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TRIGGER WARNINGbarbedwiredaisycrown/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:08 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?barbedwiredaisycrown/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 01:50 AM
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NAH, SISbarbedwiredaisycrown/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:09 PM
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STRATEGYbarbedwiredaisycrown/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:24 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶barbedwiredaisycrown/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:51 PM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶barbedwiredaisycrown/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:00 PM
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 REDDIT HATES WOMENbarbedwiredaisycrown/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:08 AM
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I don't have anything to add I just miss you queens 🥰💛💕 (I joined the wix with a new username for security reasons so if you're there seeya there!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/23 03:23 AM
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You're here now and that's what matters. Congratulations queen! 🎊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 04:13 PM
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Marketing "feminism" is attractive to men because it is attractive to women and that's pretty much all she wrote, boys 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 09:05 PM
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Appreciate this so much! Thank you for this! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 03:00 PM
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His appearance is its own birth control; this problem solves itself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:27 PM
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Like a lab rat shocking itself for a treat 😮‍💨🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:13 PM
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So did any of these scrotes quit chasing looks after this? 🤔 Or is this basically them trying to further the hypothesis that every attractive woman is vapid and stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:23 PM
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"Oh shit, I might have to actually make a commitment to secure sex long-term"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 09:53 AM
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Will it remove the husband from the sheets?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 06:25 PM
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This should be an FDS rescue mission
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:19 PM
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I'd just ask him to explain every single one in painstaking detail until he stops sending them. What does that mean? Why is that good? What about in x situation? That doesn't really apply to everybody. That doesn't seem like good advice. Who is that quote from? Did you read their original work and examine the quote in context? I make it such an academically exhausting task he quits sending me quotes, ruminations, sayings, or idioms to ponder. Ffs just be direct and discuss your values with me an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:23 AM
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This moved me so much. You've summed up my family situation perfectly. I love your insight. It's basically what I've come to understand myself through therapy as well. We deserve peace and love!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:59 AM
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I just wanted to say I loved your username 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 12:46 PM
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This is also true! Good point. 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 12:37 PM
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I always love your articulation. You absolutely nailed that shit to the wall. 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 12:36 PM
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☝️☝️☝️☝️👍👍👍👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:52 AM
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My first therapist taught me this lesson and it's SO IMPORTANT. Emotions are NOT irrational, Queens. They're a message to you from your body. Anger helps people stand up for themselves. Anger helps abuse victims gather the strength to leave. Anger is USEFUL, when used CORRECTLY. Anecdotally, men I know rarely use anger correctly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:09 PM
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Please make a post about this so more people see it! I just copied all these out lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:34 PM
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Right?? My response was "I hope you're well rested." He immediately replied "I'm sorry." But the damage was done. I cut him off ✂️💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:57 PM
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Shout out to the LVM that once messaged me "I'm going to have a nap, I'll message you when I wake up" and then hit me up with "hey" 2 weeks later like nothing happened. 🙄 the disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:39 AM
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Oh I'm sorry, I thought you weren't a victim because you had sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 10:03 PM
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POV: you're a scrote: Hello (2 pm) How dare that bitch not respond?! Slut (1 min later)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 03:14 AM
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Oh men, so easy. I'm on to your little game. It's always projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 03:06 AM
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At least with scrotes it's "the devil you know" but women can blindside you with it if you assumed you could trust them. :/ Vet your friends heavily too, folks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 12:51 PM
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You guys will love this lmao, but in high school a scrote was trying to gain favor (ie nudes/sex) with me and decided one of the ways to do this was tell me my best friend's boyfriend had shared her nudes in a groupchat of friends this guy was in... it backfired big haha. I was like 1) why do you have nudes of my best friend saved you can send to me? 2) did you not call out the guy out who sent you the nudes? 3) why are you friends with people who trade girls' nudes? Doesn't that mean you're all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 12:48 PM
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“oh, by the way, I send all my friends nudes to my SO.” So, involuntary porn The next day, my trauma response was SHINGLES. Shingles are no joke. You poor thing :( Also to note, all of our mutual friends remained friends with her, even tho they admitted to being repulsed by her crude violation. I canned every last one of them You did the right thing here. And nothing of value was lost. Holy shit I still can't even believe your friend, wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 12:43 PM
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Until…she confessed to me that she sent my picture to her husband. Uh what?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 12:27 PM
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Perfection 💝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:24 PM
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Oh yeah the good old "I thought about it but didn't and that's basically the same as actually doing it right?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:19 PM
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Same page, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 02:32 PM
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Yeah... that we know of lmao 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:38 PM
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This looks like it could well have been a still life sketch based on something you were observing irl looool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:37 PM
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YESS SAME 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:10 PM
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This absolutely plays into it. Glad I saw your comment before making an identical one lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:08 PM
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🙄 typical justmanlythings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:05 PM
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It feels like we're guinea pigs to teach male family members how to act socially and in return they make sure to give nothing and only lower our self-esteem THIS EXACTLY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 01:48 PM
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My heart goes out to you. I felt less alone reading this. 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 01:46 PM
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Yeah no free cheat sheets for scrote who want a map to the pussy. 🙅‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:13 PM
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Absolutely! Prepared to be single if no one will meet my standards. My standards' main goal is to prevent harm from coming to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:12 PM
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If you told a man to prove he's really mature and secure he should let a hotter younger taller buffer man with a bigger penis fuck his wife/girlfriend I use shoe on the other foot comparisons like this as one of my most basic logic tests. What you described would be my exact answer to why I would never agree to this type of arrangement. Why more women don't do this type of reasoning to determine bullshit proposals like this is truly beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:10 PM
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Important PSA!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:53 PM
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I saw red reading that omg. Deepest sympathies on that bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 08:06 PM
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Love!! 💖💖 you're so talented. Thank you for sharing your art with us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 09:07 PM
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Oh my godddddddddd this happened to me on my first date with my ex... he ran late, I bought my own drink, and then we went on a walk that involved me practically jogging behind him. Now I think he was seriously trying to save the cost of a coffee in case the date didn't work out. Good fucking god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:55 PM
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You try to pick my ass up and swing me around and you'll be the first body hitting the ground, baby. And if you pick me up with no warning I'll do it with no warning too 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:52 PM
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When will any of these dumbass journalists going to learn that any publicity for us is good publicity???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:03 PM
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✔lift kit ✔antagonizing aggressive hatred/misogyny stickers ✔loud af ✔rolling coal ✔embarrassing flags ✔covered in mud ✔absolute troglodyte driving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 11:31 PM
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Omggggg no stop my mascara is too expensive and isn't waterproof. My sides!! 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 11:25 PM
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Lol, neither my brother nor father respected me because I wasn't desperate for male attention nor willing to put up with their bullshit. I never bothered to tell them any instances of harassment I went through because they'd never be on my side. They said similar shit to me at home to ensure I never grew any self esteem. I wouldn't respond much because rising to it was what they wanted and I knew their statements were objectively false so who cares. Joke was on them though; even at my lowest I r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 05:24 PM
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This is exactly it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:54 AM
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Not having data saved me from many a picture people sent me that never downloaded. Once I got data I was already long past the point where I'd get an unsolicited dick pic because I wasn't giving my number out to random dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:19 PM
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Congratulations You're a Queen Onward and upward! 👑💅💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:17 PM
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Yeah in middle school, when I last did this. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:16 PM
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We have similar energy sis! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:51 PM
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Oh this takes me back to my clown days... 🤦‍♀️ we live and learn lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 04:37 AM
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Imagine being this asshole knowing there's no one to blackmail or sue after this thorough char-broiling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 01:21 PM
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This made me cackle hahahaha math based algorithms don't lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 10:13 PM
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Tattoo the script to this video on me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:43 PM
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The post that brought me to FDS back in the day! Looool @ how many comments are hidden ahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 01:55 PM
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Giving ends with you dying no sugar coating it. Takers have no boundaries. You just give until you have nothing left. You either learn boundaries and self love or you burn out trying to please everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:06 PM
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👏👏👏👏 exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:00 PM
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"I wanted to confront you about something I saw you doing while I was creeping on you, so I did the manliest thing I could think of and left to go home and message you about it." Ok?? 🤪🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:08 PM
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"To the people suggesting I tape it in the social media age that's just not practical" Lol, are there going to be TVs everywhere at the wedding showing the football game? I'm picturing Jake from B99 covering his eyes and yelling "why are there so many TVs in here?!" Looool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:06 PM
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It seems well-deserved and frankly, pleasant to hear. New catchphrase! ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:06 PM
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I can't help but notice the narcissism of posting a billboard up to rehabilitate his own image while not just apologizing to her privately/in person or getting his partner a gift if he's supposedly trying to apologize to her... tf am I going to do with a billboard after I read it? Everything about this SCREAMS that he's more concerned with the ramifications of her leaving him and not actually making up with her by showing her she's valued.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:29 PM
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Snow White and the 927378384821 Dwarves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:31 PM
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It feels so many people don't have strong morals or care about them Yes. Absolutely. Almost everyone I knew growing up was a pushover and women especially are expected to always be solicitous and conciliatory and open minded... etc. Sticking to my guns was a great way to vet if someone respected you enough to support your autonomy as an individual. You'd likely be completely unsurprised to hear how many people this pisses off lol. I do believe in agreeing to disagree, changing my mind in light o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:29 PM
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Leveling up can be a lonely experience. Others who are not self aware, not interested in leveling up, or who still have heavily centered men in their lives will find reasons to not be friends with you because either consciously or subconsciously they aren't willing to rise to your level. This is not an insult to you, but rather an honest expression of their character. How many HV people are out there that you meet in the average day? Where I am, not many. So basically, where I am, if you're an o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:39 PM
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Agreed with everything you said! When I saw the video for the first time I just thought to myself "aaaaand that's a annulment and instant assault charges." This was also definitely not the first red flag or incident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:24 PM
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Like when you tell a child no they gotta press you 😂😂😂😂 omg so embarrassing for them. I have tears in my eyes at "he-motional" lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:13 PM
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Living for all the hidden comments on this post 😇 REEE into the void, scrotes! 🤪🤡😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:43 PM
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My soul was fed reading your story. I hope you're in a better place now! 👑💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:42 PM
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A simple spell, yet quite unbreakable... if it somehow seems to be all targeted abuse at you then it's not a loss of control. It IS targeted abuse. 1+1=2.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:40 PM
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Fucked around and found out. 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:38 PM
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Never 👏 stop 👏 vetting 👏. A Queen's work is never done! The day you start treating me as less than what I deserve is the day you no longer deserve to be in a relationship with me. thank u, next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 12:26 PM
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If you "don't want to hear about my family or friends' issues", turnabout's fair play bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:02 AM
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Yup I can't talk to most of my male family members for this reason 😑 once I quit being a doormat they're instantly threatened and the discussion becomes about them trying to knock me down several pegs because they've lost the upper hand on the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:51 AM
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Oh god I feel you sis, been there done that 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:46 AM
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My DMs are blocked and I see some Queens here blocked the care team and I am tempted to do so as well, but since those messages aren't annoying or triggering to me, I thrill at the knowledge that something I've said has given someone that much if a hate boner for me. Fucking go off I guess 🤪 it doesn't even tell me who reached out so you don't even get credit scrotey mcasshole 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 06:48 PM
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Your dad sounds so refreshing! :) his coworkers must love him too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 02:19 PM
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I've read better fanfics written by children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:14 PM
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Your title is better! I'm just keepin it real 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:40 PM
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Yup you always gotta switch up the details (mwahahaha 😈) and keep your dms locked. Data scraping occurs for sure and people are dedicated to doxxing. "Oh NO those LYING BITCHES are protecting themselves from my predation, this is why I nEvEr tRuSt WoMeN"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:33 PM
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I feel like implying somebody looks like him in any way is an insult 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:23 PM
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So far so obvious. Why would you get mad you can't have something if you didn't want it? cause you wanted it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:37 PM
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Being voluntarily single is the most powerful I get to feel as a woman. Being a woman seen with a man is degrading when you know every man that sees a couple gleefully imagines all the ways the woman gets railed every night. If you have the audacity to ask to be the one who gets to be assumed to be doing disgusting things to me I better not be openly repulsed by you because I genuinely enjoy being alone whereas I rarely enjoy being "some guy's girlfriend".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:53 PM
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With husbands like this who needs kids or pets??? If I get the vibe a man believes this holy hell I RUN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:34 PM
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It needed to be said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:31 PM
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Yeah no way were they going to go through with it knowing where the majority of their profit is produced. They would have either had to admit the site was done or keep adult content up. No surprise what they chose. Gotta satisfy those investors!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:58 PM
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I just feel bad for anybody that believed this. It really just reeks of outrage marketing now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:17 PM
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I think "crafty" is giving this scrote too much credit loool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 02:09 PM
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If feeling bad was enough we wouldn't need jails
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:39 PM
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You sound so accomplished and awesome! Your dad is missing out and you deserve better. Good for you for drawing a line! 💖👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:57 PM
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When he says physically does he mean in the brain region because that's probably accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:58 PM
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Yup same. I used to do the whole warning thing or raising my voice slightly to illustrate it was not raised before. This was before I realized it was just gaslighting and they already knew I was calm, it was just an effort to stonewall the conversation. My parents were also famous for this. Every time I made a good point they didn't want to hear, it suddenly became about my delivery rather than the topic at hand. Hmmmm....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:54 PM
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And jail is just a room 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:18 PM
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Closed DMs! Me too. 💖🤜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:47 PM
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Posted 28m ago, 4 comments, 1 visible? Oh yeah, here comes the butthurt brigade. 😎 Fucking REEE somewhere else, scrotes. You're totally right sis. I refuse to even read those subs anymore between all the LARPing and bullying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:40 PM
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Everything about "the wall" is projectionnnnn 😉😉😏😏🤣🤣💅👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:15 PM
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I absolutely love your answer to this! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:43 AM
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Thank you!! 🤗💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:16 PM
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This was a hard pill for me to swallow. Once I quit bending over backwards to cater to people many of my connections dried up. I had to differentiate between only being liked for what I could give to/do for people being different from just not being liked at all. I'm a worthy person and just because selfish self centered people don't notice or acknowledge that doesn't mean I'm not worthy it just means they were only focused on what I could do for them. And these were the wrong kind of people to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:56 PM
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Oh believe me sis it didn't come naturally to me either. Just developed the skill with time because I was tired of being metaphorically slapped in public by shit like this. Yknow. It all starts at home. 🙃 people have to earn my sensitivity now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:48 PM
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Queen shit. 👑💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:05 PM
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I would have fucking got up and left at that moment cause it would have been over for me there lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:05 PM
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"Thanks, it takes effort, but I do have a higher insurance rating and pay a lower rate annually than anyone else I know."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:03 PM
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No reaction at all, just a thin veneer of “I tried so hard to process the dumb shit you just said but let’s just move on.” I do this all the time! Just slow blink it out and just sidle away like they just ripped a massive fart and they probably won't come back for seconds. Depending on how dumb what they said was, my "ah" response also gets appropriately more dumb: "Yes, those are words a person can say." "Wow, I can honestly say I've never thought that way." "There's a lot to unpack there, but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:01 PM
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People know what they’re doing. They’re either threatened by something stupid you represent in their goofy heads or they’re a little too comfy in their relative position of status and want to make themselves look cool to others by feeding you to their ego. Absolutely this! This is why I don't feel bad doing it back because I can tell it's intentional and enjoy flexing how easily (and let's not kid ourselves, also better) I can do it back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:50 PM
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This helped my blood pressure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:22 PM
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That's pretty much exactly why I'm here. I'm down for strategies to predict and avoid future abusive behaviour! Don't hate the player, hate the game. If you didn't want us to catch on, you shouldn't have made it a pattern 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:21 PM
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oH So yOU jUsT hATe MeN, hUH??!?!?! "Damn man, you call ME misandrist and you just went and put all men on blast 🙊"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:19 PM
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We attract everything. It's not our fault if crappy people come into our lives, it is if we don't swiftly kick them out. Yeah "you are what you attract" is bullshit logic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:12 PM
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basically he hates assets that make women able to derive a sense of confidence and independence outside of a man Woop there it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:06 PM
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Me as a kid trying to explain to my parents that gaslighting is not an apology
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:40 PM
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I thought I was on a different sub for a second... about people dying inside lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:32 PM
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Aren't any men ever ashamed to be in these videos? Wait, I think I can answer my own question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:31 PM
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Yes. Block and delete! 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:59 AM
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"Fuck me or it'll be your fault when I do something later" get outta here man I've seen less creepy and more socially conscious animals at the zoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:37 PM
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Here's what blows this type selective incompetence out of the water: does his car run out of gas frequently? I don't mean his gas light comes on. I mean his car sputters and quits and he has to coast to the side of the road and walk to a gas station. No? Never? Maybe once? Hmm. Almost like he learned to read a gas gauge, and know when he has to fill up his car to avoid running out. If a man can never notices piles of dirty dishes, full garbages, deliquent bill payments, etc, and never runs out o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:32 PM
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"I have a coffee maker at home. It works fabulous!" 👑💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:23 PM
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Holy shit yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:20 PM
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Blackpill: you deserve to be exterminated Redpill: all women are worthless FDS: don't date men who don't meet your standards One of these things is not like the others...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:18 PM
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Amazing post! Saving this, copying it out in my vetting notebook and brainstorming more suggestions! Thanks for sharing! 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 05:36 PM
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💖 👑 sits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 05:03 PM
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Yup exactly to all of this! They're so brainwashed. I had internalized martyrdom culture and when I realized it was a thankless job because women are EXPECTED TO HAPPILY DO IT I noped out and began leveling up my own life! Explain to me how having 0 boundaries and being a domestic slave to everybody in my life helps ME again?? Jeez.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:37 PM
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Omg I've gotten it all - femin%zi, man hater, frigid bitch, religious nut, bitter/miserable loser, LESBIAN (the need to find a reason for me to not want them was REALLY strong there). My family is majority men and that's also why I'm not close with the majority of my family. They're all old-fashioned, misogynistic conservatives. Y'know, the "women should do everything I say and know their place" type. The men are scrotes and the pickmes around them enable them. Not a single person is willing to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:47 PM
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"Earlier when you said you thought my choices were wrong, I felt really judged. I was trying to share something with you and I feel like you shut me down, which hurt. I want to be able to talk to you honestly about my wants and desires, but now it doesn't feel safe to do so." Imagine being a 30 year old scrote who matches with 18 year old girls unironically saying this to somebody to defend yourself and NOT feeling like a complete sociopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 09:25 PM
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Sanity restored
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:51 PM
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And then he practically rubbed her nose in it like a dog 🤮 fucking garbage person!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:48 PM
121

Yeah, for some reason the "don't throw out your pad in the garbage where I could accidentally be going through all the garbage and touch it" excuse didn't quite seem plausible to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:44 PM
464

If men are pushing you to do something and seem really excited about the prospect of you doing it (ie libfem sexual liberation of any variety), consider how it benefits them at your expense because that's likely what is happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 02:45 PM
15

Facebook: 987 I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:27 PM
92

Oh. Oh no. Oh noooooo 😰😰😰😰😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:23 PM
9

"aight imma head out"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:19 PM
23

Haha my dms are closed, they can REEE somewhere else 😜💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 02:38 PM
50

Utility/production surfaces Limited marginal utility Yeah, I can think of one thing men have that has decreasing utility/production surfaces and limited marginal utility...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:35 PM
4

The handbook states there is zero benefit to having a crush
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 10:32 AM
15

Omg yes. "Worship me for planting an idea in your head so I never have to get around to actually doing the thing."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:56 PM
8

I used to live with a female roommate who after a certain point just started verbally abusing me because she was trying to control me (wanted me in her pocket 24/7 as a BFFL) and it wasn't working. She figured if she just broke my self esteem I'd stay home and have more time for her...? Refused to basically ever being confronted on her abusive behaviour again, because "there were things I did that she didn't like either". We'd already discussed things several times and these issues were put to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:38 PM
27

Men are like “we say what we mean, we’re straight forward, we aren’t complicated” and then you ask them where you stand in a relationship and it’s “…um so like I think I know that I really like you but I sort of don’t know if I want to commit but I do know I don’t really want to date anyone else” Oh my godddddd the truth in this statement!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:48 PM
28

Lol they're projecting their need for help onto you because you said something contrary to what they believe and they want you to believe you're mentally compromised. 😰 Very very obvious ego wound lashing out there. 😤 Amazing more men do not realize they're that transparent 😜 what better way to let me know you're butthurt about my post by mimicking concern for me to the point of sending a reddit care message 🤨. They're really mad about your dms being closed.... ah well. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:33 PM
7

“hurt his feelings” Your feelings are no longer my concern buddy. Go cry about it to someone who cares.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:25 PM
7

What a sad, strange little man. Glad you're away from that shit. 👑💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:22 PM
11

So fucking true omg. Contempt, for anyone else reading this that doesn't know, is one of the four horsemen of a doomed relationship along with criticism, defensiveness, and stonewalling. Absolutely leave. 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:20 PM
15

Idiot. Naturally I dumped him a few weeks later and he cried like a bitch Love a happy ending! 🤗💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:18 PM
109

That's like their last minute neg to try to convince you nobody else will ever like/tolerate/love you. I guess it's supposed to flatter you that they know you have all these "problems" and they're still willing to fuck you but not treat you properly? Logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:32 PM
116

This story gave me fucking life. A woman after my own heart. 💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:29 PM
3

Kinda scraping the bottom of the barrel for good qualities describing your long-term-boyfriend there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:26 PM
990

May every scrote reincarnate as a dickless bird 🔱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:05 PM
44

Condescending, infantilizing, being contrary for the sake of it, disrespecting your family/friends, "punishing" you when you do something wrong instead of explaining it, ghosting even temporarily (aka random boys trip or business trip to make distance), intimidating you purposely, mean to vulnerable people/animals I could go on lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:10 PM
41

allergy disbelief Omfg I can't even imagine staying with someone who did this more that 0.5 seconds. Wtf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:05 PM
18

I'm rolling omgggg 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:17 PM
34

Picasso was probably one of those scrotes who got off on the pain and humiliation of women. I immediately left the exhibit. We love to see it. 🎊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:09 PM
33

SIR YOU MADE THE FUCKING BABY SHUT UP This made my day to read sis! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:58 PM
23

I truly grieve for the lost potential of all the women of earlier eras. The world was truly built by domestic servitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 12:27 PM
26

Hey Canadian sister! Yup Canada gives no fucks about its women. Most forms of self defense are illegal. It truly scares me that we are not that far removed from having no life options but 1 (tradwife and mother) as women. And don't even get me started on Bernardo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 12:24 PM
41

Alexa play Dinosaur by Kesha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:29 AM
26

Oh yeah absolutely sis! I never tolerate this line of logic for the exact same reason. How dare it be standard for men to expect it every time and women are supposed to be about the jOuRnEy how blatantly unfair and ridiculous. You should be so lucky to be with me, scrote. It BEST be after you already pleasured me first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:21 PM
22

Aww well they won't mind if you laugh because they're so logical and rational 😉😉😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:18 PM
74

Aww is an entire country of men having a testerical mantrum that's adorable!!! I love when men get angry it's so cute 😜 die mad scrotes the gravy train of compliant female servitude is OVER. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:14 PM
247

Yes Queen! 👑 When I was younger I realized most men follow "It's easier to ask forgiveness than permission" and when you forgive them for doing something like that it reinforces them not asking for permission! Don't forgive. Chew them out. Tell them to cut it out! They're the ones being offensive and they need to be aware of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:19 PM
73

This reminds me of Girl in a Country Song by Maddie and Tae
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 04:25 PM
17

Too bad if you think she's greedy scrotes, she had a smoking gun email from a clown mouse rep who confirmed if it also released on streaming they'd have to discuss it with her 🙃. Guess who just released it on streaming anyway and tried to stiff our girl the extra revenue? Was dumb to even try knowing she had proof. Fuck you pay the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:39 PM
21

Plus they just raised the price of D+ from 8.99/mo to 11.99/mo so they're going to be making even more on it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:36 PM
71

I agree!! If he came to me and was like "sooo about that ticket to space I told you about when we were first dating..." I'd be genuinely confused and ask how he hadn't already come to the conclusion it wasn't a good idea on his own, especially considering we have 2 children together and he isn't even an astronaut...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:41 PM
142

Oh shit you don't consent to me dumping you WHOOPS you caught me guess I have to marry you! Ffs lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:58 PM
696

Holy shit this! Thank you for saying this! People act like you gotta roll out A-Z exhibits and evidence and you gotta be practically perfect to justify leaving some scrote. The second you aren't HAPPY there, is your first clue to go. We gotta normalize this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:16 PM
10

Yo I was always one of the tallest kids in my elementary school classes and this finally explained my ick toward short boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 11:58 AM
18

When this happens I'm still too petty to pretend I'd date anyone, so I go on about changeable characteristics I know the men in the audience don't have so while they're having a laugh about things they won't touch that women can't change such as height or "looks" (I know there are substantive medical look changing options out there but I put looks in quotes since it's not the norm for every woman to do so) I just go like "aww yeah I love me a guy who's working on himself and in touch with his em…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 11:56 AM
4

Thanks for the rec! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 10:24 PM
8

Do you find water resistant ones make you sweat? Sometimes I find they make the situation worse as well as polyester bedspreads or sheets that aren't cotton
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:54 PM
6

I think that comes into play for me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:52 PM
44

Am also on the sweaty side, glad I found you queens. I'm in the same boat to the point of having to even replace mattresses more quickly despite using climate control indoors, mattress protectors, showering nightly, wearing cotton pj's, and changing sheets regularly. The mattress apparently gets harder due to sweat (depending on what your mattress is made out of I'm sure) so if their mattress is a rock they probably have sweated a lot on it. Not sure biologically the reason for excessive sweatin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:55 PM
14

Yeah for some men their only method of discussion is contentious conversation. Usually because they want to stroke their own ego because they know they have it in the bag by either negging you or intimidating you. By even responding to the conversation you're playing his game. Silence has always been more deafening imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 12:11 PM
5

One of my favorite Oatmeal comics! Thanks for posting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:07 PM
6

Watch Vampires Suck ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:40 PM
88

This is the answer. Expect the relationship to end at some point (breakup/death) and continue to vet. Maintain your standards and cut them off as soon as they no longer meet your standards. Doesn't matter if you're married or not. You're never going to fix someone capable of cheating especially if you're someone who isn't. Take it for the disrespect that it is and respond accordingly without wasting much additional effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:20 PM
33

It clicked when I found the post that brought me to FDS. Growing up I was an ice queen who stuck to her principles and was the "dump him" friend much to everyone's disapproval. People actually expect women to just stay in shitty situations because acknowledging the lived experience of women makes them uncomfortable. I tried searching for the post just now but didn't find it. I might be dating myself here, but it was titled "I ghosted my boyfriend after 5 years". And when the woman came home and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:31 PM
3

Oh look, his shirt describes his own life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:32 PM
65

I see it as the male equivalent of passing the cost of something onto the consumer. Yknow like when a tax gets raised so they just raise the price of the product so the customer ultimately pays for it. Men are resentful that women can now compete with them in careers, money, etc so they became even more useless and dependent as a result. I can just see when a man decides to become a leech because you can just see his thought process of like "Oh she's superwoman? FINE SHE CAN DO EVERYTHING" and j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:28 PM
15

This reminds me of the episode of Friends where Monica goes out with Chip Matthews. He dresses the same, still works at the movie theatre, and talks about high school and still hangs with all those friends. The she dumps him after the first date and her and Rachel agree he's a piece of work. "You know how I always wanted to go out on a date with Chip Matthews in high school? Well I just did."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:45 PM
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I have to keep reminding myself that the right man will know how to approach an ice queen when people try to shame me into accepting less. Most people I see are far too afraid to approach me but it's like you said they know they're shooting for the stars and sometimes they need a really clear reality check. The sweaty palmed dude who needed 3 hours to cross the room should have just fucking stayed there. I'm just telling him what he already knows. Don't shoot the messenger. We think very alike. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:22 PM
15

❄👑 for life. Cannot tell you how many times I've had the same experience as you. I'm always the person some douche comes over to talk to my friend to try to get closer to. I do not fucking care. The fact you went for my friend first already makes you a no in my book because of the triangulation (and my loyalty. I ensured any scrotes that broke up with my friends in my small town high school had NO CHANCE with me). At bus stops I've glared down men approaching when I'm there alone so they keep th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:49 PM
58

Our mods are on it 😘 out of curiosity what was the book you bought?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:48 PM
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Wow, 4 comments so far and I can only see the auto mod comment. Scrotes mad! 😂😂 I feel you sis. Sorry you had to go through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:44 PM
52

I honestly can't remember beyond she divorced Barbados Slim for Hermes and then he quit limbo, became a bureaucrat and got out of shape. Someone correct me if I'm wrong but I think it's because Hermes is a "good father" and reliably provides for LaBarbara and their son? I could be completely misremembering it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 05:40 PM
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Omfg in my 🤡 (high school) phase when I thought talking was something I realized this one male "friend" that I had always got moody and jealous to the point of outright sabotage or manipulation or lying when other males were around me in high school. (I don't qualify men/boys because it was both not one or the other 🤮) My mom gleefully picked up that he was jealous and promptly threw me his direction every chance she got for years. He didn't want me; he just liked when I was alone and lonely so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 05:25 PM
143

Love Futurama! Hermes' wife LaBarbara is a QUEEN! That woman took no shit the whole series and Hermes knew he had to work to keep her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:57 PM
52

Fuck this judgement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:10 PM
16

Absolutely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:42 PM
57

What man (let alone several) trips over themselves to "fix" a woman with anything other than his dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:32 PM
73

Trying to salvage the situation purely because it'll hit you in the wallet. Classic! 👌 Call the razzies instead of the oscars lol 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:17 PM
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As someone catching flack and taking shit constantly for the most basic stuff men have the privilege of doing, absolutely agree. If people really hated us, they'd do something really impactful to show us just how little they think of us, like LEAVING US ALONE. Love me or hate me, it's still an obsession.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:06 PM
14

Well yeah cause they get off on imagining your response to their message; you don't even have to respond. Men's fantasies are self-fueling. Unfortunately you can't delete your number from someone else's phone to prevent them from doing this after you block them, but at least blocking them prevents you from seeing their nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:48 PM
8

When I am around gangs of rednecks speaking with misogynistic terms and offensive language to women I literally have to leave the room lest I experimentally determine the melting point of human brain (mine). If we aren't allowed to respond for fear of retaliation and they monopolize the conversation which is primarily made up of offensive statements, that's a hostage situation. Men constantly feel entitled to do this and I literally refuse to be bothered. PROTECT YOUR ENERGY LADIES! 👑💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:58 PM
7

TALL QUEENS UNITE!! 🦒🦒🦒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:57 PM
8

You presenting with confidence reminded her she did not have confidence, and this woman figured it's easier if you join her than if she joins you. Stupid but unsurprising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:56 PM
29

I'm totally here for this analysis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 08:37 PM
13

Absolutely!! Especially if their boss is a man they don't even try it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:35 PM
18

(I’d tell you to leave me alone if it didn’t mean the emotional labor of having to placate your tantrum energy when I blatantly reject you) Oh my fucking god ain't this the truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:34 PM
17

Yuuuuup! I watched too many of my brother's exes give him 2-3+ chances because he knows what to say when he's fucked up, and pickmes fuck up by believing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:33 PM
20

My mother's boyfriend was up from the city and spent the weekend. Lovingly fixed all of her landscape lighting (complete with motion sensor solar lights in stairways and near the garbage, and new transformers and bulbs for the existing wired lights, as well as lots of smaller solar lights for all of her gardens) without her ever having asked for it, having paid a dime for the materials or spent time learning how to do it, and didn't expect anything in return. Spent time telling myself and a frie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:16 AM
123

Just another day of men dishing out what they can't take, more at 6.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:45 AM
64

This whole comment to me just screams "people who hate AOC with a passion".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:24 AM
26

2nd turning chats and dms off! You get followers instead but just block them if they're not from FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:34 PM
24

Yeah my brother acts like nagging is triggering for him but then completely continues to be disrespectful visiting my mother and she has to ask him to do basic shit constantly to maintain her standards... I already told her if it was my house he just wouldn't be allowed to visit anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:46 PM
32

I love this comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:09 PM
16

"It's in your best interest you don't find out about that thing I do that makes you mad and ergo stop having sex with me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:49 PM
42

Yeah can't stand being reminded of your dick every 5 seconds 🤢🤮🤮 pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:43 PM
9

Holy shit this is the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:03 PM
292

Every single time I've been kind to men I've regretted it. If they could stop conflating kindness with sexual attraction that would be great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:59 PM
212

calls women females
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:29 PM
35

Oh god preach sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:11 PM
4

No, but I'm interested. Thanks for the rec! Adding that to my list for sure. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:37 AM
29

Yup this right here! My ex started going down a psychological rabbit hole after we shared a traumatic event. He was absolutely losing it. He couldn't perform at work, crying himself to sleep, texting me shell shocked paragraphs of confusion, looking for I guess trauma bonding and endless sympathy? I was like you need to present at ER with how badly you tell me you feel because you need help and despite transit being available multiple ways he still refused to go. I realized our relationship, at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:49 PM
36

The first time I encountered this personality I was so confused I almost forgot to keep my guard up, and then I realized that was the idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:30 PM
27

Ugh. Guilty of dating a boy of similar age who was obsessed with top gear, drove his car like it was rocket league, yet an airbag recall had been sitting on his counter unaddressed 🙄 I learned I like men. Came to the same conclusion. Last time I ever gave someone under 25 a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:15 PM
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I was punished and mocked for showing emotion when I was young (yknow, the I'll Give You Something To Cry About parents) so now my cptsd reflex is to internalize all emotion until I can vent/feel privately. So if for example you were finding me in an obviously not fine state and I'm saying I am is probably because there are people around who I know aren't or don't know if they are safe to emote in front of. Suffice to say I know we shouldn't have to internalize but I do and internalization at le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:04 PM
9

Your dad is LV no doubt about it. But this does not have to reflect on you. As a fellow daughter of a low value man, it took me too long to realize that my dad was negging me because he was intimidated/emasculated by me and not because I was doing anything wrong. Your dad seems to be trying to heavily victim blame your mom here. Parenting material I've read from Canada's Family and Child Services specifically states you shouldn't speak badly about a child's parents in front of them lest they int…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 12:59 PM
18

Oh wow... that's embarrassing. Ahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:11 PM
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They try so hard but all they're really looking for is an excuse not to change because all they really want is for us to go back to enabling them 🤷‍♀️ so let's conflate my personality problems with facts I cannot change (which like you said they actually could change) to illustrate to YOU that I'm an unrepentant asshole. Like... mission accomplished lads? Fuck I'd be embarrassed to be that stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:23 PM
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It would be funny if it wasn't so pathetic. Omg can any of you imagine some crusty scrote just ragetyping in his nest of depravity and anticlimactically the post receives minimal interaction and gets deleted because obviously a man wrote it? Jfc I'd have better things to do with my time seriously, yikes. 😜😘🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:39 PM
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I like reminding anyone of this when they assume I have no self respect or that no women do 😀 speak for yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:37 PM
9

Coffee dates are a waste of time. Countless reasons in the handbook. (But personally, holy shit lol @ this scrote get rekt scrub!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:07 PM
25

They wanna talk about how horrible women are for putting men in the friend zone and using them as ‘emotional tampons’. That’s fucking friendship you animals. They use us as ‘emotional tampons’ and we’re still in the fuckzone. Fuck them, fuck their mental health issues and suicide rate. I have 0 empathy for a group that mocks us for having emotions, expects us to take on and deal with their emotions in private so they can keep appearing superior and logical to the public, while expecting a paymen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:29 PM
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I asked him if that was fair to me. Ya'll his face was shook. He never considered that. I cannot imagine being this inconsiderate. I'm so happy you didn't tolerate being used and put him on the spot hahaha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:28 PM
21

After a while it gets kind of pathetic don't you think? It would be laughable if it wasn't so unfortunate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:25 PM
23

Yup! Manslation: "I'm being nice! I haven't even started being mean yet so you better listen."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:33 AM
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I'm laughing at scrotes messaging you for this comment. The only thing more pathetic than being butthurt for feeling personally attacked is being butthurt because a celebrity you like is being criticized 🤣🤣🤣 Edit: maybe it was john mayer 😜 Honestly yeah I'm suspicious of all famous/rich/high profile men of any age, origin, or profession because men do everything they do to get laid and take advantage of as many women as possible! (See 80s rockstars, prolific politicians, social media personaliti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:47 PM
11

I'm with you sis. Never have, never will. Yell into the void scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:38 PM
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Lol so a woman grew with a scrote, took her half and moved on to what she deserved, and men consider that gold digging/stealing? How is that not true the other way around when they romanticize "struggle love" and "building your man" and the first thing he does then is dump you. 👏Hy 👏po👏cri👏sy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:29 PM
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Hahahahaaaa sending this to anyone suggesting I date this summer! 🙃👌👑 The bar has never been lower and I ain't into limbo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:24 PM
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You've articulated one of the most annoying phenomena I have experienced with other women. And idk why, but I take misogyny from women way more personally. Like friendly fire from your own team. Like c'mon sis wtf are you doing??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:14 PM
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This is pretty much my threshold for determining the appropriateness of a lie as well! If it might actually be the truth, could be the truth, or is just a version of the truth I know you'll accept, and you aren't entitled to know the actual truth and especially if I think you'll judge me for it, guess what you're getting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:10 PM
25

1 + 1 = 2
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:58 PM
29

Well, yeah. Why marry a girl who moves in and does that shit for free?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:55 PM
61

"You thought we had something because we moved in together??? Like that means commitment??"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:44 PM
10

I love it! It's like a needle in a dumpster built out of dumpsters itself in a dumpster also made out of dumpsters. The bullshit is never ending and you're right dangerous! 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:17 PM
33

Like trying to find a needle in a world-sized haystack 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:07 AM
125

YES!!! 🥂🍾🎉🎉🎉 WE LOVE A HAPPY ENDING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:03 AM
15

Holy crap that's awful. I'm sorry you had to experience that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:58 AM
2

Omg I'm super touched this is the first compliment I've gotten on it. Thank you so much! 🌼👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:50 PM
273

I figured this out in high school and high school boys hated me for it. I've always been the "DUMP HIM" friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:48 PM
245

Knock-knock! Who's there? 💥💣it's projection💣💥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:38 PM
21

How I wish I could behave... 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:04 PM
14

I saw a post from someone who worked at lush saying every straight dude who shops there immediately says they're shopping for their mom/gf/relative when asked if they need help. Like sir do you think only women use soap...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:19 AM
7

As a fellow writer, hats off to you! 👍👑💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:58 PM
79

When men have nothing else, they will always have the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:28 PM
141

They act like if a single woman develops self esteem they'll die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:27 PM
26

I loved the way this was worded so it actually was refreshing to read a night at the roxbury joke again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:39 PM
20

I just saw your comment after posting mine and we have the same idea I love it! Great minds think alike.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:32 PM
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If you resent me so much you embarrass me for daring to look nice enough to be seen with you I really don't know how you thought you were going to get laid buddy. Guess I need to blow this popsicle stand and go somewhere my efforts will truly be appreciated 💅 I'd literally lie and say my friends have a reservation at an upscale restaurant across town and I will be joining them. Blocked before I get to my car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:31 PM
52

I love this energy!! 🤩❤💅👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:47 PM
29

I feel sorry for your girlfriends, but they're lucky they had your relationship to compare theirs with. Without the pandemic or your relationship who knows when/if they would have woken up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:32 PM
63

And most offensively aren't prepared to permit. Too bad so sad! 😉 I'm an opinionated bitch. If you don't wanna hear my opinion on a topic don't give yours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:03 PM
172

Or "I disagree."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:52 PM
3

This is my mantra!!! You can't touch this 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:48 PM
8

Literally this is why I'll always curve hinge. Seems like it puts women under a false sense of security about the quality of its users from the get go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:41 PM
21

Yeah just consider the source and what incentive they have to make us believe it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:40 PM
7

Ugh that's disgusting. Deepest sympathies. My brother once dated someone with the same name as me 🙄 I mean she can't control what her name it but it was weird... Edit: I should add, I do not have a popular name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:34 PM
16

• Add smilies to my work emails Oof, I need to remember this. Too many times my hands are practically shaking at my keyboard because I've actually gotten BLOWBACK for being less than sickeningly nice and polite in my work emails. (You know, you assertively ask for something you are justifiably mad about having to ask for, for the fifth time, and suddenly because you didn't use EMOJIS IN THE WORKPLACE or say please 50 thousand times suddenly YOU'RE the one with the attitude problem.) Why does eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:59 AM
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Unfortunately for men like this who speak to me this way, the knife cuts both ways 😎🔪🔪🔪 I'll never forget how I absolutely obliterated a fuckboy's self esteem by interrupting an inane story to say, "I could not be MORE disinterested." Complete face fall. I don't do this unprovoked. Only in retaliation. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:55 AM
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I left him shortly after I gave birth the second time because I realized he was a coward who was abusive when I was vulnerable and couldn't defend myself. You're a good mom. The ones that don't leave end up hurting themselves and their kids. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:50 AM
18

I'm with you sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:46 AM
23

Shame seems to be the only thing most people respond to and I hate it but ok if men insist let me get my shame on 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:29 AM
33

Exactly, like the "bad things will happen to me if I don't" clients.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:40 AM
16

Saaaaame sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:18 PM
43

At a certain point I'm pretty sure they lose the plausible deniability to call it cognitive dissonance and it becomes straight up conscious hypocrisy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:45 PM
12

This is how you fucking do it. Queen shit! 👑💅😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:31 AM
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I agree with this. Blended friends are ok, but definitely keep separate circles to prevent complete enmeshment. Breakups are already shitty enough without losing all of your friends. If I had a nickel for every time I lost a female friend to some male who either had her vying for his attention or just automatically sides with the male in any circumstance or disagreement.... (trash takes itself out but still... there has been a lot of trash.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:48 PM
19

Unfortunately when you learn men ain't shit at a young age that shit sticks with you and it helps you avoid red flags but it's a lesson I wouldn't wish on anyone. I'm glad you're here! I see every additional queen on this sub as another potential fountain of untapped knowledge so I look forward to more of your posts! 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:41 PM
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Oh I hope you didn't take my comment as criticism at your lack of knowledge! We all learn and grow here. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:33 PM
72

DAE here just dump the first time any of these comes up? No blackouts or bingos for me one strike you're out 💅 and my bingo card is the size of a tablecloth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:22 PM
5

And naturally there are exceptions to most circumstances, but we aren't excluding those situations when we give advice for the most common situation. That should go without saying lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:56 PM
12

This is the modern linguistics of male behavior I signed up for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:31 PM
62

"I am especially rude to women because I find they need to humbled more often than men and not to mention I particularly enjoy doing it."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:30 PM
22

Congratulations, you're thinking about learning to achieve the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:27 PM
10

Thank you! Otherwise every opinion post would look like a legal contract because you'd have to what, detail an exhaustive list of all possible alternate situations to make sure people know you thought of it? Stop doing what you accuse "sjws" of, "outrage hunting", admit the post was not directed at you and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:05 PM
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I'd be doing and saying everything not under the legal definition of defamation at this point just BEGGING them to sue me so I can countersue for them being vexatious and wasting court time 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:01 PM
3

Ahhh my favorite!! 😍😍 I've seen EXO in concert im north american and due to a visa mixup kai almost wasn't there and I nearly died 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:51 AM
9

At least the trash can was more respectful than the scrote Not a lot makes me surprise laugh anymore, but this did. 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:27 PM
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Yup I've seen FDS reccomend leaking a fake insecurity as a "blood in the water test" to see if the scrote jumps on it. If he does, traaaaash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:37 AM
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Ah yes, first comes the breadcrumbing, then comes the gaslighting... "I was never like that" "You're making shit up" "You don't remember it right" Ah, silly me. I should have never given you a chance then. Guess it's never too late to correct my mistake! 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:48 AM
3

Did anyone else think the belly button was a micropenis for a second...? I didn't even question it at first glance because true 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:26 AM
19

Canadian queens are rising! How aboot that eh? 😉🇨🇦🍁❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:58 PM
2

You're a true queen! 👑 They're lucky to have you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:47 PM
7

Ding ding ding! This is the answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:03 PM
20

Not really interested in why unless you've got a solution, youtube.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:17 AM
42

Yup! Sometimes when I engage a scrote in an argument irl it's for the benefit of the audience ;) quickest way people learn behaviour is by modeling so I just model never taking their shit. 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:15 AM
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"You're a femcel!!!" Sure. Wanna fuck? Yeah? Then I'm not a femcel. I just don't want to fuck scrotes like you🤷‍♀️💅👑😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:01 AM
43

Die mad scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:49 AM
63

Yeah like I loved my dad's cologne growing up and if by coincidence I smelled the exact same thing on a partner I think it would be too weird of an association
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:44 AM
108

Men who believe that isn't the way it should be and that women should just acquiesce are just full on clowns. 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:40 AM
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The right to say no was twisted into an obligation to say yes. Holy fuck yes! Libfem summarized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:07 AM
64

Nor gunk falling out of or visible inside your ears! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:54 PM
441

My brother suggested I get an OnlyFans, I told him you first 😎 suddenly it's not suitable work for anyone with dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:14 AM
173

Near walk date there should be a picture of a dude walking 50ft ahead of you ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:21 PM
21

Ah, also got a case of the jealous loser father eh? Willing to even take away from his own kids so their lifetime success does not pass his even though your own son surpassed you annual salary at 21. The problem can't be him no no other people just have to do worse or life isn't fair 🙄 Edit: also if any mods see this I have more karma than some apprentices I see and I am still a newbie...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:16 PM
18

This is the true power. 👑💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:50 PM
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When online dating apps became superfluous and mainstream I had friends who started using them to date more. I have one friend who's married with a child to a guy she met online. But like, I grew up with instant messaging platforms and websites where you could message strangers. My parents traumatized me with stranger danger growing up (picture those child picture/fingerprint passports you keep to give to the police if they are abducted, laminated lists of "rules for safety" posted in the house,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:21 PM
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We love to see it! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:39 AM
30

Signaling that he wanted sex by walking up to me and trying to hump me like a dog on a fire hydrant (Pro tip for any men reading this: literally the worst thing you can possibly do to get a woman in the mood) omg had an ex that did this and it was the first time it ever happened to me so my reaction literally was to laugh and ask if he was a caveman. Like what the actual fuck? Do you just grunt and thrust your crotch at shit and actually expect that to work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:22 PM
16

I was thinking exactly this. I can't even laugh about this shit anymore it's just cringe and sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:06 PM
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Yes men, but at what cost 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:55 PM
21

*I think I can see what it says!** Actually, I zoomed in and think I can make out "a girl". So he was going to explain why SHE was what HE wanted and realized on second thought he better sell himself and try to give OP a reason to call him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:47 PM
29

I think you just described an alcoholic shark bro. How fitting 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:41 PM
26

Me too! Like what was he going to say?? Infinite possibilities!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:40 PM
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Never clean Woman becomes insane cleaning trying to keep up Perpetuate the stereotype that women "love to clean" or are just "better at cleaning". Gaslight/neg each new woman by saying your ex cleaned all the time so your new woman feels compelled by pickme instincts to do it Profit??? From all the time you saved never having to clean...? I'll be fucking damned if I EVER clean up after a man. Gtfo of my house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:45 PM
36

As if carrying a pizza encourages sexual panhandlers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:03 AM
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This gave me an epiphany I didn't realize I hadn't had lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:44 PM
72

Yeesh men, it's so cringey that even the slightest compliments give you delusions of grandeur about yourselves... almost like you had massive egos to begin with but weren't comfortable exercising it unless you sensed external reinforcement.🙄🙄🙄 Even if you smile men think that means you want to fuck, so I simply can't be my bubbly glowy self in public I'm afraid... 😉but women get the full benefit of my naturally complimentary nature. Unfortunately I had to unlearn this where men were concerned. S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:53 PM
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I'm jongin biased myself but you're not wrong 😉❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:47 PM
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oMg hAvE yOu TrIeD cOmMuNiCaTiNg?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:37 PM
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As someone who everyone assumes is the former but is actually the latter, thank you for saying this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:15 PM
256

Dude better be fiscally fit AND physically fit if he's going to be asking for qualifications THAT specific with THAT attitude acting like he's not the one desperately seeking pussy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:08 PM
21

This is why I stopped watching. They do promote pseudoscience as well as per this media bias fact check. Between that and not being able to keep the show schedule straight and a revolving door of hosts I quit caring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:30 PM
21

But I stopped once Ana and Cenk said that the woman who was assaulted by Aziz Ansari "just had a bad date"🙄. No mention of coercion. No mention of trauma. I'd already quit by then but wow that's disappointing. I also HATE how Ana talks about being married. Being married doesn't make you a "better" woman. She talks about him like he's done her a service, or that she's grateful to be his wife, but still drops hints to his LV ways. Agreed. This has always rubbed me the wrong way. Cenk has a history…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:26 PM
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I used to watch everything TYT did (they apparently are one of the most progressive sources god help us) but haven't in years due to news fatigue. Cenk by far rubs me the wrong way the WORST of anyone on that show. Take everything he says with a huge grain of salt. He's a loud mouthed shmuck at best and harmfully ignorant at worst. Don't worry Cenk, she doesn't want you either! Ana- dinner AFTER a pre-screen phone call! She's so sharp but she seems purposely obtuse with many of her statements he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:15 PM
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Just when I thought I couldn't become any more Anti-Amaz0n. This is incredibly alarming to put it MILDLY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:18 PM
21

I also love and use this regularly in my rejection rotation ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:27 PM
2

Josh Whedon 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:02 PM
122

If a man has the audacity to say something to your face to neg you, just say "yeah, AND?" or "So?" and then leave. This advice works most of the time for me and the reaction is always delicious. 💅👑❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:55 PM
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Didn't know where the makeup look was going, was very satisfied with the result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:54 PM
244

This is something every empathetic woman needs to read. The day I quit caring about men's emotions (read: the emotions of men who want to fuck me) was the day I quit feeling pickme urges and betrayed when they obviously didn't mean what they said. I had an ex who I was still waiting at 4 months with. This dude actually had full crying breakdowns multiple times (ironically enough about a traumatic accident he was responsible for) likely hoping I would finally give in and "comfort" him with some s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:52 PM
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This is the best thing I've ever heard. Incredible. 👑💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:50 AM
12

Time for a bachlorette party! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:42 PM
13

I was always given negative reinforcement for being anything but docile and deferent even labeled crazy if I challenged disrespect. 💯🚩Yes exactly! I've definitely quit jobs over this before. But if i don’t come in a humble, sad, demure way it’s taken almost as a face to face challenge that must be slapped down. I am most bitter about how many interactions this must happen to with women like us. 🤬 What men accept/ encourage in their own daughters v what they want in. a gf/ wife/ colleague is alwa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:59 PM
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I have a saved quick text for this ahahahah ʷʰʸ ᵗʰᵉ fᵘͨᵏ ʸºᵘ ˡʸʸʸ'ⁿ, ʷʰʸ ʸºᵘ ᵃˡʷᵃʸˢ ˡʸʸʸ'ⁿ, ᵐᵐᵐᵐᵐᵐ ºʰ ᵐʸ ᵍºᵈ ˢᵗºp fᵘͨᵏ'ⁿ ˡʸʸʸ'ⁿ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:26 PM
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Been handling myself this way most of my life. To take this a step further than even dating. ANYTHING anybody criticizes you about, if it's normal for a man to do, do not accept criticism for it. You are not unprofessional if you don't wear makeup. You are not unladylike if you swear. You're not bossy or a bitch for knowing what you want and giving directions. The people that are treating you that way or making you feel bad about it have something to gain from you internalizing their comments an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:06 PM
2

Holy shit this kitty needs an ad campaign stat! So adorable! Edit *these kitties
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:52 AM
21

Bench Appearo Introducing the world's worst magician!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:19 PM
29

Teigen's just punching down. Which says way more about her than the victim, anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:12 PM
41

What a "coolgirl" take....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:10 PM
33

they've trained themselves to worship at the altar of porn and tricked themselves into really believing that there's something wrong with society at large if they can't get a woman as easily as they can jerk off to a video of a drugged human trafficking victim being raped. 💯🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:07 PM
23

Zoom zoom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:06 PM
76

Skincare routine >>>>> makeup routine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:00 PM
25

The most perverse thing about it is as a woman you can do literally nothing to stop it. No matter who you are if they want to harass you they'll just pick something 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:48 AM
22

Perfection. 💗👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:57 PM
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My parents called that kind of shit reverse psychology. They expect you to just do the opposite of what they say and yes it's a neg to make you needy. Have some self respect and walk your fine ass out the door!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:55 PM
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One time in HS, a guy commented on my dark arm hair so I said "if this scares you, you don't want to see my legs." Somehow he got a crush on me after that... Humiliation fetish 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:32 PM
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It's got to be clinical insanity to be that irritated by every benign comment just because a woman says it LITERALLY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:30 PM
41

This reminds me of that quote about sexist men in online video games that men that stand to lose the most status feel the most intimidated by women gaining status so are going to lash out but accomplished, confident men do not feel that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:29 PM
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Intelligence lends to wit so it's understandable why they feel insecure if a woman is funnier ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:22 PM
92

I have a few of the first Barbie movies on VHS from when I was a kid and when I saw this post I knew exactly where it was going! Sad world we live in that Barbie for all its impossible beauty standards actually has a higher bar for romance and empowerment standards than fucking Disney. Naturally Disney and its mostly-male execs have a vested interest in maintaining the regressive views of its wide and young audience though. Don't want to go as far as calling it grooming but I definitely needed t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:25 PM
6

Absolutely a last-straw situation he failed to realize was fast approaching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:52 PM
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This was my exact thought. Your pride relies on a superficial (read: personal) fact about me? Guess what that fact is now wrong! Don't base your pride on anything about me you bizarre, bizarre weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:50 PM
7

Really shows a lack of critical thinking, empathy, and situational awareness FOR SURE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:48 PM
6

You leaving stonewalls them communicating with you in the same way their obstinacy stonewalls you from communicating with him while you're around him. One of those options leaves you free and happy to do your own thing, and is therefore a more worthy investment of your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:14 PM
5

Ah an orange sapphire! I first thought it was topaz. It's very lovely! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:43 PM
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I've pretty much always been considered a bitch because I took no shit even as a child/teenager (from everyone except my overprotective and controlling parents ofc, so I knew what an abusive, restrictive relationship was like). Naturally when I left home for Uni the last thing I wanted to do was get in a relationship with some tool or take some random man (or pickme!)'s bullshit because why the fuck would I do that. I grew up with a pickme mom and an LVM dad. I can learn vicariously without maki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:37 PM
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Well no man is going to voluntarily schedule "accept constructive criticism from woman" in his agenda so you have to just firmly and with no room for argument preempt his regularly scheduled programming 💅👑 Any complaints? Cancelled. Get out of my house. This was a wonderful breakdown. Good work Queen! 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:28 PM
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💯🎯 Glad I'm not the only person who experiences this! Yes men, congratulations. You exist. I don't exist to worship you. They're so insecure that their ego implodes if a woman their vicinity doesn't immediately validate them. And tbh I think they want to brag about the attention as much as they want to benefit from the attention. Men are weak and needy. Talk to me when you grow some self esteem and some discipline 💅👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:37 PM
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Yeah he doesn't even have the decency to be ashamed of being so emotional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:39 PM
12

why would you ever want to subsidize his dates with other chicks A Man, referring to his rotation of other women he's fucking to the girl he currently wants to go dutch with: "Our Dates." 🤢🤮 yikes, admit you're broke and looking for pussy charity and go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:31 PM
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If he can't afford all the dates he's been going on he probably can't afford to be dating 🤷‍♀️ examine your financial sitch or move somewhere with a lower cost of living. Orrrrrrrr yknowstopdatingsomanywomen ah but that last one gets a lot of pushback. The solution is easy fellas. Just stop being so desperate. 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:28 PM
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You've got your response spring-loaded as every Queen should 👑🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:25 PM
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I sometimes wonder if just the process of being raised by LV parents causes cptsd in women or sets you up to experience your 20s as one long trauma response and then you end up with cptsd Not a mental health professional, but anecdotally that's true for every woman I know. IMHO, the more we talk about cptsd and the childhood trauma experienced by girls, the more we'll create healing conditions for women starting at an earlier age Agreed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:23 PM
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I've been shamed by pickmes for expecting the man to pay. They seriously thought they got me by asking "Can you afford to pay to take someone out to a nice restaurant on the first date?" And I was just like no, but I'm not interested in dating nor do I ask people on dates so if you want to date me and ask me out, you better make it worth my while!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:00 PM
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---Insert that lady gaga quote about your career not waking up and saying it doesn't love you anymore---
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:08 PM
36

My dream is signs everywhere saying "don't fuck terrible men it just encourages them" like those don't feed the birds/wildlife signs. Everyone should know ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:27 PM
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If we're fucking snowflakes then WINTER IS COMING. ❄❄❄❄❄❄❄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:25 PM
53

The emoji hate is one of the actual funniest things to me. Like if emojis are offensive to you re-evaluate your life. 😘💕💅👄🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:40 PM
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See every roommate I've had since 17! :'D For the last fucking time, not wanting ants crawling on the floor is not controlling. Not wanting rotting food in the fridge is not controlling. Expecting each adult on the premises to take initiative to do needed work is not controlling. No one I've lived with (spoiler alert all my roommates since moving out have been women) has had cleaning standards up to mine YET. And my mom's standard of cleanliness is higher than mine! And her mother's higher than …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:09 PM
6

My mom has endometriosis and periods were openly discussed in my family as normal. We were also watching to see if I developed it so I had to talk about my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:17 PM
2

This made me cry for upwards of 10 minutes thank you so much ahahahahahaaa 😘💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:07 PM
18

When I was a literal child playing the card game "Old Maid" with my family I asked what an old maid was and they told me like it was a warning but I didn't really see any problem with it. In high school, teenage boys were hot messes who just wanted to fuck and why would I start seriously dating someone with the goal of going away to school? In post secondary, I had neither money nor extra time and I definitely saw men as a burden through vicariously living through my friends' relationships and w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:19 PM
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Never change FDS! This is a fucking sanctuary free from thirst, abuse, whataboutism, and gaslighting and despite countless testerical mantrum tears we really don't care what others have to say. This is a female enrichment forum, not a place for men to attempt to reclaim status. Go somewhere else. We won't be there. Yell into the the void for all we care. We don't care where you go we just don't want you around. You saying we have no choice but to include you demonstrates why this space is necess…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:36 PM
15

This comment was cathartic to read. I love your energy Queen! 💕💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:32 PM
24

Good lord how did that man pass elementary school biology thinking plants can survive without water for years. I'd have had more respect for his intelligence if he'd thought they were fake!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:30 PM
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Yeah use lol like a comma that'll make us believe you're genuinely entertained by the situation... while posting about it online for help.... Jfc the amount of people who post online just expecting confirmation bias makes me never want to answer anybody's questions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:21 PM
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Ugh my dad didn't know how to use an ATM when he was insisting my mother "get back to work".... guess who had a build your own computer but still didn't have any idea how countertop agendas worked. The man was a bumbling fool on purpose! I'm convinced he never actually wanted to have children and once we were no longer toddlers he successfully pawned most of his work off on my mom and my siblings until he ultimately cheated and left. QUEENS DO NOT LET THEM BE INCOMPETENT. IT IS ALMOST ALWAYS ON …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:20 PM
46

Her first words to James: "I'm not going to carry you." 👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:05 PM
8

Nope, just glasses apparently 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:56 PM
14

I assume if his sexual history is questionable he won't be honest about it. I agree with the other commenters saying you can pick up their promiscuity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:53 PM
17

Men desiring to financially disconnect from the baby are putting undue pressure on the woman to abort. I loved this male reproductive rights conversation on The Atheist Experience but all the butthurt men in the comments agreed with the caller. In defense the two men hosting the show agree it's weird for 3 men to be talking about this, but since the caller was essentially insisting on having the discussion put him in his place. If you don't want kids, as a man, you shouldn't be fucking. If you'r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:36 PM
36

That's the tea sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:16 AM
30

Nothing to add just dropping upvotes all around to counteract the butthurt downvotes. 💅 keep doing your thing ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:47 AM
109

911 operator: "Don't worry sir. We'll pull someone off a rape case and have them there right away!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:56 PM
40

Agreed! I don't respond to even male relatives who only reach out in a thinly veiled attempt at extracting emotional labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:35 PM
4

Some scrote: how DARE someone turn off NOTIFICATIONS for MY messages!!!!!1!1!!1!!! And you actually got hate for this. I'm deceased of laughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:50 PM
39

If I was like the NAMALT crowd I'd comment on the original thread asking what about the daughters of male prostitutes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:27 PM
37

People cling to their dysfunction to seem "special" because being well-adjusted and responsible is BoRinG and unless your life is a sitcom/blockbuster/drama some can't see why anyone would be interested in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:23 PM
21

Thanks for the heads up! 🍁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:11 PM
71

Guys are the clingy ones!!! Every single one of my exes was a stage 5 clinger who knew I was independent from the get go!!! Like sir I cannot help your codependency issues - you need to seek professional help. I'm not a ping respond bot for you to use every time you remember you're alive and not getting attention at that exact moment. Get off my dick scrotes! You do not know me well enough to be riding me like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:25 PM
345

Knowing men can't weigh in on this convo is my favorite part about it. 💖🍿🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:07 PM
176

This was so hard for me to learn as a compulsive people pleaser and natural helper. But you have to be selective of who gets that energy! Great write-up, sis. This is handbook material. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:22 PM
53

Even in money matters you still gotta care for your man's eGo.... lest he fucking beat you I'm not even fucking attracted to men anymore wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:05 PM
19

God if I was getting divorced from this man and found out this post was his I'd send it to my lawyer so we could sue him for premeditated fraud(or similar, ianal, but whatever). This man knowingly admits to wasting 20 years of this woman's life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:03 PM
25

I screeched when I read that. Then cackled. Because woooooooowowowowow don't pop your shoulders with those reaches fellas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:00 PM
29

Can I just take a minute because "phantasies"... jfc whatisthatspellingidonteven
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:57 PM
37

This is real feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:24 PM
11

🔔🔔🔔ding ding ding! This is the answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:18 AM
152

Yeah I noticed this too. That's some r e d p i l l DREAD shit right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:05 AM
17

Another day another douchebag 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:24 AM
23

He never expected concern for his wife likely, just a bunch of dudes all praising him for being fUnNy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:56 AM
59

I rolled my eyes so hard at that post I saw my own brain. Hell would have to freeze over twice and I STILL would NEVER put up with that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:29 PM
15

takes notes 📝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:47 PM
22

Sis, this is QUEEN SHIT. Articulated so many things I've been mulling over! Imagine your biggest problem in life being your complete inability to level up or get over yourself to the point you'd rather become a porn addicted incel than do anything differently. That's craaaazy dedication to staying wrong. @ the lurkers: get fucked (oh wait, you can't!) This one's for our ancestors, sisters! 💛💕🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:47 PM
640

Respect my existence or expect my resistance 🙃 Gateway to life is closed, assholes! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:42 PM
21

Sparing themselves whatever hardship that would cause THEM, not you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:07 PM
19

Guinea pigs!!!! 💖💛💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:21 PM
171

Kink shaming IS my kink! Edit: y'all I'm quoting a vine. Idgaf what other peoples' kinks are enough to even bother shaming them. b&d only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:14 PM
11

You're an option at best and a target at worst. No good can come from it. I'm not even friends with my male family members because they just suck as people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:49 PM
129

Age is just a number, and jail is just a room....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:47 PM
16

I agree with the points that your daughter should definitely have an opinion on how her room is decorated. My suggestion is not a quote, but a book! For Teenage Girls With Wild Ambitions and Trembling Hearts by Clementine Von Radics It's a single poem in a book but it's super inspiring! I linked to the lyrics so you can read the poem but the physical book is worth the purchase imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:43 PM
17

We should start giving prizes to FDS users who get quoted in articles. Anything that gets them riled up enough to quote directly is worthy of a reward for the free external buzz it generates!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:50 PM
12

The ones that grin (I'm personally raging at the idea fucking pukeeee) enjoy the power imbalance of you having to be a polite, "customer service" personality and relish the thought of you having to swallow whatever they subject you to. These are the same whiny men who need the law to oppress women so things "feel more even" to them when they mean "the rules subjugate women FOR ME so I get what I want more easily without being the bad guy". These men cherish the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:00 PM
63

Based on your tone from reading this I'm guessing you realized it was weird or at the very least annoying... the noise alone... sis you wanna live on an airplane? Go with your gut here. Seems like yall have different priorities. If his lack of possessions unnerves you it's not your job to cure him of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:19 AM
13

They take it personally that we err on the side of perceiving danger because they want to continue to hurt people and ghost before we get wise to their bullshit 👀 "What do you MEEEEEEAAAAANNNN it's harder to pump n dump fEmALeS now?!?!?! Chads ruin it for everybody!!!!!" Meanwhile them knowing full fucking well they'd do the same thing given the same advantages...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:15 AM
22

This is incredible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:00 PM
1

Might be automod notifications if you click the 3 dots top right "mark all as read" should go away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:33 PM
29

It brings me so much joy to imagine scrotes angrily heading to my profile only to find they can't DM me because I don't even have time for their bullshit :) sorry, if I cared about men's feelings I'd join other subs where y'all can screech NAMALT to everything. FDS is like a nice country club of queens and those scrotes can yell through the gate all they want - they still aren't getting a membership :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:27 AM
8

Just saw your post about being new here, so welcome to FDS! 🥂👑💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:05 AM
19

"If she talks she's a THOT"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:00 AM
29

These morons in glass houses throwing stones. Bunch of digital dummies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:55 AM
22

Did... did he forget he started his insult with lol?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:54 AM
42

My inbox ain't even open - I don't wanna hear it. Settle for just replying me on fds and hoping I see it before our mods slap that shit down like the rest of the scrotes. Scream into the void. No one can hear you. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:54 AM
277

This message just gets more concise, razor-sharp, and example filled every time and I can't wait for future iterations of this message. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:11 PM
9

Jon Bon Jovi! Runs the Soul Kitchen, married to his wife for decades, very private personal life. Never seemed to let the fame get to him. Aging like fine wine 🍷🍷💖 been a fan since childhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:41 AM
23

I have CPTSD and anxiety so hypervigilance is my default mode. I'm unashamedly guarded around most people. You have to demonstrate you are respectful of my boundaries before you gain any additional privileges. My gut usually says "you can stay but you're on thin fucking ice" to most people, so that just means I don't trust them fully yet. I proceed with caution until I see definite signs of danger. When my gut gets a BAD VIBE, I do not pass go. I fucking run. I don't even confront in those situa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:51 AM
14

I love intimidating men by just existing as a tall thick woman 😊 You can always see their monkey brains recalibrating as they get closer to you after checking you out, size you up, and realize you're too much effort because you'd be too hard to overpower. 💪 Joke's on them because you don't have to be big to be strong! A mistake they won't wanna make but likely will ahaha And yes queen those "backhand compliments" are just insults coming from a place of jealousy. Keep being your majestic giraffe …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:43 AM
17

"Like this if you cry every time!" 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:20 AM
681

Don't threaten me with a good time! 😇😍🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:15 AM
42

Yeah they gotta pick something to devalue you about so they just spin the ol' Wheel Of Sexist Excuses(tm). I think it's because they assume all CF women of childbearing age will have children as a When and not an If.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:13 AM
28

Yup. Don't see many women-worshipping kinks anywhere (beyond creepy femdom stuff which is still just for the man's benefit)...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:05 AM
19

I'd say Vice is toilet paper but as a digital media source I'd have to waste non-renewable resources to even make it as useful as toilet paper by printing it so it's pretty much completely useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:08 PM
23

This. Sperm is abundant and low value :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:13 AM
15

One of my FDS approved Kpop faves is Hate You by 2NE1 as well as I Am The Best. I miss them... so much....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:48 PM
19

I.... I have no words 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:20 PM
34

I'm fucking crying why was this so funny looooooool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:16 PM
47

All the power, love, and support to you Queen! 💖💛 we love to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:07 PM
14

Then you best pay a surrogate boy-o.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:05 PM
7

Did it include snacks? Like if it didn't that would be the dealbreaker 🙄 LV behaviour all-around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:26 PM
5

2nd this! 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:56 AM
48

"God Margot you're embarrassing me! We talked about this, can't believe you're doing it again sis."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:20 AM
4

Like women gaining rights suddenly makes assault legal for anyone 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:34 AM
7

Somebody's gotta catch him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:30 AM
78

Men, every single time women defend themselves: WOMEN HAVING WEAPONS IS THE PROBLEM. NOT US HARASSING WOMEN. Reminds me of the fucking Bojack Horseman episode where Diane starts carrying a gun for protection and it catches on among women. Men all start complaining they don't feel safe. One legislative meeting later and California banned all guns rather than pass any legislation to help women. She was like "I can't believe the people of California hate women more than they love guns." But ofc ykn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:29 AM
41

Spread this like wildfire and watch men complain women are ruining the rape industry and they can't even grope a girl without her permission anymore without her "framing him for something" looool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:25 AM
96

Female hating strategy? Do they mean what MRA/redpill groups should actually be called?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:08 PM
27

📣📣📣Agreed. Don't fuck with my freedom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:35 PM
20

Rape is rape. Marriage isn't a permanent declaration of pussy season. Full stop end of discussion counter points form an orderly queue and go fuck yourselves. You are NEVER entitled to sex. Get that through your thick head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:34 PM
15

Oh my fucking god yuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:30 PM
24

I'm almost the exact same proportions as you and I swear I see dick shaped lightbulbs above their head when I walk by. There's no hiding, and that's before you wear heels. So, I just power walk everywhere with a straight face with an aura of don't-fucking-come-near-me and just having that energy I've had men walk several feet around me OR EVEN ABOUT FACE AND ABORT WHEN THEY WERE COMING STRAIGHT FOR ME BECAUSE I MADE EYE CONTACT AND STARED THEM DOWN. Sis, you are most dudes' idea of a wet dream. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:20 PM
154

"Oh no. My porn isn't on the front page. Not even banned or anything, I just have to actually type the sub name in my search bar. Dammit, I hadn't really planned on that. My hand is already on my dick. Now what do I do? WOMEN ARE RUINING REDDIT FOR MEEEEE REEEEEEEE"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:07 PM
3

YIKES did not know this thanks for the PSA! Blocking vice on my browser extension now. I never want to read anything by them again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:46 PM
14

Originally given a life sentence for killing his partner, Chantale Deschesnes, in 2004 by beating her with a hammer and stabbing her, Gallese gradually gained limited freedom for good behavior: Canada’s parole board downgraded Gallese’s risk of reoffending from “high” to “moderate” to “low to moderate” last year, and granted him day parole at a halfway house in March. The board extended his day parole for another six months in September. This is the most angering part. WHY WAS HIS RISK DOWNGRADE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:44 PM
61

When they start attacking you they know you're on to something. 🙃 Enjoy jerking off alone forever, scrotes. Many of us are voluntarily off the market and advising more women to do the same! Treat us right or fuck off completely. We aren't asking for the moon here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:18 PM
21

Agreed. Turnabout's fair play if you don't want your shit thrown back at you don't hit me with it. I won't take your insults and guilt; I know they're just coming from a petulant, wounded manipulator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:01 PM
21

Aaaaand this is how we end up with inbred family trees. Depraved men who use even their own family to satisfy their pp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:50 AM
9

This is pretty much my point of contention too. I fundamentally object to being seen as someone's property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:47 AM
13

Fucking this. Until we can get past the patriarchal comphet of assuming the dynamic of every virtually straight relationship we see a woman in I absolutely don't even want to be seen with a man in public as it decreases my societal value even more. Because now I'm an unavailable, "used" woman they can't have and they delight imagining you getting subjugated nightly by the dude as a consolation prize. Like holy fuck I know that normally people need to denigrate a woman in public but to me it's ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:44 AM
16

Basically its doesn't matter what you wear or dont wear men will either fill in the blanks with their imagination or go wild from exposure. Yup exactly this. You as a woman can do nothing to prevent the depravity as these sick fucks sexualize everything. I've said it before and I'll say it again. Pre-nut insanity is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:30 AM
12

Living for this energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:23 AM
130

'I don't do xmas, I told you that'. And I don't do you. Goodbye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:18 AM
79

Facts don't care about men's feelings 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:08 AM
44

Omfg imagine getting a date with a queen and completely blowing it with the first words out of your mouth lmfaooooo Date speedrun any %
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:50 PM
4

Yeah :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:34 AM
8

This will probably seem stupid but you could maybe get some catharsis from doing this in the same vein as "unsent letters" and just write an actual invoice for everything, and then destroy it instead of sending it obviously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:14 AM
155

Fool had to try it 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:24 PM
80

If the answer isn't you this is a horrible story :p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 07:37 PM
52

We all have "those stories" of some lying scrote we believed actually cared because of his words (I know, we were dumb to take them at face value) and either took back/stayed friends with/whatever. LADIES, TRUST WORDS NOT ACTIONS. FORGET "POST-NUT CLARITY"(SIC), PRE-NUT INSANITY IS REAL. He will say whatever he needs to if he still has a chance. Don't give him one. Slam the door. Lock it. Be ruthless. Because, in circumstances like this you will DEFINITELY be victim blamed if something unfortuna…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 07:33 PM
18

Yup very aware of this nice little tidbit of info!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 07:22 PM
9

I used to say things like this until I realized "choreplay" was a thing so now I give chores the same amount of praise I'd give getting dressed or going to the bathroom. That is to say, none.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 10:30 AM
11

This is true, and I don't remember religion talking about or reinforcing how normal it is to go to the bathroom either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 10:16 AM
14

Agreed. Canada's good reputation is undeserved and is mostly the result of good PR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:57 AM
9

Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:35 AM
7

Lmfaoooo this was amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:34 AM
11

I love it here 💖💖💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:29 AM
7

As a fellow Canadian also pro UBI, come the fuck on BC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:28 AM
18

JABBA THE HUSBAND SIS I'M CACKLING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:22 AM
23

Why didn't she just take it upon herself to smash the USB stick with a hammer and call it a day? It's what a man would have done. Look at the countless posts women have made of men destroying everything from their girlfriend's animal crossing island to a bonsai tree and those weren't even literally pornographic films of exes. The men perceived feeling inferior to video games or inanimate objects, to the point of having to destroy them. Could you just IMAGINE if this was the other way around? I'd…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:20 AM
49

Because as always, men's projection that women are a monolith is virtually true of them, and they viciously ostracize outsiders because other people might get ideas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:35 PM
91

ABSOLUTELY THIS. All this, and then they act like you're deficient for failing to produce children, like it's some trauma or emotional hole you have or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:58 PM
54

I really appreciated this video as a braless large breast woman myself. I was definitely shamed for having a body growing up. As a teenager I swam in crew necks and board shorts. I worked at a store with majority male clients for a while and they'd stare at the lumps on my front while I was wearing a hoodie AND a coat. Men are just fucking gross ogling perverts and I've always felt like an animal in a zoo being stared at by people who want to take me home and keep me as a pet. I can see the depr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:52 PM
11

Oh ffs I knew I'd make that mistake one day and I've tried to be so careful! Fixed thanks hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:27 PM
32

This article was amazing. Now I'm going to go listen to That Bitch by Bea Miller🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:50 PM
23

I saw a comment somewhere that Bachelorette parties seem more natural after a wedding than before, because you're celebrating being newly single as opposed to celebrating how you will no longer be single in an uncomfortably sexual situation when you're (supposed to be) already committed. That said, I think the natural response to a woman getting divorced should be to throw her a Bachelorette party. Not a dick themed shrine party, a YOU ARE SINGLE AND FREE NOW party! New beginning!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:48 AM
35

Wow even if that was true and we all were that'd be an amazingly consistent sample. It's almost like the odds of that being true are almost impossible! :) And agreed I'd be amused if I wasn't so disturbed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:41 AM
38

"Ah yeah Dad, I usually tend to be done speaking right in the middle of sentences."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:37 AM
15

I do this too because NOBODY talks over me. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:36 AM
2

I didn't know he had a practice even. Before I ever heard of him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:18 AM
11

This is it 👆 the answer to almost any question of why anyone would do anything is usually money. Being accountable to a licensing body and maintaining practice standards and professional standing would be more trouble than it's worth and would only slow a media personality down 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:52 PM
18

I first heard the "Born Sexy Yesterday" trope used in reference to Gal Gadot's wonder woman and I was like hoLY SHIT YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:37 PM
9

50 first dates was the first to go on my recent DVD romcom purge 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:32 PM
30

Yeah knowing how much garbage oprah has put on the air has made me not care about a thing she says or does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:30 PM
51

Ugh can we stop calling him Dr he has a PhD but gave up his psychology practice license in 2006 ergo he doesn't require patient client confidentiality and just pretends to be a Dr on TV. A farce at best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:28 PM
13

Oh wow that's creepy...!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:24 PM
20

Dr Ramani on youtube (couldn't find the specific video because it wasn't titled specifically for this) says that narcissists often see people as appliances and either abuse or discard the not working appliance. Pretty sure the Venn Diagram of narcissists and men who treat women like a wife appliance is a circle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:19 PM
4

If your blanket has glass beads they won't melt so you'd be fine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:16 PM
52

Blegh I could not make it through GOT at alllll at allllllllll so much fucking gratuitous bs aimed at men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:31 PM
144

Women 👏 aren't 👏 trauma 👏 porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:07 PM
115

A show that's really bad for this is One Tree Hill. Virtually every woman on the show is brutalized in some way multiple times. Years after the show ended turns our Mrk Schwn is a predator. Many, many, many scenes now leave a terrible distaste in fans' mouths. Added to that when you consider the more general problems like constant clevage shots? An adult rockstar dating a teenage girl? teens in high school living alone with no parental supervision? sexualizing teenagers??? The show's lens was th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:45 PM
11

Please make a post about this sis! I'd love to hear more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:19 PM
27

No problem I'm glad it made sense 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:57 PM
134

He doesn't need an impression of whether you want it or not to know that he wants it and that's enough for him. And even if you straight up told him you're celibate (DON'T I'm just making a point) he will still think that means "convince me". If he ever truly gets the message you don't want to fuck he'll ghost faster than casper. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:36 PM
7

Omg I'd be so irritated I'd like copy paste "hahahah" like 57372858682 times so he thinks he's getting a detailed response (pedos everywhere thrill as they believe I'm somehow going into detail about their question) and then when you've kept them on the hook playing with your text wall for like 5+ minutes send the "hahahahaha"s and block instantly. We aren't responsible to teach men but ladies of quality should hold a united front against this kind of bullshittery(and any bullshittery we talk ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:32 PM
15

"Family needs hotline, how may I direct your call? Services are 5.99/minute or you could just take the initiative to do literally anything about it yourself, asshole."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:26 PM
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It's likely because his interest has waned so he purposely wasn't free for "dinner" but surprise surprise, can squeeze you in for coffee. Gotta try on the off chance you'll fuck anyway! 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:24 PM
29

We can't do that, that's getting too close to the truth for comfort...! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:03 PM
6

The only reason I haven't is that they're learning (the ones I haven't yet cut out), they're just having the same kind of "sticker shock" I had when I first encountered these attitudes as well. I want to inspire more queens but only if it looks promising. The hopeless cases are absolutely gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:47 PM
23

Omg! Are you the pandemic coordinator? Jfc those men are useless. I'd ignore them too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:44 PM
10

Yeah the old Irish goodbye is perfect! The point is don't waste your energy. LVM already do that. As soon as you realize that's happening though, everything you do with the LVM is wasting your own time after that. I disliked the feeling of being that was at first but the guilt subsides with time. You don't have to hurt anyone but don't let them hurt you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:42 PM
7

Ooh sis I feel this 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:40 PM
168

My friends always think I'm some cold bitch when I say something like this. Like either look in the mirror and admit you're being taken advantage of and take steps to prevent it next time or keep falling in the lowering your expectations and trapping trash trap. It's just basic self preservation at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:44 AM
9

I love that energy. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:36 PM
18

Well we're their insert-a-coin-get-attention machines, so why isn't the appliance working as intended? "If women aren't here to emotionally serve me what are they even HERE for?!" /ssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:25 PM
15

They signed up for the competitive victimization category and got the gold in advance 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:37 PM
66

I always respond with "I could not be MORE disinterested."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:02 PM
20

Oh... oh no... this is true! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:14 PM
59

With men being able to compartmentalize mentally like they do I'm not sure I'll ever be able to believe any man truly not capable of fucked up shit like this. I always wonder if the fucked up thing he did is in his past already and he hasn't told you or worse, that the fucked up thing he's going to prove to be capable of doing will be to you and it'll be too late because you trusted him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:26 AM
6

it could have easily been a manosphere fanfic as well. Came here to say this 👆. It was so cringe that it has got to be either a very confused woman or a man imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:17 AM
168

Sis you read my mind! And people used to get bent out of shape about barbies but bratz were a whole new level of unrealistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:12 AM
38

To piggyback off of this: "Hell is empty, all the devils are here." - Shakespeare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:58 PM
119

Yeah some dudes just want a woman impersonating a man and it shows. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:01 PM
2

"I had LITERALLY the best time!" Are you dating Chris Traeger??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:15 PM
69

Wow I almost thought I was on a different relationship sub for a second! 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:24 PM
27

The catharsis I got from reading "Go fuck yourselves en masse." Love your energy queen! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:21 PM
17

Yup this right here! 📣📣📣📣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:17 PM
74

Well obviously "manchild" is as offensive as actual slurs or reddit rule breaking content and deserves the same kind of reverence around its restricted usage./s Definitely male mods. What woman would be offended than badly over the word "manchild"? I'll give you three guesses and the first two don't count.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:16 PM
30

Wow this right here articulated something I'd been struggling with! This is exactly it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:55 PM
16

My mom did this too with little boys are her home based daycare back in the day! Even if they kept peeing everywhere at home they got it right at my mom's because she'd make them clean it 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:24 PM
30

Caught this too. Looks like we got an impersonator on our hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:15 PM
14

Of course not because the desires of men always come before the safety of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:59 PM
41

This drives me CRAZY!! I'm to the point now where if I can't get someone to admit they have the same expectations of my brother I make a point of making them notice the disparity. People seriously do not even realize how much more they expect of women and the ones that do already know, don't care, and are doing it on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:55 PM
76

👆 Same here. People get straight up angry when I tell them I'm not planning to. Told my therapist it just seems like reeking entitlement (from everyone: men, other women, and children) from everyone implying women are tools or commodities for public consumption (mental, physical, emotional labour etc).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:01 PM
21

Yeah literally if you ask the man out you're hiring your own boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:59 PM
2

"Doesn't matter had sexxxxxx!!!" 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:35 PM
57

Men watching this happen(/ACTUALLY DOING THIS TO WOMEN): .... god I wish that were me????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:40 PM
51

likely his victim attitude and only being 5’8” which is obvious by him listing his height as a range About as subtle as a fire truck 🚒🚨🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:39 PM
35

I also love GTFO by Mariah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:42 AM
20

I've had exclusively female roommates since I was 18. It's 100% the way to go. I am so sad watching all my pickme former friends go through relationships and I'm like why do you want to be living with someone you might break up with? Why do you want to potentially lose both your relationship and your apartment? Why do you want to live with a slob who MOOCHES off of YOU and still expects sex?? Not even a contest. I'd rather live with a barn animal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:27 PM
11

🔔🔔🔔🔔📣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:28 PM
31

I caught this too. Men only covet 2 things (women. money. and this guy makes 70k.) I'm so happy to see nothing but queens here 👑.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:46 PM
50

Your comments are always gold! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:41 PM
9

I agree. I don't manipulate. I just speak with firmly with finesse 💅 Example: "yall should have spoken to a lawyer" (negative, inflammatory) becomes "everyone involved should have spoken to the appropriate people and know what their obligations are." (Informative, neutral. No room for argument.) See? Don't spoonfeed them the info, don't be the explicit messenger for bad news. Say the bare minimum and don't back down. Period. Other party metaphorically sticks foot in their mouth or is just shook …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:30 PM
7

I've long suspected this and truly believe it's highly likely. Dudes want a fuck trophy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:12 PM
7

hes a 26 yo man who has a 16 yo old boy's idea of what a relationship should be: mcdonalds take out, movie at home, and she buys me video games. This kind of relationship wasn't even acceptable in college when she met him THIS RIGHT HERE. 👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:04 PM
4

Exactly! 😊 It would make no sense to choose alcohol or worse combine both and put myself through the physical consequences. It's a choice you have to make and stick to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:55 PM
77

Shoot-the-messenger syndrome. Us being ourselves sends a message that they aren't shit so the deliverer of the message must be eliminated 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:10 PM
11

This isn't advice and I'm not necessarily proud of this but when I was a bored teen and used to lurk/troll people on omegle (prob did this <20 times total in my life) but whenever (it was always men) got creepy with the "ASL" question I always pretended to be a senior citizen who could barely use the computer. Watched people nope out of convos left and right because for men, until you confirm you are somebody they absolutely do not want, they will want you. Tbfh I honestly don't know how I didn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:18 PM
4

This is it right here. We don't want it all. We're just not accepting shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:09 PM
9

Turnabout is fair play! 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:07 PM
16

When you have to choose between meds you need for your health and alcohol, alcohol goes. It's called discipline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:51 PM
10

pimply-faced cashier Bit of an unfair drive by there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:48 PM
44

If it wouldn't be giving money to reddit this comment would be GOLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:46 PM
3

I'd dm him the meme then block him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:11 PM
1

Alexa play josslyn by olivia o'brien 🎵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:48 PM
13

"So, it's like that, is it?" This statement is a relationship nuke for me. I don't even have a response for it I just Irish goodbye that shit. They know exactly what they're doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:13 PM
10

They always go with the "I never loved you" it's such an obvious cope lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:43 PM
17

This is the entire reason I'm childfree. I'm struggling to provide for myself as a wage slave in a capitalist system and with very little the average worker is able to do about it, why the hell would I provide a predatory capitalist system with more of the blood it needs to run? Especially since having kids traps many single mothers in poverty once the men inevitably leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:42 PM
30

From a fellow "bossy" woman I am cackling holy shit. Just when I thought men's egos could not get any more fragile. As soon as I read this my first thought was "I'm surprised this hasn't already happened to me in some capacity". Guess he didn't like you "telling him what to do with his body". /s 🙄🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:23 PM
8

Lmao, men so pathetic they actually think it's the higher ground to insult women for NOT being addicted to video games. "Haha you suck you're just playing for attention!" "No I just don't have literally thousands of hours put into multiple separate games, Jeremy." Like even if your bf is legitimate to the point of professional esports player, that makes them shitting on a girl for not being good or playing for attention or whatever even worse because they literally know it took a workman like ef…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:03 PM
5

Wow I wish I could say I'm surprised by this but unfortunately I see shit like this all the time and for some... weird... reason, it always seems to be women who either can't get an audience, can't change someone's mind, can't be right over the prof and also for some... weird... reason... these are also usually male profs so the only thing I guess I'm actually surprised about is that a woman treated another woman in academia this way... that sucks for you :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:48 PM
2

I can make it its own post if there's interest! 😊 and elaborate on some further nuances
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 11:42 PM
3

Every time I see a nest reference I shudder. Pretty sure I just repress that memory again immediately every time it comes up 🤣 I'm still not entirely convinced the nest is even real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:56 PM
5

David Lee Huber, 55, shot dead Special Agent Daniel Alfin, 36, and Special Agent Laura Schwartzenberger, 43, while they were trying to execute a federal search warrant on his apartment in Sunrise, just outside Fort Lauderdale, early Tuesday. The FBI confirmed Wednesday Huber, an IT expert and divorcee who lived alone, was the target of the federal search warrant in the child pornography case that had led the agents to carry out the deadly raid. Huber, who was armed with an assault-style rifle, l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:43 PM
16

Omg I remember one day in high school getting picked up instead of taking the bus so I sat outside by the exit from the student parking lot and I shit you not, every single guy pulled out of that parking lot like he was fleeing police, and the girls were crawling out onto the road so slowly (after looking both ways 6 times) they were practically cutting off the people behind them. And people wonder why men pay higher car insurance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:16 PM
2

Woomp there it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:11 PM
11

we want to fuck animals that walk on two legs and will talk to me Yes, you want to fuck animals and you need therapy Or the reason they want to fuck animals is because the animal traits are a dogwhistle for a lack of autonomy for the subject and it's the power and control they get off on :/ It's like spin the wheel of depraved excuses any you land on will be correct likely 🤷‍♀️ (Plus total aside, I feel like almost no men seek therapy because they absolutely 100% know what their problems are, ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:09 PM
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Tiny addendum but Canadian lottery wins aren't taxed. They're considered windfalls :) Your comment is still totally accurate he just doesn't have the excuse of losing half his winnings to taxes rofl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 11:28 AM
8

I came here to write this exact comment and am pleased someone beat me to it. 👑 Nothing but straight facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 11:25 AM
32

Canadian queens - Indigo is currently sold out and unable to find any local bookstores I could only find it on Amazon. Thank you for posting. Like the other commenter I'd bookmarked it and forgot to go back and buy it when it came out in English lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 11:21 AM
55

Womp womp! 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:30 AM
51

this is my new favorite word 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:49 PM
4

I'm going to rec an Olivia O'Brien song again - Josslyn! It's about talking to the cheating partner instead of the girl and she has been in interviews herself saying she doesn't understand the anger toward the fictional "Josslyn" when the song is even directed at the cheating partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 12:35 AM
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