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This is an absolute waste of time against all of the average men that women wouldn't even fucking spit on. Absolute clown world confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:18 AM
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Oh God I hope so. Women are remarkably disappointing if this is what a high libido is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:20 AM
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Can't wait, it's like the last Christmas present we're excited to open
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:15 AM
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I dont think there's anything I can do that will ever be enough for women. They will always want more out of men because they always want the best, and unless you're naturally gifted you won't be good enough. I mean sure, you can get into a relationship with enough work but there's no guarantee she just won't want to sleep with you if you make the slightest error. Such is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:48 AM
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"There's no such thing as 80/20" https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/s/e58oA1OjeW
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:21 PM
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Because nobody really likes men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:04 PM
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Pleasing others has a direct correlation with happiness because nobody will give a shit about you if you don't. And we're primed as animals to really care about what others think as a form of survival. You can have all the esteem in the world and be completely miserable and alone if you don't align yourself with the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:56 PM
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If it makes you feel any better, you won't know the difference after you're done checking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:50 PM
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That just confirms that men are essentially unlikable by anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:48 PM
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Just upend all of society and build a new one bro, stop complaining you pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:43 PM
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Being dishonest with yourself about this sort of thing will manifest in ugly ways when you're on the way out. Might as well keep it 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:34 PM
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Eh, what's the difference? Dead at 60 eating lead or death at 75 in a hospital bed, it's all the same in the end
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:28 PM
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That's why the best retirement plan is a shotgun
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:25 PM
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Everybody wants to yank you into the direction that suits them or fits their worldview. That's all any one of these jackasses want. They want to make you into a miniature them. Ironic for such an individualistic culture, but I guess that's how community manifests in this environment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:31 AM
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Yeah, you're done. No shame in it, just admit you're full of horseshit and we're finished here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:38 AM
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Oh, you're done. Thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:10 AM
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I see disgust all the time. A common tactic of gaslighters is to question what someone really sees. But I don't think you're so malicious, I think you've just lived a life where you were spared the majority of a woman's disgust, so you give them benefit of a doubt. Your experiences aren't mine. You're a masculine person, so you've reaped the benefits of it. And you simply can't fathom the other side. You're ignorant of certain perspectives, and I can't fault you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:09 AM
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You can see the disgust in their face most of the time. And you can't say that women haven't learned survival by saying what they need to say in the moment to protect themselves from evil men. It is what it is. This is my experience, but I guess I'm just dumb as bricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:11 PM
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You're leading the question. The woman will still consider him disgusting filth for propositioning her like that regardless of how well she can mask it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:59 PM
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Unattractive people should be treated like people and not like wild animals. But apparently that's too much to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:44 PM
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Well, you didn't interview those people, so you don't really know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:26 PM
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No, idiot. Women are repulsed by men who they aren't attracted to who show interest to them. The very idea of uglier men being attracted to them is repulsive. Women in particular have a lower threshold for disgust, which carries over to romantic interest. Hence my prior statements about them not giving a shit about you; they would rather you curl up in a hole and die than be in their presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:12 PM
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What you're talking about is also a distinct difference from romantic interest. Women do not give an absolute flying fuck about men they aren't interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:53 PM
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Again, I fucking doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:47 PM
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Couples can have the same interests as long as there is actual attraction in play. Nobody is attracted to these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:24 PM
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It's what I've lived and seen. It is what it is. People generally wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:21 PM
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Probably brothers and sisters, or friends most likely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:19 PM
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You give up things like this for, like I said, people who don't give a shit about you to begin with. Wow where the fuck do I sign up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:16 PM
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Meh, doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:14 PM
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You know what doesn't leave a sour taste in my mouth? Having positive romantic interactions with women. Feels pretty good to be honest. Yeah, so just give up everything you like just to be DB'ed in 4 years. Sick. I like cars, snowboarding and video games. Not exactly default things women like... Masculine hobby, masculine and sporty hobby, and video games are more or Less forgivable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:08 PM
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Nah. Those women will go for more attractive guys who don't have those interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:01 PM
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No they arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:54 PM
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You're literally telling them to dress different, be fit and act like someone else. You're asking them to perform a role for others' sake. It's 'I'm changing because I want to please others who wouldn't give a shit about me otherwise'. Leaves a sour taste in my mouth, you just got lucky that the things you like are things women also like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:54 PM
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You mean women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:51 PM
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Do you think it sucks for them? Or are they just doing what they want to do with their life? Dating advice for men just boils down to 'do everything women want you to be doing'. Why even live at all if you're doing nothing for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:36 PM
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Yep. If they change literally everything about themselves they'll be perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:30 PM
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Give it time. As women's standards rise, more and more men will be disenfranchised. And once it's clear women don't give a shit about men's experiences, men will stop giving a shit about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:15 PM
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Complete nonsense. I don't speak for anyone else but me. I don't give a frenchmans fuck about anyone else's experiences but my own. I know what I know, I've seen what I've seen. And I won't be gaslit otherwise. You can regurgitate statistics all you want, I don't give a shit. I've seen the way people treat me, and that's enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:18 AM
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I will thank you for something though; you helped me understand what the Artists soul really is. It's something that desperately yearns for true understanding in others, something that wants to verify their soul is actually mirrored in the soul of others and not just a fabrication of a disgusting monster completely departed from the rest of humanity. And your lack of understanding is the fire that should ignite an Artists soul, but instead I've been too preoccupied with the burning sensation tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:26 PM
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I don't think men really believe most women give a shit about their struggles as a gender, especially in this country. The ones that do are probably so starved for affection that they confuse romantic attraction with true understanding. It's not wrong that I have been radicalized, but there is a viewpoint that has been sorely gaslit and misunderstood in all of this. And they are practically invisible to you, for you literally can't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:07 PM
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I don't think men really believe most women give a shit about their struggles as a gender, especially in this country. The ones that do are probably so starved for affection that they confuse romantic attraction with true understanding. It's not wrong that I have been radicalized, but there is a viewpoint that has been sorely gaslit and misunderstood in all of this. And they are practically invisible to you, for you literally can't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:06 PM
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None of you actually give a shit about what men have to go through for you, as long as you get whatever it is you want. You're all monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:54 PM
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Sarcasm, dipshit. You people make me feel like I'm some kind of disgusting freak. The less I have to speak to people like you, the better off I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:43 PM
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Yeah, we hit a wall here. Have a nice life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:33 PM
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Name these other things, please. Well, aside from appearance which includes being tall, being fit, having good hygene, smelling nice, and being stylish, men have to be kind without being a wimp, be funny without being crass, be confident without being a braggart, be an active listener, be entertaining, be unique, be empathetic, be flirtatious without being overtly sexual, have a good sized dick, perform well in bed, be generous, be masculine without being aggressive, have money or at least have …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:47 AM
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All women need to worry about is appearance. Men need to worry about that and literally everything else. That's saying every single thing we do or think or feel is gender-specific. That's nonsense. This whole conversation was in context of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:43 PM
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The issue is that women's effort absolutely do not mirror men's efforts. There is an absolute chasm of disparity there, whether for casual sex or for relationships. Women can simply walk into relationship after relationship while men need to hone themselves and be seen as marketable in many facets to get what they want. And this is what women never see and never realize. There is no parity in the experiences of the two genders, and there never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:59 PM
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Remove casual sex from the equation and women work much harder at appealing to men than vice versa. Do you really think being an attractive man just happens out of thin air? Are you aware that it's not just looks, but everything about a man's state of being is picked apart when it comes to attraction. Absolutely everything is scrutinized by the woman whereas men for the most part are fine as long as you look decent. I have no idea what planet you're representing with your arguments here. Women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:12 PM
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There's a difference between finding what you want and having it given to you. You don't understand the scarcity most men have to go through, like at all. You're looking at it through the lens of someone who can obtain most single men; women are incredibly more discerning and have way more standards to go through. Most of the battle is finding someone who wants to be with you in any capacity whatsoever. There is no luxury in 'finding what you want' in this scenario. That's part of the birthright…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:14 PM
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It's EVERYONE's birthright to find the person who makes them happiest. Not for men apparently. Women making a system of scarcity means you take what you can get. Eat the food in front of you or starve. I don't believe that only 5% of the male population have wives or girlfriends. Or are non-virgin. That's nuts. There will always be some men who are more attractive than others. There will always be some women who are more attractive than others. This isn't new or even worth complaining about. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:25 PM
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Do I feel entitled to a man I'm attracted to? Yep. Sums it right up nice and neatly. Women are only attracted to 5% of men, most of whom have natural advantages other men can't compete with. Now women think it's their birthright to snag only the best looking men on the planet all the while wildly increasing their standards, calling it their rights. The wanton gluttony by modern women affects everyone, including them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:47 AM
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My life experience is that the only men that ever really got actual enthusiasm was the top men. And my experience here taught me that women don't give a Frenchmans fuck about male experiences in dating at all. And the way you posted confirmed that you were 100% one of these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:33 PM
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I never mentioned the word sympathy at all. It's like if you said you got cat called once a week and I just straight up didn't believe you. It's trying to relay a life experience to someone who's incredulous every step of the way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:06 PM
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It's not about that, women just cannot appreciate what dating is for men. You're all so blissfully unaware because there's no reason for you to ever stoop down to our level to try to get it. You only care about top men and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:46 AM
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L takes, don't know what I expected
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:01 PM
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Unremarkable is functionally ugly. If you must be remarkable to get a partner, it is ugly. And women have access to makeup, any mediocre women can easily elevate herself at least 2 points with like 10 minutes of effort. Plus men being the thirstier sex and required to approach elevates themselves another 2 points. A mediocre woman is at least one or two stages above her looksmatch based on circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:15 PM
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Unattractive is still unattractive. Ugly is functionally the same as being unremarkable if you can't attract anyone. And being an unremarkable man will get you very far. You are very much deluded by being a woman in this regard. Being mediocre is a death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:40 AM
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There is logic that the majority are ugly, because women consider most men unremarkable. And as this becomes normalized, more and more men will be deemed ugly and a smaller percentage will become dateable. Meanwhile men will keep killing themselves at an alarming rate. And women being fine with objectification is hilarious considering how much they claim they hate it. Rules for thee, not for me I reckon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:32 PM
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I'm not back. Temporary fit, that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:46 PM
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Their personhood plays second fiddle to your gluttony
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:17 PM
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As long as you still receive all the material wealth he provides, you'll stay with him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:16 PM
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I'm talking to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:47 PM
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Because the bar is always climbing higher and women's standards are always increasing. There is no room for the majority of men anymore, its all just trying to get as close to perfection as possible. Men aren't valued as people, they're becoming objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:46 PM
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You don't want a partner. You want a body who will sacrifice their time, energy and resources for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:31 PM
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What about the rest of them who aren't top percent?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:30 PM
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Nah, i don't have the tools to do anything with it. I'm progressing better with other areas in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:45 PM
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Oh honey, it's not you it's me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:51 PM
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Yeah, this place brings out the worst in me that should really be dealt with in a therapy setting. Posting here is just picking at old wounds. Goodbye again for probably a good long while.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:49 PM
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I don't care. Chasing women is a total pain in the ass and yall aren't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:38 PM
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Ya nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:02 PM
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Like I said, it's never enough for them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:26 PM
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My plight is not your masturbation material
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:13 PM
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I'll just get bean bags. Same difference
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:09 PM
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No, it's miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:08 PM
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Pursuing women is always a big effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:22 PM
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Those women are also more likely to cheat. To see you as lesser than because she's had much better sex with another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:19 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:12 PM
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Any kind of pursuit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:11 PM
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They always want you to be better, to be more. It's never enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:09 PM
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No, men require more effort
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:09 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:08 PM
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Yes. Chasing, pursuing, same difference
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:06 PM
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It's easy to make friends as a woman when people are simply more inclined to be friendly with you on account of you being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:04 PM
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Except men are expected to initiate all romantic encounters, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:03 PM
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All I'm beginning to realize is that chasing women is absolutely worthless. If you're disadvantaged enough, the juice simply isn't worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:55 PM
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Women are far more lazy and entitled, they just get away with it because of their gender
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:52 PM
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This is absolutely a trend I see on Reddit all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:48 PM
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Repeating your post doesn't make my statement less false
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:45 PM
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Doesn't take away from my point
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:43 PM
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Sounds like women tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:32 PM
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The point is there's enough of a cucky groudswell that it's starting to become noticeable. This is where we are trending as a people; women are wonderful, men are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:31 PM
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Sounds based, ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:14 PM
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The other voters are just circling around upvoting each of the divorce posts, so that isn't even an accurate metric. It's valuable info because we get to see what behavior is accepted and what isn't, and ny whom.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:14 PM
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It's being upvoted by people who agree with the sentiment. Those people outnumber any other individual message. Therefore its the most popular and accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:51 PM
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Ok, my needs aren't being met at home. Can I go cheat now?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:34 PM
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They don't give a shit about you, they only like what was beneficial to them. You had to twist your personality to suit their desires. Your friendships are as deep as a sidewalk puddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:33 PM
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Then who's doing all the upvoting?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:23 PM
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Run
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:18 PM
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The most up voted one isn't though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:16 PM
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If it brings value, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:13 PM
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The you're only liked because you give them tangible value. They don't give a shit about you in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:08 PM
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So women have a free pass at cheating whenever they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:06 PM
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You weren't flawed enough to be considered rotten garbage by default. You were privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:47 PM
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Are you lumping all ugly men into being Chris Chan?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:46 PM
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You never had to deal with being inherently repulsive. Such is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:42 PM
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When did I say that, Lillith. Fucks sake
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:41 PM
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I don't blame any man for not wanting to socialize when his natural self is inherently repulsive to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:36 PM
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Doesn't detract from what I said at all. But there's also the additional layer of unattractive men being lumped in as a potential threat, adding a sense of anxiety and preservation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:32 PM
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Oh, so if you mask up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:30 PM
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No, it isn't hate. It's a mild disgust that can intensify if the man insists on contacting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:23 PM
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Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:20 PM
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So you just wanted to Man Bad. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:07 PM
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Making it gendered is disingenous then. Trading up is a person thing, not a man thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:02 PM
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Well in that case, you better doxx these people or else I'd never believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:54 PM
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You're saying this like women don't monkey branch as well
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:52 PM
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Damn scrotes and their checks notes Sharing of baby photos
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:39 PM
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Then enlighten me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:31 PM
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Nah. They're people, not idols.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:27 PM
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Lol nobody likes autistic people, not even autistic people xD
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:22 PM
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They want fit, charming men with some money in the bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:14 PM
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He was dodging bullets xD
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:11 PM
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Illustrating a point. Women all want the same thing, just not the hyperbolized version presented here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:06 PM
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Fine is not the same as preferred
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:58 PM
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Aka having autism
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:57 PM
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So you want a short, fat poor guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:52 PM
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Except you get zero feedback on what the actual problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:46 PM
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Ok, but they can. And it hasn't never happened before. If your brother is killed by his SO, are you just gonna shrug and say well. That really shouldn't have happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:39 PM
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That doesn't detract from anything I said whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:35 PM
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Women cant stab while you sleep or poison your food?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:34 PM
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They are responsible for a lot though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:28 PM
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Parents are pretty awful, ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:24 PM
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Drinking alone at a bar is great. You just get to soak in the vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:23 PM
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Where do women do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:27 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:56 AM
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Wait, do people actually respect Sneako?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:55 AM
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So you're saying men should be more masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:54 AM
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Women who expect men to pay are being manipulators. Men should keep it fair and just say no, but there's simps and traditionalists who keep these women fed for free, and neither of them know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:12 AM
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Women do. Be muscular, be masculine, be handsome, be generous, be funny, be Extroverted, be confident, be kind, be tall, be sexy, be good in bed, be rich, be charismatic, be amazing. I guess men are just dumb for not giving women what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:09 AM
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Well, here's the thing; women take advantage of men's lust. Sex should be a mutual benefit, but women deduced long ago that men want it more, so they want to get paid on top of having mutually beneficial sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:06 AM
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No, because then the cost is worth the price of admission. Soft prostitution. What you're talking about is parasitic vampirism. No man would willingly pay for her meal just to enjoy her company in the moment, it's always with the opportunity of something more. If the woman said immediately that she's not going to see him ever again, why would he pay for her food?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:01 AM
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The issue is your standards would hit a brick wall. You could never bring yourself to fuck the women that the ogre men fuck. Women also have the entitlement of high standards. That would come to an end real fucking quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:52 AM
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No, one is being a host with the assumption of sex that both parties enjoy. The other is leeching sustenance from his paycheck. It's not comparable in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:45 AM
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That's what all women think. You're riding off the high of the entitlements women get. Once you're actually a man it'll all come crashing down on you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:43 AM
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No, because sex is a mutual benefit. Free meals are literally her being a parasite.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:12 AM
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Well, maybe in the next life you'll be reborn into an incel and finally get it. Here's hoping
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:11 AM
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His acceptance doesn't detract her from being a manipulative, greedy garbage can. Every man this woman is involved with is going to be completely miserable at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:02 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:56 PM
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It's manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:56 PM
1

Well, thats the problem. The popular thing is, well, popularism. They'd rather enflame the passions of the white disenfranchised than appeal to old money and chicken hawks like they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:38 PM
1

Listen, believe it or not I am a nice person. Does me zero favors. Zilch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:36 PM
1

He just has that confident, sexy, sensual aura. If you watch him sing in a music video you'd get it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:34 PM
1

Whelp, the issue is what happens when there's another republican as president and they have control of the military. Suddenly the chain of command becomes his whim, and not sedition under a Democrat president. Odds are though it's not going to come to civil war. It'll be a partisan overtaking of government and authoritarianism will just happen in a span of months. Protests will be brutally quashed, and that'll be that, game over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:18 PM
1

Female: Emma Stone Male: Josh Homme
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:47 PM
1

Dog, the military and police are filled with authoritarian pieces of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:43 PM
1

Every time I exposed chest hair it did me favors for women. They like dimorphic traits my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:31 PM
1

Aka the poors
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:05 PM
1

Oh no, she'll only sleep with me then leave Oh nooooooo Regardless, women still don't want 'nice'. There about a dozen other qualities that trump being nice in a woman's eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:57 PM
1

Still doesn't matter at all but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:51 PM
1

Can't afford kids 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:44 PM
1

Oh, I thought you were giving some sort of significance to being nice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:37 PM
1

Yes. It's not about being a good person, it's about being useful to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:21 PM
1

Conceiving?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:17 PM
1

Still get no feet in the door without being hot. My statement stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:09 PM
1

Exactly. There's no point in being a good person at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:38 PM
1

It's just prostitution with extra steps. In fact I think I respect Johns more than these sorts of men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:36 PM
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Many men are also pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:30 PM
1

Being hot > being nice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:22 PM
1

That's inviting splashback and now you have to wipe the damn seat. You can't win.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:15 PM
1

I already do it. It's just more comfortable on a toilet, I can shit immediately and nobody else has to listen to my piss noise. Take the throne pill, boys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:11 PM
1

People are ugly. I don't think being nice about it is gonna change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:06 PM
1

You said it yourself, they weren't conventionally attractive. That isn't ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:04 PM
1

You didn't find them ugly then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:01 PM
1

The difference is if nobody is interested versus some of them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:49 PM
1

Why would it be dumb for a woman to date a man that will never marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:45 PM
1

Better yet, fetuses that can't even speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:43 PM
1

Nah, women want nothing to do with ugly men whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:41 PM
1

Not religious, the homeless only care because you're giving them food, and subhumans typically don't have money to freely move where they please. Society will always have a bottom rung nobody will want to associate with. This is nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:39 PM
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You can't negotiate attraction. "Getting" a woman is worth very little if she just uses you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:30 PM
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If you have nothing to offer people, you're garbage to everyone. People, especially in America, are fickle like that. Maybe you were different, but there are plenty of men who are seen as subhuman by the vast majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:26 PM
1

I don't think anything I had said is unreasonable or far fetched. If you don't want to believe it that's fine, you're not the one facing that kind of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:17 PM
1

There's a definite sense of unease. To a man, it appears that you are revolted when they detect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:15 PM
1

People are still hierarchical though. They believe they themselves are the rote standard for humanity, and anyone they deem as lesser than is classified as subhuman. Even if they won't admit to calling them subhuman, their subconscious tells them otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:09 PM
1

Yeah, men are competitive by nature. They're not going to associate with people beneath them, and women are just straight up grossed out by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:03 PM
1

🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:00 PM
1

Considering how much you hate men, I dunno how much I'd believe you. Because that sounds straight up delusional if true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:56 PM
1

If everyone believes you're subhuman, you're the o lu one lying to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:52 PM
1

I don't think anyone would argue that men's violence is in direct correlation to their biology.. if women had that much testosterone, they'd be just as violent. Where's the dunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:52 PM
1

If they aren't interested in what life has to offer, they shouldn't be compelled to live for no reason. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:46 PM
1

Nah, ugly men are treated like filth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:32 PM
1

It's a part of the whole pie. Men in general are just treated worse on the whole from everyone. They're only valued for the material/tangible gain that they bring, and if you bring nothing then you're worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:31 PM
1

Yeah, people are disappointing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:21 PM
1

Nah. That's a gross quality to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:14 PM
1

Yeah, it sucks ass
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:03 PM
1

Well yeah, there's no reason to be nasty about it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:59 PM
1

Nope. Tell me the soup is mid. I'm an adult, I can take criticism. I will berate my own cooking all day, and I'm honest with my SOs attempts too; it makes the good attempts that much more satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:34 PM
1

What, you don't make your own?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:43 PM
1

Nah, I want complete honesty the entire time. If the relationship is built on lies, I want no part of it. The act of a white lie is for your benefit, not his. Granted, if his wife wanted him to lie to her face, then that's her prerogative
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:21 PM
1

Don't do that. If I found out my gf was telling me white lies about our sex life, there would immediately be big trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:06 PM
1

Which you choose to interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:02 PM
1

You mean lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:01 PM
1

He wasn't an asshole, he was direct and honest. Him being 'nicer' is just a desire to control him and swallow his preference for her benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:50 PM
1

You still have a lot of festering anger and hostility in you, regardless of who it's directed at.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:48 PM
1

Is pregnancy not allowed to be a turnoff?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:30 PM
1

Monogamy just strikes me as the inherent desire to possess another person as much as possible. It creeps me out sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:55 PM
4

It's not a lack of confidence, it's a numbers game. There will be a man that was better than you in every facet if her number is high enough. And eventually you will be compared to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:41 PM
3

The human race does not require intelligence to procreate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:24 AM
1

The benefits of not being pumped with testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:22 AM
1

Nah. Psychopaths are great at putting on a face. My point is her online persona is irredeemable. Heels dug in so firm she's classified as an immovable object.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:17 AM
1

Vanity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:16 AM
1

Anyone can put on an IRL mask. Anyone can pass as pleasant if they want to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:10 AM
2

She's irredeemable. Leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:07 AM
2

If you think you're at the finish line and you don't have your woman, you're not at the finish line.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:02 AM
1

Won't that get me arrested?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:59 PM
1

I dislike what I have to do in order to get it. I dislike how I can't opt out of wanting sex. I dislike having to play the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:59 PM
1

How am I supposed to break my hostility towards sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:52 PM
1

Whenever you want. Ignore all the people saying it's never over, there's a point where you get diminishing returns for your efforts. Definitely ignore women's opinions, they don't have a concept of Zero options
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:43 PM
1

Wasn't what I had remembered
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:38 PM
1

Thankie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:37 PM
1

Lies, you hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:37 PM
1

Lies, he's a psychopath. He has no emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:21 PM
1

I don't think this placed has solved a single problem anyone had
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:16 PM
1

What'd I miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:14 PM
1

Peace. It's been real
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:10 PM
1

Well, both
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:19 PM
1

This also includes love and attention
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:17 PM
1

At the end of the day, no one deserves anything just for existing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:58 PM
1

Testosterone is a hell of a drug
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:32 PM
1

Why would they in the first place? Why is love and attention an entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:44 PM
1

What if you don't deserve love or attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:12 PM
1

Was this post made with the intention to validate your ideals?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:08 PM
1

Now we're cooking
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:51 PM
1

9/11 was pretty swell
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:45 PM
1

"God is dead, lmao yeet" -Nietszhe probably
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:41 PM
1

He's on some spectrum. He's also ace, which is gonna narrow him down even further
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:39 PM
1

Society also makes it more shit, just in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:33 PM
1

The human condition, therefore, is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:32 PM
1

So is being hot, funny enough
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:16 PM
1

Being smart is a borderline detriment, while being hot is always, always advantageous
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:14 PM
1

Sure Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:10 PM
1

How do you tell a friend that the reason he isn't getting interest from women is because he smells?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:10 PM
1

I don't think I could hit A fast enough
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:09 PM
1

Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:09 PM
1

Just because women are fucked over, does that mean men should be too? I don't understand. Also you should probably move out of those states while you can
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:07 PM
1

Having zero say on if the child is born or not, and then forced to pay child support for a child you don't want, isn't great. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:01 PM
1

Somewhere that isn't here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:46 PM
1

He's in a better place
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:44 PM
1

Less than 50 bucks, for sure. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:21 PM
1

Because you're making a distinction that says men should receive less kindness. There's no reason why you wouldn't just say treat people with kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:19 PM
1

It doesn't matter, nobody listening will ever reach that status so any conclusions drawn from it are completely worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:18 PM
1

The question is why should women be given exceptionally nicer treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:12 PM
1

Well, maybe American women are more vapid than the ones in the Netherlands. Just a hunch
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:19 PM
1

What country would that be
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:14 PM
1

Less than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:11 PM
1

So let them stare when I walk in looking beautiful, because I'm a prize to be fought over but I'll be the judge who wins. Lol eew
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:08 PM
1

Being short is still a universal detriment that has to be compensated for, regardless of her height. A short guy has to be damn near incredible in every other aspect to 'slay'.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:02 PM
1

They were famous musicians. Can we please stop using famous people as examples of success, it's so dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:53 PM
1

Just an observation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:47 PM
1

The best way of being kind, compassionate and considerate is actually being unyieldingly abrasive, condescending and nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:45 PM
1

Find am ugly autistic woman and mack on her
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:35 PM
1

Of course men are oblivious, women are always clandestine about these sorts of things
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:57 PM
1

If you're already friends with them, chances are the feelings are more than just sexual. Like they say, your spouse is like your best friend, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:56 PM
1

A person who succeeds and a person who fails while regretting it are both in the same camp; one less person that has to suffer. Same difference to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:42 PM
1

Meh. People should still have the freedom to choose whether to stay or go, regardless of any reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:22 PM
1

Or we can just let anyone leave whenever they want, because that would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:13 PM
1

Why rush it? Why not? Non-existence wipes everything away regardless of when you do it. Everything leads to suffering anyway regardless of what you choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:13 PM
1

Those options are always temporary. Why put a band aid on a terminal wound?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:47 PM
1

Then it turns into anyone wanting to use it being classified as having a mental disorder, since anyone wanting to use it would be 'mentally unwell'. Completely defeats the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:46 PM
1

I mean for anyone that wants it, not just medical deaths door cases
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:41 PM
1

You call it preventable death, I call it compelled life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:40 PM
2

Controversial opinion, but I think we should make assisted suicide an option for anyone that wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:31 PM
1

Great way to ruin your life, I endorse it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:30 PM
1

They were basically the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:25 PM
1

What kinda weird ass folk are you associated with, jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:49 PM
1

The fucking would just be a distraction though. Skydiving? Visiting Italy? Scuba diving? Space exploration? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:04 PM
1

How much do you think that's cultural and how much biological?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:59 PM
1

I think there's a tension between men about when to let your friends handle themselves and when to be emotionally available. Men are taught to "handle their own shit", and that interferes with deep emotional bonds that require vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:54 PM
1

There's way more cool shit I'd rather be doing than having sex tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:26 PM
1

No, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:18 AM
1

If B means i get to be neurotypical as well, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:10 AM
3

Damn, both are upgrades
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:48 PM
1

Pour one out for the tiny dick homies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:12 PM
1

Well of course you're presuming personality beats looks if looks don't matter by definition. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:53 PM
1

If she's not physically attracted to you, you're a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:48 PM
1

If she's not physically attracted to you, you're a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:47 PM
1

Even in 1st grade I had crushes. So in my conceivable life, no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:41 PM
1

I did, not as much as I wanted to. The heat was brutal and I was completely whipped by the end of the week
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:14 PM
1

Women's attraction to men is highly conditional. That's basically it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:14 PM
1

Most men are ignored, most women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:42 PM
0

That makes no sense. A man that does not want to commit but still wants sex has no bearing on a status of a woman whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:16 AM
2

Nope, literal bottom, bottom rung. Couldn't get lower
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:15 AM
2

Ok so I looked up an inverted pyramid concept just for minecraft a week ago I found a design that was great, and it also made me want to freestyle design points on top of that. The best creative things are just jumping off points 💯👌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:14 AM
1

Are you sure you aren't gay or bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:35 AM
1

Way ahead of you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:33 AM
1

I am sending you a challenge 🫡😤😤😤 Report back in 24 hours with your findings
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:33 AM
2

If you want legal advice, talk to a lawyer. If you want good smut, talk to an enthusiast 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:11 AM
1

While I have you on the horn What's your favorite dirty text subreddit? I've been reading r/edgingtalk and the kink doesn't hit me as hard, but it's the only good text based one I found so far. Any suggestions?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:35 AM
1

Not everyone is the kind of nerd that customizes their reddit avatars
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:30 AM
1

Nah, I'm in attractiveness camp and he's in status for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:18 AM
1

Yeah it's pretty great that all of our money is contributing to Europeans' better QOL, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:00 AM
2

Betrayed by biology, ad nauseum
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:33 AM
2

Land of the free. Hallelujah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:56 PM
2

I think the only thing that'll help me at this point is mushrooms, but i simply don't have access to the stuff. What are your experiences with shrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:28 PM
1

Ok well the point is fixing neurodivergency isn't like a skincare routine. Chances are you're stuck with it for life, so take what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:23 PM
1

I also find that type A aspect in people to be obnoxious. Then again I can grow a beard and get morning wood so T probably isn't a problem for me anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:16 PM
2

Yeah but you already did the deed at that point. Walking away with money in the bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:14 PM
3

Honestly half the time it just makes you sound unhinged. Idk if it's worth it, especially if there's a chance to just break out in a random fit of violence
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:12 PM
2

Women will still sleep with you tho so 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:09 PM
1

My point is that it's not about having interests, it's about having woman approved interesting interests
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:43 AM
1

Depends on how major
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:40 AM
1

Nah, if he's attracted to you he's a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:40 AM
1

Exactly my point. Only women approved shit is allowed. Fuckin gottem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:34 AM
1

Baking and cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:33 AM
1

I thought you hated men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:13 AM
1

Yes it's good to be interested in what everyone else wants you to be interested in. That has never been a point of debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:11 AM
1

Yeah, but they are not 'bad boys' that women pursue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:05 AM
1

I only like high concept monotone music of varying microtones. I sing in a pure falsetto. Also, what's wrong with my rubber bands?? I'm super passionate about those
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:54 AM
1

So my rubber band passion and ukulele collection will net the woman of my dreams? Tight
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:48 AM
1

The entire game is just twisting and contorting yourself to fit the needs of others. That's it. How much of yourself are you willing to sacrifice for the woman of your dreams? How much blood will go down the drain to please the ever devouring mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:46 AM
1

Yeah, misandrists exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:44 AM
1

Well, the thing is it has to be a Woman Approved interest, doesn't it? I can't be interested or invested in anything boring or else it wouldn't fly with your crowd. If it's not sexy and amazing, I might as well be a houseplant God damn this place is depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:19 AM
1

Ugh nevermind
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:09 AM
1

How do I be interesting. What does that mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:04 AM
1

Oh, top 5% of charisma. Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:58 AM
1

Still involves being remarkably fit and spending big money on aesthetics. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:46 AM
1

🤦‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:26 AM
1

An asshole, but he's also hot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:22 AM
1

Ok it's one thing hearing the funny meme stories about Twitter becoming X, it's another thing to see a big X loading on your screen to show me the latest X
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:15 AM
1

That's what I am to you? Sheesh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:13 AM
1

So it was mushrooms, God dammit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:12 AM
1

Anyone that's trying to be conventionally attractive is being conformist 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:11 AM
1

Your kinks go hard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:10 AM
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No dude, as a man I'm just treated like a burden around everyone. My girlfriends would tell me about all their fun interactions with people and I'm treated like I'm going to pull a knife out at someone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:52 AM
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I yell "YOU ARE LOVED" to everyone as I walk down the street
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:32 AM
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It has nothing to do with sex you weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:31 AM
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Oh. I thought you did mushrooms or something
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:16 AM
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I love all of my fellow man, and my heart goes out to all of them as I go about my day to day. Are women just built differently? I thought everyone felt that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:16 AM
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You're a troll account
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:56 PM
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Not what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:41 PM
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I just hear it as worthless. Dunno what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:22 PM
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Sexless amorphous blob creature, yay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:21 PM
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Cool, I'm not human in a woman's eyes. Noted
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:17 PM
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How did you manage that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:56 PM
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Ok but you can't just magic a happy face. If shit sucks, then shit sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:50 PM
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Well, that's the way it is. Negative in, negative out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:47 PM
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Aww thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:26 PM
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I'm not overly negative, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:00 PM
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It would be better at least
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:51 PM
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It cannot be over app. Has to be an in person coach or something. It would be a complete farce online
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:48 PM
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They become disingenuous as soon as money is involved. Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:45 PM
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I've said it before, women love men with top percentile qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:38 PM
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You also have to consider people who watch the Bachelorette or w/e are most likely super vapid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:37 PM
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So what, the most conventionally attractive men get only mid results?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:31 PM
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...because of attraction. These are just hunk of meat sex objects, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:30 PM
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Sure, there are exceptions to every rule
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:26 PM
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Because they all have the same handsome man qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:21 PM
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Yeah, women don't date outside of their race that often. And the majority is white. It's just numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:17 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:15 PM
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Yeah, it's a self fulfilling prophecy. Women say they're bad, so they believe it, then it just gets recycled over and over again. Women give men shit for having a high opinion of themselves, but having a low self opinion is a death sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:15 PM
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Maybe he should be less positive. There's a point where it's just straight delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:11 PM
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Oh, I guess all the single people are just terrible assholes then 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:08 PM
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Nah, ugly people still get left in the dirt for LTRs as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:02 PM
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He should rock an eyepatch. It would unironically be way sexier
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:56 PM
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Women let their preferences known. They definitely pursue the most fit and tallest men the most aggressively
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:54 PM
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There is a really big amount of overlap though, there is definitely a hierarchy of appearances and that is not up for debate. It's not like all women are attracted to a different, unique 20% all equally. There are still winners and losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:50 PM
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Oh. Then it's the overt displays of masculine aggression that's doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:47 PM
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If you have incredible status, like a rock star, sure. I don't think that's really applicable for the average guy though. Point is women want men in the top percentile of something, everything else is disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:38 PM
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So you're mad the short guy is seen as the hottest?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:32 PM
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That's just hypergamy. Women also love the dominant male in those spaces. Chad is more appearance based.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:28 PM
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Fictional characters do not count. I don't think I need to explain why I think the general consensus is that Chad is mostly appearance based
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:26 PM
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No. Women don't flock to uggos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:23 PM
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Whatever percentage of men have women flocking to them en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:21 PM
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On a wide scale, no, it's not possible to cure them all. And nobody's really chomping at the bit to help them anyway. It's all on a case by case basis. Some will get better, some will stay the same, and some will get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:13 PM
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Pushing it outwards is a coping mechanism, meaning they don't have the ability to take in all of that anger without threat of suicide. So, it would probably be better if they didn't have that anger at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:01 PM
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I think it's just how self hatred manifests. Not everyone can turn all of that anger inward without completely self destructing; some people need a conduit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:44 PM
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Because you've put all the blame on yourself. Instead of flogging women, you self flagellate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:34 PM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:21 PM
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I mean using it as a means to purposefully end a conversation. When I said that, I really did feel like women were pushing more and more men into the Disposable category. Part of me still thinks that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:19 PM
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I had an ex where if I brought up valid things that hurt me, he'd say "I know I'm a fucked up person and I should just die." That put me in a position where I had to backtrack and start defending him from himself. Instead of doing the right thing by either addressing my concerns or breaking up with me, he used his self-hatred as an escape. My needs were never met because I had to take care of his feelings first. Yeah, I have too much guilt to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:08 PM
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Put him in a suit, tan him a bit and make him smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:04 PM
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I've always said it's still functionally ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:01 PM
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Yeah, I think she's still a smokeshow, but I also think her age is starting to show a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:51 PM
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There's a difference between finding someone attractive and flipping the switch to become a cheater. You can feel the internal conflict happen during the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:51 PM
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No, not really. I'm not trying to be contradictory, I'm telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:47 PM
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True, there is a distinction. I think a lot of men mean she's mid to them, not mid in general. Or just mid compared to other celebs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:44 PM
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I did not cheat. But I was certainly tempted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:41 PM
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Yeah, I have depression. I get depressed, and I have moments of clarity. I'm a fucked up, broken person. These things happen. If you have anything else to say about the argument at hand, let it rip.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:38 PM
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Actually shit like that happens a lot. There's a lot of disagreement about which male celebrity is actually hot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:36 PM
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Well, I had sex between once a month and once every two months in my LTR. Should I have been satisfied? You tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:32 PM
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Compared to women's standards, it's in the dirt
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:31 PM
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Apparently it's like 50% 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:28 PM
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20% is a minority, last I checked 🤷‍♂️ And the dead bedrooms sub is hardly empirical anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:24 PM
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I'm not villifying them, I'm removing their halo. And I never actually said that prior bit. And if I did say something close, I was probably just being insecure and whingey.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:23 PM
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Women typically let sex die off. Sorry, it's just how it goes. You are an exception. And these men are saying their marriages are happy because they are happy aside from the poor sex. I can relate with this personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:19 PM
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Like i said, the women shouldn't be assumed to be faultless angels either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:17 PM
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It means he isn't getting enough. And with the way women's sexuality usually works, this isn't surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:10 PM
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Some men are driven to cheat 🤷‍♂️ Either that or suffer a miserable marriage with a neglectful wife
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:09 PM
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You're focusing too much on fault here. For every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction. That's all. If you were being completely honest with yourself, you would know if you were actually being neglectful to his needs or not. And if you truly weren't, then there was nothing you could have done anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:09 PM
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top reason for male cheating is a neglectful wife
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:00 PM
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Sometimes people just grow apart as well. They become different people, in which case it's no one's fault. Point is women shouldn't be assumed to be faultless angels.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:00 PM
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Stats say over 50% still love their wife. Partially that, and partially due to the dating market being an absolute shitshow for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:53 PM
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👏👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:51 PM
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uh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:50 PM
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Cheating is often brought out by a neglectful wife, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:39 PM
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Nothing happens in a vacuum. There's a strong possibility there's something she's doing or not doing that triggered a checking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:32 PM
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A society without children ceases to exist. It either dies off or gets replaced by another society. My point was that mothers and fathers have social roles, and that’s a good thing for society. Good mothers and fathers. Nobody wants people raising vicious assholes just to hit some quota. Agreements on morality are again social roles (I will act like X because I think it’s good). People who behave immorally (outside of that aspect of their social role) are bad for that society. And here's where y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:16 PM
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I'm surprised they aren't thrown in the cargo hold and treated like livestock
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:11 PM
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If people had it their way obese people wouldn't have rights
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:09 PM
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Women are disgusted by weak men in general. This is nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:08 PM
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We're definitely getting to the point where it's gonna be mandatory
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:06 PM
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Wow, must be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:01 PM
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Why do we need mothers and fathers? Why not just have everyone pay taxes and out source parenting to the state? Asking the wrong question. People become parents, mostly, because they want to be. They're opting into that role. The opposite would be public shaming and coercion of parenthood. Why do we need shared morality when we can just enforce laws? People by and large come to agreements on morality completely on their own, it's not a thrust upon role they have to play
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:00 PM
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Must be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:55 PM
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So really it's all or nothing on the attractiveness front. No point working on anything else if you can't clear the first hurdle
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:52 PM
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Why do we need them beyond the requirement to be employed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:43 PM
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I think the better question is, when does societal obligation excessively rob people of agency? A society of slaves might function well, but is that what we really want?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:37 PM
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Definitely less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:26 PM
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That's what conservatism is, the opposite of leftism. Strict social roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:20 PM
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You're also talking about two incredibly toxic social media platforms here, so that wouldn't surprise me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:15 PM
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Imagine living your life to a script down to the number because it's "good for society". Couldn't be me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:10 PM
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Plenty of men already disparage ugly women. Such is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:09 PM
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Well, the issue with that is government and corporate powers would rather suck the lower classes dry than provide aid to make a stable home environment. That's the real issue, nobody wants to have kids in this volatile environment except for conservatives because they're.. something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:07 PM
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I feel like this momentum towards relationships as it stands will snap the rubber band back eventually. Its not impossible a movement like this might come out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:57 PM
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But you wouldn't be with him if he didn't pass your looks bar, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:02 PM
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Can't have anything nice anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:54 PM
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Or just make a PPD After Dark subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:44 PM
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That wouldn't explain the precipitous drop though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:15 PM
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They want to be single because the dating scene is so incredibly shit. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:11 AM
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I've never had it before, lol. It just looked like a fun recipe to try
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:42 AM
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Watching chicken marsala being made reignited my cooking passion. While I was in the process of stoking my passion for baking breads. We eating good in August
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:02 AM
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Colin is definitely the bottom in that duo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:04 AM
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It's still a boost that you expend absolutely zero effort to maintain. That is huge in the dating game, because everything costs a big chunk of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:57 AM
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Well you went to the wrong place
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:53 AM
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Oh, I thought you were participating. Dude, that just seems cruel. If any of those guys knew you were picking out men to fuck it would have made the show that much more volatile
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:48 AM
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And you were?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:44 AM
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Did you really find anyone to sleep with at the improv class? (I guess you did say try lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:43 AM
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You're suggesting he go to improv class to impress women Think about that for a moment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:32 AM
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Practice cold approaches I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:24 AM
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Jesus, she still had more sex than I had in my DB relationship by like a lot. Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:12 AM
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Yeah, suicide statistics don't lie
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:51 PM
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You wouldn't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:40 PM
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Well, I don't give anyone the whole picture here. I come to vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:37 PM
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Well, get ready to plunge back into darkness when I get back around to re blocking it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:35 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:29 PM
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Fuckin brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:28 PM
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Oh, its more for me than anything. Just to make sure I'm not losing it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:27 PM
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Abandon dick, become lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:12 PM
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The medical field is still exploiting the shit out of people. They can still cure cancer though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:10 PM
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Its not always on purpose. She'll say something like'we had sex 2 weeks ago' when you know damn well it was over a month
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:09 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:04 PM
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It's called a deductible xD Job pays well enough that I can't get assistance, and the only insurance I could afford has a massive deductible slapped on it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:01 PM
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Making yourself broke is self destructive behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:57 PM
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Excellent
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:47 PM
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Well it's not just that. It's a general sense of people going out of their way to avoid you in public places. It's a lot of very small non interactions that stack up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:43 PM
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Lmao therapy absolutely makes you broke
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:41 PM
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We get it, your family is loaded and taking advantage of the underclass
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:41 PM
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The part where you feel like an NPC instead of a human in your own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:24 PM
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You're telling me nobody at all found success practicing red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:23 PM
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Just broke
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:21 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:20 PM
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Lmao, you people are so terrified of the most harmless things, I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:18 PM
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Well, it's a gamble. Still beats the therapy you can't afford
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:14 PM
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Those books don't help for shit. Personal problems require personalized solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:14 PM
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Nah, it is preferable to letting depression rot you to the brink of suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:13 PM
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Because you probably never even tried therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:11 PM
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There are male therapists you know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:06 PM
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Do you know what therapy is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:02 PM
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Pretty people are handed shit on a silver platter all the time. Honestly I'd rather be hot than win powerball
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:00 PM
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Yes, therapy is a privilege here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:54 PM
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Pretty people make their own luck 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:53 PM
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Or that you were ugly, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:52 PM
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When therapy is over $200 bucks a pop, pill theory is the next best thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:49 PM
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Maybe it's a jock thing, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:48 PM
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I don't think either of those are true to life. Usually it's completely nonverbal between you and her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:45 PM
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If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:40 PM
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Seems kinda ill advised to take a 2 year old on a hiking trip. But that's just me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:35 PM
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Mental illness and unresolved trauma knows no age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:21 PM
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I'm a 30 something. Be respectful. Also, I'm not prejudiced against older women 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:15 PM
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Send pics, I'll give you a true rate me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:08 PM
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You also have the benefit of being above average. Sounds like a luxury of someone privileged, really
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:02 PM
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Just tell them that the Women are Wonderful effect is a proven psychological thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:00 PM
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You forgot about the pure men who just want a virginal wife
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:46 PM
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Cmon, you can't make a husband out of a (man)ho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:38 PM
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Casual sex isn't a thing anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:33 PM
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The funny part is she would never tell you that she settled. You'll be none the wiser regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:32 PM
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I didn't blame anyone. This is just the course of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:25 PM
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Both parties are guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:19 PM
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Meh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:19 PM
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If your insecurities are true, are they really insecurities at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:11 PM
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https://bootcamp.uxdesign.cc/women-are-wonderful-effect-a-flawed-bias-hiding-behind-a-positive-facade-e36f97660fb5
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:02 PM
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It was always a thing, just really ramped up during this latest wave of feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:58 PM
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The men are right under your nose. Friends, family, etc. After being trained not to be vulnerable around women, they do what they must. As far as the settling thing goes, there's obviously two types of women. We have the growing number of cutthroat non negotiators, such as your self, and we have the women that must settle. The former is growing out of pure Women are Wonderful effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:49 PM
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You wanna know what's funny? The more women don't settle, the more men have to settle because they're stuck with the best they can get or die alone. Women get what they want, and men stay quiet and nod.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:45 PM
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Happy* "All men live lives of quiet desperation"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:42 PM
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That's what's happening nowadays. Women don't settle, men stay single and everyone's stoked
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:42 PM
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Men settle for who they can get. So do women. Women have a tendency to not prioritize sex in LTRs, therefore its clear to them what can get settled for them. Especially if the vast majority of men in their league are sexless blobs, as I've heard countless times here. It makes a lot of sense when you really think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:39 PM
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Bingo. The women settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:35 PM
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Eh, it doesn't really matter. I already know how I'm going out, the only question is when
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:29 PM
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I remember stories from two different comedians about how women would be with them, then hearing from the grapevine they admitted they weren't attracted to them at all Also the whole dead bedroom thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:28 PM
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Sure it's a good solution. Problems gone. In fact all problems are gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:23 PM
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I'd get a reddit cares if I said it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:17 PM
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True or false: women are, on the whole, more viscerally attracted to the men they hook up with than the men they lock down for LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:16 PM
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What? Too honest?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:13 PM
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Nah, more like "Hey, so these guys were so much more attractive, I just had to make out with them on the spot"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:09 PM
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Right, because jobs are all over the place nowadays and companies absolutely do not punish job hoppers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:08 PM
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Just be sure to tell the men you're not kissing about your sloppy makeouts with other guys and you're fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:04 PM
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Or his job can leave him too miserable and tired for him to pursue anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:58 PM
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Yeah, if you're not acting masculine nobody will bother with you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:00 PM
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Dude, you hacked the game. You don't need to impress women if you don't need women 🧠🧠🧠
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:52 PM
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No, I meant her reaction to you and the situation at hand
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:49 PM
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Regardless, that doesn't sound normal. It sounds like a dysfunctional attachment style
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:32 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:22 PM
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If she's fucking 5 guys at the same time, somethings up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:19 PM
1

It's a good way to make sure you're not getting gaslit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:16 PM
1

Nah, plenty of men have fuck you got mine energy. It's a capitalism issue
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:14 PM
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Which is dumb because guns and knives don't give a duck about height
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:13 PM
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I think it's more of a knock at High N women, not women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:10 PM
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Of course it's a punishment. Miserable from start to finish every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:43 PM
1

I think all women of a high enough status are Chad chasers to some extent
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:17 PM
1

I didn't poo poo his first piece, it's just too advanced for me. The video literally said it's for intermediate and higher. His next advice involved stuff that's not for me. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:51 PM
1

Haven't seen it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:37 PM
1

Honestly I can't think of a group of people that would be as outwardly nasty as a gymbro. The outward disgust of lesser fit people I see all the time online is just so pervasive. I'll probably end up paying a trainer to get my feet wet on freeweights eventually, but I don't want to be anywhere near that sort of person
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:33 PM
1

🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:31 PM
1

I don't like the freeweights, I don't know what I'm doing and I don't want to look like an idiot around all the jacked gymbros
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:25 PM
1

RPE seems a little too advanced. I need beginner shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:20 PM
1

After work, cooking dinner and dog care I'm wiped. Mornings and weekends are basically it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:12 PM
1

You're a man, why do you care about horoscopes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:11 PM
1

Vain people are so funny I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:10 PM
1

If I don't try hard enough then I won't get results though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:08 PM
1

As long as their existence does you a service, that's all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:58 PM
1

I think people that get energy from exercise are just built different. My muscles hurt, my energy levels are dog water and I have an 8 hour shift to get started on. Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:51 PM
1

I wouldn't even bother with online chess, people cheat too easily on it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:40 AM
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Probably better to rule out those people anyway. Those women aren't looking for an equal partnership
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:41 AM
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Lies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:08 AM
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Nah, the bar is rising. Men who don't care are getting left in the dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:41 PM
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Lmao I got banned for a week last time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:12 PM
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You'd be putting the entire relationship in jeopardy. It's a no win.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:11 PM
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First off, I never said anything about plastic surgery Second, the fact that the richest man in the world goes after 'average' women proves that women's looks threshold are absolutely in the dirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:52 PM
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Hey, if women didn't keep everything a clandestine secret from men we wouldn't be having this confusion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:51 PM
1

I operate on my life experiences. And I never see that shit, so why would I believe otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:40 PM
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She bagged Bezos though 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:39 PM
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Eh. Doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:36 PM
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What? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:33 PM
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Altering her appearance in any direction, not just plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:30 PM
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The difference is Margot robbie can alter her general appearance, men cannot sprout more inches
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:26 PM
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And? There's still a huge spotlight on them now. Meanwhile feminists are debating if men can even be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:15 PM
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It just means you enjoy them less
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:05 PM
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There was one girl, but that was a whole can of worms. Depends on what kind of girl you vet for maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:57 PM
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The women I've been with, it didn't matter how many orgasms were given. They still had control of when sex happened because they still didn't want it as much. Dunno what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:46 PM
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It's the lens with which one views life. It is what it is. The fact is, if you have to be convinced to eat a donut, versus a person who actively hunts donuts and eats a dozen a day, yeah, it'll look like you don't really enjoy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:45 PM
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Nah, men by and large just have higher libido, even accounting for added stimulation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:41 PM
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Men are also being required to have visual anesthetics as well, with even more rigorous standards than women are under
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:34 PM
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You could say that compared to men, women don't really enjoy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:31 PM
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I don't like it. It's kinda breaching the contract of the man being the one who pulls the trigger on a lifetime commitment, when women are already predisposed to wanting it. When a man proposes, you know they're both locked and loaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:18 PM
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I wish we can block one user without getting banned. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:39 PM
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Well, at least she's fortunate enough to have a team of experts to usher her past the finish line
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:23 PM
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How would trauma impact her ability to lose weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:12 PM
1

Dating aged men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:49 PM
1

This just proves Me Too is just for women, if they can get justice where male counterparts dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:42 PM
1

The trick is internalizing that your concept of self is a lot more flexible than you give it credit for. I listened to Atomic Habits on YouTube, that's a good start for exploring this concept
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:58 PM
1

Q4W: What percentage of men that you've slept with knew what they were doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:17 PM
1

Yeah that's pretty bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:08 PM
1

When you live life online, most things look mediocre. Especially themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:41 PM
1

I miss the stimulus checks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:24 PM
1

The problem is you don't get to decide what change you're assigned to. Your agency has been stripped in away in the name of love and conformity. You are no longer You, you are now a consumer friendly product.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:21 PM
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To change yourself for the sake of others is saying you're unworthy, that you aren't good enough, for them. That there's a part of you that's simply unacceptable, and you should be ashamed for not fixing it sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:12 PM
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Becoming dateable requires change. For some it's a little, for some it's a lot. And for some it's an impossible amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:03 PM
1

I'm sorry that that's what you got out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:32 PM
1

"'Better to believe it's my fault; I'm bad', which lets you believe there's a chance that 'If I work hard and be good, I will be lovable'. Thus, even the belief in one's unworthiness begins as a coping mechanism."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:12 PM
1

Sure. I disliked children until my sister had a couple. It's something those people can still grow out of
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:20 AM
1

Yeah, that's lowkey spitting ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:27 AM
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So a big ol fish doesn't think it's a juicy worm and bite it off No fish wants to eat up a tiny little acorn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:24 AM
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I don't think antinatalists give a shit about future generations. And I'm pretty sure they don't think kids need to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:23 AM
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That doesn't sound right but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:14 AM
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I have no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:01 AM
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So that would mean every girl I've gone out on a date with found me attractive? Seems unlikely but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:42 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:06 PM
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Women are not going to orgasm if they're with a man they're not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:05 PM
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Attraction fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:03 PM
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Marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:56 PM
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Yeet it, and if I can't do that then alt f4 from life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:46 PM
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No deep connections, no. Just surface level friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:57 PM
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I don't think men and women are looking for the same things.. at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:51 PM
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https://youtu.be/3Y81L_CUV3M Do you want to be loved, or do you want to Be yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:48 PM
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I don't think it's wrong to admit feminine attraction is wildly different, or alien, to men on an inherent level.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:45 PM
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Feminism does not care about male perspectives. It seeks more power. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:43 PM
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When it comes to sex and attraction, you are an alien species, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:37 PM
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Men need to quantify themselves somehow, or else they can't receive effective advice. A 9 in appearance is going to have a drastically different experience from a 3. Same with every other category.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:35 PM
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No, I hadn't. Usually that just means taller or muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:16 PM
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It doesn't even matter, I'll always be ugly in my own head. I cannot rate myself for the life of me. All I can go off is how women respond to me, which is pretty lackluster.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:12 PM
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I don't think I could ever put in enough effort to be an acceptable person. It'll always be something, and the ceiling will keep climbing and climbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:05 PM
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No, not everyone has the capability to boost themselves up to be amazing in 3 separate areas. That requires an incredible amount of time, money and effort. If I become anorexic and max out all my credit cards I can be amazing in 2 to 3 years too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:59 PM
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Well no shit. Amazing men will always be amazing, and will get women because they are amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:55 PM
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You're talking about a man in the top 15%. No shit he can woo you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:49 PM
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Cool, glad to have it all spelled out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:40 PM
1

Oh, I guess we're done
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:35 PM
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So women are allowed to be broke parasites, not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:33 PM
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You have a wonderful ability of stating something and not elaborating on it whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:31 PM
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Probably. Nobody wants to admit they're disgusting filth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:23 PM
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As long as women's standards keep increasing, more and more men will be left in the dust as uglier women hook up with more attractive men. The pool of undesirables is growing at a steady pace
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:17 PM
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Nah, they don't want ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:14 PM
1

That still doesn't mean fat women actually want fat men. They're just.. together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:14 PM
1

Thats.. what I had basically said
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:59 PM
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Who would have sex with an ugly man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:56 PM
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Or they just settled because they can't do any better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:53 PM
1

Pee Wee's Big Adventure No explanation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:49 PM
4

So either you have the answer and won't tell me, or you're spitting bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:40 PM
1

That still doesn't mean fat women actually want fat men. They're just.. together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:32 PM
1

At least the disgust would be useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:27 PM
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We already know you date Chad's, it's a moot point coming from you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:19 PM
3

You're saying fat people actually desire each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:18 PM
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Fat women don't want fat men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:14 PM
1

Saying good looking is universal is leagues more dumb than anything I could put together. There's good looking, and there's ugly. This is just the way of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:03 PM
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I mean discriminatory in the literal sense. If there is ever a majority say on what is attractive, there will always be a minority that others can't escape from.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:56 PM
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I am the Ugly Man. My sexual desires will always be considered Disgusting due to being the Ugly Man. Therefore, my sexual desires will fill me with disgust, seeing as they will always be viewed as Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:55 PM
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Good looking is absolutely discrimatory. If this weren't the case, there wouldn't be a hierarchy of appearances at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:41 PM
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If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:01 PM
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I don't know what to tell you. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:59 PM
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I don't see women be visibly attracted to average men. It just doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:57 PM
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🚔🚔🚔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:50 PM
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The only outward displays of lust and attraction ive ever seen or heard stories about outside of a relationship are towards top 5% men. Every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:48 PM
1

Oh, that's bullshit then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:36 PM
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Relationships don't count, women settle for those.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:34 PM
1

Sure it does. Just use your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:30 PM
1

Nah, 5% seems about right
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:26 PM
1

Sounds like a nice privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:09 PM
1

Could you last 2 years without sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:03 PM
1

Ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:00 PM
1

Women don't like younger men 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:58 PM
1

That kinda sucks, it's basically saying that men who can't get casual sex just don't get sex at all until their mid 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:50 PM
1

🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:48 PM
2

I said make a smurf account as a man, not cheat on your husband. Ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:44 PM
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Just do what all the other women do and lie about it. Ez
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:41 PM
1

I think you're just talking yourself out of being proven wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:40 PM
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Just explain to him what you intend to do. Hell, let him watch your progress
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:34 PM
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Then most guys are required to be involved in a LTR to have their physical needs met. They have to offer up their entire lives as compensation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:33 PM
1

Ugh whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:28 PM
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Nah. Go on tinder with a toned body and watch the matches roll in
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:25 PM
1

I'm arguing that it's disingenous to say you can't criticize a movie's message because it's based on a children's toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:24 PM
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There's emotional baggage as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:22 PM
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My point is that she's incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:20 PM
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Lmao ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:20 PM
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That would imply it's solely about plastic figurines with zero real world parallels, which I doubt. Media is created to tell a relatable story and to comment on real life. Just because they're toys, doesn't make any depictions or stances the movie makes less legitimate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:20 PM
4

What happens when men take steroids
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:14 PM
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The issue is women's definition of good-looking is remarkably more narrow
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:12 PM
1

I literally said i have no opinion on the movie. Read
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:07 PM
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Actively fawning, actively approaching, anything where the animal magnetism is immediate, for lack of a better term
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:07 PM
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Because it's evident in real life. Women only display overt sexuality towards the top percentile of men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:04 PM
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Did you even read what I wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:03 PM
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I wasn't criticizing the movie, I was criticizing her stance on the standards of criticizing media
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:00 PM
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Ok but why would they be in demand for a relationship at all if they aren't attractive enough to inspire lust? Only a small minority of men have legitimate abundance of options
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:59 PM
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That's not a valid defense. If there was a cartoon out right now that got immensely popular for defending taking away abortion rights, could they turn around and tell you 'it's just a cartoon, don't get so emotional about it'? Regardless, I haven't seen Barbie so I don't have an opinion on its content.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:57 PM
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If something is unbelievable I have no requirement to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:51 PM
1

Ok bud
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:45 PM
1

Unless they look good 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:44 PM
1

TMI bud
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:44 PM
1

So the only two options are: Muscular Or Beautiful Real diversity there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:42 PM
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No, fame absolutely does not preclude popularity with ladies. They are popular because they are famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:30 PM
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If men aren't being lusted after, they have little leverage for having standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:27 PM
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Those k pop men are still at the absolute top percentages in maxing out their appearances. And they follow along the hypergamy route of being famous singers. If anything, k pop idols reinforce this stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:24 PM
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Either you're underselling your appearance or overselling their attraction towards you. Either way, they'd drop your ass in a heartbeat for a more attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:16 PM
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Go look at celebrity crushes and who women actually approach, and then come back to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:08 PM
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Very surface level stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:58 PM
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I think it's fair to say, while the 80/20 rules are debatable when it comes to dating, what isn't debatable is when it comes to lust. Women only lust after the extreme minority of men, the majority of which all have the same bodystyle and absolute maximum amount of care taken into anesthetics. The only way for a man to be listed after like men lust after women is to be at least 5% top tier in these categories or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:52 PM
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It's bleeding into here as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:39 AM
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Yes, women settle because they can't get to the top 5%. Nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:51 AM
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women have so many options, it's so easy for them, they only want the top 5% of men Still told no lies but go off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:30 AM
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Just admit you hate men and we can move on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:29 AM
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I told you why. I see misandry every day on Reddit and it wears on me. I don't know why that's so hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:04 AM
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This is the quiet part you weren't saying out loud. My job is done
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:34 AM
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That's the sneaky bit. Misandrists work very hard to not say the quiet part out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:24 AM
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Fine whatever. We're all rapists, we're all murderers, we're all wife beaters. The bowl is all poison m&ms. I don't care anymore. Eat your poison and leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:22 AM
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Then I don't want to hear the bitching and complaining 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:11 AM
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Autism is a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:06 AM
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Yes, all men are terrible #12730. Let's move on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:02 AM
1

So don't eat the m&ms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:54 PM
1

They cited statistics while going "why would anyone date men" As in "men will murder and rape you if you date them"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:41 PM
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Listen, if you hear the same thing hundreds and hundreds of times, it starts to sink into you. That's how I feel about this nonsense. Women are calling all men murderers and rapists, and I'm a man. Over and over and over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:56 PM
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I couldn't care less if the misandrists fucked off into the woods, became lesbians and practiced witchcraft foe the rest of their lives. I care more about being labeled a murdering rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:40 PM
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Then stop eating m&ms. I couldn't. Care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:49 PM
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I don't think asking for posts that aren't trashy is asking a lot. And I'm a man, I'm being put parallel to bad men. This isn't rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:34 PM
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This is not a tasteful precautionary post, this is yet another MAN BAD masturbation post that's indistinguishable from all the rest. And boy does it get fucking tiring having people put me as parallel to murderers, rapists, wife beaters, and the sole reason why evil exists at all. Ad nauseum.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:21 PM
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Honestly, I don't care. Take the stats that you love shocking yourself with and never speak to another man again for all I care. Live in fear and anger on internet forums for the rest of your pathetic life. I couldn't care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:01 PM
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That has no bearing on what I said at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:56 PM
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No one's forcing you to do anything. If you don't like men, do us all a favor and don't date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:51 PM
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The after picture is sans makeup. I bet she'd clean up super nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:45 PM
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You can hate condoms more than you hate children
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:15 PM
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You're talking more along the lines of an affair. Cheating can happen in 15 minutes flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:00 PM
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Have you ever even been cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:50 PM
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My point is that it's a sneakily dishonest thing to act like an egalitarian when you're just playing by the same gender norm horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:36 PM
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No man will expect you to pay for the entire date. That sentiment does not seem to be shared with women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:11 PM
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You're expected to conform to what they want. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:05 PM
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Odds are you're not asking, and odds are you won't end up paying anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:57 PM
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I was using your last comment and being facetious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:45 PM
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A recent first date of mine was $80+ tip, and that was just drinks and apps. Hell of a tip for mozzarella sticks 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:41 PM
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That's what I thought 🤣 Enjoy the free ride I suppose. You've earned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:33 PM
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It does, and yet here we are. Chances are you benefit from this little arrangement way more than the men do, even if you were being genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:30 PM
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I don't believe you for a second 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:22 PM
1

And you pay the entire bill as well when you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:21 PM
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You don't ask, though, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:12 PM
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A norm you're more than happy to benefit from. Gender norms for thee, but not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:10 PM
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15% is absolutely pitiful. And odds are those women are not paying for the full date either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:51 PM
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"The asker should pay" is just another disingenous phrase used to extract resources from men. CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:21 PM
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If you're not paying a single dime, I get it. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:03 PM
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Sometimes, but I don't think it's of sound mind to do so. The issue is a lot of male benefits just seem invisible and female benefits hit all the sore spots of being a man, so it seems like a sweeter deal in moments of weakness. Doesn't help that I'm not particularly masculine in behavior, which is clearly expected of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:49 PM
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Men have to ask. It's a bullshit loaded die stipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:41 PM
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Lmao, oh Jesus christ
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:40 PM
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Wym, that seems pretty low investment to me. You don't have time or energy for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:36 PM
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First dates should always be cheaper though. Either coffee or beers. Maybe step it up if it's going well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:33 PM
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100 bucks is the upper limit of the typical date. Anything above that is a special occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:27 PM
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Does he even wear watches?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:02 PM
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I've found that the most extroverted people at work will act like the most sullen pissbabies when you don't want to be their work friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:08 PM
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This kinda just sounds like 'Men should stop raping a d murdering' to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:25 PM
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Then you can pay
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:19 PM
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I mean, going pure 50 50 is too silly to practice in reality. Its more of like an equivalent give and take with most things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:18 PM
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Making carnitas tonight, and actually got my hands on some Mexican crema which is a total rarity over here. Should be good shit 😋👌
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:07 PM
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Pain play? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:06 PM
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Well the thing is you don't have that same pull towards sex, so you can't really relate 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:01 PM
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So because the sexuality is unlike your own, you find it repulsive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:25 PM
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Why wouldn't you feel sympathy for that? Isn't that saying women don't like male sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:03 PM
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What happened to your wine date?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:46 AM
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Yeah, I always thought eating calamari was a little fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:24 AM
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It's pretty easy when you don't understand the other gender in the first place. It's the closest things to aliens we're really going to get to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:42 AM
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You're not the boss of me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:38 AM
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I mean I can list off all my baggage in your DMs if you're feeling like a voyeur, idgaf But it isn't some comedic pratfall moment, it's real shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:37 AM
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Wtf are you on about, my kinks are way more tame than that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:22 AM
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Dog I have an animal in me that grout can't satisfy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:49 AM
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What do you think? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:38 AM
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No Weird sex shit probably
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:34 AM
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I think this might be one of those weird nights where you stay up until 3 doing weird shit. God help future me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:27 AM
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She did have nice tits tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:42 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:38 AM
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Why are we here, anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:00 AM
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Now that's just good entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:51 PM
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Hey, you said it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:40 PM
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I think what gets me the most is that you can't opt out of this life without causing suffering to other people, i.e. your family. I didn't choose to be here, and now I'm stuck here unless I want to traumatize the people I love. It's a losing proposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:40 PM
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If someone got robbed in front of your house, you should move, yes. Anyone should try to move.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:03 PM
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Psychologically healthv humans?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:02 PM
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You're still not grasping what non-existence is. You're framing it with a sense of loss, but non-existence means there's nothing to lose in the first place. It's the concept of Zero. And suffering isn't a maybe, it's guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:01 PM
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Of course masculinity is a social construct, you're advising someone to make children masculine. That's the definition of social construct lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:18 PM
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Non-existence isn't some terrible banishment, it's a neutral action. Saving people from suffering doesn't seem to be a bad option.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:08 PM
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Even to abusive or negligent parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:03 PM
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Well at least one of us got a net gain
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:03 PM
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Why make people just so they can suffer? Seems cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:01 PM
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Ok well there's no way you can be attentive to 6 kids so you're kinda just proving them right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:54 PM
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He's trying to take advantage of you 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:52 PM
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Filters / 10
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:44 PM
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Same. It's where my fabulous body dysmorphia comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:44 PM
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Even from other women? That seems odd. And there's a great solution to the dark alley problem: don't go down one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:33 PM
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I'd like to be treated with the same amount of kindness a woman is treated with on my day to day life. People are just more wary of me in general because I'm a man. If I'm walking down a dark alley, I get it. If I'm just trying to buy a loaf of sourdough bread, I'm not too thrilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:34 PM
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On a slightly related tangent, while walking home from the park yesterday with 8 year old boychild, he stopped right outside our house and in all earnestness said "mom, my pronouns are he/him". We weren't even talking about anything related to gender or pronouns. I think I can hear Tucker Carlson screaming from here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:29 PM
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Lmao ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:27 PM
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Our version of selection is the worse option though. It's way more labor intensive and more humiliating in general. Our selection is way less efficient, seeing as we just piss away effort most of the time for no benefit. Women have the luxury of sidestepping all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:25 PM
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My point is that women's position to be the selectors enables much more control over dating as opposed to being a suitor. Men have expend much more energy and effort to get placed into an equal partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:19 PM
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And that's fine. I'd be scared of a shifty guy walking alone at night as well. The problem is violent men are being smeared across the entire spectrum of men. All men are being held responsible for the 0.2%, and that's not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:17 PM
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That doesn't have a consequence when the number that want my approval is so small. It's statistically not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:14 PM
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Walking alone at night? Sure. But I feel like there's this wholesale anger pointed at men just for being born male. That is not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:10 PM
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Women also don't have 3 times the testosterone coursing in their veins. Women aren't going to be violent because it's not disposed to violence. I guarantee if women had that testosterone bump they'd be just as violent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:01 PM
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What about the part where 0.2% of men are violent criminals?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:43 PM
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Nobody will be mad at your approach if you're hot enough As long as you're not a douchebag that is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:36 PM
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Not any where they wanted anything from me, no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:28 PM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:22 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:15 PM
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Nah, it just sounds like horseshit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:13 PM
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I think having an absence of female attention will eventually turn a portion of the male population gay over enough time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:12 PM
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But they do.. nothing happens without their approval. That's control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:10 PM
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You're coming here with the privilege of having no dating problems Of course that's what it's gonna look like to you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:05 PM
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No, I'm not aware. In fact that sounds ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:56 PM
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I don't blame him. Most men are punished by acts of vanity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:52 PM
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I didn't mean cut like that, but thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:33 PM
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Yeah, obviously if it's unsolicited it's not going to fly. At least if you're not already having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:33 PM
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Yeah basically
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:27 PM
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I think the only way you could get away with sending nudes as a man was if you were cut and jacked. Anything otherwise would be an embarassment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:22 PM
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Yeah, when you work on a farm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:20 PM
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I'm presuming you're ftm trans? Do you at least notice what I'm talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:09 PM
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Word
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:07 PM
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Yeah see that's the bit, I don't think I'd ever be thrilled about getting pegged if she sees the experience as mid at best
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:01 PM
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Are you into pegging your men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:54 PM
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I guess. Never bothered with it myself, just seems like a pain in the ass 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:50 PM
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You can do that now and have better orgasms, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:45 PM
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Everyone in your life would treat you colder, for starters
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:42 PM
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Likewise, I think a majority of women who become men would be borderline suicidal in a month
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:37 PM
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Probably not, it's pretty rare to meet people getting treated for sex addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:53 PM
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You know what, I'll just cut to the chase Be attractive, and women will come to you. Women do not approach unattractive people. There's your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:51 PM
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If you get an abortion early enough, shouldn't it skirt pain development anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:47 PM
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Look at the people in your life that have women openly hit on them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:45 PM
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I never met a soul like that Oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:36 PM
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I meant discussing anything with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:34 PM
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In a way, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:17 PM
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Ok Remind me not to waste so much time in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:15 PM
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Condoms fail, people get raped, etc. Better to cut off misery at the pass than cause more of it taking some sort of moralistic view.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:12 PM
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Did something crawl up your ass today
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:08 PM
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Well, the fetus will still have to endure less pain than it would have during its entire lifespan were it born
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:08 PM
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Male competition for mates is stronger than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:01 PM
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Look at who she pursues the hardest. What qualities this person has. There's a distinction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:56 PM
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Yeah, women love musicians. Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:52 PM
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It's about attraction in general, not just hookups Did I really have to spell it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:48 PM
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Which ones did you pursue the hardest though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:44 PM
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Is there a point to this or
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:44 PM
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Then see what they pursue. Like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:40 PM
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Well 10 percent is not zero so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:37 PM
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Of course they are. Cmon now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:34 PM
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It would be beneficial if you took the information from the same pool you're dating from, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:33 PM
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My statement is morality neutral. What you get out of it is your own determination.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:25 PM
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Uh oh, did I hit a nerve
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:21 PM
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You've been to a sex addict support meeting? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:09 PM
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If a man is staying on top of his game, staying attractive, and fit for other women, why wouldn't his wife also be more attracted to him? 7 year itch. Old news is still old news, even in a fancier packaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:05 PM
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If you want to know what women want, watch who they actively pursue and hookup with. Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:00 PM
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Watch who women pursue and approach. There's your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:56 PM
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I do enjoy it, I just have the restraint to not act like a slobbering hooligan about the things I do. And you shouldn't excuse them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:25 PM
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It's just soccer, you have people acting like violent idiots over dummies kicking a ball around. Get a grip. "We take rivalries seriously". Pff, grow the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:12 PM
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Aren't soccer fans some of the most vile, racist pieces of shit in the world of sports fandom?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:50 PM
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They like dick*
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:48 PM
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Of course. We're the evil rapists that only think with their dicks all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:38 AM
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Yeah well girls are expected to be self indulgent vapid social media consumers. It's different for the boys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:53 AM
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I get it though. If you have a big enough n count chances are you'd fuck a guy way better than anything you can do Because sex as a man is more skill intensive, it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:47 AM
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It's still weirdly self indulgent to have a picture take of you for you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:45 AM
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I never gave a shit, as long as the n count wasn't over like 30 I don't think the virgin will really care either, chances are he's just happy to be there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:41 AM
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Take this picture of me for my tinder, bestie Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:39 AM
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But that's an embarrassing thing to ask someone to do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:37 AM
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But it's kinda true. Women select for the best traits, and if he starts slipping the relationship is in jeopardy. Add the virgin thing on the pile as well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:34 AM
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Regardless, they want the best man immediately. All of the reward without being there for any of the struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:31 AM
1

Yeah but what if he doesn't tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:29 AM
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See if the genders were flipped it'd be a good deal for women. Doesn't work the other way around 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:29 AM
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When you fuck the men you want to fuck, while marrying the safe option
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:31 PM
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You already had your best sex. He can't measure up to that 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:17 PM
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I just feel bad for the guy in the relationship. You got all the ball slappingest sex out of the way with your ideal fuck and your bf is none the wiser
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:10 PM
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Alpha fucks, beta bucks. We already know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:38 PM
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Lmao yall are such snowflakes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:30 PM
1

What does abortion have to do with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:01 PM
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I'll respect women if you respect men. Deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:56 PM
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Seeing your rapist on national television tends to dredge these things to the surface 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:54 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:47 PM
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It's an aggressive sexual motion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:36 PM
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Not those bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:36 PM
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No, it's mostly the piles of allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:35 PM
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Meh. Point us Republicans should be happy to get rapists out of seats of power, but all they want to do is rush them forwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:26 PM
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The funny thing about rape is that it usually happens when nobody else is around 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:24 PM
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Yeah but what if those guys were actually rapists and got away with it because they had friends in high places? Isn't that what you guys want? Sexual deviants out of positions of power?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:17 PM
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Yes, I'm aware
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:16 PM
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Lmao it's hard to keep track of all the people Republicans rape, who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:13 PM
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Maybe he raped someone 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:10 PM
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Ok, is making a strong move to make out after a first date a good idea? It seems like a good way to get Me Too'd but there's a certain someone saying it's an incredible turn on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:05 PM
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Probably. It's still immensely tasteless to literally flash nudity in a congressional forum, and I don't think dems would stoop that low.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:02 PM
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Brother, sexual assault is sexual assault. What do you want from me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:00 PM
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Liberals show off nude photography of the opposing party's family?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:58 PM
1

Well it's different when you lay out the mechanics behind it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:57 PM
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If I force myself upon a woman who wasn't attracted to my, why wouldn't I expect something terrible to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:55 PM
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Oh, I guess that's where men and women differ
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:53 PM
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Lawsuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:51 PM
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What's the point if you already have the attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:50 PM
1

What if I give it to poor people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:39 PM
1

Does being good at baking bread get bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:17 PM
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I'd rather conservatives actually have a fuckin platform then resort to flashing a presidents son's dick in Congress, but if this is the kind of slop their constituents want, fill the trough up and let the piggies feast I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:40 PM
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I don't think we should look at the Taliban as a net positive for humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:38 PM
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Hey, if women want to finally let the veil down let em have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:47 PM
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Being able to discuss what actually is going on is way better than the absolute nothing a guys going to get otherwise outside of red pill stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:59 PM
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Well, I'm telling you I didn't get sufficient feedback going out into the world and trying to glean results from the zero positive feedback I would receive, so idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:45 PM
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Men are doing the choosing to begin with, they've already determined that whoever they ask could make a good partner for them. Oh. Simple enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:37 PM
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Ok but real life is never clear cut. People won't directly tell you things, you can derive wrong conclusions from experiences and you can easily be doing the wrong things and never pick up on it or never know that it's wrong in the first place. Especially in a world where ghosting and 'being nice' to people is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:36 PM
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Men get validation from both, and they happen to have a higher sex drive. Women also value men on their prowess. It's about the ability to acquire what you want versus getting left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:25 PM
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We all have our time in the spotlight, let it rip
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:20 PM
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If some women had their way, men would have to buy just as much body care and be just as miserable as they are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:19 PM
1

I imagine a patriotic Canadian to be the equivalent of being really fervent about the brand of bottled water you like to drink. Don't ask me to explain that either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:17 PM
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Still doesn't make them your right partner though. But the thing is, if the entry to play is that much higher for men, are they consciously or unconsciously not even looking for the right woman, but one that likes them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:56 PM
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If nobody wants to give actionable advice to the contrary, what on earth do you expect
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:44 PM
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Gotta get information somehow. If it's not going to be accessible, or if it's going to be vague and filled with lies and half truths, this is as good as anything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:21 PM
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I think it's perfectly valid for men to not want to approach. It's terrible, humiliating and awkward. But just be honest about how terrible, humiliating and awkward it is and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:19 PM
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If you make the assertion that dating is equally hard for men and women because while men can't find a partner, women can't find the right partner, wouldn't logic dictate that you're saying all women are the right partner for any man? If men struggling to find a partner is on equal footing, then what about men's struggles to find the right partner under the handicap that being a man brings to the dating scene?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:55 PM
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Left 4 dead was the shit, the most satisfying thing was getting a max damage pounce as the Hunter in the pvp mode
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:48 PM
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I think the issue was I kept running out of oxygen and I couldn't climb the tech tree fast enough to remedy it. Maybe I'll fire it back up and give it another crack
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:45 PM
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Super Mario 3, TF2, Tekken series (7 I guess), Minecraft, honestly nothing else stands out that breaks away from the rest of the pack after that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:44 PM
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I could never stick with Oxygen Not included, I'd always hit a wall around the 1 to 2 hour mark
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:39 PM
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You'd think that would have happened by now, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:08 AM
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And what does that make you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:41 AM
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No, there's a clear difference in the amount of effort a man has to put forward in relation to a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:35 AM
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So why do men have to constantly improve where women do not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:31 AM
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Women rule it with an iron fist, so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:30 AM
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Desire creates value. Value creates desire. They are interchangeable at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:11 AM
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It's absolutely pass fail, and you're being disingenuous saying otherwise. No one desires ugly fat and broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:37 AM
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You say that with your misandrist attitude every single day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:24 AM
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Why do you want a boyfriend? Men deserve to die, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:16 AM
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🙂👆
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:14 AM
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There is still absolutely an element of being good enough. It's like saying there's a free trip to Birmingham, Alabama, versus Las Vegas. Nobody wants to go Birmingham, and saying otherwise is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:13 AM
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Can't get fat if you don't deserve food 🧠🧠🧠
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:41 PM
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They are absolutely determining a man's value. They aren't giving out a grade, they're giving a Pass or Fail. Either you are enough or you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:29 PM
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You don't think I haven't tried? You really don't think I haven't tried? I've spent decades trying to fix myself. Decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:01 PM
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Of course. Being mentally ill is an undesirable trait. Cast them into the fire and laugh as they twist and burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:59 PM
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You've never had zero validation, I don't want to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:58 PM
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I CANT AFFORD THERAPY
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:54 PM
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That validation is way more than any man will get in a day to day setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:53 PM
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I've been evaluated as a piece of shit, just like the other sexless men. The difference is that they turn their anger back on others, because that's just male nature to do so. The fact remains that all of them were told by everyone else how worthless they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:53 PM
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women are validated so often you don't even notice it. I'm just reacting to the feedback I get, including the feedback women like you give. It's simple logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:47 PM
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I never said everyone should like you back. But when nobody does, then you've got nothing but your evaluation to consider. The fact that you're a worthless no value piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:42 PM
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As a woman you get enough successes and validation so you don't come to that conclusion. Men don't receive that sort of luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:40 PM
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They absolutely do. Women determine if a man is low value or high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:39 PM
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You're being remarkably disingenous and I don't have the energy to fight back rn, so im letting you have it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:38 PM
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CMV: Women determine what men are high value and which are low value based on how they date and pursue them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:29 PM
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You're lying to yourself and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:28 PM
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Thats enough
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:25 PM
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You're speaking out of a place of privilege. If you weren't rejected on a regular basis, you wouldn't feel great about it either. You'd feel like something was wrong with you. Like you were a defect. You get the privilege of that perspective because things work in your favor way more than they don't. It's called the Pygmalion effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:23 PM
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Of course it's his problem. It's a gift she gave to him, and now he has to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:18 PM
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Women reject men way more often. Women have way higher standards for men. Women have a deadlock on casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:03 PM
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Like it or not, it's the nature of the game. If you want to rule the dating scene and have all this power, that's what you're going to get. You rule out men based on dozens of attributes, therefore you decide how much worth a man has. A rejection is telling a man to his face that he's worthless to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:47 PM
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Ok but women are way more cutthroat with it. Like it's not even comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:38 PM
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It's not what you intended, but it's what he and a lot of men internalize. Because it's basically true. He isn't good enough for you, and a real man has success with women where he does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:37 PM
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If I die though, I don't have to worry about succeeding anymore. I'll just be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:35 PM
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They're the gatekeepers, they decide who is acceptable and who isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:32 PM
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You basically told him you're not good enough, and that you're not even really a man. Thats what evwry rejection says.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:25 PM
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Thats the point. I'm fucking done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:22 PM
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Fine, you bring the cyanide and I'll make it work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:02 PM
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It's a cop out term used to explain unsuccessful men. Nothing of value to glean from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:42 PM
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It's men getting to do what they want to do, versus men who can't get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:19 PM
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Only if you lace it with cyanjde
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:10 PM
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I see words, but all I can visualize is a mortar and pestle fervently grinding down undesirables until they are an unrecognizable mush.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:31 PM
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Until I want to kill myself. Then it's time to hibernate for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:16 PM
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Well now i don't want to. Point is you people are more than happy to grind others into the dust to get what you want. Don't pretend otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:11 PM
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Again Some of you may die, but it is a sacrifice I am willing to make
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:05 PM
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Lmao he is spitting tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:03 PM
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"Some of you may die, but it is a sacrifice I am willing to make."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:59 PM
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I think I'd rather die tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:17 PM
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You're saying I don't have to adapt to the world that was presented? Go get fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:17 PM
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Most women aren't as dick crazy as you, it wouldn't catch on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:05 PM
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No, you're just inventing things to be mad about. You're mad that nobody likes men wearing skirts. Go get a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:04 PM
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Alright, then piss and moan for the rest of your life. What do I care
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:56 PM
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Or maybe you just never succeed and you wasted all your time chasing something hopeless. This happens to plenty of people, nobody is exceptional.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:52 PM
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Men: don't like skirts PPD Women: <image> Lmao what a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:49 PM
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Maybe you should live your dreams and start killing men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:39 PM
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Nah, it's no true Scotsman fallacy. You have an image in your mind and you cannot deviate away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:38 PM
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It is absolutely as scarce as it is. I've gone in years long dry spells.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:36 PM
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This is just no true Scotsmen. Cmon noq
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:34 PM
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Because nobody likes it when men wear skirts. Men or women. Literally nobody asked for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:33 PM
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Unisex means meant for both sexes. Why try to market clothing to men when they don't want it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:33 PM
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That's not what I'm talking about If scarcity is real, why not act accordingly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:31 PM
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Men don't like those things, that's why they aren't unisex 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:18 PM
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I don't think it's possible for women to love them any more than they already do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:11 PM
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Eh, maybe he won't be so nice after rejection number 75
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:07 PM
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Why are you presuming a nice guy has a good, fulfilling life? I feel like you're just moving goalposts around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:03 PM
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So they simply endure all the shitty things in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:59 PM
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Why would a nice person be immune to anger and jealousy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:58 PM
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Are real nice guys immune from dating problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:49 PM
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Eh, still seems shit no matter how you slice it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:41 PM
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Good at sports? There you go. He'll coast for the rest of his life. Congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:28 PM
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That's how you end up being 40 with 8 cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:22 PM
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So either get a worse partner due to scarcity or get a worse partner due to league diving Neat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:16 PM
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So the only way a man can have options is to date people significantly worse than him? Why even bother at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:12 PM
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So all a man has to do is focus on women he doesn't want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:08 PM
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Well, it's because nobody wants to see or hear the man do anything. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:03 PM
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So yesterday I asked how many men actually had an abundance of options, and the highest I got was I think 5% So why are we pushing abundance mentality again? If scarcity is what's going on, shouldn't we be acting accordingly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:57 PM
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Just watch amateurs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:55 PM
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What other things would women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:37 PM
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I don't give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:31 PM
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Looks have the power to get women to approach you. It is literally the end all be all most important factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:30 PM
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Everyone deserves equitable treatment. Anything less is a failure. The people who triumph life isn't fair diatribes are the ones taking advantage or exploiting this system.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:27 PM
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So people deserve unfair treatment? That's neat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:08 PM
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His life is ruined whether he has custody or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:59 PM
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Everyone deserves equal outcome for equal input. I don't care about anything else beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:55 PM
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Just jump off the freeway at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:45 PM
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Easy dates and accessible casual sex for starters
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:32 PM
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Ok, well tell me how to stop all the simps and now we have some practical advice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:30 PM
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Whatever treatment the average girl gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:00 PM
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So misandry is acceptable then? Is this person making excuses to be a misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:50 PM
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It's hard to say what you would compromise for if you don't have the person in front of you. But I wouldnt settle for a low libido partner again. The relationship just turns into an exercise of madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:26 PM
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Honestly I think most LTRs devolve into this kind of dynamic. There's a reason why the 'sex dries up' trope exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:15 PM
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If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:15 AM
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The hell it is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:05 AM
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Shoutout to morning wood, I can't start my morning without you. Like, literally can't start it cause it's there every single damn morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:03 AM
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So he obviously makes it up by being amazing in other categories, still hitting the bar for being amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:35 AM
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Oh. I misred Regardless, he has never struggled, so he's a natural. Congratulate him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:27 AM
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You just said you never struggled fam 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:20 AM
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If you've never struggled then you've never overcome anything. You're a natural. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:15 AM
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What do you mean? Aren't most men just sexless blobs of nothing to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:36 AM
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Yeah, but they're men. There's no ceiling to overcome, so all they need to do is stop being so lazy and just do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:33 AM
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The difference is women have a lot more leeway. Once they hit a certain looks threshold dating becomes as simple as shopping down a grocery aisle for the right one. Men constantly have half a dozen attributes they can improve, each of which takes months or even years to actually come to fruition. It's literally never ending.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:33 AM
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Now you're getting it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:21 AM
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And? There's plenty of short CEOs, and plenty of short millionaires. You're telling me these guys can't figure it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:17 AM
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Well, there's a lot more men struggling out there, so obviously it's a man problem. Women aren't having these problems, so what is it about men that make them so lackluster? They really just need to get their shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:16 AM
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As long as a man has factors in their control, it is always their fault. There's always something to improve. If they can't do it, too bad, no pussy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:14 AM
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Make more money. Men have the capability to make money hand over fist if they just apply themselves, right? Just do it and stop being lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:08 AM
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Exactly. The onus is always on him. There is always, always something he is fucking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:06 AM
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I'm talking about sheer numbers, not on an individual level. Eventually it becomes his fault. You know the rule if everyone hates you, you're the asshole? Same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:05 AM
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I mean fuck those guys is the sentiment regardless, but that goes without saying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:03 AM
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Man can move Man can find women that align with his values Man can compensate for his genetics Therefore..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:02 AM
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It's not about that, it's just fact
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:01 AM
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Porque no los dos?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:57 PM
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It's still his fault for not rising to the occasion, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:56 PM
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CMV: If a man is failing at dating, it is always his fault. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:41 PM
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Every piece of dating advice always circles back to the man doing something wrong. Therefore, the man is always wrong. He's always fucking something up if he isn't succeeding. His success is his in his own hands, for better or for worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:22 PM
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Well, I'm not taking ownership for all men, that would be dumb. Just don't be fat I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:20 PM
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The ceiling for men is so absolutely high. And successful men pull women so effortlessly. It's just logic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:18 PM
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👻👻👻
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:16 PM
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Or you're not meeting the right people. Doesn't always mean something is wrong with you. No, the man always has to have something wrong with him. If he isn't succeeding, it's something he isn't doing. That's the only advice men ever receive, and if women can actually do no wrong, then it manifests into reality. It's always his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:14 PM
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Meh, fat men don't really get much better treatment either. If women were naturally as aggressive as men we'd be seeing the exact same behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:10 PM
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Gotta keep it 100 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:07 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:02 PM
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I think it's more like manipulation versus possession. I don't think either are really desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:56 PM
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The latter. And it can get pretty nasty. I've heard it told like fooling around with a lot of women is like rolling dice every single time. Finding the wrong one can ruin your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:52 PM
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You can easily see their bad side as a Chad too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:44 PM
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Some people have a very vested interest on what the men are up to in the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:43 PM
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What's your celeb look alike? I think I'm K-Mart Pedro Pascal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:41 PM
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How you won't sleep with him for 6+ months
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:47 PM
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