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bray-db/r/seduction30/10/16 01:48 PM
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Sure most people wouldn't kiss someone because of a kiss cam, but SOME people would. Some people would feel the social pressure and they'd rather just go along with it rather than being booed by tens of thousands of people. That's not the point of my post. I'm not arguing about how to get a girl in a situation where you guys awkwardly kiss, I was just engineering a situation to use as example. To make my point, I needed a random situation in which 'Jane' would be socially pressured to kiss the g…
/r/seduction04/11/16 08:30 AM
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Through person is sooo much better than texting. Lots of guys are only brave enough to flirt by text, where they don't have to face a girl in person, so pretty girls get plenty of "creepy" guys messaging her all the time. You won't fit into that category exactly if you've been messaging her all the time, but I recommend meeting her in person and then using Dicarlo's escalation ladder. Generally, it's better to use text for scheduling and organizing hangouts, I've never gotten a text from someone…
/r/seduction03/11/16 11:12 PM
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I'm also interested in how you believe it's different. (Not skeptical, just curious.)
/r/seduction03/11/16 11:05 PM
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If you can't have sex for some reason, like u/Ironchar was mentioning, then at the very least you should kiss her as soon as possible. This is an important step in making your intentions clear. It goes along with the 'managing expectations properly' paragraph above, and setting a vibe that you're INTO her. If you're doing everything 'right': you're talking to her, demonstrating high value, and going on dates, then that's a good start. However, if you've been hanging out for a while and you haven…
/r/seduction03/11/16 11:02 PM
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Why do you have to address it? If someone's not insecure about their hand size for instance, they never mention it, because why would they? If they've never once thought about the size of their nose as an issue, why would they joke about nose size? Unless there's a really funny joke to be made that can't be made without mentioning height, I don't see a reason for you to bring it up.
/r/seduction02/11/16 09:40 AM
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What are things a girl can do to make you feel more manly without being in a relationship with you? I've seen plenty of tips on the redpill women's subreddit about making your man happy, but not as many for making a man who's not yet your partner happy.
/r/seduction31/10/16 05:46 PM
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At a certain point, all men will give up a 'sure thing' for a 'maybe'. This might not be that point, because I have no idea what his tipping point is, but everyone has a tipping point where their sure thing is bad enough and/or the maybe is good enough. I'm sure for some men, a very small difference is all it takes, and for other men, the 'sure thing' has to drop 5 points on the scale. But most men will be somewhere in between. I was just looking for advice from seddit on tipping him in my favor…
/r/seduction31/10/16 05:43 PM
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I'm pretty young, without giving away too much, I'm in the 19-21 age range.
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:41 AM
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I didn't plagiarize these things, I wrote them off the top of my head, but I've read about kino before, so perhaps I'm sounding similar to things you've read. I have indeed been lurking on seddit for at least 2 years now, so the crossover between what we've read is probably pretty high. (This is a throwaway account, as I don't want the people I'm talking about to ever see these posts.) The story about me crushing on a guy who put his hand on my lower back is a true one, and that happened before …
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:39 AM
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HB8 is in the side bar, it means Hot Babe 8, and is a rating from 1-10 on women. The link describes it better. Hot Guy is something fpua's use(female pick up artists) and it stands for Hot Guy. Same concept. Kino means touching, it's also in the sidebar.
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:33 AM
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Hmmm, I honestly have no idea how many guys have cold read me, because I don't know what would qualify as cold reading. There are plenty of guys who "cold approach" me at parties though. I'm not sure if that counts, since it's not a coffee shop or anything, but it's still a stranger I've never met before. Keep in mind my numbers will be very skewed because I'm in college. Most of my time is spent on my campus because I'm pretty busy and my campus is large. Parties are where I'm approached the mo…
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:29 AM
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This is a question that basically any woman would answer yes to. Everyone, man or woman, thinks they are a quality person. I do have reason to believe I'm objectively not just a pretty face, but most pretty girls will also have their own reasons to think they're unique, however unsupported those claims may be. I grew up looking pretty average, so I did have to develop an actual personality, I was quite a tomboy and never cared about looks before I was 15/16 or so. I was praised for intelligence …
/r/seduction31/10/16 08:05 AM
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Lol I liked the comment chain until the edit haha. I get what you're saying, but being a virgin doesn't mean I don't know how to get sex. I've been propositioned before. I've been in relationships before and I've fooled around, we just broke up before ever f-closing. It's hard to understand the other perspective, because if a guy said he was a virgin, you'd (probably rightly) assume that he wasn't capable of getting laid. In my case, (and I hope this doesn't sound conceited, this is just life as…
/r/seduction31/10/16 06:23 AM
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I do want this guy. I've wanted him since before I knew she existed, not because of her existence. And she's sleeping with other guys. I don't see why she gets to fuck his friends but I shouldn't even flirt with him because that would sting her feelings.
/r/seduction30/10/16 08:09 PM
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Okay wow, this is going to be long and very honest. This is just random stuff I like, a fish's techniques on fishing: One of the sexiest thing a guy can do is put his hand on my lower back. A friend on mine did this to me while just walking by once, he didn't even look at me, I was standing still in a crowd and he just put his hand on my lower back as he passed by, as if he wanted to gently move me out of the way or he was just saying hi. It gave me an instant crush. Other times guys have done t…
/r/seduction30/10/16 07:44 PM
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I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not, but I was just defending myself against the whole "you're just hot and have nothing else." I don't think being on the robotics team is super sexy or anything, I just wanted to make it clear that I'm a fully formed human who does human activities.
/r/seduction30/10/16 06:52 PM
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Relationships are two way streets, just like friendships. Commitments are two way streets. If any of these were one-sided, like a financial support thing, then THAT would be using someone. Simply wanting a relationship with someone isn't "using" them. Relationships are supposed to be positive things for everyone involved. Your friends could "use" you for other things (making them bad friends), but they can't "use" you for friendship alone.
/r/seduction30/10/16 05:42 PM
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What? Using him for a relationship? If you're worried someone's being "used" for a relationship, then I think all 31 years of your experience with relationships have been pretty fucked up. I really hope no one's "using" you for friendship right now.
/r/seduction30/10/16 05:29 PM
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He's not dating this girl. He's fucking her and then flirting and making out with other women that he's even more excited to fuck. If 'meeting his needs' means that I get to pull on his arm while he ignores me and tries to flirt with another girl, then I'm glad that I'm not taking your advice.
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:58 PM
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He hasn't been into me for 3 years, we just knew each other for the past 3 years because we go to the same school. Now we're living in the same dorm and taking the same classes, so it's not an "orbiting" situation, it's just we haven't had much time to develop any feelings until now. We've both grown and we also both look wildly different than when we first met (almost unrecognizably so), so it's not like we've been trying to date for 3 years. But yeah you're right about if I have sex with him i…
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:51 PM
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I haven't dated him for 3 years. I've just known him for 3 years. We met and saw each other in classes, but we were both busy and living in different places. Neither of us showed any romantic interest until the past 2 months or so when we reconnected after the summer. We had both grown and matured, and looked wildly different. Concluding that I need to have sex with him after kissing him once a couple weeks ago is a bit of a rushed opinion. I'll concede that most guys want sex and if I was willi…
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:44 PM
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I have a lot of other traits besides 'hotness'. I have hobbies, academic interests, a circle of friends, athletic prowess, and an awesome family. I have a pretty cool personality too. I'm not about to describe all my hopes and dreams on a seduction forum, I was just trying to boil it down to the most telling bits, without spelling out that yes I'm a normal fully-formed person as well. I thought you could assume that I don't spend all day looking in the mirror and putting no effort into anything.…
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:39 PM
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From the sidebar: I want a longterm relationship, rather than casual flings. Can game help me? Of course. Attractive is always attractive, and attraction is vital for any kind of relationship with the opposite sex. Seduction and pickup is about becoming more attractive to more people. Many sedditors are here to learn to be better, more attractive partners or husbands. Others have had success finding long term relationships with the help of seddit.
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:32 PM
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This might be my favorite bit of advice in the entire thread. And it's really sweet that you took into consideration the not wanting sex outside of a committed relationship thing :) I think all the other seduction and affection things are a really good idea. I'm not sure how to initiate a kiss out of nowhere, but I could invite him on a walk or to my dorm to watch a show we both like. Then it'd probably be pretty easy to hand-hold/cuddle and kiss once we were actually alone for once. Thanks so m…
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:24 PM
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Wow this is really good advice. I'm not too hurt by the "sleeping with uglier girls is normally better than sleeping with hotter girls" thing. Being as honest as I can with myself, there's no way I come close to whatever skill she has in the bedroom. I'm a virgin, and she's an older woman who's slept with more people than I've even kissed. I can work on being better at sex, but the only way I'm going to improve is by having sex, and I'd sort of prefer to be in a relationship with someone I like …
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:03 PM
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Lol, I never said that my looks make me better at sex, so I have no idea where you're getting that from. I actually stated that I'm 100% sure that the OTHER girl is better at sex than I am in another comment. I don't know enough about sex, especially from a guy's perspective, to know if they'd drop sex with one girl for a relationship with another, that's why I'm asking you guys for opinions. I don't think I'm too boring in day to day life, but maybe I'd be boring in bed compared to her if that'…
/r/seduction30/10/16 02:49 PM
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I'm sure he's attracted to me. (I make him laugh, we've have good conversation, and he initiated all the kissing while completely sober.) I'm also pretty sure he's more attracted to me than he is to her, both from his actions of ignoring her to talk to me and from objective third-party comparisons of our looks. (I hope this isn't too rude, just want to be honest.) While I'm not 100% sure that he wants an exclusive relationship right now, I've known him for 3 years, so the signs I've seen point t…
/r/seduction30/10/16 02:40 PM
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Oh I just used the word "destroy" because I saw someone calling certain lines "boyfriend destroyers" and I wanted to seem hip with the lingo. She's actually a nice person and I certainly don't want her to be destroyed in any literal sense. As for providing more value, I think I might be funnier and smarter. Not sure about the cooler and more interesting part, but he does seem to prefer talking to me over her and we have more in common and both speak the same first language. But the possibly most…
/r/seduction30/10/16 02:30 PM
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I'm wholly against sex and ultimatum plans. I was just using an example to try to explain that although the sex-before-commitment avenue MIGHT work, I didn't want people recommending it because it isn't something I'd be comfortable with. I don't want to be manipulative, but it seems as though outright asking for exclusivity right now, as a girl he's only kissed once, wouldn't work very well. Imagine being a guy who's just finished being naked and sweaty with his latest hookup, and while you walk…
/r/seduction30/10/16 02:20 PM
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Before someone links r/fpua, I've tried asking questions/starting discussions there before (on throwaways), but it doesn't have very much traffic, so they won't help much with this situation. This subreddit has over 50x more users, for reference.
/r/seduction30/10/16 01:52 PM
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