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They always expect you to pay That's not true. I usually split the bill evenly or if that's not possible, do first dates as something low cost like coffee dates where the cost isn't a factor. Why put in a lot of money for dates when you don't know if they are going to pan out? If it's a bar, I usually buy the first round and she buys me the next and we go from there.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 01:05 PM
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Even though this video is meant to be taken lightly, Dom explains the whole dad bod phenomenon perfectly: https://youtu.be/iQlIPOTbuH8
/r/askTRP24/01/18 01:40 PM
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Only maybe 1 out of every 50 Indians I meet smell bad. Most Indians are Americanized within a decade. Any Indians born here are already Americanized because they are born into American culture and norms. And yeah. Indians vary in how dark or light they look. I have met some guys from Kerala who are darker than some of the darkest black guys I have met and some who are so light skinned that they are mistaken for white. But you can't do that? Seriously? Not sure what you mean by this. Most of the …
/r/askTRP13/01/18 06:49 PM
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I think you misunderstand the variety of dishes found in Indian food (or any cuisine for that matter). Curry is just a category of food and a very small minority of the dishes that Indians make. There aren't even words in English to describe some of the categories we have. It's just all classified by Westerners as "curry." It's like saying Americans must get pretty tired of their own cuisine because they only eat Burgers and fries for every meal or Germans only eat brautwurst for their meals. It…
/r/askTRP13/01/18 06:37 PM
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This is blatantly false. Being Indian doesn't mean that you ignore basic hygiene. North Indians aren't the only ones that smell good. And what is "smelling like curry" anyway? The smell of many curries smells fragrant and nice. I think what you mean is that the bad smell is just a combination of the spices he ate and bad BO that he has. Not the curry itself.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 06:30 PM
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Indian cuisine is so varied that it can't just be called Indian. South Indian cuisine for example uses completely different set of base ingredients and spices for their dishes compared to North Indian cuisine. Same goes for Andra food and some east Indian/Bengali/Bangla cuisine. The "Indian" food most Americans and westerners know about is North Indian because the majority of Indians who migrate here are North Indian. That's because they come with their entire extended families while other types…
/r/askTRP13/01/18 06:24 PM
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Just walk away and shrug it off. It's not worth the mental energy to deal with toxic people especially over something trivial. You're not trying to fight every battle. Just the ones that actually matter.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 07:43 PM
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Is 30 points on the SAT even a statistically significant number? I wouldn't call anything by this margin "crushed"
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 01:51 PM
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You are confusing equal opportunity with equal outcome. I have absolutely no problem with everyone being given the former but the latter is not only naive but simply the wrong approach and ignores social and biological differences.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 08:37 PM
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When you sit at a restaurant, always sit right next to her, not across from her. You can keep the physical escalation going that way and it's easier to face each other and get closer without a table in the way. I also feel movies are a terrible first date idea. You are in a location that restricts talking and getting to know the person and focusing on something other than each other. A 10-20 min coffee meetup followed by a walk (and later a bar) is a cheaper, far more effective alternative. As f…
/r/askTRP04/09/16 01:44 PM
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Two words: Action and Momentum. You need to get moving and the initial action will always be the hardest but establish a routine. Create one large overarching goal and then create bite sized milestones to hit the larger goal. Every day you work towards it. Every day you keep the goal in mind and do it. No excuses. No bullshit. Just results. In the end, all you do if you fail due to laziness is cheat yourself of your dreams. Working on the habit everyday solidifies it in your mind and gains momen…
/r/askTRP17/07/16 04:04 PM
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See my other comment on this thread. It will explain things a bit more.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 02:01 PM
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First get some sleep on weekends, but if you still need something to power through the day, you might want to look into Modafinil. It's an anti-narcolepsy medication given for people who work abnormal shifts (like night shifts). When you are under its effects, it's physically impossible for you to fall asleep. A full dosage of 200mg has an approximate half life of about 10 hours but it could be slightly more/less depending on person. Some people are very sensitive and the full dosage could preve…
/r/askTRP17/06/16 01:58 PM
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NPR. That's about as unbiased as you are gonna get if you ask me. Only LISTEN to them. Their online news seems to be shit for some reason. Bad editors and writers maybe? Their radio reporting is first class though. Also, the BBC world news isn't really that bad.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 10:43 AM
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You need a change of scenery and constant interaction with others to stimulate your brain. Isolation by staying at home is the worst thing you can do. I agree with the other posters. Work at a coffee shop or restaurant. Make it a point to befriend the regulars and employees. They will start reciprocating and it will build a nice habit to keep you occupied until the 6 months are up. I was going to suggest exercise as it has been known to improve moods and help fight depression but since you alrea…
/r/askTRP29/03/16 11:22 AM
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Honestly, the worst part to me is that their choices affect EVERYONE. Obese people means more health problems and since health insurance companies always offset the costs of the ill by the higher premiums charged on the healthy, we get fucked. We are literally incentivizing their bad eating habits and health choices.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 11:47 PM
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Totally this. When you talk about your hobbies and passions, your inflection and body language will totally change for the better and women can easily see what drives you and make you better yourself. This has never failed for me.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 10:58 AM
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That's because the others are hot enough that they don't need to be offered a date through a third party. They will almost always have options
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 03:40 PM
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Double standards + feminism. There have been many cases where drunk college students have slept together and then the woman has revoked consent and cried rape. Just be careful man.
/r/seduction12/07/15 01:21 PM
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The questions in your post and the title of your post don't seem to do anything with each other. Can you clarify on how they feel related to you?
/r/askTRP19/05/15 01:53 PM
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Think you're looking for "Admiral Ackbar" and him saying "It's a trap!"
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 07:05 PM
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So a few things off the bat. Movie date (unless at your house or hers) is a terrible first date idea. You are sitting down and watching something together without any talking. There is no clear cut opportunities for physical escalation. Getting physical with someone require you to slowly escalate while getting to know her. Sitting in a dark theater with no real talking is an act that does not establish any grounds for rapport or physical escalation. This kind of thing is more for girls who are i…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 08:56 PM
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It sounds like you are just having crippling social anxiety. What you need to do is obliterate it by taking it head on. Start going out talking to random people in different situations alone. It doesn't even have to be with women. Just get into a social mood and talk to people about their day, about the weather about anything. Go out to a park and strike up conversations. Do this alone and you will realize that the anxiety is just self imposed judgement. You are really only important in your min…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 07:38 PM
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Her friend that she is going out with is a woman right? Unless she is bi, why the hell does it matter?! The woman is not your GF's ex Women have their own lives. If she is cooking and cleaning and blowing you whenever and supporting you in other ways, and there are no outstanding red flags, then there is no reason to even have this reaction. Why do you automatically assume that she is doing this because you aren't there to give her attention? You say she could use that time "so much smarter" but…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 07:16 PM
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These common law marriage laws have been abolished in most states. The laws were not developed as a way to force men to marry as you state. It has been there since the ancient Greeks. It was setup as an easy way to marry two people without getting official witnesses and having the government to go through all the paperwork and such. This is a time for when government didn't care for who married who as the status of marriage didn't greatly affect how they were seen by the law. Now with tax benefi…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 01:27 PM
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Its been almost a year since I started reading TRP out of the frustration and failure I had in my life and this subreddit has turned my life around. My salary has more than doubled, I have vastly improved in social skills and fitness and gave become more respected and successful in almost every thing. So seriously...THANK YOU. /u/RedPillSchool and any other TRP mods, if you're ever in NYC, PM me. Want to catch up and buy you guys a few drinks as a thank you!
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 06:47 PM
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I feel like a separate post needs to be made on TRP or something but seriously...."A LOT of what is talked about on TRP has elements of hyperbole. Recognize that this is how talk naturally becomes in a male dominated space. Do not suddenly become nihilistic because some TRP posts gives some bleak outlook on life." Also...There is more to life than relationships man. Experience the world, try new food and cultures. Meet people to learn new things. Relationships are not a means to an end for intim…
/r/askTRP03/03/15 12:59 PM
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Agree with the other posters. This is college where in a semester or two, you won't ever see the girl again. Go for it. The title made it sound like this is happening at your actual job where your career is at risk. College and career are not the same thing unless you are at risk of getting kicked out of college.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 11:12 AM
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"You can't find porn in India" Yes you can. They are called blue films and they are pretty common although they are reaaaally shitty in quality. As for the other points, they are pretty valid. Do visit Rajastan in North India and visit South Indian cities and rural areas as they are quite stunning. Source: Indian.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 10:20 AM
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Cold approaches by nature are not normal or natural. You come up to some person and give them a very contrived reason to be interacting with them and ramble until you hit points that both you and her have in common. It's easier to go to social events or meetups or clubs where the women you meet already have the same interests as you and so are easier to get along with. There is a reason why Roosh spends a considerable amount of time in Day Bang setting up the process and execution of cold approa…
/r/seduction28/02/15 04:04 PM
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Dude. Work for startups. As a developer working in NYC, I can guarantee you startups don't care if you do drugs or you have no degree. They only have 2 concerns: are you really good at your job? are you fun to be around? Plus perks at these places include things like free lunches, beer at work, unlimited vacation, tickets to events, etc. In a sea of developers, finding some truly competent ones are hard. We have been trying to find a guy who is good at dev-ops. If you're in NYC or close to it, P…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 08:20 PM
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This is a better question to be posted in /r/Fitness (General fitness and dieting advice) /r/Fitmeals (specifically for meals) /r/Bodybuilding (for hypertrophy related advice) /r/keto (for low carb diets) /r/leangains (for intermittent fasting and dieting advice) /r/cutit (for cutting and advice during that phase of the cycle)
/r/askTRP27/02/15 12:09 PM
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Find another place to fuck. If you can't do it at your house because of your parents, you can meet somewhere in the middle between her place and yours to some event, have fun and fuck in the car. Yes it's gonna be uncomfortable or cramped but it's a change of pace and it doesn't involve going all the way to her place. If you're adventurous and she is up for it, you can fuck outdoors. "But if she's going to treat me like her beta bitch boy, I'm out" I don't quite get this statement. You are going…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 12:04 PM
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People who read TRP seem to do this a lot. Don't over analyze EVERY LITTLE thing. Sometimes, people get busy. Shit happens. Just because she's a woman and she had a schedule conflict doesn't mean there's immediately an ulterior motive. Once you start looking for things that aren't there....well that's a rabbit hole to unhappiness all by itself.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 11:52 AM
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This isn't super surprising. Being different makes you more exotic. As an Indian in the states in NYC where there are a ton of other Indians, no one bats an eye as my ethnicity is a common sight. However, whenever I travel to other countries especially northern Europe and scandanavian countries, I can assure you that it's life on easy mode.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 03:04 AM
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I agree. Too much was said over text. These kinds of conversations should not be done over a medium where tone, body language and intent cannot be expressly discerned.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 05:46 PM
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Nothing wrong with organizing something adventurous or unexpected but I do this on the 2nd time I see her (assuming it goes well the first time around). I do not try this at all on the first date unless she either suggested it or I know she is extremely outgoing and trusting. The reason for this is simple. Unless you know her for some time before you meet up with her, she won't be comfortable with you. Organizing an adventure such as hiking or fishing would involve her going to a remote place wi…
/r/trpGAME11/02/15 11:41 AM
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Lifting is much easier when you train it into a habit. That's it. No anger or high emotions needed. When you realize what cues you use to form the working out routine and how it is reinforced, then you can strengthen them to make sure you don't just skip workouts. I have effectively trained myself to specifically reward my workout behavior. I have a "pumped up and preworkout" playlist which I play when I head to the gym and when I finish, I reward myself with music from my "happy mood/life is go…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 07:53 PM
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This entire post can be summed up with: "monk mode not a reason to procrastinate"
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 12:39 PM
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You might be OK with this but many other guys (and possibly your friend) aren't. Good guy friends in this day and age are worth way more than any woman on the side and so I personally would never attempt this. There is always going to be women and so its not worth it for me to pursue one that was originally dating my friend. I know friends who have told me frankly that even if I fucked an ex (not current gf) of theirs, they would still feel a bit angry at me. This is how betas are and the number…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 11:40 AM
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Agreed. I heard this from many people. Getting a number is easy because it doesn't guarantee anything. Women find it easier to give out their numbers and then just ignore you when you text them rather than reject you from the get go. If your success rate was high in sleeping with them, then I would be impressed. If you aim for just a number, it doesn't count for shit.
/r/seduction24/12/14 02:27 PM
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Who says? You're probably hanging out with mostly the upper class if that's what you think is average. I know a ton of poor artists and lower class people barely making it in the city. Also which borough are you talking about? If you go to Brooklyn, Bronx Queens or Staten Island, there are barely anyone with the kind of wealth you are talking about. Only in Manhattan will you find people like who you are talking about and even those are isolated to areas like Chelsea or Gracemercy. Its very diff…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 10:52 PM
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Visited Japan a few months ago. A dream land. /u/Buck_Speedjunk is right on all counts. No tipping, trains are never late and cheap, amazing food for cheap, phenomenal culture and great, beautiful cities. Seriously made me think of moving to Japan after the visit.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 12:22 PM
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New York is pretty down to earth man. I haven't seen many entitled people anywhere. Every race, religion and ethnicity in one place. Can't beat that. San Francisco on the other hand...HOLY SHIT...the amount of feminists... cringes
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 12:18 PM
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I can't read her body language through the text you wrote so obviously, I might be a little off but I think she wanted you to escalate when you left the house for the vape shop. I know I would have. I would have AT LEAST escalated for the kiss and tried to have sex. She seemed to be giving you the IOIs and seemed to be comfortable with your touch with her hitting your foot the whole time, the poking and the high fiving. As a rule of thumb, I try to close the night by fucking her. If I can't do t…
/r/askTRP23/12/14 10:58 AM
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What you will realize now is that losing your virginity isn't a big deal at all. What is a big deal is to reach a certain level of self actualization and self improvement where you can say I have become a much better person and am going somewhere in life. When you put yourself in the center of attention of your world and make yourself the priority, that's when your SMV rises leaps and bounds and women naturally gravitate towards you.
/r/seduction19/12/14 02:28 PM
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At this point, I feel some TRPers are writing these comments as a way to troll people into coming to this subreddit. Maybe I'm a bit naive but I haven't really found the level of hate for this subreddit that others have seen. Maybe its because I subscribe to mostly self improvement and productive subreddits. shrugs
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 02:19 PM
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Personally, I say "Meh", appear bored and move to talk to a bunch of other groups at the bar. If she wants to, she will follow, otherwise, who cares. Plenty of other people at the bar. You can always come back to her later to see how she is doing. I'm all about new experiences and meeting people and I'm a textbook narcissist so it reflects in my actions as supreme confidence. I go around talking to a bunch of people and demonstrate my SMV and by the time I come back to her, she would realize tha…
/r/askTRP18/12/14 12:46 PM
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So a couple of things. If you have a history of oneitis, then you need to date multiple women at once. I'm not saying 10 but date at least 2 so you have options. This will enforce a bit of abundance mentality and will prevent you from getting too clingy. Even if you work in the same office with your girlfriend, it does NOT mean that it guarantees her loyalty. If she wants to cheat, she will find a way. I don't know too much about the actions of the woman besides what you have mentioned but there…
/r/askTRP14/12/14 12:18 AM
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People need outlets to relax. I for one can't work with 100% productivity all the fucking time. Your brain needs something mindless sometimes to unwind. Also, how is this any different for noneducational TV or watching sports? That doesn't mean I am not productive. I lift almost every other day, read books on programming and behavioral psychology for about 2-3 hours a day, learn to play an instrument and learn how to dance and still have time to spin plates and go out with friends. The key is mo…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 12:44 PM
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Why do so many people in TRP jump to extremes? All in moderation. You can do gaming as long as you have the self discipline to limit it to a very small amount of time like once a week for maybe an hour or two. What the hell is the difference between video games and watching non-educational TV programming? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. Yet so many people here don't complain about it like it's the bane of their existence Some people have 0 self control and so for those people, this advice makes sense. Hell,…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 12:34 PM
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This is slightly disappointing. It was convenient for me to see and post on all game related discussion in one place and general theory in the standard /r/theredpill. It was a nice separation, like a more effective, TRP infused /r/seduction as a brush up subreddit for purely game. I think the only real detrimental effect I seemed to see with a separate game sub was that the quality of the posting in /r/theredpill was going down. Maybe its a coincidence. Maybe its the massive influx of people wat…
/r/trpGAME27/11/14 01:47 PM
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Agree with the other comments. You're taking this way too personally. Why try to get back at her by trying to get in the last word? What do you gain from it? Its not like she will say "Oh man. He is treating me like an asshole (an actual ass not 'asshole') so I'm gonna come and fuck his brains out." The whole point is to just move on. Don't harbor any feelings (good or bad) and just move on. The more girls you see after this ex, the faster you will recover from what looks like residual oneitis
/r/trpGAME21/11/14 12:08 PM
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Im gonna call bullshit on the initial statistic about the chance of being alive. Its set upon a variety of factors especially where you were born. Not sure where the number is coming from. Other than that, I agree with your points about "carpe diem" I usually live my life along the Latin phrase: "qui audet adipscitur fortuna fortes aduivat" (Fortune favors those who dare to win)
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 12:30 PM
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That is the subreddit he is asking on.
/r/RedPillBooks16/11/14 01:44 PM
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This is completely dependent on reading your situation and how it is unfolding. I go to the bar if its necessary, otherwise, I escalate at the park or another area. If you or the girl has had a very long, hard week at work and need to unwind with alcohol, then I suggest a bar to help her unwind a little bit more. If I am already doing well and I have escalated beyond kissing to major physical touching and feeling, there is no reason to go the bar. Just make sure you have a place before hand (eit…
/r/trpGAME14/11/14 04:34 AM
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That makes the logistics easier, not harder. Either meet her at her room and relax and escalate from there or take her outside and bring her back to the room later. The key is just confidence and an easy going attitude. The girl will follow your lead so if you become self-conscious and second guess yourself, those traits will be reflected in her and worsen the situation. Lead the situation and lead the charge.
/r/trpGAME14/11/14 04:14 AM
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Like I mentioned in the original post, you need to read "Bogle's Guide to Investing", "The Intelligent Investor" and "A random walk down Wall Street". These along with tips from /r/financialindependence will help you learn the basics of intelligent investing. The reason why I recommend Vanguard is because they have the lowest management rates for mutual and index funds in the industry. There is way too much I can cover but the books I covered above definitely give you the basics on how to invest…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:08 AM
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The cohabitation statement is referred to by law as "Common Law Marriage" and is only in the following states: "Alabama, Colorado, District of Columbia, Georgia (if created prior to 1997), Idaho (if created before 1996), Iowa, Kansas, Montana, New Hampshire (for inheritance purposes only), Ohio (if created prior to 10/1991), Oklahoma, Pennsylvania (if created before 9/2003), Rhode Island, South Carolina, Texas and Utah" Thankfully most states have abolished this archaic law and so you probably d…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 03:07 PM
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Putting money in gold blindly is putting money on an investment driven by mostly speculation. You're better off putting money in a no-load total market index fund such as the ones offered by Vanguard (especially admiral levels as their management fee is < 0.0017%) if you had to put money in one thing and let it sit there. Hundreds of studies have shown this is the most optimal hands free way or passive way to grow your money as far as investments go. If you want more information, read "Bogle's G…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 01:41 PM
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I know divorce rates were high in the US but I honestly didn't believe the divorce statistic until I looked up the official census and government reports myself. Seriously, that is alarming. It works out to roughly 52% divorce rate. HOLY...SHIT Source for anyone interested: http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nvss/marriage_divorce_tables.htm
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 01:37 PM
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She also insulted all of Japanese men by saying that even the most ugly, socially awkward white loser will be chased by Japanese women because Japanese men don't have what it takes. "Japanese men aren't hitting on me so there must be something wrong with all of them" The false logic and hamstering is strong with this one.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 01:53 PM
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This pretty much sounds like monk mode to me. I already do this. I cut all social networking to 1 hour/month, TV and reddit to 1 hour per day, no games, no other useless unproductive drivel, 2 hours of reading and everything else for my overarching goals which I tweak every few weeks to keep myself on track. Once you do monk mode for a while, it becomes your modus operandi
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 01:45 PM
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I am so glad I am a guy when it comes to things like this. Even if a man is extremely ugly, he can still increase his SMV through other means (via money, status and self-improvement) and land great, attractive women. If you're an ugly woman on the other hand, you are seriously shit out of luck because the first thing a guy wants in a woman is for her to be attractive.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 07:39 PM
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Just be direct with her. That's all there is to it. You can be direct and adamant without being an asshole. Just don't sugarcoat anything for the sake of being nice.
/r/trpGAME25/10/14 08:17 PM
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How do you KNOW they are going to be freaked out by touching? They will be if you are going to be awkward about it. I have dated many, many girls who were 19-20 years old and they all have no qualms when I get more intimate with them especially with touching..all without alcohol. The same women who say that they need multiple dates to get comfortable enough to sleep with a guy, I have seen fucking a guy with better confidence, body language and posture and higher SMV within an hour. Hell...I hav…
/r/seduction20/10/14 11:33 PM
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I personally try to go for non-weekend dates as much as I can especially Monday-Wednesdays as opposed to weekend dates. There are 3 reasons for this: Going out with hotter women means more competition and by proposing a general weekday like Tuesday or Wednesday, it will make it easier for her to say yes if she has plans on the weekend. You would be surprised how many say yes for these days. I like to spend time with my bros or reserve a day or two to improve myself and that time usually falls on…
/r/seduction20/10/14 09:51 PM
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Bringing a car on a date doesn't change things much. Make sure since you pick her up at her place so that you are able to escalate and close. Otherwise, at the end of the date, she will drive back in her own car or other mode of transportation and much of your progress will be reversed The only thing that changes is that the "icebreaker" phase done in the coffee shop will just be done in the car. When you are joking and getting to know each other, be sure to have some level of physical contact i…
/r/seduction20/10/14 01:55 PM
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If its drinks, I usually get the first round and with a bit of teasing and jokes, get her to pay for the next and alternate from there. I think the only exception to the this for me is when I know that she is very attracted to me and sex is almost guaranteed. Even there, I don't try to stay in the bar for long and do a venue change before the bill gets racked up. Its not because of the price but instead just because I don't care for alcohol as much as talking and going on walks. If its coffee, i…
/r/seduction20/10/14 12:54 PM
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Personally, I always make a date where there are a couple of hours to talk and build attraction. It also allows you to escalate easier and not think about having a time limit for your date. Doing so over a lunch break is a bit too casual for my taste but if that is all time allows, then escalate as much as you can but as naturally as you can. You rather be relaxed, confident and natural in your escalation than speed up the escalation just because of the time limit.
/r/seduction20/10/14 12:49 PM
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Personally, I just pay. It's coffee and it will cost me a few bucks so it's not too big of a deal. If she offers, that's fine too. Go with whatever is comfortable and just be relaxed and confident in the decision.
/r/seduction20/10/14 12:41 PM
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As mentioned in the post, most of the initial talking will be done by you for the first half of the date. Talk about topics that you feel passionate about but be relaxed and confident when doing so. Don't ramble. Leave some spaces in between thoughts so she can interject and ask questions or bring up topics of her own volition. Last but not least, contrary to what anyone says, silences are GOOD. If you make a silence awkward, it BECOMES awkward but if you just relax, she will see the deafening s…
/r/seduction19/10/14 11:50 PM
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Just an addition to what /u/jacks_not_surprised and others have already said. Your style of writing pretty much makes you seem like you are idealizing her after just ONE night ("Girl of my dreams", "connected on a really deep level", etc.). Hope I am wrong. Please, PLEASE don't put pussy on a pedestal The day she realizes you are idealizing her and thus putting her SMV way above yours is the day she starts losing her attraction for you. Holding onto your own way of life and how you carry yoursel…
/r/seduction19/10/14 11:37 PM
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No problem. If this post does well, I will post more often in this sub. There used to be a lot of posts like this one but those posters have all left in the past two years sadly.
/r/seduction19/10/14 10:51 PM
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At this point, you have 2 options. Your car (easier of the two options) Outside in a secluded area or a public place like a bathroom (harder option) Option 1: Car The car is the easier option of the two. You can drive to a different, more secluded area and re-escalate. It is going to be a lot more cramped than obviously a room and also will be much tougher if you have a 2 door coupe instead of a full sized 4 door sedan. I usually recommend not driving more than 30 minutes from the time she is do…
/r/trpGAME19/10/14 07:48 PM
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Sure. I will post it there as well shortly. I used to be on /r/seduction almost a year ago but it has been going steadily downhill since all the quality posters left and more bluepill thinking has slowly leaked and poisoned it. Maybe a few more quality posters could bring it back.
/r/trpGAME19/10/14 07:28 PM
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Yeah no problem man. I will post a few more when I have the time. In the meanwhile, if you have questions, PM me.
/r/trpGAME19/10/14 07:25 PM
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No problem man. PM me if you have questions or post em here.
/r/trpGAME16/10/14 09:35 PM
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You need to read the sidebar and develop yourself a bit.
/r/trpGAME16/10/14 12:17 AM
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Honestly. There is nothing wrong with a scary movie. Don't know why he's being downvoted or told to "lurk more"
/r/trpGAME15/10/14 01:51 PM
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Studies have shown that the magic number to solidify a habit is around 21 days. If you can stick continuously with a habit for 21 days, it becomes easier to maintain and requires less willpower to actively do so. I usually use an app like "GoalTracker" to give me daily reminders every day to make sure I am accomplishing my goals. Additionally, stick to doing maybe 2 different tasks a day max. Think of your ability to successfully do things as a willpower meter. The more things you try to do at o…
/r/becomeaman15/10/14 01:37 PM
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Correct. make the venues closer to your place. If that doesn't work, you could always go for escalating and having sex in your car (although this is often uncomfortable depending on the size of the interior of your car). Car sex is better than no sex and it leads up to a better planned date purely for sex so its worth trying if you can't go back to your place.
/r/trpGAME15/10/14 04:54 AM
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I believe this was LMR. Whenever this occurs, you just nonchalantly say ok, ease up for a max of few minutes and re-escalate to break through the last minute resistance. Don't complain about it or try to reason with her (you can't reason with a woman in this situation. They are emotional creatures). If she still was blocking you after 3-4 attempts, then you could stop, go cold and see if she comes to you. If she doesn't then, just next her. You can find other girls to be intimate with who aren't…
/r/trpGAME15/10/14 04:49 AM
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Added a new section to the post to answer your question. Tried to be as detailed as possible without hitting the post length restrictions.
/r/trpGAME15/10/14 04:40 AM
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I'm in NYC so I personally just meet her at the coffee place and we get to everything via public transportation so I have it easy. However, there is nothing wrong in picking her up at her place and going to the venue. It's just your mini icebreaker session usually reserved for the coffee shop or first venue will be done in the car. I have done this myself a couple of times when going on dates outside the city. If it's too cold to walk, you can still go to indoor venues like bars, bowling, etc. J…
/r/trpGAME13/10/14 09:21 PM
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Kissing is a natural part of intimacy and an easy way to escalate with women. Is there any specific reason why you don't want to kiss her?
/r/trpGAME13/10/14 01:36 PM
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I personally try to go for non-weekend dates as much as I can as opposed to weekend dates. There are 2 reasons for this: Going out with hotter women means more competition and by proposing a general weekday like Tuesday or Wednesday, it will make it easier for her to say yes if she has plans on the weekend. You would be surprised how many say yes for these days. I like to spend time with my bros or reserve a day or two to improve myself and that time usually falls on the weekend for when more of…
/r/trpGAME13/10/14 12:49 PM
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Personally if you ended off with a kiss, it means you can escalate faster the second time around but you would need to back up and work up to the same progress you had last time at the club. This is mostly due to the fact that much of the feelings and environment from last time around have been diffused and her feelings for you are most likely not as intense anymore. The longer you wait between the first and second days, the more you generally have to backtrack and rework. Sometimes, all your pr…
/r/trpGAME13/10/14 12:30 PM
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I wish more girls understood that strength training > running but every girl has the same myth about strength training: it will turn them into Arnold. If it was that easy to turn into Arnold, I wouldn't be busting my ass at the gym multiple times a week for years. /rant
/r/askTRP22/09/14 12:43 PM
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For general ideology: Models, attracting women through honesty The Rational Male For the actual pickup: Bang (for general pickup steps) Day Bang (pickup for day situations) What every BODY is saying (for reading body language and behavior to train for social cues) Tantric Sex for Men (how to take your experience of sex on a deeper level)
/r/RedPillBooks19/09/14 06:15 PM
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KEGELS. Train those PC muscles so that you can stop yourself from cumming from pure strength. Do 5 sets of 10 hold count (where you tighten your muscles as if you are stopping yourself from pissing) , 2-3x a day. You will start to notice you last a lot longer after a few weeks. Google some kegel instructions online if you are confused as to how to do it. This is your best bet. It has helped me a lot. It will get you to 1.5 - 2 hours on average and some people last a lot longer than that with mor…
/r/askTRP14/09/14 04:52 PM
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I try to talk to the girls I date every two days or so with small short conversations. I don't waste too much time on them because I usually have a lot of other shit going on. This shows some interest in them without getting too invested. Personally, I find texting plates for long periods of time a waste and it accomplishes nothing. I like talking to girls in person. Again, I'm mostly trying to be in monk mode so YMMV
/r/askTRP30/08/14 05:44 PM
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We've all been there man. Keep pluggin away.
/r/trpGAME29/08/14 01:45 AM
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What was the "move" you made on her? If you already had started making out with her and you were getting physical and she was into it and THEN she stopped you, you were almost there. I have heard this kind of line a lot from the girls I have fucked and it's usually never stopped the girl from being DTF in a matter of minutes. This is LMR (last minute resistance or Anti-slut defense). Just back off for a little bit and then re-escalate naturally. Don't be phased by her rejection but just be sure …
/r/trpGAME28/08/14 11:40 PM
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I have been in this situation before. Don't do it. It's not worth it. As others have said, don't shit where you eat. What you SHOULD do is be charismatic and flirting (nothing more) and if their relationship falls apart after some time and she still likes you, she will be very easy to make into a plate. Until then, go after other girls man. There's plenty of them that won't potentially screw your job environment up.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 04:32 PM
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Am I the only one who thought that he might have said it in a completely sarcastic or joking manner? It sounds like shit I would say when I'm joking with my friends
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 12:24 PM
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I personally like the Latin phrase "Qui audet adipscitur fortuna fortes adiuvat" (fortune favors those who dare to win). It's a daily reminder for me that if I am not doing something new and out of my comfort zone, I'm not improving or experiencing life.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 06:14 AM
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Read "Sex God Method" by Daniel Rose. Women are emotional creatures and this is a phenomenal read for helping you emotionally turn her on during sex through domination and immersion.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 01:34 AM
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Keep approaching man. When you finally hit your stride, these kinds of approaches won't even phase you. Also, if you haven't already, read RooshV's "Day Bang." It goes into approaching during the day in excruciating detail and is a very good read. Random Aside: Also nice to see a fellow rider in TRP. Have a CBR and lookin to get a Street Triple soon.
/r/trpGAME11/08/14 01:12 AM
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I am not very well versed in offshore trusts. Isn't this illegal in some way since even the IRS can't touch it (tax evasion, etc.)? Or is this aftertax income that you just put in a series of international accounts?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 12:50 AM
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You already have a lot going for you (fitness, health and job wise) but it seems you give too many fucks about stupid shit. I suggest /r/howtonotgiveafuck and then do ALL the Project mayhem challenges. This will get you out of your shell and stop giving a shit about little things and the approvals of others. Then read Roosh's Bang and Day Bang books and then approach like crazy. Only way you will succeed is to get out there.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:04 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong but letting them repossess it is considered as going into default and would fuck up your credit. That would just cause more headaches down the line when you go to buy anything. I would say that this is a nuclear option and should be exercised if he has no other choice.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 05:14 PM
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You're not doing anything wrong. You can't save those who don't think they need saving. I have personally have seen this with friends and it ends with a result the same as yours. Mistakes that a man commits on his own and realizes the error of his ways is far more effective in changing him than learning from other people's mistakes...unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 05:00 PM
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I ride a sport bike and many girls do ask about the bike once I mention it in an offhand comment but I haven't really used it in the initial part of the pickup. I use it mostly when I try to go on outdoors oriented dates like a stroll through the mountains or a scenic ride. Those times, the speed and the ride of the bike definitely ellicits some responses. tl;dr: I don't use my motorcycle for pickup except maybe from taking a girl from point A to point B. Most of the time, the motorcycle is how …
/r/trpGAME27/07/14 05:29 PM
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This was my first Joe Rogan podcast. If every podcast is like this, then I'm subscribing and listening to every one that comes out.
/r/AlreadyRed13/07/14 06:47 PM
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It's publicly known in my industry that the only way to get the good jobs is to know someone. 80% of the jobs that are open aren't advertised publicly. The applicants are searched through references. I wish they had mentioned this when I was in school. Edit: Industry was tech and software development. There ARE a lot of advertised jobs but the best ones and the ones that have significantly better perks are unadvertised
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 01:46 AM
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Two truths one lie always works for me. The person says 3 things about themselves, 2 of which are truths and one is a lie. The other has to guess which is a lie. Guess wrong, and the guesser drinks. Guess right, the one who told the lie drinks. It's a great escalation game towards the end of the night.
/r/seduction09/05/14 12:22 PM
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The majority of women don't use reddit so adding this I don't think makes much difference until women actually get interested or find out about the concept of reddit itself. We should be happy that /r/TheRedPill wasn't added as a default subreddit (although it would be probably a cold day in hell before that happened). Half the major subreddits I go to have been defaulted like /r/Personalfinance and /r/Fitness which means having to now put up with idiotic posters who don't read the FAQ or follow…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 01:22 PM
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The keyword here is preferred. I didn't say I hate all Indian girls and that I only date white chicks. I have dated some nice Indian girls as well and have no qualms with them. Yes, there are always exceptions but the general trend is what I have seen from my experience and that's what I act on.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 12:12 PM
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You're right. I did like her but I knew with her boyfriend, I wouldn't get with her so even though it wasn't my intention, I probably was shit testing him to see how he would react and this post is a bit of hamstering. Haha thanks. I needed that. Will probably delete this post in a few.
/r/askTRP16/04/14 02:09 PM
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Answering in order 1) don't go to clubs then. Plenty of other places like bars to go to 2) who cares. Stop being so angry and approach women. This is all approach anxiety and inability to act when you want to on girls. Approach more and all of this shit will melt away. 3) Stop caring about rejection. People get rejected all the time. Your fear of rejection will melt away once you approach more. I SERIOUSLY suggest going over to /r/howtonotgiveafuck and do the project mayhem challenges. That will…
/r/askTRP16/04/14 01:57 PM
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Self closure comes from moving on and improving yourself and from what you have been mentioning, you're well on your way to doing that. You won't gain much from trying to repair this relationship if the goal is to change her image of you. Trust me, I have been in a very similar situation. You want to conquer her as proof to yourself AND her that you have truly changed but almost always, it turns out to be more effort than if you went for a different girl. "Easier to write on a blank slate than t…
/r/askTRP16/04/14 01:38 PM
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You know what you need to do? Go do all the project mayhem challenges at /r/howtonotgiveafuck They will give you the courage to approach without fear or anxiety like you had when you approached here.
/r/seduction11/04/14 11:31 AM
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Although I agree with your other points, I am going to have to disagree with your assessment of the dollar failing. Last few quarters, we have seen steady job growth and signs that our economy is in a recovery. The federal Reserve has even mentioned they are going to pull back on the de-leveraging and the policies they have in effect because they might no longer be needed. Additionally, there are way too many countries that rely upon the American economy especially in Asia and Europe. If the dol…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 01:43 PM
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Indian here. We prefer white girls to Indian chicks a lot not because of race but mostly because Indian girls who are Americanized are waaaaaaaay more bitchy , needy and stuck up than the average white chick. Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 02:05 PM
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Go to Japan. White? Blonde? You're set. You barely have to do any work to close. They have massive white fever there and love Americans as well.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 02:01 PM
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I think this is a lie. You do what makes you feel right. If you naturally smile a lot, smile a lot. Having a facial expression that you don't necessarily agree with will come off as artificial and women read body language very easily. Being honest with yourself and doing what makes you right is natural and strengthens your frame and makes you overall more attractive to the woman. Also, who wants to be with a guy who doesn't really smile?
/r/seduction22/03/14 07:11 PM
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Yup. Made the comment before checking out the link. It was definitely a good read.
/r/becomeaman13/03/14 10:51 PM
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Saved this to profile. Extremely useful information. Thank you! Might even pick up the book you got this from and read it cover to cover.
/r/becomeaman12/03/14 03:43 PM
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It's worth going thru it. The man is entertaining and makes a lot of good points.
/r/seduction10/03/14 06:17 PM
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Whole 30 is a bit extreme as it bases itself off Paleo but it's a phenomenal program. I lost 4% body fat from 14% to 10% in a span of 2 months. I felt more energetic, slept better, and was in a better mood all around. It also forces you to eat better. Trust me... Exercise is 10% of the battle, the other 90% is good nutrition. Read the book: "it starts with food". It will explain whole 30 and eating right in brutal detail. Even if you don't follow the plan after 30 days, it will teach you good ea…
/r/becomeaman28/02/14 04:35 PM
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Best part of the story? Your TL;DR
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 01:54 AM
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I actually have a bit of free time so if you guys want, I can setup a web app to chart growth of this sub as well as /r/alpha, /r/seduction, r/howtonotgiveafuck and so on.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 11:25 PM
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Confidence and optimism is everything. Women are very perceptive to this. Just exude confidence in everything you do and the rest will come naturally. This might be very simple advice and easy to just spout but it doesn't make it any less true.
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:07 PM
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Its easy to say this but it's very true: it's awkward if you make it awkward. Try to literally not care for the outcome. As if you already lost your chance with her and it's just a game. This will relax you a bit and you will come out natural. The important thing is that you approached which puts you ahead of most people. Just keep practicing continuously and the experience will build confidence.
/r/seduction23/09/13 11:08 PM
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The uncomfortable feeling you get is something you place mostly on yourself. If someone asks why, just crack a joke. A guy at a bar was asked this the other day near me and he joked to the bartender "I AM A MORMON. What do u want from me?" Got some laughs. :)
/r/seduction23/09/13 11:03 PM
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"So much fucking value overflowing out of me" lol. You remind me of a friend I have. He is one cocky bastard but he is awesome to hang with and the girls love him. I agree 100% with you though.
/r/seduction09/04/13 04:33 PM
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