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This is my first time setting monthly self improvement goals. I have three goals for the month of July: exercise three times a week meditate daily read daily
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/16 09:22 PM
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I'm curious how you found that helpful. I understand that chemistry is something that can only be ascertained in person. However, meeting up ASAP seems to be somewhat counter to what the other ladies have suggested. How do you vet someone if you meet up soon?
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/16 06:46 PM
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Thanks for sharing your story. That's lovely to hear!
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/16 11:04 AM
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You're spot on! I think my worrying makes it harder for me to make decisions that are in line with what I deep down feel is best for me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/16 07:31 PM
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Thank you so much for your input. I find it really helpful!
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/16 07:07 PM
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It's in written messages usually. Your reply is a brilliant way to respond. Thank you! I am aware that I need to work on voicing my boundaries. I think what holds me back, generally, is the fear of being perceived as difficult, arrogant etc when I do so.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/16 07:06 PM
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Thank you for the link. I will check it out. Yes, that is what I mean. Especially when it comes to delaying, so in a situation where I might think there's something there but am not entirely comfortable with meeting up yet. I think, I might be afraid that if I asked to delay, they might end up not being interested any longer.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/16 06:33 PM
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Thank you so much for your reply. It has given me some very valuable food for thought. I haven't really paid any attention to pacing and I could definitely work on the vetting process before agreeing to go on a date. I think I sometimes let myself be talked into meeting someone regardless of whether I think there are indicators of compatibility or not.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/16 06:22 PM
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I'd be interested as well. :) And having accountability buddies would be great.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/16 05:08 PM
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Thanks so much for sharing your list. Do you use an online class for yin yoga? If so, would you mind sharing?
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/16 05:04 PM
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This is a great blog post on implementing RPW principles in online dating. Also, the posts on The Surrendered Single on here are great!
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 05:15 PM
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I joined last week. I'm single at the moment. I have put some of the RPW advice into action in my online dating endeavours and so far I've attracted a lot more eligible men than before. I have put more thought into my appearance. Looking at fashion advice, skincare etc. I've also made some improvements regarding healthier eating and better homemaking. Still struggling with keeping the apartment clean as motivation is low when I come in from work but I tell myself that it's about progress, not pe…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 07:49 PM
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Thank you so much for sharing this. Keeping my apartment clean and tidy is one of the things I struggle with the most. How do people keep themselves motivated? Most days, when I'm done with work, the last thing I want to do is do even more work at home.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 03:54 PM
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