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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | How to find and avoid FDS girlsYou don’t need to worry, they wouldn’t go near you with a 100ft barge pole. No need to avoid what is avoiding you anyway! | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/21 01:20 PM |
| 42 | Do not prepare him for his ‘forever home’It is so sad, but I’ve been guilty of it in the past too 🤐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:38 PM |
| 5 | Every time some incel sends us a message "wAhMeN r ObSoLeTe bCuZ pOrN aNd sEx DoLLz" I think about this picture and laugh. Remember ladies, YOU are the beautiful landscape! Image courtesy of r/nofapGuys promoting how low effort they really are. FDS FTW 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:05 AM |
| 13 | What to do when you come across LVM’sShe’s stunning! Her names Redwa Sharbani. She’s an Egyptian TV presenter- don’t know much about her as I don’t understand Arabic- this was forwarded to me and it’s hilarious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 11:00 PM |
| 15 | I think she discovered FDS.. better late than never 👑If they can’t afford a date then are they really in a position to be on the hunt for women? Why would you want to be with a man who wouldn’t be able to feed his kids? He is obviously not ready for life if he can’t afford dating. Maybe he should work on himself instead of trying to get women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 11:07 AM |
| 8 | Most of these are exceptions but why would you date someone for 10 years with no ring 🤡🤡It better be a wedding ring and not an engagement ring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 10:22 AM |
| 35 | Woman wonders why FWB doesn’t care about foreplay. She’s so close to getting it, as well. 🤦🏾♀️I know right? She needs lube... obviously not aroused, unless it’s health related- but in this case I seriously doubt it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:00 PM |
| 8 | How I feel about this subI know right.. I was so worried I was going to slip back into my pickme ways 😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Speaking your truth & confronting covertly sexist comments can be done in a clear, kind, yet direct way & you don't have to EVER feel shame or guilt for standing your ground in a poised, confident way. Men do this shit 24/7 without any reprimand. Reasonable, healthy people listen, learn & growI don’t even bother with these anymore tbh, I don’t entertain shit. I ghost even if I’m physically present ... boy byeeee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:09 AM |
| 10 | This. This is what I am working on with myself at the moment. Trying to get to the bottom of why I accepted what I did. Ladies it’s very useful to look inwards and see what is going on internally! Why are we allowing subpar shitty behaviour or traits?I’m still trying to figure it out for myself. It’s not loneliness- I’m very social and have a very large female social circle. I really have to dig deep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:14 PM |
| 13 | Ladies- block and delete- use these functions liberally.No no no, you literally threw the rubbish out and made sure it has no way of getting back in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:45 PM |
| 1 | How To ...Make notes- read the handbook and summarise it for yourself. I printed mine off, it’s been highlighted everywhere. The parts I really need to work on I have paraphrased and rewritten | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:10 AM |
| 3 | Has the view of your own parents relationship changed since being on this sub? Is your father someone who is high value?My dad is HV, and it’s so difficult finding a man who has even half his qualities. My mum left him because she got bored, he still gives her a monthly allowance (his logic is that she gave him the best years of her life and children). She’s never worked a day in her life. He’s never been good at gifts and surprised etc but they always had a joint account- she was allowed to spend whatever she wanted with no questions asked. He really spoilt all of us up until this date. I’ve never heard my dad r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 07:20 AM |
| 10 | Keep on evaluating a man — regardless of how long the two of you have been together.He would visit me every weekend, pay for flights rent the car etc. He would come to my house and stay with me. He would cook and clean, he didn’t even use his phone in my presence just left it lying around. I swear the day I moved in with him, it was a complete 360. Grown ass man watching tiktok videos in all his spare time! I’m working from home so I stay home. He never even took me out. I’d moved to a new city- I didn’t know a single person there other than him. Once I asked if he’d go for a w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:46 PM |
| 18 | Keep on evaluating a man — regardless of how long the two of you have been together.To add to that... I did rush into marriage. That was a lesson learnt! Don’t do it girls. VET VET VET no matter how long it takes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:07 PM |
| 16 | Keep on evaluating a man — regardless of how long the two of you have been together.Nooo, I left. I had nothing left to give. I just walked out. He never complimented me after marriage- never said I looked nice, stopped saying he loved me even! Stopped all foreplay. It’s so hard to explain I don’t even know what happened. I stayed 2 months and boy bye Literally the day we moved in together he stopped EVERYTHING | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:06 PM |
| 31 | Keep on evaluating a man — regardless of how long the two of you have been together.Happened to me ladies! I married a guy that worshipped the ground I walked on. He did EVERYTHING HV. The second the ring was on my finger that was it. Every single effort stopped. I was invisible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:37 PM |
| 29 | It's men of every culture and religion.I got the whole 9 inches who thought that was ‘enough’. He thought it was enough to make up for kissing/ hugging/ any other type of touch or physical affection. He would just shove that inside me using lube most of the time and I let him. NEVER EVER AGAIN. Porn sick 🐷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 07:00 AM |
| 89 | Another gem from FDS insta. I tried to ‘train’ men in previous relationships. Men ALWAYS know. They ALWAYS know. They feign ignorance to see how much they can get away with. Stay away from low effort men, those lazy pigs who don’t bother.Stop cOmMuNiCaTiNg with a clown who pretends he doesn’t know what’s going on. I swear all the men I told to text me back in a timely manner or to get me flowers they ALL had the same blowup doll shocked look as though this was some kind of secret hidden knowledge they had just discovered. I cannot believe the time I wasted teaching a scrote how to be a man! But now I know. THEY ALWAYS KNOW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 06:58 AM |
| 41 | A man who really wants you will NEVER EVER leave you wondering. The second you feel confused or you start second guessing yourself it’s time to go 👋Yesss! They can say all the right things but if something isn’t sitting right with you then that’s what you need to listen to. We tend to ignore our gut instinct because it all looks well and good. But we really shouldn’t- you need to quieten the outer noise and really listen. Deep down you always know. Always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:01 AM |
| 4 | How do you prevent yourself from falling back into pickmeisha tendencies?I printed off the handbook and rewrote everything that struck me in my own words. Any time I feel as though I’m about to slip up, I pull out the notebook and I read and read until it sinks in all over again. Now I implement FDS in all parts or my life, not just dating. We just need to keep reminding ourselves and do not compromise. Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:50 PM |
| 9 | Please don’t stop posting screenshots of your messages for both good and bad experiences. They are so helpful and I learn a lot from them and the comments!!I know! I learn soooo much from comments every day. The amount of screenshots I have from this sub is crazy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:27 PM |
| 45 | I was only trying to help 😭Yess, I felt it would be weird to PM people, but they need to be saved | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 09:48 AM |
| 4 | For those almost a year shy of being single- what do you Not miss? 😛I’m so happy you can see everything for what it is now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 02:58 AM |
| 9 | Cultural differences in what you consider low/high value dates?Middle East- women never pay it is seen as extremely shameful. I’ve never ever paid when I’ve been with a man- platonic or romantic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 02:55 AM |
| 1 | That’s enough Reddit for me today! Off to give my ‘female brain’ a little restHaha no worries, I did try to message you before but I think your message settings are off. Send me a pm and I’ll message you the link | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:32 PM |
| 1 | From the same social media feeds of all the men & pickmes from your yeehaw small town that believe their high school science courses have given them the same educational credentials & authority as a doctor are also experts in discerning a woman's marital status based on empirical shoe evidence...Apparently I have 3 kids somewhere I don’t know about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 11:05 PM |
| 101 | Don’t think you can ‘make’ a man love and appreciate you- it’s all down to himI have screenshotted your response and I’m going to read it every single day! Because I’m currently on that dangerous path where it’s possible he may have fixed up- but it won’t last so I’m just going to forget it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 12:14 AM |
| 48 | Don’t think you can ‘make’ a man love and appreciate you- it’s all down to himNever too late | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 11:47 PM |
| 2 | The last two sentences... I wish I could unreadThat’s the way it should be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 09:14 AM |
| 20 | The last two sentences... I wish I could unread3 babies under 3!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 05:58 PM |
| 0 | That’s enough Reddit for me today! Off to give my ‘female brain’ a little restI’m not sure how to do that I’ve even googled! Do I change the website address? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:55 PM |
| 14 | That’s enough Reddit for me today! Off to give my ‘female brain’ a little restI have no idea, but I have sent it to you privately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 01:09 PM |
| 84 | That’s enough Reddit for me today! Off to give my ‘female brain’ a little restSorry, I should’ve said! It was a post on relationship advice- so this woman cut her visit to her boyfriend short as she had to go to a wedding I think... and this is his response | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 11:49 AM |
| 17 | "Mostly all of the other girls I dated did xyz" what is this manipulation called?It’s an indirect form of inciting you into a competition I guess, my former self would’ve been very happy to receive such a compliment and I’d have tried much harder to be ‘better’ than the exes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 10:24 AM |
| 26 | "Mostly all of the other girls I dated did xyz" what is this manipulation called?Please teach me your ways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 10:23 AM |
| 4 | List of red flags I encountered, feels cathartic to post here.Next time leave at any ONE of these red flags! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 09:53 AM |
| 25 | “I don’t have a child”Out of sight out of mind, the shit we women have to put up with I swear! These scrotes deny the existence of their own flesh and blood imagine how they’d treat an unrelated woman!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 07:43 AM |
| 10 | No you don’t need closure, there’s nothing to talk about. CUT that LVM out your life now!Never ever give him the satisfaction of giving you an explanation- he doesn’t get to offload his bullshit onto you or have the last word. Block block block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Easy New Website Sign-Up Process!! If you have not yet been approved for membership, READ HERE!!I’ve tried this already it’s still not working! I have the code and I’ve signed up. There’s nowhere to enter the code | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:09 PM |
| 23 | Where should I keep my hands while speaking to a woman.Place them on her fog lights | /r/seduction | 01/08/20 12:54 PM |
| 52 | WUT?!I wish I could go back and unread! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 09:48 PM |
| 51 | I see no liesFar too much on the ‘men’ section- it was better left blank tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 09:01 PM |
| 8 | Lovely ladies- Do not EVER, EVER fall in love with ‘POTENTIAL’So happy for you! LEVEL UP QUEEN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:13 PM |
| 16 | Ladies, Be Patient. He'll Marry You ELEVEN YEARS FROM NOW 🤡And living a very comfortable existence in those 11 years with the pickmeisha cooking, cleaning and warming his bed every night! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:08 AM |
| 22 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsI had mine printed too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 05:20 PM |
| 141 | Have no wordsAnd she blocked her cousin and is thinking of getting cameras around the house so she can watch him. Lord have mercy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 02:06 PM |
| 48 | Have no wordsShe’s just trying to find a way to get over it and stay with him 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 02:01 PM |
| 12 | After reading the handbook and scrolling through this sub I have come to the realisation that I have MARRIED a LVM. What to do now?My finances are completely separate- everything I have is in an overseas account of which he has no idea of. He thinks I’m living off my salary that I’m currently on- annulment is going to be an issue as it was a religious ceremony. But that’s fine. I’ve told him now, I’m a bit busy for the next 2 weeks on a project. I go back to him after that for a day- I’m taking the rest of my stuff and just getting out of there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:38 PM |
| 16 | After reading the handbook and scrolling through this sub I have come to the realisation that I have MARRIED a LVM. What to do now?You girls are so helpful! I really appreciate the advice- it’s helping me get out of my own head and see it for what it really is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 03:40 PM |
| 5 | RESPECT YOURSELF FIRST QUEENS (& thank you FDS!)How do you manage to stay away for that long? Im in a similar situation. I’m so reactive that I want a divorce straight away- it’s always on the table for me. I can’t imagine being away for that long and still letting him think he’s married to me. I want to cut myself off from him completely. Any tips? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 03:39 PM |
| 30 | After reading the handbook and scrolling through this sub I have come to the realisation that I have MARRIED a LVM. What to do now?No I’ve moved back to my place for a bit as I still have until August. So I won’t be seeing him for another 2 weeks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 02:57 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Oh I’ve already started making plans. I’m going to go and pick my stuff up after 2 weeks and just end it there. It’s not worth it. I’ve told him what’s wrong. If his lazy unappreciative ass isn’t going to do anything I’m out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:44 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Hello ladies, Very new to this! Can I please get some help on my situation. I’m not thinking straight at all so I would love to have your points of view! After reading the handbook and scrolling through this sub I have come to the realisation that I have MARRIED a LVM. What to do now? So, I rushed into marriage with a man who did everything right before we got married and I had no idea about FDS- I have just come upon all this now when shit has hit the fan. Now that we’re married he has complete… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 09:18 AM |
| 3 | visiting my PhD advisor in a different country vs long distanceYou do you for the full 5 months. Imagine if you guys break up over anything.. this could be the biggest regret of your life. ALWAYS put yourself first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Scrote is mad no one wants him 😂 bet you he won’t date an overweight woman that’s not at least an 8 on his booksThis. Is. Everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Please help. This was the first person I dated after my divorce. He knew my husband had cheated and he did the same, all while promising he'd love me better. I need a brutal response befitting his scrotacity. All I can do is clench my jaw in silence.There’s nothing more hurtful than being ignored! Ignore this pos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Interested girls lose interest after talking to me for a while.Don’t invest so much time and effort into ‘potentials’ take it easy and never text for hours unless you’ve been talking for a while. I’m more attracted to the guys who leave me guessing and wanting more than those that tell me their whole life story in week 1 and by the second week we are sleeping on the phone together | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 06:16 AM |
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