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OYS#14 40 5’9 204lbs (same) gut 39.50ins (-25in) Married 10 years together 20+ wife mid late 40s child under 10 NMMNG WISNIFG Thinking In Bets Atomic Habits Rereading NMMNG (audiobook) Last week’s feedback from ImNotSlash gave me perspective and some home truths that I very much needed to hear. Thank you, man. Your guidance has helped me untangle some of my shit this week, which lead me to put a plan in place to move forward. Beforehand I’ve felt increasingly lost with it all despite being here …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/21 08:41 AM
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Thank you Slash, this is gold. I’ve read your comment through a few times and it has given me much to chew on, particularly my point of origin. This here is where I’ll start.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 03:16 PM
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I definitely agree with your perspective, Slash regarding me wanting to really become my own captain or not. It’s something I am going to have to shine a light on and really dig into. I am going to give this some thought. I do think my lack of sleep is a huge factor in the way I have been feeling. I have suffered with insomnia in the past and lead to my mental health going to shit a while back. Your last paragraph actually made me laugh, in its accuracy - particularly the last sentence. You have…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 01:15 PM
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I’m being thick, Slash. Not sure what you mean. I wasn’t crying because of something I wanted to do. Edit: Do you mean I must clearly like watching porn eating shit letting myself down etc because I keep doing it?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/21 10:16 PM
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Ripping myself off. We’ve spoken about this battle before and for a little while there I lost it and it got on top of me. I’ve started digging myself out again and I’m just grateful two weeks didn’t turn into two months or longer.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/21 04:32 PM
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OYS#13 40 5’9 205lbs (no change) gut 39.75in (-25in) Married 10 years together 20+ wife mid late 40s child under 10 NMMNG WISNIFG Thinking In Bets Atomic Habits Rereading NMMNG (audiobook) Reading Sleep Smarter(audiobook) I’ve steadily slid backwards for the last two weeks. It’s been a slow drip doing stuff (porn/ eating shit food) I’m not proud of but it’s the stuff I haven’t done (the hard work, lifting and BJJ), which really tastes like dick. I’ve had the most insane anxiety too and the RP ra…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/21 01:39 PM
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Ahh thank you for explaining that to me. That makes sense. I’ve heard Keto before but never really known what it is. I’ll have a look into this. I ate some pasta today to break my fast and within 10 minutes I wanted to sleep. I know why know. Thanks again
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/21 02:55 PM
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I will check it out thank you. I’ve heard somebody else mention his creamer and coffees on a podcast recently.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 04:52 PM
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OYS#12 40 5’9 205lbs (-2lbs) gut 40in (-.25in) Married 10 years together 20+ wife mid late 40s child under 10 NMMNG WISNIFG Thinking In Bets Atomic Habits Rereading NMMNG (audiobook) Reading Sleep Smarter(audiobook) My mood has been pretty low this week and felt somewhat disconnected from everything and everybody. Not sure why just feel like I’m in a fog. My bad back started to get better Thursday/ Friday then on Saturday I tweaked it again rolling at BJJ. I should have waited until this week to…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 04:48 PM
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Thanks for your feedback, Cam_winston. I definitely agree that I’m a fat bastard. Somebody took a photo of me recently and I saw the other day. It was a wake up call to how much I’ve actually got to lose. I’ve started intermittent fasting as you recommended and been able to start back BJJ and lifting again this week. I’ve also noticed I have more energy when I eat less carbs. Not sure why this is though. Thanks for the push in the right direction
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/21 05:35 PM
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OYS#11 40 5’9 207lbs (+2lbs) gut 40.5 in (+.25in) Married 10 years together 20+ wife mid late 40s child under 10 NMMNG WISNIFG Thinking In Bets Finished Atomic Habits this week Rereading NMMNG (audiobook) 5x5 DL110kg OH50kg SQ90kg BR 50kg BP 77.5kg BJJ x3 week I haven’t lifted since last Wednesday. I’ve had a back injury from a few weeks ago and it suddenly got much worse early in the week. It’s a dull ache in the centre of my back and hurts when I sneeze. I may have broken a rib (at BJJ) but I’…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/21 08:45 AM
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I will check it out. I think I’ve only seen the beginning scene many years ago which was intense as fuck if I recall correctly?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/21 06:52 PM
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It is and yours and Horns comments have helped me see a blind spot that has troubled me for years. I am grateful to be able to see this now. Also been enjoying the OYS streams on your YouTube channel. Are you planning on doing anymore? I’ve found them really helpful.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/21 04:58 PM
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Thank you for detailing what I am doing wrong. I understand what you’re saying and agree. It’s given me quite a bit to think about despite recognising what you are saying to be true. I’ve never heard the term ego protection but it explains a lot about some of my behaviours and unknowingly been struggling with it recently (and since I can remember). I was asked if I wanted to compete in a BJJ competition in a few months. I turned it down because I tell myself ‘I’m not competitive and I don’t want…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/21 04:55 PM
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I wasn’t butthurt about cumming quickly and I think it was because I was actually having having sex for me. I went down on her because I wanted to. I’ve nice guy’d her for years trying to figure out how to make her have a good time. It didn’t work, it’s never worked. This time however, I wasn’t thinking of her at all and did what I wanted to. I then went to fuck her without a condom (which I always get rejected) and just started fucking her. Me doing what I wanted turned me on as well as her bei…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/21 04:51 PM
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I’ve started to eliminate quite a bit of shit I need to do for work in the week which is definitely an energy suck. I now ‘batch’ those bits on a Sunday evening but I haven’t been doing them long enough to notice an effect. What I have started doing more of is play fighting with my kid in the evenings and messing about in the garden with them. I find I definitely have more energy after and during. Work is an energy vampire, which I’ve started to make changes for. It’s going to be a few months be…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/21 04:49 PM
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Jeez, this didn’t even occur to me. Yeah I’m making excuses for not being strong enough to set boundaries. I’m going to move towards this as per your advice. Thanks for pulling me up on my bullshit and helping with a way forward. I will apply this in a other areas of my life too.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 01:54 PM
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OYS#10 40 5’9 205lbs (-2lbs) gut 40.25in (-.25in) Married 10 years together 20+ wife mid late 40s child under 10 NMMNG WISNIFG Thinking In Bets Finished Atomic Habits this week Rereading NMMNG (audiobook) 5x5 DL110kg OH50kg SQ90kg BR 50kg BP 77.5kg BJJ 3x a week I’ve started to think about ‘future me’ a lot this week. I’ve never really done this. I generally time travel backwards, in particular to my mistakes, but I no longer have to desire to do that. I think the work I’ve done in shedding some…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 08:46 AM
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Thank you, SorcererKing. I’ll also check out alternatives to holding cash as it isn’t something I have any knowledge in. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 05:01 AM
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Thanks for letting me report in, SK. 60DOD was the 2nd post I read after 2GunsGetSum Epic FR when I found this place 70 odd days ago. Your post gave me the kick I needed to do something about me and my life. The next week I did my first OYS and apart from a Rule9 14 day ban I’ve kept a consistent weekly habit of doing my OYS. This has helped me immensely. Habits. The main thing I’ve learned in the last 60 or so days is the importance of discipline over motivation. Since my 2nd OYS I’ve lifted 3x…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/21 07:53 PM
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Yeah you’re right. I think I’ve started to finally let that path die now. It no longer serves me. Last week I think I stepped off that path and was in limbo not sure where to put my next step. But I have and I am thinking for the first time about the ‘future me’. This is a new concept that I’ve learned but I’ve started to apply it and already seeing small wins. That’s for your feedback and taking the time. I really appreciate it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 09:40 AM
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Thank you, Alphasprout. I hear you on the weight loss and completely agree. The sticks of butter is something I’ve never really thought about. That’s some fucking weight and I can see how it’s poisoning everything else. I’m making some vast improvements going forward in the area. The idea of making decisions based on whether my future self with benefit or suffer as a result of actions I take right now has really clicked this week. I’ve made changes and started applying systems of somebody that h…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 09:36 AM
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Yeah I’m starting to see this now. I’ve spent so much time looking backwards the future can seem daunting. I think I’m done looking backwards now and have made some progress here with this recently. I’m looking after ‘future me’ now so that motherfucker can take on whatever life gives him. This concept has really clicked for me this week. Your FR post from a while back really helped me last week to understand a rut I found myself in. Thanks for you guidance.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 09:26 AM
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Yeah I see what you’re saying. I’m going to use your advice to reframe something that may or may not happen at work. This is a new perspective I’m going to work on in my life. ‘Read less, Do more’ is something that I’ve been told this twice in as many weeks. There is clearly something in this. My BJJ coach told me the same thing when I asked him what I can do to get better at Jiu Jitsu. He said to embrace the suck, and you can read all the books and watch all the YouTube videos but none of it ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 09:20 AM
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OYS#9 40 5’9 207lbs (-2lbs) gut 40.5in (-.5in) Married 10 years together 20+ wife mid late 40s child under 10 NMMNG WISNIFG Finished Thinking In Bets yesterday and started Atomic Habits 5x5 DL110kg OH50kg SQ87.5kg BR 50kg BP 75kg BJJ 2x a week My last OYS nearly didn’t happen because I was close to fucking it all off and quitting. I was in limbo, unsettled in not knowing where I’m going but also knowing I couldn’t go back to who I was before MRP. This is weak, really weak and it opened up my eye…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/21 08:45 AM
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Yes you’re right, I’ve deleted the -3lbs. Thank you for the feedback. I also read another comment of yours on somebody else’s post regarding the use of ‘!!!’. I’m guilty of that too, and will stop using it from now on. Thanks for the perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/21 07:35 PM
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Thank you Slash, It’s reassuring that what I was feeling is somewhat part of the journey. As well as your point regarding a fight for the soul, I think this also plays in to what you was talking about (via Fight Club car crash scene) in regards to letting go. I am still trying to control everything rather than accepting what is. I don’t think I was quite ready mentally a couple of weeks ago to take it in but I think I’m really starting to understand your lesson. In a similar theme I spoke with m…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/21 07:30 PM
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OYS#8 40 5’9 209lbs (same as last week) gut 41inches Married 10 years together 20+ wife mid late 40s child 6 NMMNG WISNIFG Reading Thinking In Bets 5x5 DL90kg OH45kg SQ80kg BR 55kg BP 65kg BJJ 3x a week There is a big part of me that is really resisting the changes I am trying to make. It’s been a battle that feel like I’m losing more than I’m winning. I wasn’t going to OYS this week because I feel like giving up but I’ve had a shitty feeling since Tuesday Morning knowing I’m not Owing My Shit. …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/21 09:18 PM
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Yes, ‘idle hands’ indeed. I definitely see your point. I’m gonna use the next urge I get to fuel me making art instead of watching porn. Thank you for your perspective!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/21 09:58 PM
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Thank you, Slash. You really helped me dig into some of my shit last week and it’s helped me actually see it rather than being in it. I’ve been in that shit for most of my adult life. I’ve got along way to go but you really helped me, man. I’ll definitely take your advice and plan something without them knowing. The idea of surprising my family has never really entered my head, which as a 40 year old man is really fucking sad. I’ll rectify that though. I already know what I’m gonna do. I also fu…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/21 09:51 PM
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Yeah I can and will do better in that area. Thank you for the guidance as always!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/21 06:46 PM
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OYS#7 40 5’9 209lbs (-3lbs) gut 41inches Married 10 years together 20+ wife mid late 40s child 6 NMMNG WISNIFG Reading Thinking In Bets 5x5 DL75kg OH45kg SQ75kg BR 55kg BP 65kg BJJ 3x a week Despite my reluctance to post last week’s OYS, I’m really glad I did. I was lucky enough to receive feedback which was really helpful in revealing a few more of my blind spots and some lessons learned and started to internalise. As always I really appreciate the time everybody took to give me feedback. A con…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/21 03:42 PM
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Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/21 09:11 AM
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Thank you for helping me see the difference. It makes sense to me now. Yeah I can see I hamster quite a bit but action is work progress is made. Got it! To answer your first question, I no longer keep checking reddit throughout the evenings. I only check Reddit at lunchtime at work. Once a day. I’ve also unfollowed the bands I’m into so it isn’t on my feed anymore. Thanks again for your help!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/21 09:10 AM
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I wanted to respond before my kid gets back from school, new rule is no devices during family time. I will respond properly later. I’ve been reading your OYS, there are quite a few similarities there. Even your point about meeting somebody else. Another source of anger, indeed. I’ve purchased your recommended books and will start reading the anger (can’t remember the title) one first. I’ll concentrate on those books for now like you say. One thing at a time, like you say. I’ve gone back to Chuck…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 09:08 PM
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I see a lot of postulating, some introspection, and some realization. That's good. But what I don't see is much in the way of actions you will take to change yourself. • ⁠Self sabotage seems to be a default move when things are going well. I’ve been doing it pretty consistently for years. • ⁠What is important to me is how I handle a set back from now on and reframe it. By having a plan to handles setback might even stop me from self sabotaging, or at least make me aware I’m doing it? • ⁠Over the…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 08:01 PM
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I agree about discipline and see what you’re saying. It’s taken me a minute to finally understand the difference and apply it to my life. Thank you for your guidance and feedback, really appreciate it!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 09:29 AM
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Thank you I’ll take a look at that book - it appears I have some work to do in this area.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 09:20 AM
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This is on the money. I’m always reactive when I’m not mindful. Thanks for your feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 09:19 AM
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Thank you I’ll bare this in mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 09:18 AM
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Thank you Horns, I really appreciate your feedback. Your comment on a recent AskMRP really helped me too. “Your playing retarded mind games with a post wall over weight 38 year old to get your dick wet” It struck a cord in me and gave me another angle to think about. Thanks again.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 09:18 AM
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There is a lot there to unpack so thank you for your time and thoughtful comments to help me untangle some of my shit! I really mean that. I did started writing this last night but wanted to go through it again before I posted in the morning. I actually wrote some shit that I’ve been thinking for years and was strange seeing it written on the page. Had to sit with it for a bit. I agree meditation isn’t a miracle cure. For me, at least it provides me nothing more than a good start to the day. I d…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 09:13 AM
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Thank you, ImNotSlash. I’m going to sit with this for a bit and give it the reply it deserves when I get back from BJJ tonight. Suffice to say, you’ve hit the nail on the head. Thanks again!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/21 03:49 PM
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Yeah, you’re right. I didn’t see it like that but that’s what I’ve done. I’ve struggled to answer the question so rather than ‘getting it wrong’ I did nothing. I can see where I fucked up. Thank you for pointing it out! My exit plan for fuck ups is to parent myself. Be the parent I needed as a kid. I plan to do this like I parent my own child. If they fuck up I don’t beat them up emotionally, physically or shame them. I tell them it’s ok, it’s alright we can handle this. I have done the opposite…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/21 02:50 PM
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I’ve given Chuck’s advice quite a bit of thought and I think the plan starts with forgiveness for myself. That’s my first step. Forgive myself instead of beating myself up. I’ve learned here that it is ok to acknowledge the fuck up but learn from it and move forward. It’s what I’ve done this week to move on from my fuck ups. I’m not sure on the next step just yet except the vague notion of being authentic. I need to think more about it. I think OYS is an important part of my plan until I work ou…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/21 11:06 AM
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OYS#6 40 5’9 212lbs gut 41inches Married 10 years together 20+ wife mid late 40s child 6 NMMNG WISNIFG Reading Book Of Pook and MAP 5x5 DL75kg OH50kg SQ60kg BR 2x60kg 3x55kg BP 60kg BJJ 3x a week General mood this week has been really low, the lowest it’s been for a long time. I feel tired all the time which hasn’t helped. I’ve stopped getting up early, used porn 3 times, not been tracking my diet(and put weight on) and have zero sex drive. I also considered being a weak cunt and not OYS this we…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/21 08:33 AM
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Glad my OYS has helped you in some way. Thanks for your feedback
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 09:14 PM
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You are absolutely right. My lack of confidence has fucked me up most if not all of my life. My confidence can only grow outside my comfort zone. I’m here to put in the work because I cannot go on existing how I have been. I think I’m capable of so much more. Thank you for your guidance, it really means a lot man. I will think about what you’ve said and apply it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 09:13 PM
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Thank you, I’m trying to. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 06:10 PM
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I meant ruminating on what EasyDays said, perhaps ‘mediating’ was a shite word to use. We spoke briefly via pm and what he said helped me keep moving in a positive direction was what I meant.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 06:06 PM
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OYS#5 40 5’9 210lbs gut 41inches Married 10 years together 20+ wife mid late 40s child 6 NMMNG WISNIFG Reading Book Of Pook and MAP 5x5 DL55kg 5x5 OH40kg 6x5 SQ55kg10x5 BR 55kg8x5 BP 55kg 9x5 P Ups BW 4x5 BJJ 3x a week My 4th OYS got me a rule9 14day ban, which has provided me with an opportunity to have a real honest look at myself and raised some shit I had to own up to. I won’t lie, at first I was rather butthurt. I’m not proud of how I felt but that’s how I felt.. ‘whaaa what’s the point I’m…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 09:31 AM
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OYS#4 Week4 40 5’9 208lbs Married 10 years together 20+ wife mid late 40s child under 10 NMMNG WISNIFG Reading Book Of Pook and MAP 5x5 DL60kg 5x5 OH40kg 6x5 SQ40kg10x5 BR 40kg8x5 BP 50kg 9x5 P Ups BW 4x5 BJJ 3x a week DIET Started counting calories this week weight and weighing food. Started off quite good lost 3lbs by mid week but weight seemed to fluctuate up and down quite a bit. I measured around my gut (bellybutton) last week and it was a shameful 43inches. Today I’m 41in around the gut, 2…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 09:04 AM
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Yes I was doing the sandbag workouts 3x times a week since Xmas. I added 2 more days to the routine for 60dod. My actual goal for this is to continue to build the habit of getting up at 5am every morning (except Sunday) and doing some kind of workout. I’ve suffered with insomnia and generally awful sleep in the past so getting up at that time has always been incredibly difficult for me to do let alone get into a habit. It’s definitely becoming a habit now though
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 03:01 PM
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Thank you - I’ll check out that website. I’m making use of the time while I don’t have much libido to be productive. I’ve wasted so much time wanking it’s sad and pathetic. Despite low libido I do feel much better for not watching porn. I’ve wanted and be unable to quit for years so to have a few weeks under my belt feels good. Thanks again for your time, much appreciated!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/21 04:09 PM
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I am a fat ass. I haven’t measured my body fat and will order the scales in your link. I did measure my gut (around the bellybutton) and I’m ashamed to say 43inches. I’m like a fucking cube. I agree I need to lose about 30lbs if not more and that’s my plan. I weighed myself this morning and I’m down to 107 since Monday. I’m sure that’s water weight but it’s the motivation I need to keep this going. I’ve been good on my calories (around 2300-2500) this week for the first time in years and feel re…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/21 07:25 AM
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Ahh yeah - I’ll fuck the mirror off for checking my form. What you said definitely makes sense. I worked out just now and it felt a little more comfortable for whatever reason. Since I’ve started I felt a bit like a new born foal trying to walk. Thanks again for your feedback - really appreciate it man!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 06:12 PM
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Yeah I agree with what you said about accepting it. You’re right. I do think I’m moving forward slowly and I must say I feel a lot better since actually writing down how I’ve been feeling. I guess that the power of OYS? The last 3 weeks have shown me a lot about myself and where I need to work and put effort into. Thank you for the feedback, I really appreciate it!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 04:17 PM
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I’ve been watching YouTube tutorial videos and I’m going to film myself with my phone. I haven’t filmed yet though. I’ve also got a mirror ordered so I’ll at least be able to see what I’m doing head on
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 04:11 PM
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I think you’re probably right - I will see what the weigh in results look like on Sunday and adjust like you say. I’d think I will have to drop calories though.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 08:52 PM
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Thank you! Edit: Yeah this post explains a lot. Thanks again
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 05:15 PM
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Thanks for steering me right!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 03:53 PM
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Thank you man, I really appreciate your feedback and you taking the time to guide me. Your comments have really given me some clarity and also a way forward. There is so much in your post that is ‘on the money’ I’m kinda lost for words. I have saved your comment so I can reread and internalise it but I will definitely apply your advice going forward. Thanks again for your insight, direction and encouragement!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 03:51 PM
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OYS#3 Week3 40 5’9 210lbs Married wife mid late 40s child under 10 NMMNG WISNIFG Reading Book Of Pook and MAP Horns of Apathy quite rightly pointed out to me in my last OYS that I’m a lazy fat cunt and I’m wasting everybody’s time if I’m not acting on the advice or holding up the standards laid out in the sidebar. He is absolutely right. He saw through my bullshit and told me to lift or fuck off. I don’t want to fuck off and I don’t want to waste anybody’s time either. I want to be a better man …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 09:18 AM
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Thank you for your time to steer me right - I really appreciate it! I will definitely take your advice onboard and apply it. I’ll be honest, I’m not sure how the dumbbell will help either but I was given it by my friend when he gave me the rusty 40kg on a bar and a bench. I started to struggle with overhead press by rep 4 but everything else was alright so I’ll definitely add more reps as per your advice. I will sit down tonight and work out what my TDEE is and what calories I need etc. I’ll be …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/21 05:12 PM
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I’m doing 5x5. I’m literally just about to do Routine B, I started 5x5 on Wednesday. I only have 40kg on a rusty bar and a 10kg Dumbell right now, waiting for more weights to be delivered, so I’m concentrating on form as I’ve never lifted before this week. My Diet needs reviewing and I’m going to sit down and work that out this evening calories macros etc. Again I know fuck all about it but it’s time to stop fucking about, making excuses and get this shit sorted..
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/21 03:08 PM
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That’s great, I will do. Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 05:30 AM
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Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 05:25 AM
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Thank you so much for your detailed response! I really appreciate your time. I have saved your comment and will keep referring back to it until all the information has sunk in. Yourself and Horns comments have made me realise I really need to make my diet and lifting my first priority. This evening I borrowed a friends old shitty weight bench and some rusty weights and I lifted for the first time. I don’t know what I’m was doing but it’s a start and I’ll research the 5x5 work out plan to start p…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 09:33 PM
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I’m on it! I’ll post my lifts in next weeks OYS shit as needed. Thanks again for the kick up the arse!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 01:23 PM
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I understand you.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 12:56 PM
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You’re right. I’m fucking lazy. Gyms have been closed since Xmas but that’s still an excuse. I hear you. Thanks for taking the time to give me what I need to hear!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 12:39 PM
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OYS#2 Week2 Married 10 years, together 20+ years. Me 40. Wife mid 40s One child under 10 209lbs (for the past 2 months I’ve put on then lost 2 or 3lbs each week, basically going in circles) Reading sidebar NMMNG Currently reading MAP and listening to WISNIFG & book of pook. 60DOD 5am 5x days sandbag workout & hill reps 3x days per week. I am really grateful for the feedback from my first OYS last week, which I’ve given much thought. Its opened my eyes to how OYS every week will help me find my m…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 09:09 AM
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I’m beginning to see why OYS each week is so important for progress. Thank you for your perspective!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/21 09:24 AM
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Economy of words is something I need to work on. My OYS#2 will be more concise. Thanks for the feedback!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/21 05:05 AM
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Yeah I agree. Its something I need to stop and I’m facing up to now. Thank you for the feedback!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/21 05:01 AM
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Yeah, you’re right. I’ll definitely take your advice on board and adjust my behaviour. Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 04:12 PM
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OYS#1 Married 10 years, together 20+ years. Me 40. Wife mid 40s One child under 10 READING I was BP until I read The Game & Rational Male about 2 years ago and skirted around RP since trying to, unsuccessfully, apply it to my marriage. I just couldn’t work out how to apply it as a ‘nice guy’. I then found MRP via Rian Stone on Youtube a month or so ago and have been balls deep in the sidebar since. Read NMMNG & WISNIFG Currently reading MAP I’ve been in therapy to untangle my head for the last y…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 08:52 AM
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I’m in. 5am Monday to Friday Sandbag Work Out 8pm Mon, Wed & Friday Hill Reps Saturday Stretch and walk Sunday Rest Day Gyms open again near me next month so I’ll be doing BJJ 3x a week.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/21 05:45 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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