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(venting is fine in my opinion, I don't know why people would come to the conclusion it is unhealthy) Because acting on a feeling reinforces it. You get more anger, not less. Do you actually know anything about what the red pill teaches or just make it up from your own fantasy world?? I know a lot of Red Pill websites that vent or otherwise basically just express a lot of hate. Alpha Game Plan, Return of Kings and so on. Every time I go on aggregators like Viva La Manosphere there are a few exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 02:24 PM
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The question is, why be angry? It does not make you any better than SJWs and really that should get you thinking. I was never in my life angry at others or society. I always took all my problems as my faults and my inadequateness. Society must be OK since it is obviously working for others, it is me who is not OK. I was always like that. And venting is not healthy: http://www.nytimes.com/1983/03/08/science/venting-anger-may-do-more-harm-than-good.html Both genders should stop it really. It is so…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 02:04 PM
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Goth girls. http://vampirefreaks.com/gothicresults.php?sex=female&sortby=monthly_ratingpoints&only_pics=0 Slightly chubby combined with good skin. Not folds or bulging bellies just... be soft. Have some padding on the calf muscles so that they are soft to the touch etc. a bit of subcutaneous fat combined with good skin gives a "creamy" feeling to the e.g. stomach of a woman and I love that. Underwear and suchlike. Naked is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 02:00 PM
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Nope, for example this site: http://www.cassiopaea.com/cassiopaea/psychopath_2.htm describes 4 differnent kinds of psychopaths and the charismatic types are only 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 01:55 PM
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They lose interest in sex They become attracted to someone else Not necessarily. They often just put pleasure, sex, enjoyment lower on the priority list and focus on other aspects of life, work, childcare etc. To become attracted to someone else has certain prerequisites. Have a social life, go out, feel confident in her looks etc. etc. After a certain age it gets harder. I know a lot of women graying into a not pleasurable marriage, where they no longer have the libido and energy to feel attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 01:51 PM
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I would say for the majority assertiveness will work. Assertivess is that thing between the extremes of being dominant and being submissive. However I am starting to have a suspicion that it something that some people "get" and some people don't and it cannot really be argued much. I have this hypothesis that for some people, and I think that where you guys come from, in every human interaction you are either dominant or submissive. Even with friends, even when being relaxed and drinking beer an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 01:37 PM
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Psychopathy does not automatically cause charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 01:15 PM
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The core issue is that very few people are opposed to the self-improvement aspects of RP and most of us are generally opposed to the other baggage that comes with it, which is, largely, being obnoxious online, example: http://alphagameplan.blogspot.com/2013/02/observing-gamma-in-wild.html The weird question is, how are these two things related, as in, why cannot a man self-improve and besides simply politely ignore fat women, promiscuous women, gamma men, and anyone else he is not interested in?…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 01:15 PM
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The judgement calls are merely predictions of where the market will clear, but that is what ultimately matters...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 08:53 AM
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But in that very liberal town, how comes the culture did not overlap with TV, cinema pop culture? Or how is it possible that that kids did not think like "I will not listen to boring old neighbors and parents, I will imitate the awesome heroes I see in the movies?" How comes average people's opinion was a more important source of info than the exceptional people in the media?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 08:52 AM
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What always surprises me that in articles and online discussions there are only 2 setups, either baby in the parental bedroom, or alone in their room. Almost nobody does what we did, which was my wife moving to sleep in the child room, because my snoring up the baby and she wailing me up is a mutually reinforcing negative spiral which is better to avoid. Truth be told this also has disadvantages - I think not sleeping together, not sleeping in each others pheromons contributes to the lack of sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 08:26 AM
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Besides the snark, this is actually a good beginning of a theory here! Hypothesis: people subconsciously ignore mainstream and widespread ideas if they are propounded by people who are different from them, to whom they cannot really relate to. (Sub-hypothesis: this must be more pronounced in America than here in Europe, because over here every nation has a "typical character" almost everybody can relate to, while America is incredibly diverse and I am not talking about ethnicity or race here, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 03:37 PM
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I spent my entire life in cargo shorts and band t shirts, and BAM suddenly approaching girls who didn't give a shit about my band (the vast majority) got a lot easier. Seriously. 80% of you doesn't need a Red Pill, you need some basic fucking common sense. Now please explain how a vast conspiracy of feminists and white knights kept lying to you and hiding the The Forbidden Secret that dressing like every attractive guy in every popular movie or TV series might be something to try. Sorry for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 02:41 PM
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Yes, but my point is precisely that driving a Lambo takes a personality type, not just a paycheck. Extroverted, courageous, and not afraid of the future (not feeling the need to save up for an uncertain future). And even then, imagine Mr. Euphoric Of My Own Intelligence getting out of the Lambo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 01:40 PM
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Role models. When you don't have one, that means having a bad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 01:10 PM
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And honestly if you're making $100k you will have no problem getting girls no matter what you look like. The what? I think you do make the common mistake of assuming people who have money can use it is sexy ways like wearing designer clothes and looking cool at parties. This is really silly. Most wealthy guys (because wealthy parents tend to be overprotective) are very timid guys who look like nothing special and have all their money in their music collection and all that. In fact the guys who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 01:09 PM
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you can do 20 mins a day if you're really that busy This is curious. When I did it (I hate the term lifting, my curls and benches did not make me a power lifter, so let's say I was doing gym weight training stuff), it usually took the whole evening after work, because get there, change, warm up, do it, stretch, shower, change, go home. Part of the reason for stopping was this huge overhead, 1-2 hours wasted going there and back, changing to and back and showering. Currently I go to boxing instea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 01:04 PM
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Frankly if the non-asinine part of RP is about working out and practicing "social skills" in bars, this is something a lot of college students do anyway, so for this reason alone there is no reason to not go to college. It is not exactly a 7/24 job and college has a lot to do with true self-improvement. The decision should be largely financial or career. Reading books is something you can also do in the public library. Does your career require a degree, or require knowledge you cannot get in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 12:57 PM
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Throne ROTFL. More like do whatever makes it likely you survive without poverty, alcoholism or drug addiction. I know when people are 17 they think they will MAKE IT, but looking at it from my angle at 37 I would saying simply NOT FUCKING UP is a great achievement as such, so many men I know are already broken at this age one way or another (usually substance abuse).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 12:57 PM
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Theodore Dalrymple have put this clearly on the lowest class of British society if this helps. Under the blue-collar working class. Welfare class. He tells a lot of stories in Life At The Bottom - The Worldview That Makes The Underclass. He is a conservative, so take it with a grain of salt! But generally speaking he has about 20-30 years of experience of being a prison psychiatrist in Birmingham and while I disagree with his ideology, I think as a mental health doctor is he is fundamentally hon…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 12:45 PM
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What I find confusing here is the following. I am trying to find out what the background of RP/PP folks may be, how are their life experiences so different from mine and From this example and many others, this sounds like a lower-class background. I mean from middle and upper your family would be probably terribly ashamed if any family member landed in jail. Tattoos got more accepted in upper and miiddle circles but in moderation and mostly "ironic" ones (it seems everybody is a bit of a hipster…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 12:39 PM
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It is a rarity that you see a guy end up in a LTR with a woman who is higher SMV than he is. The mistake is thinking you have an objective way of determining SMV, which is the same problem as attemting to find objective ways of determining the market value of goods. The issue is that there is no such thing. Economics is based on revealed preferences. Which means, all we can know is what people choose, not what they want. You may think a man with 10-15% BF has a higher SMV than a woman with 30-35…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 08:55 AM
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Why is there no campaign putting them in ads with Victoria's Secret models? Because those stuff are not read by men. You'd have to put it into something men read or watch. Come to think of it, it is kinda weird. Most stuff meant for men is 1) either not focused much on looks 2) or focuses on the best gym look. I think at the core most men are either not interested in looks or strongly interested and read muscle mags. There is missing that middle ground that exists for women, looks-oriented media…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 08:48 AM
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But, obviously, the ad does not convince the "alphas" that they should like thicker women, it convinces thicker women that they will be liked by "alphas". Do you think the goal of feminism is to fuck women over by generating unrealistic expectations that in general won't be fulfilled? That would be like a mega stupid strategy. I mean, basically, telling rounder women to date out of their leauge is somehow a maximized sexual strategy for them? It's easy to see that something is fishy in this mode…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 03:48 PM
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If something can be adequately explained by the profit motive or advertising psychology, selling dreams, that kind of stuff, I don't think calling it Female Imperative is accurate. Ultimately what Sports Illustrated cares about is money, not furthering a feminist plan. The idea of this kind of advertising psychology is quite old. Huxley in 1958 in the Brave New World Revisited explained how advertisements sell skin moisturizing cream, but instead of focusing on what it does, they sell the fantas…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 03:09 PM
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That's true... Men's magazines are like "A handy guide on how to choose the perfect wristwatch (of the price category you will never afford)". Disguised as advice, but actually fantasy. If I was an editor I would at least make it honest and write guides on how to choose the perfect private jet or mercenary company. If it is fantasy, why not...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 12:41 PM
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Being under anyone's heel is not necessary, inteliigent peopel can have a mutually respectful relationship. But yes, the fun years tend to end, the issue is that at some age you just feel too old for fun. At that point, either you have a family and thus something to live for, or it will be very bad. When you no longer want to dance, go out etc. and just find yourself going home from work and turning on the TV or computer it can be very depressive. Wise people find the first whiff of this and qui…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 05:16 PM
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Are you sure? I was under the impression that we, timid guys, tend to be introverts and afraid of people, and thus not talk at all. Talking a lot sounds like social, extroverted, getting along with people. I just send e-mails to people working accross the desk because I don't like opening my mouth or especially looking in their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 05:11 PM
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Let's just saying judging people is your hobby or passion and just found another avenue to exercise it. You don't really like uncertainty much, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 05:08 PM
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I actually go to trainings and train, yes. Sandbag, pads, light sparring, all the jazz, I was not allowed full force sparring yet. I want to try it once but probably not make it a habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 02:44 PM
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Weight class? I did not imply anyone is planning to compete. I feel quite weirded out now. People who do sports to actually compete in them, even if on an amateur level, are a rare elite. Normal folks just do it for fun and fitness. I am always weirded out when these kinds of exceptional elite stuff are taken for granted...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 02:28 PM
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Lately, it is getting bored of it. Why does it matter so much? Treat people like individuals, not statistical aggregates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 02:17 PM
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Most people don't really try to go beyond their immediate social circle I would say the opposite: the more timid you are, the more convenient internet dating looks like. For me it was really a godsend. None of those awkward opening lines anymore, mutual interest was ascertained BEFORE meeting in person. And on the internet, the intelligent win over the brave. For example, those intelligent enough to go to a professional photographer :) Although I liked double-blind, mutual no photos stuff better…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 02:13 PM
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It will raise the serum testosterone. The point here is that it may not matter much because prenatal seems to be more important. Consider this. You can see T like a drug. As long as in your bloodstream, having effect. Or you can see T like kids taking calcium supplements: it goes in the bones and stays there and after that how much is in the blood does not matter. So prenatal T may change your brain structure, and that is what makes you manly, not the "drug" type effect. Which is more likely to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 02:00 PM
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BTW why exactly on lifting and not on sports in general. If I had to choose between lean, flexible, fast, and not very muscular, or muscular but basically just stand there like a rock, I would choose the former. Well, I did, as I box, not lift. Going to a boxing gym is really eye opening! There are these thin guys with stick-like calves who don't fill out their clothes and you see them punch like a lightnighg, fast, precise, and it sounds like thunder on the sandbag. I think this is real fitness…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 01:56 PM
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I agree that "just try harder" arguments are universally bad because they depend on the Fundamental Attribution Error. I think a better answer many men being OK with their exes getting custody because they have more free time that way. Being a single-dad sounds quite appalling to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 01:49 PM
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I think if you are asshole, you will attract assholes as partners to begin with. A man who sex-objectifies women easily attracts women who wallet-objectify men, IMHO. I think "ethical mismatch" is the biggest boner killer ever! We had a saleswoman at my first job who was a textbook schemer, the kind of person who would try to claim personal credit for group success or try to rat in coworkers at the boss. She looked fairly good, but I felt so horrified my libido was minus infinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 01:46 PM
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This is because most men are told not to bother fighting for custody because they will probably lose. However, when there is some good reason they have a chance to win (mother is a drug addict, etc), THEN they fight for custody and have a good chance of winning. I know about shit about American law, but generally speaking it does not sound like to me that the more competition oriented gender would not bother competing for their own children just because the chance is not good. This is not really…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 01:37 PM
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Less Wrong survey on digit ratio: http://lesswrong.com/lw/lhg/2014_survey_results/ "Holy #@!$ the feminism thing ACTUALLY HELD UP. There is a 0.144 correlation between right-handed digit ratio and feminism, p < 0.01. And an 0.112 correlation between left-handed digit ratio and feminism, p < 0.05. "The only other political position that correlates with digit ratio is immigration." "No digit correlation with abortion, taxes, minimum wage, social justice, human biodiversity, basic income, or great …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 01:22 PM
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Many times I have read this idea that higher T women are more promiscuous, I think the scientific evidence is fairly strong. However it seems it entirely redefines what "slutty" means. Because when you go to a club, the girls with the most revealing clothing and most make-up and thus seeming the "easiest" are not actually the high T girls, they don't have "manjaws", don't behave "butch", none of that. This suggests that they just look easy but are not actually easy. Example Notice the tiny jaw. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 01:13 PM
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Upboat for objective science. Some observations: I long suspected that the kind of serum testosterone levels measured by blood tests (i.e. current, not prenatal) do not do much, and improving them through stuff like lifting will not fundamentally change your behavior. Obviously I am not saying it is entirely useless (I remember how weight training between 17 and 19 made me so much more confident, even though back around 1993 we were not much into heavy barbell stuff, it was just not popular yet)…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 01:05 PM
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This is related, the problem of guys like me were that we weren't sexual enough, pre-RP types tend to be too sexual and in the wrong way (without emotions).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 11:16 AM
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But the whole point is that a lot of insulting going on. You can expect everyone to be neutral and disinterested about it. Or just polite. But there is this habit on the Internet to drag down others just to feel better about oneself. I don'T think this is a seduction strategy, yet a very common RP thing. Going about insulting everybody right and left, fat slut women, gamma rabbit men, that kind of stuff, it comes accross as "at least I don't feel myself to be such a loser compared to them".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 08:46 AM
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I am just thinking there cannot be more than 1-2 people out of 100 whose hobby is lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 05:26 AM
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Please try to contribute something at least remotely meaningful. What and huh don't add much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 05:25 AM
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The extent you don't get it is amazing. I feel like talking to aliens... of course most people don't find obese people attractive, but how does shaming follow from it? Why would anyone express their lack of interest in an offensive, insulting, shaming way? Any basic decency would require to treat unattractive people somewhere in between indifference to friendliness. Shaming is a primitive, vulgar reaction, usually a way to prop up fragile egos, it is largely about "at least someone is worse than…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 05:23 AM
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Agreed and also: the average difference between individuals is bigger than the average difference between gender averages. People who grok graphs could visualize this nicely. Example: the top power lifter man is stronger than the top power lifter woman. The top power lifter woman is still stronger than 99% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 07:40 PM
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Or maybe it really doesn't. Do you think stuff like being judgemental online got anyone laid IRL? That is 80% of the morally objectionable stuff. IRL did any kind of slut-shaming or fat-shaming got anyone laid? Or is it more like "alphas" simply ignoring "fat sluts" instead of loud public shaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 07:27 PM
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Not hating, that would not be the best term, but despising, disrespecting, I would say, yes. How is basically "give me that part of you any animal has, and keep that part of you that is uniquely human" anything but disrespectful?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 05:08 PM
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No, the sexist thing is to say that most/all men would want to express their sexuality in the brute way. Mostly we are better than that! We are more civilized, more intelligent. Better raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 05:07 PM
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Roughly how if a woman would only be interested in a man for his wallet would be misandrist. The person is in the "soul" so to speak, not in the body or wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 05:04 PM
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You would need to withdrawl your affection, retreat emotionally, don't help out extra with housework or anything like that, and generally ignore her. It would land me a divorce in 2 months and that would be the better option, because the likely option would be she suiciding and I living with a lifetime of guilt. Because it is Game. You Game people who are in a playful mood. Game originates in pick-up bars where everybody is having fun an a hell of a good time. You don't Game people who are going…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 05:03 PM
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Is it some kind of a defensive reaction? "Different than me, hence must be trolling or else I had to admit people are not uniform?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 04:44 PM
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I am not shy of work when it presents itself and is meaningful. But I don't really get that much stuff thrown on me at the job and at any rate it is sucker thing to volunteer for more when you know it will not get you anything, just make someone richer. Maybe one day I should try to work for a big business where there are promotions and stuff, but then again I think it would be more office politics than performance. Partially it is fucked up demographics at 37 I have more older people than young…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 04:43 PM
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Because dumbness equals a good personality? Fatassitude tends to be a sign of personality problems too. At any rate, I think serious obesity is almost always a serious disqualifying factor, the matter of looks is rather within the normal range, some women are kinda plainer, some try hard to look stunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 04:36 PM
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Your problem how you feel. I am just trying to convey my own life experience. What I am trying to convey that nuts need to be emptied regularly or else one feels restless. But this is entirely different from the experience of sex as such, so it may as well just be wanking off. The experience itself is highly social one, just like in social drinking the alcohol pleasure is just a tool to open up a connection, the body pleasure in sex is just a tool to open up a connection in the soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 04:18 PM
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Wtf is this? Simply my experience. TIL anyone that likes sex w/o romance is a misogynist What else could it be? Interested in the body, not the soul, what else is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 04:16 PM
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What? What would it take being a woman to like that? Many guys like that including me. I think you are confusing the idea of being a man with some kind of primitive testosterone-laden brute who is probably dangerous. It is just being civilized and not very animalistic, more receptive to moods, that is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 04:14 PM
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Boring unmotivated people do that. I guess you could say we are like that. We are Euros, not living in cowboy capitalism. This is the normal reaction to social democracy, invest the minimum in your work, not stick out your neck, and focus on your life, not work. Wifey does not even have a negotiated salary, but a collective contract. So what? Since everybody is like that, or almost so, it makes no difference. Work is a chore anyway, most people would rather not work if they could afford to. You'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 04:09 PM
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If you really think your wife is spending 16 hours a day non stop taking care of a baby, you're mistaken. Your child probably sleeps 12-16 hours a day, what is she doing then? Cleaning the house and cooking? That takes an hour or two. Please don't take me for such an idiot that you can tell me better what is happening around me! I see the weekends and the days I do home office. Baby daytime sleep is about 2x20 min. Each induced by 2 hours of rocking. The rest of the time is the constant need for…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 04:04 PM
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Yeah, YOU tell me how much OUR child sleeps?! About 2x20 min during the day. During the night, 1 hour, 2 hour, 2 hour, 4 hour, these intervals. The last 2 typically only on her chest or shoulder so she gets no sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 03:58 PM
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You are not illiterate and can read flairs (or click on the username for some vertical redditing) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 03:52 PM
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No this is a decent country with multiple years of maternal leave mandated. I think you are just assuming the worst of women. I don't assume anything, I see the situation first hand. It is possible to work with 4-5-6 years old kids. It is also possible to work with younger ones as long as they are also in kindergarten or you have babysitter or granny. But being the lone court entertainer of a 1 year old tyrant at home is the hardest job possible, because the shift is practically 7/24 hours, with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 03:51 PM
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Entirely unrelated. It is roughly like drinking water when you are thirsty. Loveless sex is social beer drinking with people you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 03:49 PM
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AKA yours. She is at home all day with one child, you provide absolutely no exicitment or sitmulation sexually or otherwise. I don't get it... boredom is when you have no tasks, no duties. Entertainment is needed when people are done with duties, then rest, and then bored. Push entertainment on people who are still having duties left or trying to rest them out and they will hate it. If a male buddy of yours had a horrible 65 hour workweek, do you invite him to bar? Or do you understand rest come…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 03:46 PM
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Finances, breadwinning, where you go, what you do, etc. I don't understand. What is to be led here? People do whatever is in their school degree. They work 40 hours. Earn a salary. That is it. What is to be done there? Or in the spending part? That is more of a mutual compatibility... for example we are both fearful types and it was for both of us a matter of course that no debt, no mortgage ever (there is no personal bankruptcy here, so very dangerous) even if we must rent forever. 've had sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 03:41 PM
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You see her as a sexual object, An average clothed women on the street does not given me an erection. If she puts on lingerie, now we are talking. That is why all these special erotic lingerie shops exist. They sell it to women who want to kindle arousal in their man because it jus does not work automatically. I guess I was never a high testosterone type. But interestingly, when I had bouts of more, like when I was acing a lot of stuff and sports went well and it pushed me, I became more... soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 03:38 PM
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No, I am saying not wanting to fuck women you have no romantic connection with. What would be even the point? That would be as boring as renting prostitutes. What is the point of sex without love, it is just in and out into a warm body, more tiresome than enjoyable. It is love - the feeling of pleasing someone you care for - that makes the whole thing enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 03:09 PM
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Sorry dude, but your life is a TRP horror story, all you're missing is the divorce, which, I've got to be honest with you, honestly doesn't sound that far off. I don't understand why do you say that. Your divorce stories are all about bored, unentertained wives who seek alpha dick. So basically an "I want more fun" scenario. This sounds like an entirely different story. Have you ever heard a wife who was so exhausted that she had no time to go to a hairdresser for 3 months divorce? It is not unh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 03:08 PM
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What are you so tired doing? Don't you realize that a happy sex life is a cornerstone to a successful relationship? What are you doing that is so much more important than your relationship? What are you doing that justifies putting yourself in a sad sexless marriage? Life. Even before the baby there were just so many chores. It took us a year to furnish our apartment. It seems really difficult to just deal with the daily stuff our parents did excellently. My day: 0630 get up, prepare 0830 go to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 03:02 PM
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You're making it clear that you don't even know what that "alpha stuff" is. It's not being bossy, in fact it's the opposite. A good leader is not a bossy one, it's one that commands respect and that people want to follow. I actually get it, but the point is, you can be a leader at work or at sports. But at home it is about stuff mostly women are interested in. Domestic stuff. Diapers and cooking pots. Being a leader in these domestics is hardly a good idea. You help her, or you say OK part of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 02:56 PM
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Where did I say anything about someone misleading you? Sorry, but this is the most typical TRP claim that mainstream dating advice misled them. Right, it is not about you personally, but I am not debating with just you, I am criticizing a whole subculture where it is widespread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 02:51 PM
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The problematic part was not aggressive control but other aspects like being too interested in the pussy and not too interested in the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 02:49 PM
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