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You're not invited.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:45 AM
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Omg 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:21 PM
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I have no problem doing it. I've presented at conferences before, so talking to strangers isn't scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:20 PM
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People have been doing videos showing their dogs not eating a treat until being given permission. The implication is that the dog can control its primal urges better than a man can.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:19 PM
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Eh, I think it's fantastic given how many men here talk about how uncontrollable their urges are, and what they'd like to do to women (individually and as a group) as revenge for being sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:17 PM
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the expectation of monogamy My point is that there shouldn't be an expectation. You can't be betrayed if there was never an agreement to begin with. As for the rest: this is probably very cultural, but I don't see why you'd bring a person around to family and friends when you haven't even established a relationship yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:15 PM
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The first I disagree with, because I don't think prude men are valuable. The second, I agree with. That's why a woman should always make a man wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:08 PM
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No. You're the one who brought up women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:07 PM
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Are you saying men are born desperate for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 10:54 PM
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Well yeah, surrogacy. I think I'd barely enjoy parenting as it exists now, so I wouldn't do it if it got any worse. Currently it's the reverse for me: I hate the thought of being pregnant but wouldn't be opposed to being a mom
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:56 PM
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It largely depends on what you want from the relationship, but I do agree for my own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:53 PM
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I'd happily pop out babies for other women 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:52 PM
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So you're telling me that if you like a person, you won't have sex with anyone else even if you aren't in a relationship with the person you like. Yeah, that's not normal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:45 PM
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Well, I don't know what to tell you. Orgasms feel wonderful, but I wouldn't call them emotional. I had bigger emotions about my first kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:13 PM
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And you believe everyone responds to hormones the same way? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:11 PM
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Oh sorry, I assumed you were the dude with all the alts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:07 PM
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Omg she looks like my tortie
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:06 PM
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Are you going to DM me from one of your alts again like a weirdo?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:58 PM
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So during those relationships, you never discussed actually forming the relationship? At which point did you assume you were officially together?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:50 PM
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Woo affiliate sales. And no, I'm friends with people my husband dated before me so that'd be dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:48 PM
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That's not the same thing as not being attracted to someone though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:44 PM
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So wait ..you've never had multiple crushes at a time? That's just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:32 PM
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OR, don't make assumptions if you care that much. Have you ever even had a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:31 PM
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🤣 if that's the sign, I never had the ability to begin with. The first orgasm another person ever gave me was wonderful, but not an emotional moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:25 PM
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Nah, this is easier lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:13 PM
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I enjoy PIV more, but I wouldn't say they're more intense. And I don't view orgasms as emotionally connecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:06 PM
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Why are you editing your comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:00 PM
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My hubby and I don't do Christmas so...happy federal holiday!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:47 PM
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Excuses excuses. I guess my soft job gave me more of a backbone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:45 PM
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I did, I'm aware of how the UK grading system works. If you were trying to crack a joke, it wasn't funny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:43 PM
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You built the world but can't handle some errands? Weak..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:41 PM
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🤣 they should do more than chastise. I hope they start treating us like Russia.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:38 PM
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Does this mean we can stop doing your gift shopping for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:37 PM
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Fascinating Yeah, I'll stick with Lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:33 PM
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So would you call him a racial slur too?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:31 PM
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🤣 oh no I'm so scared. If you want to insult people and blame your autism or race, you're pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:30 PM
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You're the one using your autism as an excuse 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:26 PM
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I'd say that characteristic is the most common target.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:25 PM
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Well that explains a lot. I'll take Lift over an autist any day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:22 PM
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...says the person using a slur lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:18 PM
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One slight amendment to this: if he changes the thing(s) I think are unattractive, then I'll find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:06 PM
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That explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:03 PM
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My theory is that they see this as some sort of safe space where they vent about all their problems with women and not get any turnabout. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:01 PM
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It's very traditional if your family has British heritage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:59 PM
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A guy can't grow on me physically, only in terms of personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:57 PM
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Jesus Christ, if you hate the mods so much why are you here? I can put up with all the bashing of women, particularly fat women. Don't be so sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:56 PM
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But how is the other person supposed to know whether they're dating anyone else if it's never been discussed? I don't assume someone is not seeing other people just because they ask me out. That's just weird. It sounds like you just don't like having to ask for what you want. You're not entitled to monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:50 PM
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🤣 no. If I'm not in a relationship, I am neither monogamous nor polygamous. I'm single, and I'll behave as such. You're conflating being single with being polygamous, and that makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:48 PM
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I'm riding that sleigh until I fall off 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:41 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:34 PM
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When I say I care about other women, conservative women aren't in that group lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:22 PM
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Nope, it was you. With all due respect, you sound like someone who needs to be locked up for public safety. I'd be more concerned if you like me lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:13 PM
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Lift seems like a normal guy. Not sure about the rest lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:10 PM
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Then go be a passport bro lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:06 PM
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But the other person isn't saying they're monogamous, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:44 PM
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If I was monogamous at birth, who was I monogamous with? It's a relationship status. You can't be monogamous, polygamous, etc. if you aren't actually in a relationship. That's like calling yourself a parent before you have kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:43 PM
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I'll stick with swords, thank you 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:42 PM
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So if I was monogamous from birth, who was my partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:40 PM
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But again, they aren't saying. And neither is the other person lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:38 PM
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So we're monogamous from birth? Nope, sorry lol If someone wants exclusivity, they should ask for it. They aren't entitled to the assumption. If they're too afraid of being rejected, that's their own problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:36 PM
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Only if it's big enough. Your pocket knife can just be flipped up inside you 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:32 PM
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Who says they don't? Maybe they're like me and just don't care either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:24 PM
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So if their partner also isn't bringing up exclusivity, why wouldn't it be fair to assume they're also non-monogamous? Like it or not, being single is the default setting. Changing that requires a deliberate conversation. I don't feel sorry for people who just start dating someone and assume they're exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:23 PM
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Also, if the other person wants exclusivity, why aren't they bringing it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:19 PM
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Not everyone is concerned with exclusivity. I'm certainly not, so I'll go along with whatever the other person says they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:18 PM
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Okay 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:13 PM
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Do you qualify for Medicaid or ACA subsidies?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:05 PM
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Then date a poor woman. My health insurance covers psychiatry and I use it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:50 PM
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We care, we just expect you to see professionals like we do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:40 PM
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Cats are superior
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:34 PM
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Sorry, royal you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:33 PM
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So your argument is that this selfishness and entitlement are being expressed outside of dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:32 PM
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Fabulous comparison 🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:31 PM
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Considering how many of them talk about status and "bad boys" I'd say they're very much still stuck in high school mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:31 PM
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Their mental health issues are their own problem, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:30 PM
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Then why are you complaining about not being able to get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:30 PM
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Manifesting this for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:03 PM
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Are low-count men actually getting opportunities to reject high-count women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:53 PM
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Okie dokie
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:53 PM
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Point it out all you like. It won't change my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:50 PM
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If you want just sex, why would you even be asking for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:48 PM
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Aren't you the troll with multiple accounts?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:46 PM
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Still waiting for why y'all need your standards validated. Enforce them, or don't. Do you think I give a fuck if a man thinks it's okay that I wouldn't touch a virgin? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:46 PM
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Judging by this sub, I'd say that the men with baggage are the ones who didn't get laid in high school (regardless of age).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:36 PM
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Men usually say stuff about "maintaining peace" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:06 PM
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Agreed, the men here get super riled up when I call them worthless for dating because they think I'm referring to their existence overall. And even if I do think a person is worthless overall, I still support them having rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:05 PM
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Totally agreed. Being single is the default state. If you want that to change, it requires communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:03 PM
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I stumble into delayed gratification because I obsessively research almost every purchase I make.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:45 AM
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But those men aren't required to date me, agreed?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:44 AM
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I get sad sometimes thinking about all the family stuff that'll eventually just get dropped off at the thrift store. I have (what I think is) my great-great-grandfather's baby rattle. I love the idea of having my own kid who could play with that rattle. But then I remember that a woman can actually get her ribs broken by the fetus being too big, and I think "Nah."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:06 AM
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I don't keep score with people like this. But in a general sense, I'd say I've gotten more from women than men. Many men will do the littlest things and act like they just moved heaven and earth for someone, whereas the women I've interacted with will be there for you at a moment's notice and treat it like it's nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:52 AM
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I don't disagree, but obviously conservative women are still going to go for conservative men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:47 AM
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If you think abortion should be elective at any point, then you're pro-choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:25 PM
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I mean, they're children to pro-lifers, that's why I asked lol What's your source?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:05 PM
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Not my problem you think everyone is on TikTok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:04 PM
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Surely I can speak about women the same way the men here do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:03 PM
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Is this an abortion thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:02 PM
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Right, I'll just believe my friend who manages a funeral home and is a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:37 PM
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Men fuck those too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:36 PM
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True, we're morally superior because the mortuary industry isn't concerned about us fucking corpses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:27 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:08 PM
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Again, you need to be more specific. Selfish and entitled in what way, to what, and directed at who?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:44 PM
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That depends on what aspect of them is horrendous, and who's making that judgment call. I think religious people are generally horrendous when compared to nonreligious people. Would you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:09 PM
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I generally agree with this. Financially supporting yourself is just a basic requirement for adulthood in my environment. Just like I wouldn't want to be a financial dependent, I also wouldn't want to HAVE a financial dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:28 PM
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One of my friends is mildly allergic to tomatoes. But she'll pop a Benadryl if there's pizza lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:07 PM
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I think their fantasy is that a woman sees their whining and decides to have sex less just because of them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:01 PM
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You need to enjoy life more, then. This sub is just entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:52 PM
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No, because other people have free will and can choose to not date that person. If they're that horrendous, the only people choosing them are desperate and need to work on that themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:51 PM
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🤣 doing something a lot means I take it seriously? You're flailing a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:37 PM
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True, but you do actually have to be a worthwhile person. Someone who clearly relies on the internet for interacting with other people is not a worthwhile person. You take it seriously because you have nowhere else to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:32 PM
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I keep extra Plan B in my house and grow abortifacients. Exactly what are you doing to help anyone who wants an abortion get one? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:30 PM
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Yes, that's what the internet is for. I'm sorry you don't know how to form offline relationships that you can turn to for whatever you're seeking here, but it's not really my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:21 PM
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Why? I'm not the one supporting pro-lifers 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:20 PM
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First you have to convince me they're selfish and entitled. Then, you need to convince me that dating struggles are an actual societal problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:19 PM
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Call us out whenever you like. Just realize you are not a person whose opinion matters to us 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:06 PM
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Fantasizing? Comments like this is why NCLB was a horrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:00 PM
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If you really see this as making society worse, consider yourself very privileged. I have better things to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:58 PM
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Yup, I can't take anyone seriously if I know I would have aborted them 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:42 PM
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Because I don't care if they behave this way, and I think it's weird to give that many fucks about someone you don't want to date anyway. I'd never date a man who has or wants kids....should I start trying to shame men into remaining childless?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:15 PM
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Agreed, and they make up some excuses about how their standards are fine because they're things women can control ...as if women think they are worth changing for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:16 PM
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Again, I think the difference is the desperation. I've never wanted a relationship so badly that I'd change my appearance to get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:03 PM
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And like I said, being able to hide their actual feelings is tolerable for platonic relationships, but not for romantic or sexual ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:57 PM
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I'm just going by how y'all speak about them. And it's not even "this category of women sucks, here's how to avoid them and get the good ones." It's "women suck, here's how to get them anyway" lol If I felt about men the same way RP men felt about women, I sure as fuck wouldn't be with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:21 PM
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I'd never give anyone that advice, but like I said, it depends on the desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:19 PM
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Any level of attraction. Basically, any man who does not meet their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:09 PM
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It's also about hating on the same women you want to fuck lol My view of them is similar to MAGA: if they can keep it secret, then obviously I'd never know the difference. That's tolerable with platonic relationships, but I'd rather die alone than date an RP guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:07 PM
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That's fine. But what I don't get is why men aren't vetting for that and use body count as a proxy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:46 PM
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If he's not happy, he should leave. I don't get all the hand-wringing. The whole point is to filter out men who aren't willing to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:44 PM
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So would you argue that she should settle for someone she isn't attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:42 PM
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Realistic in what sense? Not everyone is desperate to pair up, and there's nothing stopping a person from just staying single if no one meets their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:26 PM
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So you want women to settle for men they don't actually want to be with? Men would be okay with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:25 PM
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Too high for what? If I'd rather be single than settle for a substandard man, what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:22 PM
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Well sure they aren't aliens, but I would never want to actually be around them outside of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:22 PM
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After discovering this sub, I realize how lucky I am to have found my husband, and I'm not willing to entertain the thought of accidentally dating or marrying a RP man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:13 PM
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Lavender marriage. The only type of marriage I'd consider if I ever have to get married again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:48 PM
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Nah, this seems silly. I don't get why people's feelings are hurt regarding icks. It just means someone saw something about you that they find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:41 PM
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Laugh and walk away. It's clear that the only thing he really cares about in life is getting laid, and that means we have nothing in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:38 PM
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Who cares? Why is this all about validation for you guys? If a woman isn't meeting your standards, don't date or fuck her. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:37 PM
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Being average doesn't tell me what your actual qualities are. If a majority of men are below my standards, then bring average is a bad thing..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:36 PM
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I don't wonder at all lol What I wonder is why men hate and resent women and still won't leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:35 PM
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I don't view standards that way. It all depends on how desperate she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:34 PM
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5/10 and 7/10 are still failing grades. And having a job isn't anything special. You should have a job if you're an adult. I'm guessing these men aren't as attractive to women as you think they are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:44 PM
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Because men will still pick them. You can't expect someone else to uphold your standards for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:42 PM
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I'm generally unattracted to traditional masculinity, so that'd ruin things. But the other stuff is very important. I've never wanted to fuck or date a guy simply after looking at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:39 PM
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First, she needs to figure out her standards. "Good man" is way too vague. Then, she needs to figure out whether she's cool with dating strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:36 PM
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🤣 speak for yourself, my life is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 02:59 PM
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Precisely what would a man be a victim of if he chooses to fuck or date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:06 AM
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You can be upset. What do you expect anyone else to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:53 AM
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That'd be their problem for being so desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:48 AM
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That would be their fault for agreeing to casual sex when she doesn't want casual sex. One of the dumbest things anyone can do is think that fucking someone casually will convince them to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:47 AM
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Oh absolutely. That was more directed at the men who are going to talk more about not being able to read social cues and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:15 AM
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Extrovert. That being said, there is a big difference between being introverted and being shy/awkward. Introverts can socialize...they just don't do it as often because alone time is what recharges them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:01 AM
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Public sector ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:44 PM
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Oh I definitely posted. It was just too shocking not to. He had to tell my mom what he was planning because he needed her to find out my ring size. But from my perspective it was an absolute surprise. I flipped him off (both hands), said "Fuck you" and then collapsed to the ground and cried for a bit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:42 PM
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I don't really differentiate between what you describe and any other version of a person not meeting all my standards. I just don't get the vitriol. If I don't want to date a man, he basically doesn't exist to me. It's weird to watch people spend so much time thinking about and speaking against someone who they don't even want (and who would probably reject them anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:32 PM
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I don't see much point in investing when I don't plan to retire. Plus, I have two pensions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:29 PM
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Plenty of men fuck and don't have kids. They're just smart enough to avoid pro-life women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:28 PM
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Eh, marriage is what you make of it. For my husband and I, it is mostly about two things: Legal benefits (my health insurance is so much better than his) He was always iffy about getting married, and I told him that if he ever decided he wanted to, he was free to propose because I wanted to. I never actually asked him if anything specific made him change his mind I agree that Disney is stupid, but my husband and I were already in love for years before we even got engaged. Marriage was less about…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:27 PM
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And that's fine, but it's kind of on you to locate a woman who is willing to put up with that insecurity. It makes more sense for women to just focus on the men who do get casual sex easily and, therefore, don't have any hangups about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:22 PM
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My experience is that they advertise themselves pretty thoroughly. I hope they never stop wearing the hats.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:20 PM
1

I'm not one for proselytizing. I think anti-feminists are especially beyond redemption.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:03 PM
0

I don't think absolutely no one is influenced. But I think you underestimate how much women like me enjoy being left alone by men in the public.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:51 PM
-3

But the question was why women aren't complaining to other women. To me, the answer is obvious: the women who like being left alone don't give a fuck about the women who want to be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:33 PM
3

Oh that was my bad, I missed a zero. 625 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:31 PM
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You don't like traveling?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:30 PM
3

Wait maybe I did my math wrong...if I fuck one guy a month, how long would it take?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:29 PM
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Y'all need better women, I'm the strip club fan in my marriage (I also pole dance).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:55 PM
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Damn, I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:52 PM
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I forgot that song existed. Bless you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:49 PM
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But why would I be willing to put up with strangers hitting on me just because another woman wants to be hit on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:48 PM
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Come to my city, I'll take you to all the gay bars
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:05 PM
2

Aw congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:52 PM
2

But the reverse of that is that men are saying they want to be disposable and not worth seeing ever again. And that's fine, if you want hookups then go for that. But you have to realize that, just as men don't care about how their opinions of women make women feel, women don't care about men's feelings either. We aren't saying it to compliment you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:51 PM
5

Because that'd be settling. Obviously, he could get casual sex if he says that's all he wants. But I wouldn't date him after if he tried to act like he changed his mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:36 PM
1

The flaw is in your logic. Casual Sex Guy™ and Relationship Guy™ have to be equally attractive. The only difference between the two is that the latter also meets my relationship standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:27 PM
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So your argument is that I'm lying about having casual sex when single?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:25 PM
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🤣 where did I complain? If I had an issue being called fat, I wouldn't be here. Just don't whine about being treated the same way. And no, nowhere in her comment did they mention lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:19 PM
5

Nope, not married that long lol Although I'm flattered you pay so much attention to me..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:05 PM
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...you do understand that alcohol and weed are drugs, right? Why are you jumping straight to coke? Personally insulting me would be more effective if you weren't so obviously wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:01 PM
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I would never date someone I fuck casually, and vice versa. I don't know where you're getting the idea that the body count gets high because of that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:00 PM
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My BFF always says she'd pick the man so she can hunt him for sport 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:58 PM
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🤣 the comment literally said "the occasional drugs." You're the one with the learning disability, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:52 PM
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If he was the type to be desperate, that'd make sense. But we're both the type who don't care about being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:46 PM
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I take my financial independence very seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:36 PM
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Not everyone is against alcohol and weed 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:35 PM
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Broadly speaking, my mom helps me when I really need it. She bought me a dishwasher for Christmas lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:34 PM
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That's a gold digger. I've been with my husband for 17 years and in no universe would I ask him for grocery or salon money lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:27 PM
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I have to wait for people to die before I get any of the family wealth. But at least I know I can pay off my student loans eventually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:26 PM
2

Maybe Gen Z, but my understanding is that Gen Z women are as fucked as Gen Z men are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:21 PM
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I mean, if you want casual sex it makes sense. I've never had casual sex sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:19 PM
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That's fine, women aren't the ones whining about being alone 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:16 PM
1

I have to disagree. His body is as ugly as her face is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:15 PM
1

Even if we're talking about just his face, his puberty mustache is ruining it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:14 PM
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I value face more, but I wouldn't fuck him with that body. So if her body is good at all, then I'd say they're equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:07 PM
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Her face gives me the same level of ick as his body does. I'd need to see her body to know more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:55 PM
0

Why do you think we'd give any more fucks about them than the men would? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:53 PM
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I'd rather be fat than get flowers 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:45 PM
8

Leagues are for people who are desperate to settle. Guys are either hot or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:43 PM
1

With the rate I had casual sex when single, it'd take me about 63 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:41 PM
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He doesn't have to make more money, so long as he can financially support himself and pay his half. He also doesn't have to be fitter (he was skinnier when we started dating lol). And he also has a high body count. I'd never marry a sexually unsuccessful man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:37 PM
5

Bro, no one wants to hear about your penis. I feel like I should be able to charge you for reading this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:33 PM
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How is it shitty that I have no access to his money?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:32 PM
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Not particularly relevant since I can't spend his money lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:19 PM
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Replace flowers with Taco Bell and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:05 PM
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Should I have accepted a man who only has a BA when I have a graduate degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:54 PM
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The thought of being pregnant makes me sick. I'm pretty sure that's what my instinct is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:53 PM
1

That wasn't the question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:52 PM
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So by this logic, men want to stay single. Make that make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:51 PM
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Damn my friends with kids must be miserable then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:50 AM
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Daaaaaaamn. Yeah I did that but it was with a guy I was dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:36 AM
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17 years is hella long for a prank
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:14 AM
2

My friends and I used to do Rock Band parties. There was still plenty of booze and sex to be had.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:10 AM
1

Would you say that shopping on Instacart is an accurate reflection of all shopping?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:17 AM
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Okay have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:09 AM
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Hi, fatty here with an athletic man. I hope it makes you cry 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:08 AM
5

That's why socializing is important. You can't be invited to parties if you don't have friends who throw parties lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:06 AM
8

So if you aren't actually putting yourself in environments where casual sex is common, why would you expect to get casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:26 AM
5

This guy was maybe 5'6, chubby, and balding. If he can get laid, most of you can lol Do you even go to parties?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:16 AM
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God isn't real, and I'm more team nature than nurture. But the reality is that the men who whine about being excluded aren't actually willing to do what's needed to change themselves. They'd rather complain online instead of go to the local bar and just start talking to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:14 PM
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And my comment still applies. Plus there are a lot of supposedly neurotypical behaviors that I think are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:06 PM
2

I don't really see noticing weird behavior as instinctual lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:02 PM
2

I can only go by how it's described. I don't knowingly know anyone autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:57 PM
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Or boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:47 PM
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This was in 2007-2008. Went to a party, met the guy, went off to one of the bedrooms. We're rapidly approaching third base and he tells me to tell him I love him. I had to stop because I started laughing so hard. I ran out of the room still half-naked. Never saw him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:44 PM
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Waving? That sounds more spastic than extroverted lol The first time I really recall meeting my husband, he was speaking clearly and had a lot of inflection and emotion in his voice. He stood out considering how many men mumble in monotone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:29 PM
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You don't have to be extroverted to have an actual personality. My husband is quite animated, but also an introvert.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:21 PM
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The source of the ick is a man that much older than me being interested in me. How would it be inappropriate for a man my own age to ask me out? The same would go for the reverse. I've had guys young enough to be my child ask me out...ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:20 PM
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Assuming they're all attractive, I usually go for whoever is the most animated personality-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:13 PM
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How can you determine likability based on zero interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:08 PM
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Define "status" because this seems like a high school thing. How can someone have status if they aren't well-known by people outside of their actual social circles?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:04 PM
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Wow, compelling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:02 PM
2

I'm not understanding your question. Are you asking whether men who were the same age I am now hit on me when I was a preteen? If so: yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:02 PM
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What do you define as equally attractive? Most men I see on a daily basis are attractive, but that alone wouldn't be enough to get me interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:00 PM
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How are they being fooled?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:08 PM
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Were you the one who recommended some kind of cat/sweater game in the daily?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:29 PM
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I do. But don't worry, I never remember the usernames of the people I think are worthless, so chances are it won't be brought up again unless you remind me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:49 PM
1

Damn, you're one of the few here making less than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:01 PM
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Oh no, I don't support men like you. Go your own way 💋
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:56 PM
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This shit is why I don't feel sorry for any of the men on this sub. It's not exactly shocking y'all are sexless lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:52 PM
1

How much do you make? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:51 PM
2

As a bi/pan woman and a switch, I definitely think it's fluid lol So my guess is that you'd want a woman who thinks the same way you do, because I'd view you as incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:48 PM
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Yikes, do you not have people who love you or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:43 PM
3

Men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:37 PM
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What's the drama?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:32 PM
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🤣 I make $40k a year, please tell me how out of touch I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:30 PM
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That's correct, it was probably in the early spring based on the texts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:29 PM
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No. I think men were unfairly advantaged for an extended period of time because women had limited rights and needed to be legally linked to a man to survive. Now, men have to be as desirable and likeable as women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:28 PM
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The first thing you need to understand is that not all women want the same thing. So first you, need to define what subgroup of women you're interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:26 PM
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... we're talking $500k tops. I plan to use it to pay off our house and rebuild the back porch that has a hole in the floor lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:26 PM
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Serious answer: either of my great-grandmothers. I never got to meet them and it bums me out. Fun answer: Jesus, so I can show him how commercialized his birthday is and ask if he can go ahead and rapture all the Christians.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:24 PM
3

You're not looking for a useful suggestion, you're looking for a cheat code that guarantees results. And those simply don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:18 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:16 PM
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Sorry my generational wealth upsets you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:15 PM
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Tradcon women probably aren't, but they made the choice to be financially dependent so I don't really feel sorry for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:43 PM
3

Not on OLD...? I don't date strangers, so I'd never do online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:34 PM
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His family is technically more wealthy, but I'm an only kid on my mom's side (and no contact with my dad's side) so I'll be getting more eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:30 PM
2

Yeah that sounds like you were picking desperate women who didn't really care about you so long as you met their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:19 PM
3

Does that mean these women didn't see me as people? It sure sounds like it 🤷🏻‍♀️ Did they know how much you make?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:02 PM
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I never got the fuss over prenups. My husband and I did one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:47 PM
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That's fair, that's how I feel about the men here. The ones in real life (most of them anyway) are awesome and feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:46 PM
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The only thing keeping me in the US is my mom
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:27 PM
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I work for a federal agency. Trump apparently said we could also have the days before and after Christmas off, but our agency head still needs to approve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:19 PM
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Damn, I wish I could have that amount of time off. I might have Christmas Eve off if I'm lucky lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:09 PM
1

I gave him a lapdance. It still took him another couple of weeks to realize I wanted him. We're married now 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:36 PM
4

Speaking as a woman, I've never been sexually attracted to someone for status. Status is something that is only important to people who are famous/infamous or in high school...or maybe a small town where everyone knows everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:35 PM
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Personally, I get the ick thinking about dating anyone more than 2-3 years older than me. I was getting hit on by men old enough to be my father when I was a preteen, and even now at 39, I'm still grossed out by the prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:33 PM
1

Interesting that you see that as an attack, rather than a basic statement. Most of the men here have autism in their flair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:30 PM
2

Sure, but I'm going to treat the complaining like it's anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:29 PM
1

I never eat breakfast so......awesome 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:28 PM
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Wtf is going on with his eyebrows?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:09 AM
2

Okay, let's say they're normal, then. That makes I and several dozen people I know especially successful at socializing, which seems weird because I know people even more social than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:01 AM
2

Most of the guys I've dated/fucked have been more conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:00 AM
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Yes, we already get that. People miss out on what they actually want all the time. Y'all are acting like you're the first people in history to have FOMO lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:58 AM
3

He's not wrong. You act like socialization is something you have to suffer through to get what you really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:56 AM
1

What's to argue? I literally said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:55 AM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:54 AM
1

If I'd fuck him and he isn't getting laid, I'm assuming he's either extremely socially damaged or a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:01 PM
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And I appreciate that, it helps explain why men like you have such issues. You can't fathom doing anything for any reason other than having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:00 PM
3

Just because I'm not nice to you, that doesn't mean I'm not nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:59 PM
3

I had a wonderful day and I hope everyone else did too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:50 PM
1

Would bang (if he isn't horrible in person).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:49 PM
2

Thank you for this wonderful illustration 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:48 PM
4

Attacking me isn't an argument, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:47 PM
1

🤣 you responded to my comment, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:19 PM
2

Yeah it's really sad. The men who whine about the mods wouldn't last long outside of their safe spaces lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:13 PM
6

You're getting very emotional. What do you believe I am acting entitled to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:10 PM
1

Then the problem lies with you, because the comment you replied to was about socializing generally, not just socializing for the purpose of getting your dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:08 PM
2

But what's your evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:07 PM
5

No, lying is for losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:02 PM
1

Ah, so you're moving the goalposts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:59 PM
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He brought up good behavior. Again, what does that have to do with socializing? You can be well-socialized and behave badly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:58 PM
1

Aw, thank you 😗
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:57 PM
2

You offered no evidence, just your opinion. So if it's just between my opinion and yours, I'll stick with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:56 PM
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Ohh you're MAGA, that explains a lot lol So what's the proof that normal people struggle socially?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:56 PM
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Nah, I'm kid-free. Not everyone is incapable of overcoming their lizard brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:53 PM
1

Ok so which is it: is it normal to struggle socially or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:52 PM
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In this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:50 PM
1

Well if your argument is that young people are defective, you're free to state that. I don't associate with Gen Z beyond work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:49 PM
1

And I'm saying that if they struggle, they aren't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:48 PM
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You're free to think most women aren't worthwhile. I'd be impressed if you could. I wish men had higher standards and didn't just stick their dicks in every hole that consents lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:48 PM
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that's kinda the point though. most women are also remarkably antisocial and considerably quiet/reserved Not in this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:44 PM
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Well the other option is that they're normal and my friends and I are social superheroes. That does boost my ego 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:42 PM
3

When I was a kid, I took a nickel off my neighbor's porch. When my dad asked me where I got the nickel, I cried and confessed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:41 PM
0

The idea that normal guys don’t struggle with this is an illusion That's you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:24 PM
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Why are you conflating anti-social behavior with immoral behavior? Is this an autism thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:23 PM
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You're the one who brought up what all men think 🤷🏻‍♀️ The only worthwhile men are the ones who aren't complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:23 PM
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Why are you conflating there being a lot of guys who are anti-social with it being normal to be anti-social? If they're anti-social, then they aren't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:22 PM
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At this point, I'm just assuming they're all autistic. Everything they say makes more sense when they're autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:16 PM
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No, I've met plenty of men who don't think women have the final say in sexual selection lol Are you saying all men think like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:09 PM
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And what are these supposedly normal things? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:08 PM
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My point is that for normal people, none of that is hard. Most human beings aren't awkward and socially stunted. They don't have trouble making connections in public spaces, and they don't have trouble maintaining those connections once they exist. If they're hard for you, then yeah it's obviously going to suck. But most people aren't like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:08 PM
3

Flair checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:55 PM
1

I think you mistake this sub for the TRP sub lol You're not in a safe space.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:54 PM
1

You really think that's the only way to be creepy? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:52 PM
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Agreed, but men bitch about that too. They aren't saying to pick better, they're saying to pick them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:48 PM
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It depends on what woman you're going for. For me, a guy just needs to be physically attractive and not embarrassing to be associated with. If you're expecting casual sex but aren't actually pursuing women who have casual sex, that's your own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:48 PM
2

How are online friends not real friends? You don't actually spend time with them, for starters. I am challenging the notion they were in fact creepy but in fact fell under the horns effect. So you're saying I'm lying about being physically attracted to them? That's not much of an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:46 PM
1

So your argument is predicated on dating via social media. That explains a lot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:43 PM
1

So just dating apps? You think the women and women on dating apps are representative?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:36 PM
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And you realize a lot of the time this is dictated by appearance and not actions? And that generates a feed back loop. I can't tell if you're trolling or just didn't read what I said. Go back and try again lol What do you mean by remarkably anti-social? A lot of the guys here have said they don't have any actual friends, just people they talk to online. Are you using normal to mean extroverted? No, I'm using normal to mean normal: conforming to a standard. There's this sense of entitlement, like…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:35 PM
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If men don't like this phrase, they should stop lying about wanting a relationship when all they really want is sex 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:24 PM
1

But it's universally the case for all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:23 PM
1

Why would I address NPC behavior as though it's unique? You just sound like every other man here. Did you want me to feel sorry for you or try to convince you to like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:07 PM
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Then do something about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:06 PM
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Most of the men here seem remarkably anti-social. I've seen guys post photos of themselves here and they absolutely would get laid in at least several of my social circles, provided they didn't act like creeps. But the key part there is... several of my social circles My friends and I aren't necessarily extroverts, but hanging out with people in person is a given, and we also maintain our friendships for the long-term. My husband's BFF has been his BFF since third grade. Mine hasn't been that lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:01 PM
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That didn't answer my question. Are the men who don't get casual sex just not attracted to the women who would agree to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:56 PM
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All you've offered is the standard incel rant. What's substantive about that? You won't even follow through with your threats 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:51 PM
1

Men have the same rights in those that they've had for at least a couple of centuries now. And you don't have a right to be liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:51 PM
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And how does that not apply to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:49 PM
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Then your equal is a woman who was also excluded...not a woman who chose not to participate lol I don't know why men think that being denied something is the same thing as refusing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:46 PM
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Men usually get flak because they admit they'd be fine with high-count women if they weren't so insecure about their own sex lives. I can't imagine having a standard that weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:31 PM
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There's all the various waves...radfem (including SWERFs and TERFs), libfem, Marxist, intersectional, ecofem, etc. They don't usually debate except on points they actually disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:03 PM
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If you're no bigger than a beetle, you should be treated like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:58 PM
1

And the same applies to men. The only difference is that women aren't the ones whining about not being loved lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:58 PM
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Nope, someone is poorly educated and it isn't me 🤣 Stay in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:57 PM
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What rights have men lost? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:57 PM
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There's nothing flattering about male attention. Y'all fuck animals and corpses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:56 PM
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I don't care if men stop, I just wish they'd stop whining about being judged as though they aren't judging women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 12:52 PM
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She looks like a painting come to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 12:02 AM
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Aw you poor thing. All that bullshit and you think I'm going to educate you? lol Go ask Mommy to read to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:49 PM
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Calm down, you'll get wrinkles before I do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:47 PM
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I didn't follow that well enough to have an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:40 PM
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🤣 you are literally talking to a published historian, and that is exactly how history works. Did you even graduate high school or are you one of those NCLB kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:36 PM
1

If you don't think taking rights away from people is horrible, that reinforces my opinion of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:35 PM
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Whatever you want to call it. You're still hoping you'll scare us into liking you, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:12 PM
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That's irrelevant. The reality is that you're as horrible as I imagine men to be, so you can't really argue that I'm wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:12 PM
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Who cares? You act like I wouldn't just off myself if things got bad lol Besides, we know it's just talk. Otherwise you would have done it by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:05 PM
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There's no point in arguing when you're proving me right simply by existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:04 PM
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I have a pretty awesome career, I'm doing another graduate degree, and I'm kid-free. You have...Trump, and your seething hatred that will never translate into a woman touching you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:52 PM
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Insulting me isn't an argument, nor is it effective coming from a virgin. It's not my fault you made incorrect assumptions about me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:51 PM
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Meh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:31 PM
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I show mine most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:30 PM
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Ah, so you admit you do see them as mutually exclusive lol Thanks for finally getting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:24 PM
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They sometimes do. I've experienced outright lies more often lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:20 PM
2

But again, what purpose does the communication serve? Even if I ask him, he's still going to have to jump through the hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:19 PM
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That makes no sense. Are you saying people never outright lie? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:16 PM
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Well at least you're being honest. Too many men try to hide how pathetic they are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:15 PM
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So you don't believe it's ever possible for a man to lie about wanting a relationship in order to get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:14 PM
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The only reason to ask is if he's not stating his intention unambiguously. So if he's not stating it and, instead, just asks me out on a date, what do I get out of asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:12 PM
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They aren't. But why do both when one suffices? What does doing both offer me that just observing doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:08 PM
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And where did I state that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:01 PM
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He clearly thinks his action isn't ambiguous, otherwise he would state his intention, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:00 PM
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The ones who ask for dates? That's what the vetting is for. I don't know whether they're being honest, so I wait and observe. The guy has to prove he's sincere about the relationship before we have sex. Women talk about this a lot as if men have already decided before the first date that they just want casual sex. I usually know. I'm not sure I'd want to date a guy who doesn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:58 PM
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I've never seen the argument before. Makes sense, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:54 PM
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Is your attraction not affected by what people do or say? Why would I ask if I don't see his action as ambiguous?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:52 PM
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Interesting that you see patriarchy and democracy as mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:46 PM
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To accommodate your edit: I agree. I have no issue with casual sex. But men often ask for dates when all they want is casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:46 PM
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Why would I ask if the guy ruled himself out for both already? Guys will always either ask you out on a date (relationship) or ask if you want to go to the nearest open bedroom at the house party (casual sex). They aren't usually ambiguous in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:44 PM
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Is all this whining going to bring back the patriarchy or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:40 PM
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The reality is that most men I've met have done or said something within the first five minutes of meeting them that indicated they weren't fit for either dating or casual sex. You're not asking for verbal communication, you're asking women to give men more of a chance. And I don't see the point in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:39 PM
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People with secure attachment give benefit of the doubt until trust is broken. True, but what does that have to do with meeting standards? I'm very secure in my attachment, but that doesn't mean I'm naive. It also doesn't mean I'm going to rush into a relationship until I'm done vetting. Example: if I'm waiting for a guy to do or say something that indicates whether he wants kids, how does benefit of the doubt affect that? And if I make it clear that I won't date a man who has or wants kids, why…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:30 PM
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I think you're missing a big point of the vetting: if the guy makes it to the status of "partner" then he passed because he proved he isn't morally corrupt. Personally, I don't date strangers. So all my vetting usually gets done during the friends/acquaintances stage. Most guys I've vetted never knew I was interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:14 PM
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What is my position?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:58 PM
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What's to counter? You're exactly who I guess you'd be. Were you expecting me to feel sorry for you or try to change your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:24 PM
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If you're already in a relationship, then you passed the vetting. You're asking for something that needs to be earned. And no, I see it as wasting my time because I've never been desperate for either relationships or sex. I don't want them until I meet someone I'm attracted to. I'm not currently single, but I was just as happy single as I am now. You're coming from a position of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:23 PM
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Okay, then get your revenge. Maybe you can scare a woman into loving you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:17 PM
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One of my high school friends is still a virgin, as far as I know. My guess is that she's around/ace.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:16 PM
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So we should ask AND do all of the other stuff? Why? If they aren't lying, then observing them will bring us to the same conclusion. I'm not a fan of wasting my time. The sooner and with less effort I can eliminate a guy, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:15 PM
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Well I really feel sorry for anyone fucking my mom. The only way she'd let that happen is to use someone for money 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:10 PM
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Most women I know are married, but the ones who are single have either never dated or haven't dated within the last 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:09 PM
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This really reads as "I hate it when a woman doesn't give me the opportunity to lie to her and instead chooses to observe things I have a harder time concealing." It's not usually a character thing, either. I don't consider a man to be immoral simply because he doesn't meet my standards for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:09 PM
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Ew, you fuck the elderly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:02 PM
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🤣 you're the one making an argument but you can't provide anything to prove it. Stop trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:54 PM
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Okay, then what's the issue? You're doing exactly what we expect of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:48 PM
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Stop upholding the system, for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:26 PM
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Me personally.... Him: what's the favorite for? Me: c'mon, I have to keep at least one thing a surprise. But I really think you'll like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:24 PM
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There's a fine line between flirty and sexual, and that gives off sexual vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:21 PM
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I mean, I assumed the "something else" referred to panties lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:19 PM
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So you have nothing. Thanks for playing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:17 PM
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Y'all are the ones bitching about it. You go first lol Or...grow testicles and learn to reject women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:17 PM
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They want validation more than anything (except for pussy).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:56 PM
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Me every time a man posts about how they're going to punish women and bring civilization to a halt because they can't get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:45 PM
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Okay, so again...source?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:24 PM
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Why would anyone be happy that Rob Reiner is dead? I mean, apparently Trump is. So I assume only the MAGA women will be sucking his murderer's dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:26 PM
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Do it already or stop whining. You're not scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:25 PM
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You don't think oppression is a thing, but you used it in your analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:20 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:20 PM
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What values of feminism are women not upholding?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:19 PM
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In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:19 PM
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No one's forcing you to settle. It's not our problem that you'd rather settle than be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:18 PM
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Wait...is your argument that men started women's suffrage? lol Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:18 PM
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If we're just friends, then we aren't in a relationship. If he asked, I'd tell him. But I think it's silly to assume that a single person isn't having sex. I'd assume he's fucking other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:36 AM
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Your previous example doesn't make much sense, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:19 AM
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I have the opposite experience with labels. For me, it was giving a term to something that is 100% true about me. If someone is labeling me something incorrectly, I don't really care because it's usually coming from someone who's inconsequential.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:18 AM
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Yes. We're either in a relationship, or we're not. I have no problem with doing long-distance, so it's on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:15 AM
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Oh I agree. But I don't see it as a religion. It's more like that one quote: when I express opinions that distinguish me from a doormat, people call me a feminist. It's more like accepting a label I don't oppose. Unlike you, I'm not against identities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:43 AM
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True, but also sex isn't valuable to me. I wouldn't base a relationship on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:40 AM
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And that's entirely your prerogative. But I'll stick with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:35 AM
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It seems like a waste of time. If he's only useful for sex, what's the point of seeing him again? That's time I could be available for someone I'd want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:32 AM
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Not at all. I don't do repeat casual sex, so the "one night" part is optimal if it's not going to be an actual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:26 AM
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British accents are nice, but I'm indifferent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:21 AM
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Sure. I'm not saving myself for a nonexistent relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:20 AM
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The first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:16 AM
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Not really. I'd be more embarrassed to go back to working fast food.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:03 AM
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So your argument is that feminists hate you, as a man, but you support them anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:03 AM
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Cumberbatch is good. Way too young for me, but the guy who plays Vecna.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:02 AM
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Well it doesn't look good on him, that's for sure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:34 AM
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Maybe it's technically still the cheek, but whatever the fuck that is. It's like he's chewing tobacco. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:32 AM
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Yeah but with the fat lips?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:24 AM
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The sunken cheeks........ew
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:22 AM
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Borosilicate ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:21 AM
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Oh I agree with that. But ultimately their kids are their own problem to deal with. And I think men should have the same thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:21 AM
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Hey, I'm kid-free so you're preaching to the choir. But I wouldn't proselytize because I don't like it when women who think women should be having kids proselytize.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:14 AM
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Okay, so you support non-femnisits. Likewise, I support non-manosphere men. What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:09 AM
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So you're for...forced abortions? Forced sterilization?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:08 AM
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Well, the fact that you think it's emotional lol If it's good enough for my ancestors, it's good enough for everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:56 AM
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But you already stated that feminists hate men. Are your sisters included in that? Or are they not feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:49 AM
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You're fairly rare among theists then. They're usually personally insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:47 AM
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Emotionally connected?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:47 AM
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I help the men I care about. They aren't anti-feminist, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:32 AM
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Again, irrelevant. Borders exist and have existed for millennia.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:26 AM
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Is your wife... Nevermind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:26 AM
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You're a theist, correct? Would you feel respected if I shared my views against religion, including my belief that theists are mentally deficient?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:21 AM
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Nice dodge, but I didn't ask who is "always the oppressor." I asked who the oppressor is. Since you view women and men as being equally oppressed, who is oppressing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:20 AM
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I'm not seeing why belief is relevant. They either exist, or they don't. Also, there are plenty of other definitions of a country besides a nation-state.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:17 AM
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Make whatever excuse you want lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:16 AM
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No. I think a lot of things are harmful, but I don't consider it my responsibility to police others. I just make sure their choices don't harm people not directly involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:13 AM
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Considering everything I've learned about MRAs was against my will, I'm not involving myself at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:10 AM
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But do they exist or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:08 AM
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No, I meant your decision to describe men vs. women as two minority groups. That matches the "All Lives Matter" people very well. Who is the gender oppressor in your view? Non-binary people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:04 AM
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If everyone is allowed to come to America then America is not an actual nation. According to what? If you don't believe in borders you don't believe in nation states. They either exist, or they don't. Belief has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:03 AM
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So what qualifies the US as an "actual country" that indigenous civilizations didn't meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:58 AM
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See that's where I have to disagree. I'm all for evidence-based education, but I wouldn't try to convince a virgin-until-marriage person to have sex. That's creepy. And I'd hope they show me the same respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:57 AM
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That explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:55 AM
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🤣 you think I was mad? Your literacy is concerning. Top notch whitewashing in the first paragraph, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:54 AM
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People are already free to do that. I was also raised to be against premarital sex, but I decided the argument in favor of abstinence was wrong. And my school's sex ed was abstinence-only. So what's the difference between what you imagine and how things are now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:53 AM
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I support immigration because my family immigrated. One of my ancestors was a German teen who fought for the British during the American Revolution, and he and other Hessians were "legalized" through a pardon. Basic rule of life: you aren't special, so don't demand to be treated better than how you treat others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:45 AM
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"Women make assumptions about men that hurt my feelings, so as vengeance I'm going to behave exactly as women expect me to." Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:41 AM
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The United States government? Or the United States population? In my state, education funding is tied to property taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:40 AM
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But how would you enforce it? What would make it different from now, where everyone is free to choose whether to be monogamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:39 AM
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Men can voice their concerns all they like. But I AM a feminist. If someone is anti-feminist, why should I hear them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:38 AM
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Are you one one of those All Lives Matter people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:37 AM
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I'm talking about substantial advocating, not just discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:10 PM
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Education and healthcare in particular. But also I'm a fan of UBI.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:06 PM
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Not in my opinion. How do you certify exclusivity without legal recognition/obligation?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:04 PM
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I'm about the same on social issues, but I've gotten more financially progressive as I've gotten older.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:58 PM
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Can you show me a group of men advocating for men without bringing up anything related to dating and consensual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:22 PM
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Then they aren't the ones I'm talking about. I'm talking about anyone who makes an appearance on the Leopards sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:21 PM
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Sure 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:53 PM
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Sounds hot 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:23 PM
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Again, I simply disagree that it's a valid justification for the double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:14 PM
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get away with Again, what's wrong with just not having sex with someone until they tell you whether they're a virgin? If you can't enforce your own standards, that's your own fault lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:13 PM
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So why would you agree to have sex if she hasn't told you whether she's a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:04 PM
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None of what you said justifies men having a standard for body count that they can't meet themselves, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:00 PM
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You're not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:52 PM
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🤣 quite the opposite, it's a shock to see so many people who don't own their home and who know so many criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:48 PM
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That the explanation has any bearing whatsoever. About half my high school friends abstained until their wedding nights. They never would have entertained the thought of dating a non-virgin male.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:37 PM
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True, but a lot of the people here (especially the men) seem to come from remarkably trashy backgrounds that I've only ever seen in media.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:35 PM
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It's more like "The only people complaining about this are shitty human beings, and I'm not Captain Save-an-Incel." It's very similar to watching Trump supporters whine about tariffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:33 PM
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The fact that you think it's valid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:31 PM
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I love debate subs, and this one is particularly entertaining. It's like reality TV, but interactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:31 PM
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You really need to do better than that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:24 PM
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Excuse it however you like, it's still a double standard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:23 PM
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You didn't answer. I'm guessing that's a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:20 PM
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This is personally what I find fascinating about your post... First you say: People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affection But then you say: hookup culture that puts an emphasis on sex rather than exclusivity has effectively made it possible for 1 guy to be having several women on a roster while others wait on the side lines. Let's say that we go back to a time when extramarital sex was essentially criminal. Do you believe tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:20 PM
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Then you should rethink how your original post is worded. You're clearly stating that being domineering and being mentally healthy are two things that need to be balanced lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:15 PM
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🤣 I literally know where all our medications are kept. Has a woman even told you she loves you? Mom doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:14 PM
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Men are enslaved? Fascinating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:13 PM
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And I'm getting the vibe that you don't actually have an argument apart from "men be like." If you thought I was a bot, you wouldn't still be talking to me. Either way, you're the one making a claim that they're mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:12 PM
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None lol Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:11 PM
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I haven't been single since 2008 lol Keep trying, I'm sure you'll eventually come up with something that might hurt my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:57 PM
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Considering your apparent literacy level, I'm guessing I've been a feminist for longer than you've been alive. Don't project your obvious defects onto other men. It's not fair to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:56 PM
3

No, first you need to explain why there is a middle ground instead of someone expressing both to the fullest simultaneously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:50 PM
2

This exactly. Men are children until they prove otherwise lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:47 PM
2

I'm indifferent. If someone wants to be anti-feminist, they can. Just don't expect me to care about them lol There are enough good men in the world that deserve my care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:46 PM
1

That doesn't make your assumption any less idiotic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:43 PM
1

Okay 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:43 PM
4

So you can't handle not fucking someone until you know whether they're a virgin? Simply dating someone doesn't add to your body count lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:42 PM
2

Then have the courage to ask her out when she's off the clock, instead of when she can't pretend you don't exist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:39 PM
2

You're admitting that you take advantage of her response being related by her employer. Report all you like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:35 PM
1

Oh absolutely. Even at 39 and married, I still deal with it. It seems like autistic men don't know the difference between flirting and customer service.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:33 PM
2

I've responded with "no thanks" and gotten myself a stalker for my troubles lol And thank you for illustrating why men like you are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:31 PM
1

And that's fine. I've had dudes hit on me in an immediate sense, and when I rejected them politely, they decided the best thing to do was wait for me to get off work. I don't fuck around with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:30 PM
2

Not often, most men will take politeness as playing hard to get. I like to respond with what is most effective for shutting down the interaction. Not to mention, if you're in a position where you rely on tips, even the nicest rejection can impact your income.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:29 PM
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Oh yeah, people who hit on people while they're on the clock are seriously pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:27 PM
2

Men can start their own gender movement if they think they need one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:26 PM
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🤣 you really think my boss is going let me tell a guy to fuck off while I'm on the clock?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:26 PM
3

Ladies often complain about domineering men who condescend. Then ten minutes later they’re on about how much of a turn off it is when a guy puts mental load on them by deferring to them or caring about their ideas and preferences. I'm going to need you to explain why a man isn't both, because my husband handles his own mental issues and has never been domineering lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:24 PM
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Agreed, I don't know why men aren't out trying to have fun themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:23 PM
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Friendly reminder to all the women: don't date a man who didn't get to have fun, otherwise he'll be bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:21 PM
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Hiddleston all day every day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:18 PM
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Nah, it's creepy to know that a woman's response is restricted by her employer and still ask her out anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:17 PM
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Both legal, provided both parties have the same regulations on how long they have to make their decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:56 PM
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I'm still pretty pleased.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:55 PM
5

I'm talking about the impetus to parent to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:52 PM
3

Then stop dating us. Or learn that sex and love aren't the same thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:37 PM
6

Nah, that's bullshit too. I'm kid-free and barely like kids, but it's been obvious in my life that the good parents don't need peer support or pressure to be good parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:36 PM
1

And that indicates they aren't prepared for feminism? That sounds more like they're ready for feminism to go even further lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:33 PM
1

No, I'm talking about non-looks. For example, if I suddenly decided I wanted to stop working and be a housewife, we would be divorcing. In comparison, my husband has never expressed that he'd leave me if my looks changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:32 PM
1

I've only ever discussed it with two partners, and I was the one to bring it up. The rest are lucky (or perhaps not if they wanted to be dads) that I'm kid-free lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:20 PM
3

It's way too much effort. I have no interest in entrepreneurship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:05 PM
8

Is your argument that you can't know whether a woman is a virgin without fucking her first? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:04 PM
1

You're forgetting about bodily autonomy. If you want the right to abort a fetus, acquire the ability to carry a fetus in your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:03 PM
0

Not in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:02 PM
3

Can you give examples from that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:02 PM
1

When I stop to consider how many men asked me what I'd do with an unwanted pregnancy before having sex with me, I stop feeling sorry for men in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:01 PM
3

What does that have to do with feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:58 PM
1

And men only want equality when it doesn't prevent them from getting laid 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:58 PM
3

So you expect feminists to fight for men's fights?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:57 PM
1

I have to disagree with that. If I ever deviated from my "resume" in my marriage, my husband would leave me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:56 PM
2

Why are you assuming the women complaining are feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:54 PM
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If you need someone to give you permission to parent your own child, you aren't interested in being a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:54 PM
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🤣 you made a lot of very incorrect assumptions. And the fact that you needed to insult me instead of answering the question says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:44 PM
1

Well I can't speak for other women, just myself. But as someone with a graduate degree, dating someone who didn't at least have an undergraduate degree feels like I'm really slumming it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:04 PM
2

But again, what struggles? You gave an example, and as I said, I don't view that as a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:05 PM
1

I don't know their education levels. Do they have college degrees? Undergraduate or graduate? They certainly aren't the men who come to mind when I think of intelligence, especially the Chrises lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:03 PM
3

Again, I'm not seeing this as a struggle. Do you perceive women as fighting amongst themselves over this issue or something? Example: as a woman who would never date a stranger in any context, do you believe I'm upset with women who want men to approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:01 PM
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I wouldn't call it lovebombing. If she were a friend, I'd tell her not to come crying to me when he dumps her for someone younger lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:58 PM
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Tell her to call me, I can show her a better time than you can 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:57 PM
10

...boy are you trolling or illiterate? Ah, so you think women are a monolith. If you don't think women are a monolith, why are you providing as an example the fact that women don't all agree on whether they want men they don't know to try and talk to them in public? lol That's not a struggle, that's just women having different standards. I know men like you really want there to be some sort of cheat code for getting a woman's affection, but that's never going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:56 PM
9

Ah, so you think women are a monolith. Let me guess, do you have trouble with the concept that not all women are feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:51 PM
7

He had a say in who he chose to have sex with. Most men don't even ask women what they'd do with an unwanted pregnancy before fucking, so why would they suddenly care after the fucking? Post-nut clarity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:48 PM
12

If I'm they're "better prepared" then why aren't women whining more? Where's the female loneliness epidemic?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:44 PM
4

So then they aren't actually prepared lol Plus, the biggest rebuttal against your claim is the reaction men have had to women not getting married and having kids at the rates they have in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:40 PM
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If men are more prepared for feminism, why are they complaining about it so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:38 PM
2

Being "on the DL" has existed for decades now. I don't understand why you're treating it like a new phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:36 PM
0

I mean, you can do that too. I just don't get complaining about bad sex in the context of a marriage when you married someone who doesn't enjoy sex 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:32 PM
1

This is just a partial list: kid-free, not religious, financially independent, college-level education.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:29 PM
1

And aside from Henry Cavill, I have yet to meet a man who breaks that stereotype lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:28 PM
1

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/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:26 PM
1

So which is it? Are men suffering or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:21 PM
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Who said anything about having sex early? I'm talking about having sex casually. That's like me waiting to spoil a girl i want to be serious about while i go all out for someone i see no future with on the first meet up. That's because you view sex as a reward, rather than something mutually enjoyable. Men like you are the reason why I make men wait lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:21 PM
0

Are you wanting kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:23 PM
4

I like Hoarders. It encourages me to clean and makes me feel better about the messiness of my house at the same time. Sure I have dust bunnies, but I can see my floor 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:19 PM
3

I've never actually seen Real Housewives, but I'm assuming it's the same vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:15 PM
1

I care about friends and family. That's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:15 PM
3

Embarrassment at who you're being associated with. And the only difference between a friend who I'd fuck and a friend who I wouldn't is the attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:47 PM
2

It's less about safety and more about avoiding embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:25 PM
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I don't know if I'd draw the line there. I will say that I didn't cook for my husband until we started living together, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:07 PM
1

If you're dating strangers, sure. I only did that once, in high school, and I learned my lesson lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:05 PM
-1

And if they did interviews first, having a good resume wouldn't redeem failing that round.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:04 PM
3

I've never had to outright ask, I've always dated or hooked up with people I knew already.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:04 PM
4

This sub is basically reality TV. The fighting is the fun part.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:49 PM
2

Sure, but if we could get for other things in a more immediate sense, then they'd be just as relevant. Example: if you tell me a guy is a conservative, his looks will never overcome that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:44 PM
9

Looks are the equivalent of a resume: it's the first thing people notice, but you can still end up sucking in the interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:15 PM
1

Nah, this is entertaining, not insulting. Keep dancing!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:14 PM
3

I hated muscly guys when I was skinny, too. They're usually less educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:08 PM
3

So the men whining about women doing better than them are wrong? Good to know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:53 PM
1

Aw, you're so emotional. But you really need to try harder lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:51 PM
4

Then men shouldn't be lagging behind so much in education
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:52 PM
3

And when men use them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:51 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:48 PM
3

If you don't like insults, don't get personal first.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:47 PM
1

I would let the guy pay if he started making a scene about it, because at that point it's just about getting away from him. But usually I wouldn't even speak to them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:57 AM
6

If he wants forgiveness, he can speak to Jesus. I don't give violent people second chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:49 AM
7

You can happily have mine, then he'll stop calling me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:46 AM
1

I'm not single currently, but I was very picky when I was lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:46 AM
10

I'm all healed. And nothing heals you faster than cutting a dangerous person out of your life. Just remember, if your dad ever fucks up again, you chose that 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:28 AM
1

It'd be a red flag from the first ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:25 AM
2

?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:17 AM
16

It's entirely your prerogative to forgive your abuser. No one else is obligated to. To me, abusers are trash human beings and beyond redemption. Point all the fingers at me that you like 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:11 AM
2

Yes. It signals he thinks the best way to show affection is to pay for shit, and that he plans on having a more tradcon relationship than I'm interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:51 AM
14

You live a very messed up life, and I feel sorry for you. How's that for empathy? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:48 AM
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Yikes. Yeah, I don't tolerate people who make excuses for abuse. I watched my dad hold broken glass to a woman's neck when I was a kid. Nothing excuses that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:38 AM
2

You mean the men who are whining about being drafted while I tried to join the military but ended up being rejected due to health issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:37 AM
1

I don't know if it was actually AA or some other program.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:36 AM
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I disagree, I just think you (and men who think like you) don't like how women deal with those failures. When my mother finally left my dad after years of abuse, her solution was to just never bother with men again. When men say "choose better" they actually mean "choose me."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:35 AM
3

🤣 I am willing to risk my safety for many things, but not to put a loser in his place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:06 AM
1

It depends on his behavior. The times a guy has gotten so pushy that he caused a scene, I went with the path of least resistance. At that point, the goal is to just get away from him quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:59 AM
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🤣 I don't want men to pay for my shit. That's why I have a job. If you're into gold diggers, then by all means, pursue them. But I don't see why it'd be shocking that women who aren't gold diggers wouldn't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:52 AM
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Bingo. But they won't, because ultimately they want validation and social acceptance way more than they want to be free of gender roles. I've known women who were the same way. I feel sorry for all of them, because they'll just keep complaining instead of actually doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:36 AM
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What do you believe accountability looks like? If I think a woman is a shitty person, I won't speak to her unless required to do so by my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:42 AM
1

I don't know many alcoholics, but the ones who are actively managing it did support groups like AA.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:02 AM
1

You literally said that confidence comes with cheating and not doing chores lol I can't tell if you're trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:57 AM
1

🤣 I'm referring to your claim that confidence is a clear indication that a man is like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:37 AM
1

ripped Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:30 AM
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I wouldn't disapprove, I'd just think less of her. Those aren't really women who I respect and like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:22 AM
4

Do you know a lot of gold diggers or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:21 AM
2

To me, a low-value man is just anyone who doesn't meet all my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:11 AM
4

Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:10 AM
1

Then prove that. My social circle is mostly outgoing, confident people, with one or two introverts who rarely do anything that isn't a special event.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:06 AM
1

Then why was your rebuttal that not all men are like my husband? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:01 AM
9

But choosing a pathetic man makes you pathetic yourself. The top of the hierarchy is a woman who doesn't need a man that badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:59 PM
1

Okay, then what's wrong with mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:55 PM
10

It could be my social circle, but given how often men complain about being valued for only their money, we tend to think less of men who pay for dates. It's likely they don't actually want to but are desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:55 PM
4

I'm not seeing how the stigma against divorced men is any more severe than for women. It seems like marriage just might not be for you. Or get a prenup 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:24 PM
1

🤣 because I think label chasing is lame?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:21 PM
1

You really need to come up with better material if you want to hurt my feelings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:21 PM
2

And neither are you, praise Jesus. But you were the one making a generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:19 PM
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Why would you expect a woman to take on gender roles if she's anti-gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:21 PM
2

Confidence means you don't do chores? Or cheat? My husband is confident as fuck. Most of you would probably call him arrogant, given how insecure y'all are. He does chores just fine, and if I thought he was likely to cheat I would have left him years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:10 PM
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I really don't understand why men struggled with this. My husband certainly didn't. The worst thing a bear can do to me is far better than the worst thing a man can do to me. Bears are far more predictable, and they won't harm me for sport. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:09 PM
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My husband and I keep our finances separate and split shared things 50/50. All I really care about is maintaining my financial independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:46 PM
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Nah, I don't like label brands. You're just paying to advertise for them. Sorry you hang out around gold diggers, but that's not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:45 PM
1

🤣 I usually shower twice a day when I work out, wtf are you smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:44 PM
1

How do women not like confident men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:22 PM
2

Being kind is part of basic interaction. Are you only concerned with getting laid? Or do you also want to be seen as a good person?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:11 PM
2

Some men like surfboards, nothing wrong with that. But my hubby is a tits man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:10 PM
4

They should, but they should also realize that's not flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 09:51 PM
4

Nah, I like having boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:55 PM
0

That's because most people get monogamous for extended periods of time. But not everyone wants monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:43 PM
8

It's all been online, but I've seen plenty of posts from guys who describe basic kindness as their way of flirting. To me, that's a "nice guy."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:25 PM
2

So that's why I would call you a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:20 PM
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They both seem horrible and, oddly enough, probably deserve each other lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:52 PM
3

I had the opposite issue: microbiology was not relevant to my history degree at all, but it was fun lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:48 PM
1

Find a woman who will touch you without making you pay for it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:39 PM
2

I’ll sleep/perish 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:38 PM
-1

That number doesn't seem that high if he's 38 and been single most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:37 PM
1

True, and I'm proud of you for realizing that those are your only two options 🥰 but personally, I'll stick with fucking and dating men out of basic desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:28 PM
0

Because it doesn't affect me...? I have no problem telling a man who approaches me to go fuck himself. If anything, it's gotten fun as I've gotten older.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:27 PM
2

Well that explains why you like women who are gold diggers. Kudos to you for realizing that money is all you have to offer, most men never get that far.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:25 PM
1

🤣 you poor thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:22 PM
0

🤣 I'm saying it for you, since you can't seem to grasp the concept that women aren't a hivemind. When you cold approach, you're basically selling yourself like a door-to-door guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:20 PM
1

Nope, urban and we own the house we live in 🤣 Of course, he's a slut too so...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:19 PM
0

There is no universally appropriate place. I don't fuck or date strangers, so absolutely no place is acceptable to approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:17 PM
1

🤣 I haven't been single since 2008 and there's a good chance my husband has a higher body count than I do. Sit down, boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:16 PM
1

To insecure men 🤷🏻‍♀️ and I'm not desperate, so there's no need to be forgiving of that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:06 PM
1

...you need us to bathe you? I'd charge a lot of money for that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:59 PM
3

Sure, but then your match is an equally insecure woman. As a secure woman, I wouldn't tolerate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:58 PM
4

🤣 being confident is bad? Then by that logic, I'm also bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:57 PM
1

Trying and falling would indicate bravery, but not competence lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:56 PM
2

That'd be insecurity then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:55 PM
1

They think this is a safe space for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:03 PM
2

Again, it depends on what your reason is. If you're equating a high body count with poor behavior, why would you make an exception for yourself? Do you think that women who are saving it for marriage would tolerate a slutty man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:01 PM
11

I'll never understand why guys associate confidence with being an asshole. Confidence is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:59 PM
1

I'll set people up if I actually think they'll be a good fit. Fighting is for poor people and addicts. Most men are less educated than me, so I usually have to dumb it down. I'm not the friend you want to go to for venting, regardless of your gender or what it's about. I hate whiners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 01:43 PM
2

My hubby and I don't do gifts, but I do have to get something for Secret Santa at work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 01:41 PM
1

I've had both, and I can see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 01:40 PM
1

Well when you aren't desperate for a date you can be as limited as you like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 01:39 PM
1

Oh no, I still love it and have been doing it on and off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 01:38 PM
2

But you're comfortable behaving in a way that indicates to other people that you will cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 01:38 PM
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I switched majors, which meant dance was no longer something I was doing as a part of my degree. And that was the only way I had been able to afford the classes (my parents stopped financially supporting me at 18).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:13 PM
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I dated friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:11 PM
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Normally I'd say that they're envious because they have kids they didn't actually want....but this sub is not that crowd 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:28 PM
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👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:46 PM
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Anything involving a "baby daddy" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:37 PM
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Sorry, you already screwed yourself and admitted you were wrong. This attitude of yours explains a lot, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:32 PM
1

Your argument is that her body count will indicate whether she will cheat, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:31 PM
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I was at the time (5'4'', 110lbs, 32D/DD). I didn't get fat until I stopped dancing when I was 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:44 PM
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Except I've stated plenty of times that caring about body count makes sense when you're also abstaining like you expect a woman to.....funny how you have such a strong opinion about my comments but missed that part lol I'm not sure why I'm living rent-free in your head when I don't recall your username at all, but maybe you should focus more on the women who want to fuck you than the women who don't 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:40 PM
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Then I'd see that as hypocrisy..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:37 PM
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Respectfully as a queer woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:34 PM
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An argument for what? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:32 PM
1

🤣 wait...first you said the US is more liberal, then you acknowledge that Texas is more restrictive but it's "relatively close"? Bless your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:31 PM
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Getting pussy stops being impressive after you're 16. Next you'll tell me you have a car lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:28 PM
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Yet here you are theorizing about us 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:25 PM
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Congrats, you're officially the bare minimum lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:24 PM
7

I have no idea what that means but 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:21 PM
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High school was pretty awesome, ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:19 PM
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Awesome, saving this comment for the next post about how men are so lonely and horny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:18 PM
1

So is your body count to your own standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:17 PM
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Correction: it's the only thing men understand. When your goal is to hurt feelings, you go for what matters to the target.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:16 PM
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But I've always been able to fuck date the type of men I'm into...so who cares? Y'all would be so much happier if you spent less time worrying about other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:07 PM
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Makes sense, that's why my name isn't on our house. I do pay half the mortgage but I didn't contribute to the down payment..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:06 PM
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If it was that easy to get women to fuck you to begin with, would you even care about the body count? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:05 PM
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We're kid-free so that's not happening no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:56 PM
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Knock yourselves out, I have a foot out the door already lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:51 PM
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Yup, we had a talk when we first started living together about who would do what. He's stuck to his obligations very nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:48 PM
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Agreed. Now show me in the Constitution of your country where it guarantees you some pussy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:53 PM
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That's not billions dying, just billions not existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:30 PM
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Daily reminder that not having sex won't kill you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:22 PM
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I think your problem is that you waited too long. Women who want those things still date in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:21 PM
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Pure entitlement, what a whiny baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:19 PM
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Of course. Most of my kinks require some level of trust that a hook-up guy will simply never achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:17 PM
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they also apply to guys who share their same underlying causes (sexually entitled party-goers and players). Prove it, because this statement makes me think you've never actually gone to parties in your entire life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:13 PM
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There is no common preference. Y'all need to stop trying to find cheat codes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:11 PM
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I've had crushes on guy friends and got rejected. I didn't stop being friends with them, because friendships are important to me. Maybe men are just more sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:11 PM
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It's not that difficult to ignore unwanted men lol If employers want to offer a woman instead of a salary, they can I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:10 PM
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Agreed, so why shouldn't I look at the patterns that include the entire gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:08 PM
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🤣 you do realize that the US laws differ according to the state, right? Ireland's abortion laws are far more liberal than mine. You're poorly educated, so don't take that out on me with insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:08 PM
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Well that depends on the "why." Why do you want a low-count woman, and why would reason not also apply to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:07 PM
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Insulting me isn't an argument. Don't be emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:06 PM
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Kathryn Hahn's character in Parks and Rec is my spirit animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:18 AM
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As someone who looked at societal collapse as part of my college major, it's very entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:16 AM
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The men here talk all the time about how they'd never say anything they do here offline, so no that doesn't really work. The best bet is to assume the man is shitty and let them prove you wrong if they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:14 AM
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Well that's the point I've been trying to make: how do you identify a misogynist? You're the one claiming frat guys are especially bad, not me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:12 AM
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That would explain a lot. I purposefully chose a university that didn't have Greek life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:12 AM
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The point was that it's easy to identify a frat guy, as well as avoid them. How do you identify a manosphere man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:11 AM
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Some people caved and made decisions they now regret, so they get bitter about other people choosing the alternatives. Speaking as a kid-free woman, the people who get the nastiest about that are the people who didn't want kids but had them anyway. They can't accept that they had the same choice I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:05 AM
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Yeah, you are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:02 AM
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Frat guys are still by far the largest most problematic group of guys when it comes to sexual assault, According to what? You already switched it to an archetype instead of men who are actually on frats lol Men are the most problematic group, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:02 AM
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Again, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:53 AM
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I'm not denying reality, I'm saying both are shitty and should be treated as such. You're the one who centered the topic on mainstream discussion and what's being done about them. Again, as someone who worked in higher ed, I can tell you a lot more is being done about frat boys than incels lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:50 AM
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Wow, lots to unpack here: Your statistic (which you didn't even give a citation for), specified frats. Now you're trying to say it's an archetype? I believe Tate's audience can be summed up as manosphere, and I think all manosphere men are garbage. Incel, red pill, frat boys...call them whatever you like. The distinctions are as meaningless to me as MAGA vs Proud Boys. Being left-leaning doesn't absolve someone of misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:35 AM
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Ah, so you're moving the goalposts lol I was assaulted in college. It was off campus, and not by anyone in a frat. He probably has more in common with manosphere men than any frat boy in existence..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:43 PM
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Mainstream discussion isn't focusing on them at all. Sure, because they aren't mainstream. My college didn't have Greek life whatsoever. The manosphere is a far bigger issue to the general public, because you'll encounter those fucks anywhere. Why defend frats? Why defend RP men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:36 PM
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No, because OP has a lot else to say besides that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:30 PM
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Well that's the responsibility of the parents, who I'd say are probably shitty. I had a pretty solid moral code by that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:29 PM
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🤣 again, society is focusing on Greek culture plenty. I'm well-versed in it, as someone who worked in higher ed. It sounds like you're just remarkably ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:24 PM
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Okay, but is the concern just that we don't want men to be like that, or that we think they're going to do something horrible? I don't care about that type of man, because I think they're already shitty to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:22 PM
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It depends on your definition of radical. But I also don't see being radical as a bad thing. Radicalism is merely a desire to see society change. Men seem wholly resistant to that change because it's bad for them, which is fine. But if you're the type of man who can only get laid when women are required to choose a man, I don't feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:21 PM
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Bro, I read what he commented and you are in fact absolutely full of shit. Go sit down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:11 PM
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It helps if you never have kids. But either way, most men are pathetic enough that they'll take saggy boobs over no boobs at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:10 PM
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Speaking as a pro-choice woman, I don't support restrictions on abortion at all. Any level of that is infringing on my autonomy. So no, your characterization is also wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:08 PM
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One has a power structure, defined membership, and explicit rules...the other doesn't. And you're the one hand-waving by making a comparison to begin with. A misogynist who isn't given the opportunity to act on his misogyny because no woman will speak to him is still a misogynist. And misogynists are worthless people categorically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:06 PM
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Exactly. The two things are hardly comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:44 PM
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Yeah, that's entitlement. If I had an issue with stingy men, I wouldn't forgive them just because they were stingy with everyone else. I don't tolerate poor treatment objectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:02 PM
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I'd much rather work than have to choose a man I don't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:55 PM
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Encouraging men to be kind was also about just having to deal with them in general, not just for dating. Men seem to think that all interactions between the genders center on dating and sex, and I'd LOVE it if that were true. The worst things men have ever done to or around me involved nonconsensual sex, and dating not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:48 PM
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I don't dislike them, I just don't care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:41 PM
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I don't really know any women who are concerned about men opting out. If a pussy is a guy's only motivation for having a job, I can't imagine he's a valuable employee.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:36 PM
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Well I appreciate your honesty, but I do pity you. I can't imagine relinquishing basic rights in exchange for niceness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:27 PM
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Interesting, but I'll stick with feminism. I'm very picky about my identities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:23 PM
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Randomly throwing and breaking things isn't emotional? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:55 PM
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Nah, I'm still waiting on a few things from men. But unfortunately, most will never have the self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:27 PM
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Are men romantic in the context you describe, though? Do men want to be romanced and treated like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:25 PM
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Okay...but you're still anti-feminist lol Would other secular humanists welcome you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:19 PM
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I just don't like dating strangers. I tried it in high school and it was horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:15 PM
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🤣 okay this is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:15 PM
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Exactly what I said...? I'm not innocent, so why would I want to look it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:14 PM
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I think it's bad because men seem to feel especially entitled to be nurtured and cared for by women, and they just assume every woman will do that for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:13 PM
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My experience is the opposite, in that I've only ever seen this behavior from my father.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:12 PM
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I'll take my chances in exchange for regular assaults instead of sexual assaults.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:01 AM
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No, just dress like a normal 39-year-old woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:00 AM
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Definitely not innocent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:29 PM
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The last time I wanted to look like a cute innocent princess, I was maybe 7 and dressed like Ariel for Halloween lol Cute and innocent attracts the worst creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:05 PM
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As my husband always says, I'm not into surfing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:28 PM
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Yet you identify as such but are anti-feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:27 PM
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Nah, my tits are awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:21 PM
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Nah, I don't join anti-feminist movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:15 PM
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So is the assumption that at least half the women are dating half the men? Are we talking cishet women only?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:15 PM
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So they have an ideology but do nothing to actually make changes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:42 PM
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Would you sacrifice your bodily autonomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:24 PM
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And you've proved that all men really care about is sex and dating, yet none of you are willing to trade the pros of being a man to get them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:22 PM
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And what do you believe that I, as a woman, want? (Hint: it's not sex or kids or a marriage lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:18 PM
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Sorry, but is your argument that the bums at the gas station aren't....men? So they're women? Non-binary?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:15 PM
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What secular humanist organization is both anti-feminist and has fought for the rights of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:14 PM
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And yet, you're still against feminism, which is what allows me to pick who to date and fuck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:55 PM
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You wouldn’t be able to handle the isolation with no kids and no husband. I think you're projecting here. I have friends and family. I wasn't lonely before I met him, so why would I be after? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:54 PM
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I kept my name (I'm published under it), and we're kid-free. Where did I say he's irreplaceable? If he left me, I don't need to replace him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:47 PM
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How am I submitting to him? By your logic, he's submitting to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:40 PM
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Where did I say I picked a man who is like most men? lol I've been with my husband since 2008. That's pretty fucking stable. I have friends and family. I certainly would never want to be a man's sole source of socialization, and I picked accordingly. My husband and I socialize without each other all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:35 PM
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I don't. But that's not what men are asking for. Men are asking to be picked for sex and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:34 PM
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Again, show the evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:33 PM
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Okay, let me grab the crayons... Most men are the employer equivalent of McDonald's: shitty benefits, no PTO, horrible health insurance. If I both divorced my husband and quit my job TODAY, which one is going to be quickly replaced when 30-40% of jobs meet my standards and 5% of men meet my standards? I can leave my husband without needing to replace him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:27 PM
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I care about men who I perceive as good. All men? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:25 PM
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because you can’t get a better job sucks too You're so close it's hilarious. I'll give you a moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:18 PM
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So the bit about men doing worse at school is bullshit? Thanks for admitting 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:10 PM
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I'm not a proselytizer. If other feminists want to be, more power to them. I have my own safety and mental health to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:09 PM
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So basically, you don't think people deserve housing, healthcare, etc, unless they were discriminated against for a while. You specified programs that aren't universal 🤷🏻‍♀️ documented and extended systemic discrimination is the only way I'd support those.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:04 PM
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Have you ever actually seen what happens when a woman who is financially dependent on an abusive man tries to leave? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:03 PM
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Or be suicidal. It's weird. I'm starting to wonder if they've ever met a woman besides their mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:00 PM
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You wanted your question to be universal, and it isn't. Let's say you're right: they can fire me at any moment for any reason. I can also quit at any moment for any reason. I've never had an issue finding a job, whereas Trump's hiring freeze is still in effect and they couldn't replace me. Does that mean they're submitting to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:59 PM
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Not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:55 PM
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The ones they tried at my age agency got successfully appealed. Try again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:54 PM
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Sure, but reproduction is a personal choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:51 PM
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What goalposts did I move? You're the one who presented the examples that limit government intervention lol Why not just say free education and healthcare for all?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:48 PM
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Eh, I'm kid-free but forcing other people to not have kids is as creepy forcing them to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:47 PM
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It's not the "tribalistic thinking" I take issue with, it's the hypocrisy. I am a feminist. You are anti-feminist. You're the one arguing that despite being anti-feminist, feminists should still respect you. I'm not arguing for the reverse. Anti-feminists are lost causes and to be avoided, not appealed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:44 PM
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Okay. So again, now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:41 PM
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Only if it can be proven that's due to systemic discrimination over several generations. What's your evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:38 PM
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I already know I'm not on the same side as Trump supporters lol You're declaring yourself as anti-something and then wondering why people who are that something want nothing to do with you. This isn't like disagreeing about which baseball team is the best. You're positioning yourself against human beings. You don't deserve respect you don't show others..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:36 PM
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Then all men are shitty. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:28 PM
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Well that's the difference: I don't really care if men hate all women. What I care about are tangible infringements on my rights. I hate conservatives, but I'd never support having their rights limited in any capacity. I don't need to like someone personally in order to think they deserve housing, food, water, healthcare, education, voting rights, habeas corpus, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:26 PM
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Your opinion indicates who you plan to make things safer and better for. Feminism is why I'm able to live my life how I please, instead of pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen. I don't really care what someone's reasons are for being anti-feminist. If that's your opinion, we aren't on the same side.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:18 PM
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Nope, we're unionized and I can't be fired without cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:11 PM
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Also, the person at the top was a woman until Trump got elected and picked a man instead lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:52 PM
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And I get paid for it and never have to speak to him, look at him, touch him, etc. Are you down for that kind of submission? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:50 PM
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...yeah, I'd rather have the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:48 PM
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Which part is unclear? Men want validation from women, women want men to just stop hindering us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:33 PM
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I'm public service, we don't have CEOs. But the three people above me are all women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:32 PM
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Cheating is for cowards. I'd sooner just leave
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:31 PM
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I don't see the point in making fun of virgins. I just wouldn't date one at my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:18 PM
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No one said I shouldn't have trusted them because they were right-handed lol Y'all need to realize that when you make "yes all men" arguments, it hurts you in the long run. Because we aren't going to be more forgiving out of desperation. That's what men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:13 PM
2

Again, I gotta disagree. What you describe sounds like a relationship that is unhealthy, and nothing I'd tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:10 PM
2

Damn, masturbation is cheating now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:09 PM
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If I had to guess, most men just don't care whether their partner orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:09 PM
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🤣 everyone knows that. The privilege is that people can do their jobs and get compensated without necessarily being liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:08 PM
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Because when I was harmed, I was blamed for it...by men. Why do you think we needed #MeToo? If the choice is to either protect myself or hurt a man's feelings, I'll go with the former. Your feelings shouldn't be that fragile.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:08 PM
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But where we differ is who those people are. Do you think a good person would have written OP's post? Because I don't. Do you think a good person would be anti-feminist? Because I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:06 PM
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You can choose it, but you conflate having fewer dating opportunities with having your freedoms restricted. I'm not sure any of you can really grasp what it's like to be raised and told you're inferior and deserving of fewer freedoms lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:46 PM
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Nah, you seem to live in an alternate reality. I don't know anyone so afraid of the unknown that they need their partner to help them cope. Maybe if they're mentally unwell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:44 PM
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Then I'd say no. I don't associate with conservatives, so much direct experience is highly biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:43 PM
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And are male police suddenly dissatisfied with the paycheck? I don't consider them to be "in my life." I don't associate with cops in a general sense, because they tend to be conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:43 PM
3

Men need to appreciate how rare it is for them to even be good at sex to begin with. If a woman is choosing you more than once, take the win.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:38 PM
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I'd need to know the demographic breakdown. If most men are conservative, then no. If most men are progressive, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:37 PM
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Nope, the only people who have ever harmed me are white lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:36 PM
3

This all sounds very woo woo and abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:36 PM
7

But men seem very bad at that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:36 PM
1

I just don't understand why you'd see that as a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:24 PM
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And my libido is higher than his. Not to mention, I don't use sex as an expression of love. Sex is for orgasms and babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:24 PM
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This is what I mean when I say that the RP seems designed to help men get a certain type of woman..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:23 PM
2

...because not all men are that obsessed with sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:21 PM
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My experience is that it's split sharply on political lines. The progressive men I know have done a lot. The conservative men, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:20 PM
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My physical needs are met by my hand as much as a man (hey that kinda rhymes). Step up your masturbation skills lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:19 PM
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All preferences are reasonable, provided you can actually enforce your standards. Understandable? Not so much, unless you hold yourself to the same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:08 PM
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Why would I rely on my partner for safety instead of the people in society who get paid for that role? And what on earth is coregulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:05 PM
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But why would I want to? I think tradcon women are as much garbage as tradcon men lol Do you guys just not have standards of your own or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:00 PM
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But again...protection from what? Can you give an actual scenario that you'd believe I'd need protection in that I couldn't get from either a woman, or the police?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:59 PM
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What do you believe I need a rock for?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:58 PM
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Oh no, a bunch of Redditors will now judge me /s I can see why that'd upset you, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:32 PM
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I was raised primarily by conservatives (except for my mom, thank God). Why would anyone be satisfied with zero accomplishments? I've always been ambitious. The opinions of others don't factor in, so long as they aren't discouraging me from being ambitious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:29 PM
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Still not doxxing myself 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:20 PM
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What's the difference? It's still better than being told you shouldn't go to college because fewer men will want to impregnate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:18 PM
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"he is my rock" Yeah, I don't date men because I need a rock. I date men out of desire, not necessity. I've never had a random male stranger help me when help is needed. It's always been another woman. And I'll continue to rely on other women, because they're more trustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:17 PM
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Who said I was in the US? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:16 PM
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But your whole worldview is supremely flawed. Where do you live that women need their partners to protect them on a daily basis? I don't live in the third world, or a ghetto, or a war-torn country lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:11 PM
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I agree that not all men are horrendous. But globally, I'm willing to bet it's a majority. Of course, that depends on what you view as horrendous. But as far as a debate goes, it's more useful to take the argument at face value and then ask why we wouldn't just view all men as horrendous, instead of what men actually want: forgive them for their behavior because they think it's biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:04 PM
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What's your source?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:01 PM
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It's not worthwhile to convince these men that their self-perception is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:58 PM
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Sorry, not doxxing myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:58 PM
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In my city it's about half and half.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:57 PM
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I know enough about you if you posted something like this. Good men don't see the world the way you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:56 PM
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I only call the cops if it's for something that's worth shooting someone for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:56 PM
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Nah, those have been the biggest abusers in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:46 PM
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This may come as a shock to you, but not all women are the same. Men like you are categorically revolting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:46 PM
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And how do we determine who the good men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:41 PM
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Who or what have you managed to dominate?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:41 PM
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🤣 "real talk" sounds like something y'all made up to justify sharing your opinions uninvited. If you want to tolerate that, it is absolutely your prerogative. But you're making men look very inferior in doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:36 PM
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So men believe their horrendous nature is redeemed by accomplishments? Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:35 PM
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See my above edit. I'd rather just go ahead and be killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:34 PM
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So what would be the best way to determine which men are dangerous? Here's my problem with your argument: I'd rather die than be submissive to a man. So if those are the two options, go ahead and get violent and take me out. But please stop with the half-ass threats about what might happen to me if I'm not nicer to men. It's getting old, it's unattractive, and most of you can't even manage to speak to a woman without getting so nervous you hyperventilate. You're not going to dominate anyone any …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:31 PM
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Why would I trust an offer of protection from the group I need protection from?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:23 PM
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Again, what was the purpose of the comment of not a criticism? I'm aware that men go around sharing their opinions as though they're of value, but that's delusional behavior. Where I come from, tolerating disrespect is womanly...not manly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:16 PM
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A random on the internet criticizing you isn't doing it because they care about you. I can't believe I have to explain that to another adult (assuming you are one).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:03 PM
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Slimmer than that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:00 PM
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🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:52 PM
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It's womanly to point out to someone that they need to do better if they're trying to hurt my feelings? My father was remarkably abusive, but even he taught me not to put up with strangers speaking to me like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:50 PM
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By who? Men who fight (low-class) and women who expect men to fight (also low-class). I haven't seen two people fight in public since high school. That's not normal where I live and where I come from..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:48 PM
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You allow strangers on the internet to speak to you like that, as though they're your friend or family member criticizing you from a position of knowing you and wanting you to be a better person?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:32 PM
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If you don't want people commenting on your preferences, don't bring them up in public spaces..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:21 PM
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Heaux
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:21 PM
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What do you believe the purpose of the comment was?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:16 PM
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You really think any of that would make up for not being treated as inferior?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:12 PM
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Which would make sense if aggression was specifically tied to gender. Is that something men are now admitting?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:11 PM
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Yes, there clearly is. You pointed out cons, and I responded. You got butthurt, and I still don't care. Can you accept that even after you listed all those cons, I'd still rather be treated like a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:09 AM
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If you consider simply mentioning things that have happened to me to be trauma-dumping, I feel very sorry for your friends. Trauma-dumping would be closer to what you're doing lol Again, you seem like you want to claim men are the bigger victims because you simply cannot accept that I think the pros outweigh the cons. I don't know why it's so difficult for you to accept this, but I don't actually care. Not my money, not my circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:05 AM
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Oh okay, then that's fine. I wouldn't want to go on the dates at all. It'd be a waste of the guy's time, too, because I'd reject them no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:00 AM
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Yeah, I've tried to kill myself before. I don't know why men think only they get suicidal. Again, you don't want honesty. You just want me to pat you on the head and say "There there, you poor boy. It must be so hard to be you." If you need validation, look elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:53 AM
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You addressed it by pretending that I think men have absolutely no problems, something I never claimed lol Again: the pros outweigh the cons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:45 AM
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That you really got your feelings hurt because you couldn't convince me that being a man is worse than being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:43 AM
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Yup, it's fun falling asleep next to another human being 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:40 AM
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And for your edit: feminist yes, SJW absolutely, but we're an Android household.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:40 AM
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auntie Oh no, you're Gen Z. That explains so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:38 AM
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TIL the hubs is a woman. Sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:37 AM
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I said it's an incel argument, and it is. "Sexual assault isn't that bad"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:35 AM
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Not angry, amused. If you want to tell a woman to shut up, find your wife. She signed up for you just the way you are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:34 AM
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....I'm not sure you know what a personal attack is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:33 AM
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Where did I say there aren't any cons to being a man? My point is that the pros outweigh the cons by an insane amount. And attacking me personally isn't an argument for anything other than your own hurt feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:30 AM
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Peak male: getting personal and then saying the other person gave up when they got personal back. And who said I was going for the Army?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:29 AM
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So your argument is that it's better to be sexually assaulted more often but receive sympathy for it? That's a very incel take.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:25 AM
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I'm pretty sure that actually being assaulted indicates disposability more than sympathy does lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:22 AM
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Which do you think is likely to be assaulted to begin with? A man or a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:20 AM
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Again, what sort of "give me cancer and take away being SAed" was unclear to you? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:18 AM
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You need to do a lot better than that if you want to criticize me lol But keep going, my co-workers are going to love reading all this tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:16 AM
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You can spin my comment however you like. I work with vets on a daily basis, and even if I don't like them personally, I'll tell anyone who tries to belittle their work to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:09 AM
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Brb, telling my friend who lost his leg in Iraq that it wasn't that scary 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:04 AM
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Yes, this is what I like to do for entertainment. Some people watch TV, for example. I think this is more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:02 AM
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reflect critically. This is an online debate forum. I want you to reflect on why you take it so seriously. Are you one of those people who makes friends online?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:48 AM
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Well obviously. A risk of something is less important than that something actually happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:47 AM
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You need to do much better than that to hurt my feelings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:34 AM
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But you act like all of these negatives even come close to what women have to deal with. You talk about probabilities and trends while I'm looking at what has actually happened to me and what continues to happen to me. If I need to be clearer: I'll trade prostate cancer (not the chance of prostate cancer, actual prostate cancer) for not having been SAed as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:21 AM
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🤣 I tried to get into the military while we were in Iraq, and it was my intention to get deployed there. Even if I were a man, I'm way over drafting age now. And you admit you just can't handle the thought that your problems might not be as serious as my problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:11 AM
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I tried to join the military, but they didn't want me for health reasons. Although I oppose the draft as policy, being drafted wouldn't be a big issue for me at all. You aren't interested in an honest discussion, either. You just really can't seem to grasp that none of the negatives you've presented outweigh the obvious positives for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:04 AM
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Yup. I'd love to be the kind of person someone would think twice about before attacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:53 AM
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Are you conflating combatants/noncombatants with gender? How many men get abused by their partners and are incapable of leaving for any reason other than their own lack of self-care? You presume that I'd need the safety of a shelter to get me to leave an abusive partner, and you'd be wrong. Then start your own prostate cancer campaign 🤷🏻‍♀️ Breast cancer doesn't run in my family, so it's as important to me as prostate cancer could ever be. I'm more likely to die of lung or colon cancer, based on…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:52 AM
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Where have I trauma-dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:47 AM
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I've never had a random stranger come to my rescue in any scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:46 AM
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And so can women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:41 AM
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Disposable in what way? Men here talk all the time about how worthless a woman is if she's past child-bearing age lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:40 AM
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Trauma dumping annoys me regardless of gender. I go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:38 AM
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The difference is that men are whining about women not caring. I don't think most men are even capable of caring. I'll stick with support from other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:37 AM
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I don't think you can be aggressive and a victim at the same time. Men who fight are low-class.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:36 AM
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🤣 yeah, because no woman has ever been told to shut up and stop crying. I'd rather be expected to be a provider than a mother, but the expectation is irrelevant to me either way. I'll do as I please. Men usually complain about people not being nice in the context of them bothering women in public. There's a simple solution to that: mind your business and leave people alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:35 AM
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Okay but again...would I have to go on the dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:33 AM
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They're also the majority of perpetrators, which makes me wonder how many of these victims are the type who get into fights in public
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:33 AM
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That's easy: I'd get sterilized. I'm kid-free anyway. And no one would be telling me I need my husband's permission first. Again, I expect myself to be successful. Everyone else can go fuck themselves Well yeah, I'm female. Many men, probably most, think women are shitty human beings. You clearly do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:32 AM
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Yeah but would I have to participate at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:28 AM
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To accommodate your edit: I already expect myself to "make it." That's the fun part about being career-oriented I already have mental health issues. I'm on meds. Why should I give a fuck about society when I can solve my problems myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:24 AM
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I wasn't aware that men can't control where their sperm ends up lol I'll take that risk That's an easy fix: don't be a criminal I've tried before. On which jobs? I have a graduate degree. Are you implying I wouldn't have gone to college? Again, already happened to me. Hopefully, as a man, they'd just punch me in the face instead of sticking their hand up my skirt. I'd rather be killed than sexually assaulted again No one gave a fuck when I was assaulted That sounds like a skill issue. If you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:22 AM
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🤣 I used to get hit for being wrong as a kid. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:19 AM
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So your argument has nothing to do with the post. Thanks for playing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:18 AM
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Name a negative that I actually give a fuck about. Hint: lack of sex wouldn't be one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:12 AM
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Is it mandatory? I don't date strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:06 AM
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What's your source on the attack stat?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:03 AM
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Being left alone in public? Check. Be encouraged from a young age to focus on my career instead of getting married and making babies? Check. Less fear simply existing in public? Check. Still being a woman, since I'm cis? Check Sign me the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:58 AM
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They just have to be attractive and no one I'd be embarrassed to be associated with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:34 AM
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I mean...men seem visibly more distressed at being single, based on what I've seen in this sub. The statement that women are happier when single is just based on this observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:31 AM
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Last I checked, I'm not required to fuck my boss. She is cute, though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:19 AM
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I'm not offended by porn, although I think it's weird to pay for it when there's so much free shit out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:15 AM
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It's however long he takes to show he isn't faking romantic interest just to get laid. In the past, that's been anywhere from a few days to a few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:10 AM
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His feelings are not mine to manage. If he's so hurt, he can end the friendship. I'm not his mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:09 AM
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I'm okay with religious people as long as they don't push it on me. If you want to make babies, make babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:45 PM
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I don't consider myself any pill, but my understanding is that the blue pill is just anyone who disagrees with the red pill. From my perspective, the red pill is for men who want to attract a certain type of woman, and I'm not that type.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:20 PM
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I don't think there's anything to navigate. I've had crushes on guy friends who rejected me, and I was still introduced to their girlfriends. It's not a big deal, unless you're immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:17 PM
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Nah, I see art as an expression of something. And I don't give a fuck about AI and whatever it feels the need to express.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:11 PM
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But I don't get why you want the change at all. If I meet a guy who doesn't meet my standards, I just eliminate them and move on. I don't see it as society's responsibility to provide me with men I'd date or fuck. It's my responsibility to find those men, however few there may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:10 PM
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That's not what's relevant. How quickly I fuck someone depends on two things: Whether they indicate they want a relationship or casual sex Assuming they want a relationship, how quickly they prove that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:08 PM
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I think I would have tolerated instructing a man up to the age of 25. But I agree, I would have only done that in the context of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:53 AM
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The thought of dating or fucking anyone who I wouldn't have dated or fucked when I first started (16, or general high school age) gives me the willies, hence the age range lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:51 AM
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If I thought they were worth dating, I wouldn't settle for just casual sex with them 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:42 AM
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Body count: not a virgin Age: 35-43 Body type: skinny or dad bod Height: taller than me (5'4'') Dick size: best guess is 6''
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:36 AM
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Good. I had to go off the mounjaro for a bit because it worked so well that my insurance decided I no longer needed it. But my primary care doctor talked to them, so now I'm just waiting for the prescription to be filled. I was worried I'd put the weight back on, but that shit really changed my relationship with food and hunger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:35 AM
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Speaking as a millennial with boomer parents, it's insane that you need older people to help you date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:33 AM
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The latter. I need to be more active anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 01:01 AM
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Also fine. But men seem to share this preference in an attempt to get women to care and change their behavior for them. I don't give a fuck if a virgin stays a virgin. Compared to women, men spend a lot of time thinking about people who they supposedly don't want. Men I don't want to fuck or date are mostly invisible to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:48 AM
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One of my hookups in college was with a muscly guy. I avoided touching him because it grossed me out. Unfortunately, I didn't see him without his shirt on until after we got into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:39 AM
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Sure, I agree with that. Still wouldn't fuck or date a virgin, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:30 AM
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Ha, this explains a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:48 PM
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If I could get men to go to therapy, I'd be wealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:47 PM
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That makes them shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:46 PM
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They're human. The problem is that you want to argue that all of your shitty traits are biological instead of cultural. If I thought all men were like you, I would have stuck to women..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:46 PM
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Unless you're actually getting the opportunity to reject her, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:42 PM
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Agreed. I've had guys try to date me after casual sex and it was annoying as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:49 PM
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The leader just sounds like a normal adult
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:35 AM
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Aw 🥺 keeping the kitty in my thoughts. I dread the day the cat that is essentially my husband's favorite child dies. He's lost fewer pets than I have, so he grieves HARD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:18 PM
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The problem with your logic is that it assumes: Women aren't calculated with whether they have casual sex Desire is something to surrender to, rather than control.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:16 PM
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No handy, how about a blowy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:13 PM
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It's not a fantasy. There are men who aren't so desperate to get their dicks wet that they'd lie. Insisting that it's inherent to your gender makes you more of a misandrist than I ever could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:52 PM
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I haven't been bored since I was a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:51 PM
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I can't speak for other women, but I'll make a guy wait until he convinces me he's sincere about the relationship. Some guys check those boxes faster than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:47 PM
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I'm down for adopting or fostering, but there's no way I'd ever give birth. Gun to my head....I'd take the bullet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:44 PM
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Nah, that's a creepy outlook and makes men sound remarkably evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:42 PM
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So again: if you don't want to wait, either find a woman who doesn't mind being pumped and dumped, or ask for casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:40 PM
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If a man is asking for casual sex, what would be the point in making him wait? He's clearly not faking romantic interest lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:35 PM
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I give zero fucks about how it makes a man feel to have to wait for sex. I'd rather not get pumped and dumped. If he's that needy, he should ask for a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:32 PM
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The world-building is interesting, but I'm fine just saying that flaky people are worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:25 PM
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Arguing about it or calling an individual woman a liar because she doesn't match whatever stereotype you've concocted is, in fact, hostile. I'm called a liar here all the time because I'm not part of the supposed hivemind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:24 PM
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So if you're easy to ignore, how are people being hostile to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:22 PM
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That's not hostility, that's just you failing. And that means it's time to change how you're socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:15 PM
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Are these men exhibiting hostility themselves? I don't care what your problem is...if you take it out on me, I'll return fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:13 PM
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Yeah, that doesn't sound like my crowd. My last social excursions were an archaeology lecture, a night market, and a queer-focused burlesque show. The only people I know who I could describe as corporate are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:00 PM
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Let me guess..do these women look like the type who'd end up on Real Housewives or some sort of reality dating show? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:55 PM
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And to be clear, I'm not saying there aren't women like that AFTER high school. But that's a type of woman who doesn't really exist in the spaces I socialize in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:48 PM
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Sure, but usually when we talk about dressing for other women, we're talking about very explicit reactions. What you describe sounds like something I haven't experienced or cared about since high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:46 PM
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What are you defining as a social setting? I haven't had a female I wasn't related to comment negatively on my clothes since I was in high school. I can't say the same for males lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:37 PM
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And yet men didn't come up with anything nearly as elaborate and money-making as TRP to combat mental illness, homelessness, or selective service lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:36 PM
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I think you're focusing too much on the negative. Nothing makes me happier than when a woman says she likes my dress. But if she doesn't like it, how would I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:26 PM
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Then you need to be actively seeking out that crowd. And to start with, you have to drop the masculine act.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:04 PM
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I doubt that. I know a shit ton of non-masculine, since they're the ones who tend to like non-feminine women. The issue may be that you just wouldn't actually want to befriend them yourself, which is fine. It depends on what you value social connections for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:45 PM
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Oh absolutely. If I wouldn't have been friends with someone in high school when social relationships were even more volatile, I don't think I'd be friends with them as an adult. My experience is that feminine women tend to be very into topics I find trivial (celebrities, social media, influencers, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:25 PM
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Well I stopped trying to be feminine at a fairly young age (15-17) and leaned into the fact that that's just not who I am. Obviously, career stuff isn't relevant at that age. But it's not particularly feminine to have a career to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:20 PM
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🤣 what part of getting his dick sucked plenty didn't you understand? Stop projecting your obvious failures onto other men, it makes your entire gender look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:16 PM
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Well it made things very difficult for me with my family (except for my mom, she's not particularly feminine either). I ended up leaning more on friends growing up. I also learned from a young age to not value attention from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:15 PM
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So, a man I don't want wouldn't want me...? That's like saying a corporation isn't willing to hire me when I work strictly in the public sector lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:08 PM
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I think it's the same. Appearance takes work, and since I am not feminine as I was raised to see it, being so is very performative to me. Having to wear makeup, style my hair, remove body hair to wear dresses and skirts and bikinis, be careful about how I sit and walk, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:07 PM
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I don't think that's specific to men. Even as a child, I was raised to see my worth as tied to how feminine, skinny, and attractive I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:02 PM
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If the only thing you have to complain about is your dating life, consider yourself incredibly privileged. If the worst things a man ever did to me only ever happened within the context of dating, I might not even be a feminist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:56 PM
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There's a whole lot between "aroused based on looks alone" and "only aroused when there's an emotional connection."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:29 PM
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Based on the conservative women I grew up around: Their role is to keep house and make babies. If a man cannot afford to pay all the bills, that man is deficient. Religion, specifically evangelical Christianity Duty to God, country, family (in that order)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:20 PM
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I don't date prudes. Ideally, my man has had his dick sucked by 1000 women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:14 PM
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And that's fine for you. Just don't complain when you get the woman who doesn't fall in the "vast %." You're focused on maximizing options. I generally focus on eliminating them. The sooner I vet a guy who is going to fail eventually, the sooner I can move on to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:11 PM
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Not really, no. But I'm not into receiving oral from any gender, only giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:53 AM
1

Seriously, what raging virgin counts oral sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:34 PM
1

The best I can say is whether or not I'd personally fuck the guy. Being average means nothing if the average person is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:33 PM
3

Is this because if we count oral sex, your body count might actually sound normal? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 10:00 PM
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I'm flattered you think I was ever that hot, but that's not the case lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:57 PM
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If we're restricting it to PIV, it's easier to count. If we're including oral, though...........
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:31 PM
2

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:29 PM
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To be fair, I don't know my exact number. I always feel like I'm forgetting someone when I try to count lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:24 PM
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Wait...why would being bothered by an introvert be helpful to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:57 PM
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As is, just warmed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:31 PM
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Wtf is the goal of sex, then? A baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:23 PM
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I had a Friendsgiving with my former roomies on Sunday, so all leftovers were eaten then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:23 PM
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Most feminists aren't as willing to waste their time here like I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:20 PM
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Oh man, you're going to get robbed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:01 PM
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Additionally, being called a cuck by a man is fighting words. I'm sure it is, to the type of man who fights. That's trashy behavior, and I expect more class from the men I associate with. If you want to pick a fight over a word, that's your prerogative, but at least have it be something truly impactful, like a racial slur.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:59 PM
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🤣 your reply is literally one word: "Extinction" I have no idea how else I'm supposed to interpret that. And trying to attack me on a personal level just makes you look like you lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:56 PM
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Wearing makeup is way less weird to me than height boosters. But I like femme guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:54 AM
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No need to get emotional. Have you ever actually participated in an in-person debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:47 AM
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🤣 where do you live that people even use this word offline?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:46 AM
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I have a much higher opinion of men than you do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:39 PM
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I've never felt that for a guy I was hooking up with. If he's just a hookup, I don't care about how he feels at all beyond basic consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:22 PM
1

...you're either trolling or should work on context.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:21 PM
1

You expect women to find every man attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:20 PM
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When I think of passion, I think of things that require a safe word to keep either me or my partner from accidentally committing a crime. I think of things that require equipment I certainly wouldn't invest in for someone I'm not actually dating. I think of things that require general planning and preparation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:12 PM
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My suspicion is that the sex you describe as adventurous and passionate is actually quite vanilla.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:08 PM
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Like just having to deal with men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:05 PM
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Why do you guys insist on using "cuck" to mean everything besides its actual meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:28 PM
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🤣 you're getting a tad emotional. Find another woman to order around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:26 PM
1

You're the one who said men can't be like women because they're concerned with extinction 🤷🏻‍♀️ are you an NCLB child?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:23 PM
1

Again, not seeing it. I think you're assuming far too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:22 PM
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Well that goes back to what I asked earlier: would the guy be comfortable never having sex despite it being how he communicates love?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:21 PM
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And I'm here more for the other gender issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:13 PM
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So even though men are fucking to save the species, they'll still refuse to or they aren't being validated?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:13 PM
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Happy 17th anniversary to my hubby, here to another 17 🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:08 PM
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How does that challenge what I said? You don't need to be a millionaire to not worry about money. I don't worry about money and I make maybe $45k.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:42 PM
1

Also, can you give an example of a woman stating that she notices when her clitoris is erect, and how long her is both erect and flaccid?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:41 PM
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So as I stated, I would not have satisfying sex in that scenario. So how are we still compatible?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:40 PM
1

I'm still not seeing how what you describe is an ultimatum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:38 PM
1

Not making eye contact, not smiling...basically looking like he wants to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:10 PM
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You're the one who sounds extremely in denial here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:55 PM
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🤣 oh please, if men were fucking to save the species they wouldn't be whining about needing to feel validated or loved
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:01 AM
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Oh no, I'm more into rewarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:00 AM
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You don't need to be ridiculously wealthy to support a family, though. A few of my friend couples include SAHMs and 2-3 kids, and the father makes somewhere between $100-200k. But full disclosure, my city has a pretty low cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:06 AM
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I had to look him up. Would not bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:54 AM
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If that's true, then any man with money should be able to have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:52 AM
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I think there's too much being assumed. I wouldn't consider a woman to be a gold digger unless she's expecting you to pay for her shit. And I do personally find ambition in hobbies very attractive, although I'd probably describe that as being passionate. I know some men who have money but aren't particularly ambitious at all. They picked high-paying careers, but they haven't actually accomplished much beyond getting a degree and a job (things pretty much everyone I know has done).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:31 AM
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Again, gotta disagree. People are either hot or not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:08 AM
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This makes men sound very primitive (unless you're going for kid-free). I'll opt to view men in a better light, especially since my husband exists lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:24 PM
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