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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Sex on a first date They are judging girls for sleeping with OTHER guys on the first date, just not them. That's them projecting their own insecurities out there. It's not that they aren't charming and awesome enough that a girl would want to sleep with them so soon. Nope. It's because the girls are sluts.	/r/seduction	11/11/13 10:46 PM
2	Focusing on being "hot" (I mean, being attractive doing nothing). Is it possible? Is it worth the trouble? Not "Don't Fuck Up", because fuck-ups are unavoidable on the road to success. We all have them. More like "Don't Give Up." When you inevitably do fuck up, get up, dust yourself off, and be better the next day. If you do that, your success will come.	/r/seduction	07/11/13 04:11 PM
33	When does insecurity start to fade away? It never goes away. You just get better at ignoring it. There is no magic bullet to lessen those butterflies. It's a key part of desire. It means you want this girl, but nothing more than that. Not that she's special. Or she's "The One." She's just very attractive to you on many levels. The key is to not live and die by her response. If she likes you back, awesome! If not, you have to understand there are 3.5 billion other girls in the world and there are many, many who would kill to be with you…	/r/seduction	06/11/13 11:34 PM
15	Focusing on being "hot" (I mean, being attractive doing nothing). Is it possible? Is it worth the trouble? In high school I was a total nerd. Uncool, unpopular, out of shape and just kind of a mess. No girl wanted to give me the time of day. I felt the sting of rejection early and often. I looked at the cool guys, the jocks, the guys who were effortlessly hot. I wanted to be them. I wanted the attention they got. I felt it was unfair that they didn't have to work for anything. I'd like to say that it was then and there that I decided to get "hot" and "cool". It didn't happen like that at all. What I …	/r/seduction	06/11/13 10:00 PM

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