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Fucken class film. Prefer 3 but. Leo's first screen credit, I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:01 PM
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💪
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:27 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/govp8tnoegte1.jpeg?width=320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=88b80189738ed77d5e01b1d57200c13189fc9c92
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:12 PM
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Angmar you had too many of those tranquilizers?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:56 AM
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Beyond creepy. If I was Sea I'd be shitting my pants after seeing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:37 PM
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They tell you to stick it in the oven?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:12 PM
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She immediately gets high fived. Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:09 PM
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Pole is great for strength. You can get poles for your own house nowadays. Just make sure you fit it securely 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:40 PM
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So? You won't die.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:37 PM
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Doctor Who tree lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:36 PM
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Well, no one does. Just have to push through those feelings and meet up with them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:35 PM
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What's wrong with all the women you match with and chat to on OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:25 PM
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Yes; I think it's something that should be spoken about. I don't believe in the whole "never talk about an ex" thing. Obviously, don't yap on about your ex on the first date, but presuming you're both adults and have had previous relationships, it's not a big deal to have a conversation that puts things in context once things start to get serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:16 PM
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True, but there aren't many with such an extensive list of offences against women as Chris Brown.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:26 PM
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Not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:21 PM
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The third space is definitely dying. We've traditionally had a big pub culture where I'm from, and nowadays I'm frequently among the youngest in my local. Pubs and clubs were where I met most people I was involved with from ages 17-23ish, because we were all there most weekends. It's not the same any more - the other week I read an article in a local newspaper about how walking in to a pub was ranked the #2 scariest/most intimidating experience for a young person these days. I also know a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:19 PM
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He did. Raped a woman on a yacht, punched Liziane Gutierrez, punched his ex-girlfriend Karrueche Tran, sexually assaulted a woman in France.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:10 PM
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So you can smash a woman's face to bits, strangle her, have a rape accusation, punch another woman in the face, threaten to kill another girlfriend, be detained in a number of countries for sexual assault... ...but because your PR firm are savvy enough to funnel some money in to a womens' foundation all is forgiven? What the fuck. There are hundreds of celebrity men who support women without having terrorised them beforehand. Why not choose one of them to praise?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:07 PM
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Check their post history. The person is a 10th grader in America, meaning they are 15-16 years old. Man, how are you getting caught out so badly with this fake scenario stuff. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:07 PM
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There's no such thing as "deserve" in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:31 AM
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I'm with the Yanks on this one. Can watch people getting butchered, but if an animal dies then I'm switching off immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:39 PM
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You know I'm invested in this situ and root for you, and I mean no ill intent when I say this - it's just in the spirit of discussion: You've antagonised a lot of dudes on here who are in the position you are now. But now having experienced the same thing yourself, do you think you will view them differently going forward?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:51 PM
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Me hungover:
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:15 PM
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People generally date their looksmatch, or within a point of it. Statistically speaking, she'll have got dumped by a guy who is probably around the same level of attractiveness as her. But her self-awareness is so low that she'll never realise it. Skill issue innit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:40 PM
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Shit, spanner in the works with him being from another country. Is he still in the Arab world? Is it feasible for you to visit at some point? It does sound like you're gonna have to be smart and play the long game on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:39 AM
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Most gays want to jump straight to smashing, right? Do the opposite. Tell this guy you want to take him out on a romantic date. Flip his expectations. I know it might be hard to pull off because of where you are, but you can surely go for a meal together somewhere without it looking out of place. I don't think you need to be an asshole. Just confident and unapologetic. Like "I want to romance the absolute shit out of you" style stuff. Don't listen to me seriously though as you've put too much pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:27 AM
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Pellets are out all day for grazing, wet food once in the morning, once in the evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:17 PM
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<image> Oh, it's bad. I always try to work on it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:40 AM
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I'm no expert on how you guys do it, but I really think you need to say something that will shock him instead of going with the mundane. I'd say: double text him with something outrageous. Gotta stand out from the crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:30 AM
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Man... this is beyond small talk. This is tiny talk. At this point you might as well just ask him if he wants his balls tickled, because you desperately need something to jolt the convo back to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:19 AM
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That's a grey area - very interesting to explore. I think if she openly expresses distaste and disapproval for porn, and makes her views on porn use in a relationship clear (but does not explicitly ask him to stop), and he recognises it and decides to stop because he loves her - we're all good there. But the second she has to actually say "your porn use is hurting me, can you please stop?", imo things are ruined. He presumably already knows she doesn't like it before it's gotten to the point of …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:07 PM
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Absolutely. That's exactly what I'd do in that situation too. I think a good way to describe my view is: people must do things because they want to, not because they were prompted to do so. If I was that hypothetical woman who asked her partner to stop watching porn and he agreed, I still don't think I'd feel satisfied with that resolution. He's stopping watching not because he wants to; but because she had to ask. I'd prefer to walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:48 PM
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Hmmm, complex. I don't think I view it favourably. It's strange because I am anti-porn and don't watch it myself, but I feel that asking someone to alter their behaviour is a bit too controlling. That's a personal thing though. I really don't like unduly influencing people, so I don't tend to approve of asking people to stop doing things. Even if I don't support said thing in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:36 PM
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Like Shia said: don't let your dreams be dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:02 PM
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Actual Steak stop being such a fucking freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:32 PM
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Guilty as charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:56 PM
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Hmmm. I think you're always going to run in to people like that, regardless of what you have written. Most people don't read bios until after you've matched, if at all. Which means that manual filtering for people who are more your type in terms of personality/goals/intent is always going to be needed. OLD is labour intensive work, no doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:29 PM
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Blank is my recommendation. Let the pictures speak for themselves, then deepen the connection in the chat. It's much better to have an organic conversation about mountain biking, for instance, than to have "I like mountain biking" on your profile. I'm sure you hate it when you see a movie trailer that shows you the whole plot before you've actually seen the film. Same logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:03 PM
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You think that's common IRL? I see the "I want a harem" stuff on here, but I always thought that was cope manifest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:59 PM
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You're a movie guy right? Seen that Speak No Evil yet? Remake of the Danish film. Watched it yesterday. Danish original was an examination of masculinity in the face of social norms. American remake changes it in to "cheating wife turns action hero and protects cucked husband who cowers in a corner." Mental.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:53 PM
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Why is American media pushing this agenda so hard. Oddballs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:47 PM
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Mine let their bedsheets drag across the grass where cats and foxes pee :|
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:46 PM
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Teenager during most of those experiences. People tend to do stupid stuff age 15-20 when they're finding themselves. And it was easier to get a hold of weed than booze when you were under 18, which lead to "pfffff I might as well try it again I guess, maybe this time will be different" thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:34 PM
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Tried weed about 20 times in my life, and never once liked it. Doesn't agree with me - I get this horrible feeling of tunnel vision. Used to do coke when I was drinking because it's super common here. Fun because it wasn't mind-altering, but turns me in to a person I don't like. Tried ecstasy a couple of times in the early 2000s and felt like I was constantly panicking when I was on it. I just don't think I'm a drug person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:28 PM
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(Depends on the woman and the tattoo quality, of course.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:14 PM
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I can't relate, but it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:55 PM
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Combine it with the bras d'honnuer for emphasis, perhaps. Although I suppose that could be done with the Vs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:45 PM
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Literally me, as you can see. Although I favour the middle finger over the Vs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:33 PM
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There are some fucked up saddos in the world. You'll find 'em in every walk of life. On Reddit they can be anonymous, and dodge accountability for doing stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:19 PM
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Not at all, for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:16 PM
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Wife likes to sleep in a formation I call "the swastika". So my "side" consists of the 10% closest to the edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:33 AM
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Get some citrus fruits down you and keep warm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:31 AM
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Although I agree about lots on here lacking confidence and that being a massive problem, this is not a good comparison. A) He's got a camera. Watch how the women light up when they see it, and direct all their attention toward it rather than him. B) He's a social media influencer, and they obviously recognise his gimmick. They're playing along in the hope of being featured in a video. C) None of those women were genuinely interested in him. There's zero signs of actual attraction from them - onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:25 AM
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M8 just get a locking chastity belt-style protector for your kidney areas before you get on that flight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:59 PM
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Not even a second's hesitation 😂 Man was vicious. There was a hilarious John Prescott sigma male megamix when he died.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:54 PM
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John Prescott. https://youtu.be/_nJioyq3We8?si=i2yPddCqaECOCzs5
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:45 PM
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<image> This is roughly what the average 24-28 year old woman looks like where I live. Take from a Google search of "average Scottish woman 20s". Stats also say she'll be about 140-145lbs, and 5'4". Fairly accurate to what I see around me every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:50 PM
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But no of course, on a serious note I believe in radical and unequivocal self-ownership of one's own mistakes and flaws. One person's actions have no bearing or reflection on the character of those close to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:02 PM
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You're supposed to say "eating a meal, a succulent chinese meal?" 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:00 PM
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What is the charge
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:52 PM
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Can't argue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:17 PM
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Corbyn's ignorance of Scottish law cost him a lot up here. Not convinced he viewed us any differently from the Tories - an afterthought at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:44 PM
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I'm just kidding on. If your neighbour's house is burning down you'd be a dafty if you didn't try to save your own. Can't tell me that if you had the option of a Plaid Wales in Europe you wouldn't make a grab for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:30 PM
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Revenge for pulling us along for the ride with Thatcher.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:22 PM
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For a man? About 20-30 a day. Woman? 200-300.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:52 PM
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Haha, I'm not American either! I'm Scottish - SNP are one of the main parties here, and Nic Sturgeon was our FM (equivalent to president) for 9 years. And she did a good job, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:48 AM
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SNP since I was old enough to vote, although I do not vote for them any more since they had a corruption scandal which disillusioned me. Nicola Sturgeon was an excellent leader from 2014 to 2023. Shame the way shit went down and the succession of useless diddies they've had ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:30 AM
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Depends on the type of feminism. I support equal rights for women in terms of legal, social, employment treatment. I'm pro-abortion. Voted in favour of making sanitary products free. Think the best politician my country ever had was a woman. Rosie the Riveter feminism = great. But I think "kill all men" Tiktok feminism is cancer. I think women should receive the same sentences as men when they commit the same crimes. I don't think Onlyfans and porn is empowerment. Rosie the Rimjobber feminism = …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:34 AM
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Me trying to trim my cats' claws:
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:38 AM
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No, I refuse. Has not happened to me, will not allow it to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:58 PM
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...aye man, obviously Windows 1995 wasn't around in 1989. I'm just reminiscing on simpler times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:15 PM
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I dunno. Logically I agree. But emotionally I miss Windows 95 and my VCRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:33 PM
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Walken's character named after the dude who played Nosferatu. I always liked that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:31 PM
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I dare you to text her and ask "what happened to the Disney+ homie???" then when she loses her shit just reply with that gif of Homer backing up in to the shrubbery.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:14 PM
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I manage a large number of people at work, and for certain rEaSoNS they often don't take my guidance or advice seriously. I used to waste time and energy making sure they didn't fuck up, but quickly learned that they would never listen. I now give them advice once, and when they don't take it I sit back and watch as the consequences for fucking up come down on their heads. Then I keep quiet until they explicitly ask for my help. I make them ask. Sometimes I play dumb and make them admit that I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:01 PM
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Imagine not having the "click" with the person who bore two of your children. If it hasn't happened by now, it's not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:50 PM
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I know you're not American, and I also think you're smarter than me - it was a mere jape!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:24 PM
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American general intelligence sample moment 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:12 PM
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"In contrast, the American sample has a stronger measure of physical attractiveness, but a comparatively weak measure of general intelligence." No shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:09 PM
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A WIG AND MAKEUP. Mate, I'm sorry but you're going to have this lad looking like Herman Munster. Buzz cut is a better option than some Elton John toupee, surely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:48 PM
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Quality? Very few. And I'm not bringing looks in to the equation at all there. Goodlooking people are dime a dozen. Good partners are like gold dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:47 PM
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With a hair transplant, LASEK, a nose job, time spent in the gym, and braces to correct the overbite he could be average. Could do that in a year, if he really blasted it. £15-20k.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:44 PM
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It's a slow Friday at work and I am bored, so I have commented on main. Do you think the femcels will come for me? Place bets now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:34 PM
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Real.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:29 AM
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Q4A: Do you believe in the concept of luck? Can an individual be inherently lucky or inherently unlucky? How much do you think character, preparation, and individual agency factor in to luck?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:22 AM
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It's Stephen Graham for me. Would watch anything he's in tbh. This century's Robert Deniro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:10 AM
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Nah, rare I'd say. 10-15% of relationships. It takes some ego death and humility to truly love someone that way - and it's uncommon to find two people who are capable of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:45 AM
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I think they work best when both parties are convinced that they love the other more. Mutual simpdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:33 AM
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Huffing gas as well. A man of taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:13 PM
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It'll be a mixture of new quotas, optics, and general retardation. Imagine the dude at your local postal office who is anal about not giving you your package because your driver's license expired yesterday. Then give him a gun and unlimited unchecked power.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:17 PM
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For UK: some clown fucked up her Visa and was detained for a few days. The travel warning is basically "make sure you have your papers in order, because they're actually checking now." Although I'm sure you'll interpret it as the prelude to transatlantic nuclear warfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:00 PM
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Actually, you're dead right. Patriarchal gender norms etc. Good point. I guess I'll rephrase: the thing I find jarring is the apparent "the patriarchy made me homophobic, therefore it's not my responsibility to challenge my problematic/outdated views" attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:28 PM
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I just think it's hilarious how she's desperately grasping for some way to explain it away as all being men's fault. "The patriarchy made me homophobic" is a masterclass in self-delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:21 PM
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It doesn't work the way you expect, trust me. Because you took them back for cheating in the first place, they don't see it as such a big betrayal. They view it as something they can work out. Which takes the sting out of it. The best catharsis is just disappearing like a fart in the wind. No text, no replies, no explanations. Just as if they're dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:54 PM
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You guys not got built-in prenups in your legal system down there? We do up here, I thought it was standard in all the countries of the UK. Basically, can't get rinsed by your spouse her even if you don't have a prenup. And only one prenup has ever been thrown out in court in history of Scot's law. It was a Yank lad who was forced in to signing one by his abusive Yank bird who was mega-rich. Court gave him a few mil, I believe. Jurassic Park.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:50 PM
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I say this politely, but also as someone who figured the dating apps out and is trying to give helpful advice: man, that is one boring first message. Gotta go a bit more memorable. Maybe even a little bit cheeky.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:10 PM
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Ageing is less controllable. On the bright side, if it's not accompanied by weight gain then ageing also has less negative impact. Still scary though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:09 PM
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Wouldn't worry about it. You've probably just got one of those faces. I've had similar. Old people frantically rushing to lock their car doors when I walk past etc. You just have to laugh at it. People are always gonna have preconceptions, no matter who you are. Has no reflection on the person you are inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:20 PM
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Master's degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:00 PM
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Kinda dude who looks like he enjoys chewing tobacco.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:46 AM
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<image> What the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:48 AM
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Airport beers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:30 AM
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I'd love to have this doss cunt working under me for 1 week. Would have him crying by day 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:01 PM
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Not good. Preoccupation with power balance in a relationship is never a healthy sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:55 PM
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I assumed the coloured heart thing was just bollocks made up for the show, or urban myth. It's like the Doc Marten lace colour supposedly being an indicator of what type of skinhead you are. Does red laces really mean you're a Nazi who has killed someone, or is it more likely that you just like the colour red and those laces were in stock at the shop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:44 AM
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Yeah it's like a poorly-fitting Halloween mask of Charles Bronson, but still for 61 I'd take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:42 PM
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Weird how Anthony Kiedis can come out of decades of heroin addiction looking pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:32 PM
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Not too bad. Nowhere near David Cronenberg level. Most extreme bit is heavy on the humour, which softens the impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:31 PM
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I don't believe it, personally. Something like "bond" is too nebulous to be quantified, imo. How can one objectively judge the strength of an emotional attachment without self-reported data, which will obviously be skewed by people who are hung up on their exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:11 PM
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I mean obviously he enjoys correct paragraph formatting. That's basically literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:50 PM
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Bullet point guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:47 PM
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Oh shit hahahaha. Clearly, I am naive. I was thinking workforce logistics 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:42 PM
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I am married. I thought this question was about immigration policy? Did I misunderstand?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:37 PM
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I notice that they're not coming to any European countries, which makes sense logistically. But if they did, I'd hold them to the same standards I do refugees from any other country: if they have qualifications or skills in engineering, software development, biological sciences, and trades like builders, electricians, and gas engineers then they can come. If not: bye, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:32 PM
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I have to work late tonight, therefore I starve until I can get home.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:50 PM
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Archimedes. I lifted my old, rotten patio slab by slab all by myself due to our boy's discovery that jamming a big stick under something heavy lets you lift it even if you have normal strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:38 PM
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Wasn't much deciding for me. I didn't even like kids when I was one myself. And then by the time I grew up and gained sentience, I already knew I was not dad material. Although, I understand it is not so simple for most others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:47 PM
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sweet Balkan men LARP detected.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:08 PM
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It's fairly easy to ballpark guess someone's BMI. But I reckon the guys on here who say they only like healthy (19-21) BMI women are just memeing to give women a taste of what it feels like when they say they only like 6'3"+ guys, or whatever. IRL they'd probably take anything under 27 BMI without question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:48 PM
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I've known a couple of extremely attractive autistic women, but the caveat is they are all goth/alt types. That's too niche to be considered universally attractive; most on here would rate them 0/10 due to aesthetic choices, for example. I've never known an attractive autistic man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:37 PM
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You're in the chatting stage, or couple of dates stage, or a few drunken hookups stage. Nothing codified; nothing established. You're not feeling it, and trying to create distance. Other party just isn't getting it. That's the level of spookiness I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:22 PM
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My own answer: yes, of course I have. I've ghosted plenty, and have been ghosted myself. It's not a big deal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:19 PM
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Q4A: Have you ever ghosted someone? :ghost:
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:12 PM
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That's an immediate dump imo. Disrespecting another person's finances is a hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:06 PM
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But also I'd rather be doing OF for men than taking an online course on "grindset" from a guy with veneers holding fake stacks of money. So I do agree with your original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:04 PM
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OR HUSBAND. He might have a nice husband and family. Repping normies on both sides of the fence here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:01 PM
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Naw let's be realistic here. Average man has a nice wife and family whom he loves. Granted, he's not rich, but that's okay. If you do porn, the chances of you fucking up your love life is very high. I know people who make content and was once involved with a woman who is/was a fairly popular "creator". Unanimous factor is that their romantic lives are a mess. Which must factor in to the high rate of suicides pornstars suffer. Idgaf what people do, but I don't think it's a better option than bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:01 PM
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Step 1: Acquire hi-vis jacket. Step 2: Profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:24 PM
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You'll be fine - it's just veggies. All sealed, nothing to worry about. Just a spill in the factory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:22 PM
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I believe you can know if something has the potential to be "special" at first sight, but I wouldn't call that love. Love to me is something that is acquired over time. I don't think you can love someone you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:30 PM
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Get yourself one of those 2013 Justin Beiber haircuts and pretend to be a transmasc femboy catdog.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:43 PM
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Divorce and move on. Forget about her. Plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:40 PM
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Spot on. 8-10 working days to order something from some surly cunt who huffs and puffs throughout the whole interaction, or get it delivered to my door the next day by Jeffrey Bezos for half the price? No competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:26 PM
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Bane of my life, man. Always happens on buses and trains round here. I don't understand it - why would someone want to sit with a stranger when there are empty seats available??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:55 AM
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Q4A: How would you feel if you discovered that your partner (hypothetical partner for the Pringles) felt that they were the more physically attractive half of the relationship? Information is discovered without malice or condescension. Let's say you accidentally picked up their phone and saw it in a group chat with the lads/ladies. Their friend said "he/she is punching", and your partner replied "I know, but I love him/her anyway." How are you reacting to that revelation?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:13 AM
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Had hookups, flings, one night stands, "wild oats" or whatever you want to call it. Also cheated on a few girlfriends in my early 20s. Started taking life more seriously in my mid 20s. Had a 9 year relationship during which I was completely faithful, had no desire to stray. Went back to dating after it ended. Had hookups, flings, one night stands etc again. More porridge oats, I guess. Met my wife, been together for 4 years. In love with her to a sickening extent. Obviously no thoughts or desire…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:53 AM
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Do a Q4M!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:24 AM
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Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:17 AM
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Oh nooo, in fact I'd say that's how most first serious relationships between people in their early-mid 20s end 💀 I actually do think you're more capable than the average person of choosing a correct partner first time round, btw. But I also think you're voluntarily playing the game on super ultra-hard nightmare mode, which evokes an involuntary "omg why" from me. But if you're happy then it's not my place to judge! And I have no judgements. I just like asking questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:16 AM
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Couldn't even make it past the first mention of a teleporter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:05 AM
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Hypothetical question: You get your partner. Ticks all the boxes etc. Everything is perfect for 3 years. But then he changes as a person. Quarter life crisis or frontal lobe developing, or whatever. Relationship no longer works, and you have to end things. Is that you finished with dating forever? One and done for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:53 AM
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Don't breatharians get their power from the sun? How does that interact with the vampire thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:46 AM
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Polyphasic sleeping. It's forced upon me because I have 4 cats and they go tits at 4am every morning, but I've grown to love it. Spend an hour reading or watching TV. I actually I think I feel more rested with 4+3 hours with a break in between than I do with 8 continuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:54 PM
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Stephen Graham's in it and it's filmed oneshot like a Dogme95 film? Fuck me that's right up my alley. Will give it a go tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:52 PM
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I wonder what these women look like. That's all I'm gonna say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:28 PM
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Nah I had no idea he was holding a knife. Probably would have froze, had I realised. Less thug, more drunk and gormless. Like those people who get run over by cars but don't break a bone because they were inebriated and landed the right way by chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:26 PM
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My most thug story is on NYE 2008 I had been at a house party and it was shite (didn't kiss girl I liked), so I decided to walk home at around 4am. I had earphones in, and a guy crossed the road towards me and said something. I wasn't paying full attention, and just said "fuck off mate I'm no in the mood" without taking my earphones out. It was only after I passed him I realised that he was holding a blade. Internally I was shitting it, but I kept the head and just looked back as I was storming …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:17 PM
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Fully support this. Where I live is known for being "aggressively friendly". So I could be standing outside the pub on the phone or having a smoke and some junkie covered in blood will come up to me and ask to shake my hand. Then they take the hump and get aggro when you don't want to touch them. As if I'm the dick for not wanting to touch some cunt's hand when I can see his nails are black and about 2 inches long. It's one part of the "social game" I've just never done well with navigating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:26 PM
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I'm fastidious, but Electric Death is right. I just don't touch door handles in public. Door can be opened by my foot or elbow, or not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:18 PM
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Fair! Next time it happens you should do a truth duel, Eastwood-style.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:05 PM
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People on here, yeah. But that's because lots here aren't well-adjusted. Most normal folks just go "okay" and move on. I don't think it's a big deal to not be someone's preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:00 PM
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True thugs come in with the receipts. That's one thing I fucking hate about Reddit. Someone disagrees with you and they say "well you're just LARPing I bet you're fat/ugly/whatever!!!!!!" I think there should be a site-wide rule that an aggrevied party can invoke a duel situation. Both parties post their photos/proof like a shootout at high noon, and then matter is left to rest. Anyone who shits out gets an immediate lifetime ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:57 PM
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You mean everyone dunks on others for having preferences? Or you mean complaining about getting dunked on for having preferences is playing victim? Or both?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:49 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:42 PM
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It's more just politeness and tact, I think. People do get absolutely dunked on for saying they have physical preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:38 PM
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Looking forward to hearing it!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:10 PM
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Will you do a Jerry Springer style concluding post once both of your questions have enough answers? I want conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:52 PM
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Ever had the Guinness original recipe? It's bottled and it's very nice. The nitro in the tinnies gives me an instant headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:10 PM
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Single forever. Meh is not ring-worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:34 PM
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Ahhh maybe one more though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:24 PM
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Handled perfectly. Has he said anything about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:20 PM
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Actually, you're right with that. Not just Reddit. Me and my wife both have near full bodysuit tattoos. I can walk about in public freely and no one says anything to me, whereas when I'm not around the amount of people who come up to her to say rude stuff is surprisingly high. It's not popular (which is fair because it's a niche aesthetic choice) but women defo get harsher judgement for it than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:43 PM
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Nail on head. Redditors unanimously hate women with tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:52 PM
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I know. Double standards and accountability dodging don't change the truth though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:46 PM
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Or just don't marry a nutter. Her behaviour won't have been plucked out of thin air. He'll have had warning signs before he proposed, but chose to do so anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:22 PM
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That's the same with all these rating subs. What's the one for women called? R/vindictive or something. Apt name, because that's what they all are. People who are scared to show their own faces taking the opportunity to tear down people who are objectively attractive. Very Reddity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:18 PM
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People are strange about weight on here. There was someone the other day arguing that a 30ish BMI woman doesn't count as obese. Wtf. It's medically obese. That's not a subjective judgement - it's a medical fact. I don't think I even know anyone that big in real life, yet on here apparently that's a normal/average weight. Out of touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:05 PM
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Haha shit, I'm 5 years older than you and so many people I know are voice note obsessed 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:44 PM
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How old are you, Ash?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:21 PM
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Q4A: What do you think about long voice notes and the people who send them? What is the ideal/most appropriate length for a voice note? Are long ones an indicator of narcissism? Do you think a 5 minute voice note is acceptable? What about a 3 minute one?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:29 PM
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Same for me. No one 100% knows me. And I like it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:24 PM
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Teasing, inside jokes, eye contact, light touching.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:15 AM
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Hahahah my pube-shaving entered public knowledge one day when I said something like "damn don't you hate it when you shave your balls and it makes them itchy as fuck", and my friends' responses were "WHAT".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:18 PM
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Oh, I forgot about pubes. Yes, I've always shaved my pubes. Used to get called gay for it when I was young. I just prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:07 PM
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Not single, but I was once (err... obviously). I rarely shave it apart from arms and hands, but I shave them for a specific reason. Rest stays. Never was an issue when dating. I think the demographic that liked me was the demographic who preferred rougher-looking men anyway. So it worked out. If you like women who go for more neotenous men, then shave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:06 PM
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Women: men are porn brained 😡 Also women: wank your dick as if you have the sensitivity of Johnny Sins.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:51 PM
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Dunno what you'd classify as a lot of experience. I may or may not fit the bill there Either way, I have never experienced this. Always had very good, close social relations with women. I think you're right; sounds like growing up in such a segregated manner has affected you negatively. I grew up with as many female friends as I did male, and I think that's probably the best way. At the age when your mind is most malleable, it gets you accustomed to inter-gender socialisation. Also kinda sounds …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:16 PM
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It's gonna involve mozzarella, olives, or pomegranate molasses...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:45 PM
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A lot of the blame has to be on the fact that teachers' wages here have stagnated to far below average. Been plummetting for a long time. Men are still the primary breadwinners here, and a teacher's wage simply isn't enough to support a family any more. I know what you mean about the gamer/Youtuber mentality, but youngsters can't be blamed for not wanting a job that's a lot of work (and dangerous) for little recompense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:18 PM
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Might be; likely the case that the younger polite ones go unnoticed. Hope so. Norewegian and other Scandi tourists are always good in my expeirence. The only other European tourists I'm not fond of is Germans, and that's only because of how much they stare. Fucking penetrate your soul. Blink, please 👀👀👀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:09 PM
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American tourists don't deserve the extent of the hate they get tbh. I live between two extremely touristy cities and yes - some of the Americans are rude as fuck and entitled, but compared to the Chinese tourists who openly litter and let their kids take shits in the street? The Yanks are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:00 PM
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Sea = raw attraction pilled confirmed then, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:57 PM
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Proximity. Smaller streets in urban centres here. Also public transport. Means someone can easily brush up against you and pickpocket you, whereas most places in the US you can see people coming for miles. Hard to pickpocket an alert target. Plus you have guns. Risking some broken teeth for a phone = worth it. Risking death = not worth it. Low stakes crime (pickpocketing, casual violence like fights, assaults) is much more common here because the consequences are less severe. Victim probably can…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:51 PM
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Totally agree with that. Every marriage and relationship is different, and people are free to have whatever conditions they want. But if someone wishes to have an effective partnership, then making these things clear to the other party before documents are signed is absolutely essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:19 PM
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Very sorry that happened to you. It's an interesting point that you mentioned about the "best years of your life" stuff. For me, that's a big part of the reason I'd be fine with her leaving. I've got a chronic autoimmune disorder (Crohns) which can leave me fucked up for weeks on end. Hopefully it won't get worse, but you never know. My wife is also almost 9 years younger than me. The thought of seeing the lively and vivacious woman I love wasting years of her life caring for me because I'm stuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:29 PM
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This is what I think as well. I really respect the "sickness and health" people, but I'm more of a "if you love them, let them go" type.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:35 PM
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Been away for a few days so I'm going to return with a controversial discussion topic: I genuinely don't think there's anything wrong with leaving a partner when they get sick. If a relationship isn't serving you any more, then leaving it is completely justified. You only get a limited time on Earth, so it's understandable not to want to spend it as a carer. Also, I don't believe that anyone should be held hostage in a relationship due to obligation or guilt. Who agrees and who disagrees? Why an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:59 AM
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Well, imo big gestures aren't appropriate for a first date. Looks don't come in to it, really. Bar is pretty standard for a first meeting - a lot of people don't want a sit down meal with someone they don't know yet. Don't see anything wrong there. Problem here is that she ran in to a rude person. I had a couple of similar experiences when I used OLD: women complaining about my looks when I arrived to meet them. Some people are just weird and rude. It happens. You just have to shrug and move on …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:27 AM
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Man I think I saw that kid you were looking f- ...HEY!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:52 PM
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I was a very badly behaved child, so spent a lot of time enduring one punishment or another. Most of the time they'd just beat seven shades of shite out of me or whip me with a belt, but grounding came along with that as well. However, much the same as you this wasn't a problem for me. I loved reading and entertaining myself, which I could always do. But once they figured out that I didn't mind being grounded so much they changed it to locking me in the small cupboard below the stairs for hours …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:26 PM
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Man, don't even get me started. I'd be here all day. My parents are exactly the same. Both left school in their early teens and neither have ever had a job, yet believe they are the pinnacle of human intelligence. Dealing with them exhausts me. I learned long ago to just leave them to their own devices, because telling them otherwise is like screaming in to the void.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:07 PM
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Egg boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:34 PM
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Yeah Angmar is right, we're talking more about venting here than chatchatting. 60ish minutes of monologuing where all you can really say in response is "yeah?", "that sucks, you did well to get through that", "that's great well done", "i am proud of you", "it will work out" or similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:34 PM
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Phone down, TV on something relaxing. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:04 PM
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100% nail on head. A lot of it is spiralling about the same thing again and again, just from slightly different perspectives. I think it's quite rare to realise that indulging spiralling thoughts is not productive. I guess when you're in that frame of mind - especially if you're someone with ADHD or anxiety - it's difficult to see the forest for the trees. Many would say that tough love exposure therapy style refusal to talk beyond two repetitions would be the best method for dealing with this. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:02 PM
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I tend to agree. I've always taken on the brunt of the emotional labour in my relationships, whilst being very emotionally taciturn myself. For instance, I have always chosen women who like to talk me through their work day for an hour or so when they arrive home. Whereas when I get home, I just want to forget about work and not talk about it at all. Means I am taking on the role of active listener much more often than they are. Which is fine, but I resent people implying that men don't know how…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:51 AM
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Agree. Very cheap work. Should not look so faded at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:26 AM
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I suspect this is a fake story written by a woman. That's not the methods by which men peer pressure one another. A sit-down intervention in a brewery lol. 100% women writing men material. A) Group breakups are more of a womens' thing. B) If the two friends did really desire this, the way a man would do it would be to lead by example and then provide an opportunity for OP to stray from his marriage. For example: fully embrace the single party life to make OP jealous, then book a lads' trip to Am…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:22 AM
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Yup. It's just so frustrating to watch someone resort to shrieking and childish insults over the slightest inconvenience. Like how did they navigate through life when they're like this all the time. Mine are still at it. I provide for them now, and we were over there the other day bringing them shopping. My wife got annoyed with how much my mother was complaining about what I bought, so said "you know you are very lucky to have a son who will do this. Many would put you in an elder care home." M…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:15 AM
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Although I think my wife would be okay with it if that's what I wanted. They're just clones, after all. She can brutally murder them afterwards with no moral or legal repercussions if she does end up feeling jealous, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:49 AM
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Nah, just wouldn't interest me. Group sex is something I kinda find disgusting (caveat for the clone situation, as they don't really count). At the very least, I've never felt like I needed the extra stimulation during sex. One partner is enough for me. The clones can go for the shopping and do house tasks instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:45 AM
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Overrated when positioned as the most important quality, but it's still high on the list of importance imo. I've been with sourpusses who can't have a laugh before. It's like putting a monochrome filter over the day's events. It's linked with intelligence too. Smarter people tend to have quicker wits. And no one wants to be with a dullard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:41 AM
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If by temporarily cloned you mean the duplicates have a short lifespan (a few hours or a day) then yes, definitely. If the clones are permanent then no. Because even though they start as a copy of my personality to begin with, even minor different experiences will eventually butterfly effect them in to a completely different person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:27 AM
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My parents were very similar. Considering their worst fear is public embarrassment, in retrospect I really should have reported their antics to the authorities when I was a child. Or at least spoke openly about them. There would have been little repercussions, but holding their fears over their heads would have given me more agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:23 AM
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He loses all credibility by ranking eye contact above body lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:14 AM
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With a camera too 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:22 PM
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I really enjoyed It's What's Inside. Newish horror about body-switching.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:20 PM
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Haha, I suspected you'd get it! Also Amy Winehouse before she became really unwell with addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:13 PM
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Short, pale, red or black hair, angular features (Slavic features if we're being Josef Mengele about it). Lindsay Lohan but with a ton of tattoos would be more my thing, for reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:59 PM
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Yeah, tbh that's fair. Good points and well made.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:53 PM
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PPD Daily is fucking banging with the cooking posts recently. I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:51 PM
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Do you not think the whole thing has roots in social pressure? What I mean is the notion that women have to be small and dainty is so endemic that they seek out the tallest partners in order to experience the extreme giant man/tiny princess type dimorphism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:11 PM
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Hmmm. With pasta? Some linguine, parsley, olive oil, pine nuts. Maybe even put an egg through it and make a seafoody carbonara? Or like a cajun rice dish. Gumbo style, but less soupy. Dirty rice, paprika etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:06 PM
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Risotto?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:53 PM
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I personally can't see it. But she's pretty much the opposite of my type. I'm sure someone else will say easy 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:36 PM
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I personally can't see it. But she's pretty much the opposite of my type. I'm sure someone else will say easy 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:36 PM
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I think you're on to something with that link between ND women and not caring as much about height. Less adherence to social norms, less social pressure felt by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:19 PM
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It's a good oil. Omega 3 and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:47 PM
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When the revolution starts, they'll be beheading us olive oil users first, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:44 PM
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Went to the shop for olive oil and the one thing I forgot: olive oil. Back I go. What oil do you all cook with?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:42 PM
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I'm fully vasectomied up, so I don't really have sympathy. That's what you signed up for. I'm sure they're a pain sometimes, but it's not a disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:19 PM
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In Barcelona they will hold the door while they pickpocket you with the other hand, don't worry 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:17 PM
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Yes, obviously. No point in parking in them if there are free spaces. But I don't think making an able-bodied child walk 10 more feet in to a supermarket is the same as forcing a person in a wheelchair to squeeze through lines of parked cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:11 PM
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There's a lot to be said for Eastern/Central European chivalry. My wife is Polish-born, and when we visit her extended family if I leave her unattended for a second there are guys opening doors for her, letting her skip queues, offering to pay for shit for her. Whereas here en Ecosse men will shoulderbarge a woman out of the way to get the last loaf of bread in the supermarket 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:09 PM
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Nah this looks pro. Anyone criticising is just nitpicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:05 PM
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I genuinely don't care. If the car park is full, I will park in the parent and child spaces. Nothing will stop that. Your kids are not my concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:04 PM
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If your kids are that feeble, it should be easy to get a blue badge to use in the disabled space.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:59 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/jsp43z463boe1.jpeg?width=677&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=efd6611c30768517413095e1cba11d8287e3f952 Me:
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:58 PM
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Someone's been upping their presentation skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:53 PM
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Fuck those kids. They can use the exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:50 PM
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Haha, well I come from a long line of people who were lifelong unemployed, so my parents' track record leans heavily left, since their interests lie with maximising their state benefits. I'm the first right-ish winger in my family, although many have followed suit in recent years. But I do know what you mean - and you're probably correct. I really have no idea what the voting intention of Gen Z is like. They're likely much more left-leaning than my social circle these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:36 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/51nrz12imaoe1.jpeg?width=974&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2be89b26c1a396c6b8f81d06ce435009d82d405d Very low on honesty-humility, very low on agreeableness. Moderate in emotionality and extraversion. High in conscientiousness and openness. Almost zero altruism, jaysus.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:24 PM
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Yeah that's not cricket, Lily. If you don't see anything wrong with it morally, at least imagine the repercussions for your academic career if someone decided to video you and it went viral.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:45 PM
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Not here, they won't. They get their houses torched round where I live. But whatever makes you feel like the main character is fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:41 PM
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I'd be more worried about the moral implications of doing that than the practical ramifications, if I were you. It's not nice. If you have parent and toddler spaces, just park in them instead. They have no legal status, at least where I live. So you can tell anyone who challenges you to fuck off with no legal repercussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:40 PM
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While agree that the political spectrum is always shifting, I do think there are comparatively more right wing and centrist parties in power at the current moment than there were say, 10 years ago. Happy to be proven wrong if the stats say otherwise, but also don't care enough to look them up myself. What I do know is that I voted centre-left from 2003-2014ish, and since 2014 I've been going progressively further right as a direct reaction to what I see around me in everyday life. Many of my fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:35 PM
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Yeah you're right lad. Rumbled. All of this is about the US. Can't believe you've figured it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:31 PM
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Not sure where you are mate, but where I live we definitely have been going further right for a long time. Might not be the same in every country, but we do have right wing governments in a few major European countries right now. Check the government policies of Italy, Slovakia, Croatia, and Czechia for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:20 PM
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My opinion has been the same for a decade at least; immigrants out, increase military spending; actively oppose Russia. Every single person I know in real life has similar views. But nah you're right. Never left your hometown, but have your finger on the pulse of the working class 3000 miles away 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:08 PM
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The people of many European countries have been shifting further and further right for the past 10 years. Right wing populism is booming, and has been for a while. The changes you're seeing are the governments following the desires of the people, not the other way around. Albeit years too late. And they're only doing it because resting on their laurels and funding big business has got to a point of pissing too many people off, and has become untenable. If you're from the US, chances you've never…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:52 PM
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Poke bowl yes? Both look excellent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 02:59 PM
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Likely be scheduling. She'll have got an opportunity to do a big movie and they'll have just moved it to accommodate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:01 PM
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I'm an A, but I try to get them all washed while I'm cooking so it feels like there's hardly any to do afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:50 AM
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Morning Cow. Will you be progressing your collection beyond #50 or is she the capstone?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:34 AM
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Rosey were you dropped on your head as a child at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:30 AM
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I'm trying my best to do so. It's either cuckoldry or he doesn't exist are my two leading theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:27 AM
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Right okay, but the thought of their missus being with another man (never mind 24/7 lusting for others) makes most dudes feel kinda stabby. What's up here? How come he doesn't feel that way? Gotta be an element of masochistic self-humiliation involved on his part, surely?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:22 AM
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Listen, I'm sorry for being nosy but what the fuck. How does your boyfriend allow this? Is he a cuckold?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:15 AM
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Yeah man, discovered that long ago. Most of my "mates" only liked me when I'm drunk and acting mental. Taught myself to prefer a quiet life, and to revel in my own company.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:44 PM
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I can tell you as a man approaching 40 that Keri Russell (on the left) absolutely stunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:32 PM
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I'd do it in olive oil with rock salt, a bit of basil, some chili, and a good bit of lemon juice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:23 PM
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Fuck no - Scotland.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:35 PM
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Oh, I know tons. Might be a cultural thing though. Extreme delayed adolescence is a big thing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:25 PM
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Would watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:17 PM
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Yep, I voted for independence in 2014. Been a strong supporter of the movement ever since I was a kid. I have nothing against England - they are our neighbours and brothers. But the Westminster government is not fit for purpose any more. Hasn't been so for a very long time. Especially with recent events in Europe, I think Scotland's best course of action is to rejoin the EU as an independent nation. It'll be another 20-30 years before we're allowed a vote again, but I hope the next one will refl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:57 PM
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In social values and education - yes. Very left-leaning and high levels of tertiary education. But in health and crime rates - no. Still very unhealthy and fairly violent, compared to (most of) England. We've improved massively in the last 20 years, but still have a long way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:46 PM
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That's great! I wish you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:35 PM
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Yes, but that's also Scotland encapsulated in a sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:34 PM
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Lived with their parents until their late 20s then relied upon Uber Eats and Just Eat. I find it fucked, but it's the norm here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:30 PM
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Nothing wrong with it. Wife used her familial advantages to create a business that now has 3 locations. Works harder than anyone I've ever known. If you have advantages then use them. I certainly would. Lots of great actors and directors are nepo babies, and their art is of excellent quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:29 PM
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Difficult to answer. I'm from a very low socioeconomic background (born in a tower block in a scheme to unemployed parents, carried a knife as a teenager and landed myself in jail for a while), but (thx New Labour 😘) managed to get a degree, postgraduate degree, and have become a relatively high earner in middle age. My relationship experiences with working class women have been unanimously poor. My relationship experiences with middle/upper-middle class women have been unanimously positive. My …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:23 PM
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Majority of women I've been involved with either were not able to or refused to cook. So yes, it's semi-rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:13 PM
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I actually do like hazelnut milk! But it's very sweet, and I try to keep my sugar intake as low as possible. That's my problem with oat as well; it's nice and frothy, but too sugary. And the unsweetened version is just toilet water.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:45 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/3c228wq6a3oe1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b4cca47e2fc7b335460f477834b9defd70d3cbb7 Yes Chad highest by far, with second highest being Psycho. Dunno what to think about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:43 PM
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Black like my heart for both. Don't drink cow milk and don't really like substitutes. Also I like very bitter flavours generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:38 PM
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For real. They are all extremely vicious to one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:29 PM
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There really are a lot of femcels in the main sub. More common to see on here than incels, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:13 PM
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Exactly. I'm not obtuse; I know that my concerns are over 1 in a million scenarios. Risk-taking is not going to "prove" anything to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:52 PM
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You hit the nail on the head with that description. It's like they're reading from a script. Get more understanding from Amazon customer service.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:33 PM
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A lot of them are clueless. I have OCD, mainly around home security. Sought out CBT for it. I get why exposure therapy can work, but it has to be applied intelligently. The approach of the therapist I had was to say "well would that be the end of the world?" to everything, which is unhelpful. When she asked me why I wouldn't leave my front door unlocked overnight, I told her that it's because I don't want my wife to get raped and my pets to be murdered. Her response was legitimately "yes but wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:28 PM
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I live near two very touristy cities, and although tourists can often be really obnoxious, they really don't deserve how badly they get ripped off by restaurants and pubs. It's the soft drinks that always fuck them. We don't do free refills here, so you're paying full price each time. Tourists who come from countries that do refill your glass for free don't know this, and end up being presented with a bill that includes £40-50 worth of Coca Cola. Price of an extra meal and a half on soft drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:05 PM
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If they have food banks where you live, then don't be embarrassed to go to one. This is exactly what they're there for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:18 AM
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Understood. Very wise. Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:06 AM
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Why no long term any more? Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:55 AM
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I also couldn't handle having Karlach being angry at me. Minthara has some of the funniest voice lines, but that's the only real draw of Durge for me. You should save Barcus btw. It opens up a massive and really rewarding plotline.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:45 PM
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I couldn't do it. Barcus Wroot has to die if you're taking the evil path. That is unacceptable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:40 PM
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£7 on eBay. Yeah, I think I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:31 PM
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Ok that's fair. I do have age goggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:22 PM
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She's 6/10 and he's 5/10. People rank her higher because of the blonde halo, but she's really pre-pubescent looking. I feel nauseated rating a dead girl, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:16 PM
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Coronary heart disease. It's the reason few of us reach 60 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:00 PM
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Yeah there's a cutoff! It's similar to mates with kids - can't call them after 9pm at night. Opposite gender friend cutoff is usually 11pm, but after a few years you can work you way up to a midnight cutoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:57 PM
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Ya both tofu and tempeh are made from soybeans, so I guess they're kinda cousins.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:53 PM
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Hahaha I got one when I was a student for a joke. Honestly... no bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:51 PM
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It's also called tempeh! Edamame beans that have been fermented. Gives them an umami taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:50 PM
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<image> Beancurd, borlotti beans, okra, broccoli, tomatoes, garlic, basil, tagliatelle. A succulent Italian meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:45 PM
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Yeah, I'd allow it. If the kids have no idea, obviously the parents keep that part of their life well hidden. As it should be. No worries about their influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:43 PM
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Yup, I agree. One of my good friends is a woman, and we both maintain an unspoken distance. We became pals through a niche hobby, and are both happily married. So we do our hobby together and hangout, text etc. But we would never get drunk together, or hang out alone at either of our houses, or do midnight texts. Nothing would happen if we did. It's just how it would look to others. Not appropriate. I'm sure everyone knows the diff between "pal who happens to female" and "girl bestie". One's fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:37 PM
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Your rice was fine! It's nice to fancy it up sometimes, but plain white rice with some salt is a standard base for lots of Asian dishes. People on here don't appreciate simple food. Said it before, I will say it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:51 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=upRy3RZ3e5I
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:07 PM
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Tried to make one. It makes things worse. Too many coloured lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:03 PM
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Me reading this post back to myself:
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:59 PM
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I'm watching a horror movie where a guy has invented a device which lets people switch consciousnesses. He's brought it to a house party with his friends, and he's using it to psychologically fuck with them. Stoke jealousy, insecurity etc. Inspired by that, Q4A: You are at that party with your partner (hypothetical partner for the single Pringles). Everyone has switched bodies, and now you're all playing truth or dare. Which scenario would make you feel more uncomfortable: A) Watching your partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:57 PM
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Solid look. Should clean up at any rock/metal pubs or clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:39 PM
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No idea, but he looks like he'd be the drummer in a metal band, which is the look a lot of people I know like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:32 PM
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Women on here will say no, but this is the type of guy most of the women I know go absolutely tits for. Just a question of demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:30 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/gq8a7tpt3wne1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e42bc8d333fe43608dd47573fba585ee9922090d Tattoo artist I know posted this earlier today. Thought you'd get a kick out of it, considering your username.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 04:35 PM
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It's not bad at all. It's just Victorian child suffering from polio handwriting. "Mummy dearest, it is getting dark. Pass the smelling salts ere I perish" vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:08 PM
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It's a euphemism for all the -ists and -phobias.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:54 PM
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Last person who tried to say hello to Björk: https://youtu.be/56iSUBe700A?si=759mP1cZvV5p18cc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:17 PM
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Mustache art hoe category probably fits best, but with a side of Tinder slut himbo and a small garnish of red flag "history buff".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:09 PM
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That's difficult (fighting the urge to say "that's rough" - sorry). Of course, this isn't true. But me saying that likely won't make a difference. There are sex therapists around, and they will deal with this sort of stuff all the time. At the end of the day, it's a cognitive distortion same as any other. Your brain can defeat it, if you get the right tools. Don't be embarrassed to bring it up to them. I guarantee they have heard weirder.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:56 PM
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Here in Scotland it's the trades that are booming. Easy to become very rich being a plumber, electrician, roofer, joiner etc. While white collar pay has been increasingly stagnating and even dipping. The saying here is that offices are the new mines, and you'd get rich quicker by working in an actual mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:53 PM
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I think so too! It's like how the Mediterraneans always have wine with dinner every night, right? I'm not getting buzzed; I'm being cultured and continental 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:41 PM
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Hahahah no! Shaking and sweating are symptoms of alcohol withdrawal, and I'm just making a joke portraying myself to be so oblivious that I can't differentiate that from normal feelings of looking forward to the weekend. But y'know what it's like being sarcastic on Reddit. My beer consumption is in line with European maximum weekly unit guidelines - don't worry I do not have the DTs! My willpower is iron, and I could not allow myself to let it slip.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:33 PM
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Same with me. Haven't had a beer since Friday. Am I looking forward to my next beer? Hell yes; in fact I am shaking and sweating with anticipation. No withdrawal symptoms here either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:25 PM
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Aw, that's quite sad. Sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:17 PM
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All sexual acts are intimate. You're engaging with someone via body parts that aren't on display to just anyone. And you're performing acts that you presumably wouldn't perform with just anyone. That's a deep form of connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:13 PM
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Dude who keeps making new accounts to say out of pocket shit to people on the daily chat. He really hates women, Europeans, and blacks. His posts will include a mixture of calling women cum guzzlers, telling people not from the USA that they live in a third world country, and saying ook ook ook. Although to be fair, every now and then he comes out with something that makes me piss myself with laughter. Can't deny that he does have some wit underneath the nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:36 AM
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Nothing wrong with meeting someone at a club. You can definitely have a good and healthy relationship start that way. Ex I was with for 9 years was someone I met while I worked in a club. She was a nice person and our relationship was pretty good (although I am not "high value" like future King Baldy).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:58 AM
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Suspiria! Fuck yes, what a film.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:34 AM
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Man is a seriously good actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:23 AM
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The femcel list combined with the incel list is basically a rundown of my top 50 movies tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:15 AM
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<image> Although I have previously been told that my biggest movie red flag is Death Wish (1974).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:11 AM
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Oh yeah, jalepeños, peppers, onion. The spicier it is, the more comfort it provides.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:59 AM
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The simple pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:57 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:54 AM
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I have so many core memories that are linked to beer it is unreal. The refreshment it provides when you've been working hard all day is unparalleled. Especially when you've not drank in a long while.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:52 AM
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Beer. I really love the taste of beer. But I keep it on a tight leash as I don't want to become an alcoholic or get an unhealthy BMI. If it had 0 calories I'd drink it all day long.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:44 AM
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Nope. All the ones I've met match the stereotype precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:45 PM
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Couldn't do it. I'd be too paranoid that they would miss the lifestyle and want to open it up again. Plus also, people who have open relationships tend to look... ehhh... well, you know. So it's a no all round.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:34 PM
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VERY NICE.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:26 PM
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That's a long way away. Your mind and perceptions will likely change by then. Also your dick will probably only be getting hard once every two weeks anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:12 PM
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You've been letting the PPD Daily foodposter side down recently by not posting what you've been making.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:54 PM
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Literally all of my mates' houses look like this. It's not to my taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:27 PM
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Nothing to change. You're right. Partially, at least. Other problem is people who treat second, third, fifth, sixth hand anecdotes from dubious sources as hard evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:57 PM
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So I assume he's not blind either then?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:37 PM
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Oh shit, maybe it is. I thought it was two (single) women trying to flirt with the guy, and kinda competing with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:30 PM
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I dunno, maybe I'm just not from a very touchy feely culture, but full palm on the bicep is quite intimate to me. That's either flirting or your gran about to stuff some money in your pocket that you're not to tell your mother about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:03 PM
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Unless the guy in glasses is blind and she's helping him navigate, we're having words.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:59 PM
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Vegan-ish. I'll eat meat a few times a year, usually when abroad. Which upsets actual vegans, but no point going to Italy or somewhere on holiday and starving myself when I'm there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:54 PM
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We only have animals when we're eating out somewhere tbh, and even then quite sparingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:51 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/80j6jqvslpne1.png?width=1080&format=png&auto=webp&s=10d68b2f4d433f8fa85db8c44c0fbb47b2e52d7f Made a paella of my own to prove to myself I could do it better than last night's EZ bag version. I used fermented bean curd in mine. And made it spicy, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:43 PM
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Me with beer. That first pint after being away from it for a while is the reason I will never be an alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:50 PM
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Fewer and further between than the type you've described here, and likely won't be anywhere near as sexy. But if you can get a date with this woman, you can get a date with a unicorn nice girl too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:47 PM
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Don't bother. Juice isn't worth the squeeze. Just find an introverted high functioning autistic nice girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:13 PM
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Excellent. We just added a new Jellycat cockerel to the collection yesterday, and he likely needs a friend to ease him in to life here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:05 PM
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Not for sale in UK yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:53 PM
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At last another honest person. Everyone acts like they buy an expensive box of Kleenex when they are ill, and then daintily disposes of each and every tissue as soon as it is used. None of that presence here. I represent the bogroll proletariat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:48 PM
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You can ewww me when you're finished digging those potatoes out from your ears, Lily!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:36 PM
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I don't reuse the tissues themselves. But the toilet roll remains on my person during the entirety of the illness. It becomes my personal sneezing roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:36 PM
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Same. I will start again when it is socially acceptable for me to move to cigars and pipes. A young man just looks like a dick when he smokes those.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:33 PM
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When I have a cold or flu and I'm sneezing and snuffling, I keep a toilet roll beside my bed. After I blow my nose, I put the used tissue inside the toilet roll tube and empty it out in the morning/the next time I am up. People find this absolutely repulsive. But I don't think it's too bad. I'm not getting up to bin a tissue every time I sneeze when I am ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:32 PM
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You'll be fine as long as you stop when you're older and don't smoke too many a day. I quit at 30 because I read a study saying that your lungs will fully repair themselves as if you never smoked, provided you quit before early 30s. You have 10 years of smoking before you need to worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:25 PM
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PPD is so anti-smoking it's like a public information advert in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:19 PM
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I'm going with B. I'm an introvert so I couldn't handle the busybodies and kids running around. I'd lose my mind. Rather be with the weirdo robot loner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:06 PM
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He shat out of fighting Mark Zuckerberg when it looked like Zuck would pound his face into the book. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:46 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/o1tpr1refone1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6c55748d731b3d4263e89d9c14848ab4e35618a2 How the fuck does a fat nerd think he can take an ex-KGB assassin. Strong "I studied the blade" vibes here, Elon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:45 PM
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You think so? Unless I'm vastly mistaken in what activities actually constitute femdom, I'd say that most women I've known IRL were more interested in taking a role as an active participant in sex than ever before. I could be totally misunderstanding, or I could be self-selecting for an extremely niche subset of women in my own life, or it could just be a PPD woman thing. Either way, it's interesting to me. Maybe you're right. Male tastes do dictate market trends, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:30 PM
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Naw you might be right. I really have no idea at this point. Could be anyone, or even a non-regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:18 PM
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It's strange - I would have assumed with gothy fetish stuff being kinda mainstream nowadays that there'd be an equal split of women who are/are not in to that. Guess I was wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:13 PM
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I snooped back to see what you were talking about. Really? I'm surprised. Wouldn't have been my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:27 AM
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Yes, I can read. I just wondered whether the two terms were synonymous or if there was a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:23 AM
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So is it just another word for BDSM dominatrix stuff where the woman is in charge?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:17 AM
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What is femdom and why are so many women here against it/turned off by it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:14 AM
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Mainly aromatic bases in huge quantities to freeze - a soffrito, a chili base, and a Thai red curry base if I have time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:00 AM
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I have a theory that the step-incest porn is meant to appeal to younger teenage boys. They're the ones who conceivably have fathers with attractive 30ish year old girlfriends, and new 18ish year old step-siblings. So they are the ones for whom it holds the most appeal. I think it's a marketing tactic to get very young teens addicted to porn as soon as their sexualities develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:57 AM
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I'm just doing boring house tasks all day. Hoovering, laundry, then batch cooking. We have daylight savings but it's not until fucken 30 March or something. Can't come quick enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:53 AM
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I'm finishing up a film right now, and when it ends I'm going to start watching this Robin Williams one. Your anti-recommendation caught my interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:41 AM
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Protagonist is an oil prospector, yeah. But the film is really just a character study of a succesful sociopath facing off in an ego contest with a religious hypocrite. It's the ultimate flawed character movie imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:27 AM
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Take it you like There Will Be Blood then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:21 AM
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Tbf Otzi the Iceman's last meal was pancakes, if I recall correctly. That's not bad for a neolithic motherfucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:35 PM
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I know, right. I think that was the allure for me when I bought it. Every time I'm in one of those fancy schmancy health food stores I impulse buy all the weird mixes. Then keep them in the cupboard for 3 years until I panic and use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:33 PM
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Hahahahah yes true but he's an east coaster. All about the Hibs and Hearts!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:31 PM
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Nah they cook it then dehydrate it. Camping meals and instant rice for backpacking is often done this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:27 PM
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Nah, I ask it to tell me things that have been happening in local football so I have stuff to chat with my father in law about. It's fine. We're working smart, not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:23 PM
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Rice, peppers, courgette, mushrooms, nora peppers, garlic and saffron. Although it was only the dried rice that scared me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:19 PM
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Too late Sea sorry, it's already boiling. Our lives are quite literally in your hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:57 PM
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That's 2/2 yeses for the rice. I feel confident enough to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:49 PM
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I think the same. I decant normal rice in to jars, and I've defo had stuff in them for longer than their best before. I'm doing it!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:48 PM
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Dried/dehydrated paella mix with best before date of Dec 2024. Yes or no? Not worried about the peppers, spices, and dried veggies but am I asking for a Gene Hackman situation with this rice?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:43 PM
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Very nice. What's that top left? Butternut squash?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:27 PM
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Ahhhh, that's a shame. Did you make it out last night, at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:41 PM
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Hell yes. I like old man pubs, myself. You are never beating the 40 year old in a 20 year old's body accusations with opinions like that though, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:41 PM
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Aw naw Sea, men can't go themselves either. Granted, they don't get harassed. But I worked as barstaff in clubs all throughout my student years and young solo men were always either turned away at the door or watched like a hawk by staff and security alike. Only weirdos and wrong'uns did it. No pubs or bars you could go to? Student union perhaps? Much more acceptable, safer and friendlier for a solo drinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:27 PM
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Dumbarton mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:24 PM
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I've never had one tbh, but I think ripping them off is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:24 PM
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<image> PPD women: slick or ick?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:18 PM
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Try the r4r sub. Women message first on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:30 PM
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Nah man I can't hold it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:32 PM
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If it's not bait then it's just another example of the ignorant attitudes that people (especially women) who look younger than their age have to deal with. Which is worse than bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:32 PM
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Struggling to not reply to it. I have big opinions on the subject, but committed to the PPD detox.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:00 PM
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Stylewise it's trad English best bitters. Timothy Taylor Boltmaker, Black Sheep Best, London Pride, St. Peter's Organic Best are among my faves of the style. Basically, brew it with Fuggles, East Kent Goldings, Challenger, or Bramling Cross hops. Maris Otter malt with a little crystal malt. I am guaranteed to like it. Same question to you, as I know you are also a beer guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:00 PM
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I think it's mainly women who say that. And I think the women who say stuff like that are projecting out their own trauma in an effort to seek reassurance. Insecure woman says: "men can't love average/ugly women!!!!!" Man is triggered and responds "yes we can here's X Y Z examples." Insecure woman feels temporarily reassured. It's the same psychology as the guys who say "women can't love guys with small dicks, mine is 9 inches and women say I have a micropenis." They're looking for responses say…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:30 PM
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For me, my ire is entirely governed by impact and outcome. Intent has very little meaning to me. My perspective on an unfortunate situation like those described is almost entirely formed by how it affects me. This is likely because I'm naturally quite an unempathetic person. That colours my perceptions and biases me toward favouring the subjective impact rather than the objective situation. Obviously, the drunk driver and abusive cheat are objectively worse. But for me - who favours the subjecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:26 PM
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Yeah man, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:08 PM
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Niiice. I like this question. Personally, I think it's optional. It all depends on how one reaches acceptance. There are those who must be completely at peace with something before they can begin overcoming their trauma. This is probably the mainstream stance, since there's so many rehabilitative programs that push it. AA, for instance, puts the focus on giving and earning forgiveness prior to recovery. However, we're not all like that. I don't think it's possible for everyone to be forgiving. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:42 AM
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Sophia Loren is my all-time favourite. I watched her big movies in chronological order a few years ago and was amazed to see how she grew as an actress. Went from classic sexpot, to "wow she's actually really funny", to gut-wrenching dramatic skills that earned her an Oscar. She's great. Also just watched The Long Good Friday the other week and have to give props to Helen Mirren.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:26 AM
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I need a Reddit break because I'm wasting time reading posts here when I am in the office and should be working. Send me off on my social media holiday in style, pls. AMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:18 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/yn2xv1hdd5ne1.jpeg?width=550&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d232ef736dd6175af5b237264554a1c3ccc40c20 Best picture I can find of it on short notice. 18 carat sapphire surrounded by diamonds. Gold band. It's vintage from the late 1800s. "Pried from the corpse of a dead Victorian woman", as I usually say. I had to travel quite far to pick it up, so lied and said I had a weekend business trip. That's her wedding band below it, which I got at the same time. Simple gold tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:40 PM
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Not me, man! https://youtu.be/ws0dZEcbBWs?si=MJ_tVliXBW7OR--_
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:40 PM
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Naw man, this has caused a legit problem here. 12ish years ago in Scotland, a rich student girl killed an old woman whole drunk driving. She got jailed for it, and unfortunately killed herself because she couldn't handle life inside. Very sad, but it caused lots of feminist groups to petition the government to abolish womens' prisons. The government has largely conceded; there are only 42 female prisoners in Scotland now. The logic is sound at first glance - women tend not to commit as severe cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:13 PM
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Someone else do an AMA. I am nosy and enjoy learning you peoples' lore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:55 PM
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Sex isn't really the important part here, imo. I'm more referring to tolerance levels with regards to making allowances for the needs, mannerisms and habits of a close romantic partner, especially when said habits are annoying/unpleasant. Just speaking from experience, those things were quite tough to learn. Took me a couple of relationships to get it right. When you're close with someone, inhibitions fade away. That's good and bad. Good because it fosters the right environment for deep emotiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:48 PM
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Okay, two questions for you. One serious, one silly. Serious one first. Re: your inexperience with relationships, virginity etc. Do you fear that when you do get in to a relationship, you won't have the tools necessary to make you a good partner? You're a smart woman; you don't need me to point out the difference between theoretics and practice. If this is something you worry about - what do you intend to do to combat it? If not - why not? Silly one(s) now. What's your drink of choice? How much …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:27 PM
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Finch? Mine is decked out in full wizard gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:22 PM
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Man, I look like an escaped mental patient. Every single woman I've ever been with in my entire life has been much more attractive than me. If you can get with someone better looking than you, you take that opportunity and don't question it. Imo, people who say otherwise are the pontifex maximus of cope. Cope John Paul II.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:23 PM
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I wanted to be an archaeologist. My bachelors is in archaeology. Unfortunately the pay is dismal. I retrained and got a masters relevant to the industry in which I now work. These days, I don't think there's a profession I'd rather have. Not due to enjoyment, just due to complacency. My ultimate preferred job is house husband/hermit/beer drinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:17 PM
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Hopefully it won't go as far as small claims court, but if that's what needs done then we're willing to go the distance. Right now, we've just decided to play rent chicken with them. We're not paying, and we'll see how long it takes for them to get desperate and unblock us. Funny thing - I looked for their head office. No address on the website (of course), but even when I looked them up using the government agency Companies House, their address was a PO box. They've really taken their avoidance…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:50 PM
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I'd rather look like Tom Selleck. But when I was younger, I'd probably have said the other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:30 PM
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Child of God by Cormac McCarthy, about 3 weeks ago. First Cormac McCarthy I've read, and really enjoyed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:20 PM
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What a beautiful cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:10 PM
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Fuzzy feeling, less cognisant of your actions, hazy perception of the world. I don't really get DRUNK drunk any more, but the level of inebriation I most enjoy puts me in the state where I am conscious of doing unhinged things, but not present enough to stop myself from doing them until it's too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:09 PM
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Yup, made sure to get a copy of everything when we signed. At the time, they were really reticent to provide any hard copies, and only did so because we pushed hard for them and they just wanted everything sorted in time for Xmas. In retrospect, now I see why they were so hesitant to be forthcoming. Planning for their own future incompetence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:00 PM
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Good advice. This is basically exactly what we're in the process of doing today. I'm also heading there when I finish work to see if I can talk to any of the other leaseholders. There's no way they haven't noticed these issues, or had similar ones themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:51 PM
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I really cannot stand it when companies are conflict-avoidant. Wife opened up a new location in a local business space just after New Year, but there are problems. She's got two rooms, and the electricity supply to one of them is faulty. Also, the communal toilets are hardly ever cleaned. She's been on the phone to them each working day since early Jan, and gets told the same thing every day "Oh my god we're so sorry we'll send someone out to fix that tomorrow." Tomorrow comes, no one arrives, r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:22 PM
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People on here have strange views on casual sex. Like it's something inflicted upon someone who is deficient in one area or another, as opposed to something people just mutually engage in without much thought. So yes, they're trolling in a sense. But I'd describe it more as just being the victims of their own cognitive distortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:11 AM
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I'd like to think that I'm worthy of a Josef Fritzl basement style situation. Aiming high. I would really, really miss my life for the first 5 years or so, but if they gave me a TV and kept me supplied with nice beer, I fear that I'd soon adapt and become a model captive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:52 AM
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With police, if there's some distance then it could be okay. Like if it's an ex from years ago, or two relationships ago. I'd still be wary, but it's doable. Cop as previous or recent ex though? Hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:27 AM
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Police can easily ruin your life if they take the hump over something. And I've had legal troubles before, so it'd be twice as easy for one to do that to me. And squaddies - at least the ones where I live - are unanimously psychos. I'm too old to fight some mentalist over a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:19 AM
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No fucking way, man. Not a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:13 AM
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Religious people seem to manage it. Monks, nuns, priests (insert diddler joke here) etc. But regular people? I doubt it. It would take a very stoic individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:22 PM
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Billie Piper.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:07 PM
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Walked out the barber after saying "give me the St. Francis of Assisi cut" and now he's straight up blathering away to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:45 PM
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Tried it. He just told me that I could pull Anya Taylor-Joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:43 PM
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Hahahaha WHAT! ChatGPT can tell you what your league is now?! That is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:38 PM
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<image> Prepping. Dough for pizza. Cajun chips.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:53 PM
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I know, it's frustrating. It's a self-preservation thing, I think. Can't get hurt if you're never officially together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:30 PM
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Definitions vary. For me, it was: "Seeing someone" = no committment, so you can sleep with whoever else you want. I think that's what people call FWB. Or similar enough. "With someone" = committed relationship, no sleeping with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:19 PM
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Same. Best days of your life my arse. It was dogshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:12 PM
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I have a fine selection of bedroom chairs for sale, if you're interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:10 PM
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Hot dogs with green spots lol 🥲 We had the cup noodles too - how could I forget about those ffs. Sounds very similar to what we had over here. I know what you mean about everything looking soggy. I used to say that the burgers looked as if they had been boiled. Not just the meat patty; whole thing looked like it had been dipped and flash boiled, then left to cool/congeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:59 PM
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That sounds similar to how it is in Scottish schools these days. And that's the way it should be, imo. The area I grew up in was notorious for its residents having an average life expectancy lower than most third world countries at the time. Early-mid 50s I believe. The root cause of these health problems start with childhood consumption habits. If a child is accustomed to drinking soft drinks for breakfast, for instance, they will likely continue that habit throughout their life. And banning ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:55 PM
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What did you guys get in the school cafeterias over there? Also same question to u/pentatonicartichoke . Love hearing about school dinners in different countries. Scotland during the 90s and early 2000s was terrible. So bad that Jamie Oliver did an infamous campaign to end poor quality food in schools, and a new government legislation was brought in which outlawed unhealthy food in cafeterias. It's stuck to this day, and childhood health is much better as a result. But he's still a widely hated …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:39 PM
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My opinion and experience is the same as yours. Social class plays a big part as well. I'm 39, and at this age it's jarring to see the disparity in looks between people with middle/upper middle class lifestyles and those from less priviliged socioeconomic situations. Not uncommon here to see a well-off 40 year old who looks 28, and a poor 28 year old who looks 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:21 PM
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Absolutely no reaction. Zero clue who either of these people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:35 PM
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"What an episode of Judge Judy that was!" "Who is Judge Judy." Can u do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:11 PM
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My wife does not watch any TV or movies. She can't even sit through a movie without getting bored. On the contrary, I'm a massive movie buff. Honestly, it's a point of connection that we are missing. I'd love to show her a movie that I enjoy and see her completely enraptured by it. But it's not on the cards. Never going to happen. Which is fine. If that's the worst concession I make then I'd say I'm doing pretty good. But can't lie: when I said "omg Gene Hackman died" and her response was "who i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:09 PM
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Unpopular opinion: doing something you enjoy and learning is worth more than shitting out kids. I'll probably delete this soon, as I have had one (1) beer and feeling particularly anti-natal, but not enough to want to argue with the person whom this will inevitably trigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:51 PM
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No music in the car is so legit though. Shut the fuck up I'm trying to operate a 2 ton vehicle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:09 PM
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Sugar dating sounds like the most straightforward option to achieve what you want, but somehow I don't think that's your thang.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:04 PM
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<image> And dessert. A big dirty porter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:00 PM
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Yes, it's excellent! Really unique flavour, works very well together. The mint adds a wee zap which is a nice contrast to the savoury.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:59 PM
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Ya I shat myself that it wouldn't cook evenly so diced the onions and "steak" too finely, which made it in to slurry. I'll know better for next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:54 PM
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Naw you're right I have no attention to detail. Second it's done I just slop it down on the plate. Fail at the last hurdle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:41 PM
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I'm mainly a "wing it" style cook, but as for guidelines: For the seitan: VWG, soy sauce, paprika, liquid smoke, vegan worcestershire sauce, garlic, granulated onion. Mixed and pressure cooked for 1 hour, then stuck in the fridge. If you eat meat I recommend just buying a steak and cutting it up instead. Pastry is similar to bread with flour and water, but add lots of butter or butter substitute. Or simply buy pre-rolled. Line tin with pastry, add onions, "steak"/steak, and gravy (who can be fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:33 PM
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Mozzarella, easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:20 PM
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<image> Dinnerposting. Seitan "steak", onion and gravy pie with broccoli sauteed in garlic and mint. 0/10 spice level no bumholes burnt today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:19 PM
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Air fryer. Need the crisp factor you only get from one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:03 PM
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That's a good point. Could very well be a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:39 PM
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There will be a few bots, scammers and time wasters I'm sure, but not 216 out of 217 of them. I've done Tinder, and the people to robot ratio is simply not that high. I checked out his comments. As suspected, guy's a prick. Take a look. Here's one of his finest: > It might be hard for you to understand but it's a super simple cause and effect. When one group of people is complete assholes to me, I don't like them. They are nothing but worthless shitbags. Fuck shits. Douche bag, ass hats, mother …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:34 PM
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I agree that the problem is him, but not the cause. He's getting matches and chats. Looks aren't what's stopping him. 719 matches in ~4 years. That's a match roughly every 2 days. The man is not struggling to attract women - he's struggling to not turn them off when he speaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:25 PM
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Look where the dropoff occurs. Chats to dates. Many of those can be explained by time wasters/perma penpals, but not for a chat to date result of less than 0.5%. That's the point of failure for him. He can get the matches, he just turns them off when he speaks. I'll wager he is on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:16 PM
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The other day one flipped her shit at me because I said strong physical attraction has likely been a factor in why my marriage is so happy. To this crackpot, that was impossible. There was no way I could be married, and even if I was then there's no way we could be happy. These things were inconceivable. The twisted bitterness is reaching levels of genuine insanity with some.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:51 AM
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About 15 messages back and forth over 24 hours before I suggested meeting up. She was attentive, engaged in the convo, quick to reply, and put in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:30 AM
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Nah I'm mainly just exaggerating. It's tingly spicy, nothing more. Although I have had spicy bum after a vindaloo before. But it was the kind of heat where I was sitting in the restaurant panting and sweating while eating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:02 PM
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Very nice! What's that on the bottom? Harissa paste?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:00 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/z9knp7ns9ime1.png?width=640&format=png&auto=webp&s=0e42eca2d45726e61e9793c7f96d113f3a935ed9 Real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:59 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/rtbwq9624ime1.jpeg?width=4080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a3f79900905648cb8f20bef6f0abd20e12a7ee06 Aubergine and parmegiano tortellini in a chilli pesto. Quick carb hit. Moderate bumhole burning intensity spice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:27 PM
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They're considered old-fashioned now and have mostly been replaced, but they still can be found at football grounds and really shitty pubs. Music festivals too. Places where there will be a lot of drunk people needing a piss quickly. They're disgusting. Defo getting another man's piss splashes when you use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:48 PM
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Not stare, but some men try to make conversation at pub urinals. And they look in your direction while they're talking. It's uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:29 PM
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Yeah, they're roughly equivalent. Manual manipulation can be very painful if a woman doesn't know what she's doing with a foreskin. Banjo string injuries are agony, and bleed quite a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:26 PM
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Tbf my wedding was one of the "selfish" variety where her comfort and enjoyment was the priority, and guests were basically just witnesses. We had some complaints, but I still don't think that constitutes bridezilla. In fact, I don't think I've ever saw a bridezilla either. I've seen women being justifiably pissed off at incompetent wedding planners, but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:52 PM
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It's wild! Gotta be an age thing, because I can't imagine any younger social groups letting someone get away with that stuff. It's socialised out of younger people in a way it just doesn't seem to be with the older gen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:40 PM
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Unfortunately we've not mastered that level of stoicism yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:38 PM
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Not a possibility, unfortunately. Cutting ties isn't really a thing where we're from, would be considered a big taboo. Also my wife's parents need help caring for her, and I wouldn't leave them in the lurch like that. Realistically, she can't have long left anyway. So the bright side is it's just a temporary frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:30 PM
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Sour grapes. Want everyone else's grapes to be sour too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:21 PM
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My wife's grandmother is exhausting. I get her shopping and do her DIY tasks because she's old as shit, and her house is on my route back from work. Last summer, I was over there installing some new blinds while my wife and SIL were making her lunch. She said to them out of the blue: "you two are looking lovely today... lovely and fat". Bear in mind, my wife is 125lbs, SIL maybe 140. Obviously, I called her out for being pointlessly nasty, but she denied saying it straight afterwards. Soured the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:20 PM
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Same. When I was a kid 1993-1997ish I used to set the timer on the VCR to record random TV stations at night while I slept, then when I got home from school the next day I would watch them. Those times before my parents got in when I was watching old Hammer horror films, weird adverts, programming for the deaf, B movies and all the other stuff they had on during the night were the most at peace I have ever been in my whole life. I would give a lot to get those tapes back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:12 PM
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What's the range, and how do you test their aptitude? Do you make them take IQ tests before the date? Tbf there are worse screening methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:04 PM
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Tbf I'm still considered short by many at 5'10". Northern Europe tho. Average here is 6ft, although that figure is heavily skewed by young people, who seem to all be beanpoles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:31 PM
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Suspicions were only raised when his first words were "I'm a friend of Sarah Connor. I was told she was here. Could I see her please?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:03 PM
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My own answer is: as long as it's relatively minor, I don't mind picky eating so much. I was once with a woman who wouldn't eat sushi because it was "weird". There were tons of other things she wouldn't try either; tofu, certain vegetables, brown rice (???). That's too much. Eating out became a challenge, and she would rarely eat my cooking. It sucks the fun out of things. And someone whose diet resembles that of a child on the spectrum (chicken tendy eaters) is obviously a hard no. But someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:55 PM
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Nah your man is based. Mayo and mayo-related goods are my only food no go as well. We're a master race. Evolved to avoid eating food that resembles cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:45 PM
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His wife was also a Kennedy, ultra wealthy, and attractive. Arnold is inspirational in many ways, but he also shows the human capacity for complete fucking idiocy in its truest form.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:41 PM
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He looks exactly like Arnie in his Mr. Olympia years now. It's wild. Way more Arnie-like than any of his other kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:38 PM
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I dunno. Forced ditzy "I'm just a girl" vibes, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:36 PM
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Q4A: How picky is too picky an eater for you? You're on a date with someone you find very attractive. How much of a picky eater can they be before you get the ick? What's the maximum allowance for food persnickety-ness?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:36 PM
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Broken clock right twice a day about that last one though. When I used Tinder so many women had pics of them posing next to their crashed Fiat 500s. Sis what are you doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:31 PM
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Yeah I don't get it either. Too incesty. Freaks me out. Maybe one of the women on here can explain the appeal and the psychology, because I certainly don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:24 PM
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If they haven't had intercourse with a man, then yeah I'd say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:39 AM
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I'd say yes. Personally I wouldn't count those things in body count either. Genital to genital insertion is what constitutes V-plate removal, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:29 AM
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Hot Lack you're a cool guy. I believe you could belong in many places.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:41 AM
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How's the food poisoning man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:47 PM
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You don't call your own tattoos "very well done" 🙃 it's cringey. Iamverysmart, iamverycool, iamveryhandsome rolled in to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:20 PM
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It's because of sleep stages. Our minds go through different stages while we're asleep; the longest and most important is the REM cycle. If your REM sleep gets interrupted, you feel fucked up. So you're probably getting a half cycle at the end when you go to sleep at your usual time. Try delaying bedtime one hour, and seeing how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:53 PM
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I'd just want to be at home on the couch with my wife and cats. I'd lay straight out so all the cats lie on me. Want to be touching them when I go. I'd also try to drink as many beers as possible, and if there's time then get a Dominoes too. Cram it down my gullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:46 PM
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When I say that I like women with lots of tattoos, I am scared that this is what people think I mean. Blackout work is always a bad sign, and she's blacked out half a sleeve. Looks awful, no coherence. The other Irezumi style sleeve is nice, I'll give her that. But it's an oasis in a sea of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:34 PM
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Yep The nastiest and most irate comments I have ever received on here - and the most downvotes -have been from bluepillers when they found out that my best relationships have been physical attraction first -> deepened emotional connection later. Convinced there's some sort of psychological projection going on with them, but I'm not clued up enough to articulate exactly what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:56 PM
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Hookup material only needs to be goodlooking. Girlfriend material is goodlooking and a nice person. Wife material is goodlooking, a nice person, and has the same life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:56 AM
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Ah, completely understand. Bittersweet situation. Maybe one day she'll come round to the idea of not having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:37 AM
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I enjoy the cooking reveals. Looks great.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:35 AM
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Why not get back with her? I know you said the other day that you find some of her habits annoying, but there's clearly still a lot of affection there. Don't feel pressured to answer if that's too personal btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:32 AM
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I was on her side until I saw that it cost 3.50 for a slice of cheese. At that point it's not the cost, it's the princple. I'd buy my wife a £200 cheese board without a second thought, if that's what she wanted. But am I fuck paying 3.50 for a slice of supermarket cheddar. I'd rather milk the cow and churn the curds myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:48 PM
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Yup, you're totally right. Love an angular jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:43 PM
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I know this is unpopular, but I think she looks fantastic with the weird surgery. She's the only one who does though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:30 PM
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Scotland should be dark blue, not just light. You'll be force fed when you visit someone's home here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:26 PM
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Fluent just English and Scots Gaelic. Conversational as long as it's slow in Italian and French. Und ein bisschen Deutsch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:41 PM
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Family member wanting inheritance perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:23 PM
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Yeah, it does. Or staged to look that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:22 PM
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Gene Hackman update: Hackman, 95, and Arakawa, 63, were found dead in their home in Santa Fe, N.M., after midnight Thursday, the Santa Fe County Sheriff had confirmed to Variety. Authorities said there was no immediate indication of foul play, but no cause of death was provided. Now, their deaths are “suspicious enough in nature to require a thorough search and investigation,” the affidavit, released by New Mexico authorities, says. “Affiant believes that the circumstances surrounding the death …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:10 PM
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Nothing wrong with that. We booked a registry office and a private room in a restaurant for afterwards. 12 guests plus photographer. Was excellent. Big weddings have a lot of moving parts - too much hassle for us. I recommend a small one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:56 PM
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Go for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:43 PM
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As long as you can still stand up for yourself and be firm when needed, I think that's the best way to be. The emotional hangover from when you flip your lid is brutal. Makes you feel like a tit for weeks afterwards. Not worth it. Much better to be calmly assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:40 PM
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I know, I know. I'll pour one out for those cowboys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:27 PM
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No meat Sea, just pinto beans, buuuuut... absolutely loaded with onions and garlic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:24 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/d6qxrd0ctple1.jpeg?width=4080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b46064bd6c064a534dd3a8656de65029a0ad3813 Made a little chilli for burritos. Deceptively spicy. Will burn the bumhole right off you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:17 PM
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I think that's part of it, yeah. Lots of these old dudes got with their wives back when marriage "was just something you did". Part of the lifescript, and doesn't necessarily preclude affection or love. The power thing is probably the other half. He'll be doing it to young women and women in service industry positions - people whom he will assume are too powerless to speak out against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:12 PM
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Sounds like they were collectively bullying you. Banter is fun, even hard banter between friends isn't supposed to be this relentless. I think you're making the right decision to disconnect from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:02 PM
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Listening to Drake? Absolutely not. (Non-joke answer is also no. It's disrespectful.)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:49 PM
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No offence taken - you're probably right!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:46 PM
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Hahahaa holy shit Lily, that's a deep cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:39 PM
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Being snide again, I see. What exactly is your problem then? Speak up like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:35 PM
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Neither parent is very fond of me. Wife's parents love me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:29 PM
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Fairly obvious why. When you imply that someone is lying, of course they're going to clap back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:26 PM
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There must be an understanding barrier here then, because from my perspective you've came after me the same way irate meat-eaters come after vegans for simply stating that they don't eat meat. With the assumption that my choices are a judgement or invalidation of your own. To be clear; I don't give a shit if anyone's relationship wasn't built on initial attraction, nor do I think love built from friendship is in any way lesser. It's just from my own experience, the only relationships worth a shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:21 PM
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...you don't believe we're happy? Or you don't believe I'm married? What a bitter bastard you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:14 PM
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You're right. Personally, I don't understand the retroactive jealousy thing. But I haven't seen the discussion about raw attraction on here go deep enough to see how the two ideas interact. Seems contradictory to believe in both, in my eyes at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:47 PM
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I'm 39 years old. Sex 3 times a day is absolutely not on the cards. Is it so unbelievable to you that someone can have a happy relationship? That's quite sad. How did you end up so cynical?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:45 PM
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Oh, I don't. I'm married a woman who superliked me on Tinder. And our relationship is harmonious to the extent that our friends tease us about it constantly. But look around on here: you see a lot of guys who find themselves in this situation. Also the deadbedroom sub, and posts like Bassplayer quoted. It clearly happens, and it's clearly the source of a lot of relationship friction. You're right - no one should settle for someone who doesn't live up to their standards of passion. As I understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:34 PM
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Of course! But problems do tend to arise when the person looking for an LTR compromises on their physical standards to secure committment. If someone is looking for an LTR from the outset, but keeps their physical standards the same as they do/did for hookups, then theoretically there should not be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:20 PM
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I agree with you. Things seem to go smoother when physical attraction is the basis upon which a deeper connection is built (not that it can't happen the other way around, yada yada yada). However, there are those on here who say that a woman who engages in sex quickly is not LTR material. I'd be interested to hear what they think of raw attraction. How they reconcile it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:04 PM
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Question: does that mean that the ideal relationship (in an attraction sense) is a hookup which leads to an LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:47 PM
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Q4A on the subject of submission in relationships. Particularly for men and women who place importance on the concept of female submissiveness in intimate relationships. 4M: What do you mean when you say that submissiveness is a required trait in a partner? What behaviours qualify as submissive? 4W: If you need/want to feel like you are submitting to your male partner, what does that entail? And what ways do you submit?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:45 PM
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Defo a man's handwriting. Also: cash as a birthday gift to an intimate partner. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:18 PM
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Yeah, that's what I'd read other places too. Was hoping they had maybe relaxed a bit in recent years, but I guess not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:13 PM
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Haha, fair enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:55 PM
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Question: are they really as anti-tattoo as the Internet makes out? Do you see many people with visible tattoos in public at all? If so, do they really get denied service at restaurants and stuff? Even if they're white Western tourists?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:51 PM
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When I first joined Reddit, I assumed it was like FB and used a picture of myself as my pfp. Dunno why, but that seemed to make people so argumentative. I could say the sky is blue and have dozens of people replying angrily to say it was green. Perhaps seeing a real person behind the account makes people eager to lash out. I feel the opposite way from you. The cute avatars make me assume the person is going to be a condescending weirdo. That's not an assumption based on logic or observation; it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:31 PM
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All of 'em. I'm nosy, so I like asking questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:20 PM
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Fuck me, there's Gene Hackman away. Under strange circumstances too - wife and dog also dead. Sounds like carbon monoxide poisoning to me. Not the way I expected a 95 year old to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:16 AM
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Too easily traceable. Just sprinkle Japanese knotweed seeds in their garden.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:14 PM
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Spoiled for choice in that show tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:54 PM
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Oh ffs, that's what I originally thought and was told otherwise on here 🙃 Ignore me, because I clearly have no idea lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:50 PM
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As I understand it, no. He's a very handsome man, but I thought Chad referred to an extremely narrow archetype of steroid muscle, square jaw etc. Certainly not someone who wears glasses. Unless I'm misinformed, Chads are just the people who look similar to the meme of Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:47 PM
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Yeah, I'd do it. It takes a lot for me to feel embarrassment. This wouldn't be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:39 PM
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Fucking hell, Dawn from Buffy was a major childhood crush of mine. It appears she had been unwell for a while. What a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:36 PM
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Those who manipulate the market, control the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:44 PM
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Ok, my "brother".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:42 PM
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I suspect that you're saying things in order to get men to argue with you, and your goal is to see them insist that they are attracted to "normal level" pretty women. It's reverse psychology rhetoric, and very similar to something a certain female poster on the main sub does. I won't blow your cover, because witch hunting is banned. But I see you! Don't think I don't see you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:35 PM
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You should have posted this shot as the main picture. Looks excellent here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:07 PM
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Be honest; are you really a "blue pill man" or is this the alt account of a very insecure woman? Because everything you say makes it sound like the latter. No offence intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:06 PM
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Cba doing full bookshelf reveal, but will do bottom of the bed blanket chest reading pile reveal. Nonce book, horror book, and two antisocial books: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:00 PM
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She sounds exhausting. If she wasn't putting in effort on her end, then you have nothing to feel regretful about. Takes two to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:50 PM
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The Chinese spyware says I look 26. Vampire confirmed 🧛
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:45 PM
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Fantastic specimen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:54 AM
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Aw shit not even in a meta context? I'll get rid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:52 AM
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Show cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:49 AM
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Q4A: Why do you think the main sub is seeing a recent glut of threads in which women are concerned about the high body counts of their male partners? That's three in the last week or so. Is this a new thing? I thought women by and large didn't really care about that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:45 AM
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Cannot stand melts like this. Blue tick and veneers on direct debit, life on finance but giving it the big one to scam gullible cabbages on Tiktok. If he really was a multimillionaire trader he wouldn't be selling places on a private Telegram for a fiver a pop. Copy-paste trades and posing with stacks of fake money. Wankstain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:23 AM
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Looks like he's been crying. He should let the stubble grow in on his head a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:18 AM
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Oh, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:06 AM
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If this is overweight to you, then so be it. More.for the rest of us 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:01 AM
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You like very thin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:58 PM
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I'd judge about a 30 inch waist; no flab on bicep area; wristbones visible; rib concave prominent; thighs proportionate to arms. To me, that constitutes slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:53 PM
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Not to me. She's slim, but not a waif.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:46 PM
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I think it's cute that every woman here is convinced they've bagged the most handsome man on earth. It's one of the least cynical aspects of this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:36 PM
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This is interesting to hear because I'm the exact person you're talking about. Obsessed with retiring early, time my holidays with bank holiday dates to maximise days off in a row, fantasising about spending my days doing fuck all except whatever I want to do. Maybe I won't really enjoy it, when the time comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:51 PM
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Original charge was assault to permanent disfigurement, but I plead guilty to the lesser charge of assault to severe injury. Basically, someone attacked me and I defended myself, but I used disproportional force to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:50 PM
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Hard no to having a prostitute in my home. But also hard no to having a son in my home.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:28 PM
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Yes, sure. My wife's main Tinder pic was her performing at a pole competition. Similar attire to bikini. One of mine was of me jumping off a waterfall. So although not the classic shirtless pic, I did have no shirt on. We are now in a very serious marriage. Although I have to say, imo "serious intentions" are not a good way to start things. I think things work best when you just have fun at the start, and let intentions develop. Although that is just me, you are a different person with your own …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:22 PM
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Yes. I served a sentence of 18 months (7 of it in custody, the rest on license) when I was 21. Under 21 convictions in Scotland are considered "spent" after 7 years, so my record was erased when I was 27 (incident took place when I was 20) and is now considered clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:45 PM
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Yes! No bio = best bio. One of my most controversial takes on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:41 PM
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30 is considered an undesirable age by a lot of guys on here. IRL it's still considered young. If she looks good, then it won't matter a jot. 30 year olds can look 20, 30, 40, and everything in between, depending on genetics and how well they've taken care of themselves. I think your guess is probably correct. I'd be interested to see her profile. I'll also add that I think she'll be fairly unremarkable. Don't get me wrong - she'll be beautiful, but it won't be a striking type beauty. I saw the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:40 PM
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Me and the rest of my grey-eyed homies don't even get a mention on the list 😡 Over for greycels.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:24 PM
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Do most Tinder users in Romania have their bio in English, Romanian, or a mix of both?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:16 PM
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SORRY 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:55 PM
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Problem with the question is the two things aren't mutually exclusive. Someone who is attracted to you on day one could very well become the love of your life. It's not one or the other, get me? You can have both. I personally think that high level of initial attraction leading to a deepening emotional bond over time is the ideal. Nothing wrong with relationships that don't go that way, but for me that's what works best.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:49 PM
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Still no. To me, it's like asking "would you prefer a partnership that works seamlessly from the beginning, or one that requires some grease for the wheels to work". I don't think there's anything wrong with partnerships where you need grease, but I maintain that if you can get one that doesn't then... obviously better, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:32 PM
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I see. That muddies the waters a bit though, because oaths can be made halfheartedly, or fallaciously. OJ swore an oath, for instance. Albeit a different type of oath.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:11 PM
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Raw attraction. I don't put a huge stock in oaths. Actions speak louder than words, and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:04 PM
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Damien Hirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:03 PM
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Also Tenebrae.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:54 PM
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It fluctuates between Cannibal Holocaust, Nymphomaniac, and The Thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:53 PM
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You'd care if it was this particular thing 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:40 PM
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Weird on both sides. But he's technically an adult, so whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:36 PM
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It's referring to a specific instance of someone foolishly incriminating themselves. All she's saying is, if someone accuses you of doing something and you have been doing that thing - if you don't want people to find out then the response is "what lol?" not "omg how did you know who told you????" Basically, don't play yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:34 PM
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Yep, that's what I thought. And that's understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:21 PM
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Hold on, is the reason they want virgins due to paternity concerns? Haven't heard that one before, myself. I thought it was so the woman wouldn't have anything with which to compare them? Plus also a feeling of making up for "beginner's love" they missed out on as a teen?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:11 PM
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Jon Bernthal in a wig.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:44 PM
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53 years together now. That's the goal. Massive respect for them. I'll never make it that long though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:37 PM
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Nah, I prefer it. Husky is good. Long as we're not talking Darth Vader deep, mind you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:32 PM
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Idea for a thread: rate people's opposite gender reveal pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:19 PM
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I see, that's wild. You know, as little as 10 pressups a day would probably change that, if you wanted. Less than 30 seconds of activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:15 AM
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How does that even come about? Do you have some muscle wasting disease or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:10 AM
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Fair enough, I've said my peace so I'll play along and ask a question now. What do you consider to be an incel? And what is the genesis of your ill feelings toward them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:06 AM
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Time to seek psychological help, perhaps. Don't mean that in a condescending or nasty way, but you're clearly spiralling. You're not any better than these supposed incels. And even if you were, it's not normal or healthy to enjoy tormenting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:50 AM
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I'm not sure it really matters tbh. If they're shy and non-confrontational like you said, then they'll probably just agree with you when you bring it up. If they don't rock the boat with him, they probably won't rock the boat with you either. That said, it'll do no harm to just ask them outright if they condemn it or not. Maybe they're just waiting for an opportunity to take a stand, and you need to lead the way. That's the optimistic outcome though. But at least you'll know, which is better tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:48 AM
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Don't count on your friends to back you up here. I've spoke about this on PPD before: wife and I have been shunned from our former group of progressive wokie friends because I called out one of their partners for being a convicted rapist. Made it clear that neither I nor my wife were ever to be in the same room as him when he got out, but they ignored it and brought him to an event anyway. I greeted him with "hello rapist" and shit hit the fan. What I learned is that there are a lot of people wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:35 AM
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Lily entering her Smeagol era.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:18 PM
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Lad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:16 PM
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I've got crohns; many doctors' fingers have been up there. Couldn't tell the difference between long or stubby fingers. It all just hurt. Dunno what to tell you. Maybe you have a tape measure vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:14 PM
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Yeah, only one calls himself gay. And the other three straight guys suck him off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:09 PM
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I think it ranks somewhere below face, height, body, confidence, frame and social status in importance. Better focusing on those other things imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:07 PM
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5.5 here and never had an issue. If you can make someone orgasm with the first 2 inches of your index and middle fingers, then penis size isn't a problem 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:05 PM
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Mate come on. There is no "hope". He's on you guys' team. Star player. https://preview.redd.it/ferubt35t5le1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=681e9f71350e9cfb468e4b8b79b917c9daf5fdb9
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:00 PM
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Won't make a difference, if he knows what he's doing. 1.5 inches is very small; most women won't notice, or be able to tell the difference. Reddit autismo women will say different, but IRL people have no clue about measuring length or distance. You can easily make a woman orgasm with 5 inches, and you can easily be a dead fuck with 6.5. The difference is negligable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:52 PM
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Luigi is gay. I think he's a cool guy, but he's gay. Any woman simping for him has a broken gaydar. Any man jealous of him is foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:48 PM
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Nah, not common. Most people's ex-boyfriends are fucking squares.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:26 PM
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Not something I ever considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:18 PM
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Yessss, retroactive FOMO. I asked all my mates if they want to go to a punk festival with me last summer. "Oh I dunno hmmm". Went myself, and afterwards they expressed regret about not joining me. The level of apathy and indecision would be funny if it wasn't so infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:48 PM
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Just don't kiss Oscar Wilde's grave. Bound to get something from it, the amount of lips with which it has been in contact by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:40 PM
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This realisation changed my life. If I waited for my friends to be ready to do the things I wanted to do, I would have been waiting forever, and done nothing. There's a power in having the boldness to do things alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:38 PM
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Not exclusively, but mostly. When I was younger that's where I'd go to meet girls, and it's hard to shake that association. The rare occasion when I end up in a club these days I am just there for a laugh. And I know there are others who view it the same way. But regardless, it's mostly horny young people looking for company for the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:36 PM
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Of course. I am a millenial.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:22 PM
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I did this one time. My first date from Tinder after being in a 9 year relationship. The world had changed and all my female mates told me that judging by vibes was not appropriate any more, and that I had to ask for explicit consent. Followed what they said, and the response from the woman was "Why are you asking for permission? Are you a f@ggot or something?" That's when I stopped listening to the advice of others. Vibes are king.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:05 PM
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Well, if you're gonna do it then do it among friends with whom you feel safe. You might like it, you might not..not a big deal, but worth the experience either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:38 PM
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Have you smoked before?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:36 PM
1

Andrew Tate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:35 PM
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Like a Jeeves or Alfred type butler, but wearing Loop earphones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:34 PM
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The high end restaurants not expecting their customer base to be fasting is infuriating. Suppose that's the way it is with anything though, not just religion. Rules for thee but not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:32 PM
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Years ago when Ramadan was in mid-June I worked in an office with a ton of Muslims. We're high above the equator so the days were 19-20 hours long. Had dudes passing out in work. It was wild. Do you have to pretend to fast to appease family etc? Are shops open? Could you go get a nice big greasy burger if you wanted, or would that not be possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:22 PM
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Not many, but the audacity of two stand out even years later. Number one: I have cats, and a woman I was talking to on Tinder told me that she dislikes cats, so I'd have to get rid of them in order to date her. Obviously I unmatched. Number two: I have a mostly complete munewari; a traditional Irezumi bodysuit. A woman I was dating when it was about 50% complete asked me to stop getting work done on it, because she doesn't like tattoos. Why get with someone who has an extreme amount of tattoo wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:43 PM
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It's you on here too. Late 20s aura. In a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:30 PM
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Yeah, just how it goes though. We all value attractive people, and devalue those less attractive. Shit, but nothing can be done about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:23 PM
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Seems obvious to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:12 PM
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Nah I have a little attachment on my beard trimmer that goes up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:38 PM
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Yeah. Provided I'm not squeezing the child out of my third eye and I never have to see it again, I'd say 9 months of gregnancy is worth it for the love of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:36 PM
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Most of the time, yes. Usually it's from one of two groups: people who semi-know us both, or people at work. In both of those instances, I tell her. The reason is because it's "close", and it's conceivable that she could find out that said person had made advances. Even although that would be accompanied by "so and so hit on your husband and he turned her down", I would never want the possibility of her hamstering and thinking "but why did he hide it?" But if it's a random at the pub or somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:19 PM
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I disagree on this last comment, but everything up until that point I pretty much agree with what you have said. Thanks for answering!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:14 PM
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Good answer. Related question: if I said that I believe physical attraction (not attraction in the general aesthetic sense) is controllable, would you agree or disagree with that statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:55 PM
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Xiaomi. £90 from Amazon. There's probably a little Chinese man sitting in a listening station spying on me for Xi Jinping, but at that price idgaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:51 PM
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Good answer. First two are reversible tbh. Anyone killing the Michelin man or Tony needs their head looked at.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:40 PM
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We met on Tinder and her main pic was of her performing at a pole fitness competition. So her outfit the first time I technically saw her was "very little". Tinder pics don't really count though. First date outfit I remember very well. She had on a black denim skirt, black tights, brown cowboy boots, and a vintage size XL Levis denim trucker jacket which I have since claimed as my own. It really is a fantastic jacket.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:39 PM
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That's an intruiging response. Can you describe the differences between the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:25 PM
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Ask them who they would fuck/marry/kill out of the Pringles mascot, Tony the Tiger, and the Michelin Man. If they reply "lol what" then unmatch and next until you get an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:17 PM
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Attempting to fulfill the requests for more interesting Q4Ws: For those of you who are in a relationship - were you physically attracted to your partner at first sight?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:11 PM
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I never used to think it happened until I visited this sub and saw stuff like this with my own eyes. I have no idea how someone decided to marry her. He must be very desperate, and have zero self-respect. Could never be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:00 PM
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I know, I find it weird as well. My wife has fire engine red hair, and got no end of hatred for it when she was growing up. She still gets people shouting things like GINGER BITCH out of passing car windows to this day. Even odder considering how common it is here. Afaik around 10% of our population are redheads. Highest in the world. I don't think the South Park episode about gingers not having souls helped much either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:47 PM
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Tastes are highly dependent on location and culture. And we've got a vast mix on here. Where I live, men with light coloured hair and eyes are not seen as desirable unless they are extremely goodlooking. Men's tastes are for the classic bleached blonde and tanned woman though. Even a hint of red hair is seen as unanimously ugly on both men and women here. The guy who plays Dexter, for example, is mostly seen as very unattractive due to his hair colour. Redacted is extremely unpopular too. Even m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:21 PM
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Wonder how far they're going to go with yassing her up before someone steps in and has her committed to a psychiatric facility for an eating disorder. Or will the nodding dogs keep on nodding until she's dead like they did with Prince, Michael Jackson and many others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:38 PM
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Look at Sayid leading the polls so far. Wouldn't have expected it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:08 PM
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Not cancelled. It got a good finale if you are the type of person who likes to analyse philosophical and ambiguous endings to stories. Very bad ending if you like things neatly tied up and spelled out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:06 PM
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Common Norway W.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:04 PM
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Yeah, but the very thought of another man having any physical contact with my wife puts me in to an immediate homicidal rage. So although I maybe don't understand things from the threesome havers' perspective, surely there has to be some sort of humiliation/cuckoldry kink going on with him to want to see that happening, no? Even if he is also involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:01 PM
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Does he have some sort of cuckold fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:54 AM
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Do you think Ben and Michael will eventually earn their redemptive passing over ending like the rest of them did?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:53 AM
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Idea #2 sounds similar to the 2006 Jason Statham movie Crank. He gets a pacemaker rigged to explode if his heartbeat falls below a certain level. There's a scene where he has sex with someone in public to keep it elevated. Decent movie. They made a sequel too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:50 AM
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That's awful. Pet deaths are horrendous things to deal with 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:46 AM
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Wooft, that's heavy. Care to explain the link a bit more? If not, no problem. Sorry for your loss either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:42 AM
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What made you so hypersexual? Were you always like this? Was it some sort of trauma response? Bang out of order questions, but you did say we could ask anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:38 AM
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Piss privilege is very underrated. I'll add being able to go in a bottle when you're a passenger on a long distance car journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:35 AM
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If you're in a position of authority at work or whatever, it's easier to get people to respect that authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:27 AM
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You can go to the pub or have a night out and chances are you won't have to deal with some random belligerent maniac who wants to fight you just because his coked-up mind has decided that he doesn't like your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:16 AM
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I can't sleep, so I'm going to watch Christine starring Rebecca Hall. Been meaning to get round to this one for a while. It's a biopic about Christine Chubbuck, the reporter who killed herself live on air in 1974. Her primary motive (alongside depression and anxiety) was her lack of romantic relationships. In that sense, she may be considered the first incel. Not sure if femcel is the correct terminology for her case. Strange that I've never saw her discussed on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:57 AM
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I think I have a thing for women with nostril piercings. Every single woman I've ever been with longterm has had either a nose stud or ring. Never been with someone who has a septum piercing, but I think they very rarely look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:43 PM
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Oh nooooo, definitely not for me. Could not handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:17 PM
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Habits ick: does coke. Personality ick: weak willed, easily pressured in to things. Physical ick: busted up feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:59 PM
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Do you have like a display cabinet for them, or do they all go on the bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:32 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/7cjqikn4hyke1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=657816ef34651b271ff237ff4e79c0863ee07e4b Oh dear, not very flattering results for me. I guess this makes me a Bad Boy™️.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:20 PM
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Can't not link the test c'monnnn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:43 PM
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Very cool date idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:18 PM
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Understood! Your limits are your limits. Interesting to hear these perspectives. Thanks for answering!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:54 PM
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Yes, about that much. 6-9 months must be served inside, let's say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:23 PM
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Wait until you see Burger King these days. Granted the quality has also increased, but JESUS the price is almost on par with pub/bar food.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:06 PM
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Hypothetically, let's say your partner is forced to fight someone and accidentally harms them more than he intended. Mandatory jail sentence. Are you leaving?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:05 PM
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Absolutely correct. McDonalds makes it look like you have zero taste. Arepas from the Venezuelan pop-up makes you look cool. Both cost the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:50 PM
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That's an interesting perspective. Full disclosure - asking this as someone who has been to jail himself, but also have zero emotional response to someone considering that to be a dealbreaker: How come you wouldn't have a family with someone who had a criminal record? What's the rationale behind it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:38 PM
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A bit. I grew up in a rough as fuck environment. Not a healthy place for a kid. But those experiences also taught me to be self-reliant and hard-nosed. And I feel that every success I've had in life has been due to that attitude. No, I don't feel that having a relationship with them is optional. I support them now, financially and otherwise. It's just the way things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:21 PM
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I'd be asking what's up long before the six weeks had elapsed. It's not about the sex; it's about her physical and mental health. Something has obviously changed. I ask my wife for daily number out of 10 health updates when she has a cold. Couldn't leave something like this to fester.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:44 PM
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High risk, high reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:27 PM
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Post was inspired by your comment to the Chad guy. His type describes you (from what I can recall), and (from what I can see) your type is extremely attractive Chad types. You are each others' type. So I am officially bonking your heads together. Send each other a DM ffs. Consider yourselves "shipped".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:24 PM
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Q4A: What is your type (if you have one), and would you say that you are your type's type?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:09 PM
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It's a unique part of American culture that has always fascinated me. These booby restaurants like Hooters, and the sexy carwash that the goonicide guy used. We don't have that here. It would be seen as demeaning. We have strip clubs, of course, but it seems like in the USA you can go during the day and have food while watching strippers. That's wild, but also quite a unique experience. I think I'd go once - just for a laugh - to one of these places where you can have lunch and see tits. Sounds …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:47 PM
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I agree. But also: have you met people? There are many out there who are oblivious, pathetic, needy, naive etc. There are those who need handheld through every facet of life. With the death of the third space, Internet pills seem to have taken the place of the friend who says "mate what are you doing, have some self-respect". For better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:38 PM
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People take things to the extreme in order to self-disqualify, because misery loves both company and excuses. Hence normal, good advice like "if she's making you wait but having sex with randos from the clerb, she's not in to you" has become "panties down within 3 seconds of meeting or you're a beta" ridiculousness. If you convince yourself that success is impossible, things don't feel as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:25 PM
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It's just their style of cooking. They don't understand or like food that isn't covered in luminous sauce. Some American style food is very tasty, but overall they really don't get more traditional or simplistic cuisine. Look at their pizza vs Italian pizza, or their sushi vs Japanese sushi. Very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:53 PM
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I agree with this. First date treatment < seeing each other treatment < girlfriend treatment < fiancee treatment < wife treatment. That's the way I've always approached things, and I believe it's the best method. Why invest heavily in a stranger? Save that shit for the one who shows consistency and longevity. You start as an intern, not the CEO.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:48 PM
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Cooking, drinking beer, playing in a band.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:12 PM
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Nothing wrong with daydrinking as long as it's not on a park bench during your lunch break from work. Have the rosé, life is for living.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:16 PM
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Fred Durst.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:05 PM
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Ah yeah, just saw your other comment. If he's sexually pushy then fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:00 PM
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Yeah, I can understand that. Makes sense. At the same time though, him putting in the effort to call is flattering, y'know? Think you'd meet him again?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:54 PM
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Why did you get the ick from the call?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:46 PM
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The hypersexuality; asking users their dick size out of the blue despite being engaged; gaming as a hobby; the AI generated anime style picture; using Discord; the degradation fetishes. You have to admit - these things are generally more characteristic of men or trans women (aka men) than women. Not accusing you of lying about your identity (because I don't care), but I can see where they're coming from. You have very non-standard interests for your supposed gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:43 PM
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There is a 1% chance that Luigi is straight. How are these womens' gaydars not pinging off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:25 PM
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Outside of this place, it's pretty normal not to know your exact number. It's not something for which most people keep meticulous records. Nothing wrong with saying "somewhere in the X to Y region". But obviously, if you don't see the problem with lying to an intimate partner then nothing anyone here says is going to convince you not to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:23 AM
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That's a bigger red flag than just owning the body count. Reverse the situation to see how ridiculous it is: I've slept with around 30-40 people. Mostly casual stuff, with a few bad relationships peppered in. Only good relationships I've had have been with my ex (9 years) and my wife (4 years). Could I conceivably say that my body count is 2, since I've only had 2 enjoyable, stable partnerships? The rest were shit, and in retrospect meant nothing to me/I wish I hadn't bothered. How would you fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:13 AM
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Enjoys good beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:06 AM
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Aw ffs my beer homie gone. Hopefully he comes back with a new account.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:59 PM
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I also like to see my bed, duvet and pillows at home. (Only being grumpy for a laugh - I enjoy it when I'm there. Feels like you don't have a weekend off from work when you do it though, so be warned it is mentally draining.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:39 PM
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Wife and I do this a few times a year to big cities near us (Amsterdam, Brussels, Copenhagen, Paris etc). Not my idea of a great time (exhausting), but she likes it, so whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:22 PM
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I had a childfree wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:57 PM
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Product probs made for Aldi or Lidl - meaning they'll likely be distributed all throughout Europe. Simpler to keep everything in a language that most Europeans know. That's my guess anyway, could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:16 PM
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<image> ? In Italian! I thought "from concentrate" was a pretty common term worldwide?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:06 PM
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I'm only talking about moral character here. It obviously says something about my attitude toward aesthetics, ephemerality, how I spend my money, vanity etc. What I mean is that it does not reflect anything about my attitudes to major moral issues like human rights, animal rights, discrimination, moral relativism and so forth. For good or ill. Nor (in this day and age when tattoos are reduced to fashion choice) does it say anything reliable about one's propensity toward crime. Perhaps I should h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:18 PM
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Hit the nail on the head again there. If I was the person I used to be when I was younger, my wife would not have regarded me as a serious individual. Re: the advice the poster is asking for, absolutely - if someone is showing the signs of having reformed their character, then judge on their current behaviour. How they treat you etc. The present is more important than the past - retroactive jealousy can be a killer. But also do confirm that they've actually done the work they claim. Nothing wron…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:30 PM
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Does my wife know that I cheated on women in the past, do you mean? Yeah, she knows. She knows all about the person I used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:10 PM
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Fuck, you're right. I didn't even see that gaping hole in my own logic. I think your stance is more pragmatic and sensible than what I said. And people should follow it as Plan A. But at the same time, I can't deny my own experience. I did go from being a horrible little bastard to a good husband, and that is partially because of the person my wife is. All I can say is: I never met anyone like her when I was younger, and if I had, my relationship history would definitely not have been so tumultu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:08 PM
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Sure. Nothing I said implies otherwise, I don't think. If you think it did then - definitely wasn't meaning that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:40 PM
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Yeah, it's not something I personally understand either. But I think they have quite a lot of problems with street harassment there (they have gender segregated subway cars? Is that correct?) so I get where they're coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:27 PM
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I'm certainly capable. Everyone is capable. But I'm an entirely different person now, so it's extremely unlikely. When I was younger and cheated, I did not take anything in life seriously. I wasn't dating for marriage, or with intent for longterm partnership. Nothing really mattered to me. I grew up, and my perspective on life changed. So did my goals, and what I valued. It was easy to cheat when I had no goals or values in life. I contend that it is much harder to cheat when you care about some…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:11 PM
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Nah, wouldn't want to invade a female-only space. Even if it's only unofficially segregated, the women who go there clearly don't want men around. I respect their wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:02 PM
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That's very interesting to me. Personally, I see women who do this as individuals who missed out on the experience of feeling desirable through "normal" means when they were younger, so they now get their validation from aberrant extremist sexual practices as a way of saying "LOOK AT ME NOW!!!!" It's retroactively validating them as attractive, and negating their poor self-perception at the same time; after all, there is a twisted logic in the idea that a woman who can keep a partner while openl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:17 PM
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Let's hear 'em. The psychology of gender stuff is what I'm most interested in. I have my own thoughts, but I'd like to hear what others think first before I share mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:54 PM
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Look at the size of the woman as depicted in the comic and the answer you seem shall become clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:49 PM
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Lure all 3 in to a vacuum sealed chamber then suck all the oxygen out of it. Husband included, but that's more of a mercy kill than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:38 PM
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Question, because I dunno how it is in your culture: You said before that your girlfriend was a nepo baby, right? So that presumably implies that she will be inheriting her father's wealth one day. So how does that impact your future control of your joint finances? Does her dad have a say in this? Because if I was the dad, I'd be shitting myself at the prospect of relinquishing control of my life's fortunes to my daughter's new husband. I couldn't do it. Is that a thing for you guys? Or is it ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:09 PM
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It's just a stim bro is the new it's just a prank bro!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:04 PM
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I think he was just stimming.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:01 PM
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Personally, no. To me he looks like he's in a 70s cop show or 90s girl band. But I am an out of touch millennial who still wears slim fit jeans, so take my opinion with a pinch of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:43 PM
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The tattoo hate on here really annoys me, but I rarely say anything about it. I have a full soushinbori bodysuit - shoulder to ankle - and it's simply just an aesthetic choice, as you said. It says nothing about my moral stance, or character. It's literally just ink in skin. Of course, there are people who get shitty cheap tattoos from unqualified scratchers working out of their bedrooms, and yeah - maybe there is a correlation between people like that and meth use, crime or whatever. But for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:38 PM
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I dunno if I'd describe my past as "wild" per se, but I've had my share of one night stands and short flings. And (I am ashamed to say) when I was younger I did cheat on a couple of girlfriends. The answer is - based on my own experience - yes, it is very possible for someone who has been "wild" or has cheated in past relationships to entirely change their ways and be a loyal and dedicated partner. I am married now, and I am so loyal and dedicated to my wife that people I know (lovingly, not in …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:20 PM
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It's so good man. I'm on the Old Peculiars tonight. Not quite as good as Riggwelter, but still an excellent brew.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:18 PM
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Always beer. Did you enjoy Riggwelter?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:07 PM
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I dunno. Never really considered that sort of thing. I have a master's degree and I'm a top 3ish percent earner, so the only person more on her level would be another doctor... and then I'd just have the same worries about cheating with a coworker that everyone has. So it wouldn't be something I consider. I think people tend to cheat more for looks than social status/lifestyle/income. A hot binman is more of a threat than an average looking doctor, in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:46 PM
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Nothing to feel insecure about, in my opinion. That's a good career. She'll be busy, but tbh busy is good. Also assuming she'll be able to spot any health red flags I have early on. That's a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:38 PM
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Ahhh, I see. Difficult. Take it they'd freak out if it was confirmed?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:36 PM
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Are you out to any family or friends, mate? Feel free to not answer if that's too personal. Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:29 PM
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Oops, my mistake 😂 Honestly though: nah. Wouldn't spend time getting to know someone on OLD if they were outside my distance. I know me, y'know? I'd get bored; fuck it up. Wouldn't be fair on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:50 PM
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Anyone who moves for a first date is a nutter!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:29 PM
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The problem is that every single person who reads the words "raw attraction" seems to interpret it differently. For some, it means you will have your underwear down and having sex with the person <10 seconds of first laying eyes on them. I think that is unrealistic. I'd say sex on the first or second meeting qualifies. No idea about the teen love stuff. Don't know what the obsession with that is on here. Presumably it's romanticisation from people who never experienced it. Which is fair, I suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:19 PM
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When I was using the apps, I set my limit to a 30km radius. I don't have the patience for any distance greater than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:05 PM
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And her hearing aid started to melt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:11 PM
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To have myself, or for a partner to have? Myself: don't really care, doesn't matter much to me. Partner: given my age/location/social circles, average is somewhere in the 5-20 region. Which is fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:10 PM
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When you're in a relationship/married and getting your female partner flowers, have them sent to her work so all her female coworkers can see. If a tree falls in the forest and no one hears it, does it really make a noise logic. But it's had unanimously positive results for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:28 PM
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<image> Extremely disagreeable is probably accurate, but I'd have guessed my extroversion was much lower and neuroticism a bit higher, if I was asked to rate them myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:10 AM
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Depends on what you call success. When I used them, I'd get about 3 matches a day. That was huge to me, but might be considered quite low by some. Had a few relationships both long and short from them, and it's ultimately how I met my wife. The person below who said put as little text about yourself as possible on your profile is totally right. My profile was blank except for four emojis. Other than that, just make sure you have high quality pictures. By which I mean taken by someone else, with …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:12 AM
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Not really; that's history retold by Professor Mel Gibson. In reality, we were willing partners and profiteers in all the slaving, pillaging and overthrowing that the British Empire engaged upon. We just have a good reputation and avoid backlash because of a Hollywood film. That said, I did vote to separate from the UK in 2014. England is no longer fit to run anything, even themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:47 PM
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No, Scotland.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:39 PM
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En Écosse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:33 PM
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We're likely not from the same country. Majority atheist; no history of Puritanism; more egalitarian view of gender; no restrictive laws on women's healthcare; and general weyyyyyyyy let's get fucked laddy culture. Most of what I read on here seems very prudish, to my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:25 PM
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Where I live, it is. Not uncommon for a single woman to say she's looking to get her hole filled tonight. Someone I know has a girls' group chat called "doing lines and pumping 9s". No one views them any different than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:18 PM
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Absolutely. I understand it. Crime of passion. None of my business though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:43 PM
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Well, that's life. Cross the wrong person and they'll fuck you up. Gender doesn't have anything to do with that. I don't have anything against you cheating (none of my business), and I don't have anything against a woman who Lorena Bobbitts you (none of my business). You know the risks, it's your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:40 PM
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I dunno, he just seems like the type of guy who would get left a lot. Can't put my finger on it. Probably because he's mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:34 PM
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Play with fire, you might get burnt. That's the risk you're taking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:33 PM
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Ohh did he leave? That's interesting - I assumed she left him. That changes a lot of my preconceptions about them. He really is unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:23 PM
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Might want to stay out of daily chat if you don't like to chat during the day, my lad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:08 PM
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Sending this to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:03 PM
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That's strange. No judgement from me, idgaf what other people do. Curious - how did your taste develop? Was it borne of a traumatic experience? Feel free to not answer that if it's too sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:02 PM
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Again, you're right. I agree fully with all that. I just wanted to get folk talking for my own personal amusement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:00 PM
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You're right, but all we can do is speculate from the outside. I don't really care about any of it - it's just a bunch of toilet thoughts for me. Passing the time during a slow Friday at work, as I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:52 PM
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I say "well, our pre-Valentine present is me". But in a joking way. But I do make extra sure that my actual Valentine present knocks her socks off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:45 PM
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For someone who isn't interested, you're asking a lot of questions. This is how: Can we observe a correlation between bad publicity/career setbacks and women leaving their partners. Kanye Tweeted "I'm a Nazi" a few days ago and there was a big backlash about it. Similarly, immediately after Sacha Baron Cohen received backlash for his supposedly discriminatory characters last year, Isla Fisher left him. And in another case, the husband of the former FM of my country recently got caught diddling f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:40 PM
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Tbf I didn't say that. I didn't do vows at my wedding. We did a handfasting, which is traditional where I'm from. So there's no until death stuff, or religious bindings to worry about. It's a chosen partnership. But that's just my specific situation. To answer in a more general sense: nah, even if I had a 'til death style wedding ceremony, it wouldn't matter much. Wedding vows are broken all the time, and for much less egregious offences than that. I don't see them as sacred or indefinite. Divor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:23 PM
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You need a card for that now??? Fucking nanny state.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:15 PM
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Nah, definitely not. My view is that relationships are unfixable if someone has the desire to stray. It's not a huge deal to just split and move on. Better than staying in a poor partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:14 PM
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I don't really give a fuck about the situation either, but it's a current event and relates to relationship dynamics. Something to fill 15 mins of my lunch break talking about. But your yapping has bored me of the subject too now, so it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:12 PM
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Just like that. Cheating means it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:03 PM
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I thought you people would have something to say about it, since it's quite clear that he's coercive/abusive and she's a clout/gold digger who jumps ship at the first sign of negative career impact. Thought people would find that interesting, and if they have a down syndrome mongoloid response like LOL DUNNO they'd just scroll on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:02 PM
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Divorce, obviously. That's it ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:58 PM
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A riveting controbution.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:55 PM
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When a person likes another person, they want to see/experience/have sex with them, not a random. It's just normal sexual intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:36 PM
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I think it's quite bad. I'm neither a woman nor young, and even I have pretty severe body dysmorphia. Look in the mirror and genuinely have no idea how I look. It's like face blindness, but only for myself. And if that's me, must be 100x worse for these kids who live their lives with cameras pointed in their faces, in online environments that pick apart the tiny flaws of models.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:25 PM
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There's Kanye and the woman who looked uncomfortable in the see-through dress just split up. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:23 PM
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Makes sense. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:54 PM
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Your situation is fascinating, man. Zero judgement here. But would prozzies not be a faster way to up that bodycount? Easy way to skip ahead, if being good at sex is one of the main concerns. Can practice all you like with them, and fuck it you could start tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:50 PM
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And this will be a form of revenge on womankind, correct? Interesting. Do you think you will manage to keep to this resolve when the time comes? What's your willpower like in other areas?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:42 PM
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Bit of horse before the cart there, but fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:36 PM
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Are you currently cheating on someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:33 PM
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Or just don't marry a slag. They're very easy to identify, so there's no real excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:23 PM
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Of course. It's not the done thing because of gender roles and all that pish, but I have no objection. It's sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:30 AM
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It's natural for people to care more about the opinions of the demographic whom they most desire. A man can be called ugly by 100 other guys and it will be water off a duck's back because he's got no romantic interest in men. Not so for getting called ugly by women. That hurts more because it means something to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:28 AM
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Same criteria as I'd judge someone's ability to draw. If you can look at a picture and copy it, and it looks pretty good - you can draw. Someone who can draw a picture from their mind and have it look good is an artist, and they're rarer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:22 AM
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It's inhibition. Which, I suppose you could say is an aspect of personality. They're all highly inhibited, socially anxious, and possibly autistic. High inhibition is a bigger catalyst for social and romantic disaster than looks and personality combined. It's misguided of the original post to imply that being unhinged would be a turnoff. Unhinged usually means uninhibited, which (unless accompanied by Actual Steak "I want to smell your farts" outright weirdness) is a good thing for attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:17 AM
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Nah you don't cross at the hips so it doesn't squeeze anything. Cross at the knees and keep it loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:18 AM
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Masculine: rough as fuck, big beer drinker, covered head to toe in tattoos. Feminine: love cats, love to cook, partial to sitting with my legs crossed (in private, when I am relaxed).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:14 AM
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Yeah, it's not the best. "You'll be thankful when you're older" is cold comfort to someone who wants to be taken seriously in their career but gets mistaken for a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:16 AM
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Q4A, particularly those who have loved ones with autism, or have autism themselves: How does one let an autistic loved one know that they're shouting instead of speaking without crushing their spirit? If this was you and you were roaring in someone's ear, what would be the kindest, most non-offensive way to let you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:04 AM
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It's such a weird feeling. I looked like a child up until my mid/late 20s, and now at 39 I seem to have hardly aged. Met up with some university friends the other week and a few of them genuinely looked like old men to me. Not like they had hard lives. They drink less than me ffs. Just genetics, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:00 AM
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...he said as he wheezed through bites of cheeseburger.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:10 PM
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Ok mate enjoy your premature cancer death. Not my country, not my problem. There's a reason you lot are known as the sick man of the western world, and massaging figures isn't going to change that. Not eating crap might though. But as I said - your business, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:43 PM
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I sincerely doubt the veracity of the studies that ranking was based upon. The very fact that you guys have so many ingredients that are banned here puts me off ever visiting until things are changed. Potassium bromate in your bread ffs. A known carcinogen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:35 PM
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I wish you lot the best with that. Nothing more important than the food we eat. Hope he makes some big changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:37 PM
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Vaccine stuff aside - do you think he will bring food regulations in line with the rest of the developed world? I think it would be great for you lot if he did, but I just can't see it happening. Food regulation requires, well... regulation. Taking away the freedom of the companies to pump your bodies full of shit. How is he going to tackle the anti-regulation attitude? Because that's his main obstacle, as I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:05 PM
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That's loads. He'll love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:18 PM
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I see. While I do think that's possible for both genders, I don't think immediate (being ready to go on first sight with no caveats) is really common for anyone, men included. The men on here say that - yes. But it's the demographic thing at work again. IRL the vast majority of guys are going to need at least a "hi, my name is..." Or similar before they'd be ready or willing to go. It's like the "unconditional love" thing you see said on here. I used to get blue in the face saying "THERE IS NO S…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:46 PM
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What's your definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:33 PM
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Oh, this never gave me a notification until now. Yeah, I'd say that's immediate. Things like spotting someone at a party or a club, or swiping them on OLD - basically, anything that falls within the remit of "provided this guy doesn't act like a complete freak on a leash, I would like to fuck him tonight" is what I would consider immediate attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:24 PM
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I thought Chad referred to looks only? A pretty narrow descriptor of a big muscly tanned blonde American man with a square head. Austria's best painter doesn't fit that mould.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:47 PM
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I'd like to see how they're classifying it. What counts as spontaneous and reactive etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:58 PM
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Come on Lily, you know that is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:53 PM
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Naw I definitely don't think that. You're getting me wrong. What I mean is, if (some) women on here insist that immediate lust doesn't exist (from a woman's perspective), then how do they explain short-term or immediately sexual encounters? Get my meaning now? It just doesn't add up. I don't buy the line that women are inherently asexual. Outside of Reddit, I've never saw that being widely believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:30 PM
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Unlikely to do so on this thread, because of the Reddit demographic. Not trying to be controversial, but majority of women on Reddit just aren't the type to engage in immediate sex with a stranger they find hot. Nothing wrong with that - everyone is different. But outside of that demographic, people are different. The way I've always been accustomed to things - you meet someone on a night out or on OLD; you have sex within the first few meetings; then maybe you start dating, if you get along wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:18 PM
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That's you though, and that's completely valid. But as far as I know from your posts, you don't dogmatically insist that all other women are the same as you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:01 PM
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I've saw this said a few times on here, and I don't understand it. Are they saying that no woman has ever felt immediately attracted to a man on looks alone? Because that seems like a bizarre thing to claim. Surely a majority of women will balk at that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:38 PM
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Still gonna choose allegation, I think. Being raped would fuck me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:23 PM
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Long story short: During my undergrad, I worked as chargehand in a pub. I did the dayshift, and we got a lot of alkies who would get rowdy, and it was my responsibility to make them leave. Day after I turfed one woman out, the police came in wanting to speak to me about an allegation she made against me. I shat myself, but it turned out that her allegation wasn't about me turfing her out the day before... she claimed that I had raped her when she was a child. Which was in the mid 70s - 10 years …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:16 PM
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I had a public false claim made against me when I was a teen. It was by an insane person, so was disproved in under 24 hours. I'd rather have that happen again than be raped. Rape is scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:08 PM
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Silly, because the cultural expectation is that men do the asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:34 PM
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That's true, but I think it's also important to remember that we are the lucky few - a lot of people seem to find comfort in defined roles. And some (maybe most) are unable to break out of them even when given the tools to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:24 PM
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I'm a 1. About as introverted as an individual could get. In fact no, I'm chatting on here right now, aren't I? I'll change it to a 2. No social anxiety whatsoever though. I'm the opposite - too bold, too confrontational, too loud, too gregarious. I just get tired of socialising very, very easily. I can go from laughing and joking to getting my coat and sneaking out at a moment's notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:17 PM
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This is lovely. Wife and I are very similar to you guys, in terms of dynamic. Something I have noticed, now you've shared that - the most successful pairings tend to be ones where neither party follows strict rules or expectations on how they should behave re: romance. Which makes sense. Happier people tend not to rigidly follow a proscribed set of imaginary rules governing their conduct. Who'd have thought??????????
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:13 PM
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It's too fun, and most people on here are lowkey decent. Or at least, they're interesting. I'd rather engage in this brainrot than talk to my coworkers tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:39 PM
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Makes sense, considering the cultural stereotypes of people from those regions. Am I remembering correctly - your partner is French, yes? What is the romance dynamic like with you two? I am Scottish and my wife is Polish. Both pragmatist Germanic cultures, and although we both show elements of that, largely we invert the Northern/Central European stereotype by both being romantics of the latter variety you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:35 PM
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That's interesting. What differences have you noticed?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:17 PM
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I mean this in the most non-offensive way possible, is that not a trans person? I think most of the comments are just trying to be inclusive and supportive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:12 PM
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I get it. I've been in the same job for 9 years now, and will probably stay there for another 16, when I plan to retire. Doing new things is exciting, but the money has too big a grip on me now. I'm too accustomed to the financial recompense and the type of life it affords me. If I went somewhere else, the shakeup would probably be mentally stimulating sure, but I'd likely have to give up my lifestyle and my dream of retiring early.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:03 PM
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Men take a more active role in romance (i.e. actually make it happen, and are the one responsible for keeping it alive). But in our day to day lives and attitudes, we tend to be very pragmatic and spartan. Women tend to fantasise more about romantic situations, but don't tend to put as much emphasis on making romance happen. They are the receivers of romance, rather than the instigators. By virtue of active participation, men are the more romantic gender, in my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:54 PM
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Yes, countercheating is the only possible way to salvage his dignity at this point. She cheats, so he must cheat back. Then they can reconcile, and he must cheat one more time. Then dignity will be restored. An eye for two eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:51 PM
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In my view, the best relationships are the ones where both partners are convinced that they love each other more. No room for detachment there, because detachment leads to estrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:00 AM
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Hope I have enough good will here to share some shinfo without getting a "reeeee gtfo normie" response. Don't do it often; don't intend to do it often. Tonight something small happened that made me realise how long the impact of being in a shitty relationship lasts. Sometimes I bring food home from a sushi place near my work. I have always done this. But when I was with my ex, if I made even a small mistake like getting her 2 packs of light soy sauce and 1 dark instead of 2 dark 1 light, she wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:07 PM
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Tastes good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:10 PM
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Mate when are you actually going to escape? I am here for your prison break story arc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:24 PM
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King of the Hill master race. It didn't run for long enough to become bad. Still holds up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:55 PM
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Nah, it's not fun having your autonomy denied. As much as I semi-jokingly support Lorena Bobbitt, being stalked/obsessed over is genuinely scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:48 PM
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I feel the same, but it's just not worth the risk. I have meticulous, borderline obsessive tendencies. That will either result in the best dad ever, or Chris Benoit mark 2. Why take the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:45 PM
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Seeing this attitude more and more in recent years, and I love it. So infuriating to be told that I'd be a good dad by someone who doesn't know me. I KNOW ME.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:40 PM
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It's weird - looking back, me and all my pals were insanely jealous of him at 14. But by the time we reached 19 ourselves, we thought people like him were the most pathetic daftarses on the planet. Infuriating that these people slip under the radar, but what can ya do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:38 PM
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But yes, I suppose the old Butcher's Apron is fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:36 PM
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Sick, but there's genuinely nothing that can be done. When I was 14, there was a 19 year old who had shagged a lot of the girls in my school year. He had the nickname Tampon because "he was the first thing up a young girl's cunt". Absolutely disgusting, and illegal. But if the parents know and don't care then... forget it Jake, it's Chinatown.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:17 PM
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Opinions on childfree men? Just asking, not offering any judgement or arguments on your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:02 PM
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I'll add: being in a (successful) band.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:39 PM
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Brainwashed in to believing it's the thing a good lefty feminist partner would agree to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:54 PM
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To be fair, who wants to fight and possibly die for some rich cunt who views me as disposable cannon fodder. I'd fight to protect myself/wife/pets, but that's it. Jail where I live isn't so bad - I'd rather be there than at war.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:48 PM
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When I was younger, I was always conditioned to believe that it was the second worst possible thing someone could do to their partner. I'm not so sure about that any more. We've become a much more snoopy, snitchy society since then. And accustomed to being monitored and spied upon. I read a statistic the other day saying that roughly 30% of Gen Z supported the idea of the government installing CCTV cameras inside people's private homes. So maybe it's not so bad any more, given the current genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:31 PM
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Wonder why that square one in almost the centre of the US is less fat than its neighbours.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:05 PM
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Never went to a restaurant on a first date. Always been either: pub, coffee, a walk, or my/their house. I understand avoiding chains though. Going to Starbucks on a first date is tacky. Long drive/family function/church/the cinema is also shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:00 AM
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Married. Pre-empting the question: I'm the one who keeps strictly to the 3 day rule. She's the one who will pick mould off things and eat them. Name a more iconic duo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:39 PM
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Timon and Pumba gave me unrealistic friendship expectations though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:46 PM
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Just discovered a sofrito base I made 4 days ago and kept in tupperware at the back of the fridge. I don't usually consume past 3 days, but we're taking a risk tonight. Fuck it, we'll do it live.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:38 PM
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Average full-time housekeeper earns about 2K per month where I'm from (according to Google). Average prostitute where I'm from earns about £100 per errrr... "go". Again, according to Google. Assuming the Platinum service user will want a sexual act once per day, I'd put that at 700 a week. So for full-time Platinum, cost is £1200 per week. For Diamond - factoring in the exclusivity - I think about £1500 per week is fair. Bangmaid will be earning £78k per year, which is excellent. Puts her in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:16 PM
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Ah, I see. You got a flopper. Happens to us all mate. Nerves, booze, the moon was wrong, a spiderweb distracted you. Don't worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:01 PM
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I know, right. Entitled because I didn't want to become the centrepiece of her show, apparently. Just wanted to be left alone ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:36 PM
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That was my gut reaction too, but she was screaming "LALALALALA I'M NOT LISTENING" type stuff in to the mic to drown me out when I tried. Plus my wife was begging me to keep calm. Couldn't believe the white remark too. I live in a country that is 99% white. Every single person in the audience was white. She was white.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:22 PM
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I mean this in the kindest way possible, but in a mental sense I think you're probably too young to be thinking about dating yet. Which is fine, we all develop at different rates. Just stick in at college and worry about that stuff afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:16 PM
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Had something similar happen last year. Took my wife to a burlesque cabaret show and one of the performers started heckling the audience. Which is fair enough if that's part of their act, but the audience was very small (20ish people) and she wouldn't move on from me. It became tiresome and frankly a bit weird. I said "okay love, time to move on to someone else now" and she exploded. Went on a tirade about entitled straight white men not being welcome at her show. Not much you can do about that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:09 PM
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So the sex didn't go well then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:29 PM
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My tastes lean more toward sexy. Without sex appeal, it's just not going to go anywhere for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:26 PM
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Women who love their partners do this. They are out there, despite what the divine feminine energy girlies on the Internet say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:47 AM
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Just the way it is, man. Women typically don't seem to enjoy movies as much as men. And if they do, it's rarely the same type of movie that we like. It's disappointing, but it is what it is. Maybe you'll get lucky and find one who will force herself to sit through a film every now and then to make you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:58 PM
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Mate see if she's a goth - just get her black roses. Keep it simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:47 PM
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Don't do that. Too easily interpreted as a threat. I think sending flowers to workplace is actually a good move. Not anonymously though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:28 PM
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Freeze frame at the moment the pregnant one mentally died inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:14 PM
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HAHAHHHA well fair enough! Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:55 PM
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Ohhh, is this the coffee shop guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:48 PM
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Did you match respond?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:47 PM
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Nah, opposite. I have an iron will when I put my mind to something. But I tend to prefer hedonism. It's conscious hedonism though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:04 PM
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150 Euros a month and she can take up to 25 hours to reply lol. It's like me offering a butler service, but with the caveat that I will fetch your sandwich as and when I can be bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:42 PM
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Only if you let that happen. The only person I know who thinks life after university isn't as good as it was during works in a condom factory. Life is what you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:31 PM
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Absolutely not. I'd go volcel. I'm lucky enough to be married to my ideal partner, but it took years of careful trial and error to find her. The chance of lightning striking twice is extremely low. Couldn't do it all again. Love of my life then back to "what's your favourite colour" - nah, not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:14 AM
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You're completely right man. The things folk on here complain about now re:dating were prevalent back then too. People have always been shallow, dishonest, flaky, manipulative, and dating has always been about finding someone who isn't like that. I've even been told bizarre stuff on here like people didn't ghost when I was dating. Ehhhh, yes they did. It's nothing new. Their belief in the uniqueness of their struggle isn't based on reality, but the combo of indoctrination and inertia that most o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:59 AM
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I used OLD from 2016-2021 and had a great time, but been told on here that it's an entirely different landscape these days, and that I'd likely be a 2025 incel. Apparently attitudes have shifted dramatically in the last 4 years, and the dating market is unrecognisable now. Can't really confirm or deny because (obviously) I haven't used OLD since then. But that's the reason why I don't tend to give other PPD men any advice unless they specifically ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:21 PM
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Perhaps you're right. When I was younger, I (and other people around me) didn't really take as much care for the feelings of others as young people seem to do these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:55 PM
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Ultima 7, The 11th Hour, Grim Fandango.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:51 PM
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Dunno. Been cheated on in the past and had it explained to me. "He was there are you weren't" was the jist of it. Also cheated myself (in the past), and my own justification was the same: she was there, so why not. I don't think people's morals are as deep-seated as we commonly believe. The opportunity arises and people just take it without thinking. Usually regret it after.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:48 PM
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Yeah. I used to do taxidermy. IRL people find it cool though. Reactions on the Internet are: 😮😱😠😠
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:21 PM
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Scotland.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:57 PM
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Different country. We go to high school at 11/12 here. No middle school. Straight from primary to secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:48 PM
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Early for the demographics of this place, but I was a late bloomer for where and when I grew up. We had 13/14 year old "parents" in my school year.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:44 PM
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Hell yeah Pam Grier!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:32 AM
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Excellent choice. Double bill it with another JC classic. I suggest the underappreciated Prince of Darkness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:38 PM
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Pub is the traditional third space. They're on the decline though. Recent poll I saw in a local newspaper showed that Zoomers find walking in to a pub to be one of the top 3 most intimidating things in everyday life. So they're definitely on their way out unless there's a massive cultural shift, which I doubt will happen. I think without the Internet, we'd be very fragmented.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:48 PM
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I don't really think either tbh. It makes sense that lots of people on a niche social media app are high earners, because it attracts nerdy tech types. And I don't see anyone on here at least trying to pass themselves off as shaggers extraordinaire. Just ask 'em to video call you and show you their house/partner if you think someone's lying. Call their bluff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:58 PM
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It happens, but it's rare. So be cautious, but don't worry yourself sick over it. Don't leave your drink unattended when out (even if friends say they will watch it - friends are often lax), keep your hand over the top when in busy areas, don't accept drinks from strangers unless you've watched it being opened. And there's these wee net safety things with straws that you can get to put over your drink. I think lots of universities give them out for free nowadays anyway. Just keep your wits about…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:30 PM
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This is hilarious. She missed a trick not firing back with "does G stand for gay?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:23 PM
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Nah, let him set the pace. If he mentions it, that's how you'll know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:08 PM
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I grew up below working class - basically Jerry Springer guest scum. First in my family to have a job that they weren't forced to get in order to claim benefits, never mind first to go to university etc. Although I'm not a multimillionaire, I've got a good job, career, house, investments, savings etc. But it was the experience of growing up with literally nothing that made me want to protect these things. I've seen folk kick seven shades of shite out of each other over a pack of fags, so I know …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:15 PM
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Go buy a hotdog from this guy, if you can: https://youtu.be/VHkwt6yxVWk?si=SoN4zVKRUAFLfeQz
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:25 AM
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Always, Lily! And legal migrants are fine too 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:20 AM
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Stop the boats. I voted Reform.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:15 AM
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I can't say any of my controversial takes because Reddit will ban me. I don't support my country's position on immigration. I'll leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:10 AM
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Look at you go. Well done! (Don't ask him his opinion on any brown dresses until at least message 10)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:00 AM
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I agree with the Candice person on this one. I know tons of women like Lily Phillips (although they haven't taken it to the extreme lengths that she has). Every British guy knows women like this tbh, as every town and village has a few. Botoxed-up Instagram influencers turned Onlyfans stars. They all end up with the exact same type of partner: minor celeb turned mid-level drug dealer with a small coke and prostitute habit. It's such a cultural phenomenon that there's memes about it. And you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:24 AM
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Mate if you are ever up in Glasgow or nearby then send me a message! We'll get that pint.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:25 PM
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Yes, why not. Go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:35 PM
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Good comment imo. This is it in a nutshell: leave situation - wait feelings out - use emotional energy to do something positive for yourself or loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:09 PM
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Could be, yeah. But they don't fight each other as frequently either. Less testosterone probably a big factor, but I believe socialisation plays a part too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:06 PM
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Sometimes I really feel like me and Kanye would get along very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:59 PM
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Why are we like this though. For women, someone can insult or disrespect them in public and it's just water off a duck's back. They can just tell them to fuck off, walk away and not think about it again. For me, I am fizzing with anger for days if not weeks unless there is an immediate physical confrontation. I don't know any man who isn't the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:53 PM
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You're totally right. I forget who it was, but I was talking to a woman on here who said she thought she could handle herself in a fight against a man. I advised her against it based on biological differences, but it the male psychosocial aspect of it didn't occur to me until a few days later. When men attack random women, it's usually because they want to rape them. That's why it's so important for women to learn to throw a punch - because if they can fight back at all, after taking a few shots…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:47 PM
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Equal parts her, him, everyone who disbelieves me, and the police. Fuck them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:34 PM
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It's toast. Beans and toast. https://youtu.be/fXPQLXjC_KA?si=H0MpsnoNTPgESH4L
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:28 PM
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Ah, right. Think Big Ben's been broken for about 10 years now though. Doubt most of the younger Brit demographic getting called that by inexplicably triggered Americans even know what it is any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:21 PM
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Wasn't me, was just a thread I was reading. But what's that? A retard stoner?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:14 PM
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His boundary is fine, but it's the way he went about expressing it. I don't like going down when someone is on their period. I've just said "I've got a bit of a thing about blood, so is it cool if I don't do that this time?" and it has never been received poorly. If he had worded it in a similar way, I bet this would be a non-issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:10 PM
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Likely insufferable personality. Usually the answer in these situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:54 PM
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They were really going full offended patriot the other week when UK folk were asking if they'd ever heard of Robbie Williams. Responses were all "NO why would we you Londonistan bad teeth no seasoning Muslim cuck what happened in 1776 fuck the queen tea in the harbour lol u mad bro????" Fucking hell, it was just a question. The guy's a national joke in Britain, and he just released a biopic internationally. People were wondering if he was also seen as a joke in other countries. But Americans are…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:42 PM
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Women are fucking themselves over with their indirect communication styles. Office is moving premises and stayed late with a female coworker to supervise all the stuff getting taken away by the movers. I'm in the other room hauling boxes and can hear her talking to one of the movers who is dragging a heavy table across the floor. "Do you want to use the dolly?" Nah love I'm fine. "Are you sure you don't want to use the dolly?" Nah I've got it. "Are you absolutely sure you wouldn't like to use th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:07 PM
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I don't go to bars/clubs because I don't enjoy loud music, but I do go to the pub regularly. Once every 10ish days. Have always done this - single and taken - because I enjoy it. I sometimes go with friends, but often I'll just go myself and talk to people there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:17 PM
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Hell yeah man. They're a great brewery. I picked up a few crackers from M&S of all places last weekend. A bit pricey, but it's like drinking a glass of chocolate - if you like Riggwelter then it's a good one to try: https://preview.redd.it/ide86ix2okhe1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=83dd9ce70cef960542d99d51fb854246bfaedd18
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:42 PM
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Omg Riggwelter. One of my favourites. A perfect Old Ale. Treacle-y with a hint of sour. Love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:19 PM
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You're not alone in this. My social circle is full of millennial women who are pro-choice, have degrees, run businesses, didn't take their partner's names etc etc, and none of them will call themselves feminist any more due to the shifting definition of the term and its primary demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:11 PM
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At the start? Like first date/first few weeks? Obvious one there is being intimate in the first few meetings. Once the relationship progresses? How often they touch you, how often they initiate intimacy, how often they kiss you, verbal affirmation, compliments on your appearance. Ease of orgasm too, I suppose. How central she places you in her life as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:14 PM
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Totally different language, but like all Indo-European languages it comes from the same family tree. So the words will be largely unrecognisable to English speakers, but there will be certain similarities. Tha mi a dol a-mach, for instance, means "I'm going out". Mostly different, but you might notice that "mi" is similar to the English "I", and it means roughly the same thing. Word order is different as well, mainly because it has masculine/feminine words plus cases (nominative, genitive, dativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:48 PM
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English is my native language, but it's my joint first language. I grew up in a household that spoke both English and Scots Gaelic, so learned them in tandem. I speak (bad) Polish with my wife sometimes. And I speak some Italian because I have Italian clients and it's just polite to do so when I visit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:32 PM
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Last week I got one from 4 days previous. It was a Q4M I posted which was tangential to something discussed deep in a comment section of one of the main threads. Moderation was "no discussion of main topics in daily". Lol, it's from 4 days ago. The horse has already bolted the stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:10 PM
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No; he's slightly better looking right now. Although if she lost 30-40 pounds, she'd easily eclipse him. Such is the power of obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:38 AM
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You're still going on about this? Listen, I just think you're a bit of a bad person. Nothing is going to change that. And it's not a big deal. Who cares. It is what it is. So please, leave me alone now. That means no more messages, no more questions, no more conversations, no more speculations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:30 AM
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Not go on the trip. Not spend any time with him. Not fantasise online about him. Not think about him. That's what I would have done differently from you. The exact stuff I said in my first comment, which I am now just repeating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:50 PM
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I don't think you understand what I just said. My initial attraction to the client was involuntary. I chose to take the steps that would erase that attraction. I assume you know how mental illnesses and addictions are treated, yes? Remove the unwanted thought process until the brain builds new neural pathways that don't involve it. The basics of CBT and addiction rehab. That's what I did. When I saw the client again, the attraction I felt was simply not there at all any more. I chose to take the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:39 PM
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No, that's not how it works. I'll give an example from when I was with my ex. I work a job that involves going on trips with clients. A woman who worked for a specific client made it clear that she was attracted to me. I also thought (privately) that she was very attractive, and knowing that she was in to me gave me the same tingles you're experiencing right now. As soon as I felt that, I made the conscious decision to destroy that attraction, out of respect for my ex. I passed that client on to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:21 PM
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Wife and I have sex about 4-5 times a week. No erection issues. No taboo porn interests. No homosexual feelings. Don't know what else you want to know. If you deem me sexually abnormal, then in the kindest way possible: I really couldn't give a fuck. So be it. It doesn't matter a jot to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:51 PM
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That's a new one. Last week on here I was getting called a sex addicted pervert. Now I'm asexual. One extreme to the other. If we're sharing thoughts, then I think you're too easily emotive, and that kneejerk reaction attitude is going to lead you to ruin your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:34 PM
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You do have control over who you are attracted to. And there's a whole field of cognitive science dedicated to training one's brain out of the habit of unwanted thoughts. I really don't care if you accept my judgement or not. It is what it is. Good luck with this sticky stituation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:25 PM
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When you're in a marriage or serious relationship, you don't let the mental crushes go this far. That's a sign of low moral character. Fantasising to the point that you need to confess it to strangers online is bad. The fact that of all the people on Earth, it's your husband's friend - very bad. The fact that instead of removing yourself from the situation, you're going on a trip where he will be present - extremely bad. A decent person would be training their brain to rewire these thoughts. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:04 PM
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Happened one of my first weeks on OLD. Had a date on the Thursday of a bank holiday weekend (for those not in UK - that's a public holiday from Fri through Mon). Had a great time, she stayed at mine, slept together etc. Next day she suggested spending the day together. I said fuck it why not, and she stayed over that night again. Saturday morning when she left, she suggested meeting up again on Sunday. I said yep, sounds good. Never heard from her again. Completely ghosted. Weird as fuck. Maybe …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:39 PM
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No one actually behaves like that bar weirdos on the Internet. First date with my wife ages (35 and 27) we spoke about goats, ghosts, ranked British TV celebrity sex offenders by the severity of their crimes, and ridiculed Disney adults. If someone had asked me what I brought to the table, I would have slid under aforementioned table and slunk straight out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:33 PM
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Perhaps. We're all different, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:08 PM
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Naw I'm fully on board with you. The ideal woman is picky, and picks you. I think that 0.6% swipe rate from you is about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:07 PM
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It's not just sexual. Remember the social benefits of being with an attractive person; people openly state that they're jealous of you; you get treated better by proxy; get to feel like you've "won" at life. There is a psychosocial aspect to lust that is often overlooked. Covetousness is a powerful motivator on the human psyche. And moreover, basking in the light of someone else's halo effect makes you never want to lose that feeling. Conversely, when someone isn't such a (in a psychosocial sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:04 PM
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Something Avril Lavigne-coded about this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:57 PM
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We treat people we view as attractive better than those we view as unattractive/neutral. We just do. It's a human flaw. Halo effect, all that jazz. Respect them more too. And two things everyone wants in a relationship is to be treated well, and to be respected. Relationships just seem to work better when there's strong mutual lust. That's my view on it, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:55 PM
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Don't catastrophise. You applied where you did for a reason. And you must have thought they were good enough when you made the applications. Trust your past decisions. The most important thing is that when you get to uni, make the most of your education. Study hard and get good grades. That is worth more than a fancy schmancy name. And if you feel otherwise, you can do what I did and transfer to another uni after your first year 🌚
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:35 PM
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Had it IRL from the women in my office. Came back from the supermarket with some flowers and sushi which I planned to bring home to my wife that evening. It was noticed, and one of my co-workers said "awww you are such a great husband." Two others immediately said "NO, STOP PRAISING HIM, THAT IS LITERALLY THE BARE MINIMUM!!!" Might be an overused phrase, but that attitude is exactly why they're chronically single. Energy vampires.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:48 PM
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Glad I'm not the worst person on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:23 PM
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That sounds fun. I'm overdue a Reddit sabbatical on account of wasting too much time on here; some absolute unhinged nonsense would be a nice sendoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:54 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/jh8spk8ehbhe1.jpeg?width=693&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0c2bf3480070eb9b9af921c00d9f44ed262bccdc Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:48 PM
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Can't imagine how shite that would feel. But tough love time: you rightfully dunk on the men here for being lazy and only pursuing what's right in front of them. But you kinda do the same. Hooking up with guys near you who want to keep it on the DL is not viable longterm. If you want better, you're gonna have to do the graft on those international dating sites. Get the profiles going, build connection from chats etc. And it's going to be torture because you're going to wish the person you connec…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:43 PM
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Said it before: you need to date internationally. They're treating you poorly because they know they can get away with it due to the culture. There's plenty of fat Turkish bossmans in the West for you. Some of them have got to be gay and nice people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:31 PM
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Yeah, based on that photo. He looks really good for (presumably) nearly 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:27 PM
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My fucking god she dropped off. Attractive young woman to looking like the hermit madwoman character in a horror film who warns the protagonists not to go in to the woods.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:16 PM
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I wonder what they look like. People who make webcomics never look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:38 AM
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Didn't need the reminder, but if I did then this would be it. Fuck no. Never, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:03 AM
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Opposite of my experience on Tinder. The more generic I made myself sound, the better the results. That's encouraging though. Perhaps the world really is healing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:24 AM
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B is also my wife. I can hear her in the living room now going "BLEHM BLEHM BLEHM BLEHM BLEHM BLEHM BLEHM" for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:05 PM
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"buys lots of dolls on eBay..."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:04 PM
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And one for my mans: Q4A: Which woman would you prefer as a partner - Woman A has fairly severe autism which results in a flat affect, extreme noise sensitivity (has to wear headphones at all times when outside), will only eat certain foods so new restaurants are out of the question, and is blunt to an inappropriate degree. Woman B is whacked out of her gourd on ADHD. She's like an energiser bunny personified. Never stops talking from dawn till dusk, and when she's not talking she makes noises l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:01 PM
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Cooking dinner so time for a random question. Q4W: Which is more unappealing - Man A, who makes regular use of prostitutes. or Man B, who finds prostitutes disgusting. Man A isn't notably undesirable in any way, nor is he an incel. He's just a busy bloke and sees prostitution as a means to scratch an itch. Man B doesn't advertise his disgust for prostitutes, and never makes any out of pocket denigrating remarks, but when you mentioned someone you know who works as an escort, he raised his eyebro…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:06 PM
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For fuck's sake. I post a question and BOOM new thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:05 PM
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Cooking dinner so time for a random question. Q4W: Which is more unappealing - Man A, who makes regular use of prostitutes. or Man B, who finds prostitutes disgusting. Man A isn't notably undesirable in any way, nor is he an incel. He's just a busy bloke and sees prostitution as a means to scratch an itch. Man B doesn't advertise his disgust for prostitutes, and never makes any out of pocket denigrating remarks, but when you mentioned someone you know who works as an escort, he raised his eyebro…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:03 PM
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Yes, it's kinda true. But also - having figured that out, it's relatively easy to play the role.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:17 PM
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Will you join the queue to assist with her next planned act of feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:19 PM
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Fuck, that thing looks huge too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:09 PM
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Man I would do it for 100k, but yeah sure - give me that billion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:51 PM
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Femcel woe is me rhetoric. Unconditional love is not a smart or admirable thing. Babies and animals - yes. But not for sentient human adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:50 PM
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Massive negative for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:03 PM
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"I'm married" doesn't even put some guys off. They just say "well he isn't here now, is he????" Dog eat dog world, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:27 PM
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I mean that's clearly Paulie Walnuts on the right. She's even doing his signature hand gesture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:24 PM
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Only once, because I was unwell. The Devil Wears Prada. Shouldn't have been out the house that day tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:22 PM
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It's an AI genderswapped picture of the cast of the Sopranos. I recognise it from my old DVD boxset. James Gandolfini with a wig on is not the average woman man, come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:14 PM
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You guys are so friendly!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:43 PM
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Marriage. I was told that it's the worst thing you could possibly do as a man, that your wife will immediately lose interest in you, that she'll be horrible, abusive and demanding the second the ring hits her finger, that I will lose all my independence and be permanently miserable. But I've not experienced anything like that 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:43 PM
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I think that's a fantastic response after only 3 months! I'm not sure what you mean re: not meeting you halfway - he seems to be responding promptly, making the effort to call you, and being honest. That's most people's ideal situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:40 PM
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Personally, I'd have let the opportunity pass and regretted it for days. Talking to women who look at you in pubs and clubs is one thing, but it's a whole different ball game when they do it in day to day normal life. Northern European social taboo about not talking to strangers unless you're drunk is too ingrained in me. I suppose the best idea would be to say something like "Hey, I recognise you - where do I know you from?" and take the convo from there. Gives you an easy way out if it goes so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:19 AM
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She liked what she saw, in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:11 AM
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Are you from a place where people tend to smile at random strangers, or where they tend to keep to themselves? If it's the former, then no - probably not IOI. If it's the latter, then yes - even though there's no smile, probably IOI.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:05 AM
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Totally agree, it's so weird. Years ago I was seeing someone who had to have it pitch black. No light from the TV, no crack in the curtains - nothing. Made it unenjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:56 AM
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It's a mental health condition in which a caregiver exaggerates the illness of those under their care in order to foster further dependence on them. In extreme cases, it can lead to poisoning. The most famous example in recent years is Gypsy Rose Blanchard's mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:32 AM
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Do you think you have a bit of Munchausen by proxy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:27 AM
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Oh, right. What a weird thing to do. Advertising yourself as a whore for a joke, Jesus fuck 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:26 AM
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The person with "Asian virgin pussy for sale" as their flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:18 AM
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That person is a prostitute; I wouldn't take anything they say seriously. Or even engage with them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:13 AM
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<image> This guy from an Andy Warhol art project in the 60s looks so much like me that my own mother thought it was Photoshopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:14 AM
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Bizarre PPD questions are my favourite. From seeing me in real life, maybe 300ish. If we include OLD likes then 1000ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:07 AM
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Don't fuck with your body chemistry until you need to do so. If there's no signs, you don't need it. My father and grandfather were bald at 25, while I've still got a full head with no receding at 39. Just wait and see. You might be lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:37 PM
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Really enjoyed it. Wasn't a fan of the new Orlok design at first, but it has grown on me. Eggers consistently showing he's one of the best horror directors of the 21st century.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:36 PM
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Yes, that's fine! It's all about the looks (by which I mean - we look like we'd conceivably be a couple, not mother and son) and the lifestyle. If a woman was actually 50 but looked 34ish (and didn't have kids) that would be fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:50 PM
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Nah, two reasons. I look freakishly young for my age. I dated women ~35 when I was that age, and it was awkward. Lots of comments from people. Best for me to stay with the age I look, which is broadly 26-34. Reason two: lots of women my age have kids, and even grandkids. I am childfree. Couldn't do it. I'm not the daddy type. Or the granddaddy type.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:44 PM
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Typical British Guardian readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:40 PM
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39 I'd go volcel if I was in the position to date again, but for the purpose of answering the question: 26 youngest, 34 oldest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:39 PM
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In a way, it's better than rotting though. At least Red Pill makes them try something. Some guys find the whole drill sergeant "hard truth" angle motivating, and at minimum that stops them from becoming hikikomori types. Personally, I refuse to believe that even 1% of them keep it up when they get in to a relationship or marriage. There's no way anyone has the mental fortitude to perform like that for an extended period, never mind their entire lives. That's why it doesn't bother me too much. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:24 PM
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Personally, I think it's fine. If you have a bad impression/past bad experiences with a group of people, it is understandable if you avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:17 PM
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100%, it's junk bro science based on concepts from a middling movie series. I remember hearing about Red Pill in my early Internet days (late 90s-early 2000s), and back then it just seemed to be an extension of the PUA thing. A bit weird, but not anywhere near the insanity it is today. It has turned very pseudo-scientific these days. Hilarious, but I'm not in the business of changing anyone's beliefs - even if those beliefs are based on spurious things like wrist measurements and canthal tilts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:15 PM
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The poor fucking brother. Having his face plastered all over the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:09 PM
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Hohoho Jesus fuck, I did not know that either. Never paid these people any attention because neither the Matrix nor the anime they make hold any appeal to me. Didn't think it was "anti-woke" per se; just thought it was a somewhat naive but ultimately serviceable criticism of capitalism, worker exploitation and automation. Although a lot of the race stuff and transhumanism makes sense now, knowing that the creators are looney troons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:06 PM
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I've actually never read or saw Fight Club tbf. That's interesting. The woke DEI seminar white guilt interpretation of The Matrix makes me like the film even less now though, which I scarcely thought possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:54 PM
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Haha, well I'm a married man so definitely not. And even if I wasn't, that kind of thing doesn't interest me. I'd love to catch them in the act actually doing something one day though. Dirty bastards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:42 PM
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No, but my jogging route goes past a carpark which is known as a popular dogging hotspot. Always people hanging around when it's dark, but I've never actually saw anything going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:39 PM
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Taking this out of the dating context, I disagree. I'm an "old man" (for this place anyway - 39) and I think that Palahniuk's cynicism is kind of unwarranted considering that the era in which the novel was written was one of unprecedented peace and stability for the Western world. Looking back, I feel the same way about a lot of 90s media which espoused countercultural messages. What are they complaining about? They didn't know how good they had it. Using another example from the same era - The …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:29 PM
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Doesn't happen face to face anywhere near as much, but it still happens a lot from guys in cars. They shout something then speed off, or shout from the window while speeding past. According to my wife, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:03 PM
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Do young people these days not learn what happens to snitches? Between this and the girl the other week who was considering reporting her uni roommate for having alcohol in the fridge... smh. You've marked yourself out to middle management as a brown-nose/male Karen. Expect a lot more unpaid busywork to be sent your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:38 AM
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I don't consider blowjobs (or any other non-PIV act) to be part of body count. As for the follow-up question: I really don't know. He's still technically a virgin, in my eyes. But I wouldn't say he qualifies as "incel". I thought "Chad" was more to do with looks, so I'm not sure that would even apply here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:10 AM
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Not a fucking chance she'll be able to handle it. Grandparents raising it within a year, MMW.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:13 AM
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Doesn't work that way mate. Surely you know someone with autistic kids? You can try to discipline/reality check/tough love the autism out of people all you want, but it'll never work. Their brains are different. I'm sure she'd prefer not to have the headphones on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:05 AM
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There's a guy in an Andy Warhol art piece photo collection from the 1950s who is my literal double. Even my own mother thought someone had inserted a picture of me as a joke the first time she saw it. So probably him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:28 PM
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Well, I think gory horror films are quite a tame interest tbh. And it's only a mild foot fetish, which isn't that bad (and it doesn't run my life, not like a requirement for me to get off). But yes, embarrassingly enough I have been jailed for fighting a few times in the past, and charged once. I was a silly, silly boy when I was a student/early 20s :\
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:19 PM
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I know Lily, but I just don't like fancy phones. Mine is a cheap Chinese brand from Amazon. I'm sorry to disappoint everyone like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:13 PM
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124 which apparently makes me "Chad" (lol). Ones that brought me down: not a nice person, don't have kids, do have criminal record, have shitty off-brand phone, under 6ft, enjoy gory horror films, have a fetish, don't have attractive face. Lot of nonsense though, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:09 PM
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That she views sex as a reward. Transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:43 PM
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No. My wife has an accent that is widely considered to be extremely irritating. Doesn't even register to me any more. Ear gets used to it after a few weeks. Never was something I considered a serious negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:57 PM
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Atheist here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:40 PM
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What makes it so difficult is that he's likely going to interpret it as if you're being petty or controlling. It won't be intentional, but he'll feel you're trying to punish him for helping his cousin. I'd say flat out: "Hey, this is your cousin and I know you love them and want to help. That's great, and you're sweet for being like that. However, I'm starting to feel like the work I'm doing at the restaurant is going straight in to your cousin's pocket. I liked helping you for free, but while t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:32 PM
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Tough one. Looks clear that you're becoming resentful because your unpaid labour is going to fund the leech cousin. Maybe it's time to communicate that directly to him. What you're feeling is reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:09 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:42 PM
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Don't necessarily agree. She sounds a bit stupid - I doubt she knows what extrovert actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:29 PM
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I've heard it, but "locking the stable door after the horse has bolted" is more common here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:25 PM
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Ah right, I see. Joke didn't land very well because it's a bizarre thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:04 PM
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He wasn't a third worlder. Born and bred Scot. Usually the foreign taxi drivers are silent, which is a point in their favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:44 PM
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Volunteered the vasectomy info because the part of me that I really dislike wanted to antagonise him in to having an argument with me, because I'm a bit wrong that way. I'm trying not to tell people to shut the fuck up any more. Trying to turn over a new leaf and be nice, go along with their woe is me life story yapping shite. Always been an over-confrontational cunt and it's brought me nothing but trouble. Jail time and lost friendships/relationships in the past. Although on the other hand, bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:00 PM
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I get more done without coworkers yapping my ear off. Also means I can cook/clean/relax in between working, which gives my mind a rest. Don't have to wear a suit. Don't have to suffer fluorescent lighting. Don't have coworkers coughing and sneezing all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:27 AM
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Aw, me for sure. I'm the one who is responsible for any emotion I feel. Problem is that anger is energising and addictive for me, and my historic bad habit was to go along with it and let it snowball. I don't do that any more though. An hour later now and I've processed it; it's more exasperating and semi-funny than anger-inducing now. We're back to chill mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:23 AM
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Unfortunately, I can't handle weed at all. Makes me unable to mentally multitask or even think about more than one thing at the same time, and then the loss of control/vulnerability I feel from that makes me freak out. Tried it numerous times over the years, to the same effect each time. Very jealous of those who feel relaxed when smoking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:40 AM
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Few things tick me off more than overly familiar cunts who don't know when to shut up. Have a meeting at a different office today, so got a taxi in. Driver blabbering on about kids the whole way. Asks me if I've got kids. Naw. Asks me if I want kids. Naw, got a vasectomy. That set the daftarse off; telling me I'm way too young to make that kind of decision, and asking me why I did it. Most people would take my answer - that I'm not fit to be a father because I have absolutely no patience and a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:20 AM
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That response confirms it. They're definitely both school shooters or something. Neither like Mondays.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:12 AM
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Yes perfect looksmatch; both 5s. But I feel it's a trick question because they both look like they could be prolific child sex offence offenders or something. Very 4channy vibe in the selfies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:07 AM
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Huge disparity. Him 8.5, her 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:45 PM
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Close. Him 7.5, her 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:42 PM
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I'll give the logic some credence: Laws where I live are very, very lax when it comes to casual violence. Because there are no real consequences, daily you encounter guys who never grew out of that psycho bully mentality. And a not insignificant number of women here are turned on by that. Caveat: these are not the type of women you would want to spend any time around. They are usually awful people and/or absolutely hackett in a physical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:16 PM
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No, I wouldn't say so. Him 3, her 6.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:11 PM
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Doesn't really work that way. A weedy kid can grow in to a normal confident adult. He's probably had a dozen scraps outside pubs that have toughened him up to the reality of life. Just saying - don't take what you could do as a kid as evidence of what you're capable of as an adult. Might I suggest taking up boxing? Obviously you like yo keep fit, have unspent aggression. Imo it would be a good release for you. Also very few women with boyfriends present for you to ruminate over - better than the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:56 PM
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Childhood fights are a different story man. When you're an adult cunts will jump on your head until you're pan breed. Just not a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:44 PM
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Why isn't this formatted in the usual manner
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:43 PM
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Reality check: most sexless/romanceless guys aren't confident enough to be decent at fighting either. Don't advise you continuing down this though path. Respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:30 PM
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He got arrested for drunk driving, but his co-star Allison Mack - who played his innocent nerdy friend and looks completely pretty and harmless - went to jail for trafficking women into a sex cult. Possibly the weirdest turn of events ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:55 AM
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Still, it's not the worst thing someone from Smallville has been arrested for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:49 AM
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Making the decisions is one thing, but trusting them is another. When I was a kid, most of us started to be sexually active at 14-15. I was first given condoms by the school nurse at 15, and my first girlfriend went on the pill when she was 14, for example. I think at those ages the parents really still have to monitor the kids. Especially if it's something like the pill - she's gotta take it every day, and young teens are prone to being absent-minded. If I had a girl, I'd probably be overbearin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:31 AM
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This is fan fic. Teenage "relationships" were nothing like that ime. Mostly they were shit. Didn't get good until 22-23.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:22 AM
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I recommend it to everyone. Very emotional show.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:10 PM
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Guy who plays Michael has a new mystery show that is Lost-esque. Not as good as the OG, but somewhat fills that hole. You might like that too (although it's on a 2 year hiatus at the moment).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:07 PM
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How can you call yourself a mid-late millennial and not know Sawyer from Lost. Tut tut.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:05 PM
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Sawyer 100000/10. And the woman is very attractive too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:04 PM
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Pyramid scheme recruitment message opener.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:32 PM
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What qualifies it as an addiction, in your mind? How many times a week do you view it? Can you go without viewing it? What's the longest you've went without viewing it? Feel free to not answer any of these if they're too sensitive to be asking a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:49 PM
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Already been done. It's called Onlyfans. Convinced women that the most feminist thing they could do was sell photos of their chocolate starfish for 3.99, as opposed to say... training to become an underwater welder on an oil rig.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:28 PM
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Gay = less masculine and more feminine. Majority of women don't find feminine behaviour attractive in men. Whereas lesbianism (or rather, lipstick lesbianism) has been fetishised by porn. Your butch lesbian types are seen as masculine (and therefore unattractive), but if a lesbian is even somewhat attractive then there is a huge amount of men who will find their sexuality "hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:20 PM
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Fair enough. Follow up Q: your taste in straight men - do you go more for the stereotypically masculine, or someone who embraces their softer side? (Referring only to healthy manifestations of masculinity and femininity here. Obviously toxic masc/fem behaviours are unappealing.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:12 PM
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Gayness associated with lack of masculinity. Lack of masculinity = unattractive. Definitely the case for moderate and conservative women, but it'd be interesting to see if woke women feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:05 PM
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Not really. Not handled in the smoothest way by her, but not the end of the world. Something we'd probably laugh about later.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:27 PM
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I know this is Q4W, but the answers here are surprising me (less so from the main sub, because they're deranged at the best of times). Personally I could not be with someone who did not compliment my appearance. Never even crossed my mind that there were women who didn't do this. I guess that makes me a femboy now 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:51 PM
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I think it's good. You can always layer if it's too cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:44 PM
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How old was the son? And what was the context - was it "look how cute my son is", or "look at my gay ass son"?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:29 PM
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And EarwaxPill for the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:16 PM
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My neighbour is a lunatic. She was the talk of the village when she moved here because she left her husband and kids to have an affair with a taxi driver, which ended after about 2 months. The kids don't speak to her any more. She constantly sits in her garden arguing on the phone at the top of her lungs. My wife has just come home and I can hear this woman prattling to her at rapid-fire speed on full volume right now. She laughs like an unhinged maniac too. 55 years old, and there is wax visibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:04 PM
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That she doesn't know what muscly means. Muscly to her probably means Mr. Olympia 70s era Schwarzenegger. Her idea of not muscly is likely that picture of Jason Momoa where he's on holiday with his family. He still works out every day, but doesn't limit his water intake to 0.5L a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:57 PM
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You're all quiet this afternoon. Q4A: In terms of attraction, what do you think is more important for a man - looks, or performative masculinity (being tough, bold, confident, competent etc)? In terms of attraction, what do you think is more important for a woman - looks, or performative femininity (being quiet, demure, submissive, dainty etc)? If you think there is a difference - why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:40 PM
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So insufferable even the other leftover women can't stand her. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:04 AM
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Just promise us all you won't say this in front of the university admissions board people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:24 PM
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I think I was attracted to this when I was younger. It's a hard lesson to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:51 PM
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I think it's cool. Yes. Go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:49 PM
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