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Scoring isn't commitment? That's literally the whole point of it. Reducing women to playthings. It used to be more about respect and commitment aka provide and protect. With no marriage and just scoring women get nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:04 PM
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Of course those men want to score poosay but that just leaves the women as bitter single moms. It doesn't give women the commitment and security they desire. The men have less desire to commit to the women but they'll still holler and charm them and then ghost. Or string along. That's not "winning" for women. Seems more like a win for the manipulative fuckboys. They'll shower you with compliments, ask on a date etc but they will think you're a "four on a good day"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:37 PM
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Loool no any normal woman knows she needs to settle down before 30 to even get a shot at normal family life. That's just a cope for women who couldn't get a man. It works just fine, it's just that younger generations of men do not feel motivated to get an education/ job AND support a wife. A lot of men with means live a fuckboy lives with no care in the world. That's bc we have weakened the institution of marriage in the society so men do not feel the societal pressure. And their women know bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:23 PM
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Those guys aren't "bad boys", just loser druggies
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:04 PM
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Bad boy is a good- looking teenage boy or in his early twenties who is troubled but cute. Kinda mysterious, brooding vibe. He's not just any bad guy, psychopath etc, the attraction is implied. And he needs some kind of tragic backstory that makes him sympathetic. So yeah, he's actually a fictional character in romance novels and other media directed at women. This guy doesn't really exist in real life as actual "bad boys" are way different. Or it's usually just some PuA LARPing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:03 PM
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That's only of yesterday now because women cannot get that deal anymore as men aren't eager to marry them as they used to be. Most women want to be supported economically but men don't want to hear it anymore so they are forced to go 50/50 and often even contribute more in order to have a man. The SAHM is actually a privilege that women have lost and it's not coming back anyway for most women Most young men do not want to BE a peacock( or clown) in order to impress women when other more intersti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:57 PM
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I'm a woman and I cannot imagine being with anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:53 PM
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What you just named isn't immoral nor manipulation, you just have a weak beta mindset so that's why you see any of that as such. A man without option can only pay to get what he wants and in the end of the day that's what men with options do as well...you use words such as "economically vulnerable","toxic" etc that makes you sound like a feminist. You haven't removed yourself from the feminist mindset so you might as well continue playing by their rules as you wont stomach being evil or "toxic" …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:49 PM
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Those men are into the "hotwife" concept and it's okay to have kinks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:46 PM
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Why would the guy walk out when he can do whatever/whoever he wants lol? Is he gonna be with a woman who doesn't allow him to be free instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:06 AM
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A woman who's good in bed isn't only concentrating on her own pleasure and making the clit the most important thing lol You sound passive in bed and like you want to serve women. Maybe that's why you only vibe with selfish, bitchy women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:38 PM
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As a woman, I' d never take back a guy who has had sex with other woman because I'd never break up with him in the first place? I assume that all men want sexual variety so I believe it's dumb to even call it "cheating". Not to mention making such a huge deal out if it like ruining a whole relationship based on that. Very insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:53 PM
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They do not care about the dick size as this is not about selection but negging?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:46 PM
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It's just an attempt to make a man feel insecure. They do not need to know how big his dick is, everyone assume most men are average size
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:44 PM
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Thos negging and bullying of normal men is a form of expressing support for their "sisters". They want likes and claps on the back. Big dicks is the same case. Women do it for other women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:20 AM
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That's negging. Those women are bitter from being overlooked their whole lives and called fat(possibly), so that's their way of getting back on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:18 AM
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It's a form of bullying or "negging". I have especially seen it used on men who are seen as "mysogynist" or men who have just called a woman fat. Otherwise, no normal woman cares about height
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:16 AM
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Well, men made the computer and social media that we women are using in the first place, so I'd say some nerds who play with pixels ultimately do something useful? Idk what you write as I'm interested in speaking generally about women as a group and not any particular individual. Yes, there are female writers and that's cool but men have still invented everything useful today and writing stories just cannot compare. In the western world most women over 30 with no partners and kids didn't choose …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:39 AM
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Biologically reproducing is the end goal? You can have other goals, I do not care personally. Mens hobbies get them to bond with each other so they can build societieties. Women's hobbies help women in attracting men, taking care of family/kids, competing with other women Talibans win at life when you compare to our situation where half of 30 year old women are childless?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:30 PM
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Those are coping with loneliness and spending time with cats while other women take care of their kids. Most women's hobbies include social media, gossip, makeup, food, taking pics of their ass, Kardashians, Netflix. Also plenty of women talk about hobbies they only spend minimal time on, some pursue hobbies just to get a bf or together with a bf. This is what I have observed as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:22 PM
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It's logical that since child rearing takes up so much time and is the end goal for most women, pursuing hobbies is meaningless from an evolutionary perspective. Women aren't forced to have kids and take care of them, we do it because of maternal instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:14 PM
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It's also whether you are ashamed of said problem or not and how much it makes you suffer, not just extraversion/introversion. If one can talk/ joke about the problem than it's much better than not being able to face it at all. I do not mean that people who express unhappiness and joke about it are actually happy, I think they have settled and aren't content but accept that everyone else is like that. I mean people overlook that one can seem happy on the outside but suffer on the inside, especia…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:24 PM
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IME unhappy people put on a brave face and do not actually admit to their dissatisfaction, but attention seekers are the ones complaining and joking. They would never actually leave the relationship. And I feel like people think complaining about mundane life as married gives you adult points and helps you relate and belong in the collective. Like they have reached their milestones and are totally over being young and wild. Especially today when so many young people have trouble finding partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:50 PM
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People have a lot of assumptions, but generally most people settle for their partners. Some accept it easier or put on a brave face, others show it more. But looking at the kind of women that men follow on instagram and comparing them to the average woman and looking at sex frequency statistics and how late people marry in the western world it's safe to assume not many people are with the partners they would have chosen if they were rich. I think we live in a superficial world where looks/ money…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:32 PM
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I do not think truly unhappy people joke about the source of their unhappiness. Also, do not fall for the complaints- plenty of women actually brag about having asshole husbands/ boyfriends but make it look like they're complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:20 PM
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The unattractive quiet guy will be invisible unless he does socially unacceptable things like staring and inappropriate touching. Or trying to make an awkward move on some girl. Then he would be labelled as creep. So I'd say being quiet is still better
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:11 AM
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That sounds more like bonding and having fun( especially with the kids part) than having genuine interest though. That still seems like something that's typical for women. However we were originally taking mountain biking as an example and such interests that women genuinely do not have but either fake them to get men interested or pick them from their boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:31 AM
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Yep. This is my experience with the girls my age that I know but also with the older women. I've read the studies that say boys have sudden interests in different subjects in middle school while girls at the time are solely interested in boys and socializing. But I have seen this happen as well A lot of girls feign interest in anime and video games in order to get attention from guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:22 AM
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Of course lol. It's obvious they aren't serious about their hobbies. Then they drop all the hobbies once they have settled down and had kids. With all the self- improvement advice for men why is it hard to believe women are also running the same game?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:31 PM
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Lol you arguing about men and women while taking celebrities as an example. Nothing works the same, it's different rules for those people than for ordinary people. I think a lot of idiocy in today's world is due to average people thinking they are on the same level as rich people just because they're selling you the illusion that they are relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:27 PM
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I just hear a lot about it from men who have trouble getting women, for some reason. It has a bad reputation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:08 PM
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I'm a woman myself and familiar with the women who run that game.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:32 PM
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In these womens minds that's the whole point of it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:22 PM
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I have spoken to several women about this, thai boxing gives inc3l vibes thanks to all the guys who are self- improving. I recently ran into a guy who tried to ask me out then I realized I had been walking past a bookstore. Of course those dudes are running daygame next to bookstores,it's a well- known fact to most women today. I just wanted him to go away and excused myself and he talked about taking up thai- boxing. I couldn't help laughing at that :D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:02 PM
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If they try to be outgoing they aren't any better off. We can easily see when a guy lacks social skills if he talks a lot. I've met guys who follow that advice and it's not a pretty sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:00 PM
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What do you mean? I meet guys like that. But I also meet guys who try hard to be outgoing or extraverted nerdy types and they are annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:46 PM
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There's nothing as off- putting as a cringy and nerdy extravert. Introverted guys can give a mysterious vibe. It's always wiser to say less than to make a fool of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:45 AM
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Every girl knows that all those single men who are struggling take up hobbies and gym because they are desperate to get women. It's a common knowledge by now. This is why being sexually attractive and rich/successful is even more important to women today. Hobbies are just cope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:44 AM
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Yes, especially all those obviously single younger men with cringe hobbies. I'm seeng so many guys in my country riding those one-wheeled bikes that make them look like literal clowns. And they usually choose the oddest hobbies/interests that are definitely not soccer and other typical "male" hobbies. Thai- boxing always gives me desperate " plz date me" vibes. They usually tell me proudly they like doing that as soon as they start talking. They don't get that women think they are cringy I belie…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:31 AM
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That's just a game those women are running to actually get a wedding ring lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:26 AM
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Lol most Millennials are like this too actually, have been since the tumblr times. I'm not like other girls and all that jazz. The nerds are the " in " culture now. All the insta thots love learning, as well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:32 PM
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What you see as a 7 is probably just what you see as 10 but without makeup and photoshop
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:14 PM
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Actually you aren't special. Among Zoomers every "hot chick" is a nerd and a gamer yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:11 PM
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I think that's mostly due to guys feeling insecure about pursuing the conventionally attractive women. They figure they have higher chances of hooking up with a less attractive girl. If the hot girl is assertive, she can get any guy she wants, though. She needs to show interest first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:09 PM
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I have literally never see one without a fat girlfriend. If I recall correctly, people on the internet even wondered at some point if those dudes were only attracted to fat women and plenty of them said they only get interest from fat women wjen they go out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:17 PM
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Women with slim/fit bodies often do not have much of tits and ass without surgery so it actually proves the opposite. Women with actual tits and ass have fat in places where men do not like to see fat on female bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:47 PM
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I do not know a single girl my age who wants to be a partygirl. There are so many other things to aspire to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:29 PM
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I do not think a man should do that at all, no need to read the room. A truck with flowers is way over the top and so are expensive things. A normal woman should be happy with a symbolic gift bc the most important thing is that he remembered which day it was. The whole Valentine's day was made up by companies who want to make money out of people anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:54 AM
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And yet the same women will say that a man sending a truck full of flowers on Valentine's is creepy, stalker and probably will be controlling the woman with finances. Definitely abuser Lol imagine being a male feminist unironically. Why should I have a flair, I'm a normal European woman who's not a man-hater, no need for labels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:50 PM
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I cannot understand this gross high- maintenance woman mentality that seem to be an American thing. A woman should be more than happy with " grocery store chocolates" on Valentine's day. If this is how "women with self-respect" think then I'm happy to be lacking self-respect loool.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:41 PM
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Of course you're right about that. Stacy has to be sexual and guys love porn. Duh. And I'm working on my sex and cooking skills. I have always been good with men but it comes naturally, not something I think of. But it's still important for me to read this bc it gives me more self-confidence when I know I 'm doing the right thing. Instead of, you know, measuring my skull. I think your definition of Stacy is way more human and less objectifying than the common definition, which is very ironic whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:15 PM
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O...k You always have such interesting perspectives and I'm not surprised that your definition is based on porn lol I wont say I agree with you, especially the "just being hot" part. I feel like to men a women is a 10 if she looks hot and larps as whatever the guy wants. Which often times isn't a porn star. Your definition is still waaay better than the official reddit definition: https://www.reddit.com/r/Vindicta/comments/d6gkev/what_makes_a_stacy_vs_a_becky/ Apparently you need an "angel skull…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:24 PM
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So IG models are high caliber Beckies? What's the difference between 7-10 Stacies according to you? Most of the scales I've seen on the internet suck bc they were made by gullible men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:23 PM
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I go to Uni in Germany and this is not my experience since most people of both genders are socially awkward. I think it might be due to American culture and expectations that girls need to be fun girls at college and wildin' out. A lot of such superficial and stereotypic stuff in this sub is coming from American culture And I also think women are more socially savvy and know how to present theselves as desirable. So they project this fun, sexual persona
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:30 PM
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But if half of 30 year olds are childless then there's no way we are coming up to 80%. A lot of women that age do not even have partners. My cousin is a Millennial and we looked up her schoolmates recently, it's interesting how many above-average normies are still single while the former feminist chicks are in relationships with kids. And I follow some conservative Millennials who struggle to make it in today's world. In my generation there are legit hot girls and boys who have never had bfs/gfs…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:13 PM
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Wow you're so pretty in that pic! And btw nothing beats the self- confidence when you know you look good w/o makeup. I'm like that and I usually wear makeup but I can have "days off" like I just rolled out of bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:01 PM
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Where I live leftist Millennials have partner and kids. The normies struggle. I mean just look at internet, everyone is right wing and single
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:42 PM
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It could also mean they are cucks, by that logic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:21 AM
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Idk I find that to be hot. Like a guy showing me how to become his perfect muse. Plenty of women accuse men of not communicating their feelings and wishes properly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:03 PM
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It's a glaring example since it's so inappropriate and bold, but any Hollywood teen movie from the 90's and 00's has those implications. Maybe you should provide examples of male virginity presented as a positive thing? Are you disagreeing with my statement that media promotes those ideals?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:00 PM
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Media? The kid from Hocus Pocus was like 16 and riddiculed for being a virgin in a kids movie. Hollywood
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:27 PM
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I have noticed "girls of color" have this culture. I know it's the majority of Zoomers nowadays but I think it might be cultural. I had a bunch of girls just like those at my former job, they became buddies immediately and did sleepovers and were together all the times. They have this strong pro woman anti-man mentality that I'm trying to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:02 PM
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If you're a man you can mold a woman into someone who fits all your preferences( even my feminist,hypocritical friends were happy to become like this when they got boyfriends), or you can stay single bc no girl out there fits your preferences. Girls find guys like that hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:16 PM
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Nothing disgusting about it? Maybe you are just programmed to be anti-social but every process of "socialization" means you are molded into something by someone. Feminism and PC culture is an example of this. Or social media. It's not worse than being "molded" into a good wife. If I said a guy should be molded into a woman's perfect guy you wouldn't complain lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:05 PM
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There's nothing gross about it. People change in their relationships to other people, you do not stay the same. This is perhaps why so many people on here are single, there are not people out there who were born to fit your standards. It's dumb to pass on some good opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:02 PM
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I have encountered more those who say outright they 're bi or lesbian but do not show these tendencies at all. It's usually just some feminist chick. And then they get jelly when I get attention from guys. I have always believed they were just pretending to get PC points. It's weird to hear that lesbians even exist tbh. I totally get the mannish type tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:38 PM
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Do they have a type they are attracted to? I bet they are prevalent in jails. And in certain jobs like police or the military
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:09 PM
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Ohh this is good info. I do not hang out with older women like that, I tend to avoid older colleagues tbh. At my previous job there was this married middle-aged woman who acted like "lipstick lesbian" as you described, she was interested in a guy on our team who was into me. She tried to push me onto him. Sounds scary! How do they take rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:41 PM
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Lol, I see. I have a black friend who has bad social anxiety and can become very depressed if her hair isn't cooperating. Then she'll miss school/work and cry all day. When I tried to talk to her she told me her hair was crucial in whether the bus driver will close the door in front of her and drive away or not. She said I don't get this bc of my white privilege. She's a bit extreme example but it's not rare among girls I know to be pathologically obsessed with the way they look and think everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:26 PM
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LOL I know it's a shade to us Zoomers, coming from you:D Idk if I want us to be normal,tbh Looking at Millennials they didn't turn out all that good imo. I think some of the things we have are a blessing in disguise. But wait... But you should definitely talk about stopping being obsessed with looks, like lookism is a problem- one nostril bigger than the other etc. Embarrassing ourselves on TikTok is something we gotta stop doing. Social awkwardness probably needs to be adressed. We are probably…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:13 PM
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Where do you find so many lesbians, I thought they were rare? How can you tell, are they always butch or?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:04 PM
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So basically roughly 80 percent of men should not be in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:44 PM
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That's bc they aren't high value women at all. FDS is just cope for women who can't get a man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:33 PM
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Or you can take a young woman and mold her into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:28 PM
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I know some girls who lie about that, you need to count those in. Especially if a man she's not interested in asks. I have plenty of friends who are content being single but may lie about it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:10 PM
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No need for that, America isn't united
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:09 PM
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That advice will get many guys in jail. Also girls there wont be hot, stop watching Hollywood movies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:33 AM
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This sounds just like negging to me. But it's based on the fact that these girls say it openly like you described. However in reality women do not want wimpy men, because women are drawn to masculinity, but normal women would just not find you attractive and move on without telling you so. Men are free to judge those women on looks and weight, however. It's riddiculous to talk about "double standard" when this is domething that men do not judge women on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:19 AM
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That's bc women who date on dating apps lack common sense. There's a reason they are single and on dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:27 PM
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This is so true. Unfortunately the current culture and lack of male role models who are real men plenty of guys think the Caleb guy is alpha. Sadly Caleb guys are everywhere among younger guys today
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:33 AM
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He looks very sketchy to me and I'm a woman. Ugly face and untrustworthy eyes. He looks like a scammer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:29 AM
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From that pic he looks like a beta guy who's up to no good. Sketchy. Especially the eyes and the angle of his face in this pic. I don't see any masculine charms or charisma in him as he isn't masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:28 AM
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Awww cute! You are extroverted tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:42 PM
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She just lacks the styling. The problem is that people think beauty is makeup and fake hair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:29 PM
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They get fired because other women on the team hate them and do everything in their power to get rid of them. Also some guy gets angry they can't get them so they join in the smear campaign. Happened to me and some other girls that I know. t's pretty girl discrimination, not one based on ethnicity or anything like that so can't be turned into lawsuit lol I think it happens mostly when other women realize that the hot girl as a threat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:39 PM
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Not really. The only places I've seen pretty girls work is like McDonalds or something and they were young students. Hot girls work but they struggle to keep a job and get fired in the end
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:33 PM
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In his case, he says he wants fat girls tho:D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:30 PM
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Men would think differently if they could see IG girls on tv like that bc it's hard to hide your body. IG models are all about angles, lighting, makeup etc. Many of them hide their imperfections. Like you can't even find a non-manipulated candid pic. From the sea of IG girls, I'd say most of them have worse bodies than VS models but their present a false image Meanwhile the aesthetics of VS girls is less sultry and more marketed to women so they come off as girls next door to men rather than tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:38 PM
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That sounds really hot, ngl. As women we are always told we aren't supposed to make anyone happy besides ourselves and I find that sort of life to be empty. I am also open minded to different lifestyles that might be more natural to us humans and like we used to live. My bf says he doesn't know if he can pull this off. He used to be a leftist but I' m getting him on the right path I just dislike the normie culture of mediocrity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:59 PM
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I have a professor at my Uni who said that so many men have tried and many more men have wished to lock her in a kitchen, but she resisted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:31 PM
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Skip the unhealthy consumation lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:25 PM
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You should make a vid, I really like trad lifestyle and retro clothes. Many people do even tho they can't admit they would like to live that way. I kinda wish we still lived in those times pre WW2 when people used to dress classy and wear hats and gloves outside The problem is nowadays you have no idea how to be proper or have any set of rules in your life unless you find it on the internet, like it was some new age thing...parents are beyond useless
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:52 PM
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I only know Millennials born in the 90s and they are like I described. I bet trad moms are only hanging out with each other so it's hard to get to know them but I have seen some vids. I know homeschooling is becoming popular. You had a nice style in those pics btw. Kinda how I'd imagine a traditional Russian housewife. The headscarf is a nice touch
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:11 PM
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Most Millennials are actually losers. I have heard Millennials who make podcasts call their own generation a bunch of lazy potheads. I get it that the number of housewifes are rising compared to generations before Millennials, but the average Millennial woman is working and half of women born in 1991 are childless. I know there are tradcon types, I follow Matt Walsh on Twitter,he is against voting rights and has endorsed arranged marriages among other things. But the average Millennial is still …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:03 PM
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Millennials just love the aesthetics of an era, not the true lifestyle tho while they actually just like status quo. Aren't all Millennials hipsters and posers deep down? Zoomers are the future because we are real and have an actual willpower to make change
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:40 PM
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Yes, being anti- college is gaining popularity. People are critical towards college, questioning whether it's really all that necessary and since everyone has an access to it doesn't hold any prestige anymore. And in our generation looks is far more important than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:36 PM
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What if the government in the West wants the culture to go extinct? After all , they are the ones promoting everything that has ever gone wrong. I didn't take you as someone who trusts the govt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:25 PM
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This is only if you believe that the government has good intentions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:54 PM
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This is not matriarchy, this is patriarchy ruled by weak men who let women get away with anything. Women get away with nothing in real matriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:59 PM
1

Well...yes. I'm outgoing myself but if someone is introverted in today's culture and climate they'll probably get worse. You can pretty much become isolated from people and no one is going to care bc it's normal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:48 PM
1

What is the same thing? Those two men aren't in any way the same thing? One is for sex and the other for resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:25 PM
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It's just prolonging of teen years and avoiding becoming an adult for most younger people I don't think they'll mind you enjoying your student debt. Colleges are losing it's prestige status because everyone is going to college even groups of people who traditionally never went to college before. So it's not any kind of status symbol anymore. And when everyone has a dumb college degree it loses its worth even further, it becomes like high school. And btw you can teach yourself more than half of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:21 PM
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Political correctness, feminism, internet/social media which leads to asocial behavior, perhaps unhealthy diet too. Maybe degeneration like weaker genetic material as well. Plus acceptance and encouragement of weakness like it's totally normalized to be awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:02 PM
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Yes, I'm GenZ. If you could see what people are like in colleges and the way interaction between sexes looks like you'd understand why everyone is incel/femcel. Extremely unsexy environment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:46 PM
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Guys at my Uni are totally disinterested in most girls plus they are usually very socially awkward. Idk I feel like most of you guys who think people are having lots of sex in college are way older than me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:40 PM
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I'm seeing more people realizing that women(many and men) going to college and in debt is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:28 PM
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Wtf women call cops on men who say "hello" to them, google it. There has been several examples circling around of girls putting videos on tik tik of some guys just telling them they are beautiful. Then the women in the comments wrote that it was sexual harassment. So it may not make her day, it might ruin your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:51 PM
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No. Women do not want to have sex with that man for him, it's just to get to his money? Then I guess Zuckerberg is one of the most sexually attractive guys around:D You do realize that women sleep with men who have no resources and then take the richest man they can find later when they are less fertile?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:41 PM
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Of course it does matter lol Even if it were like you said, height is still not sexually attractive to women , it goes into the cathegory of "resources" or stuff that a woman can get out of a man. It's like money- women aren't sexually attracted to rich men, they are interested in their resources. So height, money etc would just make you the most suitable beta- provider. I thought you guys wanted to get as much sex as possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:23 PM
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In a world of me- too I think it's dumb to be an "aggressive PUA" and just not worth the risk involved My advice is to stay away from deoressed women, they are almost always feminists and femcels. Literally all of the feminists at my school who hate men have mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:19 PM
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No one needs to protect women in today's world. I'm a woman and I think women use this helpless game mostly to manipulate guys who want to play white knights. There's no saber- tooth tigers around. Look the way guys live, sedentary lifestyle at the office/ home etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:15 PM
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I think men are really bad at deciding which man is attractive to women. You are always having a guy crush on some dude that women do not even care for. Those PUA-s are famous scammers. They are making money out of your misery
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:51 PM
2

Why is a tall man the best genetic possibility especially in the modern world?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:44 PM
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Lol I thought so too, then some guy got really flustered and started yelling at me in rl when I told him Zyzz wasn't attractive to women. He told me he'd be honored if his gf slept with Zyzz bc he was such Chad(he didn't have gf) And then I saw it on the internet, too It's impossible to discuss about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:46 PM
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Don't forget Zyzz fanboys and taking steroides gets you sex:/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:15 PM
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It would just be really OOC for her. She's not big on feelings in general and I don't see her saying she loves her guy either. She's like that character in a show that one hopes will melt somewhat at some point and you just hope the writers wont ruin it if it happens Kinda like Tywin Lannister type of character
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:18 PM
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I feel like it would totally ruin the gimpgirl brand if she would say that her guy loves her:D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:17 PM
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Bullshit, this is what ugly women tell themselves to feel better. Above average women who never were really hot are the ones who hit the wall. I have seen men hype up ordinary women with fake hair and makeup, until those women get into a relationship and let themselves go so they stop caring about makeup and hair. Plus they gain weight. Then people usually think they became ugly or something. No, it's average girls who have nothing to offer than their youth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:47 PM
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I agree that ugly women do not have a wall because no one cares. I have noticed it's always the above average women who wear lots of makeup and make men believe they're 10, who hit the wall. That's because men notice them and the differences. Lot if these women got in a relationship around 30yo and got fat, for example
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:36 PM
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I have only hear dudes hype Henry Cavill up like that:/ In fact, they do it pretty often and I just don't get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:43 PM
1

I totally feel like GenX bitches are genuine while the Millennial ones are fake and with ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:50 PM
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I have some friends who are younger Millennials and Zillennials and they are cool. Their parents are GenX, so idk if that makes any difference. I have noticed that those with Boomer parents tend to be more entitled and know-it-alls which clashes badly with my own temperament
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:48 PM
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Yeah unfortunately. Not only do they not hire me, they act bitchy and condescending towards me on the interview so I know what the answer will be. I was recently fired from a male- dominated job, the middle boss was a woman and she fired me bc all the women on the team(and some men) hated me. I once saw them mock me when they didn't know I was there. The one woman who hated me the most was called "feisty queen"(if that's the correct translation)by somd dude who liked her and hated me, you can im…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:44 PM
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It has already happened to me and probably will soon again. It's like they put all that energy into bitchiness when we put it into looks,feelings and being introspective. It's like they figured this would give them the best results. And Millennial women are everywhere at work. Soon guys wont have any hot women at work thanks to them. Btw GenX women aren't nearly as bad. Even Boomer women are funnier and not as bitchy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:09 PM
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Working with Millennial women as a hot Zoomer girl is hell. They are usually very fake, bitchy and bitter. Unfortunately. Like, I get very good connection and responses from Millennial guys and extremely bad from Millennial women. This doesn't happen with GenX as extremely
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:55 PM
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Then why would you say European women are conservative when you're from Europe as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:44 PM
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This is true. I couldn't care less about the guys that I'm not interested in, like I hardly remember their faces, names etc. And it's generally rude and unnecessary to point out to unattractive people of the opposite sex that they are unattractive. So either this guy is lying or the girls were negging him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:35 PM
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If you say that men want to have ownership then how come they do not demand the woman to be a virgin? You said it's ok if she had sex with 10 guys before. If it's very "patriarchal and sexist" then the man who took her virginity "owns" her? That's what I was told by real patriarchal religious guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:32 PM
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Where the hell do you get that from? LOL Americans are known in Europe as puritanical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:25 PM
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Yeah, that question about island is relevant and I agree. There are things that make men superior to women that aren't measured by IQ tests but are handy when it comes to survival, physical strength among other things. You see those things best in real life scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:19 AM
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Not disputing what you say but IQ isn't without flaws and only 4 points in favor of men is not much. I'd rather say that men and women have different types of intelligence and they have adapted IQ test to women's intelligence more in later years to show that men and women are equal. Men are better at maths and visuo-spatial part of the test, women are better at verbal and memory. I think other things play in when it comes to being capable. Like calm/ neurotic, feeler/thinker and there are gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:57 AM
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And a boob job
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:36 PM
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You can get better at sex with only one partner, that is the point. But its weird how you insist that the woman needs to come back to you when she has been fucked by some Chad bc you dont date virgins lol. It feels like you would be honored by First night right( google it). " Thank you my Lord, you gave my wife some experience, it would have been shame to marry a virgin"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:37 AM
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She is not a hot influencer that men follow and jerk off to, she has female following. So it makes sense that she has followers because of her make up skills, but I was talking about girls who men find hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:30 AM
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Then why not take the porn star with 50+ count, she's better at sex and less inhibited, she probably does everything? If you want experience that's who you should be going for? At least she shows she's sexual. You must have low opinion of yourself if you need a woman to be fucked by Chad before you take her:/ it's like a woman cannot gain any experience with you because you do not count as a man Of course she wanted Chad but he didn't want her. But by all means, commit to the woman that none of …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:06 PM
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But the makeup doesn't turn her into a prettier girl? I said she looks basically the same:/ her bones are still bad. I haven't looked her up but I'd say she's above average in comparison to average American woman because she's thin and her face isn't too ugly. Average women are fat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:38 PM
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Not very good facial features. Bad bones so makeup doesn't change much. She gets different skin color and less visible rings under her eyes with makeup on, that's the only difference. She looks exactly as I'd expect her to look without makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:56 PM
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You need to think of yourself and what you're getting out of this woman who had sex with Chad( or not getting) rather than how she feels. Yeah, it sure was mutually beneficial to them but it's not beneficial to you. Or it WAS beneficial to her while she was fucking Chad. No matter what her reasons are, she's not a woman that one should commit to. There's not "too many times", it's ridiculous to draw a line at 10 but be okay with 5 lol. And how would it feel for you to know your girlfriend was fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:39 PM
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Most of them started out as above average then they got surgeries. Yes, there are average ones with surgeries too. But the well done surgeries elevated them to above- average status purely look-wise even though their genes are still bad. I feel like they wouldn't be getting so many simps if they were average women:/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:12 PM
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FWB is when a woman fucks Chad to get him to commit to her, not because she enjoys sex in itself. I mean for free bc she gave him sex with no strings attached, while she will be requiring dinner dates, courting, commitment, wedding etc from the beta cuck. She gave her best years, her enthusiasm and love to other guys. It's up to the woman to make relationship work and please her man, the women are the ones with "social skills" and nurturing skills as they say. If the relationship ended, then the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:58 PM
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You cannot commit to a woman that gave herself to other men/Chads for free. That girl is for sex and not for relationship as her actions have proven. If she were a better woman she would be able to keep a man. This indicates that she's a feminist or just selfish, bitchy, crazy, can't cook, and make her man happy- no relationship skills. It's like someone who has been kicked from several jobs with no references FWB's do not exist my naive friend, it's always a woman who tries to get s man to comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:42 PM
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Yes, it's the worst thing because it allows women to require the same commitment as virgins while looking down on "sluts" who have slightly higher n-count. I feel like they want n= 3 to become the new n= 0. It's crazy how they managed to fool those beta males lol One guy just wrote he sees virgins as a red flag and a woman should have already been in "few LTR's" where she gained experience LOL. As if there's ever a bigger red flag than a woman who has screwed up several LTR's. It's practicaly hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:37 PM
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Sounds like her age in itself is a problem then? A 25 year old with n count 3 or 4 is a red flag too btw. Because she has made 3-4 attempts to get a boyfriend, fucked 4 guys and none of them wanted to wife her up and breed her. So she wasn't valuable enough to 4 guys before you, then why should you commit to her/ marry her? She was probably not attractive enough and gave starfish sex, otherwise she'd already been in a relationship. She probably bonded to the first Chad who fucked and ghosted her…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:19 PM
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Lol you cannot really believe that LOL They are above average/ hot PLUS make-up skills. An actual average woman would require even more photoshop and makeup than those girls. Yeah, I know some of them are actually fat and average catfishes but on the whole they tend to be above average in looks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:55 PM
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Women often cheat to provoke a reaction out of their husbands and not for sex. Or for leveling up- getting a man of higher value. I do not think the solution is to lead gender wars, which is something that Pick- me girls understand. They accept men as they are and get a man/ family in return. I think one needs to be good and work hard in order to bring good fortune in one's life and relationships require lot of work. Men and women are equally as bad nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:53 PM
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Well, idk why they require experience then? Having n- count 3 doesn't make a women better lay than n0. By that logic the higher n count the better? But at least the hooker isn't pretending and everyone knows what she's all about while women with n= 3 see themelves as almost virgins and want same relationship benefits. Anyway it's weird to require a woman NOT to be a virgin for a relationship, if given choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:36 PM
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I see more cases where men simp for their women than the other way around, at least in the Western world. I believe most married people with children think childcare is more of the woman's job as fathers interact with children differently than women and both are equally important of course. But small children require more care than activity and education so women are typically more involved than men when the kids are small. Father has an important role in other ways. Yes it's stupid to drink and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:26 PM
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They just do not take men for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:44 PM
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The problem is that women aren't all that interested in sex and many men try to get their gfs into such an arrangement without success. So they cheat then, instead. I don't think it's realistic to require sexual fidelity in average relationships either, one shouldn't seek open relationships just to get some variation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:31 PM
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Standards should meet one's own value, I believe. A woman who doesn't bring much to the table in terms of looks, service, job etc can't have too high standards. It would be much better if both men and women of lower value lowered their current standards, at least Pick- mes are realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:23 PM
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Why can't you teach her? You need her to be an Alpha widow who has bonded with Chads and got dumped? If you get with a virgin you can teach her to do it the way you prefer. I feel like you have been fooled by women who want to sleep around and yet expect you to commit to them. They made you think it's okay bc you get an experienced woman then Those girls you are describing are just for sex and not relationship so you can as well go to a prostitute- she has fucked several 100s so she should be th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:10 PM
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Women who accuse men aren't hot influencer girls, they are average
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:54 PM
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Why shouldn't it be zero? You want your woman used by other men, probably a Chad she really wants and has bonded to?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:47 PM
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Why would anyone need another man to teach his woman sex skills? It's not hard to learn? Are you programmed to want Chad's rests? The fact that she has been fucked before doesn't make her better, more enthusiastic to fuck you etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:43 PM
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It's not like you have a lot to do around the house like women did back in 1750. Secular, progressive men today require you do chores and work outside of home/ bring sallary. I'd say that's even more work
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:16 PM
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You have just mated for life with that one woman bro:(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:10 PM
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More like a hurt person fantasizing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:10 PM
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Truth to be told, plenty of non pick-me's end up like that as well, or they dump their men themselves bc they're incompatible. At least the Pick-me had her turn with the man she liked, not the one she settled for. I'd say it depends on the men, plenty of men would stay with Pick-me women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:06 PM
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If you expect that much from strangers then no wonder you're easily hurt in relationships. This is not a warm, feel- good place. This is place for voicing opposing opinons and sometimes those should be biting or sarcastic to make a point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:02 PM
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Wtf, pick-me's can have a man of any height and job status, you are oddly specific? I think short men deserve love too. There are 5'0 womanlets, they can take those
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:48 PM
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She's not your gf tho, you give way too much time and energy to female redditors. This cannot be an example of what women are like in your life, it's just stranger discussing. Why should female redditors have remorse and empathy towards you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:40 PM
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But you're not punishing your ex with your acts, you're just punishing innocent people. And of course, yourself. You are denying yourself happiness and normalcy and are stuck in a toxic cycle that your ex threw you into. And you're showing that you're still bothered by your ex and she still holds power over you. You do not hate women, you just love one specific woman and cannot move on from her, so you do not have place in your heart for any other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:31 PM
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But pick-mes get a man. They usually do not care if the guy is sleeping with other women bc it's a non-issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:52 PM
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If he's just sleeping with some woman then I wouldn't say it's cheating. People want variation. Relationship is much more than that, it's pity to leave someone you work well with just for the sake of it. If he was in love with the other woman and left you to be with her then that would have been painful. I just don't think it's realistic to expect a man never to sleep with any other woman for the rest of his life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:47 PM
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LOL West isn't seen as land of milk and honey at all in Eastern Europe, it's gone to shit. I'm Eastern European and I can assure you that we are superior at most things. Nowadays it's Westerners who wanna emigrate to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:51 PM
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He's a rapper of course his proper counterpart is a porn star lol. I wouldn't expect him with an aristocratic lady. That sort of baby mama mess is exactly what suits them in their proffession, he cannot write songs about a boring girl his fans cannot relate to. I find the whole concept of caring about n-count to be idiotic, especially when it comes to men who themselves have high n-count. Water seeks it's own level
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:39 PM
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But if those married women have the last say in everything then that marriage is kinda feminist? It think couples in the West are pretty egalitarian and the men are, well, some might say "betacucks". I have heard quite a few feminist statements from Boomer women, for example. But yeah, they are "white feminists" which modern feminism denounces I think feminism is considered normal and mainstream among younger people so you're kinda weird and do not fit in if you're an anti-feminist. Idk if you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:43 PM
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Males tell all the time it's unfair that women have those privileges that they lack. Yes, poor people are jealous of rich people/ think it's unfair and want to be rich themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:19 PM
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Hardly lol. They pretty much say they want to fuck many young hot women. While at the same time they complain about those women fucking guys who manage to get sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:01 PM
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Ok but then you agree majority of girls are feminists? I'd say pretty faces with bfs are in a minority Girls follow influencers and those are openly speaking on feminist issues. Even if you say those girls aren't realllly feminists and just looking for attention, sure, but they still support feminism. Zara Larsson comes to mind Also, I have got an impression lots of incels have an obsession with feminists( they imagine them as hot) in a love-hate kinda way which I don't wanna elaborate on but it…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:47 PM
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A lot of things changed in the society. Being glued to the screen all day long wasn't normal either. I guess the whole lifestyle changed and weight was one of the consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:39 PM
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Men were more manly and willing to take care of women. How about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:32 AM
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Average is normal, you can't just choose to ignore reality and expect to be taken seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:30 AM
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This "spreading of genes" is just a fantasy for men. In reality, average woman is invisible to you. 90% of women in Hollywood, maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:27 AM
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Men want porn stars? To him, that's probably what makes her more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:25 AM
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It could be that women are lying. All of my female friends exaggerate number of their partners and they lie about the attention they get from men in rl. Women's success is meassured in desirability and plenty of women want to project desirability. It's taboo to tell your friends you do not get men bc women aren't kind to each other or understanding. They like to look down on unsuccessful women and feel better about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:55 AM
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But cannot means they would want if they could, right? I have seen women who have problems with the hypocricy when it comes to men who judge women for what they themselves would be doing if they could. Men who want to have sex with lots of hot women complain about women who fuck around for not being a gf material. Not to mention most women on here probably do not even enjoy men's attention like that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:49 AM
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No the bfs need to play feminists, too. The most desirable influencers etc are all feminists. Basically if you're a young woman that's anti-feminist people will think there's something wrong with you. Unless you're hot, bc hot girls can get away with much more. I follow you bc you have really good points but sometimes I do wonder if you live in an alt- universe. You have admitted that you know nothing about single or normie women bc you've been with your man for many years. Maybe that's why
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:22 PM
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According to that same theory you're a loser if your husband is poor/unemployed and you cannot afford the middle-class lifestyle. That's not female culture, that's middle-class culture. A woman who is hot and liked by men yet doesn't want to marry and live that boring middle-class hell isn't a loser bc no one cares about what some old useless woman thinks. According to this same culture you're an even bigger loser if you are an immigrant from certain culture, with a bunch of kids and married fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:07 AM
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Most young women support feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:52 AM
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This is just for validation, I think. Well, some women are into this fantasy and you're obviously not and I'm not saying everyone is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:59 PM
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Women are worthless is more humane than some genes are worthless( regardless of gender)? Really now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:44 PM
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But you always say that marriages benefit women and all those older married women should get kicked out and replaced with young hot thots? Like, you hope such arrangement( marriage to betabux) wont exist in the future? Then how do you validate the trad "female culture", since you have taken stance against it? Like, why should anyone care to play according to their rules? Personally, I see what you're describing as pretentious middle-class culture that I despise and hope it will go away. Not the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:37 PM
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If they only get a free room, then you've got some social skills. You must hypnotise them with your presence or something Sure you mentioned you paid them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:31 PM
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They'd love to be the favorite wife of a hot and powerful sheikh or something. Like, his prized possession. They do not want to be some other wife
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:28 PM
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What do you get out of this? Different groups of women have always hated each other, but they always eventually gang up on men. And simps attention has never been evenly distributed on all groups of women. That's just giving women too much cred imo. Like, you can never get any real results, like get simps to simp for ugly/old/ traditional women. So it's all nature. Men can only change men and take power, women always fight anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:24 PM
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If it hasn't happened for them yet, then it never will. Simps have eyes and brains just like other men . They are probably genetically wired to be servants to women, so any "reaction" from women might actually fuel their masochism. I once brutally humiliated a simp in front of people as a last hope he'll leave me alone and then I got a stalker for life. He really liked it:(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:19 PM
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It's just evolution. Who cares about the reason when you say that men do not want to reproduce? You say your reason( women being worthless) sounds better or more humane than the evolution argument that some individuals do not pass their genes on bc they are undesirable in current environment?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:11 PM
1

I thought you were against people not reproducing? Are you a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:53 PM
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Of course it's women who are either single or insecure bc they have not locked the man down. But majority of women( especially women under 30) fall into these groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:44 PM
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You said that men will avoid such women bc they attract other men aka not good for LTR? You said specifically that many men do not see them as serious and only as short flings. But the study proves otherwise, men prefer such women for LTR as well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:24 PM
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Everyone doesn't reproduce. I know quite a few childless, single 30 + women, I doubt many of them will reproduce. The culture changed and people are more anti-social and kinda dead inside/depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:19 PM
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I know a group of girls who are sharing a flat and fucking the same wannabe influencer or rapper dude. They like each other, like sisters just as you say. But that's different from harem fantasy or poly marriage. I know a lot of women fantasize about being better than other women. And I mean single women bc those are the ones having harem fantasies, I believe without acting on them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:50 PM
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I think it's culture and since we have individualism, it's everyone deciding for themselves. In couples, it's more common that the man doesn't want kids than the woman, from my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:46 PM
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No and that's exactly why it's okay if a certain number of people do not reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:20 PM
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Not people in general, of course. Just not ALL people. Plenty of people do not even want to reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:59 PM
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Maybe according to social Darwinism only the worthy genes should be passed on? Idc personally but I think nature has it's own way. I have read people's opinions about this and some think that during the baby boom period after WW2 a lot of people had kids when they shouldn't have had reproduced. Like, those men would have been adult virgins if they lived today, in this climate. And thus their offspring is ill- equipped for finding a mate/ reproducing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:41 PM
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Isn't it kinda human to be competitive towards the same sex and want to be on top? Like, you'd want your husband to prefer you over other women. I know from litterature and tv that the story usually centers on the main wife and she's the prettiest, best etc. There was this Mad Max movie, too. She's the queen bee or whatever. It's simply always better to be the best I do not know anyone in actual polygamous marriage in rl, I only know sex- arrangements,.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:37 PM
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The only men who complain about women with high SSO are bitter men who can't have them. It's not bc they do not want them. Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:30 PM
1

But it says that men prefer those same women even for LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:29 PM
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Everyone would agree if they were honest with themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:19 PM
1

It's sad how much people build their reality on tv shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:14 PM
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Culture is run by media, academia and leftists. Sounds like you're talking about some sort of trad culture and not Sweden. There isn't even one single culture that unites all anymore. It's extreme individualism, polarization, balkanization etc especially in the USA. I thought you disliked the "female culture" and yet here you present it as some sort of "win". LOL Female culture is feminism. Idc about Boomers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:26 PM
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Women have the fantasy of being the nr 1 wife that the man prefers over others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:23 PM
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The question is if the majority of people even deserve to reproduce considering the state of the world. Maybe the planet is overpopulated and we have reached the limit. I think some genes need to disappear from the genepool
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:20 PM
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Doubtful.The birth rates are extremely low. More adult virgins and incels/femcels than ever. I've read that fertility for younger women is lower today, for some reason. I know quite a few women in rl who cannot get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:29 PM
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Lol To them it's not immoral to accuse an innocent person as long as it's someone they hate or cannot relate to. It's apparently neither immoral to commit the act themselves as they think they're above the law or wont get caught. I have always been wary of male feminists. I think it isn't rare that they would be sex- offenders, maybe they are trying to cover their tracks and avoid any suspicion? I think they aren't on "Team man" because they have anti-social personality or trouble relating to ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:44 PM
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Oh, I see. However what you're describing sounds more like an ordinary girl who is artistic. I meant more as a lifestyle tho. An art girl today can have zero talent and be really shitty at drawing but it doesn't matter since art cannot be judged objectively today. Liberal arts is more about politics and lifestyle that's centered around being a feminist. So their aesthetics and political views is what defines them as "art girls". It's associated with narcissism, special snowflake syndrome, Border…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:03 AM
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I notice it's mostly beta guys who simp for feminists that promote this myth. Whenever it's a "Chad", rich and successful guy or an immigrant/someone of another ethnicity they accuse the system of being corrupt and letting a guilty man walk free. It's only when a guy is a white beta dude like themselves that they might support him. They will never see this as an attack on all men collectively And most women, of course think every man could be a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:33 AM
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Not really. Red pill is known everywhere at this point. I have heard a Swedish coworker of mine talk about it the other day. Of course, he criticized his country's stupid feminism and warned other guys to never go there. I live in Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:21 AM
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Huge part of being an "art girl" is being a huge feminist and leftist. Never met any who wasn't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:00 PM
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From my experience, for guys when it comes to hookups, they take whatever they can get so looks do not matter at all. They often take a fat girl who they usually string along and ghost when they find something better. Then they commit to the best looking woman they can get. Idk where this myth that hot girls are for hookups only comes from, probably 90's American teen movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:25 PM
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No, guys are actually very picky when it comes to girl's looks. I've discovered that they think a girl is a 5 if she's a 5 in Hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:58 PM
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No you show a guy that you value him as a woman if you have sex with him. If you make him wait, you show that you do not value him. That's okay if you're satusfied with being fed crumbs but most people do not feel that way. Plenty of guys are just discovering this and they are not okay with taking some other man's rests.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:40 PM
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If she wants you to be her bf she'll lie then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:38 PM
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You said that guys settle for hot girls with bad personality, and then you also said that women who complain about their bad boys settled, if I understand you correctly? I said that wasn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:11 PM
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No. Women do not settle for bad boys. They settle for beta boys. That was my point: Hot crazy girl=bad boy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:52 PM
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The whole point is that she didn't make Chad wait, and that's how women show that they really want the guy. Then you'd have to accept that he values you less and is only with you bc he cannot afford the hot chicks anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:36 PM
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But then you can never tell that any woman tells the truth about this, unless she's a virgin. She still did it, even if you didn't find out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:27 PM
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Get commitment, attention, simping etc while giving nothing in return She had sex with others on the first night yet let him wait aka he's not as worthy of sex as Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:25 PM
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Wrong. I'm a female. It works the best if you ignore completely without explanation bc they assume immediately that you're an incel who's used to being friendzoned. If you ignore them they'll think it's bc they're fat or something which will wound their ego
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:23 PM
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The problem is that you wont be able to choose a good girl in the sea of fake ones bc the Western lifestyle( commonly called carrousel on here) is available to every girl in the West. Unless you demand that she's a virgin. A lot of women play good girls when it's time for serious relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:20 PM
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No man thinks this is okay today. Nah, everybody here can see what her true intentions were INCLUDING him. The only ppl on here that say what you say are some women who think her behavior was okay. He sees him as a beta loser
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:18 PM
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He can always choose unattractive women? He's like those women who are miserable with their bad boys
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:15 PM
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It's all about the genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:14 PM
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So she's comfortable with casual sex with Chad but makes the beta wait? Who cares about what she's comfy with, she showed this guy how little she valued him by not giving him what she gave to others previously, for free. It's like a guy told you he used to date models and spent all his money on them but since you seem like a gf material bc you aren't hot and high maintenence, you're cool with just Netflix and chill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:11 PM
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Doesn't mean they should get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:05 PM
0

Men benefit more from "sluts" than fake good girls
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:04 PM
1

How do you know she didn't sleep with others on the first night? You weren't there to check for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:03 PM
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Of course she's restricting him bc she wasn't giving him what she gave the others for free. She's signaling to him that he's beta and not worthy of sex, just betabux
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:02 PM
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They see it but wont admit it since they probably deceive guys themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:00 PM
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He has serious doubts, otherwise he wouldn't make such posts. Then it's good that men are learning about those manipulative tactics that women apply. She intended to use him which is bad. A lot of men have been naive about women and put them on a pedestal, unfortunately. But that's rapidly changing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:54 PM
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She doesn't see him as worthy of sex as he's a beta male. She put him into the "boyfriend cathegory" while if he had been an alpha male she would have had sex with him. She thinks he will have to accept her decision and be grateful for being considered "bf material", so this is a test to see how willing he is to put up with her. Just ask yourself how the same woman would react if they guy told her he's broke bc he dated a lot of hot high maintenance women that he took out on fancy dates, but sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:47 PM
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"seem innocent" is such bs and obviously playing the guy. You can't make this look good lol. She didn't get into his good graces,obviously. And yes, manipulation is malicious and deceiving
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:44 PM
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Looks are everything to men. So men can only settle for physically unattractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:38 PM
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It sounds like opposite of settling if someone gives you an ego boost. Of course he chooses to be with her bc she's hot and is his best option since women's looks are everything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:37 PM
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You give Russians too much cred tbh. They shouldn't have monopoly on normalcy, that's concerning
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:35 PM
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And you're not a PoS for letting humanity die out? You're free not to reproduce, of course. But mostly very young women think they'll never want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:33 PM
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Then you just show them that you're used to be treated that way. Why even say anything? Just ignore
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:31 PM
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This is especially true of ugly chicks, tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:28 PM
2

That's such a wussy definition of "bad boy"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:26 PM
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It's always interesting to see what boring, proper people find to be sociopathic, it's basically not being a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:24 PM
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Why are you obsessed with Russians? No, I'm not Russian.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:57 PM
3

It's only a minority of women who never want kids. Today plenty of young women think that way but they change their minds later
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:12 PM
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Why would anyone assume that single men are having more sex than married men? Especially after we have seen all the surveys that show young(single) men are incel...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:56 PM
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Normal women will always want kids because of biology
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:49 PM
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It's very obvious in that case that he isn't worthy of sex in her eyes. Just like a fat/unattractive woman isn't worthy of commitment for men. It's never a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:29 PM
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Plenty of women aren't interested in fucking their bfs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:26 PM
3

Plenty of men today are red pilled, maybe even the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:26 PM
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Spot on. The women want it all, privillegies from the old society and the benefits of freedom from the modern one. While men do not get any benefits at all. Women are smarter and more capable than men yet they will still want to use the gender roles to get gibs bc they are women while a man is the protector and provider
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:35 PM
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Everyone that's not from Western Europe, USA, Canada,Australia etc is "insane about gender". And growing number of people in the West are actually agreeing with it nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:16 PM
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She'd be "signaling to the society" if she were having sex with the guy but lying to people that they weren't having sex yet. However in her case she's signaling something to the guy( that he's beta)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:58 PM
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I'm a woman and she's 100% right. Most women don't wanna admit this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:47 PM
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That's not settling for men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:35 PM
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Bc they aren't in your life except in your fantasy and they want you to go
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:24 AM
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Why would you shut a person who doesn't want you around out of your life? Guys like those are following these women around, they should just take a note and stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:36 PM
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You tell on yourself with that one. You want to shame men for looking out for themselves and being able to choose. It's good for the woman from the "developing country" and it's good for the man as she will cost him less than a Western woman? It's a good deal and it's none of your concern. Also this view promotes racism towards women in developing countries as not being worthy of love or having less value than a white woman. We should be post racism in 2022
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:47 PM
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He implies that it could be a shit test? I think OP means that the woman wants to be condescending towards him so I'm simply pointing out she might not even be considering him like that. It's more "I just hope this guy would just leave me alone"rather than "oh, he's showing weakness and I thought he was better than that, lets set him straight"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:22 PM
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It's racist to assume that Mexican women are fail
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:20 PM
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Only for those who mistake insecurity with niceness. But anyway, guys like nice girls
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:13 PM
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If a woman is attracted to you, she'll be attracted to your vulnerability and try to mother you. Their reaction just shows that this girl wasn't attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:53 PM
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In many cases the woman isn't even toying with him, she just has him friendzoned and going about her day while he's walking around with those thoughts. Like, that's clear disinterest on the woman's part and not even trying to be hurtful or condescending
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:48 PM
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This is bs. I would react like that if I didn't like the guy or thought he was pathetic. Girls like it when Chad is sad, that's when the motherly instinct kicks in. An attractive guy has a good blend of strength/weakness, while an unattractive guy is just kinda there. But somebody has to care about you first in order to feel sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:38 PM
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IG models are photoshopped and editted to high gods, they all have makeup, fake hair, clothes, etc. And most of them have plastic surgeries. At least the women in porn show what they can do to please a guy. That's far more important than watching a pic of a girl with perfect nose and well done makeup/ fake blonde weave. Aren't you supposed to have sex with women, like that's our primary function?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:32 PM
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Well, men watch porn while women watch lingerie models obviously? Duh. Lingerie models target market is women while pornstars are appealing to men. All the perfect faces you see are photoshopped, the women are overstyled anyway. Are you going to pretend you do not watch porn? Do you jerk off to VS models instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:36 AM
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You're definitely in the minority then, if you like lingerie models over pornstars. That kind of girl is called "girl hot" and guys do not usually find them that attractive. It's the girl that girls wanna be like. Maybe you think of status and validation instead of sexual entertainment? Isn't that maladaptive strategy because girls with perfect faces/bodies do not even exist? It's all makeup, styling and photoshop anyway and you do not get any benefits of that fake stuff sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:32 PM
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Actually it's more important to men that a woman is sexual than "pretty", there are pretty women who lack sex appeal and are seen as boring while there are hot porn stars who men fantasize about and who do not look like those scientific perfect faces. I know it disqualifies them from commitment for many men, but they do find them attractive I find that mostly women like hot models from fashion magazines with perfect features, guys would rather take a sex crazed girl even if she's less perfect lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:19 PM
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Personality actually adds to the sex appeal, no man wants a picture of a pretty woman to look at. A woman has to be sexual, not just pretty I saw plenty of conversations between men when one mentions "crazy" or "borderline" girls, others relply with "she is probably crazy in bed" without knowing what she looks like. So the thought of a crazy woman makes plenty of men interested in sleeping with her, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:18 PM
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Yepp. And perhaps it would be logical if one believes that 80/20 rule applies to men it would also apply to women, but they just don't wanna acknowledge that women have same struggles. This kind of dishonesty helps no one I recently talked to a guy who said women only want above average 8+ men but men are attracted to 5s aka men have much lower standards when it comes to looks. Then it turns out he thinks that VS models are 5's LOL. Yeah, he thinks that's the average woman. Those men basically l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:08 PM
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There are plenty of women who want to sell sex willingly and even more who disagree with your rigid taliban mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:29 PM
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Those men usually think that all women are IG models with high n-count, so the thing is actually the average woman is invisible to them since they only consume porn and media and never leave their rooms. They cannot realistically know how good or bad the average woman has it since he never sees her, and when he does he isn't attracted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:25 PM
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Yes, it's possible today because inceldom is an all time high and there are so many adult virgins lol we live in interesting times. Like, there was a time when it was really weird to be unmarried and childless at that age...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:21 PM
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Yeah the society has changed to the point that nerdy stuff and introversion is in fashion now, something that was unthinkable like 30-40yrs ago. Everybody is awkward, inceldom is high etc so those studies are bs. If anything, people are very jealous of sexually active people these days
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:19 PM
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But personality is "played" and it's fake. It's created in interaction with others snd is not the same as who you are to yourself. Maybe you're taking yourself way too seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:05 PM
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People with a different perspective who can forget about that "reality" and live their lives are much happier. It's all in your head. And life is too short for that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:03 PM
5

Definitely true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:20 PM
1

How is it projection? It's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:04 PM
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Yeah, you could say that. I'm proud of making my bf's mom uncomfortable if that's what he wants lol. I usually make women uncomfortable in general and I've always been closer to men in my life. It's unconscious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:03 PM
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You said "if they are fickable", which could mean that's why you find them attractive in the first place, since you put women in those two different cathegories? I've encountered lots of men on reddit who think drama girl equals hot or BPD equals good in bed? I find this to be the male equivalent of a hot"bad boy". This thinking fosters seeing only these types of people as attractive and pursuing them while normal/nice people are seen as boring
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:08 PM
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My bf said he prefers a girl his mom wouldn't aprove of lol But women aren't generally partial to hot women, not even within family
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:54 PM
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I have always got the impression that younger men care about what other men think when they go after a certain girl. Do you think you are in a minority here or do you agree that men generally go after what their bro's find attractive? Is this an age thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:53 PM
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They aren't attracted to fat women, they are just desperate. The problem is that majority of women in the society are fat, especially with age so that's the only thing they can get and in the end they might accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:50 PM
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Everyone can just fuck a bunch of girls if he lowers his standards enough. But what's impressive is to have sex with HOT girls bc that's a chalenge
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:47 PM
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I always wondered how these people were thinking, I mean they have to be realistic and accept the fact that most people really do not want to be with damaged people seriously. I think they naturally attract people who will use them, because serious people are repelled. Yet the always demand how other people should be patient with them, even having a long list of demands without realizing that what they themselves bring to the table isn't much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:59 PM
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Would you say people like this are worthy of investing in? Like,why would anyone want someone like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:36 PM
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I meant why would you want one? Of course there are, girls aren't born non-virgins. But they shouldn't be your target group. Men like you usually do not go for girls who are virgins. And btw there are more female adult virgins than ever before in modern history, all the seasoned players I've talked to know this. That's why they aporeciate a real hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:31 PM
2

And yet it's the Western men who do not want women like you ,and they should be your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:25 PM
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Why would you want a chaste woman if you have lived a sinful life yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:23 PM
1

Whatever, your game seems to be acting condescending or something:D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:07 AM
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You shouldn't have "expected" anything, I'm just throwing your own logic at you lol Anyway you cannot even defend your own beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:51 PM
1

So there's no biology, no feminine/masculine, and everyone is just for themselves? That's like dumber libertarianism/Satanism. I'm sure TRP cares a lot about what's feminine/masculine tho, that's why it even exists. It's actually quite easy to be that way, without and guidelines
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:56 PM
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So the point is to realize that the world is shitty and one has to become shitty oneself in order to survive? That kinda takes away power from men who always have built societies, like right now that's not possible or something. I see accepting and adapting as more feminine since that's what women always have done, and I have seen either TRP or PuA encourage men to look how women behave and emulate that behavior lol. From what I have seen, it encourages men to adapt to women way too much while a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:08 PM
1

It's gross to judge people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:27 PM
0

Then what's the point of the ideology if it's individualistic? I assumed the beliefs were based on biology which cannot be individualistic since it sees men/women as groups and can therefore predict an outcome, for example. That sounds anti-social. And deterministic. They cannot be pro self- improvement but Machiavellistic at the same time, it's just simple selfishness then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:26 PM
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Disregarding old times science like you do shows that you're close-minded and ignorant. Do you always look down on old cultures? Also, how old is religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:21 PM
1

Aren't most FDS women black?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:41 PM
0

Sounds like people who are willing to be poor and become slaves in the future, all bc of laziness. No wonder people speak of "Great reset" when oridinary people support such lifestyle. I never realized how it was connected. Crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:30 PM
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Why wouldn't they want to date each other if their outlook is similar?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:24 PM
2

I believe a good chunk of these guys are actually gay or asexual and use those reasons as an excuse in case anyone wonders why they are single. Surprisingly many men aren't interested in sex/relationships yet our culture pushes this as a norm and ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:17 PM
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People can pretend to be happy or try to forget their unhappiness. The life has to go on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:14 PM
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For the similar reason why people criticize or joke about their culture/ethnicity but aren't welcoming towards others,non-members who do it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:06 PM
2

You need to look up the history of astrology. It was always practiced by men back when it was legit science. Equally many men believe in it, even though it might be more of a leftist/hippie thing in modern times hence why it is kinda associated with women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:45 PM
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Astrology was a legit science back then and it was societies led by men who believed in it. It's like saying women are dumb bc they believe in God
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:41 PM
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I'm assuming people are speaking of the average guy when they talk about masculinity declining, and not characters in tv shows? It could be exactly the reason why everyone is speaking of masculinity and looking up to fictional characters- because it is in decline and many people do not even know how to define it? I think we are living in weird times where we are shifting from the feminist ideal man to a more masculine ideal that we cannot define properly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:27 PM
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Girls aren't submissive towards sexist self- proclaimed "nice guys" who struggle with girls. They might be timid in rl, but we see on the internet what they are really like
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:24 AM
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A man can be a nice guy who think he's "kind and agreeable", and he is in a way, but at the same time he's what one would describe as "misogynist, sexist". So those two aren't even separate cathegories. The difference is attractive vs unattractive, unfortunately. This isn't always the case, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:21 AM
1

That's called polyandry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:13 PM
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Dominant female to me is like a Femme Fatale. Really sexy women usually have some male personality traits, as 100 percent feminine is a bit boring. Or you could say Stacy is alpha and Becky/Karen is beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:30 PM
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It just doesn't look good for a woman to say she doesn't like sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:39 PM
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I've seen it on reddit and other places multiple times. Very weird obsessions with marrying, dating, having sex with multiple women as some proof of masculinity or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:55 PM
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Nope, it doesn't feel good for a large group of women but it's taboo to admit bc men wouldn't want to have relationships with women anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:50 PM
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That's great:)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:29 PM
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No it's because average women have lower sex drive but usually pretend to like sex in the dating phase just to get the man to commit. Nowadays you need to pretend to be slutty and have porn sex in order to get a bf. And of course after they get the comitment, the mask slips Women with high sex drive( those exist too) do not end up in dead bedrooms, but they are a minority of women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:50 PM
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Not true, like I said it's short girls or fatties
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:47 PM
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Well, that's sad. Everyone thinks of USA as pretty conservative here in Europe. I know there are still places in the USA that are pretty trad while others are poorer or more liberal? To me, it looks like Americans are more conservative than Europeans on average. But I'm surprised to see how entitled and spoiled the American women seem on here, though. It sounds like the problem you're describing mostly applies to young white guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:44 PM
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And how did it turn out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:28 PM
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Not if the elites provide enough distractions for the mob. I think we have plenty of these today, pics and videos of naked girls, video games, reddit, youtube, gyms etc. So the men just fantasize and hope they'll finally get a girl when they get those abs, improve themselves or whatever. The common man didn't have all those distractions back then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:27 PM
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You either get guys to simp for you or you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:23 PM
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I do not require a man to look hot in order to be attracted to him? But the vast majority of men do not look like male models, they are just average. Most girls do not even get much male attention. You always exaggerate on here about how good the women have it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:22 PM
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Of course you can change your thinking if it's destructive. Pizza might taste good but it's bad for your health and it's all matter of self-discipline. We aren't slaves to our own instincts. And a lot of attraction is shaped by the culture, media etc so it doesn't even come from your biology. In the end, you decide what matters to you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:02 PM
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Hot girls aren't that naive and do not fall for bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:56 PM
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The vast majority of women do not date hot men in their youth. This is a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:50 PM
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Do you not think we have enough of hypocritical complaining culture and virtue signaling tho? Like, what's the point of calling a behaviour bad if you'll be doing that thing in like 10 min and so will everyone else if it's normalized?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:46 PM
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He'll do that naturally if you're hot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:43 PM
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Then it's not a simp you're describing. Simp is a pathetic guy who simps for OF girls on the internet that he will never meet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:41 PM
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The only women who want simps are those who want to take advantage of a man. And those are usually the women who are lonely and aren't attractive enough to get any simps in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:40 PM
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Ok. But most people on here are Americans and polygamy is a subject I often see in discussions. That's so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:36 PM
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Yeah, that's my point. Men would rather commit suicide alone than gang up and revolt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:32 PM
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It feels like men complain and then are off to OnlyFans
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:31 PM
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I think guys are pretty content with simping on the internet and just complaining on reddit. The porn has never been available before in history like it's today so men's needs are alredy fullfilled
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:21 PM
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Go date good girls who were raised in intact families then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:19 PM
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You Americans are weird with this talk of polygamy, n-count, Chads etc. You remind me of Middle Eastern culture and I'm European. Why are you this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:08 PM
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This doesn't apply to current times, bc most young guys are sexless yet they will never get together and revolt. You could say even today a minority of guys get sex while majority do not, and it's fine. No mass rape or murder
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:59 PM
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Women do not rate men like that, this is a misconception that men have
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:55 PM
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Guys should gang up with each other then, there are other cultures in the world whose example you can follow. It's logical that a woman cannot raise a man to be a proper man I didn't know guys were raised by single mothers like that in the USA, statistics say it's mostly black men? And they do have strong brotherhood. Yeah, I figured that out, some guy at my work was talking to me about Jordan Peterson and he was surprised that I hadn't heard about him. Turns out he's a daddy figure to fatherles…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:38 PM
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The only girls I know who prefer tall men are short and/or chubby. I think you guys are too fixated on height, in terms of looks women prefer face over height
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:34 PM
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Just stay away from annoying short women with bad genetics. Us normal women do not care. 5'0 is pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:30 PM
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If a man isn't mentally masculine and alpha his height doesn't matter. It's not like a tall lanky nerdy boy will be able to protect anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:29 PM
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Men who are the most attracted to it tend to complain the most. So whenever I see a dude bring up the subject of OF girls for the 22th time, I know he has a thing for them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:02 PM
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Do you tell those things you said to other men and how do they react, do they agree with you? It seems to me like all the guys say this, but the number of simps tell another story...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:51 PM
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I meant why would any normal man follow those dumb society rules that makes him unattractive to women? I mean rejecting toxic masculinity and caring about being PC or whatever? Seems like only beta losers/nice guys would fall for that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:45 PM
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Why would they reject what's good for them and fullfills their needs in order to please the society? Seems like a dumb move to me And please, there's no "toxic masculinity", and I'm a woman. Women hate the lack of masculinity and whiny, clingy guys. I encourage my bf to be with his male friends and in his own space which I have set up for him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:10 PM
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They mean you should open up about your feelings towards them and some of your vulnerabilities( concerning them). They do not want to hear you whining about your job, your mom, etc. A man can be sexy sensitive and brooding, or whiny and irritating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:15 PM
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Are all men like that or do sportsmen,gang members etc work differently? I know there is a bro culture, do you think more men should be s part of it? Like, in some cultures the brotherhood is strong and the men view women as broodmares more than anything else. I doubt men depend on women's emotional support to the same degree there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:00 PM
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Daycare is run by women where boys are bullied and are made to behave like girls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:02 PM
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Often? No. Do you go for drug addicts?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:06 PM
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I meant most younger men today have been in daycare and yet they are incels. I wonder how you came to the conclusion that more daycare- less incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:00 PM
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According to the poll I saw in an article in my European country most Millennial women wanted to be SAHM. I know many women who would like that lifestyle especially as the American culture is so visible to us, but it's not available bc in Europe women are required to work. That's why I think it's a luxury that American women have and yet they can't handle it. They are either feminist rebels, or they just parasite on the men while being way too high maintenance. Women in Europe are much lower mai…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:58 PM
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American women have privileges we can only dream of in Europe, and yet they always screw up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:21 PM
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Most young incels have gone to kindergarten?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:17 PM
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Physical beatings? You poor thing:(((
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:09 PM
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They are the same as Western women. What would the difference be if they are born and raised in the West? They are practically Western, it's not like looks/skin color matter here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:55 PM
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Majority of Western men will pick an "easy" girl over the one that's saving herself for marriage. So, parts of feminism benefit men. It's those parts that feminists sold to men in order to advance, it's just that there are other parts of feminism- radical feminism that do not benefit men as much that men complain about. Basically, without feminism you'd have to marry a woman before you have sex with her. And then you'd have to provide for her. Most men seem to not want that anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:53 PM
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Yes, this is definitely true, but quality men get picked by women so they are rarely single and desperate enough to approach. Or they know that women will approach them first
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:49 PM
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This is true but they do it to hold hotter women down and disminish competition. Example: slutshaming
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:47 PM
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It's known that women mostly hate and compete with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:11 PM
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If women leave then who will you date online? It's already majority men on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:57 PM
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I think meeting ppl, being friends first, meeting through friends or something like that would make it easier. Most guys who cold approach make it obvious that they're desperately aporoaching any woman and thus haven't chosen her in particular. And he could still be a serial killer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:45 PM
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So you see Thai girls who are young and look like models? And they treat the men like kings? Because that's what delusional men in this thread expect
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:54 PM
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But men encouraged sexual liberation of women in hope to get laid. That's feminism. Men also like slutty women more than prudish,conservative ones. Not all feminism is pink hair, nose ring,obesity, radical feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:51 PM
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Then it seems like you'll have to accept Western women because they are your true match
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:48 PM
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Yeah, my mother's family is very Slavic and all the females are domineering and rule with an iron fist at home. It's a myth that the women are submissive, for sure. I bet they advertized themselves that way in the80's hope to get a rich American man or something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:38 PM
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This isn't true tho, those women who go after Western guys know what to expect and they aren't seen as "normal" in their own cultures anyway. Because a normal woman marries a man from her own culture while still young. I'm from Eastern Europe. Those girls are usually leftovers, they can be really crazy. Many are just gold diggers. And EE women are way stronger and streetsmart than passive entitled Western women. But it's true that the girls wont be what the guys hope for
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:25 PM
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Most western guys have accepted feminism to some degree. Men had all power in the society and then gave it to women. It's not like they were forced
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:15 PM
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The men in this thread are talking of young beautiful Asian women. That's why I'm saying it wasn't my observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:51 PM
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So you see Swedish guys with hot young skinny Asian chicks? I have seen plenty of average to good-looking men in their 30-40's with plain looking even ugly Asian wives. I worked as a teacher in a Swedish school, one teacher was a quite good-looking 40 y.o. whose Thai wife worked as a cleaning lady in the school- he fixed her the job. She looked his age and was very plain. Another coworker was 30y.o and his Asian girlfriend was oberweight and acted like a Western woman. A lot of guys in the town …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:45 PM
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I have lived in Sweden and I can tell you that Swedish guys get with ugly and older Asian women who they treat in the same way as they treat Swedish women. I mean they cook for them, buy groceries, take kids out, the wife works etc. The Swedish men are always much better looking than the Asian woman they're with. I worked with a Swedish guy who looked like Henry Cavill and his gf was an older and plain Asian woman So it's not much of a "win".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:45 PM
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It's the Western men who made the Western society and learnt their women to demand things from them, behave how they want w/o consequences. So wouldn't that mean they just take their own problematic culture that results in women being entitled and selfish and destroy other cultures/women? Kinda like they say about immigrants, they take their problems to the new country
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:35 PM
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If she's your "ex" then how are they any different from Western women, tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:31 PM
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How come most American/Western guys hate their own women who are religious, call them prudes and pay them dust, only to compliment other nations women for the same thing? Growing up in the West as a traditional woman and getting a boyfriend is very difficult. Especially if you don't wanna have sex before marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:24 PM
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But isn't the cultural differences a positive thing since those men do not want a Western woman anyway? If you can get a more loving and traditional wife, it's totally worth putting up with some minor inconveniences and differences?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:58 PM
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That kinda confirms that Western men look up to/feel jealous of sucessful white collar men and not unemployed men, right? Yeah, they see those as a threat but they see slackers as parasites. Respect and hate vs disdain and pity. But it still dehumanizes those groups. Racism doesn't benefit men at all, it benefits women. Who can fool around with those men and then make up things afterwards when they do not feel like it anymore. The women are seen as the "prize" and men fight for them. You should …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:36 PM
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Wagie rage can be fatal tho. That's not looking good for the immigrant groups at all. At least Germans are direct people, those in your country are passive-agressive racist and toxic. They will try to make innocent people's lives hell if the have the opportunity. That's playing with fire. Extreme nationalism and xenophobia will get worse with more inceldom. They tend to turn against other groups of men rather than realizing that they should direct it towards women and the government instead Coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:53 PM
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But people do not think like you. When people hear something like that, their attitude towards those people gets worse. And right now, the immigrants are getting a lot of shit from natives bc of the whole political situations and the pandemic. It's just an argument that's used by racist people for a reason so I know what effect it has- the opposite from the one you're trying to get. Hearing about immigrants not working makes their blood boil. I think everyone is much lazier today especially in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:00 PM
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I'm sorry but you just sound like racist ppl who talk shit about immigrants rather than praising them for not working. Idk what you wanna achieve but it doesn't sound good... I mean every Western male would think "lets kick these ppl out of my country" rather than "they are so cool, I'll stop working too". Spreading racist stereotypes that harm people isn't cool and you're an immigrsnt too. Russian, at that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:34 PM
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Looool in the West everyone looks down on those groups, if anything the Western men will try to stick to those things that make them "superior" to them like be more feminist and work more. And continue trying to "save" Western and women from 3rd word from these types of men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:15 PM
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You seem extraverted tbh. Just not bubbly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:33 PM
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A lot of things that are normalized today are unappealing. Like being fat, for example
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:19 PM
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Ok. But I was talking about the culture, not race.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:43 PM
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Do you think the cultural differences between Japan and the rest of the world could be relevant in this, though? Like, the Japanese are known to be...well different
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:42 PM
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Well I'm a woman who knows other women,which means I know what I'm talking about. I appreciate male perspective on male psyche
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:28 PM
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Lol I doubt you're passive, you come off as extremelly dominant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:39 PM
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Didn't you say that men like whores and hate educated and working women, tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:31 PM
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There is always a reason you're attracted to certain fantasy. It's usually because you're attracted but at the same time repulsed. Those genres are exciting especially for bored people. I think many people wish to be stars in series or video games to escape boredom. Right now, there is unusually huge demand for dystopia and period dramas for a reason. People always comment how life was better and much simpler back then. Or they compare the dystopia to the worl we live in, for example the big bro…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:52 PM
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It could mean something, liking anything tells a lot about your personality. It could mean you're a bored nerd. Being drawn to certain literatture, phylosophies etc isnot a coincidence. In today's society it's a lot about escapism into some sort of sexual fantasy or more exciting world
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:43 PM
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The Western beta males do not have it in them and the motivation to do so isn't there when we have the internet to occupy ourselves with. GenZ guys cannot even look at a girl walking in front of them who can't even know if she's been observed or not. They look in the floor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:43 PM
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You'd need to read between the lines. The enthusiasm about the series and imagining the scenarios are huge
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:37 PM
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Wait, don't you always say that Patriarchy isn't coming back and men do not want the 50's lifestyle that only benefits women? Personally I do not see 50's lasting even if they came back, we did that once and it turned into the 60's we can't have that process again. I feel like more men will convert to Islam or something rather than go that route I think it's up to the individual now, not the government. I see plenty of people want to have a traditional lifestyle and many children. We do not need…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:31 PM
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They are hypocrites so they want traditional in the way that suits them only. Real traditional guys aren't on here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:20 PM
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I fully believe that book/series is just s sex fantasy that many women have. I have read some comments from when you can clearly see that the women wish they could live in a "dystopian future" like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:14 PM
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This sounds like the fanfiction you're getting off on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:11 PM
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Yeah, second generation immigrant women are femcels in Germany. They will definitely become the face of the future feminism and leftism. But men from those countries would rather import a woman from the homeland or reproduce with a German woman. The men are still reproducing, anyway. I actually doubt it they saw source of cheap labour in countries where people are analphabets and deeply religious? Honestly, the media is the enemy of the people. They just want to divide and conquer, they write ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:49 PM
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I see more ordinary people wanting this, especially more younger people out of loneliness, but not the government or politicians. And this isn't even the majority of people, just a growing number. They are currently pushing liberal propaganda? And more young women are in college and working than young men. But they'll have problems with GenZ not wanting to work ordinary jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:27 PM
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This is the first time I'm hearing immigration has reached the end. The west will never stop being popular destination to Africans and Middle-Easterners? Idk everywhere I look I see overpopulation concerns and government destroying the nuclear family, tradition etc. Some conspiracy theorists say the leaders in West want to replace the native European population with non-whites. If they wanted higher birth rates then why are they pushing transgenders and teaching boys to be feminine, for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:11 PM
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Governments just import immigrants. And plenty of politicians and high-profiles are against overpopulation, maybe it just is going according to the plan? They say climate change is the biggest threat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:55 PM
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Trad is all about social contract and strict following rules. I do not make the rules, that's the point you camnot just do whatever you want and call yourself whatever you want. You ain't trad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:52 PM
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Well, at least you are honest. I wish more people of both genders were self aware. Relationships aren't for anyone nor is parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:50 PM
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I pity you Americans, your system has produced the worst women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:44 PM
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You can find a traditional young woman in a rural area in either you own country or a foreign country A traditional man wouldn't even consider being serious about urban women, most likely he'd just use them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:43 PM
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What's wrong with the "boring" women, tho? I hope you do not think women are wrong for not wanting boring nice guys then. Maybe you just have unrealistic expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:39 PM
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If you're agnostic then you aren't trad. Seems like you simply think your views on sex make you trad. They just make you a boring modern Westerner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:36 PM
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Germany has more Stacies and of better quality than Sweden.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:03 PM
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My impression was that the Swedish men with Thai wives were feminists too, they were just really racist towards brown immigrants. They bragged about Swedish feminist culture how they treat women well and that's why their Asian wives fell for them, apparently. From what I saw in Sweden, they treat the Thai wives much like they treat Swedish women- they cook food, buy groceries, take the kids out etc. I've seen groups of Swedish men take their half-Asian kids out to see the movies. They do not lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:01 PM
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Chad doesn't have relationship with Becky.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:27 AM
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If a VS model is a 5 to loser men then how do they have luck in dating? They're obviously just used for sex and ghosted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:03 AM
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No way, this dude thinks a VS model is a 5 lool imagine how the regular girls compare Apparently, thin and attractive face is boring and not enough to be attractive. You need to be an upgraded VS model with "deal maker" facial features and plastic surgery to be above 5. So regular girls do not have much luck in the dating game,they are just getting used for sex and ghosted. Men want to wife up IG models What regular women look like and what you men think is a 5 cannot even compare. Average 20yo …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:55 PM
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Post famous girls who you find attractive then. The point is that your standards are ridiculously high since VS models are hotter than all the women you see outside, at your school, at the club etc. Regular women aren't good looking on that level
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:23 AM
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Sounds like some sort of inc3l dream about the Chad life that doesn't happen in reality where the ugly placeholder gets dumped. Men with options have standards and ugly chicks are a waste of time when you can get hot girls
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:12 AM
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All male models are attractive and as a straightwoman I'd fuck them all. If they aren't obviously gay, of course. I have my preferences but I can admit to a man being objectively attractive even if he's not my type
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:11 PM
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Why don't you post pics of girls you find attractive? I'm curious to see what they look like. Vs models are better looking than girls you know in rl, so it's interesting to know how you rate them and how the regular girls compare
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:00 PM
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Give me some examples of attractive girls? Your perception seems to be skewed by filters and photoshop. So find a filter-free and unphotoshopped pic, thx So you admit that average women outside are 1-3? That would mean that you're only attracted to roughly 10 percent of women in the world since not even VS model level is enough to you. And no, you haven't got hotter women than VS models, otherwise they'd be famous models, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:52 PM
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You could just hold your mouth shut and do whatever you want? Turn them down politelly and not being an anti-social jerk? It's obvious your goal is to provoke and not to have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:33 PM
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Not dating is different than calling someone disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:31 PM
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But if you want an attractive woman that's way above a 5 which is what you previously stated all men want. You shouldn't be that picky with women's looks if you complain about women's standards while portraying men's standards as low. You're contradicting yourself. And your standards are unrealistic The point is that majority of female population, who aren't models look waaay worse than VS models. So they'd be completely invisible to you. They do not have any attractive features. If a VS model i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:10 PM
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Nah I'm saying the ugly woman is being pragmatic as she is old and has realized that she either has to settle for her looksmatch or die alone. The ugly man is delusional and a hypocrite. Neither is good and neither wants the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:59 PM
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If any VS model is a 5 to you then your standards are way to high. The average woman looks way worse than a VS model Sounds like you want the "ideal" IG chick then. And dude, you want "deal-making" features so an attractive face isn't even enough for you? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:55 PM
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Yeah it is. It's what women bring to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:52 PM
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It's weird to even think of black women as an option if you're a white man who isn't into black women. There's no need for that. It feels like you're taking extra steps to insult black women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:50 PM
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That's only bc you consider even bothering to throw a pick up line at your looksmatch to be some sort of charity. If they wanted to show women in a positive light then the hot chick would smile and turn him down politely and not walk past him like that. The looksmatch would ask him to come home with her and eat dinner. The ugly woman is pragmatic while the ugly man is a hypocrite in the comic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:45 PM
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Why would you, s a white man, go out of your way to show people that you are disgusted with black women? It's weird since no one expects you to be attracted to black women in the first place. Nor is it mandatory to anyone It feels like you're a black man who wants to troll black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:38 PM
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Those limitations are discriminatory towards men. Height filters out men, while weight filters out women. It'd only be fair if both or neither were allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:34 PM
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And you have never used a pick up line?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:28 PM
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They usually stop having high standards when they mature enough to realize their dream prince wont come along and it's time to settle down. I think they reject men because they know men will just use them and dump them later. Being an ugly woman is a very sad experience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:26 PM
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That doesn't mean anything as guys will pump and dump. She can't get a boyfriend, which is what she wants. Even the pool of desperate men who would have sex with her is limited
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:20 PM
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No way. They are invisible in reality. What's a 5 to you? I've heard guys calling VS models without makeup a 5 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:16 PM
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Like I said, you only think it's less prevalent because you do not SEE women complain about rejection. Because it's a social taboo among women to call yourself ugly and unwanted. It's a social difference between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:08 PM
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That's cheating, not dating both women. Having side-chick is not the same. But you'd never marry the ugly woman or have her as the main chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:05 PM
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What do you mean? Looks are the only currency that women have while men can be rich and have an attractive personality. Nothing helps an ugly woman. Woman also have a biological clock so it's waay more important to them to reproduce in a stable family
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:03 PM
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Most women do not have the looks, tho. You are looking at like 20 percent of the women at highest
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:01 PM
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You cannot fool women into feeling attracted to you by making them pity you. I wonder who sold you this dream, some PuA?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:59 PM
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Ugly women are constantly rejected, they just do not talk about it as it's seen as extremely shameful to be rejected as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:56 PM
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Why would anyone continue to date the ugly woman? Lol the ugly woman gets dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:54 PM
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He was very delusional and wasn't into women at all. He wanted to feel rejected bc he didn't want to deal with having sex. I think he was asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:52 PM
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You read into it way to emotionally. There's nothing virtuous about what she did, talking to your looksmatch is virtuous? Is that how you see talking to ugly women, God I'm such a Saint?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:39 PM
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Nope, other women find that woman to be a loser and someone to pity/laugh at. They'll tell her you deserve the world queen, but really they are just happy to be superior to her. Most women are unfortunately double faced. It has to do with men having a sex drive that makes them desperate. But they never view the ugly woman as gf material and use her as a place holder until something better comes along. Everybody knows that a woman shouldn't be rejected so it makes it even worse for the individual…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:33 PM
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This doesn't portray women as nice and pureat all lol. If that were the case then the hot girl would have been nice to him. It only shows that unattractive people do not want other unattractive people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:27 PM
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Both genders reject the ugly people but you do not see women complaining about rejection nearly as much as men do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:26 PM
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Ugly women cope by bragging and showing a brave face to the world. Women aren't supposed to be miserable. It's a shame for a woman to be rejected. And lately, it has been more acceptable for men to talk openly about not getting women which makes it easier for the individual man to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:24 PM
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Men want the top hottest only but don't mind sleeping with the less hot chicks. And will flatter them just to get in their pants. Men have sex drive which makes them have "more reasonable distribution" of attractive women. This doesn't mean they wont trade up for the hottest girl if they get a chance, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:20 PM
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Why can't everyone just accept that both genders do this? No one wants the average people and everybody hates the ugly people. No needs for a discussion about who does it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:18 PM
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Do you think there are many men out there who wouldn't trade jealous women for more chill and open minded women? I'm thinking of the ones who love drama and feeling like they need the upper hand in a relationship. I have met some men that seem to enjoy making their gfs jealous. It makes them feel needed. Idk if these are more feminine dudes, alot of them seem to be Scorpios. I'm also a woman who is fine with my bf banging other chicks, but I have heard from some people that my bf might think I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:41 PM
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I never see this huge interest from dudes like you towards us younger women in rl. You'd think with the whole red pill there'd be more guys hanging around high school, college, looking to marry young girls or change the culture back to when it was completely acceptable. Yet so many young girls are single, living at home and get no attention from older men like you. I'm 24. Literally no older man wants to date a young girl under 20 even tho inc3ls swear 20 is the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:52 AM
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She's far from the only woman with this opinion. There is a growing number of young women out there who see those things from the same perspective. I feel like we have moved away from the "sex positive" collective thinking as a norm. We are criticizing a lot of things regarding relationships, porn etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:21 AM
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Exactly, that was my point. Yet there are so many men out there who are resonating like OP. The truth is simply both men and women are lying when asked what they prefer and when giving out advice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:35 PM
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Men wife up whores all the time and are quite loving and simping towards those they cannot wife up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:01 PM
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But they want whores and would give anything to be with them So they're lying. Girls think Chads are fuckboys yet want them still. The point is everyone is lying to beta boys and beta girls
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:32 AM
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Exactly sis, you're a Queen who deserves the world!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:49 AM
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You do not deserve the best just bc you have been thru shit lol. That sounds like some uplifting bs fat women hear from their girlfriends. Also women's currency is looks, not money. So if you're poor but hot as a guy, then hot poor girls are out of your league
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:31 AM
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What's the difference then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:57 AM
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Intelligent women are kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:34 AM
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But it's a bunch of lies, as everybody knows. Hence they're as lying as the women OP is complaining about ...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:33 AM
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What your mom told you is nothing special nor upsetting. Telling you to show basic human decency to other humans isn't even a dating advice. Also you want to teach your daughter that so you can "protect yourself and other men out there" , kinda like what you think your mom did? Kinda hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:40 AM
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They often give stupid advices to their daughters such as to not date and stay virgin. We all know guys like thots and not prudes. "Be a smart career woman" aka be a woman I wouldn't sleep with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:36 AM
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This is every single guy I have asked or heard talking about it. The point is that OP thinks only women are this way Nope, girls that guys find hot aren't easy to find, the fact that you think so means you think internet is real life. But stop pretending that "intelligence" matters. Or true kindness for that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:03 AM
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I asked them and they said thots and hot girls have over inflated egos and aren't gf material. Also their body types with plastic surgery aren't attractive, especially their personalities. They want average looking girls with intelligence, education and all that jazz
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:46 PM
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No they deny the second part and highlight the first part after I ask them the question. They ALWAYS say they hate thots and hot women because they haven't ddveloped brains or personality because of all the attention they get. And "only shallow men like them". They especially hate boob jobs, lip fillers etc lol Also you have one hell of a high standard if you want all that, good luck dude:D but we all know looks is everything, oher stuff is just additional info
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:44 PM
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So why do they tell me they want intelligent and kind women while following TikTok and IG girls, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:33 PM
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Men also contradict themselves. I have been told by several men they want an intelligent woman with a nice personality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:09 PM
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Have you considered there might be different types of women, so listening to one type's advice wont help you with the other? Also, women(and most men actually) are incredibly PC and wont tell you openly what they think as it's not wise in today's society Also I believe it's men's job to teach boys how to be men so you cannot blame women for that one. Seems like the dad failed his son
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:07 PM
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No. If you approach a girl that you do not know, then you have to pay since you are the one that's more interested in her/sex than she is into you. The one that's more thirsty pays, no matter what gender. It was your idea from the beginning so you're the one paying. That's how this American dating/PUA thing works. If you do not pay then the whole thing will feel stupid and she will wonder what she's even doing with you since she wasn't even interested from the beginning If you are looking for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:07 PM
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Yes, definitely. I know guys closely, talk to guys both irl and online But it might be a younger Millennial thing too. I know people of both genders who are so lonely they get a dog or their best friend is an old person they take care of or a kid they're babysitting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:33 AM
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A guy paying for dates is still ideal and expected to most women. I have never heard a girl bragging about splitting the bill. That girl needs to come to terms with the fact that she isn't attractive to you. Most guys in the dating scene are waaay more thirsty than the girls hence all the complaining from the incels, and it's always the thirsty ones that are paying. So for the girl to split the bill and such, she needs to be desperate and want you but in that case she might as well even pay for …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:30 AM
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Thank you, I will look up Grand Seiko:) I do not know any Zoomer guy who wears watches, but my bf and I do appreciate the old times men's fashion lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:23 AM
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Uhhhh I'm a student so I do not have that money:/ I'd like to buy him a nice watch someday tho:(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:25 PM
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They are all very expensive, but thanks. I'll keep that in mind if I ever become rich. Do you have any tips on how to chose a watch that's like mid price? What functions does it need to have and what dhould it look like? I kinda got turned on by a watch I saw on a man who was my dad's age and idk if that's even appropriate for my bf, it looked classy and masculine. Nothing sporty impresses me, really
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:14 PM
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No matter what you say, most guys will never buy sex bc they want validation from women/society and real feelings, which they hope they will get. Many are lonely and want a woman who'll be their best friend and do things with them like camping in the woods, go climbing mountains and such. Many guys want this way more than they want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:09 PM
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I'm a woman and would like to buy it for my man, he's 24. I don't know much about watches but I think they're hot on men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:00 PM
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Do you know any watch that's not too expensive but still good and classy yet manly? For a younger guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:05 AM
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Boomers have turned everything upside down, then. And the world has still not recovered from them. It feels like all the problems started with Boomers and everyone still sees them ad the epitome of cool or even normal. The clothes, lifestyle, music. All the fashion has been recycled since. It's very true, I think my generation is more blackpilled on the importance of looks, while many older Millennial women are so oblivious. I still remember talking to some of them and they basically told me you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:20 PM
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I do but I'm not like other girls. Also why do not Millennial women try to get men's attention by dressing up for example, if that's true? I'm a Zoomer girl in heels and short skirts/dresses and I rarely see other women dress sexy, including Millennial ones
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:49 PM
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It's true that Zoomers find it creepy, it's a reflex thing. I cannot imagine telling a friend ahhh this dude is ogling me that's so hot! Or even thinking ohhh that's hot I'm jealous when another girl gets that kind of attention. We tend to think everything is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:37 PM
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This. You're describing a personality type, basically. You have to be born with an ability to read people/men and situations. I know this cuz I'm this type too. I can't believe your mom, based on the way you always describe her, would do that? I imagined her to be a woman who isn't even aware of condoms/sex especially when it comes to teens. So she's a typical Boomer after all?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:49 PM
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But like, not in tacky Gucci designer clothing but something that they think white upper Middle class wear. More like what the white women who want to attract rich men are wearing. High end brands or at least clothes that "look"expensive. So, like not hood rich but white rich, at least how it's depicted in media.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 08:43 PM
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Bougie is someone who tries to be higher class. So those girls are following tips on how to be feminine by black femininity bloggers or something, dress to look "expensive" etc, so they can get "I bet you only date white men" from black guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 08:00 PM
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Wow it must have been Law and Order in the society with men like those. So basically, the Boomer kids won the battle against the parents? Maybe bc they were too many and they had the institutions and the corporations on their side? Lool I see how GenX are our parents, it makes sense:D I realize I do not know much about older Millennial culture, I usually mix it up with younger Millennial culture which I'm familiar with. They are very different. They have a winner/loser culture in which they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:39 PM
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It's the Millennial feminism. You said that once and I can see that now. Not a chance in hell I'd ever be FDS. I have black girlfriends who are acting "bougie" just to have black guys chase after them. They aren't after white guys or rich guys. That reminds me of FDS but it's still not it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:22 PM
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My parents always say their own parents used to pester them about such things so they hate to pester their own kids. they are slackers too. They just want us to be happy and if we're currently happy it's what matters to them. They dislike tradition and mine wouldn't even put up a Christmas tree sometimes lol. They do not think so much about our future if it's not a huge problem, I think. They don't like to fix things for us, they wonder why we can't do it ourselves I feel like they are more seri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:39 PM
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This is true what you say about GenX. Both of my parents were against dating/marrying. By contrast, my aunt who's a Boomer liked to give advice to younger women in my family to sleep around. She is a cringy old woman who likes to be hip and cool and she likes plastic surgery, girls going to Dubai and stuff. My parents have always hated her attitude and said she likes the most vulgar, degenerate things in the society lol. Both of my parents are feminists lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 11:37 AM
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Younger women do not listen to older women tho, they listen to friends and influencers, women on reddit or other sites etc. I have always assumed that older women have no clue I think it's simply due to the fact that women aren't forced to do it anymore and there's no social stigma to being single as much as it used to be. Also, there are many things to entertain yourself in our culture as single
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 11:16 AM
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Omg I have seen that site, it basically fuels womens insecurity about facial aesthetic, hair, etc bc men there rate women based on how perfect their face and hair looks. Like, the space between the eyes and such. It shows that it's incel men who reinforce this shit and not women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:52 AM
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:D Nah he was very awkward and serious I doubt he meant anything other than dance lol. He asked which club we should go to and couldn't even understand that I wasn't interested
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:40 PM
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Millennials in the manosphere always bring up the dance floor tho. I had a younger Millennial guy ask me out and asked me if I would like to do something fun like go out and dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:48 PM
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There are legit anti-social types today who are happy alone pretending to be whatever they want and get attention. And they could be in a relationship if they wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:37 PM
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Education ruins common sense in most people. They need a source that the sky is blue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 10:52 AM
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Your IG faves look waaay worse, trust me on this. I have seen plenty of girls you guys follow and I know they have bad features and look bad w/o makeup. You men without experience can never tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:13 PM
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I see. I thought you were a harsh rationalist type according to MBTI, but now I know you are a romantic feeler, like myself. Lol no snooty person would call herself that, you are self-aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:26 PM
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Well, you look like Zoomers in that pic, except there are way fatter girls today. Doesn't prove that you were fatter, quite the opposite. But why are all of you wearing such shapeless clothes, I thought Millennials dressed better? It's hard to see body size in that pic. And you looked the same in that pic as you do now, I mean the face. Good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:17 PM
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But you aren't a bully, you are a good person and probably a Feeler deep down:) At least you aren't a hypocrite about things like so many Millennials, and you don't support the generic, uppity white Western culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:00 PM
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The younger people care and the current culture is like that, they are just jumping on the bandwagon. I have noticed some people that I follow suddenly speak on all the racism they have encountered, making videos on it etc. Wow that seems trully horrible, about Millenniall culture. I have always seem Millennials as merely being ineffectual left-wing with no heart in it. Like, white feminists or those hypocritical hipsters who are only doing it for fashion or likes. They are into superficial thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:25 PM
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I have seen Millennial non-whites claim racism but they do it in that Millennial unsympathetic, asshole-ish way and then they attack other marginalized immigrant group, probably black and treat them in the same way. They have internalized the white superiority so they are doing it all wrong and are being hypocrites. Zoomers do it right, if you are a victim you gotta be sad. I think they are seething underneath their cool facade bc of the unfair treatment they have received. You have mentioned Mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:32 PM
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Aren't young women fatter today than in previous generation? Girls weren't this fat in early 2000s, not a chance .We are more cute-awkward and way nicer tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:08 PM
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LOL he's definitely a virgin but larps as a sociopath bad boy:D You guessed correctly, the main people pushing this are GenX women who are in some sort of boss position between the team boss and main boss and they have promoted few women to some leading positions on teams, too. The company got complaints previously about not having enough women. There are also one male Millennial poc who's a boss on one of the teams, and he is also on board with racism accusations. He says he has always experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:55 AM
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Omg I have a Millennial guy like that at my work! he made me upset once when he criticized my work in that way. In fact, a Zoomer guy on my team wanted to get him fired for being nasty to him and he tried to persuade me to go talk to the boss together with him so we get him fired. We didn't and I just avoided the guy afterwards. So he wasn't being an asshole, he was just being a Millennial then? When I started at my workplace I was the only Zoomer but a year ago they employed several Zoomers. Re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:43 PM
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I understand:D also I used to think you were really intimidating when I started following you Millennials at my work are socially way better, I sometimes try to larp as them but it feels ridiculous. They are mini old people and they look down on us
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:16 PM
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I think girls from Third world are more eager to work an need money more so you can try with them. I'm thinking from the Western perspective. I hate working next to talkative Boomers for a long time. I just agree with whatever they say and smile and hope they'll take a hint and shut up or I look if I can go somewhere else. And I'm an extravert. I like working with a group of guys the most
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:04 PM
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You want someone to work beside you the whole time? I'd feel awkward LOL. I feel like a language barrier would work better cuz you don't have to talk the whole time. I doubt anyone would last very long time. I have a friend whose relative came from Eastern Europe to work in Germany and take care of an old woman. She wanted to take pics there for her social media. She stayed there for a short time, got depressed and ran back home Feels like we are talking about a lost alien:/ yeah acting like a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:48 PM
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I have no idea actually LOL I pictured you with a Colombian maid or something? I don't know any male/female who'd like to work as a maid. NEETs are hard to employ as they are not interested and do not want ordinary jobs. I don't know how poor people think, like those from Third world, maybe they would be grateful. I'm sure some lonely girls would like to take care of the kids but that's not what you're looking for? Lots of girls at my Uni have worked part time in Kindergarten
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:26 PM
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That's why ppl virtue-signal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:15 AM
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Those guys watch more porn tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:55 AM
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Ha! Dude met his match:D legendary! I'm surprised that Swedish men have such audacity, I wouldn't tell. You're welcome:)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:25 PM
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Did you tell that guy off? I have told a creepy stranger off myself a few times and they are usually shy and awkward types who usually stop bothering you. I try to do it in a nice and formal way. Nope you can't tell the orbiters off. We have to be nice and accommodating bc it's expected but you just hope he'll get a hint if you're humming or giving short answers...or rubbing your feet against some dude apparently lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:36 PM
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Ooooooh I feel so flattered:D Yeah I could guess she was irritated. The guy was unfortunately a beta orbiter. She wasn't after your husbant specifically it's kind of a silent protest when you're forced to spend time with an irritating guy. Once I was sitting on a bus with an orbiter of mine and started to have eye contact with an older guy who was standing in front of me. Because I was sick of listening to him. The guy followed me after I went off the bus:/ I would obviously never have done it o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:20 PM
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Weird, can't know for sure. But I'd do something like that while hanging out with a guy from school that I'm not into, especially if he couldn't stop talking. Could be nerves or irritation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:10 PM
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Those women are extremely selfish and guys deserve better. As a woman I'd never allow this, I'd make sure my man gets his needs met even if it means getting it from other women. Requiring something like that from a man is being unreasonable and something that will result in him cheating and having to lie, or leaving. There are women out there who buy prostitutes for their men, pay their visits to strip clubs etc. It means guys have seen better women and those selfish women will now have harder t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:27 PM
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Young guys are incels. This isn't normal but I get that some people have lower sex drive. I think it's fair to allow the man to go look for sex elsewhere during that time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:53 PM
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But such people shouldn't be in relationships in the first place, they should fix their health. If it's mental health then one benefits from sex, it makes you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:51 PM
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You are describing someone with a very low libido
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:31 PM
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Sex is a need for a human with a sex drive, not merely want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:23 PM
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Maybe you're a white knight?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:44 PM
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Maybe you're still biased because you perceive outgoing and confident men as assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:43 PM
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That's describing someone who is socially awkward. Narcissists are usually charming
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:41 PM
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It's popular among boys that counts, not popular among jealous Beckies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:13 PM
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Hotter girls cannot be less popular but they are usually controversial. They can only be rejected by jealous wannabe girls and the popular guys will still go for them. Only beta guys are sheep
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:09 PM
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Everyone preselects
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:07 PM
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Idk what you mean with ugly personality, have never heard that expression
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:03 PM
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I see you want to talk and avoid the real subject, but niceness means nothing. It's kindness that matters. Niceness is needed in jobs like cashier. Being a good boy who listens to the society and does whatever you are told because you are too cowardly and weak to do as you please is not attractive. Nor is it particularily nice or kind, it's just being obedient. Guys like that are often frustrated because they aren't really nice, they are like those "asshole" guys except they lack character and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:18 PM
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Ah but that's different since it's online. I know men are supposedly that way however I see nice guys in real life settings and they are usually pushovers with everyone and that includes other guys who are assertive and confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:44 PM
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Nothing out of ordinary that draws attention. So therefore boring and bland. It's not a bad thing, but it's what it is. And yes, if they are in the middle then they do not count as attractive nor unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:40 PM
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I meant "nice guys" who lack boundaries, are pushovers etc are unattractive. Idk what "regular nice guys" means to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:39 PM
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You implied that assholes are only assholes to women? I meant they should be "assholes" in general not just towards women, in order to count as legit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:37 PM
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Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:35 PM
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That's a strong cope and changing of the subject:D It's okay to be an unattractive nice guy, you can perhaps have a better life without having to deal with women. My bf has problems with getting me off of him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:59 PM
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Yeah natural is right, deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:57 PM
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You can look at countless of studies that have shown that women as a group score higher on agreeableness Are you a male feminist who denies that there are gender differencies? Being a male feminist is pathetic Quit the coping, those guys are not attractive to women that's the whole point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:39 PM
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No it's good genes because it was meant to be so. If you cannot reproduce with women then you lose, that's the whole point of evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:36 PM
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Who cares about science when it cones to attraction lol. It's a natural and primal thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:28 PM
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I like men who take on the leading role and decide. And do what they want, it's hot. Agreeableness is a feminine trait, sorry. And nice guys are always neurotic and passive-aggressive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:26 PM
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They are assholes too, they are just unnatractive and cowardly assholes who put on a nice facade. And aren't interesting enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:24 PM
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Those are overt narcissists. But nice guys are often covert narcissists which is same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:22 PM
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No those men you are trying to portray as good are objectively bad. No girl wants a guy who compromises, panders to her and is weak with everyone. That's bad genes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:20 PM
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Exactly, they are only qfter sex but pretend they are nicer and deeper than the "assholes". The only difference is, they lack the ability to attract women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:18 PM
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No, women like guys who are assertive with them, too. It's hot when a guy has boundaries. And I would get tired of a man who does whatever I tell him, even if he were assertive to others
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:15 PM
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Failure because he has bad genes. But he's a good person, only more of a friend material.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:14 PM
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Asshole should say that to other men as well, not only women. If he is eager to please other men out of fear then he is a coward
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:12 PM
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No, women want those guys that you call "assholes". "Nice guys" are unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:10 PM
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Average people aren't attractive hence why they are average?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:09 PM
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Average guy wouldn't be an asshole, probably just annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:09 PM
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Person B obviously. Idk why you are even making this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:59 PM
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Incels are shallow. And no one bothers to see through you Niceness is only a facade, at some point somebody will see behind that facade. If it's a good person behind, then it's fine. Real men have boundaries btw
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:57 PM
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Guys just see them as losers. If women can see through you then it's bad news. There goes the one trait you claim to possess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:47 PM
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I mean everyone knows that the self-proclaimed "nice guys" aren't nice at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:41 PM
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It's not assumption but truth, everyone can observe the behavior and when their mask slips or other actions do not align. Not to mention, we all know what they say on the internet. Weakness isn't kindness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:37 PM
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No they aren't kind, they are only agreeable because they are weak and cowardly. The stronger men know what those guys really are like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:32 PM
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Those guys are incels LARPing as assertive Chads. I have seen that. This is the way all incels speak on 4chan
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:31 PM
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Depends on what type of women those are, they sound like trash. And it seems you are confusing assertiveness with criminality Normal women want assertive and confident guys, trash women want criminals, no one wants male doormats
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:30 PM
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This is kinda pathetic to see everyone who isn't a weak doormat as an asshole. It is toxic because that kind of guy must have a hollier-than- thou attitude towards other men while he has an inferiority complex at the same time and is jealous. I cannot believe that any guy would somehow see being needy as normal, not to mention good or right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:26 PM
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Incels are often assholes themselves but they lack courage to show this outwardly. Instead, they are pleasing and pushovers but it builds resentment and bitterness inside them. They also hide shalowness that's often worse than that in more extraverted, confident guys because they are inhibited and have no way of letting it loose. A guy acting like an asshole might be a way better person than the shy and awkward guy. This is why "nice guys" is a fail, niceness means nothing while it's kindness th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:10 PM
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I feel like women listen to all those men on the internet who like big butts- fat or steroids and clown girls with small butts. Especially those gym freaks But it seems men are very much influenced by what's currently in and they do not always act as they say And in the 90's movies girls often ask "is my butt big in this?" We use that today as an example of how beauty standards changed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:49 PM
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...aaand it seems like skinny fit is in again! At least the fat butt and thighs are going away, even Kardashians are photoshopping themselves thinner
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:13 PM
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Lol no, they have higher standards bc of porn and IG girls, they think average girls are fat I have a guy in friendzone who I want to set up with a nice girl who likes him. He doesn't like her even though she's showing interest. He's even annoyed bc of that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:28 PM
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No, those are incel guys. Chad never simps for a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:26 PM
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Not from my experience, guys would rather hang with the hot girl and do not even notice the average girl subtly showing interest. Guys simp for hot girls on sm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:25 PM
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Usually not for men, at least not those social events that most women like
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:29 PM
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You don't have to change who you are to appease her. It's probably bc you aren't comfortable with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:28 PM
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Those fantasies are amusing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:27 PM
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Socialist red piller?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:25 PM
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Yes it is kinda annoying if they cannot stop talking in private with anyone lol. But it really depends on the conversation and character of said man. I can listen to smart or funny man talk, but not if he just goes on about boring mundane shit and details. But I know plenty of men cannot stop talking when interacting with a girl even though they probably are shy and quiet types in reality. It's obvious awkwardness and insecurity but it's completely fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:58 AM
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If you are a feminist as a man you deserve what you get. The whole ideology is about hating men and getting what they want, like eating a cake and having it. That's proper feminism. You mean you wish feminist to be physically more attractive? But the point of feminism is not caring about what men think and being fat/ happy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:55 AM
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Isn't it more rewarding to be friendzoned by a hot girl if you get to hang out with her than to be in a relationship with an average/unattractive girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:49 AM
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I would never expect from a man to comply to all these boring things. Social events are fake, that's why women like it. You shouldn't like it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:47 AM
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So you're okay with feminism, you'd just modify it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:43 AM
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This, in itself is very obvious, literally no woman is in denial about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:42 AM
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This is why we women do it, thanks for the encouragement!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:40 AM
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There are quiet and introverted women, too. Idk if it's a stereotype that women talk much, but I see it as auntie- ish behavior if they are going on and on about mundane things, especially nagging
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:32 AM
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Those are such boring mundane things that I find absolutely unnecessary and tiring and I'm a woman lol. She sounds like my mom
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:30 AM
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Blame the men who lack self respect to the point of complimenting fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:22 AM
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I know I should have callled you gay I'm surprised you realize that, your obsession with a roided dude and your flair says you love feminism:D He wasn't a Hollywood actor, that's different and I said women throw themselves at RICH and famous men but not bc they find the men sexually attractive but bc of their money lol. You think taking pics is proof of sex? LOL Why would I cope with not finding poor dead circus freak attractive? On reddit and anonymously?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:26 AM
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He didn't fuck any of the women, he just took pics with them. He was a brand and his target audience were delusional young incels, kinda like the Kardashians and other reality shows are for gullible women. It was all fake bs so he could sell his brand to dudes and gain popularity with taking pics of his butt, kinda like a woman lol They look like attention hoes posing with a freak in hope to get some more attention. There was no sex happening between them and him, he didn't even have a gf, it wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:20 AM
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I'm not really tradcon, just libertarian. I'm not into your condervative American lifestyle with entitled housewives etc. I'm just ashamed of people who draw dumb conclusions and hate the symptome instead of the cause. I'm kinda pro-life but it's not anything I care about as much as you Americans do. I do not criticize women for the views of their bfs/spouses as I have a life, but when I do criticize women I criticize feminism I'm not American, I live in Europe, but we have losers here who hate …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:44 PM
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Looks aren't what women are attracted to in men. You think he was good-looking because he looked like a male bimbo, all tanned with muscles, dumb haircut, makeup etc. That's bc you like bimbos who are fake and obsessed with looks and kinda bitchy- many men do, so you just assume that women must like same thing in men. Women want masculine men- Chad traits are genetic or rich men. To the extent that women want looks in men, it's face, look in the eyes that women look at. He had an ugly face with …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:46 PM
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Your behavior proves that you are his biggest fanboy. There are zero women who look at zyzz and yet his fanboys are still up his ass after all this time. That woman is an attention hoe, you have zero video proof that any of those women fucked him. He was an incel on steroids and a freak show- hence why women took pics with him, and LARP- ing as a douche I don't wanna speak ill of the dead, it's directed to you zyzz freaks as you're just unbearable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:21 PM
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What do you mean "pretend"? He was a nerd who got ripped in order to get girls, he was naturally bad with women. That's what most inc3ls do. He had a really bad face. He was attractive to men as I only hear men talk about him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:05 PM
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I doubt there are any men out there who do not watch porn. But they will all deny doing it if you ask them and they sense which answer you'd prefer to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:02 PM
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Zyzz was not a chad, just a dude that men thought was a legend and plenty of them were attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:25 PM
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I doubt he even got many women, only guys are attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:24 PM
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Answer my question, incel. I'm a white libertarian woman, and I see those like you as the embarrasment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:35 PM
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You need to have a concept of responsibility and accountability in your own society, which you do not. Do you ever blame liberal whites for anything, I wonder?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:55 AM
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You don't even know who's spreading propaganda LOL. Are you worshipping white liberals, especially women in order to get them on your side and realize how horrible the brown people are( especially the men)? And then the women would see you as that nice white boy and sleep with you? Awwww
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:52 AM
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Laughing at the facts wont make it less true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:49 AM
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Yes, you are right it's exactly what the problem is. I have talked about this to some other people as well, and class seems to be a huge issue since the trash is now running their mouths and trying to run everything else in the society, we cannot associate whiteness with greatness anymore because of them. Some people say the mob is ruling and the elites are in exile and it seems like that to me, too. I have friends of other races who are more of an example of old white values than 90 percent of …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:11 AM
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I thought you supported this type of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:48 AM
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But this is what most of those amazing women are thinking or saying behind closed doors. How can you be so naive to think that women show who they really are in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:42 AM
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Or if whites had children and stopped creating their own problems/ teaching victim mindset and race card to brown ppl? Responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:22 PM
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It's also a Swedish problem? But yeah, I'd support them if they could voice the problem correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:57 PM
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The whites created all those problems themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:43 PM
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Black and brown ppl aren't the ones spreading propaganda lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:41 PM
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Maybe in America, but those minorities wont be seen as white in Europe, we are stricter with the definition of whiteness here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:40 PM
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As a conservative young white woman I absolutelly despise white incels who cry about their victim complex and bully non-white people, especially men, who they are secretly jealous of. This is a very unattractive and unbecoming behavior. Men of good character do not behave this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:31 PM
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It's the white countries and their nanny-states that have created victim complex and have put weakness and mediocrity on a pedestal. Those ppl from Third World do not have rights in their own countries, they learn to cry about it from liberal entitled white people when they come to the West
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:28 PM
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Yeah, it's not a disadvantage. But so many pathetic and overall low value people are hiding behind other people's accomplishments and glory of old days in order to justify their false sense of superiority and bully non-whites. I rarely see accomplished white ppl do this. I'm thinking of racist losers who are fighting for benefits and claiming they deserve them bc they built the country, or women who use non-white men and cry rape afterwards or join nationalist groups. Or are jealous of accomplis…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:03 PM
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Lol good luck explaining this to those guys. I got into this conversation once in rl, the guy literally got upset and started shouting at me in front of other people that I'd fuck a guy on steroids if he walked into the room right then:/ I gave them examples of men who women find attractive in media, romance novels, fanfics, fanarts etc and he still said that was PC lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:10 PM
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I know girls my age who do and fetishize mixed race kids...and they have non-white bfs. One of them wants her daughter to look like Zendaya And I think it's wrong to put white mediocrity on an undeserved pedestal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:14 PM
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Nordics aren't Chads as much as some of you people think
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:21 PM
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She does. I'm a woman myself and what she's saying resonates with me a lot hence why I follow her. She is witty and has really good insights. In today's cancel culture people want to ban the truth, so I guess it gives more cred to gimpgirl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:48 AM
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Loud and bitchy is something no normal man likes. It says something about your bf's preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:29 AM
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Aren't they often complaining about being friendzoned? I go to Uni and have a part-time job. Most guys at my Uni hang out with other people including girls, of course, and my program is female dominated anyway. I know few guys who are ignoring and pretending they aren't seeing interest from girls who subtly show their liking. Few of those girls are actually thin. My job is male-dominated but there are young women who are orbiting a guy who is pining after a hot girl, has no gf and lives with his…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:04 PM
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It's probably a Zoomer thing a bit more than previous generations. We have many mixed friends who look at those mixed models for inspiration and some of those look near white so more white girls are adopting the look. We are more inclusive when it comes to beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:48 PM
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Omg I just googled handmaids tale and apparently, feminists dress in those costumes to protest for more rights:D Had no idea! You're right about feminists wanting the patriarchy:D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:44 PM
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I remember there was outrage when Kylie Jenner dressed up as Handmaid for Halloween, it was clear what was up in those women's mind:D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:30 PM
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Probably many as we like to idealize past times through movies, netflix etc. There are many videos on Youtube showing everyday life in Victorian times that have many views and comments saying it was much simpler and happier time and many would love to travel back. Not only for the sake of Patriarchy but everything else, like community, purpose, humanity etc. Not to mention series like Handmaid's tale or Game of thrones that were/are huge. Period dramas as well. The more meaningless the modern li…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:22 PM
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Arab features aren't seen as attractive in Europe. I'd say black or latina features are seen as more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:16 PM
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All my black friends say that white girls are trying to look black. There was the booty and lips craze tho. But I do think looking racially ambigous is in. Like having the best features from several races in order to look exotic and special
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:14 PM
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There are really hot and pretty pornstars. Even those you mentioned who aren't pretty still have leverage, as you say, they are great at sex. And no,plenty of men cannot perform sexually with women who look nothing like what they are getting off on regularily. You said that girls either can be hot models or pornstars who are good at sex to qualify for incels, but average girls are neither. That's like girls telling you that a man either has to be a Chad or rich, what a relief. It's okay if he's …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:10 PM
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It's different online and not really serious. I observe how people act in real life. Humans aren't meant to interact like robots
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:04 PM
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Awkward average girls who show interest but these guys want to keep being friends. Probbably a bit chubby, depending on where you live, but not fat. But average weight for women is a bit higher than previous generations. Why don't you say that to the guys who wrote they would "kill for a 5"? I'm saying they wouldn't do anything for a 5. Yes, it's my observation too that guys aren't pursuing or even noticing these girls
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:02 PM
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I see men who have options to be with average girls complain about not getting hot girls all the time. My thinking is based on real life observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:39 PM
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You probably use your height as an excuse to not approach women bc you are too anxious to leave your comfort zone. It's easiest to blame all your problems on what you cannot change. Meanwhile, there are plenty of short men who are in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:37 PM
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It's much easier for a man when it comes to looks bc looks aren't important to women, especially ripped body. Men lift and have still no sucess with women. Women want other things like, either masculinity or money I'd say face is more important. But even then, the face and the look in his eyes has to be masculine, not pretty. He can be good looking and masculine, but it's not a requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:07 PM
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Women there are fishing for attention and compliments, women who are really ugly wouldn't dare post their pic there and get roasted. Those women know they aren't ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:05 PM
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Girls are awkward just like boys. I'm sure some would like to talk to you in real life, or even trying but you just aren't noticing them. I have a guy at school who has expressed interest in me, but I told him about this girl who's really into him and he said he didn't like her:/ he knows she likes him but has her in friendzone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:03 PM
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But if the jerk off to those girls, photoshopped or not, then they have built pretty high expectations and an average girl wont do. Plenty of them have never seen a naked woman and they think women look like those IG models. They do not even know about makeup or filters if it doesn't look too unnatural like too much eyeliner or obvious photoshop They will be disappointed with the girl they can get eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:44 PM
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Are you denying that incels jerk off to IG girls and simp for them? You must live under a rock then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:39 PM
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I know women have delusions but this is another level of stupid, these aren't majority but a crazy minority actually. Most women require a man to be stable and make sufficient money, not diamond bracelets and such things. Those women aren't serious, they just hate and neg men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:38 PM
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Cheating and leaving is not the same thing. Of course men always cheated, but today men value women far less bc they have young naked women available on the internet and the culture doesn't say you have to marry or stay married. So men do not have to invest as much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:22 PM
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Those are femcels. If you could see those women you wouldn't care
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:51 PM
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Not wholeheartly. I'm not saying it's true or not about virgins, but men do not commit today as they did before. And men have seen better women. I get messages from happily married men pretty often
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:49 PM
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I think it's an internet myth that doesn't work like that in reality. And incels are jerking off to IG and TikTok girls, they feel nothing for an average girl. They have even higher standards than normally developed men because of their unrealistic expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:40 AM
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Putting women on pedestal is a typical patriarchal beta culture, it literally proves whites are patriarchal. White knighting etc is patriarchy by weak men, it's not always about men being strong and masculine and harsh towards women like for example in Middle-East and such. Women are fair, fragile and mystical creatures In matriarchy women have no special privilegies and they work ad hard or even harder than men, they fight like men etc. Think strong and independent black woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:26 AM
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Then why are incel men so critical of their looks and rate them a 5? I do not think women with average faces get any attention from men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:22 AM
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White men aren't matriarchical, black men are LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:49 AM
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No way, in order to be really attractive and not just ok, you need a pretty face and a great body-shape as well as fit body
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:07 AM
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It's more likely that they never got that kind of attention when they were young so they are jealous. I get attention from older men but I don't mind it, it's not like I can't say no. It's just flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:09 PM
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I wouldn't want to be unattractive, but I think being mildly attractive that's safe and inoffensive is the best. If you are active in the society that is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:12 PM
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I feel like people are often so miserable and neurotic about hot women, probably bc we live in a society that places such importance on looks. It's a major disadvantage in work environment but also in private when it comes to other women. Insecurity. Even if you're really nice, awkward and try to act as an introvert. I think as a hot woman displaying any sort of personality and intelligence/ resourcefulness brings hate immediately. People are safe with hot women who just stand around and don't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:25 AM
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Lol no men lie to their placeholder while they actually want the hot IG model they jerk off to or any girl that resembles her in rl. They have probably been beta orbitors to some hot women and would risk it all for them if only given a chance. They'd never give it all to some average nice girl who was a virgin and therefore marriage material. No, only those like you blame, intelligent people observe and understand. I'm not interested in blaming men,just pointing out the hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:05 AM
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Maybe he's in some sort of subculture, like a feminist, hipster one? I have those types at school and they are often skinny but with like nose ring and green hair, have awkward boyfriends of the same sort and claim they sleep around with guys. They are politically active and organize protests and such
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:33 PM
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I do not understand the women who want to level up, at all. And I feel like they do all the leveling up to show other women they can do it and to not look bad in front of them by having a guy that doesn't match the fds standards. Sad. Especially for the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:29 PM
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I wonder what made her do it? It's not like she found a better man. Maybe she found out he's actually gay, that is the only thing that makes sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:22 PM
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Did you tell her in a subtle way that she's a real bitch and ruining her kids lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:14 PM
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I mean we could all blame the human nature instead of each other? The thing is, you'd probably treat hotter and sexier women better than "marriage material" good girls, so it's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:52 PM
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This is impossible, there is no fairness like that in human nature. You would also give a lot more to the women you find the most attractive if you got a chance with them. Everyone takes the opportunity to mate with the best partner, but I do agree that you don't have to give anything in return to these women. And women don't do that to be mean, it's just natural:/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:43 PM
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Michelle Pfeiffer is so gorgeous but I don't think bigger boobs would work for her. I'd do her too and I'm a straight girl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:41 PM
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Okay. Do you consider yourself asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:30 PM
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But there are women who aren't challenging and applying dumb strategies. I don't know which culture you are from, but men aren't Pepe Le Pew in Northern/central Europe so they don't bother with chasing challenging women. It's a common male fantasy to have a willing woman who seduces you, as guys get it so rarely these days. Who fantasizes about seducing a pretty but cold woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:59 PM
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No one looks at body alone in practice. And no, men do not want to fuck asexual women if they aren't desperate inc3ls. You can't just pinpoint attractivenes to body alone, men are interested in women who show interest, and display sexual behavior. Women who show interest will win all the guys, even high quality bc men do not want to chase distant women these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:37 PM
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Lol you make me appreciate my generation:D Millennials seem to be like Mean Girls movie tbh, so much insults, stereotyping, putting people in little boxes, cliques etc. No wonder Millennials are pushing the loser culture so hard, they hated being picked on and having to put the cool facade on to not appear as a she fag in front of the cool, popular people. It's liberating to be a nerdy, philosophical Stacy with mild anxiety and OCD tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:16 PM
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There are women who are asexual or have very low sex drive. They lack sexual behavior and display coldness and reservation instead, which is anything but attractive. Once again, this is not marketing it's the attraction itself. And women who aren't sexual just pale in comparison to sexual women. Sexuality, body language, etc is not marketing lol. If anything, makeup is marketing yet you don't take that as an example of marketing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:05 PM
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I don't experience it as wow, it's more quiet I think. But I start wondering what he's like in bed and have feelings in my body, want to get closer to him etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:49 AM
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Such different values. I feel like most Millennials hate the pressure of cool and sexual ideal while the Zoomers can just roll with whatever. No wonder we rebel against the cool. Now you can be a charmingly awkward Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:30 AM
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Depends on whether you are talking about sexual or emotional attraction. It seems that some people confuse one for the other in this thread. But emotional attraction comes later, sexual attraction should be instant if you have a normal sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:18 AM
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It's not marketing it's part of the attraction. It works like that in real life, what you are saying is just a flawed theory. Men do not want women who aren't sexual beings. In fact, sexual often wins over just generic pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:03 AM
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No, a woman can be asexual or hate men and have pretty features so what's the point of purely looks? Also attraction is look in the eyes, body language, movements etc otherwise men would just stare at billboard ads. Men are way more attracted to women who smile and look them in the eyes than pretty women who give no eye contact and look frigid no matter how physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:48 AM
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Aren't men most attracted to most approachable women? Looks are irrelevant if a girl looks disintetested, unaproachable and bichy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:17 AM
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We were never meant to intellectualize about the most natural thing in that way, it's just complicating things that should be instant and normal. But maybe you just have a low sex drive? Yeah, it's racist towards the Western culture that will die out because of it's bad values and so many people not acting upon instincts. But nature doesn't care about feelings nor resources, as it shows that people do not need Western intellect nor resources to reproduce, in contrary it kills the drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:13 PM
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Ahh I see. If you're asexual then it changes everything, I guess. It's so much more than looks, really. I'm not even attracted to handsome men, I have a type but it's everything about the person and even the situation plays in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:45 PM
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But that part of our nature never evolved, we are just animals when it comes to reproduction. The whole proces is natural and instant in order to facilitate reproduction, it was never meant to be reflected upon. No, intellect isn't an attractive sexual attribute that we are looking at when we feel sexual attraction- it's a turnoff for men when it comes to women and for women it's a sign that a man is a beta provider. Cultures in which people reproduce the most today aren't western and don't valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:39 PM
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But liking and romance has nothing to do with sexual attraction. If you are hetero you should feel sexual attraction to the opposite gender without them romancing you and knowing you. In fact, you should feel attracted to hot women you don't "like", would never marry or have any sort of relationship with, they are simply just hot. Emotional attraction is something else entirely. Maybe you have low sex drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:31 PM
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But primates do not need to have a conversation to reproduce with their partner, they do it right away which is the normal thing. Like, we don't need deep and meaninful conversations in order to reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:26 PM
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His genes should be enough. How did we reproduce before we developed language?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:21 PM
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Nope attraction is instant and has nothing to do with emotional connection. The only time I develop attraction over time is if a guy shows me a side that I hadn't considered previously or if I'm going through a dry spell for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:15 PM
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Right away. And it has happened that I have met men that I was only mildly attracted to, but with time it turned to much stronger attraction if we were working together and saw each other every day. But even there has to be some attraction from the beginning. I do not "date" like you guys do in America, but I meet men in everyday life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:12 PM
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Hot women on sm aren't even after alpha dudes, they are after the attention they get from simps. Many women fantasize about hot guys but life isn't bad even if you never meet one, as long as men simp for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:54 PM
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Yes women want simps because women want validation. Not giving women validation will make them dislike you actually
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:51 PM
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I believe that feminists who are blue pill are hypocritical, they should be politically lesbian instead and not date their opressors and whine at the same time. It's unnatural to hate a gender yet date them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:33 PM
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In my experience they are just whining on the internet about not getting average women, while in reality they are not even noticing women who do not look like IG models. They are getting off on hot girls on the internet and that's the only thing their brains detect in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:48 PM
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But those who want regular relationship don't start out as FWB. I meant in FWB arrangement most women are hoping for a relationship. I never said it was 100 percent of all women. Many wont push it hard, but you can be sure they all hope for a relationship. Sometimes a woman can think she wants a guy, tries him out but then realizes they aren't compatible in bed and dumps him afterwards. But if it's going on for some time she wants more than FwB
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 12:11 PM
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Women who do this are a certain group/ personality type and all operate in roughly the same way. Women who aren't like this are the good girls who want regular relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:57 AM
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If you are a guy you might be very naive about this. This is a perfect way to become any man's dream woman. Especially today men hate demanding, clingy women who demand things from a man. If you believe their authencity then they have succeeded. I'm a woman btw and I would always apply this tactics if needed. It's like "foot in the door" that red pillers talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:49 AM
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There aren't as desperate for average women anymore, but they are more desperate for hot women. So in the end, men have become more picky so the desperation might have decreased actually
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:47 AM
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There weren't so many sexless men and adult virgins 30 yrs ago. But 30 yrs ago larger number of women got commitment from men without needing to resort to onlyfans, while today men can be lazy and just pay for onlyfans. I mean, you can't just see it as a loss for men, women lost something too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:44 AM
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This is a myth, FWB is simply a way for the woman to lock the man down. The man thinks he's in FWB arrangement, but the woman plans to move it to the relationship cathegory. Sometimes women even say to the man they don't want anything else, but that's just to show how chill and low-maintenance they are- they want him to become their bf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:31 AM
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I think in those cases, they were never really that into each other. It's not that the commitment killed it, but it was probably just built on excitement of novelty and nothing in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:23 AM
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I do not get this either. I have never wanted a certain outcome of a relationship without having any particular man in mind, like saying I want commitment is really weird. For me, I like a man and I see where it leads from there. It depends on both people in the relationship and it differs depending on what both parts want. I do not desire a man to commit to me, but I might desire a certain man to do it. I think culture and social pressure plays in here though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:20 AM
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But ugly guys who are rough, masculine and pervy can be really attractive while pretty boys are a turn off. I do not think many men understand what women find attractive or hot. Hence why women say they do not necessarily want hot guys. However, nerdy ugly is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:17 PM
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Yeah it gives them validation to be that girl who has managed to change him and is therefore better than the previous girlfriends. They expect everyone to be jealous of it, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:12 PM
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Idk if it's negging or autism tbh. They are making youtube videos and commenting on fitness videos. They seem to start to like male bodies more than female ones. I know a guy like that in rl and his girlfriend is fat. I always feel like pointing this out to him when he criticizes hot fit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:57 AM
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They are everywere in women's spaces commenting on how women do not have proper form or not enough muscles. They are clowning fitness girls on youtube. Even guys that work with me who are gym freaks are often commenting on how women need to gain more weight and more muscle and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:19 AM
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Lol I remember when I was little I used to think I would be married at 16 because Disney princesses were all 16 when they married the prince. Other than that, there are no examples of young people marrying in our culture so it's probably never going to be a thing. Also marriage is a religious thing and we are all atheists these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:07 AM
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Idk if they are attractive or what but this girl looks like Kate Upton and has the same body type, but has zero personality and has worked here for quite some time and hangs out with the women. She works in the reception. Wears lots of makeup. Is a bit auntie-ish, acts older I think. I have never thought of brothel service stuff, wow. I have onlyfans and a boyfriend who wont allow any real sex work. I'll see what I will do once I get fired from this job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:40 PM
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There are pretty women who do not have guys falling for them too, they have pretty features and are above average. Women do not seem to hate them . So they manage it and I think this is usually what people mean when they say pretty women are privilleged or something? Idk maybe they have problems too that I don't know of. I follow the dress code, wear very little makeup and refuse to do anything more than that to accommodate anyone. Most other women here wear tons of makeup and I work in a male-d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:19 PM
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Yes, people are acting ridiculous and have nothing else in mind, it seems. Especially if hot women are a rare occurence in that type of job. The women are deliberately ignoring and acting like stuck up bitches and know-it-alls. And spreading gossip. And talking about their cooking, how accomplished they are at work, etc. They also team up with butthurt men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:23 PM
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Nope, female recruiters are always discriminating against pretty women. I have only gotten a job when there was a male recruiter
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:15 PM
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There is safe pretty that's accepted and then there is legit pretty that brings trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:12 PM
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I have noticed that the loser culture has now turned into winner culture with nerds and dorks being in, like for example in The Bing Bang Theory and other popular media. People are now bragging about being losers and nerds on social media. So that totally makes sense about the trans community as well. But I get what you mean, I've seen teen movies from the 90's where the winners bully the losers in a very harsh and cold way. I think today we look at this culture as the bully culture. Kinda remin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:54 PM
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Do you know why trans thing has been so huge among Millennials in the latest decade? It started on tumblr, and everything revolves about that and race these days. Gender dysphoria and transitioning has increased in my generation as a result Now boys have acess to girls changing rooms, male prisoners are going to female prisons, trans women are competing in female sporte etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:55 PM
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So true. There's always a risk to get fired, too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:46 PM
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They are complaining about men raping and destroying these dolls. I have seen some articles about this. And they are criticizing child dolls
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:36 PM
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First time I saw anti-college memes was from some conservative Millennials on twitter. I doubt it's most Millennials, but it's actually a surprising high number. Also wanting to change voting rights to make it harder is gaining popularity. My parents were horrified when I told them there's support in the West to end female vote!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:18 PM
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It's almost like the very women who would actually benefit from the old system are the ones denying it would have been better for them. And those of us who can see and acknowledge it can thrive in whatever system. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:58 PM
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There are girls with legit anxiety problems and severe social phobia tho. It's quite common among young women(and men) today.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 11:44 AM
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I have standards but I just go for a guy I like because I know I can get him. I have always gotten lots of attention and had plenty of guys to chose from and sometimes I'd chose several because I like them all lol. But while I like most guys as people, there is a guy I'm attracted to so I choose him. I understand my value very well since I know I'm good looking and I have worked to be that girl that men want. I have compared myself to men's ideal in the media that's marketed to men. And I get al…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 10:06 AM
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I'm ignoring him and he acts like he's in pain, looks pitful and I see him reaching out to other people to talk to me. Yes he's very persistent in a passive way. Do they choose women they think are dominant?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:45 AM
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Omg. There is an ethnic aspect here too, which plays in You're right I have thought about this! Also this guy is threacherous af, reports people and has stalker- ish tendencies. I'd be afraid of Me-too. He has that sort of behaviour that makes you wanna kick his ass, though. And is often playing a victim I thought in the beginning that he was gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:34 AM
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Are whiny guys with strong mother figures usually into it? I guy from my work is like that and has suggested on few occassions that I should do military service so I've been wondering LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:15 AM
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I'm not sure we have those hs stereotypes in Europe anymore, being a nerd is cool now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:41 AM
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I found out I was a Pick me after few people called me out of it, I had no idea there was a label for behaviors that I naturally have. Can one be a PuA without being aware of it? I'm a person who is nice, acommodating, think of others before me, love giving gifts way more than receiving etc and it shows in my relationship and it's apparently only in this area that those traits get labeled Pick-me. And I'm also pro men's rights and libertarian, but I'm a person who hates hypocricy and injustice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:52 PM
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There are nutcases, but there are normal girls who would be considered pick-mes by most women just because they aren't feminists and do things for their bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:38 PM
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It's not fake, some women are like that naturally. Other women use it as tactics and it's fake in those cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:22 PM
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I know this. My mom's parents are immigrants from EE, but it's not all the ethnicities that are wrong. Just like 1 or 2 and I understand why in this case lol. Now I think of it, yeah some of this probably even count as interracial bc some ethnicities are less white and not Slavic But you are of the same religion if I'm not mistaken and that's really weird Edit: your husband is Ukrainian, right? There was a recent conflict there I think, so I get it but I always thought you were the same people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:11 PM
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This is completely insane. This is why there is so much incompetence in Sweden. I just don't understand why they would be destroying their own society and why the rest of the country are following the lunatics who came up with these ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:08 PM
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What do you mean you didn't do that yourself? Different East Euro etnicities do not count as interracial lol. You look like you could be related, it's all that counts. Culture/religion isn't race
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 01:22 PM
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Interesting. When I was in Sweden these immigrant-hating men didn't even care about the shootings, they laughed it off saying it doesn't concern them. Because both the perpetators and the victims were immigrants, they implied it was a good thing they were taking each other out. Is this a common attitude? What they concerned themselves with were loud immigrant kids at the local library, immigrants putting burkhas on their daughters, immigrants forbidding pork and alcohol, raping women, building m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 01:10 PM
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Yes! Their Propaganda Ministry works overtime hence all those ppl, mostly Americans, who think it's paradise on Earth. I believe the romantization of Nordic culture plays in here. I do not believe the rapes though, I think it's mostly Swedish women who regret the sex morning after. I have been friends with a few of them and they were the types. Tim Pool went there after Trump's comment about Sweden and he said the ghettos aren't dangerous it's the Swedish government that's incompetent. Swedish p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:10 AM
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Yes, I agree with this! I have read comments in this TikTok video in which almost all the guys agreed that they look at the floor when a girl is in front of them, even if she is walking in front of them. I would think they would check her out. Crazy. Zoomer guys are very shy and insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:27 AM
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I have heard kids don't get grades in school bc it's not fair that some kids are smarter than others? This is the dumbest and anti- meritocratic thing ever. And then they say their school system is falling apart bc of immigrants? Really now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:12 AM
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But London is majority non-white now, so apparently people do not care about those things anymore. Mixed race people are very common in the UK It's popular for white girls to have black/other non-white bfs because of influencers and music/media
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:05 AM
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People are covertly racist but except that, they do not have any culture at all. It seems to be accepted for men to marry and date Asian. They just hate Arabs but that's their personal problem. I think it's more of a problem for immigrants who have a culture to date or be married to a Swede than the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:52 AM
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This is all what incels care about tbh. They think the women use them as betas later but actually want these guys. It comes down to racism rather than women "sleeping around". So the women wont still date non white men openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:38 AM
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If your parents aren't traditional then they do not care. And no one cares about marriage like that anymore. Also you are anonymous in a huge metropole. The only ppl who care are no lifers and incels on the street but they do not dare say anything openly. We do not have a culture in the West anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:34 AM
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Isn't the rate for sex higher than that though? It's not dating, but still many men care about those things. They always say they would reject a woman who has had sex with someone of another race and they say it's the majority of women Also I have talked to some Swedish girls and went out with them, they said they hated blonde Swedish guys and wanted masculine dark immigrants. I think they date their own but prefer the other bc of conformist culture!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:25 AM
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Isn't that how everyone gets into a relationship though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:11 AM
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Majority of young guys are shy and awkward though. Keep in mind that rejection feels worse if you're gonna meet this person often on campus, especially if you take same classes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 09:10 PM
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There are some pitful individuals who say they used to listen to the feminists before but now they listen to the radical incels I guess those types just cannot observe the world and draw their own conclusions, they have to be mindless followers. In reality, both girls and guys are alone in college and too awkward to make the first move. It's especially hard to get rejected by someone from the same class or things might go wrong and you might be seeing that person every day and others might hear …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:40 PM
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We live in times when people love to complain, I guess. I think internet and reality are two completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:21 PM
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But we feel bad when others are mean to someone, that's the point. I'm white so I cannot be mad over 4chan losers personally, but I have been in situations where people were mean to a friend of mine. And in some situations it were middle aged guys, not just boys. I think if someone was clowned for their race others should step in and tell the racist bullies to fuck off and go jump off a cliff. You can't just let that injustice happen and watch the poor guy feel sad about it when he didn't deserv…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:17 PM
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They don't. It feels kinda awkward. They wont even show it openly to the girls they are attracted to, only if they feel the girl returns the feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:04 PM
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Self-hate is anything that gets people feeling upset about attributes that they cannot change about themselves, like race, religion etc. I am not a leftist but I have a problem with white mediocrity, partly because in the right wing circles there are many losers hiding behind previous glory of the white race that they do not match. And they take their unworthyness out on good individuals of other races so they can feel better about themselves. They often do it on the internet or they attack wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:18 PM
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Cannot relate, to me it's way worse then if the same man told me that his wife is so much better, I'd prefer it that way. I always think how I'd feel if someone did that to me. We are also very sensitive to racism and self-hate, at least many of us. Feelings are one thing I like about our generation. I think we are this way because we have more emotional relationships with our parents. I used to fight with my mom like she was my best friend and then we'd both cry and hug each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:28 PM
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I get it when you say it, but the instant reaction is different. Would a Millennial woman feel good if a man praised her while degrading another woman if she weren't into this herself? Cuz that would be extremely bitchy. On a different/similar note, I would never take a man who wanted to leave his wife for me if she was a nice woman who loved him I'd be upset tbh and convince him that she's better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:07 PM
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It feels bad to see other people get degraded, oneself not so much. And injustice hurts like hell You need to think of the Zoomer feelings:/ Millennial culture seems so harsh and cold wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:37 PM
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Holy shit. I read this comment from you a few days ago and I felt so bad that I didn't even wanna comment. Bc you're really cool. I'd definitely do the same tbh and rant about how he's lucky to have you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:30 PM
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I understand the implication but I got the impression that some of them viewed it as something cool and new. I mean recent immigrants to west Europe. They are quite liberal and pro West and quite naive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:27 PM
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East Euros need to stop fighting each other especially now that West is in decline. I see Eastern European "tribes" as stronger but they often have problems with each other and internalized self-hate. This is sad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:17 PM
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There are plenty of aggressive girls but we aren't as bitchy and passive-aggressive as Millennials. We are more real with our feelings, I think You just make a good mommy figure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:14 PM
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When I was in Sweden 4 yrs ago I saw many Swedish/Thai couples and men were in their 30's and quite often in their 20's. It surprised me. I rarely saw a Swedish man with any other type of immigrant, just Asian women It was a small town and I got the impression that they were very racist towards immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:04 PM
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I know that Easter Europeans often think it's cool when someone from their neighborhood marries and has a kid with a non-white person. It seems very modern and cosmopolitan, which is something they aspire to. This is because they do not have immigrants so it's just a little bit of "exotical" rather than dealing with problems. West Europe is racist because of the mass immigration.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:01 PM
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Long-term doesn't work with Northern-Europeans, not even among themselves these days. No one thinks long-term anymore. If you're good for the time being it's a sucess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:57 PM
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What race is your husband? He looks white?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:54 PM
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More people will break those bc of loneliness. I literally know a NatSoc dude who is now dating a girl he brought here from Philippines. Most guys with Asian wives hate immigrants and are racist towards them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:51 PM
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Lol define dificult and feminist Think we are the epitome of difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:48 PM
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Inter-ethnic relationships are way more common among young people today. No one cares about marriage though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:46 PM
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LOL well then, good luck to the guys with delusions who want to adopt an average Western 18 y.o. with all the awkwardness and mental issues:D the looks aren't even the main issue. I'm hiding my pics from this time period:/ I was angry, depressed and a feminist But the guys in the manosphere aren't even flocking to 18 year olds in real life, I know I didn't get any attention from them 5 yrs ago, nor do they date/fuck any other 18 year old that I know of. Half of the girls are virgins and have no …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 09:00 PM
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Didn't you say average 18 year olds were invisible to men? Also average IG fitness girls are 28, there was a video about the average IG girl statistics or something, including age. Men may think they want 18 year olds, but apparently all the hot chicks they stare at are 20+ So it's IG girls who men follow( they are above average in my opinion, nothing spectacular) vs average 18 year old( not fit and chubby) Also, I look more like a hot teen is supposed to look now at 23 than I did at 18 when I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:36 AM
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Pride and prejudice is supposedly a satire and not a love story, though. I was told by a friend who is English major that Jane Austen was critisizing gold diggers. I read that book and yep, Lizzie Bennet was kinda interested in Wickham the bad boy and expressed zero interest in Darcy...until she saw his property and just how rich he was, her interest increased dramatically. Wickham also ran away with her younger sister. It was supposed to riddicule her romantic naivety when she told her sisters …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 07:32 PM
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Idk if you are talking online or in real life. I get slut-shamed by women often in real life, even online but since it's mostly men who follow me on sm, of course there will be some negative comments but I know it's just sexual frustration. How can men slut-shame when they benefit from that behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:29 AM
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This is very accurate lol. I have noticed that younger people with Boomer parents are better socially adjusted but are often know-it-alls and the women act like aunties and too proper. While us with GenX parents are often socially awkward and often not very well adjusted in the society. GenX parents act like best friends and not real parents. I think Boomers were more satelite parents who were more engaged in their kids school and social life than GenX parents, often organizing activities with o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:07 PM
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Whenever I saw a pic or a video of you both on here, I thought you looked like a cringly cute couple lol Which is ironic considering what ppl write about you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:06 PM
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Did Boomers try to be best friends with their kids, like GenX?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:01 PM
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Not a devout Christian or anything,but I have heard Bible isn't Middle Eastern culture but revelation of God and some have interpreted that it's, therefore, closer to European moral. Yeah, it's racist connotations. But it still tells you what God intended rather than what ppl in ME do to women so we can interpret it from European perspective hence "love your wife..."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:18 AM
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I feel like only younger girls are this way here, my parents don't get it. I think women here like comfort and don't like working, but they still aren't high-maintenance women who crave men to spoil them with gifts like American women do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:37 PM
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Weren't women in Europe always cheap tho? If anything there are more young women who look up to American culture and acting high-maintenance than before I think. So there are more difficult younger girls with grandiose dreams in my experience. Like Northern European women are known for being cheap historically but now we have more expectations in younger ages I think
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:02 PM
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I see subtle attempts at slut-shaming all the time. It's usually from good girls and could be anything, not really just outright slut shaming. But acting proper. Happens to me, anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:50 PM
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I have read lots of myths around here, weirdest things that people supposedly pay attention or are attracted to, that's why I assumed you meant it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:01 PM
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It's not the size that matters in that case. I think men with big dicks want to feel better about themselves and are therefore spreading this nonsense, too. For me it has to be normal size, big is a no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:07 PM
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Women aren't attracted to men's shoes LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:20 PM
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Omfg THIS Women just use it for negging
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:16 PM
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I lived for a few months in a small Swedish town that had one ghetto and the family I lived with told me to be careful at night bc I'd get raped and murdered if I somehow ended up there. People called police as soon as they saw a group of darker skinned men walk in the area where I was staying. The middle aged couple I lived with and their neighbours were always talking about immigrants. They disliked a colleague of mine that was from Germany too, because she is darker and not ethnically German.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:31 PM
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Of course it's socialism and is based on theft. People have no family because of their bad values. Like you saying that women need no men. This mentality has to change as it's unnatural- humans need each othher, we wouldn't have survived otherwise. People should keep their family close and value their community and frienships. I have heard people like that argue they don't need their family etc , they are always selfish and hedonistic. Also you aren't entitled to other people's money. So the Oce…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:55 PM
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Swedes have convinced the whole world it's the opposite. I talked to plenty of them and majority were very hateful of immigrants and it come to tge point that Trump mentioned it few years ago. It resulted in a journalist from USA coming to Sweden to see it for himself. His conclusion was that ghettos aren't nearly that bad, but the Swedish government was incompetent lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:45 PM
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Swedes are extremely covertly racist also VERY inhibited and introverted people. This is why I'm not surprised by anything coming from them. Also many of the stereotypes about them being nice are only true on the surface
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:39 PM
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I thought that was a feminist argument, that a woman can be completely covered and get sexually assaulted...I have never seen that happen to covered and properly dressed women. Maybe Sweden has gone completely crazy since I was there last time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:33 PM
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What do you wear outside? Why would he whisper "covered whore"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:27 PM
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To me blonde girl means white /ethnically German girl. Usually something that people of color take as an example of white centric beauty. The girl who isn't anything special, just blonde and therefore unjustly hyped. Lol Can Stacy look natural or are plastic boobs a necessity?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:25 PM
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How dare they take those risks in me-too times in Sweden? Didn't know times were so harsh in Sweden. Do they scream at all the other women, including those in crop tops or short skirts?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:22 PM
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Why do they shout whore to you??? And you're covered? That's bizarre. Sweden is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:15 PM
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What an interesting observation! Do you have some Stacy examples? Like, the difference between Stacy-lite and Stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:57 PM
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Weakness and mediocrity should never be celebrated like it's today, it kills the spirit. The society that you praise is materialistic and dead inside with zero values. Also people need to rely on families and the community and not on the government if there is going to be any humanity at all. Idk maybe you like an Orwellian society? Nope those countries do not have mentality or culture that is compatible with welfare state. Socialism is a failed project that cannot work because it's against huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:22 PM
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That's not reality, that's Western bubble. As a 23 year old woman I don't give a damn about voting right or any sort of feminist "reality" which in fact is a dystopia. Real world is countries without welfare state.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:36 AM
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I doubt you know anti-feminist women, if you did you'd probably say the same thing to them. It's ridiculous to imagine female only society, I despise it as a woman and it's a total dystopia also unnatural. Maybe you think it's hot or something? However I can assure you not all women are feminists. I'm a right libertarian so it comes naturally to be anti-feminist and anti-socialist as well. I know plenty of younger women who are like that, some are genuinelly like that and others want to attract …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:08 AM
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Interesting. I have seen some famous twitter personalities talking about reducing voting rights to men who own property, and they were Millennials. This was in response to the most recent election(USA). I have also heard it from ppl in real life. The idea seems to be generally more accepted today. I just cannot imagine feminists/women giving up their voting rights willingly, they would protest and cry like crazy. There might break out a conflict or something. Also the left politicians and whoeve…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:54 AM
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Yes, I have heard it often from Millennial women who have Boomer parents. They always brag about orgasms, and make up incredible stories. I always assumed it was some female empowerment thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:35 PM
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You people are so obsessed with orgasms, sometimes it sounds like you are in a cult or something
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:01 AM
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You can test that teory with a team only consisting of women. Or you could watch women dominated jobs. I have seen women work in group, not much actual work gets done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:46 PM
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There are strong and independent individual women who do things for their families/men, but women as a group have not built societies like men have. Women who are as capable as men are rare. And I have found that most of those women are anti-feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:40 PM
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Yeah it never happened before but it totally could only if we try it...we had lawless societies, destroyed by war etc and women tend to either marry men or sell themselves. Because they will do anything to avoid working like men. In most feminist societies women aren't working in dirty jobs and hard labor, only men. It's called equality paradox and basically means that women in feminist societies are spoiled and entitled. Interesting how only entitled western women say they don't need men while …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:30 PM
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Without the welfare state and the security that men provide in our society, women would have hard time surviving. In anarchy, for example or in third world societies women need men very much because there is no social security paid and provided by men, that's something husband/families provide In Western countries men have build a safe and prosperous societies because of their love and care for women. But it's a social construct. In real world, Western women wouldn't survive on their own as wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:47 PM
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As a woman, I disagree that women do not need anyone. Those are stupid lies that promote selfishness and anti-social behavior masked as "individualism". Humans are social beings no matter how much leftists deny biology. Normal women need men and children. And probably a community as well. Not needing anyone is not being strong, it's being very weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:04 PM
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Lol internalized musogyny is such a cliche, and an attempt at shaming tactics. But it doesn't work as well today because growing number of women do not care about being labelled feminist slurs. It's basically saying "women have right to think as they like, but nooo not like that you have internalized mysogyny. Only feminist thinking is right".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:55 PM
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There is lack of common sense and blind trust in science without critical thinking in like every aspect of life today. We need more common sense, intuition and instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:31 PM
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Interesting how this was never promoted by older feminists, only younger Millennials in like 2010
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 01:21 PM
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Gay porn with men was insanely popular on tumblr, every fandom had majority girls who were obsessed with it. Idk if it's still a thing but it was huge. Do you know why this is? Why would straight girls favorite porn be 2 hot guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:08 AM
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But they will only solve this with more welfare state. Of course women wouldn't survive on their own in an anarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:23 AM
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Yeah, they wanna marry the "sluts" who often have Borderline or some other mental issues or drug addiction, too. I have had guy friends who suffered seriously and got their lives ruined over those girls. They fall madly in love with them. And those are some responsible and level-headed guys. Plenty of guys want something like motherly Grace Kelly in a cocktail dress waiting for them at home. I mean they have way to idealized image of women so they believe they are missing out on that. But they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:50 PM
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I doubt bellow the-top men want commitment and marriage either. They want it when they see a hot girl, but it's not something they want regardless. I know men who complain about not having a wife, but they only get sentimental at times like Christmas and such. But they would never really give up their freedom and habits unless the girl is like IG model material
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:34 PM
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The guys in Western culture want entertainment over marriage. And when a girl is really good entertainment, they wanna marry her even if she has mental or other issues. Or the guys have idealized image of women and complain about not getting those women who are very rare. I have heard as many young men as women laugh off commitment and marriage in their early 20s as stupid since it's the time when you are supposed to be free and have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:28 PM
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Yes, I have heard a lot of Swedish guys complain about the women in Sweden in the same way. Scandinavia is just more introverted so foreigners do not detect this behavior and idealize it as some sort of example
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:16 PM
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Scandinavia is extremely fake and it just appears to you that way because you aren't accustomed to the culture. They are more introverted, inhibited and shy so they do not show much outward shallowness and fakeness like Americans do. I have been to Scandinavia too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:14 PM
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LOL I'm like that too but I'm not Russian. I'm Slavic however. Especially the taking care and the dominant/ controlling part, I'm guilty of that lol. So are most of my female relatives. But Western people have always told me this was bad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:35 PM
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I agree with you completely. Thank you for your kind and wise words:)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:19 PM
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Omg that last part:D Do Russian women chose men more wisely than Western women? Because they can't be entitled and chosing a bad man can be dire and lead to life as a widow? Or being killed by an alcoholic, or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:08 PM
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Yeah and there was this image of college girls as hot and like you said, they had always the option to marry and be provided for. Some people are still pushing this narrative today even though the society and expectations have changed. But men today aren't attracted to educated women, the whole idea is old and worn off and they are just showing irritation over the whole thing, it seems I guess today people expect to find a high-value upper middle class partner at college or at least make some gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:56 PM
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Plenty of women are financially irresponsible and addicted to shopping so freedom just places an unecessary burden on them. I think people do not prosper with lots of freedom, both men and women need structure and somebody to lead them. What you said that women gained I don't see as a victory as a young woman myself. It's very dated and feminists have been going on about this forever, it was probably very cool in the 60's. I have been raised in a feminist society so that's totally different than…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:58 PM
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So many other people have told that marriage rates have gone down and prediction is a sizeable amount of women wont ever marry. Right now there are plenty of unmarried 30-somethings. Especially in big cities in the West
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:26 AM
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Do you notice any difference in how men react to you between 130 and 99 lbs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:22 AM
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Isn't that why the government is basically taxing men and giving more gibs to women in welfare states? That just leads to more socialism, like in Sweden.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:45 PM
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Ahh alright I get it now. Also I think there are women who want pretty daughters and they go specifically for the pretty guys, too. I have a friend like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:55 PM
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Nah good looking guys can be betas tho. I think guys from your country are mostly good looking when it comes to facial features, and slim body for example. Not important in the slightest. This one guy looked almost exactly like young Brad Pitt and was single? I think pretty guys are a turnoff to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:39 PM
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Ngl that sounded scary, like a Pick-me horror movie O_O
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 01:42 PM
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LOL so instead of taking notes they make themselves look even less attractive in the eyes of women with this weird preschool boy behavior? Some guy even told me that Swedes smell like milk :( And they said their women are too kind hearted and naive so that's why their hearts are on the left, so it's not their fault. They hoped that the Swedish people and especially women would wake up and vote right in the election. They didn't seem to have any "red pill" at all, except they think gender roles e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:20 PM
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So what was occuring in the latest 2000 years then? Polygamy? I think that claim would need evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 06:03 PM
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Mostly men actually and quite few of them. They like bringing up the subject of immigration. Young men to middle aged. Few of them were even NatSoc and impressed with me being German. They told me basically that Swedes do not have culture of objectification of women, only immigrants do since they are from woman- hating countries. So the immigrants watch porn, sexually assault and traffick women while Swedish men almost never do that. They have some sort of database where they keep track of sex r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:48 PM
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Some women (and men) have strong shaming tactics tho, I have heard from some ppl from Sweden that mostly immigrants watch porn in their country bc they don't respect women LOL. They were dead serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 02:15 PM
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Oh okay, then it seems they exaggerated the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:01 AM
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We have actually read in history at school that men died like flies in European and colonial wars. Idk how that influenced marriage prospects tho it would just mean lots of women were unmarried
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:19 AM
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I have read that in Russia so many men died in war that gender ratio was 1 man per 6 women. Is that false too?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:37 AM
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I don't think you should judge someone as worthless based on your own subjective value system. They apparently have mutually agreed to this arrangement. Judging someone else's life choices from you narrow Puritanical viewpoint ain't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:02 PM
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Wow you are stunning! Such pretty face and hair. And I think you're really feminine. Like a classical lady, and nowadays with an avand garde twist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:04 PM
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The question is whether the benefits of the monogamy are even worth living in prison?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:07 PM
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What if he has an otherwise great character or you have already invested a lot in the relationship? There are men I'd never be with but it has nothing to do with whether they will only ever want sex with me or not, there are way more important things. A great guy might just want some variation, I mean even therapists give that advice to spice up the marriage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:50 PM
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Literally sounds like prison. If that's marriage then men wont marry at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:24 PM
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The problem you have is that men lie. You'd be surprised how many married men contact me on IG and OF. Men who seem like such respectable citizens
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:17 PM
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Men aren't happy in strict monogamy. So those men are probably at least watching porn and I bet they would fuck other women or have already done it, if they get the opportunity. It's sad to keep men from cheating by threating them with taking their property away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:59 PM
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How do you know that those men do not fuck other women tho? I think this is painfully naive, why do some women still think this way? Those men are probably just concealing it well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:40 PM
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I have always suspected this tbh. I feel like men understand that their beta women aren't designed for sex and this is why they wanna control their sexuality. Bc there isn't much sexuality to talk about so these women have more worth as housewives. But men still encouraged all women to work outside home in hope to get those hot girls? That's really stupid and I think they should only have encouraged hot and young women to do that, not average mothers since it had negative impact on children amon…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:17 AM
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Lolol that makes me a Millennial and you a Zoomer, so not always true:P I think from '96 onwards and I'm sure from '97 onwards isa Zoomer. 95 is Millennial
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:51 AM
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Loool I knew it, I always get comments like "princess" and "angel" from them on IG Very un-Swedish thing to say:D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:49 AM
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This is very interesting! I always learn something from you. But what kind of society are we designed for then, apparently not the monogamy that everybody wants? So average men who aren't rich wont get anything from their average wives if they don't force them to have sex? Or oerhaps beta males do not have high sex drive either? Are most of us just designed for work? I thought work was a Western thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:47 AM
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Swedish men do not treat women like princesses tho, chances are your own husband is doing it more. Swedish men do not treat women like anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:21 AM
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Lol I have the same problem, I have the exact same skin color as you and I get "you're yellow" too LOL. I also have the same hair color. Do you have pics with longer hair, like at least shoulder-length?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 06:33 PM
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Yes, other groups are acknowledging that white women are now in equal position as white men, which is what they were fighting for thinking is a cushy and privileged position. Which means that white feminist need to recognize their privilege and use it to bux the society and put disadvantaged groups( this counts men) before themselves. It's a bit cuntish to demand privileges because you belong to an opressed group and then not help other opressed groups. I mean, the whole point of being a leftist…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:28 PM
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It is mainstream in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:12 PM
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I honestly think it has something to do with Millennials. There is way more feminism in colleges today and way better/ more modern feminism than before. I hang with some younger Millennials sometimes and I have noticed that girls who have Boomer parents sound very important when they speak, are colder and bitchier than those who have GenX parents. And when we talked about feminism I didn't perceive them to be feminist at all, at least not what we consider feminism today. And didn't you say Mille…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:31 PM
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How is it possible that there is less radfem hate in colloges rn? Maybe bc intersectionalism is taking it's place? I think colleges are the main sources of feminism. I think there's way more feminism in colleges and certain spaces today than before but less among ordinary people in real life. And more creative/ ridiculous feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:08 PM
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Why would so many IG girls give you their passwords? Not buying it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 01:43 PM
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Interesting. You see muscular men how people see "dark triad" men on here. I dunno why...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 01:08 PM
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Great many red pillers have read that and become muscular with no luck or dating fat women. Masculinity doesn't reside in muscles. I'd say face, eyes and body language is way more important, if we are speaking of a "bad boy", than muscles. But behavior is what counts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:57 PM
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Women do not associate muscularity with aggression, that's just a misconception that men have. Plenty of incels work out and take steroids with no luck. Aggressivenes is mental, it's a state of mind. I'm a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:48 PM
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Yeah, most feminists feel like women shouldn't be expected to be strong, badass, just like men etc bc that devaluates femininity. Women should just be themselves, like cute, feminine, awkward, damsel in distress. I think we praise weakness and victimhood a lot, even in men. Yeah, but the guys do not like alpha men/Chad and want their own masculinity ( beta/nice guy) to be praised instead. While they want girls to be feminine. If you praise them on being masculine they like it a lot, but if you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:29 PM
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That's not even serious, by now it has become a meme. Also it still stands that the women want to bully ordinary guys, I'm taliking about their intentions and not their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:27 AM
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Yeah, but the problem is, they know that guys wont even look their way, not to mention talk to them. They don't want to be perceived as sad women with no options at first glance. It's working since you are at least noticing them, guys are now talking about it, and feeling self-conscious that they aren't living up to fat women's standards. Otherwise, these women would be invisible. I think they are focusing more on insults and revenge than actually having success with their strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:23 AM
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I'm not surprised femininity was taboo judging by the tomboy culture that Hollywood pushed for girls. It was that previous wave of feminism. I have heard many feminists( and I used to be a feminist kinda) talk how wrong it was to turn women into men and at the same time turn culture more masculine/macho. They mean that the culture was actually hostile to women. So today they are encouraging more feminine and feeling society where girls should be feminine- and so should boys. Wearing pink, dresse…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:59 AM
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Lol no, I have noticed girls want to appear cute and feminine/submissive. Kinda Asian? Maybe it's new. Goes well along with the current femininity trend, me thinks. Many people like gender roles nowadays. Also guys at my work talked about "girlfriend experience", meaning when you have a gf and you have to watch Notebook with her and the guys on the team who don't have gf are jealous of that. This guy brags about that kinda stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:49 PM
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I think some girls talk about liking romance to seem feminine to guys. I don't know how anyone can be truly into romance like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 07:21 PM
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Romance is cheesy romantic movies, like Notebook, for example. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 07:08 PM
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People don't work that way. People scheme and use different means to achieve their goals. It's naive to thonk everybody is honest, or knows what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:52 PM
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Exactly, so they are doing it on dating profiles instead. They have even more fragile egos than men and probably cannot stand to be judged by their appearance. So they want to project higher value from the start. Those women are very thirsty for PUA guys, but they are to much of egomaniacs to be rejected by them so they start with insults. They don't want you to think they're some fatties with no options, nope. They will show you how much self-respect they have- by having high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:35 PM
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It's often very obvious and women are often admitting it themselves. I'm a woman and I can guarantee you that fat women who remark on men's height, money, dick size etc are just negging guys PUA style. They know what guys think of their obesity and want to protect their ego with firing insults plus just like PUA guys, they believe in power of negging. It's funny how you guys never assume that women can play same games that you do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:05 PM
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Nah I think it's just pretentious American middle-class. It's not being "grown", it's about turning a man into a beta cuck. I think those values come from older generations and they are changing. It's pity that you associate adult life with American Beauty type of suffering. Gosh, he should have kicked that woman out, she was AWFUL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:59 PM
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I get more satisfaction by pleasuring a man than him focusing on my needs. There's nothing more enjoyable than a man enjoying himself with my body. Without that, there's no pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:53 PM
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You mean, you can't do those things with a partner? It's way more fun that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:42 PM
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I think those women are just bullying ordinary guys in order to "humble"them. They do not really expect a 6' with a 6 pack lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:41 PM
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Bullshit, I'm a woman and I enjoy being called those things LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:37 AM
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I mean, do you have that sort of culture, in Sweden? You seem like the right type for that position, tbh. You're gonna be like Maggie Smith's character in Downton Abbey, or something. Wise, harsh and funny
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:13 PM
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What does that mean??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:24 PM
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Nope, FDS is full of black women actually. EE women who do similar things wouldn't put that stupid label on themselves. Nor do they need strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:23 PM
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Is chase the best part for you, since you aren't in a relationship? Like, once you get it, your interest disminishes?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:30 PM
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But one person can do everything while the other one holds a kid, then. That's how my parents did it. I meant, some men love doing the cooking
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:26 PM
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I think it's delusional to believe that you are doing anything for yourself. I think it's people whose ego prevents them from admitting that they are human and starved of attention and validation. Women who get surgeries always say they did it for themselves, it's predictable and pathetic. Human beings are social and we do things for other people, there is no shame in that. Everybody knows that all those things guys call self-actualizations are desperate attempts to get laid, anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 12:38 PM
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This wasn't at restaurant level though. Just an ordinary household. And my dad liked doing everything. Wouldn't parents be the chef and the chef's assistant and therefore both do the cooking, in that scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 12:16 PM
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Mine had two. Other families had either 2 or one. All the kids are grown by now, of course. The men just love cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:19 AM
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My dad has always been the cook in our family. Most of the couples my parents know either both cook and split all the chores, or the man is the main cook and they split other chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:02 AM
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I'll download that movie. I remember you mentioned Basic instinct, too and I watched it several times, she's always been one of my role models! You have good taste in movies. And Lord, you are spot on regarding Zoomers LOL. Ouch, fake and cartoonish romance feels so real:p You have great insights.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:27 PM
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You do look like the woman in the video. You know your generation's ideals and you live up to them. I always thought Millennial women saw Carrie Bradshaw from Sex and the city as their idol, it feels like that lol. Or Hermione from Harry Potter- smart feminist girl. Yes, you're right about the soft body trend. I used to have a softer, pudgier, pale body and then I went fitness route. I tend to follow ideals bc it gets the most attention. Also femininity is really in, especially for alt girls lol…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:52 PM
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Aren't most women in your generation overweight? Do you think Zoomers are fatter than Millenials, as people are saying? I can confirm that they want slim- fit bodies, in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 06:28 PM
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Wut I'm not even in disguise:D I'm a real life Pick-me, so that's why I stopped being a libfem lol. No but really, to me it just means being a woman who loves men, it should be the norm but nowadays it's pathologized.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:24 PM
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There are libfems who really sleep around but they are the fatter/uglier version. Yes, radfems are jealous and wish they could be hot and less inhibited while many also have crushes on libfems and look up to them. They feel that libfems are traitors who leech off both men and radfems. They feel they have fought for feminism while libfems just take all the benefits of it and give nothing in return. I think deep down they don't believe in sisterhood with libfems bc of this but will still team up w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:44 PM
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Yeah, exactly the guys always fall for libfems. And libfems offer sex on their own conditions and have zero regards for the guy. They are often proud of being bitches towards men and see them as nothing more than sources of validation. I have heard from several that they mostly enjoy seeing themselves in mirrors during sex, and it's always centered around them and their own pleasure. Like textbook Narcissism. Plenty of them do not even have sex and just sell stuff on onlyfans and dress sexy. No …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 11:30 AM
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I don't know any strategists personally and I think FDS is an American thing, usually practiced by Millennial women in USA, but seeing them on here and on twitter they are horrible. But they aren't a problem since men do not want them anyway, so hot libfems are much more relevant since that's who men want to turn into a housewife. You said yourself that FDS women usually end up "buxxing bums" anyway. But I also know men who were fooled into dating a liberal feminist. I think it's cool to have fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 10:55 AM
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Most of the liberal feminists have mental issues though. Also they like attention way more than they actually like sex. They also like to ruin men's lives just for the fun of it, they are feminists after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 10:29 AM
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This. I always hear women saying there wont be a problem to find a man when it's time to settle down bc guys are so thirsty on the internet. But I actually know those guys don't even want sex, they just complain while doing nothing in reality. Plenty of them turn down sex when it's actually offered. Because they feel anxious or whatever. And I have read Elliot Rodger's diary at some guy's request, I can say with certainty that he wasn't interested in sex at all. He just wanted to feel like he wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 12:06 PM
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Pretty girls on onlyfans, tiktok etc are the ones who are happy about the current situation. They are liberal feminists and would not like to be tied down because they have options and get lots of attention. I know girls like that personally and they don't need boyfriends to be happy and are single by choice. Other girls see these as role models, probably. The rest of girls are busy with college and many do not prioritize steady relationship. But they will be the ones who will lose in the curren…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:53 AM
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So true, and the things we gained only we young women think are cool. I'm seeing so many women in conservative circles desperately wanting to find a husband:/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 06:37 PM
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Almost everyone disagrees with these facts here, but there are lot of women in their late 20s-30s who would agree with this, I have seen plenty of them on Twitter and conservative sites. I bet they thought the same as women do here when they were younger. I think those women should see this thread, but alas, internet is so polarized.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 06:34 PM
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Smart women pressure themselves to look good all the time. No one is forcing them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:21 PM
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Of course, hip hop culture gangs, and drugs are in. Plenty of guys( and girls) are dropouts and nihilists, too. There are ordinary students with drug problems. We are now in our twenties, and parents didn't know what to do when the guys were younger either. I have a cousin who's 22, pretends to go to work that his dad got him, and hangs around with his criminal stoner friends instead. He has always been popular with girls and has one rn, that's living with him in his room. He still lives with hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:45 PM
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So many younger girls that I know have boyfriends with drug problem who they ultimately dump because of this. Seems like this is one of the favorite types of guys for a lot of girls out there. And I know they had better choices that they didn't even consider. Gang activities is a plus
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:13 PM
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Antivaxxers is your biggest threatXDXD as in people who don't wanna force you or anybody else to inject anything they don't want in their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:31 PM
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Hipstergirl555 :D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:36 PM
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Yeah, feisty is the word! They believe all men want to force them in the kitchen and bedroom. Barefoot and pregnant. And they think this can always happen to them so they need to resist and have fun while they can, basically. Belle from Beauty and the Beast got this, Gaston tried to force her into marriage, for example. I see it so often, girls attacking guys who have conservative opinions with "What, you want us women to serve you in the kitchen and bedroom, who do you think I am, I 'm strong a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:44 PM
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Yeah I know, but plenty of guys my age lack direction in life and purpose, doesn't seem like porn is making it all good since they can watch porn all they want. Doesn't mean women have it any better. You should go there and show them how to have fun. It aint party without the two of you!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:28 PM
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Ok, that's fine but they still want love, validation etc. The whole package. That:s something almost all humans want, men and women. Almost everyone agrees that we live in hedonistic and empty world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:01 PM
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I have realized that most women who say that like being rebels. This was a thing in disney, stories etc where rich beautiful young women wanted more of life than marriage. Plenty of women give examples of this like, Beauty and the beast movie, Mulan etc. Also I think many women like to believe that men out there want to force them into marriages, some have kinks for it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:53 PM
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Lacking purpose and validation in life kills you soul, though. Porn is just a passtime, not a goal or ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:13 PM
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I used to be sad about this but then I realized it was never a thing before 50's bc we had agricultural society, so we can't be entitled to this brief period in modern history. We all romanticize the 50's tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:49 AM
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Lol wtf. You have some crazy experiences. Yeah, I believe you are right, I have heard other creepy stories. It's funny how they sound like inexperienced young guys lol. They also follow IG girls a lot. Interesting how the GenX women are complete opposite, they aren't into porn at all. I think...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:45 AM
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Wow thanks for your insights gimpgirl! I really learnt a lot of things from you! I hang around men a lot and they always say men are honest and straighforward while women lie and don't know what they want. So I always assumed the guys were right about that, but there were always inconsistencies. They probably overestimate themselves in this regard Do you think it started to be this way because of porn, or have guys always been delusional? Ewww wtf happened to my dad's generation. Also, this is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:48 AM
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But if they wanted those "carousel riding women", then why do they reject them now? I always assumed that guys were disgusted by this but also jealous and turned on, but didn't want to marry them. Madonna/Whore complex. You probably mean if the woman was hot, nice and wanted them for sex, they'd wife her up, despite previous carousel riding? But those women who aren' t hot and are wearing bitchy faces weren't on a carousel, they were fooled by feminism and dumped by men, they didn't have fun. Gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:53 AM
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You're so right. Men are always jealous of women on this carousel thing, but they never think of what happens to them afterwards. Like they say for Millennial women now," She's been riding a carousel", they will say about girls in our generation, "She has been seling herself to the whole world on onlyfans" , when we are 30. Instead of telling younger women they're screwed guys gas them up even more by saying how much power they hold, so even more women decide to do this cool thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:39 AM
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I didn't know you even had Christians there. Would they resemble American conservatives/puritans, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:08 PM
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I got a completely different impression. When I was in Sweden all the girls I hung out with were feminists and middle-class, very pretentious and Beckies. I met some low-class girls who were covered in tatoos, fat and trashy and they were pretty much anti-feminist. They talked about how Sweden has too many immigrants and they wanted to be taken care of by a man. They seemed to believe in gender-roles, one was married and her husband was working while she was at home and said she didn't wanna wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:45 PM
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Actually, feminism is for the Middle-class, as they are pushing it the most, and are most feminist. The broader middle-class a country has, the more feminist it becomes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:34 PM
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They hit on you while wearing bitchfaces? That doesn't make any sense to me at all. Seems to be some sort of trick they think will be working
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 11:27 AM
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What do men in trad cultures work with? Are they working in fields? We can have that type of trad if we go back to agriculture, I assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:29 AM
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Can you name some of the trad stuff? I feel like 50's trad is sort of in, but I assumed it was again influence of the American culture Interesting how you are hopefull about this when most people aren't, considering you are usually harsh about relationships between men and women...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:19 PM
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But we are largely non-European (by heritage) now, and we lack European values. So it's natural that we are taking after the culturally and ethnically mixed USA. We aren't inclusive in Europe bc we have ghettos and parallell- societies now. In fact, Northern -European culture( older generations at least) are afraid of immigrants and traditional. The immigrants have their own culture and are taking after black culture. White kids are taking after American culture as well bc we lack our own cultur…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:52 PM
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Younger people in Europe have more of an American mentality than your generation did, especially Northern Europe even though our culture is different than theirs. I think media but also reddit, MGTOW and other forums/movements are largely American. This means that Zoomer Europeans are more influenced by it. We have also half or more non-white population among GenZ, so American/black culture has more influence, too. I have plenty of friends who are talking about "leveling up". Even politically, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 02:33 PM
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For men, there is good ugly and bad ugly. Bad ugly is nerdy while good ugly is manly and rough. It's a huge difference. So it boils down to masculinity or lack thereof. Looks aren't of importance to women at all, unless the man looks feminine or like he lacks character. So it's the character that's important and looks only bring attention to it. It's better to be masculine and conventionally "ugly" if you are a man, than look like a pretty femboy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:13 PM
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Most relationships are out of convenience. People do it to have a family and not be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:26 AM
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She will have to learn to accept it. After all the beta guy is her true match, she was just temporary good time for the alpha guy because she was lucky he considered her. Part of growing up is accepting things as they are. The other option is to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:15 AM
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Zoomer here. This is because Millennial women are bitchy so the bar is low. Considering how unfriendly women treat men and how entitled they are, even friendliness is a huge thing. I have seen love and attention starved men appreciate a nice, friendly girl:) Femininity and niceness can do wonders, men appreciate it because they are used to unkempt women with resting bitchfaces. Just my two cents on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:27 AM
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What were you like after college?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:43 PM
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One of those women was recently transfered to another team by the boss, and we heard rumours that people complained about what she said, and that was the reason. She told a guy on our team that he shouldn't be dating a German girl because he could import an Asian girl who would cook for him and feed him while he plays video games. I thought about you:D there were plenty of comments like that lol. this woman is from the same country as my grandfather btw and I'm familiar with the Slavic culture. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 04:53 PM
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I have 2 older Slavic women at my part-time job, turns out they are supporting their stay-at-home husbands. One of them is complaining about the guy being lazy and now I believe she's actually bragging. They talk a lot. And are nothing like Western women. Some guys on our team have told them to dump their husbands. One is telling the guys to never marry Some younger Slavic girls are gold diggers and actually want to be houseviwes. One told me that she doesn't like the stereotype about Slavic wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 04:09 PM
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This Millennial men/women divide is soo weird to me. But I know your subculture from tumblr when I was a kid with a Harry Potter blog. There were Millennial sex positive feminists who blogged about fandom stuff and porn. There were whole role play blogs, lifestyle blogs about how to be a lolita and other things. None of the kids my age were like that and those Millenial girls used to tease us for being introverted, weird having pronouns, etc. We had TMI Tuesdays when we would ask them questions …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:55 AM
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Nooo none of the paleoconservative guys want thot with implants, they find it degenerate( and I agree since I know some thots my age personally and they aren't true bimbos, it's just for show). Female ideal to them is a natural, young, pretty girl, white or Asian. But they are really into average cute extroverted girls. The point is their personality, they think all the serious stuff is reserved for men while women should make men relax at home. I know guys of other cultures have different ideal…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:23 AM
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This is definitely cultural. I have noticed that lots of men really love cute useless, ditzy women. They may complain about them, but they would never have a competent woman. One guy, who is conservative, just told me that being efficient and reasonable is a male trait and women shouldn't be like that. He believes, of course in gender roles and thinks a woman should be an eyecandy that makes a man relax with her cuteness or something, because that's natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 08:08 AM
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I have never seen kids like that, but it sounds amazing, wow! Those boys are gonna be competent HVM( dumb reddit term, tho). Are your kids naturally calm and well-behaved?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 05:16 PM
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Wait...your kids cook their own food..?! Aren't their preschoolers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:58 PM
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Are you a stricter parent than your husband? Or do you have the same method with the kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:54 PM
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Kinda depressing that it's only 1% who raise their kids like that. Didn't that use to be the norm back in the day? Is it that way at their school, too? Is it a preppy boarding school with strict discipline?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:45 PM
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Wow that's impressive! Do you have a community of like-minded people who raise their kids the same way? Because your kids may not fit in with other kids, otherwise or they might rebel against that when they see other kids
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:06 PM
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Would you say you're a strict mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 03:20 PM
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Nah, you have a stable identity and a long marriage. Doesn't point to cluster B. Boring people pathologize everything outside the norm. Are you an extravert? I'm between 2 MBTI types for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:38 PM
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Yeah, no one would believe that those model looking girls are quite socially isolated, especially incel guys. Maybe it isn't very logical but that's how it is. One of the girls I know from high school glowed up and become hot but she never had many friends and was bullied and has never had boyfriend as far as we know but has quite a lot of followers on SM. Perhaps she has sex for money, though. She just goes on vacations with her parents and takes lots of pics there. The green haired people are …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:32 PM
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That video is so cute and wholesome<3 relationship goals
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 08:56 PM
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Yes I think they look up to Milennial women. They always act like they know everything and act mentally older. I think the guys probably connect better with them so it doesn't feel like dating a younger woman while they're actually dating a younger woman lol I know several hot model girls and they are usually very self-absorbed and just interested in their looks and selfies. They don't have many friends either and live off their parents. Also, surprisingly many green haired feminist chicks at my…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:38 PM
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I'm talking about relationships not sex. I have few girls at my Uni who are with men your age, in real relationships and they all look like Billie Ellish( who also has an older boyfriend). They look and act like Millenial women, womanly and a bit auntish. And kinda fat. Feels like hanging out with my mom. The hot friends with OF don't even have a bf but of course they can always get any guy. Only one has a bf and he's younger than her and aspiring influencer. I know a girl who rents a male model…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:01 PM
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None of girls on OF I know are interested in money. None are interested in a boyfriend, especially older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:44 PM
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Myself and many other girls I know get a lot of simps from this region. They are easily distinguishable and they sound like sad virgins. White guys sound like neckbeards and less like desperate simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:42 PM
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Ridiculous, I have seen a head turner like 3 times in my life. And people actually turned around. Most IG girls aren't head turners. It can't be 10 percent of your n count
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:30 PM
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LOL Those guys should worry about the image they're projecting, cringy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:19 PM
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Millenial women should look out for other type of Zoomer girls than hot OF models bc those aren't yall's competition
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:49 PM
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Ridiculous, girls aren't there to take any men but to get attention and feeling like an object of desire lol. In fact, most aren't interested. I have friends who are successful on OF, not many have a boyfriend nor are they in any hurry, but they are happy with all the attention!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:25 PM
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Those aren't really women but feminists and minority of women who try to appeal to men this way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:18 PM
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I've noticed most simps are from Middle East or south Asia, actually. Those who write "princess", "angel", "my love please marry me"etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:15 PM
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Ok, that's fair I guess. In style for you anyway. At least you can back it up with your unique perspective. I'm white, part German and part Slavic and I live in Germany. I have plenty of non-white friends and I have hard time connecting with entitled white women who are "Basic Becky". I hate racism and hypocrisy. I regularily condemn racism/fetishization towards brown men as well. We learn all about how racism is bad, everyone preaches it but in reality there's lot of passive aggressive racism, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:50 AM
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How do you know this? And why do you think that is? It kinda does feel that way tbh I have heard something like that from a black girlfriend, I mean that white women are seen as children. I have always felt that white men idolize and protect white women to the point of not seeing them as sexual objects
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:15 AM
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It's not the same thing. At all. It's a white woman with a cool bonus. Being non-white and dehumanized is completely different, especially when white people claim they can't even tell them apart...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:59 AM
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Not at all. It makes her interchangeable with other members of the same ethnicity. And makes her personality trait seem like something that she doesn't own as a person, but as something that's collectively owned. By that logic any Asian woman is as good as the next one. This is racist because, in contrast, when a white woman is submissive those same men see her as a worthy individual( if they want submissiveness), rather as "oh, she's submissive bc white".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:51 AM
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This racism shit is baffling. People aren't "experiences" based on their races. But kudos to you for bringing this up, so many people pretend it's not the case. It's harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:44 AM
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Egalitarian doesn't even exist in practice lol. Your egalitarian utopia would need force and would actually be dystopia
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 08:09 PM
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Human rights is a social construct that only exist in Western world, other cultures don't recognize it. Once again, you are brainwashed and therefore ignorant. You want to kill everyone who disagrees with you XD good luck with that, but it doesn't help your case here. Knew that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 08:08 PM
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It's dumb that men as collective should protect their women. Individual men choose to protect the women if they want to. Afghan men protect their women too, I never said they didn't lol. But Western white men always brag about protecting women like some moral obligation, while I have never seen any other men bragging about this. It used to be a cultural ideal in the Western world, White knights and all. And still is in conservative circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:59 PM
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You defend American interventionalism, which literally mean what I said in the comment above. You are okay with invading a country under disguise of protecting "women's rights"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:45 PM
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I think the notion of men being obliged to protect women and provide, while women are allowed freedom at the same time, is a beta cuck behavior and other cultures don't need it. So, far from racist lol Racists think of themselves as superior bc of this. I think it's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:07 PM
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The notion that men aren't picky about women's looks is ridiculous lol. Men have higher standards than ever and most incel guys could score if they actually lowered their standards. But the women they think are bottom of the barrel are in fact average women and the women they think are average are really way above average. A guy told me today that Jennifer Aniston is an example of average looking woman lol. And most incels are holding out for models and aren't even trying to talk to women no mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:28 AM
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Every ideology has some flaws and isn't supposed to be taken 100 percent seriously. But TRP has enough legit points to draw people in, otherwise it wouldn't be successful. As a woman I agree with many concepts of TRP. It's important that a philosophy is grounded in reality. I think blue pill can distort you perception of reality far worse and neither men nor women want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:12 AM
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Source: real life observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:37 AM
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But that's why no one can authority to define it for other individuals? This is why psychology isn't "real" science( and shouldn't be seen as such) no matter how much they try to turn it into science. Also who gives you authority to speak for TRP not working? Also it's your views that are very rigid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:32 AM
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Sometimes being yourself and always doing what you feel like without consideration for what the other part think is attractive- is incredibly selfish. The spark is long gone And yet plenty of women complain about men not even trying in a relationship i.e. not having a frame
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:03 AM
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Nice guys and single losers have probably other less attractive disorders like depression, anxiety, Asperger etc Dark triad men get more sex from women, not LTR. The nice men in LTR are beta males and women are attracted to their resources, perhaps the women they are with would prefer a DT man for short term?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 08:49 AM
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Nice guys and single losers have probably other less attractive disorders like depression, anxiety, Asperger etc Dark triad men get more sex from women, not LTR. The nice men in LTR are beta males, perhaps the women they are with would prefer a DT man for short term?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 08:44 AM
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That's your own ignorant conclusion about a culture you know nothing about. Perhaps you misinterpret what abuse is, because in West almost every interaction between men and women are labeled as rape these days. This is not the case in other cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 08:32 AM
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Finding yourself and what's working for you is achieved through pretending to be someone else because you aren't born with social competence. Also everyone fakes a personality or certan traits sometimes, it's part of socializing with other humans. There's nothing wrong with that and it's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 08:29 AM
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LOL you'd be surprised at how some women think, you are so naive XD I don't care about your gender or your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 08:01 AM
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I'm a woman but why do you care? Sexist much?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:17 AM
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Of course the government will have more power over you then, and you can't object to being taxed lol. You'll get more socialism and worse quality of life whether you want it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:14 AM
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And you have got a morality issue if you see nothing wrong with enslaving a nation because you interpret their way of living as inferior to your own although you know nothing about their culture. Sounds like a self- absorbed blood thirsty American. Your poor definition of enslaved is not valid, stop trying to justify conquest. Yes you need to stay the fuck away and take care of problems in your own failed Third world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:09 AM
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I doubt most men drive or work there, it's a poor agricultural society. Because not every society needs to look like Western World?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:58 AM
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Of course then it's up to the men to help the women. You can either have a culture where men are obliged to help the women, or a culture where it's up to the individual man whether he wants to help or not. Plenty of men will help their own women, but not all. What do you think the rules should be?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 09:47 PM
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Well awkward people are, which was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:49 PM
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Women need to deserve protection from men and shouldn't be granted it only by existing. Especially in situations that require men to die for them because it's no other way. I don't get this mindset that men are "protectors", at all. It was a western white man thing, it isn't present in other cultures. Women are still grown adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:05 PM
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Lol what do you mean? Everybody fakes it at social gatherings, especially awkward people lol. I have seen quite a few acting like they have seen in some movie or whateverXD not everyone has natural charm and extraversion. Especially in RP/PuA spaces there's lot of advice on how to act. But also legit psychology sites give this advice, too. It's like small kids learn by mimicking
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:01 PM
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No one wants to practice with an awkward person. So being yourself while socializing while you don't even know yourself or haven't developed your "self" properly is a shitty advice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:01 PM
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How are you gonna practice social interaction if you're awkward? No one wants to be your friend/partner. That's where this advice comes in, you fake it until you get enough experience to be yourself, because personality develops in social settings. In order to be authentic you need to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:31 PM
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But men don't call themselves protectors, especially red pill/MGTOW men. Western men have been protectors before but women wanted to be strong and independent so it's not needed anymore, not in the current society anyway. So now more men just want to have fun without any serious commitment or obligations
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:23 PM
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Yes of course, but these are usually conservative talking points about manliness and "provider and protector" bullshit. Basically white beta males feeling superior over other cultures for their beta male mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:02 PM
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If men protect their families then there's no need for government protecting women specifically , as you pointed out. Government wants power over its citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 04:56 PM
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Fake it till you make it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 04:53 PM
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Don't feminist always say that they wont depend on men, but when shit goes down they cry that men should protect them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 04:21 PM
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Why are you defending American imperialism? You are just a self-righteous white knight who uses scare tactics against group of men who you perceive as threat, to make women see you as superior. Maybe you should think about what West is even doing there and whether the occupation has been justified at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 04:18 PM
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Women were against patriarchy but want protection from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 04:14 PM
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Lol why should the government protect women if men protect their families( which include women)?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 04:12 PM
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Then you are lying too about what men say LOL it's called interpretation and personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:10 PM
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This leads to men developing own strategies like MGTOW and refusing to be with women. Then you get the society in which women are trully on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:02 PM
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Men aren't saying that they personally protect women just that "men" in general protect women. It's implied that women need to be deserving of this protection. But plenty of men will also say this to any woman just to get laid. Women don't need protection in Western countries today
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:55 PM
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Lol you talking about morality here. Stop policing other countries that you have nothing in common with. No, not everyone is self-righteous LOL Whether or not I think women should be submissive it's not a topic here, it's American neocon politics
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:50 PM
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I live in Northern Europe and all the liberal democracy bs is coming from USA. It's the moral self-righteusness that's so fucked up. Colonisators shouldn't try to justify what they are doing with morality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 12:16 PM
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It's also white- knighting. And subconsciously feeling threatened by these males' sexuality which they believe that Western women desire, so they are seen as rivals. And yea I have seen that on twitter and elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:48 AM
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I don't think women "should be submissive" lol, it's the topic. But I don't think women deserve protection and providing based on their gender. And everyone sane hates American imperialism disguised as democracy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:42 AM
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What is submission for you? You need to define this lol You need to always put a man's needs before your own and take a bullet for him if he is gonna do the same for you. Otherwise expecting him to give his life defending you is absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:24 AM
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I think it's more of a narrative against letting the refugees in. And an opportunity for white- knighting, saying how they would never do such thing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:09 AM
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Only deserving women should be granted that, and it's up to the individual man to decide whether his woman is deserving or not. It shouldn't be a norm that you are granted protection and providing(really?) just because of your gender. You might have misunderstood the concept
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:51 AM
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Women should be submissive to make life easier for men and the society, not just to be attractive in the bedroom lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:30 AM
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Those men and women who oppose Talibans aren't traditional. They are Western identified
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:27 AM
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These men aren't Talibans, they were on the American side so doubt their women were submissive if they even had women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:24 AM
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No one sane should ever require a man to die for random woman. Has this ever been a thing? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:22 AM
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It's way more fun to be granted male companionship on outside walks than to walk alone. Not to mention, be granted marriage instead of being left to your own devices(freedom!) and listening to feminists who convince you that you don't need a man so you end up alone. There's nothing to thank for
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:19 AM
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Yes, Western women deserve to be left like those Afghan women. Only Western Beta males have this white knight mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:17 AM
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What is the problem with that? You think your culture is "superior" and needs to be pushed onto those "savages"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:15 AM
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Loool you are so naive and you seem to have very low opinion of "savages"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:14 AM
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Exactly. And those men have figured they can go to Europe and breed with white women instead That argument about breeding was used by Northern European men who though that preseving of race was important. So, white men cannot just fuck off to another continent and find other women if they want to preserve their race. So, white knighting was necessary for white beta males
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:12 AM
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It's obviously a cultural thing lol. What's biological is that women are physically weaker than men, but ut's up to men whether they want to help or not. So if a group of people wanna survive men will have to help the women. However, when the loyalty is broken it's every man for himself. (Also men lie to get laid)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:10 AM
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You sound like a colonisator tbh. Pushing your "superior" western feminist values onto people who want to be left alone by those like you. Your self- righteous ass needs to worry about your own country and stay there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:02 AM
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You don't know what Afghan women desire lol. Or what American women desire, for that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:01 AM
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Those men do not value submissive women, though. They value men way more, that will say themselves. They also value white women above their own, so they would rather go to the West and continue their bloodlines there than die saving Afghan women. Also if they were more faithful to their own nation/women they'd be on Taliban side, not the American side
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 09:47 AM
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The right wing beta males spinned this directly into Afghan men not being real men for not putting women and children first. I only see them condemning this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:41 AM
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I think it's more Western white male thing to be a gallant white knight than it's a general male thing tbh. Compare Titanic to this. It's cultural. And I wouldn't say that Western women showed enough appreciation or gratitude, but took it for granted. I don't understand personally how anyone can expect men as group to put their lives on line for women, as a group. To me it always seemed like an individual brave, selfless behavior that some individuals( men or women) can show. Not some sort of so…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:40 AM
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Interesting the same men obsessed with having high n-counts are obsessed with women being/ not being village bikes. Another American thing you only see on forums
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:09 AM
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It's not about masculinity but mentality. It's a modern thing and very beta to be obsessed with n- counts. Talibans aren't obsessed with it, for example. They take what they want while American beta males whine about it on the internet. And it's interesting how all the modern feminism bs has come to Europe from USA. Those Northern European nations are the most Americanized nations in whole Europe, especially Sweden.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:08 AM
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Well, the feminist indoctrination has influenced women to lie or not be aware of what they really want. So the men want to appear masculine and insightful when it comes to female nature
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:01 AM
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Do you think it's great to depend on the government like that or would you say it's only good because modern women don't deserve protection and providing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:44 AM
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I have literally only heard women on FDS use that termXD
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:41 AM
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Beta guys are the ones fleeing the country to come to West, not these dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:27 PM
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All of them? Not like I know them or anythingXD men who take charge against globalism and decadency and take control of the women and the society are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:34 PM
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Yes, I'm a woman and I can confirm this is the type of men women are attracted to. What else should we be attracted to, beta males?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:57 PM
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I don't get your question? Because it's natural to them they demand it and probably because they have read that women want dominant men? RP men know that women submit to Chad but wont submit to them The thing is, most women are submissive while with men it's different, plenty of them are submissive as well. So only if you are lucky you will score a dominant man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:08 PM
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Women of certain cultures do that. Pick-me stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:53 PM
1

How are you size 2 but only 105 lbs? Shouldn't you be 00 then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:22 PM
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Honestly, with this mindset the Western culture will die. There are cultures totally opposite from this degeneracy that will survive and take over. Well deserved
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:12 PM
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You are right, most women like that think that more incels means more men are desperate to do anything to get an average woman. They think their value as average women, is all time high. This is partly the incel's fault for saying how desperate they are for an average woman on forums. But their words do not match their actions as they are pretty set in their ways and have pretty high standards, it turns out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:06 PM
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I just hope you don't have anything against men rejecting you because of your bodyweight. The fact that you aren't skinny, I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:14 PM
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Ok. Are you very conventionally attractive yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:35 AM
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You care more about height than personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:25 AM
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Submission is a natural process, not something you need to force yourself to do. For every woman there is a man out there she would be submissive for, even if she's dominant to most guys. Egalitarian relationships is a social construct, in reality someone is dominant and the other one submissive even if it's subtle. It's completely normal. Egalitarian is boring, bland, I've seen it in two androgynous people only. There's no point in being against human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:36 AM
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LOL you're so naive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:31 AM
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But everyone especially the guys have noticed the opposite- women treat average guys pretty bad. I think what you're saying applies to guys who trigger "dream lover" feeling in these women. Usually guys who ain't shit. I have friends who are like you're describing. But they'd never be like that for a nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:29 AM
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Girls that you would find average plenty of men consider attractive, though. There are different standards. Lol I'm sure no one is talking about bikini model level XD
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:29 PM
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This is a strictly American thing. Here in Europe men aren't obsessed with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:03 AM
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This obsession with n-count is so riddiculous. It seems to be an American thing as I live in Europe and have never encountered this. Why are you this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:02 AM
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I have seen many Swedish men complaining about immigrants raping women and destroying the society, on twitter and other sites. It sounds like they are begging outsiders for help. One said he wished Putin would take them lol Has Sweden always been feminist, like centuries ago? How come they ended up like that? Btw how do you manage in Sweden with your strong and harsh personality and smarts? I feel like you're total opposite from them. It'd be easier for you if you lived in Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:20 PM
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They might go crazy from all those bottled up feelings until that happens. I had no idea Sweden was that crazy. Why don't Swedish men team up with the immigrants? Do you have more hope for the rest of West Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:53 AM
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Wow that is wild! Sounds like a dystopian novel... Do you think things are gonna change now that more men agree with you? Will the Swedish men arise against feminazis?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:11 AM
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I learnt from gimpgirl555 that they ate matriarchal and it's their culture. So maybe it's not primarily social and economic problems, but they do play in. Can you really imagine the Western white men act like those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:11 AM
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Meh. When applied on West Europe, the birth rates will just plummet and the immigrant population who will be in the majority will of course reject that model. We aren't Russia we have a different culture. You can also look at black community in USA, it's matriarchal too. That's closer to what we might get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:49 AM
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Just more single motherhood and higher crime. No big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:39 AM
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Well, they do fuck guys over 40. Money is the important thing here, not the guys age. But they do want attention from younger guys, too and then they reject them like "you can't afford a girl with class". And it never ceases to amaze me how you're the only conservative woman on the whole internet who rejects femininity:D you're different and always give another perspective:)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:39 PM
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Wow. That's interesting... Tbh I feel like they are some extreme incels on those boards and not average Swedish dudes. Maybe they're immigrants? Why do you think they don't have an obsession with getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:09 PM
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Incredible that they agree with you, but I have talked to Swedish men ( Gen Z and younger Millennials) and they sound almost as feminist as the women. Also kind of passive and meek:/ No way are they red pill like plenty of men on reddit are!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:50 PM
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I see, your style seems to be KPop, that's how their fans dress, https://64.media.tumblr.com/bec5a75a3deb7793f81cf89c85890f1e/tumblr_psy4v1x9jh1x6qhzro1_640.jpg This is average GenZ dress, https://imgix.bustle.com/nylon/21076111/origin.png?w=414&h=552&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress Baggy pants, crop tops or wide tops, chunky sneakers, atheisure etc. Maybe they aren't familiar with kPop in Sweden and thought you were a something else lol I had to look up AnnaBey, had no idea who she w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:27 PM
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Do you write anything on Swedish forums? I wonder how they would react to the things you say lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:08 PM
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Are Swedish women different? In my opinion it's a very similar culture except Swedish women are even more feminist and entitled, but they are Beckies as well. Like, they will never even allow prostitution to be legal there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:12 PM
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Maybe they saw you as BDSM or something? No one would flip on a "sugar baby", but I don't think you look it. It's usually the IG look, long hair, makeup, the usual bag that all IG models have, the neutral clothes in expensive looking material, Gucci belt etc lol Ohhh yeah, in sugar baby culture they resent women who are "vulgar"- openly sexual since they wanna look like classy ladies. What did the woman who flipped on you tell you? How do you know she was younger Millenial? Could be older GenZ a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:10 PM
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In my generation it's more normal to be a sugar baby than before. Lots of girls follow tips on how to dress to look expensive, for example. You can find tons of inspo on Pinterest and find videos on how to be feminine or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:28 PM
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I live in Germany, wont tell you specific region, but I have been to Sweden, too and plenty of younger women have non-white boyfriends, too. This isn't strange at all, since our generation is mainly non-white anyway. We don't think race is an issue anymore, lol I dunno why we're talking about slackers tbh , I think most of them are alpha men and they always have women around them who do whatever to keep them. Beta men work though, this is how they are while alpha men slack. But we don't have alp…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:07 PM
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Then why do you always say that women want to trade up for richer guy and your man can leave you anytime if you don't compete? I always assumed you were American. Not to mention , in your country no one thinks of money, especially not women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 03:53 PM
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Nope, girls my age and younger are dating MENA guys,because they show them much more appreciation than white guys. And they have no trouble hitting on women while plenty of white guys can't talk to girls at all. LOL I didn't mean a slacker, I meant a wussy lol and an aspie. Maybe you aren't used to this type of guys? They aren't like your dude lol. I happen to think a manly guy who knows what he wants and refuses to pay tax to support the society is a man of character, but I'm weird. And lol at …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 03:20 PM
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Middle Eastern guys are much more manly than Asian guys though, there's no comparison. I have already plenty of such couples around me, if anything it will leave Middle Eastern women with no men, they cannot compete with basic/average white girls. From my point of view white loser guys are the lowest on the hierarchy, they are basically only good for paying but since they don't have money no women will want them. There are other types of white guys though, mostly East European ghetto types, I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:46 PM
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There are still plenty of beta guys who will overachieve because they time has finally come. I see that there are alot of conservative men willing to support a family among younger guys know IRL. They are more virtue- signaling than ever However I think it will be harder to find an average white man since GenZ is mostly non-white in West, but to those who are open to it there are lots of opportunities. Non-white guys see white women as the prize and will work hard to be successful- majority of d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:10 PM
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People on social media are so dumb and there's so much propaganda and scare tactics in mainstream media, that a growing number of people I know are disconnecting, or want to. If you aren't consuming mainstream media, it doesn't mean you are isolated in any way lol. People should connect in real life, like it always was done. I have nothing against playing video games, porn etc. Just mainstream media abd social media
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:58 AM
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