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She’s 18, it’s not like she’s a child anymore so I think that effect is gone unless she’s the type to end up a Disney adult
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:22 PM
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That relies on your task management skills. Work studies are anywhere from 10-25 hours a week, internships are typically 25-35 hours a week, rarely you find one that’s full time at 35+. Start small and move upwards as you learn how to manage the balancing act.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:21 PM
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Ok yeah if someone else is paying, why not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:40 PM
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What are her PLANS!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:39 PM
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I use the “good” books from resellers on Amazon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:39 PM
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The last line made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:37 PM
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Hey, look into work study. They work around your hours at college. Once you’re better adjusted to college and balancing priorities, focus on internships, specifically paid internships. If you can’t get those- focus on your university’s research opportunities because they typically come with stipends. Build your resume so as you go on each year through college- you become a more and more competitive applicant. By the time your graduate, you should be able to land a good job with solid pay relativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:36 PM
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Maybe he doesn’t like pregnant women and has too low of a EQ to communicate with her about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:33 PM
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I’m stupid so help me out, do you mean the wording he used? Or do you like clear skin?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:27 PM
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Do you have your drivers license?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:25 PM
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I disagree with this guy, Disney is expensive so save your money since you’re young a $20 means a lot when you’re in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:25 PM
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He doesn’t sound crushed, he sounds inconvenienced
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:24 PM
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How far in the future are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:21 PM
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Why do you think most people on this subreddit will understand what is written in that substack
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:20 PM
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You are a lesser offender tho bc you’re only here during work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:42 PM
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You are not only bored with way too much time on your hands at work- you are also drawn to strange subreddits so you are not immune from this judgement imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:41 PM
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the parasite has latched its hooks into you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:25 PM
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Yeah region probably matters. My school day was 7 hours long not including commute. Practices were 2-3 hours long after school not including athletics class. We had advanced academic classes like AP and dual credit- but almost everyone was doing one of those a semester/year on top of extracurriculars. Band practice was mainly during summer but were 3 hours long. They maybe only stayed an hour or two after school went out. But at games, football players, cheerleaders, dance team, and band were al…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:21 PM
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Well considering most people don’t have corporate jobs- I think the numbers above would still work even if it counted hours at work. Blue collar and minimum wage laborers will offset the corporate hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:52 PM
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That’s crazy. You’re older than me by a year but not even half of my class was on TikTok by graduation. I had a far heavier online presence than my peers, so I had TikTok by beginning of senior year. The adjusted guys just played games after school or were in sports practice. And the girls were in sports practice or FaceTiming each other after. Almost everyone was at athlete or in a competitive extracurricular that took up time. We were on phones in school but it was not mainly tiktok. Speaking …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:49 PM
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I think we’re all on the island of broken toys. Retired so spending much time online isn’t abnormal- I think being drawn to these specific topics and subreddits is the biggest factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:31 PM
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For an hour or two sure. For 4+ hours? No. The normies with lives do not do this. The normies are busy with their lives off the internet. And they spend much time on instagram commenting under their friends/acquaintances posts “Love you!!!” “so gorg” “ilysm” “love” “miss you!” Then get on Facebook for a bit to reply to their families posts. Mentally healthy and socially adjusted people do not bedrot. It just so happens that most gen z are mentally unwell and socially inept due to circumstances a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:28 PM
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Yes I always find that a bit bizarre. Or random bragging/insistence of normalcy from both sexes. You’re here, we know you’re weird. It’s okay. The only normies don’t pop up frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:22 PM
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Is this considering work screen time as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:20 PM
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Normies frequent instagram or facebook. Any other sites, I would agree. Twitter and TikTok are unadjusted as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:19 PM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:18 PM
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yes, your flair confirms that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:18 PM
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I don’t think anybody who frequents the daily threads of PPD consistently is socially adjusted. Spending an hour a day or so ever so often might just be someone adjusted who’s bored. But every day, multiple hours, constantly coming back- I don’t think you’re socially adjusted. This includes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:02 PM
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Thin?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:58 PM
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Makes sense. Every woman with dyed black hair I’ve known was incredibly impulsive and the inability to think through actions and consequences points to low IQ imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:57 PM
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I’m so happy about which definition you used
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:54 PM
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Oh that makes sense. Goth fashion looks a wee bit different over there. I see I see
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:01 AM
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Just some. Context changes a lot of it as well. Say the grief is revolving someone in a sudden, tragic/violent death. That’s gonna be harder to work through than say someone who died of old age and you could see it coming for many years. I don’t have any numbers to throw around, but I think you get what distinction I’m making. Regarding grief that’s exempt from the process of being worked through- it just really, really depends. Some people watch others close to them die in very, very traumatic …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:01 AM
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Other men would still notice. Also, only women who wouldn’t notice are very very short women close to being 5’0
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:55 AM
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May I ask your political orientation, race, broad geographical region (think state or country if European). Not to confirm anything, I’m just very curious. I’m trying to figure out what kinda guy likes such an eccentric style in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:55 AM
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I think it’s less offensive in the situation with someone who’s asexual. When the norm is not asexual- it’s very easy to question its legitimacy and feel sensitive about that. When the norm is to have the baby of your husband- it’s insulting to assume they are a fringe case and cheated on you and are trying to pass the kid off as yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:53 AM
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OH! lmao I thought you meant equestrian activities. Haha yeah that’s funny for anybody to seriously do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:51 AM
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These people don’t have the ability to conceptualize how the cops’ decision to not follow the rules could actually be used negatively against them. Therefore- they call you bootlicker bc “why would he say that if he didn’t want these girls to get punished just because!!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:47 PM
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There’s a status that comes with saying my husband or fiancé where saying “my bf” makes you seem unserious and teenage like. Because women attribute status to being taken in a serious context, they’ll prefer “my man” over “my bf” because the claim sounds more permanent. Because men don’t attribute different status amounts between the terms “my wife” and “my gf”, men are not likely to say anything but the straight forward, proper identifying term for their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:44 PM
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5’7 is considered the tall end of short
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:42 PM
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Those women must like submissive and passive men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:41 PM
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Is she a blonde sorority type. The golden goose shoes point me towards what he likes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:40 PM
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Cause there’s always the possibility to doubt?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:37 PM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:36 PM
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What’s amusing about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:36 PM
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I think things like grief and phobias. Making fun of you for having a phobia of blood will always be something they can target bc phobias don’t just go away that easily. Or losing someone close to you- no matter how much time passes, someone throwing that in your face will probably always sting from the sheer display of cruelty towards you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:35 PM
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yea
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:12 AM
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Well it’s depends on context. I said every dynamic and I meant truly- every dynamic. Like pdfiles look for positions near children, people who abuse old/sick individuals look for nurse/caregiver positions, people who like financially abusing will target lower class people, women/men who want to abuse will target men/women who have low self confidence, isolated people with weak familial bonds and/or little to no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:11 AM
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I see why mods don’t let you label as red pill woman. You’re spouting pink pill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:08 AM
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Well, there’s also some things that are sensitive that aren’t insecurities that can be used against someone as well. Say, trauma or phobias. If you tell someone your worst fear is someone close to you dying and later they say during an argument- “this is why you’re gonna be alone when all your fam dies.” That’s just as harmful as digging in an insecurity. Or bringing up past traumas against you. Some things can’t be worked through or may always hurt. At the very least, you should view it as disr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:35 AM
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I don’t think he’s upset with himself, I think he’s just realizing how fucked up the situation is around him. He sounds sadder for the child in her belly than anyone else. Feels like when you watch a nature documentary and realize how brutal the world really is. Just a sad realization.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:26 AM
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Abusers search for victims yes- in every dynamic where someone can abuse others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:19 AM
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Once heard advice over people who weaponize your insecurities by planting fake ones before you trust them entirely and see if they use them against you. Maybe men should utilize that trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:14 AM
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Yeah it’s a subconscious thing to most people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:03 PM
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Leave
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:02 PM
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<image> Honestly this comes down to the fact I don’t like sea food and almost every upper class choice had mussels, oysters, lobster or raw fish. My favorite meal is quail cooked in a paprika sauce with heirloom carrots and broccolini. I’ll fuck up a sloppy Joe any day of the week tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:53 PM
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I prefer round but my boyfriend likes short square/medium coffin. I like round cause it looks natural to me. He likes square because it looks natural to him 😅. What do you dislike about square and coffin shapes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:48 PM
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you’re a man, you can figure it out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:47 PM
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helps the look of certain hand movements 👀 That’s how it’s been explained to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:05 PM
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I get short, and by the end of the acrylic’s lifespan after a couple refills, I top out between medium and medium/long.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:34 PM
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<image> These mid-evil torture devices are used to cut the tips and get in the way from cutting below short.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:33 PM
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So these are with acrylic tips that lengthen the nail. Anything below short would have to be an overlay (acrylic over natural nail) because the cutting device can’t reach with the skin in the way. They don’t use nail clippers, it’s a device made for cutting acrylic tips.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:31 PM
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I get short, and by the end of the acrylic’s lifespan after a couple refills, I top out between medium and medium/long.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:28 PM
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Q4M: How long can nails be before you get icked out, and what’s your preference. Q4W: How long do you get your nails? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:27 PM
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But taking into consideration they grow naturally and have to be foraged- what’s the poisonous vs nonpoisonous distribution? There might be more of the poisonous growing, even if there’s more species that are nonpoisonous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:21 PM
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Wasn’t a date, creepiest thing for me is a man stalked me online for 8 months straight, creating new accounts to request to message me on multiple platforms since I kept blocking them, after we talked for- get this, 2 weeks. I blocked him because he told me he was married that day and then chaos began :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:15 PM
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Russian style lip fillers are destroying our women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:08 PM
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I don’t think life insurance is a good answer unless it’s 10x the salary of the provider. The life insurance pay outs I’ve seen (very few) are 80-100% yearly income not 1000%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:07 PM
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That’s a good plan if both parents work. Get rid of the debt and everything else should be smooth sailing on one income.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:04 PM
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Are you concerned about changes in quality of lifestyle for your children should either events happen? Do you think that the quality would go down?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:04 PM
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I’m mainly talking death since I imagine a lot of people would be sour after divorce and may stop wanting to provide for their family (the kids). How many years of income would your policy hold? Would you have a will containing advice like “go to our financial advisor and speak with him, he’ll build a budget with you”. Also, does her past education/career play into your choosing of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:00 PM
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yea
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:52 AM
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Yeah it’s probably my favorite
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:52 AM
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They’re like weird 90s music. I recommend “sea, swallow me” or “serpent skirt”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:25 AM
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I love her so much it hurts. Always have since I was a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:23 AM
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Cocteau Twins? Idk if that counts but I listen to a lot of that + witch house. If we’re talking aesthetics strictly- I guess Evanescence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:16 AM
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ur unhinged for waiting for this every day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:04 AM
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Q4M: If you’re looking to make your future wife a SAHM, how are you preparing for this financially in the unfortunate event you pass/divorce? Do you take into consideration education/career possibilities for the women you’re dating due to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:04 AM
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ur not the boss of me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:04 AM
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Like 60-80k in Texas
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:03 AM
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I don’t know you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:01 AM
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Pretending money doesn’t exist ≠ eliminating desires for material possessions. Money and wealth is a tool, you simply should not view gaining money as the pursuit to happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:57 AM
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Q4M: If you’re looking to make your future wife a SAHM, how are you preparing for this financially in the unfortunate event you pass/divorce? Do you take into consideration education/career possibilities for the women you’re dating due to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:55 AM
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Most people don’t understand that most socio-behavioral research is not reliable in any way. There’s so many errors that can happen when collecting the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:55 AM
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Q4M: If you’re looking to make your future wife a SAHM, how are you preparing for this financially in the unfortunate event you pass/divorce? Do you take into consideration education/career possibilities for the women you’re dating due to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:53 AM
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Depends on specialty- it can vary wildly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:50 AM
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I would like this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:48 AM
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Neither are the things you buy with it according to that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:48 AM
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That’s because it is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:47 AM
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What supplements are you taking?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:01 AM
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What am I reading
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:00 AM
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Regarding texture that is the worst place to put it. Self cleaning cycle takes like 24 hours after the shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:55 AM
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that is fairly upsetting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:14 PM
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Girl he’s casually fucking is superficial, surprise surprise and so now he’s sworn off women entirely until he’s rich and can afford to spoil a very young beautiful women bc this one only values money. Your welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:13 PM
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For me yeah, idk about other people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:54 PM
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Playful chase in the hallway (if you’re dating, don’t do this to a stranger)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:14 PM
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Because they’re holding swords?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:14 PM
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I agree that cognitive dissonance is part of the human experience as well as that the logic presented in the comments is not consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:11 PM
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It’s gross but I doubt real life is as easy regarding subduing women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:50 PM
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Go to a library and figure out how you feel about it- they have many copies of the same book.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:48 PM
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Determinism isn’t what you’re describing exactly. Determinism is touched on pretty heavily even if subconsciously through terms like “it’s over, it never began”. Determinism is about having little control in your life because no matter what you do- it’s already been determined. I’d say what you’re talking about is having an external locus of control and reciprocal determinism. Very different than plain determinism. Plain determinism would be someone who thinks there’s no hope because their endin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:46 PM
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Yeah they tend to mess up the structure and silhouette of the skirt
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:42 PM
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this is mentally unwell
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:33 PM
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wat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:33 PM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:33 PM
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Okay renovate one of the guest rooms then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:32 PM
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is this not Lakan from Apothecary Diaries
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:31 PM
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Big and greedy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:30 PM
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Nah, I’m just dumb and forgot about that. What Moves the Dead by T. Kingfisher. There’s like 1 paragraph of woke nonsense, but it’s a quick creepy read outside of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:25 PM
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He has his bookshelf in his office, you have yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:19 PM
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Fr, a lot of conservative people aren’t actually conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:19 PM
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It depends on the person. Some people will say things like “how to not give a fuck” but I think those books are cringe. I guess a good couple would be The Radium Girls: The Dark Story of America’s Shining Women by Kate Moore and Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers by Mary Roach
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:18 PM
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Would not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:15 PM
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Damn I had a book recc for mold friends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:15 PM
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For me- I know for sure the ashwaganda helped after 2 weeks. I added l-theanine and magnesium glycinate but I haven’t taken them individually so I can’t be 100% sure they’re working.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:14 PM
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Oh my goodness I have never heard about such bad reactions! I’m glad that’s not happening anymore. It’s funny you mention vitamin D and the electrolytes because I was deficient in vitamin D according to bloodwork and I have a cardiac/blood pressure problem where I need lots of electrolytes and when my heart feels funny- I add MORE potassium via banana or electrolyte drinks. Humans are so similar but so different. I don’t quite like multivitamins or combo supplements for that reason. Btw what for…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:29 AM
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Oh I’ve seen nothing but improvements for me. But mine aren’t eccentric I don’t think. I have anxiety + bad immune system so I feel like mine are pretty “normal”. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:14 AM
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I find the stack im on to be helpful- but im not sure if its all of them or just the shoden brand ashwaganda. If you get any of them, I’d say get that one cause I used to take that one by itself and it had affects after about 1-2 weeks. I’m specific about the brand because they do extensive lab testing. Anything with shoden ashwaganda in it is what I go for; I’m taking specifically Triquetra Ashwa-70 rn tho since they partner with shoden. I am very picky about my ashwaganda in specific because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:12 AM
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What’s everyone’s supplement/vitamin stack? I’m nosey and wanna know I take L-theanine, shoden ashwaganda, and magnesium glycinate for anxiety. Then zinc, vitamin D, vitamin C, and Florastor for general health. I have cod liver oil but I haven’t started taking it yet 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:22 AM
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chicken + chicken + more chicken
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:20 AM
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Do you like audiobooks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:11 AM
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I don’t think they need to be aligned with a future career tbh. Most people who play spots don’t go pro, it’s because it’s fun. Also I can’t really think of any extracurriculars that line up with jobs outside of things like hack-a-thons or debate for future lawyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:57 AM
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So if you reread my post, you’ll notice the part where I say I hope extracurriculars help them find a passion that leads to development of self discipline. Ie fall in love with a sport so self initiate practice or fall in love with music and self initiate practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:56 AM
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True, let that fishy go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:50 PM
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Yeah it’s okay to explore- eventually they’ll find one they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:49 PM
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I didn’t say I would discipline them, I’m saying they need to form discipline. Ie the skill that makes you sit down and study for a test or suck it up and file your taxes by the deadline. Discipline as a personality trait, not as an action.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:48 PM
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Might as well enjoy the food now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:04 PM
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My personal opinion is that I would be very hands on, pushing for extracurriculars because I believe they build self-discipline and passion. They help them become well rounded people with healthy lifestyles (my rule of thumb would be 1 physical extracurricular and 1 mental). If they want to do very many extracurriculars- I will support them best I can and if it’s too much, they will learn the importance of prioritizing what’s most important to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:03 PM
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Would you be incredibly hands off as a parent and believe childhood is for playing and having fun or would you be very hands on, pushing extracurriculars and believe childhood is like a training ground for adulthood?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:00 PM
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what kinda bullshit is this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:59 PM
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ISTJ
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:59 PM
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ISTJ and ISTP have wildly different cognitive functions despite the closeness in letters. I much prefer this test for MBTI typing: https://www.michaelcaloz.com/personality/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:58 PM
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Omakases are much more the speed for small dishes imo. I can’t get behind the lack of interaction that comes from fine dining at a table by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:55 PM
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I wouldn’t write that on my profile but I would say it in messages after matching. She might just be very forward. Do you value that in a woman? Or do you want things to be shrouded and hinted instead of told directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:53 PM
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Honestly I’m likely projecting my own problems- because I had similar vitals and had to take medication to control my tachycardia for many years. My resting is currently around 65 since starting cardio 3-4x a week. Blood pressure is still lowish-low tho. I’m jumpy about vitals due to my own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:49 PM
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Yes if you’re committed for life, I think you should try to make him happy with the amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:25 PM
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Can I get a HELL YEA?????
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:24 PM
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I remember telling my dad my relationship with my two boyfriends was getting serious and so it’s time for him to take us 3 to see Cars in theatre as a date and meet him when I was 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:51 PM
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No. The laughing will lead me to believe he agrees and I will then be too insecure to continue seeing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:49 PM
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tell them the food is fire and to fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:48 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:14 PM
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Just call it a generational buying opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:11 PM
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I have pretty eyes and a very fast reading speed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:07 PM
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But for sure: hoochie daddy shorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:04 PM
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There’s different types of fuck boys. Depends on what genre he is. Soft boy fuck boy looks different than athletic fuck boy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:03 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:02 PM
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This actually made me laugh. That’s so out of the blue
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:02 PM
1

How’s touching grass going for you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:57 PM
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things are good, finally graduating this semester
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:57 PM
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Same reason you can’t. Doesn’t want it bad enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:56 PM
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Yes you are, hi mfer - Froot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:41 AM
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R u spread
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:41 AM
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Sir I need you to come back here and explain why you thought this. 22 is in my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:29 AM
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I second this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:26 AM
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I’ve been a commenter inconsistently on PPD for last 4 years
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:20 AM
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Alt of 4 years? No
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:19 AM
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Omg that’s CRAZY, I could’ve never guessed it was this tbh. I was thinking like she planned a bank robbery or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:19 AM
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I will say, I don’t think I would find him hot if I hadn’t seen him in his 20s. It’s because I’ve seen his peak that I’m able to see the traces of hotness left from aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:07 AM
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Idk how rich he was when he started acting in his 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:06 AM
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Stop looking at peoples lips unless you like them. The heavy eye contact can stay in the rest of the conversations. Don’t get caught up in the semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:04 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:01 AM
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Why would it become looked down upon. As it gets rarer- it will become a mark of status. Like how there’s more status from losing weight without ozempic compared with losing weight with ozempic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:57 AM
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I thought you were talking about eye glasses and I was confused on what the fuck eye glasses have to do with drinking liquids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:53 AM
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Why would they get closer to normal as she ages. I wouldn’t expect a 90 resting to get better with age in a 19 year old. She’s not like a little kid who grows out of tachycardias
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:49 AM
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That’s the stats I have and I have a heart condition so no that’s not good
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:47 AM
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What’d she do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:46 AM
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If you have to be convinced to get into a relationship- you didn’t actually want one wholeheartedly in the first place. You should chase the things you really want, and a relationship doesn’t sound like that for you rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:45 AM
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Poor girl. Should’ve just let the streak continue and move on to the next. He’s not texted you in 4 days- let that man go 💀 And yes, you really don’t sound cut out for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:44 AM
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Crop top and high waisted jeans. Leave me alone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:42 AM
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11
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:41 AM
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He was hot before the hairline- it’s not hot on just anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:38 AM
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She’s not trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:37 AM
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I mean hypothetically they can I guess, but the way that post is framed- that doesn’t seem to be what’s being asked. He didn’t necessarily call himself hot or anything so I didn’t take that into account. He probably just hangs around whores and obviously enjoys fucking them while homeboys don’t want whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:11 PM
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Moving fields of careers. For example, physical therapy to computer science. That’s pivoting fields and career. Need 2 entirely different bachelors for
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:09 PM
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Ladies and gents, I’ve made it to the podium. On the lowest level but still!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:22 AM
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and what do I do if he says none
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:18 AM
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you posted twice and I didn’t know if that counted or not 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:18 AM
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Yeaaaa I hate Austin as a Texan. I prefer Houston
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:15 AM
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I feel like a lot of people can’t pull off fitted maxi dresses but I have no perception of what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:14 AM
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If you have the body shape that’s flattered by that style- yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:14 AM
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4th?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:12 AM
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Meh sometimes people don’t think about something incredibly obvious. I’m giving the benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:52 AM
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Yes most marry either before med school or during med school before residency starts. About half of medical students are married entering.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:51 AM
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You’re attracting different people who want different things. Simple as. What works for one woman doesn’t necessarily work for the next unless they are the same type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:57 AM
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I’ve never heard about any bad stereotypes regarding female doctors. Nurses, yes. Doctors? No. No one goes 250k into debt to get married. Must be a singular problem in his country specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:53 AM
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According to stats, doubt men will be “catching up” with anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:50 AM
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Oh I just parroted how you all speak about the men unviable in the dating market. Shame there’s such double standards :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:51 AM
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I can see how he would have a problem on his nose if he looked too long enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:47 AM
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Unfortunately I’m only at 15k
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:45 AM
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You’re happy that people unable to date due to economic need to support themselves will become more common? That’s upsetting. She displays obvious want and desire of a family, otherwise she wouldn’t feel behind. Unfortunate that her career has made it unviable for her to date- but alas women can’t just sit around all day with no job/career while single waiting for someone to scoop them up. I hope this doesn’t become more common, it would be a shame to see such good women fall from the dating mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:44 AM
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Cardigans, old women hobbies, and collecting old things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:57 PM
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I don’t talk to men nor would I let one talk to me without my guard up. No I would not even go on the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:27 PM
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I found it <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:24 PM
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I see, I see. My answer was universal healthcare so yea I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:19 PM
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Sorry you just sounded like a fetishist of short women so my shackles were raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:18 PM
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Whenever you feel anxious like this, look at graphs of the stock market over a 20 year period. We’re better off than COVID crashes still, and nowhere near 2008. It’ll be okay even if it’s hard for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:15 PM
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Market has crashed, so money is going into bonds. Money into bonds means interest rates lower which means higher opportunity to buy homes and cars for young people. Give it some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:14 PM
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But what does carve out mean in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:13 PM
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That’s why I said she’s hopeless and selfish if that’s the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:12 PM
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Do that and then block and ignore ignore ignore- he’ll give up eventually but just keep ignoring. Any response from you is stimuli
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:12 PM
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Nvm thought I recognized your username from a different platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:11 PM
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One of my favorite movies growing up fr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:07 PM
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Running on treadmills are worse
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:06 PM
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Get good shoes. I recommend getting feet scanned at New Balance. If you actually start running- prepare for “runners belly”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:06 PM
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Are you pivoting? You could also do part time study. I’m also pivoting but my 2nd bachelors is an accelerated program.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:05 PM
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Also, I think you’re incredibly weird for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:03 PM
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Short people and normal men get upset about preferences of men’s height which they can’t change. Which is normal to be touchy over things you literally cannot change.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:02 PM
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Very dark triad but yes you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:01 PM
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Wdym carve out for certain medical things?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:59 PM
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Universal healthcare
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:59 PM
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My boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:58 PM
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That’s not losing baby fat, that’s concentration of collagen within the skin lowering and losing laxity. Not to the degree they get wrinkles- but is a natural result of the skin aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:57 PM
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Women were checking out and they were mad as hell then. I think this is reactionary
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:56 PM
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I agree with this. I understand logically if he walks away. But emotionally those children and him were all socialized as family. Must be incredibly hurtful to him and his sons. I hope they continue to have a healthy relationship with them, and if they don’t- that everyone comes to terms with the fact they are no longer family. All 3 should resent their mother for this action.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:55 PM
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What kind of games? I love monopoly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:52 PM
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This should be illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:52 PM
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character.AI or whatever is gonna replace all the men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:52 PM
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You’re still replying and not standing on business- so he prolly just thinks you’re shit testing him and playing games.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:51 PM
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Block him then if you don’t want him reaching out to you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:50 PM
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Where’s that study that supports this? The graph went viral for a while- I think everyone’s seen it. Lowest age was 22 and most answers for what age they found most attractive was 22 whereas women chose men around their age
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:50 PM
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Are you fist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:47 PM
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According to women like this- enjoying cooking or cleaning is demeaning and even if it’s your hobby, it shouldn’t be. It’d be a pleasant surprise I’m sure after being proposed to, but yes she’d be watering herself down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:46 PM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A white nose doesn’t necessarily mean nice nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:44 PM
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Yes. Matching sets or nightgowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:42 PM
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And have you ever actually had a bichon frise? What’s their temperaments like?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:42 PM
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Happy birthday, how old are you now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:41 PM
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Doesn’t mean she lacks instincts. I have strong maternal instincts but that also means I am incredibly protective and scared of crossing a strangers boundaries regarding their babies/children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:41 PM
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Ask her to join a “sperm donor conceived” Facebook group and ask the children how they feel about being sperm donor conceived. Hopefully she will care about how the children would feel. If she doesn’t, she’s hopeless and selfish. -someone who came from a sperm donor
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:38 PM
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Can be, depending on type. My bf had a bunch of tech company swag stickers on his laptop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:35 PM
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Who are you in the server?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:34 PM
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Why are women suddenly discounted from the idea of releasing earthly desires in pursuit of clarity? It doesn’t take a mastermind to realize how deep the socialization of how sex and friendship is viewed goes and wanting to be released from the rat race.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:22 PM
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my name on the discord is in my username
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:16 PM
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It’s very much tattle-tale behavior carried into adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:07 AM
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People in this subreddit can be very um…dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:07 AM
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Ok, thanks for answering. Most people here are not still in school/college although there’s been a trend of hardly adults joining the conversation. I think there’s still advice to be squeezed from this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:06 AM
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Were you in the discord recently by any chance. Just clarifying if I know who you are already or not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:41 AM
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she’s gonna turn him into the straight police
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:40 AM
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If they start a conversation first, yes. Otherwise I might throw a compliment or two out but not full blown small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:40 AM
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of all the reformation dresses, why that one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:38 AM
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of all the reformation dresses, why that one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:38 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:37 AM
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I have health problems I guess, don’t want to get into specifics. It would be painful so yes it is a major dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:13 PM
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I have even stronger thoughts on girth. If it’s considered thick- keep it away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:45 AM
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Anything above the larger side of average is a dealbreaker for me. 8 inches sounds insane and I don’t believe most women actually think this, I just think size queens are very loud. Key thing to remember is that women tend to not have great visual-spatial awareness and what a woman thinks is 8 inches could be closer to 6.5-7, which is still very large- but worlds more common than 8 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:40 AM
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I value financial stability and freedom. He will never get that unless he has a massive inheritance coming his way….
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:03 AM
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This isn’t about attraction, this is about logistically affording a family- which most people aim for eventually when dating. She didn’t specify that he would be the only one paying bills, so it’s not even red pill. It’s just as insane to expect a female to support a household on her own these days as it is a man- we do not have the economy our grandparents did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:01 AM
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Never understood that. I don’t do make up sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:51 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:50 AM
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I think the explanation above is extreme- but people do change and it is best to prepare for the off chance something changes. If you don’t want kids, it’s best to prepare accordingly than just hope the egg doesn’t fertilize. If you buy a house, it’s best to have home insurance in case of a fire, rather than just hope a fire never happens. I think the treatment towards men in the paragraphs are spiteful and mean- but if you only look at the actions and not the words, it’s good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:50 AM
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hehehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:27 AM
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Are you eris
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:10 PM
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who are you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:09 PM
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hi sarai, I’ve been popping in here and there
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:09 PM
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I’m not active on the subreddit so I don’t recognize any of you tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:00 PM
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Are you talking about the official discord?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:08 PM
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Men here call everyone fat. Do you not know men outside of PPD spheres where they tend to be overly misogynistic and hateful towards women? Haven’t heard a man call a woman fat since middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:06 PM
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I want you to think critically for a second. What group of men is most commonly known to have an appreciation for makeup, which you’ve stated you have? Now think of how many of them there are and compare that general idea to how many there are of the opposite sexuality. Yes I asked if you were gay because if a man said what you did- it’d be more likely he’s gay than straight. I wanted clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:03 AM
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Making fun of my boring hobbies and love for cardigans
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:28 AM
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I’m perplexed a man in this subreddit who hasn’t very clearly labeled himself as purple or blue or gay has the tastes you do. Of course people have different tastes- you like pink hair and I do not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:27 AM
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That’s your opinion. Sounds like you simply don’t like conversation. There’s many ways you could’ve responded which would start a longer discussion. What were you expecting to be said/discussed when you posted that photo?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:26 AM
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Why would you post something in the public eye if you did not want/were not expecting it to be discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:58 AM
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I’m more perplexed by your responses than anything due to what I said before about men typically disliking that makeup style. She’s not my ideal of beauty but I can understand how she could be someone else’s. My preference is towards women like Anne Hathaway and Kate Beckinsale pre-surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:57 AM
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Typically straight men get upset about heavy makeup changing features since they become unrecognizable without makeup, and the attraction lessens considerably. Are you straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:42 AM
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I hate to tell you, this is still a full face of makeup. BUT it would only hide things like terrible under eye or discoloration. She does look incredibly different than the other photos, particularly the nose- as I suspected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:40 AM
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More natural looking here, but still very far from without makeup. This is the average woman’s full face of makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:33 AM
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What does she look like without any makeup/minimal makeup. I see very heavy eye makeup and contour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:32 AM
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Reminds me of when I kicked my babysitter in the balls because we were “fighting” and he gave me a 3 inch plastic sword and pulled out a life sized plastic one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:40 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:38 AM
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Do you know what “fishing for compliments” is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:33 AM
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Had a great hibiscus, goji berry, green tea recently. It was very nice. As for my favorite regular tea- just a good quality sencha will do the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:32 AM
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Yes, whoever my dad is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:31 AM
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Ah yes, the rage baiting streamer- he is such a great representation of the average man. Just like how Instagram influencers are 1:1 the average woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:30 AM
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Lesbian women do not have a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:26 AM
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I think it’s a dumb for factors outside of attraction. Although you are correct that I do not find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:17 AM
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I personally don’t think so but some men genuinely don’t discount from obese women’s ratings if they have good ratios. So it’s a no in my opinion, but because of her ratios and very pretty face- I can see how someone would say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:40 PM
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Personally I don’t find tattoos to be a smart decision, but I digress
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:32 PM
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Hi Eastuss, it’s froot. Nah young men can’t tell. Tons of young men defend skirby in TikTok comments of women calling out that she photoshops with replies along the line of “just because you don’t have it doesn’t mean it’s unrealistic.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:28 PM
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Don’t leave a review. I haven’t left a review since I was 16
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:23 PM
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Was not expecting to see cheer bows on PPD but alas here I am. Also I hated those sequined bows
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:18 PM
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What makes me confident I have information you don’t is my youth. I’m speaking on my generation. That’s the point. Many of these young men in PPD are speaking of women in their own generation as that’s who they interact with the most and then middle age women tell them their perception is skewed. It’s not. There is a large gap of romantic awareness between generations. I’d say millennials were pretty realistic. Don’t have to be smoking hot to get 100k+ earning guy. Very true. What’s not realisti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:45 AM
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Morality in actuality is hard to measure and I don’t see one gender as more moral than the other. One commonly uses manipulation to gain sex from the other, the other commonly uses manipulation to gain resources from the first. Sure women don’t commit as much violent crime, but morality is what you make it. To some, it doesn’t take violence to be considered evil or bad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:18 PM
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I’ve seen this happen a couple times. It’s not common, I understand why. Like everyone else said, it’s expensive and leaves them open to vulnerability. But I’ll go one step further as a donor conceived person- it’s not ethical. The sperm donor industry is incredibly unethical regarding limiting the amount of children allowed in a certain area to be related. If they’re not gonna know they’re related- they should be a large distance apart to avoid the genetic sexual attraction phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:12 PM
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I mean that was my tactic and it’s paying off. Just confirming for my own ego. Wasn’t trying to make it sound like the lesser option- I don’t view it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:06 PM
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I hate for this to be how you find out- but many young women don’t understand the concept of a league. Or the idea of one they have in their head is not realistic. 80% of young women think they can pull the top 20% of young men just because they’re a woman. Maybe it was different in other generations, but female zoomers are delulu.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:04 PM
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So are you suggesting they just get with someone who’s average looks and has degree in something that will pay well while still young? Trying to determine your idea of what the male version is of investing into ETFs while young.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:03 PM
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Yeah, I think there’s a certain rush that comes from the first couple days of being on a dating app as a young woman. I’m not one for rushes or highs so it wasn’t something I cared about after 3 days- but some women and men (the ones who turn it into a game, try different presentations of themselves and set a goal of talking to/banging as many women as possible) never get over it. Gluttony towards sex and sexual attraction will ruin you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:59 PM
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I do agree with you. I’ve been on dating apps a maximum of 3 weeks my entire life. It was bizarre to me to see other women show me their matches of men who clearly lived a player lifestyle and were above them lookswise. People end up looksmatched in long relationships, yes. But women will get bamboozled for quite some time until they wisen up- either consciously or subconsciously about what rank of man will actually commit to them. Most people do not shoot for looks match out the gate. It’s almo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:54 AM
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Aspirin has a rich history so I was wondering if that had to do with it. Honestly the wonder drug of its time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:28 PM
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I’m not physically attractive so I have no confidence in there even being a possible yes and I stutter/use weird sentence structure when nervous (sounds like I’m having a stroke sometimes). I have approached in the past when I was more confident. If I know someone already, I can be quite aggressive with pursuing them if I like them. The problem is- I don’t know strangers, so I can’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:29 PM
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Off topic, but what makes you aspirin pilled? Just a joke about pills or is there something special you like about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:25 PM
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Thank you sir 🫶🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:47 AM
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hi Sarai. you think about me 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:17 AM
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Someone aged 30-50, - what is your age? - what sex/gender are you? - what is your sexuality? - what are 5 physical attractive traits you look for in a partner? - 5 personality traits you look for in a partner? - what are 5 physically unattractive traits? - 5 unattractive personality traits you avoid in a partner? Oh yeah, give me a fake name to refer to you as please. I have been member of PPD for a long time, this isn’t like a research paper or anything, just a simple poll of one person from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:00 AM
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If a low self esteem woman is going for someone obviously attractive, I would make a couple assumptions- 1. She isn’t aware of the attraction difference 2. She is chasing an attractive man for the ego boost
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:07 PM
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I’m rural, chubby, and autistic. We’ll see how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:14 PM
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Yeah it’s not like a proper hypothesis at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:09 PM
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It probably has gone to your head. Even the ones whose maturity isn’t linear- there’s still 5 years of life where they’ve encountered problems and situations. That’ll typically mean something. I’d only say it’s not relevant if the 21 year old has been independent since 16 or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:03 PM
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Broke up 3 months ago
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:59 PM
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It depends on the 26 year old. Maturity isn’t guaranteed to increase with age, but in the people it does- the gap is large.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:59 PM
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My sister is the manager and I needed a job
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:22 PM
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Problem is- they’re what I’m attracted to. I just feel like a baby in comparison cause I’m not out of college yet. Like they’re not gonna take me seriously. That’s likely, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:21 PM
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I’m a 22 year old in college, should I be nervous to date men 26-31 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:19 PM
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Social and behavioral research isn’t a hard science anyway. It took being involved with it for me to understand just how baseless most of it is. Extremely hard to control for variables in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:17 PM
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Put a baby through your asshole and see how your mood is during healing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:07 PM
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I think I’m the middle
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:01 PM
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We have ratios and guides/recipes to follow, and only adjust if the customer asks. I’ve tasted michelada/bloody mary base which has a small amount of vodka because that needs a little finesse to get right- but I’ve never tasted anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:58 PM
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That doesn’t mean they don’t like your physical attributes, that just means they like your personality attributes more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:53 PM
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Idk I’m a bartender and I’ve never been drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:50 PM
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what role does that fat guy play in
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:22 PM
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Idk if I can stomach shots, but I might take a fruity drink instead!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:21 PM
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Going out tomorrow to a bar for the first time ever. I’ve never been drunk. I have no idea what to expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:19 PM
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You’re loud and wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:17 PM
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How are you going to accuse me of not knowing the definition of a word when you can’t use context clues to determine the meaning of a statement? You’re making a fool out of yourself, but I hope it’s at least fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:10 PM
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Point out to me where I claimed either of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:04 PM
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where’d you get that photo of my ex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:03 PM
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Not deflecting, some people just think with that level of nuance casually. Which is why I like objective definitions and not this catty mish-mash you put out. Reply back when you can understand striving towards different ideals will surprise, surprise- present differently :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:55 PM
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Well considering not everyone agrees on what makes the ideal marriage candidate- across both sexes, yeah I don’t know what your idea of striving for marriage looks like. I personally don’t think people who have addictive vices are ideal, but some other people want a life partner to smoke weed or trip at raves with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:46 PM
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I touch grass every day otherwise I think I would kill myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:27 PM
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You’re so obviously a troll, it’s not even fun to argue with you. Do better next time. Misconstruing things to that degree takes effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:25 PM
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Perhaps being from the Bible Belt changes things
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:19 PM
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Theres this concept in language, where once you string more than one word together into a phrase or sentence- it may have a definition differing from the Oxford definition of a singled out word in the sentence or phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:18 PM
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This post just reeks of an inability to envision other perspectives and lack of empathy. It’s almost like there’s people in toxic/abusive relationships and environments who aren’t aware of it due to thinking it’s normal for various reasons such as it being all they know/grew up seeing, or not having anyone to talk to tell them it is not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:10 PM
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What striving for marriage looks like has such vague and broad possible definitions that I don’t want to even bother with this. I’m not gonna argue over subjective definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:06 PM
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I rarely say this- but you need to go outside. You’re not talking about reality. Stop looking at the celebrities and insta baddies who don’t care for marriage and go talk to a real Emily. They want marriage. I genuinely don’t know a single woman personally who doesn’t want marriage. I’m racking my brain and even the most independent, go getter women I know- either want marriage or are currently married. You’re very out of touch. I only see women who don’t want marriage online. I haven’t ever met…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:52 PM
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I’m sure it is. I hope you realize you’re implying the man they marry is either 1. Their first ever relationship or 2. Their first ever LTR. The assumption that the norm would be women who have no previous dating experience or the jump to women who do have experience but never had a LTR…..What kind of logic is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:29 PM
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My tastes have shifted every couple years since I had my first crush at the age of like 8. I think it’s natural for tastes to shift as you do as a person. However I think they’re pretty solidified by late 20s because that’s when you as a person are, for the most part, solidified in your persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:24 AM
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I do not view the success quantified by assets of a child as the end all be all grade of how the mother performed. Are you aware that it is the conventional norm for a Japanese woman to control the assets of the household? The husband hands off his paycheck to the wife and she hands him an allowance (if there is one). Does having to explain bad or relaxed financial purchases to a woman sound like she’s going to moldable and listen to his directions without argument? She may have a meek voice and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:39 AM
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It just hit me as I posted the other comment: the granny thing is likely because of my flair right? If that’s the case, my flair is making fun of how people always think I’m older than I am due to how I communicate/my boring nature. I would hate to turn into my grandmother.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:25 AM
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I thought I had hinted that both culture + education play a role in being a good mother. I think Korean and Japanese mothers have the tools to be good mothers- but on average are not. However I blame it on their cultures that normalize suffering and overworking themselves- which they then tiger parent and overwork their children. I don’t understand the importance of my grandmother- but yea she was a terrible mother. The tldr is: choosing drugs/men over her own children. I guess your definition o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:24 AM
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Hmmm yea, due to the poor education and culture of rural towns and communities- I don’t really think any of the women are made out to be great mothers even if they treat their partners like kings. I think that requires higher education, which few of them pursue, and after said education- heighten their standards to enter courtship and therefore are no longer part of the untapped demographic. If you want a good mother- go elsewhere I suppose. Although I don’t think the typical passport bro countr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:14 AM
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That is true about the early marriage. But I don’t think of passport bros as the type to shy away from dating 18 and 19 year olds- since they’re already okay with utilizing monetary power dynamics in dating. May be a stretch, but it makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:02 AM
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Oh the real practical version of traditional women are NOTHING like the TikTok fakes 😂. These women are hardy and tough. Not prancing around in $500 dresses that they take off before cooking, (if they even cook), cause they don’t actually know how to get stains out of certain fabrics. They’re more practical than anything cause they’re actually getting shit done. If you’re referring to finding the disposition of TikTok trad wives as cringe, I’d still give a rural girl a shot. Truly nothing like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:26 PM
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Women are conformist and always have been. You’re just exposing your inability to identify the methods through which women spread and share culture/habits amongst themselves. A great place for you to start studying such a topic- is the prevalence of consumerism amongst women and the compulsion to partake in trends. Enjoy your reading!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:57 PM
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The demographic of women I’m about to suggest are nowhere near as smart as the well educated foreign women (who I think their own men are also pursuing so not passportbro fodder), but if you cared about family structures, lineages, traditional values, and strength of community- go grab literally any single rural woman in a town smaller than 15k, in a red state. They’re conservative, Christian, uphold traditional values, view men as someone they need to “serve”, are community pillars, and find fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:54 PM
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So you…..want to move…..to a country with an even worse economy???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:46 PM
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bark
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:16 AM
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The man, no one is gonna believe the bear sexually assaulted me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:15 AM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:13 AM
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What is LO02?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:11 AM
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The other commenters got my brain juices flowing. Smoking: both kinds Recreational drugs Vaping Drinking more than once a month Getting wasted when they do rarely drink (unless like once a year basis like at weddings or major celebrations) A million tattoos Colorful tattoos regardless of number Being allergic to/not liking cats Being a dog person and not simply a dog enjoyer Beards/facial hair Visceral hate for women (critiques are welcome, but at end of the day I am also woman so have some tact…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:58 AM
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That’s not making fun of Taylor Swift fans for being Taylor Swift fans, that’s making fun of a disgusting individual who happens to be a Taylor Swift individual. There is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:51 AM
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what’s grammatically wrong with this 👁️👄👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:42 AM
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That’s ethnically Jewish people not practicing Judaism. Jewish ethnicity ≠ Jewish religion. He wants to convert, so he’s referring to the religion. You cannot be religiously Jewish while also atheist, it’s one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:40 AM
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I say sportsball occasionally to make fun of how I know literally nothing about sports. But I also intentionally ask if they “made a goal” during games like football and baseball, so I think I don’t sound as snide. Weigh in on this please? I hadn’t considered I might be coming off in that manner before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:36 AM
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It depends on what kind of bumper stickers they are. Some people put like pretty things, anime characters, or funny/random slogans. I think the way misty is explaining it, it’s probably for decorative purposes and not political.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:26 AM
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Overload of serotonin can also cause complacency and physical depression by means of drowsiness and fatigue. I think SSRIs definitely play a role for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:20 PM
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What is The View
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:19 PM
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Met my first one in highschool classes cause he sat next to me, second one pursued me. I really am sympathetic to the men with anxiety, and understand it's only been this easy because I am a woman. It must be very frightening for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:18 PM
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Absolutely, you need to go to the dances. If you're Southern, you need to learn the line dances too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:15 PM
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Tell us how he managed it. I gotta know for if I have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:14 PM
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It is definitely a Catch 22 since some women won't even befriend men who they feel attraction to. But some require that their partners be friends with them before moving forward. It is truly a situation of keep your options open and have multiple female partners and see where it takes you. Don't invest time and energy unless they're also investing time and energy. Women also do this thing of sometimes befriending men they would not be compatible with romantically and that's *why* they're comfort…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:13 PM
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I only feel sexual attraction when in limerance or in love. No random stranger has ever incited sexual feelings from me. I'm serious, not for a single photo or person I don't personally know. I understand there are women who do, but I also think its possible that women like me are overshadowed due to us not having anything to say about sexual attraction to a stranger- while the women who do experience it have something to share and therefor are the loudest group. I think for the demisexual women…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:10 PM
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It gets thrown around among toxic women quite frequently. Either they're implying you're not worth being loyal to so dissing your personality or looks OR they're making fun of how you stayed and calling you a "weak woman" or a pushover.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:57 PM
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Idk I see beautiful face, great singer, and abs which lines up with looksmaxxing theory
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:39 AM
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I do not think that being a confident man disqualifies a man from being able to receive that line. I know/knew many men who are confident and had never fought before. However I have a preference for men who can handle things outside of violence, and that includes being able to mediate situations which lessens the likelihood of fighting. Therefore I may have an over exaggeration of how prevalent these types of men are, due to my preference and unequal distribution of attention towards them. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:59 AM
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Nor the overload of makeup. Middle girl has the least contour/blush/bronzer (the tools to change how your face looks) of them all. I also have a preference for pale people with dark hair 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:30 AM
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For me it’s 5’5 🫡 But I’m also incredibly short so I think it’s the same height difference for both of us
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:10 AM
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The middle one is the hottest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:08 AM
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I think a balance of two is what is necessary. I can tell myself all day that a comment made by a partner about another woman shouldn’t upset me and that my response is rooted in insecurity, but at the end of the day- it still made me upset and I shouldn’t pretend or try to repress my feelings but rather express them so they can be handled in tandem with my partner. I hope that makes sense. Repressing your emotions and trying to over rationalize yourself out of them could lead to unnecessary suf…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:07 AM
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Aka, like chicken lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:05 AM
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You’re shocked that a beautiful man is able to have that big of an effect while also being looksmaxxed pilled? How does that make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:04 AM
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He’s beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:03 AM
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I’m so ugly I don’t even post photos of myself in my close friend’s story filled with only non-judgmental women. It’s embarrassing to even take photos 😐 But I guess thanks for the info that men still are okay with ugly pussy. I’ll relay that to the ugly women who are okay with casual sex. I’m not so I’m still fucked in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:48 AM
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Please don’t base your assumptions off that one woman. I would’ve never guessed my dad had bouts of violence when he was younger and was shocked, same with my Highschool sweetheart (who was literally, a sweetheart and I was shocked finding out he was a ruffian in middle school). Why would I make the assumption a nice guy hasn’t been in a fight? Also why does that make you beta cause you haven’t fought? Aren’t we supposed to condemn and look down on violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:42 AM
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No, I mean even for them to pay for gas or pay for themselves with an ugly woman. Like…wouldn’t the presence of an ugly woman be unenjoyable and therefore a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:40 AM
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Yes but are they smart enough to identify that you’re nice and the others aren’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:35 AM
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I think this analogy pivots on the capability of the person to identify said red flags, and also having an easy way out of the toxic situation they end up in. If they can’t identify the red flags, you should be a bit more sympathetic, but that one truly changes from person to person. I genuinely believe some people are too stupid to notice. Then you should also increase sympathy depending on how hard it is to leave said toxic situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:30 AM
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Probably because of the umami factor
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:27 AM
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I come out of the wood works every couple months or so, but I don’t know of any femcel groups that have been taken down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:27 AM
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Why would men want to take an ugly girl on a date. Isn’t the ROI on the cost of a date for an ugly woman terrible regardless of how attractive the man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:25 AM
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Why can’t men on the internet wrap their head around the concept of an ugly/socially inept woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:18 AM
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I think this is the highest likelihood for me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:18 AM
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Making fun of how a lot of people on discord get shocked when they find out I’m 21 years old and not in my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:55 AM
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Maybe I’m just fucking ugly or socially retarded but I would never be able to line up 5 dates in a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:34 AM
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Hmmm, I choose the 20 year old cause I think we would be able to get along enough to where he wouldn’t hurt me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:24 AM
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No, we never knew each other’s passwords. Mine was my birthday but one of them could never remember it. I just didn’t ask for either of my ex’s passwords.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:18 AM
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Thin ice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:16 AM
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I saw it before you put the second link
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:08 AM
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Take the bass pill
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:07 AM
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Bass is better anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:07 AM
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NOOOOOOO Why’d you make this connection, now I’m gonna have it ruined too!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:55 AM
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This was very enlightening, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:54 AM
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It’s funny cause the word is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:50 AM
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But like I didn’t know that inserts on your chest could change the shape of it either so like…I’m just confused about the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:48 AM
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What would non-connecting pectoral inserts look like. I’ve never even heard of that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:47 AM
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It also fails when you consider interracial couples, or couples from different backgrounds and locations. I have more in common with a 30 year old man from Houston than I do with a 21 year old female in Italy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:45 AM
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Bop
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:44 AM
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Those aren’t femcels, more like FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:42 AM
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This just tells me you’re a whore. If a man told me he’s read The Bell Jar, I’m changing his contact name to Slut
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:40 AM
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This is so embarrassing. I thought the cat emoji was used to represent a cat and not your facial expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:39 AM
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You got another cat???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:52 PM
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literally me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:51 PM
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sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:46 PM
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Yeah I still live in a green area. I’m too pussyfooted to go somewhere like that alone though. But it is still miles better than the city I lived in which was pink. If my home is in green, I don’t think I can fathom what the places with no light pollution look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:50 PM
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I’m not 3 hours from civilizations, but I’m out of city limits of a small town around 15k where almost all lights go out at night- the stars are just not the same as in a big city. I can see your appeal to going to isolated areas at night if you live in a big city. Big cities are also just SO LOUD. I was not expecting that when I moved for college. Couldn’t appreciate the peace and quiet until I lived in the city for a bit however. Sitting outside in the city is chaotic and distracting, sitting …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:00 PM
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At least with rich, you may be more likely to get there if you’re smart with your decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:54 PM
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Hmmm, I guess it’s beneficial when not in those specific contexts you say where it doesn’t matter. Like when she’s at work, school, in public- feminism may benefit her so it’s worth supporting even if she doesn’t follow it 100% through every aspect of her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:53 PM
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Oh I agree with you, I’m currently single and don’t show my legs hardly ever- but I was asking your preference/tolerance on women, not about the actual realities of beauty standards and the two way street it is when it comes to imposing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:48 PM
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What if it was your partner. I should have clarified that I meant specifically women you’re interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:26 AM
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You’re darker skinned so you shouldn’t do what I did, but there’s at home lasers for ipl. They range in price depending on strength and type of laser. But again, you’re darker skinned and that requires specific lasers so as to not damage your skin since the lasers are targeting pigment. For you I think you need to get it professionally done or maybe look up some posts about other black women who have used machines at home and what their experiences were like/what their recommendations are. Don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:24 AM
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So you’re rocking with and encouraging the genital and armpit bushes as well as the forest on the legs?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:19 AM
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Question for men: Does body hair on women disgust you? What’s the most you could tolerate? A couple days without shaving, trimmed short, moderately trimmed, or unabashedly grown out? This applies to her whole body. If you have different tolerances for different body parts, make that known. I just finished lasering myself so I’m just thinking about body hair and the beauty standards revolving around them so I’m curious how PPD males think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:08 AM
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I like stories like this but idk if I could watch 10 years of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:06 AM
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Please don’t do this. This is how my last relationship ended. At the very least, don’t chalk up all of her complaints to “woman moments” but rather take note of what they are and if the same one keeps popping up- handle it. It’s a crushing experience to have the person you love willfully ignore your wants and needs because they view them as “woman moments” and they “know what’s best and better for you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:02 AM
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What inspired you to go to the mountains at 8 pm at night?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:58 AM
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The context is kinda important cause the meaning/inspiration behind all three of those is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:52 AM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:50 AM
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21, female, never. I’ve considered traveling solo, but ultimately I am too scared to travel solo as a female that far into isolation. There’d also be the fact that I like the little teardrop campers, and I’m sure there aren’t many places where I could haul that thing far enough into isolation to even qualify by your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:38 AM
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Drama in what context. Like fighting with bf? Gossip? Cattiness? What are we talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:37 AM
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At the end of the day she is a human as well, so I think she deserves to be protected, but that extends to you as well. As for the courts…that’s more of an election thing I think. I think. Don’t hold me to that, but I do know in America that DA’s are elected and that can help determine the outcome of various court cases under their jurisdiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:36 AM
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I have found this change in mindset toward short women very refreshing, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:34 AM
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I don’t quite know what you mean by “do something about it” but I do know that I hate low blows, and attacking appearances is one of them- for both males and females. Perhaps the low blow towards men that upsets me the most is when a woman gives up in an argument and starts hurling insults of “this is why you’re incel/single/virgin” or “have fun being alone”. It’s just cruel and unnecessary in my opinion, even if a low blow was first dealt by the man. Someone stopping low to the ground doesn’t m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:32 AM
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I think you’re not accounting for how generalizations don’t always apply to specific scenarios like you mentioned. A woman can say “I would never submit to 95% of modern men” while submitting to her male partner without making the first statement false. Generalizations, and the exceptions to the rule, exist at the same time since generalizations are just that: generalizations and not a hard fact or truth applying to every single man or woman on this planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:26 AM
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I think there’s a lot of factors here at play that change things drastically. How old is the man Has he had previous girlfriends Does he know he can become a passport bro Is he even aware of a hypergamous nature in women I feel like these factors can really affect how heavily the concept can affect a man in that situation. I know it’s common to hear such words and ideologies on Reddit, but I don’t think the average person in my country even knows how to spell ‘hypergamous’, let alone what it mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:17 AM
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Why would you feed into all the blackpillers ideologies like this 💀 I appreciate the honesty, but just know that definitely has some men fuming right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:09 AM
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People are fascinating. We’re all inherently tied or connected by some small or larger threads, but no person truly has the same experience as another. I like finding out about those ones :) I’m also more eloquent on Reddit due to constraints of the platform which makes it hard to ADHD spam comments like I do on Discord lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:05 AM
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I pop in every other month or so for a week straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:02 AM
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Just explaining the irrationality of someone with hygienic OCD. It’s not something to romanticize is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:02 AM
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Hi Sarai, it’s Froot :) I like reading fem rage, horror, and overall books and short stories with unsettling or creepy undertones; listening to epidemiology and health care system podcasts; and picking strangers’ brains online. Right now I think I just look normie basic college student as can be. Madewell mom jeans and Madewell cotton crops with black converse is my go to. I’m trying to normiemaxx so I don’t scare interviewers and potential coworkers for now. I shopped in hot topic for most of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:43 AM
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If it makes you feel better, I’m aware it’s irrational, but that’s kinda the point. Anxiety to the point of a disorder isn’t rational or based in logic. I have logic on one shoulder and my instincts (that are overly cautious) on the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:31 AM
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Although full disclosure: I have an anxiety disorder and I’m torn on which I’d choose 👉🏻👈🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:24 AM
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I think the ones that skew the likelihoods too much at the very least have an anxious personality, and an anxiety disorder at the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:24 AM
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Until she’s so stressed out by your mess that she can’t relax and get horny because she can’t stop thinking about how you don’t wipe your penis after peeing so there’s festering urine bacteria within your boxers which holds your genitalia therefore your penis is covered in urine bacteria and she won’t touch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:21 AM
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You just described agoraphobia essentially. No it’s not possible to enjoy life like that, it’s a mental disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:16 AM
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Yeah I think most of these people aren’t thinking about what their dream girl would be, and what her niche is. But rather how many types of women they’d be okay with dating and banging
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:15 AM
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That means she didn’t cure them appropriately if it was an accumulated allergy. Make sure to have a good quality lamp 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:13 AM
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I’d rethink that honestly. Look up how expensive they are and calculate how much that would cost over a year of 2x per month….I stopped getting my nails done and have been in the process of learning myself once I realized how much my parents have spent on me and my mom’s nails over the last decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:12 AM
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Wdym pay, like dates or escorts?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:10 AM
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It is completely normal to have a flat or slightly concave stomach- just not on everyone. It has to do with anatomical differences, but it’s not abnormal to have those traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:07 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:01 AM
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Ok, that’s your prerogative, not mine. Doubt it’s gonna be easy to figure out whether they’re like this or not until you’re already in a well established relationship tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:46 PM
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Cause you know that’s not gonna happen. Would you rather deal with her keep starting shit while you’re trying to sleep, or just go sleep on the couch where she isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:43 PM
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Considering Sleep Token as metal 💀 That is so funny omg. Very cringe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:42 PM
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So it’s yet to play out yet? Nice, hope it’s fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:41 PM
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Hmmm, this could be caused by a myriad of reasons, and none of them are as expensive as you may think. I think the most expensive one would be 6-8k. Which is a lot, but I’m assuming you thought you would need like bone surgery or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:39 PM
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I don’t approve of it, but I will acknowledge it is creating a problem that needs to be fixed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:33 PM
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Hold on, are the people listening to Sleep Token and reading fantasy nerd shit men or women. I have never heard of that combo in a man, only liberal female millennials who have the body of a 40 year old with 3 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:32 PM
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Like you put your latest campaign into words? Or are you world building?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:29 PM
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Ah yes, make the issue to fix being down and needing to be up!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:28 PM
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Tell us what’s wrong with your eyes or post a zoomed in photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:26 PM
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Make a problem so you can fix it ✨ Unironically this is a plus side of having a woman in your life (I’m not trying to make a dig) because we are on an endless journey of making a house as homely as possible so we’re always making up new issues. This eventually will be viewed as a con when you have no time to relax because the guest room needs to be rearranged for the 4th time that year :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:24 PM
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Yes, I know millennial women who do it as well, but it’s more of a guest room.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:22 PM
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You could replace men with women and woman with man and it would still ring true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:32 AM
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The reason it’s like that in my head is because I didn’t think all of that foreplay was what the question was asking about. I don’t hike. I don’t camp. I don’t go on trails. For me, this is either I’m instantly transported, or it doesn’t happen at all. I would say I’m more dedicated to not being alone in the woods with a strange man since I simply stay out of the woods and aren’t in one with anybody. I also think you shouldn’t apply chronically online men’s agendas towards everything- to a rando…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:20 AM
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It’s called being on the outside looking in. A threat that you have personal stake in will seem much larger to you than someone with no personal stake in it. This goes vice verse for both sexes. I think you guys are overly anxious sometimes, but for sure some of my concerns would make men think the same thing about me. I don’t think it’s sex specific tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:26 PM
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That’s impressive omg. How long does he spend on Twitter/Instagram looking for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:23 PM
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What’s the lowest follower count of an attractive e-girl he has found? I’m genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:20 PM
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In my head the scenario was a sort of “be instantaneously transported into a location with either a bear or a man.” So there was no assessment of the man to be made until the situation is already at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:17 PM
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And I’m not talking about like Stacy vs Becky being preference, I’m talking about sorority girl vs gamer girl vs granola girl vs goth mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:13 PM
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I think men find most women attractive but I also think every man has a type, and if he could, would rather have a woman with those attributes over a woman of the same looks rating without them- if he had the option of pulling either of them. That’s why men tend to care less about type- they can’t always pull what type of woman they may prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:12 PM
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If we’re being completely honest, he probably got her pregnant and decided to stick it out. He looks miserable and tired, not insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:02 AM
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I think some women are only looking at the most heinous things men have done, while also looking at the most positive sides of a bear encounter. Bears can’t speak, bears don’t get into arguments with us, we don’t know anybody who has been sexually assaulted or raped by a bear. Hard to make the bear out as the bad guy, when we have the entire human history of bad things random men have done- to attribute to some hypothetical boogey man. I think the women genuinely believe it, but aren’t aware of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:44 PM
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You know how when a guy hears something so outrageously black pilled revolving around the chad cock carousel coming from a woman’s mouth so he gets jaded and starts treating and viewing every woman as if she was the one who said that? Well, every woman I know, either has been, or knows another woman who has been groomed by older men (like when they are of illegal age, I’m not talking about an 18 year old and a 20 year old), sexually assaulted, or raped. When every woman you know has either exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:38 PM
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Do you know how much money and time is spent by women on beautifying themselves? Don’t you think it’s comparable?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:30 PM
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I would need to see what you consider unattractive before I agree or disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:27 PM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:23 PM
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Didn’t you say you would drug them though? Wouldn’t that turn them into the damaged women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:11 PM
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This is only an attractive proposal if you genuinely find inflicting pain and suffering onto women, a turn on. Otherwise, wouldn’t it be better to at least just be a pimp and pay women in one way or another to have sex with you? In one scenario they’ll be screaming and entirely non-consensual, in the other you have the benefits of underworld activity freedom and the money that comes with it as well as women who will actually consent to the sex being had.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:08 PM
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Nickelback is nostalgic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:01 PM
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I think they’re both the unlikely, but extremely bad situation of the scenario playing out. But people don’t like to be realistic about likelihoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:59 PM
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These numbers aren’t adding up. 71% say under 6 ft is a deal breaker, but only 50% say he has to be taller than her. How does that work, are they all Amazonian women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:56 PM
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I’m a woman, so I choose the woman. I understand your distrust of a random stranger of the opposite sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:55 PM
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John Lennon. Sad depressing music makes me sad and depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:54 PM
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I’m either commenting on every daily discussion reply, or I’m MIA for a month or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:48 PM
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I tend to have bursts of activity on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:47 PM
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I’m autistic. I’ll acknowledge that males at my level are far more socially adept than me, and they’ve become so out of necessity whereas I’ve skirted by on the fact I’m a woman and therefore don’t need as much mastery to get partners. But for average men vs average women, I think women are more socially adept.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:44 PM
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Virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:40 PM
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It does for most. Be polite about it and don’t intentionally try to gas your partner with farts and you should be fine. And if your bathroom activities are especially stinky, please for the love of god use some poopourri
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:39 PM
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We’re bringing a little wagon, and he’s dragging me when my swollen pregnant feet start to hurt too much. Something like this: https://imgur.com/a/bb2TVav
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:38 PM
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I think I will, thank you for the suggestion. This seems to be personally motivated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:12 PM
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Sounds like she just likes excel spreadsheets. I tend to make random trackers as well when bored, and if my body count was high- I’d probably do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:09 PM
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I am also jealous, and the idea of a partner being with someone much hotter than me (likelihood goes up with the number), brings me lots of turmoil. I understand your struggle. Women do tend to utilize insecurities, don’t let anybody try to talk you out of your very reasonable concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:07 PM
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Because it’s a core part of a relationship, and having similar fundamental thoughts and opinions over a core part of a relationship is kinda necessary for it to work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:04 PM
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I think it has to do with memory capacity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:03 PM
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Do you remember what they considered counted and what didn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:02 PM
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If he knows too much about girls and girly things without having a sister. It means he’s a whore. Who taught you that using a peach toned concealer under the eye would help brighten dark circles??? Slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:00 PM
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Basically all social and behavioral research isn’t very valid if you look at methodology, measurements, and all the limitations they cannot account for. Signed, -Social and Behavioral Researcher
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:59 PM
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Glad I’m not the only one who picked up the flirtatious tone of that comment, it confused me quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:54 PM
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It’s a win in that it’s a common rebuttal made by young men when arguments get volatile between young men and women. If she gets triggered by the question and starts unabashedly attacking him, he has a rebuttal card up his sleeve of, “but I still hit tho.” Why are you grabbing at straws to insist sleeping with this man is a loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:53 PM
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To feel out if she’s dating material to them or not. I’m a woman and I’m going to be employing that question moving forward in dating men. I don’t want a man who engages in casual sex, that’s a core value so yeah, I’m gonna ask that pretty quickly to figure out if I’m wasting my time or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:50 PM
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I feel like this is a common opinion held by young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:48 PM
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My n count is 2. Going into my last relationship, I didn’t care for what my partner’s body count was. However, leaving it- I do care now. I would prefer their’s is very close to mine. My ex never had a real girlfriend before me but had a body count of 8 when meeting me, and I feel he wasn’t capable of pair bonding and having loving, intimate sex due to his previous experiences all lacking in emotional intimacy. Nothing felt tender or loving, it all felt like primal, monkey-brained, fucking. I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:47 PM
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I’m overweight, living in a rural area, living with my parents and painfully scared of affection and socialization after leaving my most recent relationship. I think I’m going to reach that 6 month mark in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:33 PM
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I’m a woman, but I find the interest in feet hot because it’s degenerate, and a bit pathetic tbh. So like I don’t like feet, but I like when they like feet. Does that make sense? Also because it sounds like a plus to date someone who enjoys and appreciates things men don’t really like, such as pedicures, heels, pantyhose, and sandals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:03 AM
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You think that’d be beneficial? Imagine how frustration summer time is with all them toes out and about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:00 AM
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dolly parton is the country marilyn monroe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:58 PM
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It’s a pinned up hair style. Her hair is long and curly, just pinned up. Her hair cut is just fine, just styled for that decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:58 PM
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This is a great conversation, but you’re right it’s very much in the weeds. These conversations are a pain in the ass to type, I apologize for taking it there and not continuing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:34 PM
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I meant that it’s not the common advice, although accurate. Requires a bit of knowledge on menstruation most people don’t have to understand the mechanism at work and believe it. You’d think most women know how a period works, and it’s sad that’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:20 PM
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Huh, I’m a zoomer in Texas. It’s still majorly taboo for high school students to be on it, and the ones who are, have judgement passed on them because of stupid people who don’t know that it’s used to treat some things. But thinking about it, I don’t know many girls who took birth control in high school that weren’t sexually active at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:47 PM
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You’re telling me it’s necessary to quantify objective reality, and then go on to list situations where discernment is needed and you need to make a decision based on your past experiences, knowledge, intellect, and perception of the state of events….So not objective reality. I do not see objective reality, and I never will. I am guided by my own set of morals and logic that guide my decisions, and thus my interpretation of reality. And what set my morals and logic? Well you’d need to step into …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:44 PM
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Sounds like a single family. Sure this happens to some families, but it’s almost never the dad. Not denying it was the dad in this case, but that’s too much of a pill to swallow for most dads. The pill being “my young teen daughter is probably going to have unprotected sex AND get pregnant.” It’s a common likelihood, but most dads like to be delulu and pretend their little angel would never. Are you from a very progressive area by chance? I grew up in a red state, may be a cultural difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:16 PM
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Females initiate most divorces, yes. But are most marriages that divorce the scenario you described? Most likely no. Connect the dots. You described a man who is one of the best husbands on earth. Choose your story, is he the best of the best or is he doing something bad enough to be determined worthy of divorce 5 years after it’s happened? This opinion is a disconnect on what logical actually means. You simply just described your criteria and justification for said criteria. Doesn’t really prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:12 PM
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They’re both terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:56 PM
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just like yall
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:55 PM
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That’s what I thought. If she’s not lying, I can see why she would turn a new leaf. That’s probably a soul crushing revelation to people who think casual sex is validating/use it as a means to gain affection and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:55 PM
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In his defense, most women do subconsciously strive to have something to be jealous of. Whether it’s beauty, a perfect relationship, nice body, expensive bags, and expensive/beautiful trips. We do tend to show off our feathers quite frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:51 PM
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The exercise one is kinda weird, but you got the normal experience. Eat some steak and broccoli and take a pain pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:49 PM
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This is very untrue. The only people who really push it on us is mothers fearful of their daughter getting pregnant young, and male sexual partners. Otherwise doctors don’t give a shit about it unless the girl has endometriosis or PCOS and it can alleviate symptoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:48 PM
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The argument is a bit silly imo. It may be true that validation gained from meeting an ever changing requirement one day will carry no weight the next, but I wouldn’t attach negative emotions to the concept. It would be akin to being upset that a clean butt will eventually become unclean, so it’s concluded that wiping and washing an ass is not worth doing since there’s no validation to be gained. Being a good partner should be a constant goal, akin to keeping a clean butt. It’s not done because …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:45 PM
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No I don’t believe it. The scenario he describes more often occurs when the gender is swapped. For sure it’s happened in some sort of marriage, but I don’t think that fringe cases really matter. Also unrelated pet peeve, I hate when such self-help people say “it’s not logical”. Based on what? Hard to quantify feelings, and we haven’t even determined a criteria to deem whether or not something is logical, by definition, anything and everything can be logical with the right perspective and opinion…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:36 PM
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Idc if you’re the love of my life, why would I subject myself to die during the next winter? Do you realize what that’s asking of someone? What about kids, pets? Never having a functioning phone to ever talk to your own parents or family again? Never being warm? Fungal and bacterial infections of the genitals due to improper hygiene? Loss of teeth due to improper hygiene? Increased disease rate due to close contact with rodents? <—Which heavily exposes you to one of the worst ways to die, by han…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:31 AM
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Ok fine, she requires you to take a lie detector test (pretend it’s as accurate as a paternity test). Would you not feel offended your spouse accused you of something that you didn’t do? And this applies to anything, cheating, stealing, sexual assault. I don’t understand how some of the people in this thread are acting like they would just brush off their own spouse believing them to be liars or criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:49 PM
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Okay so question, I leave you alone with my niece for a couple hours and then a week later ask you if you sexually assaulted her. Men sexually assault children all the time, women care about it, so why wouldn’t you ask? Because without asking men in general have the option and power to sexually assault children. Do you understand how throwing a serious accusation at your spouse could cause marital problems, even if the accusation is baseless and did not happen? Don’t be dense. Any woman would fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:23 PM
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My dad gives me holiday money in strange packages. Last time he took a pill bottle, removed the label, put money in it, and covered it with my name, instructions on how to take, expected symptoms, amount, and who “prescribed” it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:12 PM
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I count physical labor in my day to day life as standard of living so yea lol. I can’t imagine doing anymore, and not constantly feeling overwhelmed and sad because my day would be overran by chores and child rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:10 PM
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But I also acknowledge that not getting a paternity test if she cheats, is also bad. Just weigh your options veryyyy carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:07 PM
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I’ve never cheated and I don’t think I have it in me to ever cheat. If my future husband were to ask for a paternity test during a pregnancy or after I’ve given birth, I think I would have to divorce him. Those are serious accusations, and denote that the trust in the relationship is nonexistent. Just end it at that point since that’s an incredibly important foundation for relationships. Just be aware of that^ Accuse someone of being a cheater when they’re not, and it’ll likely come back to bite…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:06 PM
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How would you know whether or not she slept with other men on the 1st date
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:00 PM
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I think he’s referring to what became of the haute bourgeois which ended up being like bankers and business owners. But I find it inaccurate and confusing to refer to modern capitalists the bourgeoisie, considering more than half of them didn’t even turn into haute bourgeois
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:01 PM
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Anxiety do be doing that fr fr. I couldn’t sleep a couple days ago because I was terrified about falling off a cliff while hiking (I have never been hiking and have no present plans to do so).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:55 PM
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When you want to refer to capitalists, just say capitalism or capitalists. You confuse people when you say bourgeoisie because everyone’s mind goes to bourgeoisie movement where the middle class overturned the status quo of not allowing them personal liberties. I can only assume you’re talking about what the haute bourgeoisie turned into.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:53 PM
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No, this is so funny omg 😭 Karl Marx is THE ONE who denoted the middle class during the 18th and 19th century as liberal and progressive, who were against ruling by “divine right” and wanted a constitution government. This is so embarrassing for you 🙈 Guess what they were called??? THE BOURGEOISIE
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:50 PM
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When I said beautiful I meant by personality, she has changed kinda sorta recently. But she was attacked at work and so it makes sense and I’m not cruel enough to turn away someone for responding normally to a traumatic situation. One of my best friends has backstabbed me at one point, but she was also 13 years old lol. Faking the whole friendship? Hard to determine so I can’t imagine a scenario like that playing out. Like how would you even know that unless they tell you? I think I’m too sentim…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:45 PM
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You’d be more correct if you said x, y, z is used similarly to what the rich did during the bourgeoisie movement. She’s right, the bourgeoisie is actually just the middle class. The bourgeoisie is the good guys, but zoomers have completely defiled the meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:43 PM
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Idk why zoomers determined to redefine that word, but they did. When they say the bourgeoise, they’re referring to like the movement in its entirety, not the actual middle class. They took the message from it and slapped it onto that word, and I don’t think they actually understand what the word itself means.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:40 PM
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Most often advice I hear from older corporate professionals, is regretting not making more of their life. Don’t let yourself come home and watch Netflix for five hours every day during the week. You can enjoy your time those nights as well. Get hobbies and attend classes, don’t even have to make more friends, just don’t let the days pass you in a blur so in a year you don’t even remember what you did, or nothing memorable sticks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:38 PM
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Idk, my mother is a beautiful person and I think I would have loved her no matter what timeline we would meet. Whether she’s my mother, sister, friend, teacher, boss, whatever. Same with my best friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:35 PM
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Ok the only way I would accept a man who “doesn’t want to be a capitalist cog” is if he was pursuing FIRE, has attained it, and supports himself through returns on his investments and dividends. Otherwise, it’s a huge commie cope for being lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:33 PM
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Be financially smart so if you’re ever laid off, you have enough savings that can maintain your contribution to the bills for 6 months (which should be long enough to get a job) and you’ll be fine 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:31 PM
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No, not being able to get onto your feet, coming from a job that previously covered your rent and expenses, and now you pay at most half of rent, is a skill issue. He wouldn’t be experiencing the set backs that primarily hold back homeless people from not being homeless anymore. I think you’re being unreasonable expecting people to fully support someone else who isn’t working or contributing. Make him a house husband and the situation changes. But not being able to recover from that, coming from…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:30 PM
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Would you stay in a relationship where a woman loved you but she refused to help around the house or fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:26 PM
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Hard disagree. Were you considering your family when you wrote that, or just romantic unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:25 PM
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I had one, too ADHD for me. I got an autistic black cat boyfriend now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:23 PM
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Typically, it’s because they either don’t do what their population is known for. Surprising, I know. OR The controversial things they do are not as easy to be mad about anymore because they are now being perceived as a real life, complex, multi-faceted individual who has both bad and good things, so the good things may outweigh the bad habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:23 PM
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I haven’t had a male friend since high school but I just remember how painful it was to try and get this man to actually speak about himself. I find most men are like this around that age, and they kinda ruin it for women on how we view being friends with men. It’s like pulling teeth to get them to tell us anything that isn’t a material interest like games, hobbies, activities. Start asking them the “why” questions, and they clam up. I think it has to do largely with how men speak to each other.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:19 PM
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As long as you have gas money, yeah. I remember in high school, getting coffee then sitting in my car at parks playing Pokémon Go as my bestie and I talked and talked and talked for hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:15 PM
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I mean, it kinda just makes sense to me. Your cousin you haven’t seen in years, if they haven’t done you dirty; do you still love them? What about your friend from high school you spent every day with, and made crucial memories with but haven’t talked to in four years; do you still love them? Even if the above people have done you dirty at one point or another; do you still think about them time to time and miss the good moments you had together? I refuse to believe people can spend years togeth…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:12 PM
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I believe so. I’ve seen it before. My parents are divorced, they no longer view each other as romantic partners obviously, since both are remarried. But they still communicate very well and nothing is weird or vindictive between them. They’re family. Of course maybe if they didn’t have me, things will change. But as my mom has said, “He will never not be the father of my daughter.” That’s a familial bond, even after the love has faded. Problem is, I think a lot of men like to shrug their fatherl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:08 PM
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I have to agree that this does happen. But I don’t think they ever truly loved that person. I can’t imagine intentionally hurting or destroying the imagine of someone you love just so you can get over them. But then again, I have seen a Tiktok where a woman says, “You have to convince yourself you hate them to get over them.” So idk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:00 PM
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I don’t think anybody ever forgets someone they fell in love with unless it’s a dissociative trauma response or they have memory issues. I am attracted to a very specific type of man, you could say my relationships and crushes have all been with the same genre of man. Dark hair, dark eyes, tech savvy, STEM nerd. They play similar games, watch similar medias, have similar humor, etc etc. I will never forget the men I have fallen in love with and I think if you actually love someone, you’ll always…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:57 PM
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Adding on: The products don’t stain your shower and bathtub, but they WILL stain a white towel and light fabrice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:52 PM
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If you’re olive toned, red will be best. If you’re blue undertoned, violet will be best. If you’re neutral, pick your fav. Both are memorable, the violet in natural lighting ends up looking pretty intense and insane. But I guess red has more impact at first glance. But again, red is hard to maintain. Joico color infuse red shampoo and conditioner will treat you well if you go red. But forewarning, it will get everywhere in your shower and while it doesn’t stain the bathroom, it’s just kinda anno…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:51 PM
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People are saying this one, but I’m not answering until I know your skin tone. A lot of people look like clowns with this color. It’s very hit or miss. The safer option is the other one. Less chance of it looking bad with the other color. Also I’ve had this color before, red is very hard to maintain. Perhaps the hardest to maintain. You’ll need red shampoos and red conditioners if you don’t want it to fade within a week and a half. The other one was more violet, which retains better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:39 PM
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Maybe in women who don’t commonly change their appearances. But for my fellas who like alternative women, don’t get spooked! We consistently change our appearance drastically so it’s nothing to be scared of 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:30 PM
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It’s only exciting if you understand what the factors at play are. Things like slip streams and when’s the last time the tires were replaced affecting their grip and if they’re warmed up. Ask your girlfriend what a slip stream is. If she knows what it is, then you can be upset that she was bored. If she doesn’t, then you need to understand that she has no idea what’s happening
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:31 AM
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Rally is the only one worth watching tbh. Everything else is boring as all hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:03 AM
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Formula 1 is very boring to anyone who doesn’t care about cars. You’re kind of an idiot to expect someone who doesn’t care for cars to pretend to be interested in cars going in a circle for 50 laps. I’d get pissed if my boyfriend ever got mad at me for losing interest at an event like that. Even I’m okay with the topic of cars, and watch racing animes with him. But no way in hell am I going to be interested in watching 50+ laps. You need to be so fr right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:01 AM
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Adding on to my previous post: But if she belonged on r/torpedotits , that’d be a different story. But it doesn’t look like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:26 AM
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I care more about shape than size so she’s not doing it for me :/ Past grade 1 ptosis and you’ve lost me entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:24 AM
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It varies a lot. Depends on how much of the population is white. We have lots of Hispanics and native Mexicans down here, so they drag the average down A LOT. I’d say maybe 5’3? Hard to find a Hispanic woman over 5’5, but very easy to find one under 5’3.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:15 AM
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The good thing here though, is that if a woman manages to notice you’re well off, you can trust she’s not an idiot and probably is smart enough to live by similar principles of not going into major debt for flashy items. Mention things like “starter home” (don’t know if you actually plan on upgrading one day if you have a family or not, but if you do) and a smart woman should be able to pick up that you’re financially smart
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:14 AM
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She’s 21? That’s so sad, she looks like she’s at least 30 years old. Being overweight really does age people :/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:08 AM
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Hmmm, go to the southern states and this isn’t the case by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:05 AM
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I was thinking even worse than that, like even being able to divorce. But yeah, women couldn’t even have credit cards until 1996.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:45 AM
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No, they weren’t mean to me before that, and if they were, I don’t quite remember it or didn’t focus on it. They were very neutral. But it’s that sudden good treatment that pissed me off. I didn’t expect them to like me before glowing up, and I honestly didn’t like them either, I felt we were incompatible so never even had a crush on these guys. I just found it so strange how they knew who I was as a person already. I went to a very, very, VERY small school. Everyone knows and talks to, everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:16 AM
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I don’t know about that. Women couldn’t say no to their husbands legally until like the 50s, so historically men just took and did what they wanted before then. You could write something like that, but it wouldn’t be accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:01 AM
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Men think we want only their money, women think y’all only want our bodies. I think it’s fine for both to be concerned with the notion given how often those occurrences happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:48 AM
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Did I say I’m a victim? I simply stated what happened consistently through history, and only stopped recently if you take into consideration the entire length of time that humans have existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:45 AM
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What statement did I make about the red pill and manosphere? I’m confused about what you’re saying. I think men have right to be concerned about whether women want just their money or not, so no I don’t particularly care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:43 AM
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Even when I was in middle school I was attracted to weirdos. Formative moment for me was when there was a resounding “Ewwww” through the 6th grade locker room when it was my turn to say my crush 😔. I would never consider dating a hot engineer. I am painfully mid and I don’t really trust men (obviously). I do appreciate the intelligence and likely openness to me being strange since they probably hung out with fringe groups as well. I had a glow up in the last two years of high school and it hones…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:30 AM
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Difference is, it’s very normal and common for women not to trust men. Idk where you got that last bit from so I’ll ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:22 AM
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You’re considering spending $800 and flying 16 hours in total for some pussy. Why do you think they would struggle to maintain self respect when they would be investing less than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:20 AM
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The male replacement bots will not take longer, they don’t have to be male shaped or personified as such. AI weaponry is already in process of being created. We are in entering the 3rd Industrial Revolution where robots are being created and trained to slowly but surely, replace humans in factories and be completely automated. We already have fuck machines and sex toys for women galore. Men often throw the AI girlfriends and sex bots in our faces, but I’d be more scared if I was a man! Doesn’t h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:10 AM
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I need men to be less good looking because I don’t trust y’all therefore you need to have less opportunities and options to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:01 AM
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Some people genuinely want to raise children, and if that is something you truly desire, there is nothing that will ever be as fulfilling. Men who actually want that are rare, but if he says so, then I believe him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:57 AM
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By this logic, what’s the point of men if we have robot factory lines to assemble things, AI controlled weaponry, and dildos?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:55 AM
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A factor in the matter is that historically, our sexualization often ended in predation or sexual violence, so we’re very uncomfortable with the notion. Men historically experience far less negative experiences with sexualization, so I assume that’s why y’all are so unbothered with it. Don’t have a good supply of horror stories or bad endings to justify the vocalization of disliking sexualization.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:52 AM
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Just remembered this post. Grannymaxxing is a joke playing off how I give off an older woman vibe if my age wasn’t in my flair. People for some reason always think I’m 30+ Btw, you’re the guy who has a toji santa claus pfp on discord right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 08:55 AM
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I would measure body fat percent and then assess from there. Don’t follow BMI, body fat percent is more important, and more accurate when determining how far to go weight loss wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:40 AM
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Nlogs are gonna keep nlogging
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:14 AM
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Maybe you just don’t care for them then. Why would you miss someone if you don’t really like or love their presence? Not saying you don’t have ADHD but I question how valid that symptom is. Like for real, why would you miss them…if you don’t like them…Wouldn’t you NOT want someone you don’t like to be around you? I have ADHD. @ non-ADHD people, am I making sense or am I just validating this TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:30 AM
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Jesus Christ, I thought it was a position or something so I was in images and was just seeing a card from magic the gathering 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:39 PM
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No idea what this combination of words mean, I even googled it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:21 PM
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Mixture of the two. I say “I’m thirsty” and hold out my cup so there’s no confusion on what I want. He knows he can say no. We both do this to each other. Someone gets up, “Hey can you hold this?” or some other ploy, shove your cup into their hands and smile like a shithead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:19 PM
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Unironically, I have put a pillow over my bf’s face multiple times before because him looking at me makes me nervous sometimes. I totally understand why you don’t want to look at the women, even if they’re pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:14 PM
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“So what I’m hearing is, you don’t think I’m pretty” 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:05 PM
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Consistently the men I run into in these spaces think 1 blowjob = 1 n. They’ll argue amongst themselves about what handjobs count as, but are incredibly regular with their belief of a blowjob being considered a body.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:05 PM
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You’re not getting all that servitude and expect me to pay half the bills. Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:02 PM
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It’s way more nuanced than this. Your body only does that if you eat below your BMR, eat above your BMR but below your TDEE and you’ll have consistent weight loss with the slowly of metabolism. It’s the “eat 800-1200 calories a day” diets that slow your metabolism by making you fatigued so you stop moving, aka stop burning calories. If someone somehow managed to force themselves to continue their normal daily activities on those incredibly low cal diets, the weight would still come off, but now …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:01 PM
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If that’s the first position you do, yes it’s cold and not intimate, and feels objectifying. I would be asking myself, “Why doesn’t he want to see my face?”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:48 PM
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Bold woman. I hope she undressed while she was up there and not before she climbed up 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:11 PM
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Idk I’m mid, maybe for hot girls it’s different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:04 PM
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Yeah, she was the only one fired. Innocent victim of unfair treatment. The men who were involved with her don’t get penalized? She can’t give blowjobs to another cop during duty by herself, now can she? She’s a whore, and I’m not saying otherwise. I said they should’ve just punished the guys too and they would’ve been able to avoid this whole shebang. But nooo, you think I’m whining because I’m using logic and viewing it from a legal perspective :(((((
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:41 PM
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Explain orbiters then, or women who post in r/selfie or r/amiugly or r/looksmaxxingadvice. Or any woman who posts nudes online or sexts online with any stranger that passes her way. Women love attention and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:36 PM
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More like she got 500k for being fired unfairly and payment for what is almost revenge porn. She was the only one fired, not any of her coworkers, until she sued. As well as they spread a video of her among the ranks, and her Chief knew about it and made jokes when he was showed naked photos of her. She claims she was groomed, but ultimately that’s not why she got paid. Would have been fine and dandy if they all got in trouble for fucking around on the job and being gross at the beginning, but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:32 PM
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Maybe you’re bad at conversation. Women love attention and validation, regardless of who it’s from unless she thinks you’re gonna rape or kill her. That’s the whole concept supporting orbiters. I can’t say for sure because I haven’t read any of your conversations. But that’s definitely weird that none of them play into and are receptive of the validation that comes from being desired. Insecure women are a dime a dozen. I find the likelihood that you’ve only had conversations with women who don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:23 PM
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What’s important is the immersion in a social hierarchy and learning to adapt as they shift and form as they get older. By the time they’re adults, they should be able to understand and move freely in it without snags. For example, seeing that for some groups, the measure of who’s on top has to do with money, for some it’s athletic success, or intellectual success, how many colleges accepted them, who’s done the most drugs, who parties the most, etc etc. Growing up in a home with your siblings w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:20 PM
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Tell him he’s an idiot. Kids need socialization and need to group up and watch and learn the social dos and don’ts from the naturally formed social hierarchies. If they don’t get that opportunity, you’re basically damning them to social awkwardness and ineptitude in their adult years. No, extracurriculars won’t cut it. That’s like 5 hours a week at best for most of elementary school. They need to be socially immersed. Sending them to private school will do the job if you’re concerned about educa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:09 PM
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Yeah we’re pretty friendly and social. Moving out of the south scares me cause it sounds like people everywhere else are assholes in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:02 PM
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I don’t think anyone will think anything of it. Still common to see braces frequently in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:55 PM
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There are two things that come to mind. Lives disproportionately in red states: Christians, but they don’t commit homicide disproportionately. Commits homicide disproportionately: black people, but they don’t live disproportionately in red states I don’t think. Is it cops?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:55 PM
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Even if they were on a full grown man? Idk how old OP is, but I’m assuming at least college age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:23 PM
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I wouldn’t think they’re attractive on anyone over the age of say, 22. She’s still in high school so it’s different. Lots of people still have braces at that age. I thought braces were cute in high school. Now? On a grown man? That’s kind of strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:21 PM
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I cannot comprehend what you must look like given that long list of ethnicities and races
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:18 PM
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So what about people who didn’t have it when they were young, and slowly developed it as they got older? You think that’s still genetics?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:17 PM
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They want to tan as much of them as possible. Women who have fenced in yards, don’t live with their family, and like to tan, will often tan naked in their backyard so there’s no weird lines or anything. Idk why men don’t wear speedos, I’m not a man. Although they don’t seem comfortable since most of y’all don’t wear briefs, but rather boxers. I know y’all have something like 4 inch inseam trunks that are becoming more popular though. Those seem comfortable since that’s a common inseam for boxers…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:15 PM
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This may be so stupid of me, but when I hear abortion restriction, I attribute red state or conservative state. What’s the confounding variable sir 👁️👄👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:11 PM
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Everyone’s bodies are different, you just have to shop around. But looking at your preferences in these replies, I recommend Madewell. Here’s their one pieces —-> https://www.madewell.com/womens/swim/one-piece-swimsuits
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:00 PM
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I don’t know. Knowing women, I think there may be some women who believe themselves to be smart and genuinely believe this. But immediately in my head, I think “wouldn’t it make more sense to replace good looking men with men who have active social lives and unattractive men with men who don’t touch grass.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:54 PM
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If I don’t have kids, cat sanctuary is definitely something I’d like to do, even if it’s relatively small.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:51 PM
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Pineapple is so good after a heavy meal too, since it has bromelain which helps break down proteins. Watermelon I agree with, honeydew???? Hell no. Disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:50 PM
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I don’t wash my fruits half the time. I don’t care. Depends on the produce tho. I’d wash something that was buried in soil or close to it. But most fruit is washed when it’s processed in the packaging factories.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:54 PM
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Living in an apartment currently, but maybe I can convince my parents to do that on their land. There is some peach orchards (farms?) around me and I do visit them when it’s peach season.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:52 PM
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I’d say you’d need determination, if statistics about sobriety attempts say anything. The more attempts you make, the more likely you are to succeed in your next attempt. It’s proven in the context I said, but I personally apply it to every aspect of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:51 PM
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Sorry 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:49 PM
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Oh well that’s if I had unlimited money. I don’t obviously, so I have more important priorities like buying a house, saving for retirement, starting a college fund for my future kids. I refuse to buy a couple thousand dollar bag when that money has better use currently. Oh, I would absolutely be happy with that! I was only saying what one aspect of having unlimited money would look like. In complete seriousness, what would be the most fulfilling out of that scenario would be buying essentially a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:49 PM
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Really helpful to wash and dry the ones that can stand to be in room temp, and just leave them in a bowl out in the open on the counter. Really helps with that situation where you kinda want a snack but don’t know what to get. It’s washed, dried, and ready just on the counter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:44 PM
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I don’t play roblox bc i was out of the loop as a kid, but I do really enjoy Ayesha.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:43 PM
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you can change environments however.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:42 PM
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because that would be a smart usage of time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:39 PM
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Spring has sprung, ladies and gents! Fresh fruit everywhere you look in the grocery store! Guava, papaya, mango, dragonfruit (allergic, rip), kiwis, coconuts, passion fruit, giant grapes, melons, strawberries, cherries, pineapple, persimmons, you name it! Peaches are my favorite but they’re not in season right now, but I am overjoyed with the variety of produce right now. Mangos for mangonadas and a whole shelf dedicated to snacking fruit! Any produce this season you’re looking forward to?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:38 PM
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You definitely described a lot of women. But I will say, there is a male counterpart to these women. It’s typically among men of high status. It’s the belief that your partner is a reflection of you, your status, and your success. Therefore, it’s typically it’s not disputed that she lean into materialism, narcissism, and caring about what others think, because he does as well. It’s like a subtle way of comparing dick sizes when your wife has the biggest rock at the celebration. I say let them pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:33 PM
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Emotional eating maybe? Also refers to when someone doesn’t eat because of stress. But if it was long term, it’d be called anorexia, but not anorexia nervosa. Anorexia nervosa is the disorder, just plain anorexia is when you lose appetite from something like doing chemo or taking ADHD meds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:27 PM
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Obsession with heels (borderline fetish) and I love intricately designed nails but refrain due to connotations associated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:24 PM
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That Bendayan woman is an idiot. Not a doctor but reading hormonal panels and studies she doesn’t have the education to understand. And the two birth controls she used, used the same active ingredient, so whoever decided that was a good idea is also an idiot. <—-Dislike her Can’t believe TikTok removed those birth control videos connecting them to mental health issues, because that’s well documented that it can make preexisting ones worse or bring them out of remission so of course the stats wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:20 PM
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First off, you’re the goat for doing this. Thank you king. Edit: too stupid to see you weren’t done, ignore what I had before about the article if you saw it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:51 PM
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Have fun brother! It’s amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:49 PM
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Spring has sprung, ladies and gents! Grocery store was full of fresh fruit and I could not be happier! Dragonfruit (im allergic, rip), mangos, kiwis, coconuts, guavas, strawberries, GIANT grapes, papaya, pineapples, persimmons, passion fruit, you name it! My fridge is full of fruit and I am very joyful at the moment. I’m wondering if anyone has a specific item they look forward to in the spring? My favorite fruit is peaches, so I’m not looking for anything in particular right now, but I intensel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:48 PM
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Well if you have women showing interest in you with little to no effort, that should speak for itself in where you stand. Now it’s just learning social skills it sounds like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:44 PM
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That has to do with morality, not attraction. We can’t answer that. Having money is a plus dating wise, but whether or not they’ll try to divorce rape you is entirely dependent on the individual woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:38 PM
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I would tell him to start complimenting the girls in his special ed classroom or life skills groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:37 PM
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So like, girls like you and you just can’t land them in bed or a relationship? Or girls don’t like you at all. Cause a combination of smart, hot, and nice face should be enough for women to flirt with you of their own volition. But then again, I don’t know how often you’re actually in a space where women are. If you were a CS major, you likely haven’t ran into very many through college, so you could genuinely just not know how women feel about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:36 PM
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My heart goes out to you. Most women aren’t actually aware of the subtleties of their own feelings, or won’t admit to not so good intentions/mind games/tests, etc. Wishing you the best of luck and rooting for you in this endeavor of understanding women!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:33 PM
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I downloaded the Nolvus mod pack recently, I’m scared just thinking about how realistic they would look if I turned off the arachnophobia mod. Btw, Nolvus really makes it basically an entirely different game. The replay-ability of the game is insane now. I love the Skyrim modding community. But fair warning, the Nolvus mod pack does take like….8 hours to download if you don’t pay for a subscription with Nexxus to make it download automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:32 PM
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I believe you do not exist. And if you do, you should be slaying and not on this app right now. Go away and leave us undesirables alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:28 PM
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My grandparents were hoarders as well since my parents grew up dirt poor. I think I’m very blessed that the preference for cleanliness was conditioned into me. I know many people who have very clean parents, but that preference didn’t transfer over and they live in filth in their apartments and homes. I think it can be a cycle of sorts sometimes with clean generation, hoarders generation, clean generation, hoarder generation. Both have a capability of passing on, but the cycle happens a lot. Hoa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:26 PM
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Don’t even mention the spiders omg, I forgot about them entirely. I quit the moment when you come across a cave of them with whoever you chose in the beginning. Immediately downloaded an arachnophobia mod. Even with the dwarven spiders in dwemer dungeons, I had reactions similar to what a seizure looks like. Boyfriend thought it was funny. I did not. Had to install a patch on the mod to get rid of those. I cannot play games with spiders in them, it’s not just being scared, it’s like if you could…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:23 PM
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I have cat allergy. I have two cats. I simply suffer in silence because I’m never getting rid of these fuckers. I’ll die of nose cancer from repeated inflammation in the sinuses before I stop owning cats. Do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:16 PM
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You mean having a combination of intelligent, hot, and idiot? Dunno, can’t comprehend. Sorry brother 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:13 PM
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Ok but living in the alchemists shack is way too far from anything. I do not trust that me and my partner would be so self sufficient as to not need to live within, or at least in incredibly close proximity, to a hold. Can you imagine only making monthly trips or so to a hold to stock up? You’d need horses now, enough left over from your farm to craft materials to sell in town instead of working in town, and just THINK of how much mead that would be. Absolutely not. My ass is staying in a hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:10 PM
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Uhhhh, I can’t comprehend a hot man not being meat headed, sorry. I would er on the side of them being a veiled idiot. If your face isn’t hot, and you just have abs, I’d think it’s a nerd game developer who works out. But I dislike most men, so don’t take my personal opinion to heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:06 PM
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Keep pushing, brother 👍🏻 It will free you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:04 PM
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Can we live also live in Whiterun? If so, I’m locking in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:02 PM
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I’m only child. I could never. I need cleanliness EVERYWHERE. I will, and have done this before, pick up the mess just to put it in the culprits room if I find they’re a repeat offender.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:00 PM
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Going gym 4x a week won’t prevent a calorie surplus. Makes it harder to be in a calorie surplus, but won’t stop it just because
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:58 PM
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Why the parentheses. That’s lounge wear/pajamas, which you wear when watching a movie. Is this supposed to be sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:54 PM
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I received the positive affirmation as an only child that the other commenters didn’t. I have struggles pertaining to compromise, sharing space, and in a way, high demands since I was spoiled. One thing I was utterly unprepared for was how bad man shits smell and how long y’all use the restroom. Previously to moving in with my boyfriend, I hadn’t shared a bathroom since I was 13, and before that it was just with my mother. Growing up with a very clean dad who didn’t leave messes behind and expec…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:52 PM
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Hoarding behaviors. Unless you are deeply impoverished and need to make use of literally every object that crosses your path out of sheer necessity, stop holding onto junk. I prefer a declutterred, organized, pristine home. Disorganization and clutter in the home, leads to disorganization and clutter in the mind in my experience. I’m not entirely minimalist, but as soon as it’s too much to organize, I know it went overboard. Also, dear hoarders, quit justifying the sunken cost fallacy by saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:38 PM
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Is this your way of asking me if I’m high inhibition? If so, yes I am. I was raised in the countryside but not on a farm. Regardless, there’s whores there as well so that wouldn’t really have answered much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:22 PM
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Oh, you mean like low inhibition women who date assholes intentionally due to either mental illness or “the rush”? Are they also the type to enjoy partying, doing drugs, and excessive drinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:17 PM
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Are you projecting by chance? Because no, that goes against how women bond by sex. Maybe women with high n counts and low inhibition who never viewed sex as a way to intimately bond in the first place would continue to fuck a man who made them feel so unsure in their relationships. But for women who aren’t loose handed with how they give out pussy, they would not continue to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:08 PM
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I see you have an appreciation for the color-pointed cats. Great taste 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:04 PM
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They’re cute, but I wouldn’t be able to deal with such a high maintenance routine, nor the butthole vacuum seals since I have a glass dining table.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:01 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:00 PM
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I have a giant 50” pink body pillow that I sleep with every night. I have not thought about what I will do when I need to travel by plane.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:54 PM
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What would such a test accomplish? I don't get it. Why can't people just be honest. Your flair checks out. On a serious note, my boyfriend is also autistic and I can only imagine the string of miscommunications that would lead to such a situation. OP, do you feel that anything she does is ever explained in a manner so that you feel confident in your understanding of what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:52 PM
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It would only piss off materialistic minded women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:49 PM
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If I had limitless money, I’d simply buy a beautiful expensive bag for every outfit so I don’t need pockets and pop enough painkillers to not feel my feet. And it’s typically to garner respect from other women. Heels + dress is all it takes to receive attention to men. You don’t need any styling whatsoever. The bag, makeup, nails, jewelry, and styling of said dress? That’s for other women. You men have no appreciation for it so how would that be for you. The more “fashionable” the outfit becomes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:45 PM
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I don’t care about it. Whether it’s there or not, unless it’s huge and prominent, then I find it gross to watch move.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:38 PM
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I’m 21 as well, I get your sentiment. If my current relationship were to not work out, I’d give up as well. Maybe not forever, but definitely for a couple years. To be quite honest with you, building a life together with someone at our age is exhausting. Both of us navigating entering the work force, moving away from our homes, starting to think about where to settle down- it’s quite stressful. Add the cherry on top- neither of us are the same person as when we met 3 years ago. Our personalities…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:36 PM
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I’ve fallen into this happening sometimes in my relationship. It’s not because it’s a complete transaction with nothing more than chores being traded as a currency. But rather that him not pulling his weight for no good reason besides “I don’t want to”, means he doesn’t respect me enough to keep it equal or doesn’t respect my time enough to have it done in a timely manner, which then means I have to get it done. Makes you feel like a maid. It creates resentment and feelings of disrespect and lac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:30 PM
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I think you didn’t watch the video. It was targeted towards women in DB relationships, and she discussed the most common reason why. These are people who are on their last leg of their relationship, with obvious foundational problems, if they’re attending couples therapy with that lady. Y’all need to think about it from that context. Tell me, if your husband made you feel unloved, insecure, or unstable in your marriage, would you fuck him? I wouldn’t. It’s not as simple as “just be hot”, these a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:22 PM
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Siamese or Ragdoll, or better yet, a mix like my cutie girl. Ultimate chatty silly lap cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:13 PM
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he looks like the cat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:12 PM
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Also I somehow completely missed that you were implying it’s women’s fault for bringing the mental warfare upon themselves. I am going to cope and say it’s because I’m tired 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:38 AM
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I think you definitely brought some things forward for me to consider regarding individualism in the time of highest levels of peace and how that affects my little theory thing. In the morning I may or may not continue the discussion, but it just turned 3:30am and my brain lost all its juice at once. Have a good night stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:35 AM
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You know what, you might be right about that. It’s also racist men or ex nazis funnily enough who think this way. They get mad at the white women who do date outside their race and so they end up doing the same OR (and this is my own personal theory I have nothing to support it lol) they were so horny from poc women they turn extremely racist because they’re ashamed of how much they’re affected or become nazi (like incels hating women bc they’re mad how much influence they have) for a short peri…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:01 AM
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Hmmm, I believe in the idea that women are the pillars supporting communities, and your description of your sister further fuels that idea. If it’s not women who are sensitive to the groups’ needs, who will be? And avoiding being honked at sounds like avoiding rocking the boat, which again, sounds like a method to try and retain group peace. It may be freeing to a women if she were to lose her shackles and suddenly stop caring about and interweaving herself into the opinions and lives of others,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:55 AM
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This would be an interesting take if it weren’t for the fact that the actresses found most desirable by men are white or white passing. It’s women pushing for wokeness and diversity that allowed for beautiful women of different races to become so successful in Hollywood. If it was driven on desirability according to men, there would be almost no non-white female actors as white women have been, and still are, largely viewed as markers of status. Again, huge difference between what chronically on…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:43 AM
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Absolutely, but I do give us some kudos for being upfront about it. Although, it would be smarter for us to not do that and pretend to be more pleasant and ego stroking, similarly to how eastern european women from shithole countries act. I can understand why they are so successful in what they do, and I can’t even be mad about it because if I was in the men’s shoes, I’d be flattered into passivity as well! They just really know how to phrase things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:34 AM
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Wish I could read the fucking thing but no way am I subbing to them. Very relevant since I am removing my IUD next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:15 AM
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Yeah that’s a key difference. Women typically want to be feel validated in their emotions, and not bounce solutions off each other like men do. Not necessarily because we don’t want or haven’t found one, but because that’s just not what we’re looking for in the moment. It’s useful for us since women, to this day, are still treated as insane and crazy in even the littlest situations, even from other women. Imagine being surrounded by women 24/7 and playing the mind games every hour of every day, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:13 AM
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You have bad taste
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:00 AM
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Ab photos impression: thoughtless meathead lift weight, make muscles, want fuck bitch Game development post impression: smart man with high ambitions posts about his specialized interest, establishing that he is capable of finding meaning in more than “want fuck bitch”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:59 AM
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People say this online, but irl this has not happened. White men may screw around with and find poc women fun to fuck, but at the end of the day, we’re still the ones they, as well as men of basically every other race, desire to marry and introduce to their families. Although as a white woman, I find us to be overhyped, our treatment irl has not changed in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:52 AM
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I’m upset about passport bros, but not because I’m missing out on them, but rather because they’re disillusioned. At least American women are upfront about our expectations and valuing men as wallets, and those that don’t are okay working while married. 3rd country women who are dating passport bros? The same could not be said. Go chase your “love” buddy. Just know that it’s only because she can sniff the green in his foreign pockets. She’ll sweet talk him just like gold diggers in America, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:44 AM
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Idk speak for yourself. Some men like bitches and this is a well known phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:34 AM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:33 AM
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Lmaoooo, those don’t go up to the pressure of a true espresso machine. Those are essentially just a slightly faster drip coffee machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:30 AM
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Keurigs are hard to clean + don’t produce good results, then espresso machines are expensive and difficult to master with how finicky they are. I have one myself, and I don’t judge a single person for not making their lattes at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:27 AM
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The environment is not genetics, and plays a large role in socialization and conditioning. I’m still right, desire and willpower to lose weight is not genetics. I don’t know what point you’re trying to make by mentioning your life or your boyfriend’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:58 PM
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If there’s no budget, I’d say somewhere in Scandinavia. July/August is also a good time to visit to avoid the cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:35 PM
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I’m from south Texas, she has the phenotype of every other half-white Latina i’ve met before so that might explain why I don’t think she’s anything special. As for her face being attractive, I have a different ideal of beauty, so no not really. She’s not ugly, she has a cuteish face, but not enough to where I would ever rate above a 6. Maybe if she was smaller like when she did cheer, and her features showed a bit more than they currently do. But as of now, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:31 PM
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Where are you finding that men exhibit higher suicidal intent? The link you posted above didn’t say as such. It says it in the abstract, but the collection methods don’t have any quiz or survey to try and figure it out (although that method wouldn’t work either), but rather they’re just collecting data over deaths, suicides, and how they happened from the government. That’s why I said it’s just a speculation because in that link specifically…they don’t explain it or provide any proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:28 PM
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What’s your budget? That limits a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:24 PM
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Yes, Japan and South Korea are generally unsafe for alone women. There is essentially a femicide going on in those countries, especially South Korea. It’s basically every week that some cruel murder worthy of a crime junkie episode is on the news in their major cities. I would never travel to those countries alone. Anyone who looks past the smoke and mirrors of anime and kpop, and actually looks at the culture and the news, knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:23 PM
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Who’s treating it like a flex? I see two teenagers who happen to be pregnant acting like teenagers on social media just being silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:20 PM
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I’m a rather emo looking woman, sans piercings who was the token emo/pale cheerleader during highschool as well. I find her to be incredibly mid, maybe a 6 at best. It’s purely her style and aesthetics that is making you rank her so high. Again, this is (or was since I want a corporate job so I dropped the aesthetic recently) my own people. There is actually nothing special about her face or body, just her style.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:17 PM
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Idk, some people read very slowly and might reread some paragraphs 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:10 PM
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you’d be surprised how many anime fans haven’t heard of Yu Yu Hakusho….despite watching both versions of HxH
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:08 PM
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How not? It’s a cultural thing as well. How many men vs women own guns for fun? How many have razor blades (specifically razor blades because basically no one is using a paring knife to cut themselves) around as tools? How is intentionally taking what you believe to be a lethal amount of a substance because you are trying to kill yourself, or drinking bleach, or preparing to throw yourself off a ledge or building not suicidal to the same degree? What are you even talking about? Seriously, think …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:01 PM
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The desire or willpower involved in losing weight is not genetic. That has everything to do with socialization and conditioning. You think someone who wants to lose weight would still feel that way in a society where fat bodies are the standard of beauty? Because that’s what you’re implying by saying desire to lose weight is genetic. As for the willpower, that is just discipline. That is not genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:38 PM
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That’s not what was said. They’re just speculating that because they are more successful. It’s supposed to be an adjacent explanation to the “men are more violent” one. Their data collection have no way of collecting whether or not they actually had higher intent or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:35 PM
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I don’t think most women understand the nuances of dating from the male’s experience. And because that can’t step out of their female perspective, they don’t really understand anything and just give incredibly general advice without even understanding the how or why of things. It’s not that women are trying to sabotage your dating journey (cause some men think this), but rather they genuinely think it’s good advice in their opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:25 PM
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who’s NPR. seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:23 PM
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oh this is a quote from another post isn’t it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:22 PM
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this is insane. like you said, not the length of time considering the goon fiends who exist, but rather your description of it at the end. what the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:21 PM
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ask before hand. if he says 50/50 or go dutch, just don’t even go see him if you actually care about that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:20 PM
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eyes change color. no body is being hurt by the concept of someone believing their eyes shift from green to hazel or whatever. but i would be harmed if a woman shared nasty bacteria from her dog’s mouth into mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:19 PM
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How do you know what overeating is if you don’t know how much you should be eating in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:15 PM
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However common it is for a woman to not have primary guardianship over her kids while also having a job, and a primary guardian who takes her to court. They follow an equation in determining the support, it’s not something just made up on the fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:42 PM
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You realize women who don’t have primary guardianship over their own kids pay child support as well, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:39 PM
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If you understand and like social media, go into marketing. Every large company and brand needs media managers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:28 AM
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The women who do such tests and hoops, the men are as they want them. It’s the women who don’t do the tests and hoops that have men they dislike. Don’t confuse the results between two different groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:26 AM
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Joking, I have auburn hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:25 AM
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dirty ginger lover
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:19 AM
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It costed you 5 months of savings, what’s the cost loss of getting pregnant by a man who turns out to be shitty?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:18 AM
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You took a gamble based on very little research. What benefit is gained by someone who doesn’t like gambling when deciding on the person who will potentially be the one to impregnate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:16 AM
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Hmmm by that wording, I would think even making just 60k a year would appease her. All she needs to do is literally just go to college and enter stem for that pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:12 AM
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Not liking the career paths you currently know about is the point of going to college. You’re 17. How many careers do you even know of at the moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:10 AM
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Well. Do you have a high bandwidth, and high speed WiFi, as well as very high performing PC with a high-end graphics card. Nice camera that actually looks at the very least, ok. What about a mic? Anyone can be a streamer i guess, but most streamers start with very good equipment, even if it’s not the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:08 AM
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no such thing. men’s preferences vary too largely on the matter. it’d be like asking what color the ideal woman’s hair should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:03 AM
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Okay, this is a difference in the sexes then. Women do not do this typically. The ones who do and pull the “don’t worry about him” thing, have never actually viewed him as a friend and are lying to their men so she can cheat with him as she pleases. If a woman says you’re a friend, and she’s not flirting or trying to romance you, she’s not into you. Again, if I was attracted to and actually desired a man, why the fuck would I tell him he’s a friend while also not trying to initiate courting? Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:28 PM
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Is this a joke? Since when do people make friends based off their relationship potential? Is this further extrapolation of what men actually do? I’ve had male friends in the past before I realized the dogs they are, and we were never compatible in a relationship sense. Compatible men I would’ve had crushes on, and therefore NOT BEEN FRIENDS WITH. I will continue to stone wall men in any social context irl, I can’t stand this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:36 PM
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Most of my female friends are not aware that men will also view them as a woman first, and a friend second. Because most women will view a male friend as a friend first, and a man second. They can’t comprehend that they will never be removed from their sexuality in a man’s eyes. Call it ignorance or naivety, they just aren’t aware. And honestly, I wish I could go back to the days before I was made aware of this. It’s ruined male companionship for me, fueled misandrist thinking, and overall has j…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:51 PM
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I already agreed that nothing will save ugly. It separates you from the men of the same looks rating. Yes, these people are a dime a dozen but the vast majority of them get laid. Surprise, surprise. The largest group in the population is having most of the sex that goes on. It’s almost like they have far more people, which means of course that’s gonna up the reporting of the sex. They have more people! A rate of 1 in 10, in a group of 100,000 will have 10,000 incidents while a group of 1000 will…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:59 AM
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I would say you probably fall in line with black pill sympathizers if you really were as ugly as you say. That would’ve led you to definitely feel the weight of pretty privilege, and the importance of looks in day to day life. That’s where I think you fall into all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:49 AM
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I find that strange. I mean, go in any female dominated online space, and it’s an echo chamber of criticizing men for their (to us) childish and vapid interests like cars, sports, and Fortnite. And this isn’t a chronically online femcel level take, the normies on TikTok are saying it too. I’m not trying to invalidate your experience. I do know that if I still lived in my small hometown, men do get overlooked for not being interested in those things cause it’s the meta of the small town hive mind…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:02 AM
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Those weird interests that women like in men I mentioned earlier? It’s basically a flag that says “I’m not typical guy, I have personality that isn’t centered around balls, both sports and my own!” It’s like when a woman has an intellectual interest and it signifies to men that she isn’t entirely consumed by vanity and thoughts about the latest TikTok trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:38 AM
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Honestly ime, engineer success is like 50/50. Now computer science on the other hand…I will admit those men are struggling. But any other engineer, their success rates seem to be typical. If you’re butt ugly, you’re right, most things won’t save you. Thankfully, I don’t think most men are actually butt ugly, and it’s typically a combination of grooming, confidence, pessimism, neuroticism, and fear of rejection/being cancelled that’s holding them back the most. When you present yourself pleasantl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:34 AM
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Do you have much dating experience with women? And I mean at least 3 months to where you would have the opportunity to hear such things?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:22 AM
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I didn’t say I like these things. I said I like men who do. I don’t know jack about economics, tech, and history, but opposites attract in my case and I think men who like these things balance me out very well since I’m an idiot. My point is, a lot of women have this thing where they have attraction towards something that is typically seen as abnormal. It’s different for every woman, and it may not be the only thing they like, but it gives men a chance to really capitalize on that. I know women …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:20 AM
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If you’re her niche, yes. Conventionally attractive men, think the models all the blackpillers gush over being perfect, do absolutely nothing for me. However I turn my head quite frequently when I’m around the engineering building because they’re my type If you’re outdoorsy, and everyone’s outdoorsy, yeah you’re not gonna be set apart in any manner and it will be a struggle to attract positive female attention. But that’s where niches, which aren’t as general as just looking outdoorsy, come into…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:31 PM
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Nerdy is not a niche. Comics? Computer science? Anime? Mathematics? History? Chemistry? Economics? For example: my niche that I’m primarily attracted to is pale men with dark hair preferably black, dark eyes preferably black, wear mainly black, listen to rock music, and are nerdy in any of the accepted categories: technology (think speakers, headphones, subwoofers), computers, AI, economics, chemistry, and mathematics. “Nerdy” doesn’t cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:19 PM
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I would say find your niche, and lean into aesthetically. Blackpillers tend to try and become the most generic person they could be. It’s like they min max a fps, without trying to see if there’s a specific playing style that would reap better rewards when you consider the effort/fun/loot ratio. But the fps is their attraction rating, and the playing style is aesthetic niches. Unless you are into the most basic of women, aiming for basic aesthetics will reap no reward. Most women have a niche of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:11 PM
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what would you like to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:47 PM
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Even if they had these discussions at the beginning, a mid 20s person would’ve started a 5 year long relationship around the age of 20. I wouldn’t say a 20 year old is guaranteed to want the same things in life 5 years later. Around my age, people are changing drastically each year as we gain more life experience. What I wanted in life at 19 is far different than what I currently want at 21, and I would bet good money that there would be something changed about what I want at 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:51 PM
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This is just expressions of love. I don’t think people are more likely to want to follow gender stereotypes just because they’re in love. I think they’re going to want to express their love in whatever gender expression they fit, because they’re in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:43 PM
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Why would TRT help your weight loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:41 PM
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annas archive and z library?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:40 PM
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They may want different things. They’re at the age where discussions about where they want to settle down, what lifestyle they want to live, kids or not, etc start to make themselves important. I would imagine an amicable breakup where they both love each other would be due to these differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:39 PM
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Looking like a criminal and actually being a criminal are two very different things. I actually don’t judge based on presentation in the status category since I do have a preference for alternative looking men so I guess to some- men who look like punks I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:36 PM
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If they were to participate in white collar crime, it would definitely not be in anything with my name on it as I’m the type to want to see it. It would have to be in their own career. Regarding business owners, there’s a large difference between breaking a law and finding loopholes. And if it’s breaking the law, I would hope I’m not dating someone stupid enough to have it concern anything having to do with the IRS. do your family members in law enforcement ever get a case dismissed because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:33 PM
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That doesn’t sound too bad of an idea for the future!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:33 PM
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People online always think I’m about a decade older than I actually am due to tone and writing style, and I’ve been told I looked like a grandma based on a couple outfits which always included cardigans and a vintage purse. It’s just making fun of that ^
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:15 PM
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I would argue there’s also a psychological component as well, since most psychologists take the stance of “soft determinism” which is essentially, just that it’s a mixture of free will and determinism. Think how health outcomes are shaped by both genetics (represents determinism in the metaphor) and day to day habits (represents free will).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:00 AM
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By chance do you always feel hot no matter what? Sounds like you’re heat intolerant or dehydrated if it’s been 2 hours. How high was the UV rating of your sunscreen?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:01 AM
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honestly the hardest ones to hit with this is IQ of 110 and and being sympathetic to Putin
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:58 AM
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that just sounds like you’re experiencing the heat from the UV, I know the sensation you mean. that’s normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:56 AM
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I love everybody ahhhhhhhhhhh fatphobia pilled hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:57 AM
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it was a real horse, not a drawing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:49 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:46 AM
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my mini, XX chromosome, turned inside out, ovaries for balls- peanits
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:10 AM
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so is my peanits
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:07 AM
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Meh, their breath stinks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:03 AM
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love the specification that the red pilled attitude is towards women, it made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:03 AM
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Regarding literature, it’s pretty unclear. It’s well documented that PCOS women are more likely to view themselves as androgynous vs non-PCOS. However, when an incredibly large amount of FtM are PCOS, and it’s documented that PCOS pushes women to not identify with the traditional gender scheme they are born into, it creates enough suspicion that it should be looked more heavily into, which I can only assume is actively happening given the popularity and controversy of the topic. The voids betwee…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:58 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/hac3pcdgz7pc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6bcfc7eee49b53063a27c9fc5e5e4fd6df112cd8 Captured it for you in case you wouldn’t catch it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:38 AM
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I read the entire study, coming back to let you know that in the section where gender identity is discussed, they make sure to mention that in none of the studies cited, was gender incongruence was measured, therefore they found it unclear I would never cite this article as a source that PCOS doesn’t cause gender dysphoria as 1.) it wasn’t even measured, and 2.) the abstract leads to the belief that it was, when it was not. Please start reading past the abstract. Except from the conclusion: The …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:36 AM
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This is incredibly ignorant of you to believe if you are a supposed health professional. As someone who is helping people transition, I would expect you to competently understand the effect hormones have on gender dysphoria, as well as feelings and thinking processes in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:17 AM
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You would see that there is a higher population of trans men with PCOS That’s the point Hormone regulation towards their biological sex should first be the treatment, and maintained as it may take months to feel the mental effects of the hormonal regulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:12 AM
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Gender dysphoria is actually incredibly common in women with PCOS due to hormonal imbalances and in some, the masculinizing symptoms such as hirsutism and male pattern hair loss. PCOS is an umbrella diagnosis, and I would bet a lot of money that these females would actually meet medical criteria for the diagnosis. And who’s “we” when you refer to treating trans patients?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:57 AM
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High T levels in biological women is often a symptom of PCOS or a hormonal medical issue. The medical treatment should be regulating their hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:51 AM
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Honestly I wouldn’t know anything about that besides for various reasons, some men like low n.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:10 AM
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Correct, they don’t. But I think you are aware of the existence of some men who value pair bonding and women with low n count. Not agreeing whether or not they should, but that they exist and increasing her body count, removes them from her pool of possible suitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:02 AM
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My teenage years was very pleasant due to this strategy. But again, I was a teen who put themselves to sleep by 10, woke up by 5, hated social events, and was only not home for school related extra-curricular activities. I do think if I was more social, and was going more places, maybe there would’ve been a need to watch me more closely but not necessarily nag. Cause I also had no rules regarding curfews, staying at people’s houses, and having my highschool sweetheart stay the night and be alone…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:00 AM
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Yeah birth control hasn’t actually been determined to cause weight gain. The weight gain that women experience on birth control closely tracks with the weight gain experienced due to the normal aging of women who don’t take birth control. TLDR: It’s not birth control, you’re just getting old
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:52 AM
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Working on it! 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:50 AM
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How old are you that you’re taking the SAT?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:47 AM
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Out of curiosity, if the trigger to such thoughts is so low, how many times do you think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:45 AM
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Yeah it just creates a tourism dependent economy like Turkey has been creeping towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:44 AM
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Because in most people’s minds, it’s not shameful to be poor, but it’s shameful to be a male virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:38 AM
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I think with your level of empathy, there isn’t a moral way to casually date since you understand that increasing her body count could prevent her from finding other suitors should you two not work out. It’s very rare and positively surprising to see a man with such level of empathy, but unfortunately it is hindering you in the dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:32 AM
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My parents stopped around 3rd-4th grade. From then they never even asked about my grades, and I forged my signature on many report cards. They’d ask in passing, “Is school going okay?” I’d reply yes and our day would keep going. My parents’ ideology was that if I have shown no reason for them to helicopter over an aspect of my life, they simply wouldn’t since I’m handling it. In highschool I did start struggling during freshman year, and my mom was on me about it because I gave her a reason to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:29 AM
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I am absolutely evaluating on an equation of looks, money, status (I am defining this as status of criminal vs upstanding citizen), and an extra variable I’d like to add- personality. Lots of one category can make me overlook less in other categories. Only exception is the status, since I do find it very important to me personally that my partner be a non-criminal or not participate in illegal activities (including recreational drugs and driving under the influence), since I am from a family of …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:22 AM
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I misinterpreted then. When I say people moved out of their parents house for college, I don’t assume it’s into a fraternity or sorority home since statistically, most students don’t live in those. So you’re telling me that parents who are reporting for the children that live with them, is going to account for adult children who do not live with them and therefore is not in their household which the census is specifically asking about people living in it? Do you not see the gap there?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:43 PM
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Instead of fixing your health and life holistically with life changes, just take this expensive shot which likely isn’t covered by your insurance if you have it! Totally not only treating the symptom and not the root cause!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:38 PM
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Scientifically false
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:37 PM
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Hmm, I wouldn’t trust these stats too much. Their source for the chart is the census, and young people are known for not taking part in the census, so there wouldn’t be accurate representation of their demographic and how they live. New York sounds pretty unique in that aspect. I’m from one of the 10 largest cities, but in the South, and I know very few 20 year olds who live with their parents. Either in their own apartment, or has a roommate. And when OP was talking about 20 year olds who “have…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:34 PM
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I wouldn’t say most do, but we might run in different scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:25 PM
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Can you explain that in depth a little bit more? There’s a couple explanations coming to mind but I don’t know which one you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:23 PM
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Lots of 20 year olds move out of their parents homes into a shared living space. Or in my particular situation, I moved into a 1 bed 1 bath apartment when I moved for college and took my car with me. My current boyfriend also started living in his own 1 bed 1 bath at the age of 20, coming from a shared apartment that he moved to when he was 18. It’s actually far more common for 20 year olds to have cars and not live with their parents than you are making it out to be. Do you not live in America …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:20 PM
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It’s a joke. I’ve been told I have older woman vibes, and people tend to think I’m far older than 21 based on my writing style and tone. Also I love cardigans and I’ve been told it doesn’t help the overall granny vibes I give off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:42 PM
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Naw I’m just being realistic. I’m very overweight and struggle with styling myself while being this large. I’m cute when I’m not fat so my facial features aren’t shrouded and I’m able to dress myself in a more flattering manner. I’ve lost 20 lbs this year so it’s a work in progress, but as of right now in this moment, I am not very desirable or attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:19 PM
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I’m not a very desirable or attractive woman, but even I’m not concerned about it. There will always be men who cannot gaslight themselves into believing that AI sex bots, automated kitchens, and artificial incubators are equal to their counterparts. Some will always wish to feel the natural, non-coded woman’s love and her touch, especially the men who are familiar with how AI actually works. As well as someone who cooks with the intention of pleasing or as a display of love. As well as the expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:01 PM
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It seems the US is also starting to move towards have more and more anti-kid establishments…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:54 PM
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Thank you for responding! I always find it interesting when men are attracted to something that isn’t the standard idea of beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:48 PM
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I type too fast for my own brain at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:46 PM
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Whether or not it’s an effective strategy is a different conversation entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:45 PM
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I would assume either monotonous voice, very serious words being used, rbf, or just autism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:54 AM
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Do you think a workout buddy would actually make you put in more effort and be more consistent? Or is it a boredom/loneliness thing in the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:29 AM
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There is something so endearing about how men will try to subtly catch a woman’s attention at times. And don’t take that in a derogatory manner, more me just romanticizing adult crushes in everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:19 AM
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tell us about them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:56 AM
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This is a joke, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:52 AM
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Women feeling sexual attraction from a man’s face alone is rare, yes. However I think you’re skipping over some key aspects that drive women crazy, that don’t have to do with the face. Hands- the most popular preference is big and veiny. Forearms- veiny. Women also really like muscular thighs and buttocks. Not among every woman, but good amount are still sexually turned on by: big feet, hairy legs, hairy arms, hair chest, very defined sculpted shoulders, and well built back. It may seem like we …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:50 AM
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Yeah some of the women in there have lost their damn minds. One of them called the theoretical guy a cheapskate for paying for nanny’s and maids, being a SAHD, and passively making 150k but sending wife to work if she wants to go on expensive trips on top of the already luxury nanny and maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:44 AM
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i think it was implied that i came off as weird, creepy, or autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:23 AM
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Makes sense considering the man who told me that is a software dev. Seems there might be a correlation between men who need community more to not be lonely and men who have very little dating options. I hadn’t considered that before, even though it would make a lot of sense, because I tend to hang around men down on their luck with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:18 AM
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and for shits and giggles here’s my favorite video of her https://youtube.com/shorts/i_OswyERXkA?si=DFntCSu0jCRjfncf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:15 AM
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Hey, put some respect on Shera’s name, she’s married happily with kids 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:04 AM
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Don’t use rogaine/minoxidil if you have cats! A single drop licked from the scalp or counter/floor will kill a cat in 36 hours!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:02 AM
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one time in a discord server someone said i typed the way my pfp looked. the roast hit me so deeply that i left the server immediately. this is the pfp… https://preview.redd.it/g864ct1052pc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=584da3191a663c3394609ef579343ccf06b47a7b
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:59 AM
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And don’t use minoxidil or minoxidil combos if you have cats! Licking just a drop off the scalp or counter/floor will kill a cat in 36 hours!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:52 AM
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I just get tired
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:47 AM
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The interference is why i avoided it until last year. I still get antsy about it so i just make sure I’m well fed as I drink and basically inhale water. I don’t really feel anything when drinking 2-3 drinks over 4-6 hours because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:46 AM
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I drink maybe 4 times a year at most, and the most I’ve drank in one day is 3 legal drinks over 5 hours. Before that it had only been 2 in similar time frames
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:44 AM
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why do you think you are attracted to women like this? was there a noticeable event that made this happen or person in your life who had that body shape and made an impression?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:41 AM
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I can talk with my mouth closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:36 AM
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I intend on having children one day and witnessing these generations that are turning into adults currently combined with the overall attitude towards child rearing, fostering community, and even just kids being in public is looking quite scary to me. It seems we’ve made a terrible jump back in time where people treat children with the attitude, “kids should be seen, and not heard” again. Parents are shamed for bringing children anywhere. Pair that with the normalization of iPad babies, remote l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:19 AM
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It is sad to see such displays of apathy in some of these replies. I think you did a great job at explaining that there is far more than just “do something about it”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:14 AM
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Unfortunately that’s the nature of interpersonal, or on an even larger scale, societal issues. You can control yourself and your actions, but you cannot control how others perceive, think, feel, and respond. Zoom out even larger to a society, and you’re correct, it will seem futile for an individual to attempt to make a change. However, my advice as a public health student who deals with issues in similar contexts such as feeling an incredible sense of dread when approaching environmental and so…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:09 AM
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I’ll end this here and go out on a limb and accept your explanation that you truly weren’t trying to offend in any capacity. However that is not how your tone and verbiage use comes off. If above is actually the case, I suggest reading up on how to utilize a kinder and more conducive tone when discussing sensitive topics such as this. Calling someone pathetic will do you no good if your intention was to encourage self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:01 AM
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This person has had issues dating for years and nothing seems to change according to them. Who are you referring to here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:57 AM
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I was replying to your most immediate reply to me, not your original post. Those questions I answered on my own reply thread. Yet again with the bad comprehension. How is- referring to lonely men as “these men” in a derogatory manner, constantly misconstruing anything they say regardless of the message, and implying that the problem is due to their own shortcomings and not acknowledging a potential societal issue despite it being brought to your attention- not offensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:51 AM
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Congratulations, your issues have clear cut solutions which can be easily figured out and executed. Some people have more nuanced issues that aren’t as easily solved, and therefore yelling at someone to take action on a problem that doesn’t have such a clear cut, easy to find solution such as yours, isn’t very helpful. I’m glad you take pride in your problems being easy to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:43 AM
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Everyone is a victim in one way or another. No one lives a life free of flaws and cons. Your inability to grasp this concept is concerning. Would you like me to invalidate your mental issues because there’s people on the verge of dying from medical issues in the world? Because that’s what you’re doing to these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:35 AM
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Oh look a woman with terrible reading comprehension skills, intent on not understanding or empathizing with men in any capacity, even as she bends backwards to make a fool of herself and indirectly attack every social group who fought using violence to change their surroundings in the process. He never said violence is the answer to get what they want, and you intentionally misconstrued it as such because of your preconceived intentions when writing this post. You’re doing it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:20 AM
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basically being stay at home dad…..paying for a nanny and maid….150k passive income….and the result you come up with is CHEAPSKATE??? This is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:16 AM
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Just a preface, you didn’t give me any personality information, only financial, so this reply will only be financial reasoning. I, personally, as someone who is incredibly concerned about worst case scenarios financially after a house fire where everything was lost in my teens, would absolutely be open to dating someone like this. Here’s why: Someone who is receiving a passive income of 150k, on a fixed lifestyle, has the freedom and opportunity to basically get hit on the chin with almost any f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:08 AM
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This did not make the point you wanted it to. You basically just called any group that is struggling with an issue and resorted to violence to change their current situation pathetic. Do you understand how widely those implications are applied? And on top of that, you completely ignored his point about not doing it do as to not disrupt women’s current lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:45 AM
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Areas that were originally safe spaces to build community and friendship amongst men have become overtaken by women. There are essentially no male only spaces anymore due to it being seen as socially unacceptable. As a woman you might not know this, but a someone has told me that when a woman enters the room, any meaningful conversation ends. <— I find that to be incredibly true, and is why they need their own spaces, yet this is incredibly difficult since the current hive mentality is that male…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:37 AM
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women below average have 10 guys sending dick pics in their DMs sees no dick in my DMS What does that mean about me 😭 Its so joever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:25 AM
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I have nothing more to add besides that I’m glad you have set solid boundaries that will serve you well in the future :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:14 AM
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im probably going to start the process back to blonde within the next month or so
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:33 AM
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it basically is. ever tried phentermine?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:30 AM
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21F ISTJ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:29 AM
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wat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:28 AM
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a doctor who applied for their license in the US after graduating medical school and received it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:21 AM
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I’ve done some promiscuous things online with strangers when I was a teen, and unfortunately, when you are someone who is low self esteem and confidence, receiving just a little validation and desire that was thrown your way can feel like a drug. You want to keep it coming and you want to feel it stronger, and you can lose yourself in the rush. Yes, I may have received the initial validation when a flirty PM was sent my way, but a low self esteem and insecure woman with little self control will …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:12 AM
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I think the key problem here is that the compromising wasn’t reciprocated therefore you were left feeling like you were trying too hard. I’m sorry you went through that, it must’ve been difficult dating someone who wouldn’t bend on what they wanted or take your wants into consideration. But that feeling emphasizes the need for compromise, but from BOTH parties, and not just one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:01 AM
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The post was targeting men who think if they don’t get the “perfect” girl in every aspect, it’s settling and not worth it. There’s a big difference between giving up on ever dating Megan Fox and dating the bottom of the barrel disabled-fat-ugly 2 they found at the dumpster. However some people treat it like it’s the same thing. And I say people, because both sexes do it, I would even say women do it more these days or are at least the ones who do are more open about it. Back to the point, just t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:56 AM
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I have an opinion of what they should do instead, which kind of builds on your take. Instead of hunkering down into the niche they’re currently in, I think they should take note of the niche of women they are attracted to, and I mean, really get specific with it. Once you know, try to figure out the type of men those girls like. Boom, now you know your end goal. If you like normie women, with no specific niche regarding habits/dressing style/interests/personality traits, idk how to help you man,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:35 AM
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that opinion goes both ways. women view men as one entity due to cognitive dissonance of gender differences, and men view women as one entity due to cognitive dissonance of gender differences. ^ when I say this, put it into a context where we would be discussing something like average dating habits. we wouldn’t be discussing zoomed in, individual cases would we? we would be discussing the general habits of each sex, which requires generalization and therefor unification of sex into one entity ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:30 AM
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mutual attraction is very important and since you specified that, im just going to go out on a limb and assume you are not the type of guy this post was targeting. your admittance of being able to compromise lets that be known.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:17 AM
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compromise and settling are synonyms. your opinion on settling tells me everything i need to know about your dating habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:15 AM
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may I ask the reasoning behind not shaving body hair? fetish or some sort of natural living thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:13 AM
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hoeflation or whatever it’s called. with marriage being of no value anymore, there’s no 1-1 pairings and no reason for a woman to be better since there’s always plenty who will take her as she is since they also are suffering from the declining marriage rates and non-existing 1-1 pairings
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:10 AM
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not every woman wants children or even a husband #factsoverfeelings
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:28 AM
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oh if the standards for high value are that high, yeah I’m choosing #4
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:44 AM
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if that’s how you view raising a kid, then i digress. agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:08 AM
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I don’t think I would want half of everything, I would just want enough to maintain my children’s lifestyle as my career makes far less than his does and I wouldn’t be able to cover all the bills on my own. As long as I get to keep the house (assuming I have the kids) and we come to an agreement that he’ll pick up my slack financially whether that be child support, alimony, or directly paying for extracurriculars, etc. If the youngest isn’t in at least high school yet, I would try my damndest to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:07 AM
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even working parents themselves admit they wish they had the opportunity to spend more time with their children. Yes they’re still a parent, but not a very present one typically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:59 AM
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Personally, I am not planning it fully, but my boyfriend has brought it up and I’m fine with the idea. Why? 1.) I would never do so without a pre-nup to our marriage (thus before we have kids because i believe in abortion) saying that half of everything is his is mine should we get divorced, including his retirement since I wouldn’t have the years of working to plan my own 2.) he makes enough money and is financially literate enough to do number one, 3.) I am not someone who can both work and ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:32 AM
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a man shouldn’t have to wait until a woman is past her physical prime. she’s lesser value, but so is he so it’s equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:37 AM
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To have that type of love, you need to have intimacy, passion, and commitment. Reason why it’s so rare is because most relationships lack one or more of those qualities. Wife doesn’t put out or husband struggles to show affection, there goes intimacy. Either one of them stops, or simply doesn’t, work on themselves or their surroundings to be the best they can be for the other; welp there goes passion. And in a relationship without intimacy or passion, how can you expect someone to realistically …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:18 PM
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Example: I had an ex who struggled with “delayed ejaculation” (you’ll see why it’s in quotations momentarily) but this only started 2 years into our relationship which was 1 whole year of having sex already. He went from being able to go 2-3 rounds in a day to once a week if I powered through the pain of an hour or two of sex, and sometimes even then he couldn’t orgasm. The reason? Mf started watching porn all day and couldn’t keep his hand out of his pants once we both went off to college. Now …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:11 PM
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My viewpoint as a woman is that he’d be better off with the 30 year old woman. Why? Quite a few reasons actually, and the first two are completely non-sexual. 1. Like someone else said above, younger women who date older men usually are interested in the fact that they have lived more life than them. Whether that means well traveled, well studied, or just lots of general life experience. Those types of women (ahem, me) like to hear the stories their man tells them and like to receive help from h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:53 PM
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The only women I’ve ever met who regretted having kids are the ones who never stopped to ask themselves the important questions like will he be able to take care of the kids if they’re sick, will he ever pick up slack that I drop, will he change diapers, will he take care of the kid while i rest, can he make dinner if i’m having to work late, would he make dinner in that case, can he handle tantrums from a toddler, will he have the patience to take care of a baby, and finally, if i have a son/da…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:20 AM
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eh, i basically just described a narcissist which is what most men tend to turn into if they’re mentally unwell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:11 AM
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he sets off my mentally unstable radar. he doesn’t just look like the “bad boy type”, he looks like he’d have a fun relationship at first, then become emotionally distant, gaslight and manipulate the chick, ruin her self esteem, but then threaten to kill himself if she ever left. i don’t think any mentally stable woman would swipe right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:04 AM
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by most people’s standards we’re both average, but by our own standard’s we’re both 8s because we’re each other’s type. despite this i only matched with him because he favorited me and i was bored. his profile was vague, boring, and because he’s attractive i made the assumption he was stupid (he proved me wrong however).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:58 AM
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I think the description of “shabby house with good bones” is a metaphor about looks, not overall value. If you’re above average attractiveness, yea don’t let somebody gaslight you, but I think the assumption is that most of the men on this subreddit are not above average attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:22 AM
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