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Holy shit that last part hit hard. Basically me. I cannot genuilely like women for that reason. Obviously its ridicoolous, the women who like me now are not the same ones that rejected me. Also i'm the first one that would fuck the ugly chicks i rejected if the suddenly became hotter. So we cant really complain and should just learn to accept thats how things are... I really hope i will be able to.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/22 10:58 PM
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honestly i feel like that's already happening. the more honest i am, the more women want to fuck me. i guess it's the thing that vulnerability that comes from a position of power is sexy. they idealize that even since i have many options they want me to commit to them. but at some point, when i start to get comfortable, it gets problematic. they want me to fall for them but when it happens they lose attraction. actually it hasn't happened that many times so my sample might as well be too small t…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/22 04:49 PM
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Yes I like you point of view. Kinda going back and forth until you get the sweet spot
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 11:51 PM
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I dont get what you mean. What do you mean by giving them a fake persona? Wouldnt the fake persona being the one saying "just dating" when im actually looking for love?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 11:49 PM
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Like the cat analogy! Concerning being vulnerable and maintain frame: how do you do it? I feel like that's where I fuck up. It happened in my last relationship, i decided to open up also to kinda "test" whether she was worth it. She wasn't so it's OK. But if every woman is gonna leave me when I open up I might as well just don't and be happy with what I get by holding frame.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 11:21 PM
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I guess it's seeing her as nothing special. I will auromatically be direct with her, playful, not afraid of losing her, put other stuff above her, not text her straight away, eye contact, ... and so on. I just do all this without thinking. When i realized it, i just had to start consciously doing the same with girls i really care about.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 08:55 PM
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Fair answer I guess, thanks
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 08:48 PM
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You may be right to some degree. Yeah i lift like crazy, now what? Its not like lifting really gives you purpose
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 03:04 PM
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Thats what happened to my dad, so yeah i shiuld know better
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 03:02 PM
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Basically that's what i'm doing. Already quite bored by it though. Single parent family but still had contact with my dad. But yeah my mom had toxic relationships so im kinda fucked up on that level. Anyway you say dont open up show vulnerabilities etc. Well i'd like to do that... it is a part of me and to connect with someone on a deeper level i have to be myself
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 03:02 PM
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Thanks for this!
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 02:52 PM
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The reason is evolutionary. A male that appears attractive to other females, for whatever reason, will also have attractive offspring and thus has a better fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:40 PM
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This!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 11:33 AM
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my question is: does that also MAKe them better? just like if everyone thinks you're beautiful, you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 10:28 AM
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I definitely loved it! But i think its personal.. he uses a lot of metaphors and analogies which i also do so it was very nice for me. But for some people who are more into straight facts it can become heavy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 11:03 PM
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WHAT?! I just read that and it makes no sense (for me, in my reality). Literally all the people I know had at least 5 sexual partner and the few who had less are not attractive at all. Most had more than 10 or even 20 and in my experience they also get laid AND relationships way more easier. I'm 24 and european btw.People may get pickier with age but the number of sexual partners can't decrease. The only rational explanaition I find is that those are as always IDEAL PARAMETERS, are in reality th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:23 PM
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as said, listen to the message and take what you want. some of them obviously shape reality in order to fulfill their sick visions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:15 PM
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Although Peterson came back and admitted how brutal divorce can be for men (after crapping on MGTOW), he still pushes the "go the family way" as part of taking responsibility. In his lecture about depression, he claims that getting a primary relationship should be in everybody's top three pursuits. Very heteronormative and blue-pill if you ask me. i don't think so. TRP also says that you should pursue a relationship (eventually (eventually, if you want)). ​ and actually being in a stable relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:41 PM
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no neither it is in mine, but some points are worth of being heard and processed. it's not all rotten
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:37 PM
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this is so wrong. almost like you could solve the issue is you take revenege on someone who's had no fault in anything. it's the same as accusing young germans of the cruelties done during ww2
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:50 PM
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12 rules for life his book
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:43 PM
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I wouldn't say that those are the main point of the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:20 AM
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I think I formulated my question quite badly. I was wondering how someone could object the points on male-female interaction he makes (which are quite RP).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:19 AM
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This! Personally I like it and myself use tons of metaphores when speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:18 AM
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same thing with fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:05 AM
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Nice
/r/askTRP25/04/21 07:48 AM
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Maybe that's why... AF/BB, the wall and so on is still far away
/r/askTRP25/04/21 07:41 AM
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Yeah I get what you say. Actually I meant that you just present the main idea and offer a possibility for further research. Of course it may be difficult with women but most male friends who aren't that lucky with women will probably be like "hey wtf that's it!"
/r/askTRP25/04/21 07:39 AM
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23 why
/r/askTRP25/04/21 07:37 AM
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Why? I already did it. You just have to be careful. Women know how sick the game is, and that it is "us" vs "them". So what's the problem? Let's take my sister. It would be an interesting topic. I really don't care how she treats men and she doesnt care how I treat women, so it would just be a funny conversation to share point of view.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 02:12 PM
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Actually I believe one of the problems of TRP is it underestimates intelligent women. I already talked about TRP stuff with them and you can definitely find some who agree. They say "ahah yeah evolution is bastard but let's make the best out of it". If TRP is true, which I believe, even a woman can understand that. And what most people don't get is they do. But they don't care. It may even helps them to better reach their goals.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 02:09 PM
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I'm still confused... What's the difference between women being hypergamous and men leaving them for a younger, hotter one? I don't really get it. It's not like i'm hung up on infidelty, but I think one should be rational and see that both sexes can (and do) cheat, and both sexes can (and do) stay loyal. So your problem is that women fantasize about others when in a relationship? I think every single person does that from time to time (and if you don't, as you say, you're really one of few). So …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 04:54 PM
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Yeah I guess I'm gonna read it (I just read some parts till now). But I find it funny in your comment as it looks like this only touches women. Actually, the same exact thing also applies to men... You can be in the happiest relationship but will probably still feel the desire to fuck other hot women, and choose not to. So what's your point? For men it's okay but for women not? Of course I'm aware that they are attracted (like me) to other people, but I trust their (and my) capacity to stay loya…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:15 AM
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What does that mean
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:42 AM
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Good points
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 11:28 PM
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Science i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:38 PM
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Quite correct
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:10 AM
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26.14 actually
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:00 AM
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Why would collagen matter
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 06:59 AM
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Males honestly never peak if they never had it to begin with; But if they did, they never reach a peak ever if at all. No? What about becoming rich and acting like an adult (somenthis most men in their 20s don't)?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 11:06 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:07 PM
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I think you misunderstood me. My point is, you can't choose to be attracted to someone you are not, but you can choose not to care about your attraction to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 05:43 PM
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So you plan on findinf a woman who never fantasizes about any other guy? Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 05:41 PM
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Yes but refusing to fuck someone you're attracted to is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:09 PM
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Okay yeah this makes sense. But i dont get why you shouldnt have been rejected? People are free to reject anyone. And as you say, it's up to me to realize it and not let women fool me again. Still this just means to ne careful not resentful
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 01:28 AM
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you must have misunderstood me. not once in my life have i even imagined about raping a woman. i couldn't. but like most men i fantasize about normal consensual sexual intercourse with extremely beautiful women. does this make me a monster?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:52 PM
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If you needed the red pill in the first place, chances are that you arent a chad and therefor you never had a chance with said hvw in the first place. You do know that women date up, right? probably > The reason being is that confidence is based on results and not some magical "inward personality healing" nonsense. If men are bitter due to how women treated them, the blame falls on women. even though you're right, you fail to recognize that we're talking about a particular woman. the one that hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:50 PM
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ok well better. the way i read it i though this is like standard always
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:45 PM
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i'd say they're two different thigs. or at least one is more extreme. i think with my dick when i want to fuck astupid blonde supermodel but if the dick starts thinking about rape the brain immediately takes the power
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:44 PM
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She is vy dominant and demanding, knows everything about power and power moves, emotional blackmailing, drama up to xTremes - name it - she's able to do it. this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:42 PM
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she has high IQ but she doesn't seem like an interesting person to spend time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:35 PM
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if you're main goal is to empty your balls then yes, but i think deep down we all want more
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:33 PM
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idk i was high & dry
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:30 PM
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be nice to the frustrated and confused!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:30 PM
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Yes if they think with their brain instead of their dick. Of course most don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:29 PM
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Evolutionary psychology is not good enough to be standalone as an explanation for everything in how we work socially. And as long as TRP keeps believing this, I'll keep saying they're refusing to learn everything about psychology and are just picking and choosing what they like from it. agree They are bad. They're predatory and will sell a lie to new salespeople and create a big cult of personality for the top guys. I'm guessing you're stuck in a MLM since this is something you're defending so h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:26 PM
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Is your definition of "quality woman" something along the lines of a young, attractive, virgin, submissive housewife? Is yours? Then you're right. You're right anyway, actually. I ( wrongly ) assumed everyone's ideal relationship look similar to mine. ​ Still, it is hard for me to imagine how those qualities you name could play a role for your happiness in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:17 PM
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Maybe because they naturally have/know them? A guy runs 100m in 10 seconds without training and you like that, but you wouldn't like someone who trains for it? And even worse, you wouldn't like him either if he doesn't train because then he'd be too slow? ​ Not to attack you, I hope you understand my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:13 PM
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I must disagree here since lots of average guys just aren't as fortunate as really hot guys or most women that can basically "choose from the menu" when it comes to dating. An average guy may has to put in effort in being liked for his personality and so on. By stating this you indirectly reinforce unequality in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:10 PM
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You're talking about the small percentage of women (maybe more) who understand their nature and actively choose to go against it? What about the rest? Is every guy supposed to strive and compete for only these women? Personally, I am (if that small percentage is the hot&woke). Maybe I'll change, who knows. But when it comes to it, I'll change intelligent over hot. ​ Anyway there are plenty of women who can see through their nature, hence not fall victim of TRP strategies and so on. It's only a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:07 PM
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brilliant
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:58 PM
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I'm not sure what the main point is... Anyway no of course you wouldn't tell! But as said there would be no need to with the right women. Intelligent, or better, woke women are aware of everything TRP says.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:30 PM
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ahahaha nice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 12:20 PM
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This is like communism. Will never work since those who "break the rules" are way better off than the rest. Imagine being the only man deleting the app. Prisoner's dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:47 PM
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A woman in their teens has all her twenties ahead of her, so even if the first child is sick the others will not. And i think most hot 18/19 yo look more like 20-24 anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:10 AM
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Evolution. Males brains have been shaped over the years to find teens more attractice since they are more fertile. Men who would fall for older ones simply wouldn't reproduce as much and spread their "older face is sexy" genes. Please don't misunderstand me. There are countless reasons to date an older woman, but i'm not talking about this. I'm just explaining why to men women look most beautiful in their teens/early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:36 PM
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I am not a woman. I don’t measure the quality of a potential mate by her display of power (physical, social, financial, intellectual, or spiritual) because I am not seeking vicarious power from a potential mate. I can create all the power I need for myself. Interesting point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 11:59 PM
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Yeah but look at what you said: this is EXACTLY what pushes someone to the red pill... I also can relate to some degree. It occured to me that girls want me to open up just to lose interest. As you say, it is common and hard to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:39 PM
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Beautiful analysis
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:28 PM
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In my opinion the whole economy is based on selfishness. Business connections are fake and just about ass-kissing. And avoidants are charming and good at making make themselves like. So if you agree with this, my point holds. Of course this is personal. But I believe that someone who is that willing for power has at least some trouble in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 10:30 AM
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It's both. ​ And actually i believe many "winners" (rich/powerful people) are avoidants who don't spend their time being happy in a relationship and pursue more selfish goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:54 AM
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Thats what i said isnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:40 AM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:39 AM
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Hahahaha wake up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:38 AM
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Because im avoidant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:38 AM
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To give you a practical example. If you got bitten by dogs plenty of times, there is nothing wrong about hating them. It's normal. But don't go around claming all dogs are bad because there are plenty of people who have a good time with dogs. You don't have an obligation to play with them, but you're wrong if you think they are bad. And you're missing a lot of fun if you dont do the work necessary to enjoy playing with them again. PS. This is just an EXAMPLE. I'm not comparing women to dogs. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:32 PM
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I get bored and pull away. Every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:27 PM
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Nope nothing wrong. The point is secure are the winners in the world we live in, for how society is formed etc. Secure are able to communicate directly and solve problems. Of course this doesnt mean that they will stay together. But since they trust each other and are open and direct they will have no problem in telling the other they dont love them anymore, and the other will be able to accept it. Avoidants are often hurting others. But beside that, they are also wrong. They need closeness and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:24 PM
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I don't really date anymore haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:30 PM
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I think most things TRP criticizes about women has to do with attachment. Men also do mistakes in communicating (i.e. not doing it at all). Secure couples probably can sort stuff without having to put up a barrier, playing games, and seeing the other as an enemy. The idea beyond the red pill may be genuine, and I agree with many things it says, but I think that it also attracts people who too easily use it to justify their hate for women...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:11 PM
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Go read a book about it. I swear it will feel like finding god
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:58 PM
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Nope of course not. Both have to work on the problem. Here I just adress the male part
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:57 PM
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Becoming aware of my avoidance about three years ago didn't help a bit. I'd say it made things worse, since now i can't even enjoy the first few dates because i know how everything is gonna turn to shit. Yeah a therapist would definitely be a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:55 PM
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I trust the psychologist who wrote the book about attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:31 PM
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Yes, as said in other comments i should have just generalized to "insecure attachment". My point is avoidants also become anxious when the partner pulls back. But yes, your description is more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:30 PM
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I hope so otherwise i'm doomed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:23 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:44 AM
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definitely not a small group, but certainely less than 50%. most are secure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:52 AM
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Nope, and i explained why on the before. Theoretically your're right, they SHOULD head for the secure type. but actually, due mostly to unawareness and confusing their emotional response with love, they head for avoidants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:44 AM
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I don't understand how this opposes my point. I also stated that women are more anxious than men. I mean, that's exactly the point... and i think your study misses the point. anxiety and anxious attachment is different. someone could be completely avoidant but suffer from anxiety disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:25 AM
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I don't think so. Maybe I should have generalized both genders to "insecure attachment". But there are way more anxious than avoidant women, and more avoidant than anxious men. The point is anxious women are more prone to be controlled by emotions when dating and red pill strategies adress exactly that. All the evolutionary psychology topics, sending mixed signals, etc. work best with anxious women. They also tend not to be interested in "bored" securely attached people because it doesn't trigge…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:21 AM
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Completely agree. Anxiously attached women are no less of a problem in the dating world than avoidant men. I understand men who refuse to play that game. But I don't agree with the fact that they turn to TRP and refuse to work on themselves because it's easier to think that all women are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:14 AM
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I'm not blaiming the men if this is what comes across. I blame both, or better, I blame the circumstances of the relationship. I'm just giving a possible explanation why MEN react that way. And you're right about the fact men are anxious themselves. Maybe I should have generalized to "insecure attachment". My point is that, not knowing they are insicure, people tend to blame external factors for the failing of their relationship, hence TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:10 AM
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Yes but being charming does the thing. I think what most "nice guys" don't realize is that being an ass is mostly a consequence of being charming so very linked to it. Most guys are both, but it's the charming part that attracts. I hope you get what i mean
/r/TheRedPill02/03/21 03:52 PM
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Oh I did. Not on purpose, but I've often been an ass and rejected.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/21 07:40 AM
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I don't know man. Maybe you purposely exaggerate. But whay you suggest is just being an asshole. It might work a few times with 18yo or older women who never grew up. But if you want a woman with a bit of self respect that approach is going to be a total fail. Being busy is one thing, but being rude on purpose will only get you so far before being rejected.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/21 12:08 AM
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