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The issue isn't that you are hiding you want to have sex. The issue is that its all you want, and the tendency for men in these kinds of groups to be angry when a women wont give it to you I would have to disagree with this. Every time I have been in one of these relationships, I have wanted a full on, long-term sexual and romantic relationship with the woman. That's also the experience of most guys I know. What's your basis for believing that guys in these types of relationships want only sex? …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/19 08:41 PM
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"book/street smart" = insufferable know-it-all. "2 masters" = a ton of student loan debt for worthless degrees in feminist dance therapy "fan of old school dating" = I expect men to fulfill all their traditional masculine obligations without expecting anything in return Her profile combined with her picture are so unappealing that I really want to believe it's a joke profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/19 07:58 PM
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The question IS the ulterior motive of the woman. This is something I agree with wholeheartedly. Not always, but usually in these situations the woman allows the "nice guy" to think he has a chance with her so that she can use him for validation, attention, and favors. Even though she knows perfectly well that he has no chance at all. She takes advantage of the fact that there is a social norm against men bluntly and openly expressing sexual interest in women in order to leave things ambiguous w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/19 07:43 PM
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But really, if the woman found you attractive in the first place, either strategy would work. The "you don't know me"/"ulterior motives" is just an excuse they use to give to themselves permission to be picky (or outright use such men for resources and favors) and maintain social image I basically agree, but I think what's going on in the woman's head is that she starts with her emotions and then works backwards to invent a rational story consistent with those emotions. The emotion she is feelin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/19 07:31 PM
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"Jew" is not a race. It's a religion. That's actually a complicated issue, but feel free to call it "religion-baiting" if you like. ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/19 06:48 PM
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TLDR but I do have some thoughts about the "ulterior motives" accusation. The fact is that it's completely normal and appropriate for people to refrain from disclosing their sexual motives. If I see a cute girl at work or school, I'm not going to walk up to her and say "Hi, would you like to come to my place at the end of the day and have sex?" That would be totally inappropriate and would likely get me punished for sexual harassment. Instead, the reasonable thing to do is to introduce your self…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/19 04:25 PM
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This is a chameleon and an Early Bird indeed... on the surface, looks almost harmless but a few warning signs are there: a) Horrible Tattoos in an ESPECIALLY AWFUL place to put them; huge fail there, b) her commentary on her past Chad experiences, c) struggles with addiction, et al. and d) Recently "finding God." As another poster pointed out, a reasonably attractive young woman who was a drug addict has almost certainly engaged in extensive sex work to fund her addiction. It's bad enough if a g…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/19 02:31 PM
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If you have flaws and you know about them, why don't you work on them and discipline yourself to get rid of them. The problem is that you can't unfuck 100 Chads; you can't undo the sex-work she has likely engaged in; and you can't get rid of a chronic viral infection. When she talks about "flaws," probably that's what she is referring to. Imagine being out for drinks with this girl and one of her past tricks sees her from across the bar and waves "hello" then turns to his buddies and laughs abou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/19 02:16 PM
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Obvious troll including obvious race-bait. ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/19 12:34 PM
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Yeah. I don't know about most of the guys on here but i have been in this situation and certainly in my case she was fucking bone idle. Wouldn't lift a fucking finger. Yeah, there seems to be a universal playbook for these types of relationships. The woman calls the man only when she is bored, or needs a shoulder to cry on, or has nothing better to do, or needs a favor. If he calls her, she is always always always busy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/19 12:55 AM
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LOL at the comments claiming those guys weren't really her friends Almost certainly she wasn't their real friend either. Did she ever help any of them out when they were in a jam; were down and needed someone to listen to their problems; or just needed an extra pair of hands to help? Almost certainly not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 08:54 PM
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Her surprise is astounding in its cluelessness Not so much clueless as disingenuous. dis·in·gen·u·ous /ˌdisənˈjenyo͞oəs/adjectiveadjective: disingenuous not candid or sincere, typically by pretending that one knows less about something than one really does. In essentially all these situations, the woman is being disingenuous by pretending not to know that her "friend" is interested in her sexually.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 08:43 PM
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You are the "NiceGirl™" and deserve to be alone and miserable for fraudulently taking advantage of men and their generous good will. Yes, I'm pretty confident that this woman has never once lifted a finger to help out one of these male friends. Never helped one of them move his apartment; never sat for hours listening to him complain about problems in his life; never lent him a few hundred dollars to pay for textbooks while his loan is coming through. Nothing. How do I know this? Because like mo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 07:18 PM
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These women are always "shocked! shocked!" to discover that their male orbiters are interested in more than just friendship. ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 07:01 PM
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As the saying goes, if you aren't her boyfriend, you're her girlfriend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 06:59 PM
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I'd say that they've been led to believe a woman would be good for them and they settle for the used up carousel riders because they can't find much else. Yeah, society doesn't talk much about this aspect of female nature. We all know that there are a few cold-hearted gold-digging whores out there who will marry some 80-year-old billionaire for a piece of that action. But the average woman is perceived as Sugar and Spice and Everything Nice and it's normal to assume that if she agrees to marry a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 03:34 PM
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Even simpler: you know she settled because she married you. Everyone settles to an extent. But there is a difference between (1) settling for someone you are LESS attracted to; and (2) settling for someone you are NOT attracted to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 02:25 PM
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By the way, she's fat. "average" body type + pictures of face only = fat, 100% guaranteed. She's just one of those fat girls who doesn't have a fat face. ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 02:15 PM
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Nice fantasy.
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 01:57 PM
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Fixed. Yeah, I would be willing to bet a pretty penny that the husband has a good job or other financial resources. And that if he lost his job, that 'emotional connection' would immediately go to shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 01:15 PM
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in this situation couldnt you just flee the country? There are a few problems with this. As a threshold matter, the man has to figure out what's wrong. That won't be so easy because the wife will never ever say "I have had much more attractive men in the past and I settled for you and I don't find you attractive at all." But even assuming he takes the red pill and figures this out, what next? They have a child together. If he walks out, he will face condemnation and sanctions from her family; fr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 01:13 PM
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It's funny how she's trying to squeeze out every last bit of carousel-riding fun before she goes looking for Billy Beta. ​ ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/19 07:32 PM
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A lot of CC riding and alcohol can do that. I think looking 40 at age 26 would require some meth or heroin on top of the booze. Of course the most likely explanation is that she's lying her ass off about her age. Unfortunately, people get greedy when they lie about their ages.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/19 12:04 PM
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When the woman includes a picture of her teenage daughter (even with the face blocked out), it really makes me seriously worry that the real offer is the daughter in exchange for money. Certainly this profile is a huge magnet for pedophiles (yes, technically they are Ephebophiles). How can she not know it? ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/19 12:02 PM
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Yeah, I noticed these things too. Society likes to tiptoe around the fact that overweight single moms in their 30s have very little sexual market value. Having a graduate degree doesn't help. ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/19 10:29 PM
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I think women can do themselves a great service by handling how they date better. Totally agree. The first question should be "does this seem like a man who would make a good father/husband." If the answer is "no," you move on no matter how attractive the guy is. After that, you just wait until you really know each other well and are in an exclusive relationship. That will eliminate 99% of players. The bottom line is that dating should not be seen as a recreational activity. The goal is not to h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/19 10:04 PM
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Chad will simply ghost her for another woman who will put out. Seems to me Chad would have ghosted her anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/19 10:01 PM
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It's funny how they find religion at the exact moment it becomes convenient.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/19 09:57 PM
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How dare these men (the ones I want commitment from) be contempt whilst I’m miserable. Yes, there's definitely an element of that. I think in general "Where are All the Good Men" is a combination of "Men are undesirable" and "Men (who are desirable) are not interested in me"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/19 02:54 PM
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Honestly, I think the real problem here is that she doesn't appreciate just how much SMV she has lost over the last 5 or 10 years. When a woman says "I like men with quality X," what she means is "I like men with quality X provided that they meet my standards of physical attractiveness." When this women says that men in their 30s seem to be unambitious and into their hobbies and such, what she means is "men WHO MEET MY STANDARDS OF ATTRACTIVENESS seem to be focused on hobbies." And of course she…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/19 02:14 PM
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