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guyincognito2999/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 01:18 AM
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Thanks
/r/TheRedPill22/03/24 07:19 PM
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I like the end of your first paragraph. I will try to make the world at least a teeny bit better for having me in it. As for the last paragraph, no I'm not happy about it and I'm not going to afford them that opportunity with me (any more.). I still believe my sense of right and wrong is noble and just, and part of that belief system is to not try to manipulate, lie to, or "game" women for sex.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/24 07:00 PM
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It all sounds good except #4 no offense
/r/TheRedPill15/03/24 12:19 AM
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I'm trying. Always trying.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/24 07:50 PM
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I know I know. I should do it for myself. And that's something I need to work on. But I don't think it's worth it to do that plus learn how to "hold frame" just for it to all be shattered the minute the frame breaks.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/24 07:25 PM
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I absolutely understand what you are saying. Trust me, I do. What I'm saying is that I feel I shouldn't have had to provide my ex with micro fantasies and always be positive for her to want to stick to her commitment. I now realize that I wasn't living in reality, and THAT is the whole point of this post. What I want from a relationship with a woman is very much blue pill and The realization that it's all a lie is the reason why I'm not sure I want to press on.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/24 11:57 AM
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And that's awesome man. I hope you find it. I struggle with the existentialism of it all. Can't I be myself and have it be enough? And the answer appears to be no. I have to be "the best version" of myself which in theory sounds great. Who wouldn't want to be the best they can be? But at the same time I also just want to be accepted for me. At 47 I'm not going to turn into a gym rat. I'm just not. And I fully understand and accept the consequences of that choice. I just wish it were different. T…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/24 11:49 AM
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This is something I struggle with as well. I certainly don't think all women are bad. I just know that how I've been treated in my middle aged life by women lines up almost exactly to RP and hundreds of other mens experiences that I'm reading about.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/24 11:42 AM
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I'm not RP at all. I'm just taking it all in and I don't like what I see. I don't want options nor do I want Oneitis. I would like to have sex and companionship but I've been dating for 30 years already. It's enough.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 09:21 PM
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I have a high libido, Test over 800.I still do not see the point in dating anymore.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 09:19 PM
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No doubt it has benefits but it's not going to make me want to be with multiple women at the same time. It's not who I am.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 08:14 PM
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To clarify, my mental illness did not affect my ability to do my job, just that I was not happy with my job and it took its toll on me mentally and I gained a lot of weight. I still was there for her, took her on trips, managed her health issues, was not controlling, jealous, or argumentative. We had disagreements but never "fought". I can count on one hand the number of times either of us raised our voice at the other. I don't drink, do drugs, never been to jail, etc. And it still wasn't good e…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 07:52 PM
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Thank you I will check it out
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 03:05 PM
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May I ask what you now want out of life
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 02:22 PM
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Yeah but I don't know that it's worth the headache. That's the whole point of my question
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 01:31 PM
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I feel the same but I have no interest in dealing with multiple women at once. That's the problem.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 01:30 PM
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I was in a job where I got yelled at every day and it took its toll on me and she was constantly pushing me to better myself and I said "what if this is the best it gets". And at that moment I saw the look. In a few months she left a note and walked out with no warning (I should have seen it coming in hindsight)
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 03:05 AM
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Looks wise and dealing with women a 2 or 3 out of 10 Everything else (job, intelligence, humor, compassion, independence, etc} a 7-7.5
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 03:02 AM
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In my rational head that sounds like manipulation, and it goes against what I feel my morals are. I hate knowing what a shit test is and I hate being shit tested. And I don't like that as a man I only have worth based on what I can provide others.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 02:50 AM
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Thank you. This was a well thought out response and I appreciate it. I'm not perfect in other areas but I do feel like I deal in reality everywhere outside of the opposite sex. And that's where the struggle comes in. I don't like this reality and I can't go back to the other one. So is the third option to just be me and stop looking for a partner?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 02:48 AM
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So what is acceptance? MGTOW or Game?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 02:43 AM
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0, high, very high But that's another topic, even though I am positive you will say it's not. I get what you are going to say. I just do not feel that lifting weights is going to make me suddenly want to start spinning plates. I have no interest in that.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 02:40 AM
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I get that but I'm struggling with the underlying existentialism of it all. If AWALT why do I want a LTR in the first place and B: do I want to string multiple women along to find one?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 02:03 AM
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Thank you for the recommendation. I will check it out. I don't want to spin plates. No judgement It's just not who I am.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 01:50 AM
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That's what I mean. I can pinpoint the day my ex wife lost respect for me and it was only a matter of time until she left. And it crushed me.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 01:48 AM
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I just feel like I'm lying to these women who want the man of their dreams, just Knowing what I know now. I don't know if I can trust them.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 01:43 AM
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That sounds great but doesn't that fly in the face of AWALT?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 01:41 AM
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I would say the PUA part of TRP for several years, but I think I joined this sub maybe a year or two ago. But the honest realization actually came within the past year reading comments on Instagram reels from dozens and dozens of men about how disposable they felt, and how when they opened up to their partner about their feelings or were too vulnerable their partner immediately changed and eventually left them. And on every single one of those posts there were women telling those men that their …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 01:36 AM
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