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You are not understanding In my example she's saying it nicely, she's not calling him a pushover, she likes him. In this context "thanks you are so nice" is a nice thing to say. You can come up with another similar context where she's telling him he's a pushover Both things could happen, which means the phrase "thanks you are so nice" is contextual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:46 AM
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Guys in relationships are probably told they are "nice" by their gf. For example "thanks you are so nice". see? context is key
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:16 PM
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Context is key for meaning, this happens in every aspect of the language. Everyone knows this, except TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:13 PM
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Yes, women communicate better with the average man and woman. Bluepillers. Not TRP guys. TRP guys are the only ones having trouble with these words.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:23 PM
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The problem is TRP in general has a problem with understanding language, social cues and nuances. "Nice guy" has 2 meanings. One is actually being nice and the other is being a pushover. It was always clear to me that the meaning depends on the context. It's not that women don't know what they want. It's TRP guys who can't understand what women are saying. It's the same reason they ended up following TRP in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:11 PM
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The example of the advertising agency still applies. The agency is not asking how to sell the product, the agency is asking if the product and campaign is appeling to them. So the consumer's opinion is important. You can't ask the fish what they like because fish can't talk. You can also tell you've never had a conversation with a fisherman because if they could ask the fish what they like they absolutely would ask. see the difference? Your example about decorating the house also doesn't work. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:43 PM
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women talk though A more fitting example would be When an advertising agency wants to test a campaign that is appealing to a certain public they test it in a focus group of said public. Men saying women are fish is just misogyny since fish can't talk but women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:38 PM
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If fish could talk believe me every single fishermen would be asking them what's their favorite bait
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:21 PM
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Seinfeld is not boomer humor that's absolutely insane The guy might be a boomer but that's not what we are talking about. There's not a single episode where he talks bad about how nagging his wife is. He didn't even have a wife. None of them did. It was centered on dating, not "my wife is a nag" which is 50% of boomer humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:24 PM
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It was aired for the first time on those years you mention but then all channels repeated it throughout all of millennial childhood. Remember it was cable times, people rarely watched sitcoms when they aired, you were likely to see the reruns and the marathons. They showed it along with Friends and Two and a Half Men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:21 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:55 PM
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I took the time to repeat our conversation because you said I moved the goal post when actually I repeated myself, how is that not arguing in good faith? and then I added another example that proves my point if you are going to take things so personal maybe this isn't the place for you 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:34 PM
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I didn't move anything you (or someone) was saying "seinfeld is boomer humor" then you said oh buy jerry Seinfeld is a boomer I said it doesn't matter, what matters is who watched Seinfeld. then you said "but the show is old" so I repeated the same as before "YoU MoVed The GoAl PosT" 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Now, tell me, are Kids show made by kids? Or is it adults who produce and entertain kids? Does that make a kids show actually "genx show" because the producers and actors are genX? or we call it a kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:04 PM
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again, it's more important who watched it than when was it created or how old was Jerry Seinfeld Younger generations watch Seinfeld (still do btw). Married with children stopped being popular around 1998/2000
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:58 PM
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Ah! yes I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:37 PM
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you mean "my wife sucks, woe is me" is gen x millennial humor? absolutely not I even ran into a meme about it on IG <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:25 PM
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Seinfeld and Robin williams didn't make jokes about "my wife sucks, woe is me"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:12 PM
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Doesn't matter what age Jerry seinfeld was What's important is who consumed that humor. If the show was popular while millennials were growing up then it's "millennial humor" not "boomer humor"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:11 PM
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Seinfeld is not boomer though Millennials watched Seinfeld and Robin Williams Perfect example of boomer humor is Married with children that's a bit older
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:37 PM
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of course
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:18 PM
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there's nothing worst than glow up guys though they think because they managed to have a nice body for 5 minutes now they think they are ryan gosling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:46 PM
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If men were more realistic about their league I'm sure 50% of their loneliness problems would be solved Every guy here that struggles thinks he's better than what he's actually getting oh no, right, it's women's fault, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:25 PM
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of course ryan gosling 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:23 PM
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It's always so funny there's a million posts about men struggling but then I point out this thing about leagues and EVERY SINGLE GUY says the same "oh, actually, I'm Ryan Gosling, me and my 9 inch dick date uglies but only because it's easier but I could totally have a 9 gf" So what is it? Are men really struggling? Is every guy here is special? My personal theory is that men really struggle because they overestimate their own value. The standards are too high and they project that to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:08 PM
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It's true though you didn't get catcalled from the age of 12. That was scary and it sets a permanent fear of men on the street. It's very common that men scare women just for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:52 PM
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They are children lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:34 PM
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No, the people you date are your league lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:33 PM
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females Yes, I'm sure you bang a lot lol 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:05 PM
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you have the definition wrong source Taking the easy way out, choosing to ignore the harsh reality and live in blissful ignorance. A general name given to anyone not yet unplugged from the matrix. TRP took normal rom com advice and rebranded it with cringe terminology so that it's more appealing to incels. That's why you think TRP is everywhere. It is everywhere but not for the reasons you think. It will always be a Reddit thing until the day incels decide to go outside and touch grass. I hope t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:50 PM
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no, the blue pill is average normal people. Some are simps sure, the rest is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:39 PM
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exactly you care about yourself, you want women to change so that it's easier for you to get sex. "Everyone else should change except me" lol good luck with that entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:37 PM
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ah so you care so much about the well being of women right haha of course said woman will be able to figure it out I'm sure, either by lowering her standards or by choosing to stay alone. She doesn't need you to worry about them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:27 PM
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I've been repeating the same since comment 1 if this person has a harder time convincing an 8 to have sex with them, than convincing a 5 then this hypothetical person is not an 8 basic logic you should try it some time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:26 PM
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Finding it technically “harder” to pickup an 8 does NOT mean having a hard time picking up an 8. what? lol what mental gymnastics is this? 3 hours is harder than 15 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:52 PM
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you are saying a 5 will find it harder to pick up an 8 than another 5 I agree with this I'm saying this happens because 5 is picking up above their league. She will not have a problem dating another 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:39 PM
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exactly my point. A 5 shouldn't have a problem asking other 5 to have sex. She will have a problem aiming for an 8 because that's out of her league
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:26 PM
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that doesn't answer the question though what's the incentive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:24 PM
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No, if you are an 8 you chose 8 to have sex with or relationships, it's the same, because it's no extra effort. Again if you find it harder to pick up 8 that's because you are below 8
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:10 PM
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Nah actually red pillers get the most girls that's crazy bluepillers get the most girls redpillers are guys who struggle and resort to TRP for help. Bluepillers are the default average people who date without effort
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:08 PM
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😂😂 technically truth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:06 PM
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why though? what's the incentive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:06 PM
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like a swiss army knife but with different dick sizes imagine the possibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:01 AM
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It's just something that happens in society and nobody can 100% have a completely independent standard because humans are social creatures and that's just how we relate to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:48 AM
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Depends what you are looking for. If it's just a hookup who cares if you can keep them. And you need to "get" someone to be able to "keep" them. That's why "get" is a better word.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:09 AM
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he grew it to 8% lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:08 AM
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the original comment was men with lot of options date down so it's not about options. If you supposedly have a lot of options but then choose to date 6s, then I'm sorry to say this but you are probably a 6. If you have options but don't date those options, then you really never had all the options in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:08 AM
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Your league is what you can get though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:03 AM
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If you match then it shouldn't be an effort, things just flow
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:01 AM
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right google "beauty standards" you might learn something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:51 PM
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and? read the rest of the comment 🙏🙏🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:42 PM
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why are you here then if it's not to seek validation from others? if you really didn't care what others think you'd keep your opinions to yourself no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:40 PM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:38 PM
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but she's not my personal preference" I don't know how much more clear I can write something I literally used the word "personal preference" BuT WhAt AbOut PerSonAl PreFerNces? 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:36 PM
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because it makes you look like you have super high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:34 PM
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Of course, and it varies from culture to culture and from different moments in time but there's a general consensus. You might not personally prefer big boobs but we can all agree you are more likely to have people like you if you have big boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:10 PM
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They do this all the time here and I'm suspecting it's some form of autism thing or immaturity. There is no other logical reason why they feel the need to put down others without anyone asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:07 PM
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you are right, objective isn't the correct word, the correct word is arbitrary. Part of your personal taste is just beauty standards and the other part is personal subjective preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:04 PM
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you are part of a culture that values certain attributes above others, you might think you are so unique but you are not. We call them beauty standards. There's a % of your "unique likings" that are just cultural beauty standards. This is just how society works
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:01 PM
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There's objective beauty (= someone checks all the beauty standards boxes) and then there's personal taste. but she's not my personal preference" I literally just said this 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:21 PM
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i literally just said you can say "I admit scarlet is beautiful, (objective truth) but she's not my personal preference" (subjective truth) no, she's not mid, check your high standards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:18 PM
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you can say "I admit scarlet is beautiful, but she's not my personal preference" instead of just saying "she is mid", because she's not mid It's very hard to take ppd men's opinions on how hypergamous women are when they say "scarlett is mid"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:00 PM
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all their "women are hypergamous" is them projecting their own high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:53 PM
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I have to be real honest with you for a significant proportion of my life I also thought transilvania didn't exist either but I'd never question anyone who lives near there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:51 PM
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haha yeah I totally agree, you are being too rational for nonsense posts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:50 PM
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Men would actually appreciate it if they didn't have to put in a great amount of effort to get a girl that isn't all that great, but that's not how you ladies operate. what does this even mean? women need to be slutier so that men (who don't even like them) find it easier to smash? maybe men who think are dating down are actually dating their looksmatch and they just need some therapy sessions to lower that ego
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:44 PM
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will you let me go?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:40 PM
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that doesn't make sense why would anyone date down when they can match?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:38 PM
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He looked like my friend's father 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:33 PM
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couldn't you just google it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:32 PM
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yeah pheromones are a thing. This happened to me several times. Sometimes I love their smell, sometimes they smell like horrible sweat even after a shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:32 PM
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Some people operate normally with half a brain even I once saw a case about a kid "with no brain". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPZ9Yc7U0Pc He has only 2% of his brain but the little guy somehow defeated all odds and he looks very normal. So as we can see size doesn't matter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:36 PM
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Childfree people look for childfree people, that's it. There's even a filter in some dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:15 PM
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of course, Chad, I'm glad you are here telling us your story even though nobody asked and it has nothing to do with the post 😘 And I'm not going to reply anymore because I'm feeling uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:01 AM
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guys here are so fragile you can only imagine that fuck me eyes are a cause of divorce 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:42 AM
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but we are not talking about you or men in general 😂😂 you just felt the need to communicate that you are a Chad 😂😂 (if that's even true obviously, I really doubt it)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:40 AM
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It's different for women Women get that attention by default from the age of 12, no matter the clothes, no matter the type of body. There might be some minority of women who enjoy other men's staring but the overwhelming majority will find it creepy. So if you are going to be a creep at least spare me the second hand embarrassment and do it when you are alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:25 AM
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no, that's rude you can stare until you go blind when I'm not around You don't see how you are embarrassing yourself? I don't want that second hand embarrassment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:20 AM
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Fantasizing occurs in one's mind, there's no way you can know when it's happening and what is happening, you can't police what's going on in people's brains Staring at people, in general, is rude. I don't care if you masturbate to your childhood teacher or your aunt's boobs, just don't be rude when we are in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:51 AM
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lol yeah, he wanted to form a family with me how sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:27 PM
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No, you get to know them and then you see if maybe they like you enough to ask her out. You don't ask them out first, that's creepy but anyway, anything is better than OLD. Not only the ratio sucks (75% men) but also the algorithm is against you if you are not a chad. Average people are having sex and relationships, this is a fact "but none of that works!" There's no other options. You are not that special. If you still think life is meaningless and there's no solution then maybe you can start t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:24 PM
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I don't want to have someone telling me (again) that I'm a liar I know I don't lie, that's not even a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:53 PM
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I don't understand what's the point of this shitty people are everywhere and we all know what a red flag is what's the point in me saying "oh btw you shouldn't be with a guy who removes the condom without letting you know"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:34 PM
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I thought you wanted examples, and there you have them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:30 PM
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In my country it is happening. They want to take away abortion rights, we had a whole institution dedicated to women's rights, now that's gone. "Femicide" doesn't exist anymore. etc I have an incel president and all the incel assholes are celebrating him it's very pathetic to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:27 PM
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AF/BB personality matters social skills matter etc please don't reply saying "but those are actually lies because blablabla" I really don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:23 PM
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It's not like the internet isn't real life. The guys who don't go outside and continuously reproduce misogyny online then they go and vote for governments that want to take away women's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:21 PM
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PPD Men don't want to hear what women have to say, they call us liars. So I'm not sure what were you expecting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:16 PM
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yeah well obviously the guys who think women are vending machines are not outside lol there was a post today saying "men should treat women like vending machines" or something like that, it's deleted now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:11 PM
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On the contrary, the general assumption is lack of social skills that would explain their dating grievances
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:47 PM
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nah she's probably joking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:30 PM
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the title says "besides looks"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:25 PM
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It's easy. If redpillers are dying to go to Korea to be a passport bro, then Korea is not a feminist country lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:21 PM
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I don't think guys who wear makeup are right leaning though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:18 PM
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the guy that does great on Tinder won't probably download the app though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:35 PM
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They do if they install the Tinder Wrapped app
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:15 PM
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courses, classes, travelling and friends of friends
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:14 PM
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The problem is guys here don't know if someone does or doesn't have rules. They just assume everyone does, which is weird. Instead of doing the normal thing which is breaking up if you don't feel loved
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:45 PM
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Second swipe it's always a match. You want another match? Restart the app until you run out of matches
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:25 PM
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That alone explains why it's harder for men Added to the fact that OLD favors better ranked profiles and ignores the rest I don't know why you keep insisting on using OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:23 PM
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Why bother asking users when you already have the data?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:21 PM
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not everyone is like that I've actually set up my 2 friends with each other and I couldn't be happier 🥰 also "16 years ago" I assume they were very young, that's a factor too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:35 PM
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"forcing" her to dump her increasingly neurotic friends. well, yeah, that's what neurotic people do, act crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:26 PM
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No, most people here are young, on the spectrum and virgins. I'm not joking. The women are maybe older but not a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:14 PM
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This is true How come bear attack statistics are ok but paternity fraud statistics are not ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:17 PM
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I'm against paternity tests because they are expensive (imagine making them mandatory) and that money has other better uses
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:10 PM
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Maybe she was trying to be friendly, people do that sometimes But anyway, I don't think this is the place for this. It's a personal situation. If you want people to talk about this you should phrase it as a generalization and then using your personal experience as example
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:09 PM
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So one woman didn't like it lol did she call the police or something? did anyone tie you up and force you to do anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:30 PM
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You are right, you and OP repeated the incel narrative This post doesn't make sense, it's a whole bunch of low self esteem projection
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:26 PM
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what I'm talking about real life examples give me a real life example where this "No, I want the same consideration." makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:49 PM
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😂😂😂 have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:19 PM
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what does that mean in the real world? not the internet world, I mean the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:11 PM
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If you don't like any woman then don't date women If you don't like any woman but still want to have sex then you might have to lower your standards Why do you keep whining and asking all women to change to your liking? That's not going to happen my god
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:10 PM
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women will tell you to your face they they are feminists because it works as a test. If you don't like it then we are not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:59 PM
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That's the incel narrative, not what OP said
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:46 PM
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If you are so great then choose better 🤷‍♀️ I don't know what else to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:45 PM
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who are you trying to impress? lol I hope it's not me why do you keep writing about your personal stuff that's not even related to the conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:09 PM
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This just shows that it's not that you don't want women to judge your choices. You want women to care about your judgement and "stop sleeping with chad when they are in their 20... only to settle with beta blablabla"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:07 PM
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that's not women's problem then want a therapist with benefits. you want the benefits. You are the one who is horny and chooses to be a therapist just to be able to have sex lol. And then act all victim. Stay single if you don't like it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:01 PM
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if you don't like the baggage you say no how is this difficult lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:36 PM
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It's a woman saying she's not going to do the things she used to do for past boyfriends no. op said "switch from dating bad boy's, to nice/kind guy's" OP never mentioned what these women do to their boyfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:34 PM
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that's what "stop being nice" means If he wanted to say "stopped being a pathetic loser" (which is what "nice guys" actually are) then that'd be another thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:32 PM
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appreciate being settled for Then grow a pair and don't date women who are settling for you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:29 PM
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No, you are talking about someone with baggage. People with baggage are not celebrated and nobody is forced to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:27 PM
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The person you are describing didn't grow as a person and has nothing to do with what OP is talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:01 PM
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Now you are talking about different things one thing is being mean because of a bad relationship like you said here: and men avoid women who are now mean because of previous brushes with bad men In that case you are everyone is advised to run away. Nobody should be with someone who is mean. and a very different thing is you assuming she's mean because she had a bad relationship but never actually experiencing her being mean. You are implying this here: when men filter out women who had bad brush…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:59 PM
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what? who is forcing you to be with a mean girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:42 PM
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low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:40 PM
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see? men don't like it when women change, I don't know what OP is talking about men don't even want women to move from the 18 y/o virgin status lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:36 PM
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Men here don't like it when women change, they challenge that idea all the time It's women the ones celebrating other women maybe men should celebrate other men more often
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:35 PM
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Spread to who? Nobody is perfect in sex so if anyone dares to laugh they should think maybe they are doing something wrong and nobody is telling them It's more likely that telling my friend will give me another POV to fix the situation and help the guy (or help me) be better at sex When I was very young I mentioned something to my friends (we were always open and respectful about sex. I went through some sex issues and my friends were very supportive) and that's how one of my friends knew he had…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:00 PM
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because why not? maybe my friend can share some advice like "you should tell him you need more foreplay" or "maybe you should ask him non verbally what you want" or "maybe try this position"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:23 PM
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I have shred sex details to my best friend, positive and negative. I don't think there's anything wrong with that if you do it with respect. I think we should all talk more about sex. I never made fun of someone's physical appearance obviously. And no, I wouldn't mind that a guy shares sexual details with me to his friends. In fact I'd want him to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:03 PM
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You guys love too bring up rape hypotheticals
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:04 PM
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"financially raped" fucking lol "What do you mean I have to pay taxes for roads, police, government, health, schools, all sorts of benefits that I enjoy every day, but I don't get to have mandatory sex?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:59 PM
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"I'm just AsKiNg QuEsTiNs"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:55 PM
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Try removing video games, discord, tok tok, reddit, any social media that's preventing people from socializing outside
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:54 PM
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You mean the 9 billion people on this planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:48 PM
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You don't think having kids is a contribution? Also women earn less in general
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:44 PM
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It's her word against his And the question is who we believe if it's a random stranger who is being accused or someone I know, and my answer is Unless we are talking about a brother or a very close friend who truly never showed any signs of aggression (of all the people I know that might be only one person) then I'd probably believe her simply because it's a very common scenario. Guys tend to be pushy when drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:14 PM
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and felt threatened by his stance as he was pushy OP says he was being pushy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:54 PM
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What you can get is far more important than what you think you are I never understood why everyone here is so obsessed with coming up with a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:31 PM
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Actually if you can fix the problem with surgery or whatever then what I was saying doesn't apply to you. I was talking to guys who can't fix it. So in that case, where you can't do anything about it for whatever reason, then you have to choose between a) or b) If you can fix it then obviously that's the way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:19 PM
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Then you don't call it give up, call it "choosing the no sex lifestyle" but you don't get to feel sorry for yourself or be sad or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:34 PM
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Having a small penis or something like being physically or mentally disabled you mean having a smaller than average dick is like being physically or mentally disabled lol dramatic much? Even disabled people have partners so this is not an excuse. even if you have a micropenis (0.6% chances) and you can't surgically fix it, then what else is there to do other than do the best you can with what you got? surely you can give up and never have sex again. You do you. Ask yourself if it's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:33 PM
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so you chose a) congratulations on not giving up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:26 PM
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I agree but if a guy has been watching porn since forever and he's been listening to people make dick jokes then I could see how he might feel self conscious. Even if it's not a real problem in real life. It's like weight. You see super models with 20 BMI and it kind of gets to you. That self esteem issue isn't solved by your partner telling you you are beautiful the way you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:20 PM
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Actually no, I don't need more info Unless we are talking about a brother or a very close friend who truly never showed any signs of aggression (of all the people I know that might be only one person) then I'd probably believe her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:14 PM
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The solution might be become a cuck, marry a pornstar, try and find a woman who cannot/ has no desire for sex, marry a woman who wants to adopt this goes under the "do what you can with what you got" as opposed to "give up"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:29 AM
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In practical terms what are the alternatives? a) suck it up and do the best you can b) give up and never date again it's your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:27 AM
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Because you won't be happy otherwise we wouldn't call it "give up"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:26 AM
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I don't have enough info I think How did I find out? is she my friend? Did she go to the police and it's on the news? What am I supposed to do about it? many things could've happened. 1) she is lying 2) the guy was pushy and made her uncomfortable and he doesn't remember 3) the guy was pushy and he's lying Even if she is lying I would never accuse her of lying without proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:21 PM
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By understanding that society has beauty standards but since he can't do anything about his penis he should continue trying to meet people. Average people don't fit the beauty standard 100%. We all have to do with what we got. The alternativo would be give up and that's just ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:13 PM
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Men are hornier and that's why they are the ones approaching then the RP is wrong to suggest that men should make women chase them? they can suggest all they want I doubt it's going to happen. good luck though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:44 PM
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I don't think any of this is manipulation also manipulation to get commitment by compliments screams low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:28 PM
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“weight class” Reminder that a thin guy isn't in the same "league" as a thin woman. Society values weight more in women than in men. Society values height and muscle in men. This is why a thin short man dating a chubby woman are looksmatched. So the problem is men reacting too negatively to women's rejection? and you automatically assume it's women's fault for rejectig them. So obviously the solution is what? women have to say yes? they have to be with guys or else guys will react too negatively…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:04 PM
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is this incel math?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:36 AM
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Lying to women isn’t a mainstream advice btw it is known that men do this to sleep with women since forever literally every sitcom has a Don Juan who plays that type of character Every rom com has a scene where the main character goes through a glow up once they are over their previous lover, only for the lover (or a new lover) to appear again in their lives. This is literally the plot of most rom coms
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:21 AM
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lol no imagine thinking trp invented self improvement, gold diggers, going to the gym, lying to women and looksmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:58 AM
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Friendly reminder that boys turn into men. You are saying "99% of men don't give a fuck about sexual assault". If that sexual assault happened when they were boys (If you are a man who was assaulted statistically it most likely happened when you were the most vulnerable, when you were a kid) Are you sure men don't care about their abuse? are you sure? Because I've seen plenty of victims talk about how deeply traumatized they were by their SA, so I find it very hard to believe that "99% of men do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:34 AM
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That one rich friend sleeps with all 11 women from a same group? lol no that's just bs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:18 PM
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It's amazing that, based on your (numerous) posts, your friend group(s) include every single pill-based stereotype and cliche what an amazing coincidence! I just wrote a similar comment btw
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:35 PM
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This guy uses his group of friends to demonstrate every single redpill teaching Throughout my entire life, I have observed most of my female friends and cousins chasing after guys who were rated 7 or above. che out their post history it's wild to say the least
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:33 PM
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red pill - misogyny = mainstream dating advice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:25 PM
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Again, 99% of men don't give a fuck about sexual assault. You think SA is less traimatic for a man than for a woman? You mean a 8 year old boy who was molested is less traumatized than a 8 year old girl? Boy you have some learning to do lol ?? You used the pronoun "we". I used "men" and "women". More projection. we all know what you tried to do don't be sneaky
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:21 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:22 PM
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What? You mean men who started acting like women are not able to love women? Are men becoming gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:22 PM
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So your source is "I've read it somewhere here?" 👍👍👍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:20 PM
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Sure sure, then they grab a gun and shoot people on the streets Or write long dissertations online hating on whatever group they decided to project their unresolved trauma Also don't make things personal, it's against PPD rules 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:17 PM
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Someone in the comments pointed out that the amount of restraining orders and stalking behavior from men actually proves that men are more anxious than women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:29 PM
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Men and stalking name a more iconic duo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:25 PM
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Men here: Women hate it when men show vulnerability Also men here: if a woman tells me she's been sexually assaulted I leave her immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:25 AM
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That's what we call unresolved trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:12 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:11 AM
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If she didn't like you she would never be turned on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:52 AM
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I don't know what you guys are talking about I'm being 100% honest why not explain instead of throwing insults?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:20 PM
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Yet you have time to read the whole thing and call me stupid? 😂😂 Maybe I didn't understand what the other guy said, yer your first assumption is that I'm stupid I reported you btw because that was totally uncalled for
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:05 PM
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Why are you insulting me? I'm expressing myself very clearly there's no need to call me stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:30 PM
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If every time you see ice cream you eat or and every time you see vegetables you refuse, that's a pattern. and then I said I don't have a pattern because sometimes I want to eat veggies and sometimes I don't. Because there's too many factors like the time of day or whatever like you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:01 PM
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no you didn't 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:23 PM
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No I don't think there's a relationship between the 2
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:22 PM
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OP is talking about sex and relationships While there are guys who can get it easily "Get it" here means sex He's talking about the classic "He made me wait 3 weeks while she had sex with chad on the first date" scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:22 PM
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you came up with veggie and ice cream. And I said that I don't have rules, I will eat them whenever I like. Sometimes I'm in the mood for veggies and sometimes I'm in the mood for ice cream. Also I think this is very normal behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:53 PM
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No, the OP's post is about women who make different men jump through different hoops for a relationship. I wouldn't make a guy who I wouldn't have sex in the first place, jump through any hoop. That's why your boundaries don't apply to OP's post. Under normal circumstances I'll move as fast or as slow as I please
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:50 PM
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How is feminism related to neurodivergency? what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:37 PM
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I told you many many many times how my head works with the many examples 🤷‍♀️ you just refuse to understand that some people don't have general rules to make a guy wait and do it more as a case by case scenario why is that so difficult to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:34 PM
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I'm sorry you don't like women like me eating ice cream for breakfast lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:15 PM
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I think you are steering off topic. Op's post is about what are the rules to predict the amount of time the guy has to wait before sex happens, all else being normal You are talking about boundaries in general. Of course I won't have sex with a guy who is blackout drunk or I won't have sex with my friend's father. Not now or ever. It's not like if my friend's father is a Chad I would consider breaking the rules, no, it will never happen. Not having sex with my friend's father is unrelated to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:13 PM
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If every time you see ice cream you eat or and every time you see vegetables you refuse sometimes I crave ice cream and sometimes I crave broccoli. I live alone I don't care what other people think if I want to have ice cream for dinner I will. But why would you do that? Because sometimes I feel like ice cream and sometimes I feel like I want other things. Why would I set myself a rule when there are no consequences of doing whatever I want?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:41 PM
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Why would I avoid having sex with a guy I like when I want to do it? I don't understand why should anyone set a boundary there. Why make him wait if I don't want to wait or why rush things if I don't feel like having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:37 PM
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The universe and human relations are complex so that's why we need to make case by case decisions. Rules give you the illusion of control
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:09 PM
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It's a case by case decision On the contrary, kids growing up need all sorts of strict rules to deal with the world. Once you get older you understand why those rules exist and you are mature enough to break them or not. Having strict rules and then trying to accommodate every new circumstance and people to your pre-established rules is weird. If you do that it makes me think that the randomness of the world makes you anxious and you use the rules to control that randomness. (not talking to you …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:04 PM
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I do analize my own behavior, I'm a big fan of noticing patterns and I pay A LOT of attention to people still every case is different and I can't make a general assumption like "if he has muscles I sleep with him -30% faster" Every circumstance has it's own complexities. How I feel, how he feels, where did we meet, where do I know him from, etc etc etc If you are not able to comprehend reality with it's complexities then you are obviously going to find rules everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:55 PM
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I'm saying you don't know if you have rules oh jesus I know what rules are, I know that I don't have them how many times do you need me to say it You think there's subconscious rules that I'm not aware of, there are not, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:27 PM
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that's great
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:20 PM
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It's great that you don't feel less masculine with a woman who is a provider for you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:57 PM
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I said I have no rules. It's not wrong to sleep with someone as soon as you meet them. It's not wrong to wait to be intimate. You might be overthinking this. There's no secret conspiracy or subconscious mechanism that men could crack to sleep fast with women. Things happen when they happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:50 PM
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wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:31 PM
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Physical attraction is only one factor but there are many others like where did you meet? at a party? a wedding? a restaurant? How is the man feeling how is she feeling? Are you in a "fuck it" moment or you don't feel like rushing things? etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:21 PM
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And then you'll have 50 weirdos cheering the crazy idea
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:23 PM
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The problem is thinking there are rules. Things happen when they happen. "Breaking the rules" would imply forcing yourself to do something you don't want and I don't see casual sex like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:18 PM
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It exists and we all do it not just women. Everyone tries to get the best they can. In fact men are more likely to shoot above their league. The fact that men are hornier makes them less picky. That's it. Now if you say that "hypergamy is only about money" I don't agree but whatever And the answer yes, women and men care how much money the guy has. Society has ideas associated with masculinity and femininity. If a man has to be the provider, because he's a man, he won't want to be with a woman t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:57 AM
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I'm not entirely sure it is a safe space for anyone honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:45 AM
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no, most experts don't agree Imagine thinking it's healthier to eat 10 fruits a day 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:20 PM
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ok, call all the gymbros and all the protein bars/shakes/powders then 😂😂 they've been taking protein shakes for no reason according to you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:19 PM
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Fats are not bad for you I don't know why you keep insisting. We've known this for more than 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:07 PM
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the recommended is 10 fruits and vegetables per day 😂😂😂 you should do better research this is just crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:27 PM
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ok antivaxxer lol 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:56 PM
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That's crazy outdated. see this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:55 PM
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Protein doesn't give you cancer wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:31 PM
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sure, and the earth is flat you are going against mainstream science I'm not planning on losing time explaining basic concepts to a flat earther lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:30 PM
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Here's some reading you can do abot the differences in endocrinal systems And here's another link you can read about hormones and obesity btw this isn't obscure knowledge, this was a quick google search
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:01 PM
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Yes you can. People eat proteins to work out. The whole "eat sugary cereal for breakfast for good energy" was always wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:55 PM
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Testosterone is not the only hormone with different levels between men and women there's tons of others And yes, low testosterone levels can affect your weight you need to study some biology, this is pretty basic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:43 PM
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so you don't think men and women have different hormone composition? huh funny how T levels is a good argument for some things but not others
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:30 PM
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congratulations but we are not talking about you we are not even talking about men men have faster metabolism that's why they suffer less obesity. Remember when guys here justify anything with Testosterone and hormones? well this is another example where the difference in hormones translates into body shape differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:29 PM
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you are outdated. Fat is not bad. Carbohydrates are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:18 PM
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Hormone imbalances and insulin resistance is pretty common though and we are surrounded by fatty food and huge portions. Obesity is a systemic issue, not a personal choices issue. Also it's known that restrictive diets only work for 5 or 6 years, then 98% of people not only go back to their original weight and some get even more fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:17 PM
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that's a bit of a balancing of the scales I see what you did there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:12 PM
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so edgy and provocative 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:50 PM
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because it's creepy I don't care about legality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:38 PM
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as much as I don't like age gap relationships this is different OP is attacking a group of people just for existing. In age gap the problem is the age gap, not the guy. If the same guy dated a woman his age it'd be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:34 PM
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in fact it's more likely that an 18 year old has acne than a 25 year old teenagers have worst skin than young adults
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:27 AM
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it only makes sense if you think you can buy people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:25 AM
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if a 30 year old has problems she would've had those same problems at 18, same with guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:04 PM
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Are you saying men are hypergamous? meaning they want someone better than them? because if you are 30 going for women who look better than you is just that, hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:50 PM
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because farm fresh eggs are less likely to be miscarried or have autism 😂😂😂😂 yes, that's the main reason why people prefer farm fresh eggs because they don't have autism why did the chicken cross the road? because the chicken is not autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:40 PM
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some specific notion of what constitutes catcalling. catcalling is when you are walking and some dude yells some obsenity. There's no other definition. Catcalling is not for flirting, the guys catcalling just want to have fun with their buddies, they don't expect the woman to stop and give the guys her phone number. digital catcalling is not what catcalling means. That's a new thing invented by you. Sure, women like to receive attention online, wouldn't call that catcalling but whatever. Women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:36 PM
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you're not, however, describing the general reality most of the world experiences. yes I am. I'm not from the USA and it's such a coincidence to find out that women around the world went through the same experiences with catcalling and men. Even Tina Fey has a whole chapter about this in her book. Why is it so hard to understand. lol Women don't like catcalling You can flirt but not in a form of catcalling unless you convince men to stop doing that to literal children because it won't work when …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:33 PM
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I don't know you tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:47 PM
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30 year old women have been having healthy kids since forever 🤷‍♀️ try another argument that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:42 PM
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If a 30 year old woman can produce healthy babies the preference for 18 year olds doesn't make any sense. I've been repeating this for hours now 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:39 PM
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you are saying that youth=health if a 30 year old is healthy and can produce healthy babies but still men chose a 18 year old to have babies with then the argument doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:32 PM
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Only 2 guys made some arguments and I answered accordingly the rest is not answering or saying dumb shit like "it is what it is" "god made it that way" 😂😂😂 which only tells me they are pedos but don't want to say it out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:31 PM
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You are most definitely trying to paint men as bad for what they like. If they are proud of saying they like Neotenous features, the wall, then it's perfectly fine for me to ask why. no? It's so funny how triggered men are about this. I have like 15 comments I won't answer all obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:56 PM
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It's not a big deal. you can have a lot of babies at 35 At 30 is 100% fine, I'd even say it's the ideal age for having a kid, yet men here can't stop talking about the wall. There's somethning more attractive about an 18 year old that they don't find in 25-30 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:54 PM
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this is just not true a 30 y/o woman can have perfect healthy babies Also that wouldn't explain why they prefer 18 year olds over 25 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:52 PM
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are you saying that catcalling is when adults hit on 12 year olds? no, I'm saying catcalling begins when women are 12 or maybe younger,. That's when older men start catcalling. This is to explain why women hate it. It's never considered as flattening because it starts when you are 12. People don't think "oh, now that I'm 25 I'm going to take this construction worker's "I want to fuck you gorgeous" as a compliment. This concept is often lost in men because they have no idea what it feels like to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:50 PM
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plenty of older women have good skin though so that's not it TRP even has a term Neotenous features, they are proud of liking younger women. But as soon as you ask why they get all offended lol you can't get any more cringe than that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:53 PM
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I still don't see where fire guy posted his answer you are not answering either question I have no idea how 80 year olds are related try again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:50 PM
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you went to an extreme a 25 y/o or a 30 y/o can still give you plenty of babies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:48 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:47 PM
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where? I don't see it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:46 PM
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(in cavemen times) by restricting her options he'd have like 10 kids with the same women. We don't even know if cavemen people were monogamous though. Paternity certainty? That's not true, nothing can guarantee she doesn't cheat or nothing guarantees you that she doesn't get raped by other men. That's not related to age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:19 PM
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no, you talked about yourself and nobody cares about your personal experience we are talking in general so no, you didn't give an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:15 PM
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so you are saying it's health reasons? That just doesn't make sense. There's plenty of healthy and non healthy people of all ages. In fact a safer bet would be to be with a healthy 30 year old, that you know won't let herself go because she already has that lifestyle. An 18 year old can still have a change in metabolism and go fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:14 PM
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and we know the reason why women prefer tall men,like I explained before why do men prefer childlike features in women? It's so funny how you guys keep going around the question. Makes me think they do know the answer but are afraid to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:11 PM
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Why? Because young girls aren't as picky and traumatized as older girls are. depends. If you grew up in a shitty household you are probably traumatized so that's not the differential Older women wanna successful guys this is not true. Maybe competent men, sure. So you are saying that young women make worst decisions regarding their future that's why you have a chance with them? 😂 they're naive 🤢🤢🤢 and want to stay with you no matter how bad is everything you've never met 18 year olds At least yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:10 PM
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no, you need to use your words what does a 18 have that a 25-30 old doesn't have aging wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:02 PM
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but we are not talking about your personal experience we are talking in general so, what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:01 PM
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and what are those theories? what does a 18 have that a 25-30 y/o doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:00 PM
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you guys keep repeating "men like this" but that just doesn't explain anything What are those signs of fertility that 25 y/o women don't have and 18 y/o do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:00 PM
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Yes we are, there's plenty of disciplines (philosophy, psychology, etc) dedicated to ask this questions. Desires are biological but they are also cultural. if you don't know the answer or don't dare say it that's a different issue we know why women like tall men, women like to feel protected. It's very simple. If you can explain why women like something I'm sure you can come up with a good explanation for men's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:57 PM
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Women often claim they prefer tall men because they make them feel protected, have good genes, have less "insecurity"(not true but commonly believed), and will look good with them in heels. sure this is why women like tall men now you should come up with the same answer explaining why men like childlike features
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:54 PM
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you just repeated the same as befor with more words you are saying "it's just the way it is" you need to go deeper
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:53 PM
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you can (and should) start building your family at 30 when both of you finished studies and have jobs to support babies. At 18 you probably won't have all of that. It makes more rational sense so, again, that's not the reason
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:52 PM
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Of course. I bet they too know the answer but they obviously won't say it. "why do men find childlike features hot?" "that's just the way it is" 😂😂 They are angry anyway just by reading the question
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:49 PM
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but why? "that's just how it is" is not enough, there's reasons why this happens specifically to men and not to women. "men and women are different" I know. I what aspects are they different so that men like childlike features and women don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:47 PM
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however having an attitude is not something particular to 18 year olds. There's plenty of women of all ages with an attitude. In fact I'd say it's more likely to find a shy 18 year old because she has less experience. You keep repeating "men care about.. men don't care about" yes, we all know that beauty standards exist. What OP is asking is why? we need to go a little bit further
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:45 PM
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I know we are not the same, that doesn't mean we can't still analize why things happen The fact that we are not the same makes it even more interesting. What's with men that find childlike features hotter, and the same doesn't apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:37 PM
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yes, beauty standards, we all know this, the question is why why did they chose childlike features instead of any other feature
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:34 PM
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that doesn't answer the question though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:32 PM
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that reason is beauty standards, so in that sense it's the same but the question is why? why young and not go after (for example) tall women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:31 PM
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They are considered hotter yes, but why why do guys go after women with childlike faces
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:29 PM
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women are fertile until 35-40 years old ven some at 45 so it's not about fertility
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:28 PM
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I personally find it incredibly sus when a man likes young women regardless his age. They'll say it's fertility even though women are fertile until 35/40 even 45 They'll say it's baggage but if you grew up in a shitty household you are going to have baggage at 18 It's not about being hot because there's plenty of hot women of all ages They like the idea of being in power and not be challenged 🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:27 PM
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That's called being hung on his ex. We know this happens to some people. there's no need to come up with new cringe terms
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:04 PM
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This is because you don't really understand the situation. by this you mean I don't understand my own category system? Let's put it in boats terms. boyfriend material is that expensive boat that will last a lifetime and is able to sail in tough weather fuckboy boat is a shiny expensive looking boat but all it's components are cheap and will sink in bad weather. It's a great boat to spend the afternoon in nice weather. is it clear now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:21 AM
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I don't know, OP seems like he wants to go around touching people or like one other user said, OP wants to go around smelling everyone's hair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:55 AM
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ugh no, you have the definition wrong stop ranting about stuff that's unrelated to the definition
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:54 AM
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highest category for me is boyfriend material so if you want to call that BB sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:36 AM
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exactly! reminds me of a Friends episode where everyone wanted a slap in the butt
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:15 PM
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because toxic femininity is forcing toxic feminine traits on women toxic masculinity is forcing toxic masculine behaviors on men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:15 PM
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right, you're in the emmitt till got what he deserved crowd for daring to flirt at that lady. he deserved to be beaten to death, after all, her feelings were hurt and she didn't like it. I'm saying nothing's stopping you from initiating a conversation with a stranger but as soon as they send signs that they don't want to flirt then you go away. There's no such thing as un consensual flirting, we call that harassment. Learn to read body language and you'll have no problem with consent. right, aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:45 PM
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flirting with someone this is weird. You definitely need a yes for flirting. Flirting is mutual. If they are giving you clear signs that they don't want to engage then we call that harassment. saying words or using touch to entice them you mean you want to touch people to entice them sexually? again VERY WEIRD. You need to escalate this to the point where you are sure the sexy touch will be well received. Escalating is basically asking for consent and this is not new. giving someone a hug, basic…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:22 PM
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Most women don't like being catcalled, this is a fact. Most women talk about catcalling experiences as "So I was 12 and this older guy said he wanted to have sex with me" Even if some like it, the fact that you don't care about making someone upset is weird. but such misses the point of the OP, which appears to be typical of this crowd your writing style is confusing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:11 PM
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because the situation has to happen in order to tell people what's the right thing to do you need rallies, you need protests, that's how the world works sadly you need guys saying "being a man doesn't mean stoic, I want to be vulnerable, deal with it"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:07 PM
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When you are cat calling someone, I think? I'll never understand what's the point in catcalling if men know women don't like it OP is upset it's considered improper to not walk up and hump a stranger I think. He considers this society shaming male sexuality. Also OP learn a bdsm phrase today, and he wanted to try using it in sentences! lmaoooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:55 PM
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I don't understand in what circumstances you don't need a "yes"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:45 PM
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Plenty of gay men and women died so that others could have rights. They chose to live a lifestyle that makes other people angry. lgbtq+ people are still victims of hate crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:11 PM
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because sex and love are separate if she's asexual she'll still experience love and will be able to give love. now if you want to have sex, then she's not the woman for you, that's your choice, not hers. saying that you'd fall in love with someone just because you had sex with them is a hyperbole just to show how sex and love are different
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:59 PM
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I don't know I'm not asexual if this was a real case scenario you'd have the possibility to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:50 PM
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like in any other social change, the first men who rebel against the system will probably have a hard time but it'll make it easier for others to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:48 PM
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sure sure, keep believing a massive conspiracy if it makes you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:45 PM
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random men in a club or whatever? yes men that I know? no because I don't flirt we never get to a point where think they have a real chance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:35 PM
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yes it is it's women enforcing toxic masculinity (aka how a man is supposed to be even if that hurts him) google it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:30 PM
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that doesn't mean you are going to force yourself to have sex with someone just because that'd make them happy if you love her back you wouldn't want her to do that either there's a lot of ways to make someone happy within your own possibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:03 PM
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And comments were written
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:58 PM
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you can't separate love from sex? does this mean you fall in love with everyone you have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:58 PM
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The point of progressive words is to separate masculinity from genitals. Non progressive people still think, because they have a dick/vagina they are masculinity/femininity. However, masculinity and femininity are a cultural practice that takes different shapes depending where you are. If you don't separate both concepts you are obviously going to feel personally attacked. But that's a conversation the world is not ready to have. maladaptive masculinity is the same btw, you'll offend the same pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:53 PM
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100% Women absolutely enforce toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:43 PM
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I've never been tempted either and I've been in relationships as a feminist I can't even bring myself to be with more than one fwb This is why cheating is something I can't forgive, it's so easy not to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:41 PM
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This is so frustrating because we already have terms like toxic masculinity to change exactly this thing in society. But men interpret "toxic masculinity" as a personal attack to masculinity and not an attack to the shaming that men go through if they are vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:04 PM
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fuckboys are dumb and shallow why would I want to marry a guy who is dumb and shallow? the highest category for me is boyfriend material
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:42 PM
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yes and I don't know where the "insulted or attacked" came from since your original comment was meaning it is meant as a more statement coming from pessimism rather than an intentional put down
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:02 PM
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We all experience attraction in different ways too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:01 PM
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You also have to consider that people experience attraction in different ways Personality plays a role. Like I said personality can take you to fuckboy / boyufriend / no zone too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:00 PM
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you insult yourselves. It's confirmation bias, It's a sadness circlejerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:58 PM
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I think that being kind of insecure is normal but then finding a whole community that feeds on themselves about how worthless you all are, makes it all worst. it's a constant confirmation bias. It can't be healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:57 PM
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you don't have to share your life, you can share memes and reels
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:42 PM
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that's what toxic pill spaces do to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:35 PM
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it's very different to go to a place like online spaces to be insulted than imagining what other people think about you it has an effect on your self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:29 PM
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you can't possibly see body hair there how do you think unshaved women look like? gorilas? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:02 PM
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sex can be good but outside the guy can be boring. I've been with one guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:58 PM
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you have no idea how many guys don't need to shit test and play games. It's called being mature and having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:56 PM
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a fuckboy a guy who is hot but has a shitty personality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:55 PM
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you don't? I do Which doesn't mean I'd have sex right away, still could have a shitty personality and that canlcels the initial attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:54 PM
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Do you mean that you can tell within seconds if a guy is sexually attractive yes, this is what I mean, attractive enough to have sex with. From then to actually have sex I'd have to get to know him, feel comfortable, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:53 PM
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No they are not, they are happy thinking that people in relationships are actually miserable even if they don't show any signs of being miserable is such a cope
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:52 PM
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look at average people, not just 25 year olds 25 is kind of still too young to be in a relationship nowadays, people settle later in life but the average 25 year old is dating and having sex like it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:51 PM
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are you kidding you can't see body hair in low quality 1930 films
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:47 PM
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I literally don't know anyone who's mainly attracted to a man's career. I think the career only ads to the character but it's not the main thing. Maybe if he's studying to be a doctor then you'd know that means he's probably going to do long hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:52 AM
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I agree you know within seconds if you'd have sex with someone but there's no way to know that betabuxx/chad separation without knowing their personality I also don't think betabuxx exists I'd segregate them into: just sex / boyfriend material / No Also you can totally grow attraction, this is why so many people have sex with their coworkers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:43 AM
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I would even say outside online discussion about dating spaces a normie will never tell you you are worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:51 PM
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It seems like with how cut throat things are in so many areas of life where men are constantly reminded that unless youre exceptional(6-6-6, industrious worker) men online spaces repeat this though You are not useless to capitalism if you are not 6-6-6. That'd mean you are not eligible for a job if you are not 6-6-6 and that's just crazy. So if you frequent a place online that's constantly repeating that you are worthless, then surely you are going to become bitter. I'd say stay away from this s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:30 PM
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It's a blackpilled generation. I'd say it's an unsocialized generation or a generation socialized online. That's why even though you think you know what average is, you were probably influenced by social media too. People are not dating because they are not meeting irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:23 PM
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to appear like a normal person
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:05 PM
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No social media presence will make you less attractive. why go to an extreme though? 10k followers is a lot NO social media is weird maybe social media like a normal person? 200 followers, some holiday pics, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:56 PM
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Same here I honestly didn't know exactly what status means and none of the things listed there is relevant to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:54 PM
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Isn't that just having money?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:52 PM
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Was the comment I replied to sarcastic?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:25 PM
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Don't you have average friends in relationships? I do, most of them are in relationships Take the common sense pill: The average person has relationships and kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:09 PM
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Why is it that the concept of chemistry and love are so foreign here? I feel that guys here are terminally single and never experienced feelings with women This post is very blackpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:12 PM
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That's not true the men who struggle here could go to significantly uglier women to have sex and they chose not to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:57 PM
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like you are right now? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:23 AM
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Imagine shutting down feminist movement because it annoys men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:16 PM
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If the relationship is fine but you imagined something about her past how is it her fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:47 PM
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Moral of the story, if you are going to end up divorcing because you are worried of her past, then don't get married in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:35 PM
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you didn't write anything 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:33 PM
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Divorces are 50/50 You only lose if you are the one earning more money You only lose if you don't keep the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:19 PM
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It's certainly not something you can blame it on women or feminism. I have no idea about judaism but I'm pretty sure the Catholic church or Muslims don't care about what women say. you sheltered little clown. Now Be Civil
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:06 PM
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And don't get me started on how humans are naturally sociable. PPD users being perpetually online refusing to join ant social activities, hobbies or friends are going against BiOlOgY. We are not ready for that conversation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:04 PM
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I don't think I ever seen one except one guy who had to have a circumcision as an adult for medical reasons. Poor guy he told me he had a hard time (pun intended) keeping it up because the scar had numbed his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:01 PM
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that's so mean poor worm
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:53 PM
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oh well but that's not something women as a movement are responsible for take it to Muslim, Jewish and Catholic leaders all of them are men btw
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:08 PM
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That's not what "holding accountable" is though you want women to shut up about the Patriarchy because you don't like it I feel that a man shutting down women is exactly what the patriarchy is about no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:04 PM
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The hypotheticals are like hypothesis. If those hypotheticals don't translate to real life then they are not real and shouldn't be considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:54 PM
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Then maye you should be chasing your equal. If you are a 40 year old virgin your equal is a 40 year old virgin, not a decently attractive young woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:52 PM
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If love existed why would they be chasing alphas and settling for betas? this is something you came up with. Average normal people fall in love with average normal people all the time. You came up with a scenario to prove that your scenario is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:50 PM
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1/3rd of all males alive are genitally-mutilated. source?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:48 PM
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I've also seen many men being supported by their partner. I have a friend who lives with her parents and her boyfriend moved in with them. The guy didn't have a job and spent all day playing video games. It's even portrayed in Baby Reindeer. The guy lives in his ex's mom's house.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:47 PM
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😂😂😂😂 still no argument? if you come up with something useful I'll be here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:45 PM
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then have fun being sorry for yourself I don't know what else to say I can't convince depressed people not to be depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:42 PM
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Nobody in the history of PPD was able to give a concise answer to "what does hold women accountable actually mean?"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:36 PM
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-Ban mothers and fathers from mutilating their sons’ genitals just as it is banned for them to mutilate their daughters’ genitals. this is very specific to the USA and some religions. I'm not sure why is this always directed to women when it's a family decision. The other 2 I agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:34 PM
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If a man loses his job he gets another one or starves. I've seen plenty of men go back to their parents house to live off them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:32 PM
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Being equal means sometimes not getting your way, it means getting treated poorly, it means competing with others and losing, etc. And all of this things happen to women A lot of women want society to accommodate their wants and needs Everybody wants to win. You want women to shut up about it? Women shouldn't expect men and society to bail them out you mean you don't want the government to pay the child support the bio father is not paying? The government does this for the kid, not for the mom. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:30 PM
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oh my god how difficult is if you feel unloved you break up That's not going to undo all the time you invested or the kids you might have had with someone who tolerated you, when this could have been done with someone who actually desired you had you known how that person truly felt from the start. that's just life. Nothing can guarantee you that the person next to you will love you unconditionally forever. You have a choice either risk it and when you feel unloved you leave like a normal person…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:19 PM
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That's what I'm saying. Just to go on vacation you have to do A LOT of paperwork and more often than not, the US embassy denies some of those petitions. It's not a green card, it's a holiday permission that allows you a 3 month stay. I thought you said it was easy now you are saying "just get married to a random guy for money"? That's your definition of "easy"? So if you are caught you are probably perma banned from ever stepping in the USA again. But sure, maybe I'll get married to that loser 4…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:15 PM
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Then stay single Unless you think the only alternative is being unhappy with a woman just because you assume she will never love you because you are not a Chad, in that case stop being a victim because you are choosing not to go to therapy to treat that lack of self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:10 PM
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could lead to deadbedroom or other issues in the relationship then you break up because of those real issues. I've already said it a million times. If you feel unloved you should break up. Breaking up because the relationship is fine but in another timeline you imagine she would've rejected you, that's just low self esteem. what are the chances she's actually going to be content for the rest of her life married to the guy that's just life. There's no guarantee she or you'll be happy forever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:14 PM
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Maybe those are your standards I have no problem being with a gamer guy while I'm outside being with other people or walking by myself. This is a pretty normal dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:10 PM
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Green cards are so fucking easy and cheap to get. what lmao 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I do know because I live in a third world country lol I know what women say when a 40 year old guy shows up here When trying to go on vacation to the USA they made me show all sorts of paperwork you have no idea what's like to do the paperwork from a third world country. People get denied entry all the time. Sure if you are from Europe you have no problem emigrating to the USA, if you are from Venezuela lol good luck getting a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:06 PM
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I hate to burst your bubble but people in third world countries see dollars and green card in virgin 40 year old guys looking for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:36 PM
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If I feel unloved I would break up but if I feel uncomfortable from a hypothetical I would personally stay and instead go to therapy to treat my low self esteem. But ultimately that's a personal decision. Like when people stay with a cheater just for the kids. Or like when women chose to be with a guy who doesn't want to get married and they do. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:29 PM
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I agree they are somewhat similar in theory but not in real life A guy won't commit. So she will likely break up because she wants to take the relationship to the next level but he doesn't want to. There's a tangible thing they are not agreeing on. If she decides to stay then that's on her but IMO she should just leave. A guy who thinks his wife doesn't actually love him and is only using him for his resources will never find out. It's all in his imagination "if we had med 10 years ago you would…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:24 PM
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If they don't believe in real love between average people maybe they should stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:06 PM
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That's what people in relationships answer you are not going to get your beloved af/bb answer: "I like you for your money and stability" so if af/bb doesn't exist in real life, is it even real? or is something that's real only in internet spaces as hypotheticals?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:00 PM
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I think a difficulty with one person going out while the other stays home is that it makes the dynamic very asymmetric why? why staying at home watching TV is any different from going to pottery class or going to a bar with a friend? I'm not saying the person staying at home does all the house chores. I'm talking about people who enjoy just laying in bed watching tiktoks or playing video games. you are both still not sharing time together
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:58 PM
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if you don't explain yourself I'm just going to assume I'm right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:55 PM
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Again, this only works in hypothetical internet narratives. How would it go in real life? "honey do you love me?" "yes of course" "why do you love me?" "because you are good looking, good person, feel comfortable, etc blabla" "but WHY do you love me?" "??" "would you have dated me 10 years ago?" "yes" "would you love me if I was a worm?" "yes" then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:19 PM
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passport bro? If she likes you for your money then you are putting yourself as a af/bb
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:15 PM
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Average people fall in love with other average people 👏all 👏the👏time👏 There is no way of denying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:13 PM
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Why would a 20 y/o virgin want to be with a 40 y/o awkward virgin? be realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:11 PM
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I see, this says more about your personal high standards than what average people do If you are unable to love someone who is average idk, that's a you problem. Average people date average people. Generally looksmatched and within their age and socioeconomic bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:09 PM
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Unlucky in sex means 40 year old virgin a 20 year old virgin is pretty normal. She has plenty of choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:02 PM
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My plan is to hire a PI so I don't need.to ask a lot. how is the PI supposed to find out how she felt? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:00 PM
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Only inexperienced people think like this, sorry. If you've ever been 10 seconds in a relationship you'd know that it's very easy to love someone who is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:58 PM
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I bet if she said "I'm so happy with you I want to spend the rest of my life with you" you'd think she's lying This just shows low self esteem because there's no reason to believe that your partner doesn't really like you. And if there is, then be a grown adult and leave them for someone who does. What you are saying makes sense in a hypothetical internet narrative. In real life, you date someone, you like them, you tell them how much you love them, they say it back and that's it If you start wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:56 PM
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So your plan is sit her down and ask a lot of detailed information about her past? That's ridiculous and also very toxic. Just ask yourself if you are happy, you don't need more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:53 PM
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"would you have dated me 10 years ago" gives me "would you date me if I was a worm" vibes You are asking a weird hypothetical just to pick a fight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:51 PM
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What I don't understand is the victim mentality of af/bb Men here act like they are forced to be with women that don't like them. Why don't they just leave? Or remain single until they find someone with low n count who has been as unlucky in sex as they have been Irl people don't do such mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:48 PM
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And how on the spectrum are they
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:37 PM
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lmao yes, peak ppd on a sunday moment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:15 AM
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So then I'm glad we all agree we live in patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:15 AM
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but you are saying that dating is the microcosm of society yet in dating men need women but men don't need women outside the dating scene men are hornier, that's all it means men being hornier doesn't translate to politics or business
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:14 AM
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Making the first move doesn't always show leadership like when you need to negotiate, the one making the first offer is not the one in the position of power
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:11 AM
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but then why did you say "sperm donor"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:08 AM
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pick up artists (= charlie sheen, joey, sometimes george constanza) are very redpilled barney stinson had a whole book on how to trick women into having sex with him men have been lying to get sex since forever and the media has been talking about that since forever what else you need examples? men going to the gym? you can't seriously believe that TRP invented going to the gym self improvement is not a TRP invention either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:01 AM
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nobody is putting a gun to their head they are free to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:58 AM
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people lie 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:57 AM
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TRP is basically dating advice that's been present in the media for decades. Tropes like the seductive playboy or fuckboy that's not emotionally available. A guy that lies to women to get sex (see joey tribbiani, Chalie Sheen, Joey from Friends, Seinfeld, Sex and the city, etc). Every romcom has a "make over" moment. Everyone knew going to the gym makes you look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:23 PM
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But if they are going to enjoy the activity separately one of them can go to the gym and the other stay at home
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:58 PM
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you are saying this because you assume doing exercise will keep them both slim? sounds more like a controlling attitude than genuinely enjoying each other's company
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:57 PM
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(or reading lame romance books if you're a woman) lol nobody does this Things like having common goals and values, being able to communicate without fighting etc. are more important than whatever hobbies you share. nobody is saying otherwise having shared interests makes it easier to enjoy stuff together that's all there is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:52 PM
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And that's how you know age is more important than money or looks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:05 PM
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Op is hoping you'd think she's more desperate for money, to make man2 look better
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:03 PM
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"I want the age to be the only factor that's different between the 2" *Makes one of them significantly better by changing a whole bunch of other factors * And still I would choose the guy my age
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:01 PM
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I never said you need a paternity test I said you can't claim child support to the bio father if you got his sperm through a sperm donor company
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:45 PM
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There are some tax benefits and you can extend your medical ensurance to your partner. If you have kids the kids and the couple divorced, they are more protected by the law for child support and such. It's also q rite. Humans have been doing rites since forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:44 PM
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But you can't demand the biological fathet who donated sperm to a company and the company provided to sperm to you for a paternity test That's just not how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:40 PM
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That's just not how it works I already explained to you that you can't change your status to sperm donor
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:37 PM
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This is BS
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:35 PM
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You do realize a sperm donor is anonymous and doesn't have sex with the woman, right? You can't change your status from boyfriend/hookup to anonymous and unsex the woman What kind of logic is this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:08 PM
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There's a lot of legal aspects to a civil union. Marriage is signing a contract. Getting married is sealing a bond and I'm not entirely sure why you think religion needs to be involved. Some people like the party. They like to share that bond with their friends and family
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:47 PM
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? What
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:43 PM
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The baby shouldn't suffer your poor decisions 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:37 PM
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This is Biology, you can't change this It's funny how all the male biology conversation (testosterone, primal urges, natural disgust for ncounts) works but when you point out that "women have babies and only they get to decide what happens because it's their body" then all of the sudden "biology" isn't a good argument
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:18 PM
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👍👍 great, then don't commit nobody is forcing you to be with women you don't like
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:20 PM
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So she hides that she's had casual sex in the past because men are judgemental and still won't have sex with you? again, you are free to leave if you don't like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:18 PM
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I don't know if you are new here but we don't do anecdotal and that's not being difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:15 PM
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Don't come crying when the relationship fails if you have such low self respect and ignore red flags just to get your dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:49 AM
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If a woman had casual sex before but chooses not to have sex with you, and that makes you uncomfortable , you are free to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:48 AM
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Which seems a perfectly reasonable thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:46 AM
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No, I was talking about men in general Why would anyone care about you specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:05 AM
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That's also a 🚩 and you should leave them Nothing good can come from something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:52 AM
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Nobody is talking about you though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:51 AM
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I guess that happens when you are too judgemental with sexual past. Maybe the ex doesn't care about her ncounts If you want women to have casual sex you don't shame women who have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:49 AM
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You are not making sense If you want women to have more casual sex but then go on and on and on about how disgusting women who have a lot of casual sex are... I mean... What
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:46 AM
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I don't see your interpretando Op is mad women are not making men wait for sex to get a commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:37 AM
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Then sit down pay for dates and wait patiently to be chosen by a woman to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:35 AM
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Then be ready to wait for sex 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:33 AM
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But when they insist too much it gets to a point where it's uncomfortable and they generate this awkward situation. Some guys get a bit aggressive and won't let you pay. I find this 🚩 and I end up letting them pay but then I don't see them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:13 AM
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"Less likely to say" means fewer men are saying it. my point is that that doesn't mean don't want to, sounds like they are giving up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:44 PM
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You are talking about relationships, I'm talking about libido, being horny, wanting to get their dick wet And btw "Less likely to say" is very different from "don't want to" You guys love talking about biology until it's not convenient to win an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:02 PM
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You are talking about relationships, I'm talking about libido, being horny, wanting to get their dick wet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:02 PM
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A whole bunch of horny lying men aren't going to take down the feminist movement though Even if you make the app for women who look like women, men would is put a fake profile, like they do here on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:56 AM
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That's still a "he". A man attracted to a women is hetero.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:53 AM
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You do realize the men trying to pass as women to have threesome's are not trans, right? They are just liars And since there's no such thing as genial check to participate in the app, these guys will still be there lying, trying to pass as women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:51 AM
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That's just crazy I believe when guys say they don't even get matches on old
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:34 AM
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If there are no consequences to lower sexual market value, is lower sexual market value even real?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:29 AM
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Culture but also men's desperation and higher libido. That's mainly what makes them make the first move
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:05 AM
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Culture but also men's desperation and higher libido. That's mainly what makes them make the first move
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:04 AM
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But the 50/50 is changing and what way the other gender expectation? Make the first move? Some women make the first move. The problem is men are hornier and desperate, that's why men make the first move, not only because of gender expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:02 AM
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no, they are normal guys, average looking with a normal dating history they are not perpetually online incels who don't have options
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:25 PM
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But its true though. Have you ever been on any dating app? Just by being there men will message you and have tons of matches men are desperate and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:22 PM
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Pink gets married and his relationship fails how is that being alienated by women Just no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:20 PM
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lol this is so ignorant, the wall is not an incel anthem wtf The wall is about post war England, you know "The Wall" references the Berlin wall and also about how people deal with trauma by building a metaphorical wall Sure there are some hints the guy has mommy issues but nowhere in the movie the guy is alienated by women. You sure like to twist reality to your incel agenda fucking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:05 PM
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but you missed the funniest part about the new world filled with muscles everywhere or parasites I didn't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:51 PM
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I wouldn't take it as an attack to women empowerment I think the dating app experience for women is so overwhelming that there is no reason for a woman to need an app to send the first message, she can already do that on any of the other apps. It's more likely a money issue. Men are more likely to spend money there so by allowing them to send the first message you keep them hooked spending money so that their profile is more visible and stuff (I don't know how bumble works but every dating app n…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:29 PM
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Because it's not enough to be a Chad on paper Maybe he's socially awkward maybe he's too shy, is not well socialized, who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:22 PM
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Here is a novel idea: Those men were probably lying to you. you said this I'm saying it's more likely that my friends are normal people and not lying maniacs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:19 PM
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nice that's good to know actually fun doesn't stop at 50 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:35 PM
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you guys need to understand that it's not sexist or racist or discriminatory to point out abuse from the dominant sex/race/sexual orientation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:32 PM
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if a woman is able to live whatever life she chooses then there's probably no such thing as sexual market value decreasing sure there are beauty standards but if the decrease of value doesn't translate to real life, is it even real? that just doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:30 PM
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I know many of my friend's parents that are still together and take care of each other. They go on vacation together and seem to get along fine. About the sex maybe you should redefine your expectations. I don't think 50-60 year olds still have sex. Even if they just met. But I don't know, I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:08 PM
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if that was true the response from men would've been "if I was alone in the woods I would also choose the bear" but that just doesn't make any sense does it? just say you were hurt, it's fine, that was the whole point of the analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:56 PM
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women re marry and get into relationships all the time you are too caught up in internet narratives
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:53 PM
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lol right What's more likely, that a guy would first hookup with a woman just because he's horny and then want to be in a relationship like all normal people do? Or believe a massive conspiracy where all men are liars? hmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:37 PM
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lol no women hooking up at 35, 40, even 50 is the norm not the exception you are probably too young or don't talk to +30 women If you are on Tinder it's actually pretty easy to find someone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:32 PM
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ah so now it's "double standards" sure no, men were hurt because they were told they are rapists with the bear analogy the point of that discussion was to tell men they tend to be rapey
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:30 PM
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It does because I've had guys tell me that was their experience. They enter a LTR without feeling it 100% and end up being fully attracted. I think the biology is an excuse to not even try and keep complaining about it online I'm not saying go out with someone you find unattractive, I'm saying give not perfect people a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:24 PM
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But it's not the truth women hookup, get married, have sex, have partners throughout their lives. Remember, men are hornier, so there's always going to be some dude willing to hookup or have a relationship with women of any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:19 PM
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that's not true plenty of women marry or re-marry and hookup post 30 Saying that men don't like post wall women is just internet cope narrative In fact I'd say women have more choices of men all through their lives compared to men. Remember: men are hornier
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:17 PM
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Tell a man that his relationship woes are because of toxic women and he'll admit it's his fault he's addicted to toxic women. are these self aware men in the room with us? I think you are making this up I've never seen it And if you tell a guy that his lack of success in dating is because his beauty standards are too high from lack of socialization and you'll never hear the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:43 PM
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No, it's because men's generalization are an insult to women. They want to say "you will be useless by 30 and nobody will like you"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:38 PM
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sure you can make all the mental gymnastics to turn it around into misogyny that doesn't erase all the posts from butthurt men that for some reason keep asking for validation from women to go live abroad, date a young woman, etc and the bear I don't know, they were hurt about it for a month or so
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:35 PM
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bear: men are dangerous and rapey passport bros: men are predatory and will look for poor women to take advantage of them age gap: men are predatory and will look for someone more immature than them to take advantage of them Men don't like to be told this and proof of that is all the continuous posts about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:21 PM
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I know this is an excuse because you are not explaining any further on why. (before you start "women are more this and that" is not a good explanation) Also it is known that women too decide if they want to sleep with the guy in the first few seconds of meeting him. And women also struggle with high beauty preferences. I'd say if your beauty preference isn't working for you, then you might want to give it a try with people that you don't find perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:18 PM
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I think all humans base their "standards" on what they can get. And if you never socialize then your opinion might be very skewed. This is why most couples are "looksmatched". We tend to pick partners on our level. Out of the world standards are thus just one symptom of living a solitary lifestyle. ABSOLUTELY THIS I couldn't agree more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:11 PM
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B) You're talking more about emotional attraction. nono I'm talking about looking at someone naked and think "wow he's so fucking hot, how did I not notice before that his *body part* looks so good". That's not emotional at all. He has to stop masturbating to porn. Masturbate much less. Exercise. Socialize. etc. not sure about porn. Can't you separate porn from reality? You'd have to quit following insta models too. I don't know... If your beauty preferences are too high maybe that's hiding a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:56 PM
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OP have you not been here for the bear vs man debate? passport bros? age gap? All I see is men not liking how they are portrayed by women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:46 PM
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Negative generalization like the ones I stated above are passed with no issue by men. That's because men like those generalizations and even promote them themselves. They want women to know they value them just for looks and that she'll be useless when she hits the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:42 PM
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We have very little control of it. I'm not so sure about this. You obviously won't become homosexual or heterosexual just because you feel like it BUT I think you can slowly convince yourself to give someone who is not perfect a chance. I've been in many situations where I started dating a guy who I didn't find super attractive at first but then I Started developing physical attraction. I think good sex makes the other person look more attractive with time. If you are too picky it's not so bad t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:37 PM
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Men perpetuate the idea that they will never say no and that they are always ready for sex. Meanwhile real life female experience is different. Men don't always say yes to sex, they have attachment issues, the dick doesn't always work, etc Men don't know how other men act. Either because they don't talk to each other or because they convince themselves that that's how a man should act. Other advice that's not sexual is good. I would never take advice from men online though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:45 AM
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Like parrots, exactly my point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:37 AM
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Dude, the whole trp is about picking up women with lies 😂😂😂 I mean, if you are defending a liar that says a lot about the quality of person you are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:28 AM
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If it was hypergamy they'd be looking for an even richer man, but instead they are stuck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:22 AM
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It's easier to ignore some advice that's not useful than write so much about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:15 AM
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You should post about ncounts and AI gf. I don't believe in nounts but I definitely wouldn't date a guy with an AI past. Hypocritical? Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:20 AM
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What the fuck is this sci Fi shit, ai are not sentient. If we teach a parrot to repeat "I'm human" that doesn't make him human because we all know that a parrot just learned the words but doesn't know what they mean
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:13 AM
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I watch porn too so....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:11 AM
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They will still talk online like passport bros
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:10 AM
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congratulations, you are an average adult still doesn't mean cleaning makes women happy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:35 PM
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So you don't share the same cleaning standards, so what? that's very different from "vacuuming makes her happy"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:17 PM
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Maybe your ex for whatever reason (also I'd like to hear her side of the story, maybe the dishwasher did a shitty job cleaning the dishes I don't know) but you can't possibly make a generalization based of one individual. You can't be fr "no, women actually prefer to wash the dishes instead of being happy" "women prefer to do house chores instead of having fun" right, of course how ridiculous is that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:13 PM
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People have drunk sex all the time and it's not rape. I won't continue this thread because you are not reading what I'm saying. For 6 comments I've been saying how you can have drunk enthusiastic sex. I never insulted you btw why do you keep repeating the same stuff lol you are clearly not able to have a conversation have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:58 PM
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many women are way too obsessed with chores to ever actually enjoy life or the relationship with their partner or their children. You are seeing it backwards. It's not that she's obsessed with chores and would gladly chose them over beign happy. Someone needs to do the chores and that takes away her time and energy. If she had help around the house maybe she'd be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:54 PM
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Depends Some guys were not raised doing house chores around the house. Their mom did stuff for them so they assume their gf will continue that role. So it takes an extra effort to teach them to do stuff and that's a huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:40 PM
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I'm saying if you play near the limit your actions might be interpreted as rape. Not false rape accusation, I'm talking about real rape. Again, have fun with that lol I guess if you are unable to have enthusiastic sex with women, blackout drunk is all you can do. That's sad and pathetic. Nobody cares what the law says, a simple accusation can destroy your reputation and get your fired. So you need to risk it because otherwise you'd die a virgin, again, have fun with that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:41 AM
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* red pill man yells at cloud *
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:38 AM
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Someone could be enthusiastic while drunk and not sober. that's what I've been saying 5 comments ago she won't be enthusiastic if she's blackout drunk though. You know perfectly well where the limit is and arguing about this smells rapey. I have no idea what the last paragraph is about you are just randomly ranting "Oh but I want to have sex with a woman who is very drunk and probably regret it" fine, do it enjoy the rape allegations 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:17 AM
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There's a famous ok cupid study where the pills conversation came from. This is it. But men forgot to read this part No matter how attractive a woman appears, we see similar messaging behavior. For men, those who are most attractive send the most messages, with the top 40% reaching out the most. Perhaps they enjoy basking in the glory of being one of the elitely attractive. The truth about messaging When we looked specifically at sending the first message, we found one striking habit: everyone’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:59 AM
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It's not that hard to understand If you want to escape rape allegations don't have sex with someone who is not enthusiastically trying to have sex with you, that's how you know they are still conscious to consent If you are so pathetic to try to have sex with someone who is blackout drunk then you deserve some rape allegations for being an asshole. I don't care what the law says.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:23 AM
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Not everyone gets wasted to the point where they can't consent and you can still have enthusiastic consent while drunk (low enough alcohol levels to consent, high enough level to be a little inhibited. 95% of people are in this state in a party). You are intentionally misinterpreting. Nobody is saying that any sexual activity that happens afer drinking 1 beer is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:18 AM
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yeah I think it's the uniform and nothing more, like a sexy roleplay It's like thinking men want to date nurses because they find the sexy nurse outfit hot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:06 PM
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even the famous OK cupid study says that men shoot their shot above their league and women not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:50 PM
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Guys have a hard time accepting that if they are too skinny, below average weight, their looksmatch is not below average weight women, it's probably chubby women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:48 PM
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why though? a pool boy or a teen intern could be a 10 looks wise
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:46 PM
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the backbone of PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:40 PM
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Mine did that as well and my sister bought a huge couch for this reason too I think it's genius
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:43 PM
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maybe guys who can't get laid no matter what have deeper issues that no pill can fix I can totally see TRP making things worst for a guy who is already frustrated with women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:41 PM
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I don't know I'd have to weight pros and cons. Also maybe separate rooms could be a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:30 PM
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Sounds like daddy issues or gold digging
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:23 PM
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Depends on the person. Some people don't date for the sake of dating and only meet people they already like. I've had 2 or 3 failed dates and the rest have turned into short term or long term something
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:22 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:17 PM
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Snoring loudly could be a deal breaker for me. Chewing with the mouth open could be too. Really bad breath that's not fixed with brushing his teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:16 PM
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It's literally the same thing like I said before
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:09 PM
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some guys don't get to have the luxury of enthusiastic consent, that's why they have to settle for drunk consent. And that's why they feel the need to constantly argue that a half conscious woman can consent. Honestly pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:39 PM
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make up is not a lie though you can clearly see it with your own eyes lol oh wait, you though eyelids were naturally smoky?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:36 PM
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No they don't people usually break up after a guy cheats. Women file for divorce more, remember? Oh course not everyone breaks up after cheating since women cheat too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:52 PM
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Your are right I should've said Michael Jackson or smth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:35 AM
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Why projection? Women always have choices and yet women cheat less
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:35 AM
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I still don't understand Women aren't hooked to softwares, chads are still real people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:33 AM
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I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:09 AM
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If that ever happens it will only damage men who consume AI supermodels imagine raising your standards to such unreal levels that you'll never find a match in the real world The guys who will want to have kids but are also addicted to this AI gf are not going to be able to procreate oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:05 AM
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that's not the definition of HVM though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:58 AM
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The 40 yr woman in the 20 yr body, how many ncounts does she have? Her 40yr bodycount experience or the 20yr physical body experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:51 AM
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I said what I said!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:48 AM
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of course, men only care about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:45 AM
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If she’s a true feminist she might be okay. sadly 40 year old guys don't have very progressive ideas. She will probably think he's an old fashioned asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:43 AM
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yeah men only care about looks if Obama was placed in a 20 year old female body they will want to fuck him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:42 AM
3

I know she needs better female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:38 AM
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This is just a coping fantasy. They are bitter they don't have choices but would cheat if given the possibility. Nobody here is HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:37 AM
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I'd say cheaters aren't high value to women, they are just fuckboys maybe to men, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:35 AM
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OP needs better female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:16 AM
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I did not claim that women's perspective is fictional. literally the title of the post: Many women don't realize that emotions are not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:32 PM
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the "cool girl" I believe the cool girl act is a lifestyle, not an act done intentionally for one particular person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:08 PM
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I don't know, a sports fan destroying public property or killing someone because his team lost doesn't seem very rational and that's a very common men behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:00 PM
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Ironic you say this in a post claiming that male perspective is the objective truth while women's perspective is emotional and fictional
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:00 PM
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Women believe in physics too you know...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:58 PM
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You don't mind someone being with you thinking you are "meh"? maybe you should raise those standards, that screams low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:04 PM
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She checks all the boxes except one If you were chosen with that mindset you'd scream af/bb
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:35 PM
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You literally said it You don't like it when I repeat it back to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:25 AM
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💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:14 AM
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Absolutely not I'd rather him not check the other boxes but chemistry is key
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:54 AM
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The closest thing I can think of is someone who I recognize is "objectively" good looking, but isn't my type. Or someone who is "cool" but I don't really like their personality, and they're not really someone I want to spend that much time with. this is chemistry. Literally this. They are objectively good on paper but they are not your type. There's something missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:50 AM
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If you are fine being with someone who thinks you are good on paper but overall meh I think it shows low self esteem and should definitely raise those standards. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:48 AM
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I remember being a teenager and the whole "can women masturbate?" was incredibly taboo. Nobody was entirely sure, nobody explained how, guys described what they saw in porn, etc. Imagine how confusing it was when I was able to do it. My first thought was "I guess this answers the question" Why this happens? I think there's something about women's sexuality that society isn't really comfortable with. I guess it has religious implications since masturbation is pure sexual hedonistic pleasure witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:25 AM
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so if you have choices it does matter but if you don't it doesn't matter? that's sad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:12 AM
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so you have no problem in being chosen as betabuxx?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:38 AM
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it's so telling that some of you don't understand the concept of chemistry it's like if they can't put it in concrete words and do a scientific study it doesn't exist. Chemistry is something you feel in a relationship, either you feel it or not. And everyone who has felt it knows exactly what it means without further explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:30 AM
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like an af/bb relationship where the guy checks all the boxes except the passion one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:24 AM
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a really boring person will also cooperate and not be argumentative. It's like a af/bb relationship where the beta is good on paper but nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:23 AM
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smells like pick me behavior In the past I convinced myself that being manhandled like in a porn movie was so hot and enjoyable until one guy made me cum easily and then I was never able to go back Now I think it's about both of our orgasms. One day maybe we do a porno and I don't cum (I cum but after from oral), the next it's about me. I think that's fair for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:05 AM
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I find the women who want to be manhandled are way more fun to have sex with well yeah obviously, because it's all about you and not her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:01 AM
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It wasn't feminists who organized the parade, it was a father, a mother and the male friends (mostly) of a victim. this is a lie. Ni una menos was always a feminist movement: link En medio de esta situación de horror generalizado, la periodista Marcela Ojeda lanzó un desafío a través de las redes sociales: "Actrices, políticas, artistas, empresarias, referentes sociales... mujeres, todas, bah... ¿no vamos a levantar la voz? NOS ESTÁN MATANDO". Decenas de mujeres respondieron a este tuit y, en po…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:45 AM
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Yeah same in south America. More precisely around 2015. And "ni una menos" is against femicides. That "no sex" thing I've never heard of
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:59 PM
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ok! I'll copy and paste it there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:40 PM
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As I told some people on the megathread I have a speech impediment and I recently found a support group for my people Even though ND has nothing to do with speech impediments, 50% of the group is ND since a speech impediment is socially crippling. They get together once a month and then they go for beers. ND people surely have groups to meet up and talk about their struggles. Places where you can make connections that can lead to who knows maybe dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:40 PM
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This isn't victim olympics lol also there are different degrees of speech impediments. Mine is mild, other's struggle more than with mild autism. I met a guy who is in constant spasms when he talks and you can clearly see his vocabulary is limited because some words are more difficult than others. He's extroverted so who knows..... Like I said before 50% of the people I met also are ND. Either because of speech impediments or by coincidence. None of us are normal, that's for sure, we laugh about…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:34 PM
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OP is saying keep going despite of being ND I have a speech impediment. Does that make it harder for me to date? yes Does it make it impossible? No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:16 PM
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As I told some people on the megathread I have a speech impediment and I recently found a support group for my people Even though ND has nothing to do with speech impediments, 50% of the group is ND since a speech impediment is socially crippling. They get together once a month and then they go for beers. ND people surely have groups to meet up and talk about their struggles. Places where you can make connections that can lead to who knows maybe dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:12 PM
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yeah I'm probably going to leave this place the hate for women is too much
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:06 PM
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for whatever reason there's a point in life where you have to get up and try to solve those issues, you can't go back in time and nobody will fix your problems for you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:01 PM
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my feminist friends have very loving families maybe your mother used feminism to justify the hate she already felt for men. Who knows where that hate came from. But my point is that some of us were unlucky, it's fine to be sad about it but at some point you have to try and solve what they did to you so that you don't pass it to next generations
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:00 PM
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I read this hate every day but when you flip genders all of the sudden is "not all men" And I don't see men standing up for other men when they say that abused women should choose better riiiiiiight
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:47 PM
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I know, but you can't go back in time either you try and fix it or be a victim forever
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:43 PM
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I'm going to tell you what men here tell abused women "he should've known better and leave" hurts right? interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:42 PM
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🤷‍♀️ I'm going to tell you what men here say about abused women "he should've chosen better"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:38 PM
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sure but they don't stats show men are waaaaay more likely to kill their partner than vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:36 PM
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once you are an adult you have to get over that, find a solution and stop being a victim
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:34 PM
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that's because his life is in no real risk a crazy man can kill/beat/rape a woman it's only natural that people are less concerned about him statistics confirm this too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:29 PM
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most of us don't need """studies""" to understand the world
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:27 PM
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sure but they are not 100% responsible
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:25 PM
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Today on PPD: Let's blame our parents for everything specially mothers, they are the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:19 PM
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the phrase "don't stick your dick in crazy" exists for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:18 PM
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yes they do, they always do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:17 PM
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after the Chad Chad what happened? I love Chad Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:22 AM
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solid 3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:01 AM
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nooo no, men who have zero experience are way more unhinged than men who have sex. Sure they are both misogynistic but guys who have sex are more grounded and are less bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:57 AM
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lmaooo this hmmmm I wonder why women don't like you hmmmmm what a mistery
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:52 AM
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you are supposed to listen to the person you are with not eavesdrop on your neighbor
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:50 AM
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Scaryyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:41 PM
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Great, then leave the """landwhales"""" alone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:51 PM
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In fact that feeling of frustration that you are feeling is also treatable, that's literally symptoms of depression You can continue convincing yourself that your condition is so special modern medicine doesn't have a solution Or you can start by consulting a professional yo have the right information It's on you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:50 PM
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no, it's because it's men the first ones being against the movement and calling them landwhales you are not a victim here men can totally make their own fat acceptance movement! that'd be more constructive instead of trying to shut down women's
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:32 PM
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so, what do you want to do, jump in the body positivity movement and make it for all? or you'd rather shut down women's positivity movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:28 PM
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welcome back to looserfest 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:26 PM
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you need another feedback piece? if someone tells you that they are feeling insulted by "you are entitled" and "you lack empathy" don't just gaslight them just say sorry this is LITERALLY the reason I don't give too much detail when breaking up, LITERALLY. I'm too old for this shit, good luck in your dating life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:08 PM
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And they're not going to prescibe anti-depressants for the unintended side effects. Did a psychiatrist answer you this? Did you consult? If they told you that you should seek for another professional than really listens. There are meds to stabilize your mood. Depression is treatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:02 PM
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Unless they find drugs that reduce libido, we may have to go full Canada. pills to treat depression and anxiety lower your libido
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:45 PM
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it's like when men here complain that overweight women ✨exist✨
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:43 PM
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u/accountinghelpadviso see? also how about "you are so privileged that......" would you put that in the compliment or in the insult categoty?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:31 PM
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I think we went from having a strict binary diagnosis like you are or you aren't autistic to understand it more like a spectrum. So if you are 20% autistic before you'd be categorized as NT but you'd probably struggle and you'd never be able to know why and how to make it better now you know you are on the spectrum and can understand yourself better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:27 PM
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whoever wrote that paragraph. Is that you? Psychiatric drugs could probably help you. My sister had depression and now she's a different person! It's pretty amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:24 PM
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We've been through this a million times there's more autism because now it's more accurately diagnosed It's not like medieval times didn't have people on the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:05 PM
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Men constantly deny that they are responsible for more crimes than women, and try to make it seem like it's really equivalent. no, this is very true. They try to say stuff like "men lie, women abuse more" like what? statistics are believable as long as it fits their worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:04 PM
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that's why we have therapy, to help people focus on other things other than dating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:59 PM
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see? I've been chatting nicely and you come and tell me I have no empathy. I don't know why I even bother sigh. This is literally the reason I ghost men. You need feedback? don't insult people who are trying to help you I had written a whole paragraph answering what you are saying until I read the last one You're so privileged this is where conversation ends have a good day 😘 and good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:57 PM
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✊🏿 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:45 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:44 PM
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that sounds like undiagnosed depression you can do so much stuff without a partner, start a business, adopt a dog, go travel and work for accommodation, start a career, etc etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:42 PM
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No, it's always compatibility. If there's compatibility you can send text the next day or a week later and it's the same If we just aren't compatible for some reason and it wouldn't ever work, then I know it's not necessarily me and I don't need to change anything but just find someone new. the answer is always find someone new. You can't build compatibility with actions. Dating rules only hide your real personality but that lasts what? 4 dates? it's nothing for a LTR I have a forever FWB that b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:38 PM
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what do you want to hear from women "we are not compatible because I like cats and you like dogs" or "you should've waited 3 days to text me"? second question id the woman lists all the reasons why you 2 aren't compatible, what can you do with that info? nothing. If you've seen each other a couple of times some talk for closure is fine but going into details is pointless IMO you are not going to start liking cats or dogs just so the other person likes you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:15 PM
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Just let it go and move on I can't I'm the one doing the break up, I need to let the other person know that we are not compatible wait what do you want to receive from women? "you should've waited 3 days for texting me" or "we are not compatible because I like dogs and you like cats"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:08 PM
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“You’re not entitled to feedback” that was a little ppd spicy talk 😉 But actually IRL I'd rather not give feedback. I can talk about why we are incompatible, that's fair, that's expected. But feedback sounds more like "you should've paid for the first date" or "you should've waited 3 days before texting" I'm not a dating coach to give such feedback Maybe OP was asking about reasons for breaking up, not "what did I do wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:05 PM
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I don't like to be called a whore when I'm trying to break up nicely so I honestly don't care about the other person fixing their dating issues, it's really not my problem since we are not in a relationship anymore Also who am I to say if they are doing anything wrong, maybe it's me who is wrong just let it go and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:00 PM
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what? dating and failing? it's a part of life expecting to get married to the first dude you date is strange or what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:55 PM
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Amazing at emotional connecting how would I be emotionally connected to someone who doesn't believe in women's rights.. how
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:54 PM
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#1 reason to brush your teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:52 PM
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So many men don't respond well when told no. So imagine rejecting a guy and telling him "I don't like that you prefer dogs over cats" or whatever you'd be opening a door for him to say "well you are an ugly whore anyway" (this happened to me lol) that's why women don't give feedback that's why if you open up to friends who know you from real life maybe you can see if there's anything to change. Maybe not. Maybe there's nothing to change, you just need to find women who like dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:51 PM
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because women see things through the lens of men where men value women for their looks a woman doesn't think an ugly man has less value as a person. Maybe they are not interested but the value of the person is not in question
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:46 PM
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you don't want to loose your teeth it's uncomfortable to eat pointy food with your gums and fixing that us fucking expensive you don't need a study for this, believe in my personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:44 PM
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you are not entitled to feedback friends can give more accurate feedback just move on, it's healthier
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:39 PM
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real men don't cry when told how fragile or insecure they are real men understand that fragility and insecurity are a part of life and don't invalidate their perception of masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:36 PM
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The only substitute to that is arranged marriages where all creepy approaches are eliminated Imagine how awkward it must be too make sexual advances on your new arranged wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:32 PM
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the why believe any other study people post here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:25 PM
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because deep down they understand that society values them mostly for their looks, and looks fade over time. by society you mean men? men's values are the default values, there's no reason for hetero women to value other women on looks other than through the lens of men's POV
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:11 PM
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Look at you thinking you are superior to all those nurses and nail technicians The truth is women no matter how they look have a lot of options on OLD. So they probably still succeed even with shitty profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:42 PM
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aliens
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:37 PM
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I meant how did you know the spark wasn’t there. this guy was my first boyfriend. We broke up. I dated another guy for 3 years (with whom I also had sex issues but thanks to therapy and patience I was kind of able to start solving the vaginismus). Then I randomly met my first bf on the street so we got together. This was like 5 years after breaking up. We met, we had normal sex but we didn't get back together because I remembered why we had broken up in the first place. So I wouldn't say the spa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:34 PM
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what do you mean how do I know? I was there 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:21 PM
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vaginismus is like a wall like how am I able to menstruate when there's clearly a wall there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:30 PM
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You have no idea what vaginismus is, it’s not caused by unattractive men. It’s caused by a physiological and psychological response of fear of penetration. Many virgins have it. totally I've been there. Ironically the guy with who I wasn't able to have sex, was the one I loved and was attracted the most. Life isn't fair. Once I got over the vaginismus we met again (like 5 years later), we were able to have normal sex but the spark just wasn't there anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:29 PM
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it's a very delicate situation though she's 7 month pregnant and probably feeling vulnerable because of it. Her body changed drastically and their life is about to flip. and he told her Pregnant women are built for function. lmao, she has every right to be upset there's many many many ways of saying no without making the other person feel like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:59 PM
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The only way to refute or confirm it if we had an actual study with a very good methodology studying this topic. "Do normal people have relationships? A study" I think what is more interesting is with what kind of partner. This is the core argument of this sub. What kind of partner. My POV is that painting the picture like humanity is going to end because some people don't like the type of partner they attract it's kind of dramatic. Like who tf do you think you are. You can't throw a tantrum bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:48 PM
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it's not one or the other some like going down on women some don't
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:27 PM
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but there's no way of refuting, how would you refute it? it's literally gaslighting no, sorry, there's no way or refuting or confirming
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:24 PM
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that's to avoid codependency am I allowed to want a relationship now? yes, you will receive a permit on the mail during this week
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:20 PM
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what january is saying is that the premise for the post is flawed because it's not even my word against yours bc OP says women's word is not valid. It's more than "I don't agree because my experience is this"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:18 PM
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I wouldn't But I'd gladly accept a cookie and would talk to you if you offer me one on the hallway
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:07 AM
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"I'm dating an average or below average guy myself" that's BS some women posted their partner's body on the megathread the other day and I did not see a single Chad I also have dated below average in 4 occasions (short, too skinny, too nerd, no gym, no fancy clothes, one of them was skinny with a belly, in general guys who don't take pics and don't go out) and now you'll say "they were not average" then you'll be proud of yourself because you think you won the argument, like OP is doing right no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:53 AM
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lmao I just commented the exact same thing OP's argument is "no, you are wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:40 AM
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so there's no way of winning no? because beauty is subjective you just think you win an argument by saying "no, you are wrong, I know what beauty is, I don't know who you are talking about but I know better than you" The majority of people are average so everyone has more chances of knowing average people than above or below average. YET all the people we all know are somehow not average? mathematically doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:38 AM
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yeah same. I have average friends with families. I get invited to their family reunions where people are average too. My father wasn't a Chad and my mother wasn't a Stacy. My BIL and his family are nowhere near being chads in fact all of them are overweight. 5 of 6 (6 brothers/sisters) are paired up, some have kids. Nobody is taller than 5'7". I could go on and on about all the people I know but I have the feeling it's pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:34 AM
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I don't understand then why you'd still choose medieval times when you'd probably have a shitty time because of your disability
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:23 AM
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you can totally do that now though do physical work and have sex, why don't you? As you might have noticed lower physical labour classes don't have Chads and Stacies, so how you look is irrelevant. You could even be doing farm work and travel, meeting other travellers, yet you are sitting behind a computer. Then somehow when presented with a scenario that resembles more a TV show than real life you'd do that? I call BS, delusion or maybe you are arguing for fun
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:04 AM
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telling them that behavior is unacceptable the male version is going batshit crazy for sports they too have parasocial delulu relationships with their team of choice to the point of even kill other men from the opposite team a team they are not even a part of. "we won" they say, No, dude, you watched other people play and you picked a side. I have never seen a Tailor Swift fan kill a Harry styles fan, just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:32 AM
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Then why does the text specifically talk about late medieval?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:53 PM
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55 was in the late medieval times, early medieval was lower. Average medieval is probably 50
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:46 PM
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you have all watched too much Game of thrones you think medieval times was hammering a few swords then chilling in a brothel, where all women are busty, slim, clean beautiful women no stds taking for granted laws, protection, medicine, insurance and all the comfy things you enjoy now when actually most of you would cry to go back when the first headache they can't solve with ibuprofen hits
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:41 PM
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I'm so scared what are you going to do? sneeze on old people?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:18 PM
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uh look at you so EdGy aren't you a bad boy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:14 PM
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I said 50, I was 5 years incorrect you said fairly long life I wouldn't say 55 is a fairly long life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:09 PM
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nono, I got it the first time don't worry, it's pretty clear
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:34 PM
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lol this probably breaks Reddit TOS the problem is men here get too comfortable with saying shit like this and then they wonder why did they get fired in the real world for saying the same
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:31 PM
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Pearl is for normies ppd has the real cringe shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:25 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:23 PM
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from wiki Until the middle of the 20th century, infant mortality was approximately 40–60% of the total mortality. Excluding child mortality, the average life expectancy during the 12th–19th centuries was approximately 55 years. If a person survived childhood, they had about a 50% chance of living 50–55 years, instead of only 25–40 years.[5]
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:22 PM
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Imagine all the times you needed medical care, from an ibuprofen to antibiotics or a broken leg or apendicitis in early medieval times life expectancy was literally 30 to 35. Late medieval I think it raises to 50 if you survive birth I think we take for granted a lot of things and the romanization of medieval times with series like GOT doesn't help most of the people here wouldn't last a second in medieval times
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:10 PM
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No CHOOSE I choose being a millionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:59 PM
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quick google search ​ Wouldn’t women lie? as much as men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:58 PM
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my friend always said "I want 3 kids" after the second one she got her a IUD
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:51 PM
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imagine would you rather be a millionaire but your dick falls off and also you are very homophobic so butt isn't an option or live in extreme poverty with low life expectancy but a(short) life full of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:46 PM
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but maybe they think a poor medieval peasant has a Game of thrones life where everything seems magical and clean the real medieval peasant was probably covered in mud and has a life expectancy of 30 years
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:42 PM
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you tell her you post here bitches love PPDers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:40 PM
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If it happens right after eating it's your body putting all of it's energy in digestion if it happens an hour or so after eating it's probably a glucose crush
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:38 PM
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are you talking about logan paul from the other thread? lmaooooo podcasters are swallowing that shit podcasters don't care, they just want the views for me it's only drama online, my real life is pretty chill and boring
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:37 PM
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the plot thickens
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:18 PM
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❤❤❤ good!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:17 PM
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oh! I thought he was like Destiny or Hasan I was like wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:14 PM
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love the hair saloon talk 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:13 PM
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logan paul is bluepilled????? TIL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:10 PM
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I think it's the fear of a relationship not working out but put in the most misogynistic cringe way possible
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:04 PM
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u/HungerISanEmotion are you upset? is this true?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:01 PM
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oh I thought you were being sarcastic sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:39 PM
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I didn't bully him!!! I didn't even report it!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:36 PM
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good, the first step is admitting it🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:35 PM
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you people have never been traumatized by your parents and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:27 PM
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I mean the words that hunger is an emotion used
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:21 PM
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Fine, changed to "another polygamous country". 👌👌👌👌
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:21 PM
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imagine the psychological trauma from your parents trying to fix you with hormones because you are not good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:16 PM
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it doesn't matter what the definition is there's absolutely no need to use those words
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:12 PM
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perfect representation of TRP again someone posting controversial shit like what she posted for clout is a perfect representation of TRP or you think she's being serious? my sweet summer child Would you be open to the possibility that this might be wrong or are you 100% certain? nono, I'm 100% certain TRP is TRASH
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:07 PM
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idk it sounds more like "uncivilized like an african country" Anyway I've already reported someone today and I don't intent to become a ppd Karen not yet at least
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:05 PM
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Not suppressing those urges leads to becoming another African country. jesus christ what rule 6!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:53 PM
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let me repeat it for you ? she's not a man, she's a woman, she's a grifter who says dumb shit on social media for clout exactly like TRP nobody is calling anyone a pedo I don't expect to be treated nice by TRP given that their ideologies is misogyny. No feminist is looking for love from TRP that's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:50 PM
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there was someone saying that "if you are ugly but rich you should be skeptical of relationships" and I think that's toxic af
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:46 PM
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maybe 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:15 PM
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because dying is worst than temporarily sacrificing your happiness I though we were over this sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:59 PM
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omg I can't have this conversation again why can't people understand that immunocompromised people aren't cowards jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:47 PM
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you keep going 😂 sure tell me more, what else?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:43 PM
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? she's not a man, she's a woman, she's a grifter who says dumb shit on social media for clout exactly like TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:40 PM
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you understood, good boy we all believed in you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:38 PM
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OH NO YOU ARE BREAKING MY HEART 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 now guess, was this sarcasm or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:34 PM
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perfect representation of TRP 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:31 PM
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If you ever hear a woman complaining that her partner "stopped putting the effort in" after they were together for a while ask to see a picture of her when they started dating. I'm making fun of this person by using sarcasm it's not that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:30 PM
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That literally sounds like you are making fun of his point. I AM how many times do you need me to repeat it my god
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:10 PM
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Icy ordinary did it's also self explanatory when I say "it's all 15 y/o kids talk" or you thought people respect when 15 y/o kids give their opinions on LTRs?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:05 PM
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So demonizing men when they disagree with some aspects men they are sexist just because they may not agree with one aspect? yes, if they support an oppressive system like partriarchy it's perfectly ok to demonize them, that's how political movements work
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:00 PM
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What part of that is sarcasm dumbass? my comment was sarcasm everyone understood it but you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:59 PM
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wtf I think the one who can't read is you or you don't understand how sarcasm works "she's not hot anymore so she doesn't deserve to be put some effort" In case you didn't understand sarcasm I'm making fun of people who think that people who let themselves go physically deserve bad treatment and you said If a woman married a ripped tall man and he became extremely overweight and stopped dressing well she’d do the same thing. which is the same as BuT WoMen ArE BaD ToO!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:52 PM
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Ok what power do we hold that women don’t hold? most presidents, CIOs, millionaires are men This “either you are with us or against us” is why men hate it. Also what’s the main point of feminism then? again, men who support the patriarchy are supposed to hate it. That's how political movements work, if you want change, a movement that keeps everyone happy doesn't work what’s the main point of feminism then? to destroy the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:45 PM
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and it just makes them agitated. oh no, don't be confused I deliberately made a mean comment to trigger men, and it worked! If you don't understand how the megathread or ppd works, that's not my fault
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:42 PM
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BuT WoMen ArE BaD ToO!!!!! 👶👶👶👶👶
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:37 PM
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If it’s supposed to make men uncomfortable then it’s repulsive to most men like we see now. you don't understand, feminism is about making men uncomfortable because they hold the power that's exactly it's intention so I'm glad it's working if you are repelled by it, you are part of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:27 PM
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I'm joking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:23 PM
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I think feminism accomplished so much it's making men feel insecure in their patriarcal masculinity. See this post with all the whiny men rights, abortion, voting, more equal salaries, equal opportunities what has TRP accomplished? they made a bunch of looser youtubbers millionaires and........ nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:18 PM
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feminism is supposed to be repulsive for men who support the patriarchy, that's the whole point. Feminism is not intended to be appealing to men, in fact it's intention is to make men uncomfortable. TRP is a dating strategy that uncovers all the misogyny, giving a valid reason for feminism to still thrive. I'd vote either hasan or destiny, they are good men. They understand what feminism is about and are not repelled by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:13 PM
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why do you keep talking about communism lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:09 PM
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feminism has actually accomplished stuff, it's been alive for centuries TRP don't even know what they want to change, it's just a bunch of looser men complaining about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:02 PM
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I'm already awesome 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:56 PM
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😅😅😅😅 yeah you are right I read it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:56 PM
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???? TRP is lame trendy misogyny don't compare it to real ideologies or systems it's cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:54 PM
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oh no! men don't need submissive wives or mothers anymore! they can clean their own ass now! oh no, I don't have anything else to offer!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:48 PM
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the difference is that feminism doesn't repel men, that's not even the point of feminism TRP's objective is getting women and it does the exact opposite 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:46 PM
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I'm explaining why more men are single than women. I feel gaslighted you are saying more men are single than women that post shows the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:45 PM
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but the stats say the opposite, that more women are in relationships than men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:42 PM
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Husband claims I look pretty much the same as I used at 16 clearly a pedo!!! call chris hansen!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:40 PM
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"she's not hot anymore so she doesn't deserve to be put some effort" it's all 15 y/o kids talk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:39 PM
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stats don't back you up though first google result say 20% of men cheat while 13% of women cheat almost double
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:37 PM
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TRP is embarrassing honestly I hope they don't discuss this stuff irl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:36 PM
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statistics say almost double but ok almost double
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:21 PM
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but a widow wouldn't say she's in a relationship I don't understand are you explaining why men cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:21 PM
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first google result According to the General Social Survey, men are more likely to cheat than women, with 20% of men and 13% of women reporting having sex with someone other than their partner while still married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:12 PM
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just slightly statistics say almost double but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:08 PM
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however women have more opportunities to cheat and it's men doing the most cheating insecurity also leads to cheating and you know who are more likely to be insecure? ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:04 PM
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Nobody is policing conversations, you can talk to anyone about anything. If you talk to a friend you are supposed to be respectful and the friend is supposed to keep it to themselves also if you are bothered by your gf talking about you, you can totally say something and break up if it's too much
/r/MensRights29/08/23 02:58 PM
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The more honest way than that still is serial monogamy, why would the women answer they are not single when they are "waiting for their turn". That serial monogamy doesn't work for this statistic. serial monogamy is not cheating. are tunnel visioning a small portion of the more attractive men. there's no statistic that proves that it's the most beautiful men the ones who are doing the cheating though beauty doesn't correlate to cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:50 PM
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we don't know if it's the Chads who cheat though, there's no statistic for that statistics also back me up. men cheat way more than women, like twice as much
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:46 PM
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we all have moments of insecurity. In fact I'd say insecurity is inside you and you'll find an excuse to verbalize it. If it's not the money, it's the guy from her gym class, or her going out with friends or why does she have a password on her phone. What if you haven't found love by 30 (which is pretty young btw!) If you convince yourself that women are after your money you'll never be truly happy because you'll never trust the person you are with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:42 PM
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another turnable post CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men. does this mean women are right in saying that men are LV cheaters? ppd: NO OF COURSE NOT
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:24 PM
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lol, no, that post is crazy it feels like op is 15 and thinks that at 30 people are in geriatric homes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:22 PM
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baking is like chemistry, temperatures of stuff is relevant, it's so much harder than cooking
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:15 PM
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what does "behave like a man" mean and what are the consequences I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:12 PM
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"ups" 😅 I accidentally downvoted all of a particular user's comments I'm so clumsy (joking, I don't downvote)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:11 PM
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I love turning an argument Women who wait at the finish line for men get less love/respect from those same men Does this mean if a man finds love later in life he will never be fullfilled bc he will always think she's after her money? ppd: NO, NOT LIKE THAT
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:08 PM
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The person which fucked them and now needs some child support $$$ but how what do you do if you had to find someone? look in facebook and send them a dm? literally how? hire a private investigator? that costs money If they don't show up on court, you lock them down. but you still don't know if he is really the father, so you'd have to spend a lot of resources from the government to lock down someone under suspicion of being a father. What if he's not? why would anyone give their DNA without soli…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:57 PM
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because nobody knows what that government intervention is political movements work when there's something to fight for
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:30 AM
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ppd rn is 40% ND posts 10% ncount 50% "women prefer assholes and I'm a nice guy" like this 2 consecutive posts Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce. ​ Women who wait at the finish line for men get less love/respect from those same men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:22 AM
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do u think that's true in this case? if your policies are not attractive for the majority of people maybe they are shit policies men can't organize themselves anyway, the don't know how because they never needed to Look at you more focused on taking the power rather than using it for something. Without a reason there's no political movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:07 AM
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they wish!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:57 AM
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that's not possible who has the time and money to hunt someone down? the state can't arrest someone under suspicion of being a father he also can totally refuse to have his dna tested if you don't lock them up why would they show up in court? it just doesn't seem possible to do all that, that's why it's the state who has to take care of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:54 AM
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don't we all 🤘
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:49 AM
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well obviously the state doesn't want to spend money on the people they call that communism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:43 PM
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I see how that is not fair but the law is there to protect the kids in this case the state should have some kind of economical help for the mother, so that those kids don't end up on the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:39 PM
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🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 why are they even alive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:36 PM
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Yesterday I ate salmon with potatoes but I made the "mistake" of cooking too much potatoes so I just bought another piece of salmon to go with the rest of the potatoes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:34 PM
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because of the coworker effect spending a lot of time with someone makes you start looking at them differently they don't want to talk or go near you not with that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:32 PM
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it's the double standard physical violence from a boy: oh well boys will be boys she does something mundane which she perceives slightly stupid: gets a lecture about how she cried too much as a baby
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:28 PM
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oh you were here for the actual advice? yeah probably not the place for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:25 PM
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I think it's easier for women to get a date for a meaningful relationships it's probably equally difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:23 PM
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The theater class I'm attending is improv! It's amazing how nobody strutters while acting. Once we sit down again, everyone continues with their regular way of talking. Like you sometimes I feel like a larper because I'm not as shy as everyone else is, my speech impediment is mild in comparison to others, but I still struggle I'm not shy, I'm anxious, and shy people with their silences makes me anxious but I'm taking it as a learning opportunity. (Not that your are a larper you know what I mean)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:29 PM
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The support group for me was amazing because I had never met anyone with the same difficulties as me, but I can understand how it can become repetitive and dense That's so cool! Theater is great to have fun and socialize! I'd hate to do a play though lmao My teacher keeps insisting, we'll see... Anyway, I was just publicly asking this for all the ND people who have trouble socializing. I wish I had known this group of stutterers sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:44 PM
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Culture doesn't reset itself in one lifetime Again, the day we see equal men and women in power we can discuss if a lifetime is enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:39 PM
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Men are creepy just admit it It'll make you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:37 PM
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No Let it go men watch more porn than women and the creepy porn is there because men are there Earth is also round, are you going to argue that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:37 PM
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the sky is still blue no matter who looks at it sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:01 PM
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😂😂😂 imagine "I'm uninterestingfork and I've lived in North Dakota all my life" SOBS UNCONTROLLABLY
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:59 PM
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oh, yeah a support group is for that, complaining that sucks isn't there like a fun activity like theater or similar? where the idea is to have fun forgetting that you are all NDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:58 PM
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once I invited a friend from university home for a project at dinnertime I prepared pasta for both of us, so while I was setting the table I asked the guy "can you put the pasta on the plates?" I pointed at the pasta and gave him the thing to do it He stared at me "how?" he asked I rolled my eyes so much I could see my brain
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:55 PM
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lol no men watch more porn than women and the sky is blue let it go
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:46 PM
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serious question for ND: have you tried looking for ND support groups? or activities for ND people? I bet there's tons of other NDs who are looking to socialize I'm still in awe with the group I found for people with speech impediments. They wanted to get together on Sunday as well! I couldn't make it but I love that they want to socialize I had no idea there's a whole community
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:43 PM
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love this one!!!! I love how the sun breaks the symmetry
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:39 PM
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8 more dates why 8? are you doing some kind of challenge?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:37 PM
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why don't you crop it? ​ https://preview.redd.it/bou3irwvkwkb1.png?width=641&format=png&auto=webp&s=61e37de0261efbfa2b78ba15b36f1916ab67cce3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:31 PM
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"no, honey sorry, I can't go to the store because I don't understand how the system is, do I need to ask for the items to the cashier? what are this things with wheels? I don't understand sorry, I wish I could help you though"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:29 PM
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you are saying I'm right? oh thank you people admitting they are wrong is not very common here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:26 PM
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OMG I DON'T UNDERSTAND THIS OBJECTS ON SHELVES WHAT ARE THEY????? HOW AM I SUIPPOSED TO PAY??? WHERE IS THE DOOR? HOW DO I GET THEM HOME I DON'T UNDERSTAND
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:24 PM
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then you can call, text or use your common sense it's not that hard so much for the "rational" gender sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:16 PM
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so you are saying it's women who go to porn sites and search for pedophilia right of course silly me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:09 PM
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if you are confused as to how an item on the grocery store looks like you can always google or use your intelligence+ you can do it, we believe in you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:08 PM
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"go back and bring the correct stuff!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:06 PM
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beautiful! I'd add some textures in the sky so that it doesn't look as plain
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:03 PM
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I was having an argument with someone else who was claiming the creepy porn exists online because of women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:02 PM
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definitely more men than women watch/read porn, any porn there are articles titled "the porn gap" your view of reality can't compute that both genders are not saints and a lot of people are fucked up? I'm not saying women are saints I'm saying the overwhelming majority of viewers of creepy porn are men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:52 PM
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no man deserves your precious hole reported for personal attack an unnecessary personal attack bc not a single part of your comment has anything to do with what's being discussed not even remotely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:49 PM
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right of course it's only a "minority" of men who watch japanese porn where the woman isn't enjoying herself, or hentai or incest porn or barely legal, or a stuffed panda with a strap on, etc etc etc etc still the viewership of creepy shit is overwhelmingly men this is not something you can put on women, it's hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:39 PM
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it's not any less creepy because it's a drawing I think once I saw a genre of women getting raped before marriage. Screw that tentacle r*pe porn, that's weird but the rape before marriage was portrayed as cruel, that's the stuff I'm talking about and don't get me started on loli, bestiality and underage shit saying that it's women who are creepy it's............ a stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:36 PM
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nono, this wasn't you your argument made sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:33 PM
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I know in a world where hentai exists there's this guy saying that it's women who are creepy, nor men right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:19 PM
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nice try 🤣 for statistics you are all so quick to find data but suddenly are unable to find daddy porn on the internet right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:18 PM
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but the viewership or porn in general is overwhelmingly men so.... maybe some women happen to like that shit too but saying that women are responsible for the creepy porn out there is a big stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:17 PM
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It's on pornhub no I won't send you a link lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:05 PM
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before sex you can't know they'll do anything and say anything for sex to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:04 PM
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this just in! creepy porn is for women, men have nothing to do with videos where a barely legal woman is dressed in an onesie clutching a stuffed bear while she's getting fucked in the ass (she's not having a good time) men are good people, so wholesome, they only watch creampies and female orgasm compilation it's the women who make it creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:00 PM
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waaaaaaaaay more men watch porn than women porn is catered to men's tastes and fantasies and it's creepy this is so dumb it's like "No!ThE SkY IsNT BlUE" dude let it go, admit men are creepier than women and that's reflected in porn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:57 PM
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Oh, and how about we wait for women being 50% of construction workers, garbage men, truckers... before listening to any more screeching about equality? sure, all of them too, also to the military once we get all that we can discuss if 70 years is a long time or not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:55 PM
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70 years is nothing globally once we solve all the inequality issues and we have as many CIOs/presidents/millionaires men and women we can start discussing if 70 years is a long time or not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:24 PM
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lmao, this is exactly what I mean to 15 y/o mensrights activist 108 is a very long time globally? it's nothing. It's 0.0000001 of world history ​ so, when we see some change we can stop counting years, but today is not the day sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:21 PM
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you know the difference between non creepy porn and creepy porn? having a stuffed panda bear with a strap on, for example or a barely legal woman with a onesie grabbing a stuffed bear while she's being fucked in the ass. Her face doesn't show pleasure. there's no need for that unless you want to see something creepy non creepy porn is people fucking, the classic pizza delivery guy, massage session, pool party, there's ton of those too but noooo they are so desensitized that normal people fucking…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:18 PM
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we'll see what needs to be said in 2487 right now there's people in the world who can remember when women couldn't vote, just because 15 y/o mensrights activist thinks 70 years is a long time, globally it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:41 PM
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amateur doesn't look as fake at least what I saw I didn't like they were bad actors, everything was too beautiful, too "performed", too perfect. I know all porn is fake but this was too much
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:33 PM
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because red leaning think going to therapy or asking for help for mental health is gay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:30 PM
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step bro, step sis, daddy, incest is pretty mainstream there are even memes about it Either you are very naive or you are making up stuff just to make men look good "men don't like creepy porn" is hilarious honestly and don't get me started with hentai how do you explain hentai lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:29 PM
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I think it's a whole category where there is a very well produced, very well lit, love scene where 2 beautiful models kiss each other like a romantic movie More like soft porn it also looks fake af, like a scene from a movie
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:25 PM
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but the posts says romantic porn you can be respectful and not romantic like any amateur video
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:57 PM
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they are having sex and watching porn, pretty sure they are not that sad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:52 PM
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Men are not usually into creepy stuff. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 riiiiiiiiiiiiight then explain the amount of weird porn out there FUCKING LOL you think I don't know what I'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:51 PM
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you watch romantic porn? lmaoooo I'd rather you admit that you watch weird stepmom washing machine porn than that it frightens me 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:49 PM
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from twox A couple days ago, I suggested watching some porn in bed with my husband (of five years) ya know, as you do and I asked him to pick a video. It took him fifteen minutes to find the perfect one, and I found it hilarious that when he watches it, it’s got to have a story line a plot, realistic characters and it’s got to be romantic for him to enjoy it. fucking lol am I the only one who thinks this guy thought of a video that she might like? my sweet summer child that guy watches creepy sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:17 AM
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but then I'd have to take care of the kids nono, I don't want that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:40 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:24 AM
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why do you keep bringing up sandwiches 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this sub is something else sleeping with a dog is not a cultural practice you are blowing everything out of proportion with that essay -🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:40 AM
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70% lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:07 AM
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People who have dogs for protection make them sleep outside because it makes more sense. Also anyone who has lived in a middle class neighborhood where people have guardian dogs know that barking 98% means there are feral cats fighting nearby My issue is you making it sound like a such a big deal, like by making them sleep on the floor instead of your bed is some kind of break of human-dog instinctual bond
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:04 AM
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and see her a cougar snatching a young boy another thing people think is that the guy has mommy issues and the older woman is basically treating him like a son It's creepy but it's none is in any danger
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:40 PM
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yeah, it's not like the mother is going to give them to me so that I can act like a mom
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:23 PM
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does the majority of men prefer submissive women enough to generalize with a margin of error? also no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:21 PM
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For me being a stepmom wouldn't be a problem since I don't want to have kids of my own It's not the ideal scenario obviously but if everything else checks, it's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:20 PM
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wouldn't be comfortable all the most successful couples I know are looksmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:13 PM
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that's crazy it's not necessary to sleep on the same bed as your pet also if the dog is sleeping on the same bed as you it's less likely to listen to any weird noise from outside also people usually have dogs as companions; locks, fences and alarms for safety
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:11 PM
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the spirits under the bed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:07 PM
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my mind went to a totally different direction
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:07 PM
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19
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:04 PM
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oh that's why I put those requirements in my Tinder bio ❌ ass eaters sluts abstain!! ❌
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:04 PM
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depends are yawns contagious, yes do all men like submissive women, not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:02 PM
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beards = make up I wouldn't say either are deception though, it's just the best version of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:00 PM
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If he doesn't kill it with his bicep, is he really a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:58 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:57 PM
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are you sure the person filming didn't film tshirt guys because they aren't as attractive as muscle guys? also are you sure it's that clear that tshirt guys are at the edge of the party because women don't want to dance with them? because it can totally be that tshirt guys aren't dancing because they don't want to dance (lack of confidence or maybe simply don't like dancing) and that's the reason they are at the edge of the party. Tshirt guys also don't dance with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:46 PM
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a virgin was sacrificed (probably a ppd user)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:27 AM
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It's impossible to maintain long term
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:25 AM
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to gossip 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:23 AM
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Today I went to a group meeting for people with speech impediment. This is the first time meeting people of my kind and it went super well. Then we went for beers There were like 20 people, 10 of them on the spectrum or with mild to severe social anxiety. This is not surprising since having a speech impediment is socially crippling. However, many of them interacted despite being outside the comfort zone. I can totally see how some of them probably struggle with dating, but I also saw a community…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:22 AM
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As someone dealing with parents old age I think socializing and keep working until you are old is key my mom got alzheimer's as soon as she retired and she had no friends my father works to this day and he has a lot of friends, he's mentally fine they are both 80
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:12 PM
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Smart man 👍👍👍👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:35 PM
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What's going on here? Why no link?
/r/MensRights21/08/23 03:31 PM
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I figured you tried to do that but the "if roles were reversed" only resulted in "would you date a really good friend who emotionally supports his group of friends?" Unless that was the message you tried to communicate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:28 PM
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Repeating the red pill theory doesn't make it any less repulsive In fact you are making it worst lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:26 PM
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guys who want a submissive whatever repulse me way more
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:05 PM
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I know that's why I don't understand the example with the volleyball team
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:02 PM
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Would you date a guy which served as an emotional dumpster to an entire volleyball team? what does this even mean? was he a therapist? a really good friend? this is so oddly specific I don't believe in emotional dumpster ncounts lol, the more experience a man has with emotions and empathy the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:49 PM
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but that's more like a memory. Like when you listen to a song and you are teleported to another time and space. but this is different, right now I feel that I can still smell it even though it's impossible since I'm not at the shop anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:57 AM
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I was so uncomfortable with the smell and smoke and the people working there didn't seem to mind they are going to be dead in 10 years you too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:07 AM
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´Today I went to a shop where they laser cut wood. The smell was terrible, like burned caramel but toxic I feel that I can still smell it even after a few hours am I crazy or do some chemical scents can linger on your nose for a long time?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:52 AM
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Note from the moderators: Being red-pilled is not allowed. this made me moist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:38 AM
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vulva maybe but astronaut I don't believe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:36 AM
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yess bothhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:35 AM
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oh sorry! I thought it was the other person that recommended it! it was you! thankssss!!! They offered me to take leave for the whole week but I'm so lame I took only one day FACEPALM I need to learn from gen z, they know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:10 AM
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My job is my hobby. When I'm in a cool project I work 24/7, that's why I get all mixed up This project sucks though but I do have a passion project I could work on I also have some diy things I can do to decorate my house Rn I'm in bed though because of the surgery So maybe tomorrow Watching that Instagramer someone recommended made me feel less guilty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:49 PM
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No no, not Asian, just grew up with strict parents
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:38 PM
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Exactly Now I feel guilty for feeling guilty Fuck multi million corporations and their guilt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:37 PM
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I needed this thanks Even though I really enjoy my work it's nice to be reminded that I'm not defined by my bosses approval (One of them organizes people like shit and the other one literally went OOO)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:36 PM
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Idk, I'm always afraid of getting fired or making people mad. I grew up with parents "why did you get an A and not an A+?👎" I think that fucked me up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:02 PM
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Yeah this is a thing and there's massages and exercises of your pelvic floor for that However pee doesn't come out from the vagina but I get what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:59 PM
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https://imgur.com/gallery/wcQ7dCd 😂😂😂 There's a lot of misinformation out there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:55 PM
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I hate feeling guilty for not working even though I just had minor surgery and the surgeon told me to chill. The truth is I could work and we are on a deadline. But I also worked a lot while being sick (the flu) and it's not like anybody gave a shit. I finished my part so I didn't even leave extra work for the team Also my boss took a vacation day in the middle of this deadline hell and he's clearly not feeling guilty Why do I still feel guilty? Is this how capitalism brainwashing works?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:49 PM
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That's kind of a weird mindset though. I think small talk to random people is an excellent practice for approaching. I'm a sociable person (W) with strangers and I also pay attention to my surroundings a lot. So sometimes I make small comments like for example at the grocery store line or the elevator. I fish for small talk. So if someone answers with monosyllables I don't go any further. But usually there's always someone who likes to chat. They'll give me clear signs that they are enjoying the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:44 PM
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the problem isn't approaching the problem is not being able to read the room to know when you are welcomed and when you are making someone uncomfortable It's not like harassment is going to change her mind
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:21 AM
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the prejudice in fatphobia is assuming they are lazy and lack self control. I see no evidence that women are less fatphobic than men idk about that but the point is women don't go around posting about how fat men are disgusting. They'd face the same backlash as men if they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:02 PM
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no, you get too angry, I'm not comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:54 PM
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Rejecting a woman because she's obese is prejudiced but rejecting a man because he's short isn't? Right. I specifically said that fatphobia isn't sexist I won't date a guy who's sucked a dick, ew. that one is homophobic and sexist that's the only one that's sexist, the rest aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:44 PM
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I have no problem admiting when I'm wrong but like I said before, you need to come up with better arguments or at least read the definitions of the things you are arguing otherwise it's impossible to have a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:34 PM
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I'm sick of men here announcing to the world all the hate they have and then playing victims when people don't like it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:11 PM
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confident man 100% alpha behavior (no sarcasm)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:10 PM
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right of course WOMEN, LISTEN! DON'T TATTOO YOURSEF BECAUSE RANDOM REDDIT USER DOESN'T LIKE IT!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:58 PM
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you don't need to scream everything you don't like about people when it literally doesn't affect you in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:55 PM
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"small man syndrome" you just made that up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:44 PM
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because you are all over the place with your arguments none of them remotely touches the definition of sexism Because you don't rationally understand the definition of sexism, you think everyone else is being irrational
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:29 PM
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getting angry at a company for profiting from them might actually change something but noooo they rather blame it on women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:20 PM
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you are wrong because you keep understanding wrong the definition of sexism do some research and we'll talk this has been discussed a million times already I'm not going to waste my time in people who don't even bother to read about stuff they argue about 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:18 PM
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is that Destiny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:07 PM
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you need to read what sexism is, that's objective prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, on the basis of sex example: ncounts prejudice ✅ (the prejudice is assuming that because a woman had a lot of sex she's going to behave a certain way) stereotyping ✅(same as above) discrimination ✅ literally shaming women for having more sex than men allow ​ ​ example2: women preferring tall men prejudice: ???? there's no prejudice against short men, they have jobs, wives, kids, people respect them as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:59 PM
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it's a saying you are not supposed to interpret "put in jail and throw away the key" literally
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:47 PM
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they can make the first move without looking like a "whore" maybe that's changing now but a decade ago you were supposed to wait for the guy to call or text
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:38 PM
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men's preferences listed on that post are sexist and women's aren't. Except the fatphobic one, that's just fatphobic. I'm not going to go one by one because it'd sort of pointless. Not every preference is ok and many of them are rooted in sexism, like ncounts. But anyway if you don't like what random people think on the internet don't post it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:35 PM
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tattoos always look good anyone can look automatically prettier with some nice tattoos not everyone has to like them though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:22 PM
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we've been through this a million times it's how men phrase their preference that's problematic men: I don't like landwhales women: hey! that's problematic men: what's wrong with having preferences!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:19 PM
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lmaooo exactly "your honor! evidence shows she had a one night stand in 2013 and she swallowed once in 2015 (guy didn't let her know). This means I'm entitled to such treatment ASAP"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:15 PM
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they want to see the file where you kept all that info guy #2 : missionary doggy + made him wait 5 months guy #3 : oral + made him wait 3 dates wdym you don't have a file?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:12 PM
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and your comment is another version of "I won the mental gymnastics Olympics"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:09 PM
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I'd put that person in jail and throw the key idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:06 PM
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maybe it doesn't happen that often I've seen men in mensrights get all angry at women because one woman in Florida did some stupid shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:05 PM
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that's a lot of words for "I'm a nice guy, please have sex with me"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:59 PM
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ikrrrr it's cold approaching in easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:49 PM
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Are passport bros meeting women in hostels or are they just complaining online? meeting women or people in general in hostels is so easy I'm still surprised nobody even talks about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:11 PM
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courses, classes, sports, travelling everyone posting about passport bros should be trying their luck in hostels talking to fellow travellers pretty much any mixed social activity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:59 PM
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thank you I'll get back to being a wholesome puppy rainbow once mucus drains from my brain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:20 AM
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yeah and the flu is not helping
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:48 PM
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Show me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:37 PM
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Maybe you are a bad writer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:37 PM
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Not even remotely equal The stuff that's said here against women can get you fired or banned anywhere normal. Be my guest, try it The most women do here is respond to that misogyny and it's not even that bad I think you all have become too comfortable in this online spaces and think this is normal behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:36 PM
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I have, show me men's rights movements from last century I'll wait
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:32 PM
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What what
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:31 PM
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have you tried telling her all the misogynistic shit that's posted here? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:21 PM
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it sounds like you are defending men who cheat like so many people do here that's all I'm saying ✌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:19 PM
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someone's comment: why would you tell her this, what's wrong with all of you can be applied everywhere on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:15 PM
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they don't have to lie, they are simply narcissistic assholes stop defending cheaters
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:12 PM
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It's always so fun to see men discovering what other less privileged groups have been dealing with for centuries it's like they are surprised they have to recognize themselves as a group, they are surprised people might disagree with their claims "wdym we need to come up with concrete proposals? what? I thought complaining online was enough!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:10 PM
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I think today he woke up grumpy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:01 PM
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Plus the women that think they are in a relationship with a guy is pretty high too you mean men who are cheaters? people here usually make it sound like the women are delusional, when actually the one who is being a POS is the man but nooo, blaming men for shitty behavior? here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:59 PM
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I have a speech impediment 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:49 PM
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"alpha male" is so cringe, what you described is a well adjusted member of society
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:30 PM
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A poll isn't scientific evidence though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:06 PM
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Oh noooo we are not compatible 💔💔💔💔💔👎👎👎👎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:58 PM
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Yes 100% Sometimes I catch myself with arms crossed while talking to someone so I correct myself because that's not the message I want to communicate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:29 PM
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it's the principle behind it But you don't know who is paying until the end of the meal so it doesn't make sense to avoid dates in general out of fear that you might be used for meals even if she makes you pay and it doesn't work out you still can't know if her intention was to use you or simply there was no chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:25 PM
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also dinner dates as first dates are kind of awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:21 PM
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No, it's all nurture
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:50 PM
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As long as it's about reading the other person and not some weird rp tactic sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:47 PM
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Because it doesn't fit men's ideas Love on the spectrum is a good show, it's actually pretty wholesome. It shows people in the spectrum having dates. Add your can see that doesn't fit the depressive agenda here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:44 PM
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What kills me is when some people communicate an idea between the lines but deny it when confronted It's very specific and I don't have examples but it's something like The Implication from IASIP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:24 PM
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Imagine not doing stuff because men fine want me to 😂😂😂 There's plenty of men who don't care, it's not like there's a shortage or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:18 PM
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during the world cup it was even on the news, they interviewed people on the streets to ask them what rituals they had, all of them men and also the breaking public property is not very rational. the other day a referee got punched and got death threats bc some random fan didn't like what he did. does all that seem rational to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:28 PM
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feminism has raised women's standards, the only ones suffering are men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:19 PM
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making weird rituals so that their favorite sports team win or else they go and trash public property: rational thinking ✅ believing in the horoscope: irrational thinking ❌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:14 PM
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I have! but for some reason I didn't get hooked like I got with My 600 lb life you could have lost tirdy pounds dis munt
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:58 AM
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yeah I'm the one being absurd 😂😂😂 obviously so imagine PPD if the dating pool of men was so so so narrow. But also you are giving an advantage to single moms so I guess that's good for the kids. As long as she doesn't excede the kid to partner ratio she can collect kids from different fathers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:29 AM
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holy shit that is seriously a lot and so crippling for kids so young, they should be running everywhere is this in the UK? so it's really a problem I see I think I've met only one guy who weighted 330 lb but he was also very tall
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:26 AM
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what? are you serious? Most scale's maximum is 330 - 400 lbs there are kids that weight more than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:14 AM
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so you think it's going to be easy for men to seek virgins at 35? 😂 also what if the men don't want to have kids? they'd be ruining forever a woman's reputation? she's went from being a pure virgin to a street whore
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:06 AM
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fat vs skinny (a uk show) really has no chill (overweight woman) "so the doctor said they needed to use vet equipment because of my size" (overly groomed average weight man) "that must be humiliating" *sobs*
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:02 AM
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because it's cringe to be 35 and only be able to date virgins I mean, sure, go for it, don't complain if it's hard af
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:57 AM
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but then if a man doesn't want to date someone who already has kids he'd have to date only virgins your plan isn't very practical
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:54 AM
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so women who don't want to have kids..... stay virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:44 AM
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beauty standards aren't subconscious though, they are right there, we have tutorials about them men being horny isn't a subconscious process either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:38 AM
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my woman cave would be a balcony or some fancy patio with a nice view with a table where I can use my computer. Like a semi outdoor office. There's glass and plants but it's also cozy for when it rains. There's also a small fridge with drinks and snacks that's the opposite of a cave Ik but I don't like collectible objects or dark rooms and I hate with all my life and soul rgb led lights
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:33 AM
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💜
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:29 PM
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you are right I still need to find my insult-match soul mate you lucky bastard
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:21 PM
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did someone say ncounts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:29 PM
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humans are complex creatures, and I'm also messing with you don't take me that seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:24 PM
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😂😂😂😂 I'm aware also NO, YOU ARE WRONG
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:55 PM
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NO 😂 It's always fun when you say some very normal generalization and people come out of the woodwork to tell you how ThIs Is nOt My ExpEriEncE (not that what you said was normal I still think both sides block each other)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:49 PM
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"incel" "cum rag" you seem perfect for each other!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:43 PM
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Not so fast I'm a bluepill feminist and not only I have never blocked anyone but also today someone blocked me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:39 PM
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Same here In my case it's social media. If I had Youtube and all the amazing info there is now I would've been able to learn so much more schoolbooks ruin subjects
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:37 PM
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I use the word autistic when I need to say that something is ignoring social cues and nuances of communication
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:54 PM
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they are checking if he's gay Gender Affirming Care Clinic clearly have an agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:51 PM
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AND FYI 2500 WERE ABOUT NCOUNTS! -maffioze
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:49 PM
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You always do this, you go on a tangent 😂 we were talking about validation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:47 PM
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that's great!! Yes, there is a list, but it still won't guarantee you success, but it certainly places the odds in your favor!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:45 PM
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Our grandmas tell us to be gentlemen and be a good provider because that's all they needed 60+ years ago. I think you are romanticizing the past. People went on dates, people were picky and unlucky men also existed. The unlucky men of that time died without children, you are only getting Chad's version. 1950's Chad thought he only had to be a gentleman and a provider but there were also all other stuff going on too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:42 PM
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Also, plenty of guys cant figure out what they find attractive either. Those guys clearly chase after the hottest around but want to pretend they want an “average chick”. because women don't go with a list "hey Man, you told me you liked boobs, I have boobs, why don't you like me"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:38 PM
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the point is that some stuff can't be clearly communicated like "chemistry" doesn't matter how eloquent you are it's also perfectly fine to keep asking. I only have a problem with men who say that women are stupid or unarticulated
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:37 PM
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Why is there so many positive reactions to the post you say is bs? " Having an attractive partner has become more of a status symbol for men than having money. " what this? no, this is not BS. Status is literally external validation. men have very little social interest you mean interest in socialization? that's very BS, what are you even doing here if nor interacting with others? men are as social as women. Sports? Business? Any daily normal activity is a social activity. TRP is social activity…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:30 PM
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Data is beautiful, but OP might not be lmaoooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:23 PM
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...the number of the beastttt sacrifice is going on tonightt 🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:16 PM
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literally any famous person is data smh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:15 PM
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Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men This title is so interesting because it's like some men are waiting for an autistic list of stuff they can do to check and suddenly become successful with women but that's not how reality works, there's extra non verbal stuff that cannot be explained with words. How do you explain chemistry? Chemistry is just something that happens and you can't control it. It's either there or it isn't. I can totally understand the desperati…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:00 PM
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"status" is exactly that so......
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:54 PM
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I bet he used Chat GPT "make andrew tate sound like he's not braindead"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:53 PM
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testerical 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:49 PM
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that's BS men love validation as well there wouldn't be men on social media if that was true, even something as lame as reddit karma is cocaine for some. a few comments below there's someone saying Having an attractive partner has become more of a status symbol for men than having money. status symbols is literally external validation also like I commented below, this comment in particular show how shallow some men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:47 PM
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this was fun lmaooo I was expecting her to leave or sth but no, she just stood there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:43 PM
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GrassToucher29 is such a genius, they blocked me before I was able to read the last message😂😂😂 also for absolutely no reason, I wasn't even fighting oh well u/MrsDrgree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:36 PM
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🤦‍♀️ how is "chill don't rush things" ridiculous 🤣 fine, I hope you have a stressful day filled with anxiety about the things you are supposed to do before a certain age 😂😂 /jk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:41 PM
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How are you applying though? are you making the HR lady uncomfortable? are you sending dick pics with your curriculum? Why would you be accused of harassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:33 PM
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if you use your gf as a status symbol because she's pretty you are shallow af
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:31 PM
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you did say 30 is old. You should be like 5 years into a marriage by then that phrase alone sounds like you are trying to tell people what to do this is you talking: "I don't care about what you do it's just that you should do blablablabla" you know what people who don't care do? don't give instructions about when's the time limit to get married lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:27 PM
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🤷‍♀️ why are you so concerned about what other people do? chill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:46 PM
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If you are competing with your friends at 25 with virginity you are a little behind in development lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:44 PM
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I'm not even from the USA that's why I'm saying it's just one organization in one country why don't you take a wider look outside the USA? I know what sub I'm in though, here they usually take the most unhinged Karen and take it as representative of women lol confirmation bias it's called
/r/MensRights15/08/23 12:41 PM
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😂😂 you can have kids with no problem at 40 I think most people now have kids at 35-38 if you want to rush, be my guest, but it's not necessary, don't pressure yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:40 AM
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As opposed to rushing into marriage in your 30s you don't need to rush anything, you have until 40 or more if you don't plan on having kids
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:06 AM
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As lonely as you are now, I guarantee getting married to someone you're not fully attracted to that's not what I meant though. The men I liked the most were the ones that I didn't initially like. They were meh at first and then I became literally obsessed. If I had never been patient I'd have never had those feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:49 AM
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great so that you can get divorced by 32 and re start dating at 33
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:46 AM
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I agree but I don't think it's about being smart, I'd say it's more about being brave or naturally liking to travel, or having a profession than can be done abroad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:38 AM
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oh that sucks some people want kids but don't want the responsibility that comes with them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:13 AM
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given that most families in the world can't survive with just 1 income your cousins probably had bad luck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:48 PM
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ew that's too much kind of condescending too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:45 PM
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a FWB is not stringing someone along you just have to be clear about your intentions and risk it if then she doesn't want to have a relationship with you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:42 PM
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thank god I thought you were going to say 25 or sth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:41 PM
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30 is very young though you still have a lot of dating life ahead of you at 30
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:37 PM
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you know who is really suffering and why? the people here having to read over and over and over men threatening to leave just do it already
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:35 PM
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that sounds very mature 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:33 PM
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(fit, fun, friendly, feminine") wtf lol just be yourself, it's easier it's not like there's shortage of men and you can't keep up something you are not in the long run so what's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:32 PM
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be patient, maybe start as FWB, you build attraction from there
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:28 PM
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he's probably 7 feet tall 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:37 PM
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so uninteresting starfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:35 PM
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what were you doing TOUCHING GRASS? we don't like that here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:00 PM
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of course competitive foreskin cutting is totally a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:56 PM
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😂😂😂 men are allowed to be hypocrites glad we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:54 PM
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sure, don't come posting then complaining that women are the evil end of humanity because of their high standards when you are doing exactly the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:43 PM
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classic men with high standards smh smh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:32 PM
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When did I say anything about 'fault' or 'can't help it'? when you said Women are like men when it comes to attraction. They're biological apes with eyeballs. it implies that women are as "animals" as men, as chimps I am talking about primatology and biology. whenever you are comparing human behavior with evolutionary biology, that's called evolutionary psychology: evolutionary psychology, the study of behaviour, thought, and feeling as viewed through the lens of evolutionary biology. Evolutiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:31 PM
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unless you date in your own nerd group or you are too good for nerd girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:26 PM
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It's just interesting how of all species evolutionary psychologists (who are not necessarily scientists btw, evolutionary psychology is a pseudo science like psychology) chose an animal with patriarcal and violent organization to say "see, it's not men's fault, we are like this because of chimps, men are animals, they can't help it" “For forty years, chimpanzee researchers had the corner on the market on man’s closest living relative,” says Parish. “We built all our models of evolution based on …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:24 PM
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They're biological apes with eyeballs. but which apes? Bonobos that have matriarcal society? or chimps that have patriarcal society? which animal are you going to chose to fit your ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:10 PM
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for their own women Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:06 PM
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if you can't understand that people think differently idk anyone can understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:03 PM
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/u/AstronautLoveShack where is Average Guy? I lost the link
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:01 PM
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How is anyone supposed to take it seriously? Every movement has it's fractions because it's not like all women think the same TERFS identify themselves as feminism who is to say what is the correct form of feminism? you can only subscribe to the section you agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:59 PM
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because alpha/beta/sigma are classifications of men making it super weird while goddesses and queens is just a nice adjective
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:49 PM
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Examp´le Elon and Zuck I can't think of cringier millionaires than them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:48 PM
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I swear white clothes last so little I can totally see how being able to wear white is a symbol of wealth Maybe 4 or 5 washing cycles and then that just get forever dirty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:51 PM
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Sure but the USA is by no means the standard in feminism. The world is big and the organization you mention is just one of many. Feminism as a global concept fight for what you mentioned before
/r/MensRights13/08/23 03:20 PM
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Oh I know, I was answering to OP that said it that’s not a good thing bc it means everyone else is also having an easy time with her I'd introduce you to my friend. She's awesome, pretty, good person, family oriented but she's also so unlucky with men and I think the reason is bc she seems normal until she starts with the horoscope shit and not even the superficial "oh you are Sagittarius" no, she talks about the moon sign, the sun sign, the ascendant, all the stuff She gives advice based on tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:28 PM
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But that would require equal parenting rights, paid paternity leave and all the rest feminism globally fights for exactly this. If there's a particular organization that's against this they are the exception
/r/MensRights13/08/23 01:24 PM
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yes, this seems fair. Make it all unisex except for quick urinals room I was just answering to someone saying that women don't need longer time than men, which is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 01:22 PM
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I wasn't talking about fairness I was answering to this They tend to take more time, not need more time women need more time because of all above mentioned
/r/MensRights13/08/23 01:20 PM
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Make 'em all equally unisex, first come first served oh I agree with this the other day I went to the hospital and I noticed it had unisex bathrooms. It was like 8 stalls and a common area to wash your hands it worked fine I don't know why people make such a big deal
/r/MensRights13/08/23 01:17 PM
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only on this sub people deny that women require longer time to pee. That's the reason women's bathrooms are slower 😂 it's like, what do you people here think a woman does in the bathroom? play cards? also forgot to mention that women on their periods need more time to avoid making a bloody mess
/r/MensRights13/08/23 03:07 AM
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most men don't but regardless you don't put your pants down and squat. Women's clothes are more complicated than men's, they have more layers and require more adjustments. Also women carry purses, and finding a place to put it also takes time. There's a reason men's bathrooms are faster than women's.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 03:01 AM
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exactly! women chose to be nurses while men chose to be CIOs
/r/MensRights13/08/23 02:42 AM
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putting your pants down cleaning yourself with paper and putting them up again takes more time than just taking your dick out from the zipper. Men don't even need to wipe.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 02:39 AM
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classic Beta opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:34 PM
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lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:29 PM
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guys here be like "the horoscope is for low iq women, I know this because I'm a Sigma male"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:27 PM
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as much as I hate astrology it doesn't mean they are whores lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:25 PM
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"cookies with raisins are better than chocolate chip cookies"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:41 PM
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Did anyone else notice how the weekend brings the more depressing posts here like Women's "entitlement" to men's nonsexual attention and company is a byproduct of their objections to unattractive men trying to get sex and sexual attention I just feel lucky I'm able to understand the concept of friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:37 PM
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lol what that's not how friendships work I guess the first step for some people might be working on anxious thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:32 PM
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Lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:06 PM
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No I mean band together to support each other as men By your logic men have already banded together to support sone sport team
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:56 AM
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Literally some random dude came out of the woodwork to say that therapy is gay 😂 They don't see the connection between "I feel sad and lonely" and "talking about your feelings is gay" Like how are they planning on feeling better?? Oh right, it's feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:53 AM
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The trp is useless for what we are talking about because it still focuses on women and sex I mean a movement that's focused on men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:45 AM
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on the contrary! I think they usually go hand in hand a narcissist usually is very aware of what other people think of them because they need other people's attention to survive being a narcissist is rooted insecurity because they depend on other people's validation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:59 AM
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let's hope!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:56 AM
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I had a huge crush on a guy in college who had a speech impediment. I never acted on it but thought he was a hottie for about a year awwww similar story here! I really liked a guy so I finally got the courage to go and talk to him and I had the worst stuttering I ever had. like ever, It was terrible. somehow we started dating and a year into the relationship he told me it was so cute I got so nervous talking to him lol it's nice to see how it's not that terrible even though in our heads it's lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:56 AM
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Third theater for speech impediment people We are 6 now! interestingly speech impediments is more common between men like 1 in 4 but we are 4 women and 2 men So I suggested we all go for beers but now I'm anxious that there will be awkward silences since everyone is so shy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:30 AM
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more reasonable that expected 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:26 AM
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Whiny men: IM NOT DOING THAT! THERAPY IS GAY
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:19 AM
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The solution is for men to behave like women. Fucking brilliant. Never fails. that's how you combat loneliness by supporting and loving each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:19 AM
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but how let's say TRP is in power what's the first thing they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:18 AM
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try to organize an uprising to challenge the government/society? and tell them what? what's the TRP message? what can they change?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:15 AM
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Why do women think they know better than men what they are attracted to? LOL no it's not silly it's like when you are dating someone and they tell you "this X looks nice on you" so you continue to wear it with more confidence even though it wasn't your first choice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:13 AM
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Mrs Drgree is our new president
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:09 AM
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jello
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:08 AM
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men have always been the default so they never needed to organize to change anything as a group It's only logical they are going to project this frustration on women. They need to organize themselves and start supporting each other and by support I mean love each other. Like that camaraderie women have, men need it too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:06 AM
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misogyny here is like bread and butter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:59 AM
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butter manisphere your typos are killing me LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:58 AM
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the internet is big, nobody is forcing you to be here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:57 AM
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sure, no prob, it's not that interesting though I think it was 2 things, one is life, meaning that it's just something that happens inevitably. I've had friends I've lost interest in and I've had friends lost interest in me. The times that it happened to me I couldn't point out the reason.. it just happens the other thing with this particular guy is that he had some shitty past and I think that made it hard for him to get attached. So once the novelty was over he started to fade away another pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:50 AM
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you still came back 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:46 PM
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one kind or supportive thing you did for a man in your life this week I work in a team with a man and a woman. I told both of them that the work they are doing looks great
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:45 PM
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yes 💔💔💔💔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:38 PM
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"men's loneliness is rampant, women can afford to be alone because they have a support group, unlike men" also men: The fact is that a lot of men are not looking for female friends, they don't need or want friends interesting also: men simply are choosing loneliness over doing free labor for women this is an extremely weird way to see friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:42 PM
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if it was done at appropriate times and places. this is exactly the issue the men who pay or consume PUAs content usually don't know how to read the room to make cold approaches the guy who can cold aproach successfully doesn't need PUAs. and PUAs don't teach you how to read the room, they just blame feminism when it fails. which is ridiculous. that's why women's advice take for granted that you are able to read the room
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:36 PM
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how to attract women’s attention that's because attraction can be build from people you already know like friends or coworkers, that's the sort of scenarios women are thinking about when giving advice no women in the history of women will advice cold approach because it's annoying PUAs will tell you "women are liars! they love to be cold approached" then incels try it, fail, and for some reason end up blaming it on women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:24 PM
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I think men and women need to seduce each other. Let's say social conventions say that men should make the first move. Sure, he has to be interesting and charismatic. But women also need to show how interesting and charismatic they are if they want things to move forward
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:13 PM
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it's a bunch of cells, it's not a human. Thinking that glorified period clot is a human is entirely personal belief. to come face to face with the full weight of what has just transpired what full weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:12 PM
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Because men are already willing to be with a large range of different kinds of people. also men: MarGot RoBbiE Is MiD sure they say their standards are low but then you see them rate women and it doesn't check. "average woman" is a thin virgin 20 y/o woman Same with all the fatshaming. If you are really desperate, don't spend that much time posting about how overweight women are disgusting and entitled and how dare they think they are beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:09 PM
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we are already like 8 billion people producing trash the fact that so many people don't want to have kids is probably a biological self regulatory population system but conservatives for some strange reason still think we need to be MORE MORE HUMANS MORE!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:26 PM
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obviously, but I mean doctors the same kind of questions you get when you ask about sterilization
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:20 PM
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we definitely should legalize dolphin abortion if that's what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:16 PM
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but still, it'd be great if those same questions were asked it seems like people don't care about that 19 y/o as long as she's bringing new humans
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:25 PM
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many people thinks it's a bunch of cells, that's why it's legal in many places, pretty straightforward
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:23 PM
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I try not to think like I'm an alien but I get what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:20 PM
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If a 19 y/o decides not to have kids and wants to be sterilized she's going to be asked a million questions, what does your partner think? what does your family think? what if you regret it? etc etc fine, being careful is ok but how come if a 19 y/o gets pregnant nobody asks her "are you sure you are ready for this? what does your family think? what does your partner think? what if you regret it? are you sure you don't want an abortion?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:11 PM
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