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What a load of nonsense. Women could not care less about chasing men they're actually into. Women just like to hide behind cultural norms to explain why they didn't chase the men they end up settling for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:10 AM
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Is the 5/10 American and thus fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:31 PM
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If women don't all pretty much like the same thing, why aren't dating app likes more evenly distributed? Why do most guys struggle mightily and a few have tremendous success?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:49 PM
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Yes, it doesn't doesn't necessarily increase you SMV. You can have whatever standards you want whether you meet them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:46 PM
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The criteria for being seen as above average is different for men and women. Being otherwise average looking and normal weight doesn't make men above average like it does women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:34 PM
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I don't get the appeal either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:22 AM
2

I used to have to be at work at 6:30a, so I'd start my runs at 4. There were fewer cars on the road, sure, but a lot of cars that were on the road had drunk people behind the wheel. I literally had to have eyes in the back of my head because drunk drivers seem to be drawn to pedestrians.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:49 AM
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You're under 18, aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:35 AM
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Men don't pay for just sex from sex workers. A lot of escorts will tell you that they find a lot of their clients really just want someone to talk to. Also someone posted a guy's profile on a dating site for guys seeking sugar babies. He said in his profile that he was looking to pay for an emotional connection, not just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:29 AM
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Eh, Idk if it's that. I think it's just men are more likely to be willing to tell a guy they think he's hopeless. Also some men are happy (or happy to pretend to be happy) paying for sex/affection from women, and project that desire onto other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:06 AM
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I feel like men sort of shit test other men by giving them advice they themselves wouldn't follow just to see if a guy is weak enough to do whatever they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:54 AM
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Not true at all. Ugly women who want hot men actually think they deserve hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:51 AM
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I like natty muscle mommies, but not because I think they could dominate me. I just think they'd be more challenging to dominate and that'd be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:44 AM
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This is incoherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:11 AM
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I'm just guessing you relate to this women personallly since you're defending her so vociferously. She's the one who destroyed her family. HER ACTIONS destroyed her family. Why do you think the person outing the cheater is more responsible for blowing a family than the cheater herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:09 AM
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Feeling guilty about something, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:50 AM
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I agree, it's appalling their mother did this to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:46 AM
4

why punish them for something that happened 10 years ago? Maybe they should ask their whore mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:38 AM
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That's not most women and it's an relatively shallow emotional reaction. Even women who do react like that in the moment are less bothered by it in the long run than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:35 AM
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Cheating is broadly seen as a socially unacceptable behavior, and women are more sensitive to how they're perceived socially. That doesn't mean they're not hypocrites when no one's looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:30 AM
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men cheat almost twice as women Given how women are willing to minimize cheating, I wouldn't believe those self-reported studies. I mean, it was just a "mistake," right? How can that count? She's been mostly faithful, so it doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:01 AM
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Fuck it, if my wife condones cheating she might as well be cheating herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:57 AM
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Did you ever consider men and women date each other in spite of these negative qualities, not because of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:55 AM
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who tf cares, this happened 10 years ago, they have kids now, I wasn't aware lies and betrayal had a statute of limitations. If anything, the betrayal grows more significant with every day she continues to lie to him. my friend's brother cheated on his pregnant wife. Do you think it even crossed my mind to tell her? my male friend cheated on my best friend, do you think I ran to her and told her? Of course not, women don't view cheating as a big deal. this is not a gender issue, it's this guy be…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:49 AM
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Yes, but even when they're the one's being cheated on they don't care as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:36 AM
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His wife–her actual friend–already supposedly encouraged her to confess. What makes you think the husband of her friend asking her to confess would change her mind? Also case in point that women just don't find cheating as repugnant as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:35 AM
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They love defendind and making excuses for women cheating or doing weird stuff like that on this app. It's not just on this app. Women in general view cheating differently than men do. I've never talked to a woman who was a bothered by it happening to them or it hypothetically happening to them as I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:28 AM
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This guy's just selfish and isn't interested in learning how to please his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:13 AM
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The bar is literally on the floor
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:28 AM
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Yeah but he doesn't need to date a 10. An 8 doesn't suddenly become ugly because you're Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:19 AM
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And be able to pick your ideal woman personality-wise rather than compromise on a bunch of shit (if he wants to settle down).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:55 PM
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Now kith
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:25 PM
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I thought he died several years ago. Must've one of those hoaxes that I never found out was a hoax.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:42 PM
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In this case, I would try to sell my lunch with Bezos. I'll take half of $19M and live happily ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:20 AM
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You must not have a whole lot to look forward to if it's Sunday night and laughing at your ex's (who you definitely DO NOT care about) life is enough to make your week.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:15 AM
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Sounds like you're over him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:44 AM
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That dude's having an absolutely meltdown
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:40 AM
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It's been that way the last couple years. We didn't know how good we had with Peyton as the main advertising guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:19 AM
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Why does everything have to some extreme? I just want to do nice things for someone times and have them do nice things for me sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:16 AM
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You're not the main character lady
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:08 AM
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That's good, I hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:03 AM
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I would definitely try to find someone impartial like a professional then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:43 AM
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Are you saying really out of pocket shit that indicates you probably should be hospitalized, or are they just prone to overreact?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:32 AM
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No one: cornersfatly: I HAVE A TRUST FUND! WHY ARE YOU GUYS SO JEALOUS?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:57 PM
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I'm in my early 30s. I'm not open to my ideal relationship that happens to be with a single mother, and I'd be willing to eventually adopt the kid. In some ways this situation is preferable. I like the idea of having kids, but having a baby sounds like the worst part of the whole experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:51 PM
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33 33 14 20
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:35 PM
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As foreplay yeah. All I need is like 90 seconds as a warm up. I don't care if she's blowing me to completion on the regular or not, though I'm certainly not opposed to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:32 PM
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I would've fuckin snapped
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:30 PM
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She is also great at sex but won't do it until you marry Aannd that's where I checked out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:25 PM
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Seems like a quick google search could've told you 6mg was a lot for someone with no tolerance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:24 PM
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Sex with a hot dude and no orgasm > orgasms with a mid dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:02 PM
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This is nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:05 PM
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Seems to be normal hormones for women since most seem to agree on being able to walk into a room and often not find any of the men present attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:21 PM
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Why'd you chalk the rest of the stuff you mentioned up to hormones when they could also be signs of mental illness?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:10 PM
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I like the first one except for the fact that it has pockets(?). Looks better in black because then you can't see the pockets. The second one, eh, no. I feel like there's something there that could look good, but in its current state, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:01 PM
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I was once staring off into space in the general direction of a woman and she shook her head "no" at me as if to say I was out of my mind for even thinking about checking her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:43 PM
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You can look at the post history of basically any of those women and see they're all broken in one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:15 PM
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It absolutely is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:48 AM
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Just never been a fan of the look
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:45 AM
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Anything but the latex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:40 AM
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I hope ol' bandit finally got laid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:28 AM
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Atlas is still here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:57 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:36 AM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:14 AM
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I'm pretty sure he's short. Maybe average height That's why this couple happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:13 AM
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Lashes natty or enhanced?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:03 AM
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I personally think I try put more effort in because I'm only above average looking. If I was spoiled I might not feel as much pressure to perform.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:56 AM
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I acknowledged women tell their friends everything about their boyfriends/husbands lol. That particular story's just fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:51 AM
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A friend of mine had sex with a woman who was obsessed with me once. She just ended up obsessed with both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:06 AM
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Truly ugly women? Yes. Average-ish women who may call themselves ugly and say they "struggle?" No. They're just really picky/only interested in men out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:02 AM
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Fake ass story, nobody in their 20s has a landline lol. Also I don't care about sexual stuff being shared. I don't like that women share all that other stuff that should've stayed between us though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:55 PM
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He's undoubtedly miserable himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:29 PM
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Brown master race
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:23 PM
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Like an evil person would have any problem with lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:40 PM
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I don't see how that would benefit me in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:28 PM
1

Quick rundown on this? People have been stalked and murdered because of this place?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:27 PM
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As if you're interested in dating a man who is physically unattractive enough to have low self-esteem in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:17 PM
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She clearly thinks it's a negative that he's short, but he's not supposed to be insecure about being short? Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:01 PM
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A large (and thus powerful) and healthy middle class isn't good for rich people or career politicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:46 PM
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You're just trying to piss everybody off with this, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:43 PM
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Just block him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:41 PM
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Nowhere have I tried to make a case for "need," so Idk why you're trying to make that argument with me. I've had this discussion enough times to know neither of our minds are gonna change, so we'll just have to agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:45 AM
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"Need" has absolutely nothing to do with it. What does the average citizen need a Snickers bar for?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:18 AM
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I mean 9 people died by lightning in 2024 vs more than 500 in mass shootings 2024. From pro-gun control outlet Vox But the risk of being killed in a mass shooting is also smaller than or similar to your risk of being struck by lightning I'm not a statistics or math guy. I know I've seen the lightning vs mass shooting thing multiple times. Either way, I think you'd have to be exceedingly unreasonable not to acknowledge it's statistically highly unlikely you or anyone you'll ever know will be invo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:15 AM
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I don't really think anyone has a right to feel unsafe because of mass shootings. Last I checked, you're statistically more likely to get struck by lightning than be a victim of a mass shooting. Why would a responsible gun owner be against broad access provided they could still have reasonable access? That's not how the laws are written. For example, AR-15s are fully banned in my state. If you are a resident of my state, you cannot buy one legally as a civilian any longer*. There is no "reasonab…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:48 AM
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You're not gonna get an adequate answer to this question. She either likes you or she doesn't. There's no mathematical equation to avoid that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:27 AM
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I'm not trying to convince you of anything, I'm trying to explain my side of the argument. I don't think I should be punished for the bad shit other people do, especially when the people who do bad shit are an extreme minority. For example, I feel the same way about stores that lock up expensive items or check my receipt on my way out the door. I've never stolen anything in my life, I shouldn't be inconvenienced because some people are thieves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:24 AM
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There are an estimated 20 million AR-15s in civilian hands. A negligible percentage of those will ever be used in a crime. Banning AR-15s just punishes the overwhelming majority of people who own one and will never hurt anyone with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:01 AM
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Doing coke and/or dope for the first time in your 40s is an absolutely fucking WILD move. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I initially thought maybe y'all got together too young, but I think most people know whether that's their thing or not by their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:54 AM
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Most proposed gun control legislation in the US outright bans broad classes of firearms. I'm never going to use any firearm I own in a violent manner other than possibly self-defense. I shouldn't be banned from owning certain types of guns because others are evil and/or can't handle the responsibility in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:45 AM
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No history of hard drug usage before/when y'all met?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:33 AM
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I can't agree with you there. I fundamentally hate being punished for the actions of the lowest common denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:16 AM
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I'm very pro gun rights and I hope they hammer the shit out of these idiot parents legally. The father of this most recent kid is too stupid and/or negligent to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:07 AM
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Did things go bad for you because you or a partner had a midlife crisis?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:02 AM
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You think? I don't think I'll ever have a midlife crisis. I do things some people would call stupid now so I don't regret not doing it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:54 AM
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:/ You got any words of wisdom in regard to avoiding mid-life crisis types?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:16 AM
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I was told the women into climbing are pretty crunchy. True or false?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:52 AM
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Wtf lmao? Why so positive and then so negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:50 AM
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Eh, my dogs loved my ex and she was straight up evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:37 AM
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I never have to worry about that because even animals who usually don't like strangers tend to like me. I am the asshole pet whisperer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:30 AM
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You're definitely exaggerating lol. Only like 40% of women aged 20-40 have tattoos, and that's probably pretty evenly distributed among all women, not just the healthy bmi ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:36 AM
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In addition to what /u/Ultramega29 said, you never want to be the first guy who ever treated her well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:58 PM
2

Okay I thought so. Good for you gloomy! I'm glad you had a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:37 PM
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What a shitty father.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:34 PM
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Are you in high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:32 PM
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There's no way the going rate for that is $2k. Definitely a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:06 PM
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Was it down to your ankles?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:33 PM
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She plays hard to get and I just assume she's not that interested
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:33 PM
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Closest I came was a coworker telling me he wanted to shoot up the workplace. Told my boss and he got canned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:58 PM
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I think you can identify as anything you like these days
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:38 PM
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Tbf I don't know why they'd ever need to. It's not like I know how to read a sun dial.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:33 PM
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my original response wasn’t gendered so again, interesting that you’re trying to stick me in some gotcha with this. That wasn't intentional, it's just usually women who complain about being abused their whole life. but at some point if it’s happening over and over and over, you have to self reflect and ask yourself why you’re the common denominator in multiple shitty unrelated situations. I acknowledge that you have a point, but blaming people for what other people did to them also feels wrong t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:22 PM
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I think when women choose a guy based on how little emotional risk he carries with him, they are invariably making a sacrifice in the attraction department. These women may be happy in this relationship for a while, but eventually they find it unfulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:58 PM
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Revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:03 AM
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If major investment banks like Morgan Stanley and Goldman are betting on it, you can safetly bet it's not a myth the percentage of single women is increasing and will continue to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:02 AM
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I mean you're really not missing out on anything good here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:38 AM
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Of course. Most rejections are subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:37 AM
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People trying to appeal to Americans
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:26 AM
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so i really just have to hope that i choose right This sounds to me like you're looking for he guy who you think is least likely to hurt you above all else. Am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:19 AM
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Actually you do, because you made your previous post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:59 AM
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Honestly, why would you stay with a guy you don't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:58 AM
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You only have that attitude because you currently have no self-worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:41 AM
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Do you keep that same energy for the women who claim they've been abused throughout their whole life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:39 AM
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You're not fooling me dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:34 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1f9rglt/this_will_always_be_posts_with_affirmative_claims/llqng4f/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:22 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:22 AM
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She's not gonna fuck you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:21 AM
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Fair enough. I assumed it happened in every relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:21 AM
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You seem to have low self-esteem. I think women with low self-esteem often use a guy to build themselves up until they feel right upgrading to someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:20 AM
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I think it's highly likely you'll use you first bf to build confidence and then dump him for someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:15 AM
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there are some who believe that a shitty relationship is better than never having one at all. I'll take your word for it, but I haven't picked up on that. it’s also kinda silly to me when ppl come under my comments mocking a viewpoint that i don’t even hold but hey, it happens, especially when ppl aren’t familiar w me as a user. Sorry, it wasn't a personal attack. I was just using your post to argue against the conventional wisdom around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:13 AM
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Respect semi-restored
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:52 AM
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Interesting. I see you as cheating/monkey branching your starter boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:49 AM
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You blame people for getting cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:48 AM
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Respect retracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:47 AM
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Shower sex is kinda overrated, but showering together is almost always nice. How have you never done it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:26 AM
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I think when people say a relationship would make their life better it's implied they mean a good relationship. I'm just mocking women who argue men need to sort out all their shit before even thinking about dating because a good relationship wouldn't solve their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:16 AM
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Relatable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:02 AM
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Respect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:57 AM
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Your ex cares about you. The people online don't care about you and may even have contempt for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:08 AM
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Turns out a romantic relationship is actually the solution sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:07 AM
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I don't think I've seen that past high school/early college.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:33 PM
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That's no way to talk about the men you date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:23 PM
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Loving is definitely simping, but simping is not necessarily loving.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:33 AM
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I've loved most of the women I've slept with. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:25 AM
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Yeeeeeeah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:19 AM
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Divorce? She found a new poor crippled bastard to fetishize?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:17 AM
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Haha I do hear a bit of a Brit who's spent too much time in America/around Americans and their accent got broken. You're still pretty British though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:16 AM
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Don't you think men should lead in relationships? Seems to me a guy ever being nervous i.e. doubting himself is inconsistent with being a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:28 AM
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I have some personal experience with it myself. I think the odds of even meeting person, let alone it ending happily ever after, are extremely low.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:18 AM
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Damn, even King I Cavill, first of his name, can look worse than me in a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:10 AM
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Go through the embarrassment of it until you're desensitized to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:05 AM
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Ah okay. Can I DM you a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:03 AM
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Have y'all met in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:49 AM
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Friend you introduced to this place or friend you made here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:36 AM
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No lake, no trout. What's that about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:34 AM
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Only if you're willing to say it publicly because I don't want a DM from a minor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:24 AM
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Why not? Anyways, I'm just glad the youngins are still enjoying one of the best TV shows of all time enough to understand what I was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:20 AM
2

I'm re-watching The Wire right now and you sound like one of Prez's students.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:08 AM
2

I know some shit goes down in DMs here, but multiple people actually got married? That's wild. I guess you can throw that "study" from earlier in the trash. Turns out being part of the manosophere is actually an attractive hobby! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:40 AM
2

Hol up, two users here married each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:20 AM
1

I exercise for the mental health benefits. I don't find people who have a runner's body attractive, but I still run 25 miles a week because it makes me feel good. At this point, the feeling of accomplishment is what keeps me going.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:43 AM
1

Did he say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:39 AM
1

Over. The CIA pushing crack on the black community 40+ years ago is still officially a conspiracy theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:32 AM
1

Hmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:29 AM
3

You're upper middle class at a minimum for sure. This isn't your first PPD account, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:23 AM
1

What gives you that idea? If that were true, we'd all be doing steroids, but most of us aren't willing to go that far.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:19 AM
1

I think most people get on gear because they don't want to work out for 5 years to look like they've been working out for 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:51 AM
1

So do it, pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:43 AM
2

Caffeine is a diuretic and you have no tolerance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:42 AM
3

The west is so divided they'll support anything that hurts the side they don't like. I suppose that's always been how authoritarianism became popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:36 AM
2

I take full responsibility for letting it happen, but it still did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:32 AM
3

I thought you were holding out for Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:24 AM
2

Even I draw the line at bullying children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:21 AM
1

It's there a little bit, but if I wasn't listening for it I wouldn't have picked up on it right away. It came out when you said the word "anything." Do you try to hide it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:00 AM
2

You sound like an actress, but I can't put my finger on who. Cute voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:48 AM
5

I love attractive women of all races and ethnicities
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:20 AM
2

Other problems in the relationship, one/both became unattractive to each other, or one was never that attracted the other in the first place. I lost interest in having sex with an ex once because she was emotionally abusive (gay to say that as a man, I know). It got to a point where I was so on edge around her that it killed my desire to have sex. My body was essentially telling me I needed to get out of that relationship before my brain realized it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:33 PM
2

She just wanted to see if she still has your attention even though she doesn't really want it. Cut her off completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:25 PM
1

Basketball shorts? In public? In the year of our lord 2024? Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:27 PM
1

Maybe. All I know is, scumbags always seem to have no trouble dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:26 PM
3

Many of them will never get a boyfriend they also find physically attractive. It's very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:00 PM
3

My bad. Still. Your 19 year old friend was more into a 30+ year old dude than any other at the time. Just because she got burned by it doesn't mean his behavior didn't appeal to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:55 PM
3

If their strategy wasn't working for them, they wouldn't be employing it. And obviously your friends liked him at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:49 PM
4

Unfortunately it seems women are rewarding that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:11 PM
1

Anyone know where to find the full list?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:48 PM
3

Why tho? I saw an ad for a doll on facebook marketplace awhile back and the main was of it with the pants pulled down and the ass out. I was convinced it had to be some kind of code or some kind of creepy doll fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:57 PM
1

Chad doesn't have to deal with that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:29 AM
2

🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:03 AM
3

Some women like feeling like they tamed a bad boy, but in reality they don't actually want to tame him. They like the drama and if you (as the bad boy) don't constantly create it, they will. You might think AWALT but there are plenty of women that schtick doesn't work for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:17 AM
1

Like I said, toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:41 AM
2

Lol I always cared way more about making it look good than I did the actual content of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:35 AM
1

I started by saying I don't lie, but you just told me I should be. How are you not incentivizing lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:57 PM
1

You're trolling and/or need to get your eyes check. The soft restraints are in both pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:57 PM
1

The overwhelming majority of women prefer a man who is at least several inches taller than her. If a man is trying to appeal to the most women he possibly can, and women are assuming he's exaggerating his height by 3 inches, you are incentivizing him to lie. Let's a say a guy's average height at 5'10'', if women are assuming he's 5'7'', then he's now assumed to be short. Something most women don't like. He's incentivized to lie and say he's 6'1'' so you assume he's actually average height. I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:38 PM
1

Just take the L
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:02 PM
1

And they're widely condemned for it. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:01 PM
1

When you incentivize toxic behavior, don't complain when it comes back on you. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:44 PM
2

Women have caught on to this and now assume we're all inflating our height by 2 inches. It ruins it for those of us who aren't lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:05 PM
1

If she's getting hung up on numbers she's probably insane. There's no noticeable difference between 5'11'' and 6'0''
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:00 PM
2

You know what I meant. It's almost like my last sentence was key to the rest of what I was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:44 PM
7

My motivation for dating has never been to find someone who will serve me. If anything, I feel women are only interested in men who are either conventionally attractive or can serve/provide tangible benefits for them, even if they can survive just fine on their own. Women are pretty open about feeling like relationships aren't worth it unless they're getting out more than they put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:12 PM
1

You didn't seem to think so 20 minutes ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:51 PM
1

What test is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:32 PM
1

If it doesn't happen, how would you know what would happen if it did?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:30 PM
1

You take everything very literally, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:28 PM
1

A lot of things could happen. Always worrying about the worst case scenario is pretty dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:06 PM
3

It's really the other way around. Women don't date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:54 PM
1

Except in reality the worst thing that will happen is the bouncer/bartender takes it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:38 PM
2

Sounds like a revenge fantasy to me. Women don't just start throwing themselves at you just because you have money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:21 PM
1

Some of you guys are so dramatic and risk averse it's pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:07 PM
2

You gotta stop caring about what strangers think of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:06 PM
1

Nah, I just wanted to be technically correct so I can win. What is your real background though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:57 PM
1

Damn girl, you got somebody buying you $11k watches?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:49 PM
1

Do you have a Romanian passport?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:29 AM
1

???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:23 AM
2

Is anyone looking out for you though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:51 AM
5

Your world's gonna be shattered when you realize people only care about what's in their own self-interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:35 AM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:48 AM
1

Because they're thirsty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:42 AM
3

Men don't find it "interesting" to rate women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:26 AM
1

So it was that women consider most men ugly. Glad we could figure that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:17 AM
2

Yes. Any friend who cheats just becomes someone I wouldn't trust. That doesn't mean I'm gonna burn bridges or stick my nose where it doesn't belong. It's really not my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:13 AM
1

Again, I have to ask why
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:03 AM
1

If they press beyond your polite answer (saying you don't have cash) tell them to fuck off. You're not a bad guy for that. They have no right to your charity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:52 AM
1

Why? I don't really care to do either so I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:44 AM
4

Because women think most dudes are ugly and don't want to be mean or because women aren't as thirsty?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:36 AM
3

Reddit has to be like 80% dudes minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:06 AM
1

Definitely let him know. If they were broken I'd say there's nothing to be gained there, but he deserves to know. I'd want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:00 AM
2

What makes you think up these hypotheticals? I'd straight up tell the girl I just met about the terrible date I was on. I'd go back to my date, tell her I didn't think this was working for either of us, and wish her well. Realistically I'm never meeting the other girl because I've probably gone home once I realized my date was late.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:57 AM
1

Is she still with the boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:50 AM
1

Lacrosse
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:51 AM
1

I'm down to be featured
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:22 AM
2

Idk, we never ended up being anything more than friends. Whenever I think about it I kick myself over it a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:11 AM
1

Oh yeah. Everybody knew we had a crush on each other, and she confirmed it years later. In hindsight she tried to let me know–including smiling and blushing while I read it–but I just didn't believe it at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:07 AM
1

Haha, it was surprisingly well received. The teacher liked it, and it turned out basically everyone in the room knew I had a crush on the girl and she had a crush on me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:03 AM
1

Lol, her post dredged up a long forgotten memory of a time I had to write one in 9th or 10th grade for history class for some reason. I ended up writing it to my crush (who sat next to me) while the teacher was making everyone read theirs aloud.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:54 AM
1

I like to eat something light. Something that'll give me a little more energy, but won't make me feel sick or lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:43 AM
1

I've seen those people too and I hate them. That was the most depressing year of all time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:13 AM
1

He must've been able to come up with something better than wandering around in sewers for an adrenaline rush
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:07 AM
1

Rep or gen?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:57 PM
1

I wouldn't stay with a known liar. If they're lying to me about that, what else are they lying about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:49 PM
3

If you're gonna lie about anything, you gotta take it to the grave or you're outing yourself as a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:30 PM
1

In places like the US more and more women are just choosing to stay single rather than get into a relationship with an even average man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:09 PM
1

RIP your fiance
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:08 PM
2

What's your ethnicity?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:35 PM
2

Romanian
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:22 PM
5

You all are terrible detectives as I have both already posted on my page on the fashion sub, though the selfie is 4 years old (not this one, the one from that post.) Big main character energy here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:21 PM
1

It's not as bad as it seems. I know many people in corporate America who get paid well to barely do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:49 PM
1

What dad bod cult? The only time I ever hear that term is here (in a negative way) and men making fun of themselves for getting chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:44 PM
1

Where's your evidence women are more tolerant of men becoming less attractive to due aging?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:14 PM
2

I despise your haikuposting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:39 AM
1

Long story short, I demanded a raise I 100% deserved and my boss/the owner told me to go fuck myself. I quit on the spot. After about 6 weeks unemployed without an offer that was better than my previous job, I started to think I really fucked up. One night the stress got to me and I broke down to my gf of about a year. She was supportive while I was putting up a confident front, but as soon as I showed vulnerability, her disgust was palpable. She broke up with me a couple weeks later. And no, sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:24 AM
3

I had a pretty horrible experience, and yeah, no one really cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:48 AM
3

Getting more and more suspicious for sure will protect you from 99.9% of the asshole but it will also keep you away from some good experiences. It won't if there aren't actually any good experiences out there for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:29 AM
2

You won't find the truth here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:19 AM
1

I've seen it linked here a few times and it goes over my head tbh. Idk if they're trying to be funny or sincere or what.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:49 AM
1

This has maybe happened to me recently, but I also think get the idea he's probably gay. I would personally never do that. Also, wanna be "friends?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:40 AM
1

That was a reddit post, wasn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:55 AM
1

We all gotta die some time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:42 AM
1

Would that be wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:37 AM
1

I have secondary hangxiety from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:25 AM
1

Even in a relationship I find what he did is cringe. He comes off like he's begging for her to show him affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:23 AM
2

He's trying too hard. It's making him off like a man with no other options who's desperate to keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:55 PM
0

There used to be a height limit, but it was removed a few years ago. And even then it was 6'5''.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:46 PM
1

Could be worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:21 PM
0

Can anyone tell me any positives about being short? If you're tall, you can't fit in a lot of Lambos, especially older ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:18 PM
1

How much is your tuition?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:15 PM
2

Never being held responsible for your own actions has to be a pretty sweet deal if you can get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:10 PM
7

Next thing you're gonna tell me is tall men look good
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:04 PM
1

Hmm, according the FCC rules are a little confusing, but it seems like anyone sending political text is supposed to identify themselves. I wonder if it's a real organization sending these or just some loon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:52 PM
1

Could really go either way these days. There is definitely no shortage of people in the Trump camp who would say something like that unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:07 PM
1

Very strange. That's like the antithesis of attractive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:04 PM
1

Like that's their icebreaker or the first thing they talk about when you're already on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:40 PM
1

You're right. There is not a single presentation from someone else that I remember from high school, college, or work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:16 PM
1

Really? Your kidding?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:13 PM
4

Women always good
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:09 PM
2

See how she's looking at him? Clearly it ain't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:32 PM
1

I'm single, so obviously not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:43 AM
8

Women reject 99.999% of dudes and then say shit like "you just need to find that one person who will accept settle for you 😊." But it's men who are picky/Stacy chasers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:33 AM
1

I've never understood it either. The only time I've have any feelings about a woman's lips one way or the other was when they're obviously fake or when they were exceptionally thin. I feel like it's something women care about way more than men. I never even knew it was something I should be potentially insecure about as a guy until I asked strange women to judge my looks (thankfully I'm in the clear there).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:23 AM
1

Tbh I don't really get all the fuss. I think I like a normal set of lips.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:33 AM
1

You're gonna make these other women in here feel self-conscious Sara. I love that. Carry on. 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:26 AM
2

Never considered it hurt to get them, but it makes sense since basically any injection hurts to some extent. Any permanent effects, or did your lips just return to normal? I'm very surprised they feel normal. They look like they don't move right at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:03 AM
2

Any women in here have lip injections? What's that feel like? Do they feel like real lips, or do they feel weird when you move them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:43 AM
2

Not only do you remember her birth date, but you're defending her attention seeking behavior regarding it. I'm watching you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:30 AM
1

Respect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:24 AM
1

Are you aware you're simping for a minor here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:19 AM
1

I was in HS when MW2 came out. You were one of those squeakers screaming the n-word at me, weren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:04 AM
4

Seeing women talk frankly here has fucked me up forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:55 AM
1

Not necessarily nothing, just less effort/enthusiasm. That's been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:17 AM
2

I could see that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:12 AM
2

🎣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:04 AM
1

Not exactly a reliable source given she's a cheating whore herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:59 AM
-1

I'm living proof that there are no leagues. I hear you. I often sport a beard longer than 12", I'm covered in tattoos, shave my head, etc. PPD wouldn't be impressed, but my bed was rarely empty. Could be. However, they'd latch on to my lack of education (didn't finish high school), height (5'1") and the fact that I was balding in my early 20's and put me at a 2 or a 3. I've read it firsthand in the sub that I moderate. My league is tall, leggy, busty blondes then. It sure looks to me like you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:55 AM
1

Feeling sorry for yourself does have its appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:32 AM
-2

You have a similar schtick so I'm not surprised you're here to defend him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:29 AM
2

Yes and no. Women who think you're hot will are more likely to want to do things for you that they don't get direct pleasure from. Like, she might be willing to deepthroat you if you're hot, but betabuxx probably doesn't even get a half-assed blowjob. She might still ask betabuxx to tie her up and choke her if those are her kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:23 AM
2

Women are freakier than men on average
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:08 AM
-2

Oh, so you're just here to brag then? Because it sure comes off like you're trying to say your experience is proof of something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:06 AM
0

It is absolutely bananas that you're trying to act like a victim here. Have you ever considered that maybe your personal experience doesn't make you the authority on the subject?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:58 AM
1

The fetish for corrupting straight men is big thing for certain gay men. A gay former friend got real creepy about that shit with me to the point where I had to cut him off, and that's who offtheredsand reminds me of.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:34 AM
1

Wouldn't happen to me. I was in a relationship with a hall of fame whore once. I know all the right questions to ask and all the wrong answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:31 AM
2

No. There are no women on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:23 AM
1

I unsubscribe/end all political texts and emails too, idk how they got my number. So I don't know this for sure, but I've heard replying actually lets them know it's not a dead number. Legally speaking, I don't think they can use it after you tell them to stop, but I've been led to believe they can share it as a known live number to other groups they're aligned with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:42 AM
1

You also were last dating like 40 years ago. Convenient you always leave that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:00 AM
2

I don't think you should let that stop you from doing everything you want to do while you're here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:24 PM
2

So you have cancer now, or you think you're going to get cancer?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:55 PM
2

Future dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:21 PM
3

It seems he didn't cheat on and she's just batshit. The only way and average guy can get a cute girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:14 PM
2

Women don't like them because they're deadbeat dads, they like them in spite of being deadbeat dads. I used to work with a guy who impregnated three women in less than three years. Typical bad boy Chad type. The 2nd and 3rd women both knew he was a deadbeat to the first kid/baby momma and they still wanted him anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:05 PM
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You're just making shit up and claiming it as fact lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:26 PM
2

You don't think most women want relationships? That's counter to what most women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:23 PM
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Because women can't leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:18 PM
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Because there is no shortage of women complaining how men are all players and how all they want is sex and blah blah blah. Those guys ain't average Adam, those guys are Chad who Becky thinks are in her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:15 PM
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Mid women are the ones who think Chad is their league. It's not mid men who think Stacy is their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:43 PM
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You co-signing what she's saying proves you're both projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:36 PM
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Not immediately, but an eyebrow would be raised. I'd need to see her body language and hear her voice when she talks about the situation/the ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:30 PM
3

The easy answer is, these women want to fuck the casual sex guy, but aren't attractive enough themselves to realistically lock a guy who is that attractive down. He has far too many options. They don't ever really want to fuck the guy they have to settle for to have a relationship, so waiting is not an issue. Relationship guy is not sought out for sex, he's sought out for everything else he has to offer her. That's why there's so much focus on making him "prove himself" first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:44 PM
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From the top post over there right now: we never have to worry about having short sons. Women will take any opportunity to shit on short dudes, I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:08 PM
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Same bro. The women I find most attractive tend to be roughly as tall as me which is pretty tall for a woman. Sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:04 PM
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I got con artist lol. Dark triad 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:41 AM
1

That's a little different. I'm bad at judging other men, but he seems pretty good looking, and it also seems like he's high status within his field. Lana Del Rey's dude is old and been cooking in the sun too long. Everything basically every woman says they hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:34 AM
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It's interesting that your feelings for the friend just kinda hit you all of a sudden instead of gradually. Can't say I've ever really had that happen. I'd say the situationship era counts as being single. Sounds like you didn't really have feelings for him anymore and used that time to process the end of the relationship. Just an opinion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:33 AM
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Years ago I got dragged along to a gf's hair appointment somehow. I thought it'd take maybe an hour. It was closer to three! Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:03 PM
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There are exceptions to every rule, but that's all they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:59 PM
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Ime they're usually looking for an excuse to search you/your vehicle, not just write a ticket.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:20 PM
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They do that shit for fun. Someone I knew was a cop and she used to follow/tailgate people to try to make them nervous so they'd something stupid just to make herself laugh (or to manufacture a reason to stop them).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:07 PM
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Man if that's what I have to do for "love," I don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:45 AM
2

I'm an Olivia Rodrigo guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:04 AM
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If having integrity was easy, there wouldn't be so few people who have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:49 AM
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Good on you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:30 AM
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Cold approach to in a relationship in a month or less is pretty fast, no? How'd that happen? Did you leave the one ex for the guy you already knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:17 AM
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Did you know the successive guy(s) before the previous relationship ended?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:49 AM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:19 AM
1

I hate a lot of this stuff too, but it is what it is. No risk no reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:14 AM
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I would make sexual innuendos using animal crackers with her if she asked me to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:03 AM
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Dude's beat though, ain't he?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:24 AM
2

How does platinum singer end up with an "alligator tour guide?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:09 AM
4

Noooooo young women ARE actually really into older men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:12 AM
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https://i.ibb.co/LrppVLr/Q7CCtHf.png
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:06 AM
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RicePresident Quant Really went against the stereotypes there, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:24 PM
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Somebody's hangry
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:47 PM
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A penis looks like a prolapsed rectum btw. Big W for us cut men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:34 PM
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I've lost 20 lbs since this video was taken. I don't look that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:34 PM
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A penis looks like a prolapsed rectum btw. Big W for us cut men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:32 PM
1

I'm a fan
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:16 PM
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I think your heart's in the right place. As long as you're not going out with dudes just for free meals, I don't think you have to order the cheapest thing on the menu. If he picked the place, or agreed to your suggestion, it's kinda on him to know what he's getting himself into. And I'd probably take splitting differently if the girl explained she's paying for her order because she ordered the most expensive things on the menu and doesn't want to seem like "that girl."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:12 PM
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Yes. I actually had an epiphany about this somewhat recently. Every girl I've been with either had short fake nails (gel or whatever) or painted their real nails. Went out with a girl recently who bites her nails and the fact that they looked all fucked up surprised me in how much it grossed me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:11 PM
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I assume that's would be how it'd work, I've just never heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:11 PM
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There's such a thing as lesbian "gangbangs?" And nah, I wouldn't marry her. Women who are into group sex are off-putting to me regardless. I probably would be suspicious of any woman who was historically only into women too. Yes I know this is bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:41 PM
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When women offer to pay on the *first date* it feels like a test. I interpret offers to split as rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:32 PM
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Agree to disagree I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:26 PM
2

"Weird" usually has a negative connotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:06 PM
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The next sentence is irrelevant to the point I'm making. People read (too much a lot of the time) into certain behaviors and it's resulted in people playing games. Pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:55 PM
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What was the gender ration at this meetup event you met your bf at?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:50 PM
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I think replying back super fast for long periods of time is weird But I don’t like playing games, why wait an hour or two between replies? Gee, I wonder why that game started being played in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:45 PM
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That's not why you see hideous women with good looking men. You either don't see that because they're never seen in public together, or she looked good when the relationship started and then she just let herself go once she got comfortable. Men and their desperation to get laid are completely at fault for the collective overinflated ego of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:42 PM
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I agree people shouldn't play games, but it won't just fall into place for men because we're still expected to play the role of the pursuer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:47 AM
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I don't give a shit about 10 hookups from nearly a decade ago. She's being way too dramatic and weird about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:16 AM
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I think they can find a voice attractive, but it doesn't mean anything beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:44 AM
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https://targard.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/cmspages-hunter.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:42 AM
1

The ocean
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:39 AM
1

Why the buddy pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:29 AM
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Ultimately, I think you choose to let it happen. You can choose to walk away at any time if they're bad for you. You don't get to choose who it's gonna happen with, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:25 AM
1

So non-Chad's league is overweight women? Even if he's not overweight himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:12 PM
1

You asked her out and she said yes, but you didn't exchange numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:53 PM
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The betrayal/lying was what bothered me the most. I felt some insecurity about my sexual prowess initially, but that didn't last long at all. Okaybear is probably right that the root of it is insecurity about the lineage of (potential) offspring. I think women care about infidelity less in general. When I've talked to female friends about it, they just don't really seem to get why it bothered me as much as it did. Some of these were even women who'd been cheated on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:51 PM
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Get the fuck outta here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:50 PM
1

Sounds like some dude tore her throat up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:14 PM
1

Nah, not having to deal with the embarrassment is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:10 PM
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Dying of armpit cancer when I'm 60 is a deal I'm totally willing to make to not be the guy sweating through his shirts my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:34 PM
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Why can't women like ugly men like gay men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:40 AM
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Stop. Let him be happy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:38 AM
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That era of music was super underrated/unfairly hated for a long time. Your mom has good taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:31 AM
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I get it. My dad sold his cool classic car that he'd promised me for years not long before I got my driver's license. It wasn't nearly as cool as a GTR, either. I've owned several cooler cars since, but I'm still a bit butt hurt about that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:16 AM
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Oh okay, I didn't think you were that old. If you were 29 we'd be pretty close in age, and I feel like 80s music was particularly dead for people my age until pretty recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:02 AM
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A man of taste and culture. Does he still have it? Color? Is it willed to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:48 AM
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Like a Hako or an R32/R33/R34?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:37 AM
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Certain smells trigger nostalgia for me, but usually not specific. What car did your dad own?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:32 AM
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You're 29?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:31 AM
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Anyone else feel like certain songs are as close to stepping into a time machine as you can get? I feel like I can sort of relive various moments in my life through music.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:07 AM
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Yeah, I'm just wired a certain way unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:48 AM
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Even boomer women are only interested in dating out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:46 AM
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Ah, okay. We have different goals. Just getting laid isn't enough of a reward for going through the motions of the conversation you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:33 AM
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Feels like something a person who hasn't actually been on a lot of first dates would say. They get pretty repetitive after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:06 AM
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You want to look for girls who like food but simply just can't eat that much. One of my exes was like that (she was a cheating whore tho).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:04 AM
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I think I remember her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:39 AM
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You really don't see women overrating themselves and each other en masse? We're both here: Do you think most of them women here aren't mid? Because they certainly don't act like it. Even the ones who do consider themselves mid think they deserve better than mid. Let's be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:27 AM
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Hmmm, if you're thinking about telling someone in a DM who you're referring to, I think I'd be a great candidate for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:20 AM
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The problem is, no woman considers herself mid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:14 AM
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Nothing wrong with being mid though. Except if you're a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:47 AM
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Haven't you tried to argue with me that women don't actually have super high standards before? Like maybe even multiple times?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:42 AM
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So average men and women so picky no one on OLD was good enough for them. A recipe for success if I've ever heard one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:39 AM
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Do you do well on dating apps at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:36 AM
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Damn, this made me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:34 AM
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It's a mugshot (he was the subject of today's Police Activity vid). I have no idea why they made him wear a barber cape.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:47 PM
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Q4W: Rating?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:44 PM
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Holy shit she's annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:36 PM
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I don't get it either. People do stuff I would never even dream of doing. I've had people make an appointment and then just show up at my house unannounced hours before or after the agreed upon time, and they act dumbfounded when I'm not happy about that. Like I should just be happy they decided to grace me with their presence at all or something. I can only chalk it up to stupidity and/or complete self-centeredness. I feel like I encounter a lot of people who think the world revolves around the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:10 PM
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What are you worried she'll do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:37 PM
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I’ll have to get checked to make sure she didn’t pass any diseases onto me. Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:32 PM
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Anything's possible, but there are 2.2 million federal employees and most of them aren't law enforcement. An undercover FBI agent isn't gonna just casually reveal themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:48 PM
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Unless you're a therapist, who gets the the opportunity to talk in depth and honestly with cheaters anywhere outside the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:59 AM
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I think sexual harassers tend to see what they want to see. Telling her to cut it out wasn't good enough for mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:20 AM
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What makes you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:15 AM
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Sounds like your actual kink is being kink shamed. All jokes aside, you shouldn't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:13 AM
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I'm sorry for pressing you. I got mad because I felt like I was being baited.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:11 AM
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What's the kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:08 AM
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Haha, I appreciate that you don't lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:46 AM
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The longer I hang around, I see you've been through a lot. I'm sorry you've been through what you've been through and people say shit like that to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:41 AM
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When I was sexually harassed once upon a time, I wasn't that concerned because she wasn't actually much of a a threat to me. I understand why women take it as a threat to their safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:37 AM
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Apology accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:33 AM
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Do you think you deserve the benefit of the doubt here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:16 AM
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I just fundamentally don't think the approval of women is worth killing yourself over. Fuck em if they don't like you. Honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:13 AM
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I think the approval of women isn't worth killing yourself over. A lack of hair stopping you from asking women out is stupid. Who gives a fuck what they think? They'll either say yes or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:11 AM
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You're still attention seeking right here. You yourself admitted you know you're not actually a 2/10, you just think you are from certain bad angles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:58 AM
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Sorry, I'm being negative for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:55 AM
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It's always disappointing when people avoid answering your question because they know their answer isn't pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:54 AM
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Maybe be fuckable. You could spend all that money and still end up right where you're at. Is it really worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:49 AM
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Interesting. Thanks for the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:43 AM
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Well, you are a woman who chooses to speak on what dating is like as a man, sooooo... And yes, being a loser is generally what makes people not give any weight to your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:33 AM
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It's okay, I'm a loser so my opinion is worthless anyways. I still see through you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:27 AM
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So women who do push a guy to fit their preferred image = bad thing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:24 AM
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I know you know that! So you're acknowledging you don't actually believe you're a 2/10 then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:20 AM
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🙄 Everyone knows the bottom up angle is the most unflattering angle for everyone. So you don't actually look like that in real life. We both know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:17 AM
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If you hang around long enough, you'll find the genuinely ugly personalities are actually attached to ugly people you wouldn't want anything to do with anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:14 AM
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What can I say, I have a lot of experience with manipulative women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:10 AM
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You've never dated a guy that you thought looked good as he was? Why'd you date him in the first place then? Genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:05 AM
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I thought you were fucking with me with the cowboy boots and hat bit. I feel like you have to be actually living that life to pull that off, and if you were into that I assume you'd just date a cowboy/or cowboy adjacent country guy. I was thinking about how a common theme in my relationships is women trying to change me. If they met me wearing facial hair, they prefer me clean shaven. One met me with long-ish hair, but preferred I wear it shorter. They didn't beat around the bush about it either…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:02 AM
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I see through you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:51 AM
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I assume your culture is not America?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:46 AM
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Thanks for your answer. What do you make of women who do outright suggest their partner alter his appearance to their liking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:44 AM
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What do you make of women who do outright suggest their partner alter his appearance to their liking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:44 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:42 AM
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If you never actually believed you were a 2/10, why were you using the idea that you were a 2/10 in one unflattering picture and still able get women as a means to dunk on men? You make no sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:41 AM
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Bold claim. Where's your evidence/what's you're reasoning for the idea that men are the ones chasing women out of their league rather than the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:35 AM
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So you weren't fishing for compliments, but you know damn well you're not actually a 2/10? People who actually think they're 2/10 don't think they look attractive in any picture no matter what they do. You're full of shit lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:15 AM
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I'm coming it from a POV of thinking they didn't like me for me. I was just the best they could do and they were trying to mold me into someone they actually did like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:09 AM
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'We' don't teach that to men because most can't reasonably expect it. Men exist to serve the world around them regardless of whether it's something they want to do or whether it's in their best interest. That's why the ability to weather suffering is seen as a badge of honor/courage. No one cares about our happiness, certainly not other men, and least of all, women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:00 AM
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So you never outright say "I wish you'd style your hair X way?" Do you think a guy should read into that if she does? If so, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:50 AM
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Q4W in relationships: Do you try to tweak your partner's appearance? How they groom themselves, how they style their hair/facial hair, how they dress, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:30 AM
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Good for you man. I definitely think some of the shit I've posted here is bad karma.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:00 AM
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If they're subsidizing her rent, she knows if she ever gets in a jam she can just go to them for more. She's not stressed because she knows she has them as a safety net.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:52 AM
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Parents probably help her out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:47 AM
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I know who you're talking about. Letting him get under your skin is just letting him win.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:24 AM
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It does, but I feel like how people treat you, at least on a surface level, is more influenced by how you treat them. I'm not "pretty," and I still feel like I experience many of the benefits of what people refer to as pretty privilege. I think it's because I'm generally nice, friendly, and polite to everyone I come across regardless of how they look. It's possible you just feel better about yourself and putting better energy off to others because of it. Or maybe you just went from unattractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:02 AM
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You don't want attention or you're offended people didn't give you as much attention when you were less attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:52 PM
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Me too brother. Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:57 PM
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Some people do some people don't. Depends on genetics and how fat you were. And muscle mass won't fill it out most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:55 PM
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If I was fat I'd simply eat less
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:46 PM
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Fishing for compliments twice in just a couple hours is bold
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:03 PM
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Is headgear still a thing? To this day I've never seen a single kid in real life with it. No question I'd rather be the kid who cries over having to do the presentation. I could always overcome that fear if I really put my mind to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:09 PM
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Mileage = baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:56 PM
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Who cares about the body count of someone they're just having casual sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:52 PM
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A. Not a 2/10 B. Women seem to judge other women much more leniently than they do men. Even straight women say they usually find the average woman more attractive than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:28 PM
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Zero effect. The 39% saying this haven't changed their vote in decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:31 PM
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I see you didn't like my answer. You're really hung up on blaming the people who get cheated on rather than blaming the cheaters, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:29 PM
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Have you ever read cheaters talk about how they see their affairs online? Many (women especially) claim to love their partners and actually be having their affair for the sake of the relationship. They often claim it makes them are better wife or a better husband because the sex they're having on the side makes them a happier person. Cheaters often aren't actually unhappy in their relationship, they just want to have their cake and eat it too. Women will tell you straight up that they have diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:59 PM
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Do you think most men have a lot of options?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:33 AM
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I simply don't like the way the way they look for the most part. Nothing weird about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:21 AM
1

Where'd you take this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:45 AM
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My idea was to take her out to a nice dinner, ditch her before the bill came, and never speak to her again. Only works if you don't live together though. Kinda lame I guess, but fuck potentially catching an extortion case over some whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:32 AM
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I wonder how much she gets paid for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:03 AM
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Nope. I hate cheaters and I don't want some other dude raising my kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:56 AM
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It sounds like you're not all that interested in a relationship, so why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:15 AM
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I mean it is midwest America.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:14 AM
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The rate of how much you change after a certain point slows down considerably. I'd say once you get past 24 or so a 10 year gap isn't that big of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:34 PM
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So you think every woman with their looksmatch treats their partner like they would Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:12 PM
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If a morbidly obese woman in her 30s was my looksmatch when I was ~20 and not fat myself, something about the dating market must be fucked. She did chase me around like I was Chad though, even though I told her to leave me alone. No other woman has really done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:03 PM
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I find a lot of desserts at restaurants to be too rich and sickly sweet for my taste. I want maybe 2 or 3 bites and then it just makes me nauseous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:00 PM
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No, you're just seeing a girl who isn't that into you. Most of giving bad head comes from a lack of enthusiasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:57 PM
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I experience just how flaky strangers (mostly men) are when I sell stuff on facebook marketplace. The amount of people who will act enthusiastic/serious, make an appointment with you, and then ghost is very frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:49 PM
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They put in some effort, I just feel like I have to put in more. Should anyone I'm in a relationship with treat me like I'm hot even if I'm not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:32 PM
1

What's it mean if you check some of these boxes but not others?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:04 PM
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Why do you think they're shamed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:51 PM
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I had girls express interest, but I was never asked out by a girl. I think you were probably better looking than you think if that happened to you multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:50 PM
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Women are shamed for it because they want someone who will improve their life while having no intention of improving their partner's. Women think they deserve shit just for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:44 PM
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Did you mean to reply to me? I'm not sure what your point is here. Who is saying women can't fall in love with Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:43 AM
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Well women keep telling me looks are subjective, and they're all unique in their preferences, so that should mean I must be attractive to all kinds of women. Do you disagree with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:42 AM
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I usually drink a lot to numb my pain, but I need to pass a physical in a couple months, so I've been mostly sober for the past couple months. Other than that, I do a lot of stuff on my own. At least there's no one around to stop me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:48 AM
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Is it like a multiplier? Does everyone who asks ask add another 24 hours? Just in case, when are you getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:14 AM
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Why do you think most women still deny most men are unworthy of being selected? Or deny they're the selectors at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:58 AM
1

Hmmm, smells like Mopar in here all of a sudden
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:02 AM
1

Must be nice to get a break for a couple days every now and then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:56 AM
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Gotcha, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:26 AM
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That's what I'm saying. If your partner didn't mean for you to find out they were cheating on you, should you let it go?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:14 AM
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What's there to clarify? I have negative thoughts about people I don't share because I'm not an animal who sets out to purposely hurt their feelings. I don't pretend to like or love those people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:09 AM
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If you want to see a bunch of insane women try to justify their insane behavior, read this thread. According to women, whether she's being honest about not really liking him or intentionally manipulating him, he's the piece of shit for reading her diary. https:/np.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f01wp7/found_her_diary_its_bad/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:31 AM
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Oh, I see. I wasn't paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:00 AM
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I've seen this list before. I'm skeptical of Casino making the top 25 over Goodfellas. I personally prefer Casino, but I see most people argue Goodfellas is the superior movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:44 AM
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That's what artificial sweeteners are for
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:31 AM
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If you're gonna be a dork about it, you have to at least have the right date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:28 AM
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You literally just said that women are spoiled because we have so many (good) options, but now you’re saying “yeah ok most men are in relationships, but are they good enough?” Do you not see the irony??? I never said women don't settle, but settling on one of a thousand options is different than settling for one of maybe two. It's usually just one. You even say you don’t want to settle. Ok and neither do many women! Because I (and most guys) have so few options and the ones I do have are objecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:21 AM
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I think your fibbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:55 PM
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I made my case as to why women are spoiled, and you just decided to ignore it because you don't have a counter argument. Instead you just assert that my struggles are all my own fault and that most people are happy and laughing at me. Typical. Most men are in relationships, but what's the quality of them? I suspect that not actually that great for a lot of guys. I know I could get into a relationship if I really wanted, but I'd have to be willing to settle for just anyone and it'd still take som…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:47 PM
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At those terms I'm getting $770/mo assuming a $39k vehicle and $0 down. I'm even using California which has the highest sales tax. Why is he paying almost double that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:31 PM
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She can't really have made that much money, could she have?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:12 PM
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Do you know his interest rate? Even if he put zero down and has a 36 month loan, his rate has to be like 30-40% if he's paying $1400/mo for a $30k car. I didn't even know that was possible. He'd have been better off putting it on credit card if he had the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:11 PM
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Your comment assumes that women are swarmed with good options. I knew this was coming. If you can look at 1000 men that YOU swiped right on in the first place and can't find a good option among them, you're spoiled. I'm not sure I can safely say I've had even 100 options in my entire life to this point, let alone within a week of creating a dating a profile. I'm in my early 30s, for context. If women complain about not being able to find a good option among 1000 or more men, what hope would the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:04 PM
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Most of the women I've dated woman were not what I'd call particularly enthusiastic towards me. At least, not in the way I've seen women display enthusiasm for hot dudes. The only time I've been treated like that was by very very unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:58 PM
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Women will tell men their lack of success in dating is due to their personality and then turn around and say "of course we're shallow! DUH!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:40 PM
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When I can't live on my own I'll just self-delete, but that's besides the point. I'm not advocating for not saving at all, but I don't believe in saving every dollar possible for retirement either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:19 PM
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That's not where I get the idea women are spoiled. I get the idea women are spoiled because they've never had more options available to them thanks to online dating and they still find reasons to complain/question where all the "good men" are. I also know every year the marriage rate drops, and we all know it's not men who are driving that. I also hear women talk about the incredibly minor things that give them "the ick." The only people who have the lucky of being that that picky are spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:09 PM
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I was worried you'd say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:54 PM
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I think there's a lot of women out there who get desperate to just be in a relationship after a while and settle for the first man who takes them seriously. There's no shortage of women online who talk about how they gave the "ugly" guy a chance for reasons other than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:46 PM
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Rating your partner honestly seems crazy to me. I could never try to give an objective rating of my husband. The fact that she's able to kinda suggests she doesn't find him attractive enough to have boyfriend/husband goggles for him, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:28 PM
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It's a good comfortable living in most places, but it's not wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:22 PM
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Some women settle for dudes they don't feel strongly about, not all What do you think the best way for men to avoid these women is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:12 PM
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Wealthy to me is when you can stop working and maintain a wealthy lifestyle on what you have saved. At $4.4 million you're not even close to that anywhere in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:00 PM
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What good is all that money gonna be to me when I'm washed up at 60?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:47 PM
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I don't find it surprising people don't have nice things to say about their exes, especially if they felt wronged by them in some way on the way out. I think it tends to make people prone to exaggeration. Her saying "always" having to pick up his dirty socks might very well have been something that only happened a handful of times over the course of the years, and who the hell knows what relatively minor thing she did that annoyed him. People like to lay the blame solely on others so they can ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:45 PM
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Depends. Loved someone and lost them because they treated you like shit? I'd probably choose to go with out that. Loved someone and they died after many happy years together? I think that's worth the feelings of loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:26 PM
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I think women feel desperate a lot less often than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:01 PM
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Did I ask for the opinion of "male sex getters?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:56 PM
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RPers think if they repeat themselves enough whatever they say will become true. That doesn't mean it's reality. It's pretty obvious women are the choosers in both sex and relationships most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:48 PM
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Man No one asked you fella
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:42 PM
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but I've never seen that work out in real life. Define work out? You've never seen a FWB situation turn into a real relationship? Based on previous posts I've seen from you on this topic, I'm not sure I trust your supposed observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:41 PM
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Women are the ones who call men the gatekeepers of relationships. I've always seen men argue that women are the gatekeepers of both sex AND relationships, which they are in the majority of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:34 PM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:32 PM
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Where do non-degenerate men hang out in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:32 PM
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Oh, it's certainly not scientific, but I figure the militant hookup only RP guys sort of balance out the lonely desperate guys. It's also just for my own entertainment, I'm not looking to draw any conclusions from it. I formed my opinion on these women a lot time ago anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:32 PM
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Q4W: I asked men here earlier if they were only looking for casual and about 50-60% of responded they were looking for relationships. What do you think women who say they can only find men who want hookups/casual relationships are doing wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:09 PM
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Q4W: What do you think of women who say men only want hookups/casual relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:06 PM
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I like all the ones I got to take off equally
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:59 PM
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Having standards for how I'm treated is why I'm single and I imagine I'll continue to be for the foreseeable future. Most guys are taking what they can get because they don't have the option of being very picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:46 PM
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Feeling like a burn victim rn
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:37 AM
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Q4W: What do you think of women who say they can only find men seeking hookups hookups/casual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:04 AM
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Q4M: Are you only seeking hookups/casual relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:02 AM
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Keep me updated
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:03 AM
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I think that’s probably why asking women to list their standards is the best equivalent. How does women listing their standards provide me with any useful information? I've seen threads where women list their standards and I can't remember a time I checked every single one of any woman's boxes. If I went by that you'd think I never dated and had no hope ever dating again in the future. I’m sorry your relationship experiences have been that way. I appreciate that, that's kind of you to day. IME t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:57 AM
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Text her and ask if she wants to come over. You've got nothing to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:39 AM
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I seem to remember men used to ask women what they bring to the table whenever they'd list off their standards a lot. I remember most conversations boiling down to women essentially saying "I want what I want and it doesn't matter what I bring to the table because if I don't get what I want, I'll just take by ball and go home." Women just have too much power in the dating market over most men for what they bring to the table to matter. Most guys don't have a lot of options and end up taking the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:35 AM
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You go girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:59 AM
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I didn't say anything you claim I did. You just seem to have reading comprehension issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:55 AM
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I feel like seeing your partner at their worst is inevitable. Eventually you'll live together and they won't be able to hide every gross thing that's just part of being a human being from you. Love is supposed to be what carries you through those unpleasant moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:02 AM
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Who are you that you're getting invited to this illuminati shit (I'm new here).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:55 AM
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Women here mainly answer with “I can see why women don’t like you.” That's what I'm saying, women make the assumption they know everything about your personality just based on what you say here. Why bother trying to convince someone who's already made up their mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:44 AM
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It's actually really sad how people seem to be increasingly replacing real relationships with parasocial relationships. Not really sure how we got here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:44 PM
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I never see men in this sub talk about what they believe they bring to the table for women. I never see women do that either. Honestly what would be the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:38 PM
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It's appalling how women who look like this feel so comfortable flagrantly shitting on other peoples looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:24 PM
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I'm just joking. I know you're all just dating vertically challenged Chads. They're rare, but they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:16 PM
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Smart move turning DMs off
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:03 PM
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Spray paint'll do it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:02 PM
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You think there are that many of those types out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:50 PM
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Idk if they would date taller men given the opportunity. The women here almost always seem pretty happy with their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:48 PM
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Black pill*
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:47 PM
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You think FDS types are hard to avoid?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:21 PM
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Sad to see all the women here are dating short (and therefore non-Chad) men. Have some self-worth, ladies. Jeez.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:17 PM
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Is that what they think? I never got that impression. I always just assumed it was something they just didn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:15 PM
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You're the first woman I've ever seen say they were actively looking for single dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:04 PM
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I mean on surface level if you are pleasant/easy to talk to that's enough usually. I think you're completely divorced from reality here. That's the bare minimum. Maybe for a hot guy it's enough, but most guys aren't hot. I think with women we have an idea of what we want so appealing to everyone is just a no go. Conventional attractiveness is a thing. The goal is to get as close to being conventionally attractive as possible. You seem to believe in this fantasy of every woman having wildly diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:57 PM
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One of the funniest things to ever happen was when a female comedian disguised herself as a male because she thought it'd be easier and then went up and completely bombed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:50 PM
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I agree non-monogamy is still a minority. I think hookup culture is pretty prevalent nowadays, though. I think a majority of people at least try it out. It's the people who make it a lifestyle for a long period of time that I'd like to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:46 PM
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Nope, not accepting that shit either. American.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:40 PM
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Ah, I see the disconnect here. He's not trying to get you to change your mind after you've said no. He's trying act in such away the appeals to the most women possible from the beginning, or at least be attractive enough that they don't immediately rule him out. You don't think a man's behavior impacts how attractive he is? You think it all comes down to looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:38 PM
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I tend to think they're full of shit, but there are tons of women who say attraction isn't binary for them. Some guys are a hard no, some guys are a maybe, and some are a yes. The idea behind "making" someone attracted to you is about nurturing the maybe until it becomes a yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:02 PM
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I'm not the guy you replied to, but I want our family to have one name and in our culture it is emasculating to for a man to take a woman's name.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:25 PM
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Well damn, this isn't the response I expected at all. That is a possibility, but I would point to our "elites" if there is in fact a concerted effort to push this kind of propaganda. Keeping people divided only stands to benefit them. Heh, I've always contended that promiscuous people trying to do monogamy is like trying to stick a square peg in a round hole. I hope you're right and it's all bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:18 PM
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https://www.vice.com/en/article/women-get-bored-in-bed-faster-than-men/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:49 PM
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I play video games so rarely a woman can date me for months without knowing I occasionally play video games. Some have been openly disgusted and disappointed when they found out. And it's not like I suddenly start playing for hours and hours a day. The last time I could tolerate more than an hour or two at once was when I was a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:46 PM
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Unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:29 PM
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Women don’t seek out variety like (some) men do. Women are actually more likely to get bored in a relationship due to lack of variety than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:17 PM
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So we're basically back to you believing romantic love should be unconditional. Stop trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:15 PM
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We've reached a consensus? I didn't hear no bell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:04 PM
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If you really can't figure out the difference between an accident and choosing to alter your appearance, Idk what to tell you. That's without even mentioning how unattractive being vain is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:02 PM
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Haha stop trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:53 PM
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The infamous OkCupid study is actually worse than it seems: Back then, online dating had a huge social stigma attached to it. Who cares most about their social status? That's right, women. Therefore, the only women on there in 2009 (or was it 2007?) were desperate. The only woman I knew who was on there around that time was my ex's cousin: She was a single mom in her mid-20s who literally lived in her mom's basement with her daughter. My point is, the fact that the women on there at the time mes…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:16 AM
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Then why is he supposed to "understand" (i.e. continue you be attracted to you) if you go and have an elective procedure that makes him no longer attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:22 AM
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So you think romantic love should be unconditional? Or is it only unconditional when you want it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:11 AM
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Even if he'd break up with you because he didn't like the changes?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:04 AM
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How can this be?!?! Women rhetorically ask me why they'd date men they're not physically attracted to. Surely they're not... no no, it can't be. They can't be... lying...? Can they?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:30 AM
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Q4U: You express a strong desire to get cosmetic surgery despite your partner expressing he prefers the way you look now. What are you thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:49 AM
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I mean, if you want to hop on, there's really no reason not to. If they let guys with AARP cards do TRT, it's probably pretty safe. If you do it illegally it's pretty cheap too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:44 AM
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I learned that lesson the hard way. Fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:40 AM
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She enjoyed "kinky hot primal desire sex with Chadly Chad hookup guy" until she got burnt by her risky lifestyle. If the assault never happened, she would've settled down in her 30s like most women do now. You might be inclined to say I'm victim blaming, but I swear on everything I care about that I'm not. Just because she engaged in risky behavior doesn't mean she got what was coming to her or anything like that. Her assaulter(s) should be sent to burn in hell. I'm just acknowledging the unfort…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:36 AM
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Truthfully I don't really think I had any conscious thoughts until you asked above, but past trauma is what'd come to mind before helicopter parents. I take it you had helicopter parents and had what you consider traumatic experiences then? Everything is all relative your experiences. My worst day might be a good day for someone out there int he world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:13 AM
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No, the intended audience was anyone else reading. I didn't really care if you responded or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:55 AM
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That wasn't my first thought, but I suppose it would make sense. Then again, you could just be someone who had a painful experience or multiple painful experiences and retreated into your shell like a turtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:51 AM
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Are you not a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:47 AM
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I have in the past, they would give me the “I’m responding back to you to be friendly” vibe, and one time one even made a face like I was out of her league. You might have to push through that. You're talking to women who probably have low self-esteem whether they front or not. You have to make them feel like you actually want to be talking to them and them only. I realize it's kind of a lot of effort for very little reward, so if you don't want to, I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:46 AM
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She thinks she knows everything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:36 AM
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I'm curious, when you go out, have you ever tried giving ugly/fat women attention just to see if they'd respond to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:22 AM
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Love bombing can work for all guys, she just has to be interested in you for one reason or another. For regular guys, it's more like she knows she has a fish on the line to reel in. Attractive guys are just reverse, they're the ones holding the rod. Anyone can take it too far, though. Most women will see through a guy calling them the girl of his dreams before they've even met.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:20 AM
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You've never been to walmart?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:12 AM
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Okay, yeah, they're just laying it on thick trying to fuck. I was gonna say the guys who don't get a lot of attention are probably laying it on thick because they don't want this opportunity to pass them by. They might even truly believe they're feeling those feelings themselves without any actual intention to manipulate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:09 AM
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Do these guys look like they don't get much attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:00 AM
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It's hard for me to believe that even a bad face is worse than being morbidly obese, especially since pretty much all obese people have ugly faces dude to being obese. I'm not trying to put you down, I'm hoping to help figure out what your actual problem might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:58 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:49 AM
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You ever done a face reveal? I refuse to believe no women has ever showed interest in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:47 AM
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This dude should break the sound barrier running for the hills
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:32 AM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:38 AM
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No witch hunting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:34 AM
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Damn, sounds pretty awesome. I think of myself as someone with a lot of will power, but there's no way I could do two weeks without food. I get too irritable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:02 PM
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What are you doing it for?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:41 PM
1

Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:34 PM
1

How far into it are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:24 PM
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What they say on social media mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:20 PM
3

Never thought about it but it is cute. God I hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:19 PM
1

I've never felt like I was settling
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:17 PM
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The difference is no woman prefers short guys. I actually prefer smaller boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:00 PM
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How is it any different than rejecting a guy for being too short?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:58 PM
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Pets are kinda like women. Whether they love you or not is entirely based on what you've done for them lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:49 PM
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When someone asks about your politics, do you respond with "I'm a democrat" or "I'm a republican?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:41 PM
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I wouldn't date anyone who identifies with a political party.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:38 PM
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Macron's wife is a groomer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:00 PM
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They're not/weren't a whole lot better for millennials. It's really gen X that likes to babble their just world shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:55 PM
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Yeah I wasn't trying to say I'd have a chance with them or something like that. I was thinking of them as more competition for western Chad. I'm surprised they're still mostly hooked up with Ukrainian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:50 PM
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Since a few months after the war started, I hear some woman/group speaking Russian/Ukrainian virtually every day in public. Every single one of these women that isn't babushka-aged is smoking hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:29 PM
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Why shouldn't he?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:04 PM
1

Look at gloomette trying to be nice. Warms my heart sorta.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:48 AM
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You both go into it knowing there’s no future. Sometimes they talk themselves into a future anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:46 AM
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I think most men do prefer big boobs. The consensus among most guys I know is that even saggy, unfortunate looking big boobs are preferable to small-medium boobs unless they're legitimately perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:40 AM
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I'm surprised. I actually do prefer smaller boobs most of the time, but no woman I've dated who was insecure about it really believed me. I always assumed it was because I'm not hot and they didn't really value my opinion for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:34 AM
3

Interesting. If a guy you liked told you he preferred smaller boobs, would you believe him? What about a guy you weren't attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:23 AM
3

Is this something that happens to you a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:10 AM
1

How soon did sex happen and how good was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:56 AM
1

True that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:45 AM
2

It's usually the people who repeat themselves over and over that are considered silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:40 AM
1

Do you think she's the most attractive woman out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:30 AM
1

This place would be worthless without the women here, even the ones I don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:00 AM
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If you're having sex, you're not celibate. Just because the other person wouldn't choose to have sex without payment, and just because it may not be what you want, doesn't mean make the sex itself any less real.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:58 AM
1

Technically no one is actually incel because you can always pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:47 AM
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There are actually none because there are no women on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:33 AM
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I live in an area where masculinity is defined by guys driving lifted trucks or donks with giant rims on them, depending on what part of town they are from. I.e. low class people. Those dudes in brodozers usually have payments on their payments. $80k+ in debt for the truck and another $20k in debt for a set of hideous wheels. It's hood rich behavior. Fashion is a whole different thing. Most of dressing well comes from wearing shit that's clean, fits correctly, and is appropriate for the setting …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:11 AM
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Really? That's a relief! I actually spent most of my life believing women don't poop at all. When I learned they did, I was devastated. I'm glad it's not as horrifying as I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:57 AM
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I don't deny I'm a loser and I'm not trying to flex on you. Just telling you most people don't give a shit about what you drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:38 AM
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No offense, but you're outing yourself low class. I own a very nice/expensive car (because I like it). Most people don't even know what I drive, and most of those that do don't care. You want to impress people who aren't easily impressed? Buy a nice house.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:34 AM
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So you want to try to prove them wrong or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:27 AM
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I feel really bad for the girl who has to take a loud, foul shit in front of a bunch of her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:26 AM
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Especially since women have no problem calling 99.9% of men mid or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:23 AM
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Why do you feel guilty over it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:06 AM
1

Is this assuming you can get a word out before you get maced?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:26 PM
3

They're bitter. The woman who said that to me today was twice divorced. I can't imagine who the problem in all her failed relationships was.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:34 PM
2

Would you agree how women act on the internet is also reflective of women as a whole?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:31 PM
1

It's not really about having women wingwoman for you, it's about having friends to provide social proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:19 PM
6

I wasn't trying to imply there's an exchange rate of dates for sex. By "make him wait" I just meant the overwhelming majority of men will usually be ready for sex on the first date, while many women will not. He might be okay with it, but he is still "waiting" in some sense. If you have casual sex, you're obviously ready to have sex with some men very quickly. Why is it bad if the relationship man is ready to have sex with on the first date? If you're going to be hostile and interpret literally …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:10 PM
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I've never pursued casual sex, so I really don't know how that would go for me. I doubt it'd go well since I'm not that good looking. Women I already know for some reason (co-workers, friends of friends, etc) will pursue me for relationships with some frequency, making relationships pretty easy for me to get into. I've never had a woman pursue me for casual sex only. My opportunities to have casual sex have only been with women who were emotionally attached to me for one reason or another, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:54 PM
2

That's not been my experience, but it's obvious even if I try to argue my side you won't even listen. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:23 PM
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How many dates before you find it acceptable for him to try to initiate sex then? No one said anything about pushing for sex, and I'm not sure why you frame things in the ugliest possible way. Why is wanting to have sex okay for some guys and bad for others?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:06 PM
6

those women's partners have made themselves unattractive and undesirable by treating their woman badly. Yes, it couldn't be because she was never very attracted to him in the first place and just got bored. The only possibility is the man is treating her badly because he's a man and man are evil and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:47 PM
1

How have you gone this long without learning you can google any symptom and it'll tell you you're actually already dead?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:37 PM
3

Do you make him wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:34 PM
10

If the guy you get into a relationship isn't the hot fun guy, then what is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:22 PM
2

Hmmm, I wonder what makes it easier to not act on it with relationship vs ONS guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:01 PM
3

You have some kind of humiliation kink, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:32 PM
1

I suppose some people only see what they want to see
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:31 PM
1

You never see women complain about not being able get a guy to commit? How all men are just looking for something casual? How do you think women end up thinking this? Their standards are higher than what they themselves are offering. They blame men for their own entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:27 PM
1

It is entitlement when you're bitching about men not being good enough when you don't even meet your own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:13 PM
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No. You didn't do anything to feel shitty about, she doesn't think about you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:01 PM
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Because humans are social animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:00 PM
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Most people's standards start out sky high and are adjusted downward because they started out unrealistic. No one gets everything they ever wanted no matter how much they try to pretend that's the case after the fact. Why do women feel entitled to more than they have to offer themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:58 PM
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You're making the assumption women don't see themselves as settling even when they're getting out more than they put in. I disagree with that, so your "answer" is invalid. I won't answer your question until you give me a real answer to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:49 PM
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I asked first. Answering questions with questions is bad form.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:36 PM
1

I'd be just trying to keep her from making a scene. Anyone who brings that up on a first date is probably unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:32 PM
1

I'd personally rather have my fingernails pulled out than even go on a single date with one of those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:29 PM
1

So you're not gonna answer then? Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:22 PM
1

I said any man can play (or "abuse" if you want to be hysterical about it) a woman. Women like the ones above are just happy to continue to take the risk of that happening if the guy is tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:07 AM
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You're basically saying the majority of men are shitty people who set out to play women. That's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:51 AM
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Self-hating men are the weirdest breed of all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:41 AM
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They just don't find short (or average height) men attractive. They figure if they're gonna be treated poorly, it might as well be by someone they're actually attracted to. If nothing else, they get to fuck a hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:32 AM
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Nah it's western thing too, I'm just old enough to say fuck em
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:32 AM
1

Respect is earned
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:07 AM
1

Someone around here with a sense of humor! I'm impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:05 AM
3

Yeah, in the same way everyone thinks boomers are wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:33 AM
1

You'd like to dismiss it's not just maladaptive women on reddit, but you the same shit on all social media. It's just women saying what they really feel because they have the safety of anonymity. Women only bite their tongue in real life because they're the weaker sex and fear for their safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:09 AM
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Women really are evil I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:15 AM
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Are you trying to strengthen my point here? All her supposed problems (the ones she's probably making up for clicks) are fairly minor and self-inflicted. Like I said, women make mountains out of fucking mole hills.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:45 AM
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It's really not that hard to ask questions that prompt people to talk about themselves. People love to talk about themselves. Maybe you just have low standards for what you find interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:39 AM
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Congrats on the weight loss! I think that's more pretty privilege than thin privilege. If you looked like a troll, your boss would be just as much of a dick as he would if you were still fat. I've never been really fat, but I've been visibly out of shape, and I've been in great shape. I've seen formerly overweight folks online say people started treating them markedly better after losing weight, but I never noticed a difference in how people treated me (I generally think people treat me decently…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:26 AM
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Not really, what I said is basically true for anywhere that's not flyover country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:03 AM
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What's that supposed to mean? I think you'd be surprised how good of a conversationalist I am. Most people find me very easy and enjoyable to talk to. Most of the time it's like going through the motions because most people are average/not that impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:58 AM
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$100k isn't that much anymore. Assuming 20% down, $100k/yr would not get me approved for a mortgage on even a decent house where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:49 AM
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I'd need to hear some examples of what you're calling thin privilege first. I can only think of consequences of being really fat. Regular fats are usually unaffected.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:14 AM
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No, there just consequences of being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:08 AM
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Probably when I was a kid it happened a couple times, but it wasn't a bullying situation. My friends and I growing up always did stupid shit like that to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:05 AM
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You must realize that's not representative of most people, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:37 AM
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Your guess is good as anyone else's, but whatever it is is probably pretty bad if she's as you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:29 AM
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I wasn't attacking you. Is a good relationship not better than being single? Women who've checked out have usually done so because they find their options unsatisfactory.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:16 AM
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Okay, what percentage of men meet the threshold that earns them right a swipe? Whether that be on apps or figuratively in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:08 AM
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Women can set an age range on dating apps and they still only swipe right on a small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:06 AM
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So that would mean you can only (romantically) love someone as much as you lust after them? So if I lust after the hottest woman I know more than any woman in my league, does that mean I couldn't love any of those women as much as the hottest woman I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:51 AM
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There aren't enough quality men to go around as far as women are concerned. I imagine that's why you're single.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:45 AM
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It's probably real, but a lot more rare than women make it out to be. Women will call themselves demisexual just because they're only visually aroused by really hot guys. Women will do anything to pretend they're unique and special.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:33 AM
2

I assume if he's not offering dinner or something else she wants to do she just won't go.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:31 AM
1

I think it's because a lot of women are bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:28 AM
2

If you're a woman it's an easy way to get free meals/entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:23 AM
2

It's HuffPo so it basically is an Onion article
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:02 AM
1

Why do women feel entitled to more than they offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:42 PM
3

It is if the only other option is freezing to death
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:18 PM
1

Well there's you and then there's the legion of women who've been on apps for years complaining about their experience
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:16 PM
4

Most people are relatively boring dude
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:14 PM
3

Why isn't boring enough for a boring woman? Why do men always have to offer more than they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:05 PM
3

You're implying it's better than being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:45 PM
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Loyalty is not a feminine trait lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:37 PM
7

Since when is someone settling for you just because they don't want to be alone some great prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:34 PM
2

The same way men react now when they're called inferior, too short, and too unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:26 PM
1

So commitment really means nothing to women despite how much they prattle on about wanting it, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:00 PM
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That's interesting, I'm usually the one who's getting the "if you loved me, you'd..." shit, not the other way around. You're right, it is abuse. And it's the only reason women date average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:33 PM
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We know what women find attractive, and most guys don't clear that bar. There are lots of women out there dating men they're not physically attracted to because it's beneficial to them in some other way. Women will claim to be in love with a man and still not treat him as well as some hot guy she's just "met" on a dating app. That's what I was trying to say Chadfishing proves, btw. Not that hot people are treated better in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:13 PM
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Women do it all the time. Ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:56 PM
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Except there's no evidence to support the idea that most men are trying to fuck kids. There's all the evidence in the world that women treat men differently based on how they the look. The main evidence being that they openly admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:23 AM
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Are you actually denying women don't want conventionally attractive men? Chadfishing isn't done to prove women want Chad. It's done to show how much women will debase themselves to get attention from conventionally attractive men. It's highlighting the difference in how they treat Chad vs how they treat the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:11 AM
2

This sense make english in doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:27 AM
1

$250 easy. I don't really keep track, but I know I go 2x a week and usually spend $30+ on every trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:26 AM
1

Do you honestly think that's in the cards for most men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:18 AM
2

That makes sense. I forgot your immune system attacks cancer cells. And I hear you on not wanting to give yourself more reason to worry about your health. When something hurts or doesn't feel right I don't dare even google it. It's very easy to develop a complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:12 AM
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Is there a link between stress/lack of sleep and cancer? I'd expect that to manifest itself with cardiovascular issues more than cancer. Granted, I have no idea if cardiovascular maladies are on the rise as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:21 AM
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Well yeah, I'm not saying it's what draws them in. I just thought it would give women the ick because it looks like shit. If fuckin Ana De Armas did that shit to herself I wouldn't find her attractive anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:48 AM
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Women really do go for those guys that get themselves tattooed to look like a notepad someone scribbled on while they were talking to someone on the phone, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:43 AM
1

Microplastics seem to be the worst given the way cancer rates are skyrocketing among millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:40 AM
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Not really. Most of y'all live very easy lives and still find reasons to complain and just be generally miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:13 AM
2

I had a blank profile Tinder was first around. OLD still had a stigma back then and I didn't want anyone I knew in real life to know I was on there. I just wanted to see what the women on the app looked like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:08 AM
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The hotter the guy, the better the sex for women. That's scientific fact. Most women have casual sex with more attractive men than they lock down for a relationship. A man can do everything right and still not match the experiences in her past.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:41 AM
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The former. I really wouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:35 PM
2

You the woman in here who's from Argentina?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:20 PM
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Shit's bananas man. Even women who claimed to love me didn't even come close to bending over backwards for me like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:52 PM
4

It's patronizing for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:47 PM
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You can't refute him so you just start attacking him personally. That just proves he's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:46 PM
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I've seen women try to argue that the women in the chadfishing experiments all realized they were being trolled and were just trolling back. Also the age old "not all women."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:45 PM
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For a while after my buddy broke up with his ex, she'd go to his place for sex after going on dates with other guys. It's not really a fantasy. Edit: Remembered another one that happened to me personally. After a third or fourth date I brought her back to her car that she'd left in her work parking lot around midnight. She said she was tired and was going home. About 10 minutes later I ran into her on the road heading in the opposite direction of where she lived. It's kind of on me since I knew …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:00 PM
1

Yakuza tattoos look pretty cool though. Just the art itself is very impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:26 PM
1

Only for women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:21 PM
1

It originally started out as a hookup app, but I don't think it's been any more or less a hookup app since 2015 or so. In any case, none of the other apps seem to seem to provide the swipe rate of the average user, but if you do a little looking for women who've posted their data, you'll find they are just as picky on those apps as they are on Tinder. Men who post their data tend to also have similar results to men on Tinder. Even women who want relationships are all chasing around the same men …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:07 PM
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Nope, someone should do one though. Women on Tinder on average swipe right on 7% of men they see. We know it's not a wildly different 7% for every woman because the majority of men on dating apps get hardly any matches. The average male tinder user swipes right on 40% profiles he sees, so we can at least saying he's not just pursuing the top 20% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:22 PM
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If you're settling for someone you don't find physically attractive, how can it be anything but negative? Even if men would prefer a hotter woman, they still find the average woman physically attractive. The same can not be said for women about the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:44 PM
1

I'm not either necessarily. Even friends I've lost touch with, it was probably because we weren't that good of friends in the first place or because we'd grown apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:34 PM
1

What's in the past is in the past for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:15 PM
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I don't really understand why women ascribe such sinister motives to falling in love with a friend. You ever think maybe no one was ever lying and it just happened over time?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:10 PM
1

The interesting people I've met stand out in my mind much more than the boring people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:30 PM
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Well yeah, of course not. It's not hard to read between the lines though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:20 PM
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What the heck is a man supposed to do if he wants a partner, then? How many times do women have to tell you that they just want men they don't find attractive to fuck off and die? They're saying it whenever they're given the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:15 PM
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It's more like they like you and they want to fuck you. That's what makes a romantic relationship a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:13 PM
1

How do you know he wasn't homeless? Men lie after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:29 PM
2

Not in America
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:50 PM
1

It's big of you to acknowledge women are the ones who are emotionally shallow. Most women wouldn't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:08 AM
1

It's usually women say they'd reject a man because he doesn't come from a good family, not men saying that about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:02 AM
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Men complain about women being hysterical. Most men are not opposed to an emotional connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:45 AM
1

I feel you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:39 AM
1

Now you're getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:38 AM
1

Just because women prefer men who hide their emotions from them doesn't mean men value women who hide their emotions from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:33 AM
0

This is definitely female projection because I don't consider women I'm not attracted to to necessarily be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:30 AM
1

How's it a fumble?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:04 AM
4

She wasn't physically attracted to you enough. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:01 AM
1

Hope the kid's a girl, because otherwise this kid's gonna be a beta
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:57 AM
6

One of the few comments here that's made me laugh my balls off
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:51 AM
0

It does for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:35 AM
0

No. She's not my type, but she's not unpleasant to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:32 AM
1

Fat women are more likely to wear tight clothes that accentuate their fatness. I imagine the person who first accused someone of looking like ten pounds of shit stuffed in a five pound bag was talking about a fat woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:30 AM
4

To be an effective troll, you need to be a bit more subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:43 AM
1

People know better than to fuck with me like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:13 AM
2

Be the change you want to see in the world, lady
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:28 AM
3

In a democracy, people who weren't elected being the ones actually running things is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:24 AM
5

Typical woman looking for someone to do something for her rather than just do it herself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:07 AM
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I don't like her, but no. The people who actually pull the strings won't let her do anything significant one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:03 AM
1

Yes and no. I've been fortunate enough to get to do a lot of the things 13-year old me dreamed of doing, but I didn't end up rich with a gorgeous wife. I definitely had a high opinion of myself back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:07 AM
1

Did you go to legit place or a rub n tug spot?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:11 PM
1

How old are you? Probably just shocked because after a certain age most people have had at least one relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:29 PM
2

I don't think playing these games really makes that much of a difference in the long run, but you don't want to seem overeager either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:34 PM
2

White boomers must love you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:29 PM
5

What women find attractive is subjective though!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:01 PM
2

I would call the cops if I could at least Well yeah, I'd hope you wouldn't just run home and forget about him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:00 PM
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I am almost 100% sure that if the roles were reversed I wouldn’t run without him even if my boyfriend told me to or something. The whole point of fighting is to give a woman I'm with the opportunity to run. There's no guarantee I'm going to win the fight, but I can keep an attacker distracted long enough for her to get away. You just standing there* screaming or throwing girl punches helps nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:19 PM
2

It just means feelings of love or lust that leave you open to being exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:12 PM
1

I'm not looking or an average relationship. 3-4 times a week, but I'd prefer more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:44 PM
2

Don't worry, there are plenty of guys out there who let their nose get wide open for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:41 PM
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I'm aware of it, but women will tell you that's not the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:06 PM
7

He's playing hard to get. Look how well it's working, you're literally here begging for his attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:58 AM
2

Yeah I'm a guy in his 30s and holding hands definitely doesn't hit now like it did when I was a teenager. I have too much experience with the opposite sex to feel those fuzzy feelings anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:51 AM
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If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:28 AM
2

You can't just say that without sharing a story.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:20 AM
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How did women find a happy relationship before online dating? The average woman has never had more options than they do now, and it seems they're more unsatisfied than ever. Were women just never happy in the relationships historically?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:25 AM
2

Is there anything you want to do that you might find fulfilling that you currently see as foolish and/or irresponsible? Some wild dream that seems unattainable?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:06 AM
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The first example that comes to mind is a lack of punctuality is generally seen as more forgivable for women than it is for men. I generally think people just take it easier on women. Also, I feel like no one ever tells women to grow the fuck up, meanwhile I've been told that multiple times. In my late teens and early 20s, multiple people told me to join the military because they felt I was immature. This was when my country was actively at war, so they were basically telling me go to war to "fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:05 AM
3

That's kind of an extreme case. I assumed you were referring to run of the mill immaturity. The real world puts up with that from women much more than it does men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:41 AM
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Probably both pretty equally. Women face fewer consequences for acting like overgrown children, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:34 AM
2

Just roll with it and be aloof. If they're really into you they'll eventually lay it on so thick that there'll be no question of their intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:48 AM
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Crabs in a bucket mentality. They don't have the will power to change, so they try to keep others down at their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:39 AM
2

I'm sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:57 AM
2

I was taught PEMDAS, though flipping the D and the M doesn't matter. Just making a bad joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:47 AM
3

You don't sound miserable at all yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:44 AM
4

PEDMAS? What's that? Christmas for pedophiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:43 AM
1

Did you read the title of the thread? I'm talking about women my age who decide they want to date at some point. If they never do, that doesn't affect me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:06 AM
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I couldn't date anyone who's far to the left or right. If she's just liberal or a moderate conservative, we probably share enough common ground where it won't cause conflict. I mostly just don't want to have to talk about it all that much, but I don't want to be with anyone who's extreme either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:33 AM
0

Well yeah, if she's not expressing some level of romantic interest why is she doing it? How is it even useful to me otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:13 AM
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The author wasn't just talking about Walz and Elmhoff. She's saying good men in general "manifest liberal and feminist virtues — like being “happily deferential”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:10 PM
2

#NotMyPresident
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:04 PM
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You're basing your opinion on what you see you in the court system? No wonder you think they're all shit, usually good people don't end up in court in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:37 PM
2

Men are supposed to be "happily deferential" now? So women are now openly saying they should be treated as superior?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:22 PM
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Source that says otherwise? I asked first Here we go with this again..... Would you say you find most men you see attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:37 PM
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Those are all good reasons to avoid those women too. Who wants to date someone with a shitload of baggage, someone who's too busy, or someone who's lazy? do you just blanket assume all women dislike average men? I don't need to assume, the majority of women have made every effort to make that abundantly clear with their words and their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:28 PM
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I've tested out as ISTP and ESTP at different times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:36 AM
2

Are you intentionally being obtuse, or are you just that way naturally?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:23 AM
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I've been exposed to women on dating forums/subreddits for several years now. Literally zero women cite that as a reason why they're choosing to remain single. They usually say they're staying single because they don't need a man to support them financially and would prefer to be single than be a with a man who they don't find physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:21 AM
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So they're exchanging sex for a relationship then? No one is forcing them to do that, they're doing it willingly. Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:08 AM
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Thing is women who do are forced to have sex due to hookup culture or be dumped unless they are both religious. Then judged for something they didn’t really want to do at least that soon. Forced by whom? Isn't forced sex generally considered rape, a crime in western countries (the only ones that matter)? Are women not responsible for their their own choices and actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:00 AM
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Women are having more casual sex in part because men won’t wait, and for some because they love sex and there’s less stigma now. But the casual sex they’re having is with incredibly attractive men because they can. Average men don’t have access to casual sex as easily. They have access to relationships but not casual sex. And relationships are work plus require them to be where they can meet women; college, volunteering, church…which less men are inclined now to do. This frustrates them. It seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:39 AM
1

To be clear, you're acknowledging women willingly date men they find ugly and don't treat them the same way they'd treat a conventionally attractive man?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:20 AM
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You're not very bright, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:15 AM
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That being your primary concern means you're not relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:03 AM
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More and more women are choosing to stay single (statistical fact). Why do you think that is? It's not because of a lack of options. An average woman can hop on a dating app and have 1000+ average options within a week. Women don't want the average men, including the women who settle for them out of desperation. In an ideal world maybe most women wouldn't prefer to fuck around, but they certainly seem to prefer it to being in relationship with an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:53 AM
2

Give in to all your worst impulses. If you they're not dark enough, you weren't dark triad material to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:40 AM
0

If you have to ask, how do you know it's so easy? (it actually is easy)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:36 AM
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Majority of single women are single after 30 because of failed long term relationships. Source? There is no reason to assume someone fucked around with everyone until they reached when they wanted to find a long term partner. Really, that seems like something men do, not women. Most men–you know, the average ones who are invisible to you–don't have the opportunity to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:31 AM
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I mean, only a select number of people are still single at 30. Why hasn't anyone locked you (royal you, not you personally) down? The only acceptable excuse that I can think of is a long term relationship through your mid-late 20s ended up just not working out. If you've been fucking around, or you've eschewed the opposite sex altogether for the last several years, I wouldn't see that person as relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:20 AM
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Depends on why you're still single at 30. Have you spent the last decade fucking around and now you're scrambling to settle for whoever will have you so you can have a family? If so, you're just not a serious person and you can't expect me to take your seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:07 AM
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