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I've been married for 10 years, together for 16.... My idea of a near perfect relationship is the one I'm in I guess? We're happy together, we've got our needs met and we're both trying to make the others life better. What drew me in is the same that keeps him irresistible, and how he won me over. He's hot, smart and funny. In several years if the world is still turning I see myself by his side, hopefully on some kick ass vacation. He's different because he's him? Idk, I didn't have a whole lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:13 PM
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If you aren't getting enjoyable sex from your partner it isn't working.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:01 PM
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Lol looks totally matter. But not the same look. What I find hot a lot of women don't and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:37 PM
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Agreed. Seems like a lot of people either don't have sex often, or don't have a healthy outlook on it. I'm glad the above poster was able to find a partner that isn't either of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 08:15 PM
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Well of course life isn't fair...only a moron thinks it is. Is it really that hard for people to tell when someone is into you for just sex vs commitment? People aren't as complex as they pretend. I mean unless you're on the spectrum or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 03:17 AM
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Becky is a bloody moron....make your own money and marry someone hot and not an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:11 AM
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Wtf marries someone their not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 10:33 PM
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Neither. Don't want the burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:48 PM
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Oh my god yes...mods are wild
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 07:53 PM
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Wow, you people need to get off the internet once in a while...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:27 PM
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The fluffy answer: love The practical answer: health insurance and parents
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 08:09 PM
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Why can't both sexes own up to their preferences, not shame people for theirs, and not assume that they know what total strangers are thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:48 PM
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Gotcha, it's honestly hard to separate parody or satire from people's batshit insane ideas these days...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 08:40 PM
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Hey, personal preference is a thing and I totally respect that. I'm partial to a white tee shirts and jeans combo on a guy, and short hair on a girl. I just kind of resent the idea that if you don't conform to an arbitrary list you're "not doing it right". It also bothers me because it assumes I would want to be with the kind of person that looks to that list as their standard. I don't want to be with a guy that needs a woman to wear makeup, I'm not attracted to guys that think women have to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:37 PM
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I think the backlash comes from some random dude thinking he knows what's best for all women...I don't fit most of that list but I have a life that's comfortable, a man I adore, and fuck anyone that thinks the key to a man's heart is wearing pink. I mean come on...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 03:37 PM
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Agreed. But it comes down to parenting. My mom raised me to speak up and advocate for myself. Yeah, love is good but don't set yourself on fire keeping someone else warm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 03:57 PM
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No, gave a bj to my high school boyfriend and officially lost the vcard to a guy I was dating my freshman year of college. It was pretty meh, and he got all obsessed about being my first. Sex got way better after I broke up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 02:33 PM
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Only if the men and women buy into the bullshit concepts surrounding promiscuous people. No, it doesn't affect someone's ability to pair bond, it's just people that can't tend to sleep around. No, it doesn't make someone a stud or cooler...and no, it doesn't necessarily make you better at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 02:31 PM
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I think we are. Well, we're not "Chad's" but we both did alright for ourselves dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:35 PM
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I agree, which is why I said RP doesn't give a shit about anything a woman says, nor do most women give a shit about what RP says. Circling back to the original point though, yeah RP works. It just doesn't work on the sort of women you would have a lasting healthy relationship with, but that's not what RP dudes tend to look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 11:02 PM
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Well manipulation tactics work best with people that are easily influenced, and insecure people tend to be easily influenced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:13 PM
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I totally would, but in order for that to happen we'd have to be in a very secure place in our relationship. I like the idea of open relationships, most people can't handle them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:54 PM
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Your right but the people you're trying to reach don't care. To a certain extent I see both points. TRP does seem to work better on girls that have low self esteem, have mental health concerns, or are generally more impulsive. TRP also doesn't really give a shit about that. Seems like all they want is a wet hole, and attention they themselves are reluctant to reciprocate. Which hey, if that's what you want go for it. In their defense though just because she seems like the perfect girl doesn't me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:03 PM
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I think it depends on the couple....I personally wouldn't want to be in that sort of relationship, to me it seems limiting and one red flag in a sea of many.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:57 PM
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I learned that people are more fucked up and damaged than I originally thought. I also learned that a lot of guys view relationships as a "what do I get out of it" vs a partnership that benefits both parties. Finding someone that you are attracted to, share's your values, your sex drive, and sense of humor is almost impossible to find. I didn't realize how truly rare my relationship was until I started talking other people online and IRL. Also people are REALLY weird about sex. It's good, bad, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:54 PM
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I kind of think being cherished, understood and respected is what love is. I'd want it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:46 PM
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I won't say it's impossible, because there are outliers...but I've never seen it. Can I ask how old you are? I only ask because this is an insecurity that usually lessens with age and experience. My husband and I both like looking at eye candy, doesn't make us love each other any less. In fact, it's fun to talk about especially if it turns into sexy time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 03:47 PM
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OP, there is no connection...people just want there to be one because it's a way to make sluts feel bad. I emphasize people because it's men and women that do that. Just about everyone I know grew up with some sort of religion and with that comes the weird religious guilt surrounding sex and that takes a lot to get past.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 07:16 PM
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I'm not a guy but this has been the experience of men in my life. It's been way harder for my female friends dating than my guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 06:53 PM
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Thanks for the kind words! You seem like a good person as well. I wasn't always this comfortable, but once you stop listening to the masses things tend to get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 04:03 PM
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That's true. I honestly wish things were different in that respect. When I was dating whenever I approached guys they took that to mean desperation when in reality I don't enjoy playing the weird games our culture tells us we need to play. Why SHOULDN'T women approach? Guys like to feel desired as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 03:47 PM
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Agreed. But just because it's rare doesn't mean women are lying when they say looks don't matter. It's more like it doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 03:33 PM
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I see where you're coming from and there ARE women who lie about that. What the reasons are I don't know. I omitted looks from my bare minimum because it's not AS important, at least to me... don't take my opinion as gospel. I'm a pretty picky person and if you've checked every other box but your a 3 it doesn't matter because the combo of everything else is rare. It was said before hot guys are a dime a dozen, but a dude that I click with, is responsible, and has his mental health under control …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 02:45 PM
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I'm talking about "relationship things" too. For me to be attracted to you, you have to bathe, comb your hair...give somewhat of a shit what you look like. T-shirt and jeans is fine because that's what I'm rocking. I don't know if I'm an outlier or not. I've given legitimate chances to guys with disabilities, one that was obese, and for some weird reason I find lisps sexy...I'm not lying when I say personality is the most important, but I'm not going to completely discount looks. I don't know if…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 12:45 AM
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Well that's not a phenomenon exclusive to women... what can I say? Humans suck sometimes. From my own personal experience the best relationships I've seen are when people are upfront about what they want in a partner, willing to compromise, and are good at communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 10:53 PM
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The bare minimum means I'm not going to reject you outright. Of course for a healthy relationship to work both people are going to have to bring more to the table. I've always been taught not to waste you time on someone that isn't contributing as much as you are. If someone wants me to give up my time and emotional capacity but they're not willing to give me the same...hard pass. I mean a lot of guys say all they want is a nice, loyal, cute girl. Bare minimum. But then they start talking about …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 10:26 PM
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I personally don't need all of that and I would bet most women here don't either. I want someone that brings his best to the table because that's what I try to do for them. And that doesn't always look the same. Nice, and faithful are like bare minimums and if a person gets salty for having to be nice or faithful...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:18 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:48 AM
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I would much rather them let me handle it. I'm an adult and I've dealt with it before so I have more experience with it than he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:04 AM
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Yeah...no thank you. I'll pick stable and predictable every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 03:19 PM
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As long as each party respects the others boundaries, totally. I have/had friends I'm attracted to and vice versa, we've even been aware about that attraction...but I/they know I'm not stepping out on my husband (unless pre-approved) so it would never go anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 08:25 PM
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Given the high rate of fornication and adultery in male population, do you really think they would be felonies? Doesn't seem like it would be in their best interest...unless you mean dudes get a free pass and only women get prosecuted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 04:56 PM
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