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I had a similar experience with a covert NPD girl. I would say the first symptom to recognize them is how they brag and "complain" about being the center of attention and how "every guy get mad in love about them"
/r/TheRedPill29/05/20 12:10 AM
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This is something i've discovered. When I started dressing down(stopped wearing button ups, nice pants etc), wearing just workout clothes(granted i lift, we all lift) shit that just felt comfortable to ME I got more ioi's. I've seen that good clothes can work well if you wear these for yourself and you don't care about other people's opinion about them. Girls notice it when you dress to impress, and it feels needy to them. So even dressing down is better than "dressing up" if you just dress up f…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 04:16 PM
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Solid advice here. The "love of your life" myth during pre-adult life is total bullshit. No relationships really last here. If it lasts, it just gets people mad about losing their "cock carousel" years and lead to cheating after I guess
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 04:14 PM
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When I mean "ruined" I don't mean it in a bad way. Like working out "ruin your muscles" and they build bigger and stronger some days after
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 04:12 PM
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And no, writing down sets and reps and waking up stronger next morning would be comparable bullshit, genius. Yeah, you're right mate, I'm going to listen to your expert advice. I'm happy to have your amazing knowledge on board. You're 100% qualified about giving your advice about this, and everyone here knows about your 100% expert knowledge. Thanks! :-)
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 01:14 PM
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Sure! Limiting beliefs books on amazon are amazing to understand how your actual life's results are 100% linked to your unconscious brain. "Reinventing your life" was also an amazing book. Also, try to do the personality disorders tests online. There are millions of people having personality disorders and you CAN'T know about it if you didn't do any test beforehand. So try doing some tests, and if you have one, read books on amazon about how to fix it. This skyrockets your life
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 01:12 PM
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i don't understand number 3. When i write my honest opinion about if it is 100 percent true, am i supposed to just talk about my general thoughts about it? For example, "am i 100% sure i cannot be loved?'" do i just write down my thoughts or am i supposed to argue the fact that i can/cannot be loved? Yes write your general thoughts about it and argue about the facts you can AND cannot be loved, and write your own conclusion about it
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 01:10 PM
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Totally true. My psychologist told me "in your unconscious mind, where you are actually in your life is your unconscious goal". If you are fucking all your relationships, then your hidden unconscious goal is to fuck your relationships
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 10:09 PM
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Lmao, so you are basically telling people "it's bullshit it takes hard work". Damn dude, so you think lifting weights would be bullshit to build muscles because "it takes hard work and years"? Your comment is nonsense, don't speak about something you know nothing about. I didn't make up this exercise from my ass. I read several books about it from highly recognized authors, and my 15+ work years psychologist told me this was the best way. So preach your shit somewhere else.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 10:08 PM
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You should prove the point you want to prove and be 100% honest with yourself. Just write what feels realistic for you after filling both columns. If you still feel the belief is a bit right, write that you think it's a bit right. And along to it, you can also write that it's a bit wrong or totally wrong. Just be honest
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 10:06 PM
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I don't know if it's just me, but I dont have clear thoughts about what negative beliefs I have. Maybe because I am operating this way all my life, and it's my thoughts/beliefs are normal for me. I don't recognize anything wrong. Hey mate! To recognize negative beliefs, you have to watch for negative/detrimental behaviors you are repeating during your life. If you are repeating a negative behavior/thought pattern while being aware it's bad for you, there is always a negative belief behind it. Ex…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 10:04 PM
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Yes, I took it from the book and from my psychologist. Also, I read a lot books about self-sabotage, psychology and limiting beliefs
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 10:02 PM
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When you say "hone your skill" which specific skill are you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 09:23 PM
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It's kind of like the classic tell when a woman is with you and says "I would never have sex on the first date" or "don't think this means I'm gonna have sex with you". It reveals that having sex with you did enter her mind. I see what you mean! Actually I told her the jealousy joke after she told me her behavior wasn't meaning anything. I told it in an indifferent way. I was indifferent to her meltdown, so did I pass the test? Also, when you say "strong personality types" do you mean personalit…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 07:21 PM
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Sure you're right, but being BPD + co-dependency actual get you even more chemically addicted when you see those red flags coming. I'm fixing it but it's a pure nightmare
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 07:19 PM
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Thanks a lot for this advice, actually I had all co-dependence symptoms linked to BPD. Doing my best right now to be happy alone and stop co-dependency behavior. Reading the sidebar and "The Rational Male" helped me a lot to break this shitty one-it-is mindset I had for my whole life until now
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 07:18 PM
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If men and society in general were more strict towards girl who act in a repulsive way they'd think twice before playing these games. Instead they bow to them because they want to get laid and encourage this vicious cycle. Bottomline: fuck "NPD" girls if you want, but the instant they act like OP described punish them by withdrawing your attention and possibly hardnexting if all else fails. They're mentally children, don't let them dominate you. Gold advice
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 06:12 PM
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You didn't pass the shit test with her flirting, OP. The meltdown after was the shit test. How can flirting be a shit test? Also, what do you mean when you say the meltdown was also a shit test? I'm highly aware of shit tests but a shit test that long seems kind of crazy. Also, why would a girl flirt with you as a shit test? If you don't flirt back, nothing happens and there is no plate. Am I wrong?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 06:11 PM
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She's not afraid to lose you, she doesn't care at all. You can't win them all man, this is the easiest next in the history of nexting. I get nothing, I'm BPD in deep recovery, which means I get the deep physical and psychological attraction to people who push me to repeat abandonment experience (and emotional deprivation) I had in my childhood. These people are heroin for drug addicts. Hopefully I'm spinning plate and I got girls around me which are healthy atm
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 06:09 PM
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What happened? Could you describe how everything happened and how you spotted it?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 06:06 PM
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The crazy thing is that I never met a real NPD person. This girl seems to have a lot of signs of NPD (or covert NPD). And if you are a BPD, they are addictive as shit. Recreating your childhood trauma every time. Their control is almost automated: by doing nothing, BPDs get in love with them Yes, I'm BPD in deep recovery. I got trauma bonded with her and BPD made it even worse. Actually I'm recovering from the relationship but I'm still badly scarred. Hopefully, I kept spinning plates so it make…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 06:06 PM
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Excellent post. The difference between NPD and BPD is that BPDs have no emotional thermostat and can become extremely needy and insecure to extreme contempt. BPDs can suffer so much emotion that they disassociate from their bodies. Read it up. It happened to my ex. Scary as shit. Thanks a lot, that's exactly what I felt as the difference. I'm personally BPD in deep recovery and the thing is a pure nightmare. Got abused emotionally in my childhood. I'm feeling dissociated from my body most of the…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 06:05 PM
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How did you discover it? Was your experience similar to what I told you in the post? This girl got me literally crazy. I felt loved and non-existent at the same time, was it the same thing for you? I'm curious if you could describe the whole thing with details (of how it happened). Was she modest or more status-seeking?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 05:59 PM
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You know, it's not really that much different from regular NPD. They just don't act like they're God's gift to Earth 24/7. That's exactly what I felt, the only dangerous thing is that they are less easy to spot. The trauma-bonding gets you completely crazy. I developed a one-it-is for this girl just for this. I felt even more addicted to her than a heroin drug addict Sometimes she told me about her life problems but never asked for advice. I gave unsolicited advice but she responded well to it. …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 05:56 PM
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These people are highly insecure and seek to control everything around them. That's how they achieve security, a basic human need I'm personally diagnosed with BPD and Complex PTSD, and this sentence just enlightened a light bulb inside me. The main problem I had for my whole life was trying uncontrollable things around me. This causes crazy distress and fight-or-flight responses. This way of life is unbearable
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 05:52 PM
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Other than insecurities she had, the girl is just a red pilled guy in disguise and you were getting played Is a red-pilled girl a normal girl or a NPD girl? Because I never saw a girl acting that way for my whole life
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 05:48 PM
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The lifestyle part is completely true. I was obsessed with women because I had a shitty lifestyle. If you are obsessed with women, it's that your life isn't on point at all
/r/TheRedPill14/05/20 01:37 PM
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