generally have no chance to have a few relationships at the same time. In my culture, girls who allow themselves to be in long-term relationships without commitment (i.e. marriage) are looked down upon. Once your repution is gone, there is no man who will marry you. In the West, I see a few girls orbiting around one hot guy - this always puzzled me, because they are not getting much from him. Each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 01:00 PM
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...like Chad wants to have four wifes. Lol, my grandpa had six wifes. It was a pain in the neck for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 02:47 PM
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I get that and I agree with your points. However, what should poor girl do? She cannot undo her past.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 08:51 PM
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You can still be a bro, but the first girl is still evil lmao. Lol. Lying to her bf like that is fucked. And yeah... But those who WOULD consider something serious with a sex worker generally only do so if the sex worker is open and honest about it. If they found out she'd lied about something? They'd probably not continue anything serious. Idk. I think they are between a rock and a hard place: if they tell the truth, most of attractive men won't date them, because those men could date another p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 11:03 AM
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If you are coming from purely-biological point of view then I haven't seen any research on oxytocin tolerance in low-N and high-N women. However, over the last few thousands of years humanity evolved in mind, i.e. we developed technology, we built society, agreed on rules, etc. Therefore, our behaviors are actually driven by our thoughts and experiences and not by biology. On the other side - if someone choses to behave like hyper-sexual animal, I don't find him/her to be a suitable for a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:42 PM
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N does not affect "pair bonding" in women, it just affects her ability to get attractive men to commit. High N women usually put out slut tells (no i am not going to list them out for you). It does. I often hear girfriends comparing their man to exes. It's harder to commit once you know there is one particular area where your partner lacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:02 PM
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Isn't that an oxymoron that she told you? Lol And damn bro the first girl is evil lmao I am a woman :) I don't judge what they do, but I don't keep them as close friends. The lack of honesty is the reason. However, I understand them a bit - very few good men would consider something serious with a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:57 PM
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Conservative women get... fat balding unintelligent husbands. Plus their sex life is non existant. They did all the "right" things, yet got nothing worthwhile. Slutty women did all the "wrong" things and got everything they wanted. It's definitely not my experience, lol. I was a virgin when I met my fiance. He's very intelligent, has full hair and out sex life is pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 11:04 AM
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How was he abusive? Did he ever hit you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 10:11 AM
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Two of my girlfriends who babble on OnlyFans. First one has boyfriend who doesn't know. Second one said to me she will never tell anyone (we were discussing the recent fallout from Girls Do Porn case).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 10:08 AM
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I am so sorry for you :( I don't think it will happen here. First, I saw the emails, photos and other stuff on his old laptop. Secondy, we are living together for almost two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:22 PM
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Thank you On a additional note - this is a post-event analysis. I was not aware of all of that while we dated. I don't think any girl should really attempt that - I could as well end up as one of his 'rebound exes'. I think that at the end of the day he wanted to have a attractive wife and children, and this was what pushed him over the edge. Also, he likes black girls (that's what I mean by being his type).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 02:36 PM
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Would you mind sharing what the pro-marriage points you made to him were and how much of the heavy lifting the ultimatum and but-kids argument did? I think the most important is that my fiance wasn't against marriage per se. His parents are still together and having children was something he always wanted. It was just the experiences he had that scared him. After those toxic relationships, he flipped and become a player. He's intelligent and practical - he picked up some tricks from his friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 01:23 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:54 AM
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I didn't grow in the West. I struggled a lot when I came to Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:54 AM
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I am getting a husband who is very intelligent, educated, travelled, speaks fluently three languages, is very practical, has good career and six-digits income (plus side-business), exercises daily, is color-blind (I am black), has good hygiene and dresses well. The last two with my help, lol. On top of that he almost never gets sick and is almost immune to cold and hot temperatures. I saw him and his dad only in t-shirts when it was snowy outside - this will always stay in my mind. Yh - I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:46 AM
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I didn't know all of it initially. When we dated, I noticed he's a bit weird about women, but I put it on intimidation factor. I am genuinely hot girl and some men were nervous (for the lack of better word). He was a bit distant and didn't want to talk much about himself. Later I started noticing he's not really nervous but very hurt. I seriously considered to dump him, but my mum said I should give him a chance. He had many good-boyfriend traits. I was very careful not to trigger him and eventu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:39 AM
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He never told me full story. I know he hacked the phone of the sugar baby and that's how he found out. I don't know how it was with the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:30 AM
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Well they’re not going to take advantage of a guy they can’t lock down or who has nothing to steal. He's good looking, but not that 'hot'. I don't think they really wanted to know him and my fiance doesn't really scream about his achievements (that's his culture). I think he was just passed as yet-another-beta-guy, while in fact he's 100% Sigma :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:28 AM
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Thank you again! We had to cancel in 2020 due to lockdowns. We will do only civil marriage for now and later the full wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:24 AM
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Thank you. Yes - we are getting married in this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:21 PM
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I am glad we agree that's not a desired outcome. In the previous generation, 10% of marriages ended in divorce. Now we have 50% - how is that attractive for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:08 PM
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I guess plenty of men are mistrustful of women nowadays as well. But they manifest their mistrust through wanting sex exclusively and refusing to commit further. It's not that simple. My fiance was dragged throught mud by his exes, he flipped into being a player. First ex had sugar daddy, then he found out the next ex was escorting... Really toxic shit. When I met him he has deep mistrust towards women, but I could see he had good boyfriend traits and wanted to have a family. I spent two years o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:02 PM
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I am rather of opinion that everyone deserves a chance. People have different experiences in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:54 PM
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OK....that is a bit of hyperbole huh? Plenty of people who are divorced experience the pain and move on. Why anyone would want to 'experience the pain and move on'?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:41 PM
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Sayonara!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:45 PM
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Thank you. We are getting married in this year :) We had to cancel 2020 due to Covid. But I am not letting him to get away this time ^^ The problems I came accross in my dating was the huge number of men seeing me as an exotic sex toy while not willing to take me home to their parents. With my fiance it was different, because he's as unbiased and color-blind as they come. He sometimes laughts it's difficult to see my brain behind those boobs, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 04:52 PM
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People say I am 2nd Jazzma Kendrick (yes, I am black). My girlfriends in uni were hot too. I don't know their parents, but my mum was slim as well. I was a model and do have what men want look-wise. I don't know what you define as high-quality, but I am educated and have professional career.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 04:25 PM
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It's not my experience nor something I can observe among my girlfriends. Many of them married first or second serious boyfriend and they are still together. I recall being invited to many weddings just a few years ago. Now, I am in my early 30-ies and I don't get that many invitations (i.e. before Covid). It's rather opposite - when I call my friends they are often single or broke with their partners. When I actually visit my girlfriends I don't see their men to be high quality. They usually do …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 03:47 PM
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My fiance was cheated on badly by his ex. That bitch had a sugar daddy and then he also found she was marrying someone. Then there was some stripper who was also caming or escorting. I don't know the whole story. I think you are right about him being neurotic. He did therapy and had some jealousy triggers early. I was very careful for the first few years to make him trust me. He's like 99% over the past now. He's very organised and makes lots of notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 02:36 PM
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We had a quite heated discussion once and he showed me notes on his phone. I recall it was about some guy who lost his house and his ex-wife was living there with her boyfriend. I almost cancelled the next date, but my mum said I should give him a chance and talk. Girls - this is what you have to deal with nowadays. Men are not stupid, they see what's going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 02:29 PM
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When a girl is in her 20-ies, replacing a boyfriend is not a problem. A woman in her 30-ies has slim pickings. I am glad my mum pushed me to marry early.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 02:24 PM
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I don't doubt the statistics, but, as I said, the spread across demographics is not uniform. That's true. However, it's still a very high risk for both parties. My fiance said on 4th date he's not getting married ever. Then he showed me his notes of his older friends being divorces, losing family homes, etc. I almost dumped him by then, but I had enough of dating people who just saw my looks and he was very intelligent. He's from good family and parents are still together. Yet, I had to talk to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 02:17 PM
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I met my fiance when I was working for a online retail company. I had my ambitions to go to uni and have a professional career. He supported me all the way. I still want to do my own bussines. He had bad experiences with girls before (read my other comments), but he was always serious about having a family and children. In his words - I am his type (look-wise) and I will be good mum; I am smart too, but it's a bonus. He's very intelligent but when we met I think I was more mature one. Also, he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:34 PM
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I'm so happy for you! Thank you. These days you can wait until you're absolutely sure and ready for marriage, whatever marriage means to you. I have a few friends who waited till they were 'absolutely sure'. Their thing is that they were 32 and 35 (I think) and now they are more like 'why no-one wants to seriously date me?' I wanted to marry in my early 20-ies (it's cutural - I am not from the West), but I could not find anyone serious till 26. Men I met were either too pushy, too insecure or to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:08 PM
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we don't know how bad the divorce was It's exactly the same. Imagine you are a man with 6-digits salary and a half a million net value (doable for someone in mid-30 who worked hard). Now you have 33% chance of divorce happening with a chance of 70% of your net value going to someone else. (please note I used the word 'chance'). Does it sound like 'it’s not that bad as people think it is'? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:03 PM
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33% chance of having your life destroyed is not high?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:16 AM
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In the past generations there were a few effects which are no longer present: Marriage union was for life and you it looked baddly when you divorced (that applied to both men and women); Dating was a slow process, i.e. there was no Tinder with a new boyfriend at a press of a button; Men could not get sex in other ways than marriage (mostly) therefore they were more willing to commit; Married men were seen as more valuable vs. batchelors; Marriage was arranged by parents (mostly), i.e. no ONS wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:44 AM
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Aren't all nerds hahaha He's something else, lol. He cannot walk next to me without smacking my bum. That's interesting. Can you link to those? Its on the state TV and on the radio. But if I fond something I will pm you Thank you \<sup>\</sup>^
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:27 PM
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That's the man Yh, he's a hunter. You didn't have sex was he just asking for it too much He has high libido plus he's a bit freaky in bed :D I think we found the balance. I mine my country we even have sex end before you get married and how important it is. Hell we even have government sponsored talks on radio and TV that help with how to keep marriages working, with sex end as a frequent subject That's interesting. Can you link to those?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:50 PM
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I am very attractive girl - don't ignore that too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 03:54 PM
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He never told me his number, it's my estimation only. I actually asked a few times, but he just doesn't want to talk about it. However, I saw his phone contact list and calendar with dates. I also found out some photos on his old laptop. I was irked at first, but he never gave me any reason to suspect he is cheating on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 03:38 PM
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I guess what I'm trying to get at is, why didn't your religious upbringing innoculate you against the appeal of a "player"? He didn't appear as typical loud alpha male. He's 100% Sigma male - very intelligent, a bit weird, but very organised and planned. He cares about me. He never wants to talk about his past and I just pieced it together much later. As a virginal good girl yourself, isn't this what you desired in a mate? If not, why not? I was a model before and I dated many guys. Some of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 03:30 PM
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Lots of questions here. Why were you a virgin? Religious community? Yes, it was my religious upbringing. I am not from the West. Did you hang out with mostly other religious people? Not really, but my mum is very religious. How did you come to meet this player? Why date him? He came out of nowhere and approached me on the street. He works in IT, looked like a nerd and was polite, thus you can say I was taken by surprise. Later I found out more about his story. I would say he was already 90% over…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 03:22 PM
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He's genuine. He was cheated badly on by one girl. The next one was a stripper and he also found out she was escorting. When I met him he was in a lot of hurt and still has some jealousy triggers. I saw good boyfriend qualities in him and gave it a go. We are getting married in this year (we planned for 2020, but due to Covid it was cancelled).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 03:17 PM
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Exhibit A. I guess. Lol. Well, he was a good guy from the start. His exes dragged him through the mud and he flipped. He is very intelligent, so he picked up some tricks and became a player. Now he's back to his senses but it took a while. I don't mind his past.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 02:28 PM
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Lol, that would be me :) Virgin when I met my fiance. He's like 30+ bodies (I don't know exact number).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 02:14 PM
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Women are the biggest hypocrites because they say "I want a nice guy who treats me right" but what they really want is a hot guy who has money and influence. How he treats her is immaterial. I disagree (in a polite way). Sure we want a hot man who can support us and our lifestyle. However, a man who doesn't respect me is no go. I was a model and I met very wealthy men. However, I could see they would be a good husband. They were pushy, insecure and the age difference was too big. I met my fiance…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:28 PM
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Each to their own. My fiance insists to pay for our outgoings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:09 AM
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He's not from African man - he won't show-off and you need to know him better. For a half a year he didn't tell me about his bussiness and I only found out that he owns a house till like a year afterwards. Lol. That is my strategy also from now on He said once that 'he would feel cheap if he got girl via his money. he should be able to do it with a few drinks and in a t-shirt.' 100% sigma male :) Were you stuck up as well I think I was. We are together for five years and we argued a lots about s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:08 AM
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Definitely not settle :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:13 PM
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Where is he from? Europe. And when did that happen and do the women regret doing that or have they found other men. But how does a good looking man with he's shit together struggle like that because women say he is rare. I think he was too naive and trusted local girls too much. That ex regretted a lot and tried to get him back when we were together. I don't know the whole story. He's not from African man - he won't show-off and you need to know him better. For a half a year he didn't tell me ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:12 PM
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I feel better, thanks :) I am marrying my fiance the next year, therefore no future endeavors planned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:43 PM
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I don't drink. My version was see all London has to offer in terms of activities, sites, food, and culture. I enjoy seeing how other cultures live so that was how I saw it. Buy else is there besides going to clubs and bars? Lots of museums, theaters, shops, restaurants - it's really hard to advise when I don't know what yo fancy. Yes, £150,000 is more like it for two years. You mean minus school expenses Yh, but again - I don't know what you fancy to do. I don't really know, but they are rarely …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:38 PM
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. I tried it for a bit, but there is no way I am dating anyone from there. You mean from africa From UK. What is your definition of the full London experience? I believe mine may have been very tame but I am not the most outgoing person out there Depens what you want to do really. Any bar evening is £40-60 minimum. Club evening is £100+. Especially if that has to cover your studies too. No. If I add studies then I balloons to ~£150,000 which was the initial budget so say I go to a top university…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:48 PM
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I am from UK. Yes, it's pretty common here. However, guys became more stingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:37 PM
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I've lead some women to buy me drinks. LOL, I feel better now :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:03 PM
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I see that a lot I just didn't think western women weren't that shallow too. I get it that we are broke over here and women are trying to survive (although its getting out of hand) but I just didn't see that happening over there or so much of it I saw a lot in my uni. Men are just weird and everything is sexualised. Guys here are very shy and all here is all about Tinder and clubs. I tried it for a bit, but there is no way I am dating anyone from there. The games they play here in London is some…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 06:27 PM
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I have heard these stories. Its actually why I never bothered thinking about interracial dating It requires two open-minded people who are not bothered by this bullshit. What happened to his previous dating experiences I don't know the whole story because he never wants to talk about it. From what I put together he was used for free dinners and drinks a lot. He felt baddly for one girls and found out she had sugar daddy. He confronted him and tried to get over it, and next found out she's gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:51 PM
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Unfortunatelly, that's true. Many of girls in university were leading guys to get free drinks and other stuff. Me and my friends were never like that; however, I am also guilty of leading one guy for a few months, just because I was not sure if I like him or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:36 PM
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I am in UK, I don't know how is in US. So how is it over there Brits are very class-aware and they are also quietly racist, i.e. a dude from Chelsea might date you, but there is no way he will bring you to his British-only family. That's very true! My fiance definitely has a kink towards color women. I meant is do people who want people of a different race want to marry them or generally want to only hook up I suspect my fiance wanted to hook up, but then he realised I am not a unintelligent bim…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 03:54 PM
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Aren't all black men like that lol. But in my experience opposites attract most light guys I know like dark girls and vice versa Interesting. I know that attraction is huge for you guys and you don't have much control over it. My brother all wanted to marry white women but sees like my young brother is the one that will bring one home. Yeah but I know a few people into darker girls but for me I love them My siblings dated black (and married). I am the only one who dated interracially in my famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:17 PM
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I really like dark skinned women idk I just never thought deeply of it The black men I know were always into lighter-skinned girls. My brothers married girls lighter then them. You are the only one I know who is into darker-skinned girls. maybe its the lack of opportunities to meet and pursue white women. If you live in the West, it's diffcult not to meet snow bunnies :P Mom always figured one of her kids might marry someone from a different race and I guess its going to me my young brother. Its…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:51 AM
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You own if it's something you talked and agreed on. Each to their own. I prefer to be as hot as possible to my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:39 AM
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Dating interracially but I would definitely hook up with a snow bunny, I just don't see myself marrying one. Why is that? I am Christian too. Black men are marrying whites where I live. Mum was panicking at start, but now she likes him. Fiance is unbiased as they come.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:07 AM
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Nice to meet you too. I think there are more of us here. Are you also open to interracial dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 11:24 PM
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I am sorry, but I don't enjoy this exchange. You are not really answering the question. Please answer - why do equalise FWB and prostitute? Is that a morality side?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:53 PM
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I am sorry, but I don't understand the question. Imho, FWB are because both parties like each other and enjoy sex. Prostitutes are there primary for money, not sex and enjoyment. I dont't really see why those two should be equalised or moralised. Sex work isn't moraly-lacking or anything. We could discuss it that's good or bad choice for future life, career and relationships, but I don't see a moral side of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:46 PM
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Why do equalise FWB and prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:39 PM
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I just recalled something funny :) On 4th or 5th date I asked how does he fell dating taller girl. His response made me blush, when we did doggy he would be above me. On a serious note - most of my friends date taller men. That's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:20 PM
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We both owe to stay attractive to each other. That includes having good hygiene, being fit and dressing well. Also, a good workout makes wonders to the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:14 PM
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What is has to do with anything? He's avarage. I am slightly taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 06:31 PM
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No but it's not just the load shedding you mentioned. I had to google what 'load shedding' means. There is lots of corruption and stealing. The politicians are giving contracts to their family and friends, and those projects are never delivered. Selfishness is somewhat part of our culture, i.e. this is exactly what I referred to when describing a nation where most of men are alphas. No one maintains stuff, everyone want to become a big man quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 06:28 PM
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Semen as well... but only for science. ;-) Nope. All his semen is mine :D 100% sigma male.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:36 AM
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Come one - no doxxing please.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:04 AM
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Lol, his dad is the same. I saw them both only in t-shirts when there were like 33-40F outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:09 PM
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Do you think the electricity is shit only in South Africa? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 10:41 PM
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Hey! no guessing / doxxing please.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 08:52 PM
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In my experience women date down on looks, while dating up on everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:38 PM
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Goddamn, he is a super-hero. For science, I need a vial of his blood. Lol, I can ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:11 PM
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I am from Africa (but I like my anonymity too much to reveal exact country). The men in my native country is exactly what happens when you select alpha males over good and useful men. Everyone runs amok pretending he's a big man while the whole country is starving. Every one wants to be the boss (male ego!) and no one wants to be a boring engineer. The electricity supply is so unstable that everyone keeps a generator in house. There are so many single mums, that girls just assume a man will leav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:52 PM
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Why is it that a "good man is hard to find" but speaking as a man, attractive (or dateable) women are everywhere? That seems to indicate to me that either women are very picky when it comes to standards, or the qualities that women generally look for are being rooted out in men. If the latter is the case what on earth would account for that? Is there another explanation? Because the evolutionary pressure was on men to be sturdy and useful and on women to... well, to be pretty :) I am genuinely a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:50 PM
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We love each other and plan to cohabit when the time is right. OP, you really need to get back to senses :D I see here three scenarios: You are his side piece and, as such, you will be dumped as soon as he gets bored of you. He really loves you and, as such, you will be dumped as soon as he gets bored of you. A man who doesn't repect his marriage is very unlikely to repect any other relationship he will get.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:13 PM
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Sorry, I didn't notice OP's bf is married. Now the post is deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:04 PM
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My fiance is 8 years older than me and I don't feel it at all. We met in my mid 20-ies. He's was a bit immature when we met and his friends are mostly younger than him. In some aspects he's smarter than me, and in some aspects I am the brainy one :) I think it depends on a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:42 PM
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I second that too. Nothing fancy about Brad Pitt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 01:22 PM
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if Clooney and Pitt were your average senior banker or accountant off the street I highly highly doubt they'd have a line of >25 yo women ready for casual sex. Lol, they will have a line of sugar babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 01:08 PM
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Like seriously, psychologytoday is just a pop-quiz psychology. I know no-one better than David Buss. Get his book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Evolution-Desire-Strategies-Human-Mating/dp/046500802X Read a chapter where he describes what men find the most offputting, i.e. sleeping around. Jealousy in women were mainly towards other women being a competition for her male resources, i.e. emotional jealously. Men are much more jealous than women, especially sexually. This is due to women having many pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:04 PM
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Lol, the feminists in the West have no clue what comes after. In my native culture all men are trying hard to ba alpha, yet only a few have enough resources to pull it off. The result is a few men having it all and keeping girls while they are young. Afterwards, they will find a newer model and kick you out. In the best scenario, they will provide a minimum for you to live, but you will be alone. That's how black males adapted. Single mums are plenty and powerty is everywhere around. Those are r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:52 PM
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where I seem to have more understanding. :) Sayonara!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:46 PM
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Thank you for your reply. What? And women don't ever feel jealous? It is frankly a ludicrous proposition to limit the existence of a human sentiment so basic as jealousy to just one sex. Women are sure of their children. Men do not (at least historically). Women are jelaous too, but the men feel jealousy much stronger. Women were promiscuous generally only to men outside their community Why would women be promiscuous only to men outside their own communities? And why would that matter? It would …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 07:54 PM
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She shape and size of male penis would suggest some inter-sperm competitiveness, but not to the point of extreme promiscuity like in chimps. This article explains that: https://www.theguardian.com/science/2010/may/06/women-penis-size However, I would like to highlight again, that human species are unique because the most of evolution during the last thousands of years happened in our minds, not in our biology. Therefore, imho, the size and shape of penis is just our evolutionary legacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 04:29 PM
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If you are disagreeing with someone, have a courtesy to answer. why am I your google? This is just rude. Therefore, sayonara!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 04:25 PM
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As far as I know, biologically humans are somewhat in the middle. However, the point I am making is that we evolved much more in our minds and society standards than biologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 03:27 PM
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It doesn't quite work like that. Apes have very different mating strategies, despite a common ancestor. if you don't have time for a brief answer, why are you making that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 03:26 PM
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It doesn't quite work like that. Apes have very different mating strategies, despite a common ancestor. I see more similarities than differences ^^ Can you please point differences?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 02:25 PM
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Yes, you are correct. Sorry, I am not a biologist and I just found: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chimpanzee%E2%80%93human_last_common_ancestor However, my point still stands that we just carry that genetic legacy with us. We evolved on an intellectual level, which is much faster than evolution. Just because some girls decided that they will behave like hyper-sexual animals, it doesn't mean we can apply the same measures to the whole humanity. Human evolution mostly happens in our minds, not tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:48 PM
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Women were promiscuous generally only to men outside their community. Men evolved jealousy to stop investing resources in a woman who they knew was promiscuous. Which to be honest, it's a correct evolutionary response. In my native culture, the most of men are very alpha (or at least try to be, lol) and a promiscuous woman is practicaly ostracised from society. Former sex workers (or 'blessed girls', i.e. sugar babies) and like are guaranteed to die alone. I actually find white men in the West t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:32 PM
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It's quite well-known that humans evolved from quite promiscuous species, i.e. chimpanzees. Humans also created a society and civilisation which is why you can type that on a keyboard sitting in a well-warmed place. However, we carry that gene-legacy with us. Give it another couple thousands of years and evolution might catch up. It's just like the legacy law which is there for everyone to read, but not used much anymore. People generally pair up and, so far, the marriage was the best humanity c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:09 PM
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women buying themselves an engagement ring This is disgusting. Who they want to convince? A good husband is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:20 PM
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I’m denying black women can be attractive, but most of them are obese. I hope there supposed to be 'I’m NOT denying'. That’s why white men don’t go for them. That's unfortunately true. In UK (that's where I live) there is a number of factors like family not accepting (mixed kids!), black people being seen as ghetto and trashy. In my experiences 1 out of 10 white men will try to date a black girl. Literally the number one thing for guys with dating is don’t be fat. You see black people in UK whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:00 AM
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Try Hungary, Czech Republic, Slovenia, Poland and Slovakia.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:38 PM
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Let me reply to you: https://www.pinterest.co.uk/topblackmodels/black-female-models/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Naomi_Campbell https://unsplash.com/s/photos/black-model I think you get it now :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:09 PM
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I'm a black man Black girl here Black men are more red pilled or black pilled than white guys are Not anymore in my opinion - some of the white men I dated were even more black-pilled. Saddly, I don't think it's race-thing anymore. Stop watching BLACKED, dating for average black dudes is brutal Maybe because you guys always want to date white women and ignore us? Every single black male friend I have goes for white girls. Even if they are trashy they are still preferred.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:38 PM
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Eastern European men are literally the bottom of the barrel men. https://media.giphy.com/media/ebFG4jcnC1Ny8/giphy.gif Its mainstream for their women to choose marrying ugly fat old white men via mail than them. https://media.giphy.com/media/ZqlvCTNHpqrio/giphy.gif Girl, you have no idea what are you talking about...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:26 PM
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Good fucking joke. Loool, if other European guys are like my fiance, you stand zero chance of pulling any of them to Australia :D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:00 PM
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play sugar mama to hot Eastern European young men who want a visa for Australia. I’m a die hard feminist but I live by the ‘if you can’t beat em, join em’ mentality, and in this case I’m willing to join the men. Actually my boyfriend is from Europe and I visited his country a few times. It's nothing like you imagine, i.e. their life standards are higher than in the West and they have a plenty of pretty girls. Australia is in the middle of nowhere, why should a 'hot Eastern European young man' wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:31 PM
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Imagine unironically thinking that getting pussy makes you a good person goddamn Oh, it wasn't what I wanted to say. When a man is his 20-ies and his girlfriends cheat on him or threat him like crap, he will carry that to this adult life. If he grows up to be an attractive male due to looks, intelligence, money, etc. he can really do lots of damage. The stories my fiance told me make me cringe. Western women really dragged him through the mud. During first dates he was telling how he would never…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:20 PM
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I am more afraid that even high-quality men will evantually turn into players because of this environment. The omega, beta, gamma, etc. guys cannot do really much damage (sorry!). However, when alpha / sigma male gets hurt, it's better move out of his way. Those men can mown dozens of girls without any remorse. And that sucks badly because those men are the most marriageable ones. When I met my fiance he was already stringing along a few other females (I learned that much later). He still had cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:07 PM
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Sayonara! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:47 AM
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When a girl says hard 'no', then you leave her alone because: (i) you misinterpreted it or (ii) she's messed up in her head.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:48 AM
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Look, I cannot explain that to you in words. There is a difference (i) when a girl likes you, touches you (or lets her touch you) and says 'no' (with a smile) but doesn't move away and (ii) when a girl pushes you away with a loud 'no'. (i) is a part of flirting and (ii) is harrasment. As your sister or female friends to demonstrate you that. If you were my friend I would show you the difference. Sorry, I cannot explain that any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:14 PM
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Dude if a man persued a girl whom she is not attracted to and said no he is harassing her I am girl :) Now a man is only responsible for what he know The first man is the same kind of man who you are looking for as he got the same info what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:11 PM
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I think you misunderstood it. No sane girl wants a predatory man. I wanted a man who won't give up after the first 'no'. My fiance never lose his cool and he didn't behave like an asshole. That's why I love him. There were a few men I dated which reacted badly to rejections. I don't want anything to do with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 07:40 PM
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You are right. Doesn't seem to be a lot of difference. For comparison - I was a virgin and my fiance has like 30+ body count (my estimation as he never disclosed his number).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 07:37 PM
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Good evening here :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:32 PM
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That's exactly my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:26 PM
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OK. Fine. You made your point. My fiance was persistent and it worked for him. Make your own conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:25 PM
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Well, not in my fiance's books :) I was saying 'no' a few times, but I was still dating him. Look, the life is full of surprises. The best things come when you are persistent. I didn't want a man who gives up on the first obstacle. I am sorry if you consider it 'stupid game', but perseverance IS attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:41 PM
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I agree. But it's their problem to figure it out. Same thing goes for me. If I had multiple ONS, my fiance would not be with me. Why should he if I was so easy? Men test women in the same way as we test them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:13 PM
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Imho, that's fair summary. Once we find him good looking, we want to test his other traits. Is he boyfriend material? Is he smart? Does he have ambition? Will he take care of me? I was approached my many hot guys, but they were lacking one thing or the other. Those are all viable questions. Please keep in mind it comes from an attractive woman which was looking for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:07 PM
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Lol, if my boyfriend gave up on my first 'no', we would not be together. Sometimes we just say 'no' to test the guy. A man who is not giving up is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:42 PM
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she was so self-absorbed, and women like that have this idea that it is some kind of privilege to be with them. That would be me when I met my fiance, lol. He cured me from this 'I am so pretty' complex with his 'so what?', 'and?' or 'what's the conclusion?'. Average girls I dated, or somewhat pretty ones, all had pretty big N counts. Even my wife's is 12-15 (she was 30 when I met her), which is way too high quite frankly. Led to some arguments and almost a breakup. What was your count if I may …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:00 PM
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Me and my friends are in hot girls group (8-10) and we just don't do hookups. In my whole university time maybe one girlfriend had once a drunken ONS. We are aiming for the whole package, i.e. good looking guy who also has ambitions and resources (or at least potential to have resources). Having ONS with a fuckboy makes no sense, because what he can offer us (aside from sex)? When I met my fiance the first thing I noticed that he was very intelligent and had ambitions. He also had very good inco…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:28 AM
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There is something in what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:50 PM
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Lol, definitely agree :D My fiance said once, that setting us for swingers it would be like setting a firing squad for him. I do pilates, he does weight lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:19 PM
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When I met my fiance he was hurt by his exes (cheating and other nasty stuff) and it took me long time to gain his trust. He is very intelligent and hard working, but for 2+ years he was aimlessly drifting around. Once he calmed down, he got back to work on his side business and right now he's is setting up another one (he is on his laptop as we speak). His motivation is for our family / children to be wealthy. That's his drive - he saves more than a half of his income and invests it. I can see …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:23 PM
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My boyfriend just poped out from nowhere. I was doing some shopping, then suddely he is in the front of me and says hi. I recall thinking 'who does he think he is?', but gave him my details.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:54 PM
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You make it sound like approaching a woman somehow works wonders. It doesn't. I remember asking a couple of women in a club how many times a night they get hit on, and they said about half a dozen times a night. Why are you asking women in clubs then? My fiance came to me during day when I was walking on street. He's good looking, but not super hot. It worked for us - we are getting married in the next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:52 PM
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Then find a girl like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:50 PM
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I don't know what other girls are. But I know myself and my girlfriends - I never saw any of them badly rejecting a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:50 PM
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It's so weird that women keep trying to give men advice on something they would have absolutely no experience in. In my culture, men are always the ones initiating. I saw it enough times and I know it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:49 PM
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Stacy confirmed. What does that mean? You literally have no idea what it's like for me. We might as well be completely different species, living on different planets, in different star systems, in different galaxies, in different universes. I am sorry for you, but me being sorry won't improve your state in any way. Why should I keep talking to women when they have treated me so poorly for over a decade? Inb4 "Silly inkwell, that's exactly what a lot of women say about men!": Women have the power…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:48 PM
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Whenever I tell my friends how did I met my boyfriend, they listen in awe. Think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:54 PM
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The entitlement and cluelessness What entitlement? I had many men coming to me. Even when I was not interested, I never made fun of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:39 PM
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And what else happened? If your friends left you, then you are better without them. Keep talking to girls. I never laughed at any man trying to get into my pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:37 PM
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I call that bs. I am tall and attractive girl. All guys I dated in the past were usually creeping around for a while before coming to me. I saw those dudes miles away and I knew they will come to me at the end of the night. Yet I smiled and pretended I am surprised. My fiance was the first who ever approached me in a direct way. He just pop up from nowhere when I was walking the street and we exchanged numbers. Nothing was complex there. Guys, come to us - we don't bite. There is no reason for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 07:24 PM
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I lived in the West for the past decade and I am a good observer. I prefered to learn from others' mistakes. Why are you passive-aggressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 06:42 PM
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I saw that happening with two of my older girlfriends: the first one was a model in her youth, she was dating lawyers, entrepreneurs and other high-powered people. When she was 26 she started dating CEO, but they broke after three years. I saw her a few times afterwards, but she ended up marrying a local musician (horn-player or something). He's a completely different type of man in comparsion to her exes. I suspect it was because his dad has some money, because there is no way she's attracted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 10:47 AM
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I would not swipe right on my finace. Once you know him better, he's a very smart and reliable man, but his looks can be described as 'good looking' at most. When I met him, I thought he is very BB type of guy (good money, very intelligent, handsome-not-hot-looks), but once I learned his story a bit I realised he was (and still is) pretty AF. He was drag throught the mud by his exes and kinda shaped into being a player. I knew he was hurt when I met him, but after five years he trusts me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 10:30 AM
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That's really sad. Conservative is a danger to young men everywhere. I am a woman :) Most of men's issues aren't with women or with dating in general, it has to do with their view of the world being completely alien to reality. I believe most of men are not really into whole hookup lifestyle. It's very time consuming and draining, especially if you want to have a career at the same time. My fiance was definitely not into it, but he learned how to work it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 10:24 AM
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Why would you anyway though? It was brought up in a conservative family and the modern dating environment initially blew me out of my shoes. In my culture you don't expect men to date a few girls at the same time. If you meeting someone, it's with the view of it being serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:58 PM
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Or he's just a confident, chill dude who knows there's plenty of fish in the sea and isn't going to allow his self worth to be negatively impacted by one woman. That's exactly it. Men, being scorned by girls in the past, already started to multi-date en masse. Unfortunatelly, this is logical approach to modern dating and I really cannot hold it against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:33 PM
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I guess you are right that some guys will bail women out whatever happens. However, those are not the guys you generally want to be with. A hot man in demand won't waste energy if he has options. Sorry, but not every girl just waits for a white knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:00 PM
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I second that reply. Don't worry to much about his N count, because attractive men will have high body count. Just focus on his boyfriend traits. Is he smart? Is he hard working? Does he have a plan for future? Do you feel he will support you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:44 PM
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The cause is, in my layman's opinion, having an insecure attachment mindset vs a secure attachment mindset. You have this as part of your personality. It is not created by having numerous partners, they have numerous partners because of their attachment method. Hence why I, and about 10 other low N women here very specifically don't want men who are high N, because we prefer partners with secure attachment rather than insecure. Likewise, it's why many low N men would greatly prefer low N women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:17 PM
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If he asked, I would tell him. He said that he doesn't want to know about my exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:07 PM
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If other customers would do the same, then the shopkeeper would tolerate it or lose bussines. However, if other customers are buying after 1st, 2nd or 3rd try - what can you do? My advice is how to get a hot guy which can get sex elsewhere (like my fiance). I talked to him, explained why I am not in rush, assured him he was not used and that the sex would come. Men are not idiots and they hate being used by girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:36 PM
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I don't think he really wanted a virgin. We argued a lot about sex in the first two years. He's a bit of a sex freak and my upbringing was quite conservative. We talked and it's better now. I am reasonably hot and not crazy - that's true :) Many guys tried to 'nail me down' but they really offer me much. Becky, who tried to 'nail down Chad' (multiple times) was not aiming at realistic targets. Come one - I understand one player, maybe two, even three used the poor Becky... but 20 bodies? Do you …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 06:03 PM
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But if you didn’t put out the third date, you wouldn’t be with him. Things happened to work out for you, but you really don’t see how that’s scummy? I talked to him and explained that I want to take it slowly because it's my first time. We went for a trip and he met my parents before we had sex for the first time. You lucked out, but most girls just end up getting passed around by these types of guys. Your anecdotal experience /= how the world actually works out. My fiance was not 'this type of …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 01:49 PM
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My fiance was a decent man till he came to UK and dated... or rather 'combat dated' (like he called it). When I met him he was trying to pull his moves on me (which I believe were successful earlier). I could see that, but I also could see he was very intelligent, hard working, self-dependent and had other good partner traits. I know only bits of his story, but his exes really dragged him throught the mud, i.e. he was cheated on, used for free dinners and stuff, etc. In those times, even decent …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 10:40 PM
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date a guy and withhold sex for 6-8 weeks. Good luck with that strategy. My fiance was already getting nervous at 3rd date and directly asked me to go to his place. I explained that I was a virgin and we took it slowly. He later told me he thought I was gaslighting him and he was already booking other dates. Sorry ladies, with the girls doing ONS-es left and right, I don't think that sex witholding strategy will work on a hot guy. Yes, you risk to be screwed, but that's just the game now and you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 09:35 PM
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That's the best comment here. It's happening a bit already. Many friends of mine cannot find a man who wants to commit. Those are good girls in mid-20 who didn't hookup. They go on dates, but many men just expect sex on 3rd date and then ghost them if sex doesn't happen. If sex happens they ghost them after a few months and only a few managed to get into a relationship. I also know a few women in mid-30, but the stories they tell about dating are just horrible. They are not getting attention fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 08:43 AM
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this macho "hey, who cares how many guys she has been with, she's traded up with me!" approach, but deep inside they are ashamed of their wife or girlfriend's past. Some are outright disgusted by it. That would be my fiance :) He once told me he was looking for a girl who had lots of sex, but not with many people. He also added that it's very rare combination. He definitely has high sex drive, but it's also very family oriented. I think it's that family-orientation that constraints him. I could …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 11:28 AM
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My experience is different. My fiance kissed me on the second date. After third date he asked if I want to come to his place. Only then I told him I am a virgin. We was not weirded-out or anything. We talked and agreed to take it slowly. I eventually came to his place. Note: he is far from being pure and chaste, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 01:43 PM
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OMG! My boyfiend doesn't even like to discuss my past boyfriends. I was a virgin when I met him (but I went on many dates). On the other side, I know quite a lot about his exes and I don't have a problem with it. He's quite clumsy and he didn't hide everything, lol. Each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 01:35 PM
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Some guys genuinely don't care if a girl was tag teamed by two football players in college but some guys do and for the guys who do they aren't going to be any more ok with it 3 years into the relationship than they are on date 3. So either find out early on and save yourselves the heartbreak or go the Ignorance is bliss approach and never reveal it. In my opinion, there is serious shortage of marriageable (i.e. non deadbeat) guys. I dated a lot and that's my experience. I also saw my friends an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 01:18 PM
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The opinion you think you are entitled to is not good for your mental health WTF? We end this convo here, granny. Edit: You just seriously creep me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:30 AM
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Look, what's your problem? If you work with your vag (which I think you (are) were), it's your business. You do you, I do me. Nevertheless, I am entitled to any opinion I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:11 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:56 AM
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Of course, if I could choose, I would prefer him to have less bodies. However, men like him don't come often. In his own words: "I wanted to play till my late 30-ies before setting down, but then I found you. My plans were shattered." :) I prefer to have a good man who takes care of me than a average man with more chaste past. I dated a few men before, and they rather saw sex object than a woman I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 10:04 PM
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Strangely, your situation is rare from what I read. In general, low n count women end up settling with low n count men. Maybe it's my upbringing. I came from culture where this is pretty much norm to let men do whatever they want. I have always had a visceral reaction against male whites because I can’t shake the internal anger and disgust of settling down with someone who was slutting it up, knowing for a fact he’d next me if I had his same past. Yuck! I really don't care about his past. My fia…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 10:01 PM
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So you assume that because you are ignorant on the matter that there isn't anything more to it than getting lucky? Ouch! Here we go with insults :) Sayonara!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 09:54 PM
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My fiance has much higher count than me. He never said the number but I have impression it's far into double digits, i.e. 30-50+. Plus I saw photos some of his previous exes and they were quite few. I was a virgin when we met (five years ago). A year ago we talked about it and he said he would not seriously date a woman with double digits. He's not Adonis-level, but overall good looking, very fit and highly intelligent. He also makes good money (six digits plus side business). I think he knew ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 01:56 PM
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Yes, because this is the dictionary definition of "good." Maybe I am too old school for that (I wasn't born in the West); however, since when selling your body in such a way is defined as 'good'? Stop using comparative value to other people as a reference for self-worth. You can disparage her accomplishments all you want but someone doesn't get where she is just by masturbating, it takes marketing savvy and a willingness to sell yourself. This is where we disagree (in friendly way!). I get that …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 01:18 PM
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You have to choose between what you want to be and what men want you to be. A rude awakening isn't it? Ugh, I am sorry for giving a wrong impression, but I am not looking to put stuff in my vag before camera. I will stay in my career, thank you :) Also, I am genuine 8 (my fiance recorded me as that in his phone the first time we met). When I doll up myself I can be a proper 9. I have what men want. It's just depressing that those OF activities are rewarded so much while professional jobs are not…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 10:31 AM
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She just looked up what a large group of modern men liked sexually and capitalized on modern men’s desperation for sex due to the artificial restrictions placed on them. That part I get. Most women just do not put effort into being what men want (right choice since they do not have to most of the time), so an average and even below average women can stand out to men if they become (or fake) what men want. But... being an anime girl? Well, I guess nerds have money, lol :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 08:05 PM
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"She's not even that hot" said every secure, emotionally mature woman, ever I am good, thank you :) But seriously, how the heck she got all those people paying her? It's depressing to spend a few years in fitness and now climbing legal career... just to outearned by 20yo who puts stuff in her vag :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 08:01 PM
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She's not even that hot... I am in the wrong bussines :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:49 PM
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I am 186cm and my fiance is 180cm. I sometimes wear high-heels :) We get odd looks from time to time, but it doesn't matter to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:43 PM
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She looks like those anime models :) Who pays for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:34 PM
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My boyfriend's past is sleazy too. He just wanted to have a family and children. I made it a very strong point - we marry or I am walking away. I sometimes wonder if I am enough for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 10:58 AM
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Actually, my fiance is far from schlub. He's not super-hot, but good looking, confident and really fit. He makes good six figures and has his side business too. He has some girlfriends before me and he has been around (but he was quite strategic about me learning that). Recently I found out he is pretty much Sigma male (nerdy INTJ). I even wanted to make a post about it but I am new to Reddit and I don't have enough karma on this account.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 10:52 AM
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Where I came from, it's pretty normal to respect your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 08:57 PM
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I was a virgin when I met my fiance. I never saw anything attractive in hookups. Most of my friends have married their first or second serious boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 08:10 PM
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They didn't look like being raped and they were paid money. The whole GDP case is commercial dispute about contract, not crime. I did modeling and I had a few offers like those. I ignored all those. Please no bs - any sensible girl would be out of door the moment she saw anything doggy. Also, what kind of stupidity is to travel to strangers without notification where are you going? My mum would kill me if I ever did something so silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 08:02 PM
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Sorry, but I call that bs. Any decent solicitor will solve it within an hour. It's underage (child) porn, i.e. there is no discussion. Just send a dease and desist letter, if they don't respond within two weeks, sue them. Free money. Edit: to answer all replies - child porn is a criminal offence. There is no ifs and buts. If a entity refuses (or ignores) a delete requests, we are talking about international arrest warrants here. Please read here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legality_of_child_p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 08:53 PM
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I’m not shaming, people like what they like. Sorry, it wasn't directed to you. I just read that some porn sites removed like 60-70% of their porn because they were sued by former performers. Damn, this is so dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 08:48 PM
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Rose Kalemba was raped at 14 and the video end up on porn sites. When the BBC wrote about the incident and her name started to trend again on porn sites. 14 yrs old can easily request to remove their porm videos. I remember that topic from my law studies, i.e. everything below 18 is non-existent. I think it's more than people regretting their decisions. I agree - it's girls who did this stuff later regret it. Ugh, sorry girl, but you took money, while I was hussling in a hotel (as a cleaner) for…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 08:39 PM
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This is fine. It's her body and her life. But please don't try to shame guys who don't want to be with sluts (like majority, lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 08:29 PM
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The main challenge is to find a guy who is confident and, at the same time, is not an asshole. This is rare. I am good looking and I did modelling for a while. I have dated dozens of guys, but I always focused on their boyfriend traits, i.e. do they have a plan for future? Will they leave me? Are they intelligent? When I dated my fiance I noticed he was very intelligent and had a plan for future. Her ws ambitious. I later found out that he already has a side bussiness (once we visited his parent…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 08:20 PM
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Porn doesn't necessarily have to be a bad thing. There is nothing wrong with porn if the actress are willing. The problem starts when those girls refuse to accept any consequences. I.e. see what's going on with pornhub. Then suddenlt they are becoming conscious and scream foul and 'victim'. Your intimacy was filmed - own it. Don't pretend to be someone else. Find a man who accepts that. Some guys like sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 07:34 PM
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No one told them to get into porn or continue (if there were forced). There is always McDonalds, fashion retails or Ladbrokes. Those job pay only a fraction of porn money, but you save your dignity (which is priceless). My fiance told me once - I am glad you chose to work instead of monetising your sexuality. He's is a classic Sigma male. Really, the way those women victimise themselves is disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 07:32 PM
4

Two of my friends have OnlyFans accounts. I don't really see anything bad in that, i.e. they can do whatever they want with their bodies. One of them has a boyfriend. However, my fiance is not that open-minded. He was always polite and respectful to them, but between us he described them as bimbos who don't think about future.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:32 PM
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Six-pack at 60? Nope :-) Not doable without steroids (a lot of it!) and a perfect diet. I would not risk it on 60 years old body. Also, exercise every day is not the way to build muscles. Actually, it quite opposite and it will just run down your body. Sorry, I call that bs. I worked as fitness instructor, btw. Edit: the whole thing sounds like a sugar arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:49 PM
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I am about to get married to my fiance (next year). He outearns me 6-7 times (his salary + side bussines + investments), therefore we has a huge leverage in theory (I didn't know that for a long time). But he listens to my opinion and treats me equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:25 PM
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My fiance (we would be married already if not Covid) met me in my mid-20 and he was in his early 30-ies. I was a virgin due to my conservative upbringing. He's not Red Pill at all, yet he had a few relationships in the past and lot of casual sex (as far as I can tell). I initially thought he was a nerd and it came as suprise. He was very strategic about letting me know that and I learned over the years together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 11:54 AM
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