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OK. Fair enough. I think I can understand where you are coming from. I will refrain from posting and just read/lurk. The issue is not that I'm "butthurt" about it, just massively confused (is WTF an emotion?). So if I grok what your saying, then the summary is: your wife really is crazy, get yourself sorted out over everything else (including sex), reevaluate and check progress against plan at the end of the year. Would that be a fair summary?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 04:08 AM
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Might be overdoing it. Currently feel exhausted and the thought of having to maintain frame whilst shit is being thrown around everywhere is daunting. Perhaps the suggestion of spending minimal time at home might be well worth taking up.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 01:13 AM
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Stop being so goddamn thirsty man. Man is made to drink. Cannot help but get thirsty when there is no water. control of the sex faucet spigot Brilliant! The trend line for sex will not always match up with your progress. I think I can accept that. But this feels like a one step backwards, zero steps forward process.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 02:11 AM
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There's really no incentive to being at your house, now is there? Being with the boys is good fun. They love to wrestle (and I always win :) ).
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 01:21 AM
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What is your specific plan for the next week? I try to do a kind of MAP for the foreseeable future. Currently it only gets about 50% implementation as I'm just so freaking tired of the bullshit I get thrown every day. So one overarching goal is to try and see how I can increase my endurance/stamina for the shit I get thrown at home. We are moving into a bigger house, so much of my plans relate to this. I have a huge amount of work to do in preparing our current place for being rented out, so muc…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 12:00 AM
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How long have you been "aware" Not long. Just a couple of months now. One could say I didn't actually take the pill until about 4 weeks ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 11:44 PM
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I'm still tossing up the idea that my wife is just downright crazy. But either way, I think I failed a shit test but on reflection it's hard to tell I'm cutting up some board with some scissors. She comes along with 18 month year old. Whilst I'm in the middle of doing this job, I temporarily put the scissors down and she wilfully lets the child pick them up and start wielding them like he's some kind of deranged maniac. I kind of loose my shit and get a quite angry telling her not to let the kid…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 09:23 AM
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My estimate comes from a bio-impedence measurement device they have at the gym. I check it about once a month just to see how things are going. Early last year it told me 12% but I looked as skinny as a rake and saw no abs. Weight was in the mid to high 60kg range (180cm height for context). That's when I decided to change to some kind of hypertrophy specific training, and it's taken ages to get anywhere. I have the occasional cut when my b.f. measurement is too high for my liking (generally abo…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 01:22 AM
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even to the point of threatening divorce or demanding you leave your home This has been happening at least once a week since my RP adventure started. Good to know it's normal.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 01:17 AM
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I've replied to this one before. But seems people want more details. I'm no power-lifter, but doing ok: Squats 5x5: 60kg Bench Press: 5x5: 30kg Bent over Rows 5x5: 40kg Barbel Shrugs 3x8: 40kg Tricep Extensions 3x8: 20kg Bicep Curls 3x8: 20kg Cable Crunches 3x10: 22.5kg & misc others. Not as high as I would like, but I haven't really concentrated on strength much until the last 12 months. Over the last 4 years I've done a mixture of strength and cardio, mostly in group fitness classes which are …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 01:14 AM
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Are you in shape? Business/money in order? Then she's into you and wants sex from you. This cannot be my story. I've been doing weights and cardio for 4 years now (as said before, I'm at 74kg@180 approx 15% b.f). She has commented on occasions how good I look. Money is good. We own a place and are moving into a bigger place soon. It's the confidence that I haven't had before. And I've been fully BP for years thinking that's what she wanted. I can feel some changes. I now don't feel so anxious ab…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 08:08 AM
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be aware of starfishing I literally cannot remember the last time she didn't starfish. Years, at least.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 02:02 AM
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It seems like you asked her what her to open up to you, then criticized when she did so. Her reply is probably just a coverup for her feelings at the time. I guess I didn't see it that way at the time. I explicitly asked about sexual fantasies, and was expecting a response involving... you know.. sex. But instead 99% of the time the fantasy did not involve sex at all. This was confusing to me. why did you pick a dream that had her in it? Hot wife. Why would I not? My answer would be to reduce al…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 01:12 AM
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"Happy life, happy wife right?" I blame this meme, in a large part, for my gradual decline in metal health over the course of my marriage. The doctors hand out the pills, but the real fix cannot be made through prescription. PS The version I got from everyone was reversed. "Happy wife, happy life". Not sure if reversal of antecedent and consequent is important here though.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 11:05 PM
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Also, don't get hung up on turning the sex around if your sexual market value isn't up to par - you'll get better return on your attempts later, after you've added some muscle and removed some fat. This is all a bit nebulous for me at the moment. She has had two children, eats quite a lot of junk, watches tv and plays games on the ipad a lot, does little physical exercise. I've been hitting the gym 4-5 days a week for 3 1/2 years and am now noticing random women's attention to me. (Last measurem…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 04:33 AM
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Perhaps the convert contract in my mind is: If my wife is happy, then we should have sex. I guess I've never seen it like that before.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 04:14 AM
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Ummm, like what? Are you passing tests? Not consistently, but I'm becoming more aware of them. I have passed more in the last few weeks than probably over the 10 years before that. Are you visibly improving in multiple areas of your life? Are you taking control of the things you're supposed to own? Work's better, my motivation is better, talking more confidently to people at social events, going out and doing more, taking more control over issues at home. So I'd like to think so. And do you thin…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 04:04 AM
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Again, it comes down to history. She cannot/will not do that. Sex for her seems to be some kind of inverted pendulum balancing game (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inverted_pendulum). So many freaking variables to control just to not have her anxious about doing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 12:04 PM
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I have been re-examining my entire life pre and post marriage since I have realized I have been a career beta. What amazes me most as I reflect on the miserable times in my marriage, is that several times my wife literally was overtly begging me to pass her shit tests. She has actually said to me more than once "If you just responded to me with some humor when i say X to you instead of getting upset, I would realize I was saying something I shouldn't and I would stop". I was just too butthurt an…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 11:33 PM
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Does she often say things like "you're a fucking loser"? Usually words like "arsehole", "bastard", "idiot" and (one I've come to laugh at) "toad" to name but a few, prefaced by some colourful adjectives, come out once a cycle for a few days, sometimes a week. I'm pretty convinced that this event was PMS related as the whole tone of things has suddenly changed over the course of two days. When her siblings get together (on the rare occasions that happens) they actually talk to each other like thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 11:03 PM
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Been doing that for many years now and I actually really enjoy it. I find it a great way to escape from nonsense.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 10:41 PM
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Well, it's good to know that my anger in the moment isn't just some psychological dysfunction.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 04:29 AM
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I've read all of NMMNG and I am a couple of chapters into WISNIFG. She wasn't always like this, but after kids it seems to happen more and more. I've had an army of child health nurses sit me aside and tell me that I have to put up with it and do everything she says because "she's exhausted". This place is probably the only forum that I have found to date that goes against that advise. At the moment the difference between a shit-test and disrespect is a blurry line for me to draw. Some of the sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 04:28 AM
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