ashchelle Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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15	Red Pill “Bad Boy/Nice Guy” Dynamic There are a lot of women who have experienced trauma in some capacity so I think "bad guy vibes" are essentially replicating that trauma for those women which is why it's reported as having a lot success. I think the shift from bad guy to good guy is more about them healing their trauma and realizing that bad guys are just recreating their trauma bonds. When you've done the work, you realize you don't want a bad guy, you want someone stable and loving. I don't think it's about settling. I think …	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/23 10:56 AM
1	How bad is fresh n fit? Are they ruining masculinity? I thought RSD rebranded as FnF? Maybe I'm confusing my toxic PUA/ RP groups. Their toxicity is so similar. Hard to keep them straight.	/r/ExRedPill	11/11/23 11:27 PM
1	How bad is fresh n fit? Are they ruining masculinity? It's a rebrand so they can distance themselves from their bad PR and international criminal acts.	/r/ExRedPill	11/11/23 06:00 AM
2	Listening to red pill podcasts made me incredible insecure It's good to be aware of the toxicity that exists out there so you can protect yourself. Be mindful of the tactics they tout so you can watch out for them and avoid being manipulated. Don't internalize what they say though. If your boyfriend isn't playing mind games and you leave your interactions with him feeling good/happy/energetic then I see no reason to suffer by self-inflicting this red pill mindset on your relationship. When you start feeling like he's playing games or that you're being d…	/r/ExRedPill	09/11/23 04:36 AM
21	Help, I’ve been 100% redpilled as a woman but if that’s what men believe then it really doesn’t matter what I think about it, since they are the ones deciding what they value in women. It does matter though. Relationships are two way streets. What you value and what you think about this topic matters. You're giving away your power in this situation. The point of this philosophy is to essentially put you down so you settle for garbage/abusive treatment. You don't deserve that.	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/23 05:15 AM
1	“Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountable notice how when you anger a woman, You mean treating someone rudely and insulting them? Yes, anger is a normal response to that behavior. Reviews your previous comments she says is you must be an incel Yeah, comment is definitely on brand for r/incel. No ad hominem here sir. Just someone on the internet acting like a twat and being appropriately called out for it while they play the victim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 04:53 AM
23	Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard. Don't forget that women get blamed when guys treat them badly and discard them after sex. But a woman who has any boundaries gets harangued because "I'm not like those men" or "she hit a wall so I shouldn't have to try as hard!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 03:54 PM
43	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? For you to enjoy the very safe and sheltered life that you currently have, the system requires children, because children consume and grow up to be producers that consume. They also pay into a monetary system that needs to be fed. This monetary system would collapse if consumption decreases. Thus, it is of utmost importance that humans within your country reproduce. You've basically described capitalism as an inter-generational MLM scheme. The system is breaking. Perhaps once it is completely br…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 05:26 AM
84	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? Our world is dying because we can't be bothered to take care of it. Why is it such a bad thing for us to have less people on the planet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 03:14 AM
6	Why go through a hoe phase instead of getting an LTR? You should edit your post then...	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 08:31 PM
1	I dated an objective 9/10 girl for a year and now don't feel I'll ever get a girl that hot again. Need advice. You're referencing finances but how did you make her feel vs him? Do you have specific examples? While you reference different careers, I'm wondering if there is some personality archetype going on in the background that isn't being explained. What did he do differently? How was he emotionally unavailable? I recognize that intermittent "relationship dosing" / emotionally unavailable relationship schedules can be neurologically addicting so how is it that he had contact with her while you were da…	/r/seduction	12/02/22 09:07 AM
6	I dated an objective 9/10 girl for a year and now don't feel I'll ever get a girl that hot again. Need advice. I felt this happened because of the history they had together rather than some mistake on my part. Something tells me that you weren't a better partner than her ex bc you were so focused on her looks. If they were together that long, did she have a glow up during their relationship where he was with her before she was considered ridiculously good looking?	/r/seduction	11/02/22 09:32 AM
6	Is it realistic for a guy like me (24m) to invest on a long term commitment with a woman and hope it works out if she is more educated, has a higher paying career, and is 3-5 years older if I meet all the standards except for those on education and income? It's totally possible! I have a friend who has a master's in nursing and she is married to a guy who has a "blue collar" job. They have been happily married for 10 ish years and have a kid together. What sorts of things do you talk to these women about? Are you interested in trying to learn about their day and what they do? Do you brush them off instead of asking questions if you don't understand something they're talking about? That's the only thing I can think of that might be impeding things …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 07:25 AM
3	FEMCELS Good bot	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/21 07:17 AM
1	CMV: Most of the assumptions people make with regard to dating and dating etiquette are baseless and mostly show a lack of discerning ability on their part. Glad to see you completely ignored my previous comment where I stated plural partners who were shorter than me and then distilled that into OnE BaD CoMMeNT that I suffered from. You literally proved my point. I shouldn't have to be subjected to any bad comments from a partner when I'm supportive of them and tell the man that I don't care about height. I am not a verbal punching bag. Taller men usually don't have a dating profile that is thoughtfully put together so I don't usually swipe on them …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 07:19 AM
1	CMV: Most of the assumptions people make with regard to dating and dating etiquette are baseless and mostly show a lack of discerning ability on their part. Maybe short guys need to pull themselves up by their bootstraps and start policing themselves accordingly so that they aren't creating these kinds of bad reputations for short men. /s Why should women continue to subject themselves to shitty treatment for something they can't change (their height)? The irony is not lost on me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 06:44 AM
0	CMV: Most of the assumptions people make with regard to dating and dating etiquette are baseless and mostly show a lack of discerning ability on their part. Also women get raked over the coals for riding the "cock carousel" so why should they put out within the first few dates?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 06:29 AM
1	CMV: Most of the assumptions people make with regard to dating and dating etiquette are baseless and mostly show a lack of discerning ability on their part. It is not mine. However, when I did date shorter men I was barraged with comments about my footwear being too tall (even when wearing flats) and with some partners even insisting that I alter my posture to appear shorter. At this point I consider myself harassed by enough former shorter dates that I will no longer consider dating someone who is more than an inch shorter than I am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 06:26 AM
3	Why do women think the bar is set low meanwhile men think it’s set high ? Consent optional!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 01:04 AM
33	Betabuxing is literally splitting up your money, being the sole provider. So basically the women have to be passively wealthy in order to "win" this double bind.... 🙄	/r/ExRedPill	18/07/21 06:15 AM
3	[CMV] Red Pill is an elaborate ritual to gain self esteem but ultimately a placebo 😱 it's almost like women have individual preferences and drawing generalizations about a single gender doesn't work!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 09:25 PM
3	Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships. I think that's why I love kintsugi art. The breakage and repair is part of our history and makes/shapes us into who we are now. Glad you are better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/20 07:37 PM
2	Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships. I'm sorry you went through that pain. I hope you're doing better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/20 06:47 PM
16	What is hypergamy and why is it such a thing among trp? Is there a male version of this term? It seems like they're satisfied with being able to do the male version of hypergamy for themselves but are upset when women do it?	/r/ExRedPill	08/04/20 06:21 AM
2	Red Pill men think that other men are better than they are, AND they think women think other men are higher value as well. I'm open to hearing actual scientific discussion. It never hurts to see if there is actually a repository of scientific information I might have missed. So far no dice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/20 04:53 AM
1	Red Pill men think that other men are better than they are, AND they think women think other men are higher value as well. No I did not conflate anything. I'm spelling out the same origination story that I see over and over again of men who are drawn to RP philosophy. Are you gatekeeping RP by saying only those who truly internalize the teachings can call themselves RP? My experience of TRP subreddit is that you can read about red pill and not fully internalize what red pill is. That is most of the proselytizing I see there. "You aren't truly red pill unless you do x, y, z." A similar equivalent would be saying you'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/20 04:49 AM
1	Red Pill men think that other men are better than they are, AND they think women think other men are higher value as well. I've tried to date shorter guys that I thought were attractive, and they were the ones who treated my height as the issue. I'm sorry you feel like you aren't able to find someone. My hope is that people will find someone to love and be loved by. We all deserve that. Sending well wishes to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/20 01:09 AM
2	Where does TRP stand as a matter of science? Maybe it works because you've learned not to care about the no's and keep cycling through people until you get the yes. How you get to the yes uses various PUA tools that are a spectrum of more or less aggressive/assertive practices. Then you see what sticks? Rinse repeat until you lose sight of the humanity of the women/men you interact with? Continue until they just become objectified "plates" that contribute to your pull stats and justify it all with anecdotal evidence or dubious science? At …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/20 04:21 AM
1	Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women? I don't necessarily consider anecdotal evidence to be concrete. I think you can argue that statistically OkCupid and Tinder are capturing men "casting a wide net" to see what they can catch via OLD. Literally every guy I know just swipes right on every woman on these dating platforms and then they filter according to who they match with. These types of swipers are conflating the data. Women don't swipe like this. (In my experience). What you're capturing is swiping methods essentially. It doesn'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/20 07:03 PM
0	Another woman that waited until her mid life crisis to have kids. Where are all the nice guys for this 46 year old with a toddler? What kind of men want to date uneducated women? How would a worthy woman show or build intelligence if she isn't educated? Is the idea that the woman prioritizes finding a partner first before finding an education as long as it isn't prioritized over the relationship? How does one dedicate their life appropriately to finding a partner? How does one obtain an appropriate partner? I see so much focus on looks here that I would want to know what keeps the men in this subreddit committed to their wi…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/12/19 05:14 AM