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I would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:28 PM
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That’s messed up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 12:30 AM
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👏👏👏 PREACH
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:59 PM
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PB!! Let’s go!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:16 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:48 PM
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Faith is the main one and the rest surround it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:34 AM
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Faith, family, living happily, helping others, and raising our children that we’ve adopted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:51 AM
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No. I love my husband, but l am not his purpose and he isn’t my purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:45 AM
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Think surfer guys and that’s my type. Tall, lean muscles, tanned, and no facial hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:12 PM
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I completely cut off any guy that hit on me or asked me if I wasn’t interested in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:07 PM
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I have never posted my husband to public social media. The only pic about my relationship ever posted was a pic of my wedding flowers. That’s it. I don’t blame him at all. There’s a difference between your friends and family knowing your relationship status and the public knowing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 10:41 PM
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She’s saying she’s rewarding a man with money by paying for her own food, but she also claims that a man isn’t paying her in any way by paying the bill. It doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 03:51 PM
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Which post? Please show us, because it’s not against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:40 PM
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Paying for your own food doesn’t prevent a man from saying that you used him for a free dinner? Which of these several women claimed that they only pay for their food to prevent a man from feeling entitled to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:39 PM
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“l don’t have a pill but I reject the notion that the way I choose to meet and interact with men is less valid for making human connection than the way you choose to do it. Don’t be a woman giving advice. Be a woman who lets other women do what works for them without telling them that men are entitled to their bodies because they pay their own bills.” 😂 Again with not following your own advice. No, I am not saying any man is entitled to my time, body, or anything else. I pay my own bills. I don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:33 PM
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You should stick to your own advice and this conversation never would have happened. You didn’t need to comment on my life or my choices, but you did, and now you want to tell me to do better than you. Buy a mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:56 PM
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No, not all relationships are transactional. Some of us like our partners with no outside incentive needed. You are free to live how you want and I will continue to live how l want. You can pretend a man is calling you a whore as some kind of attack against women, but it’s a woman enlightening you to a definition and you don’t like it. Those aren’t the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:56 PM
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That he paid for himself. You literally said the “transaction ended” when he got to have dinner with you. That’s an escort. You expect to be compensated for your time and company.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:39 PM
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It’s no different for the man involved and no reason for the woman to be compensated for the shared activity. You’re an escort when you expect to be paid for the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:19 PM
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I personally went on dates because I liked the man and wanted to get to know him. There was nothing transactional. Escorts get paid for their time and company.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:39 AM
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Most of the women I know split the bill for the same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:46 AM
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I don’t do anything to be liked by others. People with compatible personalities naturally like me in social settings. Men find me attractive if they’re into my appearance. I don’t understand why you think I would need to do anything to meet people that enjoy being around me. There are many that dislike me and I’m more than fine with that. We’re not compatible people,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:39 AM
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I never allowed any man to pay on a date. I covered every bill to remain in control of the situation and to never allow them the opportunity to feel like l owed them something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:35 AM
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Who is being forced to do anything in the published article? Who is preventing people from pairing up? Why compare 2 situations that are completely different?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:14 PM
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Does the average 40 year old man look like a celebrity? No, he’s obese, suffers from a degree of hair loss, and makes around 50k or less a year. Have you not seen Sofia Vergara or JLO? Look! It’s magical proof that most men are attracted to women over 50. That’s what you’re doing right here. Most age gaps are 1-3 years for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:05 PM
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No, he’s old.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:00 PM
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It wouldn’t benefit me to be with a man that I don’t find sexually attractive or if l view him as a peer of my parents. No amount of money would cancel that out and I am not a sex worker. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:59 PM
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They’re delicious if you’re into extra sweet fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:26 PM
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I’m eating cotton candy grapes and I love them. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:10 PM
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6.5. He’s too old for me and not my type, but he’s definitely not unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:39 PM
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I 👏 HAVE 👏 EYELASHES!!! 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:55 PM
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I’m back to gaining weight and I have 8mm of hair! Let’s go!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:53 PM
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The only comments I receive are from non feminist men and women. Most feminist respect the choices of a family to have a stay at home parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:05 PM
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In the entire title of the post. Are you suddenly suggesting now that they should indeed hide it in certain circumstances even if they aren’t ashamed of their sexuality? Of course they should, because you “never said”they should tell it to random strangers! That means they shouldn’t tell it to people they cold approach either, even when only looking for a hook up. What’s the result? This post about how should people should be up front about their sexual desires. It includes randoms or it doesn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:06 PM
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Why are you conflating 2 different issues and pretending that they’re the same? Not being open about your sexual desires to strangers doesn’t cause you to lie about a different topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:47 PM
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No, people do need to hide that mess. I don’t need to hear what random strangers want to do with me. They don’t need to feel ashamed of their natural desires, but they do need to keep it to themselves. Social boundaries are a very real needed thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:49 PM
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Most were only 1 date, but some were 2 dates. There were 2 relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:16 AM
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I dated over 150 guys and he was previously engaged after having dated numerous other women. Neither of us needed anyone to do anything. I already planned on approaching him later to give him my number. We were 2 people that found each other very attractive. Other women at church were already approaching him openly. We met at church. Church community did not get us together,
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:06 AM
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We were in our 20s, not kids. It was their first time at our church and my parents introduced themselves to his parents. There was no match making or people looking out for us. It was welcome to our church, have you met our son yet? That’s it. Where did all of these assumptions come from? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:00 AM
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It would be too dangerous. They read Reddit. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:05 AM
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That logic applies to you and your sugar babies as well. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:35 AM
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Cool. Let me share your own sentiments. OMG!! Drunkonramen supports rape!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:31 AM
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Church counseling. I’ve met a few of them. They were raped after they refused sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:25 AM
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It’s creepy. I would run away from that voice screaming for security. 😂 “THAT’S A DEMON! HELP ME!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:30 AM
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Men that sugar date are rapists and feel entitled to sex even if a woman says no and doesn’t take the money. 2nd hand information tells me so. Fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:24 AM
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It’s a 9 year old trapped in what may be an adult or a 15 year old body?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:22 AM
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He seems financially irresponsible. Her response was harsh. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:20 AM
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So you have no evidence that this is widespread problem and we need to take your word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:03 AM
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You’re either going to have to show data saying that the majority of sugar babies are doing these behaviours, aka the problem exists, or admit that it’s only a small number of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:46 PM
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So you’re talking about a completely different situation. Robbery is a crime, but not pretending to like unattractive men isn’t one, even amongst sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:35 PM
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The thing with school is forced socialization. You learn more boundaries. You learn more consequences for antisocial behaviour because you’re stuck in that situation day after day. You learn to socialize in a larger peer group for the first time. School is a very important part of individual development that you’re not going to get from activities that happen 2-3 times a week with different groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:33 PM
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You’re talking about 2 different situations and one is their “unrealistic expectations”. They’re allowed their standards and that includes wanting a tall rich man that they find attractive. Stop trying to derail the conversation. They’re sex workers, but it still requires their consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:27 PM
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I can’t wait to watch Candace Owens after I get into bed. I love her crazy conspiracy theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:24 PM
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People underestimate how much social growth happens in the classroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:22 PM
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I found my husband when I wasn’t looking to date. I saw him in church and I thought wow, he is gorgeous. Our parents introduced us and we exchanged info to keep in contact so I could introduce him around. I asked him if he wanted to hang out with my friends one night and the rest was history.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:17 PM
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They’re not robbing men that they reject because they don’t find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:11 PM
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He has everything, except for people catering to his desires and seeking his validation. The tantrums won’t help. He wants to be the popular kid and you can’t buy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:02 PM
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They may not find clients for their sex work, but they’re entitled to their standards. It’s going to be much harder for them to find a man to pay for it vs dating, but that’s their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:53 PM
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I feel like that’s a very hard road to go and to have properly socialized integrated children. Otherwise I would be all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:17 PM
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I’ll be too sad for that. The only solution is to keep my babies at home forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:56 PM
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I was so sad today. I was thinking that in only a few short years my babies will all go off to school in the mornings and life as I know it will end. It made me cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:43 PM
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I have a cat in my house, not my cat, and I can’t shut my bedroom door because he will attack it if he’s not allowed to walk in and out as he pleases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:35 PM
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My house is run by the chihuahua cartel. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:28 PM
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Everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:21 AM
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Is relax in my bathtub. Otherwise I am active if it’s my choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:11 AM
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Personally, I’d be grossed out that my spouse was thinking of previous sex partners, at all, and then referencing them in bed with me. Like it’s been 12 years and you’re still thinking about them? 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:17 PM
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I don’t think I could ever vote for conservative parties despite living what many would consider a conservative life. I don’t believe that your financial standing should prevent you from equal opportunities to have safe shelter, food, education, healthcare, or that we shouldn’t care about people lacking those opportunities. I believe we should all the same the same social rights regarding marriage and the ability to raise children. I believe we should all have the freedom to present our gender i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:25 PM
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I was that height at 13. I stopped growing at 14 at 5’9. Girls stop growing much younger than boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:28 PM
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Yes, but I got over it fairly quickly and returned to my natural level of extreme distrust of strangers. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:15 AM
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I would insist on 50/50 split with 99% of men. There’s no way I would financially support most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:54 PM
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I cook and parent too, full time. I don’t have a job that requires a lot of my time away from my family. 😂 Everyone contributes equally to the housework and children in my home. No, it’s more certainly not an even split, because of the money. We have 2 full time housekeepers. We have people that help with the kids if needed. He goes out with his friends regularly for the day. I pay for all of it, because it’s my choice. There’s 0 chance I would pay for any man making demands of my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:43 PM
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My husband is a stay at home dad. He doesn’t have free access to my bank accounts. He has free access to one account. My money is not a marital asset. We make shared household decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:44 PM
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There’s no shame in having a nanny. I personally don’t use one, but we have a ton of family help if needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:08 PM
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How are you going to tell someone how they personally feel fulfilled and what they want?? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:12 PM
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All of my cares are instantly gone when I watch my husband playing with our babies. The smiles and belly laughs melt my heart instantly even on the toughest of days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:31 AM
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You should’ve known!! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:24 PM
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Chihuahua babies!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:18 PM
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I don’t want him if he’s not offering chichis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:13 PM
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I’ve never needed to ask a guy his height to know if I find him attractive or not. Are men blind?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:11 PM
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I don’t think they’re more disliked. I think there’s big platforms to share their opinion, like the internet existing. That’s completely different than who and what was available to someone that was abused 70 years ago. I think it’s also more socially acceptable for everyone to share their hatred of others. For example I don’t believe that there’s more racism or racists in the world today, but they won’t shut up, and you’re going to see their comments somewhere. You might not have personally kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:15 PM
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I don’t believe men are a monolith or should be judged as a group. There have always been good men. I had no shortage of great men in my life or great men pursuing me. There are an equal number of psychotic crazy men that have crossed my path throughout my life. People haven’t really changed too much through history, only laws have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:10 PM
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Aka you have no answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:58 PM
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Childhood friends are not really different. You enjoy being around each other. Why is that “brutal”?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:18 PM
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I don’t think there’s any acceptable lying, but I don’t think all questions are acceptable either. If a man asked my weight he would never be allowed to speak to be again. I’d ghost and block him. What reasonable reason could you possibly have to ask that question?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:01 PM
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I would have filed for a restraining order on that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:11 PM
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I don’t see it as a competition. I like you or I don’t. I could go on casual dates with multiple men, but if I really liked one guy that was the end of it for the rest. There’s no way another guy would take my interest from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:11 PM
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This situation is why I cut off contact from any guy that asked me out and I wasn’t interested. I meant no and we clearly aren’t friends at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:00 PM
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I think that depends on if you keep developing as a person. “Peaked in high school” is a thing, but I do see where a lot of scars could be carried into adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:49 PM
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Well you better tell OP that there’s no issue with billionaires then either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:24 PM
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“I can’t imagine spending my life with another person.” That’s love. That’s how my husband and I feel about each other. We’re it for life. I can’t imagine any other man making me feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:45 PM
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Why would billionaires be an issue? It’s the power imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:34 PM
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Snowboarding, cooking, baking, playing with my puppies and kids, church activities, reading my Bible, singing, hiking, shopping, decorating, hanging out with my brothers, and various charity activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:15 PM
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We had an eventful day searching for sharks in the pool. She did find a colony of confused rubber duckies and 1 daddy pretending to be a shark. Don’t worry, all rubber duckies were rescued by the world’s cutest tiniest lifeguard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:11 PM
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I don’t ask him to empty the bins. He’s a functional adult that takes care of things when he sees that they need done. I’m not his mother or his manager.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:54 AM
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That’s a big deal, especially if we had planned to have biological children. It’s ultimately their decision, but it might end the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:07 PM
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Happy Birthday!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:32 PM
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Absolutely not! Physical attraction is an important part of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:20 AM
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Not twins and adopted. They’re less than a month apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:30 PM
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One is older and one is the same age. They’re both girly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:18 PM
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My girls are equally as rambunctious as my son.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:21 PM
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My parents were very hands on with my early decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:39 PM
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I’d rather pay a professional and have it done correctly without my needing to worry over it. I don’t clean either. Not doing half of the parenting is a reason to divorce. I don’t want to hear about unfair courts when only 10% of court cases are decided by a judge. Most men don’t want 50/50 custody of their kids and never ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:47 PM
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You can leave the relationship over any mismatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:13 PM
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The same goes for a difference in libido or cooking. It should default to the lower standard instead of bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:34 PM
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No, but I invited all of the gay and trans people to come to a real Christian church where we’re all sinners deserving of the love and forgiveness of God. We have Christ AND cookies!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:07 AM
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The belief that a pastor there was a bigoted hate filled piece of shit. It was definitely that specific belief and stating it that led to my being booted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:55 PM
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I was booted from a multi church conference about the lgbtq community. 😒 Princess Pickles is big mad today
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:49 PM
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This girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:44 PM
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Clingy and romantic aren’t the same or related. Clingy is emotionally insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:44 PM
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I felt so privileged to wake up in my own home in my own bed this morning. We take so much of life for granted. I don’t want to be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:20 PM
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They’ll never catch me! This is Canada! I have rights!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:23 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:47 PM
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I escaped prison today!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:00 PM
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“Women generalizing men is bad. ALL women do it. They’re disgusted by men and that’s disgusting in itself. Imagine my feelings here and now l have no choice but to date you.” You are no different than the women you’re complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:59 AM
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Can you explain why men have to take it and can’t also walk away? You told women to run, but somehow men are incapable of that same behaviour? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:49 AM
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So they’re not different in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:27 PM
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Even in those countries women have premarital sex and more than 1 partner. I fail to see the difference in the women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:58 PM
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Stats don’t show that at all. Half of young men are in committed relationships and half are single. Single doesn’t mean not dating in those studies. It means uncommitted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:29 PM
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So the women are controlled, not different, better, or happier with men that they don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:27 PM
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I don’t really understand your post. You see the same thing in the west looking at most couples. Most men are coupled with average women too. Are you suggesting that nonwestern women don’t want to have sex with more attractive men? Are you suggesting that they wouldn’t go for it if they believed there was a possibility of commitment? We’ve already discussed that most people in India are having sex before marriage. I don’t follow your logic to get to the conclusion that you’ve reached. Can you ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:27 PM
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My husband doesn’t have that life. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:08 PM
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Lovely soup
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:29 PM
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I think it’s a reasonable expectation that someone pays the bills and doesn’t lie and hide them for several months until your property is repossessed and you owe even more money. I think it’s reasonable for a partner to expect you to take accountability for those actions instead of saying it’s fine, that was 2 months ago. I mean holy crap, that’s insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:48 PM
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Your example is not someone asking for emotional support. It’s someone looking to discuss literature. Those aren’t in the same field of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:39 PM
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Maybe try a support group for drinkers? They seem to help a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:16 AM
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So the one guy I asked? The one guy that makes the claim? Where did I make any other claim or say anything about how many people want this or that? You jumped into a conversation and decided you knew everything and now you want to turn it into something else. No, I asked the guy that wants immutable traits in a partner how it’s any different when a woman does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:10 AM
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It’s an alt account of a repeatedly banned young Indian guy who has been around in the daily for a very long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:59 AM
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OP says it constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:13 AM
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I don’t understand how that requirement is any different than you saying you’d only be with a light skinned woman. They’re both immutable traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:48 AM
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I can’t imagine getting a divorce, ever. I can’t imagine not wanting to be with him. I can’t imagine intentionally not having my kids for half of the time. The thought entered my head after reading ppd and it made me cry. It could happen to anyone. I told him that if we were to ever not be able to work things out that we would have to build a new house to share with kid bedrooms and a family room in the center and 2 individual house spaces on the sides. I couldn’t be without my children. It woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:24 AM
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I posted a pic of him now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:28 PM
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That pic is like 14 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:26 PM
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He’s in his mid 30’s. 😂 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:21 PM
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We had a fun game of peekaboo and they were crawling around in the blankets being silly. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:04 PM
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My babies were able to visit me for an hour. I already miss them. 😭 l want to be home!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:45 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:37 PM
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Can I get an Amen??? 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:40 PM
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He didn’t learn a thing when he says he wants a family of his own some day. He already has a family that he is choosing to not acknowledge with that phrasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:05 PM
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A man that leaves his family because he wanted freedom and feels suffocated by emotional closeness is not going to be a good husband/father to other people. A man that’s hung up on his ex having a hook up after they were separated, because he knows the guy, is not going to make a good partner. No one has made this man miserable accept for his own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:58 PM
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Scream louder and he might pick you. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:36 PM
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You already have a family of your own. You abandoned it to chase “freedom” and to “not be suffocated”. No woman is going to want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:13 PM
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Read his post history. He left because he wanted freedom, his own words, and he’s still heartbroken that she had a hook up AFTER he left and didn’t want to get back with her. The kids are the least of his issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:08 PM
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I wouldn’t date a guy that only sees his kids every other weekend under any circumstances. That’s not a father to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:04 PM
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The past matters, but how much it matters is decided by the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:33 PM
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I wouldn’t meet anyone’s kids until an engagement was in the picture. I’d want to know why he’s not with their mother and l’d want to hear her side as well. I’d expect him to have time to himself for dating and for our relationship to be a priority on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:07 PM
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They’re the same as single moms. It would be easier for you to date a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:51 PM
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Thank you. It will be the greatest teatime of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:47 AM
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When I get out of the hospital I’m going to host a proper afternoon tea at my house. It will be glorious!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:23 AM
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More networking connections for community outreach.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:10 AM
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I wish would judgmental people were open about it from the beginning. I don’t care if you judge me, but don’t pretend that you’re not like that to get info from someone. 😂 I’m not judging you, but how much did you spend on that? They are 100% asking so they can judge me. They already know it was a lot. I would respect people a lot more if they asked me how much I “wasted or threw away” and I really don’t care what they think of my spending habits, but be honest about it. I don’t go around asking…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:16 AM
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You can stop pretending he didn’t say it now. We’re done this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:59 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/qjzsvr7owobh1.jpeg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a494749dae57e78ca0f70ffb0472d2db8c6a58c3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:59 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/7it9n8qmwobh1.jpeg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2cc2615e8502734bba14779e8fd9006265d638dc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:59 PM
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Last time I checked this was a direct question for individual women and you’re arguing with me about my personal statements when I never once tried to speak for other women. Take it elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:55 PM
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Changing to pretend to like something because a guy likes it is a lie, and that is exactly what OP is asking. He directly asked it. No, I won’t be fake. You suggesting something different doesn’t change what he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:52 PM
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I believe that my life and privileges exist to help others. There’s no point for me in a selfish life. That’s why l’m becoming a pastor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:50 PM
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That’s their choice. It’s also a valid choice to stay single and do whatever you want. You don’t need to be in a relationship or make yourself more appealing for the sake of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:48 PM
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It is also what he’s saying when he’s asking if you’d something because a guy is into it. No, no I wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:45 PM
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It wouldn’t matter from either side. I’d rather be single than change what makes me happy for a man to be interested. I was bullied by men for years to change my behaviour for them and I didn’t and wouldn’t. I wanted to be me more than I wanted a relationship. I’m happily married to a man that wouldn’t ask to change anything about me for the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:44 PM
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He was insanely talented.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:49 PM
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Neither side is gate keeping commitment. A woman can want a relationship, title, and a ring and never get it. That’s where your argument falls apart. It doesn’t matter what she offers if he’s not interested. You have no “hiring process” if no one wants to work at your company.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:26 PM
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I never claimed it’s a man thing. What I am saying is that I am not going to pretend to be someone else or to like certain things so that someone likes a facade. They like me or they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:37 AM
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They care about attracting women and looking attractive to women. They don’t care about women or their desires. They care about getting what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:26 AM
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No, l wouldn’t change myself. I’ve always liked who l am. The right compatible partner wouldn’t need me to be someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:01 AM
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Suffering is the meaning of life. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:41 AM
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Do you know what will happen if you don’t lower your standards or corrupt your morals for the will of men? DO YOU??? You will end up married to a wonderful young man that loves and respects you as a human being. You think about that, Ange. You have to live with the consequences of your actions!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:29 AM
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I’ve never cared for one second what men wanted. I am who l am and he liked me for that or he didn’t. I wouldn’t change for anyone. My standards were high and my deal breakers were strict.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:26 AM
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I have a sore throat. I sent my husband to purchase ALL of the throat lozenges. One of them has to feel nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:25 PM
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My ovaries would crawl out of my body on their own to protect me from pregnancy if that man can near me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:14 PM
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You just called romantically unsuccessful men losers. You’re putting them down yourself. My husband and my friends don’t put men down for being unsuccessful, but they have no issue with telling a guy off if he’s being disrespectful about women because he’s unsuccessful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:52 PM
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It’s time for my pool party and family picnic with way too much food for 25 people!!! ❤️😁🇨🇦
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:48 PM
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Nothing wrong with men facing the consequences of their actions either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:23 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with having high standards. Your standards can be whatever you want. Mine were extremely high.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:09 PM
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I like being a woman, but I would do fine as a man. I’m already as tall as the average man and attractive. I’m extroverted, athletic, and religious. I wouldn’t have issues finding the same. I’d be like my husband and he had no issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:21 PM
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For a paternity test? Yeah, he can get it through the divorce attorney.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:43 PM
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I wouldn’t be with a man so insecure that he demanded paternity proof. I can’t imagine what level of insecurity that means and the amount of mental illness that would signal. I trust my husband and he trusts me. Sorry, but my marriage is my own. I don’t keep up on what he’s doing outside of the home. I know he will respect our vows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:49 PM
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It’s not distrust to have separate finances. It doesn’t have anything to do with a future divorce. It could be said that you don’t want to spend that money on your spouse family, but it’s not about distrust. Good prenups protect both parties in the event of a divorce. They say nothing for the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:41 PM
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Wouldn’t happen in my house. Nobody is submitting dna of my kids to a public site and company until they’re old enough to understand and consent to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:27 PM
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Good to know!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:22 PM
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We have separate finances and a prenup. No divorce plans in sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:21 PM
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If I accuse him of cheating I am already asking for the divorce and we don’t do the rest. I trust my husband and he trusts me as well. He is free to do whatever with whoever and I know that he will respect our vows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:19 PM
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I agree. You should divorce at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:18 PM
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It demands nothing of you too, unless you’re a rapist?? It’s confirmation for her peace of mind!! You should want that for her and yourself too. It also protects you, right? Now you know she’s not raping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:14 PM
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Are you fine with your wife filming you all night long while she sleeps and watching that footage to make sure you’re not like those guys that drug and rape their wives? Is that reasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:53 PM
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Yes, I told my future husband that if he said the kid wasn’t his that he would be treated as he said, which means he has no rights or responsibility to the child, until a court said otherwise. That’s how it works when a man denies paternity in the real world. I’m not stupid enough to allow a man to claim the parts of fatherhood that he wants while not being a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:51 PM
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Then he’s claiming that as his child. That’s what the birth certificate is for. It’s a declaration that you acknowledge you are the father. You’re accepting paternity. That’s how you get rights. If you’re saying you’re not the father then you don’t sign it. This isn’t hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:49 PM
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I don’t fantasize about it. It was a thought. My husband and I discussed all of these things while dating instead of making assumptions about how someone else “should act” or “should feel” when faced with accusations. I wouldn’t have continued with a man that wanted a test in the test in the future. We both agreed that there’s no future once trust is lot on one side. It’s not the job of the other person to fix your insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:44 PM
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I don’t know anyone in these “normal situations” where both parties didn’t want to get married. People aren’t getting married because they don’t trust people. Most people keep their finances separate before marriage too. You have no entitlement to someone else’s money. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:42 PM
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When the test proves him wrong he gets legal rights or when he signs the birth certificate. Until then he has none and he also has no responsibility towards the child either. The judge will tell you the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:40 PM
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Still not the same as cheating. Would you be pissed if your wife accused you of that or not? Oh no, of course you. You’d laugh it off. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:31 PM
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They’re mostly hook ups and won’t leave the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:29 PM
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Paternity fraud isn’t only cheating on someone. It’s lying to the father about paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:25 PM
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The app is working as intended. They’d be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:23 PM
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You’re fine with your wife accusing you of being a legitimate psychopath willing to expose her to stds and lie to her face for 18+ plus years about something important? You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:22 PM
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Based on what? It’s not his child and he has no rights to said child until granted by the court. He’s the one saying it’s not his child. The court isn’t going to grant someone primary custody because the mother acted as the father claimed. It’s not his kid, his words.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:20 PM
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My husband understands my reasoning and agrees with it. Just as if I said I want a paternity test to show you that you’re the father he would assume that I cheated and had my own doubts. That test is an accusation of infidelity. It’s over,
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:12 PM
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Let’s not pretend it’s the norm either. Imagine me setting up cameras in my home to film my husband every night and saying some stupid shit like let’s not pretend that husbands that rape and drug their wives don’t exist. The marriage is over, but it’s better than being a rape victim and a clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:06 PM
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I believe I would go the full nuclear option if my husband asked me for a paternity test and I was pregnant or had given birth to our child. It would be far more than a divorce. He would not be signing the birth certificate and he would be getting visitation through a court. If that’s not your baby then it’s not your baby. If I found out after the fact that he did a test it would be an instant divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:58 PM
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Okay, then men need to stop complaining that wives leave when being accused of being psycho lying whores willing to ruining the life of a man. Of course they’re pissed. The marriage is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:54 PM
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No no, it’s to give him assurance that he’s the father, like men asking and it’s somehow not an accusation of her cheating. That’s how that works. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:46 PM
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She’s beautiful!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:42 PM
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Go ahead. One is likely needed for child support too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:34 PM
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I would never have agreed to that. I was a virgin until marriage and so was he. If you need a test then l need a divorce. I wouldn’t stay with a man that can make accusations like that and would expect the same from him. The only reason for a test is cheating. No, we’re not doing that. You have broken the marriage with that request.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:29 PM
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Personal attacks against my husband for understanding why someone would be offended at accusations of cheating? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:34 PM
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It’s showing I have nothing to hide by offering one? No, you’re assuming that. Maybe I have a bf on the side that I want more and I don’t care if you leave. Maybe I want legal ties to hot dick and this is the only way to get it under the law. This is why it’s stupid to make assumptions on that. On the other side there’s no way my husband is not the father unless l cheated. He is accusing me of cheating by asking for that test. Btw, my kids are adopted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:32 PM
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I asked my husband and he said he would assume that I was cheating if I ever brought up a paternity and would expect a woman to feel the same if a man brought it up to her. He’s accusing her of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:22 PM
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I want to see a wife ask for a paternity test, for his assurance of course, and then not see a man accuse her of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:18 PM
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Idk, why are you doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:02 AM
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Did you read the entire comment?? The n word is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:53 AM
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What???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:47 AM
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My little brother. The guy I responded to knows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:25 AM
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Hold my chichi! We talk about all cute little animals!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:54 PM
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I don’t want to totally ruin my dad’s reputation, but he’s apparently also sexist. It was followed by “go ask mom”. I was like wow, way to oppress my mother by expecting her to make up for your parental slack. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:22 PM
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Kelby asked dad if he could drive him over to my house this morning. Dad was super casual about it. He threw it out there as a stand alone and didn’t try to hide it. “No.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:17 PM
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You look like my dad when I lecture him about casually using that n word. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:03 PM
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The child he said no to is black. 😒 Make of that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:45 PM
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Is my dad an oppressive white man? All signs point to yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:43 PM
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My dad is casually throwing around that n word again and it’s making me very uncomfortable. People are way too comfortable using unacceptable language through text. You can’t casually tell your children no. That’s wrong. He needs more Jesus and it’s a Sunday too. 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:33 PM
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<image> I could be wrong???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:18 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:52 PM
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I’m surrounded by happy puppies and having my morning tea. Life is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:48 PM
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I don’t know!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:04 AM
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I HAVE FOOD POISONING!!!!!! 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:18 PM
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I think some people do that. We don’t, but some people still want privacy between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:45 PM
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He wants her to pay for everything from date one, not after marriage. If he meets her young she probably won’t be far into her career to be able to afford that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:25 PM
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Those would be marital assets if it occurred during the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:34 PM
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My husband would get nothing in a divorce without our prenup, which was my idea. He’s a stay at home dad. Alimony? Good luck on surviving 1/4 of my actual paycheck. 😂 A woman having money to afford a stay at home husband most likely means that money is already in the bank and is NOT a marital asset.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:15 AM
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These charcuterie boards are saving my life. The all day snacking is working wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:44 PM
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Cheese or Cheeto
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:12 PM
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I have huge news from my doctor’s visit today. I did NOT lose any weight since my visit last week!!! SUCCESS!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:10 PM
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This would never happen in my family. We coordinate outfits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:07 PM
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YOU GOT MARRIED?? CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:07 PM
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Did everyone have a great Father’s Day? Did you celebrate a dad in your life? I sent flowers to all of the important dads around me and l took flowers to my brother’s grave and had a good cry over all that he’s missing out on with his daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:16 PM
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I don’t have any feelings for men that I don’t know on a personal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:21 PM
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Happy Father’s Day to the dads here!!! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:52 PM
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I know that my husband took the time to read my diaries. I gave him permission to read them, but I have nothing to hide or be ashamed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:50 AM
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You can’t change the definition of words. 😂 Ghosting is abruptly cutting off communication without cause. Ghosting is not saying no to an approach and then not explaining your reasons for rejecting them. They answered you and said no. You’re seriously too lazy to read 6 comments? Np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/tekJk413G7
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:49 PM
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You commented to my original post… You can read them all. Don’t make excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:41 PM
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That’s right. Show me where I once talked about ghosting in any of my comments when I said no means no and she didn’t say yes. Go ahead, show me the comment. It was NEVER mentioned. This is another rant coming from you about a topic never mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:30 PM
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Oh yeah totally, mr. women suck because they won’t be treat all circumstances the exact same even though you won’t either. You are definitely a decent person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:18 PM
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So you’re not a decent person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:04 PM
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I highly doubt you’re feeding, housing, and giving every homeless person that you encounter money, but you can pretend otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:53 PM
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According to your comment you’re not a decent person for not giving the homeless money, food, and shelter when they ask you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:59 PM
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You didn’t hear him out to bash your mother after all he thinks he’s done for you?? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:25 PM
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You don’t get to decide what those needed things are for other people. That’s not how being a decent human being works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:15 PM
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People don’t need “closure” from a random person that they don’t know. They fucking need therapy if they’re feeling hurt that a person doesn’t owe them a reason for not wanting to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:58 PM
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If she says no it means no. The why doesn’t matter and you, or anyone, is not entitled to a reason for the rejection. She doesn’t have to risk her safety by pissing off some random man with an ego so that you can feel “closure”. There’s nothing to close. She didn’t say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:41 PM
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You only got the microchip in yours? LUCKY!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:56 PM
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😒 l want to point out that I didn’t have cancer before the vaccine. Then my relapsing cancer relapsed after having boosters. Make of that what you will… I didn’t have children before the vaccine either and now I have 3! We need more govt studies about potential side effects. People should know if it’s causing adoptions to happen! Excuse me, it’s time for me to schedule my shots. I’m hoping to contract a puppy this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:53 PM
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Not everyone wants commitment. I know multiple sought after women that could lock down their man of choice, but they have no interest. They have casual sex and casual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:40 AM
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Oh no, let me go pray on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:55 PM
2

It was only sore for a day or 2 and I didn’t have any issues or infections.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:10 PM
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My nose has had a stud since I was 14 years old and l have never had daddy issues. My parents are amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:05 PM
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I’m sorry. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:01 PM
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It’s going to pass and calm back down. Stay strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:00 PM
1

I am a tuna roll kind of girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:59 PM
1

Did you find your secret hair collection?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:58 PM
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I certainly wasn’t interested in dating 99% of them. I never planned on lowering my standards either. Neither of those is despising men. I wanted to get married and have kids as long as I could remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:57 PM
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My weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:34 PM
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You are controlling if you use threats to voice your concern. Break up if you’re not comfortable with your partner’s behaviour. You are not indifferent if you don’t voice concern. You’re indifferent because you aren’t giving any support to her following what she wants. Is it really that hard to say have fun on your trip? You don’t want her to have fun? That’s far from indifferent. That’s being passive and not wanting to break up even though you don’t like what she’s doing. You don’t need to rest…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:18 PM
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He does seem fun. My husband moved on from training my 2 year old to say alpha bro phrases. She’s now a boss bitch with boundaries. “You sayed that to me? You not sayed that to me!”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:28 PM
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You don’t need a gay son for that experience. You only need a toddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:19 PM
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They’re as tall as humans. 150-170cm Your brown bears average 170cm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:06 PM
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I’m 26 and married. It wouldn’t have changed if I were a man. I did ask out men. I waited for marriage to have sex. I expected the same from my husband. We’re both attractive people and shared the same dating experiences and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:02 PM
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You have brown bears. They’re not small.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:54 PM
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New concept unlocked!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:45 PM
3

Black bears are one of the cutest animals on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:42 PM
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It makes sense. Chichis are tiny bears out to control the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:39 PM
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I want to be a chichi.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:37 PM
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Matt Damon hair
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:36 PM
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I love black bears!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:31 PM
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Hire a cleaner. This is post is ridiculous. What man would want to stay married to a mentally incompetent woman that needs to be treated like a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:05 PM
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You’re talking about the fuckableness of a rapist and acting like it’s fucking normal. You’re using a photo of him on what looks like the bed of a little girl. It’s not virtue signaling. It’s fucking disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:46 AM
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Who knew respecting rape victims was suddenly political. Carry on judging the fuckableness of a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:33 AM
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Why are you trying to discuss whether or not a rapist and likely pedo is fuckable or who mogs him? That’s so disrespectful to his victims. The man is a criminal that has fucked your country over for years. Your grandson will be paying for his mistakes. There’s many conversations to have about Trump, but this really shouldn’t be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:59 AM
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Men can have a “manhood” ceremony too and then also take on adult responsibilities like the women do. Here’s your new shirt. You’re 15 now. Help your parents pay bills, little man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:56 AM
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My 2 year old has her very first pet of her own and she loves him so much. She’s been by his tank all night watching her hamster play with his new toys and run on his wheel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:10 PM
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My work day is officially done. The results are 1200% of my goal. Success!!! Now I need new projects to fund! Let’s go!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:34 PM
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Pretty girls always approached him, gave him numbers, and asked him out. Even now that he’s married women still hit on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:22 PM
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My husband never had sex before marriage and he has always known that he was desirable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:21 PM
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I hope Iran doesn’t use your tax money for bad deeds!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:48 PM
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That’s what Iran said! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:02 PM
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Wooooow, Americans won that war so hard. All praise Trump!!! Iran gets AT LEAST 300b! All sanctions are lifted from Iran! The US will not interfere in their politics! Iran gets to put fees on ships using the strait!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:01 PM
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You question the work of God??? He made me this way!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:30 PM
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Badger talks about it happening in Thailand from the local women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:11 PM
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A lot of women in those countries refer to foreign men as losers back home. You can’t say women are attracted to those men when they talk about them that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:54 PM
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I’m working hard today.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:34 PM
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I just hit my dad up. Hi daddy! Love you… Do you have a minute? My dad immediately asked me how much money I want from him. 😂 😒 Look at me, daddy. I’m adorable. Write a cheque based on how much my cuteness is worth. It’s for Jesus and we’re both judging you. My dad: 😂 Okay, you win.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:25 PM
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I am great at my job. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:20 PM
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My first meeting was a massive success. I called my godfather on zoom so he could witness all of my tactical manipulations. I’m wearing my cute baggy overalls with a little summer sweater and a head wrap that has a bow on it. Good morning!!! I was hoping to talk to you about various projects that the church is working on at the moment to see if you would be interested in helping to support them. Do you have a minute? “Oh my goodness. You look adorable this morning!! Take my money. I’ll drop a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:11 PM
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It’s cat magic, not black magic, but it could be black cat magic too. Idk what colour your cat is to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:58 AM
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They’re celebrating her becoming a woman and no longer being a child, at 12 or whatever age it happens. 😒I don’t know any 8-14 year old “women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:54 AM
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They’re going to be great!! They’ll come home, get crazy amounts of love, and be the happiest boys!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:52 AM
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In today’s episode of the life of Princess Pickles: Being extra cute in meetings where I persuade men to give me very large cheques for charity. Let’s go!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:09 AM
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Sporting guys, not guys that obsess over watching sports, but actual athletes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:26 AM
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I don’t think I’d be compatible with that kind of guy. It’s not for me, but I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting to do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:45 AM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:27 AM
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It’s paid employees
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:35 PM
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Very
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:04 PM
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I don’t care about your political alliances or your personal beliefs. You are a human piece of shit if you celebrate a “celebrity”death or hear someone is hospitalized and say l’m sorry to tell you that they’re still alive. Something is very very wrong with you if you do that. It’s okay to not be sad, but don’t be a psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:58 PM
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Update on the weird text! It wasn’t intended sexual harassment. He’s autistic and he has a gf. He was hoping to get advice from me to have a happy sexual relationship with her. He apologized to my pastor and asked him to apologize on his behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:53 PM
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I already have people and services for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:49 PM
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Why can you use it when you’re using the stove???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:58 PM
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Do you have an electric fan? Put a bucket of ice in front of it. It makes the air much cooler.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:56 PM
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I find it very funny when men on here call me a “good girl” because I waited for marriage to have sex and married the same. I’m not like all of the whores that were ruined by dating athletes, attractive men, or men with money. No bro, I dated those guys. I exclusively dated those men. Not every man with options is obsessed with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:49 PM
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That’s one of the reasons I was like don’t respond with feelings. End the conversation and tell him not to contact you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:44 PM
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It’s like zero social awareness exists. The sad part is that I don’t think he was trying to sexually harass me. I think he has that little awareness of how inappropriate he was behaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:42 PM
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I was polite and ended the contact. My pastor will lay into him really hard about it. He doesn’t tolerate anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:37 PM
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A church where we staff answer texts and calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:41 PM
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I for sure told my pastor. “What in the… Jesus, give me strength. I’ll handle it, Pickles. I’m sorry that happened to you.” It’s not my place to say you can’t come to any house of God. I leave that to the qualified pastoral staff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:32 PM
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No, we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:05 PM
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The stupidity and degeneracy of some people will never fail to amaze me. A few minutes ago l received a text from a guy at church asking me if he could book me for personal counseling. I said no, I don’t counsel men on my own unless it’s a very specific situation. I told him he needs to book a pastor and I can be there as well. He said no, that would be too awkward. I said okay, then you have to see one of the pastors on your own. “It’s sexual in nature and l would be uncomfortable.” I can assur…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:52 PM
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I ate more than he did. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:05 PM
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I ate so much food. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:48 AM
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I’m not a big swimmer, but it’s my husband’s thing and if we have a pool l might as well use it for my recovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:39 AM
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I had my first morning swim. It felt great and then I did the elliptical for 15 mins to warm back up. I was starving afterwards and now I am eating a full breakfast.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:57 AM
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I’m less guarded around men that I know, period. I am not less guarded simply because I know a man’s wife or know that he’s married. Being married doesn’t make you a decent person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:52 AM
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Aww. Love you too!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:16 AM
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First!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:17 PM
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My kids are set for any education and a beautiful safe house. I am willing to supply all of that upfront. I’ll pay for 12 years of university if you put in the work required. That was all covered before they were born, but I’d be damned if I left money to a grown ass adult that thinks I “owe them” anything because someone else was successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:48 PM
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I want to give a special thanks to rule number 7. Yesterday she gave me an idea to make a charcuterie board to help me eat more and it worked wonders today. I snacked for 4 hours during my shopping and meetings and I was able to eat more food during that time period than I’ve eaten all day for several weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:39 PM
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Thank you. I’m doing the same for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:22 PM
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I still have a long recovery ahead of me, but I am determined to live my life to the fullest every day. We’re all dying eventually. We all don’t choose to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:45 PM
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I thought everyone frequent on the daily thread knew already. I’m doing okay for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:37 PM
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My cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:21 PM
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I did date my best friend for a short period when we were young teens. It wasn’t there for either of us. Why would l be sad about that? He’s still my best friend. The “romantic potential” meant nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:21 PM
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Guy from church: You give great insight to the important things in life. I guess you’ve made the most out of your situation. I love your attitude. Best friend: What the hell are you talking about? She’s been like this since she was 8 years old. 😂 l love my bestie. He’s the greatest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:17 PM
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I would probably be more sad over the loss of a lifelong friend rather than being sad that a romantic relationship ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:13 PM
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Being 23 in itself is nothing. Every problem is created in your head out of comparison and isn’t actually a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:03 PM
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You do need to work on that. Imagine how other people see you. You already in a minority of success. Don’t put so much pressure on yourself to master it all at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:49 PM
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You should be exactly where you are now. You’ll get wherever you’re supposed to be when the time is right for you. What is the point of being “there” if it breaks you in the process? That’s something I learned very young. You can achieve, but it means nothing and you’ve lost if you can’t be happy once you’re there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:41 PM
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No, I absolutely love my birthday! I love getting older! I love when other people have birthdays too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:36 PM
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He’s almost 30 and thinks it’s his mom’s job to cook for him. It’s not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:35 PM
2

Getting ready to ask my bmi again??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:33 PM
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It’s already common knowledge and publicly known too, not only on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:30 PM
2

Most of my money is set to go to charity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:28 PM
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The vast majority of my money is going to charities. I have every detail planned out and legally approved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:26 PM
2

Yeah, like cabbages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:23 PM
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100% agree with this statement and everyone knows that I am a trust fund baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:22 PM
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Q4A: Should parents be legally obligated to pass any money left on to their children? My answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:20 PM
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Round one of shopping is finished!! Necessities have been purchased. 400 new towels and wash rags. 200 bottles of shampoo and 200 bottles of body wash. 400 bottles of sunscreen. 400 reusable water bottles. 600 sticks of deodorant. 400 pairs of slipper socks. 30 large bottles of laundry detergent and 10 large bottles of fabric softener. Let’s go!!! Round 2 begins after my mid morning meetings!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:18 PM
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I am judgy af towards men. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:14 PM
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Your parents could kick you out and disown you tomorrow. No, they no longer have a responsibility to cook for you. I genuinely can’t imagine the shame I would feel if one of my kids turned out like you. I would definitely kick them out with no money either. Your entitlement will never be my problem. You’re not grateful on any level.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:10 PM
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They’ll cut social security, Medicaid, and food stamps. Your govt could not care less if you suffer and die. They’ll raise your taxes rates rather than upsetting their friends and you’ll all be asking how this could happen in America. It happened because your people voted for him. Wait until you get the bill for Cuba next.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:08 PM
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They’re her step kids. She married him thinking if she wasn’t there that his kids would be neglected and ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:03 PM
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Your mother’s responsibility ended to you when you became an able bodied adult. She no longer has a responsibility to take care of you. You should be taking care of your parents as they age. Think of how much of a better life they’d have if they weren’t supporting you unnecessarily for several years. She’s sacrificed enough. You don’t need her to do anything. You want things from her. That’s not a responsibility. That’s entitlement from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:00 PM
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The markets were stable before the war. That was a reason to not start it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:57 PM
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It brings up the question about why lazy adult children aren’t forced into caring for themselves on their own. You’re not a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:56 PM
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Broccoli hasn’t changed. https://www.plantfoodathome.com/bitter-broccoli/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:55 PM
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Yeah, impeach your president before it gets worse. Other countries will not save you from the consequences of his stupid decisions. Allies are for defense, not committing war crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:52 PM
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I finished a parfait. It was too enticing for me to resist. I wasn’t hungry when I made it, but it got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:50 PM
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Can we not talk about judges? My father is a lawyer and l’ve had enough of that already. - Princess Pickles, CCB
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:49 PM
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The only reason you have to pay it is because your president started a war of choice by kissing the ass of Israel. It has 0 to do with other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:47 PM
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You might not meet a perfect for you partner. Many people settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:43 PM
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I have extra food!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:42 PM
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The aftermath of breakfast has been cleaned and it’s time for me to get to work!! Today is supporting a homeless shelter day. Let’s go! My iPad is ready to do some serious shopping!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:41 PM
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Someone compatible, that they’re attracted to physically and sexually, and that makes them also feel special and loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:38 PM
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Someone that is the most compatible might not be someone you feel a spark with, but that wouldn’t make them not an option. I think that’s what a lot of people are referring to with options. They’re great on paper, but it’s not there and they’re holding out for that aspect as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:27 PM
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I have no idea why you would marry someone that you believe can’t take care of their existing children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:10 PM
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I’m happy you’re comfortable again!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:05 PM
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I remember that you made a post before about your husband with his kids, an actual whole post, and how you didn’t think that he would take care of them without you. That’s way more than anxiety,
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:04 PM
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It’s so good. I layer Greek yogurt with fresh berries and warm honey. Sprinkle granola over the top and drizzle more honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:53 AM
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You have trust issues with your husband. Why did you marry a man that you don’t feel can properly take care of his own kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:51 AM
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I’m so sorry you have to live through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:28 AM
2

My kids love scrambled eggs with tomatoes, spinach, and mushrooms!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:27 AM
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I’m cooking!!! Steak, eggs, bacon, hash browns, and fruit parfait cups for breakfast for my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:22 AM
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So why don’t you do it? Get any job
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:46 AM
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Get a job and you can order your own things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:23 AM
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I’m not a fan of indoor pools. That’s his room. I put my legs in yesterday. It was so cold when I tried it and he promised to turn the heat up so l can get in. I put my legs in this morning and it’s still very cold to me, like hurts my bones cold. I’m so glad I didn’t get my body the entire way in the water. Now l’m on the elliptical and my legs aren’t frozen. He’s swimming laps and totally happy with his life. 😂 Maybe tomorrow it will be warm enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:20 AM
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I’m a married woman with money. My husband is educated, but he doesn’t work and will never need to work. I hear far more nasty comments from men on this topic saying I need a real man. I have heard comments from women, but they’re all broke ass underemployed women wanting to be a trad wife, not career women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:13 AM
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Average height. He’s 1cm taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:59 AM
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That’s a terrifying statement. You admire a violent rapist. You admire a man that raped minors and physically branded them. You might as well have picked Epstein.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:56 AM
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🚩🚩🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:53 AM
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I’m ready for my morning swim! Let’s go! It’s time to take control of what I can with my body and my doctor has approved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:48 AM
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It’s really hard, but l’m trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:58 PM
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I took 2 bites of my toast and I wasn’t hungry anymore. My husband suggested that I might need more physical activity to rev my hunger back into gear. Tomorrow we’re going to start morning swims before the kids wake up. Let’s see how it goes! I’m open to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:44 PM
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Of course they’re not. I feed them to my kids. 😂 They’re normal sized muffins.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:32 PM
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I already eat a lot of muffins. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:20 PM
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I’m going to try to eat avocado toast with smoked salmon and a poached egg for a mid afternoon snack. It sounds good to my brain and that is half of the battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:49 PM
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Those snack packs sound amazing. Thank you for the idea!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:35 PM
3

As of this minute? Skeletal Under normal circumstances? Long and lean. My legs tend to have more muscle weight than the rest of me. I’m 177cm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:05 PM
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I want snack ideas, not adding calories. I do better when I want to eat something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:57 PM
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It’s my best friend and he’s drunk. He wants me to get food. I’ve been here many times. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:42 PM
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I expected this comment from PB, not you. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:46 PM
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I’m not a fan of anything except getting their fries to eat in the car.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:15 PM
2

I do love chicken!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:13 PM
2

I’m so sorry. I hope you feel better soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:00 PM
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It’s time to get serious about gaining weight. I am down 13kgs or 28 Murican pounds. 😭Tell me your favourite snacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:00 PM
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Not even joking. I have a list of specific foods I want and from what restaurants. 😂 l am ready for vacation food.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:51 PM
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1 month until l can be cleared for Italy! PREPARE ALL OF THE FOODS!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:43 PM
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I don’t think anyone invests that much mental space into someone they don’t interact with personally. I’ve never done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:58 PM
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Leaders don’t demand followers, which is most men. Leaders don’t need to say they’re leading.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:47 PM
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No, l’m not into aggressive l’m the leader type of men. That’s hypermasculine to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:33 PM
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I really should. You could learn so much. My dogs don’t listen to anything I say. 😂 Just kidding. They’re little angels!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:31 PM
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What do you consider hypermasculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:01 PM
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Here’s a pro tip that I implement in my own house. Buy a ton a toy stuffed animals and show your dog that you have options. Don’t give them attention until they dog up and dominate the toys by carrying them around and fighting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:57 PM
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No no, you have to give it to her to show her that you believe she’s a loser incapable of taking it from you. You really have to break her spirit. If you really want to get nasty you can let her sleep on the bed and treat her like she’s not even a “real dog”. How far you want to go is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:51 PM
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Try giving her so many treats that she loses all respect for you and the treats. If that’s too harsh you could try upgrading her treats and rubbing her belly with a disappointed look on your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:43 PM
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I don’t understand why so many men support “men leading” when it requires all of the gendered expectations that they don’t want responsibility for too. Leading requires competence. You can’t lead and then say you need your partner to teach you how to be an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:54 PM
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My husband takes the best care of me. He went to my favourite little Italian cafe near our house and picked up sandwiches, cappuccino, and gelato cannoli as a surprise to make me feel better. He got dinner for everyone so l don’t need to lift a finger tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:37 PM
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An adult person without basic hygiene knowledge is most likely mentally deficient in some way. Call me an ableist, but that’s not my thing. I’m not interested in doing for a man what your parents should have taught you. I’m not interested in teaching you information that you should have accessed years ago. That’s a sign that something is mentally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:47 PM
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I’m not a nurse. I’m not a caretaker for a grown ass disgusting man. He’s clean or he’s never hearing from me again. I can’t imagine what the rest of his life would look like if he can’t maintain the most basic of hygiene to not have skin infections. That’s literally disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:36 PM
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It should already be maintained. She should leave, immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:33 PM
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Her responsibility is not to your penis. It’s to her own body and health. She should get up and leave rather than possibly dealing with you giving her an infection. She should NOT have sex with a man that lives that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:20 PM
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But google won’t reach through the screen and clean it. He expects her to physically do it and show him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:47 PM
4

In today’s episode of the life of Princess Pickles: Throwing up from a new medication. Fun times ahead!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:19 PM
3

Yeah, that’s so nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:11 PM
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He said women should teach grown men to clean their penis if they have bad hygiene, because a man might not know that stinking and smegma is bad. They shouldn’t be disgusted. They should physically show him how to clean his penis, because they’ve had sex with a clean one before. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:07 PM
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I dated through my social circles like friends, school, and church activities. I had 2 previous relationships, but there were years in between those 2. I went on dates 2 or 3 times a week while single hoping to connect with the right guy. When I met someone I wanted a relationship with I didn’t want to continue going on dates with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:00 AM
2

That is possibly the most dangerous animal on the planet. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:15 PM
2

I have a nose piercing and I am a handful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:12 PM
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You’re describing sexual assault, not aggressive attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:11 PM
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I was told I was marrying up to a man with 1% of my net worth, less social status, and the same level of attractiveness. Why? Because he’s 6 inches taller than me. 🙄 No, l can’t take the argument of hypergamy seriously. Being taller as a man is a sexually dimorphic trait. We’re both significantly taller than the average. Soon it will be hypergamy because he has a penis and she doesn’t. I really have no idea what you people want from women when you talk about this bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:43 PM
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In today’s episode of the life of Princess Pickles we have a doctor appointment with lab results, lunch at my house with my in laws, a dress up tea party at my parent’s house, and dinner with my brothers. Surprise guests will include baby tantrums, diaper changes needed at the worst moment, and “no mama, I no want it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:51 AM
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I trust the opinion from my parents because they genuinely only want the best for me. I trust my male best friend for the same reason. I wouldn’t have married anyone if he didn’t have the approval from all of them. It didn’t matter who you were or how I felt if one of them didn’t like you, because I value them far more than a stranger. My parents never asked to meet anyone until l was ready. They never pressured me to behave a certain way, like waiting for marriage either. They 100% allowed me t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:14 AM
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I trust the opinion from my parents because they genuinely only want the best for me. I trust my male best friend for the same reason. I wouldn’t have married anyone if he didn’t have the approval from all of them. It didn’t matter who you were or how I felt if one of them didn’t like you, because I value them far more than a stranger. My parents never asked to meet anyone until l was ready. They never pressured me to behave a certain way, like waiting for marriage either. They 100% allowed me t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:13 AM
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😭😭😭 I can’t actually comment here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:45 PM
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We did that! I had a lot of fun and I ate too many snacks. He was shocked at how many snacks I ate at the game. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:01 PM
2

I never dated anyone that my family or best friend didn’t like. I also wouldn’t have sex until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:55 PM
1

That means your parents didn’t teach you how to wash. You blame them, not women for being disgusted by a nasty penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:08 PM
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You can’t tell if something is visually dirty or smells bad? Did you need to see other asses to know if yours is dirty as well? You aren’t aware that build up and things growing on your body parts aren’t normal? I never saw a penis before getting married. It doesn’t mean that I would have thought any of that was normal if my husband weren’t clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:18 AM
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What makes you think that a woman is more likely to physically know how to wash and care for a penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:56 AM
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They’re so big!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:59 PM
3

I don’t believe men should be held accountable for the bad actions of other men. It’s also why I won’t give a man credit for things other men do or have done either,
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:38 PM
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I personally never cared about money or status because I had my own. I am attractive and I only dated very attractive men. I never saw it as dating down to date a man with less financial potential, because that’s nearly 100% of men in my age range. I dated who I found attractive and had shared goals and morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:35 PM
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It wouldn’t change anything. I can’t make myself attracted to any specific man and I don’t believe in sex outside of marriage. There’s certainly no duty or pity sex. I would donate more money to male mental health causes and that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:32 PM
2

Oh, well that’s new.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:28 PM
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It’s 12 hours for posts, not 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:20 PM
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You still have more hair 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:02 AM
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Thank you! It’s only a few little peach fuzz spots, but it’s a sign that my hair will start to regrow soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:04 AM
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Soon l will have baby level hair. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:03 AM
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Ccb is bald no more! I feel a little hair stub!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:45 PM
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That sounds like a therapist that couldn’t help you or relate to you to help you. Please try someone different. I had to see 4 different therapists before I found someone that could help me deal with my cancer. I had to see 3 before I found one that could help me deal with the death of my brother. It’s hard work, but it’s worth it to feel better. You don’t have to feel this bad. I said the same things when it was the wrong therapist for me, but my family made me keep trying. Please keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:50 PM
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Was it this bad before? Were you having multiple daily breakdowns? I would call that helping if you weren’t in this state. Better doesn’t have to mean good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:45 PM
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Oh naur, you’re right. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:43 PM
3

It was you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:42 PM
3

I hope you get help for it. That sounds like a serious mental health issue and nobody should live like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:40 PM
5

That picture screams “respect me”, but respect is given, not taken or commanded.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:38 PM
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Shooting you and acting shady in a relationship are entirely different things. I trust until I am given a reason not to do so. I take you at your word until you show me it’s worthless. That’s totally fine for someone with healthy boundaries and mental health. It would never be worth it for me to date anyone that says l like you, but you having a male best friend you want to hang out with is a problem. There are far too many good men out there to tolerate that behaviour. I wouldn’t be with my hus…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:59 PM
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I agree with the statement. You can’t honestly think that women shouldn’t be disgusted by poor hygiene because a guy couldn’t be bothered to learn how to wash his penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:21 PM
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He’s on a mission to create the world’s cutest tiniest troll 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:11 PM
2

That one is new from last night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:57 PM
3

My 2 year old is talking shit to make her dad laugh. “Hey bro, why you is so aggo?” “Invest crypto!” “Hey bro, do you lifts?” “Makes Canada great again!”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:52 PM
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If you trust someone then the actions of someone else do not matter. One of his best friends is his ex. It doesn’t bother me at all. They didn’t work out, but they ended on good terms and they both moved on. My life long best friend is a guy. He has no issue with that. He’s the godfather of my babies. My husband is the godfather to his son. It doesn’t need to be a situation because of gender. We trust each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:33 PM
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I’m a professional athlete and attractive. I get all kinds of attention. No, I won’t deal with an insecure man. I have personal security for when I go out. If he doesn’t trust me then he’s gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:21 PM
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What wording?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:07 PM
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I need the freedom to be myself and live my life beside you, not under your rules. I need someone not jealous of the attention that I receive. I need someone that understands l have an extremely busy schedule and you wanting to hang out isn’t going to come before my training, faith, and family obligations. I need someone compatible with my life and thankfully I found him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:58 PM
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I was very lucky too. My parents are avid skiers and I wanted to snowboard from a very young age. They saw that I had a lot of talent and they got me lessons. They paid for camps too, but they never once tried to make me go. It had to be my decision and I had to have the drive to do it and be ready on my own. Their only requirement to allowing me to do it was that my schooling couldn’t suffer. They weren’t keen on the idea, but they allowed it to play out and always supported me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:26 PM
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My kids are into dirt. I don’t know where that’s going to take them in life, but let’s find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:13 PM
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Did you check for back hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:11 PM
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My kids are all adopted from birth. I would have had a home birth if I could have kids, but I can no longer do that. If my husband asked me for a test he would have destroyed all of my trust and faith in the man that he was supposed to be. We trust each other, which is why I gave him that prenup, because he wouldn’t be entitled to a dime of my money in a divorce. I don’t blame any single woman for walking out that door after an accusation like that. It’s no different than asking a man to prove h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:09 PM
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Co-parenting means shared equal custody. I am not staying in a relationship with a man that thinks so little of me, just as my husband would leave if I ever asked him to prove that he hasn’t been raping me in my sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:58 PM
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I am still with him. He’s a wonderful man. A man that has never given me reason to not trust him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:57 PM
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I’ve seen a wild black bear. I worked near one. They’re very lazy animals, unless sick, until they’re provoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:44 PM
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I already signed one when I gave the man a prenup worth 7 figures that counts even if he cheats. It was my idea, so yeah, I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:41 PM
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Listen, I’m not a cheater, therefore he doesn’t need a test. If that logic is good enough for a man then it’s good enough for women. He’d get his test and be out of my house and life outside of co-parenting. That would be the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:40 PM
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My trust in cats in 0%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:32 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:31 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:30 PM
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Between 10-14% of married women are raped by their husband. 34% have experienced sexual violence at the hands of their husband. You would wrong. https://www.wagnerreese.com/blog/marital-rape-statistics/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:08 PM
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Most wives aren’t of a cheating disposition, but you expect them to tolerate accusations and get tests like it means nothing. You can do the same as women and deal with the accusations and guilt from the actions of another man too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:33 PM
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If she’s sleeping she can’t. Have you somehow missed all of the recent news stories of the men drugging and raping their wives in their sleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:19 AM
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I wouldn’t use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:57 PM
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In the bedroom for absolute proof that you’re not raping her in her sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:56 PM
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You’re fine with her setting up cameras and asking for a magical polygraph that tells the truth? She believes you may have raped her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:44 PM
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Would you be okay with your wife accusing you of possibly raping her and being a pathological liar willing to ruin your life? That’s what men are doing with a dna test. You’re accusing your wife of being not only unfaithful, but willing to lie to you for the next 18 years to raise the child of another man to ruin your life. Let’s not pretend that it’s the norm to have a dna test done because of hospital circumstances. They want to know if she cheated and got pregnant. Are you okay with your wife…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:32 PM
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Serious question for men: Your wife thinks that you may have raped her. She genuinely believes this is a possibility. How would you get past that and how do you think it would make you feel to know that she truly believes that you are capable of hurting her that way? Would you leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:28 PM
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So it’s fine if she only accuses you of possibly raping her once? That would really be fine with you if your wife thought that you were capable of raping her? How would you be okay with your wife thinking so little of you as a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:25 PM
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Call the police and let the law handle it. They’ll certainly handle your bf/husband for beating a guy without cause. I love that some women are like he raped me do you go possibly get stabbed or shot because I refuse to act for myself. That’s a giant no from me. Revenge isn’t protecting you or your “honour”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:23 PM
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In that case you are accusing her of cheating and being a pathological liar. Is it okay for her to set up cameras in your home to verify that you’re not raping her in her sleep? You know you would never rape her, but she can’t know that. It’s 100% fine for her to suggest that and do it, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:19 PM
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When I get hair I am going to colour it baby blue!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:15 PM
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It’s the accusation. There’s no trust but verify here? Her peace of mind doesn’t matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:47 PM
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You invited me for coffee? Have some banana bread! You invited me for wine? Enjoy these chocolate dipped stuffed strawberries! I can’t go anywhere without bringing baskets of food.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:46 PM
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“Take her for granted”, not granite.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:43 PM
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I definitely had rules for allowing that to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:39 PM
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So you’re fine when I have set up cameras in the bedroom and ask you to take a polygraph to prove that you’re not raping me in my sleep because some guys do that? Don’t get defensive on me now. That seems totally normal to you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:10 PM
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You weren’t asking for a paternity test in that case, which is totally different than asking your wife to prove you’re the father. Don’t pretend hospital circumstances are the same as some guy wanting to know “it’s mine”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:21 PM
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You could also do a maternity test in that case, not a paternity test. Would a maternity test have sufficed for your needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:15 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen a comment on here that I agree with more than this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:32 AM
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Oh right, it’s about a man’s feelings. That’s nice. Sorry, but my husband can’t accuse me of being a psychopathic whore because it might make him feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:33 AM
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Is it cool if I accuse my husband of drugging me to rape me because some other man did it do his wife? Hey babe, I need you to take this polygraph and I installed cameras in our bedroom to watch you at night. It’s not that I don’t trust you, it’s just, well you know… You might be raping me. No man is going to be okay with that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:30 AM
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The marriage is 100% over the moment a man accuses me of cheating and being willing to lie to him over paternity. He can get the test, but the marriage is done without trust on his side. He needs to be gone from my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:45 AM
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I’ve had it done by men and it creeps me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:38 PM
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😂 Do you want me to buy you a dictionary? There’s nothing factual about your statement. You stated something that some people do on social media. There’s nothing factual about women, people, or anything else in there. Facts also can’t be argued against, because they’re facts. You don’t understand any of the words that you’re attempting to use, including dominate. I have no idea what is wrong with you or what triggered you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:08 PM
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I stated my personal experiences with it and did not make mention of other women. That’s not an argument. You were speaking at me and your bs was not appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:55 PM
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No, what you said is some bullshit that you made up in your head because you think all women are looking for attention and directed it at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:50 PM
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Ah yes, the classic I’m talking shit to you, but I really meant everyone else and you don’t count. 🙄 This is every argument ever on ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:41 PM
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My public open social media consisted of pictures of me snowboarding and traveling. That’s it. It had some updates for my fans about my cancer journey. I have always been EXTREMELY private about my life on there. The only person to EVER be posted on my social media was my father, who was already a public figure. Why would you think that having social media means you’re posting everything about your life? I had over 2.5 million followers before l retired and the page was shut down. Many of them w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:06 PM
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A toasted croissant with mayo, tomato, onion, and cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:51 PM
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Congratulations!!! I’m 100% certain that your dad is watching you and is immensely proud of your achievements!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:48 PM
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I had one single post about getting married on my public social media. No mention of dating anyone ever and no mention of having a husband afterwards. The people that know me know that I am happily married. My life isn’t for the world to know because I have a page. My children have NEVER been posted on my social media and never will be either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:43 PM
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I hope you enjoy them!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:29 PM
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Dinner is going to be sooo tasty. Pineapple rice and sautéed shrimp along with salad and a whipped dessert.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:20 PM
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I would have stayed single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:00 PM
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It sucks!! I did it once and I nearly drowned in my own sweat. It was disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:54 PM
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TIL hot yoga is meant to replicate the heat and humidity in India. TIL I will never go to India.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:42 PM
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Even he’s offended
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:34 PM
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My dad is a very high profile attorney with a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:18 PM
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I have them now, because of threats to my safety that have existed most of my life, but became much worse when I became a professional athlete as a young teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:03 PM
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They would sit tight up against me, one on each side, and give side eye to my date while critiquing everything possible. 😂 They’d sit at a table next to me and eat too or they’d sit behind me at a theater.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:01 PM
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If they thought it was crazy they shouldn’t have asked me out at school or wherever while my security stood there. 😂 I guess some men are stupid like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:29 PM
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Yes, exactly what it sounds like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:59 PM
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I always felt bad when I was out on dates because people felt self conscious about my having personal security. I understood why they felt uncomfortable at first and felt like they were being watched. What I never understood were the guys that would get angry because I had security.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:38 PM
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I love when my babies are happy and full of smiles. I love watching them play. Kids are the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:38 PM
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Hello, Police? Someone removed money from my bank accounts without permission and I want to press charges. Doesn’t matter who it was, thank you. That’s not a soda or shared property in a shared space. Many spouses get arrested for theft and for rape. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:16 PM
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That’s normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:09 PM
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No, racism doesn’t need an excuse to hide behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:08 PM
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I don’t think they should do it. Find someone compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:07 PM
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We have a single joint bank account that he is free to use as he wishes. He’d be in prison if he took money from my other accounts. It’s not his money or our money. It’s my money. It would be nothing other than theft.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:06 PM
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You don’t get to change the meaning of self made. That doesn’t diminish his success, but he wasn’t self made.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:10 PM
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I’m on my way home from the hospital!! I can finish my treatment in the comfort of my home surrounded by my puppies and my kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:43 PM
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I’m so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:41 PM
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He grew up with money too and his dad backed his early ventures. He is not self made either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:21 PM
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Do you consider Trump or Elon to be self made?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:37 AM
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Another big one is that they begin to believe their own hype because they’re surrounded by yes men aspiring to be them. I’ve seen this on all different levels, but eventually you will smacked in the face with your own humanity and realize that you’re not special at all. You’re surrounded by special circumstances. If you weren’t kept grounded it’s quite a ways to fall. I could go on and on with the reasons I have seen, but I will stop here. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:05 AM
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A lot of them inherited the wealth from nonexistent parents that didn’t love them or give them any sense of worth. Money was all that mattered and the money never fills the emotional void.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:53 PM
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I stood up and walked to the door, twice, on my own. 💅🏼 I understand that not everyone can be that fit. Start with some burpees. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:12 PM
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I had 3 bites and fed the rest to the kids. They love steak. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:08 PM
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Steak bites with fries and garlic truffle aioli.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:47 PM
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My dad’s going to bring me dinner tonight. I’m excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:42 PM
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Married for 3 years this fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:10 PM
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It’s the same as my parents and for my husband. We all dated a lot before marriage. We’re religious and waited for marriage before having sex. No one struggled to find potential partners. His parents were the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:22 PM
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My test results are slightly better. They think the antibiotics are doing something. Do I feel any better? No, I feel awful. My back is killing me and I am tired constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:48 AM
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Still feeling terrible in the hospital. I need sleep, but my back is hurting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:34 AM
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Where did I say funny alone is attractive or that it’s sexually attractive? I said it’s a PART of a good personality that draws people towards them. Abusers attract male friends with the same traits. Those men aren’t gay. They’re not sexually attractive traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:17 AM
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What attribute? What are you talking about? What is funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:54 AM
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Some have them. They’re charming, funny, and socially skilled. That has nothing to do with their behaviour towards women. My husband has a fantastic personality. Everyone loves being around him and he treats me like a queen. The looks and social skills/personality are step one. After that you vet for character while getting to know them more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:16 AM
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My test results are improving, slightly, with the antibiotics. I have a small amount of hope again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:48 PM
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That might be a normal for him. My best friend would fly me private across the country to hang out with him for the weekend when we were at different universities. He wasn’t trying to impress me. That’s how we travel. It’s not leading with money if that’s how you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:25 PM
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Ignore him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:54 PM
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Yes. I was in a very similar boat. I went out with more than 100 guys trying to find the one that had everything I wanted and in return I met his list too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:57 PM
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I think any combination of a significant number of traits is hard to find by default. Expecting them to be single AND interested in you in return is going to make that a much harder find.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:49 PM
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He dropped out of his senior year of med school when I was diagnosed with cancer to support me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:57 PM
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My husband didn’t have any real debt, but I gave his parents back the money they put towards his schooling when we got married. I felt really bad about the entire situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:05 PM
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“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:14 AM
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Thank you. Hopefully I can get better with meds, but we’ll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:32 PM
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It’s a kidney infection. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:26 PM
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Thank you. That means a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:25 PM
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They took blood and urine samples as soon as I got admitted and said they’ll hopefully know something within 2 hours. They have me on fluids and said my pulse rate is elevated. I hope it’s not graft versus host disease. That’s my biggest fear every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:16 PM
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The staff here are amazing. Super nice nurses that answer you immediately and they’re all super caring too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:02 PM
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My nurse checked my temp and I have a fever. They said I had to come in to be admitted immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:00 PM
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I’m back in the hospital. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:54 PM
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I only dated the most attractive men. They’re not dating below average or average women despite their other qualities. They just don’t. It doesn’t mean those women can’t date, but I wouldn’t date someone I wasn’t attracted to physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:34 PM
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I’d like to be feeling better by Christmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:36 PM
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I hope it happens!!! ❤️ Prayers for a tiny ashprouix
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:22 PM
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Narrator: she wasn’t joking at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:00 PM
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Live happily 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:51 PM
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Acknowledging that I wouldn’t want people I don’t find attractive isn’t black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:40 PM
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No, I’m saying they likely wouldn’t bother dating. That’s why you don’t find the women in these situations asking for the advice. A lot more women than men get plastic surgery, but I think at some point they make peace with their lives as they’ve become and men don’t seem to be able to it that on a larger scale. If these women were asking they’d get the same advice and probably the same percentage would follow it as men. Some people are desperate to have a partner, even at the expense of their o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:29 PM
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Most women aren’t going to be desperate for a relationship with a man. These men are asking for advice and some advice is going to seem extreme when you claim you’ve tried everything else and it hasn’t worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:24 PM
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I’m going to compliment that man and tell him that his hard works shows. I don’t understand petty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:22 PM
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I have a business degree and I do nothing with it. I’m finishing a second degree to become a pastor. Some people need to follow their dreams even if it means starting over or giving up certain privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:19 PM
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Tbf, you also wouldn’t find me online complaining and asking for advice. I was always happy single and knew that if it was meant for me then I would find it. I don’t know many guys that are actually content with their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:16 PM
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I think people that go around doing that are extremely insecure with low self esteem looking to make themselves feel better. It’s not normal behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:14 PM
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I certainly wouldn’t if I were average or below, because that’s not what l’m attracted to in men. Even with self improvement I wouldn’t have been able to catch the eyes of men that I wanted seriously. I got lucky in life. I was born to the right family with the right looks and then raised appropriately to harness it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:06 PM
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He’s making smash burgers for dinner with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:10 PM
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My kitchen smells so good. I’m caramelizing onions and sautéing mushrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:00 PM
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I don’t need a test. The answer is 96.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:16 PM
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Needs more puppies!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:16 PM
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Best
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:11 PM
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Today is flower planting day at our house. My little one is going to plant her pansy seeds into the pots that she’s painted. We’re also going to fill window boxes and hanging baskets with seedlings that have been growing in the greenhouse. It’s time for some beautiful spring colour to liven up things. She’s a very excited girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:02 PM
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❤️ Thank you. Today I am reminding myself that my body is a shell. You’re a beautiful person and l love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:44 PM
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His comment is so fucked up! What if l were anorexic? Would it be okay to ask my bmi and trigger it more? Where did I mention weight in my comment? I didn’t. What if I were a burn victim or talking about scarring from an accident? No no, I must be fat if I am a woman with body issues. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:34 PM
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Thank you. My kids gave me lots of hugs and kisses when they saw me crying. I know what the problem is in this situation. It’s my brain and I need to do what l can to control the situation to prevent it from happening. He’s removing the mirrors right now and putting them into a spare room until l can handle them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:09 PM
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Thank you. This too shall pass. You’re a beautiful person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:05 PM
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Focusing on the good parts of me until my body is something that I can be comfortable with again. I am not my appearance. I am not my body. It’s a shell and it will go through changes, dramatic changes, and that’s okay. It doesn’t change my worth as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:03 PM
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It’s in my closet between my bathroom and bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:55 AM
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My bmi doesn’t matter and it’s NONE of your fucking business. I’m venting!! Take your hateful ridiculous body shaming somewhere else!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:54 AM
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I’m banning full length mirrors in my house for a few months. I saw myself getting out of the shower and it made me cry. I hate my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:24 AM
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I’m almost to the 100 day mark and still alive. It’s going to take about a year to fully recover if there’s no setbacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:39 PM
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I was a little busy trying to not die with chemo, radiation, and then living in isolation at the hospital for 5 weeks after a bone marrow transplant. Life happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:28 PM
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That doesn’t sound unreasonable at all, but life gets in the way. My husband and I haven’t had sex for months now. It sucks, but it happens like that at times. Circumstances don’t allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:41 AM
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It definitely matters how it’s stated and no, men are not shamed nearly as much as women are shamed for it. This sub is proof of that. Men literally won’t shut up about it. Most people don’t care when men aren’t being disrespectful to the people that they don’t want. Multiple women have already stated that fact and men choose to ignore it. Their preferences are not being shamed. They’re being shamed for acting like an asshole about it. The blue pill isn’t about preferences. It’s disagreeing with…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:35 AM
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I wouldn’t blame her for leaving him. He’s already clearly thinking about leaving her and complaining that it would be too costly to do that. If my husband said something that disrespectful he would be moving out for quite some time at the very least. It would take a very long time for me to believe him after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:46 AM
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I would be livid in her shoes. Imagine your wife saying something like I really wish I hadn’t signed that prenup. No honey, I’m not thinking about leaving you, but I certainly like to talk about it and make you insecure. That man is a jerk for bringing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:19 AM
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The same thing that happened when science discovered that smoking, alcohol, and an unhealthy diet will kill you faster. That result is nothing. People do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:01 AM
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Yes, you should leave if someone violates your boundaries. That’s why they exist. She should leave if you’re demanding something that she doesn’t want. Relationships are not mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:59 AM
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Is this your first day on this sub? 90% of this sub exist to purely bitch about women’s standards and how they need to settle. Men state their preferences 24/7!! How many have you seen change? How many man have you seen dating fat women because of body positivity? The n count thread no longer exists? Stop this bs that women don’t hear the same mess every single day. Oh no, the male loneliness crisis. Oh no, society is going to collapse. Oh my gosh, women are demanding economically equal partners…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:38 AM
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She’s a perfect angel! Look at that face. She could never be naughty!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:29 AM
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Driving makes me a little nervous since l was in an accident. That accident is what resulted in my cancer diagnosis from a blood draw at the hospital. l have my own car that only has puppy car seats in it in case I want to go out by myself, but I prefer if he drives and he enjoys driving. I used to love driving before my accident, but too many people aren’t paying attention and cause accidents.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:27 AM
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Do you know why women end up with men they don’t find attractive? Societal pressure to be with a man on a committed relationship. Do you know why women have high body counts? Societal pressure to please men with sex. Do you know why women are single moms? Societal pressure against abortion. Now which of those do you find to be an acceptable answer and not individual choices made in those moments?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:33 PM
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I have help with my kids. I would never want my kids to give up their childhood to become a stand in caretaker. I think that’s insane and child abuse in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:25 PM
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I like to take my shoes off in the car and put my feet up while eating fries. I give the directions and feed him fries while he drives where we need be heading. Errands can be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:20 PM
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Society doesn’t like women expressing them either. People are allowed free speech to express them either way. Others are allowed the same free speech to disagree. It goes both ways and isn’t hard to understand. Someone disagreeing with your opinion doesn’t have to change yours or your actions. This honestly sounds like a lot of crying from people with no backbone. You sound like teenagers crying that society made them have sex, do drugs, or whatever. No it didn’t. You made a choice. These same m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:14 PM
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Who is making, asking, telling, or forcing these men to be with people that they don’t find attractive or meet their standards? He said it is a byproduct of men not being able to voice their standards. It’s not happening,
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:07 PM
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He did say it. He said men are afraid to voice their preferences so they end up with others that they aren’t attracted to and that makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:06 PM
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I only have 1 actual puppy. He’s 11 weeks old. He has 5 older brothers. They’re 5,5,3,almost 3, and 2. They’re all long haired chichis. They will forever be my babies. 🥰 Puppies are stressful in 2 real ways. The first is getting them house broken. The other issue is needle teeth and that takes a few months, but neither is really a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:59 PM
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Someone disagreeing with your opinion or preferences doesn’t mean you need to date people that don’t meet them. I am CONSTANTLY shamed for my standards and relationship by both men and women. Did I care? No, I dated who I wanted and I married who l wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:57 PM
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“So they end up in relationships where they know they won’t be attracted to the other.” Yeah, that’s 100% a personal choice and has nothing to do with society, women, or whatever anyone thinks of their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:55 PM
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Who is forcing men to date women that don’t meet their standards? Is someone forcing men to date fat women? Don’t date them. It has an easy obvious solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:33 PM
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My puppies are very very very well behaved. They’re the best puppies on the planet. They’re virtually no extra work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:29 PM
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You could possibly gain weight. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:21 PM
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I can’t believe people are answering your question. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:19 PM
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We have a 2 year old and two 1 year olds. It’s crazy in my house. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:16 PM
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Hedonistic treadmill 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:05 PM
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I could afford many more children, but they’d have horrible lives of parental neglect. They need so much time, energy, and patience. Kids don’t care if you’re tired. Their needs don’t change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:03 PM
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Idk know how my parents raised 4 kids and did it so well. I think 3 is my limit. I don’t think I could handle another child. Maybe l’ll feel differently several years from now, but no more kids for the foreseeable future. I think 3 is a great number.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:34 PM
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I watched Nuremberg today. I thought it was a great movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:30 PM
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Brutus and Nero won’t go outside. They don’t try. Outside doesn’t have pâté. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:26 PM
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So should men that don’t want child support or kids, including married men in those states.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:03 PM
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Those abortion bans apply to rape victims too. They weren’t given the choice of celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:24 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:30 PM
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Happy Birthday!! 🎂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:11 PM
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You’re going to ghost your gf? RUDE
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:52 PM
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Use attorneys for needed contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:15 PM
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I don’t have contact with them for any reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:10 PM
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I’m getting better slowly. I still have several more months of recovery and limited social contact ahead of me. We’re going to our vacation home soon with family and l’ll finish my isolation there. I’m exhausted constantly, but it’s very slowly getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:25 PM
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Congrats!!! I love working in my church office, but I also do a ton of my work from home. It’s nice to relax in your own surrounds and snack while working.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:09 PM
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I’m so jealous!!! I can’t wait to be able to go to a farmer’s market again, but right now it’s too many people to risk it. It’s one of my favourite activities!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:02 PM
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We’re going to plant flowers tomorrow. The little one painted 6 pots over the last week. I bought pansy seeds for her to grow. She loves pansies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:42 PM
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No, I think it’s a small subset that believe that. I have heard women say that when they had casual sex hoping it would lead to more and it didn’t. The only way you can be used for sex is if someone actively lied about their intentions and then ghosted you. I had seen some men that think women give sex to men and they’re usually the men that struggle with relationships. It’s sour grapes from both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:34 PM
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Don’t say l didn’t warn you before you left!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:31 PM
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We’re making a pasta for lunch! Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:18 PM
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The weeds will be back before the next rain. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:18 PM
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Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:17 PM
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Did you pick up and good fruits and veggies? Any flowers for the table? Tell me more!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:17 PM
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My kiddos have revolted. The puppies are done with their morning naps and the kids took off to follow them immediately. The sensory table can wait. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:16 PM
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Some people say that, from both sides. I certainly don’t think it’s most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:15 PM
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No, I agreed that women are responsible if they chase men that they knew were abusive, same as men chasing those women. People are not psychic and can’t predict future behaviour when no red flags existed and no history is known. That’s it. Very few people intentionally chase abusers and they are responsible for their own actions too, not “women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:14 PM
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Everyone wants an attractive partner, literally everyone. I noticed you didn’t make this post about ugly women. Stop being shallow and tell men to date ugly women that have no better options for good men. That is what you want women to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:02 PM
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Nothing stops a woman from being with an attractive man if that’s all she cares about. Go ask the red pill. None of those things matter today because even the ugliest fattest most horrible woman is inundated with options of hundreds of hot men offering her sex. Ask the men of this sub!! They ALL have the option. Religion doesn’t stop anyone or we wouldn’t have abusers, crime, drugs, liars or anything else, but somehow it stops sex with attractive men if they want it? Parents are around adults 24…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:46 PM
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All men want to be that man therefore there are no good men to select either and all woman are screwed either way. 🙄 We live in a world where facts matter and people are not a monolith. You can’t say all men or women want anything, because it’s not true. There’s nothing stopping any woman from being with those men if they wanted to do those things. Even people in the strictest countries of the Middle East have hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:28 PM
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Any openly terrible men, yes. Men chasing those women are also at fault for their own behaviour. Men complaining about those women are also at fault for their own upset as they should be focused on women that don’t do those things. There’s fault for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:15 PM
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I think I’ve reached my internet limit for the day. The sex is a reward posts have begun far too early and I am not going to fall for the drama!! Have a blessed day!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:14 PM
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Individuals are not obligated to be with or to have sex with anyone. Partners are not a reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:11 PM
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How many of these women are chasing known abusers for marriage or relationships? It’s not many. How many stay with these men after they show they’re abusive towards them? That’s also not many. Mentally ill and toxic people exist too. Yes, those particular women are responsible for their behaviour, but this isn’t an issue of women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:09 PM
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My little man is very interested in seeing what I am putting on the sensory table. The kinetic sand has caught his attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:00 PM
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I stopped my therapy last week. Therapy is amazing!! I hope you feel fresh and ready to tackle the week afterwards!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:58 AM
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Hook ups are not about getting to know if a man is abusive. It would seem that most people don’t know each other when they begin dating, especially off of apps. They don’t know if someone is abusive beforehand. I agree that it mostly all be stopped if people didn’t have sex before marriage. That’s the best way to cut down the chances on being with an abuser long term. Don’t live with someone or have sex with them before marriage. Make them show you, consistently, who they are in all circumstance…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:54 AM
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Good morning!! What do you have planned for today? Today is pj day in my house. We’re not getting dressed to go out. We’re going to relax and have fun. There will be baking, lots of baby chasing, and l am setting up a fun sensory table for the kids to explore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:48 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:44 AM
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That’s so cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:43 AM
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You’re also talking about hook ups in your post. Hook ups don’t care about personality. They’re about attraction and sex. You have an extensive history on posting about unselected men and it’s somehow women’s fault. No, you’re equally as responsible. These men need to stop chasing women that do those things. I never had an issue with fuck boys. I never complained about my dating pool despite it being small compared to society. I wasn’t worried about those men and I most definitely was not concer…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:40 AM
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Why are you worried about those men getting attention? You’re the one choosing women to ask out. Don’t chase them. Focus on women that don’t do that and don’t give me some sorry excuse that it’s all women of you’d be alone, because it’s not that, You’re choosing the women to chase too. You have no reason to be focused on them,
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:18 AM
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Idk about peaceful. 😂 There’s a lot of noise!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:20 AM
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3 children. I have a 2 year old and two 1 year olds. I have 6 dogs now and one is a new puppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:14 AM
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I had the best freaking day! My babies were happy every waking moment with no tantrums or fighting at all! My puppies all listened and my newest puppy had no accidents! I had uninterrupted time to read my mom Bible and make notes while the babies napped! It was PERFECT!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:03 AM
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GET OUT OF MY HOUSE!!!! That is what it looked like when we left the kitchen. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:25 PM
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My lunch clean up is finished. Now I can relax with my puppies while my husband loads and starts the dishwasher. Life is slowly returning closer to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:06 PM
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The kids had the very best time meeting new puppies and getting puppy kisses. They giggled and gave excited screams from start to finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:35 PM
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It was my first trip away from isolation! It was 2 people from church with their puppies and my pastor brought his 2 little dogs. I didn’t get too close to anyone and we all wore masks. I really enjoyed seeing them and playing with all of the puppies. We had the entire little dog park to ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:26 PM
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We’re home from the puppy park! My puppies and babies had a great morning out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:16 PM
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My husband doesn’t have these problems. 💅🏼 Choose better! 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:07 PM
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Your house will now be covered in shedding hairs. Your shower drains will never be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:33 PM
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We need more potato salad, Kevin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:29 PM
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Maybe that is your problem, idk. I deleted my previous comment for personal privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:26 PM
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You have to want to the thing from the beginning. I have no interest in video games. My practicing for 5 million hours to be the galactic champion of video games or whatever would bring me no joy when it paid off, because I don’t want the thing. When I qualified for the Olympics I felt on top the world. I feel on top of the world knowing there’s a dad at home eating dinner with his kids tonight instead of working a second job to pay rent because he lives in one of my apartments. I feel on top of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:14 PM
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I definitely get a feeling of accomplishment, especially when I see my charity work doing good in the world and seeing other people have better lives from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:00 PM
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It does at least to me. I put in thousands of hours training. It was incredible when I could finally nail a trick without “working for it” in that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:42 PM
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My husband is a stay at home dad. We try to have date nights once a week. We go on little trips every 2-3 months for a roughly 10 days to 2 weeks and we go on day trips probably once a month. It’s also very important for a stay at home parent to have their alone time away from you and the kids. I encourage my husband to go out with his friends probably twice a week. Everyone needs to have a life and identity outside of their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:16 PM
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I have a very specific type. I don’t assume most men are like that, because my type is an incredibly small population.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:28 PM
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I don’t find this to be true at all. I dated literally dozens of great men that will make amazing partners for someone, but that someone wasn’t me. They were kind and decent men. They were respectful in how they approached and interacted with me. They were also gentlemen when I told them that there wasn’t going to be a second date. There’s a lot of good men in the active dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:49 PM
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The double standard like “sexual harassment Charlie”? That’s a sketch that lasted for years of an old man sexually harassing women. Where’s the condemnation? There’s none.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:52 AM
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SNL aired a sketch of a man inventing a child molesting robot. I can assure you that Dwayne Johnson wasn’t canceled over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:07 AM
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No, it’s labour for a man that expects it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:40 AM
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I cook because I enjoy it. If a man expected me to treat him like a child then I would, and end the relationship, because I am not a pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:47 PM
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Except he’s almost 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:37 PM
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You live with your parents and complain about needing to cook for yourself. That is not manual labour!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:34 PM
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You are almost 30 and seemingly have never had a job!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:12 PM
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I love mine and I know my husband adores my family as well. He’s constantly invited to hang out with my dad and brothers for manly man time. We call them all mom and dad. They’re wonderful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:10 PM
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You’ve never heard of non-binary people? They use they/them. A feminine presenting woman could also identify as he/him. A trans woman and a cis woman would also identify as she/her. The question doesn’t do what you think it does to women. If anything you’re going to come off as respecting the lgbtq+ community by asking rather than accusing her of being trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:43 PM
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Happy big boy birthday to baby G!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:37 PM
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What a creep!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:35 PM
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Asking her pronouns doesn’t clarify that question at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:30 PM
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This reminds me of a specific user from the daily thread. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:48 PM
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I usually snap if someone is rude to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:56 PM
3

All of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:51 PM
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You define sex as a part of the definition. I said perceives themselves to be, not claims they’re a biological woman. Saying they feel like a woman and see themselves as a woman does not mean they’re claiming to be a female. They’re not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:59 PM
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I have never met a trans person that identifies as the opposite biological sex. They acknowledge that they’re trans. Woman is not a sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:31 PM
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Most of society understands that intersex people have been scientifically identified with mixed chromosomes and mixed genitalia. Hermaphrodites were known to exist how many hundreds of years ago? I think it’s always been known that there’s been more than male OR female. I think it was only natural for people to accept it as a society. Gender and sex aren’t the same thing and we have people that are not male or female by chromosome, but scientists and doctors decided for them what they are by sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:08 PM
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Common acceptance by society?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:57 PM
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An adult human that perceives themselves to be female.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:46 PM
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My husband went insane on Mother’s Day for me. You’d think my children are Jesus or something. 😂 l do the same for him on Father’s Day. It’s especially important when your children are too young to acknowledge the day for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:41 PM
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I had a stay at home boyfriend. Best decision ever!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:30 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:51 AM
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I have 2 that have severe puppy PTSD. They will viciously bite any adult other than me or my mom if they try to pick them up. They were abused as puppies and don’t like anyone pointing things at them either. They try really hard and will climb onto your lap if you’re sitting on the couch. They love pets, but the trust issues are real. My 2 year old can pick up both of them with no problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:39 PM
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He’s a little prince that knows his worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:33 PM
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I’m going to need that chi chi! Your cooperation would be appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:31 PM
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Let’s all wish PB French toast congratulations for graduating from college!!!! He’s officially adulting now!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:26 PM
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They’re ADORABLE!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:22 PM
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Happy Mother’s Day!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:20 PM
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Tried that multiple times now. He can’t actually get close enough to speak directly to me. He posted old pictures of us online and called me the one that got away. Me: Don’t disrespect my marriage like that. I’m about to get your ass totally banned from coming to the church where your father is a pastor. Don’t put your family through that. Sit there and shut the f up. You don’t exist to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:50 AM
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I don’t think you should be listening to advice from her given her track record with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:39 AM
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I wish my ex would move away again and permanently disappear from my life. I was so much happier before he came back. LEAVE!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:30 AM
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You should go to a legal brothel and pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:11 PM
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I don’t think there’s a line. It’s a valid option to choose to be single, whether they see it as an actual choice or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:47 PM
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Survive Open the Chihualiday Inn Go on vacations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:04 PM
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Never in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:37 PM
2

Not even slightly biased!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:07 AM
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But my husband is better than all of the other husbands. 😂 More importantly, why is anyone getting married if they don’t feel that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:21 AM
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She’s always perfect. I also loved that the daughter of Beyoncé looked like an age appropriate teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:17 AM
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How could they not love you to pieces?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:14 AM
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There’s sugar in bread from the stores!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:10 AM
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I make my own pasta and sauces. I bake my own bread. I eat fresh healthy foods. I made my kids their baby food. Now l’m eating so much crap trying to gain weight and it doesn’t taste as good as healthy stuff. Sugar isn’t supposed to be in everything!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:22 PM
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I wonder if people realize how many calories they consume a day or the amount of sugar that’s put into everything to make people fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:57 PM
1

It’s perfect!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:47 PM
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No. My kids are all adopted and we didn’t look at the race of the children or inquire about health. They’re children, not a building kit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:46 PM
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I love it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:31 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:21 PM
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I’ve found myself the PERFECT summer dress!!! I’m so excited!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:38 PM
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My dating history really set off some people. 😂 Sorry?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:10 AM
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Probably because he actually said that. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:42 AM
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As long as you stay away from wind energy. The noise causes cancer. Believe Trump! I once went outside on a noisy windy day and I had cancer after that. It’s incredibly hard to fight against those facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:30 AM
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3w2
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:22 AM
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My description was almost 100% perfect. I can see how the others could fit, but they don’t fit me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:20 AM
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Did the description fit you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:14 AM
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3w2
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:04 AM
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I took an enneagram test because of a post and the description definitely fit me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:01 AM
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I took the test and got type 3w2. What do you want to know? I am a retired professional athlete and studying to be a pastor. I am very extroverted and most would say socially dominant. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:55 AM
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My puppies received a special delivery of sweet potato chewy chips today and they LOVE them. They’ve been entertained for the last half hour by only 1 each.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 08:41 PM
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My stomach is finally settling back to normal. I still feel exhausted constantly. PT is draining.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:14 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:13 PM
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New thread!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:12 PM
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That’s awful! She’s played with these before and so far hasn’t had any reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:48 PM
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My 2 year old is covering herself in star stickers while telling me she’s a star. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:32 PM
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I walked up a flight of stairs unassisted and without stopping. I also used 2lb weights for my seated arm and leg exercises. 💅🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:22 PM
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Truth! I handed it to the Lord long ago and said let His will be done and let me be at peace with whatever path that takes. He made me feisty and here I am!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:46 PM
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60 days post transplant!! The first 100 are when you’re most likely to pass from complications.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:35 PM
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I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:18 PM
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I’m recovering from chemo, radiation, and a bone marrow transplant. 2lbs is a ton at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:09 PM
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Exercises
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:04 PM
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I was 16 when I had my first kiss and first relationship. I’ve never had casual sex. I waited until marriage. I had 2 prior relationships before meeting my husband and went on more than 100 first dates looking for the one. I met my husband when I was 23. I had an extremely full life before and after dating. My best experiences were certainly not while dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:57 PM
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I used 2lb weights today and they wore me out. 😭 I had to take a nap afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:33 PM
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Being introduced to others by a person is totally different than asking to be introduced to others or trying to get close them because you want to be introduced to them. The people that I brought into my circles were free to social and get to know the others I introduced them to, because I trusted them. What I dealt with multiple time were guys trying to befriend me because of my godfather or my best friend. Like no, I’m not introducing you to my family like that. You have no reason to be in tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:52 PM
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When you’re more interested in the other potential connections or status than connecting with that particular person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:40 PM
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Some you can easily see and others made themselves known. There were a few in my circle that were outed months later and I was always like wth, why, you’re not getting anything from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:30 PM
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Nothing crazy crazy like him, but l definitely dealt with my share of social climbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:07 PM
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I went to great lengths to keep my private life private while I was in the public eye. I had a professional ig page for my sport stuff and I had a lot of followers. It was managed by my dad. When I got married pictures of my flowers were posted with a caption that said guess who got married. I never posted my husband. I got married in a different country so there wouldn’t be a wedding announcement. I paid to keep my name change private. I want to protect the privacy of my family more than anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:38 PM
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Jesus, my pastor, my parents, and my children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:13 AM
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My husband and I are 2 pieces to a whole and what we bring is equal. We both provide love, companionship, unconditional support, and shared goals to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:07 PM
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Put a hot towel on the back of your neck and a cold towel where the pain is centered.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:43 AM
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I did therapy after my diagnosis, after I lost my little brother to a drunk driver, and again during this treatment. It’s been an incredibly useful tool for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:38 AM
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They’re not quirky outliers. The majority of the population is straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:34 PM
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Can I call their partner gay if I see feminine men as more female presenting?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:18 PM
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The same theory would apply to gay people and you didn’t mention leaving homosexuality behind. Your question makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:06 PM
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Gender and sex can be seen as 2 different things, but either way there’s still people that are only attracted to the biological opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:01 PM
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I don’t think the question makes sense. Sexuality isn’t a choice and not something you can “leave behind”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:39 PM
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I can’t wait until l can go out again. I want to socialize and be able to meet new people. I want to get back into the community and to be able to go to my office and work. I want to go on dates. I want to take my kids to buy toys. I want to take my puppies to the pet stores and allow them to pick out toys. I want to go to my favourite restaurants. There’s so much l’m missing out on doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:45 PM
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There are legal brothels. That’s what I mean when I say pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:51 PM
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I don’t personally care as long as he doesn’t blame women if he doesn’t get results. You’re picked by a potential partner or you’re not and you may be rejected for any or not even a reason about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:30 PM
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It took me almost 9 months to be able to think clearly again for the first time and that was with my brother. That didn’t include all of the extra things like his house too. It’s going to be a VERY long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:21 PM
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It’s going to require A LOT more time than what you have left.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:07 PM
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Nice strawman. They should stop bitching about covert contracts and not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:26 PM
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Your monthly cycle, birth control failure, and pregnancy don’t care about the length of your relationship. I was a virgin until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:03 PM
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I ALWAYS completely paid for dates no matter what, no matter how generous, or how well intentioned he was in asking to pay for me. Men are really out here calling a date a financial investment and then crying that she wouldn’t risk pregnancy, 18 years or her life, an STI, or talking about how they were used for free food.. No thanks, I can’t deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:59 PM
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That’s how l knew that he was the one. He understood me immediately and he AND his family took the time to ask me what I needed from them. They’re amazing people. I love them all so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:07 PM
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My favourite thing about my husband is that he is my soft space. I have a lot of pressure to be someone very specific in public and he allows me to be myself. I can come home from work and prance around my kitchen in my pjs, making dinner, and singing. I can sit in my window seat surrounded by pillows and chichis with a drink for quiet time. I never feel judged for being silly or not serious. He laughs when he sees me hiding waiting to ambush my best friend to tackle him. He never looks at me st…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:02 PM
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I don’t see people seething over legal age gaps. I find it gross, but it doesn’t make me upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:41 PM
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I do mean that Klay ain't shit. And men like Klay, ie cheaters ain't shit. Hence, "men ain't shit". She chose shit. She picked a known cheater. That’s her choice and now she has to deal with the consequences of it. It’s no different than some guy bitching about his girl using him for money knowing she used to be a sugar baby. You sure as hell wouldn’t be saying it’s victim blaming if someone said he was an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:51 PM
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I’m not blaming her for getting cheated on. She was stupid for a dating a known cheater and then expecting to be the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:41 PM
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He was publicly accused of cheating on an ex in the past. This one is on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:36 PM
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People want the best of their available options, men or women. For some people that is solely physical attraction and for others they can skip a lot on the attraction if they’re compatible or providing something they really want. NO ONE gets into relationships with people “because they exist”. Something has to attract you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:14 PM
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Tall men are promoted more, paid more, and respected more by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:03 PM
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Are we now going against the argument that taller men are more respected, paid more, and promoted more by other men? Taller men are treated better by men and are more attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:57 PM
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You apparently can’t survive on your own, cook for yourself, hold a job, or anything. That’s not a good role model for children and you could pass on your issues as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:41 PM
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It’s her boundary, but I think it’s a bit ridiculous. My husband has my younger brothers over and they play games. He games with my best friend. It’s maybe an hour a day a few days a week. I don’t care about it, but it doesn’t interest me in the slightest and I can’t pretend otherwise. That’s his thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:20 PM
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That’s the same reasoning for women chasing hot tall men. They don’t want the future generation to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:18 PM
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I’ve had it from both.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:07 PM
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The men constantly shaming overweight women would disagree with you. Some men want that and others don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:05 PM
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I throw and the men shoot. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:56 PM
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There are a lot of rude mean people here in general. It’s men, woman, and all pill colours. Some people enjoy being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:55 PM
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Is that the same as clay?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:36 PM
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I’ve had attractive stalkers and it’s still not fun. It’s terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:25 PM
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You didn’t mention being in a relationship or wanting him too. What you described is a stalker and you don’t need to know that he exists to have those feelings or to take those actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:10 PM
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So far these are my favourite! They look fantastic!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:55 PM
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You want a stalker? That’s new.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:53 PM
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I would have stopped seeing a guy instantly if he said something like that. My boundaries will be respected or you will be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:35 PM
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“Pushing past last minute resistance”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:24 AM
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People have a right to not want to share as well. You’re at an impasse. You can want to know and they’re not doing anything wrong by not sharing. Personal relationships are also a choice on both sides. You’re free to walk away from those people and seek others that are open and compatible with your line of thinking. That’s how society works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:24 PM
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When information is not needed or wanting to be shared it is entitlement. People have a right to not share with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:20 PM
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Sorry, but l’m not opening up emotionally to the sidewalk or people that choose to build them, in an exchange for money from the city. Those people work for money, not in exchange for personal relationships with the people that use them. I pay my taxes for that work. I volunteer my time and money to causes that I value, including strangers. That has 0 to do with who I open up to emotionally. There’s no connection or an expectation of a connection. I had relationships with all of my teachers at s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:18 PM
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Didn’t you break up and agree to be fwb rather than being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:13 PM
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l’m not looking to invest in relationships that I don’t want, need, or would be disrespectful to my marriage. I’m not looking to waste my time for those people either. My time is much better spent focusing on working or with my family. Here’s your cookie. 🍪
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:11 PM
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if you feel it’s worth the time. It’s not worth the time to explain my feelings to a man that I want nothing to do with personally. That’s your entire problem here. People do invest time, energy, and emotions into those they feel are worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:59 PM
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How many men are staying with women that don’t have sex with them? How many men are getting with 300lb slobs with a rats nest for hair? Men love women for that they do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:36 PM
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Oh no, women also have opinions. How terrible! No one is forcing her stay around the guy either. Say what you need to say. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:46 PM
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He still counts!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:04 AM
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You have dated younger! Much younger!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:36 AM
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too young I will not speak. I WILL NOT SPEAK!! Stop baiting me!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:21 AM
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He might show up as the weather stays nicer since he’s used to being outside. He might turn into an escape artist and you’ll have your chance to steal him forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:23 AM
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He’s going to be thrilled. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:21 AM
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Someone is having a bad day! 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:54 AM
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I’m so sorry. Someone definitely trapped him and kept him. It’s the only possible answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:50 AM
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Did Boy ever come back?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:33 AM
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I’d pick him if I needed a ppd dad. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:32 AM
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5’9 and I prefer 5’11-6’3, but I would be open to someone my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:21 AM
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You have to pair up with someone from ppd. Name one person of each gender that you think you would get along with the best. I pick Ange for the woman and PB for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:16 AM
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I took flowers and a gift basket to my parents today as a small thank you and it made them both tear up. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:48 PM
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I don’t think I have ever gotten the ick so fast as when I see people with terrible table manners. It grosses me out seeing most people eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:38 PM
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I don’t think it exists. You’re a friend and okay with being a friend or you’re not. No one is forcing you to pretend to be friends or hide feelings. The “real” friend zone is people knowing that they want more from someone else and not walking away because they think they can change someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:36 PM
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I’m getting there!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:28 PM
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I’ve had my 2nd blood draw and check up of the week. I’ve gained 1kg in the last week, despite not feeling up to eating much one day. I’m thrilled with my progress and I’ve mustered the energy for small walks in my neighbourhood for exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:10 PM
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Yes and yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:36 PM
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<image> I see you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:40 PM
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I’m so sorry. That looks painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:37 PM
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I’ve done that to my bestie many times, but tbf, he already had his own house and I only had an apartment at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:40 PM
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https://sankhyasagar.com/the-problem-of-academia-favouritism-nepotism-and-the-crisis-of-excellence-in-indian-higher-education/ Strange, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:58 PM
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So nepo that you couldn’t get a letter for college and have to pay for your own education. Your own family doesn’t support you by that metric. Someone else’s power doesn’t extend to you, or you would get into the school you want without a fight based on a family tree. You don’t have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:50 PM
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And statistically, she is not a virgin based on the surrounding women. You saying from a village doesn’t change the local stats. Can you show stats saying otherwise that aren’t in your head or personal beliefs? You’re always going on and on about how strong and patriarchal India is as a country. They’re all married to these whores that you’re terrified of getting, unless they’re old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:42 PM
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So he died a few months before you were born and you were bragging about his current power in the country? That makes no sense. The man has been dead for 20 years. He and his former position have no power to you. You said is, not was, and that’s just another lie from you too. It’s sad. “I make shit up, but fine, don’t believe me when I say I am telling the truth.” We don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:39 PM
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Uh huh, you go from not in India to okay, but get the stats for these specific villages in the one area of the country. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:35 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11834387/ The average age of marriage is 28. They’re already having sex, yes on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:33 PM
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So your grandfather is a minister, the position you need for a recommendation, and you couldn’t get a let from your grandfather for your education?? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:30 PM
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Okay fine. For Gen Z it’s already 2.99 for Rajasthan. Happier now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:28 PM
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I have bad news for you. North east india had the highest average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:24 PM
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You said father, not grandfather. You also claimed you weren’t a virgin on that account and lost it to your high school love of 2 years. My how your life has changed. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:24 PM
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I know people with actual power and how they live. 😂 It’s not this stuff of l know people that know people and my will shall be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:23 PM
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Do you remember how many times on this sub you claimed that your father was a minister for the govt and that you would inherit his position? We all remember your old account.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:17 PM
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We know most is not your family having power. 🙄 Your family can’t make decisions. Your family is beholden to those with power, aka everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:16 PM
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Right here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:13 PM
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Yes, in India. The stats are out there and women average more than one lifetime partner, even in the land of not divorcing. Please stop pretending that you have money or power from your family. You need a loan for school and were complaining only yesterday that you couldn’t get a good recommendation for college and had to apply like everyone else. I don’t know what kind of coping you’re doing, but it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:04 PM
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She probably will have fucked another guy too based on statistics. Why wouldn’t she if she’s getting an arranged marriage to some weirdo that couldn’t find a relationship on his own?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:57 PM
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My husband doesn’t work. A lot of husbands are stay at home fathers. A lot of wives don’t have the choice to stay at home or not work either. This isn’t a gendered issue, but a financial one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:44 PM
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Does that dispute what I posted? No. They had to raise the age of the draft to include men up to the age of 42 and Trump has an approval rating of 37%. Americans, in general, do not support the war or a draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:34 PM
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Someone help him with that grape!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:28 PM
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His little ears are adorable. 10/10 would pet and feed treats.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:00 PM
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The US men are so supportive that they had to raise the age for the draft vs having men volunteer for the military? Trump has the lowest approval rating he’s ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:57 PM
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It absolutely matters if you’re complaining that your sister is using things your parents bought in their house
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:36 PM
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You bought them with your money or you bought them with money from your parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:26 PM
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Mainly dresses by Zimmermann. Lots of business casual added in there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:54 PM
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I love my babies more than anything!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:32 PM
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I would never ignore my grandma!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:52 PM
2

Get a job and move out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:45 PM
4

You have a kitchen!! Go cook!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:27 PM
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I think it’s amazing parenting. It’s how all of my children were born. Their biological parents were not selfish and they gave their kids a life in a loving home that can financially support them and where they are wanted. Keeping a kid you can’t afford and don’t want isn’t good parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:14 PM
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Show me a case where a wife was convicted of raping her husband and being punished. Marital rape isn’t illegal in your country at all. Marriage does equal consent to any sex, wanted or unwanted in India, but not in the west. Now men are responsible for the financial support of their children? You don’t become a parent when you choose to keep it. You’re their father even when she’s pregnant and don’t want it. You’re their parent whether a husband or not. Should men be responsible for their childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:12 PM
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It’s my first day of group cooking since l got really sick. I wanted to make a nice breakfast for my pastors and their families. They’ve done so much for us in the last few weeks. I made 4 trays of bacon, 4 loaves of banana bread, 4 dozen omelet muffins, and 24 waffle sheets. I packed it up in a cute little baskets and I watched my best friend deliver it to their door from the car and talked to them at a safe distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:04 PM
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Who asked you to be scared? You’re the one that supports the thought that marriage equals consent to parenthood and consent to financial support of children born in that period, not me. You should support male rape victims, but that’s your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:52 PM
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It doesn’t actually matter according to the law. If you were married and claimed the child by signing the birth certificate then it’s yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:47 PM
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They don’t receive anything for their children. They don’t want to or can’t raise them and someone else wants the responsibility and opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:43 PM
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No relationship is consent to sex, pregnancy, or parenthood. Married couples put children up for adoption and bear NO legal responsibility for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:27 PM
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That applies if your wife has the children of another man too. It’s literally in the laws. The children are legally of the marriage, not of the husband. Do you still like your logic? It still applies to actual male rape victims too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:21 PM
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Safe haven laws apply equally. Either parent can drop off the kid and both genders are financially responsible if the other parent wants to keep the child. I’ll quote the OP for the remark regarding abortion. “God knows what side effects it could have or whether I'll be able to feel myself properly. I'm completely against these unnatural interventions, that nature hasn't intended us to be.” That applies to birth control and to abortion. If you want to have sex there can be consequences, whether …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:20 PM
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So he had sex and is responsible for the sex that he had? He could have married and not had sex. He could have had sex and not been married. The children come from the choice of having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:03 PM
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No, marriage is about a couple, not supporting children that a man has no choice in having. Remember? He had no choice. It’s not his job to support those children at any age. His job is to be with your mom as a partner, not a bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:54 PM
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Remember to tell yourself that it was never your father’s job to support you as a child and it’s certainly not his job now. You need employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:47 PM
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Alimony is for a divorced wife, not a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:28 PM
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He said he does NOT want kids, not that he wants them in the future. It’s hypocritical as hell to expect a woman to have an abortion, aka a medical procedure, for you to avoid consequences after she got pregnant when birth control fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:23 PM
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It’s not a personal attack to point out that you don’t actually believe or support what you’re positing. You do not believe that men shouldn’t be asked to support their children, even their adult children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:21 PM
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How was the astrology appointment they scheduled over buying food that you wanted? Yes, you do. You post nearly every single day about how your parents are upsetting you and how stingy your father is financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:54 PM
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Then stop bitching that you don’t “have a choice”. You have one and you don’t like it. This post is absolutely INCREDIBLE given your own situation. You don’t work. You’re a grown adult that is being completely financial supported BY YOUR FATHER and all you do is complain about how they don’t spend enough money on you specifically. Aren’t you close to 30??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:40 PM
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Get a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:22 AM
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I don’t care about gender norms in a relationship, but I happily took his last name to escape my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:55 AM
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A 90 year old German/Argentinian woman whose has a book from 1971 that men like to quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:17 AM
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I don’t feel a maternal instinct for random children. I feel it for my children. I feel it for my baby brother that I helped to raise. I feel protective over other children, animals, and the elderly. They’re not the same feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 11:28 PM
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I wouldn’t say closer, but as close as my brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 09:44 PM
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😒 I do not get refunds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:02 AM
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Only 2 weeks left!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:59 AM
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Yes. I waited until marriage to have sex. My relationship was perfect before sex too. Sex is amazing, but it’s only one tiny part of our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:19 AM
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Absolutely. It’s exactly what would happen if he were ever in an extreme accident. I love all of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:15 AM
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My accountant does my taxes. I would go insane trying to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:58 PM
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Has everyone gotten their taxes filed this month?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:54 PM
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I might be praising my children too much. My 2 year old told her daddy that she’s so proud of him and he’s a big boy. He’s cleaning up the play area. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 08:50 PM
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I’m probably going to my mother, my mother in law, or my grandparents if I need general opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 08:44 PM
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Coconut cream pie is delicious!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:13 PM
1

Okay? So what? Don’t date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:24 PM
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What does being liberal or progressive have to do with it? They find them attractive or they don’t. I support gay rights and marriage. It doesn’t obligate me to be gay or date gay people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:33 PM
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I’m gaining weight again!!!!!! 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:36 PM
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Marriage doesn’t negate their relationship beginning as casual and a lot of relationships start that way. Being married later doesn’t change that he got laid without commitment and effort, the same as Chad. It’s the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:42 PM
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So did he and he chose to be a husband and sign up for that work. It wasn’t put on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:53 PM
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Who also bent over the same woman commitment free as a hook up that turned into a relationship. They weren’t treated differently and yet you still see him as being treated differently for some odd reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:48 PM
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Chad gets married too and he is expected to be a husband or get left.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:43 PM
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The husband that hooked up with her made a choice and that apparently bothers you. Idk why, but it’s weird. Hooking up is hooking up. He got the same treatment and chooses something more. That’s on him alone, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:38 PM
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Being a husband is a personal choice he made. He could hit and quit too. It’s hilarious that women are now being blamed for men that want to get married being expected to be husbands and partners. You don’t get married because you want your partner to treat you like a fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:31 PM
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What guy is performing husband duties when he’s hooking up or casual?? He’s getting the sex right then, without effort, and then chooses a relationship with her. It’s no different!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:11 PM
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So did the husband/bf if they started as a hook up or casual. Then your argument changed to it doesn’t matter how they started. You make no sense. They would be getting the same for little to no effort, exactly like Chad. It’s like you’re angry that those men then choose to stay and even get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:51 PM
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My side is with the victims of child sex abuse, not a gender war.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:18 PM
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So you’re upset that some men choose to get married and choose to have roles that were never forced onto them despite already getting sex? What is the issue here? They can leave too…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:01 PM
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They’re getting it now, without commitment and without all of these things. What are talking about? They’re getting it and then choose to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:00 PM
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It doesn’t matter how it started?? You went from husbands and boyfriends have to put in effort to get the same pussy to now it doesn’t matter if they got the same pussy under the same circumstances? Explain that. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:49 PM
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I’m married and he isn’t one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:47 PM
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You have no idea if they started dating after a hook up, which is quite common today. You guys are obsessed with the idea of people bargaining relationships in return for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:40 PM
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You have no idea when these women are having sex. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:25 PM
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Now husbands aren’t getting sex until they sign a legal document? Women are sex toys that don’t say no when a hot man approaches them? That’s definitely a mindset to have. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:20 PM
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She’s in her 60s 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:09 PM
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You’re assuming that these same women will date men that they also don’t find attractive and withhold sex. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:06 PM
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Allow the subs sidebar info to help you <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:58 PM
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You can’t, which is why you are wrong. Blue pill doesn’t mean looks don’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:56 PM
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Blue pill simply means doesn’t agree with the red pill. Red pill states you can win over women with status, money, and game. Women saying they don’t care about that and date men they find attractive goes against the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:51 PM
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Blue pillers aren’t out here saying they date people they find ugly. We’re not out here saying we find people equally attractive or don’t have a type either. There’s nothing red pill about being with people you find attractive and not dating the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:37 PM
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You can’t make them change and you’re not obligated to continue a relationship with them as an adult if they can’t accept you as a human being. Cut them off and live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:31 PM
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This is why people can’t take men seriously. She is not desperate or being used. She is a sexual predator of children that were in her care and she should be locked away. This is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:11 PM
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This is super cute. Dads coming together to learn to braid hair, supporting each other, and having a beer. https://youtube.com/shorts/BeeEWgXUIMg?si=yRRF8a5si3Lkk5jd
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:05 PM
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Now the “offy doffies” are marrying the hot girls when they reach their mid 20’s? That’s a fun made up fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:58 PM
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I don’t know how you can complain about these women marrying men and using them while also simultaneously complaining that they’re ignoring most men for hot guys. It doesn’t make sense. You don’t know these women. You honestly sound like you don’t interact with women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:52 PM
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“Imagine being an ugly guy surrounded by the hottest women.” Does that sound “looks matched”to you? These women are looking for casual sex or hook ups. It doesn’t mean that they won’t eventually get married and love or desire their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:44 PM
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Women are not all short either…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:49 PM
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Okay fine, but they can’t claim to be incel or whatever. They’re voluntarily alone by no fault or choice of women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:43 PM
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Your country still prefers arranged marriages. Single also means not married or in a committed relationship at the time. It doesn’t mean incel or not dating. Honestly I find it hard to take anything you say seriously with your multiple personalities. We all remember your last account where you claimed to have lost your virginity to your high school love that you dated for 2 years. Now every girl has only ignored you and that’s why you hate them. Your stories make no sense. Rich good looking poli…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:38 PM
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What percent of those men haven’t asked out a woman???? You can’t never try and then say woman won’t date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:21 PM
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Height outside the norm matters to men as well. I’m 5’9. I had numerous men tell me that they wouldn’t date me if I wore heels. I’ve heard numerous men state that they wouldn’t date a woman that’s taller than them. I know many men that only want short petite, as in below average height, women as well, despite being over 6’.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:20 PM
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Most men aren’t hot, athletic, shorter, or even the same height as most women. Most men are still getting women. I don’t think “incels” realize what a small statistical minority they are compared to most men. “Ofc most women don’t care about income.” You know very well that isn’t true. Many many many woman care about income and recent surveys point out that it’s a problem that men aren’t making more or as much as women in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:17 PM
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Women are known for liking about 20% of men. We usually have a type. That type isn’t the same for everyone. I have a girl friend that only dates men shorter than her. That’s what attracts her. I have friends that are only into chubby men. I’m only into extremely hot athletic men. I only wanted a Christian virgin while others don’t care about sexual history. I don’t care about a job while others care about income. It is definitely not the “top 20%”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:52 PM
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It’s not most men. PPD is not representative of most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:43 PM
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Most men are finding relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:37 PM
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This guy is admitting that he’s short, which is below average, and then complaining that he can’t attract cute girls. That doesn’t sound like he wants a match. A girl being considered cute is going to be above average, not below.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:25 PM
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80% of men are not short. Most average men get relationships and sex. You’re below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:21 PM
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Do you find all women equally physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:14 PM
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My only goal is surviving as long as possible. I achieved every other dream I had and now l would like the ability to enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:52 AM
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The cringiest post it on their church page for all to see. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:53 PM
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Yes. I have an appetite again and I am consistently eating little bits 5 times a day. I try to eat a few bites more each day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 04:08 PM
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We waited until we were married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:40 PM
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A loaf of banana bread, a tray of turkey bacon, and fruit and yogurt cups with blueberries and granola.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:21 PM
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I made breakfast today!! I’m so back!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:57 PM
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I would consider it offensive if he said anything about my clothing and probably stop seeing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:04 PM
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I watched church service on my giant tv, had a big dinner with my entire family together, and watched my kids have a blast with their egg hunt finding presents we hid around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:51 AM
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Happy Easter to everyone!!!! I had the best day!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:30 AM
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I will certainly egg my eggs benedict!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:55 PM
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I had a quiet dinner with my family and spent time with everyone and my puppies. It feels incredible to be home with them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:44 PM
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I finally feel recovered from my trip home from the hospital on Weds! Time for breakfast!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:37 PM
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April fools!!! Just kidding!! I’m actually being released!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:08 PM
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HUGE NEWS!!!!!! I AM BEING DISCHARGED TONIGHT!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:57 PM
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So they’re solving the problem OR they’re having sex once or twice and the other party refuses to leave… That’s not abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:39 PM
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Choosing to stay in a sexless relationship is not abuse. It’s a choice. You can leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:51 PM
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The Epstein files would say differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:48 PM
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He was banned a while ago for it and stalking other users. He was really weird. Hey how are you? Would you have a threesome if your husband wanted it?? He tried to get pics too. He would freak out if you told him to stop and claim all of the women here talked to him about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:33 PM
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It wasn’t him. If you open your chat invites l will message you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:29 PM
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I’ve only ever had to block 1 person, but it was for the same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 02:23 PM
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“If you have to have sex with him…”, but you don’t. Being a prostitute exchanging pussy for tickets or whatever else is a choice in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:24 AM
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7-8 figures
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:28 AM
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Why would I change how I look regardless of my relationship status? My look is how I feel comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:41 PM
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He should have picked better or something. He’s a red flag now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:56 PM
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He chased attractive, but crazy, women and now he blames all women. Too much baggage and a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:46 PM
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I think it’s fine. It’s their sub and they can set the rules for banned topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 11:11 PM
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You said you were forever alone and unlovable, but you’re not. That wasn’t someone else. Now you’re admitted that you learned social skills. Why are you asking a question, when you know the answer, and then arguing with answers that are saying it’s totally possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:39 PM
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So you learned social skills and successfully developed a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:31 PM
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You’re married and awkward. How are you forever alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:24 PM
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Maybe he doesn’t have anyone that he feels he can talk to or he feels like a burden discussing it with his friends/family. Everyone should have support through something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:42 PM
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Where is the racially charged comment? What race?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 02:01 AM
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Couples should do what they agree to do and what works for them. There’s no other “should” involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:03 AM
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We’re both white.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:14 PM
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Absolutely not and he’d be single if he suggested it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:29 PM
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I don’t believe him. He comes across as extremely socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:28 PM
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There’s a lot of flat out racism. My parents get a ton of it. I’ve been in the store with my younger brother shopping and store staff told him to stop staring at me while he was waiting a few feet away for me to finish in an area. He’s my brother and it’s totally normal to wait for your family. People have directly asked my dad why he would adopt black boys instead of “his own kind”. Like really gross open stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:45 PM
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All of ours are adopted. It’s so strange to me that people feel okay with commenting on it. Oh no, my children are different shades of human beings. Someone call the media! How is this allowed??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:39 PM
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Enough care to randomly comment when my husband is out with his different race children. 🙄 It’s disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:32 PM
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How did it make women look bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:22 PM
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It’s so weird that people care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:17 PM
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I’ve never watched any of his posts. I’ve only see people making fun of him for being insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:10 PM
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I’m talking real life judgments against people for being in relationships or mixed families.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:09 PM
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The majority of guys l went on dates with were black or white, but I went out with east Asians and Hispanics too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:08 PM
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I don’t understand why people get upset when they see a mixed race couple or family. Race has no place in family dynamics or the ability to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:32 PM
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Life is very unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:37 PM
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Look at me running off to my adventures and church! 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:07 PM
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No I didn’t date anyone with a sexual history of any kind, but I wouldn’t have an issue if they dated them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:06 PM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:02 PM
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I have a tentative release date for Good Friday!!!! 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:45 PM
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Did you see the video where he introduced his baby to the lions and they realized it was his kid and not a random person? 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:36 PM
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I don’t think I would ever move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:48 PM
5

Did you mean polygamous??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:56 AM
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I do and will continue to do it. He’s shown that he’s worth that. Would I do it for any man simply because I have the money? Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:49 AM
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You can want whatever you want. It’s okay for women to only want to sleep with hot men. It’s okay for virgin women to only want man whores or religious virgins for themselves. It’s okay for ugly men to only want 18 year old supermodels. Whether you can find a consenting partner is an entirely different issue and you have no one to blame but yourself if you end up alone. Everyone is also entitled to their own opinions and even to stating them about your decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:53 PM
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That’s me heading to church. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:42 PM
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This isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:52 PM
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I was able to start eating again a few days ago and my blood counts are high enough that I could leave my room and visit the patient social area in the isolation wing. I still feel horrible. Thank you for asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:36 PM
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My heart 🥰 https://youtube.com/shorts/6d7OS-zv2qk?si=LWkP0t_5r1NX9Y0F
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:20 PM
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I was the opposite. I only dated religious virgins. Any sexual history outside of marriage was absolutely a deal breaker and I wasn’t dating divorced men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:38 PM
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I wanna take him home and love him forever. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:42 PM
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Corgzilla!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:41 PM
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You think?? You don’t know?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:35 PM
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It’s a chubhuahua <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:30 PM
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I prefer the same as mine obviously. It would be difficult trying to be a pastor to have a spouse with significantly differing beliefs. Like idk I could be with a catholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:19 PM
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100% a deal breaker. He had to be a practicing Christian man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:30 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:27 PM
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Virgin until marriage!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:19 PM
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No chance. Sexual history is conversation I had with every man I dated, every man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:16 PM
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Instant divorce. He lied about his sexual history and that’s a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:08 PM
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Idk why it’s a thing. It’s terrible for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:05 PM
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Is that Chex mix? Eww 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:27 PM
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You can block anyone harassing you in private messages. You can’t block anyone due to activity on the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:11 PM
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Because spring isn’t for 3 more days!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:55 PM
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You look like a stalker today. Ignore him instead of resorting to multiple personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:49 PM
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I’m a cheap date, but an expensive wife. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:31 PM
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I went on a little more than 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:26 PM
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I did the math. I spent roughly 10k on dates first before meeting my husband. Idk how to feel about that number. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:18 PM
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Little bit over 6’3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:17 PM
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Sex workers still have casual sex with men that they want. They sell sex to men they don’t want naturally. They would never have casual sex with them. Being a sex worker wouldn’t exclude a life outside of it or feeling a desire for specific men. I don’t know a single person that says they want casual sex and means they will sleep with anyone willing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:03 PM
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I spend maybe 30 mins a day on Reddit. I am focused on my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:52 PM
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This isn’t a dating sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:19 PM
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Most women are not single. They’re not dating either. Most are in committed relationships. They’re not whining online about being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:30 AM
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We’ve been here before, Ange. You don’t need to go askmen. You’re beautiful. 🙄 😂I made myself laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:20 AM
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I’m married.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:46 AM
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Yes, totally spoiled for not putting a man that I don’t want into a miserable sexless relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:39 AM
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That’s a personal choice, just as a person has a choice to not do so. You can’t force people to eat healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:42 PM
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So women should be with men they don’t want and then scream? There’s no viable solution to that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:41 PM
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Cool beans, bro. My eating broccoli or not has no effect on those children, but my actual charity efforts do help feed them. I genuinely could not care less what others think of my life compared to others. Their opinions will never be my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:39 PM
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It’s their body. All I can do is educate them about a balanced diet. It’s ultimately their choice once they’re an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:37 PM
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Strange that you have to find a way to make/describe lobster unhealthy when it’s not unhealthy. My kids do eat a lot of lobster, not butter drenched lobster. They also ate only homemade organic baby food, not store bought stuff. What will I tell them when they grow up with a taste for fine food? Enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:23 PM
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Okay and what is your point if the they’re not going to be happy with them? Learn to be happy with things you don’t like so other men stop whining about being sexless or single? That isn’t going to happen nor should it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:35 PM
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It doesn’t matter how healthy, cheap, or abundant a food source is if a person doesn’t want to eat it or like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:12 PM
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I’ve never seen a news story of broccoli or Oreos stalking, raping, or murdering a person because they were told no. I’ve never seen Oreos lie and present themselves as broccoli either. Food poisoning also occurs from both healthy and unhealthy foods. It’s more likely to come healthy foods too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:03 PM
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She is ranting. She is not interested in the fact that it’s a both sides issues or that you can choose not to get into relationships with people that “make you earn” basic respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:20 PM
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I don’t think he’s joking. He blames his meth use on needing to look good for women and has been using steroids for years. That guy is seriously mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:17 PM
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You’re discussing their behaviour COMPARED to women. This is not a gendered issue when both sides want things immediately from a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:14 PM
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You immediately went #notallwomen on him when he asked you if you don’t see other women doing the same, because you personally wouldn’t do something.😂You’re no different than the men you’re complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:08 PM
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It is at my house. I give my kids a pep talk every day!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:22 PM
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There was 0 reason for it to happen. It shouldn’t be a warning. It should be the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:52 PM
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Not looking to see if the person has a penis or vagina before sex isn’t an excuse for murder. He deserves the maximum sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:59 PM
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Cancer, chemo, bone marrow transplant, and radiation. I’m under 110lbs and can’t sit up by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:35 PM
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