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Oh you thought you live in a socialist system, every gets 5 sexes and every woman gets 5 sexes a year and that's that. Equality for everyone. Lolololok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:58 PM
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Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:41 PM
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Exaggerate a little?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:33 PM
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The problem men have is they think they need all these things in order to get laid or get a girlfriend and because they can't possibly meet these criteria they get depressed and insecure, which is what causes them to be undesirable. Men don't actually need any of these things and cavemen procreated easily without being millionaires (like owning a million of what? A million coconuts compared to the next caveman?) for hundreds of thousands of years. They just went for what they wanted until they g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:36 AM
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No, all men want all women as long as you...checks notes.... you have a vagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:54 AM
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No, all men want all women as long as you...checks notes.... you have a vagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:54 AM
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No, all men want all women as long as you...checks notes you have a vagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:53 AM
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Cause when a woman struggles it's because she ugly or fat and nobody wants to tell her to her face. At least a guy can improve his chances beyond his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:33 AM
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Manoaphere are idiots. They want to be voluntarily enslaved to a woman draining their resources thinking that a non-career woman will have less choices and be easier to control, while she is being lazy sitting at home and shopping for vibrators these guys are out there breaking their backs to bring home the bacon. Morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:18 AM
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Oh yes, women, the perpetual victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:58 AM
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You are actually proving my points. If most women take lots of work to finish off and many haven't even had a decent orgasm like ever, they don't even bother with sex. It makes it easier for them to manipulate guys because our weak spot is our relative ease of being turned on and orgasming. But a woman who has regular orgasms wants to go to bed with a guy because she hopes he will be great in bed. It's even easier if she's heard from girlfriends that he's a great lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:47 PM
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I mean I know why, I am asking rhetorically. Like no normal women have really been able to measure up to be honest. Maybe I need to start having sex with someone other than my wife. Sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:34 PM
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Why are the BPD girls always dynamite in bed? Sigh. Life's not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:30 PM
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If they weren't you'l wouldn't have so much trouble getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:21 PM
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If they've had one before then yes. Otherwise why even hook up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:48 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:42 PM
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Women like that are the worst because you can't control them. If they have never experienced an orgasm with a man they don't know what they are missing so they are harder to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:21 AM
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The social condition thing is very real. Just remember women are as much victims of it as men are. Theirs is just different. They are supposed to be these chaste good girls, turning men down and acting like virgins when all they want to do is gobble up a couple of dicks. At the end of the day social conditioning makes us subjugate to the interest of others (society) and make us completely ignore our own interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:06 AM
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Yes I get the picture. You are concerned with what women want and haven't stopped for a second to focus on what you want. What they want is completely irrelevant and what comes out of their mouths is complete BS anyway so you shouldn't even listen to it. Figure out what you want. Figure out what you want these women for and go after it relentlessly. Remember, rule #1 It doesn't matter what they think and rule #2 You are the most important person in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:45 AM
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Maybe slut/whore is a woman's default. Maybe they are all like this under the veneer of society and civilization. They are just letting their true nature shine. You are trying to out lipstick on a pig here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:18 AM
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It's simple. Most guys posting here are desperate and sex deprived. They will literally take anything that has a vagina. That's how desperate they are. They reason, the more they lower their standards the easier it will be to get women. In reality, this makes even the ugliest women see these guys as pathetic simps and even the fattest and ugliest and most desperate chicks get turned off by that. If these guys instead focused on building their self respect and self esteem, they would be able to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:17 AM
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Why do you need society to tell you what you should want? You've already been doing your entire life. Study hard, get an education, get a safe job, build your 401K, buy a house with a white picket fence, get a good girl to marry you. Raise 2.5 children. That was supposed to make you happy and content, but it has failed. So now you need another drug?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:14 AM
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It's the only thing women care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:12 AM
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Not even remotely mad, just amused and kind of sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:09 AM
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So she can wake up three years later and say "Jee golly, I wonder what another man's dick tastes like. I'm gonna go find out".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:07 AM
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This must the most delusional things I've read on the internet. Like ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:05 AM
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Yes, if he focused on what he wanted. OP is actually focused on what everyone else told him he should want. If you want to fuck sluts, be relentlessly focused on that, not on having a decent 401K and being a nice good boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:51 AM
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You sound like a typical nice guy who did everything right and everything he was told to and that he was supposed to get an easy and smooth life with women sucking him off at every corner. A nice guy's only way to see himself as valuable and worthy is if a woman sees him as valuable and worthy, otherwise he is a worthless subhuman scum. When will guys understand that there is nothing attractive about this beta provider role that society tells you you should be playing? The one where you work dil…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:49 AM
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Total turn off. Like what are you saving it for? You obviously think it's more valuable than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:44 AM
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What I mean is that their baseline is the belief "I'm broken, fucked up, undesirable, subhuman", so naturally you are afraid that no one will ever love you for who you are because you believe yourself to be these things. Plus society does encourage men to fake who they are with money, expensive watches, cars, clothes, etc. society tells men, if you don't have something we approve of such as good looks or athletic abilities you need to work really hard to acquire things and only then can we allow…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:55 AM
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I am convinced that 90% of what makes a man attractive is his inner game, beliefs, attitudes, how he carries himself and how he behaves. Yes, good physique, height, money are all desirable qualities, but what man is a man who is afraid, unsure of himself and can't bring himself to talk and flirt with women without some excuse. If your inner belief is "women are bad, women hate me, but I still want to fuck these bitches", your subconscious is going to actively prevent you from succeeding. You wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:35 AM
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Can you image what a fucking it will be if you give one of these guys a chance? I mean they've never smelled pussy before and they may never smell it again so they will probably give you a pounding to remember for a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:28 AM
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That's debatable. I think people, men especially are poisoned very early on wjth the wrong beliefs about women, namely that women cannot and will not ever love them for who they are and that they can only love them for their money, outward success, access to drugs, etc. You see this belief propagated in every incel post ever. They present it as an attitude developed due to rejection, but if self hate and feelings of worthlessness were not present to begin with, there's guys would actually succee…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:24 AM
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I don't care if cats like me or not. You don't see me spending every single day on forums talking about how terrible cats are. I don't think RP and MGTOW people are really as indifferent to women as they claim to be. Their is just a reactionary attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:20 AM
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There are always guys who are dating and fucking multiple women. So why not learn to be one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:01 AM
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Maybe women are not buying what you are selling?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:50 AM
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Why not? You can be the Mother Teresa of charity sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:25 AM
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Great attitude. Also, off topic, but let me know what sales questions you have. I happened to have a lot of sales answers!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:48 AM
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Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! This sub is so skewed because 99% of posters are desperate virgins who have never smelled a pussy in their life. Guys who have dated plenty of women actually have quite high criteria for entering a relationship because we know our value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:31 AM
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If women are having lots of casual sexual with a different partner every week that means that there are a ton of guys getting casual sexual every week too. Simple math.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:28 AM
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There is always a guy desperate enough to fuck a crack whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:27 AM
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I don't think he's ever had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:09 AM
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Nah, I think they are thinking something is wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:55 AM
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Sure, but you have to work for it. It don't come free.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:17 PM
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I have to say judging by my wife's single friends that fits to a tee. There are way too many stuck in my ways chicks out there who don't go where the men are (jogging at 5AM in the morning, ROI yoga and going to bed by 9PM to get your beauty sleep) will not bag you a man. Also apparently their attitudes when they do get a date are terrible too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:12 PM
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So why the obsession with low body count women and slut shaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:44 PM
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Ah yeah, only broken people like challenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:34 PM
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Is that so? You sound victimized?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:33 PM
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And if she was like that with most men she met?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:33 PM
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You don't need to be the best version of yourself to do that. If you are the best version of yourself you will give off boyfriend/husband vibes and women will delay sex. Be your fucked up, kinky self, be a bastard, and you will get laid faster and have better sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:53 AM
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By giving it up too easily, I mean someone who would do that wjth any guy she meets in a bar bathroom. The same way guys give way too much validation and attention to women too easily without these women having to do anything to deserve it or work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:00 AM
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So you equally respect and love a woman who gives it up behind a Wendy's dumpster to any guy who shows interest in her and one who actually expects you to go out and get to know her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:58 AM
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Why treating a whore like a queen and a queen like a whore works so well? Why when I treat the average women like I just want to use her for one thing, no commitment, I don't answer her calls and blow her off just to text "U up?" At 1AM they fall head over heels for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:42 PM
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The value message is your dick is just as valuable as their pussy. How many guys believe this on an emotional identity level? Maybe only 10-15%. Everyone else puts pussy on a pedestal when in reality women want to find a man worthy of worshipping.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:53 AM
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I meant it as women living a guy who has lots of other women and is not trying to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:50 AM
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They love the bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:41 AM
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When I lived in NYC the best I could do was have 2 girlfriends at a time and keep one spot for casual dating or FWB. Honestly, it's a lot of fucking work. They all need attention. The whole idea of a guy having a stable of 10 women and thinking they just lay in bed all day waiting for you to call is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:58 AM
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Lol. When I was dating, I was often dating and sleeping with multiple people. You need to be honest that things are not exclusive and that's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:55 AM
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Oh yeah good point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:47 PM
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Here something people don't mention when they talk about the genetic lineage thing. Not every child survived child birth. So if 10 men fucked 10 women and let's say 8 became pregnant and our those 8, half died in childbirth and some were later on eaten by saber tooth tigers and only 2-3 babies survived, it would seem like only 1/4 of the 10 men procreated. But the rest still had sex. They were just unsuccessful in passing their genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:24 AM
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A Balkan country.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:37 PM
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Nah, it's more than that. I grew up in a very impoverished country and while many men were emasculated because of it, others would just grab their balls and take responsibility. I think the problem goes deeper. Nobody teaches boys how to become men. Boys or kids are dependent on their parents and their moms in particular to fulfill their basic needs - food, clothing, shelter, love, affection, validation, etc. As they grow up, they carry this dynamic with women. They don't need women only for sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:32 PM
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NYC - more single women than men, aggressive, hot girls and new hot girls move in literally every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:55 PM
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I would add a couple of things. The more content you feel with who you are the less needy energy you will put out there. The less you need women, the more they will flock to you. This is not in the negative MGTOW sense of "fuck those bitches that don't want me, I'm gonna show them by going my own way", but in the sense of "Im happy and content, my life is great and women are just icing on the cake, life is a little sweeter with them, but they are not the flour that me up the cake of my life".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:49 PM
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I love making women wait. They usually end up raping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:36 PM
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Not sure I understand your question, but people only have power over you if you allow them bar living in some totalitarian regime. For all the woe is me guys, I tell them men and women want the same thing - each other. If you show up with the attitude that you have already lost, that you are powerless and undesirable than yes, the world will seem unfair and stacked against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:05 PM
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Yes, these movies were written and made by nerds who were never popular with women in high school. So they make movies to relive their fantasies of getting the girl while still being losers. It doesn't work. The only thing that works is to have women pursue men and have it be their idea. That's how it always works. When I finally relaxed and stopped chasing women and just lived my life being social and fun and having a great time, women started coming out of the woodwork to want to be with me. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:10 PM
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Sorry that this is your reality but don't make assumptions for all men. Holding on to that worldview is probably what causes your dating problems. Also ask yourself why women prefer to be one of many and share a Chad who knows how to set rules and be in full control as opposed to having the full commitment of a powerless wimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:47 AM
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It's almost like women spout bullshit just to see how riled up guys will get over it. And guys really do get riled up and upset!!! Just look at the comments on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:31 AM
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Women don't hold all the cards. Nobody is holding a gun to your head to adhere to these expectations. You can always take your power back and stop being a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:29 AM
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You are getting together with another human being not buying a used car. People fuck. You think you can find a virgin these days who isn't 14 or 15? I guess if you are a pedophile you can still get together with one. If you are so insecure about your SO cheating on you, then work harder on yourself to be the type of man who doesn't get cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:57 AM
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Want to get more women? Use the same games they have been using on you your whole life, like "All men treat me like I'm a piece of meat", "all men want the same thing", "I'm not that kind of girl", "sex is very special, so I only have it once I've dated someone for a while", "I don't want you to think I'm a slut". Use those same games and you will never have trouble dating again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:26 AM
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If I had to be honest about what is the biggest obstacle to guys getting laid, so would say it's niceness. Or rather the Nice Guy syndrome as described by Dr. Glover. The Nice Guy syndrome means that men try to present this perfect facade to the outside world, often they are social chameleons, subtly changing their personality and how they come across to match whomever their audience is. Men do this wjth women all the time. Acting more nice, more appropriate, trying to impress, hiding their roug…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:05 AM
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Ambition is knowing what you want and going after it relentlessly. It can include women. I realized one of the reasons I wasn't getting the success I wanted with women was because I was giving myself way too much wiggle room. For example, if I wanted to go out and get laid and have a ONS or find fuck buddy, I would talk to random girls here and there. If I found one that was nice but probably more of a relationship type, I would try to convert her, etc. Eventually I realized that when you decide…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:54 AM
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Just personal observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:49 AM
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All you need is a full belly and a warm and wet hole to stick your dick in. What else does a man need?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:43 AM
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Male ego bigger and way more fragile and sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:42 AM
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You can change it for your own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:42 AM
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Well, the idea is to have women chase after you. Which happens when you have high self esteem and enjoy your awesome life without needing them. Then they love you like a fat kid loves cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:41 AM
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And how is that dynamic of men chasing women workin out for everyone? It doesn't seem to be too fruitful because men are frustrated they ain't getting any women and women are frustrated they aren't meeting real men. So something is amiss here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:05 PM
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Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:51 PM
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Yea but not in the way you think it does. It's more about presence. It's more about behaving like the guy who owns the place. And if you do indeed own it that's a plus. Behavior and identity is a big one that guys just don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:38 PM
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Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:10 PM
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You can be honest without being crude or an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:56 PM
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They are not only not attracted to themselves they actively despise themselves and then wonder why women do the same. They are just following your lead buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:15 PM
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So they should be chasing 10s cause nobody else is chasing them? The 7/8 market is too crowded.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:14 PM
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It's easier to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:14 PM
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I love you!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:12 PM
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I'm not good at math. Inwill leave it to the nerds while I go get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:51 PM
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And non casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:13 PM
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That's the often quoted statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:48 AM
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But if only the top 20 get laid, if you are not an 8 or above you are basically an incel, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:36 AM
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Sure Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:14 AM
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That doesn't make sense otherwise you wouldn't exist. Your mom would have never fucked your dad if his genes were so fucked up that women didn't like him. Yet, he procreated and there you are. A result of millions of years of evolution and procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:11 AM
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So what do you do? Kill yourself? I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:00 AM
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Well, I think the problem is you see women and sex as the prize instead of your own enjoyment being the prize. Do you ever focus on what you want and not on what women want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:49 AM
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You said the effort is not worth the prize. So I assume women and sex are the prize for you? Am I correct in this assumption?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:47 AM
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Why are you making women and sex the prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:44 AM
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Might as well give up am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:42 AM
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Why do guys who make posts like this never mention anything about how to become more attractive or 20%ers themselves? Why are you resigned to being unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:13 AM
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Dude it was a joke, Jesus now you are giving me nightmares with this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:36 AM
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Sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:06 AM
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I didn't mean that that's the only thing women want, I meant what more can a woman want in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:05 AM
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That's a pretty autistic interpretation of what honesty is, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:52 AM
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If your husband could give himself a blow job he probably wouldn't need you very much. :) Just kidding just kidding all in good fun
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:01 AM
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Can we put this retarded autistic notion that women don't want or like sex and they just use it to dig their claws in a man? It's because you've never experienced a woman begging you to put your dick in her doesn't mean that other men haven't. Some of us know that women want sex just as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:00 AM
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Wow, you are so smart you single handed my figured out what women want with your big smart male brain. Certainly, you will become a multi billionaire by having figured out what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:58 AM
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No it's not, it's just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:18 AM
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Oh well I can live with that if I'm getting my dick wet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:18 AM
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It is not emotionally weak to share emotions. It takes a lot of balls to be vulnerable. I would say start by being vulnerable and talking about your emotions with male friends and safe people before you graduate to sharing them with your woman. A lot of times, guys carry so much shame about their emotions that when they share them with a woman it does come from a place of weakness. Like you can approach a woman which takes balls but if you are all sweaty and nervous it will still not be confiden…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:16 AM
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As I said, who you are is often not who you think you are. A person who grew up believing they are a pathetic subhuman nobody and is putting on airs and a fake veneer of a nice guy persona in order to hide his supposed defectiveness is not being himself. He is faking it and not accepting who he really is, which is not the defective subhuman scum he believes he is. As I said, it's only a story. The so called insecurities are caused by constantly trying to hide all the things you are ashamed of. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:11 AM
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Oh boy. The impact will be HUGE: https://youtu.be/zYUsB48g8zI
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:49 PM
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I'm relentlessly focused on what I want. She is relentlessly focused on what she wants. We are married. I'm not an Arabian prince, I don't hold her I'm bondage. She is free to leave if she is unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:47 PM
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I prefer the perverted gentleman. I mean I will open the door for her but just so I can get a good look at her ass and comment on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:43 PM
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I keep harping on guys that honesty is the biggest pantry dropper. Why? Well, it takes serious balls to be fucking honest. What woman doesn't want a guy with big balls?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:39 PM
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You didn't like my argument? I must admit I was not a debate nerd in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:06 PM
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Best attitude ever!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:02 PM
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Attracting women is about who you are not what you do. In my opinion, the biggest obstacle to being attractive as a man (actually to being a man) is fear. Guys who have trouble with women and life in general are afraid of everything. It's multilayered. -They are afraid of letting women see who they really are (just be yourself) because they think of themselves as worthless and defective and that will get them rejected and shunned for life -they are afraid of expressing their own needs and desire…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:01 PM
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Hope those stats you are spouting are helping get you laid. I'm sure they are total panty droppers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:32 PM
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Calling me an asshole is a compliment. But yeah I can be an asshole. I can live with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:31 PM
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Nobody is talking about attention whores and you are wrong. Just because you don't have any power and choice doesn't mean that other men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:23 PM
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But you didn't offer to suck his dick, so you didn't approach /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:56 PM
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Beats me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:47 PM
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Women approach all the time just not in the "hey baby, how you doin'" way. But they will hover, send signals like smiles and glances, get into your line of sight, bend over in front of you, both backwards and forwards (depending on what asset they are working with), etc. A lot of times guys think it's their idea to approach a girl, but the reality is the girl already approached him by managing to get his attention. Don't make a mistake, men have much more power and control than we think we have.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:44 PM
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A relationship where my wife is nice to me, takes care of me, cooks, serves me. In turn, I take care of business, make decisions, fix things, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:20 PM
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Name one thing that is wrong about my assessment? It's not an insult, just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:34 PM
4

You are clueleas
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:08 PM
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Yes, but it doesn't matter if the woman is clueless about how to achieve that. Only another woman can teach her. The same with men. No woman on earth can teach a guy how to be a man. She can talk about confidence and energy and all of this till she's blue in the face but what guys struggle with is how to put this into practice. As a matter of fact, the best dating advice to come from women is "just be yourself". But how do you put this in practice when guys who have trouble with women want to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:52 PM
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I am a man for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:47 PM
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If a woman asked me how to attract a man I wouldn't be able to tell her anything about how to apply make up, how to pick the right outfit, right push-up bra, how to make her hair full and shiny, never mind stuff like how to squeeze her pussy so my dick feels good. Sure, I can offer generic advice like don't be a bitch and treat men nicely, but that doesn't do much not does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:36 PM
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Couldn't agree more with coming from someone who has been married 6 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:06 PM
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If you are gonna frequent IncelExit at least make an effort not to think like one or expose yourself to different world views.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:31 PM
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Very well put.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:05 PM
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Bullshit. When you are an attractive guy who can get women, your standards go up and you don't tolerate crap. Just because you can't get any and would go dumpster diving don't assume other men don't have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:03 PM
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You would never stand a man who stands up for himself? Wow!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:50 PM
1

I'm definitely difficult to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:34 PM
1

Literally no woman has walked away. They are afraid I will walk away. Sorry, life is not fair honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:33 PM
1

Man with your attitude how do you even make it past the front door?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:32 PM
1

Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:32 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:10 PM
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Well life's tough. You can either be a victim and get fucked or be a winner and do some fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:06 PM
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Sure, women are allowed the same privilege. But having balls doesn't stop there. That's why they called it having balls not having ovaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:03 PM
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Sure, that is correct. But it is imperative for a man to establish his early on. Which almost no guys do. They have a very high tolerance for bullshit which gives women a cart Blanche to act like bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:56 AM
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You can't get all but you want to get more than not. There are so many women around there is another one just around the corner. Pussy is abundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:44 AM
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The core of being a man is to be respected. Women tend to be more compromising and soft and permissible when it comes to stuff like that. Men cannot afford to be. That's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:40 AM
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Actually their mind is not controversial. See, a lot of guys think just having a six pack and a square jaw is what makes a man attractive. But in reality it is he ability to have a backbone and a set of balls. So women will periodically challenge you to try and snatch your balls. If you relax and let her snatch your balls, then you weren't never a real alpha male to begin with. But if you pass the challenge, she is happy that she is with a real man not a faker.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:36 AM
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It's an avoidance activity. It's a trancelike state to hide out and refuse to take responsibility for your own life. A lot of boys use games, porn, weed and other avoidance activities to mask their anxiety and fear of going out in the world and getting theirs. This is inherently an unattractive lifestyle, because what woman wants to be with a guy who is hiding t out in his cave. He can't be a protector, he can't compete with other males for resources. He is a coward. It's not surprising that men…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:33 AM
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Very well put. Observing couples in public, you can always see who is leading who. The men leading their women are always with the best looking ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:16 AM
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You tell her not to do it again and that you will not stand for it. If she does you show her the door. If you fold and go back on your threat, then you have shown you are a pussy. But you need to be willing to walk away and lose her forever. It's tough being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:16 AM
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That's their biggest mistake. Once a woman knows you will take abuse just for sex, she has to it balls completely in her purse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:14 AM
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Yep, that's already quite a few strikes against young men these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:54 AM
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Correctamundo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:19 AM
1

Ugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:04 AM
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It's simple. The first time you say calmly "Please don't' do that, I will not tolerate being treated like this". If this doesn't change the behavior you may want to try once again, but three strikes and you are out. Do not let any bad behavior slip unaddressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:00 AM
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I know how I would do it, but I am asking you because you seem to imply there isn't a way and you just have to learn to live with it. I was curious to see how you would do it. That's all mr smarty pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:51 AM
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How would you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:29 AM
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I'm 40
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:27 AM
3

Wow that hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:22 AM
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I'm an old ass man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:15 AM
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I'm just checking. But yes, hard and uncompromising are male traits. Any man can choose to loosen these as much as he wants and give his SO as much or as little power as he chooses. That's up to the individual couple, but for some reason those 50/50 democratic relationships rarely work out. For some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:15 AM
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Do women communicate when they fake orgasms or give you the silent treatment? Or when they ghost?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:11 AM
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So you were the perfect woman and then changed? Why?....okay just kidding, but keep being submissive in bed. Men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:06 AM
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Maybe my post wasn't phrased correctly. What I mean is that due to role reversal men allow women to mistreat them without saying squeak believing they cannot do anything because they are powerless and women have all the power. It's women who take advantage of that and mistreat men. That's on them, but it's on men not to allow anyone to mistreat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:05 AM
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And guys thinking like you are the problem. Can't you see that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:03 AM
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No it doesn't. That's just black and white thinking. I have no interest in mistreating women and abusing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:01 AM
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I agree with most of what you wrote. As for disciplining, it's more about telling them what your rules are and not tolerating bad behavior. Some women are slower learners than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:01 AM
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Ok. And that gives you the right to manipulate and mistreat men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:48 AM
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That's a bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:47 AM
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Why does that matter? But probably older than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:45 AM
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What cards do you hold?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:44 AM
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No. Not at all. I have no interest in treating women badly. But usually you let a woman treat you like that they will keep doing it. By role reversal I mean that women have become hard and uncompromising and men have become soft and submissive, overly concerned with pleasing women instead of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:44 AM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:42 AM
2

Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:42 AM
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Good for you, but my life is not a democracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:37 AM
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Yes! Ordinarily I thought there were 4 women for every guy, but seeing some of the guys here, now I know there are a 1,000 women for every guy who knows what he is doing!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:47 AM
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Because that's the last thing guys who have trouble with women think of yet it is the simplest way to actually meet women. Be social, be a normal guy and you will get laid. Maybe you won't date the absolute hottest models but you will do fine enough to never complain about being sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:03 AM
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That's not it. They are not literally life long best friends we great up together type guys. It is most likely just normal social circle type thing. You go out, your guy friend introduces you to a couple of girls his girlfriend knows, you talk. You start hanging out more, one girl ends up liking you and you end up liking her, hook up at a party and the rest is history.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:00 AM
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Who would have thought that going out, socializing, being around people of the opposite gender will not only get you laid but also lead to more relationships? Cause I haven't seen a real living woman jump out of a computer game to start fucking a guy, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:54 AM
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Here is a little secret. Women are just as bad at dealing and expressing their emotions as men are. They just seem to have a lot more of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:49 AM
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Should have spent the money on Chad plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:49 AM
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Of course. I thought it was a choice between having a man or being feminist. I don't read the posts here beyond the title. They are usually garbage anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:33 PM
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Feminism can fuck you silly, open a jar and kill a rat?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:58 PM
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Safety, security and dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:42 PM
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Incels and math don't go well together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:08 AM
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True dat! I've fallen for that :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:38 AM
1

Have you seen swingers clubs? It's all fat ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:24 AM
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If all these women were constantly having casual sex with a new partner every other day then by sheer numbers every guy would be getting laid and incels wouldn't be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:11 PM
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Lol constantly moving goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:10 PM
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Taking advantage of her? She got my manhood what else is there to get? Even if the sex wasn't good, you got a deep dicking. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:09 PM
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You don't know what women want don't even try to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:27 PM
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Not even close on Neil. He hung out with a nerd loser called Mystery who dressed like a clown and did card tricks to pick up girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 12:18 PM
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So is men's obsession with height, jaw line and huge muscles. I can't understand how none of you guys see that it's the same insecurity. Do women prefer men who are in shape? You bet! Do men prefer women with nice shapely butts and huge tits? Absolutely. Buts it's not the be all end all. I see a ton of normal guys everyday with great looking girls. Just do your best with what you have and then go and fucking live your life already.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:53 AM
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Then guys like Tony Soprano enter the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:12 AM
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I bet 99.99% of the men posting on this sub have never done any form of manual labor for a living in their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:47 AM
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So why doesn't it go the other way? Why don't all men demand only hot thots with duck lips, Kardashian asses and all that? Why settle at all? Why not send all ugly people to an island somewhere out of sight so they don't dare procreate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:58 AM
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Hahahah, I discovered the early PUA stuff back on the early 2000's. Back then it all started as a forum for a bunch of guys to exchange tips on how to pick up girls in bars and clubs. Eventually the community spiraled into a total fuckfest when a bunch of nerds who never got laid started spouting their warped world views (not unlike red pillers) to the rest of the community and everyone swallowed it line, hook and sinker. The most notorious was Mystery, who I know rarely if ever got results for …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:10 AM
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It's not personality per se. Male sexual attractiveness has always been somewhat intangible. A famous politician once said "Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac". What makes one man powerful and another not? Mick Jagger, Gene Simmons and Wilt Chamberlain have all slept with thousands of women each. They are not classically handsome men or pretty boys. How did they do it? Power! What makes one man a leader and another better looking man a follower? Again, power is intangible. It's a set of inner bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:51 AM
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Didn't the inventor of the Lululemon apparel do it because he wants to look at women's asses? And now every gym rat and Chardonnay sipping MILF is parsing around town with right revealing workout gear?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:39 AM
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And yet these lonely peoples ancestors all procreated for millions of years to make their genetical material in existence today. Explain that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:26 AM
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It's impossible for guys (or anyone) to put themselves and their needs before pussy if they consider themselves subhuman scum unfit for female companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 07:35 PM
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And then some.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:52 PM
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There is not shortage of women. They keep making new ones every single minute of every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:43 PM
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It is also possible that a saber tooth tiger ate the other 16 guys so the one remaining got to live a non-stop porn movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:42 PM
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No one is forcing you to settle for anything. It's typically a question of self esteem and how valuable and worthy you feel yourself to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:41 PM
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So you hang out with your largest dating market. I guess you have double the chance of getting g a date on Saturday night than the rest of straight guys ;). For you youngins this is a Woody Allen reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:42 PM
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Here is a hint. If you took everything women have ever done and said to you and used it on them, they would turn into the same simps that guys usually turn into. Accuse them of only thinking about sex, accuse them of treating you and other men like sexual objects, tell them you are not that kind of a guy if they start getting too touchy with you. Play hard to get. Don't return their calls. Use their game on them and you will never have dating problems again. But that does require some fucking se…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:39 PM
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Enjoy your loser worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:29 PM
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But if all men grew some balls and a backbone then how would they get any pussy at all? Everyone knows that the only way to get pussy is to simp, debase yourself and kiss ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:25 PM
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I think the reason your closest friends are women and gays is because you are gay too?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:24 PM
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You have it completely backwards by the way. Women compete fiercely for the few men that are the prize. More men can be the prize, but they are too stubborn to change their ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:18 PM
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Bullshit. Women don't even like sex. They let men fuck them just to be nice. Everyone knows that. Psst!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:05 AM
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The reality is that most men will be content with a full belly and a warm hole to stick their dick in. What else da fahq do you really need in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:01 AM
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We aren't made for monogamy. We can be serially monogamous, ie get a gf stay with her for a couple of years, move on to the next. But in the long term monogamy will not work for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:51 AM
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Women don't do these things to look more attractive and appealing to men. They do it because they feel great. They also inject stuff in their lips, faces, asses and get breast implants because it feels good dammit not to look sexy for men. It has absolutely nothing to do with getting male attention and out competing other women, nothing, I'm telling you. Nothing to see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:49 AM
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Any guy who overpursues women is a creep. The less interested in them you are, the more mysterious and hot you are. Weird, I know!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:03 PM
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You are wrong don't know how many times to repeat this. Work on yourself as an alpha guy, but do not pursue women, do not chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:10 PM
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It was a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:53 PM
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The best way to have control is not to overtly exert it but to make people think that they want to be controlled, that they want to be all the same and indistinguishable from each. Reminds me the Kurt Vonnegut novel Harrison Bergeron, where in the future everyone is given a handicap in order to make people equal. If you are good looking you are forced to wear a hideous mask. I you are athletic you must wear chains and weights around your neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:34 PM
1

How has it been working out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:32 PM
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Your interpretation of this truism is wrong. Don't try to understand make logic with your female brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:28 PM
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Show me a hot woman and I will show you a guy tired of fucking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:14 PM
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You are not very smart. By behaving like this you get less than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:02 PM
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Every single successful guy I have observed has had women chasing him but the other way around. Not saying they just sat there and did nothing, they just had cultivated an aura of "I'm the alpha male and I'm mysterious" and women gravitated towards them. They never did any chasing and trying to get women on dates and calling them and getting flaked on. Every guy that I have observed who was constantly pursuing g and courting women always had pretty low chances of success. The biggest issue is gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:48 PM
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I think men should raise their standards. They give women permission to be rude bitches without any consequences and keep kissing their asses for some pussy crumbs. Nobody forced guys to behave like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:30 PM
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I guess a sense of humor isn't on your list of attractive traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:26 PM
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The more you woo and pursue women the more they will withhold sex. The more of a boyfriend type you are the more they will withhold sex. It's just that you guys don't want to become a guy who treats queens like whores. Y'all wanna treat whores like queens. Let me tell you something. All girls are "that type of girl". They all fuck on a first date and do the nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:18 PM
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Libtards are actively working towards having a singular politically correct non offensive gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:15 PM
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What do women know about what women are attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:12 PM
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Oh I didn't watch any of this. I just checked ops posting history
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:29 PM
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Why do much hatred for men? Why don't you just buy a cucumber and leave us alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:01 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:20 AM
2

Womp womp poor victim you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:20 AM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:19 AM
3

Who is rendering you useless?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:40 AM
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Lol whatever. You choose how you want to see the world. If you want to see yourself as a loser 80%er or whatever that's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:54 AM
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Well, the big problem is that guys don't understand what makes them sexually attractive. Looks is really a distant one, behind things like confidence and power.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:32 AM
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What advantages do they have in life? What power do you think they have other than the power you chose to give them over you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:26 AM
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No it's not, there are as many women out there as there are men unless you live in China or something. Plus they make new ones every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:25 AM
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Not lesser people, just not special. Pussy is truly not special, it's super abundant (every other person has one). Even super hot women are not special. Get over it. You don't have to dehumanize women, they are as human as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:00 AM
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Guys who don't get laid will go at great lengths to rationalize why they are not getting laid. If they put half of that energy in actually learning to be confident and less fearful they would instantly improve their love lives. But they don't, because gathering together in circlejerks and talking about hypergamy and evil wimmins with other dorks on Reddit makes them feel validated. They get something out of it, an advantage so to speak. But said advantage is actually what's keeping them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:40 AM
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This is the biggest circlejerk sub I have ever come across. See ya!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:05 PM
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But I'm a worthless man and nobody wants me wha wha, I will fuck anything with a hole as long as it lets me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:35 PM
1

There is no proof. They mistake the slower speed at which most women get aroused for lack of interest in sex. Most guys can get rock hard the second a girl touches their leg. Well, women are a bit different and take longer to warm up, but once they do....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:58 PM
1

Giggidy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:54 PM
5

Yeah but muh high sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:51 PM
5

Women like connecting with and feeling comfortable with men. It's innate. It's not really that difficult. Be open and non judgmental about them, who they have fucked or what they like in bed. The less judgmental you are, the more they will open up to you and will feel understood. Try it's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:56 PM
1

Of course you can understand confidence. It is knowing the exact outcome of your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:56 AM
1

I think chicks scissoring each other accounts for the stats that women have more sex than men. I don't think the studies specify if it is sex with a male instead of another girl. And yes many chicks will fuck other chicks, maybe not full blown lesbos but sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:55 AM
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Because they hold the wrong worldview. Women don't want guys who supplicate to them for some pussy crumbs. How many times do I have to say this. It's all about respect. Can they respect a guy who is willing to please them and pay and all that to get into their pants? The answer is no. They will tolerate guys like you cause it's easy money, but make no mistake about it, it's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:17 AM
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If you see pussy and sex as some sort of gift that women are giving you in exchange for your money and effort, you are looking at it the wrong way. Our dicks are just as valuable as their cunts. Too bad you don't value your dick enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:48 AM
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I once met a Russian girl and we started talk about Russian men. She told me there are three types: -guys wjth cockroaches in their heads -the arrogant macho rich types -normal guys. She wanted a normal guy but by far these were the rarest and hardest to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:40 AM
1

Glad you lived to tell the tale
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:57 AM
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I grew up in Eastern Europe and I was 8 or 9 when the Berlin Wall fell, so my teens were still largely spent in a communist influenced culture. There were several notable differences. There was less focus on status and money the way you have it in Western societies. Mostly because it didn't matter if you were a car mechanic or a doctor you mostly earned the same. You say there was no strict gender roles, but that's BS. Women working is not something new. Women have always worked and contributed …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:21 PM
7

I wish it were that simple. Wait! It actually is!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:03 PM
3

I used to have soft harems, dating a couple of girls at a time, banging a FWB or a ONS here and there. It was the best! At the same time it can be hard keeping women around because they all want attention and they want to go on a trip for your birthday, never mind how easily they fall in love with a guy who is in total control of his love life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:33 PM
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Doubt. Look at posters here. The guys with the worst sex lives are also the smartest. They are above average intelligence. They research and write entire scientific articles supported with evidence and graphs to prove why wimmins are evil and they are not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:44 PM
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Just because a woman is slim and has big boobs doesn't guarantee she will have healthy offspring. A fat ugly woman with modern medicine will have just as good of a chance to have a healthy baby with you. So why do you want to pick the hot one over the ugly one? Same reason women don't want the shy accountant but the strong exciting asshole. What don't you get about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:50 AM
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I watched the first episode of Outlander. Again, nothing romantic in it. A wounded arrogant Scottish soldier that girl eventually falls for. As a guy I couldn't last past the first rapids but I have a feeling there no candlelit dinners and flowers in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:48 AM
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So you can face a wild animal but you can't have a normal conversation with a strange woman? Why don't you go and challenge that fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:25 AM
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Then why do you as a man want to pick slim pretty girls with big asses and boobs over the ugly, overweight nerds? What difference does it make what they look like if they all have a pussy you can stick your dick in?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:18 AM
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A few points I disagree with. Romance is something that advertising companies and sappy poets sold to you. You have been told your whole life that you should be romantic and that women should want romance. Guess what, they don't. I have not met one woman who truly appreciated romance. Go read a romance novel for women. There is nothing romantic in them. They all follow the same formula. Girl meets arrogant guy. They dislike each other right away, but girl can't stop thinking about guy. Eventuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:44 AM
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What are you talking about? Most men don't have the balls to approach a woman they like nevermind kill a lion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:33 AM
1

This is correct about everything BUT women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:13 AM
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Absofuckinlutely 110% correct! On paper a clean, well dressed guy with a decent job and a solid 401K should be a total catch but that's not how nature works. The accountant doesn't have the strong genes needed to kill a lion and chase away invaders, but the asshole who may not care about the woman at all does. So the latter will always be more desirable. Logical? Not at all, is it? Men do best with women the less they think. They all think too much and spin weird theories about hypergamy and 20/…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:38 AM
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Contrary to popular opinion, men who don't try too hard are more desirable. It's almost like if you have to try too hard you are low status. High status people don't try too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:19 PM
3

Nice brah keep it up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:05 PM
2

Men always complain that there not enough women to have sex with so the butthole is there to accommodate an extra guy. It all works out in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:03 PM
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Of course they do. Women need men more than the other way around, they just hide it better. The biggest issue is that while 90% of guys are horny all the time, for women it varies largely by the time of month, ovulation cycles, etc. then factor the ones that have never had an orgasm and don't know what they are missing. And men start assuming that because they are so horny they need women more than women need them. Which is total BS. Even with pure sex, women get more out of it than men do. Take…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:55 PM
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So many cosmetics contain estrogens. They make you more of a woman than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:57 AM
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It's the same with guys who claim that they would love heir girlfriend more if she starts farting around them or taking a shit with the bathroom door open. It sounds good in theory until she does it and you realize that the feminine mystique is there for a reason. And to your point, I think your issue is that you started off the relationship based on lies and fakeness and when you revealed your true self women were turned off because they realized you were faking it the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:53 AM
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Omg did I rape you just now with my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:24 AM
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I see it everyday everywhere I go. Try leaving the damn house every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:45 AM
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No one had been able to explain the math yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:23 AM
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You just not have been with many women to make that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:22 AM
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You can't really make guys who haven't smelled a pussy in years understand things from this perspective. To them any pussy that is attached to a breathing woman will do, until it doesn't. They just need to accept the reality of nature and learn how to be the type of man who can go out and get women. The only thing stopping them is fear. Fear is at the basis of everything. I've never seen a more fearful generation than than the teens and 20 somethings of today.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:22 AM
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It will help you to get close out the PornHub browser, shower, get out of the house and talk to real living female women for a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:12 AM
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When it comes to attracting women, looks are not the most important thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:10 AM
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Yes, every guy is supposed to be tolerant, accepting, compromising. You shouldn't dare express sexual interest in a woman cause me too. Masculinity isn't only about owning a dick and balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:51 AM
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We are talking about sexual relationships here. You know that's how things work and that's how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:45 AM
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You don't really understand personal power. Women want men who are more powerful and stronger then them, yes, that is absolutely true. It doesn't take much to be physically stronger than a woman and if there are many women who are stronger than you are, you have bigger problems to worry about. The real power you seek is in who a man is. Does he know himself? Does he embrace what he is by nature? Is he dominant and does he know what he wants and does he go for it? Men's problems are not that hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:43 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:34 PM
1

So you got 500 matches and you still think of yourself as just another loser incel? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:21 PM
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I can see which side you identify with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:16 PM
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That's just nature. Most men will die sexless and the rest will fuck hundreds of chicks. The beta ducks should become enuchs and serve the mighty Chads. The new world order.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:13 PM
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There are two types of men. Winners, who go after what they want with unquestioning power and authority, who understand the nature of men and women and there are the losers, who whine and live in fear and anxiety and watch as the alpha males fuck all the girls hoping they get some scraps. These days they can't even get that. Who you are in this world is your choice. You have to accept that the idea you have been sold of a guy courting a woman, buying her flowers, kissing her ass and treating her…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:05 PM
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It is really hard to explain the problem. It's a bit like Christianity and the original sin. Many men assume that they are inherently worthless (you will notice this theme in a lot of comments) and that they need to improve and get better in order to compensate for their inherent worthlessness. My point is that you should tackle the issue of feeling worthless in the first place, because no amount of external improvement will make you feel worthy. Again, saying you need to improve presupposes tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:34 AM
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Your phrase is the actual cause of all self esteem issues men have. Have you considered that you maybe okay just the way you are and you don't need to be better or improved?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:01 AM
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THATS A BINGO!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:43 AM
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When I hear women call men "scrotes" and post overlay derogatory and negative posts about men, I tend to not want to hear anything else they have got to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:41 AM
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Why is this bad advice? It's the exact same advice I would give guys except none of you want to hear it, because it doesn't have to do with fixing your weak jawline or you growing 5 inches taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:40 AM
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I personally wouldn't go that far, but you make a good point about breaking the work=sex equation that men are raised with. This equation says that unless you have something to contribute to society you are a worthless piece of shit undeserving of a woman. It forces men to overachieve, overwork, spend money on women in the hopes that one day they will be good enough to date a hot one. Instead, I bypassed all of this and chose to feel good about myself and deserving of lots of women. Working and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:50 AM
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Right, the mythical virgin who fucks like a porn star.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:42 AM
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For me a bad boy has always been the guy fucking lots of women and being unashamed about it. You are projecting the whole tatted, meth addicted loon image.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:45 AM
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I agree with everything you have said. But also reading this sub will tell you that nowadays men behave in the exact same way. Their only source of self esteem is whether some skank swiped right on their Tinder profile. And if she didn't, then that surely must mean they are a worthless piece of subhuman garbage. This dependence on external validation is what probably trips 90% of them. I should know, I was totally one of these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:07 AM
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What is so attractive about a nice boring guy who is afraid of his own shadow?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:03 AM
1

I like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:56 AM
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Maybe not in your world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:43 PM
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Men are the cause and the solution of all of their sexual problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:42 PM
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Men are way nicer than women on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:41 PM
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The problem is that the more you "need to have sex" the less likely your chances of having it are. It's kind of like a starving person who is willing to lick scraps off of a dirty wrapper he found in the trash. Guys telegraph that their lack of sexual attractiveness by being willing to settle for scraps instead of having a take it or leave it attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:40 PM
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As I have always said, women only have as much power as you (and other dudes) give them. Most men give away all of their goods for free. Free attention, free pursuing, free interest, free compliments, free time investment, free drinks and dinner, free.....you name it, men give it away. They give away all of their power and then only sit and watch with their mouth agape as women take advantage of that. Putting them up on a pedestal so high they can't even touch them. And then they wonder why no w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:18 PM
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Good luck with hormones and anxiety. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:21 PM
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Hope that's getting you laid more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:41 PM
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It is utterly futile to try and show a bunch of incel black pillers that they can indeed improve their sex lives. Don't you see that they believe themselves to be worthless subhuman pieces of garbage not fit for female company? Don't you see that they regard any female as long as she is breathing as the reincarnation of the Virgin Mary? They have never been taught that they may have value as men and that their dicks are just as valuable as a woman's cunt. But you can't change that. You can lead …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:38 AM
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Or the best solution is to never pursue women and let them come to you. Women love seducing men and live for it. We as men just need to give them the opportunity to exercise that muscle and be more assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:33 AM
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You are really going to try and teach a bunch of incel virgins how to be men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:32 AM
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Omg men have no power. Might as well cut off your balls and dick and become gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:44 PM
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We all want to slay dragons for women. The problem is majority of guys want to slay dragons for women they ain't even fucking. At least be fucking them before you want to be a white knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 05:01 PM
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Literally a bunch of guys standing in a circle and jerking off. The phrase means bitching and moaning about a subject and creating an echo chamber of like thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:59 PM
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I agree with everything you said. The truth of the matter is, for men lifestyle is what for women is boobs and a great ass. A man who lives his life and enjoys it and is social is extremely attractive and will have all the female attention he can handle. It's always the guys who are shut ins and who self isolate or are socially awkward who struggle. I've been both and I had to force myself to become social and to go out. It did wonders for me and my sex life. I also lost all fear of approaching …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:58 PM
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A bunch of excusers. I was fucking my girlfriend at 16 while my mom slept in the other room and she knew I did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:42 PM
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Sometimes I will take a woman who might be objectively not as good looking as another one if she clearly shows that she takes great pride in her presentation, treats me well and is willing to please me both in bed and outside. Yes, men take pride in being with a beautiful women but they should also learn to take pride in themselves regardless. A man who is proud is also extremely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:36 PM
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Romantic kissing for 30 mins? Personally I consider foreplay at least an hour of begging, but I do more than kiss that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:06 AM
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When I was an anti social shut in I got laid 0 times. When I built a social circle Inwas getting laid refularly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:15 AM
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Here is something you will learn as you fuck more women - most of them kind of suck at it. When you find one who fucks good, she is a keeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:06 PM
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Men in Eastern and Southern Europe are real men. They are not ashamed of wanting to duck women and going for it. And women there are and not ashamed of wanting to get fucked by guys who are not excusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:48 PM
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Shut the fuck up and cut out the drama. And learn to suck dick and maybe a man will keep you around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:46 PM
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Romance is not really needed. It's something society tells you you must do as a man and you must like as a woman. Most women I've been with don't really appreciate romance anyway and are fine without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:46 PM
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Yep super toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:02 PM
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God I feel old.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:28 PM
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So if you are one of the sexually successful men life has never been easier? Why not strive to be that guy instead of a loser incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:57 PM
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It makes no sense. If you told me that women have an easier time squeezing into tight spaces then okay I get it. But since men and women are dating each other and not some third party and there is 50% men/50% women in most countries populations, it literally makes not sense what you say. It's just down right silly to say that the few guys that are fucking all the women are also having a hard time. I think this is simply a projection of your own inability to get sex to every guy out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:52 PM
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Being bi
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:50 PM
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It instantly doubled your chances of getting a date on Saturday night
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:18 PM
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Woah, woah, woah! And put my PlayStation controller down for the chance of getting some puss? No thanks you evil wench!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:53 AM
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You guys can't even get your story straight. If 20% of guys get all the women then how can dating be hard for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:51 AM
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Everything
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:43 AM
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Different factors of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:34 AM
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They are literally everywhere. I'm in Italy right now and they are our and about with short skinny Italian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:36 PM
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Jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:38 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:19 PM
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Men can do a lot to be more attractive. Women not so much although they sure try.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:56 PM
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If you consider pussy a scarce resource then yeah, you don't pump and dump. Chads like me see pussy as abundant and disposable so we don't get invested that easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:55 PM
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If women were free trying sex that easily so would all of you guys except you are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:54 PM
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I'm not denying hypergamy exists, just like Im not denying my make nature that wants me to fuck strange every single day. But as I have said many times, 80/20 is not so much a law of nature it is a side effect of men becoming so pussified that they don't have to e balls to go out there and get the sex they deserve. Wishing you were born better looking is what women do. For men, grow a pair of balls and go for what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:04 PM
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Who are these average chicks banging? Because you are complaining men are sexless but at the same time every single chick is fucking 2-3 guys on the side. So who they are they fucking exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:49 PM
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So basically anything PPD says is actual BS and it has no basis in reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:19 PM
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Lol ur delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:04 PM
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Do you really expect a bunch of old hags to be happy that men prefer the young stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:14 AM
1

Lol what I've been trying to say for years. Women only lie every time they open their mouths
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:12 AM
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Lol, all these guys talk about is women this women that. Definition of neediness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:02 PM
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I'd get gangbanged probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:38 PM
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I think it's a victim mentality circle jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:37 PM
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What is a bar? Did people actually meet in person? Hahahahahah that's so out dated you old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:37 PM
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That was me in high school to a T. Still managed to lose my V card earlier than a lot of the jocks but not earlier than my best friend who lost it at 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:36 PM
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Probably around 11 or 12. 13-14 13 16 16
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:34 PM
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There is no way to really explain what I mean without showing you in person and letting you experience this. You live in the matrix where by our attractiveness as a man is tied to your paycheck and other resources you can provide a woman. You can't compete because there are a ton of other guys with more resources than you, so you are left behind. I am talking about the kind of power that has no competition. The power is indifference. The less needy you are, the higher status you are. The highest…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:32 PM
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You are wrong. All these options you think women have they don't. Hot girls are really not approached as often as you think. Their choices are down to overpursuers and guys who are afraid of them. The actual cool dudes that they can choose from are very little. They can only choose from men who actually approach them. You have put women on some sort of a weird pedestal where they literally hold your balls in their hands and you act accordingly. That's why you feel you have zero power with women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:24 PM
0

It sure is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:10 PM
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You are wrong. The more power you have by not needing them, the more they throw pussy at you. Shows me you understand nothing about the subject. You are so afraid that you will give up pussy if you stop needing it that it prevents you from actually not needing it. So you perpetuate the addiction cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:56 PM
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You've been literally conditioned from day one to need women by sucking on that titty for milk. Everything around you is conditioning you to need sex and women. Not want them, need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:55 PM
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Your choice to surrender all your power to your little friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:45 PM
2

You are still not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:40 PM
0

They just need to not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:19 PM
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It's a joke dude. Jesus tough crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:07 PM
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Yes you can. Just don't give a fuck about it so much. The only reason you are afraid of your boss or losing your job for example is because you need them in order to live and lay your rent. With women you don't truly need them, but you convince yourself that you do. You convince yourself that you can live without pussy and therefore surrender all your power over to them for which they despise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:07 PM
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Yes, the less you care about having any particular woman or her vagina, the more of a "I can take it or leave it" attitude you have towards a particular vagina or any vagina for that matter, the easier it gets and the more in control you are. Then eventually women cease to have any power over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:04 PM
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Playing video games improves finger agility which may come in handle with the ladies, giggitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:02 PM
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There is always a newer prettier model on the market. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:36 PM
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The power formula is very simple. Who cares the most has the least power. Put in another way, the person who needs/wants the least has all the power. You need/want pussy so desperately that you have zero power. Women can do whatever they want with you. Incidentally, women despise powerless guys and treat them like shit. So you are in a lose lose situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:33 PM
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The premise is false. Women do not have the aforementioned advantages. That's a story you guys tell yourselves because nobody has taught you how to have all the power. The reality is women only have as much power as you give them and you seem to give them all the power and yourself none.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:07 PM
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Interestingly, the homoerotic worship of the mythical Chad figure betrays the way that most guys see the world through the lens of their sexuality. They praise things such as height, a strong jawline, white skin, etc. The same way they judge women. We judge women on their physical traits because they carry the baby. Men are judged in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:00 AM
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Even in lesbian relationships one girl is super butch. I've seen some that are more masculine than most guys I come across on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:52 AM
2

Well, yes, confidence is key. You can only be truly confident when you accept yourself as you are instead of living in constant fear that you are not enough and you are not the best. Guys are so desperately trying to hide the pathetic loser they are on the inside, they never realize that maybe who they are is not that bad at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:22 PM
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It's all supply and demand. Young hot women are in high demand. So are confident, established men. There are so few of them though. And men are able to keep their value for much longer than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:19 PM
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Wanting to be a woman's best is a manifestation of nice guy syndrome along with wanting to be the tallest, fittest, having the best hair, best car, etc. why are these guys having the hardest time getting pussy while some guy with tattoos on his face and no job is able to bang young hotties?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:18 PM
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All women but your mom and sister are hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:55 AM
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If Twitter and Reddit were real life, we would have Bernie for President and Andrew Yang for mayor of NYC. Instead, these two lost embarrassingly to their mainstream opponents. Same with PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:55 AM
1

Sigh get lost
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:07 AM
2

How many of these men have you met? Because I know a ton of girls who have used guys for free drinks and then called them assholes behind their backs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:26 AM
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Yes men have an issue with their self image and self esteem. And no you don't need to be Chad Chadinsky to get a girlfriend. You just shouldn't be anxious and full phobias and have a pair of balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:07 AM
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Yes there are. I'm one of them.there aren't many virgins around that aren't 14-15. Which means that women are having sex and loving it way more than PPD would have you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:49 AM
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I've never met men who were willing to manipulate a woman into going out with them, use her for free dinners and drinks and trips and never sleep with her and call her a loser behind her back. Women? I've met many who've done shit like this on the regular. Most of you lie every time you open your mouths. It's just the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:22 PM
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If a person calls you a horse tell him to go fuck himself. If another person calls you a horse tell him to fuck himself too. If a third person calls you a horse, buy a damn saddle already.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:16 PM
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They already do. But moms don't tell their sons that women will try to manipulate them and use them and that they will backstab their girlfriends just to steal a guy they are interested in. And they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:12 PM
2

Best advice I've gotten when it comes to women is "don't listen to word they say". It's probably a lie anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:07 PM
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Jesus fuck. Go out there and get laid. Keep trying until you succeed. This ain't a fucking video game. This is your life. Enough with the self pity and depression. Nobody cares. It's your life. The cavalry is not coming to the rescue. You are on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:30 PM
-1

Make attractiveness is 90% inner game, confidence and authority..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:49 PM
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Your answer is in the second paragraph of your post. Making women FEEL safe. Height is only one thing, but the key is confidence and authority. If you can make a woman feel safe height is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:48 PM
0

Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:43 PM
4

It comes down to power and power can be displayed in many ways. The strong tough guy is powerful as well as the rich guy who can make people disappear. No wonder women are drawn to power and authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:33 PM
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Toxic masculinity is another tool to shame men and make them suppress their natural masculine traits. Accept everything, the good and the bad. That's why so called bad boys are so attractive. They at least have the balls to be who they are, warts and all, shitty toxic traits and good ones too. Just accept who AND what you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:31 PM
2

Well women lie
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:27 PM
5

If you believe anything women say. Do you expect them to say "omg, I'm frumpy and no quality man has ever approached me".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:25 PM
2

Of course that is the definition of honesty, trust and respect. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:54 AM
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He's saying that he wants his girlfriend to wear a ninja outfit and only come out of the house in the presence of a male family member whilst she be tempted to suck the first random stranger's cock she comes across.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:53 AM
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For a definition of a Nice Guy refer to Dr Glover's No More Mr Nice Guy book. Being a nice guy is not a virtuous trait. Nice guys actively suppress their needs and wants and present a fake nice veneer to the world in hopes of hiding their desperation and worthlessness. This syndrome is not at all what is presented on this sub or incel subs claiming that being "nice" is how these guys are born. They are not. Niceness is a learned strategy in childhood to deal with the world. It's not a healthy st…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:12 AM
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Animals care about three things - eat, copulate and sleep. Fill their belly with something warm, put their dick in something warm and sleep somewhere warm. That's what makes up their existence. Believing humans to be different is what causes most of our suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:46 PM
1

Women will have casual sex with a guy that is not presenting himself as boyfriend material or a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:44 PM
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Only on Reddit do men believe that average and below average women get any sorts of positive attention from men never mind actually being approached in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:43 PM
1

No man has ever gotten laid like ever unless he is a Chad. Just accept it. You were conceived in a tube along with 7 billion other people. Regular and average people obviously don't fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:42 PM
1

Give me Ashley Graham's ass and tits any day of the week and I can die a happy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:40 PM
2

Power is the greatest aphrodisiac.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:36 PM
2

It's very simple. Despite all the bad traits many women have and I truly believe the majority are liars and manipulators, we as men want to fuck them. It works the other way around too. While the majority of men are assholes, women still want men for the feeling of safety we give them. So you just have to weigh the pluses and minuses. I mean life has 100% chance of ending in death, but you still want to live it to the fullest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:33 PM
1

Show me a hot woman and I will show you a man tired of fucking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:29 PM
2

Dude, women already do that. That's why guys are thirsting after girls who would be average at best without all the make up, extensions, fake tits and lip injections.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:28 PM
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When you've been around and fucked plenty of women you start finding this other than physical attraction very important. Like is she low drama, does she take care of you, how she treats you, her credit score, etc. Then hotness stops mattering as much, although that doesn't mean settling for someone you are not sexually attracted to. It's just that they don't have to be the hottest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:27 PM
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Ugh this is a tricky one. Because some changes are warranted and other not. If you work graveyard shift on an oil rig in North Dakota and complain you don't meet many women, well, duh. You kind of have to go where the women are. I think it is a question of figuring out what you want to do with your life and designing your lifestyle to achieve that. If you want to meet many women to fuck or a few to have LTRs wjth you will have to make certain changes to better your chances. You can't be a dork a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:56 PM
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Don't know but I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:46 AM
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If a woman has been with under 10 guys she is practically a virgin. Take what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:00 AM
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Your last sentence kind of gives away your lie. Why isn't dancing at home just as fun if all you want to do is dance with girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:56 AM
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You do it know anything about women. If my oh are balding, shave it off and wear it proud. Don't be that pussy who is holding on this his last two hairs. The insecurity and phobias are what make you unattractive, not the baldness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:37 AM
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You are just coming up with excuses. Don't be an excuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:51 AM
2

But what if I am a socially awkward neckbeard who hasn't left home in 15 months? How am I going to find love in the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:50 AM
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And yet men and women are instinctually driven to seek out people with a different genetic make up than themselves in order to get the best and most disease resistant set of dna. Only copulating with the same 100 people ensured that everyone would be retarded within a couple of generations - https://www.sciencefocus.com/science/how-do-small-and-isolated-tribes-cope-with-inbreeding/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:57 PM
4

Better buy a strap-on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:33 PM
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Everyone talks about hypergamy like it's something women conspired to come up with to fuck with average guys. Even the ugliest motherfucker wants to fuck Kim Kardashian but don't mean he won't settle for what he can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:29 PM
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Yes, and every guy wants to bang a perfect 10 that fucks like a pornstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:18 PM
1

In all religions women are subservient to men. It is the way it is and it has been like this since the beginning of time. Even in the animal kingdom, the lion just lays around and licks his balls while the lioness hunts for him, raises the children and fucks him. But she is subservient to him because he provides protection. It's this simple. These days boys, not men, boys, are too afraid of the world, of their masculinity, of women. I speak to young guys and they don't know how to talk to a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:15 PM
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Toxic masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:06 PM
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Smelly pussy, looks like a boy, overweight, small ass. I am a sucker for a pretty face though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:57 PM
9

So sounds like a lot of guys you don't know are also getting laid quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:29 PM
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Russian women are starved for real men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:53 AM
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Attractive women date all kinds of guys. It's about how confident he is that he brings something to the table that no one else can or not many can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:27 AM
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I will break it down for you. #1 accept who you are and what you are and stop trying to desperately hide the subhuman loser you believe you are by being nice, or pretending to be cool, or alternatively hiding out in your house and avoiding human contact. The belief that you are worthless and broken is faulty and was caused in childhood by bad parenting. Accept being a man with all the good and bad it comes with. Yes, men can be assholes, rude, angry, brutal, we can also be strong and confident a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:33 AM
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There is only like 88-90 of them for every 100 women. So you do the maths.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:15 AM
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I meant unfortunate that there are more black women than men due to incarceration rates, etc. but this is also really good for the guys who have their shit together cause they be drowning in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:14 AM
2

Yes, and that's unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:57 AM
1

I don't know you tell me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:38 AM
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Man is definitely the better looking animal. I don't know if any men who need make up, high heels, push-up bras, hair extensions and that's just to get out of the house. Never mind Botox, lip fillers, fake tits, Brazilian butt lifts and what not just to appear more sexy to women. Don't make a mistake. Women are obsessed with getting male attention and competing with each other for men. Whatever else they tell you is a total lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:55 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:53 AM
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So what? I always wanted to bang Adriana Lima and all the Victoria Secret angels and I had all these requirements in a woman. Guess what, unless you are a 10 you don't get to fuck many 10s. So you get what you can that comes closest by on your ideal partner. Do you really believe that all these women are actually dating Chads? Dude, my wife has a bunch of relatively attractive girlfriends who are single and desperate. According to you they can snap their fingers and get flown to Dubai for a hot …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:53 AM
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You hit the nail on the head. Only reason I come hear. And for the occasional FDS member's opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:48 AM
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Interesting, I've found black chicks to be some of the thirstiest out there. It's a little like the situation in Russia where the male to female ratio is like 80 to 100 and on top of that many of their men are alcoholics and nerds, so that leaves women with even less choice. I think if black women are bitching so much about this stuff os because they know black dudes hold all the power and you don't need much to be the prize. Don't sell yourself short.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:47 AM
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That's a bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:42 AM
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It's not about being a viscous alpha or protecting her from gang of marauding thugs. Every woman needs a sense of safety from a man. That's what attracts them to us. You don't seem to understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:29 PM
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You don't get women do yo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:09 PM
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It's a way to hide and isolate. That's the issue. Guys tend to do that quite a bit and then wonder why they can't get a girlfriends. Girlfriends are found out in the world not in computer games and porn sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:32 PM
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Most of the guys who complain about not getting women wouldn't even want to grab a coffee with themselves. That's how much they hate who they are. No amount of wishing their were Chad would change who they are. So you may as well embrace it and accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:53 PM
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I'm sure the libruls will come up with something. You just need to have a catchy enough hashtag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:47 PM
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While I don't condone manipulation and exploitation no one is forcing these men to part with their cash. As the saying goes a fool and his money will soon part ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:46 PM
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Or hit the gym, socialize and fuck chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:49 PM
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Get out of the house man. It will change your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:13 PM
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The way I see it gaming is a simulation of what real men should be doing. Going out into the world, achieving things and having adventures. It's like porn. You watch the real men fuck a chick while you sit behind a screen and jerknoff. I think ultimately it robs you of your masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:29 PM
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Well her boob status is obviously bigger than mine, so I beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:46 PM
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I seek a woman with bigger boobs than I have. Am I hypergamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:42 PM
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The ability to inflict violence is needed. To be a man, you need to know how to fight. Don't be an easy victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:23 AM
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Only a man can teach a boy how to be a man. I can be mad at my mom for a lot things but the reality is my dad totally dropped the ball.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:11 AM
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Lol, I for one love me some sluts. They just tend to fuck better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:19 AM
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Just read the book it will make sense right away and will answer your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:18 AM
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This is a very good summary of what I've been preaching for a while. The problem is not women. Women know how to be sexually attractive. You have a huge support system. Cosmetic stores, clothing stores, make up tutorials, magazines, etc. Guys believe that women put no effort into it and just need to show up completely ignoring the thousand of dollars sunk in sexy outfits, clothes that are a bit too tight and shoes with heels a bit too high. The thousands sunk in cosmetic products and the hours i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:48 AM
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Yes absolutely! What you are seeing today is the direct result of parents giving up responsibility to teach their children how to be men. Most parents actually actively neuter their male children because they are easier to deal with if they are nice and quiet. In the animal world that would be akin to a lioness telling her cub "Don't roar, don't bare your teeth, that's not nice. Just make sure you mane is combed and clean and one day a lioness will like you". The problem wjth that approach is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:34 AM
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Thank you for putting in words what Injave been trying to tell guys for a long time, especially your first bullet. I have a feeling this is the biggest factor of attraction for women. But guys don't really get it. Wouldn't a nice guy who treats you well and has a 401k and a steady job as an accountant be able to offer more protection and safety than a mean looking asshole? Not to our primitive brains it doesn't. No more than a flat chested plain Jane can excite men as much as a Playboy sex bunny…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:27 PM
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You seriously need to read No More Mr Nice Guy and the new book No More Mr Nice Guy, the Hero's Journey if you think that being a Nice Guy is some sort of a virtuous trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:19 PM
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But It will go against what his mom told him, which is to be a good and nice boy, study hard and become an engineer and maybe then find a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 05:18 PM
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Or find your niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:51 PM
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Well I'm being sarcastic but also describing the core of the issues most guys have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:28 PM
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Nah man, you don't understand. Only a woman can give a man value and worthiness. Women are the judge, jury and executioner when it come to male value. It started with their moms and now it is a role only other women can have. A man cannot and should not ever give himself value or treat himself as worthy and with self respect. If a random woman swipes left on you on Tinder it means you are a worthless piece of shit who will never measure up to her impossible Chad based standards. Don't ever think…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:14 PM
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It reminds me of growing up in a commie Eastern European country and watch that system crumble and transition to a free market. Regular people couldn't figure out why nobody wanted to buy the shitty products the country produced. They couldn't understand that other countries that had a free market for longer just made better and cheaper products that were sought after more. No amount of government intervention to try and bring equality could solve the core problem of the country making shit prod…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:10 PM
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There is only one thing that defines who has the power in a relationship. The one who wants/needs the least has the power and vice versa. Men have made themselves into thirsty pussy hounds and have shot themselves in the foot by placing themselves in the supplicating position. Women only have as much power in relationships and dating as you give them. Because you have convinced yourself that you can't live, can't be happy and can't have self worth without access to a 2x3" piece of flesh with a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:04 PM
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Has a remote control that I can click Mute on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:10 AM
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100%. Stop putting women on a pedestal so high you can't even touch them. Not only do they age worse than men, they are also a lot less nice and a lot more manipulative and mean. They are not the angels your mom told you they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:35 PM
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Lol okay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:46 PM
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It's just a story you have been telling yourself since you were a preteen. If you didn't act like a thirsty horn dog you'd be getting laid a whole lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:00 PM
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No we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:48 PM
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It's not a North American issue. It's an internet echo chamber issue. Frequenting idiotic communities like incels, mgtow and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:48 PM
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99% of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:45 PM
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The problem wjth these guys is that they are followers. They are easy to control because their moms neutered them at an early age. All they can do is post stuff like this on Reddit instead of going out in the real world and telling society to fuck off and that they won't be controlled. This is what the bad boys that women fawn over are really about. They have the balls to live life their own way instead of complaining about feminisms and gynocentricity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:43 PM
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But it mostly is about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:26 PM
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My point is there are tons of women out there (maybe most) who actually suck at sex. Plus I don't care for defeatist attitudes. If he wants to take himself out of the market it just means more chicks left for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:56 PM
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Only a man who hasn't slept with a lot of women can make such a statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:43 PM
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And that's helping you how?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:07 PM
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Improvement has nothing to do with it. Working on improving g yourself presupposes you are not enough as you are which is the crux of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:39 AM
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It's just a cope mechanism for low status guys to explain why nobody wants them. The reality is men and women want the same thing. Each other! Women bring femininity, softness, warm ness and men bring toughness, security and attitude of getting shit done. Don't believe the argument that women don't need men. They need real men now more than ever because there is a severe lack of masculine energy in the world. I wrote a whole post about this and I hope it gets past the mods, but in essence the pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:48 AM
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Just be honest with the women you meet. You will be surprised how many of them want the same and then for you to go away once you are done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:54 AM
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Because women buy lingerie for themselves and not for men? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:33 AM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:02 PM
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You should try leaving your bedroom every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:02 PM
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Women only have as much power over you as you give them. You just choose to give them all the power and yourself none of the power. This is something that only another man can teach you. Find a mentor who is willing to show you the ropes of not being a pushover and having high self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:56 PM
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Exactly my thoughts!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:55 PM
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The purpose of a relationship between a man and a woman other than your mom or sister is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:50 AM
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All of this nonsense is on your own head buddy. Both attractive men and women have a lot of choices. You can be the chosen or you can be the chooser. As a man it's better to be the chooser. But your attitude is that men are worthless and replaceable, that women hold all the power in sex and relationships. This is total nonsense and it is what is causing all of your dating and relationship problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:49 AM
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Not even talking about prostitution anymore. More about what is the issue wi the younger guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 09:21 AM
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I have a coworker from a different country, young girl in her 20s, who was complaining that guys here age are total pussies, they don't know how to approach a girl, ask her out, take her o a date. Etc. Can't be just women to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 09:02 AM
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I'm not sure if I agree with you or disagree, but let me comment. I do sincerely believe that the "just be yourself" advice is actually the most brilliant and powerful dating advice there is. The problem is that people are rarely themselves. They don't know who they are on the inside because, as you said, they have been masking the true self for so long it has become who they think they are. Let say you think you are an introvert who doesn't like to go out of the house unless he has to and prefe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:07 AM
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Human relationships are governed by supply and demand just like anything else. If you are in short supply but high demand you get to command your price. If the opposite, you may not want to sell but you won't be able to get a very high price. So you sit on the shelf sexless and single. You can of course try and improve the product and marketing and move up the value chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:56 AM
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Women are not the arbiters of inner worth. Why would you let them make that decision for you? Who do you think they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:41 AM
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Correct! But with men it's a bit different. We are truly judged on our confidence and how we carry ourselves. A guy who believes he is inherently worthless and brings nothing to the table will not be attractive to women. These "men" literally fail to see any worth in who they are while at the same time putting women on such a high pedestal that they can't even touch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:37 PM
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Inherently their issue is a failure of taking responsibility. Whenever you have some wiggle room to blame someone/something else it lets you off the hook. That's why they are so desperate to get everyone to admit this. Admitting it will only get you a "told you so" until the next hypergamy/women are too picky/men are getting less sex than ever post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:35 PM
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Maybe they will leave us all alone and the rest of us top 20% men can fuck all the chicks we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:29 PM
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It will validate their innermost darkest fear, that they are inherently worthless. This is really what it comes down to. Lack of sex and attention from women is merely a symptom of this belief/fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:21 PM
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Yes she was a late bloomer who didn't get a lot of male attention apparently although she turned into a very beautiful woman. But I think deep down her self worth suffered quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:38 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:46 PM
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I live in the Netherlands. Prostitution here is legal. From what I hear Dutch men do not approach women like ever. Women rarely wear make up, but there are some that are quite hot. It looks like women have to do a lot more of the work and pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:41 PM
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No they don't. It's not about blame it's about taking responsibility. The role of a man is to go out in the world and achieve, not hide at home from the big scary world and the scary wimmins with their unreasonable standards. Fear and anxiety rules their world. So they resign to numbing themselves with porn, video games and self isolation. You know who does this? Children. A little boy can't turn a woman on. A man can. And men don't hide in their caves. They take on the world and overcome their …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:34 AM
1

And of course you mean both of them together in a threesome?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:45 AM
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Counterpoint. Those guys didn't treat her shitty. They just refused to put up with her drama and BS. They had self respect and when things were not working for them, instead of being self sacrificing nice guys, they dumped her because guess what? She is not that special. As a matter of fact, I find men being much nicer than women. Women can be downright mean and manipulative. Why are you so trusting of women? Shouldn't you always question their motives and make them prove themselves to you? Don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:00 AM
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Women are told by their dads when they come of age "Don't believe a word boys say, all they want is to get into your pants". Naturally women are a bit more wary and cautious with men. What message do we get from our moms that are supposed to look out for us? "Be nice to girls, treat them well and do whatever they ask you to do so they like you". Is it any wonder that men go out there and simp and kiss ass just to get some approval and sex? I recently confronted my mom and asked why didn't she wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:16 AM
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I'm 40 I'm in the best shape of my life make more money than ever and I'm an experienced lover. Women half my age are eye raping me left and right. It's great to be a man!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:12 AM
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Of course you are the cause of everything. If you would just fuck some of these nerds, they wouldn't have to wish you would get raped. For anyone who is not getting this, I am being absolutely, 100%, sarcastic. Plz don't ban me!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:51 AM
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It's your life man. Waste it jerking off and staying home. No skin off my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:36 AM
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The long term goal is to make these women into crazy old cat ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:45 PM
6

Very well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:36 PM
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So all the fucking losers came out in this post defending their loser lifestyle to the death. It's no wonder you can't get laid or find a gf. You are defending a lifestyle that gets you zero results and just nights spent with your hand. Rather blame everything else but themselves. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:26 PM
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I don't think that alcohol consumption contributes to more sex per se, rather that alcohol is associated with parties and social events which definitely expose you to a wide range of people and leads to more sex. The big issue is socialization. When I would socialize is when I would get laid the most. Sitting at home playing games got me zero women. Going out got me some, having a big social circle got me lots.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:14 PM
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You are not asking the right questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:24 PM
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And men are attracted to femme fatales. So what? It's the feminine/masculine polarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:40 PM
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All of these points are why women love confident men. Confidence means they feel sure about the guy, it reduces their anxiety, hormonal ups and downs and they feel protected. Confidence for women is what boobs and ass are for us. This is what guys fail to understand while they grasp at stuff like height and facial structure. You can become more confident, but it requires losing your phobias and anxieties and being in control of your emotions. Think James Bond who can calmly sip his martini while…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:25 PM
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While it's in vogue to blame women, they are doing all the right things. They get hot and look good and attract us men. It's men who have dropped the ball with plunging levels of testosterone and letting their masculinity be defined by feminists and metoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:50 AM
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You need to start reading between the lines. Not all women want only relationships. Many want to have sex just like men do. It the big problem is safety and comfort. You think they have it easy, but at the same time you know there are tons of men out there making women feel unsafe. How are they going to go and pursue casual sex surrounded by these pussy hounds? They have to be much more subtle and diplomatic about it which Is something you are not getting. That's why only a few men are able to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:53 AM
1

If every woman was doing just that all the time, then all the incels OP is crying over would also get laid just by the sheer numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:49 AM
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I will give you a clue. 99% of men only want sex. The 1% wants to have great sex. There you go. Why the fuck do you need us men for more than that? What makes us such a prize that you women want to lock us down and have relationships with us? Sure we must be worth much more than the OP believes we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:46 AM
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Your post just proves the sorry state of men these days. And then you wonder why 80% of guys are sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:49 PM
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Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:42 PM
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You really know nothing about women or what makes men attractive. Thing is majority of men are pussies and liars. None of you can be straight and honest with a woman. None of you can walk up to a woman and say that her figure or her ass is really attractive and turns you on. You can't tell her that you may only want her for sex. You can't be honest because you have no balls. If you have no balls, you are not a male that gets laid. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:37 PM
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Plenty of average guys get laid. And no you don't have to be a 10 just like not every guy gets to fuck Kardashian look alikes no matter how much it may be our preference. Not every woman that gets fucked is a 10. But if are gonna wallow in self pity you may as well cut off your balls. Why would a woman need another pussy. She already has one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:21 PM
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They seem to believe that women only want talk, white, chiseled guys. Yet they fail to explain how humanity has procreated up until now when the majority of e population on earth couldn't be further from a white, tall person. Also, men get everything wrong about what women want. I mean who the fuck knows. Not even they know. It's an exercise in futility. Instead men should focus on what they can control, which is their inner game - beliefs, confidence, etc and outward appearance - dressing edgy …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:50 PM
1

When I was a teen, teen girls were just as horny as us guys. My best friend lost his virginity at 14 at basically a teen sex party to a girl who banged him and at least another dude there. She approached him. I lost mine with a girl a year older who approached me. Basically teen girls are thirsty as fuck and will often fuck anything that moves. But I think as they get older they start being more attracted to men and not boys. Meaning, they look for the more masculine features, such as bodily and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:42 AM
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Pretty much every other post here talks about how not horny women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:29 PM
0

The choice of how you see the world is yours. My belief system brings more success. Yours doesn't. Neither is 100% accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:58 PM
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Because there is a total social brainwashing portraying women as sugar and spice and everything nice. Many men can't comprehend how a woman would possibly enjoy getting fucked in a gabgbang for example but there you go. Other women slut shame even more because a slut gets all the men and even temps the other girls husbands and bfs. I for one don't believe in this and would love to see more girls become uninhibited. Maybe some of the incels posting here will finally get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:19 PM
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Don't wait on her to define the relationship, you need to do this and set the boundaries. What do YOU want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:01 AM
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My counterpoint is that they were conditioned to think of themselves as fucked up weirdos and that maybe, just maybe they are okay. That's the biggest obstacle to overcome. Honestly, my biggest aha moment when it came to women was that they truly just want a normal guy. Not some super handsome rich guy with a unicorn dust coming out of his ass, not some player alpha super macho guy. Just a normal dude, who is okay with himself and likes himself enough to be confident. That already eliminates 80%…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:30 AM
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I don't, it's what many men think of themselves as. Just read any post from a guy on PPD. Basically if you ain't a Chad you are indistinguishable from a steaming pile of dogshit. That's what they really think of themselves and try so desperately to cover up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:20 AM
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Again, majority of guys go out in the world trying to desperately hide the fucked up ugly weirdo they think they are on the inside. Whether they try to cover it by being nice or putting on a show of how cool and successful they are, it's the same. It's not authentic and genuine and it perpetuates the issues with inner game, which are "Im not good enough as I am, women don't want me, they only want Chads, etc etc".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:45 AM
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What are they going to have sex with? Horses?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:43 AM
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I never said they did chase most men or they chased much at all. I'm saying they should be chasing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:19 AM
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It will bring to even more frustrated and lonely women that guys like me get to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:14 AM
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I forget women hate sex. That's why they are wired with sensual nerve endings all over their bodies, can have a clitoral and vaginal orgasms and multiple orgasms one after the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:13 AM
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They are closer to humans than you think. The lone wolves don't get laid just like the human nerd or weirdo who isolates himself at home jerking off and playing video games. And the ones that cooperate, I.e. have a large social circle have much more sexual opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:08 AM
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By the same token men don't need women. We can jerknoff, watch porn, use Uber Eats for food and get a Roomba to clean up after us. Why do we need you? Yet most men still want a woman next to them because it is wired in our DNA. Men have a lot more value than we give ourselves credit for. It is even evidenced in your post. Guys who have their shit together are so fucking rare that they get their pick of women. That's why we are the prize. Men just rarely know it and the ones who do are a force to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:05 AM
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Certainly not an excuser who will put a dirty mop on his head because he is so ashamed of being bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:07 AM
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Someone has never seen a vagina up close.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:22 AM
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You deserve to never have sex again if you did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:21 AM
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In my opinion women should be chasing men. We are truly the prize. Look at the animal kingdom. The lion for example lays around all day and licks his balls and the female hunts and brings him food. Why does she do it? Simple. For protection. He provides safety. It's the same with the human animal. A confident and masculine man provides safety and protection. He is the one that gives the gift and lets you fuck him. Women get more out of sex then men do anyway, so even the sex is more of a benefit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:20 AM
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What makes men unattractive is constantly following the rules and presenting a fake persona to the world that they think everyone else will find acceptable. Whether that's being a nice guy or a successful guy or this guy or that guy. Why do you think bad boys are attractive? They break the rules and have to e balls to be themselves warts and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:17 AM
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An alpha can handle a situation with calm and self assurance. He can be in control of the situation. By the time he gets to fighting the situation is way out of control. Who's the king of the jungle? Lions. Do lions do a lot of fighting or do they deter competitors with their roar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:39 PM
4

I did! I just got done fucking my wife. She is great!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:11 PM
3

If you are not hooking guys, perhaps you don't have something guys want. It's as a simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:41 PM
4

Yeah and?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:38 PM
1

Well yeah, you don't want to be a hooker and not get paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:37 PM
3

Most women are always hooking guys. Whether it's dinner, drinks, or OF, they are hookers. It's just a question of price, this we can negotiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:36 PM
1

You are not really understanding aggressiveness as they see it. It's more of the caveman type taking her and less of the beating the shit out of her or other guys. Women actually feel unsafe with you because you get in fights and are aggressive. It's a sign of being afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:34 PM
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Most women are whores. They act like, look like it and talk like it. Treat them accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:31 PM
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So you think we really care about you? Every guy is so tired of listening to women that we would love it if you left after we had sex. Most of us just roll over and fall asleep. We put up with your BS because we want sex. We don't really care about your hopes and dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:11 PM
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I will let you on a little secret. There is nothing sexy about being the provider. Absolutely nothing. Most women have a choice of an average/below average income provider or a rich provider. If they are hot enough, they tend to settle for the rich guy. But once he is done paying for dinner and has deposited her monthly rent payment, she heads over to the sexy guy who never takes her out, who has a date in his apartment which consists of sex and pizza afterwards and an Uber home. That guy is nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:23 PM
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That's what I try to tell them but they don't listen. They are too afraid of what the wimens are thinking and that they are thinking about what the guy is thinking, which he is hoping is not that he just wants to have sex although that's exactly what he is thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:01 PM
1

Deep down every guy is an asshole. The unsuccessful guys hide it because they think that's what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:28 PM
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Here is a little secret. You don't have to be a good guy. You don't have to pretend you are saving children in Africa or have high morals. As a matter of fact, the men most women are intrigued by have a bad and naughty side to them. All men have it, many just suppress it and never embrace it preferring to be goody two shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:11 PM
1

The truth is often hard to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:09 PM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:27 AM
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Men are already behaving like women these days. Seeking constant validation and approval, being the victims, the party that is done onto as opposed to the party that is doing, kissing women's asses for some pussy crumbs. And women are more and more like men. I see th at the gym building six packs and lean muscle, out earning men, being too rough around the edges, having to take control of dating and the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:59 AM
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Women can have orgasms? Well, that's a first.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:53 AM
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Feminism is great. Now I don't have to pay for someone else. She can pay for hers and I can pay for me. And after we've had sex she can go back to her own apartment that she's bought with her own money driving her own car. Bliss!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:21 AM
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If men stopped paying attention to women for 24 hours they would never have trouble dating or getting laid ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:19 AM
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Of course women. Working with a much shorter lifespan of attractiveness. Nobody wants them after about 35, while new 18 year olds come on the market all the time wanting older and more experienced men. It's great to be a man. We are truly the gift to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:46 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:45 AM
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After dating a long line of broken women I swore I'd never get seriously involved with a broke woman again. Everyone judges men who are broke as lazy and non ambitious, but we tend to overlook the same negative qualities in a woman just because she's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:16 AM
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Depends on how horny and relentless the guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:13 AM
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Great, just be honest with women, you not only have nothing to lose but everything to gain. They will respect you for having the balls to be truthful and many will fuck you. If you think you are fooling some chick with your nice guy act you are stupider than you think she is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:48 PM
1

Sure it was one big gangbang
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 07:10 PM
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That's nice girl definition. Putting someone else's feelings and needs before your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:57 PM
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Sure, but I don't believe in commitment for life. You get together with someone because you like the person and they like and that's what you both want. But if it stops working out for you, you need to have the balls to leave otherwise you will always be unhappy and walked all over. We become afraid that we can't handle being alone, being broken up with, breaking someone's heart, leaving behind a lot of investment in the relationship, etc. this fear of not being able to handle it keeps us in unh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:54 PM
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When I was single it was this. First, I decided what I wanted before I even got out of the house. If I was horny and just wanted to get laid, I would go to certain places that I'm more likely to find horny women wanting to get laid. I wouldn't go to a library. If I approached a woman and she told me that she is waiting for Mr Right or is more touchy feely, I would say thanks and go my own way. I had a mission and I was not going to let anything distract me. If I wanted to casually date, I would …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:00 PM
1

Alright alright alright!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:50 PM
1

I'm just putting things into perspective for the guys who have trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:50 PM
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Lol, you are so desperate for validation that you make up fantasies in your own head.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:44 AM
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It's simple. In caveman days if the cavewoman slept with a caveman who didn't care for her and kicked her out of the cave it could literally mean death for her and her cave baby. That's why women are more adept at connecting with other women (safety in groups etc), but also they seek a connection with the man. It's not a high standard, it's something that's ingrained in DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:38 AM
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Eh, every other person on this planet has a vagina. You are nothing special especially if you act like a hooker, get treated like a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:30 AM
1

Men are becoming more like women and women are becoming more like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:27 AM
0

Be straightforward. I say something like "you look really sexy". Then test if she's playful and adventurous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:24 AM
1

It's always a supply and demand issue. Men with money are in very short supply but they also often lack the skill or confidence to get a woman, so they prefer to pay the price. But they pay the price in two ways. One, with their money. Two, with their dignity and self worth because women don't like them for who they are, but only for their money. I also don't see anything wrong with treating you like a prostitute if you are goingto act like one. So don't be surprised when men discard you like tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:23 AM
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It's not that they are "top" men. It's just that they are not afraid of being themselves and going for what they want. It's a hard concept to grasp for a generation that thinks depression and anxiety are a normal part of being alive. If I had to venture out and guess what women want from men it would be a feeling of safety and protection. A fearful, anxious guy who is afraid of his own shadow can't possible make a woman feel safe or wet down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:37 AM
1

You are right. No woman will be interested ina guy who thinks of himself as a nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:03 AM
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Sigh. Schrodinger's modern woman - she is simultaneously riding the cock carousel and having sex with a different guy/s every night AND not interested in sleeping with 99.999999% of men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:41 AM
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Except with women, they want to be caught. They are not really interested in running away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:27 AM
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I'd feel fine. I got over my fear of approaching women a long time ago. And no, women are not scary and they will not call the police on you and accuse of sexual molestation because you dared give her a compliment. Guys are wracked by fear and fearful guys make pussies dry out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:04 AM
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Hell no, especially once you've tasted different pussy. You just know how bad sex is with an inexperienced and inhibited woman and never want to do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:20 AM
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Actually it has nothing to do with this. Companies are running out of slim pretty women to market high end products to, so they turn to the rest of the market (probably 70% of the total female market) to make them feel a little better about themselves, as long as they buy their brand of cosmetics of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:14 AM
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I agree. I got laid much more when I started being honest with women. Some didn't like it but fucked anyways. Honesty is very liberating and powerful at the same time. It shows a total lack of fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:56 AM
0

Pretty much! Whatever we avoid is something we fear and should attack fully on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:53 AM
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The biggest mistake men is they listen to women and then they listen to men who listened to women. If you are going to listen to other people about what's best for you you might as well cut off your balls and join a monastery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:51 AM
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Sure, me and my friends never got laid causally at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:50 AM
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There is nowhere for you to go because you are fearful. It's fear that's stopping you from doing something that is very natural - approach a woman and get to know her to see if you want to sleep with her. If you more afraid than honry you stay sexless. If my you are more horny than afraid, there is hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:49 AM
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You are free to make whatever rules you want as long as you let me know. I want to know what game I am playing. My rule was if I am not sleeping with you by the third date you were out no matter what you wanted. If your rule is wait until we get to know each other, I would like to know what does that mean? One date, two dates? Three months? Yeah, no thanks. You think you are giving men some sort of a gift. Well guess what, there is no gift to give. They dicks are worth just as much as your cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:46 AM
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I think it's one of a few causes for sure. Everything is getting virtualized these days. Need someone to teach you how to change a tire, something your dad should have done? Look up an instruction video on YouTube. Do virtual vacations, meet people virtually. Have virtual sex jacking off to pixels, etc, etc. I see young guys and they are terrified of socializing, terrified of approaching women, terrified of being honest with them. There is so much fear and if there is something that shrivels a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:44 AM
1

Just be honest and straightforward. If she can handle it great. If not, if she can't trust you, there is no relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:41 AM
1

Well I did my absolute best
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:37 AM
2

Oh yea you can
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:25 PM
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Who is going to make fun of all the losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:44 PM
2

I didn't know a woman's ears were for hearing until I was 30. I used to think they were so Incould hold her head in easier while making her swallow my load.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:31 PM
1

If women had standards then the standard PPD incel crowd would have no chance. That's what they are crying about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:25 PM
2

These are exclusively the women I pay attention to and I have been very happy with my sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:10 PM
1

I love you. Can I marry you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:35 AM
1

It's not about becoming a better man. That's the beauty of it. It is actually about become who you really are. Th crux of the problem though is fear. Fear that we are not enough, fear of women, fear of what others will think of us, fear that we may be defective and thus unlovable and unfuckable. Fear of rejection, fear of success, fear fear fear fear. All of the black and red pill theories are just a way to cope with fear without having to face it. Men are afraid to be honest with women. They ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:14 AM
1

Why would I choose a boring stay at home religious virgin unless I didn't want to be found out for the loser I am who's never smelled a pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:40 AM
1

The unemployed will be wiped out by the next pandemic anyway or used as cannon fodder in war.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:38 AM
1

Find someone with a similar body count and don't worry about it. I've had a decent body count and found a woman who has fucked before and liked doin it. I don't know her body count, never cared, never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:37 AM
1

She LETS you fuck her? You are a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:35 AM
1

Well according my to PPD they are getting laid left and right and men are celibate, sooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:06 PM
1

Damn even more girls for a Chad like me!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:48 PM
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You need to know what you want. If you only want casual sex, seek out women who want casual sex. Don't go for the ones who want commitment. It's not that fucking complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:39 PM
-1

You guys all have the same problem despite thinking you are all different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:27 PM
-1

Just by the way you write I know you are another nice guy hoping to get picked by the powerful female who controls everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:25 PM
-1

The incel circle jerk is back in full swing. If you guys spent as much time socializing with women as you did rationalizing your lack of action you'd be getting at least an average girlfriend to duck you once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:19 PM
3

Your pussy is not more valuable than our dicks. You are not giving us anything by maki by men wait. Nobody wants your "gift" other than losers who can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:36 AM
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Whatever makes you feel better. As long as men agree to your rules and you state them all upfront. I think you will find that not many quality men will want to put up with your rules though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:02 AM
1

You don't need to be "better"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:58 AM
1

That's the wrong attitude. The problem is that you still think you need to be some sort of ubermensch in order for women to love you. You can be virtuous and good, but if you are truly suppressing your real self and your masculinity which are never good and virtuous and clean and perfect, then you are still going to have trouble with broads. There is no need to purify yourself and your masculinity. Embrace every dark fucked up thing about you, own it and be okay with it. That's true confidence a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:32 AM
6

I have chased girls like you and let me put it diplomatically: IT WAS NEVER WORTH THE TIME EFFORT AND MONEY!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:29 AM
0

They feel attracted to what they feel attracted to and it is probably not what you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:58 AM
0

But guys like you seem to believe that 20 guys catcalling a woman or sending her dick pics equals her having a ton of choice of top Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:43 AM
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Although I do feel that your post has an agenda and is not asking a genuine question out of curiosity, I will attempt to answer it. The crux of the issue is that men these days are mommas boys. They never made the transition from a boy to a man. For girls this happens naturally. They have their first period and poof, they are a woman now. There is also a bigger support network from other older women around that. Think of the feminine care industry, fashion industry, cosmetics, etc. all of this h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:45 AM
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Refer to my first reply to OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:24 AM
1

I was talking about that!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:27 PM
3

Not any horse....a BLACK horse bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:23 PM
1

I know at least 10 chicks who've fucked a horse. True story bro, true story. They'd rather fuck a horse than some of those losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:10 PM
2

Sure perpetual victims
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:00 PM
7

Guys that post here are in zero social circles which is the crux of their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:38 PM
6

Yea I'm pretty sure. Just look at the incel crowd. They have already committed several terrorist acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:29 PM
2

Refer to my original reply to OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:11 PM
7

Muslim countries already have this problem and they seem to like blowing shit up including themselves, soooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:06 PM
1

It's not their fault that nerdy Ben Shapiroesque guys are not really that attractive. Maybe work on embracing your inner bad boy a bit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:03 PM
6

I'm being fucking sarcastic you people! Jeez. I'm mocking the usual incel crowd here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:19 PM
6

Not more than their assholes after being rammed by 5 bbc in one night.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:56 PM
0

Half of the numbers were from the bbc gangbangs all in one weekend. It's true. Every single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:46 PM
2

I think if incels like the ones frequenting these subs become a majority, then getting sex for the rest of normal guys will be like shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:43 PM
2

Every woman I have dated and know has had at least a 100 partners and 10-20 bbc gangbangs by the time they are 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:40 PM
2

It's what is known as a covert contract meaning that only the guy is aware of the contract but not you. If he were to communicate to you that he wants to sleep with you, it will mean that he has to be honest, straightforward and have actual balls which is anthithetical to being a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:37 PM
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The guys who respond here obviously don't. But i think they represent a small minority of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:37 PM
1

Here is the real problem that is as evident as day and night to me. When guys say they'd fuck any woman who gives them a chance it shows to me just how low their self respect and self worth is. They value pussy higher than their dicks and as a result they get none. What woman will want to be with such pathetic loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:40 PM
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Your willingness to do this is why you have the problems you do. How do you know this woman isn't a diseased prostitute, a thief, a liar? Plus you are wrong about women. They absolutely do sleep with random men they met a few minutes ago. Again, sorry it has never happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:10 AM
1

Same for women dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:53 AM
1

Reading through the replies here I am lead to believe there are a 100 women for every guy, who had the balls to go out and meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:52 AM
1

There is always some broad who is ovulating lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:49 AM
1

Between more men being gay, in jail, in the army, etc, I think the real number of available men is even smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:37 AM
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They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:35 AM
1

Other than shitholes like India and China who have a different ratio due to killing female babies at birth. In developed countries it's the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:34 AM
1

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio Other than some conservative shit holes developed countries always have more women than men. It's a fucking fact. Deny all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:29 AM
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Harassed. Is that what you call choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:26 AM
1

Haha lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:24 AM
1

The data also says there are more women alive than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:22 AM
0

Don't get me wrong! I want you to be independent! I don't want to always be paying for everything and if you go home after we fuck that's like my dream. I don't need you to cook or clean either. I'm a a pretty good cook myself and have a Roomba.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:43 AM
1

People misunderstand the whole need for safety and protection. It's not logical the same way it's not logical for a man to want a hot woman with big boobs and round ass. If men really only cared about putting their dick in something warm and wet they'd go after some ugly ass broads or even better, just warm up a Mellon in the microwave and poke a hole in it. Women are naturally more hormonal and emotional than men. They crave deep down the strength and stability a man can bring regardless of inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:16 AM
3

:D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:07 AM
11

So you get to talk about vaginas and power tools?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:06 AM
2

Yes, there is a chemical exchange that happens and your body gets flooded with feel good hormones. It's good for you. That being said, you don't need it. Never need the pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:53 AM
5

When I was growing up my dad told me that he regretted picking up the accordion as an instrument. I asked him why? He said that in high school all the guys who played the guitar would get the girls. I picked up guitar when I turned 14 and have been playing ever since. He was right!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:04 AM
12

Someone is about to have their 30th birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:02 AM
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I will give you a hint. Most women spend about 90% of their time talking about guys. Where to meet them, who they hooked up with or wanted to hook up with, what clothes to buy for the guy, what the guy texted them on Bumble, where the hot guys are at, how to keep the guy, etc, etc, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:58 AM
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A bit of both maybe. If your primary way of meeting people is on the apps, you tend to only want to swipe on super attractive people and ignore everyone else. It's a mental thing and soon you start believing that's what you are entitled to even if it never pans out. But guys, boy, guys have really done a number on themselves. I've never seen such a depressed and rudderless generation as the ones that are alive right now. They are so brainwashed and pathetic and afraid that I have little to no ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:25 AM
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What women want to fuck too and hook up without getting serious? Nah can't be true!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:23 AM
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You think telling PPDers, a place full of incels and soon to be incels, to be positive is going to work? lol. These guys can't pull their heads out of their asses for long enough to listen to any useful advice other than be good looking, while regular guys from all walks of life around them are constantly hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:22 AM
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Yea sounds about right. Not all that different from women, who will never admit it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:20 AM
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Your problem is that you tie your self worth to financial success. If you see yourself as a loser and are ashamed of it, women will feel your vibe and will not want your. The broke dudes who clean up in the sex department have accepted who and what they are, warts and all, they have embraced their dark messy side and that's what makes them attractive. Not being Mr Perfectly Nice Guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:09 AM
1

Not every one is as desperate as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:13 PM
2

Then don't complain about the way of the world. Just accept that if you don't approach and you don't have a large social circle you don't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:26 PM
1

You are saying women should be the man because men are too big pussies to act like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:29 PM
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When women mean personality they mean a guy who is confident, has a direction in life, knows what he wants and is able to establish solid boundaries. Such a man will carry himself in a way that is instantly attractive even if he is not the best looking guy around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:57 PM
2

Here is the real problem. So many guys have developed the Nice Guy persona, the always pleasing, always supplicating, always self sacrificing Nice Guy that anything outside of that paradigm is considered being an asshole. A guy who tells his girlfriend to suck his dick is an asshole. How dare he not ask for consent and have her sign a document wjth at least two witnesses? A guy who takes a girl home after talking to her for half an hour at a bar. He must certainly have manipulated that poor inno…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:11 PM
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Only guys who don't have enough sexual experience say shit like this. They are so sex starved that any sex is good. When you've been around the block you can appreciate a woman who knows how to fuck and is uninhibited. Are guys scared that a slutty girl can differentiate between good dick (mine) and bad dick (theirs)?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:07 PM
0

These days a harem means dating a few women at the same time who are aware that there is no exclusivity. They can go after other men as well. They are free. It's tough to keep a harem going because they all fall in love with you and want to lick you down exclusively. Not to mention V day. How the hell do you do this when you are dating 3-4 women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:06 PM
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In my current country men (locals) do it really approach women. I haven't seen it save for some creepy guy in the park and myself of course. Most people here meet through social circles that they've had for years. Also enough with the narrative that women have more choices than men. The female to male ratio is 50:50 pretty much anywhere in the world. It is statistically impossible that the average men and average women have more choices than the other. If the male to female ratio was like 80:20,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:49 AM
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Let me put it this way, men are much less forgiving about a woman's looks and body than the other way around. We are more forgiving when it comes to neediness and insecurity, and women are not. I guess it's all shades of grey as opposed to black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:04 AM
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Sure, both sexes are visually stimulated, but let's be real, it's not the pretty boys that turn women on. There are plenty good looking guys that don't get laid. Even some of the incel terrorists when you look at a photo of them are actually quite okay looking and not the deformed Quasimodos they think of themselves as. It's a man's behavior and how we carries himself that makes all the difference. Don't care what anyone else says. I've experienced it myself. I'm quite good looking and there was…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:44 AM
2

Never heard of that. I know in some you steal the bride, but never heard of a groom paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:12 AM
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Let's be real here. In the last many cultures had a dowry which was paid by the brides family to the grooms family. A way of "take her off my hands please I will pay you for it".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:53 AM
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Men are as much victims as women. Nowadays it's all about subjugating masculine power. Men are shamed, terms like toxic masculinity are thrown around, me too, me three. It is easy to figure out. Just like female sexuality, society is threatened by masculine sexuality and power. Society doesn't want a bunch of average guys running around fucking the best chicks. They want those hot girls reserved only for the highest achieving males in order to motivate every guy to work hard and propel society f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:47 AM
1

Keep thinking like this. More broads for me and my friends. I can't believe guys like you exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:32 AM
5

It's not normal to not be selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:07 AM
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Stop try to figure women out with your male brain. The best thing you can do is go read a Harlequin book (as punishment).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:06 AM
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I can see you problem clearly like night and day. It will take some time to solve but you can do it with the right guidance. And no it has nothing to do with your height, race, looks, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:14 AM
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I'm very happy with my life but I also never stop growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:53 AM
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Or, or, hear me out on this one. Or, you could create your own rules and communicate them clearly to them woman and let her worry whether you want to have sex with her, instead of playing by her rules and jumping through her hoops. A rule like, if we haven't had sex by the third date I'm out of here, or a rule like "I don't know if I want to have sex yet because I don't know you that well and I may not want to have sexual with you after I get to know you". Or, you could be wary of women for tryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:52 AM
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It's just a joke dude relax
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:26 AM
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Studies like these make me really really sad. I used to think there were 3-5 girls for every guy. Such studies and reading PPD make me think there are a 1000 girls for every guy. But the fucked up thing is I am married and can't partake anymore :( :( :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:43 PM
5

Thick facial hair is a sign of high testosterone, so it's a no brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:41 PM
2

So was anyone with tattoos. And these are often the hottest guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:41 PM
1

Being a pathetic loser and not having respect for porn actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:38 PM
1

Just saying these things are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:12 PM
0

Would you marry someone like that if you were a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:47 PM
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As I said in another thread, men cannot figure out what women are thinking with their logical male brains. It's an exercise in futility but they sure keep trying. On the other hand, women have men figured out pretty easily. Yes, we mostly only want you for sex and then to turn around and go to sleep while you should yourself out. We are not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:46 PM
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They are ashamed of watching porn. It's an addiction that is deeply associated with toxic shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:43 PM
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Well that's another failing of the red pill. Don't show emotions, be a robot, don't show that you care. If guys just showed that they appreciate a woman that they are happy she is in their lives, they could go on and have harems and women would tolerate it because they are getting their needs fulfilled even without exclusivity. But men suppress their emotional needs because its perceived as weak. What is weak is being afraid to be vulnerable, which is the crux of the problem . Guys don't believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:23 AM
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Just every guy I talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:10 AM
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Here is something I've learned in my 40 years on this earth. Trying to understand women with our logical male brains is a futile exercise. Whatever you think you know about how women think or want is wrong. Just get over it. The only thing you can do is work on yourself so you can be a person YOU respect and admire and then women wanting to be with you is a nice byproduct of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:20 AM
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Again, if your best friend or SO never answered your calls, never wanted to hang out or listen to you vent, etc., that selfless love would be lost quickly enough. There is no negative connotation with what I said. That's a meaning you and OP decided to assign by on my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:17 AM
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An alpha is a guy who is totally okay with who he is no matter if he has a dark side or not, which we all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:30 PM
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I mean you can let randos in the internet shame you or you could chase whatever girls you want as long as they are legal. Fuck whatever the moral police says. They don't know what's good for you. Most of them are salty that guys want to chase after young chicks instead of their wrinkly asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:56 PM
2

Yeah you are probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:35 PM
4

Yes, guys do that all the time and so do women. I've been with a few MILFS/cougars and some missed out on hooking up in their 20s for whatever reason and they were lusting after younger guys to recreate that sense of carefreeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:34 PM
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That's what I tell guys. It's not about being a jerk to women, it's about being nice to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:31 PM
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You didn't understand a word of my post. Thanks for participating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:43 AM
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Here is what you are kind of missing. Female high status is always directly correlated with relative hotness. No average or so so woman is usually at the top of the hierarchy with more sexually attractive women below her. It's always the hot one that's the top of the food chain and then less attractive females down the chain. So the fact that the top guys go for these girls is not so much a function of the girls high status in her social circle but her relative sexual attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:57 AM
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I always used to go out alone. Best chances of success for many reasons including what you just said.0
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:14 AM
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You are mutually benefitting from the friendship. Stop trying to deny reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:11 AM
2

Hello, covid? The US basically disintegrated into a madmax movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:07 AM
1

Good strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:06 AM
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The nice guy thing is very different than simply having good manners. It is a way of behaving in order to get something. Nice guys believe that others want them to be nice and polite and self sacrificing and that they need to act like this in order to get love and acceptance. So they create a fake persona of niceness, self sacrifice, etc., in order to hide their "ugly" real self. At least they have convinced themselves their real self is ugly and unacceptable. Which is why you hear guys say "I'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:44 AM
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My advice and it's the same advice I give to guys (just in reverse) is go out where the type of guys you want to meet are hanging out. If you like brainy types, go to the library. If you like bad boys, go to a motorcycle rally. Decide what type of guy you want and what you want to do with him (ons, FWB, boyfriend, husband material, etc), figure out where they are and go hang out there. Eventually you will meet them or they will approach you. You have to be on a mission and know exactly what you …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:40 AM
1

In most developed countries, bar India and China who kill their female babies at an alarming rate, the female to male ratio is always in favor of men. That is, there are more women than men out there. Include the fact that there seem to be more gay men than lesbians, more men in jail, the military or guys who die early, and the pool of men gets even smaller. These are the statistics you are not thinking about but you should. You should be thinking about why 90% if shops in a mall cater to female…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:37 AM
1

Here are two major differences between men and women. In the caveman days men had to go out and hunt. They had to quickly communicate logical cold facts to the other hunters in as few words as possible, calculate how to throw a spear in order to kill an animal and so on and so forth. That's why males have a very well developed logical brain and in modern times, the outliers become the nerds and geeks who invent stuff and send us into space. On the other hand, the cavewomen were responsible for r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:32 AM
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They not only don't like women for anything other than sex, they actively hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:23 AM
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While it's a very reductionist and cynical way of viewing relationships they are not far from the truth. Relationships are mutually beneficial agreements. There is always an exchange of something, including with your best friend for example. You exchange love, affection, sex, company, making the other person feel safe etc in order to get your own needs met as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:20 AM
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Don't listen to a word they say, it's all lies. Of course they compete for men's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:18 AM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 07:19 PM
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As I always say, men and women date each other not a third party. So it's not a competition. That being said, women have advantage due to the way they are raised. They are told early on: "don't believe a word these assholes say, they are only trying to get you in bed", while boys are told "be nice to girls, treat them well, their shit don't stink". So women grow up to be skeptical of men and not believe anything a man tells them. Men grow up and all they know is how to be nice to women because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:02 PM
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That is exactly the issue 99% of guys have. I may have told my story before, but I grew up in Eastern Europe and was a depressed skinny acne ridden guy and I lost my virginity with a girl who approached me, who took me to her dad's office to give me a BJ and so and so forth. My two best friends fucked her two best friends and I was the last to lose the V card with her. In HS we just hung out with the opposite sex all the time. And then I moved to the US and NYC specifically and my social circle …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:54 PM
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Kids are easy to make. It doesn't take much literally. Raising them is a whole another thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:58 AM
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Yep story of my life. The other thing is the transition from a girl to a woman is natural. A girl gets her first period and she is now biologically a woman. A boy doesn't quite get that transition so that's why I'm ancient and primitive cultures there was a rite of passage for boys to men. Boys were separated from their mothers, made to face a challenge, then they were accepted back into the tribe, given a list of rules and celebrated as a man. Nowadays, boys learn about sex and relationships fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 07:15 AM
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Men are too stupid to be manipulative. We don't have the mental capacity and skill for it. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:15 PM
5

You seem to know a lot about manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:10 PM
1

It's typically the other way around but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:03 PM
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I don't know man. Maybe it is different in the US. Where I grew up girls would literally push themselves up on boys. My first gf approached me and offered to give me a bj in her dad's office. They are just as horny as we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:46 PM
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I'm a they
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:41 PM
1

I guess my thinking was more around the lines of letting women get away with murder just because.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:33 PM
1

We're you taught to look both ways when crossing a street? Or not to take candy from a stranger? There are a lot of things we are taught that go against our primal instincts, so it is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:27 PM
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But that's because they haven't been given any direction when they were young. Teen girls want to fuck anything too (I've been catcalled by an SUV full of teen girls, they are animals) but they have had better advice. It's never too late to start thinking along these terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:23 PM
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Hahahah lololo yes these are all my wife's girlfriends now!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:03 PM
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They are dating 50 year olds and getting paid to do it ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:41 PM
2

Lol, only if she was genetically blessed to still be somewhat attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:30 PM
1

Touché!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:27 PM
2

Very typical toxic shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:26 PM
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Nothing has changed. It has always been like this. It's just that men are not properly taught to have boundaries and to be mistrustful of women like they are being taught. A teen girl is told to guard her pussy with her life. A boy is given the message that his dick doesn't matter and has no value, so he is willing to stick it in all kinds of shit women. Why? Why don't men stop to think "do I want to fuck this woman? What if she is a liar, manipulator, thief, a whore? Why would I want to do that…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:26 PM
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The assumption is that the real you is a piece of shit that no one will ever love isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:00 PM
1

It's supposed to be "that's what she said"! ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:58 AM
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Don't let fear run your life buddy. How can people hurt you exactly? By making fun of you? For something they are probably feeling themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:48 AM
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I don't disagree. And nothing is stopping men from adopting this attitude and being wary of women as a whole and giving them a hard time until they prove themselves worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:46 AM
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Gag
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:40 AM
1

What does someone not being able to stand up to disrespect have to do with how good looking or not they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:20 AM
1

Losers who were fucking the hot young chicks? Yeah right, that's what you thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:21 AM
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I will summarize the difference between how men and women are raised. A father tells his daughter: watch out for these assholes, they will try to do anything to get in your pants, don't believe a word they say. A mother tells her son: be nice to those girls, treat them well and do everything they tell you to. No parents tells their son: watch out for these girls, they will manipulate you and use you for your time, money and attention. Protect yourself. But isn't this exactly what parents should …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:11 AM
0

What does any of this have to do with looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 08:56 AM
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Interesting! I was just thinking about something similar. It started with my discovery of No More Mr Nice Guy, Dr. Robert Glover's seminal work. The basic premise of the book is that people develop a fake persona, the nice guy, who is pleasant, perfect, a people pleaser, in order to cover up their perceived flaws and weaknesses that they assume will get them rejected. Lots of people then discover PUA and TRP and they are told, women don't like nice guys, you have to be an alpha male tough guy in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 08:41 AM
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No, the guy was a true alpha. Always in control of the situation. Something to learn from instead of scoff at.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:07 AM
1

Enough with the incel shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:35 AM
1

There is a saying as old as time. Treat a whore like a queen and a queen like a whore. Here is someone who wants to be a queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:41 AM
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Yes and no. When I had my harem before I got married, I wasn't trying as hard to perform and bring women to orgasm but I enjoyed sex although I was getting a lot of it. There was no fear of loss of you performed badly, but I made up for it by being that much more relaxed and curious about the bodies of the girls I was seeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 05:09 PM
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Eh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:36 PM
1

Yes it was a Chadfishing experiment. No sure it's legit but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:33 PM
1

Read the second link about how differently women get treated with make up vs no make up. With no make up they are virtually invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:18 PM
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https://www.boredpanda.com/girls-with-without-makeup-quora/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:10 PM
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There are certain traits that make a man a man. Yes, certain women will only go for rockstars and billionaires and they will never look at anyone else. God bless them, but they are such a minority (as are rock stars and gazillionaires) that it doesn't statistically matter. Here are the qualities that make a man a man and thus attractive to enough women that you can have a new one every week. Know what you want out of life and out of meeting women. What is your objective? Make a decision and foll…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:03 PM
0

Retaining baby makers makes you crazy bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:55 PM
1

Again, women need to wear make up just to get out of the house. Even if it is not a lot like on these photos. I've had women who don't want to sleep next to me because they have to wake up the next day and I will have to see them without make up. Happens all the time. Women who look great without make up are so rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:49 PM
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It's not the main motivation, but I have not met a woman who wants to look less pretty than her man. Men are naturally better looking than women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:47 PM
1

There are many more examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:45 PM
0

Lots of women do those things IN ADDITION to make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:41 PM
1

I've heard women say they do t want a guy who is prettier than they are. Not saying it's the main motivation though, you are right. The primary motivation is competing with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:40 PM
2

Maybe it's because you can only convey looks through photos and not confidence, authority and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:36 PM
1

Don't even look at it as a woman giving you sex or letting you have sex with her. That implies that the dick you are giving her in return is worth less. It's not. Plus women get more out of sex anyway. They can have multiple orgasms, multiple kinds of orgasms, they have erogenous zones all over their bodies. Me are much simpler and we typically ejaculate once and then turn over and go to sleep. So a woman is not really giving me anything. It's more like I'm letting her have amazing sexy with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:14 PM
1

No they are not. Men and women want the same thing. Each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:11 PM
1

Yes, I think this was my point. Women out on make up because it is important they are perceived as prettier than men. Men don't have the same need to be pretty. If a chick only wants to date pretty tall men, she is welcome to. She may find out that most of them are gay though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:08 PM
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You could wear platform shoes, shoulder pads, pad your chest and butt (or do implants). You can do jaw surgery and injections to get your jaw square looking. Something lots of women do. Why don't men do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:48 AM
2

I linked to the specific comment, not the post. The comment offered a female perspective on a guy who takes his time to get to know a woman before he sleeps with her. But it also gives the OP a blueprint of how to do this and still be in control instead of getting strung along which happens a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:05 AM
1

A lot of them look butt ugly. If women stopped wearing make up, push up bras and high heels, men would be running in the opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:03 AM
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Yes, because they have to do all of this just to get out of the house. Think about the bottomless insecurity you need to feel in order to go out and alter your body with implants, injections and scalpels. In men, only incels are willing to subject themselves to that kind of torture.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:02 AM
2

Just look at the photos and think how many of the women you see on a daily basis actually look like this underneath all the cake. Stop selling yourself short.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:59 AM
3

I think you are in the wrong thread hunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:49 AM
6

In reality there is a shortage of men. Between the female population being slightly more in most developed countries, more men dying earlier and being in jail, the pool of available men is actually much smaller than the pool of women out there. The real issue is that guys keep selling themselves short. You have as much value as any woman out there. Your dick is as valuable as any vagina. But most men are too busy beating themselves up and being thirsty to realize some of these immutable truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:47 AM
-1

Selling yourself short is for sure changeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:42 AM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:41 AM
1

I like when women chase me and want to simp. That's how the world should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:53 AM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:15 AM
3

It was a sarcastic comment, but yes, I happened to be happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:08 AM
1

It should help you feel confident because you know you can give them something of value. It makes you a commodity in demand. Stop thinking that women are giving YOU anything of value. They are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:47 AM
5

No you can't express your desire for a woman directly and make her feel like a lady. You got to treat her like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:06 PM
4

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/liwzle/buzzkills_in_old/gndvola/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:46 PM
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There is the Cinderella effect. A 5 is being the center of attention so she starts thinking she's a 10. That's what's happening with the social media craze. If guys just started ignoring these women, they would never have any dating problems ever again and women would be beating a path to their front door.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:38 PM
1

It's just a figure of speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:46 PM
2

No, the exact opposite of that lol. Women are most certainly the predatorial pursuers and we men choose from the ones that are after us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:08 PM
1

I guess the key thing that separates men from the boys is behavior and conduct which is impossible to convey via photos (you can convey some confidence and authority). It's the same reason most women can get turned on by a steamy romance novel but porn might not do much for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:48 AM
-2

Lol threatened by a mechanized toy I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:00 AM
2

Okay I see
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:19 AM
0

Imagine the confidence you will develop if you knew how to make a woman orgasm like crazy coupled with the knowledge that majority of them either don't orgasm or their orgasms are underwhelming?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:18 AM
1

They struggle to find a guy who will give them the best fuck of their life. This should be encouraging to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:04 AM
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Because if women are not enjoying sex what's the point of even being interested in boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:00 AM
-1

T-girls also don't have female sexual organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:00 AM
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The study refers to post meno women. In the gen pop, estrogen is responsible for female sexual arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:59 AM
1

I think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:40 AM
3

Testosterone is a male sexual hormone, not sure what it has to do with female arousal. There is no proven link.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:10 AM
5

I think the assumption is that once the man gets off you and rolls over to sleep, women finish off with their hand or vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:08 AM
12

Are there any men who are good enough for a FDS follower?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:07 AM
1

Okay so nothing more than social programming then? Not something t that's innate in our DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:07 AM
3

That's just....sad :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:45 AM
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Many people claim that women are just not that horny. It's a discussion, so let's discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:44 AM
-2

Well duh. For a woman to even be able to choose a guy she must be attractive herself. But that's not the point. The point as a man you can either be the effect, the pickme who hopes to be chosen, or you can be the cause, the guy who chooses. Guess which one has higher chances of success?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:31 AM
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What are they expected to choose? Who gave you that idea? Is it based in reality or just something that has been passed on from generation to generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:30 AM
3

You can definitely go at least 2 steps up the scale. If you are a 5 you can get a 7. If you are a 7 you can get a 9 and so forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:14 AM
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Women are definitely not the selectors and you really have it all wrong. Decades of social brainwashing has made men lose all of their power and self esteem. That's the real issue. You put women on a pedestal and while most of them enjoy the power that comes with it, they are also super frustrated and sad that there are no real men around. Most of these women settle for the guy with the better car, but don't make a mistake. They SETTLE! I can't teach you through text how men actually have the po…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:08 AM
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Males do dominate and that's the natural order of things but it has been skewed nowadays due to social conditioning and brainwashing. Want to be more attractive to women? Stop trying to get them and stop being so overly interested in them. When women sense that you could take them or leave them and are not all that interested, but you are still a cool guy, they will instinctually try to win you over. Why? Because the male of the species is the true prize. We just don't act like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:59 AM
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Wrong. In the animal kingdom the male is almost always more attractive than the female. Lions, bucks, stallions, roosters, etc. they are more majestic, bigger, have more power and speed. I have not met many men who need make up and push up bras just to get out of the house. You severely overestimate the beauty of women and that results in putting them on a pedestal they don't deserve to be on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:35 AM
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In the animal kingdom especially marsupials, almost all males are much better looking than the females. Lions, bucks, stallions, roosters and on and on. I have yet to meet a guy who needs to put on make up or a push up bra just to get out of the house. We don't need to. We are beautiful without those things and with minimal grooming. That's why I see absolutely no reason for the low self esteem most men have. They just need to see the reality for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:12 PM
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But here is the problem. Why do so many (all?) women report that they have many suitors but one of them are attractive. What happened to men that they have nothing sexy about them to interest a woman? That's the big problem in my opinion. Realistically women can only choose from the guys who choose them and approach them and in real life men almost don't approach
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:03 PM
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Many people on this sub complain about the supposed power mismatch between men and women. They claim women have hundreds of suitors, but upon closer inspection it turns out that none of these guys are of any interest. It is the equivalent of all the fat and homely women wanting you. Yes, it may be a bit flattering, but at the end of the day so what? As a matter of fact, I bet that most guys have plenty of women interested in them that they are not interested in. It's just not as noticeable becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:01 PM
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Men are not listening to their instincts anymore. They have all been covered by layers and layers of social brainwashing, shaming, metoo, political correctness and cancel culture. It is a wash. They have completely neutered men and no one is happy. Men are not happy and women are not happy because there are no real men left.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:57 PM
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For me I get the feeling that I'd be fucking a corpse if I were to fuck them. Both because they just lay there and because the pussy is literally cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:55 PM
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Social programming and shame. Example, red pillers want nothing more than get laid more and have sex with multiple women. Yet they can't help themselves but slut shame any woman who is even willing to have sex with them, this shooting themselves in the ass. The more they shame women for sleeping my around, the less these women will want to do it and hence the less sex these idiots are going to get. All of this leads to society telling women they should like/want/behave lie one thing, when in rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:07 PM
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A lot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:30 AM
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Women will absolutely woo guys if you are type of guy who is attractive to the opposite sex. Guys need to understand that the typical provider, the guy who asks women out on dates and is constantly pursuing them and trying to convince them to sleep with him or be in a relationship with him, that there is nothing sexy about him. Men who are sexy get wooed all the time. I will give you an example. Yes, I approached my wife and I initiated the first date. However I was dating two other women at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:37 AM
2

I am good looking so I don't have the problems you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:18 PM
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It is very easy. Women are super competitive and they compete for the best men out there. The more beautiful they are the more likely they are to be selected by the type of man they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:15 PM
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Here is feedback for you. You go and try to get laid. If you get laid that's good feedback. If you don't, that's feedback that you need to try a different strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:14 PM
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Actually the biggest reason those guys don't get laid is precisely because they treat sex like it's the most important thing on earth. If they started acting more non-challant towards pussy, they'd be getting laid left and right. Being a slave to a 2"x3" piece of flesh with a hole in it is not a great way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:36 AM
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Another guy trying to figure out what women want using their logical male brain. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:32 AM
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If you read my posts you will know I am not an ironic type of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:54 AM
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Have a purpose in life, know what you want, don't make excuses for who you are and what you want and go through life with a sense of direction. Men get hung up on looks, height, money, but at the end of the day women want a guy who is not a fucking excuser and who can be confident and self assured, because it makes them feel safe and comfortable. There is no way that a guy who is ashamed of his own existence because he is not 6' or makes multiple six figures is going to be attractive to women. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:52 PM
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That's the thing. Guys hear personality and they think, okay I'm funny, I am not retarded, I have interests and hobbies, I'm inoffensive, blah blah blah. Women say personality and they think: a guy who is confident enough to go through life and take what he wants and who is not fucking shy and making excuses for existing. And yes, the latter is sometimes brash and loud and offensive, but it is for sure not one thing and that thing is boring and predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:06 PM
2

If people spent the same time and energy taking responsibility for their own lives as they did complaining, they'd be much far ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:51 PM
2

Your reality is whatever you believe it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:41 PM
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Literally nothing is stopping men from having high standards and knowing what they want. Literally nothing. No excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:52 AM
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Literally no 7 guy is giving a 3 any interest. Only in your incel imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:32 AM
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We have a joke in the old country: Why are women so bad at parallel parking? Because they've been lied to their entire lives how long 10" really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:31 AM
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There is nothing stopping men from having high expectations and standards. Literally nothing. And guess what? The more successful a man is with women the higher his standards and lower his tolerance for BS. I think there is more than correlation here. I think there is clear causation. Why is that the men who are willing to sleep with anything that has a warm hole, the ones having the most trouble getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:25 AM
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Again, what you perceive as easy is something that has been in the works since they were little girls. Since the ratio of women and men is 50:50 and women sleep with men and vice versa, it is a practical impossibility that things are easier for women and not for men. Again, who are all these women supposedly having sex with? The same 5 guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:22 AM
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That's interesting. I always tell guys who complain that women have it easy and as a man they need to work out, make money, have impeccable hair, huge dick and whatever other excuse they can find that being a woman and an attractive woman at that is fucking hard work. Even the regular ones you see on every day life spend 3 hours in the bathroom every day, they get started with Botox and injections when they are young or as soon as they can afford it. A cosmetic place opened up down the street fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:42 AM
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Sounds like Saudi Arabia. With no women to ogle at we will start blowing up random shit I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:53 AM
6

You don't see the problem with that type of thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:35 AM
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Cause men have little balls to leave a woman who is not doing it for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:52 PM
0

Easy solution. Don't date. Just give up dating. Hanging out at my place with store bought drinks and some take out is a much better option and we can get to the hanky panky much faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:36 PM
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Casual sex gets easier the less you "need it". Younger guys can't put their erections away for 5 mins to figure out how to stay in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:32 PM
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Women are not getting g fucked properly, otherwise they wouldn't be so frustrated and look so mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:52 PM
5

Then enjoy always being rejected and being sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:44 AM
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Bullshit, everyone knows men are super rational and they never think with their small heads. That's a fact, don't argue with it. It's why you never hear of men paying for sex or spending their fortune on a woman. Never happens, because men are super good at filtering out shitty women who take advantage of them. We never ever think with our genitalia and let horniness make us do stupid things. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:43 AM
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Do you know why that is? Imagine you are a woman, weak upper body strength, basically even the scrawniest guy can take you unless you were a super trained MMA fighter. You need to walk through a bad neighborhood at night. Who would you pick - the bad boy who looks like he can kick some ass, or the safe, nice guy accountant? Who will make you feel safer? There is your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:36 AM
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If being a nice guy is not getting you anything in life, why are you so emotionally attached to that identity? Why do you protect it, why do you refuse to accept things as they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:00 AM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:59 AM
0

You have to consider the poster. Most of them are desperate incels and literally anything that has boobs will do for them, because it's better than their hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:46 AM
1

Sure you gotta live with the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:22 PM
1

I have a few female friends from past jobs I talk to and have no desire to fuck them although they may harbor some desire to fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:22 PM
1

The amount of chemical and visual information you exchange from meeting someone in person is infinitely complex. Take for example confidence. Everyone can agree that male confidence is an extremely attractive trait to women akin to big boobs for men. How does confidence look? What does it smell like? Well, a confident man will give off a million of micro body language indicators that will tell any woman "I know who I am, I know what I am doing and I know women are attracted to me". Is this a sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:19 PM
1

True that! Sacrifice your individual needs and wants for the benefit of society. It's actually easier to go and get the woman you want rather than spend your youth studying and working 16 hour days to get a good job, but a nice watch and a car and show off your status symbols so you can get a better looking woman. However, one path benefits only you. The other path moves society forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:58 AM
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You can't change human nature. You can repress it, shame it, try to control it, but at the end of the day women were built by god/evolution to shack up with the strongest and most capable male. The second they feel that a man has lost his balls, they will lose interest. Maybe they won't leave right away, maybe they will stay because they have invested too much in the relationship, they are ashamed or there are social and religious reasons for not bailing out. But that's the same as with a man wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:48 AM
-2

Complaining and whining about stuff admits that you are powerless. People who have power get shit done not complain. See where the problem is?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:37 AM
1

Maybe she used you as a stepping stone to becoming a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:05 AM
0

So what has complaining gotten you? Please be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:04 AM
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Someone has to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:00 AM
1

But you've accepted the fact that you are desirable and you have gone after what you want even if that means a steady FWB or GF. I didn't say that you need to have harems, but you do need to have choices and the more the better. My point in my OP was that you can either sit around and whine about how unattractive men don't get attention (du'h) and keep identifying yourself with these type of guys, or you can accept the fact that a certain type of man (one who is actually a man) tends to have muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 09:08 AM
1

Of course, I am talking figuratively in a way. The more choice you have, the more choice you have. Yes, most people end up with someone and there truly is someone for everyone. But if you could choose to be a beautiful girl who can have any man she wants or a homely average girl who can have a homely average guy, which one would you rather be?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:36 AM
1

Well the more choice you have, the more likely you will find someone who is a good fit for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:26 AM
-1

You can tell of a man is a man even in a static photo. I've shown pictures of my friends to various GF (my friends live in a different country) and they can tell to a T who is the wanna be and who the real player is (one of my friends changed women like he changes his socks). All of this from a photo. So it's not just the looks, it's the vibe you give off. Vibe cannot be faked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:27 AM
1

I mean it's a bit weird but men like youth and the juvenile bubbly behavior is an indicator of this. It's more of a fantasy and fetish than anything, just like a guy acting like a dumb, rough Neanderthal and dragging a woman to his cave might be for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:02 AM
6

Many women fantasize about being high class hookers. I believe that secretly they all want to be hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:00 AM
5

So that's your excuse this week? Let me know when you have run all out of excuses and maybe I can teach you a thing or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:39 PM
6

Dude, not every guy is a total loser with women. Sorry that this has been your reality, but maybe you have to admit to yourself that you are not all that attractive as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:54 PM
2

Hmmm, I never thought about it this way, interesting insight!!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:46 PM
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Keep in mind when men say "women" we mean the 20% or so that we find attractive enough and excludes the 80% that are too old, too fat or just too plain unattractive to even acknowledge as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:55 PM
5

You think being a woman is easy? If you were lucky enough to be born with good genes you basically have a few years from when you are 15 to about 30+ when you are in your prime. Even that involves constant waxing, dieting, plucking, creams, make up, hair products, clothes for every single day and occasion, perfumes, fake tits, fake lips, a fake ass, fake eyelashes, spending 3 hours in the bathroom everyday. And even then you go out all made up and all you can meet are excusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:53 PM
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Dude there is a lot of grey space between an outlaw biker with full body tattoos and a criminal record longer than a Russian novel and Caspar Milquetoast. The same way there is a lot of ground between a fat, unattractive woman and Kim Kardashian (or whatever other sex symbol you want to use as an example). There a lot of women with successful dating lives that don't have a humongous bubble ass and a pair of double Ds. The same way there a ton of men who are very successful and are not super musc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:43 PM
1

I for one like sluts. They know how to fuck. You can take your virgins who can't distinguish between good and bad dick, just as you want. But one day they will start wondering how this guy or that guy's dick tastes like and they may end up liking it much better than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 10:55 AM
5

Your comment history is a hoot but this takes the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:45 AM
10

Please don't shatter his illusion that a pretty girl with an ass and boobs has her life figured out and has unlimited power to get whatever she wants when she wants. If he started seeing you as a human being wjth insecurities and problems his poor brain might not be able to handle it. Be gentle!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:57 AM
1

It's not muscle you should worry about as much as testosterone which will come from lifting heavy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 08:14 PM
1

Porn is definitely detrimental. Not from a moral standpoint or anything but exactly for the things you said. But the real problem is social conditioning. The conditioning you hear about everywhere, that man is bad, man is toxic masculinity, #metoo, blah blah blah. So boys grow up ashamed of being themselves, ashamed of wanting to fuck chicks and chicks buy into the same brainwashing by shaming boys for wanting to fuck them. So you have boys who don't grow up to be men because they reject the ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:35 PM
1

I completely agree. I've tried giving guys online dating advice (photos, bio, interactions) and to a T the ones who struggle never want to take any advice, they don't want to "change". They want to stay the same low effort loser they have always been but also take a magic pill that will make them successful. If all guys just realized that: A. There is nothing wrong with you, you are okay as you are B. Build a lifestyle you enjoy living and don't look to women to make your life better or rescue y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:30 PM
2

I've said many time before, but women get more out of sex than men do. They have sensual nerve endings all over their bodies, can have several kinds of and multiple orgasms sometimes lasting minutes one after the other and can even satisfy multiple men at the same time. We guys have a dick and once we come that's it for at least another 15-30 mins depending on your shape and age. So who is really getting the lion share of the sex cake here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:21 PM
0

All I got from your post is "women are victims and taken advantage all the time and they can't make their own decisions when it comes down to sex". Spare me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:18 PM
2

So if women obtain sex so easily, don't by extension men as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:02 PM
1

So those guys do get laid after all?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 11:53 AM
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If the statistic that you guys quote that 90% of men go dateless and never have sex, then their blood lines would cease to exist and the world will soon become a place full of Chad offspring. That hasn't happened yet, so your theory is a bunch of BS. The reason many men struggle with dating is because they have convinced themselves that women don't need them, that they are worthless and that video games and porn are an acceptable way to spend their time. They are literally taking themselves out …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 09:39 AM
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Absolutely! What people say they want and what they actually want are two sometimes opposite things. Never let your SO read you like and open book and know all your secrets. You will be bored with each other very fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 08:07 AM
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You and me brother/sister, you and me. Thank god things are reopening in my neck of the woods, I can start going back to the gym so I will eventually stop frequenting these mind numbing internet cesspools.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:09 PM
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I though incel stuff was banned here. Do I have to report you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:06 PM
1

Men are way too aggressive in my humble opinion. Yes, you have the weird nerds who sit home and play video games all day and wack off to hentai porn but most normal men pursue women way too much. If they stopped paying attention to them and reacting to every little thing some thot on Instagram posted, women would be beating a path to their doors and they'd never have dating problems again. The issue is, most men act like they don't have any women in their lives and the woman they are talking to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:05 PM
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How is this loser mindset working out for you right now on your own country?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:00 PM
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Yes, but not in the way you describe it. The way you describe it men are still striving for an external validation of their authority, whether they are a leader, the captain of the football team or a company CEO. These guys derive their status from external things which are ultimately not under their control. Guys who behave high status, like they own the place and are the most important person there will score with women regardless of their external status. It is the same as if a woman who is o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 11:28 AM
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But it's certainly not the norm is it? Wouldn't you say that the mainstream man believes he needs to achieve certain level of success and acquire certain status symbols before he is seen as able to date an attractive women? Wouldn't you say that the average man feels ashamed of himself and inadequate unless he has acquired socially approved success? And magically once he gets a six figure job, a nice house and car he can all of a a sudden feel confident and powerful? What changed really?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 10:43 AM
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Disagree! Society does give a shit. If an average man with an average salary scores a hot woman and impregnates her, society will be destroyed, because that man will have no incentive to work hard and achieve super human feats in order to get the hot woman. He just bypassed all of this and achieved the result without all the hard work. This society will lose all men who propel it forward with hard work and inventions motivated by the desire to get better women. Also, if women were happy with how…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 10:27 AM
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I am describing the prevalent social conditioning we all have been exposed to since we are children. Even hard core trpers who claim to be awakened to the truth all maintain that you should lift hard, make money, buy the trendiest clothes and other status symbols, watches, cars, whatever, in order to impress women. They are just buying extra hard into the conditioning that already exists which says "hard work = sex." I am also saying most men will not allow themselves to feel confident or proud …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:14 AM
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The standard social brainwashing is this: Men work hard to obtain status symbols so they can allow themselves to feel confident and go after desirable women. Women work hard to afford clothes and make up in order to allow themselves to feel beautiful enough to go after desirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 08:22 AM
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Why the self hate though? Do you really hate being a guy so much? You know they can fix that in places like Thailand for about $10K.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:29 AM
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In other words: everyone else is having sex but me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:45 AM
1

I've been called worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:44 AM
2

Stripper. What was the question again?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 08:57 PM
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I think you are reading what you want to read in my post instead of what I actually wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 08:22 PM
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What did I do now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:03 PM
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Yeah, this is not a democracy buddy. If they want someone else to do these things, they should marry another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:27 PM
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Dude, women were built for sex. They have sensual nerve endings all over their bodies, they can experience multiple kinds of orgasms and multiple orgasms in a row. Compared to women, we, men, are like an 8bit computer and they are a top of the line gaming rig. Stop fooling yourself with this idea that men get more out of sex than women. It's complete and utter BS that has been propagated by society and religion to control you and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:01 PM
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It's because they are free of social constraints. They don't submit to what society tells them they should be like good and nice boys who are easy to control, tax and manipulate into working to their deaths for the good of society (but not their own good). With women being so repressed themselves they yearn for a guy who can give them a taste of that freedom and excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:13 PM
1

Yeah but you are a Chad. Says so below your username.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:10 PM
1

I think it's more losers vs winners. Winners take responsibility for their lives, they go after what they want confidently and without shame. Losers complain about cock carousels, walls, hypergamy and not getting any when they were teens. Basically all of trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:09 PM
1

In originally from Eastern Europe and have dated and fucked white, black, Latin, Asian, Indian, Muslim, Eastern European, American, Western European, Mexican, Brazilian (one didn't even speak a lick of English), Peruvian, you name it! Yes, there are cultural differences. Yes, it will be harder to meet people in certain places, because people are more sexually repressed, or some places are more family oriented. But at the end of the day, people look for the same things every where you go. A woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:07 PM
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Women are way grosser than men when they talk about this stuff you just never hear about them. This shaming is just another way for society to control you and make you into an always losing nice boy who is easy to control, tax and manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:01 PM
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Nothing to do with this. It's how much they value themselves and whether they bring more to the table than their ass. Men worship sex with women so much that women think the only value they need to bring to a relationship is their vagina. But high quality guys who have been around with many women start valuing other things, such as how nice she is, how well she treats him, is she fun, is she contributing positively to his life, is her credit score good, etc. The ones that only bring pussy to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:59 PM
2

Smell as well as taste allows us to exchange chemical information about each other. Want to be more attractive to women? Increase your testosterone levels. That is scientifically proven to attract more women who are ovulating and ready to copulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:51 PM
1

How sex works: why we look, smell and taste the way we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:48 PM
1

Look up the book How Sex Works: Why we look, taste and smell the way we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:59 PM
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I've met plenty of women who can fake confidence but never one with true confidence. It's the stability, the ability to be immovable and unpersuadable as a mountain that I refer to. Women's emotions are too over the place to be like that which is why they seek out confident men. We complement each other with qualities we miss in ourselves. Men seek out the softness, warmth and smoothness of women that they miss in their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:55 PM
2

When Inused to live in NYC it was pussy heaven. There are more single women than men and women are aggressive and horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:28 PM
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All this stuff that you mentioned is something that someone else told you that you should be doing. Romance? Someone told you that women like romance and someone told women that they should like and expect romance. We are just playing into this social conditioning. Meet a hot enough woman and you won't care if she can't even make a sandwich. You will bury your head in that ass. Same with a woman who meets a powerful, masculine man. She won't care if he never calls her, buys her flowers or ever t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:27 PM
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Prince and David Bowie were some of the most confident men alive. Have you seen Purple Rain? Nothing feminine about how Prince seduced Apolonia. Same goes for Bowie. Also it doesn't hurt that all of their videos show armies of women worshipping them which is preselection times a million.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:21 PM
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As opposed to men's preferences which are super deep and rational, like boobs and boobs and also boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:41 AM
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Here is these dudes' logic: -I want easy and plentiful sex but I don't like girls who sleep around or are too easy -I want a girl who is napalm in bed, but I will not touch a girl who is more than a fuck or two removed from her virginity -I want a girl to be totally dependent on me and obedient but I don't want to pay for anything -I want, I want, I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:21 AM
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As a matter of fact, many of the surviving Hunter and gatherer societies, like in the Amazon or Native Americans had a very different "social organization". Cooperation was much more important as well as initiating boys into men which was done by the entire tribe. The current organization of "alphas" trying to dominate everyone came later on in our social evolution due to overcrowding and overcompetition. The negative results of overcrowding have been studied among people and animals and it lead…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:16 AM
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I dated a woman like this once. She was such a pain in the ass that at the end of it I sympathized with the ex. I mean she had such a negative view of all males in her life, that I ended up paying for all the crimes of her ex/es, dad, etc. I'm like, no thanks, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:11 AM
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Yes, but it's so much easier to find excuses for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:09 AM
1

Dude ur fucked in the head. Have you even gotten laid in the past 2 years? Reeks of sexual frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 11:40 PM
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Negging is the most retarded tactic to ever come out of the PUA community. The guys who came up with it where classical nerds who were trying to be cool. They always saw themselves as being below women do they needed to come up with a way to knock them down a few notches, which is totally unnecessary. Sure, some women put up a defensive mechanism and come across spoilt and bitchy but it is so easy to deal with it. Just don't be affected by it. Don't react to that external mask that they out on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:41 AM
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All it takes is for you to not be an excuser and to go for what you want. What woman doesn't want a guy who knows what he wants and goes for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:38 AM
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So you think something that is so fleeting like political and cultural preferences can offset hundreds of years of evolution?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:37 AM
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Financial status is more of an indicator of your ambition and drive which are inherently attractive to women more than actually having a lot of money. That's what guys don't get. Talk about your ambition and what you want to achieve, that's more attractive than flashing money. If you flash money you will find enough takers to separate you from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:36 AM
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You want money? Earn your own bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:35 PM
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No, I totally get you. I'm not saying this from any malicious or negative perspective, no judgement at all, except for the part where women never admit that they do like doing all of this because it makes them sexy and desirable. If no one paid attention to you, you'd be singing a different tune. But in a lot of ways, I am telling men "look, women are doing all the right things, they look good, they invest in looking sexy and it's working because men are chasing them". But what are guys doing? W…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:29 AM
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Of course, although I would warn against the attitude of trying to sell yourself to women. That can get dangerous too. But all the other stuff is like yeah, women are constantly selling themselves. Don't buy for a second when they say "oh yeah I spent $800 on this outfit I can barely squeeze in and 5" heels that I can't wear for more than an hour and also I spend $5K on my fake tits and I did it all for me because it makes me more confident, it has nothing to do with attracting male attention" y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:46 AM
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Depression and mental problems in women are not attractive. Don't conflate a man's inability to grow balls and leave a woman who is wallowing in self pity and him being okay with her being depressed. He isn't, he just may not be willing to do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:16 AM
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You fucking finally figured it out. That's what I tell every dumbass incel and red piller. It's nothing to do with women and everything to do with what men have turned into. You keep treating these chicks like their shit don't stink and eventually they will believe it. You treat yourselves like worms and eventually you believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:11 AM
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Literally everywhere. But I don't approach from the perspective of "I'm a nobody so I have to go convince this unsuspecting woman that she should give me her number so I better make sure I sell myself to her". I don't seek any particular outcome and I am fine with never getting laid again if that's what happens. This frees me up to be confident, be myself and throw caution to the wind. I am not there trying to convince women or sell myself to them (it doesn't work). I literally give them an oppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 08:00 AM
0

That's a bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:59 PM
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When you are the pursuer, women will act like they are the pursued. As I said the power lies in you. You can continue to treat them like they are the prize or not. You are choosing to keep playing into this "toxic reality". Think about it like ordering by something online and it not being delivered on time or you have to return it and the company makes it difficult for you. Because many of us use Amazon Prime, we have become accustomed to next day delivery and kiss ass customer service. Anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:52 PM
1

I'm saying that women's so called advantage is only in men's heads. You give them the advantage by giving away all your power.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:10 PM
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Because men have been convinced that we are powerless and that women have all the power?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:57 PM
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Can't speak about women, but the major problem that men have in dating is learned helplessness/powerlessness. For the past few decades men have been raised to believe that they have zero power, they are the lowest on the totem pole and that they need to cater to a woman's every whim if they even hope to as much as smell her pussy. This toxic belief permeate every facet of culture, media, movies and the general narrative of the nature of male/female relationships. Now people in general don't like…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 11:49 AM
0

And why is that even if that was true?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:55 AM
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If women supposedly have to sift through so many choices, then why are the majority of men so unattractive to them? It can't possibly be because they think of themselves as powerless victims that can only hope to be chosen by a not-obese woman? I mean self pity and victim hood is attractive to women now isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:01 PM
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Your math doesn't work. How can men simultaneously not have any dates or choices and women simultaneously have hundreds of men wanting to date them (and are going on dates with a new guy eve try day of the week). How does the math work here exactly? Wouldn't just by virtue of the law of averages that every guy would get a lot of dates as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:57 PM
1

Roger that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 12:28 PM
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While I don't believe there is a world wide conspiracy by women and black gay Muslim transsexuals to rob men of their rightful masculinity, I do have to say that boys are not initiated into manhood anymore. What you are referring to is a sort of a pandemic of fathers not teaching their boys how to be men and passing on the knowledge and wisdom down to other generations. My own dad was a total pussy who my mom bulldozed over. He couldn't reach me about being a man even if he wanted to. To address…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/21 12:08 PM
0

Again, if you expect women to jump your bones you don't know women very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:42 AM
1

Smiling is a sign of submission and friendliness. Men like submissive women who are inviting them to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:20 AM
0

Guys get hit on all the time it's just not in the typical "hey baby how you doin" type of way. Women will hover around you, make excuses to talk to you, glance over, etc. many men don't pick up these or are too pussy to go and talk to a woman they are interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:46 PM
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Sure Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:29 PM
1

Total incel bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:06 PM
1

This is a great question I think everyone should ask themselves all the time. I have a very long list of whys that I am proud of and I remind myself of it every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:01 PM
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When you live in constant fear that your girl will see you as a real person who has feelings or that there is some Chad lurking behind every corner ready to fuck her, then your life is not going to be too much fun. You will get exactly what you are looking for, which is what these red pill guys do. All their women eventually cheat on them and I wonder why. It can't have anything to do with them being total losers?
/r/ExRedPill07/05/21 08:40 AM
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Start going out and gather examples of average guys being with attractive women. Don't make excuses for it like he's rich, or they are just friends. Just look at reality. You will a lot of examples and soon you only want to look at those examples. Eventually this will prove to you that your belief is bs.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 06:21 PM
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It's natural. We want the opposite sex. Women's conversations are probably 90% about guys. What clothes to wear to attract guys, what make up to buy, how to do their hair, what places al the guys go to, how to lose weight for the guys. It's very similar on the other side.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 06:16 PM
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Here is what works. Stop trying to get results. Stop trying to get an outcome. When you want a specific result, like "I want this girl to like me, or I want to sleep with her", your brain goes into performance mode. It wants to make the result happen, however it makes you do all the wrong things. Like: -try to hard to impress -be all over the girl out of fear some other male will snatch her from your fingers -be too agreeable and too nice so you don't offend her -be a pushover when she acts disr…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 06:13 PM
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Well, reacting with anger to a situation is losing control. You are giving up your power to the person who "made" you angry. In reality, you are unable to control your emotional response. If someone is disrespectful, you choose how to respond. When you get angry the choice has been made for you by your runaway emotions, instead of your rational mind.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:57 PM
1

Given the chance every man on earth will prefer to be with a twenty something woman in her reproductive prime. This is just the harsh reality. It doesn't mean that men won't look at a woman over 30 (or over 25 jeez), just like although most people would prefer to drive a Ferrari there are still plenty of people who buy Buicks.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 06:12 AM
1

In my experience women love to court the right type of guys and guys go way overboard with courting and over pursuing. They don't give women a chance to be interested back. Have you ever heard a couple talk about how the guy pursued her and she didn't really like him but then a year later she finally gave up and now they are together? Does this sound healthy to you? Think about it.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 06:07 AM
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Ugh
/r/askTRP03/05/21 03:35 PM
1

Okay gotcha. My frame of mind is "women are icing on the cake, life is sure sweeter with them, but I am totally fine and can enjoy my kick ass life without them". Remember that a man's lifestyle is for a woman what a woman's beauty is for a man. They are drawn to a man with a great lifestyle and purpose because many of them lack that in their lives. You think the ig thots are living these kick ass lives traveling all over the place? Mostly funded by men. They spend 5 hours in front of the mirror…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 07:36 AM
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You have to show that you care for them on some level. In the caveman days if the caveman most interest in his cave girl who depended solely on him for shelter and protection, she would likely start looking for other cavemen to take care of her. It's instinctual. You can show her you care for her without committing to her or anything.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 07:28 AM
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I will shoot from the hip here because I still don't know your full situation, but it seems that between the first and second date you were messaging and talking a lot. This is a classic mistake I used to make when younger. I guess coming from a scarcity mentality I was thinking "I have invested so much time going out to meet girls, finally met one that wanted to go out, we went out for a date, now I don't want to screw it up so I will start acting very interested and needy". What ends up happen…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 07:26 AM
2

Stop rewarding yourself with jerking off when you don't succeed. You are letting yourself off the hook too easily. It also sounds like you have approach anxiety, which is easy to solve. Start rewriting your brain to have positive outcome expectations at all times. Practice with everything. Getting your coffee in the morning, driving to school, talking to people. When you see a girl you like, assume that the outcome of your interaction will be her being attracted and to talk to her. Just be certa…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:47 PM
2

Some women are horny and ready to have sex within minutes. Others are there to meet a boyfriend. You can't go to a burger joint and ask for a steak. So you have to adjust accordingly.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 07:26 PM
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Lol, every one man and woman only wants the top 20% of the population. You simply ignore the other 80% of women you find too fat, old or ugly and don't even know they exist. Making 70K is not going to place you in the 20% of sexually desirable men. But hey, why don't you take the next 5 years to sort out your money and business and maybe after that you can give yourself permission to be with a good looking woman who can sexually satisfy you. Until then do your semen retention and go your own way…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 10:09 AM
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Women view relationships the way we view sex. It's not about her digging her claws into you or making you commit or marry her. It's about how she relates to you and how you make her feel. Every woman wants an alpha guy who genuinely cares about her. That doesn't mean he is committed to only her. Just say that you are so happy to hear she cares about you and that you care about her. Business as usual.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 07:49 AM
2

When I was 16 I was banging my girlfriend while my mom sleep in the room next door. In an old soviet style commie flat. So yea, what's your excuse again?
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:47 AM
2

What do you think her opinion of you would be if she found out you read TRP shit and watch hentainporn?
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:46 AM
1

Honestly you sound like a psycho. I hope you break up with this girl so she dodged a bullet.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:45 AM
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I don't know man, I've fucked white, black, Chinese, Japanese, Muslim, Indian, a bunch of latinas, at the end of the day they are all looking for the same thing. A man who is not an excuser and a wimp and who will not tolerate their BS. I grew up in Eastern Europe and people think women there are these submissive little bitches who will cook for them and suck their dicks for the chance of getting a few dollars to feed their starving parents. The reality is women are the same everywhere and while…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:43 AM
2

Impossible! Women get approached by Chads all the time and gobble cock like it's candy. It can't be that they have never been confidently approached by someone and are kind of nervous and intimidated?
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:36 AM
1

I always go with the David X rules - honesty, trust and respect. Is she being honest, do you trust her, so you feel she acted respectfully towards you? She was honest to tell you about the guy, but not honest that she did give her ig. You obviously don't trust her. And she was kind of respectful for telling you but also disrespectful for hiding that she is following him. I think it is pretty clear that the foundations of this relationship are broken.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:34 AM
1

That's the only way
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:32 AM
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Break the equation of hard work/accomplishments = sex. This equation permeates every single society except the most primitive ones, where you need physical power and balls. You know what I am talking about. You feel inadequate, not enough, ugly, insufficient, unless you work very hard, get buff, have a nice car and clothes, be the captain of the football team and maybe then you will give yourself permission to be confident and respect yourself. It's just social conditioning meant to control men.…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:30 AM
1

Sure, but these guys they date tend to stand out as opposed to the gray sea of same looking males you encounter out there on a daily basis. Every guy wants to fit in so they wear the same clothes, have the same haircuts, behave and speak the same. Hell, I remember when the skinny blonde was the bastion of female beauty 20 years ago and how much that has changed today when even white men find big assed latinas attractive and want some of that thicc stuff. How much of it is cultural and how much o…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:16 AM
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So you are telling me that you prefer the ugly fat chick that no one wants because there is no competition to the hot one that every guy wants?
/r/askTRP01/05/21 09:50 PM
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All I am saying is if he likes it rough they may not be compatible. Some people can't get off on vanilla sex.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 09:49 PM
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It's the opposite, women are wired to find men who look like they could be her brother repulsive. With most guys these days looming and behaving exactly the same, it's no wonder that it feels women have more of an advantage in dating. You even hear it when they talk about dating apps. They find majority of men out there downright repulsive. Something to think about and it's def not high standards and Disney bs.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 08:05 PM
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Practice detachment and indifference. The behavior comes from a need to be liked, approved of, or be the center of attention. If you tell yourself you already have all of these things, the behavior will eventually cease.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 07:32 PM
3

She is getting bbc on the side and has probably scheduled a gangbang already. Are you okay fishing another men's sperm out of her pussy? /s
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:38 PM
2

Cause she is no longer horny and is feeling remorseful and stupid.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:32 PM
4

So why are you on here asking for next steps? What more do you want?
/r/askTRP01/05/21 03:22 PM
4

You are trying a bit too hard. Dont go on dates with the intention to get laid, because they will sense that you are a sure thing and will lose interest. You also follow up by texting too soon to hang out again which just solidifies the fact that you are too easy. Hold off on texting again until a few days after first date. Rule of thumb - always act less interested in them then they are in you. Don't go to the date chasing sex. Go to the date to enjoy yourself, have a good time, meet someone ne…
/r/askTRP01/05/21 03:20 PM
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Dude, the only time you were truly free was when you were a kid and that was beaten out of you pretty quickly through your parents, kindergarten teachers and later on high school and media. Society programs you to equate work and achievement with sex. That's why everyone here talks about increasing their SMV with big muscles, making money and having a nice car and clothes. All of this is done to benefit society. The more you achieve and earn the more you benefit society instead of benefiting you…
/r/askTRP01/05/21 03:16 PM
9

If you don't want to get laid again, sure why not.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 03:10 PM
-3

Tell her she is free to find a nice guy simp who will be honored to be in her presence and will make slow tender love to her if she can't handle you.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 03:09 PM
6

Treat a whore like a queen and a queen like a whore. Queens are typically attractive women, who have a lot of men kissing their ass, so they act stuck up and bitchy and are used to having their way with men. Subconsciously they want someone to put them in their place and give them a good hard spanking. So you did the right thing by calling her out on her disrespect, but you should have given her a chance to shape up, which they usually do. By giving her a chance, I mean call her out on it and ma…
/r/askTRP01/05/21 03:06 PM
2

At all points
/r/askTRP01/05/21 11:03 AM
13

Go out with the attitude that every woman should prove herself worthy to you before you consider putting your most precious possession Inside of her. And I don't mean your PlayStation, I mean your dick. Honestly 90% of men's problems can be solved if they didn't give away the goods so easily. You are making it way too easy for chicks. They should be working hard to get your attention and affection.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 10:29 AM
1

Ugh? I clearly said no aggression and no insults needed. Why would you call her a bitch? This is about establishing rules and teaching others how to treat you and punishing them if they don't treat you well. Honestly when you ignore bad behavior you are just giving her permission to do more of it. You are not being the man by letting it go.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 10:27 AM
2

She knew what she wanted and went for it, so that ship has sailed for you.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 09:36 AM
-1

It will only happen for you when you believe it can happen to you.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:12 AM
1

Thanks for clarifying!
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:06 AM
2

Realize that external validation is a social program that is always running in the back of your mind. What do we really need as men? Some shelter, a warm meal and a warm hole to put our dick in. Our evolutionary imperative is to spread our seed to as many hot women as possible. At one point in human history, people in power realized they could harness this great power and motivation men have and turn it into something productive, like accomplishing stuff and working for the good of society. Ente…
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:34 AM
1

Yes super weak, don't ever agree with disrespect. You tell her calmly and without aggression: "What is you said is very disrespectful and I will not tolerate this type of language/attitude/behavior". She will either stop or she will keep pushing your buttons. If she keeps going, show her the door or walk through it yourself. Never make threats you are not prepared to act on, because if she calls your bluff you will be treated like an even bigger dogshit.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:27 AM
1

Kettlebell. I use a 45 lbs one. 4x6-8 reps kettlebell swings, kettlebell deadlifts, clean press one handed, squats one handed and finish up with a side swing or crunches for abs.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:23 AM
3

What problems? We all have problems. Don't try to solve their problems by the way whatever they are.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:19 AM
2

Make you fatal flaw the inability to commit and she will chase you until the end of time giving you all those butterflies in your stomach. Just don't be the first one to confess or try to get her locked down.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:18 AM
6

Dude she wanted to fuck, are you that dense? She was horny and you were there, who knows what's going through her head now. If you want to play it right, just text tomorrow, my place or yours?
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:17 AM
1

Dude, this is it! This is what happens when you ignore them and make them jump through hoops to earn your attention. Put it on for a long as possible. Smash but don't try to make it happen again (ie don't chase). She will come after you.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:15 AM
2

Quinoa
/r/askTRP30/04/21 08:07 PM
0

Date? I meant that you do this at the club or bar if you want to take her home that night. If you are going on dates you are already playing the bf role.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 08:01 PM
16

Yes
/r/askTRP30/04/21 06:08 PM
27

No, you already set the frame that you want to use her for sex. Now you are trying to get all sensitive and caring? I guess she was right to call you a pussy.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 05:29 PM
1

Well that's not what I mean by sexual. I mean, whisper in her ear "God you are so fucking hot I can have my way with you on that pool table over there". Or "Your body is driving me crazy, I wanna make you my little dirty whore I can have my way with".
/r/askTRP30/04/21 05:27 PM
3

We found the dude from Alabama everyone.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:28 PM
4

What do you want? Figure that out first and then the rest. To get laid, avoid all connection and romantic topics. Focus on being sexual and naughty. Want a girlfriend, sure, talk about emotional stuff, movies that moved you, your passions, travel, your career ambitions, family.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:16 PM
21

Maybe you need to try dick. I don't know man.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:10 PM
6

Yes, but it requires something that most guys either really suck at (the majority) or are naturally good at unconsciously (the minority). And that thing is basically playing hard to get and never making her believe that she has you figured out or that you are a sure thing. Guys who are naturally good at that are just guys who dont care, who forget to call her, who blow her off or flake on dates, who are banging herself after just banging another girl an hour before, etc. basically bad boys.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 11:12 AM
14

How to get over the bitch and grow balls they can't resist - search for a PDF version good luck
/r/askTRP30/04/21 11:09 AM
6

Distant relative? Do you want to have potentially retarded children? There is a reason women are not attracted to guys who all look the same, because they all look like they could be her brother. And mixing the same gene pool is extremely dangerous.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 09:17 AM
2

You have been conditioned since you were a baby to be ashamed of your own needs and desires and to so put the needs and desires of society above your own. That includes your parents, teachers, employers, "high status" people and hot women. You have to get in touch with your own needs and desires and your genetically inherent selfishness and self interest. You can either choose to work for the advancement of society or work for your own self interest. Don't get me wrong. You will feel bad and gui…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 07:35 AM
-4

You are going to destroy your balls and body just to look buff and hoping to get laid? There are easier ways without getting erectile dysfunction. Just pay a hooker.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 06:53 AM
3

Not exactly. It's a question of does she believe you are too easy and that you are a sure thing. That's when the light switch goes off.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 06:52 AM
118

Attraction works completely differently for women than for men. We are attracted to their bodies and looks which do not change that quickly. However, have you ever obsessed over a girl in high school only to see her years later and she's gotten older and fat and all of a sudden you couldn't give two fucks about her? This happens with women but it can be instant. Where they lose interest is when they have figured out that you are a sure thing. That's why when you get needy or show her that you ha…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 06:51 AM
7

Hi, this is a complex issue and will take some practice to fix. First things first, you noticed something that I noticed almost 20 years ago. If you go out with the intent to get laid or meet girls, you will have very little success. But if you go out with the purpose of having fun or enjoying yourself or having to go somewhere, women tend to respond you much better. Now why is that? Going out to get laid or practice on women is the worst reason to go out. It signals your neediness because you c…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 05:04 AM
7

Accept as long as it's a lateral offer, meaning they still agree to come to your place instead of suggesting dinner or drinks.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 08:50 PM
8

Yeah? Back then did you want to fuck the fat girl who now lost weight and got makeover and fake tits? Make peace with your past and understand it's not their fault you were a loser. Take responsibility for your life man.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 08:49 PM
3

Give yourself permission to have value and to feel confident. Understand that your role in life is to work for and serve only yourself and nobody else. With that self interest in mind, it should be no brainer that you would give yourself approval instead of waiting for approval by lifting and getting bigger muscles, better clothes, possessions, etc.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 08:37 PM
8

You sold yourself as a boyfriend when you should have been just a fuckboi. Treat a whore like a queen and a queen like a whore. If you had told her the only thing you are interested in is an physical relationship and nothing more, she would have fucked you and been hooked on you.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 07:56 PM
2

I got laid in Brazil and don't speak a lick of Portuguese. You will soon figure out that your "game" doesn't work and that you can only get laid because of who you are not what you say or do.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 07:06 PM
5

Being yourself is then most powerful way of being. Of course every guy wants to be Casanova or James Bond, but the guy who says "I'm okay as I am and don't want to be anyone else" is the most confident person. The issue is that most people clearly don't like themselves much and who they think they are is not really who they are. Pretending to be alpha Chad is just as fake as being a nerd who sits at home and jerks off to video games and Anime porn.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:45 PM
4

A lot of women complain that they get so much shorty attention from apps that they get overwhelmed and end up not even looking at them. So who is at fault here? The women or the men who are acting like total fucking losers?
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:43 PM
-1

Why are we into guns and blowing shit up? It doesn't make sense to them.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:41 PM
14

I actually started going out and talking to them. The best thing you can do for your game is become more social and never give off the impression that you are more interested in them then they are in you.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:11 PM
0

Okay there Chad Thundercock.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:43 PM
3

Or my favorite - "I want to get laid with a new girl every other day, but if she happens to have slept with more than 2 guys in her life time - WHORE, SLUT, PROSTITUTE STAY AWAY FROM ME!!!"
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:00 PM
9

Dude your life is really going to suck if you live in constant fear that your girl will gobble up the first bbc once she's out of sight for more than 10 mins.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 02:38 PM
6

Let's take sex and hitting on them out of the equation. Just don't think about it, don't try to hit them up or seduce them or any such crap. Think of going to the gym being 50% working out for yourself and 50% enjoying yourself and being fun and social with people. Start bantering with girls without any intent of getting them in bed or getting a positive reaction. Say stuff like "hey, how was yours weekend! I see that ab machine is really paying off, keep it up girl" or "wow, look at those muscl…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 02:36 PM
3

Sounds like self sabotage. Not sure what you are getting out of it but there is some reason you do it. Find out what it is and resolve it.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 02:09 PM
3

Correct! Again, I don't know exactly what you told them when you opened up, but usually this means confessing how much you like her etc.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 02:00 PM
0

I would have gone with: "I'm probably not the type of guy you should be dating anyway. I don't have a job, you will have to give me rides around town cause of my DUI, and definitely don't leave me alone with your hot girlfriends cause I will jump in bed with them. But hey, you will have a lot fun. Still interested?"
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:44 PM
0

Stop masturbating and the hair that now grows on your fingers will move to your face.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:41 PM
19

It's not the emotional vulnerability that gets you in trouble. It's that you give your balls away. That can happen either because you let a woman disrespect you or treat you like an indoor without any repercussions or because she senses you have not other options and don't have the balls to leave her. Once a woman senses she "has" you, that you are a "sure thing", she will typically lose interest instantly. It is the equivalent of finding out that a girl hid her ugly fave behind a ton of make up…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 12:56 PM
3

Easy. The harder you work, the more clothes you buy, the more expensive cars, gadgets and houses you acquire, the more you are given permission by society to feel confident and claim your price - a beautiful girl. You will notice this at work everywhere even here on TRP. Lift, make money, buy a nice car and maybe then you will be worthy of feeling like you are a somebody.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 11:59 AM
10

Easier to control and sell to people who think they are inadequate, flawed or need stuff to be happy and complete. Same idea as the Original Sin in Christianity. You were born already a sinner and only we can help you get rid of your sins, oh and that means you are beholden to us and need to fork over all your money to the Church.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 10:54 AM
2

Nah man you don't understand! I just need some advice on how to approach this chick. She had phones on, and she was staring at her computer, and she was sitting in a bunker surrounded by guys with machine guns. And her pussy was sealed shut because her psycho religious parents want her to stay a virgin, and she sucks in bed cause she's never fucked, oh and she's asexual, so she doesn't even like sex. So how do I approach and fuck a girl like this?
/r/askTRP29/04/21 09:16 AM
1

Lol pretty much this^
/r/askTRP29/04/21 08:50 AM
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