| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | Shit test or something else | Wtfdidy0ud0 | /r/askMRP | 11/03/18 02:00 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Shit test or something elseYou are gay. Your handle is gay. | /r/askMRP | 11/03/18 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Shit test or something elseYeah I know when I did good but it feels toxic having her talk shit. My kids are young but soon they’ll be aware and I don’t want them thinking it’s how people get treated. | /r/askMRP | 11/03/18 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Shit test or something elseFor awhile I just saw this as a reflection of me. But then a realized she does have a shitty attitude with others. She can be generally negative but I’m the only one she hates on. She’ll be nasty to other people but she doesn’t devalue them the same way. | /r/askMRP | 11/03/18 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Shit test or something elseFor the most part yes. Good with our kids but not much value for me. I earn the lions share and 50% the kids, choirs, etc Truth is I’d leave but I’d prefer to fix what shit I’m doing that causes this. Or at least rule it out. | /r/askMRP | 11/03/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Shit test or something elseNa it’s hostile when she does this stuff | /r/askMRP | 11/03/18 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Shit test or something elseI work in fitness, this is not the issue. | /r/askMRP | 11/03/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Shit test or something elseShe’s never been a nagger but I think that’s more cause I’ve always got things done. I get that most guys are going to say it’s my frame and validation needs but she starts these interactions and she seems to enjoy it. I just AA and ignore I’m not entering her frame. Sometimes I tell her to gtfo of my office when AA fails. I’m trying to figure out if it’s more than a shit test because it she does shit test but like you said these feel specifically destructive. Oh and we do fuck regularly and she… | /r/askMRP | 11/03/18 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Shit test or something elseI’m guilty of this in the past but I’ve stopped seeking any validation from her. It’s always a negative response so it wasnt very hard to change my behavior. She does this when other people make comments. I.e. Sister: this playroom for the kids looks awesome. Me: thanks Wife: all you did was XYZ and it took forever. Example 2 came about while I was working. She comes in my office to complain about me working late and then goes into breaking me down. You’re 100% right but I stopped this a long ti… | /r/askMRP | 11/03/18 03:07 PM |
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