controversalbird Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	X-post: My boyfriend wants to sleep around before committing for life I do understand that he wants experience and doesn't want to regret becoming exclusive further down the line which would sour your relationship. It's an admirable thing to realize this and work to prevent it ahead of time, defusing the issue before it even starts. But don't wait for him. If it's meant to be it will come back and happen. In the meantime keep your eyes open.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/02/19 04:52 PM
15	Emotionally unavailable men Bless you.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/18 05:20 PM
0	LTR I think you are making some assumptions about her. Just because it isn't likely doesn't mean we should discount it. If you know that you are lucky that something worked out for you, you should not put yourself out there as an example to others. Just lol. How many basketball players put themselves out there to be an example for young kids? Stay in school guys. Jesus you people are angry.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/18 07:35 PM
1	LTR Such things exist in nature is all I'm trying to point out. Most mammals are polygamous. We aren't birds.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/18 06:57 PM
2	LTR bonobos would observe other animals. I think they are very capable.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/09/18 04:13 AM
1	LTR You don't think bonobos could observe less intelligent animals and make comparisons? Again, 'can' is not a guarantee, there is no 100%, no absolutes. When I say "if you want it to" I mean if you want to try.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/09/18 03:46 AM
2	LTR 'Can' being the key word. There is no guarantee. That's not advice.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/09/18 03:33 AM
3	LTR Don't worry, she messaged me privately and we've been talking there since the comments here are so toxic. That honestly makes me sad that we can't even have an open conversation about this. You said yourself that no one comes back and tells you how it went. I wonder why judging from the responses here. It has definitely turned me off to this place a bit. What a great environment you are fostering. I'm not going to give advice saying she should do it. It's not for everyone. But she should know th…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/09/18 01:47 AM
1	LTR So he shouldn't give her the option at all? That's stupid. Relationships are about communication and understanding. He's being honest, and we shouldn't fault him for that. If he wants and she doesn't, that's it. It's not her fault, it's not his fault, it's just the way things are. Like I said, from my observations it's more biology than anything (impregnate as much as you can to ensure the survival of the species). Go observe some bonobos. Younger people (again men AND women) tend to feel this w…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/09/18 03:10 PM
1	LTR So I shouldn't share my experience because my relationship is an outlier? And to insinuate that this is harmful in someway? That's crazy. I can acknowledge we are outliers, that doesn't change squat. People just get hung up on their insecurities. That doesn't mean you can't make it work if you want it to or that it's a 1 in a million chance. It takes work, communication, and honesty. We know exactly what will happen: She let's him do it and feels bad, she let's him do it and feels good, they bre…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/09/18 03:00 PM
2	LTR lol, I get this is a joke but God forbid I share my personal experience. I'm not advocating one way or the other, ultimately that is up to her. I'm just illustrating what I see when this happens. Then I just get called a man for not having a traditional relationship? Pretty ridiculous. Apparently, according to people in this thread, an open-relationship will never work. Meanwhile here I am married for 10 years.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/09/18 08:01 PM
-11	LTR In my experience, it just makes them love you even more because you are so awesome for allowing such things. Not many other women are open to such things, so why would they want to lose that? Alternatively, if you choose not to, it can lead to resentment, bitterness, and losing him. That desire is not going to go away and it can drive people mad. I've noticed younger people (men and women) who have not been with many sexual partners feel this way. It's something that needs to get out of their sy…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/09/18 05:07 PM