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How was everyone’s Halloween? I got tied up working till almost 9 pm. Never even got to carve my pumpkin.🎃 Its life has been extended another month as it will now be a Thanksgiving decoration.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:57 AM
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Your post has been removed for being a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:44 AM
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Yes, the internet gives activists a stronger voice and a wider outreach. This extends to extremists as well. But, any major religion is anti-woman, and for thousands of years nobody thought that was an issue. Many still don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:18 AM
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That is one way of putting it. Another way would be they are fighting back against systems and cultures that have historically relegated women to be second class citizens, expected to be subservient to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:13 AM
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Your post has been removed for being a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:10 AM
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I don’t think it’s so sudden. You’re just starting to be more aware of it. There’s been a sort of gender Cold War going on since before women got the vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:46 PM
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And in junior high I thought all I needed to do to become pretty and popular was to replace my nerd glasses with contact lenses. 8th grade was certainly a disappointment - and a learning experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:46 PM
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One might suggest you sought attention by posting this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:44 PM
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And I was deceived into believing there are squirrels living at the bottom of the ocean!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:44 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:41 AM
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I don't think you can attribute human motives to birds. The cuckoo isn't evil; it's just doing what cuckoos have evolved to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:40 AM
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I love iPhones. Macs, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:28 AM
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That's like saying a bird is evil for flying or a fish is evil for swimming. Though I might suspect some sort sorcery if I saw an ostrich flying...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:23 AM
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I usually don’t like the “pumpkin spice” trendiness but pumpkin spice cinnamon rolls sound amazing. Do you use a cream cheese frosting or drizzle? I think it sounds like it would pair well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:44 AM
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Thank you! I’ve missed this place, honestly. It’s one of the few subs that feels like a real community, at least one that I would want to spend, oh, hours a day with while working from home (ahem).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:42 AM
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I didn’t actually want to know, you realize. I just wanted to grouse about using condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:26 AM
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I know, I feel bad about missing so much around here but we lost our director and our office manager (we work from home so they should change this name) over the summer, plus 2 other staff, and I was the next senior staff person left. So basically I had to impersonate those 2 roles plus do my actual job while also recruiting and hiring my future supervisors. Not to mention the usual life and family business - aging parents, husband, kid, etc. We finally have a director and it looks like we are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:18 AM
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Sure, and others of us are allergic to latex as well. Sure, you can buy polyurethane condoms instead, but they are less effective and also more likely to break. Well, nobody ever said life is risk free.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:08 AM
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Women on Reddit don’t even always agree with each other in lockstep, why would you think we would be representative of women as a whole? We aren’t even representative of each other in all cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:42 AM
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Yes. My extended family is its own peculiar brand of Irish Catholic family values and staunch liberalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:36 AM
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Different from whom? My 30 year old cousin is also a feminist with 4 kids - twins that came prematurely and were inadvertently born at home, and 2 singletons, normal births, no problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:33 AM
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For most of human history women died almost routinely from childbirth so at least medical technology has gotten better - till Republicans find ways to legislate those advances away, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:30 AM
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My mom actually had 3 but one passed at birth. He was a boy. Placenta previa. The same thing happened with my birth but they managed to keep me alive. My sister is 2 years younger and her birth had no such issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:22 AM
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How have you been?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:17 AM
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But you did say they “don’t want kids”, not “are putting off having kids.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:16 AM
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My mother and her 3 sisters are all feminists. My mom and her middle sister had 2 kids a piece, eldest had 3 and youngest has 4. I just have the one kid, but not for lack of trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:15 AM
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Ooh, fun! I’ve always wanted to go to Salem MA.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:12 AM
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If you really, really don’t want kids, which is how I phrased it, why would you want to reverse it? Edit: I had an IUD for 7 years. I loved it. No periods, no fuss, no muss. Until the little sucker got loose and meandered up into my uterus and had to be removed in a horribly painful procedure that made me pass out, piss myself, and throw up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:07 AM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:47 AM
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And there are a dozen or more methods of preventing babies besides condoms. Half the fun of an LTR is not having to use condoms anymore. If you are having casual sex, sure, condoms make sense. In a marriage, I’d rather go bareback and use something longer lasting like an IUD or an implant. And if you really, really never want kids, there are tubal ligations and vasectomies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:42 AM
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What even is the point of getting married if you still have to use condoms every time?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:27 AM
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Carving a pumpkin, buying candy “for trick-or-treaters” and then eating it myself because we never get any trick-or-treaters in our gated building, mortifying my dog by dressing him up and walking him around the neighborhood checking out all the decorations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:24 AM
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Hello, my darlings! How are things with the purple folk? Getting ready for Halloween? Started your Christmas shopping yet? Picked out your turkey for Thanksgiving? Anything exciting happening around these parts?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:22 AM
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Nobody has ever argued that looks don’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:13 AM
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Actors sometimes receive death threats and often attract stalkers. A few have been killed by their stalkers. I would not be so quick to dismiss the danger in their shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:47 PM
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Not bullshit. The same thing happened with the kid who played Joffrey on Game of Thrones. Rabid fans will rabid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:41 PM
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Usually the inverse tropes are the hot but dumb wife or the plain and angry shrew wife, not the inconsiderate jerk wife. Maybe you should write a screenplay and invent a new sub-genre.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:40 PM
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Yes, nothing too awful going on but just too much of it at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:36 PM
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From about the time mine was 2, we would take turns hosting a sleepover on Friday nights. When they were younger it was 3-4 kids. I think my biggest was teens and 16 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:32 PM
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I exchanged baby sitting weekends with friends when mine was that age. It was the 90s though, which was a simpler time I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:36 PM
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Life's been tearing me in multiple directions the last month or two. What have I missed, other than the regulars and the age gap/N count discussions?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:34 PM
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Congrats! And happy birthday!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:31 PM
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90% of the time I don't find them particularly attractive. And even on the rare occasion I do find them attractive, they are strictly off limits. Even if they happen to break up, I would be inclined to steer clear of my friends' exes, since I like my friends and would like to keep them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:26 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:39 PM
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Your clients are legal defendants, they probably should be crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:52 PM
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iPhone 13 Pro.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:49 PM
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Children are killed by their own fathers in slightly greater numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:39 PM
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I would and I am with a partner that makes less money than me. I would not intentionally get into a relationship with someone who is unemployed unless he has some other means of supporting himself other than expecting me to do it. That said, at times over the last 10 years he has been on disability or unemployment. I took on the bulk of our expenses during those times because that is what you do for each other in a marriage. If he just didn’t want to work though, it would be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:41 AM
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I just bake mine in the oven.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:42 PM
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The paradox of being a woman - we are capable of multiple orgasms but very often do not even have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:40 PM
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A real departure, or a declaration of a departure and she’ll be back in a few days?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:04 AM
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I’d love to make us both 20 years younger but otherwise no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:52 AM
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Adjusted for age, I would say yes. Probably one of the people I have had sex with that I would say is out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:17 AM
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That sounds like it must have been fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:12 AM
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Have had to focus on work and family stuff of late. What have I missed? The usual age gap and N count threads, I assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:54 AM
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It might be the Special K. It can cause stomach problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:09 AM
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They just happen because you meet someone and they think you are worthy of their time and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:12 PM
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I’m the farthest thing from extroverted and I have social anxiety, but I still have a wide circle of friends. The trick is to get an extrovert to take pity on you and adopt you. Then all their friends become your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:11 PM
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I’m always able to find my husband’s misplaced stuff, my kid’s stuff, my dad’s stuff. While at the same time searching the house all over for my phone - which is probably in my pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:37 AM
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If you are a decent person, people will want to be your friend anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:34 AM
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I feel like that about pizza. I used to love it. When I had children in my house all the time we had pizza probably once a week. After I became an empty nester pizza kind of dropped off my radar - I think I was finally sick of pizza. Yesterday I had it for the first time in probably a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:43 PM
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I don't know if I would say "not loving you enough". Your parents can love you wholeheartedly but just not have the means to give you college and a down payment. I think it's more the guidance, care, and emotional support you received from them than the financial backing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:40 PM
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How is that relevant? Yeah, if someone was an asshole to another person I would probably tell them not to be one. And I would console the recipient of the insult with pretty much what I said, perhaps a little softer in person than on an anonymous forum but the basic message. Don’t let the shitty remarks made by an asshole make you feel bad about yourself. I get insulted on PPD all the time. And you people can’t even see me, but I’m apparently a Karen, a land whale, old and out of touch, a blue h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:48 PM
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Toys are great for that. And these days you don’t need to walk into, or be seen walking into a seedy sex shop to buy them like you did when I was in my 20s. You can just order them online. If you have Amazon Prime they will arrive the next day in discreet packaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:46 AM
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She was indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:34 AM
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I love a good sliced baguette with cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:51 AM
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If I there was no exclusivity a paternity test seems reasonable. Or if she has cheated or otherwise behaved in an untrustworthy fashion. Or if you make it clear before pregnancy is even a consideration that you will want a paternity test. If I was a faithful wife and we were actively trying to conceive, i would be less amenable. I would feel insulted, and hurt, and like my relationship had serious issues. I would also suspect that if projecting because he himself cheated. But that is just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:59 PM
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In France, bread is pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:51 PM
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I don’t eat a lot of pork, but if I have to eat pork then pork chops are the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:50 PM
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No they don’t. They signify pessimism and often, a lack of interest in self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:53 PM
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They are all too young for me, but #3 is probably closest my age so probably that one if I had to pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:49 PM
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Not so much lie, but there are things I have not mentioned that are objectively true but it would serve no purpose to tell him except to hurt him or antagonize him. So I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:31 PM
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It’s a little more light hearted and risqué than PPD. I think PPD has a stronger community though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:07 PM
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Insults are never polite. They are meant to hurt you, not to validate you. You cam shrug them off, laugh at them because they inaccurate, or fully embrace them and agree (which is what I do when someone calls me a bitch). But you should not let them feed your insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:41 PM
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You have clearly never seen my comments on the ARAD sub. I am more worried about her seeing those than the ones I make here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:12 PM
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The first time it was because somebody connected personal details in her comments to my comments referencing her. We both nuked those accounts. I had over 300k karma, sniff. This time it was entirely my fault. I told her about a post here, she read it, and accurately identified which PPD miscreant I am through my comments in that post and also the user name is based on a slightly different family joke reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:10 PM
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My kid figured out who I am on Reddit again. She needs to stop doing that. I would block her but I don’t know her user name. Last time I had to go into the witness protection program and change my identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:45 PM
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I’m also upset that it is high in calories and a serving size is tiny. But it activates the same pleasure centers in the brain as opiates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:35 PM
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If I was only allowed to eat one thing for the rest of my life it would be cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:26 PM
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Hopefully that is all it was. I would hate to never be able to go to that liquor store again because I creeped him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:56 PM
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I thought I was being selective. He was not someone I would realistically hit on, he is younger than my kid. But then I started thinking that maybe he does not know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:53 PM
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I'm trying to be better at it. As much as I can't shut up on PPD, I'm pretty quiet in person. I'm often busy listening to my internal monologue and am oblivious to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:56 PM
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He knows me, kinda. Not by name or anything but he works at the liquor store where my husband buys his cigarettes. His dad owns the store, and the owner and my husband are friends, of a sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:42 PM
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Just wondering about it. He seemed caught off guard but said thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:39 PM
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My job is work from home, not work from fishing boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:02 PM
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Me. I’ve been busy and not on the sub much this weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:00 PM
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Men complain on here that women never compliment men so yesterday I complimented a guy on his long curly hair. It really was great hair. But afterwards I had to wonder if this 22-25 year old was appreciative of being complimented or if he was creeped out that some middle aged lady was hitting on him. I wasn’t, mind you. But a lot of men do think a woman complimenting him is hitting on them. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:59 PM
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Yes. Sometimes I will read him headlines or excerpts. He calls it “the place AstronautLoveShack goes to argue with people.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:55 PM
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The parties got bigger every year, that is for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:05 PM
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Do it, if it’s cool with your parents! My daughter was born a few days before new years and her birthday parties were generally slumber parties held on Dec 31, so that the parents of the other kids could have the night to themselves. In the morning we’d have a waffle bar - Eggo’s, if the party was well attended, with toppings like syrup and chocolate syrup and whipped cream and ice cream and strawberries and sprinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:46 PM
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I only have that preference because I have only rarely seen uncircumcised in the wild. Just about all the men of my generation were routinely circumcised, it seems. However I’d had a son, I would not have circumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:12 PM
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I would not date a man in the military regardless. I would thank him profusely for his service but I am not interested in that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:08 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:06 PM
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I’d like to skip ahead to next spring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:06 PM
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What is one sided?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:18 AM
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Half the expenses, all of the cooking, a killer cheesecake recipe, and enthusiastic blowjobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:05 AM
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I used to when I was single. I had a dog so I wasn’t too worried about being bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:20 AM
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She didn’t actually. She got all her money through hard work, talent, and skill. She bought her house and business with the money she made through costume design. My dad never had much and all she asked for in the divorce was custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:48 PM
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I sort by new on PPD and I sort by rising on the main Reddit page.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:40 PM
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Military and police are on my list too. And bartenders. A lot of them are raging alcoholics, they are surrounded by drunk members of the opposite sex, and they often get tipped in drugs. Despite all this I did marry a bartender, but only after he could no longer drink due to illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:14 PM
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Unpossible. I am a figment of your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:38 PM
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They know who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:06 PM
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I like the maiasaura, but of those choices probably the triceratops.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:35 PM
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I have a job, thank you. If I wait more than 3 it is because he hasn't convinced me he is worth fucking, and there probably want be a 4th opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:44 PM
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Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:17 PM
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If he tries to get with me too soon, I will assume it’s a pump and dump and dip.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:16 PM
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All the more reason not to sleep with a guy too soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:12 PM
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I would rather be going to a rave than a jazz festival, but I can't get into a rave and drink for free so it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:11 PM
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You can easily measure a penis for length and girth. I'm not sure how you would do width and depth on a vagina, they can stretch enough to expel a baby after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:34 PM
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Basically, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:30 PM
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Humor Love of learning Curiosity Appreciation of beauty and excellence Honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:28 PM
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I like the bunny jumping over the crescent moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:10 PM
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Going to a jazz festival thingy that Mr LoveShack is working later this afternoon. am not a huge jazz fan but I am a fan of free drinks, so off I go.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:09 PM
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Perhaps your lack of interest in her orgasm and desire for sex to be done in 5 minutes is a contributing factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:57 PM
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Their own words on PPD. "High N count women are for sex only, not commitment". "Men will fuck a landwhale but they will not commit to her." And other such remarks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:52 PM
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On the bright side, he doesn't have to pay child support, am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:50 PM
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This is one of my favorite shots of him. It's almost flirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:46 PM
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Men absolutely do not always commit if sex is involved, but they will take the sex regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:45 PM
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A friend of mine got married in a destination wedding in 2012. I went and had a lovely time. She had a reception locally a few months later. I had just had my hair done at a salon, I was wearing a pretty new dress and shoes, and was single and ready to mingle. I was also only recently out of a 4-year celibate spell. The reception was like a reunion of everybody I had ever befriended since 1992. It was great. Loved seeing everyone,it was held at a friend's bar, and the music was from one of our f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:33 PM
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Cheese and crackers. I would eat it every day if I could, but eventually you need to succumb and eat a vegetable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:51 PM
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I can achieve multiple orgasms from penetration, but not with a guy who doesn't want to go to pound town for more than 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:41 PM
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Haven't lost interest in mine, but he cares if I get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:37 PM
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So you don’t enjoy having sex and want it done as quickly as possible? As a woman who enjoys sex and has no issues with orgasming, that sounds boring. And disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:39 PM
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Not fashion trends, but they would know what is appropriate for certain occasions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:04 PM
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It's their job to teach you proper hygiene, proper etiquette, how to dress and style yourself presentably. Those things may not technically how to attract a partner, but they are components of attracting a partner nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:56 PM
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Speak for yourself, my mom's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:57 PM
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His mother is the same way. Thinks physical illness is a mental weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:59 PM
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At least that sounds potentially fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:41 PM
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When I was 22 and pregnant with morning sickness, my similarly-aged ex-husband informed me it was all in my head and the morning sickness was psychosomatic. I should have thrown up on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:31 PM
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Or Lake Titicaca.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:01 PM
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I would not be with a man who abandoned his own children. A stepfather, or an adoptive or foster father (assuming the foster father is in it because he cares and not for the money which some people really do), is generally someone who cares about children, or at least the children under his care. How could you not prefer that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:37 PM
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Would you mind sharing a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:32 PM
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Have you done Taurus? If so I missed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:22 PM
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A lot of manchildren also believed they needed a PS5. I don’t care, it’s their money, but it was eye roll inducing when many of them bitched online about how hard it was to get one and how the PS5 should be reserved for “serious” players only (which apparently excludes female gamers).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:58 AM
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I think she’s just so pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:54 AM
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Is he sitting in an old gum tree?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:54 AM
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Oh honey, no, no men don’t. They think they do, but then they say something dumb about pregnancy or periods and prove they very much know much less than they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:38 AM
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Most of my male friends are average men and all of them are married or in serious relationships. There are 3 men in my unit at work - one is married and the other 2 have girlfriends. The ones that I know that are single are mostly single by design, and the ones that aren’t are mostly over 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:41 PM
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No, when I get hungry I get hypoglycemia and turned into a ragey demon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:53 PM
1

I wanted 3 but I am satisfied with the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:52 PM
1

No but you should have seen the amazing rat’s nest on my head that I woke up to yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:50 PM
1

My musical obsession for this week is Ren. I'm late to the party, but he is playing on all of my streaming devices right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:00 PM
4

I haven't the foggiest idea. I conceived the usual way. Other than the cost of the alcohol that night, it was free.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:32 PM
1

Who wouldn't take a warthog home from the bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:12 PM
4

You actually can have kids at 40. You can conceive naturally, or do IVF, or freeze your eggs to use later. I know a lot of women who conceived 40-47 years of age. I personally would not want to have babies that late, but I had mine at 22 and was done with childrearing by 40ish. It was nice to finally relax and also to still have the energy to go out and have fun, which I may not have had if I became an empty nester at 60+.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:28 PM
5

People are having children later in general. And in this current economy I absolutely do not blame them. In 1992 I rented a 2-story duplex for $600. Studios where I live are now between 1200-1500.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:31 PM
4

Knowing what a clitoris is and how it works will put you worlds above a hefty percentage of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:40 PM
5

Most women want love and children. It's more difficult and more expensive to be a single mom than a partnered one. Since the window of fertility is shorter for women, they want the commitment (symbolic of the love) so they can get to the children part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:32 PM
5

It is in fact harder to get a woman off than a man, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:29 PM
2

To be good in bed, but you still need to know how to kiss. The kissing is what she will need to get turned on enough to want you anywhere near her clitoris.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:04 PM
1

Serviceable is not the same as great. But kissing is a very important part of being physically intimate with your partner so yeah, that helps a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:55 PM
2

All that is required for a man to be good in bed is knowing where the clitoris is, and not being afraid to touch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:30 PM
2

My standards for looks were never that high to begin with, because I am able to differentiate between movie stars, fictional characters, and regular people. Also, while I've been told I'm cute or pretty, realistically I was never going to be Homecoming Queen or Miss America, and I'm all too aware of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:04 PM
1

Just upvoted you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:16 PM
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I’m sexually liberated enough. I’ve had a pretty great sex life overall. I tend to be nonjudgmental about kinks and such, even if they aren’t kinks I share or understand. However, some things are just impossible not to judge. Pedophilia, bestiality, necrophilia all deserve to be judged. The scat fetishes I judge. Extreme sadomasochism with permanent scarring. Stuff like that I will judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:56 PM
6

Hitting on women is not creepy in and of itself. Black pill will say that women only call unattractive men creepy but this is definitely not the case. Look at Armie Hammer. Dude is creepy. It’s how you hit on them that can be creepy - maybe you make overly sexual remarks, maybe you invade her personal space, maybe when talking to her you gaze at her breasts instead of looking at her face, maybe you touch her inappropriately. Or send her cannibalistic messages like our good friend Armie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:52 PM
16

I think it is a combination. Men can cum pretty easily comparatively speaking from PIV or BJs whereas women are more likely to cum from clitoral stimulation. So part physiological. Many woman also have to be in the right headspace for sex, so that part is psychological. All that said, men are often inclined to skip foreplay and get right to the sexxing. Doing so ignores the physiological and psychological needs of women. As we have already discussed, many women don’t cum from PIV the way most me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:43 PM
1

🎊🎉🍾🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:35 PM
1

Love Rage Against the Machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:34 PM
1

I get downvoted all the time. I’m sure it’s because certain people here hate me, but I have noticed also that it is very easy to down or vote someone accidentally while scrolling Reddit. So a few of the downvotes might be innocent mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:33 PM
1

Sure, anybody can claim to be anything they want on Reddit. Wish I’d thought of it before admitting to being me. I could have told people I was a wealthy 20 year old Stacy or something instead of copping to being a 50 year old middle class dweeb.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:13 PM
2

We have a chaise lounge kind of thing in the bedroom that I sit on for those purposes. It puts me right at the right level, and doesn’t hurt my knees as much as kneeling on a hardwood floor would.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:59 AM
2

Our proposal took place at a sushi restaurant at lunch time. And then I had to do back to work. He had paid off the ring on layaway that morning and didn’t want to wait. There was no kneeling. But we got free celebratory cocktails from the staff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:53 AM
2

Some of these dudes think having to leave their house is dancing like a monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:25 AM
1

I think a year counts as long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:22 AM
2

I went in 1998. I was disinclined to return.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:22 AM
0

If you do get more copies, you can always set them aside and regift them at someone else’s baby shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:02 AM
1

Have you read What to Expect When You’re Expecting? At least 3 people will gift your copies of it in the next 9 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:50 PM
1

I'm in my 50s so the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:00 PM
1

This is why I prefer erotica.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:32 PM
1

I've never watched hentai but I've heard stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:22 PM
1

Did it involve electrocuting women or holding a gun to their heads? Those are the two creepiest I recall seeing. Some deep-seated sadism there. Talk about your ick, I got it right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:19 PM
1

I've dated men who watch porn and I can assure you some of the stuff they were watching were creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:12 PM
1

I think that recognizing that you are struggling and seeking help for it is a sign of strength, not softness. Softness would be not seeking help when you are struggling because you are too ashamed, or embarrassed, or afraid of looking week.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:21 PM
1

Can't help it, I've worked from home the last 3 years and I have no life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:00 PM
1

Because left leaning blue pillers are more likely to see a medical professional when they are sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:59 PM
1

Rudy Giuliani married his first cousin, you two crazy cousins could work it out!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:02 PM
1

Ew, I’ll just stay poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:01 PM
1

Unless you inherit from your wealthy family, you’ll need to spend some time at work to get that money. Or you can spend time inventing something the world never knew it desperately needed, and become rich that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:48 PM
1

Who would even have the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:22 PM
2

Mine’s avoidant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:15 PM
1

So did I.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:15 PM
1

Have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:14 PM
1

I’m pretty liberal but I can see shades of gray on many things. Things like racism, sexism, or homophobia, not so much, though I will sometimes try and understand that they don’t know any better if it’s a boomer or older.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:13 PM
1

Right? My girl child had License to Ill and Hello Nasty when she was 4 or 5. I don’t know what was up with that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:08 PM
5

A bigger bathroom, bigger kitchen, and a dishwasher.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:42 AM
2

The most important meal of the week!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:55 AM
1

Thank you! And you as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:39 AM
1

Ooookay, Creepy McCreeperson.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:23 AM
2

My mom would buy me wine coolers to drink during Miami Vice in high school and she bought me a bottle of champagne for my 16th birthday. I had to share my champagne with the rest of the family though. She didn't care if we drank as long as we weren't stupid about it and as long as we didn't lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:11 AM
1

So cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:01 AM
3

I would rather go out for brunch than dinner any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:00 AM
1

Frownie face. We just went to a nice restaurant, had brunch and got a little fucked up, then went to my dad's to drop him off and get a little more fucked up. Nothing creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:59 AM
1

What do you drink with your mama?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:54 AM
2

Kids are great! I'm biased toward oldest kids too, having been one... your kids sounds awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:54 AM
1

Runner's high is the best. I can't run these days. I hope a horror movie villain never chases me, I'd be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:46 AM
2

Aw, thanks! I wish I could have done better by her, but she is a stellar adult and I would be proud and honored to know her, even if she were not my kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:44 AM
2

Yes. Instead of wishing I had other children, I like to think I got it right the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:35 AM
3

It was! Mimosas with my only child are never a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:34 AM
1

I assume #1, but often there are nonverbal clues that a man is looking for more than just an innocent conversation. In those cases it depends on (a) if I am in a relationship or single, and (b) assuming I'm single, it will depend if I am attracted to him. If I am not interested, I pretend he wants an innocent conversation even if I am picking up signs that he wants more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:32 AM
1

I feel like I did do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:17 AM
3

People all downvoting my motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:16 AM
6

Just got home from brunch and an epic "after party" with my dad and daughter. I'm a little drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:15 AM
5

Sexually, Pros: youngish and very little refractory period. Cons: Wanted to try all the stuff in porn and thought women could squirt on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:51 PM
1

My husband and I both sleep with our dog. He’s only 10 lbs though so no need for any creepy bestiality thoughts thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:46 PM
2

Yes. I was 22. She is 29 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:45 PM
1

I was single and had been celibate 4 years. One day around 40, a 30-year old asked me out. I wasn’t that attracted but it was flattering to my middle aged ego and it had been so long since I went on dates, let alone had sex. So I gave it a whirl. Didn’t work out. I felt more like his mother than his girlfriend. I had a career and a nearly adult child; he was still in college and lived with his mother. He didn’t get my culture references. He did not appreciate my music. He had never heard of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:41 PM
1

Kind of you to say!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:33 PM
4

I remember when the Stacy’s Mom video came out and my own dad saying repeatedly, “what’s wrong with that kid? Stacy’s a knockout!” and I’ve looked at him side eyed ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:59 PM
1

I am a feminist and have never said men are trash or to kill them. I like men. Without men there would be no penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:54 PM
1

She doesn’t buy your school supplies and clothes? The back to school shopping spree was always an occasion in my family, both as a kid and as a mom. But you should probably go get your assignment done. Don’t want to start the new school year off on the wrong foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:43 PM
1

So is my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:31 PM
1

What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:31 PM
2

The attraction doesn’t crash and burn. The relationship does. If the relationship crashes and burns, I’m not interested in another at this point in my life so bring on the boxed wine and cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:19 PM
3

Wat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:01 AM
2

Working out great for me. And most of my girl friends too!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:48 AM
2

🤷‍♀️ You call it a temper tantrum, I call it standing firm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:33 AM
1

Have half of it boxed when you order. Take it home and eat it for lunch the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:03 AM
1

I hate hubby. It doesn’t even make sense. Husby would make more sense, but it is stupid too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:02 AM
22

I would explain that I turned him down for saying “sweet candy cavern.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:29 AM
2

Imprinting on a newborn that isn’t your own is kind of creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:27 AM
1

No, I just sing along to music fitting my mood at the top of my lungs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:23 PM
3

Not a lot of money in it either, if you are a farm worker and not the owner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:18 PM
2

Does she want to go live in a trailer and be a farmer? We can set them up. I should add that the trailer does not have running water or electricity but there is a shower in the barn.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:27 PM
5

I think you were married to my first husband’s female alter ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:25 PM
1

Subtle burn!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:24 PM
10

Makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:12 PM
1

Which is why I said “a lot” and not “all.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:03 PM
1

Oh please, if a no or low N count man who has never had an attractive woman who wanted him finally got such a woman, he is going to get attached. Maybe not all of them, which is why I said “a lot of those men” and not “all of those men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:31 PM
40

Resentment, frustration, constant fighting. The usual suspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:14 PM
1

A lot of those same men would probably fall instantly in love with a high N count woman if she gave him the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:10 PM
9

I probably would, yeah. I still find men who look like my first husband to be attractive as well, but H1 and H2 look completely different. H2 is objectively hotter though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:06 PM
2

I’m 52 and I have no recollection of that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:52 PM
51

I can’t speak for other women but I was sexually attracted to my partners, up until the relationship started to crash and burn and I no longer wanted them to touch me. And I am definitely sexually attracted to my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:48 PM
2

Parties, gatherings, bars, and the like. But I’ve also met men at school, at work (not the band), a Mexican restaurant, the dog park. Or you can just do online dating if all that sounds like too much work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:26 PM
1

Aw, damn. You already said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:57 PM
1

...the fox say?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:56 PM
8

I'm going to guess liberal man and conservative woman. It worked out for James Carville and Mary Matalin after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:54 PM
1

I googled it and you are correct. TIL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:14 PM
1

That's what does it for me too - the contact lenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:13 PM
1

I have never heard of tearing your clitoris during childbirth. It's the perineum that gets torn, as far as I am aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:10 PM
1

I love it too but it sometimes irritates my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:08 PM
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I'ma upvote you but I disagree with you on the khakis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:07 PM
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Yes, or at least to me it does. There is a place for basketball shorts and a graphic tee in a man's wardrobe, of course. But a man who is a snappy dresser is one that will catch my eye. Even a man who is not conventionally attractive will elevate his status in a well tailored suit, or a sharp looking button down shirt, well fitting pants or jeans, and don't forget great shoes!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:57 PM
1

Buzzfeed Unsolved is fun if you like true crime and other, more supernatural mysteries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:53 PM
1

Thanks so much!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:47 PM
1

Sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:42 PM
2

Nobody says that and marriage adds protections for the husband too. My husband for example benefits from being on my health, dental and vision plan at work, he is entitled to my life insurance, and if I die before he does he will get my retirement. If he had not married me all that money would go to my daughter instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:32 PM
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Stop telling me what I can and can't put in my own comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:30 PM
1

There is nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:15 PM
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Like any 19 year old wants to fuck a 50 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:10 PM
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Yes, as a matter of fact. Every man I dated between 1989 to 2013 was within a year of my own age. My husband is 7 years older, but I was 42 by then and nobody cares what 42 year olds do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:59 PM
1

Looking forward to your Taurus post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:56 PM
1

Billie Eilish is one of my favorite young ingenues. Her parents and brother seem pretty involved and loving with her so hopefully they can manage to keep her well adjusted and off the drugs and self destruction that a lot of young celebrities succumb to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:55 PM
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It's not my problem, per se, but I have empathy and a daughter of my own, so I can't help feeling some kind of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:52 PM
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Legally, yes, they are adults. If you have ever actually lived with a 19-year old as a 40 year old (which I have), it's clear that they still have some growing up to do. Are those 18-21 year olds doing it of their own free will, or were they encouraged by much older boyfriends? Let's take the example of 17 year old Dorothy Stratten, who was wooed by 26 year old Paul Snider. He hired a photographer to take nudes of her, which he sent off to Playboy. At 18 years of age she became Playmate of the y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:44 PM
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I find it an issue because I've seen girls being fucked over by much older men, and I've been made uncomfortable by much older men who think they were entitled to my company. A 19 year old is barely an adult. Probably living with her parents or in a college dorm. She does not have the experience romantically or life-wise of a 40 year old and many of those 40 year olds admit that her lack of maturity is the draw. Having been the mother of a 19-year old, this makes me concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:15 PM
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There is no contradiction. I don't care if men don't want to date me, for my age or for any other reason. Probably the majority of men wouldn't, and that's valid. A select few have been interested and that has been more than enough for me. I do care if a 40 year old takes advantage of a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:05 PM
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That's a lot of words to say "I'm afraid of being divorce raped and I don't love my partner enough to marry her and make sure she has protections in the event of my death."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:58 PM
1

Welcome to the club! Here's your membership card, we can go over the rules and the secret handshake some other time. ​ https://preview.redd.it/vx33n4iomgkb1.jpeg?width=1000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cd482fa97851fe7ec60f7300f0b65990dbf52ea7
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:53 PM
1

Oh, I missed that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:50 PM
1

Because those men are not women's preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:49 PM
1

Because men don't read romance novels, so what would be the point of writing one? But you do watch porn, and there are plenty of examples of a power dynamic relationship between a submissive man and a dominant woman who is a teacher, or his boss, or whatever. So don't act like it doesn't happen, because it absolutely does - in a different medium.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:40 PM
2

Yes. Absolutely. Women find attractive men attractive. How naive would you have to be to assume otherwise? But again, we don’t actually expect to marry a billionaire. Most of us do not know any billionaires. And we certainly don’t know any vampires or werewolves. There is also the fantasy of having this rich, powerful, dangerous (insert your adjective of choice) man falling madly in love with you because you are just that sexy/desirable/lovable. Like men, women also want validation via our roman…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:53 PM
3

Yes. Absolutely. Women find attractive men attractive. How naive would you have to be to assume otherwise? But again, we don’t actually expect to marry a billionaire. Most of us do not know any billionaires. And we certainly don’t know any vampires or werewolves. There is also the fantasy is having this rich, powerful, dangerous (insert your adjective of choice) man falling madly in love with you because you are just that sexy/desirable/lovable. Like men, women also want validation via our roman…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:52 PM
1

Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:46 PM
2

When you watch porn is it fat 55 year old women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:45 PM
1

The glasses make it look like your avatar has legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:44 PM
1

Speaking as an older person, the best part of aging is all the fucks you no longer have to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:42 PM
3

No they don’t. I’ve read Gone with the Wind about 50 times but it didn’t make me want to move to Georgia, own slaves, or moon over a married man while married to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:40 PM
4

I mean, people read romantic literature to fantasize. They aren’t self help books or tech manuals. So why would you not optimize the fantasy and imagine being prettier, or more desirable, or pursued by a billionaire? Or a vampire or werewolf for that matter? Women in general understand that is highly unlikely that they will ever catch the fancy of a billionaire, let alone a vampire or werewolf. When you watch porn do you decide to take a job as a pizza delivery boy in hopes of having women open …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:37 PM
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I’m 52. Women raise their standards because as you mature you get a better sense of self, you are more aware of what you want, and you are more aware of what red flags are out there. I never shamed any man for not wanting to date me in particular, for my age or any other reason. I want someone who is attracted to me and wants to be with me of their own free will, after all. I do think dating much younger women as a much older man can be detrimental to those women, so that is when I might shame t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:26 PM
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Yeah. Dating is inherently unfair. Life is inherently unfair. You aren’t going to get a participation trophy for existing. You’ll have to make something of yourself and other people will have that same stuff come easier to them because of better genes or more money or whatever. You can accept that, do the best with what you have, and work hard to improve your circumstances. Or you can whine like a 6 year old who has been told he can’t have candy before dinner. Your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:56 AM
1

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:38 AM
1

I’m high and prefer Moulin Rouge but I am not watching at the moment. Family Feud is on the tv but I am watching YouTube videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:38 AM
1

I think they just want women in general to accept the blame. Don’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:21 AM
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I would not. I prefer to meet people in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:15 AM
2

Ask the men who shame women for having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:40 AM
1

My mom is a saint in addition to being a bad ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:28 AM
1

I’m sure you are a better dad than you give yourself credit for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:26 AM
0

I met him in 2013 not 1983 when I would have been 12. We married in 2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:23 AM
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Nobody asked you to. My dad cheated on my mom pretty openly so she left him, as well she should. But she also wanted him to have a relationship with his daughters so she got past it, married someone else, and treated my dad like an important family member to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:17 AM
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Isn’t it obvious? Nuns don’t have sex, generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:11 AM
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True that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:06 AM
1

You’re just a family of do-gooders, aren’t you? The world needs more like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:01 AM
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I never really dated any fuckbois. I have self respect. My relationships tend to be long lasting and even my casual sex has been with guys I trusted who I already knew. Posted too soon. My husband would probably have been considered a fuckboi in his younger days. By the time I met him he was past all that. But he also was only meant to be casual so that is why I gave him a whirl. As it turns out husband and I are both sexual freaks with some shared kinks. We’re over 50, 10 years in and still can…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:54 AM
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I’ve read that psychiatrists are encouraged to have psychiatrists of their own. Dealing with other people’s trauma on a daily basis probably is not so good for their own mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:14 AM
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Not really. First off, very few women sleep with 100 guys, and would you consider dating her long term if she did? The average is 5-7. Maybe one of those guys will be memorable. It’s not difficult to make that memorable guy, you. Just make her pleasure as important as your own and that small step will make you better than most. As far as the emotional connection it is definitely deepened by great sex. My husband is a good lover and a good partner but like most couples we occasionally fall into a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:11 AM
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Anywhere, if you are smooth about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:30 AM
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I did leave the city and moved to a rural area to be with the right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:28 AM
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I don’t know any actual psychiatrists but I know people in college who were studying with the intent to go into psychiatry and they were generally a little “off.” Anecdotal, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:28 AM
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I was trying to point out that Chad or an alpha is not the dude she can’t forget. It’s the guy who gives her the best sex of her life, be that Chad, Brad, or Poindexter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:17 AM
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My parents were divorced and my parents remained good friends. Dad lived a few blocks over. I didn't feel any angst over their divorce. I kinda barely noticed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:18 PM
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I idolize my mother for her creativity and her talent and her devoted marriage, but I have never considered thinking someone was admirable for having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:42 PM
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I don't get it either. But I'm guessing that like myself, you've probably had sex. It's fun and all, but not a major accomplishment. Most people have or will have it at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:33 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:04 PM
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There is no generality here. Most women outside of the higher classes have always had to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:47 PM
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All that new relationship energy obscures common sense sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:46 PM
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If you hate certain other men, of course not. If you hate your gender, I think you very well might have some internalized issues with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:31 PM
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That women very often don't work electively and don't need a man to take care of us, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:27 PM
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Self hatred is a hell of a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:59 PM
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He has great hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:58 PM
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It’s cute, do they have it in other colors? White is so hard to keep white.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:50 PM
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No they don’t. The majority of politicians are men, even on the Dem side, so clearly the left is not opposed to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:48 PM
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I lived with my first husband within 3 months and married him within 6 months. In retrospect, don’t do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:45 PM
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Is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:43 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:36 PM
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That is the best position for me. It hits all the right spots.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:43 PM
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Foreplay is vitally important to me. Otherwise, how am I supposed to get turned on? Oral is honestly not that important to me, because it often makes me feel exposed and self-conscious if all the focus is on me. But I do enjoy it and if I had a partner who wanted blow jobs but was not interested in returning the favor, I would be resentful. Yes, good sex absolutely makes me more attracted to a man. More than that, it makes me more attached to him. PPD men think that women get alpha widowed by Ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:42 PM
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99% of women don't do this, so it's not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:31 PM
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Sleeping with him. One of my friends was married over 20 years and had 3 kids with her husband but left him for a woman. To be fair, he wasn't a particularly great husband - not abusive or anything like that, but an alcoholic and fiscally irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:26 PM
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During the pandemic every time some (usually older) lady would cry during a Zoom staff meeting about how much she wanted us all to go back to the office I wanted to tell her to shut up and not ruin it for the rest of us. We're permanently hybrid now, with most people still working from home and a skeleton crew going into the office a few days a week. I'm at my salary cap so I need to start looking for something that makes more money, but the benefits of not having a commute and getting to be hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:23 PM
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I recently binged this one. https://www.investigationdiscovery.com/show/reasonable-doubt-investigation-discovery
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:18 PM
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It's a good thing. I used to be jealous of my sister who was more adventurous than me and broke a lot of bones. Then I broke my left wrist twice and my right ankle twice. They are fully healed I still occasionally get shooting pains in both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:13 PM
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You're not one of those "it's hebephilia, not pedophilia!" dudes, are you? But adults that are more than, say, 4 years older than a high school student should probably wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:11 PM
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Most of the lesbians I know have had children by men, so it's not out of the realm of possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:08 PM
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My dad has been shamed by his grandchlidren for saying quiet parts out loud so he is less likely to do that these days. He usually reserves his racism for Middle Eastern looking Muslims, not Mexicans though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:53 PM
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By talking to him. If the conversation is deeper than just small talk and chit chat, and I feel safe being myself around him and I feel like he "gets" me, I am probably on the way to becoming emotionally attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:49 PM
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Racism is always wrong. Naively getting in a car alone with a dude you barely know or going to his house and being alone with him is how women get raped and killed though, so a woman probably should not do that until she knows him a little better. Lord knows most rapes are already not prosecuted and people will blame her for not wearing a full suit of armor on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:46 PM
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"I'm married." Pre-marriage, if I knew him I would pretend I didn't notice he was interested unless he was direct. Most men are not direct, so playing dumb will work for a while. If the conversation becomes inevitable, I would gently but firmly tell him that while I think he's a great guy and all, I can't go out with him. Having a daughter was convenient for this because I could say she was my priority and I wasn't able to date at this time. It wasn't entirely a lie, either - at various points i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:35 PM
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I choose the one that I feel more emotionally attached to, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:28 PM
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I just discovered this one. https://youtu.be/XjN7TZh-UY0?si=xW1v1_ekK7-82pxd
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:22 PM
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Men did that to themselves. Instead of blaming feminists, try blaming the rapists, abusers, and family annihilators.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:21 PM
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I enjoy music discovery on Youtube while I'm working too. Found anything worth sharing lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:18 PM
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Por que no los tres? ¡Porque ya casi es fin de semana!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:16 PM
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My dad did not think my husband was good enough for me at first. He said he was too "blue collar" but I think what he really meant without actually saying it out loud is that he was a Mexican immigrant. They are pretty close now though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:00 PM
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If everyone you date is awful, that might say more about you than about the gender you are dating. Sure, both men and women can be awful, but most of the people I've dated have been basically good dudes with whom I was just ultimately incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:58 PM
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Husband is 5'8" and is oblivious that his height should be an issue. Women love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:56 PM
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No. Those men should stick to hiring professionals, and leave non-sex work women out of their mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:54 PM
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Feminists did not take away anything from you. Most (hetero) feminists end up in romantic relationships and having children with men. I know I did*. *Feminist as in the original meaning, equality for women. Not the hysterical manospherean "female supremacy" take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:53 PM
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She is very fortunate and I'm happy for her that she escaped, and found a supporting and loving husband. Did it mention whether she finished her studies and became a lawyer?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:51 PM
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I have exactly one meeting today, at 11:00, and nothing else scheduled for the rest of today. I've filed all of my reports. Now I have to choose between wasting time on Reddit, watching true crime, or quitting the procrastination and cleaning my house. Such a conundrum...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:48 PM
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It’s not all rape, I’ve seen prison movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:39 PM
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You know there is a difference between a fantasy and actual rape, yes? Some men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:29 PM
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Yeah, from other men in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:26 PM
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Or so they believe. Men are also inherently more violent and more likely to end up in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:21 PM
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The problem with many guys who are smarter than you (or only think they are) is that they won't respect you and will consider you inferior. Fortunately they aren't all like that, but you'll definitely run into those dudes in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:02 PM
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True, I started out taking it all a little seriously but now I'm just here for the lols.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:59 PM
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I will. You're almost like the 2nd daughter I never had.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:58 PM
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I know she's problematic on a societal level or whatever but I think she's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:57 PM
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I'm 52.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:54 PM
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I do. But I'm probably a lot older than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:46 PM
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Of course! I know a lot of such folks. They seem to have fun with it and the couples are for the most part intact, but occasionally drama arises among the friends group. I mostly hear about it secondhand though, so it doesn't impact me much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:25 PM
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Touche.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:24 PM
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I'm 52 and mine are still like clockwork. I may or may not resent this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:23 PM
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There's a 60% chance that they are still together. Not 100% of first time married couples stay together, but a majority do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:22 PM
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Exactly. It isn't. But they still fume about her a decade later.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:20 PM
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Could be!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:19 PM
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If they are very young or if they are very immature, they may be experimenting. Testing their "womanly wiles" so to speak. Oh, this guy is paying attention to me, I'll flirt with him. Oh wait, he actually likes me? Better put the breaks on before something happens I'm not ready for! Oh wait, he stopped paying attention to me, what happens if I start flirting again?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:17 PM
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Depends on where you live in this wide world!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:07 PM
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But I like wine and cats. I'm married and I still have wine and cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:07 PM
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If it sounds very alien, it is because most PPD men insist it's only our youth and beauty they value.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:06 PM
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My 2 longest relationships started at 29 (9 years) and 42 (10 and counting), respectively. Sure, maybe they settled for a post wall hag when they really wanted a hot bodied 20 year old, but I must not have been looking like Aughra in the Dark Crystal if my husband actually wanted to marry me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:05 PM
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Superficial hot Stacy graduated high school, joined a sorority, and married a frat boy and has 2 kids with him by 30. She is oblivious to those guys, as she should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:00 PM
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I've had some of these guys tell me that I'm going to leave my husband for Chad or divorce rape him (despite making more money), so they don't only make statements about single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:58 PM
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The hottest cheerleader in high school who they never had the courage to ask out and then have spent the rest of their lives fuming that she dated the high school quarterback, instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:57 PM
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Your mom. /sorry, couldn't resist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:56 PM
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They don't care, it's a revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:55 PM
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"Society will collapse if I don't get my dick wet on demand!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:55 PM
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Do you want mine? I have no further use for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:54 PM
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That first sentence is quite the visual.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:54 PM
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To hear them tell it, a lot of them are indeed unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:53 PM
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Don't forget the boxed wine!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:53 PM
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Except their predictions are generally wrong. But since that is also the case with regular fortunate tellers, nobody would be able to tell the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:53 PM
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My mother is 74 and retired but she still goes into the office every day (she owns the business), and she has a ton of side projects such as acting in local theatre and local commercials. She's like a shark, if she stops moving she'll die. Anyway, those are the standards I have to live up to, aside from just not wanting to be poor, so I do expect to work until retirement age or until I die, whichever comes first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:51 PM
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That aren't that high. Or at least mine aren't. I haven't had a ton of casual sex but when I have, it has been with long time male friends that weren't necessarily lookers but I felt safe and affectionate with them, and they happened to be there at the end of the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:47 PM
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I am often jealous of my girl friends' fancy and multiple tattoos. I have 4 smallish ones, but when I have the money I usually have other things to spend it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:45 PM
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Yay, for once in my life I'm the coolest!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:43 PM
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Locking down the right woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:39 PM
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Congrats! Of course it doesn't matter if it's a boy or a girl, as long as your lil family are all healthy and happy. I always thought I wanted a son until I got pregnant. Knew it was going to be a girl almost as soon as I found out (not literally, but intuitively). I'm sure a boy would have been lovely too, but since I ended up raising her alone it's probably for the best she was a girl. I would not have known what to do with a boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:39 PM
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Happy Friday, all! https://youtu.be/kfVsfOSbJY0?si=CfzW-BMlVFWxHqgt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:35 PM
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It was probably indicative of me being a huge dweeb, but I always loved the first day of school. New backpack, new school supplies, my mom would buy us new fall clothes, seeing all my friends again - it was almost like September Christmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:31 PM
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Consider that a feature, not a bug. If you lock down the woman of your dreams, do you want her to be attracted to a wide range of men, leer at them in public, DM them in private, and cheat on you on every opportunity? That is what women face thanks to men's wider range of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:26 PM
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If she is settling or gold digging, it's by definition not a happy marriage, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:23 PM
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I've never seen you so I can't judge your appearance, but for what it is worth from an old married lady, I do appreciate your intellect and accomplishments as expressed on PPD, as well as your pride in your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:22 PM
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How is back to school going for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:59 PM
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I hyphenated with my first husband, dropped his name after the divorce, and kept my name with my 2nd husband. Women don’t take their husband’s names in his home country so it was not a big deal. Also I was 49 when I got remarried and we aren’t having children obviously, so what would be the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:48 PM
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I adore you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:43 PM
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Electric.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:43 PM
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TIL I am an artificial woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:42 PM
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How about increasing your reaction time, slow down aging, and help with autism? There are also studies that show that Tetris can be beneficial to people with trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:14 AM
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They can actually be beneficial in moderation. https://www.discovermagazine.com/mind/the-surprising-mental-health-benefits-of-video-games https://health.clevelandclinic.org/are-video-games-good-for-you/ https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/65008/15-surprising-benefits-playing-video-games
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:41 AM
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That’s too much sanity for this sub. Anyway the subtext of those statements is often just “why isn’t my preferred gender attracted to me, specifically. There must be something wrong with them and it can’t possibly be my fault because my mom said I’m handsome/my dad thinks I’m pretty.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:36 AM
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There was no whataboutism. I, and others, pointed out that “what do you bring to the table” is a trite question that is rarely well intentioned, is intended to put the receiver on the defensive, and is posted here in various iterations on a regular basis. 3 times now this week alone. That’s not including references to the table in deleted posts and the Daily Chat, or course.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:47 AM
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They could probably assemble one, like from IKEA.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:12 AM
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I’m quoting those men, not stating my personal belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:38 AM
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“Men built society!” is usually the rallying cry from men who never built anything outside of Minecraft.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:28 AM
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At this house it’s how we just celebrated the latest Trump arrest! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:40 AM
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The kiss is perfect, but if the date was especially magical the best way to end it would be after brunch the next morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:32 AM
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11 or so when it became noticeable. I had my period at 9 and I had C cups by middle school. I was 10 the first time a friend’s 18 year old brother propositioned me during a sleepover. The nicest thing I can say about incident is that he was polite about it and took the “no” respectfully. But he should not have asked a 10 year old in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:20 AM
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It is posted here incessantly along with age gap relationships, body count, and why won’t women date short guys. Please, come up with something new to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:48 AM
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It’s been posted twice already in the last 3 days. See my other comment as well as u/CustomerSeparate949’s reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:34 AM
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I got a good pot brownie recipe out of those comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:27 AM
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I assure you, if men disappeared tomorrow, women would keep things going. That’s traditionally been the case during wars when men go off to fight. Never heard of Rosie the Riveter?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:26 AM
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Didn’t exclude relationships either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:21 AM
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I was referring to not needing be in a relationship with a man. Not the oft-ballyhooed “men run society” that so many men who don’t run shit like to spout.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:16 AM
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It was literally posted 3 days ago. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/15xr2fz/discussion_what_do_you_bring_to_the_table/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:56 PM
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Or a bottle of vodka.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:50 PM
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I have been here since 2017 and this question is asked at least once a week if not more. It is a cliche at this point and if you don’t believe the answers that were given the last 300+ times this question was asked, nothing any woman says will change your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:44 PM
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So block those accounts and follow higher quality people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:40 PM
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I’m not going to bother defending women to someone who is clearly hostile to them. It would be a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:39 PM
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Get to know a woman and determine for yourself if she brings anything to the table that you find valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:37 PM
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My point exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:36 PM
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No, I’m saying it is a question intended to put women on the defensive. If you can’t get to know a woman and determine if she is someone you want to spend time with without treating her to a business interview instead of a date, you should probably give up dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:36 PM
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I don’t. But I’m a tall and willowy 5’2 1/2.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:33 PM
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I typed up a nice reply and Reddit ate it. If I see a man who makes the effort to dress well, wears great shoes, takes time with hair and such, I will notice and think better of the kind of person he is. It would definitely raise his SMV/RMV and I would not be thinking scornfully of his height or looks. But my husband is 5’8” and dresses sharply when the occasion dictates. The “people” who get offended when a less attractive woman uses makeup or dresses well are largely men. Women would likely j…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:32 PM
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Nothing, to anybody who has to ask that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:25 PM
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Yes, I agree. It is a lie that women need a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:12 PM
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I don’t NEED a man, I lived for many years without one, but my husband improves my quality of life. No, not because of money and resources; because we have fun together, are best friends, and saucy lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:01 PM
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Too many tourists in the summer though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:28 PM
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The jury’s out on my dad but yeah they were unconventional but it was a great childhood comparative to the childhoods of a lot of my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:21 PM
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Does he call me/text me/DM/chat me? If I do those things, does he seem happy to hear from me? Does he respond within a reasonable time frame or do I hear from him a week later? Does he suggest dates or hangouts? If I suggest dates or hangouts does he seem enthusiastic? During a date/hangout does he seem engaged and interested? Is he flirtatious? I don’t demand or expect physical affection or sex on the first date but is the promise of affection/sex in the near future there? Is he happy to be aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:14 PM
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Normal is overrated. My parents are weirdos in all the best ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:04 PM
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My pet peeve is the men with necks wider than their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:03 PM
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I didn’t date that kind. But I’m married so that window of opportunity is closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:17 PM
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Not if the sex is good when they do have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:11 PM
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True, but I've learned from experience that if you are a woman dating another woman she's going to want oral at some point and then you're face to, er, face with it trying to be accommodating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:10 PM
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For many of them, "not fat" is optional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:07 PM
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That is one of the roadblocks to being bi for me - I love women and I love boobies but vaginas/vulvas don't do it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:06 PM
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They are also the epitome of adorability.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:04 PM
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So long, and thanks for all the fish!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:04 PM
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I’d rather be a dolphin than a whale. I would rather be a dolphin than a human, come to think of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:08 PM
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If he isn’t acting interested, then I assume he isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:02 PM
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I like entomology.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:20 PM
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Daniel Radcliffe gets a pass from me for life for playing Weird Al Yankovic in the biopic. Also he can rap! https://youtu.be/aKdV5FvXLuI?si=bGF89e29Fx_ecbI_
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:41 PM
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I have noticed that too. I remember being encouraged to breastfeed in the restroom. Do you eat your breakfast in the restroom? I certainly don't sit on the toilet and eat my food, so why would I sit on the toilet and breastfeed a baby? In California it's been legal to breastfeed in public for a couple of decades at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:38 PM
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....I probably belong to that subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:30 PM
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My mother had uterine cancer. She's in remission. She celebrated her recovery by going skydiving. My mom's a badass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:29 PM
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I always thought Orlando Bloom looks like a ferret.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:28 PM
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Mary Magdalene was a temple prostitute, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:27 PM
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Toby is the tall one, Daniel Radcliffe is the British one, and Elijah Wood is the hobbit, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:24 PM
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They probably don't want to be daddy to women their own age. They want to be daddies to 18-22 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:22 PM
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I'm going with "person who pushed them off the cliff", but I am not a lunatic who kills people when they reject my sexual assaults.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:20 PM
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I did that for 4 years. After the initial breakup angst, I had a pretty nice little life and I didn't really think much about all the sex I wasn't having. Eventually though, I did have it again. Now I'm in my 50s though, and if something happens and my husband and I are no longer together, I am not particularly interested in dating or trying to replace him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:17 PM
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You really do have those baby rabies! Your gf’s nephew sounds adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:23 PM
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They want the casual sex for the validation and the sex, not for the loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:03 PM
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Looks great on a man, less so on a woman. No offense, my mermaid friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:53 AM
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I agree. It’s always weird to me in shows and movies when people profess their love for someone they have never even dated. That’s more an infatuation than love.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:53 AM
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I would resent my husband if he tried to take over the more challenging decisions. I deserve to have input into my own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:46 AM
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A lot of women might be glorified children, but the rest of us can handle responsibilities and are used to running their households. Even as children, girls often help their mothers with chores and cooking and baking and taking care of the younger kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:45 AM
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See that would probably look ethereal on a 17 year old. After 35 or so it just makes you look prematurely old. Did she dye it or leave it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:31 AM
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Yeah, no to all of this. First of all, that is not what RP means when they say treat women like children and it is disingenuous to pretend otherwise. Second, calling a romantic partner Daddy makes my skin crawl. I do not want to think of my father during sex. We are a team. Partners. Not father and child. I pay the bills and do the paperwork. He does contribute his fair share, but I am just better at it. He does the car stuff because he is better at it. And I have handled major responsibilities …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:09 AM
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The most validated I ever felt was around 45-46 in a resort hot tub wearing an old lady swimsuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:27 AM
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Nah, it’s a common role play. I’ve gone to parties with a school girl theme even.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:57 AM
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He could always clarify that before the date. “Hey, since it’s a first date, let’s split and see how it goes.” Or do something like coffee or a drink. Happy hours can be fun dates - cheap eats and drinks, and it’s usually a timeline like 5-6 pm so you aren’t stuck doing a whole meal with someone you don’t know too well yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:29 AM
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Men are so weird about breastfeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:25 AM
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If he can’t at least split the tab why did he ask her out in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:45 AM
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I thought it was lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:38 AM
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My daughter’s dad is bipolar but I did not know that until our kid was almost 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:35 AM
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My daughter used to watch it so I have seen it, but not in at least 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:33 AM
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I discovered my first grey hair at 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:31 AM
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He’s great too! And Traci Lords! I’ve only seen her in Cry Baby, never saw her in actual porn, but I love her in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:39 AM
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She probably won’t ask. Ask in a sexy playful way, not like you are asking a teacher or coach.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:53 AM
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She’s not going to know you are inexperienced unless you tell her. Do what feels good and natural. If you aren’t sure if she is enjoying it, you can always ask “does this feel okay?”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:45 AM
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I will look that up. I like Kevin Smith and Seth Rogan is just so likable in this. And Elizabeth Banks is one of my favorite people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:40 AM
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Under my old user name I got a lot of them. I seem to be flying under the radar because nobody has sent them to this user name. I do get the occasional OnlyFans girl but I do not know why. Does my avatar look masculine? Or lesbianish?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:17 AM
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Anybody else enjoy Zack & Miri Make a Porno? It’s one of my favorite movies that I love to watch when I run across it and then promptly forget it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:14 AM
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Neither is gay, a lot of men are chefs and/or pastry chefs. Also if he cooks I will happily do the dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:11 AM
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I wouldn’t take it so seriously. Your first time having sex will be awkward and you’ll be nervous. Your first time with a new partner may also be awkward and you may be nervous. Learn to laugh off any mishaps and listen to the verbal and non-verbal cues your partner is giving you. Enthusiasm and a desire to make it pleasurable for your partner is more important than experience. If something like premature ejaculation happens (and it might), don’t get embarrassed. Play it off like she is just so …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:10 AM
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I don't think anybody thinks about their partners in this way. I think PPD men complicate emotions to an absurd degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:50 AM
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I may try that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:45 AM
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Love it! I hope more ladies post their partner with pets pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:42 AM
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I wish the pic quality was better because it would be good for framing if it wasn’t hazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:39 AM
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So cute! Here’s our patriarch. https://imgur.com/a/xEqKSMF
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:29 AM
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Anything nice I say will be dismissed as “you have to say that, you’re my mother.” Anything constructive I offer will met with “you don’t know what it is like for people my age.” Or “You’ve never been a man, you don’t know anything.” Anything critical will be met with “I can’t believe you said that to me, you’re supposed to be my mom!” So he should go to his dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:53 AM
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Nothing I said will be right because I would be his mother, so I would send him to his dad, my dad, one of his uncles or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:26 AM
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I have noticed a similar trend. They should just wait for the sex robots to be perfected at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:37 PM
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You feel like a dancing monkey if you have to put down your video game controller and spend time with your girlfriend? That is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:35 PM
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No it means don’t get a girlfriend if you don’t plan to spend any time with her other than sex. If that is all you want hire a professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:35 PM
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My husband is 5’8”. He’s Mexican though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:04 PM
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No, I was talking about the dude that complained that he has to spend time with his girlfriend on the “what does it mean to be boring” thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:58 PM
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Right? My nephew manages my mom’s retail store and nobody bats an eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:57 PM
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"You want me to leave the house? But girls are scary and icky! But I still want to fuck them, I just don't want to have to expend any effort."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:44 PM
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I honestly don't think nepotism is necessarily so bad at the private or corporate level. Oh, someone who was raised around professional actors or professional sports wants to go into acting or professional sports? The hell, you say!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:41 PM
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PPD men: "Why can't I find a girlfriend?" Also PPD men: "What do you mean, I have to actually talk to her and do stuff with her? I'm not a dancing monkey!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:35 PM
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Same! Having an extrovert adopt you is always the best plan for an introvert.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:08 PM
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I moved to Sacramento with no friends in 1992. I met some other moms and a few of the teachers via my daughter's daycare between 1994-1998 and they took pity on me and adopted me. Most of those friendships are still ongoing. I moved to a rural community some 30 minutes out of town in 2017. My social life consists mostly of visiting my friends back in Sac or chatting with people at the gym or the grocery store. I have no friends out here. It's definitely harder to make friends as an older adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:07 PM
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Pretty!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:26 PM
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Well, you know she puts out!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:26 PM
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My milkshake brings all the boys to the yard, but I'm married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:25 PM
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Women love men who act nice - if they are actually nice and not just being nice to get into the woman's pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:24 PM
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Women are the same as what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:21 PM
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I know for sure that if my husband said that he doesn't fancy me, I'd be packing his bags. Now if he said that he just doesn't have a libido, I could work with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:49 PM
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He claimed to be the supreme gentleman! I actually read that whole manifesto.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:41 PM
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And why are you leaving out this bit: "he said he didn’t fancy me any more" Are you intentionally leaving out the part that doesn't support your premise?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:34 PM
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Why is it scary to ask what makes them male spaces? Men here bitch and complain about how women won't take jobs traditionally for men - now here are you complaining about men invading "male spaces." Men complain about not knowing how to meet women but also don't want them in "male spaces." What makes them male spaces? Why are they off-limits to women? As far as I can tell, locker rooms and restrooms are still segregated, you can still be naked with other men without women present.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:27 PM
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I suspect he has ED and is defending himself by being insulting because he can't perform. By insulting her, he pushes the responsibility for his inability to get it up on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:22 PM
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I didn't get shit in my divorce. Didn't ask for anything but custody, which was easily granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:20 PM
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...Kinda?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:17 PM
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Nobody said she was an angel or that there are never fights in relationships. From what it sounds like, he had arthritis and cancer and she thought he was not interested in sex. So then he had to tell her that she was old and wrinkled and he didn't find her attractive? Like he is some Adonis? Again, she would be better off with boxed wine and cats than with someone who belittles her and mocks her looks and age, especially since, you know, he is the same age. Maybe he's going senile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:12 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:09 PM
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How do you know what she did or didn't say? Were you there?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:47 PM
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There is nothing wrong with not wanting to date one, particularly if you don't want children or aren't ready to. But yeah, disparaging them with no information is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:46 PM
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What makes them "male" spaces, specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:29 PM
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She should divorce him. She'd be happier with boxed wine and cats rather than a man who insults a wife who has been by his side for over 3 decades and supported him through cancer. My dad is single...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:29 PM
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My parents - dad, mom, stepdad, are all coffee drinkers. And smokers. And have terrible teeth. My sister is also a coffee drinker and smoker and has problem teeth. My daughter does not drink coffee or smoke but she's had cavities. So I know it's not genetic, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:26 PM
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I like my teeth looking white and shiny. I’ve also never had a cavity so I must be doing something right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:14 PM
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I loved every minute of it. I might have liked it better with more money though. I was a single mom because I was divorced, so PPD men don't bother telling me about how all single moms are degenerate. I won't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:55 PM
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I drink tea and the rare cup of coffee with straws because the liquid bypasses your teeth and doesn't stain them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:53 PM
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Or they just do it without making it legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:52 PM
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Of course not, I don't golf. But I support his hobby, take photos, and make him sandwiches.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:24 PM
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My bully committed suicide. I feel no glee over this, only sadness. In retrospect I imagine his bullying behavior was reflective of his home life. His brother committed suicide as well. Ex-partners - Well, one of my high school boyfriends lives in SF now and makes music. I have not seen him even though he's less than 2 hours away. But we keep in touch on Facebook. Another one lives in Maryland and has a wife, 4 dogs, and a cat. We are pretty close and I got to see him and his wife a few years ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:11 PM
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Lol no. Again, we do things we both enjoy. I just mentioned the golf because it is something that I do for him, that I would not do if it were not for his passion for golf. I think that other poster is right - you may just enjoy being ntentionally obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:58 PM
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How is him doing things with me that we both enjoy, catering to my wants? We BOTH want it. We BOTH don't want to sit inside watching TV all day and night. Another thing we will do is, he likes golfing. I, personally, hate golfing. But he will go to the driving range and I will go with him and bring drinks and snacks and sit nearby with a camp chair and watch. I will bring my camera and take pics. Sometimes I will take video, so he can review his techniques and refine them. So he gets his practic…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:22 PM
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And again, I did not say spend every moment entertaining women. Women also like to relax and have time for themselves. You're imagining a scenario that doesn't exist, where you have to be "on" all the time for a partner. You don't. But you should be up to the occasional adventure, even if it's just at home. And why do you think that men are the ones putting forth all the effort? Who do you think is the one buying and preparing the snacks? Unlike you and all the men you know, my husband does enjo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:13 PM
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Because ordinary is routine and routine gets you in a rut. You can have fun at home too though - put up a tent in the back yard and make s’mores on the grill, set the table with the fine China and silver and eat Big Macs by candlelight, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:00 PM
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They can be! Like one time when we were first dating and he didn’t have furniture yet, we danced all night naked around his living room to whatever was on the radio. We talk about that a frequently. But sitting on the couch watching tv is not particularly memorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:51 PM
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Because they are not the same 4 walls and television aesthetic you get at home. Because you get sunlight or moonlight and the ambient sounds of the outdoors. Because they are fun, yes, but also because they are memorable. You’re making memories. In 10 years are you going to be talking about that video game she watched while you played for hours? Or will you talk about that time you went to that free show and watched people dance and were silly together?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:42 PM
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I don’t think of it that way either, I just… do it. We’re married, so it all goes into and out of the same pot one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:36 PM
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Or just, you know, not do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:21 PM
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You aren’t doing the same activities at home, though. It’s just you, and maybe your partner at home. So you are not interacting with other people. Certainly there is not a live band in your yard, at least not for most people most weekends. You aren’t sitting in a whirlpool of bubbles and with your partner in your tub at home. Also the hot tub is outside, I am guessing your tub at home is in the bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:20 PM
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Yeah, I don’t complain nearly as much about paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:16 PM
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Drive in - the experience! Being outside at night, the people watching, etc. And the hot tub has jets, is 3 feet deep, and is big enough for 10 people. My home tub has no jets, is not very deep, and can barely fit 2. The park has free concerts, duh! Also has coyotes, deer, wild turkeys, lizards… my yard is tiny and boring in comparison. Eating out is better than eating in my kitchen because I don’t have to cook or clean up afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:13 PM
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No it isn’t. Couples enjoy attention and affection with each other. She’s not a sex doll you put in the closet and take out when you are bored playing video games or feel horny. My husband and don’t go out a lot because we are old, but we’ll go on hikes or use the hot tub at our gym or go out to eat or just take our dog to the river and enjoy the day. Aside from the food and the cost of the gym, we don’t spend a bunch on entertainment. Occasionally we’ll pack blankets and pillows and snacks and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:00 PM
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Sigh! No, we do not want 24/7 entertainment. Women also have their own shit to do and want time to relax. You dudes are so hyperbolic. You don’t need to spend money and take them out to spend time with women. Just turn off the tv, look her in the eyes, and talk. And listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:52 PM
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That’s awesome! We got together in May. He had agreed to work for his friend’s construction business in the fall and so we had an end date of Labor Day weekend. I had an old iPod and I filled it up with music for him to take with him when he left. He came back 3 months later and we picked up where we left off, started saying “I love you”, and met each other’s families.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:47 PM
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Nothing wrong with relaxing during your free time, but if you have a girlfriend, she probably wants to spend time with you, not just stare at the screen while you play video games for hours. At least sex her up first.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:40 PM
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That’s reason number 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:37 PM
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I can think of 209 better uses for my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:27 PM
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As I said in my initial comment, I like tv and video games too. It’s more about when that is all you do in your free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:17 PM
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I never have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:12 PM
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That’s true!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:11 PM
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Personally I have my doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:10 PM
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I guess I’m just old school and like the occasion of getting together. Or maybe I am slowly going feral from working from home the last 3 years and am starved for human companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:06 PM
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So not a larper?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:03 PM
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It’s been a while since I played but sitting at a table with friends and drinks and dice and books vs sitting alone in your bedroom or living room talking to people with a headset would be a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:01 PM
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He would think it was stupid, and it would not lessen his suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:51 PM
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Most of the stories are fake or get posted again and again with minor details altered or the genders switched.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:46 PM
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Yeah, it sounds like BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:45 PM
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Mr LoveShack already thinks Reddit is a waste of time and worries that one of these dudes is going to show up and kill me some day. (I’ve told him it’s anonymous.) But he is not one to tell me what to do. If I started making Tinder experiments though, he might have a (valid) complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:44 PM
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After reading this post I’m convinced that the PPD men who encourage me to make a Tinder profile as a social experiment are trying to get me divorced. https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/15yyb40/update_aitah_for_cancelling_our_vacation_because/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:38 PM
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See my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:32 PM
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Maybe. Particularly if they were long distance for any great length of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:21 PM
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Both of my marriages started out as summer flings. One didn’t work out. The other is still ongoing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:20 PM
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Even in college I avoided the beer pong guys and went for the music guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:18 PM
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You haven’t seen him naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:16 PM
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I love me some Dungeons&Dragons, though I haven’t played in decades. Nobody to play with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:15 PM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:15 PM
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Nothing wrong with finding someone attractive, even if they are objectively out of your league. Making your attraction her problem would be an issue, by which I mean if you asked her out and she said no and then you kept pestering her. But just being attracted or even going so far as to ask her out is nothing to feel guilty about. But you seem to have a better rapport with her friend. What is up with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:14 PM
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Speak for yourself. I would LOVE to split costs 50/50. I make more, so I pay more. He contributes and doesn’t allow himself to be a financial burden, but I like little luxuries like not having to cook every night, so I am willing to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:09 PM
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I knew just enough to ask for milk, say I love you, and little stuff like that. And “Let it be,” which is what my dad would say to her whenever she started into him about whatever. She died when I was 11 and I haven’t spoken it since, but I still remember a few things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:05 PM
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If all he wants to do is sit on the couch and watch hours of sports or play hours of video games, has nothing interesting to talk about, has no hobbies that involve not sitting in front of the tv. I like TV and video games too, but not at the exclusion of having a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:02 PM
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Rednecks. MAGA and teabagger types. The willfully ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:55 AM
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I had an immigrant grandmother, does she count? She was Lithuanian and never learned English. I also have an immigrant husband. He’s Mexican and went to a US college so he speaks English pretty well. He became a citizen in 2019.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:53 AM
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I live in a petty diverse area and I don’t think about my group identity much… until I have to attend one of my husband’s family functions. It’s always a little weird to be the only white American girl in a party of Mexican immigrants who primarily speak Spanish. I end up chatting with the children mostly. They like their Auntie Astro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:49 AM
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I already had a kid and a partner when I discovered it. I’m just here for the train wreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:44 AM
1

Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:43 AM
2

Succubi are female. The male version is an incubus.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:29 AM
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Not a bit. I lost mine with another virgin, but we did not stay together. After that I did not care if he was a virgin. Neither did the men I slept with care if I was one. And not in a “sure he’ll sleep with you but he won’t commit” way. I’ve cohabitated 3 times and been married twice. Those relationships lasted 6-10 years. My other relationships have lasted 1-3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:37 AM
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I am not, since I did not sacrifice my own happiness just to be in a relationship with somebody, anybody. But there are people that do. They frequently admit that here on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:29 AM
2

You left out the context - that you accepted the relationship despite actually not being interested in that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:41 AM
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Oh then I apologize. My main character syndrome must have kicked in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:40 AM
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Wanting a relationship is normal. Accepting a relationship with someone because they are the first available option even though you are not attracted to them and/or don’t really like them is desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:27 AM
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I might run with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:09 AM
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Taught my kid to read before she started school. A friend asked me “Aren’t you afraid she will be bored when she gets to school?” Short answer, no. Long answer, nooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:39 AM
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According to Google it is in fact a myth. So much of my childhood was a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:00 AM
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Didn’t they feed men saltpeter in institutional situations to achieve a similar effect? Or was that a myth?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:50 AM
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I’m not sure! Willow would probably know. Here they are with their Mama. I call her Sterling. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:33 AM
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I know what you’re talking about, I just don’t always agree or I think there are other sides to examine. I do agree with you on George Harrison though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:29 AM
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<image> Baby duck friends. What should I name them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:25 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/0w42yrgyhrjb1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b765a145524e68218cda7742fd9125dbe14f54ce Baby duck friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:22 AM
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His brother looks just like him but fat. Looking at his brother is like looking at him but in a fun house mirror. So weird. He's diabetic and vacillates between too thin and normal weight. He can also eat an entire carton of ice cream before bed 2-3 times a week and not gain a pound, which he should not do because of the diabetes but also I am very jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:14 AM
4

Is 2x in the room with us right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:03 AM
2

It’s already free, I thought. At least I never had to pay an entrance fee.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:39 PM
2

I thought the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:36 PM
6

Most of the normal women I know have been assaulted, including my mother. I have not been, but I have been cornered in a public restroom by a drunk business executive who thought the secretaries were fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:35 PM
1

I'm older, I'm not stupid. I've had perfectly sober sex too. You don't need to drink to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:20 PM
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And they are welcome to do so! I myself will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:14 PM
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He's 5'8", and not particularly broad shouldered or muscular, but he does have the jaw and great cheekbones. But it's more his attitude that is masculine to me, than anything else. In all the best ways, I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:28 PM
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Not just finding someone you actually want to have sex with - they actually want to have sex with you too. Guys in the top 5-20% have standards after all, because they can. Despite the hysteria on PPD, most top tier men are not having sex with average girls. They are having sex with top tier girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:53 PM
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Getting sex is easy. I could probably walk outside and get someone to have sex with me right now. They'd probably be a smelly old bum, but hey, beggars can't be choosers, right? The point is, acquiring sex is the easy part. Finding someone you want to have it with, who also wants to have it with you, is the hard part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:20 PM
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I've dated men with intact families who were fucked up anyway because they had complex relationships with their fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:13 PM
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When I left my first husband my daughter and I stayed at a friend's apartment while she stayed with her boyfriend at his house. My ex told everybody that I was living with a bunch of lesbians and we were all sleeping together. Fortunately, people understood he was undergoing some mental health issues so nobody believed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:09 PM
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I agree with you on wife goggles (and women get husband goggles too!). But I don't agree that you need to marry young to get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:18 PM
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I have never left a man for another man, personally, though I've left them for not being good partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:16 PM
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She shouldn't marry young because it increases your likelihood of divorce. On the other hand, if you have children young and the relationship breaks up, you'll also be broke! They are banking on that, so you can't leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:15 PM
1

In a lot of ways, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:11 PM
1

He's good peeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:59 PM
1

Despite what men tell you, there is such thing as too thin too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:07 PM
1

I like the communal form, but you have to be careful too. Some people do not have good intentions. And others might read too much into your "communal" interaction and then you will never, ever get rid of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:06 PM
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No. If anything quitting birth control increased my libido, not lowered it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:04 PM
1

Yes. I said in another comment "depending where you live."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:44 PM
1

Yes, I have met someone who was the right person at the wrong time. Perhaps there was a clear attraction between us but we were both in other relationships. Or I met them at a time when we would have been LDR if we tried to make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:42 PM
2

Number 2 might be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:25 PM
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I do understand men wanting to be careful about not being accused of rape. Establishing consent should handle most of that. That said: 1 - Why not just have sex with women who are not drunk, instead of having sex with drunk women and taking pains to pretend to be drunk "just in case"? Sounds predatory. 2 - Sounds creepy. I don't want anyone recording my sexcapades, even just audio. Also depending on where you live wouldn't recording someone without their knowledge be a crime in and of itself? 3 …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:18 PM
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I know 2 couples that broke up during the lockdown but there were big problems in those relationships preceding the lockdown. We had a great time during the lockdown. I'd make a delicious breakfast and pack a lunch, and then we'd go hiking. We got to explore trails further out than we would normally go. Then we'd come home and I'd make something fabulous for dinner. We watched Tiger King and streamed the various benefit shows and had sex whenever we wanted to because what else was there to do? T…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:08 PM
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It’s beautiful and right near the ocean. And there are otters and sea lions!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:21 PM
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Lamb is my favorite. Fool is also very good. A Dirty Job is also great. I got to meet him at a book signing once. I already owned Lamb, but the book store had a copy that resembled a bible that I was thinking about buying. A guy standing nearby with a backpack and a hat encouraged me to buy it, so I did. Then the author was introduced - it was the same guy who encouraged me to buy the book. I hadn’t recognized him. He was delightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:19 PM
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It’s cheap and those industries have fierce lobbies. I used to work for a SNAP related obesity education program and since we had federal funding we were discouraged from earning people that too much sugar is bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:35 AM
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I don’t feel that way, as it happens, but a lot of women don’t cum from PIV and a lot of men won’t do oral, so my money is on the orgasm gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:06 AM
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My dad used to live on top of a hill with a great view of the city we lived in. He would sometimes buy M60s, tie them to helium balloons, light them, and then let them go. Not much to do in small town America so he had to make his own chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:31 AM
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You have to go to another state or to Mexico to get the good stuff here. But my neighbors always seem to have the professional grade fireworks. It gets like a war zone during July.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:19 AM
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I always enjoyed business travel when I had to do it. Climbing into a freshly made bed, cocktails in the hotel lounge, the artfully prepared rubber chicken at conventions. And if you have frequent traveler programs you can rack up the points and go somewhere you actually want to go. I’d be worried about bed bugs though, these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:12 AM
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I support the 2nd Amendment because I’ve lived in parts of the country where if you didn’t hunt you didn’t eat, but I agree with you, the gun worship here gets out of hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:07 AM
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There are a lot of teens in this neighborhood so I am thinking fireworks. We do sometimes hear guns though. And a couple of years ago there was a shooting in an apartment building the next block over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:02 AM
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Are they newly sober? We had a neighbor who played this particular… CD? Album? DVD? Not sure. Anyway it was some kind of meditation music. He was newly sober and I guess it helped him. Kind of like religion and AA, I suppose, but with music and chanting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:53 AM
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Well, I wish they would either be badass earlier in the evening, or save it till the weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:43 AM
2

A miniature pinscher.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:41 AM
2

Women usually cooked the food that’s on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:40 AM
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I love charcuterie. It has “cute” right there in the name!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:39 AM
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It’s after midnight here, I work in the morning, and I was rudely awakened to play a game of “firearm or fireworks?” Thank you neighbors.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:37 AM
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I didn’t use any of those. I just married the one I had the best time with and who enjoyed the kinkiest sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:25 AM
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My insurance covers BC, but haven’t used in over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:22 AM
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I was a hoe briefly in 2012 but I wasn’t one before that and haven’t been one since. No need. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:21 AM
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Report him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:19 AM
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I like the first 3. I love a good trilogy. Do you like Christopher Moore?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:01 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:59 AM
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Tiiiiin roof Rusted
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:59 AM
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He does that now… with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:57 AM
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God forbid that people who had shitty childhoods be given a shot at a happy adulthood. Let’s needlessly stigmatize people who had no say over how they were raised, instead!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:56 AM
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I like all of those authors too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:49 AM
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His eyebrows, musical ability, and joie de vivre.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:48 AM
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Skateboarders are hot. What do you like to read? Top 3 recs? Not hitting on you because old and married, just offering feedback and also curious about a fellow reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:45 AM
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You sound potentially desirable on paper. What do you do for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:34 AM
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More often.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:13 AM
2

I’ll take 5 out of 6 please.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:13 AM
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No he would have been miserable and thought “divorce rape” and “be stoic” any time he met a woman and had a chance at happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:12 AM
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I’ve watched it 3 times in the last 2 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:10 AM
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I think this is one of the more, er, interesting takes I’ve heard here in a long time and that is truly saying something. Nobody is forcing you to be a ditch digger or a cattle herder (not “herder”). Women working does not relegate men to menial jobs. Get an education and build a career. Lord knows most CEOs are male already, a few more won’t kill us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:00 AM
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I like 2X, actually. I don’t agree with everything expressed there (or here, or anywhere), but I can relate to many of the experiences other women have shared. I am less embracing of FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:56 AM
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My love for Jack Black is eternal and oft repeated but regardless of that I wish I would have been at this party. https://youtu.be/vSIPRCZa_vk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:47 AM
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Share that recipe! I just replace oil with canna butter in a boxed mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:34 AM
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You win.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:34 AM
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The chairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:48 AM
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Borrow one of my husband’s Trazadone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:32 AM
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That is not Matt Bomer so I reject your premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:31 AM
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My husband is 5’8” and I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:30 AM
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I love that movie, but I love anything with music.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:29 AM
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Why would be dating be important? So I could meet someone I care about. Why would going out be important? For one, it’s a neutral environment that neither of you can claim. For two, it’s fun! For three, it’s not really fair to expect to order in your girlfriend like she’s DoorDash.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:27 AM
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You have men on this very sub confessing that they have or would mislead women about their intentions in order to get laid, so I am sure you are wrong at least in a shit ton of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:18 AM
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They can’t communicate honestly, they might not get laid. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:14 AM
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Thank God my husband never discovered the manosphere. He might have ended up very unhappy because manosphere assholes informed him that men lose in marriage and he might have believed it. And then he would have spent the last 10 years bitter, ill and suffering alone instead of having someone who cares about him by his side.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:06 AM
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There are few things I hate more than men suggesting that women don’t love men but the idea of men, but that is the justification my ex-fiancé used to explain away his cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:01 AM
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He could see shapes and movements, from what I recall, so he was not 100% blind. Back then he still lived with his parents but that was when we were both young and living with parents would have been standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:47 AM
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I am! Edit: he looked a little like Robbie Benson back in the day. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:31 AM
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I know for a fact I would date a blind guy so I can envision dating a mute guy under the right circumstances. I’ll be honest though, it’s never come up, unlike the blind guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:48 PM
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Well, that's enough internet for me today.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:39 PM
1

I can put my hand in it but I would be disinclined to put my sexual organ in it. Salmonella of the penis sounds unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:34 PM
1

Eep.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:01 PM
1

I wonder if any men have ever attempted to use the crevice in a chicken or turkey as a fleshlight. I'm going with probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:00 PM
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I don't think I've ever been confronted with a micropenis. At least not noticeably so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:46 PM
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Used to know this guy who was like heroin chic thin (the aesthetic, not the usage) and not particularly tall but he was rumored by friends to be well endowed. I had a boyfriend at the time so I have no personal knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:45 PM
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Do. NOT. Not while you are in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:42 PM
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He makes more than she does. She's willing to pay half if they lower their cost of living to what they can afford. Why is that unreasonable? Or are you trolling... it's so hard to tell around here... I'ma go with trolling to be preemptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:41 PM
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It's weird that it just came up. Sounds to me like he's been reading manosphere pages, or somebody's filling his ear with this stuff. Or maybe his feet are getting chilly about the impending nuptials. She's absolutely correct - if she can't afford their current lifestyle at 50/50 they will need to downsize. He can be cool with that or they should break up, whichever works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:39 PM
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Girl, same. I love to cook but I clean in generalities not in detail. But I am very empathetic when he needs it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:32 PM
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I make him coffee in the morning before he wakes up - I wake up around 7 and he sleeps in till 9-10. If he has to work in the morning, I'll go so far as to bring him coffee in bed. I dole out his medications into a weekly pill box for him. I asked him just now and he said hopefully, "Wash the dishes?" Nope, it's still his turn. He then followed up with wash his work clothes, cook him dinner, make love to him, and tell him I love him all the time. Apparently the coffee doesn't register. I bet it …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:29 PM
1

"You should give your woman more attention" Please don't. It interrupts my reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:22 PM
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Apparently you did not date men with angsty relationships with their fathers. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:21 PM
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American right-wing political commentator ​ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:20 PM
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They say there is a correlation between foot/hand size and penis size. I don't know if it's true, but why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:18 PM
1

Had you noticed violent or abusive tendencies in him when you were both younger? Or is it a newer development?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:15 PM
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I'll take the first two.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:48 PM
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I don't think so per se, but women tend to be attracted to men within a few years of their own age. So an 18-22 year old might like the K-Pop guys, a 22-30 year old might be attracted to a Timothee Chalamet or a Tom Holland, a 30-40 year old might like a Hemsworth or Zak Efron, and so on down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:48 PM
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I love this! Did she meet him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:05 PM
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From his Wiki: On July 28, 2006, Gibson was arrested by Sheriff's Deputy James Mee of the Los Angeles County Sheriff's Department for driving under the influence (DUI) while speeding in his vehicle with an open container of alcohol. According to a 2011 article in Vanity Fair, Gibson first told the arresting officer, "My life is over. I'm fucked. Robyn's going to leave me."[213] According to the arrest report, Gibson exploded into an angry tirade when the arresting officer would not allow him to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:54 PM
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Stephen Colbert is Catholic. From his Wiki: "Colbert is a practicing Roman Catholic and used to teach Sunday school. He is an ordained minister with the Universal Life Church Monastery." I don't know anything about the religious preferences of the others except for Mel Gibson who is a lunatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:32 PM
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Stuffing!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:29 PM
1

Sorry to hear that. A friend is going through something similar with her brother but on sex charges. She thinks he did it; their sister and parents think he didn't. I don't know him well enough to say but from what she said it looks bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:27 PM
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Not really that difficult tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:05 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/wsmqg4b2hijb1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0cc54389901d577e27dd7a2181ac924fe40422b4 I’m slightly above androgynous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:01 PM
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Just don’t expect me to pay your rent. Also don’t be rude to the wait staff, be kind to children and the elderly, don’t kick puppies or kittens, be nice to my dad (I know he can be a handful), be respectful to my mother, and for God’s sake don’t piss off my daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:56 PM
1

Perhaps he should not have done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:53 PM
1

I don’t post mine on Reddit. I’d either get doxxed or get a lot of “durr you’re old” remarks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:52 PM
1

I played the Miseducation of Lauren Hill so many times back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:50 PM
1

Around here they just pass out tents to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:49 PM
1

What's wrong with wanting him to make as much money?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:30 PM
1

And this is the man that PPD men wonder why we won't date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:30 PM
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Time to break out this meme again. ​ https://preview.redd.it/an0locoabijb1.jpeg?width=716&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1e37bf8111feb19cc0b3056e1a01ae4d6abaf798
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:29 PM
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He should at least be able to financially support himself. If he can't do that, he's still a human being of course, but not one that I personally would date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:24 PM
1

Yes. Yes we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:22 PM
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I don't know anybody who struggles with dating the way PPD men claim to. Maybe my oldest nephew, but he's had girlfriends in the past and he has a distinct lack of teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:21 PM
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See if they'll let you interview via Zoom or Teams. Our office has been mostly remote since Covid and most of our interviews are via Zoom or Teams.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:18 PM
1

Marry them off before puberty?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:13 PM
1

You try carrying a 10 lb baby and not gaining any weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:12 PM
1

Depends on their personal choices. They should be able to make decisions independently of society, but they should conform to basic societal standards like not hurting people, clean up after yourself, respect others, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:09 PM
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Also not if she wants her own children and he is done having them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:00 PM
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Not preferable is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:58 PM
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They can be, if they're a good and engaged father and not a father in name only. The caveats being - dealing with the ex-wife/girlfriend/baby mama, and whether the kid(s) are open to their father dating or if they are hostile. I also have a friend whose wife divorced him because when he lost his job she was expected to pay child support on his 4 kids. She was a cashier at a grocery store and made nowhere near enough to support 4 kids that weren't hers. I lived with and was engaged to a single fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:56 PM
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He showed up but with another of our friends (male) so yeah, it took a minute for him to get it. I don't remember all the details because it was 30 years ago but eventually the friend left and he ended up spending the night (no sex though the first night). We were together 6 years, married 4. One bebe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:21 PM
1

Men believe that because they want to be better than women. But that's not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:00 PM
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I'm not an exception, I'm just an example. The exception is women who expect men to take care of them and pay all their bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:54 PM
1

Sure you are. Neither of my husbands were particularly wealthy or had resources to speak of.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:36 PM
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I mean, I have a job and I make more money than he does. So him paying the bills and me not earning an income does not apply here. But yes, I do expect birthday and Christmas presents. It's not about how much money he spends on the gifts either, it's more about the thought he puts into it. At the very least, make me dinner and bake me a cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:33 PM
1

Wat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:56 PM
2

I met my ex-husand because we both worked at the same summer resort. I worked in the gift shop, he worked in the ice cream parlor. During our off hours we ran with the same crowd and so I got to know him socially. I had an inkling he might like me because he quoted the Princess Bride at me during our interactions. Anyway, he never made a move so I arranged for my roommate to be out one night and I invited him over after work to smoke weed and drink Boones Farm. (It was sold at the small general …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:54 PM
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I’m an introvert with social anxiety. I still have male friends and though I don’t go out much nowadays, I did go out quite a bit when I was younger. Now we’re all old and going out equals hitting a happy hour, or gathering at one of our friends’ houses to eat cheese and drink wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:47 PM
1

It could very well be meth. We just call them the crackhead couple but we don’t actually know their drug of choice. It has to be something though. They look pretty rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:41 PM
1

They are our own private soap opera. They will start screaming and yelling and slamming doors. Or he will storm out and she will lock the door behind him and then he will bang on it for hours screaming for her to let him back in. Or she will follow him around the property yelling his name. The cops come out probably once a month to usher them back inside and get them to be quiet. Sometimes I’m tempted to get a glass of wine and watch from my deck, but that would be too obtrusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:38 PM
1

My husband is 7 years older and he has a lot more health problems than me, despite being more physically athletic. At one point he was on 13 pills a day but now they have it down to 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:31 PM
1

If you think taller equals more power, you’ve never met my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:29 PM
1

I would need an entire personality transplant to ever be bubbly. I hope it works out for you though! How was your trip?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:23 PM
1

My husband has depression but he had it already when I met him. The good news is they’ve successfully decreased the dosage of his meds this year. We hike a lot and swim and go to the gym, and he golfs, all things which I believe help.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:21 PM
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We ran into the crackhead couple who lives behind us at the grocery store. First time I’ve seen them out in the wild. Normally they are standing in front of their apartment fighting and yelling at each other. This time they were holding hands and she was talking sweetly to him. I had no idea she could speak without screaming. They must have either just gotten their fix or they are working on their sobriety.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:17 PM
1

Of course you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:12 PM
1

You could do the Anna Sorokin or Clark Rockefeller thing and pretend to be a wealthy heir. I mean, they both wound up in prison so you could only do it for a while, but what fun you would have for that while!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:08 PM
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For me it’s the last 35 or so. But my kid is grown now and I’ve been working from home since Covid and I’m a lot less stressed since there’s nobody to get ready for school, no commute, no worrying about parking or being late…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:06 PM
1

Good morning!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:03 PM
4

/Complement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:01 PM
1

Technically I am a younger woman, by 7 years. But we were still both middle aged when we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:44 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:58 AM
1

Thank God I’m already married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:48 AM
1

Of course it is. Hail the mighty penis!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:48 AM
1

Very often hobosexual men target women with low self esteem and not much experience. So not that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:47 AM
1

But you can whine and listening to whining about dry dicks all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:44 AM
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There’s lots, but neither will listen and both are adults. They will just need to make their own mistakes. My empathy though is to the 19 year old being exploited, not the 35 year old trying to cling desperately to his youth or make up for the sex he didn’t have in his 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:43 AM
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About oppression, sure. I could listen all day. About not being able to get your dick wet but also not being willing to talk to girls? Well, despite frequent exposure here it gets old fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:34 AM
1

This is the wrong tree and you are barking up it. My husband is 7 years older. Nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:33 AM
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They do actually but they don’t call it that. Hobosexual men will often find themselves girlfriends who pay the bills and keep a roof over his head.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:32 AM
2

Oh, look, more whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:25 AM
1

I feel like a lot of the women I know are stronger than a lot of the men I know - not physically (though this can also be true) but in terms of resilience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:24 AM
1

I do pay or split. But I am not on this sub every day whining about being a beta bucks either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:22 AM
1

No but it’s always nice to have it codified!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:21 AM
1

In my country they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:10 AM
2

More excuses. Nobody is going to save you, dude. Put on your big boy panties and learn how to talk to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:06 AM
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We all feel entitled to sympathy at some point in our lives. Half this sub is men feeling entitled to sympathy because they can’t get laid at will despite not wanting to approach women, make a move, or God forbid pay for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:56 AM
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I was thinking more about if the woman is insecure about them but sure, that works too!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:26 AM
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We had the worst cat when mine was 3. It was almost feral. You could not pet her or hold her… unless you were a toddler. My daughter could carry that thing around like it was a doll and it would be docile in her arms. At bed time it would stand next to her door and mreow until I let it in. Kitty eventually mellowed out and we had that cat 16 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:25 AM
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They give you the best drugs in an epidural. It doesn’t necessarily mask all the pain but you’ll be too high to care. I do have stretch marks but the boobs stayed fairly perky for their size. And certainly it was not always easy financially but I would not say it had a negative impact on my career. If anything it gave me an imperative to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:19 AM
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The impact of motherhood on dating and sex is greatly exaggerated ime. Even with the stretch marks. Just throw on a saucy lil nightie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:15 AM
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If you don’t want kids by all means don’t have them. I loved being a mom to a little and I love being a mom to a 20-something. Does being a mom lower your SMV or RMV? Who cares. I’ve definitely regretted some of the men I’ve dated. I’ve only got the one kid but I’ve never regretted having her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:38 AM
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Good points all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:15 AM
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That you are wrong, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:14 AM
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Dark hair Dark eyes Taller than me (I’m 5’2 and change) Not picky Don’t care as long as he can support himself. See# 5 More than 0 More than 0 Agnostic or atheist is preferred but I can date a believer as long as they do not want to convert me. Don’t care as long as they enjoy having sex with me. Within 5 years in either direction, for my husband I allowed 7 years. Liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:29 AM
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Everything I know about special k I learned from Party Monster and the book it’s based on. Is it all that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:16 AM
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I’d vote for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:10 AM
1

So I fell in love with him, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:03 AM
1

Oscar Isaac I think, but then I switched him out for Pedro Pascal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:42 PM
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Even though he was legally of age, being my friend’s son and just a few years older than my kid ruled him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:33 PM
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He was the youngest person on my laminated card but I had to boot him for someone else after he assaulted someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:51 PM
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I find 3 of those men attractive and none of them are Leo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:34 PM
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You are running the risk of being banned for sexualizing minors. Just forewarning you!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:01 PM
1

You just described my husband too!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:57 PM
1

I'd 2nd that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:01 PM
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No. He's already a good 6 inches taller than me, which means I can wear heels if I want to, which I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:00 PM
3

We need a PPD girls' night out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:52 PM
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I once spent 20 minutes chatting with a bearded man with a receding hairline. He was attractive and interesting and had soulful brown eyes and a thoughtful demeanor. He was also drinking a beer. Came to find out he was the 19 year old son of my host. I was 37. I excused myself to freshen my drink and find someone more age appropriate to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:44 PM
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Welcome to the fold, fellow hippie!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:38 PM
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You can send the hot 45-60 year old bearded and tattooed men my way. Not really, since I'm married (to a 58 year old with a beard and tattoos.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:34 PM
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I don't care about the gym so much as long as he is active - the tats and beard are cool but what is a viking hairstyle exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:32 PM
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It's because of his dachshund. Every woman loves a man with a good wiener.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:31 PM
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Involuntarily. Men tend not to want to date women taller than themselves. They will tell you they do, but they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:50 PM
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He is not on Reddit or the manosphere. He thinks Reddit is a waste of time and one day I will piss off the wrong idiot and get myself killed. He does sometimes post memes on FB that I find objectionable but I’m not his mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:46 PM
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Everyone lies to some extent. If they tell you they never lie, they are lying. In terms of OLD, if you are just looking for a hookup it probably does not matter much. If you want something more serious, or meet someone with whom something more serious is a desired possibility, it will screw your chances if your lies are obvious, frequent, or easily disprovable. I don’t think exact or height measurements are necessary, the person has eyes and can tell if you are attractive to them or not. And wei…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:43 PM
1

I try to differentiate between men, and the manospherians.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:36 PM
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I knew one guy like that. Had sex with a lot of women but none of them wanted to stay with him for any length of time. Now he is in his 50s, no girlfriend or wife, no kids. He frets a lot about the no kids. I haven’t asked about how much sex he is getting but I imagine it’s slowed down too. He looks his age after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:35 PM
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We talk smack to each other about other people all the time. It’s part of our dynamic. We’ll probably do it later at the river. People suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:31 PM
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My tallest friend is like 6’ and she barely dates. She has had 2 boyfriends in the 30 years I have known her, like 25 years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:29 PM
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Yeah but at 5’2” you end up being an arm rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:27 PM
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I’m good with taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:25 PM
3

I like to direct it right out my vagina and have it hit a bullseye I have set up on the wall across from the bed. It goes “Ding!”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:23 PM
1

Do average women look like this? https://youtu.be/Zg3q6qW2aKo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:16 PM
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Dude, your average gay man puts more time and effort into his body than the average straight man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:38 PM
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That’s why abortion should be an option. These days there is also Plan B. Maybe order a box online and keep it handy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:04 PM
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No it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:56 PM
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BC can fail. That’s how my mini-me got here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:55 PM
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No. Being gay does not make you more like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:16 PM
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No it isn’t what I am arguing. I think abortion helps both men and women because I am not shortsighted and would not cut off a lifeline to people who don’t want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:15 PM
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You know they’re gay, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:03 PM
1

And then sing Village People songs! https://youtu.be/CS9OO0S5w2k
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:57 PM
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And then sing Village People songs! https://youtu.be/CS9OO0S5w2k
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:57 PM
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That’s pretty much what they do now. You’ve been on PPD long enough to know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:56 PM
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Moms don’t do it for the recognition. They just want their kids to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:55 PM
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Hope you meet someone cute and nice! Do they do the promposal thing at your school?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:53 PM
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Plus these days you can just take Plan B the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:49 PM
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My kid didn’t date until her 20s and I was concerned about that. I would rather her have a healthy, happy romantic life than sit in her bedroom all day playing video games, which is what she mostly did back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:46 PM
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I met my husband at 42 and married him at 49. He was the one who wanted to live together and get married. I didn’t demand or need a ring, but he was determined I should have one. I was the one who urged him to go see a doctor which led to him being diagnosed with diabetes. I financially supported him and was his caretaker when he had cancer. I make more money than he does and pay more of our bills. Since I work from home and he doesn’t, I do more of the cleaning. I also do most of the cooking an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:57 PM
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Then he should have worn a condom or been snipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:43 PM
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Being dumb. Making stupid decisions and then acting like the world is treating you unfairly because you are suffering the consequences of your own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:10 AM
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In a relationship I typically have a higher libido than my partner. I don’t think sex is unimportant and I would be just as unhappy in a sexless bedroom as he would. But that is in an established relationship. When not in a relationship I can go years without it, and have. In the very early stages of a relationship I can get to know someone before having sex with them. I can, within a relationship, go without sex because he is out of town or is sick or whatever. So I still believe sex is not a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:08 AM
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After taxes, rent/mortgage, bills and court ordered child support, sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:00 AM
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No we don’t. I can’t walk up to any man on the street and demand he put a baby in me. You still control where you put your penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:59 AM
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No, but those babies are entitled to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:58 AM
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Men provide the sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:57 AM
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Wearing a condom seems fair. Expecting others to take care of your mistakes does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:57 AM
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No, because bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:56 AM
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Is this the male accountability we hear so much about around here? You don’t want to take preventative measures like wearing condoms and then you want other people to raise the babies you willingly made?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:35 AM
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Because we do not need the average Joe equivalent of Nick Cannon making dozens of babies and then expecting other people to pay for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:33 AM
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I also would not like to meet my financial obligations but there would be consequences if I just stopped paying my bills. As there should be for men who expect others to pick up the tab for the babies they made.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:08 AM
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Why would they not pay child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:01 AM
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This sounds like bullshit to me. Like the guys who want women to blow them on demand because men built the railroads or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:59 PM
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No. If you create a child, you should contribute to its upbringing. My taxes should not go up, nor should YOUR child starve, because you didn’t want to wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:53 PM
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How is money rooted in biology? Other than, you know, not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:51 PM
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So use a condom like an adult if “women lie.” The fact is birth control can fail. And once you are pregnant your pro choice world view can falter, because it’s not a hypothetical pregnancy, it’s yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:50 PM
2

That’s not why. It’s because they don’t want to raise taxes to cover welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:45 PM
4

So you don’t believe fathers have a responsibility to the children they spawn?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:43 PM
0

Yes, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:42 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:41 PM
1

My daughter’s a millennial but I am Gen X.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:10 PM
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I don’t hate them, though I am not fond of the idea of them exploiting women for sex. On the other hand, that exploitation probably supports her immediate family. It’s a conundrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:08 PM
1

I’ve always just split or taken turns.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:06 PM
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I’ve kept my husband fooled for 10 years. Or maybe he just thinks my true succubus form is sexually arousing. One of the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:35 PM
1

My husband claims triple digits but is 5’8.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:31 PM
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I wear the amulet that hides my true succubus form on every date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:29 PM
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They are not mine, sadly. They are goats for hire they bring in to eat up the dead vegetation matter that makes such good kindling for grass fires and forest fires. https://www.npr.org/2023/08/10/1192905277/goat-grazing-california-wildfire-prevention
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:27 PM
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I think if you are in a relationship with someone you are not allowed to have feelings for, you need to get out of that relationship, but what do I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:23 PM
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Only if as a man you have no spine and will stay in a relationship with a woman you don't care about just for the sex... oh wait. Men here admit they do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:01 PM
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My husband had no resources when I met him. He didn't even have furniture. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:23 PM
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There are systems but there is only so much you can do. One of the most aesthetically pleasing systems is hiring these guys to munch up the excess brush. https://preview.redd.it/rozdeexa84jb1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8226459693df32fa8679dc951a48d2edb9b120be
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:07 PM
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To be fair, we don't have hurricanes here as a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:55 PM
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I don't really count drinks from friends, do you? But random men offering to buy women drinks just doesn't really happen to the extent they seem to believe. I don't know if it's generational or where they live or maybe I just hang around the wrong men, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:53 PM
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Not even when it's on fire. We seem to have gotten better with earthquakes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:51 PM
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I 2nd this, it would be hilarious to see the fuming when she bans someone for not being civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:49 PM
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We had an untraditional amount of rain in January 2023 and we lost a shit ton of trees. There are still trees down from those storms in our neighborhood park that were never taken care of, and houses taken out by fallen trees that haven't been rebuilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:47 PM
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Norcal checking in, no rain expected for the next 10 days. But thank you, and tots and pears to my southern brethren.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:40 PM
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Sure, I've both accepted rounds or paid for rounds, but I haven't often had dudes ply me with drink in the hopes of getting laid. My husband frequently comped me margaritas in our early days (and even now) but he's a bartender so it's not like he paid for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:32 PM
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Well, obviously the cheating, since I already mentioned it. What I care about is if I feel like he "gets" me and is one of my people, and if I have a kind of connection with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:29 PM
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I look amazing after sex. The dilated eyes, the glistening skin, the tousled bedroom hair...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:10 PM
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I outearn my husband. We also fuck. The good stuff too, not just missionary and a blow job on his birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:02 PM
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I'm stealing delulu.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:01 PM
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In the real world outside of PPD, men don't really care that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:59 PM
1

Is she still around?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:56 PM
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As far as I know. One's got a kid and is a single mom. Her mom is one of the first of my friends to be a grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:53 PM
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Heroin seems to be mostly people lying around half comatose. Doesn't look so fun to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:51 PM
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How is the Umbrella Academy? I haven't read or seen it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:50 PM
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You don't just have sex for validation. You have it because it's fun and it feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:37 PM
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I guess? I can think of at least 5 friends whose 20something kids either still live with them or who moved back during Covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:33 PM
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A lot of the lesbians I know had kids with men before they figured out they were lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:30 PM
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What if he doesn't want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:28 PM
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Samples from my playlist this morning. https://youtu.be/ipvEIZMMILA https://youtu.be/esA4keoRoQ0 https://youtu.be/LeHlvXvG6vA https://youtu.be/BdrNvQ4YCng What do you have that I need to add?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:26 PM
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I'm Gen X and it wasn't a big thing when I was younger. Unless I'm just hideously ugly, which I am no Margot Robbie but I don't think I'm grotesque either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:16 PM
6

Until PPD I didn't realize that men buying women drinks was such a big thing anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:10 PM
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Yes, the handful of women you have had grudging sex with are symbolic of the millions of women who don't want to be touched when they dislike a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:08 PM
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It's not just me. Most women have jobs and money these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:56 PM
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I am still shy and awkward. Less so after a margarita or two. Since he was bartending when I met him, he got to see post-margarita Astro and not shy and awkard Astro. Technically he got to see before and after margarita Astro.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:42 PM
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That's ridiculous. Random Brad is having way more kids than Chad. Chad doesn't particularly want them. To be brutally honest in an era where most couples divorce anyway, it's not like she can expect either Chad or Brad to stick around, but Chad is a lot less likely to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:39 PM
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Children hating their parents is hardly revolutionary. You'll grow out of it when you need babysitters for your own kids though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:35 PM
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Black Parade era Gerard Way was a pretty pretty man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:33 PM
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Not always, no. Very often girls were shipped off by their families to homes for unwed mothers or the parents "had late in life babies" and the baby was raised as a younger sibling to its mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:26 PM
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I got to know him, talked to him, flirted with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:11 PM
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Yes! It’s why after 3-4 of months of gradual flirting, my husband and I had sex not only on the first date, but on the way to the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:10 PM
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In 1953 the teen birth rate was 88.2 per 1000 girls 15-19. In 2018 it was 17.4. Yes, birth control accounts for the drop but just the numbers show that teens in the 50s were fucking. https://www.everycrsreport.com/files/20200513_R45184_3b5a5f05a7993f7442fa74f587535c564018e60f.html
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:08 PM
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You’ve never heard of beatnicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:00 PM
1

I live in the California equivalent of a flyover state. They do say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:56 PM
1

And I’m trying to make “Namaste-ing” a thing but it hasn’t happened yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:54 PM
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No, I’m general. I suppose as a college student you don’t know a lot of 30-60 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:53 PM
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And affording them how?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:52 PM
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No, because you aren’t married to your lab partner. You do understand that a word can convey different meanings depending on the context in which it is used, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:51 PM
1

Maybe the middle age guy should hit on more age appropriate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:48 PM
1

My husband cannot go to the corner store to buy a pack of cigarettes without making new friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:48 PM
1

I’m from the US and haven’t been in college in 30 years. Adults call each other partners instead of boyfriend/girlfriend because we are not teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:45 PM
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They ARE partners. You’re a couple, not leader and subordinate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:44 PM
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My dog thinks he’s a cat. He was raised by 2 cats. Instead of doing the puppy bow his dumb ass will walk up to another dog and rub up against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:41 PM
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Aw, that’s sweet!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:40 PM
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You can have sexual compatibility without fucking at the earliest opportunity. Let it simmer a couple of dates. The first time will be hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:38 PM
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What about 2 examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:37 PM
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I knew my husband 3-4 months before our first date. I was not DTF during that time. I was, however, DTF on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:36 PM
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I love mine too!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:35 PM
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Young US women like young US men can barely afford rent and many are moving back in with their parents or never moving out in the first place - how are they going to have babies in this economy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:34 PM
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The last breakup I had was because he cheated. Not because I was not physically attracted. And with my first husband it was because he was engaging in mentally unwell behavior. I didn’t lose physical attraction to him either. In both cases I no longer wanted to have sex with them, but for emotional reasons not lack of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:32 PM
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I lived in a quaint little town along the Mason Dixon line where everybody went to church and the Unitarian Universalists were considered Satanists. And many girls had babies or even got married before they graduated HS, including my little sister who did both. There was the AIDS epidemic but it was still considered a gay disease at first, especially in Small Town USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:22 PM
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He’s 5’8”. That’s taller than Tom Cruise, James McAvoy, his Spider-Man twin Tom Holland. I used to think Toby McGuire, Daniel Radcliffe and Elijah Wood were interchangeable but apparently Toby is the tall one. Daniel is 5’5” and Elijah is 5’6”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:12 PM
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Thank you for saying that. I wasn’t particularly happy with her for sleeping with him behind my back either, so I did not end up with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:02 PM
1

And getting your ear pierced hurts much less!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:59 AM
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I thought you could only have sex if you were married until I was like 9 or 10. And I could only masturbate with the closet door shut and the desk light on because the devil was going to drag me to hell or so thing equally unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:58 AM
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It doesn’t even hurt as much as a vaccine and has fewer side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:56 AM
1

I honestly don’t remember! I remember talking to her about periods and a convo about masturbation and about birth control/condoms but the actual conversation about sex escapes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:49 AM
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Is Toby MCGuire what we are calling average now? But the fact is I do not care about any of that and it would not move the needle. Editing to say I do care about the cheating. Just nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:37 AM
2

I probably would not notice tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:25 AM
1

I made champagne Jell-O shots once but you could not really tell it was champagne. Boozy though!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:18 AM
2

I’m still fanatical about condoms for casual, but my mother kindly took me to see her friend in the hospital a few days before he died of AIDS in my formative years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:17 AM
1

I’m sure yours is cooler.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:15 AM
1

I want to get one of those Soda Streams and carbonate soup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:49 AM
1

I have 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:49 AM
1

I drink sparkling water - no corn syrup or aspartame for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:40 AM
2

Experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:37 AM
1

Pretty early! How long has he been away?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:37 AM
1

Never heard of it but enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:36 AM
1

Cool, will you get new ink?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:36 AM
1

It don’t know, it was 2012.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:09 AM
1

Yours sleep? I’m jealous!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:46 AM
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We didn’t even do that much. A couple hours at the river, then came home and are watching nothing on tv. I’ll cook here in a minute but right now I am wasting time on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:44 AM
1

Any live music in your vicinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:42 AM
1

Hope you are doing well! Enjoy your weekend off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:41 AM
1

Sounds like it smells heavenly!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:40 AM
2

No, I’m sorry. I hope you find what you are looking for though!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:37 AM
1

Noice!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:36 AM
1

Sounds like a chill night. Online chess or with people chess?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:36 AM
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We took the doggo to the river, fed some ducks, then came came home. He worked ungodly hours the last 2 days, so we have a night off together. I’m going to grill some chicken in a bit and we have ice cream for dessert. Hoping I’ll get lucky after.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:35 AM
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Sounds like a lovely way to spend a Saturday!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:32 AM
1

Sounds pleasant! Maybe I’ll break out the face masks and do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:32 AM
1

Fun! I remember finding small children in my cupboards during one eventful sleepover. Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:31 AM
1

Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:30 AM
1

Aw.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:30 AM
1

I was not particularly looking for men young enough to be my sons, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:28 AM
1

What is everyone doing this fine Friday? I hope none of you are here because you are all out having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:06 AM
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Thank you. It’s really my daughter to feel sorry for. I didn’t know. And now that’s her genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:04 AM
1

He really does sound like my ex-husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:57 AM
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He’s bipolar. He can be stable for months or years at a time and then he goes off the rails and posts rants to social media or in texts about how persecuted he is and how the world is out to get him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:54 AM
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Honestly he sounds a little like how my first husband gets. Which is concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:50 AM
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That is a little extreme. Have you considered mental health measures? This is above PPD’s admittedly low pay grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:49 AM
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I kept my name both times I got married. I hyphenated the 1st time but the second time it was like, eh. I’d been me 49 years by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:33 AM
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I was marked absent for the first quarter of gym class one year because I did not respond when the teacher called my name. Because he wasn’t calling my name, he was calling something else, and it did not occur to me that he was looking for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:28 AM
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Lol no I’m not. I work in legislative affairs and I am physically active. Perhaps you have me confused with someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:10 AM
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I want to jail them for harassment. Going around asking random women to date you and then calling them bitches when they decline is harassment. Try it at work and see how long it takes you to get fired. Or try in on your high school English class, whichever is more relevant to your circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:05 AM
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Yes. Thank you. A voice of reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:59 AM
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For me it’s the ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:56 AM
1

At least you didn’t have to worry about calling out the wrong name in bed - till after the 4th!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:56 AM
1

🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:55 AM
1

Oh, so terrifying. A friend lost her house in the Paradise fire in CA a few years back. But she and the kids and dog made it. I am glad that you are safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:46 AM
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Hemp seed oil is amazing for your hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:44 AM
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🤷‍♀️ Perhaps you are very young and reactionary, and see fascism in everything? I don’t know you well enough to say. But no, I’m not in the business of telling others what to do. Sounds tedious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:43 AM
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I always hated my name. I wanted a “normal” name instead of having one that made me sound fresh off the boat. Then at some point I decided I like it in spite of itself, because it is not very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:38 AM
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Mental instability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:35 AM
1

True story!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:31 AM
1

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:28 AM
1

Had to be. I met my husband in 2013 and my foray into OLD was a year before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:22 AM
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The report function is not working on my phone right now. I have my laptop with me but I don’t care enough. I’m busy with these guys. https://preview.redd.it/utp5q254nyib1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6d106bcc9fc8dc21ccbf21189e8dd0e80f6bfe78
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:19 AM
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Or to non-fascists, especially if they have vaginas, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:18 AM
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Just wait until she holds your hand during your first prostate exam.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:16 AM
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Oh, what happened? You’re in one of the fire zones? You okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:10 AM
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Reported for not being civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:07 AM
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True enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:06 AM
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And men have the right to be arrested for harassing random women on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:54 PM
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“Run, Simba! Run away, and never return!” I think you’re awesome but this place is toxic. You deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:32 PM
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I’ll give you No. 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:29 PM
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Go ahead and fuck with your health and possible future fertility. Hard pass from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:21 PM
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Nobody has to do it. But I already said in my own comment to this thread (and elsewhere on this sub) that you can approach. Just be chill if you're rejected. Too many men aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:15 PM
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That was over 10 years ago, maybe they've gotten smoother. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:14 PM
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Um, no. Please stop lying, Syphilis and gonorrhea have made comebacks and chlamydia is rampant. Especially among koala bears but that's another story. Some of the biggest hotbeds of STD outbreaks are nursing homes and retirement centers, where people assume they don't need checked because they are too old to get pregnant or impregnate someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:39 PM
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Yes! They led with "I am a 22 (or 24, or 26) year old virgin looking for a caring, older woman to teach me about sex." Or words to that effect. Edit: For reference, I was 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:34 PM
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A man is allowed to want intimacy with a woman he just randomly approached but a woman is not allowed to want a husband and save her intimacy for that husband, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:33 PM
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If you think sex is bad, then you're having it wrong. As are most of the men who just want to use women as a masturbatory aid rather than as a partner they give a shit about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:31 PM
4

Did you forget STDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:29 PM
5

Why would you assume a younger man would be pleasurable?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:28 PM
7

When I was OLDing I got a barrage of incels younger virgin men looking for an older woman to have sex with them. I rejected each one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:27 PM
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Lots of recently divorced / separated women looking for rebound fun Sure You get points as a guy simply for being a bit younger than them. It's big validation for women to hookup with much younger guys For some. For the rest of us it is cringy. I tried once and broke up with him because it felt like I was dating my son. They aren't insecure about seeking casual sex, and offer guidance in what they want. Yes, very often. They have more conscious view of time , less likely to be flaky Depends. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:25 PM
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Wanting a happy relationship is different than wanting to use someone as a fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:18 PM
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I don't have a problem with that as long as you are mindful of her possible discomfort and move on amiably instead of being acting like an ass because she either didn't want you or didn't have the time or interest to deal with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:17 PM
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During the 3some? Yes. Because that was the boundary we set - we both needed to be there. NOT, go behind my back and sleep with her without me and hide it and lie about it. It would have been absolutely no better if I had gone behind his back and slept with her, because that is not what we agreed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:03 PM
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I was talking more about being flirty and touchy throughout the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:01 PM
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It is NOT earning sex. Nobody said anything about earning sex. It's not like a gold star you get on your assignment in kindergarten. It is the point that if you want your partner to want to have sex with you, she actually has to like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:59 PM
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You couldn't, the house is in my name.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:46 PM
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I guess I misinterpreted the meaning or interpreted it differently. For me foreplay is something we do all day long, not 5 minutes before sex. Teasing touches, little kisses, flirty texts. So it starts at breakfast. It's not him making breakfast. We aren't really breakfast people though. I'm happy with just toast.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:44 PM
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Do you.. do you not think a couple owes it to each other not to contribute to each other's bad mood? Indeed, to help alleviate their bad mood? Do you never look at your partner who is stressed and think, "hmm, he/she's had a bad day, I'll try to help out and relieve some of the pressure on them"? That's sad. Why would someone who is not in the mood for sex because her husband is a slob, want to entice sex? That's nonsensical. I thought duty sex was frowned upon here. On the other hand, If I'm in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:37 PM
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It's good you're able to remain in touch. Shows maturity on both of your parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:28 PM
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Sorry, if I resent you for being a manchild who expects me to clean up after him. I already have a job and it's not being your maid. So I'm not going to want to have sex with you. You not talking to me is not going to make me think "oh what have I done" and throw myself at you. It's going to make me think that my instincts were correct and you are in fact a manchild who would rather be petulant than just grow up and pick up after himself. And yes, it will eventually fail and I will be better off…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:20 PM
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Thank you for your a straight answer. Sounds like she wanted kids and you didn't, which is a perfectly valid incompatibility with no real fault to assign. If the emotional side of the relationship was lacking, then it also makes sense that the sex was lacking. Cheating on her rather than just breaking up with her was not right, but we won't quibble.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:16 PM
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And that's fine. If you don't want to pick up after yourself and they don't want to have sex with you because you are a poor partner and then you get mad and stop talking to them instead of throwing your socks in the hamper, you should probably just break up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:12 PM
1

I do live in the US. They do not do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:10 PM
10

Did it end because you wouldn't clean up after yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:07 PM
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Nobody is saying you need to negotiate desire. They are saying that you lose desire when you resent your partner. They aren't attempting to bargain with you for sex - they just don't want it, period, when you are not being an adult in your marriage/relationship. Why is that so hard for you to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:06 PM
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It's not implied, you are projecting. The one doing the enticing is the one who wants to have the sex. If the man is not getting the sex he wants and he doesn't pick up after himself, he might draw a correlation. But apparently that would require too much self awareness for some men on PPD. Of course nothing is going to be 100% perfect. Nobody is looking for 100% perfect. If you occasionally leave your dishes in the sink, nobody cares. If you're a pig who never cleans up after yourself and expec…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:00 PM
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I can find a man attractive and then go about my day not thinking about him ever again. A crush is more someone I find attractive, and think about him, want to know more about him. So different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:49 PM
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No, being a slob means you are neglecting your partner, and your home.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:46 PM
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Men will have sex with women they are unattracted to and actively don’t like. Women’s sexuality is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:44 PM
1

They don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:42 PM
1

A crush is deeper than just finding someone attractive. It's actually getting to know them and being infatuated with them. It's different and it's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:15 PM
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"Way too extreme" is an understatement. Nobody said it is your spouse's sole responsibility. What they did say is that a man who is a good partner is more sexually enticing than one who is not. A man who doesn't sit around letting his wife taking care of everything and is proactive about stuff, is going to have a happier wife and won't be fighting with her for a crumb of sex. That seems pretty obvious to me. I don't understand why you would think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:10 PM
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No I meant women loving marriage makes sense. You get all the benefits security and validation from one man and if you get bored of him you can file no fault divorce take half his shit and go fuck another dude Didn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:07 PM
1

Adults can have crushes too. You've never had a crush on a co-worker? Someone from one of your classes in college? Maybe the cute barista at your neighborhood Starbucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:05 PM
1

I read a horrible story today about a woman who literally sold her child to a pedophile for crack cocaine. The child was of course raped and murdered. They both deserve the dark cell, if not the death penalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:04 PM
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It's more like, over a few months or years resentments will start to form because you are not helping her with your house and family and she will be less inclined to want to have sex with you because of all of that festering irritation from your lack of interest in being a partner. So we're talking a history of you being a slob, not just a singular instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:02 PM
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If you stay at home they've have to support you and that makes you a gold digger treating them like a beta bucks but if you have a job that means you won't be able to cater to their every whim and do all the housework and cooking and blow them in between loads of laundry. Truly it is a conundrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:58 PM
1

I went off PPD during the first year. Should have stayed off but y'all sucked me back in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:56 PM
1

It is still a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:55 PM
1

2-3 times a week usually, but the last 2-3 weeks have been rather stellar, and higher than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:54 PM
1

My husband doesn't like me on Reddit for that very reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:52 PM
1

I don't know any such men, thank God.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:51 PM
1

Imagine not holding men accountable for CSA.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:50 PM
1

Do you not think there is a difference between a friend complimenting you and your crush complimenting you? Or a rando on social media vs the guy you're madly in love with?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:49 PM
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If my husband weren't banging me just because I expected him to put his dirty socks in the hamper instead of on the floor, I'd leave him and good riddance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:46 PM
15

Nobody said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:44 PM
16

Do you have a problem with men being good fathers and husbands? It repulses you that a man would take care of his toddler? I got the ick from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:33 PM
1

And when men assume that all women are gold diggers looking to divorce their husbands for a payday, it is definitely low IQ and just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:07 PM
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It depends on how old he is. Up to mid20s, being a virgin is common and doesn't really detract from attractiveness. At age 40, more than 0 is sufficient. Were your 2 partners within solid long term relationships? If so, all the better. LTR sex is way better than casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:01 PM
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Of course! I also sometimes see things on TV and ruminate upon it in terms of PPD, just haven't written a post about any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:54 PM
7

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:51 PM
5

I feel like we literally just had this post three days ago. And lo and behold, we did! So I'll just cut and pasted what I said way back then: There is no "should." There is what works best for the couple. I make more, by quite a bit. I also work more hours. I also do more housework. The reason I do more is because I work all my hours from home. So I can do a load of laundry or clean the kitchen when I have a few minutes throughout the day. He does not have that luxury. However you decide to divv…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:47 PM
19

That's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:37 PM
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If I'm in a relationship, it's with the expectation that we will be having regular sex. 90% of the time I am correct. There are situations that I will not want to have sex and that should be acceptable to my partner too. Not as in a dead bedroom, but maybe I'm exhausted or I'm feeling sick or I have some basic female reproductive organ issues. I'm not a 24/7 sex robot. Likewise, sometimes my husband worked a double or doesn't feel well or any number of reasons why he might not feel up to it. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:36 PM
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Yes, you make generalizations and then throw them at women at an accusatory fashion, without even knowing enough about those women to know if the women suit your generalization, and then get mad when they don't fit your stereotype. Idk why you do that, it's annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:26 PM
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I don't know if I'd hang my hopes on Hank Hill in particular but yes, I agree there is nothing wrong with being an average man with an average life, an average partner, average children. There's a lot of happiness to be had there, if you can appreciate what you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:24 PM
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I used to wear heels sometimes but then I broke my ankle twice in 2 years and now I can't wear them at all, plus I work from home so I have no need to leave the house in heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:48 PM
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Are you, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:47 PM
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Then you should take your "IN GENERAL" bitterness out on women who do that, not to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:45 PM
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She does! She posted a picture of him standing on a car.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:44 PM
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You can! Wear lifts!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:43 PM
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That's too tall. I'll stay with the under 6'ers so I don't break my back trying to see their faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:40 PM
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I worry about it quite a bit, especially since the kiddo started working part time at a bar and walks home alone at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:35 PM
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My dad also dotes on my daughter and kind of forgets he has grandsons, for pretty much the same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:33 PM
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Sequoia National Forest just got a pack! https://www.ourvalleyvoice.com/2023/08/18/wolves-return-to-sequoias-after-100-years/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:27 PM
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And a goat!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:26 PM
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No, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:25 PM
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Rape is an actual danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:24 PM
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Oh trust me, they are resistible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:21 PM
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Negging and dread has just made me laugh and feel sorry for them since roughly 2012.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:20 PM
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I know I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:18 PM
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Makes me want to throw up whenever I read that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:18 PM
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My dad preferred having daughters, or so he claims. But he was raised by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:17 PM
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Some men want to hear their own beliefs come out of women's mouths and when we don't respond the way they want us to, they get mad or accuse us of lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:15 PM
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I have known at least 3 women in my life who were Pisces and were nuts. I don't even believe in Astrology but if I meet a woman and she gives unstable vibes, she's probably a Pisces. And she will want to be my new best friend. And I will let her, and then she will start stalking her ex-boyfriend or call me at 3:00 am to sob about something or need a place to stay because she hates her roommate that week. I don't have that problem with Pisces men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:13 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:08 PM
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I agree. Just get on with t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:07 PM
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That's what I'm saying - since I make more money I would end up giving up half of MY shit. He would entitled to half my retirement, for example - he has no retirement. I'm banking on him dying before me instead of divorcing me. (I'm kidding about that.) My MIL had to give up half of her retirement and half the proceeds of the sale of the house SHE paid for to her ex-husband. So I know how it works in my state.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:59 PM
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No, it's your "you're a woman. Of course you do." Normally when men say "You're a woman. Of course you (enjoy marriage)" they mean being provided for. I'm not provided for, so I'm interested to know if that changes your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:43 PM
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That’s why I waited a good 4 years to move in with mine and 7 to marry him. I wanted to be sure it wasn’t a dumb decision. Unlike my first marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:23 PM
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I’ve always dated men my own age, this one happened to be an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:21 PM
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Even though I’m the higher earner and I work more hours?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:10 PM
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