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Question For MenTraining_Hold_1354/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:58 AM
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Why are you describing yourself as a pick up artist instead of making a more digestible comparison to being a sales person? Sales takes an “insane” amount of knowledge of social dynamics to be successful and caries over into other relevant spheres in life such as dating since sales and marketing go hand in hand when it comes to generating revenue. Maybe you’re not as successful as you proclaim if you don’t realize that’s what businesses do to appeal to consumers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:16 PM
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It’s short sighted. The nature of people requires an understanding by exposure to what you idealize in comparison to your reality that alters your perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:29 PM
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We play the mission impossible soundtrack at work when my boss is being insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:25 PM
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My mom is like that. I’m pretty sure her mom was similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:10 PM
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I think it’s missing cats. Dark triad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:45 PM
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IME women are taught to prioritize others from a young age. In school when boys would bully girls it was frequently brushed off as “he just has a crush on you”. I will say though, a lot of us were also taught what what could be considered unfavorable things about men from our fathers (also from a young age), uncles, brothers etc. “men only want one thing” is an example of something fathers will tell their daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:36 AM
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Oh interesting thanks for clarifying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:50 PM
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Because he talked about fucking couches in his book
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:23 PM
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Congratulations on baby boy! 💐🍼🐣👶💙
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:14 PM
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I remember that. I think she buys him something for his watch, but he sells his watch to buy her a comb. So their sacrifices of their most valued item end up rendering their gifts useless. The sacrifice for each other was the gift. You unlocked a memory for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:56 AM
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A lot of women notice men before men notice them. We are taught to be always around looking at our surroundings. Avoiding eye contact is nonverbal communication that translates to “not interested”. When that is ignored we are extra cautious of the possibility of escalation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:43 AM
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I don’t want to get married I see nothing wrong with men who feel the same way. My stepdad got half of what my mom spent her life building when they got divorced. Won’t be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:12 PM
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If men want to make the claim they are capable of unconditional love it and women are not - it stands to reason men are equally capable of unconditional hate. Those same men tend to display one more often than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:42 PM
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It’s because RP men decided they are in charge of women’s accountability. They have no time to work on improving themselves because they are so busy making sure women are accountable for men’s problems. You can’t expect them to be accountable for themselves by working towards meeting the standards of the women they want. They have absolutely no choice but to add complaining about women’s standards to their list. And that is a full time job with overtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:01 AM
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No it isn’t. The male equivalent is you letting men penetrate you whenever they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:33 AM
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I mean, I’d take all that a lot more seriously if conservatives/RP didn’t consistently fall into the same trap exposing hypocrisy via projection every time they are challenged on their application of critical thought. It’s emotion masked as logic every single time. Weaponizing ignorance is a convenient tool to keeping people that way. Especially considering they get triggered consistently and it makes them so easy to expose by those who see their blind spots before they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:44 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 03:32 AM
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It is always interesting to see someone who believes the problems of the past are the solutions of the future. That kind thinking is the definition of insanity and the very reason history keeps repeating itself. The world won’t be better for future generations until we stop reverting to what we got wrong in the past as if it’s the answer to the present.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:58 AM
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You know. The thing men claim is their reason to do anything - sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:32 AM
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Yes. It was in support of lowering standards to men with part time jobs making 12,000 a year. All those men need is a little feminine influence to reach greatness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:26 AM
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A man in another thread said that you just need to use your feminine influence on him and he will be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:07 AM
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No I’m saying men should be responsible because women carry the bulk of responsibility and consequences when men choose not to be. If you cannot get that through your head I cannot continue the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:30 PM
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Dude. “Why do you want men to suffer just because you suffer?” Aka “Why should men have consequences for what they do with their dicks?” Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:20 PM
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No you’re trying to argue a red herring. I could ask you the same, why don’t men care about women’s suffering ? Because they don’t, you don’t, and it’s obvious some of you actually enjoy it. You’re the type of man women need to stay away from.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:01 PM
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Pregnancy/birth and paying child support are not equal in consequence. Women face both consequences. Men face one. (At MOST) Abortion has consequences, it can leave women infertile, it costs MONEY, it’s painful emotionally and physically, and it is highly scrutinized. That is also a consequence. If you cannot comprehend that women have bigger risks and already carry the bulk of responsibility because they have consequences for ALL of their choices, while men do not, it’s because you don’t want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:45 PM
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Men are responsible for not getting women pregnant. Women are responsible for not getting pregnant by men. It’s not that complicated. MEN DO NOT GET PREGNANT. Women ARE RESPONSIBLE and face consequences no matter what they decide to do, UNLIKE MEN who only have consequences if it isn’t what HE WANTS HER TO DO WITH HER OWN BODY.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:27 PM
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Thank you, this was helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:13 PM
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Thank you for this insight, really helpful. Are there specific male only spaces that you see as most important for men to have access to as well as maintained by voices that support?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:13 PM
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That’s helpful. It also speaks to how men communicate when they play video games with each other in a sense. Thanks for answering. The other question wasn’t specific, just wanted more insight into what that looked like from your perspective. No worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:36 PM
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“men struggle to socialize with other men when women are involved” Do you mind elaborating on this? “men teaching women how and why to cooperate” And this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:44 PM
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A lot of men argue for the right to financially abort. That is an attempt to control women’s choice. What is said is not an attempt to solely blame men. Your response to what I said is proving my point. Women are ALREADY overwhelmingly taking both the blame and the responsibility. You’re reactive - when your role is being proactive. If you think a reactionary role is the dominating factor in pregnancy then you are not taking accountability. Men are basically saying women are more responsible for…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:00 PM
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It’s because men have just as much responsibility and opportunity for prevention as women but they happen at different periods of time. Prevention for men happens before you orgasm. Prevention for women responds after you orgasm. That is why women have options after sex and men do not. Men want the same ability to prevent pregnancy after they orgasm which isn’t biologically possible. It is not a double standard, that is an excuse to blame women and deflect accountability for the fact they have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:52 AM
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Abortion doesn’t just benefit women, it benefits men too. Financial abortion only benefits men and places responsibility and consequences on everyone but him when he had equal responsibly in the situation as she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:23 AM
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Witch hunting is against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:07 AM
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The restraining order protects the kid. The child’s mother is the one who decides what is necessary for the safety of her child, men would have no say. It wouldn’t involve your opinion or hypotheticals or evidence. If she decides you have to stay away from her kid because you pose a risk as the biological father who chose to abort that’s a valid enough reason to keep you away. Choices have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:59 AM
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Those men aren’t the biological father who signed away his rights in exchange for his full paycheck. Those men don’t have the possibly of emotional attachment the same way when coming face to face with your little mini and immediately falling in love. This has nothing to do with any man other than the biological father. His choice has consequences. Just like when women have abortions and risk complications that lead to loss of relationships, financial burdens from procedure, physical and emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:29 AM
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Because humans and relationships are complex. Men think they can make a permanent decision like abortion and still have both options to see the kid freely? No. He chose to remove all responsibility, she can let him see the kid if she wants (unlikely), but she and the law can change that at any time. He had an abortion and that should be enforced as his reality. When women have abortions there is no child. They don’t get to take it back. If men want the options that women have, they get the conse…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:09 AM
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If he chooses to financially abort the child it should automatically give her the right to place a restraining order into effect at any time. Perhaps with some specific conditions that allow him to stay where he’s living and stay at his job, but conditions can be easily removed if he violates the order in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:57 AM
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The mother should be given the option to easily get a restraining order at any time to keep him away from her and the child as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:48 AM
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And I’m allowed to call out bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:32 AM
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Then stop complaining like you’re a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:22 AM
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Then choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:41 AM
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Yes I do, that’s why you couldn’t manipulate the conversation the way you wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:53 AM
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“sometimes the dating scene can be brutal” TBH I learned that growing up watching my mom make a lot of bad decisions in her relationships. It made me intentional in dating so that I don’t repeat her mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:55 PM
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No I am with my second person in my second LTR now. I can’t separate sex/love so I am glad I waited until I those feelings developed instead of losing it younger in a more causal scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:36 PM
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I was happy I lost it. I waited until I was in my first LTR purposely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:29 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:26 PM
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No you’re not taking accountability. You have the right to protect yourself. If she won’t sign or date you because you want to protect yourself via a prenup then she isn’t compatible with you. If you’d rather choose to do nothing to protect yourself when it’s already a fear for you - you’re insecure and untrusting that women would want to be with you for you. You just want to blame women in either scenario when you have every right to enforce boundaries before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:19 PM
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Men accusing women of being entitled and untrustworthy in either scenario is men being insecure and untrusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:04 PM
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Gross. Men should utilize prenups to protect themselves if they are worried about divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:12 PM
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Yeah, it is very pilling for sure. She might bag a rich guy but I think those dynamics end up being more disappointing and damaging than people anticipate. It’s really just a fantasy. I want my own money. The idea of asking makes me super uncomfortable. It is a tiger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:58 PM
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Onions are disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:33 PM
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I saw today in Georgia a woman declared brain dead is being kept on life support due to abortion laws because she’s pregnant. It’s been 90 days since she was put on life support - she’s only 21 weeks. The fetus is already shown to be suffering from severe brain damage. If the baby survives it will be horribly disabled and likely suffer in its short life. Motherhood is disrespected because it has always been a means to control and punish women. In cases life such as this, the punishment for being…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:27 PM
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When they say “she’s someone’s daughter” They are saying she matters because she is someone to someone else. In other words because she matters to a man and what happens to her affects him, she’s worth caring about because it’s in reference to his pain. Not hers. Not that she is simply someone because that alone isn’t enough for it to matter. It’s said in context to who she might be to others because without that insight people see her as worthless because her identify is based on her being an o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:58 PM
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SkankHunt42 knew what he was doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:19 AM
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I bet you know all about reactionary statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:25 AM
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I read it. Thing is, the male side is the only thing you care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:02 AM
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Then you agree 60%-80% as previously stated is reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:48 AM
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That’s just the #notallmen effect
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:22 AM
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It’s because she can’t just be someone She has to be someone’s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:50 AM
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Remember how strong you felt walking out of the ice cream isle the other day?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:14 AM
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You can think whatever you want about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:09 AM
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Yes. Did it ever occur to you that you’re asking me to center your belief and thoughts over the point I was explaining to you? Which was that men do that to women constantly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:01 AM
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Men already do that nonstop. That is the difference between men and women. You are completely unaware of your own hypocrisies because you’re so used being centered as men that you do not notice the level that women are constantly invalidated, generalized, criticized, and blamed by men. We are used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:49 AM
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You do not know what it’s like to date men as a woman better than women do. Men constantly demand we prioritize their opinions about what we experience as women at the hands of men and then turn around crying about a lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:30 AM
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Because we are women who are on the receiving end of what she described and women talk and share experiences with each other. Women have gossiped for centuries for that reason. Men do not understand our experiences and most do not want to. They’d rather attempt to diminish us so they can continue to blame us for everything in hopes we’ll just do what they want instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:03 AM
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I think that’s one of the interesting things about this sub, it gives an insight into men’s experiences that I hadn’t considered in the past based on lack of perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:12 PM
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That’s because we watch what men do rather than listening to what they say because men will lie to get what they want from the women they’re “begging”. Given the option we know what most men choose to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:06 PM
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Men look better with haircuts that square off the top of their heads, women look better with haircuts that emphasize the roundness of their heads. Your buzzcut does the latter. Find a good barber that’s what they specialize in doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:38 PM
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Only if you have the ability to apply critical thought
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:36 PM
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Neither did the promise to reduce the cost of groceries which a lot of us anticipated playing out in a similar fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:26 PM
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According to Cartier it’s a panther with eyes of emerald. They have rings with that face too. He’s is cute tho. He died a couple of years ago. I was very sad as he was very kind and generous to me and he taught me a lot. Some people just have a presence that can’t be replicated. He was obnoxious, brutally honest, and undeniably brilliant (genius IQ). The night he told me that story he almost got all of us ARRESTED for his antics WHILE he was telling it 😂 Actually now that I think of it he almost…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:35 PM
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They also get the best healthcare imaginable. I don’t have a problem with them working 145 days that has a purpose I agree with. I have a problem with them deciding their own salary and allowing themselves insider trading. If the people elect (hire) the people (employer) should determine their salary and other benefits to some degree based on performance for the job they were hired to do. They are public servants, yet they keep federal minimum wage so low that the public they serve would not be …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:19 PM
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Thank you for linking these
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:56 AM
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I’d have already been planning how I was going to decorate my room before he asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:13 AM
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You tell him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:51 AM
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What rights do women advocate taking away from men when you see those comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:38 AM
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I’ve had a couple of male friends ask me to go shopping with them in the past to help with what you describe. It’s understandable, sometimes someone just needs a little support to make it easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:38 AM
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Thank you. This answers my question perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:06 AM
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I was sharing a perception to better understand his comment in comparison to mine. What you chose to respond to is also very helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:49 AM
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Women are currently at risk of losing their rights. Women have recently lost rights in several states. The SAVE act was passed which affects married women’s ability to vote. Would you feel the same way if you had the same risks where your rights could be completely removed because of who you did or did not choose to date or marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:41 AM
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I’ve seen men blame women for Trump being elected, calling it punishment for women’s standards being too high. I’ve seen men who say women should lose their voting rights to fix the dating market. I’ve seen men post fantasies threatening femicide if women don’t start dating men they aren’t attracted to. Obviously not all men are saying this, but I have seen an uptick of that kind of commentary since the US election. I wonder if you’d see the relevancy in debating the topic if you women were advo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:27 AM
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Yeah you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:56 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:20 PM
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Yeah but men don’t have makeup or anything to at least fix some of the discoloration which helps a little even if the texture isn’t ideal. I don’t think men can’t really cover bad skin with facial hair so they don’t really have any way to hide it in photos or anything. I agree with you about scars and wrinkles though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:19 PM
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I think bad skin is harder for men to pull off tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:14 PM
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Request another ama the next time she has a movie that’s about to come out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:23 PM
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So happy to see this update. I’m sure he’ll make sure you’re safe 🛟
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:20 PM
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It’s a cute panther not a tiger. True story of my experience with billionaires and watches: I knew a billionaire who collected watches so he traveled to Miami to buy a very rare expensive watch that he was extremely excited about and wanted for a long time (I think he said there were only like 200 of these watches made). Later that day he was having a drink at the bar of the hotel he was staying at wearing his new baby. A woman either recognized who he was (not famous but his family is somewhat …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:03 PM
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Share grocery haul when you get back
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:51 PM
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That is deplorable behavior. Those girls should be punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:48 PM
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Beautiful 🧚‍♀️🌸
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:45 PM
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No I’m not married but I’m in a relationship But even if I were to become single again I have never been able to separate sex and love tbh. I’ve never been with anyone outside of an LTR. I’m not the right candidate. Is that an Ali express panther???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:30 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:09 AM
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That’s where I live and I have the same observation as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:44 AM
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Did you experience emotional neglect in your childhood from one or both parents? What you’re describing sounds like a symptom of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:30 AM
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Another sign to go with the watch instead
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:48 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:07 AM
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Yes, especially after I learned about how it was discovered and how it forms naturally. One of the most fascinating stones imo. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:05 AM
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Thankfully they are proportional. I’d be insecure if I resembled like pop-eye. It’s in my best interest to keep them that way. Tennis bracelets are cheaper when you have smaller wrists which means more tennis bracelets. I collect vintage jewelry as a hobby. Sparkles are my passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:40 PM
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Girly, my wrists are delicate. My mom has a 36mm that I’ll inherit. It’s her favorite, men always compliment her when she wears it. Probably because she originally bought it for her ex-husband
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:24 PM
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I have a 2 rolex datejusts (one was gifted to me), a Cartier Baignoire (I bought it second hand), and a hublot (inherited from my mom)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:18 PM
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Yes, and it’s funny because astrology is contradictory in the most convenient ways. But it’s not about any of that or about accuracy IMO. It’s about emotional context. It’s adding a layer of complexity to you which strengthens her emotional connection and curiosity which is going to increase her sexual attraction to you the more it lines up with her preferences. It also makes her feel like since you’re compatible you’re more likely to have the capacity to care about her the way she desires to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:52 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:59 PM
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Lol. I was actually surprised when you said that because you didn’t strike me as a virgin at all in the way you write
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:40 PM
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I can’t but you should still get it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:29 PM
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Hot. I love it. Buy it and wear it with sweats like rich people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:21 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:00 PM
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You are so emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:40 PM
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I see you even tried to make a thread about his video because it resonated you so deeply. You’re allowed to agree with him, I’m sure there are valid points in some of what he says, that doesn’t change the fact that you need to be aware of what he’s doing when you consume his content and use discernment so that his influence doesn’t override your reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:33 PM
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It is not irrelevant as I know the backend operations of influencer pyramid schemes and you do not. I am trying to tell you so that you can learn to discern motivations behind someone telling you exactly what you want to hear and why you’re defending someone who is manipulating you so he can profit off your pain. You want to believe it’s irrelevant because the truth of what he is doing because invalidates your feelings about what he’s saying. And the more emotional you get about being challenged…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:17 PM
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I quite literally have worked with the most successful influencers in the industry. I know exactly what he is doing. What I am telling you is fact, consider that I’m trying to help you see something you’re not seeing. Agree with him all you want, you’re exactly who he is targeting. It’s about you, not women. You’d be better off learning the psychology of sales than listening to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:00 PM
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He’s a pyramid scheme influencer. He’s using his background in psych for financial gain targeted at vulnerable men instead of helping them because one is more lucrative than the other. He knows men have heard mentality, that’s why he is reading from a script he has placed to the left and he links his books and other ways to join his networks. You are the herd he is targeting. Not women. This is nothing but a sales pitch you’re too media illiterate to notice which is hilarious because his bio lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:45 PM
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If he has tenants protections you can’t chuck him out. But you also need to be able to evict him if necessary. Talk to a lawyer (alone). They do this all the time. It’s not going to take them more than a couple of hours. It won’t be expensive. It is your house! YOU are the one who needs to protect your asset. Unless he can afford to put down half of what you did right now and can qualify for a home loan with his current income, he doesn’t need protection, YOU DO. He has no legal merit to claim e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:49 AM
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DO NOT ADD HIM to the mortgage. I repeat DO NOT add him to the mortgage. At least for a bit, You as the landlord/homeowner need to hire a lawyer to write you a tenant lease agreement that offers him tenant protections. It won’t cost you much, it’ll be a pretty standard contract, but have a lawyer do it. To your question below, if he is a tenant then he has no claim of equity if you decide sell your house. I’m assuming if you got married you’d add him to the mortgage which would change that. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:29 AM
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Why would she be more likely to sabotage the relationship (waste her own time) instead of breaking up with him and exploring other options? She’s the one with options he’s the one without them. If she can cut off the more attractive option for his behavior she could just as easily cut off the less attractive guy. Is it because he has been attempting to manipulate her and diminish her confidence and self worth into believing she’s not worthy of finding someone better who makes her happy? Because …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:04 AM
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Correct, you’re projecting because you’re emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:45 AM
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If you truly wanted to debate you would have supported your own point in good faith instead of getting emotional about it. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:29 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:18 AM
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I don’t know if this is 💯accurate, but what I’ve heard is that it’s because liberal women are usually more easy going and accepting within a relationship dynamic. They don’t apply the same kinds of pressure that conservative women might.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:41 PM
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It’s fucked up. Zero common courtesy or consideration. I’ll never understand men who get off on making women uncomfortable. Unless there was some other reasoning, he knew what he was doing. Especially at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:38 PM
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Yeah. I get stared at. It’s bothered me at times and other times it’s come off pretty innocent. It happens. He either was creeping or thought you were pretty and malfunctioned. Maybe it was something medical. Regardless I’m glad nothing more happened. I feel like there’s a difference between being stared at and being observed. Do you know what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:26 PM
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What answers were you hoping to receive when you made this thread asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:11 PM
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I understand. What I’d encourage though is if a behavior seems off to you, trust it your gut. Your instincts are there to protect you. Always trust your gut when something seems off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:08 PM
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I hope not. When it happened to me I was 9. I am extremely careful in parking lots as my mom drilled parking lot safety into my head for months after.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:59 PM
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This happened to me once when I was in the car with my mom. He started masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:42 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:36 PM
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A few years ago I was backstage at an event and I shared a greenroom with Mark Wahlberg for a couple of hours. I swear he could not have been more than 3 inches taller than me (I am 5ft). I googled him to see what his height was listed at online and it said he was 5’8. Ain’t no way. Even celebrities who seem to have it all struggle with that apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:12 PM
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I like all 3 combined
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:51 PM
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LA is absolutely filthy compared to Miami. I think Miami is cool but I’ve only been there a handful of times and always for work. You’ll be amazed at how ugly most of LA really is. I try really hard to avoid LA whenever possible. I live south of LA in Orange County, the beaches are a lot nicer. I think you should still experience it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:45 PM
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I think it’s so cute when men get all excited to tell you about something. Especially if it’s a monologue about a topic they are really knowledgeable about. So cute. Tell me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:41 PM
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No, not that I’ve ever seen go off for any reason at least. I live in a town next to a huge navy base, so there might be sirens for military purposes if something of that nature happened. Mostly I just hear explosions because they do a lot of testing in the valley right behind my beach town.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:19 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:16 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:12 PM
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The last earthquake here in Southern California we got loud ass amber alert a few seconds before we felt anything saying something like “WARNING EARTHQUAKE SEEK COVER IMMEDIATELY”. I guess it’s a new warning system and it was their first time using it so no one was expecting it. For a minute several of us were worried it was gonna be the big one 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:55 PM
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The last earthquake here in Southern California we got loud ass amber alerts a few seconds before we felt anything saying something like “WARNING EARTHQUAKE SEEK COVER IMMEDIATELY”. I guess it’s a new warning system and it was their first time using it so no one was expecting it. For a minute several of us were worried it was gonna be the big one 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:54 PM
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Yes that’s true. My brothers and I have C-PTSD diagnosed by way of years of physical and psychological torture, not even calling it abuse encompassed the things he did according to the people who diagnosed me. I can’t imagine what it would be like to not live every day in a PSTD response. Especially considering I logically know I’m safe! My body and brain is literally incapable of nervous system regulation. It’s all I’ve ever known. That being said I’m extremely high functioning for someone with…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:49 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:21 PM
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I am ok! Lots of therapy helped me process and find peace :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:17 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:15 PM
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He threatened to kill us a lot. That’s why I call if psychopathic because that is like a tame story about my dad, and that post reminded me of something he’d do. Lots of abuse. About a month before he died he bought a gun and he was going to kill us. I have no doubt if he didn’t die when he did, none of us would be alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:07 PM
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Same. My dad actually used to tell his affair partners that me, my brothers, and my mom all died in a house fire. And he did this for years. When he died two of his girlfriends who didn’t know about the other one or his living family showed up to the funeral. I think they only knew about the funeral because the morning he was killed it was all over the local news. It was a funeral to remember that’s for sure. It’s psychopath behavior from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:53 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:34 PM
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I always had a lot of chores and now I’m a clean freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:21 PM
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No, not at all. I think if anything they are more likely to be a victim of something they are not aware of, but not all get to that level, usually it’s the more vulnerable. There’s nothing wrong is being of fan of someone you relate to/aspire to/ or simply enjoy watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:18 PM
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I hope you make money, I don’t see anything wrong with that at all, you seem kind and deserving. There’s no way you’d be anything like the people I’m referencing. I love TikTok most of the time tbh. I think it’s so fun and harmless for most people who use it and even make a little cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:10 PM
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That’s probably because you’re a kind and intelligent person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:07 PM
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Hookers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:47 PM
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Affiliate deals (your data isn’t safe), equity deals (people have no idea how badly this is affecting the ability for young people to become entrepreneurs), FTC loopholes, evergreen sales funnels, lead mining, leveraging data, preying on the vulnerable, predatory sales tactics, money laundering, the contractual agreement terms for appearances and interviews, lack of integrity in so many other things I can’t say, etc Fun fact to add: Something a lot of people don’t know: anytime you see someone g…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:46 PM
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Everyone. Coke is causal, it’s like the appetizer. People basically treat it the same as weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:26 PM
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Wolf of Wall Street behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:20 PM
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Small creators are always the best creators. It’s when they start leveraging certain aspects of influencing most people aren’t aware of on the backend that I begin to hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:13 PM
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I have worked with or been exposed (my boss is extremely well connected) to basically every major celeb/influencer you could think of including politicians/world leaders. You’d have to ask me specific questions that I could answer that wouldn’t break my NDAs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:05 PM
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My mom is like that. She is her happiest walking around the house/yard fixing things and then whenever I visit she immediately takes me on a tour of her work. It’s awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:02 PM
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I’ve worked with a lot of popular influencers and they are the worst/my least favorite people on the planet. The entire influencing industry is astoundingly bizarre and gross behind the scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:00 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:15 PM
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Omg yes to a clothes line ☀️. How long do you usually stay in the US? Do you stay here to see family or another reason? I’ve never been to Thailand but I would absolutely love to go someday. I bet it’s easy to get homesick. I travel a lot for work and have spent months in other countries for projects and there’s always little things that make me homesick for the first month or so that I don’t expect to miss as much as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:08 PM
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I find cleaning therapeutic a lot of times tbh, I like it too. I need to get a bit better at cooking, he’s definitely better the better cook. Have you ever sent your laundry out to a laundromat for a fluff and fold? It’s usually pretty inexpensive (like $1 a lb in the US) and so worth it for anyone who doesn’t enjoy it imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:47 AM
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My bf just started doing it, I never knew it was something I wanted before. He keeps his cars strictly immaculate and he just added mine to his rotation without me asking. I’ve never had someone do that for me before but I find it so adorable. What’s your fav chore and least fav chore?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:40 AM
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I really appreciate a man who will take care of my car maintenance. It’s so thoughtful. Making sure I have gas, oil changes, gets it washed for me bi-weekly. I will happily exchange this for doing all of the laundry and all of the grocery shopping, or any chore really that he doesn’t like doing that I can take care of that makes his life easier. I hate car maintenance. I love laundry though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:11 AM
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A bit older, strangely intelligent, broad shoulders, taller/bigger than me (I’m 5ft/petite), nice set of man hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:39 AM
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I said psychopath behavior. It’s not an official diagnosis don’t worry. You’re just a terrible person at this point, you have 5 more criteria to meet until I can make it official. I am just telling you that you’ll get caught eventually. Then you get be the reason several women are told to choose better in the future. 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:08 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/oojhRS0BWt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:54 AM
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Clinicians diagnose ASPD doofus. The DSM5 is the only criteria that is recognized and can be used to diagnose and accepted by all major insurance companies for treatment (though it’s a bit outdated and not the only tool relevant for diagnosis or treatment planning). You’re definitely going to get caught sooner than later if this is a display of your intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:50 AM
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Anti-Social Personality Disorder is in the DSM5. Both are classifications of behavior of the diagnosis criteria for ASPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:45 AM
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I take back my statement after reading the red pill guy in the false accusations thread use his dead ex to manipulate women. I responded by trauma dumping. Truly psychotic. I’ll be waiting in anticipation for the project you’ve been mentioning drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:39 AM
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My dad used to tell women and men he cheated on my mom with that we all (mom, me, brothers) died in a house fire. His funeral got awkward when 2 of his current girlfriends showed up. It was all over the local news when he was killed so that must have been a shocker for them since it was reported that my mom tried to save him doing CPR for about 40 minutes until the helicopters arrived. Then both girlfriends who didn’t know about each other showed up to the funeral which was a bit of shocker for …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:00 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:58 AM
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Thank you for explaining. And for BP that makes sense, I agree with RP users sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:44 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:34 AM
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Is that unconditional forgiveness and loyalty? Or do they have limits? It’s interesting because women are conditioned to prioritize men and the needs of others over our own from a very young age (at least I was and many women I’ve known were as well). When you mention men’s conditioning of unconditional love for women do you mean providing for and protection? Could you please elaborate on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:50 AM
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I’ve seen other men here describe it similarly. To me it almost sounds like some of you are conflate emotional neglect with sexual neglect when the combination of the two is what makes addiction (porn or other substances) and mental health issues (shame induced narcissism or BPD) more likely. Addiction is often fueled as a method to control/minimize feelings, but it always ends up making those feelings intensify and harder to suppress (thus why addictions become more severe the longer they are u…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:36 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:47 AM
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How do you define unconditional love?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:43 AM
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You make male sexuality sound like torture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:37 AM
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Maybe you should cry about it. But just remember if you want to continue to cry “fact” then you’ll have to deal with the consequences of me calling them wolf. Because that’s all they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:21 PM
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No that was stating a simple objective fact. Nuance in language matters in debate. If you cannot decipher the difference then you’re likely prone to misunderstand why false equivalencies are nothing but a manipulation tool used for justification. Such as you’ve displayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:01 PM
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Ad hominem’s are an acknowledgment of defeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:48 PM
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Your point is dumb. Men being raped is equally severe to women being raped. Stop trying to justify rape by creating a false equivalence for the sake of your own ego. You don’t know what an objective fact is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:40 PM
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Except you right? You get to be the ultimate victim that way your hypocrisy is less obvious to those who don’t know exactly what you’re doing. Weaponized ignorance only works on the unintelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:21 PM
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How many men are now dead that would otherwise be alive if they had not been raped? You are so passionate about this for someone who keeps conveniently ignoring that possibility. I’m starting to question your story it’s so convenient for your one sided narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:09 PM
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They aren’t and they never will be of equal severity no matter how badly you want to argue victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:56 PM
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You have to be stupid to think deflecting means you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:40 PM
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No I don’t, your emotions are distorting logic. You need to check your emotions if what I’m saying is having that strong of an impact on your ability to think critically. You’re exposing yourself with every reply without realizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:33 PM
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I hope you get the support you deserve for the things you went through. I’m guessing that wasn’t your experience based off your replies. While I stand by what I said about your responses because that is exactly what you’re doing, this is too complex an issue to generalize the way you’ve conveyed. Perhaps you could consider that the next time you want to tell another victim of SA the severity of their trauma compared to your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:11 PM
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It’s more disgusting to be a rape apologist than to call out one. Your personal anecdote isn’t proof of your claim but it is very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:54 PM
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No they aren’t. You are presenting yourself as a rape apologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:43 PM
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No they aren’t equal severity’s and I’m so tired of people saying this. It’s a slap in the face to victims of sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:18 PM
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That is awesome! 🩰 👑💐
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:50 AM
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“Small clit energy”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:36 PM
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You forgot the “or else” threat of femicide
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:40 PM
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They don’t. That doesn’t stop men from giving advice. When men ask for advice it’s in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:35 PM
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Men’s advice to women here is even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:26 PM
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Yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:25 PM
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Yet another thread about penis size
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:24 PM
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Don’t forget lizards 🦎
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:49 PM
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Because that’s how men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 12:40 AM
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Yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:56 PM
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Why would women ever take advice from men who don’t care about them? Most of you guys give nothing but self serving advice to women while you consistently display how little relationship experience and knowledge you possess. You’ll do anything to understand women except listen to what they say. If we needed your advice there wouldn’t be a male loneliness epidemic which is just another version of the man flu.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:53 PM
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L - Performative sports dads starting at that age do more harm than good (especially choosing to film their kids when they are distressed). I know what that kind of dad is really like behind closed doors because my dad did it to me and my brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:48 AM
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Of course not. I’m sorry you’re dealing with any of that nonetheless. It really sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:27 AM
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If he’s at that point he won’t listen to anyone until he comes down anyway. I hope it isn’t the case but the hard part about it if it is the case, is that there’s nothing anyone can really do without a power of attorney to force a psych hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:24 AM
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I am not trying to alarm you, but if he reaches out again and he sounds manic or like he’s coming down from a manic state and more depressive than usual, if he starts sending you a bizarre series of texts or he posts a bunch on social media out of the norm, if he has weird delusions of grandeur or his drug use gets heavier/he talks about committing any crimes - he needs to be seen by his doctor who prescribed him ASAP or better yet he absolutely needs go to the ER. Not saying this is happening o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:21 AM
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Ugh. Do you know which anti-depressant? Some can induce psychosis especially if they have underlying symptoms of bipolar.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:03 AM
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Insecure women do the same thing to men and other women within friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:53 AM
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A good piece of advice I heard when I was younger is that if someone likes and cares about you you’ll know, if they don’t you’ll be confused. It’s a gender neutral concept that can pertain to both friendships and potential romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:09 AM
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I never mentioned incels, I mentioned self proclaimed unattractive nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:50 AM
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Your generalizations don’t carry more weight just because they favor you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:33 AM
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Reliance on validation from their partner. A typical method is to make her insecure enough to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:27 AM
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I think they call themselves dating coaches these days because the entire point of influencer pyramid schemes is to sell someone on the idea that they can be just like the men they worship. Each course, book, webinar, or podcast is marketed strategically to lead them to the idea if they buy or engage with X they will get Y. And if/when they don’t get what’s promised they shift gears and give them a reason to blame women so that they never lose their influence over the men who fail because the me…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:46 AM
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Because they haven’t learned yet to watch what men do rather than listen to what they say because men’s words alone have zero value. And sometimes their actions as well because men will falsely present themselves until they have enough emotional leverage and can easily gaslight their partner by manipulating her vulnerabilities. Men need to be vetted heavily as they have perfected the art of how much emotional investment they need to show in order to allow them to leverage their weaponized incomp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:01 AM
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He’s really deep into TRP. He buys all the courses and is a “dating coach” on the side. Sometimes he coaches other guys on the live who come up to him because they notice what he’s doing. Then they double up so they can more easily approach groups and do the same thing to an entire group of women which singles out if any of those women are interested vs doing it 1 on 1. It’s a time saver. He also does experiments. He once dedicated a weekend pretending to be deaf with his friend translating sign…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:19 PM
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He recently went to whatever the Tate man retreat is. He was flying high after that experience. I disagree with basically everything about him, but I can’t look away it’s too entertaining. He’s a dating coach which is why he films it. Of course his day job is a real estate agent. Real estate is the foundation of all the influencer self help pyramid schemes we see today. This dude buys all the courses and drives a fiat convertible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 10:55 PM
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There’s a Red Pill guy on TikTok who goes live showing himself cold approaching all over San Diego. His formula is this: Approaches making a comment about something he noticed about them. His goal is to feed into her emotions as it gives him leverage to incite an emotional response in return. The responses tell him what she’s actually feeling vs saying. (Because women are emotional, AWALT, etc) If they respond positively to what he says (instead of immediately shutting him down) he’ll make a sli…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 10:38 PM
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The text format that has been released shows me that their phone records at the very least have been subpoena’d. It would be highly unlikely for a lawyer to feign ignorance in a high profile high status civil sexual assault case. If that ends up being the case, you can say you’re right when Sharpe sues her in a counter claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:50 PM
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Her lawyer cannot knowingly extort the accused. If there is any evidence backing extortion there is no way she will win. It’s gone too far for that to work in her or her lawyers favor if he values his license to practice law.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:32 PM
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A lawyer would know that what you describe would be extortion which is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:26 PM
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It doesn’t change anything I said. He is innocent until proven otherwise, 10 million means his lawyers believe her claims have backing evidence that could prove he is liable. He isn’t making that decision without the advice of legal council who have better awareness of the case and the evidence against him than any of us do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:01 PM
2

Knowledge problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:52 PM
2

She released texts confronting him and he acknowledged that he assaulted her. Like I said, it goes both ways here. Which is why I doubt it’ll go to trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:47 PM
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It’s too high an offer for reputation for a celebrity who isn’t in the political sphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:45 PM
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We don’t know all the evidence yet. On either side. What has been released is a tactic used to encourage settlement on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:38 PM
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In the legal world, you don’t offer someone 10 million in exchange for a non-disparagement and a release of claims if they don’t have substantial evidence backing them. It is extremely rare to get that kind of offer, just look at how much less politicians have paid for silence. If this was worth 10 million to Sharpe to settle out of court it’ll be very interesting to see the evidence if this goes to trial. I doubt it’ll get that far considering she has Buzbee.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:36 PM
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If you agree with the OP you can post comments in reply to the auto mod above.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 07:47 AM
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Band kids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:49 PM
1

How do RPW vet potential partners? There are some points I’ve seen some RP that I agree with to a certain degree, but I also see how sexual attraction/passion can blind people into making an emotional decision without considering the logical outcome. What’s the balance of those two things for RPW when selecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:45 PM
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No, I don’t think demonizing it is necessary as long as the person joining with that intent is respectful. I’ve never used dating apps I prefer to meet organically. I may be an outlier here but my first LTR was a cold approach in a bar/restaurant. My second and current LTR was a lukewarm approach. You never know who you’re going to meet so I don’t think blocking the option is beneficial. I’ve known women who joined hobby groups with the intention of meeting someone too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:38 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:10 AM
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It’s not just people that bring other sides in people, it’s also experiences and exposure. Behavior is related to our perception, and when that perception changes or grows it can change how people respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:16 AM
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I heard someone say that neurotypical people underestimate the struggle of living in a world that isn’t designed with you in mind. I think this sub showcases that from men who are clearly suffering and extreme pain. It’s not just dating which is harder for most men in general imo, it’s everything. It’s exhausting and people are prone to becoming angrier and angrier in hopes that if they get louder someone will eventually just listen and make space for them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:29 PM
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Am I understanding correctly that you/other men desire to be the submissive in a BDSM kink but you/other men experience a lack of understanding and social support in comparison to women wanting the same thing for what is deemed “socially acceptable” reasons by comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:01 AM
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Because he didn’t talk to a publisher.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:12 AM
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It’s worse actually because it’s based off a Brothers Grimm story, a lot of the older Disney movies are. In the original story, Snow White is about 14, all of the dwarves rape her, and the prince is a necrophiliac who kisses her because she’s dead not sleeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:24 AM
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Yes and that is my point here. They are both rated similarly. So they must have something in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:26 AM
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The ratio of spending is not the only component considered for Gold Standard. The Gates Foundation is also considered the Gold Standard model for compensation and operating expenses. That has a huge role in guidestar ratings. There is always corruption where there is power. Though I will agree with you that the Catholic Church is likely doing more good than other faith based NGOs with global outreach comparatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:37 AM
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Yes, at scale with secular NGOs. That is a self proclaimed title.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:24 AM
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An NDA isn’t legally binding in this instance so it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:17 AM
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I can promise you faith based NGOs are rampant with corruption.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:00 AM
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No, not in a philosophical stance. Even psychologically there’s a fair argument against it as your brain can override you in certain circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:42 AM
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I’m with you. I know of a couple that will meet the fate you wish for by the end of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:06 AM
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Yes but that would impact their guidestar rating negatively reducing their appeal for donations. Nonprofits are partially rated based off of employee compensation as well as how they allocate the funds they receive. The Gates Foundation is considered the ideal model for employee compensation and they pay their team generously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:02 AM
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Nonprofits are often very corrupt. Especially when they aren’t relying on grants and instead utilizing big donors and the accelerator model to funnel smaller nonprofits forward. What you describe is not as common these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:53 AM
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I don’t like it or think it’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:30 AM
2

I ❤️ a man who gets a manicure (and pedicure) occasion. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:07 AM
1

Me too I use em dash all the time. It’s my favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:02 AM
0

Unattractive self proclaimed nice guys are usually way worse than Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 11:04 PM
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My experience is there are a lot of men who get very insecure when their partner is more successful. But fair to say it isn’t just geared towards women in this case, their successful male friends make them feel insecure as well. I have a very rare and lucrative work history and unique perspective because I work with the richest of the rich. If I’m flying private with my boss and colleagues and staying at the four seasons all over the world I need a man who is successful in his own right so who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:46 PM
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That’s understandable. It sounds like she might have had some control issues and projected them on you. That’s not ok I understand where you’re coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:38 PM
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I was adding to your comment not correcting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:23 PM
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And she was a forensic psychologist. Her only job was to assess if he was mentally competent to stand trial or make a plea. She’s checking to see his awareness of what he is being accused of by ruling out mental illness to the degree of psychosis or any other disorder that would alter his ability to make decisions during the crime which could change the motive and any trial or plea deal afterwards. She triggers to check his cognitive capacity. Weird how many people missed that in the other threa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:19 PM
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Yeah, agree but it’s not really that difficult to maintain an immaculate house (unless you have kids who aren’t old enough for chores). Don’t make huge messes and clean as you go. I’ve known a lot of men who are immaculate who don’t spend a ton of time they just have couple of things they do for daily and weekly maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:07 PM
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He didn’t need to bring a knife. It was premeditated murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:50 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:41 PM
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What is reasonable in terms of chores to you? What level of cleanliness is acceptable? I’m asking as an immaculate person who is aware that not everyone else cares as much as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:58 PM
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My mom had one of those laser treatments that peel off layers of skin and nothing motivated me more than seeing how much younger she looked after all her sun damage from not wearing sunscreen was removed. It was astonishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:19 PM
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Which chores are unnecessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:12 PM
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Jeffrey Star confirmed the rumors a couple of days ago so probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:48 AM
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Majority of men do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:37 AM
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You don’t know who I know or how I formed my opinion. Being a hypocrite doesn’t grant you any validity for your dumb self-centered claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:46 AM
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I’ve seen women and gay men say “serving cunt” or “cunty” as a positive descriptor. Straight men don’t say that tho cuz they are penis centered
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:10 AM
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I agree with you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:48 AM
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Self awareness isn’t your strong suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:40 AM
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I am not berating men, I am telling you some men aren’t keeping up with women being their own people outside of their relationships with men. Men’s needs or opinions are not more accurate or important than our own by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:29 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:23 AM
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Gender roles were about more than survival, they were about control. Survival did not require women to be legally considered “property”. Survival did not require women to be forced into providing free labor for mens benefit under the guise of gender roles. That part of your response is an example of main character syndrome. You asked women to answer a question and then you minimized and misinterpreted what I said without noticing, I said both genders do this, but men don’t notice it the same way…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:21 AM
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Men are children?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:45 PM
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I personally also call you a bad bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:33 PM
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Says the guy who cheated on his wife and then acted like a victim when she divorced him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:28 PM
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Or that men are selfish babies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:22 PM
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SOME men have main character syndrome without realizing that women do as well now that we have rights to be independent. But for some reason SOME men demonize women for doing so while justifying themselves because it’s been ingrained in our society for such a long time which created an imbalance in their capacity to empathize and limited their self awareness to a degree that they cannot see their own selfishness and hypocrisy. They want to be the hero and the victim in every scenario. A lot of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:09 PM
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“Baddies”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:51 PM
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Just to shine light on this. Her only job was to assess if he was mentally competent to stand trial or make a plea. She’s checking to see his awareness of what he is being accused of by ruling out mental illness to the degree of psychosis or any other disorder that would alter his ability to make decisions during the crime which could change the motive and any trial or plea deal afterwards. She triggers him to check his cognitive capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:51 PM
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Her only job was to assess if he was mentally competent to stand trial or make a plea. She’s checking to see his awareness of what he is being accused of by ruling out mental illness to the degree of psychosis or any other disorder that would alter his ability to make decisions during the crime which could change the motive and any trial or plea deal afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:45 PM
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Good I’m sure it’s past the kids bedtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:56 AM
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Typical conservative, completely unaware of their own hypocrisy and lack of critical thought. I asked you to support your own claim in your own thread, and the first thing you did was get personal because you knew you couldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:54 AM
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No need to defend yourself. I’m sure you’re a great mom, that is, as long as you’re not teaching your rugrats that they are better than those less fortunate than themselves in the name of morality. Talk about a lack of life experience and proper education.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:48 AM
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Yeah, I assumed it was personal for you. Anyone with a modicum of common sense can tell it’s a sore spot for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:24 AM
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That doesn’t prove your claim, try again. This time no need to get personal, it speaks poorly of you. Show me the stats for that demographic of middle class women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:07 AM
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I asked you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:31 AM
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That isn’t answering my question. Do you have a source to support that the older single moms aren’t sharing a “baby daddy”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:25 AM
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How do you know? Do you have a source for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:12 AM
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That must be why red states have the highest abortion rates as well. I’d be happy for my taxes to stop enabling conservatives who feel entitled to handouts from the people they criticize.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:06 AM
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Red State welfare programs are 100% funded by Blue State taxpayers. Red States use more welfare than anyone JSYK.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:30 AM
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The TV show 90 day fiancé didn’t help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:11 AM
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Remember their final number doesn’t always include incentives. You can always see if you can leverage that way in addition to salary to make up for the difference in your ideal amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:19 AM
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That is even more reason to do it IMO. Companies will never offer you what you’re worth unless they have a reason to do so. They already know it’s a low offer, they bank on you or others not knowing it’s a low offer. Your skillset is the product, it’s a high demand market, it makes sense to sell to the highest bidder strategically. Timing is leverage both ways in this instance, which is ideal IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:07 AM
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A lot bask in the attention honestly. Especially because they leverage affiliate or equity deals in doing so, so it’s more than a one time payment for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:50 AM
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You should. You have leverage, use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:41 AM
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People would be shocked if they knew how much celebrities and influencers make for a 20 minute appearance and how strict the contract terms are for what appears to be a candid conversation. That’s why the most important thing for any entrepreneur is to be your own brand. That way you have endless access to opportunities outside of a rigid business model and network.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:34 AM
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Yes. A lot are bound by contract when you get to a certain level of wealth. Especially now that so many celebrities have plans to enter the political sector. I know someone who hired an entire team of people who worked in a previous administrations cabinet to curate his reputation and protect any news of activities that would hinder his candidacy. An example of the terms in any said contract would be something like escorts cannot take any photos while in any of his residences, traveling on his p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:03 PM
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Maybe you’re feeling unheard IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:32 PM
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They aren’t equal in the ability to grow a fetus and birth a child. Which is why men can’t get abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:36 AM
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Men don’t get pregnant. Abortion benefits men and women. Equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:59 AM
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A lot of wealthy couples have these arrangements as well. For example the wife benefits from looking the other way. I’ve worked for a lot of wealthy people, some famous, most are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:23 PM
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They pay for discretion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:45 PM
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Ah there it is. That was easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:18 AM
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You don’t have to respond you know. The thread is a question for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:47 AM
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Worried the friend has a bigger penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:38 AM
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I think you’re missing a piece. Hard to accept love if you don’t think you deserve love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:02 AM
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I look really young without makeup. I’ve realized a lot of men really like that (not calling men pedos ftr)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:37 AM
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I bet you have horrible hand writing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:16 AM
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I do not have a skincare fridge but I have a Rolex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 11:43 PM
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My parents used to tell me all relationships have an expiration date which tracked considering their divorces lol. I think there’s some truth to that tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 11:42 PM
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Guys actually won’t tell their male friends that they do this. There’s a lot of things men will say and do when other men aren’t around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:57 PM
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Do you think most women would choose the bear if the question was “would you rather be with a man or a bear in a room?” vs. woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:04 PM
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Season 15 Episode 4. Randy Marsh already perfected the formula. https://preview.redd.it/0jf9xgf6vuve1.jpeg?width=480&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2afdcf30a154338d5755e4d0a35458ff2c578654
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:57 PM
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I was just telling him what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:46 PM
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I’m 25, my preferred dating range is 32-40. I typically find older guys more sexually and intellectually attractive. I’ve never dated or hooked up casually, I feel like older men have a better idea of who they are and what they want in a relationship. Emotional stability as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:36 PM
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“When you’re just friends with women, they tend to use you as an emotional dumping ground” Just so you know this is not gender specific, men do this to women as well because you guys won’t do it for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:15 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/gtj1byz1orve1.jpeg?width=480&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d7191e2a78326de3cf05f9875d932f87906341e7
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:12 AM
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Is a phrase that basically means something is one in the same to call attention to hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:59 AM
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AWALT = All women are like that. Red pillers believe all women are hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:42 AM
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Gaslighting seems like a strong word
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:58 AM
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🍿🍿🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:18 AM
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The duality of having a penis. What brings them the most pleasure is the root of their own suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:47 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:21 AM
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I don’t like when someone tries to sell me. I can spot the techniques from a mile away and it’s annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:31 AM
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I think secure RP men sometimes use submissive as a synonym for respect. I feel like respect is the biggest thing for a lot of men in general. I think that insecure men want submissive women because it feeds into their front of masking their fragile masculinity. If you need someone to be less so you can feel like you’re more you probably should learn to manage your own emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:04 AM
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I don’t. I act logically and extremely calm in crisis. I’ve had to hold a man’s brains inside his skull while keeping him calm so he wouldn’t move while my ex and his friend watched because they both frozen in shock. I definitely have heard a fair share of screaming men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:17 AM
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I am well aware of how many men I’ve met and how many of those men were safe. The point is that I do not trust freely, it is earned. I have done the work to discern the difference in therapy. Do not project what I think or the severity of my experience for the sake of your feelings. You have absolutely no clue of the complexity of my experiences or how I see the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:30 AM
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He wasn’t the only man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:13 AM
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Weaponizing ignorance doesn’t make you right, it makes you dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:25 PM
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Your criticism of feminist propaganda has no merit when you yourself can’t discern truth vs what you agree with and what you choose to benefit from by proximity. You said fear is only valid when it’s real, but when presented with a real instance of rape on a grand scale, you’re choosing propaganda to validate your choice just like you’re accusing others of. You’re a hypocrite and nothing more. I don’t know why you pretend to be educated. It’s clear as day you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:06 PM
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You’re still deflecting instead of answering the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:47 PM
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Why are you deflecting? You’re being a hypocrite and just proved my initial point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:40 PM
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So he raped her, right? Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:29 PM
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Thanks for providing an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:19 PM
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To be fair you are a huge victim of a propaganda yourself. You also spread it consistently. I’m not really sure you grasp the difference between propaganda and what you personally agree with. Didn’t you vote for Trump? Your opinion doesn’t have a lot of merit when you voted for someone found guilty in a court of law of SA.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:48 PM
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I think one thing that’s important to consider is a lot of this comes from the men we are closest to. For example, my stepdad. When you have those experiences from men you should be able to trust it has a big impact on how we see the world around us. Add in statistics and the fact that most women do not report their SA because of how they are treated when they do it becomes very obvious why women would choose bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:04 PM
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Men ITT attempting to gaslight women just proving women’s point. Several of you cannot resist telling on yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:31 PM
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Real life experiences since a very young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:50 PM
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They have main character syndrome. It’s all wishful thinking and projection. Everything always has to be about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:01 AM
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Do you think more male therapists in the industry would help?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:20 AM
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Justifying why you told someone no, especially if hurtful while either party feels vulnerable, leaves too much room for unwanted negotiation or escalation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:53 AM
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Therapists tell men and women that their emotions are theirs to deal with. They give them tools to identify those emotions and ways to process and communicate them. Some people really don’t like to hear that in a relationship dynamic. Usually the person who doesn’t want to continue therapy is the one who doesn’t want to take that advice and gets very upset at the suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:45 AM
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Can you give some specific examples of how a therapist could dehumanize in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:13 AM
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If you’re comfortable could you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:07 AM
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When do you notice you get anxious? All day every day, just at night, before work, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:35 AM
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Your point about them being negative is interesting. I appreciate that perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:19 AM
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So your answer is because women are boring?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:17 AM
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Stand up comedy is really in a league of its own IMO. Extremely hard to do, even harder to do well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:33 AM
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I’ve heard a lot of people correlate trauma and the way it develops humor. I definitely think there’s validity in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:32 AM
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Yes I think we definitely agree there. That’s funny, my brothers tell me I remind them of Elaine Benes when I say certain things lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:29 AM
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Yes, I think this is a great point. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:23 AM
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I think a lot of women probably agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:21 AM
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I understand what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:16 AM
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I mean, why fake laughter? It’s not mean to not think something is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:08 AM
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What trained you to cater in that way? Would you mind elaborating?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:56 AM
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One thing that sticks out to me personally is that several times when a man has told me I was funny he has said something like “you’re actually funny…for a woman”. Not always of course, but still notable. Especially when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:50 AM
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I do not want to dismiss your opinion, I was genuinely curious. Everything you said makes sense, regardless if I agree or not. Thank you for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:46 AM
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I love this answer and I agree with you. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:40 AM
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This is a great answer thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:38 AM
2

I agree, that is a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:36 AM
1

That is a helpful perspective thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:33 AM
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What you described as the male humor process is my humor as well. Why do you think women dislike solving the puzzle?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:31 AM
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Men seem to also like funny women, I like funny men because I’m funny. I like the ability to banter back and forth that way. I like frequent mutual laughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:28 AM
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You inspired my question actually. Would you be willing to elaborate on what I asked in the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:23 AM
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I understand your point about male comedians, especially the greats. What about IRL? Have you been around any women you think are funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:21 AM
7

Do you think this answer also pertains to my question about why some men seem to be quick to want to neg a woman that others find funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:18 AM
3

That’s a good point, men seem to have less of a filter more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:15 AM
1

Maybe but I can acknowledge someone is funny without personally finding them funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:14 AM
6

That is a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:06 AM
1

Federal taxes are basically DEI for Red States. Seems like a disproportionate amount of resource stealing through “sperm donor” government. Why should those of us in blue states feed the parasites who vote against their own interests? Remember when conservatives tell you how strong and independent they are it’s a privilege granted to them from the males and women in democratic states.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:56 AM
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It’s also a good day to remind republicans who live in red states that 100% all their welfare services (that they also use more of than anyone) are funded by taxpayers in blue states. Talk about handouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:29 AM
1

I saw your edit I suggest trying a dick in your asshole, and then stick a tampon in and see what happens
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:44 AM
1

Have you ever noticed how before people work out or play a sport they usually warm up their muscles so they don’t hurt themselves by straining them? Because before you do that your muscles are usually tighter and your range of function isn’t as flexible. The vagina is a muscle dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:33 AM
1

I know it’s not supposed to really poke you. If it’s poking you a lot maybe mention to your gf to check it with her doctor. They will check if they need to cut the string a little or move it for her. It’s supposed to wrap up around the cervix to the side. It’s very common for it to get hit or settle in the wrong position when it’s healing after the trauma of insertion. A lot of women need it adjusted a couple of weeks after they get it put in and it’s healed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:37 AM
1

Big fan of balls
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:15 AM
5

He said she loved the “freedom to bounce” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:00 AM
9

His pelvis can stimulate the clit because he can insert his penis all the way comfortably. For example if a girl is on top and she starts grinding rather than going up and down she’s doing that to stimulate her clit. A guy can do something similar when he’s on top. That’s why we tell you to learn to move your hips and not just jackhammer away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:33 AM
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You will love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:12 AM
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Do you have a laundromat near you that offers fluff and folds? It’s usually around a dollar a pound and they’ll wash and fold it for you. A lot of them will pick up and drop off too for a bit more $.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:03 AM
1

Same. It’s truly remarkable what women’s bodies are capable of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:32 PM
3

Yes there is small wire string that hangs down, that’s how it’s removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:24 PM
2

And not have an IUD. Very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:14 PM
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Then you don’t believe in due process. That is authoritarianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:47 PM
5

Giving birth rips your vagina open. Ever hear of the “husband stitch”? Yeah that’s because women tear open, sometimes severely. Women aren’t allowed to leave the hospital until they poop after giving birth. Sometimes they tear all the way down to the asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:43 PM
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Do you believe in due process when accused of a crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:35 PM
0

Did they discover that men are violent rapey sluts the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:33 PM
1

Valid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:31 PM
1

Right?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:27 PM
1

Thank you, Mr. Big Dick 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:22 PM
16

Learn to use your hips. The other questions aren’t worth answering, you guys just argue no matter how many times we tell you the answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:52 PM
3

I think the best way to know is to have a man in your life who cares about you (brother, uncle, friend, etc) who will translate man brain truthfully. My brothers give me the best advice about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:11 AM
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Just so you know you’re debating with a diagnosed sociopath. His honest perspective is going to display those symptoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:35 AM
2

Didn’t TRP coin the phrase AWALT? All women hypergamous and all men are violent rapey sluts is what redpill says about men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:31 AM
2

I’m curious your thoughts - In terms of living in a rape culture, what about the way male victims of rape are often minimized? Do you think that could be a factor contributing to the argument that we live in a rape culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:05 AM
4

Is Pete Hegseth unique?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:45 AM
2

I understand what you’re saying too. Thank you for the convo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:35 AM
1

Because he’s too weak to choose differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:24 AM
1

He chooses to be unkind, why? Why make that choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:08 AM
1

Could you please elaborate? Because if you can only have power because of how other people respond to you, that makes it a weakness, because it doesn’t come from you, it comes from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:12 PM
1

Why isn’t it a weakness to choose to be unkind regardless of power? You don’t need to have power to make that choice, unless you’re weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:56 PM
7

Religion does not pertain to only rural areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:50 PM
8

It very much exists, look at churches and the amount of ministers and priests who rape children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:48 PM
1

Surprised he didn’t go with a chainsaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:45 PM
1

Do you believe in personal empowerment? Do you think people can become empowered by their choices? Do you think making the choice to be unkind can be seen as a weakness?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:43 PM
1

Do you believe there is power in the choices we make?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:34 PM
1

This a really insightful perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:13 PM
1

Does it give an option to choose a female player?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:55 PM
2

Repeating what I said in your thread that got removed: Personally, these video games really bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:48 PM
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No, that’s how men see other men. Thats why men police other men for being simps or betas when they show kindness to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:35 PM
3

I love makeup it is so fun 💄💁‍♀️❣️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:59 AM
1

They used to, bring it back!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:19 AM
1

I read it, thank you for sharing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:57 AM
1

I saw what you were trying to do here, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:33 AM
1

I mean this genuinely and kindly. If you would put down the defenses and really try to listen to what he’s telling you, it would likely change your life for the better as his entire point is the basis of what is taught in therapy as well as the foundation of emotional intelligence (which women always talk about right?). It sounds like you may have experienced some emotional neglect in your early life (not your fault) which makes this a bit challenging, but self validation has to be your #1 tool …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:32 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:46 AM
2

What age range was the other study? Take a look.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:21 AM
5

That’s good. I think it’s really important to know that option exists and can help protect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:28 AM
1

They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:19 AM
7

Does TRP teach men how to effectively execute a prenup that will stand?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:05 AM
3

No, he’s using an old convenient study. A study published in Feb of this year that found men are 7 times more likely to leave their wives when fallen ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:35 AM
1

The belief that you get to decide what anyone does for their own well being and then crying when they don’t is you being a hypocrite right now. So while I’m waiting, you’re already there facing consequences. You don’t need to be so emotional, you’re not smart enough to manipulate me and you’ll only work yourself up trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:18 AM
5

Then close your eyes because what you want see or not see is the only thing here within your authority and has nothing to do with me or any other women you label as misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:04 AM
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Men are going to do what they are going to do regardless of women complying. Compliancy only speeds up the process to men’s favor, it doesn’t stop it. And we know the end goal for men who are angry because women don’t do what they want. The ingrained sense of superiority men have over women is nothing new. You have no authority over what we complain about or who we do or do not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:42 AM
3

No, we just disagree and that is ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:12 AM
8

Are women part of this society or no? Does what they want matter or no? Why can’t women choose what they want for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:09 AM
1

I think the difference here that is relevant is a mother grew her child inside her body. A mother birthed their child and the hormones and brain activity linked to empathy and bonding has been suggested by scientists in a recent study as a permanent rewiring of the mother’s brain. The stages of this also occur throughout pregnancy. This is not to discredit a father’s bond, but men do not have the same experience simply due to biology. Do you think that has any merit to the concept of uncondition…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:06 AM
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No I’m saying people should make their own decisions, which is why I disagree with you encouraging people to stay rather than encouraging people to make those decisions without the pressure you suggested be applied to young people in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:24 AM
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It doesn’t matter, it breed results. It is not a philosophy, TRP aren’t arguing theory as you would to support a philosophical stance. You’re interpreting the theory of an ideology which leads you to the same consensus overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:20 AM
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But your normal doesn’t get to dictate anyone else’s. What you decide can be repaired isn’t always your decision to make. What you decide is acceptable conflict isn’t a universal rule. So setting people up to make their own healthy choices would have much better results than policing what they should accept when they have every right to decide what they will not tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:14 AM
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Being with the wrong person or forcing relationships won’t fix any of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:07 AM
1

TRP tells you what to believe, to be true RP it is not left to your interpretation. That is purple or blue pill. TRP is an influencer pyramid scheme, it is grounded on manipulation to keep you tuning in, engaged, and of course your endless supply of free advertising to their target audience. TRP cannot be a philosophy by definition as it has influenced politics globally and drastically in the US towards fascism, another ideology using corresponding theories. Women’s rights are in danger. Men her…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:05 AM
5

What bad decisions do they make by walking away?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:32 PM
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I disagree, when people don’t walk away they make bad decisions to try to fix the relationship instead. They’ll get married, have a kid, expose those kids to unhealthy relationships, those kids will repeat the pattern in their own relationships, etc. People should be encouraged to vet better with an understanding that sometimes that means walking away before you make life altering mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:23 PM
1

Back in the day they used to treat that kinda thing with a lobotomy should your husband or family decide. I think there’s a nuance there when you consider the history of women being diagnosed and institutionalized because men said so. PMDD is rough, but I thought that it was directly linked to an intolerance of histamines during monthly cycles. Which is why Pepcid AC apparently reduces symptoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:24 PM
1

Is skipping it healthy for prolonged periods of time? I can’t take hormonal bc it makes me nuts, but I thought you were only supposed to skip a month here and there?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:16 PM
1

And I asked him to tell me since he prescribes to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:43 PM
2

Be more specific, you’re being vague on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:42 PM
1

Why not? Don’t you know what you believe in? Isn’t TRP about “truth”? Just like Neo in the Matrix - you swallowed the red one? What was in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:47 PM
1

Are you talking about something like virtue signaling?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:09 PM
2

You have the flair, you tell me why you chose it. Make your case for TRP as a philosophy and I’ll tell you why you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:07 PM
1

Oh yeah. And much worse. Cops in the USA are highly protected and it’s not uncommon for them ones committing crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:56 PM
1

Yes they do. In the USA Blue State taxes fund ALL of the welfare programs for Red States. All of them. Not to mention, Red States use the most welfare out of all the other states. Red States also have the highest rates of abortion. So conservatives here do talk about morals and working hard - while taking handouts from the Blue States that fund them 💯. Conservatives vote against their own interests all the time but are too dumb to know that the only reason they have that privilege is because of …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:37 PM
1

NGOs are funded by corporations and the extremely wealthy for the most part. Anyone who has worked in the nonprofit industry will tell you how corrupt most of them are. It’s not a leftist thing, it’s a rich people thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:10 PM
2

Do you think maybe you’re just more emotionally intelligent than someone who would resort to violence influenced by emotions? Because it appears to me that your emotions do influence you but in healthy, intelligent, and productive outlets.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:49 PM
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Do you think that maybe you’re just more emotionally intelligent than someone who may resort to violence fueled by emotions? Because it sounds to me like you are influenced by your emotions, but the difference is you do it in a healthy and productive way rather than letting them consume you and affect your actions negatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:45 PM
1

50/50 at that age. But regardless, that is messed up to do to your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:41 PM
3

Sure, but what makes it a fact? How do you know they didn’t have sex? How do you know your friend didn’t tell you a fabricated series of events because he was hurt or embarrassed?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:34 PM
1

Well I hope that makes men feel better in some way. Some of you are too critical of yourselves, it’s not like you can control your size.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:32 PM
3

So? How do you know for a fact? Because they told you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:27 PM
7

How do you know for a fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:25 PM
1

That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:54 PM
3

You’re describing a visual (male) turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:44 PM
5

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:18 PM
1

Good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:11 PM
3

You keep making it worse 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:10 PM
5

Who does bouncing feel good for? You or her? You’ve never had a girl cum on top and it shows. It’s like when men talk about how a woman is close to an orgasm so they speed up. Every woman reading those comments knows what that means lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:07 PM
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No it didn’t, you gave it away when you described how freeing it was to “bounce” on it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:45 PM
4

Some can, some get cervix punched (yes even if aroused).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:04 PM
4

You can’t lengthen a pelvis…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:58 AM
3

Are all women the same size with the exact same pelvis? You know, the bone that houses and protects our reproductive organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:56 AM
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Never talked about it with any of my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:06 AM
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And when it’s not about your own dick, it’s definitely about Chad’s dick. You guys will get so hot and BOTHERED coming up with fake scenarios revolving around another mans dick. All riled up and emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 10:55 AM
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No, it shapes your entire personalities and you project that onto women. Most of you are begging women to care about your dicks as much as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 10:32 AM
1

My stepdad got 1.5 million when he and my mom divorced and it did not last him 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 10:30 AM
1

I think that song is about Joey from Full House.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:42 AM
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Men care about penis size more than women. Men talk about and think about penises way more than women. You’re absolutely obsessed with dicks in a way women are not. Vagina canals come in all kinds of different shapes and sizes, just like dicks, which means women genuinely have different preferences based on the curve and structure of their own sexual organs, not just yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:26 AM
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No, ideology is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:16 AM
1

Thank you for answering. I am wishing you the best :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:32 AM
1

Ah apologies. Out of genuine curiosity, what made you decide on that number?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:14 AM
2

I was thinking the same thing. She needs to raise that $
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:00 AM
1

Pregnancy and childbirth rewire a woman’s brain and body permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:26 AM
3

He looks so happy aww
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:16 AM
1

When your wife is ignoring you, how do you feel? Do her emotions change when you have another conversation about it later? Do yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:14 AM
2

Do you feel better if you win or lose? If you say it doesn’t matter, why did you mention you play competitive sports? You’re competing, why? What does discipline do for you and why is it important?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:50 AM
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Why do you play them? What’s the benefit for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:26 AM
5

Yes there is, because if you didn’t you wouldn’t care to participate in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:20 AM
1

You aren’t stomping out emotions. Neurotransmitters are signaling your brain when you have emotions. When you don’t process them they aren’t going away, you’re just creating distance from them tricking yourself into believing you’re in control. The more you distance yourself from emotions the more time you’ll spend trying to understand them (which you’re always doing on here) and eventually it hinders your ability to emotionally connect to YOURSELF & OTHERS. It can also lead to anxiety or depres…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:18 AM
8

Violence is influenced by intense emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:37 PM
2

I’ll be rooting for you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:28 PM
2

Well I only mentioned that because women like to take group fitness classes and it might expose you to more people who aren’t on dating apps and are looking for different things. Social anxiety sucks, I get it, way easier said than done. Just some food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:05 PM
2

Have you tried joining any fitness classes to meet people?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:55 PM
3

Older women that I know who’ve dated younger usually like younger men who are in really good shape. I hope you find someone the way you are but that’s just what I’ve observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:52 PM
2

Have you tried dating women older than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:46 PM
6

Do you know the difference between empathy and sympathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:57 PM
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In the 90s people didn’t walk around with a small computer in the palm of their hand 24/7. iPhones changed things drastically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:05 PM
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It is important for women to be aware of what men who partake in the manosphere are saying. It doesn’t pertain to every man, but enough men to know once you recognize TRP speak it isn’t very uncommon. It has amplified since the election IMO. I mean the SAVE act passed in congress yesterday. I am not saying it is all men, but for women it is relevant to know what red pill is teaching men about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:45 PM
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So men should take accountability and choose better? Sounds good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:25 PM
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I have CPTSD, I don’t have BPD, but I know that has to be an incredibly hard combination. It’s a nervous system that never regulates. I don’t experience a lot of people who understand what it’s like to live with PTSD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:52 PM
1

I’ve had both and prefer male therapists personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:54 PM
1

You should know then how common it is for nurses to go to treatment themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:13 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:10 AM
1

You are extremely uneducated about addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:57 PM
3

No that’s very helpful, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:39 AM
1

What causes addiction to develop in your expert opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:37 AM
2

Could you please elaborate on the statement above?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:23 AM
1

Are you referring to transference?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:17 AM
2

Healthy porn consumption and porn addiction aren’t the same thing. You’re saying it doesn’t exist because you have a healthy relationship with it. And yes, there are men who have lost everything to porn addiction. The shaming you’re referencing in your first bullet point is as harmful as the gatekeeping of addiction you’re doing in your own argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:46 AM
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I’m glad you recovered. You’re still incorrect. Addiction is a disease, you know that. The symptoms vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:18 AM
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There are a lot of flaws within the DSM6 in diagnosing various mental health disorders that are widely known to therapists. It is not the best or only method necessary for diagnosis in terms of treatment - it is what insurance companies enforce for billing purposes which keeps it relevant. Porn consumption can be an addiction and it is treated by many mental health professionals as the symptoms are more complicated than the vice. It is disingenuous to say otherwise if you are not a mental health…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:03 AM
1

I know what you said. You’re not the authority on accountability so it’s irrelevant. So what’s your personal issue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:46 AM
1

Yeah I did read it and I see hypocrisy in your argument. So I’m asking you to explain what it is that struck the nerve about this particular topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:32 AM
1

What is it specifically about her opinion about consuming porn bothers you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:20 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:55 AM
1

You need to chill. You’re harassing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:48 AM
1

You lost btw
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:41 AM
1

Yeah those numbers surprised me tbh. I didn’t realize it was so high based off of things I’ve seen men saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:17 AM
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I know a lot of people who died because of the people who minimized the importance of masking and staying home. That’s my complaint. The bitching definitely wasn’t from women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:53 AM
1

Red states are the tax burden in the USA. The blue states fund ALL of their welfare programs. Red states receive more handouts than anyone else when it comes to taxes, which includes men. I wish my taxes weren’t funding people who vote against their own interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:42 AM
1

No, it’s because you’re ignorant. Thank you for making that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:26 AM
3

Why did you mention you’re blonde?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:13 AM
1

You should brush up on some history.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:20 AM
1

Not sure why this only pertains to looks. Might as well bring full medical history as hiding any mental illness or not disclosing disease that runs in your family would also have an affect on potential offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:47 PM
1

This is an example of how some people get married and/or have kids thinking it’s going to fix their relationship problems but it never does.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:54 PM
2

No I’m teasing you. Bitch is a term for a female dog (at least in the US).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:54 AM
0

U calling me a bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:48 AM
9

I love my dog so much. She makes my day better everyday. 💕🐶🦴
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:39 AM
1

It is more common than not for these men to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:15 AM
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Yes I addressed that in detail in another thread earlier today. Looks like we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:27 AM
2

How have your sinuses been? If you’re not biting down do you feel any tenderness in your jaw? Have you noticed your teeth feeling loose, bigger gaps when you floss, or more crowding? Please do rinse with warm salt water a couple of times a day for a few days. Sometimes it is just a gum irritation that feels more serious than it is. It’s common for food to get underneath the gum and can feel like something is really wrong but it’s really just irritating or exposing the nerve more than usual. Espe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:04 AM
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If you have a way to go to urgent care please go get antibiotics. Is the tooth sensitive to cold? What about sensitivity to warmth?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:41 AM
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I know you have one. Let me guess, legalize prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:38 AM
1

Well a guy was recently found guilty of rape and the judge didn’t sentence him because apparently he has a “bright future ahead of him” as a GYNECOLOGIST. He was found guilty. Ruben Vanstiphout. There are many rapists who have walked away only getting probation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:06 AM
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This was at top of mind as the femicide fantasies are common here as well. But the entitlement to protection topic comes up in every other thread. So you must not read here often or you’re being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:51 AM
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Here’s an example from this sub yesterday. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:34 AM
1

There you go. It’s hard to notice how that affects us but think on it - what did your mom teach you about self confidence or love? She didn’t have to go out of her way in a way of education - it is simply a behavior. Also, sounds like you might have experienced managing her emotions from my armchair diagnosis over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 08:07 PM
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No, it’s just very common for body issues to be a learned behavior. It’s usually taught by someone close.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 08:02 PM
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Does your mom have body issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 08:00 PM
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I hear you. I think we need more funding and targeted research for mental health support for men specifically that is also accessible and more importantly - attractive TO men. More male therapists are also crucial IMO. Men who have been told since they were young boys to shove down their emotions need options that target the way boys are socialized. I’ve had both male and female therapists, in my experience men need men in those roles because it is very common for women (especially older) to tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:44 PM
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No, the best presents are things you know someone would actually use imo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 09:27 AM
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Basically it sounds like men consider all of that easier than going to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 08:04 AM
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You don’t appear hostile to me at all. I know you’re just venting and it’s good you have somewhere to get it all out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:19 AM
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I’m not sure which big boobed woman incapable of love is but we talked about one of them a bit ago where I suggested you intellectualize your feelings a lot and maybe it’s clouding some of your perception in your quest for truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:43 AM
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How many are there? I didn’t think there was 1 - you post about the best friend, the big boobed woman who sends you nudes, and another big boobed woman who claims to love you but is incapable of love
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:09 AM
1

You get blocked and unblocked so often
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:56 AM
1

Nice edit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:47 AM
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Nice straw-man. Thanks for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:36 AM
1

I agree with you that something needs to be created for people to meet, maybe you’re the perfect guy for the job
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:31 AM
1

The president of the United States is a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:25 AM
1

Have you tried volunteering? You might have some luck there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:25 AM
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You want to talk magnitude? There was a group chat of 70 thousand men recently discovered on telegram sharing tips on how to rape women. They posted videos of themselves raping their mothers, partners, daughters, sisters, etc. and then gave instructions on how they did it so other men could do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:16 AM
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I’m concerned and doubtful you’re a social worker for several things I’ve seen you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:00 AM
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Your femicide fantasies are pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:38 AM
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I wish men would stop treating men like victims because women won’t do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:13 AM
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They aren’t incapable they make a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:17 AM
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Agree with you on couples therapy. I just don’t think a lot of people should be having kids in the first place honestly. Individual therapy is what I wish more people did, though, therapy doesn’t work for everyone and I get that. Being a good partner means figuring your shit out before you even select one because if you don’t know who you are and face your own issues, you won’t be confident in your boundaries, you won’t have the tools to see when you’re the problem, and you won’t have the tools …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:45 PM
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I think that problem exists before the kids and a lot of couples use kids and marriage to fix their issues thinking it’ll go away once they take the next step. It’s irresponsible but I think it’s way too common, and I think that plays a significant role in divorce. The issues always existed, but a lot of people try to solve it with a bandaid and in the end need an amputation because the infection spread. I can’t tell you how many people I’ve known think getting engaged will solve their issues, g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:48 PM
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Why do you think unhappy parents who dislike each other/treat each other poorly is better for the kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:31 PM
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Yeah, I agree you shouldn’t settle for someone who isn’t extremely physically attracted to you. I think it’s great you have high standards for a relationship. Could you please expand more on what you mean by leverage in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:16 PM
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Can you link the CDC reference reporting 50% female perpetrators? That is not what I found.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:35 AM
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It was because you agreed with the OP, you have to post that under the auto mod comment on debate posts. And I think the comments were reported for personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:13 AM
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I was hoping it was really 318 items. There’s nothing wrong with not wanting to date single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:29 AM
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Can we see your checklist?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:18 AM
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What she said wasnt narcissistic, your response to what she said was.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:59 AM
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I think a lot of it stems from childhood emotional neglect from one or both parental figures more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:33 AM
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The biology of it for one thing. The others are more personal to my childhood/parents and relate to what I’ve learned in years of therapy dealing with my own feelings and trust issues to not repeat the pattern. That being said I do NOT want kids 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:29 AM
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No it was probably over 6 months ago but there were a few perspectives in that thread that I hadn’t heard or considered that made me think about it in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:53 PM
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I didn’t always think this, there was actually a thread a while ago on this subreddit that changed my mind. I understand where many women are coming from too. I just think it’s a good example of how healthy relationships require empathy to go both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:38 PM
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I would think that he wants know for certain for his own wellbeing, which is understandable. If men got pregnant, I would want one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:13 PM
1

I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:03 PM
1

It’s interesting to me that many men deep into TRP content haven’t yet realized that the manosphere thrives off of their failure. Why would they actually want to help men get what they want when they can profit from men failing instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:24 PM
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Yeah, I’ve been trying to put myself in men’s shoes when it comes to this issue for a while and I honestly feel like I understand where they are coming from. I can’t say I wouldn’t be hurt, because I absolutely would, but I’ve had trust issues too, and so I hear what they are saying. I don’t want kids but if I changed my mind I’d almost just want to bring up the topic myself and say we should do it and avoid any potential issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:18 PM
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It starts years before women hit puberty, I think that distinction is important to mention in these conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:03 PM
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I have experience dating older men. I prefer to date a bit older. You’re one of the ones to stay away from.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:26 AM
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Which is exactly what he does whenever his younger girlfriend disagrees with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:24 AM
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Giving yourself away a bit here aren’t you James?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:12 AM
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Pretty sure men spend more time categorizing, thinking, and arguing about dick than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:48 AM
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Are you asking if men are humans? Would you ask this question at work?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:04 AM
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So you’re saying your argument is irrelevant? Because it’s entirely based on your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:44 PM
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If there is no such thing as being coerced into something why are you bitching about paying taxes? Just don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:33 PM
1

You realize that you argued against your own point here right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:03 PM
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Then what you’re saying is men who are raped by forced penetration via coercion weren’t really raped. Pretty misandrist of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:55 PM
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What’s your argument here? All you’re saying is you don’t understand how taxes, juries, or statistics work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:52 PM
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Irrelevant strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:14 AM
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You’re describing 2 choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:51 PM
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Men lack accountability and blame women for all their dating failures. Instead of choosing a nice girl they aren’t attracted to they’ll ignore obvious red flags and date the hot toxic woman who uses him for his resources and later he’ll cry that all women suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:00 AM
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By taking accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:36 AM
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Sounds like those men need to choose better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:05 AM
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I hope you’re keeping a record of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:36 AM
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That’s why the downplaying is a problem. One of the reasons anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:11 AM
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Must be a pair bonding issue
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:39 AM
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Men who downplay the physical and psychological effects of pregnancy, childbirth, and postpartum don’t deserve kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:06 AM
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Remember when a bunch of men freaked out because of the Barbie movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:10 AM
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He was Chad except we dated for 4 years and almost got engaged. I’m direct, so I like men who are direct and not intimidated by me because a lot of men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:53 PM
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Well you responded to me so it must have hit a nerve. Let’s talk about that instead since you asked. What you’re really saying here is that it makes you angry that you can’t use covert narcissism tactics masked as advice to get women to do what you want because without manipulating, demoralizing, and devaluing them you don’t stand a chance to be chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:27 PM
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My dad was like this and I know exactly what you’re talking about. I never see anyone else mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:18 AM
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No defense needed. There’s a relevant duality there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:10 AM
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Freudian slip hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:01 AM
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Don’t do it. You’re liberated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:54 AM
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Yes I don’t mind being approached as long it’s respectful. I met my first LTR boyfriend at a bar/restaurant. We made eye contact a few times and he came over to our table introduced himself said I was gorgeous and asked if he could take me to dinner. As far as openers I really don’t think I’ll be helpful there. I just appreciate when guys are genuine. I’ve never and wouldn’t use a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:00 AM
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I haven’t and I wouldn’t ever go to either by myself. Men still approach even when you’re with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:31 AM
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Every single woman here knows exactly what you guys mean when you say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:22 AM
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👀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:16 AM
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I’m glad he included his rating was on a scale of 1-10 incase anyone got confused
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:35 AM
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One other thing that you might find interesting and may help you speed things up… There is a difference between intellectualizing your feelings and feeling your feelings. This is something very common in highly intelligent people in a clinical setting. They will analyze their feelings over and over again searching for the logic to bring them peace, but they never find it. The problem is that your logic distorts what’s actually causing the neurotransmitters to signal emotion in your brain. In you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:26 AM
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What if your perception of women only feeling love and attachment through sex is the exact same thing the women you’re sleeping with think about you? Given that’s your love language. So if you are passionate in bed but show no other affection, could it be said you just want sex in their eyes or you seem to only build love and attachment through sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:55 AM
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Yeah I get what you’re saying and I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:50 AM
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There are different types of narcissism. The user above you is correct. Covert narcissists are extremely hard to spot. Women with narcissism are more likely to be covert.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:30 AM
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That makes sense, thank you for explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:50 AM
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Do you want your partner to understand you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:04 AM
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As I childless women I pay more taxes than most men based on my income and state of residence. What makes you think you’re in any sort of unique situation because you’re a man? If you don’t live in California, Oregon, or Washington, you’re actually the one receiving more benefits than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:39 AM
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I assume you’re attractive the way you’ve described women respond to you. You’re strangely endearing even when you say something offensive, it doesn’t seem to come from a bad place. What do you think people misunderstand about you most often?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:37 PM
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Why do you assume you’re the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:06 PM
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Why? Were they all the same photos from 2 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:58 PM
1

So are the people living in red states who use welfare programs that are completely funded by blue states and get more handouts than anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:55 PM
1

I’ve never seen this claim
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:08 PM
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I think a lot of men would have more success if they understood the importance of relatability the way you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:57 PM
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Your mask fell so fast lol It wasn’t her marriage, it was her father her entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:42 PM
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Oh I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:37 AM
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You wouldn’t have rights if women didn’t give you the right to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:34 AM
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Women gave men life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:28 AM
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I’d still be curious. I typically find your opinions insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:05 AM
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1 symptom does not qualify to meet the criteria of diagnosis and ingenious to argue. The study has unexplained irregularities and does not factor in substance use. Not everyone has PTSD but they’d think they did if they listened to the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:45 AM
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Curious what responsibilities would you want a woman to have in your ideal partnership?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:49 AM
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I just looked and they have several creative conspiracies that I haven’t heard before. You can tell they were really inspired
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:40 AM
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I’ve been surprised it hasn’t inspired any debates here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:24 AM
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Genetics are so interesting. I’m the only short person in my family (5ft) whereas my brothers and dad are all over 6ft and my mom is 5’10.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:42 AM
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The woman is responsible for all the accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:33 AM
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I’m starting to notice a trend with you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:39 AM
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If you ever need help getting away from the environment you’re in let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:36 AM
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He owns this https://time.com/6252617/effective-altruism-sexual-harassment/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:33 AM
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It’s not a tactic it’s what I know. Marc takes the media his company publishes seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:28 AM
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I’d say protecting and doing the bidding of predators says more about bad character than calling out dishonesty..but that’s just me. If you value honesty, stop speaking for the victims you discredit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:06 AM
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Brave women who self admittedly lie to protect people they “care about” doing who are doing “illegal things”. I know how it operates at the top and I know exactly what you’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:41 PM
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Narcissism has been known to develop from unbearable levels of shame. They experience shame so traumatically that their body will respond by blocking several neurotransmitters that signal emotion to the brain. The brain basically decides the emotion is life threatening and overrides operations. When this happens to someone they will truly believe they are superior to all others because they have no sense of emotional threat to any action they take other than pride. They will do everything they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:47 PM
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Minimizing the rampant sexual misconduct in the very community you belong to. Don’t tell me there aren’t benefits and participation prizes to those willing to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:54 PM
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That’s because men will focus on criticizing a fat woman who’s dated a fit man instead of uplifting a guy who could probably use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:00 PM
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No, it’s because you choose to benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:47 PM
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It does when you consider men do exactly what you’re accusing women of doing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:21 PM
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Leverage. It’s a manipulation tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:18 PM
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Your response says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:15 PM
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Why did you mention you were a victim of sexual harassment several times in this thread? It was intentional right? Because you didn’t just mention it once, and it was followed by a minimization of sexism from your observations of other women who you believe are in inappropriately influenced by feminism and create new problems. Why did you include your experience first both times?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:56 PM
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I know why you’re saying they are overly feminist, you just don’t think I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:58 PM
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I’ve only had sex in relationships so yes it’s a requirement. I cannot separate love and sex at all and I feel like I’m more guarded about sex and the vulnerability it requires than a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:29 PM
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Why? Because it’s easier to manipulate women if you have leverage?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:52 PM
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No I’m saying it’s benefitted from feminism via social acceptance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:26 AM
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My mom always told me something similar
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:25 AM
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Yeah I live close to a very large navy base and I have observed a very particular type of couple that seem to gravitate towards each other. Always very young, often very drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:33 AM
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Thank you that’s helpful. I understand what you mean. I’ve seen women missing the mark when it comes to calling out men before instead of calling out the women who are contributing to women’s issues. Do you think abortion access is beneficial for men or no? Genuine curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:36 AM
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Can you share some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:05 AM
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You don’t think men benefit from DEI?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:54 AM
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I’m not sure why you’d think the failure was recent it’s been consistent since access to the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:52 AM
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Which do you think leads people to happier lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:11 AM
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I grew up with an abusive dad and toxic golden child brother. Should I hate and assume all men are bad because of that or should I work through my issues surrounding my experiences with men who hurt me so that I do not choose the same type of men that my mom did and repeat the pattern?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:50 AM
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I assume men play video games because they enjoy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:06 AM
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Can you address what I actually said instead of a deflection? Do you notice this or do you think it is my perception?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:55 AM
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I didn’t call you a name it just seems rather hypocritical to call someone’s sexual boundaries exaggerated or neurotic while promoting something that crosses sexual boundaries for others which could easily be considered an inappropriate influence of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:50 AM
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This is interesting because I’ve observed a lot of men that act like they are owned respect from women simply for being men, but when it comes to men respecting other men it has to be earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:37 AM
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You’re literally in a sex cult that tries to appeal to vulnerable men on this very subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:16 AM
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They’re all insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:10 AM
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No because men don’t determine the alpha, women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:49 AM
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A lot of women are told to avoid men in the military and police officers as partners for that specific reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:35 AM
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You’re making yourself look stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:33 PM
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“Not trying to fix broken bird like so many men love to do” Ah there it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:30 PM
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You didn’t explain it. I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:25 PM
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Why were they posting images, videos, and even live streaming themselves raping their mothers, sisters, daughters, and partners in the chat? Why were there so many confessions about who and how they raped their victim for other men to do the same? Why were they posting links to purchase sedatives for their victims disguised as hair products? Defending this says a lot about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:37 PM
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They mean women are responsible for men’s bad behavior and they deserve to be punished for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:26 PM
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Long winded way for you to say you have absolutely no idea what you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:06 PM
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OP originally posted this as “women” not “gen z” are allergic to accountability lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:27 AM
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Answer the question you know what I’m asking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:56 AM
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Why do you think you know what’s better for her than she does?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:31 AM
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Is that how you feel or how she feels?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:26 AM
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What she said
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:59 AM
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Why restrict abortion if the result equates to more of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:04 AM
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Is it just me or is that mass censorship campaign been doing a really bad job?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:51 AM
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Women are bleeding out in their cars as evidenced by states with abortion restrictions. I wonder why there’d be an uptick in those numbers when you could just die of sepsis in your third trimester instead, don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:43 AM
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Banning abortion has this consequence, it’s not a fun fact it’s a very well known fact. Which is why it’s never been about the fetus and always been about controlling women. Abortion will happen regardless but there will be more women who die from them or lack there of which consequently kills the fetus inside of her that pro-lifers claim to care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:37 AM
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Yeah I see it all the time, several times a week. You also reminded me about that telegram chat room with over 70,000 men sharing tips about raping women that made the news. Feel like there’s been a lot of it in the past few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:23 AM
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There’s a term for it, it’s called emotional neglect and when this neglect is experienced in childhood from parental figures it’s considered a form of abuse (at least in theDSM-5).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:12 AM
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Because it’s mostly based on manipulation with the bulk of TRPers. That’s why there’s so much anger expressed towards women’s preferences. If you manipulate someone to get what you want you can control them by enhancing their self doubt over and over again. When they say accountability they mean punishment. They mean devalue. It often verges on emotional abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:44 AM
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You’re right and he’s wrong. His version of accountability plays a significant role in the development of personality disorders like narcissism - specifically shame. What he’s suggesting as accountability a desire for control. You can see the impact of shame and the result of narcissistic beliefs, actions, or full blown disorder here a lot from a certain group of people. And you’re right, narcissists rarely seek therapy but people with BPD often do. The internet seems to be wrong about therapy m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:32 PM
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I know what therapists do and you shouldn’t be one. I know exactly what kind of therapist you are the industry is full of them. You should be more honest with your supervisor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:18 AM
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Your license revoked immediately based off your post history about rape victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:01 AM
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I use a duvet I just never thought of it as rendering the sheets unnecessary but you make a valid point here. I love the idea of two separate duvets I’m so doing that. I do: Mattress cover, Fitted sheet, Regular sheet, Duvet, Throw blanket for aesthetics only tbh, Pillows, Throw pillows, I thought most people did this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:57 AM
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No sheets? I’ve never thought about this but my bed is probably what you’re talking about lol. I do wash/change out my decorative pillows though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:33 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:10 AM
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What do you think of Vegas? Is the COL still decent there? I lived in Summerlin, do you live around that area? I find that there are different vibes depending on which part you’re in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:44 PM
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I also lived in Oregon when I was super young and I’d never move back there either. I live in Southern California, it’s the only place I want to be. I’ve traveled more than the average person and no other place has compared for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:23 PM
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It feels like how I’d imagine it would be living on mars. Had some good times when I visited as an adult but Vegas has changed a lot and gotten worse imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:17 PM
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I moved and I’d never move back and I don’t even like to visit. I grew up in Vegas.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:13 PM
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Pretty sure most women are well aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:36 AM
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That is very helpful, thank you for your thoughtful reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:11 PM
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Deal :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:45 PM
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Can you be more specific about what women most often miss when men do express emotions? And ideally what would be the best way to respond?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:41 PM
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Resolving PTSD is not that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:27 PM
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Would you say that you were emotionally neglected as a child? From one or both parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:33 AM
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~ Frigid ~
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:09 AM
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That makes sense! You’re just a guy who values and practices proper theatre etiquette. I genuinely hope you find your person :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:59 AM
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Plus having an iud which a lot of women do makes it even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:28 AM
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Do you have any other preferences that would be nice but aren’t necessarily deal breakers you’d be open to sharing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:23 AM
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This tracks with your threads about how you don’t consider your future wife as part of your family lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:44 PM
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If he’s incrediblyyyyyy smart. Like smarter than most people I’ve met. I find bizarrely intelligent men superrr attractive. Status, money, deep emotional connection, quick witted and likes a bit of play/banter, understands his charisma. Appropriately assertive (just because I’m very direct myself so I like to have balance in the dynamic). Genuine kindness and philanthropic interests. Funny, supportive, phenomenal communicator, likes to choose what we eat (balances my indecisiveness in particular…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:34 PM
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Agreed. To this day my mom still expects me to manage her emotions about my dad and ex stepdad. I never noticed how much I had to do that as a child until I got older and in therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:51 PM
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A. Messes make me uncomfortable. But I also grew up in a house that required pillow fluffing when you got up from any couch or chair immediately or else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:52 AM
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AI (I’ve heard)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:37 AM
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I went through something like this but worse. I am a woman and it was another woman in a position of power as the ringleader, though some men were also involved. It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do when I finally got the courage to seek legal action. From my experience it seems somewhat rare and I don’t feel like people understand how badly it affected me because of the gender dynamic. It was like I was supposed to brush it off easier or something? So I think it’s fucking terrib…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:51 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:38 AM
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That’s not what I am saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:38 AM
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Do you think women becoming more educated and working and even out earning men could lead to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:41 AM
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I do think women have superior critical thinking skills but I think that the ways in which men are raised within society has a significant part in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:03 PM
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It’s called critical thought
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:49 PM
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I don’t understand your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:47 PM
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Pretty sure he’s trying to say that being accused of rape is worse than being raped
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:49 AM
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I had a boss like this and he ended up professing his love to me when he was drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:10 PM
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Good eyebrows
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:05 PM
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No he’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:31 AM
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That makes sense, thank you for answering!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:45 PM
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which test?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:19 AM
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My dad. He used to give lectures to the family about how women are inferior to men in every single way for hours. He did tons of other shit too, extremely abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:48 AM
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What’s your IQ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:32 AM
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Sounds like she’s choosing better & taking accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:51 AM
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I encourage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:00 PM
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You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:10 AM
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We have ski week this week where I live which is funny because I live in a beach town
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:41 AM
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I never argued that it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:10 PM
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Men want women more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:05 PM
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Seems to be for some women, I think there is a mixture from what I see from women I’ve known. For men I do think casual sex is the most predominant validator based on what men are saying. They want the instant desire that some women may get from simply posting a photo online. If that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:22 PM
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I don’t think anyone should be forced to be a parent. I want to support it but I still struggle with a bit of bias around these discussions to be completely honest with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:39 AM
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I don’t understand why you’re using that as a retort in comparison to medial care in your earlier comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:01 AM
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If you’re working why should I have to pay for it? I already pay taxes that fund the majority of welfare programs in red states.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:59 AM
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Nope never
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:10 AM
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Some women are, I am not. I do not have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:07 AM
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Because men have lower standards for casual sex from women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:03 AM
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Because they are both men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:01 AM
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Because they are both men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:01 AM
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This argument doesn’t make sense when you consider the fact that the financial abortion argument just means everyone else is taxed to pay for your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:08 AM
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Your analogy is irrelevant because food allergies don’t result in pregnancy. It highly concerning you’re saying men cannot help themselves and won’t say no when they have equal weight to consent. You are responsible for what comes out of your body and into someone else’s. Your argument is weak and irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:10 PM
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Men don’t decide whether to have sex? Are you saying men are incapable of refusing sex if offered?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:57 PM
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Because you are responsible for the decisions you make and if you’re worried about getting someone pregnant wear a condom or don’t have sex. Just like women should be on birth control to reduce their own risk and not fuck men who feel oppressed by rubber and believe they don’t have any responsibility for their decisions if they don’t like the outcome when post nut clarity hits. Your argument makes no sense because you’re suggesting men are somehow less responsible because they do not get pregnan…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:42 PM
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Men have 100% control to not enter a woman I don’t understand your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:00 AM
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Do you know the difference between first term and second term abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:53 AM
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I’m surprised I haven’t seen any men comment on the Conception Begins at Erection bill soon to be proposed in Ohio that would make ejaculation without the intent to conceive a felony. This includes masturbation btw. It’s very Elle Woods iykyk Obvs it won’t pass but never seen that before. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:36 AM
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Majority of “self help” influencers are just running pyramid schemes it’s definitely not specific to TRP they all use the same formula.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:06 PM
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Samesies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:04 PM
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No but I heard there’s a workshop you can buy where they teach you how to profit and maybe suggest the books you need to buy and maybe in that book they could tell you that you should write your own book and be like them so you buy the workshop that will teach you to write that book and then in that workshop they tell you that you need this program in order to market that book so that you can sell it but in order to sell that book you need to build an online presence which they have a course for…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:57 PM
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Why pay if you do it for free ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:32 PM
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I’m half teasing I think it’s mostly because men shove down their emotions and they express them in the way that makes sense in their minds but not be what’s really going on internally
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:48 PM
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Reminder that TRP is an influencer pyramid scheme which intentionally develops cult-like programming in order for them to profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:45 PM
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Yes she was raped in a tunnel in a park if I remember correctly. She was ordered to pay him 5 million. I remember reading her book about this before it came out he was actually innocent. Beyond fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:11 PM
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Must be the logical way of expressing emotions or something 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:57 AM
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When the random percentages and ratios start flying you know a thread is about to get rowdy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:38 AM
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You should try them. I love hot yoga and hot Pilates specially maybe you’d find it enjoyable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:15 AM
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You have to ditch the bear and embrace man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:24 AM
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I think OP has a lot of alt accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:07 AM
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Interesting to read the replies here vs the replies in the “choose better” threads
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:57 AM
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I can’t tell if you’re being purposely dense or the wires crossed somewhere. Could be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:43 AM
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That it’s not about your personal preference. For the dream guy she’s happy to pay for herself and be casual at first AND if she desires him she’s going to want him to see her as desirable visually. If she’s presenting herself as an attractive person with intention she’s making an effort attract YOU which gives you a good idea of her interest. She’s wants you to find her sexually attractive while you get to know her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:12 AM
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To be clear I think men should have high standards and I encourage that completely, but I also see a lot of contradictions in your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:39 PM
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Do you think a lot of women going out with their celebrity crush are showing up with a bare face and unblended fabric?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:05 PM
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He has really good extension and his feet would thrill any ballet teacher I’ve ever had. Needs a bit more turnout but that’ll come.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:10 AM
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This isn’t the biggest threat to modern feminism if you are even slightly paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:07 AM
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A man has never let me pay. I only have ever offered when I wasn’t feeling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:22 AM
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You don’t see a lack of extra effort in her appearance as a sign she likely doesn’t desire you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:46 AM
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I like to think there is but I don’t think everyone lucky enough to find their soul mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:34 AM
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In my experience that doesn’t happen. It’s more likely the boyfriend is getting all the tea imo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:32 AM
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Yeah and I’m happy for him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:44 AM
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I had a private tour of space x headquarters and it was incredibly impressive I must say
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:43 AM
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That guy is getting roasted in the group chat so she’s probably ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:38 AM
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I was afraid of my emotions being used against me later. I was afraid of someone I loved telling me I deserved to be abused or it was my fault if I made a mistake. I was afraid of not being perfect in their eyes because I had never experienced unconditional love and I thought maybe if I was perfect I would deserve love but since I wasn’t I made efforts to keep that from being exposed as much as possible by attempting to control their perception of me as someone who was worthy. I sound like batsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:27 AM
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The control for me was about being afraid to be vulnerable because I was never safe to do that and there were consequences for it growing up. It’s why a lot of men relate in the sense of showing anger but not sadness, shame, or pain. Anger doesn’t make you feel vulnerable the same way as the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:27 AM
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Only good girls get the good presents. I think control is pretty accurate, at least for me. I had a really severe childhood. When I got mental health support I was diagnosed with Complex PTSD and I learned a lot about what was happening to my nervous system when I was triggered and how it made me seek a sense of control. It’s not my nature to want to pick fights and argue for no reason. It’s not fun or fair to others either. I like a good banter though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:57 AM
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I have in the past but I made a lot of effort to correct that behavior and I’m chill now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:18 AM
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No I’d most likely want sex after a crying sesh like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:13 AM
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I’ve seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:10 AM
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Someone has to be the reason she’s told to choose better in the future I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:09 AM
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Only when watching the notebook
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:58 AM
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I am not comfortable showing vulnerable emotion to someone who doesn’t show it too. I wouldn’t be able to open up to a partner if they didn’t open up to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:31 AM
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Can we see a pic of her (?) without the wig?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:14 AM
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Strict but your comment made me want to change my answer to coming back as a man instead
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:02 AM
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I would rather not be reincarnated either way can I get that option or do I have to just choose death early in the next one to avoid that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:44 AM
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No way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:37 AM
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I’ve seen someone very close to me go into mania and psychosis and that is the only thing I see. Because that’s what it is - the tweeting is actually a very very common thing in those instances. Being famous on full display for the world to see likely contributes to his recent inability to stay stable IMHO. I wish more people had the resources for help that he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:23 AM
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Sounds like a future franchise in the making
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:18 AM
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No when I’ve been single if I did anything on v-day it would just be hanging out with my other single girl friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:17 AM
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I’m really sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:12 AM
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That is very true as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:04 PM
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I read your comments with inflection and small pauses between line breaks and for me it gives your writing character that is hard not to interpret it as an expression that gives a window into how your train of thoughts lead you to your “truth”. I mean it as a compliment btw but it’s hard not to psychoanalyze. Writing seems like a great outlet for you and you’re good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:34 PM
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It’s not just scares that happen either. Getting pregnant while using protection isn’t as uncommon as a lot of people assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:26 PM
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I learned about yaoi from the south park episode about Tweek and Craig It’s one of my fav episodes tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:31 AM
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Here is a diff link if you want to read it when you have time https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/jopy.12994
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:19 AM
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I am curious your take on this study that I came across a couple of days ago https://www.psypost.org/is-the-bad-boy-appeal-a-myth-study-investigates-dark-triad-attractiveness/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:57 AM
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I live in Southern California and it’s the same thing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:19 AM
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;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:55 PM
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HARDER
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:09 PM
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I apologize I missed your point completely. I’m sure that could have a lot to do with it, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:40 AM
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I mean yes, most people want to be in love. It’s the best feeling ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:25 PM
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Isn’t this how red pill started initially? From what I’ve read here it seems to have morphed over time and become mixed with a lot of black pill but before that it was generally work out, style advice to boost confidence and career focus?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:10 PM
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Thank you for your response! If you don’t mind why do you think that is? Do you think it’s a way to manage emotional vulnerability by separating outlets?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:06 PM
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I have never heard of that being the reason. Rape kits are incredibly invasive, painful, and take hours upon hours. I do not think it is a common occurrence for someone to get one without merit. In fact I’d wager most women don’t because they are very expensive and everyone has different trauma responses after those kinds of tragedies. They literally dig out tissue, they can see bruising and tears internally, draw blood work and do a full panel, they are interviewed by hospital staff, case worke…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:47 PM
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Honestly a lot of people don’t realize how much their childhoods affect the choices they make in a partner as an adult, unless you are aware of them and make a conscious effort when making choices of how you maybe prone to seeking a certain behavior masked as comfortably. I see a lot of symptoms of unresolved childhood emotional neglect, or parental narcissistic abuse, etc, that play out in adult relationships. Not trying to diagnose everyone but I honestly see a lot of men here who I believe we…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:51 PM
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I feel like men are really good at compartmentalizing who they are in relationships and are very different within the man friend groups. I’ve heard a lot of guys say they were shocked when a friend of theirs was outed as an abuser (legitimately) because they never seen that side of him, he’s not like that around his friends. Part of the abuser trait is usually that they are masters at this. Do you think that is a valid interpretation from what I’ve observed? Genuine question btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:42 PM
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I know you don’t understand how it works, that is my point. Your comments haven’t negated anything I’ve said. I can garuntee I know more about it than any of you combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:54 PM
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You’re in deep my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:32 PM
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If there was no demand from men, there would be no product. Supply and demand isn’t a difficult concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:27 PM
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Men created the demand for it, for profit, and it works by keeping men angry, for profit. Edit: I do think some RP users here make valid points, but it’s a small margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:06 PM
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I know and I’m just pointing out the hypocrisy in a lot of what is said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:59 PM
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Majority of Red Pillers have no idea what influencer pyramid schemes are or how they work and are actively participating in them because they don’t understand how the money is generated through affiliate contracts as well as all the free marketing they provide to the ideal demographic of lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:58 PM
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Choose better may be valid but the steps to follow are usually wrong here (not always). It’s much deeper than many of you give credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:50 PM
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This thread is making me think about male victims of forced penetration as well. I would imagine “proof” that is being stated here is much harder in those instances. I’m not even sure if they do any sort of rape kit testing for forced penetration? A lot of those cases we know about have to do with coercion of an abuse of power like a student/teacher relationship. You’re not going to have bruises and I also think the paper trail is probably not sufficient for a lot of those victims. There are a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:31 PM
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I’m pretty sure the backlog of rape kits is rather significant in most states.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:57 PM
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Lilith makes a lot of good and interesting threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:53 PM
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A lot of guys on here criticize women who don’t sleep with these men right away claiming they have so many options that they need to sleep with them to even have a shot because they’ll just move on. Which is the opposite of what you should do with men who have a lot of options as my previous bf and current bf are what a lot of you would name “chad” or whatever. There is so much contradictory advice to suit whatever subjective take that is the wrong advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:42 PM
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What do you think the % is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:39 PM
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Hm I see your point :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:24 AM
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What research are you referencing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:08 AM
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I’m sorry that happened to you, that’s terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:05 AM
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50 shades of grey is Mormon fan fiction that was inspired by Twilight (also Mormon) lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:11 AM
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A lot of women actually look to other women for protection because a lot of men do not actually protect. I agree with the mechanic bit though, I hate car maintenance but I’ll exchange that for doing all the laundry, is that fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:57 AM
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It bothers you when someone agrees to disagree with you? It sounds like you do that as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:13 AM
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Yes, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:52 PM
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I’d be more hurt if it was a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:49 PM
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I don’t want kids for a variety of reasons. Whenever men find out about this whether it be my dentist or chiropractor or bosses in the past they’d all argue with me that I’d change my mind. No I won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:44 PM
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I grew up with one. It’s upsetting and had severe effects on me and my brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:32 PM
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People vent to me nonstop. I’ve had strangers will tell me their deepest darkest secrets and family issues I never wanted to know often. I’ve learned to let people talk, none of them want advice, they just feel safe talking to me or so my therapist says. 🤷‍♀️ Maybe you feel safe for your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:14 AM
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Something doesn’t add up here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:04 AM
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I think she’s having a manic episode.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:22 PM
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Been learning a lot of parental emotional neglect in childhood and how that abuse presents in adulthood. Seems to be a lot of similarities when men here describe their experiences/desires with intimacy/sex and how it affects the way they are able to function.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:48 AM
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A reality tv show
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:49 AM
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Don’t have one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:06 AM
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I wish Costco was an option, I had to go with Sprouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:52 AM
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Just DoorDashed a rotisserie chicken for my dog and I’d do it again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:45 AM
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You boys are so silly 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:47 PM
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U missed a part
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:33 PM
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Something I’d say
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:15 PM
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I will do my best so that I can give you a nice reference with merit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:39 AM
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Idk but I live by the ocean and I’ve been seeing weird stuff in the sky every night since November. I had the same thought but I haven’t been chosen…yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:27 AM
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You described my mom almost perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:53 AM
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( . )( . )
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:34 AM
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The only time anything like this has ever bothered me is in high school when my brother would date my friends and their breakups would change things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:46 PM
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How very blue pill of you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:42 PM
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Sounds like something a bot would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:30 PM
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Red pill gets it wrong because they only tolerate context when it suits their argument and they ignore it when it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:16 PM
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I know honey 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:12 PM
1

A quote for the history books.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:47 PM
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I used to get a b12 shot every week to feel alive. I barely slept. I miss that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:14 AM
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Would you mind elaborating on what I am not understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:07 AM
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Choosing better for a lot of women means she’ll choose to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:42 AM
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That thread is heartbreaking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:50 AM
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I am so upset about Trump tbh. I know I’m being dramatic but I can’t help it :( I turn off all my news notifications some days it helps
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:15 AM
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Yeah, I live in a very affluent area in California. Verrrry common for the wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:29 AM
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I don’t know how good of friends you are with the girls you’re talking about, but you do know that they are likely dating married men right? That’s part of the arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:41 AM
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Yup. A few of the cast members were long time Reddit posters and still pop up sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:56 AM
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Do you think his felony fraud case and conviction is valid?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:49 AM
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It was a compliment I think he wins them. Or is this when I start complaining about mod favoritism? Jk jk 😇 😇😇
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:58 AM
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Cosine angles
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:27 AM
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I find these arguments interesting in the sense they always gear towards what could or could not happen in the future, instead of the veterans currently living and the quality of life and care they receive when they come home a shell of their former selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:58 PM
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You strike me as the kind of guy who argues in the comments on porn hub
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:33 PM
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I know an investor who would be very interested in this…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:55 PM
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I’ve seen a lot of bad therapists and until I found my current one I had really bad experiences. The guy I see now changed my life, so I am extremely grateful that eventually it worked for me. But even he says that there are an overwhelming amount of therapists that shouldn’t have licenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:01 PM
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This is far more common in men. I do think jealousy from the mother definitely occurs as well, but more often as the child gets older and less dependent on the mother for feeding etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:54 PM
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Well I hope your days are numbered :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:04 AM
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I find it interesting, don’t you, Bear-man?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:22 AM
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I do 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:13 AM
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I’m really glad you haven’t heard Peggy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:01 AM
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I think there’s a high likelihood of childhood emotional neglect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:47 AM
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Is there any reason you used the example in the OP rather than the series of Reddit threads a couple of years ago where a man was having relationship issues and his wife killed all 3 of their children when he told her he wanted a divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:41 AM
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I’ve read that a lot of marriage problems start when a couple has their first kid because of this. Some men can become very jealous of the baby when the mother has to devote attention and affection to their newborn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:36 AM
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Your flair in this interaction 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:02 AM
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Well, it’s always been my experience as someone who dates to marry and has never had casual sex with anyone and never would even if I was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:39 AM
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Yes it is. It releases endorphins, oxytocin, toxins, stress, and soothes the nervous system. It’s a chemical release. It’s hard for me to cry actually, I stuffed it down for a long time and it’s still rare (suppressed due to severe trauma by way or torture to be real). That’s the only reason I ever looked into it. But I won’t argue with your personal stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:32 AM
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Crying is good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:13 AM
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I genuinely believe that a lot of people just don’t know how to respond to the people left behind in a tragedy like that. Especially when it comes to children to be honest with you. That’s why they focus on the perpetrator, to make their own sense of the why and how. And that’s how those people choose to comfort the grieving.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:23 AM
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What about this do you think or from experience makes wives upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:24 AM
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If you don’t mind me asking, do you feel like you’re able to be vulnerable with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:41 AM
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Men wait for the women they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:10 AM
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Well you didn’t deserve any of the abuse you’ve suffered, and I’m so sorry you experienced it. If I’m inferring your reaction correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:28 AM
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Why are you responding so aggressively to my comment? I have brothers, my comment wasn’t exclusive to what women experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:13 AM
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Well, when men don’t show vulnerability it makes it harder to make that assessment accurately. I understand why they don’t, and I understand the disconnect it creates between healthy partnerships. I do not think it’s all men, it can be women too. Please don’t confuse my explanation with an attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:02 AM
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Please allow me to expand on the way it is perceived by someone who disagrees. When someone is insecure they rely on the validation of others to supplement their ego, their lack of confidence needs to be fed somehow. Typically more often than not, they don’t work on themselves. They will try to convince others that they aren’t all that wonderful instead. They do this to break down their partners confidence to a lower level than their own. It gives them the power in the relationship. Men don’t wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:52 AM
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Could you please expand on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:29 AM
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Honestly, I think a lot of people have no way to relate to it. Not many people know what it’s like to turn on the local news reporting from a crime scene and for that crime scene to include your parents. People often can’t relate to victims of these things and ignore them. It seems easier to and maybe more relatable to focus on the perpetrators. It’s easier to turn the channel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:27 AM
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Not if they are insecure, and that’s the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:19 AM
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It’s interesting you say this, because it’s actually a topic I worked through in therapy. My male therapist was the first man to ever express outrage and a similar sentiment to what happened. Over a decade later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:04 AM
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That’s how abuse works, you will believe you deserve it the longer you’re exposed to it. The cycle of abuse is a very real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:58 PM
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My dad used to threaten to kill us and I have no doubt he was about to attempt it right before he died based on the fact he acquired the weapon about a week before he was killed (possible suicide based on the testimony’s I’ve read, I’m really not sure). He used to tell the women he cheated on my mom with that we all died in a house fire. They were pretty surprised when they showed up at the funeral. I don’t share this often, because of the responses similar to what you described. I’m sorry for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:47 PM
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It is very interesting to see the differences in response and engagement in both threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:47 PM
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I thought the same thing about you tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:24 AM
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So how my comment made you feel? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:13 AM
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Why do you think you need to explain that to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:05 AM
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Did this hurt your feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:02 AM
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Why don’t you tell that to men? Is it because this touched your feelings? So your instinct was to tell me something I know instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:01 AM
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Are women humans? Property? Depends on how men feel I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:10 AM
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You would be facilitating it, once again, you’d lose in court. Have you read the terms and conditions for only fans as a buyer and seller by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:32 AM
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That’s not what I’m asking about, you’re suggesting to incentivize people via payment to sell the sexual medical history of others without any verifiable data to support the integrity of your product (FTC) and violating privacy laws (HIPPA) because you’re the one who facilitating the exchange without verifiable source or written authorization for disclosure. You will be the one sued, there is no grey area that can protect you when you’ve make the questionnaire yourself, and paying people to fill…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:19 AM
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It’s not a grey zone for a good attorney. Especially if you were subpoena’d and had to comply with a forensic audit, which you would if you were sued. How are you going to prove this grey zone to the sec of state and attorney general? Also how are you going to maintain FTC regulations? Do you think it’ll be easy to get a merchant account? I’d imagine these kinds of sites have all kinds of liability for charge backs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:01 AM
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Well the most obvious legal issue in the entire OP was completely missed by the GF so either that or someone hasn’t passed the bar exam.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:51 AM
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How would you feel if everyone had access to your medical records? Because sexual health is protected by HIPPA. Based on the data you’re suggesting to collect and publish alone you wouldn’t stand a chance against lawsuits. How would you get around that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:47 AM
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The entire site could be argued as a HIPPA violation, I don’t think someone’s passed the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:30 AM
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You know, I’ve had similar thoughts about the lawyer girlfriend and her bf giving legal advice on Reddit for some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:24 AM
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Would you be ok with everyone in your life reading all your Reddit posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:07 AM
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Yes she gets half whatever $ he has. Fair is fair
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:57 PM
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Huh? I thought men believed in accountability for their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:22 PM
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Red pill men say stuff here to get validation from other men all the time, most of them would never repeat half the stuff they say irl. The pills are silly and don’t mean any more than you let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:48 AM
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And the blue pill man is always the one getting laid consistently but that is always ignored lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:02 AM
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Do you see women here calling for the rape of all men and murder if they refuse? Because when I see that it’s always the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:23 AM
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I learned what NOT to do from my parents, specifically my mother and her relationships (dad died was abusive, all her partners after were too). When you’ve watched how toxic behavior presents in the early stages of relationships and when you see the way they end up you either learn from it or repeat it. I can spot a red flag from a mile away, but I wouldn’t have been able to do that if I hadn’t worked on the things I saw my mom ignore which was her own insecurity, ignorance, fear of being alone,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:06 AM
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I just know those coached women have a group chat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:07 PM
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I have very high standards because I grew up with a mom who didn’t know her worth. I don’t absolve her from “accountability”, but when you grow up seeing the relationships that existed in my household you either repeat the pattern or you figure out how to change it. It’s not just your own relationships that affect you, especially when you’re a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:05 PM
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Sounds expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:19 AM
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Women who put up barriers don’t want men like you, your advice on the matter is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:15 AM
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She’s right. Once again, you’re mistaking bad advice for wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:05 AM
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Hispanics have typically voted republican, I am not sure why you think they abandoned the left. I’m also not sure why you think that was a flex for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:43 AM
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Really? You don’t get it even if you don’t agree with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:40 PM
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He’s such a gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:52 PM
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I hope you have a return on your investment and find someone lovely who makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:42 PM
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High value men wait for the women they actually want. If they can fuck anything, patience tells you what you need to know. You guys mistake wishful thinking with advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:15 PM
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Limerence is usually a sign of deeper mental health issues tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:50 PM
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Limerence is usually a sign of deeper mental health issues tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:47 PM
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I was thinking how many places this would show up on social medias lol prob a specific sub too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:45 PM
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Why don’t you just try it and see how it goes? Why ask here if it’s what you want to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:31 PM
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Requirement/standards, I understand, but demand/requirement have the same results in the scenario, regardless of semantics, so they mean the same thing in context. I appreciate honesty in general, but it doesn’t come off as you’re being honest with yourself here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:08 PM
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I’d read it and also like to see it play out on the next season of Love Is Blind
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:09 AM
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Is it fair to say it’s a requirement based on your preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:17 AM
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cReddit Karma has a tracking service for that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:00 AM
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I know a legitimate Pornstar, your story tracks tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:24 AM
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Gotta love men’s logic, either way it’s rejected-again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:51 AM
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With unlimited refills or else ☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:35 AM
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Thank you for responding, well said. Tbh I’m upset Trump won, but I’m also upset at democrats for their failures as well. Trying to find rationality in the sensationalism of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:15 AM
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So what’s the solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:38 AM
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What do republicans care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:31 AM
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I’ve seen a lot of men say that average men deserve an above average woman, simply because they are men. Do you think that has anything to do with men having a hard time finding a match?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:26 AM
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Bingo. Accepting yourself and owning it is the difference between red flags and green flags. We all have things we don’t like, but when you still give yourself compassion you signify for others that you have a high level of integrity. Which means they feel safe to be vulnerable with you and that’s why you connected with those women quickly. Because we all have those things we wish we didn’t, we all can relate to that, but not everyone is honest about it in fear of judgment. In my experience men …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:25 AM
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You reminded me of a guy I know who was mad when the playboy bunny he thought liked him for his personality asked him to pay her rent when all he does is lead with his money because he’s insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:42 AM
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I thought men didn’t want to be settled for?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:37 AM
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They never listen to the guys who’ve cracked the code. Everything you shared is exactly what I interpreted about you when I made my first comment about your honesty. You’re emotionally intelligent :) I live in Southern California too - I have probably watched whoever she is a few times haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:22 AM
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I personally find it to be a highly attractive quality that not everyone has the confidence to possess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:01 AM
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Maybe it was your honesty? Like George Constanza when he does the opposite of what he usually does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:49 AM
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I feel like she proves the theory that men always want the women that they complain about, like conservative men always wanting liberal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:04 AM
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Ah that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 08:40 PM
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I think a lot of kids notice when their parents are unhappy. I know I did. I’m not totally convinced staying really benefits anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 08:35 PM
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So that unfortunately is an influencer pyramid scheme, the men who talk about it to others may not get a commission or incentive to sell, but thats because it’s not needed, they are providing free digital marketing (often in this sub or other social media platforms) targeted towards the most likely demographic to engage in influencer content. Free content or information is always intended to capture leads, it’s not really free. Influencer pyramid schemes are tricky to spot, because they don’t ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:54 PM
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That’s awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:31 PM
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Thank you for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:20 AM
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No it isn’t. Controlling your emotions is intellectualizing them. Managing and controlling are not the same thing. Managing gives autonomy to feeling, validation for why it’s there, and healthy processes to work through them. Shoving your emotions down is being dominated by them. Your response showed a lack of EQ. You should learn to manage your emotions instead of reacting to disagreement by insulting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:04 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:38 AM
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That’s not what emotional intelligence is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:35 AM
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Have you adopted?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 08:27 AM
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Of course she doesn’t, she’s an influencer. Influencers make money by being their own brand, without it she has no product to make her business successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:09 AM
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What you’re describing is an influencer pyramid scheme. An influencer sells a course bragging about their success (usually where they break FTC regulations first), during that course you have a segment where you’re sold on their new book, in that book they sell you a course to write your own book. Etc etc. Every slice of information is a set up for a sale. All free content is a set up for lead collection. All of these influencers have affiliates deals with other influencers, they expand their au…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:36 AM
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She’s the one who doesn’t think women should be allowed to vote. She’s “pick me Pearl”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:22 AM
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What is the point of “claimed to be a virgin”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:58 AM
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Do people take advice from Pearl?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:57 AM
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From my perspective men seem more resistant to medication for mental health, do you think that’s accurate and if yes, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:37 AM
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Do you think that has anything to do with men having the ability to place their wives in mental institutions or make medical decisions like lobotomies for women who were disobedient in the past? I’m asking genuinely btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:36 AM
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Would you say it’s a pyramid scheme?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:33 AM
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Well, sometimes when women vent to men and they accuse them of not listening it’s because men are problem solvers, but that isn’t the point of venting necessarily. The point is to be heard and validated so that the emotions can regulate and the solutions can be acted on (speaking for me). I’m not saying all men/women, but when I’ve suggested therapy and I’ve been told it doesn’t work, it makes me wonder if the inclination for men to problem solve means that there are other methods of therapy tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:58 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:33 PM
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I’ve seen a lot of men say talk therapy or support groups don’t work for them. Is it more male spaces or is it more research and options for mental health support that provide less traditional low-cost methods for healing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:29 PM
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That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:20 PM
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What if the woman harasses the man by bringing the child to him? I ask because that’s another person that would then be involved and deal with consequences that’s totally innocent and also could have mental health impact on the man. I agree with you, but I’m just curious about what you think in that instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:20 PM
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I’ve always been curious about if the mother decided to keep the child and the biological father opts for the financial abortion. Can he change his mind when kid is older? Does he still have access to have a relationship with the child and mother? Can he still parent without providing financial support? I’m not saying this would be common, but what in that scenario what would happen and should it matter? If it does matter does financial abortion come with a restraining order in this case?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:56 AM
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Is financial abortion purely for financial responsibility? As in, could the father still be in the kids life if he wanted to and not have financial responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:05 AM
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No how many?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:19 AM
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I have a hypothetical question I’ve wondered for a while during these discussions and like some opinions. What if a woman decides not to get an abortion and has the child and the father gets a paper abortion. What keeps him away from the mother and child in that instance? Does the father need to be kept away at all? Should that be ok since she decided herself not to get an abortion and his rights are protected by paper abortion? I don’t know how many pregnancies occur from hookups or ONS but rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:16 AM
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I’ve never been asked but I have gone shopping with 2 of my male friends who asked me to help them buy clothes to improve their wardrobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:35 AM
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That’s kind of you to say, thank you. And I have always been like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:52 AM
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I understand that and I agree with you. I won’t do that again I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:26 AM
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Both. Agreeing to go out on a date at first, but we were friendly when I saw him and he had a window as I left the door open. I think it was obvious I was attracted to him too. When we started dating I waited for sex for about 3-4 months after we were official.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:17 AM
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I don’t think you have to satisfy all women because we aren’t all the same. I think you have to be able to communicate, which is only a small percentage of what people say. Body language, tone, social cues are all part of communication. Or you should ask, I try to be very upfront for this reason. My perspective isn’t to be harmful to you at all. You are free to take it with a grain of salt. You all started asking me questions, I just answered, perhaps I shouldn’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:09 AM
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Well in certain cases it does. In other cases you’ll find contradicting statements here and there. But I’ve never pretended I don’t like persistence. I have other preferences that others don’t share too. If someone has a lot of options, so do I. I’d be stupid to be easy because I’m not interested in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:41 AM
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Well if you only focus on that example, sure. I’m not an average woman, but persistence is the only reason I didn’t deny him. He had to earn that. I said no for about 6 months. I apologize if that was triggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:08 AM
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No argument here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:04 AM
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Yes, that was just how we met. It took a lot of persistence on his end because I was hesitant for a while. He was an ex pro athlete and very attractive, so I knew he had plenty of options and I wasn’t interested in being an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:26 PM
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2 women isn’t a lot. I am a woman, and I’m telling you. Your 2 examples probably wouldn’t talk to you about it based on your responses to me. Majority of women getting abortions are married. It is mutually decided by a couple or a doctor. It’s medical care. Many women become infertile after abortions - a risk greater than a vasectomy. It is not something most of us think of as birth control, which is why we position our bodies to prevent it via the pill, etc. In case no one ever told you birth c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:04 PM
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Piggybacking off your comment. I’ve had 2 LTR, I met the first at a restaurant when I was out with friends, and the second was a business owner and I was a customer at his company.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:34 PM
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I can see that. I suppose I see that happen both ways but my experience has some personal bias which I can acknowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:22 PM
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You don’t think men are equally reactive when they face criticism?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:12 PM
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I was looking at the top threads here the other day and almost all of them are threads criticizing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:39 PM
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It is not comparable to you because you cannot get pregnant. I don’t think men should have kids they don’t want either, so they should do their part, just based on your last sentence alone. You bear responsibility as women cannot get pregnant without men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:36 PM
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I cannot separate sex and love. I don’t like being vulnerable. I get approached a lot and have always gotten a lot of interest in social groups, I’ve never joined and wouldn’t join a dating app. A few months at least for trust and love to develop. Partners who respect this show it in various ways over time. I’m upfront about it in the early stages so men can bow out if it’s not something they align with. Yes I’ve always waited
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:26 PM
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You would not think it was a moot point if you were the one to get pregnant though. A lot of times during these discussions men speak like abortion is something simple, inexpensive, or easy for women. To be clear, I do not believe anyone, men included, should be forced to be a parent against their will. I also believe that men should carry an equal amount of responsibility for prevention in that instance so it would be cool if there were more options, however that might look.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:48 AM
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What does that have to do with you using birth control to reduce risk of pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:04 AM
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High value men or chads go crazy for women who deny them IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:53 AM
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Interesting. In my experience, and this has happened several times, “high value men” or “Chads” go crazy for women who deny them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:49 PM
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How do you guys even tell the difference though? I’ve only had sex with LTR, and I’ve always made them wait even though I was extremely attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:41 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:51 PM
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We aren’t talking about the diversion you tried you use. You’re talking about fixing women to be who you think they should be, because it makes you feel good. Yes, that is using women to make yourself feel good. You help people because you want to, because people only change if they want to change, you can’t fix anyone, you can support them and you should not expect anything in return, because they have to do it themselves if they truly want it. Don’t be dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:17 PM
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Can we talk about birth control options for men too?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:23 AM
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Are these studies inclusive of widowed parents or just divorced/not together anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:56 AM
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Thanks for explaining
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:38 AM
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I didn’t say that you did
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:19 AM
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Is this challenging to prove in your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:35 AM
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Do you advocate for financial abuse then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:26 AM
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What counts as proof here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:19 AM
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Wait your girlfriend is a civil rights attorney and hates the laws that give her business?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:12 AM
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Have you heard of the Kardashian curse?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:46 AM
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I can see both sides, and I agree one leaving. I don’t think he’s a bad person and I understand there can be a lot of shame in these topics. But I can’t say I wouldn’t feel misled even though I understood why he chose not to tell me it’s still the cause for the breakup he knew about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:26 AM
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