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It doesn’t matter what you are imagining yourself, I do not concede. Reality is reality, you’re not getting Chad treatment. I win, you lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:57 PM
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Again, doesn‘t matter how much you deny reality, what you received wasn‘t princess treatment. You‘ve lost even if you don‘t want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:18 PM
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Sorry your personal feelings don‘t matter as much as objective truth, even if you‘re in denial about reality. You lose, I win.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:19 PM
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It doesn‘t matter how many times you repeat that, you know it‘s objective and true. Your personal feelings do not outweigh that. You lose, I win. We can play this game all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:14 PM
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It is objective and you know that, that‘s why you haven‘t been able to disprove it. I win by cumming deep inside tight 9/10 women Still no chad treatment, you lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:57 PM
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Nope, that‘s still not how that works. It doesn‘t matter how many times you repeat that, it‘s not princess treatment You lose, I win. Where‘s your scientific study?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:42 PM
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It doesn’t matter how many times you repeat that, it’s not princess treatment. She would never do it out of her own free will. You don’t get Chad treatment, you lose, princess treatment is far more than an orgasm. Anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:49 PM
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Nope, you simply refuse to understand what princess treatment is. Princess treatment is far more than just an orgasm, you don’t get the same satisfaction as Chad. You lose, I win.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:35 PM
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You don’t get princess treatment, you have to pay for it and what you are getting is not the whole package either. I win, you lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:26 PM
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Nope, you know exactly that “Chad” gets princess treatment without payment, I win the debate. Your personal feelings are irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:16 PM
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What matters is how I feel at the end of the day That is what you believe, objectively you are not getting chad treatment. No, I do not concede, I win the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:59 PM
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I tale your lack of reply as conceding the debate You can imagine whatever you want, I just found your reply pretty sad. You “feel” like chad, but you obviously aren’t. If it was authentic desire she would go further and you wouldn’t have had to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:13 PM
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how does she benefit from pity sex if she‘s not attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:13 AM
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Nope that’s not why those empires fell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:30 PM
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yeah they didn’t fall because of sexual liberation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:06 PM
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oh yeah the west was so much less morally corrupt before sexual liberation, i forgot. i mean just look at the transatlantic slave trade, so much morality there, they were such good christians.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:05 PM
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oh yeah, which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:02 AM
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so many societies have fallen because of threesomes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:39 AM
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that the end result is obviously not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:30 PM
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good for you, but that’s not an answer to my question
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:24 PM
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and do you think she’s putting more effort into you or the guy that she actually desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:17 PM
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yeah, and yet it’s still obviously more than just sexual services. princess treatment is the full package, so what exactly is your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:12 PM
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for whatever reason you’ve come up with the idea that princess treatment is entirely separate from sex which has not been my argument at all, it’s just that princess treatment includes things outside of sex as well so again, a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:04 PM
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it is a strawman, you’re making up a whole new argument that wasn’t a part of my original statement. and i’m sorry to tell you that a lot of chads also enjoy the benefits of princess treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:58 PM
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strawman argument
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:50 PM
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yeah, you stated it’s inconsequential, that doesn’t mean that it actually is. the entire field of psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:44 PM
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OP was talking about princess treatment and not just sexual services though. No, you also have to judge people by their opinions or you will always end up with a wrong conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:32 PM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:19 PM
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you are pretty insecure about men getting chad exp from escorts i don’t think you understand the meaning of insecure, me stating the fact of authentic desire being different from the escort experience is simply a neutral statement you agreed married men form most of johns, that means its the inexp guys who think it’s humiliating to pay that conclusion is wrong. amongst johns many share that opinion despite the fact that they keep going back to it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:16 PM
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i’m not sure about that, do women in hunter gatherer societies with barely any access to the internet behave any differently? they will obviously care less about materialism since they don’t live in a capitalist society but appearance, muscularity, strength etc. matters a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:11 PM
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who is being insecure lmfaoooo you are probably cute enough to have same guy around you i’m in a relationship btw. where is your data? all you’re doing is denying that men with experience share those opinions too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:05 PM
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like i said, you will just continue to be in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:38 AM
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that paying for it feels humiliating & that they’d rather experience authentic desire
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:31 AM
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exactly, most johns are married guys with enough disposable income and yet many of them still hold those opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:27 AM
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you’re in denial about older men with life experience sharing the same opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:23 AM
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it’s not weird at all, it’s obvious that you’ll just be in denial about reality so let’s stop wasting our time here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:13 AM
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whatever you need to tell yourself lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:09 AM
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and yet many men also claim that paying escorts feels humiliating (and emasculating) because the women don’t want to fuck them without money being involved. that might be your personal opinion but a lot of men also want to feel desired, it’s actually being discussed a lot on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:02 AM
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of course i’m admitting that (some) women are capable of it. baseline requirements are a) he’s very sexually attractive to her b) she has a healthy to high libido herself. women with a lower libido than that will always rely more on responsive desire, they aren’t able to get easily aroused on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:00 AM
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the end result is obviously not the same, princess treatment is more than just sexual services and no, they don’t. addicts still won’t develop deep sexual desire for dealers if they aren’t attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:56 AM
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i didn’t realize that drug dealers get princess treatment you can pay women with money or drugs but that doesn’t mean that they sexually desire you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:48 AM
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unless you become chad you won’t get that though being “chad” is a requirement for that sort of behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:37 AM
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i mean the manosphere benefits from men becoming increasingly lonely … the vast majority of women want to be courted, given princess treatment etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:37 AM
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exaggerated maybe, irrational is the wrong term to use though. any woman should fear men that buy into misogynistic ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:14 PM
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that’s not an argument that disproves the dangers of radicalized individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:03 PM
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I don’t think the fear is just aimed at virgins, a boyfriend is way more likely to sexually assault you but an “incel” might be more likely to commit a terrorist attack
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:26 PM
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i have not observed that, more normal people than toxic ones are in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:19 PM
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yes it needs to end but people would call it antisemitic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:30 PM
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because of social media and the pandemic, gen z is getting more lonely in general
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:14 PM
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I know way too many cases of pedophile fathers to ever believe that 50/50 is the correct solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:37 AM
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I didn‘t claim otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:36 AM
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agreed, it‘s hypocritical. although in the western world it‘s really only north america where circumcision is normalized
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:41 AM
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I‘m actually from Germany btw, the first one is not being enforced because we‘re not in war time and the law itself is not new, the conscription law is old and based on the idea that women are too physically weak to serve. The UK is not a part of the EU, Brexit remember? Define misandrist laws in the baltics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:56 AM
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god i‘m so fascinated by the propaganda they‘re feeding you guys in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:47 AM
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so children should be endangered?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:32 AM
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i don‘t think that anyone actually believes that white women are the most progressive demographic lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:27 AM
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i would like to see studies for that last claim regarding abuse and hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:20 AM
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and it’s hypocritical to judge other people without accepting criticism yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:57 PM
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lol they have a right to judge other people but others are not allowed to form an opinion on their judgement? rules for thee but but not for me apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:07 AM
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lesbians don’t have the highest rates of DV, bisexual women are the most likely to be victims of intimate partner violence, the majority of the perpetrators being male. but ofc, women also assault people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 10:59 AM
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Define “high”. How high are the odds of sexual assault The numbers depend on gender and sexuality. 53.3% of heterosexual women, 79.3% of bisexual women, 59.9% of lesbian women have experienced contact sexual violence. For men it’s 29.3% of heterosexual men, 56.4% of bisexual men and 59.8% for gay men. For rape the national intimate partner and sexual violence survey shows that 26.1% of heterosexual women, 45.2% of bisexual women and 28.4% of lesbian women have been raped. For men it’s 3% of hete…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:34 AM
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comparing murder to sexual assault is stupid because sexual assault is not unlikely, the chances of it happening are high. i’m not concerned about “men not getting relationships”, i’m concerned about sexual assault rates and the real harm it causes. i could not care less about men giving up on women if it results in sexual assault rates decreasing. yes, if you cross someone else’s sexual boundaries in a way they don’t want you to that is sexual assault. that applies to both men and women. the as…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:16 AM
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“playful” pushing of boundaries can very quickly become sexual assault. that risk exists and people need to acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:14 PM
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lol no, if you’re willing to push sexual boundaries then there’s a high risk of causing harm, that is reality. that goes for both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 09:23 AM
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taboos turn into fetishes. aren’t interracial porn videos the most popular in the most racist regions in the US too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:00 PM
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you just typed out a whole lot of nonsense in response to someone who has been sexually assaulted and raped because of similar mindsets like yours. because my boundaries weren’t respected. rape culture isn’t a myth it’s real. this generation is lonely because of social media usage and the pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:35 PM
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did i speak about your relationship specifically? have your boundaries pushed is the sort of mindset that can quickly lead to trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:46 PM
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That‘s a very personal thing, people that sleep around generally don‘t feel many negative feelings afterwards, just the rush of hormones from sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:54 PM
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you can still make out after the orgasm or go for round 2+
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:45 PM
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and people wonder why sexual assault rates are so high
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:57 PM
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they don’t fantasize about paying, they fantasize about completely dominating someone else against their will
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:16 AM
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that’s a dangerous guy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:10 AM
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i’ve ended two relationships because of boundary pushing aka sexual assault. what exactly is your point here if you’re willing to push boundaries then you’re willing to cause a lot of harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:22 AM
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when someone says no or looks super uncomfortable you should know that it’s a boundary…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:15 AM
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of course rich women are part of the oppressor class.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:22 AM
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young men are being indoctrinated with this bullshit to increase racial tensions that is very kind of you, she has been doing better lately 🫂 hope you have a wonderful day!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:39 AM
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thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:12 AM
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that’s such a subjective topic, personally i love long sessions if there’s enough free time to spare of course. 15+ minute foreplay, 30+ minutes intercourse i think the ideal duration on average for women is somewhere between 10-20 minutes for intercourse, maybe longer for foreplay
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 11:16 PM
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depends on the context of the discussion i guess, personally foreplay is also sex to me but sometimes you’re strictly speaking about penetration etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 11:01 PM
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no he didn’t get laid he’s a baby, moe and punch are cute though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 10:58 PM
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It doesn’t matter how many times you repeat that, it’s not the same thing. And again, my personal preferences are not the sexual market place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:24 PM
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No I do not think that individuals with a higher sex drive have less value on the sexual market place And the sexual market place is also not the same thing as my personal dating preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:18 PM
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No it’s not implied. Because one animal has a higher sex drive, that doesn’t mean it’s value is less
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:15 PM
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That’s not how language or reading works. I get it, you’ve already made up your mind and don’t actually care about what my actual message. Me stating that men are less selective does not mean that I believe that men have less value than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:54 PM
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Nope, that is once again your false interpretation. I believe that women are more selective than men and that men have lower expectations of me while dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:36 PM
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Nope, your interpretation is still not what I stated. Did you ever stop to think if you would be attracted to the male equivalents of any of those women you like? No the question is simply stupid, why would I imagine dating the male version of a woman I like when I can date men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:58 PM
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That is not what I stated lol, that is your own interpretation. of course i try hard for men that i have a crush on as well because i like them, but it seems like their expectations are different the pressure is lower while dating men because men are less selective Your question is nonsensical
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:41 PM
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I would not date any man or woman that I didn’t find special in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:33 PM
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no i do not believe that “my presence as a woman is worthwhile enough” and queer dating also works differently than heterosexual dynamics. men are less selective, when i’m dating a woman i also feel the need to impress her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:30 PM
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no i think they are both entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:20 PM
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women are more boring than men on average, yes that’s your subjective opinion, which is why question your romantic attraction towards women as a bisexual i definitely do not share that sentiment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:15 PM
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you represent all men on this planet? you’re typing out that you find women super boring and then you get surprised when someone questions you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:13 PM
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honestly it doesn’t sound like you’re romantically interested in women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:09 PM
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does porn only show certain races having sex? i’m sure that porn reinforces certain racial views
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:02 PM
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the clit part is true, women usually don’t get as exhausted from orgasms as men/their refractory period is much shorter i mean our anatomy is different, men only produce so much sperm a day but that doesn’t apply to female orgasms lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:00 PM
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because it still feels pleasurable. i can’t cum from penetration either but it physically feels good. not everyone can cum from nipple stimulation and yet a lot of people still like it also why does the woman in this story surprise you lol? isn’t it common knowledge that (a lot of) women like to go for multiple rounds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 11:40 AM
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That is definitely not what I have observed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:20 AM
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not at all, but i do get scared if he doesn’t leave me alone edit: if it’s a man that’s 20 years older than me then i do get offended, that behavior is unacceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:16 AM
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dark romance is booming right now and that is definitely kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:11 AM
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i definitely think it conditions them even further, just like how a lot of men have developed a preference for “innie” vulvas while 200 years ago that was barely even relevant although the situation with big cocks is slightly different because female sexual selection has caused human penises to be significantly bigger than the genitals in other apes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:05 AM
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porn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:04 PM
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positive correlation doesn’t mean the two will always occur together my claim wasn’t that it always occurs together, studies show that people with high libido tend to have less restricted sociosexuality. libido itself can impact sociosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:07 PM
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nope, people can have individual opinions that don’t reflect society’s views.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:58 PM
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positive correlation doesn’t mean the two will always occur together yeah I don’t think you actually read what I was typing above
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:29 PM
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society considers a lot of things shameful that people individually don’t consider shameful, “shameful” is a subjective term
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:57 AM
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It doesn’t have anything to do with shame, it’s simply fact that private sexual information can be used against you at any time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:53 AM
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Studies have repeatedly shown that people with a higher libido tend to have less restricted sociosexuality, outliers do not change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:42 AM
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sure, that’s realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:24 AM
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& that is exactly why you don’t tell your girl friends about your sexual experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:37 AM
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And yet at the end of the day we‘re still animals, humans frequently overestimate their ability to reason. So much of our behavior is driven by instinct. which is why the “low promiscuity = “low libido” argument doesn’t make much sense That’s not quite what I said, i’m talking about likelihood here and that is supported by data.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:10 AM
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go seek out whomever you want, i just want people to have a realistic perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:05 AM
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I said they are linked, people with high libido tend to have less restricted sociosexuality ofc, human behavior is complex and individual. overall i‘d say that instinct is stronger than ideology though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:51 AM
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promiscuity doesn’t have to do with libido that is objectively incorrect, studies show over and over that people with higher libido tend to have less restricted sociosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:13 AM
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high sex drive and high sociosexuality are linked though she could be a virgin catholic woman with a high sex drive in a relationship but the likelihood of that is very low
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:04 AM
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Ofc, plenty of people do enjoy it, but the conversation was about women who have tried anal in the past and don‘t want to do it anymore I agree with your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:11 PM
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yeah, i think it‘s fucked up to expect someone to engage in a sexual act that they don‘t like
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:43 PM
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i always think it‘s weird to describe anal sex as part of being open minded, many people don‘t like it because it‘s straight up painful and not pleasurable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:03 AM
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but it doesn‘t stupid, that‘s absolutely fair
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:12 AM
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explain the high intimate partner violence rates for both bisexual men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:13 AM
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I think relationships are more complex than that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:21 PM
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Who wouldn’t be upset even if you can understand the other person’s view point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:17 PM
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what people consider dealbreakers are subjective, if he had lied about his body count it wouldn’t make me break up with him because i personally don’t consider body count important. in that hypothetical situation it would be a dealbreaker to that person’s framework
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:14 PM
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if he had hidden cosmetic surgery from me i’d genuinely just laugh about it if he had faked his interests in order to appeal to me i’d find it endearing trying to find a man who doesn’t care about a woman’s body count is like trying to find a unicorn, it’s genuinely a waste of time and effort
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:00 PM
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oh but it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:06 PM
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no that has to do with getting sexually assaulted as a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:03 PM
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sucks you’ll never experience that level of connection i honestly don’t care about that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:37 PM
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so you are willing to ignore a bad trait just because the guy is attractive yeah obviously, that’s what i just explained And? Aren’t women supposed to be okay with being single, because men are not up to their standards? Where did I make that argument? Other women make other choices, I primarily care about sexual chemistry and shared interests
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:18 AM
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because a) he’s physically attractive to me and we have shared interests b) the vast majority of men have hang ups about women with a higher n count
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:07 AM
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To get the man that I want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:04 AM
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Not at all, I did because it was fun
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:01 AM
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Sure, but I’ll be honest with you, you will never find out the truth anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:40 AM
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What’s the debate here? Yes I lie about it, I’m the only person that knows my body count lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:15 AM
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i’m here to explain why you’re wrong that would require a sufficient explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:18 PM
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in order to do that you would need actually good arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:16 PM
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that’s cope
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:12 PM
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Girth and length once again do not change the distance between the internal structure of the clitoris and the vaginal wall. That is a bold claim that you’re making right now, the current scientific view as of right now is simply that the internal clitoris and vaginal wall are too far apart for many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:24 AM
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No it’s more female anatomy related, no matter how big his dick is that won’t make your internal clitoris closer to your vaginal wall
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:03 AM
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women who can have vaginal orgasms care more about dick size sure, i think there was a study about this. it’s less relevant for those who can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:59 AM
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that’s true, a lot of straight women also have relatively low libido. many rarely masturbate on their own and i know that social shaming is contributing to this but it’s also libido related i’ve often had girl friends acting confused why i masturbate at all while i’m in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:57 AM
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modern heterosexual dating is set up in a way where you have the pursuer (man) and the pursued (woman) that’s not really a modern phenomenon, that was the case for most of human and hominin history men are generally more desperate than women because they’re afraid of being alone i’m sure that plays a role too, but the main reason is simply that men (on average) have a higher sex drive Most people talk way more about what a man brings to the table but not the same thing about women Yeah because f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:50 AM
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she always has weird opinions 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:26 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:09 PM
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sure, a lot still hate cum in their mouths though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:10 PM
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It’s definitely interesting. Typical male fetishes revolve more around domination though, I wouldn’t say that there aren’t noticeable trends there’s the inah-3 area of the hypothalamus which is one of the few sexually dimorphic brain regions, it’s significantly larger in males and associated with sexual behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:51 PM
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a lot of women admit to things like BDSM fetishes, spanking fetishes, breeding etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:44 PM
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science is by far the most effective and reliable method of truth seeking known to man there is absolutely nothing wrong about this sentence, ofc sometimes results get misinterpreted, methodology was ineffective etc. but it’s still better than anything else we have
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:15 PM
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do men have genuine desire for a woman if they do her laundry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:32 AM
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you’re making up your own definitions here. you want a high sex drive woman that sexually desires you as frequently as you desire her, that’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:51 PM
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attraction and sex drive are simply not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:35 PM
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lower libido than you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:18 PM
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says the fool before getting into an accident
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:07 PM
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no the billionaires would exploit you even further, you’d have even shittier healthcare etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:02 PM
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they won’t love you in that billionaire dystopia scenario either, you’d just get a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:43 PM
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what a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:34 PM
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regime change would be good but it’s gonna take years if not decades. he’s not much of a patient guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:26 PM
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so it doesn’t achieve much, she’s just gonna continue
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:24 PM
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the left is offering you basic rights and an affordable life but you love licking your master’s boots
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:23 PM
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the billionaire class loves docile slaves like you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:35 PM
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until that orange alzheimer’s patient does what he does best, which is bailing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:30 PM
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does your method actually achieve anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:28 PM
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i’m not backpedaling at all you just have a very vivid imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 10:19 AM
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can’t you just compare it to male pubes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:10 PM
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that is once again your own imagination, i already explained below that i thought OP’s suggestion would simply lead to more rape victims suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:48 PM
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No, that would be against my morals. Either stay loyal or break up, there’s no other option
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:46 PM
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He would probably be more jealous but he’s also mature enough to navigate his own jealousy. If I’d start acting suspicious he would of course get concerned
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:43 PM
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He has never asked me directly, he knows that I have a few celebrity crushes. I’ve never asked him directly either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:34 PM
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Sure, I still feel attraction. But in my opinion attraction is a fleeting feeling, it doesn’t compare to the desire and attraction that I feel for my boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:28 PM
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Of course they do. They are generally more accepting of gay men but can be very nasty towards lesbians and bisexual men & women. Yes I’m in a relationship now, I don’t struggle with loyalty. I would never betray him or any of my previous partners, that’s selfish and an asshole thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:08 PM
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I guess that would fall under the term sociosexuality. But yes, if i see a hot guy or woman ofc i fantasize about sleeping with them or asking them out. But there’s also always fear involved that’s stopping me, I’m afraid of sexual violence and a man could easily overpower me and I’m afraid of homophobia from women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:52 AM
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No, I’m cis female but bisexual. I think a lot of studies have shown that bisexual men and women have elevated libido in comparison to others What’s the point of asking these questions if you’re just not gonna believe someone who answers them? I’ve met men with barely existing libido, why is it so difficult for you to acknowledge that high libido women exist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:04 AM
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No, I get very easily turned on I answered all other questions with yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:49 AM
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Have you ever denied your partner sex cause you weren’t tired or weren’t in the mood? This question was kinda confusing but I answered no to it. When I see how much my partner desires me that turns me on too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:24 AM
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i’m high libido now what (not that i believe that this applies to all women)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:43 AM
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Since we both agree that it is sacrosanct you are still fighting an imaginary war.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:38 AM
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you’re fighting an imaginary war in these comments
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:20 AM
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I don’t care about your question replies to my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:21 PM
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medical professionals, biologists and psychologists disagree with you there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:52 PM
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like these comments are so funny, any other day they’d agree that female libido is generally lower
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:44 PM
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i’m not sure i’ve ever heard of a woman struggling with low libido because of gooning too much stereotypical female gooning would focus more on erotica novels and that usually makes them more horny overall
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:41 PM
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of course, that’s still not an answer to my question though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:52 PM
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oh how i wish that every single man had a higher sex drive than me, nothing is better than going at it for hours
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:12 PM
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yeah i think that sex workers are outliers and no, bonnie blue is doing it for money, not out of pure sexual desire. there are very high n-count women that only do it for the love of the game of though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:03 PM
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oh it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:02 PM
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I don’t think you take the topic of rape seriously at all. sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:38 PM
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I don’t think you take the topic of rape seriously at all. You’re the one who brought up rape first, I’m simply pointing out the fact that rape is notoriously difficult to prove & that rape victims will inevitably suffer under your rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:07 PM
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I don’t think you take the topic of rape seriously at all. You’re the one who brought up rape first, I’m simply pointing out the fact that rape is notoriously difficult to prove & that rape victims will inevitably suffer under your rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:05 PM
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with your rhetoric rape victims would end up suffering one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:01 PM
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I don’t share this black and white view of the world. I can be critical of something. I don’t want rape victims to suffer any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:53 AM
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let prosecution cross question you and pray to god the jury believes you so you don’t have an actual answer to that. the accused can also wave his 5th amendment rights and give a testimony. i don’t think that rape victims should be further punished with jail sentences or fines.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:47 AM
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the burden of proof is on you to prove that obviously, but how do you prove rape if there were no witnesses, physical injuries and there’s no video evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:37 AM
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i think DNA tests are a good practice, but in my opinion a fine already suffices though. so if a woman is raped, she needs to prove that she was raped how do you prove getting raped? the main reason why most victims don’t come forward is that rape is notoriously difficult to prove. if you don’t have any physical injuries and there are no witnesses or video evidence, how do you prove rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:30 AM
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women are more sexually selective than men are, obviously. it’s possible that attractive guys are even more impatient, but that doesn’t erase the fact that young men are impatient overall. pain-fully’s reply is literally stating that it’s “all women’s fault”. my comment was a neutral statement, i wasn’t even being judgemental towards men. your sister’s story is an anecdote, i have lots of stories about men making terrible decisions to keep sexual access to their gfs etc. too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:57 PM
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they are often responding to their base level sexual desires yeah that generally applies to more hormonal young people and i’m not just talking about puberty because the 20’s are like peak fertility for both women and men. you believe that impatient guys are outliers but they’re simply not. for whatever reason you believe this applies only to women though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:54 PM
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good sex with an attractive guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:01 PM
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we’re working with generalizations here, but the idea that young men are sexually impatient is nothing new at all which issue are you talking about here? i’m not struggling with what’s being discussed above
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:54 PM
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You should open up an ao3 account with your vivid imagination!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:35 PM
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Once again writing fanfiction, yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:33 PM
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You are so obsessed with black dick that you are writing fanfiction now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:30 PM
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Ah yes, any woman falling in love with a black or biracial man can only be because of his dick size that you are assuming to be large. It kinda seems like you have an unhealthy obsession with black men’s genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:25 PM
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A physical quality that is not genitals. There’s a difference between large and slightly larger than average. I don’t have a white mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:12 PM
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according to studies slightly larger than average is the most preferred dick size. now you’re bringing up height which is unrelated to our conversation about genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:02 PM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:00 PM
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You can keep repeating those individual cases, it doesn’t change the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:51 PM
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None of that changes anything about the fact that gender affirming care has reduced suicide rates in people with gender dysphoria.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:39 PM
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Yes, suicide rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:31 PM
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I 100% believe that there are size queens, I’m just not one of them. Us women have different anatomy amongst each other too. That’s not even true, many women openly admit to preferring larger dicks. For whatever reason you need to believe that I share that opinion too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:30 PM
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It’s funny that you believe that I haven’t already done my research on both of those topics. None of that changes anything about the fact that gender affirming care has reduced suicide rates in people with gender dysphoria.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:18 PM
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Social dynamics are more complicated than face to face interactions. One way or another it involves me. So how exactly does this correlate to trans people transitioning?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:09 PM
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I’m being honest. I didn’t want to have sex with him because of his large dick so I broke up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:07 PM
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You don’t get to tell me what I’m sexually aroused by. Who do you think you are? Believe whatever you want to believe, I don’t care about changing your mind. I was telling the truth, there’s no point in pursuing a relationship with someone who’s physically incompatible with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:58 PM
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If it involves me it’s my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:57 PM
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I personally don’t prefer larger dicks 😭 I’ve broken up with my high school bf over this, it just did not fit into me. Average or slightly smaller than average works best for my body. That’s true, you can’t see vaginas from the outside but then there’s also “innie” and “outie” vulvas etc. that men have a preference for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:54 PM
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What exactly is your issue here? Your “I get to tell other people how to live their lives” attitude is rampant throughout the entire world. It’s simply not my business that other people wanna transition LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:47 PM
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It’s definitely not 90%. Vaginas are not endless black holes. Most men would also say they have a preference for tight vaginas, is that wrong? I don’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:45 PM
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I stated that young men don’t chase women who are not sexually available as hard, everything outside of that is your own interpretation. I’m saying they don’t necessarily mind a woman with a past and that they are unlikely to invest a lot of time and energy into a woman that wants to wait till marriage etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:43 PM
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Calm down lol. This seems like a very emotionally charged topic for you. I do have a viewpoint, I’ve already explained it above. No matter what you might claim here, gender affirming care actually helps to reduce suicide rates for people with gender dysphoria.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:39 PM
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Of course, but your viewpoint is not necessarily “clear”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:22 PM
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Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:13 PM
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What exactly does your reply have to do with my comment above
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:59 PM
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I won’t lol. a) you don’t know whether I will have kids anyways b) I’m not concerned about my potential future children transitioning. If that’s what they want to do that’s their choice, I don’t control their bodies. But you act like everything is about you. People make choices that you yourself disagree with and you want to make it about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:56 PM
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I mean that’s your personal preference, I was talking about men in a more general sense. Many are fine with attractive women with a past. The thing with chaste women is that they often are not in touch with their sexuality for whatever reason. Whether it’s sexual shame because of their upbringing, low libido, trauma etc. It’s one of the main reasons for dead bedroom situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:41 PM
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I will never relate to people that want to control other people’s lives. As long as you’re not actively harming other human beings, as long as you are not impacting other people’s autonomy I could not care less. I’ve got other shit to worry about in my life. You’re not OP’s doctor or psychologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:39 PM
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My statement above was not denying that some people might transition because of how society treats men or male bodies so I still don’t get the point of your replies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:19 PM
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What are you even talking about right now? OP is talking about how they started to hate their natural body because of how society treats female bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:04 PM
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well it’s more than just shit talk. look at all the religions teaching women to hide their physical traits simply because they are women etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:48 AM
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very accurate observation. young men are impatient and they don’t chase women who are not sexually available as hard it’s not the chaste women that have orbiters. i can’t say i’ve ever seen a promiscuous (young) woman actually struggle to get into a committed relationship. and yes, young men often also enter serious relationships with these women. i can’t speak for older men, they might place less value on sexual access
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:23 AM
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If you’re old and handsome, old and athletic, old and rich, old and exceptionally charismatic you can still date and marry young women probably but let’s not pretend that the older guys dating options would be as large as a handsome younger man’s dating options. a lot of young women are simply not into older men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:14 AM
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I think both men and women are allowed to have size preferences. Extremes on both ends are usually difficult, partners also need to be anatomically compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:15 PM
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then get tea or literally anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:53 AM
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the majority of women 18-25 want to be mothers good joke
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:18 PM
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It doesn’t really matter what you see yourself as lol, we’re talking about the entire species here. Your personal opinion on that doesn’t matter to the science of biology. I agree, nobody wants to be a bad example. And yet, they will most likely think that we were ignorant fools with some cool inventions here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:54 AM
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Sex has health benefits and on top of it it’s also a physical activity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:30 PM
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Well no, historians and biologists don’t agree with you that monogamy was the norm for all of those 300,000 years. And serial monogamy is also not the same thing as marriage for life What is good culture? Will our descendants in 250,000 years say that we had “good culture”? We are promiscuous apes. Not quite as promiscuous as Bonobos and Chimpanzees but we are promiscuous. And every single culture attempting to change that will fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:58 PM
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Like disrespect to them What do you think happened in 300,000 years of homo sapiens existence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:18 PM
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Can your biology differentiate between sex for fun and sex for reproduction? Can your psyche? This was one of your first questions that i’m referring to. People’s biology quite literally does differentiate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:48 PM
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Yes it literally has been pushed by mainstream feminism? conservative women are making fun of feminist women for wanting to split bills
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:41 PM
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I’m very sorry to hear that, I hope you can gain some confidence. Life is too short to miss out on such experiences (if that’s what you’re interested in) and i’m sure that any man asking to eat you out would enjoy it too. I wonder if cultural and age demographic factors play into this as well, I have a feeling that younger men are more willing to perform oral sex on women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:05 PM
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I did not argue that oxytocin is not beneficial for offspring survival, whether we’re referring to pair bonding or group bonding like in bonobos. And yet sex still won’t result in offspring if the individual is not fertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:56 AM
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maybe it’s because you’re engaging in an act that leads to the propagation and continuation of life it objectively can’t if you’re not fertile
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:17 AM
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thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:16 AM
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in my opinion it’s a mix of bad sex education/ignorance and sometimes selfishness. the reason why women in same sex couples have more orgasms is that the clitoris is usually the main focus of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:15 AM
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do you have a study on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:13 AM
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This logic only makes sense if you ignore the fact that women get their menopause at a certain age and yet they continue to have sex. clearly sex in primates is not only for reproductive purposes from a biological standpoint this also applies to any sex during her non fertile window of the month.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:10 AM
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fyi the g-spot scientifically doesn’t exist, however the distance between the vaginal wall and the internal structure of the clitoris is often too far apart in women to be able to have orgasms from penetration alone. it’s common
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:07 AM
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really? has this sub never discussed that penetrative sex is not super effective when it comes to causing female orgasms?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:04 AM
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I don’t think mostly applies to regret, some might regret it but most actually do have fun that’s why they keep doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:58 AM
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Idk, attractive women usually have attractive husbands too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:53 AM
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You’re just typing the same comment again
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:36 PM
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“I don’t care about other countries that prove my argument was nonsensical” There. You could have just written that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:13 PM
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Your mental gymnastics do not change the fact that in many western countries, women were not able to open up their own bank accounts by themselves. Does your small brain understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:09 PM
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Not everyone lives in California, the entire rest of the world still exists
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:31 PM
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that certain ‘red pill’ ideas are not true, others do bring results though (like working out, losing weight etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:23 AM
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Did you entirely skip the second sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:19 AM
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well followers of astrology certainly believe it actually generates results the part about ‘red pill’ ideology that’s true is that appearance matters. both for men and for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:16 AM
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I actually agree with you. Some people need to deconstruct their kinks & realize that not all of them are healthy expressions of sexuality. I think in a lot of cases, women’s sexuality is repressed, many women feel too ashamed to express their desires towards another person. Essentially they see being a more active, involved sexual partner as ‘slutty’ and they try to avoid that shame by making up scenarios where the control is entirely out of their hands. That’s my theory at least
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:35 AM
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i genuinely don’t understand your point … not getting sexually assaulted is beneficial for women. not committing sexual assault themselves is beneficial for women. “that doesn’t change the setting” making people feel more comfortable is changing the setting. It’s already been explained to you before but CNC means consensual non consent, so you don’t just do that out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:28 AM
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and never give any reason isn’t the reason obvious? so that no one commits sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:35 AM
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i mean that’s your definition. revealing clothes can be pretty for others lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 07:35 PM
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but what would a straight man wear to feel sexy? very fair question, i’m not an expert when it comes to men’s fashion but i think taking a look at what male celebs & hot guy influencers wear might help? not just the clothes, but also their hair cuts, how did they style their hair, nicely shaped beard maybe, some guys even get their eyebrows done at the barber. oh and perfume maybe! but again, you might personally feel sexy in something completely different. i was referring more to current beauty…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 07:08 PM
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I mean women also dress nice (including revealing dresses, short skirts) for women only events? I don’t think it’s odd at all that people enjoy getting praised for their fashion & appearance from both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:07 PM
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i hope you can learn to have a more neutral stance towards male sexuality why would anyone have a neutral stance towards unwanted sexual advances? sounds like a tough way to live many women prefer that over tolerating how male sexuality causes many men to behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:02 AM
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pretty spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:48 AM
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No. I’ve never experienced having anyone grow on me. Either I find someone attractive or not, which doesn’t necessarily mean that I’m pursuing something sexual/romantic with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:45 PM
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this subreddit is so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:54 AM
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https://www.mccaininstitute.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/incel-and-misogynist-violent-extremism-read-ahead-materials-august-2.pdf while Incel forums vary in severity, the danger of the movement is evident in recent violent acts of self-identified incels. Elliot Rodger and Alek Minassian, both of whom identified as Incels and committed mass murder targeting women and/or couples, are two high profile examples. In addition to their violent attacks, both left behind graphic “manifestos”, with Elli…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:42 PM
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is the pizza as dangerous as sex? (potential stds, potential sexual assault etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:41 PM
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that’s a very fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:32 AM
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… what? there have been multiple “incel” terrorist attacks with the entire goal of killing as many women as possible there is an entire community online that promotes this behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:31 AM
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I don’t think you’re qualified enough to determine what is sexual & what isn’t. If i followed your logic there also wouldn’t be anything sexual about breast and butt tissue. It would simply be pragmatic and calculating of men to have a preference for adipose tissue of this kind. A woman that would be useful, a good tool in the grand scheme of evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:33 PM
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Posture, attitude, the way he moves. Many women prefer men that act dominant, they think it’s sexy. Physically? Broad shoulders, a bit of muscle. Edit: What I often observe is that women practice their make up skills & fashion in order to appear more sexy while men start working out to be considered more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:26 PM
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have you ever considered the idea that men find a specific body fat ratio hot in women, so skin tight pants would show off the shape of her butt, the adipose tissue of her butt. (because the storing of fat causes benefits to the neurodevelopment of fetuses due to very long fatty acid chains) Women are not looking for a specific adipose tissue ratio in men, men are not the ones going through pregnancy. They are looking for signs of physical strength, especially upper body strength. Which is exact…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:51 AM
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Do they? Yes they do. https://youtu.be/hmE9f-TEutc?si=VxNRIFT15cN0AiSf It’s sultry, it’s seductive, they’re grabbing their crotches, licking their fingers, humping the ground in the choreography etc. it’s all very on the down low and implied if at all you want female sexuality to operate exactly like male sexuality and that is a very narrow view of sexuality. and it’s nowhere near the focus of the video just because you don’t focus on it doesn’t mean it’s not a focus of the concept no i’m saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:20 PM
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even if that was true it is true. it by itself does not translate directly into women lusting over men. boyband marketing heavily depends on women lusting over men, let’s not kid ourselves. Why do you think they have sexy concepts for music videos? there are many other factors at play with Kpop (or boybands), mainly popularity you’re once again using the explanation that they’re famous because they’re famous, that is nonsensical. and the marketing they have done for them right, marketing is impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:27 PM
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right, but I have two objections: this does not relate to real life men at all, and second, how do you know it’s not niche? something on the internet can get thousands of likes, and yet be virtually unheard of in real life (so exactly like Kpop) Kpop is not unheard of in real life. Those album sales don’t come from nowhere, those ticket sales don’t come from nowhere, their consistent charting data doesn’t come from nowhere either. You probably just don’t interact a lot with (younger) women, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:36 PM
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Do you want to change evolution or what’s your goal here? Women are simply more sexually selective, you can’t change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:29 PM
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they’re attracted to his resources yes, not necessarily him. that’s a significant difference considering the fact that genetic health/physical attractiveness seems to play a bigger role in sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:54 AM
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because they want to be special. it’s more of a challenge (and challenges are fun and interesting). imagine you’re the woman that managed to tame him, that makes you unique. The love he feels for you is so much more than anything he ever felt for other women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:23 AM
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But they didn’t sell Are you trying to say that Emily Henry’s books are currently not selling? Because you’d be dead wrong I don’t know why so many guys on here are convinced that only one type of romance novel actually sells well. Look at the explosive success of Emily Henry and Ali Hazelwood The most persistent trend in the romance genre right now cover design wise are gentle looking “discreet” covers in a cartoon style, those books sell significantly better than the more typical covers which …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:01 AM
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unless you’re on the level of a make up artist, barely
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:58 PM
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Didn’t you say yourself you’re talking about readers that didn’t see ryle’s redflags from the beginning?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:46 PM
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I don’t live in a country where the average woman wears make up daily, mascara at best
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:44 PM
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I mean there are always readers that don’t understand the point of a book but generally it ends with us wasn’t difficult to understand & most book communities online like youtube, goodreads etc. came to similar conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:53 PM
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and still has a prettier face than the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:41 AM
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those women weren’t the majority of readers though i’m active on book twitter so i often see people discussing colleen hoover’s books
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:36 AM
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All your points about famous actors/musicians are so true. Everyone knew how popular these celebs were amongst women, unless you seriously had no access to the internet or TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:52 PM
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If you don’t mind me asking, what lead you to believe that women didn’t get turned on? I know that our society likes to erase female sexuality but I’m still curious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:51 AM
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As for why you seem so convinced that every man was just pretending to not know is an unknown to me It’s genuinely confusing as a woman. Neither I or my female friends were ever hiding the fact that we were crushing on physically attractive men. We talked about what we physically found attractive about them. It wasn’t some well kept secret. We discussed it during class, while hanging out with male friends etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:45 AM
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“women will mention anything except for the looks” i’m truly wondering what kinds of women you guys are talking to hasn’t it already become a meme to make fun of some women’s height standards? lots of women openly talk about what kind of dick size they desire, whether he’s supposed to have a six pack or not. that’s pretty common rage fuel in certain communities on the internet as well. when i ask my female acquaintances they get very specific about what they desire physically. heterosexual, bise…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:30 AM
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hm i think it’s pretty weird to hate any pets unless you’ve made some awful experiences with them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:36 PM
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Interestingly enough I’ve never had old lesbians hitting on me. Only those in my age group
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:42 PM
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“opera” lmfao no i’m not a gold digger trying to impress some old dude
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:40 PM
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It‘s literally illegal where I’m from
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:07 AM
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doomed to be mediocre lovers In general I dislike the idea that a) you can’t improve your skill b) your body count indicates how good of a lover you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:47 PM
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I’m not even surprised anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:38 AM
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… What’s up with the vitriol against nurses? I’ve only ever seen such remarks from north americans
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:35 AM
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Lmao I’m not fooling myself, even if we can be vicious it doesn’t change anything about the fact that we have incredibly high emotional intelligence. If the most aggressive and physically strongest males were the most successful our entire anatomy would look quite different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:44 AM
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Then don’t have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:53 PM
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she seems like every kpop stan on twitter. they certainly have a way to get under people’s skin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:50 PM
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Hm, I can’t say that it’s overly aggressive guys that are particularly successful. Looking at human evolution it was actually those men with better social skills and empathy that got to reproduce more often. Being able to cooperate and work in a team is seriously one of the most important skills of our species We wouldn’t have evolved our neotonous features and comparatively mild temperament without this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:42 PM
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i mean he’s bi and in an open relationship. i’m pretty sure he gets laid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:10 PM
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Sometimes I can’t get wet, probably similar to that. I’m interested to know what’s it gonna be like when my partner and i get older
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:07 AM
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Really shows you how much anti-feminists favor oppression of women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:05 AM
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Seems more like religion is creating chaos
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:03 AM
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Another great opinion today was that “chimpanzees are monogamous”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:20 PM
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Wouldn’t be surprised by that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:29 PM
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Which behaviors exactly are not seen in these other bonobos? And no, that’s not irrelevant because that’s the vast majority of bonobos.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:16 PM
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oxytocin somehow permanently damages receptors
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:00 PM
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We’re equally genetically related to both of them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:38 PM
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Oh no, I don’t agree with the “true” nature part either. But if people want to make comparisons to our closest relatives chimpanzees then they can not simply ignore bonobos, whom we’re equally closely related to. Pop culture science often comes to wrong conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:18 PM
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Yeah I also don’t get that part but I’m sure he’ll come up with a reasonable response
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:07 PM
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I also want to live on a nice tree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:57 AM
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Today on PPD I learned that bonobo behavior is irrelevant to human behavior (in comparison to chimpanzees) because they are tree dwelling. Wow, why haven’t my professors ever told me this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:48 AM
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We are equally closely related to bonobos and chimpanzees. If bonobos don’t matter then chimpanzees don’t either. Chimpanzees don’t practice forced intercourse nearly as frequently as humans. We don’t use the term “rape” in relation to other animals, and instead speak of “forced copulation.” This behavior is wholly absent in bonobos for the simple reason that the females collectively dominate the males. But also in chimpanzees, which are male-dominated, it is exceedingly rare https://3quarksdail…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:29 AM
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Again, wrong. Female sexual selection is a well documented fact. “There is no evolutionary relevance to women enjoying sex” Ah yeah that’s why bonobo females are so incredibly hypersexual, because it has no evolutionary relevance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:19 AM
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Many biologists disagree with that stance, it’s a highly debated topic. There are very, very few structures in our bodies that serve no purpose. And as we can see, the clitoris is the erogenous organ in the female body. It would simply not be beneficial for our species if women didn’t enjoy sex. Due to the nature of giving birth our vaginas themselves can’t have too many nerve endings, that would make the whole process even more unbearable. The clitoris is the perfect structure to solve this iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:24 AM
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selective aka sexual selectiveness. women select based on the success rates of their possible offspring. I’m not sure how you interpreted that as blue pill ideology when it’s biology 101. it’s actually far more “red pill”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:09 AM
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the flat earther of (the non existence of) female pleasure is back at it again
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:00 AM
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Naming incorrect arguments doesn’t count as “valid points”. You appear to not understand that the clitoris is in fact far bigger than it’s external structure and that the internal structure (the larger part overall) is very close to the vaginal wall. The clitoris quite literally gets stimulated through the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:37 PM
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As an example, I actually don’t know for sure if women are able to enjoy sex Pleasure is a result of a specific brain activity, you can literally measure the length of time that these specific neurons are firing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:27 PM
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So because you’ve never discussed this with a woman irl you will deny scientific facts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:21 PM
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you want me to scream into your face that i think my bf’s dick is very pleasurable or what now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:16 PM
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I feel like I’ve debated you before, another account had similarly ridiculous arguments. You come off as a troll For the fun of it, I will indulge you. Let’s focus on sex organs: There are primary and secondary sex organs. The former include sex characteristics that are already visible at birth and don’t develop later on in life, including the clitoris. Women themselves say they don’t even feel like sex Wrong. The vast majority of women is not saying this. So the clitoris isnt actually playing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:14 PM
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As an example, I actually don’t know for sure if women are able to enjoy sex Why on earth would women have a clitoris if not to be able to enjoy sex? And I’m not trying to “demonize” you, I just want you to think really hard for a second. The clitoris literally serves no other purpose I’ve been told in real life that looks don’t matter, at all I’m wondering if this is a cultural difference because I’ve never seen this as a mainstream opinion in my entire life. Maybe it’s also due to the fact tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:34 PM
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All this bullsh!t dancing around this simple biological fact (test0steron3) with “women have always been the selectors” […] is just further obscuring the facts That is also a basic biological fact. The sex that has a higher parental investment is going to be more selective, and as shown in other species, it can also be males (seahorses for example). But yes, testosterone makes men more horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:57 PM
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Disagree. A part of “having game” has always been having access to ressources.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:08 PM
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I don’t think it explains the entire situation but it’s one of the main contributing factors
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:29 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:29 AM
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Ouch, hope it works out for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:19 AM
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I haven’t experienced that sort of trauma, no. I have experienced childhood sexual assault. And of course you would say that, I didn’t expect anything else from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:32 PM
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Natural boobs all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:11 PM
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Good! I hope you stay far away from women with sexual trauma. If she enjoys anal sex it’s a whole different story. But that’s not what was being discussed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:09 PM
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Simple answer: no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:07 PM
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significant lack of emotional intelligence on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:50 PM
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All I hear is “Me! Me! Me! I don’t care about how much I make other people physically and mentally suffer as long as I can get my dick wet” Your jealousy is not comparable to sexual trauma. The fact alone that you’re jealous of another man pressuring her to do something she didn’t want to is speaking volumes by itself. Cool, seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:35 PM
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No, what is being said on PPD is that no one is entitled to sex or a relationship. Compassion is a whole different topic. I’m glad that you understand that unempathy creates a chain reaction and yet I do not understand why you try to defend your position. Women in the first world are very active in organizations focusing on men’s mental health. In fact, never before have there been as many research and help projects about men’s mental health. As I’ve mentioned above, I disagree. Society is becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:14 PM
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Disagree, the current norm seems to encourage empathy. You’re just trying to justify your apathy towards these victims. Since we’re on PPD I’m assuming you’re talking about dating issues. Contrary to your belief I’m actually seeing the mainstream spreading more awareness about lonely people. Lonely people deserve compassion and help. Edit: Your entire logic is basically because some people are not empathetic towards others who are struggling to date, victims of sexual assault should simply be tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:37 PM
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Not to the extent that people who reply bullshit like that have, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:16 PM
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Neither women or men should reduce empathy towards victims of sexual assault of any gender. Y’all have such deep rooted issues
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:11 PM
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Wow. Proving my point once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:40 PM
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The lack of compassion for victims of sexual trauma on here isn’t surprising but still disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:33 PM
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Ah, the trauma expert has spoken
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:18 PM
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Agreed, but that doesn’t seem to be the case on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:01 PM
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Today I learned that sexual trauma is simply a sign of immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:59 PM
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Just because it’s fun for other people doesn’t mean it has to be fun for her? Yeah, it’s usually pretty difficult to get over sexual trauma. Doing something that you don’t enjoy is not really recommended when it comes to that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:58 PM
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Again, what do y’all not understand about the fact that she was pressured into these sex acts and didn’t enjoy them? More than that, she’s actually scared of them. How can you stand there and say “Doesn’t matter” I mean it’s obvious that you guys don’t care about making your partner feel comfortable and them experiencing pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:54 PM
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You’re allowed to feel that way. Doesn’t change anything about the discussion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:03 AM
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I didn’t, apparently you are misinterpreting my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:53 AM
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Neither of us were moving goalposts. We were both talking about masculine coded and feminine codes interests aka socially constructed stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:50 AM
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I literally came to an agreement with the other commenter and the only thing you’re criticizing is that … you personally don’t like Marvel or Bridgerton. That’s not relevant to the discussion. Cry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:42 AM
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Lmao if that’s what you think I won’t stop you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:37 AM
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It’s entirely irrelevant to the discussion at hand and no, I won’t stop telling users on here that they’re providing useless information.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:35 AM
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Yes, I am. Those two franchises both have dedicted fanbases. It doesn’t matter how you feel about Bridgerton or Marvel. Besides, Bridgerton is an entire book series, comparable to the fact that Marvel movies are based on comics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:29 AM
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Marvel is also vapid garbage, the examples weren’t about quality but about popular franchises.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:18 AM
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No, it really doesn’t. That’s why I specifically said masculine coded interests. Exactly, a lot of these interests actually have a more mixed fanbase. Gay men are a very small minority of the male population. If you want my example to be more precise, how often do you see heterosexual women with masculine coded interests in comparison to heterosexual men with feminine coded interests
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:07 AM
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On a scale of masculine coded to feminine coded interests women’s interests are more diverse. How often are you gonna see a guy being into bridgerton and kpop compared to a girl being into marvel and gaming
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:52 AM
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Because women’s interests are more diverse. Even if you look at children’s toy choices and the kind of play they engage with, girls are much more likely to engage with masculine coded toys and behaviors than the other way around. They actually did a similar experiment with young chimpanzees and bonobos and it had similar results: While the female chimps and bonobos were also interested in toys associated with masculine, aggressive play (balls, toy cars) the male ones were entirely disinterested …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:45 AM
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lmfao you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:08 AM
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mhh back, arms, shoulders and hands
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:04 AM
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ah, i’m glad you admitted that this is what the abortion debate is actually about for conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:52 AM
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We’re animals but anyone who fetishizes kids is simply a pedophile or were you referring to people obsessing over kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:07 AM
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Out of all the things that you could mention, why height lmao. We can’t change sexual dimorphism in our species
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:59 AM
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Yeah, you don’t need to tolerate that behavior. Find someone who supports you instead of pushing you down
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:49 AM
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Wow, all of of your exes come off as manipulative. I don’t know what other women are like while dating men but that behavior is simply cruel A relationship needs to be based on respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:37 AM
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It’s a liberal feminist stance, other schools of feminism reject this view.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:57 AM
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No there weren’t, we got along well and he was good looking. Why is your assumption that I must have personal problems? His natural body scent (which wasn’t unhygienic or anything) was just a turn off for me. “Studies have shown that body odor is strongly connected with attraction in heterosexual females. The women in one study ranked body odor as more important for attraction than “looks”. Humans may not simply depend on visual and verbal senses to be attracted to a possible partner/mate” https…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:51 AM
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pre-marriage counseling is honestly a great idea
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:00 AM
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I get that, hope it goes well for you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:51 PM
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No, that was before I started taking BC but it can definitely affect sensitivity to smell Usually women are more sensitive to smell during ovulation and on BC this sensitivity is kinda absent. So that can cause issues when a woman in a relationship stops taking the pill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:29 PM
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oh, it’s less about hygiene and more about compatibility of immune systems
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:22 PM
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I wasn’t talking about how scent affects men though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:01 PM
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Maybe As an anecdote, I once cut off things with a guy I was getting to know because I didn’t like his regular body scent. He didnt smell bad, he was very hygienic. Our immune systems were probably not compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:00 PM
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I feel like PPD barely mentions how much smell/scent plays a role in attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:44 PM
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long live the gay frogs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:44 PM
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I was referring to pre-natal factors in general, including hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:35 PM
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I mean, the first book is called “A game of thrones” but I don’t think she read that one either I’m surprised she didn’t mention all the super popular young adult novels like hunger games etc. Barely know any millenial/gen z kid that hasn’t read them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:15 PM
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But why would I simply follow that opinion for no reason? If it was universally beneficial for younger women, I’d have no issue with it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:33 PM
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Why would I be jealous if I’m the one affected by older men flirting with me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:06 PM
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? How would the fact that people who have been abused themselves have a higher risk of becoming abusers dispute the fact that it’s specifically bisexual women that are more likely to become victims of intimate partner violence Yes, many child abuse perpetrators are women. This discussion is about intimate partner abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:03 PM
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I don’t know, I believe sexuality is something you’re born with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:34 PM
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I really don’t know. Further research is certainly required
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:31 AM
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Because … some lesbian women end up in heterosexual relationships due to internalized homophobia, the culture they were brought up in etc. Now, that’s the important question. I have found an article about it but I can’t get access to it sadly https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/15299716.2017.1364201
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:30 AM
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You’re right about that. I suppose it’s a combination of biphobia/homophobia, extreme fear that your partner might leave you because of their larger potential dating pool and maybe some weird notions about bi women (for example, that they are always sexually available etc.) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:23 AM
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perfect halloween costume
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:08 AM
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New data from the Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) shows that bisexual women experience significantly higher rates of rape, physical violence and/or stalking by an intimate partner compared to both lesbians and heterosexual women. This finding not only sheds light on this unconscionable social problem but also illustrates the critical need for bisexual inclusion in health research. The lifetime prevalence of rape, physical violence and/or stalking by an intimate partner is extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:02 AM
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The lifetime prevalence of rape, physical violence and/or stalking by an intimate partner is extremely high in the lesbian, gay and bisexual community with lesbian women (43.8%), gay men (26%), bisexual women (61.1%), and bisexual men (37.3%) reporting experiencing this violence, compared to heterosexual women (35%) and heterosexual men (29%). 61.1% prevalence for bisexual women vs 43.8% for lesbian women vs 35% for heterosexual women Among women who experienced rape, physical violence and/or st…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:59 AM
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“Same sex attracted women experience more domestic violence” True, however the majority of same sex attracted women are bisexual women who are overwhelmingly being abused in heterosexual relationships. In fact, bisexual women are more likely than heterosexual women to be abused in a hetero relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:50 AM
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If “daddy government” actually provides valuable help while the actual father is an incompetent piece of shit, why shouldn’t women rely on government help PPD keeps talking about accountability, where’s the accountability for fathers in these cases
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:43 AM
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That’s not a weird question to ask at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:52 AM
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… I seriously worry for some women. Could never be me Of course I’m happy and relaxed when I’m with my bf, but that doesn’t mean I’ll ever stop using my brain
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:27 AM
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Probably the best way to handle this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:24 AM
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Literally like, what if she starts her period mid sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:10 AM
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How is announcing a final exam a day before even allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:23 PM
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I wish :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:12 PM
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Interestingly lots of bird comparisons. Is there anything you think they get right? Certainly the parental investment/sexual selectivity theory Well one thing I think is different is that we have the expectation that we share our finances Or that pair bonding behavior needs to be permanent I get this from an individual standpoint but I was talking more about the general concept of pair bonds in nature The “red pill” concept of pair bonds doesn’t really correlate with the actual reality of it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:24 PM
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pretty spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:14 PM
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Generally I can recommend everyone to dive a bit deeper into primatology. I’m often seeing comparisons to other species that we’re not closely related to. One of the most extreme examples I’ve seen on here were discussions about pair bonding. I’m not sure how they’ve come to the conclusion that pair bonding means being sexually exclusive, this doesn’t apply to most other animals that form social pairs either. Or that pair bonding behavior needs to be permanent etc. Not to mention the interesting…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:58 PM
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Are we all master manipulators now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:30 PM
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That was the historical definition of man and woman in most indo-european languages, yeah. Human language isn’t necessarily precise and undergoes constant changes. The biological definition of male and female hasn’t changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:13 PM
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And there’s the issue. They also don’t like to engage with data that doesn’t suit their narrative Although there are some really great science youtube channels out there, I really loved watching them in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:06 PM
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acknowledging that there are male and female reproductive systems is not transphobic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:03 PM
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The missing community aspect really gets underestimated
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:00 PM
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School/Uni or large social gatherings Like I wouldn’t assume that some guy I just met at a house party was immediately trying to hit on me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:48 PM
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I need people who insist on using evo-psych explanations for human behavior to get basic biology knowledge first
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:43 PM
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It’s a very well established biological theory. Additional factors are parental investment. Species in which the males invest more time and effort into parenting their offspring also show higher selectivity in males. What do you consider wrong about this theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:17 AM
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Not listening more to my gut feeling a year ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:23 AM
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When will this ever end …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:20 AM
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I’m wondering if that’s just a very different way of phrasing that they simply desire a life with family? Getting old and seeing their grandkids etc. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:56 PM
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I can’t say I’ve witnessed it that often but I’m also not really a club enjoyer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:56 PM
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My question is, do they really pick up girls in clubs that often? I feel like bars etc. are far more advantageous
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:44 PM
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Ghost sounds lovely. I was kind of scared of dogs when I was younger but one of our neighbors had a labrador who was literally obsessed with kids. He always managed to make kids feel comfortable with him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:25 PM
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That’s very cute
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:16 PM
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It’s manipulation, she’s trying to keep you humble. “Look, you’re not usually my type but I will give you a chance (I have other options)”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:46 PM
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Idk about banned but it just sounds horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:05 PM
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Is it universal? Do all cultures on this planet in the present and past do this? Edit: Things I can understand but I’m specifically talking about colors
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:39 PM
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Yes, a reason, not necessarily an evolutionary one. If it was evolutionary it would be universal throughout human culture. That’s the criteria that biologists use to determine whether certain traits etc. have evolutionary roots.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:33 PM
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cannibalism for the win
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:31 PM
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To a certain degree. There is no evolutionary reason for why associate the color pink with girls (which was originally associated with male babies) it’s simply a social construct, a product of culture. To claim that all aspects of a certain culture have evolutionary roots is plain wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:10 PM
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Fighting with “harmful” intent, yes. Play fighting is more common though And true! Other species are obviously far more violent when it comes to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:22 PM
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Dick pics pretty much remind me of that behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:16 PM
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A “fight” is a pretty broad concept. Most fights amongst male primates are playful fights
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:15 PM
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Well men do fight each other to attract women. That’s why competetive sports are so popular
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:02 PM
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100%. They spread misinformation and cherry pick evo-psych arguments to support their world view
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:55 PM
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Because anyone who claims that humans pair bond doesn’t understand biology lmao Not even birds truly pair bond. They often “cheat” on their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:50 PM
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Do other primate males use dancing to impress females? No. (However, certain cultures do have men dancing to entice women. The reason for this is clearly cultural though) Mating dances are most commonly observed in birds, who we obviously don’t descend from.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:49 PM
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Evolutionary psychology as an explanation for certain human behaviors can work quite well if people online would actually be more knowledgeable about the animal kingdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:44 PM
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? Male primates usually approach females For example, they’ll come up to her, show off their erect penis and she decides whether she wants to have intercourse with him or not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:37 PM
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how is having sex with a partner who’s completely unenthusiastic not far more emasculating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:20 AM
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public shaming has always been a risk although the internet might have increased that a bit. dude, no one is gonna call the cops on you for trying to talk to a classmate. Edit: I want to mention that I’ve approached women myself (as a woman) and it still makes me very nervous. Dealing with homophobia etc. is nerve wracking but at the end of the day I had to do the first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:26 PM
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By guys who feel useless themselves. Look around you, many women are getting into relationships in their 30s and have a happy, fulfilling partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:59 PM
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Thinking too much about it is just gonna limit your opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:57 PM
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Chadflation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:52 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:34 PM
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I don’t know how you ended up with that conclusion. Of course inequality contributes to extremism. Which is why we as a society need to do something against economic inequality, which is also a part of counter terrorism strategies. Governments under Capitalism are corrupt, no one is denying that shit. The outcomes of extremism would be far worse however if the government would simply ignore these radical groups. I’m honestly not interested in discussing this any further with you. We won’t come t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:26 PM
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Yes, I’m sure that corporations are responsible for right wing extremism in the West to sell more counter terrorism programs. Totally explains the past 1000 years of antisemitic attacks in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:08 PM
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Sorry, I’m not taking anyone seriously that ignores the seriousness of extremism. No, mass shootings are not the only outcome of violent extremist ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:40 PM
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I’m not trying to defend imperialist actions of the west. The conversation was originally about right wing terrorism, I’m talking about counter terrorism within the country. You guys are constantly trying to downplay this stuff and I’m not falling for it. I don’t know why it seems impossible to understand for some that you can criticize multiple things at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:34 PM
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“Can’t be avoided anyway” Without counter terrorism the amount of ideological inspired mass shooting would be far higher. You’re completely out of touch with reality. Edit: The argument wasn’t only about surveillance either, it was about literally doing anything against extremism. No deradicalization programs etc. either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:18 PM
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Sex is evil and sinful bla bla
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:43 PM
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As if celibacy is a viable solution for a species as sexual as humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:40 PM
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I agree with you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:46 PM
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You’re legitimately just arguing for seperatism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:39 PM
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I do not like to use generalizations during discussions about such complex topics. A singular man’s sexuality could be dirty in practice due to typical porn brain and that situation can feel dehumanizing to a woman. Absolutely. If he doesn’t care about her actual pleasure and well being then that is degrading to her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:34 PM
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Yeah, the view that male sexuality is naturally dirty leads to the result that some women may feel like hetero sex is dehumanizing. I don’t see how you can compare the amount of anti-abortion texans to the amount of abusive men, PPD always emphasizes that it’s only a small minority of men who commit such acts. Being anti-abortion seems to be quite common in Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:23 PM
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No, that is not a default outlook. What is most commonly being criticized is the way men are taught to replicate violent pornography from a young age, not that heterosexual sex itself is inherently dehumanizing. Either promiscuous women only have sex with men they don’t find gross or engaging in so much heterosexual intercourse affects their self esteem. I’ve seen both cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:08 PM
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The idea that men are inherently gross and that heterosexual intercourse is always dehumanizing for women is an extreme radical feminist view. Followers of this ideology do think badly about women who crave so much male sexual attention. You would be surprised about the way radfems talk about women in heterosexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:51 AM
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Saying that about heterosexual dating in general is an extremist radical feminist view, not a mainstream one at all. I don’t understand how you have come to the conclusion that anyone enjoys these things. Women like the positives of dating men, they obviously do not like the potential risks. If someone likes to play soccer, does that mean they enjoy the potential risk of serious injuries?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:32 AM
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a) What does that have to do with me b) I seriously doubt that my view is that rare amongst women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:25 AM
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Did I claim it wasn’t some sort of privilege? It comes with it’s downsides of course, but I can see how that is simply an inherent advantage when it comes to dating etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:18 AM
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It’s gross how you frame the act of women engaging in sex. Male sexuality isn’t “dirty”, if a woman having sex with men makes her a “human fleshlight” then that would apply to all heterosexual intercourse, even in relationships. Edit: Just because women are limited in the way they can engage in sex due to their anatomy (taking the active, penetrating role etc) doesn’t mean that it’s a humiliating action to have sex as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:05 AM
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A BB cream is not gonna do much to hide acne or acne scars. You would need a good foundation and concealer for that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:09 AM
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Exactly, without counter terrorism these statistics would look completely different. Defunding counter terrorism to fight femicides is one of the worst ideas I’ve heard. As if women don’t become victims of terrorist attacks that were influenced by misogynistic ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:01 AM
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Today on PPD I learned that the government should simply ignore extremist ideologies because only a few people die during terrorist attacks. There are fascinating people on here to put it mildly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:41 AM
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Theoretically you’re right but then you have other people arguing that being forced to pay taxes for social welfare systems is somehow comparable to theft or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:38 AM
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Oh, I wasn’t referring to PPD specifically. I frequently encounter some weird shit on Twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:39 AM
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I’m aware of these changes. My phrasing was hyperbolic. The fact remains that Germany should have started with reforms for vetted immigration way sooner and that CDU definitely didn’t do enough in that regard this past decade. You’re also underestimating how difficult it is for professionals from developing countries to immigrate here. Regardless, I was arguing in favor of vetted immigration.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:39 PM
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It’s the body of another individual. It doesn’t matter whether the contract is some sort of supernatural cult ritual, that still doesn’t grant someone the right to infringe on someone else’s autonomy. “No one would actually support that in real life” Welcome to reality. Exactly, human rights shouldn’t infringe on other people’s rights. And yet I’ve had a few people in this comment section arguing that the right to get access to health care somehow infringes on other people’s autonomy since they …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:08 PM
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And I never claimed it was a Germany specific issue. I don’t know why you keep bringing up unregulated mass immigration because I was never arguing in favor of that. Germany’s demographic change requires massive amounts of foreign doctors regardless of mass immigration. The point is, we still need improved reforms for vetted immigration which the conservative CDU hasn’t been able to implement in 15 years of ruling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:57 PM
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We don’t have enough doctors in this country. That is 100% our issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:44 PM
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No, I don’t believe that everyone is arguing for that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:43 PM
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You do need to invest in that to attract more qualified professionals because as of right now, Germany isn’t necessarily the most popular place to immigrate. Germany needs to compete with other industrial countries for these workers. As someone who actually lives in Germany and knows many engineers and doctors from newly industrializing nations and developing countries, there are many difficulties. The reforms were for vetted immigration. As mentioned above, our current system of vetted immigrat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:40 PM
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Yes, of course, they couldn’t simply disagree with the existence of gods.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:29 PM
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It doesn’t mean nothing when incel mass shootings are becoming more and more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:08 PM
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I’m not lying at all. If you legitimately believe that the AFD would ever genuinely support Germany investing more into any form of immigration then I can’t help you lol. The AFD also claims they’re a democratic party. Every single time politicians try to reform the immigration system in favor of vetted immigration the conservative opposition ends up being a hindrance. With the exception of the FDP, since they are more libertarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:07 PM
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No I wasn’t. Right wing parties in my country are actively trying to minimize opportunities for vetted immigration. They just don’t want foreigners, no matter if it’s economically nonsensical. Edit: I have to consider that I’m probably talking to Americans and that the USA and Republicans do have a different approach to immigration.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:44 PM
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That’s not a change of topics at all - these men feel like they have the right to another person’s body. Let’s say there is a general right to sex. How would you enforce that human right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:26 PM
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Exactly, people are more honest about their own thoughts on anonymous platforms. How does any of that contradict my initial point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:19 PM
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No, there are legitimately people out there that believe they have a right to another person’s body. Either through sex work that is covered by health care or more traditional systems like forced marriage. He’s 100% allowed to think that way. He can leave the relationship at any point that he wants. Just like how she’s allowed to leave the relationship if her libido doesn’t match his and she doesn’t want to engage in things like maintenance sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:03 PM
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Okay, that’s selection bias. It’s not a boogeyman, there are people out there that legitimately believe this. It’s often phrased differently in religious communities for example. “Tradcons” who believe they have a right to a wife and that marital rape isn’t real. That women have to serve their husbands by pleasing all of their sexual demands and that divorce is not an option etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:58 PM
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yeah, the same internet that is often a breeding ground for radicalized ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:37 PM
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That’s not what I was referring to. I was referring to some people claiming that having access to another person’s body is a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:51 PM
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No. No they are not. Using your body to work, where you can also choose from a variety of jobs is nowhere near as trauma inducing as being raped. I don’t have an ounce of patience for such arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:49 PM
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Was I talking about unregulated migration?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:44 PM
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I mean that’s defamation, which is also already illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:30 PM
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I’m not really sure from which country’s point of view you’re talking from. I grew up in Germany and the left here has never opposed immigration to the same degree that conservatives and far right supporters have. The argument that migrants disrupt social security systems was and still is a conservative talking point here. West Germany’s economy would not have been able to rebuild itself after WW2 without increased immigration and migrants bringing over their families. Yeah, hopefully someone wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:08 PM
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You’re going completely off topic. Yes, obviously social security systems have flaws and we don’t know whether they are going to be viable solutions in the next decades. What we do know is that these systems have worked for quite a while. I really don’t care about this conversation about taxes to be honest. You’re pointing out flaws of the system, sure, doesn’t mean it hasn’t been efficient so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:54 PM
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European countries investing in more immigration would improve the situation but conservatives don’t really like this approach. Yeah, increased waiting time is common.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:49 PM
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That’s an incredibly individualistic standpoint and I disagree with that. Obviously the tax based system has flaws. It causes less issues than no social security system though. I wouldn’t want to live in a society where everyone fends for themselves. The difference between labor and sex/intimacy becomes interesting if you look at sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:43 PM
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You’re constantly talking about health care and the right to housing. Based on that I assumed you were american. What I do know is that tax based health care systems work well & that paying taxes is hardly trauma inducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:36 PM
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I’m not american and I literally do not care about your definition of freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:31 PM
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being forced to pay money and being forced to let someone else use your body are hardly comparable. again, with that chain of logic you can justify illegal organ theft or forced surrogacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:29 PM
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Thankfully that opinion isn’t mainstream, that doesn’t change anything about the fact that this rhetoric is dangerous and spreading incredibly fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:26 PM
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I have legitimately seen men on the internet claiming this. I don’t know what to tell you. 100%, no one should be denied the search for love, sex and intimacy. It really isn’t a leftist talking point when right wing supporters often claim they have a right to a wife, a right to a female body and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:25 PM
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Those who claim otherwise tend to be women themselves who have actually experienced their own libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:19 PM
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Might help some people, although most men actually want to feel desired and/or share intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:08 PM
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With the same logic you can also justify illegal organ trade. I don’t have the patience for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:04 PM
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They always end up making that argument. As if anyone should get special treatment for not being a fucking rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:54 PM
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I do believe that sex and intimacy greatly improve the physical and mental health for people. The issue I take with the “sex is a need” phrasing is that many seem to use it to proclaim that access to another person’s body is somehow a human right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:20 PM
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Very scary … hope you’re okay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:11 AM
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That’s not even orange though, that’s a shade of brown? But yeah lightskin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:12 PM
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Sorry, english isn’t my native language. They’re of course still horny/desire sex but as I said before, sex is reciprocal act to them. They don’t like “maintenance” sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:11 PM
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When someone pursues you too aggressively for a lack of a better term. They often overstep boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:50 PM
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Hm? It’s a pretty common skin color in the african diaspora
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:48 PM
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Dark blue looks amazing on people with a darker skin complexion tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:45 PM
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Already knew the result before I clicked on the link
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:32 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:24 PM
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Thankfully a small percentage. Nevertheless, such perpetrators often look for a specific type of victim, mostly people who lack self confidence and aren’t really good at enforcing boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:21 PM
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I’m not calling anyone crazy for taking preventive measures. You’re the one who keeps claiming that she basically did it for no solid reason. Besides that, she also got breast implants?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:19 PM
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Yeah, I know guys who don’t desire to have sex with someone who isn’t the mood. That has mostly been my experience with dating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:17 PM
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I can assure you that most of the women being physically assaulted for declining weren’t acting like confrontational assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:51 PM
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Mhh the topic is actually a bit more complex. In apes it’s actually females who adorn themselves more than the males of the species, unlike colorful male birds for example. Obviously women spend a lot of time and effort when it comes to fashion, make up and jewelry etc. Similar behavior can also be observed in female chimpanzees and bonobos who will adorn themselves with leaves etc. and create a certain “look” Doesn’t mean that men don’t have to put in more effort when it comes to active courtin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:44 PM
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You’re absolutely insane. No one cuts of their butt meat because they “don’t like it” anymore. “feminism purposes” as if feminism teaches women to hate their natural bodies. Burning bras and not shaving are literally in celebration of the natural state of the female body.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:58 PM
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As my evolutionary biology professor said: “Males are nothing but sperm dispensers.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:51 PM
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She’s the expert here idk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:49 PM
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You’re legit making men sound terrible lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:44 PM
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What ok? They might still be horny but sex is a reciprocal act to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:32 AM
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I have never had maintenance sex in my entire life and I will never have maintenance sex lol. Yeah, people in relationships have the most sex because they’re exclusive and (should) desire each other sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:22 AM
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… this is so gross. thankfully there’s decent guys out there that don’t even desire sex if you’re not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:18 AM
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These examples are all true but you also need to acknowledge that the pressure on women to be sexually appealing is far more intense. People do a lot of things out of necessity, to make money. Wouldn’t really call this “free choice”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:26 PM
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I mean, some professions require women to wear make up. For many social events women are expected to wear it. You certainly also feel that social pressure as a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:27 PM
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I've seen many women complain about unrealistic beauty standards and how there's an expectation imposed on women to wear make up. But at the same time, many women also argue that they don't wear make up for men, they wear it for themselves. These 2 complaints directly contradict each other. The first one is radical feminist theory, the second one is a liberal feminist stance. These two ideologies often contradict each other. I think the reason they complain about it is to use it as an excuse whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:25 PM
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The issue is that these conversations always derail into extremes. Historically you’ve had society supressing female sexuality, quite literally sending women to psych wards for “female hysteria” and on the other hand you now have people claiming that the sex drive of men and women is exactly the same, despite the biological differences between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:05 PM
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Yeah, it’s mostly the muslim and jewish communities. Based on what I’ve read, it seems like antisemitism (+ islamophobia) played a role in why circumcision was looked down upon in large parts of europe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:24 PM
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The US is interesting in that regard because most white people in europe do not practice male circumcision while it’s far more prevalent in immigrant communities
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:05 PM
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Agreed. I guess it’s due to the long history of male circumcision
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:03 PM
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But this is incredibly culturally enforced. Here in Germany circumcised penises aren’t the norm and most women are quite frankly weirded out by circumcised ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:01 PM
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The connective tissue mostly consists of collagen https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8043384/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:35 AM
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Lmao, he claims to have a degree in Bio Research but at the same time also said that “it’s a biological fact that women age faster than men”. The only thing that is a fact is that women have less collagen in their skin which is why we develop wrinkles etc. earlier than men. Maybe he also referred to fertility as a criteria and women do get menopause. But that is just one biological marker of age. Women have longer telomeres (end caps of DNA) than men, telomere length is relevant for healthy long…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:42 AM
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I‘m 22 so 20-25
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:49 PM
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Yeah, that’s what I was referring to, it’s a small percentage. According to evopsych theories it’s all about female pleasure but in practice … that’s often not the case. It’s a complex topic for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:48 PM
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Oh, I do know about the differences, I also believe that the female orgasm is more intense. Hm, I wouldn’t devalue the male orgasm like that though. And yes many women can have the orgasm after orgasm Not the majority though. That’s why I said most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:35 PM
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They see FWB as an invitation to only treat her as a sex object. She doesn’t deserve an ounce of respect from their viewpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:42 PM
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orgasm after orgasm … sadly most women are dreaming of that lol from a female perspective, i’m jealous of how easy it is for most men to achieve orgasm. for a lot of women it takes forever & it’s a lot of hard work. sometimes it’s not gonna work out at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:37 PM
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Agreed, studies in psychology should hold up to more scientific standards. And yet, therapy is still better than crystals lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:35 AM
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It really isn’t. Talk therapy is overrated but therapy overall produces reliable results. (according to the NHS 66.4% of patients have shown improvement after psychological treatment) 41% of patients respond to psychotherapy for depression, compared with 17% in usual care https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8457213/#:~:text=41%25%20of%20patients%20respond%20to,effective%20treatments%20are%20clearly%20needed. Clearly we do need better methods to treat depression specifically but 41% isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:10 AM
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Again, generalizations to justify revenge fantasies. I don’t think I need to repeat that this behavior is not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:48 AM
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Yes, I am concerned about these developments and I’m by far not the only one. You’re once again making sweeping generalizations and assumptions to justify your lack of empathy for them. “They’re bad people, they had it coming!” Even if it was due to a character flaw (a minor one at that) the real question is, why do you get enjoyment out of other people getting emotionally hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:22 AM
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You’re making sweeping generalizations in order to justify your lack of empathy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:09 AM
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… I don’t get enjoyment from seeing a specific group of people being emotionally hurt. That behavior is concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:06 AM
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Yeah, this is the point where you should start considering therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:40 PM
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Holy shit, I would run away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:38 PM
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None. If it’s close friends I help them find a nice outfit, give advice about skin care etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:13 PM
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I’m very familiar with how random sampling works. That doesn’t change anything about my initial point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:03 PM
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No, you can not possibly study all of objective reality. But the sample size is important. Otherwise, like I have shown you, you come to wrong conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:56 PM
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One or a few incidents that do not reflect the entirety of objective reality. Based on my experience I could claim that at least 1/3rd of men are physically violent towards their wives. I know that official statistics do not reflect this and that it is highly unlikely, that my subjective experience truly reflects the actual reality of the situation in the west. My anecdotal evidence is most likely just a product of my personal environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:43 PM
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Anecdotal evidence is not “fact”. It’s a subjective experience, not objective reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:28 PM
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Hmm I miss him more than I do my best friends but I enjoy spending time with them just as much as I do with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:05 PM
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I don’t believe one bit that most of the traumatizing experiences described there are made up. Yes, a lot of them are hurt and pissed off
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:28 PM
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I never claimed it was a trait that you could work on. Still doesn’t change anything about the sexually dimorphic height difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:34 PM
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male centric subreddits aren’t any better. overall, it’s a reddit thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:32 PM
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always works
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:41 PM
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All I can say is that most of these subreddits are echo chambers as well. It can’t hurt to learn a bit from online flirting advice but the rest … most relationships I observe IRL started off organically, people that were active in the same social circle etc. The self improvement aspects are the most valuable part about TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:35 PM
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Hm, depends on your relationship with them. I would say my cousins are very honest
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:32 PM
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Do you have female relatives or friends in your age group? I understand it might be embarrassing to ask but I believe they could give you a better insight Not necessarily dating advice but more general things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:14 PM
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It’s an echo chamber. Certain opinions are pretty common amongst women though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:11 PM
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I mean that’s a pretty good indicator that they aren’t interested in her personality. Easy way to filter them out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:52 PM
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And I don’t wanna date fat/old/ugly/short men either. We can both agree that neither of this is sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:36 PM
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Good question. Obviously, being a good lover is just gonna make you more attractive to her. If you really want to find a gf that has the same views about sex and prefers to wait then I think it’s worth it to miss out on some potential relationships. If the quicker approach to sexual intimacy doesn’t bother you that much then why not show off your skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:22 PM
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Women are totally into height, but not to the degree that some people on here claim. Exactly, difference in height is a sexually dimorphic trait. It’s not that hard for a man to be taller than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:16 PM
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Usually the fact that they’re inexperienced and young. They need to feel comfortable first :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:22 PM
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100%. chimpanzees need political allies to be successful. overly violent alpha males with poor social skills just create friction within the group and their leadership doesn’t last long social bonds are important for most primates
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:56 AM
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The comments are pretty on point though. She does suffer from a madonna/whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:54 AM
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Certain viruses take time before the tests show positive results. Doesn’t mean the affected ones aren’t contagious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:45 AM
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I actually had to google this but apparently there are cases where it’s unsafe for a woman to orgasm/have sex during pregnancy You're showing signs of preterm labor or you have a history of preterm labor. You've been diagnosed with placenta previa or an incompetent cervix. You have a history of miscarriage. You're experiencing vaginal bleeding. You're leaking amniotic fluid. You have or develop a hernia during pregnancy that puts you at risk for preterm labor. You're carrying multiples
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:59 PM
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It’s scary how fast human rights can get violated in so called constitutional democracies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:21 PM
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Yes, by observing heart frequency and pupil dilation. I don’t see how romantic love as a whole is supposed to measurable but regardless, bisexual is simply a descriptor which is defined as sexual attraction to both sexes. Being able to get intimate with someone else is affected by a variety of factors including internalized homophobia etc. Which still doesn’t change anything about the measurable sexual arousal. What would you call someone like myself who can’t compartmentalize love and sex? You …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:07 PM
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That is why I used the term bisexual, sexual attraction towards both sexes, I wasn’t even getting into the romantic aspect. If you are aroused by the opposite sex you are not homosexual. You are bisexual with a preference for the same sex. And that’s exactly why I said that it doesn’t really matter what people identify as, since sexual arousal is measurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:43 PM
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Bisexuality is simply a descriptor of sexual attraction to both sexes. Biologists do use that term as a scientific descriptor. Because too many people do not want to admit they experience same sex attraction. Internalized homophobia is a very real issue in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:30 PM
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I never claimed that. Yet, why would I make a choice that puts me and my offspring at a disadvantage? The world doesn’t need to revolve around me for me to make this choice about my personal life. You might interpret it as selfish but that still doesn’t change anything about the effectiveness of female mating strategies. I can also accept that this strategy can be defined as selfish, that’s not an issue for me. In the same sense living is selfish since you need to consume others to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:17 PM
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It was an analogy. The mating strategy is still a product of evolution. I literally don’t care if it’s selfish or not. Why would I be scared to admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:34 PM
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tax benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:37 PM
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What’s so hard about ignoring them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:32 PM
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Literally every single time a BTS member cries lol If it was Timothee Chalamet crying they’d also think he’s very brave for showing emotions etc. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:29 PM
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Is it selfish and solipsistic that we consume living beings in order to survive? Certain vegans and vegetarians do share that opinion but there’s no point in trying to view evolutionary mechanisms from a moral standpoint. (Doesn’t mean you can’t reduce the consumption of species that are capable of feeling pain etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:25 PM
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It doesn’t matter what they “identify” as when they’re sexually aroused by their own sex. a measurable factor. self reported studies about sexuality are pretty much unreliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:56 PM
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mating strategies aren’t supposed to be fair, they’re supposed to be evolutionary advantageous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:32 AM
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But why does this psychological implication bother certain people so much? I don’t get it. The pill is the go-to med for any hormonal or uterus related issue. We’re all adults, most people are going to have sex, why the secrecy Edit: I guess it’s a similar social norm to women being expected to hide their period products for no solid reason at all? The vast majority of women until a certain age are menstruating, there’s nothing to hide there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:08 PM
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certain babies do cry that much (for several months at least). I was a very difficult baby, woke up every 20-30 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:02 PM
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How on earth is helping out comparable to being a full time parent lmao. I was 7 years old and obviously helped my parents with taking care of my sister but would I ever claim that it’s remotely similar to being an actual parent? no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:01 PM
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I don’t understand the issue about taking medication in front of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:56 PM
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I set mine at 7pm. I often forget to take medication during the day or early in the morning because I’m in a hurry. Obviously don’t want to take that risk with birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:53 PM
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I understand the argument regarding sex toys but i don’t think you can compare not being able to cum from penetration to death grip. for most women it will forever be anatomically impossible to orgasm from stimulation of the internal structure of the clitoris because it’s too far away from the vaginal wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:05 PM
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but they aren’t complaining about the overall shape of genitals and it’s attributes. one of the most major aspects when it comes to sexual orientation. pretty big difference. you don’t agree, that’s fine. i still don’t find your arguments convincing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:43 PM
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”looks bizarre and smells weird ”sometimes i wonder if i could make myself gay” those aren’t heterosexual thoughts, it’s really not far fetched at all. I didn’t even say he was gay, he might just be asexual etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:11 PM
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what i say about promiscuous women? well i don’t describe them in degrading ways, pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:51 AM
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no the issue is that these men keep calling them degrading names. i don’t know why you’re denying that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:48 AM
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we’re discussing sexual orientation here. if someone finds >female genitals< unappealing overall it is very unlikely that they are fully heterosexual. of course, people have preferences when it comes to the appearance of a partner’s genitals. a preference for the appearance of a specific type of genital (either male or female sexual anatomy) is different from general attraction to a type of genital.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:46 AM
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No you don’t but primary sexual organs are incredibly relevant to sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:40 AM
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See, if you were 100% heterosexual you wouldn’t be thinking that way about the opposite sex’s genitals
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:56 AM
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No why would I … it’s just uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:50 AM
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You could say that about literally any social convention and yet there are very real consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:13 PM
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having a taller male partner is a status symbol in the same way that having a conventionally beautiful female partner is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:34 PM
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they might be insecure about their social status
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:53 PM
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Many of those people have given birth themselves and no, they definitely do more than that. Even if that’s everything they did, they would still have more experience than you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:34 PM
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Oh I do talk about abortion pretty frequently. But overall there’s not much to discuss because I’ve never met anyone personally who disagreed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:21 PM
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Witnessing four births does not make you a pregnancy expert lol. I think we should trust doctors and midwives on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:17 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone IRL on the pro-choice side arguing for anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:52 PM
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I don’t have a feeling of being safer. I am safer If everyone else is owning a gun as well you are not safer. Guns are weapons made to kill people. They will cause harm. different countries have different cultures america is not vastly different from the rest of the west. I said that violent criminals need to be permanently removed after their 1st offense Maybe I was misunderstanding things, but the violent part wasn’t only referring to gun violence was it? Of course, more physically aggressive …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:25 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:19 PM
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You feel safer if you are allowed to own a gun, however the reality is that you aren’t. I like to see results. I know which methods in countering gun crime are working, as many other countries have already proven. We both agree that repeat offenders are unlikely to be rehabilitated, I’m not even trying to argue about that. The rest however … what you’re suggesting here is highly experimental, i’m not sure if it’s even in accordance with human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:57 PM
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Members of the average population can fall for extremist ideology though. Also, average population referred more to average income No, the hard hitting solution would be banning guns. Mental health treatment is just additional support in countering terrorism or violent crime in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:45 PM
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And where did I argue for the abolishment of prisons or similar institutions? These entities are necessary, just as much as more accessible mental health care for the average population. I made a comparison to germany in my comment above.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:38 PM
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I don’t think I need to mention that in order to decrease violent crime overall the average population also needs better access to mental health programs etc. I do know that american mental health programs actually have better success rates than german ones for example, but therapy etc. is also very expensive and not accessible to everyone. America would be a significantly less violent place if guns were banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:27 PM
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Obviously. And yet we still have to deal with these incidents from time to time. I don’t see why ideology isn’t to blame
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:15 PM
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exactly like - that’s the entire purpose of any kind of gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:10 PM
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americans are fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:01 PM
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I don’t mind being asked questions, I was confused by the phrasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:56 PM
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My opinion is that more deradicalization (including more specialized mental health care) is necessary & the pdf mentioned approaches. What’s up with the hostility
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:49 PM
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It’s a pretty comprehensive .pdf, I don’t understand the issue. There are no “original” thoughts on this topic because so many people have been trying to solve it, with different degrees of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:43 PM
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Soft counter terrorism is effective but obviously not the only solution https://www.ipinst.org/wp-content/uploads/publications/a_new_approach_epub.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:34 PM
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Exactly, I don’t see how we shouldn’t blame the ideology itself though. Banning an ideology is obviously not enough, massive deradicalization efforts are necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:18 PM
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Yes you can certainly ban guns but even countries with hard gun restrictions have had shootings that were inspired by nazi or “incel” ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:09 PM
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Social hierarchies were indeed more rigid in the past but I still wouldn’t compare the profits that the average upper class person made to that of lower class men. Besides all of the injuries, diseases and high death toll that lower class men had to struggle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:26 PM
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I understand wanting to receive flowers lol. The issue with these gendered gestures is that women don’t receive nearly as many social consequences for showing masculine traits
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:19 PM
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I would include WW2. I’m not sure if it really is all wars in the history of humanity. I wouldn’t say that hunter-gatherer societies really had this wealth disparity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:59 PM
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it’s crazy how effective this sort of brainwashing is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:57 PM
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I assume OP was mostly referring to emotional/mental health support. I know a few organization that created soccer clubs for (male) refugees, overall it’s just a great way to support someone’s hobby and for them to make new friendships in a foreign country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:51 PM
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Seriously what’s his issue lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:42 PM
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No, the outcome should be that you receive support from other men in return
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:39 PM
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Most modern wars are literally just old rich men believing that young men are expendable and forcing them to die for their own self interests
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:36 PM
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It’s an illusion that progress is linear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:55 PM
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legitimately just mean girls with traditional values
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:48 PM
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Exactly, and no, I’m definitely not claiming that all incels are potential mass shooters. But to figure out who’s a legitimate threat these specific online communities do need to be under more frequent observation. That method has helped in preventing other extremist attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:51 PM
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I want to add that while it’s true that no other country has such an extreme mass shooting problem, these incel ideology based shootings are also becoming more common in europe. I’ll be real with you, I don’t think we should treat these online groups any differently than extremist islamist online groups. I don’t see why “incels” should receive special treatment. At the end of the day there’s a lot of overlap in their rhetoric and motivation. That’s also part of the reason why Andrew Tate “conver…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:31 PM
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Humans are primates, no matter how much we want to remove ourselves from them. Yes, our last common ancestor with bonobos and chimpanzees lived several million years ago, yet we obviously share a lot of traits with them. A few millions of years is not a lot in evolutionary terms. You can not understand humans without trying to understand other primates, especially apes, as well. Male sexual aggression is not a trait that only appears in homo sapiens. Looking at how other female apes handle this …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:58 PM
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I don’t disagree with that. A support system should include male family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:43 PM
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Sex toys are fine, if they resemble humans too much they give off uncanny valley vibes lol. Masturbating by yourself is a non-issue for most relationships. I always wonder, do men who seriously dislike it when their female partner uses sex toys also dislike her using her fingers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:25 PM
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I would argue that the nuclear family is a central aspect of that dynamic but sure, maybe I used the term wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:25 PM
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I believe it’s possible to achieve both but overall, the influence that a support group can have if you live removed from them is lower. They can’t intervene in the moment if anything happens. The rest is a misinterpretation of my comment. The solitary life style of female orang-utans is exactly what also increases their likelihood of getting sexually assaulted. We need a mixed gender support system overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:20 PM
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As i said, I use the term nuclear family very loosely. It’s about the concept of a man and woman sharing a home alone or with kids. Not in larger groups or even sex segregated groups etc. It’s also not a solitary lifestyle (as seen in orang-utans)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:09 PM
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I know that study and it didn’t specifically mention whether the bisexual and lesbian women experienced that violence in homosexual relationships. “Among women who experienced rape, physical violence and/or stalking in the context of an intimate relationship, the majority of bisexual and heterosexual women (89.5% and 98.7%, respectively) reported only male perpetrators while self-identified lesbians (67.4%) reported having only female perpetrators” Most bisexual women end up being in heterosexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:04 PM
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The issue indeed requires far more nuance & complexity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 12:27 PM
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I disagree with it not being detrimental since male sexual aggression isn’t inherent to the human species, we observe similar behavior in other apes with very different outcomes. Again, that does not mean we should ignore other factors. No, you don’t only need understanding sentiment, that’s true. But that’s exactly why bonobo females physically lash out at misbehaving males as a group. Agree to disagree here, we both agree that mixed support system are overall important.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 12:00 PM
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Humans vastly overestimate how much they differ from other apes, I also wasn’t talking about monkeys I was specifically referring to apes. I don’t see why we should ignore the knowledge that we have received from primatology. I didn’t say that male-female cohabitation was the only factor that causes our high domestic violence rates, I said it factors into it. Social issues amongst humans are of course very, very complex. Because women can relate much easier to other women, especially regarding t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:36 AM
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No, I do not believe that all men have these abusive traits, most men don’t. But a significant amount does & cohabitation simply increases the risks of becoming a victim. I’ll agree with you regarding men needing to support the women in their lives as well, especially family members. I don’t believe that changes anything about the significance of female only support groups. There are so many factors that play into this and yeah, mental health is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:29 AM
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Of course I will compare human behavior to bonobo and chimpanzee behavior, we’re all closely related. And yes, the entire topic of violence against women is far more complex in reality and I would have to write an entire book about it to even explain the basics. Overall I’m trying to say that female support systems are incredibly important to protect yourself against male aggression. I’m obviously not trying to blame any woman that struggles with making friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:21 AM
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The nuclear family is the best way to raise children Did I disagree with that stance in my above comment? I already said it significantly increases success chances of the offspring but at the cost of women having a higher risk of becoming victims of violence. I based my claim on official rape statistics. “Most rape is committed by someone the victim knows. In the United States, the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN) has reported that 45 percent of sexual assaults are committed by an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:10 AM
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I didn’t say that nuclear families always result in domestic violence. I said that the nuclear family aka male-female cohabitation (without strong female only groups) increases the risk for violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:04 AM
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I love that you made so many wrong assumptions about my personal views. I desire to have children, I desire to start a family with my boyfriend some day. Logically I know that this comes with huge risks for myself. I have seen no solid evidence that male-female cohabitation without solid female only groups doesn’t factor into increased violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:02 AM
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the mental health of kids who grew up in homes with domestic violence also isn’t particularly good. but of course, if there aren’t any issues in the parents’ relationship it’s best for the child to be raised by both of their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:31 AM
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primates and their butts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:16 AM
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The nuclear family is one of the factors that increases violence against women. Sexual assault perpetrators are most often a person that the victim already knows, they’re often even intimate partners. On one hand the “nuclear family” (i use that term more loosely) increased the survival and success chances of their offspring, on the other hand it has serious structural disadvantages for women. Looking at other primates, especially those most closely related to us, forced intercourse and domestic…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:09 AM
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That’s adorable. Wishing them the best !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:52 AM
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Hmm possibly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:48 AM
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I’d argue getting (vaginally) penetrated feels very different from penetrating someone. Usually also involves more pain
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:58 PM
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Yes. It is scary. Because men simply have a higher potential for physical violence. That doesn’t just apply to male homo sapiens, that applies to all male apes. Amazing logic there. Contrary to popular belief, I also associate lots of islamist online spaces with the manosphere, it’s just not a culturally christian one. And yet they repeat a very similar rhetoric. Should everyone and the government stop “snooping around” in their online spaces and leave them alone? No. Because they pose a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:39 AM
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Some do discover their actual libido after going off of it, especially if they started taking it during their teenage years. But I’ve also often heard women who were never on birth control saying that they are really horny while menstruating
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You don’t ovulate during your placebo week … like that’s the whole point of taking the pill The bleeding during the placebo week is also technically not an actual menstruation because ovulation did not occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:09 PM
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I’m glad to hear that she’s so tough :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:46 PM
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I really don’t know …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:07 PM
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Well I guess this plays a role https://theconversation.com/amp/child-sex-abuse-survivors-are-five-times-more-likely-to-be-the-victims-of-sexual-assault-later-in-life-142384 For instance, they were five times more likely to have been victims of sexual assault later in life, twice as likely to be victims of physical assault, four times as likely to be threatened with violence and twice as likely to be stalked
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:04 PM
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I’m definitely seeing chasers lol. Lots of young women trying to find their kpop prince
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:45 PM
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Yeah, this has happened in public places, I don’t know why this keeps happening to me … My therapist said that predators often look for a certain type of victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:35 PM
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Yes. But the rape wasn’t committed by a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:12 PM
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unwanted sexual contact (breasts & genitals) and rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:40 PM
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I know that. Doesn’t change anything about me disliking dress codes or american puritanism. Western cultures of course share similarities.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:25 PM
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And yet I’ve been sexually harassed and assaulted more often than being run over by a bus (which happened exactly zero times). It’s funny when men try to lecture us about our own experiences with men as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:15 PM
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Okay, let me make this clear: I dislike the concept of dress codes in american schools in general We didn’t have a dress code at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:15 PM
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Teenagers want to be fashionable. What’s the need for male students to show up with $150-$250 nike shoes? When I was in middle school all the guys would wear their pants baggy. The main focus was of course their underwear. Everyone had to own a pair of Calvin Klein boxers. Will the person’s scholastic performance suffer? No it won’t. Also haven’t met any male student in Germany being bothered by the way girls dress in school during summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:03 PM
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It’s just breasts. I don’t get puritanical american culture
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:37 PM
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What exactly are you whining about? Sexual harassment is frequent and the average male has 70% more upper body strength than the average female. It would be naïve not to be cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:32 PM
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I mean it’s standard to split rent if both are working … not necessarily 50/50 because that depends on each partner’s income I would feel nothing. It’s just plausible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:14 AM
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I don’t understand why you believe this is a race thing. My sister and I are both mixed race, but since she has a darker complexion others only see her as black. It has far more to do with your upbringing, if your parents pushed you towards academic perfectionism etc. These circumstances are more prevalent in the middle class and upper class but that doesn’t make the issue any less serious. Additionally, I might have a different view on this subject because I’m an ex ballet dancer. Most of my fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 10:27 AM
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I don’t know why you made the assumption that my statement implied that being overweight wasn’t prevalent in young women. I just said that anorexia is common amongst young women. You probably don’t interact much with young women. I see it often in highschools and middle schools, especially those girls that are obsessed with perfectionism. The thing about anorexia is that it kills you much faster than extreme obesity. I don’t take a lot of the online body positivity movement seriously. That doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:00 AM
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My sister has an eating disorder and it almost killed her. I will never underestimate how prevalent eating disorders are amongst young women & how much damage they cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:42 AM
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Sex can simply be used as a method of self-harming, similar to cutting yourself. People enjoy the pain etc. but it also leaves psychological damage. Sometimes people don’t even realize they subconsciously seek out methods to self harm. And agreed, that’s definitely not specific to BDSM.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:53 PM
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I don’t believe that’s enough. Again, the damage that you can cause is constantly underestimated. I don’t agree with your last part. It might be a generational difference, but amongst young gen z adults I’m seeing far more people being shamed for being “vanilla” than the other way around. I also don’t see much introspection regarding their interest in BDSM in this particular group.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:31 PM
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I obviously agree with the first part, additionally I believe that the sex partners themselves need to be knowledgeable enough about psychotherapy to even attempt something like this. The damage that you can cause is often underestimated. Yes, it can help some people. But in discussions about coping mechanisms we also need to acknowledge potential risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:56 PM
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I did not argue it was the only cause, my point was that it shouldn’t be disregarded as a contributing factor. In my honest opinion, I do not believe that most people engaging in BDSM as a coping mechanism are well equipped enough to accomplish the desired results. Being into BDSM is one thing, actually being knowledgeable about psychology and psychotherapy is another. The vast majority are amateurs. And yes, if BDSM is used as a coping mechanism it falls under a form of therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:47 PM
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A great deal of people who are into BDSM have a history of abuse. I don’t understand why people turn off their critical thinking skills when it comes to kink. Is it really a healthy coping mechanism? It’s a very controversial topic amongst mental health experts, for good reason. While it might work for some, others are just putting themselves in a constant loop of retraumatization.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:28 PM
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Misogyny is not a kink. It’s simply abuse. One could argue that abusing others can be a fetish for some. I don’t think I need to explain that these behavioral traits are dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:24 PM
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My uterus is cramping
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:00 PM
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Cyanobacteria have accomplished that without intelligence or technology, as well as creating our oxygen rich atmosphere. If our intelligence is responsible for creating a tool that will destroy our own ecosystem, maybe high intelligence isn’t that evolutionary beneficial in the grand scheme of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:38 PM
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Our culture encourages anthropocentrism but I’ve never agreed with that view. Humans are unique in the sense that we’re incredibly intelligent, that just makes us unique, not superior. At the end of the day we’re still animals
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:26 PM
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And many female animals eat their own eggs. What kinda comparison are you trying to make here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:45 AM
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Status simply implies more ressources. Ressources that will improve the life of your offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:48 AM
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These comments are the reason why most bisexuals lie about being heterosexual. Lmfao Fuck women. This is one of the few instances where I can say this with 100% confidence. Hypocrisy at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:45 AM
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This really isn’t a gender thing. The sex itself is a test of compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:17 AM
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Women were always like this. Just look at other female mammals, especially female apes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:43 AM
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Exactly, there’s no sense in complaining about spontaneous desire being common in men either. And yeah, figuring out people’s standard libido takes time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:19 AM
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Buddy, you can complain as much as you want. These sexual behaviors are hard wired into us. (Of course, there are exceptions to every rule) If you desire “masculine” sexual behavior then date men or invest a lot of your time into finding a woman with high libido + spontaneous desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:05 AM
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lack of libido. i know it might be difficult to understand if you’ve never experienced it yourself but if you have a low libido it’s simply not something that your brain immediately/often thinks of. i had to take medication for a while that severely affected my libido and it was quite unusual for me to mostly rely on responsive desire despite the fact that i still enjoyed sex/intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:54 AM
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I think your rant was actually very interesting. Taking the lead and being dominant during sex is different from smacking someone in the face in my honest abuse. That’s where the lines between abuse and intimacy start becoming blurry, even if it might be “consensual”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:01 PM
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Don’t forget the sunshine boy with a dark past
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:43 AM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:59 AM
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We seem to be talking about completely different concepts of flirting. I was referring to active flirting aka holding long eye contact, making dirty jokes, caressing someone etc., especially in relationships I feel like you’re going completely off topic with your comment. At no point did I deny that a) women have lower libidos and tend to have responsive desire and b) that the natural consequence of this is that men tend to be required to take more action What I am saying is that foreplay and fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:21 PM
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We seem to be talking about completely different concepts of flirting. I was referring to active flirting aka holding long eye contact, making dirty jokes, caressing someone etc. I feel like you’re going completely off topic with your comment. At no point did I deny that a) women have lower libidos and tend to have responsive desire and b) that the natural consequence of this is that men tend to be required to take more action What I am saying is that foreplay and flirting (if reciprocated in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:19 PM
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Overall it’s difficult for low libido people to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:31 PM
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Hold on, I thought we were talking about relationships/FWBs. Your partner shouldn’t be completely indifferent to you in general, if that’s the case they’re not into you. I definitely see average women flirting with their partners. I personally don’t want to have sex every single day of the week but I already do build up intimacy/passion multiple times throughout the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:29 PM
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Agreed, intimacy should be mutual
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:10 PM
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Any form of touching and kissing before sex (including flirting and dirty talk)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:09 PM
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That’s just alternative white women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:04 PM
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I’m shocked about the replies there. I heavily disagree with the opinion that exposure therapy of this kind can help with sexual trauma sex work itself is too dangerous for that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:59 PM
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See, I understand this point. Rejection from a romantic partner hurts. But if flirting and foreplay has worked out so far, why see it as a chore? It’s one of the best aspects of intimacy as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:44 PM
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I really don’t understand how flirting and foreplay could ever be seen as a chore If you experience a lot of rejection then sure. But overall it makes intimacy so much more interesting and fun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:40 PM
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Agreed, many don’t like talking over the phone lol Facetiming before meeting for the first time (OLD) makes sense though and most would do it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:47 PM
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Nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:46 PM
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According to the New York Times, a 2011 paper showed that early humans, or hominids, began shifting towards monogamy about 3.5 million years ago—though the species never evolved to be 100% monogamous (remember that earlier statistic).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:49 PM
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The majority of women across the globe are not fat lmao? According to that logic far more women in (industrial) east asian countries would do OnlyFans or a similar service
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:37 AM
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the webtoon app is so amazing. there’s so many legitimately entertaining comics on there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:36 AM
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The sexual behavior of other mammals is relevant to the behavior of humans though Most importantly, the sexual behavior of other primates. It needs to be added that human males produce significantly less sperm than purely polygamous ape/primate species overall though. A pretty good indicator for more monogamous behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:33 AM
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Humans show monogamous behaviors more often than polygamous ones but no, we’re not purely monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:30 AM
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Yes, I’m young that’s why I was talking about men in my age group. I’m certainly not sheltered though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:25 AM
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I’m sure they have more specific numbers about this, the article didn’t dive further into this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:01 AM
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The source that I used didn’t state a number. I know that that was your point, however the conclusion of the article was that sexual selection wasn’t responsible for it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:52 AM
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sexual selection is a mode of natural selection
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:50 AM
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“Prioritize pets over men” … can’t say I’ve ever witnessed that in real life. Most hetero women with pets are in relationships I wouldn’t call people with dark triad traits inherently abusive but it’s only natural to distrust them more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:44 AM
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The gene for missing wisdom teeth appeared 400,000 years ago 125 years are approximately 4-5 generations, that’s simply not enough to show such drastic differences via natural selection In fact, over the last 150 years the average height of people in industrialized nations has increased approximately 10 centimeters (about four inches). We know from studies conducted in industrial England that children born into lower socioeconomic classes were shorter, on average, than children born into wealthy…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:32 AM
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In what way were they acting paranoid?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:07 AM
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Sexual selection doesn’t show such results in a time span of 125 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:55 AM
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Why pets specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:52 AM
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That’s an opinion. In reality lots of Red Pill subs like traditional gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:29 AM
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I thought Red Pill guys on here were all about wanting to be providers I would rather rent my own place at that point instead of paying my long term partner rent who should consider me a part of his family. For a relationship it’s too businesslike, paying for groceries and other expenses would be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:20 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:37 PM
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Even from a biological perspective it’s not fully accurate. Males in actually polygamous primate species produce far more sperm than the males in our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:03 PM
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My social circle has to be incredibly unique then. Which I seriously doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:45 AM
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Yeah, I’ve still only witnessed that in culturally western families
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:38 AM
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That’s such a western mentality lmao, reminds me of parents (with a stable income) making their kids pay rent
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:10 AM
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well, these guys care about whether their partners have some sort of formal training/education, a job without a degree usually isn’t enough. but no, most of these guys don’t particularly care whether she has a high income, just that it’s a stable one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:32 PM
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They are being pressured into it by society and family. Capitalism is one of the main reasons. I don’t know why you’re going on this rant about how men and women are different when my only point was that young men in my generation care about their girlfriend’s ambitions (including financial potential) and education level
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:15 PM
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I was talking about the guys in my generation. Your viewpoint might apply to short term sexual relationships for them but not LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:02 PM
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thank you for some common sense on here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:11 PM
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I’m not american and I don’t particularly care for american history. That is your personal stance on this and that’s fine. Regardless of that, a university degree is a status symbol where I’m from. There are entire dating websites only dedicated to people with uni degrees (elitepartner.de for example) because people do care about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:05 PM
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I have no clue who Gordon Wood is. I guess the average population is stupid then. It’s a very common sentiment here, whether it makes sense is another question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:56 PM
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I’m often hearing this sentiment on here, I guess Germany is overall more elitist in regards to education. A university degree is a status symbol in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:48 PM
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It’s a mix of future financial prospects and education level
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:38 PM
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I will say that most young men in my generation definitely care about whether a woman has a degree or is working on one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:24 PM
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There’s no touching involved so it’s not assault. It can be harassment though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:23 PM
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Many are shallow indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:45 PM
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They do remind me of the most annoying women i’ve met as well! They’re just as stupid and shallow as the type of woman they hate the most
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:54 AM
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gender is a product of sex and culture. it wouldn’t exist without sex but a lot of it is simply socially constructed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:46 AM
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No they’re not bigger. They’re closer to the emergency exit (and usually have surveillance camera) so that women can escape easier if they get sexually assaulted (Whether parking houses are in fact more dangerous than other places is a whole different debate) https://de.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frauenparkplatz That girl in the video was fucking with her Family parking spots are bigger because of baby strollers and everything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:34 AM
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sounds like race traitor rhetoric, i’ll pass
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:14 PM
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Don’t agree with this at all …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:31 AM
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So fear should be our motivator? We should make that decision based on emotion? Lmao I will not ignore evidence and reason because I might be scared about what comes after death
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:24 AM
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cap Dataclysm’s study identified that women tend to find men approximately their own age most desirable, e.g. 21-year-old women found 23-year-old men most attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:12 AM
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That seems very plausible, agreed High emotional intelligence as well though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:32 AM
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I don’t think all highly promiscuous men agree with you there 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:29 AM
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I don’t think those laws are necessarily stupid & teenage boys need to be protected as well Not too familiar with US law, all I’m saying is that it should be illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:22 AM
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Certain parts of this are interesting but it’s also in complete contrast to this evolutionary theory about the self domestication of humans https://www.science.org/content/article/early-humans-domesticated-themselves-new-genetic-evidence-suggests Overall an interesting topic for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:57 PM
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I would guess that the VAST majority of men would also be aghast if the girl they loved raped a guy The comparison here isn’t useful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:45 PM
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Thanks for the clarification!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:17 PM
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Chimerism is a result of Mosaicism
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:28 PM
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I mean, hermaphroditism is a sex. But true hermaphroditism would mean that the individual is capable of assuming both reproductive roles which has never been observed in humans so far, but is theoretically possible in mammals. As mentioned above, you would probably try to categorize them based on (assumed) reproductive role. I guess the case you’re describing here would be considered mosaicism right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:15 PM
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46xx is classified as female gonadal dysgenesis, I was specifically referring to 46XY gonadal dysgenesis Edit: Female/male hypogonadism is the more accurate term
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:33 PM
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Depends on how you view sex: Chromosomally, it’s classified as male gonadal dysgenesis since it’s caused by mutations in the genes responsible for testes development. Genitalia wise these individuals have tissue resembling ovarian tissue and appear otherwise female. Socially you would be seen as female. But this particular type of intersex condition is only possible if you are genetically male Since their anatomy and “assumed” reproductive role would still be most similar to female people I woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:15 PM
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I personally define sex by the production of gametes and the associated reproductive role
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:01 PM
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When has slang or language used by young people ever made “sense” Older women certainly don’t talk that way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:56 PM
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For sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:55 PM
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No we don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:10 AM
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not according to the study he linked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:09 AM
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Again, the majority of younger women is not attracted to significantly older men. Dataclysm's study identified that women tend to find men approximately their own age most desirable, e.g. 21-year-old women found 23-year-old men most attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:05 AM
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You’re acting as if both things can’t be possible at the same time. Besides, younger guys approaching women don’t get perceived as complete creeps by women I feel legit disgust if a man significantly older than me tries to flirt with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:45 AM
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No it’s not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:42 AM
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We didn’t argue for women being attracted to men younger than them. We were saying that the vast majority of women would prefer to date their age mates instead of men with significant age gaps
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:41 AM
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Have you even read my last paragraph?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:40 AM
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So yeah, the vast majority of marriages have a 1-5 years age gap difference
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:31 AM
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What’s the definition of older men here? I personally don’t think marriages with a difference of 1-5 years include “older men”. The majority of women in their early 20s is not attracted to men in their thirties. Overall, women dislike less mature men a lot though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:29 AM
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What about younger women that are disgusted by older men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:09 AM
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Men would do the exist same if they had the ability to get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:28 PM
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I’ve always wondered why erotica novels & softcore romances are so socially accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:39 PM
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It appears that you’re aromantic so I somewhat doubt that you’ll be able to relate to other men who are capable of feeling romantic love
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:57 AM
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I don’t disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:53 PM
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I just love drama
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:51 PM
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oh no who could have predicted this seriously though, did they really expect the barbie movie to not have feminist themes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:48 PM
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It’s spring and I’m falling in love with my hometown again. I couldn’t imagine living anywhere longterm that isn’t close to the sea
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:44 PM
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Some people do … My friends and I travel for sightseeing You really need to be on Influencer level social media presence wise to get flown out lol. That is not the average woman’s experience And even amongst female influencers, that’s not the norm either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:38 PM
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Not at all, I’m bisexual myself. My current bf has also expressed interest in men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:36 PM
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Because these cultures believe that cunnilingus is a submissive and degrading action
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:32 PM
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No I wouldn’t think less of him. If I was dating him I would be somewhat concerned that I wouldn’t be able to fully fulfill his desire because I’m not into strap ons at all. Wouldn’t mind using my fingers though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:30 PM
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the one situation that involves homosexual sex why do you keep asking these questions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:19 PM
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Because he’s attractive. I’m still thinking about him as Oberyn Martell He’s also very hot as Joel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:01 AM
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Share? Maybe. But not in detail. It’s mostly just them asking “Was it good?” and that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:52 AM
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Because he most likely enjoys getting his prostate stimulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:49 AM
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the homosexual sex obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:48 AM
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The relevant factor in all of this is that you’re the person who’s getting penetrated. Sure, she could have mentioned undesirable women with a strap on instead of gay dudes. And not just that, there should also be a risk of pregnancy (for you)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:31 AM
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Natural selection is real guys But yes, treating others with kindness is the least you can do. As long as men don’t interpret this kindness as flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:16 AM
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I mean, most people get to the hospital by themselves, what point are you trying to make There’s also no need for emergency drivers if there aren’t any doctors or nurses
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:10 AM
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No because she did not commit a crime by going to a party. The person who decides to rape someone is 100% responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:25 PM
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I’ve seen such cases a lot too. Certainly interesting examples of social conditioning
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:51 PM
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What about the nurses and doctors in the hospital? The point you’re trying to make doesn’t make sense. Men’s physical strength can be very helpful in a lot of cases. It’s also true that technological advancements have made physical strength less important
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:51 AM
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Interesting because at that age I was definitely taller than my two “boyfriends”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:44 AM
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He sounds like a keeper :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:42 AM
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I disagree with that Redditor but OP stated that the baby is due in May. Going to the hospital 4 times really isn’t unusual at this stage Edit: Its a high risk pregnancy, and two of the times they went there was a legit medical problem (once because she fainted, other she was having early contractions). So he is a huge flaming asshole. What a fucking dumbass. These issues are not to be taken lightly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:18 AM
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I wouldn’t go as far as calling it a fetish but it’s funny how much some guys (and women) try to avoid acknowledging that some of the women they’re attracted to are medically overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:15 AM
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I still don’t understand why so many people on here assume that it’s the amount of sexual partners someone had, that is the determining factor which decides whether someone is interested or the type for long term relationships and not simply … their personality. people who are less interested in long term relationships are also more likely to have had lots of changing sexual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:58 AM
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Option A isn’t my type personality wise and B would be fine for a hookup. Nothing more than that though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:05 PM
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why would i need to look at my own ass that i’ve already seen a million times before
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:27 AM
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It makes me feel uneasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:25 AM
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Neither of them sound like my type
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:23 AM
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He can try if he wants to, but the fact that she wants to split if the date went well doesn’t mean that she necessarily sees him as a friend lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:04 PM
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Some of us are university students, chill
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:48 PM
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Not enough for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:36 PM
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I can’t know if i’m sexually compatible with a person unless i’ve had sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:29 PM
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Why would I waste my time with someone I’m not sexually compatible with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:21 PM
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I can understand social media but pets and travel? So what does the adventure and change stimulate in women? Human brains fucking hate boredom. Women just want to go on an adventure and experience new things You could argue that the combination with social media could be attention seeking behavior, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:20 PM
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Many American women have made traumatizing experiences with men. Guys on PPD constantly underestimate just how common it is. Yeah, I believe they were homophobic for no logical reason. Heterosexual men are just as likely to be pedophiliac. I’m not telling you to be understanding towards these women. I’m saying that these women don’t want to have anything to do with men like you & you clearly don’t like them either. For these women, the outcome couldn’t be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:28 AM
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homophobia and transphobia are legitimate misnomers. homo- and transagression are more accurate. these people haven’t been traumatized by gay or trans people, they simply hate them. it’s not an actual phobia. i was assuming you weren’t talking about misandry but about legit androphobia, a fear of men caused by traumatizing experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:10 AM
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The fact that these people give you an ick is not an issue. It’s honestly the perfect outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:06 AM
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Your account already tells me enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:03 AM
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That’s a good thing then. I’m sure they don’t want to interact with guys like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:04 AM
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Because this woman clearly has psychological problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:56 AM
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And they close their eyes a lot too. They are much more focused on the pleasure itself than admiring the male body True. Most women would agree that visual stimuli don’t turn them on as much as men. Personally I’m much more focused on someone’s voice and moaning. Closing my eyes is also simply a reflex to intense pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:47 PM
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gay men are men. visual stimuli turn them on more
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:40 PM
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I’m an introvert, I’m fine with low attention. I have a high libido though Edit: I would also leave a loving relationship if it turns into a forever dead bedroom situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:58 PM
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Interesting insight. Very different from my personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:56 PM
1

I definitely wouldn’t choose attention lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:53 PM
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I don’t find attention itself better than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:52 PM
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of course not. they are jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:41 PM
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“A woman who gets constant attention and no sex will also be satisfied” Unless her libido is non existent or she’s completely asexual, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:38 PM
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Lilo & Stitch Moana Treasure Planet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:58 PM
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You can’t lol Unless he’s super religious and wants to get married straight away
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:55 PM
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The “g spot” is just the internal structure of the clitoris. So a) the men’s penis size is relevant to stimulate it but also b) the internal part of the clit needs to be close enough to the vaginal wall to get stimulated in the first place. For most women a vaginal orgasm just isn’t anatomically possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:21 PM
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Nah, I see men complaining about regular sized dildos all the time Twitter has some weird discourse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:14 PM
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y’all would also say that dildos make her loose so who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:45 AM
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Sounds like he’s depressed or sad. I also tend to isolate myself when I’m feeling really down so I get it. It’s fine if it’s a once in a while thing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:06 AM
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my great grandmother was forced to marry at 12
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:46 PM
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art critics usually don’t study the subject though. i’m pretty sure that writing classes are part of the program for most english majors
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:44 PM
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I dislike people who are inconsistent with their views
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:16 PM
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The facts and science you made up in your head, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:19 PM
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Yeah, obviously. We often also describe hobbies as obsessions, it’s an over exaggeration. To phrase it better: Redpillers care a lot about dating strategies. Why do you keep asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:12 PM
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This is why I love PPD. Completely insane takes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:03 PM
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You just gotta wait a few more years for your AI waifu, I bet they don’t fart
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:28 PM
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Hmm I see your point to a certain degree. Overall I still believe it’s dangerous not to collect data at all, obviously it would be better if the police wasn’t involved. I’ll go do some research to figure out if there’s a way to better collect data
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:14 PM
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It really isn’t a common saying where I’m from, thanks for the link tho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:10 PM
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This analogy sounds so funny to a non native speaker lol I have no clue what that’s supposed to mean
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:51 PM
1

Well you can’t stop yourself from farting while asleep
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:47 PM
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cool as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:43 PM
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It should definitely be a crime. Consent to sex isn’t consent to actual reproduction. In the case of the pill specifically it would be really hard to prove though, I’m interested to see how that could be solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:35 PM
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“I very much doubt that, though I admit I do not know either way” Knowing european politics and law, they simply don’t want to attract more refugees. If it was that easy, that would be one hell of a loop hole. “This is the only relevant reference and it’s pretty thin” …? Okay, so the state police claimed that back in 2015 (I still don’t know whether this is correct because I haven’t seen a source) but now the Australian Federal Police is claiming something else. I would argue that efforts to sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:08 PM
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The fact that they identify with the red pill Like, on youtube, twitter and instagram And no, redpillers aren’t the only ones that complain about women. redpillers are just particularly obsessed with the dating world
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:32 PM
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Because they speak German and quite literally complain about “german women” They could technically be German speakers from Austria, Switzerland or Luxemburg, sure, but they talk about their experience of living in Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:09 PM
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“I am thoroughly familiar with the differences”. My comment stated that legalization increases sex trafficking. You replied that this is false and that decriminalization creates “zero” victims. Again, these are two different concepts. “You don’t think that creates huge incentives for making false claims of being a trafficking victim?” Possibly, although I do assume that you need to win a legal case in order to win residency. Honestly, if it was that easy, false claims would be much higher. Espec…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:06 PM
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Decriminalization and Legalization are different concepts, do not confuse them. https://decriminalizesex.work/why-decriminalization/briefing-papers/decriminalization-is-the-only-solution/ “Countries with legalized prostitution are associated with higher human trafficking inflows than countries where prostitution is prohibited. The scale effect of legalizing prostitution, i.e. expansion of the market, outweighs the substitution effect, where legal sex workers are favored over illegal workers. On …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:38 PM
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It’s been completely legal since 2002. According to german redpillers women have become more and more selective though 🤷🏽‍♀️ They complain just as much as american redpillers. We can simply compare the situation to US states where prostitution is illegal. The situation remains the same, modern dating is modern dating. In my opinion it’s far easier to hide sex trafficking under the umbrella of legality, since brothels etc. aren’t being controlled as much. “The scale effect of legalized prostituti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:59 AM
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That only applies to scandinavian countries and france. Here in Germany it’s entirely legal and it hasn’t changed anything about dating It did increase human trafficking rates though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:25 AM
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the average korean woman is not a feminist … being childfree for financial reasons is different from being inspired by ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:23 AM
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this is so laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:58 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:56 AM
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“known feminist hellhole” You really have no clue about korean politics do you south korea is simply a capitalist hell hole with extreme beauty standards that even affect men because the industry wants to make $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:54 AM
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Deliberately picking drunk instathots for your podcast is very different from having a drink or two in your life And again, using social media is far away from being an actual influencer “Most adult men had sex, so it makes sense to compare them to prostitutes or porn stars” Like let’s not act dense here, he’s trying to paint a very specific picture
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:25 AM
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Most women are neither instathots nor drunk most of the time. Being an insta influencer is far away from simply having downloaded the app
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:43 AM
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Legal Prostitution in lots of european countries has changed almost nothing in regards to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:35 AM
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It’s not an insatiable desire for most women, no, but most are jealous about the physical strength that the average man possesses. At the end of the day it all comes down to sex differences. Nothing we can change
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:21 AM
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Maternity leave in the traditional sense (six weeks before birth and eight weeks afterwards) is paid by the employer. Everything afterwards is state funded
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:52 PM
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“They probably won’t have any children” is definitely incorrect. Most women here end up becoming mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:39 PM
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Most do want to have kids, they just dont want more than 1 to 2 children
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:33 PM
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“Each parent can take up to three years of parental leave per child. In the case of the mother, however, this three-years-long parental leave includes the legally prescribed, six-weeks-long after-birth maternity leave during which the mother has to stay home” And yeah, it does reset as far as I know https://handbookgermany.de/en/parental-leave Usually it’s 65% of your net income, although there are different levels of paid parental leave https://familienportal.de/familienportal/meta/languages/fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:26 PM
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Here in Germany it’s up to 3 years (parental leave in general)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:57 PM
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I’m definitely seeing far more criticism of polyamory than FWB situations
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:52 PM
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Thankfully I’m not a guy, I don’t care about women being younger or tighter than me lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:14 PM
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balanced as all things should be
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:05 PM
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It’s a good analogy, I don’t see the issue here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:07 PM
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True, I’ve noticed that too but I’m not as interested in tattoos since they don’t glitter/shimmer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:13 PM
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I do have a nice belly, but I generally have to disagree with you here. I love jewelry in the form of earrings and naval piercings and can’t say I’ve ever disliked it on anyone Obviously that’s subjective taste
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:17 PM
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Not really a tattoo kinda person, I just really like jewelry haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:59 PM
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Yeah, I really need to pay attention in that case Thanks for the advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:35 AM
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yes 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:34 AM
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I’ve been considering getting a belly piercing but I’m scared the piercing will get rejected and it will leave a scar hmm …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:13 AM
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True, mixed race women aren’t affected by drake’s popularity. That media affects public perception is nothing new, my question is why drake specifically has so much influence on the perception of mixed race men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:28 AM
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How did he become the representative of the mixed race community in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:17 AM
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Thanks for mentioning that, that’s good to know. The previous source that you linked also mentions “The researchers note that all of these goals are apparently congruent with female copulatory vocalizations in non-human primates.” http://clok.uclan.ac.uk/1171/1/1171_brewer_Vocalization_acceptedversion.point So, facilitation of sperm competition is still a relevant factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:58 AM
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It really has very little value, it’s just personal entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:40 AM
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This guy doesn’t care about evidence or science lmao. I would love to invite him to a discussion with my evolutionary biology professor
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:03 AM
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Which doesn’t necessarily contradict my point either, copulatory vocalizations can serve multiple purposes http://researchonline.ljmu.ac.uk/id/eprint/3210/3/Pradhan%20et%20al..pdf “On one hand, researchers have noted some apparently communicative patterns in women’s copulatory vocalizations that suggest some parallels with those of other primates (including an invitation to sperm competition, given that female sexual vocalizations, like those of other primates, serve as "copulation calls" notice…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:38 AM
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[ Furthermore, if ancestral women had never engaged in short-term mating, men could not have evolved the powerful desire for sexual variety (Smith, 1984). That desire, if mating were consensual rather than forced, required the existence of some willing women some of the time. An important fact has been missing or downplayed in theoretical accounts of human sexual strategies. Women's non-monogamous mating is the hidden side of women's sexuality.] [The first is physiological evidence of a history …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:32 AM
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Bro, you do not know more about this subject than actual professionals. You can keep repeating your standpoint, that doesn’t make it more correct. Have you read the source that I linked you? To summarize: Short term mating does have benefits for females. Men are still more likely to follow this strategy, still doesn’t mean that it’s an unsuccessful strategy for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:18 AM
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It has everything to do with genetic variety of your offspring which can be a result of sexual variety. Exactly because women can only birth one child (in some cases more) sexual variety and healthy sperm quality becomes such an important factor for mating strategy Biologists and Anthropologists agree that short term mating has benefits for females, which is why it also occurs quite often in our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:10 AM
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Her vocalizations turn on the other males, if she ends up having sex with them she’s making their sperm compete and the likelihood of getting pregnant with the healthiest sperm increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:03 AM
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The only thing this article shows is that women use sexual vocalizations to make men orgasm faster, which really doesn’t contradict my point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:02 AM
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The biological feature is called pregnancy. Women have a higher parental investment, reproduction is a far bigger risk for them. So getting pregnant with the best sperm possible is an important mating strategy, amongst others. Human egg cells can essentially choose sperm. Immune systems also can reject fetuses after conception and kill them, which most often happens if the parents genes weren’t compatible. Sexual variety increases the likelihood of getting pregnant with more compatible/healthier…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:00 AM
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As I have mentioned before, short term mating is more likely to occur amongst males who have a lower parental investment. That does not mean however, that short term mating is not a successful mating strategy for females Most obvious issue: Women can’t fully determine the quality of their partner’s sperm so committing to a single person is a potential risk for her offspring https://labs.la.utexas.edu/buss/files/2015/09/womens-sexual-strategies-PAID-2000.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:50 PM
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sexual variety IS a mating strategy, you just seem to lack understanding of the topic I use mating strategy in it’s biological sense. When I say “female mating strategy” I’m not specifically referring to human dating and vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:33 PM
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Yeah and I’ve been explaining to you why that theory of yours about female mating strategies is scientifically inaccurate. You could argue that men are more likely to use sexual variety as a mating strategy, sure, but to claim that women aren’t “designed” for sexual variety is plain wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:30 PM
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It’s far more complex than that and the behavior i’m describing is also observable in other hominid females. One of the big questions of hominid evolution is: Why are female hominids vocal during intercourse? Research has shown that it does attract other males. Beneficial for her, making their sperm compete. Edit: Also, Pregnancy is too much of an Investment to seek sexual variety before getting pregnant? Doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:21 PM
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Dating and Vetting is not enough to determine the quality of his sperm. You’re completely ignoring the genetic aspect of reproduction. My comment about fertility decreasing was an addition to your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:18 PM
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A woman will not be able to tell what his genotype looks like simply from his appearance, there’s always a high possibility that a man carries a predisposition for genetic diseases/mutations. Making sperm compete is the best way to eradicate or minimize this risk. And no, I haven’t claimed that semen runs out. I have simply pointed out that male fertility also significantly decreases with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:11 PM
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based on evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:08 PM
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The limit is actually not important regarding sexual variety as a mating strategy, what’s important is that she gets pregnant with the best sperm possible. And she can achieve that by having sex with a variety of men and essentially making their sperm compete. Sexual variety is a very successful strategy for female hominids, otherwise it would not be so common. Male fertility rate decreases by 52% in their early to mid thirties. While men technically do continue to produce sperm, their sperm qua…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:00 PM
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Because sexual variety is a successful mating strategy amongst female and male hominids. Sexual variety gives her access to a more diverse gene pool for her potential offspring
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:48 PM
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Funny that you’re saying that, I most often notice it with shoe sizes. Probably related to the same factors that also contribute to them starting earlier with puberty/menstruation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:56 PM
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Dude you’ve gotta become her mortal enemy in a fantasy realm first, that’s where the enemies-to-lovers trope really blew up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:39 PM
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Sounds like PMDD https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/premenstrual-dysphoric-disorder-pmdd
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:59 PM
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I consider my best friends my sisters so uh no, I don’t want to have that kind of friendship with him. But yeah, a deep friendship is necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:32 AM
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Have fun then, no one’s stopping you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:27 AM
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I don’t choose which sex sexually arouses me. I don’t choose who my heart falls in love with. It’s not about who you choose to date. It’s quite literally about how your brain and body react to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:11 AM
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Okay, try yemen then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:06 AM
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Which ones for example
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:59 AM
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Then immigrate into North Korea and tell us about your experience
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:49 AM
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A new Star Wars show on Disney+, didn’t expect it to like it as much as I did. Definitely a more mature approach to the universe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:46 AM
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They’re all terrible people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:34 AM
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Andor was so good though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:33 AM
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That’s so difficult because like 99% of celebrities are good looking? I would say guys who are a bit above average looking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:51 AM
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One thing that these discussions often ignore is how important natural body odor actually is to women. Like even if you’re just flirting, it’s something that we subconsciously pay attention to. The reason is that women are checking if their immune systems are compatible with their own
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:43 AM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:35 AM
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It’s true, I’m a womanizer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:14 PM
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My personal experience doesn’t match tbh but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 10:06 PM
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Why are you guys immediately thinking of Dubai? That’s certainly not a common travel destination amongst young women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:04 PM
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As long as you don’t approach a woman late at night while she’s alone, it’s fine. Just understand to leave her alone if she isn’t interested
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:36 PM
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That’s your preference and that’s fine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:33 PM
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I wouldn’t be having sex with the regular guy if i wasn’t attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:23 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever encountered someone with a triple digit body count, I seriously don’t believe such outliers are relevant to the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:22 PM
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I believe it’s disingenuous to imply that the change of marital rape laws had no effect. Do you have evidence that women were protected and respected? If you look at modern day traditional societies, husbands can openly talk about raping their wives and her family isn’t necessarily inclined to protect her since it’s her “wifely duty” to have sex with him whenever he wants. Heavily traditional sub cultures also exist in the US. Just look at any religious community. How often do women of these com…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:18 PM
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Traditional cultures have even more rape cases, not to mention the fact that marital rape was still legal when traditional values were mainstream. Most rape victims get raped by friends and family. “Protective male family members” aren’t the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:16 PM
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Hm, looking at my dating history none of the men have ever been below average so probably no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:55 PM
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Culture gets defined as “the ideas, customs and social behavior of a particular people […]”. Certain ideologies do help with perpetrators convincing themselves that rape is justified. If those men would do it regardless of social circumstances then they should be locked up for life and not just a few years Therapy would also be useless. Jail forever If your hypothesis is correct, then the western criminal system ends up not protecting victims enough and contributing to the rape crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:52 PM
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I’m honestly not sure how this metric works, does 4/10 mean I’m still sexually attracted to him? If not, then no. I wouldn’t have anything with either of them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:48 PM
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But actual rape victims do use the term rape culture
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:40 PM
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Looks alone are boring, wouldn’t even be enough for a ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:36 PM
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I see your point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:29 PM
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I do agree that applies to a certain extent but then again, if she hasn’t had sex for even the past few months then N-count (only including men) really doesn’t have much informative value A more accurate question would be “How many men did you sleep with the past month?”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:14 PM
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More for me 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:01 PM
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Wasn’t supposed to be a brag, just wanted to share some anecdotal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:45 PM
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What about those girls that don’t fit stereotypes 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:40 PM
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It’s true. Guys don’t give two shits about how many girls I’ve slept with, they care about the amount of men though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:38 PM
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I like girls with experience and I find the guys on this subreddit hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:23 PM
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Most heterosexual women dislike bisexual men, I don’t see how your experience is supposed to be universal You can certainly attract those that have a fetish for it I’m glad you’re staying far away from such women though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:58 PM
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I can tell that you’ve never spend any significant time in a non western country
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:30 PM
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Yes I absolutely can fault them for trying. You’re trying really hard to change my mind about this but it doesn’t change anything about the fact that I find older men who approach younger women disgusting as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:30 PM
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And I found those members of the opposite sex gross. Shit is also natural, doesn’t change anything about the fact that I find it disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:13 PM
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It’s up to each couple to set their own boundaries but I think they’re both insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:36 PM
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Hopefully
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:02 PM
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They’re always trying so hard to defend this it’s so funny. I don’t care what kinda evopsych explanation you try to come up with this time, I still think it’s gross lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:01 PM
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Disgust. I might be 22 but I still look like a 16 year old and often have older men flirting with me. It‘s gross
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:57 PM
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I would argue that problem solving skills are the most obvious benefit of intelligence being philosophically smart is comparable to traits like being funny, it simply makes a person more interesting and entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:09 AM
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hm i don’t see how women being interested in smart/educated men is not part of red pill rhetoric though? like these are traits with obvious benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:47 AM
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smart and rich don’t imply the same thing. a lot of wealth is inherited personally i see it as women being interested in men who are good at problem solving, which is a clear benefit in a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:43 AM
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Wasn’t your point just now that a man created pokemon? lmao pokemon is overall more popular amongst men Women? No it’s just me. I’m a child at heart and I don’t deny it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:44 PM
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Only thing I’m truly thankful for
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:41 PM
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I’ll become the best Pokémon trainer you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:39 PM
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Okay? As if I don’t already have male family members
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:36 PM
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Hm my grandmothers don’t have different views tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:33 PM
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You’re so obsessed with the term slut it’s funny No, I don’t think that hooking up with guys all the time has become the norm in any western country since slut shaming is still very present Dudes just care less about women being virgins or not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:05 PM
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Yes, it has made me dislike men as a social group more
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:52 PM
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Again, sexual shame severely affects relationships on top of everything else going on. (menopause, midlife crisis etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:49 PM
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You’re severely underestimating how much more sexual frustration purity culture causes but that’s okay No one is stopping you from finding a virgin if you’re so bothered by past sexual experiences, not everyone participates in hookup culture etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:31 PM
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I mean sure but people also take Plan B when other methods of contraception failed. Something as simple as diarrhea or antibiotics affect regular birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:52 PM
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Split the costs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:49 PM
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Happens a lot in religious communities
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:58 AM
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Parental love can be unconditional (although it can be toxic in certain circumstances) but that doesn‘t apply to romantic love, why should it? Also most people do still have feelings of love left for their cheating partner but they’re so hurt by their action that they won’t forgive them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:55 AM
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It’s ‘schlampe’ lmao Yes exactly, it’s a cultural difference, they aren’t as obsessed with the idea of a woman being a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:39 AM
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I don’t see how that’s related to my comment It depends on the culture, I don’t see german men caring about someone’s virginity unless they are virgins themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:00 AM
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If you enjoy being sexually frustrated sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:36 PM
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Muslim women are allowed to get divorced but I’m not sure how each muslim country handles things in the divorce court. The issue is that your argumentation is really only based on materalistic things and things like loyalty and commitment get ignored. I would argue that a romantic relationship is about more than financial resources, many men on here don’t like being treated as ATMs either. In the end the virgin still gets fucked over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:56 PM
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And my point is that the virgin still gets fucked over
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:41 PM
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And yet they betrayed her and cheated on her. No loyalty to be found. They valued her more? They have no respect for her either. If you have these dating (marriage) standards you should also be able to meet your partner’s standards. Instead of valueing the monogamous intimacy with their future wife they preferred to have sex with their side chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:19 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:09 PM
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… I haven’t read that article dude, the authors that I have read used it in a different context. No need to be so overly aggressive. The definition that I have seen commonly used is that rape culture defines social milieus where sexual violence is tolerated
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:00 PM
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I’m not being dishonest, it just seems like we have encountered this term being used in very different contexts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:56 PM
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I have seen that term being used in academic literature and none of these authors have used it the way that you are describing here. Yes, the behavior is criminalized by mainstream culture and encouraged by certain subcultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:54 PM
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If you complain about sexism against women you should not try to uphold traditional gender roles. That’s hypocrisy. Focus on being self reliant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:50 PM
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I have never argued that rape culture is currently determining mainstream culture, although it hasn’t been that long since marital rape has been outlawed. And no, it’s not just convicted criminals that contribute to rape culture. You can disagree with the term, but for many people it serves as a good descriptor to define certain social phenomenons
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:45 PM
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So in the end it’s still culture. Culture is defined as the ideas, customs and social behavior of a group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:31 PM
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Subcultures exist, they don’t necessarily cooperate with the law
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:26 PM
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certain aspects of a culture can be criminal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:23 PM
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Traditional values à la slutshaming directly correlate with sexual shame and things like religious trauma regarding sex which has an effect on women’s libidos https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/201708/overcoming-religious-sexual-shame?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:15 PM
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I don’t believe that longterm monogamy is for everyone, it’s culturally enforced. some people simply struggle with it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:45 PM
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People who are into regular hookups will potentially struggle with long term monogamous relationships because this lifestyle simply doesn’t fit their personality, not because previous hookups made them unable to commit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:58 PM
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Purity culture will highly increase the chances that you’ll end up in a dead bedroom situation. And only because you’re courting a virgin girl doesn’t mean that she’ll accept your advances. additionally, the average man doesn’t want to wait till marriage for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:35 AM
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Surely, nights are cold even in warm regions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:36 PM
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It’s funny that you’re naming psychology because that’s one of the most in demand jobs in certain european countries, they make a lot of money
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:35 PM
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Ah yeah, not the changing climate after migrating out of africa or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:33 PM
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Men also get stretch marks from growth spurts, gaining weight or muscle mass etc. Are we all supposed to walk around naked
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:36 PM
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I mean that should get improved in general
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:25 PM
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She is pretty bad ass haha She wasn’t allowed to do an apprenticeship, her parents were preparing her for the life of a housewife but her dream has always been becoming a seamstress. So with the help of her brothers she managed to get her certification And only because of that my turkish family was able to immigrate to Germany
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:18 AM
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Hmm you do you, I can’t imagine many female lovers liking that though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:37 AM
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Yeah I’ve never understood why they don’t have better options for men to sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:36 AM
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She had already been dating my granddad in secret for a while and was madly in love, her brothers knew about their relationship and were helping her covering it up lol. Arranged (more like forced) marriages were very common and her parents had already decided on a partner for her and I assume the conversation escalated quite a bit until she started saying she’d jump off of the balcony My grandma has always been very strong willed lol Shortly afterwards my granddad asked her parents for permissio…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:50 AM
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I would also immediately quit a job if my boss asked me this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:22 PM
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Love marriages just weren’t the norm until modern days, that’s nothing new. But both of my grandmothers had luck. My maternal turkish grandmother was almost forced into an arranged marriage but then she threatened to kill herself and got her then boyfriend (my grandpa) to ask her parents for her hand in marriage. My paternal german grandma married my west african granddad. She’s always been a bit of a hippie and free thinker, it wasn’t necessity or social pressure that made her date him Neither …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:36 PM
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If Plan B and pull out etc. is your go to method of contraceptives then it’s not just gonna be one time Seriously, Plan B fucks so much with your body I don’t wanna take it ever again. Also, it only delays ovulation I would love to get a copper IUD but doctors don’t recommend it if you already have to deal with intense cramps
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:22 PM
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Plan B? Those are hormone bombs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:02 PM
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The real question is why are you so bothered by people wanting to discuss their feelings lol? And clearly it’s not a male vs female attitude here because it’s men themselves leading these discussions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:34 PM
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That’s a you issue. Doesn’t mean that others should stop talking about these topics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:12 PM
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There’s something called empathy and I thought this subreddit would care about men’s feelings I don’t see how a society is supposed to be more peaceful and productive if many end up insecure & frustrated Edit: I also haven’t argued that dick size doesn’t matter. I was initially criticizing the obsession with big dicks in pornography. Personally, they’re just painful to me. It’s not fun. Average is average for a reason, because that’s what most women were going for
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:03 PM
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Huh? At what point did I argue that porn should get banned/no one should watch porn because it mostly portrays big dicks? My point was that many men have admitted that it makes them feel insecure and it’s a discussion worth having Sure, they would have found out they’re not big one way or another but modern pornography often implies that only big dicks are capable of sexually satisfying women etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:53 PM
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I don’t know their penis size but even if they did, that shows that porn does contribute to their insecurity Just because you have never heard of this outside of anti porn groups doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:49 PM
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Pornstars do have big dicks lol what are you talking about? I’ve heard several men in real life say that pornography made them feel insecure about their size, subreddits like smalldickproblems & averagedickproblems also frequently discuss it The rest I agree with (although it’s not just promiscuous women). People are being taught that violent sex is the ‘only’ correct way to have sex etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:38 PM
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Would love to hear about this from a male perspective, I think penis size is an obvious one but what else?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:51 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:39 PM
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I’m not sure if porn specifically is the reason for that though, but yes, sex repressed societies do have higher rape rates
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:32 PM
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It’s individual and yet there are observable sex differences. Women simply have a menstrual cycle which results in our libido fluctuating a lot more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:21 PM
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Porn is often also a motivator for rape though … Many Perpetrators have named it as their inspiration. I personally think the issue is far more complex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:12 PM
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Sand worms perhaps? I’m so excited for the upcoming movie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:03 AM
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Oh that would be fun, I just don’t know when I’ll get to it because I have such a long reading list by now lol I haven’t ventured into graphic novels yet, I was really into manga and webtoons when I was younger though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:02 AM
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I’ve read Leviathan wakes and I’m very excited to check out the rest of the series! Generally I prefer shorter series because it feels like such a commitment to read anything that’s longer than a trilogy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:56 AM
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Okay you’ve got me hooked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:49 AM
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Interesting I didn’t know that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:47 AM
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Oh I’ve heard a lot about severance and I’ve been meaning to check out Neil Gaiman’s catalogue as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:47 AM
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That sounds exactly like the kinda book I can’t put down, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:46 AM
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Any Fantasy/Science Fiction readers here? Please share some of your favorite books
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:32 AM
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Mhh I’m bisexual and I really don’t care either way, men or women What’s somewhat important to me is that someone has experience or at least basic knowledge but that doesn’t require a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:22 AM
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I was referring to western beauty standards. I’m mixed race so I’ve had to deal with other issues than white women for example Hair is a big one. My hair type is 4a and as a woman in the west, I’ve always felt the pressure to have long, flowing hair. However my natural hair is very big and puffy. I wear braids most of the time (for practical reasons as well) but the physical pain to get my hair done & the time investment is certainly not something I enjoy Also … faking attractiveness? To me it s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:05 PM
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Well, there are more differences than just reproductive organs. Muscle Mass, Fat ressources, Bone density etc. I don’t enjoy having to keep up with female beauty standards in western society. It’s something that was forced onto me. If you don’t shave your legs you will get ridiculed and bullied, if you’re an adult woman you will get taken more seriously if you wear make up. But yeah, Femininity is a performance. Sex isn’t, but gender in general is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:33 PM
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Now that’s a new one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:35 AM
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Well someone has personal issues with me. You’re free to disagree, I’m not stopping you. The article I read was about the Mosuo people https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2022.873137/full We were discussing made up ancient societies and social structures we’d like to see, I don’t know what exactly your issue with my comment was.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:48 PM
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Now you’re just being dishonest. If you were not displaying your personal opinion nor scientific fact, what were you actually talking about? Whose opinion is it then? Do they have evidence? Ah yeah. Racism kinks are also totally not rooted in racism. Thats absolutely how critical thinking works. Of course kink has nothing to do with the real world and personal experiences etc. Thank you at the very least for this incredibly screenshot worthy discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:15 PM
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Again, your personal opinion is not evidence. Someone who actively participates in Misogyny claims that women do not face discrimination. Not a fallacy. That’s what makes this entire discussion so incredibly funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:00 PM
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Your issue is that you keep confusing your own personal opinion with fact. If you do follow the “correct train of logic” why haven’t you been able to provide evidence? You have laid out your reasoning several times, that doesn’t mean that your opinion was correct. You need evidence to support it. And no, a direct ethotic is not necessarily a fallacy. My observation had everything to do with our initial discussion. But obviously, I’m continuing to reply to you for my own entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:49 PM
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Amazing analysis skills. It was supposed to be an argumentum ad hominem. More specifically, direct ethotic. I’m still waiting for evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:17 PM
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Evidence shows how rational your views are. Which you have failed to provide. Your specific kinks show exactly what you think about women. And you publicly participate in misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:28 PM
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Lord Byron received benefits from patriarchal structures like every other man. I’m against western imperialism and yet I benefit from and have to participate in the system. I do believe it’s peak entertainment that a reddit user who’s active in subreddits like r/MisogynisticLife and several rape fantasy subreddits wants to tell me that women do not face discrimination. Please entertain me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:18 PM
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Spoken like a true conspiracy theorist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:42 AM
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Conspiracy theorist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:31 AM
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… Your last comment really reveals that you do not understand how misogyny works. Patriarchy didn’t establish itself because these men hated women. No, it was simply beneficial for these men to subdue women. The hatred and sexism was just the justification that came afterwards. The general consensus of scientists is closer to the truth than the individual opinion of any non expert. I’m still waiting for evidence by the way. Also sounds like you’re prescribing to conspiracy theories and I serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:23 AM
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I’m not talking about gender studies. I was referring to anthropologists, historians and sociologists. “Timeless truths” Yeah lol where’s the evidence. If it’s a timeless truth there should be many academic sources validating your claim about women not being harmed due to patriarchal structures
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:09 AM
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How can you seperate leadership from power? That in itself is disingenuous. At no point did I claim that all of the issues that women face are a result of sexism. That is an assumption that you made. I’m saying that the patriarchy has caused issues for women. Experts in this field agree that patriarchal structures harm women and since you deny it, I urge you to show me evidence (academic sources of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:55 AM
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Patriarchal social structures exist to maintain the power of men. Extremely patriarchal societies are still around. Should we ask women from these societies what the general perception of women in their cultural circle is? Yes, they might not even realize that their treatment is unjust because they have been indoctrinated with propaganda, they’ve already started to believe that women are “lesser human beings”. Do you really want to tell me that the treatment of iranian women is for the good of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:31 AM
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No … it’s just that women were discriminated against in patriarchal societies and seen as “less valuable”, “less of a human being”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:33 AM
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I thought we were talking about “ancient” societies and that’s why I brought these social structures up as an example. I’m not an anthropologist so I won’t claim that taking care of your nephews and nieces is the reason why they haven’t established larger civilizations
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:23 AM
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I don’t believe that everyone with sexual history is having boring sex lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:15 AM
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