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External12/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/16 07:26 PM
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I'm suggesting just one of the ways and I'm sure there are many more in this thread and they likely don't all work for most men, too.
/r/seduction03/11/22 02:22 PM
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I would simply ask him just that. Some girls would have saved themselves their time with me because I wouldn't have had a good answer for them, would have helped me reflect about it sooner too. Don't be afraid to ask a straight up question like that because you might just be afraid of the answer more than asking the question.
/r/seduction01/11/22 07:57 AM
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Any girl showing interest in me makes them more attractive immediately. That may sound silly but it's true, it works on me.
/r/seduction31/10/22 11:51 PM
1

I feel you. Hopefully things go well for you and you surprise yourself with how it turns out. Who knows, maybe they are nothing like the person you hope they can be.
/r/seduction30/10/22 06:00 PM
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For me, I recently was doubting my self and a match encouraged me to come out and I was glad she helped give me some assurance which was risky for her you would think, out of ordinary. Maybe the dudes dating, busy, maybe he has some personal doubts and needs a nudge to act, can be many things of course. Asking a person straight out kindly is a good way to go I think, girl did this to me last week. The girl who asked me out at one point said "I'm putting myself out there for you because I would r…
/r/seduction30/10/22 04:58 PM
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She thinks you are out of her League get over it. Don't worry man. You do the same to other girls too, it's a two-way street. Think of it this way also, she was rejecting you as nice as possible. If she told you you were boring you would have killed yourself possibly.
/r/seduction02/08/22 01:10 PM
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Buy her a drink and ask the bartender to specifically offer it to her to come over.
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:43 AM
6

Creep.
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:27 PM
3

I appreciate how self aware you are and seem to understand yourself well.
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:02 PM
25

Thanks to dating apps, I don't know if I'm attractive anymore.
/r/seduction30/03/22 08:16 PM
1

I have things women judge and reject me for that I cannot change. These are things we have to accept and learn to not let them negatively effect our emotions. We reject women still, too, even if not to their face but by avoiding them completely. If you are upset about your height, then think why you wouldn't approach just any girl for their physical appearance. You have things you want and don't want in another just like anyone else, it's all fair. It's a two way street, you have deal-breaker's …
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:45 AM
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I think I missed out on a number of opportunities with women because I'm worried to come off as a guy who doesn't get hints to back off.
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:10 PM
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Ignore her harder. If she's doesn't ask to get together, forget her.
/r/seduction21/08/21 09:49 AM
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Girls rarely rarely compliment a guy, especially one they don't know yet and are interested in. Guys are guys and will take a shot, if you are attractive that's just how it goes regardless. I'm told I'm attractive and I would imagine other guys that are attractive also don't get compliments like you are thinking out of the blue.
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:14 PM
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If you can say it sarcastically/jokingly/teasing/flirty/humble way enough, say "I saw you looking at me".
/r/seduction05/06/21 11:11 AM
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Need info. What are you doing when you approach them? Saying hello and introducing yourself? Or waving your penis?
/r/seduction23/05/21 12:24 AM
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No self love, no confidence, all doubt.
/r/seduction25/04/21 01:19 PM
1

As someone who wanted to learn guitar, I wish I got accoustic first. Benefit to electric, you can use headphones if need to. I'll learn one of these years.
/r/seduction12/04/21 08:08 AM
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Be sure to separate emotional support and having others who just re-enforce your beliefs to feel comfortable.
/r/seduction20/02/21 03:39 AM
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If you get to the kiss scenario, afterwards say "want to turn tonight into an 11/10?". Lol
/r/seduction25/01/20 01:46 PM
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If I'm not mistaken it could take up to a week at least to show symptoms. Maybe something got into your complexion.
/r/seduction14/07/19 02:52 PM
7

People can change in an instant. You will never know.
/r/seduction21/06/19 03:34 PM
2

Kinda sad when you complain about something so petty and you can do at home already yourself. How long is it to stand in a coffee line that you need to complain about it and blame others? None of this is worthwhile it's infuriating.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/09/18 03:28 AM
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Appreciate the reply. Text can be easily misinterpreted, completely understand.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/18 11:55 PM
14

No, I was asking sincerely question, please do not project.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/18 11:09 PM
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So they are saying men don't do anything at home? Or anything they do outside of work doesn't count?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/18 08:47 PM
2

Why don't you explain to her that you're just friends then?
/r/seduction18/08/18 07:53 PM
1

You probably just ruined this line for yourself then.
/r/seduction28/05/18 05:08 AM
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She wants you to f*** her and not get emotionally attached or make it anything serious and once you do she's gone. That's what all that stuff she's telling you means. Make a move and if she doesn't like it move on and cut your losses.
/r/seduction20/04/18 09:29 PM
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I always wonder if posts were just screenshotted and deleted when they are 1 second old.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/03/18 03:20 PM
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I personally think this comes off as weird. If you are single looking for Valentine's date it's not happening. Valentine's is for people in relationships not people who want to just go on a date for the Hallmark holiday. Comes off as desperate. Sharing thought, not in the sense that I think I am right, just my opinion.
/r/seduction10/02/18 03:07 PM
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You are too involved emotionally and you will ruin it for that reason. You will meet another.
/r/seduction21/02/17 12:00 PM
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Isn't this video just giving some guys more reasons to not get a hint and come off needy? Or a way to get a girl not interested in you at all to respond and then probably resort back to the same dilemma after? Edit - Wording/Spelling
/r/seduction24/01/17 06:29 PM
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Crying is okay but like other said to not make things harder for yourself make sure you do it in private or when talking with someone very very close to you. But crying is okay because I see it as mentally getting over something or accepting it even though I don't like it. And then after that it seems to get easier or I may even forget about it or care less, but that could also just be me getting older too.
/r/seduction11/11/16 05:25 PM
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You do it for yourself. I started working out for football. Now I continue to to stay in shape for flag football leagues I'm in. A plus is I look good too. But not my initial goal. Yes, I do workout for looks now also, but initial goal was to be better at football and sports in general I participate in. If someone is going to work out is 4 better appearance that's fine, but if that's what you think the only purpose is you are not being open-minded enough and may have some insecurities I think.
/r/seduction08/10/16 03:41 PM
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Depends. Do I know this? If so, I'll go for it. If that's the scemario and I don't know, but I like her I can still talk to her. If a friend gets upset I am talking to a girl, unless it's his wife or girlfriend, he shouldn't get upset with me or the girl.
/r/seduction15/08/16 05:14 PM
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You and your friends don't choose the girl. The girl chooses. Usually most guys who act like this just can't handle rejection or a friend who gets more pussy. If someone's gonna claim a girl, the only way they can do that is by talking to her first.
/r/seduction14/08/16 08:00 PM
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My experience was very different. She drank lots of whiskey, loved fucking, and would leave her 12 year old at home a lot. Never really made me pay for stuff either. Very low maintenance. We never considered each other a item as much as friends for the months we hung out.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 09:04 PM
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Just imagine the manipulation she is capable of with weaker willed people.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/16 04:39 PM
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Thank you for an official Mod confirmation. I can delete it if you wish, or you can if you want to. Thank you.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/06/16 03:12 PM
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It's about the racist remarks really. I think they added that detail for effect.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/06/16 02:24 AM
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Does this count?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/16 07:28 PM
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That's great. Because guess what, it worked and the person warmed up to you some, didn't reject you for simple convo. Me and you both know there are more who can laugh with you like this. Just don't forget it's one at a time, can't win them all. You wouldn't be interested in every girl approaching you either, so as long you understand that you will handle rejection better.
/r/seduction06/06/16 10:09 PM
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I want to help, so I will be honest. I have heard it is more difficult for Asian men to date. However, if true for whatever reasons, I am sure you can still dramatically improve your odds. Only thing that can happen. If not diet at least workout well. People may want to sound better when I say this and disagree, but get a trainer for a few months at a gym. My best transformations happened thanks to trainers, $30-$50 per half hour depending on deals. Huge mental gain. Just know we all may not get…
/r/seduction03/06/16 11:52 PM
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This is so stupid. You make it sound like if OP dates, he's gonna throw his friggin' life off the rails, like it's damn heroin. He is a senior in college about to graduate, and you say he needs to focus on his priorities? You really make OP sound like he is not capable and are giving him shit advice and prolonging him achieving his goal.
/r/seduction03/06/16 10:06 PM
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So wait on dating, work on career? Can't do both? See what I'm getting at? You guys are telling him, don't date until you are established. But yet not helping him work on his social anxieties or insecurities. It's bad advice in my opinion. (not trying to argue)
/r/seduction03/06/16 07:02 PM
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I don't like a lot of the advice here. How do you feel about how you dress? How do you feel about your body? How do you feel about your personality? This will help us suggest some things. A lot is mental and getting your wardrobe in shape or tour body can do wonders mentally and give confidence.
/r/seduction03/06/16 06:28 PM
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Where is he unhappy with himself? Oh wait, he is, with the fact he isn't talking to girls. He's about to graduate. He can look for a job in the meantime. You guys are telling him to focus on studies, when he has for 4 years already. He could date and graduate, no?
/r/seduction03/06/16 06:26 PM
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Why make so many prerequisites for going on a date is what I am saying. He can still try to talk to girls. No?
/r/seduction03/06/16 06:23 PM
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So what if he doesn't get a good job. What's a good job to you (salary). If no good job, kill himself? Not safe until he gets a good job?
/r/seduction03/06/16 04:40 PM
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And then the Cosplay's who take it "seriously as an art" are offended? No, you are just a person who's lazy as fuck and likes to rip off guys who only leave their house for these events. If you take cosplay at these events seriously, like the persons described, you are just seriously making easy money and realize that. The locals who dress up just make it fun for everyone and are fine.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/05/16 01:43 PM
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Find a recreation kinda group. I play coed flag football and softball. So right there you can meet guys and girls. We go out to get drinks sometimes after a game and usually all get invited to a person's birthday at a bar where you meet their friends who aren't in the rec group. If your response is you aren't athletic or not good, then you need to help yourself and try. Not everyone is good or maybe never played so there's all skill levels.
/r/seduction12/05/16 08:20 PM
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I'm sorry but you're way off by saying herpes is a deadly disease and that she could be charged with something. Then you're saying two strangers making out, and one gives them herpes on the lip, they're going to die now and the person's going to be sent to jail?
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 11:18 AM
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She no longer has interest. Cut your losses, move on. If you contact her again, you will make it that much easier for her to forget you, and will give her full comfort "At least SecondVariety13 is always around if I need someone".
/r/seduction08/03/16 10:41 PM
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No. You watch and observe at most. Then you decide to talk to some girl yourself or assume you need to cut you losses eventually if she's enjoying someone else's attention right in front of you. It depends in how this scenario goes. But most importantly initially, don't give a fuck, she should do something about it whether it's telling him she's with someone or "he was a nice guy and just wanted to talk" bullshit story.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 01:31 PM
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This is why I think there should be age flair or something so we know what generation experience we are dealing with.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 02:54 PM
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She looks out of his league too. So it makes sense he'll stay cuckold.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/02/16 09:47 PM
9

Interesting, if you Facebook her, her sister is sharing a bunch saying the media is wrong and other things are false. I wonder if a rape kit was used.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/02/16 07:36 PM
1

Go on some dates with girls that do not interest you or make you "care" that you impress them. The more natural you comes out because you aren't trying so hard or are not nervous. I realized noticed how I felt around girls I was attracted to vs. ones I was not, and it helped me not be so "in my own head" on dates.
/r/seduction15/01/16 12:20 AM
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Looking through his comments, he is getting married in less than 2 months and not calling it off.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 09:55 PM
1

You are taking a lot of shit and need to change something it sounds like if it this often. Maybe you are coming off as too nice considering info in this post. I suggest looking into some "Red pill" material.
/r/seduction18/12/15 03:09 PM
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I agree with the idea of your message. But damn, not everyone knows how to make a resume properly. It does take a little training. I guess we were all pathetic fucking losers before? Just sounds elitist.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 02:33 PM
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Why am I so confused in understanding why "That's not the point" is a proper reply? I almost feel like the reply I would get is "what do you mean?, I answered your question I'm not free."
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 02:16 PM
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All I'm saying is a made up story that goes exactly how the writer wants it to doesn't provide real example or lesson in my opinion. Sorry if I was harsh.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 03:21 AM
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You are using a fictional movie as an example? What a waste.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 12:34 AM
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Also, The Red Pill has helped me with dating more than this sub (too many people with little experience thinking they know what they are talking about). Take what you want from red pill, I can't get into 100% of it but it covers a lot for shit testand makes sense.
/r/seduction04/11/15 12:49 PM
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I would respond with a proper retort, but OP deleted the details so I forget what was said exactly. However, he needed to act on what she said with an immediate response that would gain interest or create mystery, etc. http://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/seduction04/11/15 12:34 PM
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She gave you a shit test. You failed. Just txt "drink later"?
/r/seduction03/11/15 06:26 PM
4

I hate movies as real life examples.
/r/seduction20/10/15 08:22 PM
2

And the child's still hugging people to this day! WHERE IS THE JUSTICE!
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/15 08:08 PM
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It's a movie. Not real life. I don't like movies being used as examples for real life situations. But I get the point.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 08:20 PM
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That is a great outlook, good for you. Unfortunately I figured out girls and confidence in my mid to late 20's. I was similar to you, I think, trying to do everything for the girl to live up to the movie type ideal guy. But either I learned to suppress those emotions or past girlfriends have killed it. Girls like me more than ever the more I learned.
/r/seduction26/08/15 11:19 PM
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What about the bitch manipulating him? Duh...
/r/seduction26/08/15 09:57 PM
2

She lost the power she had over the Nice Guy. That's the problem. Now she is "shit testing" you. Keep it up!
/r/seduction26/08/15 09:54 PM
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Lol
/r/PussyPassDenied25/07/15 02:04 AM
75

Love the Freudian slip at the end.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/07/15 12:28 AM
1

The younger you are, the more you think it's working out. Someone is or eventually cheating. Waste of time and energy.
/r/seduction21/07/15 04:44 AM
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I know of a couple people infected, one is a rather close friend who confided in me. He gave an interesting outlook, because I thought people had this rash or whatever always or frequently. First, he stopped telling people he explained and never had a reoccurring outbreak and has not had an issue, I guess I am unsure of this part but I'm not in there shoes. He also said how people will make out with total strangers, but not second guess getting herpes, so why with sex? And also said it hasn't ef…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 11:44 AM
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You don't unless asked. Just don't do boyfriend things like buy them stuff or setting up dates. Wanna hang out somewhere?, that's fine too. If they assume it's something more, that's there fault/problem, you have no obligation. If they don't like it, makes no difference because you aren't gonna talk to them anyways for long term. Girls have done this to me too.
/r/seduction19/06/15 05:59 PM
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You shouldn't have to do anything. Your girl should be nice, explain she is with someone when it is obvious of his intent, maybe he has a serious question. If she doesn't, leave her immediately. There is nothing you can do.
/r/seduction16/06/15 02:11 PM
2

Do you or did you play sports now/growing up? Can be spun into compliment if appears athletic or fit.
/r/seduction29/05/15 04:14 PM
2

Yea, like some of those police videos that swept through the last months, people were claiming things on video when illegal activity was really going on in some cases.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/15 01:24 PM
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Did she even attack them, or was just annoying?
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/15 08:35 AM
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Yea, I hate these guys, I picture someone doing these things and just annoying me by trying hard.
/r/seduction29/04/15 08:28 PM
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Exactly! And if she sends you a 'where you been' kind of thing, you have to play that right. Say you are busy first for that week or so assuming this happens. That makes you look better, like 'after I'm finished this thing more important than you, sure I think I got a little time'.
/r/seduction29/04/15 01:22 AM
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Yea, but if the liking/caring is not mutual, you look worse if you keep trying. Not everyone will like you and you will screw up, it's okay. Forget it. And don't think this is the only one, that's lame.
/r/seduction28/04/15 11:39 PM
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Well, if it was me, I wanna go home or get drunk food after a concert. Assuming we are talking about a music concert she attended. MAybe it was a bad time. It shouldn't be too difficult for her if she wants to hangout. Don't get too invested, if she notices you are done possibly. Also, she may be hanging with another guy/s. Still talk to other girls bro, you have no obligations to anyone. Sometimes when other people know you are actively dating others, makes them try harder. I hope this helps in…
/r/seduction18/04/15 12:02 AM
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Suggest a time. She will ask otherwise if needed and you will come off more confident.
/r/seduction17/04/15 08:30 PM
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Either over eager or she wanted to fuck and got annoyed with talking so much.
/r/seduction17/04/15 08:23 PM
8

James?
/r/PussyPassDenied14/03/15 04:26 AM
2

You are over reacting. You will be fine. You will go through a number of breakups maybe, and will repeat this process or be better from it. You are okay. Go out with friends and get back into your new single routine.
/r/seduction07/03/15 04:21 PM
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"I hurt her feelings, did I?....tell her I meant it." LMFAO
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/15 04:18 PM
2

Find a friend who will go out is onething that helped me. He/they would always be excited which helps me wanna go out. A few good night's your mindset may change. You will be chasing those nights.
/r/seduction26/12/14 09:27 PM
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Describes a lot of one of my ex, she got the abortion when we were on a break (from another guy). Daddy issues/divorced/middle child too.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 06:00 PM
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"Everything ends badly or it wouldn't end." Tom Cruise in the movie 'Cocktail'. Oddly enough, he is leaving his rich sugar momma in that scene.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 11:33 PM
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I like this, but with my luck, what if she was the type to ignore you comments and think she was right still?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:09 PM
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People, like I did before, don't understand what the gym does for you. Looking more attractive is one benefit. Feeling like you can punch holes through faces, run through walls, and more confidence are some others. I started 4 years ago so I could be better at sports, now it's just a hobby because it has benefited me in many other ways.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:04 PM
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Its like buying a drink at a bar. Should a girl see that as a suplicator?
/r/seduction18/11/13 02:02 PM
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Try and think of jokey way to start. Like if anyhting is on a radio or a TV in a bar, I say "Did you have them turn this on?" Depending on the song or the TV show, it can sound sincere or funny if odd show/song and can start convo. Work with your surroundings. Buy a gift card for $5, sign your Phone number on the back and first name, ask if wants to get a coffee sometime. I'm free-styling here, trying to help.
/r/seduction17/11/13 02:21 AM
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