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They're attractive or they're not. There is no range.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:49 PM
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It's mostly bait and low teir shit posts at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:39 AM
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The question was if I'd like to age like a man. For men aging means dying at an earlier time than women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:37 AM
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I'd rather live longer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:13 PM
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Why would i want to age like a man? Y'all lose your hair and have more wrinkles and die earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:17 PM
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I look cute but I'll look better when i lose weight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:15 PM
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I would not want to age like a man at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:17 AM
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Like the hook up is sharing the room with someone else? Was the other person in there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:43 AM
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If they never said no or showed resistance then imo you're in the clear. However, there are ways to ask for consent that aren't mood killers. Like just whisper in their ear "Would you like me to fuck you now?" That's not a mood killer at all and lots of women like shit likw that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:42 AM
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You never explained really why he has higher status or SMV than her. Is it soley because men find older women unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:38 AM
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That's the tricky part with women because they'll give out compliments like crazy and you never know if it's flirting or not. I would word my compliments so that they are obviously flirty or if in person I'd let my voice show that I was flirting. A lot of it though is just taking charge and making the first move. You can't fear rejection. Be the one to initiate the conversation and be the one to to be proactive about dates and meet ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:32 AM
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I agree that it's different but I'm pretty adaptable tbh. I learned to rig the dating game in my favor as a nerdy fat woman. I could probably learn to play that game as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:19 AM
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There is nothing you could say that would make me want to be born male. I am very comfortable in my identity. I'm also fairly confident and unafraid to approach. I'm bisexual and have been with women. I don't really think I'd have to big of a problem tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:59 PM
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I wouldn't believe him if he said it was only a couple hours. My perception would change because he lied about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:26 PM
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I crave the companionship that comes from an LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:36 PM
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It depends on the physique tbh. If a super muscled out guy says he only spends an hour a week then nah i won't believe em With bigger people its harder to make that determination because they really might be at the gym 6 days a week but they're losing fat and without knowing what they started at its hard to make that determination.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:28 PM
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Noice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:41 PM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:18 PM
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They may prefer it but there is a point where it's too young
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:38 PM
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My hips were like lopsided and caused so many issues. I need to go again because I'm sure pregnancy has fucked me up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:34 PM
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I've done vitimin c and orange juice. I can't bring my self to do raw garlic 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:33 PM
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Thank you! The baby has it too and he's just wanting to cling to me all day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:32 PM
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I know some people think its bullshit, but i visited a chiropractor for some work on my back and it did wonders. A good massage too may help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:44 PM
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I wish they could come to a consensus on what a high n count is. I'm here with 18 waiting to know where i stand in TRP hierarchy of sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:42 PM
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Lower age. There are reasons guys can want lower n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:37 PM
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Day 2 of covid here: coughing has gotten worse my body aches and I'm so fuckin tired. Solidarity my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:35 PM
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Men want someone with the same values as them. If he thinks sex is sacred and should be saved then I'm not the person for him. I'm going to be honest about my n count because that's what you do in a potential relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:52 PM
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You ever raise a child? Its fucking expensive as hell. And even if it wasn't, that child is his child and he should help raise it both financially and by being present.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:49 PM
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Hook ups are just fullfiling a desire. I'm not big into ONS. I'm more of a FWB type person but the few times i have hooked up it has very much been seeking out to fulfil an urge.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:45 PM
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Sex has the value that you place in it. In my experience i have been able to separate the two but i know others who can't. You need to have the awareness to understand what sex is to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:39 PM
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I think it's a mixture of things. Men see that the courts favor mothers so they don't want to put their kids through that fight. Women do the primary caretaking of the child in the majority of cases. Young children tend to have stronger bonds with their mother because of them doing the caregiving. Divorce is hard and another battle is just exhausting. There is a whole list of reasons and most aren't that dads don't care about their kids. I get your feelings on this situation, I really do. My bio…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:28 PM
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Oh i agree. I think that poor mental health is something men have a harder time with and they don't receive the help they need for it. I've been in treatment facilities for mental health and there has always been more female than male patients. I think it's because men are told not seek out help and to just "man up"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:55 AM
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Eh. Not really one way or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:33 AM
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There is reason to believe that women have those disorders at the same rate but they present differently in men than in women and men have been what's used for diagnostic criteria for so many of these disorders. Men are more likely to go to trade school than women. College is not some marker for success. Id like to see that compare to women and compared to inflation. Is that a gender issue or a capitalism issue. Again I'd like to see those last two in comparison to women. Men have worse mental h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:32 AM
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The struggles of men and the fact they get overlooked. It's something i heavily agree with and I'm all for advocating for men and the struggles they face. The belief that women live on easy mode or whatever that quote is is one that's very wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:24 PM
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I agree with this. The more educated women i know with shit fathers tend to not go for that type and stick to more good guys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:19 PM
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I believe that men have struggles that are separate from women and it's almost impossible to quantify who has it worse. I'm not sure. I believe all humans have value regardless of gender. I believe that society is at a place where non radicals of both genders are being "left behind". Our current society benefits no one but a select few.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:16 PM
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Yes. I know that lol. I answered the question lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:15 PM
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Himans crave sex. It's a natural instinct. Sex iis fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:04 AM
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Depends on why they're childless. The ones that i know that chose that lifestyle are very happy and have fulfilling lives. Most of them travel. They're utilizing their time well. One's that for one reason or another could not have a child are lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:24 AM
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I'm okay with players and I'm okay with incels. I will say that if you have to ask why incels are so vilified then you've been living with your head under a rock. There is a loud and scary subset of incels that believe, think, and do some pretty horrific things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:04 PM
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The flaw in your statement is that not all women are attracted to the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:13 AM
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It has been stigmatized. Any emotion that makes a man seem vulnerable or weak is stigmatized. Men can only be strong and stoic. There is very black and white thinking surrounding some gender roles, women tend to be more emotional so men being emotional isn't manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:06 AM
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Trust your partner. That's really it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:01 AM
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Yes. I also think that if he was lead to believe he was the father and he wants to continue having parental rights over the child even if the mother wants those rights nullified, he should be able to have those rights. I didn't know that about California.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:59 AM
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I think that they're not the father and the woman made it seem that way, they can leave and not be responsible in any way or that they get to stay in the childs life if they choose to, even if the mother doesn't want them too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:04 PM
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Lmao no. I was distracted and typed the wrong thing. That's my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:51 PM
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Men cheat too my guy. Its not a woman only issue
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:50 PM
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If the mother questions the paternity she has the right to know as much as the man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:36 PM
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You can opt out of those. There isn't any test they do to a baby that you don't have the ability to opt out of. Collecting dna is a civli liberties violation waiting to happen. I never said i think they should be responsible. I said that men know what they are getting into
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:36 PM
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If you're gonna criminalize women cheating, do the same for men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:30 PM
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My position is that the government being mandated to collect the DNA of every citizen is sketchy as hell. If there is an opt out option then go for it. Both parents opt out and the baby isn't tested
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:19 PM
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But y'all are suggesting criminalizing women cheating without the same for men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:09 PM
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Both parties would have to opt out. My gripe is with a government mandated collection of DNA
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:08 PM
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Depends on the situation. You shouldn't have an opinion though, right? Men will never be able to ge pregnant. According to you, that's not a choice you get to make
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:07 PM
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I personally would, yes. If men can demand a paternity test, women can be upset about it. Like I think men should be able to get one but that is an accusation of cheating and i wouldn't be able to see past it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:05 PM
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So you'd agree that since men cant experience pregnancy they should have no right to dictate what a pregnant woman does with her body? Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:00 PM
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I'll go one further if you think women are like this, don't fuck em. Get a fleshlight or a sex doll
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:31 PM
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It's the way some of them don't seem to know how the process works and also seem to think that all women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:29 PM
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Lmao you pulled this from my comment when i said none of those things. If people have the option to opt out of it, I'm cool with it. If its forced then it sketches me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:24 PM
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No. I think its weird. To me the fun comes from knowing the other person wants it and is having as much fun as i am
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:22 PM
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I've thought about it too. It's such a complex issue because if we make infidelity illegal, it opens the door for those laws to be abused
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:09 PM
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Im not against it for those reasons. I'm against it if there's not an option to opt out. Yes because testing a child without both parents knowledge is weird. Divorce rape is a stupid fucking term. If my partner excuses me of cheating and lying to him, yes I'm going to leave him because that trust is broken between us both obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:08 PM
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That's not punishing the man lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:47 PM
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Yeah it's not that women can sign a man up to be a father without their consent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:59 PM
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The government will refrain from storing the DNA of all its citizens? They will find reasons to keep the DNA. It's the government
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:58 PM
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I'm not saying that you can't sue. I'm saying that women can't just put a name on the birth certificate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:56 PM
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If he is unaware or if he wanted her to get an abortion, then yes he should
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:55 PM
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That's literally what they did when i gave birth to my kid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:54 PM
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It matters because if you have any doubts you can say so from the get go. I'm not saying it's morally acceptable. I'm saying that it's a system that can be abused just as much as the current one is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:52 PM
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I'm against not being able to opt out yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:47 PM
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That's weird. They did that when i had my son. Maybe it varies state to state then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:46 PM
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Yeah, as she should. It's a violation of her trust. If my boyfriend wanted a paternity test I'd leave him. Maybe you're right and he should be able to opt out. But there seems to be this thought that men know nothing and have no say and they do know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:45 PM
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Yup. If the babies eyes glow red, he's not the dad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:09 PM
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Then men who impregnate women who aren't their wives or girlfriends should be punished
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:09 PM
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It's literally in her body. Of course she has control. If it was in the man's he'd have control.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:06 PM
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He is informed of what it means to sign of it. He has the ability to contest it if he feels it's not his
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:05 PM
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If that's the case then men who cant afford child support, they should be castrated so they don't bring more babies into the world to burden the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:00 PM
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It doesn't but it's not like he's uninformed. He literally signed up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:58 PM
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I fucking hate those more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:58 PM
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Do you know how paternity is determined in the hosptial? She just doesn't write and name down. The man is informed, asked if he contests it, is made aware of his responsibilities etc. He has to sign off on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:53 PM
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Basically, in the hosptial the man is taken to the side. The nurses ask him if he contests the paternity, if he says no they go over the rights and responsibilities of claiming he is the father, he signs a form. The man has to be present for the signing of the birth certificate and provide proof of identity. It seems like some people here think that the woman just writes a name on the birth certificate without anyone asking the man m
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:52 PM
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School more so as in cold approaching strangers in college and then being upset when they aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:42 PM
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Some of y'all don't know how paternity is determined after a baby is born and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:30 PM
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There are places that its not appropriate to do that. Work and school are big ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:26 PM
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It doesn't automatically assume. In the hospital the male partner is asked if they want a paternity test, they're taken away from the woman and the nurses talk with them over what it means to take responsibility for the child or if they want to contest it, they have to sign a form. It's not like the woman can just say "this is the guy" and he's strapped with it. He's informed of what it means to take that responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:22 PM
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A woman who's only had sex with women who've had sex with women. If you've fucked a guy they won't fuck you. They are judgemental as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:52 PM
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Cold approaching is okay in certain atmosphere but not across the board
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:40 PM
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I watch tiktoks tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:40 PM
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You thinking that paternity fraud should mean everyone being forced to give up their DNA is insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:36 PM
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People willingly get DNA tests most of the time. That's on them. Forcing everyone to get tested from birth is a nightmare. The civil liberties at stake are worse than paternity fraud
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:32 PM
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Make female friends so you understand how they work. Get a friend group that introduces you to people. Go to a bar. A singles night Don't approach strangers and expect them to be okay with it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:31 PM
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Its super not fun at first. You gotta find the right groups. There are groups of exclusively bi people around that make things easier. Gold star lesbians piss me off like no other
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:27 PM
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It's about the context in which you're getting approached. If I'm at a coffee shop, I want my fucking coffee and to be left alone. If I'm at work i l want to work. Etc OLD i am looking for a partner. They can message me whenever and i can get back when its convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:23 PM
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The government having access to the DNA of all of it's citizens? That could never end badly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:21 PM
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I think that attraction can develop. My problem with developing feelings for friends is how some people react to rejection. That's what makes someone feel used
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:20 PM
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I mean it sucks but what are you supposed to do? She may really not know who the father is. At that point you aren't criminalizing fraud. You're criminalizing adultery. And you're criminalizing it for only women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:56 PM
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I think so too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:28 PM
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I mean it sucks but what are you supposed to do? She may really not know who the father is. At that point you aren't criminalizing fraud. You're criminalizing adultery. And you're criminalizing it for only women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:27 PM
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It's not punishing the woman. Its removing the obligation from the man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:54 AM
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That should be up to the father. He should have the ability to stay or leave. He should no longer have financial or legal obligations to the child or mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:40 AM
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If a bi woman is talking shit on bi men that's fucked. If a slutty dude talks shit on a slutty woman that's fucked. Both are hypocritical. Like I'm a bi woman dating a bi dude. Stop pushing your weird shit on me because i called out insecure dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:50 AM
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They have inserts for your shoes you could get for irl meets
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:28 AM
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That's so sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:28 AM
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Yeah and neither are justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:27 AM
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I grew up in a conservative space and for one reason or another been surrounded by conservative Christians all my life so my data point is skwed but I've seen it a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:58 PM
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Moderates. Conservatives were always weird about my sexual history and they were always trying to be edgy but it was always like "40 year old dad on Facebook" edgy. And the leftists we're weirdly pushy about sex and you couldn't ever make jokes. They were all triggered so easily. They got so upset when the smallest thing happened. They were close minded. . Moderates are where it's at and libertarians have the best sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:56 PM
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I'm friends with people I've fucked and a couple exes. My reasoning for the people I've fucked is that they were all friends first, that friendship is important and i never saw them as anything but friends (except for one but that was only for a little bit before i got over it) My exes I'm friends with were either friends before we started dating and realized we should have stayed friends or we weren't friends after we broke up but reconnected later after a tragedy They all respect my relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:47 PM
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Lmao. Literally 90% is the majority. It is likely reversible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:58 PM
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Lol this question was about if women think it needs to change to match our needs and it doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:14 PM
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Its 90%. Y'all tell women to not be worried about something that only happens 10% of the time but i say this about surgery and y'all lose your minds
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:02 PM
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I'm literally saying I've never seen it. Tf are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:44 PM
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You don't have to justify your heartache. Even if she had been truthful. You're entitled to feeling upset
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:46 PM
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Women like to be desired. I think everyone does. It's toxic as shit though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:43 PM
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Women are so fucking weird about this. Shaming a dude for having a preference smh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:42 PM
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The weather is so crazy here in February. I hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:34 PM
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I've seen so many other women say they won't date a gamer and I've seen men in rp circles say that it's lame. I don't get it. It's a hobby. Its fun. Stop being weird about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:33 PM
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I've met some fucking insecure ass women so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:30 PM
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I'm literally basing it on medical shit I've read https://stanfordhealthcare.org/medical-treatments/v/vasectomy-reversal.html
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:30 PM
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Huh. That's interesting. I was basing my thoughts on this stanford study. https://stanfordhealthcare.org/medical-treatments/v/vasectomy-reversal.html
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:29 PM
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There's no guarantee but its a pretty high chance that it can be https://stanfordhealthcare.org/medical-treatments/v/vasectomy-reversal.html
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:28 PM
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I don't disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:36 PM
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I think the current format is fine. Men just gotta learn how to utilize it. A good bio, fun pictures that convey personality. Those are what women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:06 PM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:04 PM
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If you do decide you want kids they're reversible. But yeah do what you want. Its your body. Your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:03 PM
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Yes i have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:07 AM
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If they moved in they help pay
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:17 AM
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I still don't understand your argument 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:11 AM
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That makes sense and i agree now that you've explained it. I've seen so many people use the argument to say that no data is correct about female victims of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:30 AM
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Ive known of it forever. I'm not sure what made me aware of it. I've always been running in geeky/nerdy circles online and a lot of men into the same shit i like are RP. I knew about it casually and then i got super fucking into incel/black pill shit in like 2014. Like autistic levels of obsession. I then started following all these different subs and just kind of learned about the dynamics. I hadn't really had a positive interaction with a red piller and I started to just view the whole movemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:50 AM
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Clearly you've never met a young girl. There is a lot of attraction to older men. On the internet, yeah girls yell about old men being gross because of how many old men hit on them. But irl is different than online. This is something i think many people fail to realize. All my friends in high school always wanted to date an older guy. They thought it would be so cool and hot and he'd be so much more mature and take care of her etc etc. That mindset is easy to manipulate. Insecure girls don't car…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:10 PM
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Could you provide a source on the whole "all stats are measured by the mary kloss metric" it's something i see all the time to dismiss any statistic i bring up about rape. I do think male victims of domestic violence need more support. The lack of shelters for men is disturbing and inhumane tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:04 PM
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I've seen a few toom I've also seen some men mask as progressive to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:13 PM
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New Girl. I wanna hear those jokes again for the first time. Season 1 of Heroes. I feel like I've blanked on every show I've ever watched
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:52 PM
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There is a level of understanding both genders need to have with each other. I see it all the time here that there is a giant pissing contest about who has it worse and how bad the other gender is woe is me etc etc. The truth is both genders have advantages and disadvantages. We need to understand those. I also do think that there is room to poke fun at each other and complain to our friends about the difficulties we go through. I meet men with the same level and understanding that they meet me …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:47 PM
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You've never seen how older men manipulate younger girls? I've seen it, yes. It is very hard to convince a young girl that the older "more mature" man who's buying her all these clothes and won't let her get a job or go out with friends is manipulating her because she feels specialm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:41 PM
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More progressive leaning people are procreating than the internet leads you to believe. Its not a lot and birth rate is going down but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:35 PM
6

This is the funniest fucking thing I've seen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:45 PM
3

I'm not sure about it being far easier. The warning bells really is just what the relationship dynamics are like. How long has the older one known the younger? Is there money heavily involved? Manipulation? Does the older have a past of dating younger and then leaving when they get older?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:42 PM
1

Lol i also think 18 year olds get manipulated by older men to join the army and that's fucked up and immoral. It's not infantilization to say that a 40 year old can easily manipulate someone half their age
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:47 PM
2

Everyone has a right to their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:24 AM
2

I love my partner. I am so happy to be with him, he's who I want to be with for the rest of my life. We have struggles and shit we have to work on but we're doing it. I love that we can have intellectual discussions, we can talk in depth about video games and movies, and be weird as hell together. I love how smart he is, how grounded and level headed he is, how great of a father he is. He's so fucking funny and such a good cook. We can challenge each others view points. He makes me feel loved an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:21 AM
6

I fucking love coffee dates and walks. Why is that a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:09 AM
1

If them not getting laid is so serious that it'll cause the collapse of society, then they'd fuck a fat chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:02 AM
1

Huh. That's an interesting study. I've never seen that before. I don't think men can't be teachers. I've had plenty of awesome male teachers. But I'm of the belief that while yes gender equality is needed there are certain things that each gender is better at. Men are better in the military, not because they are physically built differently but because their brains are wired in a way that make them better tactians. Women can be successful in that field, I'm not saying that they aren't. I do agre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:00 AM
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I've never seen it once
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:49 AM
-1

I was an edgy white teenager in the 2010s. I listened to so much Hollywood Undead. They aren't hip hop or rap but they had some fucking misogynistic songs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:49 AM
2

Oh i for sure value personality above all else but I'd be lying if i said i didn't have a price that I'd ignore those at. I'm currently in a relationship that i wouldn't leave for all the money in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:46 AM
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Where are your sources? You made me provide all of mine and yet in that whole thing you only have one. The sources i provided are from trusted agencies around the world. I should no longer trust them based on the words of some anonymous reddit user? You have one study about violence within relationships. And I'll respect it. That doesn't explain away rape and murder. Ah yes. The Mary Kloss argument. I have still not been given proof that every study about rape done is using her metric. Where are…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:44 AM
2

Yup. That's pretty much it. I've always wanted to travel but i don't have the means to. Oh gosh. There's so many. Tokyo. Italy. Peru. Dubai. Greece. Bali. Depends on my mood honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:16 AM
1

If he can afford to let me travel 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:53 AM
12

There are for sure warning bells about it but you do you. It's not illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:46 AM
1

I agree. I just wrote out a long ass reply to someone else on this thread with a bunch of data if you wanna look at it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:45 AM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:44 AM
1

https://stoprape.humboldt.edu/statistics The majority of rape victims are female with a male rapist. It's often someone they know and trust;family member, intimate partner, friend. https://www.unodc.org/unodc/en/data-and-analysis/global-study-on-homicide.html While, yes, more men are murdered, women are murdered by their intimate partners at a much higher rate.90% of those homicides were committed by men. https://books.google.com/books?id=HFAdEAAAQBAJ&pg=PT305#v=onepage&q&f=false Men may be murd…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:42 AM
1

That's one piece of it yes. You don't get a full picture from data and stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:43 PM
1

She was legally not allowed to divorce. That verse you used proves that. She can't just "walk away" when she didn't have means to take care of herself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:42 PM
1

Easier orgasams would be great
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:53 PM
1

Men could iniate it. Not women. That bible verse is exactly what i was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:51 PM
1

The discussion is about the lives experiences of men and women and what can be done to change it. It literally has nothing to do with who has it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:45 PM
1

I want to have a discussion where there isn't this victim complex from either side. It's always "well yes thats bad but ofc mine is worse" and it never gets anywhere. I have tried to have these conversations with RPers and anytime i brought up a legit struggle that women have it was " well it's not xyz" or "well yeah but dont you think this is worse" It's not about who fucking has it the hardest. It's about fixing the problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:38 PM
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The first one is has nothing to do with sexuality. Again that's not sexuality. That's thinking women don't have the same needs. It's stupidity and selfishness more than anything. I can see your last point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:02 PM
1

I'm not going to try to quantify struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:54 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:43 PM
1

Fall Out Boy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:39 PM
1

I never said that people weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:38 PM
1

Jfc no. The other stuff. I'm aware of queen Victoria
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:37 PM
1

You can do that without government involvement in marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:24 PM
1

Where are your sources? I'm being honest. I'm curious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:23 PM
0

I'm calling them dumb because they think they get special treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:23 PM
1

Any baby she has is gonna be disabled. Because that's all women bring to a relationship don't you know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:40 PM
2

I got a five month old and a great relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:28 PM
1

24? So they'll only get 6 years out of her before she becomes a low value foid?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:27 PM
3

TRPers: society is going to collapse and men will all kill themselves if they don't get sex TRPers: i will never fuck a fat chick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:26 PM
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TRPers: i can't date older women or women who've had a lot of sex or women who aren't traditional or feminists or women over 145 lbs or women who are taller than me or women who are too emotional or women who don't respect me or women who listen to their friends or women who gossip or..... TRPers: its womens fault I'm single
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:18 PM
2

Yessir and proud of it 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:14 PM
1

So queen = common everyday woman? If we're using examples of royalty to make sweeping accusations then all men kill their wives like King Henry IV. Women who were divorced could not remarry but the men could. Daughters were expected to marry to form alliances between families. Once married they were expected to remain faithful even if the man did not. They couldn't leave because they did not have the means to support themselves on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:13 PM
2

TRP turn down the autism knob? I don't think it's possible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:51 PM
2

I'd wanna be a Stacy because I'm not a man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:50 PM
4

Phew. I'm not a thot. Just a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:49 PM
3

Nah it's 2. They don't need to do shit like this to stay relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:48 PM
1

Where are you getting your information? I'm genuinely curious. I have books upon books with primary resources, that have been peer reviewed, and are written by people who know more than either of us that say you're wrong. It's been a few years since I've been heavily involved in the field and I've changed career paths but like i don't think things have changed that much
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:47 PM
1

So when comparing who has struggles, we just just disregard personal experiences? Is that why you think women don't struggle. Because you disregard their struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:15 PM
2

It doesn't mean shes some conniving slut that's trying to con the guy as some people seem to think
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:14 PM
1

I literally have a degree in history my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:13 PM
1

Personal experience I've heard from both men and women which is valuable when learning about the struggles of each. Data about shit that happens to both.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:43 PM
6

Mens sexuality is fine the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:42 PM
1

I tried to cover it up because i felt ashamed about it. It took me a while to get to the point i wanted to talk about it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:39 PM
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That's a subset of a gender. Women all over the world do not have it easier than all of the men all over the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:38 PM
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Not a lot tbh. But that one example doenst prove anything. Those lessons are prewritten by those teachers. Who do you think makes lesson plans. Teachers don't like the current state of education but policy makers, who are mostly men, keep pushing standardized testing and standards that make it hard to teach well rounded intelligent people. It's not on the teachers when they don't make the rules. You have to have campassion and empathyto be a nurse and a teacher. Men can do it but it is often wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:37 PM
1

You can have a conversation about both. Why are men killed more often? Why are women killed by intimate partners? What drives that? How can we change that? That's a conversation that needs to be had. Women couldn't own land. Couldn't get divorced. Couldn't vote. Couldn't have sex outside of marriage. Had no choice in marriage. Couldn't run for office.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:28 PM
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That's not what i said at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:44 PM
2

All men aren't rapists. I'm willing to have a conversation as a rape victim. Too often here when I've tried, Rpers tell me they don't believe my story. Which they don't have to but how are you going to say you want a conversation about it when you act like that? A way to get anything done about both is to take all claims seriously. Women are more likely to be killed by an intmate partner than men are. There is a problem there that isn't on men. What whims of women was society built on? We didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:44 PM
1

Dude you took my example and made it about you. You're dismissing womens problems which is the exact point I'm making The main stream media is vastly different from real life. You can doubt my story all you want it doesn't make it untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:35 PM
3

There are exceptions to every rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:33 PM
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You're taking one thing i said away from the whole and using it out of context. It's dishonest and ignorant. You would know by what I said that i think women are very capable. And yes we should value human life. I was telling you that women had use when you insinuated they're only good for secretaries
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:32 PM
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To say one gender is "living on easy mode" or "male privilege" is insanely ignorant and dismissive. Individual people may have it worse but entire genders do not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:29 PM
1

Okay so I'll give a personal example. After I was raped i went through cycles of hypersexuality and then not even wanting to be touched. It was how i coped with trauma. There are still times i just don't want to be touched for days at a time. There are people I was with that I thought were attractive and that I wanted to have sex with but my own traumatic experience kept me from doing it. There are reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:28 PM
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On basic human survival level, yes women are needed to make babies and men are needed to inseminate women. That doesn't mean that women's only use is raising and making babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:23 PM
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I would word it differently than saying it was worse. I work with special needs students and i hear from parents about how their siblings feel like their needs aren't important and that their struggles are invalid because the one sibling has such significant needs. I would probably say something like "Your sibling has different struggles than you. The way they interact with the world is different. Sometimes they just need some extra help or extra understanding. Be patient with them."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:21 PM
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Pretty much yeah at a basic level. There are also things that each sex tends to better at that society needs to be a society
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:13 PM
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Haha. Funny joke. Women are more compassionate and make better educators and nurses. I mean also need them for the continuation of the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:12 PM
2

If i both children were struggling and i told one "hey your problems aren't as bad as your brothers" that's a shitty parent thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:25 PM
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Nothing happened with mine either. It was my boyfriend. I was told that he couldn't rape me because we were dating. I lost my entire friend group. My mother told me it was my fault. The only people that took me seriously was my sisters and two old friends. I've since made better friends but yeah. He faced no consequences. And yes rape for men is bad to but comparing the tramua and saying one is worse is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:24 PM
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Through what shit? She's not doing anything wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:22 PM
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And this is the perfect example of my point. If you're using that example, my rape and the reaction to it from people drove me to attempting suicide and psychosis. Other women have had similar experiences. I can still acknowledge that my problems aren't worse than than mens
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:19 PM
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From what they've explained its not contradictory but you'd have to ask one of them to get to know what they think
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:16 PM
1

I could argue that government in marriage isn't best for society
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:15 PM
1

I have issue with telling anyone that their problems aren't as bad as someone elses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:15 PM
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That's not true. Rape is not the fault of other women. Domestic abuse is not the fault of other women. America's barbaric maternity leave isn't the fault of other women. I'm not saying that those problems are all on men but to blame all of womens societal struggles on themselves or other women is not accurate. And both sides don't want to identify the problems that the other have. No one wants to listen to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:14 PM
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You're literally proving my point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:11 PM
1

Doubt all you want. There is a chunk of modern feminists that agree that there are problems that men have. They think it's rooted in patriarchal shit but they acknowledge the problems
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:04 PM
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There is data to prove that women have struggles as well lol. You're dismissing womens problems. Which is exactly the problem. So the solution is to just deny that women struggle and stoop to their level?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:02 PM
3

I disagree that it's higher probability that she's not attracted. We know literally nothing about her to make that conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:00 PM
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Things like that don't happen often because people are taking those precautions. Y'all seem to think that women should just ignore their basic sense of saftey because it makes dating hard. Don't leave your drink alone with someone. Don't get in a car with a stranger. Don't go to someones house you don't know by yourself. Those are things that everyone should do. The truma that comes with rape is one that women will go through extents to not experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:59 PM
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It's fucked that you've had those experiences. Women have those experiences too and get the same reaction from men. We don't need each other in our personal life but as a society we do need each other
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:53 PM
2

There is nothing that says that she's not attracted to him. It is possible that there is trauma there or maybe she's changed her mind about sex or she had a pregnancy scare and it's made her reluctant. She has every right to not want to have sex with him even if she is attracted. And he has every right to leave if it is a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:51 PM
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Women do acknowledge it, there are feminists that I know that acknowledge it. The problem is that so many times i see it worded as "here's data that proves men struggle. women are living in easy mode." Of course women are going to be upset if that's how it's worded. It's the same as women who say "here's data that proves this is a problem. Male privilege." You're trying to fight fire with fire. Approach it differently and you might have different results. And yes I can argue that, this is not an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:43 PM
2

I never said he didn't like her enough. It's just how it is. It's not good or bad. They've been together 3 months, it's not like a super long term relationship. If he wants sex, then leave. That's no big deal. If he wants the relationship more than sex, then stay. Also a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:17 PM
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And this is what I'm talking about lol. You're trying to play the game of who has it worse when that's not going to get us any where. Yes, society tends to think men should suck it up. That does not mean that society isn't also hard on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:15 PM
1

I never said he didn't love her. If he loves her more than sex, he should stay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:05 PM
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Yes! And i think each has become jaded towards the other gender because they invalidate each other's struggles. Like I've seen women deny that the male suicide rate is an issue almost as much as I've heard men say that rape culture doesn't exist. Instead of listening to each others struggles, having empathy for each other, and working together for a solution, we just get in a passing contest about who has it worse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:05 PM
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You're gonna make em angry with this one but the truth had to be said
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:46 PM
2

You can reject both
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:44 PM
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They might not be exactly equal but to say women live life on easy mode, as I've seen so many times in this sub, is simply not true. And to dismiss mens problems is insanely ignorant. I think men are going to think men have it worse because they experience those problems and same with women. There are problems both genders have that need to be fixed before society as a whole can progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:43 PM
1

Bi women should view bi men the same way they view themselves. If a man with a high n count thinks a woman with high n count is low value than he is low value too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:16 PM
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Not having sex is the same as cheating?? If he loves her more than his desire for sex then he should stay. That's not flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:55 AM
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I don't disagree that these are problems. Both sexes have problems. My main issue with TRP is the insinuation that one has it worse than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:47 AM
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Her reasoning for it is her own. If you wanna have sex and she's not doing it, move on. If you like her enough then stay but realize you might be unhappy. Neither party is in the wrong. This isn't really proof of needing redpill imo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:45 AM
2

Oof. You got this my guy. Women can be pretty cryptic with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:37 AM
3

And if they do acknowledge it's a man he's a "low value beta simp cuck"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:36 AM
2

How does it not work that way but your example does?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:29 AM
2

Okay whatever you say my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:27 AM
0

Oh no. Hypocritical, low IQ men won't be interested in me. Whatever will I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:27 AM
4

I'm fat so obviously no one is actually attracted to me and they only date me because I'm easy and they're lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:26 AM
2

Men with high n counts should then be disgusted by themselves then. You can't think it's okay for men to go around fucking everything and not think the same is okay for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:54 AM
2

Societaly, women are able to rely emotionally on friends more than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:52 AM
5

Masculinity doesn't seem to have as much wiggle room as femininity. You can be a working mom and still be feminine but stay at home dads are not masculine. Women can be virgins or sluts and still be feminine while it seems men have to be fucking bitches to be seen as masculine. Femininity isn't as rigid as masculinty is. It's not an either or situation. Non feminine women aren't seen as outcasts the way non masculine men are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:51 AM
2

Pick mes are not women who "know what they want". It's women who shit on other women for the sake of male approval and validation. I'm confused where you got the idea that they are just women who know what they want. A woman can totally be a wife and mother. It's when she starts taking shots at women who aren't. There are feminists who also take shots at women like that and they are equally as problematic. In my experience, no. And if they do get picked the relationship doesn't last for long. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:46 AM
1

Prom is a formal dance. My school had it available to juniors (16-17) and seniors (17-18). They do get pretty revealing with the dresses for teenagers tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:36 AM
1

I have seen so many incels say the started in redpill. I'm pretty sure that i can't link to incel forums though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:33 AM
1

Men being able to fuck while women can't? That's hypocrisy bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:30 AM
1

Too bad i don't think that men have to be brave and strong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:28 AM
3

So my claim about competition isn't wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:37 AM
2

Nah man i think of em all the time. I'm doing my everday shit because I don't have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:10 AM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:08 AM
1

It's hypocritical as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:17 AM
10

We should create our own subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:02 AM
2

Most of my n count is fwb so i tend to. The one night stands we're either heat of the moment, with some one from out of town, or they sucked
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:00 AM
2

That's what I'm saying. Those shouldn't be tied to marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:59 AM
17

I'm low value in terms trp 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:11 AM
3

Because people are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:07 AM
1

Whatever you say. I'm done talking in circles with the many red pillers i triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:42 PM
1

I never said all red pillers were incels where did i say that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:41 PM
1

I legit called them what they identified as. Idk wtf you want from me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:40 PM
1

You might be right idk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:39 PM
0

Whatever you say. I'm not going to say the same thing to every triggered red pill guy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:38 PM
4

Women get shamed for having sex. Why would a celebrity be public about it? You may not be able to control it but it can be explained. You don't think women can have as much sex as men because you don't view their needs as important as mens
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:38 PM
3

I never said it was. I said incels are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:28 PM
2

Yes i know. I think its fucked they dont. They don't fucking kill people though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:28 PM
3

Oxford says a" member of an online community of young men who consider themselves unable to attract women sexually, typically associated with views that are hostile toward women and men who are sexually active." Its what they fucking call themselves. Wtf else am i gonna call them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:25 PM
0

Incel identifies the type of extremist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:24 PM
1

Okay? They took the name and ran with it. I've seen so many incels say that they got their start in red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:23 PM
1

I know? I never said they did. I said incels used red pill as a stepping stone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:22 PM
6

I just looked up stats and it looks like atheists and Catholics are tied for lowest divorce rates
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:21 PM
2

I'm okay with men with low n counts not wanting to date women with high n counts. It's when men with high n counts judge women with high n counts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:20 PM
1

They are both critical of women. I used to read incel forums and so many of them said they started as red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:19 PM
1

I will ne happy to not be capable of shooting people up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:17 PM
4

Did you even read what i said lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:17 PM
1

I'm not saying that rp is incels. Being critcal of any race sexuality gender etc brings extremists. I did not mean for it to come across that i think the same of redpill that i do of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:15 PM
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So what do i call the extremists who identify themselves as incels? Its a legit question. They call themselves incels. I'm using what they describe themselves as.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:10 PM
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So all the incels that say they got radicalized from red pill are wrong? I'm not sure if i can link their forums on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:09 PM
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Having a high n count means i like sex. That's literally it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:07 PM
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The term means involuntary celibate. I will admit that there are some people that don't align with the extremists but that's what they call themselves. If there is a different name for them please let me know
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:06 PM
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👀👀👀👀👀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:05 PM
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I never said that all redpillers are terrorists. There is a level of nuance to this discussion that some of you don't seem to be ready for. I've said it so many times: misandrists are awful but unlike incels they haven't started killing people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:04 PM
0

Okay so you agree with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:03 PM
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I'm not saying that red pill bad. My reasoning is the same reason men here hate feminism: it gave a foothold to extremists. I do not think that all redpillers are incels or agree with them. The topic has more nuance than people wanna give it. Just like when you get a bunch of women who are critical to men together, you get misandrists who think all of them should be castrated the same thing happens with men who are critical of women. Even if redpill has just complaints, it's still what gave ince…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:02 PM
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His grandma got into a car accident. He doesn't have the patience for two women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:09 PM
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They literally got their jumping off point from redpill. It for sure would not be as popular without redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:08 PM
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That's literally what they call themselves? Like what am i supposed to call them? That's what they identify as. That's what their forums are called. Like....?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:07 PM
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Incels gained traction in redpill spaces. Incels get radicalized in redpill spaces. They may be opposites but there is a connection between red pill and incels
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:06 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:04 PM
3

Tfw your boyfriend has a family emergency on Valentine's day so you gotta spend it alone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:04 PM
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I'm not saying that all red pill aee incels nor is ppd. I'm heavily invested because it's interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:01 PM
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They call themselves incels. What else am i supposed to call them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:59 PM
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Redpill spaces is where incels got it's foothold. Redpill doesn't equal incel but it's where they got a platform. Like misandrists co oped feminism to spread their bullshit. Feminism isn't about hating men but misandrists got a platform in those spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:53 PM
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I'm talking incel as in r/incel. The "the government should make women fuck us and women are like cattle" Elliot Rodgers type
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:51 PM
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And once they do I'll call em terrorists as well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:49 PM
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Redpill is what have incels the platform. 4Chan was redpill before it was called redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:49 PM
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I've been stalking red pill spaces for almost 10 years but go off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:48 PM
2

They probably wouldn't be as extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:47 PM
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The motives behind why he killed people matter. I agree those feminists tweets are bullshit. They haven't started killing men. Imagine thinking women shouldn't be worried about people who want to rape and murder them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:44 PM
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They started in redpill and got more extreme. Incels will even say that they started hearing incel talking points in red pill spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:43 PM
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Incels are terrorists soo....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:40 PM
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Nah man an incel is a specific kind of guy. A guy who hates women and thinks they're less than. Elliot Rodgers type. They exist. I don't particularly like you but I'm not gonna call you an incel because you aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:40 PM
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Lmao incels literally started in red pill spaces. Redpill might not support it but I've never seen them speak out against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:38 PM
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Incels started in redpill forums. Incels are more than just dudes who can't get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:37 PM
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I agree. But as of yet they haven't stated murdering men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:36 PM
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You know what the fuck I'm talking about lmao and if you don't you're living under a rock R/incel was a cesspool. Don't fucking act like incels are just dudes who can't ger laid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:35 PM
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Yes. But the government shouldn't be involved
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:34 PM
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They gathered in red pill forums and sane redpillers didn't try to stop them before they got to believe that all women should be raped or murdered
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:33 PM
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Incels came from red pill. Red pill refuses to tank incels threats against women seriously despite them proving how much they will act on that hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:32 PM
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I don't think red pill are all incels. I think redpill spaces created incels and those same redpillers refuse to take incels seriously even though they've proved how serious they are about their beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:30 PM
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Classic man moment. Ignoring any point that a woman makes that you don't like
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:29 PM
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Where did incels come from then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:28 PM
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Elliot Rodgers went on a killing spree. They talk about raping and killing women all the time. The face that those people exist is terrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:27 PM
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Those women haven't tried to kill all men. Some of those men have actually killed women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:25 PM
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Did you ignore my last sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:07 PM
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Conservative views are fine as long as they apply to yourself as well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:49 PM
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Redpill created incels and incels are fucking scary. Like realistically their ideas for how to solve problems would never happen but its scary to think that there are people who think that we should just rape and murder women. And yes i know there are man haters out there but I've not heard of an misandrist Elliot Rodgers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:48 PM
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I agree that some women out there are that way but I've met others that just can't seem to be alone and have huge insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:29 PM
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I'm here to learn. To have discussions. To humanize peiple who I have not really humanized before. To expand my horizons. To step outside the echo chamber of my friend groups and have my ideas challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:26 PM
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I agree. I'm just saying why i think some men have that view
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:23 PM
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Okay well biologically men don't like the competition of other men when it comes to women with high n counts. What i said isn't false
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:22 PM
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I don't think I'm supposed to call people out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:17 PM
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So why can men have high n counts but women can't?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:17 PM
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Like I've explained in other comments. I don't think it makes someone low value, but RP seems to. And there's a difference between being active on reddit and being obsessed with it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:10 PM
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I wonder how that correlates to religion. Christians have the lowest divorce rates and they also don't have a lot of premarital sex. Women who are more promiscuous aren't ones to want to settle down or they have a different view of marriage. I'm not saying that your data is wrong. I've seen the statistics. I still think its hypocritical for men with a high count to look down on women who feel the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:09 PM
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Yayy!! That's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:06 PM
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Programmed? Why? There are a lot of things that biologically we are programed to do but we don't because we are more than our biology. Why haven't men evolved to not care about n count when it really doesn't matter as long as the sex is safe? Why is it okay for men to have a high n count but not women? Men like that still view women as objects and the reason they instinctively don't like how n count is because of competition I never said all men care about n count. The OP asked why men do and i …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:06 PM
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The red pill definition of HVM doesn't really leave room for someone to spend hours a day on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:58 PM
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Birth doesn't need to be within in marriage. And I'm not saying marriage shouldn't exist. The government should not be involved
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:44 PM
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There is a couple that are here a lot that I've seen describe themselves as HVM. There are a few in the discord as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:28 PM
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I think they should be equal yeah. But they aren't in terms of red pill stuff. At least as far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:24 PM
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You might not be the best she's ever had. She has more to compare to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:18 PM
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I see the point. I don't think it's a good one. Comparing a hear surgeon to a homeless person isn't applicable to the dating game. Who you'd choose to date isn't usually dependent on their career. I know y'all lose your mind when you hear this but personality matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:18 PM
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I've seen it several times.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:12 PM
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I don't wish to be anyone other than who I am so does that make me high value by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:42 PM
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I'm on here all the fucking time. In my defense I'm a teacher and my class has been quarentined three times in the past month so work is pretty low key right now but i fully accept that in red pill I'm low value. I just don't give a fuck what red pillers think
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:30 PM
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I don't believe in the concept of high value or low value. In terms of red pill, yes I'm low value. In terms of red pill, anyone with high value would be doing something more productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:26 PM
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Men with high n counts themselves? They don't like the competition and view women as objects Men with low n counts? They just want someone with something in common with them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:23 PM
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My description is based on what rp says a HVM is. I think the concept is stupid tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:18 PM
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In terms of red pill yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:12 PM
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Yup. I don't think it's fair or right to have to government involved like that but that's how it is. That's why same sex marriage was such an issue. They did not have to same rights as a straight couple
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:11 PM
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Not all day. I'm not saying it as a negative. I'm on reddit and discord all the time but the RP definition of HVM doesn't mesh with someone who spends all day on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:10 PM
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Get good my guy. Learn how to play the system. Girls are insecure, they'll have sex with you just like guys will fuck people who are easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:07 PM
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Spending all day on reddit isn't something you do if you're a HVM. You have other things to do. If you're a HVM you're making money and have hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:44 PM
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I would love to get a rose like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:41 PM
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Just because women file more doesn't mean they are the ones at fault for the divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:40 PM
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It cracks me up when men here refer to themselves as HVM like....no you aren't or you wouldn't spend all your time on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:38 PM
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Yeah we are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:23 PM
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Lmao to get dudes. And yeah losing weight is hard. You can't just diet you gotta make significant lifestyle changes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:54 PM
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It's really not as easy as you think lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:48 PM
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Look when i was an e-thot, valentines day was my most profitable day. Like sometimes i wished i didn't stop because good damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:47 PM
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Why are yall so obsessed with fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:42 PM
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Schools quarentines are different. Like, lunch room covid contacts don't count even if they're sitting right next to each other because there is a teacher supervising. The length varies depending on the school nurse who is on duty. There are twins in our special ed program that when one quarentines the other doesn't have to. My class and one other can't mask because they are special needs and they ride the same bus, if one class quarentines the other doesn't have to because on paper the bus rout…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:59 PM
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The rules just don't make sense to me at all and they change so fucking much My class is on its third quarentines since January. Luckily this time we have 3 kiddos in class but only because i fought for them and pulled some shit that could have gotten me fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:08 PM
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Uh nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:04 PM
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The quarantine guidelines for schools make no fucking sense. I'm so done with it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:19 AM
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Tax breaks, social security benefits can go to a spouse, retirement benefits, inheritance doesn't have a tax, if something happens to either of us we could have a say in treatment and also you can get medical or bereavement leave with a spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:14 AM
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Its not loading for me 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:40 AM
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That's kind of what me and my boyfriend are thinking of doing. Like both of us don't want the government involved in our relationship but also there are some advantages that being married gives you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:32 AM
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I wanna see so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:30 AM
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jfc how many comments got deleted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:44 AM
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XD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:30 AM
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It's not as common as some red pillers think it is but it is for sure a popular thing. I think the extent of each persons hoe phase varies. Like mine was pretty fucking crazy but i have a modest friend who considers her hoe phase the period of time she had a FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:14 AM
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I'll freely admit i was pretty toxic in my early years of dating. It mainly stemed from insecurities and poor mental health. There was one relationship for sure that ended because of me. I was just a lot to handle and it didn't make things easy. But for the majority of my break ups, the fault was on both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:10 AM
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50/50 for me doesn't mean that literally half of everything. It just means that within our means we are contributing the same. Like when me and my partner first moved in together, he made more than i did so he paid rent and i paid utilities. That was the spilt that made sense with our income. Now that I have a better job, I pay everything and he stays home with the kid. Thats 50/50 because he takes care of the kid and the house. I wouldn't expect him to pay with money he doesn't have
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:32 AM
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Losing that much weight is awesome but i don't think going from upper 200s to mid 200s is the kind of weight loss that changes peoples lives dramatically. I will also say that some people carry weight better than others so that can make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:23 PM
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it wouldn't phase me tbh. If it was a one time thing, maybe. But if i was dating someone and interested in them then it wouldn't matter to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:47 PM
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Okay. Nice to see you aren't hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:44 PM
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he's really not my type tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:44 PM
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Meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:36 PM
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I wonder how accurate that is though. I can say that but when it comes to it how many of them could actually stay in a relationship like that? One that's so unequal and her own emotional and physical needs may be being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:35 PM
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Okay then by your logic women should also be allowed to get sex from multiple people. Stop being upset about cheating, she's just fullfiling her needs. Hypergamy? Just making sure her needs get taken care of. Don't leave your partner if she cheats on you. She's just making sure her needs are met. What you're describing is being poly. Something I've seen shit on this sub so many times. This makes me think that I'm right in thinking that the only reason some of y'all have a problem with with poly …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:21 PM
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I know there's a lot of rape in the world. And yes anything above 0% is too much. It's still a leap to say that most men would.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:30 PM
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Toxic femininity is a thing and what you described is part of it. It shouldn't be okay for women to say those things to their partners. They do it because most think that if their partner is "man enough" then it won't effect them because to them men shouldn't have emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:27 PM
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OLD has made things so difficult unless you know what you're doing and how to attract your type. It is a lot of effort to maintain a relationship and heartbreak sucks. It's an interesting culture shift and its not even really about sex because several guys mentioned that they don't care about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:24 PM
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I think their responses are valid. I don't have a problem with men who don't want to date or want short term relationships. That's fine. Dating is hard and a lot of work. These men weren't disrespectful in their responses just honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:44 PM
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i mean tbh for one night stands i don't usually ask those questions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:16 AM
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I don't think ww3 will be what causes the break down of society. I like to think that people are pretty resilient and able to adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:19 AM
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Not always. Like why would i care about the salary of a dude I'm fucking once
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:17 AM
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Some women can and they do it because they too want to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:07 AM
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Insecurities. Women will listen to what he says and trick herself into believing it because she's insecure. With how the views on sexuality are changing, more men are being open about wanting casual sex because more women are open to it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:07 AM
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I agree but to look at that and go "well then most men want to rape" is a huge leap
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:04 AM
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You should work on yourself for you. Not someone else. I'm not a big fan of the work on yourself movement when it comes to doing it for dating because to often it's not working on yourself, it's changing core parts of your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:51 PM
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That's gotta be so rough! I hope you have a fun day with the girls
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:18 PM
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That's awesome! Happy anniversary
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:17 PM
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16? Maybe younger or older. I found some threads on reddit. I didn't get super into it until i found out about incels a few years later and i was fascinated with it. Like i did deepdives into it. Then i got familiar with the different levels
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:44 PM
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Can't find a sitter because it's Valentine's so probably a dinner and a movie at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:41 PM
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All of sun chips are pretty fuckin good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:13 PM
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Fucking....what
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:12 PM
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No. Men can be the primary caretakers its just that the way that system is set up, if there is any kind of fight the woman usually wins
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:10 PM
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Exactly. Male loneliness is one thing but men who want to "own" women and are blatant misogynists don't deserve a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:08 PM
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In those situations women are more likely to get custody and as mothers they're expected to most of the heavy lifting of childcare so single fathers don't have to list it in their bio most of the time while single mothers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:44 PM
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I come to the thread because TRP is fucking interesting to me as a movement. But also because bi women have a stake in how men perceive them because they also date men. And while what attracts me in women and men are different, i wouldn't say one is more than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:40 PM
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Those statements are not the same lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:32 PM
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Everyone can be as picky as they like. People should date people they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:31 PM
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I guess I'm a libfem hoe? The positive for me from that is getting to know what i like sexually. I've gotten to get better at it with each partner. There is validation that i get from it, ngl. I just like having sex. I am now with someone who has held similar views on sex as me. We're both pretty good at it. Idk man i don't really see a negative with being open sexually as long as you're safe about it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:27 PM
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Idk man. Girl on girl talk is pretty sacred and I've never heard anyone say that they cared about n count outside of religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:22 PM
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imo a player is different than a guy with a high n count. A player manipulates to get sex. You can have a high n count without manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:20 PM
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Outside of religion I've really never seen a woman care about partners n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:08 PM
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A lot of women do that yes. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:45 PM
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That is self improvement. Its not scams and spending a fuck ton of money. It's bettering yourself to be the best you can be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:44 PM
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Duties depend on each individual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:13 PM
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Probably the advent of the crockpot. Women learned you can throw entire blocks of cream cheese with pretty much whatever the fuck you want and make a "meal" and we just ran with it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:12 PM
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2.5 is a fucking low ass number. That's not enough to say that a lot would.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:03 PM
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It cracks me up when they say they want a low n count woman that also fucks on the first few dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:39 PM
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They should, yeah. It should be an equal partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:38 PM
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Women have the same duties in a relationship that men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:34 PM
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I think you can get better with experience but i also think the relationship has something to do with it. I do think its funny when they get upset with women when they are the ones not good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:32 PM
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Eeehhhh. I've not had em think I'm a whore bc of my tits. In fact more women think I'm a whore because of my tits then men do. The real problem is the back pain
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:29 PM
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It's been a while but I think OKC let's you filter people based on physical traits. Unless that got taken away after I got outta online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:27 PM
2

Oh god that's a rough one too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:23 PM
1

Fuckboys really are just any guy that hurts a woman. St least that's how i use it. Its similar to.how men use bitch or slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:21 PM
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I mean yeah but his comments make it seem he's wanting more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:44 AM
0

You don't have to put up with anything. Leave her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:42 AM
1

Let em live their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:40 AM
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i don't disagree that people get married for the wrong reasons but it's not some trump card to the data on divorce. Marriage it self is an outdated concept, one that is really not.needed like it once was. There are rights that marriage gives you that honestly it probably shouldn't as it incentives people to get married that shouldn't. The government should have no part in it tbh. It shouldn't be a legally binding contract. It should be an outward expression of the bond and love that people share…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:35 AM
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Its fine to be a serial dater if you're open about you intentions. If you're not then you are hurting someone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:22 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/sqgz2x/for_men_lowering_your_standards_is_a_much_better/hwme9gy?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 Here's my response to another similar comment. I very much agree that self improvement should not alter the fundamentals of who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:20 AM
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Oh. I thought you were implying she deserved to get charged. That's my bad. I have no idea either. I can't imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:27 AM
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My advice wasn't really for dating, its that some people in this sub seem to be against any form of self improvement. You do deserve respect, you are enough, and you deserve the kind of love you desire. Self improvement doesn't mean you don't. It means you love yourself enough to be the best you can be. I see women alot use self improvement as a way to change fundamentals of a personality but thats not what it is. It's eating healthier. Noticing unhealthy thought patters. Finding help when you n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:26 AM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:14 AM
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Self improvement should be something you do because you love yourself and want to be the best you can be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:14 AM
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I'm very aware of that. To think that all men would rape is a very low opinion to have of men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:52 AM
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The OG red pill ideology of self improvement was something i agreed with from the movement. I may be wrong because its just what I've observed from various forums etc and not being part of it, but it seems in the last few years there has been a change from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:12 AM
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I don't disagree with your points. I just see a sentiment here that seems anti self improvement for any reason. I also think that lowering your standards is not a very viable option. Not beint attracted to the person you date doesn't lead anywhere healthy for either party
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:10 AM
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Self improvement is a bitch but it's so worth it. Not just for dating sake but for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:07 AM
1

Oh yeah then i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:03 AM
1

Yup. Its rough. There's so many factors that people refuse to look at
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:00 AM
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Nevermind. You shouldn't love yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:59 AM
1

Yeah pretty much. Tumblr still has the OGs with a weird sense of humor tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:55 AM
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I don't disagree that self control can help but telling people "i know you can only afford ramen so eat less and go hungry" isn't the play. My point is that in order to get someone to that point there needs to be more support than saying "get some control fatty"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:53 AM
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Or the words that were said were enough to trigger red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:50 AM
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You deserve self improvement though. Like love yourself enough to be the best you can be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:49 AM
1

You can be a serial dater and not hurt anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:48 AM
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And lowering your standards to date women you are not attracted to and therefore probably will not have a happy relationship is the play?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:47 AM
1

nice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:45 AM
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Nah. Twitter is fucking crazy. It's almost getting worse than tumblr.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:41 AM
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Why are some of y'all so against self improvement?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:39 AM
1

You're right. She shouldn't be charged in the first place though. To bring those charges on a grieving mother who wasn't even there in the first place is heartless
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:36 AM
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Mental health, poverty, ED, medication, lack of healthy alternatives etc. You can say it's only about self control all you want but if you don't address the root cause of obesity, which there are many, then it's not gonna go away
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:34 AM
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Glad I've established myself as a fat woman. Love to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:30 AM
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The culture of that was very much still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:29 AM
1

Fat women are pretty fucking nice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:28 AM
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Unlike in the past women don't need a man to survive. They are fully capable and able to support themselves. Relationships are no longer "i need to do this thing" but it's an "i want to do this thing"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:47 AM
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Strangling 👀👀👀👀👀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:41 AM
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Neither one is super attractive to me. I'd rather he not have to do it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:39 AM
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Leviticus is a NIGHTMARE
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:35 AM
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There's so much more to it than lack of self control. It's a multifaceted issue that doesn't have only one solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:33 AM
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If the father was under the influence of a substance than he should be charged. Unless the mother put the baby face down on the bed while he was sleeping or the father has some very serious mental issues, he should be charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:30 AM
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I've rarely fallen into the "all men are xyz" trap. The times i have was a trauma response and once i worked through it i realized it i was fine. I have plenty of guy friends that ground me in the knowledge that men as a whole are decent guys. I sometimes joke about leaving men behind in favor for women because I'm bisexual but i make similar jokes about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:27 PM
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I agree to an extent. We need to create a society where both sexes feel comfortable approaching one another and also don't lose their fucking minds over rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:16 PM
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Fuckboy is literally just any man that we feel has mistreated us. It's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:14 PM
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I think men and women express it differently sometimes but it's still there. Like i think men can admire a womans non sexual qualities but i think some men feel that admitting that is less manly. Women still admire the sexual qualities but don't verbilize it as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:11 PM
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You hold a very low opinion of men and that's a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:10 PM
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The annoying orange has probably done some sketchy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:08 PM
1

It could be about both, yeah. But it's weird to me that some men so often go to the physical and not the personal as reasons they can't get a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:08 PM
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Shit fuck i worded that wrong. My head is all over the place right niw. I meant why should we have sympathy for rapists. You say it's herd mentality. That goes away with premediation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:04 PM
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I know i already commented but i keep thinking of your last point. I was raped by my partner. It doesn't fucking matter who it is. Why are you trying to make us feel sympathy for a gang rapists? The men should learn some fucking self control **edit: worded something wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:56 PM
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Men defend women from the danger of....teaching higher education. That makes zero sense. Nah. You're not. Women are pretty self sufficient as are men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:54 PM
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Nope. And the ones that say yes have the self control of an orange
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:12 PM
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Women have not been given the same ability to do those things! That's the point. Women could learn to survive on their own. There is no proof anywhere that they couldn't. Men are biologically stronger than women but that doesn't mean women can't defend them selves. Women are not fucking helpless my guy If women exist to make men better then men exist to make women worse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:10 PM
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Education of children IS done by women. I work in special education, it is almost exclusively done by women. The education system would collapse without women. Same with the healthcare system. We've seen that with the pandemic. Education and healthcare are essential for a society. A good society takes care of those who can't take care of themselves, which again is done by women. Women do those jobs better than a man could ever do. Just like men are better at manual labor, defense, etc. Things ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:11 PM
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And you know for sure if left to their own devices that women couldn't do those things? What makes you think that? In my country that comes from men but education, caregiving, and healthcare come from women. Those are all things needed for a functional society. How can you speak in absolutes when women have not be able to try? Some of the most ruthless and competent leaders have been women. Queen Elizabeth is one I can think of. Margaret Thatcher, whatever you think of her beliefs and politics, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:01 PM
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I never said they don't contribute. You're the one that said society doesn't need women. I sarcastically agreed with you. Because society needs both. I said i could live my life without a man as a partner. You said i couldn't. We don't know that though. There has not been a male or female only society. We need each other to exist. It cannot happen without one or the other. You're quote was that you "lead" your partner. No one leads in my relationship. As it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:52 PM
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Yup. Anyone. They can choose a partner. It's when the partner lies and manipulates the situation. Gold diggers are groomers. It's not just men preying on young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:29 PM
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Why do we scare you???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:33 PM
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https://caage.org/what-is-adult-grooming/ This article describes it pretty well. Anyone can be groomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:33 PM
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I don't disagree with any of what you're saying. You can't stop adults from doing what they want and there is so much nuance to these situations that its difficult to dissect it without being one of the people in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:22 PM
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I'm naturally very tight even when aroused. They are fucking painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:48 AM
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Grooming usually starts at young age, like younger than 18, and it consists of making a person think that certian behaviors are in the norm. Seducing is flirting and making yourself look attractive to the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:47 AM
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If she didn't tell him then yes. Its on her. According to the poster he fell asleep next to the baby though. So he knew the baby was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:39 AM
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Depending on the extent of the mental problems, yes. But if it's substance related then no. He's still responsible
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:17 AM
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I never belittled her. Where did I belittle her? I never even mentioned her. Why are you belittling me for saying that I'm independent and in my life, outside of the contributions men and women make to society, I'm able to support myself and my son? Why is that such a big deal to you? I'm okay with women being who ever they wanna be. They wanna be a tradwife, fucking cool. A e-slut? Idc. I don't get why some men care so much about a woman being independent and able to take care of herself. My bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:10 AM
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He's still responsible for his actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:50 AM
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Jesus. That's heartbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:26 AM
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That poor woman. Imagine leaving your baby with dad, coming back to find the baby dead, and then you are the one getting blamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:23 AM
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Those are all good points but why is the mother being charged here when she wasn't even there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:22 AM
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I have never had a conversation with any of my partners about how much money they spent on their exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:20 AM
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As i said, with in the contexts of society yes, I need men. But I don't need a man to provide for me. I am independent
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:17 AM
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I have. I made the first move with my boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:15 AM
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You would be right in saying too many women think that because too many women do think that. Men are not entitled to sex. The way i see some of y'all try to combat "misandry" is to take away rights from women. I have had a discussion with someone in this sub who said that rape was understandable because women aren't giving certain men sex. I have seen men in this sub lament about how easy things used to be fo get married. I see men say that lvw should fuck people "on their level". There is a sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:09 AM
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I feel oh so educated about how i owe everything to men and women contribute nothing to society. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:59 AM
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That sounds like a problem men need to sort out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:50 AM
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If you really think you can replace what women bring to society with robots then you're too delusional to have a discussion with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:22 AM
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Because cocktails are delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:12 AM
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I see all the fucking time in this sub that men say women should lower their standards. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ntscbc/new_data_from_the_telegraph_indicate_that_levels/h0vvglf?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 Heres one from you suggesting that this "nonsense" that women do is driving men to suicide. The implication there is that its on women to put out to stop men from dying. You're basically blaming women for someone's death. That makes it seem you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:10 AM
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I live in a society that both men and women work to maintain. So yes in that sense i need a man just as much as men need women. I don't need a man to support me, for validation, for sex. I have my own career that I am succesful in and that supports me. I have interests and hobbies that I enjoy. I have supportive friends. In that sense i don't need a man My confusion? My mother is a better leader than any man I've ever seen and she passed that on to me. She was able to forge her own way despite c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:10 AM
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I agree with the points that you have about what we need to teach men and women. The implication of saying that women need to be more willing to have sex with more men than they are attracted to is saying that men feel entitled to sex from a biological stand point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:34 AM
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I live in society and society needs men, yes. Within the society that women and men have built and work to maintain, i do not need a man. I have the ability to take care of myself and my needs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:32 AM
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So any and all posts that say " women do xyz and its bad" are ingenuous if a man also does that thing. Hmm I'll keep this in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:49 PM
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So any and all posts that say " women do xyz and its bad" are ingenuous if a man also does that thing. Hmm I'll keep this in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:38 PM
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Pretty much. I've had some traumatic shit happen and i think its a psychological thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:01 PM
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So saying that women should put out with any guy that comes her way because if not it will cause the fall of civilization isn't entitled? Saying that ugly women should fuck lvm isn't saying lvm are entitled? I see posts about men doing xyz for a woman and then she doesn't wanna fuck him and they call her a selfish bitch. I've seen people in here justify rape because men's biological needs aren't being filled. Women do shit thats similar and this sub talks about those women all the fucking time b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:00 PM
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But they're not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:48 PM
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Most people are average so most sluts are average
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:47 PM
1

A little of both. Idk why helps me but it does
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:43 PM
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You're right. And those arguments are stupid. Op even said women do it too so idk what your point is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:36 PM
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I'm aware of that. I'm not using it as the end all be all on their personality. It just gives me peace of mind
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:34 PM
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I know very few women that young who are attracted to the average 45 year old man. I suppose it could happen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:33 PM
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The rights you gave us? They are rights that we deserve as people. How does it feel knowing that the reason for youe superiority is rooted in the fact you didn't allow women the same rights as you. I've done it. I was fine. I was raised by an extremely independent, career driven woman. I was taught not to relay on anyone. I never said we were the same. All i said was that i don't need a man. Because i don't. Men are useful, i never said they weren't. Men and women keep society afloat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:31 PM
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They don't outright say it but it is sure implied. I have seen the argument that sex is a biological need and that society will break down if men don't have sex on this sub. I have seen the "lvw should only date/fuck lvm". It screams entitlement. I've never seen a fat woman make either of those arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:23 PM
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Wtf are you talking about? Where did i say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:50 PM
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My guy. I'm the breadwinner and sole provider for my family. I'm successful in my career. I'm well educated. I have a healthy relationship, if that relationship ends i have the ability to take care of myself and my child and also get fuckin laid. I literally don't need a man for anything other than Companionship and the fact i love him. But heck. I'm bi so if it doesn't work out I can just go to women for my sexual and relationship desires. So I really fucking don't need a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:50 PM
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No. That’s ridiculous. Women are your lifeline. You choose the one you think is best suited to furthering the species. Or…….you pick the one that makes you feel all fuzzy insiiiiiide. Lol same thing different words.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:43 PM
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Men aren't a right or a privilege. They're closer to a reward or conquest. Something at the end of the tunnel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:40 PM
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They don't outright say it but it is sure implied. I have seen the argument that sex is a biological need and that society will break down if men don't have sex on this sub. I have seen the "lvw should only date/fuck lvm". It screams entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:39 PM
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I can say as a fat woman i have met many people who think that they should be able to fuck me because they few me as a LVW
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:35 PM
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Because the post is about men? Because it's a fucking debate sub and the body of the argument is men. If you're only argument is "b-but wahman" you're pretty much admitting that OP is right
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:34 PM
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Someone had to fucking say it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:32 PM
1

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:29 PM
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I don't ask for their last name or shit. I literally search by area and type their name in to see what i find. I don't have anything against people that don't have social media. It's just something i do for my peace of mind
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:06 PM
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Exactly. If you don't want to make your partner happy or smile or laugh then you don't love them. Not like you should
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:28 PM
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That's awful. I'm sorry you've been through that. BPD is a bitch. I've had to end friendships because of it. I think its so crazy how abusive women are excused and it's just "lol I'm so toxic"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:25 PM
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That's your opinion on it. Dating culture and what "dating" is changed with OLD. That's how i found my two most serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:44 PM
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Big dicks are unappealing to me so I'd sacrifice that one and i already gave up money with my partner. We've gone through some fucking rough times but i stay with him because I love him and think he's hot as shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:43 PM
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If you're in a relationship you should WANT to do what you can to help the other person. You should be there when they have rough times. It shouldn't be considered a job. You should want to do that because you love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:40 PM
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I've mentioned in a previous comment that it's mainly in OLD. But i also sometimes do it for people i meet irl. I don't really think it's creepy. If they're putting that information out there it's not creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:09 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:05 PM
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I agree. I personally can't see myself dating someone that young and I'm 25 but not all of those relationships are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:02 PM
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A few of my friends who knew him were feminists who just disregarded me about it. I do think it's okay to question someones actions and that doesn't mean I'm shaming them or saying that they deserved or are responsible for what happened to them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:00 PM
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The problem with some age gap relationships is that there can be manipulation and grooming behvior go on with it. I have seen healthy and happy age gap relationships as often as I have seen sketchy ones. I'm pretty sex positive but when there is manipulation and predetory shit involved, i draw the line. It's why i only watch porn from independent creators. It's okay to be skeptical of the 45 year old dating the freshly turned 18 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:29 PM
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Dude was a kid. He shouldn't have gone. Just like teenagers shouldn't go to a party to get shit faced. I'm not saying what happened to him was right or it was justified. He was too young to understand the implications of what he was doing or what he was going into. He shouldn't have been attacked and he had every right to do what he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:16 PM
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My experience is very different. I'm pretty open about being a victim of rape myself. I was slut shamed by my own family about it. I've seen plenty of women and men shame both male and female victims of rape. I don't think it's wrong to ask why a teenager would go get shit faced at a party the same way i don't think it's wrong to ask why a teenager would bring a gun to a riot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:14 PM
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I don't think he should have been convitcted. I think he acted in self defense. I think going into that situation at all wasn't the best move. It wasn't a protest. It was a riot. He went there because he knew it was a riot. I have nothing against carrying a gun or pepper spray but going into a situation that you didn't need to go into isn't the smartest thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:08 PM
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I do that too. It just provides me an extra sense of security.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:05 PM
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I'm aware. Most rapes are actually by people the person knows and trusts. But there is a difference between those situations and Kyles. A bar or party is a place where people go to let loose/party/have a good time. The situation Kyle was going into was one that was openly hostile and unsafe. And he knew that going into it. That's why he brought a gun. The equivalent for a rape victim would be going into a facility for sex offenders and going into a cell by yourself with violent rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:21 PM
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I see a lot of rape victims get criticized for their actions before an assault. They are still the victim. I never said Kyle was not a victim. She should be allowed to get drunk. Men can get black out drunk without fear. And does she live in a dangerous part of town in your scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:53 PM
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Are you talking about rape? Because there is a difference between those situations. If kyle was walking down the street or going on a date or to a party and he got attacked, no i wouldn't feel the same way. Going into a very obviously violent and tense situation with an armed weapon is not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:39 PM
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Over all women do get criticized for their actions. And showing up to party in a short dress or going on a date is a lot different than showing up somewhere actually dangerous with a gun
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:20 PM
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My guy i was joking to. Their response to my comment cracked me up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:18 PM
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He shouldn't have been attacked but he also shouldn't have gone to another town with a gun. That's not victim shaming. I feel awful for the ptsd that he has and that he was attacked. But that doesn't mean he is exempt from criticism of his actions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:51 PM
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Do y'all ever think about the shit you type before sending it into the world
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:38 PM
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The problem with age gap relationships is the potential for the older party to be manipulating the situation. I'm all for sex positivity and people doing what they want with their bodies, that ends when there is manipulation or predetory shit going on. It's why i consume porn from small independent creators. Not all age gap relationships are predatory and they can be happy and healthy. However it's perfectly normal for people to be sceptical of the freshly turned 18 year old dating the 45 year o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:34 PM
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My point is that both are weird. I don't understand either of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:26 PM
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Yeah that's a trend among alot of women. I think that's weird myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:24 PM
2

Oh that sounds so good!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:21 PM
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Oh gosh yeah i would have bought em too. Sales get me every time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:20 PM
1

I don't know many women upset about that in terms of relationships. Socitaly is a whole different ball park
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:19 PM
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I'm mainly talking in the context of OLD but social media also just gives me peace of mind in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:17 PM
1

Holy shit. That's a lot of rice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:52 AM
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Not really. I like how I am now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:51 AM
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If more men knew how to photograph a dick it might be better. I've gotten some hilariously bad dick pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:49 AM
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I use this five pepper mix that i found at Kroger, garlic powder, onion powder, sometimes I'll add chili powder or cayenne pepper. Its super easy but tastes so good I think it pairs really well with Jasmine white rice. I've been trying to eat more brown rice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:44 AM
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The amount of unseasoned chicken ive eaten in my life time makes that qualifier necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:38 AM
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17% If i was cool with married men it would double. But alas
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:36 AM
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Seasoned chicken with rice. It's basic but i love it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:28 AM
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To an extent, yes. You gotta knos that the person you're fucking doesn't have an STD. During my hoe phase id legit be like "you wanna see my test results" so that they knew I was clean. If you don't wanr to date a woman with a high n count that is fine but hold yourself to the same standard and don't be upset when she doesn't put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:27 AM
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That's fine and I get it. I'm not saying they have to. I'm saying I won't go on a date if they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:17 AM
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There's just so much going on all the time lol. I know I'd enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:14 AM
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I'm not using it to judge them. I'm using it to make sure they're real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:12 AM
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Oh shit i meant my facebook was unhidden. That's a typo. My bad. But for the Instagram it's fine aa long as i can see that they're a real person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:11 AM
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I wanna participate in the discord so bad but idek how to start. I'm too socially awkward for this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:32 AM
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Social media presence matters to me because it allows me a vetting process. I don't give out fake numbers, have my Facebook hidden, my instagram is up i just never post to it, i freely give out my social media information. For me its reassurance that they are who they say they are. I provide that information to them so idk why they can't provide the same info to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:27 AM
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Communication is important when it comes to feelings and needs within a relationship. If you're feeling overwhelmed, let your partner knoe. Don't like something they're doing, let em know. But there is only so much communication can fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:21 AM
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Feelings over time is fine. Its understandable. It's happened to me and it's rough but it all depends on how the other person handles rejection. Be upset. Cut the friendship off. That's fine. But I've heard so many horror stories and experienced one myself of someone who confessed their feelings and when faced with rejection said some awful shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:17 AM
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For men, yes. Not so much for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:50 AM
1

He's 5'6.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:49 AM
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Probably something to do with purity culture spread because of Abrahamic religions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:41 AM
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My guy I'M DATING A SHORT GUY. Like...wtf are you on about. Yes the majority of women want a tall guy but that's not ALL women. That's what we're saying You clearly don't want a discussion. You're acting like a 12 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:12 AM
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You're trying real hard to be an edge lord aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:08 AM
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What you want to be true doesn't make it true either. You're here saying to anyone that disagrees with you that its because men aren't telling them the truth and that all men care about n count. We're not saying that all men don't. But there are men who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:07 AM
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I never said they couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:56 PM
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Yes. Especially in OLD. If i couldn't find someone through facebook, twitter, insta, etc i wouldn't go on a date with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:55 PM
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** i accidently posted before i was done. Holding a sleeping baby and typing is rough It's one thing to not want to date a woman with a high n count. That's fine. It's when they start spouting the LVW bullshit or base everything about that woman on that one fact. To me it screams someone that has a rather narrow view of sex if you're repulsed by a woman with a high n count. Its a major red flag for me when those men also expect the woman to fuck them. Its weird. I don't really date people with l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:52 PM
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I 100% agree. I feel weird as a woman commenting on the friendship between men so if I'm wrong let me know but I've found that the men I've been with that had a group of guys that would provide validation, banter, and support were less insecure than other guys. They were more confident of their choices. I wasn't the only regulating source for their emotions. If we fought they could talk it out with the guys. There was a guy i was with where I was the only person that could help him regulate his …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:42 PM
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I will say that women with geeky and nerdy interests are highly sought after by men who share those interests and there's more men who are into geeky shit than there are women. My OLD strategy for a while was to put a WoW or LotR reference some where in my bio and it worked wonders. I'm trying to think of anything that could make finding a woman like that easier. I do know if you're into OLD that OKC has a decent population of that brand of woman but some of them are too far left for even me whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:30 PM
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I do miss that about being single. My current partner and I both have some trauma from past relationships and working through that is rough
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:44 PM
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Pretty much yeah. Usually pretty educated geeky guys. Not even collage educated. They're just super smart. I have some pretty niche interests and I love to talk about them and learn about shit. Intellectual discussions are as important to me as long talks about WoW lore are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:43 PM
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I think that's weird too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:40 PM
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I ran into some guys that were for sure only after sex and not a relationship. Or they wanted to date but not tell their friends. But overall I found that there is a large population of guys that are fine with it. But my personality is such that I attract a very specific subset of men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:16 PM
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For me its a confident attitude (maybe a little cocky) and a sense of humor. A good sense of humor gets me. Also tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:42 PM
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I'm purple pill with bp leanings so idk if this is for me but like...why be upset that your partner has more sex than you? I don't get it. Are you upset if they have more money? More happy memories? Like that's a weird outlook to have on life to be jealous of your partner for having different experiences. How is that not treating you fairly. You have to have everything and the same experinces as your partner? That sounds like relationship communism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:30 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:51 PM
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Personally, that my weight does not deter as many people as society made me believe it would. Like yeah it was hard and some dudes were dicks but also there are people who think I'm gorgeous and had no problem telling me that. It was a big confidence boost on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:07 PM
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I know several very attractive men that either aged out of the hoe phase in their life and have other interests, are waiting until marriage because of religious beliefs, or are just done with one night stands and want to find a lifetime commitment. I don't really think anything of those guys. Their reasons not to have sex are their own and I have no right to judge or question them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:04 PM
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Both genders have a rough time just existing in society. The challenges come in different areas. It's not more challenging to be a man or a woman, the challenges arr just different
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:46 PM
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I have a lot of hot friends but they don't have that thing that makes me wanna fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:39 PM
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It's dismissive to women as a whole to be like "nothing you do is of importance and you contribute nothing but babies to society" when there are reasons that men are the top of every field. When until the mid 70s women couldn't even open a bank account without their husbands approval. Our society until recent years hasn't been super welcoming of women in places of leadership. Women find it hard to get into admin postions in fields like nursing and education and its not because they couldn't do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:35 PM
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I have interacted in red pill spaces for YEARS before joining this group. I can't provide links to everytime a man has said something like that. But here's one from a conversation from a couple weeks ago. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/sdujlz/passive_aggressively_threatening_violence_and/hufikhu?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:40 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:30 AM
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I cannot explain to you how much seth rogan turns me on. Him and Jack Black. If Chris Hemsworth and Seth Rogan both wanted to fuck me and i could choose one it would be Seth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:13 AM
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The double standards about men are what get me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:54 AM
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I like chunky people what can i say
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:53 AM
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Seth rogan or the thick chick from euphoria
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:49 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:48 AM
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Common speech. A debate sub is not where you can be ambiguous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:46 AM
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The hill I'm dying on is that words have meaning. Before I got into the field I'm in now I was in the history and research field. Its where I learned that in certian settings it's not appropriate to use words when that's not what you mean. You are expected to express your ideas and beliefs. Someone could really believe that all women act a certain way. If you mean most you need to say most.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:45 AM
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And i agree that not all men act a certian way and think its weird when some one does say it. However memes are different than making a claim in a sub meant for debate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:19 AM
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You have to be a troll. I did not come up with the meaning for all https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:16 AM
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When you're debating you have to say what you mean. You cannot be ambiguous. This isn't just talking to your friends or whatever. You're posting an opinion and asking people to discuss it or change your view. How can you discuss it or challange the view when they aren't using words correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:14 AM
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I've had several dates where the guys pictures look good but then he shows up and its obvious he didn't put any effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:59 AM
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I can't believe I'm having this conversation. All means all. Most means most. If you use the word all when you mean most then no you aren't using the word right. Words have meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:58 AM
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I feel like nowadays the chase is over once you move in together
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:46 AM
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Women tend to put a lot of effort into their physical appearance before a date. Make up, cute outfit, nails, hair etc etc. Therefore it can be kind of upsetting if a guy shows up in gross jeans and flip flops
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:45 AM
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Blue pills got some fucky shit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:36 AM
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This is literally a debate sub. You can't use ambiguous shit like "all" when you don't mean it. If you're just gonna say shit you don't mean then don't be on a debate sub
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:34 AM
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I'm aware of common english. When you say all it means all Fucking say most or don't get shitty when women prove your point wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:32 AM
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I'm not saying the can't. But to look at a guest on that podcast and think that it proves a point that all women are like that is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:22 PM
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I can read. The comment you responded to was about red pill dealing in absolutes about women. My guy I'm a fat woman with plenty of options. You think everyone is attracted to what you're attracted to. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:20 PM
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And i see so many rpers complain about it. It seems some of y'all can dish it but not take it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:47 PM
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So no women date short broke men? Im literally dating a man my same height who's a stay at home dad. All women are biologicaly attracted to the same thing? Chunky guys with beards and puns or thick geeky women with tats and nice eyes is what attracts me more than anything. Like not all women fucking do that shit. So don't say that you do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:42 PM
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What trends? What sources are you citing? I would really love to know. The only one I've seen is the okc article. Then stop saying all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:38 PM
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So then women should be able to disrespect anyone they aren't attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:36 PM
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Okay then my bad. They still have the ability to pick and choose their guests. A professional worth anything is not gonna want to be on that podcast. They have more important shit to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:17 PM
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I believe that there are drives and traits that are more common in one gender vs the other but i also believe that what sets us apart from other biological creatures is the complex personalities we have and the ability to control urges
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:13 PM
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But a lot of the time its not even the majority. A lot of red pillers (see what i did there) think they know women better than women know women. And if you mean most then fucking say most.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:51 PM
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Isn't the show edited? Like..they can edit on disagreement. They still pick and choose who goes on there. The fresh and fit podcast is not what I'd call a reliable source either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:49 PM
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You don't think they look for a woman that fits in what they're saying? They aren't looking for opposition to their view points.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:23 PM
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So because you don't wanna date them you can disrespect them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:21 PM
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You're right. I've had a baby. It's not fun. I just...it looks like a medieval torture device
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:21 PM
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If you say "all women" and there is one women that doesn't, your argument is proved wrong. I have used examples from my own life to say that some red pill bs was flawed and have been told I'm lying. Women are not the borg. Stop trying to force women into a box and then get upset that they don't wanna fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:19 PM
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Yupp. And then they'll complain that women are stupid. Like, dude, you just said you don't care about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:16 PM
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That's awesome. You should respect people. I've seen it to many times where a red piller doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:15 PM
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Because i think that's a stupid thing to say too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:02 PM
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IMO, as a woman who knows a lot of other women, AWALT is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:36 PM
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I don't relate either and I know a lot of women who don't fit that mold. But they think that because they're like 50 with two failed marriages they know more about women than actual women do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:35 PM
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They undermine everything women do too. I am in special education. If you think that education is dominated by women, special education is even more so. I know three men who are special ed teachers. Yet anytime I bring this up to a rper it's "well men could do it better" or they don't think it's a useful profession. Like helping people succeed in life and learn to contribute isn't useful to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:31 PM
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And they also view everything as the worst of women. They tend to define you by just a few traits. Oh you have a lot of sex and are overweight? You're a fat whore. It doesn't matter that you have 3 degrees and tons of professional accomplishments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:27 PM
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This. You worded it better than I would have
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:24 PM
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IUDS scare me. I saw the the tool they use to hold it still and it scares me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:23 PM
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The obesity pandemic is so complex. It's not just americans = lazy or gluttonous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:58 PM
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As fun as it is, the pregnancy scares made really makes me question if it was worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:57 PM
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There's so many but the biggest one I have is the thought that all women are the same. I see it all the time where some red pill guy says "all women do xyz" and then women here are like "i don't" and then it's "no anecdotal evidence" but when you say that all women do something, if even one woman does it then it disproves your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:54 PM
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Does that really help though? I've not heard any success stories from a RPer that went from getting no one to getting mad pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:12 PM
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Why should I care? I'm in a relationship. I've had a pretty fulfilling sex life. I'm bisexual so I can always just date a woman. Men's feelings about me don't really bother me too much
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:05 PM
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Honestly when they're pushing your stomach to get the blood clots out and you're just bleeding all over everything. That's the worst All though a close second for me is after having my son when i couldn't feel anything below my knees for 3 days and couldn't leave my bed because I'd fall. There is so much that goes into it. It's so painful. And you're like that for so long. It's been five months and my body still hurts, my back and hips are all fucked, my migraines are more intense, my periods ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:44 PM
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I can see that. I do see that. I'm a fat women and people hurl all sorts of insults at me and try to excuse it because "I'm not their type". It doesn't excuse shitty behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:39 PM
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Fixing your shit should include your personality. If you have no social skills, fix it. If you're a dick to women, fix it. It's not just about the physical
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:38 PM
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My recent post is about bettering my mental health and my life? How does that have anything to do with this. My last job didn't pay what my new one does. I am able to live on what I make now in my small town. We don't have a lot left over but we have enough. My parents also made a way for themselves. It's awesome that yours did too. A reason men may make more money is that the labor done in the fields that women dominate are not deemed worthy of a lot of money. Teachers. Caregivers. Even nurses.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:56 PM
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Good thing i don't care what men think
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:22 PM
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Your sweeping generalizations say more about your intelligence, or lack of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:22 PM
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It depends on where you live honestly. I make mid 5 figures and I'm the sole earner of my household. I support myself, my boyfriend, and my son. It really depends on where you are. And my parents were born in the late 60s and early 70s. The equal credit opportunity act was passed in 1974. My grandmothers remember being denied for bank accounts. One of my grand mothers even worked at a bank where she couldn't get a bank account independently. She has so many stories of discrimination in the work …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:16 PM
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I bet it does suck. I can relate a little hearing that all men are settling for women they aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:14 PM
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Still more educated than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:13 PM
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Maybe because women haven't had the same societal rights as men have until 40 years ago. Men have had a leg up because women were not allowed to do anything besides be wifes and pop out babies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:12 PM
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A two income household is needed a lot of the time but those additional incomes can be friends, family etc. The marriage itself isn't needed. It used to be that women couldn't open a bank account. That women needed a husbands permission to do xyz. That's not the case anymore. It is possible for women to earn enough on their own to support themselves. It may be difficult but it is a possibility
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:00 PM
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I do think the shift has been in the last 30 or so years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:50 PM
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You can question why someone has the standards they have but they can still have them. People are allowed to dictate who is and isn't allowed in their lifes by any metric they choose. Its when they start treating people like shit because of their standards that i have a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:40 PM
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Relationships are no longer out of necessity. Women can support themselves. You have to want that other person in your life. You have to love them. That makes things much more complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:29 PM
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That makes sense. I've just seen men on her talking about all the traits of a top 20% guy without really defining what makes a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:25 PM
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Thank you for linking those. They're for sure interesting. I just skimmed through em, I'll have to give em a closer look. I do wonder if the 80% is the same for all women. Like how much variation is there in the attraction based on each woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:58 AM
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I can see that. Sexual violence is so complex that its difficult to define.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:49 AM
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Why are you dealing in absolutes here? I have met feminists. Out of all the people i know on the left, none of them feel that we don't need to change the law. My point still stands. If someone says no you don't keep going because they might actually want it. Once again you're deflecting blame onto.the victim. I do think that women that say no but mean yes are a problem and a huge red flag but men are still responsible for what they do. There are some situations that are nuanced, mostly with mino…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:29 AM
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But are all women swiping on the same people? And if they are where's the data to back it up? I did do OLD. I used mainly OKC and I matched with people that had a high percentage match with me. There were some i didn't find attractive, yeah, but it sure as hell wasn't 1-2%. But again, idk wtf y'all are using to calculate the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:20 AM
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Whatever you say my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:58 AM
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I mean think women are a hivemind all you want, i guess. It just makes you look kinda stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:58 AM
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I know too fucking much about it. Its so fucking funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:56 AM
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What are you even talking about? That's interesting. I've really never met a feminist that was against changing the wording of rape laws Okay well if someone says no you still don't do it. If a woman wants you to keep going after she says no that's a big red flag. How is it clueless to want an explanation why " be accountable for your actions." And "don't force yourself on to someone" is worthy of a face palm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:55 AM
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Idk if this is just in my friend group but we do this thing where, if requested and we have the ability, we go.to.the place they have their date at and just chill a few tables away. But also, i have been raped. I know how traumatic it is. For me avoiding that trauma again, no matter how unlikely, is worth anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:51 AM
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But where does it say that thats what's in this survey? You haven't answered me yet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:45 AM
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Or maybe they're just boring and shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:32 AM
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The level of horror doesn't mean its nor traumatic. That's my point. A gang bang is extremely violent. It doesn't mean that someone elses rape isn't traumatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:27 AM
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Peer pressure doesn't equal hivemind
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:23 AM
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But why should we be held accountable for the actions of someone else? Why is it my fault my rapist couldn't keep his dick in his pants? What do we have to be accountable for when someone forces themselves on us? Why is that our fault? It's what they deserve. The mininum time a rapist can spend, with good behavior, is any where from probation to 2 and half years depending on if its rape I or rape II. That's not enough time. You get longer time for arson. Sexual violence is a very serious offense…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:22 AM
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Tell your friends where you're going and when you'll be back, keep them updated throughout the date, don't leave food or drinks unattended, don't go anywhere alone with them, have a tracking app. There's a long list. Again, why is the accountability on the victims for the crime and not the perp?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:09 AM
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Sexual assault is extremely traumatic no matter how " minor" it is. You didn't answer the question though: how do you know that this survey includes "forced kisses"? When does sexual assault become horrific enough for you to count?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:06 AM
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But what makes a guy the top 20%? Is it looks, because that is subjective. I can't even say that I don't go for the top 20% because idk what the fuck makes someone the 20%. Could you provide a statistic so i could see what they're deaming the top 20% Women aren't a hivemind
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:54 AM
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People keep telling me that but don't have the evidence to back that up. The source i provided was from a survey in 2015, not the survey done on college campus by whats her face. Not all surveys are based on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:51 AM
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I don't know a woman in the dating scene that doesn't have a tracking app. Hell I'm not dating but i have a tracking app. Most women i know have pepper spray or a gun or something to defend themselves. The problem is that there is all this pressure on women to do xyz and when we fail to do that we get blamed for the sexual violence and haressment we receive but most of those people aren't advocating for changes in criminal justice system that would give rapists harsher penalties and change laws …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:49 AM
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When I've had a rough day i like to kick back and relax by laughing at teenagers on tiktok pretend to have DiD (aka multiple personality disorder)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:42 AM
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Speed. Get shit done fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:38 AM
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👀👀👀👀 This is my favorite comment I've seen on here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:33 AM
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1 in 5 women have experienced some kind of sexual violence. https://www.nsvrc.org/resource/2500/national-intimate-partner-and-sexual-violence-survey-2015-data-brief-updated-release Not all women report the assault when it happens. People bring the stats into it are so weird to me. My infant son has a super low change of dying from SIDS but i do everything I can to prevent it. Even if I'm not likely to be date raped, I'm going to do everything i can to prevent it from happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:21 AM
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Top 20% of what? I never got what you mean by the top 20%. What makes someone in the top 20%? Wouldn't that be subjective on the person what makes someone else in that top 20%. Also, all women? All women ever go for the top 20%? We aren't the fuckin borg my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:15 AM
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And then they automatically think there's something wrong with you Oh your boyfriends not 6 foot and has an average size dick. You must be some low value slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:43 PM
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People want to chalk up their failure to date as being anything other than something that is totally fixable about themselves. They don't want to have to put in effort. Maybe the reason you can't get a date isn't because you're 5'7 with a low earning job. Maybe its because you have the social skills of a paper clip and think that women operate like the fuckin Borg.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:41 PM
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What it is for me is that peoples standards are different there are men that don't meet my standards that aren't unattractive or low value. The same way that men who do meet my standards might not meet someone elses and that doesn't mean that the other person is shallow or their standards are too high. I will agree that women don't have to get married anymore. Women have the ability to be independent. Men have to try more than they did in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:36 PM
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I agree. My nerdy self misses when game stores and arcades were popular. It got people out of the house to socialize. Now people just stay at home for everything and it's even worse now with all the pandemic shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:32 PM
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I think for like 700,000 i could forget physical qualities. I think. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:22 PM
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Maybe its just the kind of guys I attract and wanna date maybe. Idk why I'm getting downvoted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:21 PM
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It depends on the extent of the physical qualities I'm ignoring
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:28 PM
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There needs to be more adult only spaces that aren't about about drinking, sex etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:26 PM
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Imagine being so blind 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:25 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:24 PM
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Well thank God you're not the only person
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:59 PM
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Not in my experience. My current partner isn't even blue pilled or even liberal and he has no problem with my past. The only people who have acted with disgust at it is red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:24 PM
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Yes. I stated in my comment that this is just what i gathered from everything i saw online. This isn't really my opinion on it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:22 PM
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I know. I also like fat women with tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:14 PM
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I have seen so many people talk about it and this is just what I've gathered from what they said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:14 PM
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What ever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:13 PM
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That's true but the reaction of disgust would come from red pillers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:42 PM
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Its a good thing idc what you think Also thick women with tattoes are my weakness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:35 PM
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I haven't watched it yet but from everything I've read it sounds like these women didn't overestimate anything. They may have just be so taken aback that someone like that was interested in them. But again i haven't watched it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:34 PM
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This! I also mention my brief stint in sex work/posting pics and the kind of response i get usually reveals em
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:28 PM
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Ehhhh. I get putting in the effort to look put together but this is a little extreme. Yeah shower and get a nice hair cut etc etc. but some of the other shit is a little too much Also, people are allowed to complain and be upset. I've never understood the "don't complain if you haven't done xyz". People complain as a way to process these emotions, to find support, to just get out the negative feelings. If you had to put all this effort and change who you are as a person to attract a partner, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:24 AM
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For me personally, yes. While I loved the ability to have casual hookups, I am a romantic at heart. I've always wanted to find a person and settle down. Though not everyone feels the same. I wouldn't look at a single person and feel pity because that could be what they want in life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:48 AM
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I would and have dated single dads. The relationship tends to progress slower and that's okay. And i wouldn't feel resentment. If i ever did i would leave. When you date a single dad you aren't just building a relationship with him but also with his kids. You gotta care for and love those kids. If you can't then you need to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:43 AM
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If the conversation comes to it then you could mention it but a lot of people think demi is bullshit. He might not even know what it means if he's not running in circles that talk about that. You could honestly just say "hey I'm waiting for sex until marriage" and if he's cool with that great. If he's not dump him and find someone who is. You don't have to tell him what porn you watch either. Like ever. I don't think my boyfriend knows what porn I watch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:37 AM
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Yeah. We're getting paid for it. Easy money. Women are exploiting men as much as men are exploiting them. Being in control of your sexuality isn't being a sex object. If you can't understand that then i don't think I'm the "low iq clown"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:24 PM
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We played ourselves? Y'all are the ones willing to buy that shit. Women are just making money of y'all. That's a win for us. And yeah we put out because sex is fun and enjoyable. Y'all create a demand and we fill that demand. How is that playing ourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:10 PM
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Rape is traumatic no matter how invasive. There is multiple reasons why rape can be traumatic. Its not just how "invasive" it is. Rape causes such complex trauma in the brain. You're trying to simplify a situation that can not be simplified. By your reasoning partner rape isn't as traumatic because it's with someone you've had sex with before
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:07 PM
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Mostly willing. You said it right there. They are willing. Taking away that will is one of the many reasons rape is traumatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:13 AM
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I understand. I have my own feelings that aren't too positive about marriage and i have my own reservations about it. I'm still figuring out if that's something I want to do. Marriage doesn't have to be the end goal to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:33 AM
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That's true. I guess i would care about which sex workers he went to see
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:03 AM
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😂😂 It's what he deserves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:16 AM
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I would care only because prostitution can be predatory. I support all kinds of sex work but prostitution is one I'm wary of because the practices of pimps finding people is so sketchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:13 AM
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You're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:08 AM
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It would depend on the woman. There's not a blanket way that works for every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:47 PM
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I think a lot of people view those groups as outliers to the over all gender conversation. This sub is about straight cis people and that dynamic. My personal view on gender is that there are biological differences between men and women that are noticeable both physically and how their brains work. This does not mean that all women/men fit into the exact same mold and it could be argued that some of these differences are based on societal expectations. I have never identified as anything other t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:42 PM
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I never said men didn't or don't have struggles but giving women more rights has taken away certain privileges from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:32 PM
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That probably has to do with women being open about their problems and not burrying them like they were expected to do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:31 PM
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So what you're saying is that red pill men DO want to oppress women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:21 PM
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Womens lifes have been positively affected by liberalism. Men see those privileges they once had at the expense of women and they don't like that they don't have them anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:08 PM
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I agree! Especially something dealing with integrity. A few comments up the op says that she was using other authors work. He had every right to do what he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:44 PM
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Some people aren't meant to be monogmous. Some people self sabatoge. Some people have sex addictions. Some people are just dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:53 AM
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Look she cheated on him with his friend. That hurt is deep. I'd understand if he lashed out against her. Even if it wasn't true that she took bits and pieces from other authors. Heartbreak makes people do crazy things and he should be treated with more grace
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:50 AM
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For me its a spectrum. I think for everyone it's a spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:46 AM
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For some of y'all it looks like it does. For the rest, free entertainment for me and my buds
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:44 AM
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Not always. Straight people are only welcome because you can't really stop them from coming. There is a LARGE part of the community that doesn't want straight people there unless invited.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:46 AM
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I stand in solidarity with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:38 AM
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If you went to any other bar it wouldn't be funny. It's not a place for you. Its like if you were white and went to blackpeoplemeet.com to find a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:37 AM
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The Americans is on my list the problem is my list is long as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:27 AM
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I've noticed the same with people my age (i was born in 96 so im right on the cusp of gen z and millennial). I think it's because culture has shifted around what women should do. Women don't have to be mothers. Women can be anything they want and Gen X showed that some women are perfectly fine without having kids. Plus the toll that pregnancy and child birth have physically and mentally is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:27 AM
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The baby is with the grandparents tonight and my boyfriend made me start Westworld because i haven't watched it yet. We get four episodes in and now he's in bed and he doesn't want me to watch without him. I'm a binge watcher. It's so good i wanna keep watching it so bad. I'm so mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:21 AM
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Gay bars came about because gay people weren't safe at other bars or really to be themselves in general. A gay bar is where gay people can go and be open about themselves and be around other gay people. We do get pretty territorial about it. There are even people in the community that think that straight people shouldn't be aloud at all. Idk why i use space. I think its because that's what most other gay people call it and so that's what I've always associated it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:18 AM
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I don't want there to be a tilt. That's what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:08 AM
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I mean good for you. I still think its fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:07 AM
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You're acting like we're bad for laughing. You'd be coming into a space that really isn't meant for straight people. Like how do you not see how weird it is to go into a space where the women have a very high likely hood of not being into men and just hit on them anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:06 AM
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Y'all are trying to make the pendulum swing towards a more male dominated society once again and that's just gonna lead us right back here. The only way to fix this shit is to find the happy medium
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:01 AM
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You can do it but just know the gays are laughing at you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:59 AM
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I go to the gay bars to 1. Be complimented by the gay guys and drag queens because there isn't confidence boost quite like it and 2. I'm trying to get pussy If a man approached me for sex, i would laugh so fucking hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:58 AM
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I just think it's lame and pathetic tbh. I've never seen a guy be successful with it and mostly just ends in either the guy getting made fun of or by pissing off the gay people at the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:54 AM
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Just gonna create more fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:49 AM
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It's funny because a gay bar is not the place for straight people to get laid. Like if a gay guy went to a regular bar and just started hitting on random dudes hoping that one of them was gay, it would be funny to watch. Some thing happens at a gay bar. There's a high chance the girl you're hitting on isn't just not into you, but she's not into your entire gender but these guys keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:48 AM
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Throw out the whole woman wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:33 AM
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The "not like other girl" type women are one that i see often that are quite undatable or unable to get into ltr because they're kind of insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:32 AM
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As someone who's done the online pics thing, we don't really view the men who consume our content as the alpha chad type. In general, conventionaly attractive guys get pussy irl and don't have to pay for it. It doesn't worry me because 1. I'm not on the market so idc and 2, I've seen what's on the market and it's not looking bad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:30 AM
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I've had a lot of luck with OKC. Bumble is ok the people on it aren't really my type tho, at least in my area. Tinder works if you want hookups. POF is one I don't really like. Idk if it's just where i live but it seems all the meth heads use POF. Or the people who have no idea how to act in social situations Hinge was still new when I was in the OLD world so I don't have much to say about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:24 AM
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TRP makes y'all everything you accuse women of being.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:17 AM
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Some people still use breeders. I run in more bisexual circles so we don't because we can still have kids. This post is about intentionally doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:27 AM
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I mean good luck to you. Me and my friends used to laugh at straighties trying to pick up girls at the gay bar. So i mean keep doing it. Brings us a few good laughs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:22 AM
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Gay bars tend to attract lesbians, bisexuals, trans people, etc. I never said they never have. I'm saying most of the women there aren't interested in men or getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:08 AM
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I like to look into my partners eyes so missionary. But being pushed against a wall and fucked from behind is fucking dope.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:56 PM
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I think its funny that men think women at gay bars are interested in them. I go to a gay bar for thick bitchs and butch lesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:55 PM
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My problem isn't all red pill men. I've met and talked with some of y'all and you're decent and civil and i understand some of your talking points. My fear of dating a red pill man is the kind of men the movement seems to attract. They seem to be more traditional. Refuse to see the complexity to the issues in the world. Seem to think that because it's hard for men then its not hard for women. They want to live in an echo chamber much like the women they scream about. I don't want to date a man t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:50 PM
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Yup. I'm going on my second Bachelor's right now and I've just accepted I'm going to be in debt for a while. I want to get it down to less than half of what my life insurance is before i get married to my partner but that's going to take years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:04 PM
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The hold that the Hey Bear YouTube channel has on my life is incredible. Without those funky little fruits and rainbows I think my family would fall apart
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:49 PM
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My first degree is useless because they only want masters degrees and 10 years experience for an entry level position
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:41 PM
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I don't really care as long as they've been tested
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:19 PM
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Someone who can make me laugh That's really the core of it. There's tons of different physical traits that i love but i couldn't fit that in a short sentence and at the core of it is someone with a good sense of humor
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:16 PM
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I agree! And it's beome a societal expectation to go to college. It shouldn't be that way but it is so you have a bunch of 18 year olds that aren't really ready to understand the weight of what that much debt is like thinking that they have to do it. Its crazy. There's no reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:13 PM
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Sexual assault awareness is a big thing for me. Especially how men get fucked over by our current culture around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:10 PM
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That's not what i said. You make laws trying to "fix" these social issues its just going to make issues for a different group. I'm all for harsg punishments for rapists but if you start chemically castrating them its going to cause issues. What about juvenile offenders who didn't really understand the gravity of what they were doing and had some other under lying mental health concern. I see so much shit about controling how someone spends child support. That could be weaponized in such a way th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:08 PM
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Jesus. Yeah the whole student loan thing is predatory as fuck. The payments they expect you to make are impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:02 PM
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Laws aren't gonna fix anything lmao. These are social issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:51 PM
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Oh i agree. How men get treated when they're sexually assaulted is horrible. Women who do that deserve serious jail time. It's gross as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:45 PM
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Yes but when something like this comes up to be like "but the other side" takes away from the fact that it is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:37 PM
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Good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:35 PM
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I would still love him. Like....you don't know me lol. I want my partner to be happy and he's not because he holds all this shit in
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:23 PM
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Yes yes. I have them stashed EVERY where.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:22 PM
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Yeah it's bullshit. Each person needs to pull their weight. My problem with the work-housework balance is when someone stays at home, espeically with children, and the breadwinner thinks that because the sahp isn't making money then they don't deserve some sort of break from the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:20 PM
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I do want a man that talks about his problems. My partner bottles his shit up and it causes so many problems. It would be so much easier if he just talked to me about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:18 PM
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Situation 2 tbh. Yes the money is nice but having a parent stay home with the kids is so nice. Either the dad or the mom. Once the kids are in school then maybe both start working but 80k, while not a lot, is not a super small amount either. Depending on where you live at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:17 PM
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Men should have their problems listened to. It's not some how stronger to bottle up your feelings and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:13 PM
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Oh gosh. That's insane. I have a fuck ton of student loan debt and it's a big reason me and my partner aren't getting married because I wanna pay a chunk of it off so if something happens to me he isn't stuck with it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:05 PM
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That's not a strawman that's literally what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:02 PM
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I see red pillers use it all the time when it comes to what attracts women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:01 PM
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This is what i meant. I know that men have problems but its insane to me that y'all think women don't have problems too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:01 PM
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There is more to it then just cleaning. You gotta satisfy her emotional needs and such. There's a lot of layers to it but he's not wrong that helping around the house could make them more apt to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:48 AM
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Then all survey data is flawed and it shouldn't be used
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:46 AM
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I don't get why this is controversial? Keep your partner happy and they'll fuck you more. Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:03 AM
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Let us know! I hope it works for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:01 AM
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Could it be that it seems to good to be true?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:50 AM
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Why would they lie? What do they gain from it? Destroying the man? Not if they don't report it. Sympathy from random strangers? Not when every person seems to doubt you. A lot of women i know who have been raped don't disclose who did it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:48 AM
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He knows. I had a reddit where I shared shit for a while and he knows about that. It doesn't seem to bother him. He's done the same with other people he's dated
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:25 AM
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You don't have to believe me. Doesn't really make it not true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:42 AM
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Because it hurt while it happened. It shaped me as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:23 AM
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So because men get fucked by social standards then women are cowards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:22 AM
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The point was that the majority of crime happens to men who are criminals. Doesn't make it better but it's different than women who get raped by romantic partners
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:21 AM
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And it shouldn't be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:18 AM
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I never said that it didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:17 AM
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How do you know that's the reality? What does this have to do with what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:17 AM
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I'm sorry i didn't outright say it. I think a lot of women should be in jail for rape that aren't and its gross that they aren't. There is a lot of shit that women can get away with saying that they shouldn't. Men have said similar shit to women too. Me saying that women have experienced bad shit is not me saying that men haven't
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:15 AM
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Its not as socially acceptable as it once was. I can complain about shit that hurt me in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:07 AM
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I agree. I think women lash out at all men for the actions of some and i think men are doing the same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:06 AM
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How to get women to stop complaining about fat shaming? You stop fat shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:05 AM
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Yeah i know i missed my opportunity. I think about it everyday. You're seem like you're being purposefully dense here. I really don't know what else you want me to say. I make jokes about my rape all the time. There's a difference between laughing at it happening to you and laughing at you doing it to someone else Wouldn't by that logic you should embrace the castration jokes instead of wallowing in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:03 AM
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There are already dating profiles like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:59 AM
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My go to for sex when i was single was to establish a fwb thing with someone who fucked me good and then i wouldn't have to worry about shitty ons as much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:58 AM
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And it shouldn't be acceptable? That's a really weird fucking thing to use for your argument. I didn't make the Cardi B admission like pulling teeth. I just thought you'd understand my view on it by what i previously said. I'm not complaining about it here. I'm just saying my experience is different
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:56 AM
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He was my boyfriend and i thought i deserved it so no i didn't report it. It wasn't difficult? I thought the implication of "gross" would show i think she belongs in jail. Fucked up things can be funny but you don't randomly send shit like that to a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:54 AM
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It's based on the data you have. If you think it's unreliable idk what to tell you. As a woman i have met a hell of a lot of women who have been a victim of sexual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:51 AM
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I want to know what makes you think they're all based on the same thing? Is it possible that the survey i linked is accurate and not like the other survey mentioned?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:48 AM
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It is still acceptable in some circles. They must might get called out on it more often but those same people don't call out abuse towards fat men so yes it's a bit of a privilege. I don't want anything? I was just saying my experience is different then women who aren't fat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:47 AM
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Not always. Not until recently. Hell my rapist posted a meme about having sex after he rapped me. He was bragging about it. It happens. I don't know what you want me to say about it? I rhink she should be in jail. Just like bill Cosby Yes it has. I remember the Asian star wars actress got bullied off of tiktok. A streamer on youtube was sent rape threats and 4chan thought it was hilarious. I mean 4chan in general trests women like shit for no reason. I've personally experienced shit with men. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:45 AM
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You have every right to have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:38 AM
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Yeah and I've spoken out against it. Just because one person has suffered doesn't mean another person hasn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:36 AM
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What makes you think that though?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:36 AM
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Frat boys literally record gang rapes and send it to their friends. The cardi b thing is gross and i haven't spent money on her or listened to her music since. None of this should be happening to anyone but to say it hasn't happened to women is not accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:35 AM
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https://www.nsvrc.org/resource/2500/national-intimate-partner-and-sexual-violence-survey-2015-data-brief-updated-release
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:32 AM
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So men are too weak to control their urges. Women then have every right to fear and avoid them. You're absolving rapists of their responsibility because they had an urge
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:32 AM
1

But I'm not using Mary P Koss' survey. The stats i used define male rape as "forces penetration". I don't understand why this is being commented. 1 in 14 is still to fucking many too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:29 AM
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Rape jokes were very common in the early to mid 2000s. I was born in 1996 and I remember hearing stand up in high school that was joking about how "maybe women just nagged the taliban too much" I'm not saying that its right to say those things. I think those jokes are horrendous but it's a result of women seeing that nothing seemed to be off limits when it came to them so why should men be treated any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:27 AM
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I mean yeah i should have worded it different but also....like....its still too fucking many
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:23 AM
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Attempted rape is still sexual violence? Rape isn't the only form of sexual violence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:58 AM
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I totally agree that these jokes against men are gross but also it wasn't that long ago that the majority of jokes were "ugh i hate my wife" and just hateful towards women in general and this is the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:57 AM
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Nah it'll be shit like "women can't gain weight after pregnancy" or a "fat girls are disgusting" and she'll just be like "dude you look like you skipped leg day" and just shit on his ig posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:54 AM
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Maybe my thoughts on this are skewed because I'm a fat woman and until recently it's been socially acceptable to make fun of me. But i agree. Men and women are shitty to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:52 AM
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Oh gosh yeah that's gross. I just mean if a man or woman dishes it then they gotta be able to take it. But you shouldn't just attack someone without reason
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:51 AM
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You first
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:49 AM
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I don't disagree with your points at all. I think if you dish it out you outta be able to take it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:27 AM
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Sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:25 AM
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I do agree that some of it is getting out of hand but some of this "anti men" stuff is in direct response to men shitting on women. There's a popular tiktok creator who stitches videos of guys saying awful shit about women and then she just roasts the dude. In that instance I feel its deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:21 AM
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https://www.nsvrc.org/resource/2500/national-intimate-partner-and-sexual-violence-survey-2015-data-brief-updated-release According to this source its 1 in 5 women and 1 in 14 men. Im genuinely curious about your 1 in 5 men source though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:18 AM
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https://www.nsvrc.org/resource/2500/national-intimate-partner-and-sexual-violence-survey-2015-data-brief-updated-release This is from 2015. This is what i base my 1 in 5 claim on. Its not me misleading or exaggerating. Others can believe what they want. I've heard from other women why they don't want to report. People like you won't believe them, what if they get falsely accused of taking it and they get punished, the whole process to prosecute rape is traumatic, they feel ashamed, they want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:17 AM
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What do you mean so loosely defined. Do you have data for your 1 in 5 claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:56 PM
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It happens to 1 in 5 women. It's not uncommon. Its perfectly reasonable to be wary of them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:43 PM
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I can't seem to stop myself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:43 PM
1

What stats say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:41 PM
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Yhen they should grow the fuck up. Put on some big boy pants and get over it. Masturbate. Buy a hooker. Y'all act like humans have no control over their actions. They do. Take responsibility for it and stop whining about it. Saying men can't control the urge is fucking insane. Do you really think men are that weak? Have that little self control? And you have the audacity to shit on woman for not wanting to fuck you. Harsher punishments for rapists. People not saying shit like " he couldn't help …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:30 PM
1

That's fucking weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:19 PM
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Wtf. Imagine the entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:18 PM
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That's still saying stop being a wimp about sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:17 PM
1

1 in 5 women don't get struck my lightning. 1 in 5 women have been raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:16 PM
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You needing sex doesn't mean someone must give you that need. Desire and entitlement are vastly different. I'm entitled because i think people aren't entitled to fuck someone? That makes no sense. I already have what i want but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:15 PM
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I would argue that they don't go to court because with sexual assault claims people blame the victim. Or because the rapist was an intimate partner and it's hard to provw that it happened
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:12 PM
1

The covid-19 episodes are SO good
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:09 PM
1

Idk it makes me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:07 PM
1

You're not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:07 PM
1

You're right. I got a little emotional about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:06 PM
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"Shit doesn't happen to women that often. Stop being a wimp about it." It's right there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:00 PM
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1 in 5 women have been raped. I'm not lying and exaggerating that. It's not reported becauae it's usually by someone the woman knows and who's gonna believe them. Some people believe that yoi cant be raped by your husband. I didn't report mine because it was my boyfriend and i didn't think anyone would believe me. I'm never going to stop talking about the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:59 PM
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I feel like it would be hypocritical considering the amount of Jojos and South Park I watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:11 PM
2

People can still desire sex without feeling entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:10 PM
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There are some cases where it's better to go radio silence but there are situations where that's not the case. My first boyfriend and I are still friends because we were friends before and we were young and thought just because we were friends that were attracted to each other means we'd be a good couple. Me and my most recent ex are still friends after radio silence for a while. He had a family tragedy and I reached out to make sure he was okay because despite the end of the relationship I stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:09 PM
1

We need to stop teaching people they are entitled to sex. There is never a situation where that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:59 PM
0

Thick bitches be on OKC and that's my favorite thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:57 PM
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Conviction doesn't mean it doesn't happen. You're right. I shouldn't have worded it like that but when only 10% are proven to be false then its incorrect to say that the majority of them are made up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:56 PM
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Oh my gosh 😍 Sounds like you're lucky guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:45 PM
2

I have a thick thigh fetish and thepeachykat from twitch and tiktok is my biggest girl crush right now so if she could just...sit on my face....that would be cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:32 PM
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The study says 80% sexual violence and harassment and 1 in 5 for sexual assault alone. That's still too high. It's still too common.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:26 PM
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I've found plenty of folks in the early to mid 20s range.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:22 PM
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I mean i guess not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:22 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/sjoczc/the_biggest_dating_hurdle_for_men_is/hvgkjwr?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:21 PM
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I do. I'm into the why of it all. I love the Small Town Murder podcast and Timesuck. I haven't been able to listen to much of em recently though. I started getting into true crime a few months before my rape so idk how much of my habits changed based on true crime or based on my assault
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:20 PM
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"Women need to stop being wimps about sexual assault" spends all day screeching about how women won't date them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:01 PM
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OKC is one that's pretty good
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:59 PM
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https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:46 PM
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https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics It's actually 80% but i agree with your points
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:45 PM
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https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics 80% of women have been a victim of sexual violence or haressment. Those are the facts. It does happen more outside of the West and that is horrible but it doesn't negate the fact that it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:44 PM
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I brought it up because you said men deal with it in a better way than women and they don't. They bottle it up until it kills them. How do you not let an intimate form of violence affect your life and relationships? How do you just bounce back after someone you trust rapes you? I'd love to know. It's not an excuse that's not legit though. Women are not entitled to do anything that makes them feel unsafe. No one entitled to having another person go on a date with them. People can avoid places for…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:42 PM
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I'm aware. I literally linked an article about how many rapes go unreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:38 PM
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There is a reason! Sexual violence is a reason! I care about your problems just not in this conversation. We aren't trying to control society with our fear of rape? What the fuck. We want people to understand what it's like. https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics 80% of women have experienced some sort of sexual haressment or assault. It happens quite often. And it's traumatic as fuck. I was raped by someone I loved. It was extremely hard to trust people again. It still is hard to have sex sometimes. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:37 PM
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And men treating their trauma courageously has lead to them not dealing with it at all. Suicide rates are high in vets because they don't deal with it. Sexual violence is traumatizing. It does control your life. It makes you question everything. It's the most intimate of violations. Its not neurotic to worry about that happening or not dealing with that in productive ways
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:27 PM
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I don't care about everyone besides myself? You came into a situation where violence agaisnt men wasn't the subject and made it about men. This discussion is not about y'all. It's about why women don't want to go on dates and the valid reason behind them. I don't care about men in this instance because the conversation isn't about men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:23 PM
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https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-45565684 This is an older article but less than 10% of reported rape cases are proven to be faked. 90% of reported rape cases are proven to be legit. https://www.rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system 2 out of 3 goes unreported. This is just women who have experienced sexual violence. Not sexual haressment. Both sides of the story won't justify it. Nothing gives you the right to violate someone. I feel the exact same way about sexual violence and vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:20 PM
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It doesn't happen the same way it does to women though. Most violent crime is committed by men, gangs are primarily made up of men. Men are committing violence against other men. Women are getting this violence happening to them by people they know . By friends, partners etc. Y'all always talk about how men are stronger then women and you're right. You have a much better chance of fighting of a male assailant than I am. Sexual violence IS violence. I'm not hyper focusing on one or the other. I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:06 PM
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They may do that because that has happened to them in the past. Do you know everything that has happened over the course of her life? Women talk to other women about this shit because most men don't seem to want to understand. "Over exaggerate" I'm so tired of men saying this like it excuses what has happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:45 PM
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And I'm saying that it does. Sexual haressment, assault, violence. The majority of women have experienced at least one of those. Most go unreported because no one ever does anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:43 PM
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Again, I never said you didn't. I never said all men are shit. I'm just saying that the majority of women have a story about sexual violence. Men's horror stories are valid so maybe stop invalidating women's
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:30 PM
1

I just think its fucking weird when men with high counts don't want a woman who has the same
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:28 PM
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I never said other people didn't. Womens stories just seemed to be downplayed on this sub when they are very real
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:27 PM
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Yes and i think the horror stories men have are valid. I don't know why men can't say the same about the sexual violence women face
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:25 PM
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Every single woman i know has a Story. Most have multiple. It's not fear mongering
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:21 PM
4

You hit the nail on the head with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:06 PM
4

Yeah no. Women can be and are attracted to those men. Those men should be able to act on the very human desire for love and championship. Their looks don't dictate that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:05 PM
1

But why though. Why does it matter who I've fucked? It shouldn't effect it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:03 PM
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The with TwoX is they bring up legitimate but the SJWs are so loud they ruin it and no one stands up.to them. Same with red pill. There are legit points but the extremists ruin it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:02 PM
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What i tend to mean when i say that is some men only see us for what value we'd have to them in a relationship. If we aren't attractive to them then they see us as less than human. If we aren't intelligent or funny or whatever then they think we're worthless. Some think that because you've had a lot of sex that you're worthless. Women are more than sex and what they can do sexually for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:26 PM
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Oh. Now i feel stupid lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:23 PM
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TwoX has some stuff that's relatable and i agree with but they really don't allow anyone to disagree with them and i hate it. I haven't even taken a deep dive into FDS yet but it'll happen soon
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:22 PM
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Its important to understand what has made them evil but i don't let it justify what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:19 PM
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It's not what i think it should be. Its what i know it to be. I have value that's not tied to my vagina. I have value as a person outside of what men think of me. I bring more to a relationship than my history of sex. There is no reason it should effect my dating value
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:15 PM
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Y'all can't treat women like holes and expect them to want to keep having casual sex with y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:03 PM
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Oh i agree with you. I think there are assholes in every gender, sexuality, race, etc. I do think there is nuance to the topic. I think things aren't so black and white. Every person has been bad and good. Every person can be redeemed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:01 PM
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I initiated because they had puns and played MtG with me. Is that dark triad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:51 AM
3

Well then get better jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:46 AM
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I initiated most of my ONS so they fell for my charm and i got bamboozled
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:46 AM
1

But why is a woman dog shit for having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:39 AM
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Where are you getting your info that RP guys have some magic dick? I'm so confused by your replies. You're talking about these alpha guys like you wanna fuck them. I mean if you do good for you but it's a little weird to project that on women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:38 AM
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That's true. In my experience ONS are usually with partners who are selfish and don't care about the other persons getting off or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:34 AM
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And just because women don't wanna fuck you doesn't mean you're unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:31 AM
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I agree but too often i see men here say that similar experiences of women aren't accurate. Sexual haressment and assault is a great example of this. The majority of women have at least one example of it. Same with discrimination in the work place. Most women have a story. I would say millions of women do. I see so much shit thrown at feminism but, outside of SJWs, the movement talks about issues experienced by millions of women. And yet i see those experiences and stats dismissed by red pillers…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:27 AM
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If the claim is that ALL of a gender or race or class, then i wojld argue that you could. If i said all men shit standing up and then you're like "i don't do that" then my claim is proven wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:01 AM
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Oh i agree. My stance on it is that both have truth to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:59 AM
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Shit i hit post before responding to the first claim. I agree that not all data is equal but that doesn't apply to all data that goes against rp teachings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:07 AM
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But RP ideology is based on anecdotes. They are based on the experience of men with women. It's all about how men feel. To say women can't do the same to disprove a claim based on the same evidence shows the weakness in the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:05 AM
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I agree that data can be skewed but i think its funny that RPers seem to pick and choose what data is skewed and what data isn't based on if it lines up with their thought process If your claim is "all.women do this" then a woman who hasn't done that is evidence against your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:53 AM
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Fat women are the butt of every joke. They are degraded on a daily basis. People equate their worth to their weight. It's emotionally draining. As a fat woman i have done all i can to hold on to my more positive view of life and not let myself get bitter but it can be so hard sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:46 AM
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The title is too long and it's putting me off of ever watching it out of spite
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:41 AM
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I don't think he's lucky. He deserves to be with someone who actually wants to kiss him. It's sad she's leading him on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:39 AM
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Not all red pillers listen to the evidence. You provide data and it's "oh that's skewed for xyz reason". Women provide evidence from their lives that goes against RP ideology and its "you're larping".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:36 AM
0

I think sex is whatever you make it to be. There are points where it is just scratching an itch or just fulfilling a need and there are times where it's a connection. I don't think the amount of sex someone has determines their worth. You sleep with a new person a night, good for you. You're staying a virgin until marriage, sounds awesome. I grew up in a religious family who didn't talk about sex in a positive way and there is a lot of shame given towards the me and my sisters once its found out…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:24 AM
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I honestly joined this sub to humanize RPers in my mind. I don't hate all men but I've seen so many RP shit that talks about women in these disgusting ways and my "there is more good than bad in the world" heart needed to see the humanity in this group. And it has helped. I have changed my view that RP men are not all assholes. Some are. I also love to debate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:19 AM
1

I haven't posted to my instagram account since 2016.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:15 AM
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My value in the dating pool, yes. My value as a person, no. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:14 AM
1

I already have nice tits so it would be nice to see what its like with a nice ass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:04 AM
1

Don't get me started 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:59 AM
1

Natural 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:59 AM
1

😧😧😧
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:26 PM
1

Maybe that's what was giving it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:41 PM
2

Some men on this sub that are red pill have changed my opinion of the movement. I see now that not all of them hate women but so many of them do. It's such a turn off for women who do have struggles in our society to hear men belittle those. Just like it does when women do it to men. There's such a victim mentality among all the pill groups. It's like they think that because they've had a hard time that everyone else had it easy. There are so many generalizations and people who think they know o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:41 PM
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I am still figuring that out. I'm still figuring out my views on marriage in general. I think i would be alright with it but I don't know. I'm a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:32 PM
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To question women? I had a guy straight up tell me that something that happened to me didn't happen on this sub. He's still here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:30 PM
1

My district requires 1-2 hours of work for students. It doesn't have to be live instruction but the teacher must be able to respond to email.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:29 PM
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My partners a SAHD and I'm the breadwinner. Gotta love all these comments saying I'm gonna cheat when him staying home has made our relationship stronger than ever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:47 PM
2

Do it. Grow a pair and call em out on their shit. Respond to what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:45 PM
2

I still got major uncanny valley from it but it was the best I've ever seen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:41 PM
2

The ladt one was so GOOD
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:40 PM
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Tomorrows a snow day and i already have my virtual lesson prepped. I'm pumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:40 PM
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Jesus I'm so sorry that's happening to you at work. That's gross as fuck and straight up haressment. I think rejection is something everyone should experience regardless of gender as its a character builder but also because, unless your my child, no one is obligated to keep you in their life. You do not have to be friends, date, fuck etc anyone you don't want to for any reason. Everyone should have the right to reject any and everyone. It is painful when it happens and it sucks. I would say i th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:39 PM
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Men do need to stop trying to "put promiscuous women in their place" but not for the reasons they've stated. Just because a woman is unattractive to you doesn't mean that she is to everyone. Its so weird to me that some of y'all think like this. And some women aren't that upset when the ONS guy doesn't want a relationship because not everyone is after a relationship. Women have sex with people just to have sex with them. Also, promiscuous women are "lower value" but they should still put out on …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:33 PM
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But not all women can easily orgasm and that's not the fault of the man or the woman and that doesn't mean the sex is not still enjoyable for them. I love sex. It's one of my favorite things but it's very rare that another person makes me orgasm. Its not a fault on their end. I've had some partners that were really good. I've also had partners that were really bad. Female anatomy is just weird. This doesn't mean you can just ignore a woman during sex though, making her feel good is still importa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:26 PM
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Men can be bad at sex. But if a woman doesn't pipe up and say what she wants or what gets her off then the man isn't at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:54 AM
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That's not been my experience with it. In fact I've noticed the opposite, they know I think they're attractive and that I'm interested so they put more effort in because it's not going to be wasted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:45 AM
2

I appreciate you think I'm rational but i assure you there are more of us. We aren't unicorns
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:42 AM
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There is a whole thing on tiktok where women are upset because a guy slept with a lot of them. I've never seen a comments section where the majority of people that watched commented. Most people who watch something like that scoff and then don't interact
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:40 PM
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I don't think all red pillers are abusive or looking to humiliate women. There's a popular trend on Tik tok now about making fun of dudes with small dicks. Women can be spiteful and vindictive. To say that they can't is counter productive. And how many of those views are people watching it to make fun of what they say or because they're curious about how awful it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:34 PM
1

Yes because all men can just afford to move to another country. That makes perfect sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:17 PM
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This argument could be used about both pills tbh. I had a guy on here just yesterday tell me and another woman that something that happened to us didn't happen to us despite not knowing either of us. I think if both sides just stopped and listened there would be a lot less problems
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:16 PM
1

Oh my gosh yesss. He was my first major crush. I watched School of Rock over and over again just for him 😍 and he's aged great too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:48 PM
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There's no excuse for absent parents. Stop blaming women for a fathers refusal to parent. Also just because the majority of divorces are initiated by women doesn't mean women are at fault for the deterioration of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:36 PM
3

Both. I thought they were attractive but I also liked their personalities. They were both geeky sarcastic gamer guys which is very much my type
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:31 PM
2

In college i wasn't dating because i wanted to settle down. I just wanted to get fucked lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:30 PM
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I've done it several times irl. One was with a guy I was close friends with and we did playful banter all the time and i was in to him and thought he might be into me. He wasn't. It sucked. Another was with another friend and we ended up dating for a bit before deciding to stay friends
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:02 PM
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I think if you don't get approached you can try and rationalize it as people just being too shy or whatever but rejection is in your face. You can't ignore it. You can't rationalize it away. You also put yourself out there and it got rejected. I think that's what's so hard for men with dating, they're expected to approach women but they also get rejected more often then not. I did alot of the approaching when it came to dating because I found that while some guys were put off by it, the ones tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:59 PM
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Seth Rogan is my biggest Hollywood crush.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:52 PM
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I came here to say this. And like, i don't wanna be that person but this kinda thinking is what some people use to justify rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:26 AM
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When i was seven my cousin spelled his name with pee in the snow and I have been envious of that ever since. I will make the counter point to this tho and that i know men who are registered sex offenders because they peed in public. It's indecent exposure. So it's not really something that's a privilege if the men can get into legal trouble for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:20 AM
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I've never really been one to judge my woman friends for who they date. Unless like they're an asshole. Even if i don't think that person is attractive, she obviously does and I respect her and her relationships. I've also never seen height as a deal breaker. I've dated guys shorter than me. My current partner is the same height as me. It's never been a big issue for me. It's for sure not something i look at when determining who's attractive and who isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:16 AM
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I totally get his frustration at the house not being clean but one month post partum and he thinks she should be recovered? Birth is extremely hard on the body and if she had a c-section it is more difficult to recover physically from that. It honestly sounds like she has post partum depression and needs some help either with a therapist or medication. I do think it's funny all the guys in this comment section who think that everything is fine and dandy after one month. Like, I was still bleedin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:57 AM
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Because men don’t seem to comprehend the blue pill perspective and can’t do some introspective thinking and thinks it’s just misandrist but it’s not. Men on this sub need to take their feelings out of it and actually try to listen to understand instead of listening to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:38 AM
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Sex is an important part of intimacy but relationships aren't just about that. I would still love my partner the same way even if we didn't have sex. I know people who are sexually attracted to all genders but only romantically want to be with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:03 AM
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Masculinity:91 Femininity: 111
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:58 AM
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gina rodriguez, Jack black, seth rogan, rdj, every thick gamer girl on twitch, Andy Samberg, Florence Pugh, kat dennings, aja naomi king, jasom maoma, andrew Garfield, diane guerrero, barbie ferreira, the sidekick in national treasure, brenden fraser, Rachel weisz, I could go on. I have a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:53 AM
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I've observed it, yeah. But it's not all of men or all of women. Each gender is not a hive mind that all thinks and acts the same way. There is so much nuance to the subject that i feel gets lost on everyone that's hard core one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:44 AM
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For almost a month after my son one was born i didn't because i was worried what would happen and i was still in pain. When i broke and finally did it, the orgasm was amazing. Like brought tears to my eyes good. I'm just not strong enough to abstain from sex and masturbation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:39 AM
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When i was younger I'd binge on raw baby carrots but i haven't done that in a while. My binges now are just crappy processed junk food.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:29 PM
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I have the same problem with my partner. I compliment anything about his looks and he responds with "thats a lie" like no!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:09 PM
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I do think its a weird phenomenon. Me and my partner are both bisexual and yet we are in a "hetero" relationship with each other. It's interesting to think about. I don't spend all day bitching about men though. I just spend half the day doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:08 PM
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Yes! It is so much more expensive to make good protein heavy meals that will last a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:46 PM
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I think it's crazy. If you're doing it for edging purposes then good on you. That realese has to feel great but I can't even go a week without masturbating so imagining a month is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:39 PM
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My cravings for carby sweets is the worst! I've been eating more protein heavy meals though and so i haven't struggled with being super hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:37 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:36 PM
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Thank you! That's what i keep telling myself. I don't want to gain all the weight back
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:35 PM
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Thanks! I'm pretty proud of myself!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:35 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:34 PM
2

Thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:34 PM
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Thank you!! I have not yet been able to see the change in the mirror or in how clothes fit but I feel so much more mentally healthy. I feel much more physically healthy too. I'm not as tired. Not as out of breath. It's amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:34 PM
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I think men fail to realize as well that Chad's are boring as hell most of the time. Their only personality traits are gym and partying and it's just...boring. Give me a gamer nerd with glasses, nice eyes, and a beard and I'm hooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:31 PM
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I'll try not to. I guess I'm just hard on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:40 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:37 PM
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I tried the crazy fitness route and it always ended in a crash and me gaining weight. I also don't want to do a fade diet. I want to make lifestyle changes that will last and work long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:37 PM
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Thank you!! Thinking of it like that does make it seem like much more than i thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:34 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:33 PM
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Thank you! I'm pretty sure a lot of it is just water weight but it's still nice. My partner told me today my face looks slimmer and it made me so happy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:33 PM
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I have officially lost 30lbs. I know its not a lot but I'm proud of myself. I've struggled with binge eating all my life and i haven't binge ate in a month. I'm making small changes to my diet and lifestyle each week and I'm already feeling healthier both mentaly and physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:29 PM
2

It depends on the circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:11 PM
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Of course 💞
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:10 PM
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My fat ass is gonna eat an extra cookie tonight just to spite y'all
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:01 PM
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The money I'm getting back on taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:19 PM
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I think it wouldn't change much. At least not for a while. An AI of that calibur would be super expensive. The average person couldn't afford it and I still think there would be men who would want a human relationship. If the sexbot had no choice but to do whatever you said then that takes away big part of what makes a relationship a relationship. And then theres the whole ethical thing of if this robot is intelligent then is it right to make it a sex bot? At what point does that get into SA ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:18 PM
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I wouldn't like it for the fact that it's intelligent. I'm fine if he uses other toys and such but that's because they aren't intelligent. I think I'd even be okay with a hyper realistic sex doll with the AI. But also, me and my partner are both bisexual so it would be nice for us each to have a sex robot of the same sex. Hmm. This has got me thinking. Good question.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:07 PM
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I never said you did
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:26 PM
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Women shouldn't be shamed for having standards just because men can't get dates
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:56 PM
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There are so many posts here that are just "the females I'm attracted to don't want to date me they only go for chads and its so unfair". There was just a post that got deleted but the guy was going off about how women needed to lower their standards because the only women he could get to go on dates with him weren't even that attractive to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:24 PM
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I'm fine with men having preferences. It's when they're rude about it or when they want women to not have preferences that i have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:56 AM
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I'm not saying it's a common thing. I made the first move a lot and I had one guy say it to me. Most liked it. You can think what you want but i know what happened to me and what was said
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:29 AM
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I keep saying it because thats what you're saying. "Women should lower their standards to date me while my standards don't change" Not all women want to be approached. Especially at work or school.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:15 AM
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Obviously you know what I've experienced better than I do. Pretty neat super power you got there. I wonder what it's like to know more than everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:06 AM
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You're upset that no one wants to date you and your post seems to be trying to imply that women should just go on dates with you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:03 AM
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Oh I'm not blaming men. It's just something I've noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:01 AM
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I mean you try it and see if it works i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:00 AM
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Cold approach doesn't work for a reason. Women do not want to be approached for dates all the time. It's not flattering, it's annoying. I'm the bad guy? You have no idea what my dating preferences are. You have no idea who I am. You seem to think women are obligated to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:59 AM
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It happened several years ago on tinder so i can't just transcribe it.it was something along the lines of "i think its weird for a woman to ask the man out. Major turn off for me". I'm perfectly able to accept when people aren't attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:55 AM
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Most women don't want to hear that they'll be ignored after sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:31 AM
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I've been told the same thing by a man. I'm glad you know all men everywhere and what they would and wouldn't say to a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:30 AM
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I think its partially because women know the tips and tricks to get a good photo. Men can't take a selfie to save their life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:27 AM
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That's the worst strategy I've ever heard
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:26 AM
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No one is obligated to date you my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:24 AM
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I have found that some men do become more attractive once i get to know them. I thought my current partner was hot as hell but after getting to know him that attraction just grew and grew
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:21 AM
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Looks are a big factor yeah but not all women are attracted to super buff chads. Women are not some borg-esque hive mind that all are attracted to the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:19 AM
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Maybe its difficult at school to get dates because people go to school to learn and not be hit on. I had guys do that with me in my college library and i hated it. So yeah women are going to deny you. I get that its hard but what do you want us to do? You said that you were upsrt becauae some of these women weren't that attractive to you but it sounds like you think women should date people that they aren't attracted to. Why should women have to lower their standards for you? Why are we the bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:12 AM
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Ehhh. I'm not sure how i feel about it. To me there's a difference between jerking it to some random pornstar and jerking it to someone you used to have an emotional connection with. I know i wouldn't like it if he did keep em.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:04 AM
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The first guy i ever loved broke my heart and I'm still not sure why. It was long distance and we were planning on moving in together. He seemed to really actually love me, he was very sweet to me and we would stay up all night talking on video chat. Then out of no where he just kind of stopped. It went from talking all the time to nothing over night. I kept trying to figure out what was wrong but he never really answered me until he broke up with me on Valentine's day. I haven't really talked t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:36 AM
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That's what I'm saying though. Sperm banks are no more eugenics than preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:06 AM
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What's different between a woman saying "i want my child's father to have these traits" and going to a sperm bank and a woman saying " i want my childs father to have these traits" and having sex with someone with those traits? By your logic, women having preferences in regards to their partner could be argued to be eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:26 PM
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Oh yeah. There would be so many reasons for me not to move because I want to give my son the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:10 PM
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I'd choose my partner. We have a child together, even if I'd have a job that makes me unhappy I'd stay because 1. I love my partner and 2. My son loves his dad and he needs both his parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:22 PM
1

So someone's being fat negates all other things they could do to earn respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:49 PM
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Yes they are. Just because someone is fat doesn't negate all the othee things they may have done or accomplished. That being said, i do think that people should be respected until they do something to lose that respect and I don't think "has a bad relationship with food" is reason enough to cause them to lose that respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:25 AM
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If they're a shitty fat person then be a dick but not all fat people are. I'd like to see a statistic that backs that up too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:14 AM
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Because fat peopke are still people worthy of kindness and respect
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:13 AM
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Data shows that doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:12 AM
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Boy are they 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:33 PM
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That's a sad outlook to have
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:18 PM
2

And then some of those people complain because women want to date other people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:55 PM
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Fat men and women deserve to be treated with basic human kindness and respect
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:54 PM
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Then make fun of people who drink and smoke and eat unhealthy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:28 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:44 PM
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Im convinced its because some men think only women they find attractive are worthy of any kind of kindness or respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:40 PM
1

Thank you, GigaChad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:33 PM
2

Small penis jokes are stupid, yeah. Still stop disrespecting fat people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:31 PM
2

Yup yup. Fat men get treated awfully too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:30 PM
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Good. As you should.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:29 PM
2

You just need to get gud and have better jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:28 PM
1

Never said it was
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:24 PM
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Yeah small dick jokes are weird and annoying. I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:23 PM
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I think that trend is fucking stupid and annoying tbh. The small dick/balding rhetoric is annoying as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:23 PM
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I was bullied relentlessly because I was the fat weird kid with braces and glasses. It made me think I was unlovable and undesirable. I had trouble with dating until I was about 19 ish years old when i started to notice that yeah i was fat but there were people that liked me and were attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:11 PM
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You don't have to be attracted to fat people but good god treat them with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:08 PM
1

Every 2-3 showers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:05 PM
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Model doesn't mean skinny. Its literally to "model" what clothes will look like. A plus size model shows what plus size clothes look like on fat bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:51 PM
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They are more aware than you realize
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:50 PM
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1962 beta simp
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:22 PM
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Married or committed relationship and it's something that can be fixed or cured then no. If it can't then probably still no but i could understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:18 PM
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