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/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/23 07:56 PM
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Pretty damn good, provided it shuts her up.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 07:18 PM
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the average girl on OLD is going to have a body count double yours. ftfy
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 06:13 PM
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another woman interrupted to introduce herself to me. Make a note. Once you get some actual Frame and Game you can land about hotties two full SMV points above this girl.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 06:07 PM
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I would suggest that nuking the fuck out of those tests and setting the bar a lot higher for her would make this process a lot quicker and smoother for you. Comfort tests my foot.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 06:04 PM
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Try giving some examples of the interactions. I personally have most success just nuking, unless AA/AM comes off instinctively. "Shut up" is incredibly effective. I don't see neither Rollo, Roosh or Roissy in your reading?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 06:00 PM
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Classic dread works of course but I would still stand by my initial advice: Figure out what you want and keep on setting the bar higher for earning a place in your life. Make the branch continuously more difficult to hold on to. The bar can be raised in many areas, sexual, financial, logistical, emotional, whatever. Call it compliance testing or control game if you must. Withdraw attention, affection, commitment if compliance is patchy. Nuke any tests or shitty behaviour until performance improv…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/23 03:45 AM
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Your mindset is what needs work, not technique. You think she is the prize. Start acting like you are, even if you're faking it at first. Eventually it settles. How does that look? Figure out what you want and keep on setting the bar higher for earning a place in your life. Make the branch continuously more difficult to hold on to. The bar can be raised in many areas, sexual, financial, logistical, emotional, whatever. Call it compliance testing or control game if you must. Much more upside to t…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 08:02 PM
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U/ u/ragnar_daneskjold - this guy and that guy James or whatever are lifers in the mould of u/usefulwalk4. Up to you if you keep them in here as examples of what not to do and what happens if you just sit and hamster. Back in the day this guy would've been booted (and maybe his original user was?). As for you, nerd, you're super lucky that you have a very simple answer to what to do here: neeeeeeeeext!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 07:50 PM
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Set a deadline for stay/go for a full calendar year. Does essentially no work. Decides to ignore the deadline. And IR7 though no kids. There's no hope for you. Just leave and go live in quiet desperation, like u/usefulwalk4 eventually did.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 07:42 PM
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Much of merp is blue. Even the sidebar (e.g. twotsm, MAP, parts of nmmng). And definitely most user generated content. With no mechanism for quality control, it is up to you to try stuff out, sort the wheat from the chaff - or red from blue as it were. A very useful skill. I think she'd lose her mind if I stopped praising her completely though, as in have a breakdown. Anxiety is better handled by fucking her good/ordering her to do stuff for you. It should be plenty to keep it manageable. EDIT: …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/23 09:35 AM
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I've yet to find a single useful thing to come out of twotsm. Praising sure isn't one. u/deerstfu didn't I tell you to burn that book already or was that someone else? Alpha + direct control game are the gas pedal and steering wheel of a good relationship. Everything else is you sugarcoating the pill for yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/23 06:19 AM
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To be clear, I'm not advocating you decide today. I'm advising you make a deadline for a decision. If you don't, there's a considerable risk you'll be stuck in middling mediocrity if not downright quiet desperation like many dudes here. Your hamster seems to be running kinda hot, getting shut down at each easy exit it tries. I've seen that before, and a few times continued poking has made it go into overdrive and cause guys to melt down. This complete rupture of your BP fantasy can be valuable i…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/23 04:15 AM
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Give yourself a deadline for pulling the plug. Like three months. Or you'll be stuck on the endless "self improvement" track like so many dudes here before you. Change is scary, so we'll hamster ourselves out of it, given the chance.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 07:22 PM
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What possible upside could there be for you in doing wifely duties when you already have a wife. Much less while sick? Also, throw out that stupid D/s book and any others you have lying around. If you need one, you aren't ready. And once you're ready, you won't need one. With the possible exception of getting deep into flogging, knots etc. That shit's technical.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 06:32 PM
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Yeah, the pill is bitter at first, but once you realize that you're one of the luckiest motherfuckers to come on here, you'll feel better. Just read, lift, stfu, prep and execute your exit. If you stick to the program for a year you'll experience a woman life beyond your wildest dreams, literally.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 06:28 PM
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And that feeling like failure and running from a problem instead of doing the hard work to fix it? Or knowing that I’m the problem and that I’m not done fixing myself so it doesn’t make sense to leave yet anyway since I have a convening sparring partner? RP isn't prescriptive, but descriptive. You choose the goals. RP gives you the tools to achieve them. Going by your stated goals, there is no upside to the sparring partner, stay=go plan. That only works if there's an actual upside to the stay p…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 02:20 PM
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I get that you hide away the rest of your blue hamster poop. It's rough realizing you have no valid reason to skirt IR7, unlike the guys 15 years and 3 kids in.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 06:02 AM
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My point is valid but you don't get it. You are crawling - or worse, dancing - when you could run.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 05:25 AM
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Am I reading that right you busied yourself around the house like a good little housewife even while being sick in order to "maintain frame"?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 06:58 PM
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I can explain if you’d like - don’t want to get torched for rule no. 9 here. You won't be. Your hamster might, though. :) But yes, No. 1 is 100% true, I’m committed to that process. Good. For you that means loads of reading and implementing basic bitch Game. No. 2 I’ve already done (thought I was red pulled back in 2017, but wasn’t even close), and this chick is the one who I decided to promote after getting a lot of context - then all my unattractive behaviors fucked this up over time. I see a …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 04:33 AM
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I am a christian If you're going to stick to this, you will have to be more blue than recommended and parts of the RP praxeology will come out weird for you. Hence the RPC-rec. Does this belief tie you to the post-wall girl you're currently married to, or can you trade her in? If not, all my 3 points still stand. If so, point 3 still stands. You can keep the religious marriage while still minimizing state involvement. This would then mean legal divorce but not through the church (which, if you'r…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/23 07:12 PM
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All of my reading is in my OYS at the very top. NMMNGx2, and I’m 80% through WISNIFG as of my audiobook walk this morning. Probably 60% of the sidebar articles, and working through those weekly. I think you mostly could use some TRP basics. Rollo to be sure, but also stuff like Michaels Story and Manipulated Man. I'll explicate a few here. I want to have a family in the next 5 years or so. I want kids, and the best way to raise them is in a nuclear family Women have children. Men sire them. Any …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/23 07:14 PM
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I’ve read the articles on avoiding DV charges a few years ago, as well as the tactics to minimize alimony. I’ll be reading the red curious divorce prep guide and the other sidebar stuff tonight and tomorrow. How much of Rational Male, NMMNG, WISNIFG, the TRP sidebar and articles by HSP and Whisper? I want fulfillment through multiple outlets - sports both casual and competitive (I do one or the other daily), to have a body I’m really proud of (in progress), a career that balances my earnings des…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/23 01:39 PM
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What have you read so far? What do you want in life?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/23 07:58 PM
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What actual actions would constitute putting divorce first in this context? Full divorce prep, it's in the sidebar. It is part of any proper MAP. If you execute or not depends if the girl makes it worth your while to stay. In your case, though (you being young, girl being old, no kids), I'd argue that it's hard to see the upside in staying from an RP perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/23 05:55 PM
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Do like u/creatinecapsule: 6'1, 204lb, 1000+ total. Action above everything. going for what I want, with plenty of mistakes STFU and OYS Put divorce first She isn't the hottest girl in the world, and the sex isn't the best you'll ever get. You just don't have other options and therefore romanticize her. If she wants to fuck you, she’ll make it easy for you. As you work on this, under no circumstances get this woman pregnant.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 06:32 PM
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I stopped giving a shit about her feelings. Apparently doing that is the #1 thing I needed to do for her to start treating me differently. Hallelujah.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 05:19 PM
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My question becomes should I just dial it back slower and not go nuclear from the beginning? Read this. Then tell me what you think the answer is.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 05:13 PM
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GSLP is the program you want if you're going to do this.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/23 06:20 AM
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Exactly. Letting her please you is for her. You giving cuddles and love letters is for you. I currently have 3 girls doing the "crawling just to please and get kicked out" thing that I think u/innominating was the first to chronicle with u/creatinecapsule being the latest. Two of them are fairly new, so results might change. But so far moulding them to please me better is the only beta I provide (outside orgasms) and it seems to work out fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/23 11:23 AM
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220g of protein per day gives you some leeway to have days that come in sub-200. I wouldn't go below 150 on any given day. As for six months: I'm assuming you have technique right in order to be able to increase the loads without breaking down. You should be moving at least 250/350/450 for fives by the time you get to 220. 5lb of BW gain per month also doesn't leave any room for off-weeks. The time commitment isn't huge. 3 times a week of 45-70min in the gym.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/23 10:18 AM
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My point is that you could increase your fuckability substantially with a six month pause on BJJ and eating like you mean it. I challenge you to find another area of your life where you'd get that kind of ROI. Getting yourself to change that much is hard. That's what the incentive device is for. You would just have to keep it in place for the six months of no BS effort to get to 90%ish of your natty potential. After you can remove it again and hold onto the LBM by lifting twice a week, eating to…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/23 04:38 AM
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RP is very unpalatable indeed.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/23 04:10 AM
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Aren't the Iron Rules in year 1? To be fair, I couldn't find them on his blog with a quick Google. Anyway, when referring to Iron Rules, people mean these: https://medium.com/@redpillnorman/the-iron-rules-of-tomassi-3e01b8c31d64 That's what I meant. All that is standing between you and a woman crawling across the floor just to get the privilege of pleasing you is nutting up.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/23 06:54 PM
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Nothing beats the basics. Input: 6'1, 204lb, 1000+ total. Action above everything. going for what I want, with plenty of mistakes STFU and OYS Put divorce first She isn't the hottest girl in the world, and the sex isn't the best you'll ever get. You just don't have other options and therefore romanticize her. If she wants to fuck you, she’ll make it easy for you. Outcome: I have a girl that crawls on all fours to please me for nothing in return. Pays for shit and inconveniences herself to simply…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/23 06:30 PM
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Have you even read Rollo?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/23 05:39 PM
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Iron Rule 9 my man.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/23 05:01 PM
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Ugly?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/23 11:56 AM
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Your physical is atrocious for oys35. GSLP for programming, 220g of protein a day, enough carb+fat on top of that to gain 30lbs in 5-6 months. Get a starting strength coach for technique if you need it. Hold off on jiu-jitsu and other shenanigans while you build muscle. Commit to donating 5.000usd to your local feminist organisation if you miss more than one workout per month or gain less than 3lbs any one month. Also. Divorce is pure upside so you can go ahead and do that before you move on wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/23 06:02 PM
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It isn't a boundary of you don't reinforce it. You withdraw affection attention commitment commensurate with the infraction. How attached are you to being married and having the kid around daily?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/23 10:56 AM
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I would advise against reading hamster poop from the RPCs. Don't let neither guard down nor foot off gas. Just ask Futilefighter about what happens when you do.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/23 05:52 PM
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Then write a FR about those themes, focusing on what you did and the results you got. You'll learn more from that than reading some other dudes thoughts on it. If you tag me I'll read it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/23 08:23 PM
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About what exactly?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/23 06:50 PM
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Observe. Cause: Divorce: Still a serious consideration (and far more likely than not). Everything is pretty much teed up if / when I’m ready. Relationship: I’ve minimized any intentional beta / comfort, even KINO. Before, I’d gotten to where I only KINO’d when / how I wanted to without any expectations. When I stopped even that, my wife started to seek it out (and expressed concern). Effect: Sex: many things that were unfathomable a year ago have become staples over the last 3-4 months and more …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/23 07:13 AM
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OYS # 3 I am half way through NMMNG for a second time. I have been doing the breaking free activities as a practical way to work towards some of my goals. This is great. Listen to Rians series as you read to help you weed out the blue in there. Also don't sleep on WISNIFG, which is particularly useful for guys with your stats. I continued to focus on me this week. This is great. Those little things will add up and change your mindset a lot more than you'd think. "what can I do for me now that im…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/23 03:10 PM
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Have you ever heard the phrase "you can't negotiate desire"? How many times have you read wisnifg?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/23 02:54 PM
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Yours is a simple problem, given you've done the work to become high value. Learn some game, be unapologetically selfish and strictly apply the 2/3 rule to your intersexual relationships. I'll get you started. Riddle me this: What value does your girl provide that you can't get from younger and hotter with much much much less investment?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/23 02:32 AM
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Mentioning kids always brings out the RP Oreos. We ought to see some moralizing bans coming in. Just find some of their hair in the shower or something for the DNA test, and figure out some way around the legal stuff. You are not the first guy in this situation. Do you have her on record admitting fucking around?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/23 06:06 PM
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You're 48, 6'4", successful and not fat. Your perceived prize level to women will only be limited by your own prize mentality. Poster boy for the order of importance of frame, game and looks. That said. Adding 20lbs of good BW and 50% to his lifts will work wonders.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/23 05:32 AM
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Ragnars take is the classic MRP one. As stoney would say, "your feelings are stupid, and you should feel stupid for having them". As stupid as feelings are, though, they sometimes contain useful information. In this case it seems pretty fucking obvious. You're reading that article and then looking in the mirror and seeing a skinnyfat guy with pathetic lifts after a full year of OYS. You're supposed to feel like shit. Natures way of getting you of your ass and doing better. So fix that. Get out o…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/23 05:28 AM
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Rule Zero?! Strong CC game, too.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/23 05:13 AM
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I seem to fit awkwardly between MRP, TRP and generic PUA content Nah. Girls are girls.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/23 02:43 PM
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This is fucking awesome. I hardly emember a dude on here who does as much stuff week to week. This week you learned that F-closing hot, exotic early 20yos within mere days just requires you do some approaches and let things unfold. No perfection required. When a girl wants you to succeed you can get away with a lot of stupid shit. If this doesn't give you a sense of abundance I don't know what will. I find lying betrays a lack of frame. Also, you missed some golden opportunities to AA/AM. Most a…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/23 06:28 PM
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​ It's only "just pussy" when I'm getting it. Seems like the biggest problem in the world if I don't know when I'll get it next. This from the guy who just claimed to have no scarcity issues just a few replies back. Self-delusion, thy name is creatine capsule. Exploration of the social and physical domain through adventure and challenge. Learning/digesting novel information and constantly improving in all areas. I know a Mission should be impossible to fully achieve, but this sounds super fluffy…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/23 10:36 AM
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Fuck you're right. I'll get back to sourcing and chasing leads, I certainly slowed down once I got laid with decent pussy. Thought it was my sex drive. Everyone does. It's hardwired. Nothing wrong with easing off the dating when you have your needs met. It's just pussy. Just be sure your dating/relationship life fits your goals. This is why I poked at you for "what do you want" earlier. Without this you will be floundering no matter what you do. Do you have a Mission? If yes, how do girls fit in…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/23 06:06 AM
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​ Yeah I use these tricks where possible. Another one I like is saying "we're not going to have sex, don't get the wrong idea" to pre-empt her saying it, it gets a laugh and somehow puts the idea in her head. It works because it's a pressure flip and subcommunicates that you are the prize. You're out on a date. Fucking is already on her mind. I don't want to write off anything that's not visually hotter, FWB is smoking visually so that writes off a lot of potential girls. Plus my game isn't at t…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/23 05:49 PM
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For someone who has been on here this long and even tries to expand the curriculum you have some pretty glaring holes in your RP basic knowledge. Either that or you, consciously or not, turn the blind eye to the more unpalatable truths about intersexual dynamics. Question one is in pfp. Question two peed just answered.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/23 02:18 PM
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It is 100% casual and about fucking, texting is logistics only. I even cut off the spending time together and just picked her up and took her to the bedroom. She doesn't ask me questions that would bring up that I'm still married, have a daughter etc. Literally doesn't give a fuck, just wants dick. This indeed sounds like lvl1/fwb. I'll be curious to see how long she lasts in this category. Most girls eventually want more than just dick unless you become that sine qua non dick. most of the time …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/23 12:56 PM
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I thought you already set a date (within eight weeks back then if memory serves)? This is all the more relevant as the hysterical bonding seems to have died down.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/23 12:36 PM
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​ I'm objectively a 6/7 facially but have worked hard to get my look right, some overt attention and being approached now and again. There are a few things missing from my profile like better locations, processing, etc. it'll probably click eventually. As I said, if you can go out in the wild and get a number with fairly little effort, might not be worth it. There's only so many dates you can fit into one week anyway. Once it does click, though, it's by far the most time efficient way to source …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/23 05:07 AM
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I recommend gslp because there are zero choices to make. Just do it as originally written.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/23 01:55 PM
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It's a competitive city but I'll see what I can do. 10-15lb is easy now that I've stopped going out 3 nights a week and picked up BJJ and salsa in addition to normal training. OLD is weird in that it's the hardwired "top dudes get all the girls" on steroids. So if you make the cut, most hotties swipe right. If you don't, your matches all of a cliff. I'm pretty with a high status job and lifestyle, so even with some shitty pics I found just for testing, I had good matches within 10 minutes of dow…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/23 06:42 AM
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SS use the book, vids, forums etc. for technique. Use GSLP as a program (it is essentially "SS for bros" anyway).
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/23 06:31 AM
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Let it sit. It should click pretty quick.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/23 04:42 PM
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I have been completely winging it with nutrition and definitely need to get more systematic about it. Strike "I need to" from your vocabulary. Do. Then report on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/23 04:19 PM
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There's a mindset fuckup here. Internet posing a 1200+ total you don't have. That's ego investment in posing for some internet dudes that have to go online to learn how to fuck their wives. DEERing it away is further proof, as well as some NG toxic shame something something. I would suggest you kill that shit. Own where you're at. Don't post about what you're going to do. Nor what you did last year. But what you did this week, what you learnt. And if you absolutely have to, what you will change …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/23 04:02 PM
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​ Nice. Also got Models on my reading list. Models is OK but lots of blue to filter out. I would suggest Day Bang, a reread of PFP as well as some old school TRP mindset stuff would be better ROI from a game perspective. Not that it really matters because, you're already golden: I'm in pure action mode where I'd rather go out than read a book about it, pretty confident if a girl is single and logistically available I can close or reflect on where I went wrong. This is awesome. As longs as your r…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/23 03:59 PM
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I met this woman on a hookup site and the conventions are a bit different. And she's coming at it from a safety angle not an emotional one. Her previous fuck buddy was married and they went at it for years and eventually stopped using condoms. So she was assuming I haven't been with anyone since I left my wife and that I was going to date and IF I slept with someone else she'd want condoms, testing etc. My STFU was not correcting the IF, which when I write all this out was really enough. But ans…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/23 01:41 PM
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I'll get to the rest. But since this is Own Your Shit let's try that first, shall we? What was your most recent squat/bench/dead weightxreps? This was the question. I hit 500lb DL, 420 Squat, 300 Bench, 195 OHP in December. I don't have any PL goals it was ticking off the MRP basics and monk mode during the shit part of my divorce when I had no money and was couch surfing. I've since dropped the squat shoes, belt, chalk, wrist wraps and don't work past 60-70% of my 1RM. Mainly keeping up strengt…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/23 01:14 PM
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So you still get annoyed that your woman behaves like a woman, and fumble around with the controls to find the right buttons to push. Jesus. Now we know why Rule9 enforcement was so fundamental. Everyone is trying to lead fix their goddamn wife these days. I promise you that if you focus on you. Say and do whatever you want whenever you want. DGAF about the reactions. Your life will be glorious. Start by learning how to squat. And if you absolutely have to train the bitch, then do it properly. Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/23 07:17 AM
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I STFU because I wasn't sure what to say STFU is never wrong. In this case, the exact right play. You literally just met the girl. WTF. If she presses the issue of monogamy I'd tell her it's way too soon. Depending on your style, frame etc. either deadpan or with some AA/AM thrown in. Sidenote: At 6'4 you definitely have a lot of mass left to gain before you cut for the fuckboi Tinder photos. Just make sure your lifts go up with it. They're pretty damn weak, even for OYS14.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/23 05:58 AM
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6'1 202lb, 1200+ SBD I'm curious. What was your most recent squat/bench/dead weightxreps? What are your goals from here? I've been neglecting my health and fitness to focus on chasing women. Night game was amazing for exploring my true social self, but it is too much of a sacrifice. I'm thinking of dropping to 1/2 nights a week or focusing on daygame and building a better social circle. Not to mention, I need to get the divorce cracked - I've set some time aside instead of purely focusing on liv…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/23 05:46 AM
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Getting laid is the bare minimum. The first step on the bitch management ladder. Barely gets a girl plate status. Your issue has been getting a value add apart from fucking. So even if this one is done, practicing the tools used to train a girl a girl to act right has merit
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/23 05:17 AM
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Any guy divorcing will have a phase of debauchery. Enjoy it. You'll get back to work and other goals soon enough. Maybe reach Roissy's dozen so you have an idea of what kind of girls you like and then focus more elsewhere. At that point you should have pussy finding you anyway. Just don't let the pussychasing get in the way of divorcing well. Work, physical and other stuff you can make up for some months of neglect fairly easy. But sleeping on divorce can cost you for years even decades.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 03:25 PM
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do it lightly and pause with eye contact. You’ll know from their eyes if they’re game (or panicking) This is dumb. Most girls drench the sheets of you can get them sightly panicky. Strong emotions something something. Just do shit you enjoy and respect a hard no. It isn't hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 03:19 PM
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No kids means IR7 applies no caveats. Just cut and run. It will make you less fat, too.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/23 04:30 AM
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The breakdown isn't perfect. The categories are a bit fuzzy, and the names I mostly gave them for fun. I'll clear up some confusion. The "If you don't shape up I'll divorce you!" is the Not So Useful Walk, not Come to Jesus. This is what gets some momentary compliance, until the girl sees through the empty threats. Premature Come to Jesus is a bit imprecise. What it covers is trying to guide a girl that hasn't submitted fully. Which is the route you were looking to take in your most recent OYS, …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/23 03:32 AM
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The divorce in itself is inconsequential. What I was suspecting was this: other efforts that have started to fall off again - i eased off the trigger This is what has happened: You started acting attractive. Going unapologetically full bore 100% for what you want, with complete DNGAF about anyone else, least of all her. This is attractive, bitch got motivated to please you. However, with a lot of resistance and reservations. The poor girl has been subjected to your unattractive behavior for a de…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/23 04:14 AM
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Don't thank me. Do better. Start by batting away the RPCs and focusing on you. Speaking of. Have you progressed with divorce prep these last few weeks or have you been too busy trying to cajole your wife out of her baggy pyjamas?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/23 06:09 PM
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You have your head around this wrong in several ways. Let's try like this. Why the fuck do you have to "get her" to do anything? Why isn't she falling over herself to please you? Lack of attraction. Happily, you don't have to "get her" to do anything. It's not about "her" in any meaningful way. Become attractive (frame, game, looks) Figure out what you want Filter for girls that are up to par It's really simple.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/23 04:47 PM
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I fogged by saying, “well, really that threat is always theoretically there for both sides” and I asked her what she was doing differently as a result (negative inquiry). Her reply was that she wasn’t doing or not doing anything different, but that she felt worse about doing / not doing certain things (or at least worrying about the potential consequences). "Theoretical"?! How about: "No manipulation babe. I just figured out what I want. It's perfectly ok if you aren't up for it. We'll be great …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/23 05:21 AM
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Wtf is this running around your wife's head nonsense? I have recently seen both a cock-caroussel party-girl reform into an intellectual high performer. And a "virgin" good girl muslim chick that wears a fucking hijab around her family sneak out to fuck me, begging me to beat her up harder. Both of them are sourcing girls for our threesomes. I could go on but the point is this. External markers. Tattoos, hair, clothes. Her past, upbringing, starsign, MBTI-profile. All that shit doesn't matter. At…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/23 05:13 AM
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I guess the one answering the comments - including those from the bloopers - is. I'm not convinced about the one who wrote that OYS, though. Neither is your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/23 06:34 PM
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You sure about that?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/23 11:56 AM
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Who is the prize?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/23 08:55 AM
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