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Hahaha I got one from a dude who wanted to know what I bring to the table and raged that all FDS women only like men who do things for them. I blocked him, but like, what does he think men like women for if not for the things they do for them? And why does he care about my relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 01:06 AM
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Literally just makes my life easier. Will drop by with flowers, or my favourite takeaways, or a scone and a coffee if I'm working from home. Will do those annoying jobs around my place that I never get around to but would make my life a bit easier - fixing curtains that need a few extra hooks, straightening the curtain rail, etc. Once my drier was broken so he organised a man come over during a weekend I was away to fix it, so that I wasn't inconvenienced. He does things that make my life better…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 04:44 AM
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Mine works in the same field as I do and has more experience, so I find him a really helpful sounding board for many parts of my work life. I also process externally so whether I'm with him or a female friend doesn't make a big difference to the way I operate. But if I'm uncertain about something I would routinely run it by multiple people - not because advice is bad, but because I sometimes need time to come to terms with an idea and embrace it (or not embrace it). That might involve talking th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 03:06 AM
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I'm passionate about my work, my success, my family and friends and the activities I do with them (I don't really care what they are, just having fun with people I love), my fitness, what I consume (like, healthy cooking and meal prep, reading about nutrition and vitamins and stuff), and reading about stuff. Those things are my priorities. I think men who say they want "passion" mean they want passion about things that are mostly outside of the ordinary daily grind. They want to be saved from or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:05 AM
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That would work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:16 AM
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I think your partner will probably know your preferences pretty well, right? Like if you'd rather he propose with a placeholder and you go shopping together, great, he should probably know that. If you just want a big old shiny rock he should know that too. I am also super particular about jewellery (lots of things actually) and I would not want a proposal spoiled by a ring I was only somewhat happy with. And I would probably rather not have picked it in advance as that would make it feel like t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:58 AM
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My partner and I have separate places and expect that to remain the case long term. When I've done small home renos I've lived with him and he's been fantastic (doing my washing, cooking, driving me to work in the morning), which is lovely, and makes me want to continue our relationship, but doesn't change either of our views on cohabitation. If anything were to happen it would be so much easier to go our own ways - no tangled finances, no property to divide, just grabbing our things from each o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 11:27 PM
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It was because he was up on other charges that would've been prejudiced if it was known that he was a murderer too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 01:14 AM
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It's probably worth remembering you can have both if that sort of thing works for you. One day I'll get married, presumably to my partner now if he continues being a great support to me, but we aren't cohabiting, don't share finances, and aren't having kids together. Marriage to me is about the vows. But the vows don't say I have to live with a man or anything else I don't want to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 11:33 PM
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Good for you. If you want to be, then with a person who also facilitates you feeling safe and loved, I am sure you will be able to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:46 AM
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The point, I think, is to learn to grow to the point where you can do that, but in a kind and respectful way that demonstrates you still care for your partner and are considering their feelings in the situation as well as your own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 03:53 AM
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I noticed men would, on a first date, regularly make little comments about my future earning potential and so on. It was an instant sign that wasn't going anywhere. Personally I ended up with an older man, in my field, who has been very successful, and who was previously a good friend of mine. He isn't threatened by me, and has no need to be - he's done his thing, and now gets to be proud of my accomplishments and there to cheerlead me through them. He's had the hardest working and most stressfu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 01:55 AM
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"holy shit I think I'm going to vomit/have diarrhea" could work to get you out of the sexual situation as a last resort. Then it's just a case of convincingly being like I've cleaned up I'm so sorry, I think I should deal with the next round of whatever bug I've caught at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 10:39 PM
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No foreplay, no play. You may need to tell him what you like, but until he's getting you off enthusiastically and well, nothing further. If he can't or won't figure that out, no dice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 04:42 AM
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The pedestal is real. You don't want to be on it - it's just building women up to be non-human embodiments of a male fantasy. No person can ever live up to that shit, but boy will we pay when we don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:44 AM
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He's based on a real football player, I think, so is that way for a reason..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:55 PM
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I'm in an age gap relationship (early thirties), which I initiated. We don't live together, and don't plan to. He has children, who are out of high school, and I don't want any of my own. I have my own place, and he has his. He's done well for himself and only works part time now, so has plenty of time to make my life easier, which he does. He's spent a lot of time looking after me when I've been sick and recovering from surgery, and is very generous. In terms of physical health, he has been a c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 10:17 PM
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Thanks very much, that's a lot more informative. I appreciate that the article clarifies that it is making a claim, which it links to certain data, and highlights some of the shortcomings of its claim, i.e.: "While nothing definitive can be deduced from the police records without further studies..." ; and Using anecdotal reports from particular time frames. I'm skeptical skill, about aspects of that. It says there has been no change in how rape and sexual assault are handled, but I would argue a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:44 AM
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Kiwi here. Firstly, I'd like some actually hard data rather than a meme before making any comments, ideally. Second, correlation =/= causation. Let's not get swept up in a meme. However assuming this is true, it would also coincide with decreasing productivity, wage stagnation, massive increases in housing costs, and all sorts of economic issues that, very sadly, lead to women and children suffering. NZ has terrible domestic violence problems and that is not new at all, but I would be far more l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:40 AM
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I don't have any interest in wondering about whether a dude is truly into me or not - it should be totally unquestionable. If you have good self esteem, and you're not feeling validated by your partner, that's a problem with them. If the issue is your self esteem, though, work on that yourself first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:49 PM
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Not talking about their sex life in a locker room?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:21 AM
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Your cell provider will have them. Get them, go to the police :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:21 AM
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I agree with you. I've had many very enjoyable hookups and early stage dating relationships with men I wanted to enjoy (including fucking) whilst perhaps seeing if there was anything else there, or otherwise just enjoying until its natural end. I look back on how I felt about that when I was 20 and the behaviours I had and I don't like them, because I was looking for validation as the motivation. Irrespective of positive, consensual experiences, I don't think like that any longer. However, as my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:27 AM
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No, fortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:39 AM
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Learned helplesness. My boss is technologically incompetent. Super bright guy just has decided his life is easier asking women around him to do shit for him rather than learning insanely basic skills himself. It's fine, because he's had an office set up to maximise output from a less than efficient way of working for anyone but him. But when we all work differently, he tries to offload some of that onto us sometimes, and I just refuse now. "Hey can you do x?" "Oh, could you just ask [name of his…
/r/askFDS15/06/20 11:58 PM
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When people do anything nice for you (in your case turning up, taking the risks associated with that, taking the time, in his case paying) you should always thank them. That's being an adult with manners. Any HV person should do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:28 PM
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Well, in some countries you can do a better job than others. Many countries have decent protections for stay at home parents where the couple agreed to that division of labour and one person is later disadvantaged as a result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:25 AM
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I mean, if he thinks you're his girlfriend because you agreed to be, using dating apps is cheating. FDS says lots of things but it does not tell you to throw your integrity to the wind or some shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:14 AM
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I don't think I am better than you. There's probably no point commenting on my own objective quality of humanity though as I'm undoubtedly biased. Suffice to say I don't think I'm terrible. I still don't really see what you're gunning for here. I'm sorry for your situation, but I don't think any good is done by pretending it's much better or easier than it is. If you wanted mollycoddling, you should have specified at an earlier time. I have a degree of disdain for most people who fail to act in …
/r/seduction29/08/16 06:13 AM
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People do what they can. Well, regardless, I think my point is obviously that I want someone like me. I'm not going to pity-date someone who isn't what I want, just because they're different. I assume that by lastly, you mean my comments about your bitterness. If you'd like to explain the comments I quoted any further I'd be interested to hear your thoughts (ie how you perceive you aren't bitter or entitled), but at this point it looks bitter and entitled to me. I read something recently which r…
/r/seduction29/08/16 06:01 AM
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I didn't say at any point that the 'only value of a man (or woman)' is his job or who he knows. I just said that generally speaking, a person lacking those basic things is probably going to have a harder time generating attraction than someone who isn't. If I were speaking in absolutes, which I'm not, I wouldn't accept your point. And I actually do agree with you; there are (some) women out there who love a unique butterfly and who do not prioritise social norms or men who fit into them. The fac…
/r/seduction29/08/16 05:45 AM
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Uh, no, not at all. I'm not really into the evo psych crap personally. Why?
/r/seduction29/08/16 04:26 AM
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Well, yes, I would agree. I still don't really see what you're getting at; see my previous comment.
/r/seduction29/08/16 04:04 AM
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I don't know how you're reading all that into what I said. The previous comment I made was about attraction, not specifying whether long or short term, and I didn't even put it in absolutes. You will very probably have more of a struggle to be attractive to the opposite sex than people with other difficulties might. That's all. You're the one who's started making absolute statements and bringing 'just one night' and getting laid into it. I'm happy to discuss that further if you'd like, but at th…
/r/seduction28/08/16 05:35 AM
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I consider those things like minimum 'adult', not in any way amazing. I am not autistic, and don't know a great deal about the condition but I would consider debilitating autism to be rather out of the ordinary. An unfortunate lot in life, I guess. I don't really have much else to say other than my comments probably don't apply to the minority of men who are autistic to the point where holding down a job, making and maintaining a basic utilitarian social network, and having interests are impossi…
/r/seduction28/08/16 03:41 AM
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If you are thirty and don't have at very least a stable income, a decent social network (that fulfils your needs), and something you are passionate about or that makes you interesting, you are very probably going to be unattractive to the opposite sex.
/r/seduction27/08/16 11:18 AM
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Costs are awarded in civil suits. In criminal ones it's the state vs. the individual and the state does not pay costs when it fucks up or can't prove its case. The "victim" or accuser isn't a party to a criminal charge per se.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 10:02 AM
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Problem is, after college in the US, it is almost impossible to get hot girls Wrong. even if you meet some they practically have a much higher SMV now since there are higher quality men going after them. So.. your problem is that you can't compete in the better market? Improve yourself until you can.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 09:34 AM
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Surely it would only be so if the woman wanted/needed access to those men for relationship purposes. If she didn't want kids, or wasn't particularly interested in a relationship for any reason, there wouldn't really be in any shame in being denied access to something she never wanted to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:00 AM
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You've never met a woman who can be trusted in a romantic or sexual context? Dude, at some point you've got to consider that you're the problem here.
/r/seduction04/09/13 11:22 AM
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